Wiregrass Parents October 2022

October2022

Meeting Kids Where They Are

Countdown to College

Fall Theme Walks

On The Cover

(11) and Lander (7) are the children of Matthew and Brittany Curry of Dothan. Monroe is a 6th grader at Houston Academy and has been a dancer since age two.

year though, she is getting back into gymnastics and cheer, as well as playing basketball for the first time. Ladner is a 2nd grader at Houston Academy.

has enjoyed

t-ball and coach

baseball and will continue playing

in the spring. This fall, Ladner is

flag football for the first time.

by Beth Long, PhD, LPC, BCBA

Emotionally Healthy Parents Do These Things

One of the greatest tragedies in our society is that we do not require more educa tion for marriage or parenting. Two of the hardest jobs anyone will ever have are being a spouse and/or a parent. Both roles are full of challenges and rewards. Doing these jobs well requires a great deal of emotional health.

Some parents come into my of fice and want me to “fix” their children and become annoyed when I ask them how they handle specific situ ations. Emotionally healthy parents are rarely offended and are overjoyed with our professional advice. Guess which family benefits the most from the counseling relationship? Please, be an emotionally healthy parent!

Emotionally healthy parents:

• Think objectively. They do not make as sumptions. They do not assume their child has unresolved trauma just because he did not empty the dishwasher or that he is going to be an axe murderer simply because he was rude to his sibling.

• Deal with problems directly and stop problems behaviors as quickly as they can. They do not argue, negotiate, make threats, or bring up other problem behaviors. For example, if their child is throwing a toy, they ask him to stop. If he does not, they simply take it away and let the child be upset. Once the child is calm, they explain that the child can try again, but the toy will be taken if it is thrown again.

• Cope with stress in a realistic way. When their child has them over whelmed, they take a break.

• Focus on what is right. They let their children know that they are on their side by praising every attempt he/she makes to do the right thing.

• Anticipate the future. They understand that there is an order to the development of skills. Healthy parents teach their young children to ask permission. They do this because they

want teenage and adult children who come to them for input and advice.

• Teach. They teach their children the skills they need to be successful in life. They do this through repetition, practice, and modeling.

• Adapt to reality. They do this by setting their children up for success. For example, they teach their children to sit through dinner at their home before attempting to take them to a restaurant.

• Manage their expectations. They research what is age and/or developmentally appropri ate and help their children obtain those skills.

• Focus on facts, not emotions. They do not let their feelings dictate their behavior. They make the healthiest choice based on the situation, not how they feel.

• Have boundaries. They set clearly defined boundaries and consistently follow them. They have healthy bedtimes, healthy media limits, and healthy diets.

• Are empathetic. They do not judge their children or attempt to fix their problems.

Instead, they allow their children to live through difficult experiences and emotions by being loving, encouraging, and present.

• Are self-reflective. They honestly reflect on what they are doing well and how they can improve as parents.

• Celebrate childhood. They do not let their children’s childish behaviors surprise them, and they enjoy it when it happens.

Dr. Beth Long received her education in Counseling Psychology from Chapman University. She is a Licensed Professional Counselor and Board Certified Behavior Analyst. Beth has worked in six unique clinical environments across the country and currently owns Works of Wonder Therapy in Montgomery. Beth utilizes the knowledge from a variety of differ ent disciplines to give her patients the best care possible. To learn more visit www.worksofwondertherapy.com.

Champions of Hope

October 15 * The Plant

Join us as we make a difference in the fight against cancer! We are pleased to announce that Champions of Hope presented by the Family of Susan Fischer, promoting cancer awareness, will be held on October 15 in his toric downtown Dothan. Champions will host 5K, 10K and Spirit Walk routes that start and end at The Plant. The Plant is located on North Saint Andrews Street in the former Coca-Cola Bottling Company building. Introducing Celebration of Light! Champions of Hope will host a Celebration of Light on Friday, October 14 at The Plant. Join us the day before Champions of Hope to pick up your participant packet and enjoy music, food and fellowship. After dark, a Celebra tion of Light will be hosted to support, remember, and encour age our cancer survivors, or anyone touched by cancer through the dedication of a luminaria, which serves as a beacon of hope throughout the darkest of times. Please visit https://raceroster.com/ events/2022/61230/champions-of-hope-2022 to register.

Trick-or-Treat The Square

October 31

6:00 pm – 8:00 pm Downtown Ozark Alabama Halloween Trick-or-Treating will be on Monday, October 31st from 6 pm to 8 pm in downtown Ozark. Stay safe and have fun! All the shops around the square invite you to dress up and bring out the kids for an evening of trick-or-treat fun.

Scarecrows in the Gardens

October 2022 * Dothan Area Botanical Gardens, Dothan

Join us at the Dothan Area Bo tanical Gardens for Scarecrows in the Gardens. Come see the Crows! Bring your friends for an enjoyable stroll through the park and see the imaginations of our Gardens area friends as their Crow talents are put on display. The crows are here everyday in October. The theme for this year’s Annual “Scarecrows In The Gardens” is “A Funny Thing”. Please visit https://www.dabg.com/ for more information.

The Pumpkin Patch-A Family Art Festival

October 29 * 10 am-3 pm * Wiregrass Museum of Art, Dothan Enjoy WMA’s garden transformed into a giant pumpkin patch, with hands-on artmaking stations throughout. At this event, everyone can create and take home up to five handmade works of art through ac tion painting, 3D paper sculptures, printmaking, and decorating your own custom bag to carry all your creations. And each family can go home with their own painted pumpkin. Galleries will be open for all visitors, with a special art scavenger hunt to bring families together to enjoy and talk about art together. Hot Glass Academy will be demonstrating live glass blowing. The festival will also host demonstrating artists for live painting and marbling. Costumes are encouraged for all ages. Free popcorn, lemonade, and candy will be available to all, and food trucks will be on site for ad ditional paid offerings. For information, please call 334794-3871 or visit https:// www.wiregrassmuseum.org/events/thepumpkinpatch/.

Landmark Park Quilt Show

October 14-16

Landmark Park, Dothan Antique and contemporary quilts will be on display in the Stokes Activity Barn for the annual Landmark Park Quilt Show on October 14-16. Friday and Sunday will be from 1 p.m.- 4 p.m. and Saturday will be in conjunction with Fall Farm Day from 10 a.m.- 4 p.m. Ad mission on Friday and Sunday is $4 for adults, $3 for kids and free for members. Admission on Saturday is $8 for adults, $6 for seniors and active military and $4 for kids. The theme for this year’s show is “Little Things that Mean a Lot.” The show will include demonstra tions on crochet, bobbin lace, smocking and more. The goal of the quilt show is to preserve our quilt heritage and promote the next generation of quilters. Visit www. landmarkparkdothan.com.

2022 Boll Weevil Fall Festival

October 15 * 11:00 am - 4:00 pm * Downtown Enterprise

Join us in beautiful Downtown Enterprise by the Boll Weevil Monument for the 2022 Boll Weevil Fall Festival! This FREE outdoor event showcases our unique Main Street merchants and restau rants, handcrafted gifts, decor, & art, festival food, entertainment and more. Drawing in thousands each year, it is an event for everyone to enjoy! Please visit https://www.enterprisealabama. com/bwff for more information.

Halloween Spooktakular

October 28 * 7:30 pm

Cultural Arts Center, Dothan

Join the Tri-State Commu nity Orchestra on October 28, 2022, at 7:30 pm at the Cultural Arts Center for Hallow een Spooktakular. We will be playing fun and spooktakular

Halloween music favorites. For more information, please visit sites. google.com/tristatecommunityorchestra.org/tcodothan.

Fall Farm Day

October 15 * 10:00 am - 4:00 pm * Landmark Park, Dothan

Come and watch how peanuts were harvested in the Wiregrass nearly 100 years ago. Enjoy the sights, sounds and sweet smells of cane grinding, syrup making, butter churning, soap making and other traditional farm activities. Other activities include music, antique tractors, wagon rides and the larg est quilt display in the Wiregrass region. Admission is $8 for adults, $6 for seniors and active military, $4 for kids, and free for children two and under and members. Please visit www.landmarkparkdothan.com for more information.

Special Needs Trunk-or-Treat

October 22 * 6 pm - 8 pm

Beacon of Hope ABA, 181 W Reynolds, Ozark

Join us for our Trunk or treat with games, haunted house, costume contest, and in flatables! Teal pumpkin project friendly! Please email beaconof hopeaba@gmail.com if you will be providing a trunk.

Southeast Alabama Community Theatre presents The SpongeBob Musical

October 25-29

Dothan Opera House

The stakes are higher than ever in this dynamic stage musical, as SpongeBob and all of Bikini Bottom face the total annihilation of their undersea world. Chaos erupts. Lives hang in the bal ance. And just when all hope seems lost, a most unexpected hero rises up and takes center stage. The power of optimism really can save the world! Pur chases may be made at SEACT.com or by phone (334) 794-0400.

Transitioning a student from kindergarten to first grade should not be taken lightly. It is a pivotal right of passage for so many six-year-olds as they genuinely begin to establish their independence and individuality. There is no better teacher for many Ashford Elementary parents to handle this critical milestone than Mrs. Hope Shirah.

“This is my 6th year teaching, and I have taught first grade for all six years,” said Mrs. Shirah, our Wiregrass Parents Teacher of the Month. She was nominated by Kathy Mathis, who described Mrs. Shirah as a godsend for her grandson.

