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Therapeutic Parenting
Therapeutic Parenting Meeting the need behind your child’s behavior can help your discipline be more effective.
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Mindful Holiday Magic
Be truly “present” this Christmas by spending one on one time with your kids.
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A Page in a Book Gerry Paige Smith
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Get This!
Holiday Happenings
Lee County offers parades, lights, musicals and so much more...to brighten your season.
Show Yourself Some Love
How to mindfully bust out of a hyperactive lifestyle.
On The Cover T.J. and Gianna are the children of Will and Hollie Autrey of Auburn. T.J. is 12, attends East Samford Middle School, enjoys playing basketball on the 7th grade team and saxophone in the band. Gianna is 11, attends Drake Middle School, enjoys playing volleyball and the ukulele and is on the yearbook staff. Both also enjoy swimming and participating in youth group activities at St. Michael’s Catholic Church.
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Parenting Today’s Teens Mark Gregston
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Bits and Pieces 12
School Bits 42
Family Calendar 48
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Publisher’sNote Where did 2018 go? It seems like we just took down our Christmas tree and toasted in the New Year! Now, we need to redecorate the house, plan our parties, and check our list twice. The Holiday Season is here! This time of year brings such an added sense of joy and love into our home. We start our family traditions with our Christmas tree. My children joyfully place their special, handmade ornaments on the most perfect of spots and, with admiration, they stand back and sparkle almost as brightly as this year’s tree. With their stockings hung, biggest to littlest, the house has been transformed into a cozy, winter wonderland filled with garland, jingle bells, angels and cinnamon smells. It is the most wonderful time of the year! With all the exciting holiday events around town and all the hustle and bustle of shopping, cooking and family gatherings, we may find that we have missed out on all the small moments that truly make this time of year so magical. This month’s feature article, Mindful Holiday Magic: Be Truly Present with Your Kids This Year, gives a great reminder to slow down and really enjoy this season with those you love most. For me, the sparkle and glow not only comes from the twinkling lights, but also my kids’ eyes and smiles as they take in the sights, sounds and smells of Christmas. Those moments are many of the reasons I enjoy this time of year. If I’m not careful, those December weeks can go by too quickly. This year, I am excited to try a few ideas with my kids to make memories that will last throughout the year. One great idea is an oldie, but a family tradition held by many. Who doesn’t remember the PJ evening drive to look at all the Christmas lights around town? What a simple, yet festive way to embrace the season with the kids and see the holidays through their eyes. Turn on some holiday classic tunes and you’ll be Dashing Through the Snow and Jingle Bell Rocking! With the New Year in sight, Auburn Opelika Parents has a new featured addition to our upcoming year. We are excited to announce the Monthly Teacher Award, where we are encouraging our readers to nominate a teacher each month that you think exemplifies what makes the schools in our area so very special. Along with their nomination, the winner will be recognized in the magazine and also presented with a gift and banner to display proudly in their classroom. Check out our first recipient of this award and head over to our Facebook page to nominate next month’s teacher! Thank you to all of our readers and community sponsors for another wonderful year! From our family to yours….Happy Holidays and New Year 2019!
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Meet the Need Behind the Behavior A critical component of therapeutic parenting is the focus on meeting the need behind the behavior. Whereas traditional parenting seeks to immediately stop the behavior in front of us through the engagement of consequences, threats or punishments - therapeutic parenting seeks to disarm the foundational need that is prompting the negative response in your child in the first place. According to local counselor Beth Long, PhD, all difficult behaviors look essentially the same on the outside. However, each behavior actually serves one of three purposes: a need to escape, a need for attention, or a tangible need. For example, a child will often become frustrated and act out when they want something they cannot have (tangible). We have all seen (or experienced) children pulling out all the stops from bargaining, to tantruming, to stealing, simply to get a candy bar while in the check-out line. Alternatively, children may behave inappropriately when they are attempting to escape a situation. This could be escaping from a negative emotion (fear, shame, anxiousness) or escaping from a task they do not want to complete (brushing teeth, cleaning room, finishing homework). Behaviors can also be perpetuated by a desire for attention. For children, any attention is good. If their positive attention tank is low, they try for negative attention because they do not have the capacity to
verbalize, “I’m feeling a little neglected at the moment, and I really want a bit of your time, could you please pay attention to me?” So as you approach each engagement with your child I encourage you to attempt to identify which need your child is attempting to fulfill and work from there. That being said, your response to their behavior should never be to ignore their need – this only serves to lengthen and heighten the intensity of the outburst. Instead, your response should be to help your child learn how to meet his/her needs in an appropriate way. Give voice to their situation, help them understand and begin to identify their own emotional process. For example: “I wonder if you are feeling frustrated with that math homework, I think we should take a break and go shoot some hoops for a few minutes – I’ll race you out there!” Instead of forcing your child to sit longer at the table with the homework, thereby escalating the negative behavior, try to break up the predictably stressful homework into smaller portions and give your child a break (opportunity to escape) when they complete each section. They will likely be a bit more agreeable to engaging in the homework if they know they are not stuck there for long periods. Overall, we want to get in the habit of looking past the behavior that is right in front of us because that outburst typically has absolutely
nothing to do with the real issue at hand. The screaming, yelling, or propelling of one’s self to the ground, is merely the breakdown phase of a dysregulated child. But if we are honest, that is where we invest so much of our energy. We spend hours googling how to get our 3-year-old to stop tantruming, or how to get our middle schooler to stop talking back. If I may, instead of pouring so much effort into the end result of a behavior, look at the origin of the behavior itself. So, next time you are waist deep in toddler tantrum meltdown mode, or face to face with a disgruntled teenager, take a minute, and see if you can figure out the need behind the behavior and keep your focus there. That’s where you are going to find victory (and your sanity). Do you have a behavior or parenting question? Shoot me an email at sonia.kidstolove@yahoo.com. I will answer your question in an upcoming issue!
*Therapeutic parenting is parenting in a highly structured, highly nurturing way. This form of intensive parenting is often a key to progress in dealing with children who have trauma and attachment challenges, but has also proven beneficial with any child.
Sonia is a licensed social worker and holds both a Bachelor’s and Master’s degree in Social Work. Her clinical focus is on helping parents and professionals understand the role of the brain in behavior, and how to adopt therapeutic parenting techniques to help mitigate negative behaviors. She travels the state speaking at various conferences on behavior and parenting and is a therapist for Kids To Love Foundation. Sonia is a mother to 7 sons, 3 of whom were internationally adopted, and is also a foster parent.
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Holiday Happenings in #AUBURNOPELIKA Victorian Front Porch Christmas Tour December 5 - December 9
Auburn Gingerbread Village December 9 - January 1
Lighted Driving Tour: Wednesday - Friday and The Hotel at Auburn University kicks off the Sunday 5-10 p.m. holiday season by featuring prominent Auburn Walking Tour: Saturday, December 8, 6-9 p.m. University buildings crafted out of gingerbread, The tree lighting with Opelika Mayor Gary candy and icing. The unique display can be Fuller and his wife Laura will kick off the viewed anytime during hotel business hours. walking tour at 6 p.m. at the corner of North Rocky Brook Rocket Reindeer Express 8th Street and 2nd Avenue December 13 - December 15 (weather permitting).
Christmas Parades
Don’t miss the 2018 Opelika Christmas Parade on December 1, at 10 a.m.
Santa on the Corner
December 15 - December 16
Join the Auburn Downtown Merchants Association for the Auburn Christmas Parade in downtown Auburn December 9, at 2 p.m.
Santa is coming to town! Santa will be at Toomer’s Corner on Saturday, December 15, from 11 a.m. until 4 p.m. and Sunday, December 16, from 11 a.m. until 3 p.m.
Christmas in a Railroad Town
Christmas in Camelot Lighted Tour
Jingle Jog 5k and Santa Stroll Fun Run
Auburn-Opelika Holiday Ice Rink
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December 8 at 7 a.m.
The Collinwood Luminaries December 14
December 1 - December 31
The Auburn-Opelika holiday ice rink will be located outside of the Auburn Mall on Opelika Road. For more info visit aotourism.com.
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The Sound of Music
The final collaboration between Rodgers and Hammerstein captures a personal tale of growth and hope. After causing disorder at the abbey, the young nun Maria is sent off to be governess to Captain Von Trapp’s seven children. Maria enchants the entire family by teaching the children to sing and the Captain to love again. November 15- December 30 at The Shakespeare Festival, Montgomery. www.asf.net.
Ho Ho Ho Hike!
On December 8, make time in your busy holiday schedule to join us for this fun nature “Santa-hunt” where we will hike the Kreher Preserve & Nature Center looking for animals and that jolly visitor in red. After the hike, we will return to the amphitheater where we will gather for a cup of hot cocoa and a warm fire! No preregistration required. We will cancel in the event of rain. Rain date (or if in SEC championship) is Dec. 15th. Admission to the Ho! Ho! Ho! Hike is $5 per person. Donations of canned goods will be accepted for the East Alabama Food Bank in exchange for a homemade holiday goodie! 10 a.m. (334) 707-6512 • preserve@auburn.edu.
Christmas with Elves at Dream Field Farms
Santa's Elves have dropped by Dream Field Farm, December 1 through 19, and are up to all kinds of fun adventures. Wrapping presents, making ornaments and reindeer food, baking cookies and sharing about the wonders of the North Pole. The big guy himself will be on hand for great Santa photos! Who knew Santa could drive a tractor? Each Saturday features a full breakfast buffet along with lots of zany fun! By reservation only. School students are invited during the week - no breakfast but plenty of fun! www.dreamfieldfarms.com.
Live Nativity at RiverTown Church, Columbus
This Christmas, enjoy a simple, live telling of the birth of Jesus in the open air, December 13-16. Each evening, there will be a 6 PM and 7 PM Showing of the Live Nativity. This family-friendly, live drama recreates pivotal moments surrounding the birth of Jesus Christ in vivid detail, with live actors, costumes, real animals, and set. Create lasting family memories and bring your family and friends to celebrate the reason for the season at our First Annual RiverTown Church Live Nativity! Food, snacks, and hot chocolate are available, come sit and enjoy your tasty treats. Complimentary parking is available. www.rivertownchurch.com.
Opelika Christmas Parade
Auburn Christmas Parade
Don't miss the 2018 Opelika Christmas Parade on December 1 at 10:00 AM! If you would like to participate in the parade, an application form and guidelines can be found on the Chamber's website, www.opelikachamber.com. For more information, call (334) 745-4861.
Join the Auburn Downtown Merchants Association for the Auburn Christmas Parade. The parade will be Sunday, December 9 at 2:00 PM, in downtown Auburn. www.downtownauburn.com.
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Handel's “Messiah”
Choirs from Auburn University, First Baptist Church Opelika, and Tuskegee University sing the Christmas portion of Handel's “Messiah”, including the Hallelujah Chorus. December 8 and 9, 5:00 PM at First Baptist Church Opelika. It is co-sponsored by East Alabama Arts Association and First Baptist Church Opelika. www.auburn.edu.
Santa Claus on the Corner
Santa is coming to town! Santa will be at Toomer's Corner in Downtown Auburn on Saturday, December 15, from 11 AM until 4 PM and Sunday, December 16, from 11 AM until 3 PM. Join the Auburn Downtown Merchants Association and the Lee County United Way for Santa on the Corner. Photos with Santa are free with a requested donation to The United Way.
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“The Nutcracker” presented by Variations Dance Studio
Opelika Center for the Performing Arts. This holiday season, enjoy the magic and beauty of “The Nutcracker” presented by Variations Dance Studio of Auburn on December 7 and 8. Follow Clara into the dreamlike world of dancing snowflakes and see all the colorful treats found in the Land of Sweets! Whether it is a first-time experience or an annual holiday tradition, don’t miss your chance to reserve your seat at this beautiful holiday ballet! The Nutcracker performances will be Friday, December 7 at 6:30 PM, Saturday, December 8 at 6:30 PM at the Opelika Performing Arts Center. www. tututix.com/variationsstudio.
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The Best Gift to Give Your Child He is the child sitting alone at the lunch table with his head held low. Her clothes are a little worn and maybe a little dirty or smelly too. She talks or walks in a different manner. We know these kids. We see them every day. We pass their families in the grocery store. We move past them to drop our kids off at the bus stop or at school. We huff and walk quickly past or give a wide berth when they are ahead of us. We are compassionate people, but what message do we send to our children by the way we respond to them? Children are masters at interpreting not only our words, but our body language, tone of voice, and unspoken thoughts that play out over our faces. How we respond to these situations influences how our children will respond not only today but also throughout their lives. Given the current bullying epidemic in the United States, our response in these situations is very important. While we may not be directly or indirectly bullying these children and families, our behavior regarding them teaches our children about appropriate social interaction and behaviors. By altering our responses, we can have a lasting impact on our children’s responses and, over the long term, the bullying epidemic.
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Bullying, as defined by stopbullying.gov, is repeated, unwanted, aggressive behavior that involves a real or perceived power imbalance. Bullying occurs throughout all age groups and in various settings, including but not limited to in person and via social media. The 2011 Youth Risk Behavior Surveillance System indicated that nationwide, 20% of 9-12 graders have experienced bullying. Based on the easy access to social media and rise in the rate of bullying, this number is likely much higher. In fact, DoSomething.org claims that 90% of children in grades 4-8 have been bullied at some point in their life. Although bullying can happen to anyone, those with special needs, alternative preferences, or low socio-economic status are most at risk. Bullying can take many forms and occurs in a variety of ways, including verbal, social, and physical. Bullying can have far reaching effects on all parties involved, including not only the bully, but also the victims and bystanders. Kids who are bullied are more likely to experience depression, social anxiety, health complaints, and poor academic achievement. Kids who bully others are more likely to engage in risk taking behaviors such as substance abuse and violence. Interestingly, those who witness bullying are also impacted. Statistically they also have higher
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rates of substance abuse, mental illness, and lower academic achievement. So what can we, as parents, do to help stop this epidemic? Change must start with us. We have enormous power over how our children respond to others. We need to be aware of both our spoken and unspoken reaction to others in our environment. We need to make certain that our response is the same response that we would like for our children to have. This monitoring of and, if needed change to, the way he behave is the best gift that we can give ourselves and our children this holiday season. Let’s strive to treat every person around us as a precious gift that is to be celebrated. When we see someone struggling, we should reach out to help. A simple hello or a kind word and smile can go a long way to brighten someone’s day and to help our children see that love and kindness is critical to happiness for all of us. Contributed by Jarod Stevenson, OMS IV, VCOM and Rian Anglin, MD FAAP. Dr. Rian Anglin, a board certified pediatrician, was raised nearby in Valley, AL. She attended Auburn University were she graduated summa cum laude with a BS in Molecular Biology. Despite her strong allegiance to Auburn, Dr. Anglin graduated from the University of Alabama School of Medicine in 2007 with her MD. Her passions in practice include promoting early childhood literacy, reducing toxic stress in childhood, and improving the practice of pediatric medicine through office based research. She resides in Auburn with her husband and their two sons.
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Candy Traylor Richland Elementary, Auburn
Teaching really is a work of heart! Your heart must not only be in your teaching, but given to each student you teach. They must know you care and that they are important to you and the classroom. It’s not always easy, but it’s always worth it! I’ve always known I wanted to be a teacher. As an elementary student myself I played school every afternoon with my stuffed animals as my students. I taught math and reading and wanted to find fun ways to teach. I knew that my own teachers made it fun for me and it gave me the desire to do the same thing. They made an impact upon me at an early age. Making an impact is what really makes teaching so rewarding. As an early childhood teacher you see the big gains in their learning and you also see the foundation that you are building for all future learning. It is so wonderful to see their eyes light up when they have truly learned something, and when they see you and come give you a hug when they are young. It’s also such a joy to see them later in life and see the success they’ve had...knowing that you were there to make an impact in the very early years. My hope is that I make a positive impact in their lives and that they know they are always my kids! They aren’t just someone that was on my class list, but a child that was important, loved and a part of my heart.
