January 23 Education and Private School Issue

Twins Harper and Hayden (age 8), and little sister, Nellie (3), are the daughters of Cindy and Nathan Spivey of Dothan.

Hayden and Harper have attended Houston Academy since preschool. Both girls enjoy dancing, drawing and reading. Nellie attends Dothan Montessori School and will begin Houston Academy in August.

Doug Stone Concert

January 13, 2023 * 7:00 PM * Dothan Opera House

Doug Stone found his mark in music as a lonesome baritone balladeer, although he was very adept at hard-up-tempo country. Doug began at age five learning guitar from his mother an avid singer and guitarist. At age seven he was given the opportunity, by his mother, to open for Loretta Lynn.

Now in 2022- 32 years, 8 #1 singles, 15 top 10 singles, and over 10 million album sales later, the singer of timeless country hits like “A Jukebox with a Country Song” & “In a Different Light” is still running the roads performing to dedicated fans across the nation. Sharing his testimony of a close relationship with the Lord after several years of alcohol abuse, a nearly 5 years sober Stone is at the top of his game once again. Visit http://www.dothanciviccenter.org/.

Coffee County

Arts Alliance

Presents Forever Young

February 7, 2023 * 7:00 PM

Enterprise High School Performing Arts Center

This multi-award-winning production is jam-packed with powerhouse vocals, dynamite choreography, and one sensational true story that is guaranteed to make you feel-forever young. Please visit https://www.cof feecountyartsalliance.com/ forever-young for more information.

Pike Piddlers Storytelling Festival

January 27 – 28, 2023

We are excited to be joined by Donald Davis, Tim Lowry, Bil Lepp and Barbara McBride-Smith. The Friday night performance is $25 at the We Piddle Around Theater in Brundidge and includes dinner. There are three performances on Saturday at the Trojan Center Theater on the Troy University campus in Troy. Weekend ticket packages are $55 and include Friday night supper and stories and all three performances on Saturday. For ticket information call (334) 685-5524 or (334) 670-6302.

Art of the Table Fundraiser

January 19 – 20, 2023 * Cultural Arts Center, Dothan The Cultural Arts Center presents their inaugural tablescaping fundraiser. Experience the art of hospitality expressed through beautiful dishes, linens, and centerpieces themed in a work of classic literature this year. Creators of all types will assemble at the Cultural Arts Center on Thursday January 19th and Friday January 20, 2023 to display their creations, sure to awe and inspire onlookers. Participation in Art of the Table affords individuals and businesses alike the opportunity to showcase their creative talents.

A First Look will be offered on Thursday evening for those wishing to be the first to view the designs and vote on a winner. The First Look will feature hors d’oeuvres and a signature cocktail along with entertainment. Friday the Showcase will be open to the general public from 2:00 to 6:00 pm for viewing, voting, and bidding. All tables will be posted on our Facebook page for a social media vote as well those 2 days and the week following. Please visit https://www.theculturalartscenter.org/art-of-the-tabletablescaping-event for more information and tickets.

Winter Reading Program

Through February 17, 2023

Stop by any Dothan Houston County Library branch to sign up for the Winter Reading Program and receive your Passport to the Library. Similar to our Summer Reading Program that we all know and love, the Winter Reading Program will be another chance to read books and win prizes. This year, earn stamps in your passport as you travel through books and activities. Please visit http://www.dhcls.org/ for more information.

First Saturday Family Day

January 7, 2023 * 10:30 AM – 2:30 PM

Wiregrass Museum of Art, Dothan

Saturdays are the perfect day for children and families to create and explore art together! First Saturday Family Day, one of WMA’s longest-running educational programs, offers free art activities on the first Saturday of every month for lifelong learners of all ages. No registration is required and all supplies for the activity are provided.

“Second grade is a grade of incredible growth. I love seeing the students change and grow academically and mature during the year,” said Mrs. Samantha Willis. “Students transition from learning to read to reading to learn in second grade, and I aim to add loving to read to that transition.”

Mrs. Willis has been a teacher for 25 years at Rehobeth Elementary in Dothan, Alabama. She decided to begin teaching because of her love for children. Mrs. Willis describes herself as a kid at heart and explains that teaching allows her to embrace that. She graduated with a Master’s degree in Elementary Education from Troy University.

“I felt becoming a teacher would allow me to spend time with children while helping them grow to be the best version of themselves,” she said. Outside of a strong love for reading, Mrs. Willis hopes her students will leave her classroom knowing their value.

“I want them to know they are not their grade,” Mrs. Willis explained. “They are a child of God. Who they are is what is in their heart, their words, and their actions. High grades,

fancy clothes, and expensive things will not change that.”

Mrs. Willis was nominated as our Wiregrass Teacher of the Month by Katelyn Carter, whose daughter is currently in Mrs. Willis’ second-grade class.

“She is really helping my daughter push her reading skills to new levels and encouraging so much growth in reading, which my daughter is developing such a passion for,” said Katelyn.

Mrs. Willis attributes her motivation to teach to teaching the kids to read.

“I feel a great responsibility to improve each child’s reading ability. Although I am not, I look at it as if I will be their last reading teacher,” said Mrs. Willis. “I must do all I can to have each child reading on grade level to prepare them for the future. So, I teach reading with passion and great urgency. I want to set them up for success.”

Samantha Willis has been married to her husband Billy for 28 years. They have two children, Abby [Taylor] Lee and Adam. They are active members at Covenant United Methodist Church. Mrs. Willis is their church relations volunteer with Operation Christmas Child. The family enjoys traveling, playing cards and putting puzzles together.

Samantha Willis

Rehobeth Elementary School

KidsHealthWatch

Sponsored by Dothan Pediatric Healthcare Network

Develop a Reading Routine

Reading and language are crucial to a child’s development. My own mother read to me every night as a kid, and it fostered a life-long love of books and learning.

Studies show that reading aloud to children, even infants, more than just talking to them increases their vocabulary, IQ, and educational skills when it is time to start school. A child’s vocabulary at age 3 is the single greatest predictor of their ability to read in 3rd grade. These educational benefits eventually translate to improved health outcomes later in life. One study demonstrated children from lower-income families wind up hearing over 30 million words less than those from higher-income families by the age they start kindergarten. The language that they hear has to be directed at them to make an impact,

so language heard on tablets or television shows does not contribute as much to language development.

So how can you prepare your child for school and learning at an early age?

You can start reading with your child at a young age, even as early as three months old. Make bedtime reading a nightly routine. Parents should choose a quiet place without distractions, such as TV in the background. Engage your child’s interest by allowing them to set the pace and turn the pages. This will also help with fine motor skills. Texturized books with sounds are helpful for infants and toddlers. Use the illustrations to build the story and ask your child what they see. Encourage your child to say the words and phrases with you, and don’t be afraid to embrace

your silly side and act out the characters!

As children become older, asking them comprehension questions such as “What do you think might happen next?” can help further engage them.

