Mars Hill Church Advent Guide 2023 by knownmarshill

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Contents Introduction From the Editor

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Week One: God’s Promise of Peace to Mary Sunday Family Connection Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday Saturday: Service Project Christmas Recipe: Christmas Stovetop Potpourri Christmas Hymn: I Heard the Bells on Christmas Day

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Week Two: God’s Promise of Peace to Joseph Sunday Family Connection Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday Saturday: Service Project Christmas Recipe: Monkey Bread Christmas Hymn: O Holy Night

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Week Three: God’s Promise of Peace to Shepherds Sunday Family Connection Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday Saturday: Service Project Christmas Recipe: Sugar Cookies Christmas Hymn: Go Tell It on the Mountain

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Week Four: God’s Promise of Peace to the Magi Sunday Family Connection Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday Saturday: Service Project Christmas Recipe: Oyster Crackers Christmas Hymn: Hark the Herald Angels Sing

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Liturgical Christian Calendar 2023-2024

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Introduction A

t Mars Hill Church, we love celebrating the beautiful season of Advent. Our Mars Hill Advent Guide is one of the many ways we engage with Scripture individually, as a family, and in our community groups during Christmas. This year’s Guide is carefully crafted to follow along with the Scripture taught by our Teaching Pastors each Sunday during Advent. These pages are designed to be written in, much like a workbook, and will help you and your family dig a little deeper into that particular Sunday’s message. Also included are service project ideas, talking points for parents to spark discussion with their kiddos, festive treats to make, and even songs to point our hearts toward Christ. The Promise of Peace isn’t just a title for our Advent Series––it is a thread that interlocks the tapestry of the gospel. And what a beautiful and life-giving tapestry it is. We invite you to journey through this promise of peace, given to Mary, Joseph, the shepherds, and Magi. The same peace promised to them is promised to each of us. Hallelujah!

Tricia Butts, editor

From the Editor The Lord is my Shepherd; I shall not want. -Psalm 23:1

n the 5th grade, my teacher had us memorize Psalm 23. It’s always been a treasure to me, to have this beauty rooted in my heart. The visual that I am a sheep and Jesus is my Shepherd gently guiding me through good times and bad, has given me peace in many different stages of my life. But my life has been easy. Shelter, health, food, love, safety, community, and other basic needs have been a constant for me. Sure, I have lost loved ones and dealt with hard issues, but honestly, my life has been a cakewalk. It’s easy not to want when you have everything you need. Two years ago, I began volunteering at the Women’s Resource Center as a Client Advocate. Simply put, my role is to walk women with unplanned pregnancies through their options, connect them to all the resources the center has to offer, and of course, share the gospel with each and every one of these image-bearers.

I absolutely love being a part of this ministry, but it is completely spiritually draining. As I hold space for these women to share their stories with me, the horrible things that have been done to them spill out and it truly takes a toll. From childhood sexual trauma and other forms of abuse to a complete lack of support from family, the darkness holding them down is tangible; their tears bear witness. My breaking point came when counseling a young woman who had been sexually abused since the age of two years old. Now 18, she had lived in 21 foster homes. She sat in the chair opposite me, hunched down, unable to make eye contact, and trying to make herself as small as possible. I struggled to find the words to tell this broken teenager about a loving and merciful God who provides. I prayed with her and she left, but for the next year and a half, her image would be at the forefront of my mind as I did some serious questioning of my faith. It was Psalm 23:1 that was giving me the most trouble. How could this promise be true? “I shall not want.” For that particular woman and for all the rest with unimaginable childhoods and current traumas, how does this verse apply to them? They want for everything! They are impoverished and abused, many sleep in their car, are constantly fearful for their safety, and have no one who cares about them. As much as I tried, I could not reconcile this verse with what I was seeing and hearing in front of me time and time again. Where was their Good Shepherd? I wrestled with this inwardly for many months, and then one day while praying, the Lord made Himself clear to me. I felt the words Christ is all you need swim up in my mind. Those words, over and over again. Christ is all you need, Christ is all you need. Slowly and with so much grace, the Lord continued to prompt my heart into understanding that in this world, there is truly one thing a person needs. It’s not food or shelter or water or family. It’s Jesus Christ and His work on the cross which reconciles our sin-filled soul to a Holy God. Salvation is all we need, and it is lavishly given to us.

And so it is in Christ’s life, death, and resurrection that we are able to confidently say “The Lord is my Shepherd; I shall not want.” In times of trouble and trauma, we lift up our faces to Heaven and with a smile, whisper “I shall not want.” It’s easy not to want when you have the one thing you need. This Advent season is beautiful and bittersweet. We decorate our home with nativity scenes, oftentimes forgetting the brutal realities facing all who were there in the little town of Bethlehem. I try to imagine what it was like for them and what they must have wanted. Mary had to have wanted cleanliness, safety, and probably the comforting hand of her mother there beside her. Perhaps Joseph felt helpless. As a man, he probably wanted to be a protector and provider for Mary but he couldn’t even find a decent place for them to lay their heads. The shepherds were dirty and never thought of. I wonder if they wanted a different life for themselves, maybe one of importance and dignity. And the magi were following a star in the sky for years. I would have wanted a more certain path. Despite their wants, they were given what they needed––a Savior. And with that comes the promise of peace.

As we journey through this Advent Guide focusing on the Promise of Peace, our prayer for you is that you are able to reconcile your wants with the Good Shepherd which leads you to true peace in your life.

In this season of gift lists and wishes, fix your eyes upon Jesus. Allow the things of earth to grow strangely dim, and remember that because of the birth of Jesus, you shall not want. Tricia Butts

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Sunday Week One

In the sixth month the angel Gabriel was sent from God to a city of Galilee named Nazareth, 27 to a virgin betrothed to a man whose name was Joseph, of the house of David. And the virgin’s name was Mary. 28 And he came to her and said, “Greetings, O favored one, the Lord is with you!”

The Promise of Peace to Mary

-Luke 1:26-28

uring this first week of Advent, we focus on the promise of peace given to Mary. During our Sunday sermon at Mars Hill Church, we will look specifically at Luke 1:26-28. Use the space provided for notes during the sermon. Use the reflections resource to help walk you through today’s teaching. Talking points and additional suggested readings for families are also included.

Sermon Notes

Reflection Write out a verse from today’s sermon that you would like to meditate on:

In what areas of your life do you feel like you have peace?

In what areas of your life do you feel like you do NOT have peace?

Write out a prayer thanking God for the peace you already feel and also asking God for peace in areas where it’s needed:

Family Connection

“You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise.” -Deuteronomy 6:5-7

Family Worship Time (“...when you sit in your house...”) Recommended Reading: The Jesus Storybook Bible by Sally Lloyd-Jones “He’s Here!” Starts on page 176

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Parents with youngish kiddos, we suggest reading “He’s Here!” with your children as a great introduction to this week’s theme of The Promise of Peace to Mary. The Reflection Pages each night this week all focus on Mary, so a basic understanding of Mary’s role in the nativity will set a good foundation for the rest of the week. Depending on age, ask your children questions centered on Mary. Examples: • “I wonder what it smelled like in that stable!” • “I wonder if Mary was afraid. What would you be afraid of if this was you?” • “What can we do when we’re afraid?” It’s understandable that you want this to be a sweet and sacred time with your family, but try to embrace the giggles and give yourself a lot of grace. Seeds are being planted. You’re doing a great job!

Drive Time (“...when you walk by the way.…”) Use the CAR strategy to be intentional about your time in the car this week: • Concentrate on the moment • What’s going on in your child’s life today? What are they feeling right now? • Ask open ended questions • How do you see and feel God in your life right now? What are you asking God right now? • Remind them who they are • Tell them what they mean to you and what they mean to God.

Bed Time (“...when you lie down.…”) Pray this prayer of blessing over your child at bedtime this week: “May the God of peace Himself sanctify you completely. May your whole spirit, soul, and body be kept blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ. And may you always trust the faithful One who calls you and will surely accomplish your redemption. Amen!” (1 Thessalonians 5:23-24)

Meal Time (“...when you rise.…”) Use these thoughts at mealtime to foster conversations as a family: • How have you seen God move in your life lately? • What is one thing you are thankful for today?

