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Columns 2 Publisher’s Note 4 Therapeutic Parenting

Improving Parent/ Teen Communication Research study advice for you!

Common Sense Media Making sure your kids’ online interactions are safe.

Sonia Martin, LICSW, PIP

10 Kids Health Watch sponsored by Children’s Medical Group

31 Parenting, Media & Everything in Between Common Sense Media

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10 Commandments for Holiday Cheer

Simple ways to find Christmas joy.

Our guide shares what’s going on around town and nearby to fill the holidays with joy and memories!

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Everyone seems a little extra excited about the holidays this year, and it has been so fun to see! I know people who were adamant about no Christmas décor before Thanksgiving who had their trees up and decorated by the first weekend in November. It’s not that they wanted to rush past Thanksgiving, it was more about having some cheery décor and to haveThanksgiving as the kickoff to the holiday season. So instead of being down in the dumps about things being off this year, try and find some ways you can bring a little cheer. Maybe that means letting the kids go all out decorating their bedrooms or coming up with a silly family photo for your Christmas cards. The possibilities are endless! If you are looking for activities outside the home, or maybe some virtual activities, check out the Holiday Happenings Guide on page 35. We have compiled a list of holiday festivities for local families. Please remember to check with each venue before heading to the event... just to make sure there have not been any changes and to check COVID policies and procedures. As we were pulling out our Christmas décor, I was reminded of way too many hilarious stories of holiday fails. Maybe not fails, but definitely times when things did not go as planned. One that quickly comes to mind was the time I rode around with our Christmas tree on the top of my car for probably about a week. We had just moved down here and Brad and I argued about putting the tree up when we still had not unpacked. I can’t remember which side we were each on, but that battle ended up with me driving through car line each morning with a Christmas tree STILL on my car. Yes, people would comment and, yes, it was embarrassing, not to mention probably killing the tree. Well, the day finally came when I was ready to wash my van. My friend had told me about a great new car wash so I decided to drive on through then call and tell her thank you for the recommendation. Well, by now you are probably thinking the same thing she was: “Oh, good! So you finally got the tree off of your car!” OH MY GOODNESS!!!! THE TREE!!!! I had been riding around with it on my car for so long that I completely forgot about it. I immediately pulled over to assess the damage and call my husband. When I got out, there was no sign of a tree. No branches, no straps... nothing. When Brad answered he egged it on a little, then laughed and said, “Babe, I took the tree off the car this morning.” Whew... huge sigh of relief. I had been so busy with three kids and a new city I didn’t even notice. When I got home, there was my tree in a stand with water, ready for décor. Yes, we have had trees too big to get in the house and a year where we lost all the ornaments and hand made them. And, yes, we have had a critter in a tree (FYI, go to a tree farm where they check for that), but despite the unexpected, we find a way to laugh it off and kick up the holiday cheer. I am sharing these stories because 2020 has had us expecting the unexpected, and we are all learning to be more flexible and a lot more resilient. So as you are planning your holiday, don’t sweat the small stuff and make sure to take care of yourself. Flip over to page 32 where Christa Melnyk Hines shares advice in her article, 10 Commandments for More Holiday Cheer. Wishing you all a healthy, joyful holiday season! May your house be filled with peace and laughter. Merry Christmas!

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TherapeuticParenting by Sonia Martin, LICSW, PIP

Improving Your Child’s Sleep Sleep during parenthood is a bit of an oxymoron. It is about as precious as that first sip of coffee, yet as unattainable as the ability to drive to work in the morning without spilling that coffee on your newly ironed shirt. As parents, we tend to put an enormous amount of focus on sleep. We want it, we seek it, we are willing to mortgage the house to get it. It is the hidden gem of parenthood that will make us feel human again. And when our kids pass through that precious newborn stage, where the sleep deprivation is expected, but then enter early toddlerhood and preschool and we still see no sign of quality, sustained sleep on the horizon – we tend to want to curl up on the floor of the closet and call it a day… at 10am. I wish I had THE answer for you, but I don’t. Before you stop reading, though, I will say there are certainly things you can be aware of that might help encourage those little “fighting sleep” soldiers to not only lay down and sleep, but stay asleep… at least until the sun crosses the horizon. Here are a few things to consider:

1: Be aware of the temperature. Our body temperature naturally lowers at night. This is intentional and for our good, and we don’t want to work against that effect. Keeping a cool, but not cold, room will help the body maintain sleep cycles a bit longer. 2: If your child is above the age of three you can speak with your physician about introducing a weighted blanket that is titrated to no more than 10% of your child’s body weight, plus one pound. This gentle pressure mimics the effect of being held and increases rates of serotonin, which is a neurotransmitter that aids in sleep regulation and has an overall calming effect. 3: Consider adding a white noise maker. These machines tend to mimic a womblike environment, which can help silence your baby’s built in alarm clock that wakes them frequently as they progress between sleep cycles. Note there is a difference however between “light” white noise (raindrops, crashing waves, heartbeat sound) and “heavy” white noise (a whirring fan, an

A/C fan). Heavy white noises are what you are after, as they will work to keep them in those deeper sleep cycles longer. 4: If your child has a bigger problem falling asleep, rather than staying asleep, consider gifting them some fun new accessories for their bedroom this year that may help. Consider items like a bed tent, a projector that casts stars and planets around the room, and a speaker wherein you can play a calming bedtime story from your phone (available on the app store), complete with calming sound effects. You can also go old school for your preschooler and get a Walkman and headphones with some tapes or CD’s of bedtime stories. Let’s be honest – any gift you buy them to help them sleep is really a gift to you. Hang in there! Another 15 years and you will be begging them to get out of bed before noon. Funny how that works. Sonia is a licensed social worker and holds both a Bachelor’s and Master’s degree in Social Work. Her clinical focus is on helping parents and professionals understand the role of the brain in behavior and how to adopt therapeutic parenting techniques to mitigate negative behaviors. She is the Director of Central Alabama for Lifeline Children’s Services and is a mother to 7 sons, 3 of which were internationally adopted and she is a foster parent.

BLOW UP II INFLATABLE CONTEMPORARY ART Engaging humor, scale, and surprise, the artworks in this exhibition will take you on a whimsical journey. Open six days a week, the Museum is free and open to all. Plan your visit at mmfa.org. FriendsWithYou, Never Ending Story, Spider Man’s Eye, 2019, ripstop nylon fabric, electric fan, 150 x 108 x 168 inches. BLOW UP II: Inflatable Contemporary Art was organized by Bedford Gallery at the Lesher Center for the Arts, Walnut Creek, CA.

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Mobile Symphony Orchestra - A Bountiful Holiday

Santa will unpack a bounty of musical gifts on our stage this year on Saturday, December 12 and Sunday, December 13! We will celebrate the holidays with an old-fashioned variety show with performances by various orchestral sections. A few highlights include: “Ding Dong Merrily on High”, “Carol of the Bells”, “Nutcracker” selections and everyone’s favorite Christmas instrument, the harp, will be featured in several selections. For more information, please visit mobilesymphony. org/event/a-bountiful-holiday.

Mobile Ballet Presents “The Nutcracker”

Mobile Ballet is excited to present “The Nutcracker” December 18-20 - The unmatched tradition and magic of “The Nutcracker” continues this Christmas season with a presentation both in theater and online. Mobile Ballet has made this beloved masterpiece a hallmark of the holidays for more than 30 years and 2020 will be no exception. We are working closely with the City of Mobile and Civic Center management in a safely spaced theater seating plan for inperson audience. A virtual Nutcracker experience will also be available. For tickets and additional information visit www.mobileballet.org or call (251) 342-2241.

“The Best Christmas Pageant Ever”

Sunny Side Theater is excited to announce production of is 50th Main Stage show, “The Best Christmas Pageant Ever” by Barbara Robinson. Show dates are December 18 & 19 at 7 PM and December 19 & 20 at 2 PM. The show centers around the Herdman children, six awful kids who have never been to church before, who show up to hear about the Christmas pageant and bully their way in to the lead roles. The touching story of compassion and acceptance follows the Herdmans as they all come to realize the true meanings of Christmas: generosity, forgiveness, and community. Sunny Side is thrilled to be able to present this show at Spring Hill College in the Arlene Mitchell Auditorium. Ticket prices are $15 adults, $11 students and seniors 65+, $7 kids 12 and under and can be purchased at https://our.show/sst/bcpe With over 50 kids auditioning, Sunny Side had to double cast most of the lead roles in order to accommodate the amazing talent!

Drive-Thru Santa Breakfast

Bellingrath Magic Christmas in Lights

Dance Without Limits invites you to celebrate the holidays 2020-style! Collect fun holiday-themed activities to do at home, breakfast snacks and enjoy entertainment from the comfort and safety of your vehicle. At the end of the experience, hop out of the car to take a photo with our special needs-friendly Santa from whichever distance you are comfortable. The Drive-Thru Santa Breakfast will be held Saturday, December 12 from 9 AM to noon at The Pillars parking lot. The Pillars is located at 1757 Government Street, Mobile. Suggested donation is $25/car and proceeds benefit Dance Without Limits, an organization that strives to provide professional dance instruction to all special needs individuals – regardless of their disability. Mobile Bay Parents I December 2020

It’s one of the nation’s best holiday light shows, and it’s right here in south Alabama! The 25th Anniversary Season of Magic Christmas in Lights features more than 1,100 set pieces, 3 million lights and 15 scenes, set out in a walking tour throughout the 65-acre Garden estate. The Southeast Tourism Society selected Magic Christmas in Lights as a Top 20 Festival & Event winner for November 2020. Opening Night is Friday, Nov. 27, and the show continues nightly from 5 to 9 p.m., rain or shine, through Dec. 31, 2020 (closed on Christmas and New Year’s Days). Purchase tickets on bellingrath.org, or at the door. 6

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Goodwill Gulf Coast Announces 2020 Christmas on the Coast Ornaments

Goodwill® Gulf Coast is proud to announce its annual collection of 2020 Christmas on the Coast ornaments for Mobile and Pensacola. The limited edition, brass- and gold-plated ornaments have become collector’s items for many Gulf Coast residents. The 27th annual ornament for the City of Mobile is Carpe Diem Coffee & Tea Company. In 2020, Carpe Diem celebrates 25 years of local ownership and roasting great coffee. Carpe Diem has always supported local schools with partnerships at various levels from elementary through college. Its annual Santa Run, which was founded by a small group of local runners, has grown to include participants from all over the Gulf Coast. For the last 20 years, the Santa Run has raised and donated over $100,000 to local charities, with 100% of the proceeds benefiting the local community. Ornaments are now available for order online at www.goodwillgulfcoast.org and at Goodwill retail stores and select Gulf Coast vendors. The price is $15.00. In addition to the 2020 ornaments, a limited supply of select ornaments from previous years is available online and are on sale for $8.00. Local vendors include (Mobile): Cammie’s Old Dutch Ice Cream Shoppe, Carpe Diem, Robert Moore & Co, The Holiday, Southern Art & Framing, Springhill Ace Hardware, Zundel’s. (Saraland): Andress Jewelry, Smith Hardware. (Fairhope): Christmas Round the Corner. (Pensacola): Bere Jewelers, First United Methodist Church, Member’s First Credit Union, Renfroe Pecans, The First Bank. For more information, questions, or to place an order, please contact Melissa Harville: 251-380-7183 or MHarville@GoodwillGC.org.

