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Publisher’s Note
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Connecting With Your Children
by H. Kent Hughes, Psy.D. Truly connecting with your children plays a vital role in growing them into healthy adults. Find out how you can create the emotional attachment they need.
Jason Watson
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Pastor's Perspective Rev. Bill Thompson, Eastwood Presbyterian Church
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Dave $ays Dave Ramsey
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Shine Kim Hendrix
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2013 VBS Listing
Family Teams for Christ
It’s that time of year again...time to register your children for Vacation Bible School. Our listing gives you all the details!
Lisa and Mike Conn
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The Intersection Bob Crittenden
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Inside: Adullam House
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Counselor’s Corner
by Rachel Fisher Discover the blessing of this ministry loving children of incarcerated parents in the River Region, plus how you can help.
Lou Priolo
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Grace to You John MacArthur
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On Our Cover . . .
Get the Point? Elaine Britt
Angie Spackman, founder and director of Adullam House, pictured with a group of children currently in their care: (From left to right) Lyrical, Tristan, Arleigh, Jovani, Brayden, D’Angelo & Matthias.
In Every Issue page 6
On the Bookshelf page 8
Around Our Community page 39
Event Calendar page 44
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Our Mission... We believe the Good News concerning the life, death and resurrection of Jesus Christ is worth sharing with our friends and neighbors in the River Region. Each month we deliver this life-changing message to the centers of activity across our community in a user-friendly and relevant way to empower and equip all those seeking to grow closer to God. Join us in this mission by sharing a copy with your neighbor or by becoming an advertising partner starting next month.
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From the Publisher I’m not the veteran parent that many of you are, but after 16 years as a parent, three kids (a boy and two girls), plus spending 11 years as a student minister, I’ve put in my fair share of time with children. There have been dirty diapers to change, bedtime readings, recitals, soccer games, PTA meetings, long talks full of frustration and more smiles than I could ever keep up with. Through it all, I never stop being reminded that the Gospel is the only thing a family can build their home upon. I recently read a quote by Paul David Tripp that reveals why the Gospel is so important in our homes. He says, “Your world is dramatically broken and you are still riddled with flaws, but Jesus is present, gracious and faithful.” I have matured to the point where I can admit that, yes, I am riddled with flaws and they come out as I parent my children. I also see similar flaws in my children and wife. Thankfully, we place our hope in Jesus and we live by His grace. In Christ, and through the Spirit He has given us, we can be long-suffering with each other while at the same time lovingly directing the light of God’s truth into every corner of our lives. In the home, we parents are able to flesh out the good news of the Gospel in all the day-to-day situations that shape life. What foundation are you building your home upon - morality and manners, culturally accepted norms? These, and other temporary rules for life, are ever-changing. None will suffice in preparing our children to live in the freedom of Christ. Our children need to see their existence in relation to the biblical story of Creation, The Fall, Redemption and Restoration if they are to make any sense out of their lives. This issue’s primary theme is bringing our children to Christ. Every May we publish the River Region’s premiere Vacation Bible School listing. Are you connected with a church? If not, please use VBS as a way to make that connection. Your entire family will be blessed as you allow one of our area churches to make clear the Gospel to your children - showering them with the true light of the World. Please look at the VBS advertisements in this issue for further details. Along with all of our regular columns, you’ll find some special articles about parenting. “Connecting with Your Children”, on page 20, explains how many good and faithful parents master the discipline, but miss the connection. Then on page 34, John MacArthur answers the question, “Children Obey Your Parents...But for How Long?” This will be insightful for you parents of older teenagers and beyond. Finally, we are excited to share about a special ministry to children in our area. Adullam House is a home for children of incarcerated parents. Kids ranging in age from babies to teens are brought in to live and be loved by a family of staff members. They are also educated in a private school and, in many cases, Adullam House helps to reunite them with their parent after incarceration has ended. What a perfect picture of the power of the Gospel! Children truly are a blessing from God. May each one of us cherish them by helping them to live in God’s light and love.
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God Helps Those Who Help Themselves? What would you consider one of the most dangerous and destructive heresies on earth? A false teaching about Jesus or the Bible? Maybe. A wrong idea concerning the church? Possibly. But the one I’m thinking about is not so in-your-face and obvious. It is very subtle and attractive. For a long, long time it’s been the favorite of many religious people. It is a philosophy found in numerous self-help books, many poems and novels, and most rags-to-riches biographies. It is a recurring theme in political speeches and graduation addresses. It flourishes in our schools. It feeds our pride, it fuels our self-centeredness, it pleases our sinful nature. Any guesses?
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What do I believe is one of the worst beliefs? It is the belief in human selfsufficiency. It is one of the great lies of all time and one of the greatest heresies. As Dr. Steve Brown would say, “It is from the pit of hell and it smells like smoke.” At the heart of this heresy is the emphasis on what we do for God, instead of what God does for us. Most people, even some Christians, see themselves as “masters” of their own lives. It is an ancient philosophy as old as the Garden of Eden and deeply rooted in the human heart. And why not? It encourages our self-centeredness. The adherents of this heresy often quote their favorite Scripture passage, “God helps those who help themselves.” However, there’s just one problem. That saying is not in the Bible! It is found in Poor Richard’s Almanac, written by Benjamin Franklin in the 1700s. Many people live their lives based on this point of view, particularly when it comes to the topic of salvation from sin. They adhere to a “works righteousness” view. Their approach is one of seeking to earn God’s forgiveness and favor by their own good works. If they would only try harder, pray longer, be more religious and obey more often, then they can attain heaven by their own efforts. People who hold to this way of thinking believe that 4
their relationship with God is dependent on their performance. Do you see how offensive this must be to God? Do you see how this undermines grace? The Bible teaches that God helps the helpless, the undeserving, those who don’t measure up, and those who fail to achieve His standard. That is what grace is all about! Jesus said, “I haven’t come for those who think they don’t need a doctor. I’ve come to heal those who know they are sick and need a doctor.” (Mark 2:17) The apostle Paul wrote that everyone is born spiritually dead in their transgressions and sins. (Ephesians 2:1) Grace is God’s free and totally unmerited favor shown to guilty sinners who deserve only judgment. It is the love of God shown to the unlovely. It is God reaching down to people who know they are totally helpless. That’s the key isn’t it? The person must know that they are sick and helpless. When asked how he is doing, Dave Ramsey is fond of saying, “Better than I deserve.” Dave gets it. He knows that apart from God’s work in his life he deserves to be separated from God for all eternity. No matter how bad his day may be, it cannot be worse than that. God helps those who help themselves? No. A thousand times No! God helps those who cannot help themselves. “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith — and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God — not by works, so that no one can boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9) Do you know that you are sick? Go to the doctor – Jesus!
Rev. Bill Thompson is the Senior Pastor of Eastwood Presbyterian Church on E. Trinity Blvd. in Montgomery. Check out the website: www. eastwoodchurch.org.
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On The Bookshelf
by Gail Welborn
Limitless: Devotions for a Ridiculously Good Life
by Nick Vujicic, Waterbrook Publishers, 2013, Hardcover, 978-0307730916, $14.99
Nick Vujicic, bestselling author, evangelist and motivational speaker, plumbed the depths of despair, especially as a teenager, and found God with the love and support of his family. It was there he found the courage to overcome the devastating circumstances of his “life without limbs” and accept God-found perfection in what Nick perceived as imperfection. This small book carries an enormous message of faith and hope tucked into 50 inspiring devotions. It was only when Nick could accept he was “…God’s creation, designed according to His plan…” that he could believe, “I am the perfect Nick Vujicic.” Although he quickly adds, with what must have been a smile, “That’s not to say there isn’t room for improvement.” The Apostle Paul warns in 2 Corinthians 7:5 that “…in this world we will face tribulation, persecution and fiery trials…” From the outside looking in, Nick’s world seemed all about tribulation and fiery trials when his birth restrictions were considered. However, Nick married his beautiful wife, Kanae, and celebrated their first anniversary February 2013, the day before their healthy son Kiyoshi James arrived: www.christianpost.com/news/limbless-evangelist-has-newbornbaby-90145/.
The Jesus Storybook Bible
by Sally Lloyd-Jones & Illustrated by Jago, Zonderkidz, 2007, Ages 4 and UP, 352 Pages, ISBN-13: 978-0310708254, $16.99
Winner of the 2007 Moonbeam Gold Medal award, 2009 NAPPA Award and 2010 Mom’s Choice Award in children’s religious category, The Jesus Storybook Bible does whisper His name as the subtitle says. However, many stories are not biblically accurate. Even though JAGO’s cartoon style colorful illustrations of animals, people and settings invite children into the narratives, paraphrasing subtly distorts story meanings. For example, in “The Terrible Lie”, the third story in the book where Eve is tempted by Satan, the snake slithers up to Eve and asks, “…Does God really love you?” However, the temptation wasn’t about God’s love. The real question of Eve’s temptation in the Garden of Eden found in Genesis 3:1 reveals it’s about obedience when the snake asks, “Has God indeed said, ‘You shall not eat of every tree of the garden?’” Subtle discrepancies can give impressionable minds the wrong message. This is a storybook written for story value instead of Bible accuracy. While stories do point to Jesus, the cartoon caricatures and creative license, particularly with the Easter resurrection story, were too lighthearted for me.
Finding Moosewood, Finding God
by Jack Perkins, Hardcover, Zondervan, 2013, 320 Pages, 978-0310318255, $22.99
Jack Perkin’s inspirational memoir recounts the life of a celebrated, globe-trotting journalist who couldn’t find room in his “…life for God...” until he learned “…there was room in God for his life…” It’s the story of a road well-traveled from the journalistic corridors of fame to a remote island in the backwoods of Maine where he wrote that he and his wife found “…the greatest story this newsman could ever report…” Jacks’ stirring story of why he left an “ego-driven life” to assume a mantle of simplicity on a remote island without electricity, running water or other taken-for-granted amenities, will make you laugh, cry and at times shake your head in wonder. He writes with warmth, humor and unusual common sense about a “secular world that worships knowledge and colleges that test what you know instead of teaching you how to think.” The book is a literary gem of compelling, life-changing, spiritual truth penned by a man who found God when he and wife Mary Jo “discovered the rewards of a close-to-nature existence…” A centerfold of pictures from first job to a remote island enhance Jack’s story. River Region’s Journey book reviewer Gail Welborn lives in Sedro-Woolley, Washington. River Region’s Journey
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The first moments after stroke symptoms appear are critical. Receiving the right treatment quickly could save your life and minimize brain damage. That’s why you should immediately get to Baptist Medical Center South. As the area’s only Nationally Certified Stroke Center, Baptist South has a specialized Stroke Team on site 24/7, with the expertise to provide the fastest, most effective treatment. So in case of symptoms such as facial drooping, weakness in one arm, slurred speech, blurry vision, or sudden severe headache, head south…call 911 and get to Baptist Medical Center South.
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Aldersgate United Methodist Church, 6610 Vaughn Road, is honored to have former Senior Pastor, Rev. James P. Dannelly Jr. (1990-1997) preach for the Aldersgate/Forest Avenue 110th anniversary celebration on Sunday, May 19 for their 8:45 am and 11:00 am morning worship services. Rev. Reed Hoppe (Associate Director of Communications for the United Methodist Mission Society) will be teaching during the Sunday School Hour at 9:50 in the Chapel. A church-wide covered dish luncheon and Anniversary program will begin at 12:15 in the Christian Activity Center.
Christian Dance Camp to be Held at Christ Community Church
June 11-13, 18-20, 25 & 26. For Grades 8-12 from 2-4p.m.; Grades 4-7 from 4-6p.m. Cost is $160. Contact Jordan Lormor at Jordan.lormor@gmail.com with any questions.
Gridiron Men’s Conference 2013
Featuring Tim Tebow, Fred Luter, Phil Waldrep and more! Birmingham-Jefferson Civic Center (BJCC) Arena, June 14-15 Gridiron is more than a gathering, or a concert. It is a worship experience created by men, for men. At Gridiron Men’s conference we are committed to your spiritual growth through discipleship, accountability, and worship. We believe that when many men come together seeking the one true God, great things can happen. For more info call: 800-374-1550 or visit itickets.com.