Reflection

Monday Luke 1:26-38 In the sixth month the angel Gabriel was sent from God to a city of Galilee named Nazareth, 27 to a virgin betrothed to a man whose name was Joseph, of the house of David. And the virgin’s name was Mary. 28 And he came to her and said, “Greetings, O favored one, the Lord is with you!” 29 But she was greatly troubled at the saying, and tried to discern what sort of greeting this might be. 30 And the angel said to her, “Do not be afraid, Mary, for you have found favor with God. 31 And behold, you will conceive in your womb and bear a son, and you shall call his name Jesus. 32 He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High. And the Lord God will give to him the throne of his father David, 33 and he will reign over the house of Jacob forever, and of his kingdom there will be no end.” 34

HEAR: Speak the following scripture out loud so you can actually hear it. Whether you are by yourself, with your family, or in your community group, we encourage you to read these words out loud. Let your heart delight in hearing these words spoken aloud:

“Behold, I am the servant of the Lord; let it be to me according to your word.” -Luke 1:38

WRITE: List emotions and feelings Mary could have felt during this encounter with an angel sent by God.

And Mary said to the angel, “How will this be, since I am a virgin?”

And the angel answered her, “The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you; therefore the child to be born will be called holy—the Son of God. 36And behold, your relative Elizabeth in her old age has also conceived a son, and this is the sixth month with her who was called barren. 37 For nothing will be impossible with God.” 38And Mary said, “Behold, I am the servant of the Lord; let it be to me according to your word.” And the angel departed from her. 35

JOURNAL: Underline verse 37. How does this message give you peace in the midst of your fears?

Isaiah 7:14 Therefore the Lord himself will give you a sign. Behold, the virgin shall conceive and bear a son, and shall call his name Immanuel.

CONTEMPLATE: How might you have reacted to this same message from God? Compare and contrast Jonah’s response to the Lord’s call (Jonah 1:13) with Mary’s response. How does the promise of peace enable Mary to give such an obedient response?

PRAY: Lord, thank You for the promise of peace by trusting that nothing is impossible with You. Help us to stand firm on this promise and truly believe that no matter what we are dealing with, nothing is impossible with You. We praise You for Your Almighty power and strength in conquering fear, sin, and death.

Reflection

Tuesday Luke 1:39-45 In those days Mary arose and went with haste into the hill country, to a town in Judah, 40 and she entered the house of Zechariah and greeted Elizabeth. 41 And when Elizabeth heard the greeting of Mary, the baby leaped in her womb. And Elizabeth was filled with the Holy Spirit, 42 and she exclaimed with a loud cry, “Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb! 43 And why is this granted to me that the mother of my Lord should come to me? 44 For behold, when the sound of your greeting came to my ears, the baby in my womb leaped for joy. 45 And blessed is she who believed that there would be a fulfillment of what was spoken to her from the Lord.”

JOURNAL: Underline verse 45. Can you recall a time when God called you to something specific? How does verse 45 give you peace in accordance with God’s call in your life?

“My soul magnifies the Lord, and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior.” -Luke 1:46-47

2 Samuel 6:14-15 And David danced before the Lord with all his might. And David was wearing a linen ephod. 15 So David and all the house of Israel brought up the ark of the Lord with shouting and with the sound of the horn.

WRITE: List reasons why Mary’s visit with Elizabeth brought Mary confirmation of God’s promise of peace to her.

CONTEMPLATE: How does David dancing before the ark of the covenant (2 Samuel 6:14-15) bear significance to John the Baptist leaping in the womb as Elizabeth greeted Mary (Luke 1:41)?

Psalm 139:14 I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well. PRAY:

Luke 1:68-69 “Blessed be the Lord God of Israel, for he has visited and redeemed his people 69 and has raised up a horn of salvation for us in the house of his servant David

Lord, thank You for the promise of peace found in Your Word. We believe that what Luke 1:45 says is true and we praise You for Your faithfulness. We pray that the people of Mars Hill are reminded of David’s joy of being before the ark of the covenant. We pray that our church family is reminded of how John the Baptist leapt within his mother’s womb when brought before the promised Messiah. God, we pray that You cast out apathy in our hearts and fill it with the joy that comes from knowing You.

Reflection

Wednesday Luke 1:46-55 And Mary said, “My soul magnifies the Lord, 47 and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior, 48 for he has looked on the humble estate of his servant. For behold, from now on all generations will call me blessed; 49 for he who is mighty has done great things for me, and holy is his name. 50 And his mercy is for those who fear him from generation to generation. 51 He has shown strength with his arm; he has scattered the proud in the thoughts of their hearts; 52 he has brought down the mighty from their thrones and exalted those of humble estate; 53 he has filled the hungry with good things, and the rich he has sent away empty. 54 He has helped his servant Israel, in remembrance of his mercy, 55 as he spoke to our fathers, to Abraham and to his offspring forever.”

HEAR: Speak the following scripture out loud so that you can actually hear it. Whether you are by yourself, with your family, or in your community group, we encourage you to read these words out loud. Let your heart delight in hearing these words spoken aloud.

WRITE: Look back through The Magnificat. List a few actions God has done that Mary praises Him for her in her prayer. Example: He has filled the hungry with good things. (vs. 53)

“My soul magnifies the Lord, and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior.” -Luke 1:46-47

JOURNAL: In Mary’s prayer, which verses stand out to you the most. Why?

Psalm 34:3 Oh, magnify the Lord with me, and let us exalt his name together! Psalm 106:1-5 Praise the LORD! Oh give thanks to the LORD, for he is good, for his steadfast love endures forever! 2 Who can utter the mighty deeds of the LORD, or declare all his praise? 3 Blessed are they who observe justice, who do righteousness at all times! 4 Remember me, O LORD, when you show favor to your people; help me when you save them,1 5 that I may look upon the prosperity of your chosen ones, that I may rejoice in the gladness of your nation, that I may glory with your inheritance. 21

CONTEMPLATE: Keep in mind Mary’s reality. She is unmarried, poor, and pregnant. Why isn’t she more afraid for herself? How is it she is able to pray like this? Consider aspects of your life that feel impossible to praise God about. What would it take for you to turn over your fear into praise? If you feel led, share your thoughts with someone you trust. If you’re in a group setting, consider sharing with them.

PRAY:

Oh God, we pray for a heart of trust and faith like Mary. You are worthy of praise, Father! As Your Word in Psalms declares, we pray now: “Priase the LORD! Oh give thanks to the LORD, for He is good, for His steadfast love endures forever!” Like the Psalmist, we sing Your praise. You are good. Thank You for a love that endures forever.

Reflection

Thursday Luke 2:1-7 In those days a decree went out from Caesar Augustus that all the world should be registered. 2 This was the first registration when Quirinius was governor of Syria. 3 And all went to be registered, each to his own town. 4 And Joseph also went up from Galilee, from the town of Nazareth, to Judea, to the city of David, which is called Bethlehem, because he was of the house and lineage of David, 5 to be registered with Mary, his betrothed, who was with child. 6 And while they were there, the time came for her to give birth. 7 And she gave birth to her firstborn son and wrapped him in swaddling cloths and laid him in a manger, because there was no place for them in the inn.

Genesis 3:15 And I will put enmity between you and the woman, and between your offspring and hers; he will crush your head, and you will strike his heel.”

Psalm 4:8 In peace I will lie down and sleep, for you alone, Lord, make me dwell in safety.

JOURNAL: Do you trust in the words of Psalm 4:8? Are there situations in your past (or present) that it’s hard to see God’s provision of Psalm 4:8 in those hard times? Are you able to look back and see with a fresh perspective details that God was there with you?

“In peace I will lie down and sleep, for you alone, Lord, make me dwell in safety.” -Psalm 4:8

CONTEMPLATE: Despite all the ways Jesus’ birth was hard for Mary, contemplate how Psalm 4:8 still rings true for her that night. What are examples of provision in Mary’s story.

WRITE: List examples from Luke 2:1-7 of how the birth of Christ was not peaceful, easy, or fit for a King.

