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Feature Articles
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Publisher’s Note
Faith @ Work
Jason Watson
Larry Stevens is a name many are familiar with in the River Region, due to his lengthy career in radio. Now he’s the President and Chief Growth Officer for SMI Advertising. Discover how Larry’s faith in Christ plays an important role in his life, both personally and professionally.
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Pastor's Perspective Bishop Kyle Searcy, Fresh Anointing House of Worship
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Women Arising Pastor Kemi Searcy
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Pondering the Journey
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Jesus Welcomed Real Sinners Do We?
Sam Whatley
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Bob Crittenden
In desiring to love others and share Christ with them, we often run into barriers that exist in our own attitudes and within our own hearts. Learn how to overcome these barriers so that people can see the real Jesus and not their false impressions of Him.
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The Intersection page 31
Counselor’s Corner Nancy Thomas, LPC
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Dave $ays Dave Ramsey
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Ministry Spotlight:
Medical Outreach Ministries by Laura Bell
MOM has been serving the physical, emotional and spiritual needs of the medically under served in the River Region since the late 90s. The ministry recently began tending to the needs of diabetics specifically, after receiving its ADA recognition. Find out how MOM can help you and your family or how you can partner with them to serve others. 1
In Every Issue page 6
Books to Read page 8
Around Our Community page 14
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Our Mission... We believe the Good News concerning the life, death and resurrection of Jesus Christ is worth sharing with our friends and neighbors in the River Region. Each month we deliver this life-changing message to the centers of activity across our community in a user-friendly and relevant way to empower and equip all those seeking to grow closer to God. Join us in this mission by sharing a copy with your neighbor or by becoming an advertising partner starting next month.
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From the Publisher A lawyer once tested Jesus saying, “Teacher, what shall I do to inherit eternal life?” In response Jesus said, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind, and your neighbor as yourself” (Luke 10:27). This eventually led to Jesus telling the story of the Good Samaritan in order to help us understand who our neighbors are exactly. I know I’m often like that lawyer wanting to check the box on “loving my neighbor”, but Jesus calls me and you to something greater. He calls us to a love that He displayed by laying down His life to serve others. Philippians 2:5-8 says it this way: “Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus, who, though he was in the form of God, did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped, but emptied himself, by taking the form of a servant, being born in the likeness of men. And being found in human form, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross.” Jesus condescended to man, showing mercy, in order to bring hope and life to all. If we love God, then we are to follow in the footsteps of our Savior and love our neighbor. That’s what you’ll find in this month’s issue as you read the ministry spotlight on Medical Outreach Ministries. Their team is a model of God’s love to our community from which we all can learn. Also, Scott Sauls shares a challenging article titled, Jesus Welcomes Real Sinners, Do We? Inside our “holy huddles” life is comfortable. We know the same lingo and have similar likes and dislikes. On the other hand, welcoming in people with open wounds of sin is difficult. Yet, this is the Christian’s role on earth. Jesus said He came for the sick and these were often the ones with whom He reclined around the dinner table. Scott’s article offers some excellent insights on how we can carry on this ministry today. The good news that we can be saved from the curse of sin through the perfect life and sacrificial death of Christ is something we should bask in. We should celebrate through worship in our homes and churches, but we can’t stop there. The love of Christ comes to us and then through us to our neighbors. I pray that through this issue of River Region’s Journey you will know God’s love for you in Christ Jesus, and that you will allow His love to bubble up out of you and overflow to all those you encounter.
River Region’s Journey is published monthly by Keep Sharing, P.O. Box 230367, Montgomery, AL 36123. For information, call 334-213-7940. River Region’s Journey is copyrighted 2016 by KeepSharing. All rights reserved. Reproduction in whole or part without written permission is prohibited. The opinions expressed in River Region’s Journey are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the view of the owners, nor do they constitute an endorsement of products or services herein. River Region’s Journey has the right to refuse any content that is not consistent with its statement of faith.
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Bishop Kyle Searcy, Fresh Anointing House of Worship
Seven Steps to Renewing Your Mind The human brain fascinates me. Its computing power is truly remarkable. Just one brain generates more energy (electrical impulses) in one day than all the cell phones on the planet. An unbelievable amount of activity occurs 24/7 in our brain; most of it is not at the conscious level. In fact about 90 – 99% of all brain activity happens in the non-conscious area of our brain at the speed of four hundred billion actions per second. The conscious level only accounts for about 10% of brain activity at two thousand actions per second. These amazing facts tell us that much of who we are is programmed in our mind. We rarely think consciously about our actions and reactions. They are rote to a certain extent. The question is where does the programming come from that dictates our behavior? The answer: our thoughts. Research shows that 75 – 98% of our mental, physical and behavioral health comes from our own thought life. This means only 2 – 25% of our mental health comes from the environment and genes. So much for blaming our parents for our mental issues! This also proves Proverbs 23:7 is true, “As a man thinks in his heart so is he…” What if the programming loaded by our thoughts is wrong or at least out of date? Can we do anything about it? Absolutely. This is where Paul the Apostle’s valuable wisdom declares, “…Be not conformed to this world but be transformed by the renewing of your mind…” (Romans 12:2). The beauty is that we can change the programming of our brains whenever we River Region’s Journey
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want to. Our minds can be renewed. Here is a seven-step process toward mind renewal.
1. Slow down Our 21st century pace is too hectic and possibly mentally unhealthy. The mind functions best and changes more when it is at rest. When we go into intentional rest we enhance and increase the activity in the non-conscious brain: * Gamma waves increase memory and learning * Coordination between brain networks increases * More activity happens that is linked to happiness Activities such as: meditation, ruminations, imagination, self-perceptions, thinking things through, letting your mind wander in a focused way, sleeping, deep thinking, and prayer all enhance the mind’s ability to change and become healthier. Take a few minutes daily to slow down and allow your mind to “chill.”
2. Gather Information We should now ask some questions about our “chill time.” What has been happening in our mind? What are our thoughts and feelings? Are we tense? Has our breathing been shallow? Has our attitude been poor? Psalm 4:4 says, “Stand in awe, and sin not: Commune with your own heart upon your bed, and be still.” As we commune with our own heart we will gather information about ourselves.
3. Reflect with Focus Select one area or one thought, preferably something that needs to be changed or reprogrammed. This is a disciplined way of thinking that silences all the chaotic, com-
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peting thoughts. Consider one item and all of its ramifications. This kind of thinking is the beginning of redesigning our brains.
4. Write Now we should write down our thoughts. Writing has profound effect on brain alteration. It also imprints a visual on our brain. Write down negative and positive thoughts. Feel free to be creative in writing. Draw pictures, link word groups, or create “origami” with words. Just let it flow.
5. Revisit We should now read what we have written, paying special attention to the areas that we desire to change. This will alert our brains to areas of focus. This causes our thoughts to become more changeable.
6. Act Exhibit some form of mental or physical action related to the destruction of the old thought and the establishment of a new one. For example, if we have been fearful we might imagine the fear disappearing as a puff of smoke, quoting, “God has not given us the spirit of fear…” (2 Timothy 1:7).
7. Pray Ask God to help with the process. He created the mind so He is capable of helping to reshape it. Use these seven steps for each thought, one at a time, 10 minutes a day, for at least three weeks. If we do, the experts tell us that we will have made great progress to reshape our brains for the better. Kyle Searcy has a passion for developing a new generation of leaders. He is a recognized and highly respected leader, bishop, prayer warrior, teacher, and author. He serves as senior Pastor of Fresh Anointing House of Worship, Montgomery, Alabama. Kyle is married to Kemi and they have four childen and two grandchildren.
