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Keeping in Touch with Grandparents
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COVID-Friendly Halloween
Easy ways to stay connected.
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Departments On The Cover Ethan Brock Burns (4) is the son of Trey Burns and Dr. Cassie Burns. He is the grandson of Carolyn Dillon, and Wade and Fay Burns. Ethan enjoys fishing, swimming with his dog (Bella), riding on the boat, watching movies, playing t-ball, and hunting with his dad.
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Publisher’sNote The Eastern Shore’s Foremost Parenting Source
When I originally sat down to write this letter it was September 13. I was going to write about how reminiscing over 9/11 made me frustrated. I had been thinking about how the country had pulled together as one to heal and how looking at the country now, with all the divisiveness, has me frustrated and questioning my faith in humanity. Who knew only four days later, our local communities would face another enemy, Sally. What we were told would be a tropical storm for our area quickly moved to a hurricane. And she wasn’t just stronger than predicted, she lingered for hours and hours, moving slower than I probably walk. With her relentless beating on our precious Gulf Coast, Sally brought mass destruction. It was terrifying being in the dark of night, hearing the haunting sounds. Also being completely cut off from communication with the outside world with no idea when it would end. As we walked outside to see Sally’s wrath, it broke my heart. But in that same moment and the days to come, what I saw restored my faith in humanity. Out in the rain, with the winds still whipping around, were neighbors and strangers with chain saws and rakes, helping one another. People were offering to check on family members for those out of town, neighbors shared generators, strangers handed out water and ice, linemen from around the country came in on convoys. In the midst of the darkness was the beauty of humanity, and it gave my heart the joy it so desperately needed. No politics, no pandemic, just a community coming together to love on each other... and it was spectacular. As I mentioned, the lack of ability to communicate during the storm, and even days after, was incredibly frustrating and isolating. It was difficult for me to call and let my mom know we were okay, and it was tough to check on friends and family in the community. Texts were not going through, calls were constantly being dropped and we had barely any data or Internet. That was just verification of how much many of us need and value human interaction. Like the communication difficulties after Sally, the pandemic has also kept us distanced from others. We must stay resilient and keep in contact with each other as much as possible, the best that we can. This is especially important with those more vulnerable and isolated, like grandparents. While we may not be able to visit grandparents in person as much as we would like (if at all), Tanni Haas, Ph.D. has some great ideas for staying connected on page 34 in her article, Keeping In Touch With Grandparents During The Pandemic. As I write this, we are obviously still dealing with Sally recovery, but one thing I do know about the Gulf Coast is we always bounce back. I know in the time that will pass, from now until this issue hits the stands, most (hopefully all) will have power. Much more will be cleaned up, the kids will be back in school, and our precious area will be healing and ready for a little bit of normalcy. Well, whatever “normal” is in 2020. Typical of this year, Halloween and fall activities may look a little different, but Sandi Schwartz has some ways you can still participate while staying safe in her article, COVID-Friendly Ways To Celebrate Halloween This Year, on page 38. We have also put together a listing of Fall Festivities and Halloween Fun on page 40. We do urge you to please double check with the location before attending any activities to make sure the information is still accurate. As we head into a new month, I wish everyone a brighter October and a happy fall!
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TherapeuticParenting by Sonia Martin, LICSW, PIP
Riding the Waves of Parenting I was at the beach recently, soaking in one last weekend of summer. As I sat in that sand taking in the vast ocean scene before me, I couldn’t help but watch a group of three girls attempting to navigate the intricacies of a paddleboard in Atlantic Ocean waves. Overall, they were incredibly successful when the waves were calm, however the problem entered in when a large wave would come and one of them would inevitably fall off. Because I can do nothing in this life without viewing everything through the lens of a social worker, I was impressed with their problem-solving ability. Most notable was the way they would shift positions and attempt to counterbalance their collective weight, in an effort to keep their craft afloat. At one point, the one that was solidly and securely navigating the board with her paddle decided to jump off, in an effort to better allow everyone else to readjust their position and approach. Though on the surface, her behavior and actions didn’t make any logical
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sense, it ended up being the key to their eventual success and stabilization. That’s because as they tried and failed and tried and failed and tried and failed, it turned out that a major adjustment was needed in order to move forward. The “leader” of the three eventually realized that and she took action to bring about a better end result. I think this is such a perfect picture of parenting. It might be all smooth sailing for awhile, everyone safe and grounded in their current roles and responsibilities. However, when a rogue wave comes, it can necessitate some alteration in your navigation and approach. I say this to encourage you that when you feel like you are operating out of your depth, don’t be afraid to make some adjustments. Have the clarity to recognize those deep waters and understand that you can gain some success, but it is going to necessitate some parental adjustment and flexibility. And here’s the good news: That’s okay!
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If you’ve ever watched a young toddler begin to learn to walk, you know that he doesn’t get it right the first try. He falls and gets back up. And he falls, and he gets back up. This process stays on repeat until he figures out the rhythm and cadence required to, literally, put one foot in front of the other. Very few toddlers that age get frustrated when they {inevitably} fall down 72 times a day. They just keep getting back up and getting back up and, eventually, they have solidified a skill set wherein they now have capacity and ability to walk successfully. The same is true for you and your parenting process. The waves will come, it will be scary and uncertain, but hang in. Stay the course while making some necessary adjustments, and just watch what can happen. Sonia is a licensed social worker and holds both a Bachelor’s and Master’s degree in Social Work. Her clinical focus is on helping parents and professionals understand the role of the brain in behavior and how to adopt therapeutic parenting techniques to mitigate negative behaviors. She is the Director of Central Alabama for Lifeline Children’s Services and is a mother to 7 sons, 3 of which were internationally adopted and she is a foster parent.
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Boo at Bellingrath
Dress up your little ghosts and goblins for a spooktacular day of Halloween fun at Boo at Bellingrath on Saturday, October 24, from 11 AM – 2 PM. The Gardens will be filled with Halloweenthemed inflatables, and local businesses and organizations will set up treat stations throughout the Gardens to hand out candy and trinkets. Social distancing is easy in a 65-acre garden! Admission is $14 for adults and $8 for ages 5-12. There is no charge for Bellingrath members and children 4 and younger. For details, call 251-973-2217 or visit bellingrath.org.
Distinguished Young Women Baldwin County Hannah Lee was named Distinguished Young Woman of Baldwin County for 2021. Rounding out the top five included Megan Bradford, first runner-up; Danielle Mullinex, second runner-up; Darria Leggett, third runner-up; and Melissa Mercer, fourth runnerup. Preliminary award winners included Scholastic: Megan Bradford; Interview: Darria Leggett; Be Your Best Self: Hannah Lee; Bob & Sue Stanley Spirit Award: Kyla Carpenter; Fitness: Beth Claunch and Kyla Carpenter; Self Expression: Darria Leggett and Melissa Mercer; Talent: Beth Claunch and Cheney Pratt.
11th Annual 5K Race & 1 Mile Fun Run Turkey Trot 2020
It’s a tradition and COVID-19 will not cancel our family friendly event that provides a “Norman Rockwell” type holiday feast for Baldwin County families who are hungry! But, the pandemic will force us to make some changes. Turkey Trot 2020 will still involve a fun t-shirt and running or walking. This year, you choose where and when to run or walk, during the entire month of October. Snap a #turkeytrotselfie and tag our Facebook page while challenging friends to do the same. Every runner is a turkey… for a family in need. Entry into this family friendly month-long event is just $20 which lets you pickup your t-shirt and purchases a turkey for a neighbor in need. For $25 we will ship you your t-shirt. Purchase by October 1st to insure your t-shirt size. Buy online at: www. prodiseepantry.org/turkeytrot2020 or pay by mail: Prodisee Pantry, PO Box 7403, Spanish Fort, AL 36577. Or stop by Prodisee Pantry, Wednesdays from 8 AM to 6 PM. Prodisee Pantry is encouraging everyone to be a turkey and to #5Kfilltheplate of families in need this Thanksgiving while enjoying some fresh air and family time while sharing on social media. Just because we are being socially distant physically doesn’t mean we can’t be social and support others. Thank you to our community sponsors who support this #5Kfilltheplate where #everyrunnerisaturkey! ‘Cause it’s about hunger at Prodisee Pantry!
Rubber Ducky Regatta Makes a Virtual Splash
Mobile’s fourth annual Rubber Ducky Regatta will make a virtual splash on October 21, 2020, by dropping thousands of rubber duckies into the Mobile River. The “adopted” duckies will race to the finish line and the winning lucky ducky’s adopter will receive the grand prize of a $1,000 gift card to Rouses Markets. All proceeds will benefit Ronald McDonald House Charities of Mobile, which houses families with seriously ill and injured children being treated at area hospitals and staying at Ronald McDonald House. Rubber ducky adoptions are available for $5 online at rubberduckyregatta.com, or “quack packs” of five, twelve or twenty-five duckies at special rates. By adopting a rubber ducky, not only will you have a chance to win a $1,000 gift card to Rouses Markets, a $750 gift card to Ace Hardware (Spring Hill, Creola, Moffett Road locations) or a $500 gift card to Bebo’s gas/car wash, but you will be providing funds for a home-away-from-home for all families who stay at Ronald McDonald House while their child is receiving treatment. The event kicks off on Wednesday, October 21, on the Ronald McDonald House Charities of Mobile Facebook page. The Rubber Ducky Regatta invites everyone to enjoy some virtual family-friendly fun! For more information on prizes or to adopt your duckies, visit rubberduckyregatta.com, or call Ronald McDonald House Charities of Mobile at (251) 694-6873. Eastern Shore Parents I October 2020
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Eastern Shore Children's Business Fair
Observe the opportunity for children to launch their very own startup businesses! Kids develop a brand, create a product or service, build a marketing strategy, and then open for customers at our one-day marketplace. Our previous fairs have featured incredible artists, bakers, inventors, jewelry and crafts artisans, soap makers, and much more! We will host 25 booths at the 3rd annual event on October 24th, 2020 at Centennial Park in Daphne from 10:00 AM to 1:00 PM. There will be food, drinks, and fun for the whole family! Social distancing measures will be observed. The ESCBF is a not-for-profit event sponsored by Soul Caffeine Coffee House, Acton Academy, and the generous support of our donors and volunteers. If you want to empower young people with bright ideas, consider becoming a volunteer, a sponsor, or a donor. Contact Lynne Holloway at EasternShoreCBF@ gmail.com, find us on Facebook or visit https://www.childrensbusinessfair. org/daphne for more information.
