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Volume 5 Number 3

Columns 7 Kids Health Watch 21 Teens and Screens

Meeting Kids Where They Are

When your efforts to help may hurt.

Teach Kids Gratitude

10 science-backed benefits and fun ideas on how to get started.

Departments 4 Bits & Pieces 6 Teacher of the Month 8 School Bits 28 Mom to Mom

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Holiday Shopping Tips

Holiday Happenings

Ideas for making the most of Black Friday, Cyber Monday, and beyond!

Our listing has details for cranking up holiday fun this month.

The Area’s Go-To Resource for Families Wiregrass Parents is copyrighted 2022 by KeepSharing LLC. All rights reserved. Reproduction in whole or part without written permission is prohibited.

Opinions expressed in Wiregrass Parents magazine are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the view of the owners, nor do they constitute an endorsement of products and services herein.

President & Publisher Jason Watson

On The Cover Helms McKinley (3) is the son of Dusty and Charlie McKinley and little brother to sister Allie (17).

Helms attends Rehobeth Elementary for pre-school and he loves playing with tractors, playing in the sand at the beach, trains, riding the gator with his Grandpa to see the cows, and playing with his kitten, Tilly.

Editor DeAnne Watson Contributing Writers Kimberly Blaker Kristi Bush, LSW Beth Long Joanna McKinley, MD Sandi Schwartz Cover Photography Erica Hartzog www.ericahartzogphotography.com Advertising Sales Jason Watson (334) 986.3667

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avoid, join him in the effort until he feels competent. This bypasses any possible conflict, encourages growth, and strengthens attachment. If your child is older, and begins complaining, always ask her to clarify what she needs. Does she want you to get involved, offer advice, or just listen? Most of the time, older children simply want you to listen.

Being silent and sitting with your children when they are in hard places teaches them to pause before reacting. It allows them to rant, hear how silly their thoughts and emotions can be, and it is often all they need to calm down and make a wise choice.

by Beth Long, PhD, LPC, BCBA

When Efforts to Help Your Child May Actually Hurt Has your child ever approached you for comfort, but your efforts to calm escalated the distress? When this occurs, you are probably displaying a near enemy of what you actually want to portray. Near enemies look like the emotion we are attempting to foster but make the situation worse instead. The near enemy of kindness is conditional love.

An example of this would be when your child tries to tell you a story about his day, and you interrupt it to correct his behavior. The opportunity to connect becomes hijacked by his fear of disapproval or punishment. You are responsible for correcting your child’s behavior, but you do not need to do it in the middle of his story. Let’s look at three parenting goals and the near enemies that impede them.

Showing Compassion

The near enemy of compassion is pity.

Pity says, “I am so sorry that happened to you.” Compassion says, “I am right here with

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you, let’s figure out a solution together.” Your children are brokenhearted and upset about things you know are ridiculous, but your pity is patronizing. Take the time to be compassionate. Put yourself in your child’s shoes and remember what it was like when your friend was rude to you or when the teacher ignored you. Your child believes her world is falling apart.

A great way to show compassion is by sharing a story of a difficult time in your childhood or reminding her of how she overcame a prior negative experience. Compassion always says, “Me too.”

Increasing Teachability

The near enemy of teachability is a person who already knows everything and has to prove it to everyone. Model to your children that you are growing and learning every day.

Share your mistakes and how you rectified them as often as you can. If appropriate, ask your children how they would solve your problem. Whatever you do, make your home a place where mistakes and imperfections are embraced as learning experiences instead of failures.

Remember this, write it on a sticky note, and read it daily. Character is caught not taught, so when you model compassion, connection, and teachability, your children will learn how to show this to others inside and outside the home.

Making Connections

The near enemy of connection is control. There are so many times in parenting when you have to be in control; please do so when necessary. However, there are a lot of times when your desire to “fix” the situation prevents you from connecting with your child. If your child is younger than 9, and you ask him to do something that you know he will attempt to

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Dr. Beth Long received her education in Counseling Psychology from Chapman University. She is a Licensed Professional Counselor and Board Certified Behavior Analyst.

Beth has worked in six unique clinical environments across the country and currently owns Works of Wonder Therapy in Montgomery. Beth utilizes the knowledge from a variety of different disciplines to give her patients the best care possible. To learn more visit www.worksofwondertherapy.com.

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The Best Christmas Pageant Ever

Baby Shark: The Christmas Show

December 6-10, 2022 Cultural Arts Center, Dothan SEACT and Wiregrass Drama Club present The Best Christmas Pageant Ever at the Cultural Arts Center, Dec. 6-10. Tickets will be available for sale ($12) on Nov. 21. In this hilarious Christmas classic, a couple struggling to put on a church Christmas pageant is faced with casting the Herdman kids -- probably the most inventively awful kids in history. You won’t believe the mayhem - and the fun - when the Herdmans collide with the Christmas story head-on! This delightful comedy has become a holiday staple across the country. Visit SEACT.com for information.

November 19, 2022 * 2:00pm Dothan Civic Center, Dothan The Christmas Show - Splash along with Baby Shark and Pinkfong as they journey into the sea for the Holidays to sing and dance through some of your favorite songs in Baby Shark Live! The Christmas Show! This one-of-a-kind immersive experience will have fans of all ages dancing in the aisles as they join Baby Shark and friends for exciting adventures into the jungle and under the sea to explore shapes, colors, numbers and so much more! Enjoy hit songs in this dazzling kids spectacular, including “Baby Shark,” “Five Little Monkeys,” “Wheels On The Bus,” and “Monkey Banana Dance,” as well as holiday classics such as “Jingle Bells” and more! Recommended for ages 2+. In the Live show they will continue to learn about the world around them while singing and dancing along with this one of a kind show. Visit https://babysharklive.com/ for more information.

The Prophecy Show:

The Music of Trans-Siberian Orchestra December 1, 2022 * 7:30 PM Dothan Civic Center, Dothan Launching its 13th touring season of an extravagant Christmas musical production! This powerhouse group of classically trained musicians come together to create nothing short of an electrifying evening of holiday rock music.

Performing in the style of Trans-Siberian Orchestra, The Prophecy has spared no details when it comes to costumes, choreography, music, lasers and fog. With more than 10 million albums sold, the original Trans-Siberian Orchestra has inspired generations of fans to rediscover the multi-dimensional art form of the rock opera. Audiences everywhere are celebrating over 20 years of the most famous holiday rock music ever created with the TSO rock opera that is legendary. Please visit https://www.etix.com for tickets.

23rd Annual Festival of Trees

November 10, 2022 * 6:00 PM Dothan Civic Center Join us for Wiregrass Children’s Home largest fundraiser. A Gala auction event featuring professionally decorated Christmas Trees, centerpieces, wreaths, gift items, furniture, trips, and more. Dinner provided. Please visit http://wiregrasschildrenshome. org/ or call (334) 692-5100 for more information.

Dream Big Food Drive

National Peanut Festival

November 9, 2022 * 5622 Highway 231 South, Dothan The National Peanut Festival is hosting the “Dream Big Food Drive” on Wednesday, Nov. 9.

Gates open at 4:30pm. Bring a minimum of 3 cans of food or 1 jar of peanut butter and receive $5 off gate admission and $5 off ride armband. Without food donations admission is $10 and armbands are $25. Please remember to bring those food donations. The Food Bank needs your help. Please visit WiregrassFoodBank.com or https://www.nationalpeanutfestival. com/ for more information.

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November 4 – 13, 2022 5622 Highway 231 South, Dothan The National Peanut Festival is celebrating its 78th year, and this year’s Festival theme is: “Wiregrass Roots & Cowboy Boots!”. The festival is a 10-day event, throughout those 10 days, the festival hosts numerous fun-filled, family events... amusement rides, animal attractions, agricultural displays, concerts, livestock shows and a parade. Of course we wouldn’t be the National Peanut Festival without tons of PEANUTS! Please remember to bring those food donations! Visit https://www.nationalpeanutfestival.com/.

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Market of Hope

Daleville Powwow

November 19, 2022 9:00 AM – 2:00 PM 17965 US-431, Headland Our 3rd annual Market of Hope will be at Fostering Hope on busy 431 on November 19 from 9am to 2pm.

Come get started on Christmas Shopping with local vendors from around the wiregrass area. Go to www.fosteringhopewiregrass.com for more information.

November 5 – 6, 2022 * 11:00am * Culpepper Park, Daleville Join us for Daleville Annual Powwow on November 5-6 at Culpepper Park. This will be an educational, fun, family event.

Come enjoy Native dances, participate in Choctaw social dances, try Frybread/Indian Tacos, storytelling, flute music, vendors and see our educational display.

Native American Festival

November 19, 2022 * 10:00 AM – 4:00 PM Landmark Park, Dothan Come join us on November 19 from 10 a.m.-4 p.m. for our very first Native American Festival. Guests can enjoy learning about Native culture and traditions through music and dance, try their hand at flint knapping, listen to a storyteller, and more! Come browse the vendors for more Native American jewelry, apparel, arrowheads and tools. Kids can enjoy pony rides and even learn traditional Native American dances and drumming. Members are free. Nonmembers are $8 and children are $5. Visit https://www.landmarkparkdothan.com/ park-events/ for more information.

Downtown Holiday Open House

November 19, 2022 * 10:00 AM – 8:00 PM Downtown Enterprise Join us to kickoff our “Whoville Holidays” in Downtown Enterprise! Saturday, November 19th will be a day full of amazing shopping deals, extended shopping hours and holiday giveaways! For the first time in Open House history, Downtown Enterprise will also have live music, food trucks and cornhole from 5PM - 8PM. Please visit https://www.enterprisedowntown. com/ for more information.

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veg bo the do an ha for dre be Bo filli of da gre “She keeps her kids engaged with fun activities beyond the classroom,” shared Ansley. “It hasn’t been too long since we started this school year but my son’s personality has come out even more.”

“I have this overwhelming feeling of honor to have been nominated by a student’s parent,” Mrs. McDaniel said. “Every day, I give my students 100% of myself... my knowledge, my love, my encouragement. Oftentimes, as teachers, parents only acknowledge the negative. To have received this award feels like a huge pat on the back. It’s like someone is saying, ‘I see you! Great job!’”

Our Teacher of the Month says unselfish love, forgiveness and patience are the top three things her students have taught her. Mrs. McDaniel’s favorite teaching moments are when everything, all of a sudden ‘clicks’ for her students.

Mrs. McDaniel was eager to share advice for new teachers: “The most important thing for new teachers to remember is your first priority is to show compassion to your students and build a relationship with each child. Learning cannot take place without positive relationships with teachers.

Students do not learn from teachers who do not like them or if the students feel like the teacher doesn’t see their value to the classroom.”

“I believe that kindergarten is my calling,” shared Julie McDaniel, kindergarten teacher at Lisenby Primary School. “I love the excitement of learning that I am able to foster in the young minds of my students. For most of my students, I am their first interaction with the formal education system.

It is an honor and a privilege to ensure that all my students are put on a path to success.”

