EVOLVE MAGAZINE FOR MILLENNIALS
May 16 / 2016
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INTERESTING FACTS ABOUT JULIA OCAMPO Things only her closest friends know
Turning Twenty What will a new decade bring to the life of this millennial?
PLUS To Paris With Julia: A Young Mom's Tale
Editor's Note 21
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More than 26 years ago, I made a magazine as a gift for my girlfriend on her 20th birthday. I went to my girlfriend's house without her knowing it, interviewed her mother, borrowed some old pictures, asked several of our common friends to
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write, and commissioned a colleague to do the literally cut-and-paste layout. That was in a time when the only computer software I could use was Wordstar. Now fast forward to 2016. I have done it again, this time for the eldest daughter of my former girlfriend. Yes, she is our daughter Julia. And it is her who is turning 20 this time. Thanks to the Internet and I was able to do this easily. Thanks to my second daughter Clio for writing the cover story and coordinating with her the friends of her Ate Julia. Thanks to my son Dominic and third daughter Annika for their art works. Thanks to Lei Villena for writing some quick tips for Julia. And a big thank you to my former girlfriend, Cel Cadahing Ocampo, now my wife and the mother of our four children, for writing some very important pieces for this magazine. The magazine I made 26 years ago still exists, although reading it today makes my former girlfriend cringe at the shallow writing and "pa-cute style" of its 19year-old editor. Yet I feel happy that she still considers it the best gift she ever got. I hope Julia would also consider this labor of love, and I hope her offspring would find value in it. God willing, I intend to do a magazine like this for all my children on their 20th birthday.
JUNEP OCAMPO
EVOLVE This is not a publicly circulated magazine but a special issue meant to celebrate the birthday of Julia Colette Carmela C. Ocampo. EDITOR
Junep Ocampo WRITERS
Cel Cadahing Ocampo Clio Marie B.C. Ocampo Lei Villena Arzwendy dela Cruz Erica Altoveros Kathreen Paygane Camille Nicdao
ARTISTS
Dominic C. Ocampo Annika C. Ocampo
THE DAY JULIA CAME By Junep Ocampo
A baby in a hurry. That is how I would describe Julia. She wasn't supposed to come out till July, yet she came out on May 16. In fact, she wanted to go out of her mother's tummy even earlier. It was May 15, 1996. I was in the office of Monica Publishing Corporation, publisher of Abante and Abante Tonite. I was working as an editor of an English tabloid called Philippine Pulse. It was around 2 pm when the editorial assistant informed me of a telephone call. It was from Cel. "Puntahan mo na ako. Manganganak na ako," Cel said.
Julia's first portrait after being released from the hospital.
"Ha? Bakit? Anong nangyari?" I asked.
said, pointing to a computer chair by the
"Punta ka na muna dito. Para makita
corner where she worked, "Tapos
mo."
biglang naramdaman ko basa na yung
I put the phone down, went to my desk, and told my fellow editors that I
upuan ko." Cel's water bag -- or amniotic sac --
needed to leave because Cel was about
had burst, a sign that the baby was
to give birth. I did not use the elevator
ready to go out.
anymore. Instead, I rushed down three
I went out to get a taxi cab to bring us
flights of stairs of the BF Condominium
to the hospital. When the cab arrived, I
Building in Intramuros and briskly
loaded all of Cel's stuff in the
walked almost a kilometer to Cel's
compartment and immediately boarded
office at the Catholic Bishops
the taxi. When I got inside, I suddenly
Conference of the Philippines.
realized that Cel was not yet in the car.
There was a wave of emotions rushing
"Uy baka maiwan mo si Cel!" hollered
inside me, a mix of excitement and fear.
Josie Camposano, Cel's close friend, as
I have been waiting for this day for
she escorted my wife out of the office.
years. Now it has finally come.
Everybody laughed. They knew I was
At the CBCP, I found Cel sitting in the lobby being comforted by her office mates. She wasn't worried at all. "Nakaupo lang ako kanina dun," she Julia's first birthday card and a card her Dad gave to her Mom the day Julia was born. Far left is the card attached to her crib at St. Luke's Medical Center.
already in panic mode. We got to St. Luke's Medical Center in no time. Nurses at the
There was a wave of emotions rushing inside me, a mix of excitement and fear. I have been waiting for this day for years. Now it has finally come.
