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6 Publisherâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Note Lynn Knighton

The Troubled Child

Parenting a child with anxiety, depression or other mental illness.

Parenting a Child With Special Needs? You have special needs, too!

8 Therapeutic Parenting Sonia Martin, LICSW, PIP

16 Kids Health Watch sponsored by Magnolia Springs Pediatrics

46 Parenting, Media & Everything in Between Common Sense Media

Special Needs Guide Local and national resources assist in caring for your child.

Homework Help!

Tips to ease frustration and boost focus.

64 Dave Says Dave Ramsey

Departments On The Cover Scarlett Ashurst (12), daughter of Allison and Morgan Ashurst, and big sister to Hugh (10) and Julia (7). Scarlett is in the 7th grade at Fairhope Middle School. She was diagnosed with Agenesis of the Corpus Callosum (a partial or complete absence of the structure that connects the two hemispheres of the brain) and Autism. Scarlett loves being outdoors, swimming, boating, playing basketball and the piano.

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Over the last several months, we have all had to deal with ever-changing circumstances. In our office alone, we have worked around cancelled events, postponed summer camps, uncertainty in the start to school, temporary closures for party venues and more... challenging us to mix up our editorial calendar and “go with the flow”. Even the Back to School issue was a little different, since back to school meant something different for everyone. However, this month we are excited to stay on theme for our September Special Needs Issue. I am thrilled, because this is one of my most favorite issues! Every year we dedicate the September issue to families with children who have special needs. In doing so, I have the pleasure of getting to know more of these families each year, along with the individuals who work with them. Juggling extra doctor appointments, therapies and more, families with special needs children have more on their plates than many can imagine. As I listen to their stories, I am in awe, not only of their strength and courage, but also the pure joy they show amidst the challenges. These families are truly special! Yes, these caregivers are true super heroes, but they too need special care. If you are a caregiver, or have a caregiver in your life, I encourage you to read Parenting a Child with Special Needs? You Have Special Needs, Too! by Judy M. Miller. Just like putting your oxygen mask on first on a plane, you need to take care of yourself so you can take care of others. As we talk with these wonderful parents, many mention how difficult it can be to find the resources they need and want for their families. That is why each September we also include a Special Needs Resource Guide to help families find activities, therapies, support groups and other services. The guide is a collaboration of our team’s research and area families, businesses and organizations who share with us resources they know of. Thanks to the community support, we are able to compile a directory filled with well over 100 different resources, including financial, educational support, recreational opportunities and much more! As I mentioned, staying on theme this month was not only exciting because it is the Special Needs issue, but it was also nice to have a little sense of familiarity in our routine. I think we can all agree anything that feels even close to our regular routines is a great feeling these days. The current climate (pandemic, social and political unrest, divisiveness) has taken a toll on our moods and levels of anxiety. As always, and especially now in a heightened time of stress, it is very important that you remain aware of these feelings and seek help if needed. It can be especially difficult if you have a child who suffers from anxiety, depression, addiction or any other mental illness, as Gayla Grace discusses in this month’s article, Parenting the Troubled Child: Help with Mental Illness. If you have a friend or family member that you are worried about, start the conversation. Reach out and let them know you are there for them, and encourage them to get the assistance needed. There is help and there is hope. Wishing you all a wonderful September!

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TherapeuticParenting by Sonia Martin, LICSW, PIP

Same Rules + Same Parent = Same Child In the midst of the shifting sands of back to school, or delayed back to school, or back to your dining room table for virtual school...it can suddenly become very apparent that each of your kids are handling transitions, stressors and uncertainty in different ways. This can leave a parent a bit bewildered because, HELLO…they are being raised under the same roof – why on earth are they not somewhat the same? In times of uncertainty we almost always default to the parental math that says same rules + same house + same parent = same child. And that’s when the scary, red pen comes out and marks that problem as incorrect. Because same rules + same house + same parent doesn’t actually equal same child but, in fact, equals individuality. Even more scary, that equation equates to a whole lot of unknown. Those who love math love it because it is predictable, so this very unpredictable equation just feels wrong. But if you’ve ever raised children into adulthood or have friends that have, you know that children who grew up together, who had the

same mathematical formula, can turn out vastly different from one another. So why is that? What is the X factor? The answer is in their individuality. They are each crafted with their own temperaments, their own temptations, their own strengths and stressors and will and weaknesses. Deciphering the puzzle of who they are, what makes them tick, and how to best support, equip and encourage them in their unique differences is just plain hard. Here’s what most parents fail to realize: much like your children are not the same, you are also not the same parent to each of them. As they have grown, you have grown. As they have entrenched new responses, you too have entrenched new responses. As they have learned patience and empathy and perseverance, you have learned patience and empathy and persevered. Thinking back to when I was raising four boys under four, almost 20 years ago, I can laugh at the things that used to upset me. A disrupted nap time, a child who failed to show a sibling grace or allow them first dibs at a toy, a child who could never remember to put his cereal bowl in the sink

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– I was convinced that these were all going to lead them off the path and into a world of continual dirty cereal bowls, lack of strong character and no sleep. But, remember, parenting is a beautiful, fluid, growth process that encompasses the totality of the family unit. Each of you are not independent of one another. You are not all existing in separate entities, but instead are engaging and growing and imparting new relational constructs almost constantly, without even realizing it. To be surprised that each of your children didn’t turn out the same is to be surprised that you aren’t the same parent you were with your first child. They aren’t the same. You aren’t the same. And there’s beauty in that. There is perfectly imperfect beauty in that. So embrace it. Give it a hug. Welcome it into your formula, and stop trying to solve an equation that isn’t even done developing yet. You’ll get there together. Sonia is a licensed social worker and holds both a Bachelor’s and Master’s degree in Social Work. Her clinical focus is on helping parents and professionals understand the role of the brain in behavior and how to adopt therapeutic parenting techniques to mitigate negative behaviors. She is the Director of Central Alabama for Lifeline Children’s Services and is a mother to 7 sons, 3 of which were internationally adopted and she is a foster parent.

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Original Oyster House Offers Free Lunch to First Responders

Cocktails with the Critters Online Auction

The Original Oyster House restaurants will honor Mobile and Baldwin County law enforcement, firefighters, paramedics and sheriff officers by offering a free “Never Forget” Lunch at either the Gulf Shores or Mobile Causeway location on Friday, Sept. 11, 2020 from 11 AM to 4 PM. The 13th Annual Never Forget Lunch was established by the Original Oyster House restaurants in honor of the 9/11 First Responders who risked their lives to save, protect and serve and in recognition of all first responders for their service. Blood Drive Tribute In memory of victims of 9/11, LifeSouth Community Blood Centers will also be on hand at the Mobile Causeway location for blood donations. They will also screen all eligible donors for COVID-19 antibodies. All blood donations collected will be distributed to local hospitals. Local attractions will also be onsite to honor our first responders and pass out free or discounted tickets. iHeart Media will support the event through public service announcements.

Big news! Cocktails with the Critters is going Virtual! The DISL Foundation is hard at work gathering exciting items for an online Auction to be held September 10-17, 2020. The auction website will be http://go.cause4auction. com/DISLFAuction2020. You will be able to pre-register for the event starting by accessing the link and signing up to be a bidder and preview items. You will also be able to register once the auction begins. The DISL Foundation has obtained several great Auction items for this event including: · Fishing trips · Trips to the Caribbean Islands · A Stay at The Battlehouse · Memberships to the Exploreum · Quarter page Ads in Mobile Bay Monthly or BusinessView · Sunglasses · Join Dr. Lee Smee to "Be a Marine Biologist for a day" · Items for your Home · Art Work. To watch the list grow over the coming weeks visit www.sealabfoundation. org. Cocktails with the Critters virtual auction proceeds will continue to help the Dauphin Island Sea Lab by investing in Scholarships, Campus Improvement and supporting the Aquarium of Alabama.

Eastern Shore Business Expo

The Eastern Shore Business Expo, hosted by Southern View Media, will take place on Sept. 17, 2020, from noon-5 p.m. at the Fairhope Civic Center. Over 50 vendor booths will be presented at this year's expo. This event provides businesses an opportunity to connect with community members one on one while networking with other business owners. The ESBE will offer FREE entry for the public with a business card. And don’t miss the chance to win one of over 50 door prizes that will be given away during the expo! Would your business like a booth at the expo? Message Southern View Media, visit the website or contact Southern View Media to reserve your booth today! For more information visit https://easternshorebusiness.com/

South Alabama Out of the Darkness Experience

The American Foundation for Suicide Prevention’s mission is to save lives and bring hope to those affected by suicide. Since 2004, AFSP’s Out of the Darkness Walks have built a movement to raise awareness and funds to fight this leading cause of death. Together, our community sends the message that you are never alone, that healing is possible, and when we connect, we create hope. We know our work is needed now more than ever. We are all experiencing feelings of uncertainty and instability due to the unknown, and this can take a huge toll on ourselves and everyone around us. Although we may not be gathering together in person this year, we will still connect and unite together in our own communities through one Alabama Chapter Out of the Darkness Experience on November 8. The Out of the Darkness Experience is so much more than just a fundraising event. It’s a brave space – encouraging dialogue and sharing of experiences, and it’s a place that offers hope and healing. Last year, nearly 5,000 individuals statewide united to be a voice for suicide prevention. Mental health and preventing suicide must continue to be a top priority, and we cannot continue our work without YOU. Please go to AFSP.org/Daphne and like the Facebook event page, "South Alabama Out of the Darkness Experience" to learn more. You can form a team in honor of your lost loved one, join a team, and/or register on your own and help raise funds that are needed more than ever! For more information and if you would like to be a sponsor, please email jlbarber5@bellsouth.net. Eastern Shore Parents I September 2020

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33rd Annual Alabama Coast Cleanup

The 33rd Annual Alabama Coastal Cleanup is September 19 through September 27, 2020. The official cleanup will last the full week to allow volunteers time, location, and distance to participate safely. The kickoff, keeping with tradition, is the third Saturday of the month, and zones will be in place in the two coastal counties where volunteers may pick up supplies if needed. New this year, debris data will be tallied using the Ocean Conservancy’s “Clean Swell” app available in the App Store or Google Play. With the week-long event, participants can choose when and where to clean up, including their neighborhoods. Organizers expect more event details later this summer. They ask volunteers to be patient as they work out event safety details. Get information on the Alabama Coastal Cleanup on the Facebook page or website, www.AlabamaCoastalCleanup.com.

9th Annual Delta Dash - North Baldwin Chamber

The North Baldwin Chamber of Commerce and the Young Professionals are excited to announce that we have teamed up with WildNative Tours - Delta Safaris, Live Oak Landing Tensaw River Recreational Area, RV & Campground and Baldwin County, AL Commission again to host the 9th Annual Delta Dash! Are you up for the challenge? REGISTER NOW! The 9th Annual Delta Dash will take place on Saturday, September 26 at Live Oak Landing in Stockton, AL! Whether you are a Delta Dash veteran or have had it on your bucket list for a while, it is time for you to experience the Delta like never before! This 5k course is designed to provide participants of all lifestyles and ages with an opportunity to test endurance, stamina, resilience, decision making skills and the ability to enjoy a face full of mud, leaves or whatever else the terrain may throw their way. Competitive? Register for the new heat at 8:45 a.m. - this is the ONLY competitive heat available in the chase for the Golden Oak! Keeping social distance in mind, this year's heats will be spread out in intervals to prevent pile up at obstacles and for the safety of our runners and volunteers. Follow along with the 9th Annual Delta Dash Event on Facebook and be sure to visit deltadash.org for more information and to register.

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Drive-Thru Autism Community Resource Fair

Join the Autism Society of Alabama, the University of South Alabama Regional Autism Network and the Department of Mental Health Region III Autism Services for a Drive-thru Autism Community Resource Fair on Saturday, September 19 at USA Health Strada Patient Care Center from 11:00 AM-1:00 PM. Please call (251) 259-5553 or email angel@ autism-alabama.org.

