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Passing the torch of remembrance Up Front Set sail with Capt.

Jonathan Kabak

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Getting back to normal I SPENT A BEAUTIFUL and enriching weekend in But my immediate family is committed to remainConnecticut recently, kvelling as my niece led a full ing close. And after this most recent gathering, I congregation in worship as a Bat Mitzvah. think we all see the value in holding our family close.

No matter that Rosie is 15, the rabbi told us. She L’dor v’dor – from generation to generation – is a had become a Bat Mitzvah right on schedule, but universal Jewish value. Just as the Torah was passed chose to wait to read Torah until the whole scattered from grandparents to parents to my niece, the Bat family could attend and share the day with her. And, Mitzvah, we are passing our traditions, our stories as the rabbi explained, leading the service was now and our values to the family we hold close. part of her being a Jewish adult.

My husband has a different problem. Most of his And Rosie did this with poise and grace. We all family lives in Chicago, and they stayed there during celebrated with her. And we were as proud as her the travel restrictions of the past few years. parents that she kept up with her religious studies It’s time, finally, for us to make that trip to Chicago. despite a pandemic that has shut down If COVID has taught us nothing else, it’s taught us so many of our institutions and our the importance of keeping in touch with those who life in the past two years. are important to us.

I have often written about *** my family. We are a scattered Pets have always been a big part of my extended bunch, but we try to come family, and this is one of my favorite issues of Jewish together as often as possible.

Rhode Island because it features a few of our pets and Throughout the pandemic, we have stayed connected via Sun- many of yours.

It turns out that having a pet has been a good thing day night Zoom sessions. But during COVID. Our furry friends have helped keep there have been few in-person gathering opportunities in the past us calm and feeling connected, and given us a family member to pamper and focus on when the humans few years as COVID-19 shut down in our household had just about had it with the close travel and celebrations. quarters.

My niece, after her long, Now, veterinarians are patient wait, became the reason reminding us to rememfor our first get-together since The long-awaited getber those same faithful 2019. Older relatives, who hadn’t friends as we return to our seen one another for two years or together got me thinking workplaces: our pets are more, except on a screen, particaccustomed to us being ularly delighted in spending time at home, and will have about how different our lives together. to adjust as we return to It was truly a wonderful are now from when my oldest normalcy, just like the weekend. There was talk of rest of us. career shifts and fond memories If you like the sense of relatives were young. and baseball and favorite foods. community that Jewish There was a tour of my sister’s Rhody brings to you and new home. There were Facetime your entire family (pets sessions with absent cousins, and included!), please consider a contribution to our lots of long hugs – which we’ve all missed. annual Patron Campaign. You probably noticed the The long-awaited get-together got me thinking envelope that fell from your paper as you opened it. about how different our lives are now from when That’s a signal that it’s time to consider supporting my oldest relatives were young. Most grew up living local Jewish journalism. within a few blocks of each other. My grandmother COVID has been hard on us all, including your had two brothers and two sisters. They all had community newspaper. While no one was out and children who stayed nearby through the years. For about, the paper was difficult to distribute and many years, my grandmother had large birthday parties businesses reduced their advertising. We’re trying that gathered everyone in the same place for at least to get back to normal now, and we hope you’ll help us one night. with your support. We truly appreciate it – and know In contrast, my generation, the baby boomers, has you will see the benefits in the year to come. scattered and many of us, sadly, have fallen out of touch.

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UP FRONT

Capt. Jonathan Kabak aboard the Oliver Hazard Perry.

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Capt. Jonathan Kabak brings the past and present to the next generation of sailors

BY ROBERT ISENBERG

N

EWPORT – Capt.

Jonathan Kabak actually sounds like

a captain. He speaks in a resonant baritone, and every sentence is clear and complete.

WALKING ON THE DECK of a replica 19th-century warship, Kabak exudes calm authority. He likes rigid timekeeping and the delegation of tasks, which are essential for a shipshape crew. But Kabak is also patient and good-humored, and it’s easy to see why students gravitate to him.

Kabak is CEO of Oliver Hazard Perry Rhode Island, a sailing-school vessel based in Newport. Completed in 2015, the SSV (Sailing School Vessel) Oliver Hazard Perry was the first ocean-going full-rigged ship built in the United States in the past century, and it serves as a training ground

Q. Where were you raised?

a-half wide. Most people think it’s Martha’s Vineyard or similar, but I go, “No, it’s Manhattan!” The island at the center of the world.

I think it contextualizes my relationship with the sea. People think, “A Jewish sea captain! Who’s ever heard of that?” But in reality, it’s not so uncommon, and those opportunities are not so rare for those that grow up near the ocean.

I was born and raised in midtown Manhattan. I grew up in a Jewish household, where I went to Jewish day school. My father was the president of an Orthodox congregation – one of the oldest in the city – and I had a pretty typical Jewish upbringing, if there is a typical Jewish upbringing in New York City. My family origins are pretty solidly Ashkenazic.

A. I like to say that I grew up on an island off the Mid-Atlantic coast of the Eastern Seaboard. It’s only about 13-and-a-half miles long and about a mile-and-

A. I was always sort of enamored with boats and the sea, and in particular I would often go down to

for students of all ages and backgrounds.

From afar, the threemasted, 200-foot ship looks like it drifted through time from the War of 1812, when Captain Perry lived. But the interior is thoroughly modern, with welded steel walls and a robust engine.

Kabak, 44, lives in Portsmouth with his wife, Jennifer and children Olivia and Nathaniel. After three decades of working in shipboard education and four years as the head of Oliver Hazard Perry Rhode Island, Kabak is regarded as an expert in maritime training and education under sail.

So his origins may come as a surprise: Kabak grew up in an Orthodox Jewish family in New York City.

The following Q&A has been lightly edited for clarity.

Q. What drew you to the nautical life?

the South Street Seaport Museum as a child. My father found out that they had a volunteer program, so [when I was] at the ripe old age of 12 or so, he called and said, “Hey, my son I think would be interested in checking out the wooden boatbuilding shop.” And the volunteer coordinator said, “Well, we usually don’t take kids that young.” And [my father] said, “Well, give him a try.” And they did, and I loved it.

Except, I got to go sailing on one of their ships, the 1885 schooner Pioneer, and fell in love. I never went back to the boat shop, but over the last 30-plus years now, I spent a considerable amount of time on the fleet there – what I thought would be just a fun summer job became kind of my life’s calling and passion. I keep promising my parents, “One day I’ll grow up and get a real job!” But I have yet to do that, so here we are.

Q. Do you have any ancestors who worked on ships?

A. Not that I’m aware of.

It was very sort of serendipitous that I found and fell in love with the sea. The closest thing is, my family were pretty active Labor Zionists, and on my mother’s side played a very active role in arranging some of the transports and logistics packages around World War II for settlement in Israel.

So my family played a role in the logistics side, but not in the seafaring side.

Q. There are so many ways to work on the water, like the Navy, or Merchant Marine, or even on a cruise ship. But you chose maritime education.

Why? A. At South Street, they have a very vibrant volunteer program and sail-training program. So my introduction to the world of seafaring came through educational seafaring and training. And there’s something about it in particular that resonates with me, because it’s purposeful.

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A holy puppy D’ VA

MY WIFE, our two daughters and I acquired a new family member in January: we finally took the reentry plunge into dog ownership by welcoming Rilla, an Australian labradoodle, into our home.

The decision to get Rilla was not easy for us.

Our previous dog, Ruby, died during the height of the pandemic, when she was 17 years old. Ruby’s death was very difficult for all of us – one more deprivation in a time of multiple losses.

So, it was unquestionably an act of faith that opened our hearts to receive Rilla.

Like most acts of faith, the reward has been unexpectedly greater than what we dared to expect.

Rilla is delightful. She is rambunctious and playful in ways that we had, somehow, forgotten that a puppy could be. She also requires a great deal more of our time and energy than we had remembered from Ruby’s puppy days, almost 20 years ago.

But, we all agree that she is worth it for the love and joy she has brought us.

Here is something that is true about me: I am an enthusiastic, but not a sentimental, dog owner. I love the dogs that have been in my life, but I don’t pretend

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that they are anything other than pets. I bristle when people refer to Rilla as my “fur baby,” or use other phrases that are meant to equate our dog with our human family members.

Our family once used a veterinarian who liked to refer to me as “Dad,” as if I were the dog’s father. I reminded RABBI JEFFREY him sevGOLDWASSER eral times that the dog and I were not actually related. He didn’t get it. I don’t use that veterinarian anymore.

Yet even I cannot deny that there is something special – even spiritual – about the relationship I have with Rilla, and that I have had it with the other dogs that have been in my life.

We human beings allow our pets into very intimate relationships with us. (For example, I let Rilla sleep in our bedroom with us.) And we do that because of the specialness, the sanctity, that surrounds the partnership that binds our two

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species to each other.

Human and canine (and human and feline, too, I suppose) have a way of caring and communicating with each other that is deeper than words, more profound than shared experiences. We just connect with each other and feel an innate closeness.

This week’s Torah portion is Kedoshim, and it includes the repeated exhortation, “You shall be holy, for I, Adonai your God, am holy” (Leviticus 19:2). The words always leave me wondering, what is it, exactly, that makes a person “holy”?

We can find clues to answer that question in the Torah portion itself. The portion gives us instruction on the need for employers to treat their workers justly, on being honest in business, on treating rich and poor alike, on not taking advantage of the ignorance of others, on not indulging in inappropriate sexuality, on respecting your parents and on respecting the elderly.

In my mind, all of these instructions point in a single direction that we can define as holy: the deep experience of caring for others and putting their needs and feelings ahead of our own.

Holiness is found not in seeing other people as

utilities for gaining perwho we are. sonal advantage, but in The commandment “You seeing them as beings with shall be holy,” in this week’s their own integrity, values, Torah portion, seems so and capacity to love and be daunting. We wonder: How loved. on earth can we be like God? The thing that makes us Upon reflection, though, holy is our ability to open we may realize that being our hearts to others and holy is not about being to recognize the holiness perfect. It is about truly within them. inhabiting the person you And that brings me back are and treating others as to Rilla. Like all dogs, Rilla the human beings that they has a talent for just accepttruly are. ing people as they are. Like It means to love people all dogs, Rilla does not need the way that Rilla loves us, to pretend that people are without pretense or pretendsomething they are not. As ing, with not a word needed long as you do not hurt her, between us, but just with she will love you and lick acceptance, honesty and you no matter what. We caring. humans can take an importRABBI JEFF GOLDWASSER is ant lesson from that trait. the spiritual leader of Temple The special, spiritual relationship I intuit between Sinai, in Cranston.

Rilla and the members of my family comes from the depth of honest compasCandle lighting times sion and caring between us. It is May 2022 not a sentimental connection that is based on manufactured relationships or childishly exaggerated emotion. No, just the opposite. The thing that makes our relationship with Rilla so deeply satisfying May 6 7:29 pm is the way that we accept the truth May 13 7:36 pm about who she is and she (God bless May 20 7:43 pm her) accepts us for

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Perry program?

little time thinking about the correlations between Judaism and seafaring, and the concept of l’dor v’dor – generation to generation – really resonated with me. Because when we work in education, we are giving to something greater than ourselves. The impact can really be felt on a much grander scale.

There’s something about seeing the growth of someone, seeing their potential to impact their own community and beyond, that really resonates with me. It’s a multiplier. I’ve worked with passengers. I’ve done a little bit on the commercial side in the maritime world. And it never gave me that same sense of satisfaction.

A. A ship is a microcosm of the planet. When we leave the dock, we have to have our water and enough fuel onboard to make power. It’s a wonderful place to see how people interact with each other and communicate with each other and, ultimately, have to trust in each other to make it to their destination.

Once you’ve had the opportunity to spend time in that environment, it’s hard to find anything else that is as engaging, intriguing, captivating.

This organization spends most of its efforts and energy [on] the lessons and values we offer through traditional sailing experiences. But this ship is very modern. She was built in the 21st century, she was commissioned in 2015. Other than the cabin that we’re in now, she is thoroughly

Q. For participants, what is unique about the Oliver Hazard

modern, and that allows us to leverage the best aspects of her anachronistic sailing-ship rig while preparing people for a contemporary experience.

Q. You’ve worked for so many organizations and in so many different environments. How did you get involved in this program specifically?

A. I serve on the board of directors of Tall Ships America, which is the national organization that represents sail-training vessels and practitioners of education under sail. I watched this program from its inception and infancy on through the construction of the ship. In fact, I literally stood right here [in the replica captain’s cabin] at a cocktail party chatting with the then-executive director and several board members, and was asked, “Do you ever

see yourself as captain of this ship?” And I said, “Absolutely not.”

I had moved out of sail training at that point. I was working at the United States Merchant Marine Academy.

My background is not necessarily in square-rig sailing.

It just didn’t seem like the project I would associate with, and I wished them the best of luck.

As the organization went through some challenging times, their board of directors reached out to me, first as a consultant. It was the perfect opportunity to take 30 years of those conversations that we have with our friends, you know, “If I ruled the world, if I were in charge, this is what I would do,” and put them into practice.

It was such a compelling opportunity. And while I

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couldn’t have ever predicted that I would be navigating the organization through several years of pandemic and similar, it’s been an incredible experience that I wouldn’t trade for the world.

SEE THE VIDEO of Jewish Rhode Island’s interview with Captain Kabak at JewishRhody.com. To learn more about Oliver Hazard Perry Rhode Island or to arrange a tour of the vessel, go to OHPRI.org.

ROBERT ISENBERG (risenberg@jewishallianceri. org) is the multimedia producer for the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island and a writer for Jewish Rhode Island.

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Kosher Senior Café and Programming. In-person lunches 11 a.m.-1 p.m. Monday – Thursday at the Dwares JCC, 401 Elmgrove Ave., Providence; Friday at Temple Sinai, 30 Hagen Ave., Cranston.

