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Feature Articles
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Publisher’s Note
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Jason Watson
Faith @ Work
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Willa Carpenter is the Human Resources Liaison at Beasley Allen Law Firm in Montgomery. Read how she got her start, how her position has evolved over the years, and how she is using her God-given gifts to glorify Him and serve others.
Pastor's Perspective Pastor Mike Green, Ridgecrest Baptist Church
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Pondering the Journey Sam Whatley
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With All Your Mind Matt Jordan, Ph.D.
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Shine
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Kim Hendrix
Bouncing Back From Setbacks
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The Intersection Bob Crittenden
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by Victor M. Parachin We all face difficulties, and even tragedies, in our lives. God doesn’t want us to stay defeated, but to grow and learn from these events. Find six practical ways that can really help!
Counselor’s Corner Nancy Thomas, LPC
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Dave $ays Dave Ramsey
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Family Teams for Christ Lisa and Mike Conn
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Xtreme Outdoors Ministry
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In Every Issue page 6
Books to Read page 8
Around Our Community page 22
Support Groups page 32
Event Calendar page 36
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Our Mission... We believe the Good News concerning the life, death and resurrection of Jesus Christ is worth sharing with our friends and neighbors in the River Region. Each month we deliver this life-changing message to the centers of activity across our community in a user-friendly and relevant way to empower and equip all those seeking to grow closer to God. Join us in this mission by sharing a copy with your neighbor or by becoming an advertising partner starting next month.
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From the Publisher We started this month off seeing the temperatures dip into the thirties overnight. That crisp air is a reminder of a variety of things, depending on the person, but for many of us the cooler weather leads us outdoors. Whether camping, hiking or just a Sunday stroll at the park, God’s beautiful creation is easier to enjoy when temperatures aren’t around 100 degrees. I know one group in particular is excited about November - hunters! As deer season opens in full swing we wanted to spotlight a unique and timely ministry in the area, Xtreme Outdoors Ministries. Brothers Tyler and Trent Hill launched Xtreme Outdoors in 2011 in order to serve others through God’s creation. Once you read their story you’ll see how God is using their passion to bless others in a multitude of ways. If you have an outdoors man, woman or child in your home, make sure they read about this special ministry on page 24. They’ll even learn how to get involved! Also in this month’s issue, we want you to meet a wonderful woman, Mrs. Willa Carpenter. She’s this month’s Faith @ Work spotlight. It’s a rare treat to meet someone who has developed such a gift and heart to truly serve others. I’d heard this about Willa, when someone suggested we interview her, but when I met her it was undeniable. Willa is the Human Resources Liaison at Beasley Allen Law Firm...a position created just for her special talents. Turn to page 14 to read about a woman who is blessing others for God’s glory! Have you ever been guilty of painting your life and faith as rosy when it was anything but? Sadly, even though becoming a Christian means admitting you’re broken, once we receive salvation many of us feel like we need to make everyone believe we’re now as holy as Christ. Yes, He has washed us white as snow and given us a new spirit that enables us to say yes to holiness, but our old nature still makes life miserable sometimes. Not to mention the fallen world we still walk through on our way home to be with the Lord. When life isn’t rosy, what do you do? There are many options, but writer and pastor Victor Parachin shares six wise and practical ways to Bounce Back From A Set Back. Don’t remain down. God is with you and can help you get back on track. Finally, we can’t have a November issue without mentioning Thanksgiving. It’s nice to have a day that slows us all down enough to count our blessings. Among the things I’m thankful for are you, our readers, plus our advertisers and all the businesses that are our distribution spots. It is a pleasure for our staff to serve you and equip you with the Good News we share each month. By your phone calls and emails we know Journey is touching lives throughout the River Region. Thank you for your part, and as you celebrate Thanksgiving, and Christmas soon after, please always look to our advertisers first since we couldn’t publish without them.
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Give Thanks for God’s Amazing Grace “I always thank my God for you because of His grace given you in Christ Jesus. For in Him you have been enriched in every way…” (1 Corinthians 1:4-5, NIV) John Newton’s famous hymn, Amazing Grace, has been called “The National Anthem of the Church.” It is probably the most popular song of all the hymns. “Amazing grace! How sweet the sound, that saved a wretch like me; I once was lost, but now I am found, I was blind but now I see.” (1st Stanza) Someone might ask, “What’s so amazing about grace?” Well, let’s see what the Bible says in answer to that question. The Old and New Testament word for grace is defined as “the gracious acceptance or favor of God.” It could best be described as the “undeserved, unmerited favor of God toward
mankind.” 1 Peter 5:10 speaks of, “the God of all grace.” Psalm 84:11 tells us that, “God gives grace.” John 1:16-17 says, “Grace comes by Jesus Christ.” God’s grace is described as “great” (Acts 4:33), “abundant” (Romans 5:20), “sovereign” (Romans 5:21), “all-sufficient” (2 Corinthians 12:9), “glorious” (Ephesians 1:6), and “rich” (Ephesians 2:7). We are able to “believe” by grace (Acts 18:27). We are “justified” by grace (Romans 3:24). We are “chosen” by grace (Romans 11:5, 6). We are “called” by grace (Galatians 1:15). We are “forgiven” by grace (Ephesians 1:7). We have “hope” because of grace (2 Thessalonians 2:16). The word can be summed up in this acronym, G-R-A-C-E. Each letter says something about the wonderful grace of God.
G is for “Gift;” the gift of God’s Son, Jesus Christ (John 3:16; Romans 5:15). R is for “Redemption,” the blessing of salvation that we do not deserve (Ephesians 1:7). A is for “Accepted;” by this grace we can become a member of the family of God (Ephesians 1:5-6). C is for “Compassion;” God’s unmerited favor is available to everyone (Ephesians 4:7; Titus 2:11). E is for “Eternal Life;” only by His grace can we receive it through Jesus Christ (Ephesians 2:6-7). Julia H. Johnston also wrote a great hymn about God’s grace titled, “Grace Greater Than Our Sin.” The inspiring words of the final stanza followed by the chorus proclaim God’s great
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grace! “Marvelous, infinite, matchless grace, freely bestowed on all who believe; All who are longing to see His face, will you this moment His grace receive? Grace, grace, God’s grace, grace that will pardon and cleanse within; Grace, grace, God’s grace, grace that is greater than all our sin.” The Apostle Paul expressed how his life had been transformed by the grace of God, “I thank Christ Jesus our Lord, who gave me strength, because he trusted me and gave me this work of serving him. In the past I spoke against Christ and persecuted him and did all kinds of things to hurt him. But God showed me mercy, because I did not know what I was doing. I did not believe. But the grace of our Lord was fully given to me, and with that grace came the faith and love that are in Christ Jesus. What I say is true, and you should fully accept it: Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners, of whom I am the worst.” (1 Timothy 1:12-15, NCV) “For I am the least of the apostles, unworthy to be called an apostle, because I persecuted the church of God. But by the grace of God I am what I am, and his grace toward me was not in vain…” (1 Corinthians 15:9-10, ESV) The free gift of salvation is available to us today because of God’s great and marvelous grace! “For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, not of works, lest anyone should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9, NKJV) To have the undeserved opportunity to come before Almighty God and ask for His forgiveness of our sins, and then freely receive His mercy and forgiveness is truly “amazing.” God calls it grace. Now that’s really something to be thankful for! Mike Green serves as Pastor of Ridgecrest Baptist Church located at 5260 Vaughn Road in Montgomery. Join us for Sunday worship at 10:45 AM or view our worship service on the Frazer Network each Wednesday at 5:00 PM. Visit our website at www.rbcmontgomery.com.
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Women of the Word by Jen Wilkin
Once bitten, twice shy. That pretty much describes my response to most major marketing campaigns by Christian publishers. So often I’ve found that the best books are the ones that appear with the least fuss, and that the ones carried in on the back of a major marketing wave prove to be disappointing. But not always. Jen Wilkin’s Women of the Word has been the beneficiary of some major marketing efforts. It was the talk of this year’s Gospel Coalition National Conference for Women and has been pushed heavily in the blogosphere. And I’m glad to say that it proved my skepticism wrong—it is an excellent little book. Wilkin loves God’s Word and she loves to teach others to love it as well. Her book is designed to awaken that same love in others, and especially in other women. It is, after all, meant to call women to the Word so they can be women of the Word. She opens biographically, telling about her growing passion for the Bible—for reading it, for knowing it, for teaching it to others. She explains River Region’s Journey
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that the book’s purpose is “to teach you not merely a doctrine, concept, or story line, but a study method that will allow you to open up the Bible on your own. It intends to challenge you to think and to grow, using tools accessible to all of us, whether we hold a high school diploma or a seminary degree, whether we have minutes or hours to give to it each day.” Before she gets to a method of studying the Bible, she tells about two turnarounds she had to make in her life, where she replaced backward approaches to Bible study with better ones. The first was to allow the Bible to speak of God. She had been approaching the Bible as a book about her, a book answering the question “Who am I?” more than “Who is God?” The second turnaround was thinking that she should allow her heart, rather than her mind, to guide her study of the Bible. She let her feelings dictate what she read and how she read it instead of first allowing it to transform her mind. She wants her readers to 6
know that they cannot love what their minds do not know. With those foundations in place, she makes a plea for biblical literacy and follows it with a five-part method meant to bring it about. Her description of this method, along with examples of it in action, consume the bulk of the book. She teachers her readers to study with purpose, perspective, patience, process and prayer. This method is simple enough to be practical, but significant enough to lead to deep understanding, reflection, and application. She closes with some guidance for teachers and a final call to a commitment to the Word. While I am not the target audience for the book (I don’t ever anticipate being a woman of the Word), I found it very enjoyable nonetheless. I read it at a good time in life—a time in which I am thoroughly enjoying reading God’s Word—and it fired up my love for God, and his Word, all the more. While Wilkin’s method is sound, I also enjoyed her emphases on approaching the Bible intellectually ahead of emotionally, of training the mind to train the heart. This is a missing emphasis in too many books on reading the Scriptures and, in particular, books targeted at women. The point is not that everyone who reads the Bible ought to be an outright intellectual, but that Bible-reading cannot bypass the mind. Women of the Word is a helpful little book that I cheerfully commend. (And, I should add, one Aileen read before I did and enjoyed every bit as much.)
