Auburn-Opelika Parents November 2014 by KeepSharing

November2014

Volume 5 Number 9

26 Columns

Publisher’s Note Kendra Sumner

Living With Children John Rosemond

Volunteering With Your Family

Kids Health Watch

Why we all need Vitamin D, plus how much each of your kids need.

Overcome obstacles to begin “giving back” with your kids.

Kids Health Watch sponsored by Pediatric Associates of Auburn

A Page in a Book Gerry Paige Smith

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Dave Says Dave Ramsey

Centsibly Southern Chic Laura Handey

Holiday Happenings Holiday fun abounds throughout Lee County! Our extensive guide tells you where to go.

Bullying: Is Your Child a Victim?

Learn how to help your child if he has become a target.

On The Cover Roscoe Morris (age 2) is the son of Dan and Kitty Morris of Opelika. Roscoe loves to dance, play with his chihuahua Bono Baby, and cuddle.

Get This! Gerry Paige Smith

Parenting on the Plains Polly Dunn, Ph.D.

Departments 6

Bits and Pieces 10

School Bits 38

Family Calendar 44

Movie Reviews 1

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Publisher’sNote “I don’t have any time left in my family’s schedule.” “My kids are too young to understand.” “I will do it next year.” These are just a few excuses I have used (and maybe you as well) as to why I do not include volunteering or giving back to my community during the holiday season. Excuses are easy to come up with and to justify another year of not helping others during the busy November and December months. Sure, this time of year is very hectic, and sure, my calendar is filled with holiday programs at school and church, festive activities such as cookie baking and Christmas caroling, neighborhood parties and, of course, shopping, planning and more shopping. I get it! This time of year can get busy and overwhelming and understandably we find ourselves forgetting the true meanings of Thanksgiving and Christmas. When I think of Thanksgiving, I remind myself (and my kids) that this holiday is a time to be grateful and appreciative of all we have been blessed with. It is also a time to reflect on how we can take our blessings and give back to others, so they can feel the joy and love of community. In this month’s feature article, Overcome These Obstacles and Volunteer with Your Family , there is helpful advice to counter some of the excuses we use. As for not having time or not knowing where to get started, narrow down where to begin by asking your family, “What are our family’s interests and hobbies?” Then, once a match is made, find a time you normally allot for family fun, and just plug it in. Our family enjoys reading books together. We are fortunate to be able to buy great books twice a year at the schools’ book fairs. What is most rewarding is that these books have taken us to fairylands with princesses, historical times where history lies, and mysterious worlds where clues and suspense have made us detectives! These adventures, as a family, will last forever, and for that we are grateful! So, we brainstormed how we could take our family’s interest and give back. We came up with two ideas...reading books to seniors in a local retirement home and donating our most loved storybooks to foster children. Because this is an interest for our family, as well as a project that even our youngest child can understand and be involved in, the giving back part became doable, exciting and will be rewarding for us all. Don’t wait until next year to give--even though that excuse seems logical, given all the demands and scheduling conflicts we have. Start this year! Or, better yet, make it a yearly tradition. As my family was brainstorming the giving back idea, we decided to give it a name that would make it a yearly calendar entry. ‘SumJoy from Stories’ was born (our last name being ‘Sum’ner was the inspiration). Our goal is to bring the same joy we have experienced through the love of family reading, and while doing so, bring that joy to others who may not have family to read to them or only a few books to choose from. From one parent to another, find what brings your family joy and share it with others this holiday season. Spreading holiday joy is a win-win for both your family and our community!

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Auburn Opelika Lee County’s Foremost Parenting Source

Auburn Opelika Parents Magazine is founded on the principle that parenting is an exciting, diverse, challenging, and significant role in our community. Auburn Opelika Parents Magazine is a community advocate for families and the parenting process.

Publisher Kendra Sumner kendra@auburnopelikaparents.com Editor DeAnne Watson deanne@auburnopelikaparents.com Associate Editor Kelly Watson Contributing Writers Polly Dunn, Ph.D. Richard Freeman, M.D. Laura Handey Cindy Hudson Jan Pierce Dave Ramsey John Rosemond Gerry Paige Smith Cover Photography Candy Avera www.pictureperfectbycandy.com

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LivingWithChildren by John Rosemond

It’s Not Up to Parents to Solve All of Their Child’s Problems Q: My 7-year-old son does well in school and sports and has a good number of friends. However, he often allows himself to be intimidated by other boys. He is a rule-follower and is more worried about getting in trouble than defending himself. I worry that other boys will see him as easy to pick on. Occasionally, he complains about how other boys treat him. What words can I use with him to explain how to be confident in himself, his athletic abilities, and not allow himself to be intimidated by other boys? A: You’re describing a personality issue, not a behavior problem. It would appear that your son is not socially assertive, certainly not aggressive, a follower rather than a leader, and perhaps a pleaser to a fault. Personality traits can’t be talked out of someone and

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they certainly can’t be disciplined out of existence. Any personality trait will be to the individual’s benefit in some situations and a drawback in others. Now, the qualifier in this equation involves three words: at this age. At the present time, at age seven, your son is not assertive. That does not mean he will always be unassertive. Both behavior and personality can change, but whereas behavior, especially a child’s, can change fairly quickly, personality characteristics (temperament) change over a relatively long period of time. Most shy children, for example, are no longer shy by the time they’re in their 30s. That was certainly true in my case. I was painfully shy as a child. When I went to college, where my reputation didn’t follow me, I was able to slowly come out of my shell. My mother must have been aware of my social insecurities. Nonetheless, she made no attempt to solve that problem for me. I think she realized that doing so might well have made matters worse in the long run.

Today’s moms think it’s their job to solve all of their children’s problems, whatever they might be. The task is an impossible one, which is one huge reason why so many of today’s moms experience parenting as a stressful, anxiety-filled endeavor. To great degree, this issue is about an emotional boundary, or lack thereof. When an emotional boundary doesn’t exist between mother and child, the child’s disappointments and struggles become the mother’s disappointments and struggles. As the mother works to solve her child’s problems, her frustration and anxiety increase along with the child’s feeling that there must be something wrong with him. This quickly develops into a vicious cycle. I encourage you to extend the same grace to your son that my mother extended to me. Don’t take this on as a project. Be supportive, but let your son figure things out on his own. Keep in mind that when all is said and done, your son’s positives greatly outweigh his negatives. I’ll just bet, for example, that he’s considerate and tender-hearted. If so, then I predict he’s going to grow up to be a fine person, and a more assertive one at that. Family psychologist John Rosemond answers parents’ questions on his website at www.rosemond.com.

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Auburn Area Community Children's Theatre Presents: "A Christmas Story”

“You’ll shoot your eye out!” “A Christmas Story,” based on Ralphie Parker’s childhood quest to own that Red Ryder BB Gun, is a modern classic for all to enjoy. Mark your calendar and get your tickets! November 14-15, 20-22 at 7 p.m. and November 16 and 23 at 2:30 p.m. Located at the Jan Dempsey Community Arts Center. Tickets are $10 for adults and $8 for children, students and seniors. Reservations are available by calling (334) 332-2620.

Junie B. Jones at The RiverCenter for Performing Arts

Mark your calendar for November 18! Based on the wildly popular book series by Barbara Park, Junie B. Jones is the bestest musical ever! Follow the funny, topsy-turvy adventures of this unstoppable little girl as she writes the story of her life in her “Top Secret Beeswax Journal.” www.rivercenter.org. Columbus, GA.

Turkey Day Classic: Alabama State University vs. Stillman

Alabama State Homecoming /Turkey Day Classic is one of Montgomery’s liveliest times of the year. ASU will be hosting Stillman again for this annual classic. November 22, 1 p.m., New ASU Stadium, 1001 University Drive North, Montgomery. For more info visit, www.hornethomecoming.com.

Auburn Women’s Basketball Fun Fan Day

Sunday, November 2 @ 2 p.m. at the Auburn Arena. Inflatables, Face Painting, Balloon Artist, Women’s Basketball Scrimmage, Meet & Greet, photos and autographs with Women’s Basketball Players, Coaches and Staff, and Appearances by Auburn Cheerleaders and Aubie.

November 2 – Daylight Savings Time Ends

As Daylight Saving Time draws to a close, we will have to "Fall back" once again and set our clocks back by an hour. On Sunday, November 2, the clock will be changed at 2:00 a.m., back one hour, making it 1:00 a.m. local time in the United States. Auburn Opelika Parents I November 2014

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Fall Concerts

November 16: Fall Choral Concert at Auburn United Methodist Church, 2:30 p.m. $10 general admission; $5 students and children. November 20: Symphonic Winds and Opelika High School Band Concert. Opelika Performing Arts Center. 7:30 p.m. Free Admission! www.auburn.edu/ music.

Sesame Street LIVE! Make a New Friend

No matter where you’re from or where you’ve been, everyone is special – so join in! Elmo, Grover, Abby Cadabby, and their Sesame Street friends welcome Chamki, Grover’s friend from India, to Sesame Street. Together, they explore the universal fun of friendship and celebrate cultural similarities, from singing and dancing, to sharing cookies! Join the fun and make a memory with your friends and family! Montgomery Performing Arts Centre, November 12. www.ticketmaster.com.

‘Come Ye Thankful People Come’ Concert of Praise and Thanksgiving

This Annual Concert is scheduled for Sunday afternoon, November 23, at 1st Presbyterian Church, LaGrange. This concert has become a tradition. LaGrange native, Tess Malis Kincaid, will be the featured narrator. 706-333-0627.

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K Walk Through Fantasy in Lights to Benefit March of Dimes

On November 23, join thousands of others for the annual March of Dimes Night Walk through Fantasy In Lights. On this special night, the lights may be enjoyed by walkers only â&#x20AC;&#x201C; cars and trolleys are not allowed. Last year, almost 6,780 people participated in the Night Walk. See the lights in the most spectacular way! Please note that the online system is selling 6:30 p.m. and 7 p.m. time slots. The 6 p.m. slot appears as "sold out" but it actually being sold by the Columbus March of Dimes office. To purchase this time slot, call (706) 660-0160. All tickets limited quantity. Your ticket purchase is a donation, there will be no refunds. Thank you for your support. All walkers must begin before 7:20 p.m. www.callawaygardens.com.

Alabama Frontier Days: November 5-9

Using Fort Toulouse-Fort Jackson Park in Wetumpka as its historical backdrop, Alabama Frontier Days focuses on demonstrating what life was like in the Frontier South during the early years of European and American exploration and settlement, 1700-1820. The public can experience this living history as many frontier trades and crafts will be demonstrated by living history specialists and craftsmen in the costume of the periods. Admission: $8 adults/$7 students. www.fttoulousejackson.org/frontierdays

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Why We Need Vitamin D and How Much For thousands of years, Vitamin D (cholecalciterol) was only available for humans by the action of ultraviolet (UV) B rays from sunshine exposure of the skin. However, for the last several decades, Vitamin D has been added to milk, juices and other foods as well as prepared in tablet or gel caps form. Everyone needs adequate blood levels of Vitamin D. Unfortunately, a very high percentage of the population in the United States, especially those living north of the latitude running through Atlanta, are Vitamin D deficient. The small amounts added to milk, juices and multivitamins is not enough to produce adequate blood levels. The basic cause of this deficiency is inadequate exposure to sunlight. Think about it. Everyone is inside most of the day, especially from 10 a.m. until three p.m., the time when most of the UV that generates Vitamin D in the skin is available. The atmosphere filters out most of the ultraviolet B (UVB) rays in the early mornings and late afternoons. So, why do we need Vitamin D? Most everyone probably knows that Vitamin D is essential for normal bone growth and development. However, Vitamin D also has other functions in addition to

calcium metabolism. It protects bone strength and reduces risk of falling and risk of fractures. Here are some significant functions of Vitamin D: 1. Protects the brain. Low levels of Vitamin D can cause attention, memory and reasoning problems. 2. Protects the heart. Low levels of Vitamin D have been shown to be an independent risk factor for heart attack, congestive heart failure and stroke. 3. Protects against Parkinsonâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s disease. Low levels of Vitamin D increased risk and higher levels protected against the disease. 4. Protects against depression. Low levels increase risk of depression and mood disorders. 5. Protects against Multiple Sclerosis. Low levels in infancy and childhood significantly increase risk of Multiple Sclerosis. Important: the protection (normal levels of Vitamin D) must be acquired at an early age to decrease risk of Multiple Sclerosis. 6. Protection against autoimmune disorders such as Type I Diabetes, (insulin dependent). Low levels of Vitamin D in

the Finnish population due to very little sunlight significantly increased the risk of Type 1 Diabetes. Infants who were given a Vitamin D supplement of 2000 IU/day during the first year of life had a nearly 80% reduced risk of developing Type 1 diabetes in Finland. So, what are the current recommendations to assure adequate levels of Vitamin D? 1. All infants should receive a minimum of 400 IU of Vitamin D as a supplement daily. 2. Older children should also receive at least 400 IU daily. 3. Teens and adults should receive at least 1000 to 2000 IU daily. 4. Also, adequate sunlight exposure between 10 a.m. and three p.m. is very helpful. An average time of exposure for our latitude is 10-20 minutes. Donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t forget, protect your face; wear hats and use sunscreen on your face. Dr. Richard Freeman completed medical school in 1973 and started in private practice in 1975 in Opelika, before practicing in Auburn. Dr. Freeman has served as Vice President and Secretary-Treasurer for the Medical Association for the State of Alabama, was a member of the Medicaid DUR Board, member of the Medicaid Pharmacy and Therapeutic Board and is on the Board of Medical Examiners for the State of Alabama. He is married to Sherry Spann Freeman and they have two children and six grandchildren.

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Autauga CountyMorris SchoolsAvenue Students Dream of Dean Road Elementary Celebrates a More Peaceful “Dot Day” Students at Dean Road recently World celebrated International Dot The third graders at Morris Avenue Intermediate celebrated International Peace Day in art class during the fourth week of September. The students discussed ways they can make the world more peaceful. There were lots of good ideas -from no bullying to getting along with our brothers and sisters! The students then decorated pinwheels showing what their idea of peace looks like.

