Frazer United Methodist Church Vacation Bible School Age 4 through rising 6th grade 9-12 a.m. Mon.-Fri. July 14-18
Kids discover the Creator and the creative gifts He has given them as they “imagine and build with God” in the “Workshop of Wonders.” Sign your child or grandchild up today for the best week of summer! For ages 4 (as of Sept. 2, 2014) through rising 6th graders.
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REGISTRATION Register at the Tugboat in Frazer Atrium or go online to frazerumc.org/vbs • Registration is free in June • Late registrations (after July 1) will be charged a $10 supply fee.
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The Family Table The table has a way of bringing families together. Enjoy summertime fun and fellowship with other families, and to learn God’s Word from a fresh perspective. Using a multi-level approach, we’ll explore the great stories of the Bible in a way that engages the attention of a child, while still challenging the teens and adults, and creates opportunities for discussion between all ages. At the table, we eat, play, and learn. Starting at 5 p.m., bring a brown bag dinner from home (or stop by the drive-through, we won’t judge!), and enjoy fellowship time with other families around games, art projects, and other unstructured activities. Around 6 p.m. we’ll move into a Bible story experience, illustrated through video and interactive elements, along with hands-on activities, finishing up with a family discussion and prayer time. The table is for all ages. Designed for parents, guardians or grandparents with children who are 4 years old and and up. Childcare for your preschoolers available with required registration: go to frazerumc.org/table.
Frazer United Methodist Church Theresa Reiter, Children’s Ministry Craig McKissick, Sports & Fitness Sunday worship 8, 9:30 & 11AM children’s Ministry at all hours 6000 atlanta Hwy. Montgomery frazerumc.org • 334.272.8622
Volume 16, Issue 2
Feature Articles
JU N E 2 0 1 4 Columns page 2
Publisher’s Note
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Jason Watson
Celebrate Recovery in the River Region by Rachel Fisher
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Pastor's Perspective Pastor Jay Thompson, Cornerstone Christian Church
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Learn all about these unique, local groups that can help heal your hurts, habits and hang-ups.
Shine Kim Hendrix
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With All Your Mind Matt Jordan, Ph.D.
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Counselor’s Corner
Nancy Thomas, MA, NCC, CCMHC, LPC
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Pondering the Journey
Our listing of River Region VBS opportunities offers fun and Christian enrichment for you kids. Choose one or several!
Sam Whatley
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Family Teams for Christ Lisa and Mike Conn
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The Intersection Bob Crittenden
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Dave $ays
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Practicing the Art of Good Fathering by Victor Parachin Be reminded of the critical role fathers play in the lives of their families, and challenged to be the dad your kids need! 1
Dave Ramsey
In Every Issue page 6
Books to Read page 8
Around Our Community page 32
Support Groups page 36
Event Calendar page 40
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Our Mission... We believe the Good News concerning the life, death and resurrection of Jesus Christ is worth sharing with our friends and neighbors in the River Region. Each month we deliver this life-changing message to the centers of activity across our community in a user-friendly and relevant way to empower and equip all those seeking to grow closer to God. Join us in this mission by sharing a copy with your neighbor or by becoming an advertising partner starting next month.
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From the Publisher Father’s Day is just a couple weeks away, and I’m not sure why, but I always begin to measure myself on whether or not I’m being a good dad. I’ve never wanted to be a mediocre dad who is given gifts on Father’s Day because it’s required of his children. (Granted, that may be inescapable when your children hit the teen years.) When I first became a father my view of life was much simpler, and parenting someone in diapers wasn’t too difficult. I was a great father. Well our first child got older, life grew more complex, and then came number two, and eventually, number three. Now I don’t always think I’m a great father... but I do think I’m a better father than I used to be. How so? I’ve learned to say I’m sorry to my children, to be firm yet slow to anger, and quicker to express my love for them, to serve their mother and work hard bringing stability into our home. Still, weaved throughout all of these are my many shortcomings. I do fail as a dad, but I’m a better dad today because I’ve learned to exalt God the Father and credit Him for any of the good things I do for my children. I now know if my children want to experience life to the fullest then it will only come by knowing God the Father through Christ the Son and His Spirit working in them. As their father, I want to help them understand that whether in their studies, sports, relationships, entertainment or whatever they spend time doing, that God created this world and informs all areas of it, so that we can live rightly with Him and enjoy the blessing of being His children. A good verse we fathers can use to guide our relationships with our children is Colossians 2:6-8, “Therefore, as you received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk in him, rooted and built up in him and established in the faith, just as you were taught, abounding in thanksgiving. See to it that no one takes you captive by philosophy and empty deceit, according to human tradition, according to the elemental spirits of the world, and not according to Christ.” We are the Lord’s under-shepherds in the home and we’re all called to lead, protect, and nourish our children so that they will not be taken captive by the world’s ideas of truth. Christ is the way, and the way we must make known in our homes. Each month we share a biblical message that inspires many areas of life. Journey magazine is blessed with exceptional writers. In fact, this month we welcome back one of our early columnists, Sam Whatley. Sam will once again be writing his popular Pondering the Journey column (previously called Ponderings) with the same “folksy stories with a lesson” approach everyone so admired in the past. Also, we welcome one of the River Region’s leading counseling centers to our team. The staff from The Samaritan Counseling Center will now be writing our monthly Counselor’s Corner. I want to thank these and all of our writers who encourage so many lives each month through River Region’s Journey. Finally, I hope you’ll share Journey with your friends, including the many newcomers in the area. Along with the encouraging words we share, we also offer Around Our Community news, the area’s best Vacation Bible School listing and ways to find the support needed when first moving to a new community. Every issue of Journey is an opportunity to share the message of Christ’s love with someone. Please help us achieve that mission!
The opinions expressed in River Region’s Journey are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the view of the owners, nor do they constitute an endorsement of products or services herein. River Region’s Journey has the right to refuse any content that is not consistent with its statement of faith.
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Every believer experiences periods of spiritual coolness. It would be great if we could all be fired up 100% all the time, but experience proves that it is simply not going to happen. Sometimes we feel like we’re moving away from God instead of closer to Him. Perhaps the sense of intimacy is gone, or maybe we find our trust diminished. The lack of excitement seems to point toward a lack of purpose as we begin to go through the motions rather than worshiping and serving with heartfelt intent. Pretty soon we find ourselves questioning our own commitment to Christ or looking for someone else on whom to blame our situation. As the spiritual rut gets deeper, excuses come easier, and there is a danger that our temporary coolness might settle into long-term apathy. And the re-
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sponse of the Lord to a lukewarm believer is clear (Revelation 3:16). The lukewarm state of the Laodicean church in Revelation 3 can be a mirror image warning to us (James 1:22-25) if we allow ourselves to slip into apathy about the Word of God and our personal ministries. It is a huge blessing that within the letter of Jesus to that church we find key ideas that show us the way back to spiritual health and a close walk with the Lord. Consider the following… 1. Meaningful and lasting resources come from God. In verse 17, the spiritual poverty of the Laodiceans is revealed. To counter that, the Lord advises them in v. 18 to buy from Him refined gold, white garments, and eye salve, so that they may be respectively truly rich, clothed in the symbol of purity, and healed of their blindness. We know from the writings of the Roman orator Cicero that Laodicea was a center of finance and commerce. There was also an extensive textile industry in that city. And the Phrygian eye salve specially formulated, mixed, and sold in Laodicea was known and prized throughout the region as a healing and comforting medicine. Christ’s message, then, was to recognize that the worldly things in which trust is placed are not the things that will bring salvation or meaning and purpose in life. His call to “buy from” Him is reflective of God’s call to the Israelites in Isaiah 55:1-3 to buy 4
freely and without cost the true necessities of life. Put your walk with God and the learning of His truth first (Matthew 6:33) and keep the things of this world in their proper perspective. 2. Discipline is a sign that God loves us and is shaping our lives (verse 19). The goal is not to destroy us or discourage us further, but to inspire zeal (excited commitment) to the Lord’s work as well as repentance (changing of the heart and turning from sin). When God allows difficult times or experiences to come to us, it always has purpose and will ultimately be for our best. Usually we are strengthened and made into more useful servants for the Lord. See your hard times as tools in the hands of a master craftsman and look for the teaching God has for you. He’s pointing you in the right direction! 3. The same Lord who saves is also interested in keeping the relationship strong (verse 20). This passage is often thought of as calling to the lost…but remember, the people addressed are Christians in the Laodicean church! The meaning is clearthe same Savior who gives the free gift of life wants a closer walk with us. What an encouragement! He seeks us…wants us to open the door of intimacy and closeness to Him. There is no need to feel isolated; His power on our behalf comforts us (Romans 8:35-39). Can you perceive Him standing at your figurative door, knocking? The decision to answer and grow closer to Christ is yours! Apathy is reversed into excitement when we realize we serve a mighty God who has a great work for us to be doing today. See yourself as His ambassador to those around you. Let the excitement spread! Jay Thompson is the preaching minister at Cornerstone Christian Church, located at 301 Dalraida Road, in Montgomery.
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It began with two devastating words: “tumor” and “incurable.” If they are not words you have ever heard, they are probably words heard by someone near you, someone you love or loved. They were words David McDonald heard as well. McDonald had pastored for just about 20 years and by 2011 had decided to begin a new work. He and his family would leave Canberra, Australia, and move thousands of kilometers north to Darwin, a remote but needy city. They were going there to found a new church. They secured support, made the journey a couple of times, found a place to live, made all the necessary preparations, packed the truck, and sent it off. They were all ready to begin the next 20 years of ministry. And then, just days before the big move, there was shortness of breath, numbness in the limbs. Something was wrong. Really wrong. There was a visit to the specialist and the terrible diagnosis: lung cancer. Incurable. Stage 4. Best-case scenario: he might live to see next Christmas. River Region’s Journey
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In all the difficulty and in all the devastation, he needed to find hope. With the fatal diagnosis and with the best of modern medicine unable to offer the promise of health, he knew he had to look for hope beyond cure. Hope Beyond Cure describes his search for hope. Yes, he was a pastor. Yes, he had walked with others through devastating and even terminal illness. But now it was him and now he was the one whose faith had been rocked and whose dreams had been shattered. He wasn’t ever tempted to throw away his Christian faith. Not at all. But he did realize the importance of deep and deeply satisfying answers. “Faith and reason have shaped this book. Together they have given me hope. I don’t know everything there is to know about cancer or God. I’ve studied them both, but my understanding is partial and limited. My ignorance outweighs my knowledge, even though I’m learning more day by day. But this knowledge of cancer and of God isn’t simply in my head— it’s deeply personal. I don’t just know about them—they are part of my life and my experience. I know cancer and 6
I know God. And it’s because I know God that I believe there is real hope for those who have cancer, for those who are struggling, for those who have lost hope—for everyone.” The hope he describes is the best and truest hope because it is founded upon the best and truest reality—that God is real and that he has sent his Son into this world to redeem sinners. McDonald goes to the gospel, but he does it in such a faith-stirring and helpful way. These aren’t easy answers. These aren’t trite solutions to deep problems. These are truths drawn carefully and consistently from the Bible, and all the while combined with the strength of human experience. Each of us knows someone who will suffer from cancer. Many who read these words will some day be diagnosed. Hope Beyond Cure is a book to read if you, like McDonald, are a Christian and suffering and need to be reminded of what is true. It is an appropriate book to hand to an unbeliever as well; it is written in a gentle and humble style that is not the least bit offensive. As Christians, we have nothing better to offer than what the Bible tells us and no better hope than the hope it describes—a hope beyond cure. Here is a book that offers deep answers to deep questions, all the while tempered by deep wells of experience. It is powerful, it is helpful, and it comes highly recommended.
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Dr. Brian Miller Welcomed As Aldersgate UMC’s New Pastor, Rev. Glen Pugh Remembered with Dedication of Church Atrium in His Honor
Please help welcome new Senior Pastor, Dr. Brian Miller, to Aldersgate United Methodist Church. Dr. Miller served at St. Mark United Methodist Church in Mobile, AL until this June. Dr. Miller will be the senior pastor at Aldersgate, replacing Rev. Glen Pugh, who died in a car crash earlier this year. Dr. Miller is married and has four children, aged 8-12. He is a graduate of Auburn University with a degree in Radio, Television, and Film. He also holds a Master of Divinity as well as a Doctor of Ministry in Preaching and Church Leadership from Asbury Theological Seminary. He begins serving at Aldersgate on Sunday, July 6, 2014. Aldersgate United Methodist Church is located at 6610 Vaughn Road, in Montgomery. On June 15 the members of Aldersgate United Methodist Church will remember Rev. Glen Pugh with a dedication of the church atrium in his honor. Rev. Pugh died in an automobile accident in March of this year at the age of 51. Members of his family, wife Carla, and children, Hunter and Hillary, will be in attendance. The Montgomery/Opelika District Superintendent of the United Methodist Church, Dr. Robbins Sims, will be leading the service. Rev. Pugh was the Senior Pastor at Aldersgate United Methodist Church for almost four years before his untimely death. The dedication will follow the 11 a.m. worship service, beginning around noon. Rev. Pugh’s ministry was impactful to many in the Montgomery area – friends are encouraged to join us for this dedication service.
