Auburn-Opelika Parents October 2014 by KeepSharing

October2014

Volume 5 Number 8

22 Columns

Publisherâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Note Kendra Sumner

Living With Children John Rosemond

Kids Health Watch

Bonding Time

How to tell if you have the flu, how to prevent getting it, and how to prevent spreading it!

Easy and fun ways to bring your family together throughout the busy week.

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Dave Says Dave Ramsey

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Centsibly Southern Chic Laura Handey

A Page in a Book Gerry Paige Smith

Fall Festivals & Halloween Fun

Supporting the Spirited Child

Get This!

Your guide to autumn fun in Lee County and beyond!

Discover 10 tips for dealing with your dramatic youngster.

Parenting on the Plains

On The Cover Josie Johnson is the 9-year-old daughter of Jody and Jessica Johnson of Auburn. Josie attends Yarbrough Elementary School where she is in fourth grade. She enjoys playing softball, swimming, playing with friends, watching movies, and aggravating her 5-year-old brother, Jett. Josie became a member of the Girl Scouts this year, and is looking forward to the new exciting adventures she will be having with her troop. A special thanks The Forest Ecology Preserve for its beautiful backdrop of lush gardens with a fall flair. 1

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Bits and Pieces 10

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Publisher’sNote I have been writing about my four children since we started publishing this magazine and thought it might be worth a change to put their picture, instead of mine, on this page. My children Reagan, Parker, Ryley and Porter are the driving force behind why I publish Auburn Opelika Parents each month. If not for them, I would not be concerned with all the kidfriendly activities our area has to offer, nor the educational articles, from kid’s health to children’s book reviews, or even wonder about summer camps and after school activities. But because I am a mom, finding the resources, family fun and latest trends seem to just come with the parental territory. What is even more rewarding than all the personal parenting help is that other moms (and dads) like me are interested in and looking for the same information, too. So, thanks to our kids, this month we are celebrating all that fall has to offer and filling our calendar with festivals, visits to pumpkin patches and Halloween fun! Be sure to check out our Fall Festivities and Halloween Fun Guide in this issue to fill your calendars, too! In honoring my children this month, let me share with you how they are my heart, soul, spirit and joy! Reagan, my first born, is my heart. She is loving, nurturing, and a helper who could easily take my place at a moment’s notice. Parker is like my soul because he is my “mini me” in so many ways, and it’s like we have a bond that can never be broken. As for Ryley...we will come back to her. The youngest Sumner is Porter who I say is my joy. From the moment he arrived, he brought joy and completeness to our family. Now, back to Ryley…I call her my spirit. She exudes a vibrant spirit unlike many. She is a social butterfly whose fluttering spirit touches everyone she meets. Others gravitate toward her and love her. She brings light and fun into every room she enters. However, that spirit can be hard to handle at times. If she gets too tired, overwhelmed or upset, she will let you know! Because I know being spirited can have some challenges, I have always tried to work with the more dramatic moments in a way as to not break that spirit. For example, the other day, Ryley was preparing to attend her ballet and jazz lessons and realized that the leotard she was putting on was too small and did not fit. Instead of asking me for another one, she flipped out, fussing and crying about it. In true spirited form, the entire household halted and she became the central focus. The family has learned to allow her dramatic outbursts to happen and fizzle out on their own. As her mom, I understand that she is exhausted from a long day of school and this one moment is her way of dealing with being tired. In the feature article, 10 Tips to Support the Spirited Child, the author suggests that spirited children need to learn to manage the drama, and with their parents’ help, by our setting clear rules and giving them soothing alone time. She also says we should remember to find happy mediums, offer positive reinforcement and encourage individuality. Many of the author’s tips helped me to see that my spirited child needs room to express her strong personality, but with loving management. Whether you are feeling the spirit of the cool, fall months or have a spirited child of your own, embrace the spirits of this season. Like all seasons and childhood stages, this time will quickly pass by. From one parent to another, let the spirits soar this fall!

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Auburn Opelika Lee County’s Foremost Parenting Source

Auburn Opelika Parents Magazine is founded on the principle that parenting is an exciting, diverse, challenging, and significant role in our community. Auburn Opelika Parents Magazine is a community advocate for families and the parenting process.

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LivingWithChildren by John Rosemond

Teens DO Underperform in School Due to Lack of Sleep It’s a fact that a good night’s sleep is essential to optimal performance, no matter the task. It is also a fact that America’s teens, generally speaking, don’t get enough sleep. Ergo, American teens, as a group, underperform in school. In consideration of the above, a movement has arisen to extend school start times to at least 8:30 a.m. I think the wellmeaning folks behind said movement are missing the point. The problem, it seems to me, is not when the school day begins. The problem is teens whose parents let them stay up until all hours of the night playing video games, texting, talking on their cells phones, watching television, surfing the ‘net’, and listening to music on headphones. In other words, bedtime is the problem, not school time. Furthermore, it is well known that electronics of the above sort interfere with circadian rhythms. A teen using any of these devices well into the evening is going to have difficulty falling asleep. This is yet another example of how the culture absolves parents of responsibility for their children (because that would constitute what’s come to be known as “blaming”) and assigns it instead to some faceless institutional policy.

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This is also an example of how institutions and bureaucracies tend to completely ignore the Law of Unintended Consequences when it comes to setting policy. Let me assure the reader that if a school decides to push its start time from 8:00 to 9:00, the teens who attend said school will simply use that as an excuse to stay up playing, texting, talking, watching, surfing, and listening for another hour. They will get exactly the same amount of sleep, come to school equally tired, and their achievement will suffer equally. The solution to the problem of teens who don’t get enough sleep on school nights is for parents to step up to the plate and make it impossible for their kids to play, text, talk, watch, surf, and listen after 8:00 at night. With nothing to do but twiddle their thumbs or read, these teens will fall asleep. And because their brains have not been bombarded with electronic stimulation prior to falling asleep, they will sleep more soundly. And because they will sleep more soundly, they will wake up refreshed and go to school prepared mentally to do their best. Ah, but that’s the rub, of course. I refer to parents who will not set limits of any meaningful sort on their children’s use of

electronics because, get this, it will upset them. And we must not, in America, have upset children. As one parent put it to me recently: “I mean, but John, that’s what they’re all doing at night!” Meaning that if he shut down his teenage child’s electronic access after 8:00 pm, the child would be placed at a significant social disadvantage, grow up feeling deprived, and never reach his full potential or some other such baloney. My parents hardly ever let me do what “all” the other kids were doing. In retaliation, I left home and got married at age 20 and managed, somehow, to overcome the debilitating social limitations my parents had imposed on me and create a reasonably decent life for myself, wife, and kids. Oh, and my parents made me turn out my lights at no later than 10:00 on school nights until I went to college. But that was back in those benighted days when parents didn’t care what their children thought about any decision they made. Some people actually call them the “good old days.” How ridiculous.

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Pioneer Days

Go back in time at the Pioneer Museum of Alabama, October 10-11, in Troy. During the Pioneer Days Festival, learn about and experience horse and wagon rides, trips on the Pioneer Express, Native American camps with demonstrations of candlemaking, spinning, weaving, quiltmaking, blacksmithing, drum, dance, and more! Friday is School Day. 9 a.m.-5 p.m. For admission and questions, www.pioneer-museum.org.

Sid the Science Kid Live! Let’s Play!

“Sid the Science Kid” comes to life, October 23 at the Rivercenter for the Performing Arts, Columbus, Ga., in this incredible live stage experience! Kids and parents alike will be thrilled as Sid, May, Gabriela and Gerald come to their town to discover the excitement and curiosities of the world around them. With wonders to discover, Sid and his friends set off on a day of excitement and adventure, as they explore their five senses through fun games and experiments and by asking curious questions and finding fascinating answers. www.rivercenter.org.

Fall Family Festival at Russell Crossroads

Come join us as we celebrate all things fall and family activities at Russell Crossroads, October 25. Bring the kids! There will be a scavenger hunt, face painting, hayrides, build your own scarecrow, blacksmith, maze, bob for apples, pony rides and much more. If food is your thing you'll want to be here too. We will have a gristmill, a canning contest and pie baking contest. For more information or directions call 256.794.1397. Rain or Shine! Russell Crossroads, 17 Russell Farms Rd, Alexander City. www.russelllandsonlakemartin.com.

72nd Annual National Peanut Festival

The National Peanut Festival, the nation's largest peanut festival, is held in Dothan each fall to honor local peanut farmers and to celebrate the harvest season. Located in the southeast corner of Alabama, Dothan is known as the "Peanut Capital of the World" and is a prime location for growing peanuts. In fact, if you're in Dothan you're in the heart of peanut country, considering the majority of all the peanuts grown in the United States are grown within a 100 mile radius of Dothan. Activities and demonstrations for everyone including Ackmonster’s Chainsaw, Demolition Derby, Eudora Farms, K9’s in Flight, Kachunga and the Alligator Show, Thank a Farmer Magic Show and more! Concerts all week include The Pointer Sisters, Sanctus Real, Josh Wilson & Jon Bauer, and Thomas Rhett. October 31-November 9. www.nationalpeanutfestival.com.

Harvest Time & Tavern Fest at Old Alabama Town

Come down to Old Alabama Town in Montgomery throughout October as we feature Harvest Time in the 1800s. Join us for tours of the cotton gin and grist mill, and get a first-hand look at farming in the 19th century. Harvest Time will culminate in Landmarks Foundation's annual fall event Tavern Fest! Dance the night away to fabulous live music and tease your palette with the guiltiest of Southern pleasures, plus craft beer tasting and fine wine. Contact Old Alabama Town for more info and dates for Tavern Fest. www.oldalabamatown.com. Auburn Opelika Parents I October 2014

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Howl-O-Ween for the Dogs

Bring out your pooch in their best dressed costume this Halloween! Registration is from 5 p.m. - 6 p.m. October 31, in front of Taylor Made Design. Canine Trick or Treating at local downtown merchants will begin at 5:00 p.m. Stores will have special dog treats available. The costume contest begins at 6:00 p.m. Prizes will be given for the best costumes! A supporter donation is $15 and allows your canine to walk in the parade. A V.I.P. or “Very Important Pooch” can be registered for $25. This ensures that your pup will be one of the first in line to show off their costume. Pre-registration begins Tuesday, October 9, at Taylor Made Designs at 120 S. 8th St. Donations will support Rescue K911, a nonprofit, no-kill organization dedicated to reducing overpopulation, abuse and neglect of domestic animals. They provide food, shelter and care for animals in need. For more information visit www.rescuek911.com. This year Howl-O-Ween will be a new experience ensuring that your dogs feel special and can enjoy the holiday as their own. Participant’s owners are encouraged to register early to guarantee a spot in the costume contest and parade.

43rd Annual Historical Fair and Syrup Sopping Day

The Historical Fair and Syrup Sopping Day, held October 18, from 7 am – 4 p.m. in Loachapoka, will feature: weaving and cloth-making demonstrations, musical entertainment featuring hammered and mountain dulcimers, banjos and guitars, a doctor’s beautiful herb garden and crops garden, bread making, soap making, period pottery, fireplace and outdoor cooking, and other old time crafts. Our famous sweet potato biscuits, as well as camp stew, beans, collards, syrup from sorghum and ribbon cane and BBQ. Tour the two-story 140 year old Trade Center museum, watch the blacksmiths at work, visit the Log Cabin, and the Taylor Whatley agricultural implement collection. Admission: $3 adults, children 12 and under free with adult. For more information, 334-887-2255 or www.syrupsopping.org.

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14th Annual Downtown Trick or Treat will be October 31, 2014! The evening begins at 6 – 8 p.m. Bring your monsters, rock stars, warriors and clowns to the best party in town! Join us in the excellent alternative to door-to-door trick-ortreating. Downtown Auburn merchants will provide treats for the children and delightful sounds from our 'special' entertainment will fill the night air. Also, don't miss out on your chance to win the 'best costume' contest! Parents must accompany children to this even. Free to the public. For more info, www.auburnalabama.org/parks.

The City of Opelika Parks and Recreation's Fall Festival & Children's Carnival October 28th, 5:30 - 8:30 p.m. at the Opelika Sportsplex: W. James Samford Soccer Complex. A safe alternative to trick or treating for children ages 12 and under. Children wear costumes and bring a treat bag. Visit with local mascots and check out new features this year! Hayrides, prizes, games, rides and entertainment. Inflatable slides, special booths and exciting events! Bring the whole family out for a night of food, fun and fellowship. 705-5560.

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Stop the Flu! Fall is here! The weather is pleasant and the holidays are just around the corner and so is influenza, that nasty virus commonly known as the flu. How do you know if you have the flu? What can you do to prevent it? These are some typical questions asked in my office and I hope to answer them in this article. The main symptoms of influenza infection are: high fever (more than 101 generally), body aches, and cough. Some flu strains also cause stomach symptoms such as nausea, vomiting and diarrhea. Patients with true influenza infection have malaise (feel really bad) and will stay sick for 5-7 days. It is advisable to go to the doctor for flu like symptoms, particularly if the patient is less than 5 years old, has asthma or other chronic illness, or is pregnant. Treatment for the flu is generally just to treat the symptoms: Administer Tylenol or ibuprofen for the fever, give plenty of fluids and rest. Anti-viral medications such as Tamiflu may shorten the course by 1-2 days but only if given within the first 24-48 hours of illness. Side effects from anti-viral medication are also common. For these reasons, I do not prescribe anti-viral medication very often. It is important to know that aspirin should never be given for influenza. Rarely, aspirin in combination with influenza can cause Reye’s syndrome.

Prevention is the key to avoiding influenza. Here are some tips that I find to be the most important: 1) Get the flu vaccine EVERY year. 2) Wash hands with soap and water frequently. Use hand sanitizer when soap and water aren’t available. 3) Cover your cough with tissue or arm. 4) Avoid touching your eyes, mouth and nose. 5) Stay home when you are sick and keep kids home when they run fever or are sick. The flu vaccine is the most important step in fighting the flu. There are 2 main forms of the vaccine: the injectable (flu shot) and the nasal spray (FluMist ). This year’s 2014-15 injectable vaccine (the flu shot) contains 3 strains. They are: influenza A strains H1N1 and H3N2 and a B strain. The nasal mist (FluMist ) actually has 4 strains. It contains all 3 of the strains in the shot plus a second B strain. The vaccine should be given to children age 6 months thru 8 years in 2 doses at least 4 weeks apart. Children age 9 years to adult and children who have received flu vaccine in a previous season only require one dose. The CDC now highly recommends that those who qualify receive the FluMist vaccinea live virus vaccine. The age range is 2 years to 49 years. Patients must also be healthy, no recent wheezing (within the last 12 months)

or asthma, not pregnant or otherwise immune suppressed, and not taking aspirin. Can you get the flu from the flu shot? No! The flu vaccine is made up of components of the flu virus and these cannot infect you. Rather, they cause the body to form an immune response so that when the real virus is encountered, the body is ready to fight it off. The FluMist nasal spray vaccine is a live virus, but is attenuated. This means it will not cause the recipient to have influenza infection, but a weak version of the virus is given so the body can build up an immune response. What are the side effects from the vaccine? Usually only soreness at the injection site and low grade temp for a day or two are the only effects noted. Rarely an allergic reaction can occur. Do I have to take the flu vaccine every year? Yes, because the shot is different every year, it must be taken every year. I hope that everyone enjoys the month of October and all the fun of the coming season. Be prepared by vaccinating your family against the flu so that you can enjoy the season without worry. Dr. Ellen Royal attended the University of South Alabama College of Medicine for her medical degree and graduated in 1994. She returned to Alabama the summer of 1998 to join the pediatric practice of Dr. Richard M. Freeman. Dr. Royal is a member of the Lee County Medical Society, Medical Association of the State of Alabama, American Medical Association and the American Academy of Pediatrics. She is board certified in Pediatrics. Dr. Royal is married to Dr. Kevin Royal who practices Internal Medicine in Opelika and they have three children.

