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Feature Articles
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Publisher’s Note
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Jason Watson
Faith @ Work Terence Deere
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Get to know Terence Deere, who shares with us how he lives out his faith each day while serving as facilities support for Frazer Church in Montgomery.
Pastor's Perspective Mark Bethea, First Baptist Church of Montgomery
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Moments with Kym Kym Klass
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Women Arising Pastor Kemi Searcy
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Are Christians Truly the Salt of the Earth?
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The Intersection Bob Crittenden
by Pastor Scott Sauls
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Counselor’s Corner
In a world that is becoming tasteless, believers need to understand how to “season” it more than ever. You’ll find advice here.
Rev. Lennie Howard, LMFT
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Our Mission... We believe the Good News concerning the life, death and resurrection of Jesus Christ is worth sharing with our friends and neighbors in the River Region. Each month we deliver this life-changing message to the centers of activity across our community in a user-friendly and relevant way to empower and equip all those seeking to grow closer to God. Join us in this mission by sharing a copy with your neighbor or by becoming an advertising partner starting next month.
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Thanksgiving and praise can be given for many things, but they all fall short when they fail to reach the throne of our Father in Heaven. The 2020 version of Thanksgiving is different. Families have more hurdles to get over when gathering together. Bank accounts have suffered from the weight of restrictions. Stress fractures have appeared under the pressures of the election. With all that has happened these last six months, we may wonder what is actually thanksgiving and praise worthy in 2020. One thing I’ve noticed, in my nearly 50 years, is that thanksgiving tends to flow more freely and sincerely during seasons of struggle. Proverbs 30:8-9 speaks to this when it says, “Feed me with the food that is needful for me, lest I be full and deny you and say, ‘Who is the Lord?’” When we are full, with all of our needs met, we forget our “beneficent Father” is the one who ultimately clothes us and feeds us (Matthew 6). But, in seasons of struggle, we remember what matters the most and Who sustains us. Don’t miss the opportunity to thank and praise your Father because you’ve suffered. In the Old Testament, Job had a season far worse than anything most of us have experienced in 2020. Yet, he proclaimed, “Naked I came from my mother’s womb, and naked shall I return. The Lord gave, and the Lord has taken away; blessed be the name of the Lord.” If I’m honest, that’s a hard saying to repeat. But, it’s still the truth, and it gives us all a sturdy foundation from which to live another day.
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Pastor’s Perspective by Pastor Mark Bethea, First Baptist Church of Montgomery
Grumbling, Griping and the Gospel Do all things without grumbling or disputing, that you may be blameless and innocent, children of God without blemish in the midst of a crooked and twisted generation, among whom you shine as lights in the world, holding fast to the word of life…”
Philippians 2:14-16 ESV Several weeks ago, in the spur of a moment, my wife and I decided to load up our three kids and take them over to the zoo. The zoo is one of their favorite places on the planet, but on this particular day, our son did not want to go. He had a small toy zebra that had garnered his attention alongside an array of plastic animals. Even though we reminded him of all the real animals and the fun time ahead, he was not budging. We knew if we could get him out the door and into the gates of the zoo, he would be happy. Through the tears and cries, he
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reluctantly got in the car, and we zoomed off to the zoo. As parents, we were frustrated. We knew he loved the zoo. We knew he would enjoy that time wandering around and seeing the animals in person. Yet, at the house, his gaze was transfixed on plastic animals devoid of any life or excitement. He grumbled, griped, and complained the whole way until we arrived and began seeing the real zebras, lions, and giraffes. What does any of this have to do with the Gospel? These moments remind me of the Israelites leaving captivity to go to the Promised Land. The Israelites had a front-row seat to see God’s incredible power and might through the plagues. They witnessed the Red Sea part as they walked across on dry land. They received manna and water in their hunger and thirst. But, despite each of these magnificent displays of God’s goodness and might, the people grumbled and complained. As if on repeat, the cycle of the people’s grumbling, God’s deliverance, and the people’s repentance play out throughout their wandering in the wilderness. God’s desire to release the people from captivity to the promised land was met with considerable grumbling and griping at each difficult turn. Reading those stories can fill us with consternation at the Israelite’s lack of trust and gratefulness to a God who has demonstrated His great power and might time and again. How could they continue to grumble against the very God who brought them out of captivity using the awesome4
ness of the plagues and parting of the Red Sea to deliver them? There are multiple responses to what we face in our world today. As we face hardships and difficulties, we can grow cold with bitterness or run to the Lord for strength, patience, and help. We can grumble and gripe against God, or we can draw near to Him as the source of all comfort, peace, and strength. We believe and trust God is at work in, through, and around us. Through difficult seasons, He does not leave nor forsake His people. If we believe these Scriptural truths, we can confidently walk with Him through whatever comes our way. Doing all things without grumbling presents significant challenges but also the opportunity, as Paul exclaims, “to shine as bright lights in the midst of crooked and twisted generation.” Our goal is not simply to refrain from grumbling but reflect the goodness of God and our steadfast trust in God despite unforeseen circumstances. By trusting rather than grumbling, we shine bright in the midst of a dark world. Our steadfast faith in the middle of deserts and storms demonstrate we trust in the Lord and are drawing on His peace, power, and strength. The wattage of our Gospel light dramatically increases as we faithfully follow Jesus and know that His plan and purpose is good, even though it may be hard. Instead of grumbling, we tune our heart to the frequency of thanksgiving in the Lord. Instead of griping, we rejoice in the goodness of God to save us from all our sins. Let’s turn together from grumbling and griping to shining the good news of Jesus! Mark Bethea is the pastor of First Baptist Church of Montgomery. For the three years prior to being named pastor, he served as the Associate Pastor for Outreach and Evangelism. Before returning to Montgomery, he served bi-vocationally as the pastor of Argo Baptist Church as well as an editor for New Hope Publishers in Birmingham. He and his wife, Brittany, have three young kids, Micah (4), Helen Ann (2), and Nora (3 months).
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When the Stars Disappear
Is Jesus Truly God?
