Join us at Frazer for a year of preaching through this life-changing book that will show you exactly who Jesus Christ is. “Now Jesus did many other signs in the presence of the disciples, which are not written in this book; but these are written so that you may believe that Jesus is the Christ, the Son of God, and that by believing you may have life in his name.” –John 20:30-31 THROUGHOUT THE YEAR 2014, Pastors Tim Thompson and Patrick Quinn will be preaching verse by verse through the gospel of John in all of Frazer’s Sunday morning worship services. Jesus made the remarkable claim that He came to give you life—real, abundant, overflowing life right now, and eternal life in the world to come. This teaching series will lead you to the heart of who this Jesus is and what it means to believe in Him.
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Feature Articles
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Publisher’s Note
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Jason Watson
A Wedding to Remember
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Local wedding planner Mary Sanders, owner of Mary Me, shares the hottest new trends in weddings, from dresses to flowers to decor, and more!
Pastor's Perspective Pastor Edward J. Nettles, Freewill Missionary Baptist Church
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Books to Read page 22
Tim Challies
Making Marriage Beautiful
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With All Your Mind
An Interview with Newlyweds Ashley McDonald and Derek Gann
Matt Jordan, Ph.D.
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Ashley and Derek share special memories from their 2013 wedding day, and also advice for a happy and peaceful first year of marriage.
Shine Kim Hendrix
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Dave $ays
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Dave Ramsey
What Did You Expect?
Contributing writer Rachel Fisher talks with Paul David Tripp about “redeeming the realities of marriage”. Plus, enter to win tickets to the upcoming What Did You Expect event at Eastmont Baptist Church.
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Counselor’s Corner Lou Priolo
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The Intersection Bob Crittenden
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Family Teams for Christ Lisa and Mike Conn
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Ashley McDonald and Derek Gann were married March 2, 2013, at First Baptist Church in Montgomery. They had a riverfront reception downtown, coordinated by wedding planner Mary Sanders of Mary Me, which included a sunset dinner and dancing under the stars. Derek is a business analyst with the North American Mission Board and Ashley is chief meteorologist at Alabama News Network (CBS 8 & ABC Montgomery).
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Around Our Community page 34
Support Groups page 36
Event Calendar page 40
Movie Reviews
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From the Publisher In three months DeAnne and I will celebrate 20 years of marriage. For some of our more seasoned readers, 20 years isn’t all that long, but in a culture that seemingly devalues the covenant of marriage on a weekly basis, 20 years isn’t as short as it once was. Getting married and becoming one with your spouse is one of the greatest gifts God has given. I’m not just saying this because I know she’ll read it, but DeAnne and I have an amazing marriage. We would both attest that marriage is one of God’s greatest gifts. Sadly, I know there are others who don’t feel the same. When you read the Scriptures it becomes very clear, very quickly, that life is messy. Because of our sin nature, due to original sin in the Garden of Eden, we continue to rebel against God’s rule and reign over our lives and reap the consequences of our sins. Marriage isn’t immune to this rebellious behavior either, but God’s blueprint for life and marriage, empowered by the Gospel of Grace and His Holy Spirit, enables male and female to come together in a beautiful union to minister to one another - elevating their lives as they together seek to glorify God and live under the “blessing” of his kingdom rule and reign. God instituted marriage and empowers it to this day. That’s why every January we dedicate a portion of our issue to Weddings and Marriage. There are many bridal publications available, but I have yet to find one that not only shares the hot wedding trends of the year, but also the long standing truths that make a marriage last. Starting on page 16 you’ll find articles and columns that will equip and prepare those planning a marriage, so please help us make sure this month’s issue finds a future bride you know. If you’re happily single or married, don’t think we left you out. We have all of our regular columns plus a few new ones. One in particular is our new column “With All Your Mind: Reflections on Faith and Reason,” by Matthew Jordan, Ph. D. Christianity is often attacked on the basis that it’s not reasonable because it doesn’t line up with modern “scientific truths”. Each month Dr. Jordan will defend the faith by sharing his thoughts on why Christianity is the most reasonable system in which to place our beliefs. Finally, as we begin this new year, I know there are many of you who would like to either reconnect or connect for the first time with a church because you want to know the Lord and grow closer to Him. We’re the only Christian publication in the River Region and many of you picked us up because you are looking for spiritual answers. I can’t express how much I support your desire and want to see you make that connection. Being part of a Christian church is vital to that pursuit. We have many churches that advertise with us because they want to invite you to their church. Please stop and read their ads and find out about the connection points they offer so that 2014 can be a special year for you in knowing the Lord.
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Faith Over Fear As a child growing up, I was afraid of closed spaces. Any place that made me feel claustrophobic with no way out frightened me greatly. I carried this fear within me, not willing to share it with anyone. There are many people who walk around feeling closed in by life’s circumstances and situations. In our minds we feel as though there is no way out, no way through. Be encouraged from the book Faith to Faith when it says, “When you’re up against the walls of life don’t start begging God to break through it for you. That’s not the way God works. He’ll give the plan, he’ll give you the power and he will give you the victory; according to the word of God.” I’m reminded of Matthew chapter 14 beginning with verse 22 where Jesus com-
manded his disciples to get into a ship to go before him to the other side: 22 And straightway Jesus constrained his disciples to get into a ship, and to go before him unto the other side, while he sent the multitudes away. 23 And when he had sent the multitudes away, he went up into a mountain apart to pray: and when the evening was come, he was there alone. 24 But the ship was now in the midst of the sea, tossed with waves: for the wind was contrary. 25 And in the fourth watch of the night Jesus went unto them, walking on the sea. 26 And when the disciples saw him walking on the sea, they were troubled, saying, It is a spirit; and they cried out for fear. 27 But straightway Jesus spake unto them, saying, Be of good cheer; it is I; be not afraid. KJV He gave them the plan, he gave them the power... now it’s time for victory. Before victory can come we must overcome fears of our circumstance and situation and put our trust in Him. If we are going to obtain victory we must see Jesus in our situation. The disciples were given the plan and the power, just as we are. Now we must trust Jesus for the victory. There is always victory in trusting Jesus. When a hard time comes into our life we must still believe that Jesus is in the midst of us. And when our troubles come out of nowhere just remember God is still in
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charge. The disciples found out that Jesus never takes his eyes off us. So as I go back and remind you that my fear was being in closed spaces feeling as though I had no way out, the Lord guided me to a car wash. He showed me the entrance and the exit before I entered the car wash. He did not show me what was in between. It was up to me to trust God to see me through it. He gave me the plan and he gave me the power to overcome my fear. I could see the cars going in and coming out, but had no idea what was between the entrance and the exit. I drove up and the sign said put your car in neutral and take your foot off of the brakes. That meant I was no longer in control. Matthew 14:24 says the ship was now in the midst of the sea, tossed with waves and the wind was contrary. The disciples were no longer in control of the ship. As the storm became more intense, they maintained the power to hold on. And just when they thought the worst, Jesus showed up and gave them the victory over the storm. When I entered the car wash, suds and water were splashing all around me making sounds I’d never heard before, and my fear became intense. Then I remembered the Lord prompting me before I entered to take notice of the cars exiting. I set my mind on the exit, because I knew this was only temporary. My friend, whatever your circumstances or situations are in life, Jesus will always be there. I believe God will always give us a plan, give us power and give us the victory to overcome all of life’s struggles. Edward J. Nettles is Senior Pastor of the Freewill Missionary Baptist Church, where he has served for more than twenty-five years. He is married to Beverly Webster Nettles and they have three children, two daughters-in law and four grandchildren.
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Sex. It’s a constant topic today, isn’t it? Whether you read entirely within Christian media, entirely outside of it, or a bit of both, you can hardly avoid the topic. And if it’s not sex itself, it’s one of the related topics—homosexuality or abortion or marriage. There are few areas where we find such debate and few areas that have greater impact on life, family and church. Denny Burk has just stepped into the fray with What Is The Meaning of Sex?, a wide-ranging treatment of what the Bible says about sex and sexuality. This is not a guide to a better marriage and certainly not a bedroom how-to. Instead, it is a book that addresses sex in the big picture—the biggest possible picture—by discovering the ultimate purpose for sex and, from there, its many implications. As the book begins, Burk explains his belief that much of our discussion about sex has been derailed by confusing the ultimate purpose of sex with its subordinate purposes. These subordinate purposes—the consummation of marriage, procreation, love, and pleasure—are good and God-honoring, but insufficient on their own to understand why God created sex. The ultimate purpose of sex, he says, is to glorify God. He proves this with a careful exposition of 1 Corinthians 6:12-20 where Paul corrects a sexual aberration among the Christians of Corinth by commanding the people there to use their bodies for God’s glory. “The ultimate purpose of sex is the glory of God. Sex, gender, marriage, manhood, womanhood— all of it—exist ultimately for the glory of God. The glory of God as the ultimate purpose of sex is not merely a theologiRiver Region’s Journey
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cal deduction. It is the explicit teaching of Scripture.” With that foundation firmly in place, Burk spends a chapter rebutting those contemporary theologians who like to pit Jesus against Paul as if Jesus the loving allowed all manner of sexual practices that Paul the prude later banned. Still sticking very close to the text of the Bible, Burk shows that we understand the Bible best when we see Paul’s words and Jesus’ words as friends rather than enemies. The rest of the book then builds upon this ultimate purpose and this careful hermeneutic by looking at some areas related to sexuality that are the subject of debate today. Chapter 3, “Glorify God with Your Marriage,” carefully traces what the Bible says about the definition of marriage: that it is covenantal, sexual, procreative, heterosexual, monogamous and nonincestuous. Burk proves its purposes from its definition, saying “Marriage is a sexual union for the purposes of consummation, procreation, the expression of love, and pleasure.” This “covenant sexual union of one man and one woman tends toward the glory of God as it symbolizes God’s redemptive love for his people through Christ. In this way sexual union within marriage tends toward the glory of God.” Chapter 4 is titled “Glorify God with Your Conjugal Union” and here Burk turns to 1 Corinthians 7 to show that sexual intimacy is both a privilege and a duty within marriage. He interacts with recent trends within evangelicalism that allow and even endorse certain sexual acts and aids (focus6
ing critical attention on Mark and Grace Driscoll and their book Real Marriage). He suggests and, I think, proves, that such people have succumbed to a serious misunderstanding of Christian freedom. He also provides a careful, excellent overview of what the Bible teaches about divorce and remarriage. As the book continues, he looks to family planning, pondering if and how married couples can glorify God through the use of birth control; he looks to gender, interacting with those who teach that gender is not a binary state but more of a scale in which a person may be more female than male but neither one fully; he looks at the most pressing issues in the debate on homosexuality; the final chapter turns to singleness and addresses topics such as delayed marriage and pornography. While there is a great deal to commend in What Is The Meaning of Sex?, let me point to just three of its most notable strengths: This book is biblical. No matter his topic, Burk never strays from a biblical text and as he looks at those texts he consistently applies careful, nuanced exegesis. This book is timely. While the principles are timeless, the issues he interacts with are most relevant and extremely helpful in our time and our context. This book is pastoral. While Burk is a scholar, he is also a pastor, and he brings together the best of both worlds by proceeding carefully and logically, but always with a view to real people in real situations. What Is the Meaning of Sex? is a good book—a very good book—and one I heartily recommend. There are hundreds of books out there on sex and marriage, but none quite like this and I believe it will prove especially helpful to pastors and to ministry leaders who find themselves navigating increasingly tricky waters. Burk’s careful work in the text of Scripture lays a foundation that will provide guidance for even the most perplexing question.