PRAY:

Reflection

Friday

“But Mary treasured up all these things and pondered them in her heart.” -Luke 2:19 Luke 2:15-21 When the angels had left them and gone into heaven, the shepherds said to one another, “Let’s go to Bethlehem and see this thing that has happened, which the Lord has told us about.” So they hurried off and found Mary and Joseph, and the baby, who was lying in the manger. 17 When they had seen him, they spread the word concerning what had been told them about this child, 18 and all who heard it were amazed at what the shepherds said to them. 19 But Mary treasured up all these things and pondered them in her heart. 20 The shepherds returned, glorifying and praising God for all the things they had heard and seen, which were just as they had been told. 16

CONTEMPLATE: Again, imagine Mary’s reality. She had just undergone an unmedicated delivery in a filthy barn, surrounded by the sounds and smells of farm animals. She must have been utterly tired and probably wanted a bath. Instead, shepherds who have been sleeping in fields for months on end enter the room. But Mary is able to hold firm to the call of Philippians 4:8 in these moments. What can we learn from this? How can this model lead us to peace?

WRITE: Make a list of each attribute from Philippians 4:8 that we should think on.

On the eighth day, when it was time to circumcise the child, he was named Jesus, the name the angel had given him before he was conceived. 21

Philippians 4:4-8

PRAY:

Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! 5 Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. 6 Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. 7 And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. 8 Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.

JOURNAL: Think about a troubling situation in your life–a situation with no peace. Consider it through the perspective of Philippians 4:8. Are there aspects of this situation you could admit are true or noble or pure, etc.? It’s so hard to find “the good” in a hard situation, but could doing so give you more peace in it? Write out your thoughts and share if you feel led.

As Your word declares in Philippians, we rejoice in all You are and the mighty works of Your hands, oh Lord. Your word encourages us to not be anxious but to, instead, through prayer and a thankful heart, always talk to You about everything troubling us. Even as Your peace is more than we can ever comprehend, we trust in You. Help us to think on the things of Philippians 4:8.

Saturday Service Day

n the surface, Mary was a poor, unmarried teenage girl walking through an unplanned pregnancy. It’s easy to see how important the peace of God must have been for her. In our community, there are many women with unplanned pregnancies who desperately need the peace of God–a peace that transcends all understanding (Philippians 4:7). The same promise of peace to Mary is also available to them, no matter their situation. For this week’s service project, let’s focus on showing the love of God to women with unplanned pregnancies. On the pages to follow, you’ll find information and tips for engaging service to these women with your family or community group.

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Suggested Service Project #1 Purchase baby supplies and hand-deliver them to your local crisis pregnancy center (addresses listed below). Recommended Baby Supplies- diapers, wipes, diaper rash cream, bottles, baby wash and lotion, baby toys. Community Group Option- go in together and purchase a crib to donate as a group. Let staff know that people in the group will volunteer to put the crib together when it is dropped off to a new mom. *Cribs are desperately needed in our area.

Suggested Service Project #2 Sign up to volunteer with Embrace Grace at Mars Hill Church-Mobile campus.

Crisis Pregnancy Center Locations and Contact Information Mobile: Women’s Resource Center 718 Downtowner Loop W Mobile, AL 36609 (251) 473-4000 wrcmobile.org Fairhope: Women’s Care Medical Center 18555 Carolina St., Robertsdale, AL 36567 (251) 274-1151 womenscaremedicalcenter.org

Volunteer needs- rock babies, engage older children in childcare while moms participate in devotionals, attend weekly gatherings and baby showers. Community Group Option- sponsor one of the weekly meals

Christmas Stovetop Potpourri I love giving these bags as gifts because it reminds me of my sweet friend Tana Fleming who first gave one to me. It also helps me distribute satsumas from my satsuma tree in a way that blesses others. Clear bags with the bright orange and rust colors from the contents pair well with Christmas plaid ribbon in a way that makes me nostalgic for Christmases past. -Bekki Buckley

Ingredients 1 cup cranberries, fresh or frozen 3-4 cinnamon sticks 2-3 sprigs rosemary 1-2 teaspoons whole cloves 1 orange, quartered or sliced 4-6 cups water Instructions Place all potpourri ingredients in a medium pot with 4-6 cups water and bring to a simmer over the lowest possible heat. Continue to simmer over the lowest heat, refilling water as needed. Don’t forget to check the water levels occasionally.

I Heard the Bells on Christmas Day Words by Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

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Verse One

I heard the bells on Christmas day Their old familiar carols play, And wild and sweet the words repeat Of peace of earth, good will to men. Verse Two

I thought how, as the day had come, The belfries of all Christendom Had rolled along th’unbroken song Of peace on earth, good will to men.

And in despair I bowed my head: “There is no peace on earth,” I said, “For hate is strong, and mocks the song Of peace on earth, good will to men.” Verse Four

Then pealed the bells more loud and deep: “God is not dead, nor doth He sleep; The wrong shall fail, the right prevail, With peace on earth, good will to men.” Verse Five

Till, ringing, singing on its way, The world revolved from night to day A voice, a chime, a chant sublime, Of peace on earth, good will to men.

Scan with phone camera to play song on Spotify

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Sunday Week Two The Promise of Peace to Joseph

Now the birth of Jesus Christ took place in this way. When his mother Mary had been betrothed to Joseph, before they came together she was found to be with child from the Holy Spirit. 19 And her husband Joseph, being a just man and unwilling to put her to shame, resolved to divorce her quietly. 20 But as he considered these things, behold, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream, saying, “Joseph, son of David, do not fear to take Mary as your wife, for that which is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit. 21 She will bear a son, and you shall call his name Jesus, for he will save his people from their sins.” 22 All this took place to fulfill what the Lord had spoken by the prophet: 23

“Behold, the virgin shall conceive and bear a son, and they shall call his name Immanuel” (which means, God with us). -Matthew 1:18-23

uring this second week of Advent, we focus on the promise of peace given to Joseph. During our Sunday sermon at Mars Hill Church, we will look specifically at Matthew 1:18-23. Use the space provided for notes during the sermon. Use the reflections resource to help walk you through today’s teaching. Talking points and additional suggested readings for families are also included.

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Sermon Notes

Reflection Write out a verse from today’s sermon that you would like to meditate on:

In what areas of your life do you feel like you have peace?

In what areas of your life do you feel like you do NOT have peace?

Write out a prayer thanking God for the peace you already feel and also asking God for peace in areas where it’s needed:

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Family Worship Time (“...when you sit in your house...”) Recommended Reading: The Jesus Storybook Bible by Sally Lloyd-Jones “He’s Here!” Starts on page 176

Family Connection “You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise.” -Deuteronomy 6:5-7

Parents with youngish kiddos, we suggest reading “He’s Here!” again with your children as a great introduction to this week’s theme of The Promise of Peace to Joseph. Yes, this story is a repeat from last week, but this time, before you start reading, tell your family that the focus is now on Joseph. Depending on age, ask your children questions centered on Joseph. Examples: • “I wonder if Joseph was worried about taking care of Mary?” • “Joseph wanted a safe place to stay but no matter how hard he tried, everyone told him ‘NO!’ Have you ever tried really hard but it didn’t work out? How did you feel?” The Reflection Pages each night this week all focus on Joseph, so a basic understanding of his role in the nativity will set a good foundation for the rest of the week. Remember that the best laid plans will usually go awry when kids are involved! Consider giving your younger kids something to do with their hands while they listen. Coloring pages, legos, or fidget toys are a few examples. They’re hearing more than you think. You’re doing great!

Drive Time (“...when you walk by the way.…”)

Meal Time (“...when you rise.…”)

Use the CAR strategy to be intentional about your time in the car this week: • Concentrate on the moment • What’s going on in your child’s life today? What are they feeling right now? • Ask open ended questions • How do you see and feel God in your life right now? What are you asking God right now? • Remind them who they are • Tell them what they mean to you and what they mean to God.

Use these thoughts at mealtime to foster conversations as a family: • What areas of your life do you feel like have peace? • What areas of your life do you feel like do NOT have peace?