Day! Dot Day, based on the book “The Dot”, is held to encourage bravery and self-esteem. Students created a wide variety of dots in the art room which were on display throughout the school and they also wore dotted clothing on Dot Day. Dean Road students are ready to make their marks on the world! Pictured are: Parker Pate, Lay’auni Bowens, Easton Gregory, and Madeline Marshall all dressed up for “Dot Day”.

Ice Bucket Challenge Hits Richland Elementary

Richland Elementary School teachers are pictured preparing for the ALS Ice Bucket challenge. Richland students and faculty raised over $2,900 in 24 hours.

Project Lead the Way at Carver Primary School

Kindergarten students in Rachel Loftin's class at Carver Primary School in Opelika recently participated in a Project Lead the Way Launch activity. Students read "The Three Little Pigs" and were then challenged to build houses of different materials. The Kindergarten students used either: sponges and glue, toothpicks and Play-Doh, or Popsicle sticks and masking tape. After constructing the houses, the students tested the stability by using a blow dryer to "blow the house down". Pictured: Mr. Kyle Pinckard, OCS Career Tech Education Director works with Christian Terry and Cordajha Barnett in building their structure.

Richland Students Walk to School on October 8

Oct. 08, 2014 is “International Walk to School Day in the USA.” Children all around the world and the United States walk or ride bikes to school on that day. More than 100 Richland Elementary students, along with their parents, met at Lundy Chase neighborhood at 6:45 a.m. to walk to school together. RES principal, Jeff Johnson and Mrs. McDonald, PE coach, joined in the ‘walking school bus’ for their 1 mile hike down Richland Road. This is the 7th year RES Students have participated in the event. Mrs. McDonald encouraged kids to walk to school on a regular basis (when possible) for exercise.

The Weather Man Visits Wrights Mill Road

Thank you Derek Kinkade (WVTM) for coming to speak to our third graders at Wrights Mill Road. Mrs. Collard’s class paused to take a picture with the weather man! Auburn Opelika Parents I November 2014

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Autauga County Schools Opelika High School Homecoming Court

Congratulations to the members of the 2014 Opelika High School Homecoming Court. Pictured (l-r): Kayla Levett, Freshman; Atroya Sutherlin, Sophomore; Aaliyah Boleware, Junior; Maniysha Marshall, Senior; Aaliyah Prince, Senior; Kaci Carlock, Senior; Jasmine Bell, Junior; Ambriah Bryant, Sophomore; and Ayanna Gaddis, Freshman.

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Fairy Tale Ball at Pick Elementary

Here is a look at the Fairy Tale Ball at Pick Elementary School where 3rd graders celebrated the completion of a literacy unit. They have been studying reading skills through fairytales and connecting social studies Map skills as well.

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GINGERBREAD VILLAGE UNVEILING December 4 | 5:00-8:00pm

TEDDY BEAR TEA December 17-21 | 3:00-5:00pm

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ELF TUCK-IN December 19-23

$50 enhancement to room charge

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Lee-Scott Academy Homecoming Queen Announced

Lee-Scott Academy's Kallie Basden was crowned Homecoming Queen at Lee-Scott's Homecoming game on Friday, October 3rd. Kallie is the daughter or Dr. and Mrs. Brett Basden.

Visitor to Ogletree Teaches Students about Sustainability

The Auburn University Student Chapter of USGBC (United States Green Builder's Council) visited Mrs. Toothaker's Third Grade Class at Ogletree Elementary School to teach students about sustainability. The children made planters out of water bottles and planted an onion plant.

Southview Primary School Receives Grant from Senator Senator Gerald Dial recently presented Southview Primary School with a community service grant. Joining Southview Principal Mary Patton and Senator Gerald Dial for the check presentation were former Southview Principal Annette Owen (left) and Faye Dial (right).

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Autauga County Schools

Prayers for Debbie!

The Central Office crew is showing their support for one of their own by wearing blue & white wristbands that read "Prayers for Debbie" and "Footprints in the Sand." Debbie Rice, Director of Technology at Auburn City Schools, was diagnosed with cancer in early April of this year and has been fighting her battle ever since. She is on our minds daily.

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Learning About Apples at Parkway

Ms. Natalie’s Kindergarten class at Parkway Preschool & Kindergarten is having a great time learning about apples this Fall! They have explored how an apple grows as well as the different parts of an apple. They even had the opportunity to taste different apples and make their own yummy apple muffins! They have learned about Johnny Appleseed and how he helped plant hundreds of apple trees. Learning about apples in Kindergarten is a bushel of fun!

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OCS Elementary Schools Receive Book Donations

On behalf of the Lee County Cattlemen and Cattlewomen's Association and the ALFA Farmer's Federation Ladies Committee, Mechele Gullatte (center) recently donated books to the OCS elementary schools. Receiving the books on behalf of the Opelika City Schools are pictured (l-r): Pam Fourtenbary, Principal of West Forest Intermediate School and Laura Hartley, Principal of Northside Intermediate School.

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Respect Visitors to Trinity Christian School are impressed by the culture of mutual respect that permeates our school both in and out of the classroom.

Character Day at West Smiths Station

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Students at West Smiths Station Elementary celebrated Character Day! Mrs. Karol Boulware's kindergarten class participated in Homecoming week!

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Northside Curriculum Night

Ann Marie Halverson and Trey White enjoy storytelling with Mr. Tim Cooper at Northside Intermediate Curriculum Night.

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Auburn University Cross Country Team Runs with Wrights Mill Road Running Club Thank you to the Auburn University Cross Country team members that came to run with Wrights Mill Road’s running club recently!

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Auburn High School Ambassadors Distribute Goodie Bags to Bus Drivers AHS's Ambassadors distributed our wonderful PTO's yummy goodie bags and treats to our hard-working ACS bus drivers and traffic control personnel! Please send your school news and photos by the 20th of each month to: kendra@auburnopelikaparents.com.

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Wrights Mill Road’s Teacher of the Year

Congratulations to Wrights Mill Road Elementary Music Teacher Joy Brinkley for being named WMR Teacher of the Year! Brinkley was totally taken by surprise when the news was broadcasted live on the morning announcements at WMR. Her family snuck in to celebrate with her as well!

Trinity Presbyterian Church and Trinity Christian School Celebrate Groundbreaking

Trinity Christian School is a ministry of Trinity Presbyterian Church (Opelika), and both the school and the church would like to thank the Opelika/Auburn community, emergency services, sister churches, and school families for their help and support throughout this past year. On July 13, 2013 Trinity Presbyterian lost its sanctuary in a fire caused by a lightning strike. Now, just a little over a year later, the rebuilding process has begun. On Sunday, September 14, Trinity Presbyterian held a groundbreaking ceremony that marked the beginning of a new chapter in the life of the church and school. “I will fill this house with glory, says the Lord of Hosts.” --Haggai 2:7

Auburn Wresting Team’s Unusual Strength Conditioning

The Auburn Takedown Wrestling Team pushed Coach Nick Tucker's Toyota Tacoma around the back of Auburn High School’s parking lot (in four strategically placed groups of five to six wrestlers) with more than 1,000 pounds of weight in the bed for practice and strength conditioning! They had no idea this was on their agenda today, but they abided by all traffic laws and allowed pedestrians and cyclists to cross when necessary.

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Grandparents’ Day at Auburn Classical Academy!

Students from Auburn Classical Academy enjoyed hosting their grandparents for lunch and a short program showcasing how much they’ve learned! Grandparents also toured the school and viewed artwork and class projects completed by the students.

Dean Road Kindergartners Learn about Community Helpers

Kindergartners at Dean Road Elementary School recently studied about community helpers. They explored the subject through numerous books, informational videos, and visitors. A few visitors were police officers, firefighters, doctors, electricians, farmers, grocers, lawyers, nurses, teachers, and paramedics. One of the favorite visitors was the Auburn Fire Department. The children enjoyed learning all about fire safety, fire fighter apparel, and the fire truck. The favorite part was the siren! Pictured are students from Ms. Donahoo’s class at the Fire Department presentation.

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Dissecting Rats at Auburn High School

Mrs. Middleton's 1st block Anatomy & Physiology class, at Auburn High School, started the day in an interesting way... by dissecting rats! The students skinned the rats then began examining muscle structure before getting invasive and checking out the internal organs.

Silly Hair at Smiths Station Elementary

Mrs. Zeigler's kindergarten class celebrated tacky/ silly hair day during Smiths Station High School's homecoming week! West Smiths Station Elementary students really know how to dress the part!

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Richland Students Receive Donation of School Supplies Drake class of 1965 presented school supplies to Richland students in need. Thank you for your generous hearts.

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Autauga County Schoolsat Lee-Scott Academy Homecoming

Lee-Scott Academy recently celebrated Homecoming. The week's activities included: dress up days, door decoration contests, grade level flat decorations, junior and senior high Powder Puff Football Game, Homecoming Assembly and the annual "Black Light Pep Rally." The Homecoming Court was selected by the vote of the student body. Pictured Front Row (L-R): Seniors Kallie Basden, Jessica Jernigan, Sara Smith; Back Row (L-R): 7th Grader, Carla Ingram, Freshman, Madison James, Juniors, Rachel Hadaway and Lauren Sistrunk, Sophomore, Tyler Langford, and 8th Grader, Jessica Ethridge.

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Exciting Changes at Trinity Christian School!

Trinity Christian School is looking forward to the many changes taking place around campus. Construction continues on a new sanctuary for Trinity Presbyterian Church, and a new covered walkway directs students away from construction areas to the school buildings. In addition to these changes, chapel is being held this year in our new, larger band room! We are so excited to have a place where we can gather together as a school community to worship the Lord each Friday.

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All Pro Dads Breakfast Held at Richland Elementary

Richland Elementary had a wonderful turnout for their first All Pro Dadâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s breakfast.

Birthday Book Club at Ogletree

The Ogletree Media Center hosted Birthday Book Club August and September birthdays. Students were able to select a new hardback book for the media center and be the first to check it out. In addition they watched a live magic show and enjoyed a sweet treat.

Lee-Scott Welcomes New Teachers

Lee-Scott Academy welcomed ten new teachers this year. Pictured Front row (L-R): Monica Mills, Secondary Math; Fara Flick, Elementary Music; Matthew Bruner, Elementary Principal; Lynn Waldrip, Director of Finance/Operations. Back row (L-R): Melissa King, 4th Grade Teacher/Assistant Cheer Coach; Dr. Heather Hardin, Elementary Art; Suzanne Byrd, Secondary English/Curriculum; Scott Phillips, PE/ Boys Basketball; Corye Ivatt, PE/Girls Basketball. Not Pictured: Debra Samford, After School Care. Auburn Opelika Parents I November 2014

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Captain Jack Sparrow Visits Pick Elementary

Captain Jack Sparrow anchored down at Pick Elementary to discuss pirate history with students for "Talk Like a Pirate Day!" Deana Schnuelle, media specialist at PES, has been working with students to engage them in becoming readers while showing them the many wonderful adventures and places a book can take them.

Psi Gamma Zeta Inducts New Members

Zeta Phi Beta Sorority Inc. Psi Gamma Zeta Chapter of Auburn held its 2014 Zeta Youth Auxiliary Induction Ceremony on Sunday September 14. The ceremony featured a welcome, history of the Zeta youth auxiliaries, and the purpose and goal of each auxiliary. Psi Gamma Zeta Youth Auxiliary strives to encourage individuals to accept responsibility, develop new interests, work toward creating happiness for others, and develop an awareness of the need to share responsibilities and to understand one another in order to achieve a common goal. The Psi Gamma Zeta Youth Auxiliary is comprised of young ladies from ages of 4 to 18 who demonstrate an interest in the goals and the ideals of scholarship, sisterhood and community service. These young ladies want to be leaders, make a difference in their communities and serve their communities while having fun! This organization also gives youth an opportunity to learn about things that are important to youth. Psi Gamma Zeta’s role is to provide these young ladies the opportunity to make responsible decisions while developing confidence in relating to their peers, parents and adults in general. The new 2014 members are eager and excited to serve their communities. New members include: from left to right: Pearlette Alajah Holloway; Amicette E’lyssa Brown; Archonettes Shonquala Burton, Tyra Hudson and LaDaja Davison.

Wrights Mill Road’s Honor Choir Performs at PTO Meeting

Wrights Mill Road’s Honor Choir had their first performance. They sang patriotic songs for the first PTO meeting of the year.

Scavenger Hunt at Ogletree Elementary

The 3rd-5th Ogletree students completed the 'Do You Know Dewey' unit with a scavenger hunt. Students worked in small groups to find fiction, nonfiction, and reference materials, capturing photos of items found with iPads.

Poetry Out Loud at Auburn High School

Congratulations to this year’s winners of Auburn High School’s 6th Annual Poetry Out Loud Recitation Contest: 1st Runner Up, Elizabeth-Balch Crystal (right) and Poetry Out Loud Champion, Mina Narayanan (to the left).

Upcoming “Fun Run” at Trinity Christian School

Registration is now open for Trinity Christian School’s annual “Fun Run!” The 1 Mile, 5K, and 10K races take place on Saturday, November 15 at the Opelika Municipal Park. Proceeds benefit Trinity Christian School and Storybook Farms. For more information—or to register—please visit Trinity’s website (www.tcsopelika.org) and click on the “Fun Run” link at the right. 21

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Morris Avenue SGA Officers Elected

Students at Morris Avenue Intermediate School recently elected officials for the Student Government Association. The SGA is a student service organization whose focus is building leadership in young people by providing real world problem solving opportunities. The officials are beginning the year with a food and blanket drive that will benefit local animal shelters. Morris Avenue Kids Can Make a Difference!

Auburn University Quarterback and Cheerleaders Visit Pick Elementary Aubie, AU QB Jonathan Wallace and a group of the AU Cheerleaders all came out to the Pick Elementary School Tailgate to help students, teachers, parents and faculty celebrate the kick-off of this year's PES PTO fundraiser!

Dress Like a Pirate at Cary Woods Elementary

Cary Woods Elementary School dressed and talked like Pirates at their “ARRRR Day” (aka: Accelerated Reader Ready to Read). What an exciting way to kick off the Accelerated Reader Program with the students. Teachers and kids dressed like pirates as they connected it to the new Reading Initiative. Pictured is Mrs. Weaver’s 2nd grade classroom.