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Kay McGaughey Named YMCA Man of the Year
The YMCA of Montgomery named Kay McGaughey its 2013 YMCA Man of the Year. McGaughey, a 40-year YMCA volunteer, served as a student YMCA advisor since her arrival in Montgomery in 1990. Though she retired from teaching in 2011, she has remained advisor to St. James’s student YMCA. She and her husband, Bob, are active members of First Baptist Church in Montgomery. For 62 years, teens of the Montgomery student YMCAs have shown their appreciation to the men and women dedicated to serving youth in the community by planning and executing the YMCA’s Man of the Year annual program held the first Monday of December at Trinity Presbyterian Church. At the banquet, students pay tribute to the nominees, one of whom is selected as Man of the Year. This year’s program, co-chaired by Hayley White and Caitlin Cobb, seniors at Saint James High School, featured 25 nominees and a guest speaker, Felicia Long, YMCA of Montgomery’s 2012 Man of the Year. For more information about the YMCA of Montgomery’s student YMCA program, please contact Vice President Sam Adams at sadams@ymcamontgomery.org.
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Prattville Christian Academy is excited to announce that Sadie Robertson of A&E’s hit show Duck Dynasty will speak at a PCA fundraiser at the Montgomery Performing Arts Centre on Sunday, January 12, 2014 at 3:30. Sadie’s message is based on her faith and her walk with God. Sadie will discuss the role of faith in her life, devotions she is writing, and the importance of modesty as a teenage girl. Sadie will give a 45 minute presentation, followed by a question and answer session. Tickets to this event range from $38.50 to $82.50, and are available at ticketmaster. com or at MPAC, located at 201 Tallapoosa Street in downtown Montgomery.
Transition Conference 2014 for High School Seniors!
Saturday, January 25, 2014 Christ Community Church, 8285 Ryan Road, Montgomery. Details and registration at www.thetransmission.org/transconf.
Saint James UMC to Hold Auction to Benefit Missions
On Saturday, February 22, Saint James United Methodist Church will hold an auction to benefit youth and children missions. The auction will begin on Saturday, February 22, at 4:00 p.m. and last until 6:00 p.m. Visitors may preview items on Friday, February 21, from 4:00 – 7:00 p.m. There is no cost for admission. Items featured include antique furniture and rugs from Pickwick Antiques, original artwork, jewelry, salon and boutique certificates, gift cards from local restaurants, and vacation home rentals. Visit www.sjlifeauction.com for a preview of items. This marks the 5th year that the church has held a spring auction benefiting missions. Last year, the auction helped send 75 youth on mission trips to Alabama Rural Ministries in Tuskegee and to The Widow’s Ministry in Chattanooga, TN. They were also able to work with half a dozen other churches and local ministries in the Montgomery area including: Brantwood Children’s Home, Wesley Gardens Retirement Community, and Common Ground. Proceeds from this year’s auction will benefit mission projects in Honduras, the Appalachian Mountains, and at Georgia Washington Middle School in Montgomery, AL.
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Sewing Ministry Sends Quilts to Redbird Mission to Help Those in Need
Frazer’s Sewing Ministry volunteers have been hard at work, creating beautiful quilts, baby blankets and other items to send to those in need. In November, the group made 12 baby blankets and 8 baby quilts and sent them to Red Bird Mission in Beverly, Ky. a United Methodistaffiliated mission organization supported by Frazer. They also made a beautiful full-sized quilt that was also donated to Red Bird. Hours of work and lots of love went into each blanket and quilt, and the group members hope the items will be a blessing to the children and their families who receive them. This dedicated group of women meet every Wednesday from 9 a.m. to noon. In addition to creating blankets and quilts, they also mend clothing that comes to the Clothes Closet, repair choir robes and sew plus-size clothing to offer in the Clothes Closet, as there is a great need for items in larger sizes. They often use donated cloth and materials to create outfits and other items. To learn more about Red Bird Mission and the needs of the communities they serve, go to www.rbmission.org
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Eastmont Baptist Church 4505 Atlanta Highway Join Paul David Tripp as he redeems the realities of marriage in this weekend conference. Learn how a marriage of unity, understanding, and love is rooted in worship. This conference is hosted by Eastmont Baptist Church, Morningview Baptist Church, and First Presbyterian Church of Montgomery. Friday, 7 February 7:00 pm – 9:15 pm Saturday, 8 February 9:00 am – 12:15 pm For more information, please email Logan Blackmon at leblackmon@gmail.com.
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Please join us February 12-14, 2014, for the 9th Annual Married Couples Conference & Retreat, to be held in Montgomery, Alabama, at the Embassy Suites Hotel. The conference will be hosted by Rev. and Mrs. Walter Ellis of Pilgrim Rest Missionary Baptist Church. Come and enrich your marriage! The registration deadline is January 31, 2014. For more information and to register, visit the Married Couples Conference page on the website, www.nationalbaptist.com. 11
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“Big Bang Christianity” I came to faith as a college freshman in 1996. I was a pretty typical American kid and a graduate of a good public school system. I believed in the standard scientific account of natural history, including the Big Bang and Darwinian evolution, and it never occurred to me at the time that I might need to reconsider the Big Bang in order to be a faithful Christian. (Evolution is a more complicated topic, but it’s not what we’re talking about here.) It was only some years later, as my experience with American Evangelicalism deepened, that I became aware that there are well-meaning people who reject the Big Bang on religious grounds and who teach their children that they too must choose between faithfulness to Jesus and belief in the Big Bang. This attitude often stems from noble motives, but I would argue that it is foolish, in at least two ways. First, it is a recipe for pushing smart kids away from Christianity. This column is not the place to get into the scientific evidence for the Big Bang; let it suffice to say that the quality of that evidence is overwhelmingly impressive. When kids who have been taught that the Big Bang would disprove Christianity grow up and encounter that evidence for themselves, the results can be disastrous—and needlessly so. Questions about the age of the universe and the length of the “days” in Genesis 1 are River Region’s Journey
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matters about which sincere Christians can and do disagree. Respected Evangelical theologians like Wayne Grudem, Millard Erickson, and Norman Geisler have argued that “the age of the earth is a matter that is not directly taught in Scripture,” that “we cannot be dogmatic” about this topic, and that “the exact method of Creation is still a moot question.” Many people who reject the Big Bang do so, I think, because they take belief in a literal six day creation less than ten thousand years ago to be part and parcel of orthodox Christian faith. This is an enormous mistake. Second, the notion that the Big Bang poses a problem for theism gets things exactly backwards. The people who really ought to be worried about the Big Bang are the atheists. If you want to disbelieve in God, and you want to be a reasonable person while doing so, you should hope to find compelling evidence that the universe we inhabit has always been here. If this universe has always existed—if the universe just is, and that’s the end of it— then questions about where it came from may seem considerably less vexing. Evidence for the Big Bang, however, presents a serious problem for the atheist, because, among other things, the Big Bang implies that the universe has not always existed. This physical realm of atoms and stars and galaxies had a beginning. And a reasonable person cannot help but conclude that, 12
therefore, there must be more to reality than this physical universe. Something more must exist. Reality is bigger than we ever dreamed. There is Something on which the existence of the universe depends, Something that did not itself begin to exist and which is powerful enough to create a universe. Now, this alone does not prove that the Something is, in fact, a Someone— much less that the God of the Bible exists. But it is enough to give us pause for thought. And it’s certainly enough to show that the people who ought to be worried about the implications of the Big Bang are not the folks you’ll find in church on Sunday.
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Check Your Baggage “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” Matthew 11:28 Many years ago when I was a young lady fresh out of college, I had a blue hanging bag that became known as “Ole Blue.” When I traveled by plane, I would stuff Ole Blue so full, it barely resembled luggage. My goal was to walk on the plane without having to check my baggage. I would throw Ole Blue on my shoulder, and try to stroll on the plane as if the weight wasn’t killing me or that this piece of luggage wasn’t far beyond the limits allowed for carry-on. In those pre-9/11 years, it often worked, but it left me feeling tired and sore. I would get to where I was going faster by avoiding baggage claim, but I would pay for lugging that huge bag all over the airport. If you’ve traveled recently you know if you have too much baggage, it will cost you financially. Today airlines are charging fees per bag in an effort to offset the price of fuel and the sluggish economy. So bottom-line, carrying too much baggage means you’ll pay... one way or another. The same is true in life when we choose to carry around the difficulties that have come our way; we become a person “with a lot of baggage”! We feel drained, maybe bitter, leaving no room for God’s joy and peace to penetrate our souls. River Region’s Journey
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Look at Psalm 68:19-20: Praise be to the Lord, to God our Savior, who daily bears our burdens. Our God is a God who saves; from the Sovereign Lord comes escape from death. He DAILY bears our burdens. Baggage comes in many forms, and it usually involves pain, guilt or anger or all of the above! The loss of a loved one, a difficult divorce, abuse, an addiction, a job loss... all of these situations have the potential to become a heavy burden, a huge piece of over stuffed baggage that will weigh you down, cause you great pain, and cost you the life our Heavenly Father intends for you to live—one of joy, freedom and rest. Matthew 11:28-30: Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light. For me “baggage” came in the form of pain and anger over losing my mom at a young age. Pain over the loss of a precious, loving mom and anger at God. I lugged this baggage around for 19 years, not intentionally, but because I didn’t give 14
it to God and allow Him to comfort me, it was mine to hold... and was it ever heavy. It prevented me from getting very close to people because that was an area of my life I couldn’t share, it hurt too much. It became a huge wall, a stronghold, blocking God’s richest blessings of true joy, peace, forgiveness—blocking a full relationship with Jesus Christ. Thankfully a Godly woman could see I was hurting through my mask of “everything’s just fine” and she walked me through God’s word, right up to where I could check my baggage. When I finally laid it at the foot of the cross, I felt the tidal wave of unconditional love and forgiveness pouring over me and through me. I felt the comfort He gives so we can comfort others. No more drained existence, no more constant hurt, no more cost. My baggage was checked... Hallelujah! As you begin this New Year, what better time than now to free yourself of any baggage. Ask God to search your heart and tell you if there’s something you need to check. Sometimes it’s obvious, other times that baggage has become so much of who we are, we can’t see it. God can. A Godly friend probably can as well. Ask yourself, as a friend, most of all ask God...is there something I’m lugging around that’s blocking a full, deeply meaningful spiritual walk? Is there something negative in my life I could actually pass onto another generation if I don’t check it now? Give it up and throw away the claim ticket. “Save me and rescue me, for you do what is right. Turn your ear to listen to me, and set me free.” Psalm 71:2
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Financial Advice for Newlyweds If you’re getting ready to tie the knot, then one thing you definitely want to talk about with your honey is money! You probably have lots going on, and emotions are running high. But believe us: now is the time to get on the same page about money. Money fights and money problems have been the leading cause of divorce for decades—but the good news is that these issues are preventable! Getting on the same page creates a strong foundation for a healthy, lifetime marriage. Plus, you’re stopping money fights before they start! A lot of couples find that being unified with their money increases their intimacy overall. Like Dave says, “When you can talk about money, you can talk about anything.” Talking about money is easier than you may think—especially if you start before you say, “I do.” Here is a quick five-step checklist to get you started building a solid foundation for your life together:
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Put It All on the Table
Transparency is the key! Lay out exactly what your current individual situations are openly and honestly, including how much debt you still have and what your views of money are. You might want to discuss what your parents taught you about money—and what you do and don’t agree with—kindly, of course. Criticism and judgmental attitudes are not welcome from either party. Read more about communicating effectively with your spouse.