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Frazer Volunteer Receives Award
The Business and Professional Women Foundation in Montgomery County recognized Frazer member Opal Wynell Brown for her outstanding service. Opal, who is 87 years young, began volunteering in the Frazer kitchen in 1984 after working at the telephone company for 40 years. When she first started volunteering at Frazer, Opal often helped chopped food to serve the congregation. One day shortly after she began volunteering, then Pastor John Ed Mathison walked in and exclaimed, “Well here are the Holy Choppers!”Opal has proudly been a member of the Holy Choppers ever since. She is always serving with a smile and brings joy and laughter to the Frazer kitchen. Opal loves sharing stories from her life and makes sure that no chocolate is ever wasted. She even offers to lick the spoon after dishing out fudge for the 4th Thursday luncheon. Her consistent willingness to volunteer is evident in her attendance. In the past nine years Opal has only missed one Sunday. She says that her parents influenced her hardworking attitude. She lives by their words: “If you’re not working or in church, you’re in bed.”
Fashion Extravaganza: An Evening of Fashion
December 6, 6:00pm Pilgrim Rest Missionary Baptist, West Campus Advanced Tickets are $10, Day of the Show $15, Children ages 6-12, $5 and children ages 5 and under are free. Performing Guests: Pastor Ibrahim Lee, Gospel Recording Artist Cheryl Whorter, Pierre Watkins, Kenyanna Blakely, Comedian De’ Anthony Turner and Silent Pra’Zers Mime Ministry Come and enjoy. For more information, please call Event Coordinator Yvette Bartee at 334-294-4485. Pilgrim Rest Missionary Baptist Church, Walter E. Ellis, Pastor
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An Evening with Third Day
December 4th, 7 pm Montgomery Performing Arts Center at the Renaissance, Montgomery Visit ticketmaster.com!
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Enjoy an elegant harpsichord chamber music concert by candlelight on the evening of Tuesday, December 2nd, at 6:00 P.M. in the beautiful sanctuary of Christchurch, 8800 Vaughn Road. The concert will feature music by baroque composers Handel and Corelli, and choral works of John Rutter. Musical artists include Margaret Cauthen, Choirmaster of Christchurch, Delyana Lazarova, Violin Fellow, Montgomery Symphony Orchestra, Katerina Juraskova, cello, and Dr. Robert Scott, flautist, Montgomery Symphony Orchestra. Vocalists for the evening are Amy Hanchey, Leah Dubberly, Lance Hensley, Gene Davis, and the Christchurch Chancel Choir under the direction of Maestro Thomas Hinds, Conductor, Montgomery Symphony Orchestra. Christchurch invites you to this wonderful free concert. Immediately following the concert, there will be a Champagne Dessert Reception in Canterbury Hall. Tickets ($25.00) for this gathering may be obtained from the church (334-387-0566 ext. 203) beginning Wednesday, November 5th,. All proceeds and designated offerings will benefit the Christchurch Pipe Organ Fund. 9
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Steven Curtis Chapman to Headline A Montgomery Family Christmas
Beloved Christian artist Steven Curtis Chapman will headline the 10th Anniversary celebration of “A Montgomery Family Christmas” at the Montgomery Performing Arts Centre Tuesday, December 2, 2014. This fun, family-oriented Christmas event is presented by the Baptist Health Care Foundation and benefits Baptist Hospice. Tickets for the event go on sale Monday, September 8th. Tickets for this event are $35 for theatre seating, $25 for balcony seating and groups of 10 or more will receive $5 off of each ticket purchased. Easily one of the most decorated artists in Christian music, Steven Curtis Chapman has been lauded with 57 Dove awards, five Grammy’s and a whopping 47 No. 1 singles. Despite life’s ups and downs, including celebrating 29 years of marriage and the tragic death of his youngest daughter, Maria Sue, Steven has held steadfastly to his faith. Joining Steven for this event are Brandon Heath and Jillian Edwards. With a mix of timeless Christmas songs and hit selections from their respective albums, you won’t want to miss this concert event! The Baptist Health Care Foundation is honored to present the 10th Anniversary celebration of A Montgomery Family Christmas. This event benefits Baptist Hospice – the only faith-based, not-for profit hospice in the River Region. Baptist Hospice cares for the physical, emotional, social and spiritual needs of patients with life-limiting illnesses. With the help of the Baptist Health Care Foundation and A Montgomery Family Christmas, Baptist Hospice is able to provide care and accept all qualified patients regardless of their ability to pay. Since the concert’s inception, the Baptist Health Care Foundation has raised more than $200,000 to assist Baptist Hospice patients and their families with hospice care and various needs. Tickets can be purchased directly through the Montgomery Performing Arts Centre box office (800-745-3000) or through Ticketmaster, ticketmaster.com. For additional information, please call the Baptist Health Care Foundation’s office at (334) 273-4565.
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First UMC, 2416 West Cloverdale Pk, welcomes all Senior Adults on Tuesday mornings. Staff and volunteers with Fraz10 – 10:30 Fellowship and a Snack; 10:30 -11:30 Devotional er’s Television Ministry spent and a program; 11:30 –Noon; Lunch ($2.50) time at the Alabama National November Programs: Fair sharing the love of Christ November 4 – Meet Adrian Borden & at the WFRZ-TV booth. People the Borden Family Entertainers often stop by the booth to pick November 11 – The Back Porch Pickers up a pocket cross and leave November 18 – Bingo with an encouraging word as November 25 – No Terrific Tuesdays; Have a well. They also learned about Happy Thanksgiving! the programming on WFRZ, including new local programming such as Questions? Call Nee Nee at 834-8990. the recent Bible series, “Next Life Now.”
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25th Annual ‘Family Night Out’ Fall Carnival
November 14 Montgomery First Assembly Gymnasium (135 Bell Rd.) This fun event -- perfect for the whole family -- includes concessions and games for toddlers to adults. Enjoy inflatables, a mechanical bull, cake walk, hay rides, face painting, and even a prize-redemption booth to exchange winning tickets. All attendees have a chance to win free giveaways from local businesses. Proceeds benefit the church youth department’s missions work around the world. From 6 to 9:30 p.m. For more information, visit www.montgomeryfirst.org.
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Sunday, November 9 * 4-6 p.m. Wear your PJ’s, bring your favorite blanket and/or lawn chair, and enjoy a free movie and snacks under the “clouds” in the Frazer Atrium. Free event. No childcare provided; all children must be accompanied by an adult. Call (334) 495-6335 or visit www. frazerumc.org for more info.
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On the Art Scene with Kevin King of Common Ground Montgomery You may recognize Kevin King as one of the faces of leadership at Common Ground Montgomery (CGM), but these days, Kevin is also becoming a recognizable face in the art scene. Ever since Kevin has been at CGM, he has introduced the kids to visual art. Kevin says he has been drawing for as long as he can remember, but lost interest for 17 years. It wasn’t until his wife purchased a canvas, paint and brushes for him that he began to take his drawing to another level and start teaching himself how to paint. Kevin’s artwork is inspired by things he loves and the things he is most passion-
ate about. “In my current paintings, you can see that I have a love for music, the city and neighborhood that I live in, Jesus and His heart for biblical justice and advocacy for those who can’t speak for themselves,” says Kevin. Kevin hopes his artwork will tell stories, raise and answer questions about Jesus, life and social ills of our world. “I want people to look at my work and allow their imaginations to run wild,” says Kevin. In the last year, Kevin has had the privilege of doing two Artists on Tap events at the Capital City Club. The walls in the front room of his house are covered with his paintings, so when people visit his home they enter into an art gallery experience.
For the last year, people have asked if Kevin’s artwork is for sale. Because of the initial emotional attachment Kevin has had to his art and it being a personal time of creativity and worship for him, the answer has always been no. But that is about to change. “Right now, my work is allowing me to accomplish the creative outlet that I didn’t know I was searching for and needed,” explains Kevin. “I’m finally at a point where I am willing to sell my art and pass along the feeling of happiness that I receive when viewing the final product of the gift that the Lord has given me.” Kevin is beginning to sell his artwork to people who want to have a unique piece of art that tells a story and has a unique personal connection with Kingdom implications. To view Kevin’s art follow his Instagram account @artbykevinking or e-mail him at kevin@cgmal.org.
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During the attack, which lasted only an hour, 40 German soldiers were killed and some 1,000 surrendered. In retreat, Colonel Rall was wounded twice on his horse. He died the next day. Tradition says that in his pocket they found the unopened note warning of Washington’s crossing. If Rall had read it, he would surely have had his professional soldiers prepared. Had he won the battle, he may well have killed George Washington, James Madison, James Monroe, John Marshall, Aaron Burr, and Alexander Hamilton. How could this have happened? Consider Rall’s military experience. He had fought in Russia, Bavaria, the Netherlands, Scotland, and in the French and Indian War. He was not stupid. But he had allowed his pride and his common sense about weather to lull him into thinking his enemy was not a threat. Are we sometimes like that? By God’s grace many of us have won a few battles against our spiritual enemy, Satan. Whether we fought against lust, greed, anger, or self-pity, we are not the degenerates we used to be. But we get tired. Sometimes we want a holiday from fighting the battle. We think we have conquered that recurring sin that used to haunt us. We are proud that we don’t still do some of the things that once enslaved us. We start to feel invincible. We think we can hang around our friends from the old life. We can handle a little temptation. It’s no big 13
deal. That lie is just as deceptive and destructive as Rall’s prideful unwillingness to read the words of a farmer. Proverbs 16:18 says, “Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall.” And Paul writes in I Corinthians 10:12, “So, if you think you are standing firm be careful that you don’t fall.” Remember, it is when you think you have won that you are more likely to ignore the enemy. Now is the time for you to get back into God’s word and stay connected to a group of believers for accountability and strength. Don’t be lulled to sleep. There is too much at stake.
