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7:00 PM Service of Darkness FRAZER ATLANTA HIGHWAY A somber but beautiful remembrance of the crucifixion of Jesus
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Publisher’s Note
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Addiction and Your Loved One by Barbara B
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Pastor's Perspective Pastor Tony Butler, Fountain of Grace, Prattville
Many of our families have been affected by the addiction to drugs and/or alcohol. This author’s first-hand experience offers encouragement and hope.
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Pondering the Journey Sam Whatley
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Women Arising
7 Ways to Experience Christ This Easter
Pastor Kemi Searcy
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Counselor’s Corner
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Sam Belkofer, LPC
Don’t let this Easter season pass you by without taking time to reflect on the Risen Christ. Find seven ways to truly savor the Savior this month.
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The Intersection Bob Crittenden
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River Region Easter Events
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Dave $ays Dave Ramsey
Local churches are celebrating the risen Christ in many ways during the first two weeks of April. Take a look at our listing of events and attend one or more with your family this Easter.
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Books to Read
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Ministry Spotlight:
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Hope Missions
Around Our Community
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From the Publisher When I was a child my mother explained to me often that to be with God in heaven all I had to do was believe that Jesus died for my sins. I can’t think of a time I didn’t believe that truth. I feel like I’ve believed Jesus was my Savior almost all my life. Thankfully, in time, I came to know a lot more about God the Father, Jesus the Son and the Holy Spirit, and I have been able to grow in a relationship with God, not just know a few beneficial facts about the One who created me. There are some key milestones explained in the Bible that define your existence and mine. First, I’m made by God. Second, because of the sin of Adam, I am born into sin and have an independent and rebellious heart against God. Third, Jesus was sent by God to defeat sin’s curse, which He did by living a perfect life, yet receiving the penalty we deserve by dying on the cross. He then rose from the grave having defeated death and sin. Lastly, now by placing my trust in the atoning work of Jesus, I can be free from sin’s penalty and have eternal life beginning now. If we do not place our trust in Jesus we remain in rebellion and bring God’s wrath upon us. These milestones in history give shape to our lives. They are so important to understand and make a part of our lives, but I still believe there’s one component that, if we lack, will keep us from fully experiencing the joy of eternal life. That one thing is the love of God. It’s one thing to know you’ve been saved because all the puzzle pieces are in place and you believe they exist. But it’s another thing to know God brought all these pieces together because He loves you. True tender, sacrificial, faithful and unconditional love towards me gives milestones in history the flesh and blood of real life. That’s why I love the Gospel stories in the Bible. Jesus entered into the world through a virgin to escape Adam’s corrupt nature, yet He faced temptations. He felt the pains of life. He wept over the grief of death and sickness. He had mercy on the worst of sinners and invited them freely into His fellowship. He looked out on the people and felt compassion, even on those who crucified Him. He did all these things because He was on a Mission of Love to redeem us back to our heavenly Father. For those who believe, we do not have a religion, we have a relationship with God through our Savior Jesus. Our youngest daughter is adopted. I know the day will come when she’ll need to work through many questions about both her birth parents and us, her real parents. Thankfully, I know that as she thinks upon those things, she’ll have a vault of love in her heart that her mother and I have filled up since the day we first met her in a Russian orphanage. No matter what life throws her way, she’ll always be able to make withdrawals from our love. This Easter season, I pray that you will go beyond the historical events and know the love of God that propelled them. God wants to know you. He wants to have a relationship with you through His Son. He wants to fill your heart up with His love so that you can walk through this broken world with purpose, joy, and hope. Happy Easter. Let’s all celebrate God’s love for us!
River Region’s Journey is published monthly by Keep Sharing, P.O. Box 230367, Montgomery, AL 36123. For information, call 334-213-7940. River Region’s Journey is copyrighted 2017 by KeepSharing. All rights reserved. Reproduction in whole or part without written permission is prohibited. The opinions expressed in River Region’s Journey are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the view of the owners, nor do they constitute an endorsement of products or services herein. River Region’s Journey has the right to refuse any content that is not consistent with its statement of faith.
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Founded Upon God’s Word At Christchurch, Holy Scripture serves as the final authority for our teaching and preaching. Indeed, over the course of three years, almost the entire Bible is read aloud and preached upon.
Liturgically Joyful At Christchurch worship we offer God praise, thanksgiving and adoration using worship traditions that can be traced back to the earliest days of the Church. Our worship is not designed to entertain us, but to honor the true “audience” of worship, the Lord!
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Probaton Scubalon John 10:15 “As the Father knows Me, even so I know the Father; and I lay down My life for the sheep.” If you look up the Greek word for sheep you will see the word “probaton”. Sheep, especially lambs, are cute animals. We love to see paintings of sheep/lambs in the arms of the Good Shepherd Jesus and imagine ourselves as one of His little loved ones safely resting in His bosom. Surrounding Jesus in the paintings are clean adoring sheep that are being gently led to still waters and green pastures. How we love the ideal. I am reminded of a woman that went to a lawyer’s office seeking a divorce. The lawyer asked her why she wanted a divorce, to which she replied, “I was looking for the
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ideal, it became an ordeal, and now I want a new deal.” So many people get married with some idealistic fantasy only to find out shortly thereafter their ideal included an ordeal with over 50% wanting a new deal. All true believers of Jesus are called sheep in Scripture. However, we all live in a larger reality than an idealistic picture of us in the bosom of Jesus as sheep. There is one particular natural commonality that sheep share and manifest, but I have never seen any of it in a painting with Jesus. Can you guess what it is? It appears as a little land mine just waiting for the unsuspecting to step on. In the Greek it is called “scubalon” being translated “dung” (one of many euphemisms) thus the title of the article “Probaton Scubalon”. In other words, reality reveals sheep don’t live perfectly clean ideal lives. They can be messy and release smelly byproduct. Such a thing shouldn’t be strange; it is normal and natural in the life of sheep. There is no such thing as scubalon free sheep in this life. It is the same with God’s sheep. Jesus chose twelve men who released the scubalon of fear, jealousy, pride, anger, and unbelief; Peter even denied Jesus three times. Not one of them believed Jesus rose from the dead until Jesus appeared to them. But as their Good Shepherd He loved them to the end because they were His sheep. For three and a half years Jesus loved them through their scubalon. He died for them having paid
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for every bit of scubalon in their lives. All believers release scubalon byproducts of weird, pride, failure, sin, insensitivity, stupidity, fear, jealously and much more. All these things were paid for and forgiven by the blood of Jesus (Eph. 1:7). By God’s amazing grace He has accepted us in Christ (Eph.1:6). We are His beloved, elect and precious ones by grace through faith (Eph. 2:8-9). Too many believers are looking for the ideal and are drawn to ministries where there is the best of everything. Scubalon isn’t seen, talked about, or much less dealt with. They have trained professional pooper scoopers that will get rid of it so fast you never even knew it happened. The greatest of effort is taken to present a façade of idealism but seldom deal with the dung. Even in smaller churches, often the dung is denied. Christians are told true Christians can’t produce scubalon. Where scubalon is denied, it is hidden. Where it is hidden, then the scubalon of legalism, anger, guilt, self-righteousness and rebellion is spread. A false view of God, grace and salvation is produced, and true joy is lost. As Christ’s sheep we are told to love one another, bear one another’s burdens, forgive one another, accept one another, be patient toward one another, go to one another when there is conflict, and speak the truth in love to one another. We all are in a time of spiritual formation through the sanctification of the Word and the Spirit. God is patiently forming Christ in us until the day comes when the ideal will be reality. In that day we will have no scubalon and dwell in His eternal pasture and quiet stream of the river of life. In the meantime love God’s sheep and keep it real. Tony Butler is pastor of Fountain of Grace, 881 McQueen Smith Rd S, Prattville, AL. Visit them this Sunday or check out their website, www.fountainofgrace.us.
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This Is Our Time by Trevin Wax
It’s certainly an interesting time to be alive, isn’t it? And it’s a particularly interesting time to be a Christian. Right before our eyes we see everything changing, everything we once assumed being purposefully undermined. A new normal has been thrust upon us and I don’t think I’m the only one who is looking for help in interpreting the times. These changing times, this full-out moral revolution, is the subject of Trevin Wax’s new book This Is Our Time. His concern is that Christians are buying into cultural myths, so that instead of living according to God’s way as expressed in God’s Word, we are buying into lies. “What if we are living according to the myths of our culture without even questioning them? What if we are falling for false stories—not because they are in our history books but because they’re in our everyday habits?” If this is the case, then how can we resist these cultural myths and replace them with biblical truth? Wax proposes a three-part solution that can address any myth. River Region’s Journey
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First, we need to address the longing at the heart of it. After all, “there is usually something good and right in the stories our society tells. When someone believes a myth about the world, it’s usually because deep down, they want something in that story to be true.” We need to ask Why? Why do people want this story to be true? Having addressed the longing, we need to challenge the lie it tells, how it offers a false solution to what may be a legitimate longing. After all, “the gospel doesn’t simply affirm the deepest longings of humanity; it also challenges and reshapes those longings; and in doing so, it exposes the lie.” Finally, we need to shine the light of the gospel on the world’s myths. “The gospel tells a better story. Yes, the gospel exposes the lies we believe and promote in society, but once our eyes adjust to its brightness, we discover how the gospel also answers our deeper longings in ways that surprise us.” The heart of the book, then, is addressing a series of myths in just this way. In the first half Wax looks at “the habits that impact us day to day. We start close to home—the myths told to us by the smartphones we use and the stories we love. Then we turn to unspoken assumptions we make about why we’re on the earth and how we plot out the trajectory of our lives.” Thus, he shows that our smartphones 6
are actually myth-telling devices, that Hollywood is hell-bent on capturing our hearts, and that while our pursuit of happiness is a good thing, we go about it all wrong. He exposes our endless consumerism as a desire to purchase what we can actually only be given. In the second half he turns to “larger myths that animate our society. What should our political involvement be? What are today’s myths about marriage and sexuality? How do we resist the idea that society is making amazing progress or in a season of unstoppable decline?” He looks to ancient and contemporary theologians to show how Christians should and should not be involved in politics, how we are prone to think so poorly about marriage and sexuality, and, finally, how we should think about the world itself, and whether it is in a downward spiral or upward trajectory. In each case, he looks at the legitimate longing that the myth claims to address, he exposes the lie it hides, and he allows the gospel to shine, to offer something far better and far more satisfying. At a time when the world is changing at a breakneck pace, we can all benefit from those who can interpret it on our behalf. I have read Wax’s books and blogs for many years and have seen him become one of my trusted cultural interpreters. In This Is Our Time he interprets ten issues for us, doing the hard work of addressing the longing, exposing the lie, and shining the light. And as he does that, he models how we can and must do this interpretation for the host of other issues that confront us today and will doubtlessly confront us in the future. In that way, Wax is both a trusted interpreter and a skilled teacher.
