Auburn Opelika Parents - School and Education Issue (January 2025)
1601 Academy Drive
Auburn, AL 36830
Phone: (334) 821-2430
ADMINISTRATION
Dr. Stan Cox Head of School
Dr. Mary Anna Martin-Smith Lower School Principal
Ms. Donna Lloyd Upper School Principal
Mrs. Lynn Waldrip Chief Finance and Operations Officer
Mrs. Leigh Smith Executive Director of Admissions & Advancement lsmith@lee-scott.org
ENROLLMENT
Approximately
Students enrolled at Lee-Scott Academy for 2024-25
Call or email Director of Admissions Leigh Smith today at (334) 821-2430 or lsmith@lee-scott.org to schedule a campus visit.
SCHOOL PROFILE 2024-25
In 1981, two independent schools, Lee Academy of Auburn and Scott Preparatory School of Opelika, merged to become Lee-Scott Academy. The strong traditions of academic excellence and emphasis on Christian values of both schools continue as the hallmark of LSA. Originally located on the campus of Lee Academy, steady growth in enrollment lead to the 1996 construction of our present campus in Auburn. Enrollment for the 2024-25 school year is approximately 807.
FACULTY
The 2024-25 Lee-Scott Academy faculty consists of 84 professional staff members; 65 percent of these members have advanced degrees, including 4 doctorates.
ACCREDITATION/MEMBERSHIP
Lee-Scott Academy holds dual accreditation from the Southern Association of Independent Schools (SAIS) and Cognia. It holds membership In the Alabama Independent School Association (AISA) and The College Board. Lee-Scott Academy has been selected as an Apple Distinguished School.
ADMISSION
Admission to Lee-Scott Academy is selective and competitive. The admission process consists of a review of academic records, including standardized test scores, and an interview process. Lee-Scott Academy enrolls students without regard to race, sex, religion or ethnicity.
ATHLETICS
Lee-Scott Academy Warriors’ athletic teams compete in 14 different sports, including swimming & girls’ flag football, in the Alabama High School Athletic Association (AHSAA). Each sport includes Junior Varsity and Varsity level programs with some also having Middle School teams. Lower school students can participate in Pee-Wee football, cheerleading, and basketball programs for their own age groups.
ARTS
Lee-Scott Academy’s fine arts program is consistent with our mission of developing the total person. Research over the past several decades supports the significance of fine arts education curriculum in encouraging the development of higher order thinking skills such as creativity, problem-solving, effective communication, self-discipline and critical thinking. Our fine arts programs attract large numbers of participants because they are of high quality, and just plain fun. Upper School fine arts offerings include art, drama, chorus and band. Our students at all levels consistently bring back superior ratings and blue ribbons from district and state AISA and other regional competitions.
Lee-Scott Academy is a college preparatory school offering a quality education in an environment where students are protected, nurtured, and challenged with biblical, Christcentered principles that promote the development of the total person. The pursuit of excellence in academics is the hallmark of the Academy, complemented by opportunities to participate in programs that encourage student success. CLASS
SENIOR GRADUATES IN THE CLASS OF 2024 60
MILLION EARNED IN SCHOLARSHIP OFFERS $3.2
3600 +
HOURS OF MISSION TRIPS AND COMMUNITY SERVICE
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Life
Auburn and Opelika tutors, private schools, after school lessons and more.
Eli (7 years old) and Stisher (7 years old) attend Auburn Classical Academy and are in the 1st grade. They are pictured at left with brother, James (4 years old), and mom, Megan. Megan and Blake Smalley are the proud parents of the three boys.
The twins both have enjoyed playing flag football, soccer, baseball and basketball. They love playing outside with friends. James is forever trying to keep up with his brothers. Where they go, he goes.
Publisher’sNote
Another new year has arrived, bringing 365 days and a clean slate. It’s how we will fill those days, and the plans we are to make that will determine if this year is going to be successful for our families. What new goals do you have for yourself and your children? Are there resolutions from 2024 that were not fulfilled successfully? Will you be adding new challenges and experiences to strive toward this year?
It isn’t easy to know where to begin and how to ensure the year’s plans come to fruition. If you are like me, I have lofty goals and aspirations that always make it onto my New Year’s resolution list, only to find that after a few weeks, they slowly fall off, and I lose interest. Not because they are too challenging or out of reach but because, like most families, time constraints and busy schedules take over. Knowing this, how do we plan to tackle a new year and begin with the end in mind?
According to our feature article, Ditching the New Year’s Resolutions: 5 Things to Try Instead, the author suggests that we consider changing the way we think about our resolutions. Instead of saying, “I need to lose 20 pounds”, maybe we reframe that into, “I will try a new form of exercise” or “Let’s go biking or hiking at a local park once a month.” This reframing can retrain our thoughts to think of the weight loss goal as more of a fitness/lifestyle change that can include a new outing with the family. All in all, you will be returning to nature and enjoying family fun while getting some much-needed exercise. Another idea is to create a monthly challenge for yourself or your family.
For me, I have put off decluttering and organizing our basement. Spring cleaning plans are always made, but my goal becomes daunting at best once I begin sorting, stacking, and tossing out the fun fizzles. This year, instead of planning to clean out the clutter down there, I have a new way of tackling this task. Each month in spring, the plan is to break down the overall declutter goal into smaller, more manageable pieces, get the whole family involved, and have celebrations along the way. Hopefully, by starting small, we can accomplish and reward ourselves, as we eventually meet the larger goal that has been put off for far too long.
A new year can bring new challenges and new goals for everyone. It is with our best intentions that we set out to tackle new projects, new fitness goals, and more quality family and work-life endeavors. Keep your goals and plans moving forward by rethinking how you see them. A new approach to goal setting may be all that we need to start checking them off successfully. From one parent to another, let’s make these 365 days the best they can be.
Kendra
kendra@auburnopelikaparents.com
Auburn Opelika
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Teaching Self-Compassion to Battle Shame
Dr. Brené Brown, who researches emotions, defines shame as the intensely painful feeling or experience of believing that we are flawed and, therefore, unworthy of love, belonging, and connection. Simply put, shame is the thought/feeling of “I am bad.”
Even if you are an excellent parent, your child will experience shame. The best weapon to combat shame is the practice of self-compassion. We cannot address shame when our children are overwhelmed by it. Instead, we must use self-compassion as a proactive daily practice to develop the skills we need to fully process shame in a healthy way.
Dr. Kristin Neff has dedicated her career to the research and discovery of self-compassion, which is composed of three elements: self-kindness, common humanity, and mindfulness.
Self-Kindness vs. Self-Judgement
Self-compassionate people show warmth and understanding to themselves when they experience difficulties. They know that a full life includes painful experiences, and they know how to comfort themselves with kind words. Those who self-judge are
overly critical of themselves, their circumstances, and others. They do not have the necessary coping skills to deal with hard things.
Common Humanity vs. Isolation
People who practice self-compassion accept that we all suffer and that sometimes our “best” is not “good enough”. Those who isolate tend to believe that bad things only happen to them or that they are the only people who struggle to succeed.
Mindfulness vs. Over-Identification
Self-compassionate people are mindful, which is the ability to observe thoughts and feelings without judgment. Being mindful allows people to notice thoughts and feelings without attempting to fix, suppress, control, or deny them. People who over-identify tend to believe their thoughts and feelings as truth that require a reaction.
You can easily teach your children self-compassion by answering these three questions with them every day. The best way to do this is to write the answers in a daily journal so your children can see how they are growing in self-compassion.
What is something you did well today? This question teaches self-kindness by opening the door for the discussion of what they can and cannot control. something good that happened, just remind them you are looking for something they did well. If they cannot give an answer, give them one. Go out of your way to point out something your children do that they should be proud of daily.
What is a mistake you made today? question is why doing this activity with your children is important. This helps your chil dren embrace that everyone makes mistakes (common humanity) and that doing so is a normal part of life.
Do you need to do anything about that mistake? This question allows you to see if your children are mindful or if they simply react to their thoughts and emotions. example, they feel that they need to apolo gize or blame someone because they are embarrassed about tripping in the hallway, versus they need to apologize for pushing a friend when they tripped. Over time, they will learn to just observe their thoughts/feelings and become intentional about addressing what requires a response.
Help your children become resilient to shame by asking and answering these three questions with them every day.
Dr. Beth Long received her education in Counseling Psychology from Chapman University. She is a Licensed Professional Counselor and Board Certified Behavior Analyst. Beth has worked in six unique clinical environments across the country and currently owns Works of Wonder Therapy in Montgomery. Beth utilizes the knowledge from a variety of different disciplines to give her patients the best care possible. To learn more visit www.worksofwondertherapy.com.