Bed Time (“...when you lie down.…”) Pray this prayer of blessing over your child at bedtime this week: “May the Lord Jesus Christ Himself and God our Father, who loves us and gave us eternal comfort and good hope through grace, comfort and establish your heart in every good work and word. ... May the Lord of peace Himself give you peace at all times in every way. And may the grace of the Lord Jesus Christ be with you now and forever. Amen!” (2 Thessalonians 2:1617, 3:16)

MEMORIZE THE MOMENTS

Reflection

Monday Matthew 1:18-23 Now the birth of Jesus Christ took place in this way. When his mother Mary had been betrothed to Joseph, before they came together she was found to be with child from the Holy Spirit. 19 And her husband Joseph, being a just man and unwilling to put her to shame, resolved to divorce her quietly. 20 But as he considered these things, behold, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream, saying, “Joseph, son of David, do not fear to take Mary as your wife, for that which is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit. 21 She will bear a son, and you shall call his name Jesus, for he will save his people from their sins.” 22 All this took place to fulfill what the Lord had spoken by the prophet: 23 “Behold, the virgin shall conceive and bear a son, and they shall call his name Immanuel” (which means, God with us). 24 When Joseph woke from sleep, he did as the angel of the Lord commanded him: he took his wife, 25 but knew her not until she had given birth to a son. And he called his name Jesus

WRITE: List a few reasons why this situation placed on him would bring him confusion, hardship, or shame.

“Joseph, son of David, do not fear to take Mary as your wife.” -Matthew 1:20

JOURNAL: Insert your name and a fear of your own into Matthew 1:20. Remind yourself of God’s faithfulness even over your personal issues. , son of

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fear to

Proverbs 3:5 Trust in the LORD with all your heart; and do not lean on your own understanding.

Isaiah 12:2 Behold, God is my salvation; I will trust, and will not be afraid; for the Lord God is my strength and my song, and he has become my salvation.

CONTEMPLATE: With all of the reasons to reject the angel’s message, why did Joseph choose to believe, trust, and obey?

PRAY: God, Your covenant promises ring so true in this scripture of the coming of Christ. Thank You for Your faithfulness and provision of a Savior. This scripture detailing Joseph’s character in the face of cultural shame is encouraging to us all and is a reminder of your mercy, grace, and compassion for us. Let us be a generation who seeks obedience to Your will over cultural implications.

Reflection

Tuesday Luke 2:1-7 In those days a decree went out from Caesar Augustus that all the world should be registered. 2 This was the first registration when Quirinius was governor of Syria. 3 And all went to be registered, each to his own town. 4 And Joseph also went up from Galilee, from the town of Nazareth, to Judea, to the city of David, which is called Bethlehem, because he was of the house and lineage of David, 5 to be registered with Mary, his betrothed, who was with child. 6 And while they were there, the time came for her to give birth. 7 And she gave birth to her firstborn son and wrapped him in swaddling cloths and laid him in a manger, because there was no place for them in the inn.

JOURNAL: Reflect back on hard times in your life. Write about how you can see God’s faithfulness through it all. How does this bring you peace?

“The Lord swore to David a sure oath from which he will not turn back.” -Psalm 123:11

WRITE: Explain how God keeps this promise to David (Psalm 132:11) through the birth of Jesus.

Micah 5:2 But you, O Bethlehem Ephrathah, who are too little to be among the clans of Judah, from you shall come forth for me one who is to be ruler in Israel, whose coming forth is from of old, from ancient days.

Isaiah 11:10 In that day the root of Jesse, who shall stand as a signal for the peoples— of him shall the nations inquire, and his resting place shall be glorious.

Psalm 132:11 The Lord swore to David a sure oath from which he will not turn back: “One of the sons of your body I will set on your throne.”

CONTEMPLATE: Why is the lineage of Jesus Christ important? See Matthew 1:1-16 for a lineage from Jesus to Abraham and Luke 3:23-38 for another lineage all the way to Adam. How does it remind us of God’s faithfulness?

PRAY: Lord, You are good. You are holy, compassionate, and just. We praise You for all You have done and how You continue to love and lavish us with the riches of Your mercy. We pray that we have clear eyes to see Your faithfulness in our lives, even in the valleys where everything seems hard. May this scripture of Your covenant fulfilled be an ever-present reminder of the promise of peace You so freely give.

Reflection

Wednesday

“My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me.” -John 10:27

Matthew 2:13-15 Now when they had departed, behold, an angel of the Lord appeared to Joseph in a dream and said, “Rise, take the child and his mother, and flee to Egypt, and remain there until I tell you, for Herod is about to search for the child, to destroy him.” 14 And he rose and took the child and his mother by night and departed to Egypt 15 and remained there until the death of Herod. This was to fulfill what the Lord had spoken by the prophet, “Out of Egypt I called my son.”

WRITE: Why do you think angels only appeared to Joseph in his dreams, rather than in person? What does this say about Joseph’s character?

Hosea 11:1

CONTEMPLATE: It really is amazing how Joseph obeyed God merely through his dreams. He didn’t question any of these commands, he simply obeyed. How do you hear direction from the Lord? Do you typically question what you think you have been told to do?

When Israel was a child, I loved him, and out of Egypt I called my son.

John 10:27 My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me.

JOURNAL: Consider ways you can grow your faith so that you can more clearly hear the instruction of the Lord.

PRAY: Heavenly Father, we are Your sheep and we praise You for the way we are able to abide in You. We desire to clearly hear Your voice when You speak. We confess all the times we have questioned Your will for our lives. Transform and deepen our hearts to be obedient to the prompt of the Holy Spirit.

Reflection

Thursday Matthew 2:19-23 But when Herod died, behold, an angel of the Lord appeared in a dream to Joseph in Egypt, 20 saying, “Rise, take the child and his mother and go to the land of Israel, for those who sought the child’s life are dead.” 21 And he rose and took the child and his mother and went to the land of Israel. 22 But when he heard that Archelaus was reigning over Judea in place of his father Herod, he was afraid to go there, and being warned in a dream he withdrew to the district of Galilee. 23 And he went and lived in a city called Nazareth, so that what was spoken by the prophets might be fulfilled, that he would be called a Nazarene.

Psalm 16:1 Preserve me, O God, for in you I take refuge.

Psalm 46:1

WRITE: List factors that made fleeing Bethlehem and later Egypt hard for Joseph:

“Trust in him at all times, O people; pour out your heart before him; God is a refuge for us.” -Psalm 62:8

JOURNAL: What has it been like for you to seek refuge in the Lord? How could it be in the future?

CONTEMPLATE: How might Joseph be treated today if he and his family sought refuge in a nearby country? What hardships might he face today seeking harbor for his family?

God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.

Psalm 119:114 You are my hiding place and my shield; I hope in your word.

Psalm 62:8 Trust in him at all times, O people; pour out your heart before him; God is a refuge for us.

PRAY: God of wonders, it thrills our hearts to consider the ability to seek refuge in an almighty God. To think that the same God who controls all of time and creation is the same God who welcomes us to rest in Him. Thank You for this promise of peace, Father.

Friday Luke 2:22-40 But when Herod died, behold, an angel of the Lord appeared in a And when the time came for their purification according to the Law of Moses, they brought him up to Jerusalem to present him to the Lord 23 (as it is written in the Law of the Lord, “Every male who first opens the womb shall be called holy to the Lord”) 24 and to offer a sacrifice according to what is said in the Law of the Lord, “a pair of turtledoves, or two young pigeons.” 25 Now there was a man in Jerusalem, whose name was Simeon, and this man was righteous and devout, waiting for the consolation of Israel, and the Holy Spirit was upon him. 26 And it had been revealed to him by the Holy Spirit that he would not see death before he had seen the Lord’s Christ. 27 And he came in the Spirit into the temple, and when the parents brought in the child Jesus, to do for him according to the custom of the Law, 28 he took him up in his arms and blessed God and said, “Lord, now you are letting your servant depart in peace, according to your word; 30 for my eyes have seen your salvation 31 that you have prepared in the presence of all peoples, 32 a light for revelation to the Gentiles, and for glory to your people Israel.” 33 And his father and his mother marveled at what was said about him. 34 And Simeon blessed them and said to Mary his mother, “Behold, this child is appointed for the fall and rising of many in Israel, and for a sign that is opposed 35 (and a sword will pierce through your own soul also), so that thoughts from many hearts may be revealed.”