Books can help with tackling difficult topics such as going to the doctor, handling chronic illness, and even the death of loved ones. They can also expose your child to diversity and help them explore the world around them, cultivating a sense of curiosity than can last a lifetime.

Dr. Grace Spears is a general pediatrician licensed by the Alabama Board of Medical Examiners and certified by the American Board of Pediatrics. In August 2022 Dothan Pediatric Healthcare Network welcomed Dr. Spears as a pediatrician at Enterprise Pediatric Clinic.

Autauga County Schools

Dothan Tech Job Shadow Day Wins Award

Dothan City Schools’ (DCS) Career and Technical Education School, Dothan Tech, was recently awarded Governor Ivey’s 2022 K-12 Work-Based Learning Seal of Excellence Award.

On November 15, Dothan Tech was invited to Troy University to present about the program at the Regional Best Practices event, along with the other three winners. Mr. Chris Duke, DCS Director of CTE, and Mr. Ryan Richards, DCS Workforce Coordinator, shared details and logistics of the program. The highlight of the presentation was a student panel with three students who participated in the inaugural Job Shadow Day. These students were able to share about their experiences, the benefits of the program, and how it confirmed their future career goals. The students’ stories emphasized the profound impact it had on their life.

After all seven Regional Best Practice event from around the state, a committee reviewed the applications and presentations to select one winner from four categories - K-12, Community College, Higher Ed, and Non-Educational as Governor’s WorkBased Learning Seal of Excellence winners, and Dothan Tech was selected as the winner of the K-12 category! As one of the four state winners, Dothan Tech has been invited to share about the event at The Governor’s Work-Based Learning Summit in May.

ECTC Engineering Students Shine

Congratulations to these students! Fourteen engineering students have certified as Autodesk Certified Users for Fusion 360 CAD Modeling Software. This proves they have industry ready skills to design and create components, assemblies and drawing files in Fusion 360.

5th Grade Canned Food Drive at HES

5th grade teachers at Highlands Elementary School wanted to encourage their students and families to practice kindness during this holiday season. In the spirit of giving, students brought in nonperishable/can

Enterprise High School Students Give Back

This year the Enterprise High School Chapter of SkillsUSA, Coffee County Family Services, and the Mitchell Automotive Group have collected, assembled, and transported over 100 bicycles for the Toys for Tots program. These students have worked diligently to organize and carry out this project for the children of our community.

Autauga County Schools

NMA Christmas Concert

Our 1st -3rd grades performed their Christmas Concert in

Providence 6th Grade

Students Spread Joy

Providence Christian School sixth graders spread joy throughout the Grammar building as they celebrated their Victorian Christmas party! They have been reading Charles Dickens’ “A Christmas Carol” and learning about the Victorian time period. They celebrated today with parlor games, making vintage Rehobeth

Senior Signs with Coastal Alabama

Happy signing day to Peyton Hartigan who is going on to play volleyball at Coastal Alabama! RHS is so proud of you!

Highlands Elementary Congratulates Peer Helpers

Highlands Elementary would like to recognize their new Peer Helpers for the 2022-2023 school year. The students participated in a daylong training session conducted by Mrs. Harden, Mrs. Steltenpohl, and Mrs. Kenyon. The training taught students skills they could use to be successful Peer Helpers for the school. The motto of the Peer Helpers is to “Be the good...show the way...lend a hand.”

Dothan Schools Holiday Art Contest Winners

Dothan City Schools held its 3rd Annual Holiday Art Contest to select the cover of this year’s District Holiday Card. This year’s contest was held amongst our 7th - 9th Grade students at Dothan Preparatory Academy and Carver 9th Grade Academy. Over 200 cards were printed by Dothan Tech Graphic Design students and were sent out to our community members and leaders including our Mayor, Commissioners, School Board as well as our State Superintendent.

This year’s winning card was designed by Carver 9th Grade Academy student, Kate Emilia I. Kate Emilia was recently recognized at this December’s Board of Education meeting. Additional elements of the card like the layout and printing was done by Dothan Tech Graphic Arts student, Shariza K.

Northside Methodist Academy Donates Food

NMA “Knights in Action” Interact Club collected food items to benefit the Wiregrass Area Food Bank. These students were entered in a drawing & won a gift card for bringing can goods! Thanks to everyone who donated!

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Autauga County Schools

Providence Christmas Fun on the Quad

Providence Christian logic students enjoyed Christmas on the Quad yesterday. The students spent the afternoon competing in a trivia contest, playing games, and performing skits! The party was a great opportunity for our logic students

Dothan High Student Section Recognized as AHSAA’s Fan Challenge Winner

Dothan High School’s Student Section was recently recognized at the Alabama High School Athletic Association’s (AHSAA) Super 7 State Football Championships in Auburn, Alabama at Jordan Hare Stadium. Dothan High School (DHS) Senior, Colin Groover, and Dothan High School Principal, Dr. Keith Bland, was presented with a banner to hang proudly at Dothan High School as well as a check for $1,000 to be used at DHS.

“This year, the student body really came together and worked as one in our student section,” says Colin Groover, Dothan High School Senior and Student Section Co-Leader. “We all worked very hard to be able to win this challenge. We truly showed we were the best in Alabama and it paid off winning this challenge.” This was the first AHSAA Fan Challenge through a collaboration between AHSAA and The Bama Buzz to find the best student section in the state. 34 schools from across Alabama submitted videos showcasing their school’s all-star school spirit, sportsmanship, and creativity. Dothan High School moved into the final phase of the contest by being named the 7A Semifinalist.

Rehobeth Cheerleader Signs with Faulkner

Hidden Lake Student Leads Pledge of Allegiance at Board Meeting

At Dothan City Board of Education’s recent meeting, we had the pleasure of having Chloe K. from Hidden Lake Primary School present the Pledge of Allegiance. We are so proud to have students like Chloe in our district like look forward to involving our students in future Board of Education meetings.

Congratulations to Rehobeth Varsity Cheerleader, Ellen

by Beth Long, PhD, LPC, BCBA

Appreciating the Differences

One of the reasons I am so passionate about my job is that I want to help other parents not make all the mistakes I made. Unfortunately, one of my greatest blunders is that I did not embrace and appreciate the differences between my oldest child and me.

I am an extreme extrovert. I love being around people, listening to people, and watching people. I enjoy humans so much that I built a career around them. I have been genuinely interested in others for as long as I can remember. I have never been afraid of strangers. My parents never had to pay for Girl Scout Camp because I always sold more than enough cookies to go for free.

My oldest child is an extreme introvert. People and social gatherings have always exhausted him. When he was a toddler, he played for hours on his own. He never wastes time on small talk. He is now 21 and

has had the same best friend since he was 8 (even though we moved 15 hours away when he was 11).

