ShineOn Magazine Issue 2 - Feb. 2013

Special Black History Edition

Issue 2 • February 2013

breaking out of the

closet b.o.o.t.c

Child Development

Experts The LDCA

Revolution

t.M.I.C TELL ME I CAN

INSIDE LOOK with melani miki turner AND rIC fLO

fashion t~Tyme Lady couture

celebration of life bREAST cANCER survivors photoshoot melani inspiration + Journey with miki

behind the chair with Cassandra | D2d cruise - making dreams reality!

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Features

04 Dare to Dream Cruises

Helping you Relax, Network, & Grow.

32 Micore Hair Systems

A community driven business.

42 Child Development with LDCA

Uniting the best of the best.

46 B.O.O.T.C

Breaking out of the Closet.

52 Build My BRAND

How to promote yourself effectively.

Fashion & Beauty

20 T~Tyme Lady Coture

This Lady’s got STYLE!

50 Shop Talk

with Cassandra Renee.

Lifestyle 08 Tell Me I CAN

A movement to encourage!

30 Journey with Miki

Grow to love Yourself!

health 14 BC Survivors’ Photoshoot

Overcoming the battle of a lifetime

ENTERTAINMENT 36 Melani Jackson Exclusive

An Inspirational Singer, Songwriter.

28 RIC FLO Inside Look

The open mic life tour.

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FROM THE EDITOR Greetings, greetings, First and foremost I would like to thank all of our readers and supporters who have joined us in the launching of ShineOn Magazine. I truly believe that our core values and intentions are being received well. We sincerely appreciate all the support and encouragement.

As I stated in our inaugural issue of ShineOn, every step we take is planted and rooted in some form of desire.

We move in one direction or another because we are on a path towards something we want. Ken Vereen took a step in the form of his desire. He has been moving in the direction of something that he truly wants. He is a visionary and incredible business partner. Ken has set forth a vision not only for our publication, but he has also set forth to build a team that would encourage the enhancement of the lives of all those that we may reach.

As a member of his team I am honored to be a part of such a phenomenal mission.

Publisher Ken Vereen, publisher@shineonmag.com

All of us are the people, the community, and the source.

Our brains and hearts are activated by actions and emotions. Actions speak a thousand times louder than our words, and emotions determine how we will put those actions into effect. Our vision is to be the type of company that doesn’t just share “words” about support, advancement, and enlightenment. We will be more than just an operational business, or magazine publication. WE are building powerful teams of people who go out into the world and act out the very morals and truths that we believe in. We together will plant seeds of love and wisdom. We will infuse the cities, the countries, the market place and more with empowered individuals who desire to make a difference.

Editor

That’s what we stand for and that is what we will set out to accomplish with your help. Join us as we team up with local, regional, and national charities. We want to give back to our communities, and see them grow. Our communities across the globe need us and we need them.

Let’s sow into our future and grow together. There are no limits, no impossibilities.

Thank for all of your positi ve energy, it is deeply appreciated. We encourage you to continue with us on our journey of becoming.

Art Director

With All of My Heart -Sarina

Sarina Lyons, editor@shineonmag.com

Associate Editor Ken Watts, ken@mechkw.com

Contributing Writers Sarina Lyons Natasha Coleman Cestia Miller AnToni Michelle Cassandra Renee

Ken Watts, ken@mechkw.com

Graphic Artist MechKW Design, www.MechKW.com

Photographers Dexter Cohen

Sales Officer Ken Vereen, kvereen@d2dcruise.com

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Dare Dream Cruise: “U Can do It!” Leaving shore: September 30th, 2013

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No matter who you are or where your challenges arise EVERYDAY. They come in all sizes, from all angles of life.

Some are enormous and some are miniscule, but none the less they certainly exist. Unfortunately, there are some people out there who see the challenge for what it is (or maybe more than what it is) and simply accept it allowing it to control some portion of their life. Then there are those who see it, acknowledge it and take it by the horns! Those people make a decision within themselves to unleash their power over that

challenge and use it as a tool to get them to their next level.

They may not know how or when, but their focus is on the fact that hands down they WILL overcome it. That type of assurance is priceless and comes from one undeniable belief which is that in their minds they believe they can DO IT. Period.

So what about you? Can you do it? Will you do it? Do you believe?

The “U Can Do It,” Dare2Dream cruise is for those who are embarking upon a transformational journey, individuals who

would like to be surrounded and connected to others who are striving towards their next level.

Regardless of color, background, or level of success this will be an opportunity to network and gain an immeasurable amount of knowledge and resources. The experience will be comparable to nothing else. It’s time for some new scenery wouldn’t you agree?

Aren’t you ready to be around some people who are dreamers just like yourself?

It can be difficult at times to find motivation and support within our everyday environments. The very people that we look to for

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encouragement sometimes end up being the same ones who poke holes in our dreams watching us as the air deflates and hope dims.

Set the date September 30th, 2013 and know that it will be the beginning of a new you. A you that doesn’t remain inactive due to fear or uncertainty, a you that truly sees yourself as a goldmine full of creative ideas and gifts.

Come along and be refreshed.

Sail the sea with gurus, artists, teachers, supporters and fellow dreamers. Refreshed, you should return home educated, focused, empowered, and centered.

We invite you to join us and have some fun, tell us about your dream and the challenges you face and we will make room for you. Also if you want to showcase your talent or perhaps meet someone who can help you get on the right path, this is most certainly for you.

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If you want to broaden your base and network with some creative and talented folks this cruise may be for you. If you’re tired of waiting for your friends to get their finances together as you don’t want to travel alone this cruise may be for you.

If change is more than another form of money to you, than this cruise may be for you.

“you can do it”

SPREAD THE WORD AND JOIN IN AS WE LAUNCH OUR NEW CAMPAIGN FIRST THINGS FIRST

What is it that you would like to be encouraged in? Struggling with weight loss or getting rid of an addiction? Going after that promotion, starting a business, or maybe finally writing that book?

This IS a campaign that is all about growth and progression.

Many people can have a dream, but it takes a team to complete that dream. A team that is supportive and nurturing can make all the difference in the world, especially when a person is facing a great challenge. The “T.M.I.C” campaign is being set up as a central force designed to create a connection between those with a dream and those who want to help them achieve it! There will be several goal categories represented within the campaign ranging from weight management, to developing cre-

ative talents, cultivating healthy relationships, and more! The campaign is intended to be very hands on. For further encouragement, there will be hosts for each category that will coach and inspire you on your journey of change. They will host webinars sharing useful information, advice, and ideas. Also as a guest on the Dare2Dream Cruises you will have a chance to sit with them as they host intimate connect groups where you can network and learn from others who are making strides towards goals similar to your own.

Participants/Supporters will be asked to visit our T.M.I.C site (www.tellmeican.com) to fill out a contact form telling us a little about yourself and the journey that you are preparing to embark upon. There on the site you will

see a list of categories, simply choose whichever category is most appropriate for you and upload a video no longer than 4 minutes, sharing your brief message about what you would like to accomplish. For each category the videos will be posted and shared with fellow T.M.I.C participants/supporters.

Also we will be creating an interactive “Tell Me I Can,” web calendar which could even feature YOU! The videos uploaded previously by participants will be voted on for 2 weeks and the Top 6 from each category will be featured on our calendar representing the month in which they pledged to make a promise for the campaign.