Czech National Philharmonic
The Czech Philharmonic and Maestro Zsolt Hamar embark on their first tour of the United States including 20 cities, with January 25 being a stop in Opelika. Based in Prague, the Czech Philharmonic has a rich history of leadership, including conductors Antonin Dvorak, Gustav Mahler, Herbert Von Karajan, Bela Bartok, and Simon Rattle. Notable soloists who have performed with the orchestra include Daniil Trifonov, Hilary Hahn, Ray Chen, Emanuel Ax, Katia and Marielle Labeque, and Peter Serkin. East Alabama Arts, Opelika Center for the Performing Arts, 1700 Lafayette Pkwy, Opelika. 7:30pm. www.eastalabamaarts.org/performances
Zoofari Winter Camp: January 2-3
Campers will enjoy unique, educational, and fun daily winter-themed activities, make crafts, experience behind the scenes animal encounters, and perhaps make a new friend or two. Close out the holidays, or bring in the New Year with a WILDLIFE bang at the Montgomery Zoo! Zoofari Winter Camp is perfect for boys and girls, ages 5-12 years old. From scavenger hunts to train rides to crafts to exclusive animal encounters, your child will experience exciting and educational activities only available at the Montgomery Zoo. Lunch, snacks, and beverages will be provided. Each camper will receive a keepsake, collectible camp shirt. Montgomery Zoo and Mann Wildlife Museum, 2301 Coliseum Parkway, Montgomery. https://www.montgomeryzoo.com
Save the Dates: February Dances
February 7-8: Daddy Daughter Date Night Sponsored by Auburn Parks and Recreation. This year’s theme is a Black and White Ball. https://auburnal.myrec. com/info/activities/program_details. aspx?ProgramID=30175
February 14-15: Daddy Daughter Dance Sponsored by Opelika Parks and Recreation. This year’s theme is Denim and Diamonds. https://www.opelika-al.gov/711/Daddy-Daughter-Dance
February 7-8: Mother Son Blue Jean Ball Sponsored by Opelika Parks and Recreation. https:// www.opelika-al.gov/712/ Mother-Son-Blue-Jean-Ball
Ballet Hispánico: CARMEN.maquia at The Gogue Performing Arts Center
Experience Ballet Hispánico at The Gogue Performing Arts Center on January 30 at 7:00 p.m. Ballet Hispánico is the nation’s renowned Latino dance organization and one of America’s cultural treasures. For 50 years, Ballet Hispánico has been bringing communities together to celebrate and explore Latino cultures through innovative dance performances, transformative dance training and enduring community engagement experiences. For its Gogue Center appearance, Ballet Hispánico will perform CARMEN. maquia, a Picasso-inspired, contemporary take on Bizet’s beloved classic. The physically charged and sensual choreography fuses contemporary dance with nods to the Spanish paso doble and flamenco. Gogue Performing Arts Center, 910 S College St, Auburn. goguecenter.auburn.edu/
Ma Rainey Black Bottom: January 23-February 2
It’s 1927, and Ma Rainey, the Mother of the Blues, is in a recording session in a rundown Chicago studio. Fiery and determined, Ma Rainey fights to retain control over her music while her cocky trumpet player, Levee, dreams of making his own way in the business. As they struggle with the exploitation and rampant racism in the music industry, the action builds to a dramatic conclusion. More than music goes down in August Wilson’s riveting portrayal of the African American experience. (May be inappropriate for ages 12 and under for mature themes, language, violence, alcohol use, and racial themes.) Springer Opera House, 103 10th Street, Columbus, Ga.
Nurtured in Nature: Enrolling For Winter Session
The Kreher Preserve & Nature Center’s Nurtured in Nature Series offers early-childhood, nature-based education for children and their parents from age 0 to 5. Each program is designed for specific developmental stages and works to integrate nature into the life of you and your child(ren) from the very beginning. Nature Babies: recommended ages: 0 to 2 years. Tree Tots: recommended ages: walking to 2 years. Forest Friends: recommended ages: 3 to 5 years. Pond Pals: recommended ages: 6 to 10 years. Nature Navigators: recommended ages: 12 to 15 years old. All Nurtured in Nature Series classes will be held at the Kreher Preserve & Nature Center unless otherwise noted. The nature center is located at 2222 N. College Street near the AU Fisheries and Hwy 280. For more information, visit auburn.edu/preserve, email preserve@auburn.edu, or call 334-844-8091.
13th Annual Polar Plunge
Presented by Auburn Parks and Recreation and Lee County Special Olympics! Pick up a donation form to record your donations and then plunge in Samford Pool on Saturday January 18th, 2025. Pre-Registration is required; Please register individually, even if you have a group. Everyone will plunge at 9am, or we will go in waves! Participants are guaranteed a T-Shirt when you register by January 6th. Contact: Elizabeth Kaufman, 334-501-2939. ekaufman@ auburnalabama.org; https://auburnal.myrec.com.
Gryphon Trio at The Gogue Performing Arts Center: January 23
The endlessly inventive trio has impressed international audiences and the press for the past 25 years with its highly refined, dynamic performances, and has firmly established itself as one of the world’s preeminent piano trios. The ensemble-in-residence at Music Toronto for more than a decade, the Gryphon Trio tours each season extensively throughout North America and Europe. The Gryphon Trio is also dedicated to pushing the boundaries of chamber music and has commissioned and premiered more than 80 new works from established and emerging composers across the globe. With a repertoire that ranges from the traditional to the contemporary and from European classicism to modern-day multimedia, the Gryphon Trio is committed to redefining chamber music for the 21st century. Gogue Performing Arts Center, 910 South College Street, Auburn. 7pm. https:// goguecenter.auburn.edu/gryphon-trio/
ACS Educators Help Decorate the
White House for Christmas
Kim Johnson, the Response to Intervention teacher at Auburn Junior High School, and Jeff Johnson, principal of Richland
LSA Students Win at Scholars Bowl
Congratulations to Ms. Croley, Mrs. Claridy and the Middle School Scholars Bowl team!
The team, including Harper Thrower, Anderson Dobbs, Thad Bacak, Jackson Slocumb, AG Henry & Colten Zachary, took home the victory at the AISA Scholars Bowl Tournament hosted by Edgewood Academy!
AHS and AJHS Students Win Essay Contest
Students from Auburn Junior High School and Auburn High School participated in the Racial Justice Essay Contest for the Lee County Remembrance Projects with winning results!
Congratulations to the following students for competing:
First Place: Kyle King, 12th grade
Third Place: Imari Starks, 9th grade
Eileen Merrill and Chaejin Kim, both in 12th grade
ACS is proud of these young leaders for commemorating history through their writing!
Baseball Scholarship Award to OHS Senior
Congratulations to Brodie Jones, OHS Senior, for signing his baseball scholarship to Wallace Community College-Dothan.
ACS Robotics Teams Showcase Skills
Auburn City Schools robotics teams from J.F. Drake Middle School, East Samford School, and Auburn Junior High School showcased their skills at the Auburn Robotics Club VEX IQ Robotics Competition!
ACS teams made an impressive showing, with 10 of the 20 finalists representing their schools. The competition was intense, but the teams displayed exceptional teamwork and strategy. Their hard work paid off as they won both the Tournament Champions Award and the Robot Skills Award! These accomplishments highlight the dedication and talent of our students. ACS is proud of all the robotics teams for their outstanding performance!
SMCS Students Showcase Turkeys in Disguise
These turkeys narrowly escaped becoming someone’s thanksgiving meal by disguising themselves as dragons, superheroes, animals, princesses and more! Way to go PreK4, your creativity saved the turkeys!
OHS Baseball Player Award Scholarship
Congratulations to OHS Senior Slade Clayton on signing a Lurleen B. Wallace Community College baseball scholarship.
TCS Students Give Thanks
Oh, give thanks to the Lord for He is good, His steadfast love endures forever.
Psalm 107:1
Learning Beyond the Classroom for YES Students
Fourth graders from Yarbrough Elementary School had a hands-on history lesson as they toured the heart of Auburn! They met with Municipal Court Judge Jim McLaughlin, who shared insights about our local courts and the justice system. Then, they were greeted by the heroic men and women of Fire Station 1, learning about firefighters’ vital role in keeping our community safe. And, of course, no trip would be complete without a stop for some iconic Toomer’s Lemonade—a refreshing taste of Auburn’s tradition! Along the way, they explored the rich history of Auburn, discovering how our past shapes the present. ACS is proud of these young learners for their curiosity and enthusiasm— they truly embody the spirit of Auburn!
Lee-Scott Academy Students Get Creative for Thanksgiving
Students in K4, Kindergarten and 1st Grade all learned about one of the traditions in the United States: The Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade! Inspired by the book, “Balloons Over Broadway” by Melissa Sweet, students learned all about the artistic and scientific process that goes into making giant balloons for the parade. Afterward, they made their own parade balloons and showed them off just like in New York City!
OCS Students Welcomed to the Legends Club
Opelika City Schools students had an unforgettable experience at Neville Arena as part of the Hudson Family Foundation’s Legends Club. These remarkable students, selected for their resilience, effort, and integrity, were celebrated with their own Tiger Walk, featuring the Auburn University band, AU cheerleaders, Tigers Paws, Aubie, Tim and Kim Hudson, and foundation donors. During this inspiring event, students heard from Andy Burcham, Coach Leroy Burrell, Tim and Kim Hudson, and each superintendent, including Dr. Farrell Seymore. A special thanks to the Hudson Family Foundation for their dedication to supporting our students and making this day unforgettable!
OMS Students Selected for All-State Choir
Thirteen Opelika Middle School students were selected for the prestigious Alabama All-State Choir after competing against top vocalists statewide. This is a significant achievement for these talented young singers, who are preparing to perform in Birmingham this April.
DRES Brings Parade to Life
Dean Road Elementary students brought the magic of the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade to life with their very own miniature version! Inspired by Melissa Sweet’s Caldecott Honor-winning book, Balloons Over Broadway, art teacher Andrea Newman transformed the multipurpose room of DRES into the streets of New York City, featuring each grade level’s creative celebration: Kindergarteners designed James Rizzi-style buildings to line the parade route. First graders painted cheerful spectators to bring the crowd to life. Second graders built the imaginative “floats” that stole the show. Thank you to the students and staff for making this artistic Thanksgiving tradition so memorable!
OHS Football Signing Day
Congratulations to Opelika High School Senior Tyler Moore on signing a football scholarship to Georgia State University!
LSA Kindergarten Creates Ozobot Courses
Technology class with Mrs. Jones, Kindergarten students were inspired by the book “The Great Turkey Race” by Steve Metzger. After listening to this Thanksgiving read aloud, each group of students created their own race course for Ozobots! Students learned how to use the Evo by Ozobot app to “drive” their Ozobot turkeys and race against others.
Trinity Christian School Basketball Team Wins
Varsity boys’ basketball team won the John Allen Memorial Tournament at Heritage Christian Academy after defeating Ezekiel Academy with a second-half comeback 45-43 in the championship game! Thank you to Heritage for hosting and our folks for coming out to support the team! Go Eagles!
LSA Choir Performs Fall Concert
Mrs. Petrone and the Lee-Scott Academy Middle & Lower School Choir had a wonderful fall concert. This group of girls showed off all the hard work and practice they’ve put in with their beautiful vocals and choreography. Thank you to Mrs. Petrone for her time spent with this group!