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7th Annual Agape Run for a Mom 5k & Fun Run Agape of Central Alabama is excited to announce that the 7th Annual Run for a Mom 5k & Fun Run will be held on Mother’s Day weekend, Saturday, May 13. The race will take place at the Vaughn Park Church and will continue through the Vaughn Meadows community. Registration for the 5k is now open, and ranges from $5 to $30. After April 17, the registration prices will increase $5, and you will not be guaranteed a t-shirt. All proceeds from the Run for a Mom 5k & Fun Run will directly benefit Agape of Central Alabama and its mission to support women, children and families through foster care, adoption, and crisis pregnancy counseling. For more information about the event, registration, and sponsorships, visit www.runforamom.org, or call Agape of Central Alabama at (334) 272-9466.
Priscilla Shirer Simulcast Ridgecrest Baptist Church 5260 Vaughn Road, Montgomery, AL Saturday, April 8, 9am-4:35pm Join other women in our area as we worship together and hear the Godly teachings of Priscilla Shirer. Childcare will not be provided. Tickets are $22 each. Call 334-277-0011 to reserve your ticket.
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Montgomery Prayer Breakfast
The 2017 Montgomery Prayer Breakfast for the City and County of Montgomery is scheduled for May 4, at 7 am, in downtown Montgomery. Mayor Todd Strange and Commissioner Elton Dean invite local citizens to join them on this day in a spirit of humility and prayer. The prayer breakfast begins the local acknowledgment of the National Day of Prayer. The purpose of the prayer breakfast has always been and continues to bring together the local citizens to pray for all those in authority over the County and City of Montgomery. A devoted time of prayer will be offered on this morning as well as special music. Held at the Alabama Activity Center, located at 201 Dexter Avenue, downtown Montgomery, from 7 am to 8:30 am. A full buffet breakfast will be served. Tickets for the breakfast are $20.00 per person. Individuals may purchase tickets at His Vessel Ministries located at Union Station, 300 Water Street, Suite 100, or the You Name It shop at 5350-A Atlanta Highway in Montgomery. Seating is limited and will be available on a first come first served bases. To conclude the breakfast, guests will make their way up Dexter Avenue to the steps of the Capitol to kick off the 3rd annual Bible Reading Marathon. Local churches, businessmen, and interested individuals of all ages are encouraged to participate by reading publicly and continuously in 15-minute segments.
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Community-Wide Marriage Classes 5-7PM on Sundays April 2, 9, 23 & 30th at Saint James UMC, 9045 Vaughn Road, Montgomery, AL *child care provided; Register at sjlife.com SPEAKERS: Pastors Lester & Janeese Spencer May 5, 7:00 p.m. Benefitting Friendship Mission, a ministry to the poor and homeless in Montgomery
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Steven Curtis Chapman in Concert Saturday, April 22, at 8:00 pm Wright Center - Samford University Birmingham, AL
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Community-Wide Marriage Classes 5-7PM on Sundays April 2, 9, 23 & 30th at Saint James UMC, 9045 Vaughn Road, Montgomery, AL 36117 *child care provided Register at sjlife.com
Young Meadows Presbyterian Church, at 5780 Vaughn Road, will host a Sports BUILD THE Camp Monday-Friday, June 5-9 from MARRIAGE YOU’VE ALWAYS 9:00am-12:00 noon. Children who have DREAMED OF. completed grades K-5 are welcome to attend and can choose from several activiSPEAKERS: ties such as basketball, baseball, soccer, volleyball, dance, and art. Other activities include Bible lessons, music, snacks, and fun! Children will need to wear play clothes and closed-toe shoes, such as athletic shoes. For more information or to register your child, please contact the church office at (334) 244-1385, or visit the website www.youngmeadows.org. Pastors Lester & Janeese Spencer
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What If I Do This? Knowing that she would open the closet to get towels, I hid the saucer with the bread slice behind several bottles on a high shelf. At least it was high to a ten-year-old. I was right; she didn’t notice it at first. I checked on my project every day for several days and wrote down what I saw. I was amazed by the spreading black fuzzy stuff that covered the bread. It was beautiful. One day Mother needed one of those bottles for something, and, boy, did she let out a shriek! “Sam! What on earth have you done?” I explained that it was a science experiment and very important, but she was not listening. She threw the project out, washed all the towels, and scrubbed the shelves down good with something that smelled pretty strong. Then she told me how mold and towels did not mix, but not in a calm voice. I learned a lot from that science project. Mostly I learned that you had better get some advice from someone wiser than you before you launch into something you know nothing about. Satisfying your curiosity Indoor & Outdoor Activities can be painful. Fun Field Trips Over the years, Meal Plan Option I have seen that little boys are not the only Arts & Crafts, Archery & Games folks who need to Sports & Swimming learn that lesson. In 3 Prattville Locations the Bible (Numbers Chapter 20) the prattvilleymca.org • (334) 358-1446 Lord tells Moses to speak to the rock in
Is curiosity a good thing? Is it wise to try out new ideas? Sometimes. When I was about ten years old our science class studied the way mold spores grow in damp, dark places. The teacher suggested that we put some water on a slice of bread and put it in a dark place for a week. We were to check on it each day and record our observations. I looked around our house and found what I thought was the perfect place, the linen closet. The teacher probably told us to check with our parents about this, but I chose not to ask Mother for permission. She might tell me not to do it.
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the desert and water would flow from it. The Israelites were on their way out of Egypt and really needed the water. Apparently, Moses was curious about what might happen if he did it with a flair. So, he took his staff and struck the rock twice. Water did gush forth and the people’s thirst was quenched, but God’s anger was not. But the LORD said to Moses and Aaron, “Because you did not trust in me enough to honor me as holy in the sight of the Israelites, you will not bring this community into the land I give them” (Numbers 20:12, NIV). After 40 years in the desert, Moses did not enter the promised land. It’s not that he did something he was told not to do. He just did something other than what he was told to do. He replaced God’s directions with his own methods. He may have thought, “What difference can it make? Water is water.” I made the same mistake. I did not trust my mother to advise me on the best way to carry out the science project. I thought I knew better. My distrust was disrespectful. It’s not wrong to wonder what will happen if you do something unusual. But it dishonors God to ignore His guidance. Perhaps you are considering making a major change in your life. Is what you are contemplating clearly taught in the Word of God? Have you sought the Lord’s face in prayer about this? Have you talked about it with someone you trust as a seasoned Christian? Or, are you like the little boy who chose not to ask for his mother’s permission, afraid she would not see things as he did? Remember God’s words, “Be holy because, I, the LORD your God, am holy” (Leviticus 19:2, NIV). We are all tempted to go beyond what the Lord has asked of us. We want to do things our way. But He is not looking for spiritual cleverness, originality, or flair; just obedience to what He has put in our hearts to do. So, let’s honor God with a life of obedience. .
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helped me to see God in all things. It was then that I began to ask God for direction and intentionally look for is gracious hand in my life. RRJ: Life definitely does change from our youth to college experiences, but it changes almost as dramatically after college when we enter the “real world”. Did you feel threatened after college to dial back your faith?
RRJ: Your faith became real during college as you got involved in campus ministries. What was different about that environment and how did your faith change? Mia: As a child, church was instilled in me by my grandmother. She was a pianist for two churches and would travel between the two on Sundays with myself and my siblings in tow. When I was eleven she died and I didn’t get back to church until I got my driver’s license. I would drive myself and was baptized at the age of 17. Joining the Baptist Campus Ministries on the campus of Alabama A&M University taught me that faith is walked out daily not just a Sunday experience. Listening and sharing testimonies River Region’s Journey
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Mia: Most definitely. My first job after college was as a News Producer, and in that roll, one does not interject their opinion or belief into the “news.” You write the story and hope the anchor, coupled with great video footage, tells the factual story. The only thing that mattered was, “Is this a story” and “Do we have an available cameraman?” My faith and/or belief was not a factor. It wasn’t until I decided that I was going with God, no matter what, that I began to live out loud and I haven’t once looked back. RRJ: Now, as the Marketing Director for Health Services, Inc. it would seem you have found a place that is in line with your Christian convictions. Is that true? Mia: Hands down, without a doubt, yes! I still tell the Lord, thank you, every day I pull into my reserved parking space. (Lol) Not just for the parking space, though I’m grateful for that as well, but because I get to be a part of a team that is dedicated to making lives better, one patient at a time. My first Executive Team meeting, I remember praying before I got to the conference room, then realizing as I sat down, that the first item on the agenda was prayer. The easiest thing in the 14
world is submitting to Leadership that is submitting to the will of God. It makes for a great work day! RRJ: Does that mean living out your “Faith @ Work” is easy? How do you live out your faith in the marketplace? Mia: No, not at all. It doesn’t mean it’s easy, just that it is possible. I absolutely believe my place of employment is an answer to my prayer. I’ve learned to be specific in my requests to God. It may sound silly, but working in places were living out my faith was extremely hard taught me to be specific. Now I’m able to collaborate daily with equally yoked individuals. We walk out our mission to provide access to affordable health and wellness services to all individuals regardless of their station in life. I get to be a blessing every day to someone who doesn’t even know I exist. That is powerful. RRJ: There are no Super Christians. We only live out our faith through the power and resources given to us by God. How are you tapping into that power on a regular basis? Mia: My husband and I joke all the time about being “Nestea Plunge” Christians. Remember, the old commercial from the 80s, where people blindly fall back into a pool of water because the tea is so refreshing. We literally just fall back on Jesus every day. I know it comes from those faith building moments in our lives, where we have blindly stepped out in obedience, and He has provided. We also pray for those moments in our children’s lives and are quick to point them out so that they too will live a life sensitive to the Holy Spirit.
