Eastern Shore Parents February 2014 by KeepSharing

Starla has always loved to play like a princess...

Today she is one. When Starla came to USA Children’s & Women’s Hospital, at age two, she was already very sick. The physicians soon diagnosed her with a rare form of leukemia. After a courageous battle, Starla is cancer free at four. Today she’s still pretending to be a princess but the physicians and staff at USA Children’s & Women’s Hospital know what a real princess she truly is. From diagnosis and treatment to recovery, let USA Children’s & Women’s Hospital care for your family.

251.415.1000

CWH 008 Parents Magazines.indd 2

Find out more at usahealthsystem.com/usacwh

9/12/13 1:16 PM

February2014

Volume 6 Number 9

Columns

38 42

Publisher’s Note Lynn Knighton

Living With Children

Promoting Good Behavior at School

Learn what you can do at home to help them stay on “green light”!

John Rosemond

Small Person... Big Changes

Discover tools for encouraging children through a new sibling transition.

Kids Health Watch sponsored by Magnolia Springs Pediatrics

Dave Says Dave Ramsey

46 54

Centsibly Southern Chic Laura Handey

Get This! Gerry Paige Smith

New & Expectant Parents Guide

Our listing leads you to local resources for all things BABY!

Hello Baby, Goodbye, Sleep!

A Page in a Book Gerry Paige Smith

Find tips for helping your little one “sleep like a baby”.

Departments

On The Cover

Bits and Pieces

Alex Jackson is one year old and son to Mark and Andrea Jackson. Alex loves to laugh and can charm anyone with his smile! He enjoys “reading” books and using his newly found walking skills to continually surprise Mom and Dad with what he can get into in the blink of an eye! Also high up on his list of favorites: fingerpainting, swinging & sliding at the playground, and scarfing down Cheerios.

School Bits 56

Family Calendar 64

Movie Reviews

www.facebook.com/easternshoreparentsmagazine

Publisher’sNote My girls love to talk about what they were like as babies. They like to hear who walked first, who cried the most, what their first word was and more. I always make sure it is even by telling one they walked the soonest, one they talked the soonest and one they slept through the night first. While they may argue over which category is best to be “first” in, we parents know sleeping through the night is pretty high on the list. With our first child I read all the books and had a sleep plan in place. Brad and I had decided she was to sleep only in her crib. Sure, we would soothe her before she went to sleep, but she was under no circumstances to fall asleep while rocking, nursing, etc. (I wish this were radio so you could hear me giggling at my naïve self). Then our sweet daughter arrived. She was perfect. She fed beautifully, slept great the first week…we had this in the bag. Around day 10 we started getting our first dose of what life was REALLY like with a newborn. It was almost as if she had been adjusting the first ten days and on day 10 she decided to let us know she was here. She would cry off and on all day, even when fed, dry and rested. It was a different cry and it pained me to not be able to console her. Nothing we did could soothe her. We threw everything we read out the window and were willing to try anything to help her. We took her to doctors and they said it was colic. Everyone gave us tons of opinions of what we should do. So I cut dairy, and anything else I could think of, out of my diet, we drove her around in the car, we cut all stimulation, we tried white noise, we tried infant massage. You name it, we tried it. The day came when I was mentally and physically exhausted and needed a shower really bad! I seized the opportunity while she was sitting quietly in her bouncy seat. It was a beautiful moment, a peaceful newborn and a hot shower. What more could a new mom want? As I got out she started “the cry”. Brad walked in to check on her so I could dry my hair. As soon as the dryer came on, a miracle happened. She stopped crying! She looked peaceful again then drifted off to sleep. We immediately made a CD of the hair dryer noise to play when necessary and eventually mastered the tone with our mouths. Brad and I both can do a pretty good Conair impression in a pinch. When it comes to sleeping babies, each one is different. Or at least my three were. I do recommend you do your research and have a plan that makes sense to you. One good resource is this month’s article Hello Baby, Goodbye Sleep, by Malia Jacobson. Malia provides wonderful tips from her interviews with pediatricians, authors and sleep therapists. Another challenge new parents face is how siblings may react to a new brother or sister. Small Person, Big Changes: Encouraging Children Through a New Sibling Transition has some wonderful points to consider when introducing a new member of the family. In celebration of all the new parents and parents-to-be we have also included a complete directory of local resources in our New & Expectant Parents Guide on page 46. Here you will find parenting classes, places to purchase baby furniture, a list of doctors, plus other businesses and services new parents may be looking for. Also, don’t forget to check out the Mardi Gras Calendar in the Bits ‘N Pieces section of the magazine! If you are new to the area, Mardi Gras in Baldwin County is a family friendly celebration so take the whole family out to the local parades and Laissez les bons temps rouler! P.S. Next month is our much anticipated Summer Camp Issue! If you or someone you know is having a summer camp, email us by February 14th!

Lynn

lynn@easternshoreparents.com

Eastern Shore Parents I February 2014

The Eastern Shore’s Foremost Parenting Source

Eastern Shore Parents Magazine, is founded on the principle that parenting is an exciting, diverse, challenging, and significant, role in our community. Eastern Shore Parents Magazine is a community advocate for families and the parenting process.

Publisher Lynn Knighton lynn@easternshoreparents.com Editor DeAnne Watson deanne@easternshoreparents.com Associate Editor Kelly Watson Contributing Writers Kelly Bartlett Laura Handey Malia Jacobson Dave Ramsey Stephanie Roberst, MS, BCBA John Rosemond Dr. Robert L. Rux, M.D. Gerry Paige Smith

Cover Photography Janel Gay www.janelgayphotography.com President Jason Watson jason@easternshoreparents.com

Advertising Opportunities Lynn Knighton Leslie Hall Tracie Calvert ads@easternshoreparents.com (251) 929-2099 Ad Design Tim Welch

Visit us online at www.easternshoreparents.com Eastern Shore Parents magazine is published monthly by KeepSharing, LLC. Mailing address: P.O. Box 374, Montrose, Alabama, 36559. The phone number for voice and fax is (251) 929-2099. Eastern Shore Parents is copyrighted 2014 by KeepSharing LLC. All rights reserved. Reproduction in whole or part without written permission is prohibited. Opinions expressed in Eastern Shore Parents magazine are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the view of the owners, nor do they constitute an endorsement of products and services herein.

www.easternshoreparents.com

Third timeâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s the charm!

ource

on rse, nity. nity ss.

. take d e t c s t hr e t o r p e e do s y l l u f es of the H P V vacc ine to be HPV causes cervical cancer and many other cancers in men and women. The HPV vaccine is recommended for boys and girls at age 11-12 to prevent cancers and diseases later in life. For those not yet vaccinated, the vaccine is recommended through age 21 for boys and age 26 for girls. The ADPH encourages you to pair the first dose of the HPV vaccine with the required 6th grade vaccinations (TDAP/Meningococcal) The vaccine is available at ALL County Health Departments at little or no cost to children ages 9 to 18. Dependents up to age 26 may be covered by their parentsâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; insurance.

Get in the loop and learn about the HP V vaccine!

y by , r

/CANCERCONTROL

facebook.com/ALCompCancerCoalition

in d. ne are view t of

www.facebook.com/easternshoreparentsmagazine

LivingWithChildren by John Rosemond

Establish Good Eating Habits at a Young Age Q: Our son is two-and-one-half and for the most part eats very well. We make up his plate for each meal and he has to eat what is on his plate, or at least try each food on the plate before he can get more of something that he really likes. We also make sure that he remains seated during the entire meal. Sometimes he will request fruit before he is finished with his dinner. We tell him he first has to finish what’s on his plate. Should we be forcing him to eat his main meal before being able to have fruit or a cookie?

A: It sounds like he’s doing reasonably to very well as things now stand, which means you’re doing a good job of helping him establish good, pro-social eating habits. You’re obviously not allowing him to dictate what he eats, which is what produces the so-called “picky eater”—really nothing more than a

Eastern Shore Parents I February 2014

child who has been given power over food choices. Someone recently asked me what the harm is of giving a toddler food he likes and will readily eat at mealtimes. My answer was that a young child is no more capable of making good choices about food than he is of making a good choice of playthings. Given the choice in either category, a child will choose based on what appeals to his tongue or his eyes. As such, he will choose junk, which is why so many of today’s kids (where food is concerned) are overweight and have health issues related to their diets and (where playthings are concerned) have great difficulty entertaining themselves. Simply put, if children made good choices, parents would be unnecessary. It is also good manners to eat what you are served, especially if you are a guest at someone else’s table. Turning up one’s nose at a certain food is insulting to

the person who took time to prepare it. My wife and I used to tell our kids that they had to eat what was on their plates because they were in training to be good guests in other people’s homes. The only exception to that, of course, is when the child has a food allergy, in which case the host should be informed in advance. “I don’t like it” was not an acceptable excuse at our table. We told our kids that they could eat what they chose when they were old enough to prepare their own meals. Before they had turned double-digits, they were eating sushi. It is not “forcing” to use your son’s fondness for fruit as incentive to eat what you serve as his main meal. It’s obviously time to tell him about the Universal, Intergalactic Rule of Fruit: Fruit is what we eat when we’ve finished what’s on our plate. Or, as Pink Floyd put it, “If you don’t eat yer meat, you can’t have any pudding!” (If you’re familiar with the song “Another Brick in the Wall,” you know that’s as far as the analogy extends.) Family psychologist John Rosemond answers parents’ questions on his website at www.rosemond.com.

www.easternshoreparents.com

y ad

f ck

www.facebook.com/easternshoreparentsmagazine

Bay Minette Youth Baseball League Registration

Registration kicks off Jan. 25 for the spring season of Bay Minette Youth Baseball. Registration will be held at Halliday Park on these dates: 9 a.m. to noon Jan. 25, Feb. 1, 18, 15 and 22; and 6 to 8 p.m., Feb. 18 and 25. Tryouts will be held 11:30 a.m. to 5:30 p.m. Feb. 15 and 22 and from 6:30 to 8 p.m. Feb. 25. Non-refundable registration fees are $75 for first child and $40 for each additional child. For more information on the league or registration, visit the website at www.bmyb.org or the league’s Facebook page.

BBQ & Blues Cook-Off Seeks Cook Teams and Crafters

The South Baldwin Chamber Foundation’s Sixth Annual BBQ & Blues Cook-Off will be held 10 a.m. to 6 p.m. Saturday, March 15 at Heritage Park in Foley. Festival goers will enjoy award-winning barbecue, popular blues bands, craft and retail vendors, children’s activities and silent auction bidding. Admission is $10. The cooking competition is open to everyone with the $100 entry fee covering all cooking categories and up to six team members. Interested cook teams can find the entry form and competition rules on the South Baldwin Chamber of Commerce website under Major Events/BBQ & Blues. Competition categories are Chicken, Ribs, Boston Butts, Sauce and Anything “Butt” including exotic items, seafood and desserts. All proceeds benefit the South Baldwin Chamber Foundation which supports local schools through programs and partnerships that enrich education, develop leadership and better the community. For more information, visit southbaldwinchamber.com or call 251-943-5520.

62nd Annual Arts & Crafts Festival in Fairhope Slated for March 14-16

The Eastern Shore Chamber of Commerce proudly announces the 62nd Annual Arts & Crafts Festival in Fairhope, which is scheduled for March 14, 15 & 16. Festival hours are 10 a.m. - 5 p.m. daily and there is no admission charge. Over 230 exhibitors from throughout the nation will bring their best works to show and sell at this prestigious juried show. Live entertainment will be going on throughout the three-day event and unique cuisine will be served up in the food court. It all takes place on the streets of beautiful downtown Fairhope. BRATS (Baldwin County Area Transportation System) will offer a shuttle service from the Plantation Pointe Shopping Center, Ecor Rouge Place Center and Eastern Shore Village Center. Parking is free. The shuttle ride costs only $2 one way. Valet parking for bicycles will be behind the Fairhope Museum of History. Handicapped parking will be in the Municipal Parking lot on Bancroft. For more information visit website www.eschamber.com/artscrafts.

ESMA Kicks Off Annual King Cake Drive

The Eastern Shore Medical Alliance is selling Randazzo King Cakes from the Camellia Bakery in New Orleans. All proceeds benefit the Alabama Free Clinic. No question, hands down it’s the best king cake in Louisiana. They are fresh, gooey and ohso-delectable. The cream cheese cakes must be pre-ordered prior to Wednesday, February 12th. The cost per cake is $25 and payments should be sent to ESMA, P. O. Box 322, Montrose, AL 36559-0322. A name, email address and phone number should be included with the order. Pickup will be in the lobby of Thomas Hospital, 750 Morphy Avenue in Fairhope on Monday, February 17th and Tuesday, February 18th from 8 a.m. to 4:30 p.m. each day. Eastern Shore Parents I February 2014

Mobile Chocolate Festival Set for Saturday, March 15th

The 6th Annual Mobile Chocolate Festival will be held at the Abba Shrine Center on Saturday March 15, from 10:00 a.m. until 4:00 p.m., with all proceeds to benefit Penelope House. The Festival will feature vendors selling and offering samples of their chocolate-related products. Also featured: Children’s Area; Demonstration Stage; Chocolate Challenge featuring professionals, amateurs, and youth divisions; Project Yum Way where students and aspiring designers participate in a fashion display of chocolate inspired fashions made from chocolate candy wrappers; Cupcake Booth, Chocolate Martini tasting and more. Admission is free for children 13 & under; Seniors 65 & above $2.00; General admission $3.00. Parking is free. Call for more details (251-3422809), like Mobile Chocolate Festival on facebook, and/or visit www. mobilechocolatefestival.com. 6

www.easternshoreparents.com

cr a B me s

l. , 0 le e he

ark n

43rd Annual National Shrimp Festival Announces Poster Contest

The Coastal Alabama Business Chamber is now accepting poster designs for the 43rd Annual National Shrimp Festival. Artwork that is submitted must incorporate a certain criteria. Please visit the Shrimp Festival website, www.myshrimpfest.com, for a list of rules and design criteria. The winning poster will become the property of the Coastal Alabama Business Chamber, and will be the official artwork for the Annual National Shrimp Festival merchandise at the festival. The winning artist will receive a cash award of $1,000. You can submit artwork at the Chamber of Commerce office, 3150 Gulf Shores Pkwy, Gulf Shores. Deadline to submit artwork will be Friday, March 7, 2014. For more information please contact Lauren Turner at (251) 968-4237 or lauren@mygulfcoastchamber.com .

Julian Toha, Pianist, in Concert in Fairhope

Julian Toha has been studying piano performance at the Royal College of Music in London, England. He is currently on tour of the United States. The Baldwin County Music Teachers Association is hosting one of his many performances at Giddons Auditorium at Faulkner State Community College - Fairhope, Saturday evening, February 8, at 7:00 PM. This is a public performance on the new piano acquired last summer for concert use. There will be a free-will offering taken at the door. Julian is a native of Florida who studied at Florida State University graduating in 2010. Mounting a major concert tour in 2010, Julian performed in Spain, France and Germany. He has performed with the Ars Flores Orchestra, Florida State Symphony Orchestra and the Culver City Orchestra in California. Julian's unique performances include a multi-media video with live classical piano music. Giddon's Auditorium is a perfect venue for such a concert. Please attend this inspiring concert given by a passionate performer who seeks to inspire and nurture creativity through the fusion of concert music, technology and visual arts. For further information please contact, Jeanne O'Connell, 251-928-2055 or www.bcmta.com.

HOW MUCH IS YOUR HOME WORTH?

re y.

Request a FREE home valuation report from a REALTORÂŽ at BellatorAL.com/Sell

For Bellator agents, real estate is a mission. We work diligently to cover every detail until your purchase or sale is complete. If youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re looking for integrity and support in your next venture, we stand ready for your call.

www.facebook.com/easternshoreparentsmagazine

C McCord & Rahazhanana Awarded “Employee of the Year” Title at the Original Oyster House

At the annual Original Oyster House Christmas parties celebrated in December, the Gulf Shores and causeway restaurants recognized their valued employees and selected the top two staff members from each restaurant’s employee-of-the-month pool. Ronald McCord of the Gulf Shores location and Alena Rahazhanana of the Mobile causeway location were named as the 2013 Employees of the Year. “It really wasn’t a hard choice this year as Ronald is a standout employee and daily went out of his way to help everyone, no matter if it was his job or not. His outstanding service and teamwork put him in a category all his own. Ronald has such a great attitude and willingness to serve, always with a smile on his face,” recounted Allen Hastings, general manager of Original Oyster House in Gulf Shores. “Alena has been one of our best servers at the Original Oyster House for a long time. Alena receives excellent ratings regularly on her comment cards and is always willing to pick up shifts when needed. She does such a great job with banquets and private parties,” explained Jim Harrison, general manager of the Original Oyster House in Mobile. Pictured above, from left at the Original Oyster House on the Causeway Annual Christmas Party are Jim Harrison, general manager, Alena Rahazhanana, employee of the year and Toby Rogers, assistant general manager. Pictured from left at the Original Oyster House in Gulf Shores Annual Christmas Party are Allen Hastings, general manager; Ronald McCord, employee of the year, holding his son Brantley; and Bud Morris, assistant general manager.

Eastern Shore Parents I February 2014

www.easternshoreparents.com

B an b o w As C $

me p

nd e of

Baldwin County’s Largest Chili Cook-off Sets February Date Ecumenical Ministries 14th annual chili cook-off is set for Saturday, February 15, 11:30 a.m. – 2:00 p.m. at Oak Hollow Farm. The fundraiser, popular with children and families, will feature the lively music of Blind Dog Mike and the Howlers, colorful inflatables and the balloon man for the young crowd, a bucking bronco for courageous participants, a huge variety of homemade desserts for sale, a motorcycle ride with Brothers of the Craft Master Mason Motorcycle Association and a chance to sample some of Baldwin County’s best chili. General admission tickets are $5 for children and $10 for adults and are available at EMI offices in Fairhope and Foley. They can also be purchased at the gate. A $30 ticket will provide admission and a pottery bowl provided by one of a variety of local potters. All proceeds benefit EMI’s programs which assist Baldwin County neighbors facing situations such as a job loss, a medical emergency, a house fire or other life-altering problems. For more information about participation as a chili team or sponsor, call 251-928-3430 in Fairhope or 251-943-3445 in Foley.

Chilly Run and Chili Cook-Off Feb. 22

The Bay Minette Rotary Club and Heritage Junior Women’s Club will again join forces to put on fundraisers for the North Baldwin Coalition for Excellence in Education. The events will be held Feb. 22 at the Community Kids Park in Bay Minette. The Rotary Club’s sixth annual “Chilly Run” will begin at 9 a.m. for the 5K run/race walk and 10 a.m. for the 1-mile fun run. The chili cook-off sponsored by HJWC will be from 10 a.m. to 1 p.m. Registration for the Chilly Run is $15 for students and $20 for adults until Feb. 14. After that date, the price is $20 and $25 respectively. Pre-registered runners are guaranteed a T-shirt and all others will be given out on first-come, first-served basis. Participants will also receive one ticket to the chili cook-off. Fruits, snacks and beverages will also be provided. Applications are available at the North Baldwin Fitness Center, Bay Minette City Hall, from Rotary Club members or by emailing Karmen Still at Karmen@sfmco. com. For more details, call Still at 251-421-3073. The HJWC Chili Cook-off will feature several prizes including best overall chili, best non-chili chili, hottest chili, crowd favorite and other categories. Booths are $25 and entrants must provide at least four gallons of chili. Admission tickets are $5 to sample chili. To register a team, or other information, call Charebi Jones at 251-709-0649 or Ashley Jones at 251-937-5665. The team from Volkert & Associates used a Duck Dynasty theme for its entry in the 2013 Chili Cook-Off.

www.facebook.com/easternshoreparentsmagazine

Baldwin County Mardi Gras Schedule Friday, February 21 6:45 p.m. - Apollo's Mystic Ladies (Daphne) Saturday, February 22 6:45 p.m. - Knights of Ecor Rouge (Fairhope) Sunday, February 23 2:30 p.m. - Mystic Mutts of Revelry Parade (Fairhope) Friday, February 28 6:30 p.m. - Mystical Order of Mirams (Orange Beach) 6:45 p.m. - Maids of Jubilee (Fairhope)

Saturday, March 1 11:00 a.m. - Foley parade (Foley) 12:00 p.m. - Mystic Revelers (Bay Minette) 2:00 p.m. - Krewe of Mullet Mates (Mullet Point) 5:30 p.m. - Mystics of Pleasure (Orange Beach) 6:45 p.m. - Shadow Barons (Daphne)

Go inc

Sunday, March 2 2:29 p.m. - Loyal Order of the Firetruck (Daphne)

c is Fe

Monday, March 3 6:45 p.m. - Order of Mystic Magnolias (Fairhope) Tuesday, March 4 10:00 a.m. - Gulf Shores Mardi Gras Association (Gulf Shores) 2:00 p.m. - Orange Beach Parade (Orange Beach)

0000067769-01

New friends are now best friends. New experiences are now the best times ever. No wonder it’s so easy to tell others about it and include them in the fun.