TCS Teachers Foster the Love of Reading
Our entire Second Grade class completed the “Reading Challenge” for the month of October, which included reading 3 books (book of choice, non-fiction, & historical fiction) and writing a report. Mrs. Blackstock rewarded her class with an extra recess. She made it very special by lacing up her tennis shoes and joining in on the fun. Well done, 2nd Grade!
Hudson Family Foundation Welcomes Students Into the Club
Students from Auburn City Schools, Lee County Schools, and Opelika City Schools were inducted into the Hudson Family Foundation’s Legends Club. With the AUMB pep band and Aubie greeting everyone at the entrance, more than 1,200 students made their way into Neville Arena to be honored for overcoming challenges in their lives. AU Track & Field Head Coach and Olympic Gold Medalist Leroy Burrell was the keynote speaker, and he encouraged students to continue working hard with solid character for their family, friends, and teachers. In addition to becoming a member of the Legends Club, each student will be presented with a $100 gift card from Kroger to use for Thanksgiving meal shopping. ACS thanks the Hudson Family Foundation, its staff, and sponsors for impacting young people’s lives!
ACS Earns an “A”
Auburn City Schools scored an “A” as a school system on the 2024 Alabama State Department of Education report card. This letter grade was earned and awarded by assessment of Academic Proficiency, Academic Growth, Graduation Rate, College & Career Readiness, Attendance, and Progress in ELL Proficiency. ACS wants to thank community stakeholders for enriching our 14 schools with continued support as we equip students to change the world!
St. Michael Catholic School Creates a Love for Reading and STEM
After reading fall, Halloween, and Thanksgiving books, kindergarteners made containers for pumpkins using different materials! First and second grade classes read, “One is a Feast for Mouse”, and built towers for pumpkins as Mouse created a tower of food! Our elementary classes visit Mrs. Pennisi’s library twice a week for 45 min. This gives them time for reading individually and as a class, as well as participating in hands on STEM activities! These classes are so important to a child’s education.
LSA Science Teacher Wins Award
Each month, Lee-Scott Academy Director of Technology, Mr. Kyle Christian, gives out a Junior Technician Award.
The award is bestowed to a faculty member, nominated by their peers, who are actively innovating new technologies in their classroom that assist with classroom engagement and learning, solving difficult technical problems that affect many users or teaching other faculty and students how to better use technology. November’s Junior Technician Award is given to Upper School science teacher, Mrs. Alison Starr! Mrs. Starr was nominated for her recent challenge to her chemistry students to script, film, edit and create music videos about different chemical bonds. The projects have been fun and impressive thanks to Mrs. Starr’s imagination! Well done and thank you for all you do, Mrs. Starr! Congratulations!
Congrats to OHS Football Scholarship Recipient
Congratulations to Opelika High School Senior E’Mauri Smiley on signing a football scholarship to the University of South Alabama.
Please send school news and photos to: Kendra@auburnopelikaparents.com.
Creekside Elementary School Named the Teacher of the Year
Linzee Mooty is an Auburn University graduate has been with ACS since 2013 and currently serves students as the Venture teacher at CES. “Mrs. Mooty goes above and beyond to create a warm, inclusive classroom where every student feels welcomed and valued. Her innovative, handson approach to teaching helps her students connect their learning to real-world experiences. Known for her kindness, patience, and willingness to help others, Mrs. Mooty is respected by parents, loved by students, and valued by her peers. She brings positivity, dedication, and passion for education to Creekside daily. Thank you, Mrs. Mooty, for making our school community better in every way!” – Katie Daniel, CES Principal
ACS Teachers
Continue Learning
Elementary teachers spent two days learning more about ACAP text-dependent writing. The Alabama Reading Initiative (ARI) and the Alabama Office of Math Improvement (OMI) led these professional development opportunities. Administered through the Alabama State Department of Education, ARI and OMI collaborate with school systems across the state of Alabama by implementing, supporting, and monitoring. ACS always seeks ways to enhance the educational experience for all students. Thank you to ARI and OMI for investing in our teachers!
LSA Lower School Students Learn in the LEGO Boost Club
Throughout the fall, students used the LEGO Boost Toolbox to learn the basics of coding, engineering, and robotics. They were able to choose from five models available in the set to build and make it come to life using an app. Students used icon-based coding and completed activities that were designed for each model. They were able to learn about coding and improve their problem-solving skills. Thanks to Mrs. Jones for spending time with these students and expanding their knowledge in a unique way!
Guiding ACS Students
The counselors from Auburn High School were recognized in Montgomery for their designation of having a program of distinction by the Alabama School Counselor Association. Auburn High’s application for the honor provided exemplary evidence of school counseling that aligned with the Comprehensive Counseling and Guidance Model for Alabama Public Schools and the American School Counseling Association National Model. School counselors face complex matters pertaining to students’ mental health and social/emotional well-being. Through the delivery of a comprehensive school counseling program, with equitable access for all students, school counselors are influential in promoting student success and positive mental health outcomes. ACS is proud of Isalie Corneil, Marie Harris, Heather Langford, Sheryl Smith, James Tindell, and Nicole Warren for this fantastic accomplishment!
St. Michael Catholic School Students Give Back
SMCS students brought in 1,754 cans for the St. Vincent de Paul Canned Food Drive. The class that brought in the most cans voted for which teacher will dress up as a turkey. While this is a fun challenge to win as a class, students were encouraged to think about why they needed to bring these cans and to pray for those they will be helping through this food drive!
Please send school news to: Kendra@auburnopelikaparents.com by the 10th of each month!
Lee-Scott Academy K-4
Students Share in Thanksgiving
Lots of turkeys had their Thanksgiving feast in K-4 classrooms today! Students shared what they were thankful for, spent time with their families and had yummy food. Happy Thanksgiving from Lee-Scott Academy K-4!
Auburn High School Girls Swim Team Wins Trophy
The Auburn High School Varsity Girls Swimming team brought home a Red Map trophy as State runner-up. Alli Kaplowitz won the 100M freestyle, and Mary Kate Henry won the 100M breaststroke during the state meet. ACS is proud of this team, Coach Jeff Dellinger, the families, and supporters for a fantastic finish to the 2024 swimming season!
My son looked at me with dread in his eyes. He needed to find out about driver’s education classes, and there was minimal information on the website. I smiled and told him he needed to call them. As he held the phone in his hand, he wasn’t sure what to do, what to say, or what to ask. He didn’t want to make the call, but I knew he needed to.
As kids approach adulthood, there are things you can do to help them feel prepared and confident. From simple things like making a phone call to more complex skills like financial planning, you can help your child feel ready for college and more.
Here are 10 helpful things to teach your child:
Life Skills
Cook simple meals: Yes, they will probably have a meal plan if they go away to college. But knowing how to make a few meals will help them far beyond their college years. Spend time including them in food preparation. Teach them how to follow a recipe, measure, and prep ingredients.
Transfer healthcare: While you have been responsible for e very aspect of their healthcare, they need to learn how to navigate their health. Let them make appointments, handle check-in, and share insurance information. Give them a chance to answer questions at doctor’s appointments before you give any input and be sure to give them one on one time with the doctor. Letting go of the control in this area can feel hard, but they must learn how to do this. The more you equip them to handle these things the easier it will be when they get sick and are away from home.
Run errands: Things that seem simple to us can be challenging for teens because they haven’t done them before. Give them a chance to run errands like going to the grocery store or pumping gas so they learn how to do these things on their own. Even having them take the car in for an oil change or bring the dog to the groomer so they learn how to interact with service providers independently is helpful to prepare them for college and adulthood.
Self-care: This isn’t about relaxing or taking time for yourself, although that is a helpful thing to model and teach. This is about teaching your child how to take care of things like hygiene, laundry, making a bed, wiping down counters, cleaning out the fridge, getting rest and exercise, and even managing time. While it is nice to do these things for them sometimes, make that the exception. In life, it is not typical for someone else to handle these things. Teach them how to do it now and they will be much better off down the road.
Financial Skills
Open a bank account: Help your child open their bank account. If they are under eighteen, you will need to be on the account with them, but many banks offer student accounts that can be opened as young as fifteen and used until their early to mid-twenties. Be sure to get an account with a debit card and teach them how it works as well as how to monitor their spending.
Pay bills: Kids need to learn how to pay bills on time. Even if they don’t have any official bills, you can start teaching them to contribute to their expenses such as cell phone or car insurance bills on a certain day each month.
Plan spending and saving: Have regular conversations about how to plan their spending. Budgeting can sound too intense for many teens, so asking questions to get them thinking about upcoming expenses or savings. For example, “I saw that the fair is coming. How much do you plan on spending when you go with your friends?” or “I know you’re hoping to get a computer before college starts. How much do you need to save each month to make that happen?” will help your child think ahead about how to best use their money.
Learning & Professional Skills
Talk about plans: Have regular conversations about what options are available to your child. If they are going to college, make them part of the process and help them understand the
financing. Whether you are paying for school, they are paying for school or they are utilizing aid, clear communication is essential so they know what they are responsible for now and in the future.
Prepare documents: College requires a lot of documents. From resumes to applications, essays to scheduling, there are a lot of things to fill out. Let your child fill them out. Yes, you can answer questions. But help them take responsibility for their learning by handling this process. There can be a lot of questions and discussions that need to happen for them to do this. Consider setting aside a weekly time to answer any questions they may have so you both have the time and attention you need for the tasks to be done.
Pay attention to deadlines: The college application process is full of deadlines. Taking tests, sending transcripts, completing admissions and financial applications, and sending deposits all have very specific deadlines. Discuss these with your child and expect them to meet these deadlines. It is helpful to talk about upcoming deadlines together and even ask them to plan time to complete the tasks. Visual and digital reminders will help them stay on track so they meet any upcoming deadlines.
If you give them the opportunity to do these things now when you are available to help if needed, they will feel ready and better equipped to do these things.
Rebecca Hastings is a freelance writer specializing in parenting and education. She has written for publications such as The Washington Post, Parent Co, Money Saving Mom, and A Fine Parent.