Yarbrough Holds Royal Run Pep Rally

Yarbrough just finished their Royal Run Pep Rally which is the kick-off to their Royal Run fundraising event. Classes dressed in their colors, performed cheers, and competed to find hidden coins that were buried underneath shaving cream. Yarbrough spirit filled the halls!

Trinity Band Selling Band Calendars Trinity Christian School’s band program is off to a great start this year! In addition to practicing in their updated band room, students have been busy selling band calendars—a major fundraiser for Trinity’s band program each year. For more information, please contact Mrs. Rena Smith (334-332-4492).

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Pep Rally for Trike Trek at Cary Woods

Cary Woods Elementary School held their pep-rally for their Trike Trek fundraiser with the help of the 9th grade cheerleading squad! Mrs. Snyder and Mrs. Core along with many other staff members of CWES all dressed up for the event and even rode their bikes around the gym as part of the entertainment. CWES will be having their Trike Trek Day on Oct 31.

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Auburn High School Marching Band is Superior! Congratulations to the AHS Marching Band for earning all superiors at the 34th Annual Phenix Invitational Marching Festival! Go AHS!

Exploring Presidents at Southview Primary Chris Gross and Aaron James, from Ms. Tickal's Southview Primary extended day class, enjoy exploring presidents.

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A Page in a Book These Books Are for the Birds Young or old, we all marvel over birds. Birds are one of the few animal groups that call out with song and sound for our attention. Found in almost every environment around the world, birds soar through the sky, plumb depths and nest right under our noses. They brighten our lives with color, song, antics and aerial acrobatics. With their plucky attitudes and posh plumage, our avian friends give wing to our imagination. The following titles feature our feathered friends in situations that will delight, inform and inspire young readers to their own flights of fancy!

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by Anna Walker (Clarion / Houghton Mifflin) Peggy is a beautiful black hen who’s right at home in the country. She has a cozy house, her own trampoline and pigeon friends to keep her company. But when a big gust of wind plucks her off her trampoline and plunks her down in the big city, it’s up to Peggy to follow clues that might lead her home. Anna Walker’s ink and photo collage illustrations tell most of the story, capturing the bustle and marvels of a busy city with natural colors, highlighted with bright symbols of Peggy’s home. Children will instantly connect with Peggy’s perspective as she is rendered small amidst a much bigger world. With dryly humorous insets that enliven Peggy’s journey, this picture book celebrates both the charm of adventure and the comforts of home.

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by Kate Samworth (Clarion / Houghton Mifflin) Styled along the lines of vintage mail order catalogs, Aviary Wonders Inc. is a visionary company for discerning bird builders that provides everything you need to craft your own avian wonder. From feathers and feet to beaks and bodies, every part of the bird is featured with instructions to guide design and assembly. Samworth’s marvelous artwork is the highlight of this imaginary offering as it subtly educates readers on all the physical aspects of birds that make them unique. It also features quiet references to extinct bird species tucked within its darkly beautiful suggestion that we may one day have to build our own birds. Young birdwatchers will love plucking out the real facts hidden in this artistic feast of fowl. A flight of imagination for all ages, Aviary Wonders Inc. is a first choice for the young birders bookshelf.

Penguin in Peril

by Helen Hancocks (Templar / Candlewick) What’s a penguin to do when he’s on the run from three hungry cats? Kidnapped from the zoo, one puzzled penguin finds his moment to escape. Hiding from his abductors while navigating a strange landscape is challenging, and his future looks black…and white. Seeking natural camouflage on the run, our penguin seeks refuge among nuns, black-tie waiters, and white-collared commuters as he tries to find the zoo. Hancock’s brightly colored mixed media illustrations are punctuated with black and white nods to the penguin’s plumage and her simple text makes it an ideal read-aloud for children. Young readers will delight as they follow one cool-headed penguin and his inept feline followers on a wild ride across the city.

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Q. Can you explain the “asset allocation” theory when it comes to investing? A. The asset allocation theory is one touted by lots of people in the financial community. It’s also a theory with which I disagree. In short, the asset allocation theory means that you invest aggressively while you’re young. Then as you get older, you move toward less aggressive funds. If you follow this theory to the letter, you’re left pretty much with money markets and bonds by the time you’re 65. The reason I don’t believe in this theory is simple. It doesn’t work. If you live to age 65 and are in good health, there’s a high statistical likelihood that you’ll make it to 95. The average age of death for males in this country is now 76, but that includes infant mortality and teenage deaths. So, a healthy 65-year-old man in America can look at having another quarter century on earth. If you move your money to bonds and money markets at age 65, inflation is going to kick your tail. Your money will grow slower than it will devalue, and you’ll have little purchasing power. That’s the

problem with the asset allocation methodology. I advise investing in good, growth stock mutual funds that have strong track records of at least five to ten years. Spread your money across four types of funds: growth, growth and income, aggressive growth and international. These groups provide diversification across risk, as well as a little splash overseas.

Q. My husband makes about $35,000 a year before taxes, and we have one child. We’ve also got a mortgage and $60,000 in student loan debt. About a year ago, my husband started work on a master’s degree, because he thinks he wants to teach when he retires. He quit school after the baby was born, because he didn’t think we could afford it any longer. I think he should finish the degree. Otherwise, he’s just throwing away the $10,000 we’ve already got invested in the program. What do you think? A. You guys need to clean up the mess you’ve made before he goes after his master’s degree. You might be able to

justify it if the degree immediately raised his income, but you two can’t afford to make investments in vague educational goals right now. If you want to call it throwing the money away, then yeah, throw it away. But I’m not sure the money has been wasted. The classes he has already taken are complete and on record, so why can’t he finish the degree somewhere down the road? You guys have done a poor job of planning, and now you need to climb out of a big hole before you do anything else. The point is not the $10,000, Amanda. The point is that you’re barely making ends meet. You’ve already got a house payment and $60,000 in student loan debt hanging over your heads, not to mention the added expense of a baby in the house. The last thing you need is to go even deeper into debt for something he won’t even use until retirement. That’s just silly. I’m all for education, but you’ve got to plan things and get a better payback on your educational spending. That’s when it becomes an investment. But he doesn’t need to even think about a master’s degree until you guys have first straightened out your finances!

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“We’ll volunteer eventually, but my children are too young now.”

Check these online sites for more ideas on how your whole family can get involved in helping out:

“There are so many good causes, there’s no way we can decide on one to get our help.” Think about your interests to help you decide where to give your time. Many nonprofit service organizations can be broken down into three broad categories: human welfare, environmental welfare or animal welfare. Once you define your broad cat-

out around the house, there’s no way I can get them to volunteer to work somewhere else.”

The key is to make volunteering more like fun than work, which it can be. And you need to get buy-in from everyone involved. If you present a volunteer opportunity to your kids as something they will do whether they “like it or not,” you’ll almost certainly get resistance. But if you ask their opinions and give them a voice in choosing a cause to

work for or a project to help out on, you may be surprised at the enthusiasm they show.

“My kids already spend time on service projects through their Scout troops, there’s no need to spend more time volunteering.”

It’s true that service organizations of many types help kids learn the pleasures of giving their time. But there’s also an advantage to be gained from working together as a family. You get to see your kids succeed at tasks they may not normally do, and you may also find out about issues that are important to them. And it’s not bad that your children get to watch you commit your time and energy to something you believe is important. Another bonus: the possibility of meeting other families who believe in the same causes you do. Once you break the volunteer barrier, don’t be surprised if you find yourself adding a regular project to your family’s calendar. There’s something about helping an organization or contributing to an issue you care about that’s good for you. Just like broccoli, only better. AOP Cindy Hudson has volunteered as part of Girl Scout troops, school groups, mother-daughter book clubs, and with her family and friends. She lives in Portland, Oregon with her husband and two daughters. Visit her online at www.MotherDaughterBookClub.com.

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Don’t Stress About Your Holiday Style When it comes to shopping for holiday fashion, we all know the stresses it can cause. And, if you are like us, the holiday season started in October...and it’s crazy busy! I try not to sweat the small stuff, especially when it comes to my style. We always have parties or holiday functions to attend, but money and time play a huge role in making those ultimate fashion decisions. I’m going to give you some tips on how to look stylish without breaking the bank for your holiday activities.

1) Incorporate spring and summer items. Yes, simple items you wore this spring and summer, like t-shirts and blouses, are great to incorporate in a fun holiday style. For example, depending on your event, add a skirt, accessories, tights, boots or a fun heel (printed or a seasonal color). You can also bring in added style with jewelry. I like layering my jewelry by mixing metals and adding some sparkle to that simple style. You can have fun with jeans as well, but be sure to keep your denim a darker shade as you enter Auburn Opelika Parents I November 2014

the night. Add a heel, blazer and a classic or printed light jacket and you have a versatile day to evening outfit.

2) Shop for bargains. See what you have in your wardrobe that you can piece with a favorite skirt, pair of pants or dress you find in the stores. You can find these wardrobe pieces from any of your local discount stores. Yes, you have to dig, but the great thing about these stores is they can be your one stop shop! You might be able to load up on Christmas gifts for others while you are there, too. 3) Little black dress, pants or skirt. Yes, I love that little black dress. It’s classic and can be very versatile. I do believe you need a different black dress for the summer and the fall. The material makes a big difference as far as seasonal style goes. How can you make your dress, pants or skirt versatile, you ask? Accessorize and add a print or color, whether it’s in your shoe, boot, belt, light jacket, blazer, or a structured cardigan. Depending on the style of your dress, pants or skirt you can always play with layers. Make sure your layers are not too bulky and overwhelming. With a little variety added, this little black dress or skirt can actually take you to more than one Christmas or holiday function. 28

4) Accessorize...this is my easiest and most affordable tip. You can find fun and colorful accessories at your favorite stores. It’s so easy to change an outfit with different pieces of jewelry.

5) Add flare with a print, fun color or both. Shoes, belt, scarf, clutch or purse, you name it, prints and seasonal colors will never go out of style.

6) Take a day or two to run around in your workout clothes. I know it sounds silly coming from this Southern fashionista, but I really think if we can run around with our comfortable gear on we are less likely to stress out and we tend to get things done in a more timely manner. It’s nice to get that shopping done in comfort. However, if you are trying on clothes, wear the right undergarments and make sure you throw on a little make up.

7) Don’t stress about the holidays! Most of all remember what the season is all about and enjoy time with your family and friends. This is my most important holiday tip!

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Auburn / Opelika 18th Annual Nutcracker Ballet

Presented by the East Alabama Community Ballet. December 12-14, Auburn University Telfair Peet Theatre. There is no more festive way to start the holiday season than by experiencing the holiday ballet classic that is The Nutcracker. Visit www.eacballet.com.

Clara’s Tea Party

December 5, 6:00-8:00pm. Saugahatchee Country Club, Auburn. A perfect mother/daughter or grandmother/granddaughter holiday outing! Come dressed in Tea Party Fabulous or Holiday Fancy and mingle with your favorite Nutcracker characters. A beautifully decorated holiday scene provides the perfect backdrop for unique holiday card photos! Children’s holiday craft activities are planned along with delicious tea party fare for children and adults alike. For times and tickets, www.eacballet.com.

The Hotel at Auburn University and Dixon Conference Center Teddy Bear Tea

Children and parents alike are invited to the annual Teddy Bear Tea at Piccolo, December 1721, 3:00-5:00pm, to gather around the fireplace for tea sandwiches, sweets, tea and hot cocoa. A real live Teddy Bear and Holiday Elf will also be there for everyone to snuggle up to. Each child will also be presented with a special teddy bear to take home with them. For reservations, 334-844-5140, $25 per person.

Gingerbread Village Unveiling

The Hotel at Auburn University in partnership with Auburn University’s College of Architecture, Design and Construction Master of Integrated Design and Construction Program presents the 2014 Auburn Gingerbread Village. Auburn masters students created the house’s frame work using high-definition LiDAR technology which was transformed by the team at the hotel into the Gingerbread Village. The unveiling will be held Friday, December 4, 5:00-8:00pm.

Dixon the Elf’s 2nd Annual Holly Jolly Holiday Party, Cooking Class & Elf Tuck-In

The fun begins Friday, December 19-21. Real holiday elves will help children make an elf ornament to take home & hang on their tree! Our skilled culinary team will then assist the tiny chefs prepare “Grinch Greens”, mix & stuff authentic “Reindeer Ravioli” & decorate “Candy Cane Cookies”, all to be enjoyed right there with the Elves & parents. Complete the experience with an Elf “Tuck-In”! Visions of sugarplum fairies will dance in their heads after Santa’s helper reads them a favorite Christmas story & tucks them in with warm holiday wishes & a mug of hot chocolate. Party and cooking class, $50 per child. Or, Party, class, Elf tuck in, $125 per child*(Each additional child is $30), *includes one child accompanied by an adult with accommodations in our standard deluxe room. Limit 3 children per adult; (334) 821-8200 to make your reservations.

Variations Dance Studio Presents “Nutcracker”

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“Nutcracker”, December 12-14, 2014 at the Opelika Performing Arts Center. Follow Clara into a dream-like world of dancing snowflakes and see all the colorful treats found in the Land of Sweets! Whether it is a first-time experience or an annual holiday tradition, don’t miss your chance to reserve your seat at this beautiful holiday ballet! Tickets available now online, www.variationsstudio.com.

Nutcracker Character Brunch

Date TBA. Families can enjoy a special meet and greet with the Sugarplum Fairy and other Nutcracker Ballet characters at Ariccia’s special holiday brunch. In between posing for photos, guests can enjoy Ariccia’s signature brunch. Menu items include a prime rib station, omelet station, dozens of hot and cold entrees, and a Kids Ice Cream Sundae Parlor. The price of the brunch is $21.95 for adults, $9.50 for kids, and free for children under five. Reservations are recommended and can be made by calling (334) 844-5140. Hosted by Variations Dance.

