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Issue 17 • Winter 2014
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IN THIS ISSUE: My Family Favourites 2014 • Child Safety • Baby & Me Inspiring Young Minds • British Holidays and much more . . . My Family is proud to support annakennedyonline.com www.myfamilymagazine.co.uk
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My Family Favourite Award Winners 2014
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Family Wellbeing My Family and the law: Providing for your family in difficult times
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Winter Warmers Stay Safe and Warm this Winter
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Ethical Shopper Tips for Green Parents Green Goodies
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Inspiring Young Minds Encouraging Reluctant Readers COMPETITION – Win a Babycademy Kit
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Holiday & Leisure Enjoy Britain’s seasons Ecofriendly Holidays
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Splash Time Fun Get in the Swim in 2014
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Baby & Me La Leche League GB: offering breastfeeding information and support to all
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My Family Online Photo Sharing Across Generations
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Mothers’Day Gifts Mothers’ Day Gift Inspirations COMPETITION – Win Gorgeous Lingerie from Bravado
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Child Safety Preventing Injury from Serious Falls COMPETITION – Win a Safe Dreams Cot Wrap The Yellow Card Scheme: Making medicines safer for children
DISCLAIMER The information contained in My Family magazine is not meant to replace that of a midwife, healthcare professional or GP. My Family would always recommend that you seek medical information from a qualified health professional.
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Bump to Business Think you don’t have business skills? Think again! A Global Celebration of Women
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Homes & Interiors Ideas for Boys Rooms
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Special Needs
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Autism News Autism’s Got Talent 2014 The Results Are In for Anna Kennedy Online Autism Diagnosis Survey An Insight into Angelo Kennedy’s First Term at West London Community College
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Welcome to the Winter issue of My Family Magazine It’s the start of a brand new year and we have some great features for you in this issue. We start by introducing My Family Favourite award winners for 2014 – a fantastic selection of businesses that we feel have something really special to offer to our readers. From Spring through to Winter, there are some so many amazing things to see and do right here in Britain. In our holiday and leisure section you will find some great ways to explore and enjoy the UK throughout 2014. As parents we are all concerned about the day to day welfare of our family, but with busy lives and changes of circumstances it is easy to overlook the difficulties that your family may face in the future. The start of a new year is a good time to get your affairs in order and My Family’s media partners BakerLaw LLP offer advice for providing for your family in difficult times. As Winter’s chill sets in Public Health England (PHE) in collaboration with the Department of Health, NHS England and the Local Government Association (LGA) offer advice on preparation to stay safe and warm this winter. Also check out our choice of fabulous products that will help to keep you and your family, warm and cosy. Accidents happen and all children experience the occasional stumble or trip – it’s to be expected. But serious falls are traumatic and can cause long term injury. Find out how you can prevent injury from a serious fall with information provided by The Child Accident Prevention Trust in our child safety section. These are just a few of the informative features and articles in this issue of My Family – we hope that you enjoy the read.
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MY FAMILY FAVOURITES
My Family Favourite Award Winners 2014 With the barrage of adverts that come our way every day, it can be a mammoth task to filter out the best products and services for our family, and mistakes can be costly! That’s why the team here at My Family have spent the last few months working with our expert partners (mums, dads and grandparents) to choose our favourite products to receive the ‘My Family Favourite Award 2014’ from My Family Magazine. Please take a moment to find out about the outstanding products and services offered by our winners –
Best Autism Support Resource Now in its 5th year, autism charity Anna Kennedy Online has grown and developed into a valuable source of information and support among the autism community. The AKO team are passionate about promoting the inclusion and equality of children and adults with autism, and their family.
Best New Online Marketplace Launched in 2013, Loubilou has developed into what we believe to be the ‘Best New Marketplace for children's clothing, toys, and accessories’. Loubilou is a global emporium that brings together more than 4,000 of the finest items for children from the best independent sellers around the world.
Favourite New Educational Product 2014 Created by mum and maths teacher Lesley Higgin, Mathstraks Games are designed to help children practice and improve their maths skills. Mathical Creatures, Monster Maths and Fairy Tables proved to be a great success with our panel of judges, as well as with teachers and parents throughout the UK.
Favourite British Handmade Gift 2014 The Shetland Teddy Bear Company is a small family business producing adorable, handmade organic teddy bears, in the Shetland Isles. Recognised for their quality and individuality, each little bear comes with its very own certificate of authenticity, signed by the artist that made it.
Favourite Ethical Children’s Toy Retailer 2014 Let’s Play Fair is a family-run company that has blossomed into a reliable, easy to use online store that sources ethically produced toys from around the world to offer shoppers something a little different from the usual High Street options.
Favourite Alpaca Products 2014 Alpacaannie.com is the creation of Anne Clifton Holt – a woman passionate about alpacas and the amazing properties of alpaca fibre, which is much lighter, softer than wool and contains no lanolin, making it an excellent choice for asthma and allergy sufferers. At Alpaca Annie shoppers with find some of the finest alpaca items for the family, home and garden.
Favourite Vintage Children’s Products 2014 Cherish & Cherubs is a new online store created to provide a fresh approach to gift buying for children. With an ethos of quirky, different and quality, theystrives to provide vintage and vintage inspired items that aren’t stocked on the highstreet.
Favourite Ethical Gift Store 2014 Daisy Daisy Ethical Gifts specialise in bringing together a fabulous collection of Fair Trade and Ethical gift ideas from around the world, that have been are lovingly chosen for their unique style and ethical credentials.
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Favourite Swimming Aid 2014 SwimFin is a vertical aid which works in harmony with the body because it’s worn on the back, providing total freedom around the arms and legs, allowing for a natural swimming position. Suitable for ages 2 and above, it can be used on all 4 strokes and is effective when used for each stage of swimming development.
Favourite Baby Gifts & Interiors Boutique 2014 Funky-living.co.uk is a quirky online boutique that specialise in great quality gifts, room accessories and furniture for children. By sourcing products from Europe and beyond they offer customers a range of products that truly stand out from the crowd.
Favourite Book Rental Service for Children 2014 Reading Chest is a book rental service specialising in reading scheme books for children aged 4 to 9 years. With no due dates, no late fees, no hassle, and books delivered to your door, Reading Chest is the ideal choice for busy parents who want to support and encourage their child to read. Watch this space… throughout 2014 we will be featuring guest blogs from our award winners at www.myfamilymagazine.co.uk/ index.php/whats-new. We think that these companies deserve special recognition for going the extra mile to give us what we want, and the My Family Favourite Award 2014 is a great way to tell everyone just how great they are!
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Introducing The Award Winning Marketplace for Children’s Clothing, Gifts, Toys and Accessories When it comes to our kids, we all want to give them the best and new online marketplace Loubilou offers parents exactly that. The global emporium of unique, high quality children’s clothing, gifts, toys and accessories, features the very best independent sellers from around the world.
Chosen by a panel of experts (parents & grandparents), Loubilou was recently credited with My Family Magazine’s Family Favourite Award 2014 – Best New Online Marketplace. Editor Karen Reddell commented, “When it comes to the whole online experience, Loubilou really do stand out from the crowd. The site makes shopping online easy and fun; there are so many great products to choose from, browsing is a pleasure and the product descriptions allow customers to make informed choices. This retailer really understands their market. Watch this space . . . we predict great things for Loubilou!”
Loubilou is the brainchild of Heath Kane. The father of two, awardwinning designer and also a former creative director of Sapient, was frustrated by the limited choice of clothing available from high street retailers for his young children and found it a marathon hunt to find just the right sellers online. Realising there were few places where he and other parents could buy unique gear for their children and risking turning them into tiny clones, he and his business partner, Jordan Hammond, saw an opportunity to support independent merchants selling original children’s goods while also supporting parents and friends, who want to encourage their child’s individuality. The two aim to tap into the growing UK children’s clothing market which is currently worth £6.5 billion and expected to grow to nearly £7 billion in 2015 but which is dominated by fewer than 100 companies (according to
Loubilou offers a refreshing alternative to the usual selection of mass produced goods offered by conventional high street stores. Initially 2,000 thoughtfully made and rare items in categories such as Art/Creativity, Clothing and Furniture were added in just three months. With 4,000+ items today, the site is rapidly growing as merchants add new products daily. The site features an array of items to delight and inspire children and their grown-ups. Parents wanting to buy British for their children will find many of the sellers’ items proudly carry the ‘Made in Britain’ tag, with the number of featured products designed and produced in the UK growing fast. Ethical shoppers are sure to love the ‘Green Kids’ and ‘Handmade with Love’ categories, which include biodegradable bamboo toy race cars, handmade reversible dresses and cardboard circus wagons for children to build and decorate. If you are looking for a more personalised and more satisfying e-commerce experience, visit www.loubilou.com today.
a recent Key Note report). They aim to redirect some of the big 100 companies’ market share to boutique and small businesses, who previously had limited access and exposure. “We’ve created a platform to support the many independent small businesses that haven’t had the resources to compete until now,” explains Heath. “And we’re meeting the needs of independent-minded consumers who are looking for something special for their children.”
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FAMILY WELLBEING
My Family and the Law:
Providing for your family in difficult times As My Family Magazine’s official media partner for legal topics, we aim to provide you with guidance as to your rights and your obligations under various laws. In this edition we meet Debbie Duggan and Patsy Woodford, both members within our specialist private client team. If your question is not listed, don’t worry, simply contact us and we will be happy to advise you.
What is a Will and who needs one? A Will is a legal document that sets out your wishes regarding the distribution of your estate and can also deal with the care of minor children. In essence, everyone over the age of 18 should make a Will. Making a Will is a necessary and fairly simple process that can save your family time, money and future complications.
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Why shouldn’t I just buy a Willwriting pack and do it myself?
I already have a Will. Can you still help me?
We would always advise to consult a solicitor specialising in this area when looking to write your Will. A homemade will leaves your estate more vulnerable to claims being made as to the validity of the document. Our team has experienced situations where beneficiaries have lost a substantial inheritance because the Will was incorrectly drafted and executed. A solicitor is qualified, regulated and has a compensation system in place should the worst occur.
BakerLaw provides a free Will check to ensure that your Will is up-to-date and still reflects your requirements. You may have married and therefore potentially your Will is invalid. Also, you may now have children and should consider trustees and guardians.
How will having a Will benefit my family? By having a Will in place, you, as parents, are able to appoint trustees to hold your money and other assets in trust on behalf of your children until they reach a particular age. You can specify which age otherwise it will automatically be 18. You are also able to appoint guardians to look after your children and their welfare. You can make very specific provisions including education and upbringing. By not appointing guardians there is always a risk of lengthy court proceedings to determine who will care for your children in the long-term.
What is a Lasting Power of Attorney (LPA) and who needs one? An LPA is a document you make whilst you still have mental capacity to appoint attorneys to handle your affairs. The loss of mental capacity can occur as a result of many different causes such as, an accident or a medical condition and can therefore happen to anyone. In light of this, we advise anyone over the age of 18 to take out a LPA.
How will having an LPA in place benefit my family? If you or your partner are involved in an accident or suffer serious illness which leaves you unable to manage your finances, then an LPA can help ease some of the legal stress caused by the situation. In our experience, couples whom have found themselves in such a situation have encountered difficulty when accessing family finances to make mortgage, rent and other bill payments. However, an LPA can grant nominated persons access to your finances to ensure that matters are taken care of.
What happens if the person requiring an Attorney has already lost capacity? Can you still help? Yes. We can help you apply to the Court of Protection on behalf of a family member or in some cases we are appointed by the Court of Protection to handle an individual’s affairs.
If you require further advice please contact BakerLaw on 01252 733 770 for a free initial consultation. Please note: The information provided in this guide is correct at the time of publication and by necessity, brief. It should not be deemed, by any reader, as full legal advice and should not be relied upon.
