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Starla has always loved to play like a princess...

Today she is one. When Starla came to USA Children’s & Women’s Hospital, at age two, she was already very sick. The physicians soon diagnosed her with a rare form of leukemia. After a courageous battle, Starla is cancer free. Today she’s still pretending to be a princess, but the physicians and staff at USA Children’s & Women’s Hospital know what a real princess she truly is. From diagnosis and treatment to recovery, let USA Children’s & Women’s Hospital care for your family.

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• Recommended for 6 months of age and older

• Recommended for 2 months to 5 years and 65 years and older

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• Two vaccines protect against 13 and 23 strains of pneumonia • Risk groups and all adults 65 years should receive both vaccines

• Vaccine can be given from September - March each year

For more information, contact your healthcare provider, county health department, or community vaccinators.

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Volume 8 Number 7

Columns

6 Publisher’s Note Lynn Knighton

8 Living With Children John Rosemond

When Parenting Roles Reverse

Caring for your aging parents while raising your own family.

Get Excited About Giving

16 Kids Health Watch

sponsored by Magnolia Springs Pediatrics

Find creative ideas for “themed” holiday gift exchanges.

44 Growing Up Online Carolyn Jabs

46 Dave Says Dave Ramsey

56 Get This!

Gerry Paige Smith

Holiday Happenings

From parades to tree lightings to musicals and more, these events make your season bright!

66 Centsibly Southern Chic

Raising Boys

Laura Handey

Teach them to be good brothers by inspiring healthy competition, empathy, and cooperation.

Gerry Paige Smith

Departments

On The Cover

Veda Jane (4) and Ruby (2), daughters of Laura & Eddie Rowe. During the Christmas season Veda Jane enjoys painting salt dough ornaments while trying to keep Ruby from eating them. The girls love walking to the parade downtown, and sprinkling glittery “reindeer food” in their front yard. 55

75 A Page in a Book

Bits and Pieces 18

School Bits 70

Family Calendar 76

Movie Reviews

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Publisher’sNote I recently found a box of photos that I had been missing for over 10 years. It was so much fun to look through them, especially the really old ones of my brothers and me. One of my favorite pictures is one of me and my older brother (my little brother was not born yet) at Christmas. In the photo we are wearing our pajamas and hanging our stockings on the mantle of the fireplace. Sounds like a pretty typical Normal Rockwell moment, but I assure you, no Normal Rockwell painting I have ever seen has a cardboard fireplace. I immediately texted my brother the picture and we had the best time laughing about our cardboard fireplace. As kids we thought it was the best thing ever! Oh, how we loved it! Our family would get so excited when Dad pulled out the box to install the fireplace. This cardboard wonder was not just a flat façade, it was “realistic” with brick pattern, a functional mantle and was made complete with a fan that blew red, yellow and orange paper between the cardboard fire to simulate flickering flames. Jim reminded me how we would sit in front of it pretending to warm our hands. We would meticulously decorate this treasure with the manger scene, stockings and a mini aluminum tree. It was magical. We felt like the luckiest family on earth. I am thrilled to have found that photo. What a special memory and a fantastic way to kick off the holiday season. It is hard to believe the holidays are here. Even though I have been working on these holiday issues of the magazine since September, it somehow still snuck up on me. Usually by this time I have checked off most of my Christmas list, but this year I am way behind. I hate that too. I tend to make really poor gift choices when I feel rushed for time. My husband on the other hand loves to wait until the week of Christmas to do his shopping. He thrives off the exhilaration of last minute shopping. If I wait until the last minute I either go over budget because I am panicked or buy something that receives the “Oh, this is interesting” response, like the slinky on a stick golf ball picker upper I bought my pro-golfer little brother who was, at the time, on the Nike Tour. The looks my brothers and my dad gave me were priceless. It’s something we still laugh about today. If shopping for gifts throws you into an anxiety attack, check out Sara Marchessault’s article this month, Get Excited About Giving with a Themed Holiday. She has some fun suggestions for holiday gift buying. Make sure you also turn to the Holiday Gift Guide on page 51 where you will find some great gift suggestions from local retailers. The holiday season does bring a lot of excitement. Plus, we are so lucky to live in an area with so many family-friendly events to attend, many of them even FREE! You can just about fill every day of your calendar from now until New Year’s will all the activities offered in the Holiday Happenings Guide on page 58. If that is not enough, there is even more in our Family Calendar on page 70, so grab your calendars and get ready to fill them in! Whether you are out shopping ‘til you drop or just taking in the sights and sounds of Christmas, please do remember those less fortunate who may be struggling either financially or emotionally. Make it a family priority to give back this holiday season. It doesn’t matter if you have a million dollars to give or just a smile, you never know how a simple act of kindness may turn someone’s day around, or even change their life. May God bless you and your family this holiday season with peace and joy.

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The Eastern Shore’s Foremost Parenting Source

Eastern Shore Parents Magazine, is founded on the principle that parenting is an exciting, diverse, challenging, and significant, role in our community. Eastern Shore Parents Magazine is a community advocate for families and the parenting process.

Publisher Lynn Knighton lynn@easternshoreparents.com Editor DeAnne Watson deanne@easternshoreparents.com Associate Editor Kelly Watson Research Editor Christa Weinberg Contributing Writers Gayla Grace Laura Handey Christa Hines Carolyn Jabs Sara Marchessault Dave Ramsey John Rosemond Robert L. Rux, M.D. Gerry Paige Smith Cover Photography Laura Rowe www.laurarowephotography.com

President Jason Watson jason@easternshoreparents.com Advertising Opportunities Lynn Knighton Leslie Hall Tracie Calvert Danielle Nicholas ads@easternshoreparents.com (251) 929-2099 Ad Design Tim Welch

Visit us online at www.easternshoreparents.com Eastern Shore Parents magazine is published monthly by KeepSharing, LLC. Mailing address: P.O. Box 374, Montrose, Alabama, 36559. The phone number for voice and fax is (251) 929-2099. Eastern Shore Parents is copyrighted 2015 by KeepSharing LLC. All rights reserved. Reproduction in whole or part without written permission is prohibited. Opinions expressed in Eastern Shore Parents magazine are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the view of the owners, nor do they constitute an endorsement of products and services herein.

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LivingWithChildren by John Rosemond

Short Answers for Quick Questions A collection of “shorties”—questions from parents that require less than 100-word answers:

Can you tell me why my 34-month-old daughter is throwing so many tantrums?

A: She throws tantrums because you don’t obey her. After two years of being the center of attention, it’s difficult for her to accept that she’s not ringmaster of the family circus. Q:

So what should I do when she throws a tantrum?

Assign her tantrums to a rug or some other “tantrum place.” When she has a fit, drag her to her special rug and walk away.

My 5-year-old still sucks her thumb. I have tried various means of getting her to stop, but she persists. Any advice?

A: My wife and I told our thumb-sucking daughter, Amy, when she was five that she could suck her thumb in her room only. If we found her doing it elsewhere, we sent her to her room. Not as punishment, mind you, but simply to put it out of sight, to

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describe some geographical limits around it. She quickly gave it up.

I want my 24-month-old son to learn to drink from an open cup. Sippy cups drive me nuts. Any advice?

A: Sippy cups are found in the hands of kids as old as five these days because so many kids no longer drink water. They drink colored, sweetened junk liquids that stain if spilled. The way to teach a child to drink from an open cup is to put water in it. Begin with a small amount and gradually increase it as his cup-holding mastery improves. Sippy cups should be over and done with by 24 months. After that, they interfere with hand-eye coordination. Q:

So what should a parent do if a child is constantly wanting attention?

A: Parents should not let children dictate the terms of the parent-child relationship. The child who constantly wants attention needs parents who refuse to give it to him on demand. Q: What if the child gets upset if the parents refuse to give him attention?

A: So what? Children don’t know what is best for themselves. A child who gets upset because his parents refuse to let him command center stage in the family should be sent to his room until he cools off. Q:

When she’s at home, my 14-year-old daughter prefers to be in her room, reading. She has no cell phone or computer in her room, but getting her to join the family is sometimes like pulling teeth. Otherwise, she’s a good kid. Any advice?

A: Let her be. Unless, that is, you have a specific reason why she should come out of her room, in which case you should insist upon it. If this is the only problem you have with a 14-year-old, give praise and thanks and leave well enough alone. Q:

My 15-year-old son has been invited to a boy-girl sleepover. The supervising parents are good, responsible people. Should I let him go?

This is a joke question, right?

Family psychologist John Rosemond answers parents’ questions at www.johnrosemond.com and parentguru.com.

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Wales West Arctic Express to Kick Off November 27

The Arctic Express at Wales West Light Railway will take patrons on an authentic steam train ride through the Park while enjoying over 1,000,000 Christmas lights, inflatables, and light displays. At the "North Pole", the children can meet Santa, get photos made, and tell him what they want for Christmas. Children will receive a free wooden train or train whistle which they decorate with crafts provided. Back at the train station, refreshments of hot cocoa, a cookie and a candy cane will be served to all in the big, decorated station. Adults and children can enjoy a ride on the miniature train, and children enjoy the inflatable obstacle course on the playground. Open Thursdays - Sundays from 3 - 9 pm from Nov. 27 - Dec. 15; open daily Dec. 16 Dec. 24 from 3 - 9 pm. $15 per person, plus tax; children two or younger are free. Phone 888-569-5337 or visit waleswest.com for more information. Wales West is located at 13670 Smiley Street, off County Road 9 near Silverhill, just outside of Fairhope.

Girl Scouts of Southern Alabama Sells Cookies at $4 a Package

Contrary to what you might have heard, Girl Scout Cookies will be sold for $4 a package, not $5, in southern Alabama starting December 21. The price of a box of Girl Scout Cookies is determined individually by each of the 112 local councils. Not all varieties of cookies are available in every market due to Girl Scout Cookies being produced by two commercial bakers, ABC Bakers and Little Brownie Bakers. The 2016 lineup includes favorites, such as Shortbreads, Thin Mints, Caramel deLites ®, Peanut Butter Patties ®, Peanut Butter Sandwiches, Lemonades™, ThanksA-Lots™, Cranberry Citrus Crisps and a gluten-free cookie, Trios. Trios will be the only cookie sold for $5. Troops will set up in front of local businesses to sell their cookies beginning Friday, January 22. The sale ends on Sunday, March 6. For more information or to locate a Girl Scout troop, visit www.girlscoutssa.org or call toll free 1-800-239-6636.

Christmas on Broadway Presented by Baldwin County Youth Orchestra

Baldwin County Youth Orchestra proudly presents Christmas on Broadway! This exciting, family-friendly event features a full orchestra of 40 students, ages 12 -25 playing some of your favorite Broadway holiday tunes. The concert will also include several choir members from various schools and organizations singing along with this holiday piece. In addition to the orchestra performance the Baldwin Winds, Adult Strings and Youth Allegro Strings will also perform holiday favorites. Bring the family and join us on Friday, December 11, 7 pm at Eastern Shore Baptist Church located at 6847 Park Drive, Daphne. Admission is FREE but we are accepting new, unwrapped toys to be donated to Toys for Tots. www.bcyorchestra.com.

Bay Appétit: A Second Helping of Lower Alabama Dishes

PMT Publishing Inc. is excited to announce the release of its second cookbook, “Bay Appétit: A Second Helping of Lower Alabama Dishes.” The newest volume is chock-full of more than 170 regional recipes, including all-time favorites from past issues of Mobile Bay Magazine, reader recipe contest winners and fresh contributions from some of the Bay Area’s most celebrated restaurant chefs. From classic Gulf staples (cheese straws, gumbo, pimiento cheese and shrimp creole) to twists on traditional (beer and Conecuh grilled cheese, pumpkin curry soup and honey pecan fried chicken), the offerings in this cookbook suit any appetite or occasion. Bay Appétit II can be purchased at www.mobilebaymag.com/Mobile-Bay/Shop/ for $24.95 plus tax and shipping, or at the Mobile Bay Magazine offices, 3729 Cottage Hill Road, Mobile. It will also be available at select local retailers. Bon appétit!

GoDaddy Bowl Week in December

A family night concert event kicks off GoDaddy Bowl week on December 19. “A Christmas Experience” will be held at the Mobile Civic Center at 7:00 pm. This concert features 6-time Grammy award-winning artist TobyMac and special guest speaker, Franklin Graham. Ticket prices are $15, $25 and $35. Group ticket sales are available now through the GoDaddy Bowl website at www.GoDaddyBowl.com. Events continue through the week including the GoDaddy Bowl Mayor’s Luncheon; The Greer’s Markets & Cashsavers/AL.Com Mardi Gras Parade; Al.com Pep Rally, Spectronics Fireworks Show, and Street Party. The week concludes with the GoDaddy Bowl Game on Wednesday, December 23 at 8:00 pm at Ladd-Peebles Stadium and will be aired nationally on ESPN. For more information about Bowl Week events please visit www.GoDaddyBowl.com. Eastern Shore Parents I December 2015

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Bay Minette Christmas Fest

Santa will be throwing more than just candy when he arrives in downtown Bay Minette on Friday, Dec. 11. The jolly old elf will be tossing out hundreds of ping pong balls as he makes his grand entrance at the 33rd annual Christmas Fest. The ping pong balls will be dropped as part of the opening ceremonies with Santa riding in on top of a fire truck. Of those, 100 ping pong balls will be numbered and 100 prizes will be given away during the weekend. Christmas Fest will be held Dec. 11-12 and vendor booths are open 8 a.m. to 9 p.m. Friday and 8 a.m. to 4 p.m. Saturday. In addition to numerous arts and crafts and food vendors, there will be a special children's area and plenty of musicians, dancers and performers to fill the weekend. Weekend activities will include the lighting of the Christmas tree in Blackburn Park; Santa's arrival and ping pong ball drop; performances by local talent; bedtime stories with Santa at the Bay Minette Public Library; pancakes with Santa; Christmas Fest 5K and 1-Mile Fun Run; antique car show, and the annual parade. For more information about these, or other related events, call the North Baldwin Chamber of Commerce at 251-937-5665.

Run for Shep to Benefit Shephard's Flock

On August 23, 2013 our lives were forever changed by hearing the words “Shephard has cancer.” From the very beginning we knew that God was going to use our cancer journey for His glory. The first two years of the run have exceeded our expectations! Last year, we had over 400 participants and loads of support from the local community. The money raised benefitted local families with the non-medical expenses (food, gas cards, groceries, etc.) related to treatment. We were also able to provide the patient treatment areas at the hospital with iPads and several other distractions for a child undergoing treatment. We have now started a non-profit called Shephard’s Flock. Shephard’s Flock’s purpose is to financially support (non-medical) LOCAL childhood cancer warriors who are being treated at USA Children’s and Women’s. Register now to join in on the family fun and support a great cause! The Run for Shep will be held at the Bounds Family YMCA on Saturday, January 23, 2016. There will be jump houses, food, face painting, corn hole, characters from Once Upon A Time Events, the Life South Blood Mobile and much more! 5K start time: 9 am, ½ mile Fun Run: 10 am. Early packet pickup for participants and late registration will occur at the Bounds Family YMCA from 9:00 am - 7:00 pm on Friday, January 22. Race Day registration and check-in will occur at the Bounds Family YMCA from 7:00 am - 8:30 am January 23. Prizes will be awarded. 5K registrants will receive a dri-fit short sleeve shirt. For more information, contact: Run for Shep on facebook at Run for Shep or Runforshep@gmail.com, Lauren (251) 533-1916 or Brady (251) 406-1301.

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Upcoming Center Stage Performances and Auditions

Leapin' Lizards! Center Stage Performance brings one of the world's best-loved musicals to Fairhope. Join our 40+ member cast of k4-3rd graders in this memorable production of “Annie, Kids” on December 4th and 5th at Fairhope Elementary School Stage. Then, on December 11th and 12th, Center Stage Performance brings Horton the Elephant, the Cat in the Hat, and all of your favorite Dr. Seuss characters to life onstage in “Seussical, Jr.” at the Daphne Civic Center. Join our cast of more than 60 4th-12th graders for this fantastic foray into the world of Seuss! Tickets for both productions are available online at www. CenterStagePerformance.com and at A Fairhope Antiquery, Silverhill Antiques and Furniture, and Homestead Village Retirement Community. Auditions for our spring shows of “A Year with Frog and Toad, Kids” (grades k4-3rd) and “Beauty and the Beast, Jr.” (grades 4th-12th), and our Show Choirs (grades 3rd -12th) will be held on January 12th and 14th at the FUMC Life Center in Fairhope. For more information on our auditions and program, please visit www.CenterStagePerformance.com or contact Jill Stanley at jill@centerstageperformance.com.

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Fairhope Rotary Youth Holiday Tribute Program

Students at the Rotary Youth Club of Fairhope/Point Clear crafted Christmas paintings as part of the new "Holiday Tribute Program" the club is launching this year. Donors can make a contribution to the RYC in honor or memory of someone and the club will mail a holiday card representing club members' artwork to all those on your list, acknowledging the donation. “For the first time we're also encouraging donors to scholarship a student at $30 a month or $300 for the year," said Board Chair Ed Hammele. For more information or to make your donation visit www.rotaryyouthclub. org. Front row: Daytona Brierly; Second row: Victoria Moten, Eastern Shore Art Center Education Coordinator Nancy Raia, Noah Harrelson, Caylon Williams; Standing: Yami Payne, Zaylee Bradley, Cortlen Dortch.