8th Annual Holiday Art Sale

The Auburn Arts Association, Auburn Parks & Recreation, and the Jan Dempsey Community Arts Center will host the 8th Annual Holiday Art Sale on Saturday, December 13 from 9:00 am4:00 pm. at the Jan Dempsey Community Arts Center. Local artists will be selling paintings, pottery, stained glass, photography, cards, jewelry, hats, scarves, and much more! If you would like to sell your work, applications are available online at www.auburnalabama.org/ arts by clicking on the special events button. Applications are also available at the Jan Dempsey Community Arts Center. Free to the public. For more information, please contact the www.facebook.com/auburnopelika.parents

Arts Center at 501-2944. Interested in participating in the Holiday Art Sale as a vendor? Applications are available online at auburnalabama.org/parks.

19th Annual Cookie Walk

Cookies! Cookies! Cookies! For this Habitat for Humanity annual community fundraiser, the whole community gets into the holiday spirit of generosity and celebration. The Cookie Walk gets bigger and better every year. Folks come from far and near to buy fresh, delicious, holiday decorated cookies at this Habitat for Humanity fund raiser, sponsored by Auburn’s WeHelp Coalition of churches. Select from an array of 30,000 home baked holiday goodies for $6.00/lb. Santa will visit for photos! See you early for best selection! All proceeds go to build a house right here in Auburn! Saturday, December 6, starting at 8:00am-1:00pm at Grace United Methodist Church by Kroger on Glenn Avenue in Auburn.

20th Annual Christmas in a Railroad Town

Friday, December 12, 6:00-9:00pm. The Historic Downtown District celebrates “Christmas in a Railroad Town” in conjunction with the Victorian Front Porch Tour. This event converts Railroad Avenue into a Christmas wonderland festival, featuring all sorts of fun activities for the whole family, along with music, hot wassail and a variety of other holiday treats. Children love the miniature train rides and the time they can spend with Santa and Mrs. Claus; and everyone loves the wagon and/or trolley rides that take folks from the historic downtown district through the Victorian Front Porch tour in an “old fashioned” way.

Annual Christmas Tree Recycling

Recycle your Christmas tree with the Opelika Tree Commission and Keep Opelika Beautiful on Saturday, December 27, from 8:00am12:00pm. Location for drop off is 601 Avenue A, Opelika. Citizens will receive a tree seedling in exchange for the tree.

Annual Holiday Poinsettia Sale

The Junior League of Lee County is offering beautiful poinsettias to enhance the holiday décor of any business or home. By purchasing a poinsettia, you are supporting art and literacy programs for Lee County’s Children. 6.5” Poinsettias (6-8 blooms) at $12 each & 10” Poinsettias (18-20 blooms) at $22 each in Red, Ivory, Marble, and Pink. Orders will be taken from October - November 1st, with pick up at Elk’s Lodge in Auburn on December 6-7, or for orders of 10 or more plants, we offer free delivery on November 22 and December 6. If you are interested in placing an order, please contact the Poinsettia Committee at www.juniorleagueofleecounty.com to receive information and a pre-sale form.

Auburn Christmas Parade

The entire community is invited to celebrate the season with the Auburn Chamber Christmas Parade on December 11 at 5 p.m. in downtown Auburn. The parade, sponsored by Thames Orthodontics, will include Aubie, Santa, Christmas characters, live music and lots of other Christmas favorites! Before and after the Auburn Opelika Parents I November 2014

parade, from 4-9 p.m., enjoy Christmas in the Village, an open house in downtown Auburn. The event will feature pictures with Santa, a live nativity, live music and merchant specials. For float entry forms or more information, log onto www.auburnchamber.com.

Auburn Parks and Recreation

10th Annual Polar Express Holiday Celebration Join the Auburn Arts Association and the Jan Dempsey Community Arts Center for the 10th Annual Polar Express Holiday Celebration on Saturday, December 6 at 10:00am and 1:00pm. The “train” will depart at 10:00 am and 1:00pm. Activities include arts & crafts, sweets & treats, holiday games, a trackless train, and much more. This event is open to children 12 and under. Children under 5 must be accompanied by a parent/guardian. Participants are encouraged to wear their favorite holiday pajamas. Tickets will be available for sale Wednesday, November 5 and Thursday, November 6 at the Jan Dempsey Community Arts Center from 9:00 am-4:00 pm. The cost is $10 per person. For more information, please contact the Arts Center at 501-2963. “The Polar Express” Holiday Movie - Join Auburn Parks and Recreation on Saturday, Dec. 6 at 4:30 p.m. in the gym at the Frank Brown Recreation Center for a FREE holiday movie featuring the animated children’s classic, “The Polar Express.” All ages are invited. Attendees are encouraged to bring a new, unwrapped toy to benefit Auburn Public Safety’s Toys for Tots campaign. Daddy-Daughter Date Night 2015 Tickets on Sale ONLINE! - Tickets to Daddy-Daughter Date Night (DDDN) 2015 go on sale Monday, Dec. 8 at 8 a.m. at www.auburnalabama.org/ parks. NEW THIS YEAR - all tickets will be sold online. DDDN 2015 will be held Feb. 5 - 7 at the Clarion Inn & Suites University Center on South College Street. This event SELLS OUT, so be sure to purchase your tickets early! Tickets are $35/couple and $5 for each additional child. Participants must live or work in Auburn to purchase tickets.

City of Opelika Christmas Parade

On December 6, festive floats showcasing local groups and business will be parading through downtown Opelika to deliver Christmas Magic to all! Santa and Mrs. Claus highlight the parade’s finale! Find a perfect spot downtown Opelika for seeing the magic at 10:00am.

City of Opelika Tree Lighting Ceremony Tree lighting with Opelika Mayor Gary Fuller and his wife Laura, December 13, 6:00pm, at the corner of North 8th Street and 2nd Avenue. (weather permitting).

Collinwood Christmas Luminaries

Collinwood Subdivision shares the season with visitors to its annual Luminaries Tour held one night each holiday season- date TBA. This wonderful drive through tour features luminaries along the route that leads to the nativity scene at the end of the tour – reminding us all that Christ is why we have Christmas! The luminaries follow a one-way route beginning on Collinwood Street at the intersection of North Tenth Street and Oakbowery Road. The tour winds through the entire Collinwood subdivision and ends on McLure Avenue. 30

Ho! Ho! Ho! Hike

Make time in your busy holiday schedule to join us for this fun “santa-hunt” where we will hike the preserve, Saturday, December 13, 10:00am, looking for this elusive visitor in red. Later we will return to the amphitheater where we will gather for a cup of hot cocoa and a warm fire! New this year! We will offer holiday portraits with our special guest. The sitting fee for a 5×7 portrait is $10 and will benefit the Forest Ecology Preserve. Admission to the Ho! Ho! Ho! Hike is $3 per person. Donations of canned goods will be accepted for the East Alabama Food Bank. No preregistration required. Cancelled in the event of rain. 334-707-6512.

Holiday Wreath Workshop

Join us Saturday, December 6, 2:00-4:00pm, at the Ham Wilson Arena inside the Louise Krehler Forest Ecology Preserve, 2222 North College Street, Auburn, for a fun morning of making beautiful wreaths or sprays with natural elements for your holiday enjoyment. Music and delicious snacks will make the morning festive. Limited to first 25. Choose wreath or spray when registering. Please specify if bringing child and age. Fee: $25 per wreath or spray. Registration is required; 502-4553.

Loveliest Village Christmas Tour of Homes and Buildings

The Auburn Preservation League (APL) is pleased to announce the 8th Annual Loveliest Village Christmas Tour of Homes and Buildings will be Saturday, Dec. 13, from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. and Sunday, Dec. 14, from 1 p.m. to 4 p.m. The tour will feature homes and buildings in the Auburn area. Tickets for the tour are $20 and are available at Wrapsody in downtown Auburn, The Flower Store in Ogletree Village and the Auburn Chamber. Tickets will also be available at each home on the days of the tour. For more information about the tour, visit www.auburnpreservationleague.org.

National Village Christmas Lights

Bring the family for a festive, Christmas outing! Just pull right up in your car or bring your blankets for the viewing. The light display will be each night from November 22-January 4. For more information on times, please visit www. facebook.com/NationalVillage.

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Christmas Crafts Make and take your own Christmas crafts, on December 19, 2:00-3:00pm at the Covington Rec Center. Ages 6-10yrs. Fee: $15. Christmas Wreaths Join us at the Covington Recreation Center, Opelika for an afternoon of decorating Christmas wreaths to hand on your door for the holidays. December 2; 3:30-4:30pm. Ages: 5-12 years. $15 Rocky Brook Rocket Reindeer Express December 4-5. 5:00-8:00pm. Municipal Park, Opelika. Ages 2nd grade and under invited. Food, hot chocolate, entertainment and train rides through holiday lights. Therapeutics Christmas Ball Celebrate the holidays and feel like a king and queen for the day dressed in your Christmas www.auburnopelikaparents.com

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Victorian Front Porch Christmas Tour

Visit an Ole World Christmas wonderland and see more than 60 turn-of-the-century Victorian homes adorned with life-size Santas, angels, toys, and other figures. Enjoy live entertainment, carolers, costumed homeowners and other festivities. December 5-9, in Opelika. Lighted driving tour December 10-14, 5:00-10pm. Walking tour December 13, 6:00-9:00pm. More information, please call 334-887-8747. Free event.

Valley /LaGrange 8th Annual Children’s Christmas Celebration

Children are invited the Hills & Dales Estate, LaGrange, Ga., December 20, 10:00-11:00am, to see Santa, decorate a gingerbread house and Christmas ornaments, hear stories and songs from Robin Treadwell, visit with Santa and share in fresh cider and cookies. All children’s activities are free. Tours of the home decked out for the holidays are available at regular price. 706-882-3242.

Christmas Holidays at Hills & Dales Estate

Experience our circa 1940’s tinsel-laden Christmas tree, brilliant Poinsettias and other seasonal decorations during the holiday season. The Fuller E. Callaway family home and the visitor center will be decorated for the holidays this December, Tuesday to Saturday. Regular tour prices apply. 706-882-3242.

Christmas Village at The Historic Langdale Mill

Christmas Village and Merry-Go-Round Beginning the first weekend in December, experience the spirit of the Season in Historic Valley, Al. There’s the life size Nativity Scene in the meadow, the Madonna light-sculpture, and the Christmas Merry-GoRound that has given over 1,000,000 FREE rides to children and adults, too. As you take a walk through history, you will be greeted with Christmas caroling and much more festive fun. In 2008, a new tradition was started with the first “A Cotton Mill Christmas” production at Langdale Historical Theater, as local actors tell the history and stories of Valley. Exit 77 and left on US Hwy 29. www.cityofvalley.com

Christmas Wreath Workshop

December 6, 10:00am or 1:30pm, at Hills & Dales Estate. Get ready for the holidays by creating a Christmas wreath using fresh greenery and holly berries from the garden plus a beautiful holiday bow. Floral artist Helen Phillips will be on hand to guide your project from beginning to lovely completion. Bring clippers if you have them. All other supplies will be provided. $35 per person. Registration is required, 706-882-3242.

Follow The Shepherds Christmas Walks & Under The Bethlehem Star Light Show Experience the Christmas story in a whole new way. Join a guide as you walk from Nazareth to Bethlehem, learning new insights into the Christmas story in the most unique, authentic setting surrounding areas, as well as live actors and animals. December 5-6, 12-13, 19-20, 24(Friday and Saturday evenings) and Christmas Eve at 6:00pm, 6:30pm, 6:40pm, 8:15pm. $10 for adults and $6 for children ages 4-12. Explorations in Antiquity Center, 130 Gordon Commercial Dr., LaGrange. 706 885-0363.

LaGrange Christmas Parade

December 6, 6:00pm, as an old-fashioned celebration laced with nostalgia, culminates in the arrival of the big guy atop a bucket fire truck. LagrangeChamber.com

LaGrange Symphony Orchestra Concert The Choral Society of West Georgia, led by artistic director Bettie Biggs, joins the LSO for a special Christmas performance, December 10 and 17, 7:30-9:30pm, Callaway Auditorium at LaGrange College. 706-882-0662.

Convention and Trade Center. www.madeinthesouthshows.com

‘A Cantus Christmas’

December 22, 7:30pm. The 15th annual tradition tells the Christmas story with musical masterpieces and audience carols. The professional chorus Cantus Columbus presents the eleventh installment of Message of the Season—Music of the Masters in Legacy Hall. The concert features the Atlanta Symphony Brass Quintet and tenor Bradley Howard. www.rivercenter.org ‘ A Tuna Christmas’ Celebrate Christmas in Tuna, Texas, with its quick changes, fast-paced humor and heartwarming moments of sincere Christmas joy. Texas’ third smallest town is in the throes of its annual Christmas yard display contest, which promises to have Tuna in an uproar and have you laughing out loud. Columbus’ most popular show ever; over 35,000 served. December 11-21, Springer Opera House. www.springeroperahouse.org

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‘Miracle on 34th Street’

Presented by New Horizon Community Theatre, December 4-6. www.nhct.org

Join Uptown Columbus, December 5, 6:30pm, for a holiday tree lighting, carriage rides, a visit by the Coke Polar Bear and more! Fun for the whole family! www.uptowncolumbusga.com

Sons of LaFayette Christmas Concert

Cirque Dreams: Holidaze!

Concert with audience participation, December 6-7. Come early to get a good seat, located at First Presbyterian Church, 7:30pm. This is both an enjoyable and worshipful experience. What a great way to start the Christmas season. Tickets available, sonsoflafayette@gmail.com

Experience gingerbread men flipping mid air, toy soldiers marching on thin wires along with snowmen, icemen and penguins, balancing, jumping and spinning in disbelief. November 29, 7:30pm. www.rivercenter.org

Phenix City / Columbus

December 13-14. The ballet promises to instill a love of the arts in young and old alike. This family-oriented production, which features a cast of over 100 performers, with live orchestra and acclaimed guest artists, captures the magical wonder and innocence of Tchaikovsky’s beloved ballet as seen through a child’s eyes. www.rivercenter.org

23rd Annual Fantasy in Lights

The most spectacular holiday light and sound show in the south begins November 14- December 30! Nestled amidst wooded landscape of Callaway Gardens, Fantasy In Lights is the Southeast’s most spectacular holiday light and sound show with more than eight million twinkling lights celebrating the holiday season. This spectacular show has attracted almost two million visitors since it opened in 1992. With more than a dozen larger-than-life lighted scenes, Fantasy In Lights remains unique in that its scenes are custom-designed especially for Callaway Gardens–to celebrate not only the joy of the season but the wonder of nature in this idyllic setting. Drive your car or ride the Jolly Trolley to experience scenes like March of the Toy Soldiers and Snowflake Valley. At Robin Lake Beach, enjoy ‘Twas the Night Before Christmas’ and ‘The Nativity’, light and sound shows enticing passers-by to stop, reflect and enjoy. www.callawaygardens.com.