“Marry” Your Accounts
When you get married, combining your money into joint accounts is a crucial step. You are becoming one. Keeping one area separated can lead to others, and you want to set a precedent from the get-go. Working together from a shared account brings honesty, unity and a sense that “we’re in this together!”
Start Budgeting Together
Once you are married, it’s time to put your combined income and expenses on paper, on purpose, and determine what a typical month is going to look like. It’s good to go ahead and practice budgeting together
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once you get engaged. That way, you can go ahead and make adjustments so things are set up to work smoothly when game time finally comes. After the wedding, revisit the budget each month at the Budget Committee Meeting to make adjustments as needed. Get tips for uniting over the budget.
Make A Plan
Once everything is on the table, determine what Baby Step you are on—as a couple! If you were on Baby Step 4, but your bride-to-be is on Baby Step 2, then guess what? You’re on Baby Step 2 now. But that’s all right! You love this person with all of your heart, so taking “their” debt as “our” debt is a small price to pay in the grand scheme of things. Set priorities together and make a plan for moving through Dave’s Seven Baby Steps as a team.
Put Your Relationship First
Whatever you do, don’t stress! It’s just money. Your relationship is so much more important. Getting on the same page with money is extremely helpful, but it’s not the ultimate end all, be all. Just keep that in perspective when you come to the table together.
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Hello beautiful brides and brides to be! Planning a wedding is such a special and fun experience for all parties involved. Every bride wants her wedding to be special, fun and memorable! The wedding planning process can become overwhelming at times so it is important to remember to stay calm and enjoy the experience; this is supposed to be the happiest moment of your life.
weddings in 2014, you will see a few that really serve as a base to build from. Shades of blues, pinks and grays are all going to be very popular. Taking one of these colors and pairing it with soft neutrals or with one another will really set the tone for your big day. Look to see shades of blue like navy, royal and aqua really show up in wedding attire and décor.
The months spent planning and thinking through each detail can become a full time job for the bride. Here are some things that will hopefully give you a little insight as to what will be hot for 2014 in weddings and help in your planning process. First, finding the perfect inspiration picture can take loads of stress off of you and ensure that your wedding planner, florist, cake designer, and all parties involved know exactly the look you are going for. Here is a closer look at HOT WEDDING TRENDS for 2014! Photo by The Reason (Chris & Allie)
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Although shades of pink were popular last year, they are still very “in” for the wedding world. All shades of pink will be seen throughout weddings in 2014. Gray has really become a great neutral to use in your wedding design. It pairs so nicely with blues and pinks.
Your wedding color scheme plays an essential role in the look of your wedding. It is important that you choose just the right colors to make your event pop and match the exact appearance you are going for. Looking at colors for River Region’s Journey
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The wedding dress is typically one of the first things a bride thinks about once she becomes engaged. Bridal runway shows have definitely set the stage of trends to look for while selecting your dress this year. A few details to look for are dramatic veils, Juliet cap veils, floral crowns for the bride, and vintage inspired hair embellishments. Long sleeve Saxon McClamma Photgraphy lace wed-
ding gowns and open back wedding gowns are definitely making their mark with wedding dress designers in their collections this year. Also, short dresses were seen a lot at the Bridal Fashion Week. This would be a perfect way to show off those wedding day shoes! For fall 2014 weddings, you will see wedding dresses accompanied with boleros, wraps or beaded jackets. Flowers are already a big part of a wedding day design, but this year, you will see flower rosettes and details sewn right into the de-
sign of dresses. There are many great trends in store for 2014, but always remember to pick the wedding dress trend that best flatters you!
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Vintage details are very big in wedding design this year. From furniture to lace to special family heirlooms, vintage is widespread among wedding designers. Adding vintage details brings a romantic feel to your day. Using family heirlooms is a way to honor the memory of those family members who are not present on the big day. Whether you incorporate pieces as table centerpieces, cake table displays or in your bouquet, it is sure to make a statement. Bringing in vintage furniture as part of the reception dĂŠcor helps to create that romantic and timeless atmosphere. Chalkboards and different types of frames with hand-lettered signage will still be very prevalent in 2014 weddings. Anything to help guests know where to go, what to do, and what
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they are eating always goes a long way. In the past, tall floral arrangements on tables have been popular, but now you will see a shift to lower flower arrangements on tables, even florals going down the entire length of tables that are full of beautiful blooms. Succulents, in bouquets and arrangements, are also very trendy in floral designs. Peonies are still the most requested wedding day flower, and rightfully so. They are beautiful and full and add so much to any arrangement. You will see more peonies being used throughout the wedding and not just the bouquets. Like with wedding dresses, lace is big this year! In years past we have seen lace in wedding dresses and veils, cakes and invitations, but now
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you will really see it brought in more with décor. Think full lace drapes and tablecloths! Incorporating marquee initial letters and one-word marquees, like LOVE, will be a nice touch to the wedding day design...as a ceremony backdrop or a subtle detail at the reception. Feathers are also an interesting element that will be seen in décor. With all the beautiful details and flowers that are used on the wedding day, event lighting has really become a staple in the overall wedding design. Highlighting focal points,
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up lighting, hanging chandeliers and stringing bulbs really helps to showcase the décor and emphasizes the overall look. It just puts the finishing touch on everything! As you begin to think about planning your wedding and collecting ideas to incorporate, I would encourage each bride to enjoy the engagement and planning. Don’t sweat the small stuff. If you can’t find that perfect shoe or the printer doesn’t have the exact font you want, it is okay. Keep a good perspective of the whole process. Let it be a time that you have fun, enjoy the decisions and celebrate what’s about to happen! Let this day be one that reflects you as a couple and the things that are important to you both. Try not to let the planning overwhelm you, and remember what’s most important...you have found the one that God hand picked for you! Mary Sanders is a wedding planner and owner of Mary Me. She has been planning weddings and receptions for eight years. She is married to Adam and is the mother of three young children. Visit Mary’s website at www.marymebrides.com.
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How long have you been married and what are your fondest memories of your wedding and the days leading up to it? We were married on March 2, 2013, so we have been married for a little under a year. Derek’s Fondest Memory: My fondest memory is hard to narrow down to just one as I have so many. That said, the two that stand out most are when I saw my bride for the first time, and when I saw her walking down the aisle. For our first look, I stood in the middle of the courtyard at First Baptist Church, holding 25 white balloons. They covered my face, as to not see my futurebride approaching. When she arrived, we counted to three, I released the balloons and what stood before me was my radiant bride in her flowing white gown, smile gleaming. My hands covered my mouth as I was in true awe. I gave Ashley the biggest hug and told her that I couldn’t wait for her to be my bride. I will never forget seeing her for the first time. The second memory that is equally as memorable is when she came in the back doors of the church walking down the aisle. I know people say that the women are the only ones who look forward to their wedding day, but I for one could not wait to see the woman of my dreams, my forever, walking down the aisle to be by my side. And, even though I had seen her prior to the ceremony, it took nothing away from that moment. Ashley’s fondest memory: Like Derek, it’s hard to pick just one memory. I would have to say standing by Derek’s side for our ceremony, sharing communion and exchanging our vows, was the most memorable. Some often think standing in front of all those people can be distracting or awkward, but it was amazing how I felt like we were the only people in the room, focused in on what the pastor was saying. To me, Journey our vows set the tone January 2014 for our life together centered River Region’s 22
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on Christ. Although our vows were not traditional, they were biblically-based and expressed our promise to cultivate a marriage that represents Christ’s love; treating one another with kindness, love, and respect; never ceasing to pray for the other; and always putting the others’ needs before our own. We felt that communion was an outward representation of this love and felt it to be a key moment in our ceremony.