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Community Honors Capt. W. Andrew Johnson

Captain W. Andrew Johnson, a Mobile Bar Pilot, passed away unexpectedly in January while piloting a ship into the port of Mobile. The Johnson family asked in lieu of flowers, donations be made in memory of Capt. Johnson to benefit the Stephen ministries at the family’s church, where Capt. Johnson was a Stephen minister, and the Equine Educational Consultants, a center specializing in equine therapy with children affected by Autism Spectrum disorders. The donations received not only helped the Stephen Ministry but also helped build a covered arena at the EEC. Now students of the center do not have to miss their therapeutic lessons due to rainy weather. The covered arena was dedicated to the memory of Captain Andrew Johnson on October 10, 2015. Pictured are Theresa (Terry) Johnson, wife of Capt. Andrew Johnson, daughter Rachel (8), and Tonya Halterman, owner of Lake Forest Stables and Equine Educational Consultants.

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Pleasure Island Junior Woman’s Club Benefits Local Children

Shirts, pants, shoes and socks – these are some things we take for granted when gearing our children up for school. The Pleasure Island Junior Woman’s Club makes it possible for children that are less fortunate to be able to attend school with comfort and ease like their peers. On January 9, 2016, the club will host the “Pleasure Island Cocktail Party” at Fisher’s in Orange Beach. The event will be held upstairs and will have entertainment, heavy hors d’oeuvres and a cash bar. There will be a silent auction with items ranging from condo packages to local restaurant gift cards. Tickets are $35 per person and can be purchased online at fishers.instagift.com/islandcocktail-party. Every penny raised from sponsorship's and silent action items will be used by the club to clothe children in our community! There is also a 5K and fun run that happens each year titled The Bunny Hop. The Bunny Hop typically takes place the weekend after Easter at the Wharf in Orange Beach. The run is in memory of Ann Reese Grote, a daughter of a former club member who lost her life a few years ago at a young age. The club awards a scholarship in the amount of $1500 to a deserving high school senior who exhibits an attitude of community involvement and a genuine heart for others. In addition to these fundraisers, the women of Pleasure Island Junior Woman’s Club also spend countless hours giving back to other programs in our community that aide in the welfare of our children. If you are interested in donating or becoming a member of this organization, please feel free to contact us for more information. We can be reached by email at pleasureislandjwc@gmail.com or find us on Facebook! Pictured, Pleasure Island Junior Women's Club plan meeting for the Island Cocktail Party at Fishers.

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KidsHealthWatch

Sponsored by Magnolia Springs Pediatrics

New Year’s Resolutions: Kids Edition I have to admit to you guys, I love this time of year. We are about to have Christmas and New Year’s, and Mardi Gras is around the corner. I know not everyone likes the cold, but I have some Wisconsin blood flowing through my veins, so I don’t mind the weather. It’s a perfect time to stay at home and spend time with our families and loved ones. One thing I try to think about is resolutions. I know this is an old cliché— everyone vows to run ten miles a day, give up junk food and save the planet. While these goals are worthwhile, they often fall by the wayside within a few weeks. So this year, I want to challenge you to do something different. While I often think of great ideas that will improve my relationships, health, and my community, the execution oftentimes gets in the way. Today, we are going to talk about some ideas that you and your kids can do that are realistic, fun, and will bring you together more as a family. First let’s think about some goals as a whole family. In this day and age of running to school, practice, homework, video games, and smartphones, we miss some of the most important memories of childhood. Meals with your family, playing board games, reading books together, and even talking about your day is so important to the relationships in a family. I recently heard a wonderful speaker

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describe this as “margin.” That is creating time to just spend with your family and not running around crazy! I had a parent try and tell me that their “perfect” child who was suspended from school could only have learned the language and behaviors from other bad influences at school. Wrong! Children learn their basics from their parents and family when it comes to respect for adults, each other, property, and themselves. Sure, they can be influenced by others, but that’s where parenting steps in as well. Developing a trusting relationship between children and parents is vital to their success. If a child is having a difficult time at school or with another person, they need to be able to come to you and talk. If you feel you and your child don’t have that relationship, then work on it. Talk to them, spend time, and be good role models for your children. When it comes to some specifics, let’s look at some New Year’s resolutions that help the body and mind. First, let’s teach ourselves and our kids to practice good hygiene. Washing hands, covering you nose and mouth when you cough and sneeze, trimming your nails and brushing your teeth are basic, but oftentimes forgotten personal hygiene traits. Not only can you significantly reduce the spread of illnesses, but you feel better and are more confident about

yourself. Along similar lines is our diet. I understand how hard it can be to have the mealtime food battle. I have three kids and we go through it almost every night; but the excuse that my child “has to have something (even if it’s not healthy)” before they go to bed or “my child only eats cheese” is full of junk. First, who buys the food that is currently in the house? What do you as a parent eat at meals and snacks? How do you respond when your child refuses to eat the meal you prepared? Healthy eating habits for a child are all about expectations! If you get unhealthy food, you expect unhealthy food! You will be surprised that the answer is not “my child is a picky eater.” So take the New Year to focus on family relationships, personal hygiene, and the food we put into our bodies, and try and create some margin. You might be surprised how much better you and your children feel!

Robert L. Rux, M.D. is a Board Certified Pediatrician at Magnolia Springs Pediatrics. Originally from Mobile, he attended medical school at The University of Alabama School of Medicine (UAB) and completed residency at The Children’s Hospital of Alabama (UAB). He is married to Jaime and has three children, Adler, Walker and Mary McAtee.

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Autauga County Schools at Rockwell Elementary Patriotism

Pine Grove Elementary Students too Bright for Drugs

“America the Beautiful” is the title of the fall DBAE Arts unit at Rockwell Elementary. Rockwell students are learning about our national monuments, patriotic songs, and arts-related activities highlighting our nation. The students were also given a special day—Dress-up America Day—to dress in patriotic attire (red, white, and blue) or costumes that featured a famous character in American history!

As part of its Red Ribbon Week activities students at Pine Grove Elementary dressed up in bright clothing to show they are too bright to do drugs. Since its inception in 1985, Red Ribbon Week has become an important time for schools and organizations to raise awareness and educate students about the dangers and harmful effects of drugs. This year's National Red Ribbon theme is “Respect Yourself. Be Drug Free."

W.J. Carroll Students Take Overnight Trip to Sea Lab

W. J. Carroll Intermediate School Project Jubilee 5th graders took an overnight field trip to Dauphin Island Sea Lab recently. Of the three classes they participated in, a highlight was the squid dissection. Under expert instruction from Sea Lab faculty, students teamed up to learn about cephalopods while understanding their place in the ocean as well as the body structure. Working together are Anna Cate Potts and Abigail Carlson.

Gulf Shores Middle School Brings Home Three Wins from Shrimp Festival Art Contest

Navigator Homeschool Students Enjoy Variety of Classes

Blake Fisher, Giulia De Souza, and Bentley Kendall placed in the Shrimp Festival Art Contest. All three students are from Gulf Shores Middle School. Blake Fisher won 1st place, Giulia De Souza won 2nd place and Bentley Kendall won "Best of Show." Along with winning "Best of Show," Bentley won $500 for the GSMS Art Program! Three winners are pictured with Megan Scofield, GSMS Art Teacher.

Navigator Homeschool co-op kids have been enjoying a variety of classes this fall. Our preschoolers have enjoyed learning all about Dr. Seuss and science with fun stories and activities. The older homeschoolers got a taste of archery, learning how to handle a bow and perfecting their aim. The kids have had a great semester in all the other classes as well ranging from cupcake baking to periodic table science and many more all while having time to have fun with their friends. Eastern Shore Parents I December 2015

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Spanish Fort Middle School Raises $3000 for Coach’s Wife with Cancer

Spanish Fort Middle School celebrated Breast Cancer Awareness Month by holding a special pep rally to recognize breast cancer warriors and survivors. Students invited friends and relatives to attend the event. These women received gift cards and flowers from Shoe Station and the Spanish Fort Piggly Wiggly. Led by the extraordinary pep rally planner, Tina Jennings, the students, faculty and PTA raised $3000 for Spanish Fort High School’s Coach Boyd’s wife who is currently battling a rare form of cervical cancer.

Marietta Johnson School Students Harvest Veggies for Food Pantry

Each Monday afternoon the students from Marietta Johnson School of Organic Education harvest vegetables at the Garden of Eatin’, a community garden located at Jubilee Shores Methodist Church. The vegetables are then delivered to Ecumenical Ministries so that struggling families can have fresh produce when they get food at the pantry on Tuesday mornings. In the garden children learn science concepts in a way that builds self-confidence and responsibility. They are developing communication and leadership skills as they navigate their way through the process of packaging, labeling, weighing and recording their data. As they work together, children learn to solve problems and make decisions while successfully contributing to their own community.

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Bayshore Christian School Approved for Accreditation by Association of Classical Christian Schools

This fall, Bayshore Christian School reached an exciting milestone. Following 2 years of preparation, the school was approved for accreditation by the Association of Classical Christian Schools (ACCS). After observing every class at BCS and combing through all of their curriculum and other documentation, the ACCS visitation team was impressed with what they saw. Upon the graduation of their first Senior Class in May, Bayshore Christian School will officially be accredited by the ACCS.

Bayside Academy Students Named Representatives at Veterans Day Celebration at Battleship Park

4th graders Kaytlin Sellers, Lucy Frailie, Trent Duncan, Jack Roussos, Julia Hall, and Lily Frailie from Bayside Academy were recently chosen to represent their class and Bayside Academy during the annual Veterans Day celebration at the USS ALABAMA Battleship Park. The children were chosen by the essay they were asked to write explaining why they would make a good representative. These six children will follow up with an essay about what they learned from attending the Veterans Day celebration. Left to Right: Kaytlin Sellers, Lucy Frailie, Trent Duncan, Jack Roussos, Julia Hall, and Lily Frailie

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Daphne East Elementary 2nd Graders Sock it to Drugs

Ms. Courtney Phillips’ 2nd grade class shows their “crazy socks” for Crazy Sock Day at Daphne East as we “sock it” to drugs during Red Ribbon Week.

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Bayshore Christian School Students Make Poppies for Veterans

6th graders from Bayshore Christian joined Eastern Shore Art Center in making poppies for the "Poppies for Veterans" project. The red ceramic poppies were installed at the Fairhope Veteran's Memorial at Henry George Park on the bluff overlooking Mobile Bay and at the Eastern Shore Art Center for Veteran's Day. The poppies were sold after the memorial service with proceeds benefitting local veteran's organizations.

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Autauga County Schools Orange Beach Elementary Poetry Club Writing Haikus About Fall

The members of the Orange Beach Elementary Poetry Club show off their booklets where they are compiling their own poems. These 4th-6th grade poets come together to discuss, read, and write a different type of poem each month. This month focuses on Fall haikus. Pictured from left to right: Kailyn Opperud, Anna Kathryn Bradford, Maegan Laningham, Bailey Essary, and Bryce Collins.

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Silverhill Elementary Leaders

Silverhill Elementary Schoolâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Leaders of the Month are being recognized for beginning with the end in mind. Pictured in no particular order are: Trey Dunmore, Rileigh Ikner, Katie Johnson, Gabriella Lipscomb, Kortlyn White, James Lyons, Savannah Peterson, Jackson Burroughs, Maria Hardy, Gracey Christian, Emma McCullough, Tenleigh Marie, Rocco Faiupu, Melonie Hardy, Nick Lyons, Arrington Faiupu, Cameron Sawyer, Daeton Goodman-Warman, and Kayleigh Fairchild. Not pictured are: Courtlynn Womble, Samuel Glassford and Laura Filmore.

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Scholastic Book Fair Raffle Winner at Bay Minette Intermediate School

Bay Minette Intermediate School raffled off a basket of goodies provided by Scholastic as part of a fun Book Fair week. The winner of the prize valued at $100 was Dakota Brown. Dakota was thrilled to win and is a student in April Lamb’s fifth grade class.

Bright Future for 4th Graders at Gulf Shores Elementary

Gulf Shores Elementary School’s Red Ribbon Week was so much fun dressing up in the theme days. Here, Mrs. Kelly Green’s 4th grade kiddos know, "Our Future is too Bright for Drugs!” Pictured front row l to r: Mariana Ortega, Allison Fikes, Matheus Siqueira, and Brenton Cobb. Back row: Mrs. Kelly Green.

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Bay Minette Middle School Cheerleaders Win 3rd Place in County Competition

The Bay Minette Middle School Cheerleaders won third place at the Baldwin County Cheer Competition. The team includes, from left back row, Allie Brown, Malorie Parker, Kristen Phillips, Rachel Donald, Katlyn Comalander, Jayla Bennett, Rebecca Campbell, Morgan Bright, Coach Angela Tabor; middle row, Janey Presley, Tylee Mosley, Kaleigh Castleberry, Lindsey Hall; front row, Demi Hester (co-captain) and Andi Reed (captain).

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FEEF Awards Grant to Fairhope Middle School Teacher

Mrs. Tonya Harrelson, an 8th grade algebra and math teacher at Fairhope Middle School, received a grant from the Fairhope Educational Enrichment Foundation for $3,770 to purchase 380 Casio FX-ES Plus scientific calculators and storage containers. The calculators will be used this year by the 8th grade FMS students helping to increase their speed and accuracy in solving math problems. This will hopefully result in higher classroom and ACT Aspire math scores. A special thanks to FEEF for their continued support of the success of our students.

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Spanish Fort Middle School faculty selected 7th grade English teacher, Mrs. Bev Koepp, as the 2015 Teacher of the Year. Mrs. Keopp has been teaching for 44 years. Mrs. Koepp has influenced thousands of students and proudly displays pictures and biographical information about past and present students in her classroom. Students say they love her because she explains concepts in a way students can easily understand, she is very kind, she tells great stories, she is an LSU fan, she makes learning fun; in short, she is simply amazing!

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Fairhope 2nd Graders Learn About Matter

Mrs. Lara LeFeverâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Fairhope Elementary 2nd graders are learning about properties of matter as they becoming engineers. Given a variety of supplies, students had the task of creating something Pilgrims could use to move their supplies from the boat to the meeting house. Seen pictured are a group of students with their final creation. Pictured from left to right: Tristan, Lupita, and Laine.

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Honoring Veterans at J. Larry Newton School

J. Larry Newton School students and staff honored their local service men and women with a Veteran’s Day program on Tuesday, November 10th. Over fifty veterans attended the event in addition to friends, family, students, and faculty. Mr. Stephen Pearce conducted the Newton School choir as they performed “America the Beautiful”, “Star Spangled Banner”, and “Thank You, Soldiers”. Newton students gave a history of Veteran’s Day and recited the moving poem “Freedom is Not Free” by Kelly Strong. Mrs. Patrice Krueger, Newton principal, introduced the program’s guest speaker, Mr. William Phillip Lazenby, 1st. Sergeant of the United States Army - Retired. Mr. Lazenby is also husband to Mrs. Tara Lazenby, Newton second grade teacher. Sgt. Lazenby spoke inspiringly of the heroes that sat before him, and the audience responded with a standing ovation. Mr. Tony Edwards, para-educator at Newton, honored each branch of the armed services with its own service song. The Armed Forces Medley allowed the audience to recognize each military branch’s veterans as they stood during their particular song. After the medley, visiting veterans were presented with a United States flag, kindly donated by Woodmen of the World, and other tokens of gratitude made by Newton students. The program was concluded by Ms. Krueger thanking all the veterans for attending, followed by a rendition of “Taps”, performed by Newton band teacher and veteran, Steve McKinney, and, Stephen Pearce and Tony Edwards. After the program, veterans and their families were treated to coffee and cookies. Each enjoyed a chance to share stories of their time in the services.

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Bayside Academy Students Win Awards in National Shrimp Festival Art Contest

Bayside Academy students entered artwork during the National Shrimp Festival and came home winners! Frances Sledge, 12th grade, won 3rd place in the high school division and Lilly Duffy, 7th grade, won 3rd place in the middle school division. Ava Blackwell, 2nd grade, won 3rd place in the elementary division, and Kate Ginger, 5th grade, won BEST OF SHOW in the elementary division.

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SFMS Students Learn Science Behind Baking Cookies

Students in Dr. Cokerâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s FACS classes made Halloween cookies, from scratch, last week. Students learned correct measuring techniques for dry and wet ingredients. They learned how an acid (cream of tartar) and a base (baking soda) react to form carbon dioxide gas, which makes the cookies rise, when exposed to heat.

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ASMS Class of 2015 Holds Highest ACT Average in School’s History

The ACT averages by section for the Alabama School of Math and Science class of 2015 are as follows: English (30.9), Math (28.3), Reading (31.3), and Science Reasoning (29.2). Because of the school’s advanced curriculum is math, science, and the humanities, ASMS students typically raise their ACT scores by 4-6 points, or more, before they graduate. A high ACT score dramatically increases a student’s chance of attracting college scholarship offerings. In 2015, the 83 ASMS grads earned $12 million in merit-based scholarships. “Our students are offered several opportunities that help prepare them for the ACT,” ASMS Director of Student Services Apryle Willliams says. “ASMS has offered an ‘ACT Prep’ class to students for three years. I would also like to highlight our counselors and teachers who work together to make sure students are taking the classes they need, which in turn provides the knowledge and opportunities that students need to best prepare them for the ACT, college, and their futures.” ASMS is our state’s only fully public and residential high school for sophomores, juniors, and seniors seeking advanced studies in math, science, and the humanities. Tuition, room, and board are free. “ASMS is a special place where talented students have the opportunities and the support to develop their full potential as future leaders,” ASMS President Dr. Monica Motley says. “The accomplishment of the ASMS class of 2015 is just one example of the great things our scholars have done at ASMS. Congratulations to everyone!”