A home full of young adults is known to warm a parent’s heart, and the Harris-Young family just so happens to have two homes to fill with love.
“We have a blended family, which we divide between Anniston and Auburn,” said Tracy Harris. “During the week when we have kids, we are in our respective towns, and we are all together on the weekends. Then my husband and I are together when we don’t have kids at all.”
Braxton and Tracy have been married for nearly five years. Their children are McKinnon (Young), age 22, and a Senior at Clemson University, majoring in architecture; Graham (Young), age 20, and a sophomore at Auburn University, majoring in Civil Engineering; Elliot (Young), age 18, and a senior this year at Auburn High School. Last but not least is Anne Marie (Harris), a senior this year at Donoho School in Anniston.
“Football season can be a little heated since my husband is an Alabama graduate, I am an Auburn graduate, my daughter is a Clemson fan, Graham and Elliott are both Auburn fans, and my stepdaughter Anne Marie has been an Alabama fan,” Tracy shared. “Anne Marie has decided to attend Auburn next year, so not sure where she’ll land on Saturdays in the fall.”
Having all four of their children together doesn’t happen often enough as they are growing into their own.
When they do all have an opportunity to gather together, it truly warms this momma’s heart.
The Harris family loves to be active outside and to travel. You can find them spending the summer on Lake Martin.
“We love to travel as a family and have a trip planned over New Year’s Eve to Los Cabo,” Tracy shared. “Then we have a big catamaran trip to the British Virgin Islands in May to celebrate the three upcoming graduations.”
With three seniors in one home, reminiscing on the past is inevitable. This month’s recipe was a favorite for Tracy’s kids while they were growing up.
“This was a staple recipe when my kids were little because it was one dish and was super easy to prepare. I would add the kid’s favorite green bean recipe, and cleanup would be minimal. It was one of the few dishes all the kids liked, so it was a win-win for everyone involved,” Tracy reminisced. “The recipe was given to me by my childhood best friend’s mom, who recently passed away. She, like me, didn’t particularly like to cook, so she always had the best-tasting yet easiest recipes!”
Even now, this recipe is the most requested meal when all the young adults gather for a good homecooked meal.
Weeknight Pork Chops and Rice
Ingredients:
• 4-6 bone-in pork chops (usually called breakfast chops)
• 1 stick butter
• 1 can of beef consume soup
• 1 can French Onion Soup
• 2 cups of uncooked white rice
Instructions:
1. Melt butter and pour into a 9x13 glass baking dish.
2. Pour in rice and stir.
3. Add pork chops on top.
4. Pour soups on top.
5. Cover with aluminum foil and cook for 45 minutes at 350 degrees.
6. Remove foil and cook uncovered for another 30 minutes. You can also cook covered for 1 hour total instead.
Our Favorite Green Beans
Ingredients:
• 1 can green beans; do not drain
• ½ Tablespoon of Vegetable Oil
• 1 tablespoon of vinegar
• 1 beef bouillon cube
Directions:
1. Add ingredients to pot and cover with water.
2. Boil 20-ish minutes on medium-low heat, stirring occasionally, until liquid is reduced.
3. Stir and serve hot.
Gabriele has been married to her husband Daniel for 17 years. Together they have three incredible children – two boys, ages 16 and nine, and a sweet girl who will be two in August.
“Having my kids all together brings me the most joy in this season,” Tracy exclaimed. “They finally enjoy each other’s company and appreciate having a homecooked meal. Nothing brings me more happiness than seeing them all laughing and getting along.”
“I have some encouragement to young parents with picky eaters,” said Tracy. “Hang in there and know that they will outgrow their pickiness. My kids were so picky, but their pallets expanded once they went to college.”
Gabriele is a full-time Sales Director for Mary Kay Cosmetics. When she isn’t spending time with family or building her business, she supports her husband who is the Lead Pastor and Planter of Forward Church in Gulf Shores.
By the time Meira Mednick’s daughter was in third grade, homework time had morphed into lengthy, embattled evenings fraught with angry tears as frustrated daughter and frazzled mom squared off.
“My daughter began showing signs of difficulty in focus on homework in kindergarten. By second grade we were drowning,” Mednick says.
Mednick tried tactics like feeding her first grader an early dinner as soon as she got home from school and giving her time to relax before starting homework. Instead, “We ended up spending the next two years in a tug of war of time, and many tears were shed,” she says.
Many parents can relate and dread the contentious homework hour, which can plunder an otherwise peaceful evening. For kiddos, who struggle to tune out distractions and concentrate on the task at hand, sitting down to do homework doesn’t rank high on their list of priorities.
Thanks to the distractions of technology, the inability to focus is a growing problem in our culture. The number of children who are diagnosed with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) also continues to rise. The Centers for Disease Control reports that ADHD is “one of the most common chronic conditions of childhood.”
Experts agree: the ability to focus is crucial to achieving goals. How can we create a more calming homework atmosphere that will enhance our child’s ability to concentrate and get the job done quickly--without the draining drama?
Work in short bursts. Kids get overwhelmed with long worksheets and multiple assignments. Break homework into timed chunks. After a busy day at school, parents can typically expect their youngsters to focus on a task for one minute for each year of their age. That means a six-year-old should be given a two or three minute break every six minutes.
“Expecting 30 minutes of homework out of a first grader isn’t realistic without breaks,” says Rachel Rudman, a pediatric occupational therapist.
The timed approach made a big difference for Mednick’s daughter.
“Previously she would be discouraged even before picking up a pencil. By having a timed environment, she knew that she could tackle one interval at a time,” says
Mednick, whose daughter is now an 8th grade honors student.
Create smart brain breaks. During the timed breaks engage your child in short activities that help reorganize and refocus the brain, like jumping jacks, playing with Legos or playdoh, or snacking on crunchy carrots or pretzel rods or something chewy such as fruit leather.
Blowing up a balloon can also help ease frustrations. “Blowing forces the child to take deep breaths which increases relaxation and focus,” Rudman says.
Avoid electronics, which can be harder to pull a child away from.
Strike a pose. Yoga stretches and breathing exercises can calm and re-energize a tired body. Balancing poses like bird or airplane, and a full body twist combines breathing and concentrated stretching movements.
“Balancing poses require a level of concentration that are a great way to strengthen those ‘focus muscles’ and create a body and mind that is strong and relaxed,” says Mariam Gates, the author of the new children’s book Good Night Yoga: A Pose-by-Pose Bedtime Story.
Integrate natural elements. Researchers at the University of Illinois at UrbanaChampaign have found that including ornamental plants in a learning area can further enhance a child’s ability to concentrate and learn.
“And weirdly, the more involved the child is in the plant’s life or maintenance, the more learning goes on,” says Magalie Rene, a classroom design consultant, who works with parents and schools to create study spaces that foster learning.
Place a plant in your home’s study area and have your child water it as a transitionary cue before beginning homework, Rene suggests.
Chew gum. Although the “no gum allowed” rule was grilled into our psyches when we were students, more schools now allow kids to chew gum during state assessments. The chewing movement has an organizing effect on the brain and can help kids focus.
Energize with aromatherapy. Scent can have a powerful effect on our emotional well-being. Fill a spray bottle with water and two or three drops of peppermint, rosemary or citrus essential oil. Spray the scent around the study area to enhance concentration, focus and creativity.
Get organized. Make a homework box either out of a large shoe box or plastic container. Have your child decorate it and store homework supplies, like pens, pencils, crayons, markers, scissors, paper, a glue stick and anything else he might need. “Having everything together creates an atmosphere of organization and success,” Rudman says.
If your youngster continues to struggle with focus and concentration, consult with your family’s pediatrician or a child psychologist.
As the mom of two energetic school-age boys, freelance journalist Christa Melnyk Hines knows all too well the stress homework time can create in a family. Christa’s latest book is Happy, Healthy & Hyperconnected: Raise a Thoughtful Communicator in a Digital World.
AOP
After School Programs
Auburn First Baptist Child Development Center
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128 East Glenn Avenue, Auburn, Al 36830
Transportation from schools. Children engage in many developmentally appropriate, hands-on activities that promote learning in language, fine & large motor skills, the arts, math, science and social-emotional skills. Nationally accredited through NAC and licensed through Alabama Department of Human Resources.
334-821-8125 www.auburnfbc.org
Growing Room Auburn
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644 North Dean Road, Auburn, Al 36830
We believe that learning can take you everywhere. We offer language based curriculum focusing on math, science and self-help skills, character education programs, A Beka Phonics, extracurricular programs including JumpBunch, Dance, Big Green Bus and Spanish. We also provide before and after school transportation and care for Auburn City Schools.
334-501-2044 www.growingroomusa.com/auburn
Growing Room Opelika
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1755 Thomason Drive, Opelika, Al 36801
We believe that learning can take you everywhere. We offer language based curriculum focusing on math, science and self-help skills, character education programs, A Beka Phonics, extracurricular programs including JumpBunch, Dance, Big Green Bus and Spanish. We also provide before and after school transportation and care for Opelika City Schools.
334-748-9020 www.growingroomusa.com/opelika
Auburn City Schools
332 East Samford Avenue, Auburn, Al 36860
Extended day offers children K-5 the opportunity to receive individualized tutoring, participation in creative activities, and interaction with peers. Activities include art, sports, computer, music/movement and clubs.
334-887-2100 www.auburnschools.org
Auburn’s Best After School and Summer Camps
758 East Glenn Avenue, Auburn , Al 36830
“Parents And Kids In Auburn LOVE This Fun, Safe, And Exciting After School Program!” Includes FREE Transportation from school, Martial Arts Classes, Dance & Cheer Classes, and Fun Sports Activities!
334-329-5218 www.auburnbestafterschool.com
Bonnie’s Kids
2314 Enterprise Drive, Opelika, Al 36801
Pick up from school for Beauregard, Opelika and Auburn for after school programs. 334-745-6248 www.bonnieskidschildcare.com
Opelika City Schools
300 Simmons Street, Opelika, Al 36801
Extended day offers children K-5 the opportunity to receive individualized tutoring, participation in creative activities, and interaction with peers. Activities include art, sports, computer, music/movement and clubs.