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dio ministry, but as it began I realized my radio and television knowledge was tied to the logistics of the show. It has been an amazing journey.
Mia: The goal of Hearts and Heels is to have everyday conversations with a Godly perspective. We show men and women that Christians are not perfect reflections of God, but grace and mercy seeking individuals who have to daily ask for forgiveness and intentionally live to make God smile. The show is an example of one of those stepping out in obedience moments. Lady Shae Robinson, the first lady of True Worship Church (my church), had been given a witty idea (Proverbs 8:12), then a dream of the three of us hosting a radio show. Over lunch, she began to reveal what she had been given, and Arnesha immediately stopped her and said God had given her a name for a women’s ministry, but she was not sure what the ministry was for until that very moment. Hearts and Heels was born, over lunch at a fast food restaurant. God had not given me a vision directly tied to the ra-
RRJ: Finally, I know someone is reading this interview and is discouraged about continuing to follow Jesus. What would you say to encourage them to keep on in the faith and rest in the love of God? Mia: My answer to your question is going to seem unusual. It is not the typical “encouragement response”, generalized to fit every person’s situation. I feel so strongly that the answer is for a certain person reading this story. To Her I say... I heard a story of how Bushmen find water in scarce times. The Bushmen prey on the baboons’ love of salt. They take a rock of salt and put it in a hole. The baboon comes along and reaches in the hole for the salt. In grabbing the salt, its hand makes a fist, making it impossible to remove its hand without letting go of the salt. Inevitably, the baboon is caught by the Bushmen and thrown into a cage. They continue to give the baboon salt until it is parched and thirsty. They then
release it and follow the baboon as it rushes to the nearest water source. They drink until full! I say this as humbly as possible: identify the areas in your life where you represent the baboon. What are you holding on to that is keeping your “joy” trapped? Whether it is a situation, addiction, relationship, etc. lay it before the throne of God. Begin to pray daily for the ability to let go and surrender it/them to God. I know God will show Himself mighty in your situation. This is just the beginning of the building of your faith. When the next joy stealer moment comes, be quick to recognize, release and watch God work. Soon you too will be a “Nestea Plunge” Christian. I am rooting for you and know that you are already blessed from your “heart to your heels!” Mia Mothershed earned her BA degree in Telecommunications from Alabama A&M University and moved to Montgomery to start her career as a Communications Specialist at Regions Mortgage, Inc. Her passion for service led her to Health Services, Inc. where she currently serves as the Marketing Director. Mia is a member of many professional organizations in Montgomery and gives of her time to many community causes. Her highest calling is being the wife of a Montgomery Firefighter and the mother of two wonderful children, Roman (11) and Carter Symone’ (8).
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One Sunday, as my husband and I were leaving church, we drove by a well-dressed couple walking down the sidewalk to their car. Though I tried not to stare, something about them caught my eye as we drove by slowly. After we passed them, I turned to my husband and said, “I believe that man is an alcoholic.” He quickly looked in the rearview mirror at the man and then asked, “How in the world can you tell?” I said, “Because I looked at his wife.” I saw it on her face. I saw it in her eyes. I’ve seen that same look many times on the faces of friends, family, and strangers. I know the look all too well. I have had that same look many times in the past. It is a look of desperation... often a look of hopelessness. Many months after that Sunday, I met that lady and learned my assumption was right. Addiction had taken a big toll on her. 16
I know firsthand the high cost of loving someone with the disease of addiction. I am the granddaughter of an alcoholic, the daughter of an alcoholic, and the wife of a recovering addict. Addiction runs deep and wide in my family. I have heard it said: “Addiction is a family sport and everyone gets to play.” Sadly, that is so true. The disease of addiction takes an enormous toll on the family... financially, emotionally, and often spiritually. The effects of alcohol and drugs on the user are very evident, but the symptoms of the disease on family members too often go untreated and unnoticed by others. The family disease of addiction often shows up in the form of stress, anxiety, high blood pressure, headaches, insomnia, depression, isolation, digestive problems, fear, confusion, racing thoughts, stomach ulcers, and heart palpitations. I know, because I have experienced all of these symptoms. It is a heavy toll to pay. As a young child, I remember sometimes waking up in the middle of the night to the sound of my father yelling at my mother. He was one of the kindest and most generous men I’ve ever known, but when he drank, the alcohol changed him. The first true emotion I recall feeling as a very young child was fear. Like so many other homes where addiction exists, we had the elephant in our living room that no one talked about. Today, counselors and therapists call that “denial,” but when I was a little girl, it felt more like a family secret that we dared not share with anyone. And,
of course, our secrets keep us sick. It Al-Anon Information: was a very high toll to pay as a child. Al-Anon Family Groups are for families and friends I was completely blindsided by who have been affected by a loved one’s drinking. my husband’s addiction. We were Nearly 16,000 local groups meet throughout the U.S., just short of our twenty-first wedding Canada, Bermuda, and Puerto Rico every week. anniversary when drugs took over his life. Prior to that, he was a great father, Al-Anon Family Groups meet in more than 130 couna great husband, and a great provider. tries, and Al-Anon literature is available in more than Never in a million years would I have 40 languages. For more information about Al-Anon ever suspected he would be someone Family Groups, go to www.al-anon.org and www. who was capable of using drugs. alnwfl-al-anon.org. To find a local meeting, call tollWhen I married him and said “for betfree: 1-888-4AL-ANON. ter or worse, in sickness or in health,” I having to talk about our situation with others. We was thinking something more along the hide our secrets, hide our fear, hide our emotions, lines of the flu or the occasional stomach bug, but drug addiction? No way! His addiction was relent- hide behind fake smiles, hide our keys, and hide our wallets. Yet, when asked by others, “How are less. It changed him, changed us, and changed our you doing?” we are always “fine”, the acronym for family in ways I never thought possible. By the “failure to identify numerous emotions.” time it was all said and done, we had lost everyYes, the toll addiction takes on family, thing... our home, our automobiles, our direction in friends, and loved ones is enormous and it is life, our serenity, and we were penniless. We went painful. But, before you start thinking this is just a from “having it all” to having nothing. I had felt story of gloom and doom, I want to assure you, it is great fear before in my life, but never had I known not. There is help and, most of all, there is hope. fear like this... that gut wrenching raw fear that By the time I made it to my first Al-Anon turns your stomach, breaks your heart, robs you of meeting, I was totally exhausted in every sense your peace, keeps you from thinking clearly, keeps of the word. I had no idea what to expect from you from breathing deeply, and keeps you awake this meeting, but from the moment I walked in at night. It was all-consuming, and a very high toll the room, I felt safe. Though I did not know a to pay as a wife. single soul there, I knew them; and, I knew that Those of us who are family members of they knew me. We sat in a large circle and as we someone in active addiction often become very went around the room, person after person began good “hiders.” We withdraw and isolate to avoid
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to share their hope, strength, and experience. I can honestly say that even if no one had opened their mouth to speak a single word that night, and all we did was sit in a circle and stare at each other, I would have still felt at peace. There is something calming, something reassuring, and yes, even something spiritual, about being in a room with a group of others who understand your fear and know your desperation. I am not talking about “misery loves company.” I am talking about “hope breeding hope.” Today, I continue my own recovery through my Al-Anon program. Though I have not “arrived,” I am so much farther down the road than when I first started this journey. For me, Al-Anon has been life-changing--a shelter from the storm, so to speak. I am not a spokesperson for Al-Anon, but I want to share with you just some of the things that I have learned. Some of it I have learned through the Al-Anon literature. Some of it I have learned through my own trial and error. But, most of it I have learned from other Al-Anon members who faithfully show up week after week at meetings and share their own hope, strength and experience, so that people like me can also find hope and strength to go on.
I have learned that though enabling the addict “feels” like love, it is actually harmful and not helpful to the one I love.
I have learned the Twelve Steps of Recovery truly work, and it is an amazing way to live my life.
I have learned that “letting go and letting God” is a huge step of faith for me, and though it was not always easy for me to do, it restored my sanity on more than one occasion.
I have learned forgiveness sets two people free – the one I forgive, and me.
I have learned even though pain in my life is unavoidable, misery is optional. I have learned that turning my life and my will over to the care of God is something I have to do on a daily basis, and when I do that, my day goes a whole lot better. I have learned that starting my day with prayer and meditation helps me stay focused on the solution and not the problem. I have learned God never intended for me to shoulder the weight of the consequences of someone else’s poor choices or addictive behavior.
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I have learned it is not within my power to fix or change another person, and I breathe so much easier just writing that statement.
