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Volume 19, Issue 2

Feature Articles

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Publisher’s Note page 16

Jason Watson

Ministry Spotlight:

Re-Invention

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Pastor's Perspective Dr. Lester Spencer, Saint James UMC

by Ashley Sherlock

Discover this unique ministry that’s helping transform women’s lives by the work of their own hands. Kellie Guthrie tells the story of what led her to begin Re-Invention and how it is empowering women in the River Region.

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Pondering the Journey Sam Whatley

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Women Arising Pastor Kemi Searcy

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The Intersection

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VBS Guide

Bob Crittenden

It’s time to register your kids for one or more of the great Vacation Bible School opportunities happening throughout the River Region this summer. Our guide has all the info you need!

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Counselor’s Corner Rebecca Morris, LPC

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What Makes Dad Special by David Mathis

With Father’s Day on June 18, its fitting to look at what makes dads special by what they bring to the lives of their children. Moms and dads have distinct offerings to bring to the table, and while they do overlap at times, fathers have a unique role to play. 1

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Books to Read page 8

Around Our Community page 12

Faith @ Work page 26

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Our Mission... We believe the Good News concerning the life, death and resurrection of Jesus Christ is worth sharing with our friends and neighbors in the River Region. Each month we deliver this life-changing message to the centers of activity across our community in a user-friendly and relevant way to empower and equip all those seeking to grow closer to God. Join us in this mission by sharing a copy with your neighbor or by becoming an advertising partner starting next month.

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From the Publisher I’ve been a father for 20 years now and have seen many sides of that role. As our kids have gone through different stages I’ve learned a lot about both them and myself. When they were very young I confidently controlled their behavior through threats of restriction. Those were simple times. You older parents might find yourself chuckling with me because you know life doesn’t remain simple. I sure am thankful God allowed me to gradually learn that’s the case. “Simple discipline” became inadequate as our children aged and struggled, so at this point, my wife and I are left with the Gospel and we’ve learned it’s enough. Life has a way of pulling back the veil so that our naïve thoughts are flushed out. How then do we see our way through the complexities - the beauty and the brokenness of life? By walking alongside our loving and good heavenly Father. God poured out His amazing love on those who believe. We’re a mess of self-focused actions without being rescued by God through His Son Jesus. Through Jesus, the Messiah, God adopts us as His children and empowers us to walk in the freedom of His love and righteousness. That’s the Gospel and it’s enough! The antidote for the struggles of this life is to celebrate and proclaim the amazing love of God the Father... a one-way love full of grace and mercy towards wander-prone children. Now, 20 years into being a father, my number one goal is to help my children know the amazing love of God the Father. That’s what I need. That’s what they need. It’s what you need. As we celebrate fathers this month look to your heavenly Father and celebrate His amazing love. Then we’ll become the good fathers we desire to be because God’s love will flow through us to our children. The Gospel is enough.

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Pastor’s Perspective

Dr. Lester H. Spencer, Jr., Saint James United Methodist Church

Keeping a Positive Attitude Most of us have heard or read many a message about the importance of having a positive attitude. However, if you are like me, I need to be reminded regularly in my life journey about the powerful impact my attitude has on myself and others around me! My absolute favorite quote about the importance of a positive attitude is from Chuck Swindoll: “The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than failure, than success, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness, or skill. It will make or break a company, a church or a home. The remarkable thing is that we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change the past. Nor can we change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We also cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is a our attitude. I am convinced that life is 10 percent what happens to me and 90 percent how I react to it. And so it is with you--- we are in charge of our attitudes.”

Over the years, I have remembered and often quoted this to my myself and to others. So, how does one keep a positive attitude? It’s easy when everything is going your way and life is good. And, while some people seem to possess a naturally positive attitude, I believe most of us have to work at it. But how do you develop and maintain a positive attitude through the many ups and downs of your life as well as your business? Or, if you’re struggling to be positive, how do you change your attitude? As a Christian, I find my hope in Christ, and I look to the teachings of Jesus, the Bible and to certain Christian authors or teachers for inspiration, guidance and direction. Here are SIX IMPORTANT KEYS I’ve discovered over the years that help me keep and maintain a positive attitude and/or change my attitude:

1) Take heart in Christ “I have told you all this so that you may have peace in me. Here on earth you will have many trials and sorrows. But take heart, because I have overcome the world.” - Jesus, John 16:33 River Region’s Journey

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By God’s grace, I strive to be defined by how Jesus views me. Therefore, I take heart in the fact that I am a new creature in Christ designed to live an abundant life and to fulfill His purpose for my life. He came to set all of us free to live life as an adventure. We can experience His peace in our hearts in the midst of the many trials and sorrows. Take heart, we are overcomers through Christ! Remember, the Word of God is your sword (Ephesians 6:17), and your greatest defensive and offensive weapon when it comes to protecting your heart and your attitudes.

2) Seek to have the attitude of Christ “You must have the same attitude that Christ Jesus had.” - Paul, Philippians 2:5

Jesus was humble. Jesus looked for the best in others. Jesus didn’t ever seek revenge. Jesus forgave. Jesus fully trusted in the Father as his source. Jesus sought to serve rather than to be served. I seek to remind myself each day to have the attitude of Jesus in my feelings towards others and my dealings with all people and circumstances.

3) Think on positive things “Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirableif anything is excellent or praiseworthy-- think on these things.” - Paul, Philippians 4:8

Thoughts precede actions. Therefore, your thoughts will determine your ultimate direction. What you think about impacts what you talk about which impacts the actions you take and the decisions you make. That’s one reason the Bible tells us to take every thought captive to make it obedient to Christ. (2 Cor. 10:5) If we will “think on these things”, as described in Philippians, we will see a shift in our attitude!

4) Choose to be with positive people “He who walks with wise people will be wise. But the companion of fools will suffer harm.” - Proverbs 13:20 “Do not be deceived: Bad company corrupts good character.” - 1 Corinthians 15:33

It is vital, I have learned, to choose my close friends very carefully. My closest friends are very strong Christ followers who have very positive attitudes. They build me up and encour-

age me, but they are also people who are not afraid to speak truth into my life. I’m very blessed to have my wife as my best friend. I also have several very close friends that I see and talk to regularly.

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5) Speak positively The Bible teaches that your words have the power to impact you and others! “The words of the godly are a life giving fountain.” - Proverbs 10:11 “ Let everything you say be good and helpful, so that your words will be an encouragement to those who hear them.” - Paul, Ephesians 4:29

My friend, Pastor Jay Wolf, recently wrote an excellent article about the power of words. He is exactly right when he states we have to learn to manage our mouths for the sake of others and for our own sakes too. Because it impacts our attitude and the attitudes of others around us.

6) Pray positive prayers

I pray everyday. I try to pray specifically about particular situations, and, often, I pray out loud when I’m by myself. I’m honest with the Lord in my prayers and sometimes I will vent to the Lord if I’m discouraged or upset. But I also claim His promises and pray positively and boldly claiming His grace and power over my life, my marriage, my family, my church and my friends! Practice these six keys to keeping a positive attitude, and I believe you will see a major difference in your outlook on life! You will also experience the joy of having a positive impact on everyone around you!

Dr. Lester Spencer is the Lead Pastor at Saint James United Methodist Church in East Montgomery at the corner of Vaughn Road and Ryan Road. Lester and his wife, Janeese, have been married for 28 years and have three children. Perhaps Lester is best known in the River Region for his “Perceptions” radio and TV spots aired daily on 92.3 WLWI, 95.1 The Fox, and WCOV Fox TV Network.

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How to Understand and Apply the New Testament by Andy Naselli

Whenever I begin to read a new book, I immediately look to the opening pages for a clear statement of purpose. Why did the author write this work? What sets it apart from others? When it comes to Andy Naselli’s How to Understand and Apply the New Testament, he wastes no time. Here are his opening sentences: “I love God, and I love studying his Word and his world. I wrote this book to help you study the New Testament, specifically how to do exegesis and theology.” That makes it plain. After I’ve found the statement of purpose, I look for the audience. For whom did the author write this book? As it happens, that’s where Naselli goes next—it’s for students, it’s for pastors and people with theological training, and it’s for thoughtful men and women who have little or no formal theological training. For the first group, it could be a textbook for a college or a seminary course on biblical interpretation. And, indeed, it had its genesis in a course Naselli prepared for Logos. For the second group, it might refresh and enhance their existing knowledge of how to understand and apply the New Testament. For the final group, it will be an introduction to the art and science of interpreting God’s Word. River Region’s Journey