Leviticus 12:6-8 And when the days of her purifying are completed, whether for a son or for a daughter, she shall bring to the priest at the entrance of the tent of meeting a lamb a year old for a burnt offering, and a pigeon or a turtledove for a sin offering, 7 and he shall offer it before the Lord and make atonement for her. Then she shall be clean from the flow of her blood. This is the law for her who bears a child, either male or female. 8 And if she cannot afford a lamb, then she shall take two turtledoves or two pigeons, one for a burnt offering and the other for a sin offering. And the priest shall make atonement for her, and she shall be clean.

And there was a prophetess, Anna, the daughter of Phanuel, of the tribe of Asher. She was advanced in years, having lived with her husband seven years from when she was a virgin, 37 and then as a widow until she was eighty-four. She did not depart from the temple, worshiping with fasting and prayer night and day. 38 And coming up at that very hour she began to give thanks to God and to speak of him to all who were waiting for the redemption of Jerusalem. 36

And when they had performed everything according to the Law of the Lord, they returned into Galilee, to their own town of Nazareth. 40 And the child grew and became strong, filled with wisdom. And the favor of God was upon him. 39

Romans 12:1-2 I appeal to you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship. 2 Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.

Reflection

“Lord, now you are letting your servant depart in peace, according to your word; for my eyes have seen your salvation.”

CONTEMPLATE: How does Joseph’s obedience in Luke 2 lead to peace for others?

JOURNAL: What changes to your daily rhythms are needed for your life to be a living sacrifice (Romans 12:1)?

-Luke 2:29-30

WRITE: Paying special attention to Leviticus 12:8, Review and write what sacrifice the Law of Moses requires for a newborn? Why is the requirement of a lamb significant in this case? PRAY: Jesus, precious Lamb of God, Your sacrifice on the cross and resurrection from the grave leads us to joyful obedience and peace. Let our lives be living sacrifices, pleasing to You.

“[Joseph] accepts God’s word and he trusts God’s word and he relies upon God’s word and he reorients his life to conform to that word. What a tremendous act of faith on the part of Joseph and what an example of obedience to God’s word in spite of circumstance.” LIGON DUNCAN III

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Saturday Service Day

cripture paints Joseph as a man of great discernment, faith in the Lord, and of strong character. Yet it is easy to put yourself in his situation and feel the fear and anguish he must have felt as he navigated this uncertain journey in foreign territory. As a man, he must have cared deeply about providing basic needs to his family (Mary and Jesus), but despite his best efforts Mary gave birth in a filthy stable surrounded by livestock. The baby placed by God into his care slept in a feed trough. As refugees in Egypt, I wonder if Joseph struggled to provide for his family. With no familial connections, plus cultural barriers, it must have felt impossible at times. I have no doubt, however, that Jehovah Jireh did indeed provide. Perhaps a person of peace brought Joseph and his little family into their lives. Maybe a kind stranger provided food or supplies. In and around our community today, there are hundreds of resettled refugees. Dwell-Mobile seeks to “provide resettled refugee families practical support in their new life, meaningful relationships with new neighbors and opportunities to develop a better future.” This week’s Service Day, let’s contemplate Joseph’s journey as a refugee as we serve present-day refugees in their long journey to peace here in the Gulf Coast area.

Suggested Service Project Purchase hygiene products, cleaning supplies, and other home needs and deliver to Dwell-Mobile (address listed below). Recommended Supplies- shampoo, soap, toothbrush/toothpaste, deodorant, feminine products, lotion, laundry detergent, dishwashing soap, cleaning sprays/wipes, towels, washcloths, Walmart gift cards Community Group Option- volunteer together at the next food drive. Dwell Mobile partners with “Feeding the Gulf Coast” to organize a free food drive on the third Saturday of every month to provide assistance to individuals in need within the community.

(December 16 is the next Food Drive. Contact Dwell for more details).

Dwell Mobile Address and Contact Information 2496 Government Blvd., Ste. B Mobile, AL 36606 (251) 487-9766 dwell@dwellmobile.org dwellmobile.org

Below are information and tips for engaging in serving these men, women, and children with your family or community group.

Monkey Bread This is a recipe that we have made every Christmas morning for the past 17 years. It is literally a sweet tradition. When our girls were younger, they would help coat the dough with cinnamon and sugar … and maybe eat some in the process. We hope this will be a tradition that continues as our girls become adults and begin their own families. A recipe that elicits fond childhood memories that can turn an ordinary moment into a bonding time gathered together. Food appeals to all five of our senses. Simply smelling a favorite family recipe baking can transport us back to the kitchen of our youth where we can almost taste the anticipation of gathering. A precious moment in a family’s history is being made each time we make these treasured recipes with one another. Fellowship around the table is a precious bonus as we enjoy the fruits of our baking labors. -Amberly Buckley

Ingredients three 8-ounce can packages of buttermilk biscuits – whatever kind as long as it totals around 24oz 1 cup granulated sugar 2 teaspoons cinnamon 1 cup butter salted or unsalted 1/2 cup golden brown sugar packed

Instructions Heavily grease Bundt or fluted tube pan with butter (12-cup capacity). Preheat oven to 350°F Separate biscuits and cut each one into four equal bite-sized pieces. Combine granulated sugar and cinnamon in a bowl or plastic bag. Drop each piece of dough in the sugar-cinnamon mixture and shake around to coat. Gently arrange the cinnamon-sugar biscuit pieces into the prepared pan. In a small saucepan, combine brown sugar and butter. Add 1/2 cup of the remaining sugar-cinnamon mixture… discard remaining mix. Gently heat to melt butter and bring mixture just to a boil and then immediately remove from heat. Stir until sugars have fully dissolved. Do not overcook the syrup; you simply want to help the sugar dissolve. Carefully drizzle the warm mixture over the rolled dough in the pan. Bake for about 30 minutes. Allow pan to rest for about 5 minutes, then cover with a large plate and invert. Enjoy the gooey and sweet treat!

O Holy Night Words by Adolphe Charles Adam | John Sullivan Dwight | Placide Cappeau

Verse One

O holy night the stars are brightly shining It is the night of the dear Savior’s birth Long lay the world in sin and error pining Till He appeared and the soul felt its worth A thrill of hope the weary world rejoices For yonder breaks a new and glorious morn Chorus One

Fall on your knees O hear the angel voices O night divine O night when Christ was born O night O holy night O night divine Verse Two

Truly He taught us to love one another His law is love and His gospel is peace Chains shall He break for the slave is our brother And in His name all oppression shall cease Sweet hymns of joy in grateful chorus raise we Let all within us praise His holy name Chorus Two

Christ is the Lord O praise His name forever His power and glory Evermore proclaim His power and glory Evermore proclaim

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Sunday Week Three

And in the same region there were shepherds out in the field, keeping watch over their flock by night. 9 And an angel of the Lord appeared to them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were filled with great fear. 10 And the angel said to them, “Fear not, for behold, I bring you good news of great joy that will be for all the people. 11 For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Savior, who is Christ the Lord. 12 And this will be a sign for you: you will find a baby wrapped in swaddling cloths and lying in a manger.” 13 And suddenly there was with the angel a multitude of the heavenly host praising God and saying, “Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace among those with whom he is pleased!” 14

When the angels went away from them into heaven, the shepherds said to one another, “Let us go over to Bethlehem and see this thing that has happened, which the Lord has made known to us.” 16 And they went with haste and found Mary and Joseph, and the baby lying in a manger. 17 And when they saw it, they made known the saying that had been told them concerning this child. 18 And all who heard it wondered at what the shepherds told them. 19 But Mary treasured up all these things, pondering them in her heart. 20 And the shepherds returned, glorifying and praising God for all they had heard and seen, as it had been told them. 21 And at the end of eight days, when he was circumcised, he was called Jesus, the name given by the angel before he was conceived in the womb.

