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Publisher’s Note

Seizing Teachable Moments

by Karen Wingate Make the most of Christian education with the children in your local church, as you seek to pass on the faith by meeting individual kids where they are.

Jason Watson

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Pastor's Perspective Alan Cross, Gateway Baptist Church

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Dave $ays Dave Ramsey

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2012 Vacation Bible Schools

River Region churches offer wonderful VBS opportunities each summer. Register your kids now!

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The Intersection Bob Crittenden

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Inside Child Evangelism Fellowship

Grace to You John MacArthur

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by Rachel Fisher Learn how this world-wide ministry is making an impact in the River Region by sharing Christ in our public schools.

Counselor’s Corner Brenda Payne

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Family Teams for Christ Lisa and Mike Conn

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Got Life?

On Our Cover . . .

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Rod Thomas and Ahzareiah Stewart are students at Seth Johnson Elementary and part of the CEF Good News Club that meets on Monday afternoons. They are pictured with one of the club leaders, Beverly Stabler. She has been involved with the students at Seth Johnson through CEF for four years and attends ChristChurch. Call 334.213.7940 today!

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On the Bookshelf page 8

Around Our Community page 39

Event Calendar page 44

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Publisher’s Note by Jason Watson In just a few short days we will finally have our daughter home from Russia. In case you missed my Publisher’s Note from a few month’s ago, DeAnne and I have adopted a precious one-year-old and now have a family of five. After a 19 month journey filled with hours of research, piles of paperwork, and three exhilarating and exhausting trips to Moscow, we’ll arrive back in America on May 9th and introduce Lydia “Grace” Watson to her new home and family. Whether God chooses to give you a child that you carry in the womb or that someone else does, He is sovereign over each child and He planned long ago the family they will belong to. We already had two children before God gave us Grace. All three are equally a blessing and are gifts from the Lord - gifts that we are called to protect and nurture accord-

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ing to His word. Every May we use our issue to focus on ministering to children in the home, the church and in the community. This year we want to inspire you with the wisdom of Scripture and the testimony of others to be intentional about raising your children up in the hope and wisdom of the Lord. On page 14, you’ll learn how to detect those teachable moments with your own children and others you may be in charge of teaching. Written from a Sunday School teacher’s prospective, but applicable for all parents and grandparents, this article will help you become attune to the ministry opportunities happening all around you. Mike and Lisa Conn, two exceptional family mentors, share in there column on page 34 how to develop Godly character in our children. Mike and Lisa do a wonderful job sharing tried and true lessons that they’ve applied in their own home for many years in raising their three beautiful daughters. Are you familiar with Good News Clubs in our local schools? Each week the Gospel is being proclaimed and children’s lives are being changed through the ministry of Child Evangelism Fellowship and its volunteers. Turn to page 30 to discover what God is doing through this ministry and consider joining them by having your church adopt a local public school and hosting a Good News Club there. Many schools still need sponsoring churches and organizations. Finally, if you have children and are not involved in a church, let me encourage you to please take your child to a Vacation Bible School this summer (maybe two). VBS is a sweet time of fun games, singing, crafts and learning about God’s love towards your child. On page 20 we have compiled the River Region’s best VBS Guide. Throughout this month’s issue, you’ll also find advertisements promoting VBS. I’ve spoken with these churches already and they would be a great place for your family to make a connection. Children truly are a gift from the Lord. As parents, grandparents, neighbors or fellow church members, seek to be a blessing to these little ones. Helping them know the Lord and how to place their hope in Him results in a full and abundant life.

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Pastor’s Perspective

Pastor Alan Cross, Gateway Baptist Church

Boundaries, Worship and the Work of God What if we stayed in a place and called it home? What if we persevered in relationships, even when they were hard? In the past, people would remain in towns and even neighborhoods where they grew up. Aunts, uncles, cousins, grandparents, childhood friends – all together, forging a life in community. It was hard to be anonymous. People would work jobs for decades, learning a craft and a trade and they would put down roots. Sure, people have always moved around for various reasons – economic, mostly. But, having traveled and built, we would often stay in one place. Our spiritual life was also a rooted affair. Many would grow up in churches, get married, and raise children in the same church. However, things are obviously different. Globally and locally, the past 50-60 years have been a time of great migration and massive change. Children grow up and the expectation is that they will leave home to create a new life. But, the ways we move are not just geographical. They are also social and spiritual. There is a temptation to continue to grasp for more prosperity and a better life. Even if we do stay in one place, we keep trying to improve our life through enhancing our standard of living, through grasping after greater experiences, and through attempting to trade relationships. As a pastor, I have seen people move, change, end relationships, and go on quests for the proverbial greener grass. With all of our migration both geographically and socially, I wonder how this is affecting us spiritually? River Region’s Journey • May 2012

The Bible gives us a perspective worth considering – one that has been largely forgotten in a hyper-mobile society. Could there be a spiritual benefit to staying in one place and building a life there? Could our children benefit from staying in one church? From investing in a neighborhood? From sticking it out in relationships even when they grow difficult? I believe we would find an incredible blessing in both geographical and relational perseverance. Acts 17:26-27 seems to make that case. Speaking of God, it says, “From one man he made every nation of men, that they should inhabit the whole earth; and he determined the times set for them and the exact places where they should live. God did this so that men would seek him and perhaps reach out for him and find him, though he is not far from each one of us.” It seems that God puts us in certain places on the planet so we would know Him there. At the very least, we can say that we are where we are because of God. Instead of something to be avoided, could it be that the problems we see in our communities, neighborhoods, relationships, and churches are the exact things that we need to face so that we can meet with God and know Him? Maybe the better life is not found in a new place, but maybe it is found right where we are as we seek to know Christ and make Him known. Could it be that the Prince of Peace wants us to stay where there might be difficulty and struggle so that we can know Him as the God who heals and forgives and makes all things new? This is what the Incarnation is 4

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all about – that Christ put on flesh and made His dwelling among US! Perhaps the very circumstances that we need to grow in Christ are the very ones that we deem to be undesirable and worth leaving behind. Maybe those are the exact situations where we come to know Jesus. I am not saying that we should never move nor am I saying that every relationship is permanent. Sometimes, God calls us to go to a different place and we should follow Him and serve Him there gladly. But, it is so easy now for us to step out of relationships that we deem to be unfulfilling. We can trade churches, defriend people on Facebook, leave people behind, move to a different city, etc. However, in doing all of this, we find that loneliness increases. We are no happier. But, if we persevered and embraced the boundaries that God had placed us in and worshiped Him there with all that we are, we would experience contentment in the Lord. Instead of trying to get away from problems, what if we embraced them and loved sacrificially, laying our lives down? Jesus came to a real place in a real time and He works the same way today. Jesus is not present in our fantasies. He is present with people in all their hurts and inconsistencies and He calls us to join Him there. Let us do so and worship.

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On The Bookshelf

by Gail Welborn

Flirting with the Forbidden

by Steven James, Revell Books, 2012, 185 Pages, ISBN-13: 978-0800734282, $12.99

Steven James steps into the nonfiction arena by means of Flirting with the Forbidden, a compilation of fifteen biblical narratives of sin, temptation and God’s grace. The author’s personal thoughts interlace with spiritual insights and commentary that end each chapter. James’s first-person narrative and creative license uniquely portray the “…emotion and inner conflict...” of many temptations and struggles. His powerful story-telling ability equips readers to identify with and realize that temptations, whether lust, thievery or murderous intent are common to us all. Engaging tales from Genesis to Revelation include familiar narratives of Eve, Joseph, Judas, John, the Revelator and even Satan’s tempting of Jesus among others. Each story portrays the struggle and human cost of good and evil choices. Although thousands of years separate us, James distinctive characterizations illustrate our similarities more than our differences. People in scriptural times cried, laughed and searched for happiness, struggled with loss, dysfunctional families and doubts, just as we do today. James writes about good and evil to demonstrate the world is “broken” and full of temptation, “…to encourage readers to identify more with the grace of God instead of trying harder to avoid temptation.”

Night with a Perfect Stranger: the Conversation that Changes Everything

by David Gregory, Worthy Publishing, 2012, 132 Pages, ISBN-13: 978-1936034864, $14.99

It wasn’t until Nick met Jesus face-to-face in Dinner with a Perfect Stranger that Nick’s cynical skepticism turned into life-affirming belief in God. His spiritual life had changed into strong commitment and purpose that reflected his newfound relationship with Jesus. Now six years have passed and Nick’s initial sense of “closeness” has waned. He still believes, but his faith has faded, along with his prayers that now seem to bounce off the ceiling. He feels like a car running on empty fumes without a spiritual gas station in sight. In book three, Night with a Perfect Stranger, Nick again encounters Jesus on a long drive home after an argument with his father. Upset and angry, Nick neglects to check the gas gauge and the engine sputters and dies in the middle of nowhere. He pulls over to the shoulder as the car coasts to a stop and sees “…a man holding a fuel can...” Thus begins Gregory’s inspirational third book chock full of life-changing spiritual nuggets that reveal Jesus is more about relationship than religion, a book I consider an unforgettable must-read.

Let It Go: Forgive So You Can Be Forgiven

by T.D. Jakes, Hardcover, Atria Books, 2012, 272 Pages, ISBN-13: 978-1416547297, $25.00

Can you let go of hurts, give or accept forgiveness, live in the freedom of God’s grace that enables you to become who God created you to be? T.D. Jakes, well-known pastor and bestselling author, thinks you can and tells you how by way of Let It Go, his new release that explores what he calls the “big idea” of forgiveness. In this book Jakes contrasts the “big idea” of forgiveness with the “smaller idea” of “hatred, resentment and revenge.” The one leads to restoration of people and relationships, the other memorializes hurts and restores nothing. Fourteen chapters cover disappointment, trust, anger and more, what might be called necessary “life lessons” that encompass the mosaic of forgiveness. Jake’s personal examples and solutions illustrate how to confront upsetting situations of unethical business practices, resentment, anger, and in one instance, cheating. Each one a challenge that taught him “…it’s possible to be right about the issues but you can be wrong to take on the fight.” In other words—forgive and let it go. River Region’s Journey book reviewer Gail Welborn lives in Sedro-Woolley, Washington.

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What Does It Take To Enjoy a Relationship that Lasts?

The King’s Praise Ballet

Dr. Paul Tripp’s, What Did You Expect? 12 Weeks on Biblical Transformation for Marriage. Starts 4/29, Sunday School, 11:00 AM First Presbyterian Church, 9299 Vaughn Road, Pike Road, worship starts at 9:25 AM. “It won’t take long for you to realize that your marriage hasn’t escaped the reality of sin or the brokenness of the world. The key to marital unity and love is not romance, rather, it is worship. It is only when I worship God as Creator, Sovereign, and Savior that I will ever love as I should. “Does this confuse you? Then, this marriage conference is for you. Learn how practical these insights are for the everyday issues and situations of a real marriage; and, learn the practical steps that will help couples know how to get from where they are, to where God wants them to be.”

Come worship Jesus with The King’s Praise Ballet! “Unchanging” which will be presented on Friday, May 11th at 7 PM and Saturday, May 12th at 4 PM. Each dance will extol a different attribute of God, from His goodness to His unending grace. Admission is free, so come to Hunter Hills Church in Prattville and join us in celebrating our Savior! For more info, go to www.KingsPraiseBallet.com or call (334) 285-7357.