9th Annual Chicago Street Supper Club
Tickets are now on sale for the 9th Annual Chicago Street Supper Club held in the streets of downtown Foley. This elegant outdoor dinner will take place on Friday, October 16 on North Chicago Street. Cocktail hour will begin at 6:00 p.m. with dinner service to follow at 7:00 p.m. Ticket holders will enjoy a 4-course meal prepared by Chef Brian Vaughn of Wolf Bay Lodge, Chef Greg Buschmohle of the Safari Club and Chef Ira Gallon of Locals and Company. In addition to delectable dishes, the evening will also feature wine pairings from Pinnacle Imports and live entertainment. Tickets to this event are $75 and can be purchased online at southbaldwinchamber.com or by calling 251-943-5550. Tickets are first-come, first-served; additional tickets will not be available at the door. Due to COVID, measures will be in place to keep guests as safe as possible. For information on purchasing Chicago Street Supper Club tickets, visit http:// bit.ly/ChicagoStreetSupperClub and like our Facebook Page, Chicago Street Supper Club.
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BALDWIN TOGETHER - Cooperative Partnerships Working Together Supporting Baldwin County Residents Impacted by COVID-19
BALDWIN TOGETHER is a coordinated countywide framework to assist and support the residents of Baldwin County in recovery from the economic, sociological, and emotional impacts of the COVID-19 Pandemic. This project is just as its name suggests: Baldwin Together. Stakeholders from a cross section of the community formed a working group, Baldwin Moving Forward, to assess the impact of the pandemic and look for paths forward to help those most impacted. The working group’s findings included high unemployment, businesses suffering from a hit to revenue streams, and a social service system strained by an increase in need. The group recommended hiring specialized case managers. Long-Term Recovery Case Management is not something new for Voluntary Organizations Active in Disasters but funding for this personnel was not available from conventional channels. “VOAD has a lot of experience helping our communities recover from disaster, but this is a different type of disaster with very unique challenges. We appreciate our County Commission coming alongside us to help fill in the gaps where traditional funding is not available.” Dana Jepsen, VOAD Chair, South Baldwin Director, Ecumenical Ministries, Inc. Commissioner Billie Jo Underwood, Baldwin County Commission Chair shares, “The COVID-19 pandemic has caused a global economic crisis. The citizens of Baldwin County are resilient, but navigating available resources is complex. This program will provide a way for citizens to access someone who can help them find programs and organizations to help guide them through the recovery process. We appreciate all of our local nonprofit and faithbased organizations for all they do to serve our communities and our Voluntary Organizations Active in Disasters group for spearheading this effort.” Families and individuals impacted by COVID-19 and struggling to recover can seek help by calling Baldwin Together at 251-424-1506 or emailing BaldwinTogether@gmail.com. Case Managers will connect them with available resources from an office at Prodisee Pantry in Spanish Fort starting on September 1st.
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Building on 30 years of land protection that began around Weeks Bay and now includes coastal Alabama, the Weeks Bay Foundation is now South Alabama Land Trust. Protecting land and promoting environmental education remain the central focus of South Alabama Land Trust; only the area and need have grown to address rapidly-decreasing greenspace, wetlands, and natural plant and wildlife habitats. In its history, South Alabama Land Trust has protected more than 9,500 acres of environmentallysensitive land and habitat in Baldwin and Mobile counties. These lands will be preserved forever, and will continue to shelter wildlife and marine life, keep waterways clean, and offer the outdoor recreation that define coastal Alabama. Under its former name, South Alabama Land Trust was incorporated in 1990 as a non-profit organization to support the Weeks Bay National Estuarine Research Reserve. It became a nationallyaccredited land trust in 2009, and began to protect land outside the 4,000 acres that were part of the Weeks Bay Reserve. “Baldwin County is, and has been, one of the fastest-growing counties in Alabama,” Ellis Allen, chairman of the Foundation’s board of directors said. “We are surrounded by waterways and wetlands in both coastal counties, and it’s natural that people want to live and play by the water. The land and habitats along the edges of our waterways protect our water quality, our seafood supply, and areas vital to wildlife. Our mission is to protect them, and to protect our quality of life.” Case in point, South Alabama Land Trust and the City of Mobile are working together on a conservation easement agreement to protect 102 acres of greenspace within the city limits, along Perch Creek, the last tributary of Dog River that has not been developed. Earlier in 2020, SALT partnered with the City of Gulf Shores to protect 836 acres on and around Oyster Bay. “The name ‘South Alabama Land Trust’ better represents the work we are doing today and our plans for the future,” Executive Director Connie Whitaker said. “Our hearts will continue to be with our partners at the Weeks Bay Reserve, and we will continue to support their research, education, and stewardship programs.” Whitaker added that besides protecting more land outside the Weeks Bay Watershed, South Alabama Land Trust is also broadening its stewardship and outreach programs. Through activities such as habitat restoration, tree plantings, kayak tours, and nature walks, community members of all ages will learn about the coastal environment, and get excited about taking care of it, she said. “We will continually look for ways to give our community opportunities to play a role and have a positive impact on the environment,” Whitaker said. “By becoming South Alabama Land Trust, we are confident more people will get involved and will grow their love and care for the natural resources throughout south Alabama.”
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The Greater Gulf State Fair and The Grounds Announce This Year’s Dates
“We can all agree that 2020 has been a very challenging year, but we are very proud and excited to be able to put on the 66th annual Greater Gulf State Fair. While it may look a little different this year, the core is still there and we’re looking forward to sharing that experience once again with our community,” said Greater Gulf State Fair and The Grounds Executive Director Josh Woods. Currently, the staff and board have put special health and safety procedures in place and are working with North American Midway Entertainment to ensure the safety of all patrons attending the 2020 Greater Gulf State Fair. In addition to celebrating their 66th birthday, the Fair will once again feature the largest midway on the Gulf Coast and the ultimate experience in entertainment, food, and attractions, such as Balster Magic Productions, Paul Bunyan’s Lumberjack Thrill Show, Pirate Man Dan, Cowboy Circus featuring Danny Grant, and much more. Visit greatergulfstatefair.com or facebook.com/ greatergulfstatefair for real time updates. For any questions or interviews, contact Andrea Little at (251) 380-8872 or andrea@mobilefair.com.
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Baldwin Bone & Joint Partners with Local Schools
Hundreds of Mobile and Baldwin County residents – primarily students and teachers – recently donated gently used shoes to Baldwin Bone & Joint’s 17th Annual Many More Miles Campaign, resulting in 1,586 pairs of shoes finding new life. Baldwin Bone & Joint, P.C., the Port City Pacers, Dr. Glenn Glass, the University of South Alabama Student Recreation Center, and Mobile and Baldwin County schools partnered to collect shoes for the homeless outreach programs of Wings of Life and Family Promise of Baldwin County. Mobile and Baldwin County students were challenged to collect shoes for homeless families in the area while earning money for their schools’ P.E. programs. Baldwin Bone & Joint awards cash prizes to the top three participating schools who donate the most shoes. Fairhope East Elementary (formerly Fairhope Intermediate) won first place, collecting 1,006 pairs of shoes and received a $500 cash prize. Mary B. Austin Elementary took second place ($300), and Spanish Fort Elementary received third prize ($200). Pictured: Greg Shoemaker, Practice Administrator for Baldwin Bone & Joint, presents Holly Alman of Fairhope East Elementary (formerly Fairhope Intermediate) with the first prize cash award for collecting 1,006 pairs of shoes in the 2020 Many More Miles campaign.
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Jubilee Festival of Arts Moves to October 17 & 18 in Lott Park
The 32nd Annual Jubilee Festival of Arts presented by the Eastern Shore Chamber of Commerce is moving to October 17 & 18, 10 a.m. to 5 p.m., to allow for recovery efforts from Hurricane Sally. “We promised early on in the process we’d be nimble and creative to put on this festival with COVID-19 restrictions, we had no idea at that time just how creative we’d have to be,” said Chamber President Casey Williams. The festival was originally scheduled for September 26 & 27. “Our community was hit hard by Hurricane Sally and this move will give everyone a chance to regroup and take a breather,” said Williams. “From the beginning our goal has been to give the community, the artists and merchants something to look forward to and we think it’s even more important now that this festival continues to provide a sense of normalcy, community and good old fashion fun.” Earlier in the planning process, the Eastern Shore Chamber of Commerce moved the festival to the newly renovated Lott Park at 2000 Main Street in Daphne to make room for social distancing. “Lott Park allows us to put 10 feet between each booth and open up walkways for guests,” said Festival Organizer Liz Thomson. Hand sanitizer stations will be available throughout the festival and patrons are asked to follow state guidelines for social distancing and wearing masks in public spaces. There will be 100 artist booths set up throughout Lott Park featuring everything from paintings to holiday wreaths and hand-forged knives. New this year, each artist is also featured on a Virtual Artist Shop at www.thejubileefestival. com where you can browse each artist and link directly to their website where they sell items online. This gives everyone a chance to participate in this annual tradition, even if you can’t make it out to the festival. The Jubilee Market is back for a second year featuring local food makers. Much like a farmer’s market, these small businesses create their products themselves or highlight locally sourced produce. The Jubilee Market is sponsored by Aloha Hospitalities. This year’s Kids Art Park will be grab and go, so children can create their masterpieces at home. Blind artist Ricky Trione will lead kids in an online art class, showing them how he uses his sense of touch to paint works of art. You can pick up supplies at the Grab and Go Kids Art tent the weekend of the festival or from the Eastern Shore Chamber of Commerce office at 327 Fairhope Avenue in Fairhope, the week of the festival. Kids Art is sponsored by Blackwell Realty and EcoView Windows Doors and Siding. The entertainment stage will feature solo or duet acts and a painting demonstration. You can find the schedule at www.thejubileefestival.com. The Entertainment stage is sponsored by Navigator Credit Union. The High School Art Exhibit is back to feature local up-and-coming talent. Works will be on display at the festival and online at www.thejubileefestival.com. The High School Art Exhibit is sponsored by Riviera Utilities. New this year, you can now buy Jubilee Festival of Arts souvenirs online. You can find festival t-shirts, buff/face masks and 11x17 prints of this year’s featured artwork at www.thejubileefestival.com. They will also be available at the information booth during the festival. This year’s food court will feature many of your favorite local food trucks, perfect for enjoying a quick meal outdoors. For more information visit the Jubilee Festival of Arts at www.thejubileefestival.com or on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/watch/jubileefestivaldaphne.
