Erica + Forbes
Erica + Forbes SEPTEMBER 12, 2020
L E A D L E Y F A M I LY F A R M , B R A D L E Y F I E L D S , A S H B U RTO N
I’ll be
B Y E DW I N M C C A I N The strands in your eyes that color them wonderful Stop me and steal my breath And emeralds from mountains thrust toward the sky Never revealing their depth And tell me that we belong together And dress it up with the trappings of love I'll be captivated, I'll hang from your lips Instead of the gallows of hear tache that hang from above And I'll be your cryin' shoulder I'll be love's suicide And I'll be better when I'm older I'll be the greatest fan of your life And rain falls angry on the tin roof As we lie awake in my bed And you're my survival, you're my livin' proof My love is alive and not dead And tell me that we belong together And dress it up with the trappings of love I'll be captivated, I'll hang from your lips Instead of the gallows of hear tache that hang from above And I'll be your cryin' shoulder I'll be love's suicide And I'll be better when I'm older I'll be the greatest fan of your life And I dropped out, I burned up I fought my way back from the dead Tuned in, turned on Remembered the thing that you, you said I'll be your cryin' shoulder I'll be love's suicide And I'll be better when I'm older I'll be the greatest fan of your I'll be your cryin' shoulder I'll be love's suicide And I'll be better when I'm older I'll be the greatest fan of your life
Diamonds or Twine BBYY RYA RYAN N HHUURRDD
You You know know when when you you know know You You hear hear that that all all your your life life Well Well whoever whoever they they are are Turns Turns out out they they were were right right Sunshine, Sunshine,the the good good timesx timesx Yeah Yeah we we got got aa few few behind behind us us When When the the bad bad times times come come I I ain’t ain’t gonna gonna run run Doesn’t Doesn’t matter matter ifif it’s it’s diamonds diamonds or or twine twine I’ll I’ll be be wrapped wrapped around around your your finger finger Girl, Girl,you you got got me me‘til ‘til we we run run out out of of time time Rich Rich or or poor, poor,rain rain or or shine shine The The wind’s wind’s gonna gonna blow blow wherever wherever itit goes goes And And the the road road isis gonna gonna wind wind Doesn’t Doesn’t matter matter ifif it’s it’s diamonds diamonds or or twine twine Forevermore, Forevermore,I’ll I’ll be be yours yours and and you’ll you’ll be be mine mine When When I I look look atat you you now now I I see see all all I I ever ever wanted wanted You You make make me me wanna wanna hang hang around around And hold hold your your hand, hand,we’re we’re aa hundred hundred And You make make love love feel feel so so real real You So simple simple and and honest honest So It’s inin every every breath breath and and every every kiss kiss It’s Yeah the the thing thing about about you you isis Yeah Doesn’t Doesn’t matter matter ifif it’s it’s diamonds diamonds or or twine twine I’ll I’ll be be wrapped wrapped around around your your finger finger Girl, Girl,you you got got me me‘til ‘til we we run run out out of of time time Rich Rich or or poor, poor,rain rain or or shine shine The The wind’s wind’s gonna gonna blow blow wherever wherever itit goes goes And And the the road road isis gonna gonna wind wind Doesn’t Doesn’t matter matter ifif it’s it’s diamonds diamonds or or twine twine Forevermore, Forevermore,I’ll I’ll be be yours yours and and you’ll you’ll be be mine mine You’ll You’ll be be mine mine baby baby ItIt don’t don’t matter matter where where or or whatever whatever happens happens Girl Girl I’ll I’ll still still be be there there ItIt doesn’t doesn’t matter matter ifif it’s it’s diamonds diamonds or or twine twine I’ll I’ll be be wrapped wrapped around around your your finger finger Girl,you you got got me me‘til ‘til we we run run out out of of time time Girl, Rich or or poor, poor,rain rain or or shine shine Rich The wind’s wind’s gonna gonna blow blow wherever wherever itit goes goes The And the the road road isis gonna gonna wind wind And Doesn’t matter matter ifif it’s it’s diamonds diamonds or or twine twine Doesn’t Doesn’t Doesn’t matter matter ifif it’s it’s diamonds diamonds or or twine twine Forevermore, Forevermore,I’ll I’ll be be yours yours and and you’ll you’ll be be mine mine Diamonds Diamonds or or twine twine
We have come together to share in the celebration of Erica and Forbes’ marriage. We share with them in their happiness and their hope for the future. Marriage is the most important and sacred commitment two people can make to each other. Erica and Forbes are about to make this commitment based on their mutual love and understanding. In marriage two people are one. It is not the domination of one by the other, but exists for the benefit of both. It enables two people to share their desires, longings, dreams and memories, and to help each other through uncertainties. It provides the support and encouragement to risk more and thus gain more. In marriage we learn to give each other reassurance by the complete sharing of ourselves: physically, emotionally, intellectually and spiritually.