Missions BBQ & Flea Market

On Saturday, May 5, the 22nd Annual BBQ will be helping Frazer UMC send students to the Dominican Republic, Atlanta, Haiti and Ethiopia. You can do your part by purchasing your tickets for only $8 a plate or $5 a sandwich bag. The BBQ will run from 10 a.m.-2 p.m., and you can dine in the Fellowship Hall or pick up your BBQ to go. We will once again make free deliveries to businesses wanting to treat their employees. Contact the Student Ministry office at 495-6409 for details. Singles Missions Flea Market: Come shop from 7 to 1 the day of the BBQ and find a bargain;

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International Bible Study at Frazer UMC

“Jesus loves me! This I know, For the Bible tells me so…” If you’re on the second floor of Frazer UMC’s Building 3000 on Sunday mornings, you may hear this favorite song of the International Bible Study class. It is a simple melody with simple words that are easy to learn to sing in English and the message is dear to the hearts of all class members. Students measure their progress in learning English by how well they sing Jesus Loves Me. They also cherish the freedom they have found in America to be allowed to sing or speak of their love of Jesus. The class formed about two years ago and is steadily growing in size. Cambodia, Thailand, Laos, China and Taiwan are some of the homeland countries of class members who are all communicating and learning in English as their second language. Cindy Alsabrook is the class teacher and emphasizes the importance of body language and attitude among members to overcome any language barriers and make all feel welcome and accepted. Since class members have different levels of English proficiency, Cindy keeps each Sunday’s lesson simple and strictly adheres to teaching directly from Bible verses. Members have Bibles in their native language with English translations, however, translations vary and some of the original Hebrew meaning of verses requires additional explanation and discussion for international members to gain the intended biblical message. The International Bible Study meets Sunday mornings at 9:30 a.m. in room 3214. Adults of all ages and nationalities are welcome. Call 272-8622 for more info.

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Huntingdon Receives National Recognition for Community Service

For the second consecutive year, Huntingdon College has been selected to the President’s Higher Education Community Service Honor Roll by the Corporation for National and Community Service. The awards program cited work done by Huntingdon students, faculty and staff during the 2010–2011 academic year with Common Ground Ministries, the Family Sunshine Center, FocusFirst, SaveFirst, the Adapted Sport Day program, Special Olympics, the Montgomery Humane Society, Operation Christmas Child, Montgomery Food Bank, MANE, Martin Luther King Great Day of Service, and tutoring in elementary schools, among a wide range of service performed last year, contributing to more than 8,000 reported community service hours.

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Shine Your Light with Kim Hendrix

The Walk For Life

Join the Shine Your Light ministry for a special time of worship at Frazer United Methodist Church, 6000 Atlanta Highway, Sunday, June 3rd at 6pm. Men and women are encouraged to attend as Kim Hendrix shares the message “Rescue Me”--How the ultimate rescue team is always at work in our lives, saving us and using us. Childcare is provided and fellowship will follow in the atrium. The service will take place in the Sanctuary. For more information, please call 272.8622.

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The Walk For Life, an annual fund raiser sponsored by Sav-A-Life, will be May 5th at the Montgomery Zoo. This is an activity the whole family can enjoy! The route is the path which encircles the Zoo and it can be walked as many times as convenient for each walker. Each entrant is asked to have sponsors and the sponsors pay a set amount, not per mile. This walk helps Sav-ALife counsel and offer ultrasound exams to more than a thousand expectant mothers each year. The counseling includes alternatives to abortion, parenting, adoption, the rewards of an abstinence until marriage lifestyle and special counseling for those women who are going through the emotional devastation following an abortion. To participate in the walk as a sponsor, you may register online at www.savalifemtg.org, or you may pick up your form at the Sav-A-Life office, 380 Mendel Parkway. Preregistration is encouraged. Sign-in time is 8:30am and the walk begins at 9:00. In case of rain the form may be mailed to the Sav-A-Life office and you may walk later at your convenience. Please feel free to call Sav-A-Life at 260-8010 for any questions you may have.

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The popular rock band Switchfoot will perform at Samford University on Thursday, May 3, at 7 p.m. in Pete Hanna Center. Tickets are on sale now. The five-member group began with successes in the Christian rock scene before gaining mainstream recognition when its music was featured prominently in the 2002 movie A Walk to Remember. Their seventh studio album, Hello Hurricane, received a Grammy award in 2011 for Best Rock Gospel Album. All tickets are $16 and are general admission. Tickets may be purchased at: https:// www.ticketreturn.com/prod2/team.asp?SponsorID=4517. For information, call (205) 726-2276.

Grace Episcopal Church will host An English Country Afternoon on Sunday, May 6, from 4 to 6 p.m. in the beautiful gardens of the church. The event is open to the public. Guests are cordially invited to indulge in a variety of traditional teatime treats sweetened with Southern style. Activities and entertainment will feature something for the whole family: the Montgomery Youth Chorale, the Madrigal Voices of Montgomery and the Dresden String Trio; a Scottish Bagpiper; a Maypole dance by the children of Grace; clowns from The Eastern Hills Baptist Church Clown Ministry; games; and the Grace Gift & Garden Shoppe. Grace’s gardens have been featured in a variety of publications from Montgomery Living to Southern Accents. Cameras are welcomed. Tickets will be available at the front gate on the day of the event: $25 Family; $10 Individuals; and $5 Students. Children under 5 FREE. For additional information, call 215-1422 or e-mail office@gracechurchmtmeigs.org. Find Grace Church on Facebook at www.facebook.com/gracemtmeigs. Grace is located at 906 Pike Rd. To get there from Montgomery, take Vaughn Rd. to Pike Rd. Turn left (north) on Pike Rd. The church is approximately 1/2 mile down Pike Rd. on the left.

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D Missions Camp Offered for Entire Family Fountain of Grace Church is hosting a week of missions camp in the Prattville/ Millbrook/North Montgomery areas Sunday, July 8 thru Friday, July 13. • Fountain of Grace Church’s one-week summer missions camp. This ain’t your baby sister’s day camp - it is face-to-face encounters with hurting, lonely people who need Jesus and your job is to be Jesus to them. • Go to mission sites daily, Monday – Friday. There are three ministry tracks that you can choose to be a part of: Children’s Track, Social/Creative Track, or Paint/Construction/Yardwork (PCY) Track. You’ll stay in that same track all week. Ministry sites will be in Prattville, Millbrook, and North Montgomery. • Grow spiritually through morning devotions and small group time, serving others at ministry sites daily, and through

evening worship in music and messages. • We’ll throw in some recreation time each afternoon just for fun and we’ll have Tuesday and Thursday nights off. • Supper is provided Sunday, Monday, Wednesday, and Friday nights. A sack lunch is provided Monday through Friday. • Your Track Leaders all have real-world experience in their Track area. You’ll receive spiritual training and practical training while on ministry sites from your Track Leader. • Children’s Track will go to places where there are children and do backyard Bible clubs, play games, perform puppet shows, teach songs, and just hang out with kids. • Social/Creative Track will be “out-ofthe-box” ministry. Using the talents and skills of your fellow group members, you will develop methods of ministry incorporating music/dance/drama/puppets or whatever your creative mind can think

to do in social settings such as nursing homes, day cares, group homes, or anywhere there are people. • PCY (Paint/Construction/Yardwork) Track will tackle tough jobs like building wheelchair ramps for individuals or help with maintenance and yard work for shutins and non-profit ministries. Our track leader does construction and yard work for a living and will be happy to train you. • This camp is for Families with children/ teens (no children under age 6 on ministry sites), Adult Singles and Couples, Youth ages 12-18 (parents welcome but not required), and Children ages 6 – 11 when accompanied by at least one parent/guardian. • The Cost is $30 per person to cover the cost of t-shirt, food, and supplies. Families with more than 3 members participating will pay no more than $90 total. • Sign up at Fountain of Grace office. Registration ends May 31, 2012. Call 365-5511.

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Mixing Friends and Business Q. I just began a business with a friend as an LLC partnership. I know he’s honest and a hard worker, but I’m still a little scared that everything will fall apart and we’ll walk away mad at each other. We used a CPA to get a tax ID number and help us set up the company. Do you think we should pay a lawyer to help us map out the partnership agreement in writing? A.

Drawing up a written partnership agreement may be the only shot you’d have at walking away from this venture with your friendship still intact. But I don’t think you need to hand some lawyer a bunch of money to make it happen. Chances are, your new business doesn’t need that level of detail. All you need is someone to help you draw up a template that answers all the “what if” questions. This template can be as simple as a list of all the things that could go wrong and the answers to those scenarios. These would be things like death, disability, moral failure, bankruptcy, etc., and what happens if any of these occur. You know, there are hardly ever problems in a business venture when everyone’s happy and making piles of money. But it can get rough if you begin to disagree over the direction the company is taking. Or, what if personal issues make you decide you don’t want to be in business with the other person anymore? It’s easy to go all pie-in-the-sky over these things, but you have to make plans for any and all of the worst outcomes, too.

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Q. I just lost my job due to companywide layoffs. I have an emergency fund, but I’m losing my health insurance. Our state has a program that covers children’s healthcare in these kinds of situations. Would it be okay to accept this for my kids until I find another job and things get better? A.

There’s absolutely nothing wrong with accepting help when you’re down or struggling. On the other hand, to define yourself as being down or struggling is a really bad thing. By this, I mean you should never just sit there, consider yourself helpless, and expect someone else to take care of you. Remember this: everyone falls down. Loser’s stay down, but successful people get back up! If I woke up one morning and realized I had no insurance or couldn’t feed my family because I’d lost my job, I’d be out looking for work all day long, every single day. If that didn’t work, I’d pack everyone up and go find another place to work and live. At the very least I’d map out a plan to work and make money somewhere else during the week, then come home weekends. You sound like a good dad, and I love the fact that you’re thinking about your kids. Do what’s necessary to take care of them right now, even if it means getting help from the state. Make sure you’re out there busting it, and trying to make something happen in the job market, too. You shouldn’t still be living this way six months from now!

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Making the Most of Christian Education in the Local Church by Karen Wingate

After teaching children in the local church for more than 30 years, I have reached two conclusions. First, there’s never enough time to teach all I want to teach. Second, my students may not be ready to hear what I have to say on any particular day. A Type A personality, I loved creating carefully crafted lesson plans. Like a tastefully decorated room or the perfectly accessorized outfit, every part of my session, from the opening activity to snack time, even my time-filler ideas, pointed toward my specific goals for that day. I’m surprised my students didn’t see my teaching motto for lesson plans, “Hook, Book, Look, and Took” shimmering on my forehead. I set the clock by each lesson segment, determined to let nothing distract me from reaching the end of my curriculum so my students would walk out the door, life application activity in their hands and takeaway in their hearts. Then I met Jeff. Jeff was a bright 10-year-old boy with a shock of red hair. He was one of those goofy kids who was always pushing your mental buttons. Some days I wondered if it was Jeff’s River Region’s Journey • May 2012

sole responsibility to derail my carefully laid plans with ridiculous questions. Ruffled by his mischievous outbursts, my teaching instincts urged me to tell him to be quiet and pay attention so I could neatly tie up my lesson by the end of the hour. Something deep inside me, however, told me to stop and answer his questions no matter how off-track they might be. By patiently working through his inquiries, I learned the concept of the teachable moment.