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Dog Bites and More Hey guys! We have talked about protecting your kids and yourselves from many of the dangers around us every day, i.e. the sun, the water, bugs, fireworks, and lawnmowers, just to name a few. But today we are going to discuss pet safety, and more importantly dog bites. Dog bites and dog attacks can occur from the most mild mannered weenie dog to large stray pit bulls. Let’s discuss some numbers and then delve into some ways to keep you safe and treat dog bites. An estimated 4.6 million dog bites will occur this year with 800,000 requiring medical attention. Somewhere between 10 and 20 people are killed by dog bites each year with the majority being children. And, an estimated 700 million dollars in liability claims were paid on dog related injuries in 2017! So, what can you do? When purchasing a dog or adopting one, be sure to carefully select your dog based on demeanor and suitability for your family. As a puppy is growing up, be sure to carefully expose them to social situations and do it in a non-threatening way. Teaching dogs to be aggressive only leads to harm for the pet and their owners. Keep your dog healthy and be on alert for any signs of illness as this can lead to an increased risk of bites or attacks. The number of bites in
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children and infants are much higher than in adults, so never, never leave any dog alone with a child. The other important way to help reduce dog bites is to teach your child some basic behavior and safety rules. First, teach your child respect for animals and to not taunt any animal or throw things at them. Also, teach your children to avoid dogs that are eating, sleeping, or caring for puppies. It’s also a good idea for your child to always ask an owner if they can pet a strange dog and to offer a hand to sniff prior to petting. When petting a dog, be sure to avoid the face and tail. Dogs are very playful, so oftentimes, if a child is running near or past a dog, the pet thinks it is playtime and will chase the child. Sometimes playful situations can lead to more aggressive behavior. If a child feels threatened, have them avoid eye contact and slowly back away from the dog until out of harm’s way, but don‘t run away. If a dog does attack, teach the child to ball up and protect their face with their arms and hands. So, what happens if you or your child is bitten, or your dog bites another person? Immediately restrain the dog and remove from the situation. Wash all bites with soap and water and seek medical
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help immediately. All animal bites have an increased risk of infection, especially bites that occur on hands and fingers. These areas are prone to infection from even the smallest puncture wounds and can lead to serious consequences. After the bite is addressed, and your dog is the biter, then talk to your veterinarian about the current rabies immunization status for your pet. If it was another dog, then talk to the owner about the current vaccine status or if unable to locate an owner, then collect all descriptive information about the animal and notify local authorities so that it can be located. Finally, talk to your medical provider ASAP about rabies prophylaxis if the rabies status is unknown. Dogs and other pets are wonderful for families and children, but like all things in life can be dangerous if caution is not taken. Please look for more resources at aap.org and talk to your doctor and/or veterinarian regarding these topics. Robert L. Rux, M.D. is a Board Certified Pediatrician at Magnolia Springs Pediatrics. Originally from Mobile, he attended medical school at The University of Alabama School of Medicine (UAB) and completed residency at The Children’s Hospital of Alabama (UAB). He is married to Jaime and has three children, Adler, Walker and Mary McAtee.
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SBCT Outstanding Student Hudson Staimpel- Thank you Hudson for reaching out to Life Star and getting a stretcher donated for Mr. Stringfellow’s classes. Great students like Hudson and strong community support is what allows SBCT to offer excellent simulated workplace experiences for our students.
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Bayshore Christian Raises Childhood Cancer Awareness
Daphne East Elementary 4th grade students were "egg"cited to see how their eggs would perform during the Egg Drop Experiment.
Going Gold! During the whole month of September, BCS raised awareness for Childhood Cancer.
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Baldwin County HS Fishing Team Receives Donation
Alabama Rep. Harry Shiver recently presented a donation in support of the Baldwin County High Fishing Team. He presented the team a donation from his Legislative Community Service Fund. #baldwinproud #bchsproud
Pine Grove Elementary Receives Donations of Ear Buds and Lanyards
The outpouring of community support continues at Pine Grove Elementary School in Bay Minette. The school received a big donation of ear buds from Standard Furniture and lanyards from the Bay Minette Kiwanis Club. The lanyards will be given to students to help them keep track of their masks. Pine Grove Elementary serves students in Pre-K through sixth grades.
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SFHS Student Receives Spirit of Youth Leadership Scholarship
Congratulations to Senior Jack Steudle on receiving the Spirit of Youth Leadership Scholarship sponsored by the Eastern Shore Chamber of Commerce. This scholarship is given annually to a member of the Chamber of Commerce Youth Leadership Program who is a great representative of positive youth leadership. Great Job Jack! #toronation #baldwinproud
Newton Family Installs Plants at School Entrance
Community spirit is strong at J Larry Newton school! The planters at the entrance of the school needed some TLC after months of being closed. Newton students, Kylee, Karys, Marcus and their father Luke, worked to make the exterior of the school feel as warm and welcoming as the interior. They are pictured installing the beautiful plants donated by Tree of Life Landscaping and Gulf Shores and Field and Bloom Nursery in Silverhill.
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Mrs. Cooper’s AL History classes at Foley Elementary School took a look at American History and learned about the events surrounding 9/11 Patriot Day. To commentate the day, we made red, white, and blue ribbons to proudly show our patriotism. Eastern Shore Parents I October 2020
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The Alabama School of Mathematics and Science (ASMS) has opened their admissions application for the 2021-2022 school year. ASMS is Alabama’s only fully public and residential high school for sophomores, juniors, and seniors seeking advanced studies in math, science, and the humanities. ASMS draws students from all 67 counties in Alabama and gives students greater access to quality education, academic opportunities, and leadership development. Therefore, applying to ASMS is FREE, and tuition, room, and board are FREE! Current 9th and 10th graders in the state of Alabama are eligible to apply for this admissions cycle. “Being accepted to ASMS is a prestigious honor. We have a competitive application process that considers the whole student. At the same time, any student who is interested should apply. Students enter ASMS with varying levels of academic foundations, but they leave ASMS excelling on every level, inside and outside the classroom,” says Director of ASMS Admissions and Outreach, Mr. Ken Robinson. ASMS is for students who are ready for an accelerated learning environment that challenges them to maximize their potential. ASMS is set apart by its academic rigor, residential learning environment, leadership opportunities, and research focus for students. Through experiential learning in laboratories, innovation spaces, and the community, ASMS students grow to a higher level of knowledge and skill compared to their peers. ASMS has a transformative effect on student success and pushes students to be the very best version of themselves. This fall ASMS is hosting webinar information sessions for interested prospective students and families. More information is available on our website. Apply now or learn more at https://www.asms.net/ and https://www. asms.net/admissions!
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Counselors Available Virtually at Fairhope West
21st century counseling is happening at Fairhope West Elementary School! Our counselors, Mrs. Wellborn and Mrs. Wolchina, have each created their own virtual offices. Students can log into the offices anytime to access coping strategies, play feelings games, send the counselors a message and even visit the virtual calming room. The best part is that these offices are always open for students to use—even from home.
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Orange Beach Elementary School 3rd-6th Grade Leaders learning more about PE Standard I: Motor Skills and Movement Patterns, while enjoying our new Spikeball games and equipment!
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Life Cycle Project at Florence B. Mathis
At Florence B Mathis Elementary School, Mrs. Rankin’s third grade class presented their Life Cycle project to different staff members on our campus.
Loxley Class Meets Virtually with Hurricane Center
At Loxley Elementary School Mr. Holder’s class participated in a virtual meeting with NOAA NWS National Hurricane Center to learn more about weather.
Daphne HS Trojans Key Club Cleans Jubilee Stadium
Service to others is one way Trojans give back to their school and community; it is an important part of the development of good stewardship and citizenship. We want to recognize and thank the Daphne High School Trojans Key Club for volunteering to clean up Jubilee Stadium this Saturday after the War on the Shore on Friday night.
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Sharks at Summerdale
Summerdale Middle students were immersed into the world of sharks. Students were given a Nearpod lesson centered around sharks before using the virtual headsets to swim up close and personal with them during a VR oceanic field trip.
FEEF Receives Generous Donation
FEEF (Fairhope Educational Enrichment Foundation) recently received a generous surprise donation along with an inspiring note from Madeleine Gann, 9th grader at Fairhope High School. Madeleine was a student in the 7th and 8th grade guitar labs funded by FEEF. She was so grateful for the opportunity that she decided to host an outdoor concert to raise money for FEEF to help them continue their efforts in providing resources to the Fairhope feeder pattern. Gann’s concert raised a very impressive $415 which she donated to the foundation. Madeleine is enjoying her musical education by continuing with the guitar lab at Fairhope High School. Thank you Madeleine for your kind note of encouragement and generous heart! For more information on FEEF visit www.feefonline.org.
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Math Center at Swift
Mrs. Waters’ kindergarten class at Swift Consolidated Elementary working hard at their math centers
Robertsdale Cadet Receives Award
Robertsdale High School Cadet Johnston their Battalion XO received the NJROTC Legion of Valor award. He was the 3rd RHS NJROTC to receive the award. Cadets from this program have receive it now three years IN A ROW! Thank you to Mayor Murphy, Eddy Tyler , MR Pinkston, and MR Sharp for attending and showing support. Also a special thanks to Cadet Johnston’s parents for attending.
Volcanoes at Daphne East Students in Daphne East Elementary School Mrs. Samry’s class had fun while experimenting with volcanic eruptions. The experiments demonstrated fast and slow changes to land.
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Class Makes Flavored Popcorn at Central Baldwin Middle School
At Central Baldwin Middle, Mrs. Murphy’s Family and Consumer Science classes just finished their first cooking lab of the year. The 7th graders made homemade buttered popcorn and the 8th graders made homemade salted caramel popcorn. Both groups did a great job and learned a lot about being in the kitchen!
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Bay Minette Rotary Club dropped off a huge donation of snack items for students at Pine Grove Elementary. Zack Estes and Heather Singleton helped deliver the items, which will be shared with students who may not have access to snacks during the school day. Pine Grove Elementary serves students in Pre-K through sixth grades.
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J Larry Newton students, Fiona Stewart and Axel Madrigal-Martinez, are learning addition in Mrs. Dorgan’s first grade class through fun math games.
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All visitors are screened immediately for signs of illness and fever. We follow Centers for Disease Control (CDC) guidelines for cleaning and disinfecting our facilities. Our staff practices safe hand hygiene. We are wearing masks for your safety. Thank you for wearing your face covering. All visitors to campus are required to wear masks. Waiting rooms have been reconfigured to accommodate social distancing guidelines.
Learning About Respiratory System at Loxley ES Mrs. Holliman’s class at Loxley Elementary School celebrated an awesome week of learning with doughnuts! We also got to listen to our classmates read and create models of the respiratory system!
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BCHS Graduate Receives Scholarship
Cutter Lee Garison Crane is the 2020 recipient of the Eddie Hartner Memorial Scholarship. Cutter is a graduate of Baldwin County High School. He is now a freshman at The University of Alabama at Birmingham where he is pursuing a degree in computer science and is a member of both the marching and concert bands. Cutter was also awarded a Presidential Recognition Scholarship and is a member of Honors College. He has early acceptance into the Master’s Program. The scholarship is named in memory of Eddie Hartner who passed away in February 2019. Prior to his retirement in 2001, he taught English, chemistry and physics for 34 years at Baldwin County High School. The scholarship was presented by his wife Pam Hartner, a teacher at Bay Minette Elementary School. “I had the pleasure of teaching Cutter and am confident Eddie would have enjoyed teaching this impressive young man, as well.”
