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Feature Articles
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Publisher’s Note Jason Watson
Overcoming Rejection
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by Candy Arrington
Rejection may be a part of life, but it’s still difficult to handle. Gain perspective to help you cope with future disappointments which are certain to come to us all.
Pastor's Perspective
Rev. Jay Wolf, First Baptist Church of Montgomery
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Dave $ays Dave Ramsey
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The Salvation Army’s Angel Tree by Rachel Fisher
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Shine
Kim Hendrix
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The Angel Tree Program blesses the needy in our community each year during this Christmas season. Find out how it works and how you can be a part of this special ministry.
Grace to You John MacArthur
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The Intersection Bob Crittenden
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Check out River Region church services and musical productions that will help you celebrate the season with Christ as your focus.
Family Teams for Christ Lisa and Mike Conn
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Counselor’s Corner Pamela Boswell
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Got Life? Elaine Britt
On Our Cover . . .
Corps Officer Becky Gilliam of the Montgomery Salvation Army, and Patty Price, current Angel Tree Coordinator, work with the community to provide Christmas gifts and food to needy families in the River Region. Find their story on page 22.
In Every Issue page 6
On the Bookshelf page 8
Around Our Community page 38
Event Calendar page 44
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We believe the Good News concerning the life, death and resurection of Jesus Christ is worth sharing with our friends and neighbors in the River Region. “Journey” magazine delivers this life-changing message throughout the community in a user-friendly and relevant way to all those seeking to grow closer to God.
Publisher’s Note
Editor DeAnne Watson deanne@readjourneymagazine.com
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Research Editor Wendy McCollum
Contributing Writers Candy Arrington Pamela Boswell Elaine Britt Lisa and Mike Conn Bob Crittenden Rachel Fisher Kim Hendrix John MacArthur Dave Ramsey Gail Welborn
Reverend Jay Wolf
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River Region’s Journey is published monthly by Keep Sharing, P.O. Box 230367, Montgomery, AL 36123. For information, call 213-7940 or FAX to 213-7990. River Region’s Journey is copyrighted 2012 by KeepSharing. All rights reserved. Reproduction in whole or part without written permission is prohibited. The opinions expressed in River Region’s Journey are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the view of the owners, nor do they constitute an endorsement of products or services herein. River Region’s Journey has the right to refuse any content that is not consistent with its statement of faith.
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An Explosion of Christmas Light It is a terrifying feeling. The storm is raging. The power is out. Your lights are off and your fear is on. But relief flies in when the lights return. Anxiety takes flight when your lights reignite! Darkness represents the enemy. God’s first words in Genesis 1:3 defeated our perennial foe when the Father commanded, “Let there be LIGHT!” And there was an explosion of darkness-shattering light that God deemed “good.” Our Creator continued to reveal Himself and the ultimate expression of His illumination is His incarnation. He loved us so much that He exchanged His robe of deity for a coat of humanity. Christmas means that “the people who have been walking in darkness have seen a great light.” (Isaiah 9:2) The birth
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of Jesus Christ brought God’s light into our perishing world and His light came to reveal, liberate, illuminate, and grow His children into His image. His light pierced my darkness. When I was a teenager, my family attended the funeral for a relative in Johnson City, Texas. The funeral home felt dark and ominous. The black casket provided for me an overwhelming affirmation that we will all face the terrifying experience of dying. At that funeral I thought about my own mortality and wondered what might happen to me after death. I began pursuing some answers to life’s most basic questions like: where did we come from, why are we here and where do we go after death. A friend encouraged me to read God’s Word. Psalm 119:105 explains, “Thy Word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.” The more I read of God’s Word, the more God’s light grew in my soul. As I continued to read the Bible and seek a personal relationship with my Creator, Jesus eventually walked out of His living Word into my open heart! The Bible calls the salvation transaction being “born again” because you are transferred from the kingdom of darkness and death into Christ’s kingdom of light and eternal life. Then you begin to learn how to walk with the Lord as “children of the light.” Remember that darkness grows FEAR which stands for the devil’s deception of “False Expectations Appearing Real.” In 4
contrast, the light grows FAITH, which stands for God’s truth of “Forsaking All I Trust Him.” God does not want you to languish in the darkness of ignorance, pollution, deceit and death! Your Creator invites you to leave the dangerous and deadly darkness and step into His life-giving light. Jesus came to shine a revealing light on the face of God through His incarnation. Jesus put on a robe of flesh so we could relate to Him. The Savior issues to you a personal invitation to come into His light when He declared, “I am the light of the world. He who walks after Me will not walk in darkness but will have the light of life.” (John 8:12) Here is your assignment: Let every light from the Christmas tree decorations to the noonday sun remind you that Jesus is the light of the world and He invites you to follow Him. Additionally, King Jesus provides you with a permanent and joyous purpose by inviting you to share His mission, “You are the light of the world. Let your light so shine among men that they may see your good works and glorify your Father who is in Heaven.” (Matthew 5:16) This Christmas season, and every day, decide to let the warm and inviting light of your character, communications, actions and reactions explode the shadows around you and provide a magnetic witness for those who want to step out of their darkness and into God’s life-giving light! Dr. Jay Wolf has served as the Pastor of Montgomery’s First Baptist Church since 1991. He and his wife, Mary Ruth, enjoy God’s blessings of four spectacular children who have acquired three delightful spouses and they have added two treasured grandchildren to the Wolfgang! Jay’s mission is to: Help People Follow Jesus!
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On The Bookshelf
by Gail Welborn
Why Christmas?
By Barbara Reaoch, Illustrated by Carol McCarty, Shepherd Press, 2012, 61 Pages, ISBN-13: 978-1936908622, $14.95
Why Christmas? teaches families and children there’s more to Christmas than Santa Claus. The devotional begins on the first day of December and ends 24 days later on Christmas Eve. Inspirational devotions bring families together for what could become an anticipated tradition. Devotions begin with a brief reading that “lead children to the Christ of Christmas.” Devotions are flexible dependent on youngster’s attention span. The first devotion is drawn from Luke 2: 8-16,where Christ’s birth is announced. The next part is a Q and A on the Scripture reading that explains what happened in the story. For example if a child asks if the shepherds were excited to see angels, the explanation is the shepherds were afraid when they saw the bright light, heavenly beings and crowded skies overhead. A simple sentence of “truth” summarizes the Scripture meaning, which for this devotion, “week one, day one,” is “Christmas is the celebration of Jesus’ birth.” With so many unchurched children in our nation, many youngsters grow up believing Santa Claus is the meaning behind Christmas, which makes it all about presents and nothing about Christ. This book counters that perfectly.
At the Feet of Jesus
by Joanna Weaver, Compiled with Angela Howard, Waterbrook Press 2012, Hardcover, 400 Pages, ISBN-13: 978-0307731005, $15.99
Joanna Weaver, pastor’s wife and bestselling author of Having a Mary Heart in a Martha World, writes about intimacy with God in her easy-to-use, 365-day devotional. She encourages readers to start each day “…at the feet of Jesus…” Finding time to do that is challenging and it’s a challenge Joanna admits she shares. Yet deep inside, many of us, like Joanna, feel our “…spirits long for time with the Lord…” in spite of life’s demands. And that is the focus of her new devotional book, where she notes it’s all about “choices and priorities” that lead to meaningful times with the Lord. The devotional ends with a unique one-year Bible reading plan that includes the Old and New Testament, books of Psalm, Isaiah and date read. This reading plan can be started any day of the year. Go to www.becominghis.com, insert the date and book you want to start with, and a printable reading plan appears. To claim God as an intimate friend requires time and attention. Consider your priorities, your choices and discover the value of one-on-one time with the Lord.
The Little Dyslexic Angel
Written and Illustrated by Robert Warrington, Gazebo Books, 2012, 62 Pages, ISBN-13: 978-0984474837, $15.95, www.gazebobooks.com/
Warrington’s imaginative children’s book is a story of God’s newest angel and the issue of dyslexia for October’s Dyslexia Awareness Week. Dyslexia became personal when Warrington’s 11-year-old niece Kelli said to him, “Today the letters finally stopped moving…!” He told her letters don’t move, but she said she only saw “…a bunch of dots, lines, and curves…” Those words planted the seeds for a children’s story that begins with an Indonesian tidal wave and a beautiful cloud-bound angel. She learns she must first discover her name and the special lesson God has prepared for her in order to earn her wings, yet she can’t read God’s message. Join the little angel’s life-changing journey and experience the reality of dyslexia from a youngster’s point-of-view. The story of encouragement illustrates faith, hope and the value of perseverance, that children aren’t alone in their struggle and they are not different like so many believe. River Region’s Journey book reviewer Gail Welborn lives in Sedro-Woolley, Washington. River Region’s Journey
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Inner City Evangelism Holds Community Outreach
Visit Montgomery’s Live Nativity Scene
Baptist Health, Faith Radio and the Wyndridge neighborhood present: A Live Nativity Scene December 15 and 16, from 5-8 pm DeBoer Building, 301 Brown Springs Rd. (Baptist East Campus) Across from Winton Blount Post Office This is a family oriented event and is free of charge. Donations are welcome. Children will be in costume and animals such as a camel, donkey, cow and sheep will be helping create the atmosphere of the nativity scene. An automated narration of the Christmas story will be playing. The community is allowed to walk up to the nativity scene to view the animals and characters. There is also a designated driving route for those wishing to stay in cars to view the event.
Inner City Evangelism is a not-for-profit ministry located in Montgomery, AL that is completely volunteer organized and run. One of the things they do as a ministry are bimonthly outreaches. Recently, an outreach event was held at Cleveland Court where volunteers met in the community at 10:30 am, and after a short set up period, enjoyed games with the children while the adults joined in on a game of Bible Bingo. After the time of fun and games they settled in for a Bible song with the kids, followed by a brief Bible message presented by one of the volunteers. At the conclusion of the message the residents were served a meal of chicken fingers, mac ‘n cheese, and apple pie with a little lemonade to wash it all down! If you would like more information about Inner City Evangelism (I.C.E.), please contact Layne Ballard at layne@innercityevangelism.com or visit their website at www.innercityevangelism.com for future outreach dates.
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Golfers Come Out for Fun, Fellowship in Support of Missions
Frazer’s “Staying On Mission” Golf Tournament is all about fun, fellowship and bringing Frazer members and other friends from the community together, but it also contributes to a greater cause which is supporting the world-changing missions’ projects of Frazer around the globe. These projects bring hope to some of the darkest corners of our planet. Proceeds from this year’s tournament are designated toward the “Miracle in the Desert,” a Child and Family Development Center in Trujillo, Peru, which will assist in meeting the basic needs of impoverished families in that community. Dozens of golfers set out on Oct. 8, in hopes of having their names engraved on The Frazer Cup. This was the fourth year for Frazer’s Staying on Mission Golf Tournament, and one of the most successful to date. “We sincerely appreciate the support of the 48 businesses, organizations and individuals who sponsored the 18 holes or provided door prizes,” said Butch McPherson, Frazer’s Director of Missions and Events. “We are already making plans for Frazer’s Fifth Annual Staying on Mission Golf Tournament, so keep Columbus Day 2013 open!”
