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Faith @ Work
Meet Michael Jernigan, Jr., husband, father and assistant manager of Sam’s Club. Michael shares about his childhood, how he met his wife, what got him through some very difficult times in 2013, and how he is striving to serve God in his church and in the workplace.
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Pastor's Perspective Wes Gunn, Redland Hills Church
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Pondering the Journey Sam Whatley
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Women Arising Pastor Kemi Searcy
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A Prescription for Shame
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Shame affects us all on some level, because we are all guilty of bad behavior at times. Learn how to let go of shame and embrace God’s grace daily.
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Counselor’s Corner Avery Berry, M.Ed., ALC, NCC
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Bob Crittenden
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Dave $ays Dave Ramsey
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Flatline Movement by Angela Hardgrave
Dewayne Rembert and his team are bringing the Gospel to the streets of Montgomery and other cities throughout Alabama through Christian rappers, singers, and speakers, always with the focus of preaching the Word. Your support is needed! 1
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Books to Read page 8
Around Our Community page 14
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From the Publisher I’m blessed to be part of a church family that is more diverse than any church I’ve been a part of in my past. When we were looking for a church a few years ago, it was one of the deciding factors. All the churches we visited were promoting Christ well, but this church was diverse in a way that stretched our family. A lot of the people weren’t “just like me” and I knew that was a good thing. I don’t know about you, but I have a bad habit of shaping Christianity to match my preferences more than my preferences being shaped by Christianity. When that happens, I live way below the overflowing life God offers me as His child. I miss out! God’s creation is diverse. His majesty is displayed in the variety of all that He has made. We should be in awe and worship Him in light of this, but we get stuck naval gazing and miss the joys of celebrating others made in His image who may not act or look like us. Sadly, because we get stuck in this approach to our faith, there may be many people who don’t believe they can know our Jesus because they just wouldn’t fit in with our group. They might be too messy or have colored hair. Maybe they enjoy different music styles than you or grew up poor, or rich. The list could go on and on, and not one of these things prevents us from knowing Christ and walking together with Him. Quite the opposite. When we come together under Christ, not expecting everyone to be just like us, we show the world the amazing grace of God to make a people from every tribe and nation. The world loves to hate. God’s people should love to love, in the manner in which we’ve been loved by God in Christ. River Region’s Journey is and always has been about sharing hope and building community through the Gospel across the River Region. In this month’s issue you’ll see the work of God across our community. Pastor Wes Gunn, with a fairly new church plant in Emerald Mountain called Redland Hills Church, shares this month’s Pastor’s Perspective. In our Ministry Spotlight, Flatline Movement is taking the Gospel into area schools and neighborhoods through Christian rap. And Michael Jernigan Jr., an Assistant Manager at Sam’s Club, shares how he lives out his faith in the workplace. These are just some of the ways we share in this month’s issue how God’s message is being heard across our area. It’s an honor to spread God’s hope all across the River Region to all people. Thanks to all the advertisers that support our ministry, and all our writers and contributors who use their talents to encourage all of us with the Good News. I pray this month’s issue is a blessing to your faith!
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Pastor’s Perspective Pastor Wes Gunn, Redland Hills Church
Practice Neighboring Occasionally I have the blessing of hosting international visitors in my home, especially from the small African nation of Malawi. At the end of the trip I always ask several debriefing questions, one of which is, “What disappointed you most about what you saw in America?” Without hesitation, it is almost always the same answer: “That you could go the whole day and not speak to your neighbors.” I’m privately thinking, “A day? I can go a month without even trying!” Such is the nature of our isolated North American culture. But it is a convicting statement that I need to be reminded of by my African friends. We often don’t even know our neighbors names and are content with an occasional wave from a distance. All the while we are neglecting our calling by Jesus to love our neighbor. Sure, our
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“neighbors” can be anyone we share the planet with. But what if Jesus really means for us to love those in closest proximity first and foremost? A few years ago I noticed my acrossthe-street neighbor’s yard was in decline. The leaves were pilling up. They are an older couple I would frequently see walking their dogs. But it had been a while since I had seen them out and about. Then one day my next door neighbor told me the lady had been struggling with breast cancer and was undergoing treatments. I felt like such a jerk! Here I was in direct proximity to serve them, but was sitting comfortably across the street while my neighbor was struggling. My wife and I were convicted by our international friend’s comments and many instances like these. We began to make some changes in our lives to reorient ourselves to making ourselves available to our neighbors. In 2014 we launched out to plant a new church in the growing Redland community-- focused on blessing and reaching neighbors. We experimented with an ice cream social in the front yard. Our kids walked down the street delivering invitations for the following Saturday. And even though it was an unusually cold spring day, neighbors came! We watched as neighbors who have lived on the same street for 15 years met each other for the first time. Then a few months later we hosted a block party in our yard with 4
some music, hot dogs, and an inflatable for the kids. Our neighbors loved it and asked when we would could do another. We began to make it a habit to learn the names of all our neighbors within a few houses of ours. We posted them in a place so we could remember to pray for them. I make it a spiritual discipline when doing yard work to turn off the lawn mower when a neighbor is walking by and say hello. My wife attends HOA meetings and I eventually joined our volunteer fire department (check out the excellent book, “The Art of Neighboring” for more ideas). All of this is not some strategy to build our church, but to really live out the call of Jesus to love our neighbors. In the process WE have been transformed. Unfortunately it is all to often that we only think about our neighbors when something bad happens. We may notice the ambulance in the driveway or even see our own street on the news. Recently our community was devastated by a murder/suicide of a school teacher and a precious young lady. As if often the case, many neighbors never knew anything was wrong. But it was a neighbor’s house that one of the young girl’s ran to in order to call 911. That call certainly saved additional lives. Could your home be a place of refuge for struggling neighbors? Is there someone suffering on your street that God may have you in the perfect position to serve? I’m sure there probably is. But how will you serve them if you don’t know them? The greater question is, “Will we rise to the call to love our neighbor as ourself?” When we do, entire communities are transformed.
Wes Gunn is head pastor of Redland Hills Church in Wetumpka, Alabama.
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When I Am Afraid
The Call
Edward T. Welch
Os Guinness Twenty years ago, Os Guinness penned The Call: Finding and Fulfilling the Central Purpose of Your Life. Since the release of his timely book, the matter of vocation has been at the center of many lectures and discussions. Thomas Nelson recently repackaged The Call which is revised, expanded, and included a new preface. Guinness sets forth the thesis early in the book:
When I Am Afraid by Edward T. Welch is a short book. It is also a very powerful book. The author sets forth his intended goals at the beginning of the book. • You want to hone your spiritual instincts so that you turn to Christ when anxious thoughts arise. • You want to know what Jesus says because when you turn to him in this way his words go deep. • You want to be less fearful and anxious and more content and hopeful. • You want to be more confident that God’s communication to you in the Bible speaks meaningfully to all the struggles of life.
“This book is for all who long to find and fulfill the purpose of their lives. It argues that this purpose can be found only when we discover the specific purpose for which we were created and to which we are called … Nothing short of God’s call can ground and fulfill the truest human desire for purpose.”