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RRJ: How did you come to work at Beasley Allen Law Firm? Proverbs 18:16 says, “A man’s (or woman’s) gift makes room for him, and brings him before great men.” This is the real reason that I am here at Beasley Allen. God has blessed me with the gifts to love people (really love them) and to minister to their needs in many ways. And, there was Jere Beasley--a great, wise, and godly man. God brought this scripture to life as He brought our lives together. A scripture written over 2000 years ago brought us together over 21 years ago. Yet, God also works in the natural. I met Jere Beasley in 1993. I was a receptionist for Durr Fillauer, which occupied our current building here at 218 Commerce Street. Jere was looking to buy the building for his law firm. He also needed a receptionist since his receptionist was moving away. His office manager inquired about me and gave his findings to Jere. So, when Jere bought the building on 218 Commerce Street, he bought me along with it! Now, here I am---a true and wonderful story! RRJ: Even though you began as a receptionist, your greatest talents eventually led you to your current position. What is your role with Beasley Allen now, and how did your faith play into changing your duties? RRJ: You grew up the daughter of a pastor. Did your family’s Christian witness help you to put your faith in Christ at an early age? Growing up as the daughter of a pastor, I experienced a life of love, peace, and security that can only come from God. I was able to get a full view of what Jesus was like through the lives of my parents. I would love to say that I came to know Jesus as a child, but the glory of the Gospel was not revealed to me personally at that time. I am happy and thankful to say that over 51 years ago I came into a personal relationship with the Lord--Him giving me that same rich, full, and yielded life that my parents had. My parents instilled in me one of the greatest gifts parents could ever give--the knowledge of God. RRJ: What were some of the specific Christian blessings you received from your parents? My dad was a man of great faith and prayer. I remember watching him preach God’s word and heal the sick. I had no fear as I grew up under his covering. My mom was a beautiful, sweetspirited lady. She was kind, gentle, and served her family and church members with a smile. Neither of them ever complained or criticized other people. By the grace of God, I am blessed with gifts from both my mom and dad. River Region’s Journey November 2014
As I began my role as receptionist with Beasley Allen, the love and nurturing spirit in my heart caused me to interact with the attorneys and staff on a very personal level. It was natural to listen to a hurting or troubled heart, to pray for others, and to give words of encouragement. Sometimes, it was appropriate to lovingly correct a bad attitude. Then, there were times when the attorneys needed to know what the employees were struggling with. I was able to speak with the employees and attorneys on such matters and bring a solution to the problem. This is how I became the Human Resources Liaison at Beasley Allen. In this role, I am able to bridge the gap between supervisors and their staff by helping to solve administrative issues. But, God has also used this role for ministry. I am able to pray for others right here in the workplace, to give godly counsel, to visit employees and their family members in the hospital, and to attend or speak at funerals. If someone has a need--whether it is spiritual, financial, or material--I work with others inside the firm and with organizations outside of the firm to provide for those needs. One of my favorite duties as Human Resources Liaison is organizing our firm’s weekly devotion. Each week, we invite our employees to join together to hear God’s word and to have lunch together. Devotion is a place where employees can come to be refreshed. 14
We also have a special prayer room where Sara Beasley and I meet from time to time to pray for our firm. Sara and I, along with Amy Methvin, have been praying for this firm in that room since 1997. It is humbling to see how God has blessed our law firm with such wonderful attorneys and staff. Our Board of Directors are generous, Christian men who have consistently provided for the needs of our employees and their families. Faith works by love--loving God means loving people--not in word only, but in deed. RRJ: It seems like many of the things you learned as a child have continued to guide you as an adult. As I love and enjoy the life and position that God has arranged for me, I can glance back into my childhood and see my parents doing the same things I am doing today. I can see my mom as I set the table for company after church on Sunday. I can hear my Dad as I give counsel and pray over someone in need. Loving God and serving his people is such a joy and privilege. RRJ: Sometimes fellow Christians struggle to continue living out their faith beyond Sunday morning. How would you encourage all of us to allow our faith to be a constant force in our lives? In today’s society, we are constantly faced with many different kinds of distractions and temptations. Once we have received the revelation of who we are in Christ--a new Creation purchased by Jesus’s blood for His use and pleasure and not our own--then we are willing and able to live totally for God at all times. This revelation causes our faith (which is living by faith in Jesus) to be a constant force in our lives. RRJ: Finally, besides the Holy Spirit, what Christian resources do you use most often to be a light in this world? Outside of serving here at Beasley Allen, I love and enjoy my private prayer time and reading and meditating on God’s word. These things build me up spiritually and help me to know my Father in a deeper way. I am part of a powerful prayer group at my church and we gather weekly to “pray the word.” My husband, Sam, and I thoroughly enjoy having family and friends in our home for dinner and fellowship---and being involved in “Dinner for 8,” which is organized through our church. These are rich and intimate times to enjoy each other and build each other up. As 1 John 1:7 says: But if we walk in the light as He is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus Christ His Son cleanses us from all sin.
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people was admirable, then, according to moral relativism, it really was admirable for them to do so. The moral relativist, it seems, should not condemn the Holocaust, but should instead maintain that the Nazis just had a different morality from ours. Not worse, mind you, nor evil, but different. And that seems crazy. If you have a view of morality according to which it turns out that the Nazis are pretty okay, then you need a new view of morality! In spite of its philosophical shortcomings, moral relativism is the dominant view in our culture. Most of my students simply take it for granted; it strikes them as an utterly obvious, uncontroversial truth. This is not surprising. What is surprising is that the same thing holds true for my Christian students. This is shocking— or at least, it should be. Moral realism is near the heart of the Christian worldview. The gospel message takes for granted the twin realities of sin and redemption, of evil and good. The invitation to life in Christ’s kingdom presupposes that Jesus genuinely knows what he is talking about, that his offer of new life is not merely one among many equally good alternatives, but a better path than any of its rivals. This is a perspective that the twentyfirst century Church needs to articulate and defend. If we intend to thoughtfully and winsomely engage with the broader culture, we need to think clearly about what the assumptions of that culture are, and we need to learn to recognize when those assumptions are inimical to the gospel. “Good philosophy must exist,” C. S. Lewis once wrote, “if for no other reason, because bad philosophy needs to be answered.” Moral relativism is bad philosophy. If my Christian students are any indication, the Church is not doing what she should to teach good philosophy. We can and must do better.
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Since she was 12, Catherine Romero was athletic, running and then doing triathlons. Shortly after posting her personal best time of 1 hour, 31 minutes in a triathlon, disaster struck. The Seattle attorney suffered a stroke. “No one expects a healthy, fit 39-year-old woman to have a stroke. I certainly didn’t,” she says. Testing revealed a large hole in her heart. Doctors believe she was born with this hole and her heart enlarged to compensate for it. During the two months she waited to have surgery, she remained at home. The once very energetic, strong athlete was now “weak, dizzy, unable to walk or use my left arm properly, having trouble River Region’s Journey
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with certain words, afraid of having another stroke and feeling extremely depressed.” Romero’s surgery was successful and she has since completed another triathlon. Friends helped her deal with that challenging time. “Thank God for good friends,” Romero says. Her longtime running partner came by daily to walk with Romero. Another friend who was an MD, made daily house calls. When unwelcome events come our way, friends can indeed be a lifeline to recovery. Along with the help of friends, there are other ways to bounce back from a setback. Here are six suggestions. 18
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#1) Practice expansion. “A fail proof formula for liberation: dare to keep expanding your heart even if you’ve been justifiably wounded by pain or disappointment. The effort is never wasted,” notes Judith Orloff, MD. When we experience a life wound, often our first response is to tighten up, withdraw and retreat. Rather than contract and restrict yourself, remain more pliable and open. Share your wound with others. This reduces feelings of shame and isolation allowing healing to flow in. Harry Reid is the U.S. Senator from Nevada. In 1972 he received an urgent message to call his mother. “That is when I learned my father had shot himself. Prior to this moment, I had never thought of suicide as something that would affect my life. Suicide was something that only happened in other people’s families,” he said. He and his family were devastated but the silence about it was oppressive. “Afterward, my family did not talk about it, and we bore the heavy burden of that tragedy in secret...My embarrassment and shame made a melancholy situation even worse.” For years he kept his father’s suicide a secret. Then he found “the courage to be open about my father’s death. For the first time, I found myself sharing with my Senate colleagues the fact my father killed himself.” He found this openness healing and now advises others “to lift the veil of secrecy.”
#2) Study the Psalms. It’s no won-
der soldiers often carry copies of the Psalms with them into danger zones. For thousands of years, these simple but profound human spiritual expressions have helped people cope with tragedy and find peace in times of fear and anxiety. A quick glance at the Psalms will provide any person with hope and inspiration no matter what they are facing. Some of the most inspiring words from the Psalms include these: Psalm 56:3 “When I am afraid, I will trust in you.” (NIV) Psalm 57:1-2 “In you my soul takes refuge. I will take refuge in the shadow of your wings until the disaster has passed.” Psalm 31:15 “My times are in your hands; deliver me...” Psalm 67:19-20 “Praise be to the Lord, to God our Savior, who daily bears our burdens. Our god is a God who saves.”
#3) Express gratitude. Here’s wis-
dom from author Melody Beattie: “Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to
clarity. It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend. Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow.” Gratitude, no matter how dark and difficult life may be, can transform the dismay into delight.
#4) Look for the light. “Light is above us, and color around us; but if we have not light and color in our eyes, we shall not perceive them outside us,” noted Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe. Even in the deepest darkness, keep an eye out for glimpses of light. DeeAnn Burnette-Lundquist and Eddie were 19 and 21 when they married in 1976. Because they lived with their parents until their marriage, they didn’t have a lot of personal belongings with which to furnish their own home. However, Eddie had a small lock box and she asked him what it was. His response was “just stuff” and she never questioned him about it again. During the marriage whenever they moved Eddie always carefully took his little box to each new location. It was always placed in the closet in an inconspicuous corner. Over the 21 years they were married, DeeAnn simply accepted it as Eddie’s space” though she was curious about
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it but concluded the box probably contained “pictures, letters, etc., from an old girlfriend or something.” DeeAnn trusted her husband implicitly and he never betrayed that trust. “The box became an accepted part of our closet.” Eddie died at 43 after a 10 month battle with cancer. “The loss was more devastating that I can begin to describe.” Of course, after the death she began to go through his things, keeping some and giving others away. It was then she came across the box. “To my surprise, his ‘lock’ box wasn’t locked and probably never had been. As I opened it, I saw familiar handwriting – my own. The contents of the box were all the letters and cards I ever sent him. He had saved each and every one of them. The joy this brought to me was worth the 21 year wait.”