Mrs. McDaniel has been teaching for 17 years. She received her Bachelor’s degree in Early Childhood Education from Troy University and her Master’s degree in Curriculum and Instruction from Concordia University. She is also further certified to teach English as a second language in grades preschool through 12th grade and English Language Arts in grades 6th- 12th.

“I have taught grades first through third. Currently I teach kindergarten,” said Mrs. McDaniel. “I chose this age group because kindergarten is the foundation of a child’s academic success. I like to say that kindergarten lays the strong foundation so that the student can build a strong ‘house’. A house that is full of knowledge! Without a strong foundation, a house will crumble.”

This mantra seems to ring true, even early on in this school year. She was nominated by one of her students parents, Ansley Godwin, to be Teacher of the Month. Ansley shares that the love Mrs. McDaniel has for her children is unmeasurable.

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Julie and her husband Brady have two boys, Austin (17) and Logan (14).

Her hobbies include reading fantasy books and educational books, shopping and enjoying a nice relaxing day in the sun!

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5-2-1-0 Plan for Healthy Holidays Pumpkin pie, sweet potato casserole, turkey and dressing, and cooler weather...the holiday season with parties, snacks and family gatherings is here. While this is a favorite time of year for many, it is often stressful with different places to be and events galore! In all the gathering and going, it can become easy to forget to take care of our bodies.

Aim to eat FIVE servings of fruits and vegetables a day. This helps to ensure that our body is getting nutrient-rich foods instead of just the empty snacks and sweet treats that seem to dominate this time of year. Sneaking those fruits and vegetables into the day does not have to be hard. Fruits can be added to a low-sugar cereal for breakfast. Raw veggies with a low-fat salad dressing dip or fruit with a low-fat yogurt dip can be a great addition to a snack or dinner buffet.

Both can also be paired with peanut butter for a filling snack with a healthy protein. Being mindful of those fruits and vegetables throughout the day helps us to get the nutrition we need to feel great!

Try to keep recreational screen time to TWO hours a day or less. This includes video games, seasons of TV shows, and mindless hours spent staring at a phone or tablet. Some of that screen time can even be turned into a fun family night by watching a new or favorite movie together.

Set a goal to get ONE hour of physical activity everyday. After a big holiday meal, go outside for a game of kickball or basketball.

Have a contest to see which family member can hula-hoop the longest; sometimes the winner might surprise you! Turn up the music and dance when cleaning up or wash the car together for a fun family activity. The cooler weather provides a great opportunity to go to the park or take a walk together. The important thing is to get moving. Physical activity of some sort every day keeps those muscles moving and keeps your heart healthy.

ZERO is the tricky number. Try to drink more water and cut back sugary drinks to almost none. This includes sodas, sweet tea, sports

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drinks, and even many fruit juice products. Water keeps us hydrated and is one of the best drinks to satisfy our thirst. Keep a water bottle available or a water pitcher in the fridge and have water as an option at parties. Fruit slices such as lemon and orange or even a splash of seltzer can be a fun addition to water!

Enjoy those favorite foods and meals together with friends and family. Take advantage of the cooler weather and keep the body moving while having some fun. Keep the water flowing to stay hydrated in the drier winter air. Treasure the time spent together, and don’t forget to make some memories along the way! 5-2-1-0 Go!

Dr. Joanna A. McKinley is a general pediatrician licensed by the Alabama Board of Medical Examiners and board certified by the American Board of Pediatrics.. She has been a pediatrician at Dothan Pediatric Clinic since 2008.

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Autauga County Schools DJHS is a Purple Star School!

Enterprise High School Band The Alabama PurNamed Grand Champions ple Star Schools Program recognizes the efforts of the K-12 schools in the state that are committed and supportive of military students, and their families, as they transition to their new homes and schools. The Purple Star School program was designed to help mitigate the challenges of high mobility by setting standards for and publicly designating military-friendly schools. The Purple Star Award recognizes schools that show a major commitment to students and families connected to our nation’s military.

Congratulations to Enterprise High School Big Blue Band on their performance at the A-Town Invitational in Andalusia, Alabama. The band scored all superior ratings in color guard, dance line, percussion, drum major, and band. They were also named best in class drum major, color guard, and band. The band also scored the highest score for the day and was named Grand Champions.

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Houston Academy 4th Graders Learn About Politics

We had special guest, Heath Thompson (Ben Thompson’s Dad), share insights on how to run a campaign with our HA 4th graders.

Mrs. Gilmore’s reading class read the story, “So You Want to be President” by Judith St. George. It was very interesting to listen to him speak about the connections he has with various politicians but also the process of falling in love with reading and eventually writing.

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Dothan City Schools Congratulates Student Advisory Council

Congratulations to the 2022-2023 Superintendent’s Student Advisory Council. On October 3, the SSAC met for the first time and shared their highlights and areas of improvement with Superintendent Dr. Dennis Coe. To learn more and meet our delegates, go to www.dothan.k12. al.us/ssac.

Day of Peace at Highlands Elementary

Highlands Elementary School celebrated International Day of Peace by creating and displaying pinwheels as “Pinwheels for Peace.” Each student designed their own and they were put in the front of the school around the flag pole. The International Day of Peace was established in 1981 by the United Nations General Assembly. Each year the International Day of Peace is observed around the world on 21 September.

Providence Third Graders Study Their Life Events

The third grade recently completed a “timeline of their lives” project to learn the progressive events of a timeline. The students enjoyed learning about the life events of their classmates while completing these projects.

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Highlands Teacher Chosen September Star

Congratulations to Mrs. Carter for being chosen by the Dothan Chamber of Commerce as September’s Star Teacher! She is a wonderful asset to Highlands Elementary School.

Mixon Intermediate Learns About Electricity

Mrs. Newsome’s class used a battery, wire, and a light bulb to make the light work!

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The Fatal Vision Program visited our campus.

ECS 10th grade students participated in several activities to mock impaired vision with alcohol and drugs. It was an eye opening experience.

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Autauga County Schools Coppinville Junior High School Ozark Career Academies Student Supports Cancer Awareness Mentored by Our students and faculty members were all pinked out in Sports Director support of breast cancer awareness and our football team.

TV production student Peyton Pentecost was able to shoot alongside WDHN’s Sports Director Austin Greenland at the homecoming game! Austin Greenland provides ongoing training and mentorship opportunities to the students in the CHTV Academy.

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Lisenby Primary School Welcomes D.A. Smith Football Team

Thank you to the D.A. Smith football team and cheerleaders for coming to Lisenby for the homecoming week pep rally!

Houston Academy Welcomes Fire Department

The Dothan Fire Department and Captain Travis Fretts came to visit our preschoolers in conjunction with our Fire Safety and Prevention week in October. Thank you to our local heroes for stopping by and speaking to our Preschool students!

Highlands Elementary Students Act in Frozen 2

Two of Highlands Elementary School’s students participated in the Frozen 2 play produced

by SEACT. Ellie Grace Plant played Sven and Sailor Thompson played a variety of background dancing and singing parts. They both performed a wonderful show!

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Providence Christian School Show Choir Gets Superior Rating

Congratulations to the Providence ImPACT Show Choir for receiving a superior rating from all judges at the Alabama National Fair Choral Festival in Montgomery. The festival is an opportunity for them to perform and receive scores and comments from the judges.

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Providence Christian Students Serve the Community

Our 9th-12th grade House members had the blessing of serving our community. This is a way that through House we create the opportunity to physically put into practice the virtues we seek to train and teach as part of our curriculum and to learn hands on about the work of these ministries in our community.

Thank you to these organizations for allowing our students the opportunity to come-Harbor Church (Wilberforce), The Exchange Center (King Alfred), Wiregrass Hope Group (St. George), Terrace at Grove Park (Wycliffe), Somerset Assisted Living (Lewis), Whitehall Assisted Living (Tolkien), Wesley Place on Honeysuckle Retirement Community (St. Augustine), and Madrid Baptist Church (Schaeffer).

Dauphin Junior High School Tailgate Party

Dothan City Virtual School Gives Back Our Community Outreach Club continues to do great things in our community.

Recently, they offered their services at the Wiregrass Food Bank!

We are so proud of the way they represent DCVS and DCS! Keep shining students!

Our Library Promotional Tailgate Party has started.

This event helps encourage literacy and the love of reading here at Dauphin.

Our main focus is to help students discover the joy of reading and the power of a literate mind by providing inspiring books and literacy programs.

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Only recently have scientists begun to study the benefits of gratitude. Vitamin G, as some like to call it, plays a critical role in health and happiness. Focusing on the positive boosts body, mind, and spirit. It gives us energy, inspires us, and transforms us. In a nutshell, it provides life with meaning by thinking of life as a gift.

Don’t you want to give this gift to your children?

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Top 10 Benefits of Gratitude

Here are some ideas for fun, creative gratitude journals using a variety of media. As technology changes and our children learn more about what they can do with computers, iPads, and iPhones, we should show them how to use these tools for something positive–for making them feel better.

Dr. Robert Emmons is the world’s leading scientific expert on gratitude. He conducted studies involving gratitude journals and found that when people regularly engage in gratitude, they experience measurable psychological, physical, and interpersonal benefits:

5 Ways to Keep Gratitude Journals with Your Kids

• Feel better about their lives overall • Experience higher levels of positive emotions like optimism, enthusiasm, love, and happiness • Are kinder and more generous to others • Have fewer physical problems including pain • Exercise more regularly and eat healthier • Sleep better • Visit the doctor more regularly for checkups • Feel less stressed • Able to cope with stress more effectively and recover more quickly from stressful situations • Live longer–on average, being thankful adds 7 years to our lives!

How It Works

Why does saying thank you have so many benefits for us? When we count our blessings, we interrupt the cycle of negative and fearful thoughts, which allows the stress system in our bodies to recover. Research shows that when we are thankful, we love our lives and want to make sure we stick around long enough to enjoy them. Also, when we receive praise from others, our brain releases the chemical dopamine, which encourages us to do more to receive such praise. This makes us want to thank others and make them feel good as well.

Blog: Try setting up a family gratitude journal blog (password

protected, of course). You can even involve grandparents and cousins, no matter how far away they live. You could introduce this idea at the Thanksgiving table and challenge everyone to submit a post each week throughout the year.

Audio Recording:

Children love to hear their own voices. You can have them record their journal on a phone or iPad. Once you have the recordings, you can get really creative by posting them online for others to listen to or you can even put it to music and create a song or rap using highlights of what they said.

How To Teach Children Gratitude

In her book 10 Mindful Minutes, Goldie Hawn explains that being thankful is not a natural instinct; children need to be taught how to do it.

She asks parents to be a good example to their children by thanking them often.

It is important to explain to our children why they are being praised. Another important tip is to be careful not to judge how our children express gratitude. Young children under age seven may not fully grasp the concept. It is not what they are thankful for, but that they are learning how to express gratitude that matters. If they want to be thankful for a toy, that is okay.