334-745-970 www.opelikaschools.org
Homeschool
Discovery Christian School
P.O. Box 2596, Auburn, Al 36831
Discovery Christian School is a ministry of The Oaks Church. Our vision is to serve homeschooling families by offering support and encouragement as a church cover school. As both teacher and parent, you have the privilege of training your child as you discover together who God has made them to be. It is our goal to be a support to you in that process as you navigate the best educational tools and programs that fit their needs. We offer regular time for parents and children to come together for field trips, simple play dates, as well as informational meetings with tips from experienced home school moms. As a community, we hope to learn and grow together as we glean from the strengths and experiences that you each bring.
334-703-4340 www.discoverychristianschool.com
Lakeview Baptist
1600 Glenn Avenue, Auburn, Al 36830
As home schooling parents, we are responsible before God for the education of our children. That education may take many forms: using books and other resources at home, taking co-op classes, hiring a tutor, enrolling in distance learning or dual enrollment
classes, and many, many others. At Lakeview Christian School, we believe that the parents are the primary educators of their children.
Auburn Day School is Alabama’s first STEM (Science, Technology, Engineering, Mathematics) Preschool. The program is a half-day, drop-in STEM preschool serving children ages 8 months- 5 years. Auburn Day School offers hands-on lessons in science, technology, engineering, mathematics (STEM), language, and the arts.. Rather than themes, our lessons are taught through overarching concepts, which are ideas that can apply to anyone, at any time, with any background knowledge. Our focus is on process rather than procedures. We want to help students to learn how to think, not what to think so we can help set the foundation for a lifetime of learning. www.auburndayschool.org
Auburn Fist Baptist Child Development Center
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128 East Glenn Avenue, Auburn, Al 36830
The Child Development Center is a ministry of Auburn First Baptist by which we provide safe, loving, quality care for children in a Christian environment. We strive to provide the best in early childhood education so that each child may develop to his or her highest potential in physical, mental, emotional, social and spiritual growth. Children are given many opportunities in art, music, science, home living, blocks, puzzles, other manipulative activities and large motor skill activities.
Auburn’s first nature preschool and the second nature preschool in Alabama.
“Nature preschool” is an innovative educational strategy that allows your child to learn about, with, and through nature, embracing the great outdoors as their classroom. Children spend their school time exploring and uncovering knowledge in an environment where curiosity and child-led discovery are encouraged. This incredible, cutting-edge, and revolutionary philosophy combines early-childhood education and environmental awareness on a new level. Children will learn together in a multi-age, group setting. This ‘family’ style of learning encourages community and shared experiences.
Indian Pines Country Day School offers a preschool program for children ages three and four. and also a kindergarten for five year olds. Our goal is to provide your child with a healthy, happy setting in which to enjoy his or her first formal learning experience. We respect each child and strive to help him or her develop as a unique individual. 334-821-7786 www.ipcds.org
Bright Beginnings Preschool
301 South 8th Street, Opelika, Al 36801
Each class has planned learning activities appropriate for the age of the children, offering a balance of quiet and active play experiences. A bible story time is included each day as well as bible verses. This curriculum is developed around themes that are designed to lay a foundation for understanding God, Jesus, and the Bible, church, self, others and the natural world. It uses hands –on learning in a learning center environment: books, art, blocks, home living, nature, puzzles and manipulatives. Our Pre-k classes use the Letter People curriculum in addition to the Wee Learn Curriculum. 334-745-5715 www.fbcopelika.com/weekday-program
Farmville First Steps Preschool
3607 Al Hwy 147 North, Auburn, Al 36830
We are an outreach of Farmville Baptist Church. Our mission is to provide a comfortable, secure, loving environment where children will learn and grow under the supervision of qualified Christian teachers. The curriculum is traditional Christian teachings and activities that we have designed to deliver the physical, social, emotional and intellectual needs of early childhood. Our “hands on” learning experiences will strengthen your child’s development and prepare them for kindergarten. 334-329-KIDZ www.farmvillefirststeps.org/
Holy Trinity Episcopal Day School
100 Church Drive, Auburn, Al 36830
Pre-K and Kindergarten. At Holy Trinity Episcopal Day School, we recognize that God uniquely created each child. We understand that each child develops at a different pace and understands content through varying learning styles. Early childhood is a time of incredible and varied growth. Our talented teachers strive to meet each child where they are and help them learn, and grow so that they are ready for the next level in their education.
As a ministry of Lakeview Baptist Church, Lakeview Preschool Adventures we strive to not only teach preschoolers the basic ABC’s and 123’s; we also strive to teach them the love of Jesus and how He would want us to treat others. We do this in a loving, secure environment. Children will have adventures in chapel, music, indoor and outdoor play, center time, group time and much more
Parkway Preschool & Kindergarten offers several unique amenities for your convenience and for the Christian education of your child: Weekly Chapel time for 3-K classes, led by church staff of Parkway Baptist Church, weekly music and art classes, multiple play facilities, gymnasium, special programming from community organizations, lunch bunch and more.
334-321-0537 www.parkwaypreschool.org
Private Schools
Auburn Classical Academy
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1901-B Waverly Parkway, Opelika, Al 36801
We are classical, meaning that we employ the time-tested method of the Trivium (Grammar, Logic, and Rhetoric). Our curriculum is designed to inspire students to appreciate and understand the intellectual tradition of Christendom and the ancient world, and to see the acquisition of knowledge and wisdom as components of a lively Christian faith. Our genuine dedication to forming welleducated, academically successful students of sound character is apparent at every level of work. Students are carefully taught to think logically and express themselves well. We strive to create an environment which is conducive to study and charitable interactions between students, parents and teachers. We provide students the tools for life-long learning.
334-821-7081 www.auburnclassicalacademy.com
Lee-Scott Academy
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1601 Academy Drive, Auburn, Al 36830
Lee-Scott Academy is a college preparatory school offering a quality education in an environment where students are protected, nurtured, and challenged with Christian principles that promote the development of the total person. The pursuit of excellence in academics is the hallmark of the Academy, complemented by opportunities to participate in programs that encourage student success. Our academic program, designed to equip our students for success in college and in life, emphasizes English, mathematics, history, geography, science, foreign languages, technology, fine arts, and study skills. In addition to a challenging and balanced academic curriculum, we value the benefits of athletic programs and extracurricular activities that promote the student’s sense of character, responsibility, fair play, teamwork, and commitment. 334-821-2430 www.lee-scott.org
St. Michael Catholic School
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342 North College Street, Auburn, Al 36830
St. Michael Catholic School fosters the development of the whole child through spiritual, moral, and academic excellence. We are different where it counts! Come be a part of our community. Classes for PreK-5th grade. Also offering religion instruction, PE, mass as a school family, music and art class and library instruction each week. 334-887-5540 www.stmichaelcatholicschool.com
The Oaks School
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2201 Executive Park Drive, Opelika, Al 36801
The Oaks School is a Pre-K through 12th grade church school that started in 2018 in the Auburn-Opelika area. The Oaks School offers a four-day school week with strong academics, spiritually dynamic chapel services, limited homework, and an encouraging family atmosphere that empowers all students to become creative, high-impact leaders. 334-887-9947 www.theoaksschool.org
Trinity Christian School
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1010 India Road, Opelika, Al 36801
Trinity Christian School was established in 1978 as a private Christian school committed to providing a classical, biblical education to the young people of our community. With a starting assumption that education of children is the responsibility of parents, we seek to assist families in teaching all subjects in the light of God’s Word. Our goal is to provide a secure Christian environment of classical academic excellence. Trinity offers a K-12 program that employs time-tested curricula and teaching methods. Our students participate in hands-on learning about God’s creation and they practice careful articulation when expressing the truth of God’s Word; all the while, they grow to appreciate great literature and Latin as well as how God weaves science and mathematics throughout His world.
334-745-2464 www.tcsopelika.org
Chambers Academy
15048 US Hwy 431, LaFayette, Al 36862
Chambers Academy is a member of the Alabama Independent School Association and accredited by AdvancED. The Academy was established in 1969 by 15 founding members that sought excellence in academics, the arts and athletics. Their hard work, along with the efforts of dedicated parents, faculty, staff and community members, has developed a strong and thriving Chambers Academy. What began with a few grades has grown to include a year round daycare program as well as academic programs for kindergarten, elementary, junior high, and high school students. Chambers Academy’s campus also houses a licensed daycare facility for families desiring a safe and stimulating environment for their preschoolers. An extended after school day program is also available for our students.
334-864-9852 www.chambersacademy.com
Glenwood School
5801 Summerville Road, Smiths Station, Al 36877
The curriculum and instruction at Glenwood School is designed to impart to students the knowledge and skills necessary to excel in college and in any other post-secondary endeavor. Essential to the success of Glenwood School is the belief that Christian principles are the foundation upon which the school is founded. 334-297-3614 www.glenwoodgators.org
LaFayette Christian School
1904 Hamilton Road, LaGrange, Ga 30241
Lafayette Christian School strives to educate and inspire this generation to positively impact their culture and their future. We seek to develop each student’s God given spiritual, physical, mental and social gifts to their fullest potential. 706-884-6684 www.lafayettechristianschool.com
Southern Prep Academy
174 Ward Circle, Camp Hill, Al 36850
Southern Preparatory Academy is a private military boarding academy providing the best in academics, leadership, and athletics, structured on a foundation of moral and ethical values that develop young men of integrity, competence, and excellence who are prepared for the work of life. 256-675-6260 www.southernprepacademy.org
Springwood School
1814 Cherry Drive, Lanett, Al 36863
Established 1970, Springwood School develops the mind, body, and spirit of our students in a college and life preparatory environment. Located near the Alabama/Georgia border, we serve the families of K4-12th grade students from both states, and a number of countries around the word. Our Christian environment and is fully accredited by the Southern Association of Independent Schools as well as AdvancED, the world’s largest community of educational professionals. 334.644.2191 www.springwoodschool.com
St. Anne-Pacelli Catholic School
2020 Kay Circle, Columbus, Ga 31907
Be A Viking! St. Anne-Pacelli is a college preparatory age 1 through 12th grade school dedicated to giving children opportunities to learn in a safe, supportive environment where they can develop relationships with others and
with God. St. Anne-Pacelli Catholic School forms knowledgeable, faithful and responsible Catholic citizens who compassionately serve others. The core curriculum for all grade levels includes Religion, Language Arts, Mathematics, Science, and Social Studies. The resource curriculum includes Technology, Music, Art, Spanish, Physical Education, and Media Instruction. Critical thinking, problem solving, cooperative work, and hands-on learning are incorporated daily into the learning experience at St. Anne-Pacelli.