Results of the 4th Annual Staying on Mission Golf Tournament: 1st place: Cynthia Atkinson, Karlin Beck, Steve Beck, and Ron Beers 2nd place: Boyd’s Buddies 3rd place: Gold Tees Long drive: Davis Prince Putting contest: Bob Milano Chipping contest: Jimmy Poole Ugliest Legs contest: Smokey Rigdon Volunteer missions scholarship winner: Sandra Woods
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with Kathy Troccoli, plus Patsy Clairmont & Donna VanLiere
Join the hundreds of women from Alabama to Africa whose ministries have blasted off from this powerful launching pad. Their lives have been changed forever and they are changing the world. This training will equip women to impact this generation for God by providing teaching, resources, support, opportunities for networking, a home base for future enrichment, and encouragement. Less than three years ago God gave Pastor Kemi Searcy of Fresh Anointing House of Worship the vision for WIMI and the desire to raise up an army of women to take their rightful place in God’s end time harvest of souls. Since that time classes have been held in cities in Alabama, Florida, Georgia, and Mississippi, as well as Ghana, Liberia, and Sierra Leone, Africa. When: Jan. 22-27, Weekdays 5:30 PM-9PM, Saturday 9AM-4PM, Sunday Graduation Where: Fresh Anointing House of Worship Activity Center, 203 E. Fleming Rd, Montgomery, AL 36105 For more info call Paula Stallworth (334) 613-3364 or www.womenintl.net or forwomenintl@gmail.com.
First Baptist Church, Montgomery February 15-16, 2013. When the struggles and pain of life visit us we can feel so alone. We can easily shrink back and hide in the midst of our busy lives. Whether it has been sin, shame, or just plain distance from the Lord it is there. We feel disconnected. Discouragement, weariness, even bitterness can creep into our souls and we find ourselves going through the days without the strength, faith and promise of God’s hope in our hearts.We need fresh wind in our sails--new perspective. We need to be reminded of all that is ours in Jesus. We need to be among friends. That is why this gathering is named just that. During our time together there will be rich Bible teaching, powerful stories, comedic relief and comforting music. There will also be a time of worship and prayer. Come be Among Friends—and bring yours with you, too. For more info call: 334-834-6310.
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Ten Families Have a New Home
Mary Ellen’s Hearth at Full Capacity
After less than three full months in operation, Mary Ellen’s Hearth is at full capacity, providing a home for ten resident families comprised of ten women and 13 children. Mary Ellen’s Hearth provides hope, help, and healing to these homeless women and their children through transitional housing, life skills training, and support for up to two years. The ministry opened at the Nellie Burge Community Center on August 1, 2012, and is the only facility in the River Region providing transitional assistance for homeless women and their children together as a family. Current life skills programs for residents include: Budgeting, Parenting, Cooking & Nutrition, Counseling, GED Preparation, Job Training and Interview Skills. The initial success of Mary Ellen’s Hearth has been made possible by the support of many volunteers, donors, and community agencies. Debbie Dobbins, Executive Director of Mary Ellen’s Hearth wants to continue this success, “We are excited to be helping ten families already and our goal is to expand soon to hold an additional eight families.” With an estimated 300 homeless women and children in the River Region, there is still a great need in the community. Expansion of the current facility will likely begin in early 2013. Mary Ellen’s Hearth continues the long tradition of ministries at the Nellie Burge Community Center that have served women and children in the Montgomery area since 1904. For those interested in volunteering or making a financial contribution, please visit www.nellieburge.org or contact Debbie Dobbins - Executive Director by phone at 334-264-4108 or by email at Debbie@nellieburge.org.
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Respite Care for Special Needs Parents
Frazer Purchases Four More Houses as Part of Transform Montgomery
You are invited to attend this special Sunday Respite Care Program at Young Meadows Presbyterian Church, 5780 Vaughn Road, on 1st Sundays from 4-6 pm. Children with physical and cognitive disabilities (and their siblings) ages 6-18 are invited for a time of activities and a light dinner so parents can have a night out. Call Susan Clements at 301-0355 for more information and to make a reservation, or email rooftopfriends@gmail.com.
God is continuing to open doors in the Garden Square community! Frazer completed the purchase of four more homes Nov. 12, for a total of seven houses as part of the Transform Montgomery project. Other properties, including a commercial building, are still under contract but we are hopeful to close on those properties soon. If you are part of a small group or Sunday School class who would like to spend some time working in the “Garden,” please call Community Impact Pastor Charlie Kendall at 549-2175. Volunteer teams are usually out there working every Thursday morning from around 8 to noon, and Saturdays but other times can be arranged. For more information about the Transform Montgomery project, check out our blog at transform.frazerumc.org
Santa’s Helpers Offer Free Child Care!
Santa’s Helpers at Church of the Holy Comforter. Saturday, December 8, from 10:00 am to 3:00 pm. Free child care! Drop off your kids at Holy Comforter while you shop. We will have activities for them, feed them lunch, and help your children make ornaments. When you get back, we’ll help you wrap gifts for free! Bring your camera for a stress-free picture with Santa. Every child will go home with a dozen fresh-baked cookies. Ages 2 – 12. 2911 Woodley Road, under the water tower off the Southern Bypass. For more information, call 281-1337.
Centerpoint Fellowship Church at Pike Road Join us for a celebration of God’s goodness through praise and worship, followed by a life-applicable Bible-based teaching by senior pastor John Schmidt via video. Come casual and enjoy our service that starts at 9:30 a.m. every Sunday at the Jim Wilson YMCA at New Park. Nursery and children’s program provided.
For more information contact our office at (334) 356-3076 or visit our website at centeringlives.com
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For tickets, call 334.241.5156 or order online at www.montgomeryfbc.org No offering will be taken during the presentation. $5 per ticket suggested.
Celebrating the Joy of Christmas 305 South Perry Street | Montgomery, AL 36104 | 334.834.6310 | www.montgomeryfbc.org
Christmas Eve Candlelight Worship You are invited to this very special experience for the entire family.
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Q. My wife and I want to do a live-in/
flip real estate purchase. The idea is to buy a fixer-upper and rent out the basement to help with the mortgage payments. What do you think about the idea?
A. I love real estate. I’ve flipped a
few houses in my day too. But the particulars of the deal make me a little nervous. In a situation like this you need to do a basic business analysis. You’ve got to have a plan and figure out the worst case scenario. Part of this is determin-
ing whether or not you can survive if things fall apart. In this case, the worst case is that you can’t get a renter and the house doesn’t sell. It puts your family in jeopardy if this happens, so to me it’s not an option. Honestly, I think you’ve got house fever right now. The possibility I just mentioned isn’t a rare occurrence. Lots of people have had the same idea, with the best of intentions, and still end up in a big mess. But if you and your wife are willing to accept the possibility of things not working out like you planned—and the fact that you might have to take additional jobs for an un-
known period of time just to make ends meet—then it might be a play. Me? I don’t like putting myself into skinof-my-teeth positions intentionally. When I wore a younger man’s clothes, I was willing to do stuff and ignore the risk involved. Going broke years ago knocked that out of me in a hurry. Any deal that runs the risk of leaving you bankrupt, or the victim of a foreclosure, just isn’t worth it!
Q. I just turned 57 and have been researching long-term care policies. Is there a point where you can self-insure for long-term care needs without a policy? A.
Mathematically, I’d say you could safely self-insure if you have the resources available to support your care in a nursing home or other facility for 25 years. Of course, if you’re married you have to think about your spouse and make sure she has enough to live on comfortably at the same time. That’s a lot of money. In my mind, it’s a large enough bill that it makes sense to transfer the risk to a long-term care insurance policy. The simple truth is most people won’t have enough money to self-insure for that kind of thing when the time comes. If you have $20 million liquid sitting around, then you could easily set aside $2 to $3 million for long-term care and still be in great shape. But I advise virtually everyone to have good, long-term care coverage in place by age 60. For many folks, it can make the difference between living with dignity and having to depend on the government. And that’s not something I ever want to do for anything—especially not my healthcare!
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Devon walked away from the list posted on the board outside the drama classroom. Once again, he’d been bypassed. Oh, he’d be in several crowd scenes, but he’d auditioned for a lead role in the play, and Samuel had gotten the part. Samuel always got the lead. “I don’t know why they even bother having auditions,” Devon muttered. “They cast the same people for the lead roles every time.” Whether a disappointment over not being selected, a lost friendship, or a romantic breakup, we’ve all encountered some form of rejection. Being excluded is an awful feeling that can negatively shape our perspective on life, if we allow it to. But there are ways to move beyond rejection. We start by considering some key elements. River Region’s Journey
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Acknowledge Feelings. When rejec-
tion comes, it hurts, and there is no use denying the emotions you feel—anger, frustration, sadness. In fact, denying these emotions makes it harder to overcome rejection and can cause bitterness. If you find yourself constantly complaining to others about the fact that you weren’t selected, about a person who hurt you, or the unfairness of life, you probably need to spend some time in prayer. Tell God how you feel, why you are angry, and how much you dislike what happened. Jesus understands the hurt associated with rejection because he was rejected. (Isaiah 53:3) Then ask Him to help you move beyond the painful feelings. Focus on the blessings in your life. Rejection doesn’t mean you will 16
never have other opportunities, but if you allow yourself to obsess about what happened and rehearse angry things you wish you could say, you risk becoming the kind of toxic person no one wants to be around.
Admit Limitations. It’s hard to
acknowledge we have weaknesses, but we all do. First Corinthians 12 reminds us we have different gifts and talents. We are individual members that combine to form a unit and make up the Body of Christ. If we could do everything well, we wouldn’t need each other or God, and realizing we have limitations keeps us humble. God wants us to depend on each other and on Him. We were not designed to know it all and do it all,
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Trust God – God promises he won’t reject our prayers or withhold his love. Review successes – Remember the times you’ve been successful. Count blessings – Recall the ways God has blessed you. Practice patience – Seek God and wait for Him to act on your behalf. Look forward – Face the future with expectancy rather than dwelling on the past. Embrace heritage – As Christians, we’ve been adopted into the family of God and are joint heirs with Christ. although the world often makes us feel that should be our goal.
difficult to rejoice with someone else’s successes, especially when that person isn’t a Christian. It just doesn’t seem fair, does it? But Psalm 37:7 says, “Be still in the presence of the Lord, and wait patiently for him to act. Don’t worry about evil people who prosper or fret about their wicked schemes.”
(NLT) cautions us not to think more highly of ourselves than we should, but to honestly evaluate our motives. Ego is a big problem for most of us because we like the feelings recognition and fame produce. But any time we’re more focused on ourselves than on others or God we’re in the perfect position for Satan to use us. Being aware of the power of ego helps us fight against the devil’s schemes.
Anticipate Ego. It’s part of human nature to crave attention, but that doesn’t mean you can’t look beyond what you want to have happen and think you deserve. God may allow certain events in your life to mold you spiritually or cultivate humility. In this sense, humility doesn’t mean humiliation. God doesn’t want you to feel worthless, but rather have a proper perspective on self. My grandmother used to warn, “Don’t get the big head.” For years I didn’t understand what she meant, but later, I realized her warning was against thinking you were too important. Romans 12:3
View Rejection Through a Wide Lens. At some point, everyone experiences
rejection. But you don’t have to allow it to shape your self-worth and determine how you act and react from now on. Although they feel major at the time, rejections are just a blip on the radar screen of your life. Try to have a broad overview, realizing there are high and low points in everyone’s life and trust that God will work things out for your good if you are patient and focused on Him. Don’t mark yourself as a failure and give half effort because you think it doesn’t matter or you’ll never be chosen. Continue to do everything to the best of your ability for an audience of One—God. Candy Arrington is a contributing writer.
Realize Others are Qualified.