Keeping a gratitude journal is the backbone of gratitude scientific research. Anytime you read about gratitude, you will be asked to write down five points you are thankful for that day or week on an ongoing basis. Over time, you will begin to experience the benefits of gratitude such as stress reduction and optimism.

Some people don’t care for the traditional journal approach; they may find it repetitive and boring. Fortunately, there are many ways to express gratitude as a family, such as starting a nightly gratitude prayer ritual. Each family needs to discover what is most effective for them. Plus, you don’t want it to become an annoying chore–it is supposed to make you happier after all!

Videos:

Children also love watching videos of themselves.

They will have a blast talking about what they are thankful for and watching it over and over. Maybe have them pretend to be reporters and their gratitude is the news of the day. Or they can act out scenes from the wonderful moments they had.

Drawings: For children who are more visual and artistic,

ask them to draw or paint what they are thankful for at the time. You can then put the artwork together in a book organized by month or year. Create your own handmade journal or take pictures and use an online slideshow to present the images.

Collage:

Looking for pictures in magazines or online to build a gratitude collage is a fun family project. And no artistic talent required! All that cutting is also a great way for your child to build fine motor skills.

Enjoy saying thank you with your children in these innovative ways.

You can mix and match these media as well, such as posting videos on your gratitude blog. WP

Sandi Schwartz is an author, journalist, and mother of two. She has written extensively about parenting, wellness, and environmental issues. As the founder and director of the Ecohappiness Project, her mission is to inspire and educate families to build a nature habit to feel happier and calmer. Learn more at www.ecohappinessproject.com.

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Grading Family Movies: Streaming, Digital Rentals, and Theatrical Releases Lyle, Lyle Crocodile

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Rating PG

Overall A

Violence B

Sex A

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The Primm family have just moved into a New York City brownstone and are astonished to discover a singing crocodile living in the attic. Young Josh befriends the musical reptile and soon they all band together to stop a crotchety neighbor from having Lyle sent to a zoo. This film is a win for families, featuring appealing characters, memorable original songs, and exciting adventures. There’s too much peril for preschoolers, but older kids will enjoy this fun, light, heartwarming film – and even parents will have more fun than they expect. Photo ©Columbia Pictures

Railway Children

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Rating PG

Overall B+

Violence B

Sex A

Profanity B+

Alcohol/Drugs A

As German bombs fall on British cities, children are evacuated to the countryside for safety. Lily, Pattie and Ted find themselves in Yorkshire, befriended by Bobbie, the son of their host family. As Bobbie shares his favorite hideouts, the kids stumble across an American deserter and get sucked into the quagmire of American racial conflict. This period film is a generationals sequel to a classic British children’s novel but it is very much a film about American issues. It’s more than a bit preachy and the kids indulge in risky behavior, but the movie’s heart is in the right place. Photo © Blue Fox Entertainment

Rosaline

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Rating PG-13

Overall B

Violence B+

Sex B+

Profanity C

Alcohol/Drugs C

Rosaline is horrified to discover that her boyfriend – the guy who has given her jewelry and written poetry for her – has fallen in love with her younger cousin.

Refusing to give up without a fight, Rosaline turns her sharp mind to the goal of breaking up Romeo and Juliet. More than a little bit goofy, this adaptation of Shakespeare’s iconic tragedy is a laugh-out-loud comedy that refuses to take itself seriously – and that’s why it works. This fast-paced farce could change teens’ minds about the merits of reading classic literature. Photo ©Hulu

Catherine, Called Birdy

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Rating PG-13

Overall B-

Violence B-

Sex B-

Profanity C

Alcohol/Drugs C

Desperate to keep his manor afloat, spendthrift Lord Rollo decides that his best option is to marry off his 14 year old daughter for gold. But Catherine a.k.a. Birdy has other ideas and is stubborn and devious enough to thwart her father. Based on an award-winning novel, this film veers between ahistoric comedy and strong messages about female autonomy and the evils of child marriage. The film is often funny, despite the anachronisms, but it also lacks subtlety. Photo ©Amazon Studios

Mr. Harrigan’s Phone

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Rating PG-13

Overall B-

Violence C

Sex A

Profanity C-

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Paid to read to Mr. Harrigan, Craig soon warms to the enigmatic elderly man. He even persuades the technophobic senior to start using a cell phone. Upon Mr. Harrigan’s unsurprising death, Craig tucks the phone into the casket – only to start receiving texts from it. This adaptation of a Stephen King story is a great choice for teens who want a good scare but don’t want lots of gore or sexual material. It’s eerie and creepy but eschews violence in favor of steadily mounting tension. Photo ©Netflix

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A. If you’re getting out of debt, the phrase “extra money” probably isn’t even in your vocabulary. Regardless, stores will do everything they can to convince you to toss a couple of extra items into your cart when Christmas rolls around. Their festive marketing is everywhere, and most of it tries to get you to spend extra on things you don’t need or can’t afford.

It might be Christmas, but that doesn’t mean you need to buy a bunch of high-end electronic gadgets for everyone. Any way you slice it, electronics add up to be way more than most people want to spend. Try focusing on more personal—and less expensive—gifts

that will be truly meaningful to the ones receiving them.

Set a reasonable budget, determine what’s fair for each person and stick to it.

Be sure you’re following realistic gift guidelines before you go out shopping. If you have kids, don’t let their Christmas lists dictate how much you spend. Your budget should do that. Look out for sneaky buys that drain your wallet, too. Some people spend as much on stocking stuffers as they do regular gifts under the tree.

Whether you’re shopping online or out and about, remember that extended warranties are not a good deal. Neither are store credit cards and the accompanying “discounts.” It seems everyone from big-box retail stores to mom and pop operations have their own store credit card these days. Sure, they’ll be happy to offer you 10 to 20 percent off a $7 purchase of socks if you’ll just open an account. But there’s a good chance you’ll

still be paying off this year’s Christmas next December.

If gift wrapping at the store is complementary, go for it. If not, just do it yourself.

Sure, it takes a little time and effort, but you’ll save a ton of money buying a few rolls of wrapping paper at the local dollar store. Don’t wait until December 20th to order your Christmas presents, either. Plan ahead — like right now — so you don’t have to worry about expensive overnight shipping rates.

Finally, I know many folks want to send Christmas cards to everyone they know every year. Some people go completely over-the-top, with their family (including the dog and cat) dressed to the nines and a photo taken by a professional photographer. Come on! You can cut costs by sending cards to just your closest friends and family.

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Subscribe to store email lists.

Decide on which stores you want to shop at least a couple of weeks in advance. Then visit each store’s website, and subscribe to their email list. Early signup will ensure you receive all promotional emails for the season’s big Black Friday and Cyber Monday events as well as ongoing savings right on through Christmas Eve.

Buy discounted gift cards. Visit Raise.com, and order discounted gift cards for the stores you know you’ll purchase from. You can use these cards to buy sale and special-buy items for added savings.

The caveat, make sure the gift cards are for stores you’ll definitely shop at, so you don’t blow your savings. Discounted gift cards also make great gifts.

Begin collecting Black Friday and Cyber Monday deals that show up in your newspaper, mailbox, and email.

Also, visit your favorite stores online a few days in advance to see what kind of deals they’ll offer. Print any coupons you find. Then store them together in a safe place.

Organize for the big day. Once you’ve collected all the deals, sort through, and match them up to your holiday shopping list. Compare deals, and determine when the sales or doorbusters begin and if there’ll be limited quantities. Then strategize. If you can’t stand in line for hours for a limited quantity doorbuster, skip it, and focus on other deals that are easier to fetch.

Prepare a ‘second-best’ list. You can’t be everywhere at once, and you’re sure to miss a deal or two. So prepare for that possibility and know where to go and what to look for as an alternative.

Watch for early bird freebies.

Many stores offer free gifts to the first 25 or 100 people in their store. It’s true, there are some pretty nice prizes to be had. But many will require you to arrive well before the crack of dawn and spend hours waiting in line.

Before you succumb to these lures, consider whether it’s worth the risk of losing out on savings elsewhere.

Black Friday isn’t always the best day for hot bargains. So do your research. Stores tout their Black Friday deals to get consumers into a buying frenzy early in the season. Some even offer their super deals on Thanksgiving evening and start to reduce prices on Wednesday. Keep in mind, all those Black Friday deals can also often be found online on Cyber Monday. In

fact, many hot deals, and some better deals stretch well into December.

Shop late in the day. If you’re like many, you wouldn’t even consider shopping on Black Friday simply because of the chaos. But on Black Friday, the vast majority of shoppers start at the crack of dawn or earlier. By 5 p.m., early birds are exhausted, and malls and stores are dead quiet. So Black Friday evening is a great time to get in some peaceful, early shopping with plenty of great deals still going on.

Shop online. This is another option if you don’t want to participate in the madhouse.

Many stores offer the same deals online as they do in their stores. In fact, many online stores don’t even have storefronts. Keep in mind, supplies are often limited, even online.

So by the time you reach checkout, an item in your basket might be sold out. If you’re shopping for multiple items from a store, do multiple checkouts, so the items in your basket don’t disappear while you shop.

MORE HOLIDAY SHOPPING TIPS Arrange your finances in advance.

If you intend to pay by credit card, plan well in advance, so the credit is available to you.

Use your credit cards that offer cash back or reward points to increase your savings. If paying with a debit card, check your balance before you head out to avoid an unwelcome surprise. Also, avoid carrying cash in chaotic crowds because of the increased risk of pickpockets and purse-snatchers.

Leave the kids at home. The chaos

of the holiday shopping season, especially Black Friday, poses risks to children.

Although the chance is slim, there’s the potential risk of trampling by crazed crowds on Black Friday. Your child could also get lost among the mob. Besides, shopping for long hours is stressful and exhausting for kids. Not to mention, it’ll increase your own stress level and deplete your energy.

Avoid carts. On Black Friday, carry shopping bags or totes instead unless you plan to buy heavy items. Carts will slow you down through crowds that are unwilling to budge for you.

Hold off on toy purchases. Black Friday doesn’t offer the best deals on toys.

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The first week of December usually provides much more significant savings on these items.

Use social media for extra savings. Many retailers offer exclusive coupons and discounts to people who ‘like’ them on Facebook or other social media.

Check the social media accounts of the stores you plan to shop at.

Check on return policies. Most major retailers have liberal return policies.

But not all. So do your homework before you make purchases. Also, ask for gift receipts to make exchanges and returns easy for your gift recipients.

Avoid impulse buying. Many shoppers’ savings go right down the drain because they grab unnecessary ‘great buys’ at the spur of the moment. So prepare yourself mentally for the temptation before you head out.

Get extra savings with instant store credit. Most stores offer 10 to 25% savings by opening a store credit card at checkout. If you pay your charges off immediately and don’t use it for unnecessary purchases, it’s well worth the savings.

Otherwise, the long-term cost of interest will exceed the savings you gained.

Make sure a sale is really a sale.