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4th Annual Tennis Tournament O’Connor Tennis Center 500 Anderson St. Montgomery, AL June 29, 9am – 1pm “After “ Event Capital City Club 7pm – 9pm Donation is accepted in lieu of registration for tournament. Registration donation of $30 or more includes an event ticket (player only). Money will be raised through registration donations, sale of business sponsorships, event ticket sales, and silent auction of goods and services donated. Tennis Tournament: donation of any amount, http://tennisfortruth.eventbrite. com (max 48 participants) After event @ Capital City Club: $25 per person, http://aftertennisfortruth.eventbrite.com (max 200 attendees) Contact for more info concerning Tournament is Debby Thomas, 334-224-1460, getdebby@yahoo.com Contact for more info concerning “After” event is Mike Harris, 334-513-7200, michaelk.harris@lpl.com.
Agape Run For a Mom 5K and Fun Run
The 3rdAnnual Agape Run For A Mom 5k and Fun Run will be Saturday, May 11, Mother’s Day weekend. Proceeds from the run benefit women facing crisis-pregnancies, foster children, domestic adoptions and soon to be added international adoptions. Dedicate your run to your mom, birthmother, adoptive mom, foster mom, or any special woman in your life. For information and registration for this year’s run, please visit www.runforamom.org.
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Calling All Middle Schoolers...to YoungLife
Calling all Middle Schoolers! You’ve heard the buzz about Young Life. All of your high school friends are having fun every week, singing, laughing, doing really absurd and unnatural things, and talking about Young Life like it’s the best thing out there. Well, here’s your chance to get in on the action. Young Life is a non-profit, adolescent Christian outreach ministry that is in over 80 countries around the globe and has been in Montgomery since 1970. Throughout its rich history here in the River Region, a specific strategy for reaching Middle School kids has been a part of that 43 years and we are bringing it back. WyldLife is fun. WyldLife is chaos. WyldLife was created for middle school kids. Come join us as we share about WyldLife and our vision for its growth on May 11 at the Deer Creek Clubhouse at 6:30p. We will have a preview of what WyldLife will look like and a parents’ info meeting following, so parents, bring your children and come get a taste of WyldLife! Coming Fall 2013. For more information, see http://www. ylmontgomery.com or call Chris Campos at 334.218.3224.
Eating Disorders Seminar
Tuesday, May 21 * 6:30-8:30 p.m First Christian Church on Taylor Road Free and open to anyone who has an interest in this topic. Therapist Christy Holding from Samaritan Counseling Center and dietician Racheal Laughlin from Jackson Hospital will conduct the meeting. Please call 531-1390 or 262-7787 for information.
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You are invited to attend this special Sunday Respite Care Program at Young Meadows Presbyterian Church, 5780 Vaughn Road, on 1st Sundays from 4-6 pm. Children with physical and cognitive disabilities (and their siblings) ages 6-18 are invited for a time of activities and a light dinner so parents can have a night out. Call Susan Clements at 301-0355 for more information and to make a reservation, or email rooftopfriends@gmail.com.
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When: May 11, 2013 @ 9:00 a.m. True Divine Baptist Church, 4601 Troy Hwy, Montgomery Music by: Anointed Voices Inspiration Speakers: Evangelist Gladys Edwards, Evangelist Gerald Holmes and Dr. Tammie McCurry Main speaker: Prophetess Krystal- Austin-Moore Mistress Ceremony: Ms. Joann Milton Theme: There is hope in who God created me to be! Donations of $15.00 are welcomed for the breakfast bar ****There will be Prizes give away**** For ticket information please contact Franklin Williams or Evangelist Charlie Mae Williams at 334-220-4073 or 334-300-5172.
Comedian Tim Hawkins Returns to Frazer
Who says you can’t have good, clean family entertainment that’s roll-on-the-floor funny? Not Tim Hawkins. Whether he’s ranting on aging Rock Stars, questioning life on Noah’s Ark, or singing his famous “Chick-Fil-A Song,” you’ll be laughing along and loving every minute. Mark your calendar for Sunday, June 23 at 7 p.m. in Wesley Hall. Tickets are $20 in advance, $25 at the door, $18 advanced group rate (6+). VIP tickets are $40 advance only / $38 advance only group rate (6+). VIP Event starts at 5:30 PM and includes: Hors d’oeuvres and refreshments, VIP tour laminate, Pre-show Q&A with Tim, and preferred seating section for the 7:00 PM concert. Only 300 VIP tickets will be sold. A portion of all proceeds goes to benefit Frazer missions. Go to frazerumc.org and click the ‘Events’ tab and then Tim Hawkins for a link to order tickets online. For more info, videos and testimonies about Tim Hawkins, visit his website at www.timhawkins.net.
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A gleefully witty slugfest about adults behaving badly.
Tony Award Winner!
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Study of Matthew; Bible Study Fellowship International Day Women’s Class & Preschool Program (birth through kindergarten) Any Wednesday through May 15th, 9:10 at Ridgecrest Baptist 5260 Vaughn Rd, Montgomery, 36116 Evening Women’s Class & Coed School Program (1st grade- Sr. High) Any Monday Evening through May 13th, Frazer UMC, 401 Building, Atlanta Highway, Montgomery 36117 Evening Men’s Class & Coed School Program (1stgrade -Senior High) Any Monday Evening through May 13th, Aldersgate Methodist Vaughn Road, Montgomery 36116 Study begins in September. Call Tricia (334-546-1386) for information.
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Exciting Happenings at Inner City Evangelism
Community Clothes Closet
Inner City Evangelism was thrilled to launch a Tuesday night Bible Study in Paterson Court on Tuesday, April 2. The first night had a great response within the community as there were 18 adults, eight superstars and 21 children. Each group continues to grow and relationships are starting to be built. We can’t wait to see what the Lord does in Paterson Court! Photo: Kids race to find Easter eggs during I.C.E.’s Easter Celebration in Paterson Court. The Easter outreach was just a few days prior to the launch of Bible Study in Paterson Court, which helped to get the word out. It was a beautiful day to celebrate our Lord and Savior!
Tuesdays from 10 A.M.- noon, HALL MEMORIAL CME Church in partnership with Crusade for Christ Ministries provides free shoes and clothing to anyone in need through their Community Clothes Closet. The Clothes Closet is located on the 2nd floor of Hall Memorial CME Church (541 Seibles Road Montgomery, AL) and is open Tuesdays from 10 A.M. – noon. Donations may be brought to Hall Memorial CME Church on Tuesdays from 10 A.M.- noon, or you may call to arrange pickup of donated items. To get more information or to arrange pick-up of a donation, call 334-220-4073 or 334-318-3004.
Email your community or ministry news to deanne@ readjourneymagazine.com by the 15th of the month! We will share it with our readers at no cost!
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June 3-4 | Rising 1st-6th grade girls
June 24-28 (Session 2) | Rising 3rd-5th grade boys and girls
June 3-6 | Rising 1st-6th grade girls
July 9-11 | Rising 1st-6th grade girls
June 5 | Rising 2nd-7th grade girls
July 16-18 (Session 2) | Rising 1st-5th grade boys and girls
June 10-13 | Rising 1st-5th grade boys and girls
July 16-18 | Rising 1st grade boys and girls
June 10-14 (Session 1) | Rising 6th-7th grade boys and girls
July 22-26 (Session 2) | Rising 3rd-8th grade boys
June 11-13 (Session 1) | Rising 1st-5th grade boys and girls
July 29-31 | Rising 4th-6th grade boys
June 11-13 | Rising 2nd-7th grade girls
July 29-August 1 | Rising 1st-8th grade boys and girls
June 17-21 | Rising 5th-6th grade boys and girls
August 5-7 | Rising K5-5th grade girls
June 17-21 (Session 1) | Rising 3rd-8th grade boys
August 8-9 | Rising K5-5th grade girls
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My husband and I have a baby and are trying to live on a budget and pay off about $14,000 in debt. He wants to spend $100 a month for a date night, but I think this is too much under the circumstances. I’m a stay-at-home mom right now, and after taxes he makes about $3,200 a month. What do you think?
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just looking for an outlet to spend some money. The good thing is you’re working together and beginning to take this personal finance thing seriously. You’re just a little bit apart on the particulars in this area. I think you back this amount down to $40 or $50 for now. That’s plenty for a reasonable dinner and perhaps a baby sitter for a couple of hours. If you have family or friends nearby, you might not have to figure baby-sitting expenses into the equation at all. Keep in mind, too, that going out on a date doesn’t have to mean spending money. Years ago, when my wife and I were broke, we did tons
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of stuff that didn’t cost a dime. Picnics in the park or a pretty hike through the woods are great ways to spend time together while keeping the pocketbook in your pocket. Be creative and make sure you find ways to have “us” time on a regular basis. But you’re right on this one. You can go out and have plenty of fun together without spending a lot of money!
Q. I have some old debts that have been forgiven. Should I still pay these if and when I have the money? A.
First, you need to double-check and make sure the debts have been officially forgiven. Commercial debts, such as old credit card debt, are almost never forgiven. They might be in default, or it may be that the company has written it off, but that’s not the same as being forgiven. Years ago, my grandfather loaned me money when I was in college to pay for part of my tuition. He forgave that debt not long after, so I didn’t owe him the money morally, legally or in any other way. But in a commercial setting, meaning you’re dealing with a bank or other lender, that doesn’t happen. If a credit card company decides to take less than the original amount owed, that’s a business decision that has changed the terms of the deal, both morally and legally. Sometimes they’d rather have a bird in the hand rather than promises in the bush. You don’t have an obligation to pay the original amount because the terms of the deal have been altered. Forgiven is forgiven. That means the deal and any obligation is completely wiped out and gone. But chances are, Chase or MasterCard aren’t going to call you up and forgive the debt.
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SHINE!
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by Kim Hendrix
In the Moment John 5:17: “Jesus said to them, ‘My Father is always at his work to this very day, and I, too, am working.’” I had the privilege of going on a mission trip recently to the Dominican Republic. We knew our primary mission was to spread the love and word of God to the people of Cielo—a small, impoverished village just outside Santo Domingo. We knew we would help with construction projects in the morning and teach vacation Bible school in the afternoon. All of that played out in a beautiful, somewhat expected way, and in between were moments where God was at work in ways we didn’t have on our schedule…moments where He reminded us that He is always at work in ways bigger than we can even imagine.
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The only other mom on the trip told me she had heard a speaker recently who said when we have one mission in mind, God has a thousand. That became very clear as early as our planning meetings prior to leaving for our trip. One youth, in sharing about herself, told the other students that she is very shy— but felt compelled to take this trip. She said part of the motivation came when a teen she knew suddenly died in a car wreck—this teen was very outgoing and loved sharing her love for Christ. That’s when the young lady about to take this trip with us said, “So I realize now I don’t have time to be shy, I have to tell people about Jesus.” We had 10 youth on this trip—a few knew each other, but for the most part this was the first time these 10 young people, boys and girls, had spent time together. It was certainly the first time they had joined
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forces to share the love of God. Watching them accept each other with all their differences and unite each day to sweat in the heat for three hours, then be creative and loving with the children for VBS in the afternoon was one of those moments God knew about, but we had not penciled into our schedule. Waking up each day with a singular focus opened our group to be used in multiple ways for God. Sometimes that work was external, reaching out to those in the Dominican, and sometimes it was within
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our group. The young lady who professed her shyness, later complimented the team, her fellow missionaries, saying she had never felt more welcomed and loved. These young people are no doubt inundated with the ways of the world every day, but their willingness to be used by Him was stronger than any other force in their lives during those six days in the Dominican. They stayed in the moment. We had the blessing of being with the people of Cielo during Holy Week, so we took part in their church service marking Good Friday and the resurrection of our Lord and Savior. To say they worship with great passion doesn’t really do them justice. In the midst of tin roofs and shacks, they sing out with great joy, they cry out with tears and trust, and they thank you with a sincere humility for taking the time to share in their lives. James 4:10: “Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will lift you up.” My 12-year-old daughter was among the 10 youth on our trip. Of course, sharing this time with her was a tremendous blessing and I’m especially thankful she
recognized and admired the hard work ethic and positive attitude among the Dominican people. Each morning we helped with construction projects that, due to the lack of equipment, move along at a snail’s pace. The work is hot and hard and long, but those leading us were encouragers who never stopped until they were out of supplies or time. And when the sun came up on a new day, they were ready to do it all over again.
what it means to truly live for God, to love Him with everything you’ve got when your circumstances are beyond hard. This time in the mission field reminded me that we can all live in the moment no matter what’s happening around us. It takes a strong focus and a determined will, but we can keep that singular focus and be a part of God’s multiple missions. His work is never done and because we are made in his image…neither is ours.