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Eight Women of Faith Michael Haykin
I recently spent a couple of days at Muskoka Bible Centre, a Christian camp north of Toronto where we love to spend time in the summer. While there I cracked open a new book by Michael Haykin and saw that, fittingly enough, he had dedicated it to the staff and guests of MBC. I took it as a sign that I ought to keep reading. I’m glad I did. Eight Women of Faith is a collection of brief historical vignettes, each of which
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introduces a Christian woman from days gone by and reveals some of her unique contributions during her life and times. Haykin’s goal is “to remind contemporary Christians, especially evangelicals, of the vital role that women have played in the history of our faith.” In some ways the book divides neatly into two parts. Haykin explains: “The first two chapters, those on Lady Jane Grey and Margaret Charlton Baxter, explore women’s lives in the church prior to the significant changes of the eighteenth century. Jane speaks to the way that women made the faith of the Reformation their own, and Margaret shows how women helped men in ministry, in this case, her husband, Richard Baxter.” The next six chapters explore what it was like to be a Christian woman in the eighteenth century. Here he looks at Anne Dutton, a theological writer; Sarah Edwards, who “reveals the way some Christian women have had profound experiences of God for the blessing of the church;” Anne Steele, who wrote hymns which are still treasured today; Esther Edwards Burr, Sarah Edwards’ daughter, who has much to say 6
about Christian friendship; Ann Judson, who was a pioneer missionary and “something of an icon for generations of women missionaries who followed her;” and finally Jane Austen, easily the most famous of the subjects, whom few know to be a serious Christian. In this way the book is more than a collection of eight short biographies. Yes, Haykin provides biographical details, but his purpose is less to recount the character’s life than to point to her faith and to the way she grew and served during her lifetime. He means to show the vital importance of women for the life and health of the Christian church. He does not merely describe these women in relation to their husbands as so many biographers have done (at least for those who had a husband), but shows that they were godly in their own right, that even apart from their husbands they had deep faith and a desire to serve the Lord and his people. They were, indeed, women of faith. As for me, my favorite chapter was the one on Jane Austen, perhaps because I’ve read so little about her faith (which seems to have been very strong and genuine) or perhaps because I’ve only just begun to read and enjoy Emma, which many regard as her finest work. In Eight Women of Faith, Michael Haykin was provided a neat book, a helpful book, and a unique book. He has provided a book that will benefit any and all of us. I recommend it!
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From Walls to Bridges: A Gospel-Centered Discussion on Race * How do we, the body of Christ, walk out becoming one? * How do the words in John 17 come alive and live in each of us? * How does unity begin to permeate our entire being? * How do we become light to a world that is darkened by racial division? * How does the body of Christ become a witness and a voice for racial unity? So how do these groups work? If you are interested in joining your own small group, you will sign up on an online form which asks your age, ethnicity, and availability. You will then be placed in a diverse small group. Because this can be a difficult conversation, you may request one person to be in your group with you. Each group will choose the time and place that is convenient for its members to meet. Recognizing that relationships and trust take time, we ask that you commit to meet monthly with the women in your group and work through the 8 sessions of the discussion guide, “The Bridge to Racial Unity”. This event on September 11 and these groups are not affiliated with any specific church or ministry. For information, contact Deana Hodge at deanahodge3357@gmail.com.
Are you heartbroken by the racial divide you see in your community, church your family? Do you feel fearful and awkward toward knowing how to connect with others of a different race? Can you no longer tolerate the injustice, apathy and fear you see in your community? Join us for an informational meeting to learn how you can join a diverse, monthly, small group, gospel-centered discussion on race Sunday, September 11 at 6 pm at Common Ground Montgomery at 1516 Mobile Road. We are a group of women of diverse ethnicities, ages, and church backgrounds who strongly desire to see the gospel transform race relations in Montgomery. We believe that this begins with honest dialogue in the context of safe relationships. We have been meeting for two years to discuss, learn and process current events. Although these conversations are often difficult and uncomfortable, we believe the gospel not only demands we address it, but the gospel is the agent that changes hearts and transforms people.
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River Region Prayer Walk Oct. 1, 8:30 a.m. - 1 p.m. Union Train Shed, 300 Water Street, Montgomery Presented by Beauty By Fire Ministries. Theme: The Year Of Unity. A prayer walk to spiritually unite our community through prayer under the Lord our Banner, in the name of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, to seek His favor, His protection, and the restoration of His people and His land. Starts with a praise concert, then the walk, finishing with free hotdogs, fellowship and a concert by Surviving The Fall. This year the walk is partnering with Valiant Cross Academy, Montgomery, to provide school supplies and uniforms for the boys. Bring your donations of student or teacher school supplies or boys uniform khaki pants, white button-down shirts, navy socks and brown loafer shoes of varying sizes for ages 11-14. Uniforms may be purchased at Walmart. Register at https:// www.eventbrite.com/e/5th-annual-riverregion-prayer-walk-tickets-25921507928? aff=ebrowse#tickets.
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Missions Yard Sale Oct. 15, 6 a.m.-noon Eastmont Baptist Church, 4505 Atlanta Highway, Montgomery Everything from A to Z. All proceeds go to missions. Donations accepted after Oct. 9. If you need to schedule a pickup for larger items, please call Gene Kim at 277-6300. 9
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Every parent knows about “the talk.” What many parents fail to realize is that one conversation isn’t enough. Your kids desperately need help to navigate the rapidly changing sexually-charged culture in which they live. Packed with solid research and practical tools, The Talks provides you with the help you need to get comfortable having some critical conversations in your home. Whether your kids are 6 or 16, you’ll be equipped to help your kids make wise choices now and to prepare them to experience God’s gift of sexuality in the right time and in the right way. All parents and guardians of all ages and seasons of life are invited to attend. Please register for this free event via email. Leader: Bryan Levangie (blevangie@frazerumc.org) Date: Sept. 7– Oct. 12 | Time: 6–7:30PM
September 17 at His Vessel Ministries, Teaching by Jo Hancock His Vessel Ministries is hosting a special teaching event, Spiritual Fasting September 17, 2016 from 9am-11:30am at the Vessel Room located in the Historic Union Station in downtown Montgomery, Alabama. The teaching will be conducted by Jo Hancock. Spiritual Fasting, will teach the Christian why, how, and when to fast to increase God’s presence and power! There is no registration fee a love offering will be accepted. For more information regarding Spiritual Fasting or to register, e-mail info@hisvessel.org or call 334-356-4478. His Vessel Ministries provides Christ-centered teachings that point people to the Truth that will stir and challenge individuals to love God with all their heart, soul, and strength so they become the vessel that pleases God. This is carried out through Bible teachings, yearly discipleship trainings, and special teaching events. The ministry also focuses on making the home a sanctuary where Father God may dwell. Visit our website: www.hisvessel.org or www.facebook/hisvesselministries.
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Moving On After Moving In Meet other women who have recently moved to the River Region! Join us for a time of learning, sharing and meeting new friends, during this class assisted by Susan Miller’s book After the Boxes are Unpacked: Moving On After Moving In. Thursdays 9:15 am to 11 am, starting September 15th. Class will be held at Saint James UMC, 9045 Vaughn Road. For more info: pamzavada@gmail.com or (256) 5417888. Childcare available. Visit www.sjlife. com/just-moved.org for more information.
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Frazer UMC, Tuesdays 6-7:30PM Sept 6-Nov 29 Divorce Care: Thirteen weeks of guidance and purpose as you move forward with life after Divorce. Divorce Care for Kids: Children of divorce or separation find hope, help, and healing. God Will Make a Way: Learn to follow God’s principles to thrive relationally, emotionally, and spiritually in 12 key areas of life and use God’s wisdom to cope with your most difficult problems. Call 272.8622 for more information or visit www.frazerumc.org.
A 6-week Personal Discipleship is being offered at His Vessel Ministries beginning September 7 from 6:30pm-8:30pm at the Vessel Room located in the Historic Union Station in downtown Montgomery. The purpose is to teach women the principles of prayer, living a life of purity, and walking in your purpose bringing God glory. There is no registration fee a love offering will be accepted. For more information regarding Personal Discipleship or to register, e-mail info@hisvessel. org or call 334356-4478. Also, His Vessel Ministries is hosting the special teaching event Bread Basics, cooking with whole wheat, September 29 from 6pm-9:00pm at the Vessel Room located in the Historic Union Station in downtown Montgomery, Alabama. In the Bread Basics class, you will learn about the health benefits and how to bake with whole grain wheat. A buffet of samples will be served and recipes shared. The registration fee is $15 per person. For more information regarding the Bread Basics teaching or to register, e-mail info@hisvessel. org or call 334-356-4478.
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Team Night at First Baptist Church Sept. 11, 6:15 p.m.
First Baptist Church, Main Sanctuary, 305 S. Perry St, Montgomery Wear your favorite team colors to this back-to-school event. Guest speaker is Inky Johnson, former Tennessee football player who suffered a lifethreatening injury leaving him with a paralyzed right arm, daily pain, constant physical challenges and dashed hopes of ever playing for the NFL. But his is a message of determination, success and inspiration. More info at www.inkyjohnson.com and www.montgomeryfbc.org.