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Alabama Angels Pageant at Hunter Hills Church
The second annual Alabama Angels Pageant will be held this year on July 26th at Hunter Hills Church in Prattville, AL. This is a very exciting day for our special needs community. It is for anyone, male or female, of any age, with any kind of physical or mental impairment. The director of the pageant, Renee Lantz, says “This is a pageant like no other. It’s not about beauty or ability. It is about showing our “angels” that they are loved and accepted for exactly who they are.” There are no losers in the Alabama Angels Pageant, only winners. Each “angel” will receive their own crown, sash, goody bag and t-shirt. The theme for this year’s pageant is, “Kings and Queens: A Royal Ball”. Exciting plans for the day include free hairstyling and makeup application for the girls, and then a horse and carriage ride to the castle entrance. Participation is absolutely free and registration for the pageant can be done at www.angelspageantsystem.com. Because this is a non-profit event, we rely on the community to help make this day happen. Any business or individual interested in sponsoring, volunteering, or donating food or goody bag items to the Alabama Angels Pageant should contact us at alabamaangels@hotmail. com. Find us on Facebook at Alabama Angels Pageant.
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Grace @ Bell Rd Creative Arts Camp Held at 5 Bell Road the week of June 9th
This is a wonderful alternative to Vacation Bible School and runs daily from 9 am to 1 pm. Cost is $25 for the first child and $10 for each additional child. Campers will learn the story of David through art, dance, music and drama. The week will end with a performance of David: A Man After God’s Own Heart. Like us on Facebook at Grace At Bell Road Church to download a form to register or call 272.4930.
A Rush of Fools Concert will be at the Davis Theatre for the Performing Arts on Wednesday, June 4, at 7 p.m. For tickets, visit http://www.rushoffools.com/tour/.
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Fashion Show Raises Money for Catholic Social Services
The River Region Catholic Seniors Guys and Gals Fashion Show was held Thursday, April 24, at Holy Spirit Parish Hall. The fashion show was a fundraiser for Catholic Social Services - Feed the Hungry. Guys and Gals, Senior Spirits, modeled vintage clothing and accessories, and made it a fun event for all who attended. The musician was River City Band featuring Phillip Martin. The vintage clothing and accessories were from Kynard Korner’s Vintage Boutiques. The event also included an Antique and Vintage Clothing Button Exhibit courtesy of the Local and National Button Society.
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Terrific Tuesdays for Older Adults
Terrific Tuesday Programs at First UMC, 2416 West Cloverdale Pk, welcomes all Senior Adults. 10 – 10:30 Fellowship and a Snack 10:30 -11:30 Devotional and a program. 11:30 –Noon Lunch ($2.50) June Programs: June 3 – Coralie McDavid explains the Raggedy Ann Ministry June 10 – No meeting due to VBS June 17 – Deanie Thompson gives a lesson in chalk June 24 - Bingo is $2.50. Call Nee Nee Webb at 834-8990 if you have questions.
Frazer UMC Hosts Summer Family Events
Family Movie Night Date: June 22, Time: 5-7 p.m. Location: Atrium Wear your PJ’s, bring your favorite blanket and/or lawn chair, and enjoy a free movie and snacks under the “clouds” in the Frazer Atrium. Free event. No childcare provided, all children must be accompanied by an adult. Family Game Night Date: July 27, Time: 5-7 p.m. Location: Activity Center Board games, video games, ping pong, and open gym in the Activity Center will make this a great night of fun and games for the whole family. Bring your own favorite board games or G-rated video games if you wish. Free event. No childcare provided; all children must be accompanied by an adult. Contact Laurie Shipp at 334.495.6335 or lshipp@frazerumc.org.
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Three Languages Meet in One Faith at Gateway Baptist Church
On April 27, 2014, Gateway held a Cross-Cultural Worship and Celebration event. For the last three years, a Korean congregation and a Hispanic congregation have been meeting at the Gateway campus. This was an opportunity for the three churches to come together for worship, food, and fellowship. A joint worship service was held in the gym with about 400+ in attendance. All three pastors delivered a short message that was translated into the other languages. All three congregation’s praise team also led out in music with every worshipper singing in their native language. Following the worship time, there was a meal where the food was a covered dish representing dishes from all over the world. This was followed by outside activities with jump houses for the kids and games of soccer and other activities. There are 17 nations represented between the three congregations and a flag display and information on each country was displayed in the sanctuary. The main focus for the event was to show that no matter what background you come from, we are all brothers and sisters through Christ.
Gridiron 2014 Men’s Conference
June 13-14 in Birmingham at the BJCC With Si Robertson, Dave Ramsey, Steve Farrar, Rick Burgess, Phil Waldrep, Alan
Robertson and Charles Billingsley For info call 205-4588400 or visit www.itickets.com.
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Be Strong and Courageous Joshua 1:9: “Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.” Imagine everything in your life changing. It’s all up to you; you’re venturing into the great unknown--how will you take that next step? Recently many churches recognized their graduating seniors on Senior Sunday-sending them off to a new great unknown, a new season. I had the privilege of volunteering in our youth fellowship on this particular day as our middle school students honored our graduating seniors, and as these soon to be graduates shared advice with their younger audience. It all began with one of our youth leaders telling the seniors to be strong and courageous--saying if he could go back in time and speak to his younger self, he would simply say, “Do not be afraid because God is with you!” The mic was then turned over to the graduating seniors for anyone to offer advice to those about to enter high school. Here are some of their words shared with love and sincerity: “Stay positive, surround yourself with optimistic people!” “Get in a life group; going through high school alone is hard. You really need someone to talk to other than your parents, so you don’t worry them all the time.” “Don’t be afraid to step out of your comfort zone. Fear is the tool of the devil to keep you from doing God’s work!” “I’m thankful for you all as family. Being homeschooled, church was the highlight of my life. Love
“Surround yourself with people who lead you back to Christ. Stay positive! These are among the best years of your life so have fun, love God, the end!”
is really timeless. We all need a life group-friends who hold us accountable through all seasons of life, help us stay positive and share the love of Christ. We all need to be reminded to step out of our comfort zones and we all need help turning back to Christ at various times in our lives. As I write this article, I’m nearing the end of a week long visit with my Dad who suffered a stroke recently. He’s certainly in a new season; everything has changed and more than ever he needs to be surrounded by positive people who can keep him focused on the love and strength of Christ. My Dad is making great progress and he’s a walking example of staying strong and courageous even when circumstances want to pull you in another direction. He has loved Jesus Christ his entire life and now he’s feeling with great certainty that his Savior is with him wherever he goes. Just like Joshua being told it’s his turn to not only step into the great unknown, but lead others there, our young people can stand on the promises of God. Later in life, when hurdles come their way, they’ll have a strong foundation and prayerfully a group of Godly friends and family to carry them through. Are you ready to take that next step?
The prevailing thoughts shared by these young people--get involved in a life group, stay positive, love and be loved. Many churches offer “life groups,” a handful of students who begin meeting together in eighth grade and stay together through their senior year of high school. It’s obvious these tight knit groups become a strong foundation for our youth. The advice shared in this article was from graduating high school seniors to up and coming high school students. Take a close look and I’m sure you’ll find the advice
Almighty God, We come to you with praise and thanksgiving for all that’s ahead and for the strength and courage you pour into us everyday. You know in our flesh circumstances can swallow us up, but you also promise when our eyes are on you, nothing is bigger than your grace, strength and love. We pray you shower our young people with guidance and protection as they head into a new season and we thank you for always delivering just what we need. We pray this in the mighty name of your son, Jesus Christ. Amen.
one another as Christ loved; spread love and peace instead of gossip, stay out of that. You don’t have to be a perfect Christian, just help each other grow.” “Stay positive. A bad grade now is not as bad you think. Don’t just get through high school, come here, use this great staff, have fun and feel loved.” “One of the best things I ever did was get in a life group in ninth grade. I have good friends at school who made some bad decisions--and I always knew I had you guys here at church keeping me accountable.” “High school won’t be the best time in your life. Keep on keeping on and things will get better.” “This youth ministry was the best thing that ever happened to me. Walking in here made me feel like a rock star because of all the love you shared. I’ll miss you all like crazy.” “I struggled in middle school and early high school with a sense of self--not being myself. Then I realized I’m made perfectly by God. Put God first, join a life group!”
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Dawkins, makes it “possible to be an intellectually satisfied atheist.” Many Christians are convinced that the evidence for biological evolution is extremely weak. Simply put, that’s false. Last month, I argued that Christians If we are serious about pursuing truth and should be more open-minded about evoabout being honest, we need to look at the lution than many of us usually are. There claims made by evolutionists and assess is nothing inherently atheistic or unchristhem fairly. The fact of the matter is that tian about the possibility that God used we do have very impressive evidence from Darwinian processes to create life on genetics, geology, and the fossil record Earth. This month, I’d like to make two which strongly supports the central claims further points about evolution. The first of Darwinism. When Christians deny this, is a challenge to my fellow Christians; or close their eyes to it, we undermine the the second is a challenge to skeptics cause of the gospel by perpetuating the who think that the theory of evolution, stereotype of Christians as closed-minded in the words of Oxford biologist Richard and anti-science. Equally bad, we also make it more difficult for people to take seriously genuine difficulties for atheistic accounts of life on Earth, such as the “Cambrian explosion” and the initial presence of life itself (something that Darwinism per se doesn’t even claim to be able to explain). If we want to gain a hearing for theism as the or vEry objective truth about reality, then we must E n E r at i o n not ignore or dismiss scientific evidence that threatens our favored theories or makes us uncomfortable. More Prattville First United Methodist Church importantly, we do not 100 E. 4th Street, Prattville, AL 36067 honor the God who TRADI TI O NAL W O RSH I P 8 : 3 0 AM & 11 : 0 0 A M is Truth by being less SUNDAY SCH O O L 9 : 4 5 AM than honest about the TH E W ELL 11 : 0 0 AM state of the evidence. Many atheists, on the other hand, take great comfort in the evidence for evolution. (Some atheists, www.prattvillemethodist.org
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for the record, are just as likely as any religious fundamentalist is to simply ignore the evidence that counts against their beliefs! But let’s not worry about that for now.) Indeed, over the last decade or two, atheists in the English-speaking world have become increasingly strident in their tone, insisting that biology has once-and-for-all supplanted theology as the queen of the sciences. “We now know that there is no God,” the atheist proclaims, “because biological science has removed the only plausible reason for believing in Him. Science—and only science—is what gives us access to truth.” There are a number of serious problems with this assertion; I’d like to highlight just one, namely: If atheistic Darwinism is the true account of life on Earth, then we should be deeply skeptical of our ability to access “truth” at all, including the truth of Darwinism. That’s a mouthful, so let me try to unpack it. On an atheistic Darwinian view, everything about human biology—including our brains and, hence, our minds— needs to be explained in evolutionary terms. What does that mean? Well, it means that we are built the way we are because having bodies and brains like ours gave our ancestors an advantage in the struggle for survival. These biological machines were useful tools for staying alive and for reproducing. And that’s all. The brains we have are wired not for the pursuit of truth, but for producing behaviors that effectively pass along genetic information to one’s descendants. But if that’s the true story of where the human brain comes from, why in the world should we trust human brains when they say things like “evolution is true” or “there is no God”? The philosophical issues here are deep and complex, but ought to trouble any thoughtful atheist. Instead of demonstrating that atheism is a rational belief, atheistic Darwinism seems to undermine the very idea of rationality itself. In short, Darwinism is relevant to the disagreement between Christians and atheists. Only the latter, however, ought to be seriously bothered by it.