Mrs. Shirah received her degree in Elementary Education from Troy Dothan in 2016 and plans to continue teaching first grade for as long as possible. She thoroughly enjoys teaching younger kids and working with her first-grade team at Ashford Elementary. The first-grade teachers have a great support system and work very well together.

“I wanted to be a teacher since I was a little girl. My sister and I would play school every afternoon,” Mrs. Shirah shared. “I started going to college to be a teacher but changed degrees several times for various reasons. After getting an associate’s degree, I stayed home and raised my kids until the baby started school. Then I realized I still desired to be a teacher, so I returned to school

and completed my Bachelor’s degree in Elementary Education.”

Essential qualities for a first-grade teacher consist of patience, flexibility, and, well, loads more patience, according to Mrs. Shirah. She works hard to keep kids engaged and having fun! It is essential to her that students know they are loved and that she will always be there for them, even after they leave her classroom.

“I am so honored to be nominated for teacher of the month by one of my student’s parents,” said Mrs. Shirah. “This is a great encouragement that I am indeed doing what I am called to do.”

Mrs. Shirah says she desires new teachers coming into the field to know how important it is that they are their students’ biggest cheerleaders for that year.

“Get to know your students and teach them, don’t just teach a program,” shared Mrs. Shirah. “Seeing kids you have taught go on to be great students who enjoy learning while also becoming great people is most rewarding.”

Hope Shirah has been married to Brandon for 17 years and they have four amazing children: Branson (16), Landon (14), Caydon (13) and Katie Grace (11). She enjoys going to the beach and the lake, spending time with family, shopping and watching her kids play sports.

Hope Shirah

Ashford Elementary

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Happy Hallow-teen!

October is upon us, and with it comes Halloween! Traditionally, Halloween safety is considered in terms of younger children, trick-or-treating, and supervised school parties.

However, Halloween is not just for the little ones. You may find your teenager wants to help decorate the house. They may want to go trick-or-treating or go to a Halloween party. Here are a few things to help them (and you) have a safe and fun experience.

If they are driving home from school or practice on days your community is trick-or-treating, make sure they know to pay extra attention. While parents of young trick-or-treaters try their best to keep young ones safe and orderly, sometimes the urge to get to the next house, to dart into the street because they got spooked, or to run and see the costume of one of their favorite characters can be overwhelm ing. If your teen is driving on Halloween,

encourage them to drive slower than usual or have them drive home a little later after most kids have gone back inside. Strictly enforce the “no texting and driving” rule. You may want to consider driving them or picking them up if they are new drivers.

If your teen is going to a Halloween party, make sure they are costume smart. If they are dressing up, they shouldn’t be driving in a costume that impedes their ability to see. Ensure their costume allows them to turn their head completely and does not affect their ability to operate the vehicle safely. This may require them to wait and get dressed up once they reach their destination. The same applies to any passengers in the car. Further, be sure their costume is appropriate for the weather or that they bring extra layers.

Remember that some costumes may alter the voice or mask the appearance of their friends. Ask them to be sure they verify individuals at parties before interact

ing with them. If you host a party at your house with teenagers, limit it to invited guests and/or friends who can be identi fied. Advise teens never to leave drinks or food unattended. Lastly, review with them all your expectations regarding alcohol and drugs.

Halloween is an exciting time of the year. So let’s be sure to have a fun and safe Hallow-teen!

Dr. Jacob Edwards is a General Pediatrician licensed by the Alabama Board of Medical Examiners and certified by the American Board of Pediatrics. Dr. Edwards received his Doctor of Medicine degree from Morehouse School of Medicine and completed his Pediatric Residency Program at Children’s National Medical Center in Washington, D.C. He has completed advanced studies in Adolescent Medicine. Dr. Edwards sees both pediatric and young adult (ages 1824) patients at Dothan Pediatric Subspecialty Clinic and his clinical interests include obesity and sports medicine.

Words Matter... Even Online!

Words matter. They are the corner stone of our everyday lives. What we say and how we say it has so much impact on our lives and the lives of others. Words are an inexhaustible resource. They have started and stopped wars. They influence how we think and what we believe. No matter the language, words hold more power than any weapon ever created. I will always be passionate about this topic of conversation, especially when it comes to educating our youth.

We all have access to devices that allow us to communicate every second of every day. We can log on to any news site, social media app, or gaming device and have an instant connection. We have an immediate platform for an audience. Any one can go live on Facebook, Instagram or TikTok. We can share anything from how to make ramen to deep-seated personal and political beliefs. The internet provides no boundaries for every thought or feeling someone may have, should they wish to share it. For our young, impressionable kids and teens, this can be difficult terrain for them to navigate. It is often hard to decipher what is true and what is not. It is also problematic when the words being said target others in a hurtful manner. Our children are often sharing the same literary playground with uncensored adults.

So what does all of this mean? How does this affect our children? How can we help them navigate what they are reading and hearing?

We begin by modeling good digital behavior. As parents and guardians, we must be sure that what we say online best represents us. We want to be proud of our chosen words and be comfortable with our children reading them. In this way, we teach them how much their words matter.

There is a term I began using years ago in conferences with my students. It is “screen brave.” Kids and adults tend to feel very brave behind a screen. We forget that there are real humans on the other side of the screen, reading every word we say. This can make it feel easy to say hurtful things be cause we cannot immediately SEE the hurt it creates. So we must teach our children that their words matter. What they say can help or hurt someone. What they say can af fect others’ lives and their own. We must help them avoid being screen brave. A tip I give all of my students is this... Every time you get on your phone, pretend like you have an audience sitting right in front of you. If you would not say face to face to the audience what you are about to say online, then it is best not to say it at all.

We must also teach them the heavy consequences of their words. While we are not responsible for other people’s reactions and cannot make people do things, we can be held responsible for the consequences of our words. If we are lead ing groups of people to harm others, then we are responsible for that leadership. If we encourage someone to do something wrong, illegal or irreversible, we must be held responsible for the role we play.

There are numerous cases where teens have encouraged other teens to commit suicide and were convicted of involuntary manslaughter. Telling some one how to KYS (kill yourself) is now a punishable offense. Teach your children that when angry, the best place for them is NOT the internet. Teach them to take a breath, take a step back, and think about the words they want to use and the possible resulting consequences.

Lastly, remain involved. Check their ac counts. Have open conversations. Give them a safe space to have hard days and to feel angry. Give them space to vent to you, a counselor, or a trusted adult without spilling their words onto the internet for everyone to see... and for everyone to feel.

I love this quote by J. K. Rowling, “Words are, in my not so humble opinion, our most inexhaustible source of magic. Capable of both inflicting injury, and remedying it.”

Kristi Bush serves as a national education consultant and social media safety advocate. She is a licensed social worker with greater than 15 years of clinical practice and health care experience. She attended Troy and Auburn University where she studied social work and counseling. Kristi travels nationally and has spoken with thousands of children, parents, professionals and organizations about the benefits and threats associ ated with social media. You may reach Kristi through her website at www.knb communications.com.

Autauga County Schools

Highlands Elementary Hosts Annual Pinwheels for Peace

In today’s world, peace needs to become more than just a word. On September 21, 2022, the students at Highlands Elementary School took part in an International art and literacy project, Pinwheels for Peace by “plant ing” pinwheels with messages of peace at the school entrance area. Pinwheels for Peace is an art installation project started in 2005 by two Art teachers, Ann Ayers and Ellen McMillan, of Coconut Creek, Florida, as a way for students to express their feelings about what’s going on in the world and in their lives.

Highlands Elementary students created pinwheels, pinwheels of all shapes and sizes. As part of the creation process, the students wrote their thoughts about “war and peace/tolerance/ living in harmony with others” on one side. On the other side, they drew, painted, etc. to visually express their feelings. The students assembled these pin wheels and on International Day of Peace, they “planted” their pinwheels at the school entrance area as a public statement and art exhibit/installation.

Ozark City Schools Career Academies

Houston Academy Students Create Neurons Models

Mrs. Sanera’s AP Psychology students applied their understanding of neurons by creating candy models and labeling the parts and functions.

Providence Christian Honors Childhood Cancer

Brockton 27-6. September is childhood cancer month. PCS had 102 mini

Emmanuel Christian Volleyball Trojan Classic 2022 Silver Division Champions! Go Lady Warriors!

D.A. Smith Learning Walks

Student

Northside Methodist Academy Top Readers

Congratulations to our August top readers!

2nd grade

Overall: Hudson Braswell

Ezell: Archer Engelhard Holloway: Bryntley Miller

3rd grade

Overall: Corbin Woodham

Gilley: Benjamin Blackmon Otto: Gracie Wells

4th grade

Overall: Cooper Seaver Lawson: Parker Thompson Morris: John Duke

5th grade

Overall: Alena Engelhard Haywood: Stanton Woodham Maddox: Nina Green

6th grade

Overall: Logan Holland Grantham: Carson Seaver Hall: Esayas Halubka

Children born into all kinds of circumstances have dreams and dreams are powerful.

Career Academies

If you build it, they will come! So proud that our kids are taking advantage of their Dual Enrollment opportunities. They are earning college credit, job skills, and high school credit.

Autauga County Schools

Highlands Elementary School held its 2nd Annual Grandparents’ Day Drive Through Pa rade on Friday, September 9th. The students made posters and signs to say thank you and show their appreciation for grandparents. The students lined the street around the school and waved and cheered as the grandparents drove through. Many grandparents decorated their cars with signs for their grandchildren, balloons, streamers, and more.