Mark Talbot
Greg Lanier
Several years ago, I was introduced to the writing of Dr. Mark Talbot. His sharp intellect and warm heart instantly grabbed my attention. Talbot is well-known for his writing on the subject of pain and suffering. As one who was partially paralyzed in his teens, Talbot is uniquely qualified to address the subject. He not only sympathizes with fellow suffers; he has the biblical background and experience to offer counsel that is meaningful and Godhonoring. Sometimes one sentence makes a book worth reading. Such is the case with Mark Talbot’s book, When the Stars Disappear. This is no way detracts from the rest of the book. Indeed, the book is filled with biblical wisdom and encouragement for people who are experiencing a season of suffering. When the Stars Disappear is the first installment in a series of four books, which are appropriately titled, “Suffering and the Christian Life.” The first volume attempts to show readers that suffering is not only a part of God’s plan for his people; it is a gracious gift, which is to be received in faith. Talbot utilizes the painful stories of Naomi, Job, and Jeremiah to illustrate the central thesis of the book. He paints a realistic portrait of these characters who struggle with suffering and struggle with a God who allows and ordains it. The author helps us understand how God is accomplishing good in the lives of his people, even in the midst of pain and suffering. “Believing that this is what God has in store for us,” Talbot writes, “is essential to Christian faith.” He continues, “God’s apparent delay in fulfilling his promises refines our hopes. We lift our heads and see God’s eschatological rewards from afar as our earthly hopes die. Our suffering inclines us to reorient our hopes toward the consummation.” In the end, our gaze is set upon a Savior who promises to make all things new. Dr. Talbot’s warm-hearted biblical perspective is a welcome gift that is sure to be received with open arms by many. I look forward with great anticipation to the remaining volumes in this soul-stirring series.
The topic of Christ’s deity has been a hot topic for over two thousand years. Christ’s divine nature has been debated in church history and affirmed in the ecumenical councils. In our day, the deity of Christ is a hotly debated subject that occupies the attention of Jehovah’s Witnesses, Mormons, and Muslims. Each group denies the biblical teaching that Jesus Christ is God in the flesh. Greg Lanier’s book, Is Jesus Truly God? wrestles with this important issue. The author presents a robust, biblically-charged Christology that focuses on six major issues: The preexistence of Jesus. The Sonship of Jesus. The Old Testament assertion of Christ’s deity. Worship ascribed to Jesus. The relationship of Jesus to God the Father and God the Holy Spirit. Jesus as theos. Readers who dig deeply into Dr. Lanier’s book will be challenged, informed, and refreshed. They will also be better prepared for their next encounter with a Jehovah’s Witness, Mormon, or Muslim.
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The Prisoners, the Earthquake, and the Midnight Song Bob Hartman
The Prisoners, the Earthquake, and the Midnight Song by Bob Hartman is designed especially for children and tells the true story about the Philippian jailer in Acts 16. The book not only accurately recounts this gripping biblical story; it is also accompanied by the stunning illustrations by Catalina Echeverri. Each page contains beautiful artwork that draws young minds to the biblical text. Congratulations to Hartman and Echeverri for producing such a stunning book that will no doubt minister to children for many years to come. 6
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Today we sit down with Terence Deere, who shares with us how he lives out his faith each day while serving as facilities support for Frazer Church in Montgomery. RRJ: Thank you so much for taking the time to share how your faith is at work out in the community where God has placed you. To begin with, how long have you been a follower of Christ? Terence: Thank you for giving me the opportunity to talk about my journey with Christ! Although, like most Southerners, I was taught from as long as I can remember that Christ was the only path to take, I must say that I don’t think I really became a true follower of Christ until adulthood. So I’d say it’s been close to 30 years now. WOW! Now I feel old! It’s funny how life’s River Region’s Journey
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Terence: My family, in particular my mother and aunt, have always taught me that Jesus is the answer to whatever problems I may encounter. They’ve prayed for me when I didn’t have enough sense to pray for myself. You’ve heard the saying, “You can lead a horse to water but you can’t make him drink?” Well, they led me to the water and pushed my head into the stream! I’m so thankful they did, because later in life when I desperately needed a drink, I knew exactly where to quench my spiritual thirst. RRJ: For Christians who struggle to live their faith beyond the church walls, what encouragement would you give them? Terence: Mainly I would tell them not to get too discouraged because we all fall short of what we’re supposed to be. Thankfully, God’s grace and mercy gives us countless opportunities to correct our 8
mistakes. Don’t compare yourself to what you think others are doing, because trust me, EVERYBODY struggles with some issues that God doesn’t look favorably upon. We just have to continue to try to do better day by day. There will be days that we take steps backwards in our journey, but we serve a patient and forgiving God, so just keep plugging away and he’ll be on your side every step of the way!
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RRJ: What do you enjoy most about your job? Terence: The thing I enjoy most about my job is getting to work with a lot of different areas of ministry. It helps me see that there are numerous ways we can work to grow the Kingdom. From older adult functions to children’s and sports ministries, etc. It doesn’t matter if you’re young physically or young spiritually, there’s a role for everyone!
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Remembering His Goodness Every Day I didn’t wake up that Sunday morning and head to church after months of quarantine expecting to be reminded – again – of His unfailing love and control over my life. Is this a recurring theme in your life, too? Because shouldn’t we always know this? But there I was. Again. It had been a heavy week, and a heavy one was approaching. A week of uncertainty – I’m good at worrying over things like that, if even for brief moments – and a few days of waiting for answers and decisions that could change lives. And I sat with a heavy heart. I’d been praying that His will be done, that I would accept and support decisions, that I would be prepared for whichever way things fell. And then the song “Evidence” by Josh Baldwin was played. “I see the evidence of your goodness all over my life.” Ok. We’ll get through this, too. You’ve got me. I’ve got this. Listening to the lyrics reminded me of all the times Jesus got me through difficult times. There have been harder times I’ve faced than what was approaching. It didn’t minimize what was coming, but it reminded me of the strength He had already bestowed upon me. The power of faith is mighty. “All throughout my history, your faithfulness has walked beside me, the winter River Region’s Journey
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storms made way for spring, in every season, from where I’m standing...” “I see the evidence of your goodness, all over my life, all over my life, I see your promises in fulfillment... “Help me remember when I’m wea... fear may come, but fear will leave.” It reminds us that God is always at the center. That He is always in control. That He has always been good. I know it’s so easy to read this and say, “Yes, of course. You should always remember that.” But it’s something else when you’re in the moment and you have to remember that. Because we’ve been there. I have. So have you. It’s not that we forget. We just have to remember. It is sometimes a hard remembrance. A song can help. A friend can help. A prayer can help. A pastor can help. Fall back on that faith. Fall back on that trust. On that remembrance. “You are my strength; and you always will be... Why should I fear...The evidence is here.” I stood there, and sang praise in that song, believing in every word. And at that moment, I remembered an email I sent a friend a year after my sister died, telling him that it was the first time I remembered singing in church since her passing. And he responded that we don’t sing praises to God based on circumstance. But, always. And that hit hard. And hurt some, because it was a hard truth to swallow. But I remembered it. And I remembered it a few weeks ago when I heard 10
those lyrics: “I see the evidence of your goodness all over my life... All throughout my history... Your faithfulness has walked beside me.” Whew. What a morning. Allergies hit hard inside the building. I let the spirit flow through, and I let truth flow through as well. My friend was right. That song was right. We need to praise always. And we need to remember this even in the hard times, in the times of uncertainty, in the times of trials. And as we’re reminded on Sundays, that this doesn’t only apply one
f day a week. We need to be reminded of His goodness every day. Remember the evidence of it. What He has already pulled us through. And carry that faith forward even when circumstances don’t go our way. A week after I sat in church that one Sunday – after I sat with my heavy heart – a situation went a different way than I desired. I gave myself permission to grieve, but also allowed Him to carry me through with His goodness like only He can.