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Mrs. Traylor is a valued leader in our school who is deeply committed to her profession, students, and community. She has been teaching 1st grade at Richland since our doors opened in 2008 and has been the prototypical teacher for 1st grade. She consistently collaborates with her fellow teachers and is a role model for many. Further, she routinely participates in school programs and special events for the students and faculty. We are so lucky to have her as a part of our school and community. She is a true Champion! Jeffery J. Johnson Principal
Mrs. Traylor is an amazing teacher and mentor at Richland Elementary. Her passion and love of learning is evident in her everyday work. She goes above and beyond to ensure that all of her students are successful and feel loved. The Richland Elementary Family is truly blessed to have her. Katy Conradson Assistant Principal
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Family Math Night at Morris Avenue Intermediate
Thanksgiving at Wrights Mill Road Wrights Mill Road families gathered together to celebrate Thanksgiving. We are thankful for our families who joined us for our Thanksgiving meal.
The parents at Morris Avenue Intermediate School enjoyed a fun and informative evening with their children. They learned new strategies and played fun math games that reinforce basic skills. Third grade focused on addition and subtraction. Fourth grade covered measurement and geometry while fifth grade discussed fractions.
Pick Principal Recognized as Great Principal
Book Character Pumpkin Contest at Dean Road
October is National Principals Month and A+ Education Partnership is celebrating by recognizing great principals across the state of Alabama. Recently they featured Debbie Brooks of Pick Elementary School!
Dean Road elementary’s annual "Book Character" pumpkin contest allowed each class to enter a pumpkin inspired by their favorite book!
Ties Donated for Student Learning at AHS
More than 200 ties were donated to Damian Sinclair to fill his closet at Auburn High School for the "Tie-A-Tie Tuesday" effort that teaches students how to tie a tie! Thank you to the Auburn University Student Philanthropy Board for putting this opportunity together at their Burgers and Bow Ties event, where entry to the event was a necktie or bowtie.
Construction of Feudal Manors at Trinity Christian School
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Chambers Academy Hosts Veteran’s Day Program
Chambers Academy hosted its annual Veteran’s Day program on Monday, November 12 in the school’s gymnasium. The program was sponsored by CA’s Student Government Association and honored with Alabama’s State Legislator Gerald Dial serving as the keynote speaker. Senator Dial just completed his tenth term representing district 13 which includes parts of both Chambers and Lee counties. Gerald Dial served in the Alabama National Guard, advancing to the rank of Brigadier General until his retirement from the Guard. The program was well-attended despite the rainy weather, with CA’s students participating to help celebrate the bravery and sacrifices of all of our U.S. veterans. Students were reminded to remember that “Freedom is never free.” A number of local veterans attended the program and were recognized with their various branches of the armed services. Following the program a reception was held for all honored guests and our veterans.
Auburn Thunder U11 Wins Blue Angel Classic
Auburn Thunder U11 Girls were Champions in U11 gold division of the Blue Angel Classic held in Pensacola, Florida October 6 & 7. Pictured front row (left to right): Audrey Erath, Sarah Tole, Kathryn Zouhary, Catherine Greathouse, Olivia Minter, Lucille Morrison, Elizabeth Zouhary, Colby Cook, Abby Merner, Madelyn Price, Peyton Fitzgerald, Anna Grace Whittemore and Cierra Barron. Second row: Coach Craig Fargason.
Fire Department Visits St. Michael Students
Mrs. Walker and Mrs. Monique's PreK 3 class at St. Michael Catholic Preschool and Kindergarten had a special visit from the fire department.
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Here is a look at the some of the Veterans Day celebrations from across the school system! We hope everyone enjoyed their 3-day weekend while taking a moment to reflect and express your appreciation for the great men and women that have given of themselves to provide our freedoms in America.
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National STEM Day at AJHS
8th graders at Auburn Junior High had the opportunity to learn from Auburn University Engineering students on a variety of topics including chemical reactions and aerodynamics. An event like this is a great example of the collaborative relationship we have with Auburn University as well as being able to provide STEMrelated opportunities for our students. Reaching students at the 8th grade level is also advantageous when it comes to students deciding what course of study or career path they may be interested in before they get to the high school, collegiate or workforce level.
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Opelika HS Philanthropy 101
The Opelika High School Philanthropy 101 group enjoyed attending the Women's Philanthropy Board 2018 Fall Colloquium and Luncheon at Auburn University. Thank you to the Women's Philanthropy Board - Auburn University - College of Human Sciences for hosting us.
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Auburn University Conducts Experiments at Yarbrough
Julie Niklas, Jamonica Moore and Nicholas Klann from the Chemistry Department at Auburn University came by to share some exciting experiments with students at Yarbrough Elementary. They conducted the experiments for National Chemistry Week. The demos included Flame Tests, Ocean Acidification (universal indicator), Screaming Candy, Cryogenics, and Elephant’s Toothpaste.
Mayor Speaks About Voting at Ogletree Elementary
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Students at Ogletree Elementary welcomed Mayor Bill Ham and Mayor-Elect Ron Anders to speak on the topics of voting, elections, and the role of the mayor in a community!
Chick Chain Winner
Congratulations to Christian H. for placing 2nd in the 4H chick chain show. He also received 5th place in his age division. We are so proud of you Christian!!
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AEEC Visits Food Bank
Second Graders at Auburn Early Education Center kicked off their Food Drive efforts with a field trip to the Food Bank of East Alabama. They learned about what types of food items can be donated, took a tour of the facility, and found out ways they could help those in need.
Autauga County Schools Drake M.S. Spirit Week
Auburn High School All-American
Mohamoud Diabate (LB committed to the University of Florida) was presented with his All-American Bowl jersey! Diabate is one of 100 high school football players in the country to be selected to play in the All-American Bowl on January 5, 2019 in San Antonio. We wish Mohamoud the best of luck at the next level and beyond!
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Community Connections
Mr. Ramsey's Citizenship classes worked in groups to create Student Action Plans based on various topics in the community. Mayor Bill Ham and several city council members participated in a "press conference" with the students who are focusing on the development of downtown Auburn. The students had the opportunity to ask city officials questions so that they are able to better understand the process of development in our community.
Race to the Red Carpet
Everyone had such an incredible time at the Race to the Red Carpet recently. The Parent-Teacher Organizations at Richland, Creekside, and Yarbrough did a fantastic job hosting this event. Thank you so much for your hard work. We all felt like winners!
Red Ribbon Week at Wrights Mill Road
Pictured, WMR students celebrated Red Ribbon Week with pajama day. Other Red Ribbon days included crazy socks day (shoes in the classroom); career day; school team t-shirt day. Students also made cards to honor Veterans during our EAGLES team meetings. The theme for the week was “We have SWAG – Students who achieve goals!”
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Veterans at Morris Avenue I.S.
Students at Morris Avenue Intermediate School in Opelika honored their family members that have served in the military at a luncheon in November. Students introduced their family member and told about his or her years of service. Veterans were given a card as a small token of appreciation for their sacrifice for our country.
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Wrights Mill Road “Chill at the Mill”
Top classes from our WMR “Chill at the Mill” fundraiser got a chance to tape Mrs. Mason & Mrs. Streetman to the wall. All classes enjoyed videos of the KeKe challenge & taping while they enjoyed Marco’s Pizza for meeting their goal.
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Opelika HS Robotics Champs
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Congratulations to Opelika High School--2018 GRITS (Georgia Robotics Invitational Tournament and Showcase) Champions. Congratulations to Brenda Howell, Opelika's robotics teacher, for winning the @SCOREAuburn BEST Robotics Teacher of the Year Award. Brenda is an outstanding educator who cares deeply for her students and makes sure they have an amazing educational experience.
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Auburn HS Educator Recognized as PLTW Outstanding Teacher
Auburn High School teacher selected as national exemplary educator Jacque Middleton from Auburn High School received the highest honor given to PLTW teachers – PLTW Outstanding Teacher – at the Project Lead The Way national conference – PLTW Summit in San Antonio, Texas. PLTW recognized Mrs. Middleton in front of hundreds of attendees, including teachers from across the United States. “We are grateful to our teachers for their commitment to inspiring and empowering their students with the knowledge and transportable skills needed to thrive in our ever-changing world.” said PLTW Senior Vice President and Chief Programs Officer David Greer. “The PLTW Outstanding Teachers are leaders in their classrooms and are inspiring the next generation of innovators. Mrs. Middleton is a model PTLW teacher.” PLTW Outstanding Teachers and PLTW Outstanding Educational Leaders are selected through a competitive nomination and selection process for their focus on empowering students to thrive in this evolving world. They have demonstrated a strong record of the following: • Delivery of an inspiring and empowering student experience in the classroom; this includes success implementing high-quality PLTW programs and inspiring students to apply learning beyond the classroom. • Expanded access to career learning for students in the school and community. • Teacher leadership within the classroom, school, or district, using innovative methods to engage students in activity-, project-, problem-based learning, and active pursuit of professional and personal development. PLTW Engineering engages high school students in collaborative, real-life activities like working with a client to design a home, programming electronic devices or robotic arms, or exploring algae as a biofuel source. As students work together to imagine and design solutions to local and global challenges, they test their limits and question what’s possible. And by pushing themselves to rework and refine their projects, PLTW Engineering students learn that both failure and perseverance are key to learning and innovation. PLTW Summit, sponsored by Chevron, is the premier gathering for the PLTW network of individuals dedicated to preparing students with the in-demand knowledge and transportable skills they need to succeed in college and careers.
Dean Road Elementary Teacher of the Year
Andrea Newman has been named the Dean Road Elementary Teacher of the year! Ms. Newman was recognized for her hard work and dedication in the DRES art room and for loving our DRES kids! Newman graduated from Auburn University with a Bachelor of Science degree in Interior Design and later earned a Masters in Teaching from Oglethorpe University in Atlanta. She has been teaching at DRES since 2007.
Yarbrough Elementary Teacher of the Year Aleesa Zutter has been named Yarbrough Elementary's Teacher of the Year! Mrs. Zutter went to Auburn University where she received her Bachelor's of Science in Elementary Education and has taught for four years, all of which have been at Yarbrough Elementary at the 4th grade level.
Ogletree Elementary Teacher of the Year
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AHS Students Construct Tiny House
Did you know Jessica Bowlin's building science students at Auburn High School are constructing a tiny house? Once the house is complete they will look for a buyer with the proceeds going toward funding the next tiny house project. This is just one of countless efforts going on within the Career Technical Education programs at Auburn High School.
Military in Motion at Drake
Thank you to Sheriff Jay Jones, Johnny Lawrence and Beverly Helm for making this educational event happen at Drake! Students learned all about military and local law enforcement vehicles.
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Auburn High School hosted the VEX ROBOTICS Tournament and were crowned Tournament Champions! This is the inaugural year of the robotics team for Auburn City Schools and as you can see they are already setting a standard of excellence.
OCS central office staff dressed for the pink out at Bulldog Stadium. We support the Dawgs and we support the cause! GO DAWGS!
Drake M.S. Breakfast Club
Thanks to Anfernee McLemore for speaking to the Breakfast Club at Drake!
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Hurricane Relief Drive at Wrights Mill Road
WMR Student Leaders organized a Hurricane Relief Drive for our EAGLES to give back. Students donated supplies to be used for clean-up following Hurricane Michael.
Cary Woods Elementary Teacher of the Year
Holly Bigham has been named the Teacher of the Year at Cary Woods Elementary School! With 9 years at CWES, Mrs. Bigham is the media specialist and technology coordinator serving our little Explorers. Auburn Opelika Parents I December 2018
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Marlee Clifton has been named Auburn Early Education Center's Teacher of the Year! AEEC celebrated this announcement with a "Walk of Fame!" Mrs. Clifton earned a Bachelor of Science degree in Early Childhood Education from Auburn University and obtained a Master's degree in Early Childhood Education from the University of West Alabama. Mrs. Clifton has experience teaching 3rd grade, 1st grade, and kindergarten with most of her experience in kindergarten. www.auburnopelikaparents.com
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Drake Middle School Teacher of the Year
The J.F. Drake Middle School Teacher of the Year is Mr. Seth Clark! Mr. Clark teaches science on the Leopard team and has taught at Drake for 13 years. DMS is thankful for his leadership and proud to have him represent their school. It was a complete surprise for him to have 11 members of his family at the surprise reveal!
Auburn Jr. High Teacher of the Year
Rebecca Vining has been named the Teacher of the Year for Auburn Junior High School! Rebecca is in her 8th year teaching and has undergraduate degree is from Auburn University in Elementary Education (K-6). Her graduate degree is from University of Alabama at Birmingham in teaching English as a Second Language (ESL K-12). She has experience in fourth and sixth grade general education classrooms and kindergarten through twelfth grade English is a Second Language (ESL) classes and currently work with eighth and ninth grade ESL students at AJHS.
Allen Orthodontics is pleased to be moving to Moores Mill in Spring 2019. î ˘is move will improve our patient experience by accommodating our expanding orthodontic services and technology, greatly increasing space for treatment and allowing easy parking and access to our oďŹƒce for all of our patients. Allen Orthodontics is thrilled to be joining a great mix of signature businesses that will be steps away from our new location.
East Samford Teacher of the Year Jay Williams has been named the East Samford Teacher of the Year. Mr. Williams Teaches Science on the Bobcat Team and this is his 16th year teaching all with ACS in 7th grade science.
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Abby Kuhn has been named the Teacher of the Year at Creekside Elementary! Mrs. Kuhn is the art teacher at CES and earned her bachelors in Communication from The University of Alabama, and her masters in Visual Art Education from UAB. She has taught elementary visual art for 7 years.
A Richland Elementary Teacher of the Year
Anne Busbin has been named the Teacher of the Year at Richland Elementary! Mrs. Busbin is the counselor at RES and is in her 11th year as a Champion.
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Veterans Day at Wrights Mill Road
Wrights Mill Road honored our Veterans at the annual Veterans Day Program. Major General Sheryl Gordon, the first woman Adjutant General Alabama, was our guest speaker.
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Lee-Scott Academy invites prospective students and parents to visit LSA, and discover opportunities in academics, arts, and athletics with a mission founded on Christian principles. Please make reservations with Mrs. Pat Limbaugh, Director of Admissions, at plimbaugh@lee-scott.org
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How to Protect Your Kid from “Fortnite” Scams
fake ones. These fake domains mimic developer Epic Games’ and Fortnite’s real styles, colors, and fonts to fool people. Some even put “Fortnite” in the URL. These sites also collect personal information, but they often go a step further in directly charging a credit card or bank account.
The popular game has become an easy way for scammers to trick kids into sharing way too much information
Social media scams. One of the most popular ways that scams are spread is through social media. Fake sites and V-Bucks generators often encourage people to share their links to get more points, which helps expose the scam to more people. Plus, these links often direct users to suspicious apps and malware that can also target your kid’s personal information.
You were just getting used to your kid’s obsession with Fortnite, and now, all you hear about is V-Bucks. V-Bucks, like Robux on Roblox, are Fortnite’s in-game currency. Players use them to buy the fun “skins” (characters and outfits) and “emotes” (those hilarious dances like “Flossing” and “Take the L”) that kids will say they totally need to make Fortnite even cooler. For the record: You don’t need V-Bucks to play Fortnite, and if you do spring for them, they cost real money. Also, online scammers are all over V-Bucks. Fortnite’s incredible popularity among kids has made it an easy target for rip-off artists trying to make some actual bucks while the game is hot. A recent study from online security company ZeroFox discovered more than 4,700 fake Fortnite websites, and the company sent out more than 50,000 security alerts about Fortnite scams in a single month. Kids are particularly vulnerable to requests to turn over personal information, including names and email addresses or even credit card numbers. Here’s how you can spot the scam and protect your kids.