Dumas Wesley Annual Toy Store

For over a century, Dumas Wesley Community Center has had the privilege of serving the community through a broad range of services for the elderly, unemployed, homeless and at-risk youth. One of the most beloved and popular events is Dumas Wesley Community Center’s Annual Toy Store held in December. Dumas Wesley will hold its Annual Toy Store on Saturday, December 12th, 2020. We will partner with local merchants, churches and individuals who will support the Toy Store’s concept of giving a hand up vs. a hand out. New donations of toys and bikes will be reduced at a fraction of their retail value, making it affordable for parents to purchase toys for their children. Proceeds from this event will support Dumas Wesley’s After School Achievement Program and community outreach. Please visit www.dumaswesley.org/annual-toy-store/.

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A History of Mobile in 22 Objects Now Open at the History Museum of Mobile

The History Museum of Mobile is proud to announce the October 30 opening of the landmark exhibition “A History of Mobile in 22 Objects” and the publication of a catalogue by the same name. Twenty-two unexpected and compelling objects weave together over 300 years of Mobile history, from the pre-Colonial era to the twenty-first century port. With contributions from Mobile’s leading historians, professors, and museum curators, you are sure to discover both new and familiar stories in this landmark exhibition. “This exhibition and the catalogue that accompanies it are meant to be an accessible, object-based guide to Mobile history,” said Meg McCrummen Fowler, director of the History Museum of Mobile. “With professors from Mobile’s four colleges, curators from nine museums, and some of the best local writers, this publication and exhibition are truly a community effort,” Fowler said. “We are profoundly grateful to the twenty-four contributors who made this catalogue and exhibition possible.” The exhibition, originally scheduled to open in April 2020, features objects from the History Museum of Mobile’s own collection. Together, they frame stories around Colonial Mobile, yellow fever, export economy, education, hurricanes, two world wars, civil rights, downtown Mobile, the modern port – and many others. At the end of the exhibition, visitors are asked to provide their own answers to the question, “What are we missing?” Fowler explained: “It is so important to always be asking ‘what stories are missing,’ and ‘whose history is not being told?’ By dramatically limiting the number of objects, this exhibition brings into relief what historians and curators do every day, that is, to select particular groupings of objects or facts and then string them together into a coherent narrative. By asking our visitors to contribute additional stories, we acknowledge that this is a history of Mobile, not the definitive history of Mobile.” The catalogue will be available in the History Museum of Mobile gift shop for $24.99. It can be found in local bookstores and gift shops, as well. www.historymuseumofmobile.com

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Rufus Young Wins ARHA Stars of the Industry Spirit Award

The Alabama Restaurant and Hospitality Association (ARHA) presented Rufus Young, a server of the Original Oyster House, the Spirit Award at this year’s Stars of the Industry. The 20th Annual Stars of the Industry Awards Dinner was held at the Renaissance Montgomery Hotel & Spa on Monday, November 2, 2020. Buster Burns, lead server of the Original Oyster House, was a state finalist for the Front of the House Restaurant Employee of the Year Award and the Original Oyster House was a state finalist for the Humanitarian Award. The Stars awards, which honored Alabama’s lodging, tourism, and restaurant industry, recognized those who have demonstrated excellence and served as an inspiration to others. The awards are peer-nominated and winners are selected by the Stars committee and ARHA’s board of directors. There were over 100 nominations submitted statewide. The Spirit Award was created when judges came across a nominee whose story transcended as employee of the year. “Rufus was presented the last award of the evening,” said Jim Harrison, general manager of the Original Oyster House on the Mobile Causeway. “Many of this year’s winners had years of service experience in the industry. Rufus may have been one of the youngest to be recognized but he is a standout. Our patrons rave about his service and charismatic spirit. He lives our mission of exceeding customer’s expectations and we couldn’t be more proud to have him on our team,” stated Harrison. While presenting the Spirit Award, Emcee Eunice Elliot shared, “A week doesn’t go by without someone writing how outstanding and authentic Rufus is especially when pointing out his favorite menu items. A favorite among managers because of his amiable attitude, Rufus readily picks up shifts and events to help out. His coworkers attest to his work ethic and he uplifts everyone with positive energy.” Pictured from left to right are Buster Burns, state finalist front of the house restaurant and Rufus Young, Spirit Award winner.

CORPUS CHRISTI CATHOLIC SCHOOL Building the Body of Christ, One Student at a Time.

Join us at our Open House. Established in 1958, Corpus Christi Catholic School provides a quality education in a Christ-centered Catholic environment. Dedicated faculty and staff nurture every child from K2 through eighth grade. The mission of the school is to provide opportunities to grow in faith, to achieve academic success, and to serve others as disciples of Jesus.

Sunday, January 31, 2021 • 2 p.m . Interested parents are invited to tour our school and meet with teachers while learning about our excellent academic programs. Reservations are required due to COVID restrictions. Go to our website or call the school office to make a reservation. 6300 McKenna Drive • Mobile, Alabama 36608 • school.corpuschristiparish.com Questions? Please contact us: 251.342.5474 • school@CCSCatholic.com 9 CCS MBP Open House Ad.indd 1

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When Should I Worry About a Fever? Fever is one of the body’s defenses to help fight off an illness. However, it can still be scary for a parent. There can be many causes for a fever, and the cause will help determine how to best care for your child. A fever is a temperature greater than 100.4 degrees Fahrenheit. For infants younger than 12 months old, rectally is the most accurate way to check the temperature. For older children, checking the temperature under the arm or tongue still provides the most accurate and reliable temperature. There are certainly reasons to be concerned if your child has a fever. If your child is feeling so sick he does not want to drink and you are seeing a decrease in urination, then this is certainly a reason to be seen by your pediatrician. Any child under three months old should ALWAYS be seen by their doctor if the temperature is above 100.4 rectally. Many viruses will present with fevers, and most of

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these self-resolve within 3-5 days. So another reason to call your pediatrician is definitely if the fever is lasting more than five days. The cause could still be viral, but that is a good time to have your child examined. A fever is the body’s way of trying to kill off bacteria and viruses that are trying to invade your immune system. These invaders do not survive well in warm temperatures, so the fever is one way your body tries to protect you. However, it is not always pleasant, so giving medicine like Tylenol or Ibuprofen will help keep your child comfortable enough to stay hydrated while he is sick. Children 6 months-5 years old are at risk of developing febrile seizures. These are scary but usually self-resolve. These are caused by how quickly a fever climbs. This is another good reason go give an antipyretic medicine. A temperature of 104 F in itself is not dangerous, but if a temperature rises

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quickly from 99 to 104 within 10 minutes, this can cause a febrile seizure. This would be a reason to see a doctor as well. Winter time is when we are more likely to see illnesses because these viruses thrive and spread more easily in colder climates. Continuing to watch for illnesses in your child like influenza, croup, pneumonia, COVID, and strep throat are important, and a fever is just one indication that it might be time for a doctor’s visit for your child.

Jennifer Adair, M.D., was born and raised in Mobile. She joined Children’s Medical Group in July 2013 and currently practices at their Airport office. Jennifer and her husband, Cory, reside in Mobile with their son, Finn, and their three dogs, Barkley, Fitz, and Roo.

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Faith Academy Holds Food Drive for Senior Citizens

Faith Academy SGA sponsored a fall food drive for A Servant’s Love(ASL). ASL is a nonprofit organization that provides nutritious meals for over 250 income challenged senior citizens in the Mobile area. Their name signifies, the essence of who they are and what they do, they are first and foremost servants of God! ASL strives to meet people where they are. For as little as $10 a month, you can adopt a senior and provide nutritious meals, monthly assistance, and paper products for a qualified senior participant. Faith Academy is proud to partner with ASLaservantslove.org!

Autauga County Schools B.C. Rain Students Build Airplane

Mobile County Public Schools, B.C. Rain High School and their industry partners recently unveiled an airplane built by students at B.C. Rain’s Aviation and Aerospace Academy. The single-engine Van’s RV-12 aircraft is believed to be the first airplane in the state to be built by high school students. Three of them -- recent B.C. Rain graduate Emanuel Dotch and current students Aerie Brown and Alex Tucker -- got the opportunity to fly in the plane with pilot Kevin Williams during the unveiling at Signature Flight Support Mobile Downtown Airport. A total of about 75 students built the plane over the last two years under the tutelage of engineers and mentors from Airbus and VT Mobile Aerospace Engineering and with the assistance of the U.S. Coast Guard, Carlisle Interconnect Technologies and Signature Flight Support. Williams, a former Airbus employee who now works with Coastal Alabama Community College’s Alabama Aviation Center, and Gary Booze, a licensed aircraft mechanic and aerospace welder with VT MAE, served as primary mentors for the project. The plane was built in conjunction with Tango Flight, a nonprofit organization that promotes and helps coordinate student-centered aircraft-building projects. The Aviation and Aerospace Academy is B.C. Rain’s Signature Academy, partnering with local aerospace companies to give students hands-on training in aviation, aircraft manufacturing and repair. All 12 MCPSS high schools have Signature Academies, career-focused learning communities that expose students to various career fields and provide them with the foundational academic and social skills necessary to be successful in a college or workplace setting.

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Car Pool Pep Rally at McGill-Toolen

McT loves our partner schools! We normally invite our partner school students to campus for a day, but due to Covid, we took our students to the partner schools for a Friday morning Car Pool Pep Rally. It’s great to be a yellow jacket and a future yellow jacket!

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Red Ribbon Week at Causey Middle School

Students at Causey Middle School celebrated Red Ribbon Week by dressing up to different themes. Students were allowed to wear their favorite team shirt as they were “Teaming Up Against Drugs”. They also dressed Hawaiian style to the theme, “Lei Off Drugs”.

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Principal Appreciation Month at B. C. Rain HS

Pumpkin Projects at St. Dominic

Last year Cameron Harris was elected as Mr. RHS (Rain High School) by his peers for the 2019-2020 school year. Cameron has coordinated a food drive to a satellite office of Mobile County Health Department during COVID-19 on behalf of his school. He has hosted continuing education webinars for his peers. The highest distinction came when he presented the principal, Mr. Ed Sanderson with a commemorative plaque of acknowledgement during Principal Appreciation Month. Cameron said, “It was an honor to acknowledge the commitment and hard work that Mr. Sanderson puts into leading the students, faculty, and the community. We thank you for all that you do.”

Saint Dominic Catholic School First Grade students all did a great job on their book report pumpkin projects! Each student selected a book to read and then decorated a pumpkin after a character of their book. They also presented their pumpkins to the class. Thank you Mrs. Heim and Mrs. Galle for inspiring our little Eagles to love reading! Pictured, Peyton Weaver.

St. Luke's Cross Country Teams Head to State St. Luke's Cross Country teams were both successful at sectionals. The boy's team placed 2nd overall and the girl's team placed 3rd overall qualifying both teams for State. Zac Haataja placed 1st and Garrett Dolbear placed 4th place in the boys race. Rowan Yeager placed 8th and Abigail Sadler placed 10th in the girls race. Zac Haataja was also recently honored by McCoy Outdoor Company for his performance at the Faith Academy Boardwalk Challenge. Hard work and determination pays off!