Some stores mark up merchandise before they reduce it to make it look like a great bargain. Furniture stores, in particular, are known for this tactic. But many other stores do it as well on select merchandise. So do your homework. WP

Kimberly Blaker is a freelance writer. She also owns an online bookshop, Sage Rare & Collectible Books, specializing in out-of-print, scarce, signed, and first editions; fine bindings; ephemera and more at sagerarebooks.com.

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Arts & Crafts Decorating Workshop

Sunday, December 4, 2022, 1:00-4:00 p.m. @ Landmark Park 430 Landmark Dr. Dothan, AL 36303 Create wreaths, garlands and swags out of natural materials and decorate Landmark Park for Victorian Christmas, plus make some decorations to take home! Refreshments will be provided.

Registration is required. Guests are encouraged to bring gloves and wire pliers.

(334) 794-3452 www.landmarkparkdothan.com

First Saturday Family Day

Sunday, December 4, 2022, 10:00 a.m.-2:30 p.m. @ Wiregrass Museum of Art 126 Museum Ave. Dothan, AL 36303 Free art packets for the first 100 guests. Each packet will contain detailed instructions and all supplies needed, and will be handed out on a first-come, first-served basis until they are gone.

(334) 794.3871

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Dive Into Diversity- Jolabokaflod

Wednesday, December 7, 2022, 10 a.m.-6 p.m. @ Dothan-Houston Co. Library System 445 N. Oates St. Dothan, AL 36303 December’s story will be celebrating Iceland’s Jolabokaflod book flood.Explore other cultures through books and crafts on traditional holidays and festivals around the globe. Beginning today, December 7, 2022, Jolabokaflod crafts are available for pickup from all locations to further explore the customs and traditions of each culture. Supplies are limited!

(334) 793-9767 www.dhcls.org

Night Mare Before ChristmasJack Skillington Ornaments

Thursday, December 8, 2022, 10 a.m.-6 p.m. @ Dothan-Houston Co. Library System 445 N. Oates St. Dothan, AL 36303 Hey Tweens and Teens! Drop by the Main Library to learn how to make your very own Jack Skellington ornament.

(334) 793-9767

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Ginger Bread Houses

Tuesday, December 13, 2022, 4-4:45 p.m. @ Dothan-Houston Co. Library System 445 N. Oates St. Dothan, AL 36303 Learn how to make Gingerbread Houses.

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Crafty Teen - Crochet Mug Sweaters

Thursday, December 15, 2022, 10 a.m.-6 p.m. @ Dothan-Houston Co. Library - Westgate Branch 535 Recreation Rd. Dothan, AL 36303 Hey Teens! Drop by the Westgate Branch to make this month’s project. This month, we will make Air Dry Clay Trinkets.

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Benefits & Fundraisers Living Hope Blanket & Jacket Drive

November 1-6 @ Eagle Eye Outfitters 3535 Ross Clark Cir. Dothan, AL 36303 Living Hope Ministries Inc, a 501c3 Non-Profit, is in need of gently used womenÕs coats, men’s coats, and blankets to be distributed to Wiregrass Area homeless individuals.

Wiregrass Children’s Home Festival of Trees

Thursday, November 10, 2022, 6:00 p.m. @ Dothan Civic Center 126 N. St. Andrews St. Dothan, AL 36303 A Gala Auction benefit for the Wiregrass Children’s Home featuring; professionally decorated Christmas trees, centerpieces, wreaths, gift items, furniture, trips, and more!

(334) 692-5100

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Operation Christmas Child

November 14-21 @ Heritage Baptist Church (Central Drop Off) 1951 Westgate Pkwy Dothan, AL 36303 Donate shoeboxes filled with Gifts for children in need. Shoeboxes may be dropped off at the Central Drop off Location or one of 12 others in the Wiregrass Area. This year’s goal is 14,225 boxes.

Visit the website for information. www.samaritanspurse.org

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Country Christmas Car Show

Saturday, December 3, 2022, 10a.m.-2p.m. @ Eastgate Park 1949 Sanitary Dairy Rd. Dothan, AL 36303 Country Christmas Car Show to benefit the Toys for Tots. Come out and showcase your car or truck. An unwrapped toy ($25.00) is your only entry fee to help out a great cause at Christmas.

(334) 615-3700 www.dothanleisureservices.org

Girls Inc. Mother Daughter Tea

Tuesday, December 6, 2022, 1:00-2:30 or 3:30-5:00 p.m. @ Windmill Station 1369 Headland Ave. Dothan, AL 36303 Guests will enjoy tea style hors d’oeuvre’s, Christmas Ornament making, visiting with Santa and Mrs. Claus, cookie decorating, treat bags, and a photo booth. Tickets (before 12/1): $60/couple, Additional Adult $35, Additional Daughter $25.

(334) 793-2321

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Miracle on Foster Street Food Drive

Thursday, December 8, 2022, 6:00 a.m.-7:00 p.m.

285 N. Foster St. Dothan, AL 36303 Join the Wiregrass Area Food Bank as we collect food and funds to help feed the hungry for the holidays...and hopefully beyond!

BBS Fitness 4th Annual Toy Drive “Push-Pull Challenge”

Sunday, December 11, 2022, 8:00 a.m. @ BBS Fitness Systems 709 Boll Weevil Cir. Enterprise, AL 36330 Join us for our 4th annual event to benefit the regional Boys & Girls Club, by raising money & toy donations to provide Christmas gifts for children who may not have any otherwise.

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@ Fostering Hope 17965 Hwy. 431 Headland, AL 36345 Sponsor foster children for their Christmas gifts.

Businesses, individuals, church groups, etc are encouraged to help sponsor children and buy Christmas gifts for them this year. Also collecting Christmas cards for foster families.

(334) 699-1563

www.fosteringhopewiregrass.com

Salvation Army Angel Tree

@ Wiregrass Commons Mall 900 Commons Dr., Suite 604 Dothan, AL 36303 Help provide Christmas for low-income children.

Typical needs and wants range from clothes to a bicycle. Angels are available for adoption at Wiregrass Commons Mall. The tree is near the food court.

The Best Christmas Pageant Ever

December 6-10, 7:00 p.m. nightly @ Dothan Opera House 115 N. St. Andrews St. Dothan, AL 36303 In this hilarious Christmas classic, a couple struggling to put on a church Christmas pageant is faced with casting the Herdman kids--probably the most inventively awful kids in history. You won’t believe the mayhem - and the fun - when the Herdmans collide with the Christmas story head on! This delightful comedy has become a holiday staple across the country. seact@seact.com www.seact.com

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Festivals Christmas at the Farmers Market

Saturday, December 3, 2022, 7:00 a.m.-12:00 p.m. @ Enterprise Farmers Market 525 N. Main St. Enterprise, AL 36360 Make your holidays a little more homemade and enjoy Fresh Produce, Local Vendors, Ornament Painting, Storytime, & Pictures with Santa.

Whoville Holiday Celebration

Saturday, December 3, 2022, 10 a.m.-4 p.m. @ Downtown Enterprise, AL 36330 Holiday Fun for the Entire Family in beautiful Downtown Enterprise!

SAVE THE DATE and Join the fun in Downtown Enterprise as we transform into “Whoville for the Holidays” at our “Whoville Holiday Celebration”!

(334) 348-2738 www.enterprisedowntown.org

Santa for Seniors

2755 Choctaw St. Dothan, AL 36301 Help bring Christmas joy to Wiregrass seniors. Common requests include groceries, household repairs, and basic necessities. Gift lists published November 5. Gifts will be collected from 9:00 a.m.6:00 p.m. December 5, 10, and 11.

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Toys for Tots

Collecting new, unwrapped toys.

Visit website for drop-off locations.

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Turkey Thanksgiving Meal Drive

@ Fostering Hope 17965 Hwy. 431 Headland, AL 36345 Provide a Thanksgiving meal to a local foster family or the Alabama Baptist Children’s Home for only $40. Meals include turkey, sides, and pie.

Donations can be made via PayPal or mail, or dropped off during office hours.

(334) 699-1563

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Church Events Wiregrass Community “Messiah” Sing-A-Long

Sunday, December 4, 2022, 5 p.m. @ First Baptist Church of Enterprise 302 N. Main St. Enterprise, AL 36330 The Wiregrass Community, Messiah Sing-along is created with a desire to provide Coffee County and the Wiregrass Area with a sing-along rendition of Handel’s Messiah. The Sing-along is founded on principles of openness and community - everyone is welcome as the community gathers together in the performance of this celebrated work.

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A Christmas Prayer

November 30-December 22, 6:00 p.m. nightly @ Southern Broadway Dinner Theater 104 N. Main St. Enterprise, AL 36330 ÒA Christmas PrayerÓ is an old-fashioned story of two children whose hope and childlike faith in the prayers they say shine through their circumstance like a ray of light. Their belief in prayer and the magic of Christmas will pull you in. And as you see this heartwarming story unfold and listen to the beautiful songs, youÕll find yourself feeling and remembering what the season is really about.

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My Christmas Angel

Saturday, December 3, 2022, 3-6 p.m. @ Dothan Opera House 115 N. St. Andrews St. Dothan, AL 36303 Celebrate the greatest season of all with music. www.dothanciviccenter.org

The Very Merry Christmas & More Tour With NewSong & Francesca Battistelli Tuesday, December 6, 2022, 7:00 p.m. @ Dothan Civic Center 126 N. St. Andrews St. Dothan, AL 36303 Make plans to sing some of your favorite Christmas songs (and maybe some of your new favorite Christmas songs) with NewSong & Francesca Battistelli this December! www.dothanciviccenter.org

December 15-17 @ Dothan Civic Center 126 N. St. Andrews St. Dothan, AL 36303 Elf Academy is packed with high-energy dance numbers, fantastic music, and hilarious characters! It is a must see for the entire family and will quickly become your favorite holiday tradition!

John Berry 26th Annual Christmas Tour

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Sunday, December 11, 2022, 1:00-4:00 p.m. @ Landmark Park 430 Landmark Dr. Dothan, AL Sip hot apple cider or hot chocolate while listening to Christmas carols and visiting with Santa. Enjoy old fashioned desserts, arts and crafts, music, wagon rides and handmade decorations. A circuit riding preacher will deliver a holiday message.

Admission is free and visitors are encouraged to bring nonperishable food items for donation to the Food Bank.

Monday, December 19, 2022, 7-9 p.m. @ Dothan Civic Center 126 N. St. Andrews St. Dothan, AL 36303 It wouldn’t be the holidays without music from John Berry

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December 9-10, 6:00-8:00 p.m. @ Pioneer Museum 248 Hwy. 231 North Troy, AL 36081 This tradition-filled event will feature colorful decorations, holiday treats, storytelling, ornament making, Christmas music, Santa Claus and lots of holiday fun. Admission: $10 Adults; $9 Seniors/ Military; $8 Students, Free for Members & Children Under 5 www.pioneer-museum.org

Downtown Christmas Festival and Tree Lighting

Saturday, December 10, 2022, 10:30-6:30 p.m. @ Downtown Dothan, AL 36301 The festival will highlight downtown merchants and restaurants, offer a chance for children to meet Santa, have fun with arts and crafts projects, ride the ÒPolar ExpressÓ train, and so much more! Festivities will end with the official lighting of the City of Dothan Christmas tree at the Dothan Civic Center.