Emergency Room assisted Cel and
Your baby is
"
premature. We will have to keep her inside Cel's tummy until she is ready," Dr. Pascua said.
Since she was premature, Julia had to be left at the hospital for four days.
entertained."
contacted her OB-Gyne, Dr. Elsie Badillo
There was small television hanging
Pascua. Since Cel's water bag had already
from the ceiling and Cel said that if she
ruptured, she was brought to the Labor
would still be staying in the same room
Room and prepared for delivery.
that entire day, she could watch the
However, Dr. Pascua said it might be too risky to allow the baby to go out this early. "Your baby is premature. We will
Ginebra-Purefoods championship game scheduled that evening. Cel and I shared a passion for sports.
have to keep her inside Cel's tummy until
We both started our careers as
she is ready," Dr. Pascua said. "The level
sportswriters. And Cel truly loved
of amniotic fluid is not yet critical. I will
sports -- especially basketball. And her
give Cel medication to delay the labor."
favorite team was Ginebra.
Cel stayed at the Labor Room for the
That same morning, I was able to talk
night. I, on the other hand, stayed in the
to Dr. Pascua and I was told that the
hospital room. It was one of the longest
level of Cel's amniotic fluid had gone
nights of my life.
down considerably.
The following morning, I went to the
"Your baby might be in danger of
Labor Room to check on Cel. She was in
infection if we continue to keep her
high spirits and not worried at all. "I had a
there," she said. "We now have to
great sleep. The nurses took good care of
induce labor. I hope we can have a
me," she said. "And I had TV to keep me
normal delivery."
Dr. Pascua cautioned me to prepare for
I went to George's clinic. After
the worst scenario -- a C-section delivery.
exchanging pleasantries, he asked about
Without saying it, she meant that such a
Cel's condition. "Is there any way I can
delivery would be more expensive,
be of help?" he said.
something I needed to prepare for. I went back to our room. When I got there, one nurse told me that a doctor had come to visit. It was Dr. Jose Raul Canlas,
"Well, yes, Doc," I said sheepishly. "Baka raw kasi ma-Caesarian si Cel. We're not financially ready for it." George was quick to an1swer, "I have
whom I call George. He dropped by to see
a feeling magno-normal delivery yan.
me. George was a sports medicine
But in case ma-C-section, don't worry.
specialist who became close to me during
I'll help you."
the 1994 Asian Games in Hiroshima, Japan. He worked at St. Luke's. How did George know that I was in the
That assurance was enough to calm me. I went out of the hospital to buy a newspaper. I bought a Philippine Daily
hospital? A common friend of ours, Elmira
Inquirer. On the front page was this
Gorgonio, told him. Elmira is wife of Luis
photo of scaffolding that fell at the Coca
Gorgonio, an office mate of Cel's, and she
Cola plant in Sta. Rosa, Laguna, leaving
was the one who introduced us to Cel's
three people dead.
OB-Gyne.
George was quick to answer, "I have a feeling magnonormal delivery yan. But in case ma-C-section, don't worry. I'll help you."
Julia finally goes home from the hospital after four days. At left, her Mom takes her on her first taxi cab ride.
I went back to our room and read the
I moved closer to hear her. "Dad," she
paper. I fell asleep while reading and was
said in a soft voice. "Ano yun?" I asked.
awakened by a nurse. "Nanganak na po si
"Kaya ba ni Marlou si Patrimonio?" I
Ma'am," she said. I checked my clock. It was
chuckled. Apparently, Cel was still in a
almost 1 in the afternoon.
dream state and was dreaming of the
I rushed to the delivery room. There, I asked the nursed if Dr. Pascua had called
Ginebra-Purefoods game. "Kayangkaya," I assured her.
for me. And they said yes, she was looking
Julia was premature, so she was not
for me to show me my baby so I could take
brought into our room. Instead, it was
a picture. It was a baby girl, they said.
Cel who had to go to the nursery to feed
Then I popped the question that's been bugging me all along: "Caesarian ba?" "Normal po," was their answer. I heaved a sigh of relief. Several hours passed and Cel was finally
our baby. Cel was soon allowed to go home, but Julia had to stay for several days in the hospital. We visited her everyday. Cel had to put on a white gown to enter the
wheeled in into our room. She was half
nursery and feed her newborn girl. That
awake, her eyes barely open. When she
was how Julia's first days went by, until
saw me, she reached out for my hand and
she got the green light to go home with
wanted to whisper something.
us. She went home in a taxi cab.
