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From the Publisher Ashton Wright

Living With Children John Rosemond

Common Sense Media Discover several popular apps that are stirring up trouble in schools.

Halloween for Tweens and Teens Find teen approved games for hosting a fabulous party!

A Page in a Book Gerry Paige Smith

22 Parenting, Media & Everything in Between Common Sense Media

Dave Says Dave Ramsey

Parenting Today’s Teens

Fall Festivities and Halloween Fun

Our guide to all things “fall” in and around the community.

10 Skills Kids Should Know By Age 10

Important tasks to teach as they move towards independence.

Mark Gregston

Get This!

Gerry Paige Smith

Departments On The Cover

Mayson and Mary Patton Stanfield attend preschool in Dothan. Both girls enjoy an afternoon ride in their Power Wheel Jeep and watching Paw Patrol on TV. Mayson (4) loves to organize her toys by shapes, sizes and colors. Mary Patton (2) has more of an outside the box approach to playing with her toys. Their two differing personalities complete a home full of love! Their parents are Michelle and Ben Stanfield.

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Family Calendar 33

Movie Reviews 44

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It’s finally my favorite time of year, Fall! I started embracing the season on Labor Day, pulling out all my pumpkin and turkey décor, changing the wreath on my front door, and picking out a new flower arrangement for my dining room table. Hopefully, Mother Nature will follow my lead and autumn weather will show up in the Wiregrass soon! Of course, if you’ve lived here long enough, you know you can count on breaking out the coats during the week of the National Peanut Festival. Did you know the festival is celebrating 75 years this year? It’s definitely on my family’s to-do list for this fall. We’ll also be visiting Aplin Farms, Harvest Day, and Scarecrows in the Gardens. You can learn about those and lots of other fun, seasonal festivals and activities in this month’s Fall Festivities and Halloween Fun Guide. I can’t wait to take my daughter to pick out her very first pumpkin to carve. It will be fun to see what kind of face she wants to create and her reaction to scooping out the guts. I’m predicting an adorable “Ewwww!” and lots of giggles. If a jack-o-lantern is on your todo list this October, you’ll find several places in our guide to pick the perfect pumpkin. I’m also looking forward to trick-or-treating. Last year was my daughter’s first real experience with trick-or-treating. Our neighborhood goes all out for Halloween. We’re lucky to have a safe, walkable route right outside our front door. For those of you who don’t live in a trick-or-treating neighborhood, our guide also lists places you can take your little princesses and superheroes to load up on their favorite treats. And we haven’t forgotten your older Halloween enthusiasts who’ve most likely gotten too cool for trick-or-treating. We have plenty of teen and tween-approved activities from haunted houses to a scary movie marathon listed as well. If a party is more to your teen’s liking, you’ll want to check out the ideas in this month’s feature article, 10 Halloween Party Games for Teens and Tweens. Who knows? Maybe your house will become the place to be this and every Halloween. Of course, there’s plenty to do this month that’s not Halloween-themed. Check out our Family Calendar for everything from theater shows to children’s activities, fundraisers and volunteer opportunities. Also in this month’s issue, you’ll find 10 Skills Children Should Know By Age 10, School News from around the Wiregrass, Dave Says, and Movie Reviews. Speaking of movies...how soon is too soon to start watching Hocus Pocus? Asking for a friend, of course. In the meantime, bring on the boots, boiled peanuts, and beautiful weather!

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ASMS Informational Meetings ALBERTVILLE Thursday, Oct. 11, 6:00 PM Albertville High School

FLORENCE Wednesday, Oct. 17, 6:00 PM University of North Alabama

MONTEVALLO Monday, Oct. 8, 6:00 PM Montevallo University

ALEXANDER CITY Tuesday, Oct. 23, 6:00 PM Central Alabama Community College

GREENVILLE Thursday, Oct. 4, 6:00 PM Beeland Park Community Center

MONTGOMERY Thursday, Oct. 18, 6:00 PM Alabama Association of School Boards

ANNISTON/OXFORD Wednesday, Oct. 24, 6:00 PM Oxford Civic Center

HAMILTON Thursday, Oct. 18, 6:00 PM Bevill State Community College

ROANOKE Thursday, Oct. 18, 6:00 PM Roanoke Public Library

ATMORE Thursday, Oct. 18, 2018, 6:00 PM Coastal Alabama Community College

HUNTSVILLE Monday, Oct. 22, 6:00 PM University of Alabama in Huntsville

SELMA Tuesday, Oct. 2, 6:00 PM Wallace Community College

AUBURN Thursday, Oct. 11, 5:30 PM (Central) Auburn University

JASPER Thursday, Oct. 25, 6:00 PM Bevill State Community College

THOMASVILLE Thursday, Oct. 11, 6:00 PM Coastal Alabama Community College

BIRMINGHAM Tuesday, Oct. 23, 6:00 PM University of Alabama at Birmingham

LIVINGSTON Tuesday, Oct. 9, 6:00 PM University of West Alabama

TROY Thursday, Oct. 18, 6:00 PM Troy University

BOAZ Wednesday, Oct. 10, 6:00 PM Snead State

MOBILE-OPTION 1 Thursday, Oct. 4, 6:00 PM ASMS Campus

TUSCALOOSA Wednesday, Oct. 24, 6:00 PM University of Alabama

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TherapeuticParenting

by Sonia Martin, LMSW

It’s All About Relationship! The internet is full. Do you ever think that? There just simply cannot be one more get your baby to sleep through the night strategy or one more way to cook kale. Do you ever scroll past article after article and get lost in people telling you what easy 3-step dessert will compliment that chicken dinner, what new style of pant will make your legs look ten feet tall, and certainly how best to parent (and how you are currently doing it all wrong)? I do. We can so easily get lost in the idea that if we can just find that one strategy, that one solution, that one approach, we can affect change in every area of our child’s current level of functioning. Though I can’t help you find those pants that will change your life, I can definitively say this when it comes to parenting your kids: It is ALL about relationship. Here’s the thing, if you ask 100 people about the best strategy to deal with whatever behavior you are currently facing with your child, you are going to get about five different answers explained in 100 different ways. Spank your child. Don’t spank your child. Put your child in time-out. Put your child in timein. Take away privileges. Enforce greater consequences. Leave them at the table until they clear their plate. Never get into a battle over food, they will eat when hungry. And on and on and on. So, allow me to simplify for

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you... relationship. Focus on the relationship, because relationship compels obedience. In fact, this concept bleeds over into other areas of our life. Allow me to illustrate. If you make a massive mistake at work one day and your boss calls you into his office and begins to yell, demean, threaten and tell you how incompetent you are, do you at all feel as though you are in relationship with your boss? No. Do you at all feel driven to please him? No. Do you at all feel connected to and respectful of your boss? Definitely no. You stand there until he is done, give a cursory apology and then walk out of the office grumbling under your breath straight to your co-workers, so that you can all discuss the frustration and irritation of working for such an incompetent leader…because somehow your mistake is definitely his fault. Now keep that example in mind. You have made a massive mistake at work and your boss in this scenario calls you into his office and says, “Hey. I heard what happened. It’s going to be okay. How can I help you in this? How can we partner together to make this right?” Now what does that do to your relationship? It breeds a spirit of connection. Do you walk out of that office feeling empowered to correct your mistake? Yes. Do you feel respect for and reverence toward your boss? Yes. In this scenario your boss is addressing the mistake, partnering

with you to make it right, and is mindful to not dissuade his or her relationship with you, because that relationship – when preserved - is going to compel that obedience within you. Here’s the thing. Your kids are going to screw it up. They are going to fail and falter and not get it right. This is the process of childhood. They are learning and, through that process, we are going to get such a better response if we can fiercely and unapologetically defend and protect our relationship with our child. The entirety of this concept is called Therapeutic Parenting and it is something I want to begin to introduce over the coming months. So join me as we dig deep and begin to understand how incredibly important our foundational relationship with our kids is, and how we can nurture that all important connection.

*Therapeutic parenting is parenting in a highly structured, highly nurturing way. This form of intensive parenting is often a key to progress in dealing with children who have trauma and attachment challenges, but has also proven beneficial with any child.

Sonia is a licensed social worker and holds both a Bachelor’s and Master’s degree in Social Work. Her clinical focus is on helping parents and professionals understand the role of the brain in behavior, and how to adopt therapeutic parenting techniques to help mitigate negative behaviors. She travels the state speaking at various conferences on behavior and parenting and is a therapist for Kids To Love Foundation. Sonia is a mother to 7 sons, 3 of which were internationally adopted, and is also a foster parent. She spends her free time cooking, drinking coffee, cleaning, cooking, sweeping infield baseball dirt off of the kitchen floor, cooking, and cleaning up after the cooking in an effort to keep all those boys full while avoiding the appearance that she lives in a fraternity house.

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Headland Harvest Festival Events

Harvest 5K & 1-Mile Fun Run/Walk September 29 * Downtown Headland Registration @ 7 a.m.* 5K @ 8 a.m.* Fun Run/Walk @ 9 a.m. Register in the gazebo on the square. The wheeled, level course winds through downtown and residential areas. The Harvest Run is a part of the Headland Harvest Festival activities and benefits the Headland High School cross-country team. Entry fee to be determined. Registration forms are also available at www.headlandal.org.This is a Dothan Runners Club Grand Prix event. For more info, call (334) 693-3303. Harvest Day October 13 * 9 a.m.-3 p.m. Downtown Square in Headland This fun-filled FREE annual event takes place downtown in and around the city square. The day is a tribute to local farmers and the harvest season. It features an antique and collector car show, children’s games and rides, more than 100 arts, crafts and food vendors, and live entertainment throughout the day.

Southern Broadway Presents Merchants of London

September 27-29 * Doors open at 6 p.m.; Dinner starts at 6:30 104 North Main Street, Enterprise The 19th century was a time when London was transformed into the world’s largest trade city. Come see the quirky merchants that helped London grow into a political, financial and business powerhouse. You never know what mysteries and surprises are in store when these merchants’ lives become intertwined with each other and their customers. Tickets range from $36.95 to $39.50 plus tax and .75 per ticket fee per person. Reserved seating only. Tickets must be purchased in advance. Buy online at www.southernbroadway.com or call (334) 470-6568.

Swamp Gravy: Fourth and Long

October 5-6, 12-13, 19-20, 26-27 Fridays at 7:30 p.m., Saturdays at 2 & 6 p.m. 158 East Main Street in Colquitt, Ga. There’s life happening on the bleachers and a whole other world on the football field! The 26th edition of Swamp Gravy will explore the dreams fulfilled, the loved ones found, and the lives altered irrevocably under the Friday night lights—proving that sometimes our fumbles only make the victories that much more sweet. Tickets are $22 for individuals and $20 for groups of 20 or more. Call (229) 758-5450 or visit https:// swampgravy.com/ for more info.

Oktoberfest

September 28 * 4:30-11 p.m. * Festival Fields, Fort Rucker Fort Rucker’s 16th Annual Oktoberfest features live German music by Sonnenschein Express, traditional German food including bratwurst and schnitzel, German beer, keg toss competition, car show and a good time! At this family-friendly event, there are also inflatables for the children, a pumpkin patch, craft activities and more! So put on your lederhosen and don’t miss out on this celebration of German culture here in the Wiregrass! For more info, call (334) 255-1749.

Art After Hours

October 18 * 5:30-8 p.m., Wiregrass Museum of Art, Dothan A quarterly event to celebrate the opening of new exhibitions. Come wander the galleries, have a drink, and take in the new art on display. You might even have a chance to speak with one of the exhibiting artists or try your hand at an in-gallery activity. October’s event will mark the opening of new fall exhibitions, including work by Charity Ponter. Also on display will be art from Tony Wright and selections from WMA’s permanent collection. Light snacks will be served, and drinks will be available for purchase. Cost: $5 non-members. For info, call (334) 794-3871 or visit www.wiregrassmuseum.org/. Wiregrass Parents I October 2018

Kolomoki Festival

October 13 * 10 a.m.-4 p.m. Kolomoki Mounds State Park 205 Indian Mounds Rd., Blakely, Ga. Admission: $5 Park Pass Join us for a day full of fun, food, crafts and events. Native American demonstrators, local performances, craft vendors and food vendors are some of the fun you’ll have at the festival. Cornhole tournament starts at 1 p.m. and pontoon boat rides are provided all day. Call the park office for more information at (229) 724-2150. 6

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Johnny Mack Brown Birthday Celebration

Landmark Park September 22, 29 & October 6 @ 10 & 10:30 a.m. Free with paid gate admission ($4 for adults, $3 for kids, FREE for members) Landmark Park will celebrate Dothan native and Western film star Johnny Mack Brown’s 114th birthday during the month of September with a double feature from the serial Fighting Kit Carson. Great for all ages! Each movie lasts about 30 minutes and will be shown in the Interpretive Center Auditorium. Landmark Park is reportedly home to the largest collection of Johnny Mack Brown memorabilia in the world! To learn more about late Dothan native and Western film star Johnny Mack Brown, be sure to visit our exhibit on display in the Interpretive Center lobby. For more info, visit www.landmarkparkdothan.com/ or call (334) 794-3452. Fighting Kit Carson Schedule: September 22 10 a.m. “The Law of the Lawless” & 10:30 a.m. “Red Phantoms” September 29 10 a.m. “The Invisible Enemy” & 10:30 a.m. “Midnight Magic” October 6 10 a.m. “Unmasked!” & 10:30 a.m. “The Trail to Glory”

Dothan Out of the Darkness Community Walk

September 29 * 10 a.m.-noon Northview High School, 3209 Reeves Street, Dothan When you participate in the Out of the Darkness Walks, you join the effort with hundreds of thousands of people to raise awareness and funds that allow the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention (AFSP) to invest in new research, create educational programs, advocate for public policy, and support survivors of suicide loss. Join the AFSP Alabama Chapter at the 2018 Dothan Out of the Darkness Walk! Thanks to walkers and donors like you, AFSP has been able to set a goal to reduce the annual suicide rate 20% by 2025. For more info, please contact Roxane Fuentes at (334) 5475120 or e-mail: rfuentes1414@gmail.com.

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Scarecrows in the Garden

October 1-31 Dothan Area Botanical Gardens 5130 Headland Ave., Dothan Admission: Free Come see the ‘crows every day in October! Bring your friends for an enjoyable stroll through the park and see the imaginations of our Gardens area friends as their ‘crow talents are put on display. The theme this year is “Historical Events & People.” No entrance fee is required, but a gate donation is appreciated. Cash prizes are awarded to the top five overall winners and to the best school entry. For more info, call (334) 793-3224 or visit https://www. dabg.com/.

Landmark Park Benefit Car Show

October 6 * 10 a.m.-2 p.m. Cost: $5 for adults, $3 for kids, free for members, $10 to register a car Enjoy cooler weather while viewing the large display of antique cars, ranging in age from “T” Models to sporty custom classics. The annual drawing for $500 will be held at the Car Show. Tickets are available for $2 each on the day of the show in the Gift Shop, Martin Drugstore and Shelley General Store. If you would like to purchase drawing tickets in advance, please call (334) 794-3452. This year’s featured vehicle is the TRUCK. Register when you get here! Registration will take place from 8-11 a.m. The first 100 cars to enter the show for display will receive a dash plaque and a goodie bag. Cars are judged on cleanliness, engine paint, interior and body. For more info, visit www.landmarkparkdothan.com/ or call (334) 794-3452.

11th Annual Wiregrass Area Buddy Walk

October 13 * 8 a.m.-1 p.m. National Peanut Festival Fairgrounds Join the F.R.I.E.N.D.S. as we unite for a common cause and raise funds. Whether you have Down syndrome, know someone who does, or just want to show your support, take the first step and donate or register today! Help us spread the word; all are welcome for our day of celebration! Down syndrome participants receive a Buddy Walk T-shirt, wristband and lunch for FREE! Other registrants ages 6 and up can participate in the walk for $5 (no T-shirt) or $20 (with T-shirt). Any age individual who will not participate in the walk but would like an event T-shirt may purchase one for $15. For registration or more info, call (334) 718-3356 or visit www. ds-stride.org/wiregrassbuddywalk.

Big Church Night Out

Sunday, October 7 * 6-9 p.m. Dothan Civic Center 126 N. St. Andrews St., Dothan Tickets: General Admission $25; Friends & Family 4-Pack $20 per ticket; Groups of 10 or more $18 per ticket Whether it’s the church around the corner or a church on the other side of the globe, we all connect to God in different ways. Big Church Night Out is a celebration of the beauty and diversity of the many different ways we worship while uniting behind the one thing that unites us all. It’s a night of worship, entertainment, music, prayer, laughter, art, reflection, and so much more. Whether coming alone, loading up the entire family or a bringing a church group, this night is designed for EVERYONE. The 2018 lineup includes Crowder, Jordan Feliz and Sarah Reeves, illusionist Brock Gill and worship leader Jamison Strain. For tickets, call (334) 615-3175 or visit www.DothanCivicCenter.org

Enterprise Boll Weevil Festival

October 27 * 9 a.m.-3 p.m. * Downtown Enterprise Explore our amazing retail shops and restaurants or visit one of the many vendors lined up and down Main and College Streets. There will be a costume contest for kids up to 12 years of age, live music, entertainmment from our local community performers, delicious street fare, kids activities and more! To set up a booth, call (334) 347-0581 or e-mail chamber@ enterprisealabama.com. Wiregrass Parents I October 2018

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Fall Farm Day

October 20 * 10 a.m.-4 p.m. * Landmark Park, Dothan Cost: $8 Adults; $6 Seniors/Active Military; $4 Kids (ages 3-12) Come and watch how peanuts were harvested in the Wiregrass nearly 100 years ago. Enjoy the sights, sounds and sweet smells of cane grinding, syrup making, butter churning, soap making and other traditional farm activities. Other activities include music, antique tractors, wagon rides and the largest quilt display in the Wiregrass. Fall Farm Day is an official AL200 Event, celebrating Alabama’s Bicentennial.

Sandi McCool Champions of Hope

Saturday, October 20 * 7 a.m. Alabama College of Osteopathic Medicine 445 Health Science Blvd., Dothan Cost: Spirit Walk & 5K $25; 10K $35; Half Marathon $50; Kids Zone Free The Sandi McCool Champions of Hope is a 5K, 10K and half marathon competitive race, 1-mile Spirit Walk and Kids Zone community cancer awareness event presented annually by the Southeast Alabama Medical Center Foundation. Each year sponsors, runners, walkers and survivors, along with their families and friends, gather to raise money and awareness about the importance of early detection and intervention. Raising more than $1million since its inaugural event in 2008, proceeds from Champions of Hope help expand cancer services and programs offered by Southeast Alabama Medical Center. Some of the services and programs funded include Cancer Navigation Services, 3D mammography, customized information reference binders for newly diagnosed patients, and post-mastectomy comfort kits. Each year a cancer survivor is selected as the honorary chair of the Sandi McCool Champions of Hope. Previous chairwomen include Sandi McCool (inaugural chair and event inspiration), Kelli Cundith, Kelli Hall and Franzie Bondy. For more info, visit www.samcfoundation.org/champions-ofhope/ or call (334) 673-4150.

Quilt Show

October 19-21 * Fri. & Sun. 1-4 p.m. * Sat. 10 a.m.-4 p.m. Held in conjunction with Fall Farm Day, this quilt show features more than 100 antique and contemporary quilts displayed inside the Stokes Activity Barn. The juried show includes exhibits, door prizes, speakers and more. Featuring author, quilter and speaker Flavin Glover, this year’s theme is “Log Cabin Fever.” The Quilt Show is also an official AL200 Event, celebrating Alabama’s Bicentennial. For more info about Fall Farm Day or the Quilt Show, call (334) 794-3452 or visit www.landmarkparkdothan.com/.