After Jesus’ death, his followers returned to Jerusalem and gathered in an upper room. Peter announced they needed to replace Judas, the apostle who betrayed Jesus and later died. Justus and Matthias were nominated. The disciples prayed for direction, cast lots (a practice that was common at the time), and Matthias was selected to become one of the twelve apostles. (Acts 1:12-26) I’ve often wondered how Justus felt. Surely he was disappointed, perhaps even angry, but scripture doesn’t provide an account of his response. I believe he responded in a manner characteristic of those who were part of the early church, that he understood the importance of unity and oneness for the sake of the common good. It takes a level of maturity to think this way. Just because others are selected doesn’t mean the ones not chosen aren’t worthy. God may give you a job, position, or ability that is less visible, but is suited for your personality and His kingdom. People connect with different personality types and your quiet example may have more impact on others than those in the spotlight. You may have the opportunity to minister more to one person than someone who stands before a crowd. But it’s really 17
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The Gift of Giving 2 Corinthians 8: 10-12: “And here is my advice about what is best for you in this matter: Last year you were the first not only to give but also to have the desire to do so. Now finish the work, so that your eager willingness to do it may be matched by your completion of it, according to your means. For if the willingness is there, the gift is acceptable according to what one has, not according to what he does not have.” Are you a giver? This time of year most of us are as we celebrate the birth of our Lord and Savior. But what about during the other 11 months of the year—are you giving? I recently had the pleasure of visiting with Coach Gene Stallings, the legendary former coach of Alabama and Texas A&M.
He came to town to help raise money for two organizations that reach out to children in need. Coach Stallings is 77 years old yet he keeps a speaking and appearance schedule that would wear out someone much younger! During his formal speech he shared very personal stories of being with his son Johnny in his final moments. Johnny died at the age of 46 from complications due to Down Syndrome. Coach Stallings shared how those moments led him to a season of no complaints. He shared personal stories of what he did to make sure his four daughters married godly men with a good work ethic. As he told us with a grin, “You know you can build a fence even when you don’t need one.” Coach Stallings would take any prospective bride groom out on his ranch for several hours to see what sort
of work ethic they had before giving them a thumbs up or telling his daughter to “cut him loose!” He shared how he’s helping to build a hospital in Haiti and how that brings him more joy and excitement than wining a National Championship. Coach Stallings and his wife Ruth Ann live on a ranch in Texas—in fact, during his time with us he was taking phone calls regarding “moving cattle” the very next day! So why does he do it? Why does he visit two or three cities in a week, waking up
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early to catch planes and talking with strangers who want to know more than they probably should? Sure he gets paid as a speaker, but spend a little time with Coach Stallings and you quickly realize he keeps going, he keeps giving of himself, because he feels it’s the right thing to do. As he told us, “If you can do something to help someone else, then do it!”
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Coach Stallings is a giver. Dr. John Ed Mathison or “John Ed” as he’s known around the world, served 36 years as the Senior Pastor at Frazer Memorial United Methodist Church in Montgomery. He retired about four and a half years ago at the mandatory age of 70, but said the word “retirement” isn’t in the Bible so he had no plans to stop working in the ministry. He formed John Ed Mathison Leadership Ministries and travels around the nation and world mentoring young church leaders. John Ed serves as Pastor Emeritus at Frazer, a title he says means, “When one of our regular preachers wants a day off, then I’m called on to preach!” For those of us at Frazer and in this community, it means much more. It means a man who’s given so much already still has a strong desire to do more. We know he’s always eager to share the “good news” and will step forward when he sees a need. John Ed is a giver. In the 8th chapter of 2 Corinthians, Paul is encouraging the Corinthian believers to excel in the grace of giving. He’s using the example of the giving spirit of the impoverished Macedonian churches to explain that sincere giving is an overflow of God’s love in our lives. These churches had very little yet their giving was sacrificial and generous. That’s how Paul advised the Corinthians and all of us to live. 2 Corinthians 8:14: “At the present time your plenty will supply what they need, so that in turn their plenty will supply what you need.” Sometimes we spend money on gifts and wrap them up beautifully and present them to others—those can be heartwarming, meaningful and fun. But during this season of giving I pray that I will always be a giver of my time and whatever talent the Lord has given me in order to encourage others to know our Savior and experience an eternal life. Be thankful for the givers in your life and ask God to give you a sincere desire to allow his love to flow out generously through a giving spirit.
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Dear Heavenly Father, Thank you for the amazing gift of your son Jesus Christ. We celebrate his birth with a great sense of joy and a deep feeling of humility. May we allow your love within us to touch others through a generous and sincere giving spirit. In the precious name of your son Jesus Christ we pray, Amen. Kim Hendrix is the Director of Development at Saint James School in Montgomery. She leads the Shine Your Light ministry at Frazer Memorial U.M.C. and recently ended a 26 year career in television news. Kim and her husband Scott, have a 12 year old daughter, Annie, who brings them great joy.
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The Christian’s Work Ethic Servants, be submissive to your masters with all respect, not only to those who are good and gentle, but also to those who are unreasonable. For this finds favor, if for the sake of conscience toward God a person bears up under sorrows when suffering unjustly. For what credit is there if, when you sin and are harshly treated, you endure it with patience? But if when you do what is right and suffer for it you patiently endure it, this finds favor with God. For you have been called for this purpose.
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It should be of little consequence to believers what their circumstances are in the workplace, whether they are chief executive officers or custodians, whether they receive a substantial pay raise or settle for a salary cut so the company can stay solvent. The factor of overarching significance is that they main-
tain their testimony before the watching world of sinners (cf. Matt. 5:15–16; Mark 4:21; Phil. 2:14–16), and in the workplace that occurs when believers labor with an awareness of God’s glory. Such awareness is the motivation not only for godly behavior and submission on the job, but also for trusting in God’s sovereignty in every situation. Undoubtedly, many recipients of this epistle endured painful and unjust beatings as slaves. Their masters might have deprived them of food, forced them to work unreasonably long hours, or punished them unfairly in a variety of ways. Unlike modern-day employees in Western industrialized countries, those slaves had no one to turn to for redress of grievances—no union representatives, no government boards or ombudsmen to settle disputes, and no way to file civil lawsuits.
They just had to endure whatever painful and difficult circumstances their masters imposed on them—and they did so, much to the glory and honor of God (Matt. 5:10; 2 Thess. 1:4–5; James 5:11), which evidenced their heavenly perspective. Peter pressed his argument with a negative rhetorical question, followed by a positive statement. The implied answer to his question, For what credit is there if, when you sin and are harshly treated, you endure it with patience? is, “There is no credit.” Believers who sin deserve chastening (Ps. 66:18; Jer.
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5:25; Dan. 9:8; Heb. 12:5–11), and they ought to endure it with patience. On the other hand, Peter offered the positive assertion, But if when you do what is right and suffer for it you patiently endure it, this finds favor with God. When the believing slaves did what was right some still had to suffer for it, even to the extent of being harshly treated as if they really deserved punishment. This indicates that, among various forms, harsh treatment came physically, by means of repeated, hard blows with the fists or instruments (cf. Mark 14:65). Perhaps some were punished because of their Christian convictions. Again, those who endured such suffering patiently found favor or grace with God. It always pleases Him to see believers faithfully accept and deal with any adversity (3:14; 4:14, 16; Matt. 5:11–12; 1 Cor. 4:11–13; 2 Cor. 12:9–10; James 1:12). Peter concluded this section with the amazing statement at the beginning of verse 21, For you have been called for this purpose. Have been called refers to the efficacious salvation call (1:15; 5:10; Rom. 8:28, 30; 9:24; 1 Cor. 1:9; Gal. 1:6, 15; Eph. 4:1, 4). As soon as the Holy Spirit calls people from darkness to light, they become an enemy of the world (John 15:18–19; 1 John 3:13) and a target of unjust and unfair attack as they seek to obey Christ. Paul told Timothy, “Indeed, all who desire to live godly in Christ Jesus will be persecuted” (2 Tim. 3:12; cf. Mark 10:30; John 15:20; 16:33). It is more important to God that those who are citizens of heaven display a faithful testimony, marked by spiritual integrity, than that they strive to attain all their perceived rights in this world. It is more important to God for believers to uphold the credibility of gospel power than to obtain a raise or promotion in their vocation. It is ultimately far more important to God that believers demonstrate their submission to His sovereignty in every area of life than that they protest against problems at their workplace. Whenever believers encounter trials on the job, they ought to view them as opportunities for spiritual growth and evangelism. The chief reason God allows believers to remain in this world is so He might use them to win the lost and thereby bring glory to His name. Those who suffer with the right attitude will be blessed in this life and honored later in the Lord’s presence. Widely known for his thorough, candid approach to teaching God’s Word, John MacArthur is a fifthgeneration pastor, a popular author and conference speaker, and has served as pastor-teacher of Grace Community Church in Sun Valley, California since 1969. John and his wife, Patricia, have four grown children and fifteen grandchildren. John’s pulpit ministry has been extended around the globe through his media ministry, Grace to You. 21
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The Salvation Army’s ANGEL TREE Provides Christmas Blessings to the Needy
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Whether or not you have children of your own, it’s hard to overlook the giddy grins and sheer excitement that illuminates from them during this time of year. For most of us, the children we know will have full stockings and bellies, not to mention a Christmas tree bursting with gifts they can’t wait to unwrap on December 25th. To imagine a Christmas where gifts and a full plate of food are an uncertainty is difficult, but the truth is that for many children and their families it is their reality. The Salvation Army doesn’t want Christmas morning to be just like any other morning for these families. This Christmas, in the River Region alone, thousands of families will be blessed by the Salvation Army and their long standing Angel Tree program. For over 30 years, the Angel Tree program has given an opportunity for people to help local families and children in need during the holidays by providing gifts for them. In 1979, Majors Charles and Shirley White were working with the Salvation Army in Lynchburg, Virginia. They wanted to provide clothing and toys for children in need and decided to start by gathering greeting cards with photographs of angels and having children write inside what their needs were. The cards were then placed on a Christmas tree at a local shopping mall where shoppers would stop, take a card and bring the gift and card back to the tree. That year, 700 children were able to have a Christmas that wouldn’t be like “every other morning.” Over time, the idea of the “Angel Tree” caught
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Participating Hardees Locations: 1115 Coliseum Blvd, Montgomery 334-271-1038 5101 Vaughn Rd, Montgomery 334-270-8557
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2715 Taylor Rd, Montgomery 334-272-2004 906 Ann St, Montgomery 34-262-0650 1183 West South Blvd, Montgomery 334-281-7367 1041 Perry Hill Rd, Montgomery 334-244-8989
Angel Trees are also located at all area Wal-Mart locations.
On December 18th, the families will come to the distribution center on McGehee Road and pick up the gifts that caring individuals have given to each of these children. Becky explains that this year they will also be handing out food and stuffed stockings to the families along with the Angel Tree gifts. “All of the families are so grateful,” explains Patty. “They come with tears in their eyes knowing their children wouldn’t get anything for Christmas if it wasn’t for this opportunity.”
Volunteer Opportunities
Throughout the year, and especially at Christmas, the Salvation Army relies heavily on volunteers. Businesses, organizations, clubs, individuals and families are needed even now for the work that is to be done this Christmas and beyond! Becky says two of the most popular ways to serve are at the Soup Kitchen where they serve lunch daily or at the kettle ringing the bell and collecting donations that go to not only support the Angel Tree Program, but all of the other ways the Salvation Army is serving our community. There is also a need for volunteers on the day of the Distribution of Angel Tree gifts to the families. To find out how you can be involved in serving with the Salvation Army, contact Becky at becky_gilliam@uss.salvationarmy. org or by calling 334.313.5382. Rachel Fisher loves to hear about what God is doing in our community and write about it. She and her husband, Chase, are members of Strong Tower at Washington Park, a church plant of Common Ground Montgomery.