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Believing that Christ intends for his followers to “flavor” the world with love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control in a similar way that seasoning flavors our food, one biblical metaphor that has become very meaningful to our community is the metaphor of salt.
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“You are the salt of the earth,” Jesus said in the Sermon on the Mount, “but if salt has lost its taste, how shall its saltiness be restored? It is no longer good for anything except to be thrown out and trampled under people’s feet.” (Matthew 5:13) In ancient times, salt was a significant staple that had two primary uses. First, since they did not have canning technology, freezers, or chemical preservatives, first century people used salt as a preservative. Surround a piece of beef with salt, and it would slow the process of decay significantly. Second, salt was also used in the same way that we use it today, as a core seasoning. Salt has this wonderful way of bringing out the best in whatever it touches. But for salt to be effective, a few rules need to be followed. What is true about salt in our food also seems to be true about Christians in the world. These rules are as follows:
RULE #1: SALT, IF CONSUMED BY ITSELF, OFFENDS THE SENSES The same is true of religious commu-
nities! (We are meant to be in the world, not to remove ourselves from it) If you’ve ever put a spoonful of salt in your mouth, you understand what I mean here. Salt by itself is bitter and raises the blood pressure. Often this is what happens to religious communities that separate from the world and turn in on themselves. Like the New Testament Pharisees, when believers hive off from the rest of the world, they can become fear-driven and condemning in their posture toward the world outside. Bitter, small-minded, flavorless. Yuck.
RULE #2: SALT ALWAYS DOES BEST AS A MINORITY INGREDIENT The same is true of Christians who are engaged with the world and culture around them. (We are meant to serve the world as a life-giving, prophetic, lovedriven minority) At one point or another, we have all ruined a perfectly good steak or plate of fries or bowl of popcorn by over-salting it. Salt becomes overbearing when its influence on a dish becomes dominant versus
subtle. But with just the right amount of salt, the very best is brought out of the steak, or the fries, or the popcorn, or the apple pie, or whatever. This is where those who wish for the culture to be ruled by a “moral majority” would do well to learn from history. Biblical, historic Christianity has always thrived when Christians were in the minority, and has always languished when Christians were — or attempted to become — the dominant majority. The politically conservative “moral majority” movement of the 90’s serve as a case in point here. By seeking to impose traditional values on society chiefly through political force versus persuasion, the movement backfired by embittering people groups who did not feel loved or cared for by their movement, but rather felt scolded, shamed, criticized, and condemned. Likewise, a more recent and politically liberal “moral majority” has begun to emerge. Unlike the more conservative movement in the 90’s, the liberal majority seeks to impose liberal values on society chiefly through political force versus persuasion. In all likelihood, this more liberal movement will also be met with its own
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resistance, and will largely be rejected because of a left-leaning fundamentalism known not for love but scolding, shaming, criticizing, and condemning. But if we look at history, we’ll see that Christians, who at their best were not known to scold, shame, criticize, and condemn, but rather to love their neighbors to life. And, remarkably, they most often did so not in a climate of government support, but rather in a climate of government opposition and oppression.
TRUER CHRISTIANITY: IN PRAISE OF A STAND-OUT, LIFE-GIVING MINORITY If Christians are to be salt in the world, we must begin to see ourselves not as a moral majority, but as a life-giving, stand-out minority — as salt sprinkled around the whole dish, touching and penetrating every course. Instead of spending so much energy fighting battles that Christians have already lost in the culture, might we consider setting aside our outrage and instead begin to ask questions like: • How can we, like Jesus, be ‘”gra-
cious losers” in a culture war that has already been lost? • How can we, instead of demanding our so-called “rights” lay down our rights as Christ did for the sake of the world? • How can we, like Jesus, seek to win the world through prophetic, life-giving love versus through worldly power and coercion?
KINGDOM OF GOD > RELIGIOUS “FREEDOM” According to Jesus, serving and staying true to the Kingdom of God is more important than maintaining our “religious freedoms.” It should not be lost on us that besides Ecclesiastes and the Song of Solomon, every single book in the Bible was written by a person who was in exile, incarcerated, enslaved, or being actively persecuted. Biblical Christianity has always thrived most when there was an element of the world being against Christians. This was true of Jesus, so we should expect it to be true of us. Jesus only had 120 followers after his resurrection, even though according to the Apostle Paul
there were over 500 resurrection eyewitnesses still living! The early church leaders were constantly in and out of prison because both the Jews and Romans were threatened by their growing influence. Eleven of the twelve Apostles died as martyrs. It was under such conditions that the church grew like wildfire. The same is true now — in parts of the world where it is most costly to be a Christian, we are seeing the most rapid growth in the Christian Church. Meanwhile, in areas where being a Christian is much less costly, the younger generations, bored and cynical toward nominal, saltless faith, are secularizing at an unprecedented pace.