The Promise of Peace to Shepherds

-Luke 2:8-21

uring this third week of Advent, we focus on the promise of peace given to the shepherds. During our Sunday sermon at Mars Hill Church, we will look specifically at Luke 2:8-21. Use the space provided for notes during the sermon. Use the reflections resource to help walk you through today’s teaching. Talking points and additional suggested readings for families are also included.

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Sermon Notes

Reflection Write out a verse from today’s sermon that you would like to meditate on:

In what areas of your life do you feel like you have peace?

In what areas of your life do you feel like you do NOT have peace?

Write out a prayer thanking God for the peace you already feel and also asking God for peace in areas where it’s needed:

Family Worship Time (“...when you sit in your house...”)

-Deuteronomy 6:5-7 Recommended Reading: The Jesus Storybook Bible by Sally Lloyd-Jones “The Light of the Whole World” Starts on page 184. Parents with small children, we suggest reading “The Light of the Whole World” with your children as a great introduction to this week’s theme of The Promise of Peace to the Shepherds. The Reflection Pages each night this week all focus on the Shepherds, so a basic understanding of their role in the nativity will set a good foundation for the rest of the week. Depending on age, ask your children questions centered on the shepherds. Examples: • “How would your body feel if it had been years since your last bath? What would you smell like? Would your hair be tangly? How long would your beard be?” • “What does a shepherd actually do?” As much as you envision a sweet time of faith-filled growth in these family moments, kids are going to be kids. Wigglers are going to wiggle. Try to enjoy this conversation about shepherds no matter how silly it goes. Remember that even the wiggliest of wigglers and silliest of souls are picking up on more than we know.

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Bed Time (“...when you lie down.…”) Pray this prayer of blessing over your child at bedtime this week: “May the God of peace, who brought again from the dead our Lord Jesus, the great shepherd of the Sheed, by the blood of the eternal covenant, equip you with everything good to do His will, and work in you that which is pleasing in His sight, through Jesus Christ, to whom be glory forever and ever. Amen!” (Hebrews 13:20-21)

Meal Time (“...when you rise.…”) S AV O R T H E S E C O N D S

Use these thoughts at mealtime to foster conversations as a family: • How has God showed Himself to you this week? • How have you seen God’s peace in your life?

Reflection

Monday Luke 2:8 And in the same region there were shepherds out in the field, keeping watch over their flock by night.

JOURNAL: Write about a time you felt forgotten by God. Do you have peace over that area of your life now, or is it something you need to pray over still?

“Are not five sparrows sold for two pennies? Yet not one of them is forgotten by God.” -Luke 12:6

Psalm 138:6 Though the Lord is exalted, he looks kindly on the lowly; though lofty, he sees them from afar.

WRITE: List aspects of a shepherd’s job that would have characterized them as lowly in their culture.

Luke 12:6 Are not five sparrows sold for two pennies? Yet not one of them is forgotten by God.

CONTEMPLATE: The baby the shepherds will learn of is the same who, in later years, will speak the words in Luke 12:6. Do you see how there is a thread throughout the life of Jesus that cares deeply for those in our culture often forgotten? Can you think of other times in the Bible this is conveyed?

PRAY: Lord, You see us for who we really are. You see our innermost thoughts, yet You love us still. We praise You for the model of compassion You give to those around us who are too often forgotten or overlooked. Break our heart for what breaks Yours, Father, and prompt us to act when we see injustice.

Reflection

Tuesday

Luke 2:9-12 And an angel of the Lord appeared to them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were filled with great fear. 10 And the angel said to them, “Fear not, for behold, I bring you good news of great joy that will be for all the people. 11 For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Savior, who is Christ the Lord. 12 And this will be a sign for you: you will find a baby wrapped in swaddling cloths and lying in a manger.”

Matthew 11:5 the blind receive their sight and the lame walk, lepers are cleansed and the deaf hear, and the dead are raised up, and the poor have good news preached to them.

“And the angel said to them, “Fear not, for behold, I bring you good news of great joy that will be for all the people.” -Luke 2:10

JOURNAL: In what aspects are you like a lowly shepherd? Conversely, is it challenging to view yourself in that light? Dig down and flesh this out through journaling.

CONTEMPLATE: Why do you think God chose lowly shepherds to share in the good news of Christ’s birth?

WRITE: List the inclusive words/phrases in today’s verses showing God’s love for ALL people.

John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.

PRAY: Lord, remembering Your love for all Your children brings great peace. Many of us feel like the shepherds––forgotten, dirty, unseen. Your love brings us out of the darkness of loneliness and anxiety and into Your marvelous light. However, sometimes we forget the depths of our sin, and the magnitude of our need for a Savior is lost in the routine of our lives. Forgive us of that, Father, and renew a right spirit in us.

Reflection

Wednesday Luke 2:9-12 And suddenly there was with the angel a multitude of the heavenly host praising God and saying, 14 “Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace among those with whom he is pleased!”

“Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace among those with whom he is pleased!” -Luke 2:14

Colossians 1:9-10 And so, from the day we heard, we have not ceased to pray for you, asking that you may be filled with the knowledge of his will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding, 10 so as to walk in a manner worthy of the Lord, fully pleasing to him: bearing fruit in every good work and increasing in the knowledge of God.

Colossians 3:23

CONTEMPLATE: To nonbelievers, living in such a way to please God Almighty could be misinterpreted as a works-driven faith. Selfishly speaking, what do we gain from pleasing God? Look back at Luke 2:14 for guidance.

WRITE: From today’s verses and other verses you recall, how does a person please God?

Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men.

Romans 8:8 Those who are in the flesh cannot please God.

JOURNAL: What are examples of when you have lived “according to the world” and had no peace? If you feel led, share these times with your family or community group. These testimonies of turning from sin and toward holiness and the peace it brings are encouraging for others.

Hebrews 11:6 And without faith it is impossible to please him.

PRAY: God we pray You draw our hearts to what pleases You. We want to increase our knowledge of You and work in such a way that honors You. Give us discernment, Father, to know what is acceptable to You.

Reflection

Thursday

Luke 2:15-18 When the angels went away from them into heaven, the shepherds said to one another, “Let us go over to Bethlehem and see this thing that has happened, which the Lord has made known to us.” 16 And they went with haste and found Mary and Joseph, and the baby lying in a manger. 17 And when they saw it, they made known the saying that had been told them concerning this child. 18 And all who heard it wondered at what the shepherds told them.

Proverbs 3:5-6

WRITE: List parts of the shepherds’ experience that would have made no sense to them.

“In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.” -Proverbs 3:6

JOURNAL: In your own life, has there been a season or circumstance(s) that didn’t make sense to you, but you trusted and obeyed? Take some time and journal how you felt God’s peace throughout that experience.

Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. 6 In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.

1 John 5:3 For this is the love of God, that we keep his commandments. And his commandments are not burdensome.

CONTEMPLATE: Notice how, after the angels left, the shepherds went with haste to find this baby they just heard about. They had no doubts, they just obeyed. How did the shepherds model Proverbs 3:5-6?

PRAY: Lord, the cry of our hearts is to cast off our doubts and anxious thoughts and trust You completely. Your will in our lives be done, Lord. When we do worry, we pray You will bring Proverbs 3:5-6 to the forefront of our mind for us to meditate on.

Reflection

Friday

“How beautiful upon the mountains are the feet of him who brings good news.” -Isaiah 52:7 Luke 2:19-20 But Mary treasured up all these things, pondering them in her heart. 20 And the shepherds returned, glorifying and praising God for all they had heard and seen, as it had been told them.

Jeremiah 3:15

JOURNAL: By trusting and obeying, the shepherds were used by God to encourage Mary. Think back to a time in your life when someone’s trust and obedience were used to encourage you.

WRITE: List out what the shepherds had “heard and seen” throughout Luke 2:8-20.

And I will give you shepherds after my own heart, who will feed you with knowledge and understanding.

Isaiah 52:7 How beautiful upon the mountains are the feet of him who brings good news, who publishes peace, who brings good news of happiness, who publishes salvation, who says to Zion, “Your God reigns.”

CONTEMPLATE: The shepherds were the first witnesses to the birth of Christ. How was their presence at the stable an affirmation to Mary that all of this was indeed part of God’s plan?