Kicking off the campaign will be an online campaign spe-

cializing in Healthy Living/ Weight Management. Join Dare 2 Dream Cruise, A New You 4 Life, and Shine on Magazine in the launching of the “Tell Me I Can” Campaign! Together we are on a mission to uplift spirits and spread encouragement to those who are fighting to take back control of their weight and ultimately their lives. Spread the word by wearing our new “T.M.I.C” bands! As a participant the bands will be a symbol to friends and loved ones, reminding them to uplift you as you transform various area of your life. These bands will be representative of any life challenges you may face extending beyond weight loss. It can stand for striving for better lab results, finishing school, personal business plans, ending bad relationships, stopping the abuse of drugs, quitting smoking, being a better spouse or parent, etc. When others see the band they can know that you are on a new journey to a better you and they can uplift you simply by saying, “You Can Do It!” The purpose of the move-

ment is to give a small but much needed nudge during a life long journey which is always changing. Together we can help each other reach our full potential and live healthier, happier and more accomplished lives.”Tell Me I Can,” will be open to those of all colors, shapes, sizes and backgrounds. Feel free to join in along with friends and family.

You can do it and we can help!

All it takes is a little support and a few words encouragement. The movement is here! Its time to take each other by the hand, look one another in the eyes and say, “Tell Me I Can.”

...the bands will be a symbol to friends and loved ones, reminding them to uplift you as you transform various area of your life.”

Celebration of life

judy williams’ BCS Photoshoot

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ccording to the National Cancer Institute (NCI), one in eight women who live to be age 80 will develop breast cancer in her lifetime. This makes the disease the second most commonly diagnosed cancer among American women, after skin cancer. (http://www. c a n c e r c e n t e r. com/breast-cancer/breast-cancer-information. cfm) Let’s start with this: Breast cancer is not U N B E ATA B L E .

There are a number of stories, some of which may never be told, that are no less than living proof that the summit of that mountain can be reached. There are stories of victory proving that the battle can be won and that a diagnosis is by no means equivalent to the end of a life. Deep beneath it all there is an undeniable source of strength in the souls of the women stricken with this

disease. There lies a beauty that is far beyond skin deep, beneath the hair loss, mastectomies, and chemotherapy fatigue. A light exists within the spirit that shines brighter than all outdoors. Sometimes that light, however, gets hard to see. Breast cancer can mistakenly give the impression that these women have lost the courage because their bodies are unable to portray the true tenacity of their hearts, but that is by no means the truth. With the grace of God all it takes is a moment, that one moment when they realize that after all the pain, changes, and emotional shifting…they have become a SURVIVOR. At that point the ground moves.

A realization happens and they know that they have become victorious in the Battle of Life, a feat not easily taken, but most assuredly completed. With all they can manage to muster,

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these women can stand up and say “I did it, I have won.”

The tears of frustration and sadness then turn into tears of thankfulness and humility. Spouses, friends, and family whose hearts have been on a roller coaster of uncertainty finally have a chance to exhale as they look upon their loved ones with sincere joy. Although they have come to the end of that indescribable journey, their stories of survival should never be forgotten. There is no medal, trophy, or badge of honor that could justly award these women as the true warriors they have become. Still it is possible to give them that special recognition by honoring and acknowledging them for all they have been through, by giving them a day, an entire event even that is solely about them. It would be an honor to make them feel like the shining stars that they truly are.

Ms. Judy Williams is the Founder/Creative Director of “Celebration of Life,” an event created especially for breast cancer survivors. Her motivation behind the event was to give them a day to be treated like Queens, a day for them to feel good and to be reignited with a new zest for life. Life alone is full of challenges that range from raising children, maintaining a marriage, a home, and of course a career. Women by nature are so many things to so many different people they are the givers of life and the backbone of the family. To be diagnosed with breast cancer takes a major toll on everyone in their world. And for those with this disease, it is much more challenging to keep up with every day demands, and still take care of one’s self. Not to mention the physical toll it takes on a woman’s body and appearance, it can sometimes be hard to simply feel beautiful as they did before. Drowning behind relationships, bills, and stress those fleeting moments of happiness that do occur become 20 times as meaningful. Some face the challenge longer than others, but the journey of survival is equally as daunting.

Ms. Judy had spent 20+ years in the fashion and beauty industry, as a make-up artist and professional hairstylist. With her undeniable skill she worked her way into fabulous success, being the owner of Glam Faces as well as Judy’s Hair Design. She has been blessed with numerous

opportunities, including having served as a stylist to multiple celebrities. Working in her field she has had many experiences and encounters with lots of people. There was a moment in particular in which she was giving back to her community while working at a Breast Cancer Survivor Benefit Fashion Show with her friend Terrie Mason. Terrie is an avid supporter of Breast Cancer Awareness.

In casual conversation Judy asked Terrie, “Why do you conduct these fashion shows?” Having been a survivor of breast cancer herself, Terrie proceeded to share her story with Judy, telling of her all her ups and downs. Judy realized that there was never a moment in the story where she heard Terrie say that she had done anything just for herself.

Everything she had done had been for others.

That alone got Judy thinking and an idea sparked about what she could do to create a special day for breast cancer survivors. That is where the idea for the “Breast Cancer Survivor Celebration of Life Photo Shoot” was born.

After seeing the vision that God placed in her heart, Judy tossed and turned for several nights trying to devise a plan. Finally Judy asked “Lord, what are you trying to tell me? I’m listening. You have my full attention,” at this point being worn out she submitted. Sometimes it can be difficult to see the road ahead and the plan that God has laid out. Especially when you cannot see how it will come together. Still she knew that He was in control and from there she stepped out on faith.

The idea of doing a photo shoot came back to her mind. Her following thought was “Well how will I pull this off? I don’t have the money to do this!”Not knowing how, where, or when this was going to happen she decided to share her idea on Facebook. To her surprise she got over 100 responses from businesses and people all over Houston (and surrounding cities) wanting to help, donate time, etc. When they say God not only shows up, but HE shows out, that is an understatement! Needless to say her sleepless nights came to an end.

And so it began, Judy started calling hospitals and talking to anyone that would lend an ear to hear what she was trying to accomplish. She was in search of participants, women who had survived breast cancer and who would be interested in

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partaking in the event designed just for them.

Reponses started to flow shortly after. Judy had come up with a process for selecting the survivors that required the women to send in a brief story about their individual journey. That’s it! “I wanted it to be as simple and easy as possible,” she says.

“I read all the stories BUT I don’t select them.

That’s the “crazy” part. I read them and God shows me who to choose.” Judy says she also is the only one that reads the stories and usually she can get a good feel for the story within the first three sentences. “My team understands this part. They understand it better than me! But when you meet the ladies it really is an indescribable experience.”

After searching and searching Judy found her first 6 breast cancer survivors to participate.

get together and started selling t-shirts for the remainder of the money needed. She also called on a few friends to donate and to bring what they could to help out. Borrowing clothes and asking boutiques to bring shoes and accessories, she was exhausting all resources, and putting her energy behind her new passion.

Judy was pounding the pavement trying to spread the word far and wide. She wanted this to be a memorable event. She was in search of exposure and knew it would be even better with media

Word spread about Judy’s Hair Designs, and the event she was putting together. EVERYONE wanted in and to help in almost every way imaginable! Making her rounds and networking at an event for Shoezy Lover,Thedies of Thedies Image Consulting introduced her to Brian Walker who simply said “I’m in,” Judy was blown away by his support. At that same event she met 4 of her first vendors that would soon participate: Shoezy Lover – Makeba Collins, Thedies Broussard – Thedies Image Consulting, Rainey DeCatur Rainey’s Creole Lunchroom and Catering. Brian Walker who was eager to be involved eventually went on to become her “right-hand man.”

Everything was coming together miraculously she had a team of passionate and talented individuals who were willing to help her carry out this vision.

