Auburn Opelika Parents Special Needs Guide Edition (September 2024)
Teens and Screens
Helping children understand, show compassion and be inclusive.
Local, state and national resources to help your child and your family.
Adaline Dunn (8) is the oldest daughter of Reese and Jenifer Dunn. She is a second grader at Cary Woods Elementary where she is known as the “mayor” because of her outgoing personality.
Adaline loves spending time with family, dancing and putting on shows with her sister, Isabel. She also enjoys playing outside on the swing set and with her dog, Lottie.
Publisher’sNote
Recently, I saw a post on social media that said instead of telling your children not to stare, why not encourage your children to say hello and offer a smile? I would take that a step further and suggest more meaningful ways to connect with the special needs community. It might be an invitation to include a classmate (and her mom) in an upcoming group playdate or outing you are planning. This simple act of kindness can open the lines of communication with another parent in your neighborhood or preschool class, and it can be the beginning of a beautiful friendship among your children. Or, maybe plan to volunteer as a family this year and choose to serve those with special needs. Auburn and Opelika are blessed to have various organizations that could use volunteers, like Lee County Special Olympics, Expressions of a Braveheart, the Miracle League of East Alabama, and The Exceptional Foundation of East Alabama. Being a Miracle League buddy at bat and helping a player around the bases would be a gift of a lifetime to the participants and your children who volunteer and give back to the special needs community. To learn more about these opportunities and others, take a look through this month’s Special Needs Guide, where you will find local and regional resources and recreational programs in East Alabama.
As you explore this month’s magazine, I encourage you to read our feature article, Talking to Kids About Disabilities. The author provides insightful ways to open up the conversation at home. One of the most profound points she makes is to teach your family that everyone is different, yet all the same. Isn’t that what is so wonderful about life? No two people are exactly the same, and these differences create diversity and a blending that is much needed throughout the community. What one person brings into a relationship, another brings something else. But finding the commonalities makes it all work and can be the foundation for something special. Teaching our children about the things that make us all different and opening the conversations toward understanding can create an atmosphere of acceptance and empathy for those different from us. Start by looking at differences that are seen, like needing a wheelchair to move around, and then move to those that are unseen, like hearing and speech differences and cognitive impairments. Even with these differences, encourage the finding of commonalities from favorite foods and movies to hobbies and talents. Friendships start from the similarities and likeness, and then balance and grow in the differences. This understanding and appreciation of diversity can enlighten us all.
From one parent to another... get the conversations going at home and build a sense of acceptance for others in our community. Finding ways to look at the similarities in others is a big step toward teaching our children empathy and understanding throughout life.
Kendra
kendra@auburnopelikaparents.com
Opelika Visit us online at www.auburnopelikaparents.com
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What We Can Learn From Special Needs Parents
Angela Schwindt is credited for these wise words, “While we try to teach our children all about life, our children teach us what life is all about.” I think most of us go into parenthood with a mix of nervousness and excitement. We want to raise good people who make the world a better place, but we are overwhelmed by the complex realities of parenthood and forced to accept that we are unprepared for the most challenging journey of our lives. I have learned from parents of children with special needs that if we allow ourselves to be teachable, our children will open our eyes to life’s greatest lessons. Parents of children with special needs know the value of observing their children through the lens of curiosity instead of judgment. For example, through care-
ful observation, they recognize that when their child is pacing back and forth across a room, he is simply calming his nervous system rather than being “hyperactive” or “defiant.” They have gained patience from waiting eight long years to hear their daughter say anything, much less “I love you.” They have discovered that comparison is the thief of joy from countless days on the playground watching other children engage in a game of “hide and go seek” while their child prefers solitude. They understand unconditional love and sacrifice from countless sleepless nights in the hospital. From helping their child learn how to pick up toys to advocating in IEP meetings, they have gathered
wisdom by identifying what battles they should walk away from and what battles are worth disrupting the peace. They have accepted kindness from strangers who encourage them when their child is having a meltdown in Wal-Mart instead of staring in horror. They know to take nothing for granted and appreciate the value of taking the time to stop and celebrate the smallest of achievements. They have unmatched self-control from the sheer number of repetitions it takes to teach their child anything she does not want to learn. They excel at persevering through days of overwhelming exhaustion. They absorb everything they can from doctors, nurses, counselors, teachers, therapists, and other parents who have walked in their shoes.
These heroic parents are unbelievably faithful to their children and persevere through challenges that most of us cannot imagine. They are unsung heroes in need of our support, admiration, and respect. The next time you have the opportunity, praise and encourage these parents and children. Spend time listening without judgment, sit with them in the middle of the chaos, and ask how you can help.
Dr. Beth Long received her education in Counseling Psychology from Chapman University. She is a Licensed Professional Counselor and Board Certified Behavior Analyst. Beth has worked in six unique clinical environments across the country and currently owns Works of Wonder Therapy in Montgomery. Beth utilizes the knowledge from a variety of different disciplines to give her patients the best care possible. To learn more visit www.worksofwondertherapy.com.
HOLIDAY YARD
7 A.M.-2 P.M. SEPT 28
OPELIKA SPORTSPLEX
Out with the old, in with the new! Come shop new and gently used holiday decorations just in time for the holidays!
VENDORS MUST REGISTER BEFORE 9/23/24
Ignite the Night Therapeutics Prom
Join the City of Auburn Parks and Recreation, October 10, 6:00-8:00pm, for a night of dancing and music! We hope to make this event similar to the Shine Prom you enjoyed in the past. We will have staff present to support and dance with you! We have a DJ, fun appetizers/ treats, prizes, dancing, and games available to enjoy throughout the night. Dress fancy or casually, whatever you prefer. $5.00 per person; ages 15 years and up.
Email ekaufman@auburnalabama.org
Ausome Amphibians and Reptiles
Join the Kreher Preserve & Nature Center educators, September 20, 4:30pm, for a one-hour presentation on the AUsome amphibians and reptiles found in our state and beyond! Children and adults will enjoy this entertaining, hands-on program with live animals. Admission is $5/person ($4 for members); children 3 and under are free. Kreher Preserve & Nature Center, 2222 North College St, Auburn. https://kpnc.auburn.edu/ausome-amphibians/
Football, Fans, and Feathers
One of Auburn’s most popular fall programs — the Auburn University Raptor Center’s Football, Fans and Feathers — offers fans the opportunity to see a raptor show where they will experience birds of prey eye-to-eye and watch as they swoop overhead. Shows will be held at 4 p.m. the Friday before Auburn home games. Tickets can be purchased in advance; there is no charge for children age three and under. The hourlong program is presented at the center’s the 350-seat Edgar B. Carter Educational Amphitheater, located at 1350 Pratt-Carden Drive off Shug Jordan Parkway. During the show, hawks, falcons, eagles and other birds of prey are free-flown from towers and around the amphitheater, enabling visitors to see these raptors flying close. Visitors will also learn interesting facts about natural history, conservation, and rehabilitation. www.vetmed.auburn.edu
Peer Social Skills Course for Special Needs
Join Auburn Parks and Recreation’s Therapeutics Program for this 16-week course geared towards gaining social skills. Led by instructors Alex Jay and Sheree & Michael Stewart, this is a dual course for parents and children ages 13-19. Please register for this course and then email Elizabeth at ekaufman@auburnalabama.org to set up an interview for course entrance. Parents and teens must both register for the course.
The Very Hungry Caterpillar Show
The Very Hungry Caterpillar Show has been dazzling audiences around the globe for over seven years, faithfully bringing Eric Carle’s timeless classics to the stage. Created by Jonathan Rockefeller, this production of the critically acclaimed show features a menagerie of over 75 magical puppets. Alongside The Very Hungry Caterpillar, every production of the show features three other Eric Carle stories. Audiences travel the world with 10 Little Rubber Ducks; meet one Very Busy Spider, and spend time with friends big and small in Head To Toe. These beloved tales are brought to life by a captivating cast of storytellers, sweeping original music, and stunning puppetry. September 26, 9:30am and 11:30am. RiverCenter for the Performing Arts, 900 Broadway, Columbus, Ga. https://rivercenter.org
Auburn University Homecoming
Parade and Pep Rally: September 13
Roll on Home to the Plains! The event will be full of energy and the Auburn Spirit as we get ready for the game day on Saturday! The parade will feature floats from on and off campus organizations, the AU Cheerleaders, AU Tiger Paws, AU Marching Band, Miss Homecoming Candidates and Aubie! Join us in downtown Auburn, 6:30pm.
Bill Blagg: Family Magic
Join Gogue Center for the Performing Arts, October 6, 3:00pm, for wonder and endless surprises! With more than 60 minutes of non-stop magical fun, Family Magic is specifically designed to entertain and engage audiences of all ages. Bill Blagg’s unique blend of comedy, audience participation and mind-bending magic will keep you on the edge of your seat, eagerly anticipating what’s coming next. Prepare to be amazed as ordinary objects come to life while others vanish in the blink of an eye—you could even be chosen to float in mid-air! For tickets, visit www.goguecenter.auburn.edu/billyblagg-family-magic/
Expressions of a BraveHeart
Bravehearts is a fine arts program offering art, music, and dance classes to enhance the quality of life for preteens, youth, and young adults ages 11–21 years old with moderate to severe disabilities. BraveHearts is a safe, respectful, and understanding setting where your family member can develop friendships, explore fine arts, and enhance self-esteem. Program meets Monday evenings at the Opelika Sportsplex during spring and fall semesters for art, music, and dance classes. There is NO cost to participating families. BraveHearts is a collaboration between the Auburn University Social Work Program and Opelika Parks and Recreation Department. The program is managed by three Auburn University Social Work faculty members and facilitated by approximately 40+ Auburn University students from a variety of majors. Volunteers’ complete orientation and are provided training throughout the semester. For information, contact: 334-844-1483; libart1@auburn.edu.
Holiday Yard Sale
Out with the old, in with the new! Fall, Halloween & Christmas Items Only. Come shop new and gently used decorations just in time for the holidays! Sale will be held at Opelika SportsPlex, September 28, 7:00am-2:00pm. Vendors must register by September 23. Contact mjohnson@opelika-al.gov.
Auburn City Schools Go Back-to-School
Auburn City Schools opened the doors to a new year filled with endless possibilities, exciting challenges, and countless memories waiting to be made. From the youngest learners to the Class of 2025, let’s make this year one for the books! Families, teachers, and staff—thank you for the unwavering dedication and support of an excellent educational environment for future thinkers. Together, we will continue to create a nurturing and inspiring environment for all students to thrive. Here’s to a great year of growth, discovery, and success!
Welcome Camp for Lee-Scott 7th Graders
Lee-Scott Academy’s rising 7th grade students participated in a fun-filled day at camp. During camp, the students, led by our ambassadors, enjoyed getting to meet their teachers, learning more about their classmates and exploring campus. We are so excited to welcome these students to the Middle School.