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W.J. Carroll Winners in Daphne Public Library’s Bookmark Contest

The Daphne Public Library’s 2015 “Back to School” Bookmark Contest brought some outstanding entries from W. J. Carroll Intermediate School. There were over 900 entries from kindergarten through 8th grade and representing eight schools. We would like to congratulate the following students. From left is Mariah Gonzales who won 1st place then Morgan Bias who won 3rd place for 4th grade as well as Ryan Carraway who won 3rd place for 5th grade. Pictured with them are Rhonda Moss and Jami Weekely, children’s librarians for the Daphne Public Library. They presented the student awards on the morning broadcast show.

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Huntington Learning Center Recognizes Teacher

Huntington Learning Center is pleased to announce that Mrs. Melody Early has been selected as the Fairhope Middle School Teacher of the Month for October and November, 2015. Mrs. Early has been teaching at FMS for 11 years and currently teaches 7th grade life science. She also teaches an online marine biology class to high school students across the state of Alabama via the ACCESS Learning program. Mrs. Early was chosen by the faculty for her compassionate attitude and dedication to her students’ success. Married for 17 years, she and her husband have a daughter, Mackenzie, who is a sophomore at Fairhope High School. In her spare time, Mrs. Early enjoys photography, going to the beach, riding on their boat, and cheering on her daughter at dance competitions. 29

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Spanish Fort Middle School’s Cross Country Team Wins County Championship!

Led by Coach Leah Moore, the SFMS Cross Country Team won the county championship. Brooke Duplantier and Ryley Grantham placed First and Third in the Girls Division and Eli Smith placed Second in the Boys Division. Congratulations to the following students for making the All-County Team: ALL COUNTY GIRLS: Brooke Duplantier, Ryley Grantham, Olivia Madison, Libby McCracken, Kaylee Komyati, Alana Hattenstein. ALL COUNTY BOYS: Eli Smith, Jack Knight, Bennett Keyser, Will Bender, Rollins McPherson, Bradley Vorpahl.

Counting to 100 at Orange Beach Elementary

These students in Mrs. Lynn’s kindergarten class at OBES made it to the 100’s club by counting from 0-100 by themselves! Way to go, counting is fun!

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Fairhope Elementary Holds Nerds vs. Geeks Multiplication Bowl

Recently, individual classes at Fairhope Elementary School dressed up according to various themes to educate and raise awareness about drug abuse. Listed below are some of the participants in the 1st Annual Nerds vs. Geeks Multiplication Bowl. Mrs. Crystal Phelps’s third grade class (the nerds) crushed Mr.Wilson McDuff’s third grade class (the geeks) in an impressive display of intellectual prowess. Front Row from left to right (Kenley, Emma, Sophia, Andrew, Coleman, Sydney). Back Row from left to right (Fiona, Ian, Payton, Jack, Wilson, Carter, Bella, Marlee, Noah, and Mason).

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Saying “No” to Drugs at Fairhope Elementary

In honor of, Red Ribbon Week, FES students in Mrs. Hailey Duell’s class wore something special each day to show that they are saying "NO" to drugs. They loved saying "Ka-Pow" to drugs with the help of Mr. Beasley, their principal, who dressed as Captain America, the super hero!

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Autauga County Schools ASMS Senior Interns with MCI Staff Oncologist

Matthew Kang is interning with Dr. Thomas W. Butler, senior staff medical oncologist and associate professor of interdisciplinary oncology at the USA Mitchell Cancer Institute. Kang’s mother, who is a recent breast cancer survivor, inspired him to learn more about cancer research and oncology. “While my mom was battling cancer, I went with her to appointments at MCI,” says Kang, a senior at Alabama School of Math and Science who is from Mobile. “Through my mom, I met Dr. Butler, and we talked about ASMS and my interest in becoming a doctor one day. He invited me to shadow him as a research assistant.” This past summer, Kang volunteered 9 a.m. to 4 p.m. Monday through Friday at MCI. During the school year, Kang has continued to work at MCI as part of the ASMS internship program, receiving free transportation and academic credit. “During the summer, I conducted a research investigation on the correlation between patients’ distress and symptom burden level,” says Kang, who grew up in Mobile. “In early spring 2016, I’ll have my work published in an international academic journal.” “We hope that this experience has allowed Matthew to see where his future can go,” Dr. Butler says. “He is brilliant, and his research could possibly be presented at an international conference held in Australia this summer. That’s pretty impressive.” Through this experience, Kang found that he really enjoys the clinical aspect of medicine. “I have been allowed to sit in during doctor/patient examinations, and when I see patients sicker than my mom was, I feel the same compassion that I had for her,” Kang says. “I’ve been able to see more and more patients; I help diagnose them, receive unforgettable clinical experience, and make a difference in people’s lives.” “Life has a new perspective. I want to make a difference in people’s lives and being an oncologist’s research assistant has given me that opportunity.” Kang wants to attend Yale University or Washington University to study oncology or cardiology.

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Gulf Shores First Graders Create Self-Portraits

Anna Marie Michaleski shows her Matisse-inspired self-portrait created in Mrs. McClay’s Art class. Gulf Shores Elementary 1st grade students created self-portraits using their iPads for visual reference. Backgrounds were inspired by Matisse’s paper cuts.

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Bayshore Christian School Volleyball Team Celebrates Winning Season

The Varsity Volleyball team at Bayshore Christian School ended their season in an impressive way. The team finished First Place at the West Regional Tournament and then went on to place second in the Conference Tournament. This young team put in months of hard work that has paid off in a well-deserved winning season. We are excited to continue watching this team grow.

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Daphne East Elementary Uses Buddy Class System

Hayes Jackson (6th grade) reads with Parker Cranmore (1st grade) as part of a Buddy Class system where an older grade adopts a younger grade and helps with reading and other tasks that the teachers see would be beneficial to both upper and lower grade students.

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Gulf Shores High Announces Safe Driving Media Contest Winners at Assembly

The winners of the “Safe Driving” public service announcement (PSA) contest jointly sponsored by local radio station, Sunny 105.7, Little Bitty’s Towing, Woodson’s Barge-In, Zaxby’s of Gulf Shores, and local State Farm agent, Frances Holk-Jones were recently announced. The campaign was held to promote National Teen Driver Safety Week at Gulf Shores High School. Students were asked to produce 30-second scripts involving teen driver safety utilizing their personal laptops received through the Baldwin County Digital Renaissance initiative. Kevin Keith, Program Director for Sunny 105.7 and Media Chairman for the competition along with State Farm agent, Frances Holk-Jones, announced Bryan Hunter as the Gulf Shores High School “Safe Driving Campaign’s” PSA winner. His entry aired during National Teen Driver Safety Week, October 18th through 25th, on Sunny 105.7 FM. Parker Cole & Hannah Gianini were awarded second place while Adam Callaghan & Carson Clark won the position for third place in the PSA competition. National Teen Driver Safety Week was established to focus attention on the epidemic of car crashes being the leading cause of death among teens and to help find solutions to lower this statistic. Locally, the Gulf Shores High School Driver Education classes, led by Marcus Early, conducted various campus awareness activities to promote teen driver safety including the public service announcement contest, a safe driving assembly featuring Blake Ables with Gulf Shores Fire Rescue as the guest speaker, Cities of Gulf Shores & Orange Beach proclamations, and a crashed car displayed on campus. The winning public service announcement may be heard at www. sunny105.7.com. Left to right front row: Adam Callaghan (3rd place winner), Carson Clark (3rd place winner), Parker Cole (2nd place winner), Hannah Gianini (2nd place winner), and Bryan Hunter (1st place winner) / back row: Kevin Keith (Sunny 105.7 FM), Corporal Bruce Springsteen (Orange Beach Police Department), Sergeant David McClain (Orange Beach Police Department), Marcus Early (GSHS Driver Education Instructor & Safe Driving Campaign Coordinator), Frances Holk-Jones (State Farm), Matt Young (City of Gulf Shores

Assistant Director Recreation & Cultural Affairs), Lieutenant Blake Ables (Gulf Shores Fire Rescue), Justin Dobbs (Gulf Shores Fire Rescue).

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Project Serve students from University of Mobile visited Mrs. Foster's Kindergarten class as mentors and assisted with class projects at Daphne Elementary.

Bay Minette Dance Team Sparkles

The Bay Minette Intermediate School dance team sparkled at their first two performances of the year. They entertained large crowds at the recent BMIS open house and the BCHS pep rally. The students worked during the summer to prepare for the new school year and will represent the school at many community functions. Their sponsors are BMIS teachers Renee Morrison and Shelly Stewart. Pictured, the 2015 BMIS Intermediettes Dance Team: Back Row: Faculty Sponsor Renee Morrison, Mallory Hastings, Halley Phillips, Christin Watson, Saunte Dortch, Carlee Scott, Faculty Sponsor Shelly Stewart. Middle Row: Emma Jones, Kaitlin Ganey, Elizabeth Howard, Hannah Morris, Bailey Altes, Kendall Kittrell, Emily Scarborough, PA Pet ad.qxp_Layout 1 7/20/15Eliza 6:05 Lambert. PM Page 1Front Row: Emi Mixon, Allison Smith, Delaney Faircloth, Jullian Dute.

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Studying Shadows at Orange Beach Elementary

The students in Mrs. Young’s sixth grade Science class at Orange Beach Elementary School investigated why the length and angle of shadows cast by shadows sticks changed at different times during the day through their 2nd quarter AMSTI kits.

Daphne East Elementary Kindergartners Are All About Bears

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ASMS Students Work to Find Cure for Pancreatic Cancer

Alabama School of Math and Science (ASMS) senior Amanda Peterson and junior Anna Wright are working to find a cure for pancreatic cancer at their internship with Professor and Chair of the University of South Alabama Chemistry Department Dr. David Forbes. “This internship has given me a handson experience and an insight on what a real job in chemistry would be like,” says Wright, who is from Greenville, Ala. “I think this will definitely impact my future because I have learned so much in just a short amount of time.” Peterson and Wright are running experiments equivalent to a college sophomore honors organic chemistry class. “Our overall goal is to find a potent, yet selective inhibitor of the enzyme PP4, which is pancreatic cancer,” Peterson says. “We are learning how to purify organic compounds and run reactions with the products to form molecules that we are hoping will inhibit the enzyme. It is exciting because we are not only receiving a valuable learning experience in a chemistry lab, but we are trying to cure pancreatic cancer.” “It’s so surreal to be a part of this,” Wright says. “I get to run reactions and TLCs and work in an actual lab. This internship has taken the things I have learned in the classroom and puts them to the test. This is probably one of the best experiences I’ve ever had.” Wright says this internship has given her a strong interest in the field of chemistry. Peterson plans to study chemistry at Tulane University or BirminghamSouthern College. “I would not have had this opportunity

without the help of ASMS,” Peterson says. “I knew that the school would enrich my learning opportunities, but when I came in as a sophomore, I didn’t imagine that I would be working in a college lab trying to find a cure for pancreatic cancer. I didn’t even know that I wanted to do something like this until I was offered an opportunity to do it. If a student is willing to actively explore their interests, they should definitely apply for the internship program when the opportunity presents itself again.” “The two students have been a tremendous help in our lab,” Dr. Forbes says. “I am very thankful to have them by my side during this process.”

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Kindergartners Learning about Farm Animals at Fairhope Elementary

Mrs. Hailey Duell’s Fairhope Elementary Kinder class is getting ready for their farm breakfast. They have been learning about farm animals and their uses. They can’t wait to eat a yummy breakfast and check out some animals.

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World War II Veteran Speaks at Baldwin County HS

Decorated World War II veteran Col. Glenn Frazier was a special guest speaker at Baldwin County High School. Col. Frazier spoke with ROTC and several Advanced Placement classes about his experiences in WW2 and, in particular, about his journey overcoming the hatred of his captors during the Bataan Death March of 1942. World History teacher David Peebles said he has talked about Col. Frazier and the Bataan Death March in his classes for the past five years. "Today was the highlight of my educational career. It's a true honor to finally meet Col. Frazier. So glad my second block students got to meet and hear a member of The Greatest Generation," Peebles said. "Not too many like this man around." Col. Frazier was featured in Ken Burns' documentary "The War." He joined the Army at 16 and six months later found himself in the doomed struggle to save Bataan from the Japanese advance. He was captured, marched north in the infamous Bataan Death march and spent the next three years struggling for his life in Japanese POW camps. Frazier recounts his experiences in the book "Hell's Guest". Special thanks to Sgt. Robert Davis and Major Jamie Barnes for coordinating this event for our students! Pictured, Frazier with Jamie Barnes, left, and Robert Davis.

Firemen Visit Daphne East Students Daphne East Elementary students were recently able to listen to a fireman talk about fire safety, learn about the parts of a fire truck, see the tools firemen use, and tour the back of the truck where the firemen sit! They were so excited!

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Decked Out in Red for Red Ribbon Week at Gulf Shores Elementary

Mrs. Ashton Crist’s third graders at Gulf Shores Elementary School were decked out in red for Red Ribbon Drug Awareness Week recently. Pictured l to r: Jacob Gunther, Claire Colvin, Baylee Willis, Dylan Meitzler, Alex Montez, and Ryleigh Stroup.

Red Ribbon Week at J. Larry Newton Elementary

Students at J. Larry Newton Elementary School participated in Red Ribbon Week during October 26th to 30th. Red Ribbon Week is all about “Saying No to Drugs.” Newton students showed their support for Red Ribbon Week by wearing red on Monday, being a superhero on Tuesday, teaming up against drugs on Wednesday by wearing a favorite team’s jersey, and wearing green on Thursday to say, “Don’t let drugs pollute your mind!” On Friday students wore tie-dye or a tie to represent the statement “Don’t get tied up in drugs!” Students also participated in a Red Ribbon Week poetry competition, and the winning students enjoyed an ice-cream party! Nathan Green, the 6th grade delegate for Red Ribbon Week, created a service project, “Fill a Boot with Loot” for veterans. Students generously filled army boots with change and donated over $600 to The Wounded Warrior Project. Great job, Nathan!

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When Google Won’t Do... Searching is a basic skill that every adult—and child—needs to master. Everything you might want to know--and some things that are pretty dubious—can be found online, but you have to be able to locate what you need when you need it. Google, of course, dominates the field so completely that googling is synonymous with searching. That dominance worries some people, including the FTC, whose staffers prepared an internal report about how Google search favors Google services over services provided by competitors. Google also depends upon a proprietary algorithm-- set of rules about searching. Google shares some of what it is doing behind the scenes on its own website. (Search for “how search works” on the Google website.) Still, critics point out that there are inevitably assumptions and biases into the search process. Some of these assumptions work to the advantage of parents. You really don’t want adult material to show up even if your child searches for an innocent word that has a double meaning. On the other hand, Google also makes assumptions about what information is reliable based in part on how often other sites link to it. This can make popular sites seem more reputable than they really are. Google is also vulnerable to Search Engine Optimization, an entire industry built around trying to get material from clients to show up on the first page of a Google search. People who use SEO are skilled with keywords, metatags and other identifiers that Google uses to decide which of all the millions of websites will be most relevant to you after a specific search. Eastern Shore Parents I December 2015

Finally, Google customizes search results based on what you’ve searched for in the past. That means there’s nothing “objective” about Google results. You and your neighbor can search for the same term but come up with different results if previous searches show that you have different opinions and preferences. None of this means that families should abandon Google or the many websites where search is powered by Google. At the same time, it’s good to be aware of alternatives that may be preferable under specific circumstances. When children are young. Elementary age children who are just beginning to search are likely to be confused and overwhelmed by what they find on Google. Kidclicks.org produces a limited number of results, vetted by librarians. Each item is ranked by reading level, so it’s easier to pinpoint the material that will be useful to a child who is trying to master the intricacies of tornados or dinosaurs. When you want a simple answer. If you have a child who asks a lot of questions, you need to know about Ask.com. The search engine was designed to respond to “natural language”, so you can type in a question like “Why is the sky blue?” and you’ll get quick, authoritative answers. When you want a different spin. The Bing.com search engine, designed by Microsoft, uses its own proprietary algorithms so the results are a little different. Comparing the harvest on Bing and Google can be illuminating, especially for controversial topics. Bing also sweetens the pot with a rewards program that allows users to earn points that can be redeemed on websites like Amazon and Fandango. When you want privacy. Google keeps track of searches, so it’s database includes information about everything from your health issues to your purchasing preferences. If you’d rather keep your search history private, you can use duckduckgo.com or ixquick. com. Both websites promise that they won’t record anything about you or your searches. 44

When you want just the facts. Wolframalpha.com indexes nothing but verifiable information about math, science, history and other topics. This makes it an especially good source for students who are trying to get their facts straight. When you want to do good. Goodsearch.org is powered by Yahoo which is now owned by Bing, so it won’t return different results. It will, however, donate a penny to the cause of your choice every time you or your kids use it. When you want reliable health information. Looking for health information on Google can be contradictory and even scary. For the kind of research-based information you’d get from your family physician, turn to curated medical sites like Medline Plus (nlm. nih.gov/medlineplus) which is managed by the National Library of Medicine or Kidshealth.org which has been providing familyfriendly health information for over 20 years. When you want context. Yippy.com collects information from a variety of other search engines and quickly files what it finds into folders that appear on the left hand side of the screen. Sometimes seeing sub-categories for your topic makes it easier to zero in on the information you need. When you want the human touch. DMOZ.org is a directory of the Web, developed and maintained by an enormous network of volunteers. It won’t return millions of results, but each site has been reviewed by a person instead of a robot. No matter what search engine you or your kids use, you’ll get better results if you follow a few simple rules: Put words that go together in quotes. Link words that are equally important with AND. Use a plus sign (+) to indicate words that are crucial to your search and a minus sign (-) to rule out words that aren’t relevant. Most of all, teach your kids that what they find online is only as good as its source. Kids who can think critically as they search will have a huge advantage in a world awash in information. Carolyn Jabs, M.A., raised three computer savvy kids including one with special needs. She has been writing Growing Up Online for ten years and is working on a book about constructive responses to conflict. Visit www.growing-up-online.com to read other columns. @ Copyright, 2015, Carolyn Jabs. All rights reserved.