Judy had hoped for more than just 6 women to participate, but her team assured her that it would be a success regardless. Judy geared up and got ready for this special day to occur. Using connections she had made while living in Houston, she decided the most cost effective way would be to have it would be at the Hotel Indigo. She had done several events there prior and had received some gift certificates which would help her to conduct her first event. “We got our first room with NO money paid just a gift certificate!” Judy says. After that she later was able to get a bud-

attention so she sought it out. After all, these women deserved it! To her surprise it was a difficult to find a news station or correspondent that would run the story! Finally a good friend of Judy’s, Sonya Lister, took the story to Channel 11’s Sherry Williams, who decided to run it.As excited as she was, all the challenges of putting the event together were really taking a toll on Judy. She had broken down to the point of tears by the time she and Sherry Williams spoke. Sherry gave Judy the encouragement she needed. Later on Marshall Truehill one of the producers for KHOU met with Judy about the event. He was going to be the serving as a behind the scenes photographer as well

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creating a video.

June of 2011, was the first “Celebration of Life” event and Judy had no idea that it would become the start of a something monumental. Sherry had sent over a camera crew to capture the event and the crew was in awe of what they saw and remained majority of the day.There was an amazing turn out, with about 40 volunteers, from vendors and photographers, to hair and makeup artists, and more. The six participants were pampered and photographed until they got

tired. When they walked in they had to sit down because they were in awe of what everyone willingly had done for them. They talked, told their stories, sang, cried and laughed.Everyone had a ball! Finally after all they had endured someone cared enough to recognize them for what they had gone through. Some lost their jobs, husbands left them, some had even lost their homes, but none the less they were alive to celebrate.These beautiful survivors had experienced so much. A few had been cut from top to bottom, some had no breast, some had new breast, but despite all of that they sat there and let Judy and her team take care of them while they smiled and said “Thank

you,” a million times. They opened themselves up to a total group of strangers.

“They tell me thank you, but I always say NO, Thank you for allowing us to do this for you.” Judy starts to cry just telling us about the experience.

“The event was awesome everyone was so full! It was an experience you can’t put into words. It was a test of faith, a test of patience and a gift of JOY! We all talked the next morning and at about 5am we all just started crying, it was overwhelming, but they were happy tears,” says Judy. Before the event had ended that day everyone was already talking about the next one! Judy looked at Brian as he turned to her and said, “Let’s do it.”

It took every bit of the following 4 months to plan the 2nd“Celebration of Life” event! It took place October 2011 and thanks to their previous story airing on KHOU-11 this time around it was much bigger. They had grown in participants reaching up to 19 breast cancer survivors!! They also got 2 new members to the team, Brittney Goff-Wiley, Sandy Monroe of DaiCor Baskets and help from Blueprint Media – Sharita Clark. “The larger it gets the harder it gets, but NOTHING can stop what God has already set.”There were a lot of ups and downs with this event, the day before, but once it was over the ladies had the time of their lives!

One of the participants was Mrs. Debra Hollis Porter whose daughter Brittney came in got a t-shirt and started working with the team. She has been on board ever since!

It didn’t stop there, Judy’s idea of a one-time event turned into to more than she ever imagined.

Their 3rd one was Oct 14, 2012! with the help of friends, family and everybody contributing what they could to make it happen. Each time they have grown even larger. New things are being added each time. To date they have had 3 events and have grown to 25 ladies at their last event!! From 6 to 25 in 1 year bringing their total 48!

Here at ShineOn Magazine, we shine a light on our everyday stars that perform extraordinary tasks.

Judy Williams along with her team shine bright

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as those stars illuminate the sky, and ironically enough we have another star here at ShineOn that has unknowingly crossed paths with Breast cancer survivors. Some of you may know her ,she is the beautiful and inspiring artist Melani Jackson. Melani is a talented musician who sings a song entitled “Stay True.” Written by producer Larry Summerville, the song is dedicated to promoting Breast Cancer Awareness. Melani tells ShineOn: “The song is about staying focused on your purpose, regardless of what type of things may happen and what life brings. We chose a happy song to release the energy of an overcomer as opposed to the struggle. The topic of breast cancer was chosen because it is a disease that affects most of us in one way or another. Too many people are dying from a disease which can be beat if detected early on.” ShineOn Magazine supports this uplifting and inspirational message. There is a music video that was made in support of the song. You can view it here: (http://youtu.be/ xwJ3EEd1l_Y) “We used actual breast cancer survivors in the video. We went to their homes and shot their scenes. We laughed, danced and played for real. Some of the survivors told us that they had not laughed or had that much fun in years,”

said Melani.

Together our shining stars Judy Williams and her team, along with Melani Jackson and her crew, are calling attention to a very important matter. Breast cancer is a serious disease that we CAN do something about. Make sure that your mothers, sisters, daughters, and loved ones get the education they need pertaining to this disease. Be intentional about your health. Go for regular check-ups and above all be sure to get your annual breast exam.

Women, we love you and we need you. To those who have been diagnosed, know that there are survivors and other women out there who know what you are going through. You are not alone and we encourage you to “Celebrate Life.”

The Webster definition of SURVIVOR is: 1.to remain alive or in existence: to live on, and2. to continue to function or prosper. By the everlasting grace of our glorious Lord, these women, these mothers, these sisters, these angels, have survived beyond this physical battle. They have survived in spirit and in mind. They continue to exist as human beings and as victors. Praise be to the One above, for these women continue to LIVE ON, with a new sense of power infused by an unshakeable

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faith. As lights unto our lives, may they continue to function as sources of inspiration and encouragement. And may they smile while they undoubtedly attain prosperity in life and love.

The “Celebration of Life” event is held once a year for women that have survived breast cancer. This is a charity event, with over 50 businesses participating, from photography to makeup to dresses, shoes, styling and hair! We have it all FREE to Breast Cancer Survivors. We are always looking for sponsors for dresses, shoes and suits. Donations are always appreciated!

To sponsor the event for October 2013r for more information on how you can become involved, E-mail: Judy Williams Creator/Founder of The Breast Cancer Survivor Celebration of Life Photo Shoot @ bcsphotoshoot@yahoo.com For more info or to make a donation please go to: www.breastcancersurvivorphotoshoot.com

Thanks to all our Sponsors and supporters, the team Judy Williams Brian Walker Brittney Goff Sandy Valrey VERY Special thanks to our Sponsors Camille La Vie Formal Wear Fortune Dignee Tax Group LLC Fitness From Home Remy Beauty Supply – wigs and supplies Won Lee and Jimmy Choung NYX Jazzie Girls Texas LaMik Beauty S. Charles Public Relations Miss Jessie’s Stilletto Steppin The Mane Event Hair Salon Raineys Creole Kitchen Lubys – Rex Kilgore Cees Kitchen Favor all your Events DaiCor Baskets Stephanie Bazille Cathryns Torrid Hotel Indigo All of our Volunteers Photographers TheLenZ Photography Creative Images by Eric 750 Photos Visual Culture Emperial Photography Bussey One Photography Mac Media Courtney Jefferson Photography Video Marshall Truehill Indigo Photography LaTashia Gordan Makeup Artist Glam Faces Lash by Alaysha Eye Candy by Trish Make Me Over Angel LaTisa Johnson Makeup Shenanigans Makeup by CathyLu Chanelle Harville Soraya Bonner Hair Priscilla Dornes Priscilla Thibodeaux