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9th Annual Chicago Street Supper Club

Tickets are now on sale for the 9th Annual Chicago Street Supper Club held in the streets of downtown Foley. This elegant outdoor dinner will take place on Friday, October 16 on North Chicago Street. Cocktail hour will begin at 6:00 p.m. with dinner service to follow at 7:00 p.m. Ticket holders will enjoy a 4-course meal prepared by Chef Brian Vaughn of Wolf Bay Lodge, Chef Greg Buschmohle of the Safari Club and Chef Ira Gallon of Locals and Company. In addition to delectable dishes, the evening will also feature wine pairings from Pinnacle Imports and live entertainment. Tickets to this event are $75 and can be purchased online at southbaldwinchamber.com or by calling 251-943-5550. Tickets are firstcome, first-served; additional tickets will not be available at the door. Due to COVID, measures will be in place to keep guests as safe as possible. For information on purchasing Chicago Street Supper Club tickets, visit http://bit.ly/ChicagoStreetSupperClub and like our Facebook Page, Chicago Street Supper Club.

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Junior League of Mobile Celebrates 90 Years of Service

In a few months, Junior League of Mobile (JLM) will turn 90 years old. It is with a joyful spirit that JLM invites the community to participate in several events that can be found on our website or social media pages. Please like @JuniorLeagueMobile on Facebook, or @JrLeagueMobile on IG, Twitter, and Pinterest to learn more. The first of these is the BluePass fundraiser that occurs throughout the month of October. Shoppers can purchase a $30 BluePass and support Junior League of Mobile’s Diaper Bank and Adopt-A-School programs. This supports community partners such as the Gulf Coast Exploreum, Prodisee Pantry, the Joseph Project, and Distinguished Young Women. To secure a BluePass, visit https://www. juniorleaguemobile.org/bluepass/. “By extending the shopping period to 30 days, it allows more time for shoppers to access half capacity stores, visit a restaurant or purchase take out, and book services with a discount. As Junior League continues to pivot our work from our traditional way of doing things, funds raised with BluePass will allow for us to create an impact with our community partners,” said Amanda Gonzales, President of Junior League of Mobile. The BluePass fundraiser is just one of initiatives that Junior League of Mobile has launched over the past 90 years. JLM is proud to be a part of the founding of the following organizations: The Carlen House Museum, The Child Advocacy Center, The Preschool for the Sensory Impaired, Volunteer Mobile, Mobile Arts Council, The Gulf Coast Exploreum Hands-On Science Learning Center, The Drug Education Council, Mobile Public Library’s Bookmobile Program, Mobile Area Education Foundation, the Visiting Nurses Association, United Cerebral Palsy of Mobile, the Child Daycare Association, and others.

American Cancer Society’s 2020 Vintage Affair

Join us for the American Cancer Society’s 26th Annual Vintage Affair Gala on Sunday, September 27, 2020 from 4:30 PM-6:00 PM. Our socially distanced evening will be oneof-a-kind! It will feature a spectacular auction and much more. With your support, the American Cancer Society saves lives by helping people stay well and get well, by finding cures, and by fighting back against cancer. Please visit https://acsmobile.ejoinme.org/ VintageAffair for more information.

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Jubilee Festival of Arts Announces Changes to Allow for Social Distancing

COVID-19 is forcing events throughout the area to make major adjustments in order to allow for social distancing and health guidelines, including the 32nd Annual Jubilee Festival of Arts. The 2020 festival, set for September 26 and 27 will have an Art in the Park feel, taking advantage of Downtown Daphne’s outdoor space. “From the beginning, we’ve said we’d be nimble and find creative ways to continue to support our artists and businesses who depend on events like this each year,” said Eastern Shore Chamber of Commerce President Casey Williams. In years past, artist booths have lined Main Street in Daphne, but this year the open-air festival is moving to Lott Park, just outside the usual festival footprint. The move allows room to spread out. At full capacity, organizers can put 10 feet between each vendor’s booth and allow for much wider walkways for guests. The Jubilee Festival of Arts will also feature artists and Jubilee Market vendors on a Virtual Shop at www.thejubileefestival.com so patrons can continue to support them online. “We wanted to make it easy for residents to find the perfect painting or unique Christmas gift, even if they can’t make it out to the event,” said Williams. The Kids Art Park will also have a virtual element. Stop by the “Grab and Go Kids Art” tents to pick up supplies, then follow along online with featured artist Ricky Trione as he teaches a virtual art class. “Blind artist, Ricky Trione has been a fixture in our schools for many years sharing his gifts and talent with local students with a side of inspiration,” said Williams. “He’s not able to teach classes in the schools this year due to COVID-19, so we’re using this opportunity to connect students through an online art lesson.” Grab and Go Kids Art supplies will also be available at the Eastern Shore Chamber Office at 327 Fairhope Avenue in Fairhope the week of the festival. Other changes include reducing entertainment to solo acts and adding hand sanitizer stations throughout the festival. Patrons are asked to follow state guidelines for social distancing and wearing face masks in public spaces. More information, the Virtual Shop and Kids Art Lessons will all be available on the Jubilee Festival of Arts website, www.thejubileefestival.com.

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Thomas Hospital Auxiliary Awards Health Career Scholarships to Area Students The Thomas Hospital Auxiliary is pleased to award $10,000 in health career scholarships to four Baldwin County residents. Each student receives a scholarship valued at $2,500. Arcole Brandon of Fairhope is pursuing a medical degree from the University of South Alabama, and Jordan Doucet of Daphne is pursuing a physician assistant master’s degree from the University of South Alabama. Abigail Hampton of Fairhope is pursuing a master’s degree in healthcare administration from the Mitchell College of Business at the University of South Alabama, and Demi Hester of Bay Minette is pursuing a bachelor’s degree in neuroscience studies from Auburn University. These students were chosen based on their academic excellence, extra-curricular activities and dedication to their goals. Thomas Hospital Auxiliary Health Career

Scholarship Committee Chair Rusty Downey and Co-Chair David Younce interviewed and selected this year’s recipients. Since 1999, the Thomas Hospital Auxiliary has awarded 90 scholarships valued

at more than $188,000. Students who are residents of Baldwin County and have been accepted into a healthcare program at an accredited college or university may apply for the Thomas Hospital Auxiliary Health Career Scholarship. Applications are available in February and due in May. The scholarships are funded by several fundraisers including the Auxiliary’s holiday silent art auction and sale of used books, which are donated and sold in the Thomas Hospital Gift Shop in Fairhope. 15

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Allergies Are Everywhere...Again! I hope that you and your family are doing well these days. Covid 19 is very unsettling and I know you are all doing your part by washing hands and wearing a mask. But…other things can still affect our health, including allergies! I know mine are in full force, so you and your kids are probably in the same boat! But allergies aren’t limited to just seasonal symptoms. There are a lot of associated topics including food allergies, atopic dermatitis (eczema), and asthma. So we are going to review allergies again to make sure you and your family are informed! When it comes to a “seasonal” allergy in Baldwin County, there really is no such thing. We have allergies all year thanks to the various trees, blooming flowers, farming, and mold. The most common symptoms include chronic cold-like symptoms that last more than a week or two and could include a runny nose, nasal stuffiness, and throat clearing. Kids oftentimes will do a lot of nose rubbing, sniffling, and sneezing without even realizing it. You can also have itchy, runny eyes and itching or tingling sensations in the throat. In addition to “head” symptoms, you can have recurrent red, itchy, dry, sometimes scaly rashes in the creases of the skin, wrists, and ankles and/or coughing, wheezing, difficulty breathing, or other respiratory symptoms. The key is to make sure there is no infection going on, and to then try and

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identify triggers. The most common triggers include dust (which contains dust mites), pollen, mold, foods, and furry animals, especially cats, dogs, guinea pigs and gerbils. Once a potential trigger is identified, the key is avoidance. It’s helpful to use air conditioners to reduce exposure to pollen in both your home and your car. Remain indoors when the lawn is mowed and avoid playing in fields of tall grass if allergic to grass. Outdoor mold levels are highest in the spring and late summer, particularly around areas of decaying vegetation. Indoor exposure can occur from mildew as a result of water intrusion problems or elevated levels of moisture (e.g. bathrooms, use of humidifiers, and of course hurricanes!). Dust mites are especially numerous in upholstered furniture, bedding and rugs. Padded furnishings such as mattresses, box springs, pillows and cushions should be encased in allergen-proof, zip-up covers, which are available through catalogs and specialized retailers. Wash linens weekly and other bedding such as blankets, every 2 to 3 weeks in hot water. Finally, pillows should be replaced every 2 to 3 years. Foods are also a potential culprit, especially if the allergy symptoms are associated with eczema. The most common offenders are cow’s milk and other dairy products, egg whites, seafood, wheat, nuts, soy protein, poultry, and chocolate. The key is to look for trends and

keep a food diary recording everything that was ingested to look for the common link. There are however, times when these avoidance measures don’t work. It’s important to talk with your healthcare provider about options for treatment including nasal sprays and suppressive medications. When it comes to foods, special testing can be arranged to help determine if a food allergy is playing a role. Of course, some food allergies can be a lot worse. In some children, severe anaphylactic reactions can occur. This means that a child can develop hives or other rashes, facial and/or lip swelling, and even respiratory symptoms including cough, sneezing, runny nose, wheezing, or throat tightness. Any food can cause these symptoms, but the most common are the ones listed above. Asthma can also be associated with allergies, so it is crucial to let your healthcare provider know if any of these symptoms occur to discuss a treatment plan. If you have questions then talk to your doctor and check out resources at aap.org. Robert L. Rux, M.D. is a Board Certified Pediatrician at Magnolia Springs Pediatrics. Originally from Mobile, he attended medical school at The University of Alabama School of Medicine (UAB) and completed residency at The Children’s Hospital of Alabama (UAB). He is married to Jaime and has three children, Adler, Walker and Mary McAtee.

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Siblings at Florence B. Mathis ES!

Students are happy to be returning to school! At Florence B. Mathis Elementary, older siblings show encouragement to the younger ones.

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Spanish Fort HS Student Speaks at Journalism and Media Conference

Congratulation to rising senior Madison Collins for completing the Washington Journalism and Media Virtual Experience (WJMC) through George Mason University! Out of 100 people, Madison was selected to speak to a group of panelists for the conference; these panelists included reporters from “The Washington Post”, producers for “National Geographic”, reporters for “USA Today”, and many more. Madison received college credit from George Mason University for her participation in the conference. Way to represent #ToroNation Madison! #baldwinproud #classof2021

Independent Reading at J. Larry Newton

Mrs. Melton’s 3rd graders at J. Larry Newton School LOVE independent reading! They completed a scavenger hunt around the classroom! Students are so happy to be at school.

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Baldwin County Education Coalition Golf Classic

Baldwin County Education Coalition announces the annual Baldwin County Education Coalition Golf Classic will be held September 10, 2020 at Rock Creek Golf Club. Start Time is 11:30 a.m., Shotgun Start: 1:00 p.m. This day of golf is dedicated to fundraising and fun for the Baldwin County Education Coalition. With a $10,000 cash grand prize for hole-in-one, as well as terrific cash prizes for placing teams, this event is a day to contribute to the Baldwin County public school system. More information can be found at betterbaldwin.com.

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Elberta Cheerleaders Earn All American Title

The following Elberta HS cheerleaders received UCA All American title and are headed to Disney Thanksgiving parade in Orlando. This is an extreme honor that they worked hard for. Pictured left to right: Alexis Fulford, Ava Brewer, Ellie McConnell, Falon Jones, Grace James, Kayleigh Jones, Kenzie Bonner, Matalyne Kroll, Morgan Kroll, Tyla Haines. 18

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Students Make Bracelets to Raise Money for Perdido School Teacher

Christ the King Catholic School Outdoor Classroom Courtesy of Alum Duncan Williams, CTKCS graduate, and a current sophomore at St. Michael CHS, completed his Eagle Scout Project this month. He built an outdoor classroom on the back campus of CTK Catholic School. He joined Scouting as a cub scout while in first grade at Christ the King, and is presently active in Troop 5087, Daphne.