Make Every Moment Count

In the words of Chuck Colson, the teacher’s job is to help our students “know what they believe, why they believe it, and why it matters.” We need to equip them to competently convey the tenets of the Christian faith to the next generation. We aren’t merely teaching ethical standards; we are entrusting our learners with the very essence of truth as found in the person of Jesus Christ. Like a driver protecting the cargo in an armored truck, our job is to deliver biblical truth into the hands of the next generation intact and without perversion. Scripture gives us our marching orders in 2 14

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Timothy 2:2: “And the things you have heard me say in the presence of many witnesses, entrust to reliable people who will also be qualified to teach others.” We don’t have the luxury of time on our side. Public schools, the media, and other influences of a dysfunctional culture gobble up the majority of hours in a child’s week. Church workers are left with little time to influence students with the gospel. We can’t waste a moment. Thoughtful planning is imperative for any Christian teacher. If I’m teaching about Noah, I don’t show a VeggieTales® video about Jonah and the Whale. If my goal is to teach the books of the Bible, I don’t paint Mother’s Day flowerpots that same day. We can’t afford to do a throw-together, mix n’ match approach to Bible learning.

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to teach “in season and out of season” as Paul told Timothy in 2 Timothy 4:2. Planning is important. We cannot let classroom moments slip away, victims of our own lack of organization. Yet a wise teacher is equally prepared to teach outside the carefully planned lesson. It’s called planned flexibility. I made the decision to answer Jeff’s questions simply and briefly, then return to my lesson. Sometimes I had to answer, “I don’t know, but I’ll get back to you next week.” At times, I capitulated to my baser nature, saying, “Come on, Jeff, get on track.” Nothing detoured him; the questions kept coming. Over time Jeff’s questions changed. Still off-track, they lost their goofiness. The defiant glint of challenge in his eye softened to a smoldering fire, a determination to know. Week after week, he kept saying, “I just don’t get this cross thing” or “What is it about the Trinity?” Finally, Jeff told his parents, “I get it. I want to be baptized.” I knew then that deciding to push the pause button on my lesson plans in order to seize the teachable moment had been the right choice.

Finding the Opportunities

Successful teaching in the contemporary church happens when we are able to fill every available moment with solid biblical teaching in a way that meets our learner’s needs. I’m not suggesting we fill our teaching time with boring lectures. Fun times can provide meaningful teaching moments if we are willing to use every available resource at our disposal. I love teaching kids in the 21st century. Never in the span of human history have we

had so many resources available to teach our children. We can seize teachable moments by using crafts, drama, music, games, and technology. A teacher doesn’t have to have a large budget; instead she can use everyday items to communicate the gospel message to her students. Once I wrote a column in my children’s ministry blog (www.childrenteach.blogspot. com) on 10 different ways to use a coffee filter during a Sunday school lesson. Ways to teach are as unlimited as our imaginations. Just as teachable moments can occur outside the confines of our lesson plans, so resources abound beyond the supply cabinet. I’m glad one minister chose to seize a teachable moment with me. One day, at the know-it-all age of 16, I confronted my minister. “Why do we celebrate Christmas?” I asked. “It’s just a pagan holiday.” R. Lowell Applebury could have scolded me for being sacrilegious. He could have lectured me on the importance of celebrating Christ’s birth in spite of what the secular world has done to discredit it. Instead, he simply said, “Use every available opportunity to proclaim Jesus Christ as Lord.” It was a concept I never forgot. My treasure trove of teaching resources expanded to include any opportunity to proclaim Christ, whether holidays, learning styles, family crises, a probing question, or a child’s admission of problems at school. Jesus used an argument among his disciples to teach a lesson on humility (Mark 9:33-41). Another time, he used his followers’ impatience over lunch to challenge the watching Pharisees on their attitudes about Sabbath rest (Matthew 12:1-8). The shrewd teacher will turn opposi-

tion and obstacles into teaching opportunities, for those moments give us a glimpse into what our students are thinking and what is important to them. As a teacher, you are your greatest resource. You may have left your coffee filters and colored pencils at home that morning, but you still have you and the Christ who lives within you. You have your passion for Jesus, your knowledge of the truth, and your love for your students. When you live, act, and respond like Christ, your character showcases the message of Jesus’ transforming power as you embrace the teachable moment.

The Ultimate Goal

When I caught up with Jeff 10 years later, I discovered that he now serves as a substitute preacher for his small congregation in rural Kansas. A video clip of 2 Timothy 2:2 played through my mind. The golden baton of the gospel message, passed from Lowell Applebury to Karen Wingate, then on to Jeff Blundell, would now be entrusted to other reliable Christians who, in turn, would proclaim Christ as Lord to the next generation. What is the essence of Christian education in the local church? It’s knowing doctrinal truth well enough to entrust it to faithful listeners, seizing the teachable moment when you sense your learners are ready to hear, and using every available resource to speak to the hearts, minds, and spiritual needs of your listeners. Karen Wingate is a freelance writer in East Sparta, Ohio.

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by Kim Hendrix

Rescue Me! Psalm 31:2: “Turn your ear to me, come quickly to my rescue; be my rock of refuge, a strong fortress to save me.” Recently I witnessed two dramatic rescues all in a matter of about four hours. The first one involved a precious little baby girl locked inside a vehicle. It happened by accident, as most cases do, and as mom and dad and paramedics worked feverishly to get the door open a crowd gathered to both watch and see if they could help. “Break the window,” many suggested, but there was concern that could set off the airbags inside the car. So several minutes passed as they tried to delicately maneuver a long wire inside the window to the latch. With mom emotional and dad sweating as he

worked with the rescue team, we all got caught up in a bit of a panic wanting our happy ending—and then it came! The click of the door and suddenly the baby is back safely in the arms of her parents. Everyone who had gathered clapped and cheered, and more folks than just mom had tears in their eyes. A few hours later we were at home in our neighborhood when our daughter, Annie, and a friend tell us a huge golden retriever with no collar started following them around the neighborhood as they walked our eleven pound dachshund, Roxy. After bringing Roxy home, Annie and her friend kept tracking the stray dog following him to a nearby pond where he took the plunge and wouldn’t come out. As they’re telling us the latest, a man pulls up saying he’s helping

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in the search for a dog, a big golden retriever! This began an interesting rescue of trying to get a huge dog out of a muddy pond. He was obviously exhausted having been lost and roaming for more than 12 hours. Annie made a call to the dog’s owner who tearfully told us she was on the way. When she arrived and called her dog’s name from about 20 yards away, this muddy, wet and exhausted pet that wouldn’t walk for us ran to his owner with tail wagging!

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The owner embraced her muddy mess with no concern of the water and mud getting all over her nice blouse—another rescue resulting in tears of joy! Isn’t it great how human nature responds to people and animals in trouble? When we see someone who is physically in peril, we work until we know that person is safe. When we see someone who needs rescuing, we don’t quit until that living being is in a better place. So what about when our friends or coworkers or even strangers for that matter are facing danger spiritually, when we know they’ve taken a dark road… Do we come to their rescue with reckless abandon determined to get that happy ending? Romans 7:24-25: “What a wretched man I am! Who will rescue me from this body of death? Thanks be to God— through Jesus Christ our Lord!” When someone you know has made damaging decisions—addictions, adultery, embezzling at work and the list can go on and on—do you help them get back to Jesus or meet for the first

time the One and Only who can rescue them—our Lord and Savior? This is a hard rescue effort to take part in because there’s usually not much you can do to help, other than reach out and let God work through you, but it’s the “reaching out” that we often avoid, thinking we can’t make a difference. Sometimes it’s past pain or shame or depression that can send us spiraling, in need of a rescue. When we see someone who’s in peril, spiritually, let’s reach out and allow God to work. Let’s keep reaching out, even when we feel ineffective or weak, and trust that His strength is made perfect in our weakness. And when that brother or sister comes back to Christ or comes to know Him for the first time, let’s cheer and clap and celebrate this dramatic rescue. Galatians 1:3-5: “Grace and peace to you from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ, who gave himself for our sins to rescue us from the present evil age, according to the will of our God and Father, to whom be glory for ever and ever. Amen.”

Sometimes this life gets too heavy and hard and we need to help our brothers and sisters remember that Jesus’ death on the cross was the ultimate rescue. He freed us to live an abundant life in Him. When you see someone who has lost their way—reach out and trust that the ultimate rescue team will do its work. Dear Heavenly Father, Give us the fire and energy we feel in physically helping others as we reach out to those who need rescuing spiritually. We all need a lifeline now and then. Open our eyes to see who’s calling out, and when they spend time with us may they see and feel you coming to their rescue. In the awesome and mighty name of your son Jesus Christ we pray, Amen.

Kim Hendrix is the Director of Development at Saint James School in Montgomery. She leads the Shine Your Light ministry at Frazer Memorial U.M.C. and recently ended a 26 year career in television news. Kim and her husband Scott, have a 11 year old daughter, Annie, who brings them great joy.

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Tracing the Hand of God Quite often in this space, I highlight aspects of the culture, not always positive, of which we need to be aware and offer ideas on how we can be responsive and influential regarding cultural trends. For this month’s column, I want to celebrate FIVE areas where I am observing that God is working in a profound way through his people. Emphasis on the Word of God. Quite a few columns ago, I highlighted some statistics regarding Bible literacy. I believe that there is a new trend showing that Christians are engaging with the Bible, especially electronically, in a strong way. Take, for instance, the You Version Bible app, developed by LifeChurch.tv. In just one minute, here is how people are using it:

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• 6567 chapters of the Bible are viewed, • 69 mobile devices have the app installed on them, • 20 new reading plans are started, • 368 reading plan parts are completed, AND • In one minute, users log 40,747 minutes of Bible engagement. There are churches that have recently made regular Bible reading a distinct part of their mission. I believe that God’s people are rediscovering God’s word in a significant way. Christians reclaiming the arts. I believe that God’s truth and His beauty can be communicated in a host of creative ways – He is the God of creativity. There

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are a host of artists who are Christians and who desire to reclaim the arts. For example, in the category of visual arts (painting, etc.), we recognize that there is so much classic artwork that reflects religious themes, and many today see the visual arts as a valid way to express God’s nature. While contemporary Christian music as a genre and industry has been around now since the 1970s (and has made a significant impact), you now have a new breed of musicians who are Christians and

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who desire to share truth on a wider scale, sensing that they can live the life in front of the music industry and challenge their listeners with lyrics that present a worldview consistent with the Bible. There are a number of brilliant Christian filmmakers who desire to impact people through movies – some will resonate with the Christian marketplace (theatrical and straight-to-DVD). Others will present a Christ-centered message to a broad audience. The arts represent a fertile ground through which Biblical truth can be shared. Following God’s direction to minister to orphans. In James 1, the Bible addresses caring for widows and orphans. One significant area in which we are seeing Christian organizations work is that of adoption and orphan care. Ministries have developed to help facilitate the adoption of orphans, and there is a dynamic that includes the training of families to participate in foster care, with options to adopt foster children. As children have the opportunity to grow up in caring Christian homes, there is an indelible stamp that is made on the next generation.