Cel was soon allowed to go home, but Julia had to stay for several days in the hospital. We visited her everyday.
BY CEL CADAHING OCAMPO
M
y adventure with my dear Julia did not start when she was born. As my panganay, I shared with her a lot of things that were new to her Dad Junep and me -- our first try to use a pregnancy test, our first trip to the ObGyne, and all things first about pregnancy and motherhood. But with my Julia, there was even more. At five months in my tummy, Julia was my first travel buddy. And travel we did in far away France where I was sent to represent our office, CBCPNASSA or Caritas Philippines in Secours Catholique’s annual gathering of volunteers.
To Paris With Julia
When the nights were too cold and homesickness kicked in, or when I got too tired from traveling around France, I filled my head with the thoughts that I was not alone. Never alone. I had my Julia with me. What a joy, what a privilege to venture into new challenges with my firstborn not beside me, but IN me.
The author (center) while about to make a presentation in a school in France.
I had to stay in France for more than
When the nights were too cold and
with food coming from the kitchen
a month, from January to February,
homesickness kicked in, or when I
almost an hour apart. I told her how
just when winter was biting.
got too tired from traveling around
funny it was to watch those two
France to speak about the Basic
Indians get frustrated constantly
naturally, I was filled with a lot of
Ecclesial Communities of the
telling me how hungry they were
apprehensions. It got worse when I
Philippine Catholic Church, I filled
already.
felt a certain degree of
my head with the thoughts that I was
The first time we want out to shop,
discrimination when I arrived in
not alone. Never alone. I had my Julia
I bought a musical toy for my Julia. It
France. The discrimination came
with me. What a joy, what a privilege
was a rabbit whose music lulled
from all sides and for various
to venture into new challenges with
reasons -- I was Asian, I was a
my firstborn not beside me, but IN
Filipino, I was a woman, I was young
me.
It was my first trip to Europe and,
and, yes, I was even pregnant. I was the only woman and the
I survived the nights by caressing my growing bump, singing her
youngest in the group of 20 foreign
lullabies, talking to her about the
delegates from all corners of the
presentations I was about to make,
world. When I told them I was
the interviews I had with the local
married and pregnant at 25 years
media, the food, the wine, the cheese
old, not a few French gave me the
and the two wacky Indians who
look that said, “What happened to
became my constant companions. I
you? You are too young to get
shared with her my musings on why
pregnant!”
the French were so slow in eating,
When I told them I was married and pregnant at 25 years old, not a few French gave me the look that said, “What happened to you? You are too young to get pregnant!”
me to sleep. In the morning, I would
Then in a place called Lons-le-
a river the first time we had to leave
be ready again and would whisper to
Saunier, a group of Carmelite nuns
her in school. It happened when she
my Julia, “On to our mission, anak.”
also took care of me. Two of them
entered nursery, then again when
My pregnancy made my hosts
were Filipinos who were just too
she entered Grade 1, and
extra cautious. Two of them, Ingrid
excited to see me as I was to see
surprisingly again the first time she
and Claire, became very close to me.
them. They fed me with adobo and
had to stay in Manila for college. Was
They were like my foster mothers
rice. It was a wonderful time for Julia
it because of the longing we
who dotted on me whenever I had to
and me. And before I left the
experienced when we were in
make my presentations. They made
convent, the Carmelite sisters, just
France?
sure I rested in between talks or I
like the Poligny nuns, made me
was given the right food, or my jacket
promise to name my child Carmelo, if
through that experience, but I thank
was thick and fashionable enough.
he turns to be a boy, or Therese, if a
God He allowed me to have you with
We created a bond so meaningful
girl. As you know by now, we named
me all those time. It was you who
that they even visited me in Manila
her Carmela instead.
kept me company. It was you who
when I gave birth to Julia. Yes, Julia, you have French Lolas. In one of my assignments in France,
My one month stay in France
I’m sorry, Julia, if you had to go
gave me confidence. It was you who
definitely made an indelible mark on
provided me the right perspective
my life. Yet it makes me
about the future.