Isaiah 40:31: “But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.”
Dear Lord, May we live in the moment, that moment of singular focus--knowing, loving and sharing you--producing multiple missions. Thank you for allowing us to see how people in other lands and different circumstances worship you with loving, trusting hearts. No matter how different we are, you always bring us together. For that we are thankful and humble. In the mighty name of your son, Jesus Christ, we pray, Amen.
When we visited a Leprosarium, home to 23 people who can no longer function and live on their own, our youth leader shared a message on how God loves to hold his children, especially those who are sick or hurting. Afterward, the residents were told we had a small gift for them. To that one of the gentlemen said, “Your gift was bringing the word of God.” Deeply meaningful words for all of us, and even more so when you know young people who are still finding their way and are getting to see
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Kim Hendrix is the Director of Development at Saint James School in Montgomery. She leads the Shine Your Light ministry at Frazer Memorial U.M.C. and recently ended a 26 year career in television news. Kim and her husband Scott, have a 12 year old daughter, Annie, who brings them great joy.
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Family Teams for Christ
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by Lisa and Mike Conn
One Worm at a Time Recently, on a beautiful spring day, Mike and I indulged in one of our favorite pastimes—walking around our backyard and admiring what’s blooming and growing. It was such a gorgeous day to be outside. After our stroll, we settled down in the porch swing for a few minutes. The birds were chirping and singing happy songs. A cool breeze was blowing, and the sky was clear and blue. Looking up, we noticed that a bird had constructed its nest in the woven branches of a wisteria vine, directly over our heads. Shifting just a bit to remove ourselves from “the line of fire”, we quietly watched as a male robin flew into the nest with a tasty worm in his beak. We realized he was feeding his mate while she protected their eggs.
He stayed for a moment, then left again to find yet another morsel to give her. We sat very still, mesmerized as the robin cheerfully provided for his family, one worm at a time. These moments were a precious gift from God, reminding us to “Be still, and know I am God” (Psalm 46:10). In quietness and in peace, we remembered Jesus’ words found in Matthew 6, when he delivered his Sermon on the Mount, saying, Do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable
than they? Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life? Matthew 6:25-27 (NIV) In his commentary on this passage, Matthew Henry observes, “In dependence upon that (God’s provision), they are careless for the morrow; and being so, they live the merriest lives of all creatures; they sing among the branches. If we were, by faith, as unconcerned about the morrow as they are, we should sing as cheerfully as they do.”
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Lt. Col Mike Conn and wife, Lisa, founded Covenant Family Ministries when Mike retired from the Air Force in 1997. CFM is an independent marriage and family education ministry committed to partnering with churches, organizations, and individuals in Montgomery and across Alabama to build Family Teams for Christ. Married for over 30 years, Mike and Lisa have three wonderful daughters, two great sons-in-law, and two precious grandchildren. 19
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With Your Children by H. Kent Hughes, Psy.D.
Do you feel the pressure and obligation to raise Godly children in a godless society? We place our children in private schools. We home school them. We involve them in church youth groups. We parent them with Christian values and do our best to train, protect, and guide them through the maze of childhood and adolescence. All these decisions are an attempt to give them what they need to face this culture and take a stand for what is right. I would like to suggest one other priority that will empower your children into a healthy adulthood. In Ephesians, Paul tells us not to exasperate our children. In Colossians, he admonishes us not to embitter them or they will become discouraged. We are warned against making our children “very angry” or creating a “bitter spirit.” Many good and faithful parents master the discipline and miss the connection. And that child will go into a selfprotection mode that keeps people at a safe distance. No amount of discipline or training will bring him back. He needs connection!
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ity and acceptance. Psychology refers to this as attachment. Your child needs to know beyond a shadow-of-a-doubt that they are valued, protected, and worthy of your love. Then you have established an emotional and relational connection to withstand the tests of life. For example, my eighteen-year-old son has really struggled over the past year. Several decisions he made were unhealthy for him and squarely against our family’s belief system. As the year progressed and several parent-child “conversations” took place, we began to realize he was continuing to battle with his personal beliefs. Throughout this entire year, we have not yelled at him and he has not yelled at us. Has he suffered some consequences? Yes! Did we condemn him for his decisions? No! And as recently as last week we were still talking with each other 20
about values and decisions that did not match ours. I have made a commitment to let nothing ever come between my love and acceptance of him. Has that been challenged over this past year? Sure it has! But we have stayed the course relationally and kept our connection. Connection is the bond that communicates to the child what Phillip Yancey described about God in his book, What’s So Amazing About Grace: “There is nothing I can do to make God love me any more or any less.” That is what we want for our children. Though we will allow them to experience the consequences of their decisions, we want them to lay down at night knowing there is nothing they can do to make us love them any more or any less. What can you do with your children to establish and maintain an emotional connection that will empower your child for their future?
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Time is the first strategy. To connect with your child you must spend time with them. Let me suggest that quality time cannot occur without quantity. You and I have one shot with each of our children. There are no “do-overs.” One childhood experience is all we have with that young heart and mind.
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Spending time with your children communicates volumes about your values. Follow anyone around for six months and you can accurately state what is most important to that person based on the amount of time invested in certain activities. Your children live with you. They know how valuable they are to you by the amount of time you spend with them. How do you spend your discretionary time? I am not talking about the time you must give to career and household responsibilities. There are some things that have to be done. I am referring to that time in your schedule when you can choose to be with your children. We have always enjoyed playing games at the Hughes’ home. We started out with GO FISH and CANDYLAND. Now we are playing table games like GUESSTURES or CARDS. We spend hours playing ping pong now that we have a table. Three years ago it was foosball. I lift weights with all three of my boys. If they are in the front yard playing soccer, guess what, dad crashes the party. This is it! This moment is all I have with them. We eat as a family. We go to ballgames as a family. We go to movies as a family. We have created a climate in our home that being together is a good thing. And when your 18 year old still likes to do things with you, connection exists. Whatever your lifestyle is like, make the time to be with your children beginning at an early age. Create the habit of time together. And husbands, don’t forget to carve out time for you and your wife. Adults also need time together.
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Touch is the second valuable tool. Nonsexual, physical touch is so important. It’s said that kids need, on average, 11 touches per day. Noted Christian psychiatrist Grace Ketterman believes kids need at least 100 touches per day! Non-sexual touching is linked to the release of oxytocin, a chemical also released during those tender moments of breast feeding. Hugs, high fives, holding hands, rocking in the chair, etc. are all examples of non-sexual touch. Without touch, connection cannot happen. In our home, everyone is touched every day. Even if you are having a bad day, you are touched. My wife Teresa has taught me so much about the importance of touch. I am amazed at the number of families I work with that don’t hug each other. These are stable, Christian homes void of physical
affection. If you truly want to connect with your child, practice non-sexual touch on a daily basis. My wife was telling me at lunch today that while she and our 18 year old were visiting a college campus yesterday, he held her hand as they walked around the campus. He put his arm around her as he opened doors for her. I am not sure he is even aware of what he is doing because it is just what we do. The connection is real and tangible. Now he is communicating back to us as a young adult.
Validation
The third tool for creating connection with your children is validation. Every child is asking the question, “Am I worthy of your affection and time?” Parents have the power to stamp “valid” on their child. And this stamp will carry that child into adulthood. Even God the Father validated Jesus. After Jesus’ baptism, God descended from heaven and spoke these words, “This is my Son, whom I love; with him I am well pleased.” (Matthew 3:17) Jesus experienced the same validation again at the Mount of Transfiguration. These are powerful words of acceptance and affirmation. Imagine the heart of a child when they hear words like these coming from their parents. That child will begin to open his heart to his parents and connect. Praising your child when they accomplish a goal is good. Communicating praise to your child for just being there goes deep into the heart. I often tell my boys I am so proud to be their father just because of them, not for what they have done. Of course we reward performance. But they need to know that my love and acceptance of them is not dependent on how well they do in life. So many children and adults have told me they worked so hard in life just so their parents would be proud of them. In these people’s lives, there is a belief that they must earn their parents’ acceptance. Connection does not occur in these families. Spending time with your children is invaluable. Touching them on a consistent basis will soften their hearts. And validating them will empower their spirits. When all three are combined with discipline and structure, you will connect with your child and create the emotional attachment necessary to propel them into a healthy adulthood. Take the risk and connect with your children. Your life will be enriched.
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Vacation Bible Schools Aldersgate UMC
6610 Vaughn Road Theme: Everywhere Fun Fare When: July, 15-19, 5:30 to 8p.m. Optional supper $2, 5:30 p.m. Ages: 3 yrs – 5th grade Register at www.aldersgateumc.org or call 272.6152.
Blue Ridge Baptist Church
4471 Jasmine Hill Road, Wetumpka Theme: Colossal Coaster World When: July 14-18, 6:30 to 8:30 p.m. A family night musical performance will be held July 21st at 6 p.m. Van pick up for children is available. Call 567-4325. Camellia Baptist Church 201 Woodvale Road, Prattville Theme: Colossal Coastal World When: June 17-21, 6 p.m. to 8:30 p.m. Ages: 3 year preschool through 6th grade, plus adult classes. Register online at www.camelliabaptist.com. Call 365-0231.
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Centerpoint Fellowship Church
435 Sheila Blvd, Prattville Theme: Colossal Coaster World When: June 9-11 from 6 p.m. until 8:30 at Hunter Hills Church in Prattville Ages: K-6th grade Visit www.centeringlives.com or 356-3076.
Cornerstone Christian Church
301 Dalraida Road Theme: Tumble Weed Gulch When: July 14-18; 6:15 p.m. until 8:30 p.m. Ages: Pre-K, age 3 - Rising 6th Call 273-8595.
Dalraida Baptist Church
3838 Wares Ferry Rd. Theme: Colossal Coaster World When: June 3-7; 9 a.m. – 12 p.m. Age: Pre-Kindergarten through 6th grade Pre-registration Family Fun Day: June 2 from 4-7 p.m. Call 272-2412.
Dalraida UMC
8800 Vaughn Road, Montgomery Theme: Follow Me When: June 10-12 from 9 a.m. until 12 p.m. Call 387-0566.
3817 Atlanta Hwy Dates and Time to Be Announced Call 272.2190.
Capitol Heights Baptist Church
400 N. Burbank Dr. Dates and Time to Be Announced. Call 272-6460.
2514 Madison Avenue Theme: Colossal Coaster World When: June 10-14, 9 a.m. to noon Ages: 4 years old by Sept. 1 through 6th grade. Nursery provided for VBS workers only. Call 264-6461. River Region’s Journey
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W When: June 10-14; 8:30 – 12 p.m. Ages: 3 (by August 1st) through 6th grade Call 272.0604.
East Memorial Baptist
1320 Old Ridge Road, Prattville Theme: Kingdom Chronicles When: June 17-21, 9 a.m.–12 p.m. Family Night, Thursday, June 20 at 6 p.m. with hotdog supper beginning at 5 p.m. Ages: 4 years through 8th Grade Call 365-7500.
Eastmont Baptist Church
4505 Atlanta Highway Theme: Sun West Roundup When: June 17-21; 9 a.m. to 12 p.m. Ages: 4 yr. - grade 6 Register online @ www.eastmont.org or call 277-6300.