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Renewed emphasis on service and social justice. It’s unfortunate that Christians have been branded as power-hungry and politically-oriented people seeking to impose our beliefs on others. Because of our zealous desire to see God’s principles influence society, we have been severely mislabeled. The fact is that the church has always been, and rightfully should be, the purveyors of justice and examples of meaningful service. I believe there are a seemingly growing number of churches and Christian organizations that have made helping provide for the needs or those less fortunate a major priority. When we see people who are legitimately facing oppression, we can stand beside them and bring hope and assistance. I think this is especially being seen in the area of human trafficking: when you consider that perhaps as many as 27 million people are involved in modern-day slavery, this should be a clarion call for the church to rise up and stand with innocent victims. Reaching the millennial generation. There has been an increasing amount of attention given to the millennials – those

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born between 1980 and 2000. This is a generation that has been identified as searching for authenticity, with young people who are looking for something to believe in, and passionate when they find it. Millennials are attracted to community, and churches are devising meaningful small group strategies to reach them. Service and social justice are especially meaningful to them. The millennials have the potential to lead a new wave of spiritual formation and strategic mobilization for the church at large. Truth is, there’s plenty of great stuff to talk about regarding the church today – and even though there are statistics showing a lack of growth in some denominations and geographical areas, we can be confident that God is still at work, and He desires to include you and me in His kingdom plan in our churches, communities, and around the world. Bob Crittenden is host of “The Meeting House”, heard weekday afternoons from 4-6pm on Faith Radio, 89.1FM in Montgomery. Described as “the intersection of faith and culture”, the program features Christian music and conversation about a variety of topics. Learn more by visiting www. meetinghouseonline.info.

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2012 Vacation Bible Schools

Aldersgate UMC

6610 Vaughn Road Theme: Operation Overboard When: July, 9-13, 5:30 to 8:30 p.m. Optional supper $2, 5:30 p.m. Ages: 3 yrs – 5th grade Register at www.aldersgateumc.org or 272.6152.

Blue Ridge Baptist

4471 Jasmine Hill Road, Wetumpka Theme: Amazing Wonders: Aviation When: July 22-26, 6:30 to 8:30 p.m. A family night musical performance will be held July 29th at 6:30 p.m. River Region’s Journey • May 2012

Van pick up for children is available. Call 567-4325.

Capitol Heights Baptist

2514 Madison Avenue Theme: Amazing Wonders: Aviation When: June 25-29, 9 a.m. to noon Ages: 4 years old by Sept. 1 through 6th grade. Nursery provided for VBS workers only. Call 264-6461.

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Cornerstone Christian

301 Dalraida Road Theme: Adventures on Promise Island When: July 8-12; 6:15 p.m. until 8 p.m. Ages: Pre-K, age 3 - Rising 6th Visit www.vactaionbibleschool.com/ccc2012 Call 273-8595.

Dalraida Baptist

3838 Wares Ferry Rd. Theme: Amazing Wonders: Aviation When: June 25-29; 9 a.m. – 12 p.m. Age: Pre-K through 6th grade Pre-registration Family Fun Day: June 24 from 4-7 p.m. Call 272-2412. For Advertising Information:

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3817 Atlanta Hwy Dates and Time To Be Announced Call 272.2190.

Eastdale Baptist 400 N. Burbank Dr. When: August 13-17 Time: to be announced Call 272-6460.

Eastern Hills Baptist

3604 Pleasant Ridge Road When: June 18-22; 8:30 – 12 p.m. Ages: 3 (by Aug 1st) thru 6th grade Call 272.0604.

East Memorial Baptist

1320 Old Ridge Road, Prattville Theme: IncrediWorld Amazement Park When: June 11-15, 9 a.m.–12:30 Ages: 4 years through 8th Grade. Call 365-7500.

Eastmont Baptist

4505 Atlanta Highway Theme: SonRise National Park When: June 18-22; 9 a.m. - 12 p.m. Ages: 4 yr. - grade 6 Register online @ www.eastmont.org or call 277-6300.

Evolve Church

4500 Vaughn Road Theme: To Be Announced When: July 29-Aug. 1; 6:30 thru 8:30 p.m. Call 224-1879.

First Baptist, Montgomery 305 South Perry Street Theme: Amazing Wonders: Aviation Encountering God’s Awesome Power When: June 11-15; 9 a.m. to Noon Call 241-5164.

First Baptist, Prattville

138 South Washington Street Theme: Amazing Wonders: Aviation When: June 25-29, 8:30 a.m.-12 Noon Ages: Entering 5 year old Kindergarten in Fall - 8th Grade Call 365-0606, ext. 220.

First Baptist, Wetumpka 205 W. Bridge Street Theme: Amazing Wonders: Aviation When: June 11-15, 8:00 am - 11:45 am Ages: K-6th grade Call 567-5191.

First Presbyterian, Prattville 211 S. Chestnut Street

Theme: SonRise National Park When: June 4-8, Registration daily at 8:30, VBS starts at 9 a.m. to Noon Ages: 4 years old through entering 6th grade Call 365.6387.

First UMC, Montgomery

2416 W. Cloverdale Park Theme: Operation Overboard When: June 11-15; 9 a.m. to 12 noon Ages: Age 3 (by Sept 1 of 2012) thru 5th grade. Call 834.8990.

First UMC, Prattville

100 E. Fourth Street Theme: Sky: Everything is Possible with God When: June 11-15, 9 a.m. to Noon Ages: Open to children who have just completed Kindergarten through 5th grade Call 365-5977.

Fountain City Baptist

492 East Main Street, Prattville Theme: Bug Zone When: June 24-28; 6 p.m. to 8 p.m. Ages: 3 to 12. Call 365-2034.

Fountain City Baptist

881 McQueen Smith Road, Prattville 334-365-5511

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Theme: Hometown Nazareth: Where Jesus Was A Boy VBS Registration Block Party: Saturday, June 9, 4 pm to 6 pm (free food, moonwalk, horse rides, petting zoo, and more) VBS: June 10-14, 6:30 pm to 8:30 pm Ages: This is a family-friendly VBS. It is open to all ages and parents/ grandparents/guardians are encouraged attend. Kids, teens, and adults will participate together.

Frazer Memorial United Methodist

6000 Atlanta Highway Theme: Praise: Where kids get down and lift God high When: July 9-13; 9 a.m. to 12 noon Ages: Rising 4 year olds (as of Sept. 2 of 2012) thru rising 5th graders. Call 272.8622.

Ages: 3yrs.-6th Grade Call 430-1535.

Hall Memorial CME

541 Seibles Road, Montgomery When: June 18-22, 6:00-8:00 pm Call 288-0577.

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Grace Community Church

3515 Highway 14, Millbrook Theme: Praise When: June 4-8, 6:30 pm - 8:00 pm Ages: 3 years - 6th Grade Call 334-285-4655.

GracePoint Community Church 78223 Tallassee Hwy, Wetumpka Theme: Space Quest When: July 9-13, 6:30– 8:30 p.m.

1180 State Hwy 21 N, Hayneville, AL Theme: Amazing Wonders: Aviation When: July 15-19, 5:45 - 8:30 pm Ages: Completed Pre K - 6th Grade Email: hbc@connecthbc.com or call 334-548-2620

Heritage Baptist Church

1849 Perry Hill Road Theme: Amazing Wonders: Aviation When: June 25-29, 8:30 a.m. to 12p.m. Ages: 4 yr. old – 6th grade Call 279-9976.

Heritage Baptist, Prattville

1357 S. Memorial Drive Theme: SonRise National Parks Dates: June 24-28, Time: 6 p.m. - 8:30 p.m.

Vacation Bible School

June 11 through 15 :: 9:00 AM to Noon ages 4 through 6th grade :: FREE! For more information or to register, visit

www.montgomeryfbc.org Watch amazing things happen as kids encounter God like never before—all against the backdrop of some of the world’s most marvelous natural wonders. As kids explore Psalm 147:5, they’ll recognize God’s power over all things, trust that God is always in control, accept God’s gift of forgiveness, celebrate that Jesus is alive, and rely on God’s power.

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Holy Spirit Catholic Church

8570 Vaughn Road, East Montgomery Theme: Sky: For God All Things Are Possible When: July 9-13; 9 a.m.-12 p.m. Call 277-1989 or register online @ www.holy-spirit-church.com.

Lakeview Baptist Church 9225 Atlanta Highway Theme: Amazing Wonders: Aviation When: July 9-13; 6 p.m. to 8:30 p.m. Ages: K3-6th grade. Call 213-3080.

Landmark Church of Christ 1800 Halcyon Boulevard Theme: Super Heroes of the Bible When: July 8-11, 6:30 – 8:00 p.m. Ages: 3 years thru 6 grade Call 277.5800.

Love Center Full Gospel

3659 Debby Drive (Lecroy Shopping Center) Theme: Fishin’ on a Mission with Jesus When: July 25-27, from 6-8 pm nightly Dinner will be served at 5:30 Ages: 3- 8th grade welcomed For more information call 334-315-6851.

McGehee Road Baptist

2877 McGehee Road Theme: Rocky Point Lighthouse Dates: July 20-22, Times: To be announced Call for details at 262-0689.

Millbrook Presbyterian

3480 Main Street, Millbrook Theme: Case of the Puzzling Parables When: July 9-13; 6:15-8:15 p.m. Ages: Entering K4 thru 6th grade Call 285-4031 to register.

Montgomery Area Episcopal Churches

Church of the Ascension, 315 Clanton Ave. Theme: Babylon Dates: June 18-21, 8:30 a.m. - noon Ages: Rising K4 through Rising 6th grade For registration, call 263-5529.

Morningview Baptist

125 Calhoun Road Theme: Sky: Everything is Possible with God When: June 18-22, 9 a.m. to Noon Ages: Completed Kindergarten-5th grade Call 272.2304. Call 334.213.7940 today!

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Mountain View Baptist

1025 Rifle Range Rd., Wetumpka Theme: The Amazing Wonders When: June 25-29, Times: 8 a.m.- noon Ages: 4 years old - completed 6th grade Call 334-567-4458.

Mulder UMC

3454 Firetower Road ~ Wetumpka Vacation Family Experience When: June 22-24, 6 – 8 p.m. Join us for a nightly FX and snack supper with our families. Followed by crafts, missions and games for kids AND a 2 night parenting seminar with Mike Darnell for parents. VFX will conclude with a Family Field Day & CookOut, Sunday June 24th. For more info please call 567-4225.

Pilgrim Rest Missionary Baptist

1436 E. Washington Street Theme: No Friend Like Jesus: Get Connected Kickoff will be June 24 from 3-6 at the West Campus. Dates: June 25-29, 6 p.m. to 8:15 p.m. Please call 265-1807.

Redland Baptist

Redland Baptist Church 1266 Dozier Rd, Wetumpka Theme: Soul Survivors: Knowing and Living for Christ Dates: June 10-13, 6 p.m. to 8p.m. Please call 567-8649.

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5260 Vaughn Road Theme: Amazing Wonders: Aviation When: June 10-13, 5:30 to 8:30 p.m. Call 277.0011.

Saint James UMC

9045 Vaughn Road Theme: Sky: Everything is Possible with God When: June 18-20, 9 a.m. to 12 p.m. Call 277-3037.

First Christian Church 1705 Taylor Road Time: June 23-27 from 5:30-8 p.m. Ages 4 years old – 6 grade Call 270-1320.

