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Volume 4 Number 4

Columns

From the Publisher Ashton Wright

Holiday Savvy

How to survive the season with your finances in tact.

Tweens, Teens & Screens Setting up protections on your child’s new device.

The Early Years Kishia Saffold

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by Dothan Pediatric Healthcare Network

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Family Eye Health Sponsored by Eye Center South

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Keeping It Light

10 ways to simplify the season and avoid holiday burnout.

Use our guide as you plan your family outings to celebrate the holidays!

Kristi Bush, LSW

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On The Cover Phelan (2) and Stetson (9 months) are the children of Shawn Pugh and

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Bits & Pieces

Ashley Applegate. The siblings love playing with each other and their dog, Pearl. Phelan loves being outside, dancing, and all things Cocomelon and Minnie Mouse. Stetson loves to crawl and pull up on things, eating and sleeping.

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I have always been a last-minute shopper, but with the way things have been the last couple of years, I’ve had to change my ways and start my Christmas shopping earlier. And while I won’t deny there are some benefits to getting my shopping done earlier, like not having to worry about not getting that one thing your daughter really wants, everything isn’t all rainbows and roses. Take last year for instance. Our big gift for Alexis was a Barbie 3-in-1 camper. It sold out pretty quickly in our local stores so I was forced to order online. No big deal; Target had my back...until they didn’t. I guess because this camper came in its own pretty big box, the shippers didn’t feel the need to do any type of packaging. So when the delivery guy dropped it off on our front porch, Alexis’s big surprise was almost ruined. And we can’t forget the gifts that my mom lost for five years. Five years! At the start of December, we’ve already gotten all but one of Alexis’s gifts and are having to be very creative in how we hide them. But we can’t hide them too well, or we’ll have a repeat of my mom’s missing gifts fiasco. Jokes aside, this really is the most wonderful time of the year. There’s so much to do as a family and so many ways to get involved in our community. Check out the Holiday Happenings Guide for a comprehensive list of all the ways you can experience Christmas in the Wiregrass this year. As always, my family will take in the lights at the DABG’s Gardens Aglow, and I’ve got plans to attend SEACT’s presentation of Elf with my mom and a friend and her mom. We’ll also be donating to Toys for Tots and emptying our spare change into the Salvation Army’s red kettle. If you hadn’t already guessed, this month’s issue is all about helping you make the most of the holiday season. So be sure to check out our feature articles, Holiday Savvy: Survive the Season with Your Finances Intact and Keep it Light: 10 Ways to Simplify the Season. As we count down to the end of 2021, I can’t help but think how quickly this year has gone by, especially after 2020 just seemed to drag on and on. I have a lot to look back on from this year and smile. Some highlights include Alexis graduating kindergarten, me starting yoga, spending a week with my college BFF, and my brother and sister-in-law getting pregnant after going through IVF. I hope 2021 was filled with more ups than downs for you and your family, and that as you look back on the year that’s passed you’ll choose to focus on the good rather than the bad. From my family to yours, Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

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Contributing Writers Dr. Meghan Benak Kimberly Blaker Kristi Bush, LSW Dr. Dan Denney Janeen Lewis Kishia Saffold

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TheEarlyYears Childcare Insights from Kishia Saffold

Holiday Traditions to Remember It’s the most wonderful time of year, right? Christmas is definitely my FAVORITE holiday and for many reasons! It’s one of the few times of the year we gather with family and friends; there’s good food, and the mood is set with festive music. For us, it was the Temptations Christmas, hearing that deep bass voice say “Twas the night before Christmas and all through the house, not a creature was stirring, not even a mouse.” Even just writing that I can feel the love and laughter. Christmas in our family was about giving. Of course, we were excited about receiving gifts, but my brother and I were equally as excited to pick out the perfect gift for mom and dad. As a kid, I remember my mom taking us caroling at the local nursing home, and as a teenager we would sing at various community events spreading Christmas cheer. You know what else we loved? Driving around the neighborhood to see the holiday lights and decorations.

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My favorite Christmas memory was 1990. We lived in Ft. Ord, Calif. My grandfather passed that year, and our family flew out to spend Christmas with us. It’s one of the few Christmas holidays we spent with extended family. We had a real Christmas tree, and there were tons of gifts under the tree. We laughed, we sang, and, boy, did we eat! That’s the year I was introduced to my aunt’s famous fruitcake cookies. My brother pulled each gift out one by one and called each person’s name. We all waited patiently and were so excited to hear our names called over and over again. The next day we drove to Beverly Hills and through Rodeo Drive and went to Universal Studios Hollywood. It’s such a magical time of year for kids, and the focus shifted for me when I became a mom. I wanted to share the love and create wonderful memories for my daughter as well. We enjoy baking cakes,

pies and cookies. My daughter loved decorating the gingerbread house and licking the bowl from cake mix. A new tradition we’ve seen emerge over the last couple of years is Elf on the Shelf, and in our own daycare center we have a special Santa cam that goes directly to the North Pole where kids can be assured that Santa is monitoring whether they’ve been bad or good. However your family celebrates the holiday, I hope it is filled with lots of love and laughter. Kishia Saffold is the owner of Kiddie Care Learning Center in Dothan and Enterprise. She has a Masters of Business Administration from Troy University and a B.A. in Communication from Alabama State University. She is a wife to Jeffery and mother to daughter, Kiera.

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nections to help her students better understand content and models the motivation and excitement she wants from her students. In turn, Hearns says her students keep her motivated.“When they get off the bus or out of their cars, I always greet them with ‘Good Morning!’ Usually I receive a big smile in return. It’s the smiles and the genuineness that motivates me.” She says the most rewarding thing about being a teacher is knowing she is a part of shaping lives and hopefully giving her students skills to be independent. “It is important to me to always build a student’s self-esteem and give them coping skills needed to succeed in life,” Hearns says. “Working with students with various disabilities makes me want to help each student be the best that they can be according to their different and unique abilities. It is also about focusing on what my students can do and not looking at limitations.” She also wants her students to learn kindness, something she says seems simple but isn’t always taught or demonstrated. “True kindness toward others can change the world, one kind act at a time.”

“Ms. Hearns...is so great,” says Kimberly Ann. “[She is] great with communication and puts so much thought into her students.” Carolyn Hearns is the December 2021 Teacher of the Month for Wiregrass Parents. She is the Special Education teacher in an Autism Unit at Dothan Preparatory Academy where she teaches all subjects, as well as Functional and Life Skills and Transition classes. Hearns got her start in education as a Parental Involvement Specialist, but that took her out of the school setting, and she quickly realized she missed being around the students. So, she started substitute teaching and fell in love with being in the classroom. That was nearly 25 years ago.“When I was growing up, I used to play school in my room by myself. I would line up chairs and pretend to be teaching,” Hearns says. “I think I liked the way my teachers made me feel. They seemed to have the power with just a smile to make things seem that they would be okay.” Hearns says she was always drawn to the atrisk students and those with disabilities. “I just wanted to find new ways to help them learn and to motivate them to continue learning.” Hearns strives to keep learning fun and interesting, incorporating music and lots of opportunities to get moving. She makes real-life con-

Carolyn Hearns received her B.S. in Rehabilitative Counseling from Florida State University and received her Special Education Teaching Certification and Masters from National University. She has one daughter, Teneshia Jackson Warner.

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Victorian Christmas

Gardens Aglow

Sunday, December 12, 1:00-4:00 p.m. Landmark Park, 430 Landmark Dr., Dothan AL 36303 Free * www.landmarkparkdothan.com Listen to Christmas carols and visit with Santa. Enjoy snacks, arts and crafts, music, wagon rides and handmade decorations. A circuit riding preacher will deliver a holiday message. Admission is free and visitors are encouraged to bring nonperishable food items for donation to the Food Bank.

November 26-27, December 3-4, 10-11, 17-18 5:00-8:00 p.m. nightly, Dothan Area Botanical Gardens 5130 Headland Ave., Dothan AL 36303 Admission: $8 over age 8; www.dabg.com This event is a walking tour through a portion of the Gardens where visitors will be able to stroll at their own pace and enjoy the numerous Christmas lights and holiday displays. This year’s event will feature new displays as well as the popular hidden objects in the trees along the trail so be sure to bring along your flashlights so you can find them all. This is a great holiday family event as well as a fun place to take any visitors you may have in town for Thanksgiving or Christmas. The Gardens take on a magical look lit up for the holidays, so be sure you don’t miss this opportunity to see the Gardens at night.