WHAT DOES SALTY CHRISTIANITY LOOK LIKE? It looks like the best babysitters, who clean the dishes before the parents arrive home, who leave the place better than they found it. Likewise, Christians are put in the world by God, in the name of Christ and empowered by the Holy Spirit, to leave the world better than we found it. There are many examples of this. All but one of the Ivy League universities
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were founded by Christians. Let’s keep doing that. The first hospital was founded by Christian ministers and benefactors, and there are now hospitals all over the world whose names include the word “Saint,” pointing to their Christian beginnings. Let’s keep doing that. As secular journalist Nicholas Kristof says, evangelical Christians are the most self-giving, exemplary servants to the world’s poor. Let’s keep doing that. Rembrandt painted world class paintings for the glory of God. Beethoven and Handel made world class music. Dostoevsky wrote world class literature. Let’s keep doing that. Evangelical leader Kevin Palau recently partnered with the openly gay mayor of Portland to resource and bless an under-served public school. Let’s keep doing that. A little Baptist church in Texas pooled funds together to pay for an outspoken, antiChristian atheist’s medical needs. Let’s keep doing that. But what if people misunderstand our intent? What if by being so “in the world,” people start to think we are soft on truth? If we must choose, and sometimes we must, it is better to be misunderstood and labeled as too soft on sin, than it is to be misunderstood as self-righteous, harsh and stern. Jesus was regularly accused of being a glutton and a drunk, even though he was neither. Why? Because Jesus lived his life around drunks, prostitutes, shady tax collectors, and the like…and never felt the need to explain himself. Jesus welcomed sinners and ate with them (Luke 15:1-2). Mustn’t we? Ay friend and mentor, Tim Keller, has often said, “Christians are called by God to be living so sacrificially and beautifully that the people around us, who don’t believe what we believe, will soon be unable to imagine the world without us.” Let’s keep doing that. And, if we haven’t been doing that up to now, let’s start there. Because it was in the vicinity of this kind of Christianity — the life-giving, stand-out minority…not the so-called “moral majority” that the Lord added daily to the number of those being saved. We are a loved people. So let’s go out and love.
Scott Sauls is a pastor, author and blogger living in Nashville, TN.
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Surprise! Let God Make You Smile During COVID-19 A woman who is diagnosed with lymph node cancer (she had colon cancer and skin cancer prior to this) finds out that the possible chemotherapy and radiation is cancelled. The doctors tell her that the tumor she has is benign! A young mother, pregnant with her third child is diagnosed with a blood clot the size of the baby inside her. Three days later the blood clot that could have ended the pregnancy tragically, has now dried up and cannot be found. A salesman calls and the Christian who answers asks one question, “How have you been doing during the pandemic?” He begins to blurt out his battle with depression and psychiatric issues. The Christian is then able to minister to him on multiple levels even though he is seven states away, and he is now on the daily prayer list. These are true examples of how God has intervened during the last few months in people’s lives. We call them “ miracles” or “blessings” or “favor.” They haven’t been earned. We are not entitled to these in any way; and we cannot perceive them as just circumstance or coincidence alone. It is just the nature of our Father in heaven to give us His goodness. “Taste and see that the Lord is good; blessed are those who take refuge in him.” (Psalm 34:8; TBIV) These welcome intrusions can be very tiny, like finding a parking place right up front of a very jammed parking lot, or getting to the cash register just as a new line opens up. The time and energy this occurrence saves is gratefully received. At other times, God pops into our day-to-day existence in very huge ways, River Region’s Journey
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like when the career musician finds the Steinway grand piano of their dreams and the money shows up the next day so they can pay cash. Another couple has prayed for their alcoholic son for years, when suddenly he turns his life completely around and hasn’t had a drink for over a decade. Yes, sometimes, it seems as if we have diligently prayed and fasted for Godsends forever. Other times, we are startled, because Father God shows up suddenly at the right place and the right time to demonstrate His love for us when we least expect it. Yet the unexpected is just around the corner… Consider the barren Danite woman who heard, “‘Surprise! You’re going to conceive and give birth to a son!’ and as for you, ‘Be sure that you don’t drink wine or anything intoxicating, and don’t eat anything unclean, because the young man will be a Nazirite dedicated to God from inside the womb until the day he dies.’” (Judges 13:5, ISV) The woman’s child was Samson. Can you imagine what John the Baptist thought when he met Jesus, not as his cousin, but as his Messiah? He was just doing his daily task of baptizing the people in the muddy Jordan, and look Who showed up? What a privilege that must have been! 16
The disciples were surely caught off-guard with any of the many miracles Jesus performed, but feeding the 5000 had to be quite unsettling. They expected Him to send them to get food somewhere, not use a kid’s lunch to satisfy a hungry mob! It completely turned around disciple Philip’s faith in Jesus. Your God, the Holy One you worship, is not just out there somewhere, not understanding what you are going through during this time. He is relevant to His beloved people and has shown Himself faithful throughout the generations. As horrific as COVID-19 is, nothing can compare with the genocides of the past and what evil man has done to man. We need to see Him in the midst of our circumstance on a consistent, faithbased level. We also need to give Him glory for the ways He has bestowed favor on us, how He has provided blessings small and large, and for His miracle-working power within our lives. Remember your salvation has saved you from the clutches of hell! We should be excitedly looking on tiptoe to see Him working in the here and now. So ready yourself for a divine surprise, and sing with me, woman of God! “Many, O Lord my God, are the wonders which You have done, And Your thoughts toward us; There is none to compare with You. If I would declare and speak of them, They would be too numerous to count.” (Psalm 40:5, NAS)
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Common Ground Montgomery Christmas Store Sheree Burns, who serves as coordinator of the Common Ground Montgomery Christmas Store said giving to CGM’s Christmas Store serves three main purposes. “It offers parents/families with an opportunity to purchase toys and gifts for their children at a significantly reduced price, up to 75% off retail price. The Christmas Store also allows parents/families to keep their dignity by being able to afford “Christmas” for their children,” she said. “The store also supports CGM’s high school program fundraiser, which provides high schoolers the opportunity to take meaningful educational and social trips, showing them that the world is more than their community. This affords them the opportunity to dream beyond what they see on a daily basis.” For residents who would like to donate specific items, there is one item at the top of the list. “Bikes! We always need bikes! They tend to leave very fast, and at the dollar amount that we sell them, parents/
families are able to afford these items for their children,” said Burns. The store could also use other childfriendly items such as brown baby dolls, educational toys and devices, drones, remote control cars, Imaginext toys, L.O.L. Dolls, brown Barbie dolls, Marvel/D.C. Superhero action figures, and WWE action figures, Burns noted. “Cash donations and gift cards are welcomed as well. Staff and high school students shop for our store with those gifts,” she said. With this being a year of challenges for many people, Burns said there is an anticipated greater need this year. “We do expect a greater need this year because of the pandemic. Community members have already started calling with questions, and wondering if we are indeed moving forward with the Christmas Store.” If you would like to donate to the Common Ground Montgomery Christmas Store, please note that drop-off days are Monday - Friday during normal office hours at the main office located at 1516 Mobile Road. For toy donations, please purchase a new toy for children up to age 14, leave the price tag intact, and leave the item
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unwrapped. In an attempt to reflect the students in the program, Common Ground asks that you only purchase brown baby and Barbie dolls. If donating a check, please be sure to note “Christmas Store” in the check memo line. You can drop off toys, check, cash or gift card donations to the office, or you can mail donations to P.O. Box 1866, Montgomery, AL 36102. Please specify somewhere on the donation that it should be used for The Christmas Store. If you are ordering a toy online and wish it to be sent directly, please have it mailed to Common Ground Montgomery, 1516 Mobile Road, Montgomery, AL 36108. For information on volunteering with the Common Ground Montgomery Christmas Store, please visit https://cgm.life/ christmas-store. (Photos on opposite page provided by CGM Christmas Store.)