Closed 5/30. In-person and Zoom programming includes “Exercise for Everyone” with exercise science professional Laura Goodwin on Monday and Wednesday from 11-11:45 a.m. and chair yoga on Tuesday and Thursday from 11:30 a.m.-noon followed by lunch and a guest speaker or discussion from noon-1 p.m. The second Tuesday of the month is “Susie’s Corner” with Susie Adler from noon-1 p.m. The third Thursday of the month is a book chat with Neal Drobnis from noon-1 p.m. Suggested donation: $3 per lunch for those age 60 and older as well as for younger adults with a disability. Other adults may purchase a meal for $6.50. The Kosher Senior Café, a program of Jewish Collaborative Services, is supported by the Jewish Alliance of Greater RI and Blackstone Health.

Information and RSVP, Elaine Shapiro at elaine@jfsri.org or 401-4214111, ext. 107.

Touro Synagogue. 52 Spring St., between Touro & Barney Sts., Newport. Sundays, Mondays, Tuesdays, Thursdays and Fridays, 5/1 – 5/31. 10 a.m.-3 p.m. History presentations resume inside this National Historic Site that stands as a symbol of religious freedom.

Six tours each day. Visitors may also explore interactive exhibits at the Loeb Visitors Center and enjoy the beautiful grounds. Information, tourosynagogue.org or 401-8474794, ext. 207.

Spiritual Accounting: Benjamin Franklin and Rabbi Mendel Lefin’s Course of Character Development. Sundays 10:15-11:45 a.m. thru 6/26. No class: 5/29, 6/5.

Dwares JCC, 401 Elmgrove Ave., Providence. In-depth textual study including readings and journaling at home. Taught by Rabbi Eliahu Klein.

Funded by the Jewish Alliance of Greater RI. Information, Shai Afsai at shai.afsai@ppsd.org.

Project Shoresh Ladies Partners in Torah Night. Sundays 7:45-8:45 p.m. Providence Hebrew Day School, 450 Elmgrove Ave., Providence. Partner-based study group. On-site facilitators available.

Free. Information, projectshoresh. com or Naftali Karp at naftalikarp@ gmail.com or 401-632-3165.

Gimmel and Daled Conversational Hebrew Classes. Mondays 6:30-7:30 p.m. Thru 5/23. Improve speaking skills. Sponsored by Temple Emanu-El and the Jewish

Alliance. Gimmel (can read and write Hebrew; can speak using basic vocabulary in the present tense; past tense will be introduced) offered via Zoom; Daled (can have a basic discussion in present and past tense; needs to work on improving vocabulary and fluency) offered both in-person at the Dwares JCC (401 Elmgrove Ave., Providence) and virtually. Cost: $100 per person. Financial aid available. Information, Toby Liebowitz at tobyaane@gmail.com.

Alef Hebrew Classes. Tuesdays 6:30-7:30 p.m. Thru 5/24. Dwares JCC, 401 Elmgrove Ave., Providence. Review the Hebrew alphabet while learning basic Hebrew phrases. In-person only. Cost: $100 per person. Financial aid available.

Information, Toby Liebowitz at tobyaane@gmail.com.

Bet and Hey Conversational Hebrew Classes. Tuesdays 6:30-7:30 p.m. Thru 5/24. Improve your speaking skills. Sponsored by Temple Emanu-El and the Jewish Alliance. Bet (can read and write Hebrew with some background in Hebrew conversation) offered both virtually and in-person at the Dwares JCC (401 Elmgrove Ave., Providence). Hey (can speak Hebrew easily; can read articles and poetry; can discuss a variety of topics in present, past and future tenses) is virtual only. Cost: $100 per person. Financial aid available.

Information, Toby Liebowitz at tobyaane@gmail.com.

Project Shoresh: For Young Professionals – A Walk Through Torah. Tuesdays 7-8 p.m. 132 Lancaster St., Providence. Explore the Five Books of Moses with Rabbi Chaim Yehuda and Mrs. Guta Shaps. RSVP (requested but not required) or information, text or call Rabbi Shaps at 732-822-0028.

Temple Habonim “The Wisdom’s Literature.” Wednesdays 11 a.m.noon. Study the texts found in the Writings, the final section of the Hebrew Bible. These texts offer perspectives on our relationship with God and the meaning and purpose of our lives. Via Zoom.

Information, Adina Davies at office@ templehabonim.org or 401-2456536.

Project Shoresh Men’s Partners in Torah Night. Wednesdays 7:45-8:45 p.m. Providence Hebrew Day School, 450 Elmgrove Ave., Providence. Partner-based study group. On-site facilitators available.

Free. Information, Naftali Karp at naftalikarp@gmail.com or 401-6323165.

Temple Beth-El Lunch & Learn: “Inspiring Texts: Rabbinic Text Study.” Bi-weekly Thursdays.

Noon-1 p.m. Explore texts that continue to inform our Jewish lives. Class taught by Rabbi Sarah Mack and Rabbi Preston Neimeiser.

Dates: 5/5, 5/19, 6/2, 6/16. Via Zoom. Free. Register and information, link on calendar at temple-beth-el.org or Temple Beth-El office at 401-331-6070.

Temple Habonim Lunch and Learn via Zoom. Thursdays noon-1:30 p.m. Weekly Torah discussion with Rabbi Howard Voss-Altman. No Hebrew fluency or background in Jewish textual analysis needed.

Free. Information, Adina Davies at office@templehabonim.org or 401245-6536.

Project Shoresh presents “Jew in 2022: Exploring a Meaningful Life” with Rabbi Eli Kasirer.

Thursdays 8-9 p.m. Providence Hebrew Day School, 450 Elmgrove Ave., Providence. Rabbi Moshe Don Kestenbaum’s book “Olam Ha’avodah – A guide to understanding and achieving our purpose in this world” will be the basis for discussions. Information, Naftali Karp at naftalikarp@gmail.com or 401-632-3165.

Music with Raymond Buttero via Zoom. Fridays 3-3:30 p.m. Temple Sinai’s pianist performs. Link at templesinairi.org. Information, dottie@templesinairi.org or 401942-8350.

Temple Beth-El Shabbat Services. Fridays 7-8:15 p.m. 70 Orchard Ave., Providence. Multi-access – join in person, via Zoom or on Facebook Live. Information, Joie Magnone at jmagnone@temple-beth-el.org or 401-331-6070, ext. 100.

Temple Sinai Shabbat Services.

Fridays 6 p.m. 30 Hagen Ave., Cranston. Song, prayer and reflection offered in-person or on Zoom.

With Rabbi Jeffrey Goldwasser and Cantor Deborah Johnson. Zoom link at templesinairi.org. Information, dottie@templesinairi.org or 401-942-8350.

Project Shoresh Lively Kabbalat Shabbat. Fridays. Services will begin at the commencement of Shabbat. Be in touch for exact timing each week. Providence Hebrew Day School (side entrance), 450 Elmgrove Ave., Providence.

Welcome Shabbat with a few inspiring words, melodious songs and traditional services. Open to all.

Information, Naftali Karp at naftalikarp@gmail.com or 401-632-3165.

Temple Torat Yisrael Virtual Kabbalat Shabbat Songs & Torah Services. Fridays 5:45-6:30 p.m.

Led by Rabbi Aaron Philmus. For information or Zoom link, Temple@ toratyisrael.org.

Cape Cod Synagogue Shabbat Services. Fridays 7 p.m., except second Friday of the month 6:30 p.m., when Family Shabbat Services take place. 145 Winter St., Hyannis, Mass. With Rabbi David Freelund. In-person and livestreamed on multiple platforms (website, Facebook, Cape Media, YouTube and Community Television Comcast channel 99). In-person for all ages with mask – proof of vaccination needed for those old enough to have been vaccinated.

Information, 508-775-2988 or capecodsynagogue.org.

Temple Beth-El Torah Study. Saturdays 9-10 a.m. (No Torah Study second Saturday of the month.) 70 Orchard Ave., Providence. Delve into the weekly portion with Rabbi Sarah Mack and Rabbi Preston Neimeiser. Multi-access – join in-person or via Zoom. Information, Joie Magnone at jmagnone@temple-beth-el.org or 401-331-6070, ext. 100.

Temple Beth-El Shabbat Morning Service. Second Saturday of the month 9-10:30 a.m. 70 Orchard Ave., Providence. Shabbat morning minyan with lay participation incorporating study, Torah and Haftarah readings. Multi-access: in-person or via Zoom. Information, Joie Magnone at jmagnone@temple-beth-el. org or 401-331-6070, ext. 100.

Temple Torat Yisrael Virtual and In-Person Shabbat Services. Saturdays 9:30-10:30 a.m. 1251 Middle Road, East Greenwich. Led by Rabbi Aaron Philmus. Information or Zoom link, Temple@toratyisrael. org.

Temple Sinai Shabbat Morning Service In-person and via Zoom.

Saturdays 11 a.m. (10:30 a.m. when celebrating a Bar or Bat Mitzvah)-noon. Temple Sinai, 30 Hagen Ave., Cranston. Information, templesinairi.org or Dottie at 401942-8350.

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Temple Torat Yisrael TGIS Musical Family Shabbat. 5-5:30 p.m.

1251 Middle Road, East Greenwich.

In-person service followed by a free kid-friendly dairy Shabbat dinner. Information, Temple@ toratyisrael.org.

Temple Habonim Tot Shabbat.

6-6:30 p.m. 165 New Meadow Road, Barrington. Interactive service designed for families with young children. Experience the joy of Shabbat through music, story and prayer. Join us in person without RSVPing. Information, Adina Davies at office@templehabonim. org or 401-245-6536.

Tuesday | May 10

Graphic Novel Club for Teens. 6 p.m. Dwares JCC, 401 Elmgrove Ave., Providence. This group meets the 2nd Tuesday of each month through May. Offered via Zoom and in person. Information, Amit Oren at aoren@jewishallianceri.org or 401-864-3786.

Wednesday | May 11

Israeli Culture Night: Dreaming Israel through Three Generations. 7 p.m. From her mother’s role in bringing the family from Ethiopia to the Holy Land to her daughter’s becoming a journalist in the military, Sigal Kanotopsky will show how women have shaped Israeli society and what is next on the horizon for women in Israel. Via Zoom. Free. Information, Amit Oren at aoren@jewishallianceri.org.

Friday | May 13

Temple Sinai Shabbat Breakfast & Torah Study In-person and via Zoom. Saturdays 9:30-11 a.m. Temple Sinai, 30 Hagen Ave., Cranston. Breakfast followed by interactive discussion with Rabbi Jeffrey Goldwasser or others in our community. Zoom link at templesinairi.org. Information, dottie@ templesinairi.org or 401-942-8350.

Temple Beth-El K’tantan Shabbat with PJ Library. 5:30-6:45 p.m. 70 Orchard Ave., Providence.

Celebrate Shabbat with children ages 0-5 with a family-friendly Kabbalat Shabbat service and dinner with our friends from PJ Library.

Information, Rachel Mersky Woda at rmerskywoda@temple-beth-el. org or 401-331-6070, ext. 107.

Cape Cod Synagogue Shabbat Services. Saturdays 10:30 a.m.

145 Winter St., Hyannis, Mass. With Rabbi David Freelund. Services are in-person with proof of vaccination; must wear a mask. Services also available on our website, Facebook and YouTube. Information, Cape Cod Synagogue at 508-775-2988 or capecodsynagogue.org.

Sunday | May 15

Temple Torat Yisrael Sprouts Program: Lag B’Omer. 9:3010:30 a.m. 1251 Middle Road, East Greenwich. Active program to learn about Jewish culture and holidays with Rabbi Aaron and Morah Leah.

For children ages 3-5 and their parents. Open to the community.

Cost: $10. COVID precautions will be taken. Activities will be out-

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CALENDAR side, weather permitting. Dress accordingly. Information, temple@ toratyisrael.org.

Congregation Beth David Story Time and Crafts with PJ Library.

9:45 a.m. 102 Kingstown Road, Narragansett. Explore a variety of PJ Library books and participate in crafts and games. Free. Synagogue membership not required. For ages 2-8. Information, Amanda Stevens at greenspan.amanda@gmail.com.

Hadassah RI Nature Walk and Speaker Series: “Celebrate Lag B’Omer Nature Walk.” 11 a.m.12:30 p.m. Goddard Memorial State Park, 1095 Ives Road, East Greenwich. Nature walk, music and picnic. You bring your own lunch; we will bring carob treat and fruit.

Shoshana Laufer will share insights regarding this holiday. Free. RSVP to chapri@hadassah.org. or 857404-0599.

Temple Emanu-El presents Six13 Concert. Noon. 99 Taft Ave., Providence. Welcome the popular a cappella band Six13 for a special concert. Doors open at 11:30 a.m.

Cost: Members: $10 | Nonmembers: $18. Information, Shoshana Jacob at shosh@teprov.org, 401-331-1616.

Monday | May 16

Behind the Book: “Beautiful Country.” 6:30 p.m. Qian Julie Wang’s memoir follows her family through undocumented life in NYC while grappling with poverty, manual labor in sweatshops, lack of medical care and threat of deportation. Free. This virtual event is made possible by a partnership with the Jewish Book Council. Sponsored by the Jewish Alliance’s Community Relations Council and the Interfaith Coalition of RI. Information, Stephanie Hague at shague@jewishallianceri.org or 401-421-4111, ext. 127.

Tuesday | May 17

Temple Emanu-El presents Israeli Dance with Rina Wagman.

7-8 p.m. 99 Taft Ave., Providence.

Explore both traditional and modern Israeli dance in this 3-session course. Light refreshments will follow. No experience necessary.

All levels welcome. Upcoming dates: 5/24, 5/31. Course cost: $18 (members); $36 (nonmembers).

Register at teprov.org/form/israelidance. Information, Shoshana Jacob at shosh@teprov.org or 401-331-1616.

Thursday | May 19

An Evening with Bret Stephens.

A Changing World: The Impact on Jewish Communities. 7:30 p.m.