SEACT Presents Elf the Musical

December 14-19 * 7:00 p.m. nightly Dothan Opera House, 115 N. St. Andrews St., Dothan AL 36303 www.seact.com Based on the beloved holiday film, this hilarious fish-out-of-water comedy follows Buddy the Elf in his quest to find his true identity. Embrace your inner elf and join Buddy as he crosses over from the confectionately sweet life of Santa’s elves to the harsh reality of finding his birth father in New York City. This oversized elf is determined to move Dad from the naughty to nice list, and remind his new family of the true meaning of Christmas. The best way to spread Christmas cheer is singing loud for all to hear!

Christmas in Candyland

December 3-31 * Downtown Andalusia Free Admission, christmasincandyland.com Your winter wonderland adventure is waiting for you! Make lasting holiday memories, create beautiful photo opportunities and watch children’s imaginations grow. Enjoy imaginative play cottages for kids, train rides, snow tubing, ice skating, Christmas lights and decorations, musical acts, and snow shows every weekend at this holiday event.

Downtown Dothan Ice Rink

November 26-January 9 Wadlington Park, North Foster Street, Dothan AL www.iceskatedothan.com Downtown Dothan will have a brand new attraction this year! A seasonal ice skating rink is being built in Wadlington Park on North Foster Street. The City of Dothan and the Dothan Downtown Redevelopment Authority are excited to provide this amenity that folks in the south don’t normally experience! The ice rink will be open from November 26 – January 9. The cost is $10/person, which includes an ice skate rental and unlimited time on the ice! The hours of operation are Tuesdays - Thursdays from 10 a.m. – 9 p.m., Fridays from 10 a.m. – 10 p.m., Saturdays from 9 a.m. – 10 p.m., and Sundays from 1 p.m. – 8 p.m. Mondays will be closed for maintenance and private events. The rink will be open on Christmas Day from 1 p.m. – 9 p.m., and on New Year’s Eve from 10 a.m. – 10 p.m. Special event nights will be announced soon! Follow us on Instagram at @iceskatedothan, or visit www.iceskatedothan.com. Wiregrass Parents I December 2021

Winter Reading Program

Dothan-Houston Co. Library System www.dhcls.org Similar to our Summer Reading Program that we all know and love, the Winter Reading Program will be another chance to read books and win prizes. Join us for a brief and fun explanation of one of many wonderful holidays celebrated around the world each winter. December 1: Jolabokaflod; December 2: Hanukkah; December 21: Winter Solstice; December 24: Christmas Traditions; December 26: Boxing Day; December 30: Kwanzaa; December 31: Oshougatsu 6

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Arty Pants for Toddlers

Every Tuesday, 10:00-11:30 a.m. Wiregrass Museum of Art, 126 Museum Ave., Dothan www.wiregrassmuseum.org Cost: $65 Members, $75 Non-Members Ages 18 months-4 years WMA will be taken over by toddlers every quarter on Tuesday mornings as Arty Pants is back in a brand new format! Your little one will enjoy creating art in different ways in these special hands-on classes designed for parents and toddlers. Using your powerful imagination, each day we will explore a new book and medium to create your very own mess-terpieces. Be on the lookout for the Arty Pants series each quarter at WMA! WMA asks that parents accompanying Arty Pants participants wear a mask during their museum visit. If you don’t have a mask, we can provide one for you. Exceptions can be made for those with documented respiratory or sensory issues. We thank you for protecting your fellow visitors and our staff!

Saddle Up Santa

Saturday, December 11, 10:00 a.m.-2:00 p.m. Dothan Boots and Saddle Club, 1701 E. Cottonwood Rd., Dothan AL Saddle Up Santa is a FREE Christmas Festival provided by the Dothan Boots & Saddle Club. This year’s event will held on Saturday, December 11, 2021 from 10 a.m. until 2 p.m. at the Houston County Farm Center, located at 1701 E Cottonwood Rd, Dothan. This is a wonderful event, focused on families spending time with each other without the stress of finances, especially for those that don’t have a lot of money to spend during the Holidays. Event proceeds will go to the local Wiregrass 2-1-1 program. Saddle Up Santa offers free entertainment for local residents, including free games, inflatable bounce houses for children, a cake & baked goods auction, silent auction, visits with Santa, gifts from Santa, musical entertainment, free hot chocolate, free train and horse drawn wagon rides and, the Salvation Army Mobile Canteen, Waffle House and Say It Hot Dogs & More are teaming up to provide a free bag lunch. This event is a great way to step back into time where money isn’t everything, it’s a way to let children and families see the joys of Christmas and community. In addition, area non-profit agencies will be on hand that provide services to assist and help families struggling to make ends meet and, they will provide free games for the children. We will also be collecting canned food for the Salvation Army. Donations appreciated but not required to enjoy the fun. If you or your business is interested in making a tax-deductible donation to help ensure struggling families with children have a chance to experience the joys of Christmas and community, you may Contact Dawn Greathouse with the Dothan Boots & Saddle Club at (334) 685-2409.

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Hope for the Holidays The holiday season brings immense joy for families. The COVID-19 pandemic has certainly made celebrations over the last two years look a little different. A question I often hear from families is, “Will this ever end?” Vaccines are our best chance to bring an end to the pandemic. While many adults and older children have had the opportunity to get the vaccine over the last several months, this holiday season is the childrens’ turn. At the time of this publication, the Pfizer BioNTech mRNA vaccine is available for children older than 5 years of age. As an mRNA vaccine, the COVID-19 vaccine does not contain any part of the virus. It actually teaches the body’s immune system to recognize the virus in the future. The booster dose administered 21 days later re-emphasizes the earlier lesson from the initial vaccine, helping our body better protect itself against COVID-19. The COVID-19 vaccine for children ages 5-11 is a lower dose than for children 12 and older. It does not change your DNA or interact

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with your child’s genetic material in any way. “This vaccine seems rushed” is a comment I hear often. Scientists have been studying the technology for mRNA vaccines for over 30 years. In addition, these vaccines have been a part of some of the largest clinical trials ever conducted. For a vaccine to be approved in the U.S., it must pass several safety checks and steps. A vaccine is never approved if it fails any of the steps. When studying the vaccine in children, scientists took into consideration the differences in their immune systems and found a lower dose is more appropriate. Over 10,000 children have participated in the COVID-19 vaccine trials. Millions of children ages 12 and up have been safely vaccinated since the COVID-19 vaccine became available in May 2021. Children are considered fully vaccinated two weeks after the second dose. Once fully vaccinated, there is a lower chance they will get COVID-19. If they do get the virus, they

are less likely to become as ill or require hospitalization as someone who is not vaccinated. To celebrate the holidays safely, having your entire family vaccinated against COVID-19 is especially important for protecting those who cannot get the vaccine, such as infants and children under 5. My family and I look forward to returning to sweet holiday celebrations again, and by working together, we can all return to safer joyful festivities.

Dr. Meghan Benak was born in Birmingham, Alabama and raised in Dothan. Dr. Benak earned her Doctor of Medicine degree from the University of South Alabama, College of Medicine, 2016, and completed her three-year Pediatric Residency program at Louisiana State University, Children’s Hospital New Orleans, 2019. She joined Dothan Pediatric Healthcare Network as a pediatrician at Dothan Pediatric Clinic in November 2019. Dr. Benak is certified by the American Board of Pediatrics and a proud member of the American Academy of Pediatrics.

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Houston Academy Cross Country Finishes 2nd

Lady Raiders finish #STATE Runner-Up! Congratulations to our XC team!

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Providence Cross Country Teams Win State

Providence Christian School boys and girls teams are both 3A Cross Country State Champions! Conner Patterson was the boys individual champion with a time of 16:04. Millie Talmadge was the girls individual champion with a time of 19:08. Madelyn Patterson was 3rd overall. Hannah Jacobs was 5th overall. Congratulations and Go Eagles!

Families Beautify Highlands Elementary

Thank you to our Highlands Family that came out to help with Highlands Beautification Day. Limbs were cut, picnic tables were put together, sidewalks were pressure washed, and more to improve our school.