(334) 615-3700

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Food Fun The Ugliest Christmas Sweater Party Ever

December 9 and December 16, 7 p.m. @ Black Cat Bakeshop & Kitchen 123 N. Main St. Enterprise, AL 36330 Tickets $45. Many dress up in sweaters but not required. This is an audience participation event not a dinner show. Guests will be the actors and

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The Crazy Christmas Catastrophe

December 10 and December 17, 6 p.m. @ Black Cat Bakeshop & Kitchen 123 N. Main St. Enterprise, AL 36330 You are invited by Mrs. Claus and there are a few personalities you would rather not be in the room with. Tickets $40 per person.

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Twas the Grinch Before Christmas Cookie Decorating

Friday, December 23, 2022, 4 and 7 p.m. @ Black Cat Bakeshop & Kitchen 123 N. Main St. Enterprise, AL 36330 A Grinchy good time will be had by all, pajamas are best for the feast we shall have.

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Holiday Photos Santa Experience

November 6 & 13 @ Lolly Poss Photography 2200 Ozark Hwy. Enterprise, AL 36330 A private VIP photo session with Santa. Your child can ask Santa as many questions as they’d like, share their wish list, complete a Christmas craft, enjoy milk and cookies, find their name on the nice list, and walk away with a special gift. Heirloom quality products available for purchase.

Inaugural Turkey Classic

November 21-22 @ Dothan Civic Center 126 N. St. Andrews St. Dothan, AL 36303 An AHSAA sanctioned single elimination High School Basketball Tournament featuring 8 teams fighting for a seed in the Downtown Dothan Hoops Classic. $6 per day or $10 for a two-day pass (334) 615-3700

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Ice & Lights Downtown Ice Rink

November 25-January 16, Tuesday-Thursday 10 a.m.-9 p.m.; Friday 10 a.m.-10 p.m.; Saturday 9 a.m.-10 p.m.; Sunday 1-8 p.m.; Christmas Day 1-9 p.m.; New YearÕs Eve 10 a.m.-10 p.m.; Closed Mondays @ Wadlington Park North Foster Stree Dothan, AL 36303 $10 per person, includes skate rental.

(334) 615-3700

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Red Nose Reindeer Dash

Saturday, December 3, 2022, 8:30 am @ Christmas in Candyland 505 E Three Notch St Andalusia, AL 36420 5th Annual Red Nose Reindeer Dash. All proceeds go to the United Covington Fund. Wear your reindeer ears. A gift basket will be given to the most Christmas dressed participant.

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Parades & Tree Lightings

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Downtown Christmas Festival and Tree Lighting

Saturday, December 10, 2022, 3:00 p.m. @ Downtown Dothan, AL 36301 The festival will highlight downtown merchants and restaurants, offer a chance for children to meet Santa, have fun with arts and crafts projects and so much more!

(334) 615-3700

www.dothanleisureservices.org

Where to Shop Downtown Holiday Open House

Saturday, November 19, 2022, 10 a.m.-6 p.m. @ Downtown Enterprise, AL 36330 Shop Local and start your Holiday Shopping off right in beautiful Downtown Enterprise! Enjoy our wonderful downtown hospitality and diverse offering of merchants to provide unique gifts for the holidays!

(334) 348-2738 www.enterprisedowntown.org

Black Friday Pajama Party

Friday, November 25, 2022, 7:00 a.m.-6:00 p.m. @ Downtown Enterprise, AL 36330 Roll out of bed, come in your pjs and enjoy unique shopping at our Black Friday Pajama Party!

(334) 348-2738 www.enterprisedowntown.org

Faith’s Treasures

1983 S. Brannon Stand Rd. Dothan, AL 36305 At Faith’s Treasures we strive to give you a unique shopping experience by providing locally made products in addition to other collections we offer. There is a lil’ something for everyone here.

(334) 446-4012 faithstreasures.com

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House of Flowers

November 25 & 26, December 2, 3, 9,10, 16, 17, 23 & 24, 5:00-8:00 p.m. @ Dothan Area Botanical Gardens 5130 Headland Ave. Dothan, AL 36303 Stroll through the Gardens and enjoy the many festive lights and displays. Food trucks will be on site.

Admission is $8 per person over age 8. Tickets are timed and must be purchased in advance.

4440 W. Main St., Suite 1 Dothan, AL 36305 House of Flowers is a full service floral and gift home/office decorating shop that carries some of the finest fresh cut and silk arrangements in our area.

(334) 793-3224 www.dabg.com

Christmas on Oakwood

Nightly in December @ Westbrook Subdivision Oakwood Drive Dothan, AL 36303 Tune your radio to 98.1fm to listen to the lights and dance to music. Please be mindful of neighbors and others enjoying the lights. Please do not liter or block driveways, and please remain in your vehicles.

Trawick’s Christmas in the Woodlands

Nightly in December, 5:00-9:00 Sunday-Thursday 5:00-10:00 Friday and Saturday Corner of Highway 84 & Boll Weevil Circle Enterprise, AL 36330 Drive-through Christmas light display. Train rides available some dates in December. Admission is free.

Miscellaneous 5k & Fun Run with the Grinch

Saturday, December 10, 2022 110 E. College St. Enterprise, AL 36330 Join the Grinch, along with Friends of Main Street for our first annual 5k & Fun Run. Wiregrass Parents I November 2022

A Sweet Christmas Parade

Tuesday, November 29, 2022, 6:30 p.m.

Main Street Enterprise, AL 36330 Enjoy the floats, marchers and excitement of the largest Christmas parade in the Southeast! enterprisealabama.com

Enterprise Christmas Tree Lighting

Thursday, December 1, 2022, 6:00 p.m. @ City Hall 501 S. Main St. Enterprise, AL 36360 Join Mayor William E. Cooper for an evening of musical performances, hot cocoa, cookies, Santa and the lighting of the CityÕs Christmas Tree.

(334) 389-1554 enterprisealabama.com

Downtown Christmas Tree Lighting

Thursday, December 1, 2022, 6 p.m.

Official lighting of the City of Dothan Christmas tree at the Dothan Civic Center.

Ozark Tree Lighting and Christmas Parade

Tuesday, December 6, 2022, 6:00 p.m.

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Fall Craft Bazaar

Sunday, November 6, 2022, 9:00 a.m. @ VFW Post 6020 434 Hwy. 84 E Daleville, AL 36322 The Post and Auxiliary will be holding a craft bazaar! Many vendors from across the Wiregrass will be there to show their products. Entry fee for non-vendors: $5 or 5 non-perishable food items for local food banks.

(334) 598-6211

St. John Christmas Market

Sunday, November 6, 2022, 9:00 a.m.-6:00 p.m. @ St. John Catholic Church 123 Heath St. Enterprise, AL 36330 Come out and support local small businesses and crafters at our annual Christmas Market.

Market of Hope

Saturday, November 19, 2022, 9:00 a.m.-2:00 p.m. @ Fostering Hope 17965 Hwy. 431 Headland, AL (334) 699-1563

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“Popularity Contest” Affects Our Kids I don’t know about you, but middle school was hard. I’m talking “you couldn’t pay me enough money to do it again” hard. These are the years when young people start to really find their group. They begin to discover where they fit in if you will. And in my day (old person story here), when we weren’t walking uphill in the snow both ways to school, we were navigating some of the same issues kids do today. But on a much smaller scale. And, of course, who was “popular,” or if you were a part of the “popular group,” was something of discussion and worry. For the most part, a lot of that popularity came from the shoes and clothes you wore, if you had the latest hairstyle, where you lived, and if you got to shave your legs before anyone else. But it was the 80s for me, so things were much different than they are now.

What has remained the same is the desire to be a part of the group. To be noticed. To feel like you fit in. And while we did not have social media to reach for when we wanted to feel included, today’s generation has access to a platform that provides a gross sense of inclusion. But it comes with a price. To feel included or

important in the social media space, it feels like you have to provide new content constantly. New pictures. New videos.

And it must be better than your last video and better than everyone else’s videos.

Insert an algorithm that changes daily, and if you have a child with self-worth attached to views and followers, it is a recipe for disaster.

I want to take this one step further and recognize that our youth are not the only ones falling victim to this. Adults are too. If you are an influencer or run your business marketing through social media, especially Instagram or Tik Tok, you face the same issues. The algorithm changes daily. It decides who will see your content and how much they will see, which translates to views and followers. You can work incredibly hard on content only to have the algorithm decide who gets to view it, which leads to feelings of inadequacy and wondering, “what did I do wrong?” It is a vicious cycle.

Why is this important to note? Because if social media is affecting how we feel as adults, think about how it affects our children. If adults with mature coping skills struggle in this space, it is no wonder our children struggle. It is why they do what they do every day. It is why they post 21

“bigger” videos and do inherently ill-advised things. Without a catalyst of wanting social media popularity, they probably would not even DO these things.

So what do we do as parents to help our children or provide support for ourselves if we struggle in this space? First, we must do the work around understanding that our self-worth is NOT attached to views, follows, or likes. Understand that social media is driven by an algorithm fed and controlled by money-hungry social media giants. How your video or reel performs has absolutely NOTHING to do with who you or your child are as people.

It has nothing to do with self-worth. If we can help our children understand how algorithms work, it may help them grasp the concept of a “digital” response versus how it feels to have a response from a real friend. Next, work on other factors to encourage positive confidence growth from sources that are not digital. Please help your child focus on authentic, close, meaningful relationships. Let them know that these are most important... and that these relationships will never be driven by some random number online.

Kristi Bush serves as a national education consultant and social media safety advocate.

She is a licensed social worker with greater than 15 years of clinical practice and health care experience.

She attended Troy and Auburn University where she studied social work and counseling. Kristi travels nationally and has spoken with thousands of children, parents, professionals and organizations about the benefits and threats associated with social media. You may reach Kristi through her website at www.knbcommunications.com.

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Growing up feeling loved helps children overcome many obstacles. It contributes to a feeling of well-being that will help them excel in school, friendships, and all other areas of their lives. It even helps when it comes to being disciplined. “Often, parents assume that their kids just ‘know’ they love them, or that saying ‘I love you’ will be enough,” said Gary Chapman and Ross Campell in their book The 5 Love Languages of Children. But to feel truly loved, children need the adults in their lives to put those feelings into action. By learning to speak a child’s love languages, a parent can ensure the child feels loved.

Many parents are familiar with the love languages: words of affirmation, quality time, physical touch, acts of service, and receiving gifts. Like adults, children each have a primary love language that they respond to best, but speaking all five love languages is even more beneficial since children will react to the other love languages as well as their primary one. In addition, children’s love languages may change over time as they mature.

Chapman and Campbell recommend treating all five love languages equally if your child is younger than five years old.

An older child’s love language can be discovered in several ways. One way is by paying careful attention to how they express their love and affection to you and others. For example, is your child always drawing pictures for you? Maybe his love language is receiving gifts. A particularly snuggly child’s primary love language may be physical touch, while a child who is generous with compliments may have words of affirmation as their primary love language.