When friends Morgan, Maddie and Ally heard about Perdido School teacher Jill Jones' battle with Leukemia, they decided they needed to do something special for her. Now the trio is making and selling bracelets to raise money for the Jones family. "When the girls found out about Mrs. Jill, they wanted to do something to help. They decided they would make bracelets and sell them and give the money to her," shared Amy Hill, mom to Maddie and Morgan. "They have been working hard and are on a mission." Since posting about the project, the girls have raised $600 so far and the orders and donations keep coming. They also had to recruit a few more friends to help and have been joined by their friends Addison and Mary Blake in making the jewelry. The bracelets are just $1 each but many people have been donating more than that when placing an order. "They also wanted everyone to know they will take custom orders as well, just tell us what you want and we will deliver to you," Amy Hill said. Payment can be sent via Venmo to @Amy-Hill-250 or @ReneeHall and via PayPal to amybryarshill@yahoo.com or rrobertson10@ bellsouth.net. They also accept cash!

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This school year looks completely different but our values have not changed. In a season of uncertainty and a pandemic we are able be a light in the lives of our students. This picture is a glimpse of the foundation that we are building. Go Saints!

Officer a Big Help at Fairhope East ES

Many thanks to the amazing SRO, Officer Bolden, at Fairhope East Elementary for helping Ms. Thompson’s 3rd grade class!

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First Day at Robertsdale HS

Robertsdale High School Bear Nation had an AWESOME first day today at RHS. In Ms. Eamesâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; science classes, teams had to work together to move the cups in different arrangements using only a rubber band and some string. They could not put their hands on the cups. The room was filled with students encouraging one another, problem solving, and collaboration. Ms. Eames is so excited to see how the students grow throughout the year!

Christ the King Catholic School Students Enjoy Socially-Distanced Break

Our junior high students at CTKCS, happy to be back on campus, take some time outside during morning break to enjoy a snack and of course practice social distancing.

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BIS Donates School Supplies to Light of the City

Business Information Solutions (BIS) recently donated school supplies to Light of the City in Bay Minette. Joshua Brown made the delivery on behalf of the company. Light of the City will distribute the donated supplies to area students. Light of the City offers a free enrichment camp during the summer and free tutoring sessions and recreational opportunities during the school year. While this yearâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s camp structure was adjusted due to Covid-19 guidelines, Light of the City continues to offer programming in a new format! LOTC meets at the Douglasville School of Arts & Recreation campus on Shedrick Hardy Parkway in Bay Minette.

Peer Helpers Welcome Students to St. Michaelâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s St. Michael Senior Peer Helpers, Gabby Yenewine and Erin Koster, welcome back students on the first day of school. We are so happy to have our Cardinals back on campus!

Bayshore Christian Welcomes New First Grade Teacher Bayshore Christian School is pleased to introduce you to our new BCS First Grade Teacher, Mrs. Jessica Norrell. The first grade team has been busy this week decorating classrooms and preparing the curriculum. They are so very eager to welcome your children to the new school year!

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Welcome Back, Bayshore Students!

Bayshore Christian School welcomed 452 students back to school on Thursday, August 13, 2020! It was a day filled with excitement, joy, & praise! We are so thankful for each and every student and we are looking forward to all the new adventures that await us!

Volunteers Prepare the Grounds for First Day at Belforest ES

Who were those masked men and women? See a need, fill a need. This serve crew showed up with weeds whackers and mowers to trim the grounds and prepare Belforest Elementary school for the first day. What a great example of how itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s supposed to work! Thank you for your service.

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Jalen Scott Yelder Memorial Scholarship Awarded

The Jalen Scott Yelder Memorial Foundation presented its inaugural scholarship to Demi Hester, a recent graduate of Baldwin County High School. The scholarship is awarded in memory of BCHS student Jalen Yelder, who died in a tragic car accident on October 13, 2019. Jalen was a senior at Baldwin County High School, a member of Gethsemme Seventh Day Adventist Church and Kappa League both in Daphne

Alabama. Jalen enjoyed, music, dancing, riding his dirt bike, four wheeler and horses. Jalen also had a fondness for dogs and cars. Jalen was a master mechanic who loved fixing and selling cars. Jalen was most known for his relationships with people. Jalen had a special place in his heart for all people, inclusive of family, friends, neighbors and strangers alike. Jalen was accepting and a friend to all people; it was not uncommon to find Jalen fellowshipping with his peers with disabilities. Jalen was an annual volunteer for the Special Olympics. Jalen despised bullies and would protect and advocate for his peers who were victims of bullies. He is the son of Jamie and Jamaica Yelder. "What a better way to honor our Jalen than awarding his first annual scholarship on his dad's birthday," his family said. "We thank everyone who donated and next year we hope to have more applicants so we are able to help more children. Thank you for your continued prayers and well wishes." This scholarship is established in memory of Jalen Scott Yelder by Jalenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s family as a thank you to Baldwin County High School administration, faculty, staff, students, and the Baldwin County High School community at large for the kindness showed to them at the most difficult time in their lives. Donations for the Jalen Scott Memorial Scholarship can be made at Regions Bank or on the organizationâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Go Fund Me page.

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Bayside Academy’s 2021–2022 Priority Enrollment Opens This Month

Bayside Academy’s Priority Enrollment for the 2021–2022 school year opens in September and closes on November 6 for grades in which space is available. Contact admissions@baysideacademy.org for more information.

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Baldwin County Music Teachers Association Senior Piano Recital

The Baldwin County Music Teachers Association presented their senior piano students in a recital on Saturday, July 18 at the Steinway Piano Gallery in Spanish Fort. Students pictured from left to right are Ella Pursley, Abrielle Le and Milana Avdeeva. Each student performed several selections for family members and at the conclusion of the program were presented certificates of achievement signed by their teachers and the president of BCMTA, Laurie Gruenloh. Ella just graduated in June from Bayshore Christian School where she was Salutatorian of her class. She will be enrolled in the Honors Great Texts program at Baylor University in Texas while following a pre-physical therapy track. Abrielle attended high school at the Alabama School of Math and Science and will be attending the University of Alabama in Birmingham majoring in chemistry with plans to attend medical school. Milana is a recent graduate of Spanish Fort High School and will be attending the University of South Alabama on a full scholarship. These students represent the teaching studios of Daniel DeKonty, Karen Hicks and Vincentine Williams.

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Loxley ES Teachers Bring the Fun!

At Loxley Elementary School, Miss Starr’s class and Mr. Holder's class had tons of fun with Makers Space bins and our new robots, Cubelets! Thank you Mrs. Wilson for bringing the fun to us.

First Day at Central Christian

Central Christian School is excited to welcome back our students. The memorable first day of school pictures were taken at home this year but that did not lessen the energy of our students.

Reading and Writing at Foley ES Mrs. Welsh’s and Mrs. Stevens’s students at Foley Elementary School are learning to recognize their super strengths in reading and writing!

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Family Awards Scholarships in Memory of Will Brooks

Five Baldwin County High School graduates have been awarded inaugural Will Brooks Memorial Scholarships. They include Rachel Donald, University of Alabama; Lori Ann McCullough, Troy University; Demi Hester, Auburn University; Madison Hastings and Kristen Phillips, Coastal Alabama Community College. The Will Brooks Memorial Scholarship was lovingly established by friends and family of Will, a 2019 honor graduate of BCHS and freshman at Troy University. He was killed Christmas Eve in a tragic accident. As long as the scholarship funds remain, the scholarships will be awarded to graduating young people who exhibit the vibrant spirit of Will and his love of life. Taking part in the presentations include, from left, front row, Kristen Phillips, Demi Hester, Rachel Donald, Madison Hastings, and Lori Ann McCullough; back row, Amy Brooks, Hannah Brooks, Ricky Brooks, Renee Morrison, BCHS Principal Craig Smith, and Mary Emma Brooks.

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Businesses and Churches Donate Water Bottles to North Baldwin Schools

North Baldwin schools continue to receive donations of reusable water bottles and needed items in anticipation of the start of a new school year. Due to Covid-19, the school system is asking that students bring their own water bottles to drink from each day. Several local companies and individuals have donated reusable water bottles to the schools, which will be shared with students who may not have access to one. Canaanland and Faith Temple Church of God in Christ churches donated a box of reusable water bottles for students in area schools. Caleb Jackson made the delivery on behalf of the churches. Chad Stapleton with Farmers Insurance donated several cases of bottled water for students at Delta Elementary School. These will be shared when a student forgets to bring a drink or water bottle to school. The Bay Minette Kiwanis Club is also gathering up reusable bottles to donate to a local school. If your company or organization has some reusable water bottles to share, this would be a great opportunity to bless local schools with those donations. These are unusual times that our teachers will be entering so any little bit of help you can provide for them (and our students) would be most appreciated. Businesses can coordinate with local schools for the donations or contact Tina Covington at Bay Minette City Hall (580-1625) for help with the distribution. Water bottles can be found at local stores or you can order online and ship directly to the school you want to help. Address for North Baldwin schools include: • Bay Minette Elementary: 400 East 9th Street, Bay Minette, AL 36507 • Bay Minette Middle: 1311 W. 13th Street, Bay Minette, AL 36507 • Baldwin County High: 1 Tiger Drive, Bay Minette, AL 36507 • Delta Elementary: 10251 White House Fork Road Ext., Bay Minette, AL 36507 • Pine Grove Elementary: 42980 Pine Grove Road, Bay Minette, AL 36507 • Perdido Elementary/Middle: 23589 County Road 47, Perdido, AL 36562 • Stapleton Elementary: 35480 Harriet Avenue, Stapleton, AL 36578

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2nd Grade Engineering at Fairhope West ES

At Fairhope West Elementary, Mrs. Vincent’s second graders used the engineering design process to “Save Sam” today. They had to get the “life preserver” out from under the “boat” and onto Sam the gummy worm only using paper clips.

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Welcome Back, W.J. Carroll Students

W. J. Carroll Intermediate School is excited to be back with their students. Sloane D., a 5th grader, Malia B, a. 4th grader, and Zane T., a 6th grader, were just a few of the many students who enjoyed the sign welcoming them back.

Rockwell ES Welcome

Rockwell Elementary PTA welcomed students back to school in a big and festive way!

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We are excited to introduce Justin McNellage as our new Assistant Principal! Welcome to #ToroNation Mr. McNellage! Justin McNellage grew up in Mobile, and he currently resides in Satsuma, Alabama. After graduating from the University of Mobile, he began his educational career at Saraland High School. There, he taught English, was a yearbook advisor, sponsored several clubs/organizations, assisted with Project Outreach, and was heavily involved with senior activities. Mr. McNellage has earned his Ed.S. in Instructional Leadership and is currently enrolled in the University of South Alabama’s doctorate program. He is extremely excited to join the Toro family. He states, “Spanish Fort High School is a special place filled with dedicated educators and driven students. I am looking forward to serving this community and seeing its students achieve greatness. Go Toros!”

Hardest Working Official in Baldwin County!

Mr. Eddie Tyler has been awarded a Nappie Award by the Lagniappe as the "Hardest Working Elected or Appointed Official in Baldwin County." Thank you Mr. Tyler for your dedication to the students and families of Baldwin County, AL.

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Bayside Academy kindergartner Franki McKean enjoys her socially distanced ice cream during the traditional first day of school ice cream social on Wednesday, August 19.

Fairhope East ES Student Helpers

Fairhope East Elementary is Pirate Proud of our student helpers! Thank you for being such wonderful leaders at Fairhope East!

Reading and Writing at Foley ES

At Foley Elementary School Mrs. McClellan’s first grade class practiced shopping for a “just right” book, finding a “just right” spot to read, and writing about their favorite part.

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Autauga County Schools St. Michael Cheerleaders Welcome Students Back

The St. Michael Varsity Cheerleaders made signs and posters to welcome back the students to the new school year. Pictured here are seniors Avery O'Brien and Morgan Domning.

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Mrs. Wrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Science/Math classes at Fairhope West Elementary have been participating in a few team building activities: Pictured here, Tallest Tower. Great job!

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Bayshore Christian Welcomes New Preschool Teacher

Bayshore Christian School is pleased to introduce you to our new preschool teacher, Mrs. Teresa Small! Mrs. Small has taught preschool for many years, has been a homeschool teacher, and earned her Bachelor of Science degree in Elementary Education at the University of South Alabama. We are so excited to welcome Mrs. Teresa to our Bayshore family!

St. Michael’s Model UN Mini Camp

On August 1, Mr. Paul Saboe, a member of our history faculty, held St. Michael’s first Model UN Mini Camp. There were about 30 participants who discussed the issue of cultural diversity. Pictured are Noah Thompson, Natalie Nelson, Mimi Smith (standing) and Tia Acker.