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Montgomery Aldersgate UMC Christmas Events
6610 Vaughn Road, Montgomery Saturday, December 1, 9 a.m. – 4 p.m.; 2nd Annual Fair Trade Holiday Market Sunday, December 2, 4:00 p.m. – 7:00 p.m.; Family Advent Adventure and Chrismon Service. Crafts and fun activities for the family. Sunday, December 9, 11:00 a.m. Christmas Musical Drama Sunday, December 16, 6:00 p.m., Praise Singers Concert and Sing-a-long Carols. Call for reservations. Saturday, December 24, 5 p.m. Christmas Eve Service Communion, Carols and Candlelight For more information call the Aldersgate music ministry office at 272-6152.
CenterPoint Fellowship
One service at the Pike Road location Dec 24, 2012 at 4:30pm Jim Wilson YMCA, 1445 Wilson Park Drive. Please visit our website for more information - www.centeringlives.com.
Christchurch
Candlelight Harpischord Chamber Concert Wednesday, December 12; 6 to 8 p.m. Christchurch, 8800 Vaughn Rd. You are invited to Christchurch’s free concert of sacred and secular music. The 45-minute performance will feature instrumental and vocal pieces performed by the church’s River Region’s Journey
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chancel choir and soloists from the church as well as outside professionals. The free concert in the church’s sanctuary will begin at 6 p.m. It will be followed by a champagne and dessert reception in the parish hall. Reception tickets, which are $20 each, are available by calling 334387-0566. Proceeds from the reception will benefit the Christchurch Pipe Organ Fund.
Dalraida United Methodist Church
3817 Atlanta Hwy, 272-2190 Christmas Cantata December 9th at 11 a.m. Christmas at the Keyboard Concert December 16 at 4:00 p.m. in the sanctuary
Eastern Hills Baptist Church
8th Annual “Hanging of the Green” Sunday, December 2, 3 p.m. until 6 p.m. Also featuring: Youth Choirs, Drama, Celebration Ringers (hand bells), Ensemble, Narration, Interpretive Movement and more. Come help us ring in the Christmas season celebrating the hope found in the Christ Child! Come early for a good seat – No admission charge. 3604 Pleasant Ridge Road, Montgomery, AL (in the Forest Hills neighborhood) Call 334-2720604 ext. 214 or visit us online, www. ehbconline.com.
First Presbyterian Church
9299 Vaughn Road, Pike Rd Christmas Eve Candlelight Worship Service 5:00 p.m. Communion Join us as we celebrate the birth of our 24
2416 West Cloverdale Park, 834-8990 Hanging of the Greens Sunday, December 2, at 4:00 p.m. Come with unwrapped toys or monetary gifts for families in need as we dress our Sanctuary for the Season of Advent, and stay afterwards for a “Soup”er Supper in the Fellowship Hall. Festival of Christmas Concert Sunday, December 16, at 4:00 p.m. Our annual concert featuring our music ministry and a professional orchestra Longest Night Service Wednesday, December 19, at 6:00 p.m. A service of hope and healing in the Sanctuary Christmas Eve Services Monday, December 24 Noon, 3:30 p.m., 5:00 p.m., and 7:00 p.m.
Frazer Memorial UMC
“My Favorite Christmas Card” in Wesley Hall, December 15 and 16 at 7 p.m. Frazer presents this community wide production, Christmas Theatre. Fun for the entire family! Please call 334-2728622 or visit www.frazerumc.org. Candlelight Worship December 24 at 5 p.m. in Sanctuary and 7 p.m. in Wesley Hall
First Baptist Church
“The Living Christmas Tree” First Baptist Church, 305 South Perry St. December 7 at 7 p.m., December 8 at 4 and 7 p.m., December 9 at 4 and 7 p.m. Tickets available by calling 241-5156 or order online at www.montgomeryfbc.org
Gateway Baptist Church
3300 Bell Road, 272-9494 Candlelight Service and Communion December 24th at 5 p.m.
Lakeview Baptist Church
9225 Atlanta Highway The Heart of Christmas Special Christmas Musical Performance Sunday, December 9, 10:45 am Carols and Communion by Candlelight Monday, December 24, 6 pm Call 213-3080 for details.
Pilgrim Rest Missionary Baptist
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Saint James United Methodist Church
Behold the Lamb of God December 11th at 7 p.m. Behold the Lamb of God is a collection of songs about Jesus. Since 2000, Andrew Peterson and his friends have performed Behold the Lamb around the country, telling again and again this “true myth”, as C.S. Lewis called it, this tale that’s bigger than life, but is—astonishingly—true. Tickets can be purchased at St. James United Methodist, Itickets and Evangelism Tickets. Please call 277-3037 for info.
Vaughn Forest Church
The Sounds of Christmas Presented in Free Concert Everyone in the River Region is invited to attend a free Christmas concert presented by the Capital Sounds Concert Band with Vaughn Forest Church Celebration Choir on Thursday, December 1, 2011 at 7:00 p.m. Hear the sounds of some of the most beautiful Christmas music arrangements; White Christmas, A Christmas Festival,
Ava Maria, Hallelujah Chorus and much more. The concert will take place at Vaughn Forest Church at 8660 Vaughn Road in East Montgomery. For more information please contact 334-277-0362 (Mary James Newsome).
pears and watch the Wise Men make their way to the trough where Jesus lay. See Him on the Cross and then the glorious Empty Tomb. Admission is free. For more information contact 334-365-7500.
Prattville
138 South Washington St, 365-0606 The Best Christmas Pageant Ever Sunday, December 2nd at 5:30 p.m. in the Worship Center. Presented by The Children of First Baptist. Admission is FREE. Carols by Candlelight Sunday, December 16 at 6 p.m. Christmas Eve Service Monday, December 24 at 4 p.m. and 6 p.m.
Centerpoint Fellowship
Candle Light Services Three services at the Prattville location - Dec 24, 2012 at 3:00pm, 4:30pm and 6:00pm. Marriott Conference Center, 2500 Legends Circle. Call 356-3076 or visit our website for more information www.centeringlives.com.
East Memorial Baptist Church
“A Living Nativity, The Gift” Saturday and Sunday; December 15th and 16th, 5:30 to 8:30 p.m. 1320 Old Ridge Road. The public is invited to experience the birth, death and resurrection of our Lord Jesus Christ at a drive-through Living Nativity. Come be counted for the census in Bethlehem, pass through the Town and see the Inn where Joseph and Mary find no room. See the Shepherds in the field where the Angel ap-
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Hunter Hills Church
The King’s Praise Ballet presents “Creation’s Promise” Friday, December 14th at 7 pm and Saturday, December 15th at 4 pm Creation’s Promise tells the story of Creation to Christ. You won’t want to miss this amazing presentation, giving perspective to the Christmas season! Admission is free! For more information, call 285-7357 or visit www.KingsPraiseBallet.com.
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Advent-ure There has been this frequent struggle that ensues this time of the year over the amount of commercialism that we allow into our Christmas celebration. We say that we desire a simpler holiday celebration and try to keep the focus on our Savior’s birth, but we end up getting caught up in the shopping frenzy and the age-old questions about what we’re going to give the kids for Christmas, what sort of tie we’re going to buy for the dad who has everything, where we’re going to spend Christmas Eve, Christmas Day, the week after Christmas, and so on and so forth. Christmas is fraught with decisions, and some of them are just part of the ebb and flow of the season. But, per-
haps you get an overwhelming feeling that you want to clear your head and let all the “Christmas” drain out. Where is the peace in the pandemonium? Can we really experience His presence amidst the presents? I don’t even pretend to have all the answers, but I will tell you that if we were to integrate the concept of Advent into our Christmas celebration, I think we’d be better off. The word “Advent” is taken from the Latin word “adventus”, that means “coming”. A celebration of Advent is a time to reflect on the coming of our Savior. The traditional view of Advent involves a wreath with four candles, each of which represents some aspect
of Jesus’ birth, and a large candle in the middle. One of the more common representations for the candles includes: prophecy, Bethlehem, shepherds, and angels, with the center candle being the Christ candle, lit on Christmas Day. Commonly, you will gather those in your home together and engage perhaps in an Advent reading, and maybe even some carol singing. There are many books that offer readings, or devotional thoughts. In our home, our personal fa-
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Our family has used what are called “prophecy boxes” in our home – 25 small boxes containing a piece of paper on which is written a prophecy about the coming of Jesus. The study of and relating of Bible prophecy concerning the coming of Jesus can provide compelling evidence that can reinforce our faith. If you have younger children and time permits, a family reading time each day (or at least once a week) leading up to Christmas can provide an effective pause from the hectic pace. I believe there are many ways to celebrate Advent, in order to facilitate a spiritual Advent-ure during the Christmas season. You just have to find what’s right for you. The point is that this season, which is such a blessing because of how God has blessed us with the gift of His only Son, can turn into a curse if we are not careful to place the emphasis in the right place. If we are not intentional to plan time to spend with God, concentrating on His truth and the fullness of His love, then this season that bears His name can lose its meaning for us. If
you wake up on December 26th and think, “I’m glad that’s over”, then maybe you’ve missed what God has in store for you. I believe that personal time with God, practical times of service to others, passionate worship to the One who gave Himself so that we might enjoy His gifts, and the proclamation of the gospel message to a world that desperately needs to experience the good news of Christ’s coming, are essential components of a rewarding Christmas celebration. For each of us, we have been given a wonderful gift! We can experience the living God like never before. So, don’t allow yourself to be deluded – make this Christmas an adventure that you will not soon forget.
Bob Crittenden is host of “The Meeting House”, heard weekday afternoons from 4-6pm on Faith Radio, 89.1FM in Montgomery. Described as “the intersection of faith and culture”, the program features Christian music and conversation about a variety of topics. Learn more by visiting www. meetinghouseonline.info.
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River Region Support Groups Adoption
Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy APAC- Alabama Pre/Post Adoption Connection Support Group meets the 3rd Thursday from 6:007:30pm in room 8253 at Frazer Memorial UMC. Provides education and social interaction for adoptive families. For more info, call 409-9477 or email apac2@childrensaid.org.
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Location: Landmark Church, 1800 Halcyon Blvd. Leaders: Chad & Betsy Emerson (334) 201-5241 Wednesday, 6:30pm in Rm. 116. The Orphan Care Group will focus on God’s call to help orphans through adoption, foster care, and missions work. The group will share experiences, study and Biblical themes regarding orphan care, and provide a support and interest network for individuals who want to support orphans.