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Auburn City Schools Gets New Director of Curriculum and Professional Development

There are many new faces within Auburn City Schools as the school year gets underway, but there is one that most everyone in the system will become familiar with. Wes Gordon joins ACS as the new Director of Curriculum and Professional Development for all grades K-12. Gordon, 43, hails from the historically rich city of Selma, Ala., as a Selma High School graduate who earned his degree in mathematics at the University of Alabama.

State Superintendent Speaks to Local School Superintendents State Superintendent Dr. Tommy Bice made a stop in Opelika as a part of his "The Future of Public Education" tour where he discussed the state's 2020 education plan that aims for a 90 percent graduation rate statewide within next 5 years. Pictured are Auburn City Schools Superintendent Dr. Karen DeLano, Chamber County Schools Superintendent Kelli Hodge, Alexander City Schools Superintendent Dr. Darrell Cooper, State Superintendent Dr. Tommy Bice, Phenix City Schools Superintendent Randy Wilkes and Opelika City Schools Superintendent Dr. Mark Neighbors.

A Fishing Lesson in English Class

Mr. Thompson's senior AP English class studied Norman Maclean's semi-autobiographical novella "A River Runs Through It." AHS Assistant Principal Bo Morrissey revealed a secret talent/ hobby when he dropped by the English classroom to give the students a fly-fishing lesson in an effort to better connect them to the reading material.

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Meet your teacher night was a huge success this year for all Auburn City schools!

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Dean Road Elementary School Takes the Challenge!

Dean Road Elementary School raised and donated a total of $1,089 (staff-$504 and students-$585) to the local BigHouse Foundation and celebrated today with the "Ice Bucket Challenge," where the entire student body got to witness freezing cold water dumped on their teachers and administrators. Some lucky students whose names were drawn at random, got to perform the dumping of the water. In the spirit of the challenge that has spread throughout social media this summer, DRES called out Wrights Mill Road Elementary, all other K-2 facilities as well as the Central Office group to donate or endure the Ice Bucket Challenge.

Auburn City Schools Central Office Accepts Ice Bucket Challenge

The Auburn City Schools Central Office accepted the Ice Bucket Challenge from Dr. Jackie Greenwood and Dean Road Elementary for ALS research. The CO challenges Dr. Mark Neighbors and the Opelika City Schools Central Office, Auburn City Manager Charlie Duggan and his staff with the City of Auburn as well as Dean Dr. Betty Lou Whitford and the Auburn University College of Education.

Cary Woods Accepts the Challenge

The staff and student body at Cary Woods Elementary School definitely had fun with their IBC! Students' names were selected at random to douse teachers in ice water and even three lucky students got to ice down Mrs.Snyder and Mrs. Core with an entire tub of cold water. CWES chose to donate to the Boys and Girls Club of Greater Lee County through this event.

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Wrights Mill Road Elementary School's faculty and staff accepted their challenge from Dean Road Elementary to do the "Ice Bucket Challenge." They took the challenge a step further and had a "Great Spray for the United Way" where the Auburn Fire Department came and drenched the adults at WMR while the students watched! Pictured, left, 4th grader Cooper O. is ready to see his teachers get sprayed by the Auburn Fire Department to raise money for United Way. Auburn Opelika Parents I October 2014

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Wrights Mill Road Starts New Running Club

Wrights Mill Road started a running club this year. We have over 50 students and our goal is to participate in the Toys for Tots race in December!

Recognition for the Heroes of DARE Camp

The City of Auburn police, fire and parks department were all recognized at a recent City Council meeting for the hard work they put in earlier this summer during DARE camp. The theme of this year's camp was "HERO" or Help Everyone Respect Others.

Auburn High School 2014 Tiger Ambassadors

Auburn High School is proud to present the 20142015 Tiger Ambassadors! The Tiger Ambassadors are made up of junior and seniors at Auburn High School. Ambassadors are highly respected by members of the Auburn community, faculty, and student body. Tiger Ambassadors make several appearances throughout the community including greeting at AHS football games and Auburn City Schools Board of Education meetings.

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Autauga County Schools Zhao Named Distinguished Young Woman of Lee County

Bonnie Zhao was named the 2015 Distinguished Young Woman of Lee County on August 9 at the Auburn Performing Arts Center, Julie and Hal Moore Center for Excellence. In addition to being named the new Distinguished Young Woman of Lee County, the Auburn High School Senior won the talent category award which gave her a total of $1,750 in cash scholarships. Zhao performed Beethoven's Sonata No. 17 in D Minor, “The Tempest,” on the piano in the talent portion of the competition. Zhao will represent Lee County in the Distinguished Young Women of Alabama program in January 2015 in Montgomery. Eleven senior girls from the Lee County area participated in this year’s scholarship program which evaluates the participants in the areas of scholastics, interview, talent, fitness and self-expression. Elizabeth Balch-Crystal won first runner-up and the scholastic category award. She performed a vocal arrangement of “And I Am Telling You I’m Not Going” from “Dreamgirls” for her talent. Second runner-up and self-expression honors went to Christy Evans who performed a contemporary ballet routine en pointe to “Cello Wars” by The Piano Guys. Molly Robinson earned the fitness award and Abby Watson was awarded the interview award. All of these young ladies are seniors at Auburn High School. The Spirit Award is given based on participant votes for the young woman who best exemplifies the ideals of the Distinguished Young Woman program. The Spirit Award is given in memory of Jerry Teel, a longtime friend of the program. This year, the award was presented by June Teel to Kallie Basden, who attends Lee-Scott Academy. Basden was also awarded the Paula Nix Award, given to the highest scoring dancer in the talent portion of the competition. This award was given in honor of Paula Nix, who has served as the choreographer for the Distinguished Young Women/Junior Miss Program of Lee County for twenty years. $280,000 in 4-year, renewable college-granted scholarships were awarded the night of the program. Troy University gave four Millennium Scholars awards. The Millennium Scholarship is worth $55,000, which includes tuition and room and board. This scholarship was awarded to Zhao, Balch-Crystal, Evans and Lea Hix. Troy University also awarded two Chancellor’s Awards worth $30,000 each, to Robinson and Watson. The mistress of ceremonies was Addison Garner. Garner is the daughter of Trip and Tamera Garner of Opelika, and a graduate of Opelika High School and Auburn University. The audience was entertained by Garner, as well as by the 2014 Distinguished Young Woman of Lee County, Victoria Fang and the 2015 Distinguished Young Woman of Okaloosa County (FL), Lydia Clark. Dyw photo: Pictured, left to right, are Elizabeth Balch-Crystal, 1st runner up; Bonnie Zhao, DYW of Lee County 2015; Christy Evans, 2nd runner up.

Auburn Early Education Center Awarded $10,000 Grant

Auburn City Schools nurse Beth Evans’ application for a BCBS Healthy Schools Grant was successful and Auburn Early Education Center was awarded $10,000 by Jeff Adams, Community Relations Manager of Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Alabama. Pictured are AEEC Principal Dr. Shelley Aistrup, PE Coach Travis Yarbrough, Beth Evans, AEEC Nurse Callie Best, Jeff Adams and AEEC Assistant Principal Andrea Folmar.

Yarbrough Elementary Receives $10,000 Grant for Healthy School

Yarbrough Elementary is the 2nd school in ACS to receive a $10,000 grant and officially become a Blue Cross / Blue Shield of Alabama Healthy School. PE Coach Reginald Smith successfully obtained the grant and plans to use it to purchase Virtual Spin Bikes and Virtual Water Rowers/Cardio Machines from Exergame for YES. Pictured are Principal Pete Forster, Jeff Adams, Community Relations Manager of BCBS of Alabama and Coach Smith. Auburn Opelika Parents I October 2014

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2014 Auburn High School Homecoming Court

We are proud to present the 2014 Auburn High School Homecoming Court! (Left to Right Front Row): Kia Graves, Alli Shaddix, Cionni Yates, and Alexzia Smith; (Left to Right Back Row): Caroline Mills, Janie Olemann, Sarah Northcutt, Lydia Johnston, and Brittany Jackson. (Not Pictured): Joy Machen (Junior).

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Drake Middle School Combats Bullying

The sixth graders in Mrs. Helm's Social Studies class at Drake Middle School were visited by Dr. Mark Wilson, Coordinator of community and civic engagement at Auburn University about the issue of bullying. This is part of an internal effort at Drake that spreads awareness and allows the students to do some critical thinking while potentially having their ideas put into action to combat bullying within Auburn City Schools.

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Autauga CountyEgg Schools Cracking Ceremony at Wrights Mill Road

Red Team “Effort” celebrates at the Egg Cracking ceremony where they just received a new team member! Each student at Wrights Mill Road gets to draw and crack an egg to see what team they are on for their time at Wrights Mill Road.

Dean Road Students Celebrate National Aviation Day

Dean Road Elementary students (right) recently teamed up the Aviation Education and Enhancement Program (AEEP) to celebrate National Aviation Day. Under the direction of art teacher, Andrea Newman, students learned about Orville and Wilbur Wright and then made their own paper airplanes and “hoopsters.” After creating and decorating their planes, students tested them out in the courtyard and made necessary adjustments to make them fly even farther! Pictured are second grade students from Mrs. Nicole Hart’s class trying out their creations.

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Auburn High School Named a SMART Showcase School

Auburn High School is proud to announce that they have been recognized to be a SMART Showcase School! Pictured are Dr. Shannon Pignato, AHS Principal, and Caroline Raville, AHS Assistant Principal, holding the decorative plaque from SMART Technology.

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Dean Road Students Celebrate Summer Reading Goals

In May, Dean Road challenged upcoming first and second graders to “Pop Open a Good Book” by reading at least 25 books over the summer break. 91 students returned their completed reading charts the first week of school and were rewarded with a fun, outdoor popcorn party for “popping open” books all summer long. Dr. Greenwood and Mrs. Sims recognized each of these students with words of praise and a “Pop Open a Good Book” bookmark to encourage them to continue reading throughout the school year. Dean Road is so proud of its students who made the commitment to read and kept their mind “poppin’” all summer long! Pictured are first graders who met the reading challenge. 17

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Autauga County Schools Young Entrepreneurs Academy Established at Opelika Middle

The Young Entrepreneurs Academy (YEA!) is an innovative program that transforms local middle and high school students into real entrepreneurial successes. The Opelika Chamber of Commerce and YEA! are excited to announce that its local program will be hosted at Opelika Middle School this school year. The program is designed as an 8th grade class for students interested in gaining the knowledge necessary to start their own small business. There are 21 students enrolled in the class which is instructed by Mrs. Clarinda Perry. Businesses interested in supporting and participating in this program are encouraged to contact the Opelika Chamber of Commerce at (334) 745-4861 or coc@opelikachamber.com.

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2014 Auburn High School Marching Band

We are pleased to present to you all the 2014 Auburn High School Marching Band! Go Tigers Go!

Pick Students Visit Arboretum

Pick Elementary students visited the Donald E. Davis Arboretum at Auburn University as a part of "Adventures in Art 2014: Upcycled!" The kids learned about mosaic art, theater/performance art as well as seedling and bog cycles in Alabama. Adventures in Art is a field trip component of a community-based, art education program for all fourth and fifth grade students from Auburn City Schools. The program is sponsored by the City of Auburn Parks and Recreation Department and the Jan Dempsey Community Arts Center and is partially funded through a grant from the Alabama State Council on the Arts. Now in its fifteenth year, Adventures in Art is one of several programs the City of Auburn and its community partners are pleased to present for students from Auburn City Schools. This year’s program focuses on sustainability in art. The program begins with a performance by Doc Waller, founder of Doc Waller LLC. Following the performance, students split into groups and attend three workshops: a visual arts workshop with a mosaic landscape using recycled materials from the Zero Landfill Project, a sustainability workshop at the Arboretum creating planters out of recycled newspaper, and a theatre performance workshop with Waller. Each workshop helps educate and provide creative experiences through upcycling exploration, hands-on activities, and creative expression for students.

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The Auburn City Schools Child Nutrition Program got together recently to gear up for this new school year! CNP works in accordance with the National School Breakfast and Lunch Program, Alabama health codes, and local board policies to provide meals for all students in Auburn City Schools.

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A. This kind of thing happens a lot in household budgeting, especially to folks who are new to the game. Here are some ideas to help stretch your dollars and plug those leaks. Use the cash-only method, especially when shopping for groceries. Take only the amount you have budgeted, and don’t use your debit card or a check. Also, use coupons only for items you would buy anyway. In addition, you can stock up on items you use often when there is a big sale. These little things will add up. Try eating out only on special occasions, drink water as your beverage and don’t be afraid to use coupons in restaurants, either. When it comes to buying clothes, make a habit of checking out the sale rack first. You can shop at thrift and consignment stores, and sell the clothes you don’t wear anymore. With entertainment, use dollar-off and buy-one-get-one-free coupons whenever you can. See a matinee or a second-run movie, and if you’re going somewhere with a bunch of people, call ahead and ask for a group discount. You’ll be amazed at how much money these tactics will save!

might be able to talk them down on the collection fees. They jack those way up. But the original amount you borrow, plus the actual interest that hasn’t been paid, is guaranteed by the government. They’ll get it from one of you!

Q. I have a 5-year-old daughter, and I want to start a 529 for her. However, I’m concerned that the government might seize the 529 assets in order to pay off debt and give people treasury bonds instead. Do you think this might happen? A. I think there’s less than a one percent chance they’d seize the actual assets. Really, I don’t believe they’re any more

likely to come take investments away than they are to come take your home. I mean, we’re really talking about private property here. If you have $100,000 in a retirement fund, and they say they’re going to take that away from you, it’s like taking a person’s home. I just don’t see that happening. The big question, I think, is this: Are they likely to take away some of the tax benefits — like the 529 plan’s ability to grow tax-free? As in, they just come in and say they’re making it all taxable to pay the bills they’ve accumulated up in Washington, D.C. from all their stupid behavior. That kind of thing actually could happen.

Q. Is it possible to settle the debt on a student loan? A. Sallie Mae student loans, or federally insured student loans, are insured by the government. Translation, the bank is going to still get paid 100 percent by the taxpayers, because the government is guaranteeing the loan. They have no reason to settle with you. They’re not going to settle with you on the principal amount or the interest. You 21

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Bonding Time 10 Easy Ways To Bring Your Family Back Together by Christina Katz

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Life is busy. So make sure you slow things down on a regular basis and just enjoy being a family. As kids grow up, everyone can seem pulled in utterly different directions. You may even find yourself thinking that you liked your kids better before they had the ability to leave you at will. But never fear. Here are ten remedies that will keep your relations relating even while everyone evolves along individual lines:

Eat dinner together. When my daughter Samantha was little, she wrote us a note of protest after one night when we did not all sit down to dinner together. It said, quite simply, “We hav to eat togther.” Today, when I’m tempted to skip a formal sit-down dinner due to busy schedules, I remember her note and set the table anyway or ask her to do it. Auburn Opelika Parents I October 2014

If she complains, I simply quote her back to herself.