AP Science at Spanish Fort HS All about the earth ! AP Environmental Science students explored the history and mechanics of our planet by digging through soil samples. #toronation #baldwinproud #capstoneschool #ap
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Christ the King Catholic School Picnic in the Park
Students enjoying the outdoors with our new picnic benches.
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Congratulations to National Spanish Examinations' Winners
This year more than 100,000 students, from all over the United States took The National Spanish Examinations, this Exam tests knowledge of Vocabulary, Grammar, Reading and Listening Comprehension in Spanish. Spanish Fort HS competed against the best students from around the country including California, Florida, Massachusetts, Texas and was very well represented this year with 14 students receiving Honor Certificates; 2 received Bronze Medal, they were Ella Caldwell in the Regular Category and Gabby Najera in the Bilingual Category; 3 students received Silver Medal, Siyona Mistry and Brinda Shukla, Regular Category and Megan Wood in the Bilingual Category. Three students received a Gold Medal, this is a historical first for Spanish Fort High School, all of them in the Bilingual Category: Pablo Martin Jimenez, Bennett Booth and Carolina Triboni. Mr. Sebastiani, sponsor of Spanish Fort HS National Spanish Examinations and advisor of The Sociedad Honoraria Hispรกnica's school Chapter: "Unidad en Diversidad" congratulates everybody who participated in this National Exam and is very proud of their accomplishments.
Bayshore Community Helps Clean Up Hurricane Sally
We are so thankful for our BCS community for coming out and helping clean up after Hurricane Sally!
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Congratulations to Spanish Fort Middle Lady Toros for winning the Spanish Fort Invitational. These ladies and coaches did an awesome job! Go Toros!
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Christ the King Catholic School Students Make Banners for Mass
Our 3rd grade class at CTKCS received the sacrament of First Holy Communion recently. In the week prior they participated in retreat activities, including making the banners to hang in the church during the Mass.
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Baldwin County High FFA Learns to Make Concrete Slab
The Baldwin County High School FFA students recently learned how form up a concrete slab through hands-on experiences. The students, under direction of teachers David Garrett and Andy Jones, learned through the use of builders transit, drain installation, form boards and finishing the concrete. The new 22-by 24-foot slab will be used as a wash pad for show cattle and to hold a sweep tub and head catch to work cattle. The funds for the project were provided by the Gulf Coast Resource Conservation and Development Council. Garrett said it was a “great experience for the students to perform live work here on campus.” At their oncampus farm, FFA students raise livestock, cultivate crops and construct needed buildings to accommodate their growing program.
Math Fun at Fairhope East
Foley Class Honors 9/11 Heroes
At Fairhope East Elementary Kindergarten math is BEARY fun! Mrs. Turner’s kindergarten class is graphing using gummy bears and comparing their data with a friend! Awesome job, Pirates!
Mrs. Glaser's class at Foley Elementary School discussed and honored the heroes of 9/11, also known as Patriot Day.
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Spanish Fort HS Gallery Walk
Students in Coach Nared's Government class does a “gallery walk” to learn about famous philosophers.
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Suicide Prevention Week at Spanish Fort Middle School
A few of our Spanish Fort Middle school Peer Helpers are spending this week spreading awareness for #suicidepreventionweek through positive sidewalk chalk messages! Remember, you are LOVED! If you or someone you know is struggling, please call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 800.273.TALK.
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Bayshore Christian Welcomes New Teacher
BCS would like to welcome our newest teacher, Ms. Joanna Brooks! Joanna is teaching Geometry, Logic, and Personal Finance at Bayshore. She is excited and looking forward to a good year with the students!
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Ty Drinkard Memorial Scholarship Awarded
Jay Allen Malone was presented the inaugural Ty Drinkard Memorial Scholarship. Jay, the son of Jeff and Emily Malone of Stockton, is a Bishop State student majoring in electrical technology. He graduated from Saraland High School with a 3.3 GPA. While in high school, he was a member of the Student Council, a volunteer reader at Saraland Elementary School, youth leader at First Baptist Church, a state delegate for The University of Alabama and a Louisiana State youth delegate. Awarded through the Bishop State Community Foundation, the scholarship was established in memory of Ty Drinkard who was tragically killed in an automobile accident on Father’s Day 2020. Funds for the scholarship were raised by his family and friends and the presentation was made by Ty’s mother Daphne Stamps. For more information about Ty and the scholarship, visit tydrinkardscholarshipfund.com.
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Science at Florence B. Mathis Elementary School
Ms. Dearborn’s third grade class at Florence B Mathis Elementary School can’t wait to watch their caterpillars grow into butterflies during their Life Cycle unit in science.
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Bayside Academy Celebrates 50th Anniversary
Bayside Academy opened the doors to its very first students on September 8, 1970, with classes from kindergarten through 8th grade. David M. Smith was headmaster, and John A. Robertson was chairman of the Board of Directors. On Tuesday, September 8, 2020, Bayside Academy celebrated its 50th anniversary. To mark the occasion, a special 50th anniversary flag was added to the school’s flagpole. The flag represents multiple things – gratitude to Bayside’s founders, pride in Bayside’s traditions, and a pledge to current and future students to provide them the best possible education in an environment that fosters Bayside’s core values: excellence, responsibility, integrity, leadership, community, and respect. Bayside’s youngest and oldest students, Connor Dimoff ’35 and Luke Warner ’21, raised the flag to commemorate this day.
Newton Students Donate Dogman Books to Library
J Larry Newton students Chandler Wesley and Payton Proctor demonstrated the leadership habit of Think Win-Win when they each donated numerous copies of Dogman books to the school. Dogman is one of the most popular series in the library and there is always a waiting list, so their generosity allows all their friends to win with reading too!
BCHS Fishing Team Members Qualify for Nationals
Baldwin County High School’s Canyon Odom and Hunter Odom have qualified for the Moss Oak Bassmaster High School National Championship. The tournament will take place Oct. 18-24 on Kentucky Lake. Canyon, right, and Hunter are members of the BCHS Fishing Team. #bchsproud #baldwinproud #BCHSfishingteam
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Learning Multiplication at J. Larry Newton
J Larry Newton third grade students in Mrs. Henseler’s class show off their array skyscrapers they designed while learning about multiplication.
STEAMbassadors at Fairhope East
At Fairhope East our learning is full STEAM ahead! Our student STEAMbassadors led tours around the school today to show community groups, our school board member, and BCBE staff the great STEAM activities at our school. Thank you for organizing an awesome day, Mrs. Hood!
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Mrs. Lindell’s 3rd grade class at Florence B Mathis Elementary School had “Flashlight Friday" for independent reading time.
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At Daphne East Elementary School 6th graders are learning how to track hurricanes in Mrs. Southern's class.
See You at the Pole at Bayshore Christian
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Video Calls
Whether your family prefers FaceTime, Skype, Zoom or some other video-based technology, use that technology to make the grandparents an integral part of their grandkids’ lives. Most grandparents wake up early anyway, so consider having them be the grandkids’ alarm clocks in the morning. It’s comforting to kids to be woken up by familiar, smiley faces. The kids can’t and shouldn’t focus on their school work all day; they need frequent breaks to relax and recharge. Why not invite the grandparents to join the kids for some virtual, mid-afternoon stretching? Both may need some physical exercise. If the grandparents play an instrument or enjoy arts and crafts, they could give the kids some virtual lessons. In the evening, before the kids go to sleep, invite the grandparents to read them a bed time story, chat a bit about their day or, if the kids are older, play an online game like Words With Friends.
Email or Text
Grandparents and grandkids can also keep in contact via email or text. Have the kids write about their activities; grandparents love hearing about all the exciting things their grandkids are doing. If the grandparents don’t have an email account or don’t know how to text, use it as an opportunity for some extra bonding. Encourage the kids to create an email account for grandma and grandpa or teach them how to text. Kids love to show how smart they are, and grandparents love to learn new things.
Social Media
Encourage the kids to invite their grandparents to “follow” them on social media like Instagram and Snapchat, today’s digital version of the photo album. Another option is to have the kids email, text, or mail their grandparents a weekly batch of photos, which will make them feel really close to each other.
Postcards/Letters
When was the last time you received a postcard or a letter from a loved one? I thought so! Few people write letters anymore, and most people only send postcards from vacation locations. It doesn’t have to be this way. Have the kids write a postcard or a letter, maybe with some beautiful drawings. I have yet to meet a grandparent who didn’t enjoy receiving mail from the grandkids!
Drive By / Meet Up
If the grandparents don’t live too far away, consider a “car visit” drive-by where you can wave to each other from the car or, even better, sit down in a driveway at a safe distance and talk. You could meet up at the local park or playground, as long as you keep a safe distance. This ways you’ll keep the grandparents safe, but let them enjoy the kids - and you - up close.
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You and the kids could also run errands for them, and then leave the groceries outside their door. You get to see each other AND do something helpful for the people who’ve done, and continue to do, so much for you and the kids. ESP Tanni Haas, Ph.D. is a Professor in the Department of Communication Arts, Sciences and Disorders at the City University of New York – Brooklyn College.
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5 Signs of Screen Overload. . . and How to Handle Them
minutes to look at something 20 feet away for 20 seconds. Help them strengthen their distance vision by getting outdoors. And then set some time limits on screens to help them get more balance. If these don’t help, see an eye doctor. Trouble sleeping. If your kid isn’t sleeping, there’s a chance devices are one of the culprits. Kids may be overstimulated from their devices’ blue light, tired from checking their phones throughout the night, staying up late watching television, distressed by bad news, or having troubling online interactions. Whatever the cause, a good night’s sleep is an essential foundation for many things, including mental well-being, a healthy lifestyle, and keeping kids’ minds alert for learning. What to do. Make sleep a priority. Collect devices at night, turn off the Wi-Fi, and enable screen limits on devices so that they can’t get online. Help kids wind down about an hour before bedtime -- meaning no screens. Try meditation (with or without an app), soothing music, and bedtime stories to help kids settle. And if kids are still having trouble, there may be something deeper going on, so you should see your pediatrician.