Auburn High Celebrates Summer
Graduates
Congratulations to Wilson Lowe, Josue Mejia, and Areiyion Miles, who proudly walked across the stage today at Auburn High School’s Summer Commencement Exercise. Surrounded by family and friends, these Class of 2024 graduates have reached a significant milestone, and ACS is so proud of their achievements. Here’s to new beginnings and bright futures ahead!
Welcome Back OCS Teachers and Staff
Opelika City Schools had a fantastic day welcoming back all of the teachers and staff members to the 2024-25 school year.
LSA Student Attends National Electric
Cooperative Tour In DC
Earlier this summer, senior Jay Collins joined the National Electric Cooperative Youth Tour on a trip to Washington D.C.! High school students from around the country have been attending this week-long event since the late 1950s. Throughout the trip, students like Jay gain a personal understanding of American history and their role as a citizen by meeting their Representative and Senators. Special events included touring national museums and memorials as well as a wreath laying at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier. Thanks for representing Lee-Scott Academy so well in the national’s capitol, Jay!
LSA Students Attend Barrel Horse Championships
The National Barrel Horse Association (NBHA) Youth Teen and World Championships were held in Perry, Georgia. Over 2000 contestants were at the Georgia National Fairgrounds for the competition and three were Lee-Scott Academy Warriors! Senior Claire McKay, sophomore Laney Payne and eighth grader Wesley-Kate Crocker all attended and competed well. Incredible job, ladies!
ACS Welcomes New Teachers to the 2024-25 School Year
Auburn City Schools held the annual New Teacher Breakfast! In a room full of excitement and smiles, ACS welcomed new faces across all 14 campuses. Several introductions included words of pride about being a product of Auburn City Schools or the long-awaited homecoming. What is essentially the first day of school for new personnel, this event marks the beginning of a new chapter for ACS as we embark on the journey of the 20242025 academic year. Over the next days, these teachers, coaches, and counselors underwent extensive training regarding policies, procedures, and best practices under the leadership of Curriculum Coordinators Drew Morgan and Betty Weeden.
ACS 6th Grader Wins Gold at USA Fencing Nationals
Rising sixth grader Edward (Eunseong) Lim recently achieved a remarkable feat at the USA Fencing National Championships and July Challenge, also known as Summer Nationals 2024, in Columbus, Ohio, where he emerged as the Gold Medalist in the Y-10 Men’s Foil, a title that crowns him as a National Champion! Hard work, strategy, and the crowd’s energy brought Edward to the top of the podium in his division. Besides winning a National Title, Edward said his favorite thing about Summer Nationals is “I can see lots of new friends and try fencing new people; I can evolve myself by fencing other people that are better than me.” USA Fencing’s mission is to grow and promote the sport of fencing in the United States, honor its rich traditions, and achieve sustained competitive international excellence. ACS is proud of Edward for representing Auburn on a national stage!
Back-to-School Bash a Success
Opelika City Schools had a great time seeing so many of its students and families at the Back to School Bash. We’re looking forward to a great school year!
LSA Varsity and JV Teams Attend Dance Camp
Lee Scott Varsity and JV Dance Teams attended UDA Dance Camp at home this summer. The team was awarded three blue ribbons for their Pom and Hip-Hop routines. They received the Superior Award and received a bid to UDA Nationals. Lilli Scott Parker was named Drill Queen. The team
had six team members named All American- Abby Grace Turner, Lexi Robinson, Mary Brentley Moore, Lilli Scott Parker, Ella Sheppard, and Brennan Walls. Varsity - Lexi Robinson, Mary Brentley Moore, Emma Carter, Lilli Scott Parker, Ella Sheppard, and Brennan Walls Not pictured: Lizzy Gregory and Harper DeWitt. Junior varsity - Ava Dudley, Maddie Tally, and Abbie Grace Turner.
ACS Brings the Band Together
With tunes echoing from all corners of campus, the Auburn High School Marching Band was in full swing for their first day of camp! More than 220 students followed their compasses to march to the beat and sharpen their sound in preparation for the 2024 football season with the theme “Dark Sails,” a swashbuckling take on pirate adventures. Be sure to catch AHSMB’s halftime show this fall in Duck Samford Stadium as they hoist the sails while capturing your hearts and imagination with a fantastic performance!
Students Return to OCS Classrooms
It was a great first day in the Opelika City Schools. Students and teachers were eager to be back in the classroom and begin another school year of learning, exploring, and growing. Wishing everyone a fantastic year filled with learning, growth, and wonderful memories.
ACS Leaders Attend United Conference
Sixteen dedicated leaders from Auburn City Schools recently attended UNITED: The National Conference on School Leadership in Nashville! With fantastic keynote speakers like Best-Selling Author Jon Gordon and specialized sessions about challenges and opportunities, these administrators gathered invaluable insights on innovative strategies and new mindsets. This knowledge will be instrumental in shaping the future of our schools. The commitment to excellence and continuous improvement ensures that ACS remains at the forefront of educational leadership. Stay tuned for exciting updates and initiatives inspired by this conference.
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OCS Welcome New Teachers
Opelika City Schools welcomed 73 new teachers during New Teacher Academy, July 22-23. They spent three days learning about classroom management, curriculum and instruction, technology, and many other topics related to working in the Opelika City Schools. Special thanks to the Opelika Chamber of Commerce, Cadence Bank, and AEA for sponsoring meals and snacks during the week.
Dr. Silvia Scaife Selected to Present at Tennessee Arts Academy
ACS Career Tech Director, Dr. Silvia Scaife, was recently selected as a “visiting faculty” member and presenter at the Tennessee Arts Academy at Belmont University. Each summer, the Tennessee Arts Academy attracts an enthusiastic group of K-12 arts educators for intensive music, theatre, dance, visual art, and arts leadership training. Dr. Scaife is one of 20 nationally recognized professors, academic instructors, and artists assembled from leading universities, schools, and arts institutions across the United States to present and share their expertise. As a former theatre director, Dr. Scaife serves as an elected governing board member for the Educational Theatre Association, is the mentoring coordinator for the Alabama Thespian Festival, and has adjudicated for Alabama, Georgia, and the International Thespians Festivals. With more than twenty-eight years of service in public education, Dr. Scaife continues to explore and implement innovative ways to foster a thirst for learning. Dr. Scaife is photographed with E. Frank Bluestein, a former Disney National Performing Arts Teacher of the Year and Executive Director of the Tennessee Shakespeare Co.
Congrats to LSA’s Golfing Champion
Congratulations to Lee-Scott Academy
freshman golfer David Beard on an exceptional performance at the 2024 Billy Hall Memorial Invitational.
Fresh off a state championship, David was named the Junior Champion!
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ACS Welcomes Teachers Back-to-School
ACS marks the first day of the 2024-2025 academic year for teachers with an orientation filled with spectacular guest speakers, special activities, and PTO-provided breakfasts and lunches, ACS recognizes and appreciates the extraordinary effort principals and parents made to extend the warmest of welcomes to our extraordinary educators across the school system. As our teachers work diligently to prepare for the first day of school on Thursday, August 8, ACS encourages families to make plans to attend Meet the Teacher and the Open House opportunities in our schools next week. Enjoy the weekend and know ACS can’t wait to have students back in school!
LSA Welcomes New Teachers
It was a fantastic New Faculty Orientation for some of the newest educators at LeeScott Academy! Our new faculty members have had the opportunity to meet with staff and administration, tour campus further and become even more prepared ahead of their first day. We’re excited to welcome these talented Lower & Upper School teachers to the Warrior family and look forward to a great year ahead.
Please send school news and photos to: Kendra@auburnopelikaparents.com.
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Randy Gillon Named OCS Track Coach
Randy Gillon has been named the new head boys track coach at Opelika High School. “We are incredibly excited about hiring Coach Gillon to lead our boys track team. His immense knowledge of the sport and experience in college athletics will allow him to build upon the strong foundation of Opelika Track & Field,” said Kelli Fischer, Opelika High School Principal, “We look forward to watching this team thrive under his leadership.” During his career, Gillon has coached a pair of Olympians, 12 All-Americans, 15 NCAA championship qualifiers, 50 NCAA first round qualifiers, and 20 school record holders. “I am humbled by the opportunity to serve the Opelika community, the students, and student-athletes of Opelika High School,” said Gillon. “God is truly amazing as this wasn’t something I was looking for. However, after much prayer, consulting my wife and trusted friends, I knew this was a step I was to take. I’m grateful to Superintendent Dr. Farrell Seymore, Principal Kelli Fischer and Athletic Director Jamie Williams for this opportunity and for finding me suitable to lead this next era of the Opelika Bulldog boys track & field program. Gillon served as the assistant track and field coach for Auburn University from February 2019-June 2022. He was the assistant head track and field coach at University of Illinois from September 2014-June 2018. From August 2006 -September 2014, he served as assistant track and field coach at Michigan State University. Gillon received his Bachelor of Science degree in Kinesiology from the University of Illinois Urbana-Champaign in 2000 and his Master of Science in Kinesiology in December 2002. He and his wife Nicole are proud parents of three children, Nia (age 14), Imani (age 11), and Elijah (age 9).
Auburn City School’s Child Nutrition Program Ready to Serve Students
The ACS Child Nutrition Program is ready to nourish students for the future! The CNP staff members started their school year with a local foods tour led by produce partner and provider Extreme Green in conjunction with the Alabama Department of Agriculture Industries and Training. The Institute of Child Nutrition provided additional professional development, as well as equipment training from Rational Ovens. A special thank you to Lee County Health Inspector Ashley Thomas for sharing her expertise with our employees. 2024-2025 will be a gold medal year for ACS serving students. Join us in the cafeteria!
Student Athletics Represent ACS at the Special Olympics State Games
This summer, four incredible student-athletes headed to Troy, Alabama, to compete in the 2024 Special Olympics State Games! Congratulations to Chase Edwards, Maggie Foster, Caleb Key, and Jonathan Smith for qualifying to represent Auburn and Lee County at the state level! Mayor Ron Anders shared words of encouragement and appreciation during a celebratory send-off, complete with Aubie and the entire ACS School Resource Officer Unit in attendance! It was a heartwarming moment filled with support and pride for our competitors. ACS wished all the athletes the best of luck as they ‘go for gold’ with courage and determination!
Future Tiger Kickoff at Football Camp
The 2024 Future Tigers’ Football Camp kicked off at Auburn High School! From the first whistle, 1st-6th graders learned the fundamentals of football, with an emphasis on basic skills and techniques for playing defense, offense, and special teams. Varsity student-athletes were also on hand to provide individual attention while encouraging the next generation to improve their game with hard work and the values of sportsmanship.
