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A SPECIAL INTEREST SECTION BY MEDIAPLANET
A SPECIAL INTEREST SECTION BY MEDIAPLANET
Self-Care & Body Empowerment Loving Your Evolving Body and Lifestyle with Sarah Nicole Landry
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In an interview with Mediaplanet, body confidence activist, speaker, writer, four-time cover girl, and weekly podcast host Sarah Nicole Landry shares her experience with her post-pregnancy body and discusses the importance of self-care and body empowerment for both mothers and children.
Q&A What is your best advice for moms who are struggling with their post-pregnancy bodies?
The season of postpartum can be so filled with joy, change, excitement, and also grief, loss, and a complete identity crisis. We're expected to birth, bleed, grow, change, lose sleep, have a complete lifestyle change, and remain the same? Impossible. Evolving is not only inevitable, it’s incredible. When we struggle, it’s often because of this internal narrative happening that we can’t possibly look like anything else but having it all together, while meanwhile we're falling apart and learning to put ourselves back together again, with a baby in arms. For me, the key part of this is not expecting it to be all joy or grief, but both. When we allow the opportunity to feel it all, we allow the opportunity for actual acknowledgement of feelings and fears and process them as we go.
As an extremely busy entrepreneur and mother of four, how do you manage to take time for yourself? Let me just start by saying, I don’t. I do try, a lot, but the reality is not there yet. This is OK. I think I’m a bit burnt out. It's really a lot to think that I’m somehow going to do it all and also take care of myself, make sure everyone is fed and the laundry is done, and be a perfect wife and mother. It’s a
lot of expectations and I guess I don’t want to feed into the narrative that I somehow am a unicorn woman who has figured it all out. I haven’t! I’m figuring it out. Again, this is OK. Small wins are it for me. During a season where it feels very minute-to-minute, I find those little windows, even if they're five minute windows. Additionally, learning to advocate for myself and my needs has been a big deal. Using language like, “I’m really touched out, can we give the baby formula for this next feed?” has been helpful. Also, it has been helpful to recognize that mothers aren't the be all and end all of the journey in raising a child. Village and community, however you may find it or have access to it (if you can), is important to participate in.
Do you have a go-to self-care routine? Like I said, five minute windows in a minute-tominute world are everything. I love to start and end the day the same and I love quick skincare and a fresh face in the morning, I love to take it off and do skincare again at night. I like to begin and end my day with a bit of self-touch and self-love in these five minute windows that I have. Recently I’ve also been really into aromatherapy steam rinse-off showers (because, gosh knows, hair washing is a luxury for an hour-to-hour kind of day!).
Do you think children should learn the importance of self-care and body empowerment from a young age? YES! All caps YES. Children don’t always naturally fall into those rhythms of figuring out what that looks like and not only as a person but as a parent it can be just as much a journey into figuring out what works best for them. My kids are all so different with their self-care, so what I’m learning is that teaching self-advocacy is really a journey into discovering your kids. Now, this doesn’t look like, “Sorry Mom, laundry in the basket just isn’t part of my journey today” — it’s more like, “I really need some downtime, can I go take some time in my room for a bit to reset?”. When it comes to their bodies, well, I am a bit of a work in progress as I learn to speak into my own. I think learning to deprioritize appearance as our complimenting factors for kids is huge, while also removing the negative narratives around my own body that I speak out loud. At the end of the day, the first language a child learns is from their parents. That language can become their inner voice, and their very first influence. I want to take that seriously. I want them to have tools and language and narration that guides but doesn’t direct. I want them to speak gently to themselves, because they witnessed me speaking gently to myself, too.
Body Confidence Is Being Unafraid to Be You Finding our beauty and strength can seem like a challenge, but it becomes easier when we make an effort to empower one another. Aisha Fairclough and Dr. Jill Andrew
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ur bodies take us through the world, from our first breath to our last. They move us through society, socializing and creating memories with loved ones and the random strangers we encounter in our day-to-day lives. Our bodies get us through conflict. Very early on in childhood, however, we begin to learn the solemn truth that some bodies are seen, heard, celebrated, and even protected more than others — and crowned “the beautiful ones” while others are, well, not crowned. In the best of times, body confidence is our ability to see ourselves amidst the noise and false information of diet, beauty, and self-help industries — engines that accelerate when we don’t like
the reflections staring back at us. They’re the piggy banks getting richer and richer off our insecurities and our perfect “imperfections.” As we redefine beauty standards and empower others to feel confident in the skin they’re in, we become part of a revolution — one set to leave nobody behind or discriminated against based on their size, race, religion, gender expression or identity, class, age, sexuality, or ability. Our body confidence is knowing that we’re good enough just the way we are. It’s us breaking the stigma around talking about our mental health. It’s accepting that some days will be great, others not, and some will simply be neutral. Finding our beauty during this pandemic has been
a struggle for so many. Social isolation and uncertainty have taken their toll. It’s times like these when we must remember our strength, endurance, and vulnerability. Sometimes showing up just the way we are — strong, afraid, solid, fractured, and everything in between — is the biggest, boldest step we can take toward our body confidence, and that’s beautiful.
Aisha Fairclough Co-Founder, Body Confidence Canada
Dr. Jill Andrew Co-Founder, Body Confidence Canada
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