Gymnasts know that there’s a fraction of an inch between a flawless routine -- and total disaster. Parents, too, know that managing screen time can be a balancing act. Sure, movies, games, television, and online activities can be lifesavers when you’re juggling caregiving, homeschooling, and working. But even when you’re on your game -- choosing high-quality, age-appropriate content, getting outside, talking to kids about their games and shows -- your kid can have a complete meltdown after three (or was it four?) episodes of Avatar: The Last Airbender. Recognizing the moment between “all good” and “my bad!” isn’t always obvious. We’ve identified five common warning signs that your kid’s screen balance is tipping into the trouble zone, and effective strategies for getting back on solid ground. Inappropriate outsized reactions. We’ve all seen the extreme behaviors -- meltdowns, defiance, irritation, or just bouncing off the walls -that kids exhibit at times after screen use. Some parents blame fast-action games like Fortnite, but really anything could trigger this behavior. Kids simply don’t always have the language -or the patience -- to explain what’s happening to them, so they tell you by acting out. What to do. While there’s no magic number of “good” screen-time hours, you can figure out what your kid’s personal limit is by noting their reactions and making changes. Two hours of Xbox = dinner-time meltdown? Next time cut them off at one hour and see if things change. Identify “good stopping points” before kids go online (at the end of an episode or match), which gives kids more agency. Also help them develop self-soothing skills. Establish a more regular schedule so that they can pace themselves throughout the day. Substitute screen-free games like chess or 20 Questions with family to help your kid work on waiting their turn, delaying gratification, and practicing communication skills. Apps that help kids manage their emotions, which you can download onto your own phone, may also help.
Isolation, sadness, crying. If your kid is exhibiting these symptoms, negative online experiences could add to their despair. Combined with what some kids are readily exposed to on social media -- bullying, hate speech, scary news, and brutal videos -- it’s completely natural for them to feel this way. What to do. Some social media may provide a supportive environment for your kid, so while you may be tempted to make them feel better by forcing a total break from screens, take it slow. Talk to them about how they’re feeling, what they do on social media, how they’re treated, and whether their online interactions are mostly positive. Help them cut back on their online time and stick to social media that’s positive and supportive. You can use parental controls to restrict access to sites and apps that may be triggering. When they do go online, it may provide some relief to use social media more as an outlet for creative expression rather than an endless slog through other people’s lives. Keep an eye on your kid, and if things don’t turn around, call your pediatrician. Loss of focus and energy. You know the look: glazed zombie eyes, wishy-washy replies, flitting from thing to thing. While there’s ongoing research exploring whether devices can cause inattention -- and even ADHD -- it’s more likely that your kid is just, well, acting like kids do when they don’t know what to do with themselves. What to do. Change things up -- starting with your expectations. You may need to rely on screens more than usual right now, but that doesn’t give your kid permission to opt out of meaningful participation in family life. If your kid has a bad case of the blahs, let them know that they need to interact and engage with folks at home as much as they do with, say, Animal Crossing. Aside from screen time, provide offline activities that require focused attention, including puzzles, audio stories and podcasts, and reading. Ask them questions to encourage deeper thinking, comprehension, and making connections.
Headaches. Has your kid complained of headaches or trouble seeing? It could be their eyes. Vision problems, eye fatigue, and eye strain can cause real pain -- and could be a sign that kids are doing too much “near work,” such as reading or overdoing the screens. Check for watery eyes, squinting, or kids rubbing their eyes a lot. What to do. You don’t want to waste time on this one. With your kid’s help, figure out the point at which the symptoms crop up; doctors say it’s usually at about the two-hour mark. Reduce screen time by half to see if the issue resolves. Also, make screen time dependent on your kid maintaining healthy screen “hygiene”: good posture, positioning the screen at least 18 inches away, not leaning in and squinting. Follow the 20-20-20 rule: Move away from the screen every 20 Eastern Shore Parents I October 2020
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Fall has arrived, which means Halloween will be here before we know it. Of course, it will not look or feel exactly as it has in the past due to Covid. But with a little bit of creative, out-of-the-box thinking, we can still make this holiday extra special for our kids. Now is the perfect time to start planning your safe—yet still super fun—Halloween celebration that your family will look back on in a few years and smile. Eastern Shore Parents I October 2020
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Here are a few ideas to get you started on your Halloween plans for your family. The goal is to keep kids socially distanced and prevent them from all touching the same candy, which seemed so normal just last year. It is also a wonderful chance to start new family traditions and try celebrating in a way you never even considered.
Say Boo on Zoom. When my daughter’s eighth birthday rolled around in April, we had to think fast to make sure she did not miss out on an enjoyable party with her friends. We had planned to have an animal-themed birthday at a local nature center, so we took the party online. The kids absolutely loved seeing all the creatures on their computer screens and asked tons of questions. For Halloween, you can set up an online party with family and friends and play lots of games. Some ideas include trying to guess who everyone is in their costumes, having a costume contest, doing a quiz like Name That Tune, and playing Halloween Bingo. Parade Safely. We have seen many families over the past several months celebrate special occasions like birthdays and graduations with a socially distanced parade either on foot or from their cars. My neighborhood held a meaningful parade for all the graduates in May. All the kids wore matching grad shirts and stayed the recommended six feet apart from one another as they made their way through the community. This can easily be done for Halloween as well. A car of golf cart parade would also be a hit since they could be decorated in a spooky way. Dig into Some DIY. Take the focus off your kids missing the trick-ortreating by working on several creative projects together as a family. Let this be the year you plan ahead and make all of your costumes from scratch. This will be such a rewarding experience for your kids as they get to choose exactly who they want to be and wear what they worked so hard on. You can also fill the day with many enjoyable arts and crafts projects that you typically do not have time for if you are running around your neighborhood and off to Halloween parties.
Have Your Own Haunted House at Home. Many kids look
forward to walking through a haunted house at school or in their neighborhood. With social distancing being an issue, this just will not be possible this year. A great project for your kids is to set up their own haunted house. Not only will this be a creative endeavor, it will also take up lots of time and keep them very busy for a while. Depending on your own family’s Covid rules, maybe you can invite grandparents or cousins over for a fright night.
Focus on Fall Foods. We can so easily get sucked into all the sugary sweets during Halloween. In my house, that candy ends up sitting in the pantry for months anyway. Plus, so many kids these days have bad reactions to junk food. This can be the year we focus more on all the wonderful fall foods that go along with Halloween time. Stock up on apples, pumpkins, and different types of squash and turn them into tasty dishes. We always love toasting our own fresh pumpkin seeds after we finish carving our jack-o’-lanterns. If you feel comfortable and live in an area near an apple orchard or farm with pumpkins, you can head over and pick your own. Make it a Movie Night. Another wonderful way to distract your kids from missing out on typical activities like trick-or-treating is to set up the big screen to scare them silly. Well, we don’t really want to scare our kids too much. Look for age-appropriate movies for Halloween that they will love, such as The Addams Family, Ghostbusters, Hocus Pocus, Hotel Transylvania, Beetlejuice, and of course It’s the Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown. Go Against the Grain. With so much upside down in 2020, this might just be the best year to go contrarian and ditch all the sugar and spook. Why not make it a healthy family night by putting together colorful, delicious treats out of fruits and veggies? Just hop on Pinterest for endless ideas to turn fresh produce into incredible creations that your kids will love. I know this year feels different, but there are so many ways to make it even better than before. Take advantage of this opportunity to spark some creativity for your family and you all may be thrilled with the memories you make that you will cherish forever. ESP Sandi Schwartz is a freelance writer.
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Seward Farms 10836 Tanner Williams Road Lucedale, MS 39452 You’ll find tons of family fun, fresh air, twisting corn maze, fantastic food, and an evening by a crackling fire! We have a challenging corn maze, pig races, hayrides, funny farm golf, cow train, giant jumping pillow, corn cannon, farm animals, field of fright ,pony rides and more. Hours: Open Thursdays-4pm-8pm, Fridays-4pm-8pm, Saturdays-10am-9pm Closed Sundays. Monday thru Thursday: field trips by reservation. (228) 641-3936 info@sewardfarms.com www.sewardfarms.com
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Seward Farms Field of Fright & Haunted Hayride ad on page 31
Seward Farms 10836 Tanner Williams Road Lucedale, MS 39452 Jump aboard our Haunted Hayride into the dark unknown! Then wander into the Field of Fright and walk into the dark corners of the cornfield. Choose one or both. It’s a haunting good time! Parents use discretion on what your child can handle in way of fear. Hauntings begin at Dusk. (228) 641-3936 info@sewardfarms.com www.sewardfarms.com
October 24
Boo at Bellingrath ad on page 28
Bellingrath Gardens 12401 Bellingrath Gardens Rd Theodore, AL 36582 Dress up your little ghosts and goblins for a day of Halloween fun from 11:00am-2:00pm. Inflatables and local businesses and organizations will set up treat stations. Social distancing is easy in a 65-acre garden! (251) 973-2217 bellingrath.org
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Trick or Treat at Seward Farms ad on page 31
Seward Farms 10836 Tanner Williams Road Lucedale, MS 39452 Come in your favorite costume and Trick or Treat at the Farm from 10am-9pm with our favorite Cartoon Characters. Characters out from 11am–3pm. Activities include the Corn Maze, Hay Rides, Cow Train Rides, Jumping Pillow, Pony Rides, Pig Races, Farm Animals, Funny Farm Golf, and so much more! (228) 641-3936 info@sewardfarms.com www.sewardfarms.com
Through hands-on opportunities, an exciting array of science based programming and expanded content, visitors will have the chance to face and maybe even conquer some of their greatest phobias. (251) 208-6893
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11th Annual Prodisee Pantry Turkey Trot-Trotting Virtually This Year
Virtual 5K Race/Fun Run-Every Runner is a Turkey! Run or walk wherever you’d like and snap a #turkeytrotselfie and tag our Facebook page @ ProdiseePantryTurkeyTrot. Each registered runner provides a turkey for a Baldwin County family in need.
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November 6-22
Greater Gulf State Fair ad on page 1
The Grounds 1035 North Cody Road Mobile, AL 36608 The Fair offers fun and entertainment for the whole family! The safety and health of our patrons has ALWAYS been our main priority. We are making every effort to make sure this event is safe and FUN! (251) 344-4573 info@mobilefair.com www.greatergulfstatefair.com
September 22-October 31 Fear: The Science of Phobias
Gulf Coast Exploreum Science Center & IMAX Theater 65 Government St Mobile, AL 36602 Join us for Fear:the Science of Phobias which explores the science behind our greatest fears.