Taylor Road Baptist

1685 Taylor Road Theme: Amazing Wonders: Aviation When: July 16-20, 8:45 a.m. to Noon Ages: 4 year old through completed 6th grade. Call 271.3363. River Region’s Journey • May 2012

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Thorington Road Baptist

450 Ray Thorington Road Theme: Amazing Wonders: Aviation When: June 10-14; 6:00 p.m. to 8:30 p.m. Ages: 5 yrs. to 5th grade Call 396-9376.

Trinity Presbyterian

1728 S. Hull Street Theme: Christian Olympics When: June 11-15, 9 a.m. to noon. Ages: PreK 4 through completed 6th grade Call 262.3892 to pre-register.

Trinity UMC, Prattville 610 Fairview Avenue, Prattville Theme: Dare to Go Deep with God When: June 10-14, 5:15 – 8:30 p.m. Call 365-7339.

University Church of Christ 5315 Atlanta Hwy Theme: Christian Olympics When: June 24-27; Time: Sunday, 6 p.m. and Monday – Wednesday, 6:30 p.m. Ages: newborn thru 6th grade Adult classes will be available Please call 386-7320 or visit www.ucoc.org.

Vaughn Forest

8660 Vaughn Road Theme: Amazing Wonders: Aviation When: June 11-15; 9 a.m. – 12:15 p.m. Ages: Entering Kindergarten thru entering 6th. Registration online at www.vaughnforest.com or call 279-5433.

Whitfield UMC

2673 Fisk Road Theme: Operation Overboard When: June 24-27, 5:30 to 8 p.m. Ages: 3 years to 6th grade. Call 281-2467.

Woodland UMC

4428 Wallahatchee Rd, Pike Road Theme: Sky: Everything is Possible with God When: June 11-15, 5:30 – 8:30 p.m Ages: 3 years old -6th grade Call 272-7230.

Young Meadows Presbyterian 5780 Vaughn Road Theme: Sports Camp 2012 When: June 11-15, 9 a.m. until noon Ages: Kindergarten -5th grade Call 244-1385.

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A Weak Conscience But food will not commend us to God; we are neither the worse if we do not eat, nor the better if we do eat. But take care lest this liberty of yours somehow become a stumbling block to the weak. For if someone sees you, who have knowledge, dining in an idol’s temple, will not his conscience, if he is weak, be strengthened to eat things sacrificed to idols? For through your knowledge he who is weak is ruined, the brother for whose sake Christ died. And thus, by sinning against the brethren and wounding their conscience when it is weak, you sin against Christ. (1 Corinthians 8:8–12) Paul agreed that eating or not eating food has no spiritual significance in itself.

Neither act will commend us to God. Commend (paristemi) means “to place near, bring beside, present to.” Neither eating or not eating food will bring us closer to God or make us approved by Him. The general point is that doing things not forbidden by God has no significance in our relationship to Him. They are spiritually neutral. Food is an excellent illustration of that fact. Common sense and concern for the bodies God has given us should make us careful about what and how much we eat. Gluttony is harmful and eating foods to which we are allergic is harmful. No sensible, mature person will do those things. But, in itself, eating or not eating certain foods has absolutely no spiritual significance. Jesus made it plain that “there is

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knowledge he who is weak is ruined, the brother for whose sake Christ died. Ruined has the idea of “to come to sin.” We cause that person to sin by leading him into a situation he cannot handle. It is never right to cause another believer to violate his conscience. To do so runs the risk of ruining a brother for whose sake Christ died (cf. Acts 20:28; 1 Pet. 1:18–19). Our Christian liberty must never be used at the expense of a Christian brother or sister who has been redeemed at such a price. The voice of a Christian’s conscience is the instrument of the Holy Spirit. If a believer’s conscience is weak it is because he is spiritually weak and immature, not because the leading of his conscience is weak. Conscience is God’s doorkeeper to keep us out of places where we could be harmed. As we mature, conscience allows us to go more places and to do more things because we will have more spiritual strength and better spiritual judgment. A small child is not allowed to play with sharp tools, to go into the street, or to go where there are dangerous machines or electrical appliances. The restrictions are gradually removed as he grows older and

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Anorexia: Starving Yourself to Death become socially withdrawn and lose interest “My name is Sally. I am fourteen years in the outside world. Isolation from others and old. I used to be a “normal” teenager who negative emotions only exacerbate the cycle of loved to play sports, hang out with friends, starvation. and listen to music. Recently, I have become By now, you might be asking “What in obsessed with the fear of getting fat. I live in the world would motivate someone to engage constant dread of huge hips, thick thighs, and in behavior that will a saggy stomach. While I don’t make them so miserAre You Anorexic? really want to starve myself, Do you feel fat even though people able and might even kill I see no other way to reach them!?” Good question! tell you you’re not? my ideal body weight than to Are you terrified of gaining weight? Motivation, or the heart regulate calories and exercise Do you lie about how much you eat or issues, behind the eating vigorously. I am trapped and hide your eating habits from others? behaviors is where the I don’t know how to stop the Are your friends or family concerned Christian must go in cycle. Most of the time I don’t about your weight loss, eating habits, order to help a person even want to.” with anorexia. We must or appearance? Sally is a fictitious Do you diet, compulsively exercise, ask, “What has captured character, but her story is one or purge when you’re feeling over- the person’s heart or that is all too common among become her functional whelmed or bad about yourself? teenage girls who struggle with god?” The most comDo you feel powerful or in control a condition called “anorexia mon idolatrous desire when you go without food, nervosa.” Anorexia is an intense include: over-exercise, or purge? fear of gaining weight. People Do you base your ability to control the • A desire for a “perfect” struggling with this condition things in your life (to be in control) body image (although relentlessly pursue thinness they have a distorted primary upon your ability to keep and are unwilling to maintain a body image) yourself thin? normal or healthy weight. They • A desire for perfection might achieve this through selfstarvation, highly restrictive eating, continuous • A desire for approval • A desire for control dieting, compulsive exercising, self-induced • A means to deal with emotional pain/stress vomiting, or misusing laxatives, diuretics, or What are some practical steps you can enemas. take if you or someone you know is struggling Anorexia is a very dangerous condition from anorexia? First of all, seek medical attenwhich can lead to death or permanent health tion immediately! Anorexia is life-threatening issues. The abusive bodily behavior can result and a doctor and dietitian should be enlisted in rotting teeth, hair loss, dry skin, muscle to deal with medical and physical issues. Secloss and weakness, reduction of bone density ondly, seek biblical counseling. God’s Spirit, (osteoporosis), stress on the heart leading to Word and the resources He provides through heart failure, and dehydration which can result the local church are sufficient to deal with the in kidney failure. The affects of malnutrition emotional and spiritual issues of those enslaved can also be seen in structural changes and to eating disorders. Biblical counseling should abnormal activity in the brain. This affects the person’s ability to think clearly and make good address the following: 1) The person must understand salvadecisions. Research shows that some of these tion is by grace alone through faith alone in brain changes return to normal after weight the person and work of Jesus Christ. Unless a gain, but some damage may be permanent. person trusts in Christ for salvation, she will Anorexics often struggle with emotional not be able to avail herself to all the resources issues like depression, anxiety, and obsessive God provides to help her change. impulses. Lying and deceit become a normal 2) The person must understand the idolaway for anorexics to continue their harmful trous desires or particular motivations behind behavior—even while others may be trythe destructive thinking and behavior. ing to help them recover. Unresolved guilt 3) The person needs compassion and is another powerful emotion that drives the instruction on how to deal with failure and guilt anorexic. People who have anorexia often River Region’s Journey • May 2012

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through the Gospel (this includes confession, forgiveness, restitution and reconciliation). Initial progress will oftentimes be simply the recognition of failing to please God and the willingness to please Him above all else. 4) The person must learn how to forsake “living by feelings” for “living by faith”. This is especially true in dealing with the fear of gaining weight and the uneasiness associated with both the way one will look at a given weight and eating. Since the anorexic individual has become habituated to his ways of thinking and behaving, developing new normal patterns will “feel” abnormal. 5) The person must change thinking patterns which influence behavior by “putting off” sinful thoughts and inaccurate perceptions and “putting on” biblical (and biblically accurate) patterns of thinking. The person with an eating disorder has spent hours counseling herself about her eating, weight gain, and body image. She must be taught how to counsel herself from the Scriptures. 6) The person needs to determine biblical goals and have practical accountability where needed, (especially for lying and deception which is prevalent with eating disorders). 7) The person needs regular fellowship and service through her local church in order to focus on loving God and her neighbor more than focusing on herself. The insatiable quest for thinness is essentially a “hollow and deceptive philosophy” that will only carry a person away from the Truth of Christ. If you or someone you know has been taken captive by an eating disorder, please seek out help today. The Scriptures are sufficient to tell a person how to deal with the heart issues leading to, and as a result of, an eating disorder. Christ is willing and able to help set you free, so trust in Him and His ways today.

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Chalmers Bryan is one of those volunteers. For the past several years he has arranged his work and travel schedule around the Good News Club he volunteers at in a Montgomery public school. Bryan has not only seen the tremendous impact the Good News Club has on the school where he volunteers, but in his own life as well. “One day I was leading the kids in a game when I felt a pair of arms wrap tight around my leg,” says Bryan. “I looked down to see a small girl with her big brown eyes gazing straight into mine and she said, “I love you, Big Daddy.” It was at that moment I realized there was no place I would rather be investing my time.” Not only do Good News Clubs affect the volunteers and children, but they also do something special in regards to the unity of the Church in the River Region by bringing it together. “CEF brings different people from different denominations together unlike any other organization,” says Parker. “Sharing Jesus is primary and all other things are secondary.” Kelley Parker is a part of leading the Good News Club at Seth Johnson Elementary. She has been volunteering there for six years and has been deeply touched

by the eagerness and attentiveness from several of the children. “For many of these kids, this is their only opportunity to consistently hear about Jesus,” she says. Parker has seen the volatile situations many of them experience in their family life and says her heart goes out to the young boys who are vulnerable to falling prey to the vice plaguing their communities. “They listen,” says Parker. “They want to know about God and how He wants them to live because they see things happening in their communities and understand something isn’t right…we hope that we can just show them that God is in it with them for the long run.” Parker believes there is not a better time than now to focus on implementing the Good News Club into as many schools as possible. “Our strategic short term plan is to be in 40 schools in 4 years,” says Chris Carver, the Director of the Board for CEF in Central Alabama. “It looks like we will begin the 2012 school year reaching half of our goal and that is within the first year and a half.” But in order for this trend to continue, Carver says they need three things.

“We need volunteers and churches to partner with us to make this happen and a budget to follow.” “There are so many schools and thousands of children in the River Region that we could be doing this forever,” says Parker. “It’s a huge undertaking and there will always be children who need to hear God’s word.” CEF of Central Alabama believes as a whole we must always be about God’s work and desire to see the Church come together to make a difference in the lives of the children in our schools and in our neighborhoods. If you or your church is interested in bringing a Good News Club to a public school in the River Region or helping sponsor the work of CEF you can contact CEF of Central Alabama at (334)213-7388 or visit their website at cefcentralalabama. org to learn more. Rachel Fisher loves learning what God is doing in the world and writing about it. Rachel and her husband, Chase, are members of Strong Tower at Washington Park, a church plant of Common Ground Ministries. (Pictured are Rod Thomas, Ahzareiah Stewart, and Karon Phillips from the Seth Johnson Good News Club. Photography by William Frye.)