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Q. Our son is a senior in college. We all

signed a contract before he left for school a few years ago stating that we would pay for school and provide him a car to drive as long as he maintained good grades and behaved in a respectful and mature manner. Over the last couple of years, his grades have dropped and he’s been acting more and more disrespectful. We learned recently that he even told a family friend that he hated us. My husband went to confront him about his behavior and this statement, and our son admitted he said it and was unrepentant. My husband immediately took the car and cut off his cell phone, like we had agreed. But now, I just feel sick with worry. Did we do the right thing?

A. I’m sure you do feel sick inside. If you

didn’t feel that way to some extent, you’d be a terrible person. This is your child we’re talking about. And even though he brought this on himself by being a twerp, and you guys are simply following through on the agreement, it hurts you because you’re human — and a good mom.

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It may seem extreme to some folks, but what you guys did wasn’t capricious or arbitrary. There was a deal in place, and he knew the terms of the contract. If someone worked for me and did or said or tweeted the kind of stuff you’re talking about, I’d fire them on the spot. This kid has got to learn how to behave in the culture and that there are consequences for breaking your word and violating contracts. But here’s some good news for you. You married a real man — a strong and loving man. What he did took a ton of strength and courage. There are so many wimps in our culture today, but you married a good one. And whether this kid realizes it or not, he’s got one heck of a dad who really cares. I’ll give you a prediction. Within 30 days, your kid comes home wagging his tail behind him. Even if he’s stubborn, being hungry and strapped for cash — along with losing his wheels — will solve a lot of that. From diapers until they’re out of the house, and even after they’re out of the house, you make a lot of those kinds of calls if you’re a good parent.

Q. I’m 45 years old and a single mom. I have a decent job, but I want to go back to school to become a nurse. The money would be much better than what I make now, but I’d have to take out student loans to make this happen. Is it worth the risk? A. Is nursing a field worth pursuing, es-

pecially when it is something you love and would increase your income significantly? You bet! Nursing is a very honorable profession. Am I going to tell you to take out loans to make it happen? Absolutely not! Save as much as you possibly can first — even if it’s just a little each month. Then, I want you to look into Pell Grants, traditional and non-traditional scholarships and what I call the “indentured servitude” program. There’s still something of a nurse shortage in this country, and there are hospitals and drug companies that will agree to pay your school bills if you go to work for them afterwards for a specific number of years. Gaining knowledge and improving yourself and your career prospects are all good things. But stay away from student loan debt. It’s bad and unnecessary!

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I couldn’t stop the tears that rolled down my cheeks as I drove away from my parent’s house. No longer able to deny the effects of Mom’s dementia, I didn’t know how to cope. I watched Mom’s confusion as she looked for the bathroom in her own home and put toilet paper in the freezer. I didn’t know how to answer when she asked where her four little girls were (me and my sisters of years past). Anger gripped me. Who’s to blame for this horrible disease? Why did this happen? Where is the mom who raised me? As Mom’s behavior deteriorated, our parenting roles reversed. I watched her struggle with everyday chores and began to help with cooking, laundry and grocery shopping. I applied her makeup and redirected her behavior when she spun out of control, envisioning her doing the same for me as a young child. Fragile emotions spilled out as I walked in unfamiliar territory. I wanted an instruction manual on how to move from the daughter role I’d played for so many years to a caregiving role, but there wasn’t one. As our parents age, it’s not unusual to begin a new role, particularly in the midst of

illness. The Family Caregiver Alliance reports that 65.7 million caregivers make up 29% of the U.S. adult population providing care to someone who is ill, disabled or aged (https:// caregiver.org/selected-caregiver-statistics). Understanding how to move into a caregiver role and balance it with parenting responsibilities presents unique challenges. Here are a few tips I’ve learned along the way.

Recognize your limitations.

Assuming the responsibility of a full-time caregiver role to an aging parent while parenting your own children can lead to stress

and burnout. Mindful of your own family’s needs, determine a realistic plan. As my mom’s needs increased, our youngest son moved into his teen years. My parents live out-of-state so I established a schedule with my husband to include two days at my parent’s house every other week. My routine allowed enough time to perform much-needed tasks for Mom without neglecting extended periods with our son.

Say good-bye to the parent who raised you. Diagnoses that affect the brain such as dementia, Parkinson’s or a stroke often create devastating changes to personalities. Recognizing the need to grieve the loss of a changed relationship opens the door to healthy interaction as new personalities emerge. When I quit expecting Mom to be the mom of my childhood, I more easily accepted the changes I couldn’t control. As she moved from the parent to the child, I let go of expectations of the past. I made an intentional choice to open my mind to Mom’s new emotions, changing behavior and different mannerisms. I processed raw emotions with my sisters, educated myself on dementia, and joined an online support group to help cope with the changing dynamics in our relationship.

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Live one day at a time.

Mom’s dementia will not have a happy ending. When I project details of the future, I experience anxiety, insecurity and fear. But, I’ve learned to accept the good days and the bad without focusing on what lies ahead. I don’t always do it perfectly, but when I live one day at a time, I enjoy the beauty of Mom’s laughter, the twinkle in her eye when she remembers my name, and the momentary pleasure of a meaningful conversation as Mom reminisces of childhood memories.

Solicit support.

Providing care for an aging parent requires time, energy, and perseverance. Sharing the burden with others helps. I’m thankful for three sisters who also care deeply for my parents and want to participate in caregiving. Not everyone shares that privilege. Finding support through caregiver groups, local community activities, and others walking the same journey helps ease the tension and exhaustion that accompanies caregiving responsibilities.

Include grandchildren in caregiving roles.

Children don’t have to be shielded from aging parents. Asking older children to help with meals, laundry or errands moves them away from self-centered behavior and teaches them compassion for others. My sister’s children live in the same town with my parents and regularly help with cooking, cleaning, or simply companionship on hard days. Grandchildren create lasting memories through routine tasks and meaningful conversation with grandparents.

Find gratitude for the parent now in your life.

As personalities change, new characteristics emerge. Mom’s private demeanor of the past has been replaced with a transparent and sensitive spirit. Deeper relationships develop as she easily expresses her needs and asks for help, embracing gestures of kindness with love and appreciation. Although no longer the mom of my past, I love her just the same. Aging parents create new challenges when parenting roles reverse. An already overwhelmed schedule with our own children can prevent us from assuming a caregiver role. But life is a gift that can be taken away with little notice. As I watch Mom’s last season quickly drawing to a close, I want to show honor and gratitude as often as possible, creating special moments in the process, without regrets in the end. ESP Gayla Grace writes, speaks, and coaches on parenting and stepfamily issues. She also enjoys helping her mom in a part-time caregiving role.

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One fun way to do this is to choose a theme for holiday gift exchanges. A themed gift exchange can encourage creativity, challenge you to think outside of the box, and result in thoughtful and meaningful gifts. To get started, you’ll want to enlist the interest of the people with whom you exchange gifts. When you talk to your family and friends to suggest themed gifts they may get more excited about the idea if you have a few examples to share. Here are some to get you started.

Consumable goods.

The idea with this theme is to purchase gifts that will be consumed, or used up. This can include everyday products that might be hard for someone to buy (think recent college grad) to more high-end items that we do not necessarily buy for ourselves, but that are appreciated gifts. Almost anything you buy as a consumable good can be put in a basket, coordinating container, or a gift bag. Put a bow or a ribbon on it and you’ve got a thoughtful gift that the receiver will love. * Shampoo, conditioner, and other hair products from the salon, or specialty products for his or her hair type. Curly shampoo for curly hair, etc. * Ingredients to make a specific meal – don’t forget to include the recipe. * Art supplies for a crafter, painter, writer, sculptor, etc. What do they use that you could purchase for them? A ream of paper for a writer can be a highly thoughtful, useful, and inexpensive gift. * Monthly membership to wine, fruit, chocolate, etc. This can be a one-time gift or a membership to a monthly club that sends out an item a month for a defined period of time. All of these items also make a great one-time gift, too. * Body products. Nail polish supplies. Face wash, moisturizers, and body balms. There is so much out there that leaves us feeling pampered that we don’t necessarily purchase for ourselves, but that make great gifts.

The gift giving part of the holiday season sometimes gets a bad “wrap.” We are inundated with reminders of what is most important at this time of year: time with the people we love, warm embraces, carols, sharing meals together, and just slowing down to be with one another in a way that we often are not throughout the year. Despite all of these messages, we still spend more money in December than almost any other time of year. The stores are stocked to the brim with gift ideas ranging from random mugs to specialty socks to coffee and beer sample kits. The same old gifts year after year can get kind of boring. If holiday shopping is more of a bore than a pleasure, than its time to perk up the experience and get excited about gift giving again. Eastern Shore Parents I December 2015

Experiences. The gift of an experience is one that can be

treasured for years to come. When you give someone the gift of an experience, you are giving him or her permission to take time away from a daily routine and do something fun, and you have made

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it easier by doing some of the planning in advance. Tickets or brochures can be printed, put in a box, and wrapped with a bow. It might be the lightest box and the smallest package, but that usually means good things. * Tickets to visit a museum or historical site. This could be in the recipient’s hometown or a city close by, or somewhere you know they are planning to visit in the near future. * For a family, tickets to a water park or other amusement park. A quick Internet search will let you know if the recipient’s hometown has an indoor water park for places that have a long, cold winter. * Reservations and a gift card to a fancy or special restaurant. * A weekend away at a beautiful place or a spot that has meaningful memories. Valentine’s Day is not that long after the holiday season, making it a perfect time to plan a romantic getaway for a special couple on your list.

Homemade gifts. Thanks to the wonder of the web we can find instructions to make everything from homemade soap to homemade computers. This may be one of the most thoughtful ways to give gifts. This can also be one of the most overwhelming ways to give gifts! It’s not always easy to come up with an idea for something you

can make, especially if you do not consider yourself to be a crafty person. However, if you engage in a homemade gift exchange you will be able to find ideas for homemade gifts regardless of your current skill level. * A photo album, scrapbook, or digital photo book. This is a great way to both preserve memories and to let someone special know you love them. Whether you put together a scrapbook of photos from your sister’s baby shower or document your vacation to Disney World for your kids, this homemade gift will be one that is treasured for years to come. * Homemade goodies. Pasta and sauce can be homemade and packaged to give. Bread makes a wonderful gift. Jams and jellies. The dry ingredients for cookies, brownies, or even soup in a mason jar. The sky is the limit with this homemade gift idea. * A painting, quilt, sculpture, or other piece of original art. If you’re an artist, put your skills to use and make gifts for the people you love. * A piece of furniture for the home or office. One year a parent made me a sandwich board for my classroom with dry erase boards on each side, wheels on the bottom, and a basket in the middle to hold markers and supplies. It was completely homemade, useful, and thoughtful.

Donations. Similar to an experience,

when you decide to make a donation on someone’s behalf, you still have the option to gift-wrap a certificate or documentation of the contribution and leave it under the tree as a gift to open. Donations can be given to charities, favorite parks, research causes, churches, community organizations, etc.

Product specific. This could be fun if you have a group of people you exchange gifts with that has a shared interest. If everyone loves Tupperware, why not make it a Tupperware holiday? If all the members of your family have a big trip planned this year, everyone gets to give and receive travel themed gifts. Once you choose a theme for your holiday gift giving the fun begins! Make sure you give yourself plenty of time to prepare your themed gifts, especially if you are making something from scratch. Above all, have fun with this! ESP Sara Marchessault is a writer and coach. Her work helps clients to more fully experience joy in their daily life. Sara has maintained a personal journaling practice for 25 years and is currently working on her first book on the topic of journal writing. These days her journals are getting lots of stories about playing with her kids and the awesome ups and downs of being a mom.

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Territorial Gains for Kids

Recommending the Best Toys and Products for Kids

Kids find something universally attractive about having a child-sized space all to themselves. Blanket forts, closet clubs, and tiny tents are some of the small territories that kids tend to stake out for their own enjoyment. Some kids like having a personal space where they can enjoy a measure of solitude. Others prefer the camaraderie of pals in the close quarters that a clubhouse or tent creates. The following child-sized spaces are great starts to help kids carve out their own small territory in an adult-sized world.

by Gerry Paige Smith

Crazy Forts

Galactic Bed Tent

Crazy Forts is a 69-piece kit that allows kids to craft their own vision of the ultimate blanket fort. Reminiscent of Tinker Toys assembly, one kit contains 25 ball joints and 44 sticks that join together in a multitude of structural possibilities. The ball joint’s multiple openings allow for a variety of unique angles and connections that foster the creative vision of young architects. The materials are pretty kid-tough, but adult supervision to introduce the instructions ensures that kids will learn the best ways to make the connections. Once the framework is created, just add your own bed sheet and an original Crazy Fort is ready.

Sleeping under the stars has a whole new meaning with the Galactic Bed Tent! Creating an enclosed personal space right around a child’s twin size mattress, this tent offers both an marvelous galactic tableau for waking hours as well as a cozy celestial surrounding for the slumber hours. The dark blue interior is decorated with silver stars and features a starburst LED light in the apex. Giving a small space the big outer space treatment, the Galactic Bed Tent is a stellar choice for creating an inspirational personal place for both rest and play!

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Jungle Safari Tunnel Tent

Pirate Ship (Box Creations)

Designed for high-seas adventures (upon an indoor imaginary sea), the Box Creations Pirate Ship combines durable cardboard with easy assembly to create an ideal play space for young buccaneers. With an additional creative outlet, the ship is covered with fantastic graphics that both underscore the trappings of a pirate ship while also hinting at denizens of the deep. While the ship comes with four markers, the outstanding graphics really deserve a broader range of colors (adding a full pack of markers will enhance this kits appeal). Building on the versatility of the cardboard box, the Box Creation Pirate Ship takes this popular recyclable medium and adds all new avenues of creativity and pretend play.

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When outfitting young adventurers, the Jungle Safari Tunnel Tent meets the needs of an outdoor expedition in style. With a water-resistant floor that measures 4’ x 4’ and an additional 4 feet of tunnel, this tent space is ideal for a small group of young explorers to meet, play and plan their adventures. Featuring a zip-up privacy curtain and vented mesh screens for air circulation, this play space is great for front yard or back porch set up. With strong shock-corded tent poles that slip inside pole pockets, this tent is better assembled by adults until kids get a feel for how the set up works. Breaking down flat, the tent and tunnel fit easily in their storage bag between safaris!

Paige Smith is a freelance writer and syndicated columnist living in Alabama. More on GET THIS! at www.PageBookMedia.com.

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Including Holiday Markets, Ballets, Plays, Festivals, and More! Fish River Christmas Tree Farm Now thru Wednesday, December 23 8:00 a.m. – 5:00 p.m. 13982 Woodhaven Dairy Road East, Summerdale (off of CR9) (251) 988-8114; www.fishrivertrees.com There has always been something magical and heartwarming about a family trip to the country to search for that perfect Christmas tree. Enjoy strolling our beautiful 40-acre Christmas Tree Farm and evergreen nursery. Take a free ride on The Tannebaum Express “tree train” for a fun filled farm tour (weekends only). View our manger scene with live animals! Visit our new ‘Santa & Friends Family Fun Zone’ for family portraits and dancing with Snowball and Prancer. Santa will arrive for visits on December 5th - 6th, and December 12th-13 from 10:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m. daily. Take a tour of the farm and view the wide selection of trees including our choose and cut trees, our special containergrown Living Christmas Trees that can be decorated then planted after the holidays. We have fabulous shipped in Fraser Firs, flocked and snow-tipped trees. Also available are fresh wreaths, centerpieces, and garlands. For more details and directions please visit our website. Photos with Santa at the Wharf Now thru December 23rd The Wharf, Orange Beach (251) 224-1000; www.alwharf.com Fridays: 4:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.; Saturdays: 11:00 a.m. – 4:00 p.m. and 5:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.; Sundays: 12:00 p.m. – 4:00 p.m.

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Now thru Thursday, December 24th 13670 Smiley Street, Silverhill (888) 569-5337; www.waleswest.com All aboard the Arctic Express at Wales West RV Resort and Light Railway. Great holiday fun for the whole family! Ride an authentic Steam Train through a wonderland of lights and decorations to the North Pole. Children visit with Santa in the Winter-wonderland barn and receive a free wooden toy. Lots of photo opportunities to enjoy! Free refreshments served at the Eastern Shore Parents I December 2015

Train Station after your trip! Enjoy a ride on the Mini Train, hay ride, and playground Inflatable. In addition, Petting Zoo, Pony Ride, and Snowball Cannon are available for a slight fee. Try our Cafe’s new menu options, and a Gift Shop full of train items ideal for Christmas presents! Open through December 24. Hours: WEEKENDS: Fri’s, Sat’s, and Sun’s, 3 p.m. to 9 p.m; Beginning Dec. 15, open NIGHTLY, 3 p.m. to 9 p.m. Admission is $15/person, plus tax. 2 and under are free. Group rates, field trips, and parties can be booked in advance. Located on Co. Rd. 9 between Fairhope and Silverhill. For information call 888-569-5337 or go to www.waleswest.com. Must see to believe! Register on website for coupons early in the season. Horse & Carriage Rides at The Wharf Now thru December 27th – weather permitting, The Wharf, Orange Beach (251) 224- 1000; www.alwharf.com Come to the Wharf and enjoy an exciting horse and carriage ride to make your Christmas celebration complete. Bring the family or come as a couple and make great Christmas memories as you stroll around the Wharf and see the beautiful lights and Christmas decorations. Call or visit our website for carriage times. Live Animal Nativity Trail & Exhibit Now thru December 27th The Wharf, Orange Beach (251) 224-1000; www.alwharf.com Entry $5, Petting Zoo- Free, Horse & Pony Ride - $5, Camel Nativity Ride - $10. Enjoy the live nativity scene by foot, by car or by camel.