In-person at the Dwares JCC, 401 Elmgrove Ave., Providence and livestreaming. The New York Times associate editor and op-ed colum-

nist Bret Stephens will speak about modern antisemitism. Followed by Q&A moderated by Torey Malatia, president, CEO and general manager of the Public’s Radio (RI NPR).

Cost: $18 (proceeds benefit Live Secure Campaign). Information, Sara Masri at smasri@jewishallianceri.org or 401-421-4111, ext. 223.

Touro Synagogue Foundation presents “Rediscovering Jewish Infrastructure: Showcasing Surviving Eighteenth and Nineteenth Century Synagogues in America.”

7:30-8:30 p.m. Illustrated virtual lecture with guest speaker Mr. Mark W. Gordon. Second program of the 2022 Judah Touro Program Series. Free. To reserve, visit “Events” page at tourosynagogue. org. Information or assistance with registration, Meryle Cawley at meryle@tourosynagogue.org or 401-847-4794, ext. 207.

forum where RI gubernatorial candidates present their solutions for rising poverty and inequality. Registration (required) and information, David Veliz at riinterfaithcoalition@ gmail.com.

Tuesday | May 31

Temple Emanu-El presents Israeli Dance with Rina Wagman.

7-8 p.m. 99 Taft Ave., Providence.

Explore both traditional and modern Israeli dance in the final session of this 3-session course. Light refreshments will follow. No experi-

ence necessary. All levels welcome.

Course cost: $18 (members); $36 (nonmembers). Register at teprov. org/form/israelidance. Information, Shoshana Jacob at shosh@teprov. org or 401-331-1616.

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Friday | May 20

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5:30-7 p.m. 99 Taft Ave., Providence. Join Family First for a family-friendly Shabbat evening service and dinner. For ages 0-6.

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Sunday | May 22

Adult Dodgeball Tournament. 9:30 a.m. Dwares JCC, 401 Elmgrove Ave., Providence. Round up a group of friends or family members, build a team and sign up for an exciting Sunday morning with a double elimination tournament. $60 per team | 6 players per team. Preregistration (required) or information, Rob Castellucci at rcastellucci@jewishallianceri.org or 401-421-4111, ext. 129.

Tuesday | May 24

Temple Emanu-El presents Israeli Dance with Rina Wagman.

7-8 p.m. 99 Taft Ave., Providence.

Explore both traditional and modern Israeli dance in the second session of this 3-session course.

Light refreshments will follow. No experience necessary. All levels welcome. Upcoming date: 5/31.

Course cost: $18 (members); $36 (nonmembers). Register at teprov. org/form/israelidance. Information, Shoshana Jacob at shosh@teprov. org or 401-331-1616.

Friday | May 27

Raising Rhode Islanders out of Poverty: A Gubernatorial Forum.

10 a.m.-noon. Dwares JCC, 401 Elmgrove Ave., Providence. Join the RI Interfaith Coalition to Reduce Poverty in partnership with the Economic Progress Institute, Kids Count and the Latino policy Institute, with support from United Way of RI, Direct Action for Rights and Equality, The RI Food Bank and the Jewish Alliance of Greater RI, for a

Coming soon | June 1–30 We’re inviting Rhode Island “noshers” to support local businesses and find the most delicious Kosher treats in Rhode Island. And we want you to be a part of it!

“Noshers” will schlep through a tasting road trip to participating restaurants and sample the best Kosher foods in Rhode Island.

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A NEIGHBOR, an “aunt,” a second cousin, a friend, a companion: Who, and what, to me, was Edith?

She lived on my street, uphill at a corner, and was related to me on both my parents’ sides and her parents’ sides, and she was the first nativeborn relative, and as a youngster she went to the schools for which I was destined. She was also my babysitter!

Edith Fink, like all of us along or near Third Street, in Providence, waited throughout the World War II years for the “boys” to come home.

While waiting, she had her nose fixed, for her smile of welcome when she greeted her dates. So that she would look like the grinning stars of Hollywood.

Yes, my Edith was an actress, within the limits of

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the theaters of li’l Rhody, with the Community Players and, I believe, the Barker Players as well. As I recall, she rivaled Dame Margaret Rutherford as the mystic in Noel Coward’s hit play, “Blithe Spirit.”

Edith took me to gape in wonder at the captured submarine from our coast, displayed at the downtown Kaiser MIKE FINK riverside, where ships were built.

What I remember was that Edith fainted – and instructed me not to report that distressing fact to her mother.

In due time, she found her GI fiancé, and of course I attended the wedding, at the Narragansett Hotel.

The newlywed Salhanicks then opened a neighborhood business together, a gift shop on Hope Street. But when her new husband had an early heart attack, they moved back

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to Edith’s birthplace, next door to The Miriam Hospital.

Edith used her skills as a designer to participate in the then-thriving costume-jewelry industry in Rhode Island. For my Bar Mitzvah, I got an identification bracelet from Edith. I wore it on dates, and gave it as a gift to a pretty girl (no memory of who that was).

After that, my connection to Edith grew, but in diverse directions. Edith Fink.

I might stop by to hitch a ride to my job, or maybe on jaunts to visit the sites of our family past. It was not far to journey: to see what had become of Oakland Beach, or, even closer, to the previous residences of her father (my grandfather) and his brother (her uncle). Along Benefit and around Pratt.

I write about Edith and her saga with nostalgia and a

nephew’s respect and regard.

Edith was a hard worker, and found her portion of happiness with the virtues of good will, amiability and a genuine grin of sociability. A good guest and great hostess, she was determined to make the best of whatever came her way.

Edith wanted me to write a play about the dramas of her household and our shared destinies – inspired in part by the Hollywood movies we saw, though not together, at the nearby Hope Theatre.

Edith also had a cynical side to her character – not her temperament, no, just about her times and the fates themselves. Her husband passed away and she would recount to me her dreams about him.

You have to make do.

Edith went on to take up the hobby of traveling, and

she sustained and nourished her friendships. Which is why I am writing this piece.

Her ally, Ada Winsten, sends me wonderful photographs, one of which I am sharing with you-all. In this picture, you can see Edith’s cheerful expression and her dramatic awareness.

Yet I have only scratched the surface in this fond review of our alliance as relatives, as chums and as fellow adventurers. And my closing commentary is rather melancholy: I believe that most of us have hidden tragedies in our lives, and disappointments. I think Edith deserved a bit better for all the dedication she brought to her fortunes, good and ill, and I am trying to say something on the brink of heroic about her dealings with whatever came her way.

MIKE FINK (mfink33@aol.com) teaches at the Rhode Island School of Design.

A CHANGING WORLD: THE IMPACT ON JEWISH COMMUNITIES AN EVENING WITH

BRET STEPHENS

“And how can it be that in this era of heightened sensitivity to every kind of hatred, bias, stereotype, -ism and -phobia, both conscious and unconscious, there’s so much caviling, caveating and outright denying when it comes to calling out bias aimed at Jews?”

Registration opens April 18.

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on the island for 25 years, after my father retired.

My father served as the lay leader for 13 years, conducting services and seders, and officiating at marriages. My mother played the piano to accompany the services my father led. I remember the Oneg Shabbats after services and the wonderful community there.

The Jewish PATRICIA legacy my parents left for me RASKIN and my family brings me tremendous pride. It is also noted in the book I wrote, “Pathfinding,” where I highlighted many of my father’s stories in shaded blocks for easy reference.

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IT WAS AN AMAZING journey down memory lane to go back to Florida to visit the Jewish Congregation of Marco Island, which my father helped to create 30 years ago.

It all came back to me when I walked into the temple. I hadn’t been back there in 20 years, so seeing the achievements and accomplishments of my parents, with plaques of recognition on almost every wall, was so very touching to me, even somewhat overwhelming.

This is especially true of the large plaque saying “Raskin Hall,” which hangs in the foyer of the synagogue’s entrance.

I have many beautiful memories of time spent on Marco Island with my family. My parents lived

memory of what they created is so alive! I remember so many functions at the temple.

During my trip, I was touched that one of the temple’s administrators had marked with little sticky notes all the places and plaques where my parents were recognized.

Later on, when I wrote to thank her, she said she had known my parents when she first came to this country.

It was also special that I visited the synagogue with the cantor who had worked with my father to co-lead services. It was as though time had stood still.

My parents’ lifelong Jewish journey, my father’s stories, retold in my book, and my grandmother’s folktales have left an indelible and positive mark on me. It’s the reason that I’m so proud to have the opportunity to write this column in Jewish Rhode Island and to be active in

my temple and the Jewish community in Rhode Island.

I really do think we as Jews are very special. We all have our faults and foibles, but I think that we also have a tremendous legacy to share. We can perpetuate this by telling our stories to our children and grandchildren, writing them down, putting them in a book or journal so that they can be passed on.

I’m extremely proud of what my family has left for me to pass on.

PATRICIA RASKIN, owner of Raskin Resources Productions, is a media host, coach and awardwinning radio producer and business owner. She is on the board of directors of Temple Emanu-El, in Providence. She is a recipient of the Providence Business News 2020 Leaders The Jewish Congregation of Marco and Achievers award.

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One Jew’s many ‘pilgrimages’ Confirmation class.

She and I made the journey together in espite the importance of June of 1983, only a few days before our such holidays as Sukkot, engagement.

Pesach and Shavuot, Given my fascination with reliwhich hearkened Jews to the gious architecture, I should not have Temple, we seem reluctant to use been surprised by the term “pilgrimage.” The word how much I enjoyed that first visit to has probably acquired too many Newport. Beyond Christological connotations. the gorgeous weather, so much spoke to me. Even NEVERTHELESS, for many from its exterior, Trinity years before moving to (Episcopal) Church, for Rhode Island in 1987, I was instance, seemed to exemcurious to visit Touro Synaplify early 18th-century gogue. Aware of its historiarchitecture. But I also cal and architectural impormarveled at the weathered tance, I wanted to experience tombstones scattered in its this shrine personally. I also graveyard. wanted to take many photoI don’t recall if Betsey and graphs so that the place and I spent much time examinatmosphere would become ing Newport’s Jewish burial embedded in my memory. ground, but a few decades My wife, Betsey, who later, I felt that I had made grew up north of Boston, a contribution to American first visited Touro with her

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Jewish history by writing a lengthy article about its Egyptian-style gateway for the journal of the Rhode Island Historical Society.

Betsey and I were not aware of Temple Beth-El’s history or its architectural stature before moving to Providence. We sought to affiliate with a Reform synagogue, and Beth-El quickly became our spiritual home. And, once again, I was fortunate to publish an article, about its embrace of modernism, this time in the journal of the American Jewish Archives. Another article, about Woonsocket’s handsome B’nai Israel, would follow.

Perhaps my fascination with synagogue architecture was inevitable, for I had grown up at Wilshire Boulevard Temple, in Los Angeles.

A distant cousin of Providence’s Temple Emanu-El, it was, and remains, one of the finest examples of a histori-

cal revival synagogue of the 1920s. Wilshire Boulevard’s choral and organ music also spoke to me, and the sanctuary’s figurative mural, portraying epochs of Jewish history, is both spellbinding and unique.

My childhood temple was surely a factor in my decision to study art history at the undergraduate and graduate levels. Eventually, I became familiar with many of Christendom’s major and minor sanctuaries – in Rome, Assisi, Chartres, Ronchamp and Santiago de Compostela, for example.

I have also visited several European synagogues, as well as ghettos and Holocaust museums and memorials. I have been to Israel three times. Curiously, my first trip there, organized by the Los Angeles Federation, was considered a “mission” rather than a “pilgrimage.”

Once modernism became central to my architectural

understanding, I was also fortunate to visit numerous American houses of worship.

These were designed by such Jewish and gentile masters as Max Abramovitz, Marcel Breuer, Philip Johnson, Louis Kahn, Eero Saarinen, Frank Lloyd Wright and Minoru Yamasaki.

Before moving to Providence, Betsey and I lived for a few years in St. Paul, Minnesota, where Mt. Zion Temple, our Reform congregation, had been designed

by Erich Mendelsohn, the distinguished German-Jewish émigré. He had been interviewed for the design of Providence’s Beth-El, but Mt. Zion was the last of his four American synagogues. To honor the centenary of his birth, I organized an exhibition and symposium.

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Slam cancer by getting checked

Submissions this year were solicited throughout April and a public celebration, where the writers will be asked to read their works, will be held at 6 p.m., Friday, May 20, in downtown Attleboro’s Balfour Riverwalk Park. I submitted the following essay after undergoing a pair of surgeries for skin cancer earlier this year. I’m sharing the essay here to raise awareness about the need to get screened for all cancers.

IT’S BEEN DECADES since cancer was discussed in hush-hush tones and was all-too-commonly referred to as “The Big C.” That derisive description unfortunately reinforced the stigma of a cancer diagnosis, and it started to spread to another tough disease, Alzheimer’s.

That’s something I experienced in 1994 when I took my mother to a neurologist, and his “professional” opinion, as he related to me and my wife with my father and

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Indeed, my daily walks often take me past the Quaker Meetinghouse, whose simplicity and silence say much to me. I tend to dismiss the nearby Chabad House, although Rabbi Yehoshua Laufer has summoned me to help complete his minyan for nearly 25 years.

So how do I explain my unending fascination with Portsmouth Abbey and School, which was founded by the Congregation of English Benedictines in 1918?

Enchanted by the community’s rural yet stately setting, I often stop there on my journeys to or from Newport.

Unlike the late Rabbi William G. Braude or his late son, Rabbi Joel, I do not know anybody at the abbey or school, but I am familiar with the career of the distinguished Italian-born architect Pietro Belluschi (1899-1994), who lent his talents to the “upper cam-

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I’ve been doing this for two reasons: 1. Cancer has touched scores of friends and relatives, to whom I pay tribute at the relay by lighting luminaria for both survivors and victims.

2. To raise money to fight cancer and increase awareness about the disease.

That’s why I’m pleased that the relay, LARRY for the third KESSLER year in a row, is partnering with a trusted community organization. In 2020, right before the pandemic hit, that effort resulted in a collaboration with the Attleboro Arts Museum on a compelling art show. In 2021, we held a new event, Slam Cancer, in conjunction with the Attleboro Public Library, and we’re repeating it this year.