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A Page in a Book It’s Just Your Imagination The marvel of the human mind is its ability to fill in blank or boring spaces with imagination. Seeing a parade of animals in the shifting of clouds overhead, making up a backstory for the stranger sitting on the park bench, or crafting alternate exploits that take beloved toys on all new adventures, these are some of the ways our mind moves beyond what is and into the realm of what could be. Imagination is the foundation of invention and creativity, as well as a healthy retreat from the everyday. The following titles celebrate the limitless vistas the mind can explore and the little things that can launch that journey!

Idea Jar

by Adam Lehrhaupt, Illustrated by Deb Pilutti (Simon & Schuster) The jar on the teacher’s desk is filled with ideas that are perfect for sparking young imaginations. Colorful characters and bold adjectives are written on scraps of paper just waiting to inspire an all new story. Armed with just a couple of words, students begin to craft the adventures of a space-faring Viking, a horseless cowgirl and more. The kids imagine new stories in written form, spoken word and art. But when the jar tips over, its ideas spilling out, the imagination overflow threatens to overwhelm the class. Advocating the value of imaginative focus, the Idea Jar offers ideal guidance for jump-starting imaginative journeys.

Use Your Imagination

by Nicola O’Byrne (Nosy Crow / Candlewick) Lamenting his boredom, a young rabbit is approached by a wolf with a solution. Claiming to be a librarian, Wolf suggests they write a story together. Observing what big ears Wolf has (better for listening to stories) and what big eyes he has (better for reading stories), Rabbit is reminded of another well-known tale. So as Wolf guides Rabbit through his imaginings, the evolving story’s setting (a forest), costuming (a red cape) and a villain (a wolf) all begin to point to a bad ending. With his own sly vision, Rabbit harnesses his powers of imagination and engages them to craft a new tale that flips the script on an old story that’s not boring at all.

Red Again

by Barbara Lehman (Houghton Mifflin Harcourt) Biking beside a wintery canal, a young boy discovers a red book on the ground. Scooping it up, he retreats to his ocean view reading spot to explore the found book. His first page view reveals a child in a boat...with a red book floating in the water nearby. Retrieving it from the water, the second child opens the book revealing a window back into the first boy’s canal side world. As the children marvel at their magical connection, the book watches their worlds draw closer. Author of the wordless Caldecott Honor title, The Red Book, Lehman returns with a brilliant follow-up that captures the power of imagination, as a simple action leads characters (and readers) on wonderful journeys that transcend reality.

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Martin knew early on she wanted to be a teacher. “I had many great role models whom I saw making a difference in the lives of the students they worked with. I wanted to be one of those people making the difference in the life of a child.” “It warms my heart to see her interact with the kids when I am there,” said Bradshaw. “She is an amazing teacher.” One of the ways Martin hopes she’s making a difference is by teaching her students that each day is a new start. She’s also working to help develop their character. “There are things that happen in this world that are outside of our control, but one thing I try to teach my students is that we can control our actions, our attitudes, and our choices.” Martin says there are many rewarding things about being a teacher but says one thing that really stands out is when a former student, or parent of a former student, stops her to say thank you. “I hope each student knows that I truly love them and pray for them each day.” Amanda Martin has a Masters in Elementary Education from Troy University-Dothan. She is married to Jon Martin. They have two sons, Aiden and Evan.

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Autauga County Schools

Providence Christian 7th-Graders Give Back

Seventh-graders at Providence Christian School were inducted into eight houses. The program encourages leadership skills, community service and fellowship among students. Each house served the community on August 17. House of Lewis traveled to Rose Hill Senior Center, Wilberforce House served the Children’s Home, and King Alfred House seved at the Wiregrass Food Bank.

Highlands Holds Monthly Fundraiser

Highlands Elementary School is holding a Denim Day fundraiser the last Friday of each month. For $2, students can wear jeans with either their uniform shirt, grade level T-shirt, or team shirt. Students can pay individually each Denim Day or can prepay for the rest of the year. Teachers will keep a list of any students who prepay.

Please email news and photos to schoolnews @wiregrassparents.com by the 8th of each month!

Montana Magnet Needs Volunteers for Annual Learn-a-Thon

Kids and teachers look forward to seeing the crazy skits and amazing sets our parents come up with year after year. It’s truly a magical transformation at our school! If you are a Montana parent and haven’t had the chance to volunteer with LAT before, now is the time. Your kids will love seeing you on the stag or knowing that you helped convert a classroom into a new destination! Learn-a-Thon is set for October 5. Mark your calendars! Let us know that you want to help and we’ll send you the details. Contact LAT chair Ashley McGee at agm1226@yahoo.com. Wiregrass Parents I October 2018

Providence Christian School Senior Aces ACT

Providence Christian School senior Micah Dorsey made a perfect score on the ACT! After graduating from PCS, Dorsey is set to attend Auburn University, where he’ll either major in engineering or seek a degree that will prepare him for the medical field. Dorsey is currently an A Honor Roll student with a 4.67 GPA who finds time to play on the varsity football and basketball teams, volunteer with the Boys and Girls Club, stay active in his church, and manage summer construction and lawn care jobs. 12

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Heard Magnet Reaches National Certification

Heard Magnet School has been named a nationally certified magnet school by Magnet Schools of America (MSA), the national association for magnet and theme-based schools! The national certification process is based on the Standards of Excellence and the five pillars of magnet schools: diversity, innovative curriculum and professional development, academic excellence, high-quality instructional systems, and family and community partnerships. Together, these qualities define the common elements of exemplary magnet programs. We are so proud of our school and this recognition. Congratulations to every family, teacher, staff member and administrator at Heard Magnet School!

Wiregrass Schools Awarded by State

Five Wiregrass schools are among 50 schools in the state that will receive $20,000 each for third-grade reading gains in the 2017-18 school year. Kinston School (Coffee County), Highlands Elementary (Dothan City), Geneva County Elementary (Geneva County), Samson Elementary (Geneva County), and Slocomb Elementary (Geneva County) schools will each receive a check from the Alabama State Department of Education. It’s a way of recognizing and incentivizing teachers and students who have worked hard to achieve proficiency in reading by the third grade in last year’s Scantron Performance Series Reading Assessment.

Houston Academy Cheerleaders Pin it Forward

Houston Academy cheerleaders Libby McDonald and Lily Woods were honored to be pinned in the UCA “Pin it Forward” cheerleading campaign recently. In addition, McDonald, Maya Brown and Claire Faulk were chosen as All-American cheerleaders when they went to UCA camp at The University of Alabama in the early part of the summer.

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Rehobeth Elementary School Names Beta Officers

Student leadership starts strong at Rehobeth Elementary. The following students are new officers in our Beta Club: Emerson Trotter, president; Laney Anderson, vice president; Kerigan Freeman, secretary; Charlee Chandler, chaplain; and Harper Layton, historian.

Ashford High School Good Citizen

On August 24, an Ashford Jacket showed his true character, even when no one was actually looking. That morning, Logan, a 7th grader at Ashford High School, arrived at school ready to finish the week with class, break, lunch, and all the activities of First Football Friday. He also had $40 cash to pay his Beta dues. Somehow in the rush to get out of the car and into the building, Logan lost his $40. To a 7th-grader who is trying to retrace his steps to find that cash, it may as well be $1,000! He went to his teacher, who asked for an announcement to be made about the missing money. Maybe someone had found it and would do the right thing by turning it in. Little did Logan and his teacher know that someone had already found his $40 in the parking lot, and had already done the right thing and turned it in to the office! Bryce, a freshman, had found Logan’s money and immediately took it to the office. We are so proud of our students at AHS every day, but when we hear of these great stories, we are even prouder! Bryce, we weren’t looking this morning when you found that money, but because of your honesty and willingness to do the right thing, we are looking at you now, and we’re proud to say thanks for being a Good Citizen! Wiregrass Parents I October 2018

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Rehobeth High School Ambassadors

The following students have been selected to serve as Rehobeth High School Ambassadors along with the returning Ambassadors for 2018-2019: Savanna Adams, Riley Pollard, Hannah Seales, Aiden Armstrong and Kaitlyn Tindell. Thank you to all of the students who applied and went through the selection process this year for RHS Ambassadors. We will have selections again in April, so we encourage everyone who was not selected to reapply.

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Providence Christian School SHINEs

Providence Christian School had an awesome time worshiping together as a school family at SHINE! Mark Hall from Casting Crowns led us in such a meaningful and special time of praise to our God. Thank you to everyone who attended! 14

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Rehobeth Student Chosen DAR Good Citizen

Rehobeth High School student Andrew Warren was recently chosen as a Good Citizen by the Daughters of the American Revolution.

Selma Street Elementary Supply Drive

Office Depot is collecting supplies for Selma Street Elementary School in their effort to lend a hand to schools in need. Donations can be made through September 29th.

Carver Middle Magnet School Book Fair

1001 Webb Road, Dothan, October 1 - October 5 Our Scholastic Book Fair is a reading event that brings kids the books they want to read. Weâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll receive a wonderful selection of engaging and affordable books for every reading level, and all purchases benefit our school! Reading for pleasure inside and outside of school has real and long-lasting benefits. Please come to our book fair and help shape your childâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s reading habits.

Rehobeth Elementary 5th-Graders Raise Flag

We are so proud of our student leadership at Rehobeth. These 5th-grade boys make sure our national and state flags are properly cared for and displayed every day! 15

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Enterprise Junior Women’s Club Mother-Son Fall Ball

Enterprise Stars Dancing for Scholarships

October 18 at Enterprise Civic Center Dinner at 6:15 pm and Show at 7 pm Performers include: Erin Tullos, Sonya Rich, Terri Dunn, Melanie Garner, Allison Robley, Will Searcy, Josh Stewart, Danny Long, John Baker, and Brad Johnson. For more information and tickets, contact the ESCC Business Office.

Saturday, October 27, 5 to 8 pm FUMC Fellowship Hall, 217 S. Main Street, Enterprise Benefitting Pathways Home for Girls Sunday attire and $25 per person. For more info or tickets, contact any EJWC member or Candi Henderson at 718.4776.

Ashford High Wants Your Pop Tabs

Ashford High School’s Jr. Beta is collecting pop tabs for the Ronald McDonald House Charities of Alabama. Send your tabs to school with any Jr. Beta member, or drop them by and we will get them to Mr. McCardle or Mrs. McArdle! Feel free to share so all of your friends can start saving for us too!

Holly Hill is #JaylenStrong

Zion Chapel Appoints SGA Officers

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This year, Holly Hill Elementary is going #jaylenstrong. Jaylen Burnice, a 4th-grade student at Holly Hill, was diagnosed this summer with T Cell Lymphoblastic Lymphoma, a rare, fastgrowing form of cancer. He and his mother are required to travel to Birmingham three times a week for his treatments. Not only is Burnice a student at HHE, but his grandmother, Ms. Mary, is our beloved friend and custodian, and continues to work hard to keep our school beautiful. We are collecting can tabs for the Ronald McDonald house, which provides rooms for families while their loved one receives treatment. It is our hope to help Burnice and his family as much as we can. Burnice is strong and determined to return to the football field to play for his Wildcats. We are asking the community to rally around him and support him through this difficult time. We will be doing several fundraisers through the year to help. One simple way of showing support is our Wildcat Wednesday. Burnice loves his Wildcat family and we are asking everyone to wear blue or white every Wednesday. You can also visit the Facebook page “Prayers For Jaylen” for updates. Let’s show Burnice the support he needs and be #jaylenstrong.

Congratulations to our 2018-19 Zion Chapel High School Student Government Association officers: Kerry Hussey, president; Savannah Parker, vice president; Stetson Adcock, secretary; Brianna Davis, treasurer; and Chloe Meadows, reporter.

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‘Filling Buckets’ at Pinedale

The Bucket Filler Program at Pinedale Elementary is a schoolwide behavior initiative that encourages students to lift others up with positive comments and actions (fill someone’s bucket), instead of putting others down (dipping from someone’s bucket). Faculty and staff are asked to nominate students they view being bucket fillers, and on “Bucket Filler Friday,” a student’s name is drawn and that student receives a Bucket Filler certificate, a free ice cream, and their picture on the bucket filler of the week poster in the hall for the week. We look forward to having “full buckets” this year at Pinedale. Kallie Bruce was chosen as a Bucket Filler the week of August 27. She is a second-grade student in Sharon Vaughan’s class.

Coppinville Hosts Community Open House

Coppinville Junior High School student leaders welcomed Enterprise citizens to the new school August 28 for a Community Open House. The students loved talking about their classes and clubs, the new building, and sharing their leadership roles! CJHS also hosted the August ECS School Board Meeting in the media center, and a dinner for board members and special guests in Flex A.

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Enterprise High Names Educator of the Year

At right, congratulations to Suzanne Taylor for being named Educator of the Year at Enterprise High School. Taylor’s dedication and love for her students is second to none. We are very fortunate to have her at EHS.

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New Brockton’s Senior Class Chooses Officers

New Brockton High School appointed new officers for its Senior Class of 2019. President is Savannah Hughes; vice president is Caitlyn Nolin; secretary is Dallas Luckett; and treasurer is Paige Bright.

Coffee County Administrators Recognize Kinston 4th-Graders

Headland Middle PTO Funds New Lockers

One of Headland Middle School PTO’s projects for last year was to raise money to purchase new lockers for 7th grade. We are proud to announce with your support, we were able to purchase them and have them installed right before school started. It’s great to see students putting them to great use. Thank you for your continuing support of the PTO so we can make a difference in our school.

The Coffee County Schools central office administrators and Board of Education members celebrated Kinston School fourth-graders and their teachers for their outstanding Scantron reading test scores last year as third-graders by throwing a surprise party in their honor. This group has been recognized by the ALSDE as one of the fifty highest-scoring groups in reading based on growth.

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Abbeville Christian Maps/Land Surveying

Andy Bush came and spoke to Abbeville Christian Academy’s physical science class about maps and land surveying. Then the class took Bush and Mrs. Carlisle on a scavenger hunt to read their hand-drawn maps and clues looking for a hidden item! Thanks, Mr. Bush, for sharing your knowledge with the class! Wiregrass Parents I October 2018

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Planet Fundraiser App Helps Geneva County Elementary

Download the Planet Fundraiser app and help support Geneva County Elementary! You can scan receipts from participating merchants and the school will receive money.This is an easy way to help our school. Please remember to choose Geneva County Elementary to support in the dropdown box on the app.

Lisenby Primary Going Gold for Childhood Cancer Awareness

A Lisenby Primary School student has been diagnosed with cancer and the school is rallying around his family in order to help with travel expenses. Fundraisers include: “Change Wars” — Send loose change to fill up canisters for each grade level to see who will win! “Hat Day” — Students can send $1 on Fridays in September to wear hats! “Pray for JaMarcus Bracelets” — Anyone in the community or school can purchase a bracelet for $5.

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Headland High School Ring Ceremony

The Headland High School junior class received class rings August 16 during a special ring-turning ceremony. Congratulations to the Class of 2020!

Early County Middle Holds Birthday Book Program

Georgia Superintendent Donates Books to Early County

Georgia Superintendent of Schools Richard Woods made a stop in Early County August 14. Woods, on behalf of the Georgia Department of Education, donated 1,000 books to the Early County School System. He was welcomed by Early County Elementary School’s 5th-grade ambassadors. Woods offered his support and appreciation to rural school systems in south Georgia. Representative Gerald Greene also came to offer his help and support.

Dr. Gina Gaines, 6th-grade ELA/ social studies teacher, is pictured with her daughter, Lorie Clenney, ECSS director of student services. In honor of Clenney’s birthday, Gaines donated a book to the Early County Middle School library. Celebrate your child’s birthday by purchasing a hardback book to donate to the school’s library in his or her honor. Choose a copy of a favorite book for students to enjoy for years to come. We will put a commemorative bookplate on the inside of the book with both of your names and the honoree’s birthdate. Your child will be given the opportunity to be the first one to check your donated book out from the library. For more info, call (229) 723-3746.

Early County High School Girls’ Tennis Team Fundraiser

The Early County High School girls’ tennis team is selling Tervis tumblers. Orders must be turned in by October 5. Cups will be delivered before Christmas break. See a team member or Coach Mary Gaines to order. Wiregrass Parents I October 2018

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Community Donors Help with New School Year

Webb Elementary and Houston County Schools had several good Samaritans assist before the new school year with school supply donations. Below, Smyrna Baptist Church not only donated school supplies but also covered the school with prayer.

First Baptist Columbia also made a substantial donation!

Below are school supplies donated by New Freedom Church. We appreciate your support!

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Apps Stirring Up Trouble in Schools

snaps within a 24-hour period. The longest streaks number in the thousands of days -- and some kids maintain streaks with multiple people. Tik Tok - including musical.ly. What started as a lip-synching app is now a hugely popular, full-fledged videosharing service. The ability to “go live” at any time -- meaning to stream yourself live (yes, on the internet) -- has added a whole ‘nother level to the time tweens and teens can spend dancing, singing, pranking, and performing skits to music or other recorded sounds. While much of the content is fine, a lot of it is extremely iffy for kids, and when you watch it, you can see plenty recorded during the school day. Games such as Fortnite and HQ Live Trivia Game Show (HQ for short). Fortnite has all the hallmarks of being a teacher’s worst nightmare: It’s easy to play, highly social, and super compelling. The hugely popular survival game is played in short bursts (until you die -- which is often), so it’s tailor-made for students trying to get a bit of fun in between lunch and algebra class. Some schools are banning the game, leading to knockoff versions that get around the school network’s blacklist. HQ is the smash-hit trivia game that’s played for real prize money. Each 12-minute game is hosted live as hundreds of thousands of players log in to answer 12 multiple-choice questions on a wide variety of trivia topics. Games usually take place twice on weekdays and once on weekends (the company experiments with different airtimes to keep players on their toes). Sponsors including Nike and Warner Bros., and big jackpots timed with massive events such as the NBA finals, show that HQ is actively cultivating a young audience. Homework helpers such as Photomath, Slader, and, of course, Google. What do you do if you’ve been goofing off all day, or just feverishly multitasking, and can’t finish your geometry problems? Look ‘em up. Apps that supply all the answers are only a few taps away. And don’t even get us started on home assistants like Siri, Alexa, and Google Home, all of which can be programmed to provide tutor-like assistance. People finders such as Find My Friends and Mappen. Kids love being in touch with their friends 24/7/365, and location apps make it easy to arrange get-togethers and make plans with your posse. But these apps have a dark side, too. Kids feel pressured to be “on” all the time, partly because of friends’ expectations that one should always be available. Stalking -either of your kid or by your kid -- can be a major issue. And, riskiest of all, some location-aware apps encourage face-to-face meet-ups with strangers.