Welch tackles fear and anxiety at the outset. He admits, “to be human is to be afraid.” Therefore, the responsibility of the reader is to recognize and isolate fear and anxiety. He affirms, “So sometimes you will see that your fears mean you are trusting yourself rather than the Lord. But you will always find that fear and worry are opportunities to hear God, to either turn toward him or to keep facing him and grow in trusting him.” Welch goes to the core of the matter in chapter six with a good discussion regarding the promises of God: “God is not passive in his nearness. When God says he is present, it means he is doing something on your behalf. He is giving you manna. He is keeping promises and giving grace when you need it. God is never passive, and certainly he is never powerless.” Chapter seven makes an appeal to Psalm 46 and leads the reader to the redemptive work of Christ: “With the Cross of Jesus proclaiming that your sins have been paid for, and with his resurrection assuring you that he is now the reigning King, you can trust him for the future and focus on today.” When I Am Afraid is worth reading. Edward Welch steers readers away from the precipice of selfishness and directs them toward the work of Christ. He clearly articulates the biblical reality that “love expels fear.” Built into the book are a series of thought-provoking questions and space for biblical meditation and response. When I Am Afraid would be best utilized in a small group Bible study or a one on one discipleship. River Region’s Journey
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The author develops the theme of calling with great skill and dexterity. He explores calling from a variety of angles and is quick to remind readers that calling is ultimately grounded in God’s purposes for his people. “Calling,” writes Guinness, “is the truth that God calls us to himself so decisively that everything we are, everything we do, and everything we have is invested with a special devotion and dynamism lived out as a response to his summons and service.” Guinness dismantles false views of calling and replaces these views with solid and substantial reality: “We are not primarily called to do something or go somewhere; we are called to Someone. We are not called first to special work but to God. The key to answering the call is to be devoted to no one and to nothing above God himself.” The Call is an immensely helpful book. The principles that Guinness shares are timeless. These transcendent realities helped shape cultures and continue to shape the way people live their lives. “Answering the call is the way to find and fulfill the central purpose of your life,” writes Guinness. Anything less is tantamount to idolatry. I commend The Call without reservation and trust that many will be strengthened by this work that is destined to become a classic. 6
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Womens Conference with Lysa TerKeurst
Friday, September 28 – Saturday, September 29, at Vaughn Forest Church, 8660 Vaughn Road. For more info, visit vaughnforest.com or call 334-279-5433.
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Sunday, September 30, 2018 at 7:00 pm at Garrett Coliseum, 1555 Federal Drive For more information, call 334-356-6866. Organized by Alabama National Fair.
Live Original The Tour with Sadie Robertson
Engage Ladies Conference
Thursday, September 20 thru Saturday, September 22 at Safe Harbor Outreach Center 820 Selma Highway, Prattville, AL For more information call 334-365-4108 or visit them at www.safeharboroutreach.org.
plus Mosaic MSC, Social Club Misfits, Chris McClarney, Hollyn, John Luke Robertson Sunday, November 11, at 7:00 pm First Baptist Church of Prattville 138 South Washington Street For more information, call 334-365-0606 or visit www.fbcprattville.org.
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Big Daddy Weave is heading back out the road beginning this September for the Jesus I Believe Tour with special guest, Brandon Heath. Presented by World Vision, the tour kicks off in Waukesha, WI and is slated to play 29 dates before wrapping on October 28. It comes on the release of Big Daddy Weave’s newest radio single “Jesus I Believe” and follows their successful Spring 2018 Jesus I Believe Tour, which hit 30+ cities across 18 states. The tour will feature beloved Christian music artist Brandon Heath, a five-time GRAMMY-nominated singer/songwriter. Heath is debuting his sixth studio album titled Faith Hope Love Repeat, featuring the hit single “Whole Heart.” September 14, First Baptist Church Opelika. www.transparentproductions.com.
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Wisdom in Watercolor
On October 6, from 9 am to 3 pm, enjoy “Paint Streng Talks” with Biblical soul Teachings, presented by Enjoy B national Christian speaker, writer, artist and Tuscaloosa native, Debbie Hannah Skinner. Strengthen, soothe, and renew your soul as Debbie talks and paints! Enjoy Bible based For more info scripture teachings, fellowYou can ship and music. Lunch and websit snacks provided. Christ church is located at 8800 Vaughn Road. Call Lucile If you would like to attend this exciting conference, please complete at 334.318.3724 for more3314 information orMontgomery, to register. Boxwood Drive, AL 36111 by September 2
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Outside Your Comfort Zone A friend of mine, Betsy Hake, has been a missionary in Honduras for almost 40 years. About 20 years ago the Lord burdened her heart to present Christ and His love to those who are the least likely to ever walk into a church. Among those are the women and men prostitutes of Tegucigalpa and their children. Her organization is called Jericho Ministries. The following is taken from both an interview with her and her blog posting of July 24, 2015. It illustrates how God is at work in places we may not want to go. One rainy night, a few years ago, I could not sleep. I sensed that God was gen-
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tly urging me to go to the streets. I called our administrator and she agreed to go with me. So I picked her up in our van and we headed for the area of town that we know well. The reason He sent us was because of Juan (not his real name). There he was, sitting on the curb, in a dress that was way too revealing. He held his head in his hands, a long wig covering his face. His whole body-language cried depression. I recognized him as a transvestite I had tried to reach with the gospel two years before. He lifted his head when he saw us and called out, “Betsy, you came!” We got out of the van and sat down with him on the curb. He began to tell us that that night he had made the decision to take his own life. He had just prayed to the Lord, “God, if you are real, send me somebody. Send me somebody that I will know that it is you.” He said he felt like no one understood him and he was tired of living a life of degradation and shame. As he wept, we told him of a God who saves. We told him of a God who transforms us from the inside out. We told him of a Savior who died for his darkness and sins, and lives to give him new life. We spent about an hour ministering to him and listening to him. He didn’t mind us telling him that he had offended God with 12
his lifestyle. He knew it. And right before our eyes we got to witness the transforming power of Jesus. Juan bowed down at the feet of Jesus, recognized his sin, and asked Jesus to come into his life and wash away his old life. 2 Corinthians 5:17 says it this way, “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation, the old has gone, the new has come!” NIV. Juan is now free to be who God called him to be. I don’t pretend that everything was easy for Juan from that moment on. No, his mind had to be transformed on a daily basis, not to the things of this world, but to the Word of God. Paul writes to the Romans, “Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is – his good, pleasing and perfect will,” (Romans 12:2) NIV. That’s Betsy’s story. Over the past 40 years she has been answering God’s call to reach people outside her comfort zone, first as a nurse, then as a church planter, and now as a rescuer of men, women and children who are captives to prostitution and abuse. She has discovered that her sphere of influence is in the streets of a capital city in Central America. That may not be your sphere of influence. You may not sense that God has given you such a gift of evangelism or that much courage. But God has given you a gift. And He is calling you to use that gift to spread His love somewhere in your life. Out there, outside your comfort zone, someone needs to hear that God loves them and that His Son died to set them free. Someone may be praying for God to send them such a person as you. Why not ask Him? **Sam Whatley’s latest book, Ponder Anew, is now available at the Frazer Bookstore located inside Frazer Memorial UMC.