Most couples spend the majority of their engagement time planning for the “wedding” rather than planning for their “marriage”. How did you prepare for marriage so that it could start off on the right foot and grow even richer with time? We were engaged for only six months, but immediately plugged into what most people call “marriage counseling”. We liked to think of this as marriage guidance and preparation, the foundation we were setting for our life as husband and wife. We actually sought guidance from two churches, two pastors, on separate sides of the U.S. During our engagement, Derek was living in California and I was in Montgomery. Thanks to technology, and well-timed visits, we were able to have several meetings with Derek’s pastor at Mariner’s Church in Newport Beach, as well as sessions with Jay Wolf here in Montgomery at First Baptist Church. We took an assessment test, and this was a tremendous blessing as it really helped to identify what we were both bringing to the marriage. Everyone has a story, a past, but we all have a future. So, in assessing who we are as individuals, based on how we were raised, our culture and environment, we were able to learn how to take the best parts into our new family. We learned how personality differences can complement one another and we learned that not everyone communicates or shows love the same way you do. We found the conversations and leadership of the pastors to be engaging and a wealth of knowledge. The counseling sessions can also be an opportunity to bond in emotional intimacy. Counseling is not to reveal “the bad” and tell you how wrong you are; it’s quite the opposite. It revealed to us how good marriage is and deepened our relationship richly. As beautiful as the wedding day is, one must never forget that we are sinners, marrying sinners. Through our talks with each pastor, the greatest charge that was given to us was to follow Christ together. 23
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As you seek to honor Christ above all else, how would you say that focus helps you have a thriving marriage and a right attitude toward your spouse? As mentioned before, we are all sinners. No matter how much we “love” our spouse, our flesh can easily creep into the cracks of life. Because Derek and I are keenly aware of this, we try in all we do to keep focused on Christ. Simply put, we don’t want to mess it up. First, it was never a doubt where we would be on Sundays...at church. Next, we plugged into a small group. Knowing our limitations and that we couldn’t do this whole marriage thing alone, we wanted the support and advice of others sharing the same season in life. Outside of church, in the quiet of our home, Derek and I pray together often and make an effort to share something we learned in our quiet time or Bible study. No, we are not perfect. But, through it all, we earnestly seek God’s word and share life together. In honoring Christ, we do not keep our spiritual lives separate, rather in all that we do we try to share, whether it’s serving together in the nursery or committing to make someone’s Christmas a little brighter by participating
in the Angel Tree. We believe that praying and serving together helps us to grow not only closer to one another, but also closer to Christ. And lastly, when we keep Christ the center, even when our flesh flares up, we are able to look at one another and say, “You are Christ’s creation.” And that thought dissolves so many cords of tension and breaks down our walls of pride. We try to treat each other the way Christ would treat us, with the same dignity, love, and respect. The important thing is we must stay in the Word, which is our guide, and put into practice what we learn, because knowledge without implementation is fruitless.
What advice would you give engaged or newly married couples to help them prepare for marriage and to help them grow in “oneness” after marriage? In the busyness of life, make time for one another. Pray together, and not just for one another, but out loud, together. This is an especially personal and intimate opportunity only you get to share with your spouse. Serve together, in church, at a soup kitchen, etc. Serving not only makes you
feel good, but when you serve with your helpmate it takes on a new perspective. I love watching Derek serve. It makes me proud to see how God has gifted him and to watch him put those gifts into action. It is deeply rewarding for me as a wife. Always serve one another; it could be as little as breakfast in bed one Saturday morning. Just do things so that the other person never doubts they are a priority in your life. Learn the other person’s love language. Love is spoken in different ways, and learning how your mate shows and receives loves is important in serving them and maximizing the fullness of their love cup. Always keep your relationship in proper perspective. God calls us to put Him first, then our marriage, then comes everything else. God created this order for a reason. Work daily to abide by this order and I believe God will bless your marriage richly. And through blessing your marriage, you’ll bless others around you, too. Ashley and Derek have known each other since they were 11 years old and living in Georgia. Currently, Derek is a business analyst with the North American Mission Board and Ashley is chief meteorologist at Alabama News Network (CBS 8 & ABC Montgomery). Fun fact: Derek and Ashley have the exact same birthday. Same day, same year: May 11th. * Photography by The Reason (Chris & Allie), Atlanta, GA. www.thereasonilove.com.
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It’s rare to walk into marriage without an arsenal of expectations ready to fire. While some of us recognize these expectations, most of us don’t.
attempted to hold us back from God’s arsenal of incredible love. River Region’s Journey had the unique opportunity to talk with pastor, counselor, speaker and bestselling author Paul David Tripp this month about his book, What Did You Expect? Redeeming the Realities of Marriage, and give you a sneak preview of what Paul will be tackling when he speaks at Eastmont Baptist Church in Montgomery on February 7-8. Paul says that marriage, according to Scripture, will always involve two flawed people living with each other in a fallen world. Yet, in his professional experience, the majority of couples enter marriage with unrealistic expectations, leaving them unprepared for the day-to-day realities of married life. Paul introduces a biblical and practical approach to those realities that
And when it comes right down to it, and things aren’t as rosy as we had in our minds, we have two choices. We can fold to complacency and conclude, “This must be how it’s going to be,” or we can fight for a marriage founded on Christ and His ability to pour endless resources of love, grace, and forgiveness into our hearts, which overflows into our marriage. This, of course, is much easier said than done. At the end of the day, we can all agree that marriage is hard, yet beautiful. It’s an opportunity to learn to love and be loved, forgive and be forgiven. But at it’s core, marriage is a picture of the story of Jesus and how He rescued us, His bride, from the dominion of darkness that River Region’s Journey
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is rooted in God’s faithfulness and Scripture’s teaching on sin and grace. Needless to say, we were excited to have the opportunity to hear him talk a little more about the issues couples, both young and old, face in marriage, plus the way Christ gives us the grace to keep going. RRJ: In your book, you say all couples come into marriage with unrealistic expectations. How can couples preparing to enter into marriage start to discuss these expectations before they walk down the aisle and not let the conversation stop there? PDT: Part of the problem is the way we use Scripture. We treat the Bible like an encyclopedia, so when we’re about to get married, we run to all the marriage passages. Yet, the majority of biblical wisdom about marriage isn’t found in these passages! We need to understand what the Bible says about God, about our selfishness, and about life in a fallen world. If we read the Bible for a wholesome perspective on life, and not just as a “self-help book” for marriage, then we have a better chance of keeping our expectations realistic. But there’s another thing – “love.” Engaged couples don’t want to prepare for future conflict and stress because they don’t want to mess up the unfettered affection that has left them in a virtual romantic delirium. Now, I want to say that I think deep and mutual affection is a beautiful thing, but we must not let it motivate us to deny reality. In the midst of the power of premarital romance, it is very hard to get yourself to want to take a hard and honest look at reality. RRJ: How can we enter into marriage and be married with a correct view of not just our spouse’s sin, but our sin as well? How do we balance that with our expectations? What should our expectations be for marriage anyway? PDT: Here’s a biblical view of marriage: it’s a flawed person, married to a flawed person, living in a fallen world…(are you encouraged yet?), but with a faithful God. Now for the quiz: How many flawed people are in that equation? Yes, you will be sinned against in marriage, but you need to know this – you are your biggest marriage problem. Your husband or wife is never the cause of your sin. They might be the occasion, but your sinful heart is always the cause of your sin. If two people in a marriage are convinced that their spouse is the biggest problem, how can you expect any change and growth? I was a counselor for many years, and if a husband and wife both came to me looking to have their spouse fixed, I would be out of a job. How can you have two utterly sinless people in a marriage and it be full of conflict? When a husband and wife own their sin and recognize their selfishness, then you’re on the pathway to change.
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RRJ: There are so many marriage books and conferences that focus on the expressions of what your book describes as a war of worship. How do we truly experience a shift in the way we think about marriage when we realize our problem is deeper than the physical manifestations of our misplaced worship? PDT: I have to confess that I’m a writer of marriage books that hates marriage books, because I don’t think most of these books actually get down to the level where the difficulty takes place. Marriage problems are never about situations and locations; they’re never about finances and in-laws; they’re not about biblical roles or sexuality. Those might be the location of the problems, but they’re never the cause. Here’s what you need to do: you need to recognize and own the fact that you carry something destructive into your marriage relationship (and all relationships, for that matter). It’s called sin. Sin, in its fundamental form, is anti-social, because it causes me to worship other things than the Lord. When I’m not worshipping the Lord, I won’t care to treat my spouse in a way that fosters healthy relationships. Paul David Tripp will elaborate on these and other concepts at the upcoming conference What Did You Expect: Redeeming the Realities of Marriage, on Friday, February 7, and Saturday, February 8, at Eastmont Baptist Church in Montgomery. Tickets are $12.50 and may be purchased at www.eventbrite.com. Rachel Fisher loves learning what God is up to in the world and writing about it. She and her husband Chase live in Montgomery.
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Revelation: The Prerequisite to a Healthy Relationship Have you ever stopped to consider that were it not for the Bible, you wouldn’t be able to have a personal relationship with God through Jesus Christ? Think about it: If it weren’t for God’s written revelation of Himself to man, you simply would not be able to know how to become a Christian. To the extent that He revealed Himself to you through the Bible, you are able to have an intimate relationship with Him. Had He not revealed Himself to you, you would not be able to relate to Him as a son/daughter. Revelation, therefore, is a prerequisite for having a relationship. This is true not only of your relationship with God, but also with people. To the extent that two people reveal themselves to each other they will be able to have an intimate relationship with one another. To the extent that two people refuse or neglect to reveal themselves to each other, to that same degree their ability to have an intimate relationship with one another will be hindered. Now, since marriage is the most intimate of interpersonal relationships, it stands to reason that a husband and wife, if they are to experience the “one flesh” intimacy (companionship) intended by God, ought to reveal themselves more to each other than to anyone else. On every level (physically, intellectually, emotionally, etc.) they should be “naked and unashamed” (Genesis 2:25). Sadly, too often this is not the case. Indeed, because of sin husbands and wives are ashamed and afraid to reveal themselves to one another. This lack of openness and honesty (this lack of revelation) keeps many, I daresay most couples (yes, even most Christian couples) from experiencing the security, refreshment and bliss that God intended for them to have within the oasis of marriage.
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There are several factors that commonly prevent couples from “pulling back the curtain” and exposing their true selves to each other. Among them are the following: River Region’s Journey
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1. Fear. Perhaps the greatest hindrance to revelation is fear. In Genesis 3:7–10) we see that Adam and Eve were stricken with fear and hid themselves from God when they realized their own nakedness. So also, husbands and wives are often stricken with fear and hide their true selves from each other when they realize the sinfulness of their own hearts. Christian couples who are “one flesh” with each other, and who are committed to each other’s mutual sanctification ought not to fear such embarrassment and rejection. Indeed, they should have realized long ago that in a marriage of two sinners, both parties would sin. Rather than concealing sin from one another they ought to feel free to disclose to each other their struggles with indwelling sin in the hope of finding assistance to overcome it. 2. Selfishness. There is a very real corollary in the Bible between sinful fear and selfishness. People who are selfish tend to be fearful. People who are fearful are necessarily selfish. According to the Scriptures, the opposite of (and antidote for) sinful fear is love. 1 John 4:18 explains, “There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear, because fear involves punishment, and the one who fears is not perfected in love.” But, love is also the opposite of (and antidote for) the sin of selfishness. Try looking at it this way. Love is being more concerned with what I can give than with what I can get. Selfishness is being more concerned with what I can get than with what I can give. Fear is being more concerned with what I might lose than with what I can give. When you allow the fear of your spouse’s rejection to keep you from loving her (him), by not revealing that which is biblically necessary for her (him) to know about you, you are 28
being selfish. You are, at that moment, more concerned about how such a revelation may hurt you than you are concerned about how it may help your partner. When you fail to love your spouse in this way, you simultaneously fail to love God, and you thus break the first and second greatest commandments (to love God and your neighbor). 3. Pride. The sin of pride blinds you to other sins in your life and hinders you from repenting of them. Pride is the “Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome” (AIDS) of the soul. The AIDS virus somehow blinds the eyes of its victim’s bodily defense system. This prevents his auto immune system from seeing and consequently destroying those deadly pathogens that ultimately kill him. Like AIDS, pride blinds you not only to itself, but to every other sin tucked away in the recesses of your heart and life. It causes you to hate correction and reproof. It hides your sin from you, it justifies your sin, it excuses your sin, and it keeps you from repenting of your sin. Before the fall, Adam and Eve were both naked and unashamed (Genesis 2:25). These terms do not refer only to the fact that they weren’t wearing any clothing. It primarily speaks of the total openness, honesty and frankness which they enjoyed before their pride caused them to cover their sins. In the final analysis, what keeps a husband and wife from enjoying this “one flesh” intimacy that Adam and Eve knew in the Garden of Eden is pride. Don’t let any of these three aforementioned sins keep you from revealing those things to your spouse which she (he) has a biblical need to know about you. **If you would like to get in touch with this or any counselor at Eastwood Counseling Center, please call 334-386-2384. Lou Priolo is the director of counselling at Eastwood Presbyterian Church in Montgomery, Alabama. He is the author of several books, including The Heart of Anger, The Complete Husband, Teach Them Diligently, Getting a Grip, Picking Up the Pieces and Pleasing People. In addition to his books, Lou has dozens of recordings extrapolated from his twenty seven years of lectures, teaching and preaching. He is the editor of the Resources for Biblical Living series of booklets dealing with numerous counselling issues. Lou is a Fellow in the Association of Certified Biblical Counsellors and an instructor with the Birmingham Theological Seminary. He travels frequently throughout the United States and abroad training pastors, laymen, and fellow counsellors. Lou and his wife Kim are the parents of two girls, Sophia and Gabriella.