Zayla King Ms Manya the Inspire Experience Keshia Basha Nikia Jordan Boutiques and Stylist Real Bougie Boutique Glam by SHE Kimya McKinney Hollywood Fashions Real Bougie Boutique Sumptuous Sulay Boutique Terry Williams Traci Lynn Fashio Jewelry Golden Divine Accessories A Plus Size ReSale Shoezy Lover Thedies Image Consulting Volunteers Tralynza Conley Crystal Demby – Survivor/ volunteer Mari Thibodeaux – Survivor/ volunteer Necie Ra’Shae Joy Soublet Robbie Vanarsdale Isake McCloud Debra Bonner Janine Celestine Chantil Gill Jackie Goodwater Damika LeDoux Shay Blache Blueprint Public Relations Alicia Blair Lorene Briley Moesha Spikes Charles Arrington Jr Mary Byrd Veda Handy Lekeshia Harris Shawnta Moore Ytonya Smith Raquel Eldridge Tiffany Motley Caprigo Events Zipporjah “ZPR” Erby Tanitra Robinson Cakes and Cupcakes Maritha Green Archie Whittington Jr If we forgot anyone along the way PLEASE know its not intentional Blame it on our heads not my hearts we love you! BCS Team Thanks to the Omni Houston – Galleria

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Featured

Survivors

Roselyn Jones Janell Hector

Gwen Reed Debra Hollis Porter Maria Vargas Charlotte Harris Connie Smith Venita Graves Jackie Carroll Lakeitha Hines Darlyne Ford Mari Thibodeaux Crystal Demby

Dee Trice Dorothy Kimble Janice Workcuff Susan McDowell Maria Rodriguez Jocelyn Stokes Jocelyn Joseph Regina Bedford Sheila Wilson Krystal Poplar Donna Bridges

Carline Alexander

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Rowena Hayes Tony Netter Nisha Kikunga Martha Wilson Mary Seal Sarah Wright Kimberly Carroll Lynell Daggs Jessie Williams Vicky McIntre Latricia Tolliver Robyn Franklin Renee Pope *Special memory of Victoria Mushatt Jessie McIntosh Muerline Williams Tiffany Young and Melissa Lawrence Brandi Waller Rebecca Cortez

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CROHN’S disease a personal story by cestia Miller

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ou never know what a person’s life may be like and how fortunate you may be in comparison to them. It is important to take the time out once in a while to simply ask someone about their life and sincerely care about their answer. There are some people who live with fear, pain, or even hopelessness. Life for them just does not seem fair or even worth all the trouble. Some of us may even fall into one of those categories and although we may not want anyone to pity us, we still are craving for someone to understand us.

Most things that are challenging mean so much more when it happens to us individually or to loved ones that we care about. When it hits so close to home it resonates with us on a deeper level, especially when our health is on the line.

There are a number of debilitating diseases out there, but I would like to bring attention to one in particular called “Crohn’s Disease.” I feel that there are others like me who need a voice and I am willing to intimately share my story with the world.

Crohn’s disease is an inflammatory bowel disease (IBD) which causes inflammation in the lining of the digestive tract. Often times this can lead to abdominal pain, severe diarrhea and even malnutrition. Inflammation caused

by Crohn’s disease can involve different areas of the digestive tract in different people. The

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from the

publisher There are a wide range of social classes, groups, and religions that form the various communities we see today around the world. Existing within those communities are our families, our businesses, and all the facets of life that tie us together.Giving back to the community is a way that we as individuals show our care and concern. And why wouldn’t we? These communities are the backbone of our society.

Our community is where we walk our first city block or our first country mile. It is the place where we learn to worship and build, and it’s our community whom we turn to in time of crisis. Not only do we create our homes within them, more importantly our children are raised by them and our children are most assuredly our future. We want them to be able to thrive in a community full of knowledge and opportunity. By giving back we can infuse our city blocks, country roads, and back alleys with love and support. Lending a helping hand towards the construction of an improved and goal oriented society.

food at home.Through its Cooking Matters program, the No Kid Hungry campaign educates and empowers low-income families to stretch their food budgets so their kids get healthy meals at home. Cooking Matters participants learn to shop strategically, use nutrition information to make healthier food choices, and cook delicious, affordable meals. http://www.nokidhungry.org/solution/ending-childhoodhunger The campaign also works diligently to try to spread the awareness of this crisis of childhood hunger.

As an advocate we will help reach out to policy makers to promote awareness and prompt action at the local, state, and national levels. To learn more about the No Kid Hungry Campaign visit: http://www.nokidhungry.org today. There is a lot of educational information on the facts about childhood hunger in America and there is also information on how you can get involved. WE invite you to support us in spirit on our journey of advocacy and follow along as we share our mission.

Thanks to Our Readers and Sponsors, may we all continue to ShineOn. Sincerely, Ken Vereen

ShineOn serves as a light unto the community as we help to share stories of triumph, hope, and encouragement. We have made it our personal mission to educate our readers not only on health, beauty and fashion, but also on the individual journey of becoming. We believe that as we grow individually on our path of life we can blend our wisdom and love attained along the way, which we will inevitably cause us to grow stronger together. And together we can achieve great things.

As a company we are embarking upon a mission to partner up with charities and community programs worldwide. On a national, regional, and organizational level we want to link up with companies who share the same vision. The communities are the foundation so let’s build them up strong.

Our 1st goal will be to become an advocate for the “No Kid Hungry Campaign,” which was put together by the Share Our Strength organization. The campaign since founded, has launched programs in communities across the U.S dedicated to connecting kids to summer meals and school breakfast programs, and helping families provide nutritious

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the open mic life:

Ric flo

explore the atlanta open mic scene with ric flo

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onscious and Legendary in his own right Ric Flo (TheBeatsnatcher) has made a name for himself and everything he touches. From host to emcee he lights up the mic. His latest venture of hosting Open Mic nights every Friday at The Green Room Actors Lounge has added more edge and focus to one of his goals. The Green Room Actors Lounge is owned and operated by Actress Terri J. Vaughn in Atlanta, GA. It

has become a safe haven and place of nurturing talent and artistry in the big city. Open nights have been going strong now since the grand opening of The Green Room in September 2011.

Ric Flo recalls with me how the avenue of becoming Host of Open mic nights at The Green Room came about …

Sistah Kenya: How did you get involved in hosting Open

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Current projects in the works include: EP “Behind Barz” March 2013 RIC FLO’s debut CD “A PRODUCT OF 1252” Winter 2013 Books: Unleashed, A Product of 1252 - The Auto/Audio biography Contact www.ricflo.com - booking@ricflo.com Twitter: @thebeatsnatcher

Mics?

Ric Flo: “I came to the open mic as an artist. I decided one night to support my friends as they rocked the mic and wind up being the last artist to hit the stage. What I had done as a favor turned into an ongoing project to help artist get developed and exposure. That same night, I met the visionary of the Green Room, actress Terri J. Vaughn and her vision just became a part of my assignment. Our spirits connected and I instantly became a part of the family.”

Sistah Kenya: What is the Open Mic Life and what is it like?

Ric Flo: “I sleep, eat this, sow this, reap this.. This is my Life!

I am so motivated by the arts; music and seeing people express themselves. Open Mic is like Therapy Each week up and coming as well as established artist grace the stage and it’s an explosive experience of the most amazing talent.”

Artist and celebrities alike fill The Green Room to network and have a good time.

When asked why he does this Ric Flo replies, “I do this, not only to help bring awareness to the people that good music still lives, but to be that example that will continue to fight and give the good, a platform. While others concentrate on

trending or being trendy I’m building, I’m mentoring, and exposing future legends and leaving a legacy.”

Sistah Kenya: What is your goal as you partner with The Green Room?

Ric Flo: “I strive to help others get into a place where they live out their dreams and passion. The Open Mic and atmosphere at The Green Room is the launching pad, the place where one prepares for the big lights. I desire to see people successful in their endeavors and so all I can to help those in my path experience that.”