I have learned that “if nothing changes...nothing changes.” And, whatever I am willing to tolerate will continue.
I have learned serenity is a matter of choice and not chance.
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I have learned my higher power, who I know as God, is almighty, loving, full of grace, and full of compassion. He is a God who rescues, restores, and redeems. He is a God of hope.
*************************** When my father passed away in 1982, he died a godly man with many years of sobriety. By the grace of God, my husband has been clean and sober for more than 22 years. Just as there is help and hope for the addict and alcoholic, there is help and hope for those of us who love them. For me, I found help and hope through Al-Anon. No matter what you may be facing today, I pray you never give up and that you never, ever, lose hope.
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What Makes a Woman “Phenomenal” What makes a lady to be considered “phenomenal”? Is it the one with a sassy personality? A fine stature? A beautiful face? A cut above the rest of us? Maya Angelou’s famous poem about the phenomenal woman was beautiful in character and physique; perfectly synchronized in the way only Maya could pen. Jesus’ idea of an astounding person is the one with an impressive, uncommon, and extraordinary personality. Such a lady can take up difficult challenges and see them to completion. She is not passive, but burns with the passion and zeal that reflects in everything she does. This woman loves her God and neighbor. She knows her wealth and plans accordingly. She is not confused as to who she is, or whose she is. She cannot be easily swayed or silenced. She is kind, generous, forgiving, and hardworking. Her care for her family and loved ones is matchless. “Lady Extraordinaire” seeks the will and purposes of God for her life, discharging those duties with the best of her abilities. She does so in her quest to please her Lord. She endeavors to live according to the tenets of her faith daily. Let’s look a little closer at three primary traits in the great catalog of what the phenomenal woman must possess.
1. Love and Endurance Chapter 8 in the Book of Luke describes Jesus traveling with his disciples to towns and villages in his preaching tours. Among his entourage were some women, some who were formerly demon-possessed, sick, and troubled. They had been redeemed and were full of love for Jesus, becoming River Region’s Journey
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Jesus’ most faithful, phenomenal women extraordinaire! Their passion and zeal for the Lord propelled them to follow Him everywhere the ministry took Him. You have to understand the culture of the day to fully comprehend the difficulty and the challenges involved in such mission. Remember, these women lived in an era where there were no airplanes, greyhound buses, taxis, etc. Only the well-todo traveled on horseback, by camel, or in buggies. Jesus and his disciples didn’t have a lot of money; therefore they traveled mostly on foot. Let your imagination run wild for a minute, and come on a short journey with me. We are on foot scaling the mountains, crossing the rivers, hills, and valleys from Nazareth to Bethlehem (70 miles) and back (another 70 miles). Last month’s trip took us from Nazareth to Jerusalem, a 240-mile round trip. We are extremely hot, facing 120 degrees Fahrenheit in summer. The high heat is magnified as you are experiencing your monthly cycle. The dirt and sand is gritty against your skin, making your clothes uncomfortable. You need a bathroom break but the scraggly bushes don’t offer much privacy. There are no fast-food restaurants, and the water you brought in your skin is almost spent. To ease your weary body and tend to your needs, you have to wait to get to a wooded, grassy area; it could take hours to get to such a location. And the problem with places where vegetation grows, there are hideouts for bandits and killers. 20
How difficult was a trip like that for a woman? How happy would you have been on such a mission trip? Mary and company followed Jesus in those harsh conditions with joy! They were steadfast and enduring, staying watch at his tomb and continuing to weep when everyone else left! Those were phenomenal devoted followers!
2. Generosity and Self-Sacrifice Not only did these women follow Jesus joyfully, they also took care of His material needs. They supplied the needs that arose in the ministry, giving their wealth to the One they loved. Many of these women had the means to live in comfortable houses, but knew a greater comfort traveling with their Savior. What phenomenal philanthropists!
3. Integrity and Humility
As difficult as the travel may have been on Mary and her company, they did not complain. They were not in the forefront like the twelve disciples, yet they were content to be in the kingdom. The “brothers” contended at times for power among the disciples and had to be scolded often. But you never heard Jesus scolding any of his girls! They kept their integrity, happy to serve Jesus and the disciples in modest ways. There were no strings attached to their acts of love. What phenomenal servants they were! Do you fit the bill, Sister? It’s not the swagger in our walk or the diploma on our wall that defines us as “awesome.” We need to take some pointers from these ladies from the Middle East long ago. Can you be considered a phenomenal woman? If not, let today be a game changer for you. Don’t settle for average!
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Remember Have you ever lost a loved one? Growing up, I always knew the anniversary of my grandfather’s death even though I had never met him. I would know that day had come by mother’s demeanor. She’d become contemplative and introspective. She’d often use that day to share a snapshot of her childhood and their relationship. On one occasion she shared, “My father used to take me on his city bus route Sunday afternoons in New Orleans; I still love public transportation to this day.” Reliving shared memories, his presence and his impact on her life, brought him close again and reinforced my mom’s identity as his daughter. I don’t think a year has passed that she has forgotten to remember him. Christ asks us to remember Him and His death on the cross for us. Talking with Christ daily in prayer, it is easy to forget the price He paid for the intimacy we share. Easter provides a yearly opportunity to meditate on how God’s presence has impacted us personally. Spend the day remembering that His death means our adoption as His sons and daughters. We have a good future because of Him.
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Believe Believing is not always easy; sometimes it requires work. God’s Word confirms this in John 6:29 when it says, “...This is the work of God, that you believe in Him whom He has sent.” This one verse has revolutionized my life. We know that Jesus is the one who was sent. His death has made a way for us to come to God. Now, before I act I often ask myself if my actions will reflect my belief in Christ. When I’m struggling with sin, do I believe Christ has given me power over temptation? When I am feeling unjustly treated, do I believe Christ is loving, just and he sees all that is happening to me, that He is my shield? When I struggle, there are a number of Christians to look to for examples, one being Corrie Ten Boom. In her book, The Hiding Place, she relates how she kept her belief in the Lord through a Nazi concentration camp, flea infested bedding, torture and humiliation. In all these things, she believed God, and saw His salvation. This makes Christianity uncomplicated—instead of focusing on
many commands or rules of behavior, you can simply look up and choose to believe the God who loves you unconditionally.
Give Thanks Have you ever heard the story in Luke 17:12-19 about the ten lepers that were healed by Jesus? All ten men were sentenced to a slow and painful death. All of them lost friends because of the contagious nature of their disease. They were isolated and literally rotting away. They cried out for mercy and Jesus healed them. Then a surprising and all too familiar scene takes place. Nine of ten men turn away after being healed and go on with their life without thanking the one that gave them life. So many times, I have been an ungrateful statistic; only calling for mercy in my need and forgetting to be thankful for the grace I receive. Romans 6:23 says, “For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.” Don’t forget to say thank you this Easter for God healing your sin disease and giving what you don’t deserve, pardon and new life.
Repent
Recently, a friend I know influenced a man to quit smoking—even though she never said anything to him. He had focused his attention on her because he thought she was beautiful. His growing affection for her caused him to lose his desire for nicotine. He began to think about how his harmful habit would affect her should he desire to build a relationship with her. So, he quit. Amazing! Love changed his behavior. This is a good reminder that what we focus our attention on is what we really desire. This Easter, search your heart. What do you love? It will be easy to spot. Look at how you spend your time, money, and energy. If your desire is to love Christ but you realize you’ve focused on something else, don’t be defeated. Just begin to meditate on Christ’s goodness, His beauty. Ask Him to recapture your heart. Better to focus your eyes on Him before trying to clean up your act. It is in looking at Him that you find power to change.
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Millions tune into “The Oprah Winfrey Show” daily to learn what experts are saying on everything from family budgets to dealing with in-laws. We look to those who are successful to follow their formula for success. Whose advice are you applying to your life? God gives many sure promises for those who listen to His Word and apply it. The first that comes to mind is found in Matthew 7:24-27 when Jesus promises security for your family when your listen and apply his word. He says this using a parable saying that a man who hears and applies Gods word is like a man who built his house on the rock, whereas a man who hears but doesn’t apply (doesn’t really listen) is like a man who builds his house on the sand. Storms hit both homes, and only the one whose house was built on the rock still stands after the storm. Both men heard the same words, but one man listened and built his house accordingly. Are you listening to or merely hearing the Easter message?
Receive
There was a Christian man who had a hard time controlling his tongue. He used profanity all the time. He recognized that this wasn’t right, so he shared his struggle with another Christian friend. His friend came up with a plan. He said to his struggling friend, “Why don’t you charge yourself $5 for every curse word you say. Give that money to the church offering each week.” The man agreed to follow his friend’s advice. The first week he had to write a check for $140. The next week was not much better. By the third week, the man felt defeated and told his friend he could no longer keep paying for his shortcomings or he would go broke. His friend, having compassion, came up with an alternative plan. He said, “Continue keeping track of your curses, but from now on I’ll pay the bill.” Amazingly, a change occurred. For two more weeks the man continued to use profanity but at a lesser degree. It hurt him to put that burden on his friend. By the third week, his cursing ended. The grace we’ve been given was not free; it costs our Savior a lot to be able to give it to us freely.
Meditate on the cost of His grace and let it change you as you receive it a new this Easter.
Forgive Matthew 6:12 tells us, “And forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors.” Like the Christian man who paid his friend’s cursing debt (described in point number six), you may have experienced paying the price of someone else’s sin when that sin causes you pain. When people are rude to you, insult you, ignore you, or judge you wrongly, offer your patience and forgiveness in return as a practical way of following Christ’s example of forgiveness in His death on the cross. Your forgiveness is an earthly demonstration of His love in action—longsuffering, faithful, bearing our burdens. The more we experience it ourselves, the more we can give it to others. Forgive others according to what you’ve been forgiven by Him this year. • Reprinted from www.familylife.com, written by Jennifer Loftin. Copyright (c) 2017 by FamilyLife. All rights reserved. Used by permission.