Archbishop Visits Heart of Mary Catholic School

Heart of Mary Catholic welcomed our Shepherd, Archbishop Thomas J. Rodi, and Superintendent, Ms. Gwen Byrd, to campus recently. Archbishop Rodi celebrated a beautiful Mass for us with Fr. Bura Koroba and Deacon Bryant. The theme for our Mass was “light”; we come together as a family to shine our HOM light bright for the world to see. Archbishop Rodi encouraged us to shine our light and bring the light of Jesus Christ to life through our words and actions. Thank you, Archbishop and Ms. Byrd, for your visit! We would like to give special thanks to Sister Joanne and Mrs. Lee for putting together this beautiful Mass and to all of our parents and grandparents that were able to attend. Mobile Bay Parents I December 2020

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E.R. Dickson Shout-Outs

E.R. Dickson faculty, staff, and students would like to send a great big shout-out of congratulations to October’s Teacher of the Month, Ms. Kayli Johnston, and Staff Member of the Month, Ms. Diana Lloyd. Mrs. Johnston is a special education teacher for students in grades K-5. Ms. Lloyd is the school registrar. Congratulations to both of them for their hard work and dedication to E.R. Dickson Elementary School.

The world could use a few more Saints. St. Paul’s Episcopal School is accepting applications for the 2021-2022 school year.

MCPSS Administrators Receive Awards

Current and former Mobile County Public Schools administrators were recently honored with awards. Theodore High School Principal Chip Menton was named the CLAS District I High School Principal of the Year, and former MCPSS Career and Technical Education Coordinator Nancy Prine was awarded the U.S. Army Commander’s Award for Public Service.

Please contact our Admissions Office at 251.461.2131 or admissions@stpaulsmobile.net if you would like enrollment information or to schedule a campus tour!

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St. Ignatius Teams Compete in Catapult Challenge

Two St. Ignatius teams competed in the Catapult Challenge hosted by Flight Works Alabama. The Jubilee BEST scholarship recipients were awarded by The University of South Alabama's College of Engineering and School of Computing! Both St. Ignatius teams came in 1st Place for their divisions. Division A Champions 3-Chunk-A-Teers (172.5 ft. launch) Daniel O'Connor and Bennett Riley; Division B Champions - Smashing Pumpkins (205 ft. launch, LONGEST OF THE DAY) Savannah Jane Bexley, Caroline Pond, Kate Scot Hayes and Abigail Clark.

Archdiocese Visits Little Flower Catholic School

Little Flower Catholic School recently welcomed Archdiocese of Mobile Vocations Director, Fr. Victor Ingalls, to campus. Fr. Victor celebrated a beautiful Mass for our students then visited each classroom. He challenged students to consider where their greatest gift meets the world’s greatest need as where God is calling them to be, and had the students use their arms to represent that intersection.

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St. Paul’s Varsity Cheerleaders Competed In The AHSAA South Super Regional Cheer Competition The Varsity St. Paul’s Cheerleaders competed in the AHSAA South Super Regional Cheer Competition. The squad finished 3rd place overall which qualifies them for the State Cheer Competition.

Ellie Olsen Named Cottage Hill Christian Academy 2020 Spelling Bee Champion Mobile Bay Parents I December 2020

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St Pius X Students Make Donation to Families in Lousiana

Saint Pius X students rallied as a community of faith and donated over $3,000 to help Father Savoie’s family and members of their parish in Cameron, Louisiana, whose homes were destroyed during Hurricane Laura. Pictured giving Father Savoie a socially responsible elbow bump is Sophia Ferington. Sophia donated $1,000 she and her sister earned working over the summer!

St. Mary Catholic Parent Night

St. Mary Catholic hosted their 23rd annual Parent Night where families joined in exploring the opportunities at St. Mary Catholic School. Each year, student ambassadors greet and assist in giving tours. Pictured are St. Mary eighth grade students William Husting and Celie Frances Dean with St. Mary alumna and McGill-Toolen Sophomore Vice President, Clara Heinz.

Advance tickets available online and at the Gardens. NOVEMBER 27 – DECEMBER 31 5 – 9 PM

Closed Christmas and New Year’s Days

12401 Bellingrath Gardens Rd • Theodore, AL 36582 251.973.2217 • 800.247.8420 • bellingrath.org

Cottage Hill Runner of the Week Cottage Hill Christian Academy’s Olivia Andrews was named McCoy Outdoor Company Runner of the Week.

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Mobile Christian Alumnus of the Year

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Mobile Christianâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Head of school David Pahman is pictured with our alumnus of the year Beth Brooks. Congratulations Mrs. Beth, we love you!

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UMS-Wright Millionaire Readers

We are so proud of our Lower School students who have worked hard during the first quarter on their AR (Accelerated Reader) goals. Each of the following classes have read over 1,000,000 words already this school year and have earned a special millionaire snack: Mrs. Archey, Mrs. Hall, Mrs. Lockhart, Mrs. McAnnally, Mrs. McGrew, Mrs. Mostellar, Mrs. Pritchard, Mrs. Rogers, and Mrs. Spivey. Preston Seaman, Elliot Brown, Kate Pacheco, and Richard Delaney read the most words in AR first quarter while maintaining an average of 90% or higher. Congratulations goes out to Richard Delaney who is also our very first student in Lower School this school year to read over one million words! Also, a special recognition to Piper Clark, Hayden Collins, Ryleigh Collins, Richard Delaney, Will Galloway, Emory Roe, Smith Rushing, and Annabelle Vickers for becoming the very first members of the AR 100 point club this year.

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Corpus Christi Students Celebrate the Saints

Each year the 4th-grade students at Corpus Christi Catholic School celebrate the saints with a "Saints Day" parade where the students come to school dressed as their favorite saint and parade to other classrooms. In addition, the 4th-graders give a short presentation about the life of the saint they selected. This year, because of Covid, the classroom parade didn't happen but the students still came to school dressed as the saints.

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3rd Annual Passion for Prichard Prep Tailgate Luncheon Another Success!

The 3rd Annual Passion for Prichard Prep Tailgate Luncheon was held on Tuesday, November 10th, and was live streamed through Facebook! We had another great group of football legends including Gene Chizik, Brodie Croyle, Ronnie Brown, Taylor Zarzour and Matt Stinchcomb! The event was emceed by Lenise Ligon and was filled with the speakers sharing about their college and pro football careers and how football shaped them into the men they have become. The Prichard Prep board, administration, and parents are honored and grateful for the speakers taking time from their busy schedules to support our efforts to provide a college prep education for our students.

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Mary G. Montgomery’s Distinguished Young Woman

Ava Sprinkle recently competed in Mobile County’s Distinguished Young Women Competition. This year’s contestants prerecorded their talent and fitness routines. They also responded to a selfexpression question. At the end of the competition, Ava placed in the top 8 and won the Be Your Best Self essay competition. Additionally, Ava was offered $146,200 in scholarships including a $96,000 scholarship to the University of Mobile and scholarships to the University of Montevallo and the University of West Alabama! Ava is a senior at Mary G. Montgomery who is the feature twirler in the MGM band. She also serves her community through the Mobile City Youth Council advocating for a drugfree lifestyle, the Ronald McDonald House Red Shoe Crew, and the Crittenton Youth Advisor program. Congratulations, Ava, and good luck in your future endeavors. Photo by Nikki Mendenhall

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National Principals’ Month at St. Dominic

October was National Principals’ Month! St. Dominic Catholic School students all took the time to say thank you to our Principal, Mrs. Michener, in a very special way. They made cards with sweet messages of thanks. Our first graders made booklets about what they think a Principal does all day. Some of the funny answers were "take a nap" and "eat a chicken sandwich." We are so grateful to Mrs. Michener for all she does to lead our school. She loves our children and does everything to ensure their success.

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E.R. Dickson Welcomes Back the Tigers

In October, E.R. Dickson began welcoming back their PreK – 5th Grade Tigers. Students were greeted by the principal, Mrs. Katryna Kinn, and the ERD Tiger mascot. The E.R. Dickson Hype Squad which consists of various teachers and staff members welcomed students into the building with music and cheers. We are looking forward to a great 2020 -2021 school year.

St. Paul’s Freshmen Class Participate In A Class Wide Service Day

Faith Academy Students Earn Scholarships to USA

Being a Saint does not stop in the classroom. Our community life at St. Paul’s Episcopal is defined by a common purpose: to know ourselves, to share our gifts, and to lead by example. Our freshman class participated in a class wide service day completing various tasks around Wilmer Hall Children’s Home and our school campus.

Hard work, focus and determination pays off! Faith Academy students, Maddie Overstreet, Dakota Saranthus, and Alex Meiners were awarded scholarships by the College of Engineering at the University of South Alabama for their hard work in the BEST Robotics competition last year.

2019-20 J.E. Turner Red Ribbon Winner Presents Fundraiser Proceeds to Health Department Braxton Mullenax, J.E. Turner Elementary's 2019-20 Red Ribbon winner and a current Semmes Middle student, presented $799 to the Mobile County Health Department's SWAT (Students Working Against Tobacco) program recently. He sold lollipops and stuffed animals last year to raise the money to support the program, which educates students about the dangers of smoking and vaping. The 2019-20 school year was interrupted by COVID-19 before he could present the proceeds to MCHD last year. So he recently returned to J.E. Turner and, joined by Principal Glenda Warren, he presented the money to Harold Jones and Tokie Dunn of the Mobile County Health Department.

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Annunciation Academy Student Speaks About Sanctity of Life

Vincent Dennis, a student in McGill-Toolen Catholic High School's Annunciation Academy and teacher, Mrs. Strain spoke to the St. Ignatius Catholic School Life Savers group in front of Planned Parenthood about how beautiful life is, even if your path is different from others. The beauty of our Catholic education is the sanctity of life in all forms. The Annunciation Academy provides a Catholic high school environment for students with intellectual disabilities. Our Peer Mentor program works closely with these students over their four years at McT.

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St. Paul’s Creates Dedication Video To Veterans

At St. Paul’s Episcopal School, Veterans Day is celebrated by our entire school community to show our love and appreciation for those who have nobly served. Traditionally, we invite hundreds of Veterans and active duty military to our campus for our Veterans Day program featuring breakfast, musical tributes, student essays, and special guests. As a result of the pandemic, we decided to continue to celebrate our Veterans safely by making this video to honor all Veterans and Active Duty military. Also, the St. Paul’s Service Leadership class researched veterans homes across the country and sent each program director to share with their veterans. If you would like to view the video visit www.stpaulsmobile.net/ veteransday2020.

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St. Mary Steve Thompson Memorial Golf Hecklers at the 4th Hole! Just a little fun and fun raising at the 4th Hole by Father Vrazel and his heckling team at St. Maryâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s 13th Annual Steve Thompson Memorial Golf Tournament! St. Mary raised record breaking numbers with 120 "heckled" golfers and sponsorships bringing in over $32,000 for St. Mary's new Pavilion project on the campus of St. Mary Catholic School.

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The St. Ignatius Lifesaver group has been actively involved in the 40 Days for Life campaign for the fall. These students lead a Rosary every Friday at 6:30 a.m. for all 7th and 8th grade students who wanted to attend. Each week over 40 students participated. During this campaign, they conducted a diaper drive and had a candy raffle to raise money in support of the Women's Resource Center. During the campaign, they collected over 10,000 diapers and donated $633.20 to the WRC. Pictured here are Lifesaver Ambassadors Andrew Murchison, Lee Vella Courntey, Grayson Robinson, Frances Katz, Laurel Steiner, Mary Parish Hutchisson, Baylor Dumont, Thomas Carey, Maggie Jollit and Laurel Gottlieb.

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Prichard Prep Students Support Breast Cancer Awareness

Prichard Prep students and staff showed their support for Breast Cancer Awareness by dressing in pink for Pink Out of Uniform Day!