Congratulations to Highlands Elementary SGA Members

Our officers are: President- Layla P., 6th grade; Vice President- Gannon G., 5th grade; Secretary- Brody Smith,, 4th grade; Historian- Mary Gaines Carter, 3rd grade.

Our classroom representatives are: 3rd Grade: Addilyn C., Charles B., Barrett B., Hope P., Emma S., Sadie S. 4th Grade: Ellie Grace P., Hamlin D., Gracie H., Sue Ellen C., Addie-Reece H., Lily E. 5th Grade: Emmalyn S., Martin Ellis B., Noah C., Lily L., Mac S., Avery A. 6th Grade: Sailor T., Carter K., Andre S., June H., Chloe F., Kim W.

Congratulations to our HA cheer squad for earning WDHN cheer team of the week and also being selected to help kick off the United Way Kick Off at the Chamber of Commerce!

Providence Christian Inducts New House Members

In 2015, Providence implemented a House System as a means to promote opportunities for student leadership, mentorship, community, and service. We recently had House inductions for our seventh graders. Spirits were high as students were welcomed into their new houses.

Providence Houses include Lewis House, The House of King Alfred, The House of Saint Augustine, The House of Saint George, Schaeffer House, Tolkien House, Wilberforce House, and Wycliffe House.

The high school road to college may seem like four of the most challenging years families face. There are deadlines, tough financial choices, and parents and children don’t always agree on colleges. If that isn’t stressful enough, every year there are tasks that high school students should be checking off their to-do lists. How do parents help their high school students navigate all the details and decisions they must make during their countdown to college?

Here is some advice from the pros -- a parent who’s been through the process and a college admissions counselor.

Starting the Conversation

It all starts with a conversation between parent and child. But often, the question that starts the conversation is the wrong one, ac cording to Rick Clark, an undergraduate admissions counselor.

“Parents ask, ‘Where do you want to go to college?’” Clark says. “The biggest question that parents don’t ask or lose sight of is ‘Why do you want to go to college?’”

That why is im portant and should be followed up with ques tions like “What do you hope to get out of this? What do you want to study? What do you want to do long-term?” says Clark.

Following are tips to get your student on the right track for college while in high school:

Freshman Year: The Importance of Academics

Countdown to College Checklist

Freshman Year

Talk to your parents and guidance counselor at the beginning of the year to set goals. Take the most challenging courses available to you. Make good grades. Try a variety of activities. Take advantage of opportunities to visit college campuses when you travel.

Sophomore Year

Visit college and career fairs. If you are social distancing, schedule virtual tours of colleges of interest or consider self-guided tours on campuses. Check out updated health and masking guidance at schools you visit in person. Build your resume. Make a list of awards, accomplishments, and activities. Take the PSAT for practice (you can take it your sophomore and junior year, but it won’t count until you are a junior). Start studying for the ACT and SAT. There are many test prep guides available online and in book form. Assess your strengths and weaknesses and take a personality inventory. Research possible careers. During the summer begin researching colleges that might be a good fit.

Junior Year

Take the PSAT. Accept leadership roles in the activities that suit you best. Narrow your list of possible careers. Narrow your list of possible colleges. Take the ACT and SAT. During the summer volunteer or find an internship or job related to your future career. Write a college entrance essay draft. Have it critiqued by a guidance counselor or teacher.

Senior Year

Narrow your college search to six to eight schools. Post all important deadline dates on a wall calendar. Retake the ACT or SAT if needed. Polish your resume. Ask for teacher recommendations. Visit the colleges you are applying to. Send out all your college applications. After you receive your acceptance letters, compare scholarship and financial aid packages and make your final decision. Notify all the schools you were accepted to of your deci sion. Celebrate the beginning of a new timeline at college!

and Andrew took a semester off but did not fall behind in his course work.

Rachael Fain, a mom of three, stresses the importance of the GPA during freshman year. Fain’s daughter, Hannah, graduated from college in 2017. Fain also has two sons, Matthew, who graduated from college in 2020, and Andrew, a college senior. “My children started taking high school classes in eighth grade,” Fain says. “A GPA is harder to bring up in junior and senior year, so our goal their eighth and ninth grade years was to keep their GPAs high.”

The freshman year is also important for getting on a challenging track of classes.

“Course choice is important,” Clark says. “Math, in particular, is something students need to pay attention to.”

Taking challenging classes in high school helped Fain’s son Matthew make his college decision. He decided to pursue his degree at the university where he took dual credit courses when he was in high school. Andrew also took dual credit courses in high school to lighten his load once he got to college. That worked out well when Covid hit

Sophomore Year: Getting to Know You

Tenth grade is a good year for selfreflection. Students can take personality tests and the PSAT to figure out their strengths and weaknesses. They can also start thinking about the kind and size of school they want to attend.

Understanding what they are good at will help high school students be realistic about the school that is the best fit for them.

Junior Year: Balancing Grades & Activities

Grades are crucial during the junior year. Junior year also involves a more challenging track of classes and leadership roles in clubs and activities. It’s hard to do it all, so how important are the extracurricular activities? It depends on the student and the college.

“At one of my chil dren’s colleges, extracur ricular activities were really important,” Fain said. “At the other one, they didn’t matter as much.”

Clark says one out of every four students who apply to the school where he works are accepted.

“Most students that apply have good test scores, good grades and good courses. Then the review committee asks, ‘Is this kid a good fit for us?’”

Clark says they look for students who are innovative or who are entrepreneurs, and they ask, “How does this student use their time?”

“If they are a good student who goes home and plays video games, what will they contribute to the school?” Clark says.

But it stands out if stu dents are responsible, if they work a job or if they make an impact in some way.

Senior Year: Find Your Fit

Clark says the most important thing about making a college decision is finding a good fit.

“Fit doesn’t really mean can the student do the work, but are they aligned well to the school.” For example, Clark says two univer sities can look the same on paper. A student will apply to each with the same grades and same test scores and get accepted to one and not the other.

“That is what fit is,” Clark says. “How a student fits with a school, not just from an academic standpoint.”

If you and your child do not agree on the same school, Clark says how you approach the topic may resolve a lot of conflict over the situation. “Continue to tell your kids you love them, and that no matter where they go to college, it will be great.”

The good news is that there are many schools across the country and probably more than one of them will match your stu dent’s personality and academic standing.

“If you or your child feels overwhelmed, take a deep breath and remember there is a school for every student,” says Fain.

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Janeen Lewis is a writer, teacher and mom to Andrew and Gracie. She is a nationally published writer.

Fall is the perfect time of year to get outside. And what better way to experience all the season has to offer than by taking a walk? Walking is fun and easy, plus it provides a boost to your physical and mental health. Going on a walk with your kids lets them notice new things and meet new people along the way.

Here are 8 fall theme walks that you and your children can take around your neighborhood.

Sensory walk. On this walk, have your child focus on their senses. Ask your child what colors they see. Touch the leaves that have fallen. Smell the air and ask if it smells different than in the summer. Listen to the birds or squirrels. Don’t forget to taste fall, too, by sampling apples or cider when you get home.

Scavenger hunt. There are many printable scavenger hunts available online or you can get creative and make your own. Have your kids look for distinctly autumnal items like fallen leaves, acorns, or pumpkins. Once they find an item, have them check it off their list. Most kids love carrying the list on a clipboard, too. It’s very official!

Talk the walk. Use descriptive words to engage your child in talking about fall. Ask them why they like this season. Then tell them why you like it. For example, “I like fall because the colors of the leaves are red, orange, and yellow.” I used to tell my kids that I liked fall because the weather is cooler and it feels good to wear sweaters.

Bird watching walk. Does fall bring the arrival or depar ture of different kinds of birds in your area? Talk about the birds you saw this summer and imagine where they live now. Notice which birds fly in V-shaped formations as they prepare to head south. Keep track of how many different birds you see on a walk in a field journal.

Art walk. The object of an art walk is to collect as many items related to fall as you can, such as leaves, sticks, and acorns. Then take them home and create! You can glue twigs and leaves together to make forest creatures or try your hand at making leaf prints. One of the easiest projects my children enjoyed when they were younger was sticking fallen leaves of all colors, shapes and sizes onto contact paper.

Nighttime walk. Just because the days are getting shorter doesn’t mean you have to stay inside when it gets dark. On your nighttime walk, see if you can find constellations like the Big Dip per. Watch for the blinking lights of planes as they cross the sky. Take flashlights or headlamps and look for critters in your neigh borhood.

Buddy walk. Sometimes all that is needed to make a walk more exciting is a friend. Invite one or two buddies to traverse the neighborhood with you or pick a new location for your walk. Simply traveling through a novel area can be an exciting change of pace for most kids. Go for a walk around the block or take a friend on any of the eight walks here.

Science walk. Gather leaves that have fallen from trees as well as those from plants. Ask how the leaves are different. Is one kind changing color but the other is not? Look for any black spots on leaves and talk about decay. Notice the evergreen trees in your area and discuss why they do not change color. For extra credit, bring home leaves and press them between sheets of newspaper weighed down by books for a few days. This will preserve their shape and color without the leaves curling and drying out.

Katy M. Clark is a writer and mother of two who embraces her imperfec tions on her blog Experienced Bad Mom.