Evangel Church
3974 Vaughn Road Theme: Kingdom Rocks When: June 24-28: 6-9 p.m. Ages: 3 to upcoming 6th graders Call 272-4882 ext. 107.
Evolve Church
4500 Vaughn Road Theme: TBA When: July 28-31; 6:30 thru 8:30 p.m. nightly Call 224-1879.
First Baptist, Montgomery 305 South Perry Street Theme: Colossal Coastal World When: June 3-7; 9 a.m. to Noon Call 241-5164.
First Baptist Church, Prattville
138 South Washington Street Theme: Colossal Coaster World When: June 24-28, 8:30 a.m.-12 Noon Ages: Entering 5 year old Kindergarten in Fall - 8th Grade Call 365-0606, ext. 220.
First Baptist, Wetumpka
205 W. Bridge Street Theme: Colossal Coaster World When: June 3-7, 8:30 a.m.-noon Ages: K-6th grade Call 567-5191.
First Christian Church
1705 Taylor Road Time: June 14-16 from Friday, 5:30-8:30 p.m., Sat. 10 a.m. until 1p.m. Sunday during worship service. Ages 4 years old – 6 grade First Christian – 270-1320
First Presbyterian, Prattville
211 S. Chestnut Street Theme: Son West Roundup When: June 3-7, Registration daily at 8:30,
VBS starts at 9 a.m. to Noon Ages: 3 years old through entering 6th grade Call 365.6387.
First UMC, Montgomery
2416 W. Cloverdale Park Theme: Travel The Wonderful World of God! Loving Our Neighbors Everywhere When: June 10-14; 9 a.m. to 12 noon Ages: Age 3 (by Sept 1 of 2012) through 5th grade. Call 834.8990.
First UMC, Prattville
100 E. Fourth Street Theme: Kingdom Rock When: June 10-14, 9 a.m. to Noon Ages: Open to children who have just completed Kindergarten through 5th grade Call 365-5977.
Fountain City Baptist
492 East Main Street, Prattville Theme: Son West Roundup When: June 16-20; 6 p.m. to 8 p.m. Ages: 3 to 12. Call 365-2034.
Frazer Memorial UMC
6000 Atlanta Highway Theme: Colossal Coaster World When: July 8-12; 9 a.m. to 12 noon Ages: Finishing K4 year olds (as of Sept. 2 of 2013) - Finishing 5th grade Call 272.8622.
Grace Community Church
3515 Highway 14, Millbrook Theme: Tell It On the Mountains When: June 3-7, 6:30 pm - 8:00 pm Ages: 3 years - 6th Grade Call 334-285-4655.
GracePoint Community Church 78223 Tallassee Hwy, Wetumpka Theme: Colossal Coastal World When: July 17-21, 6:15– 8:45 p.m. Ages: 3yrs.-6th Grade Call 430-1535.
Hall Memorial CME Church 541 Seibles Road, Montgomery When: June 18-22, 6:00-8:00 pm Call 288-0577.
Hayneville Baptist Church
1180 State Hwy 21 N, Hayneville, AL Theme: Colossal Coaster World When: July 14-18, 5:45 until 8:30 Ages: Pre K - 6th Grade (grade completed) Contact info: Email: hbc@connecthbc.com Call 334-548-2620.
Heritage Baptist Church
1849 Perry Hill Road Theme: Colossal Coastal World When: June 24-28, 8:30 a.m. to 12p.m. Ages: Complete PK3– 6th grade Call 279-9976.
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Heritage Baptist, Prattville
1357 S. Memorial Drive Theme: Kingdom Chronicles Dates: June 9-13, Time: 6 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Ages: K3 through completion of 6th grade Call 365-2372.
His Vessels Ministry, Montgomery
Union Station, Downtown Montgomery Theme: Patriot Camp Dates: June 10-14; Times: 9 a.m. until noon Ages: 6 – 12. The Patriot Camp is designed to teach our elementary aged children about the founding of our nation. His Vessel Ministries provides Christ-centered teachings that point people to the truth that will stir and challenge individuals to love god with all their heart, soul, and strength so they become the vessel that pleases God. Please call 334-356-4478 or email info@hisvessel.org.
Holy Spirit Catholic Church
8570 Vaughn Road, East Montgomery Theme: Kingdom Rock When: June 10-14; 9 a.m.-12 p.m. Call 277-1989 or register online @ www.holy-spirit-church.com.
Lakeview Baptist Church 9225 Atlanta Highway Theme: TBA
When: July 22-26; 6 p.m. to 8:30 p.m. Ages: K3-6th grade. Call 213-3080.
Landmark Church of Christ
1800 Halcyon Boulevard Theme: Landmark Movie Studio presents 40 Years in 4 Nights When: July 7-10, 6:30 – 8:30 p.m. Ages: Classes through students who are presently in the 5th grade. Bible classes, games, snacks, and much more. Come join us as we have fun growing closer to Jesus. Call 277.5800.
Love Center Full Gospel Church
3659 Debby Drive (Lecroy Shopping Center) Theme: Hip Hop Hope: Jesus Makes Me Glad When: July 26-28 from Fri., 6-8 pm, Sat. 9 a.m. until 4 p.m. and Sun. during church service. Ages: 3- 8th grade welcomed For more information call 334-315-6851.
Millbrook Presbyterian
3480 Main Street, Millbrook Theme: The Case of the Baffling Beginning When: July 15-19; 6:15-8:15 p.m. Ages: Entering K4 thru 6th grade For registration, call 285-4031
Montgomery Area Episcopal Churches
St. Johns Episcopal Church, 113 Madison Ave. Theme: The Rip, Roaring Rodeo: A Good Time with Jesus Dates: June 3-6, 8:30 a.m. - noon Ages: Rising K4 through Rising 6th grade For registration or more info, call 263-5529.
Morningview Baptist Church
125 Calhoun Road Theme: TBA When: June 3-7, 9 a.m. to Noon Ages: Completed Kindergarten-5th grade Call 272.2304.
Mountain View Baptist Church
1025 Rifle Range Rd., Wetumpka Theme: TBA When: June 24-28, Times: 8 a.m.- noon Ages: 4 years old - completed 6th grade Call 334-567-4458.
Mulder UMC
3454 Firetower Road ~ Wetumpka Theme: Quest for Compassion When: June 23-26~ 6 – 8 p.m. For more info please call 567-4225.
Building the lives of young people on Jesus Christ, the chief cornerstone.
NOW REGISTERING K5 THRU 12TH GRADES At Cornerstone Classical Christian Academy, our goal is to equip students with the knowledge, skill and vision necessary to be effective leaders and servants for our Lord Jesus Christ. Morningview Baptist Church • 125 Calhoun Road • (334) 356-7788 • www.ccamontgomery.org River Region’s Journey
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Pilgrim Rest Missionary Baptist
1550 E. Washington Street Theme: TBA Dates: June 23-28, 6 p.m. to 8:15 p.m. Please call 265-1807.
Redland Baptist Church
1266 Dozier Rd, Wetumpka Theme: Mission Possible Dates: June 17-21, 9 a.m. until 11:30 a.m. Please call 567-8649.
Ridgecrest Baptist Church
5260 Vaughn Road Theme: Colossal Coaster World When: June 3-7, 5 to 8 p.m. Call 277.0011.
Saint James UMC
9045 Vaughn Road Theme: Kingdom Rock When: June 17-19, 9 a.m. to 12 p.m. Call 277-3037.
Taylor Road Baptist Church
1685 Taylor Road Theme: Colossal Coaster World When: July 15-19, 8:30 a.m. to Noon Ages: 4 year old through completion of 6th grade. Call 271.3363.
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Vaughn Forest Church
450 Ray Thorington Road Theme: Colossal Coastal World When: June 2-6; 6:00 p.m. to 8:30 p.m. Ages: 5 yrs. to 5th grade Call 396-9376.
8660 Vaughn Road Theme: Colossal Coastal World When: June 3-7; 9 a.m. – 12:15 p.m. Ages: Entering Kindergarten through entering 6th grade. Registration online at www.vaughnforest.com. Call 279-5433.
Trinity Presbyterian Church
Whitfield UMC
1728 S. Hull Street Theme: Upward Bound When: June 3-7, 9 a.m. to noon. Ages: PreK 4 through completed 6th grade Call 262.3892 to pre-register.
Trinity UMC, Prattville
2673 Fisk Road Theme: Everywhere Fun Fair When: June 23-27, 5:30 to 8 p.m. Ages: 3 years to 6th grade. Call 281-2467.
Woodland UMC
610 Fairview Avenue, Prattville Theme: Everywhere Fun Fair When: June 9-13, starts at 5 p.m. Dinner provided for children every night. Call 365-7339.
4428 Wallahatchee Rd, Pike Road Theme: Kingdom Rock When: June 10-14, 5:30 – 8 p.m Ages: 3 years old -6th grade Call 272-7230.
University Church of Christ
Young Meadows Presbyterian Church
5315 Atlanta Hwy Theme: The Justice League When: June 23-26; Time: Sunday, 6 p.m. and Monday – Wednesday, 6:30 p.m. Ages: newborn thru 6th grade Adult classes will be available Please call 386-7320 or visit www.ucoc.org.
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5780 Vaughn Road Theme: Sports and Art When: June 3-7, 9 a.m. until noon Ages: Kindergarten -5th grade Call 244-1385.
To have your church’s VBS listed next month, send information to Deanne@readjourneymagazine.com.
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Christian Cultural Commentary by Bob Crittenden
What’s Your Sign? A set of parents in Florida who had been disappointed in their 13-yearold’s behavior took a unique approach to punishment recently, according to a report on Yahoo! On a particular Saturday, the teen spent 90 minutes standing at a busy intersection with a handwritten sign describing her sins. It read: “I’m a self-entitled teenager w/no respect for authority. I’m also super smart, yet I have 3 ‘Ds’ because I DON’T CARE.” Now, keep in mind that when something unique is demonstrated in such a public manner, there is a good chance that people with cell phones will take pictures and post them online, which did happen, and there were quite a few people that took the family to task for
the shame and humiliation. The mom told a local paper, “I wasn’t even thinking about what the public was going to think...I was thinking about our daughter. It was for her to be in the public and recognize what she had done wrong.” In a statement, the parents said, “We spend so much focus on not wanting to hurt a child’s self esteem that we don’t do anything.” And, “Walk a mile in someone’s shoes...We must undo at home what the world tries to tell her is better.” I will not comment on the wisdom of the punishment, but there were some indications that the bizarre punishment may have been effective. I did think
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Counselor’s Corner by Lou Priolo, Eastwood Counseling Center
Where’s Your Treasure? I’d like you to think for a moment about the rewards that await you in eternity as a follower of Jesus Christ. We are exhorted in many places to fix our minds on heaven. If then you have been raised up with Christ, keep seeking the things above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. Set your mind on the things above, not on the things that are on earth. (Colossians 3:1–2) Do not lay up for yourselves treasures upon earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys, and where thieves do not break in or steal; for where your treasure is, there will your heart be also. (Matthew 6:19–21) Therefore, prepare your minds for action, keep sober in spirit, fix your hope completely on the grace to be brought to you at the revelation of Jesus Christ. (1 Peter 1:13)
Do you spend as much time as you should thinking about heaven? Some time ago my family had the opportunity to vacation in Italy. During the months before our trip my family and I diligently read books, visited web sites, looked at transportation options, listened to podcasts, and interviewed several people in preparation for our trip. Why? We wanted to learn as much as we possibly could about where we were going, in advance. Entire books have been written in attempts to begin to describe what heaven will be like. I have only a little bit of space in this article to mention a few of them. First, there is living in the presence of Christ. Your greatest pleasure, your greatest satisfaction in heaven, will be to be with the Lord and to behold His glory. Meeting the Lord will be more exciting than the most thrilling adventure you’ve had on this earth. In fact, as one person put it, “The most exhilarating experiences on earth... will seem tame compared to the thrill of seeing Jesus.” River Region’s Journey
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In Your presence is fullness of joy: at Your right hand there are pleasures for ever.