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Frazer UMC Offers Series for Couples in the Community Falling in love is easy, but staying there, that’s something else entirely. With more than 1,500 matchmaker organizations in the United States, finding someone is easier than ever, but staying together seems to get more difficult every day. So...is it possible for two people to fall in love and actually stay there? Absolutely! Find out how in this series by Andy Stanley, Staying In Love. Leaders: Chris and Brandi McNew, (smallgroups@frazerumc.org) *Date: Sept. 7 - Oct. 19 |Time: 6-7:00PM | Wesley Hall
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RRJ: What would you say were some of the powerful worldly attractions that pulled you away from living for Christ? Larry: When I got out of high school, I moved away. I can’t say it was any particular worldly attraction that pulled me away, other than I just moved away from the Savior. As my radio career took off, I focused heavily on being successful and so it wasn’t long before it was all about success. RRJ: How did God bring you to the point of surrendering your life fully to Christ?
RRJ: Many people associate you with Montgomery because of your nearly 30-year career on radio, but where did you grow up? Larry: I grew up in the small coal-mining town of Grundy, Virginia. All my family was in coal mining and in those days it was a very hard and unsafe business. At an early age, I was infatuated with radio, especially when I could hear great radio stations from thousands of miles away due to AM radio being dominate. At age 15, I finally got the nerve to see the owner of our local station and began to hang around, then at age 15 I did my first radio show. By the time I graduated from high school in 1966 I had three years experience, and for a total of 33 years, I lived my childhood dream. I did earn a degree in electronics, but decided to stay on radio. My very pregnant wife and I (married in 1967 after being high school sweethearts) moved to Montgomery in late 1969. Little did I know that I would be here 47 years later and I would not dream of living anywhere else. RRJ: Did you come to know Christ there in Grundy as a child or youth? Larry: I was baptized into Christ at age fourteen. I was raised by God-fearing grandparents, and I always had a belief in God. River Region’s Journey
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Larry: When I was about 30 years old, we had two daughters, and Sarah (my wife) and I began to feel the need to get them into a church. We began to visit churches but never settled into one. My excuse was that I couldn’t find a church that was like the one back home. Of course, I could have found a church where we could have plugged in and started serving, but again it was an excuse. In 1979 I got a call at the radio station from a man asking if I was from Grundy, VA and if I knew a particular minister who was there. I did know him, and I also told him I had been a member of one of the churches associated with this man’s congregation. It turned out, he was here to start a new church. Our church is part of a brotherhood that doesn’t have a denominational setup, but we do cooperate to support Bible colleges and missionaries. Suddenly my excuse was gone. We began to attend the fledgling church and soon after I was convicted and surrendered my life again to Christ (think Prodigal Son) and my wife gave her love to Christ and was baptized. We are still with the same church body (Cornerstone Christian Church) and serving the Lord. RRJ: In many ways, you have lived a very public life as a radio personality. Has it been too difficult to maintain an active faith beyond the comfortable surroundings of Sunday morning church? Larry: There have been some conflicts, but I have always trusted God. When it came to hard decisions I looked at what His Word had to say and tried to make sure whatever I did was hooked up with His will for my life. I made the decision that I would not represent any company I could not recommend to a friend or one that seemed inconsistent with what I find in the Word of God. I make every effort to take my Sunday attitude with me into the rest of the week. Faith isn’t a one-day thing; it is 24/7 and 14
something I strive to live out in my everyday dealings. Sundays should not be comfortable because that is when Christians need to be challenged to go out and live their lives as ambassadors for Christ. RRJ: Now, for nearly 20 years, you’ve been operating your ad agency, SMI Advertising, which is a full-service agency representing around 40 clients. What are three ways your personal faith in Christ is revealed in your company? Larry: We never lie to a client. When we make an error we admit what we did, even if it costs us money (which it has). We have a trust with our clients that when we tell them something they know we are truthful, and because of this trust we rarely lose clients. We treat our sales reps from the media with respect, and we are always honest with them. We know they have families and have to earn a living, and we do our best never to make their lives difficult. We look at our life as a ministry. Through our work, we hope to show God’s influence in our lives. Christ left us with the Great Commandment to make disciples, and we never want to do anything that may prevent us from having a good witness to the world. RRJ: Finally, what advice would you give our readers to successfully live out their Christian faith? Larry: Know God’s Word, pray and listen to the voice of God’s Spirit that indwells you. If we have a heart for God, we soon find that the Word, prayer and the comfort of the Helper will lead us as we should go. I’ll sum it up with these scriptures from Romans 12:1-2: Therefore I urge you, brethren, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies a living and holy sacrifice, acceptable to God, which is your spiritual service of worship. And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect.
Larry Stevens and wife Sarah recently celebrated their 49th wedding anniversary and the couple has three grown children. Larry and Sarah have been members of Cornerstone Christian Church in Montgomery for 37 years where Larry currently serves as an elder and teaches Sunday School.
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Refuse to Be Offended “Woe to the world because of offenses” (Matthew18:7). Looking back through history to the present day, our world feels chaotic, almost too dangerous for us. Peace and safety have become our most sought after commodities. There have been several references of people who have allowed offences to so affect their lives and in turn to ruin the lives of others. Severely offended people will seek to wound others, even to the point of murder, if they do not let God properly heal the offense. The atrocities perpetuated by Adolf Hitler and Joseph Stalin have been traced back to offenses in their formation years which never had been healed. Cain killed his only brother Abel as a result of offense against him when Abel’s sacrifice was preferred by God. God cautioned Cain to beware of his offended heart but he did not take heed. (See Genesis 4:3-15.) I wonder if some of the racial tension our nation is experiencing currently is a result of unhealed racial wounds caused by slavery. Lives are still perishing because of an offense over 150 years old. It is very dangerous to hold on to offenses. Churches have closed down leaving disillusioned members with unanswered River Region’s Journey
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questions. It breaks my heart to watch friends of mine, once on fire for the Lord, now living in sin because they choose offense rather than forgiveness. Many marriages have hit rock bottom because of offenses. Most of the wrong doings occurring in our homes are as a result of misunderstandings between the parties. If we will take time to listen to each other and be patient with each other, we will avoid a lot of hassles. Wives must not allow themselves to always be ruled by their emotions. We must learn to be objective. Husbands must also exercise patience and tenderness dealing with their wives and not wave them off as being too emotional. Satan is the architect of most of the strife we face. He can implant a thought in
she gets home, she finds that the garbage is still in the trashcan. She becomes furious. Meanwhile, the husband comes in the door, ready to give his wife a hug, “Honey . . . “She screams, “Honey what?” He becomes offended by her angry reply and the trouble begins. As believers we will be offended, but we must trust the Lord to give us a forgiving spirit. We must also learn to recognize the weaknesses in our lives so as to resist being offended. We first must be honest, admitting that we are hurt and offended. This is a road map to healing. What we do not admit, we do not deal with, and what we do not deal with will fester. That is how offense turns to frustration, anger, and then rage which takes us to places we live to regret.
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your mind and make you think that thought originated with you. He is master at that. For example, a wife will say to her husband, “Honey, please take the trash on your way out.” He says, “Okay.” She goes to work and has a very bad day. She begins thinking about how tired she is and all the things she has to do when she gets home. A thought crosses her mind, I bet he didn’t even bother to take the trash! He’s been leaving me to do everything. As soon as 16
Jesus said offenses will come. Someone will rub us the wrong way. Something is going to cause us anger, great pain, and disappointment. We are going to react in one of two ways: 1. Forgive 2. Embrace the offense Before we choose either, we must first stop and consider the consequences of both actions. We should think about the ramifications of unforgiveness. The lack of clemency brings all sorts of health challenges plus the tension it causes in our relationships. Instead, we will find forgiveness to be very freeing and peaceful, promoting all things beautiful.