Play games. Sunday afternoons are just as perfect for game night as they ever were. But if you are having trouble gathering your kids to all be home at the same time every other week, you might need to make family game night a mandatory family event. Sure, you’ll hear some reluctant grumbling before the games begin, but once you settle in and start having fun, you’ll be so glad you insisted--and so will your kids.

Create a shared workspace. Surely you have a space in your home that is underutilized. Be it the dining room, the laundry room or an extra bedroom, it’s easy to convert this space into a shared work space where the whole family can 22

convene instead of scattering to every corner. Simply add a large table (a folding table is fine), ample places to dock and charge electronics, office supplies, a pencil sharpener and a printer and voila! This instant family office is a great place to have your family meetings or collaborate on projects.

Put music on while you do the dishes or chores. You have seen The Big Chill, right? Then surely you remember the dish-washing scene. You can either be the type of family that says quit-yourgrousing-and-do-your-chores, which makes everyone sullen and pokey, or you can be the type of family that makes chores fun and silly. Sometimes the difference is as simple and easy as turning on the radio to a station that plays oldies. www.auburnopelikaparents.com

Take a family walk. Grab the dogs, the leashes, and a couple of water bottles and get the heck out of dodge. Go just far enough away from home to walk without interruption from friendly neighbors and just stroll. Don’t bring up any difficult topics, don’t confront anyone about unacceptable behavior, just take your family for a walk and leave your collective worries in the dust.

Treat everyone to dinner. Let this be a surprise even if it’s just the local burger or teriyaki joint. If you plan dinner out in advance, don’t tell everyone you have a consensus--it was an awful, terrible, rotten day. Then do your best imitation of the Dad in A Christmas Story when he says, “All right, get dressed. We are going out to eat!” And watch those frowns turn upside down.

Celebrate the small stuff. Don’t wait for birthdays and anniversaries to celebrate each other. Try to recognize one person in the family every week. Was someone selected for the school play? Maybe someone else got to play for the varsity team. Maybe mom got elected to a position in the PTA. When it’s a big enough deal, head out for ice cream or bring home bakery cupcakes. And

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with a smile. Whether it’s a quick game of “Highs & Lows,” sharing a story from the day, or just tucking in and kissing goodnight, end on a consistent happy note no matter what the day was like.

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your jammies until noon on a Saturday morning. Cook a big messy breakfast, or grab the paper and some doughnuts. Watch a movie in the middle of the day with fresh popcorn. Don’t bother cleaning up until the eleventh hour. Just enjoy the splendid imperfection of being the family you are right now...happy and relaxing together. AOP

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Have an end-of-day ritual. Our family enjoys reading a book from a book series out loud before bed. But make yours whatever your family finds relaxing and enjoyable, so everyone can drift off to sleep

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Great Style at Any Age Have you ever gotten up in the morning and tried on everything in your closet just to find that certain items in your wardrobe do not fit or look like they did 10 years ago? I know I have. I am notorious for cleaning out my closet and changing my style the older I get. Let’s not look at it as getting older, but as getting more fashion forward. As we age, our style should enhance who we are not create an alternate persona. It’s time to stop shopping in the juniors department and Forever 21 (there’s a reason the number 21 is in that name). Embracing your age and embracing the style that comes with your age will turn back the clock and bring in the youthful side of you. There are many of trends that look great on women over 40. From smart and sophisticated work wear to casual embellished tops and cover ups to midi skirts with knee high boots, there’s something out there for everyone! Fashion doesn’t have an age limit...there are trends that suit every woman at every age, and it’s all about how you wear it. 1. Look for shape enhancing details like cap sleeves, stretch in the right places, different trouser cuts, and built-in panels to make you look and feel great. Auburn Opelika Parents I October 2014

2. Don’t shy away from color; be confident and daring. Wear colors that compliment your skin tone and hair color. Experiment with substitute colors like black for purple or deep berry tones for red. 3. Make sure that you are in control of your wardrobe. A few well chosen, great fitting staples like a pair of wide-legged trousers, a glamorous top with some embellishment and a classic shift dress mixed and matched for different occasions are all you need to see you through the season. 4. Find items that are easy transitions and classic. For example, we all need a black

Simplicity is the key to looking stylish and sophisticated. 6. You must always feel comfortable in what you are wearing. There’s nothing worse than constantly worrying about adjusting your clothes, or thinking “my shoes are hurting.” This goes for anyone at any age. 7. Try something new and develop your own personal style. Finding out what suits you and what works for your body shape involves a lot of trial and error, so don’t be scared to try different looks. If you are worried about stepping out in a new style here is a tip, take a picture of yourself the night before and send it to a friend or two for their opinion. 8. Experiment with prints. Prints cut on the bias or diagonal are always great. Wear busier prints on more fluid garments and pair with a plain trouser, skirt or shirt to ensure they aren’t too over the top. You want to still have fun with your style and prints are a great way to mix it up.

dress, pants, blouse or skirt. The older we get the harder it is to be motivated to shop or constantly update our styles. Classic pieces help with this often daunting task. 5. Accessories can really change up many styles in your wardrobe, but remember, sometimes less is more. Choose one statement piece of jewelry – necklace or earrings. Too many accessories can look too fussy and over the top. 24

9. Have fun with pops of color! This goes for anyone. If you really want to be bold then do a little color blocking. Color blocking is also great way to hide problem areas. Laura Handey is an independent clothing consultant in Pike Road, Alabama. You may reach her by email at laura@ centsiblysouthern. com or visit her website at www. centsiblysouthern. com.

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City of Auburn 14th Annual Downtown Trick or Treat

October 31, 6:00-8:00pm. Free to the public. Ages 12 years and younger (Parents must accompany children at this event.) Bring your monsters, rock stars, princesses, and clowns to the best party in town. Join us in this excellent alternative to door-to-door trick-or-treating. Downtown “Monster Merchants” will provide treats for the children and delightful sounds from our “special” entertainment will fill the night air. Also, don’t miss out on your chance to win the “Best Costume” contest and bring your favorite four-legged friends and enter them for a chance to win the Best Pet Costume Contest! More information, 501-2930.

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Fall Festival & Children’s Carnival- W. James Samford, Jr. Soccer Complex Sportsplex. October 28, 5:30-8:30pm. Children 12 and under invited. Safe alternative to Trick or Treating. Children wear costumes and bring your treat bags. Come for hayrides, prizes, games, rides and entertainment, inflatable slides, mascots, special booths and exciting events. Fall Treats- October 16. Enjoy making and eating your favorite fall treats. 3:30-4:40pm. Ages: 4-12 yrs. Fee: $15. 705-5560. Halloween Treat Bags-October 28. Make the perfect bag for your treats. 3:30-4:30pm. Ages: 4-12 yrs. Fee: $15. 705-5560. The Great Pumpkin Splash- October 24. 6:008:00pm. $3. Ages 6-12yrs. Pick your pumpkin from the pool! Kids enjoy harvest relay races, pumpkin roll, prizes and more! Call 705-5560 for more info.

9th Annual Howl-oween Costume Contest and Dog Parade

October 31, 5:00 pm: Photos and Canine Trick or Treat. 6:00pm: Costume Parade. Downtown Opelika. For your pet to participate, register at Canine American, 108 South 8th Street, Opelika. A portion of the proceeds will be donated to Rescue K911. 745-0466.

12 Hour Night National Race

October 25, Chewacla State Park, Auburn. www.chainbusterracing.com ; This race consists of multiple loops of a 10-12 mile circuit over a 12 hour period. Participants can choose to race the event solo or as a team of 2 or 4 people. If you race as a team, one team member will be on the course at a time while the other members cheer on their teammate. The object of the race is to cover as much distance as possible over that 12 hour period.

13th Annual Uptown Spooktacular Halloween Festival

October 31, 6:00-8:00 pm. Woodruff Park, Uptown, Columbus, Ga. Sign up for the costume contest which will take place at 6:30 pm and First and Second place winners will be awarded in each category. Spooktacular provides a safe environment for the children of Columbus to enjoy the holiday. So wear your best costume and come to Spooktacular for a haunting night of ghosts and goblins, spooky activities, candy and lots of fun!!!

25th Annual Great Pumpkin Carve

Auburn University School of Architecture and Design, Dudley Court, Campus. TBA. Come out and watch the students carve amazing designs into pumpkins. As night falls, see the pumpkins turn into glowing jack-o-lanterns! Dress the kids up for a costume contest, games, and more! www.facebook. com/AIASAuburn

Auburn Public Library Annual Halloween Family Festival

October 23, 6:00pm. Bring the whole family to visit the haunted library! This event is for children in sixth grade or younger and their families. For more information, please email kcarpenter@auburnalabama.org. Vampire Ball- October 16, 6:30-8:30pm. For teens, ages 13-18. For more information, please email vtemple@auburnalabama.org.

Creepy Wonderful Critters ‘Bats’

The Forest Ecology Preserve, Auburn. www.auburn.edu/preserve; October 11. 10:00am12:00pm. Enjoy a program featuring one of our 25

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Fall Farms Cotton Pickin’ Pumpkin Patch

Lazenby Farm, 11546 Lee Rd. 54, Auburn. 321-7946, www.lazenbyfarm.com; Friday and Saturdays, October 2-31; Fridays and Saturdays,10:00am-6:00pm. Open during the week for field trips. Hayrides, pick a pumpkin/cotton, corn maze, corn crib, pony rides, country store and more. Call to schedule your group, schools, daycare, or parties!

Jack-O-Lantern Lane at The Oaks L.L.C.

18151 Veterans Memorial Parkway, Lafayette, Al. 334-864-0713. www.jackolanternlane.com; Pumpkins, pumpkin patch-pick in the field, tractorpulled hay rides, wagon rides, petting zoo, inflatable park, train rides, gem mining, gift shop, snacks and refreshment stand, face painting, and more. Open September 27-October 31. Friday 12:00-6:00pm; Saturday 9:00am-6:00pm; Sunday 12:00-6:00pm. Also available by reservation Monday-Friday for school, church, daycare field trips and more.

Paradise Pumpkin Patch

910 County Road 79 South, Eufaula, Al. 334-695-2258. www.paradisepumpkinpatch.com; Corn maze, pumpkin patch, sunflower and cotton fields, giant inflatable park, petting zoo, playground, cow train, hay rides, pony rides, covered wagon rides pulled by a team of mules, giant corn box and hay bale mazes, concessions, and gift shop. September 27-November 4. Saturdays 9:00am-6:00pm and Sundays 12:00-6:00 pm. Special event dates and field trips available Monday-Friday. Teacher Day- September 27. All teachers with school ID are free! Free Paradise for Special Children-October 6, 8am4pm. Free field trip for special needs children. Home School Day- October 13, 8am-3pm. www.facebook.com/auburnopelika.parents

The Pumpkin Patch Express Heart of Dixie Railroad Museum Calera, Al. www.hodrrm.org; October 4-5, 11-12, 18-19, 25-26. Train boards and departs Saturdays 10:00am, 1:00pm, and 3:00pm; and Sundays 1:00pm and 3:00pm. Enjoy an autumn train ride aboard the Pumpkin Patch Express that lasts approximately 1 1/2 hours, including our time at the Pumpkin Patch. At the Pumpkin Patch, riders will deboard to enjoy a hayride, jumpstation, coloring, and temporary tatoos (all activities are included in the price of your ticket). Snacks and soft drinks are available for purchase. Pick the perfect pumpkin from the patch for an additional fee. Reservations recommended.

Backyard Orchards

6585 Hwy 431 North, Eufaula, AL. 334-370-6490. U-Pick It Farm with fresh fruits, veggies and pumpkins!

Butts Mill Farm

Pine Mountain, Ga. 706-957-7601. www.buttsmillfarm.com; Pick your own pumpkin, take a hay ride, sip some apple cider, and much more.

Corn Dodgers Farm

1555 Knowles Road, Headland, AL. www.corndodgersfarm.com; Corn field maze, pumpkin barn (pick your own), cow train ride, corn cannon, pony rides, corn box, sunflower path, hay rides, pipe maze, farm-sized tic-tac-toe, and more!

Dream Field Farms

6376 Highway 82, Union Springs, Al. 334-5346976. www.dreamfieldfarms.com; Pumpkin patch-pick in the field, train rides, corn maze, child-sized haybale maze, corn cannon, tractorpulled hay rides, inflatables, gift shop, snacks and refreshment stand, farm animals and more. October1- 31.

Farmer in the Dell Pumpkin Patch

Lee Country Road 61, Auburn. Located 6 miles west of Toomer’s Corner off of Hwy 14 near Loachapoka School. 334-750-3792. Pumpkin patch-

pick in the field, pumpkin patch- already gathered from the field, corn maze, child-sized haybale maze, tractor-pulled hay rides and more.

Pumpkin Patch at The Farmhouse

469 Farmhouse Road, Ellerslie, Georgia. 706-561-3435. Hayrides, bonfires, s’mores, crafts, scarecrow contests, music, and more. Jump on the tractor and take a ride to pick out the perfect pumpkin for your family to carve.

The Pumpkin Patch at Barber Berry Farm

2362 Alabama River Parkway, Millbrook, Al. www.barberberryfarm.com; October 11 -30. Hayride, pumpkin patch, pick your own pesticide-free fruit and veggies.

Arts & Crafts Festival 5th Annual Riverwalk Wine Festival

Riverwalk Park, Montgomery www.funinmontgomery.com; October 11, 2:005:00pm. Includes wine tasting from 10 different distributors representing over 100 wineries. Admission is $25 per person and will include: Etched commemorative wine glass, discounted wine purchases from participating local wine shoppes, food vendors, live music, picnic baskets and coolers are welcome, and more!

19th Annual Arts on the River

1100 Block of Broadway, Columbus, Ga. October 18. 10:00am-5:00pm. The fine art show and sale includes paint, photography, hand-thrown pottery, and sculpture, with some artists performing live demonstrations. Free.

22nd Annual Alabama Cotton Festival October 11. 8:00am-til. Eclectic, Al. Arts and crafts, flea market items, concession- booth spaces are free. 5K Cotton Run, Alabama Rook Tournament, local talent contest, children’s activities, antique cars and tractors, appearance by Ricky Stenhouse Jr’s #17 car, performances by Josh Brannon Band and Nashville duo The Springs and more.

24th Annual Christmas Made in the South

Columbus Convention & Trade Center, Ga. www.madeinthesouthshows.com; October 31-November 2. Amazing crafts people, outstanding art, unique gourmet food, and diverse entertainment to whet and satisfy every demanding appetite. Handmade, one-of-a-kind designs populate the booths that fill the festival: silk wearables to fabric bags, glass jewelry to close-up photography of nature’s funniest and fiercest creatures all await and more! Adults $7.00, Children 12 & under-Free; admission good for all 3 days.

34th Annual Oktoberfest

Charles E. Bailey, Sr. Sportplex, Alexander City, AL. www.alexandercityonline.com; October TBA. Daylong celebration features local arts and crafts, great food, entertainment, Kid-Fest children’s activities, sports programs, antique car show and much more. A Native American Artifact show is our newest showcase.