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Location: Caring Center of FBC, 52 Adams Avenue CrossRoads Support Group is for addicts/alcoholics and family members. Meets at 6 p.m. Tuesdays and follows a Christ-centered 12-step program. Call 264-4949. Location: Centerpoint Fellowship, 2050 Commerce St., Millbrook. We are located one block east of I-65 just off Cobbs Ford Road. Celebrate Recovery meeting every Tuesday night at 6 pm. Call (334) 356-3076. Location: Cloverdale Baptist, 608 E. Fairview Celebrate Recovery, a Bible-based Christ centered approach to recovery from hurts, habits and hangups, meets Friday nights, beginning with dinner at 5:30 p.m., Praise and worship, 6:30, Open Share Small Groups, 7:30, and Solid Rock Cafe, at 8:30. Call 265-9223. Location: Dalraida UMC, 3817 Atlanta Highway Alcoholics Anonymous meets at 6 p.m. on Tuesdays. 272.2190. Alanon meets at 6 p.m. on Wednesdays. Location: Grace @ Bell Road, Corner of Bell Road and Atlanta Hwy. Alcoholics Anonymous and Alanon meetings are held Monday, Tuesday, Thursday, and Friday, at 6 p.m. An Open AA Speaker meeting is held on Saturday at 6 p.m. An Alanon & AA held on Sundays at 2 p.m. Location: Grace Point Community Church, 78223 Tallassee Hwy (Hwy 14), Wetumpka Celebrate Recovery- every Tuesday night- 6:15pm. All are welcome! These meetings are a safe and loving environment for individuals seeking to conquer their hurts, habits and hang-ups! gracepoint.info. Location: Journey Church, group meets in Fellowship Hall at Coosada Baptist Church, Millbrook Celebrate Recovery - Christ-centered 12-step for anyone struggling with addiction or life-challenging issues. Mondays at 6pm (meal), 7pm (large group), 8pm (small group). Childcare available. Call Chuck at 850-723-9705. River Region’s Journey
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Location: Santuck Baptist Church, 7250 Central Plank Rd. (Hwy 9), Wetumpka. Celebrate Recovery meets each Thursday evening at 6:15 in the Fellowship Hall. This is a Chrsit centered 12 step-program for anyone struggling with hurts, habits, and hangups. Call 567-2364. Location: Landmark Church, 1800 Halcyon Blvd. RSVP- This is a 12 step spiritual recovery program for overcoming addictions. Using the steps and Bible we help build self-esteem, responsible behavior, the making of amends for our destructive actions, and to fill the void in our hearts in a loving relationship with God. Wednesday @ 6:30pm in Rm. 121 of the Life Center. Location: St. James UMC, 9045 Vaughn Road Celebrate Recovery meets every Thursday night from 6-8 pm in the Youth Room. This is a Christ-centered 12-step group for anyone struggling with an “addiction or life-challenging issues.” For information, call Chris Henderson at 334-215-0427. Location: Trinity Episcopal, Wetumpka (Across from Winn Dixie on HWY 231) Gamblers Anonymous-Saturdays at 7 p.m.
Alzheimer’s / Dementia
Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy An Alzheimer’s and Dementia Caregivers’ Support Group meets on the first Thursday of each month at 11 a.m. in Room 3103. Call 272.8622. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy A Dementia Daycare is held each Thursday in Rm. 3101 from 9:30 a.m. to 12 p.m. Each participant may 28
bring a sack lunch. There is no charge. REGISTRATION IS REQUIRED. For info, call the LifeCare office at 272-8622.
Cancer
Location: Dalraida Baptist, 3838 Wares Ferry Road. Just for Men -- Montgomery’s first and only faith based cancer support group for men is intent on providing information, Christian fellowship, and helping turn adversity into prosperity. Meetings are held the third Tuesday of each month at 6 p.m. in the fellowship hall. Please call 272-2412 email cancerpatient@ bellsouth.net. Location: ChristChurch, 8800 Vaughn Road Cancer Support Group for general cancer. Tuesday afternoons at 1 pm. For more info, please call Christy Holding at 531-1390 or Debbie at 467-4578. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Women of Hope Breast Cancer Support Group, providing education, awareness, and mentoring for breast cancer patients/survivors, family, friends or anyone interested in becoming a part of this compassionate journey, meets the 2nd Tuesday of each month at 5:30 p.m. in Rm 8253. Call 272-8622 or womenofhope@charter.net.
Depression
Location: Landmark Church, 1800 Halcyon Blvd. Leaders: Mike & Suzanne Greene (334-271-3331) Every other Tuesday, 6:30pm in Rm. 117. Goal is to create an atmosphere of acceptance and trust, where people can feel free and safe to discuss their feelings and thoughts without shame or embarrassment.
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Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy A Depression/Bipolar Support Group meets on the 1st Thursday of each month from 7:00-8:30pm in Room 3101. This group also meets on the 3rd Saturday afternoon, 12-2 pm, Dalraida UMC, 3817 Atlanta Highway in Church Annex. For more info, call 334.652.1431 or email dbsamontgomery@ yahoo.com.
Divorce
Location: First Baptist Church, 305 S. Perry Street Divorce Care and Divorce Care 4 Kids, Wednesdays starting August 22, 6:30 pm. Cost $15.00 (scholarships available) Contact Kathy Cooper at kcooper@ montgomeryfbc.org or 334-241-5125. Location: First UMC, 100 E. Fourth Street, Prattville Divorce Recovery meets Wednesdays at 6:15 p.m., Bldg. 101. Call 365.5977. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy A Divorce Recovery Support Group meets each Tuesday, at 5:30 p.m., in Fellowship Hall Lobby. 272-8622. Location: Heritage Baptist Church, 1849 Perry Hill Divorce Care Support Group meetings are held Sundays at 6:15 p.m. Divorce Care for Children also at this time. Call 279.9976. Grief Share groups are held each Sunday at 5 p.m. Call 279.9976. Location: Vaughn Park Church, 3800 Vaughn Road A Divorce Recovery group meets on Wednesday nights, from 7 to 8 p.m. Children’s classes available. Call 386-7295.
Grief
Location: Eastmont Baptist, 4505 Atlanta Hwy. Compassionate Friends is a national self-help support organization for families grieving the death of a child meeting first Tuesdays at 7 pm. We have an annual special event on Tuesday, Dec. 4. We will hold a Candlelight Ceremony in memory of our children at 7 p.m. at Eastmont Baptist Church. Registration is encouraged and may be made by calling (334) 2842721. We will also collect Toys for Tots. Location: First UMC, 100 E. Fourth St, Prattville Grief Recovery, Thursday nights at 7 p.m., in Wesley Hall Room 104. Call 365.5977. Location: Frazer UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Grief Recovery Support Group meets Tuesdays at 5:30 p.m., Rm 3105, in Fellowship Hall Lobby. 272.8622. Location: Pilgrim Rest Missionary Baptist Church 1550 E. Washington Street Grief Ministry is a grief recovery support group that meets every Monday at 6:00 P.M. The ministry is designed to help anyone through the hurt of losing a loved one by successfully traveling the journey from mourning to joy. Alicia Glover is the coordinator. For more information contact Glover at 334-281-2754.
Homosexuality
Location: Landmark Church, 1800 Halcyon Blvd. The Barnabas Group, created to address the needs of those in conflict with homosexual thoughts and feelings meets first, third and fifth Tuesday evenings at 6:30 p.m., in the library at the Life Center. 277.5800.
Mental Illness
Location: Dalraida UMC, 3817 Atlanta Highway 1. Beginning January 28, 2013, NAMI Montgomery will host General Membership meetings on the 4th Monday of the month at the Dalraida UMC annex building. Meeting starts at 6:30 p.m. This meeting is open to anyone who is interested in issues concerning mental health. 2. The NAMI Montgomery Family Member Support Group continues to meet on the 2nd Monday of the month, starting at 6:30 p.m. at the Dalraida UMC annex building. Call Mary Jo Logan (271-2280) for directions/details. 3. Beginning in February, 2013 NAMI Montgomery will offer the 12 week NAMI FAMILY TO FAMILY education program (free) on Thursdays from 6-8 p.m. at the Bell Road Lowder Regional Library. Call Mary Jo Logan (271-2280) to register for the course.
Parenting
Location: First Baptist Prattville, 138 S. Washington Moms LIFE (living in faith everyday) Meets twice monthly from 8:30 - 11:45 am in the chapel at the Church from Aug - May. We offer a time of fellowship, Bible study, musical guest, special guest speakers and a lot of fun!! Cost is $5 per meeting. For moms of all stages and ages of life. Childcare provided by reservation. For more info and to reserve your spot, call Kelley Manning at 361-7919. Location: Vaughn Forest Church, 8660 Vaughn Road Are you in need of a time-out? MOPS joins mothers together by a common bond, to be better wives, moms, and friends along this journey in the trenches of
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motherhood. We meet the 1st and 3rd Tuesday of each month from 9:30—11:30 a.m. Childcare is provided. For information e-mail VFCMOPS@gmail.com. Location: First Baptist Church, Montgomery 305 S. Perry Street MOPS (Mothers of Preschoolers) If you are a woman who is pregnant or has a child birth through kindergarten, desires to make new friends, wants to share the challenges and joys of motherhood, is looking for opportunities for personal growth through trusted resources,then MOPS is for you. Call Kristi Gay at (334) 233-8989 for more information.
Physical Challenges
Location: Aldersgate UMC, 6610 Vaughn Road Visually Impaired Support Group – Meets monthly on second Thursday 1:00 – 2:30 p.m. The group is called Outward Sight - Inward Vision and is for those with vision loss and their caregivers. Our mission is to assist those experiencing vision loss to maintain their independence by providing access to valuable information and spiritual support. Call Aldersgate UMC 272-6152. Location: Cloverdale School Bldg. (First UMC) Parkinson’s Support Group of Montgomery meets the fourth Sunday of the month in Room 103 at 2:00pm. More information, contact Nathan Attwood at First United Methodist Church (334-834-8990). Location: First UMC, 2416 W. Cloverdale Park Montgomery Hearing Loss Support Group meets every second Thursday in Wesley Hall at 4 pm. The entrance is on Park Avenue. Informative speakers are
present, refreshments are served and no reservations are required. The public is welcome. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy A Fibromyaligia Support Group meets the 3rd Tuesday of each month from 6-8pm in room 8114. Call 272-8622. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy An MDA/ALS Support Group will meet Tuesday August 10 6:00p.m. – 8:00 p.m. in room 3101. Anyone who is affected by a neuromuscular disease or family members of those affected are encouraged to attend. To receive further information, please call 396-4534.
on 2nd Thursdays from 6-7 p.m. Check the blog for special “alternate site” meetings and other info at www.glutenfreemontgomery.blogspot.com.
Pregnancy Loss / Infertility
Location: First UMC, 100 E. Fourth Street, Prattville Hannah’s Prayer--for women dealing with pregnancy loss/infertility issues. Meeting 2nd Thursday and 3rd Sunday of each month. Call 365.5977.
Singlehood
Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Singles’ Small Groups meet each Tuesday at 5:30 p.m. in the Fellowship Hall Lobby. Call 272-8622.
Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy A Parkinson’s Support Group will meet the 3rd Thursday at 6:30 p.m., in room 8114 at Frazer UMC. This group is for those who have Parkinson’s disease and the family members. 272-8622. (No Meeting in December)
Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy T.N.T. (Tuesday Night Together) for Singles meets Tuesdays from 7-8 p.m. in the Fellowship Hall, bldg. 7000. A meal ($5.00) and program are provided. For reservations, call the Singles office at 272-8622.
Location: Landmark Church, 1800 Halcyon Blvd. Leaders: Junior Bagwell (334) 669-9334 Meets every 2nd Tuesday of each month at 345 Melanie Drive, in Carol Villa. Our goal is to share and use the struggles that we as a group are facing, biblical principals, prayer, medical experts or any other resources available to help us deal with the life-long challenges that are caused by the various diseases that we have encountered.
Location: Cornerstone Christian, 301 Dalraida Rd. Unavoidably Single Again (USA) Fellowship, a support group for widows and widowers. Informal meetings for fellowship and fun are held on the third Saturday of each month starting at 10 AM. Contact Lynda at farauthor@aol.com or 354-8869.
Location: Taylor Road Baptist Church, 1785 Taylor Rd., Montgomery Gluten Intolerance Group of Montgomery meets
Veterans
Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Veterans OEF/OIF Caregivers Support Group meets on the 3rd Wednesday from 11am-1pm in Room 3108. Cntact Joy at (334) 725-2542.