Slam Cancer encourages people of all ages to share original poems and essays. Last year’s writers wrote passionately on many topics, and it’s in that spirit that I want to make this point about cancer: be vigilant about the disease before it sneaks up on you.

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pus” beginning in 1952, while dean of architecture at MIT. A prolific designer of Catholic and Protestant churches, particularly in the Pacific Northwest, where he once resided, Belluschi also designed five synagogues. I have visited his splendid Temple B’rith Kodesh, in Rochester, New York, and his lesser Temple Israel, in Swampscott, Massachusetts.

Beyond its peaceful and verdant ambience, why do I feel so drawn to the Portsmouth campus? One key is its sense of order, both physical and metaphysical, such that the church of St. Gregory the Great, crowned by a graceful spire, is clearly the focal point.

Although this octagonal structure – derived from medieval prototypes – rises above the neighboring fields, valleys and dwellings, it is also, surprisingly, a modest building. The church’s exterior decoration con-

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Columnist’s note: For more than two decades, I’ve participated in and volunteered for the Relay For Life of Greater Attleboro, a fundraiser for the American Cancer Society. For the last two years, the relay has also partnered with the Attleboro Public Library on a poetry-essay event, Slam Cancer, which invites people to write about how cancer has affected them.

mother in the room, was that she had ”The Big A.” Thankfully, we’ve evolved as a society to the point where both cancer and Alzheimer’s patients are now treated with respect and dignity, and in the case of cancer, that’s due in large part to the advocacy and fundraising of the American Cancer Society.

One of the society’s signature fundraisers is the Relay For Life, a team event that started in 1985, when Dr. Gordon “Gordy” Klatt walked and ran for 24 hours around a track in Tacoma, Washington, raising $27,000. Relay For Life worldwide has raised more than $5 billion in the 37 years since that historic first event.

Locally, the Relay For Life of Greater Attleboro began on the North Attleboro High School track in 1999. My participation started the next year and has kept me returning every year since, as a team member, captain and volunteer. (The 24th annual event will be held June 17-18 at the Norton Middle School in Massachusetts.)

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sists primarily of fieldstone quarried from the site, and gentle redwood beams help define the upper-level cupola.

Even to a Jew, I dare say, the church feels more welcoming than commanding.

This also seems true of the church’s interior, which simultaneously unifies and divides clergy and congregants. While the central pews seat perhaps 500 worshippers, the six surrounding chapels, on a slightly higher level, provide for more personal interaction – including, for example, the sacrament of confession. A few hundred worshippers may also be seated in the balcony pews – a large number compared to the coterie of monks sequestered behind the altar.

Candles often provide clues and cues inside houses of worship, but this church offers a quite dramatic interplay of light and darkness. Vertical bands of stained glass also transmit bright colors.

That’s what happened to me earlier this year, when – after procrastinating for way too long – I saw a dermatologist about a spot on my nose that turned out to be a form of skin cancer that required surgery. That prompted the doctor to do a complete skin check on me, and he found another cancerous spot, this time inside my right ear, which also required surgery about a month after the previous procedure.

I was somewhat surprised at first that I had skin cancer since on those rare times that I went to the beach, I headed for the shade and used gobs of sunscreen. But after reflection, I realized I’ve been running in the sun during warmer weather, when my head is covered with only a baseball cap, for 47 years, and sunscreen alone won’t prevent cancer.

I was nervous about the surgeries, but everything turned out well. The surgeon and her assistants were professional, compassionate and understanding, and they removed all of the cancer.

I feel guilty about sharing my experience, because over the years I’ve written about people suffering from a variety of far more

Above the central altar, a glistening, wiry web supports Christianity’s central image.

Upon exiting the darkened sanctuary, worshippers may also feel uplifted by a sea of brightness.

The Portsmouth church is both a traditional and an innovative building. As such, it represents a fresh and modest reinterpretation of architectural tradition.

Unlike Wright, Johnson, and perhaps other modernists, Belluschi found a way to balance the past and present, but also to summon younger generations.

Inevitably, I must ask myself, as a Jew, if I am somehow envious of what Belluschi achieved in Portsmouth. Probably not, because I so enjoy Percival Goodman’s masterful design of Beth-El, for example. And I can understand and treasure this synagogue in so many ways that I cannot with a church.

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serious and debilitating forms of cancer, such as the pancreatic cancer that took my cousin’s life five years ago well before his time, or the colon, lung, prostate, breast and blood cancers that claim hundreds of thousands a year, including far too many children and teens.

However, I ultimately decided to talk about it to emphasize the point that cancer is an indiscriminate disease. It’s incumbent on us to be proactive by getting screened and tested early if something looks or feels suspicious. That approach has taken on a new urgency this year after millions delayed screenings during the first two years of the pandemic, with the result that many cancers were discovered at later, more advanced, stages.

The need to get that message out is why I’ll be involved in the Relay For Life of Greater Attleboro for as long as the event exists.

LARRY KESSLER (larrythek65@gmail.com) is a freelance writer based in North Attleboro. He blogs at https://larrytheklineup. blogspot.com

that my recurring visits to Portsmouth Abbey and School are a pilgrimage? Indeed, can a pilgrimage be more or less than a religious journey?

Perhaps I reassure myself by believing that my countless visits to art museums, libraries and gardens also represent pilgrimages. But at what point does an artistic experience become subsumed by a religious one, or vice versa? Indeed, is one possible without the other?

Perhaps Judaism’s most rewarding architectural experience is a sukkah, which is hardly a building at all.

Even more architecturally problematic may be one’s encounter with, or pilgrimage to, a structure that is merely a fragment of a wall.

GEORGE M. GOODWIN, of Providence, is the editor of Rhode Island Jewish Historical Notes.

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THE JAN. 22, 2021, issue of The New York Times includes an article by Corey Kilgannon titled, “Michael Cohen’s Prison of Choice: Well-known to Jewish Offenders.”

The article identifies the minimum-security federal prison in Otisville, New York, 75 miles northwest of New York City, as the place where Cohen will serve his time. Since the prison population contains a large proportion of Jewish white-collar criminals, it actually offers Kosher meals, religious classes and weekly Shabbat services.

As Kilgannon puts it, “Otisville’s camp has long been the lockup of choice among Jewish white-collar offenders.”

In Jonathan Stone’s new novel, “The Prison Minyan,” Otisville has been turned into the setting for complex and increasingly engrossing fiction; it is a place where an assortment of New York area Jewish felons gather for the daily minyan and free-wheeling follow-up discussions led by a Reform rabbi, “Morton Meyerson: fraud, five years; embezzled $3.5 million from Agudeth Sholom, Parsippany, New Jersey.”

The all-prisoner minyan mostly consists of a clever and talkative crew,

brought together by being caught, tried and convicted for a wide variety of non-violent acts of fraud.

The men speak in a seemingly forthright manner, but are often evasive, shrewd, double-talking.

They seem ambivalent about the crimes they have committed, and – at least in the beginning – are for the most part sorry that they were stupid enough to have been caught.

To complicate matters, a new prisoner, whom they name “The Fisk,” (a fictionalized version RABBI JAMES of Michael ROSENBERG Cohen, Donald Trump’s lawyer) joins the group – and suddenly unidentified outside forces, directed by an unnamed sitting president, attempt to make Otisville ever more unpleasant both for The Fisk and his fellow prisoners.

In its opening chapters, the book is laugh-out-loud funny. For example, a sixpage chapter, titled “The Rule of Three,” focuses on “Marty Adler: matrimonial fraud, nine years; married to three women simultaneously; CEO of three family businesses concurrently.” Here we are dealing not with a bigamist, but with a trigamist!

Adler marries each of

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(JTA) – Bupkis – meaning nothing, absolutely zilch – is one of those few Yiddish words that have become part of the American lexicon. It’s also the name of Pete Davidson’s new show.

The series, which will air on NBC’s Peacock streaming service, Deadline reported on Wednesday [May 4], is a “Curb Your Enthusiasm”-style R-rated comedy that “will combine grounded storytelling with absurd elements,” and reflect Davidson’s self-deprecating sense of humor.

The title certainly makes it seem like Davidson, who found out his father was Jewish later in life, will be mining some Jewish humor for his work – or at least aping the famous “Seinfeld” tagline: “The show about nothing.”

The “Saturday Night Live” star and current Kim Kardashian squeeze has already made a feature-length comedy film based on his life, “The King of Staten Island,” with Jewish director Judd Apatow. Davidson’s character in that film, like in real life, lost his firefighter father in the Sept. 11 attacks.

The Peacock announcement comes shortly after Hasidic rapper Nissim Black announced he would be developing a new scripted TV comedy based on his life.

Davidson’s other upcoming projects including providing the voice of Marmaduke in a new animated film about the large dog, and co-starring in this summer’s dark murder-mystery comedy “Bodies Bodies Bodies,” with “Shiva Baby” star Rachel Sennott.

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his three wives during the course of a single year: one in the spring, the second in mid-summer, and in a third wedding in the fall.

As Adler explains, juggling the comings and goings of three families that all think that he is the man of their house requires “some skillful scheduling.”

The all-knowing author comments drolly: “The odd thing is, the marriages were good – all three. He was happy, his families were happy.

“Really, the only problem with it was the lies.

Mountains of lies …. And, of course, the fact that it was illegal.”

But it does not take long for the narrative to darken considerably. An upcoming chapter, with the ominous title “Auschwitz,” considers a father, Herman Nadler, prisoner at Auschwitz, and his son, prisoner at Otisville: “Simon Adler: bank fraud, five years. Fictitious loan applications, $14 million in approved loans.”

Though Simon has been in Otisville for 18 months and has 3½ years yet to serve, his father has not visited him until this very day. Again, the author’s voice: “They are both too embarrassed to see the other under these circumstances. His father survived Auschwitz, made his way to America, struggled and saved and worked and slaved, only to have his son end up in an American jail.

“As if to say, what was the point of surviving?”

When a new warden, James Jack Armstrong, arrives at Otisville, things go from bad to worse. Armstrong is a white nationalist and a rabid antisemite. One morning, he stands in front of the prisoners and barks: “Shaved heads; no facial hair; no exceptions; period.”

In addition, Warden Armstrong orders all the prisoners to change into identical old gray uniforms.

“Within an hour, they all looked like one another ….

“The identical thought spreads through the dayroom.

“We look like concentration camp inmates.

“Shorn. Dehumanized.”

As is true of many good books, “The Prison Minyan” leaves us with more questions than answers: Can prisoners do teshuvah, truly repent, while being incarcerated? Will they be changed people after serving their time, or are they sentenced to be who they really are and return to a life of crime?

We cannot know, because as the story draws to a close, all of the prison minyan are still in jail.

JAMES B. ROSENBERG is a rabbi emeritus at Temple Habonim, in Barrington. Contact him at rabbiemeritus@ templehabonim.org.

Number of antisemitic incidents surged in 2021, according to latest ADL tally

BY ASAF SHALEV (JTA) – The number of antisemitic incidents recorded by the Anti-Defamation League in the United States in 2021 reached an all-time high, according to a new report by the group.

The 2,717 incidents identified in news articles by the ADL or reported to the ADL directly in 2021

represent a 34% increase from the 2,024 incidents of antisemitism tallied by the group in 2020. Previously, the 2,107 incidents in 2019 were the highest total since the ADL began publishing annual counts in 1979.

Anything from a slur to a terror attack can be included in the tally. For the second straight year, 2021 saw no fatal incidents

tied to antisemitism in the United States, but the ADL counted 88 antisemitic assaults, a 167% increase from the 33 assaults in the 2020 count.

The group cited several reasons for the high numbers – including what the ADL said was “improved reporting” because of partnerships with multiple Jewish organizations.

The partnerships – with

several Jewish organizations including the Community Security Initiative, Community Security Service, Hillel International, Secure Community Network, Union of Reform Judaism and the United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism – were responsible for identifying 494 incidents, or 18% of the total.

The ADL also docuCONTINUED ON PAGE 13

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What do Jews say about abortion?

Your primer as the Supreme Court weighs overturning Roe v. Wade

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he Jewish Telegraphic Agency and our

partner sites at 70 Faces Media have answered the question many times over the years, a testament to its persistence in political life and its significance to American Jews: What do Jews say about abortion?

AFTER A NEW REPORT that the Supreme Court reviewed a majority opinion in February that would overturn Roe v.

Wade, the question is relevant yet again.

Here’s what we know: American Jews favor abortion rights more than any other religious group, according to public polling.

And traditional Jewish law permits (and even requires) abortion in some circumstances, particularly when the life or health of the pregnant person is at stake.

That means if the leaked Supreme Court ruling does

CONTINUED FROM PAGE 12 mented a surge in incidents linked to the May 2021 round of deadly clashes between Israel and Hamas, many of which made national headlines at the time.

“Jews were being attacked in the streets for no other reason than the fact that they were Jewish, and it seemed as if the working assumption was that if you were Jewish, you were blameworthy for what was happening half a world away,” ADL CEO Jonathan Greenblatt said in a statement.

The 297 incidents that took place during the fighting in

become the law of the land, Jewish women in dozens of states will almost certainly become unable to access care that they might well decide is required religiously.

“What Jewish community would want to continue to live in a place where they are potentially barred from following halacha (Jewish law)?” Ephraim Sherman, an Orthodox Jew and health care professional, wrote in JTA in 2019. “Is a community even allowed by halacha to continue living in such a place?”

Liberal Jews in America have been advocating for reproductive rights as long as they have been contested – so, forever. Here are stories from 1967, pre-Roe; 1989, when American Jews attended a rally protesting calls to roll back abortion rights; and 1998, when Jewish groups responded to the murder of Dr. Barnett Slepian, a New York abortion provider who was killed just after returning home from saying Kaddish for his father.