Freeman Congratulations graduate track and field
Rookie Band Camp Was a Success at Auburn High
With approximately 50 rookies and 30 dedicated student leaders, the AHS Marching Band is starting to take shape as they learn to play on the move. These talented student musicians are honing their skills in timing, formation, and managing the heat, all in preparation for “full-on” band camp, which will have around 220 students marching to the beat on July 22nd. The theme in 2024 is “Dark Sails” - a thrilling pirate adventure that will set the stage for some incredible halftime performances this football season.
Ensuring a Successful School Year
For most of us, we already have a few weeks of school behind us. As the new school year begins, parents face the dual challenge of ensuring their children excel academically while navigating the complexities of tech and social media. With smartphones and social media becoming an integral part of our lives, it’s essential to implement strategies that foster a conducive learning environment, promote healthy habits, and encourage open communication.
I came up with what I believe are three pivotal approaches to ensure a safe and productive school year in this space. They are keeping the child’s phone in another room at night, setting restrictions on device usage during school hours, and maintaining open discussions about online activity. These strategies, when implemented, can provide a sense of reassurance about your child’s safety and academic success. Here is a quick breakdown of my thoughts on each one.
tablishing a nightly routine that encourages winding down without screens can help cultivate healthy sleep habits. Encourage your child to engage in relaxing activities such as reading or journaling before bed, which can help them recharge for the challenges of the school day ahead.
1. Keep the Child’s Phone in Another Room at Night.
Sleep is vital for children’s physical and mental recovery, significantly impacting their academic performance and overall well-being. Research shows that excessive screen time, especially before bed, can disrupt sleep patterns, leading to fatigue and diminished focus during the day. Keeping your child’s phone in another room at night creates a distraction-free environment conducive to better sleep. Es-
2. Set Restrictions on Device Usage During School Hours. The importance of minimizing distractions during school hours cannot be overstated. Social media and online apps can easily divert attention from essential learning tasks. Setting restrictions on your child’s phone during school hours is a proactive step toward maintaining focus. Most smartphones offer settings that allow parents to limit access to specific apps or features during designated times. Implementing these restrictions helps your child prioritize their education and develop self-discipline. Communicating the rationale behind these limits is crucial, helping them understand that these measures are not punitive but supportive of their academic success. You may also note that many schools are leaning into a completely phone-free environment this year. I love this for so many reasons!
3. Check Your Child’s Device and Foster Open Conversations. Maintaining an active role in your child’s online life is vital. Regularly checking your child’s device can provide insights into their online activities, interests, and potential
challenges. However, this should be ap proached with sensitivity and openness. Rather than policing their every move, aim to foster an environment where your child feels comfortable discussing their online interactions. Engage in conversa tions about their favorite apps, the content they encounter, and any concerns they may have. This dialogue not only helps you stay informed but also empowers your child to make safe and responsible choices online. By creating an atmosphere of trust, you encourage them to reach out to you when they encounter difficulties or uncertainties, fostering a sense of connection and understanding.
As parents, you play a crucial and empowering role in shaping your child’s educational experience and digital engagement. By adopting practices such as keeping phones away at night, setting restrictions during school hours, and fostering open conversations about online activity, you can help your child navigate the complexities of technology while focusing on their academic success. These strategies not only promote healthier habits but also strengthen the parent-child relationship, ultimately leading to a more fulfilling and successful school year.
Kristi Bush serves as a national education consultant and social media safety advocate. She is a licensed social worker with greater than 15 years of clinical practice and health care experience. She attended Troy and Auburn University where she studied social work and counseling. Kristi travels nationally and has spoken with thousands of children, parents, professionals and organizations about the benefits and threats associated with social media. You may reach Kristi through her website at www.knbcommunications.com.
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“Why do you talk like that?” I heard the question come from behind me as I helped another child in the Sunday school class.
“It’s just the way I am,” I heard my sister-in-law wisely answer the curious boy.
My sister-in-law, Kara, was born with Cerebral Palsy. She was helping me in the classroom that day when one of the kids noticed her speech was different. Kara has been taught to answer, “It’s just the way I am,” after years of questions about her differences.
Our kids have grown up around their beloved Aunt Kara and accept her as she is, but there came a time when each of them asked about Kara’s disability and why it makes her different.
Chances are, at some point, your child will meet someone who has disabilities at school or in the community. It is normal for children to have questions about people who are different, which means parents should be prepared to answer their questions in an intelligent and appropriate way. Here are some tips to get the conversation started:
Everyone is different but the same. All of us have unique gifts, personalities, and challenges. No two people are the same, and this is a great thing because diversity makes life interesting and fun. While we are all different, everyone has things in common, too. All people, including people with disabilities, want to have friends, be shown respect, and have the desire to be accepted. Encourage your child to embrace the differences of others and find common ground, as well. If your child is interested in a popular television show, book, toy, or game, chances are a person with special needs is too. Ask them what they love to do, and they will be happy to tell you.
Types of disabilities. Some disabilities are obvious, and some are not. Some people may need a walker or wheelchair to help them move around. Others may have a cognitive (thinking)
disability that is not as visible. Explain in simple terms that people struggle with different things and may need a little extra help from a physical tool (like a wheelchair) or help from others. People can have impairments in sight, hearing, walking, speech, cognitive functioning, or a variety of other things. It is important to note that just because someone is in a wheelchair, it does not mean they have a cognitive disability. Also, disabilities are not contagious, and children are not going to “catch” the disability. These things may sound obvious to adults, but children process things differently, and many have these questions.
Name-calling is never okay. Emphasize that people with disabilities have feelings just like everyone else. Name-calling is hurtful, disrespectful, and is a form of bullying. People with disabilities need others to stand up for them when they cannot stand up for themselves. Encourage your child to tell an adult if kids are teasing another child. Your child can be an example to others by being kind and respectful. Parents can set an example by using positive language and behavior towards others.
A note about “rude” comments. Kids are curious and love to ask questions. Many times, they will speak exactly what is on their mind without thinking about whether the comments will be hurtful. This can be very embarrassing to parents. So, what do you do if
your child blurts out a rude and embarrassing comment? Start by answering calmly and matter-of-factly. For example, your child may ask, “Why is that boy in a wheelchair?” Simply answer, “He needs it to move around. Why don’t you say hello?” If the child is reluctant, say hello to him yourself along with something like “John likes trains. Do you like trains too?” If the person accompanying the child responds, follow their lead. It is always better to treat others as you would like to be treated than to hurry away in an embarrassing situation. Later, when you are at home, you can ask your child if they have any other questions about others with disabilities and reinforce the value of treating everyone equally.
My sister-in-law, now thirty-eight years old, has been asked many questions over the years, some rude and some just curious. She has learned to handle them well because she knows that, just like anyone else, she has challenges to overcome and successes to celebrate. Kara loves watching movies, dancing to music, and taking care of animals. She loves eating candy, pizza, and tacos. She is fun to be around and loves to get out and explore new places. People with disabilities are just people. Sometimes, that simple fact is all kids need to know.
Sarah Lyons is a freelance writer and frequent contributor. AOP
“We are a sports family. We are split between Arkansas and Auburn as college fans since my husband grew up in Arkansas, and I graduated from Auburn University,” shared Jennifer Daniels, co-owner of Auburn Psychology Group LLC. “Our children were very active in sports throughout their childhood, in addition to being in the band, choir, student government, community plays, church activities, and volunteering. We made dinner around the table an expectation though as often as possible so we stayed connected during the busy season of life.”
Jennifer and her husband of 25 years, Bryce, have four children of their own, one through marriage and a sweet dog named Max. Originally from Tupelo, Mississippi, these high school sweethearts relocated to Auburn, AL, after they married and never looked back.
Their oldest son is Caleb (23), and he and his wife Ann Marie (22) recently relocated to Minneapolis, MN, in July. He has a degree in psychology, like his mom, and is a preacher. Leighton (21) is their second son, and he will be graduating from Auburn University in 2025 with a degree in Mechanical Engineering. He has already secured a position in Houston, Texas, with his fiancé Jillian and her family. Son Palmer (19) is majoring in business at Southern Union and is a pickleball enthusiast. Lastly, their daughter, Emerson (17), is a senior at Auburn High School. She plays on the
Varsity Girl’s Lacrosse Team and plans to attend Auburn University and major in genetics.
The family loves to travel together often, and this past year alone, they have been to California, Louisiana, North Carolina, Mississippi, and Minnesota.
“We enjoy traveling together, beach or mountains, it doesn’t matter,” Jennifer said. “The kids typically go with us, but my husband and I try to go somewhere with just the two of us every other year or so.”
The family wanted to share their World Famous Chicken Nachos because even though simple, it is highly requested by their friends. It is perfect for a Saturday Game Day spread during football season. The Daniels truly enjoy watching SEC football.
“This is a simple and fun recipe that is wonderful for large groups. With all of the high school and college-aged people that we have come to our house, we love to host and cook for all of them,” said Jennifer. “This appeals to a wide range of people because you can add toppings as desired. This is a recipe that we have perfected as a tastier option than the typical ground beef taco bar.”
• Lime Juice - ½ teaspoon
• Better than Boullion - ½ teaspoon
• 1 Can Light Red Kidney Beans
• Shredded Sharp Cheddar and Shredded Mexican Cheese
1. Soak the chicken in the buttermilk for several hours or up to the day before cooking to make the chicken moist and tender.
2. Cut the chicken into bite-sized pieces. Cook chicken on the stove on medium heat until cooked through with no pink showing.
3. Add all ingredients to the cooked chicken except the chips, cheese, and the optional items. Mix together and let heat through. Set aside for a moment.
4. Line the cookie sheet with aluminum foil. Layer Tortilla chips on the foil so that no foil shows through. Add generous amounts of cheese until the chips are covered.
World Famous Chicken Nachos
Ingredients:
• Buttermilk
• Approximately 1 pound of chicken breasts for one cookie sheet
• McCormick Chicken Taco Seasoning (1 package for every pound of chicken)
• Ortega Taco Sauce - 1 cup
5. Cook at 400 degrees for 5 minutes or until cheese is slightly melted. Spread the cooked chicken on top of the cheese.
6. Cover the chicken with another layer of cheese and cook for an additional 8-10 minutes.
7. Top with optional ingredients as desired.
Gabriele has been married to her husband Daniel for 17 years. Together they have three incredible children – two boys, ages 16 and nine, and a sweet girl who will be two in August.
Gabriele is a full-time Sales Director for Mary Kay Cosmetics. When she isn’t spending time with family or building her business, she supports her husband who is the Lead Pastor and Planter of Forward Church in Gulf Shores.
“I don’t know how you do it!”
It was a simple statement. There was no ill-will behind it, just an honest thought from one mom to another. Something I’ve thought a thousand times about other parents. But this was directed at a mom gathering her five kids, most with special needs, into the car after a trip to the store.
The mom smiled and replied, “You just do.”
Every parent has been there, walked through something challenging, and kept going. It’s what we do as parents.