#5) Learn the lesson. The deepest
life learning God has for us often takes place in the darkest life places. There’s always a lesson which can be gleaned out of a hard time. One woman who extricated herself from an abusive relationship, sat down months after it ended and asked herself: “What gifts has this traumatic experience brought into my life?” “I made a long list,” she says. It included: patience, diligence, focus and negotiation skills. All of those will be useful for facing and future adversities.
#6) Be a victor not a victim. The
distinction between these two is simple. A victim blames; a victor learns. A victim is passive; a victor is active. A victim becomes hesitant and timid; a victor becomes bold and courageous. One who is definitely a victor though he could have allowed himself to become a victim is Dave Denniston. A world-class swimmer, Denniston just missed the cut to represent the U.S. at the Olympics. He was about to start coaching in New Zealand when an accident changed his life. During a winter vacation in Wyoming, Denniston was sledding when he hit a tree and became paralyzed from the waist down. He immediately chose to focus on his potential not on the problem. As a result he found opportunities for personal growth. Denniston learned how to practice his sport without using his legs and competed with the USA Paralympic Swim Team. He also travels the country as a motivation speaker. “The greatest gift we’ve been given is our mind,” he often reminds audiences made up primarily of young people. “The sooner you focus on the positive, the happier you’ll be. Focus on what you can do; don’t get wrapped up in what you can’t do,” he adds. Rev. Victor M. Parachin is a minister and author of a dozen books. River Region’s Journey
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Jesus did this many times in the Bible. “He stopped” when he heard the poor blind beggar calling out “Jesus, Son of David, have mercy on me!” This was at a time when Jesus and his disciples were on the move, leaving Jericho heading toward Jerusalem. They had things to do, people to see. Even the crowd that had gathered told the beggar to hush and show some respect to this busy man, Jesus. But as Scripture tells us, when Jesus heard the man cry out, he stopped and asked the man, “What do you want me to do?” “Teacher, let me see?” “Go, your faith has healed you.” Immediately the man could see and he followed Jesus. How many times have you hurried your way through church in the name of ministry or in an effort to make it to the restaurant for lunch, often passing by someone who is crying out— silently or with a simple look—and your spirit senses a need. But do we stop and throw it in reverse? In Mark 12:30, we see Jesus turn around and ask, “Who touched my clothes?” It was when a woman who had been sick for 12 years touched the fringe of his robe knowing she would be healed. Jesus didn’t have to turn around; he already knew exactly what happened and who had touched his robe. But as we see in Mark 12:34, Jesus found the woman and said, “Daughter, your faith has healed you, go in peace and be freed from your suffering.” Jesus turned around when he didn’t have to. He turned around to teach her, “your faith has healed you” and to bless her, “now go in peace, free of suffering.” Another interruption, another moment of healing. 21
Loving like Jesus loves means no matter how busy your schedule gets, you say, “Here am I Lord, send me.” I love these words from Isaiah when he had seen the glory of God in a whole new way and was cleansed. Isaiah 6:8: “Then I heard the voice of the Lord saying, ‘Whom shall I send and who will go for us? And I said, Here am I, Send me!’” I have to imagine Isaiah was jumping up and down with great enthusiasm. I pray for that reaction, desire and determination to be God’s vessel. A sweet friend who will soon be 80 years old told me recently her daily prayer is, “Hey, Lord, I’m available. You know all that stuff I used to do, I can’t really do all of that anymore, but I’m available. Where do you need me?” In other words, “Here am I, send me!” When you throw it in reverse to share God’s love, you’re actually moving forward at a strong, steady pace. We can all get so busy, even with good intentions, that we miss opportunities to share His love and hope. When is the last time you decided to throw it in reverse? Dear Heavenly Father, Thank you for loving us enough to always throw it in reverse when we cry out to you. May we love like you love, and take the time to hear others crying out for you. May we be your vessel that eagerly answers with here am I, send me! Open our eyes, ears and hearts to the need around us and flood us with your strength, provisions and love. In the mighty name of your son, Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen. November 2014
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Adoption
Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy and Glynwood Baptist Church, Prattville APAC- Alabama Pre/Post Adoption Connection Support Group provides education and social interaction for adoptive families. Montgomery Group meets 3rd Thursdays, 6-7:30 p.m., Room 8114 at Frazer UMC. For information, call Hannah Taylor at 409-9477 or the church office at 272-8622. Autauga/Elmore Group meets 4th Tuesdays, 6-7:30 p.m., Glynwood Baptist Church, Prattville. Childcare, children’s group and dinner provided. For more info, call 409-9477 or e-mail htaylor@childrensaid.org. Location: Landmark Church, 1800 Halcyon Blvd. Leaders: Chad & Betsy Emerson (334) 201-5241 Wednesday, 6:30pm in Rm. 116. The Orphan Care Group will focus on God’s call to help orphans through adoption, foster care, and missions work. The group will share experiences, study and Biblical themes regarding orphan care, and provide a support and network for individuals who want to support orphans.
Alcoholic / Addict
Location: Caring Center of FBC, 52 Adams Avenue CrossRoads Support Group is for addicts/alcoholics and family members. Meets at 6 p.m. Tuesdays and follows a Christ-centered 12-step program. Call 264-4949. Location: Dalraida UMC, 3817 Atlanta Highway Alcoholics Anonymous meets at 6 p.m. on Tuesdays. 272.2190. Alanon meets at 7:30 p.m. on Wednesdays. Location: First Baptist Church (Huff Community Ministries Bldg., 200 S. Perry Street) Celebrate Recovery, a Bible-based Christ centered approach to recovery from hurts, habits and hang-ups, meets Friday nights, from 5:30 p.m.- 8 p.m. For more information, contact Jane Ferguson at 241.5141. Location: Grace @ Bell Road, Corner of Bell Road and Atlanta Hwy. Alcoholics Anonymous and Alanon meetings are held Monday, Tuesday, Thursday, and Friday, at 6 p.m. An Open AA Speaker meeting is held on Saturday at 6 p.m. An Alanon & AA held on Sundays at 2 p.m. Location: Grace Point Community Church, 78223 Tallassee Hwy (Hwy 14), Wetumpka Celebrate Recovery- every Tuesday night- 6:15pm. All are welcome! These meetings are a safe and loving environment for individuals seeking to conquer their hurts, habits and hang-ups! gracepoint.info. Location: Journey Church, group meets in Fellowship Hall at Coosada Baptist Church, Millbrook Celebrate Recovery - Christ-centered 12-step for anyone
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Loc AD day struggling with addiction or life-challenging issues. Mondays at 5:30pm (meal), 6pm (large group), 7pm (small group). Childcare available. Call Larry at 334832-5714 or visit myjourneychurch.com.
Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy An Alzheimer’s and Dementia Caregivers’ Support Group meets on the first Thursday of each month at 11 a.m. in Room 3103. Call 272.8622.
Location: Landmark Church, 1800 Halcyon Blvd. RSVP- This is a 12 step spiritual recovery program for overcoming addictions. Using the steps and Bible we help build self-esteem, responsible behavior, the making of amends for our destructive actions, and to fill the void in our hearts in a loving relationship with God. Wednesday @ 6:30pm in Rm. 121 of the Life Center.
Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy A Dementia Daycare is held each Thursday in Rm. 3101 from 9:30 a.m. to 12 p.m. Each participant may bring a sack lunch. There is no charge. REGISTRATION IS REQUIRED. For info, call the LifeCare office at 272-8622.
Location: Prattville Church of Christ, 344 East Main St. RSVP - 12 step (Christians Against Substance AbuseCASA) spiritual recovery program, for overcoming addictions. Class begins each Wednesday evening @6:30 PM. Please call 334-365-4201 for addition information. Location: Santuck Baptist Church, 7250 Central Plank Rd. (Hwy 9), Wetumpka. Celebrate Recovery meets each Thursday evening at 6:15 in the Fellowship Hall. This is a Chrsit centered 12 step-program for anyone struggling with hurts, habits, and hang-ups. Call 567-2364. Sex Addicts Anonymous (SAA) is open to all struggling with addictive sexual behavior. If you believe you have a problem with sex addiction (or are wondering if you might) and you want to change your behavior, we recommend you visit our group. For locations, please visit- https://saa-recovery.org/ or please contact – MontgomerySAA@outlook.com. Meetings are held: every Sunday night - 7:45 p.m, men only. Every Monday night - 7:30 p.m, men and women. Location: St. James UMC, 9045 Vaughn Road Celebrate Recovery meets every Thursday night from 6-8 pm in the Youth Room. This is a Christ-centered 12-step group for anyone struggling with an “addiction or life-challenging issues.” For information, call Chris Henderson at 334-215-0427. Location: Trinity Episcopal, Wetumpka (Across from Winn Dixie on HWY 231) Gamblers Anonymous-Saturdays at 7 p.m. Location: Victory Temple Church (located behind Wetumpka Walmart) ‘Fresh Start’ Recovery meets every Monday, 6-8pm (meal included). In 2011, Fresh Start Motorcycle Ministry (FSMM) began when God laid it on the heart of a lifetime biker to minister to those with his background. All are welcome, not a requirement to own/ride a motorcycle. Format used is the Holy Bible. For any info contact ministry leader, Paul Henderson, 334-201-5428.
Alzheimer’s / Dementia
Location: First UMC, 2416 W. Cloverdale Park, Wesley Hall Bldg. An Adult Parkinson/Alzheimer’s respite ministry meets from 10 a.m.-2 p.m. every Monday, Wednesday and Thursday. Lunch is served. Contact Daphne Johnston at 834-8990.
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Location: Memorial Presbyterian, 2130 Bell Road A Dementia Morning Out for caregivers is offered each Tuesday from 8:45-noon. There is no charge. Each participant may bring a sack lunch (juice provided). Registration is required by calling 274-1018.