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Family Teams for Christ by Lisa and Mike Conn
What Jesus Wants for Christmas...You It’s time to prepare for Christmas--and I don’t mean the decorating and gift purchasing, or the wrappings and trappings that threaten to devour the real meaning of Christmas. No, when I say prepare, I mean prepare our hearts, souls, and minds for Christmas and help our children do the same. Remember the words of the old hymn, “O Come, O Come Emmanuel”: O come, O come Emmanuel and ransom captive Israel who mourns in lonely exile here until the Son of God appear Rejoice, rejoice, Emmanuel shall come to thee, O Israel The words of this song speak of hope and joy--words that each of us
need to hear during these times of economic uncertainty and political tension—times when many marriages and families are feeling the strain of our nation’s worries. The pressures of 2012 came home to me on All Saints Sunday as I sat with my family in church, trying, through my tears, to focus upon the big-screen images of loved ones who died this year. Some were treasured elders who had suffered through lengthy illnesses. One was a beloved young husband and father from our Sunday school class who succumbed to brain cancer. Another was a dear friend killed in a sudden car crash right before Christmas last year. I reflected on the fact that Mike had served as pall bearer four times in the last 11 months.
And yet, through my unbidden tears, I felt peace because of the assurance that each of these loved ones is now living in heaven with Jesus. In my church bulletin were the words found in John 14:1, which say, “Do not let your hearts be troubled. You believe in God; believe also in me.” These words are comforting in their truth because of our loved one’s prior decisions for Christ before their death. Speaking of decisions for Christ, that same morning, our Sunday school
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class, “Family Teams for Christ”, had finished a 3-month block of instruction entitled, “Our Spiritual Journey”. Ten members of our class had just shared their Christian testimony with their fellow class members! Mike and I were overwhelmed with joy at God’s goodness and at the courage and trust so evident as these husbands and wives shared the stories of their spiritual journey. It takes some gut-wrenching, soul-searching time alone with the Lord to revisit just how fallen we were before we knew Him. And that’s just what our class had been doing. As teachers, we are so very, very thankful they did. Now, a few short weeks later, as we prepare our hearts for the coming of Christmas, I remember the words of “O Come, O Come Emmanuel”, which sings of Jesus’ arrival on earth--the promised Savior who came to set the captives free. In His time, the captives were the Isra-
oppressive employer, or a hostile co-worker. “Jesus did not come to liberate us from suffering, but to free our spirits as we go through the suffering that is part of life. He makes it possible for us to connect with God—to know Him personally. For those who have received Christ as Lord and Savior, the Holy Spirit lives within them to guide, comfort, and strengthen them, no matter what their circumstances.” (FamilyLife. com) I’m glad I have a Savior who came, suffered, and died so that I and those I love could know God. What does Jesus want for Christmas? You.
“Who can add to Christmas? The perfect motive is that God so loved the world. The perfect gift is that He gave His only Son. The only requirement is to believe in Him. The reward of faith is that you shall have everlasting life.” Corrie Ten Boom elites living under the tyranny of Roman rule, watching and waiting for the Savior promised them in the Old Testament. David Boehi, in his article, “O Come, O Come Immanuel,” compares their physical and spiritual captivity to our modern day lives saying, “We are like Israel, in that we think our biggest problems are in the physical realm. On a big level, we want relief from economic hardship and terrorism. In our daily lives, we want relief from conflict with a spouse … from problems in raising children … from relational difficulties with parents or siblings or cousins … from an
Lt. Col Mike Conn and wife, Lisa, founded Covenant Family Ministries when Mike retired from the Air Force in 1997. CFM is an independent marriage and family education ministry committed to partnering with churches, organizations, and individuals in Montgomery and across Alabama to build Family Teams for Christ. Married for over 30 years, Mike and Lisa have three wonderful daughters, two great sons-in-law, and two precious grandchildren.
“Train a child in the way he should go and when he is old he will not turn from it.”
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The Christmas Advantage by Lettie Kirkpatrick
It can be almost “cool” to be a Christian at Christmas. Even unbelievers assume many of the trappings of our faith. And they are blissfully unaware that most of their decorations represent truths about Christianity. It’s a great time to take advantage of opportunities to share Christ and give witness to the events that led to this celebration. Consider these ideas for helping lost friends and relatives see the Savior in this season.
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Carefully choose or create cards with a distinctively Christian message. Consider including a personal note to reinforce the truths presented. For instance, I include a brief letter containing family news, but I always conclude the note with a reminder that Christmas is a celebration of Jesus’ birth and our Christian faith. The year our teenage daughter died, my final sentences declared, “It is this season that brought to us the hope that we now affirm ... His birth and death brought to us everlasting life.”
• Bake Some Cookies
Deliver a sweet witness by baking up batches of sugar cookie cutouts. Use Christmas symbols such as stars, angels, wreaths, bells, trees, and candy canes. Prepare a colorful sheet explaining the meaning of the symbols (included in this article) and deliver them with your goodies. Add a note of appreciation, along with an invitation to special Christmas events at your church, and share them with your service providers: mechanics, pharmacists, a favorite bag boy or cashier, or the employees or your
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Plan to offer hospitality targeted to lost friends, neighbors, and family members. It might be an invitation to a holiday service at church, followed by dessert and coffee in your home. My friend Rhonda Reese recalls a young couple attending their Christmas service at the invitation of neighbors. They were unbelievers and seemed to be committed to a worldly lifestyle. But they brought their two small children and God worked. Even though no altar call was given, this couple went forward and found Christ and a church family.
• Invite Someone to Your Home
The Ervin family encouraged their teenagers to invite friends to a special Christmas event in their home. They included lost teens and some who needed discipling. The family had an interactive advent celebration focusing on the Christmas story. Then together they decorated
a Names of Jesus Tree with handmade ornaments representing names used for Jesus in the Bible. They read the accompanying verses and hung their ornaments. The evening stimulated discussion among those teens.
• Read Some Books
Find opportunity to share Jesus and delight in the joy of children by making use of some of this season’s abundant literature. I went into my son’s elementary classroom as a story reader. Because I included other Christmas material and did not attempt to evangelize, I was able to read a colorful children’s book containing the Christmas story and another book about Jesus’ birth called The Tiny Star. I later received a note from the teacher thanking me for “caring about her children’s souls”. Local daycare providers may be glad to have a guest reader or consider volunteering as a reader in a children’s library program. Well written and carefully chosen books can often contribute a gospel message without being “offensive”.
Consider these ideas for helping lost friends and relatives see the Savior in this season. • Give Good Gifts
Thoughtful gifts can communicate Christ’s love and our faith in this season. One friend gave a nativity set to her neighbors, even though they are Buddhists. She explained to them what part each piece represented in the birth of Christ. Although her friends have not yet become believers, they continue to display their nativity.
• Stuff a Stocking
Another woman on mission has given fun gifts with a clear Christian witness to her neighbors anonymously (not really) for several years. She stuffs stockings with candy, cookies, Christmas tracts,
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Scripture, an invitation to holiday events at her church, and a personal prayer written for each family. Her early morning “secret” deliveries to their doorsteps delight her neighborhood.
• Deliver Evangelistic Baskets
Consider using “Christmas Is Coming” baskets as an evangelistic tool for families. These baskets should actually be delivered in late November, but early December can also work. I fill mine with Christmas music, an advent calendar depicting the birth of Christ, a Christmas book, holiday snacks, a candle, a nativity ornament, and a card reminding recipients that Jesus is the real “reason for the upcoming season”. To keep costs down, plan ahead and purchase most ingredients for these baskets at after-Christmas sales the year before. The aftermath of Christmas often brings a letdown because the excitement and expectation has peaked and crashed. But that won’t be so if we have received the vision of “the Christmas advantage”. The season leaves instead a legacy of joy at having been a participant in eternity’s work.
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l. Wreath—its circular shape represents everlasting life and the circle of family. Its presence on a door signifies welcome. 2. Candles and tree lights—remind us that we celebrate the birth of the “Light” of the world. Candles are also used symbolically to light the way for the Christ child.
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3. Bells—In the Middle Ages the ringing bells were used to warn the devil of the pending birth of Christ. Ringing increased at midnight to declare His joyous arrival. 4. Angels—declared His coming birth and then appeared as choir participants in God’s “singing birth announcement”.
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5. Holly—Early Christians believed that Jesus’ crown of thorns was woven from holly. Its berries stood for the blood of the Savior. Legend says that the berries were originally white and turned red after Jesus’ death. 6. Creche (French for manger)—the nativity was first set up by Francis of Assisi more than 700 years ago—l223 A.D. His animals were alive. 7. Star—symbols of the star of Bethlehem that led the way to the Christ child. Also, Scriptures refer to Jesus as the Bright and Morning star. 8. Poinsetta—In l828, Dr. Joel Poinsett brought the first plant to America from Mexico. Legend is that a Mexican boy had no gift for the Christchild. As he knelt to pray, a beautiful flower appeared at his feet. This plant, the poinsetta became his present. 9. Tree—the first trees were decorated with fruit and candles. There are many legends about the Christmas tree. The modern tradition comes from Germany where the tree was used as a prop in a popular medieval play about Adam and Eve. Use of the tree as a Christmas symbol spread from Lutheran Germany to England during the nineteenth century.
