FAMILY MOTIVATES Winter 2021 commencement student speaker says his dream is to honor his family’s sacrifices by helping his sisters receive an education too BY XYRON LEVI CORPUZ When Terrence A. Dela Peña was selected to be the Winter 2021 commencement student speaker, his mentor, Jennifer Kajiyama Tinkham, said she knew he was the perfect student to represent BYU–Hawaii. Tinkham, an adjunct assistant professor in the Faculty of Business & Government, said, “There are so many wonderful students [on campus], but I think he is a perfect representative of the type of student we want to get to be an ambassador for BYU–Hawaii and to speak on behalf of the students.” Dela Peña said before coming to BYUH, his dream was just to graduate, but he has accomplished so much more. “With this opportunity to speak and at the same time … graduating as summa cum laude, I think it’s just a great blessing,” he shared. Due to his academic achievements, Tinkman said, Dela Peña got accepted to a prestigious internship in his home country. “Terrence applied for a very competitive internship in the U.S. Consulate in the Philippines and he got a position. … He’s the second student in the whole history of our school to get that position.” However, Dela Peña explained he was unable to intern there and chose to accept another internship in the Philippines, due to how long the internship’s clearance process took. Tinkham said she first met Dela Peña when he was a freshman taking one of her political science classes. “I knew right away he was very academically talented and smart.” Family support and sacrifice Dela Peña, a senior from Antipolo City, Philippines, majoring in political science, said 46 KE AL AK A‘I 2021
his mother, Myrna Liza Aboguin Dela Peña, is a single parent who raised him and his two sisters. “She became our mother and father at the same time. She works hard, and she really helps me understand what hard work means.” Because his mother was the only provider in his family, he said his sisters gave up pursuing college and worked together with their mother to help him get through college. “On my end, … it’s very hard for me because I’m the only guy in the family. I’m the one who’s supposed to be helping them and supporting them.” He said his family told him they believe he can achieve his dream, which is for both him and his sisters to get an education and a good job. He said if he can get an education, then “I will be able to help my family get out of poverty. So they believed in me, they trusted in me and … that motivated me to study hard in college,” he explained. His wife, Ana Katrina Fugaban-Dela Peña, is a senior from Isabela, Philippines, studying social work and TESOL. She said, “I just hope my mother-in-law is here [when he graduates] so he can honor her for all of her sacrifices as a single mother.” Throughout his time at BYUH, Dela Peña said he was summa cum laude, consistently on the Dean’s List, president of Prelaw Society, president of Pi Sigma Alpha BYU–Hawaii Chapter and inducted to Phi Kappa Phi. Dela Peña said part of his commencement speech will address the uncertainties graduates are going to face because of the pandemic and hate crimes going on in the world. “I know there are a lot of things we don’t understand, [and] there are a lot … of decisions we need to
make. We’re not sure about what’s going to be the future for us,” he said. But those uncertainties don’t need to be crippling, Dela Peña asserted. “As we hold on to the things that matter to us … like our family, our education or our faith in the Savior Jesus Christ, those are the things that will help us get through and deal with the uncertainty in front of us.” Representing the graduates Dela Peña said he didn’t expect to be chosen as the Winter 2021 graduation speaker. “I’m honored I will represent the graduating class for this commencement ceremony.” He said BYUH’s Academics Vice President John Bell called him and asked if he would still be in Hawaii during the commencement. “I told them I will be here, and then they extended the invitation,” he recalled. “It’s such an honor for me to have that opportunity. … The first thing I did after I received the news was I talked to my wife and shared the news to her.” They were both so happy about it, he added. Ana Katrina Fugaban-Dela Peña said, “Last year, I was joking around and told him he’ll be the graduation speaker. He didn’t believe it until the call came. I am so proud of him.” His reasons why Dela Peña and his wife are both full-time students and are raising two boys, Richard, their 4-year-old son, and Kyle, their 2-year-old son. He said it is not easy to be a parent, work part time and be a full-time student, but his family is the reason he can do them.