706-561-8232 www.beaviking.com
Public Schools
Auburn City Schools
332 East Samford Avenue, Auburn, Al 36830
Auburn City Schools serves as the premier public school system in the municipality and community of Auburn, which is nestled in the heart of Lee County on the Plains of East Alabama. ACS operates as a K-12 system with more than 8,800 students and as the pinnacle of educational excellence in our state, we have become a driving force for our student’s future career paths. With an increased priority on educating the whole child and an emphasis on college and career readiness, ACS stays on the cutting edge of academics, athletics, fine arts and technology.
334-887-2100 www.auburnschools.org
Lee County Schools
2411 Society Hill Road, Opelika, Al 36804
The mission of the Lee County School System is to challenge every student to pursue dreams, succeed with integrity, and contribute meaningfully to a diverse society.
334-705-6000 www.lee.k12.al.us
Opelika City Schools
300 Simmons Street, Opelika, Al 36801
Educate every child every day. All students can learn and are capable of achieving high goals. Each student is a valued individual with unique physical, social, emotional, and intellectual needs. Students need to develop a deep understanding of essential knowledge and skills. They also need to develop the capacity to apply their learning, to reason, to solve problems, and to produce quality work as they become contributing members of society. A safe and supportive learning environment promotes student achievement. The development of the curriculum, the design of instructional activities, and the use of assessment measures are focused on providing learning opportunities and feedback systems that enable students to achieve success.
334-745-970 www.opelikaschools.org
Special Needs / Educational Support
All For Children
2204 Ogletree Village Lane, Auburn, Al 36830
ALL (Auburn Language and Learning) is a pediatric, private practice, offering speech, language, auditory, occupational therapy, physical therapy, literacy and math services to children of all ages. Our practice consists of speechlanguage pathologists, auditory-verbal therapists, special educators, and occupational therapists. 334-209-2009 www.all-forchildren.com
Auburn Therapy and Learning Center
2408 East University Drive, Suite 109, Auburn, Al 36830
Our mission is to empower and encourage functional daily living skills for all ages, specifically focusing on providing the highest quality treatment to improve those skills pertaining to communication, fine motor skills, sensory integration, and feeding difficulties. Our clinicians are fully licensed and trained to provide quality treatment in Speech and Language Therapy, Occupational Therapy, and Feeding Therapy. We welcome clients of all ages who are in need of our therapeutic services. We specialize in the evaluation and treatment of difficulties associated with autism spectrum, downs syndrome, developmental delay, dyslexia, fine motor delay, social communication disorder, expressive language disorder and many more.
334-734-5511 www.auburntlc.com
East Alabama Mental Health
2506 Lambert Drive, Opelika, Al 36801
The ABC Program serves pre-school children ages 2 to 5 who face difficulties in the day care, pre-school or home environment due to behavioral issues and/or developmental delays. The After-School and Summer Camp programs
provide therapeutic services to children and youth with Serious Emotional Disturbance in a fun and safe setting. Children served through this program are in need of more intensive services due to behaviors which interfere with their success at home, at school and in the community. Counseling, daily living skills training, family support, and case management are key features of these programs.
334-742-270 www.eastalabamamhc.com
Ferguson Psychology
709 East Glenn Avenue, Auburn, Al 36830
Services include working with a broad range of individuals throughout the lifespan including children, adolescents, college students, and adults. Utilizing cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) to address a wide range of issues in psychotherapy including: attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), oppositional defiant disorder (ODD), behavior problems, social skills deficits, generalized anxiety, obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), panic disorder, social anxiety, phobias, trauma and posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD), depression, and general adjustment issues. Providing evidencebased treatments to assist individuals with their concerns. Interventions are tailor-made for a client’s individual needs. I enjoy providing therapy and brief assessment services to children and their parents. Utilizing a systemsbased approach, I work with families to establish the ideal environmental contingencies in order to help the families reach their full potential. Services offered include parenting skills training, behavior modification, and social skills training.
334-226-7222 www.ferguson-psychology.com
Lee County Youth Development Center 1109 Spring Drive, Opelika, Al 36801
Our agency strives to maintain the highest standards of quality care and innovative practices with expertise in the areas of prevention, intervention and residential care. One area is in psychological services with residential treatment and out-patient. The Educational Services Department operates five self-contained classroom divisions on its main campus in it’s state-of-theart comprehensive educational facilities designed to engage 21st Century learners.
334-749-2996 www.lcydc.org
Parenting 911
Opelika, Al 36801
Teach the Parents, Reach the Children. I am your Personal Parenting Coach, and Founder of FTP: Frazelma Teaching Parents. As your personal parenting coach, I equip parents using step-by-step, proven, and personalized tools that lead to a more desired calm, organized, and amazing teaching experience. Offering a wide variety of development and training coaching programs, built on timeless principles that get results. All of our curriculum can be customized to specifically address your individual and organizational needs. www.amazingparenting.org
RehabWorks 4 Kids
2450 Village Professional Parkway, Opelika, Al 36801
We provide comprehensive, high-quality, compassionate therapies to help each child reach his or her potential. Our pediatric rehabilitation specialists – speech therapists, occupational therapists, and physical therapists – work together to provide individualized therapy for children with a number of diagnoses and needs. Our services are provided in a colorful, family-friendly environment. Some conditions treated are autism, developmental delays, dyslexia, hearing impairments, motor coordination issues, speech/language impairments, spinal cord injuries and much more.
4505 Sandhill Road and 2B Westridge Drive, Auburn and Phenix City, Al 36830 and 36870
Supporting families and educators through behavioral consultation and direct ABA services, focused on children exhibiting behaviors consistent with autism spectrum disorder and other behavioral diagnoses. Offering services in two locations: Auburn and Phenix City! Services include behavioral consultation, skills assessment, functional assessment, classroom set up, social skills training, academic tutoring and more. Clinic based intervention, and if needed, intervention can take place in the home and community.
334-332-9077 www.smithgroupbc.com
Tutoring/Enrichment Resources
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910 South College Street, Auburn, Al 36849
Our school performance series provides opportunities for K–12 schoolchildren to enjoy exclusive performances by some of the most talented and accomplished artists from around the globe—live at the Gogue Center or virtually in the classroom. Master classes, workshops and artist talks bring Auburn University students and faculty members into meaningful contact and conversation with award-winning actors and musicians, groundbreaking artists and preeminent scholars for educational experiences unlike any other.
334-844-4722 www.goguecenter.auburn.edu
Alabama School of Math and Science
1255 Dauphin Street , Mobile, Al 36604
Alabama’s only fully public and residential high school for sophomores, juniors, and seniors seeking advanced studies in math, science, and the humanities. Tuition, room, and board are free. Founded in a rigorous math and science curriculum with emphasis on responsible leadership, ASMS will develop the full potential of exceptional students from across the state of Alabama, first serving the needs of those without local access to challenging educational opportunities.
251-441-2100 www.asms.net
First Baptist Church Fine Arts Academy
301 South 8th Street, Opelika, Al 36801
Providing music lessons in Opelika/Auburn where Christ is honored and students are challenged and inspired to develop their God-given talents for the glory and service of God. Lessons are offered in the areas of piano, voice, guitar, strings, brass, woodwinds, percussion and pipe organ. Music instruction is adapted to the development and progress of each student. Lessons are offered for 30, 45, and 60 minutes.
334-745-5715 www.fbcopelika.com/fine-arts-academy
KidStrong Auburn
1530 East Glenn Avenue, Auburn, Al 36830
KidStrong is a milestone accelerator for kids walking through 11 years old. We help parents discover their child’s superpowers and build future-ready kids who are confident making friends, run the playground, and raise their hand high in the classroom. Brain Development: Programming focused on improving mental development, problem-solving, and creativity. Physical Development: Programming designed to increase physical literacy, strength, and general athleticism. Character Development: A curriculum focused on life skills and helping kids be more confident and mentally tough. 334-780-1118 https://www.kidstrong.com/locations/auburn
Kumon Math and Reading Center
1550 Opelika Road, Suite 36, Auburn, Al 36830
Kumon’s after-school academic enrichment program has helped children achieve success worldwide. We strive to instill in children the desire to achieve and the motivation to learn on their own. Whether your child is seeking enrichment, needs help catching up or is just beginning his or her academic career, Kumon is designed to help him or her develop a love of learning. 334-501-8586 www.kumon.com/auburn-opelika-al
Mathnasium Auburn
1345 Opelika Road, #6, Auburn, Al 36830
We help kids in grades K-12 understand math by teaching the way that makes sense to them. When math makes sense, kids leap way ahead – whether they started out far behind or already ahead in math. Our formula for teaching kids math, the Mathnasium Method™ has transformed the way kids learn math for over a decade
334-329-7225 www.mathnasium.com/auburn
Variations Dance Studio
323 Airport Road, Auburn, Al 36830
Now accepting Spring 2025 Registration for the Variations Petite Academy (18 months-6 years) and Variations Upper Division (7 years and up). Variations is pleased to be the premiere studio in our state to be approved to offer the Leap N’ Learn curriculum to our Petite Academy students. The Leap ‘N Learn curriculum provides tools and shares knowledge necessary for the creation of a successful learning environment. Through an appreciation and utilization of natural development, students in a Leap ‘N Learn program will acquire motor, cognitive, and social skills beneficial for life. Upper Division offers classes in Ballet Technique, Pre-Pointe/Pointe, Jazz, Lyrical/Contemporary, Broadway, Tap, Acro, Hip Hop, Competition teams and more.
