Eastern Shore Parents "Fall Festival Issue"(October 2023)

PRESSED

JUICE, COCKTAILS AND COMMUNITY

PRESS & CO. HAS MADE ITS MARK AS THE EASTERN SHORE’S NEW HEALTHY HOT SPOT

Less than eight weeks since its official opening on August 12, 2023, Press & Co. has captured the hearts of locals and tourists alike as they’ve stopped in (repeatedly) to experience the Eastern Shore’s new health-focused café.

Press & Co. is open six days a week serving an organic-based menu of cold pressed juices, smoothies, coffee, breakfast, lunch, cocktails and more. The restaurant’s mission is to impact the community by creating a gathering place

MEET KIMBERLY

“I had a calling to create something impactful that everyone in our community could enjoy and be proud of. As a small town, we don’t have all the same kind of amenities and health alternatives as bigger cities, so being able to bring this to life is so fulfilling. I could not have made it happen without the help of my amazing team, and especially my Operating Parnter, Alex Pikul. As fun as it is to welcome new faces every day, it is even more rewarding to see the same faces there over and over. A hangout that locals felt was ‘their spot’ was always an integral piece of the vision,” said Kimberly Cox, owner.

“It has been humbling to hear so much postive feedback about the energy and kindness of our staff, quality of our food, and an atmostphere they describe as feeling like they’ve been transported to South Florida or LA.”

Kimberly Cox, owner of Press & Co., got inspired to create a café concept after embarking on her own personal health journey. Years ago, she realized she had not been feeling like herself, and she visited with numerous healthcare providers who determined she was medically “just fine.” Unsatisfied, she elected to take matters into her own hands. She educated herself on all things health and wellness through books, podcasts, conferences and befriending knowledgeable people. As a result of her efforts, she has not only cured what ailed her though nutrition, but has also impacted countless others by educating and inspiring them.

When Kimberly travels with her family, her favorite thing to do is to seek out fantastic healthy places to eat since there aren’t currenty many options in our hometown. These experiences planted the desire in her heart to cultivate a place like this in her own community.

After years of dreaming and figuring things out as she went, Press & Co. is now a beautiful reality for all of us to enjoy!

HERE, BABIES GET THEIR START, AND FAMILIES ARE BORN.

We haven’t just changed the experience of having a baby; we’ve transformed it, starting with a host of birthing options from the region’s only academic health system. From a traditional birthing experience, to a Gentle C-Section, to the region’s most advanced neonatal intensive care unit and maternal-fetal specialists, the experience you want is here.

SOMETHING TO SMILE ABOUT

At Glass Orthodontics, you’re more than just another faceyou’re a unique person and our team values that. With one dedicated doctor and a hands-on team, everyone will know your name! Consultations are always complimentary and we offer flexible appointments and interest free payment plans. With four locations to serve you, there is always something to smile about at Glass Orthodontics.

Cultivating a Positive Body Image

FaBOOlous Fun

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After the absolute scorcher of a summer we had, I cannot wait for fall weather. I know I am not alone in this either. Just this morning I walked outside and there was a tiny hint of possible coolness. I was absolutely giddy! Even my dogs seemed to have a little extra pep in their step. There is so much I love about this season, like the milder weather, long sleeved t-shirts, boots, buying pumpkins in all different shapes, colors and sizes and how the sun starts to cast a more golden hue in the early mornings and late afternoons.

Autumn also brings with it a lot of activity. On top of the already exciting fall sports we have fall festivals, fairs, pumpkin patches, trunk-or-treats and so many other events for families to enjoy together. So much so that we have dedicated an entire section of this month’s issue to sharing these events with you! The Fall Festival Guide is a perfect place to start planning your family outings. Don’t stop there though. Make sure you also flip over to the Family Calendar for even more local events.

Maybe you are like me and love to host events. If throwing an awesome Halloween party is on your docket then you will definitely want to check out Cherie Gough’s feature in this issue, FaBOOlous Fun for Everyone: Halloween Gatherings that Impress. The great news about her ideas is not only will they work for small or large gatherings, but for most ages too! If your group loves to dress up in costumes, even better!

One of the tough parts of Halloween is what to do with all those treats! It is certainly reasonable (and probably smart) to set a limit on the allowed candy consumption. Make sure to express it as a “health” issue, not a “weight” issue. Kids are smart and very intuitive so if you are making it a weight conversation, they will pick up on it. However, having a healthy diet is more than appearance. It is about the way you feel, perform in school, etc. As Lita Chatham discusses in her feature Cultivating a Positive Body Image for Healthy, Confident Kids, we need to refocus the conversation that media is having with our kids when it comes to body image.

Once you decide an appropriate amount of candy (including the amount us parents sneak out after they go to sleep) you will probably still have candy left over. Did you know there are places you can donate your unwrapped candy? A quick Google search will lead you in the right direction. Some Ronald McDonald houses will accept donations, there is a Halloween Candy Buy Back program some dentists participate in, also a program called Treats for Troops, and you can check with local food pantries and retirement/nursing homes. This makes trick-or-treating even more special when you can do something fun with the goodies after!

I hope you find fun and exciting things in this month’s issue to get you all pumpkinspiced up and ready for a Happy Fall Y’all!

Eastern Shore Parents Magazine, is founded on the principle that parenting is an exciting, diverse, challenging, and significant, role in our community. Eastern Shore Parents Magazine is a community advocate for families and the parenting process.

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Cherie Gough

Gabriele Jones

Dave Ramsey

Gina Rich

Robert L. Rux, M.D. Works of Wonder Therapy, LLC

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by Works of Wonder Therapy www.worksofwondertherapy.com

How to Parent Beyond Focusing on Behaviors

An excellent tool to help parents with “overly emotional” children is the book, Beyond Behaviors: Using Brain Science and Compassion to Understand and Solve Children’s Behavioral Challenges by Mona Delahooke, PhD. This article summarizes some of her main points and will hopefully help parents respond to children’s “bad behavior” in a more emotionally healthy manner.

The first thing parents must understand is that behaviors can be divided into two main categories: Top-Down and BottomUp Behaviors. Top-Down Behaviors require intentionality, thinking, and continuous effort. Bottom-Up Behaviors are reflexive, selfprotective, automatic responses that do not involve conscious thought. Bottom-Up behaviors occur when a child does not feel safe.

One of the worst mistakes a parent can make is to assume that a Bottom-Up Behavior

(response to feeling unsafe) is a Top-Down Behavior (intentional “bad” behavior). Delahooke uses three colors to help parents understand if a behavior is Bottom-Up or Top-Down: Green, Red, and Blue. Parents can learn to use body language to assess the pathway the child was in when the behavior occurred.

In the green (ventral vagal) pathway, we can successfully communicate, play, and learn. In the green pathway people feel safe, connected, calm, and social. People in the green pathway display a relaxed but interested body posture, look directly at people, smile frequently, and respond appropriately to changes in the environment.

In the red (sympathetic) pathway of the automatic nervous system (fight or flight), an individual feels threatened. People in the red pathway typically display a loud tone of voice, eyes that quickly look around the room, tense muscles, aggression, and clenched teeth. They are often attempting to take over a physical space by moving objects and people.

In the blue (dorsal vagal) pathway, the person feels extreme danger. People in the blue pathway display deceleration of heart and breathing rate, slow movements, eyes that look at things more than people, little curiosity, and a decrease in expressive language. In this pathway, people are attempting to conserve energy to survive.

The most important thing to learn and remember from this article is that all people, especially children, are logical, intentional, and teachable ONLY in the Green Pathway. Parents, please do not attempt to teach your child something when YOU or YOUR CHILD are not in the green pathway. When we are not in the green pathway, our likelihood of a successful and productive parenting interaction diminishes drastically.

When we see our children behave in a manner that we dislike, we must become curious instead of judgmental. Start by asking:

1. What body language is the child displaying?

2. Is this a Top-Down or Bottom-Up Behavior?

3. If this is a Bottom-Up Behavior, how can I help my child feel safe? What can I do to help them feel safe in this situation in the future? What can I do to prevent this response in the future?

4. If this is a Top-Down Behavior, how can I help my child practice a more appropriate response? How can I help my child learn from this experience?

Dr. Beth Long received her education in Counseling Psychology from Chapman University. She is a Licensed Professional Counselor and Board Certified Behavior Analyst. Beth has worked in six unique clinical environments across the country and currently owns Works of Wonder Therapy in Montgomery. Beth utilizes the knowledge from a variety of different disciplines to give her patients the best care possible. To learn more visit www.worksofwondertherapy.com.

“When a flower doesn’t bloom you fix the environment in which it grows, not the flower.” Dan Heijer

10th Annual Spina Bifida Awareness Game

Special needs families, and the community, are invited to the 10th Annual Spina Bifida Awareness Game. The event will take place on Friday, October 13th at W.C. Majors Field, Volanta Sports Park in Fairhope. Tailgating will start promptly at 5:00pm. We are also welcoming Sponsors, Raffle and Silent Auction Items. Proceeds will go to the Spina Bifida Association of Alabama to help families in need. For more Information-Please Contact Heather Horne at heatherhornephotography@gmail.com or call Brett Horne 251-423-1335.

Blackbird Expo Coming to USS ALABAMA Battleship Memorial Park

USS ALABAMA Battleship Memorial Park will be hosting a Blackbird Expo October 13-15 in the Medal of Honor Aircraft Pavilion. This rare event will include some of the last former pilots and mechanics of these spy planes. They will hold discussion panels and break-out sessions discussing A-12 and SR-71 Blackbirds. These veterans will tell stories, hold demonstrations, give 360° tours of the cockpit (open for this event only) and more. The event is included with general admission. All proceeds will go toward the restoration of the park’s A-12. Please visit our website at www.ussalabama.com/events.

35th Annual Jubilee Festival of Arts

The 35th Annual Jubilee Festival hosted by the Eastern Shore Chamber of Commerce and the City of Daphne is set for October 21 and 22, 2023 from 10am – 5pm each day in Lott Park, Olde Town Daphne.

The event is expecting to welcome over 130 artists! The festival also features the Jubilee Market for local food makers, local entertainment, delicious food and Kids Art. There is truly something for everyone at the Jubilee Festival of Arts. For information on parking, student art exhibits, and more visit www.thejubileefestival.com and their Facebook page facebook. com/jubileefestivaldaphne.

B&T Club’s Polka Dot Polo Classic

Bread & Table Club’s Polka Dot Polo Classic, presented by The Shirlee Poulos Foundation and co-hosted by the Baldwin County Education Coalition will take place on Sunday, October 8th from 2pm to 6pm at Silverhill Faulkner Field. Join us for an up close, very exciting, private Polo Match, amazing culinary delights, raffles, a Champagne Divot Stomp, one of a kind photo opportunities & more!

This year’s Polka Dot Polo Classic will benefit the Baldwin County Education Coalition latest initiative, Palm Project. We will be throwing it back to the 90’s, taking inspiration from the 1990 movie, Pretty Woman! You can’t think of this iconic movie without picturing polka dots, so go with it! Join the fun at this fundraising event that will benefit students right here in Baldwin County! For more information, find our event on Facebook - B&T Club’s Polka Dot Polo Classic. To purchase tickets visit www.eventbrite.com/e/bt-clubs-polka-dot-poloclassic-tickets-676107584987.

Family Advisory Council at Children’s & Women’s Seeks New Members

With a goal of creating better patient and family experiences, USA Health Children’s & Women’s Hospital is seeking new members to expand its Family Advisory Council.

The group, which meets monthly, was established in recent years to more fully understand the needs of patients, families and caregivers who spend time at the region’s only hospital for children and women, as well as to streamline communication between parents and hospital leadership, among other goals. Rachel Stanley, a nurse in the neonatal intensive care unit and the parent of a child with long-term healthcare needs, serves on the council and says, “We are looking for families who have children or a child with complex health issues who either frequently visit our hospital or see multiple disciplines within the health system.” Advisory councils such as the one at Children’s & Women’s Hospital promote effective and respectful partnerships among patients, families, and clinical staff members, while increasing understanding and cooperation among those groups.

Those interested in joining the council can contact Kim Wagner, who coordinates the Mapp Child & Family Life Program at the hospital, by emailing kwagner@health.southalabama.edu. The application process includes an interview and background check, Wagner said. Family members are asked why they want to be part of the teamm and how they can contribute.

14th Annual Prodisee Pantry Turkey Trot

The 14th Annual Prodisee Pantry Turkey Trot runs through Old Towne Daphne this Saturday, October 28th with both a certified 5K Race and a 1-mile Fun Run/Walk. This year’s Family Friendly Festival is sure to be fun, complete with seasonal games, live music, and of course treats for the kids!

The 5K Race starts at 8 a.m. on Main Street at City Hall. It follows a fast course as it winds through Old Towne Daphne. The Fun Run/Walk begins at 9 a.m. Walkers are encouraged to participate in the Fun Run. We can’t forget about our teams! Prizes will be awarded for largest team, most funds raised, team spirit, most cans collected, cutest booth and more. So grab some friends, start training, and join in the fun. Proceeds from the Turkey Trot benefit Prodisee Pantry, Baldwin County’s largest nonprofit emergency food pantry. Turkey Trot participants really are a TURKEY…for a family in need! This event allows us to provide food insecure families all the fixings for a traditional “Norman Rockwell” type feast. This community ministry brings hope by feeding physical, emotional hunger! Volunteers provided fresh local produce, meats, eggs, bread, canned staple foods and warm smiles to 9,731 families last year. That equates to 23,000 individuals who had healthy food to eat.

The Turkey Trot provides funding for Prodisee Pantry’s Thanksgiving project. Last November, 1,300 families were blessed with nine tons of turkey and over 18 tons of special holiday foods in addition to the weekly emergency food allocation. Each registration equals a turkey! Registration forms are available online on Prodisee Pantry’s Turkey Trot Facebook Page or at: runsignup.com/Race/AL/Daphne/ProdiseePantryTurkeyTrot. Participants can also register at Prodisee Pantry.

FEEF Hosts Jubilee Party at the Pavillion

Fairhope Educational Enrichment Foundation (FEEF) hosts, Jubilee- Party at the Pavilion to again raise funds for Fairhope Schools. For over 27 years, FEEF has promoted innovative and creative learning for all Fairhope public school students. With the help of the community, FEEF has invested millions of dollars to promote STEAM (Science, Technology, Engineering, Art, and Math) in your schools. The event will take place on Friday, October 20, 2023, 6:30 pm. Plato Jones will be providing the entertainment.

Please join us as FEEF offers a wide range of tickets to Jubilee - starting at $100 and a various sponsorship opportunities (including opportunities to sponsor a deserving teacher for a reduced price) to ensure that everyone can contribute to this continued legacy of support for Fairhope students.

Gold, silver and bronze annual sponsorship alternatives (including premium tickets to Jubilee, players for the 2024 Annual Mayor’s Golf Tournament to be held April 5, 2024, recognition on all FEEF promotions, prominent Logo placement at FEEF events, tee marker at Quail Creek, tee signs, and waived or reduction of rental fee for FEEF new outdoor structure and garden – The Pavilion at the Nest. Your attendance and partnership are critical to enabling FEEF to continue to support our schools.

Baldwin County Distinguished Young Woman Named for 2024

Spanish Fort High School student, Caroline Pierce, was named Baldwin County’s Distinguished Young Woman for 2024. Pierce is the daughter of Trey and Jada Pierce of Spanish Fort.

In addition to the title, Caroline Pierce won a $2,500 cash tuition scholarship, $300 gift certificate to Anthony’s Bridal, $100 gift certificate to M&F Casuals and a $100 gift certificate to Rachel Lindell Photography. She was also the preliminary winner for the interview portion, earning additional scholarships funds.

Rounding out the top five included Maddi Heath, Spanish Fort High, first runner-up; Anna Bowler Conyers, Fairhope High, second runner-up; Phoebe Cisneros, St. Michael’s Catholic High School, third runner-up; and Sophie Walters, Spanish Fort High, fourth runner-up.

Participants from across Baldwin County showcased their scholastic achievements, talent, fitness, interview skills and presence and composure, earning thousands of dollars in scholarships along the way.

The judging evaluations are based on five categories: scholastics, interview, talent, fitness and selfexpression. Winners of the preliminary talent awards included Maddi Heath and Faithlynn Swanson. Emily Byrd and Maddi Heath picked up the wins in the fitness category, each earning cash tuition scholarships. In the self-expression category each participant provides an answer to a question posed prior to the opening of the program. The preliminary winners in this category included Ava Davidson and Zoie Pratt. In addition to the preliminary competitions held on stage the night of the program, participants also take part in interviews and scholastic categories. Caroline Pierce was named interview winner and Anna Bowler Conyers won the scholastic preliminary award. Other awards presented included: Zoie Pratt, the Has Been Scholarship; Olivia Creel, Coastal Alabama Community College; and Zoie Pratt, Be Your Best Self. The CACC scholarship and Be Your Best Self awards were based on essays written by the participants. Anna Bowler Conyers also received the Bob & Sue Stanley Spirit of DYW Award. This special award is voted on by the fellow participants and is named in memory of two members of the Baldwin County DYW family. In addition to a cash tuition scholarship, the winner received a gift bag donated by the Downtown Girls of Bay Minette.