When you have a child with special needs, there’s more. Sometimes, it feels like the challenges never end. And the stakes feel high. A lot of times, parents of kids with special needs have to push through really hard things, often alone, because people don’t know how to help.
Here are 10 ways you can help support families with special needs:
1. Keep showing up: More than anything, they need people in their life that are not afraid to show up, even when they don’t know what to do. You don’t have to have the answers,
you can do to help their child enjoy the activity. You can invite the child for a one-on-one playdate instead of a group playtime, welcome the parent to stay and ask if they need any accommodations. Simply ask how you can meet the family where they are and welcome them.
3. Don’t gossip: This should go without saying, but it’s easy to forget. Don’t talk about the family or the child’s needs with other people. If you have a question, simply ask the parent. This is enough of a struggle with the kids they encounter. They don’t need adults making it harder.
4. Get practical: Special needs often require special care and appointments. This can mean multiple doctors, therapists, and specialists within one week or even one day. Bring coffee to school drop-off. Offer to babysit their other kids. Leave a meal on their porch or send delivery. It can go a long way for a tired mama. And don’t forget the paper plates!
5. Ask kindly: Most families are familiar with people wondering about their child with special needs. Instead of steering clear and avoiding the subject, ask thoughtful and kind questions. It is far better than staring. Special needs are nothing to be ashamed of. We can talk about them in ways that we are all
someone’s special need doesn’t mean they want to share every detail about it. Honor what they are comfortable talking about and what they would like to keep private.
7. Invite the parents: We all need friendship and community, both of which can be hard to come by when you are caring for a child with special needs. Invite the parents out to dinner or the barbecue. They may not be able to come as often as they would like (or ever), but being invited reminds them that they are seen and valued. Keep inviting them, reminding them there is no pressure.
8. Accept quiet: If you text or call and you don’t hear back, try not to be offended. Think of how much you are juggling daily and throw a dozen more things in the mix (some of them life and death.) This is what parents with a child with special needs handle regularly. If they don’t get to text or call back, there may be a reason. Don’t write them off. A simple I’m thinking of you to follow up reminds parents you care.
9. Interact with the child: Sometimes, people don’t know what to say when they see a child with special needs, so they say nothing. Make an effort to interact with the child. Ask them what their favorite color is or what they want to be when they grow up. Value the child and show the family they matter.
10. Do more than smile: Families with special needs have a lot of people who smile and say a quick hello but never engage. It may feel new and unfamiliar for you, but making the effort to engage in real friendship with families makes a big difference for them and for you. Try it and see!
Rebecca Hastings is a mother of three, a former teacher and a freelance writer.
that could cause a developmental delay or show signs of a developmental delay in one or more of the following areas: Learning or Brain (Cognitive) development, Physical development, including vision and hearing, Language or Communication development, Social/Emotional development and Self-care Skills (Adaptive) development 800-543-3098 rehab.alabama.gov/nevertooearlyal/
Mental Health Rep for Children/Youth 100 North Union, Montgomery, Al 36130
Alabama Resources
Alabama ABLE Savings Plan
Keep your benefits and save for the future. Alabama’s official ABLE Savings Plan is a tax-advantaged account designed to help make saving simple and achievable for individuals with disabilities. Save for current and future expenses without impacting your resource-based benefits. www.alabamaalbe.gov
Alabama Department of Education
50 North Ripley Street, Montgomery, Al 36130 Career and Technical Education, Children with Disabilities, Developmental Disabilities, and Developmental Disabilities Council, Special Education Services, Special Health Care Needs, STARStatewide technology access and Response for Alabamians with Disabilities. 334-242-8114 www.alabamaachieves.org
Alabama Scottish Rite Foundation Learning Center
2081 Alton Rd. Ste C & D, Birmingham, Al 35210 RiteCare® clinics, centers, and special programs operating or planned for children and therapists. Each facility is staffed by speech-language pathologists or other trained personnel. Clinics provide diagnostic evaluation and treatment of speech and language disorders, as well as learning disabilities. 205-947-2424 www.alsricenter.org/ALSR_ Learning_Center/welcome
Alabama’s Early Intervention System
602 S. Lawrence Street, Montgomery, Al 36104
Early Intervention helps guide, train, and equip parents and caregivers on ways they can help their child grow, learn, and participate in everyday activities. EI works with the family as a partner, providing services for infants and toddlers under the age of three who have a developmental delay. Children must be under three years old and either have a diagnosed physical or mental condition
Mental illness services are comprised of a comprehensive array of treatment services and supports through four state operated facilities and contractual agreements with community mental health centers across the state. The department serves over 200,000 Alabamians per year with mental illnesses, intellectual disabilities, or substance use disorders. The vast majority of these individuals have family members who are affected in some way.
Respite is temporary, short-term relief. Respite Care is temporary short-term relief for caregivers of individuals with special needs such as: developmental and physical disabilities or other chronic illnesses that are related to health concerns, medical fragility, or for those at risk of abuse and neglect.
1-866-RESTALA www.alabamarespite.org
The American Speech-Language-Hearing Association
Committed to ensuring that all people with speech, language, and earing disorders receive services to help them communicate effectively. www.asha.org
University Centers for Excellence in Developmental Disabilities
UAB, 1719 6th Avenue S, Birmingham, Al 35233
Through partnerships with consumers, professionals, organizations, and agencies, the Civitan Center seeks to shape policy decisions related to research and to increase the opportunities for inclusion, independence, productivity, and personal life satisfaction for individuals with developmental disabilities.
800-822-2472 www.circ.uab.edu
Vocational Rehabilitation
602 S. Lawrence Street, , Montgomery, Al 36104
ADRS’s largest division, VRS provides individualized employment- and education-related services and training to assist youth and adults with dis-
abilities achieve their employment goal. VRS provides transition services in collaboration with local high schools, technical colleges, junior colleges and universities statewide to assist students with disabilities in receiving appropriate educational opportunities.
334-282-8780 www.rehab.alabama.gov
Disability-Specific Organizations
Autism Support of Alabama ad on page 10
4217 Dolly Ridge Road, Montgomery, Al 35243
ASA collaborates with various state and local agencies to increase awareness in the community, schools, and in the medical and professional arenas to promote education, understanding, resources, and to encourage the early diagnosis of autism. Our website acts as a source of support for families and parents to individuals with autism spectrum disorders.
877-4-AUTISM www.autism-alabama.org
Alabama Head Injury Foundation
3100 Lorna Rd, 203, Hoover, Al 35213
To improve the quality of life for survivors of traumatic brain injury and their families.
800-433-8002 www.ahif.org
American Foundation for the Blind
The mission of the American Foundation for the Blind is to create a world of no limits for people who are blind or visually impaired. We mobilize leaders, advance understanding, and champion impactful policies and practices using research and data.
800-232-543 www.afb.org
Asthma & Allergy Foundation of America
AAFA is dedicated to saving lives and reducing the burden of disease for people with asthma and allergies through support, advocacy, education, and research
Children with ADHD are eligible for special education services or accommodations within the regular classroom when needed, and adults with ADHD may be eligible for accommodations in the workplace under the Americans with Disabilities Act. CHADD is a success story, inspired by the desire of countless parents to see their children with ADHD succeed.
800-233-4050 www.chadd.org
Crohn’s and Colitis Foundation of Alabama and Northwest Florida Birmingham, Al 35259
The Crohn’s & Colitis Foundation is a non-profit, volunteer-driven organization dedicated to finding the cures for Crohn’s Disease and ulcerative colitis. The Foundation has been a leader in inflammatory bowel disease (IBD) research since our founding more than 50 years ago. We fund cutting-edge research studies and clinical trials at major medical institutions, and finance underdeveloped areas of research. We enthusiastically nurture investigators in the early stages of their career to help build the next generation of IBD researchers. Offering wide range of educational programs m while providing supportive services to help people cope with these chronic intestinal diseases. The Foundation offers an online community for support.
Lifelong Awareness, Acceptance and Advocacy for People with Down syndrome. We envision and strive for an Alabama where individuals with Down syndrome are accepted and included for who they are. We provide hope and support to each person and their families with educational resources and networking opportunities throughout all stages of life. 205-988-0810 www.downsyndromealabama.org
Epilepsy Foundation of Alabama
With more than 3.4 million people living with epilepsy nationwide, the impact of our work mat-
ters. With your help, we’ve made huge strides in epilepsy training, research, and advocacy. 800-626-1582 www.epilepsyfoundation.org
Learning Disabilities Association of AL LDA has provided support to people with learning disabilities, their parents, teachers and other professionals with cutting edge information on learning disabilities, practical solutions, and a comprehensive network of resources. These services make LDA the leading resource for information on learning disabilities. 334-277-9151 www.ldaalabama.org
NAMI Alabama
To provide support, education, and advocacy for persons with mental illnesses, their families, and others whose live are effected by these brain disorders. 800-626-4199 www.namialabama.org
Sensory-Processing Disorder
STAR Institute is the premiere research center for sensory processing disorder. The research performed here drives an evidence base for intervention worldwide. The Education Center strives to increase global accessibility to cutting edge information on sensory processing through innovative online and live programming for clinical professionals and families.
303-221-STAR www.spdstar.org
Speech and Hearing Association of Alabama Capshaw, Al 35742
Advancing the disciplines of speech-language pathology and audiology in order to provide support
for professionals while advocating quality services. 255-325-8885 www.alabamashaa.org
Spina Bifida Association of Alabama Gadsden, Al 35902
We strive to provide families affected by Spina Bifida with the most up-to-date medical and social information related to this birth defect. 256-325-8600 www.sbaofal.org
The Arc of Alabama, Inc
557 S. Lawrence St, Montgomery, Al 36104
To advocate for the rights and protections of people with intellectual and developmental disabilities (I/ DD) and their families. This advocacy is provided through Information and Referral services, educational opportunities like the annual Alabama disability Conference, and public policy initiatives. 866-243-9557 www.thearcofal.org
The Food Allergy & Anaphylaxis Network
FARE is the largest private funder of food allergy research, promoting the development of new therapies and offering hope for effective treatments. Our FARE Clinical Network is establishing crucial infrastructure to enable breakthrough innovations and collaboration among researchers. 800-929-4040 www.foodallergy.org
Tourette-Syndrome Association of Alabama
Our Chapters and Support Groups provide local support across the nation for families, individuals, and adults with Tourette Syndrome and Tic Disorders and the professionals who serve them. 888-4-touret www.tourette.org
Local Resources
Auburn Therapy and Learning Center
ad on page 17
2000 Samglenn Drive, 100, Auburn, Al 36830
Our mission is to empower and encourage functional daily living skills for all ages, specifically focusing on providing the highest quality treatment to improve those skills pertaining to communication, fine motor skills, sensory integration, and feeding difficulties. We are conveniently located in Auburn, Alabama and also service the surrounding communities. Our clinicians are fully licensed and trained to provide quality treatment in Speech and Language Therapy, Occupational Therapy, and Feeding Therapy. We welcome clients of all ages who are in need of our therapeutic services. We do require a referral by your doctor prior to evaluation.
