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CONTENTS ISSUE 745 December 14-27, 2023

Winter “What To Do” Issue

14 T he 6 Best Tourist Destinations in the St. Pete/ Clearwater Area for LGBTQ+ Visitors 16 L avender’s Winter What To Do 18 Winter’s Embrace: Unveiling the Magic of Canada’s Coastal Cities 20 Your Go To Guide On What To Do In Cook County This Winter

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8 From the Editor 9 A Word in Edgewise

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10 Pride Journeys: South Africa 22 A Christmas Carol: All About that Work/Life Balance

OUR LIVES

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24 Ask Elise: “Am I Queer Enough?”

OUR AFFAIRS

25 Books

OUR HOMES

26 Our Rides

OUR RESOURCES

10: Photo by Joey Amato, 22: Photo by Dan Norman, 26: Photo by Randy Stern

28 Community Connection 29 The Network

20 ON THE COVER

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What To Do This Winter? BY RANDY STERN

Would you like me to answer the question in that title? Of course, you do! The list is long. This issue has a list of things to do this winter. There are places to go this winter. We have a couple of ideas in mind. These are a part of the answer. Perhaps not the answer you really want to read from me. However, it is my job to guide you towards answering the question above. I defer to the fact that you have so many things to do this winter season. What we publish in this issue simply scratches the surface of the multitude of answers one could yield from that oft-asked question. Maybe I could fill in some of the blanks… You could ski. It was one of the best ways to get through the snow. We’re mostly Nordictype skiers and Loppets celebrate this form of cross-country skiing to the fullest. It brings people together as they tackle miles of trails on two skis, poles, and determination. And it’s not the only type of skiing you could do in this state – there’s always the thrill of going downhill, too! Photo by Randy Stern

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In addition, a few Minnesota State Parks are open year-round for other winter activities, such as hiking on trails in snowshoes or taking your snowmobile on several state-maintained trails. Did you know that Minnesota has 22,000 miles of snowmobile trails? That’s a lot of miles to cover on a vehicle that looks like a heck of a lot of fun! Of course, this year is supposed to be an El Niño year. We could get snow, ice, slush…or nothing at all. Whatever happens, I suppose.

The point is that we can be as active as we want and enjoy what our winter will throw at us. We always take it stride. It is what makes us Minnesotans. In this issue, we have a few suggestions to answer the question of what to do this winter. You could go away to a sunnier place, work on your tan, and come back ready for spring. Or, head somewhere that celebrates winter in all of its glory. You can stick around and take in one of our traditional events. One thing we really do not suggest is to go completely into hibernation. Granted, with the variety of choices in food and grocery delivery services, you effectively could. This is our final editorial issue of 2023. This is the last issue that you will see our writing at our best. On behalf of the editorial team, we thank you for your support of the content we produce in these pages, online, and through social media. And we shall see you in 2024! Happy Holidays, everyone! 

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A Splendid Carol For Our Times BY E.B. BOATNER

Appalled by what he’d learned about the lives of poor children, Charles Dickens thought to write a pamphlet, “An appeal to the People of England on behalf of the Poor Man’s Child.” Fortunately, he soon realized a more intimate narrative would have greater impact. Within two months, A Christmas Carol was conceived, gestated and birthed to the public in December, 1843. The novella was hugely popular then, and remains a holiday staple to this day, in print, in films, on stage. Guthrie’s “A Christmas Carol” debuted at the old venue in 1975, and has been an annual sell-out ever since. For many years, the narrative was interspersed with elaborate, Busby-Berkeleyesque, song and dance numbers with leashed faux Fidos and turkeys, scampering urchins, general “business.” Not just a fancy of modern directors, if one thinks about it. Many Victorian illustrators’ conceptions reveal teeming Fezziwig fests, giant spirit images, clanking, spectral Marleys. “Victorian” itself conjures overstuffed furniture, multi-coursed, gargantuan feasts, freely flowing wine and ale… “The groaning board” was no exaggeration. Con-

temporary artist John Leech would have approved a Christmas Spirit descending from upper-up-stage in harness and wires. It was an era that doted on the supernatural and ghost stories: Carol fulfilled. There had been changes and variations through the years, but Lavinia Jadhwani’s 2021 adaptation brought a sea change that considerably pared back the hoop-la and focused on Dickens’s text, while this year’s direction by Addie GorlinHan, based on the original direction by Joseph Haj has worked a wonder; even less of the distracting action–and a tightening of costuming and staging– and the scene became more a neighborhood with residents interacting than dancers coming into a neighborhood to perform. Tightening doesn’t imply a lack of style in costume or lack of humor. Much humor/wit is expressed through internal action and expression, more than applied externally, and so becomes more intimate. The fiction of daughter Martha Cratchit missing Christmas dinner was mercifully shortened. Dickens knew a Martha would have worked 16-hour days, six days a week and roomed above the factory. Drawing out, beyond a moment

or two, the deceit of her missing Christmas, would, for Bob Cratchit, have been a torment, not a tease. Actors Charity Jones, John Catron, Greta Ogelsby, Nathaniel Fuller and others, have joined the cast several times, through many moods. Matthew Saldivar played his third Scrooge, and this time radiated a guileless, childlike glee at his transformation; not that of a miser buying his way out, but of a kid’s transparent wonder at an unexpected gift. “I don’t understand it!” Music was used effectively not just for partying, but to accentuate and enhance, while the townspeople themselves, by costume and grouping, were more a Greek chorus, actively commenting, waiting, knowing Scrooge’s decisions will affect them as well as the Cratchits; everyone, not just Tiny Tim, has a stake in the game. A pamphlet turned novella touching millions; a play turned from showbiz-opulent to the almostpamphlet’s heart: the plight of poor children. Dickens distilled them into Ignorance and Want: that plight not yet addressed. At the Guthrie’s Wurtle Thrust Stage through December 30th. 

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trips from a small party to a large group and if you would like to just visit LGBTQ vineyards or those which employ LGBTQ winemakers, they can make that happen as well. Gay culture is plentiful in Cape Town. Almost everywhere you visit will be welcoming to LGBTQ tourists, but if you are looking to grab a cocktail at LGBTQ-specific spots, try Café Manhattan and Beefcakes, where the servers are shirtless and offer guests the opportunity to take shots off their scantily clad bodies…or so I’ve heard! The next day we flew out to Port Elizabeth, just a quick one-hour hop from Cape Town, where we were met by our drivers to bring us to Shamwari Game Reserve, a private game reserve that offers multiple 5-star accommodations, an animal rehabilitation center, and a Born Free campus which rescues animals who were used in a circus or purchased for pets. Born Free operates in multiple countries throughout the world including Kenya, Ethiopia, and Australia.

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I first visited South Africa six years ago with a group of friends. It was one of the most incredible journeys I had ever been on, and I knew I wanted to return. I fell in love with Cape Town and of course, all the animals we saw while on safari, so when the opportunity came to visit the country again, I knew I couldn’t pass it up. Cape Town is one of my favorite cities in the world. Words can’t describe how beautiful the city is especially when you venture outside the city center and explore the beautiful scenic overlooks surrounding the Cape of Good Hope offering stunning views of the Atlantic and Indian oceans. I stayed at the Capital 15 on Orange, a modern boutique hotel located just outside of the city center which boasts a grand lobby, a fully equipped fitness center, and a wonderful restaurant. Most hotels in South Africa include breakfast so be sure to research those options before you book. The breakfast buffet at the Capital 15 was one of the best I’ve ever had. It will help you save a bit of money even though at the moment, the exchange rate is quite favorable for American tourists. My favorite aspect of Capital 15 was the room. I’ve stayed in many hotel rooms over the years, and this one comes close to the top of my list. The room features a king-size bed with luxury linens, an enormous bathroom with a walk-in shower and a separate soaking tub as well as unobstructed views of Table Mountain, one of Cape Town’s most famous landmarks. Speaking of attractions, the Victoria & Alfred waterfront is a must-see destination. Somehow, I skipped this on my last visit to Cape Town, but I quickly realized why it should be on top of everyone’s list. The area contains dozens of restaurants, shops, and entertainment options and is the perfect place to grab lunch or dinner while gazing out into the harbor. This is also the launching point of our Cape Town helicopter tour. I had never flown in a helicopter before, so I was a bit nervous, but the team at NAC Helicopters made the process simple and kept us safe while we viewed the city from the sky. For being a travel journalist, I have a strange fear of flying, so being thousands of feet in the air is a bit unnerving, but the views were incredible. South Africa is known for its incredible wines. If you are looking to visit some vineyards while in Cape Town, Jeep Tours Cape Town offers tours of the Stellenbosch region, just a quick 45 minutes from the city. We had the opportunity to stop by three beautiful vineyards and sample some of their world-class wines including Chenin Blanc and Pinotage, the signature grape of the region. Jeep Tours Cape Town have personal relationships with each vineyard they visit and therefore have access to private spots not available to the public. The woman-owned business can customize Photos by Joey Amato