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supervision and development opportunities for associates. RRJ: In what ways are you able to shine for Christ at work? Michael: I treat everyone the same way I want to be treated. I pray daily before I enter the doors of Sam’s Club and trust that God will lead me in His ways and not my own. When I hear gossip at work, I distance myself from it or change the subject. Monday through Friday I have a 9 o’clock morning meeting where I go over our sales numbers with my associates/management team, upcoming birthdays, work anniversaries and I give a motivational spiritual word or quote from the Bible to uplift, motivate or inspire my co-workers for the day. RRJ: How do you see Jeremiah 29:11 being played out in your life?
RRJ: As a manager at Sam’s Club, what does your job entail? Michael: I assist and develop in directing our management team in all facility operations. I assist in providing supervision and development opportunities for members of management and hourly associates. I assist in directing and guiding members of management and hourly associates on proper member service approaches and techniques. I contribute to membership and sales growth. I coordinate, complete and oversee job-related activities and assignments. I ensure compliance with company policies and procedures and support our company mission, values and standards of ethics and integrity. I also increase the quality of our members’ experience. I monitor the financial performance of the facility. I participate in community outreach programs and encourage and support associates in serving as good members of the community. I provide River Region’s Journey
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Michael: I grew up on 103rd and King Drive in Chicago IL, a pretty rough area on the southside of Chicago known as the WILD HUNDREDS. I remember hearing my mom praying as a kid that she wanted me and my brother to be successful. My mom always ensured me that I didn’t have anything to worry about because I was covered in the blood of Jesus. I was an usher at my childhood church (St. John De La Salle) and I remember my parents telling me that if I couldn’t make it to church that I couldn’t go roller skating or play my video games. So, I made sure I was serving every Sunday and getting the Word. Now the same rules apply for my two boys in my household because my wife and I are raising them to be successful, God-fearing, family men as well. RRJ: How have sports, especially golf, had a role in your journey? Michael: I used to play basketball in elementary school until one day I witnessed my best friend getting hurt at our neighborhood playground, tearing ligaments in both his knees. Once he recovered he got a job at the new golf course not too far from our neighborhood, and shortly after I started working there too. My boss took a liking to me and gave me my first set of golf clubs, and since 14
I worked their they let me play all the golf I wanted for free. The sport of golf helped me get three scholarship offers to play golf for Tennessee State University, Alabama State University and Virginia Union University. I chose Alabama State University because my parents used to drive to Union Springs every summer to visit my grandparents, and I knew I would still be close to family. RRJ: You mentioned three tragic life events that all happened in one week in March 2013. What helped you get through those trials? Michael: The last week of March 2013 was a very difficult week for me and my family. On that Monday, my in-law’s home burned to the ground, that Wednesday I got laid off from Coca-Cola after working there for 10 years, and that Friday my father passed at the age of 59. Needless to say, my faith was definitely tested, but I knew that God wouldn’t give me more than I could bear. So, I prayed and leaned on God more than ever and He helped me get through it all. At the time my parents had been married for 39 years, so I had to be strong for my mom and younger brother. RRJ: You come from a home where family is important. How have your parents molded and inspired you to live a solid life for the Lord? And can you see your parent’s influence in you as you are leading your family? Michael: My dad married a strong woman of God and I wanted to do the same. The first time I saw my wife, on the campus of Alabama State University in 1999, I felt like she was going to be my wife. When my college friend, Darain Goshton, invited me to visit his church I saw her again and that’s when I knew she was going to be my wife. The fact that she loved the Lord as much as I did left no doubt in my mind that she was the woman God made for me. My parents inspired me to live a solid life for the Lord by being a great representation of Christ, by walking and living in love. And, yes, my parents influenced how I lead my family because I saw how my they loved and respected each other, which kept them happily married for 39 years.
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RRJ: How do you stay focused on living your best life for God? Michael: Well, every night my wife and I read scriptures from our Bible together before we go to sleep, and we’re both very active in our church. My wife is on our church finance team and I am a PPA (Pastor Personal Assistant) for my church. Every opportunity we have to serve for the Lord and do God’s work we take it. We both especially like serving the mobile food bank at our church. RRJ: You and Ruby have been instrumental in planning a couple’s trip for several years during Super Bowl weekend with friends from your church. What is something special that you practice while on this trip? Michael: We enjoy fellowship with our married Christian friends from our church, so for the past five years we have been planning couple’s trips in different states during Super Bowl weekend. Every year we set aside some time to discuss what’s been going on in our lives and our future goals. For the past two years we decided to put our goals on paper and create vision boards. God’s word tells us to write the vision and make it plain, and ever since we started setting aside time to create our vision boards during our trips, our friends’ goals, as well as ours, have been manifesting. Since it has been such a positive experience, creating vision boards is something that we will definitely continue to incorporate into our trips. RRJ: What advice do you have for our readers about living for Christ outside of the church walls? Michael: My advice would be to take the same teachings and principles learned in church and apply them to your everyday life outside of church. We should pray and seek God daily. We should also live as God has called us to live. God wants us to live a happy and successful life. I would also encourage others to adopt good habits of reading their Bible and spending time with God at least 5-10 minutes every day to understand the life and love of Jesus in our everyday lives. Share your faith and love for Jesus with everyone you meet. Seek the presence of God daily and always remember that living for Christ is far more meaningful than living for ourselves. Establish a relationship with God first, keep God first in all that you do, and have strong faith. Michael Jernigan, Jr. is Assistant Manager at Sam’s Club. He is happily married to Ruby Jernigan for 13 years and they have two sons, Michael III (12) and Tyler (9). They are active members of True Divine Baptist Church in Montgomery.
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A Sneak Peek Into Your Bucket List I have a bucket list…a set of experiences and goals that I want to accomplish in my lifetime. Many women don’t even consider what would be on such a list while they are working, raising children, and keeping the family finances afloat with their paychecks. Creating a bucket list for us women is important because living with expectancy helps create excitement and adds spice in our lives. God created us as dreamers. We think in pictures. Imagination and image is one in the same. Additionally, as free-will human beings we get to choose the image we keep in front of us. And if we, like Jacob’s cattle, stare at something long enough we will reproduce what we keep seeing (Genesis 30:37-42). But, take a moment to consider what achievements I might see if I were to be afforded a privilege to peak into your bucket list? What would the scripted pieces of paper tucked in your bucket reveal about your priorities? What do you see yourself doing? • Want to see the world? Where would you want to go first? • Jump out of a plane? • Achieve an ideal weight? • Be a wife and a mother? Your dream can become your reality if you tackle your list one bite at a time People can respond to dreams differently: River Region’s Journey
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Some don’t dream…
Many are afraid to dream again due to past disappointments. The Bible says that hope deferred makes the heart sick. These precious sisters experience what Langston Hughes says, “What happens to a dream deferred, it dries up like a raisin in the sun.” Many dreams have seemingly dried up and so disappointment has darkened their screen. Therefore these people occupy their minds only with safe images that don’t require much faith. I can’t count the single ladies I have counseled over the years who are heartbroken over not finding their soul mate. Some have lost hope and dare not dream again.
Some dream inappropriate dreams…
I used to run track as a young girl and beat everyone in my neighborhood. I am now a 61-year-old woman in relatively good shape, but it would be a waste for me to develop a dream of becoming an Olympic gold medalist in track before I die. I may have a chance at a Seniors Olympics, but I dare not dream of outrunning 18 year olds. Our dreams must be appropriate and realistic by some measure. By this I do not mean we don’t need to dream seemingly impossible dreams. But such impossible dreams should be divinely inspired. If God whispers dreams into our heart we should say, “Amen!” and embrace them. Scripture tells us that He is able to do exceedingly 16
abundantly above all we can ask or think. Our internal dreams should at least make sense. You’re probably not going to achieve a space walk without a space suit in your lifetime, so there’s no need to fantasize it.