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WINTER WARMERS
Stay Safe and Warm this Winter Published by Public Health England (PHE) in collaboration with the Department of Health, NHS England and the Local Government Association (LGA), The Cold Weather Plan gives advice on preparation for the effects of winter weather on people’s health. On average there are 24,000 excess winter deaths per year in England, many of which are preventable. The Cold Weather Plan aims to prevent avoidable harm to health, by alerting people to the negative health effects of cold weather, and enabling them to prepare and respond appropriately. Keeping warm over the winter months can help prevent colds, flu or more serious health conditions such as heart attacks, strokes, pneumonia and depression.Cold homes have a significant impact on people’s health. One of the best ways of keeping yourself well during winter is to stay warm.
Here are a few tips for keeping warm and well this winter: l Keep warm by setting your heating to the right temperature (18 to 21°C). l Stay tuned to the weather forecast and plan ahead with supplies. l Get your heating system and cooking appliances checked regularly and keep your home well ventilated
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l Use your electric blanket as instructed and get it tested every three years. Never use a hot water bottle with an electric blanket
l Wear lots of thin layers – clothes made from cotton, wool or fleecy fibres are particularly good and maintain body heat
l Make sure you have a supply of heating oil or LPG or sold fuel if you are not on mains gas or electricity – to make sure you do not run out in winter
l Wear good-fitting slippers with a good grip indoors and shoes with a good grip outside to prevent trips, slips and falls
l Fit draught proofing to seal any gaps around windows and doors l Make sure you have loft insulation and that cavity walls are insulated too l Insulate your hot water cylinder and pipes l Draw your curtains at dusk to help keep heat generated inside your rooms l Make sure your radiators are not obstructed by furniture or curtains l Flu is a highly infectious illness that can spread rapidly. If you're at risk of complications from flu, you may be eligible for a free flu jab. l Food is a vital source of energy and helps to keep your body warm so have plenty of hot food and drinks l Stock up on tinned and frozen foods so you don’t have to go out too much when it’s cold or icy l Exercise is good for you all year round and it can keep you warm in winter
l Make sure you have spare medication in case you are unable to go out l Get financial support to make your home more energy efficient, improve your heating or help with bills. As in previous years, the Met Office will trigger cold weather alerts from 1 November 2013 to 31 March 2014, on the basis of either low temperatures of 2°C or less, or severe winter weather (heavy snow or widespread ice). Keep up with cold weather alerts by visiting www.metoffice.gov.uk/learning/getready-for-winter or follow #winterready and #weatheraware on Twitter for winter health advice.
Don’t forget the elderly Check on older neighbours or relatives to make sure they're safe and well. Make sure they're warm enough, especially at night, and have stocks of food and medicines so they don't need to go out during very cold weather. If you're worried about a relative or an elderly neighbour, contact your local council or ring the Age UK helpline on 0800 00 99 66. For your copy of The Cold Weather Plan visit
www.gov.uk/government/ publications/cold-weatherplan-for-england-2013
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Stay Snug With Moccis – the ‘Must Have’ Indoor Footwear Beat the winter blues with a pair of super stylish Moccis. No more slipping and sliding, no more cold feet and missing socks, and no more dirty shoes indoors. Moccis come in over 30 fun and colourful designs for adults, juniors and babies, making them the ideal choice for every family. Extremely durable, they are perfect at home, at
the nursery and playgroup, and the best part; they are machine washable! A winner with celebrity mummies, Moccis are the perfect choice for busy mums who want their indoor footwear to be cozy and comfy but also very fashionable. For added indulgence, special edition Svea Wool Moccis, are made from luxurious wool which absorbs moisture to keep feet warm and comfortable. Once you’ve tried Moccis, we think that they are one thing that you won’t want to be without! ‘Excellent product, fantastic selection, fast delivery! I'm a huge fan of Moccis; they are exactly the slipper shoe I need for wearing around the house every day. The quality is excellent and they are extremely warm. I have a pair for myself, my son and my mother! Highly recommended!’ – 5 star review by Moccis customer, Julia Rebaudo. Moccis are made in Sweden, in a factory that has been making
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Keep Warm This Winter! CWTCH SHEEPSKIN BOOTS These gorgeous, 100% natural sheepskin boots are hand stitched and presented in a beautiful gift box. Age 0-12 months, in tan, pink, blue and black £25.00 www.inch-blue.com
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Brighten winter days with this classic rainbow striped woolly hat with ear flaps and pleated tassles. Hand knitted in Nepal, 100% wool with soft fleece lining for extra warmth! Fair trade £10.50
A fabulous new product from the snuggly specialists! A luxurious faux fur throw (170cm x 140cm) lined with polar fleece, which zips up, turning it into a cuddly bag (170cm x 70cm). Suitable for all ages www.buggysnuggle.com
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ALPACA FUR MULES These gorgeous fluffy, soft and warm alpaca mules are perfect for slipping on around the home and pure luxury for tired feet after a hard day. Made from 100% Alpaca adult sizes 4-9 £40.00
KIDORABLE A must-have for busy kids on the go! An adorable selection of matching wellington boots, backpacks and rain macs in four fantastic animal designs – ladybug, frog, sheep and bee. Backpack £12.50, wellington boots £15.00 and rain mac £20.00
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MOCCIS Look super-stylish and keep your feet warm this winter with 'To MaPa', adult moccasins with high quality leather soles. Handmade in Sweden £59.97 – also available in sizes for kids £34.97 www.moccis.co.uk
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ETHICAL SHOPPER
Tips for Green Parents There is no denying that having children is demanding on the environment, BUT even with the demands that a family makes on our planet, being green doesn’t have to be overwhelming. Here are a few steps that you can take to make family life greener – even if you only do a few of them it is a move in the right direction.
Support Fairtrade Smallholder farmers produce the majority of the world’s food, but they also make up half of the world’s hungriest people. This isn’t fair! By purchasing Fairtrade products, shoppers in the UK are ensuring that producer organisations receive a Fairtrade premium for investment in economic, social and environmental products of their own choice. These premiums can enable farmers to implement a range of environmental protection programmes which will contribute to the range of solutions needed to address climate change and ultimately benefit all of us. Bananas have been at the heart of Fairtrade for 13 years and in this time a huge amount has been achieved, with over 1.2 billion Fairtrade bananas now sold in the UK each year. But with still only 1 in 3 bananas in British shops sold as Fairtrade there is a long way to go. Fairtrade Fortnight 2014 (24 February 9 March) marks the launch of a special campaign that aims to transform the banana industry to ensure those at the sharp end of the supply chain, the millions of struggling banana farmers and workers, get a fair deal.
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It’s a campaign to ‘Make Bananas Fair’ and is the next part of the Fairtrade Foundations three year initiative to ‘Make Food Fair’. To find out how you can get involved visit www.fairtrade.org.uk.
Real Nappies Did you know your baby could use up to 6000 disposable nappies by the time they are potty trained? Real nappies can save you money and even using them part time will help reduce the 8 million disposables sent to landfill every day in Britain. For information visit The Real Nappy Information Service www.goreal.org.uk.
Hang Dry Make the most of dry days by giving your tumble drier a break. Get a clothesline or rack to dry your clothes by the air. Your wardrobe will maintain colour and fit, and you'll save money.
Pull the Plug In winter, throw on a sweater and turn down the thermostat. Unplug chargers for cellphones, TVs, DVD players, computers, and other major electronics when they're not in use rather than leaving them on standby.
Choose Organic
Recycling is an excellent way of saving energy and conserving the environment. Did you know that up to 60% of the rubbish that ends up in the dustbin could be recycled and the unreleased energy contained in the average dustbin each year could power a television for 5,000 hours?
Organic is good for you and your planet, is kind to animals and wildlife, and allows us to make a big difference – simply through the way we shop. With all these benefits, it’s easy to see why organic delivers such good value for money. By choosing organic, local and seasonal we can significantly reduce our carbon footprint. The UK Government’s own advisors found that plant, insect and bird life is up to 50% greater on organic farms.
Before you throw something away, think about if someone else might need it. Donate usable furniture and clothes to charity shops, schools, community centres, friends and neighbours. Find out more about recycling by visiting www.recyclingguide.org.uk
Organic farming relies on wildlife to help control natural pests, so wide field edges are left uncultivated for bugs, birds and bees to flourish. To find out how to make the right organic choices visit www.soilassociation.org.
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Cuddly Organic Teddy Bears from Shetland The Shetland Teddy Bear Company速 is a small, award winning family business, making an adorable collection of traditional jointed heirloom teddy bears in the remote Shetland Islands.
The charming little family of Teddy Bears are handmade from 100% Organic Shetland Wool, which is grown, spun, woven and knitted on the island. By purchasing from The Shetland Teddy Bear Company速 you will be helping to sustain and preserve a way of life lived by the crofters and crafters of these islands for generations. Uradale Bears are the new addition to the clan. Available in 6 Heritage colours made from natural plant dyes, the bears are fully traceable back to the actual field on which the wool was grown, Uradale Croft, in the Shetland Islands. Each cuddly bear wears either a chunky hand knitted scarf or lace scarf or shawl. They are made entirely by hand and each bear comes with a certificate, hand signed by the artist. The Shetland Teddy Bear Company速 produces the only completely organic Teddy Bears in the world!
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• • • Green Goodies • • • Super-soft and perfect for cleaning mucky hands and faces, Cheeky Wipes Ultimate Cotton & Cotton Velour Wipes are available in a rainbow pack of 5 different colours and are priced from £9.00 for 10, through to £27.00 for 40.
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Inch Blue Sheep Baby – Our little lamb is full of fun; find her frolicking amongst the flowers. Baby pink shoe with sheep motif. 0 to 6 years from £19.00.
Belt Up Kidz helps prevent young children removing arms from the shoulder straps of their Buggies, Highchairs and Trikes etc. TUV Product Tested and Certified for Mechanical, Physical and Flammability Properties. 100% recyclable £12.49.
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www.babe-equip.co.uk Inch Blue Leo – Are you ready for a rumble in the jungle with Leo our friendly lion. You'll have roaring fun . . . we promise! Cream shoe with suede lion motif. 0 to 6 years from £19.00
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Wear your baby in five different positions from birth to 2 years with the BabaSling Organic. Good for using indoors and out, popping to the shops, breastfeeding discreetly, or going for walks £44.99.
www.thebabasling.com Green Toys RTK01R Recycle Truck – Sort bottles, cans and paper or just have a blast! Your eco-conscious little one will learn recycling basics while playing with this super cool recycling truck. Has a movable recycling bed and open/shut rear door. Guaranteed to produce hours of fun! Age 1+ years £19.99.
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TotsBots are leading the way to making cloth cool! With a huge collection of brightly coloured and funky designs that protect the future of the environment, save you money and provide baby with the ultimate comfort! Starting from £8.99.