Cancer
Location: Aldersgate UMC, 6610 Vaughn Rd, Montgomery Cancer Survivors Support Group is sponsored by Samaritan Counseling Center. We would love to have anyone (patient or family member ) join us. Thursdays at 1 pm. Please call before attending just to make sure we are meeting that week. Please call Debbie D at 467-4578 or Ben W at 202-1912. Location: Dalraida Baptist, 3838 Wares Ferry Road. Just for Men -- Faith based cancer support group for men. Meetings are held the second Tuesday of each month at 6 p.m. in the conference center. Please call 272-2412 email stan.hurst@knology.net. Location: ChristChurch, 8800 Vaughn Road Cancer Support Group for general cancer. Tuesday afternoons at 1 pm. For more info, please call Christy Holding at 531-1390 or Debbie at 467-4578. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy. Women of Hope Breast Cancer Support Group, providing education, awareness, and mentoring for breast cancer patients/survivors, family, and friends, meets the 2nd Tuesday of each month at 5:30 p.m. in Rm 8253. Call 272-8622 or womenofhope@charter.net. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy. The Central Alabama Multiple Myeloma Support Group meets from 10 a.m. to noon the second Saturday of every month in Room 3105. We have guest speakers, video presentations, printed information and a group that welcomes sharing their journey with myeloma in an informal setting. Refreshments are provided. For more information, contact Lorenzo and Elaine Duncan at 334-281-8158, or by email at duncan6563@gmail.com.
Depression
Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy A Depression/Bipolar Support Group meets on the 1st Thursday of each month from 7:00-8:30pm in Room 3101. This group also meets on the 3rd Saturday afternoon, 12-2 pm, Dalraida UMC, 3817 Atlanta Highway in Church Annex. For more info, call 334.652.1431 or email dbsamontgomery@yahoo.com.
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Location: First Baptist Church, 305 S. Perry Street Divorce Care is held Wednesdays, 6:30-8 pm. Childcare available. $15 for workbook. Dinner at 4:45 ($5 adults, $3 kids). Call Kathy Cooper at 241-5125. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy A Divorce Recovery Support Group meets each Tuesday, at 5:30 p.m., in Fellowship Hall Lobby. 272-8622.
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Gambling
Location: Trinity Episcopal Church, 5375 US HWY 231 (Across from the WinnDixie shopping center) Wetumpka. Saturdays @ 7pm. 334-567-7534 Location: Mental Health Association, 1116 South Hull Street, Montgomery. Sundays @ 5 pm. Location: St Paul’s Lutheran Church, 4475 Atlanta Hwy, Mondays @ 6pm.
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Location: Pilgrim Rest Missionary Baptist Church 1550 E. Washington Street Grief Ministry is a grief recovery support group that meets every Monday at 6:00 P.M. The ministry is designed to help anyone through the hurt of losing a loved one by successfully traveling the journey from mourning to joy. Alicia Glover is the coordinator. For information contact Glover at 334-281-2754.
Homosexuality
Location: Landmark Church, 1800 Halcyon Blvd. The Barnabas Group, created to address the needs of those in conflict with homosexual thoughts and feelings meets first, third and fifth Tuesday evenings at 6:30 p.m., in the library at the Life Center. 277.5800.
Miscellaneous
Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy NAMI Montgomery (National Alliance for the Mentally Ill) This group provides understanding, education and information to family members & friends of those who suffer mental illness. This group will meet on the second Monday of each month from 6:30-8:30 in room 3103. For more information contact Mary Jo Logan (334) 271-2280. Location: 5500 Ash Grove Circle, Montgomery. OCD Support Group (obsessive- Compulsive Disorder) Long showers, multiple hand washing, rituals, checking stove, hoarding and symmetry. This support group is open to anyone who has struggled with OCD. You’re not alone anymore. Call Donald: 220-7555.
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Location: First Baptist
Prattville, 138 S. Washington Moms LIFE (Living In Faith Everyday) meets twice monthly from 8:30 - 11:45 am in the chapel at the Church from Aug - May. We offer a time of fellowship, Bible study, musical guest, special guest speakers and a lot of fun!! Cost is $5 per meeting. For moms of all stages and ages of life. Childcare provided by reservation. For more info and to reserve your spot, call April Scott at 828-446-6666. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Frazer mom2mom is a playgroup to connect mothers of preschoolers at Frazer United Methodist Church to share fun and inspiration in our journey together, with our children, and with Christ. Email Mom2mom@frazerumc.org for more information. Location: Perry Hill UMC, 910 Perry Hill Road Single Moms’ Care and Support Group meets 2nd and 4th Thursdays from 6:15 - 8:00 PM. Free snack supper provided to moms and children. Child care for infants -16 years. Call 272-3174 for information. Location: Vaughn Forest Church, 8660 Vaughn Road Are you in need of a time-out? MOPS joins mothers together by a common bond, to be better wives, moms, and friends along this journey in the trenches of motherhood. We meet the 1st and 3rd Tuesday of each month from 9:30—11:30 a.m. Childcare is provided. For info e-mail VFCMOPS@gmail.com. Location: First Baptist Church, Montgomery 305 S. Perry Street MOPS (Mothers of Preschoolers) Moms, need a little break? MOPS is a place you can share a good meal, make new friends, and find encouragement as you face the everyday challenges of raising your little ones. We have educational speakers, great
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conversation, and fun activities. Free childcare is provided. Meetings are every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays, 9:30-11:30 a.m., September through May. Go to www. montgomeryfbc.org/MOPS or contact Tiffany Alewine at 241-5165.
Physical Challenges
Location: Aldersgate UMC, 6610 Vaughn Road Visually Impaired Support Group – Meets monthly on second Thursday 1:00 – 2:30 p.m. The group is called Outward Sight - Inward Vision and is for those with vision loss and their caregivers. Our mission is to assist those experiencing vision loss to maintain their independence by providing access to valuable information and spiritual support. Call 272-6152. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy An MDA/ALS Support Group will meet Tuesday August 10 6:00p.m. – 8:00 p.m. in room 3101. Anyone who is affected by a neuromuscular disease or family members of those affected are encouraged to attend. To receive information, please call 396-4534. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy A Parkinson’s Support Group will meet the 4th Thursday at 6 p.m., in room 8114 at Frazer UMC. This group is for those who have Parkinson’s disease and the family members. 272-8622. Location: Taylor Road Baptist Church, 1785 Taylor Rd., Montgomery Gluten Intolerance Group of Montgomery meets on 2nd Thursdays from 6-7 p.m. Check the blog for special “alternate site” meetings and other info at www.glutenfreemontgomery.blogspot.com.
Singlehood
Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Singles’ Small Groups meet each Tuesday at 5:30 p.m. in the Fellowship Hall Lobby. Call 272-8622. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy T.N.T. (Tuesday Night Together) for Singles meets Tuesdays from 7-8 p.m. in the Fellowship Hall, bldg. 7000. A meal ($5.00) and program are provided. For reservations, call 272-8622. Location: Cornerstone Christian, 301 Dalraida Rd. Unavoidably Single Again (USA) Fellowship, a support group for widows and widowers. Informal meetings for fellowship and fun are held on the third Saturday of each month starting at 10 AM. Contact Lynda at farauthor@ aol.com or 354-8869.
Veterans
Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Veterans OEF/OIF Caregivers Support Group meets on the 3rd Wednesday from 11am-1pm in Room 3108. Contact LaQuana Edwards, Caregiver Support Coordinator at CAVHCS (334) 727-0550 ext. 5350.
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There is nothing better than finding joy and meaning in the things God has given us to enjoy. This is especially true for the “great outdoors.” From open fields and running rivers to birds, deer, and fish...there is an abundance of natural resources all around us. It’s in this sanctuary of seasons, crunching leaves and the call of a turkey, where many people find they sincerely connect with God. It’s also in these places that people have an opportunity to enjoy nature’s bounty together and get to know each other and the Creator in the process.
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Tyler and Trent Hill are brothers who started Xtreme Outdoor Ministries (XOM) in 2011 with the goal of serving others through the thing they love: the great outdoors. Tyler and Trent had come to a place in their personal lives where they knew there was a bigger purpose for their life, and as a result of their soul searching they founded XOM. Today, the ministry provides families hunting and fishing opportunities along with a spiritual component offered through outdoor activities. Xtreme Outdoors Ministries challenges Christians to trust God, have faith, and to be obedient to reaching others by sharing Jesus Christ and experiencing God’s presence in nature. “We started this ministry in order to help serve people for Christ,” says Tyler. “I felt we were called to use our passion and resources for the outdoors to help provide hunting and fishing opportunities for families.” The verse Luke 12:48 was key for them
in this pursuit: For everyone to whom much is given, from him much will be required. “My brother and I have been blessed all our lives up to this point with resources provided by our family to fish and hunt in many places,” says Tyler. “It was time for us to start giving back to the people who don’t normally have these outdoor opportunities.” It was out of this posture of the heart XOM was established. Tyler and Trent have realized that God can use any platform and anything to share his love with people in a special way. “We are using our platform to share God’s gift of salvation through hunting and fishing opportunities we have been blessed to experience and enjoy,”
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says Trent. It’s clear these brothers are serving, loving and living from an overflow of what God has put in their hearts and it’s making a difference in the lives of those who take part in the events XOM hosts.