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Once I’ve found the purpose and audience, I try to wrap my mind around the structure. How will the author lead the reader through the subject? In this case, Naselli offers twelve steps over the course of twelve chapters. But first, he introduces his subject by discussing exegesis, or drawing the meaning out of a text. “Exegesis interprets a text by analyzing what the author intended to communicate. Exegesis is simply careful reading.” When it comes to exegeting the New Testament, this includes studying the original Greek, looking carefully at individual words, accounting for genre, and so on. “Exegetes are primarily concerned with interpreting a text, that is, discovering what the author meant.” Put simply, “The text means what the text’s author meant.” That is a simple and obvious way of saying it, yet so much of what passes for Bible teaching today reads meaning into the text instead of drawing meaning from it. That simple distinction makes all the difference. This may all sound very complicated and intimidating. At times it is. But the practice itself is familiar to all of us, for we all exegete every day. When we read the news or study books or skim emails, we do the work of finding the meaning of a text, of finding out what the author meant to communicate. We’re natural exegetes and need only to learn what makes exegeting the Bible different from exegeting other texts. Naselli breaks down the process of doing New Testament exegesis into twelve steps. It is important to understand that these steps are more logical than chronological. The skilled 6

theologian will know which to consider at length and which to consider briefly. He or she will also be able to perform many of them simultaneously. Yet each step plays an important role in the right understanding and careful application of each text. Through those twelve chapters, Naselli unpacks how to be a careful, skillful exegete. At least, he unpacks how he ensures he is a careful, skillful exegete. He pulls back the curtain on his own method in order to allow people to learn from and imitate him. This is not the one and only method to be a successful exegete. Rather, it is one theologian’s studied, thoughtful, proven method. Many months ago, Naselli asked if I would read his book, offer suggestions to improve it, and even pen an endorsement. As you look over the long list of endorsers just inside the front cover, you may spot a notable difference between most of the other people and me: while most of them are professors and scholars with academic pedigrees, I am just a guy with a blog. But I’m a guy with a blog who loves to read and loves to learn. I have found significant value in what I call ‘stretch reading’: reading that pushes me to the edge of my understanding and sometimes even a little beyond. This book was just such a stretch read but represented a challenge that I am glad I accepted. Naselli is one of my favorite authors because of the combination of his soundness as a theologian and his giftedness as a teacher. Both qualities are on bright display here as he encourages and equips readers to better appreciate, understand, interpret, apply, and teach the precious Word of God. Let this be a personal encouragement from me to you: Consider reading this book. Take the challenge and through it enjoy a deep, compelling, exciting look at God’s Book.

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Motion Conference for Students

Karen Kingsbury’s LOVE STORY TOUR

July 27-29, BJCC Legacy Arena 2100 Richard Arrington Jr. Blvd N Birmingham The Motion Student Conference is a catalyst weekend for students to be empowered by Jesus to put their faith into motion and be inspired, encouraged, and equipped to start the school year strong for Jesus. Guest speakers include: Steven Furtick, Christine Caine, Rich & Dawncheré Wilkerson, Mark Pettus, Chris Hodges and more. Worship will be lead by Hillsong United, Lecrae, Passion Band, Elevation Worship and Highlands Worship.

A night of laughter, learning, and loving Featuring stories from Karen’s Baxter Family

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Join bestselling author Karen Kingsbury as she brings her New York Times bestselling Baxter Family to the stage in the Love Story Tour. With 25 Baxter books, Karen will take you back to the beginning of the Baxter Family and the love story that started it all. You’ll laugh and cry and talk about how much God loves you! Karen will share two talks and a Q&A session with a host from your church. The night will be filled with encouragement, love and laughter. The audience will walk away uplifted, encouraged and challenged to love even more. Also, each ticketholder will receive a special gift from Karen - her new book, Love Story ($22.99 value)! Friday, June 30, at 7:00 pm, Eastmont Baptist Church 4505 Atlanta Highway For more information, call 277-6300.

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The all new Summer Patriot Camp for children is planned for Tuesday-Friday, June 13-16, at His Vessel Ministries in the Union Station, downtown Montgomery. The Patriot Camp is designed to teach young children ages 6 through 12 about the founding history of our nation. This is the sixth year His Vessel Ministries has hosted Patriot Camp! The teaching curriculum includes not only learning the history about each topic but also fun-filled activities, crafts, and snacks. Also incorporated into each teaching topic will be how God was actively involved in the founding of this great nation. For information or to register children, contact His Vessel Ministries at 334-356-4478 or info@hisvessel.org.

Fish Fry and “Work and Witness” Yard Sale On Sunday, June 11, Capital City Church of the Nazarene is hosting a Community Fish Fry at 5:00 evening. Cost is $6.00 per person. The community is invited! On Saturday, June 17, the church is hosting a Community “Work and Witness” yard sale from 6 am until noon. There will be something for everyone! Capital City Church of the Nazarene is located at 4450 Vaughn Road in Montgomery. For more information please call 272-6184.

Tim Hawkins at MPAC Saturday, July 15, at 7:30 p.m. Montgomery Performing Arts Centre Since giving up his job as a grocery truck driver in 2002, Tim Hawkins has been establishing himself as one of the most in-demand comedians in the country. The perils of marriage, homeschooling, and growing up in the Midwest make for really good punchlines. Tickets begin at $16 and are on sale at the MPAC box office, online at Ticketmaster. com or by phone at 800-745-3000.

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Spiritual Warfare Teaching Saturdays June 24, July 22, and August 26 at His Vessel Ministries Teaching by Jo Hancock His Vessel Ministries is hosting a special teaching event, Spiritual Warfare Saturdays June 24, July 22, and August 26, 2017 from 9am-noon at the Vessel Room located in the Historic Union Station in downtown Montgomery, Alabama. Jo Hancock will conduct the teaching with each training building on the previous teaching. Learn how to protect your home from spiritual attacks. There is no registration fee a love offering will be accepted. For more information regarding Spiritual Warfare or to register, e-mail info@hisvessel.org or call 334-356-4478. His Vessel Ministries provides Christ-centered teachings that point people to the Truth that will stir and challenge individuals to love God with all their heart, soul, and strength so they become the vessel that pleases God. This is carried out through Bible teachings, yearly discipleship trainings, and special teaching events. The ministry also focuses on making the home a sanctuary where Father God may dwell. Located in Historic Union Station in downtown Montgomery where the Bible teachings and discipleship classes are conducted. Visit our website www.hisvessel.org or www.facebook/hisvesselministries.

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The Keffers Live in Concert

June 11th at 11:00am ,The Keffers live in concert at Saint James UMC on Vaughn Road! While their family ministry and musical heritage spans over 30 years, it wasn’t until 1992 that the Keffers were introduced to Southern Gospel radio and fans alike with their national debut. And in the years since, they’ve continued to garner much attention with their unique blend of family harmony with a youthful approach.. Visit: sjlife.com.

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Honor Your Father Campaign

The Honor Your Father campaign is a nationwide collaborative effort involving hundreds of organizations, community groups and churches designed to encourage people everywhere to follow the simple command found in the Holy Bible: “Honor Your Father ...” The goal is to encourage Christians, first and foremost, to honor (thank, encourage, acknowledge, esteem) their Dads or a father figure, regardless of whether or not he is around or involved in their lives. Imagine the national and global impact if every family, organization, and church were sharing the same message this Father’s Day: for children, young and old, to Honor Your Father. The Honor Your Father Campaign is a simple, scriptural, and relevant way to help dads and those they influence. Get involved today whether you are a church or an individual! When a child, young or old, reaches out to their Dad simply to say thank you, that act alone can open doors for new conversations, reconnections or even reconciliation. That is our main hope and prayer through this campaign. Visit us at honoryourfathertoday.com where you will see short videos from Stephen Kendrick, the producer of FIREPROOF, COURAGEOUS, & WAR ROOM, recording artist Tim Timmons, truth spoken by MLB player Darryl Strawberry, actor Kirk Cameron, and the list goes on with James Spann (Rick & Bubba - Weatherman) telling his story of being a fatherless child. There really is something on our site that will touch your heart this Father’s Day and beyond. Remember, while your there to PICK 2 and join the movement! Like us on Facebook @ facebook.com/fatherhoodcomission.

Summer Spectacular Concert

June 6th, 7pm St James United Methodist Church, 9045 Vaughn Rd. Montgomery The Capitol Sounds Concert Band will perform selections from “The Planets” by British composer Gustav Holst, and the Slavonic March by Russian composer Peter Tchaikovsky. The event is free and open to the public, but donations are gladly accepted and will go toward performances for the upcoming 2017-18 season, including the Children’s Concert.

The Year of Wisdom, Glory & Recovery

June 6-9, 7 pm nightly Macedonia Miracle Kingdom Conference Center, 3070 Selma Highway. This is the 2017 Apostolic Pentecost Summer Convention. Cost is $35 and you may call 284.8535 for info or to register.

