Winter What To Do
Volume 30, Issue 771 • December 12-25, 2024
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Winter, What To Do? Lots!
“Winter What To Do” may seem oxymoronic. It’s a thought that’s crossed my mind often. Sure, there are things to do in winter … in December. Then, once New Years has come and gone, nothing. Nothing until St. Patrick’s Day — which usually doesn’t even mark the end of winter.
Then I thought back to childhood, when winter was my favorite season. What’s changed since then? Why don’t I enjoy it anymore?
There are some things out of my control that dampen the mood. Unlike when I was eight, I have to drive in Minnesota winters. My late February birthday each year becomes less of a source of excitement and more of a formality and a reminder of my own mortality (although for now, it remains more the former than the latter). Snow storms no longer bring a day off
from school, but instead either force me inside or prompt me to risk my life (or at least my car) to make a grocery run.
Some of those changes, though, are entirely on me. I used to love sledding, snowmen and snowball fights. Are those things childish? Sure, probably. Does that mean they aren’t still fun? I don’t know, I haven’t tried.
I could make hot chocolate! I don’t. Haven’t gone to a holiday light show in ages. I hardly
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decorate for Christmas, and that should be the easy part of winter to stay busy for.
Admittedly, even getting all of those childhood favorites on the calendar still leaves a lot of time to fill. And that doesn’t have to be a bad thing. There are so many movies I’ve wanted to watch, books I’ve wanted to read and recipes I’ve wanted to try that I haven’t had time for. Stuck in the house for two months, I might finally have time!
I saved the best for last, though. Minnesota winters are harsh, sure, but they’re harsh every year. We’re prepared for them. And we’ve come up with plenty to do. There are all kinds of fun activities in this year’s Winter What To Do list, complied by the wonderful Linda Raines. I’ll certainly be making use of it — maybe I’ll see you there!
BS: No, Not Bachelor of Science — the Other One
There’s a lot of BS in the air these days, and would that more of it involved getting an education in some area of Science; climate change solutions or the like. But this is the other kind when proponents bound from one BS assertion to another, like little Liza over the ice floes.
I read an article on the subject recently, and, like any good writer, the author referred to an earlier book(let) on the subject written by Harry Gordon Frankfurt (1929-2023), published first in the Raritan Quarterly review in 1986 then by Princeton University Press in 2005. Frankfurt joined Princeton’s faculty in 1990, transferred to emeritus in 2002, and at his passing in 2023, was sent off by his university with an obit that proclaimed a “renowned moral philosopher, ‘gentle spirit,’ and surprise New York Times bestselling author, dies at 94.”
Along with “major contributions” in the studies of Descartes and Hume, he “specialized in foundational questions in metaphysics, epistemology, moral philosophy, philosophical anthropology, political philosophy, and religion.”
He also, and this is central to any discussion of BS, was interested in people. As Benjamin Morrison, professor of philosophy and department chair at that time stressed, Harry Frank-
furt devoted himself to understanding humans: “what we do, what we could have done, what we want to do and even what we want to want to do.”
He might have extended that to, “and what we will do to get what we want.” Perhaps Professor Frankfurt did mention that as well; he certainly made it clear in his slender volume (Princeton University Press, 2005) titled “On Bullshit.” Its 76 pages make clear the difference — and the different usages of heightened BS from run-of-the-mill, everyday lies. There are cloudy crossovers, but most folks can tell the difference between these two replies to “Did you send your mother-in-law a birthday card?”: “Yes indeed!” (Thinking, “OMG, gotta do that quick and no one will know!”) and “I was on my way to work when a griffon swooped down and carried off my briefcase!”
The first respondent knows he didn’t send anything, knows he did not tell the truth, figures a finagle. The second makes no mention of MIL or card, just a giant mythical bird, big enough to carry off an elephant. The questioner is now completely off-balance and topic. In neither case did the MIL receive a birthday card. The BS-proficient have the total insouciance toward reality as Gilbert Shelton’s Free-
wheelin’ Frank (“Fabulous Furry Freak Brothers”) who approaches a mark with his banjo saying, “Give me money now, or I’ll follow you home and play under your window forever…”
Each achieves different aims, although the lie has some foundation in fact. Our first liar knew it was his mother-in-law’s birthday, he knew that he had not sent a card — perhaps had never intended to send one. The BS practitioner makes no attempt to tether himself to the mother-in-law, her birthday, nor a card. BSers come bearing banners with strange devices: a fantasy creature, to catch the eye and the attention of the unwary mark who, once used and wrung dry, is skinned and discarded. They thread through history; our own most prominent, Phineas Taylor Barnum (18101891) whose first circus burnt to the ground in 1865, as did his Ringling Brothers Barnum and Bailey 3-ring on July 6, 1944 (I was there).
Twain knew Americans from the beginning were attracted to the big top, dancing chickens and the carney showman’s sleight-of-hand pitches. We still are; wrestling aficionados call it kayfabe, and cheer the villain.
And that ain’t BS.
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BY CARLA WALDEMAR
New Kid on the Old Block
It was one of those proverbial dark and stormy nights. We were sloshing our way along the riverside bricks of St. Anthony Main Street — the city’s oldest — seeking its newest restaurant, um, Aster something. Spotting the Aster Café, where nearly half of Minneapolis basks in its sunny patio all summer long, we peered around in confusion. “Oh, you want the Aster House,” the