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Spread Christmas cheer this holiday season with flowers! Send the ones you love a beautiful gift of glad tidings and peace. As Santa’s little helpers, we’ll be sure to make them something that emulates the magic of Christmas. They’ll love receiving this gift, even if it’s not under the tree!

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R Girard Students Benefit from Book Donations

Highlands Student Wins Red Ribbon Week Poster Contest

Each month students are able to enjoy a new Scholastic book thanks to donors who sponsored our classroom. This is Ms. Morris’s class’s third book. “The Cool Bean” was a great book about kindness. Students read the story, discussed, and then wrote about ways to show kindness. Then they participated in a directed drawing “Being Kind is Cool Beans” activity. Reading is so much fun!

Congratulations to Kinsley Ward. She was the overall Red Ribbon Week poster contest winner! Lieutenant Eggleston, along with Mrs. Bonney and Mrs. Dobbs from 334 Prevention, presented the certificate and ribbon to Kinsley. Her poster will be enlarged and displayed in the office of 334 Prevention for a year.

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Dothan Students Discuss Youth Support with Mayor

Thank you to Mayor Mark Saliba for sitting down with a few of our students from Dothan Preparatory Academy and Dothan High School to discuss how to support our youth in the City of Dothan. We appreciate the continued support of our students and their well-being from the City of Dothan Government. We are very proud of our scholars for meeting with Mayor Saliba to offer opinions and strategies to help make our community a safer place for all citizens. We hope today sparks many more conversations and perspectives from our students to influential leaders in the Wiregrass. These students, just as many others, are the future leaders of our city and want to begin using their voices now to offer support! That’s the Wolves Way! Great job, students!

Carver Harvest Fest

We had so much fun at our First Annual Carver Harvest Fest! We got to: -Learn about snakes and hawks and even pet them! -Learn about the Dothan Police Department’s Bomb Squad and their helpful robot, Sheila, who is one of only 3 bomb squad robots in the whole state! -Learn about fire safety from the Dothan Fire Department and visit the inside of a fire truck! -Play fun games with our friends from Dothan High SADD chapter!

It was an amazing day filled with fun and learning! We appreciate all of our volunteers, and the time and effort it took to make this day special for our students!

Heard Elementary Names Peer Helpers

Dothan Prep Students Add Pops of Color

We would like to introduce our 2021-2022 Peer Helpers!!! Peer Helpers is a program where a group of peers are trained to help and support each other. The goal is to provide students a boost so they will do better academically, socially, and emotionally. Peer Helpers help to maintain a peaceful environment within the school. They uphold the standards of the school and serve as role models. Overall, this is a quality program that will be a great asset for years to come. Peer Helpers for 2021-2022 are: Itzy G., Penelope D., Brett R., Amiya F., Lilian H., Crimson M., Lily F., Eriana S., Kalie B., Haley J., Evan N., and Skylar P. Peer Helper Coordinators are: Mrs. Jordan, Mr. Sparks, and Mrs. Oppert. We look forward to the work our Peer Helpers will do this year! Wiregrass Parents I December 2021

Dothan Preparatory Academy art students did a great job using bright colors and popular images to create individual “Pop Art” pieces. Students then collaborated to display their amazing work. DPA halls are “POPing” with color. Pop art is an art movement that emerged in the United Kingdom and the United States during the mid- to late-1950s. The movement presented a challenge to traditions of fine art by including imagery from popular and mass culture, such as advertising, comic books and mundane mass-produced objects. 10

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Rucker Boulevard Elementary Running Club in Full Force

Students in Running Club meet outside on Tuesday and Thursday mornings. These students are running for distance, at their own pace, and are working towards getting the most miles for this school year. Students scan their QR code at the iPad station to keep up with distance. We are so proud of all these students for committing to a healthy lifestyle. If your child is not involved in Running Club and would like to be, please see Coach McNeal or Coach Hulsey for a permission form. Running Club is open to all RBE students!

Troy University AMSTI Teach Friction to Harrand Creek Students

Third grade students at Harrand Creek Elementary School explored friction by adapting their standard vehicles today. Thanks for inviting us to be a part of your science classes today Miss Turner and Miss Moore.

ECS Shooter Places in Fall Competition

Landon Hayes, member of the Emmanuel Christian School Skeet Club, won 3rd place in trap in the Intermediate/Advanced division and 1st place in skeet in the Intermediate/Advanced division at the Enterprise NSSA/SCTP Fall Shoot. Congratulations, Landon!

Aspiring Ozark Teachers Get Hands-On Experience

The Teaching 2 class at the Career Center joined Lisenby’s Kindergarten classes on their field trip to Paradise Pumpkin Patch on October 27th. Each of Mrs. Traylor’s students were assigned to a class and had a blast helping with everything from tying shoes to riding on the cow train! We appreciate our Lisenby Primary School friends for giving our students hands on and real world experience!

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Highlands Elementary Chili Cook-Off

Rucker Boulevard Students Honor Veterans

Highlands Elementary hosted its first annual chili cook off and silent auction on November 4th. Baskets were put together by the homeroom classes. There was also a football signed by Nick Saban and autographed Troy Trojan baseball hats. Each teacher made a cake of their choice. We had a great turn out! Even Elvis made a guest appearance! Thank you community for coming to support our school!

Rucker Boulevard Elementary celebrated our Veterans with a drive-through parade. What a treat it was for our students to honor those who serve our great country! We hope the Veterans who participated enjoyed it as much as we all did! It was a great day!

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Slingluff Elementary Breakfast & Books

Thank you to all of the parents who attended our Breakfast and Books event in the library. We appreciate you supporting our school and encouraging your children to read. We would like to say a huge “THANK YOU!” to our Book Fair volunteers as well as the PTO for providing breakfast!

Hidden Lake Paper Pumpkin Contest Winners

With over 40 entries, the library’s PAPER Great Pumpkin Contest winners are announced: 3rd place-Ava for Jack and Zero from The Nightmare before Christmas; 2nd place-Keziyah for Papa Berenstain from The Berenstain Bears series; 1st place-Victor for Fly Guy from Tess Arnold’s Fly Guy series.

Providence Christian Students Pack Christmas Shoeboxes

Our grammar students enjoyed packing a shoebox for Operation Christmas Child. We are thankful for the opportunity to be part of this hands-on ministry. Thank you to all our families for sending in supplies to support this effort.

Book Tasting at Selma Street Elementary

Our Sixth Grade Crew started their day by being invited to the Reading Cafe for a book tasting within their classrooms. There were eight genres on the menu. After reading through their book selection, our scholars completed their menu and placemat templates to share about the reading! Excellent work, Wildcats!

Carroll High Basketball Player Signs with North Alabama

We are incredibly proud of Bryson Dawkins for signing with The University of North Alabama! Go Lions!

Emmanuel Christian 5th Graders Learn About Matter

Mrs. Miller’s 5th grade students made coke floats to explain solids, liquids, and gases as they learned about the three states of matter.

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Heard Elementary SGA, Crew Council Announced

Congratulations to our 2021-2022 Student Government Association Members and Crew Council! President-Emily B. Vice President-Chasity K. Secretary-Kaylie B. Treasurer-Jackson G. Crew Council: Sarah B., Emory G., Christiana B., Madilynn C., Evan N. (Not pictured) Jaden I., Somaya T., Alyssa M., Gabriella S., Cheyenne C., Kaylani P., Akayla P., Kadence M., Za’Liyah B. We look forward to the amazing things you will get accomplished this year!

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Northside Methodist Rewards Good Character Congratulations to our Good Character winners for the 1st 9 weeks! They had a blast at Action Air! 1st: Bryntley Miller (Adair) 1st: Brooklyn McNelley (Jackson) 2nd: Claire Smith (Ezell) 2nd: Benjamin Blackmon (Holloway) 3rd: Britton Watford (Gilley) 3rd: Aubree Cutts (Otto) 4th: Brady Buchanan (Lawson) 4th: Ava Isbell (Morris) 5th: Kennadie Newman (Maddox) 5th: Caydee Smith (Haywood) 6th: Hadley Lawson (Hall) 6th: Ava Duncan (Grantham)

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Coppinville BETA Socktober Drive a Success

Awesome job, Coppinville Junior High School! More than 1,300 pairs of socks were donated to Family Services for the BETA Socktober sock drive!