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At Daisy Daisy Ethical Gifts, we specialise in bringing together a fabulous collection of Fair Trade and Ethical gift ideas from around the world. All of our gifts and goodies are lovingly chosen for their unique style and ethical credentials. We have a wide range of handmade products, many of which make creative use of recycled materials. The majority of our products are sourced from accredited Fair Trade suppliers and we are proud members of the British Association for Fair Trade Shops and Suppliers. If you are looking for fun, fashionable and affordable ethical gifts, here are a few of our favourites…
Butterfly Cushion Wow, this vintage style butterfly print cushion is perfect for anyone who loves that retro look. 100% cotton cover with Duck Down inner. Hand made in India and fair trade £20.00
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Mosaic Coasters This set of four bright glass mosaic coasters in a handy holder make a stunning addition to any home. Hand made on the Island of Bali. Ethically Traded £8.99
Elephant Picture Frame This handsome, handmade wooden picture frame is a real favourite! The unusual elephant design is expertly carved from mango wood. The frame measures approximately 28cm tall and 20cm wide and takes a standard 6in x 4in photo. Fair trade from India £14.99
Flower Brooch Tote Bag A stylish short handled felt tote bag with detachable flower brooch. This useful little bag is fully lined with zip closure. Hand made in Nepal and fair trade £16.99 To order today or for even more beautiful, quirky and unusual gift ideas visit www.daisydaisyethicalgifts.co.uk
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INSPIRING YOUNG MINDS
Encouraging Reluctant Readers by Liz Walker, founder of Reading Chest With my background as a primary school teacher and the usual high hopes any parent has when their children start school, it was a bit of a shock when my own child struggled with learning to read. Some children learn to read effortlessly and love every step of the journey, whilst others find it really hard work and will dislike it. As a teacher, I had often told the parents of young reluctant readers: “Children learn to read at different times... don’t worry, it will come in the end ….” There does come a point however, when those children who don’t like reading do have to knuckle down and put in a bit more effort. With encouragement and support from parents and teachers, all children will eventually learn to read, although for some it will be more of an uphill climb. It is particularly important for reluctant readers to keep their love for stories and books alive by reading to them as much as possible. Listening to stories will help develop their vocabulary, inspire their imagination and improve their knowledge and understanding of the world. My recommendations to help reluctant readers are: n Get into a good routine and read as often as you can with your children. This might sound obvious, but once a routine is established, then reluctant readers are much less likely to protest. Reading for 10 minutes every day after breakfast will become just as normal as brushing teeth.
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n Keep reading a positive experience. Use lots of praise and if necessary reward incentives. Don’t make the idea of reading a chore or a punishment. n Don’t push children up reading levels too quickly just to keep up with peers. Children will gain confidence and are more likely to enjoy reading when they don’t have to struggle on too many words. Ideally children should be able to read at least 90% of the words on a page correctly without needing help. n Don’t force children to read a book page by page if they don’t like it or if it is too difficult. Help them out by sharing the reading. Don’t be afraid to put a book aside completely and let them choose another. n Read a play and act it out together. Bug Club have a great range of plays at different reading levels, such as ‘Rap-Punzel.’ n As children get older there are wider reading opportunities. Encourage children to get involved in a local youth theatre or school play. Learning lines is a great activity. n Read anything. Reading scheme books are particularly helpful in the earlier stages of learning to read. As children get older and gain confidence in their reading, find something that interests them. Try comics (or write your own here – www.comicmaster.org.uk), newspapers (try www.firstnews.co.uk), football magazines, or autobiographies of favourite stars. n Read more as a parent. Many of us will only read for a few minutes in bed before nodding off to sleep. Perhaps your children never see you reading a book. Try having a TV free
evening once a week where reading becomes the family activity. n Keep reading to your children for as long as possible. For many families, this seems to fall by the wayside as they get older.
“Ensuring that the enjoyment of literature takes precedence, particularly in the early years, over the learning of the rules literacy, important though they are. Children have to be motivated to want to learn to read. Reading must not be taught simply as a school exercise.” Michael Morpurgo, children’s author
The ultimate challenge for reluctant readers is for them to read for their own pleasure rather than to please their parents or teacher. It is up to us to help children develop the skills to read, but more importantly the desire to want to do it. For more reading advice and access to a wide range of books for young readers, visit
www.readingchest.co.uk
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Award Winning Fun for Kids from Mathstraks Games Your child will enjoy an enchanted journey of mathematical play with three new numeracy card games by My Family Favourite award winner, Mathstraks Games. Mathical Creatures, Monster Maths and Fairy Tables offer hours of educational fun for 2-4 players.
and above which uses the fun theme of myths and monsters, to teach and reinforce key numeracy skills. This much-loved game will help your child practise and improve their mental arithmetic, and improve their maths confidence through play.
A magical realm of fire-breathing dragons, handsome princes and beautiful princesses awaits your child. Fairy Tables is an ingenious card game to help kids aged 7 and above practise and learn multiplication tables. Using their times tables knowledge, the race is on to place fairy tale characters in stories.
Mathical Creatures is an enjoyable, mathematical card game for children aged 7
Your little monsters are sure to love Monster Maths – an exciting card game for children aged 5 and above. Monster Maths will help your youngsters practise and improve addition skills for 1 and 2 digit numbers. Using simple sums, the aim of the game is to be the first player to make a monster.
For supplier information, check out Mathstraks Facebook page www.facebook.com/mathstraksgames or visit
www.mathstraks.co.uk
Play and Explore . . . even on rainy days Mum 2 Mum's new vibrant rainwear collection for toddlers and children is designed so rain does not have to stop play! Perfect for kids who love to explore even on rainy days; it is lightweight, has a breathable PU coating and features welded seams, making it 100% waterproof. What’s more Mum 2 Mum's rainwear collection features reflective strips to keep children visible on dark winter evenings. The jacket has a fleece-lined collar for added comfort and the removable hood is cleverly designed to fit perfectly around the child's head. The dungarees have easily adjustable shoulder straps and side domes/poppers, allowing plenty of space for warm layers underneath and room for growth. Elasticated leg openings have optional stirrup straps to fit over or hold inside boots. Available in a range of fun, bright colours including Hot Pink, Lime, Red, or Royal. Dungarees £19.99, jacket £29.99 or the matching set for £49.99 from:
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You are your baby’s best playmate! BABYCADEMY is a brand new and unique concept that is set to revolutionise play and learning experiences for both parent and baby. The clever tool kit, which has been created with the support of a leading child psychologist, is an inspirational resource that provides parents with everything they need to encourage teaching and development through quality playtime. This is fast becoming the latest newborn essential helping parents to trust their instincts and find the confidence to provide great play. The introduction of this truly innovative concept brings baby classes into the home. Babycademy not only gives mums and dads the tools and confidence to initiate stimulating, educational activities, but the product also encourages families to take time out from the pressures of everyday life to engage with their baby. Research shows that babies know instinctively how to benefit from playing, especially when they are given the right direction, within a relaxed and affectionate environment. Using Babycademy to create a platform for play in the familiar and loving surroundings of the home is an ideal space to learn through play. The fundamental ethos of Babycademy is that every parent is their baby’s best playmate.
feedback from parents, the lessons have been tailored to adapt to the changing needs of a baby as well as make it as easy as possible to follow. Babycademy has been expertly designed not only to make playtime fun and interactive, but to support a babies key developmental aspects including; language, sensory skills, intelligence, fine and large motor skills and social interaction.
Babies play to learn; parents learn to play Although socialising in group classes is an important part of development, the team strongly believes that parents can and should be providing individual and focused playtime as well. Thanks to the products cleverly structured programme it not only guides parents along this journey, but most importantly nurtures and teaches baby through the various stages of development. Music Time from Babycademy is the first educational kit to be unveiled. It’s packed with over ten hours of original activities, exclusive songs and enchanting stories to enjoy together; as well as the brands loveable mascot Wilson the Whistling Tree Frog, a fabulous hand puppet and the ideal playtime buddy to make learning even more fun! All these great additions allow baby to think and interact in new and different ways, ensuring that playtime is not only fun but inspiring too. Delivered in ten easy-to-follow lesson plans, parents and little ones from birth to 12 months+ are guided through the various stages and encouraged to develop at their own pace. Thanks to the input from Dr Brenda Todd, leading child psychologist, along with
Commenting on this unique tool, Bernice Hewson creator of Babycademy said: “Despite there being a plethora of educational toys on the market I struggled to find one that would support my personal playtime with my son. I didn’t want something that would simply distract with noises and lights. I became determined to create a toolkit for all parents to use with their children to help them support their babies own learning and development processes. She continued: “I was sure I was the best person to be playing with my son, but I felt I needed a little guidance to get it right – I realised the need for Babycademy and became determined to create this supportive educational and play time product. I truly hope it inspires families with the confidence to engage with their babies and enjoy them from day one.” Babycademy is committed to supporting learning and natural development through traditional play. The approach is flexible to support the demands of everyday life and above all effective, allowing babies to play to learn, whilst parents learn to play! RRP: £50
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Awaken Your Child’s Imagination with Toys from
Let’s Play Fair If you are looking for an imaginative gift for your little one, you’ll be spoilt for choice at award winning toy retailer Let’s Play Fair! Now celebrating their 6th year, the family-run company has blossomed into a reliable, easy to use online store; sourcing toys from around the world, to offer you something different from the usual High Street options.
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Let’s Play Fair have hand-picked their range to include a fabulous selection of musical toys, craft kits, jigsaws and puzzles, handmade rag dolls and wooden toys, that will last through the whole family for years to come.
With customer service second to none, your order will be with you in just 3 days and orders over £100.00 are delivered free of charge (UK delivery only). If you need help choosing a gift or would like a gift delivering abroad, Let’s Play Fair are on hand to give you advice; just give them a call on 01279 815508 or email karen@letsplayfair.co.uk.
With a fantastic selection of brands including Believe You Can, Crafty Kids, EcoChums, Imajo, I'm Toy, Lanka Kade, Lilliputiens and many, many more – you are sure to find an exciting gift that will stir your child’s imagination. When you buy from Let’s Play Fair, you will be safe in the knowledge that all of their products are either Fair Trade certified or ethically produced; with the guarantee that there was no use of child labour during the manufacturing process.
Why wait – log on to the brand new website
www.letsplayfair.co.uk and start your shopping today!
HOLIDAY & LEISURE
Enjoy Britain’s seasons The British countryside is a special place to visit whatever the time of year, thanks to the changing seasons. From winter in the snowy Scottish Highlands to summer on the sunkissed beaches of England’s south-west coast, spring in the lush mountains of Wales to autumn in the shady glens of Northern Ireland; the rhythm and beauty of nature is evident in this landscape. Spring – blossoms and bluebells By mid-March, hearts lift at the tell-tale signs that winter is over and the days begin to lengthen. A sure sign of spring is the explosion of pink and white blossom in Britain’s orchards, particularly on cherry, apple and pear trees. Follow a blossom trail through one of Britain’s horticultural hubs, such as the Vale of Evesham in England’s Midlands (www.blossomtrail.org.uk).
Winter – the festive season
Summer – nature walks and beachcombing
The shortest day arrives on 21 December and the coldest weather begins to bite. Birds braving the perishing temperatures can be more easily spotted in the bare branches of trees, including the red-breasted robin, a harbinger of the Christmas season.
Discussions about the weather in Britain reach a peak with the arrival of summer in mid-June, as the nation hopes for long, hot days. Nature is in full bloom, with bright-red poppies lighting up the lush green fields. Heaths and moors turn purple with heather – best seen on the North Yorkshire Moors National Park. By late July, people head to the seashore with buckets and spades for building sandcastles and kids’ fishing nets for scooping up creatures from rock pools for closer inspection. In Dartmouth, Monty Halls (a former soldier turned writer, broadcaster and marine biologist) offers outdoor adventures called Great Escapes, ideal for embracing the summertime. These fun experiences include guided shore walks, where the dramatic marine ecosystem is revealed (www.montyhalls.co.uk).
Autumn – changing colours and foraging
Another sign of spring are the thousands of delicate bluebells carpeting the floors of Britain’s ancient woodlands, creating a blue mist that sweetly scents the air. There are around 1,300 bluebell woods in Britain, many with paths through them to follow. Glen Finglas in Scotland, Coed Cefyn in Wales, and Carnmoney Hill in Northern Ireland, are recommended by the charity the Woodlands Trust (www.visitwoods.org.uk).
This is a time of arrival, too, as geese flee the Arctic wastes for these shores in their tens of thousands from September. Marvel at one of Britain’s largest displays of wildfowl, when 400,000 pink-footed geese swoop on the marshlands of RSPB Snettisham in north Norfolk (www.rspb.org.uk).