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GRACE Spring reminds us of God’s promise that there is constant and consistent rebirth. For Christians, the Resurrection of Christ is God’s most loving and powerful Promise and gift of all. Each year, Christians honor and practice the rituals of Lent, leading us to the sacred despair of the crucifixion of Jesus and the joy of the Resurrection of Christ. This affirms God’s promise of eternal life by the path to him through our faith that Christ will lead us there. This time of year it is easy to see this promise in nature’s gifts of blooming trees and flowers, the greening of grass and the gradual warming of the temperature. The earth is made new before us. We have the choice to be made new as well. Jesus reminded Christians that… “Truly, I say unto you, unless you turn and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of Heaven. Whoever humbles himself like this child, he is the greatest in the kingdom of Heaven.” (Matthew 18:3-5) Children are innocent, accepting, open, non-judgmental and available for joy. They are humble in that they are ready, willing and desirous of learning. They seem to sense that they don’t know it all, and this removes the burden of needing to be right.
How freeing and wonderful this is for them and a gift to be valued and emulated by adults. It seems that the older in years that we become, the more important it is to us that we are “right” and know enough. This view seems to turn us into people that are not accepting, are judgmental and are not often available for joy. We can choose to be different in this respect which would seem to be a good choice. If we lose humility, we may forget God’s promise of “grace”; because we may lose sight that we need it. “Throughout the ages, there have been many stories about the unearned and unsolicited action of grace. Grace is a gift that is independent of our good works or grievous errors. Like the sun, it shines freely on all.” Joan Borysenko The gift and promise of God’s grace is to me, one of the most precious. When one takes a moment to recall the peacefulness attained when receiving grace, it is a humbling and grateful place in which we find ourselves. God promises us that his grace is always there. It is up to us to choose to accept this gift. When we lose humility, we lose touch with the blessing of the ability to ask for God’s promised help when we are in trouble.Jesus says, “Ask and it shall be given to you; Seek and you shall find; Knock and it shall be opened to you. For whoever asks, receives; and he who seeks, finds; and to him who knocks, the door is opened.” (Matthew 7:7-8) We might equate a lack of humility as self- importance. By definition, self-importance is a sense that we are the center of everything, with things revolving around us. When we forget that we are all connected to each other, we become unable to see the world, God’s Creation, and his children, as 25
they are. Our perspective becomes skewed. In order to become a child again, it is necessary that we realize that we have two selves. Our higher self that is connected to God and his promises and our self-centered self that obstructs our view of the world and sometimes makes it difficult to “Take the High Road”. The part of us that is focused on self is connected to our past, and this is where judgment begins. This is why children are able to be open and accepting. They have no substantial past and are simply available to the moment. I believe that the concept of the promise of God’s grace can help us be able to let go of judging others and work to become more open to the possibility of the goodness in others. “The life of Jesus is one of the greatest teachings on freedom, humility and nonjudgmentalness.” Joan Borysenko Jesus said, ” Come to me, all who labor and are heavily laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and you will learn from me; for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” (Matthew 11:28-30) As we celebrate our Redemption through Christ in the wonderful “newness” of Spring, let us take a moment to become children again. Saralu (Sam) Belkofer is a Licensed Professional Counselor. She is a 1969 graduate of Auburn University with a BA in Education and graduated from Georgia State University with an MA in Counseling in 1988. Prior to coming to The Samaritan Counseling Center, Sam counseled adults at Chemical Addictions Program from 1994 until 1999; Therapeutic Programs, Inc., where she worked with children and foster parents of children in need of therapeutic foster care; and at Helping Montgomery Families Initiative, sponsored by Ellen Brooks and the District Attorney’s office, assisting troubled children/youth in Montgomery Public Schools and their families; and as the Montgomery County Director of Adult Outpatient Services with Montgomery Area Mental Health Authority until November 2013. Sam counsels adolescents, young adults and adults, employing psychotherapy to gain insight into problems to develop needed strategies for life transitions, survivors of abuse and neglect, addictions, forgiveness, ADHD, anxiety and depression, issues of abandonment, attachment and development of life skills.
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8800 Vaughn Road, 387.0566 Maundy Thursday April 13, 6 p.m. Stations of the Cross Friday, April 14 at 12 p.m. and 6 p.m. Easter Vigil Saturday, April 15, 8 p.m. Son Rise Service Sunday, April 16, at 6 a.m. Easter Sunday Services April 16, 9:30 a.m.
Christ Community Church 8285 Ryan Road, 273.8110 Easter Celebration April 16, 10:00 a.m.
Aldersgate UMC
6610 Vaughn Road, 272.6152 Easter Musical “Save In The Cross” Sunday, April 9 at 10:30 a.m. Holy Thursday 7:00 p.m. Thursday, April 13 Living Last Supper Drama, Holy Communion, and Homecoming Feast Service Good Friday Tenebrae Worship Service The Seven Last Words From The Cross 7:00 p.m. Friday, April 14 Egg-ceptional Egg Stravaganza This event will feature egg hunts for children of differing abilities. Free but registration is required. Call 334-356-5979 to register. Easter Egg Hunt 9:00 - 11:00 a.m. Saturday, April 15 Light breakfast, followed by traditional egg hunts for ages toddler through the 5th grade. EASTER CELEBRATION SERVICES Sunday, April 16 6:00 Sun Rise Service - Blount Cultural Park 8:15 & 10:30 A.M. Traditional Worship 10:30 A.M. Contemporary Worship
Beacon of Hope Church of God 1045 Coliseum Boulevard, 274.0932 Easter Celebration Sunday, April 16 at 10:45 a.m.
Blue Ridge Baptist Church
4471 Jasmine Hill Rd, off Hwy. 231, 567.4325 Children’s Easter Musical, lunch following with Egg Hunt Sunday, April 9 Courtyard service with breakfast following; 11 a.m. with music and Easter message April 16 at 9 a.m. and 11 a.m.
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Church of the Brook
2890 Highway 14, Millbrook, 285.5783 Journey to the Cross April 14, 4-9 p.m. Easter Services Sunday, April 16, at 10:30 a.m.
Eastmont Baptist Church 4505 Atlanta Highway, 277.6300 Passion Play April 8 and 9, 5 p.m. Easter Morning Worship April 16, 8:10 and 10:30 a.m.
Evangel Church
3975 Vaughn Road, 272.4882 Easter Egg Hunt Saturday, April 8 at 10 a.m. Easter Sunday April 16, Worship Service, 9 a.m. and 11 a.m. Evangel at Prattville (meets at Prattville Christian Academy) April 16, at 10 a.m.
First Baptist Church, Montgomery ad on Back Cover 305 S. Perry Street, 834.6310
Palm Sunday Service April 9th at 8:30 and 11 a.m. Easter Communion April 12 at 6:15 Lord’s Supper Service April 13, 6:15 p.m. Good Friday Service Friday, April 14 at 12 p.m. Easter Sunday Worship Services Sunday, April 16, 8:30 & and 11 a.m.
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9299 Vaughn Rd., Pike Road Easter Service April 16 9:25 a.m. For information call the church at 279.1372. Visit www.firstpreschantilly.com.
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Frazer Memorial UMC ad on Inside Front Cover 6000 Atlanta Highway, 272.8622 Palm Sunday April 9 at our 8 a.m., 9:30 a.m. and 11 a.m. Maundy Thursday April 13 from 7-8 p.m. Good Friday Service of Darkness 7pm, April 14, Sanctuary Old-fashioned Easter Egg Hunt April 15 from 10 a.m. until 12 p.m. Bring your little ones, from birth to 5 years old for an egg hunt and your 1st - 5th graders for fun-filled relays from days gone by--sack races, balance the egg and more! See the Easter Bunny and hear the Easter message shared through puppets. Fun crafts, snacks and face painting. At the Frazer Soccer Fields. Easter Sunrise Service 6am, April 16, Blount Cultural Park Easter services 8am, 9:30am, 11am
Frazer at Pike Road ad on Inside Front Cover Located in the Pike Road School Pike Road Easter Egg Hunt April 1 from 9:30-11:30 at M.A.N.E. 3699 Wallahatchie Road Frazer Pike Road and M.A.N.E. (Montgomery Area Non-Traditional Equestrians) are joining forces to present a fun-filled family Easter Egg Hunt in the Pike Road community. Inflatables, Games, Face Painting, Petting Zoo Photos with the Easter Bunny and 25,000 Eggs! Will you be one of the ones to find the special golden eggs? King of Glory Good Friday Concert April 14 from 6-8 p.m. Palm Sunday April 9 at our 9 a.m. and 10:30 a.m. Easter Sunday April 16, 9 a.m. and 10:30 am service in the Pike Road School
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3300 Bell Road, 272.9494 Good Friday April 14 at 7 p.m. Easter Services April 16, Easter Sunrise Service, 6:30 a.m. In conjunction with Grace @ Bell Road. Regular service, 10:30 a.m. back at Gateway.
Goodship Missionary Baptist Church
Village Green Park in Millbrook Easter Egg Hunt April 15 from 11 a.m. to 2 p.m. For more information please call (334) 538.3961 or (334) 322.1681.
Grace Presbyterian Church
5 Bell Road at Atlanta Hwy, 272.4930 Easter Sunrise Service April 16, Easter Sunrise Service, 6:30 a.m. Worship Service, 10:30 a.m.
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1849 Perry Hill Rd, Montgomery, 279.9976 At the Cross Maundy Thursday Service April 13, 4-7 p.m. in the Worship Center Easter Worship Service April 16, 10:15 a.m. Please visit hbcm.net for more information.