Bayshore Christian Welcomes New Kindergarten TA

BCS is pleased to introduce you to our new BCS Kindergarten Teacher’s Assistant, Mrs. Sarah Gardner! Mrs. Gardner is also a parent of Bayshore students and is so excited for the opportunity to work with children!

SFES Teacher Named Nappie Award Winner

Spanish Fort Elementary’s own Kylie Threadgill was chosen as the Nappie Award Winner for the Coolest Elementary School Teacher in Baldwin County! Way to go Mrs. Threadgill!

Thank you to Foley Elementary Custodial Crew! Foley Elementary School's amazing custodial crew has been diligently working keeping our school environment sanitized and clean, getting it prepared and ready for our students to return to school. We thank them for their hard work and are so happy to have are students back.

Ribbon Cutting at Belforest ES

The new Belforest Elementary School has officially opened its doors with a ribbon cutting that was held recently at the school.

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Autauga County Schools Welcome Back, NBCT!

North Baldwin Center for Technology is so excited to be welcoming our students back to NBTech on Wednesday! The NBTech staff and all of our instructors have been working diligently to prepare for school to begin, and we canâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t wait to see our students! Check out the hard work Mr. Schuler put into creating an amazing simulated workplace environment for his Automotive students! The entire shop floor has been painted, and the safety areas have been designated with bright, new, black and yellow lines. Way to go Mr. Schuler!

First Day at J. Larry Newton

Superintendent Mr. Tyler and Principal Ms. Wolfe greet students and staff on the first day of school at J. Larry Newton.

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Central Christian School Volleyball

The Central Christian School Middle School, JV, and Varsity Volleyball Teams are gearing up for a great season.

Outdoor Lesson at Florence B. Mathis ES

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Bayside Academy’s PK3 Students Meet the Teacher

Bayside Academy’s Meet the Teacher was held for PK3 students on Monday, August 17 ahead of the first day of school on Wednesday, August 19. We are looking forward to a great year! Pictured, Connor Dimoff ’35 plays in the PK3 classroom at Bayside Academy during Meet the Teacher.

Superintendent Visits Fairhope East

Superintendent Eddie Tyler visited lunch at Fairhope East Elementary school. Thank you for all you do, Mr. Tyler!

Bayside Academy Student Donates Beanie Babies for Eagle Scout Project Bayside Academy student Charles Carey ’21 donated thousands of Beanie Babies to police and fire departments on the Eastern Shore for his Eagle Scout project. The Beanie Babies will be given to children by first responders after a fire or medical emergency.

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School Resource Officers Return to BCPS

Students returning to Baldwin County Public Schools were joined once again by the School Resource Officers from the Bay Minette Police Department. This year will be especially different and present many challenges for our students, teachers and administration and our School Resource Officers will play an even more important role as they help assist our school leaders. Police Chief Al Tolbert encourages everyone to be safe and to be prepared. “We ask that everyone be a little extra patient as the traffic will increase around our campuses significantly in the mornings and evenings. Allow yourself a little extra time in your travels,” he said. Now, let’s introduce our School Resource Officers to you: Officer Ronnie Saladin will again serve Bay Minette Elementary School students. He has been in law enforcement for more than 10 years, including the last three years in Bay Minette. Officer Ronnie has been a popular addition to the staff at Bay Minette Elementary. Bay Minette Middle School will be protected by Officer Jeff Weaver, who is in second year in this role. He is a 9-year police veteran including five years in Atmore. Weaver was recently selected as the Regional Director for The Alabama Association of School Resource Officers. Sgt. Kendrick Bank will also return as the School Resource Officer at Baldwin County High School. Sgt. Banks has been with the BMPD for nine years and is in his third year as an SRO. He is also a graduate of Baldwin County High (Go Tigers!) This year, BMPD has another School Resource Officer to its roster: Keith LeJoie (not pictured) will serve students at the North Baldwin Center of Technology. While he has been with the department for a few years, this will mark his first turn as an SRO. Funded by the Baldwin County Board of Education, the SRO program is a partnership between the school system, local municipalities and the Baldwin County Commission. Prior to this partnership, the City of Bay Minette self-funded one School Resource Officer. Chief Tolbert said the School Resource Officers are sworn police officers and so much more. They also serve as problem solvers, youth advocates, school and community liaisons, mentors, counselors, classroom instructors and positive role models. Along with the benefit of police presence being readily available when needed, these Resource Officers will help the Police Department by eliminating the necessity of calling an officer off the road and into the school should an issue occur.

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Florence B. Mathis ES Ribbon Cutting

Florence B. Mathis Elementary School officially opened the doors today with a ribbon cutting held at the brand new school in Foley.

First Day at Fairhope East

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Beauty Review Crowns Five New Queens

North Baldwin crowned five new queens at the 9th annual Beauty Review, held Saturday, August 15 at the Bay Assembly Family Life Center. The pageant, sponsored by the Baldwin County High School Tigerettes, is divided into five age categories. The divisions include Tiny Miss (ages 4- to 6-years); Little Miss (ages 7- to 9-years); Junior Miss (ages 10- to 12-years), Teen (ages 13- to 15-years) and Miss (ages 16- to 18-years). Brooklyn Rider was crowned Miss North Baldwin and rounding out the top five in that category included Emily Scarborough, first runner-up; Mary Kinsley Reed, second runner-up; Emma Overstreet, third runner-up; and Morgan Baker, fourth runner-up. Kaya Brown was crowned Teen Miss and the top five included Addison Scarborough, first runnerup; Allison Smith, second runner-up; Allison Siggers, third runner-up; and Emily Byrd, fourth runner-up. In the Junior Miss division, Eleesia Emmons was crowned queen. Rounding out the top five included Shelby Stewart, first runner-up; Addison Hadley, second runner-up; Sarah Little, third runner-up; and Kelsea Dute, fourth runner-up. Ramiah Cherolis was crowned Little Miss and her top five included Magdalene Gordon, first runner-up; Amelia Johnson, second runner-up; Kenzlie Williams, third runner-up; and Mary Syndel Byrd, fourth runner-up.

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Harper Stewart was crowned Tiny Miss in the inaugural year of this age division. Her fellow court members include Mary Kate Morrison, first runner-up; Lyric Gordon, second runner-up; and Eastyn Whidbee, third runner-up. In addition to the top five, preliminary and Judges’ Choice awards were presented to contestants. In the Tiny Miss category: Most Photogenic, Harper Stewart; Best Hair, Eastyn Whidbee; Prettiest Eyes, Eastyn Whidbee; Brightest Smile, Mary Kate Morrison; Best Dress, Lyric Gordon; Most Poise, Harper Stewart. For Little Miss category: Heart for Community, Magdalene Gordon; Excellence in Expression, Amelia Johnson; Most Photogenic, Lauren Walker; Best Hair, Brooklynn Walker; Prettiest Eyes, Magdalene Gordon; Brightest Smile, Kenzlie Williams; Best Dress, Magdalene Gordon; Most Poise, Ramiah Cherolis. For Junior Miss division: Heart for Community, Eleesia Emmons; Excellence in Expression, Eleesia Emmons; Most Photogenic, Lindsey Harville; Best Hair, Addison Hadley; Prettiest Eyes, Lana Galloway; Brightest Smile, Addison Hadley; Best Dress, Shelby Stewart; Most Poise, Sarah Little. For the Teen Miss division: Heart for Community, Kaya Brown; Excellence in Expression, Addison Scarborough; Most Photogenic, Allison Smith; Best Hair, Allison Smith; Prettiest Eyes, Addison Scarborough; Brightest Smile, Jayd Robinson; Best Dress, Addison Scarborough; Most Poise, Allison Smith. In the Miss division: Heart for Community, Emma Overstreet; Excellence in Expression, Brooklyn Rider; Most Photogenic, Emily Scarborough; Best Hair, Emily Scarborough; Prettiest Eyes, Mary Kinsley Reed; Brightest Smile, Brooklyn Rider; Best Dress, Morgan Baker; Most Poise, Brooklyn Rider. Pictured, from left, Harper Stewart, Tiny Miss; Eleesia Emmons, Junior Miss; Brooklyn Rider, Miss North Baldwin; Kaya Brown, Teen Miss; and Ramiah Cherolis, Little Miss. The pageant serves as a fundraiser for the Baldwin County High School Tigerettes.

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The National Institute of Mental Health says, “Mental disorders are common among children in the United States, and can be particularly difficult for the children themselves and their caregivers. Just over 20 percent (or 1 in 5) children, either currently or at some point during their life, have had a seriously debilitating mental disorder.” I was devastated when my oldest daughter was diagnosed with an anxiety disorder at six years old. Accepting the reality that she needed medication to control her behavior created feelings of failure for me as a parent. But through education, professional help, and other means of support, we managed to help her through her elementary and teen years and put her on the path to emotional wellness. If you suspect your child is suffering from mental illness, don’t wait to seek assistance. Denial doesn’t make it go away. Here are a few tips on what to do.

children with mental illness are quick to blame themselves and hide in shame, but there’s no reason to take responsibility for a biologically-based mental illness. Don’t feel guilty that your child behaves differently than your neighbor’s child. Good parenting doesn’t solve mental illness.

Break the silence. Talk with school officials, other parents, and appropriate leaders such as church pastors and community authorities to improve the situation for your child. Find a support group of parents coping with mental illness. Make an intentional choice to not hide in shame. Don’t let it destroy your family. Support one an-

other. Unite together as a team, educating other children in the family of the illness while being sensitive to your child’s feelings about the diagnosis. Don’t allow siblings to demoralize or make fun of their behavior. Help your other children understand their sibling cannot always control his or her behavior. In addition, stay calm in the face of danger or unusual behavior.

Seek professional help while educating yourself. Start with your child’s pediatrician and ask

questions about behavior that seems unusual. Learn all you can--you don’t have to have a medical background to begin to understand mental illness. You know your child better than anyone and can offer valuable insight with medical professionals. I was first told my daughter had ADHD, but I suspected something different. As I continued to inform her doctor of her symptoms, the correct diagnosis emerged which led to appropriate help.

Let your child know you love him and will always be there for him. Children with mental illness

need more reassurance than other children. They need to feel loved and understood, even on days when their behavior spirals out of control. Make your home a safe place and encourage your child to ask questions and express his or her feelings. We were

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careful to alleviate situations that might cause anxiety for our daughter such as leaving her alone or placing her in a vulnerable situation.

Mental Health Organizations:

Keep an open mind about solutions. Don’t

National Institute of Mental Health www.nimh.nin.gov Mental Health America www.mentalhealthamerica.net

The impact of mental illness in children cannot be denied; but with the proper tools and education, more children can get the help they need to overcome its devastating effects and lead productive lives. A mental illness diagnosis doesn’t mean your child will never lead a normal life. I’m thankful to report my daughter recently graduated from college with an early childhood education degree and is excited about her next chapter in life as a role model for children struggling with issues she has

National Alliance on Mental Illness dismiss an alternative without exploring www.nami.org it. Stay educated of ongoing research to National Coalition for Mental Health Recovery determine the latest http://ncmhr.org/ methods of treatment. Seek others’ opinions on available options Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services and try different Administration www.samhsa.gov methods. I was resistant to medicating my daughter in the beginning, learned to overcome. ESP but her psychiatrist helped me recognize that counseling alone wasn’t enough due to her heightened emotions. After several Gayla Grace holds a master’s degree in Psychology and Counseling and, as months of counseling, she learned how to manage her anxiety a freelance writer and mom to five children, is passionate about educating and was able to come off the medication a few years later. parents on mental health.

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Should I Let My Tween Girl Use Social Media?

the drama will follow her everywhere her device goes. And if she’s socially awkward, it’ll probably come off that way online, too (though online communication might be less stressful).

Has she been diagnosed with a mental health disorder? Plenty of kids with anxiety and depression find support online and through social platforms, but for kids with documented struggles, the risks of negative experiences are higher.