Rucker Boulevard Peer Helper Training

On Monday, November 3, a group of 4th, 5th, and 6th Graders were trained to be Rucker Boulevard Elementary’s PEER Helpers for this school year. PEER Helpers is a peer-to-peer prevention and support program. The mission of this program is to empower students to be academically, socially, and emotionally successful; to recognize and resolve conflict; to value diversity; and to be advocates for positive change and healthy choices. What a great group of students we have to serve in this role!

Beverlye Intermediate School Elects SGA

Congratulations to our newly elected SGA officers: President: Haleigh Copeland; Vice-President: Alexia Wilson; and Secretary: Mariah Harris.

Houston Academy Singers Rank High at Festival

The Houston Academy Choir and HARmonix performed in the Cultural Arts Festival at the Dothan Opera House, and both groups received Superior ratings! The following students also received Superiors and Excellents in the musical theatre solo and dramatic scenes categories: Ella Smith, Kaleb Dukes, Erin Potter, Presley Parrish, Kayanna Frank, Lanie Riley, Megan Hartman, Ella Baron Keria Stulginski, Trevor Bolling, Ian Pich, Maddy Greenwalt, Anna Watkins, Abbie Grace Renshaw, Bella Yaeger, Caitlin Gawne-Mark

Northside Methodist Students Place in AISA District Spelling Bee

4th grade: Teighan Stewart - 2nd Place 5th grade: Carson Seaver 1st place Winner!! 6th grade: Nick York - 3rd Place Carson advanced to the AISA state competition on November 30 in Montgomery. We are so proud of each one of you! Wiregrass Parents I December 2021

Houston Academy Softball Player Signs with Auburn Congratulations to Alexis Milanowski on signing with Auburn! “Axe” is a nationally ranked recruit, First Team High School All-American, and holds 10 school records at Houston Academy. 14

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Students in Mrs. Pippin’s fifth grade class participated in a mock trial. Who is on trial you ask? A certain blonde storybook character with a penchant for breaking and entering. For this activity, students were assigned roles such as Gold E. Locks, Mrs. Locks, Babe E. Bear, Mom A. Bear, Pop A. Bear, judge, and attorneys for both sides. After students read aloud their parts, the jury deliberated and had to deliver their verdict. Not only were students challenged to decode difficult words as they read aloud but they also learned about the following: prosecution, defense/defendants, witnesses, telling the truth, understanding different perspectives, the role of people in courts and more!

Enterprise Softball Player Signs with AUM

Congratulations to Emma Faulk who signed her softball scholarship with Auburn University at Montgomery!

Carroll High Hosts Senior Parent Picnic

WOW! Senior Parent Picnic was amazing! Our seniors were able to socialize with their guardians and also visit with college reps to map out future plans!

Emmanuel Christian Students Go Leaf Hunting

Mrs. Wadas’ 4th graders went on an adventure and gathered leaves from the school grounds. Then they returned to the classroom and classified the leaves by identifying similar characteristics such as color, size, and texture in their collection of leaves.

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Oooooh, I can feel it coming. It is holiday season, and I can overschedule and overextend myself really quickly. When I overschedule, I am left feeling a bit grumpy and a whole lot of wiped out heading into the New Year. I want the decorations to look perfect, the food to be memorable, and times with friends to be enjoyable. I can almost hear Dean Martin playing in the background… Then I snap back to reality and realize I am the ONLY person in my house that expects all that. My boys are 19 and 21, and don’t get me wrong, I think they would notice if I didn’t have a tree up, but that’s about it. What they would notice is me being stressed and disheveled and, dare I say, the martyr Mother?!? A ‘martyr Mother’ is defined as a parent who has a martyr complex with an exaggerated sense of obligation to suffer and sacrifice for others, especially her kids. Ouch. That stings.

As Moms we all do what we have to do for our kids. Sometimes that is a little out of guilt, but other times it is because it is all we know to do. It took me until my youngest was a junior in high school to realize I was doing it. I landed somewhere between being a people pleaser and a martyr. I truly did not see it when my kids were young. I was too busy being busy. I wanted them to have all the things I didn’t have. Martyr complex is very similar to victim mentality. It tends to be more common in survivors of abuse or trauma. For instance, I grew up with an alcoholic parent. So how can we overcome martyr tendencies? Start by noticing. Ask yourself, ‘How am I feeling about this?’ If you have these tendencies, chances are it is challenging to express your needs or emotions. Journaling is a great tool to untangle how you truly feel about a situation.

Learn how to communicate your needs in a non-passive aggressive way. Express your emotions of frustration and resentment in a non-angry tone. You will be heard more effectively when you are calm, and it can help prevent those negative emotions from building up. Setting boundaries and, of course, selfcare is essential, even during the holidays. So maybe the halls won’t be all decked out. I seriously doubt I will have any mistletoe, but what I will have is my kiddos, my Buster, two cats, and a whole lot of love. I hope you and your family have a very Merry Christmas and a wonderful New Year!

Valerie Thompson is a health coach, yoga instructor, meditator, breath instructor, and mom of two grown boys.

Happy Holidays! Juggling all your festivities can be exhausting. So many fun things to do that taking care of yourself just doesn’t seem fun. How can you put more fun into being healthy? What’s fun about being healthy? Having more energy, better skin, fitting into your favorite clothes… THOSE sound fun! I teach clients how to name their state of ambivalence, own and move through it. I promise you are a lot more resilient than you give yourself credit for. It’s fun to be able to do the things you want to do!

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During the 2020 holiday season, a survey by American Research Group, Inc. found the average American planned on spending roughly $851 on gifts. Despite gift spending being slightly down, throw in the costs of holiday cards, decorating, baking, holiday dinners, and unplanned purchases, and holiday shopping can add up to a heap of change. 18 www.wiregrassparents.com

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Many people are set back financially for months, if not longer, following the holiday season. One big reason for this is that credit cards make it easy to overspend, leaving individuals and families to suffer the consequences later. The problem with credit cards isn’t just the monthly payments. It’s the long-term cost from accrued interest.

So what can you do to ensure you start the new year without new debt? First, create a holiday budget. Include gifts, food, decorations, and postage for holiday cards, wrapping supplies, and the babysitter for your shopping trip. Then review your list, and decide where you can cut costs. Gifts to extended family and friends are an excellent place to start. Talk to those you exchange gifts with, and see if they’ll either forego the gift exchange or set a dollar limit. Another option for families or groups is to draw names. This will reduce the number of gifts everyone has to buy. Doing a white elephant gift exchange is also a fun option. Planning your gift budget based on value rather than the amount to spend on each person is also an excellent way to reduce your holiday expense. Decide in advance on a gift value for each gift recipient. Then look for great buys. Let’s say you’ve decided on a gift value of $50 for your sister. Now, try to find a gift that’s a $50 value but only costs you $30 or $40. If you have many gifts to buy, this can shave a lot of expense. Do you usually send out more holiday cards than you receive? If so, opt instead for a phone call during the holiday season. This is particularly meaningful for those you don’t talk to often, and it won’t cost you a thing. Another option is to only mail cards to those who send one to you. Cut back on the baking. When’s the last time you heard someone complain of a shortage of holiday goodies? Probably never. Most of us eat far more than we’d like to just because it’s there. If you’re hosting any parties, hold potluck dinners instead of playing head chef. You could offer to provide the meat. Then ask everyone to bring a specific type of dish to avoid duplicates. Eliminate your babysitting expense by exchanging babysitting with a neighbor — that way, each of you has the opportunity to shop without the kids. Plan your shopping before you head out. Do online research to find the best deals on the items on your shopping list. If you can’t find a good deal on something, consider an alternative. Also, check newspaper fliers and the ‘coupon’ page of the store websites you plan to shop. If possible, leave credit cards at home when you go shopping to avoid impulse purchases. Many people spend far more than they intend by purchasing irresistible spur of the moment bargains. Finally, if you use your credit card, try to make a realistic plan to double or triple your monthly payments. This will reduce your interest expense and quickly eliminate your debt. WP Kimberly Blaker is a freelance family and lifestyle writer. She’s also founder and director of KB Creative Digital Services, an internet marketing agency, at kbcreativedigital.com.