334-734-5511 www.auburntlc.com
Ferguson Psychology
ad on page 14
709 East Glenn Avenue, Auburn, Al 36830
I work with a broad range of individuals throughout the lifespan including children, adolescents, college students, and adults. I utilize cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) to address a wide range of issues in psychotherapy including: attentiondeficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), oppositional defiant disorder (ODD), behavior problems, social skills deficits, generalized anxiety, obsessivecompulsive disorder (OCD), panic disorder, social anxiety, phobias, trauma and posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD), depression, and general adjustment issues. I provide evidence-based treatments to assist individuals with their concerns. Interventions are tailor-made for a client’s individual needs. I enjoy providing therapy and brief assessment services to children and their parents. Utilizing a systems-based approach, I work with families to establish the ideal environmental contingencies in order to help the families reach their full potential. Services offered include parenting skills training, behavior modification, and social skills training. 334-226-7222 www.ferguson-psychology.com
PEACE Center
ad on page 3
1716 Catherine Court, Suite 2A. Auburn, Al 36830
PEACE Center’s mission is to truly understand families’ concerns, find the root causes of their children’s struggles and create a plan to help the child build skills, confidence and self-awareness. Peace Center serves East Alabama with diagnosis, testing, and interventions for families with individuals who think and learn differently. Offering various services including counseling, occupational therapy, play therapy, speech & language therapy, cognitive therapy, mindfulness, brainspotting, dyslexia, parent coaching, family support, and much more.
334-610-0169 www.peacecenteral.com
The
Exceptional Foundation of East Alabama
ad on page 13 and Back Cover
300 North Dean Road, Auburn, Al 36830
The Exceptional Foundation of East Alabama is a nonprofit organization established to serve
individuals with intellectual and developmental disabilities and provide opportunities for those participants to thrive and be engaged in social and recreational activities. The need for our services within this community is great. With high numbers of local individuals with special needs, an increased number of families that have relocated to our area due to school-aged services, and the number of families in need of support, the Exceptional Foundation of East Alabama offers services to those families and individuals in a number of ways. The Exceptional Foundation of East Alabama offers respite to caregivers, and provides a caring, safe place for loved ones to go during the day. Our program alleviates hardships, as caregivers are able to work with peace of mind knowing that their loved ones are cared for during the day. The Exceptional Foundation of East Alabama serves individuals with intellectual and developmental disabilities residing in Lee, Chambers, Tallapoosa, Elmore, Montgomery, Macon, Bullock and Russell Counties in Alabama and Muscogee, Harris, and Troup Counties in Georgia. 334-329-7773 www.efofea.org
Alabama Institute for Deaf and Blind 355 Dunlop Drive, Opelika, Al 36801 Serving Lee, Chambers, Macon, Russell, and Tallapoosa Counties. Offering services for the deaf and blind including early intervention, case management, classes and more. 334-759-6960 www.aidb.org/Opelika
All for Children
2204 Ogletree Village Lane, Auburn, Al 36830 ALL (Auburn Language and Learning) is a pediatric, private practice offering speech, language, feeding, auditory, occupational therapy, and literacy services to children of all ages. Our practice consists of speech-language pathologists, auditory-verbal therapists, special educators, and occupational therapists. ALL for Children has been providing quality therapy to children in our area and surrounding areas since 2010. 334-209-2009 www.all-forchildren.com
Auburn University
Auburn, Al 36849
CARTT: The Center for Autism Research, Treatment, and Training (CARTT) is part of the Auburn University Psychological Services Center and serves as a training clinic for students in the Behavior Analysis Program in the Department of Psychology. CARTT is an intensive preschool program that uses behavioral, research-based instruction to address the individual needs of children with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) in the Auburn-Opelika community. We also offer a range of behavioral consultation services to individuals and schools in the surrounding area. Best Buddies: Our mission is to build one-onone friendships between our college members and people with intellectual and developmental disabilities (IDD) from the Auburn-Opelika area. This offers social interactions while improving the quality of life and level of inclusion for a population that is often isolated and excluded.
Speech and Hearing Clinic: Haley Center, The clinic provides a full range of evaluation and treatment services for clients of all ages, from infants to the elderly. The facilities include three audiometric test booths, an electrophysiologic test room, fifteen therapy rooms with observation, and a group therapy room.
Parent-Child Interaction Therapy: The Auburn University Psychological Services Center offers
Parent-Child Interaction Therapy (PCIT), an empirically supported intervention for the reduction of behavior problems in young children. During PCIT, parents work with a graduate clinician supervised by a licensed psychologist to learn play therapy skills to enhance their parent-child relationship. Parents also learn to manage child behavior using behavioral principles. Therapists will work with your family until your child’s home behaviors improve. Treatment typically lasts 14-18 weeks, and parents are asked to complete homework assignments with their child between sessions. www.auburn.edu
Autism Hope Center
Columbus, Ga
We are a free resource that has been instrumental in bringing programs, services and support to both families and professionals throughout the Chattahoochee Valley. Services provided- information and referrals, training for parents, teacher, therapy providers, support groups for caregivers, annual autism resource fair and family day, autism training for first responders, social and sensory friendly activities, advocacy, and parents night out. 706-604-6333 www.autismhopecenter.com
In His Hands: Special Friends Ministry
Lakeview Baptist Church, 1600 East Glenn Avenue, Auburn, Al 36830
“In His Hands” is designed to help families who have children with special needs be able to worship together while their children are shown and taught about the love of Christ by familiar adults. Our goal is to form teams of buddies for each special friend that will assist them on Sunday mornings.
334-887-7094 www.lakeviewbaptist.org
Integrea: Community Mental Health System
2506 Lambert Drive, Opelika, Al 36801
Services are intensive, community-based programs for individuals with intellectual disabilities that provide opportunities to retain and gain skills necessary to live a productive life in the community. Services are designed to assist individuals receiving supports in developing their individual potentials in the areas of learning, self-care, self-direction, mobility, receptive and expressive language, independent living, and economic self sufficiency, enabling the individual to reach their maximum potential.
334-742-2877, 800-815-0630 www.integreahealth.org
Lee County Youth Development Center 1109 Spring Drive, Opelika, Al 36801
The Lee County Youth Development Center is uniquely set apart - singular in its design of offering a broad continuum of services and care for youth and families. Our agency strives to maintain the highest standards of quality care and innovative practices with expertise in the areas of prevention, intervention and residential care. Services include residential, continuum, and educational. 334-749-2996 www.lcydc.org
March of Dimes Alabama Birmingham, Al 36066
Our mission is to lead the fight for the health of all moms and babies. Our goals are to end the preventable maternal health risks and deaths, end preventable preterm birth and infant death, and close the health equity gap.
205-824-0103 www.marchofdimes.org
RehabWorks 4 Kids
2450 Village Professional Pkwy, Opelika, Al 36801
Provides comprehensive, high-quality, compassionate therapies to help each child reach his
or her potential. Our pediatric rehabilitation specialists – speech therapists, occupational therapists, and physical therapists – work together to provide individualized therapy for children with a number of diagnoses and needs. Our services are provided in a colorful, familyfriendly environment.
334-528-1964 https://rehabworks.eamc.org/Kids
Revision Counseling Center
923 Stage Road, M, Auburn, Al 36830
Revision Counseling Center is composed of therapists who strive to help you revise your life to ensure fulfillment. Services provided: individual counseling, couples/marriage counseling, child/ adolescent counseling, family counseling, group counseling and public engagements.
334-384-8158 www.revisioncounselingcenter.com
Smith Group Behavioral Consulting
4505 Sandhill Road, Auburn , Al 36830
Supporting families through behavioral consulta tion and direct ABA services, focused on children exhibiting behaviors consistent with Autism Spectrum Disorder. We are a team comprised of Board Certified Behavior Analysts (BCBA-D/ BCBA) and Registered Behavior Technicians (RBT).
334-332-9077 www.smithgroupbc.com
Storybook Farm
300 Cusetta Road, Opelika, Al 36801
Storybook Farm empowers children facing profound adversity with specialized, animal and nature-based learning environments that pave the way for a brighter, more hopeful future. Offering 6 programs to special needs children at no cost to them: Hope on Horseback, Horse Sense, Short Stories, Secret Garden, Storybook Tails, and Discovery Trail.
334-444-5966 www.hopeonhorseback.org
The Council on Developmental Disabilities
RSA Union Building, 100 North Union Street, Montgomery, Al 36130
The Alabama Council on Developmental Disabilities (ACDD) works to achieve equality of opportunity for all citizens. We promote independence, advocacy, productivity, and inclusion for Alabamians with developmental disabilities. Through our projects and initiatives, as well as our network of resources, we help them: Make the most of their educational potential, find and thrive in paid employment, rent, own, or modify an apartment or home, gain access to and use transportation, connect with organizations to coordinate healthcare and social services, participate in recreational, leisure, and social activities, learn leadership, self-determination, and self-advocacy.
334-242-3973 www.acdd.org
The Learning Tree
101 S. Dubois Street , Tallassee, Al 36078
A nonprofit organization dedicated to providing educational, residential and support services for children and adolescents with developmental disabilities, including autism. Programs are designed to help children lead more fulfilling and rewarding lives. Programs include Growing Independence Behavioral Services, Little Tree Preschool, Residential and Educational Programs, and School Consultation and Collaboration.
334-850-4012 and 334-252-0025
www.learning-tree.org
Zoe Center for ABA and Development Services
1110 13th Street, D, Columbus, Ga 31901
Provides home and center based ABA therapy for individuals with varying diagnoses including Autism Spectrum Disorder. Services include as sessment and individualized plan development, in-home, center-based, and community ABA therapy, school services, IEP support, and parent education/training.
1-888-zoeABA8 www.zoeaba.com
Parent Organizations
Family Voices of Alabama
Family Voices is a national family-led organization of families and friends of children and youth with special health care needs (CYSHCN) and dis abilities. We connect a tions across the United States that provide support to families of CYSHCN.
with families at all levels of health care–individual and policy decision-making levels—in order to im prove health care services and policies for children. www.familyvoices.org
Parent Training and Information Center/ Early Intervention Family Alliance
10520 US Hwy 231, Wetumpka, Al 36092
Formed to provide parents with training and information to help them become meaningful participants in their children’s education 866-532-7660 www.alabamaparentcenter.com
Partners in Policymaking of Alabama
100 N Union Street, Montgomery, Al 36104
To support independence, advocacy, productivity, and inclusion for Alabamians with developmental disabilities.