36th Annual Alabama Tale Tellin’ Festival Presented by ArtsRevive

3 Church Street, Selma, Al. www.artsrevive.com; October 10-11. 5:30 p.m. The performers this year are Suzi “Mama” Whaples, Lyn Ford, Michael Reno Harrell and The Dill Pickers. Art show, StreetFest, Ballet, Market Day, Pilgrimage and more!

43rd Annual Harvest Day Festival

Headland, Al. www.headlandal.com; October 11. 9am-4pm. Arts and crafts, children’s games and rides, wonderful food and entertainment.

43rd Annual National Shrimp Festival

Gulf Shores, Al. October 9-12. Over 300 vendors that offer fine art, arts and crafts, a retail marketplace and of course, SHRIMP!!

43rd Annual Historical Fair and Syrup Sopping Day

Loachapoka, Al. www.syrupsopping.org; October 18. 6:00am-4:00pm. Weaving and cloth-making demonstrations, musical entertainment featuring hammered and mountain dulcimers, banjos and guitars, a doctor’s beautiful herb garden and crops

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48th Annual Pike Road Arts & Crafts Fair

Historic Marks House, Pike Road, Al. www.pikeroadartsandcraftsfair.com; November 1, 9:00am-4:00pm. Shop the arts and crafts and eat BBQ, sweets, and more! Special activities for the children too- face painting, a tour of the Pike Road Fire Department’s Mobile Fire Safety House and free “make and take” crafts will be provided by Home Depot.

51st Annual Bluff Park Art Show

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Bluff Park Community Center, 517 Cloudland Dr. Hoover, Al. www.bluffparkartassociation.org; October 1. 9:00am-5:00pm. Sponsored by the Bluff Park Art Association and includes more than 130 local and national artists displaying fine art for sale. Bring the kids to enjoy some hands on art fun. Free admission, parking and shuttles.

58th Annual Central Alabama Fair

Lion’s Fair Park, 2401 W. Dallas Ave. Selma, Al. www.centralalabamafair.com; September 29-October 1. Fun-filled event offering a midway with rides, entertainment, beauty pageant, agricultural exhibits, livestock judging and a competition for local arts, crafts, canning, sewing, and more!

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60th Annual Cullman County Fair

www.cullmancountyfair.org; September 25-October 4. Thrilling rides, amazing exhibits, and the best in local and regional entertainment.

67th Annual Lee County Fair

US 431 near Opelika High. 334-749-3353. October. Livestock shows, contests, exhibits, pageants, rides and much more.

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71st Annual National Peanut Festival

5622 U.S. Hwy. 231 S., Dothan, Al. www.nationalpeanutfestival.com; October 31-November 9. Headliners The Pointer Sister, Sanctus Real, Josh Wilson, and Thomas Rhett. Livestock exhibits, competitions, demolition derby, crafts, food preservation, recipe contests, entertainment, carnival rides, sea lion show, and much more!

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Alabama Gourd Festival

Cullman Civic Center. www.alabamagourdsociety. org; October 18-19. ‘Gourds Take Flight. Annual festival features gourd arts and crafts, such as birdhouses, musical instruments and decorated gourds. Dulcimer band performs.

Alabama National Fair

Garret Coliseum, Montgomery, Al. www.alnationalfair.org; October 3-13. Midway rides, main stage entertainment including STYX, Kool & The Gang, Easton Corbin and Joe Nichols, food, information and commercial booths, kids area, livestock and other competition, family faith day, and more!

Alexander City Fall Festival

Russell Crossroads, Alexander City, Al. www.russelllandsonlakemartin.com; October 25. 27

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Join friends and neighbors for pumpkin painting, a costume contest, wagon rides and more, courtesy of Russell Lands on Lake Martin.

Boll Weevil Festival

Enterprise, Al. www.enterprisedowntown.org; October 18. Arts and crafts vendors, variety of music, food, children’s costume contest and activities, farmers market, car show, family entertainment.

Christmas Village Festival

Jefferson Convention Complex, Birmingham. www.christmasvillagefestival.com; November 5-9. The largest indoor arts, crafts, and gifts show in the south, this show draws exhibitors from over 30 states with products like clothing, jewelry, food, decorations and much, much more.

Cotton Pickin’ County Fair

Gay, Ga. www.cpfair.org; October 4-5. Return to 1910 where the Farmhouse, the Cotton Gin, and the Cotton Warehouse form a unique backdrop for a great day of 21st century fun. Amidst skilled artisans and antique specialists, the Fair shares remnants of farm life in days gone by. New talent keeps the festival fresh and interesting while returning artists welcome loyal customers seeking to add to individual collections.

Fall Farm Day & Festival

Landmark Park, Dothan. www.landmarkpark.com; October 25. Learn how peanuts were harvested in the Wiregrass a half-century ago. Enjoy the sights, sounds and smells of cane grinding, syrup making, butter churning, basket weaving, soap making and other traditional farm activities. Plus, food, music and antique tractors and farm equipment

Harvest Hoe Down

Warm Springs, Ga. www.warmspringsga.us; October 11-12. Enjoy this fall celebration with arts, crafts, good food, entertainment and more!

Hummingbird Festival

Hogansville, Ga. www.hummingbirdfestival.com; October 18-19. Main Street will be bustling with food, crafts, antiques, music, local artists, open storefronts, rides, and activities for the whole family.

Indian Summer Arts & Crafts Festival

Historic District- Eufaula, Al. www.eufaulachamber. com; October 11-12. Fine arts and handmade crafts, children’s activities, live entertainment and more.

Merry Market

Callaway Conference Center, Campus of West Georgia Technical College, LaGrange, Ga. www.merrymarketlagrange.com; October 23-24. Thursday: Preview Party and Silent Auction: Enjoy this kick-off event and first chance to buy a variety of items. Your ticket $25 includes food, beverages, music and admission to the market for the entire time the market is open! Friday-Saturday: General Admission tickets $5.

Montgomery Jr. League’s Holiday Market

Renaissance Hotel, Montgomery. www.jlmontgomery.com; October 16-18. Start the Winter Holiday Season off right with shopping the Jr. League’s Market. Each year, holiday themed booths set up for a great, one-stop-shop for all your Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Years items.

Oktoberfest at Wind Creek State Park

October 18-19, www.outdooralabama.com; Part of the 75th Anniversary of the State Park System, Oktoberfest celebrates the season with pumpkin carving, a carnival, a projected 2-mile run through the park and so much more!

Ole Chipley Town Fair

Pine Mountain, Ga. www.pinemountain.org; September 27. Join the crowd of Pine Mountain and enjoy local crafts, quilting, pottery, metalwork, woodwork, food and entertainment.Spend the day strolling down Pine Mountain’s picturesque streets or shopping in downtown Pine Mountain’s and Chipley Village’s shopping centers, each filled with unique shops and boutiques. You’ll find it all—from antiques to fine art to handcrafted birdhouses and other momentos.

Peanut Butter Festival

Brundidge, Al. www.piddle.org; October 25-26. A harvest and heritage celebration honoring the

town’s proud heritage in the peanut butter industry. The free for all festival features a 5-K Peanut Butter Run, non-stop entertainment, contests, games, exhibits, recipe contest, Peanut Butter Kids Contest and the Nutter Butter Parade and food galore including everything peanut butter.

Pioneer Days

Pioneer Museum of Alabama, Troy, Al. www.pioneer-museum.org; October 10-11, 9:00am-5:00pm. Horse and wagon rides, trips on the Pioneer Express, Native American camps with demonstrations of candlemaking, spinning, weaving, quiltmaking, blacksmithing, drum, dance, etc. Friday is School Day.

Spinners 33nd Annual “Pumpkin Patch” Arts & Crafts Show

Spinners Park, Prattville, Al. www.spinnersprattville. com; October 25-26. Exhibitors of original art and crafts from throughout the southeast will display their wares. Food vendors, live entertainment, games, a coloring contest and many other activities for children and youth. Door prizes will be given at intervals during the show. Other events include The Great Pumpkin Race, a 5K/8K Race and a one mile Run/Walk, a motorcycle show, jack-o-lantern contest and more. Free admission and free parking.

Stone Mountain Park 11th Annual Pumpkin Festival

September 26-October 26. Take in all of the splendor that autumn provides with attractions, fun-filled games, shows and more. Follow the life sized telling of The Legend of Spookley the Square Pumpkin as you wind your way through Spookley’s A-MAZEING Adventure. Join Spookley the Square Pumpkin and lift his friends into the air for a Dance-A-Long Party Parade that dances through Crossroads, and then meet him at Spookley’s Pumpkin Patch Meet & Greet. Country Living Fair- October 24-16. A fun, folksy and fabulous show and sale of folk art, antiques, “Made in America” crafts, art, furniture, home decor and more. Meet the editors of Country Living Magazine, attend seminars and how-to’s, artisan demonstrations, Harvest & Gourmet Market, and fall festivities.

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Indian Festival and Pow-Wow- October 30-November 2. Held at Stone Mountain Park’s historic Antebellum Plantation, the event showcases Native American culture through dance, music, authentic craft demonstrations, cooking traditions, storytelling, wildlife presentations and more. Events held at Stone Mountain Park in Georgia. Visit www. stonemountianpark.com.

The Greater Columbus Fair

Columbus Civic Center, Columbus, Ga. www.columbusciviccenter.org; Oct 14-19. Celebrate the beginning of autumn in the Chattahoochee Valley. Food, rides, games, pageant and more!

Westville’s Fall Festival

9294 Singer Pond Rd., Lumpkin, Ga. October 30-November 1. 10:00am-5:00pm. Come visit us at Westville as we take care of Autumn chores and have fun while we’re doing it!

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All Saints Fair

Lakeview Baptist Church, Auburn. 1600 East Glenn Avenue. www.lakeviewbaptist.org; October 31; 5:00-7:00 pm. Safe, family fun alternative to trick-or-treating; everyone welcome. Games include train, gladiator joust, gyro, horse and wagon, go fish, soccer kick, ring toss, bowling, inflatables and more! Lots of games, prizes and candy! Tickets children 0-12 years old- $3.00 fee includes hot dog supper, games and prizes. Or, $10.00 max per family. Individual Teen- Adult-$1.00 hot dog supper fee. Come dressed up, but please avoid goulish costumes.

Cornerstone Church Truck-or-Treat

Lee-Scott Academy, 1601 Academy Drive, Auburn. www.cornerstonebuzz.org; October 26, 4:00-6:00pm.

Fall On the Farm Festival

Providence Baptist Church, 2807 Lee Road 166, Opelika. October 18, time TBD. Activities include Games, Face Painting, Fish Pond, Cake Walk and much more. www.providencealive.com

Parkway Baptist Church Fall Festival

766 E. University Drive, Auburn. 887-3782. October 39. 6:00pm. Free to the community. Come dressed in costume to play carnival games and win prizes, visit the petting zoo, and much more!

Costume Shopping Check It Out!

239 North Gay Street, Auburn. 826-0803. www.check-it-outballoons.com

Kids Clothes Connection

3700 Pepperell Pkwy, Opelika (next to Goodwill). Gently used children’s costumes available. www. kidsclothesconnection.com

Party City

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Out of Town / State Fun The Columbus MuseumFall Festival

1251 Wynnton Rd, Columbus, Ga. www.columbusmuseum.com; October 25. 10:00am-3:00pm. Free! Create five awesome animal projects, animal scavenger hunt, games and prizes, movies and more! Dress up for the Crazy Creature Costume Contest: Ages 0-4-11 am; Ages 5-7- 12 pm. Ages 8-10- 1 pm.

Zoo Boo: Montgomery Zoo

www.montgomeryzoo.com; October 16-19, 2326, 29-31. 6:00-9:00pm. A safe alternative to Halloween, ZooBoo provides a fun-filled evening of games, treats, and costumed characters, Enjoy education presentations, and the traditional haunted ride.

4th Annual Atlanta’s Day of the Dead

(Dia de los Muertos)-Atlantic Station in Midtown, Atlanta. www.atlantadayofthedead.com; November 1-2. 12:00-5:00pm. A traditional Mexican celebration that remembers the life of family members and friends who have passed away. Altars are built in their honor, that include photos of the loved one, food they enjoyed, activities they participated in, and other special items. Free.

4th Annual Track-or-Treat: Chris Patterson Memorial 5K

Chattahoochee Valley Community College. Oc-

tober 25. 8:00am. $20 before race $25 day of. Come dressed in your most creative Halloween costume and get ready to run! Awards given to top male and female runners and awards given to best costumes. All race proceeds benefit the Chris Patterson Student Support Fund, a scholarship fund designated to aid deserving CVCC students. laurenlpatterson@gmail.com.

23rd Annual Halloween Fairyland

Tannehill State Park. www.tannehill.org; October 25. The Tannehill Halloween Festival, a nonscary fun-filled holiday event focused on the campgrounds, annually attracts over 6,000 visitors, most of them children. Begun in 1992, the event features park-sponsored programs during the afternoon and traditional Halloween candy “trick or treat” stops at more than 200 campsites during the evening. Park events include a moon walk, clowns, face painting, pony rides and sand art. A special tradition is the festival’s annual Halloween Festival tee shirt. Campground site decorations and lights are extensive, creative and surreal.

28th Annual Indian Summer Arts and Crafts Festival Eufaula, Al. www.eufaulachamber.com; October 11-12. The district will be lined with handmade arts art crafts, perfect for the home, garden or holiday gift giving. Food and all types of games and activities featured.

29th Annual Tour of Southern Ghosts Antebellum Plantation, Stone Mountain, Ga. www.stonemountainpark.com; October 10-26

(Thurday-Sunday). Meet professional storytellers spinning their tales of famous (and not-sofamous) Southern Ghosts along the lantern-lit paths of the Antebellum Plantation groundsnever too frightening and always appropriate for young children. Each night offers a different cast of six storytellers.

Alabama Shakespeare Festival presents ‘Dracula’ Alabama Shakespeare Festival, Montgomery. www.asf.net; October30 and November 1-2. www.alabamadancetheatre.com

Baumhowers ShrimpFest & Bar-B-Q

Oak Mountain State Park, Pelham, Al. www.alshrimpfests.com; Features fresh Alabama Gulf Coast shrimp, barbecue, former Alabama and Auburn football players, live music and inflatables for the kids.

BOO 18 Halloween Party ‘Monsters Inc’ Benefiting the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society of Alabama

B & A Warehouse, Birmingham, Al. www.boohalloweenparty.com; October 31. 8:00pm. Live music, ‘Scary’-oke singing, costume contest and more. Open to adults 21 yrs and older.

Fall Family Fun Days- The Rock Ranch

The Rock, Ga. www.therockranch.com; September 27-November 15. Open 10:00am8:00pm each Saturday, guests will enjoy themed entertainment plus Train Rides, Hay Rides, a

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Petting Zoo, Zip Lines, Pony Rides, the Pumpkin Cannon, Tiny Town and much more! Hats Off To Heroes- September 27. Lumberjack Day-October 4. Featuring collegiate Timbersports competition. Day of the Cowboy- October 11. Hot Air Balloon Rally- October 18. The ‘Not-So-Spooky’ Halloween Festival- Oct. 25. Pumpkin Destruction Day- November 1. The Great Outdoor Adventure- November 8. Farm Heritage Day featuring Bob and Larry of VeggieTales- November 15.