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Since its beginning over ten years ago, Zits has become one of America’s favorite comic strips. Here’s Jeremy Duncan, a 15-year-old aspiring rock musician, riddled with angst, boredom, and parents who don’t understand anything. Sound familiar? Read on. Jeremy’s room is a train wreck, he’s clueless when it comes to helping around the house, awkward with social graces (what are those?), and is always hungry and broke. Mom and Dad have that stunned “deerin-the-headlights” look about them that screams “HELP!” If you can relate to Jeremy’s parents and have a similar “character” living under your roof, don’t despair—there is hope! Our children are 28, 26, and 12 and with two grandchildren, we’ve experienced countless

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Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy APAC- Alabama Pre/Post Adoption Connection Support Group meets the 3rd Thursday from 6:00-7:30pm in room 8253 at Frazer Memorial UMC. Provides education and social interaction for adoptive families. For more info, call 409-9477 or email apac2@childrensaid.org. Location: Landmark Church, 1800 Halcyon Blvd. Leaders: Chad & Betsy Emerson (334) 201-5241 Wednesday, 6:30pm in Rm. 116. The Orphan Care Group will focus on God’s call to help orphans through adoption, foster care, and missions work. The group will share experiences, study and Biblical themes regarding orphan care, and provide a support and interest network for individuals who want to support orphans.

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Location: Caring Center of FBC, 52 Adams Avenue CrossRoads Support Group is for addicts/alcoholics and family members. Meets at 6 p.m. Tuesdays and follows a Christ-centered 12-step program. Call 264-4949. Location: Centerpoint Fellowship, 2050 Commerce St., Millbrook. We are located one block east of I-65 just off Cobbs Ford Road. Celebrate Recovery meeting every Tuesday night at 6 pm. Call (334) 356-3076. Location: Cloverdale Baptist Church, 608 E. Fairview Celebrate Recovery, a Bible-based Christ centered approach to recovery from hurts, habits and hang-ups, meets Friday nights, beginning with dinner at 5:30 p.m., Praise and worship, 6:30, Open Share Small Groups, 7:30, and Solid Rock Cafe, at 8:30. Call 265-9223. Location: Dalraida UMC, 3817 Atlanta Highway Alcoholics Anonymous meets at 6 p.m. on Tuesdays. 272.2190. Alanon meets at 6 p.m. on Wednesdays. Location: Grace @ Bell Road, Corner of Bell Road and Atlanta Hwy. Alcoholics Anonymous and Alanon meetings are held Monday, Tuesday, Thursday, and Friday, at 6 p.m. An Open AA Speaker meeting is held on Saturday at 6 p.m. An Alanon & AA held on Sundays at 2 p.m. Location: Grace Point Community Church, 78223 Tallassee Hwy (Hwy 14), Wetumpka Celebrate Recovery- every Tuesday night- 6:15pm. All are welcome! These meetings are a safe and loving environment for individuals seeking to conquer their hurts, habits and hang-ups! E-mail www.gracepoint.info. Location: Journey Church, group meets in Fellowship Hall at Coosada Baptist Church, Millbrook Celebrate Recovery - Christ-centered 12-step for anyone struggling with addiction or life-challenging issues. Mondays at 6pm (meal), 7pm (large group), 8pm (small group). Childcare available. Call Chuck at 850-723-9705. Location: Santuck Baptist Church, 7250 Central Plank Rd. (Hwy 9), Wetumpka. Celebrate Recovery meets each Thursday evening at 6:15 in the Fellowship Hall. This is a Chrsit centered 12 step-program for anyone struggling with hurts, habits, and hang-ups. Call 567-2364. Location: Landmark Church, 1800 Halcyon Blvd. RSVP- This is a 12 step spiritual recovery program for overcoming addictions. Using the steps and Bible we help build self-esteem, responsible behavior, the making of amends for our destructive actions, and to fill the void in our hearts in a loving relationship with God. Wednesday nights @ 6:30pm in Rm. 121 of the Life Center. Location: St. James UMC, 9045 Vaughn Road Celebrate Recovery meets every Thursday night from 6-8 pm in the Youth Room. This is a Christ-centered 12-step group for anyone struggling with an “addiction or life-challenging issues.” For information, call Chris Henderson at 334-215-0427.

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Location: Trinity Episcopal, Wetumpka (Across from Winn Dixie on HWY 231) Gamblers Anonymous-Saturdays at 7 p.m.

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Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy A Dementia Daycare is held each Thursday in Rm. 3101 from 9:30 a.m. to 12 p.m. Each participant may bring a sack lunch. There is no charge. REGISTRATION IS REQUIRED. For info, call the LifeCare office at 272-8622.

Location: Dalraida Baptist, 3838 Wares Ferry Road. Just for Men -- Montgomery’s first and only faith based cancer support group for men is intent on providing information, Christian fellowship, and helping turn adversity into prosperity. Meetings are held the third Tuesday of each month at 6 p.m. in the fellowship hall. Please call 272-2412 email cancerpatient@bellsouth.net. Location: ChristChurch, 8800 Vaughn Road Cancer Support Group for general cancer. Tuesday afternoons at 1 pm. For more info, please call Christy Holding at 531-1390 or Debbie Diemayer at 467-4578. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Women of Hope Breast Cancer Support Group, providing education, awareness, and mentoring for breast cancer patients/survivors, family, friends or anyone interested in becoming a part of this compassionate journey, meets the 2nd Tuesday of each month at 5:30 p.m. in Rm 8253. Call 272-8622 or womenofhope@charter.net.

Caregiver

Location: Aldersgate UMC, 6610 Vaughn Road Caregiver’s Support Group – Meets monthly on third Wednesday 1:00 – 2:30 p.m. Caring for an elderly or terminally ill patient can be challenging and, at times, overwhelming. A support group provides a safe place to express your concerns and fears and find help and strength to care for your loved one. The group is open to the community. Call Aldersgate UMC 272-6152.

Depression

Location: Landmark Church, 1800 Halcyon Blvd. Leaders: Mike & Suzanne Greene (334-271-3331) Every other Tuesday, 6:30pm in Rm. 117. Goal is to create an atmosphere of acceptance and trust, where people can feel free and safe to discuss their feelings and thoughts without shame or embarrassment. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy A Depression/Bipolar Support Group meets on the 1st Thursday of each month from 7:00-8:30pm in Room 3101. This group also meets on the 3rd Saturday afternoon, 12-2 pm, Dalraida UMC, 3817 Atlanta Highway in Church Annex. For more info, call 334.652.1431 or email dbsamontgomery@yahoo.com. 36

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Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy An Alzheimer’s and Dementia Caregivers’ Support Group meets on the first Thursday of each month at 11 a.m. in Room 3103. Call 272.8622.

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Location: Aldersgate UMC, 6610 Vaughn Alzheimer’s Support Group – Meets monthly on second Tuesday 6:00 – 7:30 p.m. This support group is for those caring for a loved one with Alzheimer or other forms of dementia. Each session provides information about the disease and community services available to help you. The group is open to the community. Call 272-6152.

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Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy A Divorce Recovery Support Group meets each Tuesday, at 5:30 p.m., in Fellowship Hall Lobby. 272-8622.

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Location: First UMC, 100 E. Fourth Street, Prattville Divorce Recovery meets Wednesdays at 6:15 p.m., Bldg. 101. Call 365.5977.

Location: Heritage Baptist Church, 1849 Perry Hill Divorce Care Support Group meetings are held Sundays at 6:15 p.m. Divorce Care for Children also at this time. Call 279.9976. Grief Share groups are held each Sunday at 5 p.m. Call 279.9976. Location: Vaughn Park Church, 3800 Vaughn Road A Divorce Recovery group meets on Wednesday nights, from 7 to 8 p.m. Children’s classes available. Call 386-7295.

Financial

Location: Landmark Church, 1800 Halcyon Blvd. Leaders: Rick Howard (334)399-7223, George Chapman (334)546-2364, Bo Johns (334)398-3185. Wednesday, 6:30pm in Rm. 203. Need some Biblical advice and guidance in handling your finances? Dave Ramsey’s Financial Peace University material will serve as resource material for this group.

Grief

Location: Aldersgate UMC, 6610 Vaughn Road Bereavement Support Group – Meets quarterly – six week classes that meet on Thursdays 11:30 – 1:00 p.m. Free meal is provided by our church women. Group is led by a professional grief counselor and is open to the community. For dates, call Aldersgate UMC 272-6152. Location: First UMC, 100 E. Fourth Street, Prattville Grief Recovery, Thursday nights at 7 p.m., in Wesley Hall Room 104. Call 365.5977. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Grief Recovery Support Group meets Tuesdays at 5:30 p.m., Rm 3105, in Fellowship Hall Lobby. 272.8622. Location: Pilgrim Rest Missionary Baptist Church 1550 E. Washington Street Grief Ministry is a grief recovery support group that meets every Monday at 6:00 P.M. The ministry is designed to help anyone through the hurt of losing a loved one by successfully traveling the journey from mourning to joy. Alicia Glover is the coordinator. For more information contact Glover at 334-281-2754. Location: St. Mark UMC, 1785 Taylor Road Grieving With Hope is a grief support group meeting For Advertising Information:

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Tuesdays weekly at from 1:00 - 2:00 pm. The group will offer a place to share, care and heal from the losses of life. The group is facilitated by Dr. Lennie Howard and Marie Parma. Contact the church at 272-0009.

Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy A Fibromyaligia Support Group meets the 3rd Tuesday of each month from 6-8pm in room 8114. Call 272-8622.

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Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy An MDA/ALS Support Group will meet Tuesday August 10 6:00p.m. – 8:00 p.m. in room 3101. Anyone who is affected by a neuromuscular disease or family members of those affected are encouraged to attend. To receive further information, please call 396-4534.

Mental Illness

Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy A Parkinson’s Support Group will meet the 3rd Thursday at 6:30 p.m., in room 8114 at Frazer UMC. This group is for those who have Parkinson’s disease and the family members. 272-8622.

Location: Landmark Church, 1800 Halcyon Blvd. The Barnabas Group, created to address the needs of those in conflict with homosexual thoughts and feelings meets first, third and fifth Tuesday evenings at 6:30 p.m., in the library at the Life Center. 277.5800. Location: Dalraida UMC, 3817 Atlanta Highway AMI (Alliance for the Mentally Ill Support Group) meets on first and third Mondays at 6:30 p.m. Montgomery Share Group for the recovering mentally ill meets at the Dalraida UMC annex (3775 Atlanta Highway), 1st and 3rd Mondays, at 6:30 p.m. Call 265.2804

Physical Challenges

Location: Aldersgate UMC, 6610 Vaughn Road Visually Impaired Support Group – Meets monthly on second Thursday 1:00 – 2:30 p.m. The group is called Outward Sight - Inward Vision and is for those with vision loss and their caregivers. Our mission is to assist those experiencing vision loss to maintain their independence by providing access to valuable information and spiritual support. Call Aldersgate UMC 272-6152. Location: Cloverdale School Bldg. (First UMC) Parkinson’s Support Group of Montgomery meets the fourth Sunday of the month in Room 103 at 2:00pm. More information, contact Nathan Attwood at First United Methodist Church (334-834-8990). Location: First UMC Montgomery, 2416 W. Cloverdale Montgomery Hearing Loss Support Group meets every second Thursday in Wesley Hall at 4 pm. The entrance is on Park Avenue. Informative speakers are present, refreshments are served and no reservations are required. The public is welcome.