Living during a global pandemic is no joke. And the isolation most of us are experiencing is even tougher for tween girls, who take their blossoming social lives very seriously. So it’s no surprise if you’re considering TikTok, Instagram, and Snapchat sooner than you’d expected, in order to foster the kind of connection and support kids can only get from friends. It’s a big decision -- and one that makes sense for lots of tweens and teens (with appropriate precautions). But there’s a small subset of young girls who are particularly vulnerable to the negative aspects of social media -- and if yours is one of them, you should wait. The big question, of course, is how do you know? These questions aren’t a diagnostic tool, but more of a guide to help you unearth potential markers of emotional vulnerability. If your kid could benefit from having a social media community, by all means, take advantage. But if the answers to these questions lead you down a different path, it’s perfectly OK to wait, find other ways for her to connect, and support her entry into social media with more caution and care.

If you answered yes to any of the questions above, you may want to wait. When you do introduce social media, do it slowly, carefully, and with extra protections in place.

Here are some tips for how to introduce social media cautiously: Hold off, if you can. In pre-pandemic times, this advice might have been easier. But maintaining social connections is super important right now -- and unfortunately, online is the best way to keep them going. Take it slow. Social media that’s less about “likes” -- for example, Zoom, FaceTime, and regular texting -- are probably OK to start. Social apps centered on social comparison, such as TikTok, can be introduced one at a time after you see how your kid does with them.

Does she frequently compare herself to others? If she talks a lot

Find substitutes. Nothing will replace having the cool app everyone’s talking about, but finding fun games or quasisocial apps for her to use can help her feel less left out.

about what friends look like, what they wear, nice things they own, and the like, and puts herself down in the process, she may not be ready for the constant stream of perfectly curated lives on Instagram, for example.

Use it together. If you want to give the OK to Instagram, Snapchat, or TikTok, set up the app on your device first and let her use it with you at her side. This isn’t going to work forever but can be a good place to start because you can see what’s happening and discuss whatever comes up. Remember:

Has she been bullied in the past? Online lives are typically exten-

sions of offline lives, so if your daughter has been bullied at school, it’s possible it could happen again through comments on TikTok or disappearing messages on Snapchat.

Does she have a history of victimization? Girls who are survivors

Create a social media contract. However you decide to introduce social media, it’s wise to set rules about when and how she can use it.

of abuse could be at a heightened risk of online victimization. Girls who have been sexually assaulted or abused may act out through sexualized social media posts, which can make them a target of pedophiles and traffickers on a variety of platforms.

Once she starts using social media, make sure to keep checking in about it. Even though you might not be able to track everything she does or sees, you can let her know you’re available for when she has trouble.

Does she have trouble making and keeping friends? If the

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Countless times I was judged and questioned about my parenting decisions, by those who know or do not know my child or me. Their responses ranged from non-verbal-the scoff or stare of disbelief-to verbal, something like, “Is she okay?” And I replied with embarrassment, anger, a need to protect my child, and a desire to draw into myself and disappear, “She’s fine.” She was, but only I knew that. I spent innumerable dedicated hours, days, weeks, and years with my daughter and her occupational therapist (OT) while we unlocked the spectrum disorder that cocooned my girl and shut her away from herself, her family, the rest of the world, and me. It used to be that my daughter regularly threw herself on the hardest surface available without warning in order to receive sensory input for her disconnected vestibular system. She lay there screaming and crying at the top of her lungs as she cycled through her process into a calm state. She got up afterwards and acted as if nothing unusual had happened; she flooded during the meltdown and had no memory of what had occurred. Sometimes the cycle lasted 15 minutes, but more often than not it was far longer. I learned to wait patiently and calmly, and to keep a large buffer of time between

errands, commitments, and attending to my other kids. I learned that there was nothing I could do to reach my daughter until she came out on the other end. The painful input made my daughter “fine,” until the next time. Somehow she never bruised from hurling herself onto the pavement. But I did, again and again-deep raw pain and a throbbing chasm of apprehension that did not begin to dissipate until Carol came into our lives. Carol was my daughter’s OT and she helped my daughter reintegrate her sensory system over a period of six years. My daughter’s sensory processing system was completely out of sync, exhibiting difficulties with the tactile (touch), vestibular (movement), and proprioceptive (positioning) senses and responding with a combination of hyper- and hyposensitivity. These sensory difficulties affected her speech, hearing and sight as well.

In her infinite wisdom, Carol sat me down one day and gave me a stern talking-to. She pointed out that as my daughter’s system became healthier she became manipulative. And although that was a good sign, a milestone, it was time for me to expect more, to stop enabling my daughter’s behavior. Carol went on to say that as the parent of a child with special needs I had special needs too. I needed to look out for and take care of myself. The veneer of my brave face cracked with that simple statement. Choking tears coursed down my

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cheeks down and the old-as-time mamaguilt loosened its hold on me. In that moment, I realized my mother love had pushed me to the background. I rarely thought of my needs or myself. I was emotionally spent. I thought back to how often I felt isolated. My emotional exhaustion took a toll on my health and on my relationships with other family members and close friends. I had let parenting a child with special needs consume me, and it had been easy because I had so much love invested in her. Today I hold Carol’s sage advice within the invisible pocket of my heart and take heed when I need to. I search for compassion, not pity, understanding, and support, in the form of comfort and a listening ear. And my daughter? She has become even healthier because I have chosen to take care of my needs.

What You Can Do for Yourself Educate yourself about your child’s special needs. Knowledge

needs the more confident I felt about how to help her cope, handle situations, and advocate for her. I was a more effective caregiver.

Consider therapy for yourself.

You need to be as healthy as you can for your child. You can feel a whole range of emotions-anger, fear, and uncertainty among them. Your emotions are normal.

Get support. Develop or join a net-

work of parents who have children with special needs. Or ask your child’s occupational therapist or physician for ideas or contacts. Many parents of children with special needs share that they feel isolated.

Ask for help. Tell your spouse/part-

ner/significant other and friends how you feel. You are the primary caregiver, and parenting a child with special needs is emotionally and physically taxing. Others probably don’t have any idea how you are feeling. Tell them how they can help you, like watching your child so that you have time to replenish yourself or offering a listening ear.

provides understanding. I found that the more I learned about my child’s special

Cry. Stress hormones, found in tears, negatively affect every system and organ

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in the human body. Crying provides health by eliminating harmful stress hormones. Haven’t you found that you feel relief after a good cry?

Give yourself personal time.

Walk, write in a journal, or participate in an activity you enjoy. Every day.

Take care of you. Make sure you are eating food that is healthy, drinking plenty of water, exercising, and getting plenty of sleep.

*SPD Resources and Support SPD Foundation, http://spdfoundation.net/ about-sensory-processing-disorder.html The Out-of-Sync Child, Carol Kranowitz (my “bible”) ESP

Judy M. Miller works with pre- and adoptive parents, equipping them with new techniques and information and encouraging and empowering adoptive families through difficult times. She is a Certified Gotten Educator and the author of the internationally known parent guide, What to expect From Your Adopted Tween, and a workbook for adopted adults, Writing to Heal Adoption Grief: Making Connections & Moving Forward.

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Alabama Resources Alabama Lifespan Respite Resource Network

1856 Keats Drive , Huntsville, AL 35810 A statewide program offering information for caregivers and service providers about activities and programs. An interactive database of agencies providing respite services to Alabama counties is available online. (256) 859-8300; (866) RESTALA info@alabamarespite.org www.alabamarespite.org

Alabama Public Library for Blind and Physically Handicapped

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Southeast ADA Center (Americans with Disability Act)

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Speech and Hearing Association of Alabama 3416 Primm Lane, Birmingham, AL 35216 We aim to advance the disciplines of speechlanguage pathology and audiology in order to provide support for professionals while advocating quality service. (205) 823-6106 Info@AlabamaSHAA.org alabamashaa.com

STAR (Statewide Technology Access and Response)

Providing free access to information, referral services, educational programs, and publications related to disability rights, laws/policies, and funding opportunities for assistive technology. (800) 782-7656

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Counseling Crossway Counseling Center, Inc.

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Financial Resources Enable Savings Plan Alabama

Nationwide tax-exempt savings accounts for individuals with disabilities.

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Family Support

1050 Government Street, Mobile, AL 36604 We help families in south Alabama help themselves, and do so by offering emotional support, information, referrals, flexible financial assistance, and special project assistance, all provided through local area volunteer councils. (251) 438-1609 go@famsupport.com www.famsupport.com

Individual & Family Support

1050 Government Street, Mobile, AL 36604 Our mission is to enhance the lives of Alabamians with disabilities and their families. (251) 438-1609 go@famsupport.com www.famsupport.com

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Civitan International Research Center

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P.O. Box 884, Daphne, AL 36526 To aid those who are affected by Autism Spectrum Disorder; to serve the men and women who have served our country in the United States Armed Forces; and to answer the call of James 1:27 by supporting orphans and adoptions both foreign and domestic.

Focal Point Professional Services Barry Swope, LPC

27625 U.S. Highway 98 , Daphne, AL 36526 Assisting children and families with special needs challenges. Counselors apply knowledge of psychology and Biblical principles to serve individuals, couples, and families. Like us on Facebook at www.facebook.com/CrosswayCounselingCenter. (251) 626-7959 crosswaycounseling@att.net www.crosswaycounseling.org

Medicaid Waiver Program

2800 Dauphin Street (Ste 105), Mobile, AL 36606 The Alabama Medicaid Agency administers a comprehensive program of long term care services that offers eligible patients care choices and opportunities to receive services at home or in the community.

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The CDH Foundation

Opelika, AL A charitable foundation benefiting Alabama families who receive a CDH diagnosis. Searching for cause and prevention. (334) 203-0008 info@thecdhfoundation.org thecdhfoundation.org

The Rileigh & Raylee Angel Ride Foundation

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13833 Tapia Avenue, Bayou La Batre, AL This AltaPointe Health outpatient program provides care to children with mental illness ages 3-19, and their families, we offer treatment and specialized care to help them maintain stability in the community. AltaPointe’s therapists and mental health professionals specialize in treating trauma, bereavement, child sexual abuse, emotional and behavioral problems, or significant school-related issues. Treatment focuses on problem resolution, symptom reduction, and stabilization. Located in the same office is Accordia Health, a federally qualified health center, which provides healthcare needs for the whole family regardless of your ability to pay. Medical professionals are available for health consultations and treatment onsite. (251) 450-2211 or (888) 335-3044 www.altapointe.org

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Training task-trained service dogs for those with disabilities. We also work with veterans who’ve lost the use of limbs or hearing while in active combat. (937) 374-0385 Info@4PawsForAbility.org www.4pawsforability.org

Alabama Council for Developmental Disabilities

100 North Union Street, Montgomery, AL 36130 We promote and support independence, advocacy, productivity and inclusion for Alabamians with disabilities. Live, learn, work, and play in your community! (334) 242-3973 www.acdd.org

5800 Southland Drive, Mobile, AL 36693 BayPointe Hospital is a free-standing psychiatric hospital that provides a caring and secure environment for children and adolescents, ages 5-18. Tucked away on a peaceful 15-acre campus in west Mobile, BayPointe offers short-term acute stabilization for children suffering a mental health crisis and long-term residential treatment for those who are unable to safely remain in the

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Alabama Institute for Deaf and Blind Mobile Regional Center

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Alabama Parent Education Center (APEC)

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Alabama Scottish Rite Learning Center

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Alabama Speech-Language-Hearing Association

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American Sign Language University

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3650 South Magnolia Street, Loxley, AL 36551 Services and support for intellectual and/or developmental disabilities in Baldwin County. Day Program: 22860 McAuliffe Drive, Robertsdale; Foley Workshop program: 209 E Fern Avenue and the administrative office is located in Loxley. (251) 964-4451

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Autism Society of Alabama

205 Lambert Avenue (Suite C), Mobile, AL 36604 The Autism Society of Alabama is a nonprofit advocacy group with the mission of improving services for those on the Autism Spectrum (251) 259-5553; (877) 4AUTISM michelle@autismalabama.org or bamah@autism-alabama.org www.autism-alabama.org

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Family Tree Chiropractic

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Family Voices of Alabama

1050 Government Street, Mobile, AL 36604 We provide families tools to make informed decisions, advocate for improved public and private policies, build partnerships among professionals and families, and serve as a trusted resource on health care. (877) 771-3862 info@familyvoicesal.org www.familyvoicesal.org