Welcome to Riverview Camp for Girls!

We’ve do put Itogether everything you’re looking for in a perfect“I saw camp onemy of Why choose Riverview each summer? mysetting! first river Recognized on a mountain,as I rode Golf,times Dance, Dance, Outdoor Sports, Soccer,use Beach Volleyball, Basketball, “As go,Stomp it was one of the BEST.”Skills AndClass, what child couldn’t some of that these days?

Riverview Reﬁnement, Program, Campﬁres night,Recognized optional trips and more! We’ve put together everythingCIT you’re looking for in a perfect every camp setting! as one of the Southeast’s best all-around summer camps for girls, Riverview is an oasis of fun, friends and happiness. Spring and Fall &available 2 week Sessions ages to 16... Mother-Daughter Weekends1are also! Registeredfor Nurses and6 Physician on Staff. Entire full-summer staff is First Aid andand CPRFall Certified. Camper/Counselor Ratio 5:1 Spring Mother-Daughter Weekends...

waiting lists start early...sign up soon!... Waitingwww.riverviewcamp.com! lists start early...sign up soon!... 1

Call for FREE DVD and catalog 1-800-882-0722 Accredited by American Camping Association • Members of Christian Camping International

D RAMA

www.riverviewcamp.com

Only 1 /Mountain 2 hours from Huntsville Located on top of Lookout in Mentone, AL. Only a 5 hr drive.

AND

Dr. Larry & Susan Hooks, Owners/Directors • Donna Bares,Asst. Director

1 & 2Week Sessions for Ages 6-16

C RAFTS • C HORUS

first I had campfires every night. Icamps felt close to God. giggled a lot is with friends and counselors. time flew by! thehorse. Southeast’s best all-around for girls,IRiverview annew oasis of fun, friends andThe happiness... I Exciting felt safe and secure. Iinclude: gained confidence in myselfPool,Tennis, through the world around me.” activities Riding, Heated Canoeing, Ropes Course, Climbing Tower,

AND

FLAG TWIRLING • CHEERLEADING • RIFLERY • ARCHERY • TRIP DAY • GOLF

We don’t wonder anymore how it happened, that one summer could bring such happy memories.

B ASKETBALL • S OCCER • A RTS

• H ORSEBACK R IDING • S WIMMING • T ENNIS • C ANOEING • D ANCE • A EROBICS • G YMNASTICS • B EACH V OLLEYBALL •

• R OPES C OURSE • C LIMBING T OWER • O UTDOOR L IVING S KILLS • C AMPFIRE F UN • C OUNSELOR -I N -T RAINING •

Eastern Shore Parents I February 2014

www.easternshoreparents.com

Orange Beach Seafood Festival to Be Held February 22nd

The Orange Beach Sports Association (OBSA) is pleased to announce the 22nd Annual Orange Beach Seafood Festival is set for February 22, 10 a.m. - 4 p.m. This festival is the Association's major fundraiser to support sports-related activities in our community, specifically youth baseball, softball and T-Ball. Proceeds are used to purchase uniforms, equipment, insurance, and pay for expenses of officials and sponsor clinics. The Festival offers a full day of delicious food, arts & crafts vendors and music for the whole family. This is an alcohol-free event. The festival includes a silent auction, car show featuring antique, classic & hot rod vehicles, a Kids Zone with climbing wall, inflatables & games and a children's performance pavilion.

Beloved Women’s Event to Celebrate Adoptions

Lifeline Children’s Services exists to provide a hope and a future through the Gospel to children around the world by providing opportunities to care for orphans including international and domestic adoption, foster care, birth mother counseling, and caring for the (un)adopted. Beloved is Lifeline’s annual Women’s Event. Beloved is a night for women to come together for fellowship and worship and to hear sweet stories of how God is changing hearts through adoption. This year Beloved will take place on Friday, February 7th at Daphne United Methodist Church in the Community Life Center at 2401 Main St, Daphne. The event will begin at 6 p.m. and will end at 8 p.m. We will hear from several women in our area who have been impacted by adoption, and local musician, Lily Bray, will lead us in worship. There will also be a small market featuring handcrafted items to support local adoptions and international orphan care. Desserts and coffee will be served. Tickets are $10 and can be purchased atlifelinechild.org/event/beloved-a-womens-event-in-southalabama/. For questions, please contact Maggie Haag at 251-423-5162.

B ASKETBALL • S OCCER • A RTS

•

You picked the name. Be Prepared. Prepared the nursery. You even put locks on ® Call Alfa . all the drawers and

AND

cabinets. But do you have a plan for their future if you’re not around? With Alfa® life insurance, you can make sure your loved ones are taken care of — no matter what happens. For a plan built just for you, call Alfa®.

C RAFTS • C HORUS

Morgan Bradley 2510 Main St. Daphne, AL 36526

(251) 626-3383

AND

mbradley@alfains.com

D RAMA

•

AUTO • HOME • LIFE www.AlfaInsurance.com AO12

www.facebook.com/easternshoreparentsmagazine

KidsHealthWatch

Sponsored by Magnolia Springs Pediatrics

Childhood Vision Problems So, last week, I had a nice little seven year old come into the office and we were talking about all kinds of things—Christmas, playing baseball, his annoying little sister—you know, typical seven year old stuff. Well the conversation came back to his school performance and a sudden drop-off in his grades. For a few months, he had been doing well, but was having more and more difficulty. He was also having some headaches after school and had requested to move to the front of the classroom himself so he could “hear better.” I asked him if he could see clearly and he said “Yeah, why?” So I asked him to read a passage in a magazine, and he did, but was squinting the whole time. I asked him why he was squinting and he said, “I’m not!” So, we tested his vision, and of course, he was blind as a bat. After thinking about our experience, it was amazing to me that he was able to deal with his vision problems and at the same time didn’t even know he was doing it! Today, we will talk about common vision issues with infants and kids, what to look for, and how to address it. Most parents think that childhood vision issues are only limited to glasses when kids get older, but in fact, there are lots of different eye issues that can arise, even on the first day of life! In the nursery, your child’s doctor will examine his or her eyes to with a special tool called an ophthalmoscope to see if there is a red reflection in the back of their eyes. This

Eastern Shore Parents I February 2014

screens for major newborn eye issues and is an important first step. In addition, at birth and throughout the first few months of life, the doctor will look for any alignment abnormalities. Now, almost all babies in the first few months of life will have temporary eye crossing or lazy eyes. As long as it’s temporary, it’s OK. Basically, the eye muscles are a little weak at birth and the infants don’t have great control over them all the time. Sometimes, the infants will have a prolonged period of eye weakness that is followed closely by the physician and if not improving, are referred to a pediatric ophthalmologist. This is a specialty eye doctor who can help assess eye function and improve eye control with medicine or even a patch. Sometimes, if the eye cannot be aligned, for vision and cosmetic issues, the infant might need surgery. As the child gets around three years old, other screening tests are used to measure acuity and around five, they start formal eye tests. So, what can you as a parent look for to make sure your child‘s eyes are doing ok? As an infant, the first things to look for around 6-8 weeks of life are when your child looks at you and smiles! Next, be sure that they track you or objects equally with both eyes across the room. As they get older, look out for chronic eye redness and/or eye rubbing and itching. Look for eyelid drooping, chronic tearing, or eye drainage. When the kids hit school age, watch for signs like frequent eye squinting while

reading, headaches after school, light sensitivity, and/or sudden decline in grades. One of the more common issues that arises in newborns is a goopy eye. Despite what every daycare says, it’s most likely not pink eye! Eye drainage in the newborn period is usually from an obstructed tear duct. Basically, since most newborns don’t make tears, the duct isn’t flushed out very well and can get some dried gunk in it. So then, the tear duct tries to flush out the gunk by making eye snot—that’s right, eye snot to flush out the dried gunk. The move is to help flush out the gunk by taking a baby washcloth and running it under warm water and then rubbing the tear duct area. That area is a little hump on the lower eyelid near the corner. You can do this three or four times a day until it’s resolved. Sometimes, the obstruction can lead to infection, so if it doesn’t resolve within a day or two, or gets red and worse, then contact your healthcare provider. Talk to your doctor and check out the resources at aap.org about your child’s vision. And remember, if your child needs glasses, let them pick out the frame themselves. They will be much more likely to wear them! Robert L. Rux, M.D. is a Board Certified Pediatrician at Magnolia Springs Pediatrics. Originally from Mobile, he attended medical school at The University of Alabama School of Medicine (UAB) and completed residency at The Children’s Hospital of Alabama (UAB). He is married to Jaime and has three children, Adler, Walker and Mary McAtee.

www.easternshoreparents.com

ity,

hat e!

’t

. it’s d y our

r ds es.

ol n’s

www.facebook.com/easternshoreparentsmagazine

Autauga County SchoolsHigh School FBLA Holds Fairhope Collects Food for Needy

Recently the students at Fairhope High School collected a whopping 2,733 cans during their Annual FBLA (Future Business Leaders of America) Canned Food Drive. The cans were packed and delivered to the local food pantry Ecumenical Ministries in downtown Fairhope for families in need. Shown loading the cans for delivery – Candace Wilson, Daniel Meister, Will Baker, Chelsea Rogers, Madaline Huhn, & Miranda Underwood.

Marietta Johnson School Students Attend Filming of Movie in Fairhope

The students at the Marietta Johnson School of Organic Education were invited to take a tour of the site where the movie “Somnia”, was being filmed in Fairhope. After the tour, which was led by the director, Fairhope native Scott Lumpkin, the students were invited to watch a section of the filming that was being shot on the street located beside the school. It was a wonderful learning experience and the students realized just how much time goes into filming a movie.

Silverhill Elementary School Students of the Month

Silverhill Elementary School’s January students of the month are being recognized for their honesty. Pictured in no particular order are: Anna Katherine Guarisco, Brody Holland, Luke Byrd, Jade Blouin, Mallory Rice, Daylynne Johnson, Anikin Vance, Austin Harris, Carlos Jerkins, Harley Janes, River Foley, Cason White, Sean Wilson, Allen Lores, Jake Pope, Crystal Miller, Eli Godfrey, Lily Glassford, Julia Ellis and Elijah Rabren. Not pictured are Shiloh Bishop and Hunter Lawrence.

Robertsdale Elementary Honor Society Wraps Up Donation Drive

The Robertsdale Elementary Golden Cubs, a chapter of the National Elementary Honor Society, wrapped up a donation drive to benefit The Lighthouse Shelter just before Christmas. The shelter’s occupants and staff will benefit from hundreds of personal items and nearly 1000 food items collected during the drive. Pictured are (l to r) chapter officers Grant Driver, Maggie Moore, Gillian Langham, and Camryn Lowery with Lighthouse Executive Director Joanne Sheils. Pictured in front of Ms. Sheils is first grade student Julissa Brown who made a personal cash donation to the shelter. Send School News and photos by the 8th of each month to: lynn@easternshoreparents.com. It’s FREE! Eastern Shore Parents I February 2014

www.easternshoreparents.com

w f wh B Pla

he es iel a

r e in r e, d er

Fairhope Elementary Collects Can Tabs for Ronald McDonald House Fairhope Elementary School has been collecting can tabs for children at the Ronald McDonald House. Pictured from left to right from Mrs. Brandi Corbett’s Kindergarten class are Libby Rogers, Jayden Smith and Ellie Boyer. The Ronald McDonald House helps so many families in need, and we want to say THANK YOU!

Bayshore Christian School Spelling Bee Winners

Bayshore Christian School held their annual spelling bee this month. The top three winners for the 2014 School Bee pictured from left to right are: First Place winner, who will represent Bayshore in the County Bee, 8th Grader - Alanna Wiest, Second Place, 6th Grade – Wes Cochran, and Third Place, 7th Grader – Aubrey Mund.

www.facebook.com/easternshoreparentsmagazine

Autauga CountySpend SchoolsFreezing Night Outdoors Baldwin County High School Students in Cardboard Boxes

Despite freezing temperatures, more than two dozen Baldwin County High School students braved the cold weather recently to shed light on the homeless community in the area. The school’s National Honor Society set up a “Cardboard City” on the school lawn and the members spent the night outdoors in cardboard boxes. NHS co-sponsor Judy Bridges said it was the annual Homelessness Awareness Lock-Out is always an eye-opening experience for the students. “The students learn a valuable lesson; they have a better understanding of what it means for a person to be homeless and develop more compassion for those individuals who have fallen on hard times and wind up living on the street,” she said. “It is sad to say, but this is a social problem that exists even in our county and town.” Throughout the night, students were able to go indoors to eat at a “soup kitchen” set up with food brought in by members. The students brought their own cardboard boxes and also built fires in barrels and fire pits to stay warm. BCHS senior Kate Harrison said her experience was life-changing. “What I learned most is that being homeless puts a lot of strain on the person and the body; the desperation I felt when I looked at my watch and saw it was only 9 p.m. and my night had only begun,” she said. “The one night I spent outside I was up most of the night looking at the stairs wondering how life would be if I was homeless. And the fact is the warmth of shelter also brings hope for the next day.” The students set up camp at 6 p.m. and stayed until 6 a.m. Saturday. “(Friday night) was the perfect setting for experience exposure to extreme weather conditions,” Bridges said, noting that temperatures dropped to the low 20s during the night. “We may have lost some sleep but we all learned some valuable lessons while strengthening the bonds of friendship.” The students also collected contributions from family and friends and those funds will be donated to a local service organization that assists the homeless. Pictured, O’Meika Robinson, left, and Diamond Taylor try to stay warm in their cardboard boxes.

I’m Back!

Feed an alligator! Call for details.

See over 300 alligators up close! Nature walk on elevated boardwalk. View alligator feedings. Field Trips/Birthday Parties available. Fun for the entire family!

Open beginning February 5th!

www.gatoralleyfarm.com Eastern Shore Parents I February 2014

Safe for kids! 19950 Hwy 71 • Summerdale, AL

1-866-99-GATOR www.easternshoreparents.com

A o pr w Fi Pi Se

ss ard

ss ts ra ho d

ir m.

me ll

Fort Morgan Area Restaurants Hold Toy Drive for Robertsdale Elementary Students

Two Fort Morgan area restaurants, Tacky Jackâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s 2 and Behind the Pines, held toy drives to benefit needy students at Robertsdale Elementary School. Between them, the patrons of the two establishments donated approximately 150 toys including 10 bicycles! Pictured with the donations are principal Faye Sheppard, Dave Delatte who helped sponsor the drive, and school counselors Roxanne Delatte and Serena Forrest who coordinated the donations.

McGill-Toolen Catholic Boy's Soccer Team Volunteers for First Light Marathon

All of the members of the boy's soccer program manned the water stations at the First Light Marathon. Pictured here are the Seniors on the Varsity Team.

Rockwell Elementary's Spelling Bee Winners

Congratulations to Rockwell Elementary â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Spelling bee winner CJ Bockhold - on the right and runner-up Jack Patterson-on the left.

Gulf Shores Elementary 6th Grade Footprint

Gulf Shores Elementary School 6th grader, Kelsey Cromell, shows her footprint for the 6th grade hall display as part of their Building Community project, Awesome Starts with Me. 17

www.facebook.com/easternshoreparentsmagazine

Autauga County Schools Orange Beach Elementary Peer Helpers Hold “Toys for Tots” Drive

Orange Beach Elementary’s Red Ribbon service project, "Toys for Tots," inspired by Kimberly Hollis, was carried out by the school’s Red Ribbon Committee. Pictured from left to right are Wes Lartigue, Brooke White, Adam Stewart, Tatum Keel, Austin Stewart, and Kylee Kubat, the Orange Beach Elementary Red Ribbon Leadership Representative. These students are also Peer Helpers at OBES.

Fairhope Middle School GeoBee Winner

Ryan Young, an 8th grade Fairhope Middle School student, won the school-level National Geographic Bee competition. This portion of the 26th annual competition requires students to answer oral questions on geography. Ryan is qualified to compete state-wide by taking a written exam. All winners are eligible to win the national championship and its first place scholarship prize. Wilson Bullington, an 8th grade student, placed second in the event. Pictured, in no particular order, are all participants: Young, Bullington, Evans Smith, Macray Cook, Tanner Deeds, Collier Firlus, Truitt Williams, Sam Jaquess, Smith Hendricks, and Ben Herzog.

Eastern Shore Parents I February 2014

www.easternshoreparents.com

Fif

ys e t m

Gulf Shores Elementary Teacher of the Year

Katie Nettles, 4th grade teacher at Gulf Shores Elementary School, was selected by her peers as the GSES Teacher of the Year. Mrs. Nettles has been a teacher at GSES for five years. She has taught all grades between 2nd and 5th for a total of nine years of experience. She has been instrumental in leading our school to a successful implementation of project based learning. She earned her degree from the University of South Alabama and is currently working on her Master’s degree in Educational Technology. Mrs. Nettles is also very excited about her newest contribution to Gulf Shores Elementary School-- she has started a Random Acts of Kindness Club for 3rd through 6th graders. They are focusing on spreading kindness whenever and wherever to cultivate a positive school and community culture. They will be volunteering at the Ronald McDonald House this spring. Most recently, she was selected by Apple Corporation to help develop a video of best practices for classrooms using project based learning. She will work in Cupertino, California for a week with Apple instructional experts! Congratulations Mrs. Nettles! Pictured: 4th graders Jacob Rush, Case Wanninger, Colton King, Julia Bratton, and Hannah Marsh are proud of their teacher, Mrs. Nettles.

Josh Foster Wins 2014 Bayside Academy Spelling Bee

The 2014 Bayside Academy Spelling Bee took place on January 14, 2014, with sixth-grader Josh Foster winning first place when he spelled the word “monochrome.” Fifteen students from grades four through eight competed in the spelling bee. Sixth-grader Kaleigh Phillips was the runner-up. Other students finishing in the top five were Chris Houston (eighth grade), Yuki Ou (sixth grade) and Walker Watson (fourth grade). Because Josh Foster has a scheduling conflict, runner-up Kaleigh Phillips will represent Bayside at the Baldwin County Spelling Bee, scheduled to occur at 4 p.m. on Thursday, February 6, at the Loxley Civic Center. The winner of the Baldwin County Spelling Bee will compete in the Alabama Spelling Bee, scheduled for March 8, 2014, at Vestavia Hills High School in Vestavia Hills, Alabama.

Types of Evaluations Offered: Learning Problems Anxiety Disorders Mood Disorders ADHD Dr. Murphree is a licensed Clinical Psychologist who specializes in working with children and adolescents.

Abuse/Trauma Depressive Disorders Behavioral Disorders Autistic Spectrum Disorders Intellectual Functioning

East Bay Psychiatry and Associates (251) 928-4750 eastbaypsych@att.net Accepting Aetna, All Kids, American Behavioral, Blue Advantage, Blue Cross Blue Shield of Alabama, Cigna, Compsych, Magellan, Medicaid, Medicare, MHCA, State EIB, United Behavioral Health, Value Options

chrismurphree.org 19

www.facebook.com/easternshoreparentsmagazine

Autauga County Schools Congratulations to Top Speller

Silverhill Elementary School Bulldogs Against Bullying Poster Contest

T in

at Fairhope Middle School!