Arts & Crafts

Book Character Pumpkin Contest

Dates: October 1-20 Location: Dothan-Houston Co. Library, All Locations, AL Decorate a foam or plastic pumpkin based on a book character. Families can work together, but most of the work should be done by the child. Pumpkins can be turned in at any DHCLS location through October 22. Winners will be notified October 27. www.dhcls.org

Cultural Arts Center

909 S. St. Andrews St., Dothan, AL 36301

See schedule online for project dates and times. theculturalartscenter.org

Dive into Diversity: Dia de los Muertos Craft

Dates: October 5 Location: Dothan-Houston Co. Library, All Locations, AL Small crafts are avail able for pickup from all locations to further explore the customs and traditions of Dia de los Muertos. Supplies are limited! Our video will go live at 10:30 AM on our Facebook page. www.dhcls.org

Pints & Paints

Dates: October 6 October 22 Location: Folklore Brewing & Mead ery, 153 Mary Lou Ln., Dothan, AL 36301 Get your tickets to join us painting at the brewery! No experience necessary. Cost: $35 per person (334) 447-8796 eyecatchersart.com

Pints & Paints

Dates: October 20 Location: Ozark Cigars, 164 S. Union Ave., Ozark, AL 36360 Get your friends together and join us painting in downtown Ozark! (334) 447-8796 eyecatchersart.com

Pints & Paints

Dates: October 19 Location: Sixtel Bottle & Growler, 210 N. Main St., Enterprise, AL 36330

Get tickets painting with us for our Zombie Hand Trick or Treat painting!

(334) 447-8796 eyecatchersart.com

Wine Down with Art

Dates: Fall Gnome- October 1 Fall Walk - October 8 Pumpkin Harvest - October 15 Mistresses of Darkness- October28 Halloween Night - October 29 Location: All About Art, 102 S. Main St., Enterprise, AL 36330

This is an adult event designed for ages 16 and up. You are welcome to bring your own refreshments. (334) 348-2738 allaboutartstudio.com

Fairs & Festivals

Fall Farm Day

Dates: October 15 Location: Landmark Park, 430 Landmark Dr., Dothan, AL 36303

Come and watch how peanuts were harvested in the Wiregrass nearly 100 years ago. Enjoy the sights, sounds and sweet smells of cane grinding, syrup making, butter churning, soap making and other traditional farm activities. Other activities include music, antique tractors, wagon rides and the largest quilt display in the Wiregrass region. 10:00 a.m.-4:00 p.m. Admission: $8 Adults; $6 Seniors/Military; $4 Kids (ages 3-12); FREE for park members (334) 794-3452 www.landmarkparkdothan.com

Landmark Park Quilt Show

Dates: October 14-16 Location: Landmark Park, 430 Landmark Dr., Dothan, AL 36303 Held in conjunction with the park’s annual Fall Farm Day, this quilt show features over 100 antique and contemporary quilts displayed inside the Stokes Activity Barn. This juried show includes exhibits, door prizes, speakers and more. Open for viewing on Friday (1-4); Saturday (10-4); Sunday (1-4). (334) 794-3452 www.landmarkparkdothan.com

Boll Weevil Fall Festival

Dates: October 15 Location: Downtown Enter prise, 100 N. Main St., Enterprise, AL 36330 Experience a variety of local artists and craftsmen, explore our amazing retail shops and restaurants, enjoy festival food, entertainment, and more! (334) 347-0581 www.enterprisealabama.com

Claybank Jamboree Arts & Crafts Festival

Dates: October 1 Location: Downtown Ozark

Family Friendly Festival: Arts & Crafts Vendors, Variety of Food Vendors, Live Entertainment, Children’s Activities & MUCH MORE! (334) 774-9321 www.ozarkchamber.com

Dothan Nurseries Fall Festival

Dates: October 1 Location: 1300 Montgomery Hwy., Dothan, AL 36303 9:00 a.m.-4:00 p.m. (334) 794-6774 www.dothannurseries.com

National Peanut Festival

Dates: November 4-13

Location: National Peanut Festival Fairgrounds, 5622 US-231 S, Dothan, AL 36301

The nation’s largest peanut festival, is held in Dothan, Alabama each fall to honor local peanut farmers and to celebrate the harvest season. Amusement rides, great Fair Food, Agriculture Exhibits, & music performances daily. (334) 793-4323 www.nationalpeanutfestival.com

Farms/Pumpkin Patches

First United Methodist Church of Dothan’s Annual Pumpkin Patch

Dates: September 26-October 31

Hours: Monday-Friday 10 a.m.-6 p.m. | Satuday 8 a.m.-7 p.m. | Sunday 12-6 p.m.

Location: 1380 W. Main St., Dothan, AL 36301 Pumpkins of all shapes, sizes, and kinds. Find pump kins for the kids to carve, paint, or decorate. Even pick out pumpkins for your home décor. Come enjoy the annual pumpkin patch and photo booth while support ing the different ministries of FUMC Dothan! (334) 793-3555 www.fumcdothan.org

Aplin Farms

Dates: October 1-November 1

Location 2729 N. Co. Rd. 49, Dothan, AL 36305 Pick your own pumpkin and explore the two corn mazes at this u-pick farm just outside of Slocomb. Other features include the animal barn, inflatable park, wagon rides, and sunflower fields. (334) 726-5104 japlin4863@gmail.com

Dothan Nurseries Pumpkin House

1300 Montgomery Hwy., Dothan, AL 36303 (334) 794-6774 www.dothannurseries.com

Fall Farmers Market

Dates: Tuesdays October 4-November 8

Location: Downtown, Ozark, AL 36360 2:30-5:30 p.m. (334) 774-9321 www.ozarkalchamber.com

Frightmares

Dates: TBA Location: 250 S. Foster St., Dothan, AL 36301

Come experience the truly Frightening in Dothan. (334) 714-2004 sheabell828@gmail.com

Maria’s Vineyard

Dates: Open Year-round

Location: 3940 Fortner St., Dothan, AL 36305

U-pick Muscadine vineyard. Rose gardens and jasmine-covered arbors create a unique event venue. (334) 791-2514 www.mariasvineyard.com

Miscellaneous

Halloween Fun Fest & Zombie Run

Dates: October 1 Location: Landmark Park, 430 Landmark Dr., Dothan, AL 36303

5K Zombie Run plus kids activities, corn maze, tractor treat, music, food and more. Preregistra tion required for the Zombie Run. Run registration includes entry to the Halloween Kick Off. (334) 794-3452 www.landmarkparkdothan.com

Landmark Park Low Country Boil

Dates: October 27 430 Landmark Dr., Dothan, AL 36303

Shrimp, sausage, corn, potatoes and a blend of spices will simmer in a 60-gallon kettle for a mouthwatering dish. An online auction will feature items including trips, gift baskets, and more. Advance tickets are required. (334) 794-3452 www.landmarkparkdothan.com

Smores ‘N Snores

Dates: October 14-15 Location: Eastgate Park, 1949 Sanitary Dairy Rd, Dothan, AL 36301

Family tent camp out for up to 40 families. There will be a movie with popcorn, scavenger hunt, nighttime hike, hot dogs, hamburgers, smores cooked on a firepit, a bonfire with story time, and a tent decorating contest. Cost: $20 per person www.dothanleisureservices.org

Champions of Hope

Dates: October 15 Location: The Plant, 308 N. St. Andrews St., Dothan, AL 36303 Revamped 5K, 10K and Spirit Walk routes that start and end at The Plant. A post-race tailgate celebration will include food, fun and college football live on the big screen. Champions after dark will feature a Hope Rocks Concert at The Plant. www.sehealthfoundation.org/champions-of-hope/

Dothan Pro Rodeo

Dates: October 7-8 Location: National Peanut Festival Fairgrounds, 5622 US 231 S., Dothan, AL 36301

Professional Rodeo featuring top cowboys and cowgirls from all over the country on the road to the National Finals Rodeo! rodeomedia.ticketleap.com/dothan-pro-rodeo

Fall Choral & Theater Festival

Dates: November 7-9 Location: Cultural Arts Center, 909 S. St. Andrews St., Dothan, AL 36301 Open to schools and drama clubs. Events include

one-act, monologues, duologues, scenes, and musical theater. theculturalartscenter.org

Harloween!

Dates: October 30 Location: Live at Harlows, 190 W. Reynolds St., Ozark, AL 36360

Featuring the best local bands around! Come dress up or not, it’s all about hanging out with the coolest people on the planet and enjoying live music! Time 7:00 p.m.