YouTube video scams. Similar to link-sharing scams on social media, there are tons of YouTube videos offering free V-Bucks and more. These fake videos and accounts have millions of views and send gamers to other sketchy sites. Fake Android apps. After Epic Games made the controversial decision not to offer their Android app in the Google Play Store, scammers took advantage by putting up fake Fortnite apps. Although they’re designed to look like Fortnite, they’re really data theft and malware distributors in disguise.
Tips to avoid getting scammed Talk to your kids about how to spot and avoid Fortnite scams and other scams online. Here are some tips to keep your kid’s information private and your money safe: Be cautious when you give out private information. Tell kids to check with you before filling out forms, quizzes, registration pages, and the like on a website or app. For older kids, teach them to think carefully about why a site or app might want your data.
What to watch out for V-Bucks generators. “V-Bucks generators” are one of the biggest online Fortnite scams. These are often websites that offer people points for watching or clicking on ads, and these points can supposedly be traded in for free V-Bucks within Fortnite. Not only do these free V-Bucks never appear, these sites often try to collect people’s Fortnite usernames and passwords or have them take surveys where they submit personal data under the pretense of verifying that they’re human.
Only spend real money through official platforms. PlayStation, Xbox, Epic Games’ official website, and the official Fortnite app are the only places to buy V-Bucks. Anything else is a scam. Double-check URLs and domain names. Talk to kids about scams and how some sites or apps look very similar to the official ones but are designed to trick you into giving up money or information. Domain names and URLs might have only one letter or symbol that’s different from the original, so look carefully.
Fake domains. Similar to V-Bucks generators, there are also tons of sites that offer free V-Bucks or trick people into buying Auburn Opelika Parents I December 2018
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A Page in a Book Girls Who Make Art Making art is a privilege that is accessible to everyone, regardless of age, gender, class or inclination. Free from traditional boundaries, artistic expression can emerge from every medium and inhabit any space. The following titles feature women and girls who take their own great strides into the art landscape and erase traditional boundaries by painting their own path forward with the tools at hand.
Anywhere Artist
by Nikki Slade Robinson (Harcourt / Houghton Mifflin Harcourt) As a young artist moves through a variety of environments, she’s not constrained by the absence of paper or paint, of clay or canvas. The forest offers leaves, lichens and twigs that can assemble into wholly new creatures, sprung from her imagination. Likewise, kelp, sand and shells are all she needs at the beach to lay out shapes and shadows for her original creations. Even the sky becomes a canvas as her mind brushes and shapes clouds into shapes and forms that suit her vision. Anywhere she goes, art can happen. Presenting the whole world as an art studio, with nature and imagination as the only mediums needed to create, Anywhere Artist encourages inspiration and resourcefulness when art awaits.
Maya Lin: Artist-Architect of Light and Lines
By Jeanne Walker Harvey, Illustrated by Dow Phumiruk (Henry Holt / Macmillan) As the child of a sculptor and a poet, Maya Lin was raised with the power of shape and words. In 1981, when artists and architects were invited to submit designs for a future memorial to the American soldiers lost in the Vietnam War, Maya Lin was still a college student. Understanding the importance of this memorial to both survivors and a grateful nation, young Maya visited the proposed site to see what her vision would present. Her artist’s eye showed her a cut in the earth, walled with granite to reflect the viewer, and the stone carved with the name of every lost soldier. Considered avant garde at the time, Lin’s design for the Vietnam Veterans Memorial in Washington D.C. is now regarded as one of the most moving and powerful installations in the country.
Big Machines: The Story of Virginia Lee Burton
by Sherri Duskey Rinker, Illustrated by John Rocco (Houghton Mifflin Harcourt) Virginia Lee Burton, ‘Jinnee’ to her friends, is many things. She’s a dancer, she talks to animals, and with magic wands (sticks of charcoal, paint brushes and pens) she creates heroes, dinosaurs and whole new worlds. But for her two sons, Jinnee works the greatest magic of all; she creates big machines! While her boys look on, Jinnee uses her wands to sketch the outlines of trains, steam shovels, and snowplows. As her drawings evolve with color and details, the stories and personalities of the big machines emerge as well. Beloved as the creator of the children’s book classics ‘Mike Mulligan and His Steam Shovel and ‘Choo Choo’, Burton’s own story is revealed as Big Machines drives a magical, movement-filled view of her artistic process and the mother’s love that drove her most famous creations. Find more reading recommendations at www.PageBookMedia.com.
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You may choose to walk or bathe a dog at your local shelter, giving him a holiday treat. You may choose to volunteer to pack family food boxes at your local food bank or organize clothing racks at your local homeless shelter. Your child may want to gather gently loved books to take to the children’s wing of your local hospital. Or you both may enjoy staying close to home and raking leaves in the neighbor’s yard. Encourage your child to think of their own volunteer activity.
In an attempt to create the “perfect holiday,” we busy ourselves to the point of forgetting to enjoy the simple moments of the season and we teach our children how to stress over the holidays rather than how to enjoy relationships. Zig Zigler may have communicated it best. Love = time to a child. Why don’t we create magical holiday moments by slowing down and making a concerted effort to spend some simple one on one time with each one of our children individually?
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Ask your child to pick his favorite holiday flick, Home Alone, Charlie Brown Christmas, Frosty the Snowman, Rudolph or other. Make popcorn and binge watch, snuggled up on the couch together – just you and your child. You may even string popcorn while you watch.
strong lifelong bonds and create holiday memories for years to come. It may seem counter intuitive to keep a list of possible
7. Holiday book binge
“spontaneous” holiday activities to cultivate.
Go to your local library and check out holiday books. Make hot chocolate and sit and binge read together one right after the other. Be sure to ask your child which is her favorite and why. Talk about the stories. Take turns reading out loud and use funny voices to animate the characters.
But the truth is, many of us aren’t good at letting go and truly being “present” with our children and simply having fun.
8. Holiday storytelling
Here are some ideas for spending one on one time with each child that doesn’t require a big budget and may be shared regardless of age or gender.
Tell stories to each other with the listener providing the first lines. Here are some story ideas: Rudolph the Untold Story, Frosty’s Vacation, the Zoo Holiday or Little Drummer Boy and the Flute Girl.
1. Holiday baking
9. Rockin’ around the Christmas tree
Put on your favorite Christmas music and rock out together! Get your groove on and give your child a spontaneous dance lesson. They may find out how cool you are.
Let your child lead the way. Find a recipe with simple ingredients they can follow without a lot of fuss. Or buy a tube of cookie dough from the grocery store and keep it simple. Talk and listen to each other while you are decorating cookies. Give some to the neighbors to introduce community building and talk about holiday values.
10. Holiday lights tour
Take an evening drive before bedtime in your pajamas. Pipe in holiday tunes and drive around town looking at Christmas lights. Ooh and ah over what you see. (This one has become a tradition for my daughter and me.)
2. Play outside
Even play in the rain or cold with your child. Enjoy your child’s smiles and giggles with no agenda or time limit.
3. Memory making
Make your own holiday magic, mindfully.
Organize old family photos into a holiday album or start a scrapbook of a beloved family holiday. Talking about the memories can help kids re-live the experience and draw you closer.
Add simple one on one kid time to your holiday to do list. Cut this list out of the magazine or print it up and put it on the
4. Homemade seasons greetings
Buy a new box of crayons and construction paper. If you are really adventurous buy glitter or glitter glue. Make New Year’s cards. You may get really wild and make homemade ornaments. Put on some Christmas music if that’s your tradition and sing along while you create. Music is proven to enhance memory. If you sing off key and giggle, that’s even better.
refrigerator as a reminder to seize the holiday moments and simply enjoy each other.
5. Volunteer together
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Laura Lyles Reagan, MS is a parent coach, family sociologist and author of How to Raise Respectful Parents. She can be reached for parenting resources through her website at www.LauraLReagan.com.
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27th Annual Christmas Light Festival at the Montgomery Zoo ad on page 21
November 28-December 2, December 6-9 and December 13-25 The Montgomery Zoo, 2301 Coliseum Parkway Montgomery, Al 36110 See the Montgomery Zoo transformed into a Winter Wonderland sparkling with thousands of lights and festive decorations. Take a leisurely stroll, a brisk train ride or see the lights from atop the Zoofari Skylift Ride. Visit Santa, enjoy the live nightly entertainment and no winter’s night would be complete without some warming hot chocolate and fresh baked cookies. 334-625-4900 www.montgomeryzoo.com
Christmas In Camelot Lighted Tour ad on page 5
December 1-31, 4:30-10:00pm Camelot Way Opelika, Al 36801 The magic of Christmas comes alive throughout Camelot with the many large Christmas Cards, painted under art teacher, Roslyn Stern, by Opelika High art students. The neighborhood lights are adorned with lighted wreaths and all the houses are decorated with the wonders of Christmas. This drive-through event begins at sundown.
City of Opelika Christmas Parade ad on page 5
December 1, 10:00am Downtown Opelika, 1032 South Railroad Avenue Opelika, Al 36801 Don’t miss the 2018 Opelika Christmas Parade on December 1! If you would like to participate in the parade, please complete an application form. The form and guidelines can be found on the Chamber’s website. 334-745-4861 www.opelikachamber.com
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December 5-9 Opelika Historic District, 8th & 9th Streets The homes are decorated with life size Santa’s, Auburn Opelika Parents I December 2018
angels, toys, carousel horses and Christmas themed figures. The Victorian Front Porch Christmas Tour has been voted one of the southeast’s top rated tourism events and featured in Better Homes and Gardens and Southern Living. The event is a self directed driving tour. However, on Saturday night North 8th and 9th streets will be closed to traffic to encourage visitors, neighbors and friends to stroll through the neighborhood. This enables everyone to leisurely enjoy the homes up close, listen to the carolers, and talk with residents dressed in Victorian costumes. This tour begins on North 8th street and 2nd Avenue and includes over ten city blocks. Admission to this spectacular production is free. On the Friday night of the tour the City of Opelika sponsors Christmas in a Railroad town which includes wagon rides through the Victorian Front Porch Christmas tour which includes tour guides who take you back in time while enjoying the festively decorated homes. Lighted Driving Tour: December 5-7 and 9, 5:0010:00pm, Bike Tour: December 6, 6:00pm, Walking Tour: Saturday December 8, 6:00-9:00pm. Tree lighting with Opelika Mayor Gary Fuller and his wife Laura at 6:00pm at the corner of North 8th Street and 2nd Avenue. (weather permitting).
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Annual Christmas in a Railroad Town ad on page 5
December 7, 6:00-9:00pm Historic Downtown Opelika, 1032 S Railroad Ave Whether you’re a young child or simply a child at heart – there will be activities for everyone at this great night out in historic downtown Opelika. Join us for Christmas in a Railroad Town. Visit with friends and enjoy a variety of food vendors and restaurants. Bring the kids to write letters to Santa, enjoy pony rides, caroling, entertainment and other new activities! Guaranteed fun for adults includes Loft Tours, personalized gifts made on site and bundles of sweet treats for sale. Local retail shops will be open late for all your Christmas needs. Santa and Mrs. Claus will also be available for family photos! Be transported back in time and take a wagon ride through the Victorian Front Porch Christmas Tour. Leave straight from Christmas in a Railroad Town and be delivered back once you’re done. Enclosed trolley rides also available at the Museum of East Alabama. 334-745-0466 director@opelikamainstreet.org www.opelikamainstreet.org
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Variations Dance Studio Presents “Nutcracker” ad on page 3
December 7-8 Opelika Performing Arts Center, 1700 Lafayette Parkway Opelika, Al 36801 This holiday season, enjoy the magic and beauty of our premiere performances of “Nutcracker”. Follow Clara into a dream-like world of dancing snowflakes and see all the colorful treats found in the Land of Sweets! Whether it is a first time experience or an annual holiday tradition, don’t miss your chance to reserve a seat at this beautiful holiday ballet. 334-275-5013 info@variationsstudio.com www.variationsauburn.com
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December 8, 10am-8pm Gold Star Park, Ready Street Wetumpka, Al 36092 Wetumpka’s Christmas on the Coosa continues to bring people from all over the state to enjoy Wetumpka’s family atmosphere and unique heritage. Called the “City of Natural Beauty” Wetumpka is a quaint, historic town nestled along the banks of the Coosa River and is home to the annual Christmas on the Coosa celebration. The event features activities and events for the whole family. The day-long Christmas on the Coosa celebration features a car show, children’s character breakfast, entertainment for children and a show case for local talent. The annual street parade features over 100 entries and passes along the area for arts & crafts vendors. The evening continues with a ski-in by Santa and the ends with a grand fireworks finale. 334-567-5147 www.cityofwetumpka.com
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December 9, 2:00pm 122 West Magnolia Avenue Auburn , Al 36830 The entire community is invited to celebrate the season with the Auburn Chamber Christmas Parade in downtown Auburn. The parade will include Aubie, Santa, Christmas characters, live music and lots of other favorites! For float entry forms, contact Auburn Chamber. www.auburnchamber.com
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December 13-15; 5:00-8:00pm 1001 Andrews Road Opelika, Al 36801 Rocky Brook Reindeer Express: Come take a train ride through the lights at Municipal Park! Enjoy food, hot chocolate, face painting, entertainment, pictures with Santa and more! Ages 2nd grade and younger. Holiday Movie at the Plex: The Santa Claus: Don’t miss the Holiday Movie at the Plex featuring The Santa Claus on Saturday, December 8, from 6:00-8:00 p.m. This is a FREE event. Christmas Crafts: Make and take your own Christmas crafts. December 18, 2:00pm. Ages 6-10years, Fee $15. Christmas Wreaths: Decorate wreaths with all your favorite things and hang them on your door to display at Christmas. December 4, 3:30pm. Ages 5-12years. Fee $15.
425 Perry Street Auburn, Al 36830 Annual Polar Express Holiday Celebration: All aboard the Polar Express! Children ages 12 and under are invited to hop aboard the Polar Express on Saturday, December 1 at Jan Dempsey Community Arts Center. Children under the age of 24 months are FREE with the purchase of an adult ticket. The “train” will depart at 9 a.m., Noon and 2:30 p.m. Activities include arts & crafts, sweet treats, a visit with Santa and Mrs. Claus and much more! Children are encouraged to wear their favorite holiday pajamas while they participate in indoor and outdoor activities. Tickets for the event will be on sale Wednesday and Thursday, Nov. 8 and 9, from 9 a.m. - 4 p.m. at the Jan Dempsey Community Arts Center. The cost per ticket is $15 for adults and children 25 months and older. 12th Annual Holiday Art Sale: December 8, 9:00am4:00pm at Jan Dempsey Community Arts Center, Frank Brown Rec Center and Harris Center. The Holiday Art Sale is a great place to get a head start on your Christmas shopping while meeting local artists selling their own unique handmade work. Admission is FREE and open to the public! The event features local and regional artists selling handmade works, including pottery, paintings, personalized items, photography, handmade soap, jewelry, gourmet food items, scarves, hats, candles and more! A portion of the proceeds from sales support the Auburn Arts Association and their many art education programs. 30th Annual Daddy Daughter Date Night: Tickets go on sale December 3.Five dance nights will be held at the Clarion Inn & Suites on S. College Street. Daughters, dads, granddads, and uncles are invited to dance the night away and enjoy refreshments, door prizes, dance contests, keepsake photos, and an evening of memories. Special guests will also be in attendance! 2018 event dates are as follows: February 1, 2, 7, 8 and 9. The Jingle Jog 5k and Santa Stroll Fun Run: Pull out those ugly sweaters again Auburn! Join Active Auburn on Saturday, December 8 at 7 a.m. as we ring in the holiday season in style! The Santa Stroll Fun Run will begin at 7 a.m. at Toomer’s Corner. The Jingle Jog 5k will begin at 7:30 a.m. at Toomer’s Corner.