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It’s not a secret that we all struggle. We can hide it, push our thoughts away, and tell ourselves “it’s not a big deal” or “this is just how I am,” but at our core we want to believe God has more for us than being controlled or held captive by wounds from the past or struggles of the present. Jesus came to set captives free. Which means all of us. He didn’t just come to set us free so we could go to heaven when we die, but he came for more than that. He came so that his good news could bleed over into our struggles, whether with things we hide or things we’ve done that have hurt others. But could that be possible? Could Jesus really heal our most private hurts? The founders of Celebrate Recovery don’t just believe He can, but have seen Jesus do just that. Journey June 2014 River Region’s 16
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Celebrate Recovery, also referred to as CR, is a Christ-based approach to recovery that was a response to 12-step programs such as Alcoholics Anonymous. It was founded in 1990 by Pastors John Baker and Rick Warren of Saddleback Church, and is aimed at all “hurts, habits, and hang-ups,” including but not limited to drug and alcohol addictions, sex addiction, eating disorders, anxiety disorders, and people who have been sexually abused. The founders felt that Alcoholics Anonymous was too vague in referring to God as a “higher power,” and wanted a more specifically Christ-based program. Celebrate Recovery utilizes eight Recovery Principles that are based on the Sermon on the Mount. At the Faith-Based and Community Initiative Conference in 2004, U.S. President George W. Bush praised John Baker and Celebrate Recovery by saying that, “government is not good at changing hearts. But people like John Baker has been good about it and successful doing that.” Today, Celebrate Recovery is part of more than 20,000 churches worldwide. The impact this ministry is having is making waves across the world as people step out of darkness, hiding and shame into experiencing the love of Christ in the places in their lives they never thought were possible.
Celebrate Recovery in the River Region
The River Region is blessed to have a network of churches hosting Celebrate Recovery groups. One of the groups that has been meeting since 2007 is at Saint James United Methodist Church in Montgomery. Coordinator Christi Henderson says that she, like many on her team, has a passion to help other people who have struggled with the same things she has. “Everyone on our team is very dedicated to Celebrate Recovery,” says Christi. “We all have hurts, hang-ups and habits and I grow as I lead – even at age 73!” Christi is quick to point out that Celebrate Recovery is actually a journey, not a destination, which is important for everyone to realize and remember. Like Oswald Chamber said in his famous devotional My Utmost for His Highest, “What we see as only the process of reaching a particular end, God sees as the goal itself.” In Prattville, Larry Smith leads the Celebrate Recovery group that meets at
Journey Church. Larry leads out of his own experience--a well of overflowing joy in discovering a change in his own heart, eyes and mind. “I don’t talk much except when it comes to Celebrate Recovery,” says Larry. “Life changes through God’s word and Jesus’ teachings and I get excited because I want to point others in the direction to a proven path that works. If someone is serious about changing their life, Celebrate Recovery has the tools.”
Frequently Asked QUESTIONS Is Celebrate Recovery for me?
Celebrate Recovery offers a person the opportunity to participate in a group fellowship where love and hope combine with God’s purpose to mend our lives. Ask yourself: • Are there things in my life that I do that hurt others? • Is there something I wish I could live without? • Is it time to crack my denial and admit I am not in control of my life? • Do I have a painful habit or hang-up from which I need to be freed? If you answered “yes” to any of these, then we urge you to attend a Celebrate Recovery meeting to see if it is for you.
Is Celebrate Recovery confidential?
Yes, Celebrate Recovery maintains strict confidentiality. This promotes an atmosphere of trust and enables recovery. We have a saying that is repeated in every Large Group meeting: WHO you see here. WHAT you hear here. WHEN you leave here. STAYS HERE. We are diligent about confidentiality and anonymity. The guidelines/rules protect all of us from judgment and being “fixed”. In a “safe place” you can take off your “mask” and be real and honest without fear. You are 100% in control of when and how much you participate.
First Baptist Church Montgomery began a Celebrate Recovery group just this year. Leader What types of issues are dealt with at Eddie Olszewski Celebrate Recovery? says their unique A wide variety of hurts, hang-ups and harmful behaviors are location downtown represented at Celebrate Recovery. Examples include depenwill provide a place dency on alcohol or drugs, pornography, low self-esteem, for people inside need to control, depression, anger, co-dependency, depresand outside of their sion, fear of rejection, fear of abandonment, perfectionism, church to experience broken relationships, and abuse. healing and help. A host of things *For a full list of CR meetings in the area, check bring people to our listing of Support Groups in this issue. Celebrate Recovery. Larry says some people come when to make things worse. Celebrate Recovery they realize their means we can take action to live a better lives have become unmanageable or out life by understanding it. Christi Henderson of control and they have a lack of selfsays she has seen people come back week esteem. Others come because they are after week because they encounter the love court ordered, or because they are pleasof Christ and are comforted in an environing someone whom they have hurt. “We ment that allows them to grow in that love. have all sinned and need recovery and While there are many things that repentance to live as God intended” says bring people to Celebrate Recovery, there Larry. “Without the know-how, or the true is one thing that can hold people back: desire to admit we’re powerless to control The enemy’s lies. The truth of this is life, we’ll continue to live with the hurts, simple, according to Eddie. “Satan wants habits, or hang-ups.” you to live in the dark with your secrets Another reason people come to Celeand allow yourself to continue struggling brate Recovery is because it’s Internationin isolation and believe that you are the al and its Christ-centered. The teachings only one suffering from your kind of hurt, are straight from the Bible. We have dehabit, or hang-up. But guess what? You’re nied we need help, tried on our own, only 17
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not!” While it may be scary to share the things you are dealing with at first, Eddie says people learn to trust those who have recovered from similar issues. “It is time to let go of the lies and live in the Light.” Perhaps the most vital part of Celebrate Recovery is the emphasis on community. It’s this fellowship with others that dispels the darkness and helps filter the lies from the truth. Founder Rick Warren says, “This recovery program utilizes the biblical truth that we need each other in order to grow spiritually and emotionally. It is built around small group interaction
and the fellowship of a caring community. There are many therapies, growth programs, and counselors today that are built around one-on-one interaction. But Celebrate Recovery is built on the New Testament principle that we don’t get well by ourselves. We need each other. Fellowship and accountability are two important components of spiritual
from experiencing it for themselves. The most common misconception is that it’s a program for alcoholics and drug addicts. Nothing could be farther from the truth. In fact, Celebrate Recovery is for anyone dealing with struggles ranging from a difficult divorce, overeating, enabling, or abuse, just to name a few. “There is always someone in each small group who can identify with the problems of others,” says Christi. At the heart of Celebrate Recovery is the belief that God always wants to set His captives free. “To see the hurting step out from that dark lonely place where denial, fear, shame, and guilt reside to the place growth.” where hope, peace, and love are real and Larry and Christi echo similar sentiheartfelt is amazing,” says Eddie Olszewsments. For Christi, Celebrate Recovery ki. And while there may be some bumps provides a place for people who are hurtalong the way, that’s okay. Celebrate Reing to be heard, comforted and supported. covery is all about accepting people where Larry has seen it as a place that provides they are, but not leaving them there. “Our people the comfort of being with people hope is that you will experience the love who have similar, if not the same, thoughts of Christ, so that one day you too may be a or behaviors as yourself and know that no broken healer.” one will judge them because we are all in Rachel Fisher loves learning about what God is this together. There are often misconceptions about doing in the world and writing about it. She and her husband Chase live in Montgomery. Celebrate Recovery that prevent people
Celebrate Recovery really changed my life for the better. The program is completely centered around Christ. He, alone, is our higher power. CR is where I learned how to surrender all of my problems to Christ. It is where I learned that everyone on Earth is broken and that everyone has hurts, habits and hang-ups. At CR, I learned that the Christ-centered recovery program works universally. So, whether you struggle with chemical addiction, like I did, or you were abused as a child, the program works the same way. Believe me, it works, because He works. God wants to carry your burden like he carries mine. Celebrate Recovery is the venue where we meet with each other and with God. It is a safe place where healing occurs and lives change.” - David P.
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Should Christians Expect to Suffer? What does Paul say about suffering in his letter to the Romans? His letter and example illuminates us so much about suffering, even for the faithful. Romans 5:3-5 More than that, we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, 4) endurance produces character, and character produces hope, 5) and hope does not disappoint us, because God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit which has been given to us. (RSV) Paul states that not only we will we experience suffering, but that suffering will be good for us! Wait….doesn’t living a Christian life make us immune to severe suffering? No, in fact the opposite is true. Jesus tells us that, as Christians, we will struggle, get sick, suffer trauma, make mistakes, experience weakness, and all of the human experiences in this world. John 16:33 I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world. (NIV) However, we can endure, develop character and become hopeful. In John, Jesus says he will send the Holy Spirit, the Counselor, to dwell in us, comfort us and give us peace. John 14:16-17 And I will pray to the Father, and he will give you another Counselor, to be with you forever, 17) even the Spirit of truth, whom the world cannot receive, because it neither sees him nor
John 14: 26-27 But the Counselor, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, he will teach you all things, and bring to your remembrance all that I have said to you. 27) Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid. (RSV) Embracing difficulties knowing that we will experience blessings can give us peace and reduce anxiety through times of difficulty. The reward for perseverance through grace is wisdom, peace, humility, compassion, character, endurance, hope, understanding, faith and much more. Have you gained wisdom, insight, understanding or a skill you could not have expected previously? Can you see that you have been blessed after difficulty? Every experience we have is an opportunity to develop maturity and wisdom which are blessings of grace. James 1:2-4 Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, 3) because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. 4) Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything. (NIV) James 1:12 Blessed is the one who perseveres under trial because, having stood the test, that person will receive the crown of life that the Lord has promised to those who love him. (NIV) We were created as spiritual creatures and our deep heart’s desire to be in communion with the Lord through the Holy Spirit. Through our profound reliance on Him, we find His love never fails, never abandons, always forgives and His grace is always available. The result of reliance on the Lord is a peace that passes all under19
standing. It may not be a path of continual worldly success but a path of multiple trials and failures that bring us closer to him. In Philippians, Paul reminds us to not be anxious about anything but to pray and trust the Lord to answer our needs. When we do that, we will have the peace which transcends all understanding. This peace is provided by the Holy Spirit which dwells within us. Philippians 4:6-7 Have no anxiety about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. 7) And the peace of God, which passes all understanding, will keep your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. (RSV) If Jesus promised us that we will suffer, why is it so difficult for us as Christians to admit when we are suffering? Why do we feel shame? Why do we fear being genuine with our Christian brothers and sisters? Why is there a stigma when we experience depression, anxiety, discouragement, illness or problems in relationships? As Christians, Jesus’ example shows that we should embrace, welcome and walk alongside those of us who are struggling in our communities. In addition to the grace offered through the blessings of the Holy Spirit and our communities of faith, other resources are available to us. Pray for guidance and wise counsel. Seek professional counseling where your mind, body and spirit will acknowledged and your faith will be recognized as a powerful resource for you. Allow the grace of the Lord to fill your hearts and minds and give you peace. Nancy W. Thomas, M.A., N.C.C., C.C.M.H.C., L.P.C.
Nancy Thomas is the Executive Director of Clinical Services at The Samaritan Counseling Center, Inc. in Montgomery. She is a National Certified Counselor, Certified Clinical Mental Health Counselor and Licensed Professional Counselor. She graduated from the University of Alabama with an M.A. in Counselor Education in 1994. She has extensive training and experience in mental health and marriage and family therapy. Her professional interests are in mental health recovery, adolescent and college issues, life transitions, healthy relationships, marital counseling, parenting, spirituality and identity development, and preserving marriages and families. Nancy works primarily with adolescents and adults.
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When: July 20-24, 6:30 to 8:30 p.m. A family night musical performance will be held July 27th at 6 p.m. Van pick up for children is available. Call 567.4325.
6610 Vaughn Road Theme: Workshop of Wonders: Imagine and Build with God When: July, 20-24, 5:30 to 8 p.m. Optional supper $2, 5:30 p.m. Ages: 3 yrs – 5th grade Register at www.aldersgateumc.org or call 272.6152.
Theme: Wilderness Escape When: June 8-10 from 6:30 p.m. until 8:00 at Hunter Hills Church in Prattville Ages: K-6th grade Visit www.centeringlives.com or call 356.3076.
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Address: 5 Arden Road, Montgomery Theme: Son Island Treasure When: July 14-18, 9 a.m. to 12 noon Ages: K5-12 yrs. Call 272.1133 or visit www.covenantmontgomery.com
201 Woodvale Road, Prattville Theme: Son Treasure Island When: June 16-20, 6 p.m. to 8:30 p.m. Ages: 3 year preschool through 6th grade, plus adult classes. Register at www. camelliabaptist.com. Call 365.0231.
Autauga Heights Baptist Church 1393 Highway 31 N, Prattville Theme: Arrow Island: Choosing God’s Way When: June 23rd-27th Ages: 4 years – 6th grade Call: (334) 322.3222.
Blue Ridge Baptist Church 4471 Jasmine Hill Road, Wetumpka Theme: Agency D3: Discover, Decide, Defend.
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Capitol Heights Baptist Church 2514 Madison Avenue Theme: Agency D3: Discover, Decide, Defend When: June 2-6, 9 a.m. to noon Ages: 4 years old by Sept. 1 through 6th grade.