Scarecrows in the Gardens

Dates: October 1-31 Location: Dothan Area Botanical Gardens, 5130 Headland Ave., Dothan, AL 36303

Join us for the Annual Scarecrows in the Gardens during the month of October. This year’s theme is “Every Day’s a Holiday!” (334) 793-3224 www.dabg.com

Shopping

Black Friday Pajama Party

Dates: November 25 Location: Downtown Enterprise Roll out of bed, come in your pjs and join all the other “WHOS” to enjoy unique shopping in beautiful Downtown Enterprise at our Black Friday Pajama Party! (334) 406-1274 www.enterprisedowntown.com

Holiday Open House

Dates: 19-Nov Location: Downtown Enterprise

It’s the Official Kickoff to our “Whoville Holidays” in Downtown Enterprise! Your holiday shopping will be Unique and FUN when you shop Enterprise! (334) 406-1274 www.enterprisedowntown.com

Jingle Bell Market

Dates: October 27-29 Location: Dothan Civic Center, 126 N. St. Andrews, Dothan, AL 36303 DaySpring Hospice Foundation is pleased to invite you to join our Jingle Bell Market. The event will feature vendors of all types to kick off your holiday shopping at the Dothan Civic Center. (334) 305-0333 lpike@dayspringhospice.com

Wiregrass Kids Market Fall Sale

Dates: November 5-8 and 11-13 Location: 2702 Ross Clark, Dothan, AL 36301 Find name-brand items and amazing deals or sell

your own! WKM has anything & everything baby or kid-related. www.wiregrasskidsmarket.com

Trick or Treating

Dothan Leisure Services

Drive-Thru Trick or Treat

Dates: October 27 Location: James Oates Park, 371 Taylor Rd., Dothan, AL 36301

An alternative to door-to-door trick or treating, participants are offered a safe, fun, and central location to collect goodies. Vendors will set up in the Girls Softball Complex parking lot. Cars will enter through the Taylor Road side of the park. Time 5:30-8:00 p.m. www.dothanleisureservices.org

Special Needs Trunk or Treat

Dates: October 22 Location: Beacon of Hope ABA, 181 W. Reynolds St., Ozark, AL 36360

Individuals with special needs are welcome to participate in our adaptive and sensory friendly trunk-or-treat! Costume contest at 6! We will also have Teal Pumpkin Project trade offs. 6:00 p.m. (334) 477-4686 ababeaconofhope.com

Spooky in the City

Dates: October 29 Enterprise, AL 36330 Visit 10 different Spooky Stops around the city. Teams who stop at all 10 Spooky Stops and complete the virtual game riddles will be pro vided a link to enter their team for a chance to win a Spooky in the City Prize. Time 5:30-8:30 p.m.

(334) 348-2684 www.enterpriseal.gov/379/ Spooky-in-the-City

Trick or Treat Enterprise

Dates: October 30

The City of Enterprise is celebrating Halloween Trick or Treat hours from 5pm to 7pm.

Trunk or Treat @ Chik Fil A

Dates: October 25 626 Boll Weevil Cir., Location: Dothan, AL 36330

A safe place for your little ghouls and goblins to trick or treat. 4pm-6pm or when the candy runs out. Vehicles provide their own treats! Please keep the kiddos under 13yrs old. WP

As a mom of six kids, I have witnessed my fair share of sibling disagreements. I have also had the pleasure of witnessing the heart-melting moments when siblings stick up for each other, cheer each other on, and generally love being together. While sibling fights are normal and even healthy, as kids learn to work through disagreements in an appropriate way, most parents want to foster strong sibling relationships that will stand the test of time.

Here are some tips to help your kids build healthy, lasting friendships with one another.

Encourage Teamwork

Working towards a common goal can help people feel con nected and build stronger relationships. This is why companies spend time doing team-building exercises with their staff. The same is true in families. Give the kids a project, like cleaning the toy room or freshening up the landscaping in the yard, and have them work on it as a team. You can even try making it a competition such as challenging the kids to clean a room faster than their parents. Playing board games or backyard sports with teams can also have the same team-building effects.

Have fun together

Spending time together as a family doing things that you enjoy is a simple way to build sibling bonds. Pick something that every one can participate in, such as a bike ride, a movie night, or a fun outing that builds memories and relationships. “My kids love having sleepovers in each other’s rooms each weekend,” says Stephanie Loux, mom of three. “It makes a mess, and it’s not always conve nient for us as parents, but we love and encourage their excitement for spending time together.”

Healthy conflict

Settling disagreements in a healthy and respectful way is a tool that all of us need to learn to be successful. A sibling is usually the first person in our lives that we disagree with on a regular basis. This gives parents an opportunity to teach kids how to handle conflict.

We teach them to tell each other when they are hurting emo tionally or physically,” says Abby Vanden Hull, mom of four. “In the beginning, that means helping them find the words and talk to each other kindly. It also means stepping back and letting them sort out their problems whenever possible.”

Teach your kids to listen, take turns speaking, use kind words, refrain from criticism or physical violence, and come to a compro mise whenever possible.

Do not compare

As parents, it can be difficult not to compare children. Each child has their own unique gifts to foster and challenges to face as they grow. Try to focus on acknowledging and appreciating their gifts and encouraging everyone in the family to do so. When they are struggling with behaviors that other kids may not have found challenging, be patient and help them work through it as a family.

When kids feel like their parents are comparing them, it can cause jealousy, competition, and resentment. Alternatively, when they feel like their gifts are cultivated and appreciated they feel loved, valued, and secure. It also helps kids to understand that all of us are different and that is okay.

The importance of family

Our siblings are our first friends. They have a unique perspective and relationship with us because they have experienced nearly every thing we have during childhood. This often leads to a relationship that includes deep understanding and support for challenges we may face in the future.

This concept is difficult to explain to small children, however, the importance of family is something that can be shown through actions rather than explained using words. Do you have a good relationship with your own siblings? Do you support them in times of need and enjoy spending time with them? Your kids will notice. Over time, they will realize that there is nothing like a sibling who is also a friend.

Sarah Lyons is a freelance journalist and contributing writer.

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Grading Family Movies: Streaming, Digital Rentals, and Theatrical Releases

Pinocchio

Disney+

Rating Overall Violence Sex Profanity Alcohol/Drugs

PG C B A A A

When Geppetto, a lonely clockmaker, wishes upon a star, the wooden puppet he carved comes to life. The Blue Fairy promises that Pinocchio will be “real” if he resists temptation and proves to be “brave, truthful, and unselfish.” Despite the magical plot elements, this movie lacks enchantment. The technical effects are solid and the visual design apealing but the story is emotionally hollow. Pinocchio himself is bland, uninteresting, and difficult to care about. The movie has plenty of flaws to annoy older viewers and its frightening scenes will be nightmare fuel for sensitive children. Photo ©Disney+

Ivy and Bean Netflix

Rating Overall Violence Sex Profanity Alcohol/Drugs

TV G A A A A A

Rambunctious, messy Bean is surprised to discover that there’s plenty of fun to be had with Ivy, a tidy bookworm. As the two girls embark on an unexpected adventure they begin an even more unexpected friendship. The film has minimal negative content and high quality writing, making it a win for family audiences. Unlike many kid focused films, this one shares the wonder, delight, and magic of children’s imaginations This is the first of three Ivy & Bean films and it’s good to see Netflix providing high quality movies for kids. Photo ©Netflix

The Skeleton’s Compass

Lifemark

Online Rental

Rating Overall Violence Sex Profanity Alcohol/Drugs Unrated

Prolonged unemployment means that Champ’s dad must sell the family home unless the skeleton and compass Champ discovers in the woods show the way to hidden gold This story provides time travel adventure mixed with a treasure hunt and a great message about the importance of family. Unfortunately, it also features abysmally bad writing, weird editing, poor musical choices, and abundant bad acting. It’s clean but that doesn’t mean it’s a good choice for families looking for something interesting to watch.

Theaters

Photo ©Giant Pictures

Rating Overall Violence Sex Profanity Alcohol/Drugs

13 C B A A A

When he turns 18, David is surprised to hear from his birth mother, who wants to meet him. Encouraged by a friend, David agrees. This movie is clean but it’s also somewhat disjointed, bouncing between flashbacks of a pregnant teen’s experience and David’s life with his adoptive family. It has a strong and sincere pro adoption message but its focus on advocacy often overshadows the need for compelling storytelling. Photo ©Fathom Events

Look Both Ways

Rating Overall Violence Sex Profanity Alcohol/Drugs

14

One evening, Natalie’s life splits into two tracks: one in which her pregnancy test is negative and she carries on with her post university career plans and the other in which she has a baby and re adjusts her goals and timelines. This film does an excellent job of showing that there are multiple routes for women to follow in leading fulfilling lives – and not declaring any to be superior or second rate. Where it falls down is in negative content, with unnecessary cussing, alcohol and drug use, and non explicit sexual activity.

Photo ©Netflix

Is It a Loan, or Is It a Gift?

Q. We have $15,000 in credit card debt. My husband works very hard, but only makes about $25,000 a year. We’re also living in a very old trailer right now, and I stay at home with our newborn. My dad told us he is willing to pay off our debt if we agree to get financial counseling together, and show that we are serious about doing better with our finances. What should we do?

A. I wouldn’t accept the money from your dad if it’s going to be a loan. If you really want to ruin family events, have debt to your parents. It twists you up inside. And it’ll be especially hard on your husband. No matter what anyone else says, the borrower is always slave to the lender. If it’s going to be a gift, meaning there’s no expectation of repayment, that’s a different story. Still, I think your dad has a great idea in making the debt

payoff contingent on you two going to some kind of financial counseling, and making a proactive effort to change things, get out of debt and save money— for your child’s future and for yours. I’d prob ably do the same thing.

It doesn’t sound like you’re being crazy with your money, but it’s tough to provide for a family on that kind of income. You and your husband need to sit down together, develop a monthly budget and a real istic five-year plan to improve his earn ing potential. Make it a date night. Hold hands, do something inexpensive you

both enjoy, and let him know he can be anything he wants to be. Then, help him decide exactly what and where he wants to be in five years. What does he want to be making, and what feasible steps can he take education ally or in terms of job training to get there?

If you want to go to work at some point when your baby is a little older, that’s fine. I completely un derstand the de sire to be at home with a brand new baby. But hard work alone just isn’t enough these days. You’ve got to boost your brain power and value in the marketplace, too. God bless you guys!