Goodwill Easterseals of the Gulf Coast

2440 Gordon Smith Drive, Mobile, AL 36617 Education & Employment for disabilities or low income. Parenting classes, support groups, child development, early intervention, preschool readiness and teen activities. Education (GED), Job training, employment and medical assistance. (251) 471-1581

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March of Dimes Alabama Chapter

March of Dimes leads the fight for the health of all moms and babies. (205) 824-0103

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Mental Health – National Alliance on Mental Illness

NAMI provides advocacy, education, support and public awareness so that individuals and families

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2853 Forbes Drive, Montgomery, AL 36110 Services for children with severe developmental disabilities requiring ongoing nursing care. Our healthcare professionals understand individual circumstances and help create a plan of care promoting an environment of growth and healing. (877) 988-8372

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Mulherin Custodial Home

2496 Halls Mill Road, Mobile, AL 36606 Our primary purpose is to provide a home for individuals with developmental disabilities in a loving and family environment. Our foremost concern is the happiness, comfort, and welfare of our residents. (251) 471-1998

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Pediatric Developmental Medicine

1601 Center Street, Mobile, AL 36604 Whether you need an autism specialist in Mobile or treatment for developmental disorders or behavioral issues with your child, our pediatric specialists at USA Health can help. (251) 410-5437 www.usahealthsystem.com/ pediatric-developmental-medicine

Santa America

A national volunteer organization with over 200 hundred trained Santa’s, across America visit children and families in crisis. www.santa-america.org

Sibling Support Project

A national program dedicated to the life-long and ever-changing concerns of millions of siblings with family members having special needs, developmental, and mental health concerns. Find a program near you! info@siblingsupport.org

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Sight Savers America

337 Business Circle, Pelham, AL 35124 We assist children with obtaining eye exams, glasses, and other needed eye care from local eye care providers and clinics at no cost to the family. (877) 942-2627 info@sightsaversamerica.org www.sightsaversamerica.org

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Music listening therapy that trains the auditory system to accurately process sound. Auditory processing problems are often found in children and adults with Autism, Spectrum Disorders, ADD, dyslexia and more. (801) 622-5676 info@advancedbrain.com www.advancedbrain.com

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7058 Professional Place, Daphne, AL 36526 Pediatric dentist receive 2 or more years of specialized training beyond dental school that includes education in treatment and care of children with special needs.

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303 North Section Street, Fairhope, AL 36532 Pediatric dentist receive 2 or more years of specialized training beyond dental school that includes education in treatment and care of children with special needs. of

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Sea Smiles Pediatric Dentistry ad on page 32

825 North Alston Street, Foley, AL 36535 Pediatric dentist receive 2 or more years of specialized training beyond dental school that includes education in treatment and care of children with special needs. Come see us today! (251) 943-7575

www.seasmilesfoley.com

Bay Pediatric and Adolescent Dentistry

115 Lottie Lane, Fairhope, AL 36532 Dr. Wells Hammock received 2 additional years of specialized pediatric training at Boston University’s School of Dental Medicine. This training included education in treatment and care of children with special needs. (251) 928-5045 baypedo.com

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Malbis Parkway Pediatric Dentistry

9807 McSara Court, Spanish Fort, AL 36527 Pediatric dentist receive 2 or more years of specialized training beyond dental school that includes education in treatment and care of children with special needs. (251) 626-9924 malbispeddent@bellsouth.net www.malbispediatricdentistry.com

Recreation & Social Bay City Gymnastics ad on page 9

8534 Well Road, Daphne, AL 36526 Gymnastics develops strength, flexibility, kinesthetic awareness, muscular control, endurance, coordination, agility, speed, balance, posture and poise while having fun! Contact us today to find out about our Special Needs programs & classes. (251) 621-2112 bcgagym@att.net www.bcgagymnastics.com

Dance Without Limits at Creative Outlet Dance ad on page 14

66 South Section Street, Fairhope, AL 36532 Improving the lives of special needs individuals through the power of dance! Any kid. Any adult. Any disability. Ages Preschool - adult. Fairhope class meets on Tuesdays at 6:30pm. (251) 610-4969 dancewithoutlimits@aol.com www.dancewithoutlimitsfoundation.org

The Exceptional Foundation of the Gulf Coast ad on page 47

28788 North Main Street, Daphne, AL 36526 A 501 (c) 3 nonprofit organization that provides social and recreational opportunities to the special needs community of Baldwin and Mobile counties. We offer art, cooking, dance, sign language, yoga, Special Olympics, community field trips & so much more. EFGC is open Monday Thursday from 7:50am - 6pm. (251) 625-8955 efgulfcoast@gmail.com www.exceptionalfoundationgc.org

3Circle Church | SOAR Special Needs Ministry

(251) 990-3112 info@3CircleChurch.com www.3circlechurch.com/soar

Access to Recreation

Adaptive recreation equipment for the physically challenged. Wheelchair accessories, daily living, replacement parts, bath and shower accessories, Lifts, safety equipment, ramps, manual and power chairs, etc.

(800) 634-4351 CustomerService@AccessTR.com www.AccessTR.com

10274 Highway 104, Fairhope, AL 36532 The staff and volunteers that make up SOAR ministry are passionate about caring for individu-

als with disabilities. Our goal is to provide a safe, nurturing, Gospel-centered program for families affected by disability. SOAR meets at the 3Circle Church Fairhope Campus during the 9:30A Sunday gathering.

AMBUCS

AMBUCS members are committed to “Inspiring Mobility & Independence.” Programs include providing Amtryke adaptive tricycles, fund-

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ing educational scholarships for therapists and many other forms of community service - such as building home access ramps and accessible playgrounds. (800) 838-1845 ambucs@ambucs.org www.ambucs.org

Autism Society of Alabama Sibshops

Sibshops are fun events where kids who have a sibling with a disability can play fun games, share and meet other “sibs” who get it! (251) 259-5553 michelle@autism-alabama.org www.autism-alabama.org

Baldwin County Special Olympics

Bay Minette, AL 36507 Through sport, Special Olympics is building communities of acceptance and inclusion for all people. (251) 972-6860

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Camp ASCCA

5278 Camp ASCCA Dr, Jackson’s Gap, AL 36861 Camp ASCCA is Alabama’s Special Camp for Children and Adults. ASCCA is a nationally recognized leader in therapeutic recreation for children and adults with both physical and intellectual disabilities. (256) 825-9226 info@campascca.org www.campascca.org

Camp Bridges

1600 7th Avenue South, Birmingham, AL 35233 A fun and educational environment for heart, kidney, liver and lung transplant recipients. Camps & educational programs for children, young adults and families in Alabama and neighboring states. info@campbridges.org

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Camp Frog - Autism Society of Alabama

Lake Martin, AL Camp Frog family camp weekend is held each September for children on the autism spectrum and their families to enjoy traditional camp activities in an adaptive and supportive environment. (251) 259-5553 michelle@autism-alabama.org www.autism-alabama.org/camps

Camp Mash

Mobile, AL 36685 Camp M.A.S.H. is a weeklong recreational program for children ages 7 to 17 with a form of juvenile arthritis or a related autoimmune disease. (251) 599-5688 campmashmobile@gmail.com www.campmash.org

Camp Seale Harris

500 Chase Park South (Suite 104), Birmingham, AL 35244 Camp Seale Harris is the founding program of Southeastern Diabetes Education Services. Overnight & Day Camps for Elementary - Senior High. Teen Leadership, Fall, Spring & Summer Family Camps. (205) 402-0415 info@campsealeharris.org www.campsealeharris.org

Camp Smile-A-Mile

1600 2nd Avenue South, Birmingham, AL 35233 Smile-A-Mile’s mission is to provide hope, healing of the spirit and love for the whole family during the childhood cancer journey. (888) 500-7920

www.smileamile.com

Captains for Kids Special Needs Day of Fun

Fishing, sailing, dolphin cruises and more for those with special needs and illnesses. Orange Beach, Gulf Shores, Perdido Key, Pensacola Beach, Ft. Walton Beach, Panama City Beach and more.. Due to COVID-19, please check our website and Facebook for updates on future events. (850) 438-5555 spotate@aol.com www.captainsforkids.com

Children’s Harbor Family Center & Camp

1600 6th Avenue South, Birmingham, AL 35233 Our program provides children with serious illnesses and their families a place to be themselves and have Eastern Shore Parents I September 2020

fun while receiving no-cost services to make life easier for the whole family. (205) 638-6123 info@childrensharbor.com www.childrensharbor.com

Equine Education Consultants

19818 Lawrence Road, Fairhope, AL 26532 Providing equine therapy Monday - Friday, by appointment, for children affected by autism spectrum disorders, language impairments and ADHD. Visit us on Facebook & see our therapy horses! (251) 747-8219 tonyahalterman@gmail.com Find us on Facebook

Exceptional Arts Drama by Sunnyside Theater

63 Midtown Park East, Mobile, AL 36606 Fun and creative theater classes for children and adults with special needs. Tuesday nights from 6:00pm - 8:00pm. (251) 510-1808 azaleacity@mindspring.com www.azaleacityarts.com

Hope Outdoors

P.O. Box 1421, Chatom, AL Spreading the love of God and the great outdoors to those with special needs. Fishing, deer and bird hunts. Free to participants and their families. Apply at http://hopeoutdoors.org/applynow. (251) 769-5642 ksansing15@gmail.com www.hopeoutdoors.org

Lakeshore Foundation

4000 Ridgeway Drive, Birmingham, AL 35209 Lakeshore Foundation is a fitness, recreation, sport and research organization for people with physically disabling conditions. Find us on Facebook! (205) 313-7400 info@lakeshore.org www.lakeshore.org

Miracle League of Coastal Alabama

1545 Gulf Shores Parkway, Gulf Shores, AL Currently raising funds to build an all-inclusive playground and Miracle League baseball field in Summerdale where our special needs community can interact with family/friends with no limitations. (251) 978-3423 Miracleleagueca@gmail.com www.miracleleaguecoastalalabama.com

Move United

451 Hungerford Drive (Suite 608), Rockville, Maryland 20850 Our mission is to provide national leadership and opportunities for individuals with disabilities to develop independence, confidence, and fitness through participation in community sports, competition, recreation, high performance sport and educational programs. (301) 217-0960 info@moveunitedsport.org www.moveunitedsport.org

Rapahope Children’s Retreat Foundation

205 Lambert Ave. Suite A , Mobile, AL 36604 Rapahope brings joy to the childhood cancer journey through recreational and support programs for those with childhood cancer and their families. (251) 476-9880

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SNAP (Special Needs Athletes Program)

Water Planet Dolphin Therapy

203 Greenwood Dr, Panama City Beach, FL 32407 Dolphin encounters, expressive art, massage and music provide experiences for children with physical disabilities, spectrum disorders, depression, ADHD, head and spinal cord injuries and developmental delays. (850) 230-6030 info@waterplanetusa.com www.waterplanetusa.com

We Rock the Spectrum Kid’s Gym

1802 A US Highway 98, Daphne, AL 36526 A sensory-safe gym for kids of ALL abilities to play and grow together! Occupational therapy equipment, unique classes, birthday parties, trampoline, zipline, drop-off play and arts and crafts. (251) 355-6178 info@werockthespectrumdaphne. com www.werockthespectrumdaphne.com

Westside’s Bambino Buddy Ball League

1001 Schillinger Road , Mobile, AL 36695 Westside Bambino Buddy Ball is a program for mentally and physically challenged youth between 5–21 years of age in an athletic environment structured to their abilities. (251) 680-2744 zabu01@bellsouth.net www.westsidebaseball.com

Schools/Educational High Hopes for Autism (St. Benedict’s School) ad on page 23

12786 South Illinois Street, Elberta, AL 36530 High hopes is preparing children with Autism Spectrum Disorders, and other developmental delays, to participate independently in the community. We specialize in communication. Our goal for each client is to be able to communicate their, needs, thoughts, and feelings. We accept clients up to 4 years old and will continue to work with families until their individual needs are met. We use Applied Behavioral Analysis (ABA) techniques and all of sessions are one to one. Monitoring via ccTV and parent training is available during the therapy session. We accept insurance, visit our website to see our current list. (251) 986-7007 highhopes4autism@gmail.com www.highhopes4autism.org

Huntington Learning Center ad on page 45

6880 US Hwy 90 (Suite 13), Daphne, AL 36526 Huntington has a solution for you! Programs are individualized to meet the needs of students at ALL LEVELS. Our specialized ADHD program provides students with immediate feedback and guidance for focus and growth. (251) 621-1055 daphne

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1952 E Clarke Rd, Mobile, AL 36695 S.N.A.P. Giving developmentally disabled citizens an opportunity to participate in the recreational sport of bowling. Season is temporarily postponed because of COVID-19, please check Facebook for more information.