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Forty-Two UMS-Wright Students Named AP Scholars

Forty-two students at UMS-Wright Preparatory School have earned the designation of AP Scholar by the College Board in recognition of their exceptional achievement on the collegelevel Advanced Placement Program Exams. The College Boardâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Advanced Placement Program offers students the opportunity to take challenging college-level courses while still in high school, and to receive college credit, advanced placement, or both for successful performance on the AP Exams. About 22 percent of the more than 2.2 million high school students worldwide who took AP Exams performed at a sufficiently high level to earn an AP Scholar Award. Two students qualified for the National AP Scholar Award by earning an average score of 4 or higher on a five-point scale on all AP Exams taken, and scores of 4 or higher on eight or more of these exams. Jackie Stewart-Kuhn and Johanna Ehrhardt earned the National AP Scholar designation. Eighteen students qualified for the AP Scholar with Distinction Award by earning an average score of at least 3.5 on all AP Exams taken, and grades of 3 or higher on five or more of these exams. These students are Bruno Anez, Sykes Ashbee, Abby Baker, Jordan Chow, Ebb Counts, Johanna Ehrhardt, Brenda Ellis, Esther Feinstein, Emma Hwang, Ryann Jokerst, Jack McAnnally, Cate Moore, Jackie Stewart-Kuhn, Julia Sumrall, Olivia Swann, Trip Tremayne, Sarah Webster, and Mary Francis Wood. Seven students qualified for the AP Scholar with Honor Award by earning an average score of at least 3.25 on all AP Exams taken, and scores of 3 or higher on four or more of these exams. These students are Ann Corrigan, Sadie Ladd, Garrett Li, Ellie Mayson, Jessica Olzinski, Gracie Platt, and Jessie Stirling. Fifteen students qualified for the AP Scholar Award by completing three or more AP Exams, with grades of 3 or higher. The AP Scholars are Keith Garri, Natalie Hurdle, Chapman Johnson, Sarah Kuehn, Bailey LaCoste, Campbell Ladd, Ousley Langworthy, Chaney McCorquodale, Katherine Monson, Racheal Reeves, John Rice, Noah Sawrie, Colby Stafford, Morgan Walker, and Mary Martin Yance.

We currently offer Traditional Instruction and Virtual Classroom options to meet the specific needs of each student.

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Wednesday, December 2 at 5:30PM for our Virtual Open House. Visit mcgill-toolen.org for details.

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County Schools Prichard Prep Book Character Autauga Day St. Mary Catholic Participates in “Diary The annual Book Character Day was delayed due to Hurricane of a Wimpy Kid” Virtual Pool Party Zeta, but was still another fun event for staff and students. Students dressed as their favorite book characters such as a princess, Power Ranger, Spider Man, and the list goes on! Teachers and staff were also dressed as their favorite book characters and everyone enjoyed a fun day! Pictured is Mrs. Hubbard’s 3rd grade class.

St. Mary Catholic 5th Grade Teacher, Kyndel Edens and her class were selected to attend a Virtual Pool Party to celebrate the release of “Diary of a Wimpy Kid: The Deep End”. The author, Jeff Kinney, hosted the party and select schools from around the world were invited to participate. The class will attend a virtual tour of Jeff Kinney's studio/ bookstore called An Unlikely Story!

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Kate Shepard’s Red Ribbon Week Representative Camila Loza was Kate Shepard’s Red ribbon week representative. She was presented a medal from Ms. Jane Barlett with the Drug Education Council. She is pictured with Mrs. Melanie Winter, Assistant Principal and Mrs. Angela Lincecum, Principal.

Celebrating 50 Days at St. Dominic

St. Dominic Catholic School Kindergarten students are fifty days smarter! To celebrate they dressed in their best 50's attire. They got to have special treats, listen to some fifty's music and had fun with special photo props! Such a fun day in Kindergarten! Pictured, Juliette McLemore.

Colonial Day for Cottage Hill Christian Academy Second Graders

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Mobile Christian School Homecoming Queen Mobile Christian High school principal Clint Mitchell is pictured with our 2020 Homecoming Queen Genesis Patterson. Congratulations Genesis!

St. Dominic Students Make Slime in Science Class

St. Dominic Catholic School eighth grade students participated in a science experiment during Mr. Nonnenmacher's science class. They made slime! Students were asked to observe if it was a physical or chemical change as well as if it was a covalent or ionic bond holding it together. Everyone had a great time!

Corpus Christi Catholic School Honors Veterans

On Veterans Day, the 5th-graders at Corpus Christi Catholic School greeted parents and Veterans during morning carpool. The students waved flags to honor the family members who served in the military but in particular for the many current parents who are Veterans. The school is thankful for everyone who has served our nation!

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Mathcounts Team at St. Ignatius

Congratulations to the St. Ignatius Catholic School 2020-2021 Mathcounts team. Pictured are Caroline Pond, Travis Lewis, Dominick Paragone, Shepherd Schmohl, Thomas Haggerty and Andrews Grinstead.

St. Mary Catholic Percentage Race!

St. Mary Catholic middle school math teacher Stephanie LeGrone initiated the percentage race to sharpen their math skills! The event was a great way for our middle school students to compete and practice their math skills on a beautiful day.

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ER. Dicksonâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Literacy Teacher of the Year

Congratulations to Mrs. Sande McBryde, 5th grade teacher at E.R. Dickson Elementary School. Mrs. McBryde was recognized on October 15 by the Metro Mobile Literacy Council as the Literacy Teacher of the Year.

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St. Luke's Students of All Ages Learn About Voting Process

It is very important that students of all ages learn about the voting process. Our goal was to create memories by giving our "voters" these age-appropriate opportunities so that they better understand the democratic process and the importance of our voting rights. K4 and K5 classes lined up at the polls after reading the book, “Duck for President”. Some of our University Campus history teachers talked to the students about the election process and held a mock election. Mr. Womack even had his students "sign in" and present their identification before they received their ballot.

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Laura Kate Tharp of Cottage Hill Christian Academy is Named Mobile County’s Distinguished Young Woman for the Class of 2021

UMS-Wright Wright Players Perform Wright Revue

In November, the Wright Players performed solo and duet selections for their immediate families in the Huckabee-Foster Amphitheater. Each student or pair of students chose their pieces from plays or musicals or they performed original pantomime scenarios set to music. As members of the class, students prepare these performances for competition each year. In place of competition, they were given the option to submit videos of their performances for a virtual showcase. Also, Mrs. Delaney sectioned off areas of the amphitheater to abide by COVID-19 regulations (6 feet apart) for families to enjoy! 25

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Faith Academy Holds Blood Drive

Faith Academy hosted their annual Junior-Senior blood drive with LifeSouth. It was the first blood drive in any school in Mobile County since March. There is a critical blood shortage, so Faith students wanted to give. It was a great turn out! Giving blood saves lives! Pictured are juniors Brianna Gradford and Kailyn Hughes.

Applications Being Accepted for Mobile Magnet Schools

The application window for MCPSS' eight magnet schools is open for the 2021-2022 school year. Visit mcpss.com/magnetapplications to apply. The application period will end on December 4 at 3 p.m. Students entering K-5 can apply to attend Council Traditional; EicholdMertz School of Math, Science and Technology; or Old Shell School of Creative & Performing Arts. Students entering grades 6-8 can apply to attend ClarkShaw School of Math, Science and Technology; Denton Magnet School of Technology; Dunbar School of Creative & Performing Arts; or Phillips Preparatory. Students entering grades 6-9 can apply to attend the new Barton Academy for Advanced World Studies, a globally-minded school opening in 2021 that will provide authentic learning experiences and challenge students to solve real-world problems. It will offer multiple foreign languages, advanced fine arts and entrepreneurial learning with a strong global emphasis.

MCPSS Superintendent Receives Award

Mobile County Public Schools Superintendent Chresal Threadgill was recently named Alabama's Superintendent of the Year. He was recognized with the honor at the School Superintendents of Alabama conference in Florence for his leadership, particularly throughout the COVID-19 pandemic. "Very seldomly am I speechless, but today, I am speechless," Mr. Threadgill said after being presented with the honor. "Beyond anything, I am both humble and grateful for the opportunity to represent the State of Alabama. Thanks to each individual who has supported me and those whose shoulders I stand upon who have mentored me along the way. Today is only the beginning of continuing my passion and dedication to the education of children. I am proud of Mobile County Public Schools and the opportunity to bring this recognition home to #TeamMCPSSS, and to Mobile, Alabama. I am truly blessed beyond measure to represent not myself but the entire MCPSS family as Superintendent of the Year for the State of Alabama! It is a great day for Mobile County." Mr. Threadgill, a Mobile native and LeFlore High graduate, has been MCPSS Superintendent since 2018. He holds a bachelor's degree from Troy State University and a master's degree in educational leadership from Alabama State University. He has been an educator for 22 years, working his way up from teacher to principal to superintendent. Before returning to Mobile, he had served as Superintendent of Elba City Schools.

MCPSS Breaks Ground for Miracle League of West Mobile

Mobile County Public Schools was excited to break ground recently for the Miracle League of West Mobile: Schmidt Family Park, a facility for specialneeds children on Johnson Road. The field will feature extra-wide lanes and a synthetic rubberized surface that accommodates wheelchairs and other assistive devices while helping to prevent injuries. The park will also include a regular baseball field for children who are middle-school-aged. The hope is to one day build a school on the site to serve special-needs and autistic students. The Alabama Pecan Development Company, Inc., has donated more than 24 acres for the park, South Alabama Utilities donated more four acres and the Schmidt-Barton Family Fund has pledged to give up to $1 million in matching funds toward the estimated $3.2 million in construction costs. Mobile County Commissioner Jerry Carl will be allocating about $500,000 from District 3 Capital Improvement Funds to pave the road leading to the park. MCPSS is managing construction of the park and will operate it once complete. Mobile Bay Parents I December 2020

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Autauga County Schools Top Cadets in MCPSS ROTC Program

Top cadets in Mobile County Public Schools’ JROTC program were recently promoted to the ranks of Colonel and Command Sergeant Major. They are: - Cadet Colonel Brennan Powell of Bryant High School – Brigade Commander - Cadet Command Sergeant Major Annastasia Walker of Theodore High School – Brigade Command Sergeant Major - Cadet Colonel Alissa Hawthorne of Murphy High School – Deputy Brigade Commander - Cadet Colonel Cossette Wilson of Mary G. Montgomery High School – Deputy Brigade Commander These young men and women are truly inspirational and give their instructors comfort knowing that they will soon be leading our communities and nation.

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“Mom please stop interrogating me.”

My daughter says this to me more often than I care to admit. I ask a lot of questions because she does not give me much information. So I’m left wondering, how could I change? Mobile Bay Parents I December 2020

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As a mother of twin 15-year-olds, I often struggle to find ways to effectively communicate with them. A recent research study done at CHOP explored ways for parents to improve communication with their teens. Dr. Victoria Miller, psychologist, and author of the study explained some of the prompts used in the study that helped parents and their teens promote reciprocal communication instead of one way. She also discussed common mistakes parents of teens make when trying to talk to them.

Common Parenting Communication Mistakes Focusing only on problems. “One of the biggest mistakes parents make is that they tend to focus only on problems like when our teens make a mistake or don’t live up to our expectations rather than also communicating with them about their teens’ strengths and what is going well. We can sometimes forget to do that in the busyness of daily life,” says Dr. Miller. Asking too many questions or offering unsolicited advice. Dr.

Miller explains that another mistake parents make is giving advice and lecturing which can backfire and cause teens to shut down especially when they didn’t ask for advice. It can teach them that they can’t handle problems on their own, which can get in the way of their confidence. It is better to wait until they ask for advice. Teens can feel that parents are too controlling when they ask too many questions. They can also feel as if they are being interrogated instead of having a conversation causing them to shut down.