The Green Room’s open Mic nights hosted by Ric Flo is an experience one has to indulge in for themselves to totally understand the power of this man in his element. Not only does he host but he too is an artist. He brings a flavor of consciousness to the rap game that is truly missing in this day and age. His lyrics are profound, liberating, inspiring, and encouraging. No matter what the people say Ric Flo will always PUSH his way to the path of destiny which lies ahead. The greater thing is that he brings along many with him, building legends, leaving legacy.

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Just in time for Valentine’s Day, Miki Turner’s long-awaited photo book, Journey to the Woman I’ve Come to Love, is now available. It is an empowering and inspirational photo book filled with the affirmations of an incredible group of diverse women answering one question: At what point did you fall in love with yourself?

Journey to the Woman I’ve Come to Love is a 190-page book, which features stunning black-and-white photos of 91 women.

It includes celebrities such as Angelina Jolie, Halle Berry, Naomi Judd, Gladys Knight, Jenifer Lewis, Sanaa Lathan, Laurel Holloman, Jane Lynch, Dana Delany, Felicity Huffman, Kristin Davis and Della Reese; civil rights icons such as Angela Davis, Myrlie Evers-Williams, Diane Nash, Joan Mulholland, Sonia Sanchez; she-roes such as Nikki Giovanni, Leymah Gbowee, Gloria Steinem and extraordinary women whose names you

journey

to

the

woman I’ve come to love

A Photo-story by Miki Turner

might not know. You will want all the women in your life, along with the men, to experience their journeys.

It’s not just a book, it’s a movement.

At the “Journey” launch party at The Avenue in West Hollywood over 100 friends and family, as well as many of the ladies who participated in the book, turned out to wish Turner well. During the program she shared, “This has been a fascination ‘journey’ for me. My motivation to do this project really started in the early ‘90s when I began to feel immense love for myself, a love affair that continues to this day. It is a revelation that made me curious as to how others came to that same place of peace.”

Turner’s first book signing was held Jan. 20 in Los Angeles, hosted by award-winning artist Synthia Saint James. The more

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than 50 people that attended had the opportunity to hear some of the women featured in the book talk live about their journey to loving themselves.

Turner is an award-winning photojournalist who has loved the art of taking pictures since she was a child growing up in Ohio. Her first camera was a Polaroid Swinger and she’s been upgrading her equipment ever since. A former sportswriter for the Oakland Tribune, ESPN.com and other newspapers, Turner has also been a television and website producer, editor, videographer and still photographer covering sports and entertainment. Her work has appeared in Essence, Ebony, Jet, MSNBC.com, AOL.com, BET. com, TV One, BET and in several international publications. She is a member of the National Association of Black Journalists, the Television Critics Association and Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority.

Turner, a graduate of Hampton University, resides in Los Angeles.

Journey to the Woman I’ve Come to Love is available on Amazon’s Create Space website, https://www.createspace.com/3939932 .

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make a

difference in someones life Just By Looking Good While Networking

By Javona Smith

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t does not matter if you’re black, white, red or yellow - If you’re like most women, you enjoy helping others, being social, and take pride in your hair. One study showed that women give 89% more to charities than men overall. Women have been nurturers since the beginning of time, and probably will be until time is no more.

They enjoy a sense of purpose when they are extending a helping hand. Women are simply more likely to help those who can never repay them.

Here is an opportunity for those women who purchase hair from those who doesn’t give back to our communities and instead, purchase from those who want to give back. Instead of going to a store which takes time and transportation both of which costs money, you can now purchase your hair online with confidence! Or, if you’re a hairstylist, this is an opportunity to offer your clients the convenience of purchasing hair in your salon while providing others the help they need.

Women THRIVE when communicating with others, whether it is their family, friends, religious group members or even online. Women are also MASTERS at making money stretch, or more of it, simply by being social. They naturally converse about their Family, Occupation, Recreation and then about Money (FORM). Talking FORM is why women

are so phenomenal at social networking.

Women take pride in their appearance, especially their hair. The hair care product market is a multi-billion dollar business and African American women support more than half of the revenue and yet represndent less than 10% of the USA population. Of that hair extensions represent almost half of that revenue, which includes lace front wigs as well, We see women of all races, in the media, faking it and wigging out (with hair extensions and lace-front wigs of course!) These women include Beyonce, Katy Perry, Pamela Anderson, and Tyra Banks just to name a few.

So then, you may ask, how do we cash out on all three attributes? I’m certainly glad you asked! Micore International is an e-Commerce business for hair. It was started in 2009 because there exists a need for women to profit from the hair extensions they invest billions of their own money (and/or their husbands money) into every year.

At this time there is virtually NO competition, in the MLM arena, for hair extensions. And men can make money as well!

Here’s the greatest part, a portion of the money Alluring Styles a distributor of the Micore International hair system brings to the table is to fund 5 different community based organizations each month. By bring-

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ing this attention the organizations can also reach out to their followers and keep their contributions going on their own if desired and Alluring Styles will show them how. Alluring Styles encourages those reading this article to make them aware of those organizations that may be making a difference and would like to get into the rotation.. Alluring Styles of Micore International Hair systems are prepared to donate to organizations such as Smile Train, who helps poor children have surgery on their clefts.

These children, who are born with clefts, cannot eat or speak properly,

aren’t allowed to attend school, will never get married or hold a job if they do not have the $250 surgery. Alluring Styles Micore International distributor understands the need and is able to donate because of readers like YOU who truly care.

Ladies, I know you also love to help as well as develop a business entity that a lot of men and women use as was shown in the Chris Rock movie- Good Hair– well, you have just been introduced to the opportunity of a lifetime! It is up to you to take advantage of it, or let it pass you by.

Where else can you social network,

buy the hair you’re going to purchase anyway, sell the hair to make additional revenue for your time all while helping charities? Visit http://alluringstyles.mymicorestore.com/ to fill your shopping cart OR to learn more about Micore International and to get started your own hair business t click here to learn more http://alluringstyles.micore.me/intro.html and start receiving your hair at wholesale prices today! Be beautiful, be virtuous, be YOU!

...well, you have just been introduced to the opportunity of a lifetime! It is up to you to take advantage of it, or let it pass you by

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FEED your FAITH and your FEARS will STARVE.” -Melani Jackson

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Melani Jackson

exclusively in shine on magazine MELANI JACKSON “I just knew I had a message that the world needed to hear. So I started writing from my heart, my experience, and what I felt inside. I live to be an agent of change. It’s a necessity for my existence to cause another’s existence to change for the better. When that happens...my life is a success. FEED your FAITH and your FEARS will STARVE.” Those are words spoken by the beautiful and talented Melani Jackson. Growing up in a Baltimore neighborhood where drugs and crime were right next door Melani was the sheltered daughther of a preacher, who had a musical destiny waiting for her in the wings. We invite you to help us SHINE ON Melani as she graces the pages of our upcoming February issue. Inspiring and healing, we want to share her story and her talent. You won’t wanna miss it!

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I AM: melani I am Melani; that is pronounced Me-lah-nee. Not to be confused with Melanie. I was born in Baltimore city, daughter of a preacher, later a pastor. Lived in a neighborhood where crime and drugs were right next door. I was sheltered and music was my outlet. I have always had a heart for the rejected ones. In elementary school, I hung out with the under dogs, I would make them my friends. I have seen a lot growing up in the church, but one thing that stood out to me too often, was the fact that some people were rejected when they “looked or talked” different. So even though I was “one of them” I always kept distance from the

cliques. I could feel the heart of the people. And the people are my inspiration. I worked a 9-5 job while doing my music most of my life. I told myself that my last job would be my last job and when doors opened that I would pursue my music full time. Well a door did open, my company was shut down and I was not ready. I was thrown into unemployment, but remembered my vow. So I decided to still work at least 8 hours a day, but for my music.