Renaissance School

Special Olympics of Alabama

(251) 990-0041 admin@esrenaissance.org www.esrenaissance.org

(251) 366-9978 joe@snapofalabama.com www.snapofalabama.com

880 South Court Street, Montgomery, AL 36104 Special Olympics Alabama offers competition, coaching and volunteer opportunities in a variety of olympic-type sports.

(334) 242-3383; 800-239-3898 soaloffice@aol.com www.specialolympicsalabama.com

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10526 County Road 64, Daphne, AL 36526 Imagination and Individuality Meet the Classroom! Classes are structured in a small group setting with subject areas taught using integrated, multisensory applications. We are a Full Curriculum, Non-Profit School meeting State Standards. Grades K - 10th, Dyslexia therapy and tutoring.

Baldwin County Public School System Special Services

Bay Minette, AL 36507 Evaluations and therapy for developmental delays,

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Read Write Learning Center

1048 Stanton Road, Daphne, AL 36526 Educational consulting, testing, academic therapy for learning disabilities such as Dyslexia. Offering remote therapy for those that cannot attend our center. Academy for those needing alternative school instruction. (251) 625-4020 baldwinoffice@readwritelearningcenter.com www.readwritelearningcenter.com

The Learning Tree – Growing Independence Behavioral Center 5465 Able Court, Mobile, AL 36693 Growing Independence Behavioral Services now offers clinic-based ABA services. Services include comprehensive early intensive behavioral intervention for preschool-aged children and focused clinical services to address challenging behaviors for school-aged children. Clinic hours are Monday–Friday, 8am–5pm. (251) 331-8021 lisa.scott@learning-tree.org www.learning-tree.org

The Learning Tree Residential School

5459 Able Court, Mobile, AL 36693 We provide educational and residential services for children and adolescents, ages 6–21, with developmental disabilities, including autism. The residential school provides each child with 24-hour care in a homelike setting that is suited to their unique and special needs. Their IEP are provided in a community school setting. The organization also provides individual and professional consultation training services. (251) 649-4420 vmitchell@learning-tree.org www.learning-tree.org

The Think Tank Tutoring

Mobile & Baldwin County, In-home tutoring. Qualified educators work with ADD, ADHD, hearing impaired, MR, Dyslexic, and speech impaired students. Homework help, test prep, and study skills. Grades Pre-K through 12. (251) 300-9697 thinktankminds@gmail.com www.thinktankminds.com

Offering school services to all children who are receiving healthcare services at USA Children’s & Women’s Hospital. We partner with Mobile County Public Schools and credentialed teachers to provide instruction to school-age children. (251) 415-1406 (Ext 1507) www.usahealthsystem. com/amenities/childrens-womens-hospital

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401 North Section Street, Fairhope, AL 36532 Neurofeedback, Functional Nutrition, Lab Analysis, Chiropractic, Oxygen Therapy and more. Locations in Fairhope and Mobile. (251) 928-5058 www.YourAdvancedHealthSolutions.com

Focus-MD

28080 US Hwy 98 (Suite F), Daphne, AL 36526 Medical practice for kids and young people with ADHD and related problems. Focus provides objective testing, medical treatment as well as behavior modification strategies www.adhddaphne.com

Specific Resources - Autism

101 Lottie Lane (Unit 6), Fairhope, AL 36532 Treatment for ages 12 years and up with ADHD. We offer state of the art specialty testing and comprehensive solutions to the complex problems related to ADHD. (251) 990-1980 office@adhd-medical.com www.adhd-medical.com

Attention Deficit Disorder Assoc. (ADDA)

Information, resources and network opportunities to help adults with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder lead better lives. Find us on Facebook! www.add.org

(301) 306-7070 or (866) 200-8098 vice@chadd.org www.chadd.org

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CHADD Provides support and education for individuals with AD/HD.

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Autism Society of America

The mission of the Autism Society is to improve the lives of all affected by autism. Providing information, resources and support is at the core of our mission. (800) 328-8476 info@autism-society.org www.autism-society.org

Autism Speaks

Dedicated to promoting solutions, across the spectrum and throughout the lifespan, for the needs of individuals with autism and their families through advocacy and support; increasing understanding and acceptance of autism. alabama@autismspeaks.org

www.autismspeaks.org

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Specific Resources Cerebral Palsy Camp Smile

3058 Dauphin Square Connector, Mobile, AL 36607 Our mission is to empower children and adults with disabilities to live their lives without limits by providing an inclusive summer camp experience where there is no limit to the adventure.

Cerebral Palsy.org

CerebralPalsy.org provides information, resources, support and unlimited inspiration to all those touched by cerebral palsy, and other neurological conditions. (800) 692-4453 contactus@mychildwithcp.com www.cerebralpalsy.org

(251) 479-4900 info@ucpmobile.org www.ucpmobile.org

(251) 410-5437 www.usahealthsystem.com/services/pediatric-development-medicine

Specific Resources Autism Spectrum Autism Center of The Studer Family Children’s Hospital at Ascension Sacred Heart ad on page 17

5154 Bayou Boulevard, Pensacola, FL 32503 The region’s leading expert on diagnosis and treatment for children on the autism spectrum and their families. 850-416-4681

www.studerfamilychildrenshospital.com

TACA (Talk About Curing Autism)

3058 Dauphin Square Connector, Mobile, AL 36607 The primary mission of UCP of Mobile is to promote the independence, productivity and full citizenship of people with cerebral palsy and other disabilities.

Specific Resources Cystic Fibrosis Cystic Fibrosis Foundation Alabama Chapter 200 Office Park Drive (Suite 115), Birmingham, AL 35223 The Cystic Fibrosis Foundation is the world’s leader in the search for a cure for cystic fibrosis. (205) 870-8565 Alabama

alabama@cff.org

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Specific Resources Down Syndrome Coastal Alabama Down Syndrome Society

Mobile, AL Our mission is to provide enrichment through education, networking opportunities, advocacy, and emotional support for individuals with Down syndrome, their families and the greater community. (888) 454-0317 downsyndromesociety@gmail.com Find us on Facebook

A national non-profit 501(c)(3) organization dedicated to educating, empowering, and supporting families affected by autism. TACA aims to speed up the cycle time from the autism diagnosis to effective treatments.

Down Syndrome Alabama

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(855) 726-7810

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CdLS Foundation (Cornelia de Lange Syndrome)

302 West Main Street (#100), Avon, CT 6001 We are a family support organization that exists to ensure early and accurate diagnosis, promote research, and help people with a diagnosis of CdLS make informed decisions throughout their lives. (800) 753-2357; (800) 223-8355 www.cdlsusa.org

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1716 Triple H Ranch Road, Bessemer, AL 35022 IDA Alabama works to improve the lives of individuals with dyslexia through education, legislation, and services.

Epilepsy Foundation of Alabama

(251) 656-1011; (251) 923-9858 com autism2ability.com

1601 Center Street (Suite 1F), Mobile, AL 36604 Our mission is to improve the lives of children with Autism Spectrum Disorders through early identification and diagnosis, as well as to provide educational outreach.

Alabama Branch of the International Dyslexia Association

(205) 533-4523 gladys.schaefer@gmail.com al.dyslexiaida.org

United Cerebral Palsy of Mobile

Pediatric Therapy Services at USA Children’s & Women’s Hospital

(251) 990-0041 admin@esrenaissance.org www.esrenaissance.org

(251) 479-4900 campsmile@ucpmobile.org www.campsmilemobile.org

We have developed a results-oriented, online learning and communication resource that provides a personalized curriculum for kids with autism spectrum disorder. Autism2Ability developed online tools called App2Talk, App2Learn and App2Live. info@autism2ability.

Non-Profit School meeting State Standards. Grades K - 10th, Dyslexia therapy and tutoring.

1929 Canyon Road, Vestavia Hills, AL 35216 We promote awareness, acceptance and advocacy for individuals with Down syndrome of all ages.

(205) 988-0810 downsyndromealabama@gmail.com www.downsyndromealabama.org

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3100 Lorna Rd (Ste 300), Birmingham, AL 36216 Our mission is to lead the fight to overcome the challenges of living with epilepsy and to accelerate therapies to stop seizures, find cures, and save lives. (205) 453-8205; (800) 626-1582 bjones@efa.org www.epilepsy.com/local/alabama

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Specific Resources Epilepsy Epilepsy Foundation

8301 Professional PL West - Suite 230, Landover, MD 20785 A non profit program with nearly 50 local organizations nationwide. We work to prevent, control, and cure epilepsy through community, education and research for new treatments and therapies. (800) 332-1000 foundation.org

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Specific Resources Tourette Syndrome Sickle Cell Disease Association of AmericaMobile Chapter, Inc. 1453 Springhill Avenue, Mobile, AL 36604 Our mission: empowering our clients and families with knowledge, through quality comprehensive programs and services. (251) 432-0301 bile.org

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700 Century Pk S (#225), Birmingham, AL 35226 MDA is dedicated to finding treatments and

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Specific Resources Spina Bifida Spina Bifida Association of Alabama

Birmingham, AL 35202 To develop and provide current information about Spina Bifida and promote public awareness as well as advocate for educational, vocational and community support. (256) 617-1414 info@sbaofal.org or support@sbaofal.org www.sbaofal.org

Therapy American Autism & Rehabilitation Center ad on page 17

8909 Rand Avenue, Daphne, AL 36526 A facility aimed at treating a variety of special needs in one convenient location. Speech, occupational and physical therapy, ABA therapy, psychological/diagnostic services and more. Our highly-trained professionals work collaboratively to provide individualized treatment plans in order to help patients reach their full potential. Serving patients & families of all ages affected by Autism, Aspergers, Down Syndrome, Cerebral Palsy, etc. (251) 210-1632 info@americanautismcenter.com www.Americanautismcenter.com

American Hyperbaric Center ad on page 17

8871 Rand Avenue (Suite B), Daphne, AL 36526 A premier Hyperbaric Oxygen Therapy (HBOT) treatment facility. HBOT reduces inflammation, promotes healing, repairs cells and heals wounds as well as treating symptoms of Autism, Multiple Sclerosis, Lyme, TBI/PTS, Stroke, RSD/CRPS, Fibromyalgia, Diabetic Foot Wounds, Radiation Injury, Failed Grafts/Flaps, Concussions and other Sports Injuries, Migraine Headaches, Cancer, Crohn’s/Colitis, Cerebral Palsy, Neuropathy, Rheumatoid Arthritis, Chronic Fatigue and much more. (251) 210-1496 info@americanhbot.com www.AmericanHBOT.com

Children’s Hospital at Ascension Sacred Heart Pediatric Rehabilitation ad on page 7

Hand In Hand Therapy & Tutoring, LLC ad on page 44

9837 US Highway 98, Fairhope, AL 35532 Occupational therapy for children birth to 26. Other services include Cognitive Behavioral interventions, therapy for Tourette or Tic disorders, dyslexia/alexia, handwriting, Visual/Motor skills, Tutoring and more. Find us on Facebook! (251) 517-7787 handinhandtherapy@att.net www.handinhandal.com

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1815 Hand Avenue, Bay Minette, AL 36507 We provide comprehensive care to children who require occupational, physical and speech therapy.

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Pediatric rehabilitation is designed to maximize the abilities of children when development is interrupted by an injury or a disability. Please call our office for an appointment.

Foley Therapy

316 McKenzie Street, Foley, AL 36535

PASSAGE USA

Carrie Waldrop, Coordinator, Early Intervention providing therapy in the children’s homes.