I went to a place called Poligny in the
wonder now if it also created an
region of Jura where I met a group of
impact on the life of the baby within
all, I hope it made you strong,
nuns whose job was to take care of
me whose life was ushered into
grateful, and positive, as it had made
the relics of St. Colette, the patron
something challenging even before
me. Thank you, Julia, for being my
saint of pregnant women. Those nuns
she was born. Is this the reason why
first travel buddy.
were so elated to learn that I was
Julia is fond of anything Indian? Is
pregnant and made me promise to
this the reason behind her love affair
name my child Colette if she turns
with food? As a young girl, she cried
out to be a girl.
If that trip had impacted your life at
The author's French hosts visit her in Manila after Julia's birth.
HOW THEY SEE JULIA
LOVE NA LOVE KO SI PIE! By Arzwendy dela Cruz Maliit pa lang kami ay magkaibigan na kami ni Pie. Halos
bagong bag.
sabay na nga kaming lumaki niyan. Hindi ko na matandaan
Yung bag niyang de-gulong ibinigay niya sa akin kaya sobra
kung ilan taon kami nung nagsimula yung friendship
akong natuwa.
namin. Basta ang alam ko, simula nang magkaisip na ako ay siya na yung lagi kong kasa-kasama. Kasama tumakbo sa kalsada nang nakapaa. Kahit napapagalitan, go pa rin sya.
Ganyan siya kabait at mapagbigay. Siya din yung taong relihiyosa. Akala ko nga magmamadre siya eh. One call away din yang si Pie. Isang chat ko lang sa kanya,
Kasama maglaro ng tagu-taguan mula alas nuwebe ng
reply agad. Kaya nga sobrang thankful ako na kaibigan ko
umaga hanggang alas nuwebe ng gabi. Kasama mag bike
siya.
hanggang sa dulo ng Palao, at marami pang iba. Si Pie kasi
Hindi lang pala thankful, blessed pa! Isa syang blessing
yung tipo ng tao na go lang nang go maging masaya ka lang.
para sa akin. Kasi kahit sobrang busy namin sa kanya-kanya
Naalala ko nga dati, gustung-gusto ko magkaron ng bag
naming buhay, di pa rin yan nakakalimot. Mapa-birthday ko,
na de-gulong pero hindi ako mabilhan kasi wala kaming pera. Sakto namang binilhan sya ng mommy niya ng
Christmas, New Year, etc. Kaya love na love ko yang si Pie!
DID YOU KNOW It was Julia herself who chose the nickname Pie. Her Mom lovingly called her ChikaPie and it was Julia who shortened it to Pie.
HOW THEY SEE JULIA
BEAUTIFUL By Kathreen Paygane Julia, as my dorm mate, sleeps with her eyes slightly opened. Matalino raw pag ganito matulog. Hehehe. And what I didn’t know before we became dorm mates is that she snores. Hahaha! Drake from the Nickelodeon series “Drake and Josh” was her first celebrity crush. Wait, this suddenly popped out: Mr. Right was her crush from TomWeb. :)) Inenglish ko ‘yung surname para hindi halata. Hahaha! I would describe Julia in one word -- beautiful. This word
when we could
totally describes what kind of individual she is because she
hardly breathe because of
is indeed one of the Almighty’s wonderfully made
Erica trying to get Spongebob from
masterpieces. She has a pure heart. She does everything
me while saying, “Pusa, Pusa” with a
with love and passion. She is a blessing to the people
high-pitched voice. This is one of the times when
around her especially to her family and friends. These
Julia, together with Erica and Aileen as her sidekicks,
things make her beautiful.
tried to get my phone to message someone with it. How
I have a lot of memorable experiences with Julia but the most unforgettable is the laughter-filled night in Avida
can I forget those genuine laughs and kalokohans with Pie? :D
BRILLIANT When in Makati... I realized I forgot my wallet. I was with
By Camille Nicdao
running on zero sleep! We all have our "sabaw" moments and
my thesis mates Clarence and Julia and we’re in España
I think it’s also why we get along. She can be serious one
already about to pay the FX when the realization that I
moment and super hyper the next. Brilliant! Julia told me this
have no money hit me hard. That was the day Julia became
was her favorite word and now, whenever I hear it, I
my mom, had all my expenses paid by her for a day. Of
remember her telling me how Sirius called Hermione the
course I will pay her back, but just not yet. Hahaha! Can
most brilliant witch of her time. Now that I think about it,
this be my payment, Julia? Kidding (but you know, hihi!) I
Julia is too! A brilliant young lady who might have her
will pay you with love and with kindness. *wink wink* I will
moments at times but still handles pressure with grace.