What They Do
XOM is made up of a group of people who all share the same passion for the outdoors and love for Christ. This group comes together to host one-day events on hunting property around the River Region sponsored by individuals or businesses. So far, XOM has hosted a total of seven events. They’ve also partnered with the Wounded Warrior Foundation by providing a hunting excursion and supported 5k runs to raise money for missionaries in Africa. They’ve even teamed up with Children’s Harbor and the Children’s Hospital in Birmingham to support children with cancer. The events range from deer hunts and squirrel hunts, to turkey hunts, fishing, target shooting (which includes compound bows), rifles and skeet shooting. In the afternoons, they have a cookout and a guest speaker who shares a testimony and the Word with the group. During Thanksgiving and Christmas, XOM gives to families who may be struggling. “These events have provided kids and
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their families an opportunity to enjoy not only the great outdoors, but good times for them as a family and spending some quality time with one another,” says Trent. There are many life lessons – both big and small – that can be learned by spending time outdoors that Tyler and Trent hope to pass down to those who take part in an XOM event and they believe hunting and fishing only adds to the experience. “There are many words that come to mind about lessons learned spent in God’s creation like discipline, respect, appreciation, patience, creation, joy
and love,” says Tyler. Some are as simple as learning something new with people that you love. “We had one father at our last fishing event that had never touched a fish before,” says Trent. “He had never been fishing with his daughter and this gave them a special weekend together.” Trent and Tyler believe God has given us the land and animals for our use, but He also wants us to be good stewards of what has been given. “People in general need to experience why conservation is important and how our actions today will affect the abundance of natural resources that we enjoy in our country,” explains Trent. “The outdoors are important to me because this is where I feel closer to God than
anywhere else,” says Tyler. “I see him in all places, but I feel God in the outdoors. When you experience God’s creation of nature, it puts you closer to him without all the distractions of today’s world.” These brothers believe if they can help lead someone to nature to feel closer to God, it will create relationships and memories to last a life time. “I hope and pray it encourages the ones struggling to find strength in God and inspires others to serve Christ,” says Tyler. It seems like that is what’s happening, too. Tyler and Trent agree that they have seen significant results come from all the events they have hosted. “The true feelings of the people at the event serving and the children being served can be seen on every face,” says Tyler. “It is amazing to watch people come together to do his work. “ The most touching moment for Trent and Tyler was at the Kids with Cancer Benefit last spring at Lake Martin. “We helped host five families dealing cancer and their children,” says Tyler. “It was a three-day event with pond fishing, boat rides and camp fires. The testimonies of the workers and testimonies of the families on the last day clearly revealed how our organization helped take their families away from thinking about the cancer for one whole weekend. The people in our
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organization were so humbled watching how strong the faith of the families struggling through this terrible time was. We are always blessed to see God working in each of the events we host.” Tyler and Trent want the community to be aware of XOM so more kids can be reached through the events XOM hopes to host in the upcoming year. “Our organization is a ministry driven non-profit for kids and their families,” says Trent. “All of our financial support goes directly into the cost it takes to run the organization with supplies and other needs. We do not pay ourselves any type of salary and all of our team members support us as volunteers. We place God at the center of what we do with prayer and seeking His direction. Spreading the love of Christ and the Gospel will always be the number one priority in what we do.”
Getting Involved
People can participate in many ways: Team Member, Land Owner, Individual Sponsorship, Financial Donor, Fund Raiser, Function Set Up and Logistics, and General Help and Organizing. People can also help by making XOM known to the surrounding areas. “We want to be a resource to help someone with a group of particular needs that
might include, but is not limited to, children with handicaps, terminal or serious illnesses, children with single parent homes and with limited exposure to outdoor opportunities,” says Tyler. The Hill brothers hope to see the ministry grow as God helps them grow in their
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individual walks with Christ. “God has allowed this ministry to form, shape and exist not based on what we’ve done, because we didn’t do anything to deserve it,” says Trent. “The past 3½ years has all been about growth and understanding, through our relationship with Him.” Currently, XOM is wanting to have annual events planned on specific dates throughout the year. For information contact Tyler and Trent at the numbers below: Tyler Hill (334-296-7552) or Trent Hill (334-322-1164) or visit their website at www.xtremeooutdoorsministry.com. Rachel Fisher loves learning about what God is doing in the world and writing about it. Rachel and her husband Chase live in Montgomery.
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Living and Active The Bible says this about itself in Hebrews 4:12: “For the word of God is living and powerful, and sharper than any twoedged sword, piercing even to the division of soul and spirit, and of joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart.” (New King James Version) A recent study by the Bible Society in the United Kingdom demonstrated what I would regard as an astonishing lack of knowledge of the Scriptures. A report on the Daily Mail website about the survey results said that almost one in three Britons didn’t know where the story of the birth of Jesus could be found, despite being asked just after Christmas. This rose to 36 percent for the tale of the Good Samaritan and 41 percent for Samson and Delilah. Further: • Nearly two-thirds - 59 percent - had no idea the stories of David and Goliath and Jonah and the Whale were from the Bible. • One in ten thought the stories of King Midas and Icarus - both from classical Greek myth rather than the Bible - appeared in the Old or New Testament. • The survey of more than 5,700 adults and 804 children found a quarter of children had never heard of the Nativity or Noah’s Ark and two-fifths were completely unaware of Adam and Eve and The Crucifixion. • Two-thirds hadn’t come across the Creation story, three-quarters had never been told about Daniel in the lion’s den and more than nine in ten didn’t know about King Solomon. • Some 54 percent of children were never read Bible stories by adults, it found. River Region’s Journey
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• Yet 86 percent of parents said they had been regularly told about key passages when they were growing up. The report points out that recent census figures have recorded a decline of more than ten percent in just a decade in the number of people who regard themselves as Christian. In November, former Archbishop of Canterbury Lord Carey said the Church of England was just “one generation away from extinction.” He added: “If we do not invest in young people there is going to be no one in the future.” Parents also showed embarrassing gaps in knowledge, with 46 percent wrongly identifying a Harry Potter plot line as coming from the Bible. Yet nearly half of adults think Bible stories provide “good values for life” and 40 percent say they are important to our history and culture. Former Poet Laureate Sir Andrew Motion, who described the report as “disturbing,” said: “It’s essential for us to keep these stories alive, regardless of our religious beliefs (or lack of them)...They are indispensable to our understanding of the past and the enrichment of our present.” The Bible Society said the statistics were “symptomatic of the fact that many children indicate they have never read, seen or ever heard these stories.” Bible Society chief executive James Catford added: “Our research indicates that the Bible’s brilliant and engaging stories could be lost to future generations unless people take action.” He added, “The Bible 28
enriches life and every child should have the opportunity to experience it.” This is a British survey, but I think that these results can weave a cautionary tale for those of us here in America. We have a rich tradition of Christian principles that have served us well as foundations for a functioning society. Many of those time-honored traditions survive to this day, but face erosion in today’s cultural climate. Oh, if we just had a higher view of the Scriptures! Unfortunately, I believe there’s a trend in society to regard the Bible as just a few antiquated stories with no real relevance for our culture today. The Bible itself offers a different view - it’s called “living” and “active,” and if you engage with the Word of God, it will bring life to your spirit and direction to your mind. You can come up-close and personal with the wisdom of Almighty God by studying, meditating on, and applying God’s Word. In an age where there are numerous influences that can get us off-track in our pursuit of a satisfying and meaningful life, it is incumbent on each of us to make the quality decision to make God’s Word not just a mere influence but to regard it as the primary authority to govern our lives. As a significant number of people indicated in the British survey, stories from the Bible are important to our history and culture. The Bible has not become outdated or less relevant - its principles are highly effective today, especially in an age where moral relativism and the ensuing chaos is becoming more predominant. God’s Word can become a strong anchor for us, and His truth can offer the answers that we so desperately need in the world around us. Bob Crittenden is host of “The Meeting House”, heard weekday afternoons from 4-6pm on Faith Radio, 89.1FM in Montgomery. Described as “the intersection of faith and culture”, the program features Christian music and conversation about a variety of topics. Learn more by visiting www. meetinghouseonline.info.
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In Philippians, Paul instructs us to be thankful for everything and to present concerns to God who will in turn give us peace.
The Blessings of Thankfulness I always looked forward to family holidays as a child. Our holidays included our large extended family of four generations. My great-grandmother, grandparents, parents, aunts, uncles, cousins, siblings, friends and neighbors were a part of these holidays. Our traditions of gathering together continue although the locations and participants have changed throughout the years. I consider these gatherings as one of life’s many blessings and we value these traditions deeply. Thanksgiving remains one of my favorite holidays. Living as a military dependent in Japan as a small child without the benefit of television, the internet, or even radio, reading and my imagination entertained me. I imagined the words “Over the river and through the wood to grandmother’s house we go,” of the Lydia Maria Child poem, as written about my family but without the snow. I looked forward to rejoining the rambunctious gatherings when we returned to the United States. As an adult, I try to remember to be thankful daily, not just on holidays. By focusing on my blessings and being thankful, my perspective is more positive and I can see how God is working in my life, those I love and the lives of my clients. River Region’s Journey
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Philippians 4:6-7 NIV: 6 Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. 7 And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Our sense of security must not rest in our possessions, power, success, fleeting pleasure, or things going our way. As we gradually learn to appreciate difficult days and grow in humility and thankfulness, challenges will remind us of the opportunity to trust Him more. Thankfulness transforms disappointments into opportunities for personal and spiritual growth. By being thankful, we realize the blessings we gain are much more valuable than what is lost. Paul discussed his experiences with disappointment and discontent further in Philippians. Philippians 4:12-13 NIV: 4I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. 13 I can do all this through him who gives me strength. Becoming discouraged and being lost in negative thinking and peril 30
predictions is so tempting without a thankful approach to life. Thankfulness does not deny the difficulty of the reality but instead rejoices that we have refuge, solace, hope and peace knowing that our needs will be met abundantly as they arise. One of the benefits of maturity is we realize how faithful the Lord has been even when we were not practicing thankfulness! Awareness of his faithfulness creates spiritual intimacy and major losses can be accepted in a positive and thankful manner. When we practice thankfulness, grace abounds as the difficulties increase. You may have noticed that others are sharing gratitude lists on Facebook and other social media. Perhaps we should challenge each other to be thankful and share gratitude lists instead of pouring ice on our heads! Through prayer and thankfulness, disappointments are transformed into opportunities for ministry, and the sting from difficult circumstances is removed. What are you thankful for this Thanksgiving season? Perhaps that is a question that should be asked around the Thanksgiving table before praising God in prayer.
Nancy W. Thomas, M.A., N.C.C., C.C.M.H.C., L.P.C.
Nancy Thomas is the Executive Director of Clinical Services at The Samaritan Counseling Center, Inc. in Montgomery. She is a National Certified Counselor, Certified Clinical Mental Health Counselor and Licensed Professional Counselor. She graduated from the University of Alabama with an M.A. in Counselor Education in 1994. She has extensive training and experience in mental health and marriage and family therapy. Her professional interests are in mental health recovery, adolescent and college issues, life transitions, healthy relationships, marital counseling, parenting, spirituality and identity development, and preserving marriages and families. Nancy works primarily with adolescents and adults.