Another good way to learn more about your child’s love language is to listen to what your child requests and what they complain about. Do they often ask your opinion on how they are doing in their work or play? They might be showing a preference for words of affirmation. Likewise, complaints about you being too busy can be considered a request for quality time. Be careful to look for patterns and to remember that a preference for quality time at age five may have changed by the time your child is ten or fifteen.

One last way to search for your child’s love language is to give them choices. Dr. Suzanne Barchers, Education Advisor at Lingokids, says, “If your child is old enough, it’s fine to say, ‘I noticed you weren’t interested in that gift I brought you. If you had a choice, what would it be? Going to dinner together, just you and me? Going with me to work and helping me out for a few hours?’ Probe until you get some clues.”

as wrestling together or a tickle fight can help your child feel loved.

However, if you are not physically affectionate by nature, you may want to consciously set an achievable goal to do something simple daily, like stroke your child’s hair or even give a high five.

Words of Affirmation

For a child whose love language is words of affirmation, prioritize encouraging words, words of affection, and specific praise. For example, say, “I love you” often. Showcasing their artwork can send an affirmative message to a creative child. Try sending an older child an encouraging text message.

Acts of Service

This love language can be a delicate balance. Of course, we want our children to mature and become more independent as they grow. But children can feel particularly loved when their parents perform acts of service, doing things for their children that they may or may not be able to do independently. An act of service might be carrying your child to bed even though you’re sure they’re only pretending to be asleep, making a special surprise meal for your child, or doing their chores for them when you know they’ve had a hard day.

Quality Time

Quality time is vital to all children, particularly if this is your child’s primary love language. If you already have activities you know you and your children enjoy, try to examine how often you’re doing them and see if you can increase the time spent together. Of course, it doesn’t have to be an activity you both enjoy. Your child will sense if you’re doing an activity solely for their pleasure and might even appreciate it more. Even activities such as cleaning and chores can have the desired effect of making a family feel closer. Quality time should be as free from distractions as possible, so although you typically want to take pictures of special events, try to spend as little time with your phone as possible.

Receiving Gifts

Receiving gifts can be one of the more complicated love languages. Children will sense if a parent is trying to bribe them with a gift or if a parent is just buying gifts to make up for the fact that they don’t have time to spend with the child. Dr. Barchers says, “Gifts don’t have to be big and extravagant. They should, however, be thoughtful. Finding that perfect color of a barrette or a memorable trinket can be just right.” Don’t make the gift contingent on specific behavior, and ensure that the gifts reflect your child’s interests.

To find out more about the love languages of children, read “The 5 Love Languages of Children” by Gary Chapman and Ross Campbell. WP

Physical Touch

If your child’s love language is physical touch, you are in luck!

It can be the easiest love language to use because of the endless opportunities to give a hug or cozy up and get snuggly. Helping your child feel loved can be as easy as choosing a spot next to your child on the couch for movie night. Or maybe you give extra hugs when leaving for school in the morning. In addition, physical activities such

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FamilyCalendar Tuesday November 1

Lego Club 4:30 PM Ozark Dale County Library, Inc, 296 N Union Ave Ozark, AL, 36360 If you love to build and create with Legos, then Lego Club is just for you! Join us for building challenges, games, and free play! All Legos are supplied and all ages are invited to join the fun! We’ll have Duplo Legos for the younger kids.

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Thursday November 3

Story Time Ozark Dale County Library, Inc, 296 N Union Ave Ozark, AL, 36360 Kids! Join us for Story Time at the Library. We’ll have fun listening to stories, doing crafts and activities, and enjoying a yummy snack, too!

Times: 10:30am and 5:00pm.

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Friday November 4

National Peanut Festival 4:00 PM 5622 Highway 231 South Dothan, AL, 36301 Peanut Festival opening day. The festival hosts numerous fun-filled, family events...amusement rides, animal attractions, agricultural displays, concerts,

livestock shows and a parade. www.nationalpeanutfestival.com/

Saturday November 5

Art in the Park 8:00 AM - 2:00 PM, Eastgate Park, Dothan, AL, 36301 Calling all artists in the Wiregrass! Please join us on Saturday, November 5 at Eastgate Park to share, display, and sell your work.

334-615-3730 https://secure.rec1.com/AL/dothanal/catalog Montessori Madness 5K 8:00 AM Westgate Park “Tennis Center” and Kiwanis Park, Dothan, AL The Montessori Madness 5K is our major fall fundraiser for Dothan Montessori School.

We raise money through sponsorships, runner registrations, and T-shirt sales. http://www.dothanmontessorischool.org/ National Peanut Festival 10:00 AM 5622 Highway 231 South Dothan, AL, 36301 Peanut Festival - car show noon-8pm. the festival hosts numerous fun-filled, family events...amusement rides, animal attractions, agricultural displays, concerts, livestock shows and a parade. www.nationalpeanutfestival.com/ Wiregrass Kids’ Market 10:00 AM - 5:00 PM, 2702 Ross Clark Circle Dothan, AL, 36301 Dothan’s biggest and best resale market! www.wiregrasskidsmarket.com First Saturday Family Day 10:30 AM Wiregrass Museum of Art, 126 Museum Avenue Dothan, AL, 36303 Saturdays are the perfect day for children and families to create and explore art together! First Saturday Family Day, one of WMA’s

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334-791-2940 Daleville Powwow 11:00 AM Culpepper Park, 290 Daleville Ave Daleville, AL, 36322 Daleville Annual Powwow, educational, fun, family event - see Native dances, participate in Choctaw social dances, try Frybread/Indian Tacos, storytelling, flute music, vendors, see our educational display.

The Whole Nine Yarns: A Multi-Genre Writing Workshop ($10 members for members; $15 not-yet members) 12:00 PM Wiregrass Museum of Art, 126 Museum Avenue Dothan, AL, 36303 Dave McGinnis will lead a writing workshop designed to guide you through your own unique gifts as an author via numerous genres, such as poetry and prose fiction.

Just bring whatever writing tool you prefer. Teens and adults - Call or visit the museum to register.

334-794-3871 www.wiregrassmuseum.org Ozark Pokemon League 1:00 PM - 4:00 PM, Ozark Dale County Library, Inc, 296 N Union Ave Ozark, AL, 36360 Pokémon trainers of all ages and skill levels are invited to battle and trade with other trainers in this exciting trading card game (TCG) and video game! If you’re new to Pokémon, don’t worry! We have a Pokémon Professor who can teach you everything you need to know about battling and trading cards and building your decks.

334-774-5480 http://www.odcpl.com/ Teens Art Club 1:00 PM - 4:00 PM, Ozark Dale County Library, Inc, 296 N Union Ave Ozark, AL, 36360 We are officially launching an Art Club for teens (ages 13 and up!) at the new Ozark Dale County Library!

334-774-5480 http://www.odcpl.com/ “Delilah” Spiritual Death by Temptation 7:00 PM Dothan Civic Center, 126 N St Andrews St #214 Dothan, Al, 36303 “Delilah” Spiritual Death by Temptation http://dothanciviccenter.org/

Sunday November 6

Daleville Powwow 11:00 AM - 6:00 PM, Culpepper Park, 290 Daleville Ave Daleville, AL, 36322 Daleville Annual Powwow, educational, fun, family event - see Native dances, participate in Choctaw social dances, try Frybread/Indian Tacos, storytelling, flute music, vendors, see our educational display.

National Peanut Festival 1:00 PM - 10:00 PM, 5622 Highway 231 South Dothan, AL, 36301 The festival hosts numerous funfilled, family events. www.nationalpeanutfestival.com/ Wiregrass Kids’ Market 1:00 PM - 5:00 PM, 2702 Ross Clark Circle Dothan, AL, 36301 Dothan’s biggest and best resale market! www.wiregrasskidsmarket.com

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Monday November 7

Wiregrass Kids’ Market 10:00 AM - 5:00 PM, 2702 Ross Clark Circle Dothan, AL, 36301 Dothan’s biggest and best resale market! www.wiregrasskidsmarket.com National Peanut Festival 4:30 PM 5622 Highway 231 South Dothan, AL, 36301 The festival hosts numerous fun-filled, family events... amusement rides, animal attractions, agricultural displays, concerts, livestock shows and a parade www.nationalpeanutfestival.com/ 2022 Choral Festival Dothan Opera House, 115 N St Andrews St Dothan, AL, 36303 The Cultural Arts Center hosts an annual choral festival designed to spotlight the talents of Elementary, Middle and High School’s best and brightest choral students in the tri-state area. https://www.theculturalartscenter.org/choral-festival

Tuesday November 8

Wiregrass Kids’ Market 10:00 AM - 5:00 PM, 2702 Ross Clark Circle Dothan, AL, 36301 Dothan’s biggest and best resale market! www.wiregrasskidsmarket.com National Peanut Festival 4:30 PM 5622 Highway 231 South Dothan, AL, 36301 The festival hosts numerous fun-filled, family events... amusement rides, animal attractions, agricultural displays, concerts, livestock shows and a parade www.nationalpeanutfestival.com/ Write Night: Open Mic Night

6:00 PM Wiregrass Museum of Art, 126 Museum Avenue Dothan, AL, 36303 Write Night: Open Mic Night provides an open platform to share original poetry, prose, skits, and more.

334-794-3871 www.wiregrassmuseum.org 2022 Choral Festival Dothan Opera House, 115 N St Andrews St Dothan, AL, 36303 The Cultural Arts Center hosts an annual choral festival designed to spotlight the talents of Elementary, Middle and High School’s best and brightest choral students in the tri-state area. https://www.theculturalartscenter.org/choral-festival

Wednesday November 9

National Peanut Festival 4:30 PM 5622 Highway 231 South Dothan, AL, 36301 The festival hosts numerous fun-filled, family events... amusement rides, animal attractions, agricultural displays, concerts, livestock shows and a parade. Dream Big Food Drive- Bring a minimum of 3 cans of food or 1 jar of peanut butter and receive $5 off gate admission and $5 off ride armband. Please remember to bring those food donations! The Food Bank needs your help! www.nationalpeanutfestival.com/ 2022 Choral Festival Details November 8. https://www.theculturalartscenter.org/choral-festival Dream Big Food Drive 5622 US Highway 231 South Dothan, AL, 36301 Bring a minimum of 3 cans of food or 1 jar of peanut butter and receive $5 off gate admission and $5 off ride armband. https://www.nationalpeanutfestival.com/

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Story Time Ozark Dale County Library, Inc, 296 N Union Ave Ozark, AL, 36360 Kids! Join us for Story Time at the Library. We’ll have fun listening to stories, doing crafts and activities, and enjoying a yummy snack, too!

Times: 10:30am and 5:00pm.

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Festival of Trees 6:00 PM Dothan Civic Center, 126 N St Andrews St #214 Dothan, AL, 36303 Join us for Wiregrass Children’s Home largest fundraiser. A Gala auction event featuring professionally decorated Christmas Trees, centerpieces, wreaths, gift items, furniture, trips, and more.