Letting emotions get out of control. Dr. Miller says that when your teen

comes to talk to you about a problem, it can be difficult to hide your emotions. She suggests trying not to get angry or upset, but instead, focus on the fact that they were willing to talk with you. This will help to keep those lines of communication open by listening and offering guidance when asked.

Turn off “the parent alarm”.

Parents may react emotionally when their teen tells them something upsetting. “When your teen comes to you saying something like, ‘Tom asked me out,’ a parent’s first reaction might be, ‘My daugh29

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ter’s too young to date’ but instead, try to use this opportunity to navigate conversations about how to have a healthy relationship,” says Dr. Miller.

Don’t over-empathize. Dr. Miller

says it may seem counter-intuitive to not over-empathize with your teen. But it can backfire. She offers the example that if your child comes to you and says they got in a fight with their best friend, you might want to jump to the rescue and say, “Good riddance! I didn’t like them anyway, you’re better off without them.” But if they make up the next day, your child may be too embarrassed to come to you and say they resolved their differences.

Ways to Improve Communication According to Dr. Miller, one reason parents make these mistakes is because there is a lot of negative portrayals of teens in the media and in our culture. “You get the eye roll ‘oh well she’s a teenager.’ Which can cause parents to really worry about the teenage years and focus on the problems because they worry about their teens and they want them to do well and succeed,” says Dr. Miller. It is important to remember that it is normal for parents to have some challenges communicating with their teen.

Focus on how teens years are an exciting time. Most teens are well-

adjusted, and they have good relationships with their families, peers, and they contribute to their communities. “I think shifting the focus on how well adjusted most teens are and remembering that adolescents is a positive time in development and very exciting is a good thing that will help to improve communication with your teen,” says Dr. Miller.

Focus on strengths. “It is important

to notice and talk with your teen about his or her strengths” says Dr. Miller. She explains that strengths don’t mean what they are good at or what they have achieved, but rather the qualities about your teen that will contribute to becoming a healthy productive adult. For example, if your daughter is a star soccer player think about what it is that makes her good at it like her work ethic or being a good team player. “It feels good to notice what is going well for our kids instead of worry-

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ing about that test that didn’t go well or that she is upset with something with a friend,” says Dr. Miller.

Allow for independence. Dr. Miller

explains that during adolescents teens are trying to separate themselves from their parents, so they might do those things like walk away when you are trying to have a conversation or keep 10 feet behind you at the mall or focus on their phone when you are trying to have a conversation. “This is really because teens need to see themselves as different and separate from their parents in order to figure out who they are and to become more independent. This can make parents feel like they don’t matter, but that couldn’t be further from the truth,” she says.

Use conversation prompts. In Dr. Miller’s research study she used conversation prompts to help the parent and teen facilitate conversations that focused on strengths. The parent/teen pair were instructed to take 10 minutes together and look at examples of strengths and then come back together and talk about it. Dr. Miller explains that prompts included things like:

• Why did you choose these strengths for you and the other person? • Give examples of ways the other person demonstrates these strengths you choose. • Did the other person choose strengths that you didn’t expect? “They both gave strengths for each other which was the reciprocal aspect of the intervention that was really interesting and unique” says Dr. Miller. She explains that by shifting to the positive it can help parents and kids feel better. It doesn’t mean your teen doesn’t have weaknesses, but the key is to support your teen and use their strengths to address those limitations. She also stresses that it is important to shift your thinking of strength from achievement and what you are good at to who you are as a person. MBP

Cheryl Maguire holds a Master of Counseling Psychology degree. She is married and is the mother of twins and a daughter. Her writing has been published in The New York Times, Parents Magazine, AARP, Healthline, Grown and Flown, Your Teen Magazine, and many other publications. She is a professional member of ASJA. You can find her at Twitter @CherylMaguire05.

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How to Tell Who Your Kid Is Talking to Online

What a spot check reveals. You should be able to see all of your kids’ contacts from their account profile page. On Instagram and TikTok, you can read chats by tapping on a contact name and viewing the history. You can also follow your kids on those platforms to see what they post publicly. But Snapchat automatically deletes chats and public posts (stories) after they’re viewed.

The fact that kids can stay in touch with friends and family by texting, video-chatting, and gaming has been a lifesaver for many families in 2020. There’s just a little problem: Who the heck are they talking to? And how do you make sure they stay safe? Below, we’ll break down exactly whom kids can talk to on different platforms, what you can determine from a routine spot check of their devices, and settings you can use to limit their circle.

What to watch out for. Cyberbullying, drama, and time spent are all hazards of social media chatting. Unwanted contact, such as predatory behavior or inappropriate requests, is a risk⁠—and it can come from strangers or kids they know. Useful settings. Most platforms offer privacy settings that allow kids to keep their accounts private, prevent contact from strangers, and limit comments. Some apps go further: Instagram offers an array of settings for kids to manage their circle of friends, and TikTok offers a small suite of parental controls, including the ability to disable direct messaging.

Basic phone texting

Who kids are talking to. Texting is mostly limited to people kids know in real life, but anyone with your kid’s number can call, text, and even video-chat with them. What a spot check reveals. A lot (unless kids delete their call logs). Phones log every call and text and may add the sender to your kid’s contact list automatically.

Games

Who kids are talking to. Kids play with friends they know in real life, but competing against new people is a huge part of the fun. So most gamers have lots of casual online pals they’ve made just from playing certain games or playing on a certain platform, such as Steam or Roblox.

What to watch out for. Group texting is huge with kids who have their own devices. It also opens them up to being contactable by anyone on the chain⁠—and some people may be strangers. Contacts can be hidden and texts can be deleted, so looking at your kid’s phone may not show you everyone they’re talking to. Also, watch out for spam bots⁠—texts that look like they’re from real people but are actually ads; if kids don’t recognize the number, they shouldn’t respond.

What a spot check reveals. It depends. In most games, you can see a list of your kids’ contacts, and you might be able to read your kids’ chats and private message history. But some game chat is done by voice⁠—so you might be able to only hear what your kid is saying when they’re gaming, which is possible if you keep their console or computer in a family room instead of a bedroom.

Useful settings. iPhones allow you to manage kids’ contacts (go to Settings/Screen Time/Communication Limits). Both iPhones and Android phones allow you to restrict third-party apps from automatically adding all of your contacts, which helps kids keep their circle smaller.

What to watch out for. Game chat⁠—whether voice, video, or written⁠—can run the gamut from edgy (with really graphic language) to cruel (including hate speech and homophobic slurs) to kind (since gamers can forge friendships through gaming). Game chat can be totally off topic, too. Be aware that not all game chat occurs on the platform kids play on. Some gamers prefer to use the chat app Discord to talk with their teammates, so you’ll want to find out whether your kid uses it (it has the same visibility as other social media).Useful settings. Games usually offer privacy settings that allow players to keep a tightly curated list of contacts. You’ll want to go through the game settings to enable the protections you’re comfortable with, from limiting all contact to just friends to moderated chat, which is available on some platforms.

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Who kids are talking to. Kids usually chat or send pics back and forth with only friends, as well as friends of friends, but they can pretty much chat with anyone they want. For example, on Instagram, Snapchat, and TikTok, unless kids enable privacy settings to prevent contact with strangers, they can direct-message (DM) anyone who follows them and anyone they follow. The platforms also make it super easy to extend your network by recommending new accounts to follow, allowing you to sync all your social media contacts, and offering QR codes that let you add people with your camera. 31

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Want to experience a more joyful holiday season this year that doesn’t leave you depleted, miserable and broke? Here are 10 ways to shift your perspective and take command of this “hap-happiest” time of the year!

everyone and keeping the focus on the origin of the holidays,” Flynn says, who specializes in helping women manage anxiety, depression and holiday overwhelm. “Graciously decline and send a nice card or note.”

10- Thou shall quit worshipping perfection. Nothing burns holes into the

8- Thou shall rediscover “the why.” Take time to reevaluate your priori-

fantasy holiday like real life. Maybe the tree is a lopsided, the dog ate your sevenyear-old’s gingerbread house, or you were so focused on creating the best holiday ever that you ended up too sick to enjoy it when the big day finally arrived. “Decide to do things differently this year. Strive for the good and be satisfied with the good. Too often the focus is on the result, and we tend to lose focus on the beautiful process of getting to the result,” says therapist Julia Flynn, LCPC, CRADC.

9- Thou shall not overcommit.

Decide ahead of time which activities won’t work this year. Instead of committing to five parties and multiple gift exchanges, choose a few that you’re enthusiastic about attending. “Be firm, decisive and assertive, always coming from a place of love for

ties. How do you want the season to feel? What do you want your kids to remember most? “Sometimes we need to take a step back and ask ourselves why this time of year is important to us because I think ‘the why’ gets lost. It just becomes an expectation of self and family—or whoever— to have it look a certain way,” says Maki Moussavi, a transformational coach, speaker and author of The High Achievers Guide: Transform your Success Mindset and Begin the Quest to Fulfillment. “Take a step back to assess, from an intangible, emotional perspective, why the holidays are important.”

sential all year long, but especially during the extra busy holidays when you’re stress level is more likely to sky-rocket. Pare down your list to what reasonably makes sense for your health, time and emotional wellbeing. And practice restorative techniques that relax and re-energize you. Simple ways to recharge include a warm bath, watching a favorite TV show, a walk outside, curling up with a juicy novel, a nap or a massage.

6- Thou shall honor thy family.

Attempts to please others by saying yes to everyone else’s holiday gatherings without taking into account you and your family’s desires can cause undue anxiety, frustration and resentment. “The holidays are about family time, appreciating one another and caring for each other. If the focus is switched to the less important gift exchanges and gatherings, all planned at the same time, you can’t enjoy the experience and the original meaning is lost,” Flynn says.

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For those events that you’d like to attend, but can’t, firmly communicate to your extended family or friends that you value time spent with them and would like to discuss alternative ideas for getting together. And, don’t feel guilty about standing by your decisions. “You have every right in the world to establish what you want your holiday tradition to be. You are not obligated to participate in somebody else’s version of the season,” Moussavi says.

5- Thou shall invite thy partner’s participation. If you feel overwhelmed

and stressed because you’re trying to manage the bulk of holiday prep on top of working and taking care of your family, ask your spouse for help. Discuss what you’d both like the season to look and feel like. “Sometimes it’s not that men don’t want to be involved. It’s that they are never invited to be, and they don’t ask,” Moussavi says. Maybe your husband can mail the packages for out of town family, purchase tickets to the holiday play your family wants to see, or take charge of a few of the gifts.

4- Thou shall not allow others to steal thy happiness. Plan ahead for

those individuals who love to bait you into

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an upsetting conversation at annual gatherings. Since you know how the person is likely to behave, rehearse how you will respond when they pounce. “The only thing you can do is get better at making it clear what you will and won’t tolerate,” Moussavi says. “You have to shut it down. You standing up for yourself is normal, empowered adult behavior.” Arm yourself with responses like: “I’m here to enjoy myself. I don’t want to talk about that right now.” Or, “Let’s agree to disagree.” Also, physically exit from the situation by saying: “I’m going to go refresh my drink.” Or, “I have to make a call.”

3- Thou shall simplify. “The holiday

can be manageable and simple if we allow it to be,” Flynn says. “What makes the holiday so difficult is our own thinking about it. We make it difficult for ourselves.” Experiment with small changes that can relieve your stress. Hire a caterer for your party. Forgo Christmas cards this year. For the relative who has everything, send flowers or make a donation in their name to an organization that is important to them.