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Collingwood Christmas Luminaries ad on page 5
December 14, 5:00-9:00pm Collinwood Street Opelika, Al 36801 Take a drive through the Collinwood neighborhood to experience the pathway to Bethlehem. Featuring live actors and live animals, this tradition is fun for the whole family. With over 1,500 sacks with candles prepared by the Collinwood neighborhood residents, the candles are set out along the roadway through the neighborhood to “light the path” on the “journey to the manger.” Along the luminary path you will see shepherds, wise men, and angels following the star on their way to see the Christ Child. All are welcome.
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766 East University Drive, Auburn Al 36830 December 9- Parkway Choirs present Rejoice: A Christmas Musical December 16- Hiz Kids Choirs present Straight Outta Bethleham December 24- Candlelight Christmas Eve Service All services begin at 5:00pm 334-887-3782
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241 South College Street Auburn, Al 36830 Gingerbread Village Unveiling- In partnership with Auburn University’s College of Architecture, Design and Construction Master of Integrated Design and Construction Program presents the 2018 Auburn Gingerbread Village. December 9. Thanksgiving Brunch and Dinner- Ariccia will feature four-course dinner in addition to the a la carte menu on Thanksgiving. Reservations are highly recommended and can be made over the phone. S‘mores and More- Tuesday, Thursdays and Saturdays in December. Gather around the fire pit on the A*T patio to sip on hot chocolate while building your own gourmet s ‘more with smorgasbord of toppings. $10 per person. Christmas Dinner- Let our culinary team do the cooking for you and enjoy a delicious four course holiday meal in Ariccia, on December 24 and 25. Reservations are recommended. New Year’s Eve Celebration- Ring in 2019 with a five course sharing menu in Ariccia, a champagne toast at midnight and live jazz band in Piccolo, December 31. Reservations are required. 334-821-8200 www.auhcc.com
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Stone Mountain Christmas
Thru January 6 1000 Robert E. Lee Blvd Stone Mountain, Ga Have a Holly Jolly Christmas at Stone Mountain Park, where the true magic of the season is in the air. Enjoy the glow of more than two million lights, festive music and visits from some your favorite holiday characters. Start a new tradition and create memories that will last a lifetime for your kids...and you. Rudolph The Red-Nosed-Reindeer 4-D! Skylights Spectacular: A Musical Walkthrough Experience. Clarice the Reindeer joins Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer® and Bumble™ the Abominable Snow Monster at Rudolph’s Merry Little Meet and Greet. Kids of all ages can meet these heartwarming characters or catch them in the nightly Christmas parade! Enjoy live performances that are sure to get you in the Christmas spirit. 800-401-2407 www.stonemountainpark.com
Snow Mountain at Stone Mountain Park Thru February 1000 Robert E. Lee Blvd Stone Mountain, Ga Snow tubing in GA? Yep, we have it! Snow Mountain at Stone Mountain Park is a winter wonderland of fun. With a 400-foot tubing hill
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Alabama Shakespeare Festival presents “The Sound of Music” Thru December 30 1 Festival Drive Montgomery, Al 36117 The final collaboration between Rodgers and Hammerstein captures a personal tale of growth and hope. After causing disorder at the abbey, the young nun Maria is sent off to be governess to Captain Von Trapp’s seven children. Maria enchants the entire family by teaching the children to sing and the Captain to love again. This delightful musical will thrill audiences with its Tony®, Grammy®, and Academy Award® winning Best Score. 800-841-4273 www.asf.net
The Heart of Dixie Railroad Museum’s North Pole Express
November 30-December 2, 7-9 and 14-15 1919 9th Street Calera, Al 35040 “All Aboard” says the conductor, and your family’s journey begins to the North Pole! Through the dark night, the magical train makes its way to the top of the world! Upon arrival at the brilliantly decorated North Pole, Santa, Mrs. Claus, and the elves board the train to visit with your family and give each child a keepsake! Be sure to bring your camera to get a photo of your family with Santa and Mrs. Claus! You’ll enjoy chocolate milk and cookies, sing Christmas songs, and listen to a special Christmas Story! The North Pole Express will make lasting Christmas memories for you and your family! For even more fun, be sure to wear your pajamas! 205-668-3435
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Magic Christmas in Lights
Thru December 2 Bellingrath Gardens, 12401 Bellingrath Gardens Road Theodore, Al 36582 In this Gulf Coast holiday tradition, guests stroll through a dazzling light display that features more than 1,100 set pieces, 3 million lights and 15 scenes throughout the 65-acre Garden estate. In addition, the Bellingrath Home is decorated in its holiday finery and enhanced with beautiful poinsettias. Magic Christmas in Lights includes nightly choral performances on the South Terrace of the Home on Sundays through Thursdays. In addition, guests may purchase hot chocolate on Live Oak Plaza to warm the heart and soul. 251-973-2217 | www.bellingrath.org
License to Chill Islands & Magical Night of Lights
Thru January 2 Lake Lanier Islands, 7000 Lanier Islands Parkway Buford, Ga 30518 New this Season...License to Chill Snow Island: Be transported to a wintery vacation state of mind on the fastest snow tubing hill in North America. Magical Nights of Lights: As you drive through our holiday inspired front gate, you crossover the magnificent snowflake bridge, through the 12 Days of Christmas, pass the illuminated diamond wonder light, under the blanket-lit bridge, all through the dancing Holi-
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day House, Santa’s Workshop, Winter Carnival and more! Your magical night does not stop with the lights. Santa’s Village is a must for guests of all ages. Roast marshmallows on the bonfire, treat your tastes buds to delicious holiday treats, do some holiday shopping at Bucky’s Gift Shop or the many concessions that abound. Children of all ages will enjoy the many rides in our Winter Carnival. Tis’ the season to be jolly with Old St. Nick. You will find Santa taking pictures and discussing holiday wish lists with children at Santa’s Workshop. 770-945-8787
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26th Annual Fantasy in Lights
Thru January 5 17800 US Highway 27 Pine Mountain, Ga 31822 Callaway Gardens’ Fantasy In Lights, in Pine Mountain, Georgia, is not only the South’s most spectacular holiday light and sound show, it is one of the world’s “Top 10 Places to See Holiday Lights,” as named by National Geographic Traveler. Follow the links below for complete details on 2018 Fantasy In Lights. Specialty Nights Saturday, Nov. 10 - March of Dimes Night Walk 25th Anniversary! Sunday, Nov. 11 - Bicycle Night Monday, Nov. 12 - Photography Night Sunday, Dec. 31 - New Year’s Eve Party at Fantasy In Lights 800-898-4868 www.callawaygardens.com
The AO Christmas Market
November 29-December 1 Bottling Plant Event Center, 614 N Railroad Avenue Opelika, Al 36801 The A|O Christmas Market will be held November 29-December 1 in the heart of Downtown Opelika at the Bottling Plant Event Center. The Christmas Market will host a series of special events, including VIP Preview, Girls’ Night, Santa’s Workshop, to benefit various causes in East Alabama. larkin@aochristmasmarket.com www.aochristmasmarket.com
An Eclectic Christmas
November 30-December 9 Falk Farm, 1733 Claude Road Eclectic, Al 36024 It was the night that saved the world. The star shone so bright in the night sky. There was not room in the inn. Forced out into the cold night air surrounded with animals, Christmas was born in a stable. Come join us in December to experience the true story of the first Christmas. In the atmosphere of an outdoor walking trail, you and your guests will be part of live drama that is set during the Roman Empire. As decreed by Caesar, everyone must be counted in the census. As you make your way to Bethlehem, you will visit the field where shepherds received the angel’s message and news of the Messiah. Then visit the wise men as they journey in search of the New Born King. You too shall be counted. Reservations highly recommended.
Christmas Holidays at Hills & Dales Estate
December 1916 Hills and Dales Drive LaGrange, Ga 30240 Experience our circa 1940’s, tinsel-laden Christmas tree, brilliant Poinsettias and other seasonal decorations during the holiday season. The Fuller E. Callaway family home and the visitor center will be decorated for the holidays this December, Tuesdays to Saturdays. Regular tour prices apply. Also offering wreath workshops, family tabletop luminaries workshop, mixed green Christmas wreath workshops and Children’s Christmas Celebration. 706-882-3242 www.hillsanddales.org
Broadway Parade and Tree Lighting
December 1, 10:00am 1100 Broadway Columbus, Ga 31901 Christmas lovers rejoice as Santa is escorted in by his entourage, including special guest appearances from Santa, the Coca-Cola Polar Bear, and Mayor Teresa Tomlinson. Sing along to traditional Christmas carols at the lighting of the giant Christmas tree and play in the SNOW! There will be hot chocolate, candy canes and lots of fun for the entire family. Participants are encouraged to wear their favorite holiday attire and to bring their camera to partake in the many photo opportunities! For the third year, Columbus State University’s Servant Leaders have partnered with Uptown Columbus on the Uptown Tree Trail, a trail of ornately decorated trees in the median of Broadway to shine all holiday season! Bring a toy or $2 donation and play in Santa’s Castle of Fort Benning Bouncy House. 706-596-0111 www.uptowncolumbusga.com
Atlanta Children’s Christmas Parade
December 1, 10:30am Peachtree and 16th Street Atlanta, Ga 30308 With floats, giant helium-filled balloons and marching bands, the Children’s Christmas Parade will be the largest holiday parade in the southeast. Thousands of spectators will be lined up along the streets eagerly awaiting the arrival of Santa and the official beginning of the holiday season in Atlanta. www.choa.org
22nd Annual Cookie Walk
December 1, 8:00am-1:00pm Grace United Methodist Church, 915 E Glenn Avenue Auburn , Al 36830 Benefiting Habitat for Humanity. It has been 23 Successful years! Habitat for Humanity Annual Fundraiser is still a unique way to welcome in the Holiday Spirit of generosity and celebration. Folks from the Lee County community come out to buy fresh and delicious holiday-decorated cookies. The big event is sponsored by the Auburn We Help Coalition of 12 local churches. Our guests “Walk” the aisles lined with tables displayed with thousands of home-baked holiday Cookies and goodies while they select their favorites. After generously filling their boxes, shoppers happily pay only $6 per pound. 334-329-4879 dlrwork@yahoo.com
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Old Alabama Town Holiday Open House 1st Week of December 301 Columbus Street Montgomery, Al 36104 Our annual Holiday Open House, often the first week of December. We open up the Living Block and Ordeman House, and feature live holiday music, storytelling, costumed villagers, cookies and hot cider, pioneer tree ornaments for kids, and even photos with Father Christmas. Free to the public. 1-888-240-1850 www.landmarksfoundation.com
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13th Annual Eufaula’s Christmas Tour of Homes
December 1 Historic Downtown Eufaula Eufaula, Al 36027 Stroll through history and witness the magnificence of Eufaula’s finest homes aglow in holiday splendor. This delightful tour boasts lovely, unique homes decorated for Christmas as only Eufaulians can do. Experience Christmas as never before in some of the South’s finest homes! 888-383-2852 www.eufaulapilgrimage.com
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Santa Claus 10K at Callaway Gardens December 1 Callaway Gardens, 17800 US Hwy 27 Pine Mountain, Ga 31822 This run course travels through the Callaway Gardens lit “FANTASY IN LIGHTS” and includes marshmallow, chocolate, and candy cane miles. Stick around after the race for your picture with Santa!