Program participants included Ava Davidson, Maddi Heath, Caroline Pierce, Emily Taylor and Sophie Walters, Spanish Fort High; Kennedy Hoskins, Heidi Tucker and Annalese Moore, Foley High; Anna Bowler Conyers and Melissa Fowler, Fairhope High; Emily Byrd and Allyson Bankester, Baldwin County High; Zoie Pratt, Daphne High; Faith Craig, Orange Beach High; Phoebe Cisneros and Olivia Creel, St. Michael’s Catholic High School; and Faithlynn Swanson, The Socratic Experience. Each participant received a $100 gift certificate to Anthony’s Bridal.

The University of Mobile presented multiple scholarships to participants during the program. The Presidential Merit Scholarship, valued at $56,000 over four years, was presented to Phoebe Cisneros, Anna Bowler Conyers, Faith Craig, Melissa Fowler, Maddi Heath, Caroline Pierce, Zoie Pratt, Faithlynn Swanson and Sophie Walters.

The Founder’s Merit Scholarship, valued at $48,000 over four years, was presented to Emily Byrd, Olivia Creel, Ava Davidson, Kennedy Hoskins, Annaleese Moore, Emily Taylor, and Heidi Tucker. The Belief in Community Scholarship, valued at $32,000 over four years, was presented to Allyson Bankester.

Spooktacular Fun at Bellingrath Gardens & Home

Bellingrath Gardens and Home is thrilled to announce a spooktacular lineup of fall events, offering an unforgettable experience for families and visitors of all ages. From Trick-ortreating to Scarecrows in the Gardens, and the 60th Annual Fall Outdoor Cascading Chrysanthemums display, there’s something for everyone to enjoy!

Scarecrows in the Gardens: Witness the creative Scarecrows in the Gardens exhibition running from October 5 to October 31. We invite families, businesses, schools, local artists, individuals, and service/civic organizations to participate. Each registration includes 2 Daytime Gardens admissions during the exhibition. Please note that tickets cannot be redeemed for Boo at Bellingrath (October 28, 2023). Our esteemed panel of judges will determine winners across three categories, with announcements taking place during the Boo at Bellingrath event. The “People’s Choice” winner will be decided by votes received at our voting station in the Gift Shop/Cafe building and through social media.

Boo at Bellingrath – Trick-or-Treating Extravaganza: Get ready to dress up your little ghosts and goblins for an evening of Halloween fun at Bellingrath Gardens & Home on Saturday, Oct. 28. The Gardens will be transformed into a spooky wonderland, filled with thrilling inflatables. Local businesses and organizations will set up numerous treat stations, ensuring a delightful time for all guests. Join us anytime between 1:00 p.m. and 6:00 p.m. for this fantastic event. Highlights of Boo at Bellingrath include: ● Balloon artists showcasing their creativity and crafting trick-or-treaters’ favorite animals and shapes from 1:00 p.m. to 3:30 p.m. ● Spooky Storytime with the Mobile Public Library at regular intervals, 3 pm-5:30 pm ● Live Music to keep the festive spirit alive from 3:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m. ● Disney Channel Original Movie “Halloweentown” at 6:30 p.m. ● Relish the flavors of local cuisine from various food trucks stationed on-site.

Eastern Shore Children’s Business Fair

Support Baldwin County Young Entrepreneurs

as they launch their very own businesses! These rising stars have worked for months to develop a brand, create a product or service, build a marketing strategy, and will open for customers at our one-day marketplace and festival. Our past fairs have featured incredible artists, bakers, jewelry and crafts artisans, soap makers, and more! We will host 35 booths at the 6th annual event on October 28th, 2023 at Centennial Park in Daphne from 10:00am to 1:00pm. There will be food, drinks, and fun for the whole family! This event is made possible by the generous support of our donors, sponsors and volunteers. We believe in our community and we believe in our kids!

If you would like to become a volunteer, a sponsor, or a donor contact Lynne Holloway at EasternShoreCBF@gmail.com. Find us on Facebook or visit https://www. childrensbusinessfair.org/daphne.

Stapleton Bluegrass Festival

The Stapleton Bluegrass Festival is only a few weeks and has built a solid reputation as the premier Bluegrass event on the northern Gulf Coast as well as a can’t-miss festival for those who enjoy live music, great food, and family-friendly activities.

This year is going to be truly special. Some outstanding bands are taking part including The Amanda Cook Band, Fat Man Squeeze, The Tennessee Bluegrass Band, The Chestangs,, The Unknown Bluegrass Band and Blue Mullet. Add in food / beverage trucks and a wide variety of activities for the whole family, and it becomes clear why the Stapleton Bluegrass Festival is quickly becoming a favorite regional event. This year’s festival will be October 28, 2023 from 11:00 am - 5:30 pm at Stapleton School, 35480 Harriot Avenue, Stapleton, AL. Bring blankets or lawn chairs and enjoy this outstanding family-friendly event on the beautiful oak-lined sloping grounds of the Stapleton School campus. This is an alcohol-free event. No coolers allowed. Tickets are $10 for adults, $5 for kids 5 - 12. For more information visit www.stapletonbluegrassfestival.com and find it on Facebook. This event is a benefit for Stapleton Elementary School and is the school’s largest and most important fundraiser.

SEEDS 7th Annual Golf Tournament

SEEDS (Supporting Educational Excellence in Daphne Schools) invites you to participate in the 7th Annual Golf Tournament, Friday, November 10, 2023 at Timbercreek Golf Club. Join us for a day of golf, food, and fun, all while supporting your Daphne schools! Prizes will be awarded including Closest to the Pin, Longest Drive Contest, and cash prizes for top teams. Registration begins at 8:00a.m, golf starts at 9:00am, lunch to follow. All Tournament proceeds fund the 2023-2024 SEEDS Classroom Grant Program for Daphne six public schools. SEEDS has served the Daphne Public Schools since 2004 funding over $850,000 in classroom enrichment grants, including STEAM initiatives, art programs, leadership training, mentoring programs and early reading initiatives. We are pleased to report this past academic year SEEDS funded $84,000 in grants, the largest financial annual amount in our foundation’s history. Our mission is to provide student enrichment opportunities and professional development for all our Daphne students and faculty. Please help us continue to invest in the future of our students and teachers by sponsoring the event, registering a team or by purchasing a T-sign. For more information or to register visit seedsindaphne.com.

Sponsored by Magnolia Springs Pediatrics

Food Allergies and Your Child

Did you know that approximately 4/100 children under the age of 18 have severe food allergies? And unfortunately, over the past 25 years, this number has continued to increase! So what now? In this day and age there is so much information and misinformation out there that it can get confusing. So today, I will simplify some of this data, what it really means for your child, and what to look for.

So yes, the number of severe food allergies is increasing. Now, I’m not talking about the one time your child ate something and threw up, so now you never give it to them again. Or when your child had strawberries, and the skin around their lips turned red for twenty minutes. And I’m not talking about parents who make food choices for their child based on preference, not an actual diagnosed allergy.

How do you know if your child has an allergy? Common symptoms include the onset of a raised red rash called hives, immedi-

ate vomiting and/or diarrhea, mouth or lip swelling, chronic eczema and/ or cough and wheezing. The hard part is it could be one or all of these. In addition, it could be caused by something other than a food allergy.

So what do you do? First, take a deep breath. Get out your phone and take a picture or video. Then, call your child’s doctor immediately for a plan. Typically, this involves giving an oral antihistamine followed by heading to their office or the ER based on the severity of symptoms. I like a picture or video because often, by the time you have given your child medication and arrived at my office, the symptoms have resolved, and it’s near impossible to diagnose the problem accurately. Sometimes, the symptoms are severe and require other medications like steroids, epinephrine, and even an overnight stay in the hospital.

How do you proceed as a parent? How can you prevent this from happening? Well, it’s tricky. In the past, the AAP developed guidelines that essentially recommended

holding off on highly allergenic foods like peanuts, eggs, and shellfish until two to three years of life. Now, new data suggests that introducing these foods earlier might reduce the chance of lifelong allergy! But, it’s complicated based on the presence of eczema and family history of food allergies, and there are different guidelines based on these findings. Ultimately, your best plan is to work with your child’s doctor to discuss these topics and develop a game plan. It can be overwhelming because social media and Google give you twenty different answers, making it hard to tell what you can trust. I recommend talking with a trained medical professional, not the blogger online who tells you all you are doing wrong! As parents, we must make many choices for our children- so bounce it off the doctor and not the internet.

Robert L. Rux, M.D. is a Board Certified Pediatrician at Magnolia Springs Pediatrics. Originally from Mobile, he attended medical school at The University of Alabama School of Medicine (UAB) and completed residency at The Children’s Hospital of Alabama (UAB).

Taylor Wood

Stonebridge Elementary, Spanish Fort

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Taylor Wood, a newlywed from the Eastern Shore, has earned the privilege of being our Eastern Shore Parents Teacher of the Month.

“I am truly so honored to receive this recognition,” Taylor said. “It is my goal to make an impact on my students and I never expect a reward or award in return. However, knowing that my students’ parents enjoy having me as their child’s teacher makes me so proud and excited.”

Taylor is currently in her 5th year of teaching after graduating from Troy University with her Bachelor’s degree in 2019. She is currently pursuing her Master’s through the University of West Alabama while she works full time at Stonebridge Elementary in Spanish Fort as a first grade teacher.

“My mom is also a first-grade teacher and I always loved listening to her stories, going to her classroom, and hearing of the difference she made in the lives of her students,” shared Taylor. “I changed my major to education during the first two weeks of college and I never looked back. I have always loved working with children and looked forward to the opportunity to impact them in the best way possible.”

One of the ways Taylor focuses on impacting her student positively is by creating a healthy and supportive classroom culture. She shared that she puts a heavy emphasis on building relationships

with her students so that they trust her when she encourages and guides them into finishing class work. She strives to relate the work they are doing to real life scenarios so they know the “why” behind completing the tasks at hand.

“The most rewarding part of being a teacher is the opportunity to make relationships with students and showing them their worth and value,” Taylor said. “I think this is one of the most important parts of being a teacher because we have a tremendous amount of time with our students for nine months of the year. Teachers get to decide what type of impact and changes we make on a child’s life during that time.”

Taylor’s teaching career is just taking off and we know many children’s lives will be impacted in a great way during her time in our community. However, her heart for encouraging others doesn’t stop with her students. She goes on to encourage new teachers, just getting started.

“My advice would be to make your own path as a teacher,” said Taylor. “Never stop learning and enjoy the process of teaching.”

Taylor and husband, Hunter Wood, just recently tied the knot in July. They are both local to the Eastern Shore and love being in this community. They enjoy working out, being outdoors, traveling and walking their dog, Murphy.

Autauga County Schools

Bayside Academy Congratulates 2023 AP Scholars

Bayside Academy congratulates its 38 students who have received AP Scholar Awards for the 2023 AP exam administration. Thirteen of these students were recognized as an AP Scholar with Distinction, one of the highest academic distinctions from the College Board. We are very proud of these students.

AP Scholars with Distinction: Granted to students who receive an average score of at least 3.5 on all AP Exams taken, and scores of 3 or higher on five or more of these exams

Class of 2023

Wilson Engeriser

Class of 2024

Nina Dowhan

Kate Ginger Michael Klimjack

Claire Hamilton Isabelle Rutland

Hope Lindsey

Trey McKean

Beverley Milteer

Millison Mixon

Marlee Moore

John Thomas Neill

Ty Postle

AP Scholars with Honor: Granted to students who receive an average score of at least 3.25 on all AP Exams taken, and scores of 3 or higher on four or more of these exams

Class of 2023

John Will Kirkland

Faith Lindsey

Ryan McCullough

Libbi Melendez

Victoria Rutland

Class of 2024

Jack Roussos

AP Scholars: Granted to students who receive scores of 3 or higher on three or more AP Exams

Class of 2023

Elle Brown

Blai Cebrian-Claramunt

Elizabeth Chen

Lauren Godwin

Sarah Higginbotham

Class of 2024

Mary Frances Collins

Lucy Frailie

Genevieve Magli

Torin Malone

Tait Moore

Christian Hosts Ribbon Cutting

BCS would like to thank everyone for coming out last month to celebrate the ribbon cutting of The Aerie! God is so good, and we thank Him for such a supportive community!

Hayden Travis, Jack Roussos, Genevieve Magli, Torin Malone, Mary Frances Collins, Tait Moore, Ramey Webb, Nina Dowhan, Susan Pittman, Catie Sanders, Michael Klimjack, Isabelle Rutland, and Reid Nagle. Not pictured: Lucy Frailie

St. Michael Catholic Announces 2023 Homecoming Court

St. Michael Catholic High School recently announced their 2023 Homecoming Court. These girls were presented at the Homecoming football game on September 21st. Congratulations! Pictured from left to right: Freshman; Jamison Daughtery, Harper Marston, Sophomores: Claire Cotney, Nora Pavao, Juniors: Lizzie Ford, Lily Kerbl, Mary Lacy Vought, Seniors: Townes Bowman, Molly Brown, Elisa Christensen, Mary Hart Watson

Bayside Academy Students Experience a Jubilee at School

On Friday, September 1, Bayside students were able to witness a jubilee while at school. Students of all ages went down to the Bayside pier and beach to see the marine life. It was a wonderful experience!

Bayshore Christian Student

Earns CLT10 Distinguished Scholar

Congratulations to BCS Sophomore Jeffrey Johnson for earning the CLT10 2022-2023 Distinguished Scholar!

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Fourth Grade Feels at Christ The King Catholic

When the weather is beautiful and the sun is shining, CTKCS students bring their learning outside! Students in fourth grade enjoyed a picture-perfect sky and cooler weather in our courtyard. All of our students love the opportunity to switch up their learning environment, which is why you will see our students utilizing all parts of our campus!

Spanish Fort Students Learn about Braille

Fourth grade students at Spanish Fort Elementary School read about Braille in their story and then learned how to write their names in Braille using puff paint. What a great connection to their reading!

Bay Minette Middle Receives Donation from Quincy Compressor

Quincy Compressor has donated several boxes of water bottles for students use at Bay Minette Middle School. Jada Howard, left, and Amanda Schwartz with Quincy Compressor delivered the boxes to Assistant Principal Herschell Wilson.

Students at Renaissance Study the Brain

Discovering the functions of the brain in life skills! By learning the functions of the brain we understand behaviors and actions

Elberta Middle Volleyball Team Scores

The Elberta Middle School 8th grade volleyball team played in the 21st Annual Invitational Gulf Shores Tournament. They went 5-0 the whole day, undefeated winning the tournament! Danna, Olivia, Layla, and Lainey were chosen All Tournament. Lainey was MVP. Way to go girls!

Ordo Amoris Classical Academy Students Receive Honor from Attorney General

It is a moment of immense pride and recognition for Ordo Amoris students

Max Miller and Sophie Miller as they are honored by Alabama Attorney General Steve Marshall and bestowed with a special commemorative coin. This honor serves as a testament to their exceptional dedication, hard work, and commitment to their community and the values it upholds. Max and Sophie received this honor following their appeal to the Fairhope City Council to keep sexually explicit reading material out of the children’s section of the Fairhope Public Library.

Students at Renaissance School Study the Brain

Discovering

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Nature Connect Teacher Attends Down by the Bay Retreat at Weeks Bay

Ms. Meg from Nature Connect Outdoor School attended the Down by the Bay Interdisciplinary Retreat at Weeks Bay Estuarine Reserve! She learned a lot about our surrounding waterways and wildlife. They gifted us a number of amazing books, along with teacher’s guides to show how to incorporate them across the curriculum.

Bayshore Christian School is excited for all the progress happening at the new school property!

Stapleton Student Makes a Positive Impact

Mrs. Landreneau has been so impressed by the thoughtfulness and caring demonstrated by one of her 6th grade students that she wrote the following positive office referral to thank her:

Hannah has a servant spirit! She is always looking out for others and how she can help. She helped me and a classmate by helping him to read our novel and making sure he had lunch when he arrived late.”

Thank you, Hannah! We are proud of you!

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Daphne Elementary Students Share Love of Reading

Third grade readers are showing their leadership qualities by completing book reviews and presenting book talks during the DES morning news. They are sharing their love of reading with all students at DES and getting students

Renaissance School Visits

Fort Conde

Renaissance School students enjoyed an amazing day at Fort Conde! They had the privilege of learning about 1723 France. Learning stations included artillery, clothing, ships, and navigation.