334-692-5100 http://wiregrasschildrenshome.org/

Friday November 11

National Peanut Festival 4:30 PM 5622 Highway 231 South Dothan, AL, 36301 The festival hosts numerous fun-filled, family events... amusement rides, animal attractions, agricultural displays, concerts, livestock shows and a parade. www.nationalpeanutfestival.com/

Come Home, It’s Suppertime 6:30 PM The We Piddle Around Theater, N. Main St Brundidge, AL, 36010 Alabama’s Official Folk Life PlayThe stories told in “Come Home, It’s Suppertime” are 100 percent true and performed as told by real-life characters who milled around our hometown during the days of the Great Depression and strowed around stories that have endured with time. TIckets are $25 and includes pre-show, full country supper and award winning two act folk life play.

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National Peanut Festival 2:30 PM 5622 Highway 231 South Dothan, AL, 36301 The festival hosts numerous fun-filled, family events... amusement rides, animal attractions, agricultural displays, concerts, livestock shows and a parade www.nationalpeanutfestival.com/ Come Home, It’s Suppertime 6:30 PM The We Piddle Around Theater, N. Main St Brundidge, AL, 36010 Alabama’s Official Folk Life PlayThe stories told in “Come Home, It’s Suppertime” are 100 percent true and performed as told by real-life characters who milled around our hometown during the days of the Great Depression and strowed around stories that have endured with time. TIckets are $25 and includes pre-show, full country supper and award winning two act folk life play.

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Saturday November 12

Cars and Coffee 8:00 AM - 11:00 AM, Loose Brick Coffee Co., 128 W Ct Square Ozark , AL, 36360 Join us for coffee, breakfast and car show.

National Peanut Festival Parade 9:30 AM Downtown Dothan Dothan, AL The National Peanut Festival is celebrating its 78th year, and this year’s Festival theme is: “Wiregrass Roots & Cowboy Boots!”. Join us for our parade at 9:30am. www.nationalpeanutfestival.com/ National Peanut Festival 10:00 AM - 12:00 AM, 5622 Highway 231 South Dothan, AL, 36301 The festival hosts numerous fun-filled, family events...amusement rides, animal attractions, agricultural displays, concerts, livestock shows and a parade. www.nationalpeanutfestival.com/ Wiregrass Kids’ Market 10:00 AM - 5:00 PM, 2702 Ross Clark Circle Dothan, AL, 36301 Dothan’s biggest and best resale market!

1/2 Price Sale- Open to Public www.wiregrasskidsmarket.com Studio Class: Clay Creations ($55 for members; $65

not yet members)

10:30 AM - 2:30 PM, Wiregrass Museum of Art, 126 Museum Avenue Dothan, AL, 36303 Join artist Orran Scruggs this November with an introduction to clay workshop. This class will be easy for anyone to create artwork from clay, using slab, coil and other simple techniques. All ages.

334-794-3871 www.wiregrassmuseum.org Story Time & Activity @ The Carver 12:00 PM - 1:30 PM, The Carver Museum, 305 N Foster St Dothan, AL, 36303 http://www.gwcarvermuseum.com/

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1:00 PM - 4:00 PM, Ozark Dale County Library, Inc, 296 N Union Ave Ozark, AL, 36360 Pokémon trainers of all ages and skill levels are invited to battle and trade with other trainers in this exciting trading card game (TCG) and video game! If you’re new to Pokémon, don’t worry! We have a Pokémon Professor who can teach you everything you need to know about battling and trading cards and building your decks.

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Teens Art Club 1:00 PM - 4:00 PM, Ozark Dale County Library, Inc, 296 N Union Ave Ozark, AL, 36360 We are officially launching an Art Club for teens (ages 13 and up!) at the new Ozark Dale County Library!

334-774-5480 http://www.odcpl.com/ Come Home, It’s Suppertime 6:30 PM The We Piddle Around Theater, N. Main St Brundidge, AL, 36010 Alabama’s Official Folk Life PlayThe stories told in “Come Home, It’s Suppertime” are 100 percent true and performed as told by real-life characters who milled around our hometown during the days of the Great Depression and strowed around stories that have endured with time. TIckets are $25 and includes pre-show, full country supper and award winning two act folk life play.

334-685-5524 http://piddle.org/come-home-itssuppertime/

Sunday November 13

Epic Bakery Festival 11:00 AM Main Street DeFuniak Springs, DeFuniak Springs, FL, 32435 Join us for our 2nd Annual Epic Bakery Competition benefiting the Boys & Girls Clubs of the Emerald Coast (BGCEC). www.eventbrite.com/e/2nd-annual-epic-bakery-festival-tickets-429216156077 National Peanut Festival 1:00 PM - 6:00 PM, 5622 Highway 231 South Dothan, AL, 36301 The festival hosts numerous fun-filled, family events...amusement rides, animal attractions, agricultural displays, concerts, livestock shows and a parade. www.nationalpeanutfestival.com/ Wiregrass Kids’ Market 1:00 PM - 5:00 PM, 2702 Ross Clark Circle Dothan, AL, 36301 Dothan’s biggest and best resale market!

1/2 Price Sale- Open to Public www.wiregrasskidsmarket.com Songs and S’mores 5:00 PM - 8:00 PM, Wesley Chapel Enterprise, 2235 County Road 156 Enterprise, AL, 36330 The Christian singer/songwriter duo Cori and Kelly will lead us in a night of praise and worship. You do not want to miss this event! Dinner will be provided as well as smores over a bonfire.

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Monday November 14

Wiregrass Kids’ Market 10:00 AM - 5:00 PM, 2702 Ross Clark Circle Dothan, AL, 36301 Dothan’s biggest and best resale market!

1/2 Price Sale- Open to Public www.wiregrasskidsmarket.com

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Tuesday November 15

Lego Club 4:30 PM Ozark Dale County Library, Inc, 296 N Union Ave Ozark, AL, 36360 If you love to build and create with Legos, then Lego Club is just for you! Join us for building challenges, games, and free play! All Legos are supplied and all ages are invited to join the fun!

We’ll have Duplo Legos for the younger kids.

334-774-5480 http://www.odcpl.com/ Wiregrass Hope Fundraising Dinner 6:00 PM Dothan Civic Center, 126 N St Andrews St #214 Dothan, Al, 36303 Every November, nearly 1,000 people gather from all over the Wiregrass for a night of food, fellowship and to raise money for Wiregrass Hope Group. https://wiregrasshope.com/

Thursday November 17

Crafty Teen 4:00 PM DHCLS - Westgate Branch, 535 Recreation Rd. Dothan, AL, 36303 Join us to make CD art! All supplies will be provided for this class. Registration is required. Ages 13-18 334-699-2950 knorth@dhcls.org https://dhcls.org/ Red and Black Gala 7:00 PM Friends of Army Aviation will be hosting the annual Red and Black Gala event in Dothan, AL on November 17th, 2022 https://friendsofarmyaviation.org/foaa-event/red-andblack-gala-2/ Story Time Ozark Dale County Library, Inc, 296 N Union Ave Ozark, AL, 36360 Kids! Join us for Story Time at the Library. We’ll have fun listening to stories, doing crafts and activities, and enjoying a yummy snack, too!

Times: 10:30am and 5:00pm.

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Saturday November 19

Fall Craft Bazaar 9:00 AM - 5:00 PM, VFW Post 6020, 434 Highway 84 E Daleville, AL, 36322 The Post is hosting a bazaar on November 19th 2022. 9:00am-5:00pm.

Native American Festival (Members are free. Non-

members are $8 and children are $5.) 10:00 AM - 4:00

PM, Landmark Park, 430 Landmark Dr. Dothan, AL, 36303 Guests can enjoy learning about Native culture and traditions through music and dance, try their hand at flint knapping, listen to a story teller, and more! Come browse the vendors for more Native American jewelry, apparel, arrowheads and tools. Kids can enjoy pony rides and even learn traditional Native American dances and drumming. https://www.landmarkparkdothan.com/park-events/ Visiting Artist in the Gallery with Heather Baumbach (Free) 10:00 AM - 11:00 AM, Wiregrass Museum of Art, 126 Museum Avenue Dothan, AL, 36303 Join artist Heather Baumbach as she walks us through her exhibition in Blumberg Gallery. She will speak about her artistic practice, explore conceptual content, and answer questions from guests.

334-794-3871 www.wiregrassmuseum.org Studio Class: The Art of Ornaments ($20 for members; $25 for not-yet members.) 10:30 AM - 2:30

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334-794-3871 www.wiregrassmuseum.org Visiting Artist Workshop: Improvised Fiber Sculptures with Heather Bambauch ($40 for

members; $50 for not-yet members)

11:00 AM - 1:00 PM, Wiregrass Museum of Art, 126 Museum Avenue Dothan, AL, 36303 Join artist Heather Baumbach for an improvised sculpting workshop. We will learn to sculpt improvised vessels out of fiber.

334-794-3871 www.wiregrassmuseum.org Ozark Pokemon League Details on November 12.

Teens Art Club 1:00 PM - 4:00 PM, Ozark Dale County Library, Inc, 296 N Union Ave Ozark, AL, 36360 We are officially launching an Art Club for teens (ages 13 and up!) at the new Ozark Dale County Library!

334-774-5480 http://www.odcpl.com/ Baby Shark Dothan Civic Center, 126 N St Andrews St #214 Dothan, Al, 36303 The Christmas Show - Splash along with Baby Shark and Pinkfong as they journey into the sea for the Holidays to sing and dance through some of your favorite songs in Baby Shark Live! http://dothanciviccenter.org/

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Black Friday PJ Party 7:00 AM - 6:00 PM, Downtown Enterprise, Enterprise, AL, 36330 Throw on your favorite pjs and join us in Downtown Enterprise for our annual Black Friday Pajama Party! Stores will be open early and ready to help you shop all the deals for holiday shopping! www.enterprisedowntown.com/calendar

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The Prophecy Show - The Music of Trans-Siberian Orchestra 7:30 PM Dothan Civic Center, 126 N St Andrews St #214 Dothan, Al, 36303 http://dothanciviccenter.org/ Story Time Ozark Dale County Library, Inc, 296 N Union Ave Ozark, AL, 36360 We’ll have fun listening to stories, doing crafts and activities, and enjoying a yummy snack, too! Times: 10:30am and 5:00pm.

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Saturday December 3

Meet the Teaching Artists (Free) 10:00 AM - 10:30 AM, Wiregrass Museum of Art, 126 Museum Avenue Dothan, AL, 36303 Get to know our lovely teaching artists at a short conversation and meet and greet in the Entrance Gallery just before our December First Family Saturday.