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problem with the asset allocation methodology. I advise investing in good, growth stock mutual funds that have strong track records of at least five to ten years. Spread your money across four types of funds: growth, growth and income, aggressive growth and international. These groups provide diversification across risk, as well as a little splash overseas.
Q. My husband makes about $35,000 a year before taxes, and we have one child. We’ve also got a mortgage and $60,000 in student loan debt. About a year ago, my husband started work on a master’s degree, because he thinks he wants to teach when he retires. He quit school after the baby was born, because he didn’t think we could afford it any longer. I think he should finish the degree. Otherwise, he’s just throwing away the $10,000 we’ve already got invested in the program. What do you think? A. You guys need to clean up the mess you’ve made before he goes after his master’s degree. You might be able to
justify it if the degree immediately raised his income, but you two can’t afford to make investments in vague educational goals right now. If you want to call it throwing the money away, then yeah, throw it away. But I’m not sure the money has been wasted. The classes he has already taken are complete and on record, so why can’t he finish the degree somewhere down the road? You guys have done a poor job of planning, and now you need to climb out of a big hole before you do anything else. The point is not the $10,000, Amanda. The point is that you’re barely making ends meet. You’ve already got a house payment and $60,000 in student loan debt hanging over your heads, not to mention the added expense of a baby in the house. The last thing you need is to go even deeper into debt for something he won’t even use until retirement. That’s just silly. I’m all for education, but you’ve got to plan things and get a better payback on your educational spending. That’s when it becomes an investment. But he doesn’t need to even think about a master’s degree until you guys have first straightened out your finances!
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November 2014 Community Calendar Monthly events can also be found in the Around Our Community Section starting on page 8. November 2-4
Fall Bible Conference at Trinity Presbyterian Church, with guest speaker Brian Habig, pastor of Downtown Presbyterian Church, Greenville, SC. Activities for children also and nursery is available. Call 262.3892 for details.
Sunday, November 9
Family Movie Night at Frazer UMC, from 4-6 p.m. Wear your PJ’s, bring your favorite blanket and/or lawn chair, and enjoy a free movie and snacks under the “clouds” in the Frazer Atrium. Free event. No childcare provided; all children must be accompanied by an adult. Call (334) 495-6335 or visit www.frazerumc.org for more info.
Thursday, November 13
Matthew Smith and Indelible Grace will be in concert in Trinity Hall at Trinity Presbyterian Church, 1728 South Hull Street, at 7 pm. Tickets are $5.00, and go on sale to the public October 16. Tickets may be purchased online at www.trinitypca.org/indeliblegrace or at the Trinity Christian Bookstore located on the Hull Street side of the church. All seating is General Admission. Complimentary preschool nursery is available by reservation only. Contact nursery@trinitypca.org.
Friday, November 14
25th Annual ‘Family Night Out’ Fall Carnival Montgomery First Assembly Gymnasium (135 Bell Rd.) This fun event -- perfect for the whole family -- includes concessions and games for toddlers to adults. Enjoy inflatables, a mechanical bull, cake walk, hay rides, face painting, and even a prize-redemption booth to exchange winning tickets. All attendees have a chance to win free giveaways from local businesses. Proceeds benefit the church youth department’s missions work around the world. River Region’s Journey
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6 to 9:30 p.m. For more information, visit www.montgomeryfirst.org.
Tuesday, December 2
Christchurch Candlelight Harpsichord Concert. Enjoy elegant harpsichord chamber music concert by candlelight at 6 P.M. in the beautiful sanctuary of Christchurch, 8800 Vaughn Road. Immediately following the concert, there will be a Champagne Dessert Reception in Canterbury Hall. Tickets ($25.00) for this gathering may be obtained from the church (334-387-0566 ext. 203) beginning Wednesday, November 5th,. All proceeds and designated offerings will benefit the Christchurch Pipe Organ Fund.
Thursday, December 4
An Evening with Third Day at 7 pm, Montgomery Performing Arts Center at the Renaissance. Visit ticketmaster.com!
Saturday, December 6
An Evening of Fashion at 6 pm; Pilgrim Rest Missionary Baptist, West Campus. Advanced Tickets are $10, Day of the Show $15, Children ages 6-12, $5 and children ages 5 and under are free. Performing Guests: Pastor Ibrahim Lee, Gospel Recording Artist Cheryl Whorter, Pierre Watkins, Kenyanna Blakely, Comedian De’ Anthony Turner and Silent Pra’Zers Mime Ministry. For more information, call Event Coordinator Yvette Bartee at 334-294-4485.
Ongoing Happenings AGLOW International meets every third Thursday, 9:30 at the Montgomery House of Prayer. All women welcome to join together for praise, prayer and an anointed message. Contact mboudousquie@yahoo.com. Bridge of Life Assembly of God, 9000 Vaughn Road, Montgomery, holds Sunday morning worship at 10:30 a.m. each week. Sunday school classes meet at 9:30 a.m. We offer classes for all age groups and childcare is provided. Our goal is to build bridges...not walls. We invite you to come join us if you need to learn how to build those bridges. For directions or information call 334-396-0208. Email jon@bridgeoflife.tv or visit www.bridgeoflife.tv. Central Community Christian Church, 981 South Perry Street, Montgomery, holds new members training classes on Sundays at 9 a.m. Sunday School (9:30), morning worship (11:00), Tuesday night Bible study (6:30). Every fourth Sunday of the month is our youth Sunday. For more information please call (334) 269-0457 or by email at centralccchurch1@gmail.com. We are a church where you can be you, you can be loved and where you can grow! 32
Christchurch, 8800 Vaughn Road, Montgomery, offers a Women’s Enrichment Bible Study led by Jeanne Dean on Thursdays, 9:30-11:30 a.m., in Canterbury Hall. All women are welcome. Childcare for ages birth-4 years is provided. Call 387-0566 x 201 for more info. Christchurch offers a men’s Bible study led by Fr. John-Michael van Dyke, on Thursday mornings on the 11th floor of Goode Medical Bldg, Jackson Hospital. Breakfast is served beginning at 6:45 a.m. and teaching begins at 7:15 a.m. Call 387-0566 x 201. Chisholm Baptist Church, 2938 Lower Wetumpka Road, Montgomery, holds Sunday morning Bible study (9:30), Morning worship (10:45), Tuesday prayer breakfast (8:30) Wednesday evening prayer service (6 pm) and Senior Body and Soul Group (every 1st Tuesday at 1 pm). Email jbass9784@charter. net or call 262-6437. First Presbyterian Church, 9299 Vaughn Road, hosts Family Night every Wednesday beginning at 5:20 p.m. with supper, followed by a study on prayer. Everyone is welcome. For more information call (279-1372). First Presbyterian Church, 9299 Vaughn Road, hosts a Men’s Prayer Breakfast every Friday morning, 6 a.m. The Youth of First United Methodist Church, Montgomery every Wednesday night at 7:00 p.m. for Wednesday Night Live, a time of praise and worship in “the attic”. Also, every Sunday night at 6:00 p.m. is MYF which includes a snack supper $3.00 followed by activities, small groups and lots of fun! Visit www.fumcmontgomery.org. First United Methodist Church will host Terrific Tuesdays. Please come and join us for fellowship, a program and lunch. Terrific Tuesdays will meet each Tuesday in room 204 of Wesley Hall. Fellowship time will begin at 10:00 a.m. followed by a program at 10:30 a.m. and lunch at 11:30 a.m. The cost of lunch is $2.50. For additional information please contact NeeNee Webb at 834-8990. Frazer mom2mom is a playgroup to connect mothers of preschoolers at Frazer United Methodist Church to share fun and inspiration in our journey together, with our children, and with Christ. Email Mom2mom@frazerumc. org. Good News @ Noon is an interdenominational Bible study, held at the First Baptist Community Ministries Building on Adams Street, Thursdays, at noon. Small cost for hot lunch. Call 272.1133.
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Hall Memorial CME Church, 541 Seibles Road, Montgomery, offers Bible Study Tuesdays at 5:30 P.M. and Wednesdays at 6: 30 P.M. For directions or information call 334-288-0577. Email HallMemorialCME1@ aol.com or visit www.HallMemorialCME. blogspot.com. Hall Memorial CME Church says: VOLUNTEERS NEEDED! Tutors, prayer-warriors, and office/clerical volunteers needed for the Montgomery City Jail Ministry & G.E.D program. Opportunities are ongoing. No experience or certification necessary. Contact Pastor Anderson T. Graves II, at hallmemorialcme1@aol.com. Call 334-288-0577. The City Jail ministry is an in-reach ministry of Hall Memorial CME Church, 541 Seibles Road, Montgomery.
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Macedonia Miracle Kingdom & Worship Center (MMKWC), 3070 Selma Highway, Montgomery, services are Sunday School and New Members Class, 9:00 a.m., Morning Worship, 10:45 a.m.; Tuesday Night Bible Class, 7:00 p.m. and Friday Night Prayer, 6:00 p.m. (BOTH at The Pattern-Mt Meigs Road)
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Perry Hill UMC, 910 Perry Hill Rd, sponsors a Bluegrass Jam in the Church Fellowship Hall on the third Saturday of each month from 9AM - 12AM. All Bluegrass Artist plus Fans are invited to attend. Attendance is FREE. For information call Kathy@ 272-3174.
Mt. Gillard Missionary Baptist Church, 3323 Day Street, holds Wednesday Bible Study in the church Fellowship Hall and lasts for one hour. Please come and participate in roaming the Bible learning God’s word through teaching. The Rev. Henry M. Carnegie, Jr. is the teacher and pastor. Midday Bible Study begins each Wednesday at 11:30 a.m. Evening Bible Study begins each Wednesday at 7:00 p.m. Call 233-8750.
Perry Hill UMC, 910 Perry Hill Rd, hosts a Wednesday Night Supper and Revive! program each week from 5:30pm til 7:00pm. Reservations are required by noon on the Monday prior to the supper. Cost is $4 per person or $12 per family. Call 334-272-3174 for more information.