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1. Jesus says if someone offends us, we are to settle it with them. 2. Jesus also tells us to forgive. 3. Paul tells us that we must die to ourselves – a dead man cannot be offended. We should be too big to take offense and too noble to give it. -- Abraham Lincoln
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Convicted, Both Ways When we accept Christ, our lives change. For some, this change is in stages over time. For others it is literally overnight. So, some folks can pinpoint the date they were saved and others cannot. I have a friend who can remember the big change in his life very well. It was the day the judge slammed the gavel down and pronounced that he would spend the next fourteen years behind bars. Let’s call my friend Jack. Up until that fateful day Jack thought he had his act together. And I do mean his act. Part of the time he acted like a successful businessman, going to church, and doting on his
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wife and two children. But when those folks were not around he was known as “The Weed Man,” a distributor of street drugs, smooth when he wanted to be, violent when he thought he had to keep his dealers in line. His two acts could not go on forever, any more than a man can ride two horses at the same time. After years of making lots of money, he was arrested, tried, convicted and sentenced in a three-month whirlwind. Suddenly, everyone he had been deceiving (his family, his friends, and his church) knew who he really was. The shame of his sin and the fear of his future were unbearable. He was facing many years in prison and he knew he could not survive it. Not without the mercy and grace of God. That’s when Jack gave his life to Christ. Jack says he felt like the thief on the cross, the one who knew he was guilty and said, “Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom.” Jesus answered him, “I tell you the truth, today you will be with me in paradise” (Luke 23:4243, NIV). All his life Jack had heard stories about Jesus, but never known Him. He needed the Lord now more than he had ever needed anything. And he knew to turn to the Bible to find Him. So that’s what he did. In county jail he began reading the Scriptures. When 20
moved to a medium security prison, he started going to chapel and talking with inmates about the Bible. Not knowing how God would use him, he was willing to learn. About six months later a chapel speaker pointed Jack out and prophesied three things. He said, “You will go home. You will preach. And one day you will have a ministry.” Jack doubted that any of that could happen. But it did. Less than three weeks later, without his request, Jack was transferred to a minimum security prison only a short drive from his home. Now he could see his wife and children more frequently. A few days after he arrived three men approached him and said that they had been praying for a new inmate chaplain and God had revealed to them that he was that man. Days later he was elected inmate chaplain by all of the inmates, even though he had never met any of them before. Life really changed for Jack then. As the inmate chaplain, he could study books to help him understand the Bible. He pondered the works of John Wesley, John Piper, and other men of God. In time he learned to preach, teach, and share his witness with others. At the end of three years he was released on probation. Unlike the thief on the cross, he was given a second chance to live life with God’s guidance. Today, ten years later, Jack works with inner city children and adults. Some are in housing projects; some are learning to buy and take care of their first home. He teaches sports, life skills, family skills, and most of all the love and grace of Christ. I heard Jack preach not long ago and was reminded of Paul’s words to the people in Thessalonica: For we know, brothers loved by God, that he has chosen you, because our gospel came to you not simply with words, but also with power, with the Holy Spirit and with deep conviction (I Thessalonians 1:4, NIV). Has God convicted you? Have you given Him your life?
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behalf, filled with his Spirit to represent him in the places where we live, work and play. The work of Jesus continues in the world through Christians. Our calling is to labor in every way possible to model our ministry and message after his. We are to live as those who are “full of grace and truth” until our churches and ministries attract the types of people who were attracted to Jesus, and, by unfortunate necessity, draw criticism from the types of people who criticized him. What does it mean to have a ministry atmosphere that is “full of grace” (John 1:14)?
In a very real sense, the work of Jesus is complete. When it comes to our standing as beloved, forgiven, delighted-in sons and daughters of God, “It is finished,” just as he said. His sinless life secured for us a new and irrevocable status—holy and blameless in God’s sight. His death fulfilled the requirements of God’s justice toward our sins. We are summoned by Scripture to make much of Jesus. It is stunning that Jesus makes much of us, too. Jesus lived the life we should have lived, and he died the death we should have died. Because of this, we are free. What a wonderful and humbling reality—God does not treat us as our sins deserve, because he has already treated Jesus as our sins deserve. All this being true, there is still much work that Jesus intends to get done…through us. Luke writes in Acts 1:1, “In the first book (the Gospel of Luke), O Theophilus, I have dealt with all that Jesus began to do and teach.” Began to do and teach? How could there be more for Jesus to do than he what has already done? That’s where we as Christ’s “ambassadors” come into the picture. We are now the chosen ones, sent into the world on his River Region’s Journey
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Gandhi famously said: I like your Christ, I do not like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ. Gandhi admired Jesus, but found it difficult to reconcile how the Christians in his life seemed to represent Jesus so poorly. In his mind, this is what kept him from becoming a follower of Jesus. 22
Whether this impression is true or merely perceived, it is still our starting point in the minds of many non-Christian people. If we are not guilty ourselves, then we are at least guilty by association with believers who have misrepresented the biblical Jesus with harsh, abrasive, condemning or withdrawn attitudes. We must take personal responsibility, as far as it depends on us, to replace pictures of a false Jesus with pictures of the real Jesus—the Jesus who came full of grace and truth, and who even welcomed “sinners” and ate with them (Luke 15:1-2).
As Jesus’ ambassadors, we need to listen very carefully to statements like this one. We must carefully and lovingly examine the common barriers that stand between the real Jesus and people’s false impressions of him—impressions which, unfortunately, have been projected to a watching world by sincere yet misguided Christians. Let’s consider some of these barriers, shall we?
BARRIER #1: Condemnation Writer Philip Yancey often asks people he meets what they think about Christians. Sadly, the answer he hears most often from people is that Christians are judgmental, intolerant, and holier-than-thou. When the September 11 terrorist attacks took place on the World Trade Center, one very well-known (and deeply misguided) Christian leader confirmed this stance by saying on national television: If you are a homosexual, a member of the ACLU, in favor of abortion, or part of the People of the American Way, then I point my finger in your face and say you did this. You made this happen. A Christian friend of mine who is an actor once invited a gay friend over to have dinner with him and his wife. Their guest soon realized (from the Bible on the coffee table) that they were Christians. He then said to my friend, “You are a Christian, and you actually like me?” This kind of story causes my heart to sink. Does it yours? Are we serious about being Christ’s ambassadors in the world? Then we must humbly wrestle with, and fight with love to reverse, the idea that Christians are against people who don’t believe like we do.
BARRIER #2: Separation I believe that Christians who want to separate themselves and their children from secular people, secular things, and secular ideas make a big mistake. Christ’s ambassadors must resist this “us against them” and often fear-based mindset. We must do everything in our power to become friends with as many non-Christians as we can—no conditions attached. This must be a central, core value of our lives and also our Christian communities. Consider Jesus. It was only the religious proud who withdrew from Jesus, criticized him, took offense at him, and wished to rid the world of him. But what about the prostitutes, crooks, drunks, gluttons and sinners? These all wanted to be near to Jesus, and they wanted to hear what he had to say. And Jesus obliged gladly—so much so that he became guilty by association, and was accused of being a glutton and a drunk and a “friend of tax collectors and sinners” (Luke 7:34). We know that these accusations of drunkenness and gluttony were false—Jesus was tempted in every way but without sin. But Jesus was unapologetically a friend to the least and the lost—to
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all who felt ostracized and belittled by the religious communities of his day. Jesus was willing to offend strict religious people if that’s what it took to convince broken sinners that he loved them and had hope for them. Are we? Jesus was repulsive to religious insiders and a breath of fresh air to religious outsiders. Are we?
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delight her very un-orthodox display of affection toward him. Jesus breaks with religious customs, allowing this ceremonially and morally unclean prostitute to touch his feet. He breaks with social customs also, receiving her as his disciple—putting a woman on equal footing with men in a very paternalistic, misogynistic society where women were seen as second class. Most scandalous, however, is the way that Jesus even breaks with moral customs to demonstrate to this woman how dear she is to him. She lets down her hair, which was grounds for divorce in those days—a woman could do this only in the presence of her immediate family. She also touches him with the tools of her prostitute’s trade. He lets her anoint him with a prostitute’s perfume and kiss him with a prostitute’s lips! Of course we know the rest of the story—Jesus was shunned as a man of ill repute by the religious people at the sinner party. To these smug Pharisees, showing positive attention to this woman—whom they judged as a sinner not a child of God, as a thing not a person—was evidence of moral compromise. This story has serious ramifications for those who wish to represent Jesus well in a modern context. We must come to terms with the fact that if Jesus were a 21st century American, he would not associate godliness with membership in a politi-
If we really want people to be impacted by the gospel and to enjoy the riches of God’s grace, they must first see in us the humility of those who have been, and continue to be, genuinely impacted by grace ourselves. Our humility must be authentic and not just an act. If we have never been brought low by God, we will approach other people from a high horse. And that is never any good for anybody.