Hands on River Region Christmas Clearing House Residents of the River Region have been supporting the Christmas Clearing House since 1980. Since that time, the Christmas Clearinghouse has been pro-
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viding holiday assistance and matching those in need with individuals to provide toys and gifts to families, with assistance provided to approximately 2,000 households in 2019. The program impacted the lives of 7,000 children in the region. According to the Hands On River Region website, the Christmas Clearing House uses a three-step approach to provide assistance to those in need during the holiday season by eliminating duplication of services through partnering with nonprofit and faithbased programs through the use of a database. This ensures that those in need of assistance receive the help that is needed. The Clearing House also matches individuals with a family in need and provides a wish list. Additionally, the Christmas Clearing House offers assistance to families who do not receive assistance for Christmas though a service agency or are not adopted though the program. For groups looking for a service project, Hands on River Region also offers a gift basket program, which includes some basic household items that food stamps and other types of public assistance do not support the purchase of. The project is ideal for a Sunday School class, a business, or civic organization to help the
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Christmas Clearing House not only put smiles on the faces of children, but bring peace to the hard working moms and dads just trying to make ends meet. If you would like to get involved and volunteer with the Christmas Clearing House, please visit ​http://volunteer.handsonriverregion.org/ for more information.
Toys for Tots The Toys for Tots program has been bringing the joy of Christmas to less fortunate children since 1947. With over 584 million toys distributed to children since the program began, locally 32,348 toys have been distributed to children in the Montgomery and surrounding areas. The mission of the program is to collect new and unwrapped toys during October, November, and December and distribute them to the needy children throughout the community. According to the Toys for Tots webpage, there are many great things about the Toys for Tots drive in the area, the two most significant being Toys for Tots has an amazing 97% program rate. This means that for every dollar donated, 97 cents goes towards buying toys, books and other Christmas items for children,
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and secondly, all donations, including monetary donations, stay right here in the Montgomery area. Toys collected here stay here. Last Christmas, nearly 18,000 toys were delivered to over 9,300 children. The Montgomery area Toys for Tots drive covers 11 counties total. Those counties are: Autauga, Bullock, Dallas, Elmore, Lee, Lowndes, Macon, Marengo, Montgomery, Sumter, Wilcox. If you live in one of these counties and would like to receive assistance this year, please visit https://montgomery-al.toysfortots.org and click on Request a Toy. You can also visit this site if you would like to make a donation to Toys for Tots.
The Salvation Army Area shoppers are familiar with the sights and sounds of the Salvation Army. With the ringing of the bells and red kettles that greet holiday shoppers at many store entrances, it is truly the ringing in of the holiday season for many. This year, there is a need for more assistance due to COVID-19. According to The Salvation Army website, COVID-19 has created a bigger need of people needing assistance,
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The Montgomery Community Christmas Store The Montgomery Community Christmas Store offers participants encouragement, dignity, and ownership. Beginning in 2014 as a new kind of Christmas program, community leaders recognized that low-income families face a real struggle as they try to balance their needs with a desire to provide gifts and joy for their children at Christmas time, said Khristen Carlson, who serves as the coordinator of the annual store.
“Rather than give these families what we think they need, our store is a warm, welcoming place where they can shop for their families themselves,” she said. “Because this ability to provide for one’s family is so important, our store empowers these families to enjoy the gift of making their child’s dream come true.” The Montgomery Community Christmas Store is a place where parents in need can buy “new and neat” affordable gifts for their own children without causing a financial burden. Donors provide funds for the program, volunteers stock the store, and parents are able to shop the store, making their own selections for their child at an affordable price. Parents of approximately 250 children will purchase presents for $5 per gift, 2 gifts per child. Participation to shop is by invitation only, with a shoppers list developed through contacts with local churches and a variety of community ministries and agencies. “In this unique way, the Christmas Store is not a charity program,” notes Carlson. “Dignity is as much a product of the store as the toys. Some of the shoppers will be invited to volunteer to help staff the store, contributing their time and giving ‘back’ to a program that makes a differ-
ence in their lives at Christmas. “Frazer UMC dedicates resources toward this ambitious project because we believe it is important to empower families working to move beyond poverty. We now ask you to join us as we believe the opportunity to bring together people from the suburbs and the city in service together is a transformative one for all.” This year, the store has the following needs: Over 100 volunteers are needed to assist with store setup and decoration, shopping, and gift wrapping; Parent greeters and guides, and help operating the children’s craft center. In an effort to provide a safe shopping experience, all COVID-19 recommendations will be followed. The Christmas Store will be held on Friday, December 11 and Saturday, December 12. The deadline for monetary donations is Dec. 1, 2020. If you would like more information about this year’s Christmas Store, please contact Khristen Carlson, christmasstore@frazerumc.org. Katie Blair is a freelance writer who has a deep interest in sharing stories about everyday people living extraordinary lives for Christ. She lives in Wetumpka, Alabama with her husband Steve, and their dog, Rosie. She is the mom of two young adult children and serves as a children’s ministry partner with Frazer Church.