Those groups have stepped up advocacy as threats to Roe v. Wade have mounted. The National Council of Jewish Women formed Rabbis for Repro to bring abortion talk to synagogues and other Jewish spaces; Rabbi Danya Ruttenberg, the group’s scholar

May represent an increase, but the ADL recorded other spikes later in the year, without a similar trigger.

More than any single factor, Greenblatt said the overall increase in antisemitic incidents can be linked to political instability and polarization.

“When it comes to antisemitic activity in America, you cannot point to any single ideology or belief system, and in many cases, we simply don’t know the motivation,” Greenblatt said. “But we do know that Jews are experiencing more antisemitic incidents than we have in this country in at least 40 years, and that’s

in residence, has articulated groups like Agudath Israel Jewish views on abortion of America, for which I in essays and on national TV. work, have long promoted Meanwhile, Orthodox is the regulation of abortion Jews in America have through laws that generally shifted rightward in recent prohibit the unjustifiable decades. Our 2020 explorakilling of fetuses while protion of that shift suggests tecting the right to abortion that one reason it didn’t in exceptional cases.” happen earlier was RepubAn estimated quarter licans’ focus on abortion of American women will in the 1980s, which didn’t have an abortion by age 45, resonate with Orthodoxy. many Jews among them.

But recently, the alignment We’ve published first-person of Orthodoxy and Republican accounts from a few of them: politics has led to more vocal Here’s one that our partners participation by Orthodox at Kveller, the Jewish parentJews in abortion discourse. ing site, published last year, from a rabbi and mother who In 2019, when New York desperately wanted the pregwidened its abortion law, several Orthodox groups nancy she ended. condemned the move. Some And here’s a self-described “very Jewish” story from a Orthodox women questioned rabbi who says she had an why they would oppose a abortion “simply” because change that made it easier she didn’t want to be pregto follow rabbinic advice.

At the time, an Orthodox nant – a choice that she says leader argued in a JTA essay Jewish tradition protects, that “rights” are too. the wrong way “If to talk about the ‘we can explain anyone Jewish stance tries to that our religious on abortion. argue that “Blanket bans abortion freedom demands on abortion, to restricbe sure, would tions are deprive Jewish that we have access’ justified women of the under the ability to act responsibly in prerogative of religious freecases where abortion is haladom, we can explain that our chically required,” wrote the religious freedom demands leader, Rabbi Avi Shafran. that we have access to abor“And so, what Orthodox tion care when it is needed

a deeply troubling indicator of larger societal fissures.”

Nearly 20% of the incidents the ADL tallied last year were attributable to rightwing actors, according to the report, which notes a sharp rise in the distribution of antisemitic pamphlets by groups such as the Goyim Defense League. A man set fire to a synagogue last October in Austin, Texas, shortly after the group held a rally there.

The Anti-Defamation League has lately faced criticism over both its overall strategy and its specific efforts to tally antisemitic incidents. Right-wing critics

have charged that the group has abandoned its focus on Jewish security and, in the course of doing so, has grown concerned only with antisemitism on the right. Meanwhile, left-wing critics have argued that the group too easily conflates Israel criticism and antisemitism, leading to an inflated measure of hatred against Jews.

In a field where a number of newer entrants have adopted a combative approach to identifying and fighting antisemitism, the ADL has said that it remains committed to applying traditional research methods to its work. When it announced the Hillel partner-

and wanted,” wrote the rabbi, Rachael Pass.

And a longtime Jewish feminist, Barbara Dobkin, recalled how she helped a friend get an illegal abortion in 1966. “What about the crisis of losing the right to make decisions about our own bodies?” she asked.

“Where is the communal outcry about that?”

That outcry is being felt today as the leaked Supreme Court opinion resonates across the country. It remains to be seen whether the final decision matches the draft; the court generally releases most of its rulings each year in June.

But we know that legal analysts are already envisioning a Jewish woman as the perfect plaintiff for a case challenging a ruling overturning Roe v. Wade.

We know that the National Council of Jewish Women is planning a Jewish Rally for Abortion Justice in Washington, D.C., on May 17 and that Jewish reproductive-rights advocates are planning for a post-Roe world.

And we know that for Orthodox groups, the balancing act between backing Republicans and defending Jewish law and the right to follow it just got harder.

ship last year, for example, the group emphasized that it would not automatically count Israel criticism as evidence of antisemitism, and that it would seek to independently verify incidents of antisemitism reported to it. Last month, the group announced that it had developed an algorithm to track antisemitism on social media – a project that it had taken on because social media companies had not, ADL officials said.

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Swing into spring with a special dessert (FAMILY FEATURES) – It’s tough to top the joy of a spring morning spent celebrating with family, enjoying a delicious brunch or snacking on sweet treats. With warmer weather and bright sunshine comes plenty of opportunities to enjoy favorite recipes.

Celebrating the season with eggs can bring loved ones together in the kitchen and beyond, from crafting classic desserts to serving up new delights.

Plus, the versatility of eggs allows for nearly countless creations.

Boiled, scrambled, poached, baked and any

other way you like them, eggs can be your kitchen superhero. As a natural source of vitamins and minerals, they’re a delicious protein powerhouse with just 70 calories per large egg.

Make the celebration truly memorable with the power of eggs in a sweet dessert like these Meringue Nests with Vanilla Bean Whipped Cream and Strawberries, a perfect option for topping off a brunch feast or an afternoon meal.

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Meringue Nests with Vanilla Bean Whipped Cream and Strawberries Recipe courtesy of the American Egg Board and Sam Adler (@frostingandfettucine) Prep time: 15 minutes Total time: 6 hours Servings: 6

INGREDIENTS MERINGUE NESTS: 1 1/4 cups granulated sugar 6 large eggs 1 teaspoon cream of tartar 1 teaspoon vanilla extract 2 teaspoons cornstarch

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medium until mixed through and meringue does not feel gritty.

Add cream of tartar, vanilla extract and cornstarch. Increase to high speed and beat until stiff peaks form.

On two parchment paperlined baking sheets, pipe or spread meringue with spoon into six 4-inch circular “nests.”

Bake 1 hour, 15 minutes then turn off oven and let meringues cool without opening oven for at least 4 hours or overnight. The USDA recommends egg dishes be cooked to 160 degrees F. TO MAKE GARNISH: When ready to serve, in clean mixing bowl fitted with whip attachment, whip heavy whipping cream on medium speed. Slowly add sugar and vanilla. Continue mixing on high speed 2-3 minutes until stiff peaks form.

Dollop whipped cream on meringue nests and top with sliced strawberries.

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Our dogs bring out the best in us

BY RABBI HOWARD VOSSALTMAN I MADE A NEW FRIEND last month. Just a few minutes before, we were strangers, but it didn’t take long for us to realize that we had more in common than we expected.

I discovered that she was a Unitarian minister with a small but active congregation. I shared that I was a rabbi with a small but active congregation. I found out that her daughter had recently become engaged to a Jewish man who had emigrated from Russia by way of Israel.

Of course, I asked about their wedding plans. To my new friend’s chagrin, it was going to be a “secular” wedding, officiated by a friend, with some “traditions from both sides.”

We chatted about Passover, the changes we’ve seen in religious life since the pandemic began, and what it was like to move from live services to Zoom services and

then back again.

It was a lovely conversation, and it happened for one reason, and one reason only.

We met, and shared our lives, because of our dogs. We were at the dog park on Waterman Street, in Providence, right next to the Henderson Bridge.

She had a beautiful English Setter that chased after her ball with an enthusiasm that was a marvel to behold. And I had my two dogs, Bernie, a mellow, fluffy Golden Retriever, and Nala, an alert, but shy Canaan Dog (Canaans are Israel’s native dog breed).

While the English Setter chased her ball, my two puppies, showing little to no interest in this game, waited patiently for her to return.

And while our dogs were playing together, we had an opportunity for connection.

And the most wonderful thing is that this happens all the time.

It happens at dog parks, on walking paths and in state parks. It happens in our neighborhood, where,

while walking Nala, I have met more people than would have been possible without her. And no matter where we walk, there are always other dog owners who stop to greet us, enabling the dogs – and us – to enjoy a visit. Even non-dog owners (we call them “dog-adjacent”) stop to admire Nala and ask about her breed.

During this unusual time, when our inclination has been to turn inward, it has been a challenge to meet new people. But a dog, because of its need for exercise, stimulation and training, requires us to turn toward the world, to engage with others. And, more often than not, we find common ground.

All dog owners already share one important perspective – their mutual love and affection for their dog – and on that basis alone, a connection can occur.

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polarizing our society. With our dogs, we can exchange all of their adorable idiosyncrasies, being reasonably sure that our new acquaintance will identify with our stories. We may not have much more in common than our dogs, but at the very least we have a starting point, a place to begin.

The family dogs.

In the Fourth Commandment, ple who stop and chat with God declares that we shall strangers; the ones who make keep the Sabbath holy by a fuss (and endlessly praise) ensuring that “your cattle” for the slightest accomplishshall do no work (Exodus ment; and the ones who, no 20:10). This law teaches us matter what kind of day we’re that we must remember the having, give our dogs and cats animals who live with us, the warm, affectionate greetwork with us, and depend on ings they deserve. us for their well-being. The Just think of how different rabbis knew that if we were the world would be if we were kind and compassionate to as kind to our neighbors as the animals we lived with, we are to our dogs. Or, as then surely we would be even one of my favorite sayings more compassionate to our suggests: “Be the person your kin and our neighbors, our dog thinks you are.” fellow human beings.

Wishing everyone a But maybe the relationship healthy, peaceful summer. between animals and human Happy walking! beings is not as one-sided as the rabbis imagined. Maybe HOWARD VOSS-ALTMAN is the our pets – at least our dogs rabbi at Temple Habonim, in and our cats – help us to Barrington. be our best selves; the peo-

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Our annual showcase of pets

Ten-year-old Breeze lives with Gabrielle Dworkin of Warwick.

Elsie is the faithful friend of Karen Borger of Providence.

Steve and Nelson watching the news.

Nelson is owned by Judy and Steve Gordon of Cumberland.

Snoopy belongs to Rivi Feinsilber of Providence.

Basil belongs to Lisa Maybruch, manager of Adult Programs at the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island.

Harry is Jewish Rhode Island advertising director Peter Zeldin's grandpup. He recently celebrated his first birthday

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Talulah belongs to Suzanne Grossman of Riverside.

Lilly is the faithful friend of Beverly Paris.

Kirby belongs to Shira Olson and Scott MacPhee of Providence. The miniature schnauzer. Celebrated his first birthday on March 7!

Charlotte is Jewish Rhode Island editor Fran Ostendorf's companion.

Bagel lives with Lisa Kotlen in Coventry. He is a 4-year-old rescue.

Jill whose real name is Magellan belongs to Claire Uziel, endowment/campaign operations manager at the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island.

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Ketzel belongs to Yehudah and Marcia Selinger of Barrington.

Bellatrix and Sylvester belong to Susan Edmiston.

Phantom, the Jack Russell terrier, and Sherlock Holmes live with Scott and Mitzvah Williams in North Kingstown.

Teddy belongs to Rachel Hurlich of East Greenwich. He was born on July 4.

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Finnegan, a Norwegian forest rescue cat, belongs to Cliff and Karen Drucker Stern of Pawtucket.

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Speakers offer healthy solutions to the problem of hate

Arno Michaelis and Pardeep Singh Kaleka.

BY EMMA NEWBERY

On April 7, the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island

second experience of the

welcomed Pardeep Singh Kaleka and Arno Michaelis for same rock-bottom feeling an evening of conversation around a crucial question: Why do we hate?

Over 50 participants from across Rhode Island gathered at the Alliance’s Dwares Jewish Community Center in Providence to hear Kaleka and Michaelis, who are uniquely prepared to address this question.

AS A CHILD, Kaleka, his parents and brother emigrated from Punjab, India, and made a home in Milwaukee, the same city in Wisconsin where Michaelis grew up.

In 2012, the two were brought together by a tragedy. On April 5, 2012, Wade Michael Page, an avowed white supremacist and a member of Hammerskin Nation, shot and killed seven people at the Sikh Temple of Wisconsin.

Kaleka’s father, Satwant Singh Kaleka, was the presi-

dent and a founding member of the temple and was among Page’s victims.

At the time, Michaelis was two years out of the same hate group that Page belonged to – he had left extremism behind and had co-founded Life After Hate, an organization dedicated to helping people leave the violent far-right, connect with humanity, and lead compassionate lives. However, as he put it, the mass shooting at the temple in Oak Creek, Wisconsin, was almost a

that had compelled him to leave extremism behind. “[The shooting] really brought my dedication up to the next level, and drove home the crucial nature of the work,” Michaelis said.

To call Kaleka and Michaelis an unlikely pair is an understatement, but only at the most superficial level. When they first met, at a Thai restaurant in the fall of 2012, they quickly pushed past initial impressions and reservations to get to the heart of what they both cared about: transforming the legacy of hate that extremism had created in their community and beyond.

Ten years later, they both approach the insidiousness of hate with unflinching authenticity, and rely on each other in every aspect of their work. Kaleka and Michaelis now work with Parents For Peace, encour-

aging outward-facing acts of service and community-building for youths struggling with their attraction to hate. They call this initiative Serve 2 Unite.

“Serve 2 Unite was born … days after the shooting happened,” Kaleka said.

“It called on all of us to ask ourselves: What is going to define what just happened here? Is it going to be hate?

Is it going to be the attacker?

Or is it going to be the community who rises up and addresses that?

“Serve 2 Unite was formed with that intention: to make sure that we, the loving community, were going to define the response.”

After some time educating the community about Sikhism and engaging the youth in the temple, Kaleka took time to reflect, and realized the route the organization needed to take: “We saw what was missing was really the need for us to commit ourselves to ser-

vice.”

Michaelis agreed, and immediately became involved.

“Serve 2 Unite is the perfect answer to violent extremist narratives, both in a prevention sense and in an intervention sense,” Michaelis said. “Working with all these people and talking to ‘formers’ from every violent extremist background you can imagine, it becomes really apparent that there are basic human needs that violent extremist ideologies prey upon.