Summerdale School Student Wins First Prize in Fine Arts

Congratulations Elam Ellis on being chosen as the Summerdale School first winner for Fine Arts Friday for having perfect attendance.

St. Michael Catholic

Student

Named National Merit Semi Finalist

St. Michael is excited to announce senior Trey Bauldin as a National Merit Semi Finalist. Trey is one of more than 16,000 Semifinalists in the 2024 National Merit Scholarship Program. Over 1.3 million juniors in about 21,000 high schools entered the 2024 National Merit Scholarship Program by taking the 2022 Preliminary SAT/National Merit Scholarship Qualifying Test, which served as an initial screen of program entrants. The nationwide pool of Semifinalists, representing less than one percent of U.S. high school seniors, includes the highest-scoring entrants in each state. About 95 percent of the Semifinalists are expected to attain Finalist standing, and about half of the Finalists will win a National Merit Scholarship, earning the Merit Scholar title. All of these academically talented semifinalists will have the opportunity to continue in the competition for more than 7000 National Merit Scholarships worth nearly $28 million that will be offered next spring. We are proud of Trey, and wish him the best of luck!

Christ The King Catholic School Soccer Challenge

competed in the Knights of Columbus Soccer Challenge. Students ages 9 were eligible to compete during their P.E. class. They will go on to compete at different levels based on their scores. We can’t wait to see our soccer stars compete at the next level and make it to the championship!

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Christ The King Catholic School “We Remember”

On September 11th, fifth-grade students at CTKCS were invited to the Blue Mass at the Cathedral-Basilica of the Immaculate Conception in Mobile. This Mass is in honor of all people in public safety. This Mass is a beautiful tradition

Police Chief and K9 Visits

Bay Minette Elementary

Students at Bay Minette Elementary School were treated to a special visit from Police Chief Al Tolbert and K9 Officer Jax. The duo visited numerous classrooms and students and faculty enjoyed the interactions with Jax. Chief Tolbert said it was a great day spent with students and teachers. Jax joined the Bay Minette Police Department in 2019. The black lab is trained in narcotics detection and tracking. The department was able to acquire Jax thanks to generous donations from local businesses and individuals. Chief Tolbert said they plan to visit other local elementary schools and nursing homes in the coming weeks.

Daphne High School Students Sing for Scholarships

A big shoutout to the six students who came out today to show their stuff in a chance to represent Daphne High School in the “Singing for Scholarships” competition. And a big congratulations to Sadie Houston who was chosen as our representative!

Fairhope Middle School Students

Donate Bread Labs Project

F aCS kids at Fairhope Middle School donated 20 loaves of Banana Bread to Mr. Frank Henning of St Vincent DePaul Food Bank after their Quick Breads Lab this week!

Daphne High School Cadets Help Clean After a Game

The Daphne High School Trojans Air Force Cadets lent a hand recently to pick up trash in Jubilee Stadium at the conclusion of a recent football game. Great job!

SHOE-PER Learning at Fairhope East Elementary

SHOE-PER WORK!

Thanks Coach Ferguson and Coach Moore for helping Fairhope East Elementary studnets stay safe by teaching them how to tie their shoes. Students in Mrs. Little’s class are working hard to learn to tie their laces!

Foley High School’s Positive Behavioral Referral

Congratulations to these Foley High School students who received a Positive Behavioral Referral!

They earned their Lion Pride Conference teams

5 points!

- Abigail Jiminez

Nopal

- Cynthia Hurtado

Velazques

- Grace Watkins

- Bryce Miller

Autauga County Schools Foley High School Students of the Month

Congratulations to these Foley High School students of the month for August! These awesome kids were nominated and voted on by the teachers! This is a great group!!

12th - Daniel Moncfief

Pinegrove Elementary Students Meet the Author

Tejuania Nelson, the author of “Born to Love”, visited Mrs. Scarbrough and Mrs. Pempel’s Pre-K classes at Pinegrove Elementary School and read her book to them today! Pinegrove Elementary was so honored to have her on campus!

Archery at Renaissance School

Renaissance School archery with Coach Clark’s Archery! Archery improves fine motor skills and hand eye coordination. Students will also compete at the state and national level!

completing the 2-year comprehensive eMINTS professional development program, Mrs. Hood became eligible for the scholarship that will cover her National Board renewal fees. Congratulations, Mrs. Hood and thank you to Baldwin County Public Schools!

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Fairhope East Receives New Books with FEEF Grant

Fairhope East students are de LIGHTed to have received a new set of Shine-a-Light books and flashlights thanks to a grant supported by the Fairhope Educational Enrichment Foundation! Shining a flashlight behind the pages of these books reveals hidden pictures and information.

Stapleton School “Senior” Leads by Example Stapleton

School loves their “seniors”--the 6th graders who step up and lead!

That’s why Mr. Perry was so pleased the other day when he happened to see Thor not once, but twice, provide assistance to two different people who needed help. The following positive office referral Mr. Perry wrote tells the story.

Middle School social studies program. Representative Patty Smith brought a multitude of Constitution gifts for social studies teacher Zach Smith to use with his classes.

“Twice today I noticed Thor go out of his way to help someone and I am so impressed! First, he assisted a younger student who had too much to carry, then later I saw him help Mrs. Jackson by carrying heavy buckets of water for her. Thanks for being such a thoughtful and helpful leader and role model, Thor. I am

Ordo Amoris Classical Academy Grandparents’ Day

Ordo Amoris Grandparents’ Day on September 8th was a beautiful occasion for families to gather, create lasting memories, and let their grandparents know just how much they mean to them. It was a day filled with laughter, love, and the reaffirmation of the enduring bonds that connect generations. What a privilege it was to honor the legacy of Christian discipleship given to us by our grandparents and grandpals!

2023 Spanish Fort High Hall of Fame Inductees

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Pine Grove Elementary Receives Special Donation

Pine Grove Elementary School has received some much needed donations from the Built on A Solid Foundation. Alicia Hooks, Foundation’s Community Specialist, helped deliver the school supplies to Principal Pamela Moorer, School Counselor Katlyn George and Mackenzie Lee, PGES Social Worker. Principal Moorer said she is grateful to the Foundation “for providing donations to our students to ensure they have the tools they need to have a successful school year. Mr. Lester James, Jr., Executive Director, Ms. Alicia Hooks, Community Specialist, and the entire foundation, we express our gratitude for your help and support of our scholars.” *Courtesy PGES

Daphne Elementary Students Study Moon Phases

Miss Bishop’s class at DES enjoyed Oreos together after using them to create moon phases during their science lesson. They also learned about patterns as they worked to complete the “missing” moon phases on their Mystery Science handout.

Elberta Middle School Teacher Receives Scholarship

Congratulations Mrs. Pickering of Elberta scholarship from BCPS for National Boards.

Spanish Fort Middle Coach Inducted Into Spanish Fort High Hall of Fame

Spanish Fort Middle School is proud of their very own Coach Tim Daniels who was inducted into the Spanish Fort High School Hall of Fame! He is a legend in Spanish Fort, and he is beloved! He is so deserving of this award and recognition as he dedicated so much of his life to

W.J. Carroll Students Volunteer in the LEAP Garden

Mrs. Johnson’s fourth grade class at W. J. Carroll Intermediate School spent their Free Friday time volunteering in the LEAP Garden to get the beds ready for planting. They put in a ton of teamwork and had it finished in a flash!

Baldwin County High Receives Donation From Ty Foundation

The Ty Foundation made a very special delivery to Baldwin County High in celebration of a very special day: Ty’s birthday. The foundation honored his legacy by supporting a place that was very special to Ty, the BCHS Tiger Den. Since his passing, teachers have shared with his family Ty’s love for this special place on campus. When he would get out of class early, Ty would often be found in the Tigers Den or playing basketball with the students during P.E. Taking part in the presentation included BCHS teacher Jeremy Sewell, Sherrie Parker, Hunter Smith, Kam Drinkard, Lilly Joiner, and Daphne Stamps. Birthdays were always a special day for Ty because he received all the attention at his Nanny and Pawpaw’s and he also got the cookie-cake he wanted, according to his mom Daphne Stamps. “So, in Ty’s honor we proclaim today to be a SPECIAL day at The Ty Foundation. This morning, we honored our

favorite blue-eyed baby boy by shining his light and spreading his love in our community,” Stamps said. “There is no doubt that Ty is guiding us as we shine his light. We can only imagine he is smiling down and beaming with pride.”

The Ty Foundation was established in memory of Ty Drinkard who was tragically killed in an automobile accident on Father’s Day 2020. Its mission is to keep alive Ty’s spirit of empowering people, enhancing education and giving back to the community. For more information, or to make a donation, visit thetyfoundation.com.

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Bayside Academy Named WKRG Scholar Athlete of the Week

Bayside Academy senior Georgia McInnis has been named a WKRG Scholar Athlete of the Week. The segment will air on WKRG News 5 this afternoon at 4:00 p.m. Georgia has a 4.11 GPA and is a member of both the National Honor Society and the Math Team. As a junior, she took both AP Calculus BC and Advanced Physics. She is a co-founder of the baking club, is a member of the Key Club and the Student/ Faculty Advisory Committee, and participates in the pickleball club. Georgia plays on both the varsity volleyball team and varsity tennis team at Bayside. As a member of the varsity volleyball team, she helped bring home Bayside’s 21st consecutive state championship with the winning kill. She is the daughter of Christina and Tim McInnis.

J. Larry Newton Students Learn Outside

Mrs. Brown’s Pre-K at J. Larry Newton School enjoyed a morning nature walk. The students used their sense of sight, hearing, touch, and smell. The student’s recorded their findings by drawing pictures and made the connection that chicken is a source of food, which can be tasted.

Learning

about our 5 senses is so much fun.

Pictured: Bayside Academy senior Georgia McInnis with her parents, Christina and Tim.

Daphne Middle School Volleyball on Fire

What a night for DMS Volleyball! Seventh grade claimed their third straight victory on the road, and 8th grade claimed a big as well!

Renaissance Students Use Teamwork in Science

Walking rainbow teamwork science with Renaissance School! The rainbow paper towel experiment teaches basic scientific concepts. When the paper towels are rolled up and placed between two jars, they exemplify capillary action, which is how liquid can move up something, rather than follow the usual pull of gravity and pull down.

Stonebridge Elementary Puts Out Letter Fires

FF is for firefighter! Stonebridge Elementary students exercised their fine motor and letter recognition skills by putting out letter fires! Pre-K is so much fun at Stonebridge Elementary!

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Baldwin County High Lunch Staff Receives Stellar Rating

The lunch staff of Baldwin County High School received a 100% health rating! These ladies go above and beyond to maintain the highest standards possible in food safety and facility sanitation all while providing amazing service to students in Baldwin County!!

Perdido School’s First Track Meet

Recently, the Perdido Cross Country team participated in its first meet at Graham Creek Nature Preserve. Perdido had five male runners in the top 20 in all Baldwin County schools. The team finished second in all divisions coming in behind Spanish Fort Middle. Gavin Brandt was Perdido’s top finisher in 3rd place overall out of 140 runners. The team is coached by Craig Canaan.

Boys & Girls

Grades: K-12th

Bayshore Christian National Merit Scholar

Congratulations to BCS Senior Cole Edwards, who is our National Merit Scholar this year!

Daphne East Builds Using Teamwork

Mrs. Samry’s students at Daphne East Elementary worked in small teams to create a pyramid of cups. The challenge was they couldn’t touch the cups with their hands. They could only touch the strings attached to the elastic. It was such a fun, team-building activity! The students are learning to work as collaborative team members.

Spanish Fort High and Fairhope High Band and Football Kick Off

Marching band season and football season are back! The Fairhope Pirates and the Spanish Fort Toros opened the season at Spanish Fort High School. Congratulations to both the bands for wonderful performances. Both bands are led by female band directors. Congratulations on a great start to marching band season, directors Meredyth Petersen and Michelle Daughenbaugh.

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Fairhope High National Merit Semifinalists

Today officials of the National Merit Scholarship Corporation (NMSC®) announced the names of over 16,000 Semifinalists in the 68th annual National Merit Scholarship Program. These academically talented high school seniors have an opportunity to continue in the competition for some 7,250 National Merit Scholarships worth nearly $28 million that will be offered next spring. To be considered for a Merit Scholarship® award, Semifinalists must fulfill several requirements to advance to the Finalist level of the competition. About 95 percent of the Semifinalists are expected to attain Finalist standing, and approximately half of the Finalists will win a National Merit Scholarship, earning the Merit Scholar® title. Fairhope High School is proud to have FOUR National Merit Semifinalists! Congratulations to @Fairhope High School’s Noah Sugg, Gavin Laxton, Alena Amare, and Addison Spears! We are so proud of them!

Belforest Students at Book Bistro

1st Grade students at Belforest Elementary School had a book tasting! Students rotated through different stations and looked closely at books for title, author, and most importantly, genre. Students learned the difference between nonfiction, mystery, fantasy, informational, etc.

Baldwin County Students Get New Driving Simulators

Baldwin County High School students in Driver’s Ed enjoyed hands-on practice using the new driving simulators. Thanks to Coach Hilburn for putting together the new desks, and chairs, and getting the simulators set up. This was no small task & Baldwin County High appreciates your hard work!! Everything looks great and the students will

3rd and 4th grade students at Loxley Elementary enjoyed a Strings demonstration from a member of the Mobile Symphony during a bit

Spanish Fort Middle Focus Group

The first week of the Spanish Fort Middle School Focus Group was a huge success! These students have the most amazing insight and information relating to what middle schoolers experience on a daily basis. These students provide such accurate info and truly share the truth! The goal is to help them make connections and provide them with the safest environment where learning is at the forefront. Thank you Spanish Fort Education Enrichment Foundation for providing the lunch and drinks!

“I think, as moms, ‘what’s for dinner’ is a truly underrated stress. It makes me think of that saying ‘who knew the hardest part about being a mom would be figuring out what to cook for dinner, every day, for the rest of your life,’” shared Stephanie Hanway. “I tend to joke about it, but it really can feel like a full time job!”

Stephanie and her husband Tyler have been married for 10 years, celebrating their wedding anniversary this month! The couple and their boys, Lincoln (7) and Nash (4), love living in Old Town Daphne and spending time together outside.

“We have a love for all things water, including swimming, fishing and getting out on our 1970 Stauter Built boat,” Stephanie said. “Our boys are their happiest when on the bay armed with sticks, rocks and a fishing net in their hands!”

The Hanway boys not only love being on the water, but also in it! Over the summer both Lincoln and Nash participated in the Lake Forrest Swim Team. They enjoyed it so much that they are now part of the City of Mobile’s Swim Association so they can swim year round.

Stephanie loves being a wife and a mother, and also a small business owner. She owns not one, but two small businesses here in the area.

“I pretty much love everything about being a small business owner,” exclaimed Stephanie. “I’ve always been an ideas person and I like seeing an idea come to life! Southern Heirloom Portraits and Oh Hey Mama are both my babies that I have grown from nothing...but an idea.”

Stephanie has been a photographer for over 10 years, and while she has done photo shoots for a little bit of everything, heirloom portraits are her favorite and now her sole

focus. She and her photography partner, Lindsay Killen, plan pop-up heirloom portrait events all over the country!

“Oh Hey Mama was started in 2020 with another simple idea — hair care for postpartum moms,” Stephanie shared. “From there, it grew to a whole scalp care line made for hormonal and aging hair types. It’s been fun to watch products that I have made get in the hands (and hair) of people all across the country!”

Despite juggling multiple titles, Stephanie loves when her family sits down together for dinner and likes to keep it simple and family style! They also like to eat outside on their back deck during this time of year, when the weather is finally cooling down.

“Whatever meal we make, keeping it deconstructed helps us all enjoy the same meal while still allowing the kids to control what goes on their plate,” shared Stephanie. “These nachos are a great example of this, but we pretty much keep that concept with all our meals, keeping the customization option available.”

Family Style Nachos

Ingredients:

• Tortilla chips

• Shredded cheese (your choice)

• Pulled pork or ground beef (cooked)

• Guacamole

• Sour cream (the squeeze kind is super convenient)

• Pinto beans

• Tomatoes (diced)

Optional toppings: jalapeños, olives, pineapple chunks or whatever you have on hand!

Instructions:

1. Preheat your oven to 350°F (175°C).

2. Arrange a layer of tortilla chips on an oven-safe platter or baking sheet.

3. Generously sprinkle shredded cheese over the chips.

4. Add your choice of protein (pulled pork or ground beef) evenly on top of the cheese.

5. Bake in the oven until the cheese is melted and bubbling — typically 10-15 minutes.

6. Remove from the oven and add dollops of guacamole, squeeze sour cream, spoon pinto beans and scatter diced tomatoes on top.