Fields of Fear Haunted Hayride

Freeman Rd, off Highway 49N, Dadeville, Al. www.eaglecreekhayride.com; October 3, 4, 10, and 11. 7:30-11:30pm.What really lurks in the deep hollows of the woods in Central Alabama? On your tour, bring someone you can hold tight because when you dare to venture down the Fields of Fear Hayride, the last thing you want is to be alone.

Ghosts on the Mountain Spookapalooza

DeSoto State Park. www.DesotoCarvernsPark. com; October 31. FREE spooky storytelling & fun events guaranteed to run shivers up and down your spine! A spooky night of storytelling, costumes, treats, & more with storyteller Renee Morrison & her story-tellin’ aunt Jenny Whitman.

Great Pumpkin Roll

Alexander City, Al. 256-329-9227. October 25. 3:00-5:00pm. Free. Bring your own pumpkin or get one at the Farmer’s Market. Rolling begins at the top of Alabama Street at Strand Park.

Harvest Time at Old Alabama Town

Montgomery. www.oldalabamatown.com; October 1-31. Come down to Old Alabama Town as we feature Harvest Time in the 1800’s. Join us for tours of the cotton gin and grist mill, and get a firsthand look at farming in the 19th century. Individual self-guided tours offered Monday through Saturday from 9:00am-3:00pm. Guided tours available by reservation only, for groups of 10 or more.

Haunted History Tours

Old Cahawba, Sturdivant Hall, Old Live Oak Cemetery, Selma, Al. www.selmaalabama.com; October 17, 18, & 25. On Friday and Saturday nights, 7:00-10:30pm, join Central Alabama Paranormal Investigation on an investigation of Old Cahawba. The past will come back to haunt you as we tour magnificent antebellum Sturdivant Hall and some “spirited” characters of Old Live Oak Cemetery. On Saturday, take a walking ghost tour of old cemetery and historic homes.

Haunting on the Harriott II

Riverwalk, Montgomery, October 25. (334) 625-2100. Boarding at 8:00pm, Cruises time 8:30-10:30pm. Tickets $25/Adult, Ages 21 and over only. Live entertainment, Cash Bar, Costume Contest with prizes and more!

Hogansville House of Horror

Royal Theatre, Hogansville, Ga. www.hauntedhogansville.com; October 19, 25-26, 31. 7:00-9:00pm. The Old Royal Theater 31

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Judgement Journey 2014

552 Hammett Road, LaGrange, Ga. www.judgementjourney.com; October 3-4, 1011, 17-18, 24-25, 31, November 1. A ministry of Faith Baptist Church, Judgement Journey was started in 1997 as a method of presenting the events of the end of the world, as the Bible describes them. The vision was to present various ‘scenes’ where each person could experience a multi-sensory presentation of how the Bible describes what is yet to come. The event is held each year on the church campus on a ‘trail’ that meanders around the property.

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Pope’s Haunted Farm

450 Lee Rd 724,Salem, Al. 706-566-7766. www.popeshayride.com; October 4, 1011, 17-18, 30-31 and November 1. New! Zombie Paintball Safari. Pope’s Haunted Farm has three different events to experience and scare you. The Haunted Barn made as a mock of the Saw movies, the Haunted Hayride that many have claimed to see the infamous evil specter Jasper, and lastly you can experience the Haunted Forest that’s an unguided tour that includes a graveyard deep in the woods.

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The Rocky Horror Show

Newnan Theatre Company, Newnan, Ga. www.newnantheatre.org; October 23-November 2. Frank N. Furter and his motley crew are doing the time warp once again! A humorous tribute to the science fiction and horror Bmovies of the late 1940s through early 1970s, the musical tells the story of a newly engaged couple getting caught in a storm and coming to the home of a mad transvestite scientist unveiling his new creation, a muscle man named Rocky Horror. This deliberately kitschy rock ‘n’ roll sci-fi gothic madness has been entertaining audiences since 1974, and is as much fun as ever!

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Oak Mountain State Park, Pelham. 205-6637930, Ext. 4. October 29. Features children’s activities, wildlife presentations and educational programs. Free after paid admission to park.

Scott and Zelda Fitzgerald Museum, Montgomery. www.fitzgeraldmuseum.net; October 31. 6-10pm. Featuring a night of music and mayhem.

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When things in our lives trigger a funk, a fit of pique or simply a sulk, it’s hard for all of us to reassess, decompress and move past a bad mood. Kids are especially sensitive to the moments that set them off. The lost toy, the change in plans, the dropped ice cream – a child’s day is filled with moments that can ignite a turn for the worse. Children are not typically well-equipped with the patience and clarity to work through the issue that’s troubling them. And the result is often melt-downs, tantrums or a general mad-at-the-world posture that friends and family simply have to endure until it passes. The following titles explore in lighthearted ways the things that can spark a bad mood along with suggestions and solutions that may help kids power through the mad moments and bounce back with a new attitude!

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by Zachariah Ohora (Dial / Penguin) Amelia and Nilson do everything together. Every moment in their day is shared and it’s usually a fun adventure …until something goes wrong. The accidental bump that destroys his block tower, the shoes that don’t fit, or waiting in the long line at the post office can all trigger a raging fit from Nilson. Luckily, Amelia and her mother are really good at talking Nilson through his frustrations, providing distractions and reminding him of the benefits of being patient. Their mantra “No fits, Nilson!” lowers the temperature and helps him control his anger. But when one final obstacle emerges to disappoint Amelia, Nilson will have to step in with a solution that calms Amelia down before she has her own fit. With a calming voice (and a final page that will delight readers), “No Fits, Nilson!” offers gentle reminders that frustrations are temporary and patience has big rewards.

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by Oliver Jeffers (Philomel / Penguin) The Hueys typically get along with each other very well. But when a regular conversation takes a wrong turn, their amiable talk quickly devolves into an argument. Their friend, Gillespie, happens upon the quarrelsome group asking what’s wrong, and he is met with a chorus of “It wasn’t me!”, “He started it!” and more from the Hueys, all disavowing the source of their discontent. Gillespie’s position as an outsider allows him to become the voice of reason as he helps them try to remember the root of their disagreement. As cool heads prevail (and a fascinating distraction appears) the argument falls away as unimportant and the Hueys reconnect through their shared interest. Jeffers’ adorable simply-rendered characters present a subtle and positive message that supports finding a peaceful perspective when tempers flare.

Olive and the Bad Mood

by Tor Freeman (Templar / Candlewick) When Olive’s good mood is ruined by a tumble over her loose shoestring, the chain of events that follow illustrates how a bad mood can become contagious. Cloaked in her anger, Olive stomps past her best friends who each greet her cheerfully. She responds rudely to each friend’s overture, with insults and snarky comments that leave them sinking into moods of their own. Once Olive finally finds something that makes her happy, she snaps out of her funk and returns to share her good fortune with her friends. But now they’ve caught her bad mood and it’s up to Olive to bring them back around. A precious cautionary tale, this title illustrates how a bad attitude can spread, and worse, come back home to roost.

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Worried your child’s Academy Award-worthy outbursts might earn her the tiara for neighborhood drama queen? Both boys and girls go through phases where they struggle with controlling their emotions. For a child, who is emotionally intense by nature, mindful parenting techniques can help her learn boundaries without repressing her feisty personality. In her book Raising Your Spirited Child, author Mary Sheedy Kurcinka says intensity “is the invisible punch that makes every response of the spirited child immediate and strong. Managed well, intensity allows spirited children a depth and delight of emotion rarely experienced by others.” Auburn Opelika Parents I October 2014

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Find happy mediums An overly-sensitive child may imagine worst-case scenarios or inflate situations with friends. Point out when she may be over-reacting to a situation. Also, make her aware when her fears weren’t realized. “You were so upset and worried about the math test, but because of your hard work and persistence, you aced it.”

Artful exuberance The performing arts provide an appropriate outlet for dramatic children to exercise their expressive personalities. And, relax if your child wants to wear yellow leggings and a bright blue, polka-dotted sweater paired with purple snow boots. As long as she makes choices with respect to your family’s values and the school dress code, her non-conformist fashion sense is a harmless outlet for her creativity.

Set clear rules Spirited kids will push, pull and negotiate, seeking weakness in rules. Articu-

late the rules in your home and consistently enforce them.

Playful expression Create space each day for your child to engage in unstructured activities. Through play he can decompress, engage his imagination, and process feelings.

Teach resilience Acknowledge your child’s feelings, but avoid over-reacting. Listen, empathize, and ask your child how she could solve the problem. If there’s no real solution, rather than feeding the drama by oversympathizing with your child, calmly respond, “Oh well. That happens some times.”

Soothing time alone A calendar crammed with too many activities and play dates can set any child up for meltdowns. Set aside 30 minutes or more of quiet time during the day for reading, playing alone, or engaging in a creative endeavor. If your child

has trouble starting off on a project on his own, put together an “Imagination Bucket” filled with art supplies, textured materials like play-dough, pipe cleaners, puffy stickers and ribbons.

Note outside influences Does your child seem especially moody and negative after being around a particular group of kids? Encourage your child to seek positive, upbeat friends who inspire self-confidence. In turn, guide your child toward being a caring friend to others.

Manage your drama Exemplify calming, positive ways to manage your moods by counting out loud, deep breathing techniques or stepping away from an emotional situation by taking a short time-out. “If the family dynamic is dramatic and volatile, the child, even as a baby, can absorb this as their norm of behaving,” says Lisa Bahar, a licensed family therapist and clinical counselor. “This generally comes with issues not being resolved,

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arguments that escalate to yelling and difficulty maintaining emotions.”

Tap positive media Read books, watch movies and TV shows, and attend live performances together that feature children who may be dramatic in nature, but don’t act like divas. Check out Olivia by Ian Falconer, a popular young children’s book series about a pig with a penchant for drama. Bahar recommends Disney films that “encourage the innocence of life” such as Miracle on 34th Street,

E.T., and Fantasia.

Accept your child’s individuality Understand that your child may just need to process his or her feelings in a more intense way. “Keep tissues on hand and don’t shame them for using them,” says one mom of a dramatic10-year-old. “Don’t let other people shame them either. Accept more frequent tears as part of who they are and crying won’t become problematic. My daughter always feels better after she cries. She processes her feelings faster than anyone I know!” AOP Freelance journalist Christa Melnyk Hines is the mom of two active, sometimes melodramatic, boys.

The label is laced with negative connotation, but what is a so-called drama queen? “I would define a child drama queen as one who needs excessive amounts of attention in order to feel in control,” Bahar says. “Keep in tune with a child that tends to change peers consistently, dresses provocatively, has older friends, possibly experiments with substances, has intense emotional relationships and is territorial with peers.” A family move, unpredictable or inconsistent boundaries, or a major upheaval in the family environment can trigger overly-dramatic behavior or extreme reactions. “The child finds that they are unable to cope effectively with the stressors and reacts...with volatile behavior, screaming (and) crying uncontrollably to get what they want,” Bahar says. Consult with your pediatrician or child psychologist if your child is unable to cope, isolates herself, or engages in self-destructive behaviors like promiscuity, substance abuse or eating disorders.

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Best Bets for Bath Time

Recommending the Best Toys and Products for Kids

Announcing bath time for your kids can be an easy sell or the fight of your life. Trying to convince them it’s a good deal purely from a hygiene stance doesn’t always work. Finding water-friendly toys and activities that make bathing fun and entertaining is your best ally to get children out of their clothes and into the water. The following items have fantastic aquatic appeal for both wee bathers and the tub supervisors looking for a clean bath time experience!

by Gerry Paige Smith

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(Moluk) From the creators of the wildly popular and versatile Bilbo, the Plui is an entrancing tub toy that‘s a guaranteed hit for kids. Submerge the Plui and it fills with water through the hole in the top. Placing a finger over the hole prevents the water from sprinkling out through the small nozzles on the bottom as it’s lifted up. It offers a subtle lesson in aquatic principles as kids control the flow of water allowed to ‘rain’ from the bottom of the Plui. With simplicity of design that belies its entertainment and educational value, the Plui will keep young bathers happy in the tub until the water is cold!

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The best of land and sea combine in Green Toys’ Ferry Boat! Complete with two fast-back mini cars, and modeled after real two-story car-carrying vessel, the Ferry Boat has an adjustable sliding ramp for boarding and off-loading cars and cargo. With realistic design features, it’s seaworthy for bath play and ideal for land action as well. Constructed from 100% recycled milk jugs, the Ferry Boat with Mini Cars is also an environmentally sound bath toy choice that’s durable, buoyant and dishwasher-safe!

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A tub full of toys is the mark of bath time enjoyed, but all good times come to an end. And all those soggy toys need to find a new home, high and dry, until they’re called back into action. With counter space at a premium and under cabinet storage raising the risk of mildew, the Super Scoop is a quick, easy and sensible toy storage solution. Simply drag the large mouth of the Scoop through the water and the mesh fabric collects the toys above and below the surface. A push-lock suction cup that mounts easily on fiberglass tubs provides the anchor to hang the Super Scoop where toys can air dry until the next bath time. It’s a clean winner for tub time!

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Creativity doesn’t have to stop just because the water’s rising. Floating WonderBlocks offer kids the resources to design and build their own wonders on top of the water. With 16 blocks in a variety of shapes and sizes, (and two duckies!) the WonderBlocks set also includes a mat that serves as the floating foundation for the edifices that will arise upon the waves. Crafted with sturdy, lightweight EVA foam the blocks can stick to most tub sides with simple water tension, adding another dimension to bath time design. For the little bather who’s ready to build, Floating WonderBlocks carries construction projects forward in the tub!

Paige Smith is a freelance writer and syndicated columnist living in Alabama. More on GET THIS! at www.PageBookMedia.com.