Melani, Share with us the role music plays in your life?

Never have I known anything that could captivate me

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the way that music has. I found my voice, my courage, my place in the world. Music is my outlet and my sanctuary. I am a singer, and a songwriter. I live it. My day starts very early every day. I never oversleep. I am consumed with my responsibility, my responsibility to get my message to the people. I have a music studio in my home, so it’s very easy for me to translate the messages from my dreams when I wake at 2:3o am.

You have very strong messages and your music seems to be directed to a certain audience, can you share with us how you write and what

are your thoughts when you write?

People seem to feel the messages in my songs, which is really no surprise to me because I write from my heart. I have this uncanny gift to feel the heart of people sometimes. This helps me to be very empathetic to people that many would reject. I guess that is the audience that I am after, because I can feel the heart of rejected people. I know that it must be something that God gave me because he wants me to use it. Makes me kind of understand why He forgives us. I am by no means perfect or good. But for some reason I am trusted. Wow, such an honor. He

knows me, and still trusts me.

You seem so natural, confident and approachable, how would you describe your personality and what affect that may have?

Me, imperfect me, the shy church girl who was afraid to look people in the eyes? Feeling slightly less than beautiful growing up, because I had cocoa colored skin instead of butterscotch, in a family of the later, I had so many words in my head that I was afraid to say because I had that curse called shyness. Away from the cameras, the stage and the audience, I still am a bit quiet. From the years of being afraid to speak, I learned to

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observe and listen, and it works for me.

Great song writers usually write from their own experiences and find comfort and therapeutic results in their music. Can you share with us those who helped shape and guide your gift and how that took shape?

The first man that I decided to give my heart to asked me to choose between him and my first love. I chose him. It was ok. My father gave me to him. My father was my hero, my superman. He would know a villain. So I gave up everything that was uniquely me. Within days of the death of my hero, I found out that the man that I gave up everything for was not who I thought he was. He betrayed me, and hurt me in every way possible. But, more so than any of this, I could not find my sanctuary. What I did find was God. He was right there, like he knew that I would need him at that exact moment; the moment where

I had lost my connection with sanity. Maybe He was there too, when that man that I trusted had that 38 against my temple, but somehow the trigger never got pulled. I lay on the floor in a pool of tears and made a promise that I would use what I have to help someone else, if I made it out of that place. Oh, yeah He helped me find my sanctuary too. Nobody who truly loved me would make me choose to walk away from what I have always loved.

I have 2 men who were very important in the shaping and guiding of this girl, musically. The 1st is my college music director, Dr. Nathan Carter. He was a no nonsense kind of person who accepted no excuses for less than excellence.

The 2nd is my producer and good friend Larry Summerville, Jr. Come to think of it, he has the same qualities as Dr. Carter. They both seemed to have an eye for things in a person that we have not seen in ourselves. Then with that no

nonsense kind of way, get exactly that. Now, I do have a 3rd person whom I must mention, my sister, Nina. Not musical at all, but an awesome writer. She has been my cheerleader, in the good, the bad and the ugly. She means more to me than I ever say.

What is next for Melani and what subject matter seems to guide you?

Now, I have to make up for lost time. And I have so much to say, and not afraid to say it. Hey, I am kind of special. He knows me and still likes me. That’s kind of cool, right? So here goes. I am doing it, right now. Saying what I wanted to say. Writing and making music, my heart music. I speak from what I see, what I experience and what I feel. I call myself an agent of change. I need my existence to cause somebody else’s existence to change for the better. When that happens, my life is a success.

I am Melani and I make my music for me, you and whoever needs my message.v

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Bringing

em’ in at ldca Uniting Child Development Experts EVERYWHERE!

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+earning & Development Childcare Association provides connection, to our membership of parents, independent seasoned and newly organized child care providers and associates, towards enhancing confidence and concreteness in their skills, communication and development with each other and children.

We are excited about the 2013 launch of this association and the services it will open to our members. Our professionals, backgrounds in the elementary setting and in the childcare industry, have had history in viewing many children and their environments.

The childcare industry gave us a more

intimate contact. We shared some concepts with those first time parents as well as a few seasoned parents and in turn, they shared with us their needs and thus LDCA was born.

Welcome, we want to connect our membership to our varied projects that will enhance confidence and concreteness of skills, communication and development throughout the evolution of parenting, child care ownership and associates’ endeavors. We name a few projects below: 1. “Spot Parenting” Webinars- address needs of parents and childcare providers in a catalog of informative and fun webinars.

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2. “The Package Your Child Comes In: a word from thriving parents” This book is helpful to parents and childcare providers. “Childcare Storied Book” series are anytime books that provide interactive communication between children and parent as well as parent to parent and childcare providers.

3. Child Care Fusion podcast discusses parents’ journeys with the issues of their children. http://www.blogtalkradio.com/child-carefusion 4. Quarterly newsletter- Mileage gives members a moment in time to have their expressions read and learned from. Surveys are posted to measure the quality of service of LDCA

together. We are “Bringing them in”. LDCA will work to be a conduit to our members of parents, child care owners and associates.

Understand this: We listen! We understand that parenting is stressful, especially for the first-time parent. All parents need a tune-up every so often. Learning and Development Childcare Association is the parent tune-up specialist.

Do you know that less stressed parents are more accomplished in connecting and communicating with their children? You want to know how? In the “Spot Parenting” webinars, FUN is one expression in parenting skills.

5. Templates of childcare forms and parent handbooks for the licensed child care provider.

Upgrade or downgrade your parenting skills and style, understanding the limits of reasoning skills with small children and observingwhy it’s important.

6. Annual cruise, under the ‘Dare 2 Dream Cruises’, for those who want to be informed, interact and relax a bit. Parents, child care owners and associates rejuvenate!

LDCA is the hub to gather, expound and expand. We are excited about our adventures

Your child’s overall development is of great benefit to our communities, parents can learn how to set developmental goals that would carry your educational participation throughout your child’s life.

Making sure the goals are measurable and

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realistic for the age group and how to and bringing those goals into the levels of elementary, middle school and high school.

We would encourage parents to have local ‘Coffee Gathers’ to discuss life as a person and the goals set and accomplished for themselves only. The idea is to take care of you.

The focus discussions are always about the parent as a person and habitual self: who is that and how to obtain.

Be as excited as we are, join us!

Child care owners understand the serious undertaking in being the second educator and protector too many parents’ children. They also know there is isolation in this industry.

Connecting with the LDCA will assist in bringing child care providers some avenues of fun and opportunities with other child care providers from time to time.

We will touch on subject matters like the ‘child care hoppers’- those parents that skip out of one child care and go to another.

Our child care owner members becoming peer beacons in their communities in building and maintaining monthly meetings, called ‘Stop the Madness’ that would strengthen the management and financial sections of their businesses.

LDCA wants to give you access to extensive forms that can be used in your daily business.

Be as excited as we are, join us!

Our associate membership- industries, businesses, organizations and corporations, have the opportunity to: 1. Advertise monthly on LDCA’s Calendar

2. Provide communication opportunities of services and products that would include the parents and child care owners.

3. In communities where there are ‘Stop the Madness’ monthly meetings of our child care owners, our associate members are encouraged to be participants.

Be as excited as we are, join us!

Our members would prepare themselves to be participants in the Dare 2 Dream Cruises that would allow them to interact with other parents and businesses throughout the nation while working and having fun. Dare 2 Drea Cruises offer: • Hospitality Suite Become a member of LDCA: • Go to your designated membership on-line application form [parent, child care provider or associate] and complete • pay annual membership fee • click the SUBMIT button Gain access to the ‘Spot Parenting’ Webinars: • complete form, • click desired webinar program • pay webinar fee • click SUBMIT button Input is essential to us. Tell us of matters that concern you- parents, child care providers and associates, send to our e-mail address ofadmin@ldca.net Learning & Development Childcare Association is excited about day one membership which will be as immense as 10th year membership.