Ask any middle or high school teacher about their classroom frustrations, and you’ll probably hear “cellphones.” Makes sense. Today, 95 percent of teens have access to a cellphone, and nearly half say they’re on them “constantly.” Putting aside for a moment the need to find solutions to this problem, inquiring minds want to know: What the heck is on kids’ phones that they can’t go an entire class without them? Two words: killer apps. Specifically, the ones that play into the tween and teen brain’s need for stimulation and peer approval and its weakness for thinking through consequences. To stay a few steps ahead, teachers are doubling down on their efforts to keep kids focused, starting with strategies for managing device distraction and teaching kids selfcontrol and media balance. But you can help your student by discussing this issue at home. In fact, by simply being aware of some of the key apps that tend to stir up trouble in schools, whether due to social drama, distraction, or something worse -- like cheating -- you can start a conversation with your kid that could save them and the teacher a lot of headaches. And while you don’t have to know every single detail of all the popular apps, it helps to have an awareness of when, why, and how they’re being used and to help your kid manage their own use and that of their friends. Most teachers would probably agree that the internet has been a mostly positive aspect of the middle and high school years. But students, with the support of parents, need to use it responsibly. Check out some of the apps that can potentially stir up drama in schools this year:

Snapchat. The original disappearing-message app has metamorphosed into a megaportal for chatting, finding your friends on a map, sharing images, reading the news, watching videos, and much, much more. As one of the most important apps for teens, it takes up a significant portion of their day. One of those time-consuming activities that occupy students during the school day is Snapstreaks, which require users to trade Wiregrass Parents I October 2018

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money at an early age. We’ve given nice gifts to our kids, but the difference is they also worked and made money for themselves. The gifts we gave them were for special occasions. Showering our kids with money and expensive toys all the time was not our way of life. In this situation, your wife is allowing them to be nothing but consumers. I know she loves them, but they’re not learning how to work, and they’re not learning how to save or give. This is setting them up for a lifetime of unrealistic expectations. If something doesn’t happen to change things, you’re going to end

up with two spoiled little girls, who think they should be given everything their entire lives. Still, I think the biggest problem is you and your wife are experiencing a communication and marital breakdown. If the kids weren’t in the picture, I’ve got a feeling the same problems would exist. The difference is they would manifest themselves in other ways. Obviously, your wife needs to stop being so impulsive where the kids are concerned. Try sitting down with her, and gently explaining your feelings. Let your wife know you love her and how generous she is, but you’re worried this is having a negative impact on your children. Maybe you could try to establish some guidelines as to when really nice gifts are appropriate, too. There’s a middle ground you can reach, but it’s going to take some time and effort. Most of all, it means the two of you are going to have to communicate and work together for the good of your kids.

ID Theft Protection Q. Where in the Baby Steps does identity theft protection fall? Should we cover the kids, too, or only the adults in our household? A. Everyone needs identity theft protection.

Unless you’re one of these folks who have gone completely off the grid, someone out there probably has a few of your numbers. Between sloppiness on the part of consumers, and the massive data breaches that have occurred in the last few years, almost everyone has experienced, or will experience, some sort of identity theft. Unfortunately, this is today’s world. I don’t really consider identity theft protection part of the Baby Steps. It’s like life insurance or car insurance, in that it’s something almost everyone needs. Things like that should just be part of your budget every month.

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ParentingToday’sTeens by Mark Gregston

Communicating with Teens Every parent of a teenager wants to build a strong line of communication with their teen. But sadly, the opposite is most often true. I’d like to share with you some simple tips to improve your communications with your teen. You may wonder what the best timing is for building good lines of communication with your teen or pre-teen. That’s simple. Do it NOW, before problems, struggles and difficulties begin. And never stop working at it, even when there is conflict. As your children move from the elementary years into early adolescence, it’s essential that you adapt your style of communication to the changes taking place with your child. What was non-hormonal, now becomes laced with hormones. Total dependence moves closer to independence, and that affects how your teen interacts with you. Unless you change with them, there will be conflict and broken communications. The hope is that we, as parents, become that place of rest for our kids, a place where they might be restored. Too many times parents become a place of added burden or hardship, or an extra “measure” of correction, when correcting, and a life of training, has already been done. Moms have the tendency to do the “Energizer bunny” communication that just keeps on going. And dads have that tendency to tune out when communication is most needed. Moms, your over-correcting does not provide the rest your child needs. And dad, your refusal to speak up does not restore. What is crucial for your child is the Wiregrass Parents I October 2018

balance of the mom and dad mix, which will result in that place of rest. But to achieve this balance, it is important for us as parents to transition with our children, to change our style of communication. If we can successfully make this transition, then the day when our children begin to struggle or have difficulties, and desperately need someone to talk to, we are the ones they will turn to. Now, let me give you some advice on how to build that bridge– how to make that transition… Start by laying down some new rules, not ones that dictate, but those that invite. In fact, these are rules for yourself, not as much for your child, including making it a priority to have one-on-one time with your child. For example, you might state that a new rule for your house is to go on a motherdaughter, or father-son special vacation each year. Another might be a Joke Night that gets everyone laughing, just laughing, no spiritual lesson attached, just pure fun time together. Ask thoughtful questions… create a sense of wonder. Instead of always telling your child the answers, offer them thoughtful questions. And remember, not every question has to be answered immediately, or at all. They will learn to think on their own, and begin to ask you questions as you model one who asks questions. The questions themselves can lead to the right answers, without preaching. …and wait to be invited. Hold off on the tendency to always drive the conver24

sation and share your own opinions Don’t break genuine interest, but poignant moments of silence (especially when they are not accustomed to silence from you) will move a child to ask, “What do you think?” Try not to force your opinion unless it is invited. “I Was Wrong” diffuses difficult discussions. If you handled a situation poorly, admit where you were wrong. You will take the fuse out of the firecracker when you do that. Once you admit you blew it, the issue can no longer be held against you. Anger puts up barriers and must always be diffused before communications will open up. Give them respect… consider others to be more important. Easy to say, and sometimes tough to do. It’s basically putting your child first and showing them respect, even as you demand that of them. This should affect the way you speak to them (you wouldn’t yell at, belittle, or talk down to someone you respect), the way you discipline, the way you show grace and the way you respond when you are disappointed and upset. I want to challenge you today to commit to building a relationship with your child, and that starts with good communications. Make time to communicate and really get to know your teen. And no matter how strained or difficult your relationship might be, there is always HOPE. It may take time and persistence, but keep at it in a loving and natural way and they will eventually open up.

Mark Gregston is an author, speaker, radio host, and the founder of a residential counseling center for struggling teens located in Longview, Texas. Mark’s passion for helping teens can be seen in his 40 years of involvement with families as a youth pastor, Young Life area director, and now, as the Executive Director of Heartlight, where he has lived with and helped over 2,700 teens. To find out more about Mark and his ministry to parents and teens, you can visit www.HeartlightMinistries.org or www.ParentingTodaysTeens.org.

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The Best Things Under the Sun

Recommending the Best Toys and Products for Kids

Every child on earth lives under the same sun. It illuminates their days, and even the moon reflects the sun’s glow at night. But beyond the light we see and the warmth we feel from the sun, the light from Earth’s star also provides boundless energy. Our kids are the generation that will see the broadest expansion of solar energy utilized in their living landscape. Introducing sunlight’s power and potential to kids offers an early understanding of their energy future. From solar panels to solar printing, the following items foster a brilliant exploration of the sun at its best.

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Solar Power

SunPrint Kit

Harnessing a clean and abundant source of power, solar panels are a key component for using the sun’s energy. The Solar Power kit from Thames & Kosmos offers materials to assemble six solar models including a locomotive, single prop plane, bulldozer, helicopter, backhoe, and twin rotor helicopter. Each vehicle is powered by a solar panel with three solar cells that generate 1.5 volts of electricity in bright sunlight, like a AA battery. The panel is adjustable so it can be positioned to collect maximum light for maximum movement. Beyond the included models, the panel can also be used to power unique creations and even charge AA batteries. Combining solar science with innovative modeling, this kit shines a light on the sun’s energy and how it can run the world.

Every image, every photograph we see results from the composition and capture of light. The earliest photography essentially recorded an image on light sensitive paper. SunPrint revisits this process in its most basic form. Using the kit’s light sensitive paper, creative minds (young and old) can experiment with directing sunlight to expose a brilliant variety of images. From fern fronds and favorite toys to scissored shapes and stencils, objects laid on the photosensitive paper and exposed to sunlight for a few minutes leave their shape imprinted on the paper. Whisked into a saltwater bath to ‘fix’ the solar-generated image, the result is part art, part science and all kinds of amazing. Teaching the first fundamentals of photography, creating unique art and sparking scientific inquiry, The SunPrint Kit offers a captivating exploration of light and shadow.

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Animated by solar power, the T4 Transforming Solar Robot is next level modelling for mechanically-minded youth. With just a few tools and a bit of patience, older kids can craft a variety of mobile robots that are powered by sunlight. Featuring cool components that can add moving jaws, walking legs, and rolling wheels to the robot, builders can choose operational modes for their model that include T-rex, insect, robot and driller. Assembling different forms requires a steady hand, so this kit is best appreciated by kid ten and up. Transforming young engineers’ understanding of solar power, the T4 Robot combines fun and sun in this learning adventure.

Bringing the science of sunlight right into the room, the Kikkerland Rainbow Maker uses swarovski crystals to translate natural light into the varied palette of colors that compose it. Attached to a sunny window the Rainbow Maker uses solar energy to propel gears that move the prism in the sunlight. The shape of a prism effectively bends sunlight and splits it into its component colors as light passes through it. In full sun, the twisting prism projects a colorful rainbow of light into the room. Much like the sunlight filtered through the clear remnants of rain to naturally create the massive rainbows in the sky, the Kikkerland Rainbow Maker simply draws down the process to a smaller scale, illuminating the room through solar science.

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Halloween has always been an exciting holiday for kids. They get dressed up, hang out with friends and know that a simple â&#x20AC;&#x153;Trick or Treatâ&#x20AC;? means free candy. As our kids hit middle school, their days of trick or treating reluctantly come to an end. In an effort to keep the holiday fun for teens, why not throw a party?

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I know what you thinking – “How am I going to come up with entertainment that is not lame and that will keep everyone amused?” Simple! Check out these ten teen approved party games that will challenge, gross out and deliver hours of good times and laughter. But beware, if the kids have too much fun at your party, they will want you to host again next year!

Go Fishing

– Fill a small swimming pool with water and live goldfish. On the bottom of the pool, place several marbles. Set as many chairs around the pool as will fit. Ask your guests to sit in the chairs and remove their shoes and socks. That’s right, they are going fishing for marbles with their feet. Add a little fear and anticipation by blindfolding the participants or turning off the lights.

Pumpkin Face

– Have the kids put a layer of Vaseline on their faces. Pour several cheeseballs on a long table. On go, each person has to cover their face with cheese balls without using their hands. Set the timer for one minute and the person with the most cheeseballs wins. This is a great photo opportunity!

dren’s book and a magnet. Break everyone up into groups of 4 or 5. Each group has to create a crime scene based on the items in the bag and present it to the group. This is a great activity to do while you are serving dinner.

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plastic eggs or plastic pumpkins with candy and hide around the room or outdoors. Take advantage of the early setting sun and search for the eggs with flashlights. Try adding a few tricks instead of treats and fill some of the eggs with worms, crickets or cow eyes from the local butcher shop. (Be sure to open the eggs outside!)

Bubble Gum Pie

– Fill a pie plate with whipped cream and bury a couple pieces of bubble inside. Using only their face, the first kid to find the bubble gum, chew it and blow a bubble, wins.

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different candy bars in the microwave. Be sure to crush up any large pieces. Place the melted mess inside a clean disposable diaper and place on the table. Have

the kids smell or taste what’s in the diaper to determine what candy bar it is.

Fear Factor - Egg Roulette Hard boil 12 eggs and let cool

in refrigerator. Place eggs on a table in front of your guests. Tell the kids that there is one raw egg among the hardboiled eggs. Challenge them to find it by choosing an egg and smashing it on their forehead. Get your cameras ready. Their expressions will be priceless!

LCR

– This is a great way to end the night. LCR is a popular dice game that can be played with any size group. You can either purchase the LCR dice or use regular dice and determine which number is L, C and R. Normally you would play with chips or coins, but since it is Halloween, let’s use candy. Every player starts with three candies. As you roll, the candy goes to the left, right or into a bowl in the center. The winner is the person holding the last piece of candy! WP Pam Molnar is a freelance writer and mom of two teens and a tween. All of their parties include good food, lots of laughter and of course, games!

Plastic Wrap Mummy Race – Break the group into teams.

Choose one person from each team to wrap in plastic wrap (from the neck down). As soon as the mummy is wrapped, the team has to gently lower him to the ground and roll him down the race course. When he gets to the finish line, you need to stand him back up and completely unwrap him. For a longer race, rewrap the next person and race back down to the other end.

Coins and Crickets

– Fill a large jar (like a sun tea jar) with 20 crickets from the pet store. Place several coins on the bottom of the jar and have each player try to pick up 5 coins. Make it more challenging by having the kids pick up only dimes or choose the winner based on the least amount of money (not coins) collected.

Create a Crime Scene

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Dates: October 5 Location: Downtown Dothan

Grab your costume and head to the last Foster Fest of 2018. Halloween Costume Contest for the kids with great prizes. Live music, vendors, cars, bikes and jeeps, and other special performances. It’s going to be a THRILLER!

(334) 699-8118 jessica@dothandowntown.org www.downtowndothan.org

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Dates: October 27 Location: Northview Plaza,

1924 Reeves St., Dothan Plan to spend a great Fall day holiday shopping and enjoying BBQ, and other delectable foods, sweets and goodies in our Sweet Shop & Tea Room. Plan to holiday shop and see juried Artists and Craft Vendors display their beautiful, homemade and unique wares.

(334) 446-8106

Kolomoki Festival

2018 Intertribal Pow Wow

Dates: October 13 Location: Kolomoki Mounds

River Landing Park, 269 River Landing Rd., Chattahoochee, FL 32424 Drumming, Dancing, Dance Exhibitions, Native American Food, Momma Martins Famous FRIED BREAD, Story Telling, Native American Crafts and much more. Free admittance.

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State Park, Blakely, GA 39823 Join us in the day use area for a day full of fun and entertainment. Live music, Native American demonstrators, food vendors and crafts for the whole family. Watch the tractor parade or enjoy the bounce house. Fun for the whole family!

(229) 724-2150

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Dates: Saturdays 9:00 a.m.-6:00 p.m.; Sundays

11:00 a.m.-6:00 p.m.; Columbus Day: Monday, October 8 8:00 a.m.-4:00 p.m.; Field Trips & Groups: Weekdays by reservation only Location: 894 C.R. 79 South, Eufaula, AL 36027 Each Fall, we transform the farm into Paradise Pumpkin Patch & Farm Festival, providing attractions and activities to delight kids from two to ninety-two. Work a cane mill. Try out old hand water pumps. Listen to a working windmill and browse the barn filled with antique farm equipment, animals and tack. Hop aboard a tractor-pulled hayride that will take you to the corn maze, pumpkin patch, and cotton field. Admission is $12.50, children under 2 are free, and Seniors (65+) are $10.

Dates: October 12-14 Location: Chattahoochee

(850) 209-7083 Chattahoocheepowwow@gmail.com

2nd Annual Arts and Craft Bazaar

Dates: November 16-17 Location: Chamber of

Commerce, 750 S. Daleville Ave., Daleville, AL We will have vendors that have one of a kind arts and crafts to purchase for yourself or a gift for Christmas. For more information about the Bazaar or if you want to be a vendor at the Bazaar, contact Nancy at the chamber.

(334) 598-6331 www.dalevilleareachamber.com

events of Archery, BB Guns, Fishing, Hiking and Games. The deadline to register is October 19. (334) 793-7882 www.bsa3.org/AkelaCubs

Alabama Cotton Festival

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Dates: October 13 Location: Eclectic, AL

Arts and crafts, food vendors, Kids Zone, Chicken Race, Car Show, and more!

(334) 541-4429 eclecticcity@elmore.rr.com www.townofeclectic.com

Alabama National Fair

Dates: September 28-October 8 Location: Garrett

Coliseum, 1555 Federal Dr., Montgomery, AL Midway rides, entertainment including Trace Adkins, Fantasia and Rush of Fools, food, information and commercial booths, kids area, livestock and other competitions, family faith day, and more!

(334) 272-6831 anf@alnationalfair.org www.alnationalfair.org

Andersonville Historic Fair

Dates: October 6-7 Location: Andersonville Civil

War Village, 109 E. Church St., Andersonville, GA Hundreds of Civil War reenactors set up camps and stage two realistic mock battles. Civil War era memorabillia available for purchase. Parade, live music, period dance, antiques, arts and crafts, food, and children’s activities.

(229) 924-2558 www.andersonvillegeorgia.info

Annual Christmas Bazaar

Dates: November 17 Location: Pike Co. Cattle-

5K Zombie Run

Complex, 8110 John Pitts Rd, Panama City, FL Running Scared is a 5K course that ventures into zombie infested woods and trails of Harder’s Park. Benefitting The Arc of the Bay/St. Andrew Bay Center.

men’s Association-Cattlemen Park, 4100 US Hwy 231 North, Troy, AL Come find great handmade items that make perfect Christmas gifts. Arts, crafts, clothing, food vendors, and Santa.

Abbeville Trunk or Treat

AOPA Monster Mash Dash 5K Glow Run/Walk

Dates: October 27 Location: HG Harders Rec

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Dates: October 27 Location: Andalusia City Hall, 505

(334) 695-2258 hawkinsridge@earthlink.net www.paradisepumpkinpatch.com

Dates: October 30 Location: Downtown Abbeville

18th Annual Pumpkin Patch

(334) 585-2273

Methodist Church, 1380 W. Main St., Dothan The annual fundraiser raises money for youth mission trips. Patch Hours are Monday through Friday 10:00am-6:00pm , Saturdays 9:00am-7:00pm and Sundays 2:00pm-6:00pm until October 31st.

Akela Cubs Weekend

(334) 222-3312

C.R. 156, New Brockton, AL This year’s annual Family Camp Event theme is “Alaflo Halloween Monster Mash”. Events will include a Scarecrow Contest as well as the usual

Aplin Farms

Dates: October 1-30 Location: First United

(334) 793-3555 www.fumcdothan.org

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Dates: October 27-28 Location: Camp Alaflo, 830

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E. Three Notch St., Andalusia, AL 36420 Calling all ghouls and goblins! Race in your costume... if you dare! Run/Walk awards and costume contest prizes awarded. We will also have a spooky DJ!

Dates: October 1-31 Monday-Saturday 8 a.m.-5 p.m. Location: 2729 N County Road 49, Dothan, AL

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(334) 726-5104 john@aplinfarms.com

Calico Holiday Arts and Crafts Show

Backyard Orchards

W. Yount St., Moultrie, GA A one-stop shopping extravaganza. Approximately 300 vendors featuring fine arts, handmade crafts and hand-decorated items. Food and refreshments as well as clogging performances.

Welcome to our celebration of 10 years of farm fun in the Wiregrass! Enjoy the taste of fall with over 24 attractions included with admission ($14 INCLUDING tax). Lots of yummy food available-chicken tenders, The Boss Hawg, kettle corn, boiled peanuts, snow cones, and more! Check out the 7 acre corn maze in our very own “Field of Dreams”!

Dates: September 27-November 1 Location: 6585 Hwy. 431 North, Eufaula, AL

Take a wagon ride to the maze, sunflower, cotton, and pumpkin patch. The kids will enjoy playing in our cotton seed wagon and corn bins plus lots more! 2 and under are free. Admission includes one pumpkin per person! $10 per person.

(334) 695-5875 backyardorchards@hotmail.com www.backyardorchards.com

Blakely Pumpkins on the Square

Dates: October 25 Location: Court Square,

Blakely, GA Pumpkin decorating contest, pet costume contest, kids’ costume contests with cutest, scariest and most original. Photo op stations, games, and prizes.