New Freedom Worship Center, 6004 –A East Shirley Lane, Apostle T. Briggs~ Pastor; Sunday Worship Service 10:30 a.m. and Wednesday Night Bible Study 7:30 p.m. Open Door Christian Faith Church, 1601 Dewey St. Montgomery, offers Women’s Prayer Mondays at 5:00, Men’s prayer Wednesday at 5:00, followed by bible study at 6:00. Couples ministry held every 1st Wednesday of the month at 7:00. Pastor William Cromblin, and the Open Door Church family invites you to “come experience the move of God. Call 334-269-6498.
River City Church, 301 Dexter Avenue, offers a Friday Christian Night Club (free of alcohol and smoking) with Ballroom Dancing every Friday at 6:30 P.M. Cost is $10 for a one hour lesson, devotional, and 3 hours of DJ music. All denominations welcome. 7:3010:30 open dance floor. The River of Life Church, located at 116 County Road 40 E (in the Pine Level Community Center) Prattville. Pastor Nick Edwards invites you to a “Place of New Beginnings”, where families come and grow together. Church Service Schedule: Sunday 10:30 a.m. Sunday School; 11:00 a.m. Morning Worship; 5:00 p.m. Evening
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November 2014 Community Calendar Worship. Wednesday 6:00 p.m. Adult Bible Study, Teens (Genesis Project), Jr. High (Limitless), Royal Rangers, MPact Girls, Rainbow’s/Noah’s Zoo Club. Thursday 9:00 a.m.Women of Grace Bible Study. Nursery provided. We invite you to”come experience God in a personal way, feel loved by all and know that you belong”. Call the church office 334-657-0392 or visit www. theriveroflifechurch.net. Saint James UMC, 9045 Vaughn Road, offers S.N.A.G. (Sunday Nights About God!) This program starts at 5:00p.m. and ends at 6:30p.m. Childcare is provided for
small groups until 7:00p.m. Don’t forget this program is available for all children! Saint James UMC, 9045 Vaughn Road, offers Wild & Wacky Wednesdays! Wednesday night supper starts at 5:15p.m. We will start checking children in at 6:00p.m. This program ends at 7:30p.m. and childcare is provided until 8:00p.m. for small group participants. Call 277.3037 for more info. Saint Paul African Methodist Episcopal Church, 706 E. Patton Avenue, “Clothes Closet” is open to the public each Thursday morning from 10 a.m. – Noon. The Men of Saint Paul host a free Men’s Prayer Breakfast the Third Saturday of each month at 8 a.m. in the Church Fellowship Hall. The Men’s Prayer Breakfast is open to all men of all ages. Come and share your concerns and needs of our Men of today. For more information, please contact (334) 354-1897. Bible Study is held each Wednesday, 6-7 p.m. in the Fellowship Hall. Pastor Farrell J. Duncombe is the teacher and Senior Pastor of the church. Come and join us for Sunday School each Sunday at 9 a.m. and Morning Worship at 10 a.m. Need transportation, call (334) 264-7618. For info call 286.8577 or www.saintpaulamemontgomery.com.
S-STOP, a commUNITY Bible study for Singles. Souls Strengthened Together for One Purpose. Psalm 46:10 “BE STILL and know that I am God.” Meets at Prattville Christian Academy on Sunday nights at 6 p.m. For info email sstop04@gmail.com. Vision Full Gospel Ministries, 163 Rifle Range Road, Montgomery, holds Bible Study Tues. Night 7:00 p.m., Pray & Praise 2nd & 4th Thurs. Night 7:00 p.m., Sunday School 9:30 am, Sunday Worship Service 10:45 a.m., Internet radio-homecominggospel.com Sunday 3:00p.m. Central & 4:00 p.m. Eastern. and Satellite Radio -wlsg 1340am Sunday 3:00p.m. Women at The Well Ministry invites you to attend its women’s fellowship at 1 pm every 1st and 3rd Saturday. We are women who desire and have a heart to see broken, crushed, hurting women be transformed through the one man who can fulfill their every need... JESUS...THE POTTER. All women of all denominations or race are welcome. This ministry is available to teenagers as well. Come join us as we lift, encourage and build each other up through the Word of God and the words of our testimonies. For more information contact Evangelist Dr. Linda McCall, 334-220-1924.
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most effective verbal affirmation is spoken so that others will hear it. Finally, while she was wiping off a table next to a full table, I asked her what her name was. While still leaning over the table, she answered me with a look of concern, maybe thinking she had done something wrong or that I was not happy with the food. Then, with the biggest smile I could give, I proceeded to compliment her (in front of others) on her wonderful attitude and great smile. She, of course, beamed from the compliment and became even more joyful, if that were possible! In addition, I noticed that everyone at the table next to her was smiling also. I wish I could tell you that I have done this many times, but I haven’t. However, after seeing the results of this episode, I have promised the Lord that I will do a better job in the future of putting into practice His instructions about encouraging others and persevering as I fan into flame my gifts and the gifts of others. Putting Into Practice God’s Word. Each of us has probably experienced reluctance to minister grace to another when given the opportunity. Perhaps we feel discouraged or fearful, however, we must remember that the power of the Holy Spirit will help us overcome our fears so that God’s work can be done through us. “When we allow people to intimidate us we neutralize our effectiveness for God” (Life Application Bible). My Challenge to You: During the next three weeks, find something positive about three different people, pray about each, and then affirm them about some positive behavior or action they have taken. Lt. Col Mike Conn and wife, Lisa, founded Covenant Family Ministries when Mike retired from the Air Force in 1997. CFM is an independent marriage and family education ministry committed to partnering with churches, organizations, and individuals in Montgomery and across Alabama to build Family Teams for Christ. Married for over 33 years, Mike and Lisa have three daughters, two sons-in-law, and three grandchildren. November 2014
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Movie Reviews Reviews provided by MovieGuide: A Family Guide to Movies and Entertainment Ratings are based on production quality and moral acceptability. See details below. ***Reviews do not necessarily reflect views of the publishers of River Region’s Journey.
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Production Quality: **** Moral Acceptability: -1 (Caution) Starring: Mark Hapka, Bram Hoover, Stephan Lang, Max Adler, Alexa PenaVega, Dylan Baker, Kim Zimmer, Becky Ann Baker, Timothy Busfield, Kevin Cooney, Fred Thompson Genre: Family/Sports Drama Audience: Older children to adults Rating: PG-13 Content: Very strong Christian, biblical, moral worldview extolling faith, perseverance and friendship with many Christian elements including an important plot element taking place during a sermon, with prayer and Scripture positively reinforcing the story; five light obscenities (d*** and h***); some football playing, nothing violent; no sexual content, one kiss between teenagers; upper male nudity; two scenes with teenage drinking, one with drunkenness, though not condoned; no smoking; and, no other immoral content. 23 BLAST is a very well made, touching true story about a high school football player with incredible courage and determination. Travis, a star wide receiver, is an exceptional leader on the field and off. When Travis gets an infection and goes blind, his entire world is thrown upside down. However, his coach isn’t done with him yet and gives Travis the opportunity to play center on the football team. Skeptical at first, Travis is inspired to take a leap of faith, ultimately learning he doesn’t need sight to accomplish great things. 23 BLAST is extremely entertaining and inspiring. Tightly written and directed, the movie charms viewers through funny moments and intriguing characters. 23 BLAST also has strong Christian, biblical values. Travis holds onto his faith and finds strength in God to overcome impossible obstacles. His parents are supportive and loving, and his friends refuse to let Travis give up. 23 BLAST almost perfectly expresses the Scripture passage, “For we live by faith, not by sight.” A light caution is advised for some minor obscenities and one scene of teenage drinking that’s rebuked.
Production Quality: **** Moral Acceptability: -1 (Caution) Starring: Reese Witherspoon Genre: Drama Audience: Teenagers and adults Rating: PG-13 Content: Strong Christian, biblical worldview, with prayer before meal, Scripture read, Bible stories told, sacrifice, characters carry the Bible hundreds of miles as their only item, preaching, church scene, giving; four obscenities and four light profanities; strong violence includes warlords come into village and shoot people (mostly heard but some shooting seen), multiple people die, children lose their parents, child dies, children fight off tiger, dead people float down a river after gunshots fired, children are shot at and taken; upper male nudity in African villages; implied fornication from character who doesn’t have her life in order and can’t commit to a relationship and some kissing; alcohol use; no smoking, but African character is given marijuana but doesn’t understand and starts using a lot but is rebuked; and, lying. THE GOOD LIE is a powerful drama about Sudanese refugees who make it through some extreme trials and are brought to America to make a new life. A group of children are playing soccer in a village in Sudan, until suddenly some warlords come to the village. The Warlords kill nearly everyone, except several children. Bonding together, the children run away. Walking hundreds of miles, the group reaches a refugee camp. Years later, the group finds out they will be flown to America to make a new life. Arriving in Kansas City, the boys are greeted by Carrie, a young woman who must help the boys find jobs. THE GOOD LIE has a strong Christian worldview with Scripture, prayer, preaching, and a sacrificial theme. There are some cautionary elements. These include a promiscuous American woman character, and one of the lost boys being enticed by marijuana. Both are rebuked, however. THE GOOD LIE is very well made. It will make viewers laugh and cry. THE GOOD LIE has some heavy moments, but it’s an inspiring story that ultimately uplifts viewers.
The previous reviews are a selected sample of informative reviews from MOVIEGUIDE: A FAMILY GUIDE TO MOVIES AND ENTERTAINMENT, a syndicated feature of Good News Communications, Inc. To subscribe to MOVIEGUIDE which includes a complete set of at least 10 reviews of the latest movies as well as many informative articles, please visit our web site at www.movieguide.org or write or call:”MOVIEGUIDE,” P.O. Box 190010, Atlanta, GA 31119 (800) 899-6684. What the ratings mean: Production Quality: (1 to 4 stars) Moral Acceptability: -4 (Abhorrent), -3 (Excessive), -2 (Extreme Caution), -1 (Caution), +1 (Wholesome), +2 (Good), +3 (Moral), +4 (Exemplary) River Region’s Journey
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