Magic Christmas in Lights at Bellingrath Gardens and Home (ad on page 64))

Now thru January 2nd, 2016 (Closed Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Year’s Day) 12401 Bellingrath Gardens Road, Theodore (251) 973-2217; www.bellingrath.org Bellingrath Gardens and Home in Theodore is celebrating the 20th anniversary of Magic Christmas in Lights in 2015. The dazzling nighttime display features more than 1,000 set pieces, 3 million lights and 15 scenes, set in a walking tour throughout the 65-acre Garden estate. Magic Christmas in Lights has become a mustsee tradition for visitors from the Gulf Coast region and beyond. Magic Christmas in Lights, which will run from 5:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. from November 27, 2015, through January 2, 2016, also includes nightly choral performances on the South Terrace of the Bellingrath

Home, which will be open for tours and decorated in full holiday finery. (The Gardens will be closed on Christmas and New Year’s Days.) The Gift Shop will be fully stocked for the season, and guests may also have their photos taken with Santa Claus in the Magnolia Café. For details about Magic Christmas in Lights, visit our website, www.bellingrath.org. Online tickets available now. 5 Rivers Story Time: “Dinosaur’s Night Before Christmas” by Jim Harris December 1st 10:00 a.m. – 11:00 a.m. 5 Rivers Delta Resource Center 30945 5 Rivers Boulevard, Spanish Fort (251) 625-0814; www.alabama5rivers.com Email: Shonda.Borden@dcnr.alabama.gov The 1st and 3rd Tuesday of every month is Story Time at 5 Rivers. Children under the age of 6 are welcome to stop by for a free reading of a nature-based story followed by arts and crafts. A festively fun and traditional story with a reptilian twist!

Lights of Love 2015

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Tuesday, December 1st, 6:00 p.m. USA Women’s & Children’s Hospital (251) 415-1000; www.usahealthsystem.com/usacwh Three organizations dedicated to the care of children and families are celebrating the excitement and wonder of this holiday season! Everyone is invited to the 5th annual “Lights of Love” tree lighting at USA Children’s & Women’s Hospital beginning at 6:00 p.m., Tuesday, December 1st. Co-sponsored by the Ronald McDonald House and the USA Mitchell Cancer Institute, the Lights of Love tree lighting directly in front of the hospital will also feature visits from Santa Claus and Ronald McDonald, as well as performances from local school and community choirs. Enjoy cookies, caroling and spread some old-fashioned cheer. SPECTRA Sound & Light Spectacular at the Wharf Special Holiday Show December thru January 10th Every night at 6:00 p.m. and 7:00 p.m. The Wharf, Orange Beach (251) 224-1000; www.alwharf.com The Wharf Ice Rink December thru January 10th, 2016 The Wharf, Orange Beach (251) 224-1000; www.alwharf.com

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Lace ‘em up and come skate through a winter wonderland. Weekdays: 3p-10p, Weekends & Holidays: 10 a.m. - 10 p.m. Some dates subject to change, please check website calendar for full schedule. $10 to skate, $13 combo to skate & ride the Ferris Wheel. Christmas Tree Lighting at the Wharf December 1st, (call for exact times) The Wharf, Orange Beach (251) 224- 1000; www.alwharf.com Join The Wharf for the “Lighting of The Island” when The Wharf’s magnificent 40-foot Christmas tree comes to life. City of Daphne Open House and Tree Lighting Thursday, December 3, 6:00 p.m. City Hall, Daphne (251) 621-9000; www.daphneal.com Everyone is invited to kick off the holiday season with music, activities, crafts for kids and much more! The Open House begins at 6:00 p.m. and the Tree Lighting will be at 7:00 p.m. Nix Center Annual Holiday Concert Thursday, December 3rd, 2:00 p.m. James P. Nix Center, 1 Bayou Drive, Fairhope (251) 928-2835; www.cityoffairhope.org Jammin’ Folks will provide holiday music. Refreshment will be served following concert. USA’s Annual Holiday Concert Extravaganza Thursday, December 3rd, 6:30 p.m. 5751 USA Drive South, Mobile (251) 460-6136; www.southalabama.edu/music Email: kbohnet@southalabama.edu USA’s Annual Holiday Concert Extravaganza is to be held at the South Alabama Mitchell Center on Thursday, December 3 at 6:30 p.m. USA’s Department of Music students and faculty will be the featured performers in a concert highlighted by classical and popular holiday pieces. Admission is free and open to the public. ESAC Holiday Happenings Eastern Shore Art Center (251) 928-2228 ext. 103; www.esartcenter.com Email: Adrienne@esartcenter.com December 3rd, 6:00 p.m. Members’ Holiday Party! Wear your tackiest and wackiest holiday attire! Free to members.

December 5th 10:00 a.m. – 3:00 p.m. Saturday Art Mart! Perfect holiday shopping for friends and family! Vendors will be set up inside our main gallery. Free to the public! December 5th, 9:30 a.m. – 12:00 p.m. Fairy Cottage Holiday Workshop! Build your own cottage perfectly fit for a fairy or elf! All supplies included. Open to Ages 5 and up. An adult must accompany children. Instructed by Deborah Benton. www.fairydreamcottages.com (Price coming soon!) Summerdale Library Christmas Concert Thursday, December 3 Doors open at 6:30 p.m., concert begins at 7 p.m., Baldwin EMC Building, 19600 State Highway 59, Summerdale (251) 989-2011; www.summerdalelibrary.com Enjoy the classic holiday sounds from featured musicians Victor Andzulis and Megan Andzulis, Howard Reddy, Hannan Tarabay Reddy with special guest performance by Trinitas Choir. Proceeds support the Marjorie Younce Snook Public Library in Summerdale. Coastal Chorale Christmas Show Thursday, December 3, 7:00 p.m. Saturday, December 5, 7:00 p.m. Sunday, December 6, 3:00 p.m. (251) 458-1690; www.coastal-chorale.com The Coastal Chorale Christmas Show performances are at the Foley Civic Center, located at 407 East Laurel Avenue, Foley. Tickets may be purchased online or at the door. All Coastal Chorale members also have tickets available for purchase. Mobile Symphony Youth Orchestra “Holiday Concert” Friday, December 4th 407 E. Laurel Avenue, Foley (Foley Civic Center) (251) 943-1545; www.mobilesymphony.org The child musicians are sure to move audiences with sounds of the Christmas season. Please check our website for times. Daphne Library Kids Ornament Make & Take Friday, December 4th, 1:30 p.m. – 5:00 p.m. Daphne Library Community Room 2607 Highway 98, Daphne (251) 621-2818; www.daphnelibrary.org Email: rmoss@daphneal.com Make the Christmas tree at home a little brighter! Bring

your child to the community room to make an ornament with us! Christmas in the Park Friday, December 4th, 6:00 p.m. – 8:00 p.m. Heritage Park, 125 East Laurel Avenue, Foley (251) 943-1300; www.cityoffoley.org Email: lhula@cityoffoley.org Come out to Heritage Park to sing carols, sip cocoa, light the Christmas tree and visit with Santa. Free cocoa and snacks for all! Gulf Shores Christmas Parade and Beach Celebration Friday, December 4th, 2015, 6:30 p.m. – 9 p.m. The 5th Annual City of Gulf Shores Christmas Parade will be held on the First Friday of December. The parade will start at Club House Dr. on Hwy. 59, head south, and end at the Gulf Shores Public Beach. The parade will start at 6:30 p.m. Registration is available now by contacting Candice Carraway at (251) 9681173 or ccarraway@gulfshoresal. gov. Fairhope’s Magical Christmas Parade Friday, December 4th, 7:00 p.m. Downtown Fairhope (251) 929 -1466; www.cofairhope.com The Fairhope Magical Christmas Parade begins at the intersection of Morphy Avenue and Section Street, and continues down Section and Oak Street. The excitement will build as more than 50 parade units dazzle the crowd in anticipation of Santa Claus’ arrival into Fairhope! WABF will be broadcasting the parade live. Come join us for plenty of lights, beautiful floats, and Santa Claus! Breakfast with Santa Saturday, December 5 dpeepta@gmail.com Daphne East Elementary PTA presents Breakfast with Santa from 7am - 9am at Daphne East Elementary School. Each family will receive one photo with Santa along with breakfast, crafts, visit with Santa and story time with Olaf. Tickets are $20 per person and preregistration is required due to limited seating. Tickets are available in the office at Daphne East elementary Monday - Friday, 8am - 4pm. Spanish Fort Spirit of Christmas Parade Saturday December 5th, 9:00 a.m. Eastern Shore Centre, Spanish Fort

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(251) 626-4884; www.cityofspanishfort.com Email: lcooper@cityofspanishfort.com The prestigious Daphne-Spanish Fort Air Force JROTC Color Guard and Cadets, followed by the awardwinning Spanish Fort High School Marching Band and Cheerleaders the Spanish Fort, Miss Spanish Fort High School and the Grand Marshal, lead this familyoriented parade. Past participants have included local and national dignitaries, the Dogwood Trail Maids, representatives of Alabama’s Distinguished Young Women, Little Miss Spanish Fort and Tiny Miss Spanish Fort, Baldwin County Strawberry Festival Queen and Miss Faulkner State Community College. Adding to the holiday cheer are area Boy Scout and Girl Scout troops, various talented dancing troupes, floats decorated by church and business organizations, and everything from baton twirlers to unicyclists, all with holiday-themed parade throws. Of course, the “Spirit of Christmas” Parade would not be complete without a visit from that most famous jolly old elf, Santa Claus, arriving with a little assistance from the Spanish Fort Fire Department! Annual “Christmas through the Ages” at Fort Gaines Saturday, December 5th, 9:00 a.m. – 5:00 p.m. 51 Bienville Boulevard, Dauphin Island (251) 861-6992; www.dauphinisland.org Experience a Christmas of “Days Gone By!” This event is a living history Day for the whole family. Come and join the soldiers from the 1700’s through the 1900’s and their Families as they celebrate a non-commercial Christmas. Our visiting children will have the chance to make a seashells ornament and other decorations. Times: 9:00 a.m.-5:00 p.m. St. Lawrence Christmas Bazaar Saturday, December 5th, 9:00 a.m. – 3:00 p.m. Sunday, December 6th, 9:30 a.m. – 2:00 p.m.

370 South Section St, Fairhope, (251) 928-5931 www. stlawrencechristmasbazaar.com Email: bazaar@stlawrencefairhope.com Variety of Unique Vendor Booths, Silent Auction- Arts Crafts - Antiques – Food - Pictures with Santa and much more! Over the past few years the Christmas Bazaar has grown into a wonderful experience for the whole family. We started with just a small idea to make a little money to send our youth group to Washington, and the event has grown into an event that the people of St. Lawrence and Fairhope look forward to every year. Free Admission. Visit our website and on Facebook. For more information call or email Afton Sylvester. FEEF Cookies with Santa at Oak Hollow Farm

December 5th, 2015 from 9 a.m. – 10:30 a.m. Oak Hollow Farm, Fairhope

(251) 990-3333; www.feefonline.org Email: director@feefonline.org As a way of saying “Happy Holidays” to the community, Fairhope Educational Enrichment Foundation (FEEF) will host its annual Cookies with Santa on Saturday, Dec. 5, at Oak Hollow Farm in Fairhope. Enjoy a variety of musical entertainment by Fairhope school students and have your photo taken with Santa and his elves. Freshly baked cookies and hot cocoa round out this fun event. Cookies with Santa is always a wonderful way to thank our supporters and bring Fairhope families together for some old-fashioned holiday cheer. The event is free and open to the public. Participants are encouraged to bring canned goods to support Ecumenical Ministries’ food pantry. Santa Claus will arrive shortly after 9:00 a.m. to begin taking pictures with children. For more information call or visit www.feefonline.org. City of Fairhope Santa Saturdays Saturday, December 5 & 12, 10 a.m. - 12 p.m.

Fairhope Museum of History Santa will be in front of the Fairhope Museum of History in downtown Fairhope for children to visit. Parents may bring cameras to take pictures. Foley Kiwanis Club Christmas Parade Saturday, December 5th, 11:00 a.m. Downtown Foley (251) 943-1300; www.foleykiwanisclub.com The annual Foley Kiwanis Club Christmas Parade winds its way through downtown Foley with festive floats, treats and throws, and of course, Santa waves a Merry Christmas to all. For information visit the Foley Kiwanis Club website. Foley’s Annual “Let It Snow!” Saturday, December 5th, 11:00 a.m. Heritage Park, 125 East Laurel Avenue, Foley (251) 943 1300; www.cityoffoley.org Email: lhula@cityoffoley.org Bring your mittens and play in the snow! Located in Heritage Park beginning at 11:00 a.m. directly following the Christmas Parade. Come out and hear live musical performances, listen to Mrs. Claus tell stories, make arts and crafts in the Children’s Art Village, and of course play in the SNOW! Concessions are sold on site. Please call Linda Hula for more information. Christmas Boat Parade on Dog River Saturday, December 5th from 12 p.m. – 4 p.m. 6036 Rockpoint Road, Mobile, (251) 443-6300; www. grandmarinemarina.com; Email: missy@thegrandmarinier.com or grandmarinerM@gmail.com Dog River’s annual Christmas on the River Boat Parade. This is Mobile’s oldest and largest boat parade. Sponsored by Grand Mariner Marina. Also a Toys for Tots drive location.

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The Robertsdale Christmas Parade & Christmas in the Park December 5th, 6:30 p.m. – 9:00 p.m. Honeybee Park, Robertsdale (251) 947-2626; www.robertsdale.org Parade will be on December 5, 2015 and will start at 6:30 p.m. at the Robertsdale High School and end at Wisconsin Street at Honeybee Park. For more information contact the Central Baldwin Chamber of Commerce at (251) 947-2626. Applications for Parade Float are available on our website. Parade will start at Robertsdale High School. Mobile’s Singing Children Annual Christmas Concert Saturday, December 5th, 7:00 p.m. 2 South Claiborne Street, Mobile (Cathedral of the Immaculate Conception) (251) 285-2285; www.mobilesingingchildren.org Email: mobilesingingchildren@gmail.com Come join us on Saturday, December 5th at the Cathedral Basilica of the Immaculate Conception for our Annual Christmas Concert starting at 7:00 p.m. A donation of $10 is suggested. Santa Visits the Eastern Shore Centre Saturday December 5th – 6th Saturday December 12th – 13th Saturday December 19th – 24th 30500 Highway 181, Spanish Fort (251) 625-0060; www.easternshorecentre.com Email: info@easternshorecentre.com or mkraft@ easternshorecentre.com. Come have your picture taken with Santa! Please call the Eastern Shore Centre office or visit website for times. Handel’s “Messiah” with Pensacola Choral Society Saturday, December 5th, 7:30 p.m. The Saenger Theater, Palafox Place, Pensacola (251) 968-2411; www.choralesocietyofpensacola. org. Conducted by Xiaolun Chen, Artistic Director, accompanied by The Choral Society Orchestra with soloists Carla Connors, soprano; Monika Cosson, mezzo-soprano; Thomas Rowell, Tenor; Patrick Jacobs, bass-baritone. Tickets are now on sale in person at the Saenger box office, by phone at (800) 745-3000 or at ticketmaster.com.

Gulf Shores United Methodist Church Celebrates the Christmas Season Sunday, December 6th, 11 a.m. and 7 p.m. (2 worship events in Church Sanctuary) (251) 968-2411, www.gulfshoresumc.org Email: cody@gulfshoresumc.org The first is a children’s worship service at 11:00 am in the main sanctuary featuring the GSUMC Children’s Choir and Puppet Team. The second is “Everything Glorious”, a praise and worship musical event at 7:00 p.m. in the main sanctuary with the GSUMC youth choir, praise team and praise choir. For info, please contact the church office or go to www.gulfshoresumc.org.

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December 6th and 13th and 20th The Grand Hotel, Point Clear, (251) 928-5944 Appointment Only, 10 a.m. – 2 p.m. Email: info@renaissanceportraits.com Santa and Renaissance Portrait Studio will be available for a special private session with your little one! To schedule an extra special Santa Experience, please contact the Elf Hotline at (251) 928-5944. Appointments available between 10:00 a.m. and 2:00 p.m. Baldwin Pops Christmas Concert Monday, December 7th, 7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m. Foley Civic Center, 407 East Laurel Ave., Foley Tuesday, December 8th, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Daphne Civic Center, 2603 U.S. 98, Fairhope Tuesday, December 15th, 7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m. Gulf Shores Civic Center (251) 232-1013; www.baldwinpopsband.com Please bring a new, unwrapped toy for Toys for Tots. We are committed to enhancing the cultural environment of the area by providing free concerts to the public. Members come from all walks of life. A common thread for all of us is our love of music, the desire to perform and the ability to play.