(229) 723-3741 info@blakelyearlycountychamber.org www.blakelyearlycountychamber.org

Boggs and Boulders Halloween Ride

Dates: October 26-28 Location: Boggs and

Boulders Off Road Park and Campground, 20133 Brooklyn Rd., Brooklyn, AL Bring your costumes and make sure your rides are ready and lights are working for the night ride!

(251) 578-4333 www.boggsandboulders.com

Boll Weevil Festival

Dates: October 27 Location: Downtown,

Enterprise, AL Explore our amazing retail shops and restaurants or visit one of the many vendors lined up and down Main and College Street. There will be a costume contest for kids up to 12 years of age, live music, entertainmment from our local community perform-

(334) 347-0581 chamber@enterpriseal.com

Dates: November 10-11 Location: Spence Field,

Dates: Weekends in October Location: 1555 Knowles Rd., Headland, AL

(229) 985-1968 info@calicocrafts.com www.calicocrafts.com

(334) 726-1485 amanda@corndodgersfarm.com www.corndodgersfarm.com

Claybank Jamboree

Court Square Scarecrows

Family Friendly Festival: Arts & Crafts Vendors, Variety of Food Vendors, Live Entertainment, Children’s Activities & MUCH MORE!

Henry Co. Courthouse Lawn, Abbeville, AL You can get in the spirit by participating in Abbeville’s annual Court Square Scarecrows. Businesses, organizations, families and individuals are invited to design and display scarecrows on the Court Square Lawn beginning October 8th, 2018 Participants must register their entries with the Abbeville Chamber of Commerce.

Dates: October 6 Location: Downtown, Ozark, AL

(334) 774-9321 director@ozarkalchamber.com www.ozarkchamber.com

Columbia Manor Haunted House

Dates: October 5-6, 11-13, 18-20, 25-27, 30-31 Location: 306 S. Main St., Columbia, AL

Travel back in time as former residents return from the afterlife accompanied by some familiar friends as you tour through their past abode known now as COLUMBIA MANOR. General Admission $13; Fast Pass $30 (334) 790-3335 www.columbiamanor.com

Cookies and Canvas: Not So Scary Scarecrow

Dates: October 13 Location: All About Art,

100 S. Main St., Enterprise, AL For kids ages 17 and under. Class is designed to be a family experience, however, kids 10 and up may be signed up to participate independently. Delicious Milky Moo’s Cookie Refreshments will be served as a part of the creative experience. Cost: $20 Per 11x14 Canvas $30 Per 16x20 Canvas

(334) 348-2738 www.allaboutartstudio.com

Dates: October 8-November 2 Location:

(334) 585-2273 www.abbevillealchamber.com

Creepy Hollow

Dates: October 11-13, 18-20, 25-31 Location: Broken Horn Ranch and Town,

102 Fairview Rd., Marianna, FL Come take a hayride tour through Creepy Hollow, check out Camp Crystal Lake and see whom might be hanging around. We have over 2 acres of haunted forest and a complete haunted ghost town So come on out to Creepy Hollow and have a scary good time. Tickets: $10 (850) 557-1087 brokenhorntown.wixsite.com/bhrt

Crossroads Festival

Dates: October 20 Location: Town Square,

Cuthbert, GA Join us for a fun filled family event. Bring your lawn

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Dead End Haunted Trail

Dates: October 19-20, 26-27 512 Cherokee Lane,

DeFuniak Springs, FL Benefits local animal shelter. Located between Crestview and Mossy head off Highway 90.

(850) 585-4367

Destin Seafood Festival

Dates: October 5-7 10-314 Harbor Blvd., Destin, FL

Annual event that is FREE to the public. Fresh local seafood and local vendors along with vendors we are excited to see travel here year after year. MULTIPLE LIVE MUSIC STAGES. Fun for all ages along the beautiful Destin Harbor Boardwalk.

1880s Farm, Hands-on Farm Activities, and Syrup Making.

(850) 575-8684 www.tallahasseemuseum.org

Fall Festival/Fish Fry/Trunk or Treat

Dates: October 27 Location: Eufaula Ward,

272 Hwy 131, Eufaula, AL Bring your goals and your appetites. Come enjoy a good southern fish fry and decorate your trunks for the trunk or treat with the goblins and gouls.

Fall Fling Citywide Trick or Treat

Dates: October 30 Location: Westgate Park,

501 Recreation Rd., Dothan, AL Dothan Leisure Services will be hosting our first ever Fall Fling City Wide Trick or Treat Tuesday, October 30th at Westgate Park from 5:30-8:30 PM. This is free family event so please make plans to join us for an evening of fun and treats.

(850) 428-7783 www.destinseafoodfestival.com

(334) 615-3700 www.dothanleisureservices.org

Dream Field Farms Fall Festival & Pumpkin Patch

Fort Rucker Fall Outdoor Yard Sale and Flea Market

Field Farms, 6376 US Hwy 82, Union Springs, AL Fun fall festival for all ages. Pumpkins, rides, corn maze, sunflowers and great food all come together for a day all ages can enjoy.

Rucker, AL This outdoor event provides the opportunity for the Fort Rucker community to buy and sell used household items in a consolidated fashion. 7:00-11:00 a.m. Open to the public.

Dates: September 29-October 31 Location: Dream

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Halloween Block Party

Dates: October 27 Location: Downtown, Slocomb, AL

Featuring: Kane and The Saints. Food and Craft vendors, Costume contest, Games and fun for all ages. Candy for the kids. Starts at 5:00 p.m.

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Halloween Corner

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217 S. Main St., Enterprise, AL Celebrate the Fall season with a fun-filled afternoon of Trunk or Treat, Fall Games, Candy, Costume Contest, Hay and Pony Rides, Face Painting and More. There will also be a silent auction to benefit “Meals of Hope” to help feed people locally.

14200 Hwy 84 West, Wicksburg, AL 40 years of Halloween featuring Halloween 1978, Halloween 1998, and Halloween 2018. Tickets $8 for all 3 movies. Free coffee and donuts at midnight.

State Park, Lumpkin, GA Join us on a spooky ranger led hike down into Providence Canyon. Be sure to bring a flash light.

Dates: October 28 Location: Enterprise First UMC,

(334) 347-3467 www.efumc.com

Enterprise Trick or Treat

Dates: October 31 Location: Enterprise, AL

Trick or Treat 2018 will be observed on October 31, during the hours of 5:30 p.m. - 7:30 p.m.

Dates: October 26 Location: Continental Drive-In,

(334) 692-3890 www.continentalcinemas.com

Georgia National Fair

Dates: October 4-14 Location: Georgia National

Fairgrounds, 401 Golden Isles Pkwy, Perry, GA Midway rides, food and exhibits, livestock competitions, live music, and nightly fireworks. New this year: the 9/11 Never Forget Mobile Exhibit, Live Shark Encounter, and Sesame Street Live.

Dates: October 27 Location: Providence Canyon

(229) 838-4706

Halloween Scream

Dates: October 31 Location: Downtown Square,

Headland, AL A safe and fun place to trick-or-treat in downtown Headland. Town merchants dress their entrances to fit the season as more businesses, churches, organizations and families set up for Trunk or Treat around the square. The Chamber of Commerce also provides inflatables inside the square.

Fall Choral and Theatre Festival

(478) 987-3247 www.georgianationalfair.com

(334) 693-3303 headlandalchamber@gmail.com www.headlandal.org

Center, 909 S. St. Andrews St., Dothan, AL 2018 Is Alabama’s Bicentennial Year and we are celebrating our Bicentennial in song. Please check the Bicentennial Rules and Information sheet before you register. Registration deadline October 5.

German Sausage Festival

Halloween Storytime & Trick or Treat

13052 Main St., Elberta, AL Join us for Elberta’s famous “One With Two Without” German sausage & sauerkraut, plus continuous entertainment for adults and children, and over 200 arts & crafts booths.

4601 Montgomery Hwy, Dothan, AL Join us for a story and activities based on a children’s book and trick-or-treating. Costumes encouraged but not required. Free.

Dates: November 5-7 Location: Cultural Arts

(334) 699-2787 ann@theculturalartscenter.org www. theculturalartscenter.org

Fall Days Corn Maze

Dates: Fridays & Saturdays in October, October 31 Location: Billy Brock Farms, 1788 White Road,

Bonifay, FL Over 10 acres of family fun. Corn maze. Familyfriendly vendors. (850) 326-1500 falldayscornmaze@gmail.com

Dates: October 27 Location: Elberta Town Park,

Dates: October 31 Location: Barnes and Noble,

www.alabamabeachevents.net

(334) 671-8013 stores.barnesandnoble.com/ store/2310

Get Your Spooky On

Harry Potter Murder Mystery Dinner

478 Sunrise Dr., Dothan, AL Are you ready to get spooky? Live music featuring J.R. Locke, Damon Delmont, Josh Sedor, and Goodwin Rainer. Costumes encouraged. $4 cover. BYOB.

Bakery and Cafe, 120 S. Main St., Enterprise, AL Your presence is requested, there is a mystery to be solved! Time is of the essence and silence is essential. Due to dire circumstances surrounding The Wizarding World and the collapse of The Ministry of Magic, a private meeting will be held and your participation is vital! Your immediate response of acceptance is crucial or your position will be filled! Tickets $35 per person. Each guest will receive dinner and a Harry Potter themed treat box to take home. Please be prepared to act/ and-or participate in the mystery, as this is NOT a theater show, it is a mystery carried out by the guests and staff.

Dates: October 20 Location: The Plughouse,

Fall Farm Day

(334) 723-2273 plugugliesofdothan@gmail.com

430 Landmark Dr., Dothan, AL Come and watch how peanuts were harvested in the Wiregrass nearly 100 years ago. Enjoy the sights, sounds and sweet smells of cane grinding, syrup making, butter churning, soap making and other traditional farm activities. Other activities include music, antique tractors, wagon rides and the largest quilt display in the Wiregrass region.

Ghosts and Treasures

Fall Farm Day

(334) 793-9767 www.dhcls.org

Museum, 3945 Museum Dr., Tallahassee, FL Celebrate our region’s cultural heritage.Demonstrations and activities include: Blacksmithing in the 1880s Forge, Living History Interpretation on the

Halloween Basic Cookie Decorating Class 101

Dates: October 13 Location: Landmark Park,

(334) 794-3452 www.landmarkparkdothan.com Dates: November 3 Location: Tallahassee

Wiregrass Parents I October 2018

Dates: October 25 Location: Dothan-Houston Co.

Library - Main, 445 N. Main St., Dothan, AL Alabama Historian Jim Phillips will take you on a ghostly adventure with tales of haunting encounters by property owners, his exploration of spooky locations, Ante-bellum treasures and video footage of forgotten places in Alabama. There will be a display and discussion of the value of bottle from the 1800s, coins, books, and maps. Bring in your vintage bottles (1920’s and older) for a free appraisal!

Dates: October 20 Location: 802 Boll Weevil Circle,

Enterprise, AL Learn how to make royal icing and proper decorat-

Dates: October 13, 19, & 26 Location: Black Cat

(334) 803-4064 blackcatbakeryal@gmail.com www.blackcatbakeryal.com

Haunting on College Street

Dates: October 12-13 Location: Enterprise Career and Tech Center, 605 W. College St., Enterprise, AL An adult and teen haunted house. For younger children, there will be an outdoor movie area, games, face painting, and more. Food and drinks available to purchase. All proceeds will go to the continued restoration of College Street Elementary. (334) 489-4700

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Headland, AL Headland’s 47th annual Harvest Day Festival is Saturday, October 13, 9am-3pm. About 100 vendors will line the streets around the downtown square. You’ll find arts and crafts, festival food, children’s games and rides, an antique and collector car show and live music throughout the day. You’ll love spending the day under the canopy of oaks in Headland’s beautiful downtown square. For more information, contact the Headland Area Chamber of Commerce.

900 Commons Dr Ste 900, Dothan, AL Design your own scarecrow or haunted house. Materials for crafts and activities will be provided. All kids must be accompanied by a parent. 11:00 a.m.-12:00 p.m.

Dates: October 13 Location: Downtown Square,

(334) 693-3303 www.headlandal.com

High Cotton 65-Mile Yard Sale

Dates: November 10 Location: Calhoun, Clay,

Dates: October 13 Location: JCPenney,

(334) 794-0531 www.jcpenney.com/m/kids-club

Kolomoki Halloween Programs

Dates: October 27 Location: Kolomoki Mounds

State Park, 205 Indian Mounds Rd., Blakely, GA Fall Craft, Campsite Decorating Contest, and Campground Trick-or-Treat. Games, concessions, and train rides. Tickets are $5 per child. $5 Parking Pass required

Baker, & Mitchell County, GA Shopping starts at 7 AM and lasts all day, rain or shine! Find great bargains and your treasures along our route, Georgia Highway 37 in southwest Georgia from Fort Gaines to Camilla, and all spots in between.

(229) 724-2150

Indian Summer Festival

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Join the party in historic downtown Eufaula! Food, fun and vendors will converge on our hometown for a one of the biggest events of the year.

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Dates: October 13 Location: Downtown, Eufaula, AL

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Kid-O-Ween

Dates: Saturdays and Sundays, September 22 - October 28 Location: Wild Adventures Theme

Park, 3766 Old Clyattville Road, Valdosta, GA Join us for family-thrills during Kid-O-Ween as we celebrate Halloween with not-so-scary activities, shows, and more! Enjoy this event FREE with your park admission or season pass! (229) 219-7080 contactus@wildadventures.com www.wildadventures.com

Live Ghost Hunt

Dates: October 20 Location: Union Springs, AL

A paranormal investigation of the Bullock County Jail Museum, aka “Pauly Jail,” and the Old City Cemetery in Union Springs. Hosted by the Webb Paranormal Group. Limited to 20 people.

Dates: Late Summer-Early Fall 3940 Fortner St.,

Dothan, AL U-pick Muscadine vineyard. Rose gardens and jasmine-covered arbors create a unique event venue.

(334) 791-2514 veronicaphilpot77@gmail.com www.mariasvineyard.com

National Peanut Festival

Dates: November 2-12 Location: National Peanut

Festival Fairgrounds, Dothan, AL Gates to the 75th annual National Peanut Festival open Friday, November 2nd. The week-long festival features carnival rides, the popular Calf Scramble

and Greased Pig, Dream Big Food Drive, musical entertainment including country singer Brett Young, Demolition Derby, and NPF Parade.

Opp Fest 2018

Dates: October 27 Location: N. Main St., Opp, AL

Attractions for all ages. Food vendor, arts and crafts, games for the kids, Soap Box Derby, Car Show, and Live Entertainment.

(334) 493-2122 pamg@cityofopp.com www.cityofopp.com

Panama City Beach Oktoberfest

Dates: October 12-13 Location: Aaron Bessant

Park, 600 Pier Park Dr., Panama City Beach, FL Music lovers and fans of German food and craft beer will don their lederhosen and dirndls to enjoy many Oktoberfest specialty brews. Local brewers will pour from their core beers and other seasonal offerings. The event will also host food vendors that will highlight the German flavors.

(850) 233-5070 www.visitpanamacitybeach.com

Patti Rutland Jazz’s Fright Night

Dates: VIP Show October 18; October 19-20, 26-27 @ 7:00 & 8:30 p.m. Location: Patti Rutland Jazz,

1077 W. Main St., Dothan, AL Tour our spooktacular haunted house of dance where witches are brewing their favorite spells and monsters dance where mortals dwell! (334) 699-5044 www.pattirutlandjazz.com

PawsFest

Dates: October 27 Location: Downtown Square,

Headland, AL A day of fun just for you and your dog. Vendor booths, pet pageant and parade, and other activities. Proceeds will go to build a new animal shelter.

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Peanut Butter Festival

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This festival has something fun to offer for all ages! A full day of handmade arts and crafts, great food, produce, plants, furniture, home decor, jewelry, and free activities for the kids! Starting early will be a 5K Peanut Butter Run, entertainment all day, a parade, and all things peanut butter!

House, 115 N. Andrews St., Dothan, AL Confront the legendary monster of Halloween with the story that started it all: Bram Stoker’s Dracula. Lucy Seward, whose father is the doctor in charge of an English sanitarium, has been attacked by some mysterious illness. Dr. Van Helsing, a specialist, believes that the girl is the victim of a vampire. The vampire is at last found to be a certain Count Dracula and the search begins to find and destroy this bloodsucking, undead creature of the night.

Dates: October 27 Location: Brundidge, AL

(334) 344-0643 www.piddle.org

Pioneer Days

Dates: October 13-14 Location: Pioneer Museum

of Alabama, 248 Hwy. 231 North, Troy, AL Take a step back in time and experience living history at its best! Watch demonstrations such as woodworking, blacksmithing, dutch oven cooking, and sample corn bread that has been cooked on an authentic wood stove. Come meet Davy Crocket and other historical re-enactors! Admission is $10 per person. Children 5 and under FREE.

(334) 566-3597 pioneer@troycable.net www.pioneer-museum.org

Pipe Screams

Dates: October 19 Location: Hoobler Music,

201 W. College St., Enterprise, AL Featured music: Bach’s Prelude and Fugue in Dm, Bolleman’s Toccata, Theme’s from Harry Potter and Phantom of the Opera.

www.hooblermusic.com

Pirates of the High Seas Fest

Dates: October 5-7 Location: Pier Park,

600 Pier Park Dr., Panama City Beach, FL Live music, pirate parades, pirate costumes, an 8,000 beach ball drop from the sky, fireworks and more!

(850) 233-5070 www.visitpanamacitybeach.com

Pumpkin Day

Dates: October 13 Location: Enterprise Farmers

Market, 525 N. Main St., Enterprise, AL Farmers will have fresh produce, and arts and crafts vendors will be set up for your shopping pleasure. Pumpkin painting, pumpkin recipe/cooking demo, and pumpkin carving contest.

(334) 348-2310 kkirkland@enterpriseal.gov www.enterpriseal.gov/farmers-market

Quilt Show

Dates: October 19-21 Location: Landmark Park,

430 Landmark Dr., Dothan, AL More than 100 antique and contemporary quilts on display. Show includes exhibits, door prizes, speakers and more. This year’s theme is “Log Cabin Fever.”

(334) 794-3452 www.landmarkparkdothan.com

River City Festival

Dates: October 6 Location: Downtown, Columbia, AL

Arts and Crafts booths, Food Vendors, and entertainment. Something for all ages. No admission charge.

(334) 696-4417

Scarecrows in the Gardens

Dates: October 1-30 Location: Dothan Area Bo-

tanical Gardens, 5130 Headland Ave., Dothan, AL Join us for the 14th Annual Scarecrows in the Gardens during the month of October. This year’s theme is “Historical Events or People”. Entry deadline is Sept. 21.

(334) 793-3224 www.dabg.com

Scarecrows in the Park

Dates: October & November Location: Frank Jack-

son State Park, 100 Jerry Adams Dr., Opp, AL Scarecrows will line the walking trails during the months of October and November providing great visuals of fall color. The decorations and scarecrow scenes are created and donated by various individuals, businesses and school groups.

(334) 493-6988 www.alapark.com/frank-jacksonstate-park

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Dates: October 23-27 Location: Dothan Opera

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shape of Alabama. Trails are cut leading to different cities. To find the correct trail, you must answer questions based on state history and well-known facts. (334) 670-9954 www.butterandeggadventures.com

The Harvest Pumpkin Patch

Dates: October 7-24 Location: Troy Bank & Trust

(Main Branch), Hwy 231 North, Troy, AL Pop-up pumpkin patch. Pumpkins of all sizes and shapes. Proceeds benefit mission projects of FBC Troy.

(334) 566-3600 www.troyfbc.org

Tiny Tyke Tales: Monster Tales!