never forget that day! I was able to go to Makati with
Remember DM..... Hahaha! You are the best! That was your
nothing but loads of Cream-O’s and questionnaires in my
moment gurl! For being your seatmate and friend for the last
bag.
three years, I am so thankful to have you in my life. Stay as
If there’s something about Julia that only her friends know,
you are, change if you must but change for the better! Love
I think it will be how "sabaw" she is, especially when
you! HAPPY, HAPPY BIRTHDAY, JULIA!
HOW THEY SEE JULIA
A PUZZLE By Erica Altoveros I don’t know if she already told her parents this but she already knows how to cut classes by first year college, first semester. She pretended she was a first year student just to get a UST passport. She broke a chair, she did not tell Kathreen and Aileen, and watched them sit on that broken chair. She’s a kidnapper -- she always kidnaps my Spongebob stuffed toy back then. She is mysterious. She is one of the deepest people I know, figuratively. She is more than what the eyes could see and visualize. Every time we meet or talk, I always learn new things about her and that amazes me all the time. Throughout all the conversations, despite talking about anything and almost everything, she leaves something for me to ponder on. I know I’m still not done assembling my puzzle pieces of Pie, and I think I don’t want to. One of the most memorable experiences I had with her was during our first UAAP championship together. October 2013, it was a rainy morning, and the streets were flooded. We left the dorm by four o’clock in the morning to line up for tickets in SM MOA Arena. The LRT stations were still closed so we opted to ride a jeepney to Buendia. It was one of the rides of our lives that we thought we were in a Fast and Furious movie. We secured ourselves on our seats, splashes of raindrops and flood everywhere, and in a sudden, we saw how the driver got splashed with water too. lt looked like he was in need of another bath. The three of us, Kathreen, Julia, and I, looked at one another and we all have big smiles all over our faces! The driver still continued driving as if nothing happened and as if he was about to overtake everybody on the racetrack in his last lap.
ADVICE TO JULIA
It's all about balance Advertising line producer Lei Villena reflects on her career and shares her secrets to Julia
Luckily, I got a call from a TVC production house (Provill). After the interview, they already wanted me to start the next day. My present job has taught me a lot: patience, resilience, quick thinking, problem-solving. How did I prepare to get in this job? I don’t think I was even prepared. But the kind of attitude I have which I develop mainly because of how my parents raised me, is the key on how I was able to succeed in this kind of intimidating job. LEI'S ADVICE TO JULIA Most millennials I know are enthusiastic and confident. An advantage for any aspects in life. Combined with hard work, these can get them on top. Majority of today's generation, however, are impatient. They have to learn to understand that even in this already digital world, not everything is instant. As an Ate to Julia, my advice to her is this: Be idealistic and realistic. Be fun and be functional. Life is all about balance.
Lei Villena and her siblings with the baby Julia.
WHO IS LEI I am working as line producer for one of the most in-demand TV commercial directors. I am like his secretary substantiating his creative ideas to logistics and administrative aspects. I have been in the industry for 14 years now. Each day at work is a learning process, but fun. Stress is part of any job. But every time I remind myself how a lot are eager to be in my position, I shrug off all the negativities and go back to work with
so much passion. When I graduated in March 2001, I gave myself 2-month break before I started job hunting. Three months later, I already got bored waiting for the appropriate job I want. And when I say appropriate, it should be related to the course I took in college, which is AB Communication Arts. So I tried call center. I stayed for 6 months. But I never stopped applying for the job that I really like.
POETRY
ATE PIE By Cel Cadahing Ocamo Photography by Junep Ocampo You made my life as a mother easier Because you are such a good Ate. There’s only a year and a half that Separates you and Jing, yet you were Her caring Ate. You stayed close to her When I needed to do something else. You held her bottle so I could change her diaper. You shared her your toys and books And our affection. You had the patience to teach her Numbers and letters, when I almost gave up, Until we discovered that she’s dyslexic just like me. You created a path that your siblings treaded on. They took their studies seriously, because you did. They loved to read because you showed them how to. They are at times crazy, because, well, you are, too.