As the days shorten, consolation is found in the sheer beauty of nature as she prepares for winter. Low mists greet the morning and the sun burns golden red at sunset, while crisp starfilled skies cloak the night – admire the heavens in the Kielder Forest in Northumberland, officially the darkest place in England. Berries and fruits, nuts and mushrooms burst forth, making this an excellent moment to learn the art of foraging – try one of the sessions run by the Wild Food School in Lostwithiel, Cornwall (www.wildfoodschool.co.uk).
The green holly leaf with its bright red berries, as well as mistletoe and ivy, adorns the landscape and Christmas decorations are now on sale in the many festive markets that set up stall through December around the countryside. Catch a traditional winter fire festival, such as Up Helly Aa, when men dressed as Vikings bearing flaming torches process through the towns and villages of Scotland’s Shetland Islands, an hour and a half by air from Glasgow (www.uphellyaa.org). Embrace the snow and head for Scotland’s ski resorts, from a couple of hours’ drive north of Glasgow, where skiers and snowboarders are attracted by short lift queues and substantial dumps of the white stuff in December and January (ski.visitscotland.com).
www.visitbritain.com
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Set in a countryside location the perfect escape from the hustle and bustle of everyday life. With a welcoming home from home feel, there are 11 cottages or apartments all comfortably furnished, with well equipped kitchens.
Luxury cottage holiday accommodation in the beautiful south Norfolk countryside, this sympathetic eightbarn conversion retains many original features. Each barn boasts its own private outdoor seating area and is situated on a working dairy and arable farm in a peaceful rural setting. All Properties are well equipped for a real home from home feel. Linen and towels are included, full central heating throughout, cooking and washing facilities, cots and highchairs for the little ones. Enjoy full use of the new fitness room, relax and unwind in the shared hot tub or have fun with the kids in the onsite games room and soft play area. Perfect for families and those who enjoy walking, fishing, golf and cycling, the local area has much to offer for guests of all ages.
contact Joanna Burroughs on 01502 677208 or visit
www.wheatacrehallbarns.co.uk
The ideal place to relax and unwind with our indoor heated swimming pool, spa and sauna. Out in the garden you will find sun loungers, barbeques and plenty of garden furniture. There is a games room with children’s area. Your family pets are also welcome. The perfect getaway – a great base for families who wish to explore the many attractions that Cornwall has to offer. Close to Looe, Polperro Fowey, and the Eden Project also well located for families who enjoy golf, horse riding, cycling or walking along the beautiful coastal footpaths, the beach of Lansallos is about a mile away.
Telephone: 01726 870115 email: foxvalleycottages@btconnect.com
www.foxvalleycottages.co.uk Set in 230 acres of open farmland on the border of North Yorkshire and the Tees Valley, Blackthorn Gate comprises 4 award winning eco-friendly, self catering pine Lodges. Ideal for couples and families, the the spacious and airy Lodges lodges have been designed and positioned to take advantage of the fabulous views of Roseberry Topping. All have a fully fitted kitchen, living room, dining area, en suite shower room to master bedrooms, separate bathroom and a sauna. 2 storey Skylark and Lapwing sleep up to 5 people and have a large wet room shower area suitable for wheelchair users. Curlew and Chaffinch are single storey and sleep up to 4 people.
Set in the quaint and picturesque conservation village of Egleton in Rutland, St Monica's Cottage provides luxury, wellequipped self-catering accommodation for up to 6 people. The predominantly stone built, single storey, thatched cottage is ideal for families wanting a home from home feel. The welcoming, recently renovated cottage overlooks scenic farmland to the rear, beyond which is the well-known Rutland Water and the romantic new wedding venue Normanton Church is a short drive away. This peaceful retreat is perfect for guests who just want to relax and unwind. Families and those who like to get out and about can be sure there is plenty to do – cycling, sailing, walking, fishing, bird watching and windsurfing available to enjoy locally.
Find us on Facebook – Rutland Holiday Cottage Telephone: +44 (0) 7771 610668 or +44 (0) 1572 722749 Email: info@rutlandholidaycottage.co.uk www.holidaylettings.co.uk/95665
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Guests staying at Blackthorn Gate do not have to travel far to enjoy the rugged beauty of the area.You can delve into history, visit stately homes and gardens, enjoy picturesque towns and villages, take a ride on a steam train, paddle in the sea, follow footpaths across unspoiled countryside and woodlands, play badminton and swim in nearby leisure centres. Shopping in York or The Metro Centre is less than an hour away. Spend a day wandering around the farm looking out for wildlife including deer, otters, stoats, hares, owls. There are five wildlife ponds and three fishing ponds for guests and family. Or try a walk up Roseberry Topping, the views are stunning from the top. After a busy day you can relax in your private sauna, play pool or table tennis in the games room or just unwind on your veranda with a drink and a bite to eat. Check out our website for information, including image gallery and up-to-date availability.
www.blackthorngate.co.uk
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Ecofriendly Holidays Protect the environment and choose sustainable, energy saving trip options in Britain that will offset your carbon footprint. Sleeping under the stars is one of the greenest choices available and Britain is peppered with good-quality campsites, many of which have taken steps to become even more ecofriendly. Want to stay under canvas but still have home comforts? Then choose ‘glamping’ or go one step further and renounce modernday gadgets during your holiday. Eco Retreats in central Wales provides yurts, private bathroom facilities – but absolutely no electricity or wi-fi. Instead, guests can appreciate the nature of the surrounding Dyfi Forest, and the 1,300-acre organic farm on which the site lies. Complementing the stunning scenery is holistic therapy offered at the retreat– including twilight meditation. www.ecoretreats.co.uk
Conservation vacations Safeguard the future of the planet, meet new people and learn something new on a conservation holiday in Britain. The National Trust, for example, offers working holidays to travellers from the EU, where participants get to preserve the environment and British heritage. The holidays range from cleaning the spectacular beaches around the coastline to learning how to handle historic collections, archive material or put a historic house to bed at the end of the season, through to learning traditional skills such as hedge-laying, coppicing woodland, developing green wood work skills or making cider.
Getting Around Keep your carbon footprint to the minimum and leave the car behind, exploring Britain’s beautiful countryside, cities and towns by train, bus or bike! By using a BritRail GB, Scotland or London Pass you can take unlimited train travel, save money and save the environment Cycling enthusiasts can easily explore their destination on two wheels; check out the National Cycle Network that covers 14,000 miles across the UK. www.sustrans.org.uk/ncn/map/national-cycle-network
For more information visit www.visitbritain.com
Fen Farm Caravan and Camping Site is ideal for people looking for a quiet family retreat. Situated just off the Essex coastline, around 10 miles from Colchester, you will find the unique and largely undiscovered holiday haven, Mersea Island. One of Britain’s best-kept secrets, this tiny island is just five miles by two miles and has twelve miles of coastline. The Lord family have owned Fen Farm Campsite since 1918. Located in a peaceful, rural setting, in the southeast of the island this small yet well-appointed campsite offers its guests a warm and friendly welcome. The site caters for tents, trailer tents, touring caravans and motor homes of any size and has a laundry, toilet and shower block with solar powered water heating, separate wheelchair accessible toilets and showers, 10 amp electric hook up and chemical disposal unit; what more could you need! A haven for local wildlife, the proximity of the Essex marshes gives a unique, tranquil atmosphere and the wealth wildlife adds to the ambience. Cudmore Grove Country Park is very close by and the renowned Fingringhoe Wick nature reserve is just 6 miles away. Abberton Reservoir with its abundance of water birds is also well worth the 10 minute drive and the site is within walking distance of a wonderful south facing beach. Nearby Mehalah's at Oysters & Ale, is a simple place where you can get homemade cakes, fresh coffee, local wines and lovely warm plates of food made from local meat, fish and veg. At Fen Farm kids can enjoy themselves without having to switch anything on or boot up! There are play areas with swings, seesaws and climbing frames, plus plenty of wide-open space to let off steam. In addition to this, children will enjoy ‘crabbing’ in the creeks, playing on the beach or in the sea. Fen Farm Campsite has received the David Bellamy Conservation Gold Award annually since 1999.
For more information about Fen Farm Campsite visit
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Get in the Swim in 2014 As we’re now fully into the swing of 2014, here’s a few ways that swimming can make your New Year a happier and healthier one! New Year, New You Most of us start off the New Year with high hopes of toning up and trimming down, but we’re faced with the conundrum of how to go about it. Running, cycling, weight training; there’s a plethora of options, but how do we know what’s right for us. Well, did you know that swimming is one of the only exercises out there that gives you a full cardiovascular workout? Water is 800 times denser than air, so when it comes to a pool workout less is more! Training against resistance is scientifically proven to increase muscle strength and tone, and aids weight management. It has even been said to help you sleep better at night. Not only this but swimming provides a wonderfully meditative form of exercise, allowing you to de-stress and relax. When the human body is submerged in water, it insistently becomes lighter. This means that the pool provides an ideal place to work stiff muscles and sore joints, especially if you're overweight or suffer from arthritis. Better yet, rain, sleet or snow, your workout won’t get put on hold by our typical British
weather. You can head down to the pool any time to duck out of the cold or cool off from the summer heat. It’s the perfect all year round exercise – a sport for all seasons!
Stick to it with Swimfit However, we all know that sticking to our New Year’s resolutions is often an up-hill battle, especially if we’re attempting to go it alone without an instructor or a friend to spur you on. But why not break the trend this year and stick to it – with British Gas Swimfit! Swimfit is your very own motivational tool for the pool, which you can do any time or as part of a class with an instructor. Swimfit is all about getting results, whether that is to lose weight, to tone, to improve technique or just to become fitter and stronger. It is a fun and effective way to get in the shape you want. Experts at the Amateur Swimming Association have come up with specialised session plans to cater for beginners all the way up to former competitive swimmers, so all you have to think about is yourself and the water. There are specific Swimfit pools across the country which have special plastic laminated session cards on poolside for you and even trained Swimfit Activators who run Swimfit Activate+ sessions; they are designed for every standard of swimmer from 10 lengths to over 100.
Alternatively, go online and find the programmes there in downloadable format so you can access them anytime and add a bit of structure to your pool workouts. Getting into Swimfit is easy and simple, and a great way to make those New Year’s resolutions last. To find out more visit our website www.swimming.org/swimfit.
Get Savvy for Summer Swimming is a life-saving skill, so what better time than the New Year to get your children learning to swim if they haven’t yet enrolled in lessons. If they start lessons now, by the summer time when you are ready to go on holiday, they will be much more confident splashing around in the hotel pool or in the sea, and more importantly, safer! Recent research also suggests that people who are active as children are much more likely to be healthier as adults. So why not give your child the best head start in the pool and help promote their long-term health.
Want to find out more? The ASA are the experts in all things swimming and have lots more information and guidance on our website at swimming.org/go/parents/swimming-forparents. Look here for information on learning to swim, how to increase water confidence and supporting your child through their aquatic journey, including a bite-sized Parents Guide, videos about taking your child swimming, a pool checklist and a handy Poolfinder. *The ASA and Kellogg’s research ‘Learning the Lesson The Future of School Swimming’ which surveyed over a thousand parents of primary school children.
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Strap on a Fin and
Learn to Swim! We know how important learning to swim is for all family members. It’s a popular after school and recreational activity. The award-winning SwimFin has been designed by a highly qualified UK swimming coach with over 30 yrs’ experience. It’s a vertical aid and suitable for children from 2 yrs+ of all abilities. So how will it help your child to swim? It works in harmony with the body because it’s worn on the back providing total freedom around the arms and legs allowing for a natural swimming position, with the fin working like a boat’s keel in the water.