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Living in a “Cancel Culture” We are living in the age of the “cancel culture,” and there certainly does seem to be an intimidation factor at play, situations in which people are afraid to speak their minds, to express an opinion, for fear that there could be negative consequences of speaking out. I would contend that Christians have faced this in a number of settings, including the workplace and in education. A poll by the Cato Institute has received quite a bit of attention. According to an article at the CNSNews.com website, the survey asked respondents to indicate whether or not they agreed with this statement: “The political climate these days prevents me from saying things I believe because others might find them offensive.” The article says:
Sixty-two percent (62%) of Americans agreed, up from 58% in 2017, leading Cato to conclude that “self-censorship is on the rise in the United States.” The only group, or “cohort,” in which a majority felt comfortable in sharing their opinions is “strong liberals.” According to the article, Cato concluded:
Nearly 6 in 10 (58%) of staunch liberals feel they can say what they believe. However, centrist liberals feel differently. A slim majority (52%) of liberals feel they have to self-censor, as do 64% of moderates, and 77% of conservatives. This demonstrates that political expression is an issue that divides the Democratic coalition between centrist Democrats and their left flank.... Across the board, around a third of Americans “fear that their careers would be harmed if their political views were known.” Along similar lines, The Epoch Times has reported on a survey by the organiRiver Region’s Journey
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zation, Foundation for Individual Rights in Education (FIRE), in partnership with RealClearEducation. The article describes the study as the “largest ever survey focusing on freedom of speech on U.S. college campuses,” and students expressed concerns over their ability to express their opinion, especially if it could be considered the minority one. For instance, “Sixty percent of students can recall at least one time during their college experience when they did not share their perspective because they feared how their peers, professors, or school officials would respond...” Conservatives, by a 72-55 margin over liberals, were more likely to censor themselves. Also, “More than 42 percent of the students believe their college would punish a student who expresses his or her controversial or ‘offensive’ ideas instead of defending the speaker’s freedom of speech.” What is the topic on college campuses that is the most “difficult to have an open and honest conversation about?” Abortion - with 45 percent saying it is the most difficult. That is followed by race at 43%, gun control at 41%, and transgender issues at 40. RealClearEducation editor Nathan Harden is quoted in the article saying: “A university should be a lively marketplace of ideas—a place where different beliefs and opinions can be discussed, analyzed, and challenged with widest possible freedom,” adding, “If students don’t feel free to speak their minds, or if they aren’t exposed to diverse points of view, it greatly diminishes the value of their education.” 22
There are a few points that can be related to these findings. We recognize that we are living in challenging times that call for boldness for the body of Christ; we can strive to be bold to speak about God’s perspective and His work in our lives. Ideally, we should be so strong in our Biblical values that we are not intimidated by the views of others. Ultimately, there is a very good probability that we will all disagree with one another about something, but we can disagree without resorting to excluding others from discussion. It is clear that, in many circles, if you do not virtue signal and pledge allegiance to the dangerous narrative of divisiveness, there will be consequences. There may be retaliation. We, as people of faith, need to pursue a better way – the way of unity. For the Christian, we can learn to share our views in a reciprocal manner; we don’t want our own opinions to be shut down, and we should strive not to automatically shut others down because their opinions differ from ours. And, we have to be confident in the compelling nature of a Biblical worldview. We can strive to share our faith in a manner that draws people in, rather than repulses them. Not all will accept your point of view, but you can continue to look for ways to share it. You can also consider the question: do you create a safe environment around you? Do people feel the ability to speak freely around you? We can certainly be firm in our convictions, but forthright in our compassion, as well. We can speak the truth, but we can listen authentically when people express their views. It’s about respect as fellow human beings.
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Help for Depression Estimates of rates of depression symptoms are tripling during the COVID-19 pandemic, making it a good time for
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a self-check on how you are doing. The first major hurdle we must overcome is to acknowledge if we are feeling depressed. The level of depression can range from “feeling blue” to an overwhelming sense of hopelessness. Being honest with ourselves is always the first step in finding hope and healing. You may find it helpful to utilize a depression screening tool like the one posted by Mental Health America (https:// screening.mhanational.org/screening/ depression). After taking the screening you may find it beneficial to talk with your primary care provider, a mental health professional, or your pastor. If you have recently begun a new medication when your depression started, call your doctor to explore the possible side effects. Tragically, many people choose not to do anything, and the depression may worsen over time. Discussing your symptoms with a professional can assist you in determining the source and the best course of treatment for you. For many people depression can be characterized as a “thinking disorder.” That is, we can best think of depression as something we are doing to ourselves because of negative or faulty thinking. AA calls this “stinking thinking” and others
refer to it as irrational thinking or cognitive distortions. The Bible tells us, “As a man thinks in his heart so he becomes” (Proverbs 23:7), so throughout our lives we develop patterns of thoughts which shape what we believe about ourselves and the world around us. This belief system will determine how we feel and how we behave. Paul addresses this in Romans 12:1 – 2 when he instructs us: “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your minds, so that you may discern what is the will of God—what is good and acceptable and perfect” (NRSV). However, while the concept is simple enough, this is not an easy task to accomplish. Throughout our lives we have established these beliefs, so they have become automatic thoughts. Something happens or someone says something, and we default to these ingrained patterns of response. These often-destructive beliefs become so much a part of us that we do not even recognize them and could possibly benefit from the guidance of a trained professional to help us discover the patterns and their impact on our lives. If your depression is not causing major disruption in your life or it seems to be related to recent temporary circumstances, you may benefit from exercising, getting additional sleep, or setting goals to increase activity. Pastor and author Max Lucado has written an excellent book called Traveling Light where he gives wonderful insights for us to learn to “lighten our loads” by surrendering our burdens and struggles to Jesus who has said, “Come to me; all you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest” (Mat. 11:28). Rev. Dr. Lennie Howard received is M.S. from Troy UniversityMontgomery, M.Div. from Southern Baptist Theological Seminary, and Doctor of Ministry from Columbia Theological Seminary. He has been a Licensed Professional Counselor for 32 years, and a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist for 21 years. He has served as Chaplain at Tutwiler Prison, and pastored Southern Baptist and United Methodist Churches. Lennie counseled for 20 years at the Frazer Counseling Center.
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Adoption
Location: Vaughn Forest Church, 8660 Vaughn Road, Montgomery APAC, Alabama Pre/ Post Adoption Connection Support Group: This group provides education and social interaction for adoptive families. Meets 3rd Tuesdays, 6-7:30 p.m. For more information call Jill Sexton at 409-9477.