Silverhill Elementary Schoolâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Red Ribbon leader, Blakeley Laird, organized a poster contest to encourage students to stand against bullying. Pictured voting on the Bulldogs Against Bullying posters are: Harley Janes, Olivia McNeil, and Makayala Guzman.

Fairhope Middle School recently held its school-wide spelling bee. The school will be represented in the Baldwin County spelling bee for the second year in a row by first place winner, Wanda Schlumpf. Schlumpf, an 8th grade student, will compete in the county spelling bee at the Loxley Civic Center in February. Pictured, from left to right, are: Wanda Schlumpf and Kayla Whitney, 7th grade student and second place winner.

Th a tr

K S

c cr at gir

w o

*C a

c In t o

s po n le B4KMobile

Eastern Shore Parents I February 2014

www.easternshoreparents.com

Three Bay Minette Teachers Participate in GEMS-U Conference

Three Bay Minette Middle School teachers applied for one of 35 slots for a special training called GEMS-U (Girls Engaged in Math and Science University). All three teachers were chosen. Loni Judy, Melissa Stanford, and Kate Hood traveled to Lake Guntersville State Park to learn about resources and strategies, project-based learning, and GEMS. In this intensive two-day program, the teachers participated in hands-on activities such as water testing, rocket launching, and a marshmallow design challenge. As a culminating activity, they created an iMovie commercial to be used at Bay Minette Middle School to encourage girls to join the charter group of a campusbased GEMS club. Throughout the program, the teachers were able to collaborate and create a list of goals for the implementation of what they had learned. These include: *Creating a GEMS club at Bay Minette Middle School *Meeting with other Baldwin County middle schools to assist those schools in also creating a GEMS club *Meeting with area intermediate schools to garner interest in a Jr. GEMS club *Participation in NASCAR's Student Racing Challenge *Creating GEMS teams for the purpose of applying for and winning the opportunity to participate in the GEMS Expo at the McWane Science Center in Birmingham *Organizing a STEM family night *Training BMMS teachers more about collaboration for project-based learning. In deciding to participate in the program, the teachers said that while 49 percent of the work force is made up of women, females hold less than 20 percent of science-, math-, and technology-related positions. The teachers feel there is a real need to push girls at the middle school level into considering the viability of math and science types of studies. The video they created can be viewed here: http://youtube/F0Ay3gSIyO0.

Now accepting applications To learn more visit McGill McGill--Toolen.org

www.facebook.com/easternshoreparentsmagazine

Autauga County SchoolsKids for January Orange Beach Elementaryâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Terrific

Orange Beach Terrific Kids, Grades K through 3rd, for January 2014 (pictured left) were: Front Row (L to R): Thad Beckley, Nevin Claypool, Sydney Phillips, Emma Greene, Anna Presley Bullard, Ellie McGowan; Second Row (L to R): McDuffie Jackson, Dorian Price, Kale Robinson, Bryce Collins, Daniel Flowers, Shyla Jennings, Evan Kollin; Back Row (L to R): Jason Jackson, Kiwanis Representative, Donna Breland, Assistant Principal, Tommie Conaway, Interim

ne Cl D fol Fr Cl N

Principal. Orange Beach Terrific Kids, Grades 4th through 6th, for January 2014 (pictured right) were: Front Row (L to R): Lofton Crouse, Noah Kollin, Tony Papadelias, David Callaghan; Second Row (L to R): Emma Crawford, Sara Coker, Ralee Stewart, McKenna Gehr, Lydia Duncan; Back Row (L to R): Jason Jackson, Kiwanis Representative, Donna Breland, Assistant Principal, Tommie Conaway, Interim Principal.

Eastern Shore Parents I February 2014

s th

www.easternshoreparents.com

ve,

Bayshore Students Attend Alabama Policy Institute Banquet

This past November, Bayshore’s 10th grade students, along with parent and teacher chaperones, attended the Alabama Policy Institute (API) Birmingham banquet, with guest speaker Dr. Benjamin Carson. API is a nonpartisan, non-profit research and education organization dedicated to the preservation of free markets, limited government, and strong families, all of which are indispensable to a prosperous society. The students listened to Dr. Carson, a world renowned neurosurgeon from Johns Hopkins University and author of several books, including “America the Beautiful: Rediscovering What Made this Nation Great”, as he shared his inspirational and fascinating life story as well as his vision for our country. During the trip to Birmingham, the students had the opportunity to meet with API staff for a discussion on civics and government. After the API meeting, they visited with Evangel Classical Christian School in Alabaster and were treated to some ballroom dance lessons, and fun House activities with ECCS students.

Peer Helpers Welcome Rockwell's Newest Students

The peer helpers hosted a popcorn social to welcome Rockwell’s newest students. The Peer Helper Program is funded by the Jennifer Claire Moore Foundation and the popcorn was donated by Byron and Dorrell Krogen. Pictured are Rockwell’s new students along with the following peer helpers: Anna-Claire DeJong, Dawson Estes, Abby Fridge, Ashton Haygood, Lauryn Johnson, Tiffany Kapp, Anna Claire Kinsey, Hannah Lee, Olivia Lee, Ellie McHenry, Caroline Nelson, Hannah Richardson, Kenzie Sherrell, Ollie Sinclair, and Meghan Stein.

www.facebook.com/easternshoreparentsmagazine

th ag

Autauga County Schools Sea Cadets Learn Rugby

Dunlap Division cadets participated in a Cross-Decking Ceremony held aboard the USS Alabama on December 14, 2013. LC-2 Jonathan Ashcraft, LC-1 Dawson Farni, LC-1 Mitch Mai, and LC-2 Jakarl Moorer were honored for their service as league cadets and for their new journey as sea cadets. The Cross-Decking Ceremony is held twice a year by the Dunlap Division for those league cadets that have reached the age requirements for the sea cadet program. Following the ceremony, the cadets held their annual Christmas party and awards dinner. In other news, on Saturday, December 14, 2013, members of the Battleship Rugby Club (http://www.battleshiprugby.com/) gave an introductory course on Rookie Rugby to the members of Mobileâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Dunlap Division of the United States Naval Sea Cadets. Part of the Sea Cadets program is fitness. PT Instructor CD Williams is tasked with developing and teaching physical fitness to the cadets. Having learned and played rugby while being a member of the Battleship Rugby Club, Williams saw a great opportunity to introduce the cadets to Rookie Rugby. Sponsored by the Mobile Area Rugby Foundation (MARF) and taught by certified instructors, Rookie Rugby is a safe, non-contact, easy to play game for both boys and girls of all ages (http://usarugby.org/ rookie-rugby). This is a way to encourage fitness with an activity that is fun, while teaching teamwork and rewarding leadership among its participants. The cadets went through team building exercises that introduced them to the basics of rugby play. They were also introduced to the importance of communication and field positioning required to be a successful team. The program was completed with the cadets breaking up into two groups and playing about a 30 minute session of touch rugby. It allowed them to put what they learned about the basics of rugby into play and to experience the game first-hand. Rookie Rugby instructors guided the gameplay while allowing the cadets to progress at their own pace. The cadets enjoyed the program, as evidenced by the many smiling faces, and hope to be able to learn more about Rookie Rugby. Cadets learn seagoing skills aboard Navy and U.S. Coast Guard ships and shore activities that emphasize patriotism, courage, self-reliance, team work, leadership skills, accountability, military training that builds character, and for some, helping those transiting into a military career. They are even authorized by the Secretary of the Navy to wear Navy uniforms marked with the Sea Cadet Corps insignia. The program is open to

n for a pa als

h ad d se u

Eastern Shore Parents I February 2014

www.easternshoreparents.com

r e e

rty

p on es CD s. gby d /

o ng y r y. m y

the community for young men and women ages 10 to high school graduation with open enrollment year round. The Sea and League Cadets drill together one weekend a month at the United States Coast Guard Aviation Training Center in Mobile. Upon completion of training as a Sea Cadet, the young men and women cadets are under no obligation to enlist in any of the armed forces. However, if they decide to enlist, they are usually eligible to enlist at an advanced pay grade. Participation in the Sea Cadets is also a positive factor in the awarding of ROTC scholarships. If you or someone you know is interested in the Sea or League Cadet program and how they may join or by volunteering as an adult leader, visit our Division website www. drdunlap.org or our national website www. seacadets.org. You may also follow our local unit page on Facebook at www.facebook. com/DunlapDivison.

Silverhill Elementary Kindergartners Observe Nature

Silverhill Elementary School students in Mrs. Labak's kindergarten class are observing and recording objects in nature using their five senses. This is part of an ongoing project trying to answer the question: Why does it not snow in Silverhill?" Pictured: Brody Holland, Pravaye Wheeler, Kaitlin Bartush, Woods Greer.

Amusement Park Opens March 1st

Early Bird Special!

Season Passes Save big when you purchase by February 14th!

Call and get yours today! 251.948.2106

Need a place to party for your birthday?

The House of Bounce is the year-round headquarters for kids on the Gulf Coast!

Water Park Opens May 17th!

906 Gulf Shores Pkwy. Gulf Shores, AL (Hwy 59 S.)

251.948.2106 watervilleusa.com We will teach your child to be stronger, “bully-proof”, more confident, & better prepared D E T I UNATES to face the challenges of life! T

DO TAEKWON

Master Kim

E FRE l i Tr a s s a Cl

Classes start at $89/mo. DAPHNE 621-9933

“Pay As You Go”- No Contracts

BAY MINETTE 232-7598

Family Discount

SEMMES 786-5425

www.facebook.com/easternshoreparentsmagazine

Autauga County Schools Robertsdale Elementary Gulf Shores Elementary Red Ribbon Winner 4th Grade Math Games

Clockwise from top center: During Investigations Math, Emma Kelly, Catherine Hackett, Kiya Heptinstall and Genesis Mendez of Mrs. Laura Blackburn's 4th grade class at Gulf Shores Elementary School are playing a game called Multiple Card Turnover. This game reinforces the skills of identifying factors and multiples and understanding their relationship to one another in multiplication.

Sixth grade student Joel Groseclose is the 2013-2014 Red Ribbon Leadership Award winner for Robertsdale Elementary School. Joel, known especially for the consistent respectfulness and kindness he shows everyone, epitomizes the Six Pillars of Character: trustworthiness, respect, responsibility, fairness, caring, and citizenship. Joel is an inaugural member of the schoolâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s National Honor Society chapter and enjoys soccer, football, and baseball. He also plays the trumpet in the school band.. Joelâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s long term goal is to become a mechanical engineer. Pictured with Joel is school counselor Serena Forest.

N M

N t m

C M H N M

A E

ac in S d t K

be ch a an R t

te Eastern Shore Parents I February 2014

www.easternshoreparents.com

he al t.

Fairhope High School National Honor Society Makes Special Donation Recently at Fairhope High School, the National Honor Society donated $1000 to the American Red Cross. The designated money will go toward helping the survivors of the recent natural disaster in the Philippines. Pictured from left to right are: Bronwen Crowe, Anna Sheldon, Compton Latture, Lainy Lee, Sam Bailey (President of NHS), Linda Crowell, (Red Cross Representative), Mr. Jon Cardwell, principal of Fairhope High School, and Trent Baggerly. The National Honor Society sponsors are: Mrs. Krisha Smith, Mrs. Mary Stuart and Mrs. Susan Calhoun.

Kendrick Named Robertsdale Elementary Teacher of the Year A well-respected longtime Robertsdale Elementary educator has been selected as teacher of the year by her peers. During her 22 years at the school, third grade teacher Samantha Kendrick has taught students in the first, second, and third grades. Her academic background includes a degree in business management from Faulkner State, as well as bachelor and master degrees in elementary education from the University of South Alabama. Mrs. Kendrick and her husband, Robertsdale police chief Bradley Kendrick, have been married for 25 years and have two children: a 20-year-old daughter enrolled at the Florida Institute of Technology, and a 17-year-old son who is a junior at Robertsdale High. She is a member of the First Baptist Church of Robertsdale where she has served children as a Sunday school teacher, discipleship teacher, coordinator of childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s events,

and childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s choir director for over 20 years. Samantha Kendrick uses guidance, encouragement, and love to help children achieve their goals. She is pictured with students from her homeroom. 27

www.facebook.com/easternshoreparentsmagazine

Autauga County SchoolsCatholic School Visit Middle Schoolers from Saint Benedict the Mobile Museum of Art

se o

During their visit to the Mobile Museum of Art, Saint Benedict Catholic School middle schoolers created a compass rose demonstrating their understanding of radial symmetry. Pictured left to right front row: Janice Walley, counselor, Brock Rockstall, Ryan Hubbart, Jude Ewing, Cameron Blanchard, Eli Bryant. Back row left to right: Reilly Mapp, Bonnie Johnson, Michael Bingert, Jada Laws, Marley Prince, Mrs. Susanne Roman, sixth grade teacher, Elise Taylor, and Josie Madison.

Readers Treated to Game Party at Elberta Middle School

t C tri

Reading at Elberta Middle is so much fun! We just celebrated all students who were 1/2 way to their reading goal with a super fun game party. Mrs Dunlavy provided board games, cards, and some students brought games from home. The students played checkers, Monopoly, headbands, Legos, and even building dominos for knocking down.

th M the

Eastern Shore Parents I February 2014

www.easternshoreparents.com

eft l, t. ael ,

Fairhope Middle School Teacher of the Month

Huntington Learning Center is pleased to announce that Mrs. Janice Kinard was selected as Fairhope Middle School’s Teacher of the Month for October/November, 2013. Mrs. Kinard, a 7th grade science teacher, received both her bachelor’s and Master’s degrees from Mississippi State University. She has taught in 4 states and instructed grades preschool through college. In her 16th year of teaching at FMS, Mrs. Kinard’s love of science is apparent not only to her students, but to the entire faculty and staff. In addition to teaching, she is the sponsor of the Science Club and responsible for an annual student trip to Camp McDowell. In her spare time she enjoys raising orphaned squirrels and is a licensed pilot.

Bay Minette Middle School Spelling Bee Winners

Isabella Eleogo, left, was the winner of the spelling bee held Thursday, Jan. 9 at Bay Minette Middle School. She now advances to the county-wide competition. Deiairia Sewel was running up. The spelling bee contestants included, from left, front row, Savannah Wood, Michael McKinley, SaDarica Atchison, Maia Austin, MyKayla Atchison ; middle row, Hunter Boltz, Larry Smith, Tyler Chisholm, Ravin Pilot, Isabella Eleogo ; back row, Tylor Davis, Marcus Powe, Morgan Epperson, Caleb Goddard, Deiaria Sewel, Hailey Morrow and Jonathan Barr .

www.facebook.com/easternshoreparentsmagazine

County Schools Fairhope Middle SchoolAutauga Students Join the Great Toy Drive

Students of Fairhope Middle School assisted WKRGChannel 5 with their annual holiday toy drive. Sponsored by the FMS National Junior Honor Society, the student body donated over 300 toys for distribution to needy children. Pictured, from left to right, with some of the toys are the NJHS officers: Sallie Fell, Treasurer; Caroline Davis, Historian; Mackenzie Early, Secretary; Anna Claire Noblitt, Vice President; and Wilson Bullington, President. The NJHS is sponsored by Mrs. Tonya Harrelson, 8th grade math teacher, Mrs. Erica Lee, 8th grade math teacher, and Mrs. Melody Early, 7th grade science teacher.

Eastern Shore Parents I February 2014

Silverhill Elementary Spelling Bee Winners

Silverhill Elementary School would like to congratulate the winners of the 201314 school spelling bee. Hannah Barham, a sixth-grader at SES, was our winner and sixth-grader Brandon Davis was the runner up. Hannah will compete at the county spelling bee in Loxely on February 6th . Pictured are Hannah Barham and Brandon Davis.

fie w Ac g b re be

www.easternshoreparents.com

y s

Pepsi Signs on as BCHS Sponsor

Pepsi Co. of Atmore is a new sponsor for Baldwin County High School. Baldwin County High School looks forward to the association with Pepsi Cola. Taking part in the presentation are, from left, Ronnie Johnson, General Manager of Pepsi Cola Co. of Atmore, John Cabaniss, Principal of Baldwin County High School, Hooper Matthews III, owner of Pepsi Cola Co. of Atmore, and Bobby Moore, Athletic Director of Baldwin County High School

ry d

Gulf Shores Middle Schoolers Visit ST Aerospace

Recently Gulf Shores Middle School students visited ST Aerospace in Mobile. Students were able to tour the facilities, go inside hangars, talk to employees, and watch work being done on airplanes. This field trip was part of the schoolâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s pre-career academy events. GSMS is working with Gulf Shores High School to prepare students for Career Academies that are in place at the high school. The Career Academies give students a chance to prepare for and gain experience in careers before leaving high school. This program combines school education, real world experience, and community partners to prepare students to be future leaders. The students had a great time getting an inside look at interesting careers.

www.facebook.com/easternshoreparentsmagazine

Autauga SchoolsEntrepreneurs CEOs Encourage FoleyCounty H.S. Young with Valuable Words of Wisdom

The Foley High School Young Entrepreneurs Academy (YEA!) held their annual CEO Roundtable event Tuesday evening, January 21 in the school library. The CEO Roundtable provides an opportunity for YEA! students to learn from local CEOs and business leaders who share their backgrounds, business philosophies and success stories, as well as their struggles and experiences with failure in business. They also share valuable advice about networking and customer service, and the importance of integrity and determination. This year’s CEO panel participants included Tom Boggs of Ascend Performance Materials; Tim Fickling of mediStat Specialized Pharmacy Services; Sheila Hodges of SH Enterprises; Tommy Lee of Vulcan, Inc.; and Robert Mayes of Columbia Southern University. The Q&A discussion was moderated by South Baldwin Chamber of Commerce President Donna Watts. YEA! students had the opportunity to meet these role models who have found success as entrepreneurs or in management, and they participated in the panel discussion with questions of their own. The following students are currently enrolled in the YEA! program at Foley High School: Tyesha Folkes, Jared Krehling, Hilary Matute, Malcolm Perdue, Sarah Gayle Peters and Lydia Williams. The YEA! program at Foley High School is sponsored and managed by the South Baldwin Chamber Foundation. “Meeting and learning from this dynamic panel of business leaders is an eye-opening experience and very motivational for our young entrepreneurs,” said Mary Riker, SBCF executive director. Foley High School’s Young Entrepreneurs Academy CEO Roundtable participants: Back Row: Robert Mayes, Columbia Southern University; Rick Miller, Pro356 Consulting; Malcolm Perdue, YEA! student; Tim Fickling, mediStat Specialized Pharmacy Services; Tommy Lee, Vulcan, Inc.; and Tom Boggs, Ascend Performance Materials. Front Row: Lydia Williams, Tyesha Folkes, Hilary Matute and Sarah Gayle Peters, YEA! students. Not pictured: Sheila Hodges, SH Enterprises; and Donna Watts, South Baldwin Chamber of Commerce.

Eastern Shore Parents I February 2014

www.easternshoreparents.com

O d

o of

of rn

ess ith ,

www.facebook.com/easternshoreparentsmagazine

Autauga County Schools

Fairhope Intermediate Students Visit Capital and Meet Governor

4th graders at Fairhope Intermediate School recently took a field trip to Montgomery. The children were able to experience what life was like in the early years at Old Alabama Town, tour the State Capital, learn about the Civil Rights movement at the Civil Rights Museum, and view authentic memorabilia from Jefferson Davis at the First White House of the Confederacy. Mrs. Brittany Curry's class was lucky enough to bump into Gov. Bentley while on their tour! Governor Bentley was on his way to rehearse his State of the State address, and kindly stopped to greet the class and visit with the students for a moment. It was a treat for all!