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Birmingham Ballet presents ‘The Nutcracker’
December 1-2 BJCC, 2100 Richard Arrington Jr Blvd N Birmingham, Al 35203 Celebrate the Holidays with Birmingham Ballet’s The Nutcracker - a Magic City Holiday Tradition! With delights for all ages, this production features elaborate costumes and sets along with beautiful dancing by a cast of over 100 dancers. Nothing can match the overflowing of abundant youthful energy and good cheer. Dramatic special effects are woven together with heartwarming moments to carry you along on the magical journey with Clara and her Nutcracker Prince. 205-979-9492 www.birminghamballet.com
Port Columbus’ Christmas
December 1-2 National Civil War Naval Museum, 1002 Victory Drive Columbus, Ga 31901 Santa Claus is coming back to town, and he’s setting up shop at the National Civil War Naval Museum! Families can enjoy special programming. The weekend will feature a host of community entertainment, museum tours, shopping in the Museum store, and refreshments. As always, Santa will be available during this event to visit with children and pose for photos. This event is FREE and open to the public, as a token of appreciation from the museum to the amazing supporters in Columbus, Georgia and surrounding areas. 706-327-9798 www.portcolumbus.org
Bi-City Christmas Parade
December 2, 10:00am Broad Street and Broadway Columbus, Ga 31901 The Bi-City Christmas Parade will begin on Colin Powell Parkway, go down Broad Street in Phenix City and end on Broadway in Columbus. The parade will consist of holiday themed floats, horses, motorcycles, clowns, marching units and much more!. 334-448-2701 www.phenixcityal.us
Santa Claus Special at The Heart of Dixie Railroad Museum
December 2, 9 and 16 1919 9th Street Calera, Al 35040 Take a train ride filled with Christmas Cheer as you ride the Santa Special! Board our vintage train decorated for the season and take a train ride where Santa will visit with all the boys and girls! Talk with Santa and tell him what you would like for Christmas! Santa will have a treat for every boy and girl! Make sure to bring your camera to get a photo of all the sights and make a picture of your family with Santa! The Santa Special train ride lasts approximately 1 hour. Please arrive 1 hour prior to your departure time to pick up your tickets
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Annual Hometown Christmas Parade
December 3 Comer Street Alexander City, Al 35010 Join us as we light up the night, when Alexander City’s Annual Hometown Christmas Parade winds
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Governor’s Mansion Candlelight Open House and Tour
December 3, 11 and 17 1142 South Perry Street Montgomery, Al 36104 Each Monday before Christmas, the Candlelight Tour serves as an opportunity for the public to view the Governor’s Mansion holiday decor, enjoy live choir performances and sample Alabamamade goods at the gift shop. During the tours, rooms open to the public, which include the main entrance, dining room, sitting room, sun room and more, feature holiday decor by volunteer designers from around the state. While each room displays a different decorating style, all showcase a classic and charming Christmas look. In addition, the Farley-Hill House, which is located next door to the mansion and typically used as a meeting space, is also decorated and open for public viewing during the tour. Guests are also able to listen to live music performed by different children’s choirs each night on the staircase of the mansion. 334-834-3022
Holiday Festival
December 3-15 Selma Performing Arts Center, 1000 Selma Avenue Selma, Al 36701 A community celebration of the holiday season. A two week long craft show and bake sale with Santa in attendance some afternoons. The event is held annually on the first 2 full weeks of December. 334-412-8550 www.selmaalabama.com
Alabama Shakespeare Festival presents “The Gospel of Luke” December 6-30 1 Festival Drive Montgomery, Al 36117 Actor Bruce Kuhn performs the Gospel of Luke with the passion and surprise of an eyewitness account. In a compelling ninety minutes, the tale comes alive with the urgency, fervor, and humor of someone who was there 800-841-4273 www.asf.net
“Elf”
December 7-23 Springer Opera House, 103 10th Street Columbus, Ga 31901 ELF is the hilarious tale of Buddy, a young orphan who mistakenly crawls into Santa’s bag of gifts and is transported to the North Pole. Buddy is raised unaware that he is actually a human, until his enormous size and poor toy-making abilities cause him to face the truth. With Santa’s permission, Buddy embarks on a journey to New York City to find his birth father and discover his true identity. Faced with the harsh reality that his father is on the naughty list and his step-brother doesn’t even believe in Santa, Buddy is determined to win over his new family and help New York remember the true meaning of Christmas. 706-327-3688 www.springeroperahouse.org
Holidays on the Harriott
December 7-8, 14-15 and 21-22 Downtown Riverfront, 213 Commerce Street Montgomery, Al 36104 Full Holiday Meal, Live Entertainment and Cash Bar www.funinmontgomery.com
Montgomery Ballet presents the 42nd Annual Performance of “Nutcracker”
December 7-9 Davis Theatre, 251 Montgomery Street Montgomery, Al 36104 Join the Montgomery Ballet as it presents their annual performance of The Nutcracker. The Nutcracker Ballet is based on the story “The Nutcracker and the King of Mice” written by E.T.A. Hoffman. Although what is seen on the stage today is different in detail from the original story, the basic plot remains the same..the story of a young German girl who dreams of a Nutcracker Prince and a fierce battle against a Mouse King with seven heads. www.montgomeryballet.org
Christmas Through the Ages
December 8 51 Bienville Blvd Dauphin Island, Al 36528 Experience a Christmas of “Days Gone by!” This event is a living history Day for the whole family. Come and join the soldiers from the1700’s through the 1900’s and their Families as they celebrate a non-commercial Christmas. Our visiting children will have the chance to make a seashells ornament and other decorations. 251-861-6992
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Christmas at The Alabama Nature Center December 8 3050 Lanark Road Millbrook, Al 36054 Join us for our 11th annual Christmas at the Alabama Nature Center. Enjoy hayrides, Christmas crafts, decorating cookies, a movie special and much more! Learn how to create your own nature ornament, get pictures with Santa, enjoy our Christmas movie special, and make sure to go on the hay ride! Christmas is always fun here at the ANC, we will have hot chocolate for sale and plenty of activities to keep you warm. This Christmas is sure to be filled with holiday fun at the NaturePlex! Bring your camera and take a picture with jolly Ol’ Saint Nick! 800-822-9453 www.alabamawildlife.org
The Art Studio Holiday Art Club
December 8 and 15, 10:00am 118 N Ross Street, Suite 7 Auburn, Al 36830 Studio Kids is a Saturday art club that gives children an opportunity to engage in art exploration. Children explore a variety of materials, and ideas and techniques for use of materials are offered. Ages 5 - 13. Cost is $20. 334.332.5275 www.theartstudioauburn.com
“Back in Time” A Tradition Filled Historical Holiday Celebration
Columbus Ballet presents “The Nutcracker”
December 8-9 RiverCenter for the Performing Arts, 900 Broadway Columbus, Ga 31901 Join us for The Columbus Ballet’s annual performance of The Nutcracker at the River Center for the Performing Arts. Featuring a full orchestra playing Tchaikovsky’s timeless music, professional sets, costumes, and a company of national and local dancers. 706-507-8367 www.thecolumbusballet.net
Victorian Christmas
December 9, 1-4pm Landmark Park, 430 Landmark Dr Dothan, Al 36303 Warm up to some holiday hospitality during Landmark Park’s annual open house. Visitors are invited to sip hot chocolate or mulled cider while children try their hand at making traditional Christmas decorations and enjoy a wagon ride around the property. A circuit riding preacher will arrive to deliver a Christmas message in the historic Presbyterian Church and Santa will be available to visit with the kids. 334-794-3452 www.landmarkparkdothan.com
“Dashing Through the Snow”
December 13-15 New Horizon Community Theatre, 411 West 8th Street West Point, Ga 31833 It’s four days before Christmas in Tinsel, Texas, and a colorful parade of eccentric guests arrive at the Snowflake Inn. Trina, the harried, yet upbeat innkeeper has more than she can handle coping with these nuttier-than-a-fruitcake lodgers. Hoyt and his sister, Donna Jo, make the mistake of trying to end a thirty-year feud between their curmudgeonly aunts, Ennis and Della. Ainsley and Lenora, self-involved actors from a lower-thanlow-budget touring production of A CHRISTMAS CAROL, descend on the Inn to fulfill a promise. Add an ill-advised romantic rendezvous between Mrs. Claus and one of Santa’s elves, a demanding guest who refuses to leave, a tipsy housekeeper, and it’s clear it will take more than a kiss under the mistletoe to keep Trina’s spirits merry and bright. But a spur of the moment Christmas Eve wedding that brings together the Futrelle sisters - Honey Raye, Twink, Frankie and Rhonda Lynn - and their best friend, Raynerd takes a surprising and delightful turn that leads to a laugh-til-your-sides-ache climax, changing all their lives forever. 706-643-7529 www.nhct.org
December 8, 5:00-8:00pm Pioneer Park, 6500 Stage Rd Loachapoka, Al 36830 Traditional seasonal music will be provided as guests gather and prepare to enter the early 1800 to 1900s. Once escorted to their tables, costumed servers will provide a period appropriate multi-course meal within the historic buildings. Character actors and actresses will visit each table and provide up close and personal opportunities for guests to honor the people of Alabama. This educational entertainment will provide event participants a special glimpse “Back in Time.” Tickets are $50.00 each with all proceeds considered donations to The Lee County Historical Society. They can be purchased on the website or by calling.
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December 13-23 Springer Opera House, 103 10th Street Columbus, Ga 31901 Putting the fun in DisFUNction, a brilliant new cast of master comedians continues the legacy of Columbus’ legendary Holiday cult favorite. Springer favorites Jim Pharr and Ben Redding will play all 24 citizens of Tuna, the tiny Texas town that erupts in holiday mayhem every year with a disastrous production of “A Christmas Carol,” yard displays vandalized by the Christmas Phantom and a Humane Society overrun with iguanas, coyotes, sheep and myna birds. 60,000 patrons have made this a genuine Christmas tradition in Columbus.
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Christmas at the Cave
December 14-15 and 21-22 5181 DeSoto Caverns Pkwy Childersburg, Al Come walk in a Winter “Underland” for a familyfun event for all ages. Will holiday treats, classic Christmas movies, caroler and sing-a-longs, as well as a special visit from St. Nicholas himself, Christmas at the Cave at the majestic DeSoto Caverns is the best way for your family spend the most wonderful time of the year. 256-378-7252 www.desotocavernspark.com
East Alabama Community Ballet
December 14-16 Telfair Peet Theatre, 350 West Samford Avenue Auburn , Al 36849 The Nutcracker Ballet: There is no more festive way to start the holiday season than by experiencing this ballet classic. Follow Clara, as she visits the Land of Sweets and meets a prince, mouse king and queen and dances her way into your heart! Buy your tickets online. Clara’s Tea Party: You are invited to a Tea Party with Clara, December 15! Ideal for children ages 10 and under, Clara’s Tea Party gives children an opportunity to watch a shortened version of The Nutcracker Ballet, meet the dancers, and take memorable Christmas photos. lynnterraballet@gmail.com www.eacballet.com
Alabama Ballet presents George Balanchine’s “The Nutcracker”
December 14-16 and 21-23 2726 1st Avenue South Birmingham, Al 35233 Tchaikovsky’s beloved melodies transport the young and young at heart to a magical world where mischievous mice besiege a battalion of toy soldiers, and an onstage blizzard leads to an enchanted Land of Sweets. 205-322-4300 www.alabamaballet.org
MCoE Band Holiday Concert
December 15 RiverCenter for the Performing Arts, 900 Broadway Columbus, Ga 31901 For over 50 years, the Maneuver Center of Excellence Band has taken great pride in entertaining the soldiers, military families, and civilians of the Fort Benning, Columbus, and Phenix City communities. The Band’s performances create esprit de corps among soldiers and veterans, as well as provide patriotic spirit within the civilian community. Currently the MCoE Band, with its eight performing groups, accomplishes over 500 military missions a year in support of the military and civilian communities in and around Fort Benning. 706-256-3620 www.rivercenter.org
Messiah Sing-a-long with the Montgomery Chorale
December 20, 7:00-9:00pm Episcopal Church of the Ascension 315 Clanton Avenue Montgomery, Al 36104 Join the Montgomery Chorale in this community sing-a-long of Handel’s Messiah. This free community event. 334-265-3737 www.montgomerychorale.org
Sounds of the Season
December 16 3601 Sixth Avenue South Birmingham, Al 35222 Kick off the holidays with Sounds of the Season, a concert of favorites both sacred and secular. Auburn Opelika Parents I December 2018
Featuring surprise guest artists and familiar faces, the concert will feature a variety of solo and ensemble performances to set the perfect mood for the holiday season. Opera Birmingham is teaming up with the U.S. Marine Corps to provide toys for less fortunate children in the community this season through their TOYS FOR TOTS program. To participate, please bring a new, unwrapped toy to Sounds of the Season, and let’s make sure EVERYONE has a Merry Christmas!
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Mannheim Steamroller Christmas
December 17 RiverCenter for the Performing Arts Columbus, Ga Mannheim Steamroller Christmas by Chip Davis has been America’s favorite holiday tradition for over 30 years! Grammy Award winner Chip Davis has created a show that features Mannheim Steamroller Christmas classics along with a selection of compositions from Chip’s groundbreaking Fresh Aire series, which introduced the distinctive Mannheim sound to all of America. Experience the magic as the sprit of the season comes alive with dazzling multimedia effects and the signature sound of Mannheim Steamroller! 706-507-8367 www.rivercenter.org
Cantus Columbus Christmas: Message of the Season - Music of the Masters
December 18 RiverCenter for the Performing Arts, 900 Broadway Columbus, Ga 31901 In its nineteenth annual holiday concert, the professional chorus Cantus Columbus, directed by William J. Bullock, recounts the Christmas story with classical masterpieces and audience carols. Performing in the superb acoustics of Legacy Hall, the chorus is assisted this year by the renowned Axiom Brass Quintet from Chicago, pianist Janie Lee Bullock, and organist Aesook Moon playing the Jordan Concert Organ. 706-256-3620 www.rivercenter.org
Santa On the Corner
December 15-16, 11:00am-3:00/4:00pm Toomer’s Corner, 100 N College St Auburn, Al 36830 Santa Claus will be in downtown Auburn on select December weekends. Bring your family! Donations will be accepted to The United Way. www.downtownauburnonline.com
Fa La La Festival
December 21, 10:00am Opelika Lewis Cooper, Jr Memorial Library, 200 South 6th Street Opelika, Al 36801 Opelika students are invited to kick off their Christmas break with fun, games and learning during Lewis Cooper, Jr. Memorial Library’s Fa La La Festival Dec. 21. 334-705-5380 www.opelika-al.gov/316/Lewis-Cooper-Jr-Memorial-Library
Annual Christmas Tree Recycling
December 29 1032 South Railroad Avenue Opelika, Al 36801 A project of Opelika Tree Commission and Keep Opelika Beautiful. This takes place the Saturday after Christmas at the Opelika Chamber from
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8am-12pm. Citizens receive a tree seedling in exchange for the tree. 334-749-4970 www.keepopelikabeautiful.com
The Ludy’s Christmas Light Spectacular Thanksgiving through New Year’s Eve 5784 Ironstone Drive Columbus, Ga 31907 Drive into a light display set to music like none other…over 155,000 lights! Featured on ABC’s “The Great Christmas Light Fight”. 706-443-6975 www.lundychristmas.com
Follow the Shepards Christmas Walks & Under the Bethlehem Star Light Show
Weekends December 1-23 Explorations in Antiquity Center, 130 Gordon Commercial Drive LaGrange, Al 30240 Follow the journey of Joseph and Mary as they travel from Nazareth to Bethlehem and learn new insights into the Christmas story. These walks can be done in conjunction with the Christmas multi-media presentation in the evening. Reservations required. 706-885-0363 www.biblicalhistorycenter.com
Artic Express Christmas Train
Weekends in December 13670 Smiley Street Silverhill, Al 36576 Ride an authentic Steam Train through a wonderland of lights and decorations to the North Pole. Children visit with Santa in the Winter-wonderland barn and receive a free wooden toy. Lots of photo opportunities to enjoy! Free Refreshments served at the Train Station after your trip! Enjoy a ride on the Mini Train, a Sleigh/hay ride, and Inflatable on the playground. Also, Petting Zoo, Pony Ride, and Snowball Cannon are available for a slight fee. Try our Cafe’s new menu options, and a Gift Shop full of train items ideal for Christmas presents! 888-569-5337 www.waleswest.com
Christmas Village at the Historic Langdale Mill
Weekends in December US Hwy 29 at Fob James Road Valley, Al Beginning the first weekend in December, experience the spirit of the season in Historic Valley. There is a life-size nativity scene in the meadow, the Madonna light-sculpture, and the Christmas Merry-go-Round that has given over 1,000,000 FREE rides to families. As you take a walk through history, you will be greeted with caroling and much more festive fun. Also, don’t miss the “A Cotton Mill Christmas” production at Langdale Theatre, as the local actors tell the history and stories of Valley, Al. 334-756-5290
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Junior League of Lee County’s Annual Holiday Poinsettia Sale
Auburn, Al 36830 Poinsettias are available in two sizes and three colors (red, white, and marble.) Prices are $12.00 for 6.5-inch and $22.00 for 10-inch plants. Orders may be placed with any JLLC member or online at juniorleagueofleecounty.org. juniorleagueofleecounty@gmail.com AOP
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extending themselves, until their minds and bodies cannot cope,” says Rosalie Moscoe, RHN, RNCP, and author of Frazzled Hurried Woman! Your Stress Relief Guide to Thriving. Besides heart disease, chronic stress can lengthen the recovery time from illness and fuel other long-term health problems, like obesity, irritable bowel syndrome, high blood pressure, insomnia, headaches, depression and even infertility. A hectic lifestyle could also make conception more difficult, says Elle Griffin, a natural fertility expert and feminine vitality coach.
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Prioritize. Make a list of everything you do. Decide which items can be eliminated, pared down or delegated to others. Can you organize a carpool with another parent? Can you limit your kids’ activities to one per season? Are there volunteer activities that you no longer find meaningful? Can your kids fold and put away laundry? “Dissect one of your most stressful commitments,” Moscoe says. “Your own thoughts and feelings about what is expected of you will determine how much stress you will feel. If you have elder care, get your teenage kids or other family members to visit your folks and do errands. It doesn’t have to be you all of the time.” Williams, who is in congestive heart failure, says she now mostly manages her home and family from her bed. “After nearly losing my life, I have learned what’s important which is my love of my higher power and my family,” she says. “My family is happy because I am here with them. They don’t miss the hyperactive lifestyle at all.” Pursue pleasure. Integrate activities into your day that bring you personal joy. “That doesn’t mean you have to go to yoga or pilates,” Griffin says. “Whether it’s eating cake for dinner or having drinks with girlfriends, doing things just for yourself can have a huge effect on your endocrine health and fertility.” Try out a new recipe, engage in a favorite craft, read a book or take a nap. Or plan to do nothing at all. Schedule “me time” in your calendar if necessary. Practice saying no. Avoid adding any new commitments to your schedule. If an opening appears on the calendar, try not to fill the space by obliging someone else. Think you can afford to wait to rein in your hyperactive lifestyle? “Sit down and look into your loved ones eyes. Then, picture them looking at you while laying in the critical care unit of a hospital,” Williams says. “Because you love them, take care of you, so you can be here to watch them grow up.” Christa Melnyk Hines is a freelance journalist and author of Confidently Connected: A Mom’s Guide to a Satisfying Social Life, a resource for moms seeking a more balanced social life that supports their emotional health.