They often danced in the grocery store, in the car, In the streets, in the airport, in the garage, In school, in the mall, in the cinema, in the pool, Because you also did. But none of them dared to sing in public With a pail over their head (For a surround effect, you say). That was classic Ate Pie And only you could get away with such an act. You will always be Jing's, Noy's and Nika’s Ate. More than our Panganay, you are our partner In taking care of our family. You are third in command And your siblings know that. I hope you will see Not the burden of responsibility But the joy of being a leader in this family.
TURNING TWENTY
PULSE
A reflection on adulthood By Junep Ocampo
What is the true age of adulthood? Traditionally, it is 18. This is why girls have their debut at that age. Eighteen is also the age when one can already vote, or watch for-adults films, or even buy liquor or cigarettes. But in my opinion, the true age of adulthood is 20. My simple reason is this: Twenty is the age when you cease to be a teenager. It is when you, like most people, graduate from college. And, yes, it is the age when you are expected to finally have a job.
In short, the age 20 is the period in
At that age, I also made other
shooting sports and portraits in TriX
your existence when you begin to
major decisions in my life -- I went
black-and-white film and developing
take charge of your life. And isn't
back to the Catholic Church, I
the pictures in the dark room by
that what adulthood is all about?
courted the love of my life, I quit
myself.
My case was a bit odd. I became a
college, and I pursued a career in
semi-adult way before I became a
journalism like there was no
teenager. OK, don't be confused. Let
tomorrow.
me explain. I got lost in Luneta during a family outing when I was 4, and I managed to go home by myself.
It was a life-changing period in my life, a period of many firsts. It was the year 1990 when I turned
From then on, I thought I could do
20. And during those days, I already
anything.
did the following:
At 10 I was already washing cars and earning some good money.
• I stopped asking my parents for baon. At that time, it meant P30 a
At 13, I even changed my religion.
day. I was already earning more than
But maybe I am one you would
P2,000 a month from writing.
consider "weird," the odd man out,
• I stopped going to school.
the non-conformist.
• I already knew why the word deadline has the word "dead" in it. • I have already experienced spending the entire night drinking with friends already aware of how inconvenient it was to wake up with a hangover the next morning. • I was already responsible enough to make my own mistakes and learn from them. For you, Julia, and everyone who would be turning 20 this year or has turned 20 recently, I have seven
Instead, I started paying for my older
things to share with you. Think of
And I plead guilty.
sister's college education. She took
these seven things not as seven
I began formally working at 17, had
up and finished BS Nursing.
deadly sins but as seven things to
my first out-of-the-country work
• I dabbled in photography. I
hate or to like, as Miley Cyrus said in
assignment at 19, and a managerial
bought my first SLR camera and
her song. They are the seven things
position at 20. Yes, at 20.
lenses at 19 and at 20, I was already
that come with turning 20.
A Dad at 25: The author with the young Julia.
1. Freedom When you turn 20, you're going to be free. I'm not saying that you are not free right now. But as you finish college, you will discover that you actually have more time in your hands. And that is freedom. 2. Power Once you begin to earn your own money, then you acquire power. I am very confident that you will put that power to good use. 3. Possibilities Turning 20 means a lot of possibilities. It is like opening not just a new chapter but an entirely new book in your life. Dream of these possibilities. Visualize them. Believe in them. And finally, act on them. As Robin Williams once said, carpe diem! Seize the day!
and failure are two sides of the same coin and you cannot experience one
7. Journey to Self-Discovery And finally, turning 20 is the start
without experiencing the other in
of your journey towards self-
some form or another. Just
discovery. You will know yourself
of choices. Imagine yourself entering
remember: Only those who are not
better as you begin to work, as you
a buffet restaurant, with a hundred,
afraid to fail would succeed. So if you
start to broaden your horizon, as you
even a thousand choices before you.
want to succeed, you must fail often.
go and explore the world on your
4. Choices Yet turning 20 also means a myriad
That is what turning 20 means. It can be fun and intimidating at the same time. My advice for you: Don't
own. 6. Responsibility Turning 20 means more responsi-
Let me close this short essay with a quote from Taylor Swift. In her song
always choose the familiar. Choose
bilities. I know this is no longer an
"22" she said, "We're happy, free,
also the ones that you don't know.