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East Memorial Baptist 1320 Old Ridge Road, Prattville Theme: International Spy Academy When: June 16-20, 8:50 a.m.–12 p.m. Family Night, Thursday, June 19 at 6 p.m. with hotdog supper beginning at 5 p.m. Ages: 4 years through 8th Grade Call 365.7500.
Eastmont Baptist Church 4505 Atlanta Highway Theme: SonTreasure Island When: June 16 - 20; 9 a.m. to 12 p.m. Ages: 4 yr. - grade 6 Register online @ www.eastmont.org or call 277.6300.
Evangel Church 3974 Vaughn Road Theme: Weird Animals: Where Jesus’s Love is One of a Kind When: July 7-11: 6-9 p.m. Ages: 3 to upcoming 6th graders Call 272.4882 ext. 107.
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305 South Perry Street Theme: Agency D3: Discover, Decide, Defend When: June 23-27; 9 a.m. to Noon Call 241.6310.
211 S. Chestnut Street Theme: TBA When: July 7-11, Registration daily at 8:30, VBS starts at 9 a.m. to Noon Ages: 3 years old through entering 6th grade Call 365.6387.
First Baptist Church, Prattville 138 South Washington Street Theme: Agency D3: Discover, Decide, Defend When: June 23-27, 8:30 a.m.-12 Noon Ages: Finishing K5 Kindergarten in Fall - 8th Grade Call 365.0606, ext. 220.
First Baptist, Wetumpka 205 W. Bridge Street Theme: Agency D3: Discover, Decide, Defend When: June 2-6, 8:30 a.m.-noon Ages: K-6th grade. Call 567.5191.
First Christian Church 1705 Taylor Road Theme: Avalanche Ranch Time: Kick-off is Sunday, July 20 from 12 p.m. until 2 p.m.; July 23-July 25, 5:30-7:30 p.m. Closing program on Saturday, July 26. Ages 4 years old – 6 grade First Christian – 270.1320
First UMC, Montgomery 2416 W. Cloverdale Park Theme: Workshop of Wonders When: June 9-13; 9 a.m. to 12 noon Ages: Age 3 (by Sept 1 of 2012) through 5th grade. Call 834.8990.
First UMC, Prattville 100 E. Fourth Street Theme: Weird Animals When: June 9-13, 9 a.m. to Noon Ages: Open to children who have just completed Kindergarten through 5th grade Call 365.5977.
Fountain City Baptist 492 East Main Street, Prattville Theme: Arrow Island: Choosing God’s Way When: June 22-26; 6 p.m. to 8 p.m. Ages: 3 to 12. Call 365.2034.
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Hall Memorial CME Church 541 Seibles Road, Montgomery When: June 13-17, 6:00-8:00 pm Call 288.0577.
Hayneville Baptist Church Theme: Workshop of Wonders When: July 14-18; 9 a.m. to 12 noon Ages: Finishing K4 year olds (as of Sept. 2 of 2013) - Finishing 5th grade Call 272.8622.
Gateway Baptist Church 3300 Bell Road Theme: Agency D3: Discover, Decide, Defend When: June 23-27 8am-12pm Ages: K5-6th grade Call 272.9494 to register. Also, Basketball & Soccer Camp, August 6-8, 9am12pm. Ages: 3-6th grade (Non-profit).
Glynwood Baptist Church 376 N. McQueen Smith Road, Prattville When: June 9-13, 5:45 to 8:30 pm Ages: 4 through grade 6 For more info and to preregister, go to www.glynwoodbc.com or call 361.9180.
Grace Community Church 3515 Highway 14, Millbrook
Theme: Son Treasure Island When: June 2-6, 6 pm - 8:00 pm Ages: 3 years - 6th Grade Call (334) 285.4655.
GracePointe VBS 1565 Ray Thorington Road Theme: Puzzled: The Confusing Events in the Life of Moses When: July 20-23, 6-8 pm Ages: 4-12 Visit www.gracepointe.com to register.
1180 State Hwy 21 N, Hayneville, AL Theme: Agency D3: Discover, Decide, Defend When: July 13-17, 5:45 until 8:30 Ages: Pre K - 6th Grade (grade completed) Email: hbc@connecthbc.com or (334) 548.2620.
Heritage Baptist Church 1849 Perry Hill Road Theme: Agency D3: Discover, Decide, Defend When: June 23-27, 8:30 a.m. to 12:05 p.m. Ages: Complete 4K - 6th grade Call 279.9976.
Heritage Baptist, Prattville 1357 S. Memorial Drive Theme: International Spy Academy Dates: June 8-12, Time: 6 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Ages: K3 through completion of 6th grade Call 365-2372.
GracePoint Community Church 78223 Tallassee Hwy, Wetumpka Theme: Agency D3: Discover, Decide, Defend When: TBA Ages: 3yrs.-6th Grade Call 514.9292.
His Vessels Ministry, Montgomery Union Station, Downtown Montgomery Theme: Patriot Camp Dates: June 9-13; Times: 9 a.m. until noon Ages: 6 – 12. The Patriot Camp is designed to teach children about the founding of our nation. Call 334-356-4478 or email info@hisvessel.org.
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Lakeview Baptist Church 9225 Atlanta Highway Theme: Backyard Bible Camp When: July 21-25; 5:45 p.m. to 8 p.m. Ages: 4 years old thru entering 6th grade. Free meal for kids at 5 pm. Call 213.3080.
Landmark Church 1800 Halcyon Boulevard Theme: Fix Your Eyes On Jesus When: July 13-16, 6 p.m. – 8 p.m. Ages: Nursery through adults Call 277.5800.
Love Center Full Gospel Church 3659 Debby Drive (Lecroy Shopping Center) Theme: Hip Hop Hope Jesus Makes Me Glad When: June 21 from 9 a.m. until 3 p.m. Ages: 2- 8th grade welcomed For more information call (334) 315.6851.
McGehee Road Baptist Church 2877 McGehee Road, Montgomery Theme: Agency D3: Discover, Decide, Defend June 8-12 (Sunday-Thursday) 6:00-8:30 P.M. Call 262.0689.
Millbrook Presbyterian (PCA) 3480 Main Street, Millbrook Theme: Space Probe When: July 14--18; 6:15--8:15pm Ages: Entering K-4 thru 6th grade For registration, call 285-4031.
Montgomery Area Episcopal Churches Episcopal Church of the Ascension, 315 Clanton Ave. Theme: Kingdom Rock Dates: June 2-5, 8:30 a.m. – 11:30 Ages: Rising K4 through Rising 6th grade For registration or more info, call 263.5529.
Morningview Baptist Church 125 Calhoun Road Theme: Weird Animals: Where Jesus’s Love is One of a Kind When: June 2-6, 9 a.m. to Noon Ages: Completed Kindergarten-5th grade Call 272.2304.
Mountain View Baptist Church 1025 Rifle Range Rd., Wetumpka Theme: Agency D3: Discover, Decide, Defend When: June 16-20, Times: 8 a.m.- 11:30 Ages: 4 years old - completed 6th grade Call (334) 567.4458.
Mulder UMC 3454 Firetower Road ~ Wetumpka Theme: Jungle Safari: Discovering
the Nature of God When: June 22-25; 6 – 8 p.m. For more info please call 567.4225.
Pilgrim Rest Missionary Baptist 501 Doster Rd, Prattville Theme: Agency D3, Discover, Decide, Defend When: June 23-27; 6-8:30 pm Ages 3-Adult Call 365-2807.
Redland Baptist Church 1266 Dozier Rd, Wetumpka Theme: Arrow Island: Choosing God’s Way Dates: June 16-20, 9 a.m. until 11:30 a.m. Ages: Kindergarten – 6th grade Please call 567.8649.
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Ridgecrest Baptist Church 5260 Vaughn Road Theme: Agency D3: Discover, Decide, Defend When: June 1-5, 5:30 to 8:30 p.m. There will be a light snack supper each evening. On Sunday, June 8th, we are inviting parents and families to join us for morning worship and a VBS presentation; a hot dog lunch will follow. Families can pre-register online at www.rbcmontgomery.com/register. VBS t-shirts are only available for pre-orders (those that register in advance) at a cost of $11 each. Call 277.0011.
Saint James UMC 9045 Vaughn Road Theme: Wilderness Escape:
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Where God Guides and Provides When: June 23-25, 9 a.m. to 12 p.m. Ages: K4-5th grade Call 277.3037.
Taylor Road Baptist Church 1685 Taylor Road Theme: Agency D3: Discover, Decide, Defend When: July 21-25, 8:30 a.m. to Noon Ages: Completion of Kindergarten through 6th grade. Call 271.3363.
Thorington Road Baptist 450 Ray Thorington Road Theme: Agency D3: Discover, Decide, Defend When: June 1-5; 6:00 p.m. to 8:30 p.m. Ages: 5 yrs. to 5th grade Call 396.9376.
Trinity Presbyterian Church 1728 S. Hull Street Theme: Genesis 1: Space Probe
When: June 2-6, 9 a.m. to noon. Ages: Pre-K 4 through completed 6th grade Call 262.3892 to pre-register.
Trinity UMC, Prattville 610 Fairview Avenue, Prattville Theme: Workshop of Wonders When: June 22-26, starts at 5 p.m. until 8 p.m. Dinner provided for children every night. Call 365.7339.
University Church of Christ 5315 Atlanta Highway Theme: There’s No Place Like Home When: June 22-25; Time: Sunday, 5 p.m. and Monday – Wednesday, 6:30 p.m. Ages: newborn thru 6th grade Adult classes will be available Please call 386.7320 or visit www.ucoc.org.
8660 Vaughn Road Theme: Agency D3: Discover, Decide, Defend When: June 2-6; 9 a.m. – 12:15 p.m. Ages: Entering Kindergarten through entering 6th grade. Registration online at www.vaughnforest.com. Call 279.5433.
Whitfield UMC 2673 Fisk Road Theme: Workshop of Wonders When: June 22-26, 5:30 to 8 p.m. Ages: 3 years to 6th grade. Call 281.2467.
Woodland UMC 4428 Wallahatchee Rd, Pike Road Theme: Weird Animals When: June 15-18, 5:30 – 8 p.m Ages: 3 years old -6th grade Call 272.7230.
Young Meadows Presbyterian Church 5780 Vaughn Road Theme: Sports Camp When: June 2-6, 9 a.m. until noon Ages: Kindergarten -5th grade Call 244.1385.
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Blessed to Be a Blessing I have known a few folks who were truly blessed to be a blessing. One was my mother. She loved supporting missionaries and pastors, even though she had very little money. Her eyes would shine when she talked of someone she knew who had made it their life’s work to spread the gospel of Christ in a remote country. But the effect on her did not stop with her eyes. She shared all she could whenever she could. One particular instance stands out in my memory. It seemed so incredible to me as I recalled it years later, that I had to ask Mother to verify that it actually happened. When she was nearly 80, I asked her if she remembered the night in the 1950s when a missionary visited our little country church and showed slides of his work in South America. “Mama, you gave him your last five dollars, knowing it would be a week before you were paid again. Do you remember that?” She said no, she didn’t. I asked her how she could forget making such a sacrifice. She said, “Oh, I remember doing that. I just don’t remember which time you are talking about. I must have done that five or six times.” To appreciate her gesture you would have to see our finances from her perspective. I was about 13 when my father suffered a massive heart attack and never worked again. Mother had four sons and a clerical job that paid something like minimum wage. Today a social scientist might say we were financially challenged. But in the 50s and 60s we were just plain poor. Once as a teen I decided to confront my mother about how unfair it all was. I said, “Mama, how come we are so poor? We work hard. We study hard in school. We tithe. So how can we be so poor?” She smiled and said with a twinkle in her eye, “Just think of all the temptations we have been spared because we could not afford them.” I had to admit she was right. Temptation didn’t stand much of a chance at that house. We couldn’t afford anything.
Then a few years later, Mother stopped working, too, due to heart disease. But there were things Mama could afford. She took a ball point pen and a telephone and weekly encouraged several friends and neighbors in their jobs, their marriages and their walks with Christ. She taught an adult Sunday School class until two months before she died. After Mother passed away a host of people came to our house during a two day period. Eight of them said, “Barbara was my best friend.” Truly Mother was blessed to be a blessing. The minister at Mother’s memorial service read the Beatitudes from Matthew, Chapter 5. You probably remember the list: “Blessed are the poor in spirit…Blessed are those who mourn… Blessed are the meek… Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness… Blessed are the merciful…Blessed are the pure in heart…Blessed are the peace makers… Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness…” Now here is the kicker. After each verse, he would pull a note card from a stack and read a message from a child, grandchild, or neighbor who recalled an incident from Mother’s life that illustrated that verse. One by one, examples of meekness, humility, mercy and self-sacrifice were read aloud. The effect was stunning. The church was very quiet. 25
When Mother passed away she reached her ultimate financial goal. She had finally made it back up to zero. But everything in her life reflected God’s favor. Sometimes I hear folks saying that they are praying to be blessed to be a blessing. I get the idea that they are talking about receiving an abundance of material wealth. I wish they could meet someone who really lives out Matthew 5. I think it would show them that they have everything they need to bless other people every day. If you know Christ as your Lord, you are blessed. Be a blessing today.