PulmAssoc PurpFlwr ad

9/5/13

Eastern Shore Parents I February 2014

10:36 AM

Page 1

GSES 2nd Grader Meets GSHS Peer Helper

Gulf Shores Elementary School students met their second semester Peer Helpers today from Gulf Shores High School. This program is a wonderful way to provide additional instruction and practice to GSES students along with building healthy mentoring relationships between elementary and high school students. Pictured left to right is GSHS Peer Helper Grace Woodley with GSES 2nd grader Liz Vermillion.

www.easternshoreparents.com

a at Hig w a h

Fairhope H.S. Student Receives Chess Award for Best Player

Each year the Mobile Baldwin County Chess League presents the Morphy Award to the league’s best player. This year Mason Blosser, a senior at Fairhope High School, went undefeated in league play and was awarded the Morphy Award. Michael Tran, a junior at Fairhope High School, has played for the Fairhope High School Chess team since middle school. Michael won the Morphy Award in 2012 and has won this award more times than any other player in league history. Pictured from left to right: Michael Tran and Mason Blosser.

Shepherd’s Place Walk a Success

Over 240 people participated in the Shepherd’s Place Adult Respite Center’s Candy Cane Walk on November 24, 2013 in downtown Fairhope. Complete with Santa as the Grand Marshall, t-shirts, refreshments, and goodie bags for all participants, the walk was a fun-filled experience for all involved. Fairhope Elementary School had the most registrations for the event and received a donation of $250 from Shepherd’s Place. Mr. Terry Beasley, FES Principal, and Mrs. Ann Agerton, FES Assistant Principal, accepted a check from Shepherd’s Place Board Members, Robyn Koser and Susie Caminiti. Shepherd’s Place is a non-denominational program that meets the needs of individuals with Alzheimer’s disease, dementia, Parkinson’s disease, as well as those who have suffered from a stroke or a traumatic brain injury, while offering respite for their caregivers. The program provides participants stimulating cognitive activities in a safe environment with a nurse on site. Caregivers benefit from the program by having time to care for themselves. For more information on the Shepherd’s Place program please contact Dr. Ann Pearson at 9281148 or go to www.shepherdsplacerespite.com. Also, keep up with all of the activities and news at Shepherd’s Place by searching “Shepherds Place Adult Respite Center” on Facebook. Pictured, Terry Beasley and Ann Agerton accept a donation from Shepherd’s Place Board Members, Robyn Koser and Susie Caminiti.

www.facebook.com/easternshoreparentsmagazine

Q. Do you have any advice for teaching

responsibility and generosity to adult children and grandkids when it comes to money?

A. I think there are three key factors when it comes to teaching children of any age about these concepts—humility, gratitude and contentment. In my mind, humility is where gratitude comes from, and gratitude leads to contentment. I’m generous to my adult children, but they have no sense of entitlement. That’s due to their personal humility. They don’t feel that I owe them anything, and they already know that anyone who cops an entitlement attitude gets cut off. You’re no longer qualified for my generosity when you lose your gratitude. You’ve got to spend time talking to kids about these things. Otherwise, you run the risk of them counting on the income. Here’s an example. We coach some family businesses at my company, and the best family businesses are the ones that teach non-employee family members who receive money from the business—dividends from the profits—never to live on those dividends. I’ve seen lots of cases where someone will start living on the business they don’t work in,

Eastern Shore Parents I February 2014

and they immediately start feeling entitled to the money. The same principle applies in your situation. If someone starts saying, “Well, since mom and dad are paying for our daycare, we can use that money we would have spent to buy a car.” That means they’ve started counting on mom and dad’s generosity to live, and that’s a form of entitlement mentality. None of our kids receive any kind of financial help from us at all, unless they’re already carrying their weight in their own lives. That’s not being cold. It’s teaching responsibility and self-reliance. Now it would be different if one of them developed a serious medical issue or something like that. But the whole idea that mommy and daddy have lots of money, and I can just get some from them? That doesn’t fly in our family. You have to teach them character and giving in order for them to be valid recipients. Plus, it’s all about the kids’ attitude. But you’ve got to talk about it often and communicate the value system out loud. The gifting and generosity are contingent upon the humility that leads to gratitude that leads to contentment.

Q. My wife and I are working the Baby Steps, and we have our budget in place. Sometimes the budget gets busted because of home improvements and various other things. I think we should take money from our emergency fund when this happens, but she says it should come out of our restaurant and fun money. What do you think? A. I hate to break this to you, but overspending is not an emergency. If you budget a set amount in one category and you go over that amount, you’ve got to have something you reduce or cut out completely to stay within your budget for the month. You’d be surprised at what some people call an “emergency.” But here’s the deal: If something happens on a pretty regular basis, it’s a predictable event. That means you need to budget a larger amount for home improvements or whatever the problem area may be. Overall, on a month-to-month basis, if you find you have $200 budgeted for car repairs and the repair turns out to be $250, I’d rather you cut back on eating out to make up the difference. That’s the way my wife and I did it back in the day. We never touched the emergency fund for anything except big, unexpected, scary stuff.

www.easternshoreparents.com

ur he nd

dt at

ple

is, ed ee.

ke nd

www.facebook.com/easternshoreparentsmagazine

da “W su it!” wit bu co

Ex th

ex mo Ma ing ca un for of rul pro

ha he ea we rem dis co pri this In my years as a practitioner, I have found that she isn’t alone in this frustration. It is sometimes difficult for parents to promote good behavior in their absence (i.e., at school, relative’s house, church, etc.). Since we cannot clone ourselves or be at every place at once, here are several strategies that may be helpful to motivate good behavior when you aren’t present.

by Stephanie Roberts, MS

My mother always told me that my brother and I didn’t come with an owner’s manual. I never thought much about that statement until I attended graduate school in the field of Applied Behavior Analysis, and went on to work with children and families. The most frequent request was for help with behavior issues at school. Parents report they rack their brains trying to come up with ideas on how to correct or punish their child to stop inappropriate behaviors. While I still can’t seem to find an “owner’s manual”, we are lucky to have several strategies that can be helpful for problems that parents face every day. Recently a mother of a five-year-old boy asked what she could do to stop her son Eastern Shore Parents I February 2014

from coming home with “red notes”. In his classroom, the teacher has a color system in place and different behaviors warrant a clip to be moved up and down a traffic light diagram. Green indicates that there was good behavior, yellow indicates that there were a few instances of inappropriate behavior, and red indicates that the child had several instances of inappropriate behavior. If a child moves their clip to red, they lose privileges for the day and a “red note” is sent home. After speaking with this mother, she said that she had tried providing incentives for weeks in which her son stayed on green the entire week and removing privileges on days his clip moved to red. Nothing seemed to work. She expressed her frustration of trying to manage his behavior at school since she could not be there to ensure he was behaving. 38

Load up on reinforcement!

When your child comes home with a good report, lay on the positive praise! Let them know you are proud they had a good day while avoiding discussing other non-successful days. Simply focus on the good. It may also be helpful to provide extra time on activities that they already earn (e.g., extra 10 minutes of TV or computer time).

Encouragement is key!

If your child comes home with a negative report, instead of giving a lecture, you may find it more helpful to provide encouragement for success on the next day. For example, if Johnny comes home saying his clip was moved to red, say, “I can see you’re disappointed, but I know you will have a better day tomorrow.” www.easternshoreparents.com

Se re

for it w wil qu be

’s not

Discussing strategies to have a better day may be helpful at this point. Ask them, “What do you need to do tomorrow to make sure you stay on green? I know you can do it!” This not only allows them to come up with an answer and be more independent, but provides the opportunity for you to coach and encourage your child.

Expectations – a must! Let them know what you want!

Make sure your child knows what is expected of them. Classroom rules are most likely reviewed the first week of school. Make sure your child has a firm understanding of what is expected. Just because they can recite the rule does not mean they understand what it means. It may be helpful for you to ask them to give you examples of what the behaviors associated with a rule look like or for you to role-play specific problematic areas with them.

Review expectations

For children who have a particularly hard time remembering things, it may be helpful to review the expectations before each school day or at the beginning of each week. This will make it more likely they will remember what behaviors they will have to display to meet their goals. Discussing the consequences of not displaying the appropriate behaviors may also be necessary at this time to further promote success.

Set obtainable and reasonable goals

Remember, we want to set our kids up for success! By setting smaller goals at first, it will increase the likelihood that your child will come into contact with the reinforcing qualities of their good behavior and they will be more motivated to continue these behav-

iors. Gradually, the behaviors required for reinforcement can be increased. Remember, it is easier to start small and move up, than to start too big and move back. For example, instead of setting the goal of staying on green five out of five days, you could start your goal at staying on green three out of five days. Obviously, as parents, our ultimate goal is for our children to be good every day; however, it is important to keep in mind your child’s current performance. After a few weeks of success, increase the goal required for reinforcement (e.g., four out of five days on green). By setting lower, more obtainable goals and allowing them to come into contact with reinforcement, you are re-establishing their motivation and setting up a positive relationship. Just because a child “used to be able to do it”, or “behaved better in the past”, does not matter. Today is what matters, so we must start at the current levels. Also remember, slip-ups are acceptable. Building in a cushion for those “uh-oh” days is important. Even adults have bad days. We are setting ourselves up for disappointment if we always expect perfection from our children, especially when WE are not perfect all of the time.

Contracts are key

Behavior contracts can have motivating and lasting effects with children. Not only will it outline the expectations and consequences for their behavior but also serve as a way to keep you organized. This may be especially helpful if you have multiple children and are managing multiple behaviors. Each contract should outline exactly what is expected of the child, when you expect it to be completed, and what will happen if they do/do not follow-through with the behavior. These consequences should be positive. For example, if they meet their goal, they

could earn an item or extra privilege at the end of the week. Contracts can also be helpful with home behaviors such as chores, morning routines, bedtime routines, etc.

Each child is different

It is important to identify valuable items or activities to reward good behavior. If your child is old enough, you can simply ask them what they would like to work for. If not, you can incorporate their likes and interests. Another strategy is displaying a variety of items in front of the child that you think they may like and recording which one they choose first. This provides a good hypothesis of what is motivating at that time. Sometimes, what we think the child will like, doesn’t actually help motivate behavior. The child may indeed like playing with something, but it may not be good enough to STOP bad behavior. Isolate the best stuff, so they are more motivated to earn it! Pick new, exciting things that the child doesn’t get all the time. Just because a child loves the iPad doesn’t mean they will work extra hard to earn five more minutes. However, a new iPad game that they ONLY play on green days may do the trick! Adopting some or all of the above strategies may help your child’s behavior at home and school! But, keep in mind that progress takes time. By celebrating and rewarding small successes, you will see an increase in positive behaviors and motivate your child to stay on green! ESP Stephanie serves as a senior consultant for Butterfly Effects with over 3 years of experience in the field of Applied Behavior Analysis. She has worked in a variety of clinical settings including homes, schools, center based, and residential programs. Stephanie graduated from Auburn University with her Bachelor’s degree in Psychology in 2011. She earned a Master’s degree in Psychology with a concentration in Applied Behavior Analysis/ Developmental Disabilities from Auburn University and became a Board Certified Behavior Analyst in 2012.

er e xrn r

s ’re et-

www.facebook.com/easternshoreparentsmagazine

Combining Two Seasons to Make One Style I know we are probably all maxed out after the holidays when it comes to shopping, so thinking about our style and ourselves is not quite in the picture just yet. We are slowly approaching spring and summer and we desperately need to shop, but we just can’t get it together financially, mentally or physically. Don’t fret, ladies, as soon as the last cold spell ventures through pull out those spring and summer items from last year, but keep some fall and winter pieces in your closet to help create a new transitional wardrobe and a brand new style. My job is to help you enjoy feeling stylish and do so without breaking the bank. The best way to do this is combining two seasons to make one style. Think about what you need to put together to complete an outfit.

1- Think of the material. Make sure your fabric texture works for the season.

2- Think color. Color is key for all seasons. Find out what the colors are for the season and Eastern Shore Parents I February 2014

work them into your wardrobe. For spring, add your pastels in with grays, blacks and jeweled tones.

3- Utilize t-shirts or tanks. Both of these items make the perfect layering piece for any season, and you can dress them up or down. If it’s cool at night add a cardigan, light jacket, or spring scarf to give yourself that extra coverage. Have fun with heels and jewelry to accessorize the outfit.

4- Wear maxi skirts or dresses. These are great for seasons. Some mornings and evenings in the spring can be cool, so find a chunky sweater, cardigan or scarf to throw on for an added layer.

5- Purses are a must. I know this sounds crazy, but it’s not, and it’s a definite must have for all seasonal attire. A purse (oversized or clutch) is a simple accessory that can really bring your outfit together, not to mention it is a functional piece. You can put a layer of clothing in your larger purse for those early morning or late evening climate changes.

6- Buy some new jewelry. Going into seasons this is a must have. You can change up any outfit simply by adding new pieces of jewelry. On average this only costs between $4 and $20. 40

7- Pull out last year’s shoes. Unless they have been worn out then there is no need to throw them away. You can always take them to your local shoe store for a little repair and cleaning up.

8- Revamp your closet using old and new pieces. Before you are too brash about getting rid of clothes you think aren’t in style, look to your favorite website or style magazine and see how you might transition those items into your new style. If you still can’t see it happening, then yes, find a new home for them. I love mixing and matching my clothes. I have items I bought from a flea market that I have been able to modernize with my style. So work with all your pieces if you can, but don’t be afraid to move them on as well.

9- Shop winter sales. You can find fall and winter items for half the cost during seasonal sales. This will save you tons of money and you will have a style worth showing off for the spring and summer. Enjoy the seasons, but don’t break the bank. Take everything you have and think of it as painting a canvas!

Laura Handey is an independent clothing consultant in Pike Road, Alabama. You may reach her by email at laura@ centsiblysouthern. com or visit her website at www. centsiblysouthern. com.

www.easternshoreparents.com

n u

e -

en k be

he nk

, ay ail

www.facebook.com/easternshoreparentsmagazine

s y is

d s

gro ad be thi ha pla co the dif rep me me

Eastern Shore Parents I February 2014

www.easternshoreparents.com

Most parents see changes in behavior in their older children sometime during the first year after a new sibling is born. Parents may see a once-agreeable child acting out, becoming defiant, or beginning to show behavior struggles at school. This is normal; a child’s natural growth compounded with the stress of adjusting to a new family member can be overwhelming. It can cause her to think differently about herself and to behave differently as she tries to find her place in the family. When a new sibling comes home, an older child’s place in the family has changed, and she has difficulty understanding that it’s not a replacement, but simply a re-adjustment. Like everything in child development, this transition takes time.

According to Dr. Jane Nelsen, parent educator and author of Positive Discipline, what kids need most is a sense of significance and belonging, and this need is often most persistent after the birth of a new sibling. Nelsen says, “Significance and belonging are what all children and adults strive for; we want to know that we matter and that we have an important place in the world.” To a child, that ‘world’ is his family, and the arrival of a new sibling can disrupt any sense of security that he had in it. When he no longer feels that he belongs, those feelings are inherently reflected in his behavior. Dr. Nelsen says, “A misbehaving child is a discouraged child.” Misbehavior is the result of a child’s subconscious belief about himself that he is unloved or unimportant. He may act out to try to reconfirm his parents’ love, or try to reestablish his own sense of significance. “It is important for parents to realize that a child’s difficult behavior is the result of feeling discouraged about his place in the family. Rather than being punished, that child needs to be encouraged,” says Nelsen. And there are many ways to offer it.

Verbal Encouragement The most recognizable form of encouragement is probably the use of verbal statements like, “Thank you for helping me make dinner. I really appreciate it!” or, “Wow, you sure worked hard on that Lego tower. That was a lot of work,” or, “You must feel so proud of yourself right now!” Encouraging words like these are more effective than statements of blanket praise like, “You’re such a good sister,” as they focus on the child’s efforts and help her develop an internal sense of pride.

Emotional Encouragement A less obvious, yet vital kind of encouragement is the validation of feelings. Anytime a parent validates a child’s feelings—whether those feelings are positive or negative—they are telling that child, “It’s OK to feel that way; it’s normal,” and children need to hear this. It lets them know that they’re unconditionally accepted in the family: exactly what a newly older sibling needs. Parents can help children feel secure by allowing, articulating and accepting all of their feelings—pleasant or not.

www.facebook.com/easternshoreparentsmagazine

Encouragement through Self Confidence When kids begin to act out after a new baby comes home, what is most likely happening is that they are mistakenly thinking that they must regain Mom and Dad’s attention to secure their place in the family. The message coded in their behavior is, “Notice me! Involve me usefully!” Parents can give even very young children jobs to help out; opportunities to be noticed and become involved. They can help set the table, wash the windows, prepare food, shop at the store, get themselves dressed, take charge of their routines, help themselves to their own snacks, pour their own drinks, wipe the table, and many other age-appropriate tasks. These are the kinds of activities that give kids confidence and help them feel like valued, contributing members of the family.

One-on-One Encouragement When a new baby comes home, give your child a gift: the gift of time. The best gift for an older sibling is simply a parent’s regular focus connecting with them during this difficult transition (and beyond). After the birth of a new sibling is a perfect time to start scheduling regular “special time” together, during which the child leads the play for 15-20 minutes every day. It is a daily opportunity to ensure some valuable one-on-one time with older children, and kids look forward to this regular part of the day with each parent. It communicates to a child, “I’m here for you. You are important.” When children become new older siblings, parents can help kids feel secure by understanding and responding to the motivation behind their behavior—that instinctive pursuit of significance and belonging—more so than the behavior itself. Children need to be encouraged to realize their place in the family. They are significant and they do belong, and they need to know that. ESP Kelly Bartlett is the author of “Encouraging Words For Kids.” She is a Certified Positive Discipline Educator and freelance writer with a focus on child development, family relationships and discipline. You can find more of her work at www. kellybartlett.net.

Eastern Shore Parents I February 2014

www.easternshoreparents.com

Br Ge

tion occ acc diff one rou Rea ab mil cry ven onc kid

N C

dra tive har The use hap and po wit illu tha the jou

Kids Get the Inside Story

e e! e p

es s,

mg n

ily

gan be e do SP

ds.” nce

ww.

Recommending the Best Toys and Products for Kids

Give any child a closed box and the first thing they will ask is “What’s inside?” And as parents we know it’s much cooler to keep the secret and enjoy the surprise, the discovery. And it’s not just cool, it’s smart. Instead of just telling children what’s beneath the surface, why not give them the tools to find the answers for themselves. There are many kits, games and toys that inspire kids to peer inside, and what they find only leads deeper, to seek what else may be hidden. Curiosities being the hallmark of youthful exploration, the following items give kids the resource to go beneath the surface and to seek amazing inside stories.

by Gerry Paige Smith

Break Open Real Geodes

4D Visions: Dog (Tedco)

Part of a series of anatomy kits for kids, the 4D Visions: Dog offers an inside view of the man’s best friend, and all the interior marvels that make him tick. Standing about sixand-a-half inches high, the realistic canine frame contains 28 removable components that feature a dog’s anatomy. An ideal intro into vertebrate mammal structure, young hands can use the included assembly guide to build and disassemble the model while learning their way around the interior biology of a dog. With great hand-painted details, this exploration of everything inside a dog makes a great discovery tool and a cool display when it’s not teaching!

(Dr. Cool Science)

Geodes are natural rock formations that form when hollow chambers occur in rock and over time minerals accrete inside, forming crystals of different shapes and colors. But no one knows what is inside these small roundish stones until they are cracked open. With the Break Open Real Geodes kit, kids can use the enclosed safety goggles and a borrowed hammer to crack open the kit’s six geodes which are millions of years old. Once the hammer strikes and the mysterious crystals inside the stones are revealed, the kit includes an Adventurer’s Guide with more facts about the science of geodes. At once satisfying curiosity while encouraging a smashing good time, kids will love to take a whack at geodes to see what’s inside!