Because I value people and relationships so much, I viewed his introversion and quietness as a problem. I feared he would never be successful because he would not be able to connect with others. I started to make expectations on the number of people he spoke with at church and school. I required him to schedule social outings with friends. I have no regrets about pushing him in areas that were uncomfortable for him, and he is very thankful that I did. What I do regret is not appreciating our differences and respecting him more.

As he matured into an adult, he recognized that he needed to learn to be comfortable around others. He became a barista, a tutor, and a leader in clubs at his college, and he forced himself into situations that helped him grow in areas that he began to recognize as shortcomings. My

oldest was the first person to teach me that we grow and learn when we feel supported, not when we are forced to do so. He also taught me that we all develop in our own time. What do I know now that I wish I had known then?

1. Move at their pace. My husband made our children shake hands with and thank every service member or police officer we saw in public. He modeled this for them, practiced this with them at home, and then always did it first to break the ice. It was very uncomfortable for our children, but they always followed his lead because he moved at their speed and skill level. Over their time in our home, they learned how to do this confidently, and by the time they were teenagers, they could shake hands with and talk to anyone.

2. Recognize the difference between a lack of skill and a personality preference. We all need to know how to talk to people, but we do not all need to talk to everyone everywhere.

Your number one goal as a parent should be to meet your children where they are and encourage necessary growth. All of us have unique gifts, talents, and purposes. When you are blind to those in your own children because of your biases, you limit their potential and harm your relationship.

Dr. Beth Long received her education in Counseling Psychology from Chapman University. She is a Licensed Professional Counselor and Board Certified Behavior Analyst.

Beth has worked in six unique clinical environments across the country and currently owns Works of Wonder Therapy in Montgomery. Beth utilizes the knowledge from a variety of different disciplines to give her patients the best care possible. To learn more visit www.worksofwondertherapy.com.

FIRST UNITED METHODIST CHURCH

Dr. David R. Saliba, the Senior Pastor of FUMC, and his wife, Elizabeth, both grew up in Dothan and enjoy serving Christ in their community with their three young children, Joseph, Grace, and Jacob.

Honor your Parent, Honor your Child

DR. DAVID R. SALIBA

The most important place of learning for a child is not a school classroom nor is it a church sanctuary (yes, I am a pastor). The most important place of learning for a child is in their home. You and your children will have a multitude of earthly relationships, but the family is the foundation for each of them – for everything. In the home we learn basic life skills such as respecting others and working out conflict. In the home we develop our work ethic. It is in the family home where we learn how to live in community. Your home is the environment where basic values are taught and become ingrained in each member’s conscience. If we do not learn to live together in love within our own homes, learning to get along

anywhere else is very difficult.

The home is the fertile ground where righteousness, fulfillment, love, and faithfulness can all be taught, experienced, and encouraged. God commands us to place highest honor on those connected to us in our family.

In the Ten Commandments we are taught to honor our parents. In Paul’s letter to the Ephesians he writes, “Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. ‘Honor your father and mother’—this is the first Commandment with a promise: ‘so that it may be well with you and you may live long on the earth.’ And, fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.”

In the Biblical sense, to honor our parents means to recognize them as important. This does not mean we hold them or all their beliefs/actions in high regard, or even accept them just as they are. Rather, we are taught by God

that our parents' importance is an objective reality, regardless of whether we think it should be so or not. We are called to honor them because they have transmitted life to us. Parents are the critical link that connects creation to Creator, and the responsibility of the parent is to accept the honor and importance they have been given by God to pass not only life, but faith and morality to us as well. God tells Moses to speak to the people saying, "Commit yourselves wholeheartedly to these commands I am giving you today. Repeat them again and again to your children. Talk about them when you are at home and when you are away on a journey, when you are lying down and when you are getting up" (Deuteronomy 6).

A study has shown that if both parents attend church regularly, 72% of their children remain faithful in church attendance. If only the father

attends regularly, 55% remain faithful. If only the mother attends regularly, the percentage drops to 15%. If neither attend regularly, only 6% of children will become faithful church attenders. Reflect upon the importance of the parent in the transmission of faith. The home and the actions of the parent are the most effective way that the love and peace of Christ is spread throughout the world. For every Child not influenced to become a faithful Christian, that is a whole family that will one day most likely be lost to the faith. Eventually whole communities of unbelief are established.

If your own parents were faithful church goers, if they shared and

passed that tradition on to you, then please call them, write them, visit them and tell them thank you for that gift. If they are now a part of the Church Triumphant thank God for them in your praying today. If there were others who helped parent you in the faith: be grateful, and share that gratitude with them. Consider too your own teaching and example of faithfulness for the next generation of children in our community and in your home. If you are a parent, you have the unique ability to bless the world in ways that are truly transformational –let us not take that for granted!

SERVICES & PROGRAMMING

SUNDAY MORNING

8 a.m. First Light Communion Chapel

8:30 a.m. Traditional Worship Sanctuary 8:55 a.m. The Bridge Contemporary Worship Fellowship Hall

9:45 a.m. Coffee & Donuts

The Parlor

10 a.m. Sunday School

11 a.m. Traditional Worship Sanctuary

CHILDREN, TWEENS, AND YOUTH OPPORTUNITIES

SUNDAY EVENING

(Resumes Jan. 22, 2023)

5 - 6 p.m.

8:15a-12p Nursery and Children's Programming available Children's Building- West Wing Adult Bible Study

6 - 7 p.m. WEDNESDAY EVENING

Westminster Handbell Choir Music Suite - Room 256

(Resumes Jan. 18, 2023) 4:30 - 6 p.m.

8:30, 8:55, and 11a

Worship and Fellowship:

SUNDAY MORNING

Children (Kids Korner, Rm. 217)

Tweens and Youth (Tweens and Youth join in Adult Worship)

10:00

Sunday School for Children, Tweens (Rm. 266), and Youth (Rm. 280)

SUNDAY EVENING

5 - 6 p.m

Children's Bible Study (Kids Korner, Rm. 217)

Tweens' Bible Study (Rm. 266)

Youth Worship Arts (Rm. 255)

6 - 7:30 p.m.

Youth Bible Study & Snack Supper (Youth Café)

WEDNESDAY EVENING

4:30 - 5:15 p.m.

Children & Tween choirs: 4P-1st & 2nd-6th graders (Rm. 256)

6 - 7 p.m.

Children's Bible Study (Kids Korner, Rm. 217)

Tween Bible Study (Rm. 266)

6 - 7:30 p.m.

Youth Bible Study (Rm. 280)

Wednesday Night Family Supper Fellowship Hall

6 - 7 p.m. 6 - 7:30 p.m.