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RRJ: You mentioned that while growing up in Baton Rouge, you were a Christ follower. Since you have grown in your relationship with Jesus, how has that changed you from being a follower to being more of a witness? Tim: I was raised by a great mom and dad who loved the Lord and led by example. I grew up in Baton Rouge and probably dealt with a lot of insecurities. I struggled with trying to fit in and being liked. I wouldn’t say I was a great witness in my young days, more of a follower than a leader. I still struggle with selfishness, but I believe when you have been touched by the grace of God you don’t have the right to remain silent. And I have received mercy and grace and am very grateful. RRJ: Do you remember when you first realized your need for Christ’s offer of salvation? River Region’s Journey

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Tim: I remember when I was 12 years old I went forward at church and confessed Jesus as Lord and was baptized. I remember that like it was yesterday. Later in life, I got married. Life was very busy and although married, I made a lot of mistakes. I was very selfish, not always honest, and made horrible financial mistakes that affected my family. At that time, I truly believe I needed help...I felt like giving up. I remember my wife calling and telling me that she still believed in me. Her words kept me going. God’s Word says He disciplines the ones He loves and I have no doubt He loves me! Romans 5:3-5 says to count it a joy when you go through trials. I believe that is when I really grew; in the valley learning to lean on Him. God gave me an unbelievable helpmate who kept me going. We learn more about God’s unfailing love and His faithfulness during hard times. During the trials, He kept sending me angels over and over again. I learned to lean on the Lord, to talk to Him, and trust Him. Through all my struggles, I realized how much God cares for us and He is faithful! 1 Peter 5:7 says, “Cast all your cares upon Him for He cares for you.” I can relate to 2 Corinthians 1:9… “We thought we would die. This happened so we would not put our trust in ourselves, but in God who raises the dead.” RRJ: I know you are employed with Earthlink/Windstream. What is your position there? What challenges do you face in the workplace? Tim: I have worked for Earthlink, now Windstream, for 27 years as an account sales director. I have been blessed with unbelievable opportunities and customers that I do not take for granted. I’m very thankful for my job. Many of my 12

customers have become friends whom I always enjoy encouraging and hearing what is going on in their lives and with their families. My biggest challenge is the balance between my customers and quality time with my family, plus other obligations such as ministering to those God puts in my path. RRJ: God uses people in our lives to show us His love. How has He done that in your life? Tim: God blessed me with wonderful parents. My mom passed away just last year. She was someone who always put others first... a very selfless, beautiful person. I don’t ever remember hearing my mother say anything bad about me. She disciplined me, challenged me and encouraged me. And she always loved me unconditionally because I was hers and she brought me into this world. To me, she was a great example of God’s love. He brought us into this world and is crazy about us and longs for us to have a relationship with Him. He wants us to be grateful and love Him back. My wife, Sharon, also is a great example of God’s love in how she serves at Tutwiler prison several days a week. She has an amazing ministry there loving on the unloved and forgotten. She reminds me of how Jesus taught about real service in Mathew 25, “And the King will say, ‘I tell you the truth, when you did it to one of the least of these my brothers and sisters, you were doing it to me!’” God’s love for us is so big! The Word says that the mind cannot even comprehend how big it is! RRJ: Within the past year, you have experienced several hard life struggles including your son’s horrific car acci-

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dent and your mother’s death. How has your faith in God held you during these trials? Tim: This past year I was so blessed to become a grandpa! But just thirteen days later, my mom went to be with the Lord. A celebration for her, but I will miss her so much. A few months later, Sharon and I received a phone call that our son was in a horrible accident and had to be air lifted to the hospital. He had not been wearing his seat belt and was thrown from him truck while it flipped many times. I could barely move while driving to the hospital because I feared my son was dead. He made it but was in a coma for two days. It is a true miracle he is alive today! My faith in God let me know that God has a great plan for him. All of these experiences have been reminders of how precious life is. It reminds me of the day a dear friend of mine, Craig Hopson, called me to his office just three weeks before he died. He told me to stop worrying so much about things that are out of my control. He said, “Man, your life can change on a dime.” And he handed me a dime. Life is a gift! RRJ: Tim, you mentioned that your own past mistakes have helped you to be able to relate to others. What scriptures and/ or analogies do you use to reach people?

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On the Way to Arabia I have a friend (let’s call her Tina) who had a divine appointment on a military plane to Saudi Arabia. She later accepted Christ. These are her words.

In June 2002, I was given a two-day notice of a deployment to Kuwait. Throughout the 36 hours of my first journey out of the United States I saw my first volcano, first mountainside, first islands and ate my first meal on an airplane. At the last military drop off… I had an entire row to myself and was happy to be able to stretch out and sleep before the final leg of the trip. However,

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a woman came and sat next to me. I wanted her to leave, but she just sat there. The plane took off and I began to cry, not just because I was irritated with this woman sitting next to me, but because the next stop was our destination. Before I left Montgomery that morning, I managed to pack a Christian self-help book my sister gave me. I pulled the book out and the woman next to me spoke. “Hey, little sister. Why are you crying? Are you afraid?” she asked tenderly. The tears just came. I didn’t know. I had no idea. I just knew this woman clearly needed to move to a different row and stop talking to me. I was so caught off guard by her question, but at the same time felt something shift inside me. I couldn’t say a word so I just cried. The woman tenderly said, “The Lord has gotten your attention, I see. You better figure out why He has brought you all the way out here. Because if you don’t, He is going to bring you right back.” She introduced herself as... Sylvia. She informed me that she starts a Bible study at every base she is stationed and asked me to look her up when we landed. She insisted that we needed to “ask the Lord why He brought me here.” Then she got up and moved to a different seat. Hours later we landed in Saudi Arabia, not Kuwait. After about a week of adjusting to the new environment, I did as Sylvia instructed. 14

In the weeks to come we met every Monday night with a group of women. We didn’t listen to a sermon or sing hymns, but we held hands and prayed out loud. Not the Lord’s prayer, but deep, hurting, yearning, emotional prayers as if He was in the room and listening. I knew something was different about the way these women encountered Jesus. My anxiety and fear about being in country was growing, but at the same time I could feel my heart and mind being pulled more and more upwards to trust in something other than myself. One night I was sitting on a bench looking out over the vast red dessert… I could hear the Muslim prayer over the loud speakers. I was sitting there thinking about how those in the Bible walked and lived places not so far from where I was, how dark it must have been for them in the middle of the desert, how scared they must have been at times, and I suddenly felt a warmness and peace all throughout my body. I didn’t hear an audible voice, but heard in my heart and mind a voice say, “I am with you. Do not be afraid.” From that moment on, I knew the God I had been learning to pray to was real and living and I wanted to know Him more. On that bench overlooking the deserts of Southwest Asia I committed my life to following the Lord.

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What this new thing would be, Kellie didn’t know at first. In 2007, after relocating to Alabama along with the help of a few divine appointments, Kellie flew to Bangkok, Thailand to work with NightLight International, a ministry and social business that works on the front lines of Bangkok’s sex trafficking industry. “This was an experience that forever changed my life. I was wrecked by the devastation I saw and yet so inspired by the beauty of lives being transformed not just through the opportunity to leave such horrible circumstances for a better work environment, but to have their lives completely transformed from the inside-out by the power and love of Jesus. I couldn’t believe what I was seeing…that mission/ministry and business really could come together. I’d found my calling! Although devastated by the horrible brokenness I had seen, I was inspired. I know from my own life experience that at the point where there seems to be nothing left, everything is possible.” “Once you see something like that,” Kellie said, “there’s no turning back. You have to do something about it.” So she did. After returning from Thailand, Kellie started up Re-Invention, a social business committed to creating jobs and an environment where women can afford to go to work. As a social business, Re-Invention was created to address a social problem. Net-profits realized by the business are reinvested with the aim to increase the impact of problem-solving and subsidizing the social mission. Although generating a profit is desired in a social business, that is not its primary goal, and unlike a non-profit organization, a social business is self-sustainable. A social business has a structure that gathers people together with a common desire to see something of worth and purpose accomplished, and this builds a community that impacts the surrounding community. Kellie said Re-Invention’s calling is to “create a community that impacts a

community.” The community Kellie has cultivated with the women of Re-Invention is impacting the surrounding area through The Lydia Project, a collaboration of the Nehemiah Center and Community Ministries of First Baptist Montgomery. In the Lydia project, participants are trained in textile manufacturing and commercial upholstery and Re-Invention provides the initial working environment for women to make their Re-Invention goods. They receive instruction in the basic technique of each element that the project offers, and apply the instruction with supervision. Then, if they choose, they can move on to an apprenticeship with intense hands-pin training. In the future, Kellie’s dream for the Lydia Project is to be able to create another social business where those who are trained through the project can have ownership and empowerment in the business. In order to build more sustainable work, ReInvention is working on creating crucial partnerships to sew goods for other designers and manufacturers. It is Kellie’s hope that these partnerships will bring Re-Invention closer to transforming the Lydia Project into a business with more opportunities for work and an expanded training program. “Every day is a success story for ReInvention. Just the fact that we keep moving forward through what is, at times, very difficult is a daily success for us,” Kellie said. “When these women come together, we have the ability to move mountains.” Re-Invention is on Facebook as Re-Invention and Instagram as @ re_invention_. For more information on Re-Invention, volunteer opportunities and to support the business, visit www. re-invention.org. A Florida native, Ashley Sherlock made the transition to Alabama to pursue a degree in English. She has a passion for the written word, an affinity for the outdoors, a love for people, and a desire for the Lord. Photos provided by Re-Invention. “Every piece we create is one-of-a-kind and made from left-over vintage and designer fabrics.” 17