8. Serve family-style, allowing everyone to create their own loaded nachos! Enjoy!

Gabriele has been married to her husband Daniel for 17 years. Together they have three incredible children – two boys, ages 16 and nine, and a sweet girl who will be two in August.

Gabriele is a full-time Sales Director for Mary Kay Cosmetics. When she isn’t spending time with family or building her business, she supports her husband who is the Lead Pastor and Planter of Forward Church in Gulf Shores.

As parents who want to raise healthy kids, we often put a lot of thought into providing adequate nutrition for growing minds and bodies. We research and prepare healthy meals and snacks. We worry about how much water they’ve had today or how much sugar is in their favorite cereal bar.

What if I told you that a positive body image is one of the greatest tools you can help your child cultivate for a healthy and happy life?

Many of us have spent years or decades at war with our own bodies. Even though research shows dieting does not lead to longterm weight loss, the diet industry still brings in billions of dollars yearly, according to the National Eating Disorders Association (NEDA). But how are they selling diets, plans, and magic potions that they, and we, know don’t actually work?

The marketing plan is pretty simple when you think about it. First, the diet industry bombards us with messages that we aren’t good enough as we are. Then, they promise the perfect solution – which will only cost $49.95! And finally, when the product or diet fails (and most likely it will), we are blamed for our “lack of willpower” and told to buy more or different products or plans.

I know it’s not what you want to hear, but we’ve known that dieting doesn’t work for a long time. Past attempts at weight loss are a significant predictor of obesity. Dieting is a losing battle, and I don’t mean pounds or inches. Further, obsessing over the scale, restricting, and hating our bodies is no way to live, and it’s not the legacy we want to pass on to our children.

Unfortunately, pressuring ourselves to get or stay thin also influences how we view our kids and their bodies. We’re told by the media, and often our healthcare providers, that obesity is detrimental to health. As a result, we may find ourselves restricting what or how much our children eat to try and control their weight. For our children, this creates an atmosphere of stress around food and shame about their bodies, which can lead to lifelong struggles with their weight and body image. This increases their

risk of developing an eating disorder, which are serious, potentially life-threatening conditions that can affect every system in the body, according to NEDA.

So, how can we raise healthy, confident kids who grow into the right body for them? Luckily, there are things we can do to intentionally cultivate body positivity and respect among our children and ourselves, too!

Take stress off the menu at meal and snack times

Ellyn Satter, registered dietitian, family therapist, and internationally recognized expert on feeding kids, created the Satter Division of Responsibility (sDOR) to help children become competent eaters. sDOR outlines clear roles for both parents and children at mealtimes. Parents are responsible for what is served, along with when and where the meal or snack will take place. Children are responsible for what and how much they choose to eat out of what is offered. Practicing the sDOR has many benefits, including reducing power struggles at mealtimes, which helps improve the relationship between kids and parents.

We are more open to trying new things when they aren’t being forced on us, and kids are no exception. It may seem counterintuitive at first, but removing stress from mealtimes allows kids to practice listening to their internal cues about what and how much to eat – a skill many of us struggle to tap into because of diet culture.

Let go of trying to control the size or shape of your child’s body

Trust that your child will grow into the body that is right for them – even if it isn’t your envisioned body. Body shape and size

are primarily genetic, so chances are high that their body will be similar to yours. Therefore, negative comments we make about our bodies can feel personal to our kids as they notice these similarities. Even well-intended body commentary can be harmful; compliments may feel like comparison, while unsolicited advice feels like judgment. Instead, focus on praising and encouraging the things kids can control, like working hard to learn a new skill or befriending a new kid at school. Most importantly, never put your child on a diet. According to NEDA, 62% of teen girls and 29% of teen boys are trying to lose weight, and 14 and 15-year-olds who reported participating in even moderate dieting were five times more

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top 10 things we like about ourselves to help cultivate body positivity, which parents can help kids create and update as they

Prioritize a healthy relationship with your own body

If we want to teach our kids to feel good about their bodies, an important step is learning to feel good (or at least neutral) about our own. This means extending grace and compassion to ourselves for perceived imperfections. We deserve to live a life that fulfills us instead of wasting time agonizing over our pants size. If we want to give our kids a fighting chance at accepting their bodies, we must show them that we are willing to accept our own.

Put an end to negative self-talk

Identify times when you are participating in negative self-talk, either in your head or out loud, and make a conscious effort to stop. Constantly viewing ourselves through a lens of self-criticism fuels the cycle of shame that keeps us running back to dieting. Can you imagine what would happen to the diet industry’s sales if we all woke up one morning and decided to like ourselves?

Model how to care for the body you have

It’s essential to prioritize our health, but we can take care of our bodies and set goals for ourselves in ways that don’t involve the scale. Let’s eat fruits and vegetables that we like because we know they provide vitamins and minerals that are good for us. Let’s show our kids that it’s possible to move your body in ways you enjoy as a way to care for your body rather than as punishment for enjoying food.

likely than their non-dieting peers to develop an eating disorder.

Talk to your child about unrealistic body standards

According to NEDA, discussing unrealistic body standards and the pressures to conform can help women and girls feel more positive about their bodies. Talk to your children about how body weight and size do not define who they are as people. Be sure they know you love them unconditionally and that they can come to you with any worries about food or their bodies.

NEDA recommends keeping a list of the

Improving our relationship with our own body won’t happen overnight, especially if we’ve spent a good portion of our lives trying to change our bodies to conform to societal expectations. But can you picture its profound effect on the next generation if we decided that diet culture ended with us?

Lita Chatham is a mom and registered dietitian and nutritionist with 10 years of experience. She believes that eliminating blame, shame, and guilt in relation to body size and weight is the first step in ensuring future generations develop healthy relationships with food and their bodies.

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Love Them Enough to Teach Them Well

Q. My husband and I are having arguments about money where our children are concerned. They are both 16, and I think they should have part-time jobs and be learning the value of work. He feels they’re only young once and wants them to enjoy being teenagers. He also gives them money anytime they ask. I want our kids to have fun, too, but this is beginning to cause tension in our relationship. I’d love your advice.

A. I understand your concern. I’m sure your husband has a good heart, but by doing this he’s acting like a friend instead of a parent. In the process, he’s allowing them to be nothing but takers and consumers. He’s setting them both up for lifetimes of helplessness and ridiculous expectations without realizing it.

But yes, kids should absolutely learn to work, make money and manage it wisely from an early age. My wife and I gave nice gifts to our kids from time to time, but they also worked and made money for themselves. And the nicer gifts we gave them were for special occasions. Even then we didn’t go crazy with things.

Still, the biggest problem you and your husband are experiencing is a communication breakdown. Your husband should stop being so impulsive, and grow a backbone where the kids are concerned. You’ve recognized this—and you’re right about it—so it’s up to you to take the first step in finding a solution.

Try sitting down with him, just the two of you, and sincerely explaining your feelings. Let him know you love him and how generous he is. But let him know, too, you’re worried this is having a negative impact on your children and why. Talk it out, openly and honestly, and try to agree on some changes together. There’s a middle ground here, but it’s going to take some time and effort from both of you to reach it. Most of all, it means you two will have to communicate with each other like mature, caring adults, and pull together for the sake of your kids. It might be difficult at first, but it’ll be worth it in the long run. For you and them.

Great question!

Spooky season may be here, but you don’t have to be afraid of giving us a call.

Do your kids race around the house in costumes all year long? There are so many fun ways to celebrate the whimsy of Halloween.

Create new traditions with one of these faBOOlous events that anyone can pull together!

Cherie Gough

Trunk-or-Treat

A trunk-or-treat transforms an empty parking lot into a Halloween celebration filled with decorated vehicles and a fun opportunity to trick-or-treat at a safe venue (often a school or church community).

Here’s how to do it: Reserve a parking lot in advance. Cconsider asking a local church or school. Secure participants who are willing to decorate car trunks or truck beds in a festive theme (popular kids’ films, movies or games). Ask participants to bring candy to distribute to kids.

• Some participants may add a free carnival game to their trunk (or parking space) for kids to enjoy.

• Advertise. Social media is a great way to get the word out!

Extra Credit: Lots of decorated trunks, free food, live music, photo booth and inflatables, carnival games, haunted library, cakewalk and food trucks.

Gross Science Play Date

Homemade slime is all the rage. If you’ve had kids over to play, chances are you’ve tried your hand at making the ooeygooey stuff. A “weird science” play date where kids make gross concoctions is sure to impress. Our family used a gross science kit to make “veins”, “snot” and “earwax.” Most items needed are included in a kit, so there’s no need to drive all over town. It was easy and the kids were awed and delightfully disgusted. Gross science kits can be

found at local toy stores, big box stores or online. End this play date with “dirt” pudding cups topped with crushed chocolate cookies and gummy worms.

Pumpkin Carving Party

After friends invited us to a pumpkin carving party, my kids were hooked on trying new wild and wacky jack-o-lantern designs each year. Provide an alternative to carving for young children. Paint, stickers and glitter help little ones get into the spirit and allow parents to relax and enjoy the party.

Gather Tools: Ask each family to bring their own pumpkins. Have a few pumpkin carving kits on hand for guests to use. They include tools and patterns to help get everyone started. Download additional patterns online for extra inspiration. Dry erase markers allow for mistakes as guests trace or freehand jack-o-lantern faces. Sharpie markers also work (but don’t wipe off). Cover tables with butcher paper or plastic. Provide garbage cans and extra trash bags. If you plan to roast pumpkin seeds, place large bowls on each table where guests can put seeds.

Carve & Display: Tricks of the Trade

Be sure to have adults help and supervise kids with all sharp tools. Cut around the stem at a slight angle to make a “hat” for the jack-o-lantern that won’t fall in. Add an extra hole at the top to act as a “chimney” for the candle inside or use a battery-powered candle for safety. To preserve a jacko-lantern, rub the inside and cut edges with

petroleum jelly. Wrap in a plastic bag and store in the fridge until ready to use.

Halloween Movie Night

Nothing sets the tone of Halloween like a spooky (or not-so-spooky) movie night!

Choose a Movie: Younger kids love It’s the Great Pumpkin Charlie Brown, Monsters Inc., old Scooby Doo episodes and Hotel Transylvania. For teens and tweens consider The Nightmare Before Christmas, ET, or The Addams Family.

Provide Atmosphere: Gather cozy pillows and blankets for kids to sprawl out. Add twinkle lights.

Make Yummy Treats:

• Take a hint from Laurie and Nancy from the blog Two Sisters Crafting. Their irresistible candy corn popcorn contains marshmallow topping, M&Ms and candy corn. Get the how-to instructions at www.twosisterscrafting.com/fall-candy-corn-popcorn.

• Let the kids concoct their own combinations with a festive popcorn bar. Kids decorate cups with Halloween stickers, and fill with popcorn and candy toppings.

• Pipe icing onto madeleine cookies to create cute mummies.

Press play and relax with friends. This no-fuss gathering is a tradition to relish.

Cherie Gough is a San Diego-based writer and has been published in HuffPost, Eating Well, and San Diego Family Magazine. She’s been writing for parenting magazines for a decade.

Through October 31, 2023

Thriller Nights and Lights

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Mobile International Speedway 7800 Park Blvd

Irvington, AL 36544

Guests will enjoy a magical and an immersive experience from the convenience of their own vehicle. This dazzling drive-through showcase is over 1.5 miles and features over one million lights fully synchronized to music right on your car radio. 7pm-10pm www.nightsinlights.com

Through November 4, 2023

Seward Farms Corn Maze and Fall Fun

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10836 Tanner Williams Rd Lucedale, MS 39452

You’ll find tons of family fun, fresh air, twisting corn maze, fantastic food, and an evening by a crackling fire! We have a challenging corn maze, pig races, hayrides, funny farm golf, cow train, giant jumping pillow, corn cannon, farm animals, field of fright ,pony rides and more. Hours: Open: Saturdays: 10am6pm, Field Trips by reservations Monday-Thursday. 228-641-3933 www.sewardfarms.com

Weekends in October

Wales West Pumpkin Patch Express

Wales West RV Park & Railway

13670 Smiley Street Silverhill, AL 36576

All Aboard the Pumpkin Patch Express and Scary Night Train! Enjoy Pumpkin Patch, Mini-train, Hayless Hayride, Potato Cannon, Cafe, Gift Shop, and more. Fri’s, Sat’s, Sun’s; 4-7pm Fall Festival Train; 7-9 pm, Scary Night Train. Nightly starting October 26, 2023. Reservations online, tickets at will call. (251) 232-2322 www.waleswest.com

October 5, 2023

Main Street Fall Fest

Daphne Elementary School 2307 Main Street

Daphne, AL 36526

Don your Halloween costumes and join us for games, prizes, food, music, live entertainment, and more! Prizes will be awarded for best costume. Cost: $15 per child (ages 3-15) Parents/ teens 16+ are FREE! 5:30p.m.-8:30p.m. www.facebook.com/DaphneElementaryPTO

October 5-6, 2023

Monster Mash - A Halloween Murder Mystery Dinner Show

OWA Theatre Foley, AL 36535

You are attending Frankenstein’s 205th Birthday Party! Meet and mingle with some of the most iconic monsters on the face of the earth. Family entertainment. 6:30pm (251) 237-2330 www.visitowa.com

October 5 - October 31, 2023

Scarecrows in the Gardens

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Bellingrath Gardens 12401 Bellingrath Gardens Road Theodore, AL 36582

Discover a whimsical world of creativity and imagination at Bellingrath Gardens & Home during the enchanting Scarecrows in the Gardens exhibition, running from October 5th through October 31st! bellingrath@bellingrath.org www.bellingrath.org

October 6-7, 2023

Freedom Festival

The Wharf Orange Beach, AL 36561

Freedom Festival will be packed full of family friendly activities including arts + crafts vendors, entertainment, kids’ activities, a fall edition of Bama Coast Cruisin’ car show, food vendors + more. 9am-5pm.

(251) 224-1000 www.alwharf.com

October 7, 2023

Hogsmeade Fall Festival

Fairhope Unitarian Fellowship

1150 Fairhope Ave Fairhope, AL 36532

Games! Crafts! Quidditch! Cakewalk! The Bizarre Bazaar of magical artists! Magic the Gathering minitournament! $5 admission for muggles and wizards ages 6 and up. $25 group ticket available for a family or friend group of 6-10 individuals. 1pm-6pm.

(251) 929-3207 www.fairhopeuu.org/pie

Olde Time Days

Baldwin County Bicentennial Park

51233 AL-225 Stockton, AL 36579

Olde Time Days-9am-4pm. Enjoy live entertainment, car show, demos, tractor and engine parade parade, petting zoo, pony rides, train rides, and much more.

www.baldwincountyal.gov

Shorty’s Safe Haven Equine Rescue & Rehab

12866 Highway 98 Foley, AL 36535

Fall festival - 9am-4pm. Vendors, pumpkin patch, bounce house, hayrides, pony rides, petting zoo, bake sale, food and more!

(251) 213-8526 facebook.com/shortyssafehaven

October 7-8, 2023

Pensacon HalloweenFest

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Splash City Adventure 6709 Pensacola Boulevard

Pensacola, FL 32505

HalloweenFest offers two full days of spooky pop-culture fun in an outdoor, convention-style atmosphere. The weekend will feature vendors, live entertainment, celebrity guests, artists, trickor-treating and other fun in a safe environment. (850) 505-0800 www.pensacon.com

October 7, 21, 28, 2023

Fort Morgan Ghost Investigation and Historical Haunted Tour

110 State Highway 180 Fort Morgan, AL 36542

Join the members of Second Sight Paranormal TV for a fully equipped Ghost and Paranormal Investigation at Fort Morgan, one of Alabama’s most haunted places.

(251) 540-7127

October 7-31, 2023

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Spanish Fort Presbyterian Church 6620 Spanish Fort Boulevard Spanish Fort, AL 36527

Come pick out your perfect pumpkin at the Spanish Fort Annual Pumpkin Patch! Monday-Saturday 10:00am-6:30pm, Sunday 12:00pm-6:00pm.

(251) 626-1242 www.spanishfortpresbyterian.com

October 12 - 15, 2023

National Shrimp Festival

Gulf Shores Public Beach 101 East Beach Boulevard Gulf Shores, AL 36542

Enjoy fresh seafood during this four-day event with great food, music and more! Local and regional vendors with food lining the boardwalk. Art lovers will have almost many booths to visit.