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Wednesday, December 9, 5 pm and again at 6:30 p.m. 10274 Highway 104, Fairhope

(251) 990-3112; www.3circlechurch.com Email: stacy@3circlechurch.com This special evening will feature nationally-acclaimed saxophone artist, Nathan Woodward, This will be a night of compelling creativity and powerful worship.4 Derailed Diner Polar Express Event December 9th - 12th and December 16th – 19th 27801 County Road 64, Robertsdale (251) 960-1152; www.facebook.com/deraileddiner Hop aboard the Polar Express! This year we will be presenting the 4th Annual Polar Express Event over EIGHT nights! “The Polar Express” the event takes place Wednesday, Thursday, Friday and Saturday nights of December 9th – 12th and Wednesday – Saturday, December 16th – 19th. Children will receive a golden train ticket by the conductor as they enter the train car! Hot chocolate and cookies will be served along with a special performance, sing-along and beautiful story telling. Get those jammies out and plan on joining us! Reservations are required and open the Day After Thanksgiving. All Aboard!! Please call for more information. Playhouse in the Park presents A Christmas Carol Wednesday, December 9th 6 South Joachim St, Mobile (Saenger Theatre) (251) 602-0630; www.playhouseinthepark.org The Playhouse in the Park presents “A Christmas Carol” at the Saenger Theatre on Wednesday, December 9th at 7:30 p.m. for our one public show. Student shows are December 8th and 9th at 9:00 a.m. and 11:00 a.m. Please visit www.playhouseinthepark.org for more information. Daphne Library Preschool Storytime at the Senior Center Thursday, December 10th from 10:30 a.m. – 11:00 a.m., Daphne Senior Center 2607 Highway 98, Daphne (251) 621-2818; www.daphnelibrary.org Email: rmoss@daphneal.com Description of Event: Members of the Daphne Senior Center are invited to attend Daphne Public Library’s preschool storytime. We will read, sing, play, and meet new friends! Daphne Library Kids Pajama Movie Night Thursday, December 10, 4:30 p.m. – 6:30 p.m.

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Daphne Library Community Room 2607 Highway 98, Daphne (251) 621-2818; www.daphnelibrary.org Email: rmoss@daphneal.com Description of Event: Bring the whole family to watch Dr. Seuss’ How the Grinch Stole Christmas in the Community Room! Snacks will be provided! Don’t forget to wear your PJ’s! Christmas Festival in Bay Minette December 11th and 12th Blackburn Park in Old Town Bay Minette (251) 937-5665; www.northbaldwinchamber.com Email: assist@northbaldwinchamber.com The Annual Christmas Fest is a longstanding tradition complete with Christmas Tree Lighting, Live Entertainment, Arts & Crafts, Good Food, an Art Contest and culminating on Saturday afternoon with the Annual Christmas Parade! Please visit our website for more information on times and applications for venders. 4th Annual Merry Market Crafts Expo Friday, December 11th, 9:00 a.m. – 6:00 p.m. Saturday, December 12th, 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. Orange Beach Events Center 4671 Wharf Parkway Drive, Orange Beach (251) 968-7215, www.alabamacoastalchristmas.com The 4th Annual Merry Market at the Wharf is two days of fine arts, crafts and unique gifts. Admission is free and open to the public. Make sure you take the children to Story Time with Mrs. Claus! Mrs. Claus will be reading stories and taking photos at the end of each session. Story Times are as follows: Saturday at 9:00 & 11:00 a.m. and 12:30 & 2:30 p.m. Story time is free. Photos will be available for purchase by Dillon Photography. For info visit website or email Vicki@mygulfcoastchamber.com.

Daphne Library Kids Gift Make & Take Friday, December 11th from 1:30 p.m. – 5 p.m. Daphne Library Community Room 2607 Highway 98, Daphne (251) 621-2818; www.daphnelibrary.org Email rmoss@daphneal.com Description of Event: Parents need Christmas presents too! Bring your child to the community room to make you a special gift this year!

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December 11th at 7:00 p.m. Eastern Shore Baptist Church 6847 Park Drive, Daphne (251) 979-6834; www.bcyorchestra.com Email: bcyorchestra@gmail.com This exciting, family-friendly event features a full orchestra of 40 students, ages 12 -25 playing some of your favorite Broadway holiday tunes including, It’s Beginning to Look Like Christmas, My Favorite Things, We Need a Little Christmas and more. The concert will also include several choir members from various schools and organizations singing along with this holiday piece. In addition to the orchestra performance the Baldwin Winds, Adult Strings and Youth Allegro Strings will also perform holiday favorites. Christmas Tea with Charming Teacup Saturday, Dec. 12th from 11:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. 17111 Scenic Highway 98, Point Clear (251) 300-0231; www.charmingteacup.com Darlings, join us for a very special Christmas Tea! Open to Ladies (and Gents) of all ages! Little Ladies ages 3-12 can enjoy getting dressed

in one of our gorgeous gowns and Ladies ages 13-up can wear one of our fabulous tea hats to make this a fun and memorable event! We will serve a full Afternoon Tea with scones, Devonshire cream, tea sandwiches, fruit, petit fours and delicious Christmas cookies. Enjoy bottomless pots of our gourmet tea- over 15 flavors to choose from! We will also enjoy ballroom dancing and parlor games! The price is just $30 per child ages 3-12, and $25 for 13 yrs. old and up. Reservations are required and tickets are limited! Get yours before it’s too late! Call or visit our website to purchase tickets.

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Annual Christmas Lighted Boat Parade Saturday, December 12th, 5:30 p.m. (251) 968-7200, www.alabamacoastalchristmas.com Email: owen@mygulfcoastchamber.com The 29th Annual Christmas Lighted Boat Parade will take place on Saturday December 12th starting at 5:30 p.m. from Lulu’s and finishing at Cobalt in Orange Beach. To enter your boat in the parade visit our website. There will be a mandatory captain’s meeting 5:30 p.m. Friday, December 11th @ LuLu’s . Don’t have a boat? Charter boats are available to host your group. This makes for a great office or company holiday party. Call 251-981-2300 for more information. If you have questions please email Owen Corcoran at owen@mygulfcoastchamber.com.

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Saturday, December 12th and Sunday, December 13th 401 Civic Center Drive, Mobile (Mobile Civic Center Theatre) (251) 342-2241; www.mobileballet.org Mobile Ballet will take you on a magical journey of brilliant dancing, sumptuous sets, and gorgeous costumes. This is a favorite for all ages. Saturday at 2:30 p.m. and 7:30 p.m. and Sunday at 2:30 p.m.

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Saturday, December 12th 200 East 25th Avenue, Gulf Shores. (251) 967-LULU (5858); www.LuluBuffett.com Billy Claus Oh Billy Claus how we love you... Poor Billy is allergic to snow so what better place for him to come and celebrate the holidays but LuLu’s. Come enjoy as this delightful children’s book, written by none other than the talented Lucy Buffett, comes to life. Enjoy a full day of arts & crafts, live music and get your picture taken with Billy Claus and his LuLubelle’s. Make sure to leave Billy your Christmas list so that he can personally deliver it to his brother (you may have heard of him) Santa Claus. What a better way to kick off the holiday season than a day here with all of your friends and family at LuLu’s. Bay Shore Ballet Academy “The Nutcracker” Saturday, December 12th, 2 p.m. and 7:30 p.m. Sunday, December 13, 3:00 p.m. Fairhope Civic Center, 161 N Section St, Fairhope (251) 990-9744; www.eventbrite.com Email: trinollinger@gmail.com Dancers of the Bay Shore Ballet Theater, along with students of the Academy will be featured in the much anticipated holiday classic, “The Nutcracker”. A special, full-length preview performance will be Saturday, December 12th at 2:00 P.M. with general admission ticket prices at $5.00. Performances on Saturday, December 12th at 7:30 P.M. and Sunday, December 13th at 3:00 P.M., tickets will be priced at $12 for adults and $10 for seniors and children 12 and under. Janet Carole, former principal ballerina with leading U.S. and Canadian ballet companies will direct the whimsical classic, which will delight audiences of all ages. Annie Laurie O’Neill, Abigail Kiernan and Emily Davis will be the Principal Dancers, in the roless of the Sugar Plum Fairy and Snow Queen. Professional stage production will be by Scenic Design. Tickets for performances can be purchased online at www.eventbrite.com, or in advance at The Coffee Loft, 503 N. Section St. in Fairhope, Page and Palette, 32 S. Section St. in Fairhope, at the door prior to performances, or by calling the Bay Shore Ballet at (251) 990-9744. For reserved seating, calling Trin Ollinger at (251) 583-3875. Teachers interested in bringing school classes to a special condensed version of the ballet on Friday, December 11th, or to have a dancer visit their class should contact Allison Hunter at allisonhunter@live.com. Historic Blakeley Park Storytelling Saturday, December 12th, 10:00 a.m. Highway 225, Spanish Fort (4.5 miles north of U.S. 31); (251) 626-0798; www.blakeleypark.com Join us at Historic Blakeley State Park on Saturday, December 12th for storytelling, crafts, and cookies! Professional storyteller and former teacher Connie Cazort will tell holiday folktales and sing songs for children ages 4-8 at the park’s Nature Center at 10:00 a.m. Kids get to participate in hands-on craft activity following and take home their own souvenir. The cost is $5 per child/parents free. For more information call or visit www.blakeleypark.com.

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5 Rivers Sunday Matinee alternating, “A Charlie Brown Christmas” and “How the Grinch Stole Christmas” December 13th (Please call for specific times) 5 Rivers Delta Resource Center 30945 5 Rivers Boulevard, Spanish Fort (251) 625-0814; www.alabama5rivers.com Email: Shonda.Borden@dcnr.alabama.gov Come out and join us every Sunday for a free family, friendly film. The films play throughout the day. Not one but TWO animated classics rotating throughout the day. See them on the big screen!

getting lost in the toy shop, making a mess at the book shop, and falling in the mixing machine at the bakery, is the littlest elf just too little? Perhaps he just needs the littlest reindeer to remind him what Christmas is all about!

The Mobile Pops in Concert present “Sounds of the Season” Monday, December 14th 3900 Pleasant Valley Rd, Mobile (Davidson High School Auditorium) (251) 679-6036; www.themobilepops.com The Mobile Pops present their annual Christmas Concerts on December 14 at 7:00 p.m. The concert will be at Davidson High School Auditorium. All concerts are FREE and open to the public. 5 Rivers Story Time: “The Littlest Elf” by Brandi Dougherty December 15th, 10:00 a.m. – 11:00 a.m. 5 Rivers Delta Resource Center 30945 5 Rivers Boulevard, Spanish Fort (251) 625-0814; www.alabama5rivers.com Email: Shonda.Borden@dcnr.alabama.gov The 1st and 3rd Tuesday of every month is Story Time at 5 Rivers. Children under the age of 6 are welcome to stop by for a free reading of a nature-based story followed by arts and crafts. In this week’s story, Oliver may be the littlest elf in the North Pole, but he has a big desire to discover his very special job in Santa’s workshop! But after

Daphne Library Kids Santa Stories Thursday, December 17th from 4 p.m. – 6 p.m. Daphne Library Community Room 2607 Highway 98, Daphne (251) 621-2818; www.daphnelibrary.org Email rmoss@daphneal.com Guess who is coming to town? Santa, that’s who! Join us in the Library Community Room as Santa shares his favorite stories with his Eastern Shore friends! There will be cookies and warm cocoa.

Coastal Arts Center of Orange Beach Hot Shop Blowout December 17th from 5:00 p.m. – 7:00 p.m. 26389 Canal Road, Orange Beach (251) 981-ARTS (2787) www.cityoforangebeach.com Email: jjones@cityoforangebeach.com The Hot Shop Blowout will feature resident artist Kerry Parks manipulating molten glass in a free hot glass demonstration. We will serve hot chocolate, candy canes and other Holiday treats. For more information, call the Arts Center at or visit the City of Orange Beach Website. City of Spanish Fort’s Reading of “Twas’ the Night before Christmas” December 17th, 7:00 p.m. 5 Rivers Delta Resource Center 30945 5 Rivers Boulevard, Spanish Fort (251) 625-0814; www.alabama5rivers.com Email: Shonda.Borden@dcnr.alabama.gov Cuddle up by the fireplace and join Santa as he

reads “Twas’ the Night before Christmas.” Stick around after the reading for free pictures with Santa. Mobile Holiday Market & Christmas Kids Day Saturday, December 19 10:00 a.m. until 2:00 p.m., Cathedral Square www.specialeventsmobile.org Arts & crafts...fun activities...music...pictures... dance performances...and much more! City of Gulf Shores Breakfast with Santa December 19th, 8:00 a.m. - 10:00 a.m. Erie Meyer Civic Center 1930 West 2nd Street, Gulf Shores (251) 968-1172; www.gulfshoresal.gov Families can dive into a wholesome breakfast complete with sausage, bacon, eggs and pancakes before having pictures taken with Santa. Admission for Breakfast with Santa is $5.00, while children 3 and under is free. For more information email lesleydethloff@gulfshoresal.gov. Christmas Card Workshop with Mrs. Mel Saturday, December 19, 10:00 a.m. Magnolia Springs Library 12440 Magnolia Avenue, Magnolia Springs (251) 965-2305 www.magnoliaspringslibrary.org Email: magnoliaspringslibrary@gmail.com Mrs. Melanie O’Donnell will teach us how to make professional looking Christmas cards. She is inviting mothers and daughters, as well as any others interested. Please call the library and confirm attendance at least two days prior to the event. Don’t miss this special Christmas event! For more information call or email magnoliaspringslibrary@ gmail.com.

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MoonPie Over Mobile New Year’s Eve Celebration Thursday, December 31 (251) 208-1550; www.ncsmobile.org Moonpie over Mobile is back. With over 60,000 people in attendance last year, this year’s New Year’s event will usher in the New Year in grand style. Come and get a larger glimpse at the moon pie as it rises over the city in downtown mobile. There will be live entertainment, activities for the kids at the local museums and a countdown to 2016 like no other. Snow Queen Tea Party Saturday, January 9, 7:00pm & Sunday, January 10, 2:00 and 5:00 pm Fairhope Civic Center, (251) 610-8902 Email: nicole@PMIArt.com Enter a fantastical winter wonderland beyond all imagination at Ballet Theatre South’s Snow Queen Tea Party. Be magically whisked away into the wintry world of Arendelle, where you will enjoy delectable treats and be dazzled by amazing special effects and astonishing mouvement. Sing and dance along with Queen Elsa, her sister, Princess Anna, and their hilarious friends, Olaf, Kistoff and mystical trolls. Together, they discover true love is ultimately the most magical power of all. Proceeds benefit The Boy’s and Girl’s Club & Project Mouvement in Art’s community endeavors. Tickets or Holiday Ticket Gift Sets available at www.PMIArt. org or by phone 251-367-6634. ESP

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Doing Your Style Right With Denim From casual days to cozy nights, from 18 years of age to 80, denim is one of the most versatile fabrics in your wardrobe. It can be dressed up with your favorite pair of heels or accented with the perfect piece of statement jewelry. However you choose to wear this classic fashion piece, it certainly makes us ladies feel feminine and comfortable. Denim never goes out of style and has undoubtedly outlasted all other trends that have come and gone throughout the years. You know denim has kept its style when you find some retro stylish jeans still hanging in your mom’s wardrobe. And yes, I did what any fashionista would do...I tried them on and rocked them out! Here are a few denim pieces that you can rock out when it comes to your style:

Denim jacket- This is a key piece for anyone’s wardrobe. I absolutely love a denim jacket. You can dress this item up or down and incorporate it in with any current trend. Every closet should have a denim jacket...a thin one to throw over dresses on warm summer nights or a thicker one to wear in the cooler days of fall and winter. A denim jacket, black skinnies, a few classic accessories, and your Eastern Shore Parents I December 2015

favorite white blouse is just one simple way of making that denim jacket look fashionably fabulous!

Denim Dress- A denim dress is something that looks great on everyone. I consider it your new version of the little black dress. Thanks to the endless cut options this dress can look great on anyone, no matter your body shape or age. A denim dress can be every woman’s go-to item in her closet. Add your favorite pops of color, layer or accessorize and make this your favorite any-season style.

Denim jeans- Ahhhh, denim jeans, the start of a beautiful fashion friendship. The denim jean is the staple piece to everyone’s wardrobe. A good pair of jeans is a timeless possession, tops the list of comfort wear, and can be worn any time of the day or night. The great thing about jeans is there are a variety of options that fit every woman’s shape and can be styled to your liking. Whether it be a skinny jean, boyfriend jean, flare leg, straight leg, dark denim, white or even colored denim, it’s all about finding what works for you and your style. The options are endless!

for their wardrobe. I have at least three hanging in my closet now, and yes, I wear them several different ways. The denim shirt is a classic, versatile wardrobe staple that can be worn with a variety of bottoms. As a casual piece, the denim shirt is usually used to create casual yet chic outfits, or to make structured pieces look more relaxed. In short, denim shirts are a great addition to many outfits in a wide range of settings.

Denim accessories- Now, I know this sounds crazy, but yes, I think a few things denim as far a accessorizing can be fun. I have seen some really cute denim heels, wedges, flats, and casual shoes that can add a fun soft pop of color to any simple style. I’m not opposed to even incorporating a dark denim handbag. Denim shorts- You can’t go wrong with the perfect denim shorts; they are ranked high on the list of timeless trends. Feared by some and loved by many, the versatility of this wardrobe staple makes it a musthave for warm months. The key is knowing how to wear them. I would compare denim shorts to the perfect pair of denim jeans...same styling method and all, but of course you are a lot cooler. Enjoy your denim and remember this is a fun and easy way to amp up your style!