PRAY: Lord, it is in Your kindness that You use others’ obedience to help us trust in You. Like the shepherds, prompt our hearts to obey You with haste. Remind us that, while we can’t see the complexities of Your plan, we can trust in Your goodness. May our obedience be used to encourage others, Lord.

Saturday Service Day

n the days of the nativity, the shepherds were considered low class, if they were considered at all. Overlooked and forgotten, these men lived amongst the herd and slept in open fields. They likely lacked proper social skills or interaction with other people. In our world today, living in our community, there are men and women among us who have significant challenges entering the workforce. Overlooked and forgotten, many struggle with homelessness, some are in and out of jail, and most commonly, they lack what are called “soft skills” which are non-technical, communication skills that employers desire in a new hire. Ransom Ministries, another local ministry supported by Mars Hill Church, offers several programs in an effort to help people break the cycles of crime, poverty, and addiction. Reprogram- a job readiness and life skills training course that was designed to help participants move out of dependency and into fulfilling careers. Ransom Road to Work- provides a legitimate wage to those experiencing homelessness by connecting them with work to clean up Alabama roadways. This program also connects each person with local services and resources to further meet their needs. Ransom Recycle- provides eligible ReProgram participants and/or graduates the opportunity to work in an entry-level position, and be mentored while recycling electronics.

Suggested Service Project Look through your house for recyclable electronics. Ransom Recycle takes anything with a cord (except tv’s). Gather it all up and take it to their facility. You can drop-off items at Ransom: 320 South Craft Hwy Chickasaw, AL 36611 Monday - Friday 8 a.m. - 2 p.m. or at The Mobile County Recycling Center: 7450 Hitt Road Mobile, AL 36695 Monday - Saturday 7 a.m. - 5:30 p.m.

Ransom Contact Information 320 South Craft Highway Chickasaw, AL 36611 (251) 751-0044 info@ransomministries.com ransomministries.com

Below are information and tips for engaging in serving these men, and women with your family or community group.

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Ingredients 3 cups all purpose flour 1/2 tsp baking powder 1/2 tsp salt 3/4 cup unsalted butter, softened 1 cup granulated sugar 6 oz. Cream cheese, softened 2 tsp vanilla extract

Instructions Sift the flour and baking powder into a bowl. Add the salt and set aside. Using an electric hand mixer or stand mixer, beat the butter and sugar on medium speed until smooth and creamy, 3 to 4 minutes. Add the cream cheese and vanilla; mix until incorporated.

Sugar Cookies Neither of us had a ton of family traditions growing up, so Taylor Lee and I have enjoyed establishing our own. She likes to have the tree up on November 1, while I’m more of a Thanksgiving Day kind of person. Regardless, when we do set up our tree, make a day of ithot chocolate, Christmas pajamas, Bing Crosby music, and the movie Elf are all essentials. When we had the girls, we started making, baking, and icing homemade sugar cookies. It’s special to me to do all of that together as I didn’t have a lot of those type of whole family experiences growing up. -Neal Ledbetter

Reduce the speed to low and gradually beat in the flour mixture; beat just until incorporated and the dough starts to come together. Divide the dough into two equal pieces. Place one piece of dough on a big, lightly floured piece of parchment paper. Lightly dust the dough with flour. Place a piece of parchment on top. Roll the dough out to about 1/4 to 1/8 inch thick. Repeat with the second piece of dough. Place both rolled-out doughs, one on top of the other, on a baking tray, cover, and refrigerate for at least 2 hours and up to 2 days. Preheat the oven to 350 degrees. Line two baking sheets with parchment paper. Working with one sheet of dough at a time, use a cookie cutter to cut the dough into shapes. Transfer the shapes to the prepared baking sheets, spacing them about 1/2 inch apart. Gather up the dough scraps and form them into a disk, then roll out and refrigerate for 15 to 20 minutes. Bake for 10 to 13 minutes or until the cookies are just beginning to turn brown around the edges. Remove from the oven and let them sit on the baking sheets for 5 minutes then move to cooling tray. Decorate the cooled sugar cookies as desired.

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Go Tell It On The Mountain Words by John W. Work

Chorus

Go tell it on the moun-tain over the hills and everywhere Go tell it on the moun-tain that Jesus Christ is born Verse One

While shepherds kept their watching Over silent flocks by night Behold through-out the heavens There shown a holy light Verse Two

The shepherds feared and trembled When low above the earth Rang out the angel’s chorus That hailed our Savior’s birth Verse Three

Down in a low-ly manger The humble Christ was born And God sent us salvation That blessed this Christmas morn

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Sunday Week Four

Now after Jesus was born in Bethlehem of Judea in the days of Herod the king, behold, wise men from the east came to Jerusalem, 2 saying, “Where is he who has been born king of the Jews? For we saw his star when it rose and have come to worship him.” 3 When Herod the king heard this, he was troubled, and all Jerusalem with him; 4 and assembling all the chief priests and scribes of the people, he inquired of them where the Christ was to be born. 5 They told him, “In Bethlehem of Judea, for so it is written by the prophet: 6 “‘And you, O Bethlehem, in the land of Judah, are by no means least among the rulers of Judah; for from you shall come a ruler who will shepherd my people Israel.’” Then Herod summoned the wise men secretly and ascertained from them what time the star had appeared. 8 And he sent them to Bethlehem, saying, “Go and search diligently for the child, and when you have found him, bring me word, that I too may come and worship him.” 9 After listening to the king, they went on their way. And behold, the star that they had seen when it rose went before them until it came to rest over the place where the child was. 10 When they saw the star, they rejoiced exceedingly with great joy. 11 And going into the house, they saw the child with Mary his mother, and they fell down and worshiped him. Then, opening their treasures, they offered him gifts, gold and frankincense and myrrh. 12 And being warned in a dream not to return to Herod, they departed to their own country by another way. 7

The Promise of Peace to the Magi

-Matthew 2:1-12

uring this fourth week of Advent, we focus on the promise of peace given to the magi. During our Sunday sermon at Mars Hill Church, we will look specifically at Matthew 2:1-12. Use the space provided for notes during the sermon. Use the reflections resource to help walk you through today’s teaching. Talking points and additional suggested readings for families are also included.

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Sermon Notes

Reflection Write out a verse from today’s sermon that you would like to meditate on:

In what areas of your life do you feel like you have peace?

In what areas of your life do you feel like you do NOT have peace?

Write out a prayer thanking God for the peace you already feel and also asking God for peace in areas where it’s needed:

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Family Connection Family Connection Family Worship Time (“...when you sit in your house...”)

Recommended Reading: The Jesus Storybook Bible by Sally Lloyd-Jones “The King of all kings” Starts on page 192. Parents with small children, we suggest reading “The King of all kings” with your children as a great introduction to this week’s theme of The Promise of Peace to the Magi. The Reflection Pages each night this week all focus on the Magi, so a basic understanding of their role in the nativity will set a good foundation for the rest of the week. Depending on age, ask your children questions centered on the three Wise Men. Examples: • “What does the word wise mean?” • “How were the Magi different from the shepherds?” • “How were the Magi and shepherds the same?

EMBR ACE THE CHAOS

Of course, you want this family time together to be sweet and memorable, but remember that even if it feels like nothing is getting through to your little ones it’s okay! You are laying a foundation of having a gospel perspective during the Christmas season. You’re doing a great job—no matter how much they fidget or fuss throughout family time.

-Deuteronomy 6:5-7

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Drive Time (“...when you walk by the way.…”)

Meal Time (“...when you rise.…”)

Use these thoughts at mealtime to foster conversations as a family: • What areas of your life do you feel like have peace? • What areas of your life do you feel like do NOT have peace?

Bed Time (“...when you lie down.…”) Pray this prayer of blessing over your child at bedtime this week: “May the LORD be your keeper. May He be a shade on your right hand so that the sun will not strike you by day nor the moon by night. May the LORD keep you from all evil and watch over your life. May He keep your going out and your coming in, from this time forth and forevermore. Amen!” (Psalm 125:1-2)

Reflection

Monday Matthew 2:1-2 Now after Jesus was born in Bethlehem of Judea in the days of Herod the king, behold, wise men from the east came to Jerusalem, 2 saying, “Where is he who has been born king of the Jews? For we saw his star when it rose and have come to worship him.”