SwimFin can be used on all 4 strokes and is effective when used for each stage of swimming – beginner, intermediate and the experienced swimmer wanting to perfect technique.
SwimFin will never tip a child forwards or backwards and will never slip off. There is no need to inflate or deflate as it attaches with high quality velcro. Kids love SwimFin because the shark element appeals as a fun piece of kit and encourages them
into the water. It appeals to parents because it makes learning to swim more of a game than a chore. Tests have proved that it can reduce the process by up to a third less time. SwimFin is used throughout the world by swimming instructors during lessons but it’s also perfect for taking on holiday as the fin is highly visible in a busy pool or on the beach! For further details visit:
www.swimfin.co.uk or find us on Facebook & Twitter
New Easter Bunny Snuggle Towel from Cuddledry Forget the chocolate this Easter and buy a gift that little ones will adore. This super soft and fluffy hooded towel is sure to be a firm favourite with little Easter bunnies. Children will find the floppy bunny ears irresistible and will love snuggling in the warm, soft fabric before hopping into bed. Not only is it perfect for enticing children out of the bath they will love taking it to the pool or the beach on their Easter holidays. These snuggly towels are made with clever microfiber technology and are soft as a feather and so absorbent they dry children in a matter of moments, leaving them ready for lots of snuggling and cuddling. The only problem will be catching your little rabbit to take it off and get them dressed, as they hop away happy, cosy and warm.
NEXT ISSUE . . . Pick up the next issue of My Family in April or visit
www.myfamilymagazine.co.uk to view online completely free of charge! In this issue we say hello to Spring and take a look at some great ways to get kids active and healthy in our ‘Active Kids’ feature. For more information or to advertise your business, email karen@myfamilymagazine.co.uk or call 0116 2100911. Deadline for bookings and artwork is 5.00pm on Friday 7th March.
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La Leche League GB: offering breastfeeding information and support to all In previous years we have all heard the mantra “breast is best” however this is now being replaced with the phrase “breast is normal”. Breastmilk contains all the nutrients a baby needs and its unique structures cannot be replicated in formula. Breastmilk adapts to suit our own baby and if a baby is born prematurely it will adjust so that it is ideal for the continued growth that baby needs.
Breastfed babies are less likely to suffer from a range of conditions such as gastroenteritis, chest infections, eczema, asthma, celiac disease, crohn’s disease, heart disease, multiple sclerosis, meningitis, ear infections, diabetes in childhood, sudden infant death syndrome, childhood obesity, urinary tract infections, childhood leukaemia, and other cancers.
What are the benefits for Mum? Breastfeeding also reduces a mother’s risk of developing breast, ovarian, cervical and uterine cancer. It protects a mother against developing osteoporosis also reducing the risk of postnatal depression, helps the woman’s uterus to return to normal size after giving birth, and aids weight loss. Women who nurse their babies have a lower risk of developing diabetes.
When should baby feed? Offer the breast as soon after birth as possible. Breastfeeding is normal and natural, but it’s an art, that may take both mother and baby time and practice to learn, especially if a baby is sleepy or perhaps has a headache from a forceps delivery. It’s distressing when occasionally a baby refuses to breastfeed. However, many things can help with this, such as skin-to-skin contact and lying back with the baby on the mother’s body so that he/she uses innate instincts to help find the breast. It’s normal for a baby to bob at the breast and lick the nipple when preparing to latch on. Crying is one of the last cues that a baby gives to tells us that he needs to feed and watching for earlier cues such as stirring in sleep, rooting, and fist sucking can help to get the baby
latched on before he is upset. It is quite normal for a baby to want to nurse frequently and to expect a newborn to nurse at least 8 to 12 times in 24 hours.
Which is the best feeding position for baby? Getting a baby attached well at the breast is the key to comfortable breastfeeding. Find a comfortable position where you feel wellsupported sitting, reclining, or lying down. Use pillows for your own comfort to support your head, shoulders, body, arms and legs, but not under the baby. Baby should be positioned “nose to nipple” so ensure he can tilt his head back and extend his neck. He can then take a big enough mouthful of breast (not just the nipple) and swallow easily. His body should not be twisted; his ear, shoulder and hip should be in alignment. If you need to support your breast keep your fingers well away from the areola and keep the breast at its natural level. Bring baby to the breast and lightly stroke his mouth with your breast until he opens wide like a yawn, then roll the underside of your breast into his mouth and onto his tongue. This pushes the lower jaw open wider. Your nipple is the last part of the breast to enter his mouth and when it reaches the back of the mouth it triggers active sucking. Keep his body tucked in close. Once he is attached you can make small adjustments to how he is positioned to maximise your own comfort and gently tuck his body in close if necessary.
Where can mum get help and support with breastfeeding? Breastfeeding is not always easy at first and that is why nine out of ten women who wanted to breastfeed stop in the first six weeks. Getting the right information and support in the early days can make a lot of difference and going along to breastfeeding support meetings, such as those held by La Leche League, before the baby is born helps prepare for challenges which may arise. For more information call La Leche League’s national telephone helpline 0845 120 2918 or visit www.laleche.org.uk Written by Anna Burbidge on behalf of La Leche League
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The team were thrilled to hear that a number of mums have been told about the unique breastfeeding pillow by their midwife and it was especially exciting to learn that internationally recognised breastfeeding expert Geraldine Miskin BA, PGDip, EPN, IBCLC was among them. With 13 years’ experience in postnatal care, Geraldine is sure to have seen a wide variety of breastfeeding cushions, so it is a real triumph that Thrupenny Bits is the one she recommends. Another fan of the brand, experienced midwife Tina Perridge said, “The Thrupenny Bits cushion is the only one I ever recommend because it is lightweight and portable, easy and comfortable to use and holds the baby at the ideal position, enabling good latching and positioning; which are so vital in achieving a good breastfeeding experience. Add to that the lovely colours and fabrics and excellent service. A real winner!” Thrupenny Bits is based on an ingenious concept – a breastfeeding cushion that can also be used as a bag. This unique accessory provides mums with an innovative solution that keeps breastfeeding stylish, comfortable and portable and there is even some space for the essentials such as phone, wallet and baby wipes if you need to travel light.
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Innovative Maternity and Nursing Wear The Bibee Dress is the ultimate design for functional style and ideal for the fashion conscious mum-to-be and breastfeeding mothers! The beautifully designed range works as a mix and match collection; with one dress as the core garment mums can alternate various dressfronts to create a new look each time. Whether popping to the shops, sitting in the office, meeting the girls for lunch or having dinner with hubby, there is a look to fit every occasion. Add to this the choice of kneelength or maxi dress and there are endless looks to create. The potential combinations promise to capture a stylish feel, whilst also being eminently practical.
Music Time, created with the support of a leading child psychologist, is a unique resource to give mums and dads the tools and confidence to enjoy quality interactive playtime with their baby. Using Music Time from BabycademyTM for focused playtime in the familiar and loving surroundings of the home creates an ideal environment for your baby to learn through play. Each box is packed with over ten hours of original activities, exclusive songs and enchanting stories to enjoy together in easy-to-follow lesson plans, guiding you and your baby through their various stages of development.
Once mums start to breastfeed the dress takes on even more functions. Not only does it look and feel great, but it also supports discreet feeding as the unbuttoned dressfront acts as a shawl, providing easy access via the strategically designed buttons. To see the full Bibee Dress collection visit www.bibeedresses.co.uk
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If you're looking for stylish, cool, furniture for your children, you may be tempted to look abroad but thankfully Funky Living brings European chic to the UK! Funky Living offers a diverse range of gifts, accessories, and furniture for all the family. One of the fab ranges available is by the innovative Dutch company Bopita. No matter if you are after a classical look, are brave enough to add a splash of colour, or prefer streamlined white, they have the answer. Check out the full range on www.bopita.com and Funky Living will quote for anything that takes your fancy! You name it, they have it,– cots, cotbeds, bunks, highsleepers, 4 posters, cabin beds and all with a massive range of co-ordinating furniture. That's what makes it such a good investment; as your baby changes and develops so too can their bedroom without starting from scratch! Check out Bopita’s bestselling Mix n Match range that allows you to funk up contemporary white furniture with your choice of coloured drawers; the choice is endless at www.funky-living.co.uk.
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Photo Sharing Across Generations In our digital world, we share more and more content online. However for many family members, online photo and video sharing can still feel like a relatively new and slightly daunting concept. So if you want to share your recent snaps, it’s all about knowing your audience. We’ve matched some imaginary family members with the online (or offline) method of sharing memories that can put a smile on the face of even your least-techy relatives.
Grandma Sue – Florida Self-taught computer junkie who helps other grandparents check their email. Sue’s the one teaching the other grannies where the ‘On’ button is. She’d love to see your photos on a dedicated photography service like Flickr. She can access the photo stream from her computer and the high quality, full screen images help her enjoy every moment. Flickr is also a great way to store your photos online, giving you tons of organisational tools. Grandma Sue might also like using Dropbox, where you can save and share your individual photo albums, which Grandma will be able to see on her desktop. Both services charge a small fee after you exceed the free data limit, but offer a great way to back up your photos, share content with family far away and acknowledge Gran as the IT guru she is.
Aunt Clare – Glasgow Absolute technophobe, runs screaming from the room at the slightest hint of technology and never wants to see or touch an iPhone … ever.
If all you want is to share photos, then there’s no need to force a technophobe to get online. There are numerous services that allow you to order prints of your digital photos that can be posted to your Aunt simply, easily, and for a great price. It’s lovely to have a tangible copy of the photos you love so while you’re ordering copies to be sent to family members, you might order a few for yourself! Check out services like Postagram, 23snaps, Shutterfly and Snapfish all of which allow you to order prints for yourself or your family.
Cousin Tim – Sussex Has an account on just about every social media site there is. He’s so connected he knows what’s going on with you before you do. When a family member is this connected, you can pretty much share your photos anywhere and they will find them. While you can always use Facebook or Instagram to share your photos, you may want to explore some of the other networks Tim is using for his photos to see if you like them better – like Pinterest, Tumblr, or even MyHeritage, that genealogy site he tried to get everyone to sign up for a few years ago.
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Sister Sarah – Thailand While she’s backpacking around on her gap year she’s at the mercy of free wifi availability. When you post photos to Google+, they are automatically curated to pull the best quality photos and put them front and centre. You then have the option of sharing these photos with individuals, a “circle” of friends and/or family, or with the public. This would be a fantastic way to share photos with your sister, who may have limited time to check your updates but still doesn’t want to miss out. When she does have the opportunity to log in, your best photos will be highlighted.
Dad Bill – London Self-taught tech user, fairly confident but still a bit uncomfortable thinking about all of the strangers on the internet. Dad loves seeing your photos, especially of the new baby. But he doesn’t love the idea that strangers on the internet can see the photos too. Get Dad, and the rest of the family on 23snaps. This private social network for families makes it easy to privately save and share photos, videos and updates of your little ones and is designed to connect with every person in the family. Dad can view the updates from the free 23snaps app, Grandma sees them online, Sarah gets the photos via email and Clare of course waits for the photo prints to show up in her mailbox. Whether you’re glued to your iPhone or computer, or you’re happier leafing through a photo album, there are numerous ways to share photos with every generation, it’s just a case of finding the right ones for everyone involved.
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Mothers’ Day Gift Inspirations Crown Chewels is a new jewellery brand for both mum and baby. Each necklace has been cleverly designed to ensure it’s not only beautiful but suitable for baby to chew on! Mums will know exactly how difficult it is to wear jewels around their little one, but now they can relax and accessorise. Prices starting from £30.
www.crownchewels.co.uk Loved by celebrity mummies and endorsed by midwives, award winning Thrupenny Bits breastfeeding pillow is unlike any other. Available in an array of gorgeous fabrics, this lightweight, portable breastfeeding pillow also converts into a stylish bag that fashionista mummies will love! Enter code MYFAM for 10% discount.