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10. Candy Cane—a replica of the shepherd’s staff and reminder of those who were first to hear the Great Birth Announcement. Lettie Kirkpatrick is a contributing writer. River Region’s Journey
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Community Calendar Christian Community Calendar Christian Ongoing Happenings
AGLOW International meets every third Thursday, 9:30 at the Montgomery House of Prayer. All women welcome to join together for praise, prayer and an anointed message. Contact mboudousquie@yahoo.com. Beacon Light Ministries, Food Ministry is open on the 2nd and 4th Wednesday, 5:306:45 p.m. Please bring I. D. and Proof of Government Assistance. Capitol Heights UMC, 2000 Winona Ave., Montgomery offers Parenting Classes beginning at 7:00 p.m. on Thursdays. 2642464. Christchurch, 8800 Vaughn Road, Montgomery, offers a Women’s Enrichment Bible Study led by Jeanne Dean on Thursdays, 9:30-11:30 a.m., in Canterbury Hall. All women are welcome. Childcare for ages birth-4 years is provided. Call 387-0566 x 201 for more info. Christchurch offers a men’s Bible study led by Fr. John-Michael van Dyke, on Thursday mornings on the 11th floor of Goode Medical Bldg, Jackson Hospital. Breakfast is served beginning at 6:45 a.m. and teaching begins at 7:15 a.m. Call 387-0566 x 201. Church of the Highlands meets each Sunday at 9:30 a.m. and 11:30 a.m. downtown Montgomery in the MPAC theater located in the Renaissance Hotel, 201 Tallapoosa Street. Visit churchofthehighlands.com or call 1-205-980-5577. Chisholm Baptist Church, 2938 Lower Wetumpka Road, Montgomery, holds Sunday morning Bible study (9:30), Morning worship (10:45), Tuesday prayer breakfast (8:30) Wednesday evening prayer service (6 pm) and Senior Body and Soul Group (every 1st Tuesday at 1 pm). Email jbass9784@charter. net or call 262-6437. Dexter Avenue UMC, 301 Dexter Avenue, offers a Friday Christian Night Club with Ballroom Dancing every Friday at 6:30 P.M. Cost is $5 for a one hour lesson, devotional, and 3 hours of DJ music. People of all denominations are welcome. First Presbyterian Church, 9299 Vaughn Road, hosts Family Night every Wednesday beginning at 5:20 p.m. with supper, followed by a study on prayer. Everyone is welcome. For more information call (279-1372). First Presbyterian Church, 9299 Vaughn Road, hosts a Men’s Prayer Breakfast every Friday morning, 6 a.m. The Youth of First United Methodist Church, Montgomery every Wednesday night at 7:00 p.m. for Wednesday Night Live, a time of praise and worship in “the attic”. Also, every Sunday night at 6:00 p.m. is River Region’s Journey
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MYF which includes a snack supper $3.00 followed by activities, small groups and lots of fun! Visit www.fumcmontgomery.org or call 334-834-8990. First United Methodist Church will host Terrific Tuesdays. Please come and join us for fellowship, a program and lunch. Terrific Tuesdays will meet each Tuesday in room 204 of Wesley Hall. Fellowship time will begin at 10:00 a.m. followed by a program at 10:30 a.m. and lunch at 11:30 a.m. The cost of lunch is $2.00. Every fourth Tuesday the time will extend until 3:00 p.m. for bridge, games, and other activities in room 203 in Wesley Hall. For additional information please contact NeeNee Webb at 834-8990. Good News @ Noon is an interdenominational Bible study, held at the First Baptist Community Ministries Building on Adams Street, Thursdays, at noon. Small cost for hot lunch. Call 272.1133. Hall Memorial CME Church, 541 Seibles Road, Montgomery, offers Bible Study Tuesdays at 5:30 P.M. and Wednesdays at 6: 30 P.M. For directions or information call 334-288-0577. Email HallMemorialCME1@ aol.com or visit www.HallMemorialCME. blogspot.com. Hall Memorial CME Church says: VOLUNTEERS NEEDED! Tutors, prayer-warriors, and office/clerical volunteers needed for the Montgomery City Jail Ministry & G.E.D program. Opportunities are ongoing. No experience or certification necessary. Contact Pastor Anderson T. Graves II, at hallmemorialcme1@aol.com. Call 334-2880577. The City Jail ministry is an in-reach ministry of Hall Memorial CME Church, 541 Seibles Road, Montgomery. www.hallmemorialcme.blogspot.com. iConnect.coffeehouse provides a place for women to experience meaningful fellowship with women seeking genuine connection. Meetings will be held in the Atrium at Frazer UMC 3rd Tuesdays from 9-11 a.m. For more info, call Frazer’s Women’s Ministry at 4956391. Messiah Lutheran Church, 6670 Vaughn Road, invites all to Wonderful Wednesdays starting with a $3.00 meal at 5:30 pm (RSVP 277-4213 by Monday noon), worship with eucharist 6:15-7:00 pm, and adult choir rehearsal and Catechism class for 7th-9th graders at 7:00 pm. Please call for Wednesday schedule due to seasonal breaks. For information, call 277-4213. Mt. Gillard Missionary Baptist Church, 3323 Day Street, holds Wednesday Bible Study in the church Fellowship Hall and lasts for one hour. Please come and participate in roaming the Bible learning God’s 38
word through teaching. The Rev. Henry M. Carnegie, Jr. is the teacher and pastor. Midday Bible Study begins each Wednesday at 11:30 a.m. Evening Bible Study begins each Wednesday at 7:00 p.m. Call 233-8750. New Freedom Worship Center, 6004 –A East Shirley Lane, Apostle T. Briggs~ Pastor; Sunday Worship Service 10:30 a.m. and Wednesday Night Bible Study 7:30 p.m. Open Door Christian Faith Church, 1601 Dewey St. Montgomery, offers Women’s Prayer Mondays at 5:00, Men’s prayer Wednesday at 5:00, followed by bible study at 6:00. Couples ministry held every 1st Wednesday of the month at 7:00. Pastor William Cromblin, and the Open Door Church family invites you to “come experience the move of God. For more info, call the church at 334-269-6498. Perry Hill UMC, 910 Perry Hill Rd, sponsors a Bluegrass Jam in the Church Fellowship Hall on the third Saturday of each month from 9AM - 12AM. All Bluegrass Artist plus Fans are invited to attend. Attendance is FREE. For information call Kathy@ 272-3174. Perry Hill UMC, 910 Perry Hill Rd, hosts a Wednesday Night Supper and Revive! program each week from 5:30pm til 7:00pm. Reservations are required by noon on the Monday prior to the supper. Cost is $4 per person or $12 per family. Call 334-2723174 for more information or to make reservations. The River of Life Church, located at 116 County Road 40 E (in the Pine Level Community Center) Prattville. Pastor Nick Edwards invites you to a “Place of New Beginnings”, where families come and grow together. Church Service Schedule: Sunday 10:30 a.m. Sunday School; 11:00 a.m. Morning Worship; 5:00 p.m. Evening Worship. Wednesday 6:00 p.m. Adult Bible Study, Teens (Genesis Project), Jr. High (Limitless), Royal Rangers, MPact Girls, Rainbow’s/Noah’s Zoo Club. Thursday 9:00 a.m.Women of Grace Bible Study. Nursery provided. We invite you to”come experience God in a personal way, feel loved by all and know that you belong”. Office 334-657-0392 or visit www.theriveroflifechurch.net. Saint James UMC, 9045 Vaughn Road, offers S.N.A.G. (Sunday Nights About God!) This program starts at 5:00p.m. and ends at 6:30p.m. Childcare is provided for small groups until 7:00p.m. Don’t forget this program is available for all children! Saint James UMC, 9045 Vaughn Road, offers Wild & Wacky Wednesdays! Wednesday night supper starts at 5:15p.m. We will
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Aldersgate United Methodist Church will be hosting the 2nd Annual Fair Trade Holiday Market from 9am-4pm at the church, located at 6610 Vaughn Rd. An effort that began as a small fair trade store that opened in the church to sells chocolate, coffee and tea on Sunday mornings to members of the congregation has now grown to be inclusive of the community. The proceeds of the event goes towards the Aldersgate UMC food pantry that distributes over 85 bags of food every month to families in the community. Call 334- 300-4835 or log onto to www. aldersgateumc.org for more details.
the water tower off the Southern Bypass. For more information, call 281-1337.
Saturday, December 15
McGehee Road Baptist invites you to enjoy Breakfast with Santa from 8-10am. Enjoy pancakes, crafts, story time, games, and a picture with Santa Claus. Tickets are $4 for adults, $2 for children, 2 and under are free. Purchase tickets until Dec. 12 by calling (334) 262-0689 or MRBCstudents@gmail.com.
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At 3 pm and 6 pm, Eastern Hills Baptist Church presents its 8th Annual Hanging of the Greens. Featuring Eastern Hills Sanctuary Choir & Orchestra; Also Featuring: Youth Choir, Children’s Choirs, Drama, Celebration Ringers (handbells), Ensemble, Narration, Interpretive Movement and more. Come help us ring in the Christmas season celebrating the hope found in the Christ Child! Come early for a good seat-No admission charge. Eastern Hills Baptist Church, 3604 Pleasant Ridge Road, Montgomery (in the Forest Hills neighborhood) 334-272-0604 ext. 214 or visit us on line, www.ehbconline.com.
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Santa’s Helpers at Church of the Holy Comforter. From 10:00 am to 3:00 pm. Free child care! Drop off your kids at Holy Comforter while you shop. We will have activities for them, feed them lunch, and help your children make ornaments. When you get back, we’ll help you wrap gifts for free! Bring your camera for a stress-free picture with Santa. Every child will go home with a dozen fresh-baked cookies. Ages 2 – 12. 2911 Woodley Road, under 39
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Baptist Health, Faith Radio and Wyndridge neighborhood present: A Live Nativity Scene From 5-8 pm. DeBoer Building, 301 Brown Springs Rd. (Baptist East Campus) Across from Winton Blount Post Office. This is a family oriented event and is free of charge. Donations are welcome. The community is allowed to walk up to the nativity scene to view the animals and characters. There is also a designated driving route for those wishing to stay in cars to view the event. “A Living Nativity, The Gift”, 5:30 to 8:30 p.m., at East Memorial Baptist Church, 1320 Old Ridge Road, Prattville invites the Public to experience the birth, death and resurrection of our Lord Jesus Christ at a drive-through Living Nativity. Come be counted for the census in Bethlehem, pass through the Town and see the December 2012
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Calendar Inn where Joseph and Mary find no room. See the Shepherds in the field where the Angel appears and watch the Wise Men make their way to the trough where Jesus lay. See Him on the Cross and then the glorious Empty Tomb. Admission is free. For more information contact the church office at 334-365-7500.
Tuesday, January 8
An Intro to Biblical Counseling Course begins at Eastwood Counseling Center in Montgomery. Taught by Lou Priolo this course offers 2 credit hours to Birmingham Theological Seminary. Cost is $250 per person or $400 per couple. 12 weeks on Tuesday nights from 6:30-8:30 pm. Call 386-2384 for more info and to register.
January 22-27
Women in Ministry International Empowerment Training 2013. Join the hundreds of women from Alabama to Africa whose ministries have blasted off from this powerful launching pad. This training will equip women to impact this generation for God by providing teaching, resources, support, opportunities for networking, a home base for future enrichment, and encouragement. Weekdays 5:30 PM-9PM, Saturday 9AM-4PM, Sunday Graduation; Where: Fresh Anointing House of Worship Activity Center, 203 E. Fleming Rd, Montgomery, AL 36105. For more info call Paula Stallworth at (334) 613-3364 or www. womenintl.net or forwomenintl@gmail.com.
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Among Friends Women’s Conference with Kathy Troccoli, Patsy Clairmont & Donna VanLiere. First Baptist Church, 305 S. Perry Street, in Montgomery. During time together there will be rich Bible teaching, powerful stories, comedic relief and comforting music. There will also be a time of worship and prayer. Come be Among Friends—and bring yours with you, too. For more info call: 334-834-6310.