(251) 968-7200 www.myshrimpfest.com

October 13, 2023

Outdoor Movie Night

Spanish Fort Library Outside 7361 Spanish Fort Blvd Spanish Fort, AL 36527

Movie starts at dusk and lawn games start at 5:00 p.m., and the movie will begin at 6:00, or as soon as it’s dark enough to see. (251) 410-7323 www.spanishfortpubliclibrary.org/

Spanish Fort Elementary Fall in the Fort Festival

4742 State Highway 225 Spanish Fort, AL 36527

Games, inflatables, face painting, petting zoo, food trucks and much more! 5:30pm (251) 626-9751

October 13-14, 2023

Mobile Latin Fest

Various locations Mobile, AL 36602

Live music, Latin food, dance, crafts, and more. Free & Open to the Public! Oct. 13-Cathedral Square, 5:00pm-10:00pm, Oct. 14-Mardi Gras Park, 4:00pm-9:00pm www.mobilecountyal.gov

October 13-14, 21-22, 28-29, 2023

Graham Creek’s Haunted Forest 2023

23030 Wolf Bay Dr Foley, AL 36535

Experience spine-tingling thrills at Graham Creek’s Haunted Forest! A chilling half-mile

October 14, 2023

Pumpkin Patch at Street’s Exquisite Plants & Aquatic Gardens

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Street’s Exquisite Plants & Aquatic Gardens

17750 Greeno Road Fairhope, AL 36532 10am -3pm. The pumpkin sales benefit the Missions Ministry of First Fairhope. www.firstfairhope.org

Howl-o-ween - OWA

OWA Foley, AL 36535

Join us for our dog costume contest, trying for a chance to win a share of $425 in cash prizes across exciting categories. 3pm-6pm. (251) 923-2111 www.visitowa.com

Woofstock

Oyster City Brewing Company

600 Government Street Mobile, AL 36602

Enjoy dog costume contest, dog pie eating contest, beer, wiener dog races, food trucks, kids activities like a bounce house and music. All proceeds benefit ARF! 11am-5pm. www.animalrescuemobile.org

October 14-29, 31, 2023

Halloween at OWA OWA Foley, AL 36535 Candy, costume contests, and more await you

29, Monster Bash Costume Contest-Saturday, October 28, 1-7pm.

(251) 923-2111 www.visitowa.com

October 15, 2023

Spanish Fort Presbyterian Fall Festival

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6620 Spanish Fort Blvd Spanish Fort, AL 36527

Featuring food, games, activities and a pumpkin painting contest. More details on the festival will be announced on the Spanish Fort Presbyterian Church FB page. 12pm - 3pm.

(251) 626-1242 www.spanishfortpresbyterian.com

October 20-21, 2023

Terror at the Landing

Live Oak Landing 8700 Live Oak Landing Road Stockton, AL 36579

Gates open at 5pm, haunted trail begins at dark. Games and fun. $5 (cash only), 3 and under-free.

(251) 580-1897

October 21, 2023

Enchanted Forest at Nature Connect Outdoor School

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campfire concert, face painters, and forest trunkor-treat stations. All ages. Benefits scholarship fund. Prepay tickets are $10 for adults ($15 at the door)/kids are free. 4:30pm-7:30pm (251) 513-7802 natureconnectalabama.org/events

2023 Open House / Public Safety Day

Spanish Fort Fire Rescue 7580 Spanish Fort Blvd

Spanish Fort, AL 36527

Join us to learn about public safety and preparedness. Lots of fun activities for the kids, smokehouse, Sparky, free food, car fires and jaws of life demonstrations, raffles, vendors, and much more! 10:00 am - 2:00 pm. Free. www.spanishfortfire.org

Boo Krewe 2 Adaptive Recreation

Race & Expo

Island Fire Art Gallery 10505 Dauphin Island

Pkwy, Theodore, AL 36582

Krewe of Kindess invites everyone to an Adaptive Recreation Expo and race for all abilities. Expo opens at 3pm and the 2 mile run,walk, roll starts at 5pm. To register visit www.eventbrite.com/e/2023boo-krewe-2-tickets. Food trucks and firos pops available for purchase at the event. www.kreweofkindness.com

First Baptist of Spanish Fort Trunk or Treat

8359 Spanish Fort Blvd Spanish Fort, AL 36527

First Baptist Church of Spanish Fort at 8359 Spanish Fort Blvd will host its annual Trunk-or-Treat on Saturday, October 21st from 2pm-4pm. There will be inflatables, games, hot dogs, popcorn, and cocoa. (251) 626-3070 www.fbcspanishfort.com

Fort Gaines Fall Festival Fundraiser

Fort Gaines 51 Bienville Blvd

Dauphin Island, AL 36528

Food, games, candy, music, pumpkin patch and pie eating contest makes for an amazing fall time to enjoy while supporting historic Fort Gaines. www.townofdauphinisland.org/calendar-of-events

HalGLOWeen

OWA Foley, AL 36535

Experience an unforgettable night filled with family-friendly activities, including mesmerizing LED dancers, towering stilt walkers, glow-in-thedark face painting, and a pulsating Glow Party with a DJ that promises a night of unforgettable fun and spooky spectacles, leaving you and your loved ones fully immersed in the spirit of the season. 6pm-8:30pm www.visitowa.com

Halloween Extravaganza

Foley Public Library 319 East Laurel Avenue

Foley, AL 36535

Join us for our Annual Halloween Extravaganza!

This will be a family-friendly carnival with a Bouncy House, a Rock Climbing Wall with slide, a Petting Zoo and Games Galore. We have over 20 participating booths/games to enjoy. 4:00PM-6:00PM (251) 943-7665 www.foleylibrary.org

Haunted Hustle 5k and Witches on Wheels Ride

Gulf Place Town Green & Public Beach

101 Gulf Shores Parkway Gulf Shores, AL 36542

Wear your best Halloween costume and participate in this horrifyingly fun event featuring a Haunted Hustle 5K Walk/Run, Fun Run, Witches on Wheels Bike Parade and a live dj. (251) 968-9824 www.gulfshoresal.gov/1420/ Haunted-Hustle-5k-and-Witches-on-Wheels-

Magnolia Springs Firefighter Festival

14809 Gates Ave Magnolia Springs, AL 36555

Relax under the majestic live oak trees while you listen to live local bands, shop from local arts & crafts vendors, let kids play in the kids area, and eat great food. 10am-5pm (251) 965-7808 www.magnoliaspringsfire.com/ firefighter-festival

Night at the Museum

History Museum of Mobile 111 South Royal Street Mobile, AL 36602

When the clock strikes 5, history comes to life. Enjoy a historical scavenger hunt and talk to historical characters, listen to spooky stories, see exhibits, crafts, costume contest and a goody bag. 5:00pm-8:00pm. $5.00 admission (251) 301-0273 www.historymuseumofmobile.com

North Baldwin Literacy Council

Trunk of Treat

Blackburn Park, Bay Minette, AL 36507

Join us for Trunk or Treat, Raffles, Vendors and Food Trucks 2pm-5pm

Pumpkin Play Day

Graham Creek Nature Preserve 23030 Wolf Bay Dr. Foley, AL 36535

Join us as we have a day of Halloween fun for the kids from 10 am-12 pm. We will have games, hayrides and pumpkins to paint. (251) 923-4267 www.grahamcreekpreserve.org

October 21-22, 2023

Jubilee Festival of Arts

Lott Park 2000 Main Street Daphne, AL 36526

Art, music & local cuisine meet southern charm at this annual festival set along the oak-lined streets of Olde Towne Daphne. Other attractions include entertainment, delicious food and Kids Art. (251) 928-6387 www.thejubileefestival.com

October 21, 28, 2023

Seward Farms Field of Fright

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Seward Farms 10836 Tanner Williams Road

Lucedale, MS 39452

Are you Hungry for a Little Fright? Explore the Field of Fright! It’s scary fun for all ages! 6 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Only playground area open. Main activities will be closed. 228-641-3933 info@sewardfarms.com www.sewardfarms.com

October 22, 2023

Christ the King Catholic School

Annual Pumpkin Festival

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708 Dryer Ave Daphne, AL 36526

Entry fee is $15. Join us for Food, Fun & Fellowship! 12pm - 4pm. (251) 626-1692 pumpkinfestivalctkcs@gmail.com www.ctkcsdaphne.org

October 26, 2023

Annual Fairhope Witches Ride

Downtown Fairhope 101 North Bancroft Street Fairhope, AL 36532

A charity bike ride through the streets of downtown Fairhope that raises funds for animal rescue needs throughout in Baldwin County. Event & ticket info on Facebook. 6pm www.facebook.com/FairhopeWitchesRide

Foley’s Hometown Halloween

Foley Welcome Center 104 McKenzie St

Foley, AL 36535

Local merchants provide a fun, safe and familyfriendly Halloween celebration including a costume contest, game booths, hayrides, and tricks and treats for kids of all ages. 5:30pm-8:00pm (251) 943-1300 www.visitfoley.com

Game On Halloween Storytime

Bodenhamer Center Gym 310 West 19th Ave Gulf Shores, AL 36542

Join the Thomas B. Norton Library and City of Gulf Shores departments for a “Game On” themed Halloween story time. There will be trick or treating, games, give-aways, music and more! Special guest “Animal Tales” will perform their “Creepy Critters” animal show. All ages, homeschools, and daycares are welcome. Costumes encouraged. 10:30AM (251) 968-1176

Jubilee Baptist Church Trunk or Treat 9264 Pleasant Road Daphne, AL 36526 Trunk or Treat from 5:00-7:00pm with inflatables, hotdogs and family fun. (251) 621-7095 www.jubileebaptist.com/trunkortreat

October 27, 2023

Movie at the Chamber

North Baldwin Chamber of Commerce

301 McMeans Ave Bay Minette 36507

We’ll have food, drinks & treats for sale, a costume contest, outdoor games before the movie starts and more! 7:30pm, movie starts at 8pm. Movie: Friday the 13th Part VII www.northbaldwinchamber.com

Trick or Treat on the Streets

137 North Main Street Atmore, AL 36502

Trick-or-Treat on Main Street from 4pm–6pm. Businesses will be giving out candy to trick-ortreaters. Visit our Facebook Event page, as well as the Chamber Facebook page for participating businesses.

(251) 368-3305 www.atmorechamber.com

October 27-November 5, 2023

Greater Gulf State Fair

The Grounds 1035 N Cody Rd Mobile, AL 36608

Fun and entertainment for the whole family! (251) 344-4573 www.greatergulfstatefair.com

October 28, 2023

Boo at Bellingrath

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Bellingrath Gardens 12401 Bellingrath Gardens Road Theodore, AL 36582

Dress up your little ghosts and goblins for a day of Halloween fun. Trick or Treating from 1:00pm6:00pm. Enjoy Inflatables, treat stations, spooky storytime, music, food trucks and the movie “Halloweentown ” at 6:30pm.

(251) 973-2217 bellingrath@bellingrath.org www.bellingrath.org

Trick or Treat at Seward Farms

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Seward Farms 10836 Tanner Williams Road Lucedale, MS 39452

Come in your favorite costume and Trick or Treat at the Farm with our favorite Cartoon Characters. Characters arrive from 11am–2pm. 228-641-3933 info@sewardfarms.com www.sewardfarms.com

Family Halloween Family Night

Double D’s Burger, 29001 Bass Pro Drive Ste. 100, Spanish Fort, AL 36527

Come out and bring the kids for Halloween fun, candy, games and more. Grab a burger, watch the movie, trunk-or-treat and more. Please no outside food/drink. 5pm - 8pm.

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14th Annual Turkey Trot 5K,1 Mile Fun Run and Family Festival

Daphne City Hall Daphne, AL 36526

EVERY RUNNER IS A TURKEY for a family in need this holiday season. The Turkey Trot is at City Hall in Old Towne Daphne at 8am10:30am. This event benefits Prodisee Pantry. 8am 5K Race/9am Fun Run & Walk/Festival from 8-10:30am

(251) 626-1720 www.runsignup.com/Race/AL/ Daphne/ProdiseePantryTurkeyTrot

2022 Stapleton Bluegrass Festival

Stapleton School 35480 Harriot Ave

Stapleton, AL 36578

Stapleton Bluegrass Festival-Outstanding musical talent, food trucks, family friendly activities and vendors. Enjoy outstanding Bluegrass music! $10 for adults, $5 for kids 5-12. 10:30am-5:30pm (251) 937-2038 www.stapletonbluegrassfestival.com

Bay Minette Fire Department Family Fun Day

608 D’Olive St Bay Minette 36507

The event begins with a fire truck parade at 2 p.m., which will begin at Bay Minette Elementary and end at the Fire Station. Upon the completion

of the parade there will be demonstrations and games set up at the station. There will also be hamburgers and hot dogs available. Free

Boo at the Zoo

Alabama Gulf Coast Zoo 20499 Oak Road East Gulf Shores, AL 36542

Dress up your little ghosts and goblins and celebrate Halloween with the animals. Trick or Treat stations, activities, meet and greets with animal ambassadors. Event is included with regular zoo admission cost. 9:00am-12:00pm (251) 256-7008 www.alabamagulfcoastzoo.org

Dauphin Island Haunted Bicycle Ride

1010 Bienville Blvd Dauphin Island, AL 36528

A fun bike ride past some of the most haunted spots on Dauphin Island! This race benefits ARF. Registration required.

www.facebook.com/massacreislandhauntedbikeride/

De Haven Farms Flowers Fall Festival

16505 County Road 16 Foley, AL 36535

Join us from 10am-3pm to enjoy Photos in flower field, Pumpkin painting, Haunted barn, Face painting, Pet the pony, Games, Food Trucks and much more! Costumes are welcomed www.dehavenfarmsflowers.square.site

Downtown Fairhope Trick or Treat Fairhope, AL 36532

Downtown trick or treat from 10am - 12pm. Look for the Pumpkin Sign in the window of participating businesses.

(251) 929-1466 www.fairhopeal.gov

Elberta German Sausage Festival

13052 Main Street Elberta, AL 36530

Join us at the German Sausage Festival for German sausage & sauerkraut, plus continuous entertainment for adults and children, Carnival rides, and over 200 arts & crafts booths. 8am-5pm

(251) 986-5805 www.elbertafire.com/sausagefestival

Faith Family Fellowship Fall Festival & Pumpkin Patch

Faith Family Fellowship 7100 Spanish Fort Boulevard Spanish Fort, AL 36527

Join us from 10am - 2pm for a fun afternoon with a hayride, pumpkin patch, pumpkin painting, festival games with prizes, a cake walk and more. Burgers, hot dogs, chips, coffee & hot chocolate too! (251) 626-1379 www.faithfamilyonline.com

Family Halloween Family Night

Double D’s Burgers 29001 Bass Pro Drive Ste. 100 Spanish Fort, AL 36527

Come out and bring the kids for Halloween fun, candy, games and more. Grab a burger, watch the movie, trunk-or-treat and more. Please no outside food/drink. 5pm - 8pm

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Fall Festival - Christ Presbyterian Church

Christ Presbyterian Church 8450 Whispering Pines Rd Daphne, AL 36526

Grab your family & friends and join us for a fun filled afternoon. We will have food, games, inflatables, a hayride, and more 2pm-5pm www.cpcdaphne.com

Foley Witches Ride

Jessamine Street Foley, AL 36535

Foley Witches Rides will take place in Downtown Foley at 5:00 pm and the money raised helps support local charities for children and families. www.facebook.com/FoleyWitchesRide

Halloween at the Exploreum

65 Government Street Mobile, AL 36602

Venture to a spooky wonderland at the Exploreum’s Annual Halloween Event! Come dressed in your best costume and enjoy a series of thrilling and chilling science demonstrations! 10am-2pm (251) 208-6893 www.exploreum.com

Loxley Community Glow Festival

FBC Loxley 1050 North Alabama Street

Loxley, AL 36551

Community wide Fall Festival! Come dressed as your favorite character. Inflatables, concessions, fellowship and a gospel presentation. (251) 964-5261 www.fbcloxley.com

Trunk or Treat - Chuck Stevens Ford

1304 US-31 Bay Minette, AL 36507

Stop in Saturday, October 28th at Chuck Stevens Ford for our annual Trunk or Treat. 4pm-6pm

Williams Station Day

Pensacola Avenue Atmore, AL 36502

Jump on a Hayride, travel back in time and learn Atmore’s history! Enjoy inflatables, face paint, reading tent, car show, entertainment, food vendors, and over 100 vendors. 9am - 4pm. (251) 368-3305 www.atmorechamber.com

October 29, 2023

St. James Episcopal Church and School Trunk or Treat

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St. James Episcopal Church and School 860 North Section Street Fairhope, AL 36532

Join us for games, candy and good old fall festival fun. Admission is free. 5:00pm-6:30pm (251) 928-2912 www.stjamesfairhope.org