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RRJ: I know you’re a Registered Nurse, but RN’s work in many areas of the medical field. In what areas have you spent most of your time working? I have been an RN for the past 22 years. All of that time has been spent in the hospital setting until recently. For the first seven years I worked on an oncology unit and the remainder of that time has been spent in the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit. In 2012, my family moved to the River Region when my husband changed jobs. After we moved I began substituting in Elmore County in the public school system for the nurses. I have now resigned my hospital position and am substituting on a regular basis. RRJ: What are some of the biggest challenges and rewards you’ve experienced as an RN? Some of the biggest challenges I have met as a nurse have been comforting River Region’s Journey
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families through the loss of loved ones. When I worked in oncology this was a regular part of my nursing duties. It was less common in neonatal nursing, but often more tragic. In these times of great grief it was often my job to be the comforting arms of Jesus. I have wiped tears, hugged, sung hymns with family members and prayed when needed. While this is likely the hardest part of what nurses do, there are so many rewards. I have celebrated last chemotherapy treatments and scans free of cancer. I have also dressed many babies in their “going home” outfits and placed them in the arms of their mothers after a long stay in the Intensive Care Unit. I am so blessed to have been a part of so many precious moments.
RRJ: When we spoke earlier you mentioned that you serve the female inmates at Tutwiler Prison. Tell us how and why you’re involved in that work?
RRJ: How would you describe your Christian faith?
RRJ: It’s clear that you’ve taken your faith beyond the church walls and a Sunday service. How would you encourage our Christian readers to do the same and are there any particular practices that have helped you?
I grew up in a Christian home and learned from parents who lived out their faith. My parents are both devoted members of their churches, but their service reaches far beyond the church walls. They taught me as a child, by their faithful example, that we as Christians are the hands and feet of Christ. Now that I have my own children, I am trying to teach them the same lesson. I want them to have watchful eyes, that notice others in need. And then try to decipher how best to meet that need. RRJ: Are there any scriptures that have been a particular inspiration for living out your faith in this manner? Proverbs 3:5, which basically says that when I place my trust in Him, He is certain to direct me in a path towards righteousness. When I fail to ask for His guidance and settle into my own comfortable ways, I miss a blessing only known by following Him. 26
One thing that I have become involved in since moving to Elmore County is helping with Chapel service once a month at Tutwiler Prison. I remember as a child hearing someone speak about their service to inmates. It touched something inside me and I remember thinking that one day I would like to do the same. Upon moving here, God began to open doors for me to volunteer. It has been so rewarding and I have learned so much from my team leaders who have taught me how to love without condition.
I would encourage others to pay attention to those times when God stirs something inside of them. I believe it is the prompting of our Heavenly Father to widen our territory. It is so easy to ignore those simple yearnings or find a multitude of excuses for why we shouldn’t. But I feel like when we do we miss an experience with God that can only be gained when we give our time and service to Him. When I decided to volunteer in the prison system I had no idea that the person who would be blessed the most was me. I can honestly say that following God’s leading has been so much more fulfilling than anything I could have planned on my own. Kathy is married to Myrle Grate, the COO of Children’s Harbor, and they have two children, Micha and Anna. The Grate’s attend Mulder United Methodist Church.
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Although Kris Kristofferson is a well known singer-songwriter and actor who enjoys the company of many important individuals, it is his father who had the greatest impact on his life. Among the many important life lessons Kristofferson learned from his dad, the one which stands out was his father’s hidden acts of kindness. When Kristofferson was a teenager, he and a friend got in trouble with the law over some stolen hubcabs. They were forbidden by the police from being together. Years later Kristofferson’s friend wrote him a letter saying that “whenever my dad was in San Francisco, where my old friend was working, my dad would stop in to see if he was okay. Every trip. He did that for years.” Often fatherhood does not get the same attention as motherhood, yet, the reality is that fathers are vital to their children’s well-being and emotional development. Consider these insights drawn from various studies: The more frequently a father visited the hospital of an infant who is prematurely born, the more rapidly the infant gained weight and the River Region’s Journey
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more rapidly the infant was able to leave the hospital. “The amount of time a father spends with a child is one of the strongest predictors of empathy in adulthood,” concluded researchers of a twenty-six year study. Students coming from father-present families score higher in math and science even when they come from weaker schools. Lower suicide risk. The American Journal of Orthopsychiatry, reports that women who commit suicide have one thing in common: a “strong influence exerted by mothers coupled with lack of involvement of fathers in the subjects’ lives.” In addition, living in mother-only homes contributes more than anything else to suicide for both sexes. Children have greater psychological health when fathers are present and active. Sixty-five percent of juveniles and young adults in stateoperate institutions come from homes without fathers. In two New Orleans hospitals, eighty percent of pre-school children admitted as psychiatric patients came from homes without fathers. Similar percentages emerge from countries as diverse as Canada, South Africa, and Finland at ages from pre-school through the teenage years. 28
There is increased crime when the father is absent. Seventy-three percent of adolescent murderers come from mother-only homes.
Those studies ought to reinforce every man’s desire to be actively and lovingly engaged with his children. When done properly a good father can emerge as his child’s confidant, friend, mentor, counselor, life-coach, and role model. Here are some traits common to good fathers.
Good fathers get involved in parenting. Great dads are partners,
not helpers, when it comes to parenting. They get involved and stay involved. Good fathers don’t buy into the various cultural myths about fathering - that men are biologically unfit, that men are not nurturers, that men are bumbling and useless when it comes to parenting. Men who are strong fathers take the initiative and assume their proper role in childrearing responsibilities. In fact, Kyle Pruett, MD., a author of Fatherneed: Why Father Care Is As Essential as Mother Care for Your Child, advises men to:
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Embrace the irreplaceable value of your fatherhood in your life as a man. Think long, hard and often about what you want to give your children besides your money. Acknowledge fatherhood as one of the longest, most creative, and rewarding adventures of your inner life. Leave room for failure and forgiveness in yourself (and, of course, others). There is no perfect father - yours wasn’t and neither are you. Look hard at your father in you. He’s there. Understand what you are doing with your father’s parenting style in the raising of your own child - modeling, overcoming, repairing, emulating? - or a quilt of all these. Ask yourself, How do I want the mother of my child to think and feel about me as a father?
For men who may feel slightly hesitant or who are intimidated because they lack experience in parenting, authors Ross D. Parke and Armin A Brott offer this advice in their book Throwaway Dads: The Myths and Barriers That Keep Men From Being The Fathers They Want to Be: “Don’t assume that your partner magically knows more than you do. Whatever she knows about raising kids, she learned by doing - just like anything else. And the way you’re going to get better is by doing things too.”
Good fathers stress the importance of worshiping together.
The apostle Paul, addressing men, writes: “Fathers do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord.” (Ephesians 6:4, New International Version) Good fathers want to provide spiritual nurture and formation for their family. One way they do this is through regular worship together. Worshiping families experience greater spiritual, mental and emotional cohesion. In his book, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Families, Stephen R. Covey includes this testimonial from a father: “When I was growing up, it was very important to my parents that we all worship together. At the time I didn’t think it was important. . . but as I got older, I began to notice that we more aligned as a family than was the case with a lot of my friends. We had common
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values and goals. We relied on one another to solve problems and find answers. We knew what we believed, what we all believed. We were together.” That father added that “worship” wasn’t just a once a week moment for their family. The parents reinforced worship by teaching “us about what was right and wrong. They would listen as we disagreed, then help us figure things out and find our own answers. But they taught us about values and faith.”
Good fathers nurture their child’s dreams. This was the experi-
ence Marjorie Parker had with her dad. The Wichita, Texas resident tells of announcing to her parents and grandmother, “When I grow up, I’m going to be in the circus!” The women did not seem impressed. In fact, her mother responded: “Lots of children think that. The circus is exciting. But when you grow up, you won’t think circus life is so wonderful.” Her father, however, listened and said: “Well, if you’re going to be in the circus, you’ll need good balance. I’ll get an old barrel for you to practice rolling on.” A few days later, a yellow and
orange barrel was in their back yard. Parker and her friends spent hours on it learning to roll forward and backward, even jumping rope on it. “We dreamed big-top dreams and put on backyard circuses for our neighbors,” she recalls warmly. Of course, her circus phase passed but Parker says she “had hours of fun and ended up with much better balance.”
“I try to go someplace with them because when they’re home they sure don’t want to spend time with me. They want to be with their pals. They want to go to the mall. So if I take them on a trip to the Grand Canyon, they can’t - and we’re together. The important thing is to interact with your kids rather than have them just sit there and think about other things.”
Good fathers find creative ways to connect with their children.
Good fathers remain emotionally available to their children.
When children enter their teen years, many prefer to spend time with their friends rather than their parents. Good dads understand and respect that need, but they find creative ways to remain connected to their kids. John McCain, US Senator from Arizona, is the father of seven children. He stresses the importance of “being with your children and doing things together, and showing them examples of courage and the right way to lead their lives, particularly before they become teenagers and other influences dominate their time and attention.” When it comes to his teenagers, Senator McCain uses a novel approach:
Although a time comes when children grow up, move away, and establish their own families, good fathers continue to remain emotionally available to them. Shortly before he died, famed attorney Johnnie L. Cochran talked about the special bond he and his father enjoyed. “My father, Johnnie L. Cochran Sr., is 89 and still lives with me. I still talk to him every day. He is so wise. He’s my confidant, role model and mentor. He’s a special man, and I seek his advice all the time.” Victor Parachin is a minister and the author of a dozen books.
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I have a story to tell. A story that has been embedded in my soul my entire life. It’s not just my story; it’s my father’s story as well. I talked to him today. He was alone on Father’s Day, which made me feel sad. We talked about each of my children and about his failing marriage. With him, it is easy to move from sharing about the toils of the day to a deeper pool of shared regret and pain. Daddy and I have a lifeline that tethers us to one another. During the confusion and pain that surrounded the months in the early 1970s after he and Mama divorced, we clung to each other for dear life. We held each other’s head above the tide of sadness that threatened to overtake us. I have a vivid memory of walking in to the living room of our 100-year-old white frame house in rural Georgia, where Daddy was resting on the couch. I remember sitting down beside him and holding his frame for a long time as he wept. Inside I was weeping, too, for my lost childhood, for my strong father who was dying inside, and for our family who had left behind it’s shared history and was now walking, each alone, into an unknown future. A year ago, Daddy told me that if I was going to write his story, I’d better get started. He’s been telling me for years that he was ready to go live with Jesus, whenever He was ready to take him. Today he said it again. His work here on earth was about finished, he said, so I quickly tried to remind him of how very much he is still needed by his children. I told him his neighbors would sure miss him if he were to leave now. He is so handy and helpful with building things...furniture and
things you wouldn’t expect a man rapidly approaching his 74th birthday to still be able to do. I reminded him of how I would grieve for him for the rest of my life.