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October 1-31
First Kid’s Pumpkin Patch
First Baptist Church-Fairhope 300 South Section Street Fairhope, AL 36532 First Kid’s Pumpkin Patch is open October 1st – 31st , 9am -5pm. The pumpkin sales benefit the Children’s Ministry at FBC Fairhope. (251) 928-8685
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Thriller Night of Lights of Mobile
Hank Aaron Stadium 755 Bolling Brothers Blvd Mobile, AL 36606 A family-friendly drive-thru light show synchronized to music. Displays of giant spiders, spooky eyes, friendly ghosts, and more are just a few of the displays to see. 7:00pm-10:00pm. $8 per person, 3 and under free. thrillerlightsofmobile.com
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Pumpkin Patch Express & Scary Night Train
Wales West RV Park & Railway 13670 Smiley Street Silverhill, AL 36576 All Aboard the Pumpkin Patch Express and Scary Night Train! Enjoy Pumpkin Patch, pumpkin decorating, Haunted Maze, Mini-train, Hayless Hayride, Potato Cannon, Cafe with outside dining and more. Open Fri’s, Sat’s, and Sun’s, 4PM-9PM. Oct 28-Oct. 31, nightly. Ticket sales are online. (888) 569-5337 or (251) 232-2322 www.waleswest.com
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a lesson, and an activity . Our event will conclude with a themed art project. (251) 923-4267 info@gcnp.org www.grahamcreekpreserve.org
Music & Storytelling
Historic Blakeley State Park 34745 State Hwy 225 Spanish Fort, AL 36527 Come out to the park for a night of family fun in the great outdoors. Join us for a fun evening of live music, stories and more. Admission: $6 adults/$4 kids ages 6-12/under 6 is free. 6:00pm-8:00pm. (251) 626-0798 www.blakeleypark.com
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Graham Creek Nature Preserve 23460 Wolf Bay Drive Foley, AL 36535 Guests will be guided on a haunted forest trail. The event is from 7pm-10pm and recommended for guests over 12. Tickets-$15 are available on eventbrite.
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3rd Annual Fall Festival
First Baptist Church-Fairhope 300 South Section Street Fairhope, AL 36532 Come join us Saturday, Oct. 3rd from 10am – 1pm for the 3rd Annual Fall Festival and enjoy pumpkin carving, balloon animals, inflatable slide, Kona ice truck, hot dogs & drinks. (251) 928-8685
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Graham Creek’s Haunted Forest
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Halloween Take and Make
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Jubilee Festival of Arts
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Graham Creek Nature Preserve 23460 Wolf Bay Drive Foley, AL 36535 Activities begin at 10 am with a story, followed by
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Graham Creek Nature Preserve 23460 Wolf Bay Drive Foley, AL 36535 Dress up in your costume and go trick or treating in the outdoor classroom. Decorate a pumpkin and enjoy games and prizes. Free activities for children 10 and under. 10:00am-12:00pm
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First Kid’s Pumpkin Patch and Fall Festival Street’s Exquisite Plants & Aquatic Gardens 17750 Greeno Road Fairhope, AL 36532 Fall Festival and pumpkin sale to benefit the Children’s Ministry at FBC Fairhope. Largest selection of pumpkins on the Eastern Shore. Join us on Oct 3 from 9am-5pm for a fun fall festival event. Face painting, pumpkin carving, balloon animals, hotdogs & drinks.
After Dark: A Haunted Forest Walk through Black Cat Farm. 6:30pm-10pm. $20 per person
We Are Open! Activities available in October: Indoor Walking Track: 7am - 5pm Mon - Fri Pickleball (Open Gym - all are invited): Tues. 8am-11am, Thurs. 1pm-4pm, & Sun. 2:30pm - 5pm. The Fitness Room will remain closed in October.
Lott Park 2000 Main Street Daphne, AL 36526 Come enjoy artist booths, Jubilee Market featuring local food makers, Grab and Go Kids Art, entertainment, food court and more. 10am-5pm (251) 928-6387
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Halloween Extravaganza
Arts Afire Fall Festival Coastal Arts Center 26389 Canal Road Orange Beach, AL 36561 Come watch the sunset at the most beautiful spot on the isand and enjoy glass-blowing, pottery demos, games, s’mores and incredible art! 5:00pm - 7:00pm. (251) 981-2787 artcenter@cityoforangebeach.com www.CoastalArtsCenter.com
October 24
Boo at Bellingrath Bellingrath Gardens 12401 Bellingrath Gardens Rd Theodore, AL 36582 Dress up your little ghosts and goblins for a day of Halloween fun from 11:00am-2:00pm. Inflatables and local businesses and organizations will set up treat stations. Social distancing is easy in a 65-acre garden! (251) 973-2217 bellingrath.org
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Foley Witches Ride Jessamine Street Foley, AL 36535 Foley Witches Rides will take place in Downtown Foley beginning at 5:00 pm and will end with an after party. Benefiting Family Promise. (251) 424-7097 foleywitchesride@gmail.com www.eventbrite.com/e/foley-witches-ride-2020-tickets-108155203124
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Foley Public Library 319 East Laurel Avenue Foley, AL 36535 Enjoy a family friendly carnival outside and inside Haunted Stacks for teens & adults. DJ, games, balloon artist, face painting and Haunted Stacks inside for teens and adults. 5:00pm - 8:00pm. (251) 943-7665 foleylibrary@gmail.com www.foleylibrary.org
Honey Bee Festival
Honey Bee Park 22780 AL-59 Robertsdale, AL 36567 The Festival begins with a 5k/fun run followed by live entertainment, vendors, food and more. The Central Baldwin Education Foundation is cautiously moving ahead, with the newly renovated park, there is plenty of space to social distance and apply additional safety guidelines 251-947-8950 recreation
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Williams Station Day
Pensacola Avenue Atmore, AL 36502 Jump on a Hayride, travel back in time and learn Atmore’s history! Vendors will offer art, merchandise, food and more for purchase. The library will host a pumpkin decorating contest! 9am - 4pm.
(251) 368-3305 receptionist@atmorechamber.com www.atmorechamber.com
October 25
St. James Episcopal Church Trunk or Treat St. James Episcopaln Church 860 N Section Street, Fairhope, AL 36532 5-6 pm - Trunk or Treat in the parking lot, Storybook Pumpkin Decorating Contest, Fun, Games. 6 - 7:30 pm - It’s the Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown Movie on the Parking Meadow. Bring your own blanket and Picnic Dinner for the movie. Wear a “friendly” costume. (251) 928-2912
Spooky Movie on the Lawn
The Wharf 23101 Canal Road Orange Beach, AL 36561 Gather on The Wharf’s Marina Lawn for an evening of spell-casting, cinematic fun featuring the movie, Coco! Be sure to come dressed in your Halloween best to Trick or Treat and enjoy hayrides provided by Kutter’s Landscaping. Complimentary popcorn and hot chocolate. Best of all, admission is free! 5:00pm. Movie at 7:30pm. (251) 224-1000 info@alwharf.com www.alwharf.com
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A Ghoulish Good Movie
The Wharf 23101 Canal Road Orange Beach, AL 36561 Ghosts, goblins and ghouls, oh my! Join us for a spook-tacular good movie, Ghostbusters! Be sure to come dressed in your Halloween best to Trick or Treat and enjoy hayrides provided by Kutter’s Landscaping. Complimentary popcorn and hot chocolate. Best of all, admission is free! 4:00pm. Movie at 6:30pm. (251) 224-1000
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The Wharf 23101 Canal Road Orange Beach, AL 36561 Hunt-O-Ween is in the streets. So join us for a fright, as the hunt begins tonight. Come early in your costume to Trick or Treat with the tenants before the hunt! Then, don’t be a scaredy cat, grab the map and let the search begin. Find at least 5 spooky treasures and pick a prize out of the caldron. 4:00pm-7:00pm
Daphne Public Library 2607 Highway 98 Daphne, AL 36526 Drive-Thru Halloween Trick or Treat. 4:00pm-6:00pm
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October 27, 30
Chilling Chalk + DJ Night
The Wharf 23101 Canal Road Orange Beach, AL 36561 Get dressed in your Halloween best and join us for Chilling Chalk+DJ Night where the ghostess with the mostest will be sure you have a scary good time! Come early to Trick or Treat. 4:00pm7:00pm (251) 224-1000 info@alwharf.com www.alwharf.com
October 29
Foley Halloween Drive In Movie
998 W Section St Foley , AL 36535 Foley’s Hometown Halloween will morph into an entertaining Halloween drive-in movie this year. Treat bags will be distributed to each child 12 and under and we will have a virtual costume contest. 5:30pm-8pm (251) 943-1300
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Drive-Thru Halloween Trick or Treat
Dauphin Island Haunted Bicycle Ride
1010 Bienville Blvd Dauphin Island, AL 36528 A fun bike ride past some of the most haunted spots on Dauphin Island! This race benefits ARF. Tickets only available online
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Trick or Treat on the Streets
Downtown Atmore 137 North Main Street Atmore, AL 36502 Trick-or-Treat on Main Street from 4pm–6pm. Businesses will be giving out candy to trick-ortreaters. Visit our Facebook Event page, as well as the Chamber Facebook page for participating businesses.