“People who don’t have healthy answers are really vulnerable to being swept up in violent extremist ideologies that provide very seductive, exciting, but extremely toxic answers to those needs.”

That’s where service work comes in.

“When young people, or people of any age, get together, and they roll up their sleeves, and they do physical work to improve their community, it answers those same needs in a very healthy way. If you can introduce people to service and teach them the selfvalue that you gain from serving other people, that helps them move forward.”

To hear more from Michaelis and Kaleka, tune in to their “Breakout Sessions” interview at jewishrhody.org/podcasts/.

Their book, “The Gift of Our Wounds” (St. Martin’s Press, 2018), can be purchased online and in stores.

For more information on their work, go to giftofourwounds.com.

EMMA NEWBERY (enewbery@ jewishallianceri.org) produces podcasts for the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island. She also writes for Jewish Rhode Island and the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island.

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Widely traveled rabbi brings new energy to Temple Shalom

BY ROBERT ISENBERG

T

o give you a sense of Rabbi Daniel Kripper’s life, consider his visit to Aruba. In 2013, Kripper was living in his native Argentina

when he was invited to the Caribbean island to lead a seder at Beth Israel Synagogue. Rabbi Kripper obliged – and then stayed in Aruba for six years.

“TRAVEL MAKES my perspective richer, wider,” Kripper said in a recent interview.

He said that when he sees fellow rabbis who remained in Buenos Aires, he sometimes feels a disconnect.

“For me, there is such a large difference in our worldview, our experiences. I see the world with a macro-perspective,” he said.

In February, Kripper moved to Rhode Island to become the rabbi at Temple Shalom, in Middletown, which is celebrating its 60th anniversary this year.

Kripper and his wife, Flora Brykman, live in Lincoln. This is not their first time living in the United States: The couple previously lived in Pennsylvania, where Kripper was president of the Greater Pittsburgh Rabbinical Association. One of

their sons lives in Boston and the two others are in Colorado and Montevideo, Uruguay.

Temple Shalom immediately made a strong impression on Kripper.

“It was love at first sight.

Love has no explanation.

We hit it off,” he says.

Growing up in Buenos Aires, Kripper was always a dedicated Hebrew student, but he chose to study sociology at Buenos Aires University instead of pursuing the rabbinate.

Kripper moved to Israel in 1966. He was already fluent in scriptural and spoken Hebrew, but when he first interacted with a merchant, the man scoffed and said, “Please stop speaking the Hebrew of Shabbat.”

For three and a half years, Kripper immersed himself in modern Israeli life, including the “lan-

guage of the street.”

During this time, he became enamored of Talmudic scholarship and decided to study at Hebrew University of Jerusalem.

After he returned to Buenos Aires, Kripper was ordained by the Latin Rabbinical Seminary.

Kripper said his assistantship to Rabbi Marshall T. Meyer, a legendary human-rights activist in Argentina, was a formative experience for him.

“He was our Martin Luther King,” Kripper said.

“He was a hero. I was his right-hand man at the seminario [seminary]. It was my greatest privilege.”

The arc of Kripper’s life has transcended borders and languages, including long stints in the U.S., Aruba and Uruguay. He has met and studied with many influential figures, including the writer and Holocaust survivor Aharon Appelfeld. His roles have ranged from serving as a chaplain in Pittsburgh’s Shadyside Hospital to authoring several books.

One of these books, “Vivir con Mayuscula” – “Living Fully” in English – was published in 2018 (an English version is scheduled to be released in October). Kripper was on a book tour in 2020, when the

Rabbi Daniel Kripper pandemic descended and the tour was made virtual.

This is how Kripper, who was living in Aruba, was invited to make a virtual presentation about his book to Temple Shalom.

The Zoom presentation began an ongoing conversation between Kripper and the temple’s cantor, Fred Scheff.

Temple Shalom is a small congregation, and the rabbi position was vacant at the time. As the temple’s 60th anniversary approached, the congregation invited Kripper to become the rabbi and help reenergize the temple. Kripper and his wife were only too happy

to move back to the U.S., where they could be close to their son in Boston.

“I think [Temple Shalom] has a lot of potential as a Jewish center,” Kripper said. “They’re very idealistic people, and they have strong motivation, which is what you need to make it grow. It’s a fresh start, reviving the old spirit.”

ROBERT ISENBERG (risenberg@ jewishallianceri.org) is the multimedia producer for the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island and a writer for Jewish Rhode Island.

Zeidman honored with Mensch of the Year award

BY FRAN OSTENDORF MAY-RONNY ZEIDMAN received the Sy Dill Mensch of the Year award from the Rhode Island Coalition for Israel (RICI) during a virtual program on April 24.

Zeidman, a former executive director of the Sandra Bornstein Holocaust Education Center, in Providence, received the 2021 award from Judi Dill, the widow of Sy Dill, for her critical role in guiding the SBHEC through the adoption of the International Holocaust Remem-

brance Alliance Working Definition of Anti-Semitism.

After the award presentation, Zeidman spoke on the topic of “Back to the Future.

Holocaust Education: Where Have We Been? Where Are We Going?” She addressed such issues as whether Holocaust education centers should make fighting antisemitism part of their core mission – which she believes they should.

Zeidman spoke about the rise of Holocaust education during her 16 years working with the Holocaust center.

“Education must continue to remind people” of what can happen, she said. “People have short memories.”

‘It is time to see into the future and change the paradigm’ “It is time to see into the future and change the paradigm,” she said. “We must fight Jew hatred and antisem-

itism. We cannot stop it, but we must speak out and say ‘this is not OK.’ “We must tell the stories of Jews protecting Jews and Jews supporting the state of Israel.”

A robust question-and-answer session followed the presentation.

RICI initiated the Mensch of the Year Award in 2019 to reward extraordinary effort by ordinary Rhode Islanders in the fight against Jewish hatred and in support of Israel.

In 2020, the Mensch of the

Year Award was named in memory of Sy Dill, a founding member and supporter of RICI who passed away that year. Previous awards have gone to Lt. Col. Joe Philbin of the R.I. State Police, now retired, and Brian Goldman, CEO of Big Blue Bug Solutions, in Providence.

FRAN OSTENDORF (fostendorf@jewishallianceri. org) is the editor of Jewish Rhode Island.

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Knit Happens features gorgeous yarns, curated collections and community

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ven experienced knitters need to tink (unknit one stitch at a time) and frog

(rip out several rows) to get to and correct their mistakes.

UNTIL VERY RECENTLY, I generally gave up and lived with my mistakes, started over, or threw myself on the mercy of a more skilled knitter, such as Susan Odessa, who owns Knit Happens, on Providence’s East Side.

After discovering a complicated problem on my nearly finished sweater, I remembered seeing Odessa’s February email announcing the opening of Knit Happens. I was delighted, and relieved, to connect with Odessa, who painlessly got me back on track.

Odessa, whose maternal grandmother, Lil Chorney, taught her how to knit, is a warm, reassuring and highly competent presence at Knit Happens, which is replete with samples of handmade baby clothes and stuffed animals she’s knit; carefully curated collections of gorgeous yarns and knitting supplies for sale; and comfortable seating for drop-in knitting sessions and private lessons.

I talked with Odessa to learn more about the inspiration behind Knit Happens, and her tips for knitters. As we talked, a woman from Scotland, who is an experienced knitter, and her daughter-in-law, a novice knitter, came in to buy yarn and exchange knitting stories.

Their conversation with Odessa about which yarns to purchase and what to make – slouchy socks, a shrug, something else? – showed how seamlessly knitting can bring people together.

Early in the COVID-19 pandemic,

Odessa saw a surge of people wanting to knit and crochet.

Even in the pandemic’s earliest days, in March 2020, a story in Forbes magazine, “Knitting Has Become the Cool Activity During the Coronavirus Crisis,” reported: “Since the coronavirus hit, global sales for We Are Knitters, a beloved brand [which Knit Happens sells] known for its bagged kits and vibrant community, have been increasing more than 75% weekly.”

While Odessa is the only knitter in her family, Knit Happens is a family affair: her husband of 40 years, Susan Odessa with yarn and friends.

Ed, offers financial support and strategic sales acumen; choosing a project. If it’s too daughter Brooke Spence provides complicated or involves learning marketing advice; and son Ben too many new stitches, you’re offers business advice. not likely to complete the projThe following Q&A, from a ect. Even experienced chefs read recent interview, has been lightly a new recipe before they begin edited for clarity. cooking!

Q: How did Knit Happens evolve from your e-commerce presence into a shop?

A: There’s nothing like touching and seeing first-hand the yarns you want to buy; you can’t do that online. But even more, I wanted to replicate the sense of community among knitters who had knit at Wayland Yarn in Pawtucket.

Groups of women would gather together for help, inspiration and advice. I met women I would never have otherwise known, and many of them have become dear friends.

Q: You’ve been a serious knitter for more than a quarter-century. Can you share some of your best knitting tips?

A: Yes, these are some hard-earned valuable lessons I’ve learned: • Read the entire pattern before

• When you buy multiple skeins of the same yarn for a project, make sure all the skeins have the identical weight and dye lot number. That’s something I learned the hard way!

• Invest in good-quality yarn; if you’re going to make something for yourself or for a special gift, don’t use yarn that won’t hold up well.

• You want your finished product – whether it’s a scarf, a blanket or a coat – to look that way. The careful attention to detail – neatly made buttonholes, even seams and neat edges – makes your knitted project look handmade, not homemade.

• Recognize your skills and preferences. (Odessa admits to having been a “remedial student” when she made a crocheted jacket, and she hires someone to seam together the pieces of her more elaborate sweaters and coats.)

• There’s help to be had at Knit Happens, from other knitters, and from YouTube videos, which have instructions on all knitting challenges.

Knitting is my happy place; it can be yours, too.

NANCY KIRSCH is a freelance writer.

She was the editor of The Jewish Voice from 2009-2014. Contact her at writernancy@gmail.com.

Knit Happens Where: 189 Governor St., Level 1, Providence.

Parking at rear of the building.

Hours: Open for knitting help, Mondays, 10– noon, $20 a session, and Sit and Knit sessions, Mondays, noon–4 p.m., Thursdays and Fridays, 11 a.m.–4 p.m., Saturdays, 10 a.m.–2 p.m. Free.

Private lessons and appointments: Contact the store to schedule one or more.

Upcoming: Stuffed animal class.

Contact: www.knithappensllc.net; susan@ knithappensllc.net; 401-524-8750.

On Instagram: knithappensri (store) and sosweetknits (Odessa’s baby blankets and stuffed animals).

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RESIDENTS AND STAFF of The Highlands on the East Side enjoyed donating to the Louis and Goldie Chester Full Plate Kosher Food Pantry, part of Jewish Collaborative Services. The drive was held from March 14 to April 8.

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RIIC names 2 winners in its startup competition

BY SETH CHITWOOD PROVIDENCE – Israel-based NakAI Robotics and Rhode Island-based Jaia Robotics have won the BlueTech Startup Competition, awarded by the Rhode Island Israel Collaborative in collaboration with Innovate Newport, the Greater Newport Chamber of Commerce and HUBASHDOD Israel on April 14.

According to RIIC’s website, NakAI Robotics is a cutting-edge nautical conditioning-and-inspection solutions company aimed at preserving and improving the ocean’s health by significantly reducing millions of tons of air and water pollution.

NakAI is building a fully support startups and connect autonomous hull-cleaning them with strategic partners, robot that will travel with a mentors and resources. ship and remove early-stage Specifically, the program slime and bio-fouling while seeks to create connections vessels are in transit. between the Ashdod Bluetech Jaia Robotics, of Jamesecosystem, in Israel, and town, is a world-leading expert in autonomous ‘This activity should aquatic data-collection systems. According to be celebrated by the the company’s website, Jaia.tech, its microJewish community and sized autonomous robotic system collects data from the surface to the community at large’ depths of 100 meters in oceans, surf zones, estuthe Rhode Island Bluetech aries, rivers and lakes. ecosystem. The winners will Launched on Feb. 22, 2022, receive a cash prize as well as the goal of the BlueTech a customized trip, including Startup Competition is to

Messages of kindness on Yom HaShoah PROVIDENCE – On the evening of composer was played as a tribute to the Ukrainian people. The April 27, more than 200 people gathered at the Holocaust Memo- most moving part of the program was the words spoken by rial for Yom HaShoah, Holofive local Holocaust survivors: caust Remembrance Day. This Andrew Algava, Alice Eichenwas the first time this day was commemorated at the memorial. baum, Ruth Oppenheim, Elizabeth Sandy and Ada Winsten.

The community program began Each shared their hopes for the with over 30 Brown/RISD Hillel future. Their students lining words were the path to the memorial, while ‘Go do something all different but one of the Rabbi Sarah Mack of Temple Beth-El kind for someone messages each conveyed was in Providence led the necessity survivors and this week.’ of kindness second-generation today’s world. survivors in placAs Ada Winsten says to every ing a candle on the Life Stone, class and group she speaks the large rock at the center of to: “Go do something kind for the memorial. someone this week.” We should Rabbis from all across Rhode all listen to and abide by those Island led traditional prayers, wise words. and members of the interfaith community recited prayers for peace. Musical compositions Submitted by Wendy Joering, were played to honor those we executive director, Sandra have lost and those who surBornstein Holocaust Education vived. A piece by a Ukrainian Center

flights to the partnering country, where the winner will have access to personal introductions, meetings and co-working space.

“We are an all-volunteer organization, including myself, and we would love to see more participation from others and support in the Jewish community,” said Avi Nevel, president and CEO of RIIC. On April 11, RIIC received the 2022 Rhode Island Foundation Best Practice Award for its Latino Web Page project, which helps R.I.-based Latino business owners with their online presence and matches them with college students pursuing majors in

design, business, marketing and web-based technology.

“This activity should be celebrated by the Jewish community and the community at large as it builds relationships between people for the better good of all,” Nevel said.

To learn more about RIIC, go to www.theriic.org.