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Aldersgate United Methodist Church 6610 Vaughn Road, Montgomery Theme: Team Aldersgate: Race to Victory When: June 10-13: 5:30 p.m.-7:30 p.m. Ages: 3 yrs – 6th grade; Special Needs session - July 15, 9:30 a.m. until 11:30 Visit www.aldersgateumc.org or 272.6152. Autauga Heights Baptist Church 1393 Highway 31 N, Prattville When: June 19-23 from 6:30-8 p.m. Ages: 4 years – 6th grade Call: (334) 322.3222. Blue Ridge Baptist Church 4471 Jasmine Hill Road, Wetumpka Theme: Galactic Starveyors When: July 9-13, 6:30 to 8:30 p.m. Call 567.4325. Calvary Baptist Church 431 W. Fourth Street, Prattville Theme: The Golden Rule . When: June 3 from 9 a.m. until 3 p.m. Ages: Preschool – K; Grades 1-6 Registration Information: 334-365-5213. Camellia Baptist Church 201 Woodvale Road, Prattville Theme: Galactic Starveyors When: June 4-8, 6 to 8:30 p.m. Ages: 3 year preschool through 6th grade Register at www.camelliabaptist.com. Capital City Church of the Nazarene 4450 Vaughn Road, Montgomery Theme: Tumbleweed Gulch When: Monday, June 26-29, 6-8 pm Ages: Pre-K through 6th grade. For more information call 272-8176. Capitol Heights Baptist Church 2514 Madison Avenue, Montgomery Theme: Galactic Starveyors When: June 5-9, 9 a.m. to noon Ages: 4 years old by Sept. 1 to 6th grade. Call 264.6461. Cornerstone Christian Church 301 Dalraida Road, Montgomery When: June 10-14, 6:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Theme: Cave Quest For more information, call 334-430-7568.

Dalraida Baptist Church 3838 Wares Ferry Rd. Theme: Galactic Starveyors When: June 5-9; 9 a.m. – 12 p.m. Age: Kindergarten through 6th grade Call 272.2412. Eastern Hills Baptist Church 3604 Pleasant Ridge Road Theme: Galactic Starveyors When: June 19-23; Time: 8:30 – 12 p.m. Ages: 4 (by August 1st) through 6th grade Call 272.0604 or visit www.ehbconline.com.

East Memorial Baptist Church ad on page 21 1320 Old Ridge Road, Prattville Theme: Operation Arctic When: June 19-23, 9 a.m.–12 p.m. Family Night, Thursday, June 22 at 6 p.m. Ages: 4 years through 8th Grade Call 365.7500. Eastmont Baptist Church 4505 Atlanta Highway, Montgomery Theme: Operation Arctic When: June 12-16; 9 a.m. to 12 p.m. Ages: 4 yr. - grade 6 Register online @ www.eastmont.org. Elizabeth Baptist Church 15627 Troy Highway, Mathews Theme: The Faith Run When: June 26-28, 6 p.m. – 8 p.m. For all ages – adults included. Dinner provided. Please call 281.4506 Evangel Church 3974 Vaughn Road, Montgomery Theme: Gadgets and Gizmos When: July 24-26, 6:30 p.m. until 8:30 p.m. Ages: 3 to upcoming 6th graders Call 272.4882 ext. 107.

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Crestview Baptist Church 114 Walker Street, Prattville When: June 25-29, 6 - 8:30 pm Theme: Galactic Starveyors Ages: Preschool thru completed 6th grade Contact: teresacwalley@gmail.com or (334) 365-9621. River Region’s Journey

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You can register on our website at www. MontgomeryFBC.org. Call 834.6310.

First Baptist, Prattville

ad on page 31 138 S. Washington Street, Prattville Theme: Galactic Starveyors June 26-30, 8:3012:00 noon Ages 3 years- 6th Grade. Children must be 3 years old by September 1 to attend. For information and/or to register visit fbcprattville.org or call 365-0606. First Baptist Church, Wetumpka 205 W. Bridge Street Theme: Maker Fun Factory When: June 25-29, 5 p.m. – 8 p.m. Ages: K-6th grade. Call 567.5191. First Christian Church 1705 Taylor Road, Montgomery Theme: Rome When: July 25-28; Time: TBA Light dinner and snack provided Ages 4 years old – 6 grade Please call 270.1320 or visit www.fccmontgomery.org. First Presbyterian Church 211 S. Chestnut Street, Prattville Theme: Operation Arctic When: June 5-9 VBS starts at 8:30 a.m. to Noon Ages: 4 years old through entering 6th grade. Call 365.6387. First UMC, Montgomery 2416 W. Cloverdale Park, Montgomery When: June 12-16; 9a.m. until noon Ages: Age 3 (by Sept 1 of 2015) through 5th grade. Call 834.8990. First UMC, Prattville 100 E. Fourth Street Theme: Maker Fun Factory When: June 12-16, 9 a.m. to Noon Ages: Completed Kindergarten through 6th grade Call 365.5977.

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Frazer Memorial UMC

ad on page 9 and 23 6000 Atlanta Highway, Montgomery Theme: Galactic Starveyors When: July 10-14; 9 a.m. to 12 noon, Atlanta Hwy Campus and July 17-21 at our Pike Road Campus. Ages: Rising K4 year oldsFinishing 5th grade. Call 272.8622.

Gateway Baptist Church

ad on page 29 3300 Bell Road, Montgomery Theme: Galactic Starveyors When: June 1923; 9am-12pm Ages: Completed 1st thru completed 5th Call 272.9494 to register. Glynwood Baptist Church 376 N. McQueen Smith Road, Prattville Theme: Galactic Starveyors When: June 4-9, Times: TBA Ages: 4 through grade 6 To register, go to www.glynwoodbc.com .

Grace @ Bell Road 5 Bell Road, Montgomery Theme: “Turn the World Upside Down” Creative Arts Camp When: June 5-9, 8:45 a.m. until 1 p.m. Ages: 6 years to rising 6th graders. Please call or visit www.discovergrace.org

His Vessels Ministry, Montgomery Union Station, Downtown Montgomery Theme: Patriot Camp (Teaching children about the founding of our nation) Dates: June 13-16; Times: 9 a.m. until noon Ages: 6 – 12. Call 334-356-4478 or email info@hisvessel.org.

Grace Pointe & Inner City Churches 1565 Ray Thorington Road, Montgomery Theme: Mega Sports Camp When: July 16-19 from 6-8 pm Ages: 4-12 years Visit www.grace-pointe.com to register or call 271.2525. Hayneville Baptist Church 1180 State Hwy 21 N, Hayneville Theme: Galactic Starveyors When: July 16-20, 5:45 until 8:30 p.m. Ages: K4 - 6th Grade (grade completed) Email: hbc@connecthbc.com or (334) 548.2620.

Holy Spirit Catholic Church 8570 Vaughn Road, East Montgomery Theme: Jesus the Good Shepard When: June 24-28; 8 a.m.- 12:30 p.m. Age: Entering Preschool – entering 6th grade Call 277.1989 or register online @ www.holy-spirit-church.com. Lakeview Baptist Church 9225 Atlanta Highway, Montgomery Theme: Galactic Starveyors When: June 19-23; 8 a.m. until 12 p.m. Ages: 4 years old thru entering 6th grade. Free meal for kids at 5 pm. Call 213.3080. Landmark Church 1800 Halcyon Boulevard, Montgomery Theme: God’s Mighty Warrior When: June 25-28, 6 p.m. – 8 p.m. Ages: Nursery through adults Call 277.5800.

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ad on page 35 1849 Perry Hill Rd, Montgomery Theme: Galactic Starveyors When: June 1216, 8:30 a.m. to 12:05 p.m. Ages: Complete 4K - 5th grade. Call 279.9976. Heritage Baptist Church 1357 S. Memorial Drive, Prattville Theme: Operation Arctic Dates: June 4-8, Time: 6 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Ages: K3 through completion of 6th grade Call 365-2372.

Love Center Church 2401 Plum Street, Montgomery When: June 1-2 from 5:30 until 8 p.m. And June 3 from 9 a.m. until 2 p.m. Call (334) 215.0056. Millbrook Presbyterian (PCA) 3480 Main Street, Millbrook Theme: Operation Arctic When: July 10-14; 6-8:45 pm Ages: Entering K-4 thru 5th grade For registration, call 285-4031.