800-846-3735 www.acdd.org
Recreation and Social
Lee County Special Olympics ad on page 11
We support Special Olympics by sponsoring teams for many of the Special Olympic events.
How much time do your children spend dabbling in the arts—to freely express themselves in creative ways? Creativity is the ability to think in unusual, divergent ways. It does not only refer to artistic and musical expression; it is also essential for science, math, and social/ emotional intelligence. Creativity has been shown to develop so many positive characteristics and to help children lead happy, successful lives. Unfortunately, creativity is becoming somewhat endangered in this generation because technology and busy schedules are taking priority over the arts. We can guide our children’s growth and impact their success by incorporating creativity into their daily routines.
BenefitsofCreativity
When children grow up with opportunities to be creative, they can develop a number of key skills that will help them succeed throughout their lives.
1. Develop Problem Solving Skills
The arts help children learn how to think in innovative ways when making decisions and solving problems. Many experts find that creativity actually rewires the brain to think ‘outside of the box’, a very important skill for all aspects of life. When children are creative, they tap into intuition, imagination, and playfulness, which help to solve complex problems. Without even realizing it, children working on creative projects are being challenged to solve problems like what colors to use, how to make a line, and what size to make something.
Researchers from Michigan State University have found a strong correlation between childhood engagement in the creative arts and measurable success later in life. Children who were exposed to a wide variety of arts and crafts were more likely to create unique inventions worthy of patents, come up with ideas good enough to start a new company or publish provocative papers on science and technology.
2. Express Emotions
Creativity also provides an outlet for children to express and cope with their emotions in a safe, calm way. Art offers a way to communicate ideas, feelings, and solutions without speaking or writing.
When children have the capability to express emotions in this way, they can better manage challenges and issues like anger, anxiety, and depression.
3. Improve Concentration
Creativity helps children learn to concentrate and focus more effectively on the task at hand, which is so important for studying in working in the future. Artists can become so absorbed in their projects that they reach a state of flow or a sense of being completely engaged in an activity to the point of being in a near-meditative state.
4. Persevere and Work Hard
Creativity helps children build patience and perseverance as they develop new skills and even face frustration and setbacks. Art allows them to try different approaches until they are satisfied with their creation. Perseverance is a critical skill to have in an increasingly competitive world, where people need to continually adapt to changes and develop new skills.
5. Achieve Academic Awards
Children who participate in artsbased programs are more successful academically, according to a Stanford University study. Some of their achievements included being more likely to win an academic award such as the honor roll, to receive a community service award, and to participate in a math or science fair. These students also scored higher on the SAT.
6. Adopt a More Flexible and Worldly View
When children are exposed to the arts, they experience multiple cultures and ideas that they are not familiar with. This helps them learn to think with an open mind and realize that there are multiple points of view. A study at the University of Kansas found that during a visit to an art museum, students displayed higher levels of social tolerance, exhibited more empathy, and developed an interest in art and cultural institutions.
7. Build Confidence
Children who are encouraged to think creatively tend to have higher self-esteem and confidence. One reason for this is that children learn to feel pride in their original work. Also, many types of art forms, like drama and dance, require individuals to
build these attributes in order to perform in front of an audience.
How To Raise More Creative Children
You may be surprised to find out that creativity can be learned. It is not necessarily a natural talent that we are born with. Actually, there is so much that we can do to expose our children to opportunities for creativity so they can develop these amazing skills.
Here are 10 ideas to get your children excited about being creative:
• Sign them up for art, music, drama, or dance classes.
• Frequent creative performances such as concerts, theater, ballet, and art festivals.
• Keep a bin of art supplies in the house and ask them to use their imagination to create.
• Use art to teach science, math, reading, and other subjects.
• Invite your children into the kitchen to cook or bake with you.
• Include fun arts and crafts projects during playdates and birthday parties.
• Allow for plenty of artistic free play in your home, such as singing, dancing, puppet shows, and reading books aloud with expression.
• Point out interesting art all around you during your daily routine—while shopping, at parks, while traveling, at friends’ houses, and even at the doctor’s office. Talk to your children about what they observe.
• Study famous artists and their works by getting books at the library or watching videos. Challenge your children to do their version of the famous artwork.
• Play games that involve creativity, like Pictionary (drawing) and charades (drama), or make up your own, like a songwriting or poetry contest.
Sandi Schwartz is an award-winning author, freelance journalist, and mother of two. She has written extensively about parenting, wellness, and environmental issues. Learn more at www.ecohappinessproject.com.
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Marriage is a We” Thing
Q. My husband and I both work outside the home, and he has come up with an idea for our fun money. He wants us to set up an account where we both put 5% of our earnings for discretionary spending. The issue in my mind is that he would have a lot more to spend, because he makes much more money than I do. He says he feels he should be able to spend more since he makes more. I’m not a greedy person, but I do think things should be even. I feel we should each put in the same dollar amount—one that’s fair to both of us—if we’re going to do this. What do you think?
A. This isn’t a good plan. I’m sure your husband means well, and that he’s really a good guy overall, but it sounds to me like he probably hasn’t thought this whole thing through. As they stand now, the details of his idea play out as pretty immature and selfish. And something tells me you wouldn’t marry a man like that.
Think about it this way. There are plenty of families out there where only one person works outside the home and generates an actual income. Would it be fair to say that whoever brings home the paycheck is the only one who can have fun spending once in a while? Of course, not! In most cases, spouses who don’t work outside the home take on tons of responsibility and ac-
complish several things every single day— especially if the couple has kids. If you put a monetary amount on all that, it’d wind up being a pretty nice income dollars-wise. Remember back when you two got married? If it were anything close to a traditional ceremony, I’ll bet the preacher pronounced you two “as one.” As in every thing and every way. That means you have one income, a combined income, and it’s our income. If you own a home, it’s our home. It’s not more his home just because he makes more money than you. Our kids, our marriage our everything. Get the picture? Marriage is not a me proposition. It should always be a we thing. Your husband needs to be reminded of that.
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August 30 - September 3
Labor Day
Weekend Hot Air
Balloon Show & Glow
Callaway Gardens, 17617 US-27, Pine Mountain, Ga We are lighting up your Labor Day Weekend at Callaway Resort & Gardens with the Hot Air Balloon Show & Glow! Play all day with garden and beach access, waterfront activities like putt-putt, and endless entertainment, including the exciting Birds of Prey show.
The O Grows Community Garden hosts a Saturday Farmers Market featuring local farmers, bakers, and makers! Visitors to the market can also tour the community garden and greenhouse, participate in kids’ outdoor science and art activities, attend storytime at 10 a.m., and help feed our resident goats! www.facebook.com/opelikagrows
Saturday, September 7
Animal Enrichment Day
10:00 AM - 3:00 PM, The Montgomery Zoo, 2301 Coliseum Blvd, Montgomery The goal of Animal Enrichment is to safely stimulate and reproduce behaviors that are natural for each animal in the wild. Placing different stimuli in the animals’ environment allows animals to use their five basic senses while they exercise. It is a lot of trial and error, but it is always fun!
10:00 AM Kreher Preserve & Nature Center, 2222 North College Street, Auburn The Kreher Preserve & Nature Center warmly welcomes back the Banding Coalition of the Americas for this unique and magical workshop! Join us for an enchanting morning, where the air hums with anticipation and the delicate wings of hummingbirds flutter like tiny miracles. Spaces are limited, so reserve your spot now!
8:00 PM Montgomery Performing Arts Center, 201 Tallapoosa Street, Montgomery The Wallflowers have sold over ten million albums internationally[6] and have won two Grammy Awards: Best Rock Performance by a Duo or Group with Vocal and Best Rock Song for “One Headlight” in 1998. “One Headlight” is also listed at #58 in Rolling Stone’s list of the 100 Greatest Pop Songs. https://mpaconline.org/the-wallflowers/
September 7-8
Paw Patrol Live! Heroes Unite BJCC, Birmingham Calling all good citizens! The Paw Patrol is yelping for help as they face their greatest challenge yet. Mayor Humdinger has dognapped
Robo Dog and cloned him, causing chaos all over the world. It’s up to pups to catch those clones, rescue Robo Dog and show that when the going gets “ruff”, lending a paw makes you the ultimate Top Hero. www.bjcc.org/upcoming-events/paw-patrol-liveheroes-unite/
Sunday, September 8
Grandparent’s Day at the Zoo
The Montgomery Zoo, 2301 Coliseum Blvd, Montgomery Celebrate Grandparent’s Day at the Montgomery Zoo and Mann Wildlife Learning Museum, September 8. All Grandparents receive FREE admission, so make plans to join us for our Grandparent’s special day. www.montgomeryzoo.com/Home/Components/Calendar/Event/8558/2981?curm=9&cury=2024
Tuesday, September 10
Family Discovery Hike: Reptiles
3:30 PM - 4:30 PM, Kreher Preserve & Nature Center, 2222 North College Street, Auburn Join our guides for an educational adventure as you and your children take in the many sights and sounds of the Nature Center. Hikes are for families with children ages 5 to 12.
http://kpnc.auburn.edu/programs/guidedtours/
September 12 - October 19
Art Gallery Fall 2024 Exhibition Schedule: Fall Invitational AU Connection
Jan Dempsey Community Art Center, Auburn A special invitational exhibition featuring a variety of works by artists who were formerly or are currently associated with Auburn University. www.auburnalabama.org/arts
Friday, September 13
Auburn University Homecoming Parade and Pep Rally
6:30 PM, Downtown Auburn Roll on Home to the Plains! The event will be full of energy and the Auburn Spirit as we get ready for the game day on Saturday! The parade will feature floats from on and off campus organizations, the AU Cheerleaders, AU Tiger Paws, AU Marching Band, Miss Homecoming Candidates and Aubie! www.auburn.edu/main/homecoming
Sundilla Presents Steve Forbert in Concert
(Advance tickets are $20 and can be found at Spicer’s Music, Ross House Coffee, Foodies, and website. Admission at the door will be $25 and $15 for students with an ID. Children age 12 and under are free. )
7:30 PM, 450 E. Thach Avenue, Auburn Free coffee, tea, water, and food will be available, and the audience is invited to bring their own favorite food or beverage. www.sundillamusic.com
Sara Evans
8:00 PM Sweetland Amp, 110 Smith St. LaGrange, Ga
Over the last two decades, Evans has carved a successful career anchored by her insightful songwriting and warm, evocative voice.
www.sweetlandamp.com/concerts/sara-evans/
Saturday, September 14
American Foundation for Suicide PreventionOut of the Darkness Community Walk
9:00 AM, Uptown Columbus and Phenix City Riverwalk
A journey of remembrance, hope, and support. It
unites our communities and provides an opportunity to acknowledge the ways in which suicide and mental health conditions have affected our lives and the lives of those we love and care about.
http://www.AFSP.ORG/ColumbusGA
Kidd G with Will Mosely
8:00 PM Sweetland Amp, 110 Smith St. LaGrange, Ga In 2020, Kidd G released full length project Teenage Dream which includes RIAA certified Gold hits “Dirt Road” and “Teenage Dream”. His followup project, Down Home Boy, has emerged as a?homegrown phenomenon unto itself. Beyond generating 41M+ streams on Spotify,?The New York Times?championed it “the year’s best country debut album.”
www.sweetlandamp.com/concerts/kidd-g/
Sunday, September 15
Brunch and Browse
Downtown Auburn
Join the downtown merchants for Brunch and Browse to cap off Auburn’s homecoming weekend! Enjoy extended shopping hours, merchant specials and more. Participating retailers and restaurants will each offer their own individual special. Those specials will be posted prior to the event.