Adult Bible Study

Chancel Choir

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Tracy Pruitt & Lee Ann Holland Co-Directors of Children’s Ministry Grades 4P-4th

Sonia Crutchfield Director of Tweens' Ministry Grades 5th-6th

Robbie Amunds Director of Youth Ministry Grades 7th-12th ChildrenTweensYouth

As a parent, I knew of the many milestones my children would face, from learning to walk and talk to navigating relationships and exams. One I was not prepared for was applying for college. The days when getting into college were a breeze are long gone; the applicant pool is far more competitive. Schools that admitted students with less than a B average years ago now often seek an average GPA above 4.0. Because of these higher stakes, many experts recommend applying to five to eight colleges. That makes

Unfortunately, many colleges utilize the Common App so that information can be entered only once. Research which colleges use this method and talk to admissions officers; some prefer students use the school’s application. The Common App opens on August 1, so your senior should be ready to apply at this time. If admitted early, they will have first dibs on housing, and scholarship offers will roll in to help you decide which school is the best value.

What can you do to help your child through this next milestone? First, arm them with the knowledge of what to expect to see on a college application and how to make

Superscore me! Best subject area scores are accepted by most schools.

Activities

Types: School clubs, internships, jobs, volunteering, babysitting, etc.

Number: Try for ten. It is wonderful to have an athlete or musician, but that one activity takes up one of the ten lines on the Common App. It’s not too late! Even if it is junior year, encourage your student to get involved, especially with activities related to their intended major.

Volunteering: List volunteer experiences. Go beyond the number of required hours!

Honors

Types: Local/national awards, honor societies, and other memberships Number: Shoot for five.

Essays

Topic: Choose one of seven essay prompts on the Common App.

Optional Covid Question: Share the effects of the pandemic on grades, etc.

Supplementals: Additional writing is required by some schools. Personalize for each school; research and use observations from visits.

up to $100. Tips: Request fee waivers on the application or through the National Association for College Admission Counseling (NACAC). Watch for schools without fees and free registration weeks. Start filling out an application and wait; you may receive a fee waiver by email!

The Waiting Game

How long until we find out? Anywhere from days to months, the average wait time for rolling admissions is 4-6 weeks. Look for early action/decision deadlines to speed up the process (usually early Nov. or Dec.)

Don’t worry!

If your child doesn’t have top credentials, don’t be discouraged. There is a school for everyone, and a college’s average GPA is just that, an average. Utilize the school’s counselor for resources and advice. Once your student has clicked that submit button, sit back, attempt to relax, and know you have done your job.

WP

: Colleges typically remove elective grades and add half a point to honors/full

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Self-Reported Student Academic Record

: Most schools require this to enter courses and grades for recalculation; it can

Test Scores

To Submit or Not to Submit? Many schools have dropped the testing requirement. If the score is high, submit. If not, consider leaving it out.

Which test? Take the SAT and ACT. Some excel in only one. The science covered in the ACT really tests reading comprehension, so strong readers may prefer it.

Test early! Test when geometry is completed, even if in middle school. These skills may be forgotten if you wait! Retest in junior year, so the reading score is at its best. Register early! Sites fill quickly, and late fees are applied.

Study! Experts recommend starting 2-3 months before the test, 10-20 hours a week. Test multiple times. Scores tend to improve after the first attempt, especially if students are studying. Complete testing by the end of junior year.

Time to Shine: Below average stats? Numbers do not give a full picture; personality, perseverance, and passion come through here. Make it Personal: Lower GPA due to medical conditions or difficulties at home? Low scores because of anxiety? Schools know each student’s experience is unique; they will pay attention, so be sure to share.

The Cost

Test Registration: $55-60 for each attempt Test Prep: Online $100-$2,800, in-person $800-$3,600, private tutors $1,600-$8,000. Tips: Watch for free testing days at your child’s school. See if you qualify for a fee waiver. A book and index cards are not to be frowned upon! Search for free online resources (see below).

Application Costs: Average fee is $50,

Charline Barger is a freelance writer who teaches high school English and Creative Writing. She also serves on the board of Emerald Coast Writers as Secretary and Youth Writers Contest Director. She lives in Pace, FL with her boyfriend, three children and a host of animals.

Colleges love to see students who challenge themselves,

Comparing schools is challenging because each institution offers unique programs in a unique environment. One may present a specialized science curriculum geared toward a future in engineering, while another focuses on developing cooperation and compassion through active community service. The comparisons parents must make are apples-to-oranges at best. Faced with so much detailed information about so many exciting opportunities, it’s hard to stay focused on the end goal: finding the best educational option for your student.

Approach the school-selection process with this three-step strategy to make sure your kids’ needs come first.

Step 1: Assess your Values

Start your school-selection process at home. “Ask yourself what you expect of a school and what you expect of your child, in terms of attitude, behavior, motivation and achievement,” says educational psychologist

Jennifer Little, Ph.D., founder of Parents Teach Kids. You may want a school that has high cultural or ethnic diversity, or whose students and staff have religious values similar to those of your family. Clarifying your values will help you put schools’ marketing materials in context.

Acknowledge practical matters as well. Determine how far you’re willing to drive and how much tuition you can afford. Be honest with yourself about the level of involvement you will have in your child’s school. Create a personal checklist of your requirements and limitations so you don’t overlook important factors.

Step 2: Seek Info

For each potential school, collect information on curriculum, student-teacher ratio and academic outcomes. Study data that show how students scored on placement tests for math, English and foreign languages, and pay particular attention to how many students graduate and what schools they attend next. Also, pay attention to accreditation. The National Association of Independent Schools and similar state associations require member schools to uphold rigorous standards and to undergo periodic review. This makes school officials accountable to

other educators who are in touch with national standards and teaching trends.

Examine course descriptions, materials and teacher preparation to evaluate the quality of a school’s curriculum. Also, ask about choice. You want your child to have a firm foundation in primary subjects and a choice among interesting electives. Kids are motivated to learn when they can pursue subjects they select. Learn about the availability of special programs that interest your child, such as language immersion or music instruction.

Visit schools on your short list to evaluate the academic workload and environment. Ask students how much homework they do each night and attend classes to see how teachers affect learning. Do they use readings, lectures or group discussion? Do students do projects, community service or internships at local businesses or universities? A school’s instructional strategy should match up with its educational objectives and your child’s learning style, Little says.

Keep in mind a school is more than its academic programs. It is a community of learners. Observe social dynamics among students and ask how teachers encourage cooperation and manage behavior problems. Kids can’t learn when they’re struggling with classroom chaos or feel left out of exclusive cliques.

Look at how adults are involved in the school. A strong parent-teacher association ensures that ideas and information flow both

ways. Involvement from alumni suggests a strong sense of pride in the institution. Find out how long teachers have been at the school and whether they receive regular professional development. High turnover may reflect bad management.

Step 3: Focus on Fit

“Ideally, you want to match the school to the learner,” says Faya Hoffman, founder of the Washington, DC, learning concierge service, My Learning Springboard. “A school with a phenomenal reputation may not be the right fit for your child.” Be honest about whether an institution’s approach fits with your student’s interests and temperament.

If your child has an Individualized Educational Plan due to learning (or other) disabilities, find out what services are available to meet his needs. Smaller schools may not have fulltime staff to provide speech or occupational therapy or counseling services. Speak directly with staff members who provide services your child needs, so you understand how your child will get help.