Some have unclear dreams
Some people don’t take time to make their dreams clear enough. The concept of image, imagination, and dreams means that you picture them clearly with specificity. Folks have dreams such as” I want to succeed.” Or, “I want to be famous.” Such general desires need to be cultivated until they are so clear you see yourself doing it. There must be a tangible element in the dream… like “I desire to own my own clothing line” instead of “I want to impact the fashion industry.” Let me encourage you to form your own bucket list. If you already have one, update it. When we leave this life, let’s leave with no regrets. Sit down now or within the next few days and dream with God about your future. Think deep and wide, and think big! Use your faith. Decide what you would like to do. Then write it down. This step is vitally important. There is something about writing the dream that makes it more genuine so that you run toward it. Perhaps Habbakuk understood this when he echoed, “Write the vision and make it plain so he may run that reads it…” (Hab. 2:3) Share your bucket list when appropriate only with those who will desire your success. Sharing our bucket list items puts us on the hook to accomplish them. You feel the importance to deliver on what you advertise. Lastly. “Get Er Done!” After you create your bucket list start moving toward your dreams. As Les Brown said, “You don’t have to be great to start but you must start to be great.” Dream, write and then when opportunity arises, go forth.
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Have your poor choices ever been held up to public scrutiny? Maybe you bear a secret no one else knows, but you know God knows and you hang your head, feeling like you can never be fully useful to His Kingdom. You can move past the shame.
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I felt that way. I was in a rush and not paying attention. Hoping to catch the next city bus in less than ten minutes, I cruised my shopping cart into the nearest check-out and tossed my items on the conveyer belt. Fifteen items maybe? I looked up to feel the burning glare of the clerk. “This is an express lane.” I hadn’t seen the sign. Or bothered to look. “I’m sorry. It’s just a few items over.” She was unyielding. “You’re making other customers wait who do need to use this line. Put all your groceries back in your cart and move to another line.” Disgusted at the delay, the customer behind me wheeled her cart of five items into another cashier’s aisle. I pulled my cart in behind her. With no one now in her checkout line, the stern clerk moved over to bag my groceries, refusing to accept my verbal apology. Yes, she was ungracious. But I was still guilty. The worst part was that everyone saw and heard—the legalistic clerk, the other clerks, and the other customers. They all knew I had selfishly, carelessly disobeyed Express Lane rules. I felt horrible. I felt that sinking, smothering veneer of shame that makes anyone wish they were invisible. That’s what shame is. An inward feeling of remorse and embarrassment at the public exposure of our sin. The sickening realization that someone else knows we aren’t what they expected us to be.
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Peter’s Legacy
As incriminating as my soul-dropping feelings were that day, they were probably a speck compared to what the Apostle Peter felt the day he denied Jesus. Peter was the impetuous one. Some people term his ready answers as foot-in-mouth disease. I don’t go that far. The depth of his responses during his three years with Jesus show that Peter grasped the identity of Jesus more than his fellow disciples. When the Lord asked, “Who do men say that I am,” Peter immediately answered, “You are the Messiah, the Son of the living God (Matthew 16:16).” After a large portion of Jesus’ disciples left him, Jesus asked his disciples, “You do not want to leave too, do you?” “Lord, to whom shall we go?” was Peter’s quick response. “You have the words of eternal life (John 6:67-69).” That’s what makes Peter’s denial so incredible. Peter knew to the bottom of his sandals that Jesus was the Messiah. Peter was the apostle who walked on water. He knew the essence and substance of faith in Jesus as the Son of God. Perhaps Peter found it easy to say the right words to Jesus when everyone around him would nod in agreement. But when the opposition asked, Peter couldn’t bring himself to admit that he not only knew Jesus, he was one of his best buddies.
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As a teenager, I once participated in a March of Dimes Walk-aThon rescheduled for Sunday morning. Even though I didn’t finish the course within the abbreviated timeframe, a volunteer initialed my donation sheet as having completed all twenty miles. I knew better but didn’t protest. When I approached one of our church elders to collect his donation, he gave me The Look. “You skipped church and then you lied about how many miles you walked?” Shame covered me. I was guilty and I disappointed a man I respected greatly. I really hated disappointing Elder Gene. For Peter, the shame intensified. Jesus was led out of sight and sentenced to death. We don’t know if Peter stood at the cross, watched from afar, or cowered in the Upper Room. It doesn’t matter. Innocent Jesus died while guilty Peter lived. Getting caught doing wrong is bad enough. Unable to fix the problem is far worse. Peter was utterly helpless to halt the tragic death of the man he knew was the Messiah. In Jesus’ darkest hour, Peter couldn’t give his Lord the support he needed. Some best buddy he was. How appropriate for all four gospel writers to recount Peter’s rejection of Jesus. How courageous of Peter to let them include his story of shame in their historical record. For you see, Peter’s action of turning his back on the Son of God is the very reason Christ died on the cross—to provide a remedy for our rejection of Him and to remove our shame. Peter! Don’t despair. All is not lost. You can’t fix the harm your choice caused. But the one you spurned fixed the problem of sin for you and all others through his death.
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Moving Past The Shame
We all face moments of humiliation. Caught with our hands in the cookie jar or under the shirt of our betrothed. Caught saying words we shouldn’t whether in denial, anger, or deceit. Covering our tracks, hedging the truth. Seeking desperate solutions that only make matters worse. Like Peter, we want to hide until the accusing fingers retract and everyone moves on to the next sensational headline of someone else’s sin. The six million dollar question is this: how did Peter move from a huddled heap of tears and regret to a fearless leader on the Day of Pentecost less than two months later? Jesus didn’t let Peter wallow in his shame. Mark 16:7 says that an angel instructed the women to tell the disciples and Peter of his return to life. Luke 24:34 suggests that Jesus met with Peter privately in those first crucial hours after his resurrection. John tells the heart-mending story of Peter’s reinstatement in John 21. Peter overcame his shame in three steps. First, he acknowledged his error. Next, he accepted Christ’s forgiveness. Finally, he returned to God’s plan for him, stronger than ever. Knowing the high cost of failure gave him the courage to proclaim to Jewish leaders, “There is no other name under heaven given to mankind by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12).” Shame no longer bound Peter like a straight-jacket; instead it morphed into humility as Peter learned to let the Holy Spirit work through him to do great things for God’s Kingdom. Have your poor choices ever been held up to public scrutiny? Maybe you bear a secret no one else knows, but you know God knows and you hang your head, feeling like you can never be fully useful to His Kingdom. You can move past the shame. Admit what you’ve done to God. Accept that He has forgiven you. Allow your moment of shame to strengthen you for what God has planned for you to do in His Kingdom. Karen Wingate is a blogger and Bible study leader. Her story, “My God Can Do Anything,” appears in the anthology, Life Changing Miracles (Bethany House). Her blog appears at www.graceonparade.com.