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Saturday October 1

Claybank Jamboree Arts & Crafts Festival

9:00 AM - 3:00 PM, Downtown Ozark, Ozark, AL, 36330 Browse the unique crafts and beautiful artwork while listening to live music and enjoying some great food. Come out and see the car and truck show, children’s activities, touch a truck and more. https://www.facebook.com/ClaybankJamboree/

Touch-A-Truck

9:00 AM - 12:00 PM, Sam Boswell Buick GMC, 1309 Boll Weevil Circle Enterprise, AL, 36330 This event will be a unique experience for children to have a handson opportunity to explore all kinds of heavy equip ment, truck and machinery. Plus the chance meet the people who build, protect and serve our community. 334-377-4473

First Saturday Family Day

10:30 AM Wiregrass Museum of Art, 126 Mu seum Avenue Dothan, AL, 36303 Saturdays are the perfect day for children and families to create and explore art together! First Saturday Family Day, one of WMA’s longest-running educational programs, offers free art activities on the first Saturday of every month 334-794-3871 www.wiregrassmuseum.org

Landmark Dulcimers (Free for Landmark Dulcimer Club members and free with your paid admission for the general public ($4 for adults, $3 for kids, free for park members and children 2 and under) 1:00 PM Landmark Park- Interpre tive Center Auditorium, 430 Landmark Dr Dothan, AL, 36302 The Landmark Dulcimer Club has a jam and practice session every first Saturday of the month. https://www.landmarkparkdothan.com/park-events/

Claybank 5K Run and Walk 861 Myrtle Drive Ozark, AL Claybank 5K Run and Walk https://www.facebook.com/ClaybankJamboree

Sunday October 2

Reptile Feeding (Free with your paid gate admission ($5 for adults, $4 for kids, free for park members and children 2 and under) 2:30 PM Landmark Park- Interpretive Center Lobby, 430 Landmark Dr Dothan, AL, 36302 Meet our snakes, turtles and lizards and learn why these animals are important to the environment. Interpretive Center Lobby. Held on the first Sunday of the month. https://www.landmarkparkdothan.com/park-events/

Scarecrows in the Garden Open House (Free) Dothan Area Botanical Gardens, 5130 Headland Ave Dothan, AL, 36303 Free open house to vote on your favorite scarecrow. dabg.com

Monday October 3

Teen RECHARGE!

3:00 PM - 5:30 PM, DHCLS Main Library, 445 N Oates St. Dothan, AL, 36303 A place for tweens and teens (12-18) to hang out, mess around and geek out with others their age. S.T.E.A.M.-based activities such as robotics, 3D pens, crafts, computer coding, art, video games, etc. will be available to all at no charge. 334-793-9767 https://dhcls.org/

Tuesday October 4

Ozark Kiwanis Pancake and Bacon Supper

5:00 PM - 6:45 PM, Perry Recreation Center, 223 Community Dr Ozark, AL, 36360 A portion of the

profits benefits Alabama Children’s Hospital. https://www.facebook.com/kiwanisclubozark/

Wednesday October 5

Halloween Ceramics Class ($30)

4:00 PM Cultural Arts Center, 909 S. St. Andrews St. Dothan, AL, 36303 Kids we are having a fun hal loween class. Sign up on the jot form here: https:// form.jotform.com/203166058956159. Loads of fun and snacks too while you paint!! Teens through adults. theculturalartscenter.org

Thursday October 6

18th Annual Health & Wellness Workshop

8:00 AM - 2:00 PM, Dothan Civic Center, 126 N St Andrews St #214 Dothan, AL, 36303 Dothan Leisure Services and the Alabama Department of Public Health will sponsor the 18th Annual Health and Wellness Workshop on Thursday, October 6 from 8 a.m.-2 p.m. at the Dothan Civic Center. This is a free event. The workshop is a full day of education offered through speakers, vendors, demonstrations, free health screenings, and one-on-one “Ask the Expert Sessions.” http://dothanciviccenter.org/

Saturday October 8

Wiregrass Woodturners (Free with your paid gate ad mission ($5 for adults, $4 for kids, free for park members and children 2 and under) 9:30 AM Landmark Park- Interpre tive Center Classroom, 430 Landmark Dr Dothan, AL, 36302 The Wiregrass Woodturners host a club meet ing and woodturning demo every second Saturday of the month at 9:30 a.m. The public is invited to visit and learn how to make beautiful wooden items https://www.landmarkparkdothan.com/park-events/

Pickin’ in the Park

10:00 AM Landmark Park, 430 Landmark Dr Dothan, AL, 36302 Join musicians for a bluegrass, country and gospel jam session. Visitors are welcome to listen or participate. All ages and skill levels are welcome. https://www.landmarkparkdothan.com

Sit n’ Sew (Free with your paid gate admission ($5 for adults, $4 for kids, free for park members and children 2 and under) 10:00 AM - 3:00 PM, Landmark Park- Interpre tive Center Auditorium, 430 Landmark Dr Dothan, AL, 36302 Every second Saturday join the Evening Star Quilt Guild with your textile-based crafts for an informal sewing circle at the Landmark Park https://www.landmarkparkdothan.com/park-events/

Story Time - The Carver

12:00 PM - 1:30 PM, The Carver Museum, 305 N Foster St Dothan, AL, 36303 Bring your children for Story-time and activity at The Carver http://www.gwcarvermuseum.com/

Monday October 10

Teen RECHARGE!

3:00 PM - 5:30 PM, DHCLS Main Library, 445 N Oates St. Dothan, AL, 36303 A place for tweens and teens (12-18) to hang out, mess around and geek out with others their age. S.T.E.A.M.-based activities such as robotics, 3D pens, crafts, computer coding, art, video games, etc. will be available to all at no charge. 334-793-9767 https://dhcls.org/

Thursday October 13

Creepy Critters

4:00 PM DHCLS - Westgate Branch, 535 Recreation Rd. Dothan, AL, 36303 Creepy Critters focuses on those less cuddly and icky creatures whose importance is often taken for granted. This program

features arachnids, insects, and snakes to illustrate that such undesirable critters serve an extremely important purpose to the environment. 334-699-2950 https://dhcls.org/

Enterprise Stars Dancing for Scholarships

5:00 PM Enterprise Civic Center, 2401 Neil Metcalf Rd Enterprise, AL, 36330 All proceeds benefit the Enterprise State Community College Foundation. The Foundation seeks to provide scholarships to deserving students of Enterprise State Community College as well as assist with the financial security of the college.

https://event.auctria.com/f8cb639c-b98c-4472-913dea42c14bc92f/aa6cd270-8751-11e9-a741-3fcfcb35cbb0

Film Screening: Finding Vivian Maier

6:00 PM Wiregrass Museum of Art, 126 Museum Avenue Dothan, AL, 36303 Finding Vivian Maier is the critically acclaimed documentary about a mysterious nanny, who secretly took over 100,000 photographs that were hidden in storage lockers and, discovered decades later, is now among the 20th century’s great est photographers.

334-794-3871 https://www.wiregrassmuseum.org/ events/film-screening-finding-vivian-maier/

Friday October 14

Landmark Park Quilt Show

1:00 PM - 4:00 PM, Land mark Park-Stokes Activity Barn , 430 Landmark Dr. Dothan, AL, 36303 Antique and contemporary quilts will be on display in the Stokes Activity Barn for the annual Landmark Park Quilt Show on Octo ber 14-16. landmarkparkdothan.com

Celebration of Light

The Plant, 308 North Saint Andrews St Dothan, AL, 36303 Join us the day before Champions of Hope to pick up your participant packet and enjoy music, food and fellowship. After dark, a Celebration of Light will be hosted to support, remember, and encourage our cancer survivors, or anyone touched by cancer through the dedication of a luminaria, which serves as a beacon of hope throughout the darkest of times. https://raceroster.com/events/2022/61230/champi ons-of-hope-2022

S’mores and Snores ($20 per person)

Eastgate Park, 2049 Sanitary Dairy Rd. Dothan, AL, 36301 This is a family tent camp out for up to 40 families. There will be a movie with popcorn, scaven ger hunt, nighttime hike, hot dogs, s’mores cooked on a fire pit, a bonfire with story time, and a tent decorating contest. Registration required by October 7 at www.dothanleisureservices.org. www.dothanleisureservices.org

Saturday October 15

Blacksmithing Demo (Free with paid gate admission ($5 for adults, $4 for kids, free for park members and children 2 and under) 10:00 AM - 12:00 PM, Landmark Park, 430 Landmark Dr Dothan, AL, 36302 Wiregrass Forge member Joey Dalton will heat and shape metal into a variety of items.

https://www.landmarkparkdothan.com/park-events/

Fall Farm Day ($8 for adults; $6 for seniors and military; $4 for kids; free for park members and children 2 and under) 10:00 AM - 4:00 PM, Landmark Park, 430 Landmark Dr Dothan, AL, 36302 Enjoy the sights, sounds and sweet smells of cane grinding, syrup making, butter churning, soap making and other traditional farm

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activities. Other activities include music, antique trac tors, wagon rides and the largest quilt display in the Wiregrass region.

https://www.landmarkparkdothan.com/park-events/

Landmark Park Quilt Show

10:00 AM - 4:00 PM, Details on October 14.