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Protecting Your Kids on Their New Devices The holidays are here! It is a beautiful time of year for friends and family to gather together, enjoy one another, eat all the food, and be thankful for the blessings from the past year. As wonderful as all of the activities are during the holidays, they can also be incredibly challenging. Everyone is busy rushing from one event to another. Not to mention the gift buying! This can feel like a huge challenge if you have a list full of friends and family. Speaking of lists, so many kids and teens will be putting on their lists, as they do every year, new devices. Ipads, gaming devices, cell phones, computers…anything that will connect them to their friends. Or, frighteningly, people who are not their friends. Research points to 90 percent of children owning a device by age 11, with a cell phone being the number one device. While this is to be expected, it can also feel incredibly overwhelming. As parents, when we give our children a device, we are met with the challenge of making sure those devices are safe for them to use. This includes any age restrictions we need to place on the devices, as well as the random device checks that we must do in order to protect them. I talk a lot about giving yourself small wins as parents, so these challenges do not feel quite so hard and overwhelming. One way to give yourself a win, and overcome a bit of the challenges you are facing with new devices, is to do random device checks. What does this look like? Here are a few easy steps that you can take each week, bi weekly or monthly in your home. The frequency is up to you, as Wiregrass Parents I December 2021

are the rules you establish around devices within your family. First, make sure the device check is, in fact, random. Never the same time of day or a set day. Let your child know that you will be checking their devices, but do not tell them WHEN you will check them. This is a perfect opportunity to have an open conversation with them about why you are checking their devices. The conversation can look something like, “I am doing this to protect you.” Then, discuss what that protection looks like and why it is so important. Of course, there are numerous other reasons you may discuss with them, but I do believe having an open conversation is crucial in fostering a positive digital relationship with your child. Next, the random checks need to include a check of all devices. You may even split devices (phone, computer, games, tablets) to different days if it feels like too much for one day. Or you may check all devices at once. The key is to make sure that they are all monitored. All cell phones should be monitored for texting activity, online history and activity, pictures, and videos (do not forget to check the deleted pictures). All apps on the phone should be reviewed. Open each app and take a look at the activity within the app. This is a great opportunity to weed out any apps that you do not like for your child, or to add apps they have requested. Computers should be checked for online activity (a great way to do this is to review the history), pictures, videos and any games that are on the computer. 20

Gaming devices should be checked for any chatting history, as well as game appropriateness. This is the same with any tablets your child may have. Each and every device, as well as apps, should be checked for age appropriate restrictions. At first this is going to feel overwhelming. However. as you get use to doing random checks they will become much easier and you will become accustomed where to look. Finally, please do not forget to discuss any “social media challenges” that they may see. It is incredibly important that they are not participating, as some of them are not only dangerous, but hold serious legal consequences if caught. These challenges are mostly circulating through Tik Tok and Snapchat, so if your child has these apps be aware that they have probably been exposed. As we move further into the holidays, and devices seem to be the present that every child or teenager is wishing for, give yourself and your child the gift of protection. Take small steps. Embrace the small wins. Even when it feels overwhelming, we have to do the work to protect our kids in their online space. As always, if you need help, I am here!

Kristi Bush serves as a national education consultant and social media safety advocate. She is a licensed social worker with greater than 15 years of clinical practice and health care experience. She attended Troy and Auburn University where she studied social work and counseling. Kristi travels nationally and has spoken with thousands of children, parents, professionals and organizations about the benefits and threats associated with social media. You may reach Kristi through her website at www.knbcommunications.com.

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It’s supposed to be the most wonderful time of the year, but research confirms a different reality -- most Americans have elevated stress levels during the holiday season. And with the challenges of the last two years, instead of being full of good tidings and cheer, families may feel drained of peace. Even if you are staying in or are paring down your family festivities this year, keeping things as light and easy as possible will make the end of the year more enjoyable. Here are ten tips that will simplify the season and make it merry and bright.

1. Focus on your reason for the season. Why are you celebrating? Is it

for spiritual reasons? Maybe you want to focus on family and friends or enjoy the spirit of giving during the holidays. Keep what is most important about the holidays at the center of your celebration. Reconsider any task or commitment that takes your time, energy, enjoyment or finances away from your reason for celebrating in the first place.

2. Set firm boundaries around your time. Even during a year in which

gatherings may be fewer, it’s easy to get caught up in organizing donations, planning for your family celebration, or connecting virtually with clubs and associates. This year, pick one project you want to volunteer your time to, or pick a variety of simple acts of kindness you can do with your family safely.

3. Let go of Martha. One of the

most stress-relieving things you can do at the holidays is set the bar a little lower. Martha Stewart is an elegant hostess, but you don’t have to do everything the way Martha would to have a beautiful season. Embrace simpler decorations, meals and gift giving than you have in the past. Try quick shortcuts or holiday hacks. If you let go of expectations, you may be pleasantly surprised to find yourself content with a celebration you hadn’t even envisioned.

7 Holiday Hacks to Make the Season Bright 1. If you have an artificial tree, wrap the center pole with a strand of lights before you add the branches. This will make the tree shine brighter from the inside. 2. Use a wastebasket to hold rolls of wrapping paper. 3. Use egg cartons to store small ornaments and ornament hooks. Use wine boxes to store larger, fragile ornaments. 4. Spread a thick layer of whipped cream on a cookie sheet. Freeze it for several hours and remove. Cut hearts out of the whipped cream with a cookie cutter and serve in hot cocoa. 5. Hang lightweight ornaments on long ribbons from your light fixture or chandelier to make an elegant holiday decoration. 6. Skip expensive candles and potpourri. Add water and natural ingredients like apples, oranges, cinnamon sticks or cloves to a crockpot and heat. 7. To keep Christmas lights from getting tangled, wrap them around a clothes hanger or power cord holder.

5. Gift others with experiences.

Tickets to the theatre? Family passes to an amusement park or aquarium? A relaxing day at the spa? Experiences give friends and family the opportunity to make memories and pamper themselves, unique gifts that are much-appreciated. And it also allows family and friends to enjoy their present in the future.

6. Set a holiday tea time. Recent

research shows that drinking green and black tea has many health benefits, including promoting relaxation. Herbal teas, while not true tea, still help with anxiety and stress. In keeping with the holiday spirit, sip some calming peppermint tea, or try chamomile, lemon balm or passionflower.

7. Take a hike. One way to tell your stress to take a hike might be to actually take one yourself. When you exercise, your body releases chemicals called endorphins that trigger a happier, more relaxed mood. Aerobic exercise outdoors away from screens and to-do lists can

clear your mind and help you keep what’s important in perspective.

8. Reconnect with long lost friends and relatives. Meet

with an old friend you haven’t talked to for years, and catch up. Take some time off and visit relatives you miss seeing on a regular basis. If you are staying home this holiday season, connect via Zoom or Face Time. Surrounding yourself with people you enjoy is powerful when you want to combat holiday stress.

9. Do something kind for someone else. You don’t have to overcom-

mit yourself to a charity or fundraiser to be kind. Small random acts of kindness can make someone’s day. Let someone in front of you at the supermarket line or let someone drive their car in front of yours in the parking lot. Send an anonymous Christmas card with cash or a gift card to a college student or elderly person that you know is struggling. Having a kind spirit chases away stress and keeps the season warm.

10. Celebrate memories more than material possessions. Materi-

al gifts are nice, but most of us quickly forget gifts we have received in past years. The thing that we remember the most are the memories we make with friends and family. At the end of another unusual year, make some happy memories this holiday season and bid stress goodbye. WP Janeen Lewis is a freelance journalist, teacher and mom to Andrew and Gracie.