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As I read the words I penned 11 years ago, I struggle to keep from crying. Daddy lived 10 more years after that time. He died last September of Parkinson’s disease, at age 84. Again, I was with him and held him as he lay dying in his hospital bed at my brother’s house. This Father’s Day is sad for me because, knowing what I know now, I would not miss another opportunity to spend Father’s Day with my dad. I share this to encourage you to reach out to your dad with love and thanksgiving for all he has done for you. Visit your dad while you still can. You never know when it may be their last Father’s Day. I also encourage you to write your father a letter describing all the things you are thankful for, the shared memories, the things he did right. As a parent, I know how I cling to even the smallest gift of praise and good memories my girls share with me occasionally. What better gift to give your father than a special tribute to him as a dad? God has commanded us to revere our parents, saying, “Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long in the land that the LORD your God is giving you” (Exodus 20:12). This is the only commandment with a promise attached—if we honor our parents, we will experience God’s blessing. Having written a tribute to my dad many years ago, I searched my computer for the document, finding it in some obscure file. 31
Dad had it framed and hanging on his wall. Here is my simple tribute to him:
My Dad My Dad and I used to share a tin of sardines when we went fishing together. My Dad always made his little girl feel welcome and needed even though he was busy. My Dad always loved his children with Christ’s unconditional love. My Dad has always been a good provider for his family. My Dad always explained why I had to have a spanking and then held me for a long time after it was over. My Dad can build anything with his hands. He is a skilled carpenter who makes whatever we need and has left his loving touch in all of our homes. My Dad has always given me lots of encouragement. When I was a child wondering where I would go in life, he would always say, “You can do anything you want to do.” My Dad has always been my strength, my rock, my first love. He is a wonderful example of God’s love for his children. I have found it easy to know and love my Heavenly Father after knowing and loving my Dad. Lt. Col Mike Conn and wife, Lisa, founded Covenant Family Ministries when Mike retired from the Air Force in 1997. CFM is an independent marriage and family education ministry committed to partnering with churches, organizations, and individuals in Montgomery and across Alabama to build Family Teams for Christ. Married for over 30 years, Mike and Lisa have three daughters, two sons-in-law, and two grandchildren. June 2014
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Adoption
Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy and Glynwood Baptist Church, Prattville APAC- Alabama Pre/Post Adoption Connection Support Group provides education and social interaction for adoptive families. Montgomery Group meets 3rd Thursdays, 6-7:30 p.m., Room 8114 at Frazer UMC. For information, call Hannah Taylor at 409-9477 or the church office at 272-8622. Autauga/Elmore Group meets 4th Tuesdays, 6-7:30 p.m., Glynwood Baptist Church, Prattville. Childcare, children’s group and dinner provided. For more info, call 409-9477 or e-mail htaylor@childrensaid.org. Location: Landmark Church, 1800 Halcyon Blvd. Leaders: Chad & Betsy Emerson (334) 201-5241 Wednesday, 6:30pm in Rm. 116. The Orphan Care Group will focus on God’s call to help orphans through adoption, foster care, and missions work. The group will share experiences, study and Biblical themes regarding orphan care, and provide a support and network for individuals who want to support orphans.
Alcoholic / Addict
Location: Caring Center of FBC, 52 Adams Avenue CrossRoads Support Group is for addicts/alcoholics and family members. Meets at 6 p.m. Tuesdays and follows a Christ-centered 12-step program. Call 264-4949. Location: Cloverdale Baptist, 608 E. Fairview Celebrate Recovery, a Bible-based Christ centered approach to recovery from hurts, habits and hang-ups, meets Friday nights, beginning with dinner at 5:30 p.m., Praise and worship, 6:30, Open Share Small Groups, 7:30, and Cafe, at 8:30. Call 265-9223. Location: Dalraida UMC, 3817 Atlanta Highway Alcoholics Anonymous meets at 6 p.m. on Tuesdays. 272.2190. Alanon meets at 6 p.m. on Wednesdays. Location: First Baptist Church (Huff Community Ministries Bldg., 200 S. Perry Street) Celebrate Recovery, a Bible-based Christ centered approach to recovery from hurts, habits and hang-ups, meets Friday nights, from 5:30 p.m.- 8 p.m. For more information, contact Jane Ferguson at 241.5141. Location: Grace @ Bell Road, Corner of Bell Road and Atlanta Hwy. Alcoholics Anonymous and Alanon meetings are held Monday, Tuesday, Thursday, and Friday, at 6 p.m. An Open AA Speaker meeting is held on Saturday at 6 p.m. An Alanon & AA held on Sundays at 2 p.m. River Region’s Journey
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Location: Grace Point Community Church, 78223 Tallassee Hwy (Hwy 14), Wetumpka Celebrate Recovery- every Tuesday night- 6:15pm. All are welcome! These meetings are a safe and loving environment for individuals seeking to conquer their hurts, habits and hang-ups! gracepoint.info. Location: Journey Church, group meets in Fellowship Hall at Coosada Baptist Church, Millbrook Celebrate Recovery - Christ-centered 12-step for anyone struggling with addiction or life-challenging issues. Mondays at 5:30pm (meal), 6pm (large group), 7pm (small group). Childcare available. Call Larry at 334-832-5714 or visit myjourneychurch.com. Location: Prattville Church of Christ, 344 East Main St. RSVP - 12 step (Christians Against Substance AbuseCASA) spiritual recovery program, for overcoming addictions. Class begins each Wednesday evening @6:30 PM. Please call 334-365-4201 for addition information. Location: Santuck Baptist Church, 7250 Central Plank Rd. (Hwy 9), Wetumpka. Celebrate Recovery meets each Thursday evening at 6:15 in the Fellowship Hall. This is a Chrsit centered 12 step-program for anyone struggling with hurts, habits, and hang-ups. Call 567-2364. Location: Landmark Church, 1800 Halcyon Blvd. RSVP- This is a 12 step spiritual recovery program for overcoming addictions. Using the steps and Bible we help build self-esteem, responsible behavior, the making of amends for our destructive actions, and to fill the void in our hearts in a loving relationship with God. Wednesday @ 6:30pm in Rm. 121 of the Life Center. Location: St. James UMC, 9045 Vaughn Road Celebrate Recovery meets every Thursday night from 6-8 pm in the Youth Room. This is a Christ-centered 12-step group for anyone struggling with an “addiction or life-challenging issues.” For information, call Chris Henderson at 334-215-0427. Location: Trinity Episcopal, Wetumpka (Across from Winn Dixie on HWY 231) Gamblers AnonymousSaturdays at 7 p.m.
Alzheimer’s / Dementia
Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy An Alzheimer’s and Dementia Caregivers’ Support Group meets on the first Thursday of each month at 11 a.m. in Room 3103. Call 272.8622. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy A Dementia Daycare is held each Thursday in Rm. 3101 from 9:30 a.m. to 12 p.m. Each participant may bring a sack lunch. There is no charge. REGISTRATION IS REQUIRED. For info, call the LifeCare office at 272-8622. Location: Memorial Presbyterian, 2130 Bell Road A Dementia Morning Out for caregivers is offered each Tuesday from 8:45-noon. There is no charge. Each participant may bring a sack lunch (juice provided). Registration is required by calling 274-1018. 32
Cancer
Location: Dalraida Baptist, 3838 Wares Ferry Road. Just for Men -- Montgomery’s first and only faith based cancer support group for men is intent on providing information, Christian fellowship, and helping turn adversity into prosperity. Meetings are held the second Tuesday of each month at 6 p.m. in the conference center. Please call 272-2412 email stan.hurst@knology.net. Location: ChristChurch, 8800 Vaughn Road Cancer Support Group for general cancer. Tuesday afternoons at 1 pm. For more info, please call Christy Holding at 531-1390 or Debbie at 467-4578. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Women of Hope Breast Cancer Support Group, providing education, awareness, and mentoring for breast cancer patients/survivors, family, friends or anyone interested in becoming a part of this compassionate journey, meets the 2nd Tuesday of each month at 5:30 p.m. in Rm 8253. Call 272-8622 or womenofhope@charter.net.
Depression
Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy A Depression/Bipolar Support Group meets on the 1st Thursday of each month from 7:00-8:30pm in Room 3101. This group also meets on the 3rd Saturday afternoon, 12-2 pm, Dalraida UMC, 3817 Atlanta Highway in Church Annex. For more info, call 334.652.1431 or email dbsamontgomery@yahoo.com.
Divorce
Location: First Baptist Church, 305 S. Perry Street Divorce Care and Divorce Care 4 Kids, Wednesdays starting August 22, 6:30 pm. Cost $15.00 (scholarships available) Contact Kathy Cooper at kcooper@montgomeryfbc.org or 334-241-5125. Location: First UMC, 100 E. Fourth Street, Prattville Divorce Recovery meets Wednesdays at 6:15 p.m., Bldg. 101. Call 365.5977. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy A Divorce Recovery Support Group meets each Tuesday, at 5:30 p.m., in Fellowship Hall Lobby. 272-8622.
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Location: Heritage Baptist Church, 1849 Perry Hill Divorce Care Support Group meetings are held Sundays at 6:15 p.m. Divorce Care for Children also at this time. Call 279.9976. Grief Share groups are held each Sunday at 5 p.m. Call 279.9976.
Gambling
Location: Trinity Episcopal Church, 5375 US HWY 231 (Across from the Winn-Dixie shopping center) Wetumpka. Saturdays @ 7pm. 334-567-7534
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Grief
Location: Eastmont Baptist, 4505 Atlanta Hwy. Compassionate Friends is a national self-help support organization for families grieving the death of a child meeting first Tuesdays at 7 pm. We have an annual special event on Tuesday, Dec. 4. We will hold a Candlelight Ceremony in memory of our children at 7 p.m. at Eastmont Baptist Church. Registration is encouraged and may be made by calling (334) 284-2721. We will also collect Toys for Tots. Location: First UMC, 100 E. Fourth St, Prattville Grief Recovery, Thursday nights at 7 p.m., in Wesley Hall Room 104. Call 365.5977.
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Location: Frazer UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Grief Recovery Support Group meets Tuesdays at 5:30 p.m., Rm 3105, in Fellowship Hall Lobby. 272.8622. Location: Grace Baptist Church, 304 Old Montgomery Highway, Wetumpka Mourning to Morning is a Christian growth group for mothers who have lost a child, from before birth through adulthood. Meets the last Thursday night of each month. For more information, contact Alice Scarborough (334) 462-4775 or Gwen Ellis (334) 567-8754 or e-mail us at mourningtomorning@ gmail.com. Join us on Facebook--Mourning to Morning Group. Location: Millbrook FUMC, 3350 Edgewood Rd Grief Share meets – Tuesday 5:30 PM in the Friendship Sunday School Class Room. Call 285-4114 for more info. Grief Share is a friendly, caring group of people who will walk alongside you through one of life’s most difficult experience. Location: Pilgrim Rest Missionary Baptist Church 1550 E. Washington Street Grief Ministry is a grief recovery support group that meets every Monday at 6:00 P.M. The ministry is designed to help anyone through the hurt of losing a loved one by successfully traveling the journey from mourning to joy. Alicia Glover is the coordinator. For information contact Glover at 334-281-2754.
Homosexuality
Location: Landmark Church, 1800 Halcyon Blvd. The Barnabas Group, created to address the needs of those in conflict with homosexual thoughts and feelings meets first, third and fifth Tuesday evenings at 6:30 p.m., in the library at the Life Center. 277.5800.
Mental Illness
Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy NAMI Montgomery (National Alliance for the Mentally Ill) This group provides understanding, education and information to family members & friends of those who suffer mental illness. This group will meet on the second Monday of each month from 6:30-8:30 in room 3103. For more information contact Mary Jo Logan (334) 271-2280.
Parenting
Location: First Baptist Prattville, 138 S. Washington Moms LIFE (living in faith everyday) meets twice monthly from 8:30 - 11:45 am in the chapel at the Church from Aug - May. We offer a time of fellowship, Bible study, musical guest, special guest speakers and a lot of fun!! Cost is $5 per meeting. For moms of all stages and ages of life. Childcare provided by reservation. For more info and to reserve your spot, call Kelley Manning at 361-7919. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Frazer mom2mom is a playgroup to connect mothers of preschoolers at Frazer United Methodist Church to share fun and inspiration in our journey together, with our children, and with Christ. Email Mom2mom@frazerumc.org for more information. Location: Perry Hill UMC, 910 Perry Hill Road Single Moms’ Care and Support Group meets 2nd and 4th Thursdays from 6:15 - 8:00 PM. Free snack supper provided to moms and children. Child care for infants -16 years. Call 272-3174 for information. Location: Vaughn Forest Church, 8660 Vaughn Road Are you in need of a time-out? MOPS joins mothers together by a common bond, to be better wives, moms, and friends along this journey in the trenches of motherhood. We meet the 1st and 3rd Tuesday of each month from 9:30—11:30 a.m. Childcare is provided. For info e-mail VFCMOPS@gmail.com. Location: First Baptist Church, Montgomery 305 S. Perry Street MOPS (Mothers of Preschoolers) If you are a woman who is pregnant or has a child birth through kindergarten, desires to make new friends, wants to share the challenges and joys of motherhood, is looking for opportunities for personal growth through trusted resources,then MOPS is for you. Call Kristi Gay at (334) 233-8989 for more information.
Physical Challenges
Location: Aldersgate UMC, 6610 Vaughn Road Visually Impaired Support Group – Meets monthly on second Thursday 1:00 – 2:30 p.m. The group is called Outward Sight - Inward Vision and is for those with vision loss and their caregivers. Our mission is 33
to assist those experiencing vision loss to maintain their independence by providing access to valuable information and spiritual support. Call 272-6152. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy An MDA/ALS Support Group will meet Tuesday August 10 6:00p.m. – 8:00 p.m. in room 3101. Anyone who is affected by a neuromuscular disease or family members of those affected are encouraged to attend. To receive information, please call 396-4534. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy A Parkinson’s Support Group will meet the 4th Thursday at 6 p.m., in room 8114 at Frazer UMC. This group is for those who have Parkinson’s disease and the family members. 272-8622. Location: Taylor Road Baptist Church, 1785 Taylor Rd., Montgomery Gluten Intolerance Group of Montgomery meets on 2nd Thursdays from 6-7 p.m. Check the blog for special “alternate site” meetings and other info at www.glutenfreemontgomery.blogspot.com.