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“Science” had a 176% increase in look-ups. In a statement, the dictionary editors said that, “A wide variety of discussions centered on science this year, from climate change to educational policy…We saw heated debates about ‘phony’ science, or whether science held all the answers. It’s a topic that has great significance for us.” For years, there has been an attempt to separate science from faith. Studying the science, however, can show us an amazing amount of evidence for design. If we look into the orderly world of ap-
plied science, we can see an incredible amount of order in the universe that cannot be explained by random occurrences. Just over a year and a half ago on my radio program, I related a discovery I had made about a common instance in nature that illustrates the intricacy of the design of creation. There is a common spiral pattern that is found in nature, such as in shells and a variety of other examples. This “golden spiral” framework employs what is called the “Fibonacci sequence”, which was discovered around A.D. 1200 by Leonardo
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This spiral is visible in things as diverse as: hurricanes, spiral seeds, the cochlea of the human ear, ram’s horn, seahorse tail, growing fern leaves, DNA molecule, waves breaking on the beach, tornados, galaxies, the tail of a comet as it winds around the sun, whirlpools, seed patterns of sunflowers, daisies, dandelions, and in the construction of the ears of most mammals. He relates also that on a large scale, Fibonacci numbers are found when the time period of each planet’s revolution around the sun is compared in round numbers to the one adjacent to it. According to Willson, when the smaller number of the spiral pattern is divided into the larger number adjacent to it, the ratio will be approximately 1.618. Not coincidentally, that is the ratio of what is called the “golden rectangle”, which is found to be pleasing to the eye. It’s incorporated into art by da Vinci, Van Gogh, Monet, and others. If the short side of the rectangle is 1, the long side will be 1.618. He says, “This rectangular shape was close to the pattern used in the designing of the Parthenon of Greece and for many of their numerous pictures, vases, doorways, windows, statues, etc., and even for certain features of the Great Pyramid of Egypt. The United Nations building is a golden rectangle. Many of the things you use are (approximately) patterned after the golden rectangle— credit cards, playing cards, postcards, light switch plates, writing pads, 3-by-5 and 5-by-8 cards, etc.” Amazing, isn’t it? I believe that the precision and patterns found in creation indicate to us that neither the earth nor its inhabitants were the result of random chance occurrences - we do not serve a random God, but One who is intimately and intricately involved in the foundation of our world and the formation of our lives. He has the ability to order our lives, and is far more capable of ordering our steps than we are in our own human wisdom.
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These shapes, numbers, spirals, and the divine proportion are ubiquitous in their presence throughout all of creation. They are found in living and nonliving phenomena. Their symmetry, beauty, and mathematical preciseness are evident in every aspect of nature. Although absolute perfection is not found in all of these (due to the effects of Adam’ sin), their very presence virtually everywhere and in everything argues against their having occurred by blind chance or evolutionary processes. The only rational conclusion is that the Creator of the universe is a personal, intelligent Being, who created these things as a visible fingerprint of His invisible, yet personal existence. Take a few moments to consider the scientific evidence, which points to this magnificent Creator God. We can point to instances of design as evidence of a powerful and wise designer, and surrender to Him, who has a precise plan for our lives.
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Are YOU the Manager? Little did my husband know what was hidden in the heart of his new bride. In fact, I didn’t know either. We both learned a valuable lesson that cold and rainy night as we travelled northwest from our home on the Mississippi Gulf Coast to visit his mother in Vicksburg, MS. I was still a new member of the Conn family, and most of our friends and relatives saw me as a sweet, even-tempered girl. However, what we learned that night was, when provoked enough, there was a different side of Lisa; a side to be reckoned with. Taking a much-needed break from the wet highway, we stopped at a fast food restaurant for supper and coffee for the road. We sat down inside and quickly ate a mediocre meal. Then I opened my coffee lid to prepare the drink for travel. It immediately became obvious to me that the coffee was not fresh--in fact, it had probably been cooking on the burner for most of the day. There was a black sticky residue clinging to the inside of the lid--a scum that had taken only 15 minutes to accumulate. I added cream and sugar and bravely tasted my coffee, confirming what I suspected: we had just paid for coffee that was not fit for consumption. Mike checked his drink and came to the same conclusion. My knight in shining armor stood up and took our coffees to the counter where four employees were standing by. He patiently waited for someone to notice him, but no one did. The people behind the counter were facing him, but somehow, River Region’s Journey
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everyone found something else to do! I sat there watching as long as I could, but finally, after an eternity, I stood up and made my way to support him. Mike didn’t hear me coming. When I arrived, I pointed my finger at one of the workers and asked in a loud voice, “ARE YOU THE MANAGER?” Poor Mike nearly jumped out of his skin! He tried to shush me, but I wouldn’t be shushed. I asked the question again, “ARE YOU THE MANAGER?” What happened next could only be described as “passing the buck”, while everyone claimed that he didn’t make the coffee. That is all I remember about the coffee--I think we ended up leaving with none. But what I’ll never forget was Mike’s reaction to me! He was mortified that his wife could be so loud and aggressive! I didn’t really understand it, but I think I had scared him. He saw a side of his Lisa that he had never seen before and probably wondered what else was lurking behind that sweet facade! In the same way, let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds and praise your Father in heaven. Matthew 5:16 Are you the manager? Obviously, I was not letting my light shine before anyone in the restaurant that night. And if you live your life in the fast lane and are wondering where the next rest stop is, it’s difficult to take the time to let your light shine. Am I too busy to allow God to be in charge? Here are three suggestions that will help you let God manage your life: 32
1. Make God the manager of your life. Pray for God’s guidance. How good am I at loving others as I love myself? Mike has had a lot of work piled up lately. But when a troubled husband called and asked to meet with him, he dropped everything and went. That young man needed encouragement and godly wisdom that day--and God sent it to him through Mike. 2. Make God the top priority of your life. Spend time reading your Bible and quietly meditating on the scriptures, praying throughout the day. You will be surprised how God will bless your simple act of obedience to put him first in your life.
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Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy and Glynwood Baptist Church, Prattville APAC- Alabama Pre/Post Adoption Connection Support Group provides education and social interaction for adoptive families. Montgomery Group meets 3rd Thursdays, 6-7:30 p.m., Room 8114 at Frazer UMC. For information, call Hannah Taylor at 409-9477 or the church office at 272-8622. Autauga/Elmore Group meets 4th Tuesdays, 6-7:30 p.m., Glynwood Baptist Church, Prattville. Childcare, children’s group and dinner provided. For more info, call 409-9477 or e-mail htaylor@childrensaid.org. Location: Landmark Church, 1800 Halcyon Blvd. Leaders: Chad & Betsy Emerson (334) 201-5241 Wednesday, 6:30pm in Rm. 116. The Orphan Care Group will focus on God’s call to help orphans through adoption, foster care, and missions work. The group will share experiences, study and Biblical themes regarding orphan care, and provide a support and network for individuals who want to support orphans.
Alcoholic / Addict
Location: Caring Center of FBC, 52 Adams Avenue CrossRoads Support Group is for addicts/alcoholics and family members. Meets at 6 p.m. Tuesdays and follows a Christ-centered 12-step program. Call 264-4949. Location: Cloverdale Baptist, 608 E. Fairview Celebrate Recovery, a Bible-based Christ centered approach to recovery from hurts, habits and hang-ups, meets Friday nights, beginning with dinner at 5:30 p.m., Praise and worship, 6:30, Open Share Small Groups, 7:30, and Cafe, at 8:30. Call 265-9223. Location: Dalraida UMC, 3817 Atlanta Highway Alcoholics Anonymous meets at 6 p.m. on Tuesdays. 272.2190. Alanon meets at 6 p.m. on Wednesdays. Location: Grace @ Bell Road, Corner of Bell Road and Atlanta Hwy. Alcoholics Anonymous and Alanon meetings are held Monday, Tuesday, Thursday, and Friday, at 6 p.m. An Open AA Speaker meeting is held on Saturday at 6 p.m. An Alanon & AA held on Sundays at 2 p.m. Location: Grace Point Community Church, 78223 Tallassee Hwy (Hwy 14), Wetumpka Celebrate Recovery- every Tuesday night- 6:15pm. All are welcome! These meetings are a safe and loving environment for individuals seeking to conquer their hurts, habits and hang-ups! gracepoint.info. River Region’s Journey
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Location: Journey Church, group meets in Fellowship Hall at Coosada Baptist Church, Millbrook Celebrate Recovery - Christ-centered 12-step for anyone struggling with addiction or life-challenging issues. Mondays at 6pm (meal), 7pm (large group), 8pm (small group). Childcare available. Call 850-723-9705. Location: Santuck Baptist Church, 7250 Central Plank Rd. (Hwy 9), Wetumpka. Celebrate Recovery meets each Thursday evening at 6:15 in the Fellowship Hall. This is a Chrsit centered 12 step-program for anyone struggling with hurts, habits, and hang-ups. Call 567-2364. Location: Landmark Church, 1800 Halcyon Blvd. RSVP- This is a 12 step spiritual recovery program for overcoming addictions. Using the steps and Bible we help build self-esteem, responsible behavior, the making of amends for our destructive actions, and to fill the void in our hearts in a loving relationship with God. Wednesday @ 6:30pm in Rm. 121 of the Life Center. Location: St. James UMC, 9045 Vaughn Road Celebrate Recovery meets every Thursday night from 6-8 pm in the Youth Room. This is a Christ-centered 12-step group for anyone struggling with an “addiction or life-challenging issues.” For information, call Chris Henderson at 334-215-0427. Location: Trinity Episcopal, Wetumpka (Across from Winn Dixie on HWY 231) Gamblers AnonymousSaturdays at 7 p.m.