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307 University Boulevard Office (UCOM 3412), Mobile, AL 36688-0002 PASSAGE USA, the University of South Alabama’s two-year program for students with intellectual disabilities, provides individual supports and services for academic, employment, and social inclusion. Need-based financial aid is available. (251) 460-7558 passageusa@southalabama.edu www.southalabama.edu/colleges/ceps/passage/

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Gulf Coast Therapy - Early Intervention and Therapy Services (251) 928-7312 fho@gulfcoasttherapy.com www.gulfcoasttherapy.com

Kids Always Kount Therapy Services, LLC

26420 Kensington Pl (Suite C), Daphne, AL 36526 Offers Occupational, Physical, and Speech Therapy/Audiology as well as ADHD Coaching and Dyslexia Assessment/Interventions using a multisensory approach in an engaging and supportive environment. (251) 517-0355 andrea@kidsalwayskount.net www.kidsalwayskount.net

Melanie B. Waters, M.C.D., CCC-SLP Spoken Word Speech Language Services LLC

881 Hillcrest Road, Mobile, AL 36695 Our mission is to provide pediatric patients with options for out-patient physical therapy services. Treatment will be individualized, assertive, and aggressive to maximize functional outcomes. We strive to have child-friendly, play-based treatment programs which are family centered.

1203 US Hwy 98 (Suite 1-A), Daphne, AL 36526 Evaluation & treatment for speech-sound issues, tongue thrust, poor listening skills, auditory processing disorder, reading difficulties, dyslexia, social deficits, stuttering and communication problems. Fast ForWord products and monitoring also available.

Thomas Hospital Pediatric Therapy

Pediatric Therapy Services at USA Children’s & Women’s Hospital

(251) 450-0070

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750 Morphy Avenue, Fairhope, AL 36532 Providing comprehensive care to children who require occupational, physical and speech therapy. We offer an environment where all three therapies can work together with families to guarantee each child is receiving exactly what he or she needs. Therapy gyms and offices have viewing windows and headphone systems for parents to observe their child’s therapy sessions, full-spectrum lighting to enhance learning needs of patients and wireless laptop computers to further diminish distractions. We also strive to find the correct balance of challenge and play so that children can work toward their treatment goals while having fun.

Beach Speech Therapy

850-416-5290

39821 Duffee Lane, Bay Minette, AL 36507 Hippotherapy uses the movement of a horse to influence the patient’s posture, balance, strength, stability & sensory processing. Therapists direct the movement of the horse, analyze the patient’s response and adjust therapy.

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3754 U.S. Hwy 90 W (Ste 100), Pace, FL 32571 5151 N 9th Ave (Ste 1405), Pensacola, FL 32504

Buckaroo Barn, L.L.C

(251) 937-2823 rich.rammel@infirmaryhealth.org www.infirmaryhealth.org/services/rehabilitation

(251) 928-2375 rich.rammel@infirmaryhealth.org www.infirmaryhealth.org

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(251) 287-0378 info@bluebirdtherapy.com www.bluebirdtherapy.com

(251) 604-3904 buckaroobarn@gmail.com www.buckaroobarnllc.com

15 Daniel Street , Gulf Breeze, FL 32561 850-416-2121

therapy. Therapy is available in-clinic and via teletherapy. Each session addresses the individual child’s needs through play that is grounded in child development while also teaching the parents what to do at home.

Foley, AL 36535 (251) 610-8000

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BlueBird Pediatric Therapy, Inc.

6157 Airport Boulevard, Mobile, AL 36608 Occupational therapy, speech therapy, feeding

(251) 786-8255 mel.spokenword@gmail.com www.spokenwordspeech.com

1610 Center Street, Suite B, Mobile, AL 36604 We offer a collaborative, team-oriented program with physical, occupational and speech language therapies for our pediatric patients. (251) 415-1670 www.usahealthsystem.com/locations/pediatric-therapy-services-clinic

South Baldwin Regional Medical Center

1613 North McKenzie Street, Foley, AL 36535 Physical Therapy, Occupational Therapy, Speech Therapy. Providing on-going care for the patient and improved communication with the referring physician. (251) 949-3580; (251) 949-3400 www.southbaldwinrmc.com

USA Speech and Hearing Clinic

5721 USA North Dr, HAHN 1119, Mobile, AL 36688 The Center provides services in speech, language, and hearing to citizens of the greater Mobile community. Due to COVID-19, offering limited speech-language pathology services via telepractice. (251) 445-9378 speechandhearing@southalabama. edu www.southalabama.edu/colleges/alliedhealth/ speechandhearing/clinic.html ESP

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By the time Meira Mednick’s daughter was in third grade, homework time had morphed into lengthy, embattled evenings fraught with angry tears as frustrated daughter and frazzled mom squared off. “My daughter began showing signs of difficulty in focus on homework in kindergarten. By second grade we were drowning,” Mednick says. Mednick tried tactics like feeding her first grader an early dinner as soon as she got home from school and giving her time to relax before starting homework. Instead, “We ended up spending the next two years in a tug of war of time, and many tears were shed,” she says. Many parents can relate and dread the contentious homework hour, which can plunder an otherwise peaceful evening. For kiddos, who struggle to tune out distractions and concentrate on the task at hand, sitting down to do homework doesn’t rank high on their list of priorities. Thanks to the distractions of technology, the inability to focus is a growing problem in our culture. The number of children who are diagnosed with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) also continues to rise. The Centers for Disease Control reports that ADHD is “one of the most common chronic conditions of childhood.” Experts agree: the ability to focus is crucial to achieving goals. How can we create a more calming homework atmosphere that will enhance our child’s ability to concentrate and get the job done quickly––without the draining drama?

into timed chunks. After a busy day at school, parents can typically expect their youngsters to focus on a task for one minute for each year of their age. That means a six-year-old should be given a two or three minute break every six minutes. “Expecting 30 minutes of homework out of a first grader isn’t realistic without breaks,” says Rachel Rudman, a pediatric occupational therapist. The timed approach made a big difference for Mednick’s daughter. “Previously she would be discouraged even before picking up a pencil. By having a timed environment, she knew that she could tackle one interval at a time,” says Mednick, whose daughter is now an 8th grade honors student.

1) Work in short bursts. Kids get overwhelmed with long worksheets and multiple assignments. Break homework

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Place a plant in your home’s study area and have your child water it as a transitionary cue before beginning homework, Rene suggests.

2) Create smart brain breaks. During the timed breaks

engage your child in short activities that help reorganize and refocus the brain, like jumping jacks, playing with Legos or playdoh, or snacking on crunchy carrots or pretzel rods or something chewy such as fruit leather. Blowing up a balloon can also help ease frustrations. “Blowing forces the child to take deep breaths which increases relaxation and focus,” Rudman says. Avoid electronics, which can be harder to pull a child away from.

5) Chew gum. Although the “no gum allowed” rule was grilled into our psyches when we were students, more schools now allow kids to chew gum during state assessments. The chewing movement has an organizing effect on the brain and can help kids focus. 6) Energize with aromatherapy. Scent can have a powerful effect on our emotional well-being. Fill a spray bottle with water and two or three drops of peppermint, rosemary or citrus essential oil. Spray the scent around the study area to enhance concentration, focus and creativity.

3) Strike a pose. Yoga stretches and breathing exercises

can calm and re-energize a tired body. Balancing poses like bird or airplane, and a full body twist combines breathing and concentrated stretching movements. “Balancing poses require a level of concentration that are a great way to strengthen those ‘focus muscles’ and create a body and mind that is strong and relaxed,” says Mariam Gates, the author of the new children’s book Good Night Yoga: A Pose-byPose Bedtime Story.

7) Get organized. Make a homework box either out of a

large shoe box or plastic container. Have your child decorate it and store homework supplies, like pens, pencils, crayons, markers, scissors, paper, a glue stick and anything else he might need. “Having everything together creates an atmosphere of organization and success,” Rudman says.

4) Integrate natural elements. Researchers at the

University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign have found that including ornamental plants in a learning area can further enhance a child’s ability to concentrate and learn. “And weirdly, the more involved the child is in the plant’s life or maintenance, the more learning goes on,” says Magalie Rene, a classroom design consultant, who works with parents and schools to create study spaces that foster learning.

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If your youngster continues to struggle with focus and concentration, consult with your family’s pediatrician or a child psychologist. ESP

As the mom of two active sons, freelance journalist Christa Melnyk Hines knows all too well the stress homework time can create in a family.

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Worried About College

Q. My husband and I are about to start Baby Step 5. We want to save money for college to help our children, but we’re a little worried about starting a 529 Plan and being penalized if we pull the money out for trade school or they don’t finish their studies. What do you think we should do? A. You’d only be taxed on the growth, not what you put into the plan. And you’d be taxed on the growth anyway if you put it into something else, so there’s no reason not to go with a 529 Plan. The truth is a 529 will work for a lot of trade schools. It may not be accepted if they do a straight-up apprenticeship, but it’s fine for a course of study at a vo-tech school.

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Now, if you don’t use all of what’s in your 529 for education, the portion that goes unused will be taxed. You’ll want a chunk of cash sitting in your 529, enough to make a difference in their educational goals, but you don’t want to overfund it.

Accept a Gift from In-Laws?

Q. My in-laws have very generously offered my wife and I $250,000 to help with a down payment on a home. I know the amount exceeds the IRS’s yearly gift allowance, but they want to structure it as a family loan and have already told us they don’t care if we pay it back. If we accept, we technically owe them a lot of money. If we say no, they may be offended. What

do you think about this and how it might impact the relationship?

A. Well, it makes sense your wife would be onboard with the whole thing. It’s her dad making the offer, so of course she would be a lot more comfortable with the idea than you are. This is a big deal, and it’s something you two should have a very serious conversation about. Get on the same page in every regard. Also, I’d recommend making sure you get everything in writing. See to it, as well, that it can be forgiven at the maximum allowable annual gift rate. In addition, in the event of death make sure it’s included in the estate, it’s forgiven, and there will be zero call on the note. In effect, that would make it an advance on your inheritance instead of debt. Under no circumstances should they, or any other heirs, have grounds to call the note. That’s a good question. And a nice gift!

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ALABAMA CHILD PASSENGER SAFETY QUICK SAFETY TIPS

• RIGHT SEAT: Check the label on your car seat to make sure it’s appropriate for your child’s age, weight and height. • RIGHT PLACE: Keep all children in the back seat until they are 13. • RIGHT DIRECTION: Keep your child in a rear facing position for as long as possible! When he or she outgrows the seat, move your child to a forward-facing car seat. • INCH TEST: Once your car seat is installed, use your non-dominate hand and shake the seat at the belt path. A properly installed seat will not move more than an inch. • PINCH TEST: Make sure the harness is tightly buckled and coming from the correct slots. Now, with the chest clip placed at armpit level, pinch the strap at your child’s shoulder. If you are unable to pinch any excess webbing, you’re good to go!

DID YOU KNOW? • Motor vehicle injuries are a leading cause of death among children in the US.

ALABAMA CHILD RESTRAINTS LAW REQUIRES CHILDREN UNDER 6 TO BE PROPERLY BUCKLED IN AN APPROPRIATE CAR SEAT OR BOOSTER SEAT. CAR SEAT RECOMMENDATIONS: • Infant only seats and convertible seats used in the rear facing position for infants until at least 1 year of age or 20 pounds. • Convertible seats in the forward position or forward-facing seats until the child is at least 5 years of age or 40 pounds. • Booster seats until the child is 6 years of age. • Seat belts until 15 years of age. *American Academy of Pediatrics recommends children remain in a rear-facing car safety seat as long as possible, until they reach the highest weight or height allowed by their seat.

FREE CAR SEAT CHECK Still have questions or concerns? For help (or to even double check your work), contact:

• Car seat use reduces the risk for injury in a crash by 71-82% for children, when compared with seat belt use alone.

Michelle Richardson (Perry, Walker, Lamar counties): (205) 554-4529

• An estimated 46% of car seats and booster seats are misused in a way that could reduce their effectiveness.

Anna Odom (Washington, Clarke, Baldwin counties): (251) 946-8012

Penny Roney (Madison, Marshall, Morgan counties): (256) 533-8712 Sharon Franklin (Macon, Elmore, Bullock counties): (334) 322-8431 Elizabeth Payne (St. Clair, Etowah, Calhoun counties): (256) 533-8712 1