Alcoholic / Addiction
Location: Caring Center of FBC, 52 Adams Avenue CrossRoads Support Group is for addicts/alcoholics and family members. Meets at 6 p.m. Tuesdays and follows a Christcentered 12-step program. Call 264-4949. Location: Dalraida United Methodist Church 3817 Atlanta Highway, Montgomery An Alanon meeting is held at 9 am on Saturday mornings. Call 272.2190 for details. Location: Grace Presbyterian Church, Corner of Bell Road and Atlanta Hwy. Alcoholics Anonymous and Alanon meetings are held Monday, Tuesday, Thursday, and Friday, at 6 p.m. An Open AA Speaker meeting is held on Saturday at 6 p.m. An Alanon & AA held on Sundays at 2 p.m. Location: Grace Point Community Church, 78223 Tallassee Hwy (Hwy 14), Wetumpka Celebrate Recovery- every Tuesday night- 6:15pm. All are welcome! These meetings are a safe and loving environment for individuals seeking to conquer their hurts, habits and hang-ups! gracepoint.info. Location: Heritage Baptist Church 1849 Perry Hill Rd, Montgomery, AL Route1520 is a Christ-centered recovery movement dedicated to showing the way home for men impacted by sex and pornography addiction. Meets: Mondays, 6:30 – 8:00 PM CST. No Childcare Provided. Email montgomery@route1520.com, visit http://www.route1520.com/ men/groups-for-men/ or call 877.200.1520. Location: Journey Church, 435 Sheila Blvd, Prattville Celebrate Recovery - Christ-centered 12-step for anyone struggling with addiction or life-challenging issues. Mondays beginning at 6:15 pm. Childcare available. Call John Pearse at 303-243-4308 or visit myjourneychurch.com. Location: Landmark Church, 1800 Halcyon Blvd. RSVP- This is a 12 step spiritual recovery program for
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overcoming addictions. Using the steps and Bible we help build self-esteem, responsible behavior, the making of amends for our destructive actions, and to fill the void in our hearts in a loving relationship with God. Wednesday @ 6:30pm in Rm. 121 of the Life Center. Location: Prattville Church of Christ, 344 E Main St. CASA - 12 step (Christians Against Substance Abuse) spiritual recovery program, for overcoming addictions. Class begins each Wednesday evening @6:30 PM. Please call 334-365-4201 for additional information. Location: St. James UMC, 9045 Vaughn Road Celebrate Recovery meets every Thursday night from 6-8 pm in the Youth Room. This is a Christ-centered 12-step group for anyone struggling with an “addiction or life-challenging issues.” For information, call Chris Henderson at 334-215-0427. Location: First United Methodist Church, Wetumpka 306 W. Tuskeena Street ‘Fresh Start’ Recovery meets every Thursday, 6-8pm (meal included). In 2011, Fresh Start Motorcycle Ministry (FSMM) began when God laid it on the heart of a lifetime biker to minister to those with his background. All are welcome, not a requirement to own/ride a motorcycle. For any information contact ministry leader, Paul Henderson, 334-201-5428. Location: Trinity Presbyterian Church, 1728 S. Hull Street, Montgomery Route1520 is a Christ-centered recovery movement dedicated to showing the way home for men impacted by sex and pornography addiction. Meets Wednesday from 6:30-8 pm. For more information email riverregion@route1520.com, visit http:// www.route1520.com/ men/groups-for-men or call 877-2000-1520.
Alzheimer’s / Dementia
Location: First UMC, 2416 W. Cloverdale Park, An Adult Parkinson/Alzheimer’s respite ministry meets from 10 a.m.-2 p.m. every Monday, Wednesday and Thursday. Lunch is served. Contact Daphne at 834-8990. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy An Alzheimer’s and Dementia Caregivers’ Support Group meets on the first Thursday of each month at 10:30 a.m. in Room 3103. Call 495-6350 for more information.
Cancer
Location: Aldersgate UMC, 6610 Vaughn Rd Cancer Survivors Support Group is sponsored by Samaritan Counseling Center. We would love to have anyone (patient or family member ) join us. Thursdays at 1 pm. Please call before attending just to make sure we are meeting that week. Please call Debbie D at 4674578 or Ben W at 202-1912.
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Location: ChristChurch, 8800 Vaughn Road Cancer Support Group for general cancer. Tuesday afternoons at 1 pm. For more info, please call Christy Holding at 531-1390 or Debbie at 467-4578. Location: Frazer UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy. Central Alabama Multiple Myeloma Support Group meets from 10 a.m. to noon the second Saturday of every month in Room 3105. We have guest speakers, video presentations, printed information and a group that welcomes sharing their journey with myeloma in an informal setting. Refreshments are provided. Contact Joe Crowley at 334-207-4385 or jpcrowl46@yahoo.com Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy. Women of Hope Breast Cancer Support Group, providing education, awareness, and mentoring for breast cancer patients/survivors, family and friends, meets the 2nd Tuesday of each month at 5:30 p.m. in Room 8114. Call 220-4599 or e-mail womenofhope@charter.net
Divorce
Location: First Baptist Church, 305 S. Perry Street Divorce Care Wednesday nights @6:30-8:00 pm in Room 405B. Child care is available. Contact Kathy Cooper at 241-5125 for information. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Divorce Care meets each Tuesday from 6 – 7:30 p.m. Come to the Library area. This group will provide support & guidance to assist you in working through the issues, pain & pressures surrounding divorce. Call 495-6350 or e-mail jan@frazerumc.org.
Gambling
Location: Cedarwood Community Church, 10286 US HWY 231 in the Wallsboro/Wetumpka community. The church is 1 1/2 miles past Tutweiler prison. Gamblers Anonymous, Saturdays at 6 pm. and Mondays at 6:30 pm. Call 567-0476. Location: Mental Health of America, 1116 South Hull Street, Montgomery. Sundays @ 5 pm. For more information about the GA meetings call 334-399-6918. For information about counseling services or to request a guest speaker please call the Alabama Council on Compulsive Gambling at 334-277-5100.
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Location: Cornerstone Christian Church, 301 Dalraida Road River Region Survivors of Suicide meets on the second and fourth Thursday of every month (excluding holidays) from 6:30-8:00 PM. This is an open group for those who have lost a loved one to suicide and welcomes anyone regardless of their religious beliefs. Contact Cheryl Vinson at riverregionsos@gmail.com with questions or for more information.
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Location: Eastmont Baptist, 4505 Atlanta Hwy. Compassionate Friends is a national self-help support organization for families grieving the death of a child meeting first Tuesdays at 7 pm. Call (334) 284-2721 for info. Location: First UMC, 100 E. Fourth St, Prattville Grief Share, Wednesday evenings at 6 pm in the church parlor. Led by Michael Beatty. Call 365-5977. Location: Frazer UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Grief Recovery Support Group meets Tuesdays at 5:30 p.m., Rm 3105. Call 495-6350 for more info. Location: Grace Baptist Church, 304 Old Montgomery Highway, Wetumpka Mourning to Morning is a Christian growth group for mothers who have lost a child, from before birth through adulthood. Meets the last Thursday night of each month. For info, contact Alice Scarborough (334) 462-4775 or Gwen Ellis (334) 567-8754 or e-mail mourningtomorning@gmail.com. Join us on Facebook. Location: Millbrook FUMC, 3350 Edgewood Rd Grief Share meets Sundays from 5-7 p.m. For more information or to sign up, please call the church office at 285-4114 or email churchoffice@mfumc.org. Location: Pilgrim Rest Missionary Baptist Church 1550 E. Washington Street Grief support group meets every Monday at 6:00 P.M- 7:00 P.M. For additional information, please contact Alice Glover at (334)281-2754.