Nancy B’s ScienceClub Aquascope

Perplexus

(PlaSmart Inc.) This challenging sphere keeps the game play just under the surface, while players on the outside twist, turn and tumble the ball to win. Perplexus is a clear plastic globe that contains a complex maze and a single silver ball. Navigating the maze inside the sphere – yet unable to touch the silver ball – players must look inside and use only outside manipulation to move the ball through its paces and to its destination. Twists, flips, spins and other moves keep the ball in play on the inside. Reasoning and reflexes combine to move the ball that you can’t touch through challenges, mazes, tracks and tunnels just in sight, but out of reach. Fun for individual play or multi-player timed challenges, Perplexus takes you inside a game you can’t put down!

(Educational Insights)

While our eyes are always drawn to pools of water, the reflective and shifting surface makes it hard to see what lies just below. The ScienceClub Aquascope is an engaging tool that allows the user to break the surface and get a clear, magnified view of what’s happening beneath the water line. Perfect for spying creatures and formations just under the water’s surface of tide pools, shallow ponds, slow creeks and more, the Aquascope is also equipped with a temperature strip and a LED flashlight for extra underwater illumination. The included Marine Biologist’s Journal offers activities that encourage note-taking, drawings and more. Best enjoyed by the middle-school set, the Aquascope is a drylander’s dream for a journey of discovery just below the surface of ponds and pools.

Paige Smith is a freelance writer and syndicated columnist living in Alabama. More on GET THIS! at www.PageBookMedia.com.

www.facebook.com/easternshoreparentsmagazine

3980 Airport Blvd # H Mobile  (Large selection of Furniture) 251-341-1480 www.tinytowninc.com  Tiny Town specializes in traditional children’s clothing, gifts, jewelry, furniture (Mobile Location) and more. We pride ourselves on offering a large selection of quality items and excellent customer service. We know how important shopping for that “coming home” outfit or that “perfect gift” can be, so we strive to give you the best shopping experience possible.

Fantasy Island Toys

335 Fairhope Ave., Fairhope  251-928-1720; www.fantasyislandtoys.com   Open Monday through Saturday, 10am.- 5pm. Great selection of unique, award-winning toys for baby, toddler and school-age children. Games, dolls, out-door toys, swim supplies, dress-up, books, and more. For over 40 years, it’s the place where kids of all ages go! Order online, give us a call, visit our store, or find us on Facebook!

Baby Boutiques

(furniture, clothing, toys/gifts)

Baby Talk

Gigi & Jay’s

400 Fairhope Avenue, Fairhope 251-928-2011; www.gigiandjaysfairhope.com Gigi and Jay’s Children’s Boutique carries clothing, gifts and accessories for Infants to Tweens. Lilly Pulitzer, Under Armour, Olive Juice and many more great brands! Open Monday – Saturday 10am – 5pm.

29892 Woodrow Lane Ste. 400, Daphne TKR Centre across from Eastern Shore Center 251-298-TALK (8255); babytalkes@gmail.com Your one stop shop for all things baby! Grovia and Bum Genius cloth diapers, Magnificent Baby clothing with no snaps and no zippers, Kissy-Kissy, Aden and Anais, Melissa & Doug, Medela breast pumps (We can file your insurance for BCBS of Alabama), Personal service for bra fitting and nursing supplies, Go-Lacta to increase your milk supply and lactation consultant on staff. Find us on Facebook!

Heart of Dixie

Isle of Bama Toys

In the Company of Angels

4751 Main Street; Ste.112, Orange Beach 251-981-8697; www.isleofbamatoys.com We are a specialty toy store located at The Wharf in Orange Beach. Our goal is to provide fun & educational toys that encourage creativity, learning, and the joy of play! Hours: Monday-Saturday, 10am - 6pm and Sunday 12pm - 6pm.

Tiny Town

30500 Highway 181, Spanish Fort (Eastern Shore Centre), 251-621-1970 Eastern Shore Parents I February 2014

22011 Highway 104, Ste A, Robertsdale 251-947-7773 We carry a great selection of baby gifts, toys and clothing. We also offer monogramming, custom vinyl and heat pressed vinyl to personalize your gifts! 328 De La Mare Avenue   251-928-2800, www.thecompanyofangels.com   For 20 years, Fairhope’s unique “thoughtfulness” shop for all ages. Specializing in angels, crosses, lambs and other uplifting gifts. Beautiful selection of baby gifts and accessories!

Magnolia Springs Pharmacy & Gifts

Now located on the corner of Hwy 98 and CR 49, Magnolia Springs, 251-965-6273; www.magnoliaspringspharmacy.com  46

Open Monday thru Friday, 9:00 A.M. - 6:00 P.M. Find beautiful monogrammed items, unique baby shower gifts, baby toys, and more much more. Custom gift baskets also available. A truly unique selection of gifts for every occasion as well as a full-service pharmacy and drugstore. For more information, call or visit the website or email info@ magnoliaspringspharmacy.com. Be sure to visit us on Facebook!

Sew Unique

314C De La Mare Ave., Fairhope  251-928-0220; sewuniquefairhope@hotmail.com  Monday – Saturday, 10am – 5pm. Sew Unique is a monogramming and gift boutique offering unique baby bedding, room décor, clothing and gifts. Gifts for every reason and season. Great selection of children’s clothes and home decor. Provide monogramming on in-store items as well as things that are not purchased from the store. Find them on Facebook!

Stitches

1808 Main Street, Daphne 251-626-8778 Stitches is the newest fabric, monogramming, vinyl, & more shop on the Eastern Shore! Come by and visit us, let us help you create the perfect item!

Tisha’s

2200 E. 2nd Street Unit I, Gulf Shores 251-968-9105; www.shoptishas.com TiSha’s is the Island’s only sewing boutique. We custom make most of the clothing. We also have gifts for all occasions, monogramming, sewing alterations, sewing notions, sewing classes and fabric. We carry Bailey Boys, J. Bailey, Paty Inc., Sado, and Owls and Bats. Please stop in to browse and visit awhile. Open Monday – Friday, 9am – 5pm and Saturday, 9am – 2pm.

Announcements & Invitations Stationery Studio

412 Fairhope Avenue - downtown Fairhope 251-990-9940  Website: www.fairhopefinepaper.com.  We have a huge selection of imprintable announcements and invitations for every occasion, every event. Whether it’s announcing the birth of a new baby, family gathering for that special 1st Birthday, a Sweet Sixteen soiree, or a blow-out event for the 40th, we have several themes from silly to sophisticated and formal to festive! We are a Crane & Co. fine cotton paper dealer and carry several national lines of stationery for writing your birthday gift thank yous! Come shop with us at our store in downtown Fairhope or visit our website www.fairhopefinepaper.com and click on the links that take you to our online shopping. www.easternshoreparents.com

Se Sa

(Sp Tan 251 ww Pre to –1 fro 9am 22n pre info and

(Sp Da ww Ma and on boo on Dis Sat issu

(Sp Da ww We in a buy ors

o@ us

m  sa e

ngs m

, wse

Seasonal Consignment Sales

needed to make this a success. If you volunteer and/or consign, you will be able to shop before the public, at a pre-sale.

children’s clothing sizes 0-12 (girls) and 0-6 (Boys) and much more. Become a fan on Facebook to get updates about sales and events. Call for hours.

Foley Munchkin Market

Eastern Shore Kids Market

Pass-it-On Children’s Consignment and Maternity Boutique

(Spring Sale in February) Tanger Outlet Center, Ste. 214, Foley 251-298-SALE (7253) www.foleysmunchkinmarket.com Pre-Sale is Thursday, February 13th then open to the public Friday and Saturday, February 14th – 15th from 9am – 6pm; Sunday, February 16th from 11am – 4pm; Friday, February 21st from 9am – 6pm (25% off) and Saturday, February 22nd from 9am – 3pm (50% off). “New Mom” presale passes are available. Visit website for information on consigning, volunteering, donating and shopping! See our ad in this issue.

Savvy Mom Sale

(Spring Sale in March) Daphne Civic Center, 2603 Highway 98, Daphne www.savvymomsale.com; Find us on Facebook March 19th – 22nd. Consignors earn up to 75% and track their sales online. Incredible bargains on children’s and baby’s clothing, baby gear, toys, books and more. Free New Mom passes for 7pm on Tuesday March 18th. Register now online. Discount days – Friday the 21st, 25% off day and Saturday the 22nd, 50%off day. See our ad in this issue.

Jack and Jill Consignment

(Spring sale coming soon) Daphne Civic Center, 2603 Highway 98, Daphne www.jacknjillscb.com We offer an opportunity for families to participate in a children’s consignment sale, in which you can buy and sell quality, gently used items.   Consignors earn 65% of your sales! Also, volunteers are

www.easternshorekidsmarket.com Spring sale was held the last week of January. Visit website for Fall sale dates. Kids Market brings you quality, gently used children’s clothing and shoes from newborn to teen, maternity and nursery items, baby equipment, indoor/outdoor toys, cribs, changing tables, furniture, room decor, books, DVDs and much more.

Consignment Shops

23825 Highway 98, Fairhope  251-928-9991; www.passitonboutique.webs.com  Open Monday-Saturday, 10am – 6pm. Huge selection of children’s gently used clothing (NewbornTeen), shoes, toys, baby equipment, strollers, car seats, furniture, school uniforms and maternity apparel. Low prices and great quality! Also carrying a large selection of new bows, headbands, and accessories. Home of the popular Plasma Car! Find them on Facebook for current sales and events.

Peek-A-Boutique

Kids Towne

7 South Church Street, Fairhope 251-929-3911 Clothing for infants through pre-teens. Now accepting Spring clothing. Open M – F, 10am – 5pm and Saturday 10am – 4pm. Find us on Facebook - /kidstowne

Lily Pads Children’s Consignment

28588 US Highway 98 Suite 6, Daphne  251-621-0337 www.lilypadsconsignmentboutique.com  Open Tuesday-Saturday. Specializing in new and “gently used” clothing, furniture, toys, baby goods, accessories and more. Also offers new and handmade items, monogramming, applique, and custom vinyl.

Luv Me 2 Times Consignment

8685 State Highway 59, Foley  251-970-5882  Carrying women’s clothing and accessories,

6729 Spanish Fort Blvd (in the Bruno’s Shopping Center), 251-626-2266 Children’s and maternity consignment boutique, designer and department store brands. Gently used clothing for children sizes newborn to 8. Maternity, furniture and toys also available. Open Tuesday – Thursday 10am – 5pm; Friday and Saturday 10am – 4pm.

Sweet Seconds Boutique

21193 Alabama 181, Fairhope  251-928-8771 www.sweetsecondskids.blogspot.com  Open Monday-Saturday, 9am – 5pm and Sunday, 10am – 4pm Children’s consignment boutique, specializing in gently used and new consignment items. Sizes newborn to size 8 children’s clothing, baby equipment, maternity, ride-on/outdoor toys and other toys, strollers, furniture, crib bedding, shoes, school uniforms and more. New hair bows & accessories, new A-lines, shortalls, longalls, 3-piece A-line knickers/bloomer sets, bloomers

m re y ur our

www.facebook.com/easternshoreparentsmagazine

and other items ready to monogram and applique. Find us on Facebook to stay up to date on sales and events!

Prenatal Care/OB-GYN Baldwin OBGYN

Dr. Judy DeLacee Corbett, MD, SACOG Dr. Cory Jacobs, MD, SACOG 251-424-1100; www.baldwinobgyn.com 1506 North McKenzie Street, Ste 104, Foley Specializing in women’s health. Offering 4D ultrasounds.

Medical Park OBGYN

Richard A. Roh, MD, FACOG Gary W. Nelson, MD, FACOG Dylan R. Wells, MD, FACOG Mary D. Wells, MD, FACOG Leslie Evans, MD, FACOG.  150 South Ingleside Dr. Suite #6, Fairhope  (Behind Thomas Hospital)  251-928-1222; www.fairhopeobgyn.com  Medical Park OBGYN is comprised of a team of dedicated doctors offering a wide range of Obstetrics and Gynecological services. Currently accepting new patients. Call or visit the website for details.

Diegmann OB/GYN, PC  Fred Ferris Diegmann, MD  Bret T. Henderson, MD 150 South Ingleside, Suite 2, Fairhope  251-990-6550; diegmannob-gyn.com Providing quality medical care in Baldwin County since 1974. ACOG, MASA, BCOG, ABOG, Member of Christian Medical and Dental Society, and American College of Pro-Life Physicians.

Eastern Shore OB-GYN  Mitzi M. Childs, MD  Lorna E. Hunt, MD 8552 Morphy Ave., Fairhope  251-928-4113

Shoemaker OB-GYN

Marshall Shoemaker, MD Marshall D. Shoemaker MD, Board Certified OBGYN  Heather Talbot, CRNP Carla Corte, CRNP  188 Hospital Drive, Ste. 304, Fairhope 251-990-1950; www.shoemakerobgyn.com Full Service Obstetrics & Advanced Gynecological Care Office specializing in obstetrics, gynecology, infertility and menopause. Also offering 4D ultrasounds. Next day and Saturday appointments available!

South Baldwin Obstetrics/Gynecology

Dr. Dennis McNally Ester Davis, Certified Nurse-Midwife 251-943-2141; www.southbaldwinobgyn.com 1620 N. McKenzie Street (Highway 59), Foley, Offering Obstetrical care, Gynecological care, and weight loss and diet program.

Pediatricians Eastern Shore Children’s Clinic

Warner M. Wiggins, MD; Rhoda E. Burns, MD; Paula S. Drummond, MD; Jennie W. Breslin, MD; Margaret T. Moore, MD 150 S Ingleside St, Fairhope   251-928-0624; www.eschildrens.com  Offering all needed primary care for infants, children, adolescents, and young adults (through age 19). As a group practice devoted only to these age groups, we can better serve you by sharing certain responsibilities such as night, weekend, and holiday coverage. Accepting most Insurance. New patients welcome. Serving Southwest Alabama since 1974.

Fairhope Pediatrics

Katrina Skinner, MD; Kelly Green, MD; Katie White, CRNP

190 251 Em Est hom Sho pec to fee we

A.B Rob 149 251 Drs atr ins you

Jes Na 200 251 Boa ins ado sch

Ge 260 251 Boa for we

Kat 232 251 Boa

Eastern Shore Parents I February 2014

www.easternshoreparents.com

ge ge ain

19087-B Greeno Rd., Fairhope  251-928-5568 www.fairhopepeds.com Email: info@fairhopepeds.com  Established in 2009 to provide a new and exciting home for quality pediatric care on the Eastern Shore. Serving ages birth to 18. If you’re an expectant mother, call and schedule a prenatal visit to discuss important issues like delivery, breastfeeding, and circumcision (if applicable). Visit the website for more information.

Magnolia Springs Pediatrics

A.B Walker, Jr., MD  Robert L. Rux, MD  14975 Hwy. 98, Magnolia Spring  251-965-3320  Drs. Walker and Rux are Board Certified in Pediatrics. Accepting new patients. Accepting most insurance. Call for more information or to schedule your child’s appointment.

North Baldwin Pediatrics

Jessica Hagemeier, MD  Natalie Sharp, MD  2002 McMillan Ave., Bay Minette  251-580-8475 Board Certified Pediatricians. Accepting most insurances. Providing quality care for infants and adolescents. Accepting new patients. Call today to schedule and appointment.

Baldwin Pediatrics

Gerard P Galle, MD  26030 Capital Dr. Ste. A&B, Daphne 251-626-1862  Board Certified Pediatrician. Providing quality care for children Newborn-17 years. New Patients are welcome. Call our office for more information.

Gulf Shores Pediatrics

Kathleen C. Lovlie, MD, FAAP  232 Office Parks Drive, Gulf Shores  251-968-2323; www.gulfshorespediatrics.com  Board Certified Pediatrician New Patients & Vaca-

tioners Welcome. Specializing In Pediatric & Adolescent Medicine. Open Monday-Friday 9am-5pm.

South Baldwin Pediatrics, LLC

Gary Eberly, MD; David Sanford, MD; Micki Raber, CRNP  1090 East Laurel Ave., Foley  251-943-7901  Member of the American Board of Pediatrics. Accepting new patients.

Dr. Trey’s Children’s Dentistry

Trey Fellers, DMD, Board Certified Pediatric Dentist  303 North Section Street, Fairhope 251- 929-3030;  www.drtreys.com  Board Certified Pediatric Dentist in Fairhope, providing a positive, fun, dental experience for children (and their parents!). Scheduling allows additional time with each child and parent, helping to assure the highest quality of total care.

Pediatric Dentistry Bay Pediatric & Adolescent Dentistry

Wells Hammock, DMD  115 Lottie Lane, Fairhope  251- 928-5045; www.baypedo.com  The office with “The Little Door” welcomes patients 6 months to 21 years of age. Providing a fun atmosphere where children feel safe and comfortable. The first visit to the dentist may be the most important in a child’s life and the team at Bay Pediatric & Adolescent Dentistry has the skills and training to make that visit a positive experience. Call to schedule an appointment or visit our website for more information.

Daphne Pediatric Dentistry

Todd Chamliss, DMD  7058 Professional Pl., Daphne  251-447-0627; www.daphnepediatricdentistry.com  Dr. Todd Chambliss has been providing children and teenagers with exceptional comprehensive dental care since 2001. He is member of American Dental Association, American Academy of Pediatric Dentists and Alabama Dental Association. A pleasant, comfortable first visit builds trust and helps put the child at ease during future dental visits.

Dr. Todd and the staff will explain everything in detail, will answer any questions, and are always encouraged to discuss any fears or anxieties he or she has.

Malbis Parkway Pediatric Dentistry

Kelly Jones, DMD  Kristin Correa, DMD 9807 McSara Ct., Daphne 251-626-9924; www.malbispediatricdentistry.com  Board Certified and members of the American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry, American Dental Association, Alabama Dental Association and the Southeastern Society of Pediatric Dentistry. Her office is a leading pediatric dental practice in committed to making your child’s dental visit a fun, rewarding, and comfortable experience. Call or visit the website for details.

Breastfeeding Resources Baby Talk

29892 Woodrow Lane Ste 400, Daphne TKR Centre across from Eastern Shore Center 251-298-TALK (8255); babytalkes@gmail.com Your one stop shop for all things baby! We carry

www.facebook.com/easternshoreparentsmagazine

Medela breast pumps and can file your insurance for BCBS of Alabama. We also offer personal service for bra fitting and nursing supplies, Go-Lacta to increase your milk supply and lactation consultant on staff. We also carry Grovia and Bum Genius cloth diapers, Magnificent Baby clothing with no snaps and no zippers, KissyKissy, Aden and Anais, Melissa & Doug, Find us on Facebook!

Children’s and Women’s Hospital Classes, office visits and phone consultations are available Monday-Friday, 8 a.m.-4 p.m. It’s absolutely free! Call our Lactation Consultants at 415-1285.

Fairhope Health Foods Organic Food and Supplies

280 Eastern Shore Shopping Center, Fairhope 251-928-0644 www.va-fairhopehealthfoods.com  Offering Fairhope’s most extensive selection of organic baby supplies. Formula, diapers, produce, groceries, vitamins, bath and body care, herbs, books, homeopathic remedies and much more. Caring and knowledgeable staff are there to assist you and your family in your efforts to lead a healthier, happier lifestyle!

Eastern Shore Parents I February 2014

International Board of Lactation Consultants

Large online directory of lactation consultants and local support resources for breastfeeding mothers. www.ilca.org La Leche League of Alabama, Mississippi, and Louisiana- Online information on breastfeeding, phone help from accredited leaders, local support, lactation consultant directories, online forums, parenting resource libraries and much more. www.lllalmsla.org La Leche League (International) Helping mothers worldwide to breastfeed through mother-to-mother support, encouragement, information, and education, and to promote a better understanding of breastfeeding as an important element in the healthy development of the baby and mother. www.llli.org www. breastfeeding.com - A wealth of information about breastfeeding. Includes online directory of lactation consultants, midwives, doulas, and childbirth educators in your area.