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October 31
Stapleton School 35500 Baldwin Ave Stapleton, AL 36578 Stapleton Bluegrass Festival-Outstanding musical talent, food trucks, family friendly activities and vendors. Enjoy outstanding Bluegrass music! $10 for adults, $5 for kids 5-12. 10:30am-5pm
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2nd Annual Trunk-or-Treat
Silverhill Town Hall Silverhill, AL 36576 Our community is invited for an evening of fun with the Town of Silverhill for the 2nd annual
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Elberta German Sausage Festival-Drive Thru Event
13052 Main Street Elberta, AL 36530 Due to the ongoing COVID-19 pandemic, we have made the decision to once again hold a drive-thru event instead of a full October 2020 Festival. Please check our Facebook page for more details. (251) 986-5805 festival@elbertafire.com www.elbertafire.com/sausage-festival
2020 Stapleton Bluegrass Festival
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First Annual Catapult Challenge
Flight Works Alabama 2000 Aerospace Drive Mobile, AL 36615 Teams are to construct a “working” trebuchet or catapult using any materials from home. Teams will compete to determine which team can make their pumpkin FLY the farthest. There will be three competitive divisions and awards. Registration online. (251) 512-2320 events/
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Halloween at the Exploreum
Gulf Coast Exploreum Science Center & IMAX Theater 65 Government St Mobile, AL 36602 Join us for an extra spooky Halloween at the Exploreum-featuring themed activities and demos, our revamped, in-house exhibit, Fear: The Science of Phobias while you’re here, and more! Costumes encouraged as always. 10:30am-3pm (251) 208-6893
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Monster Mash
Happy Days A PlayCafe 229 East 20th Ave #11 Gulf Shores, AL 36542 Join us for a fun costume dance party, wear your costumes, get ready to dance, snack, craft, costume contest & leave with a treat bag. 9:30am-11:00am Register: app.squarespacescheduling.com/schedule.php (251) 210-8639 happydaysaplaycafe@gmail.com www.happydaysaplaycafe.com
Spooky Sparks After Dark
The Wharf 23101 Canal Road Orange Beach, AL 36561 See the skies come alive for Spooky Sparks After Dark on Halloween night. With chilling music and screams of fire, you do not want to miss this eventful night. So come dressed in your Halloween best to Trick or Treat with the tenants and finish the night with a bang! Fireworks at 7:45 pm. (251) 224-1000
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November 1
Pumpkin Smash
Gulf Coast Exploreum Science Center & IMAX Theater 65 Government St Mobile, AL 36602 Bring your Halloween pumpkins and jack-olanterns and test the laws of gravity by dropping them and smashing them in some exciting and educational ways. You bring the pumpkins, we clean up the mess. 1pm-3pm. (251) 208-6893
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November 12-13
Fairhope Film Festival
Oak Hollow Farm 14210 Greeno Road Fairhope, AL Join us for our 8th annual festival with a “drive-in” format! Movies start at 6pm. (251) 990-7957 info@fairhopefilmfestival.org fairhopefilmfestival.org
November 21
Family Farm Day 2020
Humming Star Alpacas 19700 Blueberry Lane Silverhill, AL 36576 Come visit and learn about alpacas, explore items made of alpaca fiber, shop with local vendors, participate in hands-on fiber arts, and have lunch. 10:00am-4:00pm. (251) 214-8224 StarAlpacas
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Jubilee Renaissance Faire
The Medieval Village 30569 Osprey Lane Robertsdale, AL 36567 Enjoy Medieval Games of Skill, such as Archery or Axe throwing. War Horse rides, a Falconry demonstration and other live animal exhibitions. The main event will be a real full contact Jousting Tournament. (970) 690-3777 jubileefaire
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Grading Family Movies: Streaming, Digital Rentals, and DVDs Enola Holmes
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Enola Holmes has had an unconventional upbringing with a mother who has eschewed traditional Victorian pastimes for martial arts, code breaking, and reading feminist tomes. When Enola wakes up on her 16th birthday to find her mother gone, she is distraught. Her brothers, Mycroft and Sherlock Holmes soon appear to find their mother and “tame” Enola. Running away, Enola finds herself involved with a missing viscount, a murderous plot, and looming political reform. This entertaining family film is a great choice for family movie night with tweens and teens. Photo ©Netflix
Secret Society of Second Born Royals
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Princess Samantha is sick of being the “spare to the heir”. Cutting ribbons, smiling graciously, and following behind her perfect sister hold no appeal to the young rebel who would rather sing protest songs on street corners. Then she learns that as a second born royal she has a unique genetic anomaly that gives her superpowers. Now all she needs to do is identify her power, hone her skills, and save the world. This movie won’t charm adults but it comes with lots of positive themes for kids. Photo © Disney +
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It’s 1970 and a group of women in London have finally had it with the casual sexism that permeates their culture. So they decide to make a statement by disrupting the Miss World competition. Based on a true story, this thoughtful film examines their perspective as well as the experiences of the contestants who are impacted by the demonstrations. With profanity being the movie’s only major downside, it can be a useful catalyst for family discussions about gender roles and cultural expectations. Photo © Shout! Factory
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Seven heroic princes have traveled the land, coming to the aid of those in need until they are cursed by a fairy who turns them into dwarves. Their only hope is to be kissed by a beautiful princess. Meanwhile, Princess Snow White comes across a pair of red shoes that transform her into a slender, conventionally beautiful princess. Filled with messages of body positivity and kindness, this film is suitable for kids – and their parents might even laugh at the jokes. Photo ©Lionsgate Photo © Lionsgate
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being stupid and emotional about things. The adolescent brain is very uneven. Some parts of the brain are very adult in their structure and function while other parts are very immature,” says pediatric psychologist Stephen Lassen, Ph.D. The prefrontal cortex of the brain, which handles decision-making, isn’t fully developed until around the age of 25. Given the number of decisions kids must make as they move into early adulthood—college, career, relationships—this “makes for a challenging environment for parents,” Lassen says.
“What were you thinking?!” Then you know that kids, especially teens, can make some profoundly poor decisions. Luckily, we can help them learn smart decision-making skills and manage mistakes— without helicoptering their every move.
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While we can’t manipulate biology, we can take steps to nurture thoughtful, independent decision-making.
Give choices from an early age. Prime the decision-making pump beginning in toddlerhood. Offer your child simple choices that you can live with like: “Would you like to wear the red shirt or the yellow shirt?” “Would you like to take a bath before or after dinner?” “Giving options like that not only helps them start to think through decisions, make decisions and accept consequences of those decisions, but it also sends the message that kids can do it, which tends to build self-confidence,” Lassen says.
Offer age-appropriate decisions. You know best what decisions your child is ready for based on past history, development and personality. But in general, experts say that teens are ready to choose their own friends, their after-school activities, clothing and hairstyles, and the type of summer job they’d like to get. “Those are totally appropriate decisions for teens to make that don’t have an
impact on their safety or potential for a significant long-term consequences,” says pediatric psychologist Christina Low Kapalu, Ph.D. “When decisions do involve their safety or potential for significant long-term consequences, that’s when we want to involve parents’ input.” Low Kapalu also recommends involving teens in their healthcare decision-making. They should be part of the conversation with their healthcare providers, like participating with you in scheduling their appointments and asking questions about treatment options and side effects. “If they can’t do that by the time they’re 18, they’re going to really struggle to access medical care,” Low Kapalu says.
Create a supportive framework. Think of how scaffolding supports buildings that are under construction. As the building becomes more secure and able to stand on its own, we remove pieces of the scaffolding. In the same vein, “scaffolding is gradually removed as kids demonstrate
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mastery of different skills and the decisionmaking process,” Lassen says. “We’re not directly making all of the decisions for them, but the scaffolding— the structure—is around them to help them grow into this skill of making decisions in a safe, monitored way.”
Establish ground rules. With each new freedom, clearly explain your expectations with the understanding that privileges can be pulled back again. “It’s a process. The research really shows that authoritative parenting style, which is just setting limits and enforcing clear limits with lots of warmth and engagement serves us well in the teenage
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Decision Reflections What are/were my options? Pros/Cons? Do/did I need additional information? Which option did I choose? Why? Given another chance, would I choose differently?
years,” says therapist Julie Gettings, MSWLSCSW. “If they make a poor decision or if we’ve given them too much freedom, then sometimes we have to pull the rope back a little bit.”
Offer permission with parameters. “Kids will come to us with
a request, and we immediately want to say, ‘no, you can’t do that.’ But take a step back, pause and think about ‘what can I be okay with within that request?’” Gettings advises. For example, maybe your 14-year-old wants to go to the mall with friends. Instead of dismissing the idea, determine who they plan to go with and which adults will handle pick up and drop off. Set expectations like:
“I expect you to answer your phone when I call you while you’re there.” or “I expect you to check in with me periodically while you are there.” And, reinforce the positive by consistently praising the wise choices your child makes.
Build confidence. For kids who ex-
perience anxiety around decision-making, give them multiple opportunities to make small decisions and praise them for simply making a choice even if you aren’t a fan of the decision. Avoid causing them to second-guess by saying things like, “Are you sure you want to do that?” which can further breed uncertainty. “The more decisions you make, the more comfortable you are with things maybe not working out perfectly, maybe even failing,” Lassen says. “But life goes on and as kids repeat that, they come to see that making a bad decision is not the end of the world. And, in fact, it can really teach us a lot.”
Wait to be needed. Resist swooping in and rescuing your child from the consequences of their poor decision. For example, if they forgot their science homework, they’ll have to face the consequence.
“Rushing in too quickly sends the message to kids that they can’t do it, and it tends to push kids away from parents. It promotes dependence, which is the opposite of what we’re trying to as parents,” Lassen says. “We want our kids to be happy and do well, but so much of being a healthy, well-functioning adult is learning from difficult experiences where decisions didn’t go well.”
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decisions that we later regret. “Stress to your child that you love them even if you don’t like their decision,” Low Kapalu says. Rather than harshly interrogating or criticizing your child, facilitate a thoughtful, logical discussion, which will help them feel safe coming to you when they make mistakes. “Unfortunately, we can’t always see our blind spots and teens are no different,” Low Kapalu says. “They may not be aware of their inability to see the long-term consequences or be able to identify all of the possible outcomes because they don’t have the life experience that their parents do.” ESP
Christa Melnyk Hines is a nationally published writer. She has two adolescent sons, whose decisions sometimes leave her scratching her head.
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First Friday Artwalk 6:00 PM - 8:00 PM, Downtown Fairhope, Fairhope, AL, 36532 Fairhope First Friday Art Walk Visit our local merchants in Downtown Fairhope as they open late and highlight the art community. Art Walk happens every first Friday of each month from 6-8 p.m.
October 3-24
Le Tour De Foley Flex Ride ($40) Virtual Event, Le Tour De Foley will begin on October 3 and last three weeks, until October 24, so you’ll have plenty of time to do your Real World ride and send us your ride map! ou will still physically ride, and you will still get great prizes plus a unique commemorative T-shirt! baldwinbikefest.com
Saturday October 3
10th Annual Dog River Fishing Tournament 6:00 AM We are excited to announce that DRCR’s 10th Annual Dog River Fishing Tournament will take place on Saturday, October 3rd! We invite all professional and recreational fisherman, women and children to join us in this fundraising event to benefit DRCR’s mission to improve the water quality of, and access to, Dog River and its tributaries. www.dogriver.org
Wednesday October 7
Leaders are Readers 10:30 AM Page & Palette-Virtual, Join Page & Palette on Wednesdays at 10:30am for our Virtual Storytime! Each week, leaders and authors in our community will share a story on Facebook Live. Oct 7 - Chef Pete Blohme, Panini Pete’s www.facebook.com/PageAndPalette/
Wednesday October 14
Leaders are Readers 10:30 AM Page & Palette-Virtual, Join Page & Palette on Wednesdays at 10:30am for our Virtual Storytime! Each week, leaders and authors in our community will share a story on Facebook Live. Stephanie Hollinghead, Fairhope Chief of Police www.facebook.com/PageAndPalette/
Saturday October 17
Bras Across the “CAUSE”way 5K and Fun Run 8:00 AM Meaher State Park, Spanish Fort, AL, 36527 Race to benefit Providence Hospital Breast Cancer Outreach Fund www.eventbrite.com Jubilee Festival of Arts 10:00 AM - 5:00 PM, Lott Park, 2000 Main Street Daphne, AL, 36526 There will be 100 artist booths set up throughout Lott Park featuring everything from paintings to holiday wreaths and hand-forged knives. New this year, each artist is also featured on a Virtual Artist Shop at www.thejubileefestival.com where you can browse each artist and link directly to their website where they sell items online. Also featuring this year, Jubilee Market, Grab and Go Kids Art, entertainment, High School Art Exhibit and more! www.thejubileefestival.com
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Festival of Strings 6:00pm; 8:30pm We will open our season with an all-strings program headlined by American composer Samuel Barber’s beloved Adagio for Strings. Great Music, Safely Enjoyed. 251-432-2010 mobilesymphony.org
Sunday October 18
Jubilee Festival of Arts 10:00 AM - 5:00 PM, Lott Park, 2000 Main Street Daphne, AL, 36526 There will be 100 artist booths set up throughout Lott Park featuring everything from paintings to holiday wreaths and hand-forged knives. New this year, each artist is also featured on a Virtual Artist Shop at www.thejubileefestival.com where you can browse each artist and link directly to their website where they sell items online. Also featuring this year, Jubilee Market, Grab and Go Kids Art, entertainment, High School Art Exhibit and more! www.thejubileefestival.com Festival of Strings 1:00pm; 3:30pm We will open our season with an all-strings program headlined by American composer Samuel Barber’s beloved Adagio for Strings. Great Music, Safely Enjoyed. 251-432-2010 mobilesymphony.org
Wednesday October 21
Rubber Ducky Regatta-Virtual ($5 online at rub-
berduckyregatta.com, or “quack packs” of five, twelve or twenty-five duckies at special rates.)