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What Type of Parent Are You? It’s no secret that parenting is, by far, one of the most difficult jobs in our society. The idea of bringing a new life into this world and raising that life into a self-sufficient, happy, and healthy adult is not only daunting but, to many, terrifying. One of the most common problems when it comes to parenting is healthy discipline and boundaries. Where do we draw the line? Where do I find the line? What in the world is the line? For many, this concept is clear and traditions of discipline have been passed down from generation to generation. For some, the concept of disciplining children is hazy and anxiety provoking. Hebrews 12:11 tells us “No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it.” I believe that this verse puts many parents’ concerns into perspective. As a parent, one has natural instincts of wanting to protect and not harm or punish. The idea of making one’s child uncomfortable or upset is not pleasant, but without it can true discipline be achieved? Can rules be learned and understood without discipline? From a developmental standpoint, the answer is no. Research has shown that healthy attachments to caregivers (parents, guardians, teachers, etc.) are formed through nurturing, consistent, and structured relationships. These relationships are built on trust, stability, and a respect for one another. In Proverbs Chapter 22, verse 6 we read “Train up a child in the way he should go;
even when he is old he will not depart from it.” This passage is basically reinforcing the concept that parents have a responsibility to support, nurture, and raise their children but how do we develop a healthy boundary with children while still showing love? There are four basic parenting styles and experts in Human Growth and Development have agreed on the most effective, but let’s first discuss some of the less-effective styles first. The first is Authoritarian Parenting. This style is characterized by parents having a controlling and power-assertive relationship with their child. While authoritarian parents are high in discipline, rules, and respect they may not pay attention to things like support, fun, and the showing of love for their children. When I think of an authoritarian parent I always think of the character Mr. Banks in Marry Poppins before he has his revelation and becomes kind. The second is Permissive Parenting. This style is extremely high in support and love, but lacks much discipline or rules--it is a very indulgent relationship. For this, I always imagine Mr. Salt from Willy Wonka and Chocolate Factory. He gave everything and anything to his daughter, Veruca, and we all saw how that ended up. Finally, and on a more serious note, is a parenting style known as RejectingNeglecting. This style is characterized simply as being uninvolved, uncaring, and unloving. All of these styles have their own faults, so what is the best direction? The theorized answer is a parenting style known as Authoritative. Authoritative parenting is classified as one where a loving and respectful relationship between parent and child is reciprocal. The parents practices loving, nurturing behavior, while also practic21
ing discipline and remaining consistent in their rule keeping. For this, I always imagine Atticus Finch from To Kill a Mockingbird. Research has shown us that this parenting style is, in fact, the most successful at developing strong and secure attachments with our children. It seems clear that the line in the sand can be made but through nurturing, consistent, and structured relationships that are based in love. I think that it is important to remember Psalms 127:3 “Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb a reward.” Parenting is not just a job, it is a privilege and an outlet for all of us to practice God’s greatest gift to humanity: the ability to love. No matter your parenting style, it is critically important to be engaged in your children’s lives, particularly their school lives. Think about it, your children are sent off for 7-8 hours per day, five days a week and influenced by a totally different group of adults...teachers, principals, administrative staff. You need to know these folks and they need to know you. Recognizing this need, the Alabama Department of Education dedicates October as Parent Visitation Month. Check if your school is participating and go visit the teachers, principals, and administrators who will be influencing your child this year. Get engaged!
Avery Berry is an Associate Licensed Counselor and a National Certified Counselor under the supervision of Rebecca Morris, Ed. S., NCC, LPC-S. He holds a Bachelor’s of Human Environmental Science in Human Development and Family Studies from the University of Alabama and is a recent graduate of Auburn University where he obtained a Master’s of Education degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling. Avery has a great deal of experience working with individuals who are experiencing issues related to substance abuse, depression, and anxiety.He counsels adults, couples, and adolescents and divides his time between Samaritan Counseling Center and partnering with Valiant Cross Academy as an in-house mental health counselor.
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Are You Inviting? Recently, I was in Nashville for the annual UNITE event, sponsored by CBA: The Association for Christian Retail, from which conversations have been heard on The Meeting House; there is audio and video material available through MeetingHouseOnline.info. One guest was Don Piper, author of the best-selling book, 90 Minutes in Heaven, who talked about his forthcoming book, People I Met at the Gates of Heaven: Who’s Going to Be There Because of You? If you’re familiar with Don’s story, he is someone who was declared to be dead, yet returned from the dead with a story of having traveled to heaven. In this latest book, he relates that he saw people who had an impact on his life and challenges Christians to impact the lives of others and share what it takes to get to heaven. A LifeWay Research has been released that explores the concept of inviting people to come to church. A Baptist Press story about the survey stated: Nearly two-thirds of Protestant churchgoers say they’ve invited at least one person to visit their church in the past six months, according to a new LifeWay Research study. “It’s a fairly easy thing for churchgoers to do,” said Scott McConnell, executive director of LifeWay Research, based in Nashville. “In any six-month stretch, there are major Christian holidays and often other special events that are perfect occasions for churchgoers to invite friends and acquaintances.” With regard to the frequency of invitation, the article says: “Seventeen percent said they extended an invitation. Twenty-one percent extended two invitations, while 25 percent River Region’s Journey
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extended three or more. Nine percent said they didn’t know how many invitations they extended.” There was also a question about why respondents did not invite people. The story states: Thirty-one percent said “I don’t know why” when asked why they didn’t invite more people. Twenty percent said people have refused their invitation. Seventeen percent said they didn’t know anyone to invite, while 11 percent said they weren’t comfortable asking people to come to church. Only 4 percent said inviting people isn’t their job. The consideration of this data can certainly be challenging, and there are several takeaways. One is that we can certainly think about the priority of sharing our faith. That can include inviting someone to come to church - someone who is unsaved and/or unchurched. People need to hear the life-giving message of Christ and experience His love. We have been commissioned to share Christ’s love and communicate His message. Simply inviting someone to church can be an important step in what God wants to do in a person’s life. This brought to mind an effort that I have promoted in the past, an initiative organized ten years ago that is pertinent to this discussion. It’s called Back to Church Sunday and it is celebrated on the third Sunday in September this year, that is September 16. Its website has these statistics from the past ten years: • 5,296,234 – Invitations Sent for Back to Church Sunday
• 13,399,472 people reached • 38 Videos created • Over 120 different denominations and affiliations have participated since its beginning in 2009 • The average church sees a 25% increase in attendance on Back to Church Sunday – even small churches You can learn more at BackToChurch. com. The concept of going “back to church” implies that a person or family may have attended church in the first place and perhaps needs a nudge in the right direction to experience that dynamic of the local church again. I thought about a conversation I had at the 2018 National Religious Broadcasters Convention with Barry Meguiar of the radio feature heard on Faith Radio, Revival Outside the Walls. He has launched a companion effort called, Ignite America. On its website, you can read this challenge: “Move Everyone, Every Day, Closer to Jesus.” The site states: “We’ve turned our lights off and left the world in darkness. How are they going to know unless someone tells them . . . unless you tell them?” That echoes the words of Romans 10:14-15a: “How then shall they call on Him in whom they have not believed? And how shall they believe in Him of whom they have not heard? And how shall they hear without a preacher? And how shall they preach unless they are sent?” (NKJV) We can also seek to develop a passion for sharing Christ’s love. As we grow in our love for Him, we can be so filled with adoration for our Savior that it overflows, radiating to the people with whom we interact. We can be challenged to fall in love with Him to the degree that He walks with us and through us to touch the lives of other people; people who need to see and experience the hope of the Gospel.