Give a lasting and unique gift created in silver from The Silver Impression Company. Incorporate the fingerprint, handprint or footprint of someone special into a beautiful piece of silver jewellery; the ideal gift for any occasion. Enter code MYFAMILY13 at the checkout for 10% discount.
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www.thesilverimpressioncompany.co.uk Yummy Mummy Changing Bag – Pink Lining are a leading brand of changing bags with both style and function! All bags come complete with additional shoulder strap, changing, mirror, and zipped pocket. The interiors of course are lined in a striking pink fabric, and comprise several storage pockets, along with 2 thermal bottle pockets. The exterior is easily wiped clean, and had 3 additional storage pockets for easy access. From £75.00
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Bring a positive touch into everyday life with a Mums Gorgeous Pamper Box by Vital Touch; made from 100% natural and organic products for mind, body and soul.
The perfect cuddly gift for Mother’s Day from The Shetland Teddy Company; a unique, traditional jointed heirloom teddy bears, made from 100% pure organic Shetland Wool. Each cute handmade bear arrives with a unique numbered certificate and is signed by the artist. Prices from £95.00.
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Petals Scarf – Look stylish this winter with this beautiful lightweight, stretchy hand-woven scarf with a textured look like rose petals! Really unusual and in a choice of two gorgeous colourways. Handwoven on wooden looms in a co-operative in India. Each scarf is presented in a lovely recycled cardboard giftbox. Fair Trade from £17.50
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CHILD SAFETY
Preventing Injury from Serious Falls Every day, 45 children under five are admitted to hospital following a serious fall. Stumbles and trips are to be expected. In our opinion, they’re not preventable accidents. Well, not preventable in a way that’s conducive to bringing up a healthy, happy, well-rounded child!. We’re talking about serious falls: a toddler falling from an open window; a new-born infant falling head-first from a bed; a crawling baby falling down a flight of stairs. Because they can result in head injuries, serious falls are one of the most traumatic and devastating accidents a baby or child can have. In a worst case scenario, a child can suffer from learning disabilities and personality changes. The consequences can last for a lifetime and affect the whole family.
Windows and balconies Toddlers and young children can and, too often, do fall out of windows or from balconies and suffer serious injuries. In fact, one child under five is admitted to hospital every day after falling from a building. As soon as they’ve learnt to walk, toddlers will start to climb and explore – it’s a key part of their physical development. They are getting stronger and more agile, starting to learn about the world and become inquisitive, which is great! However, it won’t come as any surprise to hear that most falls happen because parents are unaware of their child’s newly-acquired abilities. Obviously, you can’t supervise them 100% of the time, but with a few simple adjustments to the home, serious falls from windows are easily preventable: l Fit safety catches, locks or window restrictors to windows. l Keep keys to window locks in a place where you can easily find them, in case you need to escape from a fire. l Keep furniture like beds and sofas away from windows to prevent children from climbing and reaching windows. l Make sure there’s nothing else near a window – like a toy box – that young children can use as a step.
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l In homes with balconies, keep young children away from the balcony unless they are supervised and to keep balcony doors locked when not in use.
Babies – they’re not mobile yet so no worries, right? Wrong. Cases where babies fall from a bed or changing table and sustain head injuries are not uncommon, even though they’re only a couple of feet off the ground. Even very young babies can wriggle and the soft spot in their skull – the fontanelle - means they’re at greater risk of a serious head injury if they fall. This soft spot closes at different times, but generally takes a couple of months to fully close and protect the baby’s brain. So we advise parents and carers to: l Change their baby’s nappy on the floor – it’s the safest place. l Keep bouncing chairs and car seats on the floor. Don’t put them on a table or work surface, as the seat can move when the baby wriggles. l Never leave their baby unattended on a bed or a changing table.
Crawling babies, toddlers and the challenge of the stairs Crawling and walking – two key milestones in a baby’s development. Once they start moving, they are unsteady and all children will experience bumps and stumbles. Minor injuries are to be expected!
What’s important is helping parents and carers to recognise what can pose a serious threat to their baby or toddler’s safety. And falls down stairs are one of the most common serious accidents to befall crawling babies and toddlers. Over 40 under fives a week are admitted to hospital after falling down stairs. Crawlers and toddlers have a natural instinct to explore as far as they can – and the stairs present a wonderful challenge! – but they have no concept of danger. They may start to climb the stairs and fall back or crawl to the top of the stairs and fall down. A physical barrier is essential to keep them out of danger. So we advise parents and carers to fit safety catches, locks or window restrictors to windows.
Falls from highchairs A fall from a highchair can also cause serious head injury – often the highchair is in the kitchen, on a hard floor. Children make rapid breakthroughs in their development and accidents can happen in a split second. It’s very easy for parents to be caught by surprise when a child first pushes themselves up out of a highchair. So the message to parents is build safety into everyday routines – get into the habit of strapping your child into their highchair every time.
Falls from bikes The chance of a child suffering a serious head injury is much lower if they are wearing a cycle helmet when they come off a bike. So CAPT’s advice is clear: that children wear a properlyfitted helmet at all times when they’re on their own bike, in a seat on an adult bike, on a tag-along or in a trailer, regardless of whether they’re on the road or a trail, or in a park. We also advise that parents and carers wear cycle helmets to set a good example, and to help get their child into the habit of wearing one.
For further advice visit the Child Accident Prevention Trust’s website:
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Aquaint Sanitising Water – The Natural Choice for Mums Vital Baby Aquaint Sanitising Water kills 99.9% of bacteria in just seconds! The extremely useful spray is made from a unique mix of water and a completely natural acid called Hypochlorous Acid, making it 100% natural. This is a natural acid produced in the human body to fight bacteria and germs, so parents can be confident it is completely natural and safe. It has been endorsed by Allergy UK, and is suitable for those with sensitive skin, eczema, psoriasis and asthma as it contains no alcohol, harmful chemicals, fragrances or preservatives. It even passed official UK drinking water tests, so no wonder it is also harmless to swallow!
As Vital Baby Aquaint Sanitising Water is 100% natural it is completely safe to use on infant hands and skin, and even in the mouth, right from birth. It can even be used on a dropped apple or a bottle teat, without the need to rinse. In the early years it will no doubt prove invaluable when ensuring feeding equipment and soothers are germ-free, but it has plenty of other uses too. Vital Baby Aquaint Sanitising water comes packaged in a handy spray bottle in two different sizes so it can be kept at home or popped in a changing bag ready for a day out. Families with older children will love it too, whether they are dealing with scraped knees or just cleaning up before (or after) tucking into a picnic, there’s just no limit on when and where you’ll be able to use it.
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Win a Safe Dreams Cot Wrap My Family have teamed up with baby sleep experts Safe Dreams to give you the chance to win a Safe Dreams Cot Wrap. The Cot Wrap is a revolution in safe sleeping which is set to make quilted cot bumpers obsolete. Made from innovative Softbreathe fabric which babies can breathe right through, the clever design also uses velcro rather than dangerous ties to ensure the ultimate safety. With an inner surface of 100% cotton, the Cot Wrap gives the cot a lovely cosy feel similar to a moses basket and is surprisingly padded to protect against knocks and bumps. RRP: £25.99 (2-sided) Stockist: www.safedreams.co.uk
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The Yellow Card Scheme: Making medicines safer for children A headache, the common cold, a cough – medicines are effectively taken for many common health complaints by millions of people every year without problems. But have you or your child suffered a side-effect to a medicine? All medicines can cause unwanted side-effects that cannot be anticipated or predicted. The likelihood is that you will discuss these sideeffects with a doctor or other healthcare professional. Recent research undertaken on behalf of the Medicines and Healthcare Products Regulatory Agency (MHRA) shows that 59% of parents have self-medicated their child, that 75% of parents would ask their GP for advice if their children had suffered a sideeffect and that just 11% of parents have heard of and know what the Yellow Card Scheme is. So what is the Yellow Card Scheme? The Yellow Card Scheme is a voluntary reporting scheme run by the UK’s medicines and medical devices watchdog, the MHRA. It receives reports on side-effects from healthcare professionals and patients for medicines and vaccines. It was formed following the Thalidomide tragedy in 1964 and is an integral part of ensuring that the benefits and risks of a medicine are assessed and new safety trends with medicines can be identified. In children’s medicines alone it has recently been responsible for increased
warnings about potential skin reactions in children with eczema using aqueous cream and has led to reviews into liquid codeine and overthe-counter cough and cold medicines for children.
Why should parents report? Reports from the public, including parents, as well as those from healthcare professionals, can give a more complete insight into the way drugs effect patients. The MHRA uses information from Yellow Cards alongside other scientific information to effectively monitor the safety of medicines ensuring they can be used safely by everyone, including your child. The Yellow Card Scheme gives you a voice; your GP may or may not report your side-effect, doing so directly through the Scheme means that you know your experience will be heard and that it will contribute to greater knowledge of the safety profile of that medicine.
Why is it important to report side-effects for children? Before a medicine is approved for use in adults, it must undergo extensive testing and clinical trials to ensure that it is safe and effective. It is more challenging to test medicines in children as they are a vulnerable group with developmental, physiological and psychological differences from adults, which makes research into medicines for children particularly important.
Children react differently to medicines from adults and their bodies may handle a medicine differently. For example, the liver and kidneys in a child have not fully developed and that can affect how the body removes a medicine. Reporting to the Yellow Card Scheme helps to provide important information about the sideeffects and the overall safety of medicines and is considered when the benefits of medicines are balanced against the possible risks from treatment.
A call to parents and carers The MHRA is running a campaign to encourage parents and carers to report any symptom they think may be a medicine side-effect their child is experiencing to the Yellow Card Scheme. If you think that you, your child, or someone you care for is experiencing or has experienced a side-effect to a medicine or vaccine, you should: 1 Read the patient information leaflet supplied within the packaging of the medicine. This lists the known side effects and advises you what to do. 2 Speak to a healthcare professional; such as a doctor, pharmacist or nurse 3 Report the side-effect to the Yellow Card Scheme It is important to know that the MHRA cannot provide medical advice in individual cases and if you are concerned about a side effect, you should consult a doctor or pharmacist for advice. However the MHRA will use this information to review the safety of this particular medicine.
How to report It is easiest and quickest to report online at www.mhra.gov.uk/yellowcard. You can also get Yellow Card forms by: n emailing yellowcard@mhra.gsi.gov.uk n downloading printable forms from the Yellow Card website n by telephoning: 0808 100 3352 (10am 2pm, Monday-Friday only)
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Think you don’t have business skills? Think again! Are you thinking of starting your own business this year but fighting your own selfdoubt? From time to time we all have those voices in our heads telling us that we’re not good enough, or that we just don’t have what it takes to succeed. This can be a big problem for mums in particular, because our business role models are mostly wealthy, extrovert and male. It feels like there’s a huge gap between the dragons in the BBC’s Dragon’s Den and our everyday experience of feeding the kids and getting them to school on time. But believe me, you have a lot to offer. Here are just a few examples of the valuable skills you’ve picked up as a mum:
Negotiation If you’ve ever tried to convince a screaming two-year-old back into a pushchair or a three year-old that they don’t want chocolate for every meal, then believe me you have excellent negotiation skills!
Networking Mums are fantastic networkers. I’m always amazed by how a group of mums can connect with and motivate many others to raise money for charity, get all hands on deck for a school event or help out another family that is having a tough time.
Event Planning Birthday parties, weddings, school events and fundraisers. There’s always an event in the diary if you’re a mum. And most of us are great at organising them, often with limited time and resources.