Alzheimer’s / Dementia
Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy An Alzheimer’s and Dementia Caregivers’ Support Group meets on the first Thursday of each month at 11 a.m. in Room 3103. Call 272.8622. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy A Dementia Daycare is held each Thursday in Rm. 3101 from 9:30 a.m. to 12 p.m. Each participant may bring a sack lunch. There is no charge. REGISTRATION IS REQUIRED. For info, call the LifeCare office at 272-8622. Location: Memorial Presbyterian, 2130 Bell Road A Dementia Morning Out for caregivers is offered each Tuesday from 8:45-noon. There is no charge. Each participant may bring a sack lunch (juice provided). Registration is required by calling 274-1018.
Cancer
Location: Dalraida Baptist, 3838 Wares Ferry Road. Just for Men -- Montgomery’s first and only faith based cancer support group for men is intent on providing information, Christian fellowship, and helping 34
turn adversity into prosperity. Meetings are held the second Tuesday of each month at 6 p.m. in the conference center. Please call 272-2412 email stan. hurst@knology.net. Location: ChristChurch, 8800 Vaughn Road Cancer Support Group for general cancer. Tuesday afternoons at 1 pm. For more info, please call Christy Holding at 531-1390 or Debbie at 467-4578. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Women of Hope Breast Cancer Support Group, providing education, awareness, and mentoring for breast cancer patients/survivors, family, friends or anyone interested in becoming a part of this compassionate journey, meets the 2nd Tuesday of each month at 5:30 p.m. in Rm 8253. Call 272-8622 or womenofhope@charter.net.
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Location: Landmark Church, 1800 Halcyon Blvd. Leaders: Mike & Suzanne Greene (334-271-3331) Every other Tuesday, 6:30pm in Rm. 117. Goal is to create an atmosphere of acceptance and trust, where people can feel free and safe to discuss their feelings and thoughts without shame or embarrassment. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy A Depression/Bipolar Support Group meets on the 1st Thursday of each month from 7:00-8:30pm in Room 3101. This group also meets on the 3rd Saturday afternoon, 12-2 pm, Dalraida UMC, 3817 Atlanta Highway in Church Annex. For more info, call 334.652.1431 or email dbsamontgomery@ yahoo.com.
Divorce
Location: First Baptist Church, 305 S. Perry Street Divorce Care and Divorce Care 4 Kids, Wednesdays starting August 22, 6:30 pm. Cost $15.00 (scholarships available) Contact Kathy Cooper at kcooper@montgomeryfbc.org or 334-241-5125. Location: First UMC, 100 E. Fourth Street, Prattville Divorce Recovery meets Wednesdays at 6:15 p.m., Bldg. 101. Call 365.5977.
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Gambling
Location: Trinity Episcopal Church, 5375 US HWY 231 (Across from the Winn-Dixie shopping center) Wetumpka. Saturdays @ 7pm. 334-567-7534 Location: Mental Health Association, 1116 South Hull Street, Montgomery. Sundays @ 5 pm. Location: St Paul’s Lutheran Church, 4475 Atlanta Hwy, Mondays @ 6pm. Gamblers Anonymous Hotline number: 334-541-5420
Grief
Location: Eastmont Baptist, 4505 Atlanta Hwy. Compassionate Friends is a national self-help support organization for families grieving the death of a child meeting first Tuesdays at 7 pm. We have an annual special event on Tuesday, Dec. 4. We will hold a Candlelight Ceremony in memory of our children at 7 p.m. at Eastmont Baptist Church. Registration is encouraged and may be made by calling (334) 284-2721. We will also collect Toys for Tots. Location: First UMC, 100 E. Fourth St, Prattville Grief Recovery, Thursday nights at 7 p.m., in Wesley Hall Room 104. Call 365.5977. Location: Frazer UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Grief Recovery Support Group meets Tuesdays at 5:30 p.m., Rm 3105, in Fellowship Hall Lobby. 272.8622. Location: Pilgrim Rest Missionary Baptist Church 1550 E. Washington Street Grief Ministry is a grief recovery support group that meets every Monday at 6:00 P.M. The ministry is designed to help anyone through the hurt of losing a loved one by successfully traveling the journey from mourning to joy. Alicia Glover is the coordinator. For more information contact Glover at 334-2812754.
Homosexuality
Location: Landmark Church, 1800 Halcyon Blvd. The Barnabas Group, created to address the needs of those in conflict with homosexual thoughts and feelings meets first, third and fifth Tuesday evenings at 6:30 p.m., in the library at the Life Center. 277.5800.
Mental Illness
Location: Dalraida UMC, 3817 Atlanta Highway 1. NAMI Montgomery will host General Membership meetings on the 4th Monday of the month at the Dalraida UMC annex building. Meeting starts at 6:30 p.m. This meeting is open to anyone who is interested in issues concerning mental health. 2. The NAMI Montgomery Family Member Support Group continues to meet on the 2nd Monday of the month, starting at 6:30 p.m. at the Dalraida UMC annex building. Call Mary Jo Logan (271-2280) for directions/details. 3. NAMI Montgomery will offer the 12 week NAMI FAMILY TO FAMILY education program (free) on Thursdays from 6-8 p.m. at the Bell Road Lowder Regional Library. Call Mary Jo Logan (271-2280) to register for the course.
Parenting
Location: First Baptist Prattville, 138 S. Washington Moms LIFE (living in faith everyday) Meets twice monthly from 8:30 - 11:45 am in the chapel at the Church from Aug - May. We offer a time of fellowship, Bible study, musical guest, special guest speakers and a lot of fun!! Cost is $5 per meeting. For moms of all stages and ages of life. Childcare provided by reservation. For more info and to reserve your spot, call Kelley Manning at 361-7919. Location: Vaughn Forest Church, 8660 Vaughn Road Are you in need of a time-out? MOPS joins mothers together by a common bond, to be better wives, moms, and friends along this journey in the trenches of motherhood. We meet the 1st and 3rd Tuesday of each month from 9:30—11:30 a.m. Childcare is provided. For information e-mail VFCMOPS@ gmail.com. Location: First Baptist Church, Montgomery 305 S. Perry Street MOPS (Mothers of Preschoolers) If you are a woman who is pregnant or has a child birth through kindergarten, desires to make new friends, wants to share the challenges and joys of motherhood, is looking for opportunities for personal growth through trusted resources,then MOPS is for you. Call Kristi Gay at (334) 233-8989 for more information.
Physical Challenges
Location: Aldersgate UMC, 6610 Vaughn Road Visually Impaired Support Group – Meets monthly on second Thursday 1:00 – 2:30 p.m. The group is called Outward Sight - Inward Vision and is for those with vision loss and their caregivers. Our mission is to assist those experiencing vision loss to maintain their independence by providing access to valuable information and spiritual support. Call Aldersgate UMC 272-6152. 35
Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy A Fibromyaligia Support Group meets the 3rd Tuesday of each month from 6-8pm in room 8114. Call 272-8622. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy An MDA/ALS Support Group will meet Tuesday August 10 6:00p.m. – 8:00 p.m. in room 3101. Anyone who is affected by a neuromuscular disease or family members of those affected are encouraged to attend. To receive information, please call 396-4534. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy A Parkinson’s Support Group will meet the 4th Thursday at 6 p.m., in room 8114 at Frazer UMC. This group is for those who have Parkinson’s disease and the family members. 272-8622. Location: Taylor Road Baptist Church, 1785 Taylor Rd., Montgomery Gluten Intolerance Group of Montgomery meets on 2nd Thursdays from 6-7 p.m. Check the blog for special “alternate site” meetings and other info at www.glutenfreemontgomery.blogspot.com.
Pregnancy Loss & Infertility
Location: First UMC, 100 E. Fourth Street, Prattville Hannah’s Prayer--for women dealing with pregnancy loss/infertility issues. Meeting 2nd Thursday and 3rd Sunday of each month. Call 365.5977.
Singlehood
Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Singles’ Small Groups meet each Tuesday at 5:30 p.m. in the Fellowship Hall Lobby. Call 272-8622. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy T.N.T. (Tuesday Night Together) for Singles meets Tuesdays from 7-8 p.m. in the Fellowship Hall, bldg. 7000. A meal ($5.00) and program are provided. For reservations, call the Singles office at 272-8622. Location: Cornerstone Christian, 301 Dalraida Rd. Unavoidably Single Again (USA) Fellowship, a support group for widows and widowers. Informal meetings for fellowship and fun are held on the third Saturday of each month starting at 10 AM. Contact Lynda at farauthor@aol.com or 354-8869.
Veterans
Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Highway Veterans OEF/OIF Caregivers Support Group meets on the 3rd Wednesday from 11am-1pm in Room 3108. Contact LaQuana Edwards, Caregiver Support Coordinator at CAVHCS (334) 727-0550 ext. 5350. January 2014
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Christchurch offers a men’s Bible study led by Fr. John-Michael van Dyke, on Thursday mornings on the 11th floor of Goode Medical Bldg, Jackson Hospital. Breakfast is served beginning at 6:45 a.m. and teaching begins at 7:15 a.m. Call 387-0566 x 201.
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February 12-14, 2014
The 9th Annual Married Couples Conference & Retreat will be held in Montgomery, at the Embassy Suites Hotel. The conference will be hosted by Rev. and Mrs. Walter Ellis of Pilgrim Rest Missionary Baptist Church. Come and enrich your marriage! The registration deadline is January 31, 2014. For more information and to register, visit the Married Couples Conference page on the website, www.nationalbaptist.com.
Valentine’s Day, February 14
Vince Gill and Amy Grant at 7:30 p.m. TICKETS ON SALE NOW! Montgomery Performing Arts Centre, Box Office: 334-4815100 or visit www.mpaconline.org.
Saturday, February 22
Monthly events can also be found in the Around Our Community Section starting on page 8.