Let us give thanks for this day. Let us pray. Almighty God, we thank you for the gift of marriage, for all the joys it can bring, for the promises it holds for a life of mutual concern and care.We thank you that we share in this joyful act today.We thank you for the love which has brought Erica and Forbes together and on which they base their commitment to each other. O God of all truth and love we ask that you help and guide Erica and Forbes as they enter their marriage. May they ever be conscious of your concern and love for them as they are of each other’s. May they ever be ready to give and forgive one to another. May your love provide a pattern and a source of strength for their love in the years to come. In the name of Jesus Christ. Amen.
Readings E X T R AC T F RO M L E S M I S E R A B L E S – V I C TO R H U G O R E A D B Y S O N YA L E A D L E Y
“You can give without loving, but you can never love without giving. The great acts of love are done by those who are performing small acts of kindness. We pardon to the extent that we love. Love is knowing that even when you are alone, you will never be lonely again. And great happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved. Loved for ourselves. And even loved in spite of ourselves.”
E X T R A C T F R O M D E I M I TAT I O C H R I S T I – T H O M A S A K E M P I S R E A D B Y A L A N A C A L L AG H A N - K I N G
“Love often knows no limits but overflows all bounds. Love feels no burden, thinks nothing of troubles, attempts more than it is able, and does not plead impossibility, because it believes that it may and can do all things. For this reason, it is able to do all, performing and effecting much where he who does not love fails and falls. Love is watchful. Sleeping, it does not slumber. Wearied, it is not tired. Pressed, it is not straitened. Alarmed, it is not confused, but like a living flame, a burning touch, it forces its way upwards and passes unharmed through every obstacle.
Erica’s Vows
Forbes Andrew Callaghan, you are home to me, my safe place. You have lifted me not only through tough days, but you have suppor ted me to become a better woman. You are my greatest challenger, but also my biggest champion. You believe in me, and quietly chair me on, suppor ting me and my dreams more than I could have ever hoped for in a par tner. I promise to always have your back, to be present for us, and keep cooking you “something yummy”. I will be your suppor t through sickness, stress, the great days and the hard – even pandemics. I cannot wait for every adventure and challenge with you. Forbsie, forever more, I will be yours, and you will be mine.
Forbes’ Vows
They say opposites attract, for us this is definitely true, together we make a strong team. I look forward to building our future together I will be there for you when you need me, I will encourage you, grow with you, laugh with you. You’re my best friend. I promise to never forget our bond for the rest of our days.
Preface Happiness is a strange kind of thing. If you reach out to it, if you chase after it, somehow it eludes you. But if you concentrate and focus your life on the things which create happiness, sometimes you find you’ve got it. So don’t aim at a thing called happiness, aim at what brings happiness. And in marriage the things that bring happiness, centre round you two taking care of and developing the loving relationship you have with each other which is so real to you and so obvious to us. Take care of it and develop it in all sor ts of ways. Especially take care to develop it in all sor ts of little things, for a great deal in life in concerned with how we behave in the little ordinary things. Make plenty of time for each other. Trust each other implicitly. Be kind and considerate to each other. Respect each other. Forgive each other – readily and quickly. Put yourselves out for each other. And among all the gifts you will be given today, that gift of happiness will be yours.