24th Annual Christmas Made in the South

As Christmas time approaches what better way to get ready for the holiday season than to stroll the aisles for treasures at this year’s award winning 24th annual Christmas Made in the South, October 31-November 2, at the Columbus 31

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Holiday Open House at The Columbus Museum

Dress up the kiddies and grandkiddies in their festive finest for a day filled with family fun! Kick-off the holiday season at the Museum! Enjoy punch and cookies and art activities throughout the day, December 13, 10:00am2:00pm. www.columbusmuseum.com

Impact Christmas Bazaar

December 6, will be a day filled with food, fun, music, and shopping! Admission is $2.00 Per Person, Children 10yrs and under free. The first 50 guests gets a free gift! The Impact Center, 1600 Blanchard Blvd, Columbus.

MCoD Band Holiday Concert

Fort Benning’s Manuever Center of Excellence Band Holiday Concert is a local favorite for active duty and retired military. December 7. Free tickets distributed only in the RiverCenter Box Office, www.rivercenter.org www.facebook.com/auburnopelika.parents

Port Columbus’ Victorian Christmas

Date TBA. Our Civil War-era Santa will be on hand for visits and story telling. There will also be Victorian-era entertainment and music. At the conclusion of the day, Santa will fire the original Civil War cannon from the CSS Jackson! The museum is decorated throughout with circa 1863 decorations and trees. Admission to the museum is FREE during the open house. www.portcolumbus.org

‘Santa’s Christmas Tree’ presented by Columbus State University Theatre

December 6, 10:00am. Santa’s mischievous elves forgot to get Santa’s own Christmas tree! So, Santa sends them out to find the “most beautiful one of all.” Meanwhile, all the trees on Snowy Mountain dream of being chosen as Santa’s Christmas tree and living ever after in his forest. The funny and macho Mr. Douglas, the elegant and vain Lady Spruce, and the sophisticated Sir Noble all believe they are the perfect choice. And Miss Merry, the scraggly little pine, has to agree. But when the wild Blizzard Wizard arrives to cause chaos in the forest, Miss Merry finds a way to come to the rescue! 706-507-8444.

Reindeer Run

Ho Ho Ho… Go! It’s the Annual Children’s Miracle Network Annual Reindeer Run! All kids from Pre-k to the 8th grade are encouraged to run. Event scheduled for December 13, in downtown Columbus. www.bigdogrunning.com

Rivertown Christmas with Allen Levi and Friends

Fun and lighthearted, but also deeply and profoundly meaningful. Distinct references to our community and humorous anecdotes will blend seamlessly with the powerful story of Christmas to create a unique and inspiring celebration of Christmas in Columbus and the Chattahoochee Valley. December 20, 7:00pm. www.rivercenter. org

‘The Art of Christmas’

Presented by the Columbus Symphony Orchestra. December 5, 7:30pm. www.rivercenter.org

The Ludy’s Christmas Light Spectacular Drive into a light display set to music like none other within the Cottonwood Subdivision, 5784 Ironstone Drive, Columbus. www.lundychristmas.com

Alexander City / Lake Martin An Eclectic Christmas

A unique way to experience Christ this Season! It was the night that saved the world. Sent away because there was not room in the inn, Christmas was born in a stable. Come join us, December 4-7, to experience the true story of the first Christmas. In the atmosphere of an outdoor walking trail, you and your guests will be part of live drama that is set during the Roman Empire. As you walk through the streets on your way to Bethlehem, you will visit the field where shepherds received the angel’s message and news of the Messiah. Then visit the wise men Auburn Opelika Parents I November 2014

as they journey in search of the New Born King. This event will take place at 1733 Claud Road Eclectic, Alabama, just south of Eclectic on AL Highway 63. Reservations are suggested and may be made by calling 256.794.7789. Admission is free.

Annual Hometown Christmas Parade

One of East Alabama’s largest parades featuring elaborate floats, dancing groups, marching bands, horse-riding clubs and Santa Claus highlight. December 1, 6:00pm. Downtown Alexander City.

Children’s Harbor Christmas Market

Over 40 vendors from all over the state sell their unique items. Great time to pick up that special Christmas Gift. 20% of vendor sales go to benefit Children’s Harbor. The Children’s Harbor Lodge, December 6, 8:00am-1:00pm. www.childrensharbor.com

Christmas at Crossroads

Christmas at Crossroads, November 28-30, is a great way to get out with the family and friends, do some shopping, take a carriage ride, check off items on your Christmas list and let the kids visit with Santa. Our Naturalist, Marianne typically has a presentation that will interest everyone. Stop by for a visit and bring the kids! Russell Crossroads at Russell Farms Road, www.russelllandsonlakemartin.com

Santa & Mrs. Claus and Tree Lighting

The Alexander City Chamber of Commerce is bringing Santa and Mrs. Claus to downtown Alexander City, November 30, 1:00-4:00pm. Bring the kids and your camera to make your own pictures on Santa’s lap as they let him know what they’d like to find under the tree Christmas morning. 256-329-3461.

Montgomery/Selma 9th Annual Interfaith Christmas Nativity Exhibit

Help your family keep the true meaning of Christmas in your heart from the start by attending this Community Celebration of the Birth of Jesus Christ. This spectacular event features nativities from around the world and special music by local performers. This magnificent display is sure to warm the hearts of young and old alike. December 3-7, 1:00-8:00pm . 3460 Carter Hill Road, Montgomery. Open to all. FREE Admission. Sponsored by the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. www.MontgomeryNativity.com

23rd Annual Christmas Light Festival at Montgomery Zoo

Thousands of Holiday Lights illuminate The Montgomery Zoo in shapes of animals and Christmas themes. See the Zoo transformed into a Winter Wonderland sparkling with thousands of festive lights and decorations. Stroll the many pathways or enjoy a brisk ride on the Santaland Express train ride. Visit with Santa nightly, enjoy live entertainment, food, gifts and more. December 4-7, 11-14, 18-31; 5:309:30pm each night. (334) 240-4900; www.montgomeryzoo.com 32

Alabama Shakespeare Festival presents “A Christmas Carol”

ASF revives this family classic, November 23-December 24! The snowy London streets ring with carols that set the stage for Dickens’ magical tale of hope and redemption. Join us as the ghosts of the past, present and future reawaken Scrooge’s conscience. Visit www.asf.net for more information.

Capitol of Dreams Christmas Parade

December 7, 6:00pm. Depart from Cramton Bowl and Parade downtown from Capitol Steps to the Court Street Fountain.

Cruising with Santa

Cruise the Alabama River with Santa on the Harriott II Riverboat, Downtown Riverwalk. December 5-6, 12-13 & 19-20. (334) 625-2100.

F. Scott and Zelda Fitzgerald Museum Christmas Open House

Come join us, December 1-31, as we celebrate Christmas with our Christmas Open House. www.fitzgeraldmuseum.net.

Governor’s Mansion Candlelight Open House

The 1907 Governor’s Mansion will be aglow with lights and filled with the spirit of the season. December 1, 8, & 15. 5:30-7:30pm. 1142 South Perry Street, Montgomery.

Holiday Festival

A community celebration of the holiday season. A two week long craft show and bake sale with Santa in attendance some afternoons. 10:00am5:00pm.. www.SelmaAlabama.com

‘It’s a Wonderful Life’ presented by Cloverdale Playhouse

This beloved American holiday classic comes to captivating life as a live 1940s radio broadcast. With the help of an ensemble that brings a few dozen characters to the stage, the story of idealistic George Bailey unfolds as he considers ending his life one fateful Christmas Eve. December 11-21. www.cloverdaleplayhouse.org

Jingle Bell Run/Walk for Arthritis

December 6. 5k Run or Walk to benefit the Arthritis Foundation Also 1 mile fun run (chasing an Elf) for under 8’s and 1 mile walk for those of us who want to support the Arthritis Foundation. www.jbrmontgomery.kintera.org

Old Alabama Town Holiday Open House

Join Old Alabama Town in December to celebrate the holiday season. Our house museums will be authentically decorated for the holidays. December 1-31. www.oldalabamatown.com.

Millbrook / Wetumpka Christmas at the Alabama Nature Center

December 20-21. For the regular price of admission, ANC guests can visit with Santa, hike over 5 miles of trails, make a Christmas craft and enjoy a snack around a roaring fire. 1-800-8229453. www.auburnopelikaparents.com

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The Christmas Fair showcases fine art, handmade jewelry, pottery, quilts and crafts of all kinds made by local artisans. This event is six weekends and ends on Sunday before Christmas, November 8-December 21. www. arrac.org

Christmas on the Coosa

A Christmas extravaganza with arts and crafts, parade, food, quilt show, classic car show, entertainment and activities on the Coosa River culminating with Santa ski-in and a spectacular fireworks exhibition at dusk. December 13, Gold Star Park & the Courthouse Veranda, Wetumpka. www.wetumpkachamber.com.

City of Millbrook Christmas Parade and Festival Join in the spirit of Christmas and celebrate the holiday season during the annual Christmas parade and Arts and Crafts in the park. Village Park will be filled with arts and craft vendors and concessions from local schools, December 1, 9:00am-4:00pm. The parade starts at 2 pm. www.cityofmillbrook.org

Wetumpka Tree Lighting & Progressive Nativity and Luminaria Lighting of the Tree will be December 5, 6:00pm. Downtown Wetumpka and Gold Star Park. Luminary Night and Downtown Open House, December 2, 6:00pm. www.cityofwetumpka.com

Calera The Heart of Dixie Railroad Museum’s North Pole Express

All aboard! Next stop - the North Pole! “All Aboard” says the conductor, as your train ride begins. Families are sure to enjoy their trip to the North Pole, complete with a reading of The Polar Express™ and chocolate milk and cookies served on board the train. Upon arrival at the North Pole, Santa and Mrs. Claus visit everyone on the train and each child will receive the “First Gift of Christmas”, just like in the story. Sing Christmas carols as you return to the depot. Wear your pajamas! The excursion will last approximately one hour. First class service to the North Pole! The Silver Maple and Kayenta railcars will offer first class service - hot chocolate in a souvenir mug, special dessert treat, premium gift and specialized service. Wear your pajamas! November 22-23, 28-30, December 5-7,12-14, & 19-20. For tickets, www.hodrrm.org.

Santa Claus Special at The Heart of Dixie Railroad Museum Santa rides the train with you! Tell him what you would like for Christmas as he poses for photos. Each child will receive a Christmas gift! November 29, December 6, 13 & 20. For tickets, please visit www.hodrrm.org. AOP

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Most of us recall our school Why? Profile of a Bully days with a mixture of nostalgia and hazy memories. It was a long time ago. We knew bullies and probably had some run-ins with them over the years. In every era there are those children, both boys and girls, who engage in bullying behaviors.

What is Bullying?

What exactly is bullying? The current definition of bullying is “the use of force or coercion to abuse, intimidate or dominate others.” It may be habitual behavior to instill fear and may present as verbal harassment and threats, or physical assaults. Bullying can come in many forms: teasing, name calling, stealing property, and forcing unwanted acts. It is designed to instill fear and anxiety. Some bullies try to justify their behavior based on the sex, race, class, abilities or appearance of their victims. When bullying is done by groups it is known as “mobbing.”

It’s hard to understand why children want to hurt others for no apparent reason. Most experts agree that bullies are children who want and need attention. They want to raise their own status by feeling powerful. They often are abused or neglected children who haven’t learned to care about others’ feelings. They are predatory by nature and select as victims those they perceive as weaker than themselves. They lack a set of values to guide their choices and rarely accept responsibility for their behaviors. Their behavior can be compulsive and repeated over time. Bullies usually have low self-esteem, insecurities and fear exposure of their weaknesses. They are driven by bitterness, hatred, anger and prejudice which they vent on their victims.

Warning Signs

If you suspect that your child is being bullied on the way to school, in school or at other times, here are behaviors to look for: • School avoidance behaviors such as morning stomach aches, headaches, asking to stay home

• Trouble sleeping • Loss of appetite • Anxiety in normal life situations • Unexplained fears • Changes in grades In today’s technological world there are ample opportunities for bullies to act out in the relative anonymity of their computers and phones. They can threaten, expose and tease all the while hiding their identity.

What Can You Do?

Parents are often astounded at the intensity of bullying behavior their children tolerate every day. Once a bullying situation is exposed, the offender often changes tactics. He or she stops bullying that particular person for fear of retribution, embarrassment or consequences. But without help, the offender will most likely bully again. Parents walk a fine line when helping their children to deal with bullying behaviors. If they step in and solve the problem for their child, the child remains vulnerable. If they refrain from acting, they risk their child’s harm, both emotional and physical.

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There are common sense ways to combat bullying: Proactive Teaching: Many schools have anti-bullying campaigns in place. Most often classroom teachers or school counselors teach the lessons. But change in behavior takes time. Most bullies need one on one help to change and meanwhile the victims must find ways to stay safe. Parents can do some proactive teaching as well. Talk to your children about staying safe and standing up to bullies. Help them build strategies to stand up for themselves while never resorting to fights which could get them into trouble. Avoidance Techniques: One logical way to stop bullying is to stay away from the bully. If at all possible, change the route taken to school or walk a different hallway to get to the next class. Bullies tend to take advantage of an opportunity. If the opportunity is taken away they have no victim. Standing Firm: Children need to be proud of themselves and learn to be brave in the face of trouble. For those children who seem frail or unsure, it’s a good idea to enroll them in classes or join sports programs--get involved in activities that build confidence.