2- Thou shall not compete with thy neighbors. As Theodore Roosevelt

once quipped: “Comparison is the thief of joy.” Some people enjoy casting their home in a professionally-created holiday glow while others prefer to hang a festive wreath on their door and call it good. Do what brings you pleasure and makes sense for your budget.

1- Thou shall give from thy heart.

Rather than twisting yourself in knots seeking the perfect present for everyone on your list, take a more light-hearted approach to gift-giving. For example, give a t-shirt with a meaningful quote, a digital photo album commemorating a fun getaway, or an experience like tickets to the zoo or a concert. Volunteering your time is also a fulfilling way to give. “If you are intentional, you can make the holidays about the ideas of love, caring for one another, understanding, enjoying quality time together and treating each other as the precious beings each of us are,” Flynn says. MBP Freelance writer Christa Melnyk Hines and her husband are the parents of two sons and a menagerie of pets. Her intention this holiday is to slow down and focus more on the magic of the season and less on lopsided Christmas trees.

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6101 Grelot Road, Mobile Note for all indoor events: In-person RSVP: christmasinmobile.com To register, visit christmasinmobile.com. Registration, socially distanced seating, and masks will be required. Seating is limited. Need help registering? Call us at 251.342.0462. Or Watch Live Stream: christunited.com/live Finding Christmas, A Sermon Series Sundays, November 29 – December 20, 2020 Traditional: 9 a.m. & 11 a.m. | NewSong: 9 a.m. & 11 a.m. | Evening Worship: 5 p.m. Join us for our new message series as we discover how Christ’s light can help us in Finding Christmas this year! Live Nativity Drive-Thru Wednesday, December 2, 2020 | 5 p.m.–7 p.m. Join us as we celebrate the Christmas season by travelling through the story of Jesus’ birth. Experience what it was like the night baby Jesus was born by live character portrayals of Mary, Joseph, shepherds, wise men, angels, and live animals. This drive through event is free and will be a unique and meaningful experience for all ages. Festival of Christmas: A Sanctuary Choir Musical Sunday, December 6 | 9 a.m. & 11 a.m. | Sanctuary Celebrate the joyful news of Christ’s birth as our Sanctuary Choir sings well-known and inspirational Christmas carols, along with a few new ones. JOY Christmas Celebration: A Worship Experience for All Abilities Sunday, December 13, 2020 | 3:30 p.m. | Fellowship Hall. Enjoy this inclusive, accessible, and sensory friendly Christmas worship. A Service of Hope Wednesday, December 16, 2020 | 6 p.m. – 7 p.m. | Sanctuary. If you are hurting this Christmas season from the death of a loved one, health problems, divorce, feeling isolated, financial distress, or for any other reason, we invite you to join us as we acknowledge our pain and begin the process of moving from hurt to hope. If you have had a loved one who has died, you are encouraged to bring a picture of them to place on the table of remembrance.

Christ United Country Christmas hosted by the Circuit Riders Sunday, December 20, 2020 | 4 p.m. & 6:30 p.m. | Christ Center Gym. Join our special guest musicians – Doyle Dykes, Don Moen, Ron Wilson, Johanna Horstmann, and Jennifer Puryear Duncan for an evening full of fun, festive, and classic country Christmas musical performances. Family Christmas Candlelight Communion Services Wednesday, December 23, 2020 | 4:30 p.m. & 6 p.m. | Sanctuary. Bring the kids for a fun and child-friendly Christmas service. Everyone will enjoy Christmas sing-a-longs and an interactive telling of the Christmas story. Christmas Eve Candlelight Traditional Communion Services Thursday, December 24, 2020 | 4 p.m., 6 p.m. & 11 p.m. | Sanctuary. Celebrate the birth of our Savior with us. Enjoy Christmas carols, listening to scripture readings, an inspirational Christmas message, and participation in Holy Communion. Christmas Eve Candlelight NewSong Communion Service Thursday, December 24 | 5 p.m. | Christ Center Gym. Come and experience live strings, an incredible worship band, and a meaningful message as we celebrate the greatest gift of all! (251) 342.0462 www.christmasinmobile.com

November 27-December 31

Magic Christmas in Lights at Bellingrath Gardens and Home ad on page 15

@ Bellingrath Gardens and Home 12401 Bellingrath Gardens Rd Theodore, AL 36582 Join us for our 25th season! The dazzling nighttime display features more than 1,100 set pieces, 3 million lights and 15 scenes, set out in a walking tour throughout the 65-acre Garden estate. Open daily-5:00pm - 9:00pm. (251) 973-2217 www.bellingrath.org

adults with special needs and celebrate the holidays 2020-style! Collect fun activities to do at home, breakfast and enjoy entertainment from your vehicle. At the end, hop out of the car to take a photo with our special needs-friendly Santa. dancewithoutlimitsfoundation.org

December 18-20

Mobile Ballet presents “The Nutcracker” ad on page 29

@ Mobile Civic Center Theatre 401 Civic Center Drive Mobile, AL 36602 December brings the lavish holiday tradition of The Nutcracker–Performances will take place at the Civic Center Theatre and a virtual Nutcracker option will also be available for patrons to enjoy from home. (251) 342-2241 www.mobileballet.org

Sunny Side Theater & Drama Camp Productions presents

“Best Christmas Pageant Ever” ad on page 3

@ Arlene Mitchell Theater at Spring Hill College Mobile, AL 36608 Sunny Side Theater & Drama Camp Productions presents “Best Christmas Pageant Ever”. December 18-7pm, December 19-5pm & 7pm and December 20-5pm (251) 510-1808 www.azaleacityarts.org

Through December 24 Santa’s Wonderland

@ Bass Pro Shop 20000 Bass Pro Drive Spanish Fort, AL 36527 Santa photos, activities, take home crafts, and more! Online reservations required. Check the activity schedule online for updates. Times subject to change. (251) 607-5900 ksmith6@basspro.com www.basspro.com

December 12

Drive-Thru Santa Breakfast Benefitting Dance Without Limits ad on page 11

@ The Pillars 1757 Government Street Mobile, AL 36604 Help us continue to provide dance to children and

December Bragg-Mitchell Mansion Decorated for Christmas

@ Bragg-Mitchell Mansion 1906 Spring Hill Avenue Mobile, AL 36607 Tour the Mansion with traditional decorations

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adorning each room and enjoy the beauty of the season.. The gift shop will be open, Tu - Fri., 10:00am-4:00pm with with last tour at 3:00pm.

Cost-$8.00 per person, Children Age 3 & Under: FREE! mobileseg.com/events/christmas-nights-of-lights/

(251) 471-6364 www.braggmitchellmansion.com

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Round But Square Studios

@ Round But Square 3304 Old Shell Rd. Suite C Mobile, AL 36607 Holiday events, camps and classes. See our website for more information. 251-591-3425 www.roundbutsquarestudios.com

STEM Wonderland

@ Gulf Coast Exploreum 65 Government St. Mobile, AL 36602 Holiday STEM Land will feature the annual installation of the model train set. Holiday decorations will set the stage for a myriad of STEM based activities for all ages, while Imagination Playground will be available for building an ice village. www.exploreum.com

Weekends Only November 29-December 15 Holiday Activities at the Farm

@ Fish River Christmas Tree Farm 13982 Woodhaven Dairy Road East Summerdale, AL 36580 Choose a Christmas Tree. Holiday activities-Tannenbaum Express Tree Train, live manger scene, Camel/Pony Rides ($5 per ride) and Santa visits (10am-4pm) Nov.29-Dec.1, Dec.7-8, Dec.14-15. (251) 988-8114 fishrivertrees@gulftel.com www.fishrivertrees.com

November 27 - December 25 Wales West Arctic Express

@ Wales West RV Resort and Light Railway 13670 Smiley Street Silverhill, AL 36576 Train rides, Santa visit with toy, millions of lights, potato cannon, hayless hayride, café & gift shop. Fri’s, Sat’s, Sun’s 4pm - 9pm. Daily, beginning December 11th. Reservations online (888) 569-5337 or (251) 232-2322 enquiries@ waleswest.com www.waleswest.com

November 27 - December Photos with Santa

@ The Shoppes of Bel Air 3299 Bel Air Mall Mobile, AL 36606 Santa will be observing social distancing, operating on a reservation only basis. You can reserve a time to visit Santa on the mall website. Hours of Operation: Monday–Saturday 11am–7pm and Sunday 12pm–6pm (Christmas Eve 9am–5pm). (251) 478-1893 www.theshoppesatbelair.com

November 28 - December 23 Fish River Christmas Tree Farm

@ Fish River Christmas Tree Farm 13982 Woodhaven Dairy Road East Summerdale, AL 36580 Choose & cut your own, pre-cut, flocked and container trees! Santa visits, live manger scene, camel rides, train and more! Open daily from 8am - 5pm. (251) 988-8114 fishrivertrees@gulftel.com www.fishrivertrees.com

November 30–January 1 Mobile Christmas Night of Lights

@ Hank Aaron Stadium 755 Bolling Brothers Blvd Mobile, AL 36606 See over 1 million lights synchronized to traditional and newer, rocking Christmas music played through your own car stereo. 5:30pm-10:00pm. Mobile Bay Parents I December 2020

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December 10 - December 17 December 18 Holiday Cookie Decorating Contest Winner Announced:

@ Virtual Share pictures of your Holiday Cookie creations with us to be entered in a Holiday Cookie Decorating Contest! Email or text pictures to mainyou@mplonline.org, 251-366-3639 by December 9 (include your name, age, prefered contact information, and a title for your cookie). The public will vote on the winner. (251) 340-1507 www.mobilepubliclibrary.org

December 1 Trees for Hope

December 4, 6, 18, 20 2020 Christmas Movie Series

@ Saenger Theatre 6 Joachim Street Mobile, AL 36602 This holiday season, the ASM Global-managed Mobile Saenger Theatre will once again showcase classic Christmas movies on the big screen! December 4-7pm-It’s A Wonderful Life, December 6-3pm, Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer, December 18-7pm, Elf, December 20-3pm, White Christmas www.mobilesaenger.com

December 4-6 Holiday Market at the Pillars

@ The Pillars 1757 Government Street Mobile, AL 36604 3 Day Event-Shop Local Farmers, Crafters, Bakers and Makers, Hot Chocolate Bar & Sweet Treats and Special appearance by Santa. (251) 307-5382 www.classiceventsco.com/themarket

@ Virtual Mobile, AL 36608 Kick off the holiday season, browsing and bidding on wonderfully decorated Christmas trees and wreaths and enjoying fun and fellowship, all while helping to support children and families in our care. Time: 6:00pm (251) 463-8280 treesforhopeevent.org/mobile

December 5 Chickasaw Christmas Land Yacht Parade

Chickasaw, AL 36611 Chickasaw Christmas Land Yacht Parade will be held at 6:30pm. (251) 452-6467 www.cityofchickasaw.org

Christmas in Satsuma 2020 Arts & Crafts Festival

December 2-5 Holiday Market

@ Mobile Botanical Gardens 5151 Museum Drive Mobile, AL 36608 Shop our Online Catalog for fresh greenery or Shop in-person on Dec 2-5 for the full Holiday Market Offerings! Dec. 2-3, 1-3pm, Dec. 4, 9am– 3pm, Dec. 5, 9am–1pm (251) 342-0555 mbg2@bellsouth.net www. mobilebotanicalgardens.org/event/a-holiday-marketin-the-gardens/