Although it may be inconvenient, Hoffman says siblings may need different educational approaches – and different schools – to learn and thrive. Focus on each student as an individual to make the best decisions.

Heidi Smith Luedtke is a personality psychologist and mom of two. She is the author of Detachment Parenting.

Homeschool Groups

Harvest Christian School 2727 Fortner St., Dothan, 36305

Grades/Ages: Preschool-12th Grade Affiliation: Methodist (334) 797-2846 etaylor@hcsdothan.org www.homeschool-life.com/2009/

HEART of the Wiregrass Homeschool Group

P.O. Box 310613 , Enterprise, 36331

Grades/Ages: Elementary-High School Affiliation: None (334) 447-9230 heartofthewiregrass@gmail.com

Ridgecrest Christian School 1231 Fortner St., Dothan, 36301

Grades/Ages: Preschool-12th Grade Affiliation: Baptist (334) 790-7872 tcumbie@rbcdothan.org / ahall@rcs.rbcdothan.org rcsdothan.org

Wiregrass Homeschoolers Support Group

This group is set up for us to support each other while homeschooling our children and we can hopefully share ideas, curriculum and more! facebook.com/groups/WiregrassHomeschoolers

Miscellaneous

Alabama School of Math & Science

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255 Dauphin St., Mobile, 36604

The Alabama School of Mathematics and ScienceÕs mission is to provide academically motivated Alabama students with exceptional preparation in the fields of math, science, and the humanities, empowering them to improve their community, state, and nation.

Grades/Ages: 9th-12th

Extra Curricular: Sports: Girls/boys basketball, Track and Field, tennis, soccer and girls volleyball and cheer. Arts: Choir and band. Over 35 clubs on campus (Key Club, Allies, Anime, Black Student Union, Environmental Science Club, Cooking Club, Future Business Leaders of America, Chess Team, Future EngineersÕ Club, Yearbook, German Club, Off the Leash, IGNITE, IMPACT, Lab of Learning, HOSA, Heroes of Health, Red Cross Club, Technalliance, Origami Club, Movie Club, Scholars Bowl, Weightlifting Club, Women of the World, Multicultural Student Union, Swing Dance Club, Yoga Club, Ultimate Frisbee). Other: Debate team, Robotics team, Mathematics team, Science Olympiad & SGA. (251) 441-2100 admissions@asms.net www.asms.net

Saliba Center’s HIPPY Program

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HIPPY offers a FREE in-home kindergarten readiness program. The program runs the duration of the school year (30 weeks) and meets on a weekly basis. HIPPY works to ensure that children enter school knowing many things such as: letters, shapes, colors, and motor skills. Parent educators visit the home weekly and deliver a packet of lessons, books, shapes, and enrichment materials. The parent educator makes sure the parent knows how to teach the various lessons, but the parent does the actual teaching.

Grades/Ages: 2-4 Years (334) 792-6255 www.salibacenter.org

Private Schools

Abbeville Christian Academy

520 W. Washington St., Abbeville, 36310

The mission of Abbeville Christian Academy is to provide a Christian environment in which to develop well-educated, well-disciplined students with positive self-esteem, a sense of fair play, and the leadership skills needed for the 21st century.

Grades/Ages: K2-12th Grade Affiliation: Nonsectarian (334) 585-5100 amanda.ates@acagenerals.org www.acagenerals.org

Bethel Christian Academy

3257 E. Cottonwood Rd., Dothan, 36301

The mission of Bethel Christian Academy is to partner with Christian parents in providing students with an excellent academic and Christ-centered education leading the students to become lifelong servants of Christ.

Grades/Ages: K3-12th Grade Affiliation: Baptist (334) 671-1567 awilson@bcadothan.org bcadothan.org

Beulah Land Christian Academy 280 Headland Ave., Dothan, 36303

To provide educational experiences of lasting value that will spiritually, physically, intellectually, socially, and culturally develop the total personality of each child.

Grades/Ages: Nursery-5th Grade

Affiliation: Baptist (334) 673-2767 blca.director@gmail.com www.greaterbeulahdothan.com/christianacademy

Brenda’s Preparatory School

1792 Headland Ave., Dothan, 36303

Grades/Ages: K-4

Affiliation: Christian (334) 794-3315 brendasprep@graceba.net

Crossroads Baptist Academy 2574 Westgate Pkwy., Dothan, 36303

Open to all Christian homes desiring to train their children for the Lord Jesus Christ. Our doctrine and beliefs are based solely on the Bible, which is our final authority. If you are a born-again, Bible-believing Christian who desires to see your children serve the Lord, then CBA is for you!

Grades/Ages: K3-12

Affiliation: Baptist (334) 794-8222 cba.crossroadsdothan.com

Dothan Montessori School

474 Oates Street, Dothan, 36302

Dothan Montessori School is dedicated to providing a carefully prepared Montessori environment that nurtures children’s innate curiosity and love of learning. We are here to guide each child and support their intellectual, emotional, physical, and social development.

Grades/Ages: 18 months-6 years

Affiliation: American Montessori Society (334) 671-7170 www.dothanmontessorischool.org

Emmanuel Christian School 178 Earline Rd., Dothan, 36305

The mission of Emmanuel Christian School is to provide a Christ-centered, quality education so that all students have the opportunity to develop spiritually, physically, socially, and emotionally as they receive and apply the skills and encouragement needed to be effective leaders and witnesses for Christ today, tomorrow, and for eternity.

Grades/Ages: PreK-12

Affiliation: Christian (334) 792-0935 www.emmanuelchristian.org

Harvest Christian School 1694 Deese Rd., Ozark, 36360

The mission of HCS is to glorify God through the training and nurturing of students in their spiritual, academic, physical, emotional, and social development. This is achieved through a Christ-centered education based on biblical truth, which leads to the formation of the character of God within. God’s character imparts wisdom, knowledge, and love, helping our school community develop a world view that impacts the world for Christ.

Grades/Ages: Daycare-12th Grade Affiliation: Baptist (334) 774-3706 www.harvestfwbministries.net

Houston Academy

901 Buena Vista Dr., Dothan, 36303

Our mission is to prepare all our students for responsible participation in a global society by providing an excellent learning environment and opportunities to achieve their highest academic, social, and creative potential.

Grades/Ages: 3P-12th Grade Affiliation: Independent (334) 794-4106 www.houstonacademy.com

Lakeside School

1020 Lake Dr., Eufaula, 36027

Our mission is to develop Leaders, Scholars, and Champions as we prepare our students to become lifelong learners and active, productive members of the global community.

Grades/Ages: Preschool-12th Grade Affiliation: Nonsectarian (334) 687-5748 www.lakesidechiefs.net

Northside Methodist Academy 2600 Redmond Rd., Dothan, 36303

To train students in the knowledge of God and the Christian way of life while giving every student an excellent education.