Romans 12:12 Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer.

“Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer.” -Romans 12:12

JOURNAL: Make a list of the first words that come to your mind about how you feel when you have to wait on the Lord. Next to each word, write a description of God’s character that is in contrast to your emotion. The point is to align your heart with the goodness of God, especially in a season of insecurity and waiting.

Example: I feel forgotten - God will never leave me.

WRITE: Waiting is hard. List examples of aspects of your life when it’s a struggle to wait.

Isaiah 25:9 It will be said on that day, “Behold, this is our God; we have waited for him, that he might save us. This is the Lord; we have waited for him; let us be glad and rejoice in his salvation.

CONTEMPLATE: These wise men didn’t just wake up one morning, see a star, and know what to do. The Magi had studied and were watching for signs of the coming Messiah, yet they had to wait. How can you spend your time more wisely in a season of waiting?

PRAY: God, we pray for patience in the waiting. We know Your plan is good, that all Your ways are good. Remind us of the Magi who waited on You.

Reflection

Tuesday Matthew 2:3-8 When Herod the king heard this, he was troubled, and all Jerusalem with him; 4 and assembling all the chief priests and scribes of the people, he inquired of them where the Christ was to be born. 5 They told him, “In Bethlehem of Judea, for so it is written by the prophet: 6 “‘And you, O Bethlehem, in the land of Judah, are by no means least among the rulers of Judah; for from you shall come a ruler who will shepherd my people Israel.’” Then Herod summoned the wise men secretly and ascertained from them what time the star had appeared. 8 And he sent them to Bethlehem, saying, “Go and search diligently for the child, and when you have found him, bring me word, that I too may come and worship him.” 7

“Always be prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you.” -1 Peter 3:15

WRITE: The Magi stand in direct contrast to King Herod in this scripture, specifically as the wise men were prepared for Jesus’ birth and Herod was not. List the emotions and actions of Herod illustrating his lack of knowledge.

JOURNAL: How does being prepared in the Lord bring us peace in our lives?

Proverbs 2:6 For the Lord gives wisdom; from his mouth come knowledge and understanding.

1 Peter 3:15 But in your hearts honor Christ the Lord as holy, always being prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you; yet do it with gentleness and respect...

CONTEMPLATE: King Herod didn’t understand what was happening and he reacted impulsively. We tend to do this too. Can you think of a past experience that found you unprepared? How did you react?

PRAY: Lord, search our hearts and bring to the surface ways we can be more prepared to serve You and glorify You. Draw out areas of laziness and renew our minds with Your truth.

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Wednesday

WRITE: Think about Mary, Joseph, the shepherds, and now the Magi and list the ways the Lord directed them.

“Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.” Matthew 2:9-10 After listening to the king, they went on their way. And behold, the star that they had seen when it rose went before them until it came to rest over the place where the child was. 10 When they saw the star, they rejoiced exceedingly with great joy.

Psalm 119:105 Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.

Proverbs 16:9

-Psalm 119:105

JOURNAL: When you need discernment and direction from God, what do you do? Why?

CONTEMPLATE: Matthew 2:10 says when they were given direction from the Lord (the star) they “rejoiced exceedingly with great joy.” Think about your reaction to direction from God. Are you more like these wise men or like Jonah?

The heart of man plans his way, but the Lord establishes his steps. PRAY: Father, You are so gracious to us. We praise You for Your Word and how we can trust what it says. Thank You for access to You through prayer. Our prayer is to seek You first when we have doubt or are not sure of our next steps. Knowing You are in control brings us peace.

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Thursday

“My peace I give to you...” -John 14:27

WRITE: List out the most precious gifts from God in your life.

Matthew 2:11 And going into the house, they saw the child with Mary his mother, and they fell down and worshiped him. Then, opening their treasures, they offered him gifts, gold and frankincense and myrrh.

CONTEMPLATE: God considers you a precious gift. He formed you in the womb and He will never stop loving you. How does that give you peace?

John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life.

John 14:27

JOURNAL: Spend time writing a prayer of thanks to the Lord for gifts big and small in your life. Pause and truly consider the weight of the gift of Jesus and His gift of grace for you.

PRAY:

Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid.

We don’t always live in light of the gift of salvation that is so lavishly given to us. Your grace and mercy, these gifts that break the chains in our lives, we are unworthy of it all, but we give you praise for it, Father!

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Friday

WRITE: How is Matthew 2:12 similar to HEAR: Speak the following scripture out loud so you can actually hear it. Whether you are by yourself, with your family, or in your community group, we encourage you to read these words out loud. Let your heart delight in hearing these words spoken aloud.

Matthew 2:12 And being warned in a dream not to return to Herod, they departed to their own country by another way.

Hebrews 5:14

“But solid food is for the mature, for those who have their powers of discernment trained by constant practice to distinguish good from evil.” -Hebrews 5:14

But solid food is for the mature, for those who have their powers of discernment trained by constant practice to distinguish good from evil.

Matthew 1:20-21?

CONTEMPLATE: Is it difficult for you to discern the will of God in your own life? How can you grow in your wisdom and discernment?

Philippians 1:9-10 And it is my prayer that your love may abound more and more, with knowledge and all discernment, so that you may approve what is excellent, and so be pure and blameless for the day of Christ.

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JOURNAL: Write out your thoughts about how growing in discernment could lead to more peace in your life?

PRAY: Lord, give us clean hands and a pure heart––a heart that desires to know You and = trust You more. Prompt our hearts to move when You would have us move.

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Saturday Service Day

he Magi followed a star in the sky with anticipation of meeting a stately King. In fact, they went to the palace of King Herod, assuming that’s the obvious place to find a King. What they discovered was that the Messiah was a vulnerable baby born to poor people tucked away in the dusty streets of a small town. As we consider how to serve in light of this passage and the promise of peace given to these Wise Men, may our hearts be drawn to vulnerable children all around us. Mars Hill Church helps support the Alabama Baptist Children’s Homes as they seek to “protect, nurture, and restore children and families through Christ-centered services.”

Suggested Service Project Many children arrive at a foster home with nothing but the clothes they are wearing. To help with this need, consider filling a backpack with hygiene items and comfort items. Suggested items: toothbrush, toothpaste, vaseline, body lotion, wide-tooth comb (can be used on all hair textures), stuffed animals, small blanket, activity books and crayons, small Bible. If you would like to drop off a backpack at the church, we will make sure to deliver it.

Alabama Baptist Children’s Homes Contact Information 6512 Grelot Road Mobile, AL 36695 251-639-1022 info@alabamachild.org alabamachild.org

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Oyster Crackers This might be common, but my grandmother would make enough for an entire village every Christmas, and I’d eat these all day long. -Kyle Beshears

Ingredients 1 oz dry ranch 3/4 tsp dill weed 3/4 tsp garlic salt (or celery salt) 1/4 cup oil 12 oz plain oyster crackers

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Instructions Combine seasonings and oil together then pour over oyster crackers. Stir to coat. Place in oven at 250F for 20 minutes. Stir gently midway through.

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Hark The Herald Angels Sing Words by Charles Wesley

Verse One

Hark the herald angels sing Glory to the newborn King Peace on earth and mercy mild God and sinners reconciled Joyful all ye nations rise Join the triumph of the skies With th’angelic hosts proclaim Christ is born in Bethlehem Hark the herald angels sing Glory to the newborn King

Verse Two

Christ by highest heav’n adored Christ the everlasting Lord Late in time behold Him come O spring of the Virgin’s womb Veiled in flesh the Godhead see Hail th’incarnate Deity Pleased as man with men to dwell Jesus our Emmanuel Hark the herald angels sing Glory to the newborn King Verse Three

Hail the heav’n-born Prince of Peace Hail the Sun of Righteousness Light and life to all He brings Ris’n with healing in His wings Mild He lays His glory by Born that man no more may die Born to raise the sons of earth Born to give them second birth Hark the herald angels sing Glory to the newborn King

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