There is a price to pay if we get serious about cultivating atmospheres that are full of grace. The more we begin to befriend the kinds of people that Jesus did, we will experience resistance and even rejection from “the faithful.” They may even be our fellow church members. It’s a simple fact. When we do the kinds of things that Jesus did, and love in some of the ways that Jesus did, some will take offense at us. And they will tell themselves that their being offended is because of their love for God. But anytime someone is offended by kindness that resembles Jesus, our Lord says that this person, rather than acting out of love for God, is acting as a child of the devil (John 8:39-47). It is Satan, not God, who is the hater of kindness. It is Satan, not God, who is the accuser of the people that Jesus loves. Consider Luke 7, where a woman described as “sinful” enters the home of Simon the religious Pharisee. In the name of love, and in the spirit of radical grace, Jesus receives with
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BARRIER #4: Pride Becoming a friend of sinners begins with the understanding that we are much more like the “chief of sinners” than we are like Jesus Christ. Our approach with all people, no matter who they are or what their history, must assume the posture of “fellow beggars humbly telling others where to find the bread” (I got this magnificent quote from Steve Brown). If we really want people to be impacted by the gospel and to enjoy the riches of God’s grace, they must first see in us the humility of those who have been, and continue to be, genuinely impacted by grace ourselves. Our humility must be authentic and not just an act. If we have never been brought low by God, we will approach other people from a high horse. And that is never any good for anybody. Consider the Apostle Paul. He was not above humbling himself. In Romans 7 he gives us a window into his personal struggle with the sin of coveting—a sin nobody would see unless he told them—and the way that the gospel gave him hope in the face of his coveting. In 1 Timothy Paul identifies himself as the chief of all sinners. If we intend to reflect Jesus in our ministries and our messages, we need to get over our love for reputation and image. As the late Jack Miller once said, “Grace runs downhill.” We can only be drenched by grace toward the bottom of the hill. And yet, how easy it can be to build our identities on how good we look—on being “model Christians” that people are supposed to admire because of how put-together we appear to be. But we must not do this. It is a trap and it will rob us of gospel power and effectiveness. If people around us are going to be changed by the grace of Jesus, they must witness the gospel working effectively in our lives—healing us of our sins and deepest wounds and fears. Changing us. Scott Sauls is senior pastor of Christ Presbyterian Church in Nashville, Tennessee and author of Jesus Outside the Lines and Befriend. You can connect with Scott on Twitter or Instagram at @scottsauls, or by subscribing to his blog at scottsauls.com.
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Liberty News sources have been calling it a Big Brother bill, and the implications are chilling. Russian President Vladimir Putin has signed legislation that tightens restrictions on missionary activity and evangelism, according to a report on the Christianity Today website. The amendments include laws against sharing faith in homes, online, or anywhere but recognized church buildings and went into effect in July. An earlier report on the CT website said: To share their faith, citizens must secure a government permit through a registered religious organization, and they cannot evangelize anywhere besides churches and other religious sites. The restrictions even apply to activity in private residences and online. The National Religious Broadcasters website features a story with several quotes, including this from Dr. Hannu Haukka, President of Great Commission Media Ministries, which is actively engaged in Russia. He said, “This new situation resembles the Soviet Union in 1929. At that time confession of faith was permitted only in church. Practically speaking, we are back in the same situation. These anti-terrorist laws are some of the most restrictive laws in post-Soviet history.” Dr. Jerry A. Johnson, President & CEO of National Religious Broadcasters, stated, “The enactment of a law restricting the free exercise of religion by any nation should be a matter of grave concern and prayerful action by Christians of all nations. Following a pattern of other human rights abuses, Vladimir Putin’s Russia is criminalizing a central duty for all followers of Christ – sharing our faith.” Mission Network News quotes Joel Griffith of Slavic Gospel Association, who says the law is meant to protect the country from further attacks from terrorists. For instance, he explains, anyone found to be financing or aiding terrorism will be severely punished, as will those who are actual participants. The sentences are 10 years to life in prison. River Region’s Journey
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The story goes on: Christians had been praying for the bill to be stopped because of what it could mean for evangelism in Russia. But, hope is not lost just because it’s been passed. Griffith says, “I think, certainly, the call to prayer that we put out is by all means still valid. It’s been signed into law, now it’s all going to depend on how this gets interpreted down the food chain within the Russian Federation.” SGA and other mission organizations are concerned about the anti-missionary clauses in the law. They are waiting to hear from the registered Baptist Union Church to find out how the law will practically affect them. As the Christianity Today story points out, “Protestants and religious minorities small enough to gather in homes fear they will be most affected.” The story says that, according to Forum 18 News Service, opponents to the new measures hope to eventually appeal in court or elect legislators to amend them. Nevertheless, they have begun to prepare their communities for life under the new rules. Under the guise of curbing terror, Russia has restricted the freedoms of members of a variety of religions. It demonstrates the tension between liberty and security. Putin wants a more secure Russia, so he is willing to dictate that religious groups give up their freedom. For Christians, that means being quiet about their faith or getting a permit to share it. I believe that is an unacceptable law that contradicts what Jesus taught in the Great Commission. 26
The Mission Network News story states: “You can continue to pray for Christians in Russia. Pray that the law will not be enforced or interpreted as strictly as it is written.” Even as you consider the challenges we have to practicing our faith here in America, this takes lack of religious freedom to a whole new level for post-Soviet Russia. Let’s think about a couple of things very quickly. Yes, this does call for prayer for Russian believers - obviously, they want to find a way for this law to be struck down or amended. I am sure there is a greater level of fear, especially among those who meet in homes to study God’s Word and fellowship together. But, as we have seen in countries where the gospel is restricted, we know that God is greater than man’s laws. Attempts to limit religious practice in China have resulted in a church that is strong and growing; it is predicted that there will be more Christians in China than any other country in just a few years. Persecution or harassment for our faith can really help to define how strong our faith actually is. Our convictions can be strengthened as the result of testing. Even though we will rightly complain that our liberties are facing opposition, we can also recognize that we are being tested. Testing, as we allow it to have its perfect work, will produce the result of a more dedicated walk with Christ. Bob Crittenden is host of “The Meeting House”, heard weekday afternoons from 4-6pm on Faith Radio, 89.1FM in Montgomery. Described as “the intersection of faith and culture”, the program features Christian music and conversation about a variety of topics. Learn more by visiting www. meetinghouseonline.info.
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The ministry sees adults ages 19-64 who are completely uninsured, living at the 200% federal poverty level. This ministry acts like any ordinary doctor’s office in a sense that there are files for every patient and providers for each patient. Chris Anderson, RN with Medical Outreach explains, “While the poorest of the poor may be eligible for Medicaid or other public assistance, there are many uninsured persons in our community who fall through the cracks of the healthcare system. Their only access to a physician for even the most common illnesses is often through the local emergency rooms. Through financial and volunteer contributions, Medical Outreach Ministries is able to improve access to medical care for these needy members of our community.” The remarkable thing about MOM is that last year they had 9,539 patient visits, with about 1,100 being unique patients. There are five full time employees and two part time. The beautiful aspect of this ministry is that it is a volunteer driven organization. Seventy volunteers treat this place like a paying job. All volunteers are specifically assigned different areas to work...everything needed in a healthcare office, from clerical to clinical. Pharmaceutical partnerships within MOM allow the ministry to be able to give their medications free of charge to the patients. MOM is able to provide excellent healthcare to those in need thanks to the 13 volunteer physicians who offer their time, energy and effort to helping those who need great care. All physicians, but one, are retired and spending their retired days loving others in the name of Jesus through the profession they know best. These incredible volunteers are working with patient loads just like the ones they had when they were in private practice work. There is also a paid nurse practitioner on staff who is beloved and truly treasured by the ministry.
Seated: Nancy Hogan (MOM Executive Director) From left to right: Betty Fitzgerald (Volunteer Clinical Manager), Cassandra Hartman and Brittani Baker (Medical Assistants), Jimmy Barnes (Resource Coordinator). Back Row: Pruett Troy (Patient Advocate).
Another group of volunteers comes to early morning patient screenings to meet the patients and share the Gospel. Alongside the outreach volunteers, another group shares in loving the patients through prayer and petition before the Lord. Every Monday afternoon this group of volunteers comes to the office to pray over the requests that patients make throughout the week. They
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I’ve never been to a place like this before.” Chris replied, “How do you mean?” The patient replied, “Everybody here is so kind and cares so much. I’ve never been treated so well at a doctor’s office before.” After sharing that response, Chris said, “When you do things in the name of Jesus, it better be excellent.” She’s right, and that is exactly what Medical Outreach Ministries is doing for their patients. “I feel Jesus in the halls of this place, that’s how incredible it is,” Chris shared.
dedicate their time and energy praying for the people coming in and out of the office.