Chewacla Cha-Cha 5K/10K
8:00 AM Chewacla Park, 124 Shell Toomer Pkwy, Auburn Come out and run with us on the beautiful rolling trails at Chewacla State Park. Each runner will receive a race shirt and finisher award as well as loads of trail cred! A portion of the proceeds for the fourth race in the SSTS will go to MercyMed. https://ultrasignup.com/register.aspx?did=112252
Randy Travis
6:00 PM Montgomery Performing Arts Center, 201 Tallapoosa Street, Montgomery With lifetime sales in excess of 25 million, Randy Travis is one of the biggest multi-genre record sellers of all time and a recent inductee into the Country Music Hall of Fame class of 2016. His honors include seven Grammy Awards, 11 Academy of Country Music statuettes, 10 American Music Awards, two People’s Choice awards, seven Music City News awards, eight Dove Awards from the Gospel Music Association and five Country Music Association honors.
https://mpaconline.org/randy-travis/
Tuesday, September 17
Herbie Hancock
7:00 PM Gogue Performing Arts Center, Auburn In the seventh decade of his professional life, Herbie Hancock remains where he has always been: at the forefront of world culture, technology and music. Hancock has been an integral part of every popular music movement since the 1960s. As a member of the Miles Davis Quintet that pioneered a groundbreaking sound in jazz, he also developed new approaches on his own recordings, followed by his work in the 1970s, that combined electric jazz with funk and rock in an in-
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novative style that continues to influence music today. In the 1980s, “Rockit” and Future Shock marked Hancock’s foray into electronic dance sounds; during the same period, he continued to work in an acoustic setting with V.S.O.P. www.goguecenter.auburn.edu/herbie-hancock/
Thursday, September 19
Fall Sundown Concert Kiesel Park, 520 Chadwick Lane, Auburn Join Auburn Parks and Rec for an evening of music and fun. Food and sweet treats will be available for purchase from the CHILL SPOT. Bring your lawn chair, blanket, and come and enjoy great music. www.auburnalabama.org/parks
Melissa Ethridge & Jewel
7:30 PM Sweetland Amp, 110 Smith Street, LaGrange, Ga It’s the tour to not miss! 4-time Grammy nominee, Jewel, and 2-time Grammy winner, Melissa Etheridge, announce a two-part co-headlining tour. www.sweetlandamp.com/concerts/melissa-etheridgeand-jewel/
September 19-29
Jersey Boys Springer Opera House, 103 10th Street, Columbus, Ga Four average Jersey boys are “discovered” while harmonizing under a streetlamp. When they sang, everything dropped away and there was only the music. “Jersey Boys” is the story of those ordinary guys who make extraordinary musical history. Frankie, Bob, Tommy, and Nick - or as they came to be known, Frankie Valli and the Four Seasons - share memories fueled by youth then tempered by age. Told from the perspective of each member, the play dives into the highs and lows of their turbulent rise to stardom, the cost of fame and the bonds of friendship. www.springeroperahouse.org/springerproductions/ jersey-boys
Friday, September 20
Ausome Amphibians and Reptiles (Admission is $5/ person ($4 for members); children 3 and under are free. ) 4:30 PM Kreher Preserve & Nature Center, 2222 North College St, Auburn Join the KPNC educators for a one-hour presentation on the AUsome amphibians and reptiles found in our state and beyond! Children and adults will enjoy this entertaining, hands-on program with live animals. www.auburnalabama.org/parks
Monday, September 23
Borromeo String Quartet with Henry Kramer
7:00 PM Gogue Performing Arts Center, Auburn Each visionary performance of the award-winning Borromeo String Quartet (BSQ) strengthens and deepens its reputation as one of the most important ensembles of our time.
9:30 AM RiverCenter for the Performing Arts, 900 Broadway, Columbus, Ga This show has been dazzling audiences around the globe for over seven years, faithfully bringing Eric Carle’s timeless classics to the stage. www.rivercenter.org
The Piano Guys
7:00 PM Gogue Performing Arts Center, Auburn The Piano Guys have established themselves as an unstoppable musical force. Consisting of Jon Schmidt (pianist, songwriter), Steven Sharp Nelson (cellist, songwriter), Paul Anderson (producer, videographer) and Al van der Beek (music producer, songwriter), the quartet delivers audacious compositions that effortlessly transcend the confines of style and genre. In 2023, they unveiled their latest album, Unstoppable, a compilation of exhilarating and emotionally profound cover songs.
www.goguecenter.auburn.edu/the-piano-guys/
Friday, September 27
On the Tracks
6:00 PM - 9:00 PM, Downtown Opelika. The streets of downtown Opelika will be filled with live music, a photo booth, caricature drawings, and wine trail stops featuring a diverse array of wine samples. Food trucks will be featured at the event, as well as late night shopping at local retail spots!
6:00 PM The Montgomery Zoo, 2301 Coliseum Blvd, Montgomery Join us for a night of dancing under the stars. This is a FREE performance presented by the Montgomery Ballet, in cooperation with Troy University, Alabama State University, and the Montgomery Symphony. This year’s presentation of Ballet and the Beasts will be a five-part performance with the Montgomery Ballet opening the evening with Carnival of the Animals and Animals of Classical Ballet, followed by two performances featuring the Troy University and Alabama State University dance troupes, and performance presented by a quartet from the Montgomery Symphony. www.montgomeryzoo.com/Home/Components/Calendar/Event/5550/2981?curm=9&cury=2024
Sundilla presents Dan Navaro in Concert (Advance tickets are $20 and can be found at Spicer’s Music, Ross House Coffee, Foodies, and website. Admission at the door will be $25 and $15 for students with an ID. Children age 12 and under are free. )
7:30 PM, Pebble Hill, 101 S. Debardeleben, Auburn Free coffee, tea, water, and food will be available, and the audience is invited to bring their own favorite food or beverage. www.sundillamusic.com
Lyle Lovett
8:00 PM Sweetland Amp, 110 Smith Street, LaGrange, Ga A singer, composer and actor, Lyle Lovett has broadened the definition of American music in a career that spans 14 albums. Coupled with his gift for storytelling, the Texas-based musician fuses elements of country, swing, jazz, folk, gospel and blues in a convention-defying manner that breaks down barriers. www.sweetlandamp.com/concerts/lyle-lovett/
The Black Jacket Symphony - Elton John’s “Madman Across the Water”
8:00 PM Montgomery Performing Arts Centre, 201 Tallapoosa Street, Montgomery mpaconline.org/the-black-jacket-symphony-elton-john/
Saturday, September 28
Dino Dig
10:00 AM - 12:00 PM, The Montgomery Zoo, 2301 Coliseum Blvd, Montgomery Are you ready to get a little dirty? Then Dino Dig is perfect for you. Our junior explorers get to experience an archaeological dig, discover bones from the past and have a great time while learning about creatures that roamed the earth millions of years ago. Dino Dig is an educational program with hands-on experience and fun. It is geared for boys and girls aged 4-10 years old. www.montgomeryzoo.com/Home/Components/Calendar/Event/5998/2981?curm=9&cury=2024
October 3-12
ACCT Presents
“Disney’s 101 Dalmatians Kids” ($10/ Adults, $8/ Children, Seniors Tickets are available at website) Jan Dempsey Community Art Center, Auburn As part of AACT’s 20th anniversary celebration we are bringing back the classic animated tale of kidnapping villains and courageous puppies is adapted in this “fur-tastic” musical adventure! AuburnACT.org.
October 5-13
Under the Big Top Springer Opera House, 103 E 10th St., Columbus, Ga Join Margo, a young circus performer, as she embarks on a journey to discover her special talent and find her place in the circus act. From daring acrobatics to whimsical clowning, Margo tries it all, each attempt bringing her more frustration. Along the way, she encounters a colorful cast of characters who help her realize that true magic lies within. Witness Margo’s charming exploration of self-discovery, friendship, and the enchanting world of the circus. www.springeroperahouse.org/springerproductions/ under-the-big-top
Sunday, October 6
Bill Blagg: Family Magic
3:00 PM Gogue Performing Arts Center, 910 South College St. Auburn University Join us for a morning filled with laughter, wonder and endless surprises as renowned magician Bill Blagg presents Family Magic! With more than 60 minutes of non-stop magical fun, Family Magic is specifically designed to entertain and engage audiences of all ages. Bill Blagg’s unique blend of comedy, audience participation and mindbending magic will keep you on the edge of your seat, eagerly anticipating what’s coming next. Prepare to be amazed as ordinary objects come to life while others vanish in the blink of an eye—you could even be chosen to float in mid-air! goguecenter.auburn.edu/billy-blagg-family-magic/
Monday, October 7
Some Enchanted Evening with Stella Katherine Cole
7:30 PM East Alabama Arts Center, 1700 Lafayette Pkwy, Opelika Led by Emmy-nominated crooner Benny Benack III and social media sensation Stella Katherine Cole, Some Enchanted Evening leads audi-
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ences on a jazz-inspired journey through Broadway’s greatest hits from the Golden Age of yesterday to the freshest hits of today. From Hammerstein to “Hamilton” and everything in between, this multi-disciplinary musical mashup also showcases Jabu Graybeal, a one-of-a-kind talent and tap-dancing star. (334) 749-8105
Tuesday, October 8
Family Discovery Hike: Birds
3:30 PM - 4:30 PM, Kreher Preserve & Nature Center, 2222 North College Street, Auburn Join our guides for an educational adventure as you and your children take in the many sights and sounds of the Nature Center. Hikes are for families with children ages 5 to 12.