Dates: October 16-November 1 Location: Birming-

Spooky in the Park

Dates: October 26 Location: Johnny Henderson

Family Park, 300 Hwy. 167 North, Enterprise, AL Costume contests for kids, adults, and dogs with prizes, a haunted hayride, face painting, a Halloween movie, inflatables, a DJ, haunted pavilion, multiple games with prizes, candy and much more! Concessions will be available for purchase.

(334) 348-2686 eprd@enterpriseal.gov

Still Pond Vineyard, Winery & Distillery

ham Children’s Theater, 2130 Richard Arrington Jr Blvd N., Birmingham, AL Let your imagination roar as we create magical monster worlds. Each week features a different children’s book about our favorite furry and fanged friends! Ages 6 weeks-3 years. Tickets are $10 for one adult with one child, and $5 for each additional child over 1 year.

(205) 458-8181 reception@bct123.org www.bct123.org

Dates: Monday-Saturday 10:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m.

Todd Syrup Farm

(229) 792-6382 charlie@stillpond.com www.stillpond. com

Headland, AL Working sugar cane farm, cafe, and museum dedicated to 19th and 20th century farming. Freshlymade jams, jellies, preserves, dipping sauces, and pickles.

1575 Still Pond Rd., Arlington, GA Tour the winery and processing facility and stroll through the vineyards. Complimentary tasting of 18 award-winning wines.

Swamp Gravy: Fourth and Long

Dates: October 5-27 Location: Cotton Hall Theater,

166 Main St., Colquitt, GA There’s life happening on the bleachers & a whole other world on the football field. The 26th edition of Swamp Gravy will explore the dreams fulfilled, the loved ones found, and the lives altered irrevocably under the Friday night lights—proving that sometimes our fumbles only make the victories that much more sweet.

(229) 758-5450 www.swampgravy.com

Tanta’s Little Halloween Party

Dates: October 20 Location: Tanta’s Little Dessert

Boutique, 135 S. Court Square, Ozark, AL $5 per person for admission & light refreshments. There will be games, contests, a halloween costume fashion show/contest, cupcake walk and more. Once admitted, tickets will be sold for $1 each to participate in these events.

(334) 379-5573 tantas_treats@outlook.com

Dates: Year-round, Tuesday-Saturday 7:30 a.m.-5:00 p.m. Location 19326 Hwy 431 South,

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Toddler Tales: Spider Sandwiches

Dates: October 6 Location: All About Art,

100 S. Main St., Enterprise, AL Class is designed to be a family experience, with story time and a related art project for toddlers and their care givers. Light toddler friendly refreshments will be provided. Cost: $20

(334) 348-2738 www.allaboutartstudio.com

Trunk or Treat at LES

Dates: October 31 Location: G.W. Long School,

2567 C.R. 60, Skipperville, AL Bring all your little princesses, superheroes, and ghosts to the LES Trunk or Treat event! Trunks will be located in the faculty parking lot!

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TaylorMade Festival

Dates: October 27 Location: Walking Trail Park,

Taylor, AL Family friendly free arts and crafts festival. Activities include a 5K and Color Run, “Washer Chunkin,” Cornhole, and Junior Build a Better Burger competitions. Old Town Wild West Show, Inflatables and Dunking Booth. Live music including Sweet Tea Trio. Day ends with fireworks.

Terror in the Wild

Dates: September 21-October 27 Location: Wild Adventures Theme Park, 3766 Old

Clyattville Road, Valdosta, GA Haunted attractions and scare zones. Included FREE with park admission or Season Pass. Not recommended for children 12 and under. Costumes and face paint prohibited.

Dates: October 5, 6, 12, 19, 26, 27 Location: All About Art, 100 S. Main, Enterprise, AL

Step-by-step canvas painting class for all experience levels. Materials provided. $30 per person. Reservations required. Ages 18+ (334) 348-2738 www.allaboutartstudio.com

Zoo Boo

Dates: October 12-14, 19-21 and 26-31, 2018 | 6pm - 9pm nightly Location: Montgomery Zoo,

2301 Coliseum Pkwy, Montgomery, AL Experience 12 nights of horror and fun during Zoo Boo 2018. The event features games for children, a non-scary pumpkin pull hayride, and a spooky haunted hayride. (334) 625-4900 www.montgomeryzoo.com

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Front Beach Rd., Panama City Beach, FL Trick or Treat with the Animals. Costume contest with prizes for all ages. 10:00 a.m.-4:00 p.m.

Dates: September 15-October 30 Location: Butter and Egg Adventures, 2127 Butter

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Dates: October 28 & 29 Location: ZooWorld, 9008

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Searching MPAA Rating: PG-13 Overall: AViolence: B+ Sexual Content: B+ Profanity: C+ Alcohol / Drug Use: D This film, which is about a missing teenage girl, introduces us to her high school slogan: “Home of the Catfish”. For those of us who are not up to date on current word usage, a “catfish” is someone who creates a fake online persona. The plot focuses on the Kim family in San Jose, CA: David (John Cho), mourning his wife, Pamela (Sarah Sohn), who died of cancer, and their daughter, Margot (Michelle La). David misses a call from his daughter one night, and over the course of the next day frantically and unsuccessfully tries to reach her. He files a missing persons report with the local police. The case is picked up by Detective Rosemary Vick (Debra Messing), who enlists David’s help in sorting through his daughter’s friends and schoolmates. In doing so, David learns he has been unaware of significant aspects of Margot’s life. This film breaks new ground in moviemaking as the entire story is literally told on screens: laptops, TV’s, cell phones, and security cameras. It’s a startlingly realistic portrayal of modern computer use (despite the fact that David seems to keep his webcam window open on his computer far more than most people would), and it manages to add a lot of detail to his character. Searching is a powerful film that almost brought me – usually impervious to drama-induced emotion – to tears. It is not suitable for children or most teens and is a very difficult story for parents (especially anxious ones). Parents or teens who watch this well written and thought-provoking movie will find much to discuss. This movie also lends itself to a conversation that is even more important than “teach your daughter to be careful”: the discussion around “teach your son not to be a predator”.

MPAA Rating: PG Overall: B+ Violence: BSexual Content: A Profanity: A Alcohol / Drug Use: A Amber Hill (Lindsay Pulsipher) is barely treading water. The death of her husband (Darren Hill) in Afghanistan has left her with a daughter, Bree (Makenzie Moss), a house she can no longer afford, mother-in-law problems, crushing grief, and shattered faith in God. Cody Jackson (Andrew W. Walker) is a slow learner. The stock car driver keeps on crashing cars. Cody is so obsessed with speed that he refuses to listen to cooler heads telling him to decelerate in the turns so he can accelerate in the straightway. His exasperated manager sends him to Amber’s small Kentucky town to train with local garage owner and racing expert, Joe Carter (Gary Grubbs). Will Amber heal from her husband’s death? Will she recover her faith in a loving God? Will Cody finally listen to good advice and stop wrecking cars? And will Amber and Cody be able to help each other? God Bless the Broken Road would be a better movie if the answer to any of these questions were in doubt. The movie’s biggest weakness is its predictability: there is very little uncertainty about how the story is going to turn out. That being said, viewers looking for a family-friendly movie that extols the virtues of Christianity and American patriotism will find little to complain about here. Positive messages about community, compassion and forgiveness are the highlights of this picture. The only potential content issues center around the ambush in which Darren Hill is killed. The violence is highly sanitized, though, and no blood or graphic injuries are visible.

Jurassic World: Fallen Kingdom

Kin MPAA Rating: PG-13 Overall: D Violence: D Sexual Content: C Profanity: CAlcohol / Drug Use: C It can be inexpressibly painful to watch the innocent suffer for someone else’s bad choices. The innocent characters in Kin are Eli Solinski (Myles Truitt), a 14-year-old African-American and his adoptive white father, Hal (Dennis Quaid). The pair live in an unnamed Rust Belt city where Hal works in construction and tries to instill his personal ethic of hard work and honesty in his son. Meanwhile, Eli searches dilapidated buildings looking for copper wire to strip and sell. To increase the trouble quotient, Eli’s older brother, Jimmy (Jack Reynor), returns home after six years in prison. Jimmy has some significant baggage: in return for protection in prison, he accrued a $60,000 debt. And the criminals who provided the protection now want payment in full or they will kill both Hal and Eli. With his back against the wall, Jimmy agrees to help Taylor (James Franco) and his thugs rob the safe in Hal’s office. Tragically, Hal walks in at the wrong moment. In the shootout, Hal winds up dead, Taylor’s brother is dead, and Jimmy is on the run. Not surprisingly, Jimmy is a terrible substitute parent. One of the most upsetting parts of this film is when Eli grabs his weapon and kills men who are trying to shoot his brother. Any movie that turns a 14-year-old into a killer, for any reason, raises red flags for parents. Sexual issues are also problematic. Don’t let Kin rob you of 102 minutes of your life.

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MPAA Rating: PG-13 Overall: BViolence: C Sexual Content: A Profanity: B Alcohol / Drug Use: B As the movie opens, Jurassic Park is in ruins and cloned dinosaurs roam freely on Isla Nublar and in the surrounding ocean. This pastoral paleontological paradise is now under threat because Mount Sibo, the heretofore dormant volcano, is on the verge of a major eruption which would produce an “extinction event” for all life on the island. Instead of seeing this as a “do over” for the mistake of re-introducing prehistoric animals to the modern ecosystem, dinosaur activists, led by Claire Dearing (Bryce Dallas Howard) are pressuring Congress to fund protective measures for the endangered animals. Parents considering Jurassic World: Fallen Kingdom for family viewing should take the PG-13 rating very seriously. The relentless violence and deadly peril faced by the characters make this movie unsuitable for small children. Adults may find themselves irked by paintby-number action sequences, lazy writing, and plot holes big enough to push a T-rex through. However, teenagers looking for frenetic action, chase scenes, lots of excitement, and entertainment that brings back memories of imaginary adventures with toy dinosaurs, will likely enjoy escaping into this thrill ride in a neo-Jurassic world. 33

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By the time your child turns ten, you may have started teaching them responsibilities, assigned weekly chores, and started discussing whether they are old enough to stay home alone for a few minutes at a time. In the middle of their tween years, ten year olds are ready to begin taking on more responsibilities. Krystal Laws, Olathe mother of seven, says, â&#x20AC;&#x153;Parents can think about where they would like their kids to be at age 18 then go back every few years making goals to work up to independence as an adult. Having a vision for where youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re headed really helps in knowing what to work on at various ages.â&#x20AC;?

What are some basic skills kids can learn before ten? Here are some ideas: Wiregrass Parents I October 2018

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Basic household tasks

Teach your child some basic household tasks. If you are busy, out of the house, or under the weather your child should be able to make himself a sandwich, pack a sack lunch for school, and be able prepare a small meal in the microwave. It is also good to teach your kids how to do laundry, run the dishwasher, and how to clean up a spill.

Safety

Alicia Raker: She isn’t a tween anymore, but when our daughter was little I taught her the importance of being aware and safe! Not everyone is nice. We developed a password. She knew if someone didn’t know the password she should consider them dangerous. Meghan P. Williams: Our daughter can do almost all household chores; all her own hygiene routine; feed and water our dog; and even pack her own bag for overnight trips based on guidelines/checklist.

Keeping our kids safe is a huge priority for parents. At a young age, we begin to teach them how to safely cross the street, bike and road safety, and to be aware of strangers. By ten, parents should take it one step further by teaching kids about internet safety and what to do in case of an emergency. “I want them to be safe mentally and physically.” says Lisa Parrish, mother of three. “They should know how to use the phone, procedures for being home alone or in emergencies, safe touch, and that no means no.” Kids

approaching ten should also know basic first aid and when to call 911.

Proper hygiene and self grooming

Ten year olds should understand the importance of good hygiene and how to care for their own body and hair. Frequent showers, proper face and hand washing, and wearing deodorant are good habits to get into as the changing hormones of the teen years approach.

Budgeting and saving

Ten years old is a great time to

introduce basic budgeting skills. Kids can learn to pick something out that they would like to purchase, research the cost, and begin saving for it. This helps teach them delayed gratification, the value of the dollar, the reward for hard work, and also how to budget and save for things that they want. This skill will be necessary as they plan for larger purchases in adulthood.

Problem solving skills

When presented with a problem, children often look to the adults in their lives to solve the problem. Rather than giving your child the answer to the problem, why not let them try to work it out themselves? The problem solving skills learned early will benefit them as they grow older. You can also present your child with different scenarios and ask them what they would do. Ask your child - If you get lost, what should you do? What if you forget your lunch at home? What if you see another child getting teased? If there is a fire in the house, what should you do? Working

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through different scenarios and practicing problem solving skills will help your child build confidence for when they are faced with a problem.

Value of hard work

Kids need to know the value of hard work, especially as they head off to college or into the workplace. Even middle and high school require a higher level of study habits. Developing good study habits also helps kids learn that their dedication pays off when they receive good grades because of it. To prepare your child for the workforce, assign chores that work towards a family goal, like putting in a garden for everyone to enjoy, or saving up allowance to work towards something they would like to purchase will show them the long-term payoff of hard work.

Proper etiquette and speaking skills

much electronic communication, we must teach our children that when having face to face conversations, it is polite to use proper language rather than text speak. “Kids this age should know the Golden Rule and treat others the way they’d like to be treated,” says Laura Fenner, Olathe mother of four. Ten year olds can build confidence in this area by practicing public speaking and participating in sports or recitals.

Caring for others

Kids learn a lot when given the responsibility of taking care of something or someone else. Examples could be a pet, garden or plants, or helping with younger children. This helps teach them responsibility and selflessness.

Outdoor skills

Ten year olds should know how to treat other people respectfully, approach adults in public, have proper phone etiquette, know how to shake hands, and express gratitude when someone gives them a gift or does something for them. With so

Kids this age can be taught outdoor safety. Fire safety, how to use a map and compass, what poison ivy looks like, and water safety are all good examples. Teaching them these skills encourages them to find outdoor activities that they enjoy. Again, as we face competition with the screen, teaching kids how to be safe

when pursuing outdoor activities may open a love of the outdoors they have not yet experienced.

Healthy habits

The importance of a healthy diet and routine exercise is never too early to learn. While they may not be preparing entire meals at age ten, they do need to know that potato chips are not a well balanced lunch. Kids should also be able to listen to their bodies so they can tell you if they are unwell and what is wrong. Healthy sleep habits and a good diet can help them perform better in school and improve their moods. Kids should also be able to manage their emotions and calm themselves when needed. These skills are a guideline as every child and every family is unique. You may find that in your family you value certain skills over others or that some of these were learned some time ago. “Be flexible with your plan to teach life skills,” says Laws, “Everyone learns at a different pace.” WP

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Pinckard VFD Low Country Shrimp Boil (Plates $13 each or 2 for $24)

10:30 a.m. - 4:00 p.m., Pinckard Volunteer Fire Department, 1701 E. Hwy. 134 Pinckard, 36371 Shrimp, sausage, new potatoes, and corn on the cob. Available without the shrimp. Free kids plates to the first 80 customers. Dine in or To Go. Tour the station and check out the fire trucks. Funds go to upgrading and purchasing equipment and refurbishing the station. (334) 983-9178 Miss Taylor Made Pageant ($30 Entry Fee) 2:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m., Honeysuckle Middle School, 1665 Honeysuckle Rd. Dothan, 36305 This pageant is OPEN to the Wiregrass Area! Applications are available on the Taylor Made Festival Facebook Page. You may also email kathrynfrancesandrews@gmail.com for a PDF version. (334) 733-6767

Sunday September 30

Fostering Hope Open House (Free) 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m., 1004 Montezuma Ave. Dothan, 36303 Drop in and see our new location, what God is doing, and how YOU can be involved! Did we mention cake will be provided? (334) 589-0805 www.fosteringhopewiregrass.com “Granny’s Christmas Vacation” Auditions 2:30 p.m. - 4:30 p.m., Southern Broadway Dinner Theater, 104 N. Main St. Enterprise, 36330 Granny Goodson returns to the stage with her son and some of her favorite servants as she decides to travel to Europe for Christmas. Accent required (preferably British). Prepare a monologue under 1 minute. (334) 470-9175 www.southernbroadway.com Old Fashioned Hymn Re-Sing 6:00 p.m - 7:30 p.m., First Baptist Church, 790 S. Church St. Blakely, 39823 An event to revive great hymns of our faith and to encourage the joyful sounds of harmony through congregational singing. An Early County Bicentennial Event. (229) 723-3741 www.blakelyearlycountychamber.org

Monday October 1

Raider Classic (Individual $100; Foursome $400) 11:00 a.m. Dothan Country Club, 200 S. Cherokee Ave. Dothan, 36301 Prizes include cash, golf equipment, and other exciting items. Proceeds go directly to benefit the students at Houston Academy. www.houstonacademy.com/golf Acting Workshop for Teens (Free) 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m., Daleville Public Library, 308 Donnell Blvd. Daleville, 36322 The ‘321 FILMS Acting Workshop’ will focus on light improv and adjusting within a scene. Refreshments provided. Ages 12-18. (334) 503-9119 www.dalevillepubliclibrary.com

Tuesday October 2

Mystery at Main: Book Club/Discussion Group 1:30 p.m. - 4:00 p.m., Dothan-Houston Co. Library-Main, 445 N. Main St. Dothan, 36303 Our Mystery Book Club/ Discussion group meets once a month on the first Tuesday of each month. October’s book is “The Surgeon” by Tess Gerritsen. (334) 793-9767 www.dhcls.org Story & Craft Time @ Main 10:15 a.m. - 10:45 a.m., Dothan-Houston Co. LibraryMain, 445 N. Main St. Dothan, 36303 Every Tuesday in October. Join us for preschool story & craft time.