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The Best Balance of Toys and Fun

Recommending the Best Toys and Products for Kids

Balance affects everything. From the moment babies learn to raise and balance their bobble heads to the day the training wheels come off their first bike, children are living a balancing act as they grow. Balance is important, too. As fine motor skills evolve children learn to balance food on their plate as they walk (in theory). And as their gross coordination improves they flock to the balance beam at the park, and straddle see-saws like pros. The following toys and games take balancing talents to the max with challenges great and small that put their balance skills to the fun test!

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Just as balance demands a meeting of mind and muscle, the Wobble Deck draws from both brain and body as players balance the electronic deck to win. Featuring numbered and colored edges (each associated with musical cues) the Wobble Deck calls out colors, number and sounds. Players are then challenged to shift their weight as directed causing the designated parts of the deck to touch the ground. It’s a bit like Simon Says, using your whole body. It can be played standing or sitting and there are progressive levels of play as kids improve their balance and response time. Ideal for honing reflexes and responses, the Wobble Deck is the balance game that kids can’t put down.

Taking balance to the edge, Suspend is a game that builds suspense with outcomes that change every time it’s played! Melissa & Doug’s trademark simplicity disguises a game with real addictive complexity. Using only one hand, players take turns balancing notched rubber-tipped wires of varying lengths on a tabletop stand, creating a precariously growing sculpture. Hand-eye coordination and strategy come into play as each player tries to get rid of his rods first. Knock another rod off as you add yours to the balance… and it gets added to your pile. Striking the perfect balance between strategic thinking and steady hands, Suspend is best for ages eight and up!

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Little hands learn the meaning of ‘steady on’ as they navigate balance benchmarks playing the Super Moose Antler Stacking Game. With a collection of colorful antler points and a moose head base, the challenge is to add to the rack without causing an antler avalanche. Supporting concentration, strategy and patience, this game helps kids cultivate a sense of object balance as they build a spreading and glorious rack that any moose would be proud of. Coupled with the sturdy crafting and safe paint finishes Hape is known for, this simple and engaging game is the perfect addition to balance out the toy box.

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Family Calendar Ongoing:

A2Z Local Homeschooler’s Association For homeschooling families in the Auburn/Opelika Lee County area of Alabama. A2Z Loop is an all-inclusive support group open to all homeschool families in the Auburn/Opelika area regardless of differences in beliefs, cultures, nationality, race, religion, or method of home schooling. For more information call 334-7281162 or email: momofpnk@gmail.com. Alabama Mentor’s Foster Parent Training Classes Offered in the Opelika Auburn area. Call 334-705-8877 x 18 to register or email: Deanna.Hand@thementornetwork.com. Alabama Shakespeare Festival Alabama Shakespeare Festival, Montgomery. www.asf.net. Auburn University Theatre • “Nunsense”, Oct. 23 – Nov. 2. • “Vinegar Tom”, Nov. 13 – Nov. 21. Presented by Auburn University Theatre Dept. Telfair B. Peet Theatre. www.auburn.edu/theatre. Bosom Buddies (a breast cancer support group) Meets at The Health Resource Center the first Thursday of the month at 6 p.m. (334) 528-1260. www.eamc.org. Chick-fil-A Family Night at Tigertown Every Thursday night. Christmas Faire Nov. 8 - Dec. 21. The Arts Center, Wetumpka. www.arrac.org. Cloverdale Playhouse “Crimes of the Heart”. Montgomery. Oct. 23 - Nov. 2. www. cloverdaleplayhouse.org. Coastal Christmas Nov. 27 – January 1, 2015. Baldwin County, AL. www.alabamacoastalchristmas.com. DeSoto Caverns Park Christmas Sound, Light, and Water Show. Nov. 1 - Dec. 31. DeSoto Caverns Park, Childersburg. www.desotocavernspark.com. Discovery Hikes Explore the preserve and learn something new each month about plants, wildlife and nature with a trained naturalist who will offer your family fun opportunities for hands-on learning, exploration, and exercise! Discovery Hikes are offered the second Tuesday of each month from 3:30 – 4:30 p.m. For families with children ages 5 to 12. Free admission. Donations welcomed. Cancelled in the event of rain. Forest Ecology Preserve & Nature Center is located at 2222 N. College Street, Auburn, and is just north of the AU Fisheries complex. East Alabama Birth Village 3rd Monday of each month. Monarch Estates, Auburn. 6 p.m. www.birthvillageclass.com Expressions of a BraveHeart Program A fine arts program for teens and young adults with special needs (ages 11–21), sponsored by Opelika Parks and Recreation, utilizing Auburn University faculty and students, as well as community volunteers. Two 30-minute sessions of art, dance/creative movement and music will be offered and participants will select 2 of the 3 classes. Expressions meets every 2nd and 4th Monday twice a month for 1.5 hours. Opelika Sportsplex, 334.705.5560. www.opelikasportsplex.com. Family Theatre presents “The Curious Savage” Oct. 17 - Nov. 1. www.familytheatre.org. Fox Theatre “The Phantom of the Opera”. Oct. 22 - Nov. 11, Fox Theatre, Atl. www.foxtheatre.org. Jan Dempsey Community Arts Center Art Gallery Fall Exhibition: Photo XVI Juried Exhibition. Through Nov 21. Jan Dempsey Community Arts Center. Auburn. www.auburnalabama.org/parks. Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art • Rembrandt, Rubens, Gainsborough, and the Golden Age of Painting in Europe. Oct. 19 - Jan. 4, 2015. Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Lee County Parents of Chinese Children helps children understand, see and grow up with other families that look like their family (white parents/Asian child). The group is 100% free! We try to eat out at Asian establishments monthly and have playdates. Families that are waiting to adopt are welcome! We accept any families with adopted children from all Asian countries. Contact Melody at mmhilyer@bellsouth.net for more information.

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McWane Science Center • “Island of the Lemurs Madagascar” IMAX. Through January 2015. Birmingham. www.mcwane.org. Meditation Garden and Labyrinth Come and Find the Quiet Center... in the Meditation Garden and Labyrinth, provided as a community service by Village Christian Church, 700 East University Drive, (across from Auburn Early Ed.). 334-887-5111. Try the practice of walking meditation or simply sit and enjoy the sights and sounds. The garden and labyrinth are always open and guests are always welcome. National Peanut Festival 71st Annual National Peanut Festival. National Peanut Festival Fairgrounds, Dothan. Oct. 31 - Nov. 9. www.nationalpeanutfestival.com Newnan Theatre Company • “The Rocky Horror Show.” Oct. 23 - Nov. 2. Newnan Theatre Company, GA. www.newnantheatre.org. Old Alabama Town Harvest Time & Tavern Fest at Old Alabama Town. Oct. 1 - 31. www.oldalabamatown.com. Opelika-Auburn Newcomers Club A club for new women in town which offers fun social activities, meets for lunch on the 3rd Thursday of every month. Call Joan at 501-4974. Scarecrows in the Park Opp. Oct. 1 - Nov. 9. www.alapark.com/FrankJackson/. Springer Opera House “Della’s Diner”. Nov. 13 - 22. Springer Opera House, Columbus. www. springeroperahouse.org. Veteran’s Appreciation Week at The Montgomery Zoo November 9 - 15, all veterans, active duty military and their immediate family members receive a 50% discount on regular daytime admission to the Montgomery Zoo and Mann Wildlife Learning Museum. www.montgomeryzoo.com. Virginia Samford Theatre Virginia Samford Theatre, Birmingham. www.virginiasamfordtheatre.org.

Parents Support & Moms Groups

Auburn Mommies, a fun group of moms in the Auburn/Opelika area that meet weekly for playgroups and Mommy and Me walking twice a week. We also have a Mommies Night Out once a month. Http:// groups.yahoo.com/group/auburnmommiesinalabama/. Auburn Mommy and Me Big Dog Running Co, Auburn. 10–11 a.m. Social time, story time, music/movement, arts & crafts. Ages 9 months–3 years. Free! 334-209-2580. Auburn MOPS 1st Wednesday of each month, September-May. 9–11:30 a.m. Trinity United Methodist Church, Opelika. Meetings open to moms with preschool children ages 5 years and under. $5 per meeting; childcare $5 per child. $25 yearly membership dues. Weekly playdates, monthly moms night out, resources, and more. www.facebook.com/ AuburnOpelikaMOPS; AUMOPS@yahoo.com. Breast Feeding class meets the second Saturday of each month from 10 a.m. to noon on EAMC’s third floor. Call 528-1260 to register. La Leche League, a support group for nursing moms, meets the 2nd Monday of each month at 6:30 p.m. @ CORNERSTONE Family Chiropractic, Airport Plaza, 323 Airport Road Suite E, Auburn. For more information call Josie at 257-3950. Main Street Farmer’s Market June 14-October 25. Broad Street, Alexander City. 256-329-9227. MOMS Club of Auburn, a group of stay-at-home moms that meets about twice a week to provide support for each other and fun interaction for kids. New website is www.auburnmoms.com. Moms In Touch. Do you worry about your children? Come experience how you can replace your anxiety and fear with peace and hope by praying with other moms. Moms In Touch International gathers moms together for one hour, once a week, to pray specifically

and scripturally for our children and school. Won’t you join with us in prayer for this next generation? Please contact Julia Farrow at julia@cornerstonebuzz. org for information about our local groups. For more information about Moms In Touch International, visit www.MomsInTouch.org. Parent Educational Workshop - Autism 2nd Tuesday of each month, 6:00-7:30 p.m. at Trinity United Methodist Church, 800 2nd Avenue, Opelika. Parent Support Group - Autism 1st Monday (unless national holiday), 9:00-11:00 a.m. Location varies so check www.leecountyautism.com for complete information. Single Moms Outreach of East Alabama Single Moms Outreach of East Alabama offers 2nd Saturdays, group classes, and more. Contact Penny Messer at 334-444-6827. Email smoea@bellsouth.net. Website www.smoea.vpweb.com or find us on facebook. Teen Moms (for moms under 20) is a ministry that connects trained adults with pregnant girls and teenage moms. Support meetings, classes, job preparation, devotions and games. Call Laura Fuller at laura@insideyfc.com or 334-501-5637. www.insideyfc.com.

Mom’s Morning Out

Auburn United Methodist Church, Children’s Day Out Program, every Monday-Thursday from 9 a.m.–12 noon. $10 per child for the entire morning, $2 each additional child. Attendance will be on a first come-first served basis. Contact Barbara Dawsey at 826-8800 for more information. Trinity United Methodist Church (Opelika) Wednesdays and Fridays from 8:45–12. $15 per child, $5 each additional.

Support Groups

Caregiver Support Group Caring for a family member or friends can be rewarding, but it’s not easy. Whether you are the caregiver for your parents, spouse or a dependent child, this group is for you! Learn ways to cope with every day stresses of caring for someone you love. Gain tools and resources to help you on your journey. This program is supported by the Opelika Sportsplex, Lee-Russell Agency on Aging and HomeInstead Senior Care. This group is open to the public. Meets the last Monday of each month at 12:30 p.m. at Opelika Sportsplex AAC. Instructors are: Valeri White (Sportsplex), Bridgette Sager (Home Instead Senior Care), Lisa Askew (Lee-Russell Council of Gov). Food Allergy Support of East Alabama The Food Allergy Support of East Alabama group offers support through the sharing of information and resources. We are also working to increase awareness of food allergies in the state of Alabama. For more information, visit our website at www. foodallergysupporteastal.org or call Barbara at 334-8263082; bkg2007@bellsouth.net. GRACE - Post-Abortive Support Group Are you struggling with feelings of regret or sadness from having a pregnancy termination in your past? Do you feel like you can’t share these struggles with anyone? Would you like to find healing and forgiveness? You are not alone. Women’s Hope Medical Clinic wants to help you! You are invited to take part in our GRACE abortion recovery group. This confidential group gives you the opportunity to process the grief of your termination in a safe and non-judgmental setting. If you would like more information about the times, dates and location for this group, call or e-mail Sherry at Women’s Hope: 334.502.7000 or sherry@womenshope.org Don’t let the regret of the past rob you of the joy in the future. Call us today. We are here to help.

Sports

Auburn University Basketball Nov. 7, 14, 21, Dec. 5. Auburn University Women’s Basketball Nov. 14, 17, 20, Dec. 2, 4. Auburn University Equestrian Nov. 7

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Saturday, October 25

12 Hour Night National Race Chewacla State Park, Auburn. www.chainbusterracing. com. 2014 Magic City Classic Legion Field. www.themagiccityclassic.com. 3rd Annual Montevallo Art Stalk Main Street, Montevallo. www.montevallowarwalk.com. Owl-O-Ween Oak Mountain State Park, Pelham. Harvest Market Downtown Eufaula. www.eufaulachamber.com. Peanut Butter Festival Downtown Brundidge. www.brundidgealabama.com. Tecumseh at Tuckabatchee Horseshow Bend, Tallassee. Fall Family Festival Russell Crossroads, Alexander City. www.russelllandsonlakemartin.com. MainStreet Great Pumpkin Roll Strand Park, Alexander City. www.mainstreetac.org. Weogufka Old Farm “N” Bluegrass Day www.weogufkacenter.com. Zoo Boo 2014 The Montgomery Zoo. www.montgomeryzoo.com. 33rd Annual Spinners Pumpkin Patch Arts & Craft Show Spinners Park, Prattville. www.spinnersprattville.com. Spooky 5K Fort Rucker, Al. www.ftruckermwr.com. Wiregrass Heritage Festival Landmark Park, Dothan. www.landmarkpark.com. Haunting on the Harriott II Riverwalk, Montgomery. (334) 625-2100. Fall Family Fun Days The Not-So-Scary Halloween Festival The Rock Ranch, Ga. www.therockranch.com. Pumpkin Patch Express Heart of Dixie Railroad Museum, Calera. www.hodrrm.org Country Living Festival Stone Mountain Park, Ga. www.stonemountainpark.com. Opp Fest 2014 Downtown Opp. www.cityofopp.com. 2nd Annual Haunted Auburn Downtown Walking Tour Meet at Toomer’s Corner, Auburn. 7 p.m. or 9 p.m. Young Eagles Day–FREE Airplane Rides for Kids! Columbus Airport. Ages 8-17. 8:30-11:30 a.m. (weather permitting). 706-324-2453. Trick or Treat at The Children’s Museum of Atlanta www.childrensmuseumofatlanta.org AHS Theatre presents “James and the Giant Peach” Auburn High School Theatre.