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Whether you need an ascent to a treehouse or want to add a cool climbing challenge to your play environment, the Triangle Rope Ladder gets high marks. Constructed with heavy duty wooden dowels and thick, black braided rope, this ladder is sturdy with a 155 pound capacity. The single swing hanger attachment allows for slight pivoting action while three ground anchors maintain a secure main position. Offering climbing opportunities on both the outside and the interior of the triangle, the exploratory potential of this climber is doubled as well. Much like navigating up the shifting rigging of a tall ship, the Triangle Rope Ladder from Swing-n-Slide adds a sense of challenge and adventure that will keep kids climbing strong..
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FamilyCalendar Wednesday, November 28 The Five Browns The 5 Browns – Ryan, Melody, Gregory, Deondra and Desirae – all attended New York’s Juilliard School, becoming the first family of five siblings ever accepted simultaneously. The New York Post has proclaimed: “One family, five pianos and 50 fingers add up to the biggest classical music sensation in years…When these kids do Rachmaninoff, they’ll make you forget about Marshall amps.” Opelika Center for the Performing Arts. www. eastalabamaarts.org.
Friday, November 30 LaFayette Ballet Company: “The Nutcracker” LaGrange, Ga. The classic holiday ballet, to Tchaikovsky’s popular score, includes vibrant costuming and beautiful dancing from the Lafayette Ballet Company. Troup High School Fine Arts Building. Adults $16-$22 and Students $10-$12. For information, please call LSPA 706-882-9909 or email info@lsparts.org. Chris Tomlin Montgomery Performing Arts Centre. www.mpaconline.com.
Saturday, December 1 Fresh Greenery Christmas Workshop Callaway Gardens. 10 AM. The wonderful scent of winter evergreens signals the holiday season and festivities are at hand. To help you get ready, we’ll provide the instruction, frames, mechanics, fresh greenery, berries, etc. You’ll go home with a delightful Christmas decoration to bring holiday cheer to your home. You may choose a wreath, centerpiece or door hanging. www.callawaygardens. com. Home Depot Kids Workshop First Saturday of every Month 9:00 a.m. – 12:00 noon. The Home Depot offers FREE hands-on workshops designed for children ages 5 – 12. All children get to keep their craft, receive a FREE certificate of achievement, a Workshop Apron, and a commemorative pin while supplies last. www.homedepot.com. LaFayette Ballet Company: “The Nutcracker” LaGrange, Ga. The classic holiday ballet, to Tchaikovsky’s popular score, includes vibrant costuming and beautiful dancing from the Lafayette Ballet Company. Troup High School Fine Arts Building. Adults $16-$22 and Students $10-$12. For information, please call LSPA 706-882-9909 or email info@lsparts.org. Breakfast with Santa 2018 8:00-10:00 AM. Make Breakfast with Santa a new family tradition! Enjoy a delicious breakfast provided by our extraordinary chefs at the Columbus Convention and Trade Center, write a letter to Santa and hand-deliver it, enjoy holiday crafts and spend quality time with Ole’ St. Nick! columbustradecenter. com. Breakfast with Santa at Bellevue LaGrange, Ga. 9 AM-12 noon. Bring your children to have a pancake breakfast with Santa and/or get your photo taken at Bellevue at 204 Ben Hill Street, LaGrange, GA. Breakfast runs from 9:00 to 11:00 a.m. and photos from 9:00 to 12:00. $10.00 admission for children ages 3-8 will include pancake breakfast, craft activity, Christmas book and story in cooperation with Success by Six, and digital photo with Santa. Reservations are required and they may
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be made by calling Bellevue at 706-884-1832. Last day for reservations is Tuesday, November 27. 2018 Bi-City Christmas Parade Phenix City, Al. 10 AM. Parade begins on the corner of Dillingham Street and Broad Street in Phenix City. Nature Nuggets: Eco-art Oxbow Meadows Environmental Learning Center, Columbus State, Ga. 10:30-11:30 AM. $3 per child Perfect program for ages 2-7! Explore the world and make a artwork you can take home. Academy Dance Center presents The Polar Express! RiverCenter for the Performing Arts. Specially adapted for the dancers of the Academy’s 2018 Ensemble Company, at the RiverCenter for the Performing Arts 7:30 p.m. www. academydancecenter.com.
Sunday, December 2 LaFayette Ballet Company: “The Nutcracker” See Dec. 1 for details. Academy Dance Center presents The Polar Express! 2:30 p.m. See Dec. 1 for additional details. Christmas in the Garden 2018 Columbus Botanical Garden. 2 -7 PM. It’s Santa, sleigh bells and twinkling lights…..Come enjoy YOUR Garden as we celebrate the festive holiday season during our Annual Christmas in the Garden. Highlights include: Christmas Market & Art Exhibit & Sale by the Gallery on 10th | Pictures with Santa | Light Refreshments & Hot Apple Cider | Arts & Crafts. Alabama Farmers Federation presents Restless Heart Montgomery Performing Arts Centre. 7:30 PM. www.mpaconline.org.
Monday, December 3 30th Annual Daddy Daughter Date Night Tickets On Sale! 8:00 AM. Join Auburn Parks and Recreation this coming February 1, 2, 7-9, 2019 to celebrate 30 years of Daddy-Daughter Date Night fun. All dance nights will be held at the Clarion Inn & Suites on S. College Street. Daughters, dads, granddads, and uncles are invited to dance the night away and enjoy refreshments, door prizes, dance contests, keepsake photos, and an evening of memories. Tickets are $35 plus online fees for the first father/daughter pair, and $5 for each additional daughter brought that evening. 334-501-2939. Clarinet Ensemble Goodwin Hall, AU Campus. 6:00 PM. www.auburn.edu. AU Youth Orchestra Telfair Peet Theatre, AU Campus. 7:00 PM. www.auburn.edu.
Tuesday, December 4 Christmas Wreaths Covington Rec Center, Opelika. Decorate wreaths with all your favorite things and hang on your door to display at Christmas! Resident Fee $15, Non-Resident Fee $17. 3:30-4:30 PM. PLipscomb@ opelika-al.gov.
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Wednesday, December 5 Painting with Wool: Needle Felted Christmas Ornament Workshop Jan Dempsey Community Arts Center. Needle felting is an ancient fiber art. Students will create simple Christmas ornaments using cookie cutters. Come join the fun with Dean Road Elementary School’s art teacher, Andrea Newman. $35; (770) 842-3842 • hellodollies2@outlook.com.
Thursday, December 6 Poet Ann Fisher-Wirth and photographer Maude Schuyler Clay: Art Café Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. www.jcsm. auburn.edu; Art Café, a new series of informal artist talks, inspired by the exhibitions Mississippi (September 15–December 9, Corridor Gallery) and The Third Poetry: The Transcendent Art of Walter Inglis Anderson (October 27-January 27, 2019). Guests are invited to discover the rich cultural and diverse artistic heritage of the Mississippi Gulf Coast through stimulating presentations and in-depth conversations. Michael W. Smith with Special Guest Melinda Doolittle Montgomery Performing Arts Centre. www.mpaconline.org.
Friday, December 7 Variations Dance Studio presents “The Nutcracker” Opelika Center for the Performing Arts. www.tututix.com/variationsstudio. Young Singers of West GA Christmas Concert LaGrange High Auditorium. Join the Young Singers of West Georgia for a trip down memory lane celebrating our favorite holiday season. Let the sounds and talents of the Young Singers lead your mind back to days of old in “Christmas Memories”, a collection of holiday spirit and fun. Adults $12, Students $8.
Saturday, December 8 Variations Dance Studio presents “The Nutcracker” See Dec. 7 for details. Young Singers of West GA Christmas Concert See Dec. 7 for details. 12th Annual Holiday Art Sale Jan Dempsey Community Arts Center, Frank Brown Recreation Center and Harris Center. Get in the holiday spirit by attending this festive shopping experience while meeting local artists selling their own unique handmade work. Admission is FREE and open to the public! www.auburnarts.org. Holiday Movie at the Plex: “The Santa Claus” Opelika SportsPlex. 6 - 8 PM. 334.705.5560. Breakfast With Santa! The Rock Ranch, Ga. Enjoy a hot meal and experience one-on-one time with Mr. Claus! $15.95 per seat. Families may bring their own cameras to take candid pictures in the dining room as Santa visits each table and while visiting in Santa’s sleigh. Tickets for Santa’s Workshop are $12 + tax. Activities include cookie decoration, a letters to Santa station, bouncy jump house, keepsake ornament station, face painting and story time with an elf! www.therockranch.com.
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FamilyCalendar The Black Jacket Symphony presents Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers Montgomery Performing Arts Centre. If you ask anyone who has played with The Black Jacket Symphony over the last 9 years, odds are high that Tom Petty had an impact on their musical career. www.mpaconline.org. AU Singers Telfair Peet Theatre, AU Campus. 2:30 PM and 7:30 PM. www.auburn.edu. Handel’s “Messiah” First Baptist Church Opelika. 5:00 PM. Choirs from Auburn University, First Baptist Church Opelika, and Tuskegee University sing the Christmas portion of Handel’s Messiah, including the Hallelujah Chorus. It is co-sponsored by East Alabama Arts Association and First Baptist Church Opelika. www.auburn.edu. Saturday at Pioneer Park Loachapoka. On the second Saturday of every month, a group of history re-enactors gather at the LCHS Museum in period attire to demonstrate their arts and crafts. www.leecountyhistoricalsociety.org. Second Saturday at Columbus Museum 1251 Wynnton Road, Columbus. 10:00 AM-12:00 PM. Free Admission. Drop by the art cart with your children and grandchildren each month to explore various mediums of art, enjoy art related stories, and participate in gallery hunts at the Museum. Children of all ages are welcome and encouraged to participate. www.columbusmuseum.com.
Sunday, December 9 Auburn Christmas Parade Join the Auburn Downtown Merchants Association for the Auburn Christmas Parade in downtown Auburn at 2 PM. www.downtownauburn.com.
adaptation of C.S Lewis’ beloved children’s book. Audition tips and the link to sign up for a time can be found atauburnact.org. Please come prepared with a monologue that is one minute or less. Ages 12-18. 4 – 6 PM. (334) 663-6432 • CMC0095@auburn.edu
Tuesday, December 11 Auditions for “The Lion, The Witch and the Wardrobe” See Dec. 10 for details.
Wednesday, December 12 Painting with Wool: Needle Felted Christmas Ornament Workshop See Dec. 5 for details.
Thursday, December 13 Harry Connick Jr. Montgomery Performing Arts Centre. www.mpaconline.org.
Friday, December 14 Shelia Jackson and Friends: A Holiday Concert Troy. Enjoy the incredible voice of Troy’s own Sheila Fayson Jackson as she joins with a host of other local vocalists, dancers, and musicians to present her annual Holiday Spectacular.
Saturday, December 15 Breakfast With Santa! See Dec. 8 for details.
Handel’s “Messiah” See Dec. 8 for details.
Las Posadas at Children’s Museum of Atlanta Join Alma Mexicana at Children’s Museum of Atlanta for a special celebration of Las Posadas. Las Posadas is a nine-day religious celebration observed primarily in Mexico and by Mexican-Americans. Celebrated in the evenings, families participate in nightly Christmas processions that recreate the Holy Pilgrimage of Mary, Joseph, and the baby Jesus on their way to Bethlehem. Embrace the music, movements, and costumes of Las Posadas with guest performer, Alma Mexicana Danza Folklorica, an Atlanta-based dance group that presents traditional Mexican dances. www.childrensmuseumatlanta.org
Hanukkah at Children’s Museum of Atlanta Celebrate the Jewish holiday of Hanukkah at Children’s Museum of Atlanta! Join Michael Levine of The Learning Groove as he leads interactive Hanukkah songs and stories for the whole family. Other activities include special craft and art activities and exploring the works of notable Jewish artists! www.childrensmuseumatlanta.org
Sensory-Friendly Story Time Opelika Public Library. Sensory-Friendly Storytime engages participants using story, music and movement. Programs offer educational, literacy and social opportunities for children of all ages with differing abilities, their siblings, parents/caregivers and their typically developing peers. FREE. 9:30 AM and 10:30 AM. library@opelika-al.gov.
Auburn Gingerbread Village Unveiling The Hotel at Auburn University. www.auhcc.com/ holidays. 2:00 PM. Join us for the unveiling of the largest Gingerbread Village in East Alabama in the conference center of the hotel on December 9. After watching the Auburn Christmas Parade, come enjoy complimentary cookies and hot chocolate while admiring the 2018 village, which will be on display in the pre-function foyer in our newly renovated conference center until the start of the new year.
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The Columbus Ballet presents “The Nutcracker” www.rivercenter.org. Fall back in love with this quintessential ballet for the holiday season! AU Singers Telfair Peet Theatre, AU Campus. 2:30 PM and 7:30 PM. www.auburn.edu.
Monday, December 10 Auditions for “The Lion, The Witch and the Wardrobe” Jan Dempsey Community Arts Center. A stage
Saturday, December 22 Lake Paddle With Santa at FDR State Park 2 PM. Join Santa’s flotilla on Lake Delanor. Hot chocolate and cookies included! We provide life jackets, paddles, Santa and canoe, kayak, paddleboat or row boat. Pre-register & prepay at the park office. Dress for the weather. Meet at Fishing Dock 1:30 PM. $5-$10, $5 parking fee. Open Studio: How to Make Homemade Snow Columbus Museum. Free. 10 AM. Join us during the winter break from school as we turn the Museum into a winter wonderland! Participants will discover a process to create their own “snow” and will be sent on a gallery scavenger hunt that will celebrate the season. Each participant will go home with a bag of the snow they created and a recipe to create your own snow at home! www.columbusmuseum.com. Martha’s Trouble Christmas: Presented by The Sound Wall See Dec. 21 for details.
Monday, December 24 Monthly Market Fourth Tuesday of each month, visit the Harris Center from 4:30 – 6:30 PM to find the best produce, jams, jellies and bounty of Lee County! Vendors will be set up in the lobby and Activity Room during warmer months to prevent products from becoming overheated and the Market may move outdoors in cooler months for space. This event is FREE and open to the public. wmorris@auburnalabama.org
Thursday, December 27 Totally Sports Sports, sports & more sports! Come enjoy flag football, basketball & more! Resident Fee $25, Non- Resident Fee $28 Registration. Ages 5-12. 9:00 AM - 1:00 PM. CRC Contact: Patrice Lipscomb • PLipscomb@opelika-al.gov.
Saturday, December 29 Celebrate Kwanzaa with Mama Koku Children’s Museum of Atlanta. Mama Koku is Atlanta’s famed master storyteller, and children’s writer. Learn about the holiday of Kwanzaa through Mama Koku’s captivating stories and songs! www.childrensmuseumatlanta.org. Young Eagles Day Columbus Airport, 3250 W. Britt David Road, Columbus, Ga. 8:30-11:30 AM (weather permitting). All kids ages 8-17 are invited to take a Free airplane ride over Columbus! Most flights last 20 minutes. The goal is to provide a fun and educational aviation experience. 706-324-2453.
Fa-La-La Festival Opelika Public Library. 10 AM. Opelika students are invited to kick off their Christmas break with fun, games and learning during Lewis Cooper, Jr. Memorial Library’s Fa La La Festival.
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Martha’s Trouble Christmas: Presented by The Sound Wall Opelika. www.thesoundwallopelika.com. 8:00 PM. Join Martha’s Trouble for an acoustic Christmas at their home studio, The Sound Wall located in Historic Opelika, on December 21 or 22 at 8 p.m. Tickets available for preorder at $20, and $25 at the door. Please bring your own beverage of choice. Water & Coffee will be provided.