Registration is not required, however supplies are limited and will be available on a first-come basis. Stories and crafts are designed for ages 2-6. (334) 793-9767 www.dhcls.org Toddler Tales (Free) 10:30 a.m. Lucy Hilton Maddox Memorial Library, 11880 Columbia St. Blakely, 39823 Every Tuesday in October. Bring your toddler to story time Tuesday mornings at the Lucy Hilton Maddox Memorial Library. There will be music and crafts. For children under the age of 5. (229) 723-3079 GP Quilters (Free) 12:00 p.m. - 3:00 p.m., Grace Place Church, 5730 Shellfield Rd Enterprise, 36330 Every Tuesday in October, get together with other quilters of ALL skill levels, male and female, to create and construct colorful quilts for infirmed and homebound members or friends who will enjoy them. Just bring your sewing machine or willingness to help! (334) 347-5214 www.mygpchurch.com Slime Lab 3:30 p.m. - 4:00 p.m., Dothan-Houston Co. Library-Main, 445 N. Main St. Dothan, 36303 Join us each month for a different squishy-icky type of gelatinous goo! All supplies will be provided and registration is REQUIRED! Parents- please register each child in their name. Please plan to arrive on time. Those who arrive late, may not be allowed in. (334) 793-9767 www.dhcls.org Lego Club (Free) 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m., Ozark-Dale Co. Library, 416 James St. Ozark, 36360 Kids ages 5 and up: take your LEGO buildings to a new level at the Ozark Dale County Library LEGO Club. Each meeting features building challenges, games, and free play. We happily provide the LEGOS and inspiration while the kids provide the imagination. (334) 774-5480 www.odcpl.com “Granny’s Christmas Vacation” Auditions 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m., Southern Broadway Dinner Theater, 104 N. Main St. Enterprise, 36330 Granny Goodson returns to the stage with her son and some of her favorite servants as she decides to travel to Europe for Christmas. Accent required (preferably British). Prepare a monologue under 1 minute. (334) 470-9175 www.southernbroadway.com

Wednesday October 3

Story & Craft Time @ Westgate 10:30 a.m. - 11:00 a.m., Dothan-Houston Co. LibraryWestgate, Recreation Road Dothan, 36303 Every Wednesday in October. Join us for preschool story & craft time. Registration is not required, however supplies are limited and will be available on a first come basis. Stories and crafts are designed for ages 2-6. (334) 699-2950 www.dhcls.org Barnes and Noble Storytime (Free) 11:00 a.m. Barnes and Noble, 4601 Montgomery Hwy. Dothan, 36303 Every Wednesday and Saturday in October. Join us for storytime and activities featuring a different children’s book each session. (334) 671-8013 https://stores.barnesandnoble.com/ store/2310 Short Story Reading Group Details October 3. (334) 793-9767 www.dhcls.org Club STEAM (Free) 3:30 p.m. - 5:00 p.m., Daleville Public Library, 308 Donnell Blvd. Daleville, 36322 Every Wednesday in October. A fun and free afterschool science program for grades 5-8. Learn about different fields of science and engineering through fun hands-on experiments program. Registration required. (334) 503-9119 www.dalevillepubliclibrary.com

Brown Bag Volunteer Day: Pack Pallets 8:00 a.m. - 11:00 a.m., Wiregrass Area Food Bank, 382 Twitchell Rd. Dothan, 36303 Open to individuals or groups. Comfortable clothing and closed-toe shoes recommended. You should be able to stand for 1.5-2 hours and do light lifting. Call ahead to schedule. (334) 794-9775 www.wiregrassfoodbank.com

Thursday October 4

Story Time: Calligraphy Fun (Free) 10:30 a.m. Ozark-Dale Co. Library, 416 James St. Ozark, 36360 Children of all ages: join us at the Ozark Dale County Library for our weekly Story Times on Thursdays at 10:30am and 4:30pm. Each week features a fun theme, activity, and snack for all to enjoy. (334) 774-5480 www.odcpl.com Lego Builders Club (Free) 3:15 p.m. - 5:00 p.m., Daleville Public Library, 308 Donnell Blvd. Daleville, 36322 Come join us for some fun build challenges or you can enjoy some easy going freestyle building. It is sure to be a fun time for all, and best of all it is FREE! (334) 503-9119 dalevillepubliclibrary.com Story Time: Calligraphy Fun (Free) 4:30 p.m. Ozark-Dale Co. Library, 416 James St. Ozark, 36360 Children of all ages: join us at the Ozark Dale County Library for our weekly Story Times on Thursdays at 10:30am and 4:30pm. Each week features a fun theme, activity, and snack for all to enjoy. (334) 774-5480 www.odcpl.com Shop and Stroll (Free) 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m., Downtown, 333 E. Broad St. Eufaula, 36027 Participating merchants will extend their hours, Farmer’s Market will be held at the Pavilion, Local Artists will show their work at select locations, Music, Sales, portraits and a whole lot of fun! (334) 687-7099 First Thursday (Free) 5:30 p.m. Court Square, Blakely, 39823 The kids can enjoy fun and games on the Square, including free ice cream, popsicles, corn hole games, races, etc. Great vendors with homemade items, face painting, stylish clothing and jewelry, jellies, jams, cakes, etc. (229) 723-3741 www.blakelyearlycountychamber.org Dothan Foster Parent Info Session (Free) 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m., Bob Woodall Air Care Systems, 412 N. Foster St. Dothan, 36303 Learn what it takes to be a foster parent! We’ll answer any questions you have about who can qualify, what the licensing process is like, what supports you’ll receive, and what challenges the kids you can help are facing. Refreshments will be served. (334) 224-4022 Merchants of London ($36.95-$39.95) 6:30 p.m. - 9:00 p.m., Southern Broadway Dinner Theater, 104 N. Main St. Enterprise, 36330 The 19th century was a time when London was transformed into the world’s largest trade city. Come see the quirky merchants that helped London grow into a political, financial, and business powerhouse. You never know what mysteries and surprises are in store when these merchants lives become intertwined with each other and their customers. (334) 470-6568 www.southernbroadway.com Brown Bag Volunteer Day: Pack Boxes 8:00 a.m. - 11:00 a.m., Wiregrass Area Food Bank, 382 Twitchell Rd. Dothan, 36303 Open to individuals or

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Friday October 5

Far Out Friday (Free) 3:30 p.m. - 4:30 p.m., Lucy Hilton Maddox Memorial Library, 11880 Columbia St. Blakely, 39823 Every Friday in October. Science for children ages 6-12. (229) 723-3079 Foster Fest (Free) 6:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m., Downtown, Dothan, 36303 Live music, cars, vendors and much, much more! Miss NPF Preliminary Pageant 6:00 p.m. Dothan Civic Center, 126 N. St. Andrews St. Dothan, 36303 Miss National Peanut Festival is an ambassador of not only the festival, but the peanut industry. Contestants who participate in the Miss National Peanut Festival pageant are young ladies who have won qualified preliminary pageants in peanut producing areas of Alabama, Florida and Georgia. (334) 793-4323 www.nationalpeanutfestival.com Merchants of London ($36.95-$39.95) Details Thursday October 4. (334) 470-6568 www.southernbroadway.com Friday Night Lights ($12.99 & Up) 8:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m., Axtion Air, 3525 Ross Clark Circle Suite 315 Dothan, 36303 Every Friday in October. The only place to be after the big home game! Neon dodgeball tournaments, the Latest hit music, and fabulous prizes. Wear your school spirit colors or logo for a discount. (334) 446-5175 www.axtionair.com Art of Yoga ($10 Donation) 9:00 a.m. - 10:00 a.m., Wiregrass Museum of Art, 126 Museum Ave. Dothan, 36303 In partnership with yoga studio Mesuva Yoga Studio. The Art of Yoga combines the therapeutic nature of art with the healing properties of yoga. Participants will be guided through an all-levels appropriate class held in the museum galleries. Please bring your own water bottle, yoga mat, and towel (if needed). (334) 794-3871 www.wiregrassmuseum.org

Saturday October 6

Designer Purse Bingo (Table of 8 $200) 1:00 p.m. Washington County Ag Center, 1424 W. Jackson Ave. Chipley, 32428 The Washington County Fall 2018 Designer Purse Bingo benefits the Gulf Coast Children’s Advocacy Center. Participants will enjoy an afternoon of fantastic fun for a great cause. VIP tables include a pack of play per person and light appetizers. To reserve a VIP table, contact Kasey @ 850-872-7760 or events@gulfcoastcac.org. (850) 872-7760 www.gulfcoastcac.org Pokemon League (Free) 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m., Ozark-Dale Co. Library, 416 James St. Ozark, 36360 Every Saturday in October. Pokémon players of all ages and skill levels. Some players battle each other while others enjoy trading cards. If you have a 60- card deck, then please bring it along with you. (334) 774-5480 www.odcpl.com Johnny Mack Brown Birthday Celebration ($5 Adults; $3 Kids)

10:00 a.m. Landmark Park, 430 Landmark Dr. Dothan, 36303 Landmark Park celebrates Dothan native and Western film star Johnny Mack Brown’s 114th birthday

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with a double feature from the serial “Fighting Kit Carson.” Great for all ages! Each movie lasts about 30 minutes. Interpretive Center Auditorium. Free with paid gate admission. (334) 794-3452 www.landmarkparkdothan.com Landmark Park Benefit Car Show ($5 Adults; $3 Kids;

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10:00 a.m. - 2:00 p.m., Landmark Park, 430 Landmark Dr. Dothan, 36303 Enjoy the cooler weather while viewing the large display of antique cars, ranging in age from “T” Models to sporty custom classics. This year’s featured vehicle is the TRUCK. (334) 794-3452 www.landmarkparkdothan.com First Saturday Family Day (Free) 10:30 a.m. - 2:30 p.m., Wiregrass Museum of Art, 126 Museum Ave. Dothan, 36303 A free come-and-go art activity for kids of all ages. All supplies are provided and no pre-registration is required. Gallery and garden activities are available, too! (334) 794-3871 www.wiregrassmuseum.org Barnes and Noble Storytime (Free) 11:00 a.m. Barnes and Noble, 4601 Montgomery Hwy. Dothan, 36303 Every Wednesday and Saturday in October. Join us for storytime and activities featuring a different children’s book each session. (334) 671-8013 https://stores.barnesandnoble.com/ store/2310 I Am Pretty Enough Girls and Women’s Empowerment Workshop ($25) 11:00 a.m. Courtyard by Marriott, 3040 Ross Clark Circle Dothan, 36301 The I Am Pretty Enough Girls and Women’s Empowerment Workshop (with a mini fashion show) will consist of two session times: 11:00 a.m. and 3:00 p.m. The following topics will be discussed: selfimage, self-esteem, self-confidence and self-worth. The registration fee includes handout material, and a copy of the I Am Pretty Enough book. (205) 200-6125 Teen Painting Class (Free) 2:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m., Dothan-Houston Co. Library Main, 445 N. Main St. Dothan, 36303 Join us to learn how to paint owls. Ages 13-19. Registration required. (334) 699-2950 www.dhcls.org Miss NPF Pageant Finals 6:00 p.m. Dothan Civic Center, 126 N. St. Andrews St. Dothan, 36303 Miss National Peanut Festival is an ambassador of not only the festival, but the peanut industry. Contestants who participate in the Miss National Peanut Festival pageant are young ladies who have won qualified preliminary pageants in peanut producing areas of Alabama, Florida and Georgia. (334) 793-4323 www.nationalpeanutfestival.com Merchants of London ($36.95-$39.95) Details Thursday October 4. (334) 470-6568 www.southernbroadway.com National Peanut Festival Disc Golf Classic ($30-$90) 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m., National Peanut Festival Fairgrounds, 5622 Hwy. 231 South Dothan, 36301 Dothan’s first ever PDGA B-Tier is a one day, 2 round tourney on a temporary 18 hole course throughout the National Peanut Festival Fairgrounds. Lunch provided. Players Pack includes custom dry-fit t-shirt, custom stamped disc, disc of your choice, and Flight Towel. CTP’s, Long Drive Competition, and free entry to the $5k/$10k Grow Disc Golf Ace Challenge! www.discgolfscene.com

Dothan Ballroom Dance Club October Dance (Members Free; Guests $10)

7:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m., Cultural Arts Center, 909 S. St. Andrews St. Dothan, 36303 The October dance is a pirate theme. Music by The Edd Jones Orchestra. Please bring an appetizer to share. Cash bar. Green screen photos taken for donations. (334) 791-9631 or (334) 791-9407 www.theculturalartscenter.com A Walk to Remember (Donations) 7:30 a.m. - 12:30 p.m., Westgate Park, 501 Recreation Rd. Dothan, 36303 The 2018 Alzheimer’s Resource Center’s A Walk to Remember is a 1-mile, 3-mile or 5-mile walk-a-thon (walker’s option) to benefit the Alzheimer’s Resource Center. Alzheimer’s disease is a degenerative disease of the brain that robs its victims of their memory and cognitive abilities. It is the sixth leading cause of death among adults. (334) 702-2273 www.wesharethecare.org Headland Harvest Festival Fly-In 8:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m., Headland Municipal Airport, 230 Airport Drive Headland, 36345 Come soar with us! The Headland Area Chamber of Commerce invites you to climb in and tour a number of different types of prop planes, jets, helicopters and more. Local pilots will take you up for a birds eye view. Cost varies depending upon the type of flight. (334) 693-3303 www.headlandal.com American Legion Riders Post 73 Annual Poker Run ($20 for Riders; $10 for Passengers) 8:30 a.m. - 3:00 p.m., 701 E. Lee St. Enterprise, 36330 The American Legion Riders of Post 73 will host their annual Poker Run throught the Wiregrass area. Funds raised support the American Legion Legacy Scholarship and our local Veterans.

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Scarecrows in the Garden: People’s Choice Awards (Free) 2:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m., Dothan Area Botannical Gardens, 5130 Headland Ave. Dothan, 36303 Come vote for your favorite scarecrow on Sunday, October 7 from 2-4pm! Refreshments provided. (334) 793-3224 www.dabg.com

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Reptile Feeding ($4 Adults; $3 Kids) 4:00 p.m. Landmark Park, 430 Landmark Dr. Dothan, 36303 Meet Indie our Eastern Indigo snake, along with our Corn snake and Grey Rat snake, and learn why these animals are important to the environment. Classroom. Held on Sunday of the first full weekend of each month. (334) 794-3452 www.landmarkparkdothan.com Big Church Night Out (General Admission $25; Friends &

Family 4-Pack $20 per ticket; Groups of 10 or more $18 per ticket)

6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m., Dothan Civic Center, 126 N. St. Andrews St. Dothan, 36303 Make plans to join David Crowder, Jordan Feliz, Sarah Reeves, Jamison Strain, and Brock Gill for this special night of worship! (334) 615-3175 www.dothanciviccenter.org

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Operation Christmas Child Mini Packing Party 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m., Hillcrest Baptist Church, 500 Alberta St. Enterprise, 36330 Join us in the Fellowship Hall as we put together and pack 200 shoe boxes for our upcoming Gathering Party. Boxes and supplies will be provided - just bring your favorite finger food to share. Everyone is welcome to attend. (334) 347-2516 Merchants of London ($36.95-$39.95) Details Thursday October 4. (334) 470-6568 www.southernbroadway.com Brown Bag Volunteer Day: Pack Bags 8:00 a.m. - 11:00 a.m., Wiregrass Area Food Bank, 382 Twitchell Rd. Dothan, 36303 Comfortable clothing and closed-toe shoes recommended. You should be able to stand for 1.5-2 hours and do light lifting. (334) 794-9775 www.wiregrassfoodbank.com

Story & Craft Time @ Westgate Details October 3. (334) 699-2950 www.dhcls.org

Friday Night Lights ($12.99 & Up) Details October 5. (334) 446-5175 www.axtionair.com

Barnes and Noble Storytime (Free) Details October 3. (334) 671-8013 https://stores.barnesandnoble.com/ store/2310

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Short Story Reading Group Details October 3. (334) 793-9767 www.dhcls.org Club STEAM (Free) Details October 3. (334) 503-9119 www.dalevillepubliclibrary.com

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Pokemon League (Free) Details October 6. (334) 774-5480 www.odcpl.com

Beautiful Rootz 2018 Natural Hair & Health Event (Adults $5; 12 & Under Free; Kidz Zone $5)

10:00 a.m. - 4:30 p.m., 126 Museum Ave. Dothan, 36303 Vendors, demonstrations, tutorials, entertainment, Kidz Zone, Men’s Zone, Health & Fitness Zone, and Pamper Zone. If you have questions: lamesadanzey@yahoo.com or message our facebook page: beautifulrootz.

Story Time: Alabama Wildlife (Free) 10:30 a.m. & 4:30 p.m. Ozark-Dale Co. Library, 416 James St. Ozark, 36360 Children of all ages: join us at the Ozark Dale County Library for our weekly Story Times on Thursdays at 10:30am and 4:30pm. Each week features a fun theme, activity, and snack for all to enjoy. (334) 774-5480 www.odcpl.com

Barnes and Noble Storytime (Free) 11:00 a.m. Barnes and Noble, 4601 Montgomery Hwy. Dothan, 36303 Every Wednesday and Saturday in October. Join us for storytime and activities featuring a different children’s book each session. (334) 671-8013 https://stores.barnesandnoble.com/ store/2310

Troy University Wiregrass Alumni Invitational Golf Tournament 11:00 a.m. Highland Oaks Golf Course, 904 Royal Pkwy Dothan, 36305 Join Troy University Alumni and friends for a great day of golf and fun to raise funds for Troy scholarships for Wiregrass area students. (334) 670-3318

Popcorn & a Movie: Early Man (Free) 12:45 p.m. Ozark-Dale Co. Library, 416 James St. Ozark, 36360 Come enjoy a bag of free popcorn, a refreshing drink, and a free movie! This month we are showing Early Man, a stop-motion animated comedy that tells the story of Dug and his primitive tribe of rabbit hunters. (334) 774-5480 www.odcpl.com

3rd Annual Bling a Bra ($1=1 Vote)

6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m., The Collective, 145 S. St. Andrews St. Dothan, 36303 Come support Breast Cancer Awareness by attending our 3rd Annual Bling A Bra party! Live Music by Aaron Bostic, Blinged out bras to bid on and cocktails! Don’t forget your wallet so you can help raise money for the Sandi McCool Champions of Hope! (334) 712-9170 Merchants of London ($36.95-$39.95) Details Thursday October 4. (334) 470-6568 www.southernbroadway.com

Friday October 12

Far Out Friday (Free) 3:30 p.m. - 4:30 p.m., Lucy Hilton Maddox Memorial Library, 11880 Columbia St. Blakely, 39823 Every Friday in October. Science for children ages 6-12. (229) 723-3079

Mixed Media Collage for Tweens/Teens (Free) 2:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m., Dothan-Houston Co. Library Main, 445 N. Main St. Dothan, 36303 We will be making a fall mixed media with old book pages and dried leaves. Please bring your own variety of dried fall leaves. All other supplies will be provided. Ages 12-18. Registration required. (334) 793-9767 www.dhcls.com Girls Night Out (Advanced Tickets $10) 4:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m., Downtown, Enterprise, 36330 Join us for Girls Night Out to benefit Breast Cancer Awareness. 21 participating retailers, market vendors, FREE Swag Bag, live DJ, free refreshments and MORE! Advanced Tickets available until October 7th. (334) 348-2738 www.enterprisedowntown.com Merchants of London ($36.95-$39.95) Details Thursday October 4. (334) 470-6568 www.southernbroadway.com 11th Annual Wiregrass Area Buddy Walk (Walk

Participant with T-shirt $20; Walk Participant without T-shirt $5; T-shirt only $15; Down Syndrome Individuals FREE)

8:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m., National Peanut Festival Fairgrounds, Dothan Join the F.R.I.E.N.D.S. as we unite for

a common cause and raise funds at the 2018 Wiregrass Area Buddy Walk®. Whether you have Down syndrome, know someone who does, or just want to show your support, take the first step and donate or register today! Help us spread the word; all are welcome for our day of celebration! (334) 718-3356 www.ds-stride.org/wiregrassbuddywalk Walk for Life 8:00 a.m. - 11:30 a.m., Police Memorial Park, Ozark, 36360 Registration begins at 8:00, Walk begins at 9:00. Games, door prizes, testimony, and lunch provided. Message or call for Walk Form, secure sponsors and come out and join us. Raises operating funds for Sav-A-Life of Dale County/Dale County Pregnancy Center. (334) 774-4419 www.savalifeozark.org Save the Chas-Chas Zumbathon ($10- Event Only; $20– Event & T-shirt)

9:00 a.m. - 11:30 a.m., Southeast Health Doctor’s Building, 1108 Ross Clark Circle Dothan, 36301 Help save the Cha-Chas! All proceeds from this event will be given to the SAMC Foundations in honor of Sandi McCool Champions of Hope Race. Doors will open at 8:30am and the Zumbathon will start at 9:00am. Pre-register by October 3rd for guaranteed shirt size. (334) 712-3720