Sunday, January 12
Prattville Christian Academy is excited to announce that Sadie Robertson of A&E’s hit show Duck Dynasty will speak at a PCA fundraiser at the Montgomery Performing Arts Centre at 3:30. Sadie’s message is based on her faith and her walk with God. Sadie will discuss the role of faith in her life, devotions she is writing, and the importance of modesty as a teenage girl. Sadie will give a 45 minute presentation, followed by a question and answer session. Tickets to this event range from $38.50 to $82.50, and are available at ticketmaster.com or at MPAC, located at 201 Tallapoosa Street in downtown Montgomery.
January 18-19, 2014
SALT 2.0 – Strategic Answers for Life’s Thoughts at First Baptist Church, Montgomery. A great team of speakers has been assembled to equip Christians with the tools of apologetics. This FREE event is open to the public. See more at: www.alsbom.org/upcoming-events/salt-apologetics-conference/#sthash.UPd6reAN.dpuf.
Saturday, January 25
Transition Conference 2014 for High School Seniors! Christ Community Church, 8285 Ryan Road, Montgomery. Details and registration at www.thetransmission.org/transconf.
February 7-8, 2014
Eastmont Baptist Church, 4505 Atlanta Highway, is hosting Paul David Tripp as he redeems the realities of marriage in this weekend What Did You Expect Conference. Learn how a marriage of unity, understanding, and love is rooted in worship. For information, please email Logan Blackmon at leblackmon@gmail.com.
February 9-11, 2014
Church at the Brook, 2890 Alabama 14, in Millbrook presents Heavens Gates and Hell’s Flames, February 9, at 6 p.m. and February 10 & 11, at 7 p.m. Call (334) 285-5783. River Region’s Journey
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Saint James UMC will hold an auction to benefit youth and children missions. The auction will begin at 4:00 p.m. and last until 6:00 p.m. Visitors may preview items on Friday, February 21, from 4:00 – 7:00 p.m. There is no cost for admission. Items featured include antique furniture and rugs from Pickwick Antiques, original artwork, jewelry, salon and boutique certificates, gift cards from local restaurants, and vacation home rentals. Visit www.sjlifeauction.com for a preview of items.
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AGLOW International meets every third Thursday, 9:30 at the Montgomery House of Prayer. All women welcome to join together for praise, prayer and an anointed message. Contact mboudousquie@ yahoo.com. Bridge of Life Assembly of God, 9000 Vaughn Road, Montgomery, holds Sunday morning worship at 10:30 a.m. each week. Sunday school classes meet at 9:30 a.m. We offer classes for all age groups and childcare is provided. Our goal is to build bridges... not walls. We invite you to come join us if you need to learn how to build those bridges. For directions or information call 334-396-0208. Email jon@ bridgeoflife.tv or visit www.bridgeoflife.tv. Capital City Church of the Nazarene, 4450 Vaughn Road, Montgomery. Free Tutoring throughout the school year. All subjects. Grades K-12. Every Wednesday night from 5:00 to 6:00. Children under 16 must be accompanied by an adult. For more information: 272-8176. Central Community Christian Church, 981 South Perry Street, Montgomery, holds new members training classes on Sundays at 9 a.m. Sunday School (9:30), morning worship (11:00), Tuesday night Bible study (6:30). Every fourth Sunday of the month is our youth Sunday. For more information please call (334) 269-0457 or by email at centralccchurch1@gmail. com. We are a church where you can be you, you can be loved and where you can grow! Christchurch, 8800 Vaughn Road, Montgomery, offers a Women’s Enrichment Bible Study led by Jeanne Dean on Thursdays, 9:30-11:30 a.m., in Canterbury Hall. All women are welcome. Childcare for ages birth-4 years is provided. Call 387-0566 x 201 for more info. 36
Chisholm Baptist Church, 2938 Lower Wetumpka Road, Montgomery, holds Sunday morning Bible study (9:30), Morning worship (10:45), Tuesday prayer breakfast (8:30) Wednesday evening prayer service (6 pm) and Senior Body and Soul Group (every 1st Tuesday at 1 pm). Email jbass9784@ charter.net or call 262-6437. First Presbyterian Church, 9299 Vaughn Road, hosts Family Night every Wednesday beginning at 5:20 p.m. with supper, followed by a study on prayer. Everyone is welcome. For more information call (279-1372). First Presbyterian Church, 9299 Vaughn Road, hosts a Men’s Prayer Breakfast every Friday morning, 6 a.m. The Youth of First United Methodist Church, Montgomery every Wednesday night at 7:00 p.m. for Wednesday Night Live, a time of praise and worship in “the attic”. Also, every Sunday night at 6:00 p.m. is MYF which includes a snack supper $3.00 followed by activities, small groups and lots of fun! Visit www.fumcmontgomery.org or call 334-834-8990. First United Methodist Church will host Terrific Tuesdays. Please come and join us for fellowship, a program and lunch. Terrific Tuesdays will meet each Tuesday in room 204 of Wesley Hall. Fellowship time will begin at 10:00 a.m. followed by a program at 10:30 a.m. and lunch at 11:30 a.m. The cost of lunch is $2.00. Every fourth Tuesday the time will extend until 3:00 p.m. for bridge, games, and other activities in room 203 in Wesley Hall. For additional information please contact NeeNee Webb at 834-8990. Good News @ Noon is an interdenominational Bible study, held at the First Baptist Community Ministries Building on Adams Street, Thursdays, at noon. Small cost for hot lunch. Call 272.1133. Hall Memorial CME Church, 541 Seibles Road, Montgomery, offers Bible Study Tuesdays at 5:30 P.M. and Wednesdays at 6: 30 P.M. For directions or information call 334-288-0577. Email HallMemorialCME1@aol.com or visit www.HallMemorialCME.blogspot.com. Hall Memorial CME Church says: VOLUNTEERS NEEDED! Tutors, prayer-warriors, and office/clerical volunteers needed for the Montgomery City Jail Ministry & G.E.D program. Opportunities are ongoing. No experience or certification necessary. Contact Pastor Anderson T. Graves II, at hallmemorialcme1@aol.com. Call 334-288-0577. The City Jail ministry is an in-reach ministry of Hall Memorial CME Church, 541 Seibles Road, Montgomery. www.hallmemorialcme.blogspot.com.
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iConnect.coffeehouse provides a place for women to experience meaningful fellowship with women seeking genuine connection. Meetings will be held in the Atrium at Frazer UMC 3rd Tuesdays from 9-11 a.m. For more info, call Frazer’s Women’s Ministry at 495-6391. Macedonia Miracle Kingdom & Worship Center (MMKWC), 3070 Selma Highway, Montgomery, services are Sunday School and New Members Class, 9:00 a.m., Morning Worship, 10:45 a.m.; Tuesday Night Bible Class, 7:00 p.m. and Friday Night Prayer, 6:00 p.m. (BOTH at The Pattern-Mt Meigs Road) Messiah Lutheran Church, 6670 Vaughn Road, invites all to Wonderful Wednesdays starting with a $3-5 meal at 5:30 pm (RSVP 277-4213 by Monday noon), worship with eucharist 6:15-7:00 pm, and adult choir rehearsal and Catechism class for 7th9th graders at 7:00 pm. Please call for Wednesday schedule due to seasonal breaks. For information, call 277-4213. Mt. Gillard Missionary Baptist Church, 3323 Day Street, holds Wednesday Bible Study in the church Fellowship Hall and lasts for one hour. Please come and participate in roaming the Bible learning God’s word through teaching. The Rev. Henry M. Carnegie, Jr. is the teacher and pastor. Mid-day Bible Study begins each Wednesday at 11:30 a.m. Evening Bible Study begins each Wednesday at 7:00 p.m. Call 233-8750.
New Freedom Worship Center, 6004 –A East Shirley Lane, Apostle T. Briggs~ Pastor; Sunday Worship Service 10:30 a.m. and Wednesday Night Bible Study 7:30 p.m. Open Door Christian Faith Church, 1601 Dewey St. Montgomery, offers Women’s Prayer Mondays at 5:00, Men’s prayer Wednesday at 5:00, followed by bible study at 6:00. Couples ministry held every 1st Wednesday of the month at 7:00. Pastor William Cromblin, and the Open Door Church family invites you to “come experience the move of God. For more info, call the church at 334-269-6498. Perry Hill UMC, 910 Perry Hill Rd, sponsors a Bluegrass Jam in the Church Fellowship Hall on the third Saturday of each month from 9AM 12AM. All Bluegrass Artist plus Fans are invited to attend. Attendance is FREE. For information call Kathy@ 272-3174.
open dance floor.The River of Life Church, located at 116 County Road 40 E (in the Pine Level Community Center) Prattville. Pastor Nick Edwards invites you to a “Place of New Beginnings”, where families come and grow together. Church Service Schedule: Sunday 10:30 a.m. Sunday School; 11:00 a.m. Morning Worship; 5:00 p.m. Evening Worship. Wednesday 6:00 p.m. Adult Bible Study, Teens (Genesis Project), Jr. High (Limitless), Royal Rangers, MPact Girls, Rainbow’s/Noah’s Zoo Club. Thursday 9:00 a.m.Women of Grace Bible Study. Nursery provided. We invite you to”come experience God in a personal way, feel loved by all and know that you belong”. Office 334-657-0392 or visit www. theriveroflifechurch.net.
Perry Hill UMC, 910 Perry Hill Rd, hosts a Wednesday Night Supper and Revive! program each week from 5:30pm til 7:00pm. Reservations are required by noon on the Monday prior to the supper. Cost is $4 per person or $12 per family. Call 334-272-3174 for more information.
River Region Contra Dancing-Everyone schoolage through adult is invited for a little exercise and a lot of fun. Singles, couples, and families are welcome. All levels of experience – including no experience. Dancing is on the 1st & 3rd Friday of each month at 7:00 p.m. at Ridgecrest Baptist Church, 5260 Vaughn Road. For more information check out the website: www.riverregioncontradance.com or call Katherine Thomas at 334-361-6572.
River City Church, 301 Dexter Avenue, offers a Friday Christian Night Club (free of alcohol and smoking) with Ballroom Dancing every Friday at 6:30 P.M. Cost is $10 for a one hour lesson, devotional, and 3 hours of DJ music. People of all denominations are welcome. 7:30-10:30
Saint James UMC, 9045 Vaughn Road, offers S.N.A.G. (Sunday Nights About God!) This program starts at 5:00p.m. and ends at 6:30p.m. Childcare is provided for small groups until 7:00p.m. Don’t forget this program is available for all children!