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Driving up to our resort on Shamwari was like a scene out of a movie. We passed zebra, and herds of impala and springbok as we cruised along the dirt road. The staff at Long Lee Manor was waiting for us with warm hand towels and refreshing beverages before showing us to our rooms, which came complete with a heated bed for those chilly safari nights as well as an outdoor shower so guests could feel at one with nature. Monkeys love parading around the property with the intention of stealing food, so we were advised to never leave our doors open otherwise we may come back to stolen merchandise. Long Lee Manor is comprised of 18 private rooms, a pool and pool house, a spa, and a full-service restaurant. Guests can relax with friends and family while they play board games and stare out into the vast savannah hoping to spot wildlife that frequents the watering hole. Continued on page 12

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After a quick change into my safari outfit, we headed out for our first game drive in hopes to spot some of the Big 5 – which include elephants, lions, leopards, cape buffalo, and rhinoceros. Animal sightings are never guaranteed on safari. The reserve we were on was almost 40,000 hectares (100,000 acres), so the chances of spotting wildlife can vary depending on the time of year, weather, migration patterns, and behavior. Our guide Jacques has been a ranger for many years and is able to spot wildlife from what seemed like a mile away. Our first sighting was a few warthogs, then as we turned the corner, we ran into a family of elephants. Seeing these majestic animals in the wild is just awe-inspiring. Although we kept our distance, we were still about 50 feet away, in striking distance if the animal wanted to charge us. Fortunately, we just sat in our vehicle and watched as the family ate their meal and interacted with each other. Elephants are one of nature’s most intelligent animals and develop feelings and bonds just like humans. Jacques told us a story of how he witnessed a calf being born and the others in the herd started trumpeting and dancing in celebration of the birth. A few miles further up the road was a mother rhinoceros with her calf. The horn on the mother rhino was probably two feet in length and we were told spotting her with her young was very tricky as they hadn’t been seen in months. As the sun began to set over Shamwari, we headed back to the resort for a Boma dinner, where we dined on traditional African foods outdoors around a communal fire. The meal consisted of a delicious soup and numerous types of meat. As we broke bread and recanted tales of the day’s activities it was hard not to pinch myself in disbelief. I was on safari for the second time, and it was just as magical as the first. It was a moment I didn’t want to take for granted. The next morning, we woke up with the birds and began the second game drive of our stay. The mornings tend to be very chilly, and we were advised to dress in layers as the temperature fluctuates throughout the day. The good thing about morning drives is this is when animals are the most active.

About 20 minutes into the drive, we spotted two male lions, a young nomad being chased out of the territory of the elder lion. The young lion ran through the grass knowing he was not welcome. After he no longer viewed the nomad as a threat, the elder lion took a rest as we watched the encounter from about a football field away. More sightings quickly followed; cape buffalo, springboks, impala, hippopotamus, rhino, and three female lionesses taking a much-needed afternoon rest. They are the hunters of the family so saving their energy is always well-deserved. As the day drew to a close, the staff at Shamwari had one last surprise for us, a sundowner, which is basically a cocktail reception in the bush. The staff set up a full bar, appetizers, and some chairs around a campfire. We spent the next hour sipping cocktails and watching the sunset over the mountains. Something so small meant so much to all of us and made for an experience we won’t soon forget.

Guests at Shamwari can also opt to visit the Shamwari Wildlife Rehabilitation Centre, which helps to rehabilitate and care for sick, injured, abandoned, or orphaned animals. Once these animals have been nursed back to health, they are released back into their natural habitat. It’s not an interactive visit, but an informative and educational experience, to give animals the best chance at a successful release. The Wildlife Rehabilitation Centre at Shamwari is a registered facility and as such, animals in need come from all over the Eastern Cape. The primary goal is to ultimately return all the animals back to the wild once they are healed. As tired as we all were after our two-week adventure through South Africa, we didn’t want to leave Shamwari. It is a truly majestic place that is well worth the visit. I vowed to return and share these memories with other friends and family. Enjoy the Journey 

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The 6 Best Tourist Destinations in the St. Pete/Clearwater Area for LGBTQ+ Visitors BY SUSAN SWAVELY

If you’re looking to take a little trip to warmer weather to beat the cold this winter, look no further! The perfect tropical destination that’s calling your name is St. Petersburg and Clearwater, Florida. With beautiful beaches, a lively arts scene, delicious restaurants and bars and overall good vibes, St. Pete and Clearwater will be the perfect escape from the cold this winter. “St. Pete/Clearwater,” according to the official travel site for the United States, VisitTheUSA.com, “is nestled on a sun-drenched peninsula between Tampa Bay and the Gulf of Mexico. With its 56 kilometers of white-sand beaches and lively cultural scene, the destination offers a getaway in paradise.” And getting there is a breeze. The St. Pete-Clearwater (PIE) airport has tons of direct flights, so you can step off the plane and into the sandy oasis! It’s a piece of cake… er, maybe PIE! And paradise gets even better. St. Pete and Clearwater are great places for LGBTQ+ people to feel welcomed and safe on their travels! It can be difficult to travel as a queer person, since you might not know exactly which places are friendly and which aren’t. Clearwater and St. Pete have made it clear that they’re happy to have all kinds of guests, of course including the LGBTQ+ community. Here are six places that are especially friendly for LGBTQ+ people that you don’t want to miss out on during your trip!

The Wet Spot

Address: 2355 Central Ave., St. Petersburg, FL 33713

The Wet Spot is the newest attraction for LGBTQ+ visitors and locals alike. This pool bar and day club is a little slice of heaven right in St. Pete! Photos courtesy of Visit St. Pete/Clearwater

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Lounge by The Wet Side’s private pool while you’re enjoying delicious poolside cocktails and snacks. It might be winter here, but down in Florida things are nice and sweaty! You’ll want to dive into the crisp water and cool off when things get hot! Take a dip this winter at The Wet Spot! Wanna check it out? See all the details on their website: www.cocktailstpete.com/the-wet-spot

COCKtail St. Pete

Address: 2355 Central Ave., St. Petersburg, FL 33713 Now if you head to St. Pete/Clearwater for a winter break, you absolutely must go to COCKtail St. Pete! St. Pete’s top award-winning bar, COCKtail St. Pete won the 2023 Tampa Bay’s Best awards for: Best LGBT Bar, Best Dance Club, Best LGBTQ-owned business, Best Drag event, and so. much. more.

You’ll love their stiff drinks, like the “Hey, You Up?” which is a delicious cocktail made of Grey Goose, coffee liqueur and simple syrup or the “Banana Hammock” which has Bacardi spiced rum, banana liqueur, lime juice and demerara syrup! You can also grab one of the other delightful cocktails (each with a name just as cheeky!), or go classic with beer and wine. And don’t forget about their iconic events! COCKtail St. Pete keeps the good times coming with everything from karaoke to drag to a “Big Gay Sing-along” to HIDE leather night! For all the details, check out their website: www.cocktailstpete.com

Mari Jean Hotel

Address: 2349 Central Ave., St. Petersburg, FL 33713

When you get to St. Pete/Clearwater, you’ll need a place to stay, right? Why not stay in the ~lap of luxury~ at St. Pete’s “premier gay adults only hotel”? This gorgeous, fifty-six room hotel was built in 1926, but has kept up with the city’s ever-changing character. This historic hotel offers a sexy, comfortable vibe and celebrates queerness around every corner! And your room comes with a complimentary continental breakfast and a complimentary wine and cheese happy hour, as well as access to beach/pool towels, and so much more. With tantalizing room décor and luxurious private rooms, you’ll never want to leave! For more details or to book your room, check out Mari Jean Hotel’s website: www.marijeanhotel.com