December 3 The Prophecy Show

@ Saenger Theatre 6 South Joachim Street Mobile, AL 36602 St. Louis powerhouse The Prophecy Show will bring their signature and highly-energized Rock Opera to the Mobile Saenger Theatre at 7pm. Come experience the power, the music and the magic this Christmas season www.mobilesaenger.com

December 4 Bella Lumina

@ Mardi Gras Park Mobile, AL 36602 Celebrate the season with the inaugural Bella-Lumina (Beautiful Lights), a paper lantern procession. Bring your paper lantern with battery operated lights to Mardi Gras Park. We’ll walk five blocks to Cathedral Square and award prizes. Procession is limited to 250 people, and only those registered in advance will be able to participate. www.eventbrite.com/e/bella-lumina-tickets-125976811033

Mobile Symphony Youth Orchestra “Holiday Concert”

@ Foley Civic Center Foley, AL 36535 The child musicians are sure to move audiences with sounds of the Christmas season. 7:00pm (251) 943-1545 www.mobilesymphony.org

@ Baldwin Square Satsuma, AL 36572 Arts and Crafts Festival will be held in Baldwin Square-Festivities starting at 11am, Christmas Parade at 2pm, Tree Lighting in the evening. 11am-6pm (251) 303-3022 www.cityofsatsuma.com

First Noel- Christmas at Cornerstone Gardens

@ Cornerstone Gardens 1066 Government Street Mobile, AL 36604 Join us for an afternoon of carols, live nativity & family friendly surprises and sweet treats. Stroll through the garden for the story of Christ’s birth as it comes alive! Donations suggested. 3pm7pm. cornerstonegarden.org

Holiday Half Marathon and 8K Run

@ Mullet Point Park 13203 County Road 1 Fairhope, AL 36532 We are collecting toys and items for distraction (coloring books, puzzles, craft kits) for the children at USA Children’s and Women’s Hospital and the children in the care of the Child Advocacy Center. If you can’t make it to the race site Saturday morning, you now have the option to participate virtually. (251) 473-7223 www.pcpacers.org

Holiday Makers Market

@ Central Presbyterian Church 1260 Dauphin Street Mobile, AL 36604 Outside, Family-friendly, Socially Distanced Arts and Crafts Market featuring over 50 vendors from around the region. 8am-4pm (251) 432-0591 www.cpcmidtown.com

Holiday Market & Christmas Kids Day TBD Mobile, AL 36602 See our website for more information. (251) 208-1550 www.ncsmobile.org

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@ Cathedral of Immaculate Conception 2 South Claiborne Street Mobile, AL 36602 Mobile’s Singing Children Annual Christmas Concert. 7:00pm. Suggested donation at the door: $10.00 mobilesingingchildren@gmail.com www.mobilesingingchildren.org

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@ Chickasaw Auditorium 400 Grand Blvd Chickasaw, AL 36611 Please join us for our indoor market featuring handmade crafts, homemade items and direct sale vendors. 9:00am

Satsuma Christmas Parade

Satsuma, AL 36572 Join us for the Annual Satsuma Christmas Parade. Start Time: 2pm www.cityofsatsuma.com

SouthWest Mobile County Chamber of Commerce 2020 Christmas Parade @ W.C. Griggs Elementary School 6001 Three Notch Road Mobile, AL 36619 Parade will begin at 10:30 a.m. Parade lineup begins at 8:30 a.m. at W.C. Griggs Elementary School on Three Notch Road in Tillman’s Corner. (251) 666-2488 info@swmcchamber.com www.swmcchamber.com

Spectacular Night of Lights-Drive Through

12610 Old US 90 Grand Bay, AL 36541 The lighting of the tree will be on Facebook Live at 6:30pm-a drive thru light show will open immediately after. Santa will be waiving to the children. There will also be a mailbox for the children to drop their letters off to Santa.

December 5 - 6 15th Annual St. Lawrence Christmas Bazaar

370 South Section Street Fairhope, AL 36532 Silent auction with ONLINE BIDDING, vendor booths, bake sale, handcrafted gift baskets, and Christmas Cafe. Unique art and antiques for purchase. Kids activities and visit from Santa! Online auction preview-Friday, December 4 8:00am-8:00pm. Online bidding open-Saturday-8:00am-8:00pm, Sunday8:00am-3:00pm. Event open Saturday and Sunday-9:00am-3:00pm. Social distancing measures in place. (251) 517-5295 bazaar@stlawrencefairhope.com www.stlawrencechristmasbazaar.com

December 5-6 Christmas Boutique Bash

@ The Grounds 1035 North Cody Road Mobile, AL 36608 Join us for a fantastic day of shopping, food, and fun! We will have food trucks, shopping , photos with Santa for the littles, and so much more. www.whateverministry.com/christmas-in-july

December 5, 12 Family Holiday Movie Series

@ Gulf Coast Exploreum Science Center and IMAX Theatre 65 South Government Street Mobile, AL 36602 Join us for a family holiday movie - December

5-”Home Alone” at 2:00pm, December 12-”Elf” at 2:00pm (251) 208-6873 www.exploreum.com

December 5-December 31 Lights of Dauphin Island

Dauphin Island, AL 36528 The inaugural Lights of Dauphin Island is coming to our Island as a thank you to the community from the DI Chamber of Commerce. Let’s enjoy an “Enchanted Island Christmas” and let the lights of the season brighten the end of our year. The trees and decorations will be lit on Saturday evening December 5 for the month. www.townofdauphinisland.org

December 6 Alabama Baptist Children’s Homes Christmas Open House

@ Virtual Mobile, AL 36695 Our Open House events will be hosted via Facebook Live at 2:45pm. Drive-thru donation drop-off from 2-4 on Dec 6. (251) 639-1022 mobile@alabamachild.org www.alabamachild.org

Holiday Market-History Museum of Mobile

@ Colonial Fort Conde 150 South Royal Street Mobile, AL 36602 The History Museum of Mobile is hosting a Holiday Market during December’s Free Sunday. Time: 1:00pm-5:00pm (251) 301-0273 www.historymuseumofmobile.com

Pet Photos with Santa

@ B&B Pet Stop 5035 Cottage Hill Road Mobile, AL 36693 Gather the furry, feathered, and 4 legged members of your family for a pet photo with Santa from 12:00pm-3:00pm. Benefits the Friends of the Mobile Animal Shelter. (251) 661-3474 www.bbpetstop.com

Playhouse in the Park Silent Auction and Fundraiser @ Playhouse in the Park 4851 Museum Drive Mobile, AL 36608 The Playhouse will hold its annual fundraiser on December 6. Along with wine and food we will have musical performances from our upcoming Playhouse production Beauty and the Beast as well as many holiday favorites. 4pm-6pm (251) 602-0630 www.playhouseinthepark.org

December 11-13 Play Cafe - Christmas Activities

@ Play Cafe 4504 Old Shell Rd STE B Mobile, AL 36608 Join us for fun holiday events. Dinner, Brunch or snacks with Santa. Visit our website for more details and to sign up. (251) 219-0354 www.playcafemobile.com

December 11-12 The Pact Theatre Company presents “Christmas Magic”

@ The PACT Theatre Company Mobile, AL 36609 Join us this Christmas for our original production, Christmas Magic. Listen to the music of classic and modern Christmas songs, grab some hot chocolate and enjoy this production, which is sure to put a smile on your face and the Christmas Magic in your heart. office@thepactmobile.com www.thepactmobile.com

December 12 Christmas at the Exploreum

@ Gulf Coast Exploreum Science Center and IMAX Theatre 65 South Government Street Mobile, AL 36602 Join us for our annual Christmas at the Exploreum. Time: 10:30am-3:00pm (251) 208-6873 www.exploreum.com

Polar Express Under the Oaks

@ Ben May Main Library 701 Government St Mobile, AL 36602 Join us for a celebration of the Polar Express. There will be a reading of the story and caroling 10:00a.m. Enjoy a sidewalk obstacle course, scavenger hunt, drop box for letters to Santa, chalk art, and craft bags. Bring your own chair/ blanket. (251) 340-1507 www.mobilepubliclibrary.org

Saraland Christmas Parade

Saraland, AL 36571 Join us for the Saraland Christmas Parade at 12:00pm. This years theme will be “Sounds of Christmas” (251) 675-4444 www.saralandchamber.com

Saraland Mistletoe Market

@ Saraland Municipal Complex 939 Saraland Blvd S Saraland, AL 36571 Join us for the 3rd Annual Mistletoe Market from 9:00am–4:00pm, come shop, eat, and more! (251) 675-4444 www.saralandchamber.com

December 7 Holiday Cheer

Mobile, AL 36602 Holiday Cheer a non-event benefiting The Child Advocacy Center. Wine and dine at home. (251) 432-1101 www.cacmobile.org

Semmes Christmas Parade

Highway 98 to Firetower Rd Semmes, AL 36575 The Semmes Annual Christmas Parade will be held at 10:00am. (251) 649-8811 information@cityofsemmesal.gov www.cityofsemmesal.gov

December 11 Elf-A-Palooza

@ Downtown Mobile Mobile, AL 36602 December ArtWalk/Elfapalooza - This event will feature live content, prize giveaways, and more from local artists, arts organizations and businesses- including virtual tours, cooking demonstrations, musical performances, and educational talks! www.ncsmobile.org

December 12-13 LuLu’s Lighted Boat Parade & Coastal Alabama Business Chambers Holly Mobile Symphony presents “A Bountiful Holiday”

@ Saenger Theatre 6 Joachim Street Mobile, AL 36602 Santa will unpack a bounty of musical gifts on

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our stage this year! We will celebrate the holidays with an old-fashioned variety show with performances by various orchestral sections. December 12-6:00pm, 8:30pm, December 131:00pm, 3:30pm (251) 432-2010 www.mobilesymphony.org

December 18 Drive Through Nativity

@ Big Lake Heights Church Of God 11770 Moffett Road Wilmer, AL 36587 Join us for our annual drive-thru live nativity. Free hot chocolate and candy canes for everyone. 6pm-9pm (251) 649-2999 biglakecog.org

December 18-19 Christmas at Oakleigh

@ Historic Oakleigh House Museum 300 Oakleigh Place Mobile, AL 36604 Celebrate the holidays with our famous Christmas decor. Take a Christmas tour, eat Christmas cookies, and learn about antebellum Christmas traditions during our two-night celebration! December 18-5:30pm-8:30pm, December 19-4:30pm-8:00pm (251) 432-1281 www.historicoakleigh.com

December 19 Breakfast with the Grinch

@ Steele Creek Lodge 368 Juniper Avenue Satsuma, AL 36572 Come experience a “Grinchy” breakfast with the Grinch and friends from the North Pole. Games and prizes. Tickets on sale at Mcconaghy Drugs and The Little Shoppe. Proceeds will go to the Satsuma Women’s club. Tickets-$15

NGDC’s 8th Annual Christmas Showcase and Shopping Spree

@ Abba Shrine Temple 7701 Hitt Road Mobile, AL 36695 Come out and watch our Next Generation Dancers and Shop till you drop! 10am-4pm (251) 591-9899

December 20 Lights of Praise Christmas Event

2605 Dawes Road Mobile, AL 36695 Join us for our Christmas event including pictures with Santa, Ice Princesses and a train ride through our lights. This is a free event. 6pm-8pm.