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What is it that excites you down here? I love to fish; and I love to consume international gourmet cuisine. But what’s your pleasure? Is it golf, hunting, tennis, soccer, ballet, your XBox, your iPod? Is it whitewater rafting, skydiving, bungi-jumping? The thrill of all of those things will pale in comparison to the thrill of being in the presence of, and walking with, and talking with, and eating with, and fellowshipping with Jesus. In heaven we will worship God 24/7, but there will be lots of pleasurable things for us to do and experience while we worship. Will there be golf or fishing or scuba diving in heaven? The Bible doesn’t specifically say, but I can assure you of one thing: If those things are necessary for your happiness, they will be there! Of course, Satan wants all of us to think heaven is going to be dreary and dull. But, heaven is going to be anything but boring! It is our unscriptural thinking that causes us to believe that heaven will be a drag. In heaven you will no longer have to deal with your sinful flesh that is now tempting you to think heaven will be boring. In heaven we will behold God’s glory and never be distracted by less important things. Every lesser thing in heaven will point us back to God. They will become springboards to worship Him. Worship in heaven will be so delightful that it will permeate everything we do. It will be such a wonderful experience that we will want to do it 24/7 even as we do other things. Secondly, in heaven there will be no sin. Our glorification involves our total sanctification. I can’t tell you how much this excites me! In heaven I won’t have to struggle with my pride and selfishness, and dozens of other things I don’t want to mention. Can you imagine yourself without sin in heaven? I don’t know about you, but 28
I can hardly wait to get there so I can meet me! Thirdly, in heaven we will enjoy our new incredible, incorruptible, indestructible, genuinely human bodies. Think of it! No more allergies, arthritis, sore muscles, colds, headaches, backaches, toothaches, or indigestion. No more pimples, bad breath, or bad hair days. No more pot bellies, love handles, sagging muscles or saddle bags. What more can I say about the joys of heaven in the allotted space? • We will be with the LORD, beholding His magnificence and enjoying unbroken fellowship with Him. • We will experience perfect pleasure, have perfect love, acquire perfect knowledge! • We will be able to spend time with our loved ones. • We will enjoy eating, drinking, and fellowshipping. • We will delight in God’s New Heaven and New Earth. You think this earth is beautiful. Just you wait! Heaven is going to be like the Garden of Eden—on steroids! So where is your treasure? Does your heart long for heavenly things or things on earth? If you value eternal things, it will be a relatively simple thing for you to overcome the daily struggles and problems of life.
**If you would like to get in touch with this or any counselor at Eastwood Counseling Center, please call 334-386-2384. Louis Paul Priolo is the director of the Center for Biblical Counseling at Eastwood Presbyterian Church in Montgomery, Alabama. A graduate of Calvary Bible College and Liberty University, he is the author of several books, including The Heart of Anger, The Complete Husband, Teach Them Diligently and Pleasing People. Lou is a Fellow in the National Association of Nouthetic Counselors and instructor at the Birmingham Theological Seminary. He travels frequently throughout the United States and abroad teaching at Christian marriage, family and counseling conferences.
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Situated on 22 acres of beautiful wooded land outside of Wetumpka, Adullam House has been called one of the best-kept secrets in the River Region. It’s here where children of incarcerated parents find a safe haven and are provided with an opportunity many children in situations like theirs have not been given. “Without proper intervention a huge percentage of children of incarcerated parents will end up in prison themselves,” says Angie Spackman. Angie and her husband, Pete, began the journey that would turn into Adullam House in 1987 after coming to the United States from Great Britain. Pete was an evangelist with speaking engagements all over the world and Angie and their four daughters were excited about a stint in the U.S. Little did they know they were on the verge of a huge work of God that he was placing in their hearts. While in the U.S., Pete was invited to begin speaking in the prisons. It wasn’t long until Pete closed all of his speaking engagements and immersed himself completely in prison ministry. As Pete preached, their River Region’s Journey
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four daughters: Rachel, Naomi, Hannah and Ruthie, would sing. The girls reminded many of the prisoners of their own children. Eventually, the Spackmans began asking the Lord what they should do with the children of the inmates they were ministering to. It was then the dream of “Adullam House” began to take shape in their hearts and would eventually become the reality it is today.
believed God would wield an army out of them as they found refuge in a place where the love of Jesus would be taught and where Christ would be their captain. “Like the men who found refuge in the cave and became the ‘mightiest fighting army’ this world has ever seen, we believe that God will take many of the little lives entrusted to our care and make of them great trophies of grace,” says Angie.
Why the Name Adullam House?
The Facilities
Through prayer, God showed Pete and Angie something from the story of David’s life. In 1 Samuel 22 David is once again afraid and running for his life from King Saul. With nowhere to go, David found refuge in a cave called Adullam. It was there that men began to gather themselves with David. Men who were in debt, distressed, discontented – the outcasts. These men made David their captain and soon became the most valiant and greatest fighting army that was ever known in that time. Pete and Angie believed that this could be true for the children of inmates. They 30
When Adullam House began, it was started as a boarding school for the children they serve. All 22 acres of land, including the materials and labor, were donated. Not one cent has come from government funding, and it still continues that way today. Adullam House is only the second of its kind in the U.S. and Adullam House No. 2 is now in the process of being built in Louisiana. Over the years, they have built two houses specifically for the children on the property--one for children age 4 and up and another for newborns to three years old. Currently, there are 10 babies in the baby house and 16 children in the older children’s home.
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There is also housing on site for the full-time caregivers. Perhaps their most treasured space is a state of the art school for all of the children to attend. Adullam House Christian Academy provides all the children at Adullam House and children in the community a place to learn and grow. Also on the property is a chapel, which was completed almost seven years ago. Here, the children have Wednesday night services as well as morning chapel before school. “Every single building and space has been a gift,” says Angie. “The houses took us seven years to build, but we did it by praying and trusting God to provide all we needed, and he has done that!” While the facilities at Adullam House are beautiful, they simply serve a greater purpose, which is to help love, care for and teach the children they serve.
Love & Care for the Children
Some of the children who come to Adullam House come for short-term rescue, while others have made it their permanent home. Many of the children come to them from horrendous situations, and some are as young as 48 hours old. Neglect, poverty, abuse, and other horrors no child should have
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daughter who works on staff, describes it best when she says these kids are learning a brand new way to do life. Life at Adullam House is full of all the things kids dream of: soccer games, music lessons, school, church activities and being with people who love them. The end goal for every child who comes to Adullam house is to reunite them with their parents. “It is always the intention to reunite the child with the mother,” says Angie. “Once a mom looks like she has every intention to get back with her baby we do our utmost to make that happen.” Many of the mothers fear placing their children in the system of foster care, so Adullam House presents a perfect opportunity for them to keep a relationship with their child, while knowing they are being cared for and loved on by the Spackman family and their incredible staff. This parent to child relationship is kept open with monthly prison visits. “We take the children on visits to spend time their mothers so we can help keep that relationship open,” explains Naomi. “It gives us an opportunity to 31
be a light to the mothers and tell them about where the child is being taken care of and share the love of Christ with them.” It’s important to note Adullam House is not an adoption agency. “We’ve had lots of requests for adoptions over the past year, but we are in no way capable of handling those,” says Angie. While children have been adopted by staff members in the past, they were all handled through private parties. In fact, Angie and Pete have adopted 9. “And they’re probably not going to stop!” says her son-in-law, Phillip Powell. Other staff members have brought some of the children into their homes as well. “They’ve been with us so long they are a part of our family,” explains Phillip. “We don’t kick them out when they turn 18 and if they don’t have a place to go, they stay with us.” “And since our goal is to reunite the child with the parents, we don’t want mothers to fear bringing their child here and wondering if they will be adopted,” adds Naomi. “That is not the message we want to send our mothers, especially the ones who plan to be back with their children after they are released.” But how do the staff help reunite these children with their parents successfully? This is where Mary’s Place comes in, a home where mothers, after their release, can be reunited with their children. A 6,000 square foot home on the lake was given, at no cost, to Adullam House to be used for the sole purpose of helping the mothers get back on their feet in a supervised environment with their children. Today, they have their first mother and her five children in the home and they are working with her to secure her a job.
Teaching the Children
In May of 2011, Angie and the staff realized they would no longer be able to rent the facility they had been using to house Adullam House Christian Academy. After much prayer, a friend generously gave them 12.5 acres of land just 5 miles north of the Adullam House property. In the fall of 2012, the doors opened for AHCA on their new property April 2013
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complete with a lake, state of the art classrooms and even sports fields. “They now have their own school and it is such a big deal to the kids,” says Angie. “These kids go from living in the worst conceivable conditions to being treated so exclusively. It does wonders for them.” Children who started with a disadvantage make rapid progress using individualized, Christ-centered curriculum. They also provide three levels of teaching: pre-school, young elementary, and older elementary through high school. “We seek to equip the children with the tools to understand and worship God,” says Angie. “In teaching them to know who they are in Christ, the children will be better prepared to live an abundant life.”
The Volunteers & How You Can be Involved
In addition to the core staff, there are an abundance of young people who have devoted a year or more of their lives to live and serve at Adullam House. These volunteers are mostly young women age 18 and older. Whether they are from Alabama or overseas, they catch the vision of what God can accomplish in the lives of these children and have been a part of the miracle that is Adullam House. One of these volunteers is Keila Medina, who came from New York to serve. “The experience of being an intern in Adullam House impacted me more than I imagined,” says Keila. “God has had a funny way of turning things around and showing me that I needed just as much ministering to, if not more, through this experience.” She learned that allowing herself to unconditionally love a child who lacks a mother’s love, while knowing someday the child will be gone, caused Keila to pour all the love she had into them with the hope that it would stay forever. “It’s a feeling I can’t even describe,” she said. Adullam House is always looking for volunteers for the summer and for year (or River Region’s Journey
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more) long internships. Interns can serve in many ways such as: • Caregiver to infants and toddlers in our nursery unit (female only) • Coaching the children’s basketball/soccer/ football teams • Skilled and unskilled construction projects • Working in our main office • Teachers-Aid/Pre-school Aid in Adullam House Christian Academy • Basic Maintenance for facilities/children’s dorms/and landscape maintenance While not everyone can come and be an intern at Adullam House, there are many ways the community can be involved. One way is to sponsor a child through school. These are $2,000 a year and include school uniforms, field trips, curriculum and lunches. Churches can also invited Pete and Angie to speak at their church, business or organization, or invite the children’s choir to sing. The staff is also excited to announce they will be opening a thrift store off Highway 231 called The Adullam House Thrift Store. They are inviting anyone to donate to the store which will employ some of the mothers of the children at Adullam House once they are released. This is an exciting opportunity to be a part of the goal of the ministry, which is to reunite each child with his/her mother. Finally, Adullam House operates entirely on donations. If you are interested in investing your time or resources into this life-changing ministry, visit their website at www.adullamhouse.org. Rachel Fisher loves learning what God is doing in the world around her and writing about it. She and her husband Chase are members at Strong Tower at Washington Park, a church plant of Common Ground Montgomery. **Photos by Lori Mercer Photography.
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Children, be obedient to your parents in all things, for this is well-pleasing to the Lord. (Colossians 3:20) The parallel text in Ephesians is almost identical: “Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right” (Eph. 6:1). Paul now turns to the second relationship in the ancient home, that of parents and children. This relationship category cannot be right unless the relationship between husband and wife is right. Tekna (chil-
dren) is a general term for children and is not limited to a specific age group. It refers to any child still living in the home and under parental guidance. The present tense of the imperative hupakouete (be obedient) demands a continuous obedience. That children are to honor and obey their parents is taught repeatedly in Scripture. It appears in the Ten Commandments: “Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be prolonged in the land which the Lord your God gives you” (Ex. 20:12).