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Often the most successful ministries are the ones that meet people where they are— communicating love and compassion in a language they can understand. Dewayne Rembert had just that passion when he founded the Flatline Movement. His mission in this ministry is to take the Gospel to the streets of Montgomery and other cities throughout Alabama through Christian rappers, singers, and speakers, always with the focus of preaching the Word of God in everything they do.
Flatline Sports Camp in Panama City bling house cursing, gambling, and drinking right in front of me. As a result, my perception of the church was warped. I even had a lady from the church tell me to, ‘Get them earrings out your ear, and pull your pants up, Boy. You’re going to hell.’ She said those hurtful things, but left out the crucial part of telling me how to get to Heaven. I believe these examples are what God used to ignite His calling to reach young people with the truth of the Gospel. By the grace of God, I graduated and moved to Montgomery. I finally heard the Gospel on February 3, 2002, at 11:17 am. At that time, I was the Sales Manager at a hotel, and later I even made it all the way to General Manager at one of the top hotel chains in the industry. Nevertheless, at the height of my career, the Lord called me out of it to start the Flatline Movement.” Rembert went on to explain his mission and the passion that drives it:
The Flatline Movement began in November 2014, and is composed of youth speakers, chaplains, Christian rappers, poets, music producers, singers, and even basketball coaches. Rembert’s desire to begin this ministry was born from his own past struggles. He explains, “Growing up, I did not hear about the Gospel, and it was strange because I was in this Bible Belt, surrounded by Christians (which I only knew as church folks). In fact, I wasn’t reached until I was 26 years old. I know firsthand the pain and rejection that comes with growing up and not knowing who Jesus really is. My mother was in and out of my life, and I did not have a father at home, so that made it worse. The closest male relative I looked up to, who was somewhat influential in my life, was under the bondage of alcohol. At the age of 16, I witnessed a preacher come into a gam-
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and I didn’t have anyone to take us to church, so we just didn’t go. As a result of not having that experience, we did a lot of things that could have ruined our lives forever. No one came to explain sin, grace, repentance, justification, and redemption to us. I did not hear anything that related to my world, and I don’t remember being taught who Jesus really was. I was also heavy into rap, and therefore, church was boring to me and my friends. Having experienced this firsthand, I pretty much know the mindset of many of today’s young people. The Bible says we are to be fishers of men. Well, you have to know what pond you’re fishing in. If there are bass in this pond, you will put bait on the hook that you know bass like. Likewise, we are fishing for young people, so Flatline puts shiny bait on the hook like rap music, mentorship, and sports—getting them ready to be caught, cleaned, and made alive through the Gospel of Jesus Christ. Now, we know when most people hear rap they become uneasy. In some aspects, I totally understand. The devil did not create rap, he just perverted it. The word rap actually means Rhyme and Poetry. If you look in your Bible, the books of Psalms, Job, Proverbs, Ecclesiastes, and the Songs of Solomon are all poetic books.” “Another reason for our passion is that we show that there are more ways than the traditional ones to reach people with the Gospel. If you think your way is the only way, you could very well have your eyes fixed on the mat. Let me explain. In John chapter five, Jesus encountered a man who had laid lame for 38 years. Jesus asked the man if he wanted to get well, and he made excuses. Jesus said, ‘Get up! Pick up your mat and walk.’ This was the Sabbath, so the Jewish leaders said to the man who had been healed: ‘It is the Sabbath; the law forbids you to carry your mat.’ He replied, ‘The man who made me well said to me: Pick up your mat and walk.’ They asked him, ‘Who is this fellow who told you to pick it up and walk?’ They were so focused on their traditional ways that they missed the miracle of this man walking again. In some of our church circles, you can see a
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“Flatline is derived from Romans 6:11, ‘So you also must consider yourselves dead to sin and alive to God in Christ Jesus.’ In other words, you must die to your sin, before you truly die, so you can then live. Our mission is to be used by God to communicate that truth and hope to everyone through discipleship, music, and sports. I am passionate because of the commands from the Lord Jesus to ‘go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you. And behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age.’ And also, ‘Become weak to the weak, that we might win the weak. I have become all things to all people that by all means I might save some. I do it all for the sake of the Gospel, that I may share with them in its blessings.’ Our target audience is young people; we engage their culture without compromising the Gospel.” Rembert continued, “I am also passionate when it comes to outreach ministry because I never saw it growing up. Many of my friends
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person that used to live completely against God, but heard the Gospel and gave their heart to Jesus. Now they want to explain the mystery of Him and testify to what He’s done in their life, but some people just look at the mat instead of the miracle of the Gospel.” Flatline Movement has impacted not only the River Region, but across the United States, and even as far as Africa. They have reached countless athletes and students through school assemblies, block parties, concerts, Bible studies, and even through having a high school AAU traveling basketball team. Rembert shares, “We are still doing all of these things, and we know God has used the ministry to impact students, coaches, principals, teachers, and more. Recently, I released a book called Flatlined 2 ENgauge, and many students, coaches, principals, and teachers have gotten their hands on copies and have testified of its impact on them for the glory of God. I have also traveled to Ghana, Africa to be the keynote speaker for a youth conference.” Locally, the work of the Flatline Movement attracted the attention of the Montgomery Baptist Association. They brought Rembert on staff as a Ministry Resident. God has also recently opened another door. The ministry is set to launch the first Flatline Church in Chisholm around May of 2019.
How You and/or Your Church Can Support Flatline
Rembert realizes that community support and prayer is crucial to the success of the Flatline Movement. He explains, “The Bible says that, ‘The harvest is plentiful, but the laborers are few; therefore pray earnestly to the Lord of the harvest to send out laborers into his harvest.’ Well obviously, salvation is free, but ministry is not. I am a full-time urban missionary with a wife of 16 years, along with our three children. We now have need of more study Bibles to hand out and to use for our Bible studies, funding for weekly dinners, funding for music, and help with our basketball team’s expenses. The long term goal is to have three other chaplains in the Flatline Movement become full time. Please pray for us! Please pray that we stay humble to our Lord. Our opportunities have outgrown our funding. God has given us a big vision and a big HOPE!” To support this ministry please contact: Dewayne Rembert, 334.603.1881, drflatlinemovement@gmail.com or Tosha Parker, 334.386.4376, tparker@hillhillcarter.com. Angela Hardgrave is a graduate of the University of Mobile with a degree in journalism and currently works in the Marketing Department of Faulkner University as a graphic designer. Angela is also a freelance writer for several publications in the River Region. She resides in Wetumpka with her three awesome daughters and her dog, Emmy.
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Adoption Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy and First UMC, Millbrook APAC, Alabama Pre/ Post Adoption Connection Support Group: This group provides education and social interaction for adoptive families. Meets 3rd Tuesdays, 6-7:30 p.m., Room 8114 at Frazer. For more information call Jill Sexton at 409-9477.
Location: Grace Presbyterian Church, Corner of Bell Road and Atlanta Hwy. Alcoholics Anonymous and Alanon meetings are held Monday, Tuesday, Thursday, and Friday, at 6 p.m. An Open AA Speaker meeting is held on Saturday at 6 p.m. An Alanon & AA held on Sundays at 2 p.m. Location: Grace Point Community Church, 78223 Tallassee Hwy (Hwy 14), Wetumpka Celebrate Recovery- every Tuesday night- 6:15pm. All are welcome! These meetings are a safe and loving environment for individuals seeking to conquer their hurts, habits and hang-ups! gracepoint.info.