SETH CHITWOOD (www. sethchitwood.com), of Barrington, is a features reporter for The StandardTimes, in New Bedford. He is also the creative director of the award-winning Angelwood Pictures production company.

Swimmers take fifth in Florida swim competition

BY EMILY O’CONNOR THE 2022 BOYS & GIRLS CLUB National Swimming Championships were held April 8-10 in St. Petersburg, Florida.

Seven TigerSharks swimmers from the Dwares Jewish Community Center in Providence competed at the Northshore

Aquatic Complex, a 22-lane outdoor pool against the top Boys & Girls Club swimmers from across the country. The team was part of 52 swimmers from the RIMA Swim League team and came in fifth place overall out of the 11 competing teams. Here is a re-cap of the swimmer’s successes:

9- and 10-year-old division: Dorian Maher - 6th 100 Free, 6th 100 Back, 7th 100 Breast, 8th 50 Breast MacKenzie Maher - 5th 50 Fly, 8th 100 Fly

11- and 12-year-old division: Bonnie Arrigo - 5th 50 Back, 5th 100 Back, 11th 50 Fly, 12th 100 Fly, 13th 50 Free, 17th 100 IM Emily Tonino - 8th 50 Free, 8th 100 Fly, 8th 100 Breast, 9th 50 Breast, 10th 100 IM, 10th 50 Fly

13- and 14-year-old division: Ava Dougherty - 11th in 200 Breast, 18th 100 Breast, 19th 200 IM Julia Yakirevich - 14th 50 Free, 19th 100 Free

15- to 18-year-old division: Morgan Maher (also a JCC swim instructor)-15th in the 200 fly For more information on the TigerSharks swim team, contact coach Emily O’Connor at eoconnor@jewishallianceri.org.

EMILY O’CONNOR is the director of aquatics and head swim coach at the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island.

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Touro talk to shine spotlight on 18th, 19th-century U.S. synagogues

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EWPORT – The second program in the Touro Synagogue Foundation’s 2022 Judah Touro Program Series will feature Mark W. Gordon’s

virtual talk, “Rediscovering Jewish Infrastructure: Showcasing Surviving Eighteenth and Nineteenth Century Synagogues in America,” on May 19.

THE ILLUSTRATED lecture is based on three articles Gordon has written for American Jewish History, the journal of the American Jewish Historical Society.

Gordon’s research and urban exploration has revealed that a surprising number of early synagogues survive, many through adaptive reuse. His work also underscores the importance of preserving and interpreting Touro Synagogue, America’s oldest extant synagogue

(1763).

The May 19 program will feature a number of historic synagogues, including the Prince Street Synagogue (Congregation Oheb Shalom), in Newark, New Jersey.

Gordon spearheaded the preservation and adaptive reuse of the synagogue, which was built in 1884.

The program will be held on Thursday, May 19, at 7:30 p.m. There is no fee, but reservations are required to receive the Zoom login infor-

mation. To make a reservation, visit the “Events” page at tourosynagogue. org, or use this link: tinyurl.com/6cfh8df3.

Please also “save the date” for the next talk in the series, the evening of Thursday, June 2, via Zoom. Details to follow.

For more information or assistance with registration, contact Meryle Cawley at 401-847-4794, ext.

207, or meryle@tourosynagogue.org.

The Touro Synagogue, a National Historic Site, has re-opened five days a Prince Street Synagogue, Newark, New Jersey week for the 2022 season.

History presentations will Foundation is a 501(c)(3) For more information once again take place inside not-for-profit, nonsectarian about the Touro Synagogue the synagogue building, organization dedicated to Foundation, go to tourosynawhich had been closed for promoting and teaching gogue.org. two years due to COVID religious diversity, colonial restrictions.

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For mahjong players, April is about more than Pesach

BY SETH CHITWOOD

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or most of us, the week after the seder is spent enjoying

leftovers, cleaning all the seder dishes and keeping Pesach – but for mahjong players, it’s time to start memorizing the new card.

EVERY APRIL, the National Mah Jongg League releases a new card full of new combinations to be played in standard games.

“This is a hard card … but I said that about last year’s one too,” said Judy Menton,

while playing with the 2022 card at United Brothers Synagogue, in Bristol. Menton has been playing with a mahjong group weekly for almost five years – which means five new cards.

“Time to start relearning again,” she said.

Changing the card yearly can help level the playing field for players of varying skills.

Another player at United Brothers Synagogue, Faye Dion, said, “I’m used to being able to have multiple hands in my head at once.

Now I can only do one until [I] fully learn the new card.”

This year, the National Mah Jongg League celebrates its 85th anniversary.

According to its website, www.nationalmahjong-

gleague.org, the organization was formed when a number of mahjong enthusiasts met in New York City to standardize the game.

The league started with 32 members – and today has over 350,000.

Dion said changing the card adds a new challenge, which can be disorienting, but players “eventually get used to it.”

She said she also plays online, at RealMahongg. com, to help learn the new combinations.

“That’s how you really learn it,” Dion advised.

Miriam Katz agrees. She has a group she plays with on the website. “It was slow going for all of us, and we all felt very tired because the new card required so much

concentration,” she said about a recent session.

She added, “We only played five games in three hours … but that was also due to a lot of chatting.”

Katz and her group Zoom together while playing online, so they can see one another. She said she also plays against the computer and random online players when she has time.

“I’ve played so many games that after awhile you start to get tired of it. I’m really ready for something new,” she said. “This new card looks like it’ll be a fun one.”

Leslie Katz, no relation to Miriam Katz, plays with a small group from Barrington and East Providence. They take turns

playing in one another’s homes.

“I think that it has some different options, and some good combinations that I’m glad to see again,” she said of the new card.

“In the beginning, you’re constantly looking, and checking yourself, and making sure you’re doing it right,” she said, before adding: “But I’ll get more confident with it soon.”

SETH CHITWOOD (www. sethchitwood.com), of Barrington, is a features reporter for The StandardTimes, in New Bedford. He is also the creative director of the award-winning Angelwood Pictures production company.

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Arts Emanu-El to screen 2 films about Scandinavia during WWII

BY PAMELA HANZEL ARTS EMANU-EL is streaming eye-opening films about Denmark and Norway during World War II as its May events.

These two countries are a study in contrasts since the Jews of Denmark fared well during the war, and most survived, while in Norway most of the Jews were taken to the Auschwitz concentration camp and perished.

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“What makes the movie during WWII. Kauffmann rejected Please contact the Temple Ema‘Betrayed’ work is the actors’ strong directives from his country’s nu-El office, at 401-331-1616, for ticket performances, which make vivid the collaborationist Foreign Affairs prices and the link to purchase sense of family and how it sustained Ministry and set in motion a daring, tickets. the characters through the bleakest complicated framework to represent moments,” Hannah Brown wrote in PAMELA HANZEL is the chair of Arts independent, “free Denmark.” the Jerusalem Post.

“BETRAYED” may be viewed on Even- Emanu-El at Temple Emanu-El, in The second film, “The Good TraiProvidence. tive from noon on Thursday, May 5, tor,” is also historical fiction. The until 11:59 p.m. on Monday, May 9.

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Acclaimed Jewish a cappella group Six13 to perform at Temple Emanu-El PROVIDENCE – Temple Emanu-El will host a performance by the award-winning vocal a cappella band Six13 on May 15 as part of Arts Emanu-El and the temple’s Spring Celebration.

Juxtaposing the traditional and the contemporary, Six13 is on a mission to use music to connect Jews around the world with their heritage.

The group is known for its soulful harmonies and intricate arrangements, and its dynamic, full-band sound.

Six13 is composed of members with various Jewish backgrounds and has performed worldwide. The band’s name comes from the 613 mitzvot, or commandments, that Jews should follow.

“It’s such a thrill to be welcoming Six13 to Providence,” Temple Emanu-El’s cantor, Brian Mayer, said. “This group is world-class, truly phenomenal!”

Six13 will perform at Temple Emanu-El, 99 Taft Ave., Providence, on Sunday, May 15, at noon. The cost is $10 for temple members, $18 for non-members. To purchase tickets, go to www.teprov.org/ form/Six13.

Six13’s performance will headline Emanu-El’s Spring Celebration, which honors the congregation’s past, present and future. Festivities include the dedication of the Rabbi Wayne Franklin Wing, the Religious School closing ceremony, a community brunch and a congregational photo.

Six13 has performed on The Today Show, The View, CBS and CNN, and has been featured in The Huffington Post, Time Magazine and more. For more information about the band, go to www.six13.com.

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Israeli Culture Series to present ‘Dreaming Israel Through Three Generations’

BY LARRY KATZ THIS MONTH’S ISRAELI Culture Series program will feature Sigal Kanotopsky, a member of the Center for Ethiopian Jewry Heritage, discussing the challenges faced by Ethiopian Jews and the contributions of women to Israeli society, as told through the stories of her family.

The program, “Dreaming Israel Through Three Generations,” will be held on Zoom on May 11.

Women throughout the world have made huge contributions to Israel and the Jewish world.

Kanotopsky will discuss how she, her mother and her daughter have impacted Israel and how it all began. She will detail how her mother played an important role in bringing the family from Ethiopia to the Holy Land, how her daughter became a journalist in the military, how women collectively have shaped Israeli society, and what’s on the horizon for women in Israel.

Kanotopsky recently became the director of the U.S. Northeast region of The Jewish Agency for Israel (JAFI). Prior to joining JAFI, she served as vice president

of resource development at MAOZ, and as CEO of Olim Be’yachad, a nonprofit that aims to change perceptions and eliminate racism in Israeli society through employment and media.

Kanotopsky has been recognized as a leader in social change, receiving awards such as the Rappaport Prize, for women leading breakthroughs, and being named one of the 50 most socially influential leaders for 2018 by the Yediot Aharonot newspaper.

The free program, which is co-sponsored by JAFI, will take place on Wednesday, May 11, at 7 p.m. on Zoom. Register at https://www.jewishallianceri.org/ics-may/ For more information about the program or the monthly Israeli Culture Series, contact Amit Moshe Oren at 401-4214111 or AOren@jewishallianceri.org.

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SANDRA AND FRED BROWN of Boynton Beach, Florida, formerly of Rhode Island, recently celebrated their 65th wedding anniversary at a special Shabbat service held at their current synagogue.

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OBITUARIES Eleanor Dain, 89

SOUTH KINGSTOWN, R.I. – Eleanor H. Dain passed away peacefully on April 7, 2022, at HopeHealth Hulitar Hospice Center. She was a well-respected teacher and 60-year resident of Kingston. Eleanor was born in South Orange, New Jersey, and grew up in Maplewood, New Jersey. She was the daughter of the late Harry and Rose (Marshak) Horowitz and, for 64 years, the beloved wife of the late Dr. Joel A. Dain. She was the devoted mother of Peter J. Dain, M.D. (Deborah Blicher) of Sudbury, Massachusetts, Jonathan L. Dain (Karen Kainer) of Gainesville, Florida, and Leonard E. Dain (Ivetia Paniagua) of Seattle, Washington; and dear sister of the late Joan Harrison.

She was the adoring grandmother of Kristina, Max, Rebekah, Beatrice, Joshua and Isabel whose lives she followed with great interest, excitement and love.

Professionally, Eleanor was a graduate of Douglas College (Rutgers), Class of ’54 and earned master’s degrees in education from both Rhode Island College and the University of Rhode Island. She became a “resource teacher” and was passionate about helping children on all edges of the learning spectrum, especially those needing extra help in math and reading. She believed deeply that all children could succeed if given the right opportunities and support. Eleanor began her career at Columbia High School in New Jersey and, once settled in South County, taught at Peace Dale Elementary, Wakefield Elementary, Matunuck Elementary, West Kingston Elementary and South Road Elementary schools. She was a member of the Rhode Island Teacher’s Association, Hadassah, the League of Women Voters and a board member (secretary) for the Kingston Water Board.

She volunteered energetically throughout her life and in addition to the organizations listed above, taught modern dance to children and worked with the Cub Scouts, Newport Classical Music Festival, South Kingstown Chamber of Commerce, the Museum of Primitive Art and Culture, the Pettaquamscutt Historical Society Museum and, in her later years, classes at the South Kingston Senior Center.

Eleanor immersed herself in many places and cultures, living in Germany and

Japan and traveling through Europe, Asia and Latin America. She loved to dance, garden, birdwatch, attend theater productions, take long walks and be with her many friends.

In lieu of flowers, contributions in Eleanor’s memory may be made to the following organizations: South Kingstown Education Foundation (skefonline.org), 307 Curtis Corner Road, South Kingstown, RI 02879, South Kingstown Land Trust (sklt.org/ supportsklt/), 17 Matunuck Beach Road, South Kingstown RI 02879 or Peace Dale Museum of Art and Culture (peacedalemuseum.org/ get-involved/), 1058 Kingstown Road, Peace Dale, RI 02879.

Barry Dores, 74

CRANSTON, R.I. – Barry N. Dores passed away on April 7, 2022, at Shorepoint Health in Venice, Florida. He was the beloved husband of Maureen (Dressler) Dores for 52 years. Born in Boston, Massachusetts, a son of the late Hyman and Bella (Weiss) Dores, he was a graduate of Wentworth Institute. He was a manager at Colfax for 30 years, retiring in 1999, and the president of Times Remembered.

Barry loved his homes in Venice, Pembroke, Massachusetts, and, for more than 50 years, in Cranston.

He enjoyed playing cards, billiards and boating with friends and family. He had a passion for music, and was a guitarist, vocalist and keyboard player for the Levi’s rock band. He composed songs inspired by and created for family and friends. He took pleasure in photography, capturing happy events and natural habitats.

More than anything, Barry adored his children and grandchildren. He was the devoted father of Dr. James Dores of Sturbridge, Massachusetts, and Marissa Katz (Dr. Daniel) of Cooperstown, New York; the loving grandfather of Hannah, Matthieu, Zachary, Benjamin, Aaron and Sam and brother of Dr. Robert Dores (Carol) of Brookfield, Connecticut and Sedona, Arizona, and the late James Dores.