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Family Calendar Ongoing:

A2Z Local Homeschooler’s Association For homeschooling families in the Auburn/Opelika Lee County area of Alabama. A2Z Loop is an all-inclusive support group open to all homeschool families in the Auburn/Opelika area regardless of differences in beliefs, cultures, nationality, race, religion, or method of home schooling. For more information call 334-7281162 or email: momofpnk@gmail.com. Alabama Mentor’s Foster Parent Training Classes Offered in the Opelika Auburn area. Call 334-705-8877 x 18 to register or email: Deanna.Hand@thementornetwork.com. Alabama National Fair Garrett Coliseum, Montgomery. Oct. 3 - 12. www.alnationalfair.com. Alabama Shakespeare Festival Alabama Shakespeare Festival, Montgomery. www.asf.net. Bosom Buddies (a breast cancer support group) Meets at The Health Resource Center the first Thursday of the month at 6 p.m. (334) 528-1260. www.eamc.org. Chick-fil-A Family Night at Tigertown Every Thursday night. Cloverdale Playhouse “Crimes of the Heart”. Montgomery. Oct. 23 - Nov. 2. www. cloverdaleplayhouse.org. DeSoto Caverns Park DeSoto Caverns Park, Childersburg. www.desotocavernspark.com. Discovery Hikes Explore the preserve and learn something new each month about plants, wildlife and nature with a trained naturalist who will offer your family fun opportunities for hands-on learning, exploration, and exercise! Discovery Hikes are offered the second Tuesday of each month from 3:30 – 4:30 p.m. For families with children ages 5 to 12. Free admission. Donations welcomed. Cancelled in the event of rain. Forest Ecology Preserve & Nature Center is located at 2222 N. College Street, Auburn, and is just north of the AU Fisheries complex. East Alabama Birth Village 3rd Monday of each month. Monarch Estates, Auburn. 6 p.m. www.birthvillageclass.com Expressions of a BraveHeart Program A fine arts program for teens and young adults with special needs (ages 11–21), sponsored by Opelika Parks and Recreation, utilizing Auburn University faculty and students, as well as community volunteers. Two 30-minute sessions of art, dance/creative movement and music will be offered and participants will select 2 of the 3 classes. Expressions meets every 2nd and 4th Monday twice a month for 1.5 hours. Opelika Sportsplex, 334.705.5560. www.opelikasportsplex.com. Family Theatre presents “The Velveteen Rabbit” Sept 20-27. www.familytheatre.org. Frank Jackson State Park. Friday on the Green Town Green at Russell Crossroads. Alexander City. Through August 29. Facebook. Greater Columbus Fair Oct. 14 - 19, Columbus Civic Center, Ga. www. columbusciviccenter.org. Jan Dempsey Community Arts Center • Art Gallery Fall 2014 Exhibition: Diptychs. Through Oct. 10. • Photo XVI Juried Exhibition. Oct. 15 - Nov. 21. Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art • Matt Moulthrop: Auburn Oak and Heartwood: Woodturned Vessels by Ed, Philip, and Matt Moulthrop. Through Sept. 21. • Picturing An Era: Art from the Great Depression to the Second World War. Through Sept. 21. • John Augustus Walker’s Historical Panorama of Alabama Agriculture. Through Sept. 21. • Rembrandt, Rubens, Gainsborough, and the Golden Age of Painting in Europe. Oct. 19 - Jan. 4, 2015. Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Lee County Parents of Chinese Children helps children understand, see and grow up with other

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families that look like their family (white parents/Asian child). The group is 100% free! We try to eat out at Asian establishments monthly and have playdates. Families that are waiting to adopt are welcome! We accept any families with adopted children from all Asian countries. Contact Melody at mmhilyer@bellsouth.net for more information. McWane Science Center • “Island of the Lemurs Madagascar” IMAX. Through January 2015. Birmingham. www.mcwane.org. Meditation Garden and Labyrinth Come and Find the Quiet Center... in the Meditation Garden and Labyrinth, provided as a community service by Village Christian Church, 700 East University Drive, (across from Auburn Early Ed.). 334-887-5111. Try the practice of walking meditation or simply sit and enjoy the sights and sounds. The garden and labyrinth are always open and guests are always welcome. National Peanut Festival 71st Annual National Peanut Festival. National Peanut Festival Fairgrounds, Dothan. Oct. 31 - Nov. 9. www.nationalpeanutfestival.com Newnan Theatre Company • “The Gin Game.” Sept. 25 - Oct. 5. • “The Rocky Horror Show.” Oct. 23 - Nov. 2. Newnan Theatre Company, GA. www.newnantheatre.org. Old Alabama Town Harvest Time & Tavern Fest at Old Alabama Town. Oct. 1 - 31. www.oldalabamatown.com. Opelika-Auburn Newcomers Club A club for new women in town which offers fun social activities, meets for lunch on the 3rd Thursday of every month. Call Joan at 501-4974. Scarecrows in the Park Opp. Oct. 1 - Nov. 9. www.alapark.com/FrankJackson/. Springer Opera House • “Shrek: The Musical.” Sept. 18-Oct. 4. • “Rock Legends.” Oct. 16 - 26. Columbus. www.springeroperahouse.org. Virginia Samford Theatre Virginia Samford Theatre, Birmingham. www.virginiasamfordtheatre.org.

Parents Support & Moms Groups

Auburn Mommies, a fun group of moms in the Auburn/Opelika area that meet weekly for playgroups and Mommy and Me walking twice a week. We also have a Mommies Night Out once a month. Http:// groups.yahoo.com/group/auburnmommiesinalabama/. Auburn Mommy and Me Big Dog Running Co, Auburn. 10–11 a.m. Social time, story time, music/movement, arts & crafts. Ages 9 months–3 years. Free! 334-209-2580. Auburn MOPS 1st Wednesday of each month, September-May. 9–11:30 a.m. Trinity United Methodist Church, Opelika. Meetings open to moms with preschool children ages 5 years and under. $5 per meeting; childcare $5 per child. $25 yearly membership dues. Weekly playdates, monthly moms night out, resources, and more. www.facebook.com/ AuburnOpelikaMOPS; AUMOPS@yahoo.com. Breast Feeding class meets the second Saturday of each month from 10 a.m. to noon on EAMC’s third floor. Call 528-1260 to register. La Leche League, a support group for nursing moms, meets the 2nd Monday of each month at 6:30 p.m. @ CORNERSTONE Family Chiropractic, Airport Plaza, 323 Airport Road Suite E, Auburn. For more information call Josie at 257-3950. Parent Educational Workshops 2nd Tuesday of each month, 6:00-7:30 pm at Trinity United Methodist Church, 800 2nd Avenue, Opelika. 1st Monday (unless national holiday) - Parent Support Group 9:00-11:00 am. Locations varies so check www. leecountyautism.com for complete information. Contact Information for officers: gutierrezmat@hotmail.com,

ldsquiers@hotmail.com, ware.allison@yahoo.com, lksquiers@aol.com. Main Street Farmer’s Market June 14-October 25. Broad Street, Alexander City. 256-329-9227. MOMS Club of Auburn, a group of stay-at-home moms that meets about twice a week to provide support for each other and fun interaction for kids. New website is www.auburnmoms.com. Moms In Touch. Do you worry about your children? Come experience how you can replace your anxiety and fear with peace and hope by praying with other moms. Moms In Touch International gathers moms together for one hour, once a week, to pray specifically and scripturally for our children and school. Won’t you join with us in prayer for this next generation? Please contact Julia Farrow at julia@cornerstonebuzz. org for information about our local groups. For more information about Moms In Touch International, visit www.MomsInTouch.org. Single Moms Outreach of East Alabama Single Moms Outreach of East Alabama offers 2nd Saturdays, group classes, and more. Contact Penny Messer at 334-444-6827. Email smoea@bellsouth. net. Website www.smoea.vpweb.com or find us on facebook. Teen Moms (for moms under 20) is a ministry that connects trained adults with pregnant girls and teenage moms. Support meetings, classes, job preparation, devotions and games. Call Laura Fuller at laura@insideyfc.com or 334-501-5637. www.insideyfc.com.

Mom’s Morning Out

Auburn United Methodist Church, Children’s Day Out Program, every Monday-Thursday from 9 a.m.–12 noon. $10 per child for the entire morning, $2 each additional child. Attendance will be on a first come-first served basis. Contact Barbara Dawsey at 826-8800 for more information. Trinity United Methodist Church (Opelika) Wednesdays and Fridays from 8:45–12. $15 per child, $5 each additional.

Support Groups

Caregiver Support Group Caring for a family member or friends can be rewarding, but it’s not easy. Whether you are the caregiver for your parents, spouse or a dependent child, this group is for you! Learn ways to cope with every day stresses of caring for someone you love. Gain tools and resources to help you on your journey. This program is supported by the Opelika Sportsplex, Lee-Russell Agency on Aging and HomeInstead Senior Care. This group is open to the public. Meets the last Monday of each month at 12:30 p.m. at Opelika Sportsplex AAC. Instructors are: Valeri White (Sportsplex), Bridgette Sager (Home Instead Senior Care), Lisa Askew (Lee-Russell Council of Gov). Food Allergy Support of East Alabama The Food Allergy Support of East Alabama group offers support through the sharing of information and resources. We are also working to increase awareness of food allergies in the state of Alabama. For more information, visit our website at www. foodallergysupporteastal.org or call Barbara at 334826-3082; bkg2007@bellsouth.net. GRACE - Post-Abortive Support Group Are you struggling with feelings of regret or sadness from having a pregnancy termination in your past? Do you feel like you can’t share these struggles with anyone? Would you like to find healing and forgiveness? You are not alone. Women’s Hope Medical Clinic wants to help you! You are invited to take part in our GRACE abortion recovery group. This confidential group gives you the opportunity to process the grief of your termination in a safe and non-judgmental setting. If you would like more information about the times, dates and location for this group, call or e-mail

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Sports

Auburn University Equestrian Oct. 10. Auburn University Football Sept. 27, Oct. 4, 25. Auburn University Hockey Columbus Civic Center, Ga. Oct 3, 4, 10, 11, 31, Nov. 1. Auburn University Soccer Sept. 21, Oct. 5, 10, 23, 26. Auburn University Swimming & Diving Oct. 11, 12, 18. Auburn University Tennis Oct. 16-20. Auburn University Volleyball Sept. 19, 20, 26, Oct. 5, 17, 22. Auburn High School Football Oct. 17, 24. Opelika High School Football Sept. 26, Oct. 3, 17. Columbus Cottonmouths Columbus Civic Center, Ga. Oct. 24. Tuskegee/Morehouse Football Classic AJ McClung Memorial Stadium. Oct. 11. www.tuskegee-morehouse.com.

Thursday, September 18 Live Jazz Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 6 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Poetry Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 7 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Fall Concert Series Kiesel Park, Auburn. 6-7:30 p.m. Free. Pizza Pizzazz Covington Rec Center, Opelika. Ages 6-11 years. $15. 3:30-4:30 p.m. Saint George Middle Eastern Food Festival Birmingham. www.saintgeorgeonline.org. The Taste of the South Atmore, Al. www.atmorechamber.com. Zoobiliation 2014: The Wildest Party In Town! 6 p.m. - close. www.montgomeryzoo.com.

Friday, September 19

Rangers in Action Demonstration Ft. Benning. 9:30 a.m. Family Theatre presents “The Velveteen Rabbit” 7:30 p.m. www.familytheatre.org. Mike Epps BJCC. www.bjcc.org. Saint George Middle Eastern Food Festival Birmingham. www.saintgeorgeonline.org.

Saturday, September 20

Bug Blitz at FDR State Park Georgia. 8 p.m. 706-663-4858. Saint George Middle Eastern Food Festival Birmingham. www.saintgeorgeonline.org. Family Theatre presents “The Velveteen Rabbit” 7:30 p.m. www.familytheatre.org. Water Wonders at FDR State Park Georgia. 10 a.m. 706-663-4858. Market Days on Broadway Columbus. 51st Annual Shrine Circus at the Columbus Civic Center www.columbusciviccenter.org. Oktoberfest The Hotel at Auburn University. Adam Keeshan at (334) 321-3165 or at adam.keeshan@auhcc.com. JapanFest Gwinnet Performing Arts Center, Atl.

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www.japanfest.org. Auburn Beautification Fall Plant Sale Dean Rd Rec Center. 8 a.m. - 12 noon. Fall Arts and Crafts Sale Denson Rec Center, Opelika. 9 a.m. - 4 p.m. 705-5558. French Colonial Garrison Fort Toulouse-Fort Jackson, Wetumpka. www.fttoulousejackson.org. Hank Williams 91st Birthday and Collectors Fair 9 a.m. - 5 p.m. www.thehankwilliamsmuseum.net. Wiregrass Model Railroad Show and Sale National Peanut Festival Fairgrounds, Dothan. 334-7906284. AU Fisheries Expo and Field Day E. W. Shell Fisheries Station, Auburn. 10 a.m. - 2 p.m. www.ag.auburn.edu/fish. Market Days on Broadway Columbus. Preferred Medical Group presents Expectant Mommy Expo 2014 Phenix City Children’s Office. Free. 2:30 p.m. abradshaw@preferredmedgroup.com. Marshall Tucker Band Phenix City Amp. 8 p.m. Shrek Swamp Party The Springer Opera House. 6 p.m. 706-256-3491.

Sunday, September 21

51st Annual Shrine Circus at the Columbus Civic Center www.columbusciviccenter.org. Art in the Park at FDR State Park Georgia. 10 a.m. - 1 p.m. 706-663-4858. JapanFest Gwinnet Performing Arts Center, Atl. www.japanfest.org. French Colonial Garrison Fort Toulouse-Fort Jackson, Wetumpka. www.fttoulousejackson.org. National Peanut Festival Fairgrounds Dothan. 334-790-6284. Columbus Children’s Book Festival Columbus Public Library. 10am. www.cvlga.org

Monday, September 22 51st Annual Shrine Circus at the Columbus Civic Center www.columbusciviccenter.org.

Wednesday, September 24 A Little Art Talk Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 12 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Paul Taylor Dance Company Opelika Performing Arts Center. www.eastalabamaarts.org.

Thursday, September 25 Live Jazz Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 6 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Fall Concert Series Kiesel Park, Auburn. 6-7:30 p.m. Free.

Friday, September 26

Family Theatre presents “The Velveteen Rabbit” 7:30 p.m. www.familytheatre.org. Friday Football Luncheon 12 p.m. 334-844-8817. Football, Fans, and Feathers Edgar B. Carter Amphitheater. 4 p.m. www.auburn.edu. Jordan-Hare Stadium Locker Room Tours 4 p.m. 334-844-8817. 14th Annual Blue Jean Ball Pat Dye’s Crooked Oaks Hunting Lodge, Notasulga. 5-11 p.m. 334-844-6753. Ballet and the Beasts Montgomery Zoo. 6 p.m. Free. www.montgomeryzoo.com.

Birmingham Home & Remodeling Show BJCC. www.bjcc.com. PorktoberQue Houston County Farm Center, Dothan. www.porktoberque.com. Garth Brooks World Tour with Trisha Yearwood Philips Arena, Ga. www.ticketmaster.com.

Saturday, September 27 Family Theatre presents “The Velveteen Rabbit” 7:30 p.m. www.familytheatre.org. Market Days on Broadway Columbus. Star Light, Star Bright Astronomy Event FDR State Park, Georgia. 706-663-4858. Water Wonders at FDR State Park Georgia. 10 a.m. 706-663-4858. The Rock Ranch Grand Fall Season Grand Opening (Hats off for Heroes Day) www.therockranch.com. Young Eagles Day–FREE Airplane Rides for Kids! Columbus Airport. Ages 8-17. 8:30-11:30 a.m. (weather permitting). 706-324-2453. Johnny Ray Century for Parkinson’s Disease Trinity United Methodist Church, Opelika. 7 a.m. - 4 p.m. Birmingham Home & Remodeling Show BJCC. www.bjcc.com. 26th Annual Jubilee Festival Daphne. 10 a.m. - 5 p.m. www.eschamber.com. 26th Annual Taste of the Bayou Bayou La Batre, Al. 5-8 p.m. www.bayoulabatrechamber.com. 23rd Annual Irondale Whistle Stop Festival www.irondalewhistlestopfestival.com. Titus Bluegrass Festival Titus, Al. 10 a.m. - 6 p.m. Facebook.com/pages/TitusBluegrass-Festival. 17th Annual Echota Cherokee Tribe of Alabama Festival and Pow Wow www.echotacherokeetribe.homestead.com/index. 3rd Annual Flomaton Railroad Junction Day Flomaton, Al. www.flomaton.com. PorktoberQue Houston County Farm Center, Dothan. www.porktoberque.com. Santa’s Castle 5K Color Elf Run Fort Benning, Ga. 7 a.m. ftbenningelfrun@gmail.com. Shrek Swamp Party The Springer Opera House. 6 p.m. 706-256-3491.