4. Farm out your to-do list. At the beginning of the season make a to-do list of what you want to accomplish. If you find that it is too long for the amount of time that you have, consider delegating some of the items. Have groceries delivered or use curbside pick-up. Grocery stores also have a plethora of pre-packaged holiday foods that make delicious sides, cutting down on your time in the kitchen. Buy desserts from your local bakery. No time to clean the house? Hire a cleaning service just for the holiday season or ask for this service as a gift for a later time. 23

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December 5 1:00-4:00 p.m. @ Landmark Park 430 Landmark Dr. Dothan, AL 36303 Create wreaths, garlands and swags out of natural materials and decorate Landmark Park for Victorian Christmas, plus make some decorations to take home! Refreshments will be provided. Registration is required. Guests are encouraged to bring gloves and wire pliers. (334) 794-3452 www.landmarkparkdothan.com

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December 4, 11, 18, 24 9:30-11:00 a.m. @ AR Workshop 2958 Ross Clark Cir. Dothan, AL 36301 Join us for a festive and family-friendly Cocoa, Cookies & Crafts DIY workshop session to make any of our (totally kid-friendly) Holiday Wood Slice Ornaments for just $5 each! Registration required to guarantee spot. Choose your ornament designs and paint colors at the workshop! (334) 731-3003 dothan@arworkshop.com arworkshop.com/dothan

Cookies and Canvas

December 11: Ho, Ho, Noooo 1:00 p.m. @ All About Art 102 S. Main St. Enterprise, AL 36330 Designed to be a family experience, however, kids 10 and up can be signed up independently. Refreshments served. Sign up in store, online, or by phone. Cost: $20 Per 11x14 Canvas or $30 Per 16x20 Canvas. (334) 348-2738 allaboutartstudio@gmail.com www.AllAboutArtStudio.com

Gingerbread Sensory Kits

December 6 10:00 a.m.-6:00 p.m. @ Dothan-Houston Co. Library System 445 N. Oates St. Dothan, AL 36303 Come by any of our locations and pick up a takehome gingerbread sensory kit. Kits are designed for ages 18 months - 4 years. Supplies are limited. One kit per family, please (334) 793-9767 knorth@dhcls.org www.dhcls.org

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Hot Cocoa Bomb Kits

December 15 10:00 a.m.-6:00 p.m. @ Dothan-Houston Co. Library System 445 N. Oates St. Dothan, AL 36303 Learn how to make hot cocoa bombs with our DIY kits. These kits provide everything you will need to start making the perfect cup of ooey-gooey hot chocolatey goodness as they melt away in warm milk. Ages 7-18. (334) 793-9767 knorth@dhcls.org www.dhcls.org

Pints & Paints at Folklore Brewing

December 11 - Cindy Lou, 4:00-7:00 p.m. @ Folkore Brewing & Meadery 153 Mary Lou Lane Dothan, AL 36303 Grab your family and friends and join us painting together at the brewery! $35 per person. (334) 447-8796 eyecatchersart.com

Snow Globe Kits

December 16 10:00 a.m.-6:00 p.m. @ Dothan-Houston Co. Library System 445 N. Oates St. Dothan, AL 36303 Stop by any DHCLS location and pick up a Snow Globe kit. Create your own art and turn it into a snowglobe. Kits are available for kids ages 3-12, while supplies last. One per person, please. (334) 793-9767 knorth@dhcls.org www.dhcls.org

Toddler Tales

December 11: Mr. Willoughby’s Christmas Tree 10:00 a.m. @ All About Art 102 S. Main St. Enterprise, AL 36330 Designed to be a family experience with story time and a related art project for toddlers and their caregivers. Light toddler friendly refreshments will be provided. $20 per child. (334) 348-2738 allaboutartstudio@gmail.com www.AllAboutArtStudio.com

Wine Down with Art

December 4 - Grinch December 11 - Ornaments December 18 - Manger 6:30 p.m. @ All About Art 102 S. Main St. Enterprise, AL 36330 We provide step-by-step instruction of a 16X20 Canvas Painting. This is an adult event designed for ages 16 and up. You are welcome to bring your own refreshments. $35 per person. (334) 348-2738 allaboutartstudio@gmail.com www.AllAboutArtStudio.com

Benefits & Fundraisers BBS Fitness 4th Annual Toy Drive “Push-Pull Challenge”

December 11 8:00 a.m. @ BBS Fitness Systems 709 Boll Weevil Cir. Enterprise, AL 36330 Join us for our 4th annual event to benefit the regional Boys & Girls Club, by raising money & toy donations to provide Christmas gifts for children who may not have any otherwise. (334) 797-5360 bbscox2003@yahoo.com

Country Christmas Car Show

December 4 10:00 a.m.-2:00 p.m. @ Eastgate Park 1949 Sanitary Dairy Rd. Dothan, AL 36303 Country Christmas Car Show to benefit the Toys for Tots. Come out and showcase your car or truck. An unwrapped toy ($25.00) is your only entry fee to help out a great cause at Christmas. (334) 615-3700 leisureservices@dothan.org www.dothanleisureservices.org

Girls Inc. Mother Daughter Tea

December 5 1:00-2:30 or 3:30-5:00 p.m. @ Windmill Station 1369 Headland Ave. Dothan, AL 36303 Guests will enjoy tea style hors d’oeuvre’s, Christmas Ornament making, visiting with Santa and Mrs. Claus, cookie decorating, treat bags, and a photo booth. Tickets (before 12/1): $60/couple, Additional Adult $35, Additional Daughter $25.

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House of Ruth Gift Wrapping

@ Property Champions Real Estate 618 Westgate Pkwy. Dothan, AL 36303 Busy Schedule? Let us wrap for you! Schedule: December 10 & 17 @ 2-8 p.m. | December 11 & 18 @ 10 a.m.-8 p.m. | December 12 @ 1-6 p.m. | December 19 @ 2-8 p.m. (334) 793-5214

Miracle on Foster Street Food Drive

December 9 6:00 a.m.-6:00 p.m. 285 N. Foster St. Dothan, AL 36303 Join the Wiregrass Area Food Bank as we collect food and funds to help feed the hungry for the holidays...and hopefully beyond!

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December 11 10:00 a.m.-2:00 p.m. @ Dothan Boots and Saddle Club 1701 E. Cottonwood Rd. Dothan, AL 36301 Free entertainment for local residents, including games, inflatable bounce houses, cake & baked goods auction, silent auction, Santa, music, free hot chocolate, free train and horse-drawn wagon rides, and a free bag lunch.

fish-out-of-water comedy follows Buddy the Elf in his quest to find his true identity. Embrace your inner elf and join Buddy as he crosses over from the confectionately sweet life of Santa’s elves to the harsh reality of finding his birth father in New York City. This oversized elf is determined to move Dad from the naughty to nice list, and remind his new family of the true meaning of Christmas. The best way to spread Christmas cheer is singing loud for all to hear!

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@ Wiregrass Commons Mall 900 Commons Dr., Suite 604 Dothan, AL 36303 Help provide Christmas for low-income children. Angels are available for adoption at Wiregrass Commons Mall.

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Santa for Seniors

2755 Choctaw St. Dothan, AL 36301 Help bring Christmas joy to Wiregrass seniors. Common requests include groceries, household repairs, and basic necessities. Gift lists published November 5. Gifts will be collected from 9:00 a.m.6:00 p.m. December 5, 10, and 11. (334) 793-6843 terri.francis@sarcoa.org sarcoa.org/santa-for-seniors-2021/

Turkeys from Heaven

December 22-23 @ National Peanut Festival Fairgrounds 5622 US-231 S Dothan, AL 36301 Meet at the NPF Paviion Dec. 22 to grill the turkeys. Meals will be distributed for delivery at the Wiregrass Museum of Art Dec. 23. Turkeys may be purchased at any Dothan Winn Dixie. (334) 797-9376 mrmarsella@gmail.com

Dance, Music & Theater Elf the Musical

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December 14-19 7:00 p.m. nightly @ Dothan Opera House 115 N. St. Andrews St. Dothan, AL 36303 Based on the beloved holiday film, this hilarious

December 3, 4, 5, 10, 11, 12 Fridays at 7:30 p.m., Saturdays at 2:00 & 6:00 p.m. @ Cotton Hall Theater 166 Main St. Colquitt, GA 39837 This production transplants Charles Dickens’ classic Christmas story to the hot Georgia winter. Ebenezer Scrooge - the crotchety, old proprietor of Scrooge & Marley Cotton - hates Christmas. It isn’t until he is visited by three ghosts that old Mr. Scrooge learns the true meaning of generosity. (229) 758-5450 www.swampgravy.com

Christmas at the Copa

December 1-4, 8-11, 15-18 6 p.m. nightly @ Southern Broadway Dinner Theater 104 N. Main St. Enterprise, AL 36330 Glimpse a glamorous, bygone era in American history, when supper clubs, as the primary source of nightlife, provided top-notch entertainment, excellent food, and spontaneous thrills. (334) 470-6568 director@southernbroadway.com www.southernbroadway.com