5 Rivers Outdoor Market and Fall Festival

30945 Five Rivers Blvd Spanish Fort, AL 36527

Our favorite time of the year! We will have a fall festival with the addition of an outdoor market. There will be $10 boat rides provided by Historical Blakeley State Park, games, local vendors, food trucks, and other surprises. Costumes welcomed but not required. 12pm - 4pm. (251) 625-0814 www.alabama5rivers.com

Fall Festival

South River Park Church 10993 County Road 32 Fairhope, AL 36532

We will have food, games, photo booth and trunk or treat.. 4pm-6pm (251) 928-7007 www.southriverparkchurch.org

Halloween Party - Double D’s Burger

29001 Bass Pro Dr ste 100 Spanish Fort, AL 36527

Halloween fun ! Halloween games , face painting, Halloween crafts, Hocus Pocus movie, costume contest , Halloween dance party , and more. 6pm (251) 930-9482

Providence UMC Trunk or Treat Event

32200 Jimmy Faulkner Dr Spanish Fort, AL 36527 Come in your favorite costume from 4pm - 6pm. (251) 626-2510 www.providencemethodist.org

October 31, 2023

First Fairhope’s Perky

Pumpkin Party

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300 S Section Street Fairhope, AL 36532

First Fairhope’s perky Pumpkin Party is a great alternative to trick or treating! This FREE event is open to the public. Families will enjoy candy, rides, food, games and a lot of fun! 6pm - 8pm. (251) 928-8685 www.firstfairhope.org

Dauphin Island - Trick of Treat

Green Park 301 Lemoyne Drive

Dauphin Island, AL 36528

Join us for treat or treating, games, crafts, dancing and more. 5:30pm

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Trick or Treat Drive-Thru

Daphne Public Library 2607 Highway 98 Daphne, AL 36526

4:00 pm–6:00 pm. (251) 620-2500 www.daphnelibrary.org

Trick or Treat Drive-Thru

North Baldwin Chamber of Commerce

301 McMeans Ave Bay Minette 36507

The event begins at 6:30 p.m. and the goody bags will be available for the first 100 patrons. www.northbaldwinchamber.com

Trunk or Treat

The Wharf 23101 Canal Road

Orange Beach, AL 36561

Dress in your Halloween best and join us for Trunk or Treat presented by The Island Church. This event will include trick or treating, a costume contest, kids activities and fireworks. Schedule: 5pm-Kids activities begin, 6pm-Trunk or Treat, 7:45pm- Fireworks. (251) 224-1000 www.alwharf.com

Trunk-or-Treat

Silverhill Town Hall Silverhill, AL 36576

Our community is invited for an evening of fun with the Town of Silverhill for the annual Trunk-or-Treat. 6:00pm-8:00pm www.silverhillalabama.com

November 3 -5, 2023

Alabama Pecan Festival

5055 Carol Plantation Road Mobile, AL 36619

This family-oriented festival features a carnival atmosphere with rides, food, games, arts and crafts, live music, antique car show, and more. Free Admission. alabamapecanfestival@gmail.com www.alabamapecanfestival.com

November 4, 2023

Bay Minette Elementary Fall Festival Bay Minette Elementary School Bay Minette, AL 36507

games, shopping, food, music and rides. Visit our Facebook page for details. www.facebook.com/bayminetteal

Honey Bee Festival

Honey Bee Park 22780 AL-59 Robertsdale, AL 36567

Live entertainment, vendors, food trucks, kids area and more. 8am-4pm (251) 947-8950 www.robertsdale.org

The Farm - Fall Festival

The Farm 24025 Miflin Rd Elberta, AL 36530 2nd Annual Fall Festival. 50+ arts/crafts vendors and food vendors, music, free pony rides and tractor rides, free kids crafts and bouncy houses, clown entertainment and face painting, fresh cooked apple butter, and much more! 11am-4pm (251) 955-1919 TheFarmInMiflin@gmail.com

November 9-12, 2023

Fairhope Film Festival

Various Locations Fairhope Film Festival’s annual film festival features world-class, award-winning films. (251) 990-7957 www.fairhopefilmfestival.org/

November 10, 2023

Silverhill - Fall Affair in the Square Town Square Silverhill, AL 36576 Fall Affair in the Square brings music, food trucks and family-friendly entertainment to Silverhill Town Hall. Free outdoor concert 7:00pm.

November 11, 2023

Chocolate & Cheese Festival

Heritage Park 200 N McKenzie St Foley, AL 36535

Vendors featuring chocolate & cheese, live music, arts & crafts, pony rides, petting zoo, huge Kids zone & more. 10am-6pm. $5.00 Admittance/12 and under Free beachlifeevents.com/chocolate_cheese_festival.php

Living History Festival

Colonial Fort Condé 150 South Royal Street Mobile, AL 36602

10:00 am - 2:00 pm. FREE admission - Experience the 18th century at Colonial Fort Condé as history is brought to life through the demonstration of everyday activities of Mobile’s past. In addition to stations teaching about daily life, there will also be musket and sword fighting demonstrations every hour as well as our local chapter of the Society of American Period Furniture Makers.

(251) 544-5480 www.historymuseumofmobile.com

November 18-19, 2023

Jubilee Renaissance Faire

The Medieval Village 30569 Osprey Lane

Robertsdale, AL 36567

Enjoy Medieval Games of Skill, such as Archery or Axe throwing. War Horse rides, a Falconry demonstration and other live animal exhibitions. The main event will be a real full contact Jousting Tournament. 10am-5pm.

(970) 690-3777 jubileerenaissancefaire.com

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“Stop doing these 17 things for your kids right now, or you’ll fail to raise independent, successful human beings!”

Parents have been inundated with these types of articles lately, and I’ll be the first to admit I have some habits that fall into the “naughty” category. Packing my kids’ lunches? Check. Cleaning up after them? Check. Making sure their homework is done? Check, check, check.

My daughters are in second grade and kindergarten, and I’m looking forward to helping them become more self-sufficient in the coming year, simply by doing less for them.

1. Telling them a bedtime story.

My kids love books, but the stories they seem to enjoy the most are the ones that come straight from the perpetually exhausted brains of their parents. Over the years, our bedtime stories have ranged from the heartfelt to the hilarious, from fairy tales created on the fly to discussions about space and nature. My husband and I have shared recollections of grandparents and great-grandparents, and the different world in which they grew up. All of these stories have played a vital role in sparking my kids’ curiosity about the world around them, and I’ve often even learned something new in the process. I imagine that someday our nightly stories will evolve into after dinner conversations over coffee, tea or ice cream, but the importance of the ritual will remain the same.

2. Noticing and praising when they’ve acted with compassion or kindness.

I’m not talking about ego boosting here; what I mean is simply noticing and recognizing when my kids do the right thing. Last week, when little sister dropped her snack on the ground and the threat of a meltdown was looming, big sister, unprompted, offered up her own granola bar as a replacement. “Hey, that was a really nice thing to do,” I told big sister, and I extended the kudos by mentioning it to their dad later that day. Believe me, there are plenty of days when sharing and being kind seem to be the last thing on my kids’ minds, so I’m all for highlighting these moments when they happen.

3. Offering them different foods, even if they’ve tried it already and swear they hate it.

My kids are fairly picky eaters, which I find frustrating. It’s not as though I’m serv-

ing them free-range quinoa with sautéed brussel sprouts and tofu; in recent history, they’ve given a ruthless thumbs-down to cheese pizza, homemade mini chicken pot pies, and chocolate chip pumpkin muffins (I mean, who turns down anything involving chocolate?!). Still, I’ll continue to encourage my kids to try lots of different foods, including items they’ve previously rejected, because I’m banking on the fact that one day their tastebuds will have an “aha!” moment. I refuse to believe their palates can’t expand to appreciate cuisine beyond apples, plain spaghetti and Goldfish crackers.

4. Giving them a safe space to vent over school, friendships or other issues, no matter how minor.

Yes, kids need to develop a thicker skin and learn how to handle disappointment and all that jazz. But that does not mean I can’t offer a non-judgmental ear when they come to me feeling sad or frustrated because so-and-so at school was mean or didn’t like their hairstyle that day. Being there to listen doesn’t necessarily mean solving the problem for my daughters, but my hope is that it will foster trust and openness that will extend into the pre-teen and teenage years.

5. Letting them see me being silly, even if it means embarrassing them sometimes!

Humor was a key element of my childhood. While we didn’t always say “I love you,” my family often showed affection via goofy behavior and jokes. When I played trumpet in the school band, I was always incredibly nervous about missing the high notes during my solos. In response, my dad promised that if I ever botched a note during a concert, he’d stand up and blow his nose loudly; that way, everyone in the audience would focus on him instead of my mistake. Naturally, I protested: “Noooo Dad that’s so embarrassing!!!” But I still had to smile, because I knew deep down this was my dad’s way of saying, “Don’t worry, I’ve got your back.”

Whatever my kids are facing in life, I want them to know I’ll be there for them, even when they are able to tie their own shoes, make their own lunches, and one day (someday!) even do their own laundry.

But there are still some things I plan to continue doing for them, for as long as they’ll let me.

Gina Rich is a Wisconsin writer specializing in parenting, health, and the natural world.

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Sunday October 1

Bike MS: Tour de Beach 2023

7:00 AM 21101 AL-135 Gulf Shores, AL, 36542 Cycle along the Alabama coastline as you enjoy beautiful views and breathtaking sunsets. Begin and end both days at The Lodge, a Hilton property at Gulf State Park in Gulf Shores, AL, along with a community of riders dedicated to changing the world for people with MS. Feel the extraordinary support and excitement throughout your journey as we come together to reach our goal—a world free of MS. https://events.nationalmssociety.org/index. cfm?fuseaction=donorDrive.event&eventID=1568

Fall Concert and Art Show

5:00 PM Spanish Fort Community Center, 7361 Spanish Fort Blvd Spanish Fort, AL, 36537 Join the City of Spanish Fort for our Fall Concert and Art Show on Sunday, October 1, 2023. The Mobile Pops will present “A Kid’s Night at the Movies”, with songs from your favorite movies on the pond at the Community Center at 6:00 p.m. Bring your tailgate chairs and blankets to enjoy the fun. The Art Guild will host an art show inside the Community Center at 5:00.

Wednesday October 4

Midday Melodies

11:00 AM Heritage Park, 125 E Laurel Avenue Foley, AL, 36535 Midday Melodies is a live music event that will take place entirely outdoors near the fountain in Foley’s Heritage Park. Picnic blankets or lawn chairs are welcomed. Pick up a lunch from one of Foley’s many restaurants or bring your own. https://visitfoley.com/

Nature Connect After School Days

3:15 PM - 5:30 PM, May Day Park, Fairhope, AL, 36532 Our after school program offers children a fun and adventurous complement to their busy, structured school day. Through games, stories, and exploration, children are supported to develop meaningful friendships and an appreciation of the outdoors. Skills introduced include plant identification, firemaking, animal tracking, shelter building, bird calls and identification, storytelling, and hazard awareness. 251-513-7802 www.natureconnectalabama.org/

18th Annual John Borom Coastal BirdFest

Various locations, 5 Rivers Delta Center is the central registration and expo location, while guided tours and workshops will take place throughout Mobile and Baldwin counties. https://southalabamalandtrust.org/birdfest/

Thursday October 5

South Baldwin Community Theater presents “Nightfall with Edgar Allan Poe” 7:30 PM

2022 West 2nd Street Gulf Shores, AL, 36542 sbct.biz

Midday Melodies

11:00 AM Heritage Park, 125 E Laurel Avenue Foley, AL, 36535 Midday Melodies is a live music event that will take place entirely outdoors near the fountain in Foley’s Heritage Park. Picnic blankets or lawn chairs are welcomed. Pick up a lunch from one of Foley’s many restaurants or bring your own. https://visitfoley.com/

CCA Eastern Shore Fallout

6:00 PM Oak Hollow Farm, 14210 Greeno Road

Fairhope, AL, 36532 27th Annual Eastern Shore

Chapter FALL OUT presented by Anglers Resource/Fuji Rod Components. Live Auction, Silent Auction, Raffle, Dinner, Drinks, and Live Music. https://e.givesmart.com/events/xU4/

18th Annual John Borom Coastal BirdFest

Various locations, 5 Rivers Delta Center is the central registration and expo location, while guided tours and workshops will take place throughout Mobile and Baldwin counties.

https://southalabamalandtrust.org/birdfest/

Friday October 6

Clothing Resale Fundraiser for The Little Tree Project

2:00 PM - 8:00 PM, 161 N Section St Fairhope, AL, 36532 Join us for a day of ethical shopping to benefit our organization as we continue to combat human trafficking through prevention, rehabilitation, and restoration. The event will be held in Fairhope at the Civic Center on Art Walk Friday. Men’s & Women’s gently used clothing at great prices -Refreshments provided by Kind Cafe -Local Vendors

Baldwin County Heritage Museum

7:00 PM - 9:00 PM, Baldwin County Heritage Museum, 25521 US Highway 98 Elberta, AL Family Fun Halloween themed trail ride. Ride thru the Haunted Forest on a tractor pulled trailer and watch out for the wood spirits. This is a fundraiser to benefit the Baldwin County Heritage Museum. baldwincoheritagemuseum.net

Theatre 98 Presents For Peter Pan on Her 70th Birthday

7:30 PM Theatre 98, 350 Morphy Ave Fairhope, AL, 36532 https://www.theatre98.org/

South Baldwin Community Theater presents “Nightfall with Edgar Allan Poe”

7:30 PM South Baldwin Community Theatre, 2022 West 2nd Street Gulf Shores, AL, 36542 South Baldwin Community Theater presents “Nightfall with Edgar Allan Poe” sbct.biz

18th Annual John Borom Coastal BirdFest

Various locations, 5 Rivers Delta Center is the central registration and expo location, while guided tours and workshops will take place throughout Mobile and Baldwin counties. https://southalabamalandtrust.org/birdfest/

Saturday October 7

USS Alabama Memorial Park - 1940s Day

8:00 AM - 5:00 PM, Battleship Memorial Park, 2703 Battleship Parkway Mobile, AL, 36602 Join our WWII reenactors during the October Living History Crew

Drill dressed in your best 1940s/WWII costume! Participants will receive 50% one adult admission ticket. https://www.ussalabama.com/event/1940s-day/

Oktoberfest

8:00 AM OWA, 101 S OWA Blvd Foley, AL, 36535 During this day long German inspired event expect the Annual Sister City 5K, arts and crafts vendors, interactive team games, and live entertainment featured throughout Downtown OWA https://visitowa.com/oktoberfest/

Alligators and Ale 5K & Cornhole Tournament

8:00 AM Alligator Alley, 19950 Co Rd 71 Summerdale, AL, 36580 Join us in our annual fundraiser benefiting

The Miracle League of Coastal Alabama. There will be a 5K/1 mile fun run and a corn hole tournament. www.events.com

InvestiGATORS Book 7 -- Author Event

9:30 AM - 10:30 AM, Page & Palette, 32 S Section St Fairhope, AL, 36532 Join us and Mrs. Paula for an exciting storytime with the author of the Investigators series There will be activities and treats!

https://www.pageandpalette.com/

4th Annual MAAAC Gala and Silent Auction

5:30 PM Perdido Beach Resort , 27200 Perdido Beach Blvd Orange Beach, AL, 36561 The Makos Academics, Arts, and Athletics Club (MAAAC) will host its 4th Annual MAAAC Gala and Silent Auction in the Grand Ballroom of Perdido Beach Resort on October 7, 2023. https://www.perdidobeachresort.com/MAAAC-Gala

Mobile Ballet

Presents Eclectic

7:30 PM Mobile Civic Center Theater, 401 Civic Center Dr Mobile, AL, 36602 Mobile Ballet’s 2023-2024 season opens with Eclectic, a new production with an intriguing mix of arts coming together on stage to create a story embodying and expressing the emotion of our current times. In this mixed repertoire performance with pieces from classical to contemporary, dancers will perform along with musicians and singers, and audiences will be moved by an experience that is only possible through the magic of the arts. This unique one-time-only performance is not to be missed! Buy tickets at www. mobileballet.org

https://mobileballet.org/

Theatre 98 Presents For Peter Pan on Her 70th Birthday

7:30 PM Theatre 98, 350 Morphy Ave Fairhope, AL, 36532

https://www.theatre98.org/

South Baldwin Community Theater presents “Nightfall with Edgar Allan Poe”

7:30 PM South Baldwin Community Theatre, 2022 West 2nd Street Gulf Shores, AL, 36542 sbct.biz

18th Annual John Borom Coastal BirdFest Various locations, 5 Rivers Delta Center is the central registration and expo location, while guided tours and workshops will take place throughout Mobile and Baldwin counties.

https://southalabamalandtrust.org/birdfest/

BFM 5K on the Runway

Mobile Airport Authority, 1891 9th Street Mobile, AL, 36615 Experience the thrill of running on the runway at the BFM5K on the Runway at Mobile International Airport. Lace up your running shoes and take off on an unforgettable 5K run and lively 1-Mile Fun Run on October 7, 2023. By participating in the BFM5K on the Runway, you not only promote fitness and fun, but also support the Mobile Airport Authority Foundation’s charitable initiatives that uplift the local community.

https://www.bfm5k.com/

Sunday October 8

Theatre 98 Presents For Peter Pan on Her 70th Birthday

2:30 PM Theatre 98, 350 Morphy Ave Fairhope, AL, 36532

https://www.theatre98.org/

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South Baldwin Community Theater presents “Nightfall with Edgar Allan Poe”

2:30 PM South Baldwin Community Theatre, 2022 West 2nd Street Gulf Shores, AL, 36542 sbct.biz

The Outlaw Music Festival

4:05 PM The Wharf Amphitheater, 23101 Canal Rd Orange Beach, AL, 36561

The Outlaw Music Festival featuring Willie Nelson, The Avett Brothers, Gov’t Mule, Elizabeth Cook, + Particle Kid is coming the The Wharf Amphitheater as part of the 2023 C Spire Concert Series https://alwharf.com/amphitheater

Fairhope Founder’s Day Concert

5:00 PM Henry George Park, Fairhope, AL, 36532

The Baldwin Pops performs in the beautiful Fairhope Henry George Park overlooking the Fairhope Pier and Mobile Bay. Sponsored by the Single Tax Corporation, this concerts celebrates the heritage of Fairhope and is the longest running sponsorship of a concert event in our area.