Sunday, September 28 Art in the Park at FDR State Park Georgia. 10 a.m. - 1 p.m. 706-663-4858. Jazz on the River Columbus Civic Center. 6 p.m. Free. www.columbusciviccenter.org. Art Club: Fold the Flock Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art Auburn. 1:30 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Birmingham Home & Remodeling Show BJCC. www.bjcc.com. 26th Annual Jubilee Festival Daphne. 10 a.m. - 5 p.m. www.eschamber.com. 17th Annual Echota Cherokee Tribe of Alabama Festival and Pow Wow www.echotacherokeetribe.homestead.com/index. Shrek Swamp Party The Springer Opera House. 1 p.m. 706-256-3491. Secret Keeper Girl: Crazy Hair Tour Wynnbrook Baptist Church, Columbus. 5:30 p.m. EDT. www.WynnbrookBaptist.com.

Monday, September 29 58th Annual Central Alabama Fair Selma. www.centralalabamafair.com.

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Tuesday, September 30 Saturday, October 4 58th Annual Central Alabama Fair Selma. www.centralalabamafair.com.

Wednesday, October 1 A Little Art Talk Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn 1212:15 p.m. www.jscm.auburn.edu. 58th Annual Central Alabama Fair Selma. www.centralalabamafair.com.

Thursday, October 2

Fall Outdoor Movie Series hosted by Auburn Parks and Rec Wallace Center Lawn, S. Donahue Dr. Auburn. 7:30 p.m. www.auburnalabama.org/parks. Luke Bryan Farm Tour Ingram Farms, Opelika. www.lukebryan.com/farmtour. Wine, Women & Shoes Sponsored by EAMC Foundation. Moores Mill Country Club, Auburn. www.winewomenandshows.com/eamcf. A Little Lunch Music Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 12 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Film: “From Billions to None” Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 3 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Talk: Joel Greenberg, Project Passenger Pigeon Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 5 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Live Jazz Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 6 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Alabama Coastal BirdFest 2014 Spanish Fort. www.alabamacoastalbirdfest.com. 58th Annual Central Alabama Fair Selma. www.centralalabamafair.com. Marvel LIVE! BJCC, Birmingham. www.bjcc.org. Southern Women’s Show BJCC, Birmingham. www.bjcc.org. Fall Outdoor Movie “Saving Mr. Banks” Sponsored by Auburn Parks and Rec. Gay Street Parking Lot, Auburn. 7 p.m. FREE. www.auburnalabama.org/parks.

Friday, October 3

Ausome Amphibians & Reptiles Auburn Forest Ecology Preserve. 4-5 p.m. www.auburn.edu/preserve. First Fridays ‘Shop Late, Eat Local’ Downtown Opelika. Until 8 p.m. www.opelikamainstreet.org. Café Jordan-Hare Jordan-Hare Stadium. www.auburntigers.com/gamedayevents. Football, Fans and Feathers Edgar B. Carter Amphitheater, Auburn. 4 p.m. www.auburn.edu/raptor. Jordan-Hare Stadium Locker Room Tours 4-6 p.m. Free. www.auburntigers.com. Forest Friends AU Forest Ecology Preserve, Auburn. 9:30 a.m. www.auburn.edu/preserve. First Fridays ‘Satin Soul’ Event Center Downtown, Opelika. 7 p.m. www.eventcenterdowntown.com. 10th Annual Alabama Butterbean Festival Pinson, Al. 58th Annual Central Alabama Fair Selma. www.centralalabamafair.com. Marvel LIVE! BJCC, Birmingham. www.bjcc.org. Southern Women’s Show BJCC, Birmingham. www.bjcc.org.

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Auburn Alumni Association Hospitality Tent www.aualum.org. Bayfest Music Festival Downtown Mobile. www.bayfest.com. 32nd Annual Grand Festival of Art Fairhope. 26th Annual Taste of the Bayou Bayou La Batre, Al. www.bayoulabatrechamber.com. 51st Annual Bluff Park Art Show Bluff Park, Al. www.bluffparkartshow.com. Alex City Horse Riding Club and Walking Horse Show Sportsplex, Alexander City. www.achrc.com. 58th Annual Central Alabama Fair Selma. www.centralalabamafair.com. Deck the Halls Benefit for the Alabama Governor’s Mansion Trinity Presbyterian Church, Montgomery. 11:30 a.m. www.facebook.com/foagm. Chambers County Country Fair & Pat Garret Rodeo Chambers County Livestock Arena, Lafayette. www.chambersacademy.com/white-plains. Claybank Jamboree Arts & Craft Festival Ozark. 334-774-9321. Marvel LIVE! BJCC, Birmingham. www.bjcc.org. Southern Women’s Show BJCC, Birmingham. www.bjcc.org. Music & Dancing On the Mountain FDR Park, Ga. 7-9 p.m. 706-663-4858. Disney Junior Live! Presents Pirate & Princess Adventure www.columbusciviccenter.org. Fall Family Fun Days ‘Lumberjack Day featuring Collegiate Timbersports Competition’ The Rock Ranch, Ga. www.therockranch.com. Shrek Swamp Party The Springer Opera House. 6 p.m. 706-256-3491. Pumpkin Patch Express Heart of Dixie Railroad Museum, Calera. www.hodrrm.org. 58th Annual Central Alabama Fair Selma. www.centralalabamafair.com.

Sunday, October 5

Opening Reception: Italian Film Festival Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 1 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Film: “Zoran il mio nipote scemo” (Zoran, my nephew the idiot) Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 2 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Chambers County Country Fair & Pat Garret Rodeo Chambers County Livestock Arena, Lafayette. www.chambersacademy.com/white-plains. Marvel LIVE! BJCC, Birmingham. www.bjcc.org. Southern Women’s Show BJCC, Birmingham. www.bjcc.org. Pumpkin Patch Express Heart of Dixie Railroad Museum, Calera. www.hodrrm.org.

Monday, October 6

Chambers County Country Fair & Pat Garret Rodeo Chambers County Livestock Arena, Lafayette. www.chambersacademy.com/white-plains. Marvel LIVE! BJCC, Birmingham. www.bjcc.org.

Tuesday, October 7

Forest Friends AU Forest Ecology Preserve, Auburn. 9:30 a.m. www.auburn.edu/preserve.

Wednesday, October 8

A Little Art Talk Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 12 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Moundville Native American Festival 2014 University of Alabama’s Moundville Archaeological Park. www.moundville.ua.edu. Disney On Ice Presents “Frozen” Philips Arena, Ga. www.ticketmaster.com.

Thursday, October 9

Fall Outdoor Movie Series hosted by Auburn Parks and Rec Wallace Center Lawn, S. Donahue Dr. Auburn. 7:30 p.m. www.auburnalabama.org/parks. A Little Lunch Music Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 12 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Studio: Weaving demo with Kwasi Asare Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 5 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Live Jazz Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 6 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. 43rd Annual National Shrimp Festival Gulf Shores. www.alagulfcoastchamber.com. Moundville Native American Festival 2014 University of Alabama’s Moundville Archaeological Park. www.moundville.ua.edu. Fall Outdoor Movie “Planes” Sponsored by Auburn Parks and Rec. Gay Street Parking Lot, Auburn. 7 p.m. FREE. www.auburnalabama.org/parks.

Friday, October 10

On the Tracks Downtown Opelika. 6 p.m. www.onthetracks.org. 43rd Annual National Shrimp Festival Gulf Shores. www.alagulfcoastchamber.com. Moundville Native American Festival 2014 University of Alabama’s Moundville Archaeological Park. www.moundville.ua.edu. Pioneer Days Pioneer Museum of Alabama, Troy. www.pioneer-museum.org. Storytelling at the ‘KTW Alabama Tale Tellin’ Festival’ Selma. www.facebook.com/pages/Kathryn-TuckerWindham-Museum. Disney On Ice Presents “Frozen” Philips Arena, Ga. www.ticketmaster.com.

Saturday, October 11

Creepy Wonderful Critters- Bats! Kreher Nature Center, The Forest Ecology Preserve, Auburn. 10-11 a.m. www.auburn.edu/preserve. Heart of Dixie Marching Festival The Pride of Prattville Marching Band would like to cordially invite you to the Heart of Dixie Marching Festival at Stanley Jensen Stadium in Prattville. It will be a fun filled day watching competing high school bands from all over Alabama. We would love to have your high school band come to our lovely city and participate. Please contact the Band Director, Mr. Chris King at 334-365-8804 or at prattvillebands.com if you would like your band to participate in this wonderful day filled with music. For those that like to watch band competitions we welcome you as well. Start times will be announced on our web page prattvillebands.com as we get closer to the date of the festival. We look forward to seeing many different bands and spectators

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Family Calendar at our Heart of Dixie Marching Festival. As always, GO LIONS! Second Saturday at Columbus Museum Free admission. www.edu@columbusmuseum.com. Second Saturday: Family Fun Day at the Columbus Museum Ga. www.columbusmuseum.com. Second Saturday Lee County Historical Society Museum. Loachapoka. www.leecountyhistoricalsociety.org. 43rd Annual National Shrimp Festival Gulf Shores. www.alagulfcoastchamber.com. Moundville Native American Festival 2014 University of Alabama’s Moundville Archaeological Park. www.moundville.ua.edu. Fall Festival Shelby Iron Works, Shelby, Al. www.shelbyironworks. com. Baumhowers ShrimpFest & Bar-B-Q Oak Mountain State Park- Pelham. www.alshrimpfests. com. Pioneer Days Pioneer Museum of Alabama, Troy. www.pioneer-museum.org. Indian Summer Arts and Craft Festival Eufaula. www.aufaulachamber.com. Troy University Homecoming and Appreciation Parade Troy, Al. 34th Annual Oktoberfest Alexander City. 256-329-6736. Alabama Cotton Festival Eclectic, Al. www.townofeclectic.com. Storytelling at the ‘KTW Alabama Tale Tellin’ Festival’ Selma. www.facebook.com/pages/Kathryn-TuckerWindham-Museum. 42nd Annual Harvest Day Festival Headland. www.headlandal.com. Broadway in Birmingham Presents: “Camelot” BJCC, Birmingham. www.bjcc.org. Alabama’s Gun Collectors Fall Show BJCC, Birmingham. www.bjcc.org. ReStore’s Flea Market benefiting Habitat for Humanity and Blacksmithing Demonstrations 7 a.m. - 1 p.m. 3831 Pepperell Pkwy, Opelika. Riverwalk Wine Festival Riverfront Park, Montgomery. 2-5 p.m. (334) 625-2100. Fall Family Fun Days ‘Georgia’s Official Day of the Cowboy’ The Rock Ranch, Ga. www.therockranch.com. Diary of a Black Man Montgomery Performing Arts Centre. Montgomery. www.ticketmaster.com. Pumpkin Patch Express Heart of Dixie Railroad Museum, Calera. www.hodrrm. org.

Sunday, October 12

Film: “La Sedia della felicita” (The Chair of Happiness) Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 2 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Fall Festival Shelby Iron Works, Shelby, Al. www.shelbyironworks. com. Pioneer Days Pioneer Museum of Alabama, Troy. www.pioneer-museum.org. Indian Summer Arts and Craft Festival Eufaula. www.aufaulachamber.com. Broadway in Birmingham Presents: “Camelot” BJCC, Birmingham. www.bjcc.org. Alabama’s Gun Collectors Fall Show BJCC, Birmingham. www.bjcc.org. Pumpkin Patch Express Heart of Dixie Railroad Museum, Calera. www.hodrrm.org. 43rd Annual National Shrimp Festival Gulf Shores. www.alagulfcoastchamber.com.

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Monday, October 13

“Chicago” Montgomery Performing Arts Centre. Montgomery. www.ticketmaster.com.

Tuesday, October 14

Forest Friends AU Forest Ecology Preserve, Auburn. 9:30 a.m. www.auburn.edu/preserve. WWE Smackdown BJCC, Birmingham. www.bjcc.org. “Chicago” Montgomery Performing Arts Centre. Montgomery. www.ticketmaster.com.

Wednesday, October 15

A Little Art Talk Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 12 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Paul McCartney Philips Arena, Ga. www.ticketmaster.com.

Thursday, October 16

Fall Outdoor Movie Series hosted by Auburn Parks and Rec. Wallace Center Lawn, S. Donahue Dr. Auburn. 7:30 p.m. www.auburnalabama.org/parks. Auburn Area Community Theatre presents ‘Never Cry Wolf’ Jan Dempsey Community Arts Center. 6:30 p.m. www.auburnalabama.org/parks. A Little Lunch Music Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 12 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Live Jazz Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 6 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Poetry: Jake Adam York Tribute Reading Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 7 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Zoo Boo 2014 The Montgomery Zoo. www.montgomeryzoo.com. Jr. League Holiday Market Multiplex at Cramton bowl, Montgomery. www.jlmontgomery.com. Fall Treats Covington Rec, Opelika. Ages 4-12, $15, 3:30 p.m. 705-5560. Fall Outdoor Movie “Captain Phillips” Sponsored by Auburn Parks and Rec. Gay Street Parking Lot, Auburn. 7 p.m. FREE. www.auburnalabama.org/parks.

Friday, October 17

Auburn Area Community Theatre presents ‘Never Cry Wolf’ Jan Dempsey Community Arts Center. 6:30 p.m. www.auburnalabama.org/parks. Forest Friends AU Forest Ecology Preserve, Auburn. 9:30 a.m. www.auburn.edu/preserve. Zoo Boo 2014 The Montgomery Zoo. www.montgomeryzoo.com. Jr. League Holiday Market Multiplex at Cramton bowl, Montgomery. www.jlmontgomery.com. Travis Tritt Rivercenter for the Performing Arts, Columbus. www.rivercenter.org.

Saturday, October 18 Syrup Sopping Day Loachopoka. www.syrupsopping.org.

10th Annual Think Pink Walk Courthouse Square, Downtown Opelika. Colleen Alsobrook at (334) 528-4370. Auburn Area Community Theatre presents “Never Cry Wolf” Jan Dempsey Community Arts Center. 4 p.m. www.auburnalabama.org/parks. 3rd Annual Alabama Festival of Flavor Foley. www.alabamafestivalofflavor.com. Dauphin Island Sunset Bridge Run 5K Dauphin Island. Paddle Bayou La Batre www.paddlebayoulabatre.org. Birmingham Botanical Gardens Fall Plant Sale www.bbgardens.org. Oktoberfest at Wind Creek State Park Alexander City. www.outdooralabama.com. Zoo Boo 2014 The Montgomery Zoo. www.montgomeryzoo.com. Evergreen Sausage Festival Evergreen, Al. www.evergreenareachamber.com. The Boll Weevil Fall Festival Enterprise. www.enterprisealabama.com. Jr. League Holiday Market Multiplex at Cramton bowl, Montgomery. www.jlmontgomery.com. Collin and Brad from “Whose Line is it Anyway?” Rivercenter for the Performing Arts, Columbus. www.rivercenter.org. Fall Family Fun Days Hot Air Balloon Rally The Rock Ranch, Ga. www.therockranch.com. Kicks 106.6 Country Fair featuring Miranda Lambert Verizon Wireless Amphitheatre at Encore Park, Atl. www.ticketmaster.com. Pumpkin Patch Express Heart of Dixie Railroad Museum, Calera. www.hodrrm.org.

Sunday, October 19

JCSM’s 11th Birthday Party and Family Day 1:30-4 p.m. Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Birmingham Botanical Gardens Fall Plant Sale www.bbgardens.org. Oktoberfest at Wind Creek State Park Alexander City. www.outdooralabama.com. Zoo Boo 2014 The Montgomery Zoo. www.montgomeryzoo.com. Tenth Avenue North and Phil Wickham Rivercenter for the Performing Arts, Columbus. www.rivercenter.org. Kidz Bop Live! Center Stage Theatre, Atl. www.ticketmaster.com. Pumpkin Patch Express Heart of Dixie Railroad Museum, Calera. www.hodrrm.org.