In lieu of flowers, contributions in his memory may be made to Jewish Alliance of Greater RI, 401 Elmgrove Ave., Providence, RI 02906, or

to the charity of your choice.

Richard Fierstein, 86

WILTON, CONN. – Richard William “Dick” Fierstein, of Wilton, passed away on April 17, 2022, at Norwalk Hospital, Norwalk, Connecticut.

Dick was born in Providence to Lester and Belle (Cohn) Fierstein on April 24, 1935. He went to Hope High School in Providence and graduated in 1953. He went on to earn a degree in business administration from Boston University. Dick worked in sales, first in fashion, and eventually owned an art company. He enjoyed cooking, making art, volunteering, spending time with his family, and making people laugh.

Dick is survived by his loving wife Alice (Silverstein), of Wilton, to whom he was married for 62 years, his son Charlie (Debra) of Essex, England, his daughter Bonni (Dan) of Norwalk, Connecticut, and granddaughters Cassandra, Amber and Roxy.

He was predeceased by his parents.

The family wishes to extend their gratitude to Wilton Meadows and Norwalk Hospital for their wonderful care.

Memorial donations may be made to Temple Sinai, 458 Lakeside Dr. Stamford, CT 06903.

for many years before retiring. He was a longtime member of the American Academy of Ophthalmology and the American College of Surgeons. He was a dedicated physician and was highly regarded by his patients and colleagues.

Alan was a lifelong New England sports fan, animal lover and devotee of spicy food. He embraced culinary adventures, from movie theater popcorn to fine dining. His many travels brought him great joy as did time spent with his children and grandchildren. Arizona’s mountains and deserts inspired him and encouraged outdoor explorations in his retirement.

In addition to his wife, survivors include two children, Michele C. Geller, M.D. and her husband, Robert Naftoly, of Newburyport, Massachusetts, and Jeffrey C. Geller and his wife, Gabrielle, of Arlington, Massachusetts; five grandchildren, Gabriel, Eliza and Rebecca Naftoly, Nora and Henry Geller; one sister, Phylis Geller and her husband Fred Pollack of Washington D.C.; brotherin-law, William Morse and his wife, Riesha, of Florida; nephew, Michael Morse, M.D. and niece, Lisa Oren.

Memorial contributions may be made to the charity of your choice.

Edward Katz, 92

CINCINNATI, OHIO – Edward L. Katz beloved husband of the late Irma R. Katz, devoted father of Ron (Yanina) Katz of Rhode Island, Debbie (Larry) Mandell of Ohio, Gary (Jodi) Katz of Kentucky and Richard (Lorna) Katz of Connecticut, passed away on April 15, 2022. He was predeceased by his sister, Shirley Chorney of Arizona. Other survivors are his cherished grandchildren, Mandi Mandell, David (Megan) Katz, Sara Ferriell, Emily Katz, Trisha Katz, Dylan Katz, Ethan Katz and Donna Abayon.

Ed was a retired chemist.

In addition to family, his passion was flying. Ed was a pilot and a flight instructor.

He was active in Civil Air Patrol, Air Force Association and Coast Guard Auxiliary.

He was also a proud member of the United Flying Octogenarians and of the Kentuckiana Volunteer Aviators. Ed was also a Mason.

Alan Geller, 80

SCOTTSDALE, ARIZ. – Alan S. Geller, M.D., of Scottsdale, Dartmouth, Massachusetts, and West Newbury, Massachusetts, passed away on April 2, 2022, in Arizona after a long illness.

He was the loving husband for 58 years of Rosalyn B. (Morse) Geller. Born in New Bedford, he was the son of the late Norman and Rosalyn (Davidow) Geller.

He graduated from New Bedford High School, Brown University and Hahnemann University School of Medicine, and completed a residency in ophthalmology at Boston University. He served in the U.S. Public Health Service during the Vietnam War. He co-founded and ran a successful private ophthalmology practice in Dartmouth, Eye Health Vision Centers,

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OBITUARIES Jack Orbach, 94

PROVIDENCE, R.I. – Jack Orbach, Ph.D., of Providence, formerly of New York City, died on March 18, 2022, after a brief illness.

Born in Montreal, Canada, he was the son of the late Samuel and Claire (Field) Orbach.

Jack began his career as an experimental psychologist at the Yerkes Laboratory in Florida, work described in his book “Neuropsychology After Lashley.” He was a professor of psychology at Queens College in New York for many years and designed a course on the Psychology of Music based on his book “Sound and Music.”

Jack was a lover of music throughout his life and played a number of ancient and modern instruments, including violin, viola da gamba and recorder.

Jack is survived by his wife, Hilary Ryglewicz Orbach, and a large family.

He and his wife, Ruth Orbach (deceased), raised four children: Shelley Orbach (Julie Orbach), Betty[11] Ann Cadien (deceased), Judy Orbach (Larry Schoeneman) and Karen Orbach. Jack was also close with Hilary’s children, Robert Tyrka, Jr. (Cherry Grace Selomandin), Katherine Tyrka (Benjamin Coulentianos), Audrey Tyrka (Gregory Sadovnikoff), Douglas Tyrka (Natalia Pane) and Lisa Ryglewicz Covington (James

Covington) and his beloved 15 grandchildren and 10 great-grandchildren.

Donations in Jack’s name may be made to: The Rhode Island Philharmonic Orchestra & Music School, 667 Waterman Ave., East Providence, RI 02914.

Shirley Payton, 95

WARWICK, R.I. – Shirley K. Payton passed peacefully April 25.

Shirley was born 3/14/1927 in Winthrop, Mass as Shirley Kummins. She grew up in Winthrop with her 2 siblings, Donny and Robbie, and graduated from Winthrop High in 1945. At 23, she met William Payton (Billy) whom she married and with whom she moved to the greater Providence area raising a family of four children together.

Her rich life was filled with loving friends and devoted family. After losing her husband Billy at the age of 43, she devoted herself to raising her children.

As her children grew up and left the house, she spent time volunteering and giving to others, including Cub Scouts, Make A Wish, Temple Beth-El Sisterhood and a lifetime member of Hadassah. Shirley also was fortunate to travel, and her travels took her to Mexico, Canada, Turkey, Jordan and multiple visits to Israel. No matter where she went, Shirley always had a quick wit and sharp sense of humor to make those around her laugh.

She is survived by her brother, Donald in Florida, her children, Lois Payton in Cranston, Amy Ouzen in Israel, Fran Bratcher in Naples, Florida, Harvey Payton in Clinton, Conn.

She is also survived by four grandchildren Sarah, Maya, Tomer and Vickie and 2 great grandchildren Gavin and Tony.

Donations can be made to the Make A Wish Foundation, Hope Health Hulitar Hospice Center, Temple Beth-El or your favorite charity.

Leonard Pearlman, 91

RESEDA, CALIF. – Leonard D. Pearlman, of Los Angeles, California, formerly of Sarasota, Florida, Cranston and Great Neck, New York, died April 22, 2022. He was the beloved and devoted husband of 33 years to the late Karen S. Pearlman. He was the loving father of six children: David Pearlman of the island of

Cyprus and New York City, Karen and Janet Pearlman, both of New York City, Laurie (Paul) Park of Upper St. Clair, Pennsylvania, Ellin (David) Becker of Sonoma, California, and Stephanie (Tom) Levin of Los Angeles. He was the adored grandfather of Robert and Jenny Park and Jack and Will Levin.

Born in Fall River, Massachusetts, Len was raised in Providence. He was the seventh of 11 children of the late Ida (Mines) and Israel Pearlman. Predeceased by siblings Alice Mandel, Ben Pearlman, Tom Pearlman, Elaine Baron and Lila Delman. Survived by siblings Anna Shabshelowitz, Marc Pearlman, Adele Curhan, Alan Pearlman and Carolyn Leighton.

Len graduated from Proctor Academy in New Hampshire and the University of Michigan in Ann Arbor, where he studied business administration. During college, he spent a year in the newly-established State of Israel working on a kibbutz and helping to build the country’s infrastructure.

Len was a lifelong supporter of Israel and many Jewish organizations.

Len worked for Lafayette Radio Electronics in Syosset, New York. Beginning as a trainee in human resources, he rose to become the Chief Executive Officer of the company.

Len enjoyed reading, tennis, raquetball, cheering for the University of Michigan football team, poker, travel, and good food – especially Chinese food and chocolate cake.

Len lived a long and full life and will be deeply missed.

Memorial donations can be made to the Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation (JDRF of Western & Central Pennsylvania, 501 Martindale St., Suite 670, Pittsburgh, PA 15212 or www.jdrf.org/westcentralpa).

Paul Segal, 84

WARREN, R.I. – Paul Lawrence Segal of Warren died peacefully at home on April 17, 2022, surrounded by his family. He leaves his loving wife of 61 years, Roberta (Goldberg), his sister, Lois (Segal) and Larry Waldman of Del Ray, Florida; his daughter, Linda (Segal), (with whom he shared a birthday, to his great delight) and Dan Blinn of Glastonbury, Connecticut; his son, Kenneth and Traci (Bornstein) Segal of Wenham, Massachusetts; and grandchildren, Lianne, Eric

and Rachel (Keller) Blinn, and Joshua, Malin, Cameron, and Carter Segal.

Boston born and bred to Morris and Leah (Perlis) Segal, Paul received an undergraduate degree from Boston University and a master’s degree in social work from Boston College, from which he later received a Distinguished Alumni Award. Paul spent his entire career in social services, initially with the New Bedford Division of Child Guardianship and later with the Commonwealth of Massachusetts Child Welfare Agency, where he rose to the position of Child Welfare Supervisor. In 1970, Paul relocated to Rhode Island to become the executive director of Jewish Family Service, a position he held for 32 years. After his retirement, he continued service to the elderly as a consultant to nursing homes.

Paul was known for his outspokenness and his free spirit. He loved to discuss politics and sports and was a voracious reader. He paid his grandson, Eric, a dollar to become a Boston Red Sox fan, and tolerated (barely) Lianne and Eric’s rooting for the Pittsburgh Steelers only because they shared his love of Gregg’s chocolate cake.

A strong believer in giving back to the community, Paul volunteered his time to several nonprofit organizations.

He served as the vice president of the Boston College School of Social Work Alumni Association board; president of Temple Habonim in Barrington; president of the Rotary Club of Providence; and chairman of the Providence Rotary Charities Foundation. Through his involvement with Rotary, he developed a treasured relationship with Andrea Dall’Olio of Castell’Arquato, Italy, a Rotary scholar who became a lifelong member of the Segal family.

Nationally, Paul served on the board of the Council of Accreditations, traveling throughout the U.S. and Canada to review family service agencies.

Paul received wonderful care during his illness from his wife, Roberta, daughter Linda, numerous wonderful close friends and the support of his neighbors at Hanley Farm. He is grateful for the medical care he received from Dr. Suzanne Burns of Coastal Medical, Dr. Rabin Niroula of The Miriam Hospital Fain Cancer Center, Dr. Eric Winer of Dana-Farber Cancer Institute, HopeHealth Palliative

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OBITUARIES and Home Hospice (including nurses Mel Barboza and Brenda Verville), Visiting Angels and his personal attendant Godwin James Ikpe.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to Temple Habonim, 165 New Meadow Road, Barrington, RI 02806 or to Providence Rotary Charities Foundation, Box 70, Barrington, RI 02806.

Hanna Tauber, 93

PROVIDENCE, R.I. – Hanna G. Tauber, 93, formerly of Springfield, Massachusetts, and Longmeadow, Massachusetts, died on March 30, 2022. She was born in Vienna, Austria on Jan. 31, 1929, to the late Walter and Ilona Greenwood. She received her early education in Vienna and then escaped the Nazis with her brother, Fred, on the Kindertransport. After living with a foster family in England, she immigrated

with her brother to the United States and eventually reunited with her parents.

She graduated Phi Beta Kappa from Hunter College.

While in New York she met her husband, Walter. They wed in 1952 and remained married until his death in 2009.

She helped found and operate several alternative elementary schools and managed the business aspects of her late husband’s medical practice for many years. An avid gardener and voracious reader, she enjoyed the theater and listening to classical music.

She was particularly easy to buy gifts for, as she appreciated any item, as long as it was blue.

She is survived by her sons David and his partner, Christine Beres, of Conway, New Hampshire, Michael and his wife, Joan Kwiatkowski, of Barrington, Daniel and his former wife, Paulette Tauber, of Windsor Locks, Connecticut, and Joshua and his wife, Beth Spaulding, of Somerville, Massachusetts; her grand-

children, Kylie, Rachel, Rebecca, Benjamin and Aaron; and her brother-inlaw Stephen Tauber of Lexington, Massachusetts. May her memory be a blessing.

The family would like to thank Tockwotton Home and HopeHealth Hospice for the care they provided.

Memorial contributions may be made to the American Civil Liberties Union or a public library.

Jonathan Weiss, 59

PROVIDENCE, R.I. – Jonathan Weiss passed away March 15, 2022.

Jonathan was the loving husband to Aleen Weiss for 29 years, devoted son to Howard and Elaine (Spitz) Weiss, and proud father to his daughters Marni and Nina Weiss.

He was a graduate of Classical High School, Class of 1980, where he served as class treasurer. He graduated from Georgetown University School of Business

Administration in 1984. Jon received a master’s degree at George Washington University’s School of Computer Science.

Jon returned to Rhode Island to help run the family businesses. He ran National Business Furniture with his grandfather, Nathan, and father, Howard, where he later served as executive vice president. He served as executive vice president of Weiss Properties, Weiss Realty LLC, and Lancaster Realty LLC. He worked alongside his maternal grandfather, Saul Spitz, as a managing broker at Spitz Weiss Realtors and was later joined by his wife, Aleen.

Jon was an active member of The Georgetown University Alumni Association and served on the board of directors at Temple Beth-El in Providence. He was a member of the Aurora Civic Association.

Jon had friends from all walks of life and remained close to friends from Camp Bauercrest, Classical High School and Georgetown University, to name a few. He

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