MOM recently received its ADA Recognition for Diabetes Self Management Education Mary Wisdom, a local data specialist, came to MOM last spring, and helped the ministry apply for ADA recognition. They were able to receive the recognition on August 4th. Medical Outreach Ministries is the only program in the country that is volunteer staffed and exists solely to provide Diabetes Self Management education to low income, uninsured people. This accomplishment is not only a big deal to our city, but our state. In addition to the 13 volunteer providers, they have 15 volunteer nurses and medical assistants, 6 volunteer pharmacists, 2 volunteer mental health counselors and 1 volunteer diabetes educator. That is a very comprehensive team to supply what they need for their patients. In the state of Alabama, the rate of people battling diabetes is high. At Medical Outreach Ministries, 1 in 4 patients has diabetes and does not know how to manage it well, if at all. The recognition from the ADA is a major success for the ministry, allowing them to reach more and more in the tri-county area. “This is a place that offers dignity to a community of people who tend to not get much of that,” explains Chris Anderson, Diabetes Educator at MOM. When asking Chris about the ministry and how she sees the kingdom of God moving, she shared a story of one her patients and their reaction to the love they felt while being treated at MOM. The patients words: “You know,
Give and Get Involved It is extraordinary the way that God has shown up and shown out for this ministry. It is a functioning, well developed team of people who are working diligently to make a difference in our community. If you have an interest in donating your time and/ or resources to Medical Outreach Ministries and their work, visit www.MOMclinic.org to see how you can help. If you are engaged in a United Way campaign, Medical Outreach is number 48 on the United Way form. If you shop on Amazon, go to smile.amazon. com, and there is a drop down list that carries their name. If you click there, it gives 50% of your purchase to the ministry. *Top photo lead page: Nancy Hogan, MOM Executive Director, Chris Anderson, and Tommy West, MOM Board Chairman *Left photo lead page: Myrlean Fleming & Chris Anderson work together on healthy portions. *Right photo lead page: Dr. Wallace Falero with patient. Laura Bell is a freelance writer, born and raised in Montgomery, Alabama. She enjoys spending time with her husband Cody and finding all reasons to find joy in life!
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How Important is Sleep to Well-Being? As Americans, we seem to pride ourselves on how little sleep we need and how busy we are! However, we were created to have downtime to sleep, reflect, pray, to commune with and seek wisdom from God. Even God rested! By the seventh day God had finished the work he had been doing; so on the seventh day he rested from all his work. Genesis 2:2 When we take time to rest, not only do we feel better, but we make better decisions, enjoy life and our relationships more, and function better and more efficiently. This holds true for children and adolescents as well. Our hectic everyday routine can make it difficult to find enough time to sleep, even for children. Many parents aren’t getting home until after 5 pm and struggle to complete meals, homework and bathing before bed. Not only do parents miss out on sleep and quality time, but children’s bedtimes are moving ever later. Why is sleep so important to children? Children require sleep as much as they require healthy nutrition and clean air. Sleep enables concentration, the ability to learn, facilitates moving short term memory to long term memory and the retrieval of memory when needed. Research indicates that sleeping well enhances academic
performance more effectively than staying up late to cram for a test the next day. There are other consequences of inadequate sleep for children and adolescents. When sleepy, they have more moodiness, irritability, anxiety, depression, cognitive decline, difficulty with judgment and decision making, and less creativity. Accidents and injuries are more common when fatigued. Sleep deprived children are at greater risk for obesity. How much sleep do children require? Observe how long your children sleep on average when they are undisturbed and well rested. Then count backwards from the time they have to get up in the morning by that number to arrive at the time they need to be in bed. Generally, depending on age, children need varying amounts but the recommended amounts below will shock you: • Infants sleep as much as 9-20 hours per day. • Toddlers and preschoolers need 11-13 hours of sleep including naps. • 6-12 year olds need 10-11 hours of sleep. • Adolescents need 9-10 hours of sleep. If your children are extremely difficult to get up in the morning, it is a good sign that they are not getting enough sleep. What is good sleep hygiene or what helps kids sleep? • Encourage daily exercise early in the day so that the kids are physically tired. • Limit caffeine (preferably none, but eliminate all caffeine 6 hours before bedtime). Caffeine is excessive in coffee, tea, soft drinks, energy drinks, etc. • Reduce fluid intake prior to bedtime. • Limit artificial flavors, colors, sugar and sweeteners (some children are very sensitive to these). • Eliminate the use of computer, cell phone and TV at least one hour prior to bedtime. (Blue light from computer and cell phone disturbs sleep the most in pre-teen and teen years.) • Have a bedtime ritual that sends a signal to the body that it is time to sleep. The ritual can be 31
a bath, quiet time, devotional, listening to soft music, reading, or talking quietly. • White noise machines can eliminate the normal noises in the house that stimulate sensitive children and keep them awake. • Get up earlier to go to bed earlier, not the other way around. • Eat dinner early but it is okay to have a light wholesome snack before bed. • Teach kids a relaxing technique they can do on their own. • If they have a clock in the room, make sure the clock is turned around so that the digital light is not stimulating. • Keep the room cool. • Model appropriate behavior by unplugging from electronics yourself. • Encourage the entire household to gradually move towards relaxation and sleep in the evening. • Try not to vary the weekday and weekend bedtime routine by more than an hour. • Use a night light of no more than 7 watts so they do not have to turn on a light switch if they get up in the night. The disciples fell asleep out of fatigue when they should not have, but Jesus also recognized when they needed to sleep in Mark 6. Perhaps you can do the same for your family. The apostles gathered around Jesus and reported to him all they had done and taught…he said to them, “Come with me by yourselves to a quiet place and get some rest.” Mark 6:30-32 By providing healthy sleep hygiene and structure, we are teaching our children self- regulation which is life skill they will be able to use forever just as God designed! Nancy W. Thomas, M.A., N.C.C., C.C.M.H.C., L.P.C. Nancy Thomas is the Executive Director of Clinical Services at The Samaritan Counseling Center, Inc. in Montgomery. She is a National Certified Counselor, Certified Clinical Mental Health Counselor and Licensed Professional Counselor. She graduated from the University of Alabama with an M.A. in Counselor Education in 1994. She has extensive training and experience in mental health and marriage and family therapy. Her professional interests are in mental health recovery, adolescent and college issues, life transitions, healthy relationships, marital counseling, parenting, spirituality and identity development, and preserving marriages and families. Nancy works primarily with adolescents and adults.
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Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy and First UMC, Millbrook APAC- Alabama Pre/Post Adoption Connection Support Group This group provides education and social interaction for adoptive families. Montgomery Group meets 3rd Thursdays, 6-7:30 p.m., Room 8114 at Frazer. For information, call Monica Russell at 409-9477 or email mrussell@childrensaid.org. Autauga/Elmore Group meets 4th Tuesdays, 6-7:30 p.m., First UMC, Millbrook. Childcare, children’s group and dinner provided. For info, call Hannah Taylor at 409-9477 or e-mail htaylor@ childrensaid.org. Location: Landmark Church, 1800 Halcyon Blvd. Leaders: Chad & Betsy Emerson (334) 201-5241 Wednesday, 6:30pm in Rm. 116. The Orphan Care Group will focus on God’s call to help orphans through adoption, foster care, and missions work. The group will share experiences, study and Biblical themes regarding orphan care, and provide a support and network.
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Location: Millbrook First United Methodist Church, 3350 Edgewood Road Adoption Support- Will meet 4th Tuesday of each month from 6-7:30 p.m.
An Open AA Speaker meeting is held on Saturday at 6 p.m. An Alanon & AA held on Sundays at 2 p.m.
Alcoholic / Addict
Location: Grace Point Community Church, 78223 Tallassee Hwy (Hwy 14), Wetumpka Celebrate Recovery- every Tuesday night- 6:15pm. All are welcome! These meetings are a safe and loving environment for individuals seeking to conquer their hurts, habits and hang-ups! gracepoint.info.