Monday, October 20 Auburn Area Community Theatre presents “Never Cry Wolf” Jan Dempsey Community Arts Center. 6:30 p.m. www.auburnalabama.org/parks.

Tuesday, October 21 Forest Friends AU Forest Ecology Preserve, Auburn. 9:30 a.m. www.auburn.edu/preserve.

Wednesday, October 22 A Little Art Talk Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 12 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu.

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Family Calendar

Thursday, October 23

Fall Outdoor Movie Series hosted by Auburn Parks and Rec. Wallace Center Lawn, S. Donahue Dr. Auburn. 7:30 p.m. www.auburnalabama.org/parks. A Little Lunch Music Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 12 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Film: “Valentine Road” with filmmaker Marta Cunningham Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 5 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Live Jazz Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 6 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Zoo Boo 2014 The Montgomery Zoo. www.montgomeryzoo.com. Alton Brown Live! BJCC, Birmingham. www.bjcc.org. Sid the Science Kid LIVE! Let’s Play! Rivercenter for the Performing Arts, Columbus. www.rivercenter.org.

Friday, October 24

Ausome Amphibians & Reptiles Auburn Forest Ecology Preserve. 4-5 p.m. www.auburn.edu/preserve. Football, Fans and Feathers Edgar B. Carter Amphitheater, Auburn. 4 p.m. www.auburn.edu/raptor. Jordan-Hare Stadium Locker Room Tours 4-6 p.m. Free. www.auburntigers.com. Forest Friends AU Forest Ecology Preserve, Auburn. 9:30 a.m. www.auburn.edu/preserve. Zoo Boo 2014 The Montgomery Zoo. www.montgomeryzoo.com. Landmark Park Quilt Show Dothan. www.landmarkpark.com. Classic Jam with Maze Featuring Frankie Beverly BJCC, Birmingham. www.bjcc.org. The Great Pumpkin Splash SportsPlex, Opelika 6-8 p.m. 705-5560. Bill Cosby Montgomery Performing Arts Centre. Montgomery. www.ticketmaster.com. Country Living Festival Stone Mountain Park, Ga. www.stonemountainpark. com. Opp Fest 2014 Downtown Opp. www.cityofopp.com.

Saturday, October 25

12 Hour Night National Race Chewacla State Park, Auburn. chainbusterracing.com.

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2014 Magic City Classic Legion Field. www. themagiccityclassic.com. 3rd Annual Montevallo Art Stalk Main Street, Montevallo. www.montevallowarwalk. com. Owl-O-Ween Oak Mountain State Park, Pelham. Harvest Market Downtown Eufaula. www. eufaulachamber.com. Peanut Butter Festival Downtown Brundidge. www. brundidgealabama.com. Tecumseh at Tuckabatchee Horseshow Bend, Tallassee. Fall Family Festival Russell Crossroads, Alexander City. www. russelllandsonlakemartin.com. MainStreet Great Pumpkin Roll Strand Park, Alexander City. www.mainstreetac.org. Weogufka Old Farm “N” Bluegrass Day www.weogufkacenter.com. Zoo Boo 2014 The Montgomery Zoo. www.montgomeryzoo.com. 33rd Annual Spinners Pumpkin Patch Arts & Craft Show Spinners Park, Prattville. www.spinnersprattville.com. Spooky 5K Fort Rucker, Al. www.ftruckermwr.com. Wiregrass Heritage Festival Landmark Park, Dothan. www.landmarkpark.com. Haunting on the Harriott II Riverwalk, Montgomery. (334) 625-2100. Fall Family Fun Days The Not-So-Scary Halloween Festival The Rock Ranch, Ga. www.therockranch.com. Pumpkin Patch Express Heart of Dixie Railroad Museum, Calera. www.hodrrm.org Country Living Festival Stone Mountain Park, Ga. stonemountainpark.com. Opp Fest 2014 Downtown Opp. www.cityofopp.com.

Sunday, October 26

Zoo Boo 2014 The Montgomery Zoo. www.montgomeryzoo.com. 33rd Annual Spinners Pumpkin Patch Arts & Craft Show Spinners Park, Prattville. www.spinnersprattville.com. Susan Boyle Atlanta Symphony, Ga. www.ticketmaster.com. Pumpkin Patch Express Heart of Dixie Railroad Museum, Calera. www.hodrrm.org Country Living Festival Stone Mountain Park, Ga. www.stonemountainpark. com.

Monday, October 27

Wednesday, October 29

A Little Art Talk Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 12 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Zoo Boo 2014 The Montgomery Zoo. www.montgomeryzoo.com. Disney On Ice: “Treasure Trove” BJCC, Birmingham. www.bjcc.org. ZZ Top Montgomery Performing Arts Centre. Montgomery. www.ticketmaster.com.

Thursday, October 30

Wings of Freedom Tour Auburn University Regional Airport. www.facebook. com/auburnopelikaairshow. Fall Outdoor Movie Series hosted by Auburn Parks and Rec. Wallace Center Lawn, S. Donahue Dr. Auburn. 7:30 p.m. www.auburnalabama.org/parks. A Little Lunch Music Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 12 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Live Jazz Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 6 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Talk: Christopher Staley, ceramic artist Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 5 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Zoo Boo 2014 The Montgomery Zoo. www.montgomeryzoo.com. Indian Festival and Pow-Wow Stone Mountain Park, Ga. www.stonemountainpark. com. Disney On Ice: “Treasure Trove” BJCC, Birmingham. www.bjcc.org.

Friday, October 31

Reception: 2014 Alabama and Neighbors Ceramics Exhibition Pre-sale (Ticketed event) Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 5 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Forest Friends AU Forest Ecology Preserve, Auburn. 9:30 a.m. www.auburn.edu/preserve. Zoo Boo 2014 The Montgomery Zoo. www.montgomeryzoo.com. Scott’s Halloween Bash Scott and Zelda Fitzgerald Museum, Montgomery. 6-9 p.m. www.fitzgeraldmusem.net. Howl-O-Ween Downtown Opelika. 5 p.m. www.facebook.com/ HowlOWeenDogCostumeContest. Disney On Ice: “Treasure Trove” BJCC, Birmingham. www.bjcc.org. The City of Auburn’s Downtown Trick-or-Treat 6-8 p.m. 705-5560. Indian Festival and Pow-Wow Stone Mountain Park, Ga. www.stonemountainpark.com.

Fore the Children Golf Tournament Willow Point Golf Course, Alexander City. Chad Prewett; cgp0011@auburn.edu / 334-844-9760.

Tuesday, October 28

Forest Friends AU Forest Ecology Preserve, Auburn. 9:30 a.m. www.auburn.edu/preserve. Fall Festival Children’s Carnival Opelika SportsPlex. 5:30-8:30 p.m. 705-5560. Halloween Treat Bags Covington Rec. Opelika. Ages 4-12, $15, 3:30 p.m. 705-5560.

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How Long is Too Long for Time-Out? Q. My four-year-old daughter was recently put in time-out at day care for 20 minutes. How long is too long and what is the correct way of doing this?

A. You are right to be concerned! Twenty minutes is a long time to be in time-out for a 4 year old. Generally, the length of time-out in minutes should be equal to the age of the child in years. So, your four year old should spend about 4 minutes in time-out. The minute to age ratio works well at home, preschool, daycare, and anywhere else your child needs a time-out. That being said, sometimes if a child is still fussing at the end of time-out, they may be kept in time-out until they calm down. If the child never calms down though, this practice could lead to an extremely long and stressful time-out. Now that you’ve had this experience, it’s important for you to talk with your child’s teacher and the director of the daycare to share your concerns. Many preschools and daycares use time-out for discipline, but it’s important to make sure that there is a protocol for how to handle children who are still acting up at the end of the time-out period. Some ideas for that include:

daycare because they haven’t been exposed to it at home. If you have never used time-out with your child and it is the discipline practice used by their preschool or daycare, then you should consider practicing it with them when they misbehave at home, too. As a parent you have every right to know and understand the discipline policy at your child’s preschool or daycare. Often these policies are reviewed early on in the school year, but don’t be afraid to ask if you have any questions or lingering concerns. Your child’s caregiver

should be more than happy to discuss this important issue with you. For more tips on time-out at home or on the go, check out the book 1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2-12 by Dr. Thomas Phelan. Best of luck! If you’ve got a parenting concern that you’d like to see featured in a future issue, submit your idea or question to polly@ childpsychmom.com. I look forward to hearing from you!

Dr. Polly Dunn received her Ph.D. from Auburn University in 1999. She is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and currently serves as the Director of the Auburn University Psychological Services Center, a position she has held for over ten years. Dr. Dunn is also the founder of www.ChildPsychMom.com where she blogs about what works and what doesn’t in her hectic life as a child psychologist, wife, and mom of four.

• Allow the child to sit in time-out a second time (that would be a maximum of 8 minutes for your child if they sat in time-out twice in a row.) • Take the child to the director’s office. • Give them a different consequence, like 5 minutes of sitting on the bench at the start of recess. • Call the parent. In addition, sometimes young children have difficulty with time-out at preschool or 43

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Dolphin Tale: 2

No Good Deed

MPAA Rating: PG Overall: AViolence: B Sexual Content: A Language: A Alcohol / Drug Use: AThe MPAA has rated Dolphin Tale 2 PG for some mild thematic elements. Winter and Hope are two real dolphins that live in the Clearwater Marine Aquarium in Florida. Both have been rescued and rehabilitated at the facility but will never be able to return to the ocean. You can watch both animals on the aquarium’s live webcam: http://www.seewinter.com. Their history is interesting. But it takes a few additional characters and some plumping up to make it the stuff of movies because although these two swimming mammals are central to the plot line, Dolphine Tale 2 really is a coming-of-age story. Audiences met Winter in the first Dolphin Tale movie when she was rescued from a crab trap. Dr. Clay Haskett (Harry Connick Jr.) operates the facility that takes in injured sea animals. Working along side him and the rest of the staff are his father (Kris Kristofferson), his daughter Hazel (Cozi Zuehlsdorff), and her friend Sawyer (Nathan Gamble). Through some miraculous medical intervention on the part of Dr. Cameron McCarthy (Morgan Freeman), Winter was fitted with a prosthetic tail that allowed her to swim more naturally. And she became an ambassador of sorts for other amputees -- everyone from children to former military personnel -who connected with the gregarious mammal. Since her arrival, Winter has been paired with Panama another female dolphin. But when Panama dies of old age, Winter sinks into a depressed state. Since companionship is essential for the well-being of these social animals, Clay and the rest of the staff know they only have so long to find a new chum for the unhappy dolphin. Othewise she’ll be transferred to a different aquarium. Meanwhile, Sawyer, one of Winter’s main caregivers, has been invited to attend a highly regarded marine biology course held aboard a sailing ship. But with Winter still grieving the loss of Panama, he is hesitant to leave. From a family perspective, Dolphin Tale 2 is about as friendly as you can get for older children. The only hint of sexual content is some mild jealousy that flares up when Hazel sees a pair of young volunteers flirting with Sawyer. Injured animals and the death of one dolphin may be the biggest worry. Sawyer also suffers facial cuts and bruises when Winter reacts violently to the death of her swimming companion. While young kids will likely love the playful dolphins, they might be a little bored when the script heads to dry land and focuses on Sawyer’s schooling dilemma. Yet for those buying tickets for this aquatic drama, the film offers a strong environmental message and a charming story of friendship between the humans and the dolphins. Best of all, this movie may also inspire a whole new generation of viewers to consider a career in marine biology or at least a visit to their local aquarium.

MPAA Rating: PG-13 Overall: CViolence: D+ Sexual Content: BLanguage: D Alcohol / Drug Use: C+ The MPAA has rated No Good Deed PG13 for sequences of violence, menace, terror, and for language. It is a dark and stormy night when Terri (Taraji P. Henson) opens her door to a stranger. Sporting a bloody gash on his forehead, Colin Evans (Idris Elba) claims he has had a car accident and needs to use her phone. Offering to let him use her landline on her front porch is one thing, but inviting him inside to wait for the tow truck is another. If any movie will keep people from offering a helping hand to someone unknown, No Good Deed could be it. While I’m not arguing against carefulness (or even extreme caution), this film reinforces the fear that the world is a big bad place -- because in this case it is. For teens without a healthy sense of community, this message may make things even scarier and more isolating. For her part, Terri isn’t blameless. The former prosecuting lawyer turned stay-at-home mother of two has just watched her husband head out the door for a weekend golf trip. Short on sleep and adult attention, she lets down her guard and allows herself to be charmed by the handsome stranger who quickly ingratiates himself with her daughter Ryan (Mirage Moonschein). But the audience knows where things are headed. By the time he rings Terri’s doorbell, Colin has already killed two prison guards and his ex-girlfriend in a graphic and violent act that is repeatedly shown in flashback. He’s also been declared a malignant narcissist by one of the parole officers who refused to approve the convict’s early release. (That officer is lucky he isn’t dead as well.) While Colin’s intentions aren’t entirely understood, it becomes increasingly clear that he won’t let anything stand in the way of getting what he wants. The stormy weather is only one of the established conventions of a thriller this film employs for the purpose of scaring viewers. Somewhere along the way Terri drops her cell phone making it inoperable when she needs it. As well, the house is full of shadows, kitchen knives and creaking floors. Still, not all are believable. One character, after being knocked unconscious with a fireplace grate, jumps up and resumes fighting without a hint of grogginess. It makes for a great jump scene -- but it doesn’t seem very realistic. Eventually Colin pushes this mom of two into a corner and Terri reacts like a protective mama bear whose cubs are in danger. As a result, threats, intimidation and brutal violence aimed at women leads to fierce and often bloody retaliation. A couple of strong sexual expletives and a host of other profanities also follow. Not only will No Good Deed discourage you from helping a stranger, it will likely also make you much less trusting of those you think you know.

What Parents need to know about No Good Deed...

Violence: The movie contains scenes of both non-graphic and explicit violence. Several characters are shot and killed at close range. A character is strangled before having her neck broken. Another is killed with a garden implement. Characters are choked, violently stabbed, hit with heavy objects and brutalized. Bloody wounds are shown in several scenes. Couples argue. A man slaps a woman and knocks her down. Later a woman slaps a man and knocks him down. A car crash causes some bloody facial injuries. Flashbacks of a gruesome murder are repeatedly shown. A character falls out of a window after being shot several times in the chest. Sexual Content: A woman wears a low cut dress. Some crude sexual innuendo and comments are included. The outline of a naked man is shown. A character is involved in an affair. Some embracing and kissing is shown. Language: Two strong sexual expletives are used in a non-sexual context. Other profanities, scatological slang, crude and vulgar language and terms of Deity are also included in the script. Alcohol / Drug Use: Characters drink beer and wine. Smoking is shown.

What Parents need to know about Dolphin Tale 2... Violence: Human and animal characters are upset when a dolphin dies. Some characters argue briefly. A character is accidentally hurt by an animal. Some brief moments of peril occur. Sexual Content: A girl is slightly jealous of a new staff member. Language: None noted. Alcohol / Drug Use: A man is shown with a bottle in his hand. Auburn Opelika Parents I October 2014