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Advice for a 1st time dad
By Carlos “Flo” Flores.
Becoming a first-time dad is an exciting and challenging experience. There are so many new things to learn and adjust to, not to mention an overwhelming sense of responsibility I felt at times, especially when you think about the aspirations you have for your child and how your actions can contribute to them. I became more concerned with worldly events I previously didn’t notice. I also understood that I now have someone that needs my protection, and I finally felt what true unconditional love means. It’s also an incredibly rewarding experience and one that you’ll cherish forever.
Here are a few things I learned from my own experience as a first-time dad:
• Don’t be afraid to ask for help. There are no perfect parents, and we all need help from time to time. Don’t be afraid to ask your partner, family, and friends for help when you need it.
• Take care of yourself. It’s important to make sure you’re taking care of yourself physically and emotionally, especially in the early days of parenthood. Get enough sleep, eat healthy foods, and exercise regularly. And don’t forget to take some time for yourself to relax and recharge.
• Enjoy every moment. Time flies by so quickly when you have a young child. Make sure you take the time to enjoy every moment, even the tough ones. These are the days you’ll be looking back on fondly for years to come.
Here are some additional tips for first-time dads:
• Be present. One of the most important things you can do for your child is to be present; this means putting down your phone, turning off the TV, and really being there for them. Talk to them, play with them, and just enjoy their company.
• Be patient. Kids learn and grow at their own pace. Don’t get frustrated if they’re not doing things as quickly as you think they should. Just be patient and supportive, and they’ll get there eventually.
• Be consistent. Kids thrive on consistency. Create a routine and stick to it as much as possible. This will help them feel safe and secure.
• Be loving. Show your child how much you love them every day. Tell them you love them, hug them, and give them plenty of physical affection.