Birthing and Safety Classes   Children’s and Women’s Medical Center

Preparing for Childbirth -The expectant mother and her support person (coach) can

attend the all-day Saturday class.(offered every other month, call for schedule) Topics include: pregnancy changes, labor, role of the support coach, relaxation and breathing techniques, vaginal and cesarean births, postpartum care, and a tour of the maternity areas. Fee: $30.00. You should plan on beginning the 3-week series when you are approximately 28 weeks pregnant. Class will meet in the CWEB2 Building. Advance reservations are required and may be made by calling 415-1685. No children at classes, please. Class size is limited. Advanced payment required to secure your reservation. If you are expecting multiples or having a c-section, please call for additional class information.  Childbirth In a Nutshell - This class includes a brief overview of labor and a tour of the maternity areas. Class meets 1st Wednesday of every other month, from 6:00 pm - 8:30 pm. Class will meet in the CWEB2 Building. Fee: $15 Advance reservations are required and may be made by calling 415-1685. No children at classes, please. Class size is limited. Advanced payment required to secure your reservation. If you are expecting multiples or having a c-section, please call for additional class information.  Breastfeeding - This one-night class is for expectant and newly delivered mothers and their support persons who want to learn about breastfeeding. Topics include: advantages,

www.easternshoreparents.com

my tion to Th me FR ma at van vat ac

Inf Pam 251 com ww ISR by 6y des the res Res ski tha enj him Soo

ry :

0. es nt. ce y e. ed ng

d If

myths and facts, getting started, correct positioning, latching on, engorgement, returning to work, and problem-solving. Class meets 1st Thursday from 6:00 pm - 7:30 pm. Class will meet in the d CWEB2 classroom. This class is FREE. Advance reservations are required and may be made by calling 415-1685. No children at classes, please. Class size is limited. Advanced payment required to secure your reservation. If you are expecting multiples or having a c-section, call for additional class information.

Gulf Coast Swimfants

Infant Swimming Resource (IRS) Pamela McPherson, Instructor 251-391-4799 Email: p.mcpherson@infantswim. com; www.swimfants.com or  www.infantswim.com  ISR goes beyond traditional swimming instruction by teaching infants aged 6 months – to children 6 years-old ISR Self-Rescue™ them techniques designed to help them survive should they reach the water alone. With more than 40-years of research and development behind ISR’s SelfRescue Program, ISR teaches each child survival skills in conjunction with basic swimming lessons that give them the competence required to safely enjoy the water. Empower your child by enrolling him or her in ISR’s Self-Rescue Program…. “The Sooner, The Safer”.

South Baldwin Regional Medical Center

1613 North McKenzie Street, Foley  251-949-3676; www.southbaldwinrmc.com South Baldwin Regional Medical Center offers several informative classes for expectant parents. All classes are held at South Baldwin Regional Medical Center,  Classroom A, 1613 North McKenzie Street  Foley. Classes are held on Tuesdays, 6:30pm -8:30pm. Payment options - Visa, Master Card, Discover, American Express, Debit Card. To enroll in a childbirth class, please call: OB Educator  (251) 949-3676. Having a Healthy Pregnancy - Nutrition, discomforts of pregnancy, warning signs of complications and relaxation exercises. One session. Cost: $10. Plan to attend the Healthy Pregnancy class during your first trimester. Prepared Childbirth Classes (Once a week for four weeks. $30) Plan to attend the prepared childbirth classes any time after your 24th week of pregnancy Week 1: Begin the Stages of Labor: The labor and delivery process, signs and stages of labor, options for coping, pain management, vaginal delivery and relaxation exercises. Week 2: Delivery and Cesarean Birth: A review of complications that may arise, use of special equipment, complete the stages of labor, cesarean delivery and relaxation exercises.

Week 3: New Born and Postpartum Care: Newborn appearance, caring for the newborn, infant safety, recognizing complications, relaxation exercises and choosing a pediatrician. What to expect after delivery, understanding the physical and emotional changes to your body and relaxation exercises. Week 4: The Art of Breastfeeding: The benefits of breast feeding for mother and baby, anatomy and physiology of the breast, how to breastfeed and common difficulties. One session. YMCA classes - Tiny Toes members may enroll in yoga, water aerobics and expectant mother exercise classes through the Snook Family YMCA. The fee is $5 a class. There is a $3 fee for child-care. Classes and child-care are free for YMCA members. Gift of Life class - The Gift of Life is a required maternity care program for Medicaid patients or Medicaid-eligible patients. The Gift of Life program provides a caring system of prenatal services, education and care coordination for expectant moms and their babies. For more information on the Gift of Life program, please call (251) 949-3781.

Thomas Hospital

750 Morphy Avenue, Fairhope 251-928-2375; www.infirmaryhealth.org Becoming a mother is one of life’s greatest

www.facebook.com/easternshoreparentsmagazine

gifts. We promote a family-centered birthing experience through childbirth education classes, nutritional counseling and comfortable birthing rooms. Mother-to-be Classes: Preparation for childbirth, Birthing basics, Sibling celebration, Breastfeeding education, Preparation for cesarean birth, Vaginal birth after cesarean (VBAC), Preparation for natural childbirth, Newborn care, Infant CPR. The Gift of Motherhood eLearning Childbirth Education Program - This is an educational program that will build your knowledge in the areas of pregnancy, birth, breastfeeding and adjustment to parenting. This program will help you gain the confidence to make the best decisions for you and your baby. We hope that the information will be a valuable resource and help empower you as a new mother.http://www. giftofmotherhood.com. “Moms In Training” Maternity Fitness Program - Infirmary Fitness Centers offer complimentary memberships to each of our mothers during pregnancy and for three months following delivery. The customized fitness program helps moms-to-be and new

moms increase their flexibility, build aerobic capacity and muscular endurance, and learn more about proper nutrition. Lactation Consultants - Our lactation consultants offer a variety of breastfeeding tips, classes and supplies. Monthly group or private breastfeeding classes, lactation consultation, nursing supplies, breast-pump sales and rentals, certified nursing bra fitting, educational information, infant weight checks. Lactation consultations are also available on an outpatient basis - Sandy Wallace, R.N. Certified Lactation Consultant, Mobile Infirmary,  251-435-2525. Mary Anne Roh R.N., Allison Wright, R.N. or Cynthia Corte, R.N. Certified Lactation Consultant, Thomas Hospital  251-279-1176. Thomas Hospital 2014 Class Schedule Moving Through Labor classes are offered on Mondays and Saturdays. Moving Through Labor - Mondays, 6:308:30p.m.; Thomas Fitness Center, Fairhope (2-10-14 through-3-10-14; 3-24-14 -through 4-21-14; 5-5-14 through 6-9-14; 6.23.14 through 7-21-14; 8-4-14 through 9-8-14; 9-2214 through 10-20-14; 11-3-14 through 12-1-14; 12-15-14 through 1-12-15.

Moving Through Labor - Saturdays; 9a.m.3p.m.; Thomas Fitness Center, Fairhope (2-1-14; 3-1-14; 3-29-14; 5-3-14; 6-7-14; 7-12-14; 8-214; 9-13-14; 10-11-14; 11-1-14; 12-6-14) Infant Safety and CPR - Saturdays; 4-6p.m.; Thomas Fitness Center. 2-1-14; 3-29-14; 6-714; 8-2-14; 10-11-14; 12-6-14 Sibling Class - Offered once a quarter on Saturdays; 10 a.m.; Thomas Fitness Center, Fairhope. (2-15-14; 5-17-14; 8-16-14; 11-15-14) Breastfeeding Class - 1st Tuesday of the month; 6-8p.m.; Thomas Fitness Center, Fairhope (2-4-14; 3-4-14; 4-1-14; 5-6-14; 6-314; 7-1-14; 8-5-14; 9-2-14; 10-7-14; 11-4-14; 12-2-14) Pre-Admit Session - Mondays; 6p.m.; Thomas Medical Center, Daphne. (2-3-14; 2-17-14; 3-3-14; 3-17-14; 4-7-14; 4-21-14; 5-5-14; 5-1914; 6-2-14; 6-16-14; 7-7-14; 7-21-14; 8-4-14; 8-18-14; 9-15-14;10-6-14; 10-20-14; 11-3-14 ; 1-17-14; 12-1-14; 12-15-14). Newborn Basics - 2nd Monday of the month; 6-8p.m.; Thomas Medical Center, Daphne. (2-1014; 3-10-14; 4-14-14; 5-12-14; 6-9-14; 7-14-14; 8-11-14; 9-8-14; 10-13-14; 11-10-14; 12-8-14)

D Ed

Bli

Kal Sci htt My ma birt in a to hel and we me abl rec tec rou (or mo to the her em wh nal sec bei

Col Chi mo Chi out Com han info pre des

Ha 334 Adv Pre

Cer Foc Sta http Pro exp birt two Pro bir par in s Eastern Shore Parents I February 2014

www.easternshoreparents.com

14; 2-

;

mas

19; ;

; 04; )

Doulas and Childbirth Educators Blissfully Born

Kaleigh Naylor, Certified Doula and a Bachelor’s of Science in Cytotechnology, 251- 209-7303 http://kaleighen.wordpress.com/about/ My philosophy regarding birth is that the vast majority of women are fully equipped to give birth naturally, vaginally, and joyfully if they are in a supportive environment and are encouraged to listen to their bodies. My goal as a doula is to help remind women that birth is a normal process and to facilitate her own labor coping instincts as well as helping partners be involved in whatever means with which the laboring couple is comfortable. I can be as involved as the couple wantsrecommending position changes and relaxation techniques often (and employing the “take charge routine” if needed!) or fading into the background (or the hallway) when the couple needs a private moment. I can be an advocate and ambassador to the clinical team, as well. Ultimately, though, the laboring mother should remember the birth of her child as a day in which she was able to make empowered, informed decisions as a womanwhether she has a completely un-medicated vaginal birth, a medicated vaginal birth, or a cesarean section. The couple should remember the day as being joyful, not stressful.

Mother’s Comfort Birthing Services

Colleen Tullis, CPM, CD, CCE , Doula, Childbirth Educator; 251-510-8540 motherscomfort@comcast.net  Childbirth Education Classes, Labor Support in and out of the hospital. Labor Support Services and Comprehensive Childbirth Education go hand in hand in equipping an expectant Mother to make informed decisions about her upcoming birth and preparing her to have the birth experience she desires.

Know what to do in case of suspected concussion.

A concussion

is an injury caused by a blow to the head in which the brain moves rapidly and may collide with the inside of the skull. Even a minor fall or collision may be of concern, so be alert to symptoms such as headaches, unsteadiness, confusion or other types of abnormal behavior.

Any athlete with a suspected concussion: l Should be IMMEDIATELY REMOVED FROM PLAY/ACTIVITY l Should be urgently assessed medically l Should not be left alone l Should not drive a motor vehicle

Out of the Belly Doula Services

Hannah Simoneau, Certified Doula 334-332-8756, outofthebelly@gmail.com Advocating, preparing and educating families. Prenatal education, labor and birth support.

Woman to Woman Birthing Services  Certified Birth & Postpartum Doula Focusing on Natural Birth, Fairhope  Stacey Bufkin 251-928-4107 or 251-604-6258; http://doulanetwork.com/directory/doulas/1780.htm  Providing personalized childbirth preparation for expectant families to help them achieve a positive birth experience. Will be on-call 24-hours/day the two weeks on either side of mother’s due date. Provide continuous support throughout labor, birth, and the first postpartum hour. One postpartum visit and breastfeeding support included in services. ESP

CONCUSSION CLINIC 205.934.1041 www.Childrens AL.org/concussion IN CASE OF MEDICAL EMERGENCY, CALL 911 OR GO DIRECTLY TO YOUR LOCAL ER

www.facebook.com/easternshoreparentsmagazine

Round-The-Clock Sleep Don’t be surprised if life with a new baby is a round-theclock snoozefest (for the baby, at least). New parents are often shocked by how much new babies sleep, says Roslinde M. Collins, M.D., sleep specialist at Vermont’s Rutland Regional Medical Center. “During the first month of life, newborns need a significant amount of sleep, up to 18 hours a day,” she says. “But lots of parents wonder if something is wrong when their baby sleeps that much.”

Make Some Noise

Baffled by your new baby’s sleep patterns? Wondering when you’ll get some sleep yourself? Here’s help. by Malia Jacobson Tiny, warm, and sweet-smelling, newborns are undeniably adorable. Unfortunately, these perfect little bundles don’t come with instruction manuals. Along with the many surprises of early parenthood, many new parents find themselves puzzling over their baby’s sleep patterns. Is she sleeping too much? Is it normal for him to feed so much at night? Why are her naps so short? If your baby doesn’t seem to fit the mold of a peacefully sleeping newborn,

don’t fret: Your little one is one-of-a-kind, and so are his sleep habits. From their first days of life, babies have individualized sleep patterns. Some restful newborns snooze contentedly with no problems, sleep for long stretches at night, and take predicable (if not regular) naps throughout the day. Many other babies present their parents with some significant sleep challenges. Contrary to popular belief, newborns don’t just magically “sleep when they need to sleep.” And brand-new parents are usually just getting to know their new family member, and haven’t yet figured out their baby’s unique sleep needs or sleep cues. But supporting healthy sleep starts early, so read on for tips on helping your new little one sleep well (so you can catch a few zzzs, too!).

In the womb, your child drifted off to sleep surrounded by the whoosh of your pumping blood, the thumping of your beating heart, and the rumbling of your stomach. After being soothed by a comforting blanket of noise for nine months, new babies often find life outside the womb strangely quiet, says Harvey Karp, M.D., pediatrician and bestselling author of The Happiest Baby On the Block. He recommends high-quality white noise to comfort newborns and help support longer sleep periods. “White noise is like an audible teddy bear—it’s very soothing to babies,” he says.

Sleeping Beauty When your sleepy little one finally opens her eyes, grab your camera—she’ll be snoozing again before you know it. In the first month of life, most newborns can only tolerate being awake for 45 minutes to an hour at a time. An age-appropriate daily routine consists of feedings, diaper changings, short periods of playtime, and then being put back down to sleep. By three months of age, many babies can

tol ha

na ag em na lon nig

cir Th sle wa rhy on sw all pa

sle du ex ba ton the sh du me bla lig ch

sig ne Ap int are yo sig sle ne

ful as the ord Eastern Shore Parents I February 2014

www.easternshoreparents.com

l rst a up . f eir

f g

en mb D., he

ort p

,”

e’ll n an s e er nd

tolerate staying awake for an hour and a half at a stretch.

Unschedule Newborns don’t have a predictable nap schedule until three to four months of age when regular nap patterns begin to emerge. Until then, don’t fret about short naps. Just wake your child from any nap longer than two to three hours, to protect nighttime sleep.

Nightowl Nudge In the early weeks of life, your baby’s circadian rhythm begins to develop. This “body clock” helps her organize her sleep patterns, resulting in more daytime wakefulness and sleepiness at night. This rhythm doesn’t fall into place until the second month of life. Until then, many babies swap day for night, preferring to snooze all day and play all night and leaving new parents knackered. To help babies learn that night is for sleeping, seek out plenty of bright light during the day and avoid nighttime light exposure, says Collins. This allows your baby’s brain to produce adequate melatonin during nighttime hours. “Melatonin is the hormone that tells our brains when we should be sleeping, and it’s suppressed during light exposure,” she notes. That means saying no to nightlights, installing blackout curtains, and using a very dim light for nighttime feedings and diaper changes.

Sign Language Like older children, newborns give signs that they’re ready for sleep. But for new babies, sleep cues are often subtle. Appearing glassy-eyed and “burrowing” into your chest are signs that some babies are ready to be put down for sleep. Once your baby begins displaying these sleepy signs, move swiftly to get him down to sleep before overtiredness (and crankiness) sets in.

Winding Down You can help set the stage for peaceful bedtimes in the future by establishing a simple winddown routine. Performing the same sequence of events in the same order before naptime and bedtime helps

your baby understand that sleep is near. A story, quiet time in a crib or bassinet, a feeding, and swaddling can all play a part in your child’s sleepy-time routine.

Support Independent Sleep Parents often believe that newborns need to be rocked or nursed to sleep, but nursing and rocking are learned habits—in the womb, your baby drifted off to sleep without your help. It’s perfectly fine to nurse or rock a new baby to sleep, but if you’d like your child to learn to sleep independently, take small steps to start now. 55

Put your baby down to sleep when he appears tired and try to allow him to fall asleep unassisted. Your kiddo may surprise you by revealing that he can fall asleep independently, at least some of the time. Allowing him to do so whenever possible is the key to healthy sleep habits through babyhood, toddlerhood and beyond. ESP Malia Jacobson is a nationally published health journalist and sleep expert. Her latest book is Sleep Tight, Every Night: Helping Toddlers and Preschoolers Sleep Well Without Tears, Tricks, or Tirades.

www.facebook.com/easternshoreparentsmagazine

Family Calendar Ongoing American Sport Art Museum and Archives

Located on the campus of the United States Sports Academy in Daphne, dedicated to the preservation of sports history, art, and literature. Exhibits spotlight visiting artists on a rotating basis, as well as our permanent collection of prints, sculpture, original paintings, photographs and other arts media. Free admission. Hours are 9 a.m. – 4 p.m. Monday through Friday. 1 Academy Drive, Daphne. For more information call 251.626.3303 or visit www.asama.org. Big Brother / Big Sister Mentors Needed At-risk children at Summerdale School need volunteer Big Brother Big Sister mentors. “Bigs” have fun with a child one time a week, for one hour, on school grounds, during the school year by reading a story, working puzzles, playing catch, drawing, or just being a friend. Professional training and support are provided by Big Brothers Big Sisters of South Alabama YMCA, Inc. For more information or to volunteer, contact Polly at 251-344-0536 ext. 104. Eastern Shore Art Center A non-profit arts organization located in beautiful downtown Fairhope. The Art Center houses four galleries with exhibits that change monthly, as well as a gallery featuring member artists’ work for sale. Admission is free. 401 Oak Street, Fairhope. For more information call 251.928.2228 or visit www.easternshoreartcenter.com. The Exploreum The Exploreum is open Monday through Friday from 9 a.m. – 5 p.m., Saturday from 10 a.m. – 5 p.m. and Sunday from noon until 5 p.m. For tickets or more information visit www.exploreum.com or call 251-208-6873. 65 Government Street, Mobile. Fairhope Museum of History The museum is full of artifacts from old Fairhope. You can see displays on Clay City, the Single Tax Association and the Civil War. You can also see personal belongings from some of Fairhope’s first families. The museum is located in downtown Fairhope at 24 North Section Street. The museum is open Monday - Saturday from 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. For more information, call 929-1474. Marietta Johnson Museum This museum was founded to preserve the oldest school building in Baldwin Country, which was founded in 1907 by famed educator Marietta Johnson. Known as one of the first progressive schools in the world, the museum includes historic letters, documents, and artifacts from the school’s heyday, as well as biographical information about Marietta Johnson. To learn more, visit www. mariettajohnson.org. Open Mondays-Fridays from 1 p.m. – 5 p.m. Admission is free. 440 Fairhope Ave. 990-8601. Weeks Bay National Estuarine Research Reserve The Weeks Bay Reserve has a free educational interpretive center and two boardwalks. The Interpretive Center houses a multitude of exhibits, habitat models, specimen collections and a diorama giving the visitor a better understanding about the value of estuaries, diversity of coastal wetlands, and a close-up look at living plants and animals of coastal Alabama. Admission is free. Hours are Monday – Saturday 8 a.m. – 5 p.m. and Sunday 1 to 5 p.m. 11300 US Highway 98, Fairhope. For more information call 251.928-9792 or visit www.weeksbay.org.