Gulfport

Wanna celebrate your unique and wonderful weirdness? Gulfport’s got you covered! According to visitstpeteclearwater.com, “The friendly, small waterfront community of Gulfport has been celebrating its weirdness since before it was cool to do so. It’s also been a long-time haven for the LGBTQ+ community. The city’s eclectic collection of artists, writers, musicians, and small business owners along with its walkable downtown and sparkling bayfront make this a must-visit place.” This small town has a larger-than-life vibe, with tons to do and see! Head to the beach for some lovely weather and cool ocean relaxation, or pop in the adorable artsy shops and galleries downtown. You’ll walk past charming old buildings, amazing live music, and you might even see “the tomb of Morris the Cat, the beloved feline who became the city’s unofficial mascot…and whose spirit is said to wander near the [Gulfport]casino”. Want more info on Gulfport? Check out their website: www.visitstpeteclearwater.com/ communities/gulfport

Sunset Beach

Address: 9000 W. Gulf Blvd, Treasure Island, FL 33706

If you need a relaxing day on a beautiful beach, Sunset Beach is the way to go. And if you’re going to a beach… of course it needs to be the gayest beach around! According to visitstpeteclearwater.com, “Sunset Beach, located on the southern tip of Treasure Island, is a beach lover’s community straight out of a Buffett song. This neighborhood welcomes guests of all lifestyles with open arms and is especially popular with the local LGBT community. On Sunset Beach you will find uniquely decorated houses, tiki huts, white sands, and beachfront bars where bohemian attitudes prevail.” Take a break from the cold and snow, and relax in the warm sand at Sunset Beach. And of course, you can’t miss their breathtaking golden sunsets! For more information, check out the Treasure Island information website: www.mytreasureisland.org

St. Pete Pier

Address: 600 2nd Ave. NE, St. Petersburg, FL 33701

There’s a brand-new pier to check out in St. Pete! If you want to take a long stroll through the warm Florida sun, this is the place to do it. According to stpetepier.org, “this gleaming new attraction on the city’s picturesque waterfront promises limitless fun for everyone, from first-time visitors to long-time residents. Its 26 beautiful acres seamlessly combine the peaceful blue waters of Tampa Bay with the vibrant greenery of downtown St. Petersburg’s parks, creating the ultimate place to stroll, bike, dine, drink, shop, swim, take in a concert and more.” You don’t want to miss out on this gem in St. Pete/Clearwater! For more information about the pier, check out their website: www.stpetepier.org Get away to a warm paradise this winter! Check out St. Pete/Clearwater Florida for a great vacay! www.visitstpeteclearwater.com 

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Lavender’s Winter What To Do Guide BY LINDA RAINES Winter in Minnesota can seem interminably long, especially if you stay cooped up in your house from early November to mid-April. While hibernation might work out well for actual bears, it’s often not the best course of action for humans. Social interaction, along with just being in the good ol’ outdoors, with family and friends is healthy—both mentally and physically—not to mention fun. The Twin Cities metro, as well as greater Minnesota, is replete with fun, interesting, and exciting activities throughout the winter months that will appeal to kids and adults alike. From cross-country skiing to pond hockey to indoor farmers markets, there are a plethora of activities that will get you off the couch and out enjoying yourselves with other hearty Minnesotans. Let’s take a look at a few of the many offerings on hand that’ll help keep the winter doldrums at bay until spring arrives in all of its rich green glory once more.

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Winter SKOLstice Through February 25 • 2645 Vikings Circle, Vikings Lakes, Eagan, MN Combine winter and the Minnesota Vikings, and you come up with fun for all ages and skill levels when it comes to activities on the ice. Winter SKOLstice is back for its second year! Skating, pond hockey, curling, a warming house and the famous Minnesota Ice Maze all await you. Open Monday – Friday 4 – 10 PM, Saturday – Sunday 10 AM – 10 PM www.explorevikinglakes.com/winterskolstice

Queer Holiday Market December 14 – 15 • Hosted by Urban Growler to benefit The Aliveness Project It’s a holiday market like no other, showcasing over 25 locally owned business businesses. www.aliveness.org • www.urbangrowlerbrewing.com

Circus Juventas’s Annual Holiday Show – “A Hygge Holiday” December 8 – 17 • Under the Big Top in St. Paul Circus Juventas celebrates the wonders of the season with their annual holiday performance that will bring the magic of the circus to your family’s yuletide celebration. Circus Juventas is, and always has been, proud to be a safe and supportive space for LGBTQ+ youth. www.circusjuventas.org/holiday-show-2023

Ice Castles Minnesota Dates and Hours Dependent upon Weather • Friday, Saturday, Sunday • 12500 82nd Ave. N., Maple Grove, MN 55369 Don’t miss this awe-inspiring, winter must-see that brings fairytales to life! Ice Castles has something for everyone—ice slides, caverns and archways, a polar pub, crawl tunnels, ice sculptures, a lantern passage and a tubing hill. Fun for all ages! www.icecastles.com/minnesota • www.experiencemaplegrove.com

Bentleyville Tour of Lights Through December 26 • Bayfront Festival Park, Duluth The largest free walk-through lighting display in America has something for everyone! Free treats, 4 million+ lights and a 128-foot Christmas tree will delight folks of all ages. Free admission, parking is $10 per vehicle. www.visitduluth.com • www.bentleyvilleusa.org

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The Dayton’s Project – Winter Maker’s Market Through December 30 • Mon – Sat 10 AM – 6 PM, Sun 11 AM – 5 PM through Dec 23, Post-holiday hours announced later • First & Second floors of The Dayton’s Project, 700 Nicollet Mall, Downtown Minneapolis The Dayton’s Project is bringing the holiday spirit back to Nicollet Mall with their second annual Winter Maker’s Market! Visit this curated retail experience that features 78 independent vendors showcasing heritage brands from across the state. You’ll be able to make a sizeable dent in your holiday gift list! www.thedaytonsproject.com

Winter Lights Selected dates through December 31 • Minnesota Landscape Arboretum, Chaska The Winter Lights display is always a stroll to remember! Tickets are required and go quickly, so check our website to get yours now. Enjoying the fresh, crisp air of a Minnesota winter evening surrounded by thousands of lights is an experience not to be missed. The Arboretum café will be open, and shopping at the gift store and music will be available on certain nights. Don’t miss the 25-foot Poinsettia Tree created with over 500 red, white and pink poinsettias. www.arb.umn.edu/winterlights

GLOW Holiday Festival Through December 31, 2023 • Open 5:00 – 9:00 PM • CHS Field, 360 Broadway St., St. Paul, MN 55101 GLOW is back, and it’s brighter than ever! Newly expanded exhibits abound, along with over a million glowing lights, Bright Bikes, the sElfie Plaza, Tremendous Tree, Enchanted Forest, the GLOW Spectacular and so much more. Tickets are on sale now! www.glowholiday.com

The Winter Markets at Viking Lakes Weekends, through February 25 • Viking Lakes, 730 Vikings Pkwy., Eagan, MN Shop 20+ rotating vendors, enjoy live music, food trucks, holiday-themed cocktails while having fun at the skating rink and looking at the magic light show. www.explorevikinglakes.com

Mill City Winter – Farmers Markets Select Saturdays/Weekends • December – April • Mill City Museum, Minneapolis Just because the weather’s turned chilly, it doesn’t mean that you can’t enjoy the bounty of local farmers! They’ll be heading indoors to sell their wares on first and third Saturdays from 10 AM – 1 PM inside the Mill City Museum. No dogs, please. www.millcityfarmersmarket.org

Minneapolis Farmers Market Select Weekends/Saturdays • 9:00 AM – Noon • 312 E. Lyndale Ave. N., Minneapolis, MN Providing fresh produce & products since 1876, we’re on a mission to bring goodness to our community all year long. Please, no dogs allowed. www.mplsfarmersmarket.com

Winter Solstice Celebration December 20 • 5 – 9 PM • American Swedish Institute, Minneapolis What could be better than marking the shortest day and the longest night than doing so at the ASI? A special festival menu

with small plates and warm Swedish mulled wine will be served by FIKA Café, and the Museum Store and Jul Shop will both be open late for attendees’ shopping needs. www.asimn.org/event/winter-solstice

JANUARY

UNVEILED Minneapolis January 4 • 5:00 – 9:00 PM • Minneapolis Hotel, The Depot, Minneapolis Produced by The Wedding Guys, the ultimate wedding planning event returns with an all-new evening-style concept. Highlights will include a TrendSpot Fashion Show, Trend wedding experience, Colorful Weddings – BIPOC Wedding Vendor Showcase, a beauty bar and so much more! www.theweddingguys.com/shows/unveiled