Jan. 5: Home Depot Kids Workshop See Dec. 1 for details.
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Jan. 4: WWE: Road to Wrestlemania! Columbus Civic Center, Ga. www.civiccenter. columbusga.gov.
Jan. 8: Discovery Hike & Nature Walk: Warm for the Winter Krehler Preserve and Nature Center. No registration required. FREE to the public. Canceled if raining. 3:30 PM. (334) 707-6512 • preserve@auburn.edu.
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FamilyCalendar Jan. 12: Fitfest 2019 Frank Brown Recreation Center. 2 - 5 PM. Learn about the different health and fitness options in the Auburn area that you can use to get moving on your New Year’s resolutions and make 2019 your healthiest year yet! Vendors will host pop-up classes throughout the day in the Frank Brown Fitness Center classrooms, free and open to the public age 16 & older. Free event. (334) 501 – 2948 • activeauburn@auburnalabama.org Jan. 18: The Harlem Globetrotters World Tour Columbus Civic Center, Ga. www.civiccenter. columbusga.gov Jan. 25: Sip & Paint Pottery Open to those 21 years and older. The Dean Road Ceramics Studio has everything you will need to create hand-painted work of art, all with the help of skilled artisans to guide you along the way. Sip a BYOB beverage and enjoy spending quality creative time in the pottery studio. (334) 501-2944 • ccleckler@auburnalabama.org. Jan. 25-26: Pike Piddlers Storytelling Festival Troy. The festival begins at 6:30 on Friday night with supper and stories at the We Piddle Around Theater in Brundidge and continues with three storytelling concerts on Saturday (10 AM, 2 PM and 6:30 PM) at the Trojan Center Theatre (Troy University) in Troy. www.piddle.org. Call 334-685-5524 to find out more. Jan. 26: 7th Annual Polar Plunge Samford Pool. www.auburnalabama.org/ specialolympics. 9:00 AM. The aim of the Auburn Polar Plunge is to raise financial support for the brave athletes of the Lee County Special Olympics. There will be prizes for the people that raise the most money, as well as prizes for the winners of our costume contest. So dress up, jump in, and join us for a fun day in support of a very worthy cause! Jan. 29: “We Shall Overcome” - A Celebration of Martin Luther King, Jr. Opelika Center for the Performing Arts. Inspired by the words and action of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., “We Shall Overcome” showcases repertoire from across the African American music traditions that electrified generations of civil rights activists and defenders with interwoven spoken word from Dr. King’s recorded speeches. 334-749-8105.
Ongoing/Multiple Dates Art Gallery Winter 2019 Exhibition Schedule Jan. 14 - Feb. 15. Jan Dempsey Community Arts Center. www.auburnalabama.org. Celebrate Christmas at The Rock Ranch, Ga. Dec. 6 - 8, 13 - 15, and 20 - 22. Families can hop on-board The Rock Ranch Christmas Express Train ride featuring falling bubble snow, snowflake light tunnel and a dancing Christmas lights show. Kiddos can enjoy breakfast with Santa, explore a bigger and better Santa’s workshop and much more. www.therockranch.com. Celebrations in Light Dec. 1 - 30. Join us for Celebrations in Light, as the Children’s Museum of Atlanta celebrates the traditions and tales of Las Posadas, Hanukkah, Christmas or Kwanza through decorations, interactive Readers’ Theatre performances, music, crafts, story times and Winter Science! www. childrensmuseumatlanta.org. Christmas in Camelot Lighted Tour Dec. 1 - 31. Opelika. 4:30 -10:00 PM. The magic of Christmas comes alive throughout Camelot with the many large Christmas Cards, painted under art
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teacher, Roslyn Stern, by Opelika High art students. The neighborhood lights are adorned with lighted wreaths and all the houses are decorated with the wonders of Christmas. This drive-through event begins at sundown. 334.705.5136. Christmas with the Elves Nov. 27 - Dec. 14. Union Springs, Al. Santa’s Elves have dropped by Dream Field Farm and are up to all kinds of fun adventures--wrapping presents, making ornaments and reindeer food, baking cookies and sharing about the wonders of the north pole. Photos with Santa. Each Saturday features a full breakfast buffet along with lots of zany fun! By reservation only. www.dreamfieldfarms.com Drive-Through Christmas Lights Nov. 22-30, Dec. 1-5, 9-12, 16-19, 23-25. The Rock Ranch, Ga. The Rock Ranch invites families to drive through more than a mile of magical Christmas lights on the farm. This growing lights display gets better and better each year. www. therockranch.com. Fantasy in Lights Nov. 16 - Jan. 5. Callaway Gardens, Ga. It’s Christmas at Callaway, featuring Fantasy In Lights, one of National Geographic’s Top 10 Light Displays in the world. Come make merry in the Christmas Village, meet holiday characters up close, and drive through the dazzling illuminated forest. www. callawaygardens.com. Victorian Front Porch Christmas Tour Dec. 5-9. Opelika. 60 homes on North 8th and 9th street are decorated with life size Santas, angels, toys, carousel horses and Christmas themed figures. Admission is free. Lighted Driving Tour: Wednesday, Dec. 5 through Dec. 9, 5-10 p.m. Walking Tour: Saturday, December 8, 6-9 p.m. Tree lighting with Opelika Mayor Gary Fuller and his wife Laura at 6 p.m. at the corner of North 8th Street and 2nd Avenue. (weather permitting). For an entertainment list, please visit www.opelikavictorianfrontporchtour. com. Market Days on Broadway Dec. 1, 8, 15, 22, 29. Columbus. Saturdays, 9:00 AM - noon. Year-round in the 1000 & 1100 blocks of Broadway in Columbus. The Market features many local and organic farmers selling produce, along with soap vendors, home goods, jewelry vendors and baked goods. Visit the Market Days on Broadway Facebook Page: www.facebook.com/ MarketDaysOnBroadway/ Baby Time Nov. 27, Dec. 4, 11, 18. Auburn Public Library. Babies and their favorite adults enjoy 20 minutes of stories, songs, bounces, and tickles during Baby Time. Stay afterwards to socialize and play! Ages birth-24 months. Tuesdays, 9:30-10:00 AM, 10:0010:30 AM or 1:00-1:30 PM. www.auburnalabama. org/library. Toddler Time Nov. 28, Dec. 5, 12, 19, 26. Auburn Public Library. Toddlers and their favorite adults enjoy 30 minutes of interactive stories, songs, movement rhymes, and a fun craft during Toddler Time. Stay afterwards to socialize and play! Ages 18 months-3 years. 9:3010:00 AM or 10:30-11:00 AM or 1:00-1:30 PM. www.auburnalabama.org/library. Preschool Time Nov. 29, Dec. 6, 13, 20, 27. Preschoolers and their favorite adults enjoy 30 minutes of interactive stories, songs, movement rhymes, and a fun craft during Preschool Time. Stay afterwards to socialize and play! 3 – 5 years. Wednesdays, 9:30-10:00 AM, 10:30-11:00 AM or 1:00-1:30 PM. www. auburnalabama.org/library.
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Story Time Nov. 26, 30, Dec. 3, 7, 10, 14, 17, 21, 24, 28, 31. Opelika Public Library. Join us for an interactive and engaging preschool program that is sure to delight and entertain. They won’t even know they are learning! Meets Mondays and Fridays. library@ opelika-al.gov.
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Gamers Society Nov. 29, Dec. 6, 13, 20, 27. Auburn Public Library. Thursdays, 4:00 – 5:00 PM. It’s Game On at the Auburn Public Library The Programming Room will be open for Yu-Gi-Oh, Pokemon, and video games Gamers must bring their own materials The library will provide materials for video game play. Games must be rated E, E10, or T; no rated M games. Ages 10-18 years. www.auburnalabama. org/library. Code Club Nov. 29, Dec. 6, 13, 20, 27. Opelika Public Library. Code Club at the Lewis Cooper Jr. Memorial Library is going to teach your kids how to make website, apps, and games in a fun environment. Bring your own laptop if you have one, but it is not required. Thursdays. Code Club, Jr. Nov. 28, Dec. 5, 12, 19, 26. Opelika Public Library. Code Club at the Lewis Cooper Jr. Memorial Library is going to teach your kids how to make website, apps, and games in a fun environment. Wednesdays, 3:30 PM. library@opelika-al.gov Imagination Lab Nov. 29, Dec. 6, 13, 20, 27. Opelika Public Library. The Imagination Lab is for young minds to explore and create. From magnetic circuits making sound to programming a small robot, the lab is waiting for BRAIN power to create a spark! Thursdays, 3:004:00 PM. library@opelika-al.gov Chick-fil-A Family Night at Tigertown Every Thursday night. Expressions of a BraveHeart Program A fine arts program for teens and young adults with special needs (ages 11–21), sponsored by Opelika Parks and Recreation, utilizing Auburn University faculty and students, as well as community volunteers. Two 30-minute sessions of art, dance/ creative movement and music will be offered and participants will select 2 of the 3 classes. Expressions meets every 2nd and 4th Monday twice a month for 1.5 hours. Opelika Sportsplex, 334.705.5560. www. opelikasportsplex.com. Meditation Garden and Labyrinth Come and Find the Quiet Center... in the Meditation Garden and Labyrinth, provided as a community service by Village Christian Church, 700 East University Drive, (across from Auburn Early Ed.).
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Performances “Cat On a Hot Tin Roof” Jan. 24 - 27, Jan. 31 - Feb. 3. Springer Opera House. The story of a Southern family in crisis, and their interactions over the course of one evening’s gathering at the family estate in Mississippi. *Note: Cat on a Hot Tin Roof includes adult themes of alcoholism, death and sexual desire with adult language. This is a play for mature audiences. www. springeroperahouse.org. Christmas with the Elves Nov. 27 - Dec. 14. Union Springs, Al. Santa’s Elves have dropped by Dream Field Farm and are up to all kinds of fun adventures. The big guy himself will be on hand for great Santa photos! Each Saturday features a full breakfast buffet along with lots of zany fun! By reservation only. www.dreamfieldfarms. com. “Elf The Musical” Dec. 7 - 9, 13 - 16, 20 - 23. Springer Opera House, Columbus. ELF is the hilarious tale of Buddy, a young orphan child who mistakenly crawls into Santa’s bag of gifts and is transported back to the North Pole. The would-be elf is raised, unaware that he is actually a human, until his enormous size and poor toy-making abilities cause him to face the truth. www.springeroperahouse.org. “Four Little Girls: Birmingham 1963” Jan. 25 - Feb. 13. Alabama Shakespeare Festival. Recommended ages 11+. Denise McNair, Carole Robertson, Cynthia Wesley, and Addie Mae Collins. Four little girls who are multitalented and filled with promise share their hopes and dreams against the backdrop of the Civil Rights Movement. Produced in collaboration with Montgomery Public Schools. www.asf.net “The Gospel of Luke” Dec. 6 - 30. Alabama Shakespeare Festival. Recommended ages 7+. Actor Bruce Kuhn performs with the passion and surprise of an eyewitness account. In a compelling ninety minutes, the tale comes alive with the urgency, fervor, and humor of someone who was there. www.asf.net. “The Honky Tonk Angels Holiday Spectacular” Nov. 28 - Dec. 2. Red Door Theatre, Union Springs. This holiday sequel to the hugely popular show “The Honky Tonk Angels” continues the comic escapades of three good ole country gals as they re-unite for a Christmas show like none other at “The Hillbilly Heaven Club” in Nashville. (334) 738-8687. info@ reddoortheatre.org. “How the Grinch Stole Christmas” Dinner Show Dec. 1, 8, 15, 22. Mountain Creek Inn at Callaway Gardens. 5:30 PM. Enjoy this live-action adaptation of the beloved children’s tale by Dr. Seuss. The Southern Classic Buffet will be served, and Guests are asked to promptly arrive and be seated with your meal by 5:30 PM as the entertainment will begin at 5:45 PM sharp.www.callawaygardens.com. “Jersey Boys” Dec. 9. Montgomery Performing Arts Centre. The 2006 Tony, Grammy and Olivier Award-winning Best Musical about Rock and Roll Hall of Famers The Four Seasons: Frankie Valli, Bob Gaudio, Tommy DeVito and Nick Massi. This is the true story of how
four blue-collar kids became one of the greatest successes in pop music history. www.mpaconline.org. Junie B. Jones Breakfast Show: “Jingle Bells, Batman Smells! (P.S. So Does May)” Dec. 1, 8, 15, 22. Mountain Creek Inn at Callaway Gardens. 9:00 AM. Enjoy this live-action adaptation of the fun-loving Junie B. Jones from book #25 “Jingle Bells, Batman Smells! (P.S. So Does May).” Guests are asked to promptly arrive and be seated for your meal to be served a 9 AM as the entertainment will begin at 9:30 AM sharp. www. callawaygardens.com. “Madeline’s Christmas” Nov. 30, Dec. 1, 7-8, 14-15. www.familytheatre. org. The day begins like any other day. Miss Clavel takes 12 girls on their morning walk. They go to the zoo and then back to school for their history lesson. Suddenly disaster strikes when everyone gets the flu! Everyone that is, except for the ever-resilient Madeline. “Nina Simone: Four Women” Jan. 30 - Feb. 17. Alabama Shakespeare Festival. Recommended ages 13+. Through storytelling and song, this production celebrates how Nina Simone helped define the sound of the Civil Rights Movement. Nina Simone: Four Women is a personal and provocative musical journey. www.asf.net. “The Sound of Music” Nov. 15 - Dec. 30. The Shakespeare Festival, Montgomery. This delightful musical will thrill audiences with its Tony®, Grammy®, and Academy Award® winning Best Score. www.asf.net. “A Tuna Christmas” Dec. 13-16, 29-23. Springer Opera House. Jim Pharr and Ben Redding will be returning to the stage putting the fun in DisFUNction. Ben and Jim will play all 24 citizens of Tuna, the tiny Texas town that erupts in holiday mayhem every year with a disastrous production of “A Christmas Carol,” yard displays vandalized by the Christmas Phantom and a Humane Society overrun with iguanas, coyotes, sheep and myna birds. www.springeroperahouse.org
Support & Parenting Groups A2Z Local Homeschooler’s Association For homeschooling families in the Auburn/Opelika Lee County area of Alabama. A2Z Loop is an allinclusive support group open to all homeschool families in the Auburn/Opelika area regardless of differences in beliefs, cultures, nationality, race, religion, or method of home schooling. For more information call 334-728-1162 or email: momofpnk@ gmail.com. Alabama Mentor’s Foster Parent Training Classes Offered in the Opelika Auburn area. Call 334-7058877 x 18 to register or email: Deanna.Hand@thementornetwork.com.