Location: Dalraida UMC, 3817 Atlanta Highway Alcoholics Anonymous meets at 6 p.m. on Tuesdays. 272.2190. Alanon meets at 7:30 p.m. on Wednesdays.
Location: Journey Church, 2960 East Cobbs Ford Road across from The Catfish House in Millbrook Celebrate Recovery - Christ-centered 12-step for anyone struggling with addiction or life-challenging issues. Mondays at 5:30pm (meal-CrossTalk Cafe), 6-6:55 pm (large group), 6:55-7:45 (small group). Childcare available. Call Larry at 334-832-5714 or visit myjourneychurch.com.
Location: Caring Center of FBC, 52 Adams Avenue CrossRoads Support Group is for addicts/alcoholics and family members. Meets at 6 p.m. Tuesdays and follows a Christ-centered 12-step program. Call 264-4949.
Location: First Baptist Church (Huff Community Ministries Bldg., 200 S. Perry Street) Celebrate Recovery, a Bible-based Christ centered approach to recovery from hurts, habits and hang-ups, meets Friday nights, from 5:30 p.m.- 8 p.m. For more information, contact Jane Ferguson at 241.5141. Location: Grace @ Bell Road, Corner of Bell Road and Atlanta Hwy. Alcoholics Anonymous and Alanon meetings are held Monday, Tuesday, Thursday, and Friday, at 6 p.m.
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Location: Landmark Church, 1800 Halcyon Blvd. RSVP- This is a 12 step spiritual recovery program for overcoming addictions. Using the steps and Bible we help build self-esteem, responsible behavior, the making of amends for our destructive actions, and to fill the void in our hearts in a loving relationship with God. Wednesday @ 6:30pm in Rm. 121 of the Life Center.
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Location: Prattville Church of Christ, 344 East Main St. RSVP - 12 step (Christians Against Substance Abuse-CASA) spiritual recovery program, for overcoming addictions. Class begins each Wednesday evening @6:30 PM. Please call 334365-4201 for addition information. Location: Santuck Baptist Church, 7250 Central Plank Rd. (Hwy 9), Wetumpka. Celebrate Recovery meets each Thursday evening at 6:15 in the Fellowship Hall. This is a Chrsit centered 12 step-program for anyone struggling with hurts, habits, and hang-ups. Call 567-2364. Sex Addicts Anonymous (SAA) is open to all struggling with addictive sexual behavior. If you believe you have a problem with sex addiction (or are wondering if you might) and you want to change your behavior, we recommend you visit our group. For locations, please visit- https://saa-recovery.org/ or please contact – MontgomerySAA@outlook.com. Meetings are held: every Sunday night - 7:45 p.m, men only. Every Monday night - 7:30 p.m, men and women. Location: St. James UMC, 9045 Vaughn Road Celebrate Recovery meets every Thursday night from 6-8 pm in the Youth Room. This is a Christ-centered 12-step group for anyone struggling with an “addiction or life-challenging issues.” For information, call Chris Henderson at 334-215-0427. Location: Trinity Episcopal, Wetumpka (Across from Winn Dixie on HWY 231) Gamblers Anonymous-Saturdays at 7 p.m. Location: First United Methodist Church, Wetumpka 306 W. Tuskeena Street ‘Fresh Start’ Recovery meets every Thursday, 6-8pm (meal included). In 2011, Fresh Start Motorcycle Ministry (FSMM) began when God laid it on the heart of a lifetime biker to
minister to those with his background. All are welcome, not a requirement to own/ride a motorcycle. Format used is the Holy Bible. For any info contact ministry leader, Paul Henderson, 334-201-5428.
Alzheimer’s / Dementia
Location: First UMC, 2416 W. Cloverdale Park, Wesley Hall Bldg. An Adult Parkinson/Alzheimer’s respite ministry meets from 10 a.m.-2 p.m. every Monday, Wednesday and Thursday. Lunch is served. Contact Daphne at 834-8990. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy An Alzheimer’s and Dementia Caregivers’ Support Group meets on the first Thursday of each month at 11 a.m. in Room 3103. Call 272.8622. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy A Dementia Daycare is held each Thursday in Rm. 3101 from 9:30 a.m. to 12 p.m. Each participant may bring a sack lunch. There is no charge. REGISTRATION IS REQUIRED. Call the LifeCare office at 272-8622. Location: Memorial Presbyterian, 2130 Bell Road A Dementia Morning Out for caregivers is offered each Tuesday from 8:45-noon. There is no charge. Each participant may bring a sack lunch (juice provided). Registration is required by calling 274-1018.
Cancer
Location: Aldersgate UMC, 6610 Vaughn Rd, Montgomery Cancer Survivors Support Group is sponsored by Samaritan Counseling Center. We would love to have anyone (patient or family member ) join us. Thursdays at 1 pm. Please call before attending just to make sure we are meeting that week. Please call Debbie D at 467-4578 or Ben W at 202-1912.
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Location: Dalraida Baptist, 3838 Wares Ferry Road. Just for Men -- Faith based cancer support group for men. Meetings are held the second Tuesday of each month at 6 p.m. in the conference center. Please call 272-2412 email stan.hurst@knology.net. Location: ChristChurch, 8800 Vaughn Road Cancer Support Group for general cancer. Tuesday afternoons at 1 pm. For more info, please call Christy Holding at 531-1390 or Debbie at 467-4578. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy. Women of Hope Breast Cancer Support Group, providing education, awareness, and mentoring for breast cancer patients/survivors, family, and friends, meets the 2nd Tuesday of each month at 5:30 p.m. in Rm 8253. Call 272-8622 or womenofhope@charter.net. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy. The Central Alabama Multiple Myeloma Support Group meets from 10 a.m. to noon the second Saturday of every month in Room 3105. We have guest speakers, video presentations, printed information and a group that welcomes sharing their journey with myeloma in an informal setting. Refreshments are provided.. Contact Lorenzo and Elaine Duncan at 334-281-8158, or at duncan6563@gmail.com.
Depression
Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy A Depression/Bipolar Support Group meets on the 1st Thursday of each month from 7:00-8:30pm in Room 3101. This group also meets on the 3rd Saturday afternoon, 12-2 pm, Dalraida UMC, 3817 Atlanta Hwy in Church Annex. Call 334.652.1431 or email dbsamontgomery@yahoo.com.
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Divorce
Location: First Baptist Church, 305 S. Perry Street Divorce Care is held Wednesdays, 6:30-8 pm. Childcare available. $15 for workbook. Dinner at 4:45 ($5 adults, $3 kids). Call Kathy Cooper at 241-5125. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Divorce Care meets each Tuesday from 6-7:30pm. in the Fellowship Hall Lobby. This group will provide support & guidance to assist you in working through the issues, pain & pressures surrounding divorce. Also, are you stuck in a pattern of going back to the same relationships or situations hoping for or expecting different results? In this new study “Never Go Back”, you will recognize and truly change those life patterns that hold you back and keep you from your goals. Call 495-6368 or e-mail singles@ frazerumc.org. Location: Vaughn Forest Church, 8660 Vaughn Road DivorceCare fosters a weekly supportive and caring environment to heal the hurt of separation and divorce. Call 279-5433.
Gambling
Location: Cedarwood Community Church, 10286 US HWY 231 in the Wallsboro/Wetumpka community Gamblers Anonymous, Saturdays at 6 pm. 567-0476 Location: Mental Health of America Bldg, 1116 South Hull Street, Montgomery. Sundays @ 5 pm. Location: St Paul’s Lutheran Church, 4475 Atlanta Hwy, Mondays @ 6pm. Gamblers Anonymous Hotline: 334-541-5420 or you can call 2-1-1 and ask for meeting information.
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Alabama Council on Compulsive Gambling: 277-5100
Grief Location: Eastmont Baptist, 4505 Atlanta Hwy. Compassionate Friends is a national self-help support organization for families grieving the death of a child meeting first Tuesdays at 7 pm. Call (334) 284-2721 for info. Location: First UMC, 100 E. Fourth St, Prattville Grief Share, Tuesday evenings at 6:30 pm in the church parlor. Call 365-5977. Location: Frazer UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Grief Recovery Support Group meets Tuesdays at 5:30 p.m., Rm 3105, in Fellowship Hall Lobby. 272.8622. Location: Grace Baptist Church, 304 Old Montgomery Highway, Wetumpka Mourning to Morning is a Christian growth group for mothers who have lost a child, from before birth through adulthood. Meets the last Thursday night of each month. For info, contact Alice Scarborough (334) 462-4775 or Gwen Ellis (334) 567-8754 or e-mail mourningtomorning@gmail.com. Join us on Facebook--Mourning to Morning Group. Location: Millbrook FUMC, 3350 Edgewood Rd Grief Share meets Sundays from 5-7 p.m. For more information or to sign up, please call the church office at 285-4114 or email churchoffice@mfumc.org. Location: Pilgrim Rest Missionary Baptist Church 1550 E. Washington Street Grief Ministry is a grief recovery support group that meets every Monday at 6:00 P.M. The ministry is designed to help anyone through the hurt of losing a loved one by successfully traveling the journey from mourning to joy. Alicia Glover is the coordinator. For information contact Glover at 334-281-2754.