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Do your boys prefer to duke it out rather than talk it out? Raising brothers to work out conflict respectfully despite wildly different personalities or fierce competitive streaks can prove challenging. But set a positive example, and you’ll find that nurturing brotherly love isn’t impossible! Encourage healthy competition. The good news is sibling rivalry is normal. To keep competition good natured, avoid labeling and comparing one child to the other. Encourage your sons to compete against themselves instead of each other. “Teach them that it’s not about whether you are better than anyone else. It’s whether you are doing better than you were at the beginning of the year or at the beginning of the season,” says child psychologist Dr. Jane Sosland, University of Kansas Medical Center, and mom to three children, twin sons, ages 18, and a daughter, age 15. If your son expresses sadness or frustration over a loss, acknowledge the disappointment. “We all feel disappointment. Validate how he feels without trying to convince him that the way he feels is wrong,” Sosland says.

Inspire cooperation. “Parenting boys is a lot of fun,” says Jenny Brandt, early education childhood professional and a mom of two boys, ages 3 1/2 and 2. “Whether they are wrestling in the living room or helping me cook dinner, they bring a different perspective to my life which I greatly appreciate.” Brandt says she and her husband started early teaching their sons to cooperate by defining how to play nicely. “We encourage them to use their words, offer another toy to use, and take turns,” she says. Build empathy. Brandt fosters empathy between her boys by teaching them to acknowledge each other’s feelings. She might say to her older son, Rhett, that Hank looks sad and involve him in finding ways to make his brother feel better. Eastern Shore Parents I December 2015

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Reinforce the positive. Describe what respectful behavior looks like. For example, if one child answers a question from his brother with a grunt, explain that to show respect he must answer the question. “You can say: ‘I don’t want to talk about it right now.’ Just as long as the response is something civil,” Sosland says. Identify times when your children are most likely to squabble, such as when they are tired and hungry. When the car ride home from school became a sibling battleground, Sosland started a program where her kids earned a poker chip for mutual respect and cooperation. In order to attain the reward of a special outing, her kids had to work as a team to compile an equal number of chips.

Stop bullying behavior. While it is important to give your children space to solve conflicts, intervene if one child is hurting the other, physically or emotionally. Separate your kids and tell the offender that he can rejoin the family when he agrees to treat his brother kindly. Role model. Many of us share the funny or frustrating things our kids do with friends and extended family members. But Brandt says this behavior may inadvertently teach our kids that it’s acceptable to portray family members in a negative light in front of others. Make a family rule that you won’t embarrass or say negative things about each other in front of people outside of the family. Instead make it a habit to point out the positive things each person does. You and your partner can also model a respectful relationship to your children through your treatment of each other. Celebrate each other’s wins and empathize with each other’s frustrations and losses. Over time, your sons will learn that their brotherhood is unlike any other bond. By honoring and respecting each other’s differences, their friendship will last a lifetime. ESP Freelance writer, Christa Melnyk Hines and her husband are the parents of two close-knit brothers, 8 and 10 who are keen on aggravating each other (and their parents). Christa is the author of Happy, Healthy & Hyperconnected: Raise a Thoughtful Communicator in a Digital World.

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American Sport Art Museum and Archives Located on the campus of the United States Sports Academy in Daphne, dedicated to the preservation of sports history, art, and literature. Exhibits spotlight visiting artists on a rotating basis, as well as our permanent collection of prints, sculpture, original paintings, photographs and other arts media. Free admission. Hours are 9 a.m. – 4 p.m. Monday through Friday. 1 Academy Drive, Daphne. For more information call 251.626.3303 or visit www.asama.org. Big Brother / Big Sister Mentors Needed At-risk children at Summerdale School need volunteer Big Brother Big Sister mentors. “Bigs” have fun with a child one time a week, for one hour, on school grounds, during the school year by reading a story, working puzzles, playing catch, drawing, or just being a friend. Professional training and support are provided by Big Brothers Big Sisters of South Alabama YMCA, Inc. For more information or to volunteer, contact Polly at 251-344-0536 ext. 104. Eastern Shore Art Center A non-profit arts organization located in beautiful downtown Fairhope, the Art Center houses four galleries with exhibits that change monthly, as well as a gallery featuring member artists’ work for sale. Admission is free. 401 Oak Street, Fairhope. For more information call 251.928.2228 or visit www.eseartcenter.com. The Exploreum The Exploreum is open Monday through Friday from 9 a.m. – 5 p.m., Saturday from 10 a.m. – 5 p.m. and Sunday from noon until 5 p.m. For tickets or more information visit www.exploreum.com or call 251-208-6873. 65 Government Street, Mobile. Fairhope Museum of History The museum is full of artifacts from old Fairhope. You can see displays on Clay City, the Single Tax Association and the Civil War. You can also see personal belongings from some of Fairhope’s first families. The museum is located in downtown Fairhope at 24 North Section Street. The museum is open Monday - Saturday from 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. For more information, call 929-1474. Marietta Johnson Museum This museum was founded to preserve the oldest school building in Baldwin Country, which was founded in 1907 by famed educator Marietta Johnson. Known as one of the first progressive schools in the world, the museum includes historic letters, documents, and artifacts from the school’s heyday, as well as biographical information about Marietta Johnson. To learn more, visit www.mariettajohnson.org. Open Mondays-Fridays from 1 p.m. – 5 p.m. Admission is free. 440 Fairhope Ave. 990-8601. Weeks Bay National Estuarine Research Reserve The Weeks Bay Reserve has a free educational interpretive center and two boardwalks. The Interpretive Center houses a multitude of exhibits, habitat models, specimen collections and a diorama giving the visitor a better understanding about the value of estuaries, diversity of coastal wetlands, and a close-up look at living plants and animals of coastal Alabama. Admission is free. Hours are Monday – Saturday 8 a.m. – 5 p.m. and Sunday 1 to 5 p.m. 11300 US Highway 98, Fairhope. For more information call 251.928-9792 or visit www.weeksbay.org.

Classes/Meetings

Alabama Pre/Post Adoption Connections (APAC) Offering Adoptive Family Support Group Meetings in Baldwin County the 3rd Monday of each month. The meeting is held at Eastern Shore Church of Christ, 1209 Daphne Ave, in Daphne from 6 - 7:30 p.m.

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Parent, Youth/Teen group and childcare is available. Topic discussions by adoption professionals and ceu’s for foster families are offered. For more information call 251-460-2727 or 1-800-489-1886 or www. childrensaid.org. APAC also offers free counseling services to adoptive families. Celebration MOPS Fairhope Celebration MOPS meets on the 2nd and 4th Wednesdays from 9 a.m. – 11 a.m. at Celebration Church, 8180 Dyer Road, Fairhope. Childcare is provided and is included in the fees. There is an annual $23.95 MOPS International membership fee and $30 per semester. Call the church office for info at 251-928-0343 or like us on Facebook at Facebook.com/ celebrationmopsfairhopeal. Daily Living Skills Group for parents with children on the Spectrum Held the second Tuesday of each month from 5:30-7:00 p.m. at The Family Center, 27365 Pollard Road, Daphne. Focus is on daily living needs of families and their children, such as: Safety issues; How to have a family dinner out; Ways to assist with transition; How to talk with people who stare; Your questions, comments and suggestions. Limited childcare slots are available. For more information, please contact Judy Bradshaw: (251) 990-7781. Daphne Neurological Disease Support Group (Includes Parkinson’s Disease, epilepsy). Meets second Monday of each month at Daphne United Methodist Church, 2401 Main Street, Daphne, in the Community Life Center-Gathering Room. 11:00 a.m. until noon. Noon light lunch for $3 from 12:15 - 1:00 p.m. 12:15 - 1:00 p.m. Speaker or joint group session. Contact person: Alice Hallford - 251-626-8228. Fairhope MOPS (Mothers of Preschoolers) We meet 9:30 a.m. - 11:30 a.m. every 2nd & 4th Monday (during the school year) at Fairhope United Methodist Church. All mothers of young children are welcome. Email fairhopemops@yahoo.com for information about how to register. Father Central of Daphne *Positive Fathering, A New & Improved Parenting Class Just For Men, $75 giftcard upon completion. Mondays, 5:30-7:30 p.m. Call 251-626-1610 to register, held at The Exchange Club Family Center of Baldwin County, 27365 Pollard Rd., Daphne, near the YMCA. *Chill Skills Anger Management by appointment. $25 giftcard upon completion. Call 251-626-1610 schedule, The Exchange Club Family Center of Baldwin County, 27365 Pollard Rd., Daphne, near the YMCA. *Nurturing Parenting, everything you need to know but were afraid to ask. Thursdays, 9:30-11:30 a.m., 12-week rotating series. Jump in on any Thursday! Call 251-626-1610 to register, 27365 Pollard Rd, Daphne, near the YMCA. MOPS on the Eastern Shore MOPS stands for “Mothers of Preschoolers” - but don’t let that confuse you. MOPS is about meeting the needs of every mom of a child from conception through kindergarten with local groups of moms just like you. 7100 Spanish Fort Blvd., Spanish Fort. 1st Thursday of the Month (September through May). Dinner & Child Care are provided. 6:00 - 8:00 p.m. http://www.mopsontheeasternshore.shutterfly.com/ Facebook.com/MopsOnTheEasternShore . Moonlight Chasse’ Ballroom Dance Society Dance lessons from 7 – 7:30 p.m., and Dancing from 7:30 – 10 p.m., first and third Monday of every month, at Fitzpen Place, 1 mile east of Eastern Shore Mall. No partner necessary. $10 per person includes dance lesson. $7 with membership, includes dance lesson. Live music, cash bar. www.FitzpenPlace.com. www. Moonlightchasse.com. For more information, call 251621-6665 or 251-377-4069. Shepherd’s Place (Christian Life Center) Ministry for memory & physically challenged.

Mondays & Wednesdays 8 a.m. – 3 p.m., Tuesdays & Thursdays 9 a.m. – 1 p.m. Fairhope United Methodist Church, 155 South Section Street, Fairhope. 9281148. Single Mom Ministry Sponsored by Fairhope Avenue Baptist Church, this prayer and support group for single moms is designed to provide a safe and prayerful environment where group members are able to express themselves among others who will listen, care, and lift each other up. Each participant will receive one bag of non-perishable food items each week. Child care will be provided. Light snacks and soft drinks will be served. Meetings are held every Tuesday from 6-7 PM at Fairhope Avenue Baptist Family Life Center, 8717 Fairhope Ave. 251-928-0890. SOS (Survivors of Suicide) This group is for adults who has ever lost a loved one to suicide. If it has been 5 days or 50 years since the loss, this group is here for you. SOS meets the 2nd and 4th Monday of EVERY month from 6:30 to approximately 8:00 p.m. at the Fairhope United Methodist Church, 155 S. Section Street, Fairhope. The support group, which has been around since November, 2012, is facilitated by a professional and co-facilitated by two survivors. There are no dues. For more information, please email jlbarber5@ bellsouth.net or call 251-455-6453. Tango by the Bay ~ Argentine Basic classes are held every Tuesday from 7:30 – 9:30 p.m. in Fairhope at Southern Edge Dance Studio, located behind Pizza Hut across from Thomas Hospital. 251 South Greeno, Fairhope. $5 per class (fee may be higher with special guest instructors). For more information Contact Ben Samel at 605-2657 or Cassie Fishbein 377-4069, cassief13@aol.com. South Baldwin Regional Medical Center offers the following classes: Your entire family can take part in several informative classes designed to help moms and dads welcome their special new addition to the family with more confidence. Classes cover topics including: Having A Healthy Pregnancy Nutrition, discomforts of pregnancy, warning signs of complications, and relaxation exercises. One session. Cost: $10. Prepared Childbirth Classes (Once a week for four weeks). Cost: $30 Week 1: Begin the Stages of Labor: The labor and delivery process, signs and stages of labor, options for coping, pain management, vaginal delivery, and relaxation exercises. Week 2: Delivery and Cesarean Birth: A review of complications that may arise, use of special equipment, complete the stages of labor, cesarean delivery, and relaxation exercises. Week 3: New Born and Postpartum Care: Newborn appearance, caring for the newborn, infant safety, recognizing complications, relaxation exercises, and choosing a pediatrician. What to expect after delivery, understanding the physical and emotional changes to your body, and relaxation exercises. Week 4: The Art of Breast Feeding: The benefits of breast feeding for mother and baby, anatomy and physiology of the breast, how to breastfeed, and common difficulties. One session. • Tiny Toes members may enroll in Yoga, Water Aerobics and Expectant Mother Exercise classes through the Snook Family YMCA. The fee is $5 a class. There is a $3 fee for child care. There is no fee if you are already a member of the YMCA. All classes are located at South Baldwin Regional Medical Center–1613 North McKenzie Street Foley. Tuesday evenings 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. Classroom A. Located just off of the main lobby.

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Health Resource Center located at: 308 S. Greeno Road, Fairhope. Call 928-8650 for more information. Cancer Support Group-Family Connected by Ribbons Support group for cancer survivors, friends and family. Open to any types of cancer. Every first Thursday of every month from 6 - 8 p.m. Morphy Conference Room (Old ER entrance) at Thomas Hospital, Fairhope. Preregistration not required. Call 209-1229 for more information. Cancer Support Group for Women Meetings are held the first Thursday of every month from 6 to 8 p.m. in the Morphy Conference Room. For more information, call Patti Huval at 209-1229. Diabetes Support Group Meetings are held on the first Tuesday of every month from 6:30 to 7:30 p.m. at the Thomas Hospital Diabetes Center. Call 279-1700 for more information. National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) Support Group Meetings are held every Thursday night from 6:30 to 8 p.m. at The Harbor at Thomas Hospital. Call 251- 9656264 for more information.

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Wednesday, December 2 Joe Bonamassa – Saenger Theatre As Joe Bonamassa approaches his 26th year as a professional musician, he continues to blaze a remarkably versatile artistic trail, and amass an authentic, innovative and soulful body of work. Concert at 8:00 pm at the Saenger Theatre (6 Joachim St). For more information, please visit www.mobilesaenger.com.

Thursday, December 3

Wine & Sign - Author Event Join us at 6:00 pm at Page and Palette (32S. Section Street) for Katherine Clark & Pat Conroy. Published by bestselling author Pat Conroy’s Story River Books, Katherine Clark’s debut novel casts a comical eye on Southern society and celebrates the power of great teachers and schools to transform the lives of young people and lift up their communities. Tickets to the “Wine & Sign” author event are $5 and include a coupon toward the book purchase. Please visit www.pageandpalette.com for more information.

Friday, December 4

9th Annual Taste of the Islands The Mystical Order of Mirams are proud to announce the Annual “Taste of the Islands”. This year our culinary extravaganza will host over 35 restaurants from Gulf Shores, Orange Beach and surrounding areas. The Orange Beach Event Center at The Wharf will be the location for this holiday gala, which will consist of food sampling, all-inclusive cocktails and musical entertainment. Our charities of choice are Toys for Tots and Anchor Cross Cancer Foundation. The Mystical Order of Mirams are known for supporting our community during this holiday season. Please bring an unwrapped toy to benefit local children in need. Musical entertainment will be provided by Rhythm Intervention. The band will keep you dancing throughout the night and will be sure to put you in the holiday spirit. Taste of the Islands is the perfect venue to host your holiday party! Let us do the work, as you take all the credit. Tickets to this All-Inclusive Holiday Gala are $50 per person. Reserved seating and tables of 10 are available for $500. Reserve your table early as they are limited. To purchase tickets or a table online, please visit www.mirams. info. A limited number of tickets will be available at the door on a first come, first serve basis. Dress is Island Elegant. Orange Beach Event Center, 4671 Wharf Parkway West, Orange Beach.

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Parkinson’s Support Group Meetings are held on the third Tuesday of every month from noon to 1 p.m. at Thomas Medical Center. Call 251- 455-9919 for more information. Traumatic Brain Injury and Spinal Cord Support Group Meetings are held on the first Thursday of each month from 10 to 11 a.m. at Thomas Medical Center. Call 251626-6337 for more information.

Tuesday, December 1

5 Rivers StoryTime: “Dinosaur’s Night Before Christmas” by Jim Harris The 1st and 3rd Tuesday of every month is StoryTime at 5 Rivers. Children under the age of 6 are welcome to stop by for a free reading of a nature based story followed by arts and crafts. This week, a festively fun and traditional story with a reptilian twist. 10:00 am - 11:00 am. 5 Rivers (30945 Five Rivers Boulevard, Spanish Fort). Please visit www.Alabama5Rivers.com for more information. 5 Rivers Outdoor Adventure Night Free, everyone is welcome. Meet and mingle with local outdoor enthusiasts and enjoy monthly programs. 7 - 8:30 pm Mobile Bay Canoe and Kayak Club; 7 -

Saturday, December 5

The Charity Challenge 2 Mile Fun Run/Walk in Daphne The race will begin and end at Daphne City Hall (1705 Main Street, Daphne). Before and after race festivities will also take place at City Hall. The Charity Challenge is a new event at Bayside Academy brought to life by our Peer Helpers. We have selected four charities representing four causes. The entry fee is $10 and you choose your ticket type based on which charity you would like to support. There will be opportunities on race day to donate additional funds or goods. Please wear one of the following colors on race day to represent the charity of your choice! Our Charities:

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Family Calendar USA Children’s and Women’s Hospital- yellow, Baldwin County Humane Society- blue, Reach out and Readred, Bay Area Food Bank- orange, We will also be having drives for each charity during and after the race, accepting donations specific to each charity. Drive Items: USA Children’s and Women’s HospitalArt Supplies, Baldwin County Humane Society- Pet Supplies, Reach out and Read- Children’s Books and Bay Area Food Bank- Canned Goods. Please visit www. eventbrite.com for more information. Saturday Art Mart Perfect shopping for friends and family! All handmade art, crafts and gifts! Artist market will be set up inside the main gallery. 10:00 am - 3:00 pm. FREE to the public! Eastern Shore Art Center (401 Oak St, Fairhope). For more information, please call (251) 928-2228.