Classes/Meetings Alabama Pre/Post Adoption Connections (APAC)

Offering Adoptive Family Support Group Meetings in Baldwin County the 3rd Monday of each month. The meeting is held at Eastern Shore Church of Christ, 1209 Daphne Ave, in Daphne from 6 - 7:30 p.m. Parent, Youth/Teen group and childcare is available. Topic discussions by adoption professionals and ceu’s for foster families are offered. For more information call 251-4602727 or 1-800-489-1886 or www.childrensaid.org. APAC also offers free counseling services to adoptive families. Celebration MOPS Fairhope Celebration MOPS meets on the 2nd and 4th Wednesdays from 9 a.m. – 11 a.m. at Celebration Church, 8180 Dyer Road, Fairhope. Childcare is provided and is included in the fees. There is an annual $23.95 MOPS International membership fee and $5/meeting. Check us out on Facebook at Celebration MOPS Fairhope or contact

Eastern Shore Parents I February 2014

February2014

coordinator Lauren Beck at celebrationmopsfairhope@ gmail.com. Daphne Neurological Disease Support Group (Includes Parkinson’s Disease, epilepsy). Meets second Monday of each month at Daphne United Methodist Church, 2401 Main Street, Daphne, in the Community Life Center-Gathering Room. 11:00 a.m. until noon. Noon light lunch for $3 from 12:15 - 1:00 p.m. 12:15 - 1:00 p.m. Speaker or joint group session. Contact person: Alice Hallford - 251-626-8228. Fairhope MOPS (Mothers of Preschoolers) We meet 9:30 a.m. - 11:30 a.m. every 2nd & 4th Monday at Fairhope United Methodist Church. All mothers of young children are welcome. Email fairhopemops@yahoo.com for more info. Father Central of Daphne *Positive Fathering, A New & Improved Parenting Class Just For Men, $75 giftcard upon completion. Mondays, 5:30-7:30 p.m. Call 251-626-1610 to register, held at The Exchange Club Family Center of Baldwin County, 27365 Pollard Rd., Daphne, near the YMCA. *Chill Skills Anger Management by appointment. $25 giftcard upon completion. Call 251-626-1610 schedule, The Exchange Club Family Center of Baldwin County, 27365 Pollard Rd., Daphne, near the YMCA. *Nurturing Parenting, everything you need to know but were afraid to ask. Thursdays, 9:30-11:30 a.m., 12-week rotating series. Jump in on any Thursday! Call 251-626-1610 to register, 27365 Pollard Rd, Daphne, near the YMCA. “ M oms O ffering M oms S upport” (MOMS Club) is a group intended for stay at home moms to provide encouragement for each other while providing fun activities for their children. This club is open to anyone on the Eastern Shore area of Baldwin County, Alabama. We hold a meeting at the beginning of each month with a speaker or topic relevant to moms while childcare is provided. Each month there are social activates organized for the children such as play dates, field trips and seasonal parties. MOMS Club is also dedicated to giving back to the community through supporting various charities. MOMS Club is a great way to connect with other moms, form friendship and enjoy activities with your little ones. For more information please visit our website at www.momsclubofdaphne.com or email us at momsclubofdaphne@yahoo.com. MOPS on the Eastern Shore MOPS stands for “Mothers of Preschoolers” - but don’t let that confuse you. MOPS is about meeting the needs of every mom of a child from conception through kindergarten with local groups of moms just like you. 7100 Spanish Fort Blvd., Spanish Fort. 1st Thursday of the Month (September through May). Dinner & Child Care are provided. 6:00 - 8:00 p.m. http://www.mopsontheeasternshore.shutterfly.com/ Facebook.com/MopsOnTheEasternShore . Moonlight Chasse’ Ballroom Dance Society Dance lessons from 7 – 7:30 p.m., and Dancing from 7:30 – 10 p.m., first and third Monday of every month, at Fitzpen Place, 1 mile east of Eastern Shore Mall. No partner necessary. $10 per person includes dance lesson. $7 with membership, includes dance lesson. Live music, cash bar. www.FitzpenPlace.com. www.Moonlightchasse. com. For more information, call 251-621-6665 or 251377-4069. PUMC Caregiver Support Group A new support group for caregivers of aging parents and others is discussing “boundaries” at monthly meetings open to the community. The public is invited to be a part of this support group, which meets monthly at Providence UMC, located between Spanish Fort High School and Middle School at 32200 Jimmy Faulkner Dr. For more information about the new support group, call the church office at (251) 626-2510 or email pumc.office@bellsouth. net. For more information about Providence UMC, call the church office or visit the website at www.providencemethodist.org. Shepherd’s Place (Christian Life Center) Ministry for memory & physically challenged. Mondays & Wednesdays 8 a.m. – 3 p.m., Tuesdays & Thursdays 9 a.m. – 1 p.m. Fairhope United Methodist Church, 155 South Section Street, Fairhope. 928-1148. Single Mom Ministry Sponsored by Fairhope Avenue Baptist Church, this prayer

and support group for single moms is designed to provide a safe and prayerful environment where group members are able to express themselves among others who will listen, care, and lift each other up. Each participant will receive one bag of non-perishable food items each week. Child care will be provided. Light snacks and soft drinks will be served. Meetings are held every Tuesday from 6-7 PM at Fairhope Avenue Baptist Family Life Center, 8717 Fairhope Ave. 251-928-0890. Tango by the Bay ~ Argentine Basic classes are held every Tuesday from 7:30 – 9:30 p.m. in Fairhope at Southern Edge Dance Studio, located behind Pizza Hut across from Thomas Hospital. 251 South Greeno, Fairhope. $5 per class (fee may be higher with special guest instructors). For more information Contact Ben Samel at 605-2657 or Cassie Fishbein 377-4069, cassief13@aol.com. South Baldwin Regional Medical Center offers the following classes: Your entire family can take part in several informative classes designed to help moms and dads welcome their special new addition to the family with more confidence. Classes cover topics including: Having A Healthy Pregnancy Nutrition, discomforts of pregnancy, warning signs of complications, and relaxation exercises. One session. Cost: $10. Prepared Childbirth Classes (Once a week for four weeks). Cost: $30 Week 1: Begin the Stages of Labor: The labor and delivery process, signs and stages of labor, options for coping, pain management, vaginal delivery, and relaxation exercises. Week 2: Delivery and Cesarean Birth: A review of complications that may arise, use of special equipment, complete the stages of labor, cesarean delivery, and relaxation exercises. Week 3: New Born and Postpartum Care: Newborn appearance, caring for the newborn, infant safety, recognizing complications, relaxation exercises, and choosing a pediatrician. What to expect after delivery, understanding the physical and emotional changes to your body, and relaxation exercises. Week 4: The Art of Breast Feeding: The benefits of breast feeding for mother and baby, anatomy and physiology of the breast, how to breastfeed, and common difficulties. One session. • Tiny Toes members may enroll in Yoga, Water Aerobics and Expectant Mother Exercise classes through the Snook Family YMCA. The fee is $5 a class. There is a $3 fee for child care. There is no fee if you are already a member of the YMCA. All classes are located at South Baldwin Regional Medical Center–1613 North McKenzie Street Foley. Tuesday evenings 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. Classroom A. Located just off of the main lobby. • Please plan to attend the Healthy Pregnancy Class during your first trimester and the Prepared Childbirth Classes anytime after your 24th week of pregnancy. For more information or to enroll please call the OB Educator at 949-3676 to schedule. We look forward to sharing this special time with you! Method of payment accepted: Visa, Master Card, Discover, AmEx, Debit Card. Gift of Life The Gift of Life is a required maternity care program for Medicaid patients or Medicaid-eligible patients. The Gift of Life Program provides a caring system of prenatal services; education and care coordination for expectant moms and their babies. For additional information please contact 949-3781. Thomas Hospital offers the following classes: Breastfeeding Class  Thomas Fitness Center (Fairhope). Monthly, first Tuesday, 6 - 8 p.m.  Free. Infant CPR and Safety Class  Thomas Fitness Center (Fairhope). Pre-registration required.  To register call 279-1373.  Saturdays, 4 - 6 p.m.  Moving Through Labor Childbirth Classes Three or four-week prepared childbirth class series which prepares the mother-to-be and her support partner for the labor and delivery experience. $30 fee for the class series.

www.easternshoreparents.com

Tho p.m Tho Tho Tho Pre tho Na Mo For Piiz net Ne Hel p.m reg Pre 6p Pre Sib Tho Pre 279

Tho gro Ala Mee The mo Ala Mee the at T Alz Mee from 345

de s

-7

d uth

ost:

Thomas Fitness Center, (Fairhope)   Mondays, 6:30-8:30 p.m. Thomas Fitness Center (Fairhope) Saturdays, 9 a.m.-3 p.m.  Thomas Medical Center (Daphne) Tuesdays, 6-8:30 p.m.  Thomas Medical Center (Daphne) Thursdays, 6-8 p.m. Pre-registration required. Call 251- 279-1373 or visit www. thomashospital.com for upcoming classes and registration. Natural Childbirth Classes, Fertility Awareness, Mother’s Comfort, Exercise and Nutrition For class schedule or more information call Geralyn Piizzotti, 251- 928-9396. Yourbodyyourbirth@bellsouth. net. Newborn Basics Class Held on the second Monday of every month from 6 – 8 p.m. at Thomas Medical Center in Daphne. Free. No Preregistration required. Pre-admission Sessions 6 p.m. at Thomas Medical Center in Daphne. Pre-registration required.   Sibling Class   Thomas Hospital Fitness Center (Fairhope).   Pre-registration required.  To register call 279-1373.  10 - 11 a.m.   Thomas Hospital offers the following support groups for the community: Alanon (Alcoholics Anonymous) Meetings are held every Wednesday from 7 to 8 p.m. at The Harbor at Thomas Hospital. Call 800-477-1104 for more information. Alateen Meetings are held every Wednesday from 7 to 8 p.m. in the Morphy Conference Room East Tower meeting room at Thomas Hospital. Call 391-1152 for more information. Alzheimer’s Support Group Meetings are held on the first Wednesday of every month from 10:30 to 11:30 a.m. at Thomas Medical Center. Call 345-7645 or 438-9590 for more information.

ALS Support Group Meetings are held on the second Thursday of every month from 11 a.m. to noon at Thomas Medical Center. Call 205937-4415 for more information. Bosom Buddies Breast Cancer Support Group Meetings are held on the second Monday of each month from noon to 1 p.m. at the Thomas Hospital Health Resource Center located at: 308 S. Greeno Road, Fairhope. Call 928-8650 for more information. Cancer Support Group-Family Connected by Ribbons Support group for cancer survivors, friends and family. Open to any types of cancer. Every first Thursday of every month from 6 - 8 p.m. Morphy Conference Room (Old ER entrance) at Thomas Hospital, Fairhope. Preregistration not required. Call 209-1229 for more information. Cancer Support Group for Women Meetings are held the first Thursday of every month from 6 to 8 p.m. in the Morphy Conference Room. For more information, call Patti Huval at 209-1229. Diabetes Support Group Meetings are held on the first Tuesday of every month from 6:30 to 7:30 p.m. at the Thomas Hospital Diabetes Center. Call 279-1700 for more information. National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) Support Group Meetings are held every Thursday night from 6:30 to 8 p.m. at The Harbor at Thomas Hospital. Call 251- 9656264 for more information. Parkinson’s Support Group Meetings are held on the third Tuesday of every month from noon to 1 p.m. at Thomas Medical Center. Call 251455-9919 for more information. Traumatic Brain Injury and Spinal Cord Support Group Meetings are held on the first Thursday of each month from 10 to 11 a.m. at Thomas Medical Center. Call 251626-6337 for more information.

Monday, February 3 27th Annual Entertainment Series – Gulf Shores

The 27th edition of the Entertainment Series will feature 11 shows from six different acts ranging from Emmy Award winners and multi-platinum artists to American Idol stars and trailblazing performers. Lineup: February 3 & 4 - The Kingston Trio – 7 PM, February 10 - Frankie Avalon – 7 PM, February 17 & 18 - The Jan & Dean Show featuring Dean Torrence – 7 PM, February 24 & 25 - American Idol Stars Celebrate Motown – 7 PM. Place: Erie Meyer Civic Center, Gulf Shores. The Kingston Trio: In 1957, The Kingston Trio emerged from San Francisco’s North Beach club scene to take the country by storm, bringing the rich tradition of American folk music into the mainstream for the first time. During the late 50s & early 60s, the Trio enjoyed unprecedented record sales and worldwide fame, while influencing the musical tastes of a generation. Admission is $37. For more information call 251-968-1174 or visit www. gulfshoresal.gov/entertainmentseries.

Tuesday, February 4 5 Rivers StoryTime

The 1st and 3rd Tuesday of every month is StoryTime at 5 Rivers from 10-11 AM. Children under the age of 6 are welcome to stop by for a free reading of a nature based story followed by arts and crafts. This week’s story is “Mole Music” by David McPhail. For more information, please visit www.Alabama5Rivers.com or find us on Facebook! 5 Rivers Outdoor Adventure Night Free, everyone is welcome. Meet and mingle with local outdoor enthusiasts and enjoy monthly programs. 7-8:30 PM Mobile Bay Canoe and Kayak Club; 7-8:30 PM Mobile Bay Sierra Club. For more information, please visit www. Alabama5Rivers.com or find us on Facebook! 27th Annual Entertainment Series – Gulf Shores See February 3 for more information.

our

cs ok r of

f of

or is

ver,

Shane Langley, DMD, MS | Mike McDuffie, DMD | Rick O’Neil, DMD, MS www.southalabamaorthodontics.com

ay,

ch the es.

We are a Christ-centered, patient-focused, orthodontic practice. We are committed to providing the highest quality patient care in a manner that glorifies God and in an atmosphere that is upbeat, unpredictable and, shall we say, unique. We hope that you will consider us for your orthodontic needs.

SAO 001 Parents 1-2page Hor.indd 1

www.facebook.com/easternshoreparentsmagazine 10/28/13 9:19 AM

Family Calendar Wednesday, February 5 Team Warriors 4EVER The Orange Beach TeamWarriors4EVER team has partnered with Tacky Jack’s, a local restaurant, where we will be staging a run every Wednesday. TeamWarriors4EVER is a non-profit organization aimed at raising money and awareness for wounded and/or fallen veterans and their families while promoting activity thru team and individual sports. Time is 6:30 PM. For more information, visit www. teamwarriors4ever.com.

Thursday, February 6

Alpha Delta Kappa plans “A Night of International Delights” The fifth annual “Taste of ADK” will be featuring “A Night of International Delights.” The Gamma Gamma Chapter will serve as hosts of the event, which benefits the organization’s scholarship program. The Taste of ADK will be held from 6-8 PM at the First United Methodist Church. In addition to the tasting, a silent auction will also be held. Tickets are $5 each and will be available for purchase at the door. Mobile Ballet “Coppelia” Storytime Bring your favorite doll to Page and Palette for Mobile Ballet’s “Coppelia” Story time. Learn about the Classic Ballet “Coppelia” where dolls come alive and dance! Girls will have a dance activity with their dolls after the story. 4 PM, 32 S. Section St.

Friday, February 7

First Friday Art Walk First Friday Art Walk is a community art and entertainment event that takes place the first Friday of each month. The event is free and open to anyone. 6-8 PM in Downtown Fairhope.

February2014

First Friday Author Round-Up Join Page and Palette from 6-8 PM as they welcome Alison Knight, author of “Salubrious Climate: Five Generations and their relationship to the Fairhope Single Tax Colony”, Marian Powell author of “The Royal Rose of Alabama”, and David Spear author of “Ten Days in Havana”. Page and Palette is located at 32 S. Section Street, Fairhope. For more information, visit www.pageandpalette.com or call 928-5295. MSO Rocks! Classical Mystery Tour: A Tribute to the Beatles It’s the Beatles like you’ve never heard them before-totally live and with the Mobile Symphony-for one night only! More than just a rock concert, this show presents some 30 Beatles’ tunes, including “Penny Lane,” “Yesterday,” ”I Am the Walrus” and more. Saenger Theatre at 8 PM. For more information, call the Mobile Symphony Box Office at (251) 432-2010 or visit www.mobilesymphony.org for more information. Mobile Boat Show In addition to a huge selection of boats and marine products, there are lots of special events for the whole family to enjoy! This year’s show will feature the Fetch-n-Fish dog show and seminars, the Saltwater Sportsman Association will have seminars on Saturday and the Alabama Coastal Fishing Association will have seminars on Sunday. Look for their posted schedules in the seminar room. Don’t forget to try your luck in the Trout Pond for a small donation to Camp Rap-AHope, and enjoy the Alabama Marine Resources touch tanks and Dauphin Island Sea Lab all weekend. The Fish’n Fever Bass Tournament weigh-ins on Friday and Saturday at 3:30 and the Coast Guard air/sea rescue Saturday at 2 PM in the Mobile River. Cost -$8. Hours: Friday, February 7, noon-8 PM; Saturday, February 8, 10 AM-8 PM, Sunday, February 9, 10 AM-5 PM. Please visit www.gulfcoastshows.com/mobile-boat-show for more information.

Saturday, February 8 Chick-fil-A 5K & 1 Mile Run/Walk

Register to run with the herd. This 5K and 1 Mile Run/ Walk will start at Daphne City Hall. Join the race for a chance to win Chick-fil-A food products for a year and support WinShape Camps for Communities. Free family FunZone for all ages. Register online at www. CRAraceseries.com. Fairhope Public Library Chocolate & Champagne Fantasy There’s a mystery brewing at the Fairhope Public Library as the Friends of the Library plot a fiendish night of “Murder in the Library” for the 2014 Chocolate & Champagne Fantasy. Chocolate & Champagne is the Friends largest fundraiser. Tickets are on sale at the library and the Friends bookstore. Please visit www. fairhopelibrary.org for more information. Free Junior Golf Clinics The Golf Swing Studio at Lake Forest will host a free junior golf clinic for boys and girls ages 5 - 12 years old. The clinic is from 3-4 PM Feb. 8, 22, and March 8. Pre-registration is required. In order to register, visit www. JuniorGolfExpo.com or contact Paul Johnson at (251) 401-9482 for more information. Soup-Off Competition Fundraiser Join us for the Soup-Off Competition at the Coastal Alabama Farmers and Fishermans Market in Foley. Please visit www.coastalalabamamarket.com or call (251) 5975557 for more information. The Amazing “Branson on the Road Show” America’s Favorite Roadshow featuring Donnie Wright, Debbie Horton, and Brian Capps. Great fun for the entire family at the Loxley Civic Center from 2-4 PM or 7-9 PM. Advance discount tickets at Ribs & Reds Restaurant $8, Tickets at door $10, Children $3. For more information, please visit www.visitfoley.org. Make Your Own Mardi Gras Mask! Workshop for ages 7-12, from 10:30 a.m. - Noon. $15 per person, Mask provided. Instructed by Bethany Reid.

To r at w Fac IP The com our rais mis For ww Mo See

S 5R

Com frie wee inte spe visi Mo See

M 27t

See

T 5R

Fre out PM Aud Alab

W Tea

See

S Ecu

Ecu 11: pop live infla buc of h Bro and chil for Fole For or s 344 Cel Fair a tr take Com of t Gre Ala Ear par (GB age bird you wal Reg ww Wil Wild Fre pho wha

Eastern Shore Parents I February 2014

www.easternshoreparents.com

e .

To register, call Melinda at 928-2228 ext 107 or online at www.esartcenter.com. You can also check out our Facebook page for more info! I Pink I Can Run First Annual Breast Cancer Run The Krewe du Ya Yas mission is to raise awareness in our community and help economically challenged women in our area receive early detection mammograms. Funds raised for this event will be used to help further our mission. 9 AM at Flora Bama (17401 Perdido Key Drive). For more information, please visit www.kreweduyayas.com. Mobile Boat Show See February 7 for more information.

Sunday, February 9 5 Rivers Sunday Matinee

Come out and join us every Sunday for a free family, friendly film. The films play throughout the day. This week, an animal we take for granted is actually highly intelligent. Find out just how clever they are in the PBS special, “Murder of Crows. For more information, please visit www.Alabama5Rivers.com or find us on Facebook! Mobile Boat Show See February 7 for more information.

Monday, February 10 27th Annual Entertainment Series – Gulf Shores

ONLY AT THE MOBILE CAUSEWAY LOCATION

See February 3 for more information.