Minnesota Timberwolves Pride Night January 12 • 7:00 PM • Target Center, Minneapolis Dig out your brightest rainbow attire and cheer the Timberwolves as they take on the Portland Trail Blazers! www.timberwolves.com/tickets

Frostival January 13 – February 24 • Fargo and West Fargo, ND and Moorhead, MN If you can’t beat winter, then join it! Winter kickball, volleyball, disc golf, cardboard sled races, massive bouncy castles, snow sculpture competitions—you’ll find all of that and so much more during the chilly madness of Frostival! www.frostival.com

Neighborhood Roots at Bachman’s on Lyndale January 13, February 4, March 9 • 10:00 AM – 1:00 PM • 6010 Lyndale Ave. S., Minneapolis Taking place indoors, this market series will feature all of your favorite venders from Kingfield, Fulton and Nokomis Farmers Market. www.neighborhoodrootsmn.org/winter-markets

2nd World Snow Sculpting Championship January 17 – 21 • Lowell Park, Stillwater “There’s NO business like SNOW business!” And, there’s no sight quite like that of teams coming together from around the world to compete in the creation of incredible snow sculptures as they vie for prize money and the title of World Champion. Attendees will have the chance to enjoy plenty of activities, ceremonies, social events, and the people’s choice award. www.greaterstillwaterchamber.com/WSSC

19th Annual U.S. Pond Hockey Championships January 18 – 28 • Lake Nokomis, Minneapolis Hockey is as natural to Minnesota as breathing, so why not layer up and come out to watch players hit the ice as nature intended! www.uspondhockey.com

Art Shanty Projects January 20 – February 11 • Lake Harriet/Bde Unma Indulge in a whimsical, weird, uniquely experience that inspires joy in everyone from kids to adults. This yearly interactive art project, inspired by the ice fishing villages so prominent on Minnesota lakes, has an anything goes motto as far as construction and decoration for the 150+ artists who participate. Just don’t bring your fishing pole! www.artshantyprojects.org

138th Annual Saint Paul Winter Carnival January 25 – February 4 • Various St. Paul Venues Come out to enjoy this St. Paul tradition that celebrates all things winter! Watch ice-carving competitions, enjoy free artistic and educational activities, music, dance, food, the medallion hunt, and so much more. Most events are free and open to the public, and will take place near Rice Park and Landmark Center in downtown St. Paul as well as at the Minnesota State Fairgrounds. www.wintercarnival.com

15th Annual Anthony Ford Pond Hockey Classic January 27 – 28, 2024 • Spring Lake Park, Mankato, MN This two-day event is more than just a chance to enjoy hockey as it was meant to be played! Of course, it offers opportunities for both youth and adult players to show off their skills, but there are also options for all kinds of family fun such as a sledding hill, a warming house, and 12 separate professional rinks. Entry fees go to help local charities that support fighting childhood leukemia. www.anthonyford99.com

John Beargrease Sled Dog Marathon January 28 • Duluth to Canadian border and back The longest sled dog race in the lower 48, the John Beargrease Sled Dog Marathon sees competitors mushing in an event that covers nearly 400 miles and is a qualifier for the Iditarod race in Alaska. Come out to the 40th running of this spectacle and cheer on these mighty mushers at Northern Minnesota’s top winter attraction. www.beargrease.com • www.visitduluth.com

FEBRUARY

Brainerd Jaycees Ice Fishing Extravaganza February 3 • Hole in the Day Bay, Gull Lake, MN

One of the largest charitable ice fishing contests on earth, the event was founded in 1991 and is held ten miles north of Brainerd. www.icefishing.org

Chilly Open February 9 – 10 • Lake Minnetonka, Wayzata Bay Minnesota golf in February? You betcha! Freezing temperatures won’t stop 2,000+ Minnesotans from bringing out their hockey sticks and golf clubs to play a few rounds on four 9-hole courses plowed out on Lake Minnetonka. The golf tournament is a pre-registered event only, but there are plenty of other great things to indulge in for everyone else! www.chillyopen.wayzatachamber.com

Have you ever had dreams of racing across the winter landscape behind your very own team of sled dogs? Here’s your chance! This is a true off-the-grid adventure for those wishing to learn about and participate in a wonderfully unique winter sport. www.points-unknown.com/women/

City of Lakes Loppet Winter Festival February 3 -4 • Theodore Wirth Park, Minneapolis Originally designed as a cross-country ski race, the City of Lakes Loppet has become a winter staple that includes the Luminary Loppet, Cross-Country Ski, Skijor, Snowshoe, Fat Tire Bike events and more through Theodore Wirth Park. www.loppet.org

United We Shiver

41st Annual Finlandia Ski Marathon

February 10 • Lake Orono Park, Elk River, MN Raise pledges for your favorite non-profit and take the plunge into Lake Orono! In addition to the icy plunge for those hardy souls willing to dive in, there are also plenty of other fun things for the whole family to enjoy such as a 5K and 10K run/walk, bean bag tournament, live music, food and a medallion hunt. www.sherburneunitedway.org/unitedweshiver

February 17 • Bemidji, MN Attracting skiers from around the world, the Finlandia crosscountry ski event has been held in Bemidji since 1982 and is often called the “The Nordic Festival of the North”. The event is open to skiers of all experience levels. www.visitbemidji.com • www.minnesotafinlandia.com

Ely Winter Festival

Minnesota Wild Pride Night

February 1 – 11 • Ely, MN Come on up for ten days of activities that celebrate the joys of winter in the Boundary Waters region! Snow carvings, the Ely ArtWalk, and fun for all abound. www.elywinterfestival.com

March 12 • 7:00 PM • Xcel Energy Center, St. Paul Come out and join your Wild players as they show their Pride while taking on the Arizona Coyotes. Ticket pack includes a ticket to the game, an exclusive Wild Pride branded item, and a donation to the Twin Cities Pride Community. www.nhl.com/wild/tickets/promotional-nights

Dog Mushing! Women’s Winter Adventure 2024 February 29 – March 3 or March 5 – 8 • 82 Irish Creek Rd., Hovland, MN

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OUR SCENE | WINTER WHAT TO DO Eastern Canadian coastline with Viking Cruises provides impressive views and a deep connection to Canadian history and culture, no matter the season. As you consider your winter travel plans, I invite you to look beyond the conventional. So, pack your warmest clothes and set out to embrace the beauty and adventure that Canada’s East Coast has to offer during the winter months. I encourage you to add these destinations to your winter travel list; they’re true Canadian treasures waiting to be explored.

Montreal, Quebec

Winter’s Embrace

Unveiling the Magic of Canada’s Coastal Cities BY TODD P. WALKER

Exploring Montreal, Quebec City and Charlottetown during the winter reveals a side of these Canadian coastal towns that’s dramatically different from any other season. Blanketed in snow, these cities transform into enchanting winter wonderlands, each offering unique experiences that celebrate the chilly season. From the lively festivals in Montreal to the historical charm of Quebec City and the community warmth of Charlottetown, winter here is a time of beauty and cultural richness. You may wonder, “Why travel to a winter climate in the winter?” The answer lies in the picturesque tranquility of snow-covered cities and the lively local culture that flourishes in colder months. Preparing for such a journey means packing essentials: thermal layers for warmth, waterproof outerwear for protection against the elements, insulated boots for sturdy footing on icy paths, and accessories like gloves, a warm hat, and a scarf to guard against the biting cold. The prevalent dry air also calls for skin protection with moisturizers and lip balm. The allure of winter travel is manifold. The landscape, covered in a pristine blanket of snow, offers a magical backdrop distinct from any other season. Winter also presents unique activities unavailable at other times of the year: ice skating on glistening rinks, snowshoeing through quiet woods, and attending local festivals that celebrate the cold. Moreover, the reduced number of tourists allows for a more intimate experience of the local culture and attractions. Despite the bitter cold of a Canadian winter, these cities are alive with activity. Montreal, where the thermometer often reads -6°C (21°F), defies the cold with the buzz of the MONTRÉAL EN LUMIÈRE festival. Quebec City, with its chillier average of -10°C (14°F), warms up with the historic Quebec Winter Carnival. In Charlottetown, the temperatures may dip to around -5°C (23°F), but events like the Ice City Festival and Jack Frost Winterfest showcase the community’s vibrancy. This winter scene differs sharply from the vibrant autumn colors I witnessed on a Viking Cruise earlier this year. Yet winter brings its own special charm with a beauty that’s both peaceful and yet full of life. A trip along the