issue with you as you are already
confused, and lonely at the same
One wise man said that we often
laden with so many responsibilities in
time. It's miserable and magical. Oh,
meet our destiny on the road we
school and in your extra-curricular
yeah." Indeed, when you enter this
chose to avoid it.
involvements. Just remember that
new decade in your life, you will be
your foremost responsibility is to
happy, free, confused and lonely -- all
God, then to your country, then to
at the same time. But Taylor Swift is
your family, and finally to yourself.
right, it will be miserable yet it will be
yourself up for success and for
Never forget yourself. Take care of
magical. Happy 20th birthday, Julia!
failure. I say "and" because success
your health.
5. Success/Failure As you turn 20, you are setting
20
Things You Don't Know About Julia By Clio C. Ocampo If you’re planning on living with my Ate Pie, here are some things you must know: 1. SHE CAN BE MESSY. No matter how many times I fix her things, she ends up pilling everything her way. But, she almost always knows where her things are. She would usually find a way to navigate though her mess. 2. SHE BUYS A LOT OF THINGS. She likes to buy things that eventually end up finding their home with the pile. Her whiteboard in our dorm has a pile of papers. I guess she just so many things going on her mind all at the same time. 3. SHE BUYS ME STUFF. My Ate Pie loves surprises. One morning, I woke up with a magazine with my favorite athlete on my table. 4. SHE LENDS ME HER CLOTHES. She is generous with her clothes and that's great for me.
5. SHE LEAVES THE DORM WITHOUT FIXING HER BED. But she usually fixes it when she
15. SHE PLAYS BASKETBALL. We all got to learn swimming during summer. But one summer, Ate Pie
comes back.
enrolled herself to a basketball class. I
6. SHE LOSES KEYS.
think she was the only girl in that class.
My Ate Pie has lost about five keys this
16. SHE LOVE GAME OF THRONES.
school year. She is now using our dorm’s
She has watched all the episodes of
spare key which she has borrowed as a
Game of Thrones. And she adores Jon
temporary replacement for the last one
Snow.
she lost.
17. SHE SLEEPS LATE.
7. SHE IS SUPER FRIENDLY. Despite her lost keys, other tenants in
She prefers to work at night. But, Ate is always considerate of my need
the dorm have become her friends
for sleep. She lets me turn the light off
already.
even when she still has to work.
8. SHE LIKES TO SELL STUFF.
18. SHE TALKS A LOT.
In our dorm, she puts food products in
She is a great company. She keeps
the ref with a sign "For Sale". Anyone
me awake during our late-night
who wants to buy can just get one and
academic adventures in Mcdo.
leave the money there.
19. SHE IS DEVOTED.
9. SHE GIVES ME DISCOUNTS. As her sister, she gives me a one-peso discount on her merchandise. 10. SHE EATS BREAD FOR BREAKFAST And not just any bread. Pan de regla is
My Ate Pie is the most devoted and caring person I've known. 20. SHE IS UNDER-APPRECIATED. Ate Pie has always been there to watch over me, guide me, and take
her daily breakfast.
care of me. I would like to send my
11. SHE ALWAYS THINKS OF ME.
apologies to her for the times I cannot,
Knowing that I usually do not eat breakfast before classes, she leaves a piece or two of bread for me.
at the very least, appreciate everything she has done for me. But this time, on her 20th birthday, I
12. SHE DREAMS OF OWNING A
would like to send my sincerest
DUCATI.
gratitude for all the love she has given
She just learned how to drive a car. But her dream ride is not a car but one of
me. I love you, Ate! One year from now, you’ll have to
those red Ducatis.
leave me by myself in the dorm. I hope
13. SHE IS AFRAID OF HEIGHTS.
I don’t forget to eat. But, I also hope
She hates cliff diving. And yes, she is
that you would go to where your heart
afraid of frogs and cockroaches, too.
truly is. In that place, I pray that you
14. HER ORIGINAL DREAM WAS TO
would give the same intensity of love
BE AN ARTISTA.
that you gave us your siblings.
She loves to sing and she sings well. And once upon a time, she dreamed of becoming a movie star.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
Calligraphy by Dominic C. Ocampo