Striking or cursing one’s parents was punishable by death in the Old Testament (Ex. 21:15–17; Lev. 20:9), as was continued disobedience (Deut. 21:18– 21). Children are to listen to their parents’ instruction and obey it (Prov. 1:8; 6:20). The consequences of disrespect for parents are graphically portrayed in Proverbs 30:17: “The eye that mocks a father, and scorns a mother, the ravens of the valley will pick it out, and the
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young eagles will eat it” (cf. Matt. 15:4–5; Mark 7:10–13). Disobedience to parents marks the ungodly: “Men will be lovers of self, lovers of money, boastful, arrogant, revilers, disobedient to parents, ungrateful, unholy” (2 Tim. 3:2; cf. Rom. 1:30). Children are to obey their parents in all things. The only limit placed on a child’s obedience is when a parent demands something contrary to God’s law. Jesus knew that some children would have to defy their parents to come to faith in Him. In Luke 12:51–53 our Lord says, “Do you suppose that I came to grant peace on earth? I tell you, no, but rather division; for from now on five members in one household will be divided, three against two, and two against three. They will be divided, father against son, and son against father; mother against daughter, and daughter against mother; mother-in-law against daughter-in-law, and daughter-in-law against mother-in-law.” Later in Luke 14:26 He says, “If anyone comes to Me, and does not hate his own father and mother and wife and children and brothers and sisters, yes, and even his own life, he cannot be My disciple.” Salvation can bring a breech in the family so that children may have to reject their parents’ commands if they are contrary to Scripture. The motive for obedience is that it is well-pleasing to the Lord, commendable before God Himself. As He was well-pleased with His own Son (Matt. 3:17), so He deserves to be with other children. Many young people struggle with knowing God’s will for their lives. Obeying their parents is the right place to start.
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River Region Support Groups Adoption
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Location: Landmark Church, 1800 Halcyon Blvd. Leaders: Chad & Betsy Emerson (334) 201-5241 Wednesday, 6:30pm in Rm. 116. The Orphan Care Group will focus on God’s call to help orphans through adoption, foster care, and missions work. The group will share experiences, study and Biblical themes regarding orphan care, and provide a support and interest network for individuals who want to support orphans.
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Location: Caring Center of FBC, 52 Adams Avenue CrossRoads Support Group is for addicts/alcoholics and family members. Meets at 6 p.m. Tuesdays and follows a Christ-centered 12-step program. Call 264-4949.
Location: Cloverdale Baptist, 608 E. Fairview Celebrate Recovery, a Bible-based Christ centered approach to recovery from hurts, habits and hangups, meets Friday nights, beginning with dinner at 5:30 p.m., Praise and worship, 6:30, Open Share Small Groups, 7:30, and Solid Rock Cafe, at 8:30. Call 265-9223. Location: Dalraida UMC, 3817 Atlanta Highway Alcoholics Anonymous meets at 6 p.m. on Tuesdays. 272.2190. Alanon meets at 6 p.m. on Wednesdays. Location: Grace @ Bell Road, Corner of Bell Road and Atlanta Hwy. Alcoholics Anonymous and Alanon meetings are held Monday, Tuesday, Thursday, and Friday, at 6 p.m. An Open AA Speaker meeting is held on Saturday at 6 p.m. An Alanon & AA held on Sundays at 2 p.m. Location: Grace Point Community Church, 78223 Tallassee Hwy (Hwy 14), Wetumpka Celebrate Recovery- every Tuesday night- 6:15pm. All are welcome! These meetings are a safe and loving environment for individuals seeking to conquer their hurts, habits and hang-ups! gracepoint.info. Location: Journey Church, group meets in Fellowship Hall at Coosada Baptist Church, Millbrook Celebrate Recovery - Christ-centered 12-step for anyone struggling with addiction or life-challenging issues. Mondays at 6pm (meal), 7pm (large group), 8pm (small group). Childcare available. Call Chuck at 850-723-9705. River Region’s Journey
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Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy APAC- Alabama Pre/Post Adoption Connection Support Group meets the 3rd Thursday from 6:007:30pm in room 8253 at Frazer Memorial UMC. Provides education and social interaction for adoptive families. For information, call A. Kai Mumpfield, 409-9477 or call the church office at 272-8622.
Location: Centerpoint Fellowship, 2050 Commerce St., Millbrook. We are located one block east of I-65 just off Cobbs Ford Road. Celebrate Recovery meeting every Tuesday night at 6 pm. Call (334) 356-3076.
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Alzheimer’s / Dementia
Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy An Alzheimer’s and Dementia Caregivers’ Support Group meets on the first Thursday of each month at 11 a.m. in Room 3103. Call 272.8622. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy A Dementia Daycare is held each Thursday in Rm. 36
3101 from 9:30 a.m. to 12 p.m. Each participant may bring a sack lunch. There is no charge. REGISTRATION IS REQUIRED. For info, call the LifeCare office at 272-8622. Location: Memorial Presbyterian, 2130 Bell Road A Dementia Morning Out for caregivers is offered each Tuesday from 8:45-noon. There is no charge. Each participant may bring a sack lunch (juice provided). Registration is required by calling 274-1018.
Cancer
Location: Dalraida Baptist, 3838 Wares Ferry Road. Just for Men -- Montgomery’s first and only faith based cancer support group for men is intent on providing information, Christian fellowship, and helping turn adversity into prosperity. Meetings are held the third Tuesday of each month at 6 p.m. in the fellowship hall. Please call 272-2412 email cancerpatient@ bellsouth.net. Location: ChristChurch, 8800 Vaughn Road Cancer Support Group for general cancer. Tuesday afternoons at 1 pm. For more info, please call Christy Holding at 531-1390 or Debbie at 467-4578. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Women of Hope Breast Cancer Support Group, providing education, awareness, and mentoring for breast cancer patients/survivors, family, friends or anyone interested in becoming a part of this compassionate journey, meets the 2nd Tuesday of each month at 5:30 p.m. in Rm 8253. Call 272-8622 or womenofhope@charter.net.
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Location: Trinity Episcopal Church, 5375 US HWY 231 (Across from the Winn-Dixie shopping center) Wetumpka. Saturdays @ 7pm. 334-567-7534
Location: Pilgrim Rest Missionary Baptist Church 1550 E. Washington Street Grief Ministry is a grief recovery support group that meets every Monday at 6:00 P.M. The ministry is designed to help anyone through the hurt of losing a loved one by successfully traveling the journey from mourning to joy. Alicia Glover is the coordinator. For more information contact Glover at 334-281-2754.
Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy A Depression/Bipolar Support Group meets on the 1st Thursday of each month from 7:00-8:30pm in Room 3101. This group also meets on the 3rd Saturday afternoon, 12-2 pm, Dalraida UMC, 3817 Atlanta Highway in Church Annex. For more info, call 334.652.1431 or email dbsamontgomery@yahoo.com.
Location: Mental Health Association, 1116 South Hull Street, Montgomery. Sundays @ 5 pm.
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Location: Landmark Church, 1800 Halcyon Blvd. Leaders: Mike & Suzanne Greene (334-271-3331) Every other Tuesday, 6:30pm in Rm. 117. Goal is to create an atmosphere of acceptance and trust, where people can feel free and safe to discuss their feelings and thoughts without shame or embarrassment.
Location: First Baptist Church, 305 S. Perry Street Divorce Care and Divorce Care 4 Kids, Wednesdays starting August 22, 6:30 pm. Cost $15.00 (scholarships available) Contact Kathy Cooper at kcooper@ montgomeryfbc.org or 334-241-5125. Location: First UMC, 100 E. Fourth Street, Prattville Divorce Recovery meets Wednesdays at 6:15 p.m., Bldg. 101. Call 365.5977.
at this time. Call 279.9976. Grief Share groups are held each Sunday at 5 p.m. Call 279.9976.
Location: St Paul’s Lutheran Church, 4475 Atlanta Hwy, Mondays @ 6pm. Gamblers Anonymous Hotline number: 334-541-5420
Location: Landmark Church, 1800 Halcyon Blvd. The Barnabas Group, created to address the needs of those in conflict with homosexual thoughts and feelings meets first, third and fifth Tuesday evenings at 6:30 p.m., in the library at the Life Center. 277.5800.
Mental Illness
Location: Eastmont Baptist, 4505 Atlanta Hwy. Compassionate Friends is a national self-help support organization for families grieving the death of a child meeting first Tuesdays at 7 pm. We have an annual special event on Tuesday, Dec. 4. We will hold a Candlelight Ceremony in memory of our children at 7 p.m. at Eastmont Baptist Church. Registration is encouraged and may be made by calling (334) 2842721. We will also collect Toys for Tots.
Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy A Divorce Recovery Support Group meets each Tuesday, at 5:30 p.m., in Fellowship Hall Lobby. 272-8622.
Location: First UMC, 100 E. Fourth St, Prattville Grief Recovery, Thursday nights at 7 p.m., in Wesley Hall Room 104. Call 365.5977.
Location: Heritage Baptist Church, 1849 Perry Hill Divorce Care Support Group meetings are held Sundays at 6:15 p.m. Divorce Care for Children also
Location: Frazer UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Grief Recovery Support Group meets Tuesdays at 5:30 p.m., Rm 3105, in Fellowship Hall Lobby. 272.8622.
Location: Dalraida UMC, 3817 Atlanta Highway 1. Beginning January 28, 2013, NAMI Montgomery will host General Membership meetings on the 4th Monday of the month at the Dalraida UMC annex building. Meeting starts at 6:30 p.m. This meeting is open to anyone who is interested in issues concerning mental health. 2. The NAMI Montgomery Family Member Support Group continues to meet on the 2nd Monday of the month, starting at 6:30 p.m. at the Dalraida UMC annex building. Call Mary Jo Logan (271-2280) for directions/details. 3. Beginning in February, 2013 NAMI Montgomery will offer the 12 week NAMI FAMILY TO FAMILY education program (free) on Thursdays from 6-8 p.m. at the Bell Road Lowder Regional Library. Call Mary Jo Logan (271-2280) to register for the course.
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Moms LIFE (living in faith everyday) Meets twice monthly from 8:30 - 11:45 am in the chapel at the Church from Aug - May. We offer a time of fellowship, Bible study, musical guest, special guest speakers and a lot of fun!! Cost is $5 per meeting. For moms of all stages and ages of life. Childcare provided by reservation. For more info and to reserve your spot, call Kelley Manning at 361-7919. Location: Vaughn Forest Church, 8660 Vaughn Road Are you in need of a time-out? MOPS joins mothers together by a common bond, to be better wives, moms, and friends along this journey in the trenches of motherhood. We meet the 1st and 3rd Tuesday of each month from 9:30—11:30 a.m. Childcare is provided. For information e-mail VFCMOPS@gmail.com. Location: First Baptist Church, Montgomery 305 S. Perry Street MOPS (Mothers of Preschoolers) If you are a woman who is pregnant or has a child birth through kindergarten, desires to make new friends, wants to share the challenges and joys of motherhood, is looking for opportunities for personal growth through trusted resources,then MOPS is for you. Call Kristi Gay at (334) 233-8989 for more information.
Physical Challenges
Location: Aldersgate UMC, 6610 Vaughn Road Visually Impaired Support Group – Meets monthly on second Thursday 1:00 – 2:30 p.m. The group is called Outward Sight - Inward Vision and is for those with vision loss and their caregivers. Our mission is to assist
those experiencing vision loss to maintain their independence by providing access to valuable information and spiritual support. Call Aldersgate UMC 272-6152. Location: Cloverdale School Bldg. (First UMC) Parkinson’s Support Group of Montgomery meets the fourth Sunday of the month in Room 103 at 2:00pm. More information, contact Nathan Attwood at First United Methodist Church (334-834-8990). Location: First UMC, 2416 W. Cloverdale Park Montgomery Hearing Loss Support Group meets every second Thursday in Wesley Hall at 4 pm. The entrance is on Park Avenue. Informative speakers are present, refreshments are served and no reservations are required. The public is welcome. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy A Fibromyaligia Support Group meets the 3rd Tuesday of each month from 6-8pm in room 8114. Call 272-8622. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy An MDA/ALS Support Group will meet Tuesday August 10 6:00p.m. – 8:00 p.m. in room 3101. Anyone who is affected by a neuromuscular disease or family members of those affected are encouraged to attend. To receive information, please call 396-4534. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy A Parkinson’s Support Group will meet the 4th Thursday at 6 p.m., in room 8114 at Frazer UMC. This group is for those who have Parkinson’s disease and the family members. 272-8622. (No Meeting in December)
Location: Taylor Road Baptist Church, 1785 Taylor Rd., Montgomery Gluten Intolerance Group of Montgomery meets on 2nd Thursdays from 6-7 p.m. Check the blog for special “alternate site” meetings and other info at www.glutenfreemontgomery.blogspot.com.