Christmas Songs & Music with John Berry

December 20 7:00 p.m. @ Dothan Opera House 115 N. St. Andrews St. Dothan, AL 36303 Celebrate the greatest season of all with music. www.dothanciviccenter.org

Every Christmas Story Ever Told (And Then Some) December 9-12 Thursday-Saturday 7:00 p.m. / Sunday 2:00 p.m. @ Spanish Trail Playhouse 680 2nd St. Chipley, FL 32428 Three actors perform every Christmas story ever told - plus Christmas traditions from around the

world, seasonal icons from ancient times to topical pop-culture, and every carol ever sung. (850) 638-9113 spanishtrailplayhouse@gmail.com www.spanishtrailplayhouse.com

Holiday Concert & Gala Dinner

December 14 7:30 p.m. @ Dothan Civic Center 126 N. St. Andrews St. Dothan, AL 36303 It wouldn’t be the holidays without Dothan’s most popular holiday tradition. Featuring the Atlanta Pops Orchestra and guest singers Timothy Miller and original Celtic Women star Chloe Agnew. www.dothanciviccenter.org

Making Spirits Bright

December 17 7:00 p.m. @ Hoobler Music Studio 201 W. College St. Enterprise, AL 36330 Join Leah, Audra, Austin, Rick and Roy for a Jazzy Christmas Concert!

Once Upon a Winter’s Eve

December 10 7:30 p.m. @ Cultural Arts Center 909 S. St. Adrews St. Dothan, AL 36301 Tri-State Community Orchestra’s annual Christmas Concert. (334) 699-ARTS (2787)

Open Mic Nite - Christmas Edition

December 10 7:00 p.m. @ Hoobler Music Studio 201 W. College St. Enterprise, AL 36330 Join us singing some of your favorite songs. Bring your voice or instrument for a Merry Open Mic.

SEADAC’s The Nutcracker

December 9-12 @ Dothan Civic Center 126 N. St. Andrews St. Dothan, AL 36303 Experience some of the most glorious dancing on earth in our annual production of this timeless holiday classic. www.southeastalabamadancecompany.org

Snow Biz Christmas Concert

December 11 5:30 p.m. @ EHS Performing Arts Center 1801 Boll Weevil Circle Enterprise, AL 36330 Enterprise Tavaci presents: SNOW BIZ! Our annual Christmas Concert is going to be full of great music, adorable singers and Christmas spirit galore! Admission is free, so come enjoy our show!

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tractions and lights; it’s not a driving tour, folks! Enjoy almost 30 of your favorite attractions along the way!

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Skating, a life-size Christmas card contest, Trees for Troops, Fire Pits for S’mores, Food, Craft and Merchandise Vendors... and of course, there will be a “Special” visitor from the North Pole joining in the celebration. rucker.armymwr.com

Festivals

Dothan Christmas Tour of Homes

Newton Christmas Festival

We Need Christmas Tour

December 18 7:00 p.m. @ Dothan Civic Center 126 N. St. Andrews St. Dothan, AL 36303 Matthew West in concert.

Christmas at the Farmers Market ad on Back Cover

December 4 7:00 a.m.-12:00 p.m. @ Enterprise Farmers Market 525 N. Main St. Enterprise, AL 36360 Make your holidays a little more homemade and enjoy Fresh Produce, Local Vendors, Ornament Painting, Storytime, & Pictures with Santa.

Christmas in Candyland ad on page 25

December 3-31 @ Downtown Andalusia 505 E. Three Notch St. Andalusia, AL 36420 Your winter wonderland adventure is closer than you think! Make lasting holiday memories and watch children’s imaginations grow. Enjoy kidsized cottages, snow flurries, ice-skating, train rides, a Holiday Circus and more! (334) 222-2030 www.christmasincandyland.com

Victorian Christmas ad on page 15

December 12 1:00-4:00 p.m. @ Landmark Park 430 Landmark Dr. Dothan, AL 36303 Sip hot apple cider or hot chocolate while listening to Christmas carols and visiting with Santa. Enjoy old fashioned desserts, music, wagon rides and more. A circuit riding preacher will deliver a holiday message. Admission is free and visitors are encouraged to bring nonperishable food items. (334) 794-3452 www.landmarkparkdothan.com

Whoville Holiday Celebration ad on Back Cover

December 4 10:00 a.m.-4:00 p.m. @ Downtown Enterprise, AL 36330 Holiday Fun for the Entire Family in beautiful Downtown Enterprise! SAVE THE DATE and Join the fun in Downtown Enterprise as we transform into “Whoville for the Holidays” at our “Whoville Holiday Celebration”! (334) 348-2738 www.enterprisedowntown.org

Whoville Selfie Scavenger Hunt ad on Back Cover

December 18 10:00 a.m.-4:00 p.m. @ Coffee Corner 103 W. College St., Enterprise, AL 36330 Grab your phone and come hunt the Who’s in Downtown Enterprise. Pick up your clue card at Coffee Corner then Pose, Smile and Share your Selfie’s on /www.facebook.com/DowntownEnterprise to WIN Main Street $$$!

Winterfest ad on page 21

December 3 4:30-10:00 p.m. @ Festival Fields Fort Rucker, AL Annual Christmas Tree Lighting. Live Entertainment by the Sonnenschein Express Band, Ice Wiregrass Parents I December 2021

December 11 9:00 a.m.-7:00 p.m. 9 N. College St. Newton, AL We will have Holiday Shopping from 9:00 a.m. to 2:00 p.m. followed by our Christmas Parade at 5:00 p.m. that will end at Heroes’ Memorial Park with our Christmas Tree Lighting and Visit with Santa. Hilary Peace (334) 790-4624

Ole’ Time Christmas

December 10-11 6:00-8:00 p.m. @ Pioneer Museum 248 Hwy. 231 North Troy, AL 36081 This tradition-filled event will feature colorful decorations, holiday treats, storytelling, ornament making, Christmas music, Santa Claus and lots of holiday fun. Admission: $10 Adults; $9 Seniors/ Military; $8 Students, Free for Members & Children Under 5 (334) 566-3597 www.pioneer-museum.org

Reindeer Games

December 18 10:00 a.m.-1:00 p.m. @ Chehaw Park & Zoo 105 Chehaw Park Rd. Albany, GA 31701 Enjoy creating holiday crafts, writing letters to Santa, roasting marshmallows, watching zoo animals and of course- playing Reindeer Games. Compete in holiday-themed mini games, win prizes , sip on hot chocolate, and roast marshmallows. www.chehaw.org

Light Displays Christmas on Oakwood

Nightly in December @ Westbrook Subdivision Oakwood Drive Dothan, AL 36303 Tune your radio to 98.1fm to listen to the lights and dance to music. Please be mindful of neighbors and others enjoying the lights. Please do not liter or block driveways, and please remain in your vehicles.

Christmas in the Cul-de-sac

Nightly in December @ Oakwood Drive, Westbrook neighborhood off of John D. Odom Road Dothan, AL 36303 Tune into 99.1 FM and enjoy a light display set to your favorite Christmas tunes!