In the heart of a Montreal winter, the Notre Dame Basilica stands as a beacon of architectural grandeur, its historic façade even more striking against the backdrop of snow. This iconic landmark, famously hosting Celine Dion’s wedding, offers a serene and awe-inspiring sight, especially when its intricate details are highlighted by the soft winter light. The MONTRÉAL EN LUMIÈRE festival, typically held in late February to early March, is a highlight of the city’s winter season. This vibrant celebration showcases Montreal’s love for arts, lights, and food. The festival is a bustling hub of activity, featuring live music performances, interactive art installations, and culinary workshops that bring together local and international flavors. One of my personal favorites at the festival is the frozen maple stick. This sweet, quintessentially Canadian snack, made by pouring hot maple syrup onto snow, is more than just a treat; it’s an indulgence in the unique and delightful flavors of winter in Montreal. Montreal’s culinary scene is also marked by the legendary bagel battle between St-Viateur Bagel and Fairmount Bagel. Each claim to be the original and best, offering a delightful challenge to visitors. Sampling these freshly baked, slightly sweet bagels is an essential Montreal experience, a dive into the city’s rich food culture. The Underground City in Montreal offers a unique shopping experience. This extensive network beneath the city streets is a haven from the winter cold, filled with local crafts, gourmet treats, and the latest fashion. It’s a place where you can find artisanal Quebecois souvenirs and explore the diverse cultural fabric of Montreal. Montreal’s winter appeal is deeply intertwined with its cultural and culinary scenes, offering visitors a rich and varied experience that goes far beyond its picturesque winter landscape.

Quebec City, Quebec

Quebec City in winter is a scene straight out of a storybook. The Quebec Winter Carnival, typically held in late January to mid-February, is the centerpiece of this magical season. The festival is brought to life by its cheerful mascot, Bonhomme, a beloved snowman symbolizing the joy and spirit of the festivities. The carnival features stunning ice sculptures, lively night parades, and the uniquely thrilling ice canoe races – a spectacle that’s as exhilarating to watch as it sounds.

(Left to Right) Shoppers at a bakery in Montreal’s Underground City. Photo courtesy of BigStock/Andriy Blokhin. Quebec City. Photo courtesy of BigStock/ adrienletoux

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Your Go To Guide On What To Do In Cook County This Winter BY MADISON ROTH

If you’re looking for an escape from the hustle and bustle of winter and the chaotic scenes of the city, Cook County is the place for you. You will be greeted by the natural beauty of the land and the warm faces of the community members waiting to assist you on how you can have the best possible time there. Cook County is home to only about 5,800 people, but the numbers fluctuate throughout the year due to tourists. This could be you! I bet you’re wondering what there is to do in a place like this. Let me tell you, you’re in the right place by clicking on this article. Linda Jurek, the executive director for Visit Cook County, has held her role for just over ten years. She was born and raised in Grand Marais and is a fourth generation community member. Visit Cook County offers information on everything you need to know while spending time there from which restaurants and breweries you should go to first to the cool local businesses to check out (especially the Grand Portage Lodge & Casino). Photos by Matthew Baxley

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According to Jurek, Cook County has about 1.3 million visitors a year and 81% of Cook County’s economy is based on tourism. That’s why Jurek and her Visit Cook County team are focused on drawing people in with events like the ones listed below. While not all of the events are hosted by Visit Cook County, they are all put on by the community members that reside there. Here is a list of events you could attend in Cook County this Winter: • Gunflint Mail Run Sled Dog Race, Trail Center Lodge, Gunflint Trail | 1/6/2024 • Norpine Fat Bike Classic, Lutsen | Dates TBD but will be in January • 40th anniversary of the John Beargrease Sled Dog Marathon, Cook County | 1/28/2024 – 1/30/2024 • Hygge Festival, Cook County | Dates TBD but will be in February • Sugarbush Candlelight Ski & Snowshoe, Lutsen | Dates TBD but will be in February Matthew Baxley has lived in Cook County for the past nine years and has lived in several different areas of the county. They thought they would only live there for a year, but “it was pretty life changing,” so they never left. Cook County is typically for those who have fallen in love with the outdoors, Jurek said, as most of the activities and events are centered around being outside. “When you come here, it doesn’t take you but a quick drive inland to really be in a natural environment,” Jurek said. For Baxley, some of the activities they look forward to during winter is backcountry skiing and said there are lots of other activities for people to do, like wild ice skating on the frozen lakes. “What I love about it is that there’s kind of different things to do as the winter moves through its phases and progresses,” Baxley said. While Cook County sees its biggest boom in tourists in the summer, Jurek encouraged people to check out the area in the winter because of how quiet and peaceful it is during that time period. “We have a very expansive experience and it’s seasonal, so you’re going to get everything here,” Jurek said. Baxley added to this and said Cook County is special because the area is “accessible beauty in the form of land and water.” If attending events isn’t your thing, here are some other points of interest to consider in the Winter in Cook Country: • It has been a record-breaking year for northern lights viewing, and people should head north to Cook County, a designated dark sky sanctuary, to take in the night sky. • The county averages 120 inches of snow annually and over 400 km of groomed cross country ski trails, 450 miles of snowmobile trails, 1,000 skiable acres of alpine skiing and snowboarding and the Superior National Forest. It is a perfect getaway and winter wonderland for anyone! • There are lots of accommodations offering midweek lodging deals, so you can travel to Cook County whenever is convenient for you! Personally, Baxley said the northern lights experience you get when

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A Christmas Carol

All About that Work/Life Balance BY BUER CARLIE

A Christmas Carol is a beloved holiday parable that reminds us how the spirit of Christmas can cleanse even the most polluted of hearts. Since Charles Dickens published his novella 180 years ago, the story has been told and retold through every possible medium. Tiny Tim and Scrooge have become caricatures of unrelenting optimism and overpowering greed respectively. Depending on who you are, A Christmas Carol is likely either a ritualized part of your yearly holiday celebrations or has faded into the background as yet another piece of holiday noise. This year’s director, Addie Gorlin-Han, is in the first category. She fondly recalls attending A Christmas Carol every year through her childhood. During our video call she showed me a memento that she likes to keep in her office. “This is my Christmas stocking, which my grandma gave to me,” she says, holding a gorgeous patchwork stocking close to the camera, “It’s made of costume pieces from Guthrie productions of A Christmas Carol. I keep it in my office as a reminder.” If I’m being honest, I’m a member of the second group. I know the broad strokes of A Christmas Carol but I’m not interested in the source material and even the 1992 Muppets adaptation doesn’t hold my interest. Bad man gets visited by ghosts and becomes a better man, all dressed in the all-too-shiny wrapping paper of Christmas. It’s not my kind of story. With that in mind, I attended A Christmas Carol this year fully expecting to like the production while remaining apathetic on the story itself. Imagine my surprise when I enjoyed the story just as much as I did the production. My delight, according to Gorlin-Han, is likely because of the new script the Guthrie is using. Although 2023 marks the Guthrie’s 49th year of A Christmas Carol, this is only the third year utilizing Lavina Jadhwani’s adaptation. Gorlin-Han explains, “So many adaptations have extra story and Jadhwani essentialized a version of the play that feels as close to the Dickens text as I’ve ever encountered.” A Christmas Carol is politically and socially conscious, warning against the corrupting influence of capitalism, bolstering the joy that can be found around a sparse table of people who care for each other, and celebrating the overwhelming delight of a life given renewed meaning. To underscore that final point, this year a younger-than-usual Scrooge – Matthew Soldivar – was cast. “We cast him because there is something to be said for a Scrooge who changes who has more life ahead,” says Gorlin-Han, “There’s something really cool about having a guy who is in his late 40s, early 50s who then has a whole life ahead of him. Soldivar is also a musical theater actor and comedian, and he really has brought some fun and silly moments to the show.” Gorlin-Han also mentions a theme I have never heard applied to A Christmas Carol – possibly because the concept is not nearly as old as the story itself. “This is about work-life balance,” she says, “Scrooge is so worried about making money and having a secure life that – of course he’s not generous – but he also Photo by Dan Norman