Tuesday, February 11 5 Rivers Outdoor Adventure Night

Free, everyone is welcome. Meet and mingle with local outdoor enthusiasts and enjoy monthly programs. 6-7 PM Alabama Hiking Trail Society; 7-8:30 PM Mobile Bay Audubon Society. For more information, please visit www. Alabama5Rivers.com or find us on Facebook!

KIDS EAT FREE TUESDAYS

Wednesday, February 12 Team Warriors 4EVER See February 5 for more information.

Saturday, February 15 Ecumenical Ministries 14th Annual Chili Cook-off

Ecumenical Ministries 14th annual chili cook-off is set for 11:30 AM– 2 PM at Oak Hollow Farm. The fundraiser, popular with children and families, will feature the lively music of Blind Dog Mike and the Howlers, colorful inflatables and the balloon man for the young crowd, a bucking bronco for courageous participants, a huge variety of homemade desserts for sale, a motorcycle ride with Brothers of the Craft Master Mason Motorcycle Association and a chance to sample some of Baldwin County’s best chili. General admission tickets are $5 for children and $10 for adults and are available at EMI offices in Fairhope and Foley. They can also be purchased at the gate. For more information about participation as a chili team or sponsor, call (251) 928-3430 in Fairhope or (251) 9433445 in Foley. Celebrate Arbor Day Fairhope celebrates Arbor Day with music, refreshments, a tree seedling giveaway, awards, and more. The event takes place at 10 AM on the grounds of Faulkner State Community College, under the beautiful live oak just north of the new building on Bancroft Street. Great Backyard Bird Count with University of South Alabama’s Joel Borden Early Birders Unite! Join Joel Borden at 5 Rivers to participate in the annual Great Backyard Bird Count (GBBC). The GBBC is an event that joins people of all ages from all over the world to get a snapshot of where birds are and what kind are there. You can help! Bring your binoculars and favorite birding book, and wear good walking shoes. 7-9 AM. Free, Best for ages 12 and older, Registration Requested. For more information, please visit www.Alabama5Rivers.com or find us on Facebook! Wildlife Photography Class with Kathy Hicks Wildlife Photography Class from 12:30-2:30 PM. Free, ages 12 and older, bring your camera. 5 Rivers photography guru, Kathy Hicks, will cover the basics of what to shoot and how to shoot it. Weather permitting;

PROUD TO SERVE

Mobile Causeway • 3733 Battleship Pkwy • 251.626.2188 Gulf Shores • Original Oyster House Boardwalk • 251.948.2445 www.originaloysterhouse.com

www.facebook.com/easternshoreparentsmagazine

Family Calendar the instruction will be followed by a short field trip along the 5 Rivers Trails. 13th Annual Sweetheart 5K Sweetheart Run & 1 Mile Fun Run LA Fleet Feet Running club presents the 13th Annual 5K Sweetheart Run & 1 Mile Fun Run at the Hang Out (101 East Beach Blvd., Gulf Shore). T-shirts to first 800 registrants, awards 3-deep, great post-race party with refreshments and live entertainment. Please visit www.lafleetfeet.com for more information.

Sunday, February 16 Great Backyard Bird

February2014

inhabitants from the Mobile-Tensaw Delta and beyond from 2-2:30 PM. Free. 5 Rivers Sunday Matinee Come out and join us every Sunday for a free family, friendly film. The films play throughout the day. This

Check out Mardi Gras Events in Bits & Pieces on page 10!

Count for Younglings This one is for the Youngling Birders! Join 5 Rivers staff to participate in the annual Great Backyard Bird Count (GBBC). The GBBC is an event that joins people of all ages from all over the world to get a snapshot of where birds are and what kind are there. You and your children can help! We will be making our own binoculars, talking about some common birds found around 5 Rivers, then heading out on the trail to see what we can find! Ages 3-10. Registration requested, free. 9:30-11 AM. 5 Rivers Animal Ambassadors Meet and Greet Alabama has one of the highest plant and animal diversities in the United States. Join a member of our human educational staff and meet one of the local critter

week, watch Nature’s “The Wolf That Changed America” about a bounty hunter hired in the late 1800’s to hunt down a wolf pack. In this vivid retelling of the story, the confrontation between hunter and hunted comes alive, and we discover how, together, one man and one wolf set in motion a change in American hearts and minds that is still unfolding today. Academy Award-winner F. Murray Abraham narrates. For more information, please visit www.Alabama5Rivers.com or find us on Facebook!

Monday, February 17 27th Annual Entertainment Series – Gulf Shores See February 3 for more information.

Tuesday, February 18

5 Rivers StoryTime The 1st and 3rd Tuesday of every month is StoryTime at 5 Rivers from 10-11 AM. Children under the age of 6 are welcome to stop by for a free reading of a nature based story followed by arts and crafts. This week’s story is “Secret Pizza Party” by Alan Robin. For more information, please visit www.Alabama5Rivers.com or find us on Facebook! 27th Annual Entertainment Series – Gulf Shores See February 3 for more information.

Wednesday, February 19 Team Warriors 4EVER See February 5 for more information.

Thursday, February 20 North Baldwin Community Concerts Delta Rain and Trinity River Band at 7 PM at the Faulkner State Performing Center (1900 Hwy 31 South, Bay Minette). Tickets at the door - $10. Please call (251) 9375995 for more information. Storytime at Page & Palette Join us for Storytime at 4 PM at Page & Palette (32 S. Section St).

Friday, February 21

Apollo’s Mystic Ladies Parade The Apollo’s Mystic Ladies Parade starts at 6:45 in Daphne. South Baldwin Literacy Council Gala The annual Gala for SBLC will be from 6-11 PM.There will be dinner, dancing, beer, and wine with many silent and live auction items. Tickets are $40 each and can be

bou Gal and Eve

Kn The Fair 22n The to a Fes Ass act soft uni of o the ven alco car aK also obp Fre See

My Fair Rev dow plac beh the Hav 5R Ala dive hum inha 2:0 5R Com frie wee Fro ww 201 The Sho finis pos tod mo

M 27t

See

T 27t

See

W Tea

See

Fr Ma

The Fair My The p.m

Eastern Shore Parents I February 2014

www.easternshoreparents.com

t e d

bought by calling the SBLC office at (251) 943-7323. The Gala is the major fundraising event for the literacy council and is important for the continued operation of SBLC. Event Location: Foley Civic Center.

Saturday, February 22

Knights of Ecor Rouge Parade The Knights of Ecor Rouge Parade starts at 6:45 in Fairhope. 22nd Annual Orange Beach Seafood Festival The Orange Beach Sports Association (OBSA) is pleased to announce the 22nd Annual Orange Beach Seafood Festival, from 10 AM - 4 PM. This festival is the Association’s major fundraiser to support sports-related activities in our community, specifically youth baseball, softball and T-Ball. Proceeds are used to purchase uniforms, equipment, insurance, and pay for expenses of officials and sponsor clinics. The Festival remains the same full day of delicious food, 40+ arts & crafts vendors and music for the whole family. This is an alcohol-free event. The festival includes a silent auction, car show featuring antique, classic & hot rod vehicles, a Kids Zone with climbing wall, inflatables & games and also a children’s performance pavilion. Please visit www. obparksandrec.com for more information. Free Junior Golf Clinics See February 8 for more information.

Sunday, February 23

Mystic Mutts of Revelry Parade Fairhope’s only walking parade, the Mystic Mutts of Revelry, invites pets and their people to parade through downtown beginning at 2:30 p.m. Registration will take place from noon to 2:00 that day on south Summit Street, behind the K-1 Center. Information about the parade and the Royal Court is available under the MMOR tab on the Haven website (www.havenforanimals.org). 5 Rivers Animal Ambassadors Meet and Greet Alabama has one of the highest plant and animal diversities in the United States. Join a member of our human educational staff and meet one of the local critter inhabitants from the Mobile-Tensaw Delta and beyond. 2:00-2:30 PM, Free. 5 Rivers Sunday Matinee Come out and join us every Sunday for a free family, friendly film. The films play throughout the day. This week, it’s all about grizzlies in Nature’s “Bears of the Last Frontier: City of Bears.” For more information, please visit www.Alabama5Rivers.com or find us on Facebook! 2014 Gulf Coast Half Marathon Series The Gulf Coast Half Marathon Series returns to Gulf Shores! Beautiful course, great support, awesome finisher medals, spectacular views, nearly world famous post race party at Lulu’s! Don’t miss the fun, register today! Please visit www.gulfcoasteventgroup.com for more information.

Monday, February 24 27th Annual Entertainment Series – Gulf Shores See February 3 for more information.

Tuesday, February 25 27th Annual Entertainment Series – Gulf Shores See February 3 for more information.

Wednesday, February 26 Team Warriors 4EVER See February 5 for more information.

Friday, February 28 Maids of Jubilee Parade

The Maids of Jubilee Parade starts at 6:45 p.m. in Fairhope. Mystical Order of Mirams Parade The Mystical Order of Mirams Parade takes place at 6:30 p.m. in Orange Beach.

www.facebook.com/easternshoreparentsmagazine

Saturday, March 1 Blend Concert

BLEND is the A cappella quartet that brings back all of those fun loving memories of the 50’s and 60’s with a twist of fun. BLEND is the a cappella group that mixes the great music of yesteryear with today’s comedy. BLEND is a show that you will not want to miss! Times: 2 PM or 7 PM at the Loxley Civic Center (4198 Municipal Park Drive). Please call (251) 978-2462 for more information. Foley Parade The Foley Parade starts at 11:00 a.m. in Foley. Mystic Revelers Parade The Mystic Revelers Parade starts at 12:00 p.m. in Bay Minette. Krewe of Mullet Mates Parade The Krewe of Mullet Mates Parade starts at Mullet Point at 2:00 p.m. Mystics of Pleasure Parade The Mystics of Pleasure Parade starts at 5:30 p.m. in Orange Beach. Shadow Barons Parade The Shadow Barons Parade starts at 6:45 in Daphne.

Sunday, March 2

Loyal Order of the Firetruck Parade The Loyal Order of the Firetruck Parade takes place at 2:29 p.m. in Daphne.

Monday, March 3

Order of Mystic Magnolias Parade The Order of Mystic Magnolias parade starts at 6:45 p.m. in Fairhope.

Tuesday, March 4

Gulf Shores Mardi Gras Association Gulf Shores Mardi Gras Association Parade starts at 10:00 a.m. in Gulf Shores. Orange Beach Parade The Orange Beach Parade starts at 2:00 p.m. in Orange Beach.

Wednesday, March 5 Team Warriors 4EVER See February 5 for more information.

Friday, March 7

First Friday Art Walk First Friday Art Walk is a community art and entertainment event that takes place the first Friday of each month. The event is free and open to anyone. Times: 6-8 PM in Downtown Fairhope. First Friday Family Night First Friday Family Night takes place in Downtown Bay Minette in Blackburn Park (1st and Hoyle) from 5-9:30 PM. Food Trucks and many Kids Activities.

the po of the littl ch sm Th

We make every effort to ensure the accuracy of these calendar events. However, you should call ahead to confirm dates, times, location, and other information.

Please send your calendar events to lynn@ easternshoreparents.com by the 15th of each month! Eastern Shore Parents I February 2014

www.easternshoreparents.com

Find

A Page in a Book by Gerry Paige Smith

wist eat ow the call

ent

Good Little Books It’s a universal fact that all kids start out small. Of course they grow, some faster than others, some more than others. But while they are still little kids…it’s a big world they live in. Sometimes bigness can loom large, intimidating the small. Big – in the form of parents and other adults - can also be an instinctive destination for comfort and protection. But kids should know that being little comes with a power and importance of its own, too. The following titles feature relationships between big and little, with sweet perspectives that make kids’ time as a ‘little’, a plus on their journey to big.

Little Cub

by Oliver Dunrea (Penguin / Philomel) A little cub lives alone in the big forest. He doesn’t really like the dark nights. He’s hungry, too. The little cub sees fish, but can’t catch them; smells honey in the tree, but can’t get to it. Mostly, little cub doesn’t like being alone. In the same forest is a big grizzled old bear. He catches fish and collects honey, but doesn’t like eating dinner for one. He doesn’t like the dark much either. Old bears get lonely, too. When their paths cross, these two very different bears discover that each has something the other needs to solve their problems. Simple sentences and softly colored pencil and gouache drawings warm up this sweet story of how the biggest and the littlest often need each other to become whole.

The King of the Little Things

by Bill Lepp, Illustrated by David T. Wensel (Peachtree) In this kingdom full of kings, all striving to be the biggest monarchs with the most money and the biggest armies, there was also a king of all the little things. While the biggest kings grew their power and wealth, the King of Little Things poured his love and attention into the smallest treasures of the realm, things like buttons, lamp wicks, ants and keys. When the biggest king of all defeated the other rulers bringing the entire world under his power, all that remained was to conquer the little things. But vast armies can be brought low by little things - like raindrops in the gunpowder, chiggers in their underpants and mealworms in the bread. As the great king seeks to dominate the small, he discovers to his dismay just how vital the little things are to making all the big things work. This clash of kings, of great and small, is just the right size of wonderful for little readers!

PM.

Little Burro

by Jim Arnosky (Penguin / G.P. Putnam’s Sons) Being the only little one in her band of burros can be trying for Little Burro. She loves their warm and cozy hillside home. It’s her favorite place, with sweet cactus and cool breezes in the day. So when her band begins to leave her home, she digs in her heels, brays loudly and refuses to go. But her mother’s gentle guidance compels her to join their treacherous and dry journey. At the end of the trail Little Burro is delighted to see a lake for the first time! She frolics, splashes and drinks the cool water until the sun begins to set. When it’s time to return to their hillside home, Little Burro digs in her heels, brays loudly and refuses to go. But as the big burros depart, she finally joins them on their journey homeward. A testament to little ones’ instinctual resistance to change, their loyalty to favorite things and the leaps forward kids take as they try something new, Little Burro celebrates the little steps that lead to the bigger world.

Find more A Page in a Book recommendations at www.PageBookReviews.com.

www.facebook.com/easternshoreparentsmagazine

I, Frankenstein

The Nut Job

MPAA Rating: PG-13 Overall: BViolence: C Sexual Content: A Language: BAlcohol / Drug Use: AThe MPAA has rated I, Frankenstein PG-13 for sequences of intense fantasy action and violence throughout. I, Frankenstein is a tale of good and evil in the most black and white sort of way. To get things rolling, we need a man in the middle, and that is -- you guessed it-- Dr. Frankenstein’s monster (played by Aaron Eckhart). The movie sets off at a hectic pace with a short recap of the original Mary Shelley tale. But immediately after the creature places his master (Aden Young) in the grave, he is attacked by evil beings that seem to want him for other purposes. Not so fast you demons! Suddenly the opposing team takes to the field in the form of strangely digitized gargoyles that quickly whisk the “science experiment” away to a cool looking gothic cathedral. Now it’s time to hear the back-story and rules to this game. The gargoyles, led by Queen Leonore (Miranda Otto), have been locked in an eternal battle with 666 demons that were sent to earth after Lucifer was booted out of heaven. These bad guys, led by Naberius (Bill Nighy), are particularly excited about Adam (the name Leonore has provided to Frankenstein’s unnamed child) because he is proof that life can be created by mortal man with only a few spare parts lying about the lab. Even better, the good doctor’s detailed journal is also in play and if Naberius can get his hands on this beastly cookbook, he can create an army of morgue-marching minions who will start “a war that will bring an end to mankind.” At the conclusion of the explanation Adam claims an agnostic role and opts not to choose sides. With the gauntlets down the battle sequences begin. Fortunately keeping score is fairly easy. When a demon is killed, it explodes into flames and head straight to Hell. On the other hand, the heavenly gargoyles finish their mortality in a flash of bluish white light that levitates them into the clouds. Meanwhile Adam is the ball between both teams that each wants to capture. And the creators of this film are hoping his apathy will keep us interested enough to sit the film out to the end. From a family perspective there’s not much here to keep teens from contributing their dollars to this production. There is a great deal of violence with a litany of stabbings and beatings (Adam’s favorite implement of destruction is a couple of blunt steel rods). Yet, with the aforementioned illuminated deaths, there is little blood with the exception of an explicit injury on Adam’s already patchwork back. The script contains only a single profanity in the form of a scatological expletive and no sexual content -- aside from Adam’s bare chest. If this glib description of the synopsis hasn’t already left you with the impression that this movie suffers from a lack of artistic ingenuity, let me assure you this won’t be showing up on award’s ballots for 2014. Stilted dialogue and a pounding musical score do nothing to help the fact that we likely could care less about what happens to these characters. Add an absolute lack of humor and it’s certain the only person left in stitches will be the immortal monster.

MPAA Rating: PG Overall: B Violence: C+ Sexual Content: B+ Language: B Alcohol / Drug Use: A The MPAA has rated The Nut Job PG for mild action and rude humor. You can expect plenty of “nut” jokes in this script. Thankfully, most of them don’t refer to male anatomy. There’s also loads of cartoon violence, including explosions, punching, smashing and even guns that are fired at the forest critters. But for the eight and older crowd who can keep up with the complexities of the script and the huge cast, The Nut Job is a mildly entertaining diversion. At the center of the story is Surly (voice by Will Arnett), a testy tree squirrel who lives up to his moniker. He only thinks about himself--particularly when it comes to food. He even mistreats Buddy (voice by Robert Tinkler), a scrawny rat that is the only animal willing to put up with the cantankerous rodent. The opening scenes of the story feel like something straight out of A Bug’s Life with the city park animals scrounging for enough nuts and scrapes to get them through the winter. Their leader Raccoon (voice by Liam Neeson) oversees the storage of the nuts inside a huge oak tree. When Surly refuses to help add to the stash and mistakenly sends their storage up in flames, he is banished from the park and forced to live on the mean city streets. There he’s chased by a pack of scummy sewer rats, almost run over in traffic and kicked by an irate pedestrian all within the first few minutes of landing in the city. But just when things start to look really bad, he stumbles upon a gold mine--Maury’s Nut Store. Unfortunately the establishment is owned by a mafia boss using it as a front to rob a bank. However, that doesn’t stop Surly from planning his own heist. Surly’s attempts to redeem himself and earn his way back into the good graces of his friends could have been enough storyline for this animation that is clearly aimed at a young audience. But the scriptwriters choose to add an additional plot line that turns the forest creatures against one another and makes it hard to know who to trust. All these twists make it difficult for young children to follow, and even a few adults will likely feel like they’re being subjected to a big screen version of the shell game. While the animation and 3D effects will hold your attention, at least for a while, some families may choose to wait until The Nut Job hits video store shelves.

What Parents need to know about The Nut Job...

Violence: A girl punches a man in the stomach and kicks him after yelling at him. Characters are accused of stealing and cheating. An animal is hit and then smashed by a falling brick. A bird is hit by a bus. Characters are frequently smashed, hit, punched, slapped, choked and electrocuted. A character lights a stick of dynamite and an explosion follows causing lots of damage to the animals’ home. A character falls over a waterfall and appears to be dead. Characters are chased and attacked by other animals. A man attempts to shoot animals with his gun. Characters are caught in traps. Sexual Content: An animal couple kisses and cuddles briefly. Some infrequent references to bodily functions are included. Language: The script contains some rude humor and brief crude comments, particularly about male anatomy. Brief name-calling is also included. Alcohol / Drug Use: None noted.

What Parents need to know about I, Frankenstein...

Violence: Frequent non-graphic violence is seen throughout the film, along with a scene of brief explicit violence. Most of the action involves hand-to-hand combat and use of weapons. An gory wound is seen while a character stitches it together. Detailed portrayals show frightening monsters and transformations. A brief scene of torture depicts a man being pulled by chains connected to his limbs. Another scene shows a rat, and later a human, being subjected to high amounts of electricity in an attempt to bring them to life. Sexual Content: A man’s bare chest is seen. Language: A single scatological term is heard. Alcohol / Drug Use: A scene in a bar shows people with alcoholic drinks. Eastern Shore Parents I February 2014

www.easternshoreparents.com

remembers when The

Wright Brothers took their first flight.

110 1904

Years of Service

2014