http://kpnc.auburn.edu/programs/guidedtours/
Friday, October 11
Sundilla presents Joy Clark in Concert
7:30 PM Pebble Hill, 101 S. Debardeleben, Auburn Free coffee, tea, water, and food will be available, and the audience is invited to bring their own favorite food or beverage. www.sundillamusic.com
Chris D’Elia: Straight Outta the Multiverse Tour 8:00 PM Montgomery Performing Arts Centre, 201 Tallapoosa Street, Montgomery Chris D’Elia has become one of the most in-demand performers in comedy. His highly successful podcast, Congratulations with Chris D’Elia, has been a mainstay on iTunes’ comedy podcast charts since its debut in February 2017. He is also a co-star on The Golden Hour with Brendan Schaub and Erik Griffin. https://mpaconline.org/chris-delia/
Saturday, October 12
Harvest Market
8:00 AM - 12:00 PM, Town Creek Park , 1150 S Gay Street, Auburn Auburn Parks and Recreation invites the community, growers, and consumers alike, to join them at Town Creek Park for the annual Harvest Marker. The market will host local farmers, growers, and artists to sell their produce and products. (334) 501-2948
RushSouth Music & Outdoor Festival
5:00 PM - 11:00 PM, Uptown Columbus, 1000 Bay Ave Columbus, Ga A day of Music, River, Food, and Fun in the Chattahoochee Valley Area. Experience honky-tonk legend Junior Brown opens the show with amazing guitar skills and great songs. Tower of Power brings the best horn section in music to close out the day’s activities with funky and soulful sounds. www.rushsouthfest.com
Tuesday, October 15
Alabama Symphony Orchestra: The Wizard of Oz
7:00 PM Gogue Performing Arts Center, 910 South College St. Auburn University The timeless 1939 film classic The Wizard of Oz returns to the big screen, with the Alabama Symphony Orchestra performing the score live at the Woltosz Theatre. Sing along to the music you love, and the songs you know by heart— from “Somewhere Over the Rainbow” to “The Merry Old Land of Oz”—for two magical evening concerts performed by the state’s foremost symphony orchestra. https://goguecenter.auburn.edu/alabama-symphonyorchestra-the-wizard-of-oz/
October 17-27
Misery
Springer Opera House, 103 E 10th St., Columbus, Ga Based on Stephen King’s hit novel and 1990 film, “Misery” walks the chilling line between admiration and madness against an eerie setting of isolation, delusion, and obsession. Misery follows the successful romance novelist Paul Sheldon, who is rescued from a car crash by his number one fan, Annie Wilkes, and wakes up captive in her secluded home. www.springeroperahouse.org/springerproductions/ misery
Friday, October 18
Friday Night Beer and Family-Style Dinner
6:30 PM, Lawn at Hey Day Market, Auburn A ceremonial start to the weekend from our “Burgermeister” or mayor of the 2024 Oktoberfest with the official tapping of the keg “O’zapft!” We are excited to announce our Burgermeister this year Dr. Richard Bird with AU BREW.
Saturday, October 19
Oktoberfest
4:00 PM - 8:00 PM,, 580-B S Donahue Dr, Auburn
The South’s favorite craft beer festival is back at Auburn University’s Ag Heritage Park! There is live music, contests, educational presentations, stein hoisting, and food trucks, along with a multitude of breweries and beer. AU Oktoberfest hosts some of the best breweries in the country. From the crowdfavorite Stein hoisting competition to wiener dog races, Mr. And Miss Oktoberfest competition, and more, there’s something for everyone at Oktoberfest!
Sunday, October 20
The Magic School Bus: Lost in the Solar System
3:00 PM Gogue Performing Arts Center, 910 South College St. Auburn University Based on the popular book series, TheaterWorksUSA’s family musical takes the audience on a ride through the atmosphere on Mercury, Venus and Mars. Guided by Ms. Frizzle, the class must pull together to find their way across the galaxy while learning as much about teamwork as they do about the solar system. https://goguecenter.auburn.edu/the-magic-schoolbus-lost-in-the-solar-system/
Monday, October 21
Trunk-or-Treat with the Lee County Sheriff’s Office
6:00 PM - 7:30 PM,, 2311 Gateway Dr. Opelika Join the Lee County Sheriff’s Office for a festive and fun Trunk-or-Treat! Trunk-or-Treat with our Deputies, members of the Lee County District Attorney’s Office, Beauregard Volunteer Fire Dept., Lee County EMA, and other community partners, and enjoy getting up close to your favorite law enforcement vehicles all while showing off your family’s awesome Halloween costumes! Toys will be available for children with food sensitivities. There is no cost for this event. communityrelations@leecountysheriff.org
Friday, October 25
Dear Evan Hansen
7:00 PM Gogue Center for the Performing Arts, 910 South College St. Auburn Univesity Declared “one of the most remarkable shows in musical theater
history” by the Washington Post, Dear Evan Hansen is the first musical to take a groundbreaking look—from the point of view of both the parents and young people—at our complex, interconnected and social media-filled lives.
https://goguecenter.auburn.edu/dear-evan-hansen/
Saturday, October 26
Fall Food Truck Festival
11:00 AM - 6:00 PM, 1000 Bay Ave, Columbus, Ga Woodruff Park will transform into a food truck mecca with 30+ food vendors from the local and regional area! From turkey legs to seafood to street tacos, we’ve got it all with some of the yummiest vendors and an experience you won’t forget.
www.alwaysuptown.com/fall-food-truck-festival
Every Friday
Football, Fans, and Feathers
4:00 PM Auburn Raptor Center, 1350 Pratt-Carden Drive, Auburn
One of Auburn’s most popular fall programs — the Auburn University Raptor Center’s Football, Fans and Feathers — offers fans the opportunity to see a raptor show where they will experience birds of prey eye-to-eye and watch as they swoop overhead. Tickets can be purchased in advance; there is no charge for children age three and under. 334-844-6943
Come Home to the Corner
5:00 PM - 10:00 PM,, Downtown Auburn Every Friday night before a home football game. There will be live music from 6-9 p.m., extending shopping hours and more. www.downtownauburnonline.com
Fall Friday Night Concert Series
7:00 PM - 10:00 PM, Uptown Columbus, 1200 Broadway, Ga Join us every Friday and hear jazz, rock, reggae, gospel, and more. A full block along Broadway is shut down to ensure enough space for dancing and air guitars. Kids dance stage left and parents dance stage right. Pull up a table at one of our many locally owned and operated restaurants or grab a lawn chair and blanket to make it a night your whole family will enjoy. www.alwaysuptown.com
Every Saturday
Market Days on Broadway
9:00 AM - 12:00 PM, Uptown Columbus, 25 West 10th Street, Columbus, Ga Each Saturday, three blocks along Broadway host over 100 local and regional vendors. Visitors can expect to find fresh and organic produce, home goods, jewelry, unique crafts, and delicious baked goods. Market Days is the perfect Saturday activity for family, friends, and visitors. https://www.alwaysuptown.com/market-days
Every 1st and 3rd Saturday
Food Truck Friday
5:00 PM - 12:00 AM, Downtown Opelika Spend your first and third Friday of every month, where you can enjoy dinner and drinks from downtown restaurants, bars & breweries, and up to five different food truck partners each week. Enjoy your brews, bites, and beautiful downtown Opelika.
Please check with each venue prior to attending the event to verify the information provided is still accurate and up to date.
Grading Family Movies: Streaming, Online Rentals, and Theatrical Releases
Harold lives happily in the pages of a book, drawing things (and friends) into being with his magical purple crayon and chatting with the narrator, known as the Old Man. But when that voice falls silent, Harold heads to the Real World to find him. Unlike the classic children’s picture book that inspired the film, this production is devoid of charm. It’s tedious, chaotic, and burdened with lazy writing, awkward plot holes, unexpected fantasy violence, and surprisingly poor digital effects. The book is better
AOP: Can you please share a little about yourself and the other members that make up your family, including the kid’s ages and hobbies?
JD: I was born and raised in Montgomery and came to Auburn for school, where I met my husband, Reese. After graduating, we loved Auburn so much that we decided to make it our home. We have been married for 11 years now and have two daughters. Adaline is eight and just started second grade. She loves to dance and put on a show. She loved her hip-hop class last year and will be doing it again this year. Isabel is five and just started kindergarten. She is so excited to be at school with her big sister. She also loves dance and is taking ballet and tap.
AOP: What is Adaline’s diagnosis, and what was your initial reaction to hearing it?
JD: We were told shortly after Adaline was born that they thought she had Down syndrome. The news took us by surprise, to say the least. We were terrified. There were so many questions about what her life would look like, but most worrisome were the possible health concerns associated with having Down syndrome. I remember lying in the hospital bed with so much fear and anxiety, and although it was one of the scariest moments of my life, it was also one of the times I felt the closest to the Lord. He was there with us and told me that my baby was going to be okay. Once we got home and some of that fear subsided, it became obvious what a blessing we had just been given. Adaline is our precious little angel sent straight from Heaven. She brings so much joy to everyone she meets and has a special talent for putting a smile on people’s faces.
AOP: What type of therapies have you had to do to help her thrive?
JD: When she was just a couple of months old, we started physical and occupational therapy and eventually added speech therapy. These were very helpful and key to helping her progress quicker with all of her skills/milestones. She still receives all of these therapies but is able to do them at school now.
AOP: What is the most fulfilling part of raising a child with special needs?
JD: Adaline finds the good in everyone she meets, and it brings us so much joy to experience how she can meet a total stranger and, within seconds, bring them out of their shell and a smile to their face. It is amazing to see how she loves people so well. Adaline and all of our friends with Down syndrome are the way I believe the Lord intended people to be. She doesn’t see bad in people, she only sees good. She doesn’t see differences in people, she only sees love.
AOP: What do you wish others understood more about her diagnosis?
JD: Sometimes people think being different is scary, but being different is what makes you special. I would love for everyone to embrace that sentiment and love the differences instead of fearing them.
When Adaline looks in the mirror, she doesn’t see Down syndrome; she sees a girl who can do anything she puts her mind to. It may be in her own way and at her own pace but don’t try to stop her. She is one of the most persistent, strong-willed people I know. I pray that others see that as well.
AOP: What is one piece of advice you’d offer to other special needs parents?
JD: Remember to slow down and enjoy each moment. Try not to get overwhelmed with meeting all the milestones and academic goals. Trust in His plan for our children and for ourselves, and know that we don’t have to have all the answers right now. Everything will happen in His time.
I remember someone telling me that God only chooses special people to be the parents of these special blessings. It isn’t always easy, and things may take longer and be harder to accomplish, but there is so much joy and excitement in all the little things.
AOP: How do you take time to fill your cup as a mom and a wife?
JD: I have learned that it is so important to take time for yourself so that you can come back and be the best version of yourself with your family. For me, that looks like talking with friends who lift me up, spending time with the Lord in prayer each day, carving out one-on-one time with my husband, and having quality time with my mom, who is my best friend and the person I look up to most.
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Inside or Outside? Inside Sweet or Salty? Sweet Favorite Place? Beach Favorite Song? Better Together by Jack Johnson One word to describe yourself: Determined
Jenifer Dunn and her husband, Reese, have been married for 11 years. She is a stay-at-home mom to two little girls. When she isn’t carpooling the girls to their extracurricular activities, the family loves to spend time with family and friends. urpose and make it through this world. We got this, Mamas!