Mobile Pops Fall Concert

6:00 PM Spanish Fort Community Center, 7361 Spanish Fort Blvd Spanish Fort, AL, 36527 https://www.themobilepops.com/

Tuesday October 10

Bingo Night (Free)

3:30 PM Daphne Public Library, 2607 US-98 Daphne, AL, 36526 Bingo night 251-620-2500 www.daphneal.com/178/Library

Midday Melodies

11:00 AM Heritage Park, 125 E Laurel Avenue Foley, AL, 36535 Midday Melodies is a live music event that will take place entirely outdoors near the fountain in Foley’s Heritage Park. Picnic blankets or lawn chairs are welcomed. Pick up a lunch from one of Foley’s many restaurants or bring your own. https://visitfoley.com/

Nature Connect After School Days

3:15 PM - 5:30 PM, Details on October 4.

Thursday October 12

Midday Melodies 11:00 AM Heritage Park, 125 E Laurel Avenue Foley, AL, 36535 Midday Melodies is a live music event that will take place entirely outdoors near the fountain in Foley’s Heritage Park. Picnic blankets or lawn chairs are welcomed. Pick up a lunch from one of Foley’s many restaurants or bring your own. https://visitfoley.com/

South Baldwin Community Theater presents “Nightfall with Edgar Allan Poe”

7:30 PM 2022 West 2nd Street Gulf Shores, AL, 36542 sbct.biz

Friday October 13

Blackbird Expo

8:00 AM - 5:00 PM, Battleship Memorial Park, 2703 Battleship Parkway Mobile, AL, 36602 Mark your calendars for a rare, incredible event at Battleship

Memorial Park. We invite you to learn about the A-12 and SR-71 from former pilots, mechanics and other experts of the Blackbird. They will be at the park to hold discussion panels and breakout sessions, 360 cockpit tours and more. Discover the history and innovation behind these iconic aircraft and the brave men who flew them. All proceeds from the fundraiser will go toward the restoration of the park’s A-12.

https://www.ussalabama.com/event/blackbird-expo/

Cruise to the Site of the Clotilda Wreck

3:00 PM Spanish Fort, AL, 36527 The last known ship to bring African slaves into America, the Clotilda, rests in the waters of the Mobile River north of the city. This guided excursion tells the story of that fateful voyage.

https://www.blakeleypark.com/

Mobile Latin Fest

5:00 PM - 10:00 PM, Cathedral Square, Mobile, AL, 36602 The Mobile Latin Fest presents a cultural sample of the rich diversity of the Latin countries and helps integrate our communities by promoting mutual understanding. There will be food and arts & crafts vendors, live music, folkloric dances, among many other activities.

https://www.habagc.com/

Live at Five Concert

5:00 PM Halstead Amphitheater, 450 Fairhope Ave Fairhope, AL, 36532 Live at Five Fall Concert Series. https://www.liveatfivefairhope.com/

Mobile Harbor Sunset Cruise

5:30 PM Spanish Fort, AL, 36527 This cruise provides guests a unique opportunity to explore one of the nation’s busiest harbors. Guests will enjoy a rare waterfront view of all the activity at the state docks and within the larger port as they learn about both Mobile’s state of the art facilities and its rich maritime heritage.

https://www.blakeleypark.com/

Theatre 98 Presents For Peter Pan on Her 70th Birthday

7:30 PM Theatre 98 , 350 Morphy Ave Fairhope, AL, 36532

https://www.theatre98.org/

South Baldwin Community Theater presents “Nightfall with Edgar Allan Poe”

7:30 PM South Baldwin Community Theatre, 2022 West 2nd Street Gulf Shores, AL, 36542 sbct.biz

Yes Concert

8:00 PM Saenger Theatre, 6 South Joachim Street Mobile, AL, 36602 Yes in concert.

https://www.asmglobalmobile.com/

Saturday October 14

Bras Across the “CAUSE”way

8:00 AM Meaher State Park, 5200 Battleship Pkwy Spanish Fort, AL, 36527 Join us for the 7th Annual Bras Across the CAUSEway 5k & Fun Run. All proceeds will directly benefit local patients of The Breast Center at Providence Hospital for gas, groceries, copays, uncovered medical expenses, rent, utilities and so much more!

https://www.brasacrossthecauseway.org/

Baldwin County Homebuilders Parade of Homes

10:00 AM - 5:00 PM, Presented by the Baldwin County Home Builders Association the Parade of Homes is a spotlight of area builders and new home construction. For parade locations and Showcase Home information, visit the website.October 14 - 15 and 21-22.

www.bchba.com

Lunch Cruise

10:30 AM Spanish Fort, AL, 36527 Join us for a special sightseeing cruise and seafood lunch at one of the Mobile area’s favorite restaurants!

https://www.blakeleypark.com/

Woofstock 2023

11:00 AM Oyster City, 600 Government St Mobile, AL, 36602 Dog Costume Contest! Great Beer! Food! Awesome Vendors! Entertainment! Kids Activities! animalrescuemobile.org

Mobile Latin Fest

4:00 PM - 9:00 PM, Mardi Gras Park, Mobile, AL, 36602 The Mobile Latin Fest presents a cultural sample of the rich diversity of the Latin countries and helps integrate our communities by promoting mutual understanding. There will be food and arts & crafts vendors, live music, folkloric dances, among many other activities.

https://www.habagc.com/

Port City Blues Festival

7:00 PM Mobile Civic Center, 401 Civic Center Dr Mobile, AL, 36602 The Blues Is Alright Tour makes its debut at Mobile Civic Center Arena with The Port City Blues Festival on Saturday, October 14 at 7 p.m.

https://www.asmglobalmobile.com/events/detail/ blues-festival

Hardy in Concert

7:00 PM The Wharf Amphitheater, 23101 Canal Rd Orange Beach, AL, 36561 HARDY with special guests Lainey Wilson + Dylan Marlowe is coming to The Wharf Amphitheater on October 14 as part of the 2023 C Spire Concert Series!

https://alwharf.com/amphitheater

Theatre 98 Presents For Peter Pan on Her 70th Birthday

7:30 PM Theatre 98 , 350 Morphy Ave Fairhope, AL, 36532

https://www.theatre98.org/

South Baldwin Community Theater presents “Nightfall with Edgar Allan Poe”

7:30 PM South Baldwin Community Theatre, 2022 West 2nd Street Gulf Shores, AL, 36542 sbct.biz

The Black Jacket Symphony presents “Saturday Night Fever”

8:00 PM Saenger Theatre, 6 South Joachim Street Mobile, AL, 36602 The Black Jacket Symphony will return to the Mobile Saenger Theatre on October 14th to perform the soundtrack of “Saturday Night Fever” in its entirety!

https://www.asmglobalmobile.com/

Sunday October 15

Baldwin County Homebuilders Parade of Homes

10:00 AM - 5:00 PM, Presented by the Baldwin County Home Builders Association the Parade of Homes is a spotlight of area builders and new home construction. For parade locations and Showcase Home information, visit the website.October 14 - 15 and 21-22. www.bchba.com

Theatre 98 Presents For Peter Pan on Her 70th Birthday

2:30 PM Theatre 98, 350 Morphy Ave

Fairhope, AL, 36532

https://www.theatre98.org/

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South Baldwin Community Theater presents “Nightfall with Edgar Allan Poe”

2:30 PM South Baldwin Community Theatre, 2022 West 2nd Street Gulf Shores, AL, 36542 sbct.biz

Out of the Darkness Walk

2:45 PM Daphne City Hall, 1705 Main Street Daphne, AL, 36526 The Out of the Darkness Community Walk is a journey of remembrance, hope, and support. It unites our communities and provides an opportunity to acknowledge the ways in which suicide and mental health conditions have affected our lives and the lives of those we love and care about.

251-455-6453

Lower Alabama Lacrosse: Learn to Play (Free)

3:00 PM - 6:00 PM, Ruff Wilson Youth Center, 1317 Johnson Road Daphne, AL, 36526 Learn to play is a FREE beginners clinic run by Lower Alabama Lacrosse to introduce K-8th grade boys and girls of the Eastern Shore to lacrosse. No Experience Necessary. Mouth Guard Required. Registration opens 10/1/2023 at www.lallax.com. www.lallax.com

Wednesday October 18

Nature Connect After School Days

3:15 PM - 5:30 PM, Details on October 4.

Thursday October 19

Burgers and Bingo in the Square

6:00 PM Bay Minette Square, Bay Minette, AL, 36507 Join us for the fall installment of Burgers & Bingo on the Square, 6 to 8 p.m. THURSDAY, Oct. 19, 2023. There is no charge to participate in the Bingo games and there will be plenty of prizes available. cityofbayminetteal.gov

Theatre 98 Presents For Peter Pan on Her 70th Birthday

7:30 PM Theatre 98 350 Morphy Ave Fairhope, AL, 36532 https://www.theatre98.org/

Bay Area Performing Arts presents

“Disney’s 101 Dalmatians Kids” 8724 Rand Ave. Daphne, AL, 36526

www.bayareaperformingarts.com

Friday October 20

Gulf Coast Fungi Festival

4:00 PM Weeks Bay Plantation, 12562 Mary Ann Beach Rd Fairhope, AL, 36532 Throughout the weekend, there will be educational workshops, lectures, and foraging walks to learn more about mushrooms. Plus a variety of arts and crafts workshops, cooking demonstrations, and live music performances. https://gulfcoastfungifest.com/

Jubilee – Party at the Pavilion

6:30 PM FEEF’s Pavilion at the Nest, 108 S Summit St Fairhope, AL, 36532 All proceeds from our fundraising efforts benefit STEAM (Science, Technology, Engineering, Art, Math) enrichment programs in all Fairhope public schools.

https://feefonline.org/feeffallfundraiser/

Theatre 98 Presents For Peter Pan on Her 70th Birthday

7:30 PM Theatre 98, 350 Morphy Ave Fairhope, AL, 36532

https://www.theatre98.org/

Bay Area Performing Arts presents “Disney’s 101 Dalmatians Kids” 8724 Rand Ave. Daphne, AL, 36526 www.bayareaperformingarts.com

Saturday October 21

Gulf Coast Fungi Festival

9:00 AM Weeks Bay Plantation, 12562 Mary Ann Beach Rd Fairhope, AL, 36532 Throughout the weekend, there will be educational workshops, lectures, and foraging walks to learn more about mushrooms. Plus a variety of arts and crafts workshops, cooking demonstrations, and live music performances. https://gulfcoastfungifest.com/

Baldwin County Homebuilders Parade of Homes

10:00 AM - 5:00 PM, Presented by the Baldwin County Home Builders Association the Parade of Homes is a spotlight of area builders and new home construction. For parade locations and Showcase Home information, visit the website.October 14 - 15 and 21-22. www.bchba.com

Animal Ambassadors Cruise

10:30 AM Spanish Fort, AL, 36527 Join Five Rivers Delta Resource Center and Historic Blakeley State Park for a unique 90-minute cruise into the wild and scenic Mobile-Tensaw Delta featuring live native animal species! https://www.blakeleypark.com/

SABCC British Car Festival 2023

11:30 AM - 3:30 PM, Fairhope United Methodist Church, 155 S. Section St Fairhope, AL, 36532 www.sabcc.org/british-car-festival

Theatre 98 Presents For Peter Pan on Her 70th Birthday

7:30 PM Theatre 98, 350 Morphy Ave Fairhope, AL, 36532 https://www.theatre98.org/

Bay Area Performing Arts presents “Disney’s 101 Dalmatians Kids” 8724 Rand Ave. Daphne, AL, 36526 Bay Area Performing Arts presents “Disney’s 101 Dalmatians Kids” www.bayareaperformingarts.com

Saturday October 22

Baldwin County Homebuilders Parade of Homes

10:00 AM - 5:00 PM, Presented by the Baldwin County Home Builders Association the Parade of Homes is a spotlight of area builders and new home construction. For parade locations and Showcase Home information, visit the website.October 14 - 15 and 21-22. www.bchba.com

Gulf Coast Fungi Festival

10:00 AM Weeks Bay Plantation, 12562 Mary Ann Beach Rd Fairhope, AL, 36532 Throughout the weekend, there will be educational workshops, lectures, and foraging walks to learn more about mushrooms. Plus a variety of arts and crafts workshops, cooking demonstrations, and live music performances. https://gulfcoastfungifest.com/

Theatre 98 Presents For Peter Pan on Her 70th Birthday

2:30 PM Theatre 98, 350 Morphy Ave Fairhope, AL, 36532 https://www.theatre98.org/

Baldwin Pops Fall Concert: Movies and More

5:00 PM Heritage Park, 101 E Laurel Ave. Foley, AL, 36535 Movies and More: Themes from TV and the silver screen. At the Heritage Park Gazebo in Foley, AL. https://visitfoley.com/

Bay Area Performing Arts presents “Disney’s 101 Dalmatians Kids” 8724 Rand Ave. Daphne, AL, 36526 www.bayareaperformingarts.com

Monday October 23

Dusty’s All Star Circus Foley Civic Center, 407 E Laurel Ave Foley, AL, 36535 Join our international all star cast at the Foley Civic Center for fun, thrills and a whole lot of WOW moments that will have the entire family captivated!

https://dustyscircus.com/

Wednesday October 25

Savvy Mom Sale

9:00 AM - 5:00 PM, Daphne Civic Center, 2603 US-98 Daphne, AL, 36526 Savvy Mom Sale is a seasonal consignment sale. We invite you to volunteer, consign, & shop with the Savvy Mom Sale! Visit our website or checkout our Facebook page for updates, volunteer perks, consignment opportunities and discount days! www.SavvyMomSale.com

Nature Connect After School Days

3:15 PM - 5:30 PM, Details on October 4.

Thursday October 26

Mobile River Cruise with John Sledge

9:00 AM Spanish Fort, AL, 36527 Join us as park friend John S. Sledge, author of the award-winning book, The Mobile River, narrates a three-hour cruise across the Mobile-Tensaw Delta https://www.blakeleypark.com/

Savvy Mom Sale

10:00 AM - 7:00 PM, Daphne Civic Center, 2603 US98 Daphne, AL, 36526 Savvy Mom Sale is a seasonal consignment sale. We invite you to volunteer, consign, & shop with the Savvy Mom Sale! Visit our website or checkout our Facebook page for updates, volunteer perks, consignment opportunities and discount days! www.SavvyMomSale.com

Trivia Night - Halloweentown (Free)

6:00 PM Daphne Public Library, 2607 US-98 Daphne, AL, 36526 Prizes are given for every round winner along with a best dressed costume prize! ages 13 and up. 251-620-2500 www.daphneal.com/178/Library

Movies at Meyer Park

6:00 PM Meyer Park, 400 East 22nd Avenue Gulf Shores, AL, 36542 Locals and visitors are invited to bring their lawn chairs and blankets and join us at Meyer Park for a free movie under the stars! Movies will begin at 6 p.m. each night. October 26: School of Rock www.gulfshoresal.gov/1421/Movies-at-Meyer-Park

Friday October 27

Savvy Mom Sale

9:00 AM - 5:00 PM, Daphne Civic Center, 2603 US-98 Daphne, AL, 36526 Savvy Mom Sale is a seasonal consignment sale. We invite you to volunteer, consign, & shop with the Savvy Mom Sale! Visit our website or

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checkout our Facebook page for updates, volunteer perks, consignment opportunities and discount days! www.SavvyMomSale.com

Live at Five Concert

5:00 PM Halstead Amphitheater, 450 Fairhope Ave Fairhope, AL, 36532 Live at Five Fall Concert Series. https://www.liveatfivefairhope.com/

Saturday October 28

Making Strides Against Breast Cancer

8:00 AM Spanish Plaza, 401 Government Street Mobile, AL, 36602 Premier South Alabama Breast Cancer walk hosted by the American Cancer Society, supporting breast cancer survivors, thrivers, caregivers and friends and family. Walk through Downtown Mobile, 3 mile walk, family friendly.