Mobile’s fourth annual Rubber Ducky Regatta will make a virtual splash by dropping thousands of rubber duckies into the Mobile River. Thev“adopted” duckies will race to the finish line and the winning lucky ducky’s adopter will receive the grand prize of a $1,000 gift card to Rouses Markets. All proceeds will benefit Ronald McDonald House Charities of Mobile. rubberduckyregatta.com
Wednesday October 23
Leaders are Readers 10:30 AM Page & Palette-Virtual, Join Page & Palette on Wednesdays at 10:30am for our Virtual Storytime! Each week, leaders and authors in our community will share a story on Facebook Live. Sheila Booth-Alberstadt, Author of Maggie MCnair Get Your Fingers Out of There. www.facebook.com/PageAndPalette/
Saturday October 24
British Car Festival - 30th Aniversary (Free ) 9:00 AM - 4:00 PM, Fairhope United Methodist Church, 155 S Section St Fairhope, AL, 36532 30th Annual British Car Festival – in beautiful downtown Fairhope. sabcc.org Children’s Business Fair 10:00 AM - 1:00 PM, Centennial Park, Daphne, AL, 36526 We will host 25 booths at the 3rd annual event on October 24th, 2020 at Centennial Park in Daphne from 10:00am to 1:00pm. There will be food, drinks, and fun for the whole family! Social distancing measures will be observed. www.childrensbusinessfair.org/daphne
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Coffee Cantata Concert 7:30 PM Virtual, Coffee Cantata virtual concert on Facebook. The Intermezzo Season (brought to you, in part, by the Coronavirus) is Mobile Opera’s gift to the community for the 2020-2021 season. There is no ticket to buy, but we ask that you please continue to support Mobile Opera with your donation. www.facebook.com/mobileopera1/ Hold the Line Family Fish & Run Live Oak Landing, 8700 Stockton Way Bay Minette, AL, 36507 Fishing Tournament and 5K run. All Proceeds benefit The Women’s Resource Center. wrcmobile.org
Wednesday October 28
Leaders are Readers 10:30 AM Page & Palette-Virtual, Join Page & Palette on Wednesdays at 10:30am for our Virtual Storytime! Each week, leaders and authors in our community will share a story on Facebook Live. Michael Papa, Headmaster of Bayside Academy. www.facebook.com/PageAndPalette/
Saturday October 31
Making Strides Against Breast Cancer 8:00 AM USS Alabama, 2703 Battleship Pkwy Mobile, AL, 36602 Making Strides Against Breast Cancer is a non-competitive walk to raise money for the American Cancer Society’s fight against breast cancer. www.makingstrideswalk.org/mobileal
Friday November 6
First Friday Artwalk 6:00 PM - 8:00 PM, Downtown Fairhope, Fairhope, AL, 36532 Fairhope First Friday Art Walk Visit our local merchants in Downtown Fairhope as they open late and highlight the art community. Art Walk happens every first Friday of each month from 6-8 p.m.
Saturday November 7
American Legion Post 99-2nd Annual Car Show and Cruise In 8:00 AM 2101 South McKenzie Street Foley, AL, 36535 Between the Car Show and Cruise In, this is scheduled to be an all day event! Come for onecome for both! 10th Christmas Extravaganza 10:00 AM - 3:00 PM, Daphne Civic Center , 2603 US-98 Daphne, AL, 36526 Get all of your Christmas Gift needs offering you everything from Jewelry to gifts, accessories, fashion and so much more. A variety of unique seasonal and gift items including those unusual pieces for the “person who has everything”.
Friday November 13
4th Annual SEEDS Golf Tournament 9:00 AM TimberCreek Golf Club, 9650 Timbercreek Blvd Spanish Fort, AL, 36527 Come join us for a day of prizes, food, golf, fun AND support your Daphne schools! Closest to the Pin and Longest Drive Contest. Registration begins at 8:00a.m, golf starts at 9:00am, lunch to follow. //bit.ly/31WuESj Fairhope Celebrates America Recycles Day 10:00 AM - 2:00 PM, 451 Pecan Dr Fairhope, AL, 36532 Fairhope Celebrates America Recycles Day www.fairhopeal.gov
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FamilyCalendar Saturday November 14
Holiday Market ($2 donation or non perishable food item) 10:00 AM Baldwin County Coliseum, 19477 Fairground Rd Robertsdale, AL, 36567 Shop with crafters, bakers, boutiques, direct sales, and many unique vendors to help you find the perfect holiday gift for someone special! Be sure to register for our hourly giveaway and grab some food from our food vendors at the outside portion of our market! Beethoven & Blue Jeans 6:00pm; 8:30pm We will celebrate Beethoven’s 250th birthday with our ever-popular Beethoven & Blue Jeans casual concert. We’ll feature 22-year-old virtuoso Randall Goosby performing Beethoven’s violin concerto. 251-432-2010 mobilesymphony.org
Sunday November 15
Beethoven & Blue Jeans 1:00pm; 3:30pm We will celebrate Beethoven’s 250th birthday with our ever-popular Beethoven & Blue Jeans casual concert. We’ll feature 22-year-old virtuoso Randall Goosby performing Beethoven’s violin concerto. 251-432-2010 mobilesymphony.org
Saturday November 21
Creek Crawl 8:00 AM Graham Creek Nature Preserve, 23460 Wolf Bay Drive Foley, AL, 36535 Join us for our annual mud run. The 4 mile obstacle course will take you throughout the park upon reaching the creek you can decide to swim across or run the extra half mile. (251) 923-4267 www.grahamcreekpreserve.org
Every day in November
Fall Outdoor Cascading Chrysanthemums at Bellingrath Gardens and Home Bellingrath Gardens and Home, 12401 Bellingrath Gardens Road Theodore, AL, 36582 Mum’s the word at Bellingrath Gardens and Home in November, when it’s time for the 57th Annual Fall Outdoor Cascading Chrysanthemums, the nation’s largest outdoor display of the signature blooms of the season. bellingrath.org
Every Thursday
Pre-K-Virtual (Facebook) Children’s Story Times 10:30 AM Daphne Public Library, Daphne, AL, 36526 Pre-K-Virtual (Facebook) Children’s Story Times (251) 620-2500 Find us on Facebook K-3rd Book Club -Virtual (Facebook) Children’s Story Times 3:30 PM Daphne Public Library, Daphne, AL, 36526 K-3rd Book Club -Virtual (Facebook) Children’s Story Times (251) 620-2500 Find us on Facebook
Thursdays through October Fairhope Fall Outdoor Farmer’s Market 3:00 PM - 6:00 PM, Behind the Fairhope Public Library on Bancroft Street Fairhope, AL, 36532 Enjoy the fresh, outstanding variety from the many vendors dedicated efforts to offer quality and value with fresh produce, nursery items, specialty foods, breads and pastries. Please grab your mask and swing by! business.eschamber.com
Thursdays through Sundays until November 1
Legends in Concert OWA Theatre, 205 N OWA Blvd Foley, AL, 36535 Legends in Concert will debut this new show with performances September 17 – November 1, 2020 at the state-of-the-art OWA Theater, Thursday through Saturday at 7:30pm, and with weekend matinee performances on Sundays at 3pm. Satur-
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Lap Babies-Virtual (Facebook) Children’s Story Times 10:30 AM Daphne Public Library, Daphne, AL, 36526 Lap Babies-Virtual (Facebook) Children’s Story Times (251) 620-2500 Find us on Facebook
Every Wednesday
Virtual Storytime 10:00 AM Spanish Fort Library, Join Miss Mary and Cupcake for online Story Time via her YouTube
Page. New videos posted every Wednesday at 10 a.m. www.youtube.com/channel/UCLn_szBaZss2w0ha0iNwelA
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Christmas in...October?
Q. I know it may be early to talk about Christmas, but do you have any advice on saving for the holiday season? A. It’s never too early to talk about Christmas! I’m glad you’re thinking about things ahead of time. A lot of people wait until December to buy gifts and make plans. That’s fine if they’ve got the money set aside to handle things, but most of them don’t. Then, they panic and turn to credit cards. You don’t want to end up in a situation where you’re still paying off Christmas in April. If you don’t have anything put aside yet, I’d suggest setting some spending goals now. Taking a close look at your income and living expenses should be part of this. If you’re not doing it already, what I’m talking about here is living on a written, monthly budget. Look at how much you can afford to put toward Christmas each month,
make a gift-giving goal amount, and stick to it. Along with this, you might consider opening a separate account just for your Christmas savings. Start looking for gift deals now, too. There are end-of-summer sales still going on, and you never know what you might find. You don’t have to spend a lot of money to have a wonderful Christmas or make the season special for others—even when it comes to giving. Thoughtful handmade items, meaningful photographs set in a frame, or special baked goods are great ways to show the folks in your life you’re thinking about them and how much you care. Now, let’s talk about next year. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with including a line just for Christmas in your budget each month. Putting a little money aside all year long might just take some of the stress out of your Yuletide planning.
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Regardless of the coronavirus or any economic situation that might arise, there are always a few smart, simple things people can do to protect themselves financially. The number one thing is to live on a written, monthly budget. When you give every dollar a name, and write it down on paper, you’re telling your money what to do, instead of scratching your head and wondering where it went. Staying out of debt and saving as much money as possible are two other great ideas. Remember, your income is your biggest wealth building tool. If you’re saddled with a bunch of debt, your money goes to creditors—not into your pocket. Saving prepares you for the future and all the unexpected things, good and bad, life will throw at you. These are all simple things. But they’ll make a huge difference in your financial situation now and in the years to come!
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