Pregnancy Loss & Infertility
Location: First UMC, 100 E. Fourth Street, Prattville Hannah’s Prayer--for women dealing with pregnancy loss/infertility issues. Meeting 2nd Thursday and 3rd Sunday of each month. Call 365.5977.
Singlehood
Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Singles’ Small Groups meet each Tuesday at 5:30 p.m. in the Fellowship Hall Lobby. Call 272-8622. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy T.N.T. (Tuesday Night Together) for Singles meets Tuesdays from 7-8 p.m. in the Fellowship Hall, bldg. 7000. A meal ($5.00) and program are provided. For reservations, call 272-8622. Location: Cornerstone Christian, 301 Dalraida Rd. Unavoidably Single Again (USA) Fellowship, a support group for widows and widowers. Informal meetings for fellowship and fun are held on the third Saturday of each month starting at 10 AM. Contact Lynda at farauthor@aol.com or 354-8869.
Veterans
Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Highway Veterans OEF/OIF Caregivers Support Group meets on the 3rd Wednesday from 11am1pm in Room 3108. Contact LaQuana Edwards, Caregiver Support Coordinator at CAVHCS (334) 727-0550 ext. 5350. June 2014
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Praise Can Set You Free Can our praises set us free? Undoubtedly...look at the story of Paul and Silas in Acts 16, as they sang in the midnight hour - in prison. We’re told that they were praying and singing hymns, when there was a great earthquake and the prison doors were opened. The keeper of the prison was distraught, but Paul assured him no one had left. The man then asked Paul and Silas what he must do to be saved. They told him to believe on Jesus and he, along with his household, would be saved. Paul and Silas experienced a physical release from captivity as the result of their praises. So did a 9-year-old boy in Atlanta recently, whose love of gospel music, according to local television station website, 11Alive.com, may have saved his life. A man reportedly kidnapped then nineyear-old Willie Myrick from his southwest Atlanta driveway. He allegedly drove the boy around for some time before dropping him off unharmed in East Point, an Atlanta suburb. But Willie’s actions during those terrifying three hours inspired people all around the country. Willie says he sang the gospel song “Every Praise,” which was recorded by Hezekiah Walker, until the man let him go. On a Thursday evening shortly after the disturbing incident, community leaders held a meeting in Willie’s honor, celebrating his happy ending, but also telling other parents and children what to do if this happens to them. River Region’s Journey
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In front of a crowded sanctuary at Mt. Carmel Baptist Church, Willie recounted the moment he was freed from the car. Willie said while he was singing, the man kept cursing and telling him to shut up before eventually kicking him out. Willie said, “He opened the door and threw me out...He told me not to tell anyone.” Willie certainly did not follow that instruction; he didn’t keep it to himself his story traveled fast and soon caught the ear of Walker, who is a Grammy Award-winning gospel singer. Walker said, “It’s just emotional to me because you never know who you’re going to touch.” When he heard the story, Walker made the decision to fly from New York City to Atlanta to meet Willie. He said, “I just wanted to hug him and tell him I love him.” That night, the singer entered the sanctuary of the church to a standing ovation, grabbing Willie into a tight hug as tears streamed down the boy’s face. Walker then led the church, and Willie, in singing “Every Praise,” the song that may have saved the boy’s life. My goodness, what a horrific story, when you consider this young boy being driven around by a total stranger - but he kept singing. He just kept singing... God has ordained for us a powerful resource in good times and in bad - He desires for us to acknowledge His presence and worship Him. Paul and Silas, as well as Willie, experienced a physical release, and I think their stories can help us to focus on God in adversity. More often than not, we 34
may not be facing physical restraint, but we may need a lift of the soul. Life will bring us a variety of emotional and spiritual forces that can weigh us down and hold us captive, but if we praise God and enter into His presence in worship, we can break free from what holds us down and restrains us. Our worship can take different forms – it may be moments of individual or even congregational singing, or perhaps just verbalizing our thankfulness to the Lord. Each day, it is so vital that we make the effort to connect with His presence. In times of trouble, we recognize that God is an ever-present help. And, we can be challenged to make prayer and/or praise the first thing we turn to, rather than a last resort. We must reject the attitude that we will try to solve our problems first, and then turn to God. He is more than just a safety valve He desires to show Himself faithful, that He may be glorified. One further word - I do want to commend Hezekiah Walker for travelling to Atlanta to meet Willie and stand with him. He said, “You never know who you’re going to touch.” That is so true about the things of God. If we are faithful and obedient to the Lord, perhaps He will use what we surrender to Him to touch the life of someone else. In this case, it was the outgrowth of a creative talent; for you, it may be an encouraging word, or an act of service, or some other action. When we are in a position of being in proper alignment with Christ, we can be confident that He will work through us. **Photo courtesy of www.blackchristiannews.com. Bob Crittenden is host of “The Meeting House”, heard weekday afternoons from 4-6pm on Faith Radio, 89.1FM in Montgomery. Described as “the intersection of faith and culture”, the program features Christian music and conversation about a variety of topics. Learn more by visiting www. meetinghouseonline.info.
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June 2014 Community Calendar Monthly events can also be found in the Around Our Community Section starting on page 8. Wednesday, June 4
A Rush of Fools Concert will be at the Davis Theatre for the Performing Arts at 7 p.m. For tickets, visit http://www.rushoffools.com/tour/.
June 8-July 20 (Sundays)
The Family Table will be held on Sunday evenings from 5-7 p.m. in Room 8114 (Activity Center) of Frazer Memorial UMC. Enjoy summertime fun and fellowship with other families, and to learn God’s Word from a fresh perspective. Starting at 5 p.m., bring a brown bag dinner, and enjoy fellowship time with other families around games, art projects, and other unstructured activities. Around 6 p.m. we’ll move into a Bible story experience, illustrated through video and interactive elements, along with hands-on activities, finishing up with a family discussion and prayer time. Teaching will be led by Ken and Emily Roach. Designed for parents, guardians or grandparents with children who are kindergarten graduates and up. We even welcome teens! Contact Ken Roach 334-4956328 or ken@frazerumc.org with questions.
Friday, June 13 and Saturday, June 14
Gridiron 2014 Men’s Conference in Birmingham at the BJCC, with With Si Robertson, Dave Ramsey, Steve Farrar, Rick Burgess, Phil Waldrep, Alan Robertson and Charles Billingsley. For info call 205-4588400 or visit www.itickets.com.
Saturday, June 14
Talent Show for Country and Gospel Music @ The Destiny Christian Center, Hwy. 14, Prattville, Alabama. For more information, 334-657-9599 or e-mail mirandastars2000@yahoo.com. River Region’s Journey
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Mark Schultz will be in concert at Christ Community Church in Montgomery at 7:00 PM. For info call: 334-273-8110.
Saturday, June 28
Light of the World Ministries (232 West Jeff Davis 36104) is hosting a Youth Explosion, doors open at 1 pm. For more information call us @ (334) 209-4697.
Saturday, July 26
The second annual Alabama Angels Pageant will be held at Hunter Hills Church in Prattville, AL. This is a very exciting day for our special needs community. It is for anyone, male or female, of any age, with any kind of physical or mental impairment. Any business or individual interested in sponsoring, volunteering, or donating food or goody bag items to the Alabama Angels Pageant should contact us at alabamaangels@hotmail.com. Find us on Facebook at Alabama Angels Pageant.
Ongoing Happenings AGLOW International meets every third Thursday, 9:30 at the Montgomery House of Prayer. All women welcome to join together for praise, prayer and an anointed message. Contact mboudousquie@yahoo.com. Bridge of Life Assembly of God, 9000 Vaughn Road, Montgomery, holds Sunday morning worship at 10:30 a.m. each week. Sunday school classes meet at 9:30 a.m. We offer classes for all age groups and childcare is provided. Our goal is to build bridges...not walls. We invite you to come join us if you need to learn how to build those bridges. For directions or information call 334-396-0208. Email jon@bridgeoflife.tv or visit www. bridgeoflife.tv. Central Community Christian Church, 981 South Perry Street, Montgomery, holds new members training classes on Sundays at 9 a.m. Sunday School (9:30), morning worship (11:00), Tuesday night Bible study (6:30). Every fourth Sunday of the month is our youth Sunday. For more information please call (334) 269-0457 or by email at centralccchurch1@gmail.com. We are a church where you can be you, you can be loved and where you can grow! Christchurch, 8800 Vaughn Road, Montgomery, offers a Women’s Enrichment Bible Study led by Jeanne Dean on Thursdays, 9:30-11:30 a.m., in Canterbury Hall. All women are welcome. Childcare for ages birth-4 years is provided. Call 387-0566 x 201 for more info. 36
Christchurch offers a men’s Bible study led by Fr. John-Michael van Dyke, on Thursday mornings on the 11th floor of Goode Medical Bldg, Jackson Hospital. Breakfast is served beginning at 6:45 a.m. and teaching begins at 7:15 a.m. Call 387-0566 x 201. Chisholm Baptist Church, 2938 Lower Wetumpka Road, Montgomery, holds Sunday morning Bible study (9:30), Morning worship (10:45), Tuesday prayer breakfast (8:30) Wednesday evening prayer service (6 pm) and Senior Body and Soul Group (every 1st Tuesday at 1 pm). Email jbass9784@charter. net or call 262-6437. First Presbyterian Church, 9299 Vaughn Road, hosts Family Night every Wednesday beginning at 5:20 p.m. with supper, followed by a study on prayer. Everyone is welcome. For more information call (279-1372). First Presbyterian Church, 9299 Vaughn Road, hosts a Men’s Prayer Breakfast every Friday morning, 6 a.m. The Youth of First United Methodist Church, Montgomery every Wednesday night at 7:00 p.m. for Wednesday Night Live, a time of praise and worship in “the attic”. Also, every Sunday night at 6:00 p.m. is MYF which includes a snack supper $3.00 followed by activities, small groups and lots of fun! Visit www.fumcmontgomery.org. First United Methodist Church will host Terrific Tuesdays. Please come and join us for fellowship, a program and lunch. Terrific Tuesdays will meet each Tuesday in room 204 of Wesley Hall. Fellowship time will begin at 10:00 a.m. followed by a program at 10:30 a.m. and lunch at 11:30 a.m. The cost of lunch is $2.50. For additional information please contact NeeNee Webb at 834-8990. Frazer mom2mom is a playgroup to connect mothers of preschoolers at Frazer United Methodist Church to share fun and inspiration in our journey together, with our children, and with Christ. Email Mom2mom@frazerumc. org. Good News @ Noon is an interdenominational Bible study, held at the First Baptist Community Ministries Building on Adams Street, Thursdays, at noon. Small cost for hot lunch. Call 272.1133. Hall Memorial CME Church, 541 Seibles Road, Montgomery, offers Bible Study Tuesdays at 5:30 P.M. and Wednesdays at 6: 30 P.M. For directions or information call 334-288-0577. Email HallMemorialCME1@ aol.com or visit www.HallMemorialCME. blogspot.com.
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Hall Memorial CME Church says: VOLUNTEERS NEEDED! Tutors, prayer-warriors, and office/clerical volunteers needed for the Montgomery City Jail Ministry & G.E.D program. Opportunities are ongoing. No experience or certification necessary. Contact Pastor Anderson T. Graves II, at hallmemorialcme1@aol.com. Call 334-2880577. The City Jail ministry is an in-reach ministry of Hall Memorial CME Church, 541 Seibles Road, Montgomery. www.hallmemorialcme.blogspot.com. Macedonia Miracle Kingdom & Worship Center (MMKWC), 3070 Selma Highway, Montgomery, services are Sunday School and New Members Class, 9:00 a.m., Morning Worship, 10:45 a.m.; Tuesday Night Bible Class, 7:00 p.m. and Friday Night Prayer, 6:00 p.m. (BOTH at The Pattern-Mt Meigs Road) Messiah Lutheran Church, 6670 Vaughn Road, invites all to Wonderful Wednesdays starting with a $3-5 meal at 5:30 pm (RSVP 277-4213 by Monday noon), worship with eucharist 6:15-7:00 pm, and adult choir rehearsal and Catechism class for 7th9th graders at 7:00 pm. Please call for Wednesday schedule due to seasonal breaks. For information, call 277-4213.