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gives up the opportunity for love and prioritizes work over family.” This theme has been especially resonant for Gorlin-Han, who was 39-weeks pregnant at the time of our interview. “Clearly I’m at a place where this is actually happening for me,” she says, referencing her belly, “In this field there’s so much emphasis on sacrificing things for theater and sacrificing for work…I’m just so grateful that the Guthrie is like ‘Yeah, let’s figure it out.’ I don’t think that ten years ago workplaces were ready to do that.” There are plenty of thematic nuggets to keep you and yours chatting merrily after the production, but that is only the beginning. From the interactive set design and special effects to the stunning costumes (every ghost is more extraordinary than the last) and fast pace of the story, this is a production of A Christmas Carol that even I, a self-confessed A Christmas Carol Scrooge, have to recommend. The captivating nature of this production is created under the deft hands of a director whose long history with the show allows her to see it through eyes of all ages. “I’m really cognizant of what it means to be a family coming to the show,” GorlinHan says, “One of the notes that I gave to an actor recently was ‘Can you play that for the 14-year-old boy in the last row?’ What does it mean to include that kid who maybe has never seen theater or is reticent about being here?” Gorlin-Han is in large part following in the footsteps of Joseph Haj, (“I’m entirely honoring Joe’s vision for the production,” she says). Still, she and everyone else involved have found renewed depth in many scenes. “I watched Joe manage an entirely new set with some technical challenges and was a part of helping to juggle all of that…This year I get the joy and gift of time – of being able to take a second and third pass at scenes.” She pauses for a moment, “Little things make a big difference.” “We so often talk about the play being about Scrooge and his reformation and change,” muses Gorlin-Han, “It’s important to realize that the play is about a community of people who set up his change and accept his change.” She goes on to explain how polarized the world is today, which underscores the virtue of the people who made up Scrooge’s community. “I get so moved in the final stage of the play,” she says, “They’re just so willing to embrace him for his change. It’s such a gift.” A Christmas Carol is a fun, spooky play that is beautifully performed and produced. Any Minnesotan in the pursuit of a cozy bit of theater on a chilly winter night will be delighted by this reinterpretation of the classic Dickensian tale. A Christmas Carol runs through December 30 on the Wurtele Thrust Stage. Check out the Guthrie website or call the box office for additional information. 

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“Am I Queer Enough?” BY ELISE MAREN

Ask Elise is an advice column meant for suggestions regarding LGBTQ+ community member dilemmas of any kind. If I am not qualified to answer your question (regarding issues for transgender individuals, people of color, etcetera), I will ask someone who is qualified and cite them. Your question is equally important and may help another community member. If you have a question, please submit it to elise.m.maren@gmail.com listing your pronouns and pseudonym if desired. If you need someone to talk to for more urgent or serious matters, please consider using the following hotlines: The Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender National Hotline: (888) 843-4564 Trans Lifeline: (877) 565-8860: Trans Lifeline is a trans-led organization that connects trans people to the community, support, and resources they need to survive and thrive.

Dear Elise, I identify as bi/pan and sometimes feel like I am less queer because in general I learn more toward attraction to male or masculine people. It makes me question my identity as I do not feel “queer enough.” How do I reconcile my sense of identity? Additionally, I am close to thirty and have limited relationship experience. I am afraid that future partners will think that I am bad at relationships due to this. Is there anything I can do to prepare myself? Sincerely, Rainmaker (She/her) Dear Rainmaker, Many of my bi/pan friends who are in straight-presenting relationships feel this way, so please know that you are not alone. My femme friends who are married to men espePhoto courtesy of BigStock/fizkes

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cially feel this. The elders who fought for legitimacy for the B in LGBTQ+ likely felt similarly at points in their lives, but this does not take away from their value in the community. Bisexual and pansexual people are essential members of our community. Just like how straight people do not need to prove their sexuality with romantic receipts, you do not need to prove your identity to anyone. Even with limited romantic experiences, you do not need to have all the answers to what you want and don’t want in a relationship in order to claim an LGBTQ+ identity. We consider you to be a wholly worthy and valuable community member, and I hope your question makes other readers feel less alone. One tool that might feel validating to you is the Kinsey scale. Although it faces valid criticism for reinforcing gender binaries, it was a helpful tool in researching LGBTQ+ identities in previous generations. It brought value to me when I was questioning whether or not I wanted to identify as lesbian or bisexual because there were a handful of men, I felt at least genuine romantic attraction to. Having a visual or numerical representation of how you feel may help validate your identity as this scale has been used by researchers and clinicians for decades. It sounds like you may identify with the number two on the scale from the description, but I will certainly leave identity up to you. Lastly, my biggest pieces of advice regarding preparing for relationships would include writing out your values before meeting someone you’re interested in, talking to friends who have relationships that resemble what you are looking for, finding confidence in your identity, and realizing that it would be immature of someone to judge you for your limited relation-

ship experience. I have friends who are 25 who have not kissed anyone yet; they are some of the coolest people I know, and they’re straight, so their pool is not smaller. Writing out your values will help you to not compromise just to gain relationship experience. For example, I am religious and one of my values was to find a partner who shared spirituality with me. I lowered that standard to have a summer fling, which could have risked my availability for my current long-term and hopefully forever partner who I met shortly after. Those values might be easier to discern by talking to friends in relationships you admire or even in relationships you would rather not emulate. One thing to not do is…listen to magazines (I’m talking like Cosmopolitan or People) for sex/relationship tips. These are often concerning articles and laughable at best. I understand that I, too, am writing for a magazine, but I am not writing a one-size-fits-all column on weird sex tips. I hope you can also find reassurance in the fact that you are not the only near-thirty-something with limited relationship experience. My roommate was in a culty Christian church for a long time and got married to a partner in that environment. Their first kiss was at their wedding. They are now divorced and are rediscovering the magic of relationships as an adult with somewhat limited relationship experience. It is not as uncommon as you may think, likely especially within the LGBTQ+ community or those coming out later in life. Your future partner(s) will be lucky to have you. Sincerely, Elise

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Books BY E.B BOATNER

The Bell in the Fog

Author of Lavender House, Rosen brings back Evander, “Andy” Mills, ex-cop, now struggling PI in disgrace. It’s 1952 San Francisco; Andy’s been given lodging and office space above the Ruby, a gay bar well before Stonewall’s revolution. Shunned by some for his cop-taint, fearing to be recognized by the law, PI Mills has a fine line to walk. A knock on his door brings–a client! His lover James from Navy days, who one day, disappeared without a word or trace, now returned, blackmailed over lewd photographs. Will Andy help, will he rejoin James? Andy plunges into the past, finding evermore layers of misdirection, violence, danger, and death. A thread of hope and

romance trickles through, the narrative, but will Andy survive to embrace it?

Mid-Century Type

A book to be savored; skimming the surface, admiring its 500-some color illustrations, or studying its Introduction and 14 chapters that detail typography’s history and application in numerous fields, including Type Design, Corporate Identity, Advertising, Transport, Film & Television. Typography evolved dramatically following WWII, when new printing technologies opened the field to independent printers, while upheavals wrought upon European economies along with changing social mores allowed greater use of humor, inuendo and sexiness. Collet Dickenson Pearce’s Olympus camera text for two known politicians trading snaps: “They obviously felt like shooting each other,” or a school-marmish lady’s first cool sip morphing her small, red hat into a lush, edible confection engulfing her delighted face as the caption purrs, “Heineken. Refreshes the parts other beers cannot reach.”

The Mysteries

Calvin and Hobbes fans have waited for years now, for the reappearance of writer/artist Bill Watterson, and here it is; The Mysteries, co-created over a prolonged period with noted caricaturist, John Kascht. Dark, eerie, it leaves interpretation to the reader, though one summation might be,

“Fearful, superstitious villagers capture a Mystery, shrug, become confident, over-grow to annihilation, vanish, as the Cosmos, unmindful, spins on. This was no collaboration between writer and artist, but an amicable, yet unyielding, confrontation between an ambiguist (BW) and a precisionist (JK). “At the end of the first year we had literally nothing.” “Surprise is the goal.”(BW) “Things clicked when we gave up.” (JK) Hint: No, these quotes are not from the book. You must hunt online. You decide. Good luck!

The Nightingale Affair

Mason’s second Inspector Charles Field mystery begins with a serial killer in 1876 London, then segués to Crimea, 1855, and Field’s earlier pursuit of a fiend stalking Florence Nightingale and her nurses, stitching victims’ mouths shut with roseembroidered patches. Despised by male doctors and British military brass for her interfering insistence on cleanliness, nourishment, and comfort for the wounded, Nightingale and her staff–despite the grisly murders–were routinely ignored. Field, believing that case closed after the killer committed suicide, must now reconsider; young women are dying again, mutilated with identical rose patches. Field met his wife in Crimea, his daughter’s now studying nursing. Like many Mason characters, Charles Field existed, was Dickens’s model for Bleak House Inspector Bucket. Highly recommended also, Mason’s The Darwin Affair. 