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Location: Landmark Church, 1800 Halcyon Blvd. Leaders: Junior Bagwell (334)669-9334, John Stewart Meets every 2nd Tuesday of each month at 345 Melanie Drive, in Carol Villa. Our goal is to share and use the struggles that we as a group are facing, biblical principals, prayer, medical experts or any other resources available to help us deal with the life-long challenges that are caused by the various diseases that we have encountered. Location: Taylor Road Baptist Church, 1785 Taylor Rd. Gluten Intolerance Group of Montgomery assists with awareness of diverse potential symptoms, which can range from fatigue and headaches to nausea and intestinal problems. Most months the group meets on the 4th Thursday from 6-7 p.m. at Taylor Road Baptist Church. The holiday schedule as well as directions and other information are available at http://gfmontgomery. blogspot.com or you can request information by sending an email to dr.hetrick@charter.net.

Location: St. James UMC, 9045 Vaughn Road Renewed Hope - Infertility/Pregnancy Loss Support Group for Women. Meets quarterly, with the next meeting July 19th, 6pm at Panera in EastChase. Please email Tina Holmes at tkholmes@hotmail.com or call 277-5771.

Singlehood

Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Singles’ Small Groups meet each Tuesday at 5:30 p.m. in the Fellowship Hall Lobby. For info, call 272-8622. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy T.N.T. (Tuesday Night Together) for Singles meets Tuesdays from 7-8 p.m. in the Fellowship Hall, bldg. 7000. A meal ($5.00) and program are provided. For reservations, call the Singles office at 272-8622. Location: Cornerstone Christian, 301 Dalraida Rd. Unavoidably Single Again (USA) Fellowship, a support group for widows and widowers. This is not a substitute for grief recovery classes, but offers the next step beyond them for those who need to find a ‘new’ normal for their lives after the death of a spouse. Informal meetings for fellowship and fun are held on the third Saturday of each month starting at 10 AM. Contact Lynda at farauthor@aol.com or 354-8869.

Veterans

Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Veterans OEF/OIF Caregivers Support Group meets on the 3rd Wednesday from 11am-1pm in Room 3108. This group provides support and understanding to those caring for OEF/OIF Veterans. For more information, contact Joy Germanos, LCSW, PIP, Caregiver Support Coordinator at CAVHCS (334) 725-2542.

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Got Life?

by Elaine Britt

Got Pride? Let him who boasts boast in the Lord. (2Corinthians 10:17) May I never boast except in the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ. (Galatians 6:14) Had any spirited conversations lately? Surrounded by an overripe political atmosphere, potential abounds for discussions that we prefer to avoid! Participation in adult conversation also opens the door to talk of children- ‘my kids…’ to be exact. Given all potential themes, the activities and antics of our kids is one that has a life of its own, weaving its way into a great percentage of our dialogue…and if there was ever a topic that entices even the humble among us to boast… From my kids’ early childhood and still today with them in college, I have eagerly listened to what others have to offer regarding their kids. This is far from a personal pat-on-the-back. Besides being interested in what other kids are doing, my ear is pealed, (selfishly), for hints, clues, and parenting advice. If someone has handled a situation wisely that I might face with my kids, why not mentally catalogue that information for future use? Amid these times of sharing, a common thread has emerged. As ‘kid’ conversations wind down, I will sometimes hear, “It sounds like you have really done a good job!” Perhaps a personal quirk, this response evokes in me a reply of, “NO – it is nothing I did. Any good that is there was ‘wired in’ by God or is present because the Lord led me in raising them.” This is meant with all sincerity, but it elicits a negative retort resembling, “No, you raised them and your hard work shows.” While appreciating the kudos, I depart deflated in spirit because, as Scripture clearly teaches that, Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father… (Hebrews 1:17). Any ‘good’ in our children or in any area of life comes from the Lord. Even Jesus, River Region’s Journey • May 2012

when addressed as ‘Good teacher’ by the rich young man, replied, Why do you call me good? ...No one is good-except God alone. (Mark 10:18) Being prideful necessitates holding ourselves in higher esteem than we hold others. It involves elevating something in our lives to a point that it overshadows someone else. Watchman Nee, Chinese Christian martyr, offers, “An ordinary person needs only to have his flesh dealt with. But a pretentious person must not only have his flesh dealt with; there must also be a dealing with the shell of falsehood that he has added.” Adding to and elevating our image in the eyes of others fabricates a façade, a ‘shell’ as Mr. Nee so eloquently asserted. Once this false front is in place, it requires persistence to even maintain one’s equilibrium while trying to remain at this heightened level. One underlying reason for pride is our need for control. As human beings, we all want to have the last word. How many times have we wished, upon later reflection, that we had stopped talking sooner than we did? Haven’t we longed to take back hurtful words said in pride in the heat of the moment? Whether we call it control or authority, why do we yearn to possess it? Once again Watchman Nee provides words of wisdom: “Many times when we sense the need for power, what we really need is authority. And the more we know God, the more we will have of His authority to use, and the less we will have the need for power.” Ready for a challenge? In Matthew 7:12, Jesus declares, So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets. When you feel tensions mounting, back up mentally and think, ‘if I had a choice, what would I ask this person to do for me?’ Would you ask them to listen to your opinion? To see things from your point of view? Are you thinking, ‘if they would only…’ Whatev38

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er you are thinking… stop, breathe, and do it for the other person. Ouch! How many potentially damaging scenarios would be diffused if we incorporated this thought process? A valid question at this juncture is, why do we pursue power and crave authority when God offers peace and rest? With power and authority comes grave responsibility and extended accountability. If these means are sought after and achieved with personal gain being the goal, the rewards will ultimately be fleeting and empty. If, however, in seeking God’s will for our life we find ourselves in positions of authority, there will be a sense of peace surrounding every situation because we will be more concerned for those in our charge than for ourselves. Beth Moore sums it up with her words, “If you know who you are in Christ, your personal ego is not an issue.” As the opening Scriptures indicate, our reason to boast is in our Lord Jesus Christ. All authority is his, and we find power and peace when following him regardless of our position. Proverbs 16:18 advises that, Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall. Let us cast aside all self-seeking and rejoice, revel, and rest in God.

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AGLOW International meets every third Thursday, 9:30 at the Montgomery House of Prayer. All women welcome to join together for praise, prayer and an anointed message. Contact mboudousquie@yahoo.com. Beacon Light Ministries, Food Ministry is open on the 2nd and 4th Wednesday, 5:30-6:45 p.m. Please bring I. D. and Proof of Government Assistance. Capitol Heights UMC, 2000 Winona Ave., Montgomery offers Parenting Classes beginning at 7:00 p.m. on Thursdays. 264-2464. Christchurch, 8800 Vaughn Road, Montgomery, offers a Women’s Enrichment Bible Study led by Jeanne Dean on Thursdays, 9:30-11:30 a.m., in Canterbury Hall. All women are welcome. Childcare for ages birth-4 years is provided. Call 387-0566 x 201 for more info. Christchurch offers a men’s Bible study led by Fr. John-Michael van Dyke, on Thursday mornings on the 11th floor of

Goode Medical Bldg, Jackson Hospital. Breakfast is served beginning at 6:45 a.m. and teaching begins at 7:15 a.m. Call 3870566 x 201. Church of the Highlands meets each Sunday at 9:30 a.m. and 11:30 a.m. downtown Montgomery in the MPAC theater located in the Renaissance Hotel, 201 Tallapoosa Street. Visit churchofthehighlands. com or call 1-205-980-5577. Chisholm Baptist Church, 2938 Lower Wetumpka Road, Montgomery, holds Sunday morning Bible study (9:30), Morning worship (10:45), Tuesday prayer breakfast (8:30) Wednesday evening prayer service (6 pm) and Senior Body and Soul Group (every 1st Tuesday at 1 pm). Email jbass9784@charter.net or call 262-6437. Dexter Avenue UMC, 301 Dexter Avenue, offers a Friday Christian Night Club with Ballroom Dancing every Friday at 6:30 P.M. Cost is $5 for a one hour lesson, devotional, and 3 hours of DJ music. People of all denominations are welcome.

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First Presbyterian Church, 9299 Vaughn Road, hosts Family Night every Wednesday beginning at 5:20 p.m. with supper, followed by a study on prayer. Everyone is welcome. For more information call (279-1372). First Presbyterian Church, 9299 Vaughn Road, hosts a Men’s Prayer Breakfast every Friday morning, 6 a.m. The Youth of First United Methodist Church, Montgomery every Wednesday night at 7:00 p.m. for Wednesday Night Live, a time of praise and worship in “the attic”. Also, every Sunday night at 6:00 p.m. is MYF which includes a snack supper $3.00 followed by activities, small groups and lots of fun! Visit www. fumcmontgomery.org or call 334-8348990. First United Methodist Church will host Terrific Tuesdays. Please come and join us for fellowship, a program and lunch. Terrific Tuesdays will meet each Tuesday in room 204 of Wesley Hall. Fellowship time will begin at 10:00 a.m. followed by

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Community Calendar Christian Community Calendar Christian a program at 10:30 a.m. and lunch at 11:30 a.m. The cost of lunch is $2.00. Every fourth Tuesday the time will extend until 3:00 p.m. for bridge, games, and other activities in room 203 in Wesley Hall. For additional information please contact NeeNee Webb at 834-8990. Good News @ Noon is an interdenominational Bible study, held at the First Baptist Community Ministries Building on Adams Street, Thursdays, at noon. Small cost for hot lunch. Call 272.1133. Hall Memorial CME Church, 541 Seibles Road, Montgomery, offers Bible Study Tuesdays at 5:30 P.M. and Wednesdays at 6: 30 P.M. For directions or information call 334-288-0577. Email HallMemorialCME1@aol.com or visit www.HallMemorialCME.blogspot.com. iConnect.coffeehouse provides a place for women to experience meaningful fellowship with women seeking genuine connection. Meetings will be held in the Atrium at Frazer UMC 3rd Tuesdays from 9-11 a.m. For more info, call Frazer’s Women’s Ministry at 495-6391. Messiah Lutheran Church, 6670 Vaughn Road, invites all to Wonderful Wednesdays starting with a $3.00 meal at 5:30 pm (RSVP 277-4213 by Monday noon), worship with eucharist 6:157:00 pm, and adult choir rehearsal and Catechism class for 7th-9th graders at 7:00 pm. Please call for Wednesday schedule due to seasonal breaks. For information, call 277-4213. Mt. Gillard Missionary Baptist Church, 3323 Day Street, holds Wednesday Bible Study in the church Fellowship Hall and lasts for one hour. Please come and participate in roaming the Bible learning God’s word through teaching. The Rev. Henry M. Carnegie, Jr. is the teacher and pastor. Mid-day Bible Study begins each Wednesday at 11:30 a.m. Evening Bible Study begins each Wednesday at 7:00 p.m. Call 233-8750. New Freedom Worship Center, 6004 –A East Shirley Lane, Apostle T. Briggs~ Pastor; Sunday Worship Service 10:30 a.m. and Wednesday Night Bible Study 7:30 p.m. Open Door Christian Faith Church, 1601 Dewey St. Montgomery, offers River Region’s Journey • May 2012