Church of the Holy Comforter
2911 Woodley Road, 281.1337 Palm Sunday April 9 at 10:00 am Holy Eucharist Monday, April 10 - 6 pm; Tuesday, April 11 - 10 a.m. Stations of the Cross Wednesday, April 12 at 6:00 p.m. Maundy Thursday, Holy Eucharist April 13 at 6 p.m. Good Friday April 14 at 12 noon and 6 p.m. Great Vigil April 15 – 8 p.m. EASTER SUNDAY April 16, 10 a.m. Family Service with Holy Eucharist
Lakeview Baptist Church
9225 Atlanta Highway, 213.3080 Sunrise Service Sunday, April 16, 7 a.m. (on the corner of Atlanta Hwy. and Tech. Center Dr.) Easter Worship Service Sunday, April 16, 10:45 a.m. Choir will be performing a musical.
Memorial Presbyterian Church 2130 Bell Road, 274.1018 Easter Sunrise Service Sunday, April 16, 6:30 a.m. Easter Celebration Sunday, April 16, 11 a.m.
Morningview Baptist Church 125 Calhoun Road, 272.2304 Maundy Thursday Service Thursday, April 13, 6:30 p.m. Easter Services Sunday, April 16, 10:30 a.m.
The Ridge Church
Meets at Wetumpka YMCA, 200 Red Eagle Drive Easter Sunday Services April 16, 9 a.m. and 10:45 a.m. For more information, please call 452.3650.
Ridgecrest Baptist Church
5260 Vaughn Road, 277.0011 Easter Festival April 15, 9:30 until 11:00 a.m. Games and Easter Egg Hunt for babies to 4th grade. Easter Sunday April 16 at 10:45 a.m.
Saint James UMC ad on page 7 9045 Vaughn Road, 277-3037 Palm Sunday
April 9, 9:30 a.m., Contemporary 11 a.m., Traditional worship Maundy Thursday Communion Service April 13, 6 p.m. Walk with Christ April 13 from 11 a.m. – 1 p.m., 4-8 p.m. and April 14 from 10 a.m.-8 p.m. Kinetic learning, self-paced experience as you walk through the final days and hours of Christ in the Life Center.
Good Friday Service April 14 at 6 p.m. Eggstreme Egg Hunt April 15, 3:00 p.m. Bring a basket for arts & crafts, snacks, games and more! Easter Sunday April 16: We will celebrate the Resurrection in our Worship Center and our Sanctuary. Sunrise at the Pines Service, 6 a.m. Contemporary Services: 9:30 and 11:00 a.m. (Worship Center) Traditional Services: 9:30 and 11:00 a.m. (Sanctuary)
Saint John’s AME Church 807 Madison Avenue, 265.4136 Holy Week Explosion April 12-14, 7 pm nightly Visit www.stjohnsame.com.
Taylor Road Baptist Church 1685 Taylor Rd., 271.3363 Easter Service April 16 10:30 a.m.
Thorington Road Baptist Church 450 Ray Thorington Road, 396.9376 Good Friday April 14, at 6:30 pm Easter Service Sunday, April 16 at 10:30 a.m.
Vaughn Forest Church
8660 Vaughn Rd., 279.5433 Resurrection Run and Spring in the Forrest April 15, We will have inflatables, candy, face painting, a kiddie train, an Easter Animal Petting Zoo, Easter Egg Hunt, and tons more! FREE! Easter in the Forest April 16, 9:30 a.m. and 11 a.m.
Woodland United Methodist Church
4428 Wallahatchie Rd, Pike Road, 272.7230 Palm Sunday Cantata April 9: Amazing Love How Can it Be will be performed at the 8 a.m. and 10:30 a.m. services. Easter Sunday Easter Sunrise service at 6:30 a.m. in the Courtyard. Easter breakfast will follow. Traditional Service times will be 8 a.m. and 10:30 a.m. Contemporary Service time will be 9:15 a.m.
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Another Gospel After attending a National Religious Broadcasters Convention, certainly there is much to process. It is a time for many to receive training and exhortation, to connect with practical tools in order to be better communicators of the gospel. For others, it is a time for encouragement, to be built up in the faith. My NRB experience for years has been to hear firsthand from Christian communicators, including authors, musical artists, commentators, actors, and more. I believe that one of the threads upon which I was able to explore this year at the convention in Orlando was the conflict between the true gospel and what I have referred to as “another gospel,” borrowing from the verse in Galatians 1:8 - “But even if we, or an angel from heaven, preach any other gospel to you than what we have preached to you, let him be accursed.” You could say that the “gospel” of tolerance is alive and well. At NRB, I discussed this with Nick Hall of the PULSE Movement, especially as it applies to the Millennial generation, in a conversation heard recently on The Meeting House. I also explored some of these concepts with other guests for the radio show, including Billy Graham’s granddaughter, Cissie Graham Lynch, as we discussed this new thread of tolerance which is, as I see it, a misapplication of the truth of the Scriptures. I also interviewed Millennial commentator Nick Pitts of the Denison Forum, who discussed some of the mindsets that are present within the young adult generation. I believe there is a “gospel,” really a philosophy, that is seemingly predicated on faith, love, and tolerance but is intolerant of River Region’s Journey
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those who disagree with it. A few months ago, Michael Anthony of Godfactor.com put it this way in a blog post on his website: There’s a breed of revisionist Christ-follower making the rounds on social media these days. They are not at all selfless. They are selfish and self-serving. In the name of love, they hate. In the name of tolerance, they are intolerant. Meet the progressive “Christian,” the man or woman masquerading as a follower of Jesus Christ. They are walking contradictions, not living sacrifices. In the name of progress, progressive “Christians” have regressed – and they want you and throngs of the orthodox to follow them in their downward spiral of moral, theological and social decay. They defend killing the unborn (abortion), and embrace biblically alternate views of God, heaven and hell, gender redefinition and more. Pay attention, because they are not merely after you, but also your children... Again, as Anthony suggests, they call themselves “progressive,” but they actually are “regressive.” We have to recognize that we are living in a climate of so-called “tolerance,” which is a misappropriation of the love of Christ, a love that drove our Savior to die on the cross so that we could have victory over the power of sin, not so that we can deny the existence of sin. And, the expansive love of God will perhaps motivate believers to realize the truth of our own sinfulness and perhaps to confront others in their own sin. That could be considered intolerant, but speaking the truth is the most loving act one could do for another. Certainly God has spoken the truth to us. 28
Here are some takeaways for us: • We certainly need spiritual awakening. The conflict is real, but the gospel is true. We have to make sure that this regressive stream of teachings has not permeated our own thinking. We have to examine our personal convictions and make sure that we are in line with the Scriptures. • And, while we can be challenged to be uncompromising, yet we can still be compassionate. In our devotion to Scripture, we still have the responsibility to view people, even those with whom we disagree, through the eyes of Jesus. So, even though there are some who would characterize us as being intolerant, yet we can be challenged to be a winsome force in the world. • Finally, we can continue to be bold to speak and live out our faith. That may put you in a position where people will try to silence you. I think of former Atlanta fire chief Kelvin Cochran, who wrote a book about God’s view of sexuality and ultimately lost his job, or Minnesota filmmaker Carl Larsen, who wants to uphold a Biblical view of marriage in his films, but state law demands that he present “other” viewpoints. I spoke with both of them, as well as an attorney from the Alliance Defending Freedom, at NRB, in a conversation heard on The Meeting House. We have to be people of discernment and of uncompromising devotion in order to navigate these challenging times. You can listen, download, or share conversations from NRB at www.meetinghouseonline.info.
Bob Crittenden is host of “The Meeting House”, heard weekday afternoons from 4-6pm on Faith Radio, 89.1FM in Montgomery. Described as “the intersection of faith and culture”, the program features Christian music and conversation about a variety of topics. Learn more by visiting www. meetinghouseonline.info.
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“I didn’t want to start a missions organization that looked like existing ones. I wanted to set myself apart from everyone else.” In 1999, after 15 years of being a Youth Pastor, Shawn Doss took his students on a short-term mission trip. It was this first-ever mission trip that inspired Shawn to continue taking these trips, and eventually spearhead his own missions organization. Shawn contacted Oak Park Baptist church in New Orleans in 2007 to ask them to book his youth group for a week-long mission trip. This was during the time that Oak Park was hosting hundreds of volunteers every week for Hurricane Katrina relief efforts. The church told Shawn to bring 300 people with him. He had 30. After contacting everyone he knew, Shawn ended up bringing 200 participants on the New Orleans trip. There were churches from Texas to South Carolina and everywhere in between, representing 12 different churches, many of which had never been on a shortterm mission trip before. The trip was such a success that Shawn planned another one the next year, with another 200 participants from all over the country. Years later, in 2009, Shawn quit his youth pastoring job to begin his mission efforts. He tapped into a group of churches that had never done mission trips before
because of the high cost or simply the lack of knowing what to do. In 2011, what is now Hope Missions had its official launch. During the initial stages of the execution of Shawn’s dream, he decided that he wanted his missions organization to stand out from the other ones. He began by developing a quality experience at an affordable rate, and stateside trip with Hope Missions are almost $100 less than many short-term trips provided by organizations. Shawn also wanted his organization to be able to provide both ministry and construction on the trips instead of one or the other. “Our international trips are flexible enough to take the gifts and talents of the participants and put them into practice during the week.” Shawn’s biggest priority, though, was that the mission trips be focused on the Gospel. The projects done on the trips are merely platforms on which to engage the community with the Gospel. Now, Shawn spends a lot of his Sundays and Wednesdays on the road, traveling to different churches that are either participating in a Hope Missions trip or wanting to learn how to get involved in one. “As a Youth Pastor, my favorite part of missions was as a participant. I loved working alongside my students on the mission field. Now, my participation in the actual mission activities has taken more of a “behind the scenes” role. Now I get great enjoyment out of producing a quality experience for churches and individuals to experience the excitement of short-term missions. I also treasure the relationships with church and ministry leaders that I have the privilege to work closely with around the world. Helping
with anyone before going on a trip with Hope Missions, and Shawn says that every year, there are groups and individuals alike who have taken their training and continued to be a witness when they get home. Shawn is particularly excited about the “stories we will never hear about this side of Heaven.” There are a lot of lessons learned in running a missions organization. Shawn says the biggest one he’s learned through Hope Missions is dependence on God. “There have been times that I have been discouraged and worried, but God is always faithful. I also know that God is not only faithful to me personally, He is faithful to His mission – the proclamation of the Gospel to the nations. If I stop tomorrow, God’s mission will not stop. This is His mission. I’m excited to be a small part of it.” Hope Missions currently leads 20 mission trips per year. In 2016, they organized and executed trips to every major part of the world (United States, Central America, Caribbean, South America, Africa, Europe, Southeast Asia). In the future, Shawn is looking into doing more trips in fewer locations in order to make a greater impact.