Therapeutic Fall Carnival

10:00 AM - 1:00 PM, Rotary Miracle Field, Dothan, AL, 36303 This is a fall carnival for intellectually and physically challenged children and adults and their im mediate family members. Participants will enjoy car nival games, cakewalk, costume contest, train rides, inflatables, face painting, karaoke, dunking booth, and other fun activities. The cost is one bag of candy (to be used at the event). For more information, please call 334-615-3720. Everyone that is attending must register at www.dothanleisureservices.org. www.dothanleisureservices.org

Studio Class: Halloween Double Feature

($25 for members; $35 for not-yet members)

10:30 AM Wiregrass Museum of Art , 126 Museum Avenue Dothan, AL, 36303 Studio Class: Halloween Double Feature - a class for every age! www.wiregrassmuseum.org/events/studio-classhalloween-double-feature

Boll Weevil Fall Festival

11:00 AM - 4:00 PM, Downtown Enterprise, Enterprise, AL, 36330

This FREE outdoor event showcases our unique Main Street merchants and restaurants, hand crafted gifts, decor, & art, festival food, entertainment and more. https://www.enterprisealabama.com

Champions of Hope

The Plant, 308 North Saint Andrews St Dothan, AL, 36303 We are pleased to announce that Champions of Hope presented by the Family of Susan Fischer, promoting cancer awareness, will be held on October 15 in historic downtown Dothan. https://raceroster.com/events/2022/61230/champi ons-of-hope-2022

Sunday October 16

Landmark Park Quilt Show

1:00 PM - 4:00 PM, Details on October 14.

Auditions for “The Best Christmas Pageant Ever”

Southeast Alabama Community Theatre, 909 South St Dothan, AL, 36303 Oct. 16, 17, possible callbacks 10/18, Ages 7 through adults, Cast size 20+. Audition Style: solo, Please sign up for an appointment on our website. 334-794-0400 https://www.seact.com/

Monday October 17

8th Annual Raider Classic

12:00 PM Dothan Country Club, 200 S Cherokee Ave Dothan, AL, 36301 8th Annual Raider Golf Classic, proceeds to benefit Houston Academy. https://www.houstonacademy.com/athletics/golf/

Teen RECHARGE!

3:00 PM - 5:30 PM, DHCLS Main Library, 445 N Oates St. Dothan, AL, 36303 A place for tweens and teens (12-18) to hang out, mess around and geek out with others their age. S.T.E.A.M.-based activities such as robotics, 3D pens, crafts, computer coding, art, video games, etc..

334-793-9767 https://dhcls.org/

Auditions for “The Best Christmas Pageant Ever”

Southeast Alabama Community Theatre, 909 South St Dothan, AL, 36303 Oct. 16, 17, possible callbacks 10/18, Ages 7 through adults, Cast size 20+. Audition Style: solo. Please sign up for an appointment on our website. 334-794-0400 https://www.seact.com/

Tuesday October 18

Super Hero Night - Enterprise Chick-fil-A

5:00 PM - 7:00 PM, Chick-fil-A Enterprise, 626 Boll Weevil Cir Enterprise, AL, 36330 Come out and celebrate all our little Superheroes. Join us for a fun filled evening full of fun! Anyone who wears a super hero costume will receive a FREE kids meal! We can’t wait to see you all there! 334-347-4747 www.chick-fil-a.com/enterprise-al

Wednesday October 19

Books, Balls & Blocks

1:00 PM DHCLS - Westgate Branch, 535 Recreation Rd. Dothan, AL, 36303 Books, Balls, and Blocks is a free event held for children and their families. The purpose of the event is to screen children for develop mental delays in the first 5 years of life. 334-699-2950 https://dhcls.org/

Thursday October 20

Crafty Teen

4:00 PM DHCLS - Westgate Branch, 535 Recreation Rd. Dothan, AL, 36303 Drop by the Westgate Branch to make this month’s project. This month, we will make foil leaf mosaics. All supplies will be provided for this class. Registration is required. ages 13-18 334-699-2950 https://dhcls.org/

Dinner Downtown Benefitting Wiregrass United Way

4:30 PM - 6:30 PM, The Ozark Amphitheater, Ozark, AL, 36360 The annual Wiregrass United Way Dale County fundraiser, Dinner Downtown, will be Thurs day, October 20 4:30pm-6:30pm. I have tickets for sale (1 for $20; 2 for $35) eat downtown at Happy Times or Benchmark Craft Beer & Wines or get your plate to-go.

Resurrection - A Journey Tribute Band

6:00 PM EHS Performing Arts Center, 1801 Boll Weevil Circle Enterprise, AL, 36330 Resurrection - A Journey Tribute, considered to be ‘The Gold Standard’ by which all Journey tributes are measured. www.coffeecountyartsalliance.com/tickets/Resurrec tion-A-Journey-Tribute-p375562999

Webb Paranormal Group Meet and Greet

6:00 PM DHCLSWestgate Branch, 535 Recreation Rd. Dothan, AL, 36303

Come meet local and regional historians and Paranormal investiga

tors, ask questions, hear the history of Dothan and the Wiregrass Area, learn about the tools of the trade, and check out their presentations. 334-699-2950 https://dhcls.org/

Saturday October 22

Young Eagles Rally

8:30 AM - 11:30 AM, Enterprise Municipal Airport, 867 Aviation Blvd Enterprise, AL, 36330 Great opportunity for kids ages 8-17 to learn about aviation and get a free airplane ride! Registration is in person and will be from 8:30AM until 11:30AM. Airplane rides begin at 9:00AM. 601-329-1334 acbarnet@hotmail.com

Special Needs Trunk-or-treat

6:00 PM - 8:00 PM, Beacon of Hope ABA, 181 W Reynolds

Ozark, AL, 36360

Trunk or treat with games, haunted house, costume contest, and inflatables! Teal pump kin project friendly! Please email beaconof hopeaba@gmail.com if you will be providing a trunk! 334-379-0729 http://ababeaconofhope.com/

Monday October 24

Teen RECHARGE!

3:00 PM - 5:30 PM, DHCLS Main Library, 445 N Oates St. Dothan, AL, 36303 A place for tweens and teens (12-18) to hang out, mess around and geek out with others their age. S.T.E.A.M.-based activities such as robotics, 3D pens, crafts, computer coding, art, video games, etc. will be available to all at no charge. 334-793-9767 https://dhcls.org/

Tuesday October 25

Astronomy Night at the Gardens

6:00 PM Dothan Area Botanical Gardens, 5130 Head land Ave Dothan, AL, 36303 Join us for a night under the stars! We will be looking at some seasonal celestial bodies and learning scientific facts as well as myths and legends of ancient times. This is an after-hours family event beginning at 6 pm at the Dothan Area Botanical Gardens. You may arrive as early as 5:45 pm. Guests are encouraged to bring flashlights for the beginning of the event but lights out is at 6:00 pm to let our eyes adjust to the darkness for the best viewing ability. Registration is required through DHCLS.org https://dhcls.org/

Southeast Alabama Community Theatre (SEACT) presents “The SpongeBob Musical”

Dothan Opera House, 115 N St Andrews St Dothan, AL, 36303 Southeast Alabama Com munity Theatre (SEACT) presents “The Sponge Bob Musical” 334-794-0400 https://www.seact.com/

Wednesday October 26

Southeast Alabama Community Theatre (SEACT) presents “The SpongeBob Musical”

Dothan Opera House, 115 N St Andrews St Dothan, AL, 36303 Southeast Alabama Community Theatre (SEACT) presents “The SpongeBob Musical” 334-794-0400 https://www.seact.com/

Thursday October 27

Jingle Bell Market Preview Party ($25)

6:00 PM - 9:00 PM, Dothan Civic Center, 126 N St Andrews St #214 Dothan, Al, 36303 Jingle Bell Market Preview Party - show early. (334) 305-0333

Low Country Boil ($50)

6:00 PM Stokes Activity Barn at Landmark Park, 430 Landmark Dr. Dothan, AL, 36303 Shrimp, sausage, corn, potatoes and a blend of spices will simmer in a 60-gallon kettle for a mouthwatering dish. Music by Brian Hart, wagon rides provided by David Baker. Advance tickets are required. 334-794-3452 https://www.landmarkparkdothan. com/park-events/

FamilyCalendar

Southeast Alabama Community Theatre

(SEACT) presents “The SpongeBob Musical” Dothan Opera House, 115 N St Andrews St Dothan, AL, 36303 Southeast Alabama Community Theatre (SEACT) presents “The SpongeBob Musical” 334-794-0400 https://www.seact.com/

Friday October 28

Jingle Bell Market

10:00 AM - 8:00 PM, Dothan Civic Center, 126 N St Andrews St #214 Dothan, Al, 36303 DaySpring Hospice Foundation is pleased to invite you to join our Jingle Bell Market in Dothan, AL on October 27, 28 and 29, 2022. The event will feature vendors of all types to kick off your holiday shopping at the Dothan Civic Center. (334) 305-0333

The Glass Pumpkin Party ($25)

6:00 PM - 9:00 PM, Wiregrass Museum of Art, 126 Museum Ave Dothan, AL, 36303 Experience live glass blowing and a one-of-a-kind glass art installation at The Glass Pumpkin Party! Join us for an evening preview event for the first chance to view and shop more than 300 glass pumpkins created by artists with Hot Glass Academy and others. www.wiregrassmuseum.org/registration-the-glasspumpkin-party

Southeast Alabama Community Theatre (SEACT) presents “The SpongeBob Musical” Dothan Opera House, 115 N St Andrews St Dothan, AL, 36303 Southeast Alabama Community Theatre (SEACT) presents “The SpongeBob Musical” 334-794-0400 https://www.seact.com/

Saturday October 29

3rd Annual Scarecrow Festival Car Show

9:00 AM - 2:00 PM, Culpepper Park, Hwy 85 Daleville, AL, 36322 This will be the Daleville Area Chamber of Commerce’s 3rd Annual Car Show! Come and admire all the beautiful cars, new and antique,

5th Saturday Free (Free)

9:00 AM - 5:00 PM, Landmark Park, 430 Landmark Dr. Dothan, AL, 36303 Every fifth Saturday, gate admis sion Landmark Park will be waived. These don’t come around often, so take advantage when you can! https://www.landmarkparkdothan.com

Jingle Bell Market

10:00 AM - 6:00 PM, Details on October 28.