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Montgomery Area Episcopal Churches Saint John’s Episcopal, 113 Madison Ave. Theme: Life Star Dates: June 5-8, 8:30 a.m. – Noon Ages: Rising K4 through rising 6th grade For registration or more info, call 263.5529. Morningview Baptist Church 125 Calhoun Road, Montgomery When: June 5-9, 9 a.m. to Noon Ages: Completed Kindergarten-5th grade Call 272.2304. Mountain View Baptist 1025 Rifle Range Rd., Wetumpka Theme: Galactic Starveyors When: June 12-16, Times: 8 - 11:30 a.m. Ages: Completed K5 through 6th grade Call (334) 567.4458. Mulder UMC 3454 Firetower Road ~ Wetumpka Theme: Hero Central When: June 25-28; 6 – 8 p.m. For more info please call 567.4225. Pilgrim Rest Missionary Baptist 1550 East Washington Street, Montgomery Theme: TBA When: June 21-23; Time: 5 to 8 p.m. Please call 265-1807 for more information. Redland Baptist Church 1266 Dozier Rd, Wetumpka Theme: TBA; Dates: TBA Ages: 5 (by Sept. 1) through graduated 5th grade. Please call 567.8649. Ridgecrest Baptist Church 5260 Vaughn Road, Montgomery Theme: Galactic Starveyors When: June 5-9, 5:30 to 8:30 p.m. Ages: 4 to completed the 6th grade. Please visit rbcmontgomery.com for more information. Call 277.0011.

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Saint James UMC 9045 Vaughn Road, Montgomery Theme: Maker Fun Factory When: June 12-14, 9 a.m. to 12 p.m. Ages: K4-5th grade Call 277.3037. Taylor Road Baptist Church 1685 Taylor Road, Montgomery Theme: Galactic Starveyors When: July 187-21, 8:30 a.m. to Noon Ages: Completion of Kindergarten through 6th grade. Call 271.3363.

University Church of Christ 5315 Atlanta Highway Theme: TBA When: June 25-28, Time: TBD Ages: newborn thru 6th grade, and adults Please call 386.7320 or www.ucoc.org. Vaughn Forest Church 8660 Vaughn Road, Prattville Theme: Galactic Starveyors When: June 5-9; 9 a.m. – 12:15 p.m. Ages: Entering Kindergarten - entering 6th grade. Registration online at www.vaughnforest.com. Call 279.5433.

Thelma Baptist VBS/VBX 810 Weoka Road, Wetumpka Theme: Galactic Starveyors When: June 5-9; 9 a.m.-noon VBS is for kids entering K5 through completed 5th grade. VBX is for kids who have completed 6th & 7th grade. Register online @ www.tlifeonline.com. Spanish language offered as well. Thorington Road Baptist 450 Ray Thorington Road, Montgomery Theme: Galactic Starveyors When: June 4-8; 6:00 p.m. to 8:30 p.m. Ages: 5 yrs. to 5th grade. Call 396.9376.

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Trinity Presbyterian Church 1728 S. Hull Street, Montgomery Theme: The Kind is Coming When: June 5-9, 9 a.m. to noon. Ages: Pre-K 4 thru completed 6th grade Call 262.3892 to pre-register. Trinity UMC, Prattville 610 Fairview Avenue, Prattville Theme: Hero Central When: June 11-15, 5 p.m. until 8 p.m. Dinner provided for children every night. Call 365.7339.

ad on page 36 3800 Vaughn Road Theme: Gadgets & Gizmos When: June 2630, 9 a.m. until noon For more info contact Carrie Stark at 272.2665. Whitfield UMC 2673 Fisk Road, Montgomery Theme: TBA When: June 12-15, 6 p.m. to 8 p.m. Ages: 3 years to 6th grade. Call 281.2467. Woodland UMC 4428 Wallahatchee Rd, Pike Road Theme: TBA; When: TBA Ages: 4 years old -6th grade Call 272.7230. Young Meadows Presbyterian Church 5780 Vaughn Road Theme: Sports Camp 2017 When: June 5-9, 9 a.m. until noon Ages: Kindergarten -6th grade. Call 244.1385.

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A Tribute to the Men in Our Lives An American missionary went to an African village to evangelize. He saw a man and his wife returning from a farm. The man was walking several steps in front of his wife. The wife was trailing her husband, carrying a basket of produce on her head. This scene infuriated the western missionary. He quickly stopped them, confronting the husband, “Sir, why are you enslaving your wife in such an inhumane way? Why can’t you, as the man who is stronger, carry the load and walk behind your wife? The wife quickly replied in defense of her husband, “If he should carry the load and walk behind me, who will kill the snakes?” I want you to join me in giving honor for those who are due honor - the men in our lives! I thank God Almighty for the gift of men in our world, especially godly men. I am grateful for our husbands, our sons, our brothers, and the brothers in the kingdom of God. These men have the divine assignment to love, honor, cherish, and protect us, not only because we are weaker vessels, but as partners and heirs of the gracious gift of life. Husbands are assigned the ultimate sacrifice; to love and cherish their wife as Christ loved the Church. For Jesus, this meant giving up His rights and putting first those whom He came to save. What a demonstration of love! River Region’s Journey

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Today’s men are being denigrated, emasculated, disrespected, and labeled as worthless by some sectors of our society. It is true that the devil has succeeded in reeking havoc in the lives of some men, leading them into lifestyles not worthy of their calling as men. Yet, there are countless millions

of God-fearing, children-loving, family men, who are productive citizens in today’s generation. I am positively sure this is true because I live and work with such godly influencers. To these godly men, we say, “Thank you for being men of integrity!” Can you imagine what society would be like without men? How would you like to live in a world without men to love us, even though that love sometimes is not yet perfect? (Are we women perfect?) Could you imagine a world without the strength, guidance, and the leadership of godly men? There may be some of you that live with men who are struggling, trying to be men of 22

integrity, wanting to please you, and working to be the kind of men God has called them to be, but they keep falling short. Don’t give up on them. Find the worth in them and keep on accentuating the good qualities you see. Behavioral scientists indicate that the way to affect behavior is not by overly emphasizing faults but by praising good qualities of a person. Research also proves that a man’s greatest emotional need is to feel respected and appreciated. Let’s not forget that, sister! Let’s learn to heap on them all the accolades due to them. Remember the Good Book says that whatever you give, it shall be given back to you. Do you want to be loved and honored? Then give love and honor. Perhaps you can’t relate with anything I am saying. You have no praise or respect in your heart for the joker you currently live with, or the men before him. Perhaps every man in your life has abused and used you. If this describes you, know that you are not alone. There are many who have suffered in the hands of unworthy men. I feel your pain, hurt, broken heartedness, and disappointment because I was once right where you are. That is, until I met a man, a real man of integrity. He was a man so kind, so loving, and so peaceful. He knew all about me and yet he loved me just the way I was. I didn’t have to pretend to be someone I wasn’t with him. I didn’t have to put on an act for him. He knew me more than I knew myself and still loved me! His name is Jesus. If you surrender and give Him your all, you will find Him to be a healer, a restorer, a protector, a teacher, and a counselor. Your desire for love will be completely fulfilled, for He will love you like no one else can. Romans 12:10 tells us, “Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.” All of our tributes, praise, honor, and hallelujahs go to Jesus, the greatest Man of all!

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How Should We “Care”? In 1st John 3:16-17, we can read, “By this we know love, because He laid down His life for us. And we also ought to lay down our lives for the brethren. But whoever has this world’s goods, and sees his brother in need, and shuts up his heart from him, how does the love of God abide in him?” The release of a framework for a budget for the upcoming fiscal year from the Trump administration ignited discussion about the role of government in caring for those less fortunate - at home and abroad. A piece on The Atlantic website, by Emma Green, a regular contributor to the site on matters of faith, featured this explosive paragraph: With billions of dollars worth of cuts to federal social services likely ahead, the wars of religion have begun. Bible verses about poverty have suddenly become popular on Twitter, with Republicans and Democrats each claiming to better know how Jesus would think about entitlement spending. While conservatives tend to bring religion into public-policy conversations more than liberals, the valence is often switched when it comes to the budget: Liberals eagerly quote the Sermon on the Mount in support of government spending, while conservatives bristle at the suggestion that good Christians would never want cuts.