If you would like Shawn to come to your church, to go one a trip with Hope Missions or to get more information on Shawn and Hope Missions, visit www.hopemissionstrips. com. There are also opportunities to be involved with Hope Missions even if a mission trip isn’t an option for you. Hope Missions partners with churches all over to do projects that directly impact the ministries, and anyone can help. Hope Missions has a free app available on iPhone, Android and Windows. It can be downloaded at www.thegospelapp.org. There is also on email newsletter you can sign up for by texting HOPEMISSIONS to 22828.
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Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy and First UMC, Millbrook APAC- Alabama Pre/Post Adoption Connection Support Group This group provides education and social interaction for adoptive families. Montgomery Group meets 3rd Tuesdays, 6-7:30 p.m., Room 8114 at Frazer. For more information call Sonia Martin at 409-9477 or she can be reached by email at smartin@childrensaid.org. For information on the Birth Parent and Adult Adoptee Support group please contact Kathy King 205-943-5331 or email kking@childrensaid.org Location: Landmark Church, 1800 Halcyon Blvd. Leaders: Chad & Betsy Emerson (334) 201-5241 Wednesday, 6:30pm in Rm. 116. The Orphan Care Group will focus on God’s call to help orphans through adoption, foster care, and missions work. The group will share experiences, study and Biblical themes regarding orphan care, and provide a support and network.
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Alcoholic / Addict
Location: Caring Center of FBC, 52 Adams Avenue CrossRoads Support Group is for addicts/alcoholics and family members. Meets at 6 p.m. Tuesdays and follows a Christ-centered 12-step program. Call 264-4949. Location: Dalraida UMC, 3817 Atlanta Highway Alcoholics Anonymous meets at 6 p.m. on Tuesdays. 272.2190. Alanon meets at 7:30 p.m. on Wednesdays. Location: First Baptist Church (Huff Community Ministries Bldg., 200 S. Perry Street) Celebrate Recovery, a Bible-based Christ centered approach to recovery from hurts, habits and hang-ups, meets Friday nights, from 5:30 p.m.- 8 p.m. For more information, contact Jane Ferguson at 241.5141. Location: Grace Presbyterian Church, Corner of Bell Road and Atlanta Hwy. Alcoholics Anonymous and Alanon meetings are held Monday, Tuesday, Thursday, and Friday, at 6 p.m. An Open AA Speaker meeting is held on Saturday at 6 p.m. An Alanon & AA held on Sundays at 2 p.m.
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Location: Grace Point Community Church, 78223 Tallassee Hwy (Hwy 14), Wetumpka Celebrate Recovery- every Tuesday night- 6:15pm. All are welcome! These meetings are a safe and loving environment for individuals seeking to conquer their hurts, habits and hang-ups! gracepoint.info. Location: Journey Church, 2960 East Cobbs Ford Road across from The Catfish House in Millbrook Celebrate Recovery - Christ-centered 12-step for anyone struggling with addiction or life-challenging issues. Mondays at 5:30pm (meal-CrossTalk Cafe), 6-6:55 pm (large group), 6:55-7:45 (small group). Childcare available. Call Larry at 334-832-5714 or visit myjourneychurch.com. Location: Landmark Church, 1800 Halcyon Blvd. RSVP- This is a 12 step spiritual recovery program for overcoming addictions. Using the steps and Bible we help build self-esteem, responsible behavior, the making of amends for our destructive actions, and to fill the void in our hearts in a loving relationship with God. Wednesday @ 6:30pm in Rm. 121 of the Life Center.
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Location: St. James UMC, 9045 Vaughn Road Celebrate Recovery meets every Thursday night from 6-8 pm in the Youth Room. This is a Christ-centered 12-step group for anyone struggling with an “addiction or lifechallenging issues.” For information, call Chris Henderson at 334-215-0427.
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Location: Trinity Episcopal, Wetumpka (Across from Winn Dixie on HWY 231) Gamblers Anonymous-Saturdays at 7 p.m. Location: First United Methodist Church, Wetumpka 306 W. Tuskeena Street ‘Fresh Start’ Recovery meets every Thursday, 6-8pm (meal included). In 2011, Fresh Start Motorcycle Ministry (FSMM) began when God laid it on the heart of a lifetime biker to
minister to those with his background. All are welcome, not a requirement to own/ride a motorcycle. Format used is the Holy Bible. For any info contact ministry leader, Paul Henderson, 334-201-5428.
Alzheimer’s / Dementia
Location: First UMC, 2416 W. Cloverdale Park, Wesley Hall Bldg. An Adult Parkinson/Alzheimer’s respite ministry meets from 10 a.m.-2 p.m. every Monday, Wednesday and Thursday. Lunch is served. Contact Daphne at 834-8990. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy An Alzheimer’s and Dementia Caregivers’ Support Group meets on the first Thursday of each month at 11 a.m. in Room 3103. Call 272.8622. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy A Dementia Daycare is held each Thursday in Rm. 3101 from 9:30 a.m. to 12 p.m. Each participant may bring a sack lunch. There is no charge. REGISTRATION IS REQUIRED. Call the LifeCare office at 272-8622. Location: Memorial Presbyterian, 2130 Bell Road A Dementia Morning Out for caregivers is offered each Tuesday from 8:45-noon. There is no charge. Each participant may bring a sack lunch (juice provided). Registration is required by calling 274-1018.
Location: Dalraida Baptist, 3838 Wares Ferry Road. Just for Men -- Faith based cancer support group for men. Meetings are held the second Tuesday of each month at 6 p.m. in the conference center. Please call 272-2412 email stan.hurst@knology.net. Location: ChristChurch, 8800 Vaughn Road Cancer Support Group for general cancer. Tuesday afternoons at 1 pm. For more info, please call Christy Holding at 531-1390 or Debbie at 467-4578. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy. Women of Hope Breast Cancer Support Group, providing education, awareness, and mentoring for breast cancer patients/survivors, family, and friends, meets the 2nd Tuesday of each month at 5:30 p.m. in Rm 8253. Call 220-4599 or womenofhope@charter.net. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy. The Central Alabama Multiple Myeloma Support Group meets from 10 a.m. to noon the second Saturday of every month in Room 3105. We have guest speakers, video presentations, printed information and a group that welcomes sharing their journey with myeloma in an informal setting. Refreshments are provided.. Contact Lorenzo and Elaine Duncan at 334-281-8158, or at duncan6563@gmail.com.
Divorce
Location: First Baptist Church, 305 S. Perry Street Divorce Care is held Wednesdays, 6:30-8 pm. Childcare available. $15 for workbook. Dinner at 4:45 ($5 adults, $3 kids). Call Kathy Cooper at 241-5125.
Cancer
Location: Aldersgate UMC, 6610 Vaughn Rd, Montgomery Cancer Survivors Support Group is sponsored by Samaritan Counseling Center. We would love to have anyone (patient or family member ) join us. Thursdays at 1 pm. Please call before attending just to make sure we are meeting that week. Please call Debbie D at 467-4578 or Ben W at 202-1912.
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Fellowship Hall Lobby. This group will provide support & guidance to assist you in working through the issues, pain & pressures surrounding divorce. Also, are you stuck in a pattern of going back to the same relationships or situations hoping for or expecting different results? In this new study “Never Go Back”, you will recognize and truly change those life patterns that hold you back and keep you from your goals. Call 495-6368 or e-mail singles@frazerumc.org.
Location: First UMC, 100 E. Fourth St, Prattville Grief Share, Tuesday evenings at 6:30 pm in the church parlor. Call 365-5977.
Miscellaneous
Location: Frazer UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Grief Recovery Support Group meets Tuesdays at 5:30 p.m., Rm 3105, in Fellowship Hall Lobby. 272.8622.
Location: Vaughn Forest Church, 8660 Vaughn Road DivorceCare fosters a weekly supportive and caring environment to heal the hurt of separation and divorce. Call 279-5433.
Location: 5500 Ash Grove Circle, Montgomery. OCD Support Group (obsessive- Compulsive Disorder) Long showers, multiple hand washing, rituals, checking stove, hoarding and symmetry. This support group is open to anyone who has struggled with OCD. You’re not alone anymore. Call Donald: 220-7555.
Location: Grace Baptist Church, 304 Old Montgomery Highway, Wetumpka Mourning to Morning is a Christian growth group for mothers who have lost a child, from before birth through adulthood. Meets the last Thursday night of each month. For info, contact Alice Scarborough (334) 462-4775 or Gwen Ellis (334) 567-8754 or e-mail mourningtomorning@gmail.com. Join us on Facebook--Mourning to Morning Group.