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The Way to Get To Your “What To Do’s” BY RANDY STERN

Want something to do this winter? Try to find the “perfect” SUV to tackle anything that will come your way. OK, you may have already seen every SUV in the marketplace. You may think that one such vehicle is right for you. You expect this magazine to steer you to the right SUV that fits our lifestyle. As we know, not one SUV should be seen as “our” choice for our lifestyle. Just like the SUV market, we are as individual as everyone else. What we choose as “our” vehicle reflects how we live and our pursuits. Therefore, no SUV should be considered “perfect” – unless it is perfect for you. Let alone, “perfect” to handle our winters. In my case, I like an SUV with some space for people and our stuff. For example, I want to be able to bring three of us along to any of the winter activities that are listed in this issue. Perhaps to take them to some Pride event next year in a far corner of our state. I also need to bring a mobility device, some of their things, and to be comfortable for a few hours on the road. Or, an SUV that takes me deep into Minnesota to one of our state parks for a day trip or an overnight cabin stay – even in the dead of winter. Somewhere that is peaceful and quiet. All I can bring is what I need – some clothes, a mobility device, some music…maybe a friend who enjoys the outdoors. And, plenty of items to keep us warm. This brings me to the 2024 Volkswagen Atlas Cross Sport. The Atlas lineup was originally engineered for American consumers back in 2017, because Volkswagen wanted to give us something that is big Photos by Randy Stern

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enough for families and the things we do. First introduced as a three-row SUV, the Atlas was soon given a shorter, two-row version that provided more than enough interior volume to “live large.” The two-row Cross Sport arrived in 2020. Every Atlas and Atlas Cross Sport is produced at the Chattanooga Assembly Plant in Tennessee. The 2024 model underwent a deeper revision from previous models. That included a new front clip with a larger grille and new LED headlamp units. Out back, a new enlarged taillight unit stretches the entire width of the rear area. The profile remains the same, even with some new wheel designs and badging. The biggest change in the Atlas Cross Sport (and the larger Atlas) is the interior. The dash-

board is all new, featuring an updated Digital Cockpit instrument cluster. You can choose from four types of instrumentation and a plethora of information to be read on each screen. You can also have some information displayed on the new tablet-like 12.0-inch infotainment touchscreen above the center stack. Also new is a center console that features a new toggle-like shifter for the automatic transmission. It takes getting used to, as long as you see the Park button between it and the ignition button. Every other control is what you expect in a Volkswagen these days. One of the biggest changes made in the Atlas lineup is underneath its hood. The V6 engine is no longer offered. Instead, every Atlas and Atlas Cross Sport is powered by a 269-horsepower 2.0-liter turbocharged four-cylinder engine. With 273 pound-feet of torque, this muscular engine can tow up to 5,000 pounds. It is connected to an eightspeed automatic transmission sending power to all four wheels through the 4Motion system. Compared to its three-row sibling, the two-row Atlas Cross Sport seemed perfect. There is space for two-to-three adults in the second row. The driver and front passenger have a great view out of the windshield. It also has a lot of space behind the second row for luggage, cold weather gear, food and drink, and anything else you fit back there up to 40.3 cubic feet worth. The upholstery in our tester is a black perforated leather which the perforations is trimmed in blue. You will also find blue on the dashboard with an LED etching of the model’s name with some delightful blue accent lighting. With all of those blue elements, there is still a mighty two-row mid-sized SUV to manage through the winter – and the rest of the year. In the far reaches of the center console is a set of buttons – one of which controls the drive modes for the Atlas Cross Sport. When you click that button, the infotainment screen offers several drive modes – including Sport, Offroad, and Snow. The ride quality is thud solid. Mainly because it wears a set of 21-inch alloy wheels for the SE: Premium R-Line trim and all-season tires. The penalty is not noise, but a level of firmness even

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BUSINESS ASSOCIATIONS

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CASINOS

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ENVIRONMENT

The Nature Conservancy

HEALTH & WELLNESS

Aliveness Project

Community Center for individuals living with HIV/AIDS – on-site meals, food shelf, and supportive service. 3808 Nicollet Ave. S. Minneapolis, MN 55102 (612) 824-LIFE (5433) www.aliveness.org

Family Tree Clinic

We're a sliding fee sexual health clinic and education center, now in Minneapolis. 1919 Nicollet Ave. Minneapolis MN 55403 (612) 473-0800 www.familytreeclinic.org

NAMI Minnesota

(National Alliance on Mental Illness) Providing free classes and peer support groups for people affected by mental illnesses. 800 Transfer Rd. #31 St. Paul, MN 55114 (651) 645-2948 www.namihelps.org

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LIBRARIES

Quatrefoil Library

Your LGBTQ+ library and community center. Free membership, events, and e-books/audiobooks. Check us out! 1220 E. Lake St. Minneapolis, MN 55407 (612) 729-2543 www.qlibrary.org

MEDIA & COMMUNICATIONS

Radio K

EVENT VENUES

PFund Foundation

PFund is the LGBTQ+ community foundation that provides grants to students and grants to non-profits. PO Box 3640 Minneapolis, MN 55403 612-870-1806 www.pfundfoundation.org

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Open to the public year-round, the Guthrie produces classic and contemporary plays on three stages. 818 S. 2nd St. Minneapolis, MN 55415 (612) 377-2224 www.guthrietheater.org

Lyric Arts Main Street Stage

Theater with character. Comedies, musicals, & dramas in a professional, intimate setting where all are welcomed. 420 E. Main St. Anoka, MN 55303 (763) 422-1838 info@lyricarts.org www.lyricarts.org

Minnesota Orchestra

Create your own adventure at MNHS historic sites and museums around Minnesota. mnhs.org

GRANTMAKERS/FUNDERS

An inclusive and affirming community transforming lives through God’s love. 519 Oak Grove St. Minneapolis, MN 55403 (612) 870-7800 www.ourcathedral.org

Red Door Clinic

Radio K is the award-winning studentrun radio station of the University of Minnesota. 330 21st. Ave. S. Minneapolis, MN 55455 (612) 625-3500 www.radiok.org

A classic venue, with a grand cortile and beautiful courtrooms, accommodates celebrations of all sizes. 75 W. 5th St. St. Paul, MN 55102 (651) 292-3228 www.landmarkcenter.org

Guthrie Theater

World-class opera draws you into a synthesis of beauty; breathtaking music, stunning costumes & extraordinary sets. Performances at the Ordway Music Theater - 345 Washington St., St. Paul, MN 55102 (612) 333-6669 www.mnopera.org

Sexual health care for all people. Get confidential tests & treatment in a safe, caring setting. 525 Portland Ave., 4th Fl. Minneapolis, MN 55415 (612) 543-5555 reddoor@hennepin.us www.reddoorclinic.org

MUSEUM

Minnesota Historical Society

Walker Art Center

Showcasing the fresh, innovative art of today and tomorrow through exhibitions, performances, and film screenings. 725 Vineland Pl. Minneapolis, MN 55403 (612) 375-7600 www.walkerart.org

PERFORMING ARTS

Chanhassen Dinner Theaters

The nation’s largest professional dinner theater and Minnesota’s own entertainment destination. 501 W. 78th St. Chanhassen, MN 55317 (952) 934-1525 www.ChanhassenDT.com

Plymouth Congregational Church

Many Hearts, One Song; Many Hands, One Church. Find us on Facebook and Twitter. 1900 Nicollet Ave. Minneapolis, MN 55403 (612) 871-7400 www.plymouth.org

Providing comprehensive health services for LGBTIA+ people, those living with HIV & folks from underserved communities facing healthcare barriers. 701 S. 4th Ave. #1500 Minneapolis, MN 55415 General: (612) 341-2060, MN AIDSLine: (612) 373-2437 info@rainbowhealth.org www.rainbowhealth.org

TNC is an environmental nonprofit working to create a world where people and nature thrive. 1101 W. River Pkwy., Ste. 200 Minneapolis, MN 55415-1291 (612) 331-0700 minnesota@tnc.org www.nature.org/minnesota

Landmark Center

Children’s Theatre Company

Children’s Theatre Company excites the imagination with world-class familyfriendly theatre for kids, teens, and adults. 2400 3rd Ave. S. Minneapolis, MN 55404 (612) 874-0400 www.childrenstheatre.org