Women’s Prayer Mondays at 5:00, Men’s prayer Wednesday at 5:00, followed by bible study at 6:00. Couples ministry held every 1st Wednesday of the month at 7:00. Pastor William Cromblin, and the Open Door Church family invites you to “come experience the move of God. For more info, call the church at 334-269-6498. Perry Hill UMC, 910 Perry Hill Rd, sponsors a Bluegrass Jam in the Church Fellowship Hall on the third Saturday of each month from 9AM - 12AM. All Bluegrass Artist plus Fans are invited to attend. Attendance is FREE. For information call Kathy Morrow@ 272-3174. Perry Hill UMC, 910 Perry Hill Rd, hosts a Wednesday Night Supper and Revive! program each week from 5:30pm til 7:00pm. Reservations are required by noon on the Monday prior to the supper. Cost is $4 per person or $12 per family. Call 334-272-3174 for more information or to make reservations. The River of Life Church, 116 County Road 40 East (Pine Level Community Center) Prattville. You are invited to “A Place of New Beginnings. Services are held each Sunday: Early Worship 9:15 a.m.; Sunday School 10:30 a.m.; Worship Service 11:00 a.m.; Evening Worship 5:00 p.m.; Wednesday: Adult Bible Study 6:00 p.m.; Teens, “The Genesis Project” 6:00 p.m.: Royal Rangers, Stars & Prims 6:00 p.m. Nursery provided. Pastor Nick Edwards invites you to “come experience God in a personal way, feel loved by all and know that you belong”. Call 334-6570392 or visit www.theriveroflifechurch. net. Saint James UMC, 9045 Vaughn Road, offers S.N.A.G. (Sunday Nights About God!) This program starts at 5:00p.m. and ends at 6:30p.m. Childcare is provided for small groups until 7:00p.m. Don’t forget this program is available for all children! S-STOP, a commUNITY Bible study for Singles. Souls Strengthened Together for One Purpose. Psalm 46:10 “BE STILL and know that I am God.” Meets at Prattville Christian Academy on Sunday nights at 6 p.m. For info email sstop04@ gmail.com. Saint James UMC, 9045 Vaughn Road, offers Wild & Wacky Wednesdays! Wednesday night supper starts at 5:15p.m. 40

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We will start checking children in at 6:00p.m. This program ends at 7:30p.m. and childcare is provided until 8:00p.m. for small group participants. Call 277.3037 for more info. St. Mark UMC, holds a Men’s Bible Study every Friday morning at 6:30 a.m., at the Arby’s at EastChase. Call 272.0009. Saint Paul African Methodist Episcopal Church, 706 E. Patton Avenue, “Clothes Closet” is open to the public each Thursday morning from 10 a.m. – Noon. The Men of Saint Paul host a free Men’s Prayer Breakfast the Third Saturday of each month at 8 a.m. in the Church Fellowship Hall. The Men’s Prayer Breakfast is open to all men of all ages. Come and share your concerns and needs of our Men of today. For more information, please contact (334) 354-1897. Bible Study is held each Wednesday, 6-7 p.m. in the Fellowship Hall. Pastor Farrell J. Duncombe is the teacher and Senior Pastor of the church. Come and join us for Sunday School each Sunday at 9 a.m. and Morning Worship at 10 a.m. Need transportation, call (334) 264-7618. For info call 286.8577 or www. saintpaulamemontgomery.com. Women at The Well Ministry meet at Remnant Worship Center on Endover Street off of Court Street behind the Feed and Seed Store at 1:00pm every 1st and 3rd Saturday. We are women who desire and have a heart to see broken, crushed, hurting women be transformed through the one man who can fulfill their every need... JESUS...THE POTTER. All women of all denominations are welcome to come and share the Word of God together....to encourage, and build one another up through the words of our testimonies. Evangelist Linda McCall, 334-220-1924 for more info.

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Calendar movie A Walk to Remember. Their seventh studio album, Hello Hurricane, received a Grammy award in 2011 for Best Rock Gospel Album. All tickets are $16 and are general admission. Tickets may be purchased at: https://www.ticketreturn.com/prod2/team. asp?SponsorID=4517. For information, call (205) 726-2276. Shoal Creek Baptist Church, 13214 Holtville Rd. (Al. Hwy111), in Deatsville will host a National Day of Prayer Gathering in the Music Room 12:00 NOON until 7:00 P.M. Light refreshments provided in the library after a time of prayer.

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The 22nd Annual BBQ will be helping Frazer UMC send students to the Dominican Republic, Atlanta, Haiti and Ethiopia. You can do your part by purchasing your tickets for only $8 a plate or $5 a sandwich bag. The BBQ will run from 10 a.m.-2 p.m., and you can dine in the Fellowship Hall or pick up your BBQ to go. We will once again make free deliveries to businesses wanting to treat their employees. Contact the Student Ministry office at 495-6409 for details. Also, Singles Missions Flea Market: Participate in one of three ways, all of which go to help Singles participate in missions: 1. Come shop from 7 to 1 the day of the BBQ and find a bargain; 2. Donate your stuff; bring it by the Singles office, or we’ll pick it up! 3. Rent a booth-15x20 space for $20. For donations or rentals call 495.6390. Hunter Station Baptist Church - 4700 Birmingham Highway - Montgomery, will host a Gospel Concert at 6:00 PM. - Featuring from Phenix City, Al. - Bobby Ellis and The Country Gospel Band. Also appearing - from Prattville, Al. - Calvary’s Call. A love offering will be accepted. Afterward there will be lots of food and fellowship - No Charge! For additional information contact Billy Evans at 334-398-3650. Sav-A-Life’s Walk For Life, an annual fund raiser sponsored by Sav-A-Life, will be held at the Montgomery Zoo. This is an activity the whole family can enjoy! To participate in the walk as a sponsor, you may register online at www.savalifemtg.org, or you may pick up your form at the Sav-A-Life office, 380 Mendel Parkway. Pre-registration is encouraged. Sign-in time is 8:30am and the walk begins

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Calendar at 9:00. Please feel free to call Sav-A-Life at 260-8010 for any questions you may have.

Sunday, May 6

Grace Episcopal Church will host An English Country Afternoon from 4 to 6 p.m. in the beautiful gardens of the church. The event is open to the public. Guests are cordially invited to indulge in a variety of traditional teatime treats sweetened with Southern style. Activities and entertainment will feature something for the whole family: the Montgomery Youth Chorale, the Madrigal Voices of Montgomery and the Dresden String Trio; a Scottish Bagpiper; a Maypole dance by the children of Grace; clowns from The Eastern Hills Baptist Church Clown Ministry; games; and the Grace Gift & Garden Shoppe. Tickets will be available at the front gate on the day of the event: $25 Family; $10 Individuals; and $5 Students. Children under 5 FREE. For additional information, call 215-1422 or e-mail office@gracechurchmtmeigs.org. Grace is located at 906 Pike Rd. To get there from Montgomery, take Vaughn Rd. to Pike Rd. Turn left (north) on Pike Rd. The church is approximately 1/2 mile down Pike Rd. on the left.

Friday, May 11

Come worship Jesus with The King’s Praise Ballet! “Unchanging” which will be presented at 7 PM and Saturday, May 12th at 4 PM. Each dance will extol a different attribute of God, from His goodness to His unending grace. Admission is free, so come to Hunter Hills Church in Prattville and join us in celebrating our Savior! Go to www.KingsPraiseBallet.com or call (334) 285-7357.

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Join the Shine Your Light ministry for a special time of worship at Frazer United Methodist Church, 6000 Atlanta Highway, at 6pm. Men and women are encouraged to attend as Kim Hendrix shares the message “Rescue Me”--How the ultimate rescue team is always at work in our lives, saving us and using us. Childcare is provided and fellowship will follow in the atrium. The service will take place in the Sanctuary. For more information, please call 272.8622. Please send your calendar events to deanne@ readjourneymagazine.com by the 12th of the month for FREE print. For Advertising Information:

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Movie Reviews Reviews provided by MovieGuide: A Family Guide to Movies and Entertainment Ratings are based on production quality and moral acceptability. See details below. ***Reviews do not necessarily reflect views of the publishers of Montgomery’s Journey.

Monumental: In Search of America’s National Treasure

Touchback Quality: *** Moral Acceptability: -1 (Caution) Starring: Brian Presley, Melanie , Kurt Russell, Christine Lahti, Marc Blucas, Drew Powell, James Duvall Genre: Drama Audience: Teenagers and adults Rating: PG-13 Content: 25 mostly light obscenities (mostly “h” words but about four or five “d” words), one strong profanity mentioning the Savior’s first name, three light exclamatory profanities, and a couple light vulgarities; football players injures his leg, man hits a broken machine in anger, and man tries to commit suicide by stuffing his truck’s tailpipe; some light innuendo such as a vague invitation to make out that’s rejected; no nudity but a nude skinny dipping scene occurs, yet nothing salacious is really shown; beer drinking; and, lying to avoid telling bad news, teenage girl calls another student a dork, and talk about jock protagonist’s mean pranks against nerds and the band room but he gets a chance to make amends for those bad actions. TOUCHBACK is an absorbing, compelling sports drama. The story focuses on Scott Murphy, a farmer and part-time firefighter in Coldwater, Ohio. In high school, Scott was on the brink of getting a major football scholarship from Ohio State. However, he badly injured his knee scoring the winning touchdown in the state championship against a much bigger high school team from Cleveland. Fifteen years later, Scott is struggling to make his farm work and to feed his wife, Macy, and their two young daughters. A series of setbacks gives Scott a chance to change history. However, if he changes history, he might just lose his future wife, Macy. Scott has some choices to make. TOUCHBACK is well shot, edited, and directed, with excellent acting by the whole cast. There are a couple minor plot problems, however. There’s also a lot of light foul language in TOUCHBACK. Finally, there’s a somewhat comical scene featuring nude skinny-dipping at night and some light innuendo. That said, TOUCHBACK imparts some strong, morally uplifting life lessons. Overall, therefore, MOVIEGUIDE® advises caution for older children.

Quality: *** Moral Acceptability: +4 (Exemplary) Starring: Kirk Cameron, David Barton, Marshall Foster Genre: Documentary Audience: All ages Rating: Not Rated Content: Very strong Christian, ProAmerican and patriotic, moral worldview about the search for the values that made America great; no foul language; no violence; no sex; no nudity; no alcohol; no smoking or drugs; and, nothing else objectionable. MONUMENTAL: IN SEARCH OF AMERICA’S NATIONAL TREASURE is an ambitious documentary about actor Kirk Cameron’s quest to understand why America is falling apart and what made it such a great country in the first place. He’s asking these questions because he has young children and wants them to have a better future. Kirk’s search for answers takes him to England to find out more about the Pilgrims, who created the first representative government when they landed in Plymouth. Massachusetts. Using interviews with historians and experts such as Marshall Foster and David Barton, he finds out more and more about the Christian roots of the American experiment. MONUMENTAL is a very important movie. It not only reveals the truth about America’s past, but it also sets the record straight on much of the misinformation and disinformation that’s crept its way into our popular culture. The movie’s content is excellent and very clean. The documentary realization of it could have been better, however. Sometimes the shots are too distant. Everyone looks too earnest. Finally, there’s very little done to involve the audience in the story. That said, MONUMENTAL is highly commended for the excellence of the information it communicates. Marshall Foster does a wonderful job telling historical stories. David Barton does a great job of exposing the lies of the left.

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