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by Pamela Boswell, Eastwood Counseling Center
Satisfaction: Can You Get Any? What would it take for you to be happy? You may say “a better job, losing a few pounds, getting married, or having a bit more money.” Maybe, like me, you sometimes think you would be happy if your child would just move closer to home. But then what would it take? Situations change and your happiness will then be dependent on something else unless you learn the secret of contentment. Happiness is temporary and depends on circumstances, but contentment is not. Is this just a matter of semantics? Where do you find contentment... in your garden, home, family, church? No, the Bible teaches that contentment is not found, it must be learned. Discontentment is universal. The Puritans often warned against it, Mick Jagger sang about it and advertisers/ merchandisers exploit it as they push their products. Looking at the Greek word used for contentment in the Bible can give you a clue of what it takes to achieve the state of contentment. The Greek word is “autarkes” which means self-sufficing, or independent of circumstances, something internal. The peace and joy that Jesus said was available to His disciples are fruit of the Spirit. Contentment is accepting in faith with thankful hearts that which God has ordained for you. The world does not give it and therefore the world cannot take it away. In this world you will have trouble, problems will arise. How do you respond? Does this mean you should eliminate all earthly desires and ambitions? Does it mean you just shouldn’t care about anything? Not at all. Rather than a general lack of desire, it is a desire for eternal or godly things. Look at the life of Paul, and you see that he expressed discontent with the failings of the early church and even with the thorn that he referred to in 2 Corinthians. He was not happy with everything, nor did he have a passive acceptance
of sin and suffering. His contentment rested on the knowledge of the character of God and the knowledge of how God works. He knew God to be good, sovereign, loving, and wise. He knew his heavenly Father would provide all his needs, and that God knew better than he did what they were. His ambition was to know Christ and Him more intimately (Philippians 3:10). When you make Christ your ambition, He becomes your sufficiency. So how do you get the real joy or peace of contentment? Living in a world where you have become accustomed to fast food, microwave cooking, access to information at high speeds and pills for instant relief, you may not want to hear that it is a process, something that must be learned, but that is what God’s word teaches. In Philippians 4:11, Paul said, “For I have learned in whatever situation I am to be content.” It wasn’t something he was born with and it didn’t come from living a trouble free life. Patience is a prerequisite to contentment. In the process of sanctification, God is teaching you. This process involves renewing your minds and putting off old thoughts and ways and putting on new ones. Read Psalm 139:23 and ask God to convict you of the things that you cherish more than the knowledge of Him. It can be good things or activities or relationships, but ones upon which you have put too much priority. Take note of what triggers your anger and anxiety to get a clue into what you may be coveting. Adjust your priorities, seeking first the kingdom of heaven (Matthew 6:33) and submitting to God’s chosen condition and purpose for your life as an ongoing and lifelong task that will result in growing contentment. And most importantly, spend time in His word and prayer to develop a more intimate relationship with Him which will allow you 41
to be better able to see your life as He does. When you are tempted to think that a change in circumstances would make your life better, remember that Eve was in a perfect situation and environment when she became discontent and sinned. Satan caused her to doubt the character of God which lead to her desiring more than He had ordained for her and then to her sin. To what extent is your discontentment a result of your misunderstanding the character of God? This month why not make it your goal to increase your true knowledge of God by purposefully thanking Him. Keep a running list by the sink, on the refrigerator, in your car, or on your screen saver of things that are true, honest, right, pure, lovely, of good repute, excellent and worthy of praise (Philippians 4:8). Be thankful for the gift of the Holy Spirit who enables you to understand God’s word and serves as the Comforter in our lives. It is possible to have joy despite any troubles in this world because He who is in you is greater than he who is in this world. “Godliness with contentment is great gain.” (1 Timothy 6:6)
Pamela Boswell is a native of Montgomery, Alabama. After receiving her undergraduate degree in Horticulture Business in 1980, she and her husband moved to Orlando, Florida where she worked and they started their family. Moving back to Montgomery in 1995 she pursued a Master’s degree in Counseling from Auburn University Montgomery, which she received in 2001. She has 8 years experience in a non-profit organization obtaining extensive experience with troubled children and their families. She has recently received certification from the National Association of Nouthetic Counselors having been supervised by Lou Priolo. Pamela currently leads a small group Bible study at Trinity Presbyterian Church finally accepting that she is an “older women” according to Titus 2. December 2012
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Got Prayer? Then Jesus told his disciples a parable to show them that they should always pray and not give up. (Luke 18:1) …pray continually… (1 Thessalonians 5:17) Imagine this scenario. Something has happened leaving everyone around you struggling to retain hope. It could pertain to a job, health, relationships, etc. In such a circumstance, you are likely to hear a sentiment such as, “Well, I guess all we can do now is pray!” How do we as individuals - and as the church – approach prayer? More importantly, what does the Bible have to say about it and what, if any, guidance does it offer on this ‘mysterious’ subject?
Tracing Jesus’ actions while he walked the earth offers us a lead. Though Lord of life and fully divine while fully human, Jesus nonetheless included prayer as a vital element of his everyday existence. Scripture reveals, But Jesus often withdrew to lonely places and prayed (Luke 5:16). Surrounded by crowds, commotion, and the crushing neediness of humanity, prayer was never far from Jesus’ mind as shown in Matthew 14:23, After he had dismissed them, he went up on a mountainside by himself to pray… Each day, the requests multiplied. Determined to continue his habit of prayer, Jesus chose a time when most were sleeping… Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary place, where he
prayed (Mark 1:35). Also, regardless of current demands, his prayer was not abbreviated as we note that, One of those days Jesus went out to a mountainside to pray, and spent the night praying to God (Luke 6:12). As a child mimics the actions of a parent, so the disciples observed Jesus’ continual ‘disappearing acts’ and then inquired of him as Scripture discloses, One day Jesus was praying in a certain place. When he finished, one of his disciples said to him, “Lord, teach us to
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pray, just as John taught his disciples” (Luke 11:1). Emerging from this simple request was an eternal blessing enjoyed by all generations – the Lord’s Prayer. In addition to the Lord’s Prayer, …Jesus told his disciples a parable to show them that they should always pray and not give up (Luke 18: 1). The parable involved a judge and a widow. Note that the designation ‘widow’ in Biblical times was a position of little hope. This particular widow was relentless in her insistence that the judge vindicate her against her adversary. We are told that this judge …neither feared God nor cared about men. (v. 2) Considering his attitude and the societal position of widows, her case would have been ignored at best. Watchman Nee, Chinese Christian martyr and prolific author, enlightens us with regard to this parable, “He is our gracious Father and He protects us: how He always loves to give us the best of things: and He is not unrelated to us as is the judge with the widow. Now, therefore, if such a judge as this one in the parable is willing to avenge the widow because of her incessant pleading, how much more will God who is
so virtuous, so kind, and so intimately related to us of avenge His children who pray to Him unceasingly? If an immoral judge will avenge a woman for her continuous cry, will not God at least work because of His own people?” Referring to the second opening verse from 1 Thessalonians, …pray continually, Mr. Nee explains, “…Our spirit should be calm and restful. We may bring our current situation to the Lord and consider it in the light of His countenance, or we may forget our present condition and simply meditate on His word before Him. Or we may just live before Him and try to touch Him with our spirit. As a matter of fact, it is not we who go forth to meet God but it is God who is waiting there for us.” Not only is God available and ‘waiting’ for us, but Scripture also instructs us when we don’t have a clue… In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us through wordless groans (Romans 8:26). If our Lord Jesus regarded prayer as an eminent priority, what is the obvious implication for us? Pray! ‘Just do
it’ to coin a familiar phrase. Back in the garden with Adam and Eve, we see their perfect communion with God. When we chose sin, this communion was broken. Prayer is the chosen means by which God maintains an open channel of communication with us. As the Bible addresses prayer well over one hundred times, so should we engage in this most amazing enterprise ‘continually’. Let us dismiss the approach to prayer as a ‘last resort’ and instead embrace it as an ongoing activity. Praise God for the privilege of prayer! Praise him that he is “…waiting there for us.” Let us take full advantage of this glorious gift, heeding the words of Colossians 4:2, Devote yourselves to prayer, being watchful and thankful.
Elaine Britt and her husband, Tim, reside in Montgomery, with son Bryan at UAH in Huntsville and son Kevin at the University of Montevallo. She counts her family as a great blessing. By profession, Elaine is a 33 year veteran Interior Decorator and owner of Carriage House Interiors, now freelancing from home. By God’s calling and to her great joy, she is a writer, whose published works include stories in A Cup of Comfort Devotionals; Lord, I Was Happy Shallow; and Heavenly Patchwork; one book, Messages, as well as various e-zine and magazine articles.
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Movie Reviews Reviews provided by MovieGuide: A Family Guide to Movies and Entertainment Ratings are based on production quality and moral acceptability. See details below. ***Reviews do not necessarily reflect views of the publishers of River Region’s Journey.
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3 Day Test Quality: *** Moral Acceptability: +4 (Exemplary) Starring: George Newborn, Megyn Price, Corbin Bernsen, Francesca Capaldi, Aidan Potter, Taylor Spreitier, Kevin Crowley Genre: Comedy Audience: All ages Rating: Not Rated Content: Very strong Christian worldview with very moral messages about honesty, not stealing, doing the right thing, positive family portrayal; no foul language; some slapstick comic violence involving pratfalls; no sex, just some mild marital kissing; no nudity; teenagers caught with beer but it’s rebuked; no smoking or drugs; and, daughter acts rebellious but rebuked, son downloads songs and sells them to his classmates but rebuked, lying but rebuked, stealing but rebuked. 3 DAY TEST tells the story of Martin. Martin is a Type A, highly successful accountant forced to confront the fact he’s losing his family. Martin comes home to find his family in disarray. Martin looks at a survivalist video his brother gave him called “3 Day Test.” He decides to take three days to reconnect with his family by blackening the windows, cutting off the power, hiding the cell phones, and living as if Armageddon has occurred. His family’s not pleased because it’s Christmas, but his wife agrees to the test. Then, Martin’s brother ups the ante by breaking into their house and taking all the food. 3 DAY TEST is a funny, droll, winsome movie with a strong Gospel message. Corbin Bernsen is a terrific director and a good actor. The dialogue is some of the most clever dialogue you’ll encounter. Best of all, the little girl convinces her family to go to church. There are some over-the-top moments and plot inconsistencies. These may be resolved in the final edit. Overall, however, 3 DAY TEST is a delightful family movie with a heartwarming ending.
Quality: **** Moral Acceptability: +2 (Good) Starring: The Voices of Hugh Jackman, Alec Baldwin, Isla Fisher, Chris Pines, Jude Law Genre: Comedy Audience: All ages Rating: PG Content: Very strong moral worldview with some redemptive elements including an emphasis in sacrifice in order to bring “hope, wonder, and light,” character says Easter is about “new beginnings, new life and hope,” the light scares the darkness away, character is chosen to bring light to the world, character looks up to the sky and almost in a prayer fashion asks for the meaning of his life and its purpose; though it does show character’s weaknesses, talks about “magic,” and stresses that the characters need to find their “center”; no foul language; light violence and slapstick comedy; no sexual content; and, nothing else objectionable. In the animated RISE OF THE GUARDIANS, Jack Frost longs to find meaning and purpose in his life. Jack asks the Man on the Moon for meaning. Meanwhile, the Boogie Man starts appearing to children, destroying their good dreams and replacing them with bad ones. Concerned, “The Guardians” hold a meeting. They include a tattooed Santa Clause, the feisty Easter Bunny, the Tooth Fairy, and the Sandman. The Man on the Moon tells them to make Jack Frost a guardian. Together, they must fight to maintain hope, wonder and light in the world. RISE OF THE GUARDIANS is a very entertaining family movie. Using incredible animation, the quality is superb. Some dark villainy may be scary for very young children. The characters in RISE OF THE GUARDIANS are secular holiday icons, who are broken and serve “The Man on the Moon,” who isn’t revealed, but they ask him for guidance in a way resembling prayer. THE RISE OF THE GUARDIANS has a strong moral worldview, but caution is required to help children understand the Truth of Jesus Christ versus the fiction of fairytales.
The previous reviews are a selected sample of informative reviews from MOVIEGUIDE: A FAMILY GUIDE TO MOVIES AND ENTERTAINMENT, a syndicated feature of Good News Communications, Inc. To subscribe to MOVIEGUIDE which includes a complete set of at least 10 reviews of the latest movies as well as many informative articles, please visit our web site at www.movieguide.org or write or call:”MOVIEGUIDE,” P.O. Box 190010, Atlanta, GA 31119 (800) 899-6684. What the ratings mean: Production Quality: (1 to 4 stars) Moral Acceptability: -4 (Abhorrent), -3 (Excessive), -2 (Extreme Caution), -1 (Caution), +1 (Wholesome), +2 (Good), +3 (Moral), +4 (Exemplary) River Region’s Journey
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Trinity Presbyterian School is Montgomery’s foremost educational institution binding academic excellence with Christian perspective. Trinity is proud to have had a National Merit Finalist for the last three years, and recently announced a National Merit Semifinalist for the 2012-13 school year. In addition, the 73-member 2012 graduating class earned over $3.4 million dollars in scholarships.
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