Sunday, October 26

Zoo Boo 2014 The Montgomery Zoo. www.montgomeryzoo.com. 33rd Annual Spinners Pumpkin Patch Arts & Craft Show Spinners Park, Prattville. www.spinnersprattville.com. Susan Boyle Atlanta Symphony, Ga. www.ticketmaster.com.

October/November 2014

Pumpkin Patch Express Heart of Dixie Railroad Museum, Calera. www.hodrrm.org Country Living Festival Stone Mountain Park, Ga. www.stonemountainpark. com. 2nd Annual Haunted Auburn Downtown Walking Tour Meet at Toomer’s Corner, Auburn. 7 p.m. or 9 p.m. 444-1422. 33rd Annual Spinners Pumpkin Patch Arts & Craft Show Spinners Park, Prattville. www.spinnersprattville.com. Country Living Festival Stone Mountain Park, Ga. www.stonemountainpark. com. AHS Theatre presents “James and the Giant Peach” Auburn High School Theatre.

Monday, October 27

Fore the Children Golf Tournament Willow Point Golf Course, Alexander City. Chad Prewett; cgp0011@auburn.edu / 334-844-9760. 2nd Annual Haunted Auburn Downtown Walking Tour Meet at Toomer’s Corner, Auburn. 7 p.m. or 9 p.m. 444-1422.

Tuesday, October 28

Forest Friends AU Forest Ecology Preserve, Auburn. 9:30 a.m. www.auburn.edu/preserve. Fall Festival Children’s Carnival Opelika SportsPlex. 5:30-8:30 p.m. 705-5560. Halloween Treat Bags Covington Rec. Opelika. Ages 4-12, $15, 3:30 p.m. 705-5560. 2nd Annual Haunted Auburn Downtown Walking Tour Meet at Toomer’s Corner, Auburn. 7 p.m. or 9 p.m. 444-1422.

Wednesday, October 29

A Little Art Talk Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 12 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Zoo Boo 2014 The Montgomery Zoo. www.montgomeryzoo.com. Disney On Ice: “Treasure Trove” BJCC, Birmingham. www.bjcc.org. ZZ Top Montgomery Performing Arts Centre. Montgomery. www.ticketmaster.com. 2nd Annual Haunted Auburn Downtown Walking Tour Meet at Toomer’s Corner, Auburn. 7 p.m. or 9 p.m. 444-1422.

Thursday, October 30

Wings of Freedom Tour Auburn University Regional Airport. www.facebook. com/auburnopelikaairshow. Fall Outdoor Movie Series hosted by Auburn Parks and Rec. Wallace Center Lawn, S. Donahue Dr. Auburn. 7:30 p.m. www.auburnalabama.org/parks. A Little Lunch Music Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 12 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Live Jazz Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 6 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Talk: Christopher Staley, ceramic artist Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 5 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Zoo Boo 2014 The Montgomery Zoo. www.montgomeryzoo.com.

Indian Festival and Pow-Wow Stone Mountain Park, Ga. www.stonemountainpark.com. Disney On Ice: “Treasure Trove” BJCC, Birmingham. www.bjcc.org. 2nd Annual Haunted Auburn Downtown Walking Tour Meet at Toomer’s Corner, Auburn. 7 p.m. or 9 p.m. 444-1422. All Saint’s Fair, Lakeview Baptist Church, Auburn. Fall festival fun for the family. No scary costumes, please. 5:30-7:30 p.m.

Friday, October 31

Reception: 2014 Alabama and Neighbors Ceramics Exhibition Pre-sale (Ticketed event) Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 5 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Forest Friends AU Forest Ecology Preserve, Auburn. 9:30 a.m. www.auburn.edu/preserve. Zoo Boo 2014 The Montgomery Zoo. www.montgomeryzoo.com. Scott’s Halloween Bash Scott and Zelda Fitzgerald Museum, Montgomery. 6-9 p.m. www.fitzgeraldmusem.net. A-Scary-Um Georgia Aquarium. The Aquarium will be decked out with Halloween decorations and music. Enjoy Trick-orTreat stations in each gallery, Halloween-themed crafts, spooky story-telling, and photo stations! And to make this event even more exciting. Kids 12 and under in costume will receive FREE general admission with each paid adult (up to 2 free kids per paying adult). Howl-O-Ween Downtown Opelika. 5 p.m. www.facebook.com/ HowlOWeenDogCostumeContest. Disney On Ice: “Treasure Trove” BJCC, Birmingham. www.bjcc.org. The City of Auburn’s Downtown Trick-or-Treat 6-8 p.m. 705-5560. Indian Festival and Pow-Wow Stone Mountain Park, Ga. www.stonemountainpark.com. Downtown Auburn Trick or Treating www.auburnalabama.org/parks. Wings of Freedom Tour Auburn University Regional Airport. www.facebook. com/auburnopelikaairshow.

Saturday, November 1

Alabama Pecan Festival Mobile. www.alabamapecanfestival.com. 30th Annual Frank Brown Songwriters Festival www.fbisf.com. Moss Rock Festival Hoover, Al. 205-595-6306. Kenan’s Mill Festival Selma. www.kenansmill.com. Old Cahawba Cemetery Walking Tour Orville. Pike Road Arts and Crafts Fair Pike Road. www.pikeroadartsandcraftsfair.com A-Scary-Um Georgia Aquarium. The Aquarium will be decked out with Halloween decorations and music. Enjoy Trick-orTreat stations in each gallery, Halloween-themed crafts, spooky story-telling, and photo stations! And to make this event even more exciting. Kids 12 and under in costume will receive FREE general admission with each paid adult (up to 2 free kids per paying adult). The Steeplechase at Callaway Gardens www.callawaygardens.com. Astronomy Night Kiesel Park, Auburn. Admission $4 for Forest Preserve members; $5 non-members. 6 p.m. 707-6512. The Live & Laff Comedy Fest Columbus Civic Center. www.columbusciviccenter.org. 2014 Alabama and Neighbors Ceramics Exhibition and Sale www.jcsum.auburn.edu.

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Family Calendar Indian Festival and Pow-Wow Stone Mountain Park, Ga. www.stonemountainpark. com. Fall Family Fun Days ‘Pumpkin Destruction Day’ The Rock Ranch, Ga. www.therockranch.com. 2nd Annual Break for Autism Auburn Mixed Martial Arts. 12-2 p.m. www.auburnmma.com. Disney On Ice: Treasure Trove BJCC, Birmingham. www.bjcc.org. Home Depot Kids’ Workshop ‘How to Build a Pallet Coaster’ 9 a.m. - 12 p.m. www.workshops.homedepot.com. Astronomy Night at CCSSC www.ccssc.org. Market Days on Broadway Columbus. www.uptowncolumbusga.com. “Mistletoe” Alabama Shakespeare Festival. www.asf.net. “Dracula” Alabama Shakespeare Festival. www.asf.net. Chastain Park Arts Festival 2014 Atl. www.chastainparkfestival.com. Wings of Freedom Tour Auburn University Regional Airport. www.facebook. com/auburnopelikaairshow.

Sunday, November 2

Daylight Savings Time Ends Set your clocks back 1 hour. Moss Rock Festival Hoover, Al. 205-595-6306. Indian Festival and Pow-Wow Stone Mountain Park, Ga. www.stonemountainpark. com. Chastain Park Arts Festival 2014 Atl. www.chastainparkfestival.com. Lineville Merchants Association Heritage Day Festival www.linevillemerchantsassociation.com. 2014 Alabama and Neighbors Ceramics Exhibition and Sale www.jcsum.auburn.edu. “Dracula” Alabama Shakespeare Festival. www.asf.net. Disney On Ice presents “Treasure Trove” BJCC. www.ticketmaster.com.

Tuesday, November 4

A Little Art Talk Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 12 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Opera Workshop Performance Goodwin Recital Hall, AU Campus. 7:30 p.m. www.auburn.edu/music.

Wednesday, November 5

Alabama Frontier Days Fort Toulouse/Fort Jackson, Wetumpka. A Little Lunch Music Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 12 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Percussion Ensemble Concert Goodwin Recital Hall, AU Campus. 7:30 p.m. www.auburn.edu/music.

Thursday, November

Christmas Village Festival Arts, Crafts & Gifts Show BJCC, Birmingham. www.christmasvillagefestival.com. Alabama Frontier Days Fort Toulouse/Fort Jackson, Wetumpka. Live Jazz Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 6 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Founders Day at Callaway Gardens www.callawaygardens.com.

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Opera Workshop Performance Goodwin Recital Hall, AU Campus. 7:30 p.m. www.auburn.edu/music.

Friday, November 7

Christmas Village Festival Arts, Crafts & Gifts Show BJCC, Birmingham. www.christmasvillagefestival.com Alabama Frontier Days Fort Toulouse/Fort Jackson, Wetumpka. Charis Crafters Craft Show Wetumpka Civic Center. www.arrac.org. First Fridays ‘Shop Late, Eat Local’ Downtown Opelika. Until 8 p.m. www.opelikamainstreet.org. Football, Fans and Feathers Edgar B. Carter Amphitheater, Auburn. 4 p.m. www.auburn.edu/raptor. Jordan-Hare Stadium Locker Room Tours 4-6 p.m. Free. www.auburntigers.com. First Fridays ‘Satin Soul’ Event Center Downtown, Opelika. 7 p.m. www.eventcenterdowntown.com. Rangers in Action Demonstration Ft. Benning. Schwob School of Music www.rivercenter.org.

Saturday, November 8

Christmas Village Festival Arts, Crafts & Gifts Show BJCC, Birmingham. www.christmasvillagefestival.com Alabama Designer Craftsmen Fall Show at the Birmingham Botanical Gardens www.alabamadesignercraftsmen.com. NAC Annual Christmas Arts & Crafts Show Gardendale Civic Center. www.northartscouncil.webs. com. Schwob School of Music www.rivercenter.org. Alabama Frontier Days Fort Toulouse/Fort Jackson, Wetumpka. Charis Crafters Craft Show Wetumpka Civic Center. www.arrac.org. Pioneer Days Rikard’s Mill Historical Park, Beatrice. www.monroecountymuseum.org. Second Saturday: Family Fun Day at the Columbus Museum Ga. www.columbusmuseum.com. Second Saturday, Lee County Historical Society Museum Loachapoka. www.leecountyhistoricalsociety.org. Veteran’s Day Parade, Columbus www.uptowncolumbusga.com. Market Days on Broadway Columbus. www.uptowncolumbusga.com. Craft Fair, St. Peters Church, LaGrange evitale@mail.com.

Sunday, November 9

Monday, November 10 Schwob School of Music www.rivercenter.org. Low Brass Ensembles Concert Goodwin Recital Hall, AU Campus. 7:30 p.m. www.auburn.edu/music.

Tuesday, November 11

Veteran’s Day Services Sportsplex, Alexander City. www.alexandercity.online. com. Salute to American Music and Our Veterans RiverCenter for the Performing Arts. 7 p.m. www.rivercenter.org. Veterans Day Program and Reception Ralph Brown Draughon Library Auditorium, Room 0016. 3 p.m. Free. www.auburn.edu/music.

Wednesday, November 12 “Sister Act” Opelika Center for the Performing Arts. www.eastalabamaarts.org. A Little Art Talk Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 12 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Sesame Street LIVE! Make a New Friend Montgomery Performing Arts Centre. www.ticketmaster. com. James Taylor BJCC. www.bjcc.org. Faculty Recital Goodwin Recital Hall, AU Campus. 7:30 p.m. www.auburn.edu/music.

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Friday, November 14

Pet Night at Fantasy In Lights Callaway Gardens. www.callawaygardens.com. Dr. Seuss’ “How the Grinch Stole Christmas” BJCC. www.bjcc.org. AACT presents “A Christmas Story” Jan Dempsey Community Arts Center. 334-332-2620. Schwob School of Music www.rivercenter.org.

Saturday, November 15 Dirt Dash Fun Run Birmingham. www.bbgardens.org. Fredonia Heritage Day Lanett. www.savefredoniaheritage.com. Fall Tablescape Workshop Hills & Dales Estate, LaGrange. 10 a.m. www.hillsanddales.org. Motorcycle Night at Fantasy In Lights Callaway Gardens. www.callawaygardens.com. Dr. Seuss’ “How the Grinch Stole Christmas” BJCC. www.bjcc.org. AACT presents “A Christmas Story” Jan Dempsey Community Arts Center. 334-332-2620. Exploring Nature Day at Oxbow Meadows www.oxbow.columbusstate.edu. Market Days on Broadway www.uptowncolumbusga.com. Schwob School of Music www.rivercenter.org.

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Annual Holiday Open House Alexander City. www.alexandercitychamber.com. Bicycle Night at Fantasy In Lights Callaway Gardens. www.callawaygardens.com. AACT presents “A Christmas Story” Jan Dempsey Community Arts Center. 334-332-2620. Schwob School of Music www.rivercenter.org. Rock and Roses 2014 HairBattle www.rivercenter.org. Fall Choral Concert Auburn United Methodist Church. 2:30 p.m. www.auburn.edu/music.

Monday, November 17 Schwob School of Music www.rivercenter.org. Dean’s Quintet and Trumpet Ensemble Concert Goodwin Recital Hall, AU Campus. 7:30 p.m. www.auburn.edu/music.

Tuesday, November 18 “Junie B. Jones” Rivercenter for the Performing Arts, Columbus. www.rivercenter.org.

Wednesday, November 19 A Little Art Talk Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 12 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Jazz Band and Ensemble Concert Goodwin Recital Hall, AU Campus. 7:30 p.m. www.auburn.edu/music.