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Tuesday December 6

A Very Merry Arty Pants (Ages 18 months to 4 years; must be accompanied by an adult)

4:00 PM Wiregrass Museum of Art, 126 Museum Avenue Dothan, AL, 36303 Come celebrate the season and get messy at Arty Pants! Your little one will enjoy creating art in different ways in these special handson classes designed for parents and toddlers. Ages 18 months to 4 years; must be accompanied by an adult 334-794-3871 www.wiregrassmuseum.org Lego Club 4:30 PM Ozark Dale County Library, Inc, 296 N Union Ave Ozark, AL, 36360 If you love to build and create with Legos, then Lego Club is just for you! Join us for building challenges, games, and free play! All Legos are supplied and all ages are invited to join the fun!

We’ll have Duplo Legos for the younger kids.

334-774-5480 http://www.odcpl.com/ Southeast Alabama Community Theatre presents “The Best Christmas Pageant Ever” 7:00 PM Cultural Arts Center, 909 S St Andrews St Dothan, AL, 36301 In this hilarious Christmas classic, a couple struggling to put on a church Christmas pageant is faced with casting the Herdman kids--probably the most inventively awful kids in history. You won’t believe the mayhem - and the fun - when the Herdmans collide with the Christmas story head on! /www.seact.com

Wednesday December 7 Crafts at Main Library

4:00 PM DHCLS Main Library, 445 N Oates St. Dothan, AL, 36303 Construct your own Gingerbread House with this cute holiday craft project! With candy cane and peppermint accents, these little foam houses make a great yuletide

project for your family.

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Southeast Alabama Community Theatre presents “The Best Christmas Pageant Ever” Details on December 6.

Thursday December 8

Crafts at Main Library 4:00 PM DHCLS Main Library, 445 N Oates St. Dothan, AL, 36303 Hey Tweens and Teens! Drop by the Main Library to learn how to make your very own Jack Skellington ornament. All supplies will be provided for this class. Registration is required. This program is for teens ages 10-18 334-793-9767 https://dhcls.org/

Southeast Alabama Community Theatre presents “The Best Christmas Pageant Ever” 7:00 PM Details on December 6.

Story Time Ozark Dale County Library, Inc, 296 N Union Ave Ozark, AL, 36360 Kids! Join us for Story Time at the Library. We’ll have fun listening to stories, doing crafts and activities, and enjoying a yummy snack, too!

Times: 10:30am and 5:00pm.

334-774-5480 http://www.odcpl.com/

Saturday December 10

Watercolor Collective 10:00 AM - 12:00 PM, Wiregrass Museum of Art, 126 Museum Avenue Dothan, AL, 36303 Join us in WMA’s garden once a quarter on the second Saturday of March, June, September, and December for an afternoon of watercoloring, drinks, and music. A leisurely, come-and-go free paint party will provide still-life inspiration within the garden’s flowers, sculptures, and fountains.

334-794-3871 www.wiregrassmuseum.org

Every Monday

Teen Recharge 3:00 PM - 5:30 PM, DHCLS Main Library, 445 N Oates St. Dothan, AL, 36303 A place for tweens and teens (12-18) to hang out, mess around and geek out with others their age. S.T.E.A.M.-based activities such as robotics, 3D pens, crafts, computer coding, art, video games, etc. will be available to all at no charge.

334-793-9767 knorth@dhcls.org https://dhcls.org/ Story & Craft Time 10:30 AM DHCLS Main Library, 445 N Oates St. Dothan, AL, 36303 Story & Craft Time, registration required, crafts are designed for children ages 2-6.

334-793-9767 knorth@dhcls.org https://dhcls.org/ Storytime - Enterprise Library Enterprise Public Library, 101 E. Grubbs St. Enterprise, AL, 36330 Story Time at 10:00pm and 1:00pm. Story Time for ages 0-5 years.

334-347-2636 www.enterpriselibrary.org

Tuesday, Thursday, Saturday

Enterprise Farmers Market 7:00 AM - 11:00 AM, 525 N. Main Street Enterprise, AL, 36330 The Enterprise Farmers Market is a covered, open-air facility where local farmers can sell fresh fruits and vegetables directly to the consumer.

The market is open on Tuesdays, Thursdays and Saturdays from 7 to 11 a.m.

334-348-2668 https://www.facebook.com/enterprisealfarmersmarket

Second and Fourth Tuesdays

Toddler Tales Story Time 3:30 PM Ozark Dale County Library, Inc, 296 N Union Ave Ozark, AL, 36360 Join us for a special Story Time just for toddlers with stories and activities appropriate for ages 4 years old and younger.

334-774-5480 http://www.odcpl.com/

going freestyle building. It is sure to be a fun time for all and best of all it is free! We will meet every Wednesday! (Unless otherwise posted). This program is geared toward Children 6-12 and/or Families.

334-503-9119 http://dalevillepubliclibrary.com/

Every third Wednesday

Master Gardener Lunch and Learn 12:00 PM DHCLS Main Library, 445 N Oates St. Dothan, AL, 36303 Join the Wiregrass Master Gardeners Association on the third Wednesday of each month as they present on a variety of seasonal topics!

334-793-9767 https://dhcls.org/

Every third Thursday

Art After Hours 5:30 PM - 8:00 PM, Wiregrass Museum of Art, 126 Museum Avenue Dothan, AL, 36303 Come wander the galleries, have a drink at the cash bar, and take in art on view. You might even have a chance to speak with one of the exhibiting artists or try your hand at an ingallery activity. Enjoy live music in the galleries from a range of local musicians.

334-794-3871 www.wiregrassmuseum.org

Every Friday, Saturday and Sunday

Planetarium Shows ($3 per person and free for park members) 430 Landmark Dr. Dothan, AL, 36303 Full

dome movies will take place on Fridays at 3:30 p.m.; Saturdays at 11 a.m., 1 p.m. and 3:30 p.m.; Sundays at 1 p.m. and 3:30 p.m.; and Mondays at 3:30 p.m. https://www.landmarkparkdothan.com/digitariumplanetarium/

Every Saturday

Story & Craft Time 10:30 AM DHCLS - Ashford Branch, 305 6th Ave. Dothan, AL, 36312 Story & Craft Time, registration required, crafts are designed for children ages 2-6.

334-899-3121 knorth@dhcls.org https://dhcls.org/

Every day in November

Dive Into Diversity-Loy Krathong Any DHCLS location , Dothan, AL Explore other cultures through books and crafts on traditional holidays and festivals around the globe https://dhcls.org/ Fall Harvest Sensory Kits Any DHCLS location, Beginning today, November 3, 2022, stop by any DHCLS location to pick up a Fall Harvest Sensory kit. These kits are for toddlers and kids 18 months- 5 years of age. https://dhcls.org/

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Every Wednesday

Story & Craft Time 10:30 AM DHCLS - Westgate Branch, 535 Recreation Rd. Dothan, AL, 36303 Story & Craft Time, registration required, crafts are designed for children ages 2-6.

334-699-2950 knorth@dhcls.org https://dhcls.org/ Lego Club 3:00 PM - 4:30 PM, Daleville Public Library, 308 Donnell Blvd Daleville, AL, 36322 Come join us for some fun build challenges or you can enjoy some easy

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WP: What is the most fulfilling and exciting part of being Principal at RES? DM: As a teacher, seeing my students faces when they achieved success was fulfilling. As an administrator, it’s the same, but I hear it from a teacher’s perspective; the joy and excitement teachers have over the accomplishment of their students (big or small). I think the most fulfilling part of being an elementary school principal is not only being able to watch my students grow academically, but form friendships, mature and become leaders within their classrooms and in our school.

Dusty McKinley

WP: November is National Adoption Month. Your three-year-old Helms is adopted. Why did your family personally decide to adopt?

DM: We struggled with infertility for a couple of years before God led us to adoption. Charlie was ready before I was to start the adoption process. It took me a little longer to say yes. We talked with Allie before we decided on adoption, and she was so excited.

She always wanted to be a big sister.

WP: You and your husband own a pyro company. Tell us all about this.

WP: How was the adoption process for you and your family?

DM: It is incredible to look back and see the people God placed in my life well before adoption was ever on my mind. We used a consulting agency that guided us through the mounds and mounds of paperwork and legal stuff. We had the sweetest consultant that held our hand, answered all the questions, and was our cheerleader and sounding board. Our church, family, friends, and community were so supportive. We had fundraisers, garage sales, and I baked more pound cakes than I care to mention to help cover fees. I say that if a baby could be made from sugar and flour, that Helms is (maybe that is why he loves candy and sweets so much).

I am not going to lie, the process was hard on me. Being presented with possible matches, us saying yes, and then getting a no in return over and over was difficult. I thought that after a couple of months, we would be matched with a sweet birth mama, and a baby would soon follow. Finally, in January 2019, I got a call that a birth mom wanted to talk to us that evening to see if we were the family for her little one. We talked with Helms’s birth mom and her social worker that evening and it went great! The original due date we received was the end of January. After another doctor’s appointment, it was changed to the end of February. We were on pins and needles and sitting on go for over a month. I received a text message on the morning of 2.22.19 that said, “You might want to head this way.”

We were on the road shortly after, and Helms was born right as we arrived. We spent time with his birth mom for a few days, which was very special, and I have some of the sweetest pictures. After a short stay in the NICU, we were able to bring our baby home.

DM: My husband will tell you his mother told him he would make a living blowing stuff up or be in trouble for it. He took the high road there!

We sell and shoot professional fireworks shows - the big ones you see on the 4th of July.

We also have contracts with many colleges during football, basketball, and baseball seasons. While we co-own the business, he is the one who keeps it all under control. It is hard work, and you have to love it. It can take days to set up for displays that last 30 minutes. The 4th of July is our busiest time of the year, but it is getting to where there isn’t much downtime. Weddings, sports events, music venues, and other exciting events book throughout the year.

WP: Outside of Pyro Productions, you are also the Principal of Rehobeth Elementary. How long have you been principal?

DM: January 2023 will be two years as principal. I was an assistant principal at RES for a little over five years before that. I am the principal in the community where I grew up, went to school as a child, and graduated high school. I’m not sure how many administrators can say that.

WP: What would your advice be to someone considering adoption for their family?

DM: I would encourage them to do their research and seek out friends or other families that have walked the adoption journey.

Those individuals are a wealth of information and encouragement.

Adoption can be an emotional rollercoaster. I would tell a family to stay positive, focus, and pray for the little one and the birth family that could soon be a part of their lives.

WP: Have you always wanted to be a principal?

DM: I can honestly say no to this one. While in college, I never thought about being a leader in a school. I just wanted my group of kids and to make my impact there. Fast forward ten years, and I returned to school to earn my Ed.S. in Ed. Leadership with the encouragement from a teacher on my hall. I had taken on some leadership roles and was trying to figure out if going back to school was something I needed or wanted to do. I finished my degree and continued teaching until God opened the right door for me to be an Assistant Principal at RES. Wiregrass Parents I November 2022

Dusty McKinley has been married to her husband Charlie for eight years.

They have two children, Allie (17) and Helms (3). She and her husband own a local business, Pyro Productions, and she is also the principal of Rehobeth Elementary. Dusty loves to spend time with friends and family and says the beach is her ‘happy place’. She also enjoys pickle ball.

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