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ficiently replace government in providing for those in need. I would contend that doesn’t mean they should not try. David Campbell, a political-science professor at the University of Notre Dame, is quoted: “No religion is on the sidelines when it comes to caring for the poor.” The article quotes Michael Tanner of the libertarian Cato Institute, who, Green says, “imagines a world where government no longer crowds out private giving, as he claims it does now.” Tanner says that, “We do have a responsibility to help the poor and those in need. That means taking care of them yourself—giving money yourself, giving your time, your efforts, not someone else’s.” The piece relates that based on a national survey, Duke Divinity School professor Mark Chaves found that 83 percent of congregations have some sort of program to help needy people in their communities, with a “median amount” of $1,500. Harvard Professor Mary Jo Bane, states, “Religious congregations do a lot,” but, “the scale of what they do is trivial compared to what the government does.” So, there’s room to grow…there is certainly potential for people of faith to make a greater impact in addressing the social needs of our culture. Christians have a tremendous propensity to give; you might say it’s in our spiritual DNA. The article states: According to the Lake Institute on Faith and Giving at Indiana University, donations to congregations, denominations, mission board, and TV and radio ministries account for roughly one-third of all annual giving in the U.S. 24

I would like to make two statements: Number #1, I believe that the Bible teaches that we are to care for the poor; we are called to be in the work of charity - of caring for those in need. That is a clear teaching of Scripture. You can see God’s heart in the principle, found in Exodus 23, that every seven years, the land would not be harvested, and the products would be left for the poor. What form our charity takes can be varied, but there should be a component of compassion, but also of responsibility. People should not be left on the receiving end, but should also be taught to care for themselves. Number 2 is at the heart of the debate set up in the above paragraph: while we are called to care for those who are less fortunate, you could make the case that the Bible does not prescribe that it is the role of an ever-increasing government to bear that burden. You could even say that if there were more church involvement, there would be less need for the government to step in. If we believe that the role of government should be diminished - and I believe, as it’s been said, that the Biblically-prescribed role is to preserve order and punish evil - then we have to evaluate how we regard programs that contribute to that state of dependency. I am thankful that our tax dollars contribute to providing social services; ideally, though, the Church is called to fulfill more of that responsibility. The character of Christ can be seen as we take tangible action to love as He loved, and to give of ourselves, so that others might be strengthened.

Bob Crittenden is host of “The Meeting House”, heard weekday afternoons from 4-6pm on Faith Radio, 89.1FM in Montgomery. Described as “the intersection of faith and culture”, the program features Christian music and conversation about a variety of topics. Learn more by visiting www. meetinghouseonline.info.

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Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy and First UMC, Millbrook APAC- Alabama Pre/Post Adoption Connection Support Group This group provides education and social interaction for adoptive families. Montgomery Group meets 3rd Tuesdays, 6-7:30 p.m., Room 8114 at Frazer. For more information call Sonia Martin at 409-9477 or she can be reached by email at smartin@childrensaid.org. For information on the Birth Parent and Adult Adoptee Support group please contact Kathy King 205-943-5331 or email kking@childrensaid.org Location: Landmark Church, 1800 Halcyon Blvd. Leaders: Chad & Betsy Emerson (334) 201-5241 Wednesday, 6:30pm in Rm. 116. The Orphan Care Group will focus on God’s call to help orphans through adoption, foster care, and missions work. The group will share experiences, study and Biblical themes regarding orphan care, and provide a support and network.

Alcoholic / Addict

Location: Caring Center of FBC, 52 Adams Avenue CrossRoads Support Group is for addicts/alcoholics and family members. Meets at 6 p.m. Tuesdays and follows a Christ-centered 12-step program. Call 264-4949. Location: Dalraida UMC, 3817 Atlanta Highway Alcoholics Anonymous meets at 6 p.m. on Tuesdays. 272.2190. Alanon meets at 7:30 p.m. on Wednesdays. Location: First Baptist Church (Huff Community Ministries Bldg., 200 S. Perry Street) Celebrate Recovery, a Bible-based Christ centered approach to recovery from hurts, habits and hang-ups, meets Friday nights, from 5:30 p.m.- 8 p.m. For more information, contact Jane Ferguson at 241.5141. Location: Grace Presbyterian Church, Corner of Bell Road and Atlanta Hwy. Alcoholics Anonymous and Alanon meetings are held Monday, Tuesday, Thursday, and Friday, at 6 p.m. An Open AA Speaker meeting is held on Saturday at 6 p.m. An Alanon & AA held on Sundays at 2 p.m.

Location: Grace Point Community Church, 78223 Tallassee Hwy (Hwy 14), Wetumpka Celebrate Recovery- every Tuesday night- 6:15pm. All are welcome! These meetings are a safe and loving environment for individuals seeking to conquer their hurts, habits and hang-ups! gracepoint.info.

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Location: Landmark Church, 1800 Halcyon Blvd. RSVP- This is a 12 step spiritual recovery program for overcoming addictions. Using the steps and Bible we help build self-esteem, responsible behavior, the making of amends for our destructive actions, and to fill the void in our hearts in a loving relationship with God. Wednesday @ 6:30pm in Rm. 121 of the Life Center.

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Location: Prattville Church of Christ, 344 East Main St. RSVP - 12 step (Christians Against Substance Abuse-CASA) spiritual recovery program, for overcoming addictions. Class begins each Wednesday evening @6:30 PM. Please call 334365-4201 for addition information. Location: Santuck Baptist Church, 7250 Central Plank Rd. (Hwy 9), Wetumpka. Celebrate Recovery meets each Thursday evening at 6:15 in the Fellowship Hall. This is a Chrsit centered 12 step-program for anyone struggling with hurts, habits, and hang-ups. Call 567-2364. Sex Addicts Anonymous (SAA) is open to all struggling with addictive sexual behavior. If you believe you have a problem with sex addiction (or are wondering if you might) and you want to change your behavior, we recommend you visit our group. For locations, please visithttps://saa-recovery.org/ or please contact – MontgomerySAA@outlook.com. Meetings are held: every Sunday night - 7:45 p.m, men only. Every Monday night - 7:30 p.m, men and women. Location: St. James UMC, 9045 Vaughn Road Celebrate Recovery meets every Thursday night from 6-8 pm in the Youth Room. This is a Christ-centered 12-step group for anyone struggling with an “addiction or lifechallenging issues.” For information, call Chris Henderson at 334-215-0427.

minister to those with his background. All are welcome, not a requirement to own/ride a motorcycle. Format used is the Holy Bible. For any info contact ministry leader, Paul Henderson, 334-201-5428.

Location: ChristChurch, 8800 Vaughn Road Cancer Support Group for general cancer. Tuesday afternoons at 1 pm. For more info, please call Christy Holding at 531-1390 or Debbie at 467-4578.

Alzheimer’s / Dementia

Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy. Women of Hope Breast Cancer Support Group, providing education, awareness, and mentoring for breast cancer patients/survivors, family, and friends, meets the 2nd Tuesday of each month at 5:30 p.m. in Rm 8253. Call 220-4599 or visit womenofhope@ charter.net.

Location: First UMC, 2416 W. Cloverdale Park, Wesley Hall Bldg. An Adult Parkinson/Alzheimer’s respite ministry meets from 10 a.m.-2 p.m. every Monday, Wednesday and Thursday. Lunch is served. Contact Daphne at 834-8990. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy An Alzheimer’s and Dementia Caregivers’ Support Group meets on the first Thursday of each month at 11 a.m. in Room 3103. Call 272.8622. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy A Dementia Daycare is held each Thursday in Rm. 3101 from 9:30 a.m. to 12 p.m. Each participant may bring a sack lunch. There is no charge. REGISTRATION IS REQUIRED. Call the LifeCare office at 272-8622.

Cancer

Location: Trinity Episcopal, Wetumpka (Across from Winn Dixie on HWY 231) Gamblers Anonymous-Saturdays at 7 p.m.

Location: Aldersgate UMC, 6610 Vaughn Rd, Montgomery Cancer Survivors Support Group is sponsored by Samaritan Counseling Center. We would love to have anyone (patient or family member ) join us. Thursdays at 1 pm. Please call before attending just to make sure we are meeting that week. Please call Debbie D at 467-4578 or Ben W at 202-1912.

Location: First United Methodist Church, Wetumpka 306 W. Tuskeena Street ‘Fresh Start’ Recovery meets every Thursday, 6-8pm (meal included). In 2011, Fresh Start Motorcycle Ministry (FSMM) began when God laid it on the heart of a lifetime biker to

Location: Dalraida Baptist, 3838 Wares Ferry Road. Just for Men -- Faith based cancer support group for men. Meetings are held the second Tuesday of each month at 6 p.m. in the conference center. Please call 272-2412 email stan.hurst@knology.net.

Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy. The Montgomery Area Multiple Myeloma Support Group meets from 10 a.m. to noon the second Saturday of every month in Room 3105. We have guest speakers, video presentations, printed information and a group that welcomes sharing their journey with myeloma in an informal setting. Refreshments are provided. Contact Joe and Tricia Crowley at 2647586 or jpcrowl46@yahoo.com.

Divorce

Location: First Baptist Church, 305 S. Perry Street Divorce Care is held Wednesdays, 6:30-8 pm. Childcare available. $15 for workbook. Dinner at 4:45 ($5 adults, $3 kids). Call Kathy Cooper at 241-5125.

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Fellowship Hall Lobby. This group will provide support & guidance to assist you in working through the issues, pain & pressures surrounding divorce. Also, are you stuck in a pattern of going back to the same relationships or situations hoping for or expecting different results? In this new study “Never Go Back”, you will recognize and truly change those life patterns that hold you back and keep you from your goals. Call 495-6368 or e-mail singles@frazerumc.org.

Location: First UMC, 100 E. Fourth St, Prattville Grief Share, Tuesday evenings at 6:30 pm in the church parlor. Call 365-5977.

Location: Vaughn Forest Church, 8660 Vaughn Road DivorceCare fosters a weekly supportive and caring environment to heal the hurt of separation and divorce. Call 279-5433.