Pregnancy Loss / Infertility
Location: First UMC, 100 E. Fourth Street, Prattville Hannah’s Prayer--for women dealing with pregnancy loss/infertility issues. Meeting 2nd Thursday and 3rd Sunday of each month. Call 365.5977.
Singlehood
Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Singles’ Small Groups meet each Tuesday at 5:30 p.m. in the Fellowship Hall Lobby. Call 272-8622. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy T.N.T. (Tuesday Night Together) for Singles meets Tuesdays from 7-8 p.m. in the Fellowship Hall, bldg. 7000. A meal ($5.00) and program are provided. For reservations, call the Singles office at 272-8622. Location: Cornerstone Christian, 301 Dalraida Rd. Unavoidably Single Again (USA) Fellowship, a support group for widows and widowers. Informal meetings for fellowship and fun are held on the third Saturday of each month starting at 10 AM. Contact Lynda at farauthor@aol.com or 354-8869.
Veterans
Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Veterans OEF/OIF Caregivers Support Group meets on the 3rd Wednesday from 11am-1pm in Room 3108. Contact LaQuana Edwards, Caregiver Support Coordinator at CAVHCS (334) 727-0550 ext. 5350.
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AGLOW International meets every third Thursday, 9:30 at the Montgomery House of Prayer. All women welcome to join together for praise, prayer and an anointed message. Contact mboudousquie@yahoo.com. Bridge of Life Assembly of God, 9000 Vaughn Road, Montgomery, holds Sunday morning worship at 10:30 a.m. each week. Sunday school classes meet at 9:30 a.m. We offer classes for all age groups and childcare is provided. Our goal is to build bridges...not walls. We invite you to come join us if you need to learn how to build those bridges. For directions or information call 334-396-0208. Email jon@bridgeoflife.tv or visit www.bridgeoflife.tv. Capitol Heights UMC, 2000 Winona Ave., Montgomery offers Parenting Classes beginning at 7:00 p.m. on Thursdays. 2642464. Christchurch, 8800 Vaughn Road, Montgomery, offers a Women’s Enrichment Bible Study led by Jeanne Dean on Thursdays, 9:30-11:30 a.m., in Canterbury Hall. All women are welcome. Childcare for ages birth-4 years is provided. Call 387-0566 x 201 for more info. Christchurch offers a men’s Bible study led by Fr. John-Michael van Dyke, on Thursday mornings on the 11th floor of Goode Medical Bldg, Jackson Hospital. Breakfast is served beginning at 6:45 a.m. and teaching begins at 7:15 a.m. Call 387-0566 x 201. Church of the Highlands meets each Sunday at 9:30 a.m. and 11:30 a.m. downtown Montgomery in the MPAC theater located in the Renaissance Hotel, 201 Tallapoosa Street. Visit churchofthehighlands.com or call 1-205-9805577. Chisholm Baptist Church, 2938 Lower Wetumpka Road, Montgomery, holds Sunday morning Bible study (9:30), Morning worship (10:45), Tuesday prayer breakfast (8:30) Wednesday evening prayer service (6 pm) and Senior Body and Soul Group (every 1st Tuesday at 1 pm). Email jbass9784@charter.net or call 262-6437. First Presbyterian Church, 9299 Vaughn Road, hosts Family Night every Wednesday beginning at 5:20 p.m. with supper, followed by a study on prayer. Everyone is welcome. For more information call (279-1372). First Presbyterian Church, 9299 Vaughn Road, hosts a Men’s Prayer Breakfast every Friday morning, 6 a.m. The Youth of First United Methodist Church, Montgomery every Wednesday night at 7:00 p.m. for Wednesday Night Live, a time of praise and worship in “the attic”. Also, every Sunday night at 6:00 p.m. is MYF which
includes a snack supper $3.00 followed by activities, small groups and lots of fun! Visit www.fumcmontgomery.org or call 334-8348990. First United Methodist Church will host Terrific Tuesdays. Please come and join us for fellowship, a program and lunch. Terrific Tuesdays will meet each Tuesday in room 204 of Wesley Hall. Fellowship time will begin at 10:00 a.m. followed by a program at 10:30 a.m. and lunch at 11:30 a.m. The cost of lunch is $2.00. Every fourth Tuesday the time will extend until 3:00 p.m. for bridge, games, and other activities in room 203 in Wesley Hall. For additional information please contact NeeNee Webb at 834-8990. Good News @ Noon is an interdenominational Bible study, held at the First Baptist Community Ministries Building on Adams Street, Thursdays, at noon. Small cost for hot lunch. Call 272.1133. Hall Memorial CME Church, 541 Seibles Road, Montgomery, offers Bible Study Tuesdays at 5:30 P.M. and Wednesdays at 6: 30 P.M. For directions or information call 334-288-0577. Email HallMemorialCME1@ aol.com or visit www.HallMemorialCME. blogspot.com. Hall Memorial CME Church says: VOLUNTEERS NEEDED! Tutors, prayer-warriors, and office/clerical volunteers needed for the Montgomery City Jail Ministry & G.E.D program. Opportunities are ongoing. No experience or certification necessary. Contact Pastor Anderson T. Graves II, at hallmemorialcme1@ aol.com. Call 334-288-0577. The City Jail ministry is an in-reach ministry of Hall Memorial CME Church, 541 Seibles Road, Montgomery. www.hallmemorialcme.blogspot.com. iConnect.coffeehouse provides a place for women to experience meaningful fellowship with women seeking genuine connection. Meetings will be held in the Atrium at Frazer UMC 3rd Tuesdays from 9-11 a.m. For more info, call Frazer’s Women’s Ministry at 495-6391. Macedonia Miracle Kingdom & Worship Center (MMKWC), 3070 Selma Highway, Montgomery, services are Sunday School and New Members Class, 9:00 a.m., Morning Worship, 10:45 a.m.; Tuesday Night Bible Class, 7:00 p.m. and Friday Night Prayer, 6:00 p.m. (BOTH at The Pattern-Mt Meigs Road) Messiah Lutheran Church, 6670 Vaughn Road, invites all to Wonderful Wednesdays starting with a $3-5 meal at 5:30 pm (RSVP 277-4213 by Monday noon), worship with eucharist 6:15-7:00 pm, and adult choir rehearsal and Catechism class for 7th-9th graders at 7:00 pm. Please call for Wednesday schedule due to seasonal breaks. For 39
information, call 277-4213. Mt. Gillard Missionary Baptist Church, 3323 Day Street, holds Wednesday Bible Study in the church Fellowship Hall and lasts for one hour. Please come and participate in roaming the Bible learning God’s word through teaching. The Rev. Henry M. Carnegie, Jr. is the teacher and pastor. Mid-day Bible Study begins each Wednesday at 11:30 a.m. Evening Bible Study begins each Wednesday at 7:00 p.m. Call 233-8750. New Freedom Worship Center, 6004 –A East Shirley Lane, Apostle T. Briggs~ Pastor; Sunday Worship Service 10:30 a.m. and Wednesday Night Bible Study 7:30 p.m. Open Door Christian Faith Church, 1601 Dewey St. Montgomery, offers Women’s Prayer Mondays at 5:00, Men’s prayer Wednesday at 5:00, followed by bible study at 6:00. Couples ministry held every 1st Wednesday of the month at 7:00. Pastor William Cromblin, and the Open Door Church family invites you to “come experience the move of God. For more info, call the church at 334-269-6498. Perry Hill UMC, 910 Perry Hill Rd, sponsors a Bluegrass Jam in the Church Fellowship Hall on the third Saturday of each month from 9AM - 12AM. All Bluegrass Artist plus Fans are invited to attend. Attendance is FREE. For information call Kathy@ 272-3174. Perry Hill UMC, 910 Perry Hill Rd, hosts a Wednesday Night Supper and Revive! program each week from 5:30pm til 7:00pm. Reservations are required by noon on the Monday prior to the supper. Cost is $4 per person or $12 per family. Call 334-272-3174 for more information. River City Church, 301 Dexter Avenue, offers a Friday Christian Night Club with Ballroom Dancing every Friday at 6:30 P.M. Cost is $7 for a one hour lesson, devotional, and 3 hours of DJ music. People of all denominations are welcome. The River of Life Church, located at 116 County Road 40 E (in the Pine Level Community Center) Prattville. Pastor Nick Edwards invites you to a “Place of New Beginnings”, where families come and grow together. Church Service Schedule: Sunday 10:30 a.m. Sunday School; 11:00 a.m. Morning Worship; 5:00 p.m. Evening Worship. Wednesday 6:00 p.m. Adult Bible Study, Teens (Genesis Project), Jr. High (Limitless), Royal Rangers, MPact Girls, Rainbow’s/Noah’s Zoo Club. Thursday 9:00 a.m.Women of Grace Bible Study. Nursery provided. We invite you to”come experience God in a personal way, feel loved by all and know that you belong”. Office 334-657-0392 or visit www.theriveroflifechurch.net. April 2013
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Community Calendar Christian Community Calendar Christian River Region Contra Dancing-Everyone school-age through adult is invited for a little exercise and a lot of fun. Singles, couples, and families are welcome. All levels of experience – including no experience. Dancing is on the 1st & 3rd Friday of each month at 7:00 p.m. at Ridgecrest Baptist Church, 5260 Vaughn Road. For more information check out the website: www.riverregioncontradance.com or call Katherine Thomas at 334-361-6572. Saint James UMC, 9045 Vaughn Road, offers S.N.A.G. (Sunday Nights About God!) This program starts at 5:00p.m. and ends at 6:30p.m. Childcare is provided for small groups until 7:00p.m. Don’t forget this program is available for all children! Saint James UMC, 9045 Vaughn Road, offers Wild & Wacky Wednesdays! Wednesday night supper starts at 5:15p.m. We will start checking children in at 6:00p.m. This program ends at 7:30p.m. and childcare is provided until 8:00p.m. for small group participants. Call 277.3037 for more info. Saint Paul African Methodist Episcopal Church, 706 E. Patton Avenue, “Clothes Closet” is open to the public each Thursday morning from 10 a.m. – Noon. The Men of Saint Paul host a free Men’s Prayer Breakfast the Third Saturday of each month at 8 a.m. in the Church Fellowship Hall. The Men’s Prayer Breakfast is open to all men of all ages. Come and share your concerns and needs of our Men of today. For more information, please contact (334) 354-1897. Bible Study is held each Wednesday, 6-7 p.m. in the Fellowship Hall. Pastor Farrell J. Duncombe is the teacher and Senior Pastor of the church. Come and join us for Sunday School each Sunday at 9 a.m. and Morning Worship at 10 a.m. Need transportation, call (334) 264-7618. For info call 286.8577 or www.saintpaulamemontgomery. com. S-STOP, a commUNITY Bible study for Singles. Souls Strengthened Together for One Purpose. Psalm 46:10 “BE STILL and know that I am God.” Meets at Prattville Christian Academy on Sunday nights at 6 p.m. For info email sstop04@gmail.com. Vision Full Gospel Ministries, 163 Rifle Range Road, Montgomery, holds Bible Study Tues. Night 7:00 p.m., Pray & Praise 2nd & 4th Thurs. Night 7:00 p.m., Sunday School 9:30 am, Sunday Worship Service 10:45 a.m., Internet radio-homecominggospel.com Sunday 3:00p.m. Central & 4:00 p.m. Eastern. and SatRiver Region’s Journey
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This Month Thursday, May 2
The 2013 Montgomery Prayer Breakfast for the City of Montgomery is scheduled for 7 am, in downtown Montgomery. Mayor Todd Strange invites the citizens of the City to join him on this day in a spirit of humility and pray. It is an opportunity to pray and give thanks for the goodness the community experiences. A devoted time of prayer will be offered on this morning as well as special music. The breakfast will be held at the Alabama Activity Center, located at 201 Dexter Avenue, downtown Montgomery, from 7 am to 8:15 am. A full buffet breakfast will be served. Tickets for the breakfast are $12.00 per person. Individuals may purchase tickets at His Vessel® Ministries, Union Station, 300 Water Street, Suite 100, Montgomery. Seating is limited and will be available on a first come first served bases. For questions or more information call 334356-4478. 40
Sunday, May 5
Pastor Fay Day (Churchin’ with Pastor Fay, WMGY 800AM), will be held at 3 pm. Celebrating 25 Years! Mt. Canaan Baptist Church, 1125 Weoka Road, in Wetumpka. There will be special speakers and musical guests. Admission is FREE!