Grades/Ages: K3-12th Grade Affiliation: Methodist (334) 794-7273 www.nmacademy.net

Parkview Christian School 608 S. Eufaula Ave., Eufaula, 36027 The mission of Parkview Christian School is to provide a God-centered, academically-sound atmosphere for the saved as well as the lost world: the lost, so they may have the opportunity to know the Lord Jesus Christ; and the saved to promote and encourage spiritual growth, enabling them with boldness to be disciples to the world.

Grades/Ages: K2-4th Grade Affiliation: Baptist (334) 687-4449 www.pcseagles.com

Providence Christian School 4847 Murphy Mill Rd., Dothan, 36303 Equipping students. Following Christ. Changing the world.

Grades/Ages: 1st-12th Extra Curricular: Co-Curriculars: Music, Drama, Visual Arts, Baseball, Basketball, Cheerleading, Cross Country, Football, Golf, Soccer, Softball, Tennis, Track and Field, Volleyball Affiliation: Presbyterian (334) 702-8933 www.providencechristianschool.com

Refuge Christian Academy 1507 E. Park Ave., Enterprise, 36330 Refuge Christian Academy is a non-denominational, Biblically-based School which partners with Christian families to develop a Christian worldview, provide academic excellence, and prepare children for a lifetime of service to Jesus Christ.

Grades/Ages: Preschool-12th Grage Affiliation: Non-Denominational (334) 489-4535 schooloffice@refuge.com www.refugeschool.com

Southwest Georgia Academy 14105 GA-200, Damascus, 39841

The Philosophy of SGA is to provide an atmosphere in which the child may develop, through varied experiences, to his fullest potential so that he may more easily find his place in the world in which he lives. We attain this atmosphere by providing a pleasant working environment with well-trained personnel, and planned, meaningful activities.

Grades/Ages: K3-12th Grade Affiliation: Christian (229) 725-4792 mattdalrymple@sgawarriors.com www.sgawarriors.com

St. John Catholic Montessori School 123 Heath St., Enterprise, 36330

Saint John Catholic Montessori School, in partnership with family and the church, will inspire a lifelong love for learning in a safe, creative and Christian environment. We will provide high-quality learning conditions that nurture the whole child in all areas: social, emotional, intellectual, physical, creative and spiritual.

Grades/Ages: 3-6 years Affiliation: Catholic (334) 347-0413 sjcmontessori@yahoo.com www.saintjohnmontessori.com

Westgate Christian School 617 Westgate Pkwy., Dothan, 36303

Dedicated to providing your children with a loving, nurturing environment where they can not only learn, but also excel.

Grades/Ages: Preschool-8th Grade Affiliation: Church of Christ (334) 793-3399 www.westgatechristian.com

Wiregrass Christian Academy

209 W. College St., Enterprise, 36330

At W.C.A. we recognize that each student is unique with individual needs. In cooperation with the home, we will provide experiences to help satisfy those needs. We believe that a child is GodÕs most precious gift and must be nurtured to achieve healthy development spiritually, intellectually, physically, emotionally, and socially.

Grades/Ages: Toddler-6th Grade Affiliation: Church of Christ (334) 393-8972 wiregrasschristianacademy.org

Tutoring

A+ Academic Services & Test Center

3245 Montgomery Hwy., Dothan, 36303

A+ Academic Services provides classes and tutoring for students of all ages. Classes include reading and mathematics instruction, ACT/SAT prep courses and a full range of courses to earn high school credits. In addition to individualized programs in specific areas, homework help is offered. A+ is also proctors exams.

Grades/Ages: Kindergarten & Up (334) 479-8010 csgs1986@gmail.com www.aplusacademic.net

Neuro-centrum Tutoring

1201 Freedom Dr., Enterprise, 36330

We want to reach all students who struggle and help them succeed in the classroom and life! Neuro-Centrum wants to give each student confidence in themselves by showing them how to be successful.

(334) 477-4686 shelby.neurocentrum@gmail.com

Red Door Educational Services

1733 W. Main St., Suite 100, Dothan, 36301

Tutoring in the area of dyslexia using an OrtonGillingham based program, Barton Reading, to systematically instruct and retrain the brain so that spelling and reading are improved.

Grades/Ages: 1st-12th Grade (334) 648-0842 reddooredu@gmail.com reddooredu.com

Smart Learning Tutoring Services

909 S. Saint Andrews St., Dothan, 36301

2-for-1 afterschool tutoring program for K-8th graders. 2 HOUR sessions for the price of one! Wednesdays from 4:15-6:15 p.m. (334) 78-SMART www.smartlearningdothan.com

The Learning Center

137 Clinic Dr., Dothan, 36303

At The Learning Center, we believe that every child is capable of achieving academic success. Our programs include after school tutoring in all subject areas, home school support, test proctoring, course credits and a variety of summer programs. The Learning Center has tutors with an array of skills to assist students in Elementary School through College. (334) 305-2365 learndothan.com

The Learning Hut

1037 E. Cottonwood Rd., Dothan, 36301 (334) 718-4230 lsonya06@gmail.com

Wiregrass Homeschool and Tutoring

1733 W. Main St., Suite 100, Dothan, 36301

We offer a variety of high-quality courses designed to prepare you for your next step. We offer placement tests to help match you to your skill level. (334) 661-4012

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Saturday January 2

Birdies For Blues Golf Tournament

11:00 AM Dothan National Golf Club, 7410 US-231 S Dothan, AL, 36301 Teams may register by calling Justin at 334-655-6265 or in person at registration. Proceeds from this tournament will go to Southeast Alabama Baseball Umpires Association to help recruit new umpires. 334-655-6265

Saturday January 7

First Saturday Family Day (Free)

10:30 AM Wiregrass Museum of Art, 126 Museum Avenue Dothan, AL, 36303 Saturdays are the perfect day for children and families to create and explore art together! First Saturday Family Day, one of WMA’s longest-running educational programs, offers free art activities on the first Saturday of every month 334-794-3871 www.wiregrassmuseum.org

Let’s Party Tour

Dothan Opera House, 115 N St Andrews St Dothan, AL, 36303 Andrew Conn, Let’s Party Tour w/ 26 yr. Veteran Robin Phoenix, Seinfeld Comedy winner Ashley Gutermuth & musician Avery Roberson. Come enjoy this night of comedy at the Dothan Opera House. www.dothanciviccenter.org

Tuesday January 10

Let’s Talk Travel: Travel Tips from The Maven Explorer & Company

5:30 PM DHCLS Main Library, 445 N Oates St. Dothan, AL, 36303 Are you planning a grand adventure to another country or just a small vacation? Before you start booking tickets join us for an informative program by The Maven Explorer and Company Travel Agency. We will have a travel agent giving us tips on best times to book and travel, how to travel safely, packing tips and how to get the most out of your travel budget. She will be available to answer any questions and help with travel plans. 334-793-9767 https://dhcls.org/

Wednesday January 11

Crafternoon Tea

4:00 PM DHCLS - Westgate Branch, 535 Recreation Rd. Dothan, AL, 36303 We will have afternoon tea and provide all the items and instructions needed for each craft. Please note that registration is not required! It is first come first served, while supplies last. 334-699-2950 https://dhcls.org/

Friday January 13

Winter Banquet

6:30 PM St. Luke UMC, 201 Heath Enterprise, AL, 36330 Enterprise Music Club Winter Banquet. Tickets available at Hoobler Music. Join us for an evening of music supporters and musicians in the area.