Sunday October 14

Wiregrass/Dothan Patient Education Conference (Free) 12:00 p.m. - 3:00 p.m., Hilton Garden Inn, 171 Hospitality Lane Dothan, 36303 The annual Wiregrass/ Dothan Patient Education Conference provides kidney patients the opportunity to become more informed on topics related to kidney disease. Admission is free for one patient and one caregiver. Food will be provided. If you have any questions, please email Lisa Baity at lisab@alkidney.org or call (334) 547-8467. (334) 547-8467 “Every Christmas Story Ever Told” Auditions 2:00 p.m. Cultural Arts Center, 909 S. St. Andrews St. Dothan, 36303 Instead of performing Charles Dickens’ beloved holiday classic for the umpteenth time, three actors decide to perform every Christmas story ever told – plus Christmas traditions from around the world, seasonal icons from ancient times to topical pop-culture, and every carol ever sung. Show is December 10-15. (334) 794-0400 www.seact.com Chess Club 2:00 p.m. - 4:45 p.m., Dothan-Houston Co. Library-Main, 445 N. Main St. Dothan, 36303 Every Sunday in October. All chess boards and pieces provided. (334) 793-9767 www.dhcls.org

Monday October 15

“Every Christmas Story Ever Told” Auditions 6:30 p.m. Cultural Arts Center, 909 S. St. Andrews St. Dothan, 36303 Details October 14. (334) 794-0400 www.seact.com South Alabama-Open Deer Contest Begins Southern Outdoor Sports, 2126 Hartford Hwy Dothan, 36305 Youth, Ladies, and Men’s Division. Deadline for entries is February 9th, 2019. Non-score based competition. 1st, 2nd, and 3rd place plus Grand Prize awarded. (334) 793-4590

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FamilyCalendar Toddler Tales (Free) Details October 2. (229) 723-3079 GP Quilters (Free) Details October 2. (334) 347-5214 www.mygpchurch.com Lego Club (Free) 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m., Ozark-Dale Co. Library, 416 James St. Ozark, 36360 Kids ages 5 and up: take your LEGO buildings to a new level at the Ozark Dale County Library LEGO Club. Each meeting features building challenges, games, and free play. We happily provide the LEGOS and inspiration while the kids provide the imagination. (334) 774-5480 www.odcpl.com

Wednesday October 17 Story & Craft Time @ Westgate Details October 3. (334) 699-2950 www.dhcls.org

Barnes and Noble Storytime (Free) Details October 3. (334) 671-8013 https://stores.barnesandnoble.com/ store/2310 Short Story Reading Group Details October 3. (334) 793-9767 www.dhcls.org Club STEAM (Free) Details October 3. (334) 503-9119 www.dalevillepubliclibrary.com Wiregrass Area Fields of Faith 5:45 PM – 8 PM, 501 Recreation Rd, Dothan, AL 36303 Westgate Park at Northcutt Field Hosted by Wiregrass Fellowship of Christian Athletes, Fields of Faith is a peerto-peer movement where thousands of students from around the Wiregrass will gather on the football field at Northcutt to share stories and challenge each other to apply the Bible as their “game plan for life.” 5:45 PM - Tailgate Party for the students on the field. 6:20 PM - Praise & Worship led by Ashley Marie Dennis from Liberty Worship Collective. 6:30 PM - Rally at south end of field featuring student testimonials and guest speakers: Rich Wingo (Former Alabama & Green Bay Packer Linebacker) and Rick Burgess (Host of the Rick & Bubba Show) http://dothanfca.org/ Slime Lab 3:30 p.m. - 4:00 p.m., Dothan-Houston Co. Library-Main, 445 N. Main St. Dothan, 36303 Join us each month for a different squishy-icky type of gelatinous goo! All supplies will be provided and registration is REQUIRED! Parents- please register each child in their name. Please plan to arrive on time. Those who arrive late, may not be allowed in. (334) 793-9767 www.dhcls.org Brown Bag Volunteer Day: Pick Up Bags 8:00 a.m. - 11:00 a.m., Wiregrass Area Food Bank, 382 Twitchell Rd. Dothan, 36303 Open to individuals or groups. Comfortable clothing and closed-toe shoes recommended. You should be able to stand for 1.5-2 hours

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Thursday October 18

Tail Waggin’ Tutors (Free) 10:30 a.m. Ozark-Dale Co. Library, 416 James St. Ozark, 36360 Tail Waggin’ Tutors, a program provided by Therapy Dogs International, allows reluctant readers to enjoy reading in a relaxed, judgement free, and “dog friendly” atmosphere. Children pick out a book and pair up with a dog to read aloud. Come meet “Mack” or “Webster” – they are excited about reading and cannot wait to see you! (334) 774-5480 www.odcpl.com Ralph Smith Memorial Golf Tournament ($600

Team; $200 Hole Sponsor)

11:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m., Highland Oaks Golf Course, 904 Royal Pkwy Dothan, 36305 Golfin’ for the Gardens Four Man Scramble at the Robert Trent Jones Highland Oaks Golf Course in Dothan, AL. All of the proceeds benefit the Dothan Area Botanical Gardens. (334) 596-2352 www.dabg.com Lego Builders Club (Free) 3:15 p.m. - 5:00 p.m., Daleville Public Library, 308 Donnell Blvd. Daleville, 36322 Come join us for some fun build challenges or you can enjoy some easy going freestyle building. It is sure to be a fun time for all, and best of all it is FREE! (334) 503-9119 dalevillepubliclibrary.com Tail Waggin’ Tutors (Free) 4:30 p.m. Ozark-Dale Co. Library, 416 James St. Ozark, 36360 Tail Waggin’ Tutors, a program provided by Therapy Dogs International, allows reluctant readers to enjoy reading in a relaxed, judgement free, and “dog friendly” atmosphere. Children pick out a book and pair up with a dog to read aloud. Come meet “Mack” or “Webster” – they are excited about reading and cannot wait to see you! (334) 774-5480 www.odcpl.com Art After Hours ($5 Non-Members; Members Free) 5:30 p.m. - 8:00 p.m., Wiregrass Museum of Art, 126 Museum Ave. Dothan, 36303 Come wander the galleries, have a drink, and take in the new art on display. You might even have a chance to speak with one of the exhibiting artists or try your hand at an in-gallery activity. Light snacks will be served, and drinks will be available for purchase. (334) 794-3871 www.wiregrassmuseum.org Merchants of London ($36.95-$39.95) Details Thursday October 4. (334) 470-6568 www.southernbroadway.com Thirsty Third Thursday ($40) 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m., Ohana Smoothie Bar, 621 Boll Weevil Circle Enterprise, 36330 Come and enjoy a 20 oz smoothie and the craft of the month for only $40. Price includes all materials needed and the smoothie of your choice. Bring your own additive to make a frozen cocktail if you want! (334) 348-2738 www.allaboutartstudio.com Health and Wellness Workshop (Free) 8:00 a.m. - 2:00 p.m., Dothan Civic Center, 126 N. St. Andrews St. Dothan, 36303 Diabetes educators, vendors, demonstrations, free health screenings, goody bags, and door prizes. Breakfast and lunch first-come first-served. Registration not required. $100 cash giveaway. Sponsored by Dothan Leisure Services and the Alabama Department of Public Health. (334) 615-3700 HIPPY Field Trip (Free) 9:30 a.m. Dothan Area Botanical Gardens, 5130 Headland Ave. Dothan, 36303 Join HIPPY at the Dothan

Area Botanical Gardens to check out the Scarecrows in the Garden exhibit! Feel free to pack a picnic lunch or snacks. There are vending machines available (drinks only). Friendly, dogs on leashes are welcome! (334) 792-6255

Friday October 19

Far Out Friday (Free) 3:30 p.m. - 4:30 p.m., Lucy Hilton Maddox Memorial Library, 11880 Columbia St. Blakely, 39823 Every Friday in October. Science for children ages 6-12. (229) 723-3079 Merchants of London ($36.95-$39.95) Details Thursday October 4. (334) 470-6568 www.southernbroadway.com Friday Night Lights ($12.99 & Up) Details October 5. (334) 446-5175 www.axtionair.com The Lacs Concert (Advance $20; Day of Show $25) 8:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m., The Plant, 308 North St. Andrews St. Dothan, 36301 Steve Hall Productions Presents The Lacs at The Plant. Doors open 7:00 p.m. Ages 18+ theplantdothan.com

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10:00 a.m. National Peanut Festival Fairgrounds, 5622 Hwy 231 South Dothan, 36301 Designed as a parent & child progra, the Cubmobile Derby is open to boys & girls ages 8-12. Trophies and awards go to the top 3 finishers. A parent/guardian or adult is expected to help in the construction of the car. (334) 793-4323 www.nationalpeanutfestival.com Barnes and Noble Storytime (Free) 11:00 a.m. Barnes and Noble, 4601 Montgomery Hwy. Dothan, 36303 Every Wednesday and Saturday in October. Join us for storytime and activities featuring a different children’s book each session. (334) 671-8013 https://stores.barnesandnoble.com/ store/2310 Coffee and Coloring 11:00 a.m. - 12:30 p.m., Dothan-Houston Co. LibraryWestgate, Recreation Road Dothan, 36303 Join us for Adult Coffee and Coloring. A time of relaxation, creativity and where friendships are made. All supplies are provided or bring your own. (334) 699-2950 www.dhcls.org Little Miss NPF Pageant 5:00 p.m. Dothan Civic Center, 126 N. St. Andrews St. Dothan, 36303 Little Miss National Peanut Festival is an ambassador of not only the festival, but the peanut industry. Contestants who participate in the Little Miss National Peanut Festival pageant are girls who have won qualified preliminary pageants in peanut producing areas of Alabama, Florida and Georgia. (334) 793-4323 www.nationalpeanutfestival.com Merchants of London ($36.95-$39.95) Details Thursday October 4. (334) 470-6568 www.southernbroadway.com The Sandi McCool Champions of Hope (Spirit Walk & 5K $25; 10K $35; Half Marathon $50; Kids Zone Free)

7:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m., Alabama College of Osteopathic Medicine, 445 Health Sciences Blvd. Dothan, 36301 The Sandi McCool Champions of Hope is a 5-K, 10-K and half

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FamilyCalendar marathon competitive race, 1-mile Spirit Walk and Kids Zone community cancer awareness event staged annually by the Southeast Alabama Medical Center Foundation. Each year sponsors, runners, walkers, survivors and their families and friends gather to raise money and awareness about the importance of early detection and intervention. 334-673-4150 www.samcfoundation.org A Change in Me Seminar ($40) 8:30 a.m. - 2:30 p.m., Wiregrass Rehabilitation Center, 795 Ross Clark Circle Dothan, 36303 A Domestic Violence event designed to encourage, enlighten, inform, and education on domestic violence. (334) 446-8281 All About Wildlife Art Auction Donation Deadline 9:00 a.m. - 11:00 a.m., Big Bend Wildlife Sanctuary, 1034 County Road 445 Enterprise, 36330 This is a request for donated art work (any medium), sculptures, paintings, crafts, or photographs to be sold at our 5th Annual Wildlife About Wildlife Art Auction. Donations can be dropped off anytime before October 20th. (334) 447-8110

Sunday October 21

11th Annual Links for Literacy Golf Tournament (Teams $200; Individual $50)

1:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m., Donalsonville Country Club, 6093 GA Hwy 39 Donalsonville, 39845 Support literacy in Seminole County. Four-man scramble. Prizes for longest drive and closest to the pin. Post-tournament BBQ for players. (229) 309-0531 Chess Club 2:00 p.m. - 4:45 p.m., Dothan-Houston Co. Library-Main, 445 N. Main St. Dothan, 36303 Every Sunday in October. All chess boards and pieces provided. (334) 793-9767 www.dhcls.org

Monday October 22

Belly Dancing for Beginners 5:30 p.m. - 7:30 p.m., Dothan-Houston Co. LibraryMain, 445 N. Main St. Dothan, 36303 Join us for a taste of what Belly Dancing is all about. All are welcome to participate or spectate. Space is limited. (334) 793-9767 www.dhcls.org

Tuesday October 23 Story & Craft Time @ Main Details October 5. (334) 793-9767 www.dhcls.org Toddler Tales (Free) Details October 2. (229) 723-3079 GP Quilters (Free) Details October 2. (334) 347-5214 www.mygpchurch.com Let’s Get Craftin’ Night ($10) 6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m., First United Methodist Church, Enterprise, 36330 Join us for fellowship, food and a good time learning and creating something new. Supplies and refreshments provided. (334) 347-3467 www.efumc.com

Wednesday October 24 Story & Craft Time @ Westgate Details October 3. (334) 699-2950 www.dhcls.org

Barnes and Noble Storytime (Free) Details October 3. (334) 671-8013 https://stores.barnesandnoble.com/ store/2310

Meet & Mingle with DAYP 11:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m., Texas Roadhouse, 3730 Montgomery Hwy. Dothan, 36303 DAYP meets once a month at lunch for a “Meet & Mingle”. A local area restaurant (chamber member) will be selected to eat at that day. All DAYP members are invited to attend. For October we will meet at a Texas Roadhouse during lunch hours from 11am-1pm. Come anytime you can between the hours of 11 and 1 and someone from DAYP will be there to eat with you! www.dothanyp.com Short Story Reading Group Details October 3. (334) 793-9767 www.dhcls.org Club STEAM (Free) Details October 3. (334) 503-9119 www.dalevillepubliclibrary.com Book Club Night 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m., Barnes & Noble, 4601 Montgomery Hwy. Dothan, 36303 Join as we discuss our October book club pick “An Absolutely Remarkable Thing” by Hank Green. (334) 671-8013

Thursday October 25

Story Time: Early Literacy Fun with Parent to Parent-Enterprise (Free) 10:30 a.m. & 4:30 pm Ozark-Dale Co. Library, 416 James St. Ozark, 36360 Children of all ages: join us at the Ozark Dale County Library for our weekly Story Times on Thursdays at 10:30am and 4:30pm. Each week features a fun theme, activity, and snack for all to enjoy. (334) 774-5480 www.odcpl.com Ultimate Date Night with Jay & Laura Laffoon (General Admission

$25; VIP Experience $35)

7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m., Bethel Baptist Church, 3257 E. Cottonwood Rd. Dothan, 36301 The Ultimate Date Night is an evening of nonstop music, comedy, and laughter! Nuggets of marriage wisdom and Biblical principals are sprinkled throughout the program. Jay & Laura’s unique transparent style allows everyone to learn valuable marriage tools while having fun! www.thejoyfm.com/alabama

Friday October 26

Far Out Friday (Free) 3:30 p.m. - 4:30 p.m., Lucy Hilton Maddox Memorial Library, 11880 Columbia St. Blakely, 39823 Every Friday in October. Science for children ages 6-12. (229) 723-3079 Prescription Drug Take Back 8:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m., Dothan-Houston Co. Library Main, 445 N. Main St. Dothan, 36303 Drug disposal programs prevent poisoning of children keep medicines from entering streams and rivers, and deter misuse by adults and teenagers. The drop off is free, safe and anonymous. The program will be held in the parking lot at the Dothan Houston Main Library. (334) 793-9767 www.dhcls.org Friday Night Lights ($12.99 & Up) Details October 5. (334) 446-5175 www.axtionair.com Extreme Lock-In Party ($30) Midnight - 7:00 a.m., Xtreme Air Trampoline Park, 441

Nypro Lane Dothan, 36305 Xtreme Air Trampoline Park hosts a lock-in party for ages 8-18 the last Friday of every month from midnight to 7:00 a.m. A police officer will be present. (334) 797-5867 www.xtremeairtrampolinepark.com

Saturday October 27

Pokemon League (Free) Details October 6.(334) 774-5480 www.odcpl.com Barnes and Noble Storytime (Free) 11:00 a.m. Barnes and Noble, 4601 Montgomery Hwy. Dothan, 36303 Every Wednesday and Saturday in October. Join us for storytime and activities featuring a different children’s book each session. (334) 671-8013 https://stores.barnesandnoble.com/ store/2310 Betrayal at House on the Hill - Game Night 2:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m., Dothan-Houston Co. Library Westgate, Recreation Road Dothan, 36303 Learn how to play Betrayal at House On the Hill. This game is for ages 13 & up. Registration required. (334) 699-2950 www.dhcls.org Dothan Half & 5K (5K $30; Half Marathon $45) 7:00 a.m. 2214 Ross Clark Circle Dothan, 36301 Run America’s First Circle and collect a golden peanut medal. www.runthecircle.com The Amazing FundRACEr ($50-$500)

Various Locations, Dothan, 36303 Join the Dothan Education Foundation this fall as teams of two compete in a fast-paced and fun-filled race across the City of Dothan. Patterned after the CBS television show, contestants will complete AMAZING challenges at a series of undisclosed locations – Challenge Stops – to earn clues that point them to the next stop. Teams will be eliminated as the race progresses, building to a climactic final challenge between the top four teams and a heated sprint to the finish line. The event will culminate with The Amazing After-Party at The Plant. (334) 794-6585 www.dothaneducationfoundation.org

Sunday October 28

Chess Club 2:00 p.m. - 4:45 p.m., Dothan-Houston Co. Library-Main, 445 N. Main St. Dothan, 36303 Every Sunday in October. All chess boards and pieces provided. (334) 793-9767 www.dhcls.org Special Needs Sunday ($15) 6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m., Xtreme Air Trampoline Park, 441 Nypro Lane Dothan, 36305 The last Sunday of every month we open the park for Special Needs kids and adults. Cost covers 2 hours and free socks. (334) 797-5867 www.xtremeairtrampolinepark.com

Tuesday October 30

Story & Craft Time @ Main Details October 5.(334) 793-9767 www.dhcls.org Toddler Tales (Free) Details October 2. (229) 723-3079 GP Quilters (Free) Details October 2. (334) 347-5214 www.mygpchurch.com

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FamilyCalendar Classes Art

Art Club First and last Saturdays of the month, from 10:30 a.m.noon. at Ozark-Dale Co. Library. Miss Alden Delaney will give art lessons for children ages 5 years and up. All skill levels are welcome, we provide the art supplies, and there is no charge for the lessons. Artist Escape @ Rudd Art Center (Ozark) 11 a.m.-2 p.m. come-and-go on Wednesdays. Dowling Museum Ann Rudd Art Center, 144 E. Broad Street, Ozark. No cost and all skills are welcome. Pack up your art materials and join us! If you need technique or inspiration, advice is free too. We paint draw, cut and paste, share ideas, stories and artsy odds and ends. For more info, call (334) 445-6526 or visit www.ruddartcenter.org/. Arts & Crafts Weekly Classes Ft. Rucker Arts & Crafts Center offers a variety of classes for all ages. For more info, call (334) 255-9020 or visit https://rucker.armymwr.com/programs/arts-crafts-center. • Woodshop Safety: Saturdays, 9-10 a.m. $5 fee per person. • Stained Glass: Tuesdays & Thursdays, 10 a.m.-1 p.m. $40 fee per person. • Double Stained Glass: Wednesdays & Saturdays, 10 a.m.-noon. $40 fee per person • Children’s Painting: Every other Saturday, 1-3 p.m. $20 fee per child/Additional $10 for parents. • Adult Painting: Every other Friday, 6-8 p.m. $30 fee per person. *Classes must be paid for before class starts.* Cookies and Canvas 1-3 p.m. 2nd Saturdays. All About Art, 100 South Main Street, Enterprise. For kids, teens and parents. Class is designed to be a family experience for parents and children; however, kids 10-17 may be signed up to participate independently. Refreshments served as a part of the creative experience. $20 per 11x14 canvas; $30 per 16x20 canvas. Sign up in store, at www.allaboutartstudio.com or by calling (334) 348-2738 and paying over the phone. Private party times available. Min. of 10 people required.

for toddlers and their caregivers. Light toddler-friendly refreshments will be provided. Cost is $20 per child. Sign up in store, at www.allaboutartstudio.com or by calling (334) 348-2738 and paying over the phone. Private party times available. Min. of 10 people required. Private party groups can pick any painting from our archives or current paintings. Youth Art Classes 4-5:30 p.m. October 16, 23 & 30. Wiregrass Museum of Art, 126 Museum Avenue, Dothan. Join us for three classes that focus on artwork on display in the galleries. Students will learn about a new work of art each week by discussing the artist and how it was created, as well as sharing thoughts on the work in a sketchbook made by each student. Pre-registration required by the first Saturday of the month. Cost: $35 members; $45 non-members. Call (334) 794-3871 or register at www. wiregrassmuseum.org.