1 Corinthians 13
“Love is slow to lose patience – it looks for a way of being constructive. It is not possessive: it is neither anxious to impress nor does it cherish inflated ideas of its own impor tance. Love has good manners and does not pursue selfish advantage. It is not touchy. It does not keep account of evil or gloat over the wickedness of other people. On the contrary, it is glad when truth prevails. Love knows no limit to its endurance, no end to its trust, no fading of its hope: it can outlast anything. It is, in fact, the one thing that still stands when all else has fallen. In this life we have three last qualities: faith, hope, and love. But the greatest of them all is love.”
In Colour BY JAMEY JOHNSON This one is my favorite one
Sunday Morning B Y M A RO O N F I V E Sunday morning, rain is falling
This is me and grandma in the summer sun
Steal some covers, share some skin
All dressed up
Clouds are shrouding us in moments unforgettable
The day we said our vows
You twist to fit the mold that I am in
You can’t tell it here but it was hot that June
But things just get so crazy
And that rose was red and her eyes were blue
Living life gets hard to do
And just look at that smile
And I would gladly hit the road, get up and go if I knew
I was so proud
That someday it would lead me back to you
That’s the story of my life
And back and for th we sway like branches in a storm
Right there in black and white
Change the weather still together when it ends
And if it looks like we were scared to death
That may be all I need
Like a couple of kids just tryin’ to save each other
In darkness she is all I see
You should’ve seen it in color
Come and rest your bones with me
Yeah, A pictures wor th a thousand words
Driving slow on Sunday morning
But you cant see what those shades of gray keep covered
And I never want to leave
You should’ve seen it in color
You’ve got the Love BY FLORENCE AND THE MACHINE Sometimes I feel like throwing my hands up in the air I know I can count on you Sometimes I feel like saying “Lord I just don’t care” But you’ve got the love I need to see me through Sometimes it seems that the going is just too rough And things go wrong no matter what I do Now and then it seems that life is just too much But you’ve got the love I need to see me through When food is gone you are my daily meal When friends are gone I know my saviour’s love is real You know it’s real ‘Cause you’ve got the love You’ve got the love You’ve got the love You’ve got the love You’ve got the love You’ve got the love Time after time I think “Oh, Lord, what’s the use?” Time after time I think it’s just no good ‘Cause sooner or later in life, the things you love you lose But you’ve got the love I need to see me through Sometimes I feel like throwing my hands up in the air ‘Cause I know I can count on you Sometimes I feel like saying “Lord I just don’t care” But you’ve got the love I need to see me through
Bridal Party M AI D O F H ONOR A MA N D A V A N D ERLEY B R I D E S M AI D RA CHA EL GRO EN EWEGEN J U N I O R B R I D E S M AIDS LEN N O X + GEO RGI A O F F I CER G R O O M S M E N S T EV E REA D + CA MERO N CA LLA GHA N M I N I S T ER REV . MI CHA EL GREER MC LEX I E LEA D LEY
Last Shot BY KIP MOORE Well, baby love's just one of those words that gets thrown around Like Jack and Coke, sitting on the bar when it gets watered down So I ain't gonna say it, oh but I ain't gonna lie If you wanna know the truth how I feel about you tonight If you were my last breath, I'd just wanna hold you If you were my last night of hell on wheels I'd wanna drive you like I stole ya If you were my last shot, last shot of whiskey (last shot of whiskey) I'd press you to my lips, take a little sip Swirl you around and around and around Then I'd shoot you down So baby let me look at you and see just what I got If you were my cherry stem I'd tie you in a knot And if I couldn't hail you, oh baby I'd be gone I'd be floating round high as the Colorado sky, blowing smoke rings all night long If you were my last breath, I'd just wanna hold ya If you were my last night of hell on wheels I'd wanna drive you like I stole ya If you were my last shot, of whiskey (last shot of whiskey) I'd press you to my lips, take a little sip Swirl you around and around and around Then I'd shoot you down Last call, last chance, last dance I was ever gonna get to take If you were my last breath, I'd just wanna hold you My last night of hell on wheels, wanna drive you like I stole you If you were my last shot, of whiskey (last shot of whiskey) I'd press you to my lips, take a little sip Swirl you around and around and around Then I'd shoot you down Then I'd shoot you down Well, if you were my last breath Well, I'd just wanna hold you
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