Sunday, December 6

5 Rivers Animal Ambassadors Meet and Greet Alabama has one of the highest plant and animal diversities in the United States. Join a member of our human educational staff and meet one of the local critter inhabitants from the Mobile-Tensaw Delta and beyond. 2:00 pm – 2:30 pm. Free. Location: 5 Rivers (30945 Five Rivers Boulevard, Spanish Fort). Please visit www.Alabama5Rivers.com for more information. 5 Rivers Sunday Matinee ““The Private Life of Deer” Come out and join us every Sunday for a free familyfriendly film. The films play throughout the day. This week’s movie takes a closer look of an animal Alabamians are very familiar with - deer. Just a century ago, there were an estimated 1 million deer living on the North American continent; now their numbers exceed 30 million. This “Nature” documentary looks at the historical relationship between deer and humans, and its likely future. Free. Location: 5 Rivers (30945

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Tuesday, December 8

8th Annual Chocolate Affair Family Promise of Baldwin County, Inc. will be hosting our 8th Annual Chocolate Affair, a gala event to benefit homeless families with children in our program. Chocolate Affair will have silent and live auction items, desserts and heavy hors d’oeuvres, and live music by local musician, Mel Knapp. Bring your holiday spirit and give to a wonderful cause. Location: Foley Civic Center 407 E. Laurel Avenue Foley. 6:00 pm - 9:00 pm. Please visit www.familypromisebc.org for more information. 5 Rivers Outdoor Adventure Night Free, everyone is welcome. Meet and mingle with local outdoor enthusiasts and enjoy monthly programs. Schedule: 6:00 - 7:00 pm Alabama Hiking Trail Society; 6:00 - 7:00 pm Mobile Bay Environmental Educators; 7:00 - 8:00 pm Mobile Bay Audubon Society. Location: 5 Rivers (30945 Five Rivers Boulevard, Spanish Fort). Please visit www.Alabama5Rivers.com for more information. Book Signing Page and Palette – NancyKay Wessman NancyKay Wessman book signing at 2:00 pm at Page & Palette (32 South Section Street). A work of creative nonfiction, “Katrina, Mississippi: Voices from Ground Zero” showcases heroes and their work from the epicenter of preparedness, response, rescue, recovery, and rebuilding. Please visit www.pageandpalette.com/ event/nancykay-wessman for more information.

Friday, December 11

Alabama Cornhole Cup The American Cornhole Association was established in 2005 and is the governing body for the sport of

cornhole. The City of Foley is elated to bring such a prestigious event in the sport of cornhole to the community. This will make for not only a great weekend of Cornhole, but a great weekend for tailgating fun. This cornhole tournament is one in a Series of Majors that will take place across the country as part of ACO Season 11, which runs from September 2015 through July 2016. Pay-as-you play will be available Friday and Saturday for amateur players. There will be food, beer and music to enjoy. Players must be an ACO Member to compete in the points tournaments. An ACO Membership is $25 for a season. Location: Foley Sports Tourism Complex, 10113 Foley Beach Expressway, Foley. Dates: December 11-13, 4:00 p.m. Friday & 8:30 a.m. Saturday. For more information, please visit foleysportstourism.com/ events/alabama-cornhole-cup. Book Signing & Author Discussion – Page and Palette Dick Schmidt will be at Page and Palette at 5:00 pm for a book signing and author discussion. Explore the variety of ways humans experience the holy through 150+ one-page biographies of notable masters from the world’s great spiritual traditions. Key historical figures vividly come to life with pertinent biographical details presented in a readable, conversational style by a well-respected figure in the Episcopal Church. Please visit www.pageandpalette.com/event/dick-schmidtdean-mosher for more information. “Seussical Jr.” “Oh, the thinks you can think” when Dr. Seuss’s bestloved characters collide and cavort in an unforgettable musical caper! Center Stage Performance brings Horton the Elephant, the Cat in the Hat, and all of your favorite Dr. Seuss characters to life onstage. 6:30 pm and December 12 at 8:00 pm at Daphne Civic Center (2603 US Highway 98, Daphne). Please visit Eventbrite. com for tickets.

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Thursday, December 17

1st Annual Distinguished Lecture Series presents “Hurricanes in the Gulf of Mexico” The University of South Alabama Gulf Coast Campus is pleased to present our 1st annual “Distinguished Lecture Series”. The University of South Alabama Distinguished Lecture Series brings public speakers of the highest calibre from the worlds of academia, business, the arts and civil society to our Gulf Coast campus to share their thoughts and ideas. The lecture will be held at 6:00 pm at the Gulf Shores Cultural Center, located at 19470 Oak Rd. W. (CR 6), Gulf Shores. Dr. Sytske K. Kimball and Dr. Keith Blackwell, Professors of Meteorology, The University of South Alabama will speak on “Hurricanes in the Gulf of Mexico”. The Distinguished Lecture Series are free and open to the public. Please visit www.southalabama. edu/gulfcoast for more information.

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Tuesday, December 22

GoDaddy Bowl Mayor’s Luncheon A special guest speaker will address city officials, media, corporate sponsors, traveling parties of each Bowl team and other guests at a special banquet. During the banquet, the GoDaddy Bowl will present “Champions of Life.” The Champions of Life honor is given to individuals who have achieved great success through dedication and hard work. These extraordinary individuals have overcome many obstacles and have given a great deal back to the community and country. Cost-$30. Location: Arthur R. Outlaw Convention Center (1 South Water Street, Mobile) from 12:00 pm 2:00 pm. Please visit www.godaddybowl.com for more information. Greer’s/Al.com Mardi Gras Parade, Pep-Rally and Street Party A Mardi Gras parade will be held in the streets of downtown Mobile starting at 6:30 pm. Sixteen Mardi Gras societies will be represented with floats and throws for the crowd. Several local high school marching bands will join the parade, as well as the

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bands and cheerleaders from each participating Bowl team. A huge crowd is expected to pack the streets of downtown Mobile for this early rendition of the Mardi Gras season. The parade will be followed by the official pep rallies of the participating GoDaddy Bowl teams and the AL.com Street Party. Please visit www. godaddybowl.com for more information.

GoDaddy Bowl The 17th annual GoDaddy Bowl will feature a match up between the Sun Belt Conference and the Mid-American Conference. This event will be held at Ladd-Peebles Stadium (1621 Virginia Street, Mobile). Please visit www. godaddybowl.com for more information. Spectronics Post Game Fireworks Display Immediately following the bowl game, there will be a spectacular fireworks display over Ladd Peebles Stadium.

Sunday, December 27

5 Rivers Sunday Matinee “NOVA: Bigger Than T-Rex” Meet Spinosaurus, the world’s largest predator EVER. Almost a century ago, paleontologists found the first tantalizing hints of a monster even bigger than Tyrannosaurus Rex, perhaps the largest predator ever to walk the Earth. Bringing together experts in paleontology, geology, climatology, and paleobotany, this NOVA/National Geographic special brings to life the lost world over which Spinosaurus reigned more than 65 million years ago. Movies play throughout the day. Location: 5 Rivers (30945 Five Rivers Boulevard, Spanish Fort). Please visit www. Alabama5Rivers.com for more information.

Wednesday, January 6

Read It & Eat Author Lunch – Page and Palette Join us for Read It & Eat Author Luncheon at 12:00 pm at Page & Palette (32 South Section St). Lose yourself in Sarah Addison Allen’s enchanting world and fall for her charmed characters in this captivating story that proves that a happily-ever-after is never the real ending to a story. It’s where the real story begins. Free Event (Call the store to purchase lunch for $10.). Please call (251) 928-5295 for more information.

Saturday, January 9

Black Jacket Symphony presents Journey’s “ESC4P3” The Black Jacket Symphony offers a unique concert experience through recreating classic albums in a live performance setting. Journey’s “ESC4P3” album is performed in its entirety by a group of handpicked musicians specifically selected for each album, with no sonic detail being overlooked–the musicians do whatever it takes to musically reproduce the album. 8:00 pm at the Saenger Theatre (6 Joachim Street, Mobile). Please visit www.mobilesaenger.com for more information.

Sunday, January 10

Servis 1st Bank First Light Marathon Join us in downtown Mobile for Marathon or half marathon. Please visit www.firstlightmarathon.com for more information.

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A kid’s first introduction to dinosaurs has become a childhood rite of passage in this century. Even though they haven’t roamed the earth in millions of years, dinosaurs have surged to the front of the pack among creatures that stir kids’ imaginations. Perhaps it’s their bizarre forms or the sheer size of these prehistoric marvels that capture a child’s attention. But it’s common knowledge that once a kid meets dinosaurs, they’re instantly hooked on the whole world of wildlife that ruled the earth so long ago. The following titles are delightful early introductions to dinosaurs that younger children will really sink their teeth into!

If I Had a Raptor

by George O’Connor (Candlewick Press) What would it be like to adopt a raptor and keep it as a pet? In this title, one young girl wants to have all her bases covered when it comes to bringing a baby dinosaur into the family. It would need a bell (because it’s so tiny it could get lost). And it would need plenty of cozy places to curl up in and sunny spots to stretch out in. The girl thinks that her raptor would probably sleep all day (and run around all night). As the girl’s visions of a raptor as a pet expand, young readers will smile as they begin to pick up the similarities between pet raptors and pets of a feline variety. With illustrations that underscore the cat-like behaviors a raptor might exhibit, this title is a delightful what-if musing on adopting a dinosaur as a pet.

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Dinosaur Kisses

by David Ezra Stein (Candlewick) As soon as baby Dinah emerged from her egg, she was ready to explore her great big world. She wastes no time as she begins to stomp and chomp her way around it. But when she sees a kiss for the first time, Dinah knows that it’s something that she wants to try, too. But unfortunately her instincts to whomp, chomp, and stomp send her mission to kiss someone awry. Even when she finally (carefully) learns how to pucker up for a kiss, she accidentally eats her target instead. Just as it seems that kissing isn’t something that is going to work out for Dinah, another option emerges. A perfect partner breaks out to help her whomp, stomp, and chomp her way to a kiss that works for dinosaurs like her.

Dino-Baby

by Mark Sperring, Illustrated by Sam Lloyd (Bloomsbury) Dino-Baby is a sweet story that follows one dinosaur family as they prepare their child for the arrival of a new baby. The older sister learns the importance of quiet time during naps as well as the joys of baby dino kisses. Teaching the baby good manners and how to use the potty are also important things that an older dino sibling can help with. It’s a special privilege for older siblings to be the one to introduce new arrivals in their family to the wonderful world of dinosaurs. “Dino-Baby” is both an ideal baby-on-the-way title as well as a sweet picture book introduction to dinosaurs that a big sibling can look forward to sharing with the new baby.

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Love the Coopers

The Hunger Games:

Mockingjay (Part 2)

MPAA Rating: PG-13 Overall: BViolence: BSexual Content: C+ Language: C Alcohol / Drug Use: C The MPAA has rated Love the Coopers PG-13 for thematic elements, language and some sexuality. Antici-pointment. No, it is not really a word, but it certainly does describe the way anticipation can meet with disappointment. Although the idea of combining the two definitions is credited to Eleanor (Olivia Wilde), the reality is there are many people suffering from that feeling. And little wonder -- especially during all the hype of the holiday season. On this particular December 24, the Coopers are preparing for a spectacular Christmas dinner, hosted by Charlotte (Dianne Keaton). Yet only her husband Sam (John Goodman) knows that the reason for her obsessive fussing is because this will be the last supper the family will enjoy together before the couple, who have been married for forty years, announce their intention to break up. Their son Hank (Ed Helms) is also having a difficult time keeping things merry and bright for his three kids, due to his recent divorce and job loss. Charlotte’s sister Emma (Marisa Tomei) keeps up the pretense of sharing a loving bond, however she spitefully shoplifts the gift intended for her older sibling. The girls’ father Bucky (Alan Arkin) secretly finds more happiness from the friendship of Ruby (Amanda Seyfried), a young waitress at a restaurant he frequents, than he does from his daughters. And that brings us back to Eleanor, the cynical offspring of Charlotte and Sam, who arrives at the airport and stays at the bar rather than head home where she expects to face the disapproving faces of her worried parents. If this seems like a lot of characters to keep track of, don’t worry. Rags the dog (voice of Steve Martin) narrates all the way through, keeping track of all of the details along with explaining their various back-stories. And what results is a more poignant tale then I was expecting. If the promotions for this movie left you convinced this would be a glimpse into the dysfunctional private lives of a group of people, sprinkled with as many rude jokes and crude comments as the snowflakes falling on the winter landscape, you weren’t wrong. Sexual dialogue, a complacent attitude about adultery and unmarried intimate relations, flatulence jokes, a nod for recreational drug use and even disparaging remarks about God, are all part of the humor presented in this script. That is the disappointing side. The thing I didn’t anticipate was that amidst this trashy tinsel are some themes that shine. There is a good chance you may have a few realizations yourself as you watch these characters working through their perception issues and reactions to life’s disappointments. Still, whether or not the value of these messages will be worth overlooking all the crass clutter they are wrapped in, will be a personal question that could end in either antici-proval or antici-pointment.

MPAA Rating: PG-13 Time: 136 min. Overall: BViolence: D+ Sexual Content: ALanguage: A Alcohol / Drug Use: BThe MPAA has rated The Hunger Games: Mockingjay - Part 2 PG-13 for intense sequences of violence and action, and for some thematic material. At long last The Hunger Games reaches its protracted close. Surprisingly, in spite of its superficial appeal as yet another story featuring a strong-willed female caught in a lovers’ triangle, it manages to hit home a timely message that rises above expectations. First, know that viewing this final chapter is a waste of time and money if you haven’t done your homework. The film opens precisely where Mockingjay - Part 1 left off. Katniss (Jennifer Lawrence) is recovering from an unexpected attack from her good friend, and one of her love interests, Peeta (Josh Hutcherson). The fight between the rebels and The Capitol is firing on all cylinders, both on the battlefield and, even more so on the media. President Alma Coin (Julianne Moore), head of the rebellion, has made Katniss the unwitting face of the opposition. In return, President Snow, the crusty dictator of The Capitol, does his own PR work to make up for losing his puppet -- the drugged and tortured Peeta. The two leaders literally face off on TV screens throughout the beleaguered nation while both sides are preparing for the inevitable war. Eventually Katniss, her other man Gale (Liam Hemsworth), Peeta, who is still recovering from the mind controlling substance and psychological abuse inflicted during his captivity, along with their friends Finnick (Sam Clafin) and Cressida (Natalie Dormer), join with the hardened solider Boggs (Mahershala Ali) to attack Panem, where the seat of government is located. With Katniss determined to find Snow and put one of her trademarked arrows into his heart, the group begins to make its way through the impossibly booby-trapped city. Around each corner are dangerous “pods” that inflict bullets, waterfalls of oil and deadly napalm explosions that work to slow the team’s advance. Watching their progress back in the bunker at District 13, we have a feeling that President Coin and her right-hand-man Plutarch (and the final time you’ll see the late Philip Seymour Hoffman) may not have our heroine’s best interests in mind. Following the pattern of the previous movies, violent confrontations are the greatest concern when considering the appropriateness of this franchise for teen viewers. Characters are poisoned, shot with bullets and arrows, drowned in oil, hung from chains and covered in flames. Fortunately, there is no time for sex and the script is devoid of profanity.

What Parents need to know about Mockingjay-Part 2 ...

Violence: Frequent portrayals of violent conflicts throughout, most of which are non-graphic, with only a little blood, bruises and injuries shown. Characters are shot with bullets and arrows -- one is seen with an arrow extending from the chest. A character is poisoned, causing blood to seep from the nose and eventual death. Characters are drowned in an oil-like liquid and one is later seen hanging from chains. Deaths are implied after an explosion. A character is engulfed in flames and is later seen with burn injuries. Bombs explode over a crowd of women and children, some injured and the dead are briefly seen. Grotesque human-like creatures attack characters. Assassinations are planned. Sexual Content: A man and woman kiss. A clothed man and woman are briefly seen in bed. Language: No profanities noted. Alcohol / Drug Use: An unidentified poison is included in an alcoholic drink, causing a character to bleed from the nose prior to death. Social drinking is seen. Morphine addiction is implied. Eastern Shore Parents I December 2015

What Parents need to know about Love the Coopers...

Violence: Bullying occurs. A fistfight leaves a character with scrapes and burses on his face. The loss of a loved one, and a medical emergency are shown. Sexual Content: Sexual references are frequent and include comments about unplanned pregnancies, unmarried sexual relationships and adultery. A child lifts her dress at the dare of a young boy. Various couples kiss and embrace, and a teen couple French kiss awkwardly and clutch each other. A character admits to being gay and discusses the disapproval he has experienced Language: Crude slang words are used as insults and to describe anatomy. Terms of deity are frequently used as expletives. Mild and moderate profanities, and scatological slang are also heard. Some name-calling occurs. Alcohol / Drug Use: Characters frequently drink alcohol in bars and at home. Use of “pot” is mentioned and snickered at. 76

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