Christmas Reflections

November 26-December 31 Friday-Saturday 5:30-9:30 p.m. Sunday-Thursday 5:30-9:00 p.m. @ Chipley Park 3 Circle Dr. DeFuniak Springs, FL 32435 See more than 10 million lights reflect off a perfectly round spring-fed lake glowing in holiday splendor. A variety of Victorian, animal and toy soldier cutouts, Santa’s workshop, the grandfather clock ticking away are among the thousands of decorations which adorn these historic grounds. Admission: $5 per person, 5 & Under Free (850) 253-7642 www.defuniaksprings.net

Country Christmas

November 27-December 19 Fridays 5:00-10:00 p.m., Saturdays & Sundays 4:00-10:00 p.m. @ CornDodgers Farm 1555 Knowles Rd. Headland, AL 36345 Take a walking tour of the farm’s Christmas at-

(334) 726-1485 corndodgersfarm.com

December 5 3:00-7:00 p.m. Join the Junior League of the Wiregrass as we tour local Wiregrass Homes to showcase and share the Christmas Spirit by viewing their festive and beautifully decorated homes and gardens. Tickets are $20 per person. Proceeds benefit the Wiregrass Hope Group. thewiregrass.jl.org

Festival of Lights

December 3-4, 10-11, 17-24, & 26 5-8 p.m. @ Chehaw Park & Zoo 105 Chehaw Park Rd. Albany, GA 31701 Drive through the lights, enjoy a hot cocoa, and roast marshmallows by the fire pits. $10 per car www.chehaw.org

Gardens Aglow

December 3, 4, 10,11, 17, 18, & 24 5-8 p.m. @ Dothan Area Botanical Gardens 5130 Headland Ave. Dothan, AL 36303 Stroll through the Gardens and enjoy the many festive lights and displays. Food trucks will be on site. Admission is $8 per person over age 8. Tickets are timed and must be purchased in advance. Flashlights recommended. (334) 793-3224 www.dabg.com

Trawick’s Christmas in the Woodlands

Nightly in December 5:00-9:00 SundayThursday and 5:00-10:00 Friday and Saturday Corner of Highway 84 & Boll Weevil Circle Enterprise, AL 36330 Drive-through Christmas light display. Train rides available some dates in December. Admission is free.

Wild Adventures Christmas

December 4-5, 11-12, 18-23, 26-30, January 1-2 @ Wild Adventures Theme Park 3766 Old Clyattville Rd. Valdosta, GA 31607 Experience over one million Christmas lights in winter wonderland colors each night, snow showers everyday and tons of family photo opportunities! www.wildadventures.com

Miscellaneous 5k & Fun Run with the Grinch ad on Back Cover

December 11 110 E. College St. Enterprise, AL 36330 Join the Grinch, along with Friends of Main Street for our first annual 5k & Fun Run. 5k is $25 with Tshirt included. Fun Run is $15 for 12& under with 2 & under free. T-shirt included.

Candyland Half Marathon and 5K ad on page 25

December 4 7 a.m. @ Christmas in Candyland 505 E Three Notch St Andalusia, AL 36420 Come run Candyland! The race will start and end in the cutest Christmas cottage village you’ve ever seen. Half marathon will take you on a tour of some of Andalusia’s small town highlights. Come and see if you can achieve the special Gingerbread person award for the fastest person in each race!! (334) 222-2030 www.christmasincandyland.com

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Christmas Tree Display and Sensory Santa

December 17 5:00-7:00 p.m. @ Downtown Ozark, AL 36360 Come celebrate the season with us! We will have Christmas trees decorated by local businesses and individuals as well as Sensory Santa and Southern snow! beaconofhopeaba@gmail.com

Ice & Lights Downtown Ice Rink

November 26-January 9 Movie Nights: December 7 (Elf), December 14 (National Lampoons Christmas Vacation), December 21 (Frozen) Tuesday-Thursday 10 a.m.-9 p.m.; Friday 10 a.m.-10 p.m.; Saturday 9 a.m.-10 p.m.; Sunday 1-8 p.m.; Christmas Day 1-9 p.m.; New Year’s Eve 10 a.m.-10 p.m.; Closed Mondays @ Wadlington Park North Foster Stree Dothan, AL 36303 $10 per person, includes skate rental. Join us on our theme nights, including movie nights in Porter Park, which start at 6:30 p.m. (334) 615-3700 leisureservices@dothan.org www.iceskatedothan.com

Wreaths Across America

December 18 12:00 p.m. @ Sunset Memorial Park 1700 Barrington Rd Midland City, AL 36350 Remember and Honor our veterans through the laying of Remembrance wreaths on the graves of our country’s fallen heroes and the act of saying the name of each and every veteran aloud. Wreaths are placed on as many graves as there are sponsored. $15 per wreath.

New Year’s Eve Ozark NYE Celebration ad on page 13

December 31 6:00 p.m. @ Downtown Ozark, AL 36360 Live Music. Food Trucks. Cruise In. Fun starts 6:00 p.m. Confetti cannon at midnight! Kid Friendly activities at the Ozark Amphitheater.

Beach Ball Drop

December 31 5:00 p.m.-Midnight @ Pier Park 600 Pier Park Dr. Panama City Beach, FL Featuring live entertainment, fireworks, a kids ball drop with 10,000 inflatable beach balls and, of course, the main event!

Parades & Tree Lightings Enterprise Christmas Tree Lighting ad on Back Cover

December 2 6:00 p.m. @ City Hall 501 S. Main St. Enterprise, AL 36360 Join Mayor William E. Cooper for an evening of musical performances, hot cocoa, cookies, Santa and the lighting of the City’s Christmas Tree.

Ozark Tree Lighting & Christmas Parade ad on page 13

December 7 6:00 p.m. Ozark, AL 36360

Ashford Christmas Parade December 10 5:30 p.m. Ashford, AL 36312

Downtown Christmas Festival and Tree Lighting

December 4 3:00-6:30 p.m. @ Downtown Dothan, AL 36301 The festival will highlight downtown merchants and restaurants, offer a chance for children to meet Santa, have fun with arts and crafts projects, ride the “Polar Express” train, and so much more! Festivities will end with the official lighting of the City of Dothan Christmas tree at the Dothan Civic Center. (334) 615-3700 leisureservices@dothan.org www.dothanleisureservices.org

Where to Shop Faith’s Treasures ad on page 19

1983 S. Brannon Stand Rd. Dothan, AL 36305 At Faith’s Treasures we strive to give you a unique shopping experience by providing locally made products in addition to other collections we offer. There is a lil’ something for everyone here. (334) 446-4012 faithstreasures.com

House of Flowers ad on page 9

4440 W. Main St., Suite 1 Dothan, AL 36305 House of Flowers is a full service floral and gift home/office decorating shop that carries some of the finest fresh cut and silk arrangements in our area. (334) 699-1800 dothanhouseofflowers.com

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get plugged into the foster care community. That is so vital in fostering! Fostering Hope in Headland has been a Godsend. WP: The holidays are upon us. What are some things your family is looking forward to this year? JP: We love getting downtime from work and school to focus on one another and making memories that will last a lifetime! WP: Are you guys a ‘one big gift’ or ‘lots of smaller gifts’ type of family, and why?

Jacklyn Di’Capua Pate

JP: Honestly, it depends on the age. This year we are doing two big gifts. WP: Speaking of Christmas, if you could only receive one gift this year, what would it be, and why?

WP: What made you and Kenneth want to be foster parents? JP: We tried for many years to conceive on our own. Through much prayer and discussion we accepted that was not God’s plan for our lives. We prayed additionally that God would show us the path on which to follow. That path was foster care. We met with a caseworker for additional information and the rest is history!

JP: A massage! It is a nice time for me to put down all electronics and focus on myself and my well being. WP: It may be the most wonderful time of the year, but it’s also one of the busiest times of the year. How do you prevent burnout so that you’re not pouring from an empty cup?

WP: How has welcoming a little boy into your life been?

JP: I have learned not to sign myself up for more than I know I can do. I used to always say yes to every event or function, and at the end of it all I would be so miserable. I now have learned to say “no” or “now is not a good time,” and that has changed my burnout dramatically!

JP: He has brought us so much joy and showed us what true, unconditional love is. I always dreamed of bows and dresses with little girls, but now I can not imagine my life without trains and dump trucks! He is truly the light of our lives. WP: How would you describe your parenting style?

WP: Looking back on this past year, what would you say is the best thing to happen?

JP: We keep our parenting in line with our biblical principles first and foremost.

JP: Logan took his first steps!!! WP: Do you have any goals or resolutions for 2022?

WP: What’s the one thing you wish people knew about foster care?

JP: To continue to be absent from my phone and present to my family!

JP: I wish people would get out of their mind, “I’d get too attached.” That is exactly what these children need: attachment and love! Whether it is for a day, a year, or forever. They deserve every bit of it!

WP: If you could give your younger self one piece of advice, what would it be? JP: Never be afraid to trust an unknown future to a known God.

WP: What advice would you give to a couple considering fostering a child?

Jacklyn Di’Capua Pate is the clinic coordinator at Southeast Health

JP: Pray for wisdom and guidance! Meet with a caseworker and get all your questions answered. Also make sure you

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Hematology and Oncology. She and her husband, Kenneth, have been married for 13 years. They have a foster son, Logan (2).