October/November 2014

Thursday, November 20

A Little Lunch Music Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 12 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Live Jazz Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 6 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Moscow Ballet’s Great Russian Nutcracker Alabama Theatre. www.ticketmaster.com. AACT presents “A Christmas Story” Jan Dempsey Community Arts Center. 334-332-2620. Symphonic Winds and Opelika High School Band Opelika Performing Arts Center. 7:30 p.m. www.auburn.band.edu.

Friday, November 21

Goat Hill Gift Shop Holiday Open House www.facebook.com/pages/Goat-Hill-Museum-Store. Football, Fans and Feathers Edgar B. Carter Amphitheater, Auburn. 4 p.m. www.auburn.edu/raptor. Jordan-Hare Stadium Locker Room Tours 4-6 p.m. Free. www.auburntigers.com. AACT presents “A Christmas Story” Jan Dempsey Community Arts Center. 334-332-2620. Schwob School of Music www.rivercenter.org.

Saturday, November 22 Christmas Gala Wetumpka. www.rumblingwaterstudios.com. Main Street Thanksgiving Market Alexander City. 256-329-9227. Goat Hill Gift Shop Holiday Open House www.facebook.com/pages/Goat-Hill-Museum-Store. Art Extravaganza at Plank Road Station Talladega. www.facebook.com/PlankRoadStation

Turkey Trot 5K/10K Run Fort Rucker. AACT presents “A Christmas Story” Jan Dempsey Community Arts Center. 334-332-2620. Market Days on Broadway www.uptowncolumbusga.com.

Sunday, November 23

67th Annual Performance of Handel’s “Messiah” Riverchase United Methodist Church, B’ham. www.alabamacivicchorale.com. March of Dimes NightWalk at Fantasy In Lights Callaway Gardens. www.callawaygardens.com. AACT presents “A Christmas Story” Jan Dempsey Community Arts Center. 334-332-2620. “A Christmas Carol” Alabama Shakespeare Festival. www.asf.net. “Come Ye Thankful People Come” Concert of Praise and Thanksgiving First Presbyterian Church, LaGrange. 706-333-0627.

Monday, November 24 Schwob School of Music www.rivercenter.org.

Tuesday, November 25 Moscow Ballet’s Great Russian Nutcracker Montgomery Performing Arts Centre. www.ticketmaster.com. Schwob School of Music www.rivercenter.org.

Wednesday, November 26 “A Christmas Carol” Alabama Shakespeare Festival. www.asf.net.

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Thursday, November 27

44th Annual Thanksgiving Pow Wow Atmore. www.poarchcreekindians-nsn.gov. Ludy’s Christmas Lights Spectacular Opening Night www.lundychristmas.com.

Friday, November 28

Christmas At Crossroads Russell Crossroads at Russell Farms Road, Alexander City. www.russelllandsonlakemartin.com. Turkey Day Classic Alabama State University Hornets Stadium. www.bamastatesports.com. “A Christmas Carol” Alabama Shakespeare Festival. www.asf.net.

Saturday, November 29 Fendall Hall Christmas Open House Eufaula. Cirque Dreams: Holidaze RiverCenter of the Performing Arts, Columbus. www.rivercenter.org. Young Eagles Day–FREE Airplane Rides for Kids! Columbus Airport. Ages 8-17. 8:30-11:30 a.m. (weather permitting). 706-324-2453. RiverCenter presents Cirque Dreams Holidaze www.rivercenter.org. Market Days on Broadway www.uptowncolumbusga.com. “A Christmas Carol” Alabama Shakespeare Festival. www.asf.net. Home Depot Kids’ Workshop ‘How to Build a Give and Save Bank’ 9 a.m. - 12 p.m. www.workshops.homedepot.com.

Sunday, November 30 Welcome to Santa and Tree Lighting 1-4 p.m. Downtown Alexander City. www.alexandercitychamber.com. “A Christmas Carol” Alabama Shakespeare Festival. www.asf.net. Home Depot Kids’ Workshop ‘How to Build a Give and Save Bank’ 9 a.m. - 12 p.m. www.workshops.homedepot.com.

Looking ahead...

Dec. 2 Christmas Wreaths Covington Center, Opelika. Ages 5-12 years. $15 fee. 3:30-4:30 p.m. Dec. 4-5 Rocky Brook Rocket Reindeer Express Municipal Park, Opelika. 5-8 p.m. Ages 2nd grade and under. Dec. 4-21 Springer presents Disney’s “Mary Poppins” Dec. 5 Columbus Symphony Orchestra Presents “The Art of Christmas” Dec. 5 Uptown Columbus presents Broadway Holiday www.uptowncolumbusga.com Dec. 6 “The Polar Express” Holiday Open House at the National Infantry Museum Dec. 6 Opelika Chamber of Commerce Annual Christmas Parade 10 a.m. Dec. 10-13 Victorian Front Porch Christmas Tour Opelika Historic District. www.opelikavictorianfrontporchtour.com. Dec. 12 Christmas in a Railroad Town Opelika. 6-9 p.m. Dec. 13 Ho! Ho! Ho! Hike The Forest Ecology Preserve, Auburn. www.auburn.edu/preserve. Dec. 4-7, 11-14, 18-21 Christmas Lights Festival Montgomery Zoo. Dec. 19 Christmas Crafts Covington Center, Opelika. Ages 6-10 years. $15 fee. 2-3:00 p.m. Dec. 23 Fun Time/Juice with Teddy Covington Center, Opelika. Ages 5-10 years. $15 fee. 9 a.m. - 12 p.m.

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ParentingOnThePlains by Dr. Polly Dunn

Preparing Your Teen with ADHD or LD for College If you have a high school student with Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder or a Learning Disorder (LD) now is the time to begin considering how their diagnosis will impact their functioning in college. Did you know that the Americans With Disabilities Act (ADA) requires colleges to provide reasonable accommodations to students with ADHD or LD if their symptoms are significant enough to impair their functioning? Unfortunately, many students don’t pursue accommodations until they’re in crisis (after a semester or two of failing grades). But you and your child can be proactive and have accommodations in place as early as the summer before their freshman year. What types of accommodations might your student with ADHD or LD be eligible for in college? It depends on the student. Disability specialists at the college they attend review their documentation and history and determine what accommodations best fit their particular situation. For example, some students might qualify for extended time on tests. Others might need help provided by a note taker. While some may only need permission to sit in the front of the class and audio record lectures. In order to get accommodations, you must provide documentation that your child has a disorder that impairs their ability to function successfully in a college environment. Check with the college your child plans on attending to find out exactly what documentation they require. For ADHD and LD, documentation typically includes a full psychological evaluation conducted by a licensed psychologist within the past two to three years, and the cost of the psychological evaluation is paid for by the student or their parents, not by the university. Also, a letter from a physician or pediatrician that the student takes ADHD medication is usually not sufficient to receive accommodations. To supplement their college accommodations, encourage your child to participate in study skills training, tutoring or time-management seminars during their freshman year of college. Studying in a quiet environment free of distractions, sitting in the front of the class, recording lectures and checking notes

for accuracy with a classmate are other tips that will help them get off to a good start. And if they do struggle with the transition from high school to college, get help immediately from the disability specialists at their school. Junior Year of High School • Make a list of the colleges you and your child are interested in. • Find out what their documentation requirements are for accommodations for ADHD or LD. • Begin to collect all documentation or find a psychologist to conduct an updated evaluation. • Check to see if you qualify for testing accommodations when taking college entrance exams.

Senior Year of High School • When visiting prospective schools, meet with a disability specialist so you can learn what accommodations you might qualify for. • After you have been accepted to a college, submit your application for accommodations along with all required documentation. • During your summer orientation before starting college, check to make sure all of your paperwork has been received and that you are eligible to receive accommodations beginning your first semester. Auburn University Office of Accessibility: www. auburn.edu/disability University of Alabama Office of Disability Services: www.ods.ua.edu Dr. Polly Dunn received her Ph.D. from Auburn University in 1999. She is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and currently serves as the Director of the Auburn University Psychological Services Center, a position she has held for over ten years. Dr. Dunn is also the founder of www.ChildPsychMom.com where she blogs about what works and what doesn’t in her hectic life as a child psychologist, wife, and mom of four.

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The Book of Life

The Best of Me

MPAA Rating: PG Overall: B Violence: C+ Sexual Content: ALanguage: B+ Alcohol / Drug Use: B The MPAA has rated The Book of Life PG for mild action, rude humor, some thematic elements and brief scary images. Manolo (voice of Diego Luna) is a young man torn between a desire to please his father and a burning need to chart his own course. He is a Sanchez, and in his small Mexican town the family is known for their bull fighting skills. Manolo is no slouch in the bullring, as he dances and maneuvers deftly around the animal. However when the moment arrives when he should kill the bovine, he refuses, feeling there is no need to take its life. His father and the rest of the townsfolk view his lack of aggression as a weakness. Making matters worse, Manolo’s “big dream” isn’t to be a bullfighter, but to be a musician. He’d much rather be making music on his guitar -- a precious gift from his childhood sweetheart Maria (voice of Zoe Saldana). Maria has been away in Spain for the past few years. Her return to the village has reignited the passions within both Manolo and another of her grade school chums, Joaquin (voice of Channing Tatum). The latter is a decorated war hero. Unfortunately their affections have left the señorita tired of the increasing jealously that taints their friendship. Even more troubling is Maria’s father. He wants his daughter to accept Joaquin’s hand in marriage because the commitment will ensure the local golden boy will stay and protect the community from a band of marauders. But, of course, this movie isn’t about doing what your father demands of you. Instead it’s about finding your own way through life. Yet unlike so many other scripts aimed at kids, this title manages to balance respect for parents and family heritage with the need to reach for your own dreams. Just don’t expect this portrayal of the Day of the Dead holiday to follow a typical storyline. Instead it veers into the afterlife where literally colorful ancestors work together to try and save mortality from making a huge mistake. Considering the number of characters and plotlines this production juggles within its hour-and-a-half of runtime, it manages to keep audiences engaged and chuckling. The tone of this animation is far more focused on the positive attributes of honoring those who have passed, than on ghoulish imagery. Obviously, if you feel uncomfortable with depictions of the dead (many of whom are played here as ghost-like beings in the afterlife), then this title might be one to avoid. If that isn’t an issue, The Book of Life’s colorful imagery and marionette-style animation may be a refreshing celebration of family, as well as a fun look at Mexican traditions. It imparts messages about selflessness as the greatest attribute of a hero, and offers a great example of forgiveness that allows two enemies to work together.

MPAA Rating: PG-13 Overall: C Violence: CSexual Content: CLanguage: D+ Alcohol / Drug Use: C The MPAA has rated The Best of Me PG-13 for sexuality, violence, some drug content and brief strong language. Have you ever wondered what happened to the one that got away? That high school girlfriend, college boyfriend or summer fling? Trust Nicholas Sparks to ask. Like the teenage sweethearts in The Notebook, Amanda (Michelle Monaghan) and Dawson (James Marsden who also starred in The Notebook) lost track of each other. She went on to marry and have a child. He found work on an oilrig in the middle of the ocean. Twenty-one years later they are both summoned back to their hometown for the reading of the will of their old friend Tuck (Gerald McRaney). Tuck, a no-nonsense widower with a rifle, took Dawson in and gave him a fresh start after the youngster ran away from home. Amanda spent hours at the house so she could be with Dawson, a boy of whom her parents did not approve. But life’s twists and turns eventually drove the teens apart. Coming back dredges up a lot of memories for the pair -- both painful and pleasant. It also reignites their old passions. And after several days together at Tuck’s house, Amanda and Dawson end up in bed together (just as they did as teens). However, Amanda now has a husband, who is conveniently a jerk that would rather play golf than spend time with his wife. As a result, committing adultery with an old boyfriend doesn’t leave her as conflicted as you’d think. Yet after their idyllic week comes to an end, Amanda has to return to the real world and face her unhappy life. Of course, anyone who has seen just one other Nicholas Sparks’ movie knows that won’t be the end of things. Unfortunately, along with the easy manner in which Amanda brushes aside her wedding vows, this film includes at least two sex scenes with partial nudity, another in which a wet t-shirt leaves little to the imagination, an unwed pregnant teen, sexual innuendo and a man who spends a lot of time shirtless. While some of that might be expected in a romance movie, viewers may be surprised at depictions of frequent drinking, driving under the influence, bootlegging, brutal beatings and gun violence that kills a man. As well, a string of profanities and a strong sexual expletive make their way into the script. Lining up all the right romantic cues, the audience is led to believe these two deserve happiness in each other’s arms. Amanda is after all a fiercely attentive mother who has sacrificed almost everything for her family. And the depictions of her inattentive husband (who luckily isn’t as handsome as the scruffy faced Marsden) make it all the more obvious whom she should be with. In the end however, The Best of Me turns out to be slightly different than you might expect. In the age of feminism, it is an interesting turn of events that eventually brings Amanda the bliss she is supposedly entitled to.

What Parents need to know about The Book of Life...

What Parents need to know about The Best of Me...

Violence: References are made to death in a fantasy context. Frequent mild peril and threat to main characters, with some frightening detail. Infrequent portrayals of hand-to-hand and weapons violence in a slapstick context. One direct punch to the head is seen on screen. Bullfights are portrayed, but we do not see the bull being stabbed or killed. School-aged kids make derogatory age-related comments toward an elderly man. Sexual Content: A woman uses her femininity to manipulate a man. Two boys are obviously fond of the same girl. Language: Some name-calling and a vague scatological reference are included. Alcohol / Drug Use: A group of secondary characters appear inebriated and one makes a joke about visiting four bars. Auburn Opelika Parents I November 2014

Violence: An explosion at a worksite injures several, including a man who is covered in flames. Another is thrown from a platform into the water below. A man shows numerous scars he got from his father. Characters are slapped, punched, choked, beaten and shot. Some blood is shown. Sexual Content: A teenage girl reveals she is pregnant. Adults talk about a child who died. Unmarried teens and later adults engage in sexual activity with partial nudity shown. A woman wears a very revealing wet t-shirt. Language: The script contains several profanities including a strong sexual expletive. Alcohol / Drug Use: Characters drink frequently. A man drinks while driving. Men appear to be involved in bootlegging. Some tobacco use is also shown. 44

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