Mt. Gillard Missionary Baptist Church, 3323 Day Street, holds Wednesday Bible Study in the church Fellowship Hall and lasts for one hour. Please come and participate in roaming the Bible learning God’s word through teaching. The Rev. Henry M. Carnegie, Jr. is the teacher and pastor. Midday Bible Study begins each Wednesday at 11:30 a.m. Evening Bible Study begins each Wednesday at 7:00 p.m. Call 233-8750. New Freedom Worship Center, 6004 –A East Shirley Lane, Apostle T. Briggs~ Pastor; Sunday Worship Service 10:30 a.m. and Wednesday Night Bible Study 7:30 p.m. Open Door Christian Faith Church, 1601 Dewey St. Montgomery, offers Women’s Prayer Mondays at 5:00, Men’s prayer Wednesday at 5:00, followed by bible study at 6:00. Couples ministry held every 1st Wednesday of the month at 7:00. Pastor William Cromblin, and the Open Door Church family invites you to “come experience the move of God. Call 334-269-6498. Perry Hill UMC, 910 Perry Hill Rd, sponsors a Bluegrass Jam in the Church Fellowship Hall on the third Saturday of each month from 9AM - 12AM. All Bluegrass Artist plus Fans are invited to attend. Attendance is FREE. For information call Kathy@ 272-3174.
Perry Hill UMC, 910 Perry Hill Rd, hosts a Wednesday Night Supper and Revive! program each week from 5:30pm til 7:00pm. Reservations are required by noon on the Monday prior to the supper. Cost is $4 per person or $12 per family. Call 334-272-3174 for more information. River City Church, 301 Dexter Avenue, offers a Friday Christian Night Club (free of alcohol and smoking) with Ballroom Dancing every Friday at 6:30 P.M. Cost is $10 for a one hour lesson, devotional, and 3 hours of DJ music. All denominations welcome. 7:3010:30 open dance floor. The River of Life Church, located at 116 County Road 40 E (in the Pine Level Community Center) Prattville. Pastor Nick Edwards invites you to a “Place of New Beginnings”, where families come and grow together. Church Service Schedule: Sunday 10:30 a.m. Sunday School; 11:00 a.m. Morning Worship; 5:00 p.m. Evening Worship. Wednesday 6:00 p.m. Adult Bible Study, Teens (Genesis Project), Jr. High (Limitless), Royal Rangers, MPact Girls, Rainbow’s/Noah’s Zoo Club. Thursday 9:00 a.m.Women of Grace Bible Study. Nursery provided. We invite you to”come experience God in a personal way, feel loved by all and know that you belong”. Call the
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June 2014 Community Calendar church office 334-657-0392 or visit www. theriveroflifechurch.net. Saint James UMC, 9045 Vaughn Road, offers S.N.A.G. (Sunday Nights About God!) This program starts at 5:00p.m. and ends at 6:30p.m. Childcare is provided for small groups until 7:00p.m. Don’t forget this program is available for all children! Saint James UMC, 9045 Vaughn Road, offers Wild & Wacky Wednesdays! Wednesday night supper starts at 5:15p.m. We will start checking children in at 6:00p.m. This program ends at 7:30p.m. and childcare is provided until
8:00p.m. for small group participants. Call 277.3037 for more info. Saint Paul African Methodist Episcopal Church, 706 E. Patton Avenue, “Clothes Closet” is open to the public each Thursday morning from 10 a.m. – Noon. The Men of Saint Paul host a free Men’s Prayer Breakfast the Third Saturday of each month at 8 a.m. in the Church Fellowship Hall. The Men’s Prayer Breakfast is open to all men of all ages. Come and share your concerns and needs of our Men of today. For more information, please contact (334) 354-1897. Bible Study is held each Wednesday, 6-7 p.m. in the Fellowship Hall. Pastor Farrell J. Duncombe is the teacher and Senior Pastor of the church. Come and join us for Sunday School each Sunday at 9 a.m. and Morning Worship at 10 a.m. Need transportation, call (334) 2647618. For info call 286.8577 or www.saintpaulamemontgomery.com. S-STOP, a commUNITY Bible study for Singles. Souls Strengthened Together for One Purpose. Psalm 46:10 “BE STILL and know that I am God.” Meets at Prattville Christian Academy on Sunday nights at 6 p.m. For info email sstop04@gmail.com. Vision Full Gospel Ministries, 163 Rifle Range Road, Montgomery, holds Bible Study Tues. Night 7:00 p.m., Pray & Praise 2nd & 4th Thurs. Night 7:00 p.m., Sunday School 9:30 am,
Sunday Worship Service 10:45 a.m., Internet radio-homecominggospel.com Sunday 3:00p.m. Central & 4:00 p.m. Eastern. and Satellite Radio -wlsg 1340am Sunday 3:00p.m. Women at The Well Ministry invites you to attend its women’s fellowship at 1 pm every 1st and 3rd Saturday. We are women who desire and have a heart to see broken, crushed, hurting women be transformed through the one man who can fulfill their every need... JESUS...THE POTTER. All women of all denominations or race are welcome. This ministry is available to teenagers as well. Come join us as we lift, encourage and build each other up through the Word of God and the words of our testimonies. For more information contact Evangelist Dr. Linda McCall, 334-220-1924. Young Meadows Presbyterian Church, 5780 Vaughn Road, invites you to attend its Sunday Respite Care Program on 1st Sundays from 4-6 pm. Children with physical and cognitive disabilities (and their siblings) ages 6-18 are invited for a time of activities and a light dinner so parents can have a night out. Call Susan Clements at 301-0355 for information and to make a reservation, or email rooftopfriends@gmail.com.
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through the Big Brothers Big Sisters program. She has a 1-year-old child, and she recently asked us for some money. We don’t really approve of how she’s choosing to spend her money—she’s spending a lot of it on alcohol and cigarettes—but she does need financial help. What should we do?
A. I have a very simple rule for situations
like this. If someone is bold enough to ask me for my money, I can be bold enough to attach requirements to the money for their own good. One of two things will happen when you handle things in this manner. They’ll welcome the help and graciously accept your conditions, or they’ll get mad and act like you have no right interfering in their business. I don’t have a problem helping people who have a good heart and really need a break. But if someone cops an attitude with me in this situation, I wouldn’t break out my wallet anytime soon. Regardless, if you choose to do this, I’d make the money a gift and not a loan. Concentrate on trying to get her on a path
where she thinks a little straighter, and, as a result, she will make better choices. Teach her how to make and live off a budget or help her enroll in a personal finance course. But right now, just handing her money is like giving a drunk a drink. This whole situation is a lot bigger than giving someone $35 for diapers. The answer to that is easy. It’s yes. But in this case I’d probably give it to her in the form of a grocery store gift card. Many of those don’t allow alcohol and cigarette purchases. Or, I’d just go buy diapers and baby food and take them to her. Actually helping people is a lot more work than just throwing money at them. To really help someone, you have to get down in their mess and walk beside them. Financially speaking, her problem is just as much mismanagement of money as it is a lack of money. Anyone who chooses smokes and alcohol over diapers for their kid needs to be smacked. But since you can’t really do that, you can put conditions on your help that are designed to help her improve her decision-making abilities and, by doing that, improving her life.
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Q. I know you recommend that no more
than 25 percent of your take-home pay should go toward rent or a mortgage payment. Should taxes and insurance be figured into this amount?
A. Yes, they should. Mortgage companies
will qualify you for twice as much house as you can realistically afford. They’ll try to put you on a 30-year, adjustable-rate mortgage and leave you in debt up to your eyeballs for half of your life. Payments like that can easily equal 36 percent or more of your take-home pay. That’s just nuts! I see so many people who can’t take a decent vacation or save anything for retirement or their kids’ college fund because their mortgage payment is through the roof. That’s called being “house poor.” And I’ve even seen it push people into debt just to buy groceries. Engage in some critical thinking when it comes to your finances. There’s so much more to life than that building we call a house. I want you to think about your future and your family’s future and make smart money decisions that will change your family tree for years to come!
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Movie Reviews Reviews provided by MovieGuide: A Family Guide to Movies and Entertainment Ratings are based on production quality and moral acceptability. See details below. ***Reviews do not necessarily reflect views of the publishers of River Region’s Journey.
Maleficent
X-Men: Days of Future Past
Production Quality: **** Moral Acceptability: -2 (Extreme Caution) Starring: Angelina Jolie, Elle Fanning, Sharlto Copley, Lesley Manville, Imelda Staunton, Juno Temple, Sam Riley, Brenton Thwaites Genre: Fantasy Audience: Older children to adults Rating: PG Content: Strong, slightly mixed pagan worldview with father as the villain and some occult use of dark magic, but some light moral, redemptive content where title character softens her anger and desire for revenge because of younger girl’s joy and love, whom she eventually befriends, plus strong politically correct environmentalist content where mankind is the bad guy; no foul language or profanities; woman slaps another woman, slapstick humor involving three silly women, war scene with soldiers flown into the air and crushed, scary forest animals fight soldiers, wings are cut off from fairy and the after pain is shown, scary dragon spits fire, and other miscellaneous violence; no sex scenes, but two light kissing scenes; no nudity; no alcohol; no smoking; and, strong miscellaneous immorality includes poison used to make woman fall asleep, father is the villain, greed, envy, and revenge. MALEFICENT is a dark version of Sleeping Beauty. Angelina Jolie plays the title character. Maleficent is one of the strongest fairies in the forest, with large wings and magical powers. She falls in love with a farm boy named Stefan, but Stefan never returns to the forest. When Maleficent fatally wounds the king to protect the forest, Stefan cuts off Maleficent’s wings to become the new king. He marries and has a baby girl, Aurora. In revenge, Maleficent puts a curse on Aurora, saying she will die at age 16 if she doesn’t receive a true love’s kiss. Stefan tries to hide Aurora in a far away forest, raised by three silly fairies. Not long after, Maleficent finds Aurora. Aurora’s joyful heart changes Maleficent’s own heart, but there’s no stopping the curse. The real villain turns out to be the father. Also, there’s an environmentalist message where mankind is the problem. MALEFICENT has some plot holes but otherwise is well-made. However, it’s too scary for children. Movieguide® advises extreme caution for MALEFICENT.
Production Quality: **** Moral Acceptability: -2 (Extreme Caution) Starring: Hugh Jackman, James McAvoy, Michael Fassbender, Jennifer Lawrence, Halle Berry, Nicholas Hoult, Ellen Page, , Daniel Cudmore, Bingbing Fan, Ian McKellen, Patrick Stewart Genre: Science Fiction Audience: Teenagers and adults Rating: PG-13 Content: 9 obscenities (mostly “h” words but one nonsexual “f” word, several “s” words, two “ah” words,” two or three “d” words, one a++ word, and one “pi++ off”), two GD profanities, two “God!” profanities; strong action and science fiction violence with very little blood and no gore; no actual sex scenes but man wakes up in bed next to women; one shot of rear female nudity because one mutant character has scales on her nude body in her scenes, image of rear male nudity after man climbs out of bed and stands in front of mirror; no alcohol use; and, hatred but rebuked, fear but rebuked, a joke is made about President Kennedy’s assassination and the alleged but phony “magic bullet” theory, and revengeful woman decides to assassinate evil scientist but one hero often tries to talk her out of it. X-MEN: DAYS OF FUTURE PAST is an excellent time travel story. In the future, an army of giant flying robots has taken over Earth, killing both mutants and now also humans. To try to save humanity, Professor Xavier and his superhero X-Men send Wolverine’s consciousness back in time to 1973 when the robots were first created. Wolverine has to convince a young Professor Xavier and his nemesis to work together. They must stop the professor’s former friend, Mystique, from killing the scientist who created the robots. Her assassination prompted the government to create the robots to kill the mutants anyway. X-MEN: DAYS OF FUTURE PAST is an entertaining, engrossing superhero movie, with really strong positive messages throughout. In the story, hope, compassion, peace, and faith cast out fear, hatred, violence, and distrust. This positive content, however, is marred by some foul language, brief lewd moments, intense action, scary robots, and some objectionable philosophical, theological, political content. So, DAYS OF FUTURE PAST warrants strong caution.
The previous reviews are a selected sample of informative reviews from MOVIEGUIDE: A FAMILY GUIDE TO MOVIES AND ENTERTAINMENT, a syndicated feature of Good News Communications, Inc. To subscribe to MOVIEGUIDE which includes a complete set of at least 10 reviews of the latest movies as well as many informative articles, please visit our web site at www.movieguide.org or write or call:”MOVIEGUIDE,” P.O. Box 190010, Atlanta, GA 31119 (800) 899-6684. What the ratings mean: Production Quality: (1 to 4 stars) Moral Acceptability: -4 (Abhorrent), -3 (Excessive), -2 (Extreme Caution), -1 (Caution), +1 (Wholesome), +2 (Good), +3 (Moral), +4 (Exemplary) River Region’s Journey
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