We are touching two and three generations now to have that ripple into our future 20 years or more. Our motto is “Bringing them in”.

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Breaking out of the closet V It was a lovely Saturday afternoon, when you were out and about on the town having a day just to do as you please. Driving around in your car you had a brief thought about that chic top you had seen at the local boutique the previous week. “I’ve got some extra cash and some free time,

might as well swing by and add a little something to my wardrobe!” You figured that since you’ve been working hard you deserve a treat and after all it’s just “one purchase” right?

You pull up and see the large yellow “SALE!” sign in the window. Instantly you get excited, but soon after, that excitement

is met with your inner voice who says: “Now you know you don’t need anymore clothes.”

Naturally you ignore it, thinking you’ll just go in, grab what you came for and maybejust spend a little time browsing.

Thirty minutes go by and you still don’t have in your hand the one thing you showed up for!

Instead you’ve got 3 pairs of

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B.o.o.t.c pants, and a sweet blazer that you just HAVE to try on. It just so happens that 2 out of 3 pairs of pants fit you perfectly, so of course that means you have to take them home. And that blazer, well…you knew it was yours the moment you laid eyes on it.

Oh, that’s right you forgot about the top! Yoink! “Ok, now where’s that bank card?”

So there you are, walking out with your large boutique bag and your sunglasses contemplating your outfit for the following day. You get home drop the keys on the counter and start to head to your closet. You know “the closet,” that special place where you just throw in everything? You look around in search of hangers and say aloud, “Man I’ve got to get rid of some of these old clothes!” Now this would be the 25th time you’ve said that to yourself, but somehow you just can’t seem to find the time to go through all of that clothes, some with tags that you have never even worn.

Ah! Empty hangers, you grab them and proceed to hang up the newest members to your wardrobe, sound about right?

Well, THAT was 6 months ago.

That beautiful top has yet to see the light of day, and those pants well three days after they were hanged they somehow just didn’t seem to fit as well as they did when you tried them on. The blazer for some odd reason is hanging next to that parka, the one you bought the year before for that trip that you never took.

However, don’t feel guilty! Trust and believe it’s not just you.

This is the sad truth for just about everyone! EVERYONE has something in their closet that they either have never worn or can no longer fit. The collection just seems to expand over the years, and the clutter grows like a weed. Not so pretty huh?

It’s time for a radical change!

Enough is enough. No more wasting money on clothes that will never be separated from their original price tag.

No more hanging on to those favorite pair of Bermuda shorts as “weight loss motivation.” It’s time to BREAK OUT OF THE CLOSET! And Alluring Styles is going to help you do just that.

Join us as we go door to door raiding closets everywhere! We will go into the homes of people who know that they need some help BREAKING OUT!

The B.O.O.T.C crew will gut out that closet of yours, making you try on every piece of clothing that you own. If it doesn’t fit or if the price tag has been on it for way too long, we give you 2 options: Option 1. You can donate the clothing to Salvation Army, Goodwill, or a charity of your choosing. Option number 2: is to donate your clothes to a boutique or clever fashionista that can redesign them. The clothes end up being recyclable fashions ending up in the hands of people who will actually wear them! Best of all while you are helping others, you may be even creating a tax savings for yourself or your family from the donations. Your closet can once and for all be filled with clothes that you feel/ look good in. And who knows what you could do with a little extra space!

Stayed tuned for our upcoming events and stories with the B.O.O.T.C crew and if you would like to be a part of our team email us crew@bootc.biz. They will be coming to a city near you! ARE YOU READY TO BREAK OUT OF THE CLOSET?

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Coif N’ Style is a new magazine for those who identify as trendy, conservative and everything in between. Are you hip and stylish? Are you business savvy or conservative? Are you carefree and artistic? Whatever you may be you are sure to want your best on display at all times. Seeing as how we all come in different colors, shapes, and sizes it can be hard to determine what the most complimentary looks can be for our unique body type. Coif N’Style will be an all-inclusive go-to guide with worldwide fashion influence! You will be offered an intensely well-rounded scope of resources from designers, to hairstylists, to makeup artistry, and photographers. Wouldn’t it be nice to have a personal stylist maybe even in the form of a “Go-to” guide that could serve as a reference to our style? It would be great to have someone or something that could tell us not how to dress, but how to do it well. What if we had a guide that could keep us up to date on the latest make-up artistry techniques, or the hairstyles that frame our various face shapes to perfection?

If you’re anything like us it can be aggravating combing through the pages of ten or more magazines trying to find a new look that’s just for you.

You like the hairstyle in one magazine, and the

accessories in the other. You like the pumps in one publication but you like the dress in the other.

How in the world are you supposed to remember all of what you saw and be able to go out and create that individual look? It’s virtually impossible without an impeccable memory or a Ziploc bag full of magazine cutouts. And let’s face it who wants to deal with that?

Please allow us to be the bearers of good news!

Soon enough you WILL have your own personal go-to guide which will provide you with everything you need to know to look your best! Round face, square face, tall, short, skinny, more to love, jeans, dresses, shoes, and more Coif N’Style is for everyone! There will be interactive visual guides including outstanding photographic still shots and amazing videos that will be provided just for you!Fashion tips and tricks from the east to the west coast and the 7 seas abroad will all be able to be accessed in one spot. How awesome is that!

You can access your style from anywhere in the world via internet or smartphone.

Want in? Week by week the Coif N’Style crew will be taking submissions from readers such as yourself and using you as examples for different styl-

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ing techniques. Topics such as hair, “The Do’s and the Please Don’ts,” clothes, “Fab is a Go, Drab is a No,” and other fun topics will all be addressed in great detail. Say goodbye to the days of looking at celebrity photos for style guidance. They’ve got stylists who take care of that, it’s time for you to have your own! Coif N’Style gives you a chance to see people just like yourself who want to look good and feel great.

And last but not least drumroll please!!

To kick off Coif N’Style we will be hosting a phenomenal Power shoot event in a city near you!

Designers, artists, and photographers you don’t want to miss this! It is the perfect opportunity for you to shine, shine, shine! Come show us just how talented and creative you really are. Hats off, no limits, this is all about putting your masterpieces on display. We invite you to bring your best. This will be a major event full of fun and excitement, and will also serve as a great networking opportunity.

Participating cities will be:

Los Angelas, CA Houston, TX Charleston, SC Richmond, VA Dallas, TX Charlotte, NC Washington, D.C New York City, NY Memphis, TN Birmingham, AL Miami, FL Detroit, MI Baltimore, MD Atlanta, GA Jackson, MS Philadelphia, PA Chicago, IL Greensboro, NC Interested in participating? If you think you’ve got what it takes to be one of the fashion and beauty gurus on the Coif N’Style crew or if you’d like to be featured as one of our “How-To Models,” email us at: howto@coifnstyle.com. To be a participant in our kick-off power shootevent send in your info: earlysubmissions@coifnstyle.com.

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How do I begin

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ocial media is such a powerful tool in our society. With the creation of big brands such as FaceBook, LinkedIn, Twitter, and more our opportunities to network are immeasurable. It’s so easy to come in contact with friends, family, classmates, potential business partners, etc. In making these connections there are sometimes moments where you realize a certain dream which turns into or reminds you of the business you would like to start. Most people get revved up when a potentially great business idea sparks. Quickly the mind starts running through ideas of how to kick things off and get the ball rolling. Starting a business can be daunting, and the earliest stages can be the most intimidating.