Doug Stone Concert

7:00 PM Dothan Opera House, 115 N St Andrews St Dothan, AL, 36303 Doug Stone concert. www.dothanciviccenter.org

Saturday January 14

Aces for the Arts

6:00 PM - 10:00 PM, Windmill Station, 1369 Headland Ave Dothan, AL, 36303 Join us for Aces for the Arts!

For tickets click here http://cca.dothan.com/MemLogin.aspx or contact mmorgan@dothan.com.

Thursday January 19

Art After Hours (Free for members and $5 for not-yet members) 5:30 PM - 8:00 PM, Wiregrass Museum of Art, 126 Museum Avenue Dothan, AL, 36303 Come wander the galleries, have a drink at the cash bar, and take in the art on view. 334-794-3871 www.wiregrassmuseum.org

Art of the Table Fundraiser

Cultural Arts Center, 909 S St Andrews St Dothan, AL, 36303 The Cultural Arts Center presents their inaugural tablescaping fundraiser. A First Look will be offered on Thursday evening for those wishing to be the first to view the designs and vote on a winner. The First Look will feature hors d’oeuvres and a signature cocktail along with entertainment.

https://www.theculturalartscenter.org/art-of-the-tabletablescaping-event

Friday January 20

Art of the Table Fundraiser

2:00 PM - 6:00 PM, Cultural Arts Center, 909 S St Andrews St Dothan, AL, 36303 The Cultural Arts Center presents their inaugural tablescaping fundraiser. Friday the Showcase will be open to the general public from 2:00 to 6:00 pm for viewing, voting, and bidding.

https://www.theculturalartscenter.org/art-of-the-tabletablescaping-event

Saturday January 21

Ultimate Werewolf Meetup

12:00 PM DHCLS - Westgate Branch, 535 Recreation Rd. Dothan, AL, 36303 Ultimate Werewolf can be played with 5 to 75 players of all ages. Each player has an agenda: as a villager, hunt down the werewolves; as a werewolf, convince the other villagers that you are innocent, while secretly attacking those same villagers each night. In addition to the roles of villager and werewolf, various special roles can be included, to help each team achieve their goals. 334-699-2950 https://dhcls.org/

Tuesday January 24

Harvest for HumanitySpring Into Action

5:30 PM DHCLS Main Library, 445 N Oates St. Dothan, AL, 36303 Join us and Lashando Wingard of Harvest For Humanity as we learn how simple container gardening can be! We will discuss preparing the soil, planting seeds, using your kitchen waste, canning, and much more. 334-793-9767 https://dhcls.org/

Thursday January 26

Trivia Night: Around the World in 80 Minutes 6:00 PM DHCLS - Westgate Branch, 535 Recreation Rd. Dothan, AL, 36303 The maximum number of members per team is four. Participants need to be 12 years and older. We will have light refreshments and great prizes for the winners! Registration is required! 334-699-2950 https://dhcls.org/

Friday January 27

2023

Saturday January 28

Yesterday Productions presents the smash hit show, YESTERDAY

7:00 PM Dothan Opera House, 115 N St Andrews St Dothan, AL, 36303 Yesterday Productions presents the smash hit show, YESTERDAY, the Las Vegas Beatles Tribute on Saturday, January 21st, 2023, at 7:00 PM in the Dothan Opera House. This is the only Beatles Tribute show endorsed by Sir Paul McCartney. www.dothanciviccenter.org

2023 Pike Piddlers Storytelling

Festival

Trojan Center Theater, 1 College Dr. Troy, AL, 36082 We will be joined by Donald Davis, Tim Lowry, Bil Lepp and Barbara McBrideSmith. There are 3 performances on Saturday. 334-685-5524 http://piddle.org/

Thursday February 2

Upscale Resale Spring 2023

4:00 PM - 8:00 PM, 3108 Ross Clark Cir Dothan, AL, 36303 Come shop through thousands of NEW & Used childrens boutique clothing, toys and accessories! http://www.upscaleresaleforkids.com/

Let’s Talk Travel: Travel Tips from The Maven Explorer & Company

5:30 PM DHCLS Main Library, 445 N Oates St. Dothan, AL, 36303 Are you planning a grand adventure to another country or just a small vacation? Before you start booking tickets join us for an informative program by The Maven Explorer and Company Travel Agency. We will have a travel agent giving us tips on best times to book and travel, how to travel safely, packing tips and how to get the most out of your travel budget. She will be available to answer any questions and help with travel plans. 334-793-9767 https://dhcls.org/

Friday February 3

Upscale Resale Spring 2023

9:00 AM - 7:00 PM, 3108 Ross Clark Cir Dothan, AL, 36303 Come shop through thousands of NEW & Used childrens boutique clothing, toys and accessories! http://www.upscaleresaleforkids.com/

Saturday February 4

Upscale Resale Spring 2023

8:00 AM - 1:00 PM, 3108 Ross Clark Cir Dothan, AL, 36303 Come shop through thousands of NEW & Used childrens boutique clothing, toys and accessories! http://www.upscaleresaleforkids.com/

First Saturday Family Day (Free)

10:30 AM Wiregrass Museum of Art, 126 Museum Avenue Dothan, AL, 36303 Saturdays are the perfect day for children and families to create and explore art together! First Saturday Family Day, one of WMA’s longest-running educational programs, offers free art activities on the first Saturday of every month

334-794-3871 www.wiregrassmuseum.org

Every day through February 17

Winter Reading Program

Pike Piddlers Storytelling Festival

We Piddle Around Theater, N Main St Brundidge, AL, 36010 The Friday night performance is $25 at the We Piddle Around Theater and includes dinner. 334-685-5524 http://piddle.org/

Any DHCLS location, Dothan, AL Stop by any Dothan Houston County Library branch to sign up for the Winter Reading Program and receive your Passport to the Library. Similar to our Summer Reading Program that we all know and love, the Winter Reading Program

FamilyCalendar

will be another chance to read books and win prizes. This year, earn stamps in your passport as you travel through books and activities https://dhcls.org/

Every Monday

Teen

Recharge

3:00 PM - 5:30 PM, DHCLS Main Library, 445 N Oates St. Dothan, AL, 36303 A place for tweens and teens (12-18) to hang out, mess around and geek out with others their age. S.T.E.A.M.-based activities such as robotics, 3D pens, crafts, computer coding, art, video games, etc. will be available to all at no charge. 334-793-9767 knorth@dhcls.org https://dhcls.org/