Auburn Mommy and Me Big Dog Running Co, Auburn. 10–11 a.m. Social time, story time, music/movement, arts & crafts. Ages 9 months–3 years. Free! 334-209-2580. Auburn/Opelika MOPS & MOMSnext We meet the first and third Thursdays of the month at Trinity United Methodist Church in Opelika. We offer fellowship and fun for moms of kiddos from infancy through age 15. We offer play dates, moms nights out, and special events! For more information check us out on Facebook at Facebook.com/AuburnOpelikaMOPS or email us at auburnopelikamops@gmail.com. Bosom Buddies (a breast cancer support group) Meets at The Health Resource Center the first Thursday of the month at 6 p.m. (334) 528-1260. www.eamc.org. Breast Feeding class meets the second Saturday of each month from 10 a.m. to noon on EAMC’s third floor. Call 528-1260 to register. Caregiver Support Group Caring for a family member or friends can be rewarding, but it’s not easy. Whether you are the caregiver for your parents, spouse or a dependent child, this group is for you! Learn ways to cope with every day stresses of caring for someone you love. Gain tools and resources to help you on your journey. This program is supported by the Opelika Sportsplex, Lee-Russell Agency on Aging and HomeInstead Senior Care. This group is open to the public. Meets the last Monday of each month at 12:30 p.m. at Opelika Sportsplex AAC. Instructors are: Valeri White (Sportsplex), Bridgette Sager (Home Instead Senior Care), Lisa Askew (Lee-Russell Council of Gov). Food Allergy Support of East Alabama The Food Allergy Support of East Alabama group offers support through the sharing of information and resources. We are also working to increase awareness of food allergies in the state of Alabama. For more information, visit our website at www. foodallergysupporteastal.org or call Barbara at 334826-3082; bkg2007@bellsouth.net. GRACE - Post-Abortive Support Group Are you struggling with feelings of regret or sadness from having a pregnancy termination in your past? Do you feel like you can’t share these struggles with anyone? Would you like to find healing and forgiveness? You are not alone. Women’s Hope Medical Clinic wants to help you! You are invited to take part in our GRACE abortion recovery group. This confidential group gives you the opportunity to process the grief of your termination in a safe and non-judgmental setting. If you would like more information about the times, dates and location for this group, call or e-mail Sherry at Women’s Hope: 334.502.7000 or sherry@womenshope.org Don’t let the regret of the past rob you of the joy in the future. Call us today. We are here to help.
Auburn UMC Children’s Day Out Program Every Monday-Thursday from 9 a.m.–12 noon. $10 per child for the entire morning, $2 each additional child. Attendance will be on a first come-first served basis. Contact Barbara Dawsey at 826-8800 for more information. Auburn United Methodist Church.
Grandparents and Non-Parent Relatives or Friends Raising Children Support Group For grandparents or any non-parent involved in raising younger children. Meetings first Monday of every month @ Auburn United Methodist Church Annex, Room D134, 6 - 7 p.m. Various speakers and lots of support from others in your same situation. Childcare is provided. Phone Lisa @ 334-421-7163 or Debra @ 334-332-9703.
Auburn Mommies, a fun group of moms in the Auburn/Opelika area that meet weekly for playgroups and Mommy and Me walking twice a week. We also have a Mommies Night Out once a month. Http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ auburnmommiesinalabama/.
La Leche League, a support group for nursing moms, meets the 2nd Thursday of each month at 6:30 p.m. @ Cornerstone Family Chiropractic, Airport Plaza, 323 Airport Road Suite E, Auburn. For more information call LLL of Auburn/Opelika, Leader, Josie Ettinger (h)334-257-3950 or (c)334-740-8780.
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Lee County Department of Human Resources Now recruiting foster/adoptive families. To learn more about fostering and adoption please call our office at 334-737-1100. Please join us in this endeavor to help our foster children. Lee County Parents of Chinese Children helps children understand, see and grow up with other families that look like their family (white parents/ Asian child). The group is 100% free! We try to eat out at Asian establishments monthly and have playdates. Families that are waiting to adopt are welcome! We accept any families with adopted children from all Asian countries. Contact Melody at mmhilyer@bellsouth.net for more information. Miracle League To volunteer or for more information, www. miraclefield.org or eamiracleleague@gmail.com. MOMS Club of Auburn, a group of stay-at-home moms that meets about twice a week to provide support for each other and fun interaction for kids. New website is www.auburnmoms.com. MOPS of Auburn We meet the 2nd and 4th Mondays of each month at Auburn United Methodist Church from 9:30 - 11:30. Childcare is provided, although we ask that you make reservations if possible. Meetings are open to mothers with children ages 5 and under. www.facebook.com/ mopsofauburn mopsofauburn@gmail.com. Opelika-Auburn Newcomers Club A club for new women in town which offers fun social activities, meets for lunch on the 3rd Thursday of every month. Call Joan at 501-4974.
preparation, devotions and games. Call Laura Fuller at laura@insideyfc.com or 334-501-5637. www.insideyfc.com. Therapeutic Foster Care Program Foster a Child’s Future Today - Become a Therapeutic Foster Parent! Certification classes are free. Please call Ms. Shanquetta France at Lee County Youth Development Center’s Therapeutic Foster Care Program. (334) 749-2296, Ext. 1812 - You can make an eternal difference in a child’s life!
Parent Educational Workshop - Autism Lee County Autism Resource and Advocacy. 2nd Tuesday of each month, 6:00-7:30 p.m. at Trinity United Methodist Church, 800 2nd Avenue, Opelika. Parent Support Group - Autism Lee County Autism Resource and Advocacy meets the 1st Monday (unless national holiday), 9:00-11:00 a.m. and the next evening (Tuesday) from 6-7:30 p.m. Visit www.leecountyautism.com for complete information. Email info@leecountyautism.com or call 334-740-0716. Single Moms Outreach of East Alabama Single Moms Outreach of East Alabama offers 2nd Saturdays, group classes, and more. Contact Penny Messer at 334-444-6827. Email smoea@bellsouth. net. Website www.smoea.vpweb.com or find us on facebook. Teen Moms (for moms under 20) is a ministry that connects trained adults with pregnant girls and teenage moms. Support meetings, classes, job
Trinity UMC (Opelika) Mom’s Morning Out Wednesdays and Fridays from 8:45–12. $15 per child, $5 each additional. Trinity United Methodist Church.
Sports Auburn University Men’s Basketball Nov. 28, Dec. 4, 8, 22, 29. Auburn University Women’s Basketball Dec. 2, 16, 29, Jan. 3 Auburn University Swim & Dive Nov. 30 - Dec. 1, 17-20.
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As parents, we often put a lot of blame on ourselves for what we cannot offer our kids. When Christmas or birthdays roll around, we feel guilty when we can’t afford the latest and greatest iPads, video games, designer shoes, or state-of-the-art cell phones. Mom and Dad, let me encourage you today. The bottom line is, there’s only one thing that your teen needs from you. It doesn’t involve money. It’s got nothing to do with exciting opportunities. It’s not even about offering protection from the outside world! To be the parent God has called you to be, all you have to do is offer your child a relationship. A relationship with your son or daughter is, hands-down, the most important thing you can give your child. Why is it so critical?
Your Child is Disconnected
Teens today are disconnected from life. A recent study showed that the average child spends about ten hours a day staring at a screen. While a constant stream of interfacing has led to a boom in adolescent communication, it has also led to a breakdown in meaningful connection. We assume that teens are building relationships because they are on Facebook or Skype, or are texting, blogging, or using any number of social media outlets. But that’s simply not the case. Learning how to build meaningful connections starts with mom and dad. Your relationship with your teenager is the model for how they connect with other people. When you take time to sit down and have a conversation eyeball-to-eyeball with your child, you’re giving them what Facebook and Twitter cannot; a personal relationship. Parents, you shape the ideals for the husbands and wives your children will one day marry. You’re also the main example of character, conviction, and values for your teens. From you, they will understand the importance of compassion, forgiveness, and mercy.
You are so important in the life of disconnected teens. The personal relationship you offer your teen can never be replaced. Trust me on this; if your son or daughter is not finding a relationship with mom and dad at home, they will look for it elsewhere. They will seek to fill their relational voids through dating, friends, academics, sports, or destructive habits like drugs and alcohol in order to find a sense of value and love.
Your Child is Pulling Away
Though you desire a better connection, maybe your teen has made it clear that he doesn’t want a relationship with you. You’ve tried to mend the fences and build some bridges, only to have those fences and bridges burned. If you truly want a better relationship with your child...don’t give up! Any relationship worth having takes time. It won’t happen overnight. And even in spite of past hurts and disappointments we can always move forward and strive for a clean slate. But it will take work. If something has come between you and your teen, sit down with them face-toface and start asking those tough questions to get to the root of the issue. Start by saying, “You are very important to me, and I’m sorry if our relationship hasn’t been what it should. But I want to change that. So what could I do to make our relationship better?” Be prepared to patiently listen to the response, even if it’s painful. Criticism is never easy to hear, but this is a chance for your teen to share her heart, and for you to hear how you can improve. It will require humility and self-evaluation. But think of it as in an investment towards a greater, future reward. Of course, I know that some kids may say, “There’s nothing you can do to fix our relationship. I don’t want anything to do with you.” And while that is a devastating blow to any parent, keep moving forward. Tell your son or daughter, “I am really sorry to hear that. But I don’t want to miss out on having a relationship with you, so even though you 47
may not like me now, I’m still going to pursue you.” Don’t be belligerent in your attempts to improve your connection with your teen, but don’t walk away from him either. A relationship with your child is too important to let it slip by.
Rules of Engagement
If you want to improve your relationship with your teen, let me offer nine suggestions, or “rules of engagement”: • Make many of your conversations about your teen. What are his opinions, feelings, or thoughts on a subject? • Share something personal about yourself. Let your child know about a mistake in your past, a particular emotion, or surprising thought. Show her that you are human and imperfect. • Share your heart in short bits. No long diatribes or hour-long monologues. • You don’t always have to be right. • You don’t always have to have the answer. • Your final sentence doesn’t always have to end in a period. Let your teen have the final say once-and-a-while. • Never use one-on-one time with your teenager as an opportunity to criticize. • Acknowledging your mistakes provides the opportunity for your teen to share his. • Don’t judge a teen’s comments. Maybe they’re foolish, or dumb, or incorrect. But if you blast them, chances are your teen won’t share his thoughts with you again. I hope that this call for relationships is encouraging. To be the best parent you can be, all you need to do is strive to have a loving and personal relationship with your teen. Everything else is secondary.
Mark Gregston is an author, speaker, radio host, and the founder of a residential counseling center for struggling teens located in Longview, Texas. Mark’s passion for helping teens can be seen in his 40 years of involvement with families as a youth pastor, Young Life area director, and now, as the Executive Director of Heartlight, where he has lived with and helped over 2,700 teens. To find out more about Mark and his ministry to parents and teens, you can visit www.HeartlightMinistries.org or www.ParentingTodaysTeens.org.
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The Grinch
The Nutcracker and the Four Realms MPAA Rating: PG Overall: BViolence: BSexual Content: AProfanity: AAlcohol / Drug Use: A Watching a ballet performance of The Nutcracker has become a holiday tradition for many families. This 19th century fairy tale about a girl whose toy nutcracker comes to life is most famous for its unmistakable music and whimsical characters. It’s also gone through countless film and stage adaptations-something Disney is clearly mindful of in this latest installment. If you’re looking for a faithful retelling of the classic, you can forget it. This version is deliberately different. Parents with sensitive little ones might want to note that giant, squirmy mouse-monsters aren’t the only frightening visuals. The land of carnival amusements has seen better days, and features plenty of leering sculptures and broken fair rides that emerge eerily from the fog. It’s also home to a host of hyperactive clowns who spring from one another’s rotund bodies like Russian nesting dolls. This nightmarish imagery is too dark for younger kids. Though the movie attempts the heartwarming messages of self confidence and cherishing family relationships, these moments don’t have the support of the script to make them meaningful. With the film’s “believe in yourself” themes and strong dose of girl power, Clara proves an almost identical character to Disney’s other recent leading ladies, such as Moana or Frozen’s Anna or Elsa. The film is visually stunning, and while this adds to the experience, it can’t salvage the poor pacing and weak characters. Like a mouthful of cotton candy, this particular take on The Nutcracker is pretty and sugary sweet, but ultimately hollow.
MPAA Rating: PG Overall: AViolence: B+ Sexual Content: B+ Profanity: A Alcohol / Drug Use: A Remaking a beloved classic is always a risky proposition. The 1966 television adaptation of Dr. Seuss’ timeless “How the Grinch Stole Christmas” has been an annual seasonal tradition for generations of children. With its faithful retelling of the original story, whimsical mid-century aesthetic, unforgettable soundtrack, and flawless character animation (who can forget the Grinch’s evil grin?), it’s hard to beat. The big question in 2018 is: Does this year’s animated version live up to the original TV special? The answer is: Not quite, but it comes very, very close. The plot differs from the book at a few points but holds few surprises for older viewers. It also feels bloated, a natural result of stretching a children’s book to feature film length. That being said, this film shines in its visuals and animation. The sets are all beautifully rendered – from the Grinch’s lonely home to his friend’s over-decorated house, to the town of Whoville, which is a bright, festive, child’s fantasy – so popping with colorful decorations that it looks good enough to eat. The animation is also superior, with the Grinch’s fur depicted in exacting detail: you can see individual hairs blowing in the wind. The animators have managed to project the Grinch’s personality, even adding a touch of vulnerability and self-doubt that was missing in previous versions. Parents looking for a new family Christmas tradition could do worse than this cheerful, upbeat movie. It has very few content issues aside from slapstick violence which will only scare the most sensitive children. And it has wonderful messages about caring for others, treasuring family, reaching out to those who are alone, letting go of past hurts, changing for the better, and forgiving others.
Instant Family
Fantastic Beasts MPAA Rating: PG-13 Overall: B Violence: C Sexual Content: BProfanity: A Alcohol / Drug Use: AFantastic Beasts: The Crimes of Grindelwald opens in New York in 1927. Gellert Grindelwald (Johnny Depp) is being transferred, under heavy security, to Europe to be tried for his crimes there. The dark wizard manages a daring escape (with such frenetic, dizzying visuals that it can be hard to follow) and makes his own way over the Atlantic to pursue his own plots in Paris. Meanwhile in London, Newt Scamander (Eddie Redmayne) is embroiled in a bureaucratic stalemate with the Ministry of Magic, which has banned him from overseas travel. Professor Albus Dumbledore (Jude Law), significantly younger than in the Harry Potter films, is teaching at Hogwarts and is being treated with deep suspicion by the same Ministry functionaries. Tina Goldstein (Katherine Waterston), now an American auror, has pursued Grindelwald to Paris. And her sister Queenie and her non-magical love interest, Jacob Kowalski, have traveled to England for the chance to marry legally, since marriages between witches and non-magical people are banned in America. But the course of love doesn’t run smoothly. Despite the steady diet of fantasy violence, the film contains little else to concern parents. Parents looking for positive messages will be pleased that this film provides the same messages found in other parts of the Potterverse, particularly the importance of courage, love, loyalty and sacrifice. This is the brightest spot in a series that is growing increasingly dark.
MPAA Rating: PG-13 Overall: BViolence: BSexual Content: C+ Profanity: C Alcohol / Drug Use: C Pete (Mark Wahlberg) and Ellie Wagner (Rose Byrne) have it made. The happy couple work together flipping houses and enjoying date nights, golfing, and playing with their dog. But one day Ellie decides something is missing and that something is a family. Pete and Ellie have never tried to have children of their own and Pete makes a joking reference to adopting an older child so he won’t be a really old dad. Ellie takes him seriously and starts researching foster parenting and adoption. The two enroll in foster parenting classes and a chain of circumstances lead them to welcome three siblings to their perfect home. The hopeful new parents are soon exhausted and overwhelmed. Since this movie is listed as a comedy and not a drama, we know that there is going to be a happy ending. Kudos to the director and screen writer for not making that happy ending too easy. This script is based on the real-life experience of director Sean Anders and his wife, who fostered and then adopted three children. Unfortunately, the realism sometimes gets a bit too “gritty”. The biggest content issue in this film is language. I counted over four dozen profanities and there could easily be more. Another area of concern involves sexual content. These content issues are particularly frustrating because they spoil what is otherwise a tender, heartwarming film, rendering it unsuitable for children, although teens will likely enjoy it. Auburn Opelika Parents I December 2018
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