Mental Health
Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Mental Health - NAMI (National Alliance on Mental Illness) meets 2nd Monday of each month from 6:30 – 8:30 pm in Room 7205. Group provides understanding, education & information to family members & friends of those who suffer mental illness, Call Pat Cobb at 334279-8331 for more info. NAMI Connection Support Group for individuals with mental illness meets every Thursday evening, 6:30 – 7:30 pm, room 3104. Call Pat Cobb at 334-279-8331 for more information.
Parenting
Location: First Baptist Prattville, 138 S.Washington Moms LIFE (Living In Faith Everyday) meets twice monthly from 8:30 - 11:45 am in the chapel at the Church from Aug - May. We offer a time of fellowship, Bible study, musical guest, special guest speakers and a lot of fun!! Cost is $5 per meeting. For moms of all stages and ages of life. Childcare provided by reservation. Call April Scott at 828-446-6666. Location: First Baptist Church, 305 S. Perry Street MOPS (Mothers of Preschoolers) is a place you can share a good meal, make new friends, and find encouragement as you face the everyday challenges of raising your little ones. We have educational speakers, great conversation, and fun activities. Free childcare is provided. Meetings are every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays, 9:30-11:30 a.m., September through May. Contact Tiffany Alewine at 241-5165. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Frazer mom2mom is a playgroup to connect mothers of ages birth to 5 at Frazer UMC to share fun and inspiration in our journey together, with our children, and with Christ. Email Mom2mom@frazerumc.org for info. Location: Landmark Church, 1800 Halcyon Blvd. Single Moms Support Group, Wednesday nights at 6:30 p.m. in classroom 118. For information call 277-5800.
Location: Perry Hill UMC, 910 Perry Hill Road Single Moms’ Care and Support Group meets 2nd and 4th Thursdays from 6:15 - 8:00 PM. December meeting will be on the 11th. Free snack supper provided to moms and children. Child care for infants -16 years. Call 272-3174. Location: Redland Baptist, 1266 Dozier Rd, Wetumpka A MOPS group will be held 1st and 3rd Tuesday’s of every month during the school year, and has scheduled play dates and moms nights out through the summer and beyond. While moms are in a MOPS meeting, their children are lovingly cared for in the MOPPETS program. Email Denise Braswell at deniseorscott@yahoo.com. Location: St.James UMC, 9045 Vauhgn Road Moms in Prayer International: This is a Christ centered interdenominational prayer ministry made up of moms, grandmothers, aunts or any woman who wants to gathers to pray for their children and schools. Meets every Sunday afternoon from 3:00-4:00. Call Annette Jones for more information on joining us or training to start your own group. 850-529-4730 or email Montgomerymipac@gmail.com.
Physical Challenges
Location: Aldersgate UMC, 6610 Vaughn Road Visually Impaired Support Group – Meets monthly on second Thursday 1:00 – 2:30 p.m. The group is called Outward Sight - Inward Vision and is for those with vision loss and their caregivers. Our mission is to assist those experiencing vision loss to maintain their independence. Call 272-6152. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy. Parkinson’s Support meets 4th Thursdays at 6 pm in Room 8114. Call 495-6350 for more info. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy. Ostomy Support meets every other month on the 2nd Sunday at 1:30 p.m. in room 3101. In 2018: Feb., April, June, Aug., Oct., Dec. Call 495-6350 for more info. Location: Vaughn Park Church, 3800 Vaughn Rd. Montgomery Area Down Syndrome Outreach Group meets 2nd Friday of each month from 6:30- 8 PM. We have activities, speakers and special events throughout the year for the parents, siblings and children with Down Syndrome. Childcare is provided. Please visit www. montgomeryareadownsyndrome.com or our Facebook page (MADSOG) for information. .
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Saving for a Car
Q. I decided a couple of years ago to start following your plan. Part of getting out of debt for me included paying off my car. I’m taking your advice, and saving up to pay cash for my next vehicle. I know you like mutual funds, so should I put the money I’m setting aside for that purchase in a mutual fund?
A. I’m glad to hear you’ve decided to get control of your money. Mutual funds are great for long-term investing, and by long-term investing I’m talking about a bare minimum of five years—preferably 10. But I wouldn’t recommend them as a way of saving up for a vehicle purchase. The problem with mutual funds, in the type of short-term scenario you’re talking about, is they can go up, or down, in value. I’d suggest a simple savings or money market account when it comes to stashing the money you’re saving for a car. They don’t pay much in terms of interest, but your money will be safe, and you won’t have the ups and downs of the stock market to worry about.
Did you know the average monthly payment in America for a new car right now about $554 a month? It makes my head hurt to think about that much cash flying out the window every month on something that’s dropping in value like a rock. Even if you just stashed that kind of money in a shoebox you’d have over $6,600 saved in just a year. And despite what some people say, that’s enough to buy a dependable, pre-owned car.
Relationships and Giving
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Do you have guidelines for giving when it comes to helping family members? My wife and I are both 52, we’re debt-free, and we have savings along with about $750,000 in retirement. We agree with you that it’s a bad idea to loan money to relatives, but we were hoping you could give us a little extra guidance.
A. I love that you have a helping and generous heart toward your family. Wanting to help is a noble and caring thing. Wanting to help
in the best way possible for all concerned in a sign of maturity and wisdom. The big thing is to make sure you’re helping someone get back on their feet, and make positive changes in their life. You’re not helping anyone when you give a drunk a drink, so you have to ask yourself if your generosity is really helping them or if you’re just enabling bad behavior. Also, you can’t give to a point where you’re putting your own household at risk. You have to continue to be responsible with your finances where your own family is concerned, as well. This isn’t about being a control freak. It’s about using the resources God has given you in a wise and responsible manner. In human terms, that means helping someone get out of a mess they’re in, while at the same time ensuring they’re working to make sure they never end up there again!
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