Friday, May 10 & Saturday, May 11
Friends For Faulkner’s Annual Yard Sale-Friday, May 10: 10 a.m. to 6 p.m. and Saturday, May 11: 7 a.m. to 2 p.m. Clothes and shoes – men, women and children, furniture, house wares, collectibles, Holiday items, linens, toys, games, books, garden items, etc. Under the tents on the Faulkner University Campus, 5345 Atlanta Highway, Montgomery. Ice cold drinks, snacks and baked goods will also be sold. All monies raised go toward unbudgeted items for departments and student scholarships. Donations are tax deductible. Call Wanda Warmack @ 546-7151 if you have items you would like to donate.
Saturday, May 11
The 3rdAnnual Agape Run For A Mom 5k and Fun Run. Proceeds from the run benefit women facing crisispregnancies, foster children, domestic adoptions and soon to be added international adoptions. Dedicate your run to your mom, birth mother, adoptive mom, foster mom, or any special woman in your life. For information and registration, please visit www.runforamom.org. Pre-Mother’s Day Prayer Brunch @ 9:00 a.m., True Divine Baptist Church, 4601 Troy Hwy, Montgomery. Music by: Anointed Voices; Inspiration Speakers: Evangelist Gladys Edwards, Evangelist Gerald Holmes and Dr. Tammie McCurry; Main speaker: Prophetess KrystalAustin-Moore; Mistress Ceremony: Ms. Joann Milton; Theme: There is hope in who God created me to be! Donations of $15.00 are welcomed for the breakfast bar. For ticket information please
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Sunday, May 19
Aldersgate United Methodist Church, 6610 Vaughn Road, is honored to have former Senior Pastor, Rev. James P. Dannelly Jr. (1990-1997) preach for the Aldersgate/Forest Avenue 110th Anniversary Celebration for their 8:45 am and 11:00 am morning worship services. Rev. Reed Hoppe (Associate Director of Communications for the United Methodist Mission Society) will be teaching during the Sunday School Hour at 9:50 in the Chapel. A church-wide covered dish luncheon and Anniversary program will begin at 12:15 in the Christian Activity Center.
Tuesday, May 21
An Eating Disorders Seminar will be
held from 6:30-8:30 pm at First Christian Church on Taylor Road. Free and open to anyone who has an interest in this topic. Therapist Christy Holding from Samaritan Counseling Center and dietician Racheal Laughlin from Jackson Hospital will conduct the meeting. Please call 531-1390 or 262-7787 for information.
June 14-15
Gridiron Men’s Conference 2013 featuring Tim Tebow, Fred Luter, Phil Waldrep and more! BirminghamJefferson Civic Center (BJCC) Arena. Gridiron is more than a gathering, or a concert. It is a worship experience created by men, for men. At Gridiron Men’s conference we are committed to your spiritual growth through discipleship, accountability, and worship. We believe that when many men come together seeking the one true God, great things
can happen. For more info call: 800374-1550 or visit itickets.com.
Sunday, June 23
Comedian Tim Hawkins returns to Frazer UMC, 6000 Atlanta Highway, in Montgomery. He will appear at 7 p.m. in Wesley Hall. Tickets are $20 in advance, $25 at the door, $18 advanced group rate (6+). VIP tickets are $40 advance only / $38 advance only group rate (6+). A portion of all proceeds goes to benefit Frazer missions. Go to frazerumc.org and click the ‘Events’ tab and then Tim Hawkins for a link to order tickets online. For more info, videos and testimonies about Tim Hawkins, visit his website at www.timhawkins.net.
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Have You Chosen the Winning Team? Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us. Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy set before him endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. Consider him who endured such opposition from sinful men, so that you will not grow weary and lose heart. Hebrews 12:1-3 Football, baseball, basketball, tennis, golf…the list is quite extensive. Our fascination with competition dates back as
far as recorded human history, our present day society no exception. If skeptical, simply close your eyes and try to imagine a world without it – no sports, no Olympics, no little league baseball, no teachers or coaches beginning, at a young age, to ‘scout’ kids for possibilities… Whether or not we watch and/or participate, our very lifestyle is permeated with this concept. Able to forget to stop for milk on the way home from work, we can nevertheless recall teams, players, schedules, and statistics regarding sports at any given moment though these change every day. We make choices, sometimes choosing the winning team and sometimes not, the odds weighing in against it.
Naturally, winning or losing isn’t the sole benefit of team involvement. We enjoy camaraderie, meet new people, test our physical prowess, possess a common focus and driving goal, encounter healthy competition, commiserate in defeat and share joy in victory. At the end of a season - whether we are a team member, family member, coach, or avid fan - a portion of the experience remains with us, revising who we are. Scripture repeatedly addresses the concept of ‘life as a race.’ Warren Wiersbe
“Train a child in the way he should go and when he is old he will not turn from it.”
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has been around for centuries, Hebrews describing it as ‘a great cloud of witnesses.’ Viewing life as a team sport, one difference we are called to in the Christian life is to …run with perseverance the race marked out for us. Further urged to … fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith, our ‘strict training’ offers a multitude of benefits including incredible insight into the very mind of our Creator God and a loving, lasting support system - our ‘Christian family.’ As Paul admonishes, ‘…They do it to get a crown that will not last, but we do it to get a crown that will last forever. Therefore I do not run like someone running aimlessly…’ we also do not run aimlessly, but pursue the singular objective of glorifying God by learning of Jesus and fashioning our lives after his example. Additionally, as we read that Jesus, ‘… who for the joy set before him endured the cross... and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God,’ we have the same promise of everlasting joy set before us though our ‘crosses’ are much less harsh. Granted that injuries and hardship cannot be avoided in athletics or in the Christian life and that endurance is key to both, the
end result is indeed divergent. Playing on a winning athletic team improves our lives but lasts for only a season before dissolving, while permanent membership on God’s winning ‘team’ enhances our current condition and lasts through all eternity! We know ‘the rest of the story’... God is victorious, so why not join the winning team while living this earthly chapter? Hebrews offers, “Consider him who endured such opposition from sinful men, so that you will not grow weary and lose heart.” Scripture also reveals that, ‘“As surely as I live,” says the Lord, “Every knee will bow before me; every tongue will confess to God.”’(Romans 14:11) Let us all be prepared with a resounding ‘YES’ when we meet the Lord and he asks, “Have you chosen the winning team?” Elaine Britt and her husband, Tim, reside in Montgomery, with son Bryan at UAH in Huntsville and son Kevin at the University of Montevallo. She counts her family as a great blessing. By profession, Elaine is a 33 year veteran Interior Decorator and owner of Carriage House Interiors, now freelancing from home. By God’s calling and to her great joy, she is a writer, whose published works include stories in A Cup of Comfort Devotionals; Lord, I Was Happy Shallow; and Heavenly Patchwork; one book, Messages, as well as various e-zine and magazine articles.
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Movie Reviews Reviews provided by MovieGuide: A Family Guide to Movies and Entertainment Ratings are based on production quality and moral acceptability. See details below. ***Reviews do not necessarily reflect views of the publishers of River Region’s Journey.
Not Today
Home Run
Quality: *** Moral Acceptability: +4 (Wholesome) Starring: Cody Longo, Walid Amini, John Schneider, Shari Wiedmann, and Cassie Scerbo Genre: Drama Audience: Young teenagers and adults Rating: PG-13 Content: Strong Christian worldview and message of God’s love for everyone; no foul language; no violence but men shove each other; no sex scenes but story is about child sex trafficking in India; no nudity; drinking and drunkenness, though rebuked; no smoking or illegal drugs; and, themes of child slavery, caste system hatred. NOT TODAY is a story that exposes the heinous world of child sex trafficking in India through the eyes of a spoiled rich American. Caden is a twentysomething narcissistic young man who has fabulous wealth at his disposal and a desire to only serve himself. He goes to India with his friends on a whim. There, he encounters a young 7-year-old girl, Annika, and her father, Kiran. They ask Caden for food since Annika hasn’t eaten in days. Caden refuses to help them, even when they help him. This forces Kiran to sell his daughter to a man who promises she can become a housekeeper to a rich family. Caden slowly learns that the girl was instead sold into prostitution, unknown to her father. Caden and Kiran then begin a journey to try to find and rescue Annika. They go deeper into the wicked world of child prostitution. Caden is forced to encounter his own guilt at not helping them and his selfish worldview. With the help of a girlfriend back home and a praying mom and stepfather, Caden returns to his faith in Jesus Christ, from which he had run away. NOT TODAY is a compelling, moving story that follows the growth of Caden to see the world for all its ugliness and to choose to help. The script is moving and the finale does bring tears because of the movie’s emotions but also because of the reality of this kind of true story. The production values in NOT TODAY are topnotch and the acting is strong. Although the movie’s theme is very dark, no negative content is shown onscreen. Because of its subject matter, NOT TODAY is not a movie for young children.
Quality: **** Moral Acceptability: -1 (Caution) Starring: Scott Elrod, Dorian Brown, Vivica A. Fox, Charles Henry Wilson, Jim Devoti, Nicole Leigh, Drew Waters, Juan Martinez Genre: Drama Audience: Older children to adults Rating: PG-13 Content: Very strong Christian, evangelistic, moral worldview about a drunk baseball player coming to Christ; three light obscenities and one profanity; light violence includes car accident, man slugs another man, man accidentally elbows bat boy, and some athletic action violence plus drunk father keeps drilling fast balls at young boy; discussions in a 12-step group of sexual abuse and porn addiction, kissing; no nudity; lots of alcohol use and references to alcoholism; no smoking but discussion of cocaine addiction; and, lying, deception, closet drinking, tattoos, theft, reckless driving. HOME RUN is about a star baseball player with alcohol problems. After an outburst during a game, Cory is required to return to his tiny Oklahoma hometown and participate in a 12-step program. Hosted by a church, the program focuses on Jesus. On the way home, Cory gets drunk and crashes his expensive sportscar into a tractor, almost killing his brother, Clay. Part of Cory’s recovery program is coaching a Little League team. Will Cory follow the 12step program? Will he realize that he needs Jesus Christ? HOME RUN is very well written. The dialogue builds surprises and develops character. The acting is good, especially Scott Elrod as Cory. Everything about this movie looks Hollywood. The plot solution is the 12-step program and accepting Christ. Although some dicey issues, such as sexual abuse and addiction, are discussed, the fact they are discussed and not shown slows things down a little bit. Even so, the director gives his movie an excellent sense of realism. HOME RUN has a powerful evangelistic message. Caution is advised for older children because of some adult material.
The previous reviews are a selected sample of informative reviews from MOVIEGUIDE: A FAMILY GUIDE TO MOVIES AND ENTERTAINMENT, a syndicated feature of Good News Communications, Inc. To subscribe to MOVIEGUIDE which includes a complete set of at least 10 reviews of the latest movies as well as many informative articles, please visit our web site at www.movieguide.org or write or call:”MOVIEGUIDE,” P.O. Box 190010, Atlanta, GA 31119 (800) 899-6684. What the ratings mean: Production Quality: (1 to 4 stars) Moral Acceptability: -4 (Abhorrent), -3 (Excessive), -2 (Extreme Caution), -1 (Caution), +1 (Wholesome), +2 (Good), +3 (Moral), +4 (Exemplary) River Region’s Journey
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