Choral Classes

Una Voce is a community choir for children in grades 5-8,that is in residence at the Cultural Arts Center on St. Andrews St. in Dothan. Membership in Una Voce is a commitment to faithful, consistent and punctual attendance. It is expected that both rehearsals and performances will take a very high priority in each child’s life. Cost is $20 a month or $100 for fall session. Please visit www.theculturalartscenter.org for details.

Computer & Technology

Free Basic Computer Classes Saturdays from 9-10 a.m. at Ozark-Dale Co. Library. You’ll learn the basics of using your computer, the internet, e-mail, Microsoft Office and more! Registration is not required. Free Tech Classes Fridays from 2-3 p.m. at Ozark-Dale Co. Library. We can help you with your smart phone, tablet or your e-reader! Please bring your device to the class.

Dance Cultural Arts Center Visual Art Classes 909 S. St. Andrews Street, Dothan. Children’s and Adults’ exploratory art classes will be held in the Messy Space building at the Cultural Arts Center. Registration is open online at www.theculturalartscenter.org or in person at the box office of the Cultural Arts Center. For more info, call (334) 699-2787.

Ballroom Dance Classes 6:30-7:30 p.m. Tuesdays. Dothan Cultural Arts Center, 909 S. St. Andrews St., Dothan. Come learn the basic steps of a new ballroom dance each month with a few of the pros who love to social dance. Hosted by Bill Dempsey, Dothan Ballroom Dance Club will offer dance lessons for $2 per person per night. No partner needed. For more info, call (334) 791-9407 or visit www.dothanballroomdanceclub.com.

Folk Art Lessons @ Rudd Art Center (Ozark) 4-5 p.m. Monday and Tuesday, Sept. 24 & 25. Dowling Museum Ann Rudd Art Center, 144 E. Broad Street, Ozark. For ages 6-13. Supplies are furnished for $10 fee. Purchase tickets ahead of time at www.eventbrite. com since there are only 8 available spots each date. For more info, call (334) 445-6526 or visit www.ruddartcenter.org/.

Cultural Arts Center Dance Classes 909 S. St. Andrews Street, Dothan. Registration is open online at www.theculturalartscenter.org or in person at the box office of the Cultural Arts Center. Dance and choral classes are held in the CAC Dance Studio and Choreography Studio. For more info on the classes below, call (334) 699-2787 or visit www.theculturalartscenter.org.

Renaissance Art Lessons @ Rudd Art Center (Ozark) 4-5 p.m. Monday and Tuesday, Oct. 1 & 2. Dowling Museum Ann Rudd Art Center, 144 E. Broad Street, Ozark. For ages 6-13. Supplies are furnished for $10 fee. Purchase tickets ahead of time at www.eventbrite.com since there are only 8 available spots each date. For more info, call (334) 445-6526 or visit www.ruddartcenter.org/. Toddler Tales Art Classes 10 a.m. 1st Saturdays. All About Art, 100 South Main Street, Enterprise. For kids 15 months to 4 years and their caregivers. Class is designed to be a family experience, with story time and a related art project

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CREATIVE MOVEMENT CLASS FOR PRE-SCHOOLERS at Dothan Cultural Arts Center Ages 3-4, potty trained, and able to leave Mom to be in class. Meet 3:45-4:15 p.m. on Tuesdays through December 11. $20 a month for class ($100 for the session). Students learn coordination, listening skills, movement skills, basic hand and foot skills related to ballet positions, and have fun moving and dancing with props. Wear basic black leotards, white tights and ballet shoes (black or pink). Contact info listed above. DANCE 1 at Dothan Cultural Arts Center Ages 5-9 (school age). Meet 4:15-5:15 p.m. Tuesdays

through December 11. $35 a month for class ($175 for session). Students spend 30 minutes learning basic ballet positions, movement, vocabulary and choreography for recital, then swap and spend remaining 30 minutes learning tap with basic foot positions, shoe positions, vocabulary and choreography. Wear black leotards, white tights and ballet shoes. (Also need black tap shoes.) Contact info listed above. DANCE 2 at Dothan Cultural Arts Center Ages 10-14. Meet 5:15-6:30 p.m. Tuesdays through December 11. $40 a month for class ($225 for session). Students spend 40 minutes learning advanced ballet/ lyrical positions, movement, vocabulary and choreography for recital and then swap for 35 minutes and learn TAP with basic foot positions, shoe positions, vocabulary and choreography. Wear black leotards, white tights and ballet shoes. (Also need black tap shoes.) Contact info listed above. Line Dancing at Dothan Cultural Arts Center 7-8 p.m. Tuesdays. A great class for beginners who want to learn MORE about line dancing. Come 10 minutes early to sign in and pay and wear shoes that slide easily on the floor. No partner needed. $5 per person per night. For more info, call (334) 701-5261 or visit www. theculturalartscenter.org.

Gardening

Master Gardener Training Course 8:30 a.m.-12:30 p.m. Wednesdays. Dale County Extension Office. Classes are taught by Auburn University and extension specialists, regional extension agents, and certified Master Gardeners. Cost of the course is $150. For more info, call (334) 774-2329. Wiregrass Master Gardeners: Lunch & Learn Noon-1 p.m., Tuesday, Oct. 2, at Dothan-Houston County Main Library, Community Room. Join the Wiregrass Master Gardeners Association as they present on a variety of seasonal topics each month. Don’t forget to bring a bag lunch! October’s topic is Native Plants with Lisa Ennis. For more info, visit http://wiregrassmga.org/.

Science & Engineering

Club STEAM Powered for Grades 5-8 3:30 p.m. Wednesdays. Daleville Public Library, 308 Donnell Blvd, Daleville. A fun and free after-school science program. Learn about different fields of science and engineering through fun hands-on experiments. Program funded by a grant from the Wiregrass Foundation. Please register at the Daleville Public Library. Call (334) 503-9119 or e-mail dalevillepubliclibrary@troycable.net.

Sign Language

Wiggles and Giggles 10 a.m., first Thursdays at Enterprise Public Library, 101 E Grubbs St., Enterprise. FREE baby signing class. Come sing and sign! For more info, call (334) 347-2636 or e-mail director@enterpriselibrary.org. Sign Language Class 5:30-7:30 p.m. October 29. Dothan-Houston Co. Library - Westgate Branch Community Room. Join us for another class to learn sign language basics. This class is being hosted by the Alabama Institute For Deaf and Blind. No registration necessary but space is limited. For more info, call (334) 699-2950 or visit https://www. dhcls.org/.

Yoga

Art of Yoga 9-10 a.m. First Fridays. Wiregrass Museum of Art, 126 Museum Avenue, Dothan. In partnership with Mesuva Yoga Studio, the Art of Yoga combines the therapeutic nature of art with the healing properties of yoga under the instruction of certified yogi Melissa Vair. Participants will be guided through an all-levels appropriate class held in the museum galleries. Please bring your own

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Support Groups & Classes water bottle, yoga mat, and towel (if needed). For more info, call (334) 794-3871 or visit www.mesuva.org. Weekly Evening Yoga 5:30-6:30 p.m. Tuesdays & Thursdays. The Herbal Toad, 120 North Court Square, Ozark. Certified yoga instructor, Alexandra Locklear. $5/class. Bring your own mat and bottled water, and a yoga block if you have one. For info, call (334) 714-9503 or visit Theherbaltoad.com.

Support Groups Cancer

I’m 2 Young 4 Breast Cancer 6-7:30 p.m. Third Tuesdays each month. Southeast Alabama Medical Center (SAMC) Women’s Center, third floor. For more info, contact Ladonna Danford at (334) 699-8111, ext. 8459. The Pink Ambassadors 11 a.m.-1 p.m. First Fridays (except January, July and September) Southeast Alabama Medical Center (SAMC) Doctors Building, 7th floor Conference Room. For more info, call (334) 712-3336 or 1-800-735-4998. US-TOO Prostate Cancer (Wiregrass Chapter) 6 p.m. First Thursdays, except July and January. Southeast Alabama Medical Center (SAMC) 7th floor Doctors Building. For more info, call (334) 793-8107.

Divorce

Divorce Recovery Support Group 6-7:30 p.m. Wednesdays. Meets at Calvary Baptist Church, 901 Montezuma Ave., Dothan, Room 209. You are invited to join us at any time during the semester. Child care available. Cost is $15 and includes workbook. For more info, call (334) 792-5159 or visit www.calvarydothan.com/divorcecare/.

Domestic Violence

Domestic Violence Survivors Called group meets on Thursdays from 9-10:30 a.m. The Exchange Center, 102 Morgan Street, Dothan. This is an open group, for survivors of domestic violence. For more info, call (334) 671-1966 or visit www.exchangecap.org or find us on Facebook (ExchangeCAP).

Grief Support

Bethel Baptist GriefShare 6-7:30 p.m. Wednesdays. Meets at Bethel Baptist Church, 3257 E Cottonwood Rd, Dothan, Room 502. GriefShare is a special weekly seminar and support group for people who are grieving the death of someone close to them. You are welcome to begin attending at any point in our 13-week cycle. Child care available. Cost is $15 and includes workbook. For more info, call (334) 792-5908 or visit http://bbcdothan.org/. Covenant Care Grief Support Group 5 p.m. every Thursday from Sept. 8 through Oct. 13, Ridgecrest Baptist, Dothan. Covenant care Bereavement Coordinator January McKeithan helps those who have lost a loved one in processing their grief and finding hope. Call (334) 350-6718 to register, or https:// choosecovenant.org/event/grief-support-group-6-weeksdothan/ for more info.

the left behind the circular driveway (behind the rose garden). Facilitator: Will Coggins. For more info, call (334) 702-2273 or (334) 794-7965. **Please note: This support group meets regardless if it is a holiday or not. Sometimes the holidays are the hardest for caregivers.** Better Breathers 10 a.m. Third Tuesdays each month (except summers). Southeast Alabama Medical Center (SAMC) Doctors Building, 7th floor Conference Room. For more info, call (334) 793-8025. Caring Hearts Meets quarterly on 3rd Wednesdays of these months: March, June, September, December. Southeast Alabama Medical Center (SAMC) Doctors Building, 7th floor Conference Room. For more info, call (334) 793-8025. Crowns of Glory (formerly Hang In There) For parents of children with disabilities and illnesses. 6 p.m. on 4th Saturdays, every other month (Feb, April, June, August, Oct, Dec) Southeast Alabama Medical Center (SAMC) Auditorium Conference Room. For more info, contact Lisa Patterson at (334) 793-1044.

Dothan Mothers of Preschoolers (MOPs) 10:30-noon mostly 1st and 3rd Tuesdays (October 2 & 16). Harvest Church, 2727 Fortner St., Dothan. For more info, visit www.harvestdothan.com/mops or e-mail dothanmops@gmail.com. Fort Rucker’s Mom & Me: Dad Too 9:30-11 a.m. on Mondays at The Commons in the Soldier Service Center Bldg. 5700, Rm. 371G. The FREE playgroup is for families with children ages birth to 16 months. For details, call New Parent Support Program at (334) 255-9647 or (334) 255-3359 or (334)255-9805. Wiregrass Hope Group Pregnancy Resources

Diabetes Support 3-4:30 p.m. Quarterly 3rd Tuesdays. Southeast Alabama Medical Center (SAMC) Women’s Center, 1st floor-Diabetes Treatment Center Classroom. For more info, call (334) 793-8854 or 1-800-223-0843. Dothan Patient & Family Support Volunteer Training Workshop 9 a.m.-5 p.m. Wednesday, Sept. 26. 1512 W Main St., Dothan. Are you looking for a volunteer opportunity that will give you a sense of purpose and worthwhile work? Support hospice patients & families; serve bereaved family members; provide administrative & clerical support; assist with fundraising or community outreach efforts; give loving support to Covenant Care Kids; honor veteran patients; and care for Alzheimer’s patients and caregivers. For more info or to register, contact Donna at (850) 482-8520 or e-mail to donna.meldon@choosecovenant.org. Parkinson’s Support Noon, 3rd Tuesdays each month (except summers). Southeast Alabama Medical Center (SAMC) Rehab Services building, 1480 Ross Clark Circle, Dothan. For more info, call Haley McNeal at (334) 793-8961. Stroke 11:30 a.m.-1 p.m. 3rd Thursdays each month (except November). Southeast Alabama Medical Center (SAMC) Doctors Building, 7th floor Conference Room. For more info, call Sharon Bidwell at (334) 793-8726, ext. 5.

Pain Management

AMPed Up Amputee Support Group Noon, 1st Thursday. Southeast Alabama Medical Center Rehab Services building, Neurobalance Center, 1480 Ross Clark Circle, Dothan. For more info, call (334) 712-3726. Pain 10-11 a.m. Last Tuesdays each month. Southeast Pain Management Center. For more info, call Sonya Jordan at (334) 796-1732.

Illness Support

Parenting/Pregnancy

Alzheimer’s Caregiver Support Group Meetings 7 p.m. first Mondays of each month. First United Methodist Church, Dothan. Marie Flowers Room. Park in the front left parking lot. Enter through the door on

Dothan First Friday Mother’s Group St. Columba Catholic Church, 2700 W. Main St., Dothan. On the first Friday of each month, moms and kids are invited to come to the 9 a.m. Mass. After Mass, moms and kids are invited to the gym for free story time and crafts

ALS (Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis or Lou Gehrig’s Disease) 3 p.m. first Tuesdays. Newton Baptist Church, Newton. For more info, contact Melissa Enfinger at (334) 3123328 or Melissa@alsalabama.org.

for kids, and coffee and fellowship for moms. All moms and children are welcome. For more info, call (334) 9446523 or visit www.stcolumbacatholic.com/.

Breastfeeding 10 a.m.-noon. 1st & 3rd Thursdays. Southeast Alabama Medical Center (SAMC) Women’s Center, 2nd floor Conference Room C. For more info, call (334) 673-4141.

Offers compassionate care and practical support to women and families facing a planned or unplanned pregnancy. All of our services are provided at no cost to our clients. We provide confidential care and attention through our trained staff. Programs and services include: pregnancy testing ultrasound (limited to 1st trimester); pre-natal and parenting education programs; nutrition classes; childbirth classes; breastfeeding classes; newborn care; life skill classes; fatherhood program; pregnancy loss; abortion recovery care; and adoption referral. To make an appointment for a pregnancy test, an ultrasound, or to find out any other info, please call (334) 793-0002 or e-mail appointments@wiregrasshope. com. Also visit www.wiregrasshopepregnancycenter.com.

Post-Traumatic Stress (PTSD)

PTSD Group Tuesdays from 5-6:30 p.m. in the Fort Rucker Spiritual Life Center in Bldg. 8939 on Red Cloud Road. The group follows the Veterans Affairs protocol PTSD Recovery Program and is for anyone interested in learning more about PTSD. For more info, call (334) 255-3903.

Special Needs

Autism Support Group For meeting location and time, call Fran Heisner at (334) 793-8714 or e-mail fcheisner@samc.org. Enterprise Autism Social Group Meets at Enterprise Public Library, 101 E Grubbs St., Enterprise. Parent groups meet Oct. 9 at 11 a.m. and Oct. 23 at 6 p.m. There is also “Coffee and Conversation” Oct. 22 from 6-7:30 p.m., held at Boldly Going Coffee Shop, 1208 Rucker Boulevard, Enterprise. It is a chance to get out of the house and socialize with other parents of kids on the autism spectrum. No particular topic or agenda. For more info, call (334) 477-4686 or e-mail sdipilla.bcba@gmail.com.

Please send your calendar events to ashton@wiregrassaparents.com. We make every effort to ensure the accuracy of this information. However, you should always call ahead to confirm dates, times, location, and other information.

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I want to hear them tell me what they were thinking when they made a mistake or when they purposely made a bad decision. I also like to have dialogue so that I can make sure they are comprehending what I’m saying. WP: What’s something your mom taught you about life that you hope to pass along to your children? Precious: My mother taught me to always have faith. She taught this lesson every chance that she could. Even if it was something as simple as gas in the car. We’d have faith that we were going to make it to the gas station without running out of gas.

Precious Freeman

WP: It’s important for kids to learn to be self-sufficient. What routines does your family have that help instill basic life skills?

WP: When you’re not running your own business and being a mom and wife, how do you spend your free time?

Precious: Right now our focus is on responsibility. The children begged us for a puppy and when we got them one we noticed that they kind of treated him like a Christmas toy and seemed bored after a week. So, we had to sit them down and explain responsibility and ownership. Now, they spend time with their puppy every day. Before school they change his water and feed him, and take some time to pet him and love on him. Then, after school they all take him for a walk together.

Precious: My favorite past-time is planning for Christmas. I love traditions, and I work really hard to make sure that my family enjoys a memorable Christmas each year. I start planning in March and am usually done shopping by October or November. I like to finish early so that I can soak up every minute of the Christmas season. I love how much kinder everyone is during that time. I also focus on spending time together as a family and on what the season is really all about - the greatest gift being Christ.

WP: What’s something you do at home that you think promotes better family time? Precious: One thing that I do is force my children to come out of their rooms. I really like to sit down and watch movies together. We watch and critique Hallmark Christmas Movies all year round. WP: How do you take care of yourself so you can be your “best self” for your family?

WP: What are you looking forward to most this fall and why?

Precious: It can be really tempting, especially with three girls, to think that my girls should go everywhere I go. But to be my best self, I feel like I have to give myself permission to go shopping, to the salon, or on a vacation without my children. It’s hard to leave them, but once I’ve carved out that time it becomes very evident to me that the time away is much needed. I always come back refreshed and ready to play and hear their stories, questions, and jokes.

Precious: Well, now that Bath and Body Works fall candles have hit the shelves I’m in heaven. The only thing left for me is jeans and boots season. I love how fall gives us permission to dress in layers. I’m also going to enjoy watching my husband watch his favorite team and alma mater, Auburn, play football on the weekends. It gives us something else to do together as a family and our girls really get into the rivalry. WP: Favorite fall or Halloween memory with your family?

WP: Any advice for new parents?

Precious: We traditionally host a “No Fear” Party at our home on Halloween. We have food, inflatables, and costumes. Our younger kids really get into it. We make great memories every time we do it.

Precious: The best advice I can think of for any new parent is to avoid comparing yourself to other mothers, or even to who you used to be before your children were born. Also, avoid comparing your children to one another or to anyone else. Every family and every child is unique. I think that the sooner we embrace this truth, the

WP: How would you describe your parenting style?

quicker we can figure out what works for us and be okay with that.

Precious: We set standards for our children and try our best to hold them accountable, while also loving them so well that they know we will always have their backs. I am a talker and a big listener. I love to have conversations with my children, even when they are in trouble. Wiregrass Parents I October 2018

Precious Freeman is a managing partner at BFC Management, a nonprofit consulting company she owns with her husband, Biko. They have three daughters, Lillien (13), Virtue (7), and Etta (4).