Parrot Heads in Paradise Skippin & Sippin

8:00 AM LuLu’s, 200 E 25th Ave Gulf Shores, AL, 36542 The 5k & Fun Run will take place at LuLu’s at Homeport Marina in Gulf Shores, Alabama. LuLu’s will be hosting a post-race party for you to sip & eat after you race!

https://www.brasacrossthecauseway.org/

Savvy Mom Sale

8:00 AM - 2:00 PM, Daphne Civic Center, 2603 US-98 Daphne, AL, 36526 Savvy Mom Sale is a seasonal consignment sale. We invite you to volunteer, consign, & shop with the Savvy Mom Sale! Visit our website or checkout our Facebook page for updates, volunteer perks, consignment opportunities and discount days! www.SavvyMomSale.com

Excursion to the Bottle Creek Indian Mound Complex

9:00 AM Spanish Fort, AL, 36527 Join us as we explore the Gulf Coast’s largest Native American mound site! https://www.blakeleypark.com/

Children’s Business Fair

10:00 AM - 1:00 PM, Centennial Park, Daphne , AL, 36526 We will host 35 booths at the 6th annual event on October 28th, 2023 at Centennial Park in Daphne from 10:00am to 1:00pm. There will be food, drinks, and fun for the whole family! www.childrensbusinessfair.org/daphne

Kidz Bop Never Stop Tour

6:00 PM Saenger Theatre, 6 South Joachim Street Mobile, AL, 36602 Kidz Bop Never Stop Tour https://www.asmglobalmobile.com/

Sunday October 29

Fall Outdoor Market Secret Delta Tour

9:00 AM Five Rivers Delta Resource Center , Spanish Fort, AL, 36527 This tour explores some of the forgotten southern reaches of the Mobile-Tensaw Delta that lie hidden just minutes from Mobile and the communities of Eastern Shore. Join us at Five Rivers the morning of the Fall Festival for this special outing. https://www.blakeleypark.com/

Five Rivers Outdoor Market Cruises

12:00 PM Five Rivers Delta Resource Center , Spanish Fort, AL, 36527 This special event of activities taking place on the afternoon of Oct. 29 features one-hour Delta cruises, educational programs, food trucks, and a variety of vendors.

https://www.blakeleypark.com/

Thursday November 2

Fall Gala

6:00 PM Coastal Arts Center Of Orange Beach, 26389 Canal Rd Orange Beach, AL, 36531 Baldwin County Child Advocacy Center’s 1st annual Fall Gala will take place at the beautiful Coastal Arts Center in Orange Beach, Alabama. This will be a very special evening for our community and will include live music, art, a speaker, dancing, a silent auction, and great food. https://baldwincountycac.networkforgood.com/ events/58574-fall-gala-2023

Friday November 3

ESRT proudly presents ‘SHREK the Musical JR’

7:00 PM Eastern Shore Repertory Theatre, 161 North Section Street Fairhope, AL, 36532 Join us for an unforgettable evening of laughter and enchantment as ESRT proudly presents SHREK the Musical JR. www.easternshorerep.org

Saturday November 4

Magnolia Run

8:00 AM 14770 Oak Street Magnolia Springs, AL, 36555 https://runsignup.com/Race/AL/MagnoliaSprings/ MagnoliaRun5k

13th Christmas Extravaganza

10:00 AM - 3:00 PM, Daphne Civic Center, Daphne, AL, 36526 Join us for the Christmas Extravaganza shopping event.

Fairhope Veterans Day Parade

10:00 AM Fairhope Civic Center, Fairhope, AL, 36532 The Parade provides the public with the opportunity to salute our veterans and military and is the centerpiece of an annual city wide effort to honor our veterans community. Leading the parade will be Fairhope’s 2019 Veteran of the Year. 251-929-1466

11th Annual Best of the Bay Gumbo Championship (Tickets are $10 in advance and $15 at the door) 11:00 AM - 2:30 PM, Coastal Alabama Community Community College Halstead Amphitheater , 450 Fairhope Ave. Fairhope, AL Fairhope Kiwanis in partnership with American Legion Eastern Shore Post 199, presents the 12th Annual Best of the Bay Gumbo Championship. Join us right after the Veteran’s Day Parade as teams to compete against each other for the best tasting gumbo on the Eastern Shore! It will include a craft show, inflatables & face painting for children and live entertainment by the Marlow Boys. Everyone who purchases a ticket will get to sample the gumbo and vote for their favorite. bit.ly/gumbochampionship2023

ESRT proudly presents ‘SHREK the Musical JR’

7:00 PM Eastern Shore Repertory Theatre, 161 North Section Street Fairhope, AL, 36532 www.easternshorerep.org

Sunday November 5

ESRT proudly presents ‘SHREK the Musical JR’

7:00 PM Eastern Shore Repertory Theatre, 161 North Section Street Fairhope, AL, 36532 www.easternshorerep.org

Thursday November 9

23rd Annual Sunset Supper

6:00 PM Spanish Fort Community Center, 7361 Spanish Fort Blvd. Spanish Fort, AL, 36527 The Lighthouse

presents its 23rd Annual Sunset Supper on Thursday, November 9th from 6 - 9 pm at the Spanish Fort Community Center. All funds raised will help to support the daily operations of The Lighthouse. http://www.thelighthouseabeacon.org

Friday November 10

3rd Annual SCH Classic

8:00 AM Rock Creek Golf Club, Fairhope, AL, 36526 This event will raise money and awareness for the children in foster care in Alabama. The 4-person scramble will start with a biscuit breakfast at 8:00am followed by a shotgun start at 9:00am. Package includes breakfast, lunch, 18 holes of golf, greens fees and cart. Prizes will be awarded to first, second and third place winners along with chances to win some amazing raffle items. Individual players are welcome with an entry fee of $150. Team entry fee is $600. Registration is open and sponsorship opportunities are available through charitygolftoday.com/bch2023 or by contacting Christy Kelley Wilson at 25l.39l.7220/ ckwevents@gmail.com.

251-391-7220 www.charitygolftoday.com/bch2023

Saturday November 11

Annual Veterans Day Program

9:00 AM Blakeley State Park, Spanish Fort, AL, 36527 Join us special cruises, living history demonstrations, guided tours, and a lecture by a nationally-known author!

https://www.blakeleypark.com/

2023 Baldwin Heart Walk

9:00 AM OWA, 101-N South OWA Blvd. Foley, AL, 36535 Join your friends and neighbors and be a relentless force for a world of longer, healthier lives. www2.heart.org

Sunday November 12

Mobile Bay Walk to End Alzheimer’s

2:00 PM Battleship Memorial Park, 2703 Battleship Parkway Mobile, AL, 36602 All funds raised through Walk to End Alzheimer’s further the care, support and research efforts of the Alzheimer’s Association. https://act.alz.org/site/ TR/Walk2023/AL-Alabama?pg=entry&fr_id=16366

Thursday November 16

A Night To Sow

6:30 PM Daphne Civic Center, 2603 US-98 Daphne, AL, 36526 A Night to Sow is a fundraising event to support youth of trauma. There will be music, dinner and silent auction. Under His Wings is a residential home for girls of trauma providing counseling education and life skills essential to wholeness. www.underhiswingsbaldwin.org

Every Monday

Free Build - STEM Play (Free)

9:15 AM - 12:00 PM, Fairhope Public Library, 501 Fairhope Avenue Fairhope, AL, 36532 Ages 2 to 10 years old. Come put your creative imagination to the test! We will put out all of our legos, soft blocks, lincoln logs, picnic pieces, buckets of dinosaurs, and more. Join us in the Activity Room for Free Build every Monday and Friday from 9am - Noon. 251-929-1465 www.fairhopelibrary.org/

Lego Free Build - Spanish Fort Public Library

3:30 PM Spanish Fort Public Library, 7361 Spanish Fort Boulevard Spanish Fort, AL, 36527 Every Monday

FamilyCalendar

3:30 - 5 pm, patrons are invited to the Spanish Fort Public Library to exercise their creativity and practice their engineering skills by constructing their very own LEGO® creation.

251-410-READ www.spanishfortpubliclibrary.org

Every Tuesday

Bay Minette Public Library Story Time

10:00 AM Bay Minette Public Library, 205 W 2nd St Bay Minette, AL, 36507 Story-time runs year-round at 10 a.m. Tuesdays in the Children’s Room at the Bay Minette Public Library. These stories are geared toward younger children but all are welcome.

https://cityofbayminetteal.gov/departments/library

Story time - Lap Babies (Free)

10:30 AM Daphne Public Library, 2607 US-98 Daphne, AL, 36526 Lap babies at 10:30 am (infant to 23 months) Songs, stories, puppets and more!

251-620-2500 www.daphneal.com/178/Library

Family Game Night - Spanish Fort Public Library

4:30 PM Spanish Fort Public Library, 7361 Spanish Fort Boulevard Spanish Fort, AL, 36527 Bring the family or bring your friends (or bring both!) to SFPL on Tuesday evenings! Pull up a chair and enjoy playing one of the many board and card games we have available for use.

251-410-READ www.spanishfortpubliclibrary.org

Every Wednesday

StorytimePage & Palette

10:00 AM Page & Palette, 32 S Section Street Fairhope, AL, 36532 Please join us on Wednesdays at 10:30 AM for storytime! Each week, Miss Paula share a silly story the whole family will enjoy.

251-928-5295 www.pageandpalette.com

Mommy and Me Storytime-Barnes and Noble

11:00 AM Barnes and Noble, 30500 State Hwy 181 Suite 414 Spanish Fort, AL, 36527 Come join us for Storytime Every Wednesday at 11am.

251-621-3545 https://stores.barnesandnoble.com/ store/2186

Sensory Preschool Story time

2:00 PM Daphne Public Library, 2607 US-98 Daphne, AL, 36526 Sensory Preschool Story time –Every Wednesday 2 PM (2 yrs. – 4 yrs.).

251-620-2500 www.daphneal.com/178/Library

Every third Wednesday

Observe and Explore (Free)

10:00 AM Graham Creek Natural Preserve, 23460 Wolf Bay Drive Foley, AL, 36535 The program will begin at 10:00 am with a story that fits the theme. This will be followed by a short lesson with an activity or science experiment. The program will end with a themed craft. Lessons and activities are based on elementary level concepts and skills related to nature.

251-923-4267 http://grahamcreekpreserve.org

Every Thursday

StoryStations Time - Spanish Fort Public Library

10:00 AM Spanish Fort Public Library, 7361 Spanish Fort Boulevard Spanish Fort, AL, 36527 Join Ms.Surani Thursday mornings at 10:00AM in the Spanish Fort Public Library children’s section for an interactive Storytime at the library. Thursday morning storytimes are open to all ages, however activities are structured for ages 2 - 5. years (Pre-K).

251-410-READ www.spanishfortpubliclibrary.org

Story time Preschool (Free)

10:30 AM Daphne Public Library, 2607 US-98 Daphne, AL, 36526 Story--time for 2 yrs. – 4 yrs. 251-620-2500 www.daphneal.com/178/Library

After School Book Club

3:30 PM - 4:30 PM, Daphne Public Library, 2607 US98 Daphne, AL, 36526 (Kindergarten -5th grade) www.daphneal.com/178/Library

Lego Club – MakerSpace

4:00 PM Fairhope Public Library, 501 Fairhope Avenue Fairhope, AL, 36532 Ages 8-12. Do you love LEGOs? So do we! Kids ages 8-12 can come upstairs to the MakerSpace to play, build, and compete in teams with LEGOs! A different challenge every month.

251-929-1465

Every Friday

Free Build - STEM Play (Free)

9:00 AM - 12:00 PM, Fairhope Public Library, 501 Fairhope Avenue Fairhope, AL, 36532 Ages 2 to 10 years old. Come put your creative imagination to the test! We will put out all of our legos, soft blocks, lincoln logs, picnic pieces, buckets of dinosaurs, and more. Join us in the Activity Room for Free Build every Monday and Friday from 9am - Noon.

251-929-1465 www.fairhopelibrary.org/

Every first Friday

Graham Creek Natural Preserve Guided Tours (Free) 9:00 AM Graham Creek Natural Preserve, 23460 Wolf Bay Drive Foley, AL, 36535 Call to reserve a golf cart tour of the reserve. Limit: 8 251-923-4267 http://grahamcreekpreserve.org

Every Saturday

Saturday Storytime-Barnes and Noble

11:00 AM Barnes and Noble, 30500 State Hwy 181 Suite 414 Spanish Fort, AL, 36527 stores.barnesandnoble.com/store/2186

Every third Saturday

Observe and Explore (Free)

10:00 AM Graham Creek Natural Preserve, 23460 Wolf Bay Drive Foley, AL, 36535 The program will begin at 10:00 am with a story that fits the theme. This will be followed by a short lesson with an activity or science experiment. The program will end with a themed craft. Lessons and activities are based on elementary level concepts and skills related to nature.

251-923-4267 http://grahamcreekpreserve.org

Graham Creek Natural Preserve Trail Trot (Free) Graham Creek Natural Preserve, 23460 Wolf Bay Drive Foley, AL, 36535

251-923-4267 http://grahamcreekpreserve.org

Second and fourth Sunday

Mobile Bay Maker’s Market

11:00 AM - 3:00 PM, Along Mobile Bay at The Pier, Fairhope, AL, 36532 Taking place every 2nd and 4th Sunday of the month, the Mobile Bay Maker’s Market features over 35 local artisans, farmers, and makers along the gulf coast. The event takes place just south of the Fairhope Municipal Pier. Food trucks are also on site.

Please send your calendar events to lynn@ easternshoreparents.com.

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The Most Important Nine Minutes in Your Child’s Day

I read something this week that I would like to share with you. There are nine minutes that have the greatest impact on a child’s day. They are first three minutes right after they wake up, the first three minutes when they get home from school, and the three minutes right before bed. This information hit home for me, making so much sense.

The first three minutes after a child wakes up are crucial because it’s how we set the day. What we allow into our headspace first thing in the morning truly sets our mood. We may not even realize how much we are affected.

For instance, if your child starts their day immediately with a device, they begin with blue light. They will probably spend most of their day looking at their phone or computers at school, which causes eye strain. Starting the day with blue light stresses your child’s eyes and brain. Secondly, and most importantly, what they watch first sets the tone. Watching something that is upsetting, hurtful, or frustrating can lead to your child feeling these emotions before they begin their day.

Conversely, a positive effect can be if they use their device to watch something uplifting or encouraging. For example, suppose they are meditating, reading, exercising, or listening to uplifting podcasts. In that case, these are beautiful ways to use their devices to start the day positively.

The first three minutes they get home from school are challenging as they try

and jumping into school work or chores. The last three minutes before bed are also critical because this is when your child tries to unwind from the entire day. Using a device to do this is counter-productive. Referencing back to the blue light emissions, blue light from phones triggers the brain to think it is daytime. And it will keep your child awake.

Many of our youth today struggle with insomnia for this very reason. Before bed is a crucial time to help the brain settle. Our brains need rest in order to heal and recover for the next day. If your child is on their device all night, they are sacrificing sleep and not giving their brain ample time to recover. Ideally, the device should be put away at least 30 minutes before bed. Establish a good, positive routine for the three minutes before they go to sleep.

If you have noticed your child experiencing more anxiety lately and less sleep, look at these nine minutes of their day and see if there is room for improvement. You may be surprised how much little changes in those nine minutes can make such a massive difference in the overall mood for the day!

to process the day. Home is often their safe space to let the day’s emotions start unwinding. (It is also why your kid may be a pain to you and not a nuisance to their teacher. Home is where they feel comfortable to release these emotions they may have been storing all day.) This is a great time to step away from the phone. Please encourage your child/teen to take time to decompress a bit. To let their brain rest and settle before taking on the evening

Kristi Bush serves as a national education consultant and social media safety advocate. She is a licensed social worker with greater than 15 years of clinical practice and health care experience. She attended Troy and Auburn University where she studied social work and counseling. Kristi travels nationally and has spoken with thousands of children, parents, professionals and organizations about the benefits and threats associated with social media. You may reach Kristi through her website at www.knbcommunications.com.