Minnesota Opera

Led by Music Director Designate Thomas Søndergård, the Minnesota Orchestra, one of America’s leading symphony orchestras. 1111 Nicollet Mall Minneapolis, MN 55403 (612) 371-5656, (800) 292-4141 www.minnesotaorchestra.org

Ordway Center for the Performing Arts

Leading performing arts center with two stages presenting Broadway musicals, concerts and educational programs that enrich diverse audiences. 345 Washington St. St. Paul, MN 55102 (651) 224-4222 info@ordway.org www.ordway.org

Twin Cities Gay Men’s Chorus

An award-winning chorus building community through music and offers entertainment worth coming out for! 1430 W. 28th St., Ste. B Minneapolis, MN 55408 (612) 339-SONG (7664) chorus@tcgmc.org www.tcgmc.org

RELIGIOUS & SPIRITUAL

All God’s Children Metropolitan Community Church

A welcoming, inclusive, safe place to explore and discover God’s love for ALL God’s children. 3100 Park Ave. Minneapolis, MN 55407 (612) 824-2673 www.agcmcc.org

Hennepin Avenue United Methodist Church

Everyone is welcome at Hennepin Church! Vibrant Worship. Authentic Community. Bold Outreach. 511 Groveland Ave. Minneapolis, MN 55403 (612) 871-5303 www.hennepinchurch.org

St. Mark’s Episcopal Cathedral

Westminster Presbyterian Church

An open and affirming congregation, welcoming persons of all sexual orientations, gender expressions and identities. 1200 Marquette Ave. Minneapolis, MN 55403 (612) 332-3421 www.westminstermpls.org

SENIOR LIVING Friends & Co

Fostering meaningful connections for older adults for 50+ years. Offering quick drop-in chat line, phone & visiting companionship services. 2550 University Ave. W., Ste. 260-S St. Paul, MN 55114 (612) 721-1400 www.friendsco.org

Senior Community Services

Providing non-medical services that meet the changing needs of older adults & support their caregivers. 10201 Wayzata Blvd., Ste. 335 Minnetonka, MN 55305 (952) 541-1019 www.seniorcommunity.org/lav

SOCIAL SERVICES

Lutheran Social Service of MN

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Discover Stillwater

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Visit Greater St. Cloud

Give yourself a break. Visit Greater St. Cloud. 1411 W. St. Germain St., Ste. 104 St. Cloud, MN 56301 (320) 251-4170 info@visitstcloud.com www.visitstcloud.com

YOUTH

The Bridge for Youth

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on smooth highway sections. You will also find the overall handling to be controlled and level. It behaves quite well and offers nominal roll and lean through the turns. Here’s something to consider: You can get a second set of winter tires and wheels to maximize the grip during our coldest months. Once you change out your tires for the wintertime, you will notice the difference in terms of handling over snow and ice. Just take it easy on the throttle when you encounter these conditions. The steering system was very good, with a solid on-center feel and a good turning radius. There was just nominal lag from the steering wheel to the road. The brakes also felt solid with good feedback from an equally solid pedal. Stops were good in both normal and panic situations, as well as on gravel and dirt roads. As far as fuel economy is concerned, the Atlas Cross Sport averaged 22.0 MPG. With five different trim levels to choose from, the 2024 Volkswagen Atlas Cross Sport starts from $36,715. This SEL Premium R-Line tester arrived with a sticker price of $50,320. The one thing that stood out about this Atlas Cross Sport is how well it did when visiting one of the Minnesota State Parks. The mix of tarmac, gravel, and dirt roads at Sibley State Park near New London, Minnesota was a great test for this SUV. It passed with flying colors! This is a vehicle that can carry your camping gear for the four of you, or pack your cross country ski gear to handle the trails for a good day at the park. There is still one question that must be asked: Is the Volkswagen Atlas Cross Sport the “perfect” SUV? Not quite, but in terms of performance, handling, and space, it’s close enough. 

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The festival also offers a chance to indulge in classic Canadian winter treats. Warm up with a cup of hot caribou, a traditional Quebecois drink made from red wine, whiskey, and maple syrup, known for its warming properties in the cold weather. Don’t miss trying a beaver tail, a popular Canadian pastry that’s fried dough shaped like a beaver’s tail, often topped with sweet condiments like chocolate, fruit, or cinnamon sugar. The Old Town, enchanting in September, transforms into a historical European village when winter arrives. Walking through the snow-laden cobblestone streets, you’re surrounded by the picturesque beauty of snowcovered roofs, with the majestic Château Frontenac towering above. This iconic hotel isn’t just a backdrop; it’s an experience in itself. Sipping tea or indulging in a local delicacy like poutine or tourtière in its grand halls feels like a journey back in time. Winter in Quebec City is also a culinary adventure. The local cuisine, with its hearty and comforting dishes, is perfect for the chilly weather. From savory meat pies to sweet maple treats, the flavors of Quebec are as integral to its winter charm as the snow-covered streets and historical landmarks.” The walled city of Quebec adds to this enchanting atmosphere. It’s one of the few North American cities with its fortifications still intact, and in winter, these walls give the city a unique, secluded feel. Activities like tobogganing near the Château Frontenac or exploring the festive market squares make Quebec City a must-visit for anyone seeking a blend of history, culture, and winter wonder.

Charlottetown, Prince Edward Island Charlottetown in winter is a maritime gem offering a serene yet lively escape. The town comes alive with the Ice City Festival and Jack Frost Winterfest, held in February. These festivals transform Charlottetown into a wonderland of snow and ice sculptures, showcasing the town’s creative spirit and community warmth. Visitors can expect a vibrant array of activities, from ice skating to live performances, making these festivals a highlight of the island’s winter calendar. The island’s culinary scene is particularly notable for its seafood, especially the world-renowned Prince Edward Island mussels. Known for their distinctive flavor and quality, these mussels are at their best during the colder months. Along with the local lobster rolls and chowder, these fresh, briny mussels are culinary highlights. Enjoying a steaming bowl of chowder by the waterfront, with its rich, creamy flavors, is a quintessential Charlottetown experience. Winter in Charlottetown can be brisk, but the island’s beauty and the warmth of its people make it a cozy and inviting destination. The crisp air and snowy landscapes provide a perfect backdrop for exploring the town’s charming streets and waterfront. The spirit of “Anne of Green Gables” is deeply woven into the fabric of Charlottetown. A visit to the farmhouse that inspired L.M. Montgomery’s beloved novel in winter, with its snow-covered fields and quaint, rustic charm, offers a unique glimpse into a story that has captured hearts worldwide. This literary connection, combined with the town’s culinary delights, makes Charlottetown a unique and inviting winter destination. As we look across the wintry expanse of Canada’s East Coast, it’s clear that each city has its own winter story waiting to be discovered. The cold months bring a special kind of magic here, one that’s best experienced firsthand. From the historic streets of Quebec City to the festive air of Montreal and the crisp maritime charm of Charlottetown, there’s a wealth of experiences to unearth. So, as you ponder your next winter escape, consider these Canadian gems. They promise the kind of winter wonder that turns travelers into storytellers. 

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visiting Cook County is “both maddening and incredibly awe inspiring” because you never know what nights you will be able to see the lights. It’s an experience that one must see with their own eyes to believe in the power of the artistic, worldly beauty before them, according to Baxley. “It just goes on and on and on, and it’s an experience where you don’t want to go to bed but it’s freezing cold, you’re huddled out in the night, you can’t close your eyes and you can’t go to sleep, but you’re exhausted but it’s just too incredible to let it end,” Baxley said. Another part that draws tourists in is the kindness from the residents. Baxley described Cook County as a “small big town” since there aren’t too many people that live there, but there is a friendly face around every corner ready to help you out and show you why they love where they live as much as they do. Jurek left Cook County for thirty years before coming back and has no plans of leaving anytime soon. To her, Cook County will always be the place she calls home. Baxley just purchased a piece of land in Cook County because even though they love to travel and see different parts of the world, they always want Cook County to be the place they return to and call their home. When asked to describe Cook County in a couple of words, Jurek and Baxley, respectively, said: • “It’s so beautiful. It really is just stunningly, naturally beautiful.” • “It is a place where you get to experience yourself in a more raw, natural form. It tells you a lot about yourself and what’s really real.” For more information on what to do in Cook County, visit their website: www.visitcookcounty.com Who knows, once you spend some time there, you may find that Cook County could be the next place you call home, just like Jurek and Baxley did. 

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