Patience True, you may not feel like the most calm and serene person in the world when faced with the prospect of removing glitter glue from your carpet. But motherhood definitely teaches you that you can’t have everything precisely when you want it. Sometimes you have to get to work then wait a while before you see success.
Getting things done Since I became a mum I’ve dropped my standards. And that’s a good thing! My
Helen Lindop Helen is a small business blogger and creator of TheFastStartUp.com, an e-course for people who want to start their own part-time businesses.
inner perfectionist used to stop me from tackling some projects because the time wasn’t right or I needed to take yet another course first. Dealing with the chaos that comes with small children has shown me my timing will never be just right, I will never be organised enough and I will never know everything I think I need to know. These days I just get on with it. Maybe you’re the same? Better to finish an imperfect project than to never start a perfect one.
Taken time out of your career? Don’t overlook all the skills and experience you gained in your LBK (life before kids). It may seem like you’ve forgotten it all, but with a little practice it all comes back. You may not want to go back to the career you had before, but there will definitely be skills you can adapt and use. If you take some time to think about what you’ve learned from being a mum, I guarantee you’ll have a goldmine of skills and experience you can use in your new business.
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A Global Celebration of Women Every year on the 8th March, the world celebrates International Women’s Day, recognising and applauding women’s achievements as well as observing and highlighting gender inequalities and issues.
Women's organisations and governments around the world observe International Women’s Day by holding large-scale events that honour women's advancement, while diligently reminding of the continued vigilance and action required to ensure that women's equality is gained and maintained in all aspects of life. With more women in the boardroom, greater equality in legislative rights, and an increased critical mass of women's visibility as impressive role models, one could think that women have gained true equality. The unfortunate fact is that women are still not paid equally to that of their male counterparts, women still are not present in equal numbers in business or politics, and globally women's education, health and the violence against them is worse than that of men. However, great improvements have been made. We do have female astronauts and prime ministers, girls are welcomed into university, women can work and have a family, and women have real choices. Therefore, the tone and nature of IWD has moved from being a reminder about the
Tumble Tots is Britain's leading National Active Physical Play Programme for children from 6 months to 7 years
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• Using specifically designed equipment your child will learn agility, balance, climbing and co-ordination skills appropriate to their age
negatives to a celebration of the positives. Each year thousands of International Women’s Day events are uploaded by corporations, women's groups, schools, governments, charities and individuals from around the world. No matter where you are there is bound to be a range of exciting events near you.
If you are self-motivated, confident and enthusiastic, you too could develop your own successful Tumble Tots business. With 31 years experience and more than 500 centres nationwide, Tumble Tots leads the way in Active Physical Play for Pre-school children. Since its inception, almost a million children have benefitted from the programme. As part of this established network of around 100 franchised businesses, you will benefit from: • Extensive & ongoing technical training • Business and marketing support from a central team of experienced Tumble Tots personnel • The recognition of the market leading brand in the industry
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Babycademy Founder, Bernice Hewson I have always thought that one day I’ll run my own business. On maternity leave I enjoyed the break from work and the opportunity to focus all of my attention on my wonderful young son. One thing I hadn’t appreciated when becoming a parent was the importance of keeping precious playtime interesting and fun. I also wanted to make sure I was doing all I could to support his development.
I looked around the shops, searched the Internet, and I couldn’t find anything that would help me in my quest for quality playtime with him. They say necessity is the mother of invention, so I began developing a
product myself – and the Babycademy idea was born. My aim was to offer parents a box of fun you could enjoy in the home, providing you with everything you need to both entertain and support your baby’s development needs at every age and stage. I ran focus groups across London to test the concept and with overwhelmingly positive feedback I never looked back. Keen to team up with a child development expert I contacted Dr. Todd. She was
equally passionate and enthused by the idea and now 12 months on I have launched Babycademy. Making the right contacts, asking the right questions and having steadfast belief in the idea have been critical. I am now furiously working on launching our second product. My mission remains the same – to make it easy for parents to enjoy quality interactive playtime with their baby.
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Go for it... JOIN THE BUSINESS MUMS! Beat the trend and work with a successful, international company, with £36 million turnover in the UK, $2.6 billion worldwide and a 20% growth over the last 2 years. Successful 'business mum' is looking for 5 working partners to work part time £500-£1,500 pm or full time £2,000-£5,000 + pm, without having to compromise current career, business or family commitments. If you have a supervisory, managerial, sales, marketing, recruitment, self employed background, would like to work from home or feel you wish to develop an extra-ordinary income.
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Bumps & Bashes, established in 2009, are a fast growing company who specialise in Parents’ First Aid for babies and children. As part of our expansion plans for 2014 we are looking for the right people who would like to run their own franchise business teaching first aid that can saves lives to parents. This is an excellent, exciting and rewarding opportunity for the right candidate. You will receive all equipment, website, logos, branding, etc. This is a business in a box with full training and support.
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Pampered Chef: Sue Caldwell’s Story I joined The Pampered Chef in 2000 as a shy stay at home Mum. My husband had been made redundant, we had two young daughters and a large mortgage and I had to go back to work.
It wasn't something I really wanted to consider at that time and it was challenging with a lack of confidence and desire to still be at home with the girls. So, a friend of mine invited me to take a look at The Pampered Chef. At first I was reluctant, but plucked up the courage to make a very small investment in a kit. My attitude was such that, if it didn't work, I hadn't lost anything. I started out by doing my first Cooking Shows to friends and it escalated with ease and I found that I was enjoying myself. I found a new me! I loved the shows more and more as my confidence grew and still do after 14 years with the wonderful company. The Pampered Chef has given me confidence, direction, flexibility, a challenge and an opportunity to develop a business. I have achieved it through a love of the business and heartfelt passion, not a business degree! I now lead a huge team, have a multi-million pound turnover and a six figure income. I have
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travelled to many gorgeous destinations around the world and all 5* treatment. The best gift of all has been the friendships I have made along the way and the opportunity to remain a stay at home Mum. I was able to fund my children's university fees and many other things besides - it IS the best thing I have ever done. Sue Caldwell, National Executive Director
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I am Caitlin, founder of Cherish & Cherubs, gifts and interiors for little ones. I’m a mum to a four year old boy and I’ve always leaned towards interiors with a yester-year feel.
Bedding – Roald Dahl The Enormous Crocodile Duvet Cover and Pillowcase Set (£30) www.johnlewis.com
Decorating a boys room and avoiding it being too ‘twee’ isn’t as hard as you might think. The key to getting the vintage feel to a room is not to rush it. Your child won’t take too much notice when they are very young as long as his bed is warm and his favourite toys are close by, the rest is more for our enjoyment! So think of it as a labour of love; enjoy picking out quirky pieces and finding the fabric, wallpaper, bedding and accessories that suit your taste and reflect your child’s personality. You will be guaranteed to have a unique room that captures your child’s personality (and doesn’t jar with your taste, but he doesn’t have to know that). Here are my top picks for boys bedrooms:
Books – Independent bookshops are a great place to browse and allow your child to choose their own. Try your local bookstore rather than Amazon – children love filling a bookshelf with their favourite bedtime stories. Vintage armchair for bedtime stories – try www.thefrenchhouse.co.uk or Ebay depending on your budget.
Fabric and wallpaper – For the plane lover how about Spitfires fabric and wallpaper in white and pillarbox red or if Dragons are more your child’s thing ''Ere-be-Dragons' design from www.paperboywallpaper.co.uk (both wallpapers £60 per roll and fabrics £56/m)
Personalised touches – no little boy’s room would be complete without a train, this personalised wooden train is just the ticket – all aboard! Or this vintage style door hanger, both available from www.cherishandcherubs.co.uk
Happy shopping… Caitlin x myfamily 39
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SPECIAL NEEDS
Rosy & Bo: a breath of fresh air for special needs families RosyandBo.com launched at the end of October 2013 as a response to the very real difficulties faced by special needs families
products from both special needs and mainstream retail partners, and have the vision to see how this diverse collection can enhance the lives of special needs families. As an online marketplace, Rosy & Bo allows parents, friends and family to shop from many different Partners through one checkout. Rosy & Bo’s personalised Gift List for birthdays and Christmas, means parents can make a list of suitable products, so family and friends can choose the perfect gift for a special needs child in their life. For further information visit . . .
Co-founder Hannah Postgate, mother to Rose who has autism and learning disabilities, found it hard to find great products for her family, so set about improving the lives of families across the special needs community. By teaming-up with special needs expert Lauren Allen and retail guru Lesley de la Mare, Rosy & Bo have sourced products from Europe, Australia and the USA that all have three things in common; they are useful, life enhancing and stylish. Rosy & Bo is brimming with great products, all handpicked by them, with helpful descriptions, expert tips and no-nonsense ideas on how to use them with a range of special needs and disabilities. Uniquely, Rosy & Bo features
www.rosyandbo.com
Budding Picassos urged to doodle away for good cause
Special needs harnesses for vehicle seats, wheelchairs, shower & bath hoists, commode chairs, walking reins and more. Tel: Fax:
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Parents and children from across the country are being invited to join celebrities including Alan Titchmarsh, Antony Cotton, Sir Michael Parkinson, Kay Burley, Bill Nighy and Karl Pilkington, who have all put pen to paper for National Doodle Day. Taking place on Friday 7 March, the event raises much-needed funds for UK charity Epilepsy Action. National Doodle Day, which is supported by Dodo Pad, publishers of the original family ‘doodle’ diary, aims to get as many people doodling as possible to help support the 600,000 people with epilepsy in the UK. Epilepsy Action is asking schools, groups, clubs and individuals to ‘do a doodle, donate a pound’ with the chance of a prize for anyone taking part. To order an organiser’s guide, enter the competition or to find out more visit nationaldoodleday.org.uk or call 0113 210 8800. Closing date for entries is Friday 4 April.
AUTISM NEWS
Join us for the return of
Autism’s GOT TALENT!
2014
Autism charity, Anna Kennedy Online would like to invite you to join us for ‘Autism’s Got Talent 2014’ on Saturday 10th May at the Mermaid Theatre, London. performers who will not only be participating as soloists but also be coming together to perform in a group – something we are often told is too difficult for people with Autism to do!
Now in its third year, the show which is co-produced by Pineapple Performing Arts School promises to be a great event as it brings together a diverse group of people, who are all on the Autistic Spectrum, to show everyone just how talented they are. All too often people make the mistake of thinking that anyone with a disability is capable of very little . . . HOLD THE PRESS . . . Autism’s Got Talent will be showing everyone just what all these great people really are capable of and just how good they are at it!! Talent comes in many forms so, as you would expect, the show covers many different genres ranging from performers with instruments to singers and dancers. We have some great
Talent stretches way beyond the field of performance – so on the night we will also be hearing from, and championing, people that have done other amazing things. This night will surely open the eyes of those who previously didn’t realise just what someone on the Autistic Spectrum can achieve. This is not just a night to celebrate a small section of people, but a celebration of EVERYONE that is on the Spectrum.
As ever, in a bid to keep reaching out far and wide, we have performers that are coming to us
from right across the country and even across the ocean from Canada, Australia and New Zealand! You can look forward to an outstanding performance by dancers from Pineapple Performing Arts School. The award winning school, based at the famous Pineapple Studios in Covent Garden, has been working with the charity Anna Kennedy Online to produce Autism’s Got Talent since 2011. We have a great team putting this evening together and there
have even been rumours of a red carpet and possibly a few wellknown faces . . .we could tell you more but surely it’s better to come and see for yourselves! Everyone Is welcome – this will be a very understanding and Autism Aware Audience. We really do want this to be a mixed audience of those on the spectrum and those that aren’t. Tickets cost £15 for adults and £10 for children and are available now by calling 01895 619734 or email lisa.robins@thevines.org.uk
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The Results Are In for Anna Kennedy Online Autism Diagnosis Survey During November 2013, two thousand people with an autism diagnosis and parent or carer of someone who has a diagnosis completed the Autism Diagnosis Survey in the UK. The survey, which was carried out by volunteers for Anna Kennedy Online – a growing UK charity which advocates for people affected by autism spectrum conditions, was largest of its kind involving people who have an autism spectrum condition. Questions were asked about the diagnostic process which ranged from when the condition was first suspected to when the diagnostic process was initiated, and how long it took before it was completed. Other questions addressed the challenges for individuals and families associated with the assessment and the ability of the professionals involved to embrace a constructive, multidisciplinary approach. Participants were also asked to comment on the quality of support they received during the assessment.