While trying to establish your business you have to realize that there are so many more components that go into place other than just buying a website domain, or creating a “fan page.� Constructing a brand is one facet, but positioning your brand is equally as important. Both of those factors may lead the way as your key to success or your key to being discovered. Not to mention finding and maintain the right group of people to help establish your business successfully, that can initially be quite the challenge. One person alone cannot be the sole creator, investor, manager and employee all at once.

It takes a team to build a dream.

Ken Vereen and Associates are here to help you build your brand from the concept to the finished product and help you attain the market vehicles you need to move forward.

The objective is quite simple, if you have the passion and tenacity then your efforts will undoubtedly be supported. As you begin to put your dream business into action,Ken’s team will serve as a helpful guide in your decision making while you try to find your unique niche’ markets.Not sure how to go about target marketing? The team will show you how. Success is in flight, time to get on board.

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Colors, Cuts, Prints & shapes of fashion, hair & beauty. . .

How we look can impact how we feel. We can put on a certain dress or accessory and that one item can potentially evoke a mood of confidence within us. It’s amazing how we have the ability to do this simply by changing our clothes! Most assuredly it is not a secret that our hair styles, beauty and accessory trends are how we develop our own sense of style. Culturally we focus on the latest creations brought to the runways, fashion magazines or even street wear which all play a role in our personal style. Well Spring ’13 ladies and gents is all about color! One of the things I like about being an indie designer it is the ability to think outside the box. After all it is about expressing one’s individual creativity and style. Pastels are what is in this spring/summer season and trust it IS possible to stay trendy by working with what you have

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already. You would be amazed by what adding a piece of jewelry

types.

or an accesory can do!

Your best asset: Your legs.

Your fashion tips: Elongate the torso, show off your legs and use

Let’s talk about shape shall we? I just love the feeling of wearing

fashion to create the illusion of a waist.

a double-breasted tailored suit, don’t you? This powerful look has a slick structural effect with an “I’m all about my business” finish.

This can be worn at the office or you can even pair up the jacket with your favorite jeans for a night out on the town. It is flattering for all sizes and shapes.

5.

Hourglass body traits: Your shoulders and hips are the same in proportion and you have a tiny waist. This what is considered the ideal shape!

Your best assets: Curves, curves, curves!

Speaking of body shapes. Let me share with you the 5 different

Your fashion tips: Work them curves girl!

types: pear, wedge, rectangle, apple and hourglass. You might fall into one category, or you might be a blend of two or more

The runways this season are all about ruffles, feminine embellish-

categories. To help you get an idea of what category you may fall

ments with floral and jeweled details, fringe, lace, eyelet detailing

within I will point out a few celebrities whom we can identify with

and scalloped edges. Floral appliqués are not going anywhere

that shape. Pear – Kim Kardashian, Wedge – Naomi Campbell,

anytime soon the patterns will be even more stated. 60’s silhou-

Rectangle - Cameron Diaz, Apple - Queen Latifah, Hourglass –

ettes and patchwork animal prints are also trending this spring.

Beyonce. I also want to share with you a few tips on what to wear

Bermuda shorts, short suits, sheer panels, Japanese kimono mini

or not to wear according to your shape listed below. Always con-

dresses, and the pencil skirt are hot ideas. You can wear it ladylike

sider your body shape not your weight or height when choosing

or sexy and sophisticated. Why not even try the pencil skirt with

your wardrobe. The shapes are listed below:

a peplum top?

1.

Pear body shape: Your bust line is narrow

What’s also been trending are the cut-up and cut out pieces on

– your hips are wider than your shoulders.

the runway. Designers have dresses that look futuristic with

Your bottom is rounded and you have a

cut-out designs and diagonal cuts along the neck line, not to

well-defined waist.

mention revealing midriffs using sheer or nude fabrics that make

Your best assets: Shoulders, torso and flat

the clothes seem to float on the model”s frame.Personally that is

stomach

something I love to see, the creativity in the designs inspire me.

Your fashion tip: Emphasize your waist and arms, add volume to

And most importantly: HAIR! Styles for this season are all natural

your shoulders and upper body and minimize your hips

baby! We are seeing afros and natural curls hit the runway as well as centre-part and half-tucked hairstyles. These styles allows you

2.

Wedge body shape: Or the inverted tri-

to go from day to night or from casual to formal. Platinum blonde

angle, this body shape features a large

hair is one that can definitely make statement about the love of

breasts and/or wide shoulders which are

fashion!

large in proportion to a narrow waist and hips.

Here at Shine On we love fashion and fashion loves you! Gear up

Your best asset: Your legs

for the spring because these cloudy skies are sailin’ away! As each

Your fashion tip: Softening your shoulders and upper body and

season nears we’ll continue to expand this guide with more styles

accentuate your lower body

and how-tos. If you’d like to keep up to date with everything new, be sure to subscribe to: antonimichelle@shineonamag.com

3.

Rectangle body shape: You have little waist definition, hip and shoulder widths are similar and are usually look athletic and are on the slim side.

Your best assets: Your arms and legs.

Your fashion tips: Create some curves and

show off your slender legs and arms.

4.

Apple body shape: Most of your weight is above your hips, and your hips are narrow.

Your back, ribs and shoulders are broad, and you may feel wider than other body

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Visually stimulating, outlandishly innovative, and undoubtedly original.”

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BOHO DESIGNS boutique

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isually stimulating, outlandishly innovative, and undoubtedly original every piece handcrafted by BOHO is created with a sense of uniqueness that is helping this company make a name for themselves in the world of fashion and design. Best of Hand Crafted Designs (BOHO) is a stylish and affordable brand who strives to see their patrons looking and feeling their best while staying true to their personality.

Founded in 2008 by Sharon Neal and her nephew Davis Lawrence, the passion for their art has been passed down through the generations beginning with Sharon’s late father. Her father had been an art teacher in the local community and at a nearby Christian school when Sharon was young. His creative ability rubbed off on his daughter as he taught her different ways to turn simple objects into masterpieces. In the 70’s she began making her own jewelry. More than a hobby, designing had become her greatest love. When her nephew Davis was young he would spend time with

his Aunt Sharon and her father building tiny cities out of cardboard boxes as art was being created around him.

The artistic vibe was infectious. One day while Sharon and Davis were our shopping there was a piece of jewelry that Davis had his eyes set on. “You want to pay for that? You can make that! I’ll show you!” his aunt told him, and from that moment BOHO Designs was birthed.

Starting with home showings, and flea markets, BOHO is now showcasing at major fashion events including 3 recently done in New York. They were nominated in 2012 as one of the top three designers in the FASHION AWARDS MD event! They are now setting their sights on being able to showcase their designs in Couture Fashion Week. There is no doubt that they are heading in the right direction. “Everything we do is about selfexpression,” said Sharon.“You can step out knowing that the piece we have designed was made specifically for you, and there is NONE OTHER like it.”

challenges. “Family has their own differences, which can sometimes spill over to business. So the biggest challenge is knowing where to draw the line between the two. I think we can all agree on that,” Sharon laughs. The age gap between she and her nephew has been more beneficial than challenging surprisingly. The two feel that it is just like mixing a little old with the new which gives an interesting twist to their creative flair. Together they hope to inspire other upcoming designers to stay true to themselves despite challenges or criticism.

Sharon told Shine On Magazine, “You have to LOVE your craft that is what’s most important, and we absolutely love what we do.”

Look for BOHO designs on WWW.BOHODESIGNSBOUTIQUE.COM, and stay tuned for an upcoming showcase near you

Being that BOHO is family owned and operated there are no doubt some

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