Warrior Color Run

2:00 PM 178 Earline Rd Dothan, AL, 36305 Emmanuel Christian School is raising funds to build up our Ath letic Program. Join us early to check in, go thru Spon sor booths, inflatables for the smaller kids,enjoy some family fun and finish off with dinner at food trucks. https://www.bikesignup.com/Race/AL/Dothan/Em manuelWarriorsColorRun

Monday October 31

Teen RECHARGE!

Details on October 3.

334-793-9767 https://dhcls.org/

Saturday November 5

The Whole Nine Yarns: A Multi-Genre Writing Workshop ($10 members for members; $15 not-yet members) 12:00 PM Wiregrass Museum of Art, 126 Museum Avenue Dothan, AL, 36303 Dave McGin nis will lead a writing workshop designed to guide you through your own unique gifts as an author via numerous genres, such as poetry and prose fiction. Just bring whatever writing tool you prefer. 334-794-3871 www.wiregrassmuseum.org

Tuesday November 8

Write Night: Open Mic Night

6:00 PM Wiregrass Museum of Art, 126 Museum Av enue Dothan, AL, 36303 Write Night: Open Mic Night provides an open platform to share original poetry, prose, skits, and more. 334-794-3871 www.wiregrassmuseum.org

Saturday November 19

Native American Festival (Members are free. Non members are $8 and children are $5) 10:00 AM - 4:00 PM, Landmark Park, 430 Landmark Dr. Dothan, AL, 36303 Guests can enjoy learning about Native culture and traditions through music and dance, try their hand at flint knapping, listen to a story teller, and more! Come browse the vendors for more Native American jewelry, apparel, arrowheads and tools. Kids can enjoy pony rides and even learn traditional Native American dances and drumming. https://www.landmarkparkdothan.com/park-events/

Baby Shark

Dothan Civic Center, 126 N St Andrews St #214 Dothan, Al, 36303 The Christmas Show - Splash along with Baby Shark and Pinkfong as they journey into the sea for the Holidays to sing and dance through some of your favorite songs in Baby Shark Live! http://dothanciviccenter.org/

Every day until October 20

Book Character Pumpkin Palooza (Free)

Any DHCLS location , Dothan, AL All you need is a fa vorite story or book character! Decorate your pumpkin for the annual contest. knorth@dhcls.org https://dhcls.org/

Every day in October starting October 5

Dive Into Diversity-Diwali

Any DHCLS location , Dothan, AL Explore other cul tures through books and crafts on traditional holidays and festivals around the globe https://dhcls.org/

Every day in November starting November 3

Fall Harvest Sensory Kits

Any DHCLS location, Beginning today, November 3, 2022, stop by any DHCLS location to pick up a Fall Harvest Sensory kit. These kits are for toddlers and kids 18 months- 5 years of age. https://dhcls.org/

Every Tuesday

Story & Craft Time

10:30 AM DHCLS Main Library, 445 N Oates St. Dothan, AL, 36303 Story & Craft Time, registration required, crafts are designed for children ages 2-6. 334-793-9767 knorth@dhcls.org https://dhcls.org/

Tuesdays, Thursdays, and Saturdays in October

Enterprise Farmers Market

7:00 AM - 11:00 AM, 525 N. Main Street Enter prise, AL, 36330 The Enterprise Farmers Market is a covered, open-air facility where local farmers can sell fresh fruits and vegetables directly to the consumer. The market is open on Tuesdays, Thursdays and Saturdays from 7 to 11 a.m. 334-348-2668 https://www.facebook.com/enter prisealfarmersmarket

Every Wednesday

Story & Craft Time

10:30 AM DHCLS - Westgate Branch, 535 Recreation Rd. Dothan, AL, 36303 Registration required, crafts are designed for children ages 2-6. 334-699-2950 knorth@dhcls.org https://dhcls.org/

Every third Wednesday

Master Gardener Lunch and Learn

12:00 PM DHCLS Main Library, 445 N Oates St. Do than, AL, 36303 Join the Wiregrass Master Gardeners Association on the third Wednesday of each month as they present on a variety of seasonal topics! Don’t forget to bring a bag lunch and enjoy the discussion with experienced gardeners. 334-793-9767 https://dhcls.org/

Every third Thursday

Art After Hours

5:30 PM - 8:00 PM, Wiregrass Museum of Art, 126 Museum Avenue Dothan, AL, 36303 Come wander the galleries, have a drink at the cash bar, and take in art on view. You might even have a chance to speak with one of the exhibiting artists or try your hand at an in-gallery activity. Enjoy live music in the galleries from a range of local musicians. 334-794-3871 www.wiregrassmuseum.org

Friday, Saturday and Sunday

Planetarium Shows ($3 per person and free for park members) 430 Landmark Dr. Dothan, AL, 36303 Full dome movies will take place on Fridays at 3:30 p.m.; Saturdays at 11 a.m., 1 p.m. and 3:30 p.m.; Sundays at 1 p.m. and 3:30 p.m.; and Mondays at 3:30 p.m. https://www.landmarkparkdothan.com/digitariumplanetarium/

Every Saturday

Story & Craft Time

10:30 AM DHCLS = Ashford Branch, 305 6th Ave. Dothan, AL, 36312 Story & Craft Time, registration required, crafts are designed for children ages 2-6. 334-899-3121 knorth@dhcls.org https://dhcls.org/

Every second Saturday

Toddler Tales ($20)

10:00 AM All About Art Studio, 102 South Main Street Enterprise, AL, 36330 Class is designed to be a family experience, with story time and a related art project for toddlers and their caregivers. Light toddler friendly refreshments will be provided. 12 months-4 years and caregivers.

334-348-2738 www.allaboutartstudio.com

Brittany Curry

WP: The autumn season is here! What are some things your family looks forward to this time of year?

BC: My favorite seasons are spring and summer, so I really have to psych myself up for this time of year. That being said, I do LOVE Auburn football, so that is a favorite fall tradition for our whole family.

WP: Do you have any annual traditions that take place each October?

BC: We love to carve pumpkins and roast pumpkin seeds. If time allows, we are always up for a trip to Corn Dodgers Farm, too!

WP: Do you have a favorite fall meal or treat that you must make for family and friends?

BC: Every fall, I invariably make a lot of soups. The kids love to help me too, which is fun! Our favorites are Taco Soup and Swamp Soup. Although, we always try new soup recipes every year.

WP: What’s your fondest fall memory from your childhood? What memories do you hope to create for your children?

BC: High school football, college football, and trick-or-treating were fond fall memories from my childhood. My husband loves to hunt in the fall and winter. Our children enjoy being outdoors with their daddy! I hope they learn about sportsmanship and the appre ciation of hunting and wildlife to carry on the tradition.

WP: What are you most proud of in your motherhood journey?

BC: I am so proud of the children we are raising. Though they are far from perfect, they are compassionate souls who excel in school, love big, and live life to the fullest.

WP: What was the most important thing in your home when you were young that you have since carried over into your own family?

BC: I grew up with the greatest parents. They supported my dreams and did everything in their power to help me achieve them. Mostly though, I grew up in a Christ-centered family. My sincere desire is for my children to know Christ and aspire to be better every day–just as my parents instilled in our family growing up.

WP: What’s the most important lesson you learned from your parents?

BC: Life isn’t always easy; our lives are defined by how we respond to adversity that comes our way. We must find ways to overcome trials and seek to learn from them.

WP: If you had to choose one parenting mantra for yourself, what would it be?

BC: I want to love my children unconditionally for exactly who they are.

WP: Tell us about your work with the Junior Cotillion. Why did you get involved? What do you enjoy most?

BC: I am the owner and director of the National League of Junior Cotillions—Dothan Chapter. I love everything it embodies!

While living in Fairhope, I had the privilege to become involved in teaching the pre-cotillion program (to rising 1st-4th graders in the summers) before I also started teaching the 6th grade junior cotillion program. When Matthew accepted a new job in Dothan, I was saddened to leave cotillion behind. Thus, I was elated when Jill Dykes reached out to me about purchasing her program in Dothan.

This program introduces and exposes children to so many important social skills and courtesies. In addition, the students also are introduced to the basics of ballroom dance. The program concludes with a five-course instructional dinner and ball.

WP: How do you avoid mom burnout?

BC: Sleep! When I feel overwhelmed with everything that life throws my way, it is almost always due to a lack of sleep. To be my best self, I have to take care of myself first before trying to take care of others. Sleep, prayer, spending time alone with my husband, catching up with friends, and spending time outside help me prevent/avoid mom burnout.

WP: If you could give your younger self one piece of advice, what would it be?

BC: Accept and embrace change. I would never have thought my life would have changed as much (in the 18 years post-college) as it has. Thus, I would tell my younger self that change is okay and can be good in the long run. You’ll never be able to grow or move forward without being able to accept and embrace change.

Brittany Curry resides in Dothan, AL, with her husband, Matthew. They have been married for 16 years and have two children: a daughter Monroe (11), and a son Lander (7). Brittany has been a teacher for 14 years and holds a Bach elor’s Degree in Psychology and a Master’s in Elementary Education. She currently teaches 1st grade at Houston Academy. She is also the Director of The National League of Junior Cotillions–Dothan Chapter.

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