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Calendar Saint James UMC, 9045 Vaughn Road, offers Wild & Wacky Wednesdays! Wednesday night supper starts at 5:15p.m. We will start checking children in at 6:00p.m. This program ends at 7:30p.m. and childcare is provided until 8:00p.m. for small group participants. Call 277.3037 for more info. Saint Paul African Methodist Episcopal Church, 706 E. Patton Avenue, “Clothes Closet” is open to the public each Thursday morning from 10 a.m. – Noon. The Men of Saint Paul host a free Men’s Prayer Breakfast the Third Saturday of each month at 8 a.m. in the Church Fellowship Hall. The Men’s Prayer Breakfast is open to all men of all ages. Come and share your concerns and needs of our Men of today. For more information, please contact (334) 354-1897. Bible Study is held each Wednesday, 6-7 p.m. in the Fellowship Hall. Pastor Farrell J. Duncombe is the teacher and Senior Pastor of the church. Come and join us for Sunday School each Sunday at 9 a.m. and Morning Worship at 10 a.m. Need transportation, call (334) 264-7618. For info call 286.8577 or www.saintpaulamemontgomery.com. S-STOP, a commUNITY Bible study for Singles. Souls Strengthened Together for One Purpose. Psalm 46:10 “BE STILL and know that I am God.” Meets at Prattville Christian Academy on Sunday nights at 6 p.m. For info email sstop04@gmail.com. Vision Full Gospel Ministries, 163 Rifle Range Road, Montgomery, holds Bible Study Tues. Night 7:00 p.m., Pray & Praise 2nd & 4th Thurs. Night 7:00 p.m., Sunday School 9:30 am, Sunday Worship Service 10:45 a.m., Internet radio-homecominggospel. com Sunday 3:00p.m. Central & 4:00 p.m. Eastern. and Satellite Radio -wlsg 1340am Sunday 3:00p.m.
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Women at The Well Ministry invites you to attend its women’s fellowship at 1 pm every 1st and 3rd Saturday. We are women who desire and have a heart to see broken, crushed, hurting women be transformed through the one man who can fulfill their every need... JESUS...THE POTTER. All women of all denominations or race are welcome. This ministry is available to teenagers as well. Come join us as we lift, encourage and build each other up through the Word of God and the words of our testimonies. For more information contact Evangelist Dr. Linda McCall, 334-220-1924. Young Meadows Presbyterian Church, 5780 Vaughn Road, invites you to attend its Sunday Respite Care Program on 1st Sundays from 4-6 pm. Children with physical and cognitive disabilities (and their siblings) ages 6-18 are invited for a time of activities and a light dinner so parents can have a night out. Call Susan Clements at 301-0355 for information and to make a reservation, or email rooftopfriends@gmail.com.
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Information Meeting January 23, 2014 at 7:00 pm • Morningview Baptist Church WHAT IS CORNERSTONE CLASSICAL CHRISTIAN ACADEMY? Cornerstone Classical Christian Academy is a unique academic community where students’ minds and lives are shaped by the truth of the gospel of Jesus Christ. Our students are called to a high academic standard without compromising character or conduct. By utilizing the classical model of education, our students are provided the knowledge, reasoning and communication skills needed to contribute winsomely to their culture and to defend their faith.
CURRICULUM Cornerstone offers our students a curriculum that is meant to be academically challenging, spiritually rewarding and college preparatory. In the grammar grades the curriculum allows our students to acquire competence in reading, writing and mathematics. Incremental instruction using Saxon phonics, Horizons and Saxon math as well as Shurley Grammar and the Excellence in Writing curriculum gives our students a firm foundation in these critical subjects. History, Bible and science allow our young students to see God’s hand in His world. In the upper grades students have opportunity for in-depth studies in all areas of academics. Cornerstone’ emphasis on integration of subject matter through our Omnibus program helps develop in our students a Biblical worldview rooted in the Lordship of Jesus Christ. In addition students have instruction in upper level science, math, theology and languages.
TEACHER QUALIFICATIONS Cornerstone employs teachers who are exemplary in their testimony for Christ, desire to disciple young people within the context of a Christian school, and have expertise in their field of instruction. Our teachers receive training in the classical model of education with oversight and periodic evaluation by the principal. Each teacher is encouraged to pursue accreditation with the Association of Classical and Christian Schools.
SCHOOL DAY SCHEDULE School hours are 8:00 am - 2:30 pm Monday through Thursday. School dismisses at noon each Friday. Some extracurricular activities meet after school or on Friday afternoons.
CLASSROOM SIZE The Board of Directors and administration recognize the importance of individual attention that students must receive to be successful. We seek to maintain small class sizes while keeping tuition fees affordable. We intend to limit the kindergarten and first grade classes to 12 students. Other classes are limited to 16-18 students.
TUITION COST At this time our tuition payment covers all school related expenses with the exception of personal school supplies and student uniforms. $50.00 . . . . . . . . . . . .Application Fee (non-refundable) $3,685.00 . . . . . . . . . . .1st through 6th grade $250.00 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .Enrollment and Book Fee $4,015.00 . . . . . . . . .7th through 12th grades $3,355.00 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .Kindergarten
ADMISSIONS PROCESS Parents are invited to inquire as to the difference a classical Christian education can make in the lives of their children and family. We invite families that share our educational goals, are intentionally rearing children using a Biblical model and are actively involved in an evangelical church to apply for admission to Cornerstone. An application, pastoral reference form, entrance test and family interview are required. Information, including an application, may be obtained at www.ccamontgomery.org. A complete information packet may be obtained from the school office at 125 Calhoun Road.
SCHOOL HISTORY Cornerstone Classical Christian Academy began in 2006 with the support of Morningview Baptist Church. The school is under the leadership of a Board of Directors. The school campus is located in Morningview Baptist Church at 125 Calhoun Road in Montgomery.
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WHAT IS CLASSICAL EDUCATION? Classical education is a model of education that draws deeply from the history and culture of Western civilization employing methodology based on the Trivium, a time tested threestage approach to learning. In short, classical education is not a new approach to learning but a return to a model of education that has the best track record in history. For centuries the classical model of education produced some of the greatest minds our world has ever known. In content, classical Christian education seeks to impart the knowledge necessary for a broad, integrated and critical awareness of the world and human society. In philosophy, a classical Christian school seeks to present Biblical truth to students and to develop within them the ability to view all of life from a Biblical perspective. The education that we provide at Cornerstone is a means to an end. Cornerstone’s ultimate goal is to equip students with the knowledge, skill and vision necessary to be effective leaders and servants for our Lord Jesus Christ in whatever vocation He may call. We seek to raise a generation of young people who love the Lord Jesus Christ with all their hearts and minds and who are able to articulate the Gospel and fundamentals of the Christian faith with clarity, fidelity and power.
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Movie Reviews Reviews provided by MovieGuide: A Family Guide to Movies and Entertainment Ratings are based on production quality and moral acceptability. See details below. ***Reviews do not necessarily reflect views of the publishers of River Region’s Journey.
The Secret Life of Walter Mitty
Saving Mr. Banks Production Quality: **** Moral Acceptability: -2 (Extreme Caution) Starring: Emma Thompson, Tom Hanks, Colin Farrell, Paul Giamatti, Ruth Wilson, Jason Schwartzman, Bradley Whitford, Rachel Griffiths, B. J. Novak, Victoria Summer, Kristopher Kyer Genre: Drama Audience: Teenagers to adults Rating: PG-13 Content: Strong mixed pagan worldview with some Buddhist and New Age content, but also with some Christian, moral content, such as mentions of the Saints and Apostles, and themes of forgiveness, love, hope, sacrifice, giving, and honesty; two obscenities and four profanities; no violence man coughs up blood; no sex; alcoholism is addressed in the movie; smoking, but no drug use; and, there’s the portrayal of a dysfunctional family where mother almost commits suicide and father is an alcoholic. In SAVING MR. BANKS, Walt Disney wants the movie rights to the Mary Poppins children’s books from the author, Mrs. P.L. Travers. Travers has kept the movie rights for the novel for 20 years from Walt, but her funds are running low. Though hesitant, Travers decides to fly to Los Angeles to start selling the rights. Walt has made a promise to his children he will make Mary Poppins into a movie. He’s willing to give Mrs. Travers whatever she requests, but the two have very different views on how to make the movie. SAVING MR. BANKS has a brilliant script, showing the characters depth and arch. Emma Thompson and Paul Giamatti give strong performances. However, SAVING MR. BANKS has a mixed worldview with some New Age, Buddhist, and occult content, but also some overt Christian content stated by Walt Disney’s character. The movie shows Mrs. Travers interest in Buddhism, bringing a Buddhist icon with her everywhere she goes. At the same time, Walt is always stating Christian themes of salvation, redemption, hope, love, and forgiveness. SAVING MR. BANKS warrants strong caution.
Production Quality: *** Moral Acceptability: -1 (Caution) Starring: Ben Stiller, Kristen Wiig, Shirley MacLaine, Sean Penn, Adam Scott, Kathryn Hahn Genre: Comedy Audience: Teenagers to adults Rating: PG Content: Light moral worldview focusing on family and promoting living life rather than dreaming about it, with some light Romantic elements, warlords, and a Buddhist statue in the mountains is covered by some landscaping shrubs; four obscenities, eight profanities, and some light crude comments; light violence includes jumping into window, bar fight, action fighting; no sexual content; no nudity; drinking and drunkenness; no smoking nor drug use; and, mother and father split up. THE SECRET LIFE OF WALTER MITTY stars Ben Stiller as a man who dreams of grand adventures but is too fearful to fulfill them. Walter Mitty works for Life Magazine in the photo department. One day, Mitty finds out the magazine has been acquired and drastic cuts will be made, including ending the print edition. Sean O’Connell is Life’s most prized photographer and his image will be on Life’s last print edition. O’Connell has sent Mitty the roll of his negatives, but Mitty can’t find the one image dedicated for the last edition. The woman he adores tells Mitty to do whatever it takes to find the image, so he takes unusual action. THE SECRET LIFE OF WALTER MITTY has a moral worldview stressing the importance of family and living life instead of dreaming about it. The music and the visuals in WALTER MITTY are wonderful. However, Mitty’s transition from being fearful to being adventurous is too sudden. Thus, the movie needs better character development. THE SECRET LIFE OF WALTER MITTY also has some brief crude content, so caution is advised.
The previous reviews are a selected sample of informative reviews from MOVIEGUIDE: A FAMILY GUIDE TO MOVIES AND ENTERTAINMENT, a syndicated feature of Good News Communications, Inc. To subscribe to MOVIEGUIDE which includes a complete set of at least 10 reviews of the latest movies as well as many informative articles, please visit our web site at www.movieguide.org or write or call:”MOVIEGUIDE,” P.O. Box 190010, Atlanta, GA 31119 (800) 899-6684. What the ratings mean: Production Quality: (1 to 4 stars) Moral Acceptability: -4 (Abhorrent), -3 (Excessive), -2 (Extreme Caution), -1 (Caution), +1 (Wholesome), +2 (Good), +3 (Moral), +4 (Exemplary) River Region’s Journey
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