Gambling
Location: Cedarwood Community Church, 10286 US HWY 231 in the Wallsboro/Wetumpka community Gamblers Anonymous, Saturdays at 6 pm. 567-0476 Location: Mental Health of America Bldg, 1116 South Hull Street, Montgomery. Sundays @ 5 pm. Location: St Paul’s Lutheran Church, 4475 Atlanta Hwy, Mondays @ 6pm. Gamblers Anonymous Hotline: 334-541-5420 or you can call 2-1-1 and ask for meeting information. Alabama Council on Compulsive Gambling: 277-5100
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Location: First Baptist Prattville, Location: Millbrook FUMC, 3350 Edgewood Rd Grief Share meets Sundays from 5-7 p.m. For more information or to sign up, please call the church office at 285-4114 or email churchoffice@mfumc.org. Location: Pilgrim Rest Missionary Baptist Church 1550 E. Washington Street Grief Ministry is a grief recovery support group that meets every Monday at 6:00 P.M. The ministry is designed to help anyone through the hurt of losing a loved one by successfully traveling the journey from mourning to joy. Alicia Glover is the coordinator. For information contact Glover at 334-281-2754.
4505 Atlanta Hwy. Compassionate Friends is a national self-help support organization for families grieving the death of a child meeting first Tuesdays at 7 pm. Call (334) 284-2721 for info.
Location: Vaughn Forest Church, 8660 Vaughn Road GriefShare is a support group that meets Wednesdays from 6-8 pm. This program is non-denominational and features biblical concepts for healing your grief. GriefShare will be led by Howard and Carol Payne and Jim Williams. Call 279-5433 for more information.
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Location: Eastmont Baptist Church, 4505 Atlanta Highway Take Heart is for women dealing with infertility and/or miscarriage. The group meets the first Monday of each month at 6 pm in room 116. Contact Melissa at (205) 9132667 for more information.
138 S. Washington Moms LIFE (Living In Faith Everyday) meets twice monthly from 8:30 - 11:45 am in the chapel at the Church from Aug May. We offer a time of fellowship, Bible study, musical guest, special guest speakers and a lot of fun!! Cost is $5 per meeting. For moms of all stages and ages of life. Childcare provided by reservation. For more info and to reserve your spot, call April Scott at 828-446-6666. Location: First Baptist Church, 305 S. Perry Street MOPS (Mothers of Preschoolers) Moms, need a little break? MOPS is a place you can share a good meal, make new friends, and find encouragement as you face the everyday challenges of raising your little ones. We have educational speakers, great conversation, and fun activities. Free childcare is provided. Meetings are every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays, 9:30-11:30 a.m., September through May. Contact Tiffany Alewine at 241-5165.
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Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Frazer mom2mom is a playgroup to connect mothers of ages birth to 5 at Frazer United Methodist Church to share fun and inspiration in our journey together, with our children, and with Christ. Email Mom2mom@frazerumc. org for more information. Location: Landmark Church, 1800 Halcyon Blvd. Single Moms Support Group, Wednesday nights at 6:30 p.m. in classroom 118. For more information call 277-5800.
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Location: Perry Hill UMC, 910 Perry Hill Road Single Moms’ Care and Support Group meets 2nd and 4th Thursdays from 6:15 - 8:00 PM. December meeting will be on the 11th. Free snack supper provided to moms and children. Child care for infants -16 years. Call 272-3174. Location: Redland Baptist, 1266 Dozier Rd, Wetumpka A MOPS group will be held 1st and 3rd Tuesday’s of every month during the school year, and has scheduled play dates and moms nights out through the summer and beyond. While moms are in a MOPS meeting, their children are lovingly cared for in the MOPPETS program. Email Denise Braswell at deniseorscott@yahoo.com . Location: Vaughn Forest Church, 8660 Vaughn Road Are you in need of a time-out? MOPS joins mothers together by a common bond, to be better wives, moms, and friends along this journey in the trenches of motherhood. We meet the 1st and 3rd Tuesday of each month from 9:30—11:30 a.m. Childcare is provided. For info e-mail VFCMOPS@gmail.com.
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Physical Challenges
Location: Aldersgate UMC, 6610 Vaughn Road Visually Impaired Support Group – Meets monthly on second Thursday 1:00 – 2:30 p.m. The group is called
Outward Sight - Inward Vision and is for those with vision loss and their caregivers. Our mission is to assist those experiencing vision loss to maintain their independence by providing access to valuable information and spiritual support. Call 272-6152. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy An MDA/ALS Support Group will meet Tuesday August 10 6:00p.m. – 8:00 p.m. in room 3101. Anyone affected by a neuromuscular disease or family members of those affected. To receive information, call 3964534. Location: Vaughn Park Church, 3800 Vaughn Rd. Montgomery Area Down Syndrome Outreach Group meets 2nd Friday of each month from 6:30- 8 PM. We have activities, speakers and special events throughout the year for the parents, siblings and children with Down Syndrome Childcare is provided. Please visit our website at www.montgomeryareadownsyndrome. com or visit our Facebook page (MADSOG) for more information. Please contact MADSOG at montgomeryareadownsyndrome@gmail.com for more information.
Same Sex Attraction
Location: Huff Community Ministry Building of First Baptist Church at 200 S. Perry Street Upstream Support Group for those dealing with unwanted same sex attraction and family members or loved ones of those who are gay identified. The group meets at 6:30 pm every first, third and fifth Tuesday evenings. For more information call 334.452.0620.
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Singlehood
Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Boundaries study for singles meets each Tuesday from 6-7:30pm in the Fellowship Hall Lobby. This study will help singles learn to set boundaries with emotions and help avoid the harmful behavior of others. For more information, call 495-6386 or email singles@ frazerumc.org. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Single and Parenting! A New Group for Single Mom’s. This group meets every Tuesday from 6-7:30pm for hope & encouragement & guidance & parenting ideas. For information, call 495-6386 or email singles@frazerumc.org. Location: Cornerstone Christian, 301 Dalraida Rd. Unavoidably Single Again (USA) Fellowship, a support group for widows and widowers. Informal meetings for fellowship and fun are held on the third Saturday of each month starting at 10 AM. Contact Lynda at farauthor@aol.com or 354-8869.
Veterans
Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Veterans OEF/OIF Caregivers Support Group meets on the 3rd Wednesday from 11am-1pm in Room 3108. Contact LaQuana Edwards, Caregiver Support Coordinator at CAVHCS (334) 727-0550 ext. 5350.
Email your support group info to deanne@readjourneymagazine.com!
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I know you’re big on bargains and saving money. How do you feel about warehouse clubs, like Costco and Sam’s Club?
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A. We have both of those in our neighborhood, and I’m a big fan. There are definitely some good buys and great bargains to be had in places like that. To be honest, my wife is probably a bigger fan than I am. I suspect we save more money from her trips than mine to those spots. I will advise you to watch your spending carefully in warehouse clubs. Most people overbuy in situations like that, especially those of us who are spenders by nature. Believe it or not, I’m a spender by
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nature. To this day, if I’m not careful, I’m still bad about buying things I don’t need – or too much of the things I do need – in warehouse clubs. Have fun in there, and make sure you find some steals on smart things you can stock up on. Just don’t go crazy and wreck your budget by overspending!
Q. When it comes to making a will, would it suffice to sit down and write it all out on a piece of paper, then have it notarized? A. I would never advise someone to write their own will, unless, of course,
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they’re an attorney in that state. Laws can vary from state to state, and some states may not look upon a document like that as being official under law. Some even require witnesses, and a notary might not be good enough. If you’re trying to save money by doing it this way, I would strongly urge you to look at involving a lawyer as an investment. In most cases, having a reputable lawyer draw up a legally correct, state-specific will doesn’t cost a lot of money. At the very least, go online to USLegalForms.com. They have all kinds of state-specific legal forms, including wills. Your last will and testament is one of the most important legal documents you’ll ever be part of. Please don’t try to do this yourself. I’ve run into so many families who, in the midst of grieving the loss of a loved one, were handed a handwritten piece of paper that wouldn’t hold up in court. That kind of thing just adds more stress to an already heartbreaking situation.
plan
1. Stay informed
2. Learn about basic injury and disease prevention 3. Look for the most current information on emergency preparedness 4. Create a family preparedness plan 5. Become familiar with the emergency plans of your community
prepare store essential items Water Food Can Opener First Aid Kit Flashlight
Radio Clothes Personal Care Items Important Documents
practice Practice and review your preparedness plan every six months Plan. prepare. practice.
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Holy Week Opportunities FIRST BAPTIST CHURCH MONTGOMERY
Saturday , April 8 10:00 am to noon
SPRING CELEBRATION
Sunday , April 9 8:30 & 11:00 am
PALM SUNDAY WORSHIP
5:45 pm
NO CHILDREN’S CHOIRS, DISCIPLESHIP CLASSES OR OTHER ACTIVITIES
6:15 pm
EASTER COMMUNION WORSHIP
Friday , April 14 12:00 pm
9:45 am
GOOD FRIDAY WORSHIP
5:00 pm
Sunday , April 16
BIBLE FELLOWSHIP CLASSES DISCIPLESHIP CLASSES, VISITATION, CHILDREN’S MISSIONS & YOUTH CHOIRS
6:15 pm
EVENING WORSHIP
Wednesday , April 12 5:00 pm
FIRST FAMILY DINNER
8:30 & 11:00 am
EASTER WORSHIP CELEBRATION
9:45 am
BIBLE FELLOWSHIP CLASSES
5:00 pm
NO DISCIPLESHIP CLASSES, VISITATION, CHILDREN’S MISSIONS OR YOUTH CHOIRS
6:15 pm
EVENING WORSHIP
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