334-275-5013 www.variationsauburn.com
These should be challenges that can be realistically accomplished in a month. Examples could be to read three books or ride a bike for at least ten days. Just make sure that the challenge you set is realistic, and make sure to celebrate when you
A vision board is a collection of words, photos, and drawings that describe the direction you want your life to go in. For example, this year, our family is planning on enjoying a week outdoors at Yellowstone National Park. I’m writing a book, and I aim to finish it this year. We are also looking for a little farmhouse to buy to grow our farm. These are all of the things that could go on my
Have everyone in the family jot down something they would like to accomplish as a family in the coming year. Maybe, like our family, you have a special trip planned. Maybe you want to have a screenfree weekend or tackle a new book series together. Periodically, draw a goal from the jar and have fun tackling it together!
Regularly journaling about what you are grateful for is a practice that reduces symptoms of anxiety and depression. It’s also an exercise that empowers you to reframe the negatives in your life into positives. For example, instead of being discouraged about what you haven’t accomplished yet, celebrate what you have accomplished. “I am so grateful I parked further away from the store and got a bit of extra walking in today. The fresh air did me good.”
Brandy is currently entering her candidacy for marriage and family therapy. Her education is in early and elementary education, and she has masters degrees in parenting and child/adolescent development and marriage and family therapy. Brandy has held several career roles, such as early childhood teacher, case manager for a mental health agency, shelter manager for a womens’ shelter, and victim advocate at a crisis center. Brandy is a wife to her high school sweetheart, and they share three children. In her free time, she
FamilyCalendar
January 2, 9, 16, 19, 26
Auburn Women’s Basketball
January 4, 14, 25
Auburn Basketball
Saturday, January 11
Cirque Kalabante’
7:30 PM RiverCenter for the Performing Arts, 900 Broadway, Columbus, Ga Afrique en Cirque is a show by Yamoussa Bangoura, inspired by daily life in Guinea. This performance shares the beauty, youth and artistry of African culture. A colorful show beyond its scenery, costumes and staging, it makes any theatre vibrate with energy and represents the strength, agility and life’s joys of young Africans. The audience will see acrobats execute gravity-defying moves and human pyramids, accompanied by the contemporary sounds of live Afro-Jazz, percussion, and kora. Welcome to the universe of Kalabanté Productions, and prepare for an unforgettable journey! https://rivercenter.showare.com/
The Black Jacket Symphony Pink Floyd’s The Dark Side of the Moon
8:00 PM Montgomery Performing Arts Centre, 201 Tallapoosa Street, Montgomery Remember putting on an album and listening from start to finish? Relive that moment with a live concert experience unlike any other as The Black Jacket Symphony recreates Pink Floyd’s iconic album The Dark Side of the Moon live in its entirety—note for note, sound for sound—plus a full set of Pink Floyd’s greatest hits. https://mpaconline.org/the-black-jacket-symphonypink-floyds-dark-side-of-the-moon/
January 11 and 24
Auburn Swim and Dive
Tuesday, January 14
Family Discovery Hike: New Life
3:30 PM - 4:30 PM, Kreher Preserve & Nature Center, 2222 North College Street, Auburn Join our guides for an educational adventure as you and your children take in the many sights and sounds of the Nature Center. Hikes are for families with children ages 5 to 12. http://kpnc.auburn.edu/programs/guidedtours/
January 14-19
Annie BJCC, Birmingham, Al Holding onto hope when times are tough can take an awful lot of determination, and sometimes, an awful lot of determination comes in a surprisingly small package. Little Orphan Annie has reminded generations of theatergoers that sunshine is always right around the corner, and now the bestloved musical of all time is set to return in a new production – just as you remember it and just when we need it most. americantheatreguild.com/birmingham/shows/annie/
January 14 – February 21
2025 Winter Show: Paperworks Auburn Area Community Theater Jr, Jan Dempsey Community Arts Center, Auburn An exhibition open to area artists featuring both two-dimensional and three-dimensional artworks using paper. Auburn Arts Association (334) 501-2963 auburnarts@bellsouth.net
Friday, January 17
Sundilla presents The Honey Badgers (Advance tickets are $20 and can be found at Spicer’s Music, Ross House Coffee, Foodies, and online. Admission at the door will be $25 and $15 for students. ) 7:30 PM Sundilla Concert Series & Radio Hour, 450 E. Thach Avenue Auburn Free coffee, tea, water, and food will be available, and the audience is invited to bring their own favorite food or beverage. www.sundillamusic.com.
January 17 and 24
Auburn University Gymnastics
Saturday, January 18
Polar Plunge 2025
9:00 AM Samford Pool, E Samford Avenue Auburn Recruit sponsors to support you as you take the plunge in support of Lee County Special Olympics. Individual and group costumes are encouraged! This event is presented by Auburn Parks and Recreation and Lee County Special Olympics. Proceeds benefit Lee County Special Olympics. To register, visit the website. auburnalabama.org/parks/register.
Zoo Serve Day
9:00 AM - 4:00 PM, Montgomery Zoo, 2301 Coliseum Pkwy, Montgomery, Al We are picking a single day to gather volunteer groups to accomplish several tasks; including landscaping, trimming bushes, planting flowers, raking leaves, painting, and overall prepping the Zoo for upcoming events. It will be a great opportunity for those people that volunteer their time and energy to give back to the City of Montgomery Zoo and the River Region community. https://www.montgomeryzoo.com
CSO: Total Tchaikovsky
7:30 PM RiverCenter for the Performing Arts, 900 Broadway, Columbus, Ga Are you Totally in love with Tchaikovsky? Enjoy an evening brimming with elegance and beauty as the CSO celebrates the works of Russia’s premiere composer. The grand and lively “Polonaise” from Tchaikovsky’s opera Eugene Onegin is followed by the return of brilliant violinist SooBeen Lee for the virtuosic and ever-lyrical Tchaikovsky Violin Concerto. Tchaikovsky’s dramatic Symphony No. 4 brings the evening to a stirring close. https://rivercenter.showare.com/
Thursday, January 23
Chanticleer
RiverCenter for the Performing Arts, 900 Broadway, Columbus, Ga The GRAMMY® Award-winning vocal ensemble has been hailed as “the world’s reigning male chorus” by The New Yorker, and is known around the world as “an orchestra of voices” for its wide-ranging repertoire and dazzling virtuosity. Founded in San Francisco in 1978 by singer and musicologist Louis Botto, Chanticleer quickly took its place as one of the most prolific recording and touring ensembles in the world, selling over one million recordings and performing thousands of live concerts to audiences around the world.
https://rivercenter.showare.com/
Gryphon Trio at The Gogue Performing Arts Center
7:00 PM Gogue Performing Arts Center, 910 South College St, Auburn The endlessly inventive trio has impressed international audiences and the press for
the past 25 years with its highly refined, dynamic performances, and has firmly established itself as one of the world’s preeminent piano trios. With a repertoire that ranges from the traditional to the contemporary and from European classicism to modern-day multimedia, the Gryphon Trio is committed to redefining chamber music for the 21st century. https://goguecenter.auburn.edu/gryphon-trio/
Kristy Meanor in Erma Bombeck’s: At Wit’s End 7:00 PM Southside Center for the Arts, 1103 Glenn Street, Opelika The touching one-woman comedy titled after Bombeck’s long-running newspaper column, is a candid commentary of her life that made her the champion of suburban housewives everywhere. https://www.eastalabamaarts.org/upcoming-events
January 23 - February 2
Ma Rainey Black Bottom Springer Opera House, 103 10th Street, Columbus, Ga It’s 1927, and Ma Rainey, the Mother of the Blues, is in a recording session in a rundown Chicago studio. Fiery and determined, Ma Rainey fights to retain control over her music while her cocky trumpet player, Levee, dreams of making his own way in the business. As they struggle with the exploitation and rampant racism in the music industry, the action builds to a dramatic conclusion. More than music goes down in August Wilson’s riveting portrayal of the African American experience.
Sundilla presents Friction Farm (Advance tickets are $20 and can be found at Spicer’s Music, Ross House Coffee, Foodies, and online. Admission at the door will be $25 and $15 for students)
7:30 PM Sundilla Concert Series & Radio Hour, 450 E. Thach Avenue Auburn Free coffee, tea, water, and food will be available, and the audience is invited to bring their own favorite food or beverage. www.sundillamusic.com
January 24-25
Pike Piddlers Storytelling Festival
6:30 PM We Piddle Around Theatre, Brundidge and Trojan Center, Troy University, Al The festival begins at 6:30 on Friday night with supper and stories at the We Piddle Around Theater in Brundidge and continues with three storytelling concerts on Saturday (10 a.m., and 2 and 6:30 p.m.) at the Trojan Center Theatre (Troy University) in Troy. The festival features some of the country’s top storytellers and includes pre-show music by popular old-time bands. Call 334-403-3394 to find out more.
https://piddle.org/
Saturday, January 25
Celebrate the Wave Silent Film: Sunrise 7:30 PM RiverCenter for the Performing Arts, 900 Broadway, Columbus, Ga Bored with his wife (Janet Gaynor), their baby and the dull routine of farm life, a farmer (George O’Brien) falls under the spell of a flirtatious city girl (Margaret Livingston) who convinces him to drown his wife so they can escape together. When his wife becomes suspicious of his plan and runs away to the city, the farmer pursues her, slowly regaining her trust as the two rediscover their love for each other in this award-winning 1927 silent classic.