Location: Grace Baptist Church, 304 Old Montgomery Highway, Wetumpka Mourning to Morning is a Christian growth group for mothers who have lost a child, from before birth through adulthood. Meets the last Thursday night of each month. For info, contact Alice Scarborough (334) 462-4775 or Gwen Ellis (334) 567-8754 or e-mail mourningtomorning@gmail.com. Join us on Facebook--Mourning to Morning Group.

Gambling

Location: Cedarwood Community Church, 10286 US HWY 231 in the Wallsboro/Wetumpka community Gamblers Anonymous, Saturdays at 6 pm. 567-0476 Location: Mental Health of America Bldg, 1116 South Hull Street, Montgomery. Sundays @ 5 pm. Location: St Paul’s Lutheran Church, 4475 Atlanta Hwy, Mondays @ 6pm. Gamblers Anonymous Hotline: 334-541-5420 or you can call 2-1-1 and ask for meeting information. Alabama Council on Compulsive Gambling: 277-5100

Grief Location: Eastmont Baptist, 4505 Atlanta Hwy. Compassionate Friends is a national self-help support organization for families grieving the death of a child meeting first Tuesdays at 7 pm. Call (334) 284-2721 for info.

Location: Frazer UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Grief Recovery Support Group meets Tuesdays at 5:30 p.m., Rm 3105, in Fellowship Hall Lobby. 272.8622.

Location: Millbrook FUMC, 3350 Edgewood Rd Grief Share meets Sundays from 5-7 p.m. For more information or to sign up, please call the church office at 285-4114 or email churchoffice@mfumc.org. Location: Pilgrim Rest Missionary Baptist Church 1550 E. Washington Street Grief Ministry is a grief recovery support group that meets every Monday at 6:00 P.M. The ministry is designed to help anyone through the hurt of losing a loved one by successfully traveling the journey from mourning to joy. Alicia Glover is the coordinator. For information contact Glover at 334-281-2754. Location: Vaughn Forest Church, 8660 Vaughn Road GriefShare is a support group that meets Wednesdays from 6-8 pm. This program is non-denominational and features biblical concepts for healing your grief. GriefShare will be led by Howard and Carol Payne and Jim Williams. Call 279-5433 for more information.

Parenting

Location: First Baptist Prattville, 138 S. Washington Moms LIFE (Living In Faith Everyday) meets twice monthly from 8:30 - 11:45 am in the chapel at the Church from Aug May. We offer a time of fellowship, Bible study, musical guest, special guest speakers and a lot of fun!! Cost is $5 per meeting. For moms of all stages and ages of life. Childcare provided by reservation. Call April Scott at 828-446-6666. Location: First Baptist Church, 305 S. Perry Street MOPS (Mothers of Preschoolers) is a place you can share a good meal, make new friends, and find encouragement as you face the everyday challenges of raising your little ones. We have educational speakers, great conversation, and fun activities. Free childcare is provided. Meetings are every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays, 9:30-11:30 a.m., September through May. Contact Tiffany Alewine at 241-5165. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Frazer mom2mom is a playgroup to connect mothers of ages birth to 5 at Frazer United Methodist Church to share fun and inspiration in our journey together, with our children, and with Christ. Email Mom2mom@frazerumc. org for more information. Location: Landmark Church, 1800 Halcyon Blvd. Single Moms Support Group, Wednesday nights at 6:30 p.m. in classroom 118. For information call 277-5800. Location: Perry Hill UMC, 910 Perry Hill Road Single Moms’ Care and Support Group meets 2nd and 4th Thursdays from 6:15 - 8:00 PM. December meeting will be on the 11th. Free snack supper provided to moms and children. Child care for infants -16 years. Call 272-3174.

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Location: Redland Baptist, 1266 Dozier Rd, Wetumpka A MOPS group will be held 1st and 3rd Tuesday’s of every month during the school year, and has scheduled play dates and moms nights out through the summer and beyond. While moms are in a MOPS meeting, their children are lovingly cared for in the MOPPETS program. Email Denise Braswell at deniseorscott@yahoo.com . Location: Vaughn Forest Church, 8660 Vaughn Road Are you in need of a time-out? MOPS joins mothers together by a common bond, to be better wives, moms, and friends along this journey in the trenches of motherhood. We meet the 1st and 3rd Tuesday of each month from 9:30—11:30 a.m. Childcare is provided. For info e-mail VFCMOPS@gmail.com.

Physical Challenges

Location: Aldersgate UMC, 6610 Vaughn Road Visually Impaired Support Group – Meets monthly on second Thursday 1:00 – 2:30 p.m. The group is called Outward Sight - Inward Vision and is for those with vision loss and their caregivers. Our mission is to assist those experiencing vision loss to maintain their independence by providing access to valuable information and spiritual support. Call 272-6152. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy An MDA/ALS Support Group will meet Tuesday August 10 6:00p.m. – 8:00 p.m. in room 3101. Anyone affected by a neuromuscular disease or family members of those affected. To receive info, call 396-4534. Location: Vaughn Park Church, 3800 Vaughn Rd. Montgomery Area Down Syndrome Outreach Group meets 2nd Friday of each month from 6:30- 8 PM. We have activities, speakers and special events throughout the year for the parents, siblings and children with Down Syndrome. Childcare is provided. Please visit www. montgomeryareadownsyndrome.com or our Facebook page (MADSOG) for information. Please contact MADSOG at montgomeryareadownsyndrome@gmail.com.

Same Sex Attraction

Location: Huff Community Ministry Building of First Baptist Church at 200 S. Perry Street Upstream Support Group for those dealing with unwanted same sex attraction and family members or loved ones of those who are gay identified. The group meets at 6:30 pm every first, third and fifth Tuesday evenings. For more information call 334.452.0620.

Singlehood

Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Boundaries study for singles meets each Tuesday from 6-7:30pm in the Fellowship Hall Lobby. This study will help singles learn to set boundaries with emotions and help avoid the harmful behavior of others. For information, call 495-6386 or email singles@frazerumc.org. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Single and Parenting! A New Group for Single Mom’s. This group meets every Tuesday from 6-7:30pm for hope & encouragement & guidance & parenting ideas. For information, call 495-6386 or email singles@frazerumc.org. Location: Cornerstone Christian, 301 Dalraida Rd. Unavoidably Single Again (USA) Fellowship, a support group for widows and widowers. Informal meetings for fellowship and fun are held on the third Saturday of each month starting at 10 AM. Contact Lynda at farauthor@aol.com or 354-8869.

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It is fitting that we not only annually honor moms on Mother’s Day, but our fathers as well. God’s good design is for both moms and dads, and for their appreciation and honor, whether old covenant (Exodus 20:12) or new (Ephesians 6:2). It takes man and woman, father and mother, to image God to a child. “God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them” (Genesis 1:27).

Like a Father with His Children In Paul’s letter to the young believers of Thessalonica, he gives a good deal of space to recounting his early days among them. He notes that not only did he share the gospel with them in word, but he also “shared his own self” in deed and depth of relationship. Here’s how he says it in 1 Thessalonians 2:7–12 — watch especially for the mentions of mother and father. We were gentle among you, like a nursing mother taking care of her own children. So, being affectionately desirous of you, we were ready to share with you not only the gospel of God but also our own selves, because you had become very dear to us. For you remember, brothers, our labor and toil: we worked night

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and day, that we might not be a burden to any of you, while we proclaimed to you the gospel of God. You are witnesses, and God also, how holy and righteous and blameless was our conduct toward you believers. For you know how, like a father with his children, we exhorted each one of you and encouraged you and charged you to walk in a manner worthy of God, who calls you into his own kingdom and glory.

Don’t miss how personal this fatherly care is. He says he exhorted “each one of you,” not just the group at large. So he knows them personally. As Robert Coleman says, “The only way that a father can properly raise a family is to be with it.” And because he knows them, he doesn’t exhort like a slavemaster, or like a judge, or like a king, but he exhorts like a father — a father who knows his children and manifestly loves them and desires the best for them. There’s something about fatherhood that makes such warm but strong exhortation especially appropriate. It’s not that mothers don’t exhort. It’s not that mothers shouldn’t exhort. It’s not that mothers should never step forward and, with manifest love and earnestness, charge a child to walk in manner worthy of God. But there is something about fatherhood that makes such exhortation and encouragement particularly fitting.

Much could be said here about how the images of mother and father work together to communicate depth and closeness of relationship. Paul says he has shared his own self with them, and not merely communicated to them a message. Both motherhood and fatherhood demand such, but on Father’s Day it’s worth trying to discern what’s distinct — what makes mom and dad each to be special in their own way.

What’s Distinct About Dad On the one hand, Paul says that he and his apostolic team were “gentle among you, like a nursing mother taking care of her own children.” The associations here are not only gentleness and intense care, but also intimacy. Depth of relationship is in the offering. He sums it up in the first part of verse 8 as “being affectionately desirous of you.” There is manifest affection and tenderness. This Paul corrals in the mothering picture. Then Paul takes up the father image. And it’s not the same as mothering. There’s overlap, no doubt, but they’re not interchangeable. He says, “like a father with his children, we exhorted each one of you and encouraged you and charged you to walk in a manner worthy of God.”