Location: Caring Center of FBC, 52 Adams Avenue CrossRoads Support Group is for addicts/alcoholics and family members. Meets at 6 p.m. Tuesdays and follows a Christ-centered 12-step program. Call 264-4949.
Location: Journey Church, 435 Sheila Blvd, Prattville Celebrate Recovery - Christ-centered 12-step for anyone struggling with addiction or life-challenging issues. Mondays beginning at 6:15 pm. Childcare available. Call John Pearse at 303-243-4308 or visit myjourneychurch.com.
Location: Dalraida UMC, 3817 Atlanta Highway Alcoholics Anonymous meets at 6 p.m. on Tuesdays. 272.2190. Alanon meets at 7:30 p.m. on Wednesdays.
Location: Landmark Church, 1800 Halcyon Blvd. RSVP- This is a 12 step spiritual recovery program for overcoming addictions. Using the steps and Bible
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we help build self-esteem, responsible behavior, the making of amends for our destructive actions, and to fill the void in our hearts in a loving relationship with God. Wednesday @ 6:30pm in Rm. 121 of the Life Center. Location: Prattville Church of Christ, 344 E Main St. CASA - 12 step (Christians Against Substance Abuse) spiritual recovery program, for overcoming addictions. Class begins each Wednesday evening @6:30 PM. Please call 334-365-4201 for additional information. Location: Santuck Baptist Church, 7250 Central Plank Rd. (Hwy 9), Wetumpka Celebrate Recovery meets each Thursday evening at 6:15 in the Fellowship Hall. This is a Christ centered 12 step-program for anyone struggling with hurts, habits, and hang-ups. Call 567-2364.
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Sex Addicts Anonymous (SAA) is open to all struggling with addictive sexual behavior. For locations, please visit- https://saa-recovery.org/ or please contact – MontgomerySAA@outlook.com. Meetings are held: every Sunday night - 7:45 p.m, men only. Every Monday night - 7:30 p.m, men and women. Location: St. James UMC, 9045 Vaughn Road Celebrate Recovery meets every Thursday night from 6-8 pm in the Youth Room. This is a Christ-centered 12-step group for anyone struggling with an “addiction or life-challenging issues.” For information, call Chris Henderson at 334-215-0427. Location: First United Methodist Church, Wetumpka 306 W. Tuskeena Street ‘Fresh Start’ Recovery meets every Thursday, 6-8pm (meal included). In 2011, Fresh Start Motorcycle Ministry (FSMM) began when God laid it on the heart of a lifetime biker to minister to those with his background. All are welcome, not a requirement to own/ride a motorcycle. For any info contact ministry leader, Paul Henderson, 334-201-5428.
Location: Aldersgate UMC, 6610 Vaughn Rd Cancer Survivors Support Group is sponsored by Samaritan Counseling Center. We would love to have anyone (patient or family member ) join us. Thursdays at 1 pm. Please call before attending just to make sure we are meeting that week. Please call Debbie D at 467-4578 or Ben W at 202-1912. Location: Dalraida Baptist, 3838 Wares Ferry Road. Just for Men -- Faith based cancer support group for men. Meetings are held the second Tuesday of each month at 6 p.m. in the conference center. Please call 272-2412 email stan.hurst@knology.net. Location: ChristChurch, 8800 Vaughn Road Cancer Support Group for general cancer. Tuesday afternoons at 1 pm. For more info, please call Christy Holding at 531-1390 or Debbie at 467-4578.
Alzheimer’s / Dementia
Location: Frazer UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy. Central Alabama Multiple Myeloma Support Group meets from 10 a.m. to noon the second Saturday of every month in Room 3105. We have guest speakers, video presentations, printed information and a group that welcomes sharing their journey with myeloma in an informal setting. Refreshments are provided. Contact Joe Crowley at 334-207-4385 or jpcrowl46@ yahoo.com Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy.
Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy An Alzheimer’s and Dementia Caregivers’ Support Group meets on the first Thursday of each month at 10:30 a.m. in Room 3103. Call 495-6350 for more information.
Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy. Women of Hope Breast Cancer Support Group, providing education, awareness, and mentoring for breast cancer patients/survivors, family and friends, meets the 2nd Tuesday of each month at 5:30 p.m. in Room 8114. Call 220-4599 or e-mail womenofhope@charter.net
Location: First UMC, 2416 W. Cloverdale Park, An Adult Parkinson/Alzheimer’s respite ministry meets from 10 a.m.-2 p.m. every Monday, Wednesday and Thursday. Lunch is served. Contact Daphne at 834-8990.
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Location: First Baptist Church, 305 S. Perry Street Divorce Care Wednesday nights @6:30-8:00 pm in Room 405B. Child care is available. Contact Kathy Cooper at 241-5125 for
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Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Divorce Care meets each Tuesday from 6 – 7:30 p.m. Come to the Library area. This group will provide support & guidance to assist you in working through the issues, pain & pressures surrounding divorce. Also, Divorce for Kids is available. Call 495-6350 or e-mail jan@frazerumc.org. January 9 - April 3, 2018 Location: Vaughn Forest Church, 8660 Vaughn Road DivorceCare fosters a weekly supportive and caring environment to heal the hurt of separation and divorce. Call 279-5433.
Gambling
Location: Cedarwood Community Church, 10286 US HWY 231 in the Wallsboro/Wetumpka community. The church is 1 1/2 miles past Tutweiler prison. Gamblers Anonymous, Saturdays at 6 pm. and Mondays at 6:30 pm. Call 567-0476. Location: Mental Health of America, 1116 South Hull Street, Montgomery. Sundays @ 5 pm. For more information about the GA meetings call 334399-6918. For information about counseling services or to request a guest speaker please call the Alabama Council on Compulsive Gambling at 334-277-5100.
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Grief
Location: Cornerstone Christian Church, 301 Dalraida Road River Region Survivors of Suicide meets on the second and fourth Thursday of every month (excluding holidays) from 6:30-8:00 PM. This is an open group for those who have lost a loved one to suicide and welcomes anyone regardless of their religious beliefs. Contact Cheryl Vinson at riverregionsos@gmail.com with questions or for more information. Location: Eastmont Baptist, 4505 Atlanta Hwy. Compassionate Friends is a national self-help support organization for families grieving the death of a child meeting first Tuesdays at 7 pm. Call (334) 284-2721 for info. Location: First UMC, 100 E. Fourth St, Prattville Grief Share, Wednesday evenings at 6 pm in the church parlor. Led by Michael Beatty. Call 365-5977. Location: Frazer UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Grief Recovery Support Group meets Tuesdays at 5:30 p.m., Rm 3105. Call 495-6350 for more info. Location: Grace Baptist Church, 304 Old Montgomery Highway, Wetumpka Mourning to Morning is a Christian growth group for mothers who have lost a child, from before birth through adulthood. Meets the last Thursday night of each month. For info, contact Alice Scarborough (334) 462-4775 or Gwen Ellis (334) 567-8754 or e-mail mourningtomorning@gmail.com. Join us on Facebook. Location: Millbrook FUMC, 3350 Edgewood Rd Grief Share meets Sundays from 5-7 p.m. For more information or to sign up, please call the church office at 285-4114 or email churchoffice@mfumc.org.