December 21 The Jingle Jolly Christmas Party

@ The PACT Theatre Company 5025 Cottage Hill Rd Mobile, AL 36609 The Jingle Jolly Christmas Party-activities include Cookie Decorating Contests, Christmas Tree Decorating Contests, Christmas Card Making for Local Charities, Scavenger Hunts, Karaoke and much more! Register online at thepactmobile.com/christmas! 6pm-10pm. Registration Fee:$20, includes pizza and a drink! (251) 307-5056 thepactmobile.com

December 21-23, 28-30 Winter Camps at the Exploreum

@ Gulf Coast Exploreum Science Center and IMAX Theatre 65 South Government Street Mobile, AL 36602 Winter Camps at the Exploreum - December 2123 and December 28-30. (251) 208-6873 www.exploreum.com

December 31 Happy Noon Year

@ Gulf Coast Exploreum Science Center and IMAX Theatre 65 South Government Street Mobile, AL 36602 Join us for our Happy Noon Year’s event at the Exploreum. Time: 10:30am-3:00pm (251) 208-6873 www.exploreum.com

Kids Confetti Drop

@ The Wharf 23101 Canal Road Orange Beach, AL 36561 Confetti Drop at noon, featuring tons of family friendly activities plus an early daytime countdown to the new year. 10am-2pm. (251) 224-1000 info@alwharf.com www.alwharf.com

Reelin’ In the New Year NYE Street Party

@ The Wharf 23101 Canal Road Orange Beach, AL 36561 Reel in 2020 with us for our New Year’s Eve Street Party. DJ, Live music, family-friendly and adult-centered fun all rounding off at midnight with our marlin drop and fireworks. 4pm-12am. Admission is free. (251) 224-1000 info@alwharf.com

Because of ever-changing circumstances due to Covid-19 and Hurricane Sally, please check with each venue prior to attending the event to verify the information provided is still accurate and up to date.

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Wine and Wishes 6:30 PM Ezell House, 407 Conti Street Mobile, AL, 36602 Join us at our 4th annual Wine & Wishes benefiting Make A Wish Alabama! Our goal this year is to grant the wishes of 2 local wish kids with critical illnesses. www.eventbrite.com/e/wine-wishes-2020-tickets-121729330705

Friday December 4

Black Tie Ball 7:00 PM Alabama Contemporary Art Center, 301 Conti St Mobile, AL, 36602 Dust off your tuxedo and formal gowns for the first Black Tie Ball hosted by the Alabama School of the Arts at the University of Mobile. The UM Jazz Band and vocalists will entertain you with famous tunes by Michael Bublé. The night will include live music and dancing, great food, incredible artwork, a silent auction and more. www.umobile.edu/blacktie Joe Jefferson Players presents Songs for a New World Gulf Quest Amphitheater, Mobile, AL, 36602 Joe Jefferson Players presents Songs for a New World. Patrons will need to bring their own chairs for seating (and blankets to keep warm!) to the performances. Masks and social distancing will be required. Tickets MUST be purchased in advance. www.joejeffersonplayers.com

Saturday December 5

Living History Drill 8:00 AM - 5:00 PM, USS Battleship Memorial Parkway, Mobile, AL, 36603 History comes to life when the living history crews board the USS ALABAMA and USS DRUM for drill time. These historical reenactors demonstrate life aboard our naval vessels during WWII. Call to battle stations is sounded at 1:00 p.m. as vintage airplanes attack the ship and the crew defends her with guns blazing. www.ussalabama.com Fourth Annual Gulf Seafood Gala 6:00 PM - 9:00 PM, Isle Dauphine Club, 100 Orleans Dr Mobile, AL, 36528 This year’s event showcases the best of local seafood traditions with a nostalgic evening celebrating the coastal chic of the Isle Dauphine Club. Gala proceeds will be used to complete and equip the new Art Studio / teaching space owned and operated by Dauphin Island Heritage and Arts Council. (251) 490-0294 www.dauphinislandarts.org

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Desi Banks Tour 7:00 PM Saenger Theatre, 6 South Joachim Street Mobile, AL, 36602 Desi Banks on tour

Blakeley Cruises - Excursion to Bottle Creek Mounds ($39/adults and $19/kids under 12) TBD Blakeley State Park, Spanish Fort, AL, 36527 The stunning Bottle Creek site, accessible only by boat, features 18 earthen mounds built centuries ago by Native Americans and was once of the largest communities in the Southeast. Guests may climb the tallest of the mounds, (251) 626-0798 www.blakeleypark.com Joe Jefferson Players presents Songs for a New World Details December 4.

performed at The Steeple on St. Francis & The PACT Theatre Company this Spring! thepactmobile.com

Sunday December 6

Joe Jefferson Players presents Songs for a New World Details December 4.

Friday January 8

Friday December 11

Blakeley Cruises - Winter Sunset Cruise ($12.50/adults and $7/kids ages 6-12)

4:30 PM Blakeley State Park, Spanish Fort, AL, 36527 Come along on a brief relaxing voyage departing from the Bartram Landing at Five Rivers Delta Resource Center as we experience nature’s splendor and be back in time to grab a seafood dinner on the Causeway! (251) 626-0798 www.blakeleypark.com Joe Jefferson Players presents Songs for a New World Details December 4.

Saturday December 12

Ocean Saturday: Catch of the Day 9:45 AM Dauphin Island Sea Lab, 101 Bienville Blvd Dauphin Island, AL, 36528 You may love fishing but not every interesting animal takes a bait and hook. From rods to nets, scoops and pumps, join us and try out several different fishing methods and see who else lives in the waters around Dauphin Island. //bit.ly/OceanSaturdays Blakeley Cruises - Intro to Outdoor Photography Cruise ($20/adults and $12/kids ages 6-12) 10:00 AM Blakeley State Park, Spanish Fort, AL, 36527 Bring a camera and join us for a relaxing sightseeing cruise into the wild and scenic Mobile-Tensaw Delta and pick up a few pointers on capturing the best shots of our amazing natural environment! Kathy Hicks, a professional photographer and educator at Five Rivers Delta Resource Center, will accompany us and be on hand to help beginner photographers learn how to capture stunning images of the natural environment. (251) 626-0798 www.blakeleypark.com Blakeley Cruises - Delta Discovery Tour ($20/adults and $12/kids ages 6-12)

1:00 PM Blakeley State Park, Spanish Fort, AL, 36527 This 90-minute excursion into the wild and scenic lower reaches of the Mobile-Tensaw Delta--known as the “American Amazon”--introduces visitors and residents alike to a truly astounding natural habitat. This cruise is offered twice a day on one Saturday of each month from the Bartram Landing at Five Rivers Delta Resource Center. (251) 626-0798 www.blakeleypark.com

Friday December 12

Joe Jefferson Players presents Songs for a New World Details December 4. Auditions for Disney’s Newsies The Pact, Mobile, AL, 36609 The PACT is excited to announce auditions for Disney’s Newsies: The Musical performed at The Steeple on St. Francis & The PACT Theatre Company this Spring! thepactmobile.com

Saturday December 18

Auditions for Disney’s Newsies The Pact, Mobile, AL, 36609 The PACT is excited to announce auditions for Disney’s Newsies: The Musical

The Black Jacket Symphony Presents Pink Floyd’s “The Wall” 7:00 PM Saenger Theatre, 6 South Joachim Street Mobile, AL, 36602 The Black Jacket Symphony Presents Pink Floyd’s “The Wall” www.mobilesaenger.com

Friday January 29

An Evening With Travis Tritt 7:30 PM Saenger Theatre, 6 South Joachim Street Mobile, AL, 36602 Enjoy a special evening with CMA and GRAMMY Award-winning country artist, Travis Tritt. www.mobilesaenger.com

Monday, Wednesday and Friday

Online Storytimes 10:00 AM Virtual, Mobile, AL Join us Monday, Wednesday and Friday at 10:00 a.m. as youth specialists from Mobile Public Library share stories and songs. www.facebook.com/mobilepubliclibrarychildrens

Every Friday

Streets Alive 6:00 PM - 9:00 PM, Downtown Mobile, Mobile, AL, 36602 The City of Mobile is bringing our downtown streets alive every Friday! Streets Alive encourages an entertainment-friendly environment for Mobilians to come out and support downtown businesses while maintaining social distancing practices!

First and Third Fridays

Sea Lab Science Fridays - Ocean STEM Dauphin Island Sea Lab, 101 Bienville Blvd Dauphin Island, AL Come and join us for a Friday of marine science! Discovery Hall Programs is offering a day of ‘drop-in’ classes. On the first and third Fridays of each month, we are offering three different field classes each approximately two hours long. Each month, we offer two different themes – Ocean Animal Biology and Ocean STEM. docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfv8oNR4xhJqYLf NN7FHEHWLCX1GbZQ9f7c2GeP_7xuh37vbg/viewform

Every 3rd Saturday

Ice Box Pop Up Market 2:00 PM Ice Box, 755 Monroe Street Mobile, AL, 36602 Every 3rd Saturday of the month, starting September 19th, we will be hosting local vendors for an afternoon Pop Up Market!

First Sunday of every month

Free First Sunday - History Museum of Mobile

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1:00 PM History Museum of Mobile, 111 S Royal Street Mobile, AL, 36602 Free admission for all visitors sponsored by Wind Creek Hospitality every first Sunday of the month! www.historymuseumofmobile.com

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Q. My wife and I have two kids and one on the way. We’re debt-free except for our home, and we have our emergency fund in place. We’ve also been saving for retirement, with me putting 15% into a 401(k) and her putting 10 percent into her retirement account. On top of all this, we’re putting a little money toward college funds for the kids. We talked the other night, and after that we started thinking about pulling back from retirement saving and getting the house paid off. What do you think about that?

A. I teach people to start investing 15% of their household income for retirement after they’ve completed Baby Step 3, which is saving three to six months of expenses for an emergency fund. Baby Step 4 would be both of you putting 15% of your income into retirement, and you’re not quite doing that yet. Saving for college comes next in Baby Step 5. I don’t teach people to put less than 15% of their income into retirement in order to pay off the house a little earlier. It’s tempt-

ing when you’ve got the debt-free bug, but it’s not the shortest distance between where you are right now and wealth. The average person who follows my plan—the Baby Steps—can pay off their home in about seven years. You’ve got offense and defense to think about. Defense is getting rid of debt, and the offense is building wealth. You don’t want to let your guard down on offense in order to just play defense and get the house paid off. What you’re talking about is a normal reaction for lots of folks in your position, but it’s not what I would recommend right now. I love your fire, but follow the Baby Steps as they’re laid out. My goal isn’t just helping people get out of debt. It’s to teach people how to become wealthy as a result of being out of debt and encouraging them be outrageously generous along the way!

How Can I Help My Mom-in-Law?

Q. My mother-in-law is 60. She works hard and has no debt, but she also has no savings or retirement accounts. However, she

owns a couple of paid-for rental properties that are worth about $350,000 each, and her home is worth $700,000. What can I do to help her plan for the future?

A. The best plan would be to first see if she’s already got a plan. I understand you’re worried about her not having any savings or retirement. That makes you a good son-inlaw. But it sounds to me like she’s got the makings of a pretty good retirement situation lined up, even if she didn’t go the traditional route to get there. You just told me she’s sitting on nearly $1.5 million in paid-for real estate. Dude, she’s a millionaire! If the time comes where she decides she doesn’t like landlording anymore or just wants to retire, she can always sell the rental properties, invest that big pile of cash in mutual funds, and live off the income. If you’re concerned about things, just sit down with her and let her know. Ask her if she needs any help with her money situation and plans for retirement. If she doesn’t want to talk about it right now, that’s fine, but making the offer shows you care.

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