Having suspected the existence of an autism spectrum condition, at what age did the diagnostic process start? n 59% of cases the child concerned was under the age of 5 n 30% of cases the child concerned was aged between 5 and 10 n 9% of cases the person concerned was aged between 11 and 20 n 2% of cases concerned adults aged between 21 and 50
Anna Kennedy Online decided to carry out this work after listening numerous people and families affected either directly or indirectly by the condition, who had contacted the charity either in person or through social media. What came across was their frustration due to the depressing length of time the whole process was taking, even though the books and information they were reading spoke about how important early intervention is for children on the autism spectrum. The results obtained from the survey: In 58% of cases, it was the parents who first suspected or had concerns that their child may be on the autism spectrum, due to their child’s behaviour or development; clearly illustrating the importance of listening to parents.
Of the people who were given the diagnosis Anna delivering the results of the survey at the House of Commons In relation to the person/ child who was suspected may have an autism spectrum, what was their age? n 76% of cases involved a child under 5 n 16% of cases involved a child aged between 5 and 10 n 4% of cases involved someone aged between 11 and 20 n 4% of cases involved adults aged between 21 and 50
n 38% were children under the age of 5 n 39% were children aged between 5 and 10 years old n 12% were aged between 11 and 20 years old n 11% were adults aged between 21 and 50 The survey showed n 91% of families were given the diagnosis through the NHS, 9% privately. n 63% of families stated the process was poor to average.
Anna with Carrie and David Grant and the AKO team
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Anna Kennedy OBE awarded an Honorary Doctorate from Teesside University The last 12 months have proved to be another triumphant year for Tesco Mum of the Year, Anna Kennedy OBE. n 54% of the participants found the process difficult. n 71% of participants shared that it was not easy to find vital information as to how to obtain a diagnosis nor in many cases was it explained where a diagnosis could be obtained. With regard to the professionals involved, 55% were assessed as being between average to poor when it came to working together with others for the benefit of the child or adult concerned. The disparity, particularly between highlighting the possible existence of the condition to relevant individuals in children under 5 and when a diagnosis was obtained highlights perhaps the main cause for concern. Over 50% of the families waited up to 5 years or more for diagnosis from when the condition was first suspected. The results of the survey clearly demonstrate that the process in place for diagnosing children and young adults is not fit for purpose and requires immediate improvement. Parents who manage to negotiate the energy sapping bureaucracy often find that the service provided is disconnected and in many cases is of unacceptable quality. Concerns have been raised in the past however nothing or very little seems to happen. Anna Kennedy Online is now challenging the Government to sort this out and let parents know when this will be done. The time to act is now!
Autism Diagnostic Tool: Which one do we use? At this time the action of diagnosing ‘Autism’ is lacking any direction. For too many years now people have been trying to make a big issue fit a box that it never will. There is a want to classify and make the Autistic Spectrum something smaller and more defined than it actually is; in doing that we now have too many cases of people not receiving a diagnosis or having to wait for years of medical in-fighting around them to gain one. Even down to the very basics of which diagnostic tool is used is not clear. On the one hand the NHS sets out that ICD-10 IS the diagnostic tool recognised and used. On the other hand professionals WITHIN the NHS state they diagnosing to what the DSM-V states and often misunderstanding what is within it. Instead of giving an ASD diagnosis, as was meant to happen, we now have evidence of families being told ‘ah we would have given you a diagnosis before but under DSM-V ‘Aspergers’ no longer exists and as your child’s symptoms meet with what we view as Aspergers we can no longer diagnose’.
At the end of a productive 2013, the renowned autism campaigner was awarded an Honorary Doctorate of Professional Studies from Teesside University, her home town. Anna received the award at a special event held by the university where she spoke to students and then attended a celebratory dinner at the the Riverside Club, home of Middlesbrough football club.
Step in the Right Direction Autism Dance Day Anna Kennedy Online would like to invite you to dance for Autism on Friday 25th April 2014. Step in the Right Direction Autism Dance Day brings together large numbers of special needs and mainstream schools to organise dance events to raise funds for Autism. We all know the positive benefits of dance for those with Autism and this has been demonstrated in the DVD Step in the Right Direction. So we thought we would take one step further and ask you to join in a nationwide
dance festival to raise funds for Autism. It’s easy to organise – someone brings the music and the invitees provide the moves – and if we all get behind the occasion we think it will really capture the imagination of children with Autism, their parents, carers, friends and family. Anyone can join in this fun event to raise money for this great cause – to register email lisa.robins@thevines.org.uk
Unless all health professionals FULLY understand the ‘Big Picture’ that Autism is and the full scope of the Spectrum and are given a ONE go to point to diagnose from this system is always going to fail.
Visit www.annakennedyonline.com for the latest autism news and information
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Anna Kennedy Online – Best Autism Support Resource AKO Started life as an online resource for people on the spectrum, their families and carers – a place for the autism community to find out about news stories, legal news, research and events, as well as providing a place to connect with autism campaigner Anna Kennedy and the AKO team. Over the last five years AKO has gone from strength to strength, giving support to thousands of people who face the everyday challenge that living with autism brings. In fact the hardworking team behind the charity does so much good work that we have chosen them to receive My Family Magazine’s award for ‘Best Autism Support Resource’.
To raise awareness of autism and to raise funds for the charity, each year they take to the stage for Autism’s Got Talent and Wear It for Autism; but behind the scenes at AKO it’s not all singing and dancing.
The AKO team are passionate about promoting the inclusion and equality of children and adults with autism, and their family. The website is still at the heart of the good work that the charity does but it is the amazing team behind it that make everything happen.
The charity now has dedicated Training Services for parents, teachers, social workers and ANYONE that comes into contact with someone on the Spectrum. AKO training sessions are about sharing information and changing the way people think about and perceive autism.
With the AMAZING funding that the charity have received from supporters such as West Ham United, they have launched a Helpline – 07710 597457 (Mon - Fri, 9:30am – 16:00) to answer all autism related questions and offer support. This is quite often a gateway which leads to the introduction of their other services parent/support group visits, conferences, school talks and legal advice on SEN and social care.
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WLCC is an established specialist provision for adults with autism spectrum conditions including Asperger syndrome. Providing a 44-week service with sessions including. Social Drama • Functional Skills • ICT Vocational Skills • Work Experience Placements Horse Riding Classes • Art as Therapy Life Skills • Image in Action and Independence Sessions are carefully geared towards each student’s level of ability. GCSE’s and ASDAN can be incorporated into the timetable. For information call 01895 619700 or visit the NEW WEBSITE
www.autismconsultants.org
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An Insight into Angelo Kennedy’s First Term at West London Community College West London Community College (WLCC) is a wellestablished specialist provision for adults (aged 16+) with autism spectrum conditions including Asperger syndrome. The College, which is part of the Hillcrest family, is committed to empowering students to access opportunities that maximise their potential and achieve as fulfilled, meaningful and independent a life as possible.
What were Angelo’s targets for his first term at WLCC? Firstly we wanted to achieve a positive transfer for Angelo from Hillingdon Manor School. We use a fluid, person centred approach to work with Angelo, which is suited to his individual needs. Initially we are working with Angelo in the following ways n We are encouraging him to interact with the staff and students at WLCC.
Angelo with his mum, Anna Kennedy
What progress has Angelo made since attending WLCC? Angelo has settled in well at WLCC. He interacts with other students and his vocabulary has increased; with a little prompting he now uses a few words to communicate his needs. He has also learned to use the iPad to watch his favourite ‘Thomas the Tank Engine’ on YouTube.
We caught up with Senior Vocational Training Officers, Alarbi Dauki and Aimee Urquhart, who have been working with new student, 20-yearold Angelo Kennedy since he joined the college in September 2013. Angelo was diagnosed with severe autism as a child. He is non-verbal, has sensory sensitivity to loud unexpected noises and difficulty with proprioception (the unconscious perception of movement and spatial orientation controlled by nerves within his body). With the permission of Angelo’s mum (Autism Campaigner, Anna Kennedy OBE), Alarbi told My Family Magazine how Angelo is getting on since joining the college last term.
Angelo with his mum, Anna and brother, Patrick on the catwalk at Wear it for Autism
n Due to his difficulty with proprioception, Angelo has a limited attention time and difficulties sensing his own body; we are working with him to increase the length of time that Angelo can settle, as well as helping him with movement and spatial awareness. n Expanding Angelo’s vocabulary and prompting him to use a few new words. n We are supporting Angelo to cope with sensory sensitivity in a variety of environments outside of college.
Which sessions does Angelo attend? n He goes swimming each week. Initially Angelo was scared of the water but his confidence has grown and being in the pool now helps him to relax. n Angelo goes on regular visits to Heathrow Special Needs Farm – he loves visiting the animals. n We take Angelo and fellow students out into the local community, for walks in the park and to the café, where Angelo enjoys sitting down to a portion of his favourite lunch – sausage and chips.
A week before the first models stepped out at London Fashion Week, Angelo joined his Mum Anna and Brother Patrick on the catwalk at ‘Wear it for Autism’; a fashion event that raises awareness of people with autism and their families. Travelling to the event was also a challenge for Angelo who took the tube with Senior Vocational Training Officer, Alarbi. He coped well with the crowds and the noise, and made it to the events in time to pause for a photo opportunity on the red carpet before the start of the show.
What is the long-term target for Angelo? We will continue working with a person centred approach for Angelo to increase his independence both inside and outside of college. Long-term, the aim is also to develop Angelo’s Literacy and to maximise his potential in develop skills in every area of his life. If you would like further information about West London Community College, funding or admissions visit www.autismconsultants.org or call 01895 619700.
n Angelo receives Speech and Language Therapy and input from an Occupational Therapist to assist with his sensory difficulties.
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Baston House School • Bromley Specialist independent day facility for children diagnosed with autism aged between 5 & 16 years l A centre of excellence in education and development. l Local Authority referrals welcome l Admissions now being taken for Primary and Secondary School The following open morning is planned for parents and carers wishing to find out more about Baston House School Thursday 23rd January • Tuesday 4th March Tuesday 29th April (all starting at 11am) For admissions and information about upcoming events call 020 8462 1010 or visit www.bastonhouseschool.org.uk Baston House School Baston Road • Hayes • Bromley • Kent BR2 7AB
Hillingdon Manor The largest school for children with autism, in the UK & Europe Specialist independent day education for children aged between 3 and 19. The following open mornings are planned for parents and carers wishing to find out more about Hillingdon Manor school:
Yiewsley Grange (Lower School) Tuesday 11th February • Tuesday 25th March • Tuesday 29th April (all starting at 10.30am)
Tel: 01895 420315 for further information
The Manor (Upper School) Thursday 13th February • Thursday 27th March • Thursday 1st May (all starting at 11am)
Tel: 01895 813679 for further information Local Authority referrals accepted. • Access to the National Curriculum. For more information about admissions, open days and events, visit www.hillingdonmanorschool.org.uk or contact the Head Teacher, Akinyi Dulo on 01895 813679