Location: Pilgrim Rest Missionary Baptist Church 1550 E. Washington Street Grief support group meets every Monday at 6:00 P.M7:00 P.M. For additional information, please contact Alice Glover at (334)281-2754.
raising your little ones. We have educational speakers, great conversation, and fun activities. Free childcare is provided. Meetings are every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays, 9:30-11:30 a.m., September through May. Contact Tiffany Alewine at 241-5165.
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Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Frazer mom2mom is a playgroup to connect mothers of ages birth to 5 at Frazer UMC to share fun and inspiration in our journey together, with our children, and with Christ. Email Mom2mom@frazerumc.org for more information.
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Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy NAMI Montgomery (National Alliance on Mental Illness) meets 2nd Monday of each month from 6:30 – 8:30 p.m. in Room 7205. Group provides understanding, education, & information to family members & friends of those who suffer mental illness. Call Mary Jo Logan at 271-2280 for more info. NAMI Connection (National Alliance on Mental Illness) Support group for individuals with mental illness. Meets every Thursday. 6-7:30 p.m., Room 3103. Call Mary Jo Logan at 271-2280 for more info.
Parenting
Location: First Baptist Prattville, 138 S. Washington
Moms LIFE (Living In Faith Everyday) meets twice monthly from 8:30 - 11:45 am in the chapel at the Church from Aug - May. We offer a time of fellowship, Bible study, musical guest, special guest speakers and a lot of fun!! Cost is $5 per meeting. For moms of all stages and ages of life. Childcare provided by reservation. Call April Scott at 828-446-6666. Location: First Baptist Church, 305 S. Perry Street MOPS (Mothers of Preschoolers) is a place you can share a good meal, make new friends, and find encouragement as you face the everyday challenges of
Location: Landmark Church, 1800 Halcyon Blvd. Single Moms Support Group, Wednesday nights at 6:30 p.m. in classroom 118. For information call 277-5800. Location: Perry Hill UMC, 910 Perry Hill Road Single Moms’ Care and Support Group meets 2nd and 4th Thursdays from 6:15 - 8:00 PM. December meeting will be on the 11th. Free snack supper provided to moms and children. Child care for infants -16 years. Call 272-3174. Location: Redland Baptist, 1266 Dozier Rd, Wetumpka A MOPS group will be held 1st and 3rd Tuesday’s of every month during the school year, and has scheduled play dates and moms nights out through the summer and beyond. While moms are in a MOPS meeting, their children are lovingly cared for in the MOPPETS program. Email Denise Braswell at deniseorscott@ yahoo.com. Location: St.James UMC, 9045 Vauhgn Road Moms in Prayer International: This is a Christ centered interdenominational prayer ministry made up of moms, grandmothers, aunts or any woman who wants to gathers to pray for their children and schools. Meets
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every Sunday afternoon from 3:00-4:00. Call Annette Jones for more information on joining us or training to start your own group. 850-529-4730 or email Montgomerymipac@gmail.com Location: Vaughn Forest Church, 8660 Vaughn Road Are you in need of a time-out? MOPS joins mothers together by a common bond, to be better wives, moms, and friends along this journey in the trenches of motherhood. We meet the 1st and 3rd Tuesday of each month from 9:30—11:30 a.m. Childcare is provided. For info e-mail VFCMOPS@gmail.com.
Physical Challenges
Location: Aldersgate UMC, 6610 Vaughn Road Visually Impaired Support Group – Meets monthly on second Thursday 1:00 – 2:30 p.m. The group is called Outward Sight - Inward Vision and is for those with vision loss and their caregivers. Our mission is to assist those experiencing vision loss to maintain their independence. Call 272-6152. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy. Parkinson’s Support meets 4th Thursdays at 6 pm in Room 8114. Call 495-6350 for more info. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy. Ostomy Support meets every other month on the 2nd Sunday at 1:30 p.m. in room 3101. In 2018: Feb., April, June, Aug., Oct., Dec. Call 495-6350 for more info. Location: Vaughn Park Church, 3800 Vaughn Rd. Montgomery Area Down Syndrome Outreach Group meets 2nd Friday of each month from 6:30- 8 PM. We have activities, speakers and special events throughout the year for the parents, siblings and children with Down Syndrome. Childcare is provided. Please visit www.montgomeryareadownsyndrome.com or our Facebook page (MADSOG) for information. Please contact MADSOG at montgomeryareadownsyndrome@gmail.com.
Same Sex Attraction
Location: : Young Meadows Presbyterian Church, 5780 Vaughn Road, Montgomery Upstream Support Group for those dealing with unwanted same sex attraction and family members or loved ones of those who are gay identified. The group meets at 6:30 pm every first, third and fifth Tuesday evenings. For more information call 334.244.1385.
Singlehood
Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Boundaries study for singles meets each Tuesday from 6-7:30pm in the Fellowship Hall Lobby. This study will help singles learn to set boundaries with emotions and help avoid the harmful behavior of others. For information, call 495-6386 or email singles@ frazerumc.org. Location: Frazer Memorial UMC, 6000 Atlanta Hwy Single and Parenting! A New Group for Single Mom’s. This group meets every Tuesday from 6-7:30pm for hope & encouragement & guidance & parenting ideas. For information, call 495-6386 or email singles@frazerumc.org.
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Spouse won’t follow the plan Q. What can someone do if they can’t convince their spouse to begin planning and saving? I’ve tried for years to persuade my wife to join me in following your plan, but I can’t get her to start thinking about our financial future and stop living in the moment.
A. It sounds like your wife, for whatever reason, is not willing to pay a price for a short period of time. I’m sorry to say it, but that kind of thinking is a one-way ticket to a lifetime of mediocrity. If you’re unwilling to pay a price to win, then you’re going to end up paying the price that comes with never having paid a price. In essence, you’re asking me how to get her to grow up. I’m not sure there’s a way to convince her at this point. If she’s not willing to delay getting or doing things she wants, that’s a sign of immaturity. You can’t change that within another person. It must be a conscious, willing decision on their part.
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Maybe you could try letting her know that being careful with your money and planning for the future doesn’t mean you can’t have any fun. It just means you may have to delay certain things for a little while. My wife and I do and have lots of cool things now, because we saved like crazy and sacrificed years ago. We lived like no one else, so now we’re able to live like no one else. In other words, we paid a price to win!
A burden to help? Q. Do you believe the adult child of a senior citizen, who is physically and mentally healthy but has neglected to plan for retirement, should be burdened with providing financial assistance to that parent?
A. Based on the wording in your question, I can only believe you don’t think the adult
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child should be “burdened” to provide this assistance. My guess is you’re talking about one of your own parents. I understand that you might be aggravated with a parent who has been irresponsible with their money. But in my mind, there’s a bigger question. How big is the burden? I talked to a guy recently who was making $1.5 million a year. He was questioning whether he should help his dad — an older man in poor health, who didn’t handle his money well — by giving him $1,000 a month. There’s no question you give that guy money. But if you bring home $2,000 a month, and your family is barely getting by, you’re not morally required to financially take care of a parent who was irresponsible with their money.
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