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Location: Vaughn Forest Church, 8660 Vaughn Road GriefShare is a support group that meets Wednesdays from 6-8 pm. This program is non-denominational and features biblical concepts for healing your grief. GriefShare will be led by Howard and Carol Payne and Jim Williams. Call 2795433 for more information.
Miscellaneous Location: 5500 Ash Grove Circle, Montgomery. OCD Support Group (obsessive- Compulsive Disorder) Long showers, multiple hand washing, rituals, checking stove, hoarding and symmetry. This support group is open to anyone who has struggled with OCD. You’re not alone anymore. Call Donald: 220-7555. Location: Eastmont Baptist Church, 4505 Atlanta Highway Take Heart is for women dealing with infertility and/or miscarriage. The group meets the first Monday of each month at 6 pm in room 116. Contact Melissa at (205) 9132667 for more information.
Parenting
Location: First Baptist Prattville, 138 S. Washington Moms LIFE (Living In Faith Everyday) meets twice monthly from 8:30 - 11:45 am in the chapel at the Church from Aug May. We offer a time of fellowship, Bible study, musical guest, special guest speakers and a lot of fun!! Cost is $5 per meeting. For moms of all stages and ages of life. Childcare provided by reservation. For more info and to reserve your spot, call April Scott at 828-446-6666. Location: First Baptist Church, 305 S. Perry Street MOPS (Mothers of Preschoolers) Moms, need a little
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break? MOPS is a place you can share a good meal, make new friends, and find encouragement as you face the everyday challenges of raising your little ones. We have educational speakers, great conversation, and fun activities. Free childcare is provided. Meetings are every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays, 9:30-11:30 a.m., September through May. Contact Tiffany Alewine at 241-5165. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Frazer mom2mom is a playgroup to connect mothers of ages birth to 5 at Frazer United Methodist Church to share fun and inspiration in our journey together, with our children, and with Christ. Email Mom2mom@frazerumc.org for more information. Location: Landmark Church, 1800 Halcyon Blvd. Single Moms Support Group, Wednesday nights at 6:30 p.m. in classroom 118. For more information call 277-5800. Location: Perry Hill UMC, 910 Perry Hill Road Single Moms’ Care and Support Group meets 2nd and 4th Thursdays from 6:15 - 8:00 PM. December meeting will be on the 11th. Free snack supper provided to moms and children. Child care for infants -16 years. Call 272-3174. Location: Redland Baptist, 1266 Dozier Rd, Wetumpka A MOPS group will be held 1st and 3rd Tuesday’s of every month during the school year, and has scheduled play dates and moms nights out through the summer and beyond. While moms are in a MOPS meeting, their children are lovingly cared for in the MOPPETS program. Email Denise Braswell at deniseorscott@yahoo.com . Location: Vaughn Forest Church, 8660 Vaughn Road Are you in need of a time-out? MOPS joins mothers together by a common bond, to be better wives, moms, and friends along this journey in the trenches of motherhood. We meet the 1st and 3rd Tuesday of each month from 9:30—11:30 a.m. Childcare is provided. For info e-mail VFCMOPS@gmail.com.
Physical Challenges Location: Aldersgate UMC, 6610 Vaughn Road Visually Impaired Support Group – Meets monthly on second Thursday 1:00 – 2:30 p.m. The group is called Outward Sight - Inward Vision and is for those with vision loss and their caregivers. Our mission is to assist those experiencing vision loss to maintain their independence by providing access to valuable information and spiritual support. Call 272-6152. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy An MDA/ALS Support Group will meet Tuesday August 10 6:00p.m. – 8:00 p.m. in room 3101. Anyone affected by a neuromuscular disease or family members of those affected. To receive information, call 396-4534. Location: Vaughn Park Church, 3800 Vaughn Rd. Montgomery Area Down Syndrome Outreach Group meets 2nd Friday of each month from 6:30- 8 PM. We have activities, speakers and special events throughout the year for the parents, siblings and children with Down Syndrome Childcare is provided. Please visit our website at www.montgomeryareadownsyndrome.com or visit our Facebook page (MADSOG) for more information. Please contact MADSOG at montgomeryareadownsyndrome@gmail.com for more information.
Same Sex Attraction
Location: Huff Community Ministry Building of First Baptist Church at 305 S. Perry Street Pathway Support Group for those dealing with unwanted same sex attraction. The group meets at 6:30 pm every first, third and fifth Tuesday evenings. For more information about the Pathway call (334) 241-5141 or (334) 241-5140.
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Singlehood
Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Boundaries study for singles meets each Tuesday from 6-7:30pm in the Fellowship Hall Lobby. This study will help singles learn to set boundaries with emotions and help avoid the harmful behavior of others. For more information, call 495-6386 or email singles@ frazerumc.org. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Single and Parenting! A New Group for Single Mom’s. This group meets every Tuesday from 6-7:30pm for hope & encouragement & guidance & parenting ideas. For information, call 495-6386 or email singles@frazerumc.org. Location: Cornerstone Christian, 301 Dalraida Rd. Unavoidably Single Again (USA) Fellowship, a support group for widows and widowers. Informal meetings for fellowship and fun are held on the third Saturday of each month starting at 10 AM. Contact Lynda at farauthor@aol.com or 354-8869.
Veterans
Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Veterans OEF/OIF Caregivers Support Group meets on the 3rd Wednesday from 11am-1pm in Room 3108. Contact LaQuana Edwards, Caregiver Support Coordinator at CAVHCS (334) 727-0550 ext. 5350.
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Q. Our daughter is a special needs child,
who doctors say will live about half as long as the average adult. There’s also a good chance she will be under our care her entire life. We just finished Baby Step 3 of your plan, so we have all of our debt paid off except for the house, and we have an emergency fund of three to six months of expenses saved. We have health insurance, too. However, we were wondering how the situation with our little girl affects retirement planning and college funding?
A. I know this may sound strange, but the situation with your daughter really doesn’t affect things all that much. The only real difference is that it sounds like you’ll be responsible for your sweet daughter for the foreseeable future — not just until she’s 18 or 21. If you don’t already have it, you and your wife should both buy 10 to 12 times
your annual incomes in term life insurance. Make sure the money from the policies is set up to go into a special needs trust that would be managed for her care. That way, your baby will be taken care of in the event something unexpected happens to you. Otherwise, just keep following my plan. Baby Step 4 means you start putting 15 percent of your income into pre-tax retirement plans, like Roth IRAs and mutual funds. Baby Step 5 is college funding, if that’s a consideration for her, followed by paying off your home early. Then, of course, the last Baby Step is building wealth and giving. Financially speaking, you’re looking at filling a need in the event of your deaths. This should be covered by life insurance or investments. If you reach a point where your investments are substantial, and money from those things can adequately cover her needs and the needs of your family, then you can always drop the insurance policies.
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A. I grew up in the real estate business, so I’ll use the apartment-complex model as my example. If your building is completely full, it’s time to raise prices a little until you have a vacancy. In this type of scenario, you want a healthy level of vacancy, meaning you’re always going to be losing some customers as you go up in prices. In your husband’s case, if he’s booked through the end of the month, he’s way underpriced. Just keep on turning in your bids, and don’t make a big deal about things. It isn’t like a tenant, in your case, where you’re going back time and time again except in rare cases. You might start with a 10 percent increase, and see what happens for a while. If that goes well, wait a bit and raise them another 10 percent. There are only so many hours in a day he can work, so the only other option is to take on staff. But before I start staffing, I’m going to raise prices and cut the number of customers that way. In most cases, if you show up when you say you will, complete the job when you say you will, and you do high quality work, there’s almost no ceiling on what you can make!
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