Every Tuesday

Story

& Craft Time

10:30 AM DHCLS Main Library, 445 N Oates St. Dothan, AL, 36303 Story & Craft Time, registration required, crafts are designed for children ages 2-6. 334-793-9767 knorth@dhcls.org https://dhcls.org/

Storytime - Enterprise Library

Enterprise Public Library, 101 E. Grubbs St. Enterprise, AL, 36330 Story Time at 10:00pm and 1:00pm. Story Time for ages 0-5 years. 334-347-2636 www.enterpriselibrary.org

Every Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday

Enterprise Farmers Market

7:00 AM - 11:00 AM, 525 N. Main Street Enterprise, AL, 36330 The Enterprise Farmers Market is a

covered, open-air facility where local farmers can sell fresh fruits and vegetables directly to the consumer. The market is open on Tuesdays, Thursdays and Saturdays from 7 to 11 a.m. 334-348-2668 https://www.facebook.com/enterprisealfarmersmarket

Every Wednesday

Story & Craft Time

10:30 AM DHCLS - Westgate Branch, 535 Recreation Rd. Dothan, AL, 36303 Story & Craft Time, registration required, crafts are designed for children ages 2-6. 334-699-2950 knorth@dhcls.org https://dhcls.org/

Artist Escape

11:00 AM - 3:00 PM, 144 E. Broad Street Ozark, AL, 36360 Stop by Rudd Art Center and bring your art to work on. Join us any Wednesday from 11:00 - 3:00 334-445-6526

Every third Wednesday

Master Gardener Lunch and Learn

12:00 PM DHCLS Main Library, 445 N Oates St. Dothan, AL, 36303 334-793-9767 https://dhcls.org/

Every Friday, Saturday and Sunday

Planetarium Shows ($3 per person and free for park members) 430 Landmark Dr. Dothan, AL, 36303 Full dome movies will take place on Fridays at 3:30 p.m.; Saturdays at 11 a.m., 1 p.m. and 3:30 p.m.; Sundays

at 1 p.m. and 3:30 p.m.; and Mondays at 3:30 p.m. https://www.landmarkparkdothan.com/digitariumplanetarium/

Every Saturday

Story

& Craft Time

10:30 AM DHCLS - Ashford Branch, 305 6th Ave. Dothan, AL, 36312 Story & Craft Time, registration required, crafts are designed for children ages 2-6. 334-899-3121 knorth@dhcls.org https://dhcls.org/

Pokémon League

Ozark Dale County Library, Inc, 296 N Union Ave Ozark, AL, 36360 Pokémon League: 1pm - 4pm in the Young Adult area 334-774-5480 http://www.odcpl.com/

Teens’ Art Club

1:00 PM Ozark Dale County Library, Inc, 296 N Union Ave Ozark, AL, 36360 334-774-5480 http://www.odcpl.com/

Kids’ Art Club

1:00 PM Ozark Dale County Library, Inc, 296 N Union Ave Ozark, AL, 36360 Kids’ Art Club: 1pm - 4pm in the Children’s Library 334-774-5480 http://www.odcpl.com/

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WP: Tell us a little about you. Family, careers, hobbies, fun facts! Go all out!

CS: I am from Georgia but moved to Alabama as a young child with my mom and sister after losing my father to cancer. I graduated from Wallace College with an Associate’s Degree in Nursing. I worked as an RN for Flowers Hospital for five years before starting a family.

My husband Nathan and I met at Flowers Hospital while caring for a patient together; it was a real Grey’s Anatomy situation. He is an Anesthesiologist with Dothan Anesthesiology Associates.

We were married a little after a year of dating and quickly started a family, having our twin daughters Harper and Hayden (8) just ten months later. We welcomed our third daughter, Nellie (3), five years after the twins, thus completing our family of five.

WP: As a stay-at-home mom, what are some things you find challenging? What about extra rewarding things?

CS: As a stay-at-home mom, it is challenging to find time for myself. Everything I do is either for my family or tending to our home. As a result, I rarely have adult conversations. However, I have the privilege of being present for my childrens’ activities and volunteering my time with class parties and their dance endeavors. If my children let me, I will be present for every event possible.

WP: You mentioned you are a ‘Dance Mom’ and that the twins have been dancing for the last six years with Dothan School of Dance. Why did you decide to enroll them so young, and what do you think has been their most significant takeaway from the program?

CS: I chose to put Harper and Hayden in dance because it teaches children how to express themselves and follow instructions at a very young age. It helps them gain confidence and face their fears through performing on stage. I plan to enroll my youngest in the fall for her first year.

WP: What do you love most about being a mom to only girls?

CS: Being a mom to girls is a dream come true. Some days I feel like a kid playing dress up with my dolls all over again. I love that my girls will grow up with sisters to be there for them through all life’s challenges. I grew up with one sister who means the world to me, and I am so thankful that my girls will have that support system in each other.

WP: Creativity should be cultivated. How do you do this with your children?

CS: I encourage my children to find things to do besides TV and iPad time. Too often, they are overwhelmed by everything in their day-to-day lives, so I remind them to slow down and sit outside for a bit. Once, they spent an hour making a salad for ants out of blades of grass and random items found in nature.

WP: You shared that you are enrolled at Troy to obtain your Bachelor’s degree in Nursing and desire to pursue becoming a Nurse Practitioner. As a mom pursuing a degree, how do you balance it all? Also, what tips would you have for other stay-athome moms wanting to go back to school?

CS: College as an adult has been much more rewarding and manageable.However, finding time to study can take time and effort. I spend the few hours I have in the mornings while my youngest attends the Montessori school to study. When my children are home, I try to focus my time around them, homework and dinner, and do as much around the house before bedtime. That way, I can focus on schoolwork after I get everyone in bed.

WP: Why did you decide to pursue healthcare?

CS: I chose healthcare because I enjoy caring for people. In addition, I wanted to find a job anywhere the world might take me. I plan to become a nurse practitioner and return to work once my children are older.

WP: What was the single best thing that happened to you or your family in 2022?

CS: As a family, we traveled to Montana for vacation for a week. It was one of the most beautiful places we have ever seen. You can drive for miles and miles and never see a home or building, just beautiful mountains and prairies.

WP: Moving into the New Year, what suggestions or tips would you give moms trying to get organized?

CS: With multiple children, I have to keep a calendar for everything. For me, I use my phone calendar and set alerts for everything!

WP: If you could go back and give one piece of advice to your younger self, what would it be?

CS: We have all been born into a life of trial and tribulation. So, don’t change a thing. Everything in my life has taught me a lesson that has made me who I am today.

Cindy Spivey is a stay-at-home mom of three girls and has been married to her husband, Nathan, for nine years. The family loves to travel outside of Dothan to see extended family.

Cindy Spivey