Dad’s Discipline for Our Good While the mothering image is more gentle and nurturing and tender, the fathering image is more tough and strong and challenging. It’s the father who leads the way in discipline and correction. In Ephesians 6:4, Paul charges not the parents in general, but the fathers in particular, “Do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.” Same story in Colossians 3:21: “Fathers, do not provoke your children, lest they become discouraged.”

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of spirits and live? For they disciplined us for a short time as it seemed best to them, but he disciplines us for our good, that we may share his holiness. For the moment all discipline seems painful rather than pleasant, but later it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it.

God’s Good Gifts of Moms and Dads When we honor our father and our mother, we love mom for her nurture, and we respect dad for his exhortation. Many disclaimers abound. Dads also must nurture and show affection, and moms must discipline and exhort, but there are parental virtues which, while having their proper exercise in both mother and father, make their particular home in either mom or dad. On this Father’s Day, whether your dad has been all that you ever hoped and dreamed, or you’ve now grown old enough to see his faults and failings, there are distinct virtues to respect in dad, even as we love the overlapping virtues in mom. Yes, it’s worth having not a Guardian’s Day or a Parent’s Day, but distinct Mother’s and Father’s Days in celebration of God’s good gifts of both moms and dads. Let’s see if we can honor dad this month not just by pointing out what made him a good parent, but a good father.

And the special place of a father in exhorting a child — disciplining a child — comes into focus in Hebrews 12:7–11: It is for discipline that you have to endure. God is treating you as sons. For what son is there whom his father does not discipline? If you are left without discipline, in which all have participated, then you are illegitimate children and not sons. Besides this, we have had earthly fathers who disciplined us and we respected them. Shall we not much more be subject to the Father

David Mathis is Executive Editor of desiringGod.org.

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of their addiction. That is their plan and only when you stop carrying the blame, the plan can change. Addicts use, families feel the burden and addicts continue to use until you stop picking up the blame. So remember, you are not to blame. It is not your fault. You did not cause it. You can’t control it and you definitely cannot cure addiction. It’s not your fault, but somehow you believe that you have some control over this substance that is harming your home. Stop now and take an honest look at what the problem is. It is a progressive fatal disease that needs professional help, medical advice, possible detoxification and spiritual support. It is an illness that repeatedly tells the user he doesn’t have it and the family that they should be ashamed it’s in your home. This is the other plan. Keep the secret, stay isolated and stay sick. Addiction is a disease of denial and deceit. Only the truth will set you free. The truth of what the illness is doing and the truth that you need to come out of hiding to find help. So as you accept it’s not your fault, learn also that you can’t do this alone. Yet the good news is that help is everywhere. Once you stop keeping the secret, many others will share their struggles with addiction in their families. According to a recent National Survey on Drug Use and Health, over 21 million Americans ages 12 and older battled a substance use disorder in 2014. One out of every eight persons 34

with a substance dependency battled both drugs and alcohol simultaneously. The cost is enormous. Drug abuse and addiction costs our country more than $200 billion in healthcare, criminal justice and lost workplace production. But there is one cost that the statistics don’t count. The cost to your home, your family and your future. Stop the madness and break the cycle of addiction in your household. Be the one that says I am not taking the blame for this illness any longer and I will be the one to come out of hiding to bring healing to our family. Yes, you are that brave and you are able to be the one to lead the charge against the illness in your home. It takes just one to start the ball rolling. So where ever you are in the family illness, put the blame down and pick up the banner of courage by saying YES I need help and YES I am ready to take responsibility for MY recovery. When you do so, the ripple effects are amazing. Trust the process and see the results. Call for help today. Addiction specialists are available at the Samaritan Counseling Center, 334-262-7787. There is a community of support waiting to help you and your loved ones recover from this insidious disease. It is not your fault but it is your responsibility to change the plan. Take steps to recover today. Rebecca Rose Morris is a Licensed Professional Counselor, National Certified Counselor, and Counseling Supervisor. She earned her Masters degree at Auburn University Montgomery and graduated with an Ed.S. from Troy University – Montgomery Campus. She works with adolescents and adults addressing a wide range of issues including depression, anxiety, life transitions, and relational trauma.

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River Region Volunteers Honored *Gretchen Sippial, a generous supporter and Docent at the Montgomery Museum of Fine Arts, was named Volunteer of the Year in The Arts for her contributions as Museum art instructor, gallery leader, First Impressions staff and fundraiser. *Virginia White was named Senior Volunteer of the Year for developing and running Baptist East’s Teddy Bear Program which provides the family of every baby born at Baptist with a handmade keepsake teddy bear adorned with the newborn’s footprints. *Carolyn “CeCe” Tyus, recipient of the Adult Volunteer of the Year, lives the mission of Mothers Against Drunk Driving in honor of her son Renota who was killed in 2008 by a drunk driver. *William Robertson was named Youth Volunteer of the Year for his involvement with Dream Court where he coaches tennis to those with special needs. *Food Bank Faves received the Adult Group Volunteer of the Year Award for their weekly commitment to the Montgomery Area Food Bank where they’ve provided over 450 hours of service sorting and organizing donations. *Lee High School Air Force Junior ROTC was awarded the Youth Group Volunteer of the Year in recognition of the 2,000 hours of service they have provided to coordinate over 40 community events including food drives, school clean ups and youth mentorship activities.

Hundreds gathered at Montgomery’s Trinity Presbyterian Church recently for the 2017 Volunteer of the Year Awards to honor volunteers for their incredible gifts of service and ongoing efforts to improve the lives of others. Co-sponsored by the Junior League of Montgomery, HandsOn River Region initiated the ceremony 43 years ago after its first year in operation as a way to publicly recognize the outstanding service provided by community volunteers. Nominated by the Montgomery Area Council on Aging (MACOA), Sarah Spear was the recipient of the 2017 Lifetime Achievement Award. Mrs. Spear is a stalwart volunteer who has served the Central Alabama Red Cross, Cancer Wellness Foundation, MACOA and Medical Outreach Ministries. Others honored were:

HandsOn River Region mobilizes volunteers and connects people, information and services to meet local needs and build a strong, caring community. To learn more, visit www.handsonriverregion.org or call 334-264-3335.

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Don’t Be House Poor! Q. I read where you recommend having your house payment or rent at an amount that’s 25 percent or less of your monthly take-home pay. Does this figure include taxes and insurance too? A. Yes, it does. I’m trying to keep you from being “house poor.” Did you know you can qualify for a house payment, with taxes and insurance, that’s close to half of your take-home pay? That’s ridiculous! When you don’t have room in your budget to do anything else that matters because your house payment is so large, that’s what we call house poor. When your income minus your basic living expenses equals almost nothing, it means your basic living expenses are way too high. Being in this kind of situation keeps

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you from saving for really important stuff like investing, retirement, and college for your kids. I’m trying to position you where you can get the house and everything paid off so you can become wealthy. When we talk about driving a crappy car, not going out to eat, or not going on vacation — those are temporary things. It’s all about living like no one else, so that later you can live and give like no one else!

How late is too late? Q. How late is too late to get life insurance? A. It’s pretty easy to get term life insurance – the only kind of life insurance I recommend – up until around age 70. Depending on your overall health situation, there are a few affordable policies available past that point. But once you get into your seventies and beyond it can be difficult to find reasonably priced coverage. I recommend that most people have 10 to 12 times their

annual income wrapped up in a good, level term life insurance policy.

Family and Business Q. My husband and I own a small business. One of our relatives asked for a job recently, and we have reservations about hiring him because there are several dysfunctional relationships within our extended family. Are we being mean? A. Having a small business doesn’t give relatives a free pass to employment. As entrepreneurs, you have the right and responsibility to do what’s best for your company. Ask yourself a few questions: Would you hire this person if they weren’t part of the family? Would you hire this person because they would make a good team member? If the answers are no, then you don’t hire them — period. Be kind about the situation, because there may be some bruised feelings. But the bottom line is you have to do what’s best for your business, your immediate family, and your team.

DONâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;T IGNORE THE WARNING SIGNS!

Dryness of the Mouth

Blurred Vision

Frequent Urination

Extreme Thirst

Headaches & Fatigue

Hunger

First Baptist Church Montgomery

June 19-23 Vacation Bible School

9:00 AM to Noon :: FREE! ages 4* through 6th grade

DISCOVERING THE GOD OF THE UNIVERSE As kids search the visible to discover the invisible, they will discover that the God who created everything there is wants a relationship with them! Kids will learn that God had a plan to restore the relationship He knew we would break from the beginning.

For more information or to register visit

www.montgomeryfbc.org/vbs *Child must have turned 4 by August 31, 2016 to attend VBS.

FIRST BAPTIST CHURCH montgomery

305 South Perry Street Montgomery, AL 36104