https://rivercenter.showare.com/
FamilyCalendar
Czech National Philharmonic
7:30 PM East Alabama Arts Center, 1700 Lafayette Pkwy, Opelika The Czech Philharmonic and Maestro Zsolt Hamar embark on their first tour of the United States including 20 cities. Based in Prague, the Czech Philharmonic has a rich history of leadership, including conductors Antonin Dvorak, Gustav Mahler, Herbert Von Karajan, Bela Bartok, and Simon Rattle. Notable soloists who have performed with the orchestra include Daniil Trifonov, Hilary Hahn, Ray Chen, Emanuel Ax, Katia and Marielle Labeque, and Peter Serkin. www.eastalabamaarts.org/performances
January 25-February 9
Lunar New Year
Stone Mountain Park, 1000 Robert E. Lee Blvd Stone Mountain, Ga. Stone Mountain Park is proud to host the Lunar New Year Festival. This festival features a Drone Show, Light Show, cultural craft activities, storytelling, puppetry, dance and drum exhibitions, parades, and other cultural elements. https://stonemountainpark.com/activity/events/lunarnew-year/
Thursday, January 30
Ballet Hispánico: CARMEN.maquia at The Gogue Performing Arts Center
7:00 PM Gogue Performing Arts Center, 910 S College St, Auburn Experience Ballet Hispánico at The Gogue Performing Arts Center on January 30 at 7:00 p.m. Ballet Hispánico will perform CARMEN.maquia, a Picasso-inspired, contemporary take on Bizet’s beloved classic. The fantastic choreography fuses
contemporary dance with nods to the Spanish paso doble and flamenco, you don’t want to miss it. goguecenter.auburn.edu/ballet-hispanico-carmenmaquia/
Saturday, February 1
Science on Saturday: Bird Progra with Dr. Geoff Hill
10:00 AM Kreher Preserve and Nature Center, 2222 North College St. Auburn Join Dr. Goeff Hill as he leads a program on native bird species in Alabama. Sarah Crim, (334) 707-6512 kpnc.auburn.edu
The Addams Family
7:30 PM RiverCenter for the Performing Arts, 900 Broadway, Columbus, Ga A comical feast that embraces the wackiness in every family, THE ADDAMS FAMILY is the magnificently macabre hit musical featuring everyone’s favorite creepy, kooky characters. Wednesday Addams, the ultimate princess of darkness, has grown up and fallen in love with a sweet, smart young man from a respectable family. https://rivercenter.showare.com/
February 4-6
Pretty Woman: The Musical at The Gogue Performing Arts Center
7:00 PM Gogue
Performing Arts Center, 910 S College Street, Auburn Are you ready to fall in love all over again? You don’t want to miss
Pretty Woman: The Musical at The Gogue Performing Arts Center on February 4 at 7:00 p.m. Based on one of Hollywood’s most beloved romantic stories of all time, Pretty Woman: The Musical, springs to life with a powerhouse creative team led by two-time Tony Awardwinning director and choreographer Jerry Mitchell. goguecenter.auburn.edu/pretty-woman-the-musical/
February 7-8
Daddy Daughter Date Night ($20 per ticket for each father ticket & 1st daughter ticket, $5 each additional daughter.) Lake Wilmore Recreation Center, 2200 Grove Hill Road, Auburn Join Auburn Parks and Recreation for their 34th Annual Daddy Daughter Date Night. Friday, February 7th and Saturday, February 8th, 6:30-9pm each night at the new Lake Wilmore Recreation Center. Tickets go on sale Monday, December 9, 2024 at 8 a.m. CST. This year’s theme is a Black and White Ball. https://auburnal.myrec.com
February 7-8
Mother Son Blue Jean Ball ($30 per couple/$10 each additoinal son)
6:00 PM8:00 PM, Covington Recreation Center, Opelika
A fun night out for moms and sons of all ages. Ticket includes meal, corsage, boutonniere, and entertainment. https://www.opelika-al.gov/
Top 5 Tech Rules for Kids in the New Year
As we enter a new year, tech will continue to shape how our children interact with the world. With new devices and social media platforms emerging daily, and if your kids received a device for Christmas, it is crucial to establish guidelines that help your child develop healthy habits while ensuring their safety. Here are the top five rules that will support you as a parent and keep your child safe online.
1. Establish Clear Screen Time Limits.
Setting boundaries around screen time is essential for maintaining a healthy balance between online and offline activities. Parents should determine appropriate daily or weekly limits for device usage, considering the child’s age and responsibilities. Encouraging breaks from screens, especially during meals and family time, promotes better communication and helps children engage in other activities, such as reading, sports, or hobbies. Also, as much as kids like to push back, we know they thrive when there are set boundaries. Establishing clear screen time limits in the beginning leaves little room for “guess work” and ultimately arguing later.
as their location, school, or phone number. Regular discussions about the potential dangers of interacting with strangers on social media can empower your child to make informed decisions, ultimately fostering a sense of safety in their online interactions.
3. Encourage Open Communication. By now, you know my love for open communication. If I could scream it from every rooftop, I would. Creating an environment where children feel comfortable discussing their online experiences is crucial. Parents should encourage their kids to share anything that makes them uncomfortable, whether it’s an inappropriate message or an encounter with cyberbullying. Establishing trust ensures that children will come to you for advice or help when they face challenges online. This open communication can also facilitate discussions about the responsible use of technology, helping your children understand the impact of their online behavior.
also strengthens your bond and allows you to guide them more effectively. Also, you do not have to purchase expensive apps to monitor your child’s device. Your eyeballs are free. Pick up the phone. Look at it. Then discuss.
5. Model Healthy Technology Use. They are watching...even if they are not always listening. Children often emulate their parents’ behavior, making it important for adults to model healthy technology habits. This means prioritizing face-to-face interactions over screen time, setting an example of responsible social media use, and demonstrating how to disconnect from devices when necessary. By showcasing a balanced approach to technology, parents can instill similar values in their children, fostering a generation that understands the importance of moderation and mindfulness in their digital lives.
Parents play a critical role in guiding their children toward responsible tech use. By establishing clear rules around screen time, educating them about online safety, fostering open communication, monitoring their digital lives, and modeling healthy habits, parents can help their children navigate the complexities of the digital world effectively.
2. Educate About Privacy and Online Safety. In a digital age where personal information is often at risk, it is vital for parents to educate their children about online privacy. We must teach our kids to use strong passwords, recognize phishing attempts, and understand the importance of not sharing personal information, such
4. Monitor and Involve Yourself in Their Digital Life. Now, for one of my favorite “rules” for parenting a child that has tech. Monitoring is necessary to ensure your child’s safety. Parents should stay informed about the apps and platforms their children use, including understanding the features and potential risks associated with them. Involving yourself in your child’s digital life, whether by playing games together or discussing their favorite YouTube channels, not only helps you understand their online environment but
Kristi Bush serves as a national education consultant and social media safety advocate. She is a licensed social worker with greater than 15 years of clinical practice and health care experience. She attended Troy and Auburn University where she studied social work and counseling. Kristi travels nationally and has spoken with thousands of children, parents, professionals and organizations about the benefits and threats associated with social media. You may reach Kristi through her website at www.knbcommunications.com.
Megan Smalley
AOP: Owning your own business is such a gift. What made you decide to open Scarlet & Gold Boutique?
MS: I wanted a creative outlet. I was in full-time pharmaceutical sales and did this on the side. I never thought it would be my fulltime job, but then the business grew, and I took a leap of faith.
I love the custom side of what we do. Working with custom clients is a dream. Hearing their vision and bringing it to life is really rewarding.
AOP: With a New Year here, what are you and your family most looking forward too? Do you set resolutions/goals?
MS: My greatest goal is to raise kids who love Jesus, love each other, and make an impact in this world with the gifts that God has given them. My goal each year is to lean into that mission. I want my boys to be confident in who they are and use those gifts to bless others. I do this by pouring into their hearts daily and coaching them on how to work towards something.
We set little goals, and the boys will have things they want to achieve, and then we work towards that. One of those recently was making it into their school spelling bee. The twins set that goal, and then we worked as a family toward achieving it. And they did it! It was such a sweet moment.
AOP: As a mom of three young kiddos, how do you handle feeling overwhelmed or stressed as a mother?
MS: I have to take moments to refuel. We have great rhythms, and it all feels less overwhelming when we stick to them. I am teaching the boys to be helpers too. We are a family team and I cannot do it alone. We function best as a family when we all work together toward the common goal, even when it is as simple as getting out the door.
AOP: They often say it takes a tribe to raise a child. What resources do you use to support your parenting journey?
MS: It does take a village. Giving those I trust the ability to help makes my boys better people. I often find that I can say something 1200 times, but someone else says it, and magically, my boys listen.
In our family, the village looks like college girls, co-workers, neighbors, church members, and podcasts that help with sources. My family is amazing, but ten hours away, so we have had to get creative with the day-to-day village.
AOP: What is the most important lesson you have learned so far as a mother?
MS: The most important lesson I have learned is that you can’t pour from an empty cup. I can’t give to my family, especially my children if I do not prioritize myself. I have to make sure that I am taken care of.
This looks like finding small moments of time to take care of myself so that my cup is staying full and I am not running on empty. Running on empty is very easy as a mother to let it happen.
AOP: Knowing what you know now, what is one piece of advice you would tell your younger self?
MS: There is no one right way to do things in motherhood. Trial and error is the name of the game. You are not a failure if you try something that doesn’t work. Just try something else. Everyone is going to offer you a lot of advice and be very passionate about the right thing to do. You need to figure out what is right for your family. Do that. You are the mother of these children that God put in your house.
Rapid Fire Questions:
1. Playlists or Podcasts? Podcasts
2. Which season is your favorite? Winter - Christmas
3. Coffee or Hot Tea? Coffee
4. Dinner at home or eating out? Both. Dinner at home with kids, eating out without kids.
5. Text or Call? Text - specifically a voice memo!
Megan Smalley is a coach’s wife, and the family spends the majority of the winter months in the gym watching Blake’s basketball team. She is a mom to three boys — first-grade twins, Stisher and Eli, and then the youngest, James, is 4! All the boys are IVF babies, which she says are beautiful miracles after the storm called infertility. The Smalley family loves to travel and attend sporting events. We also enjoy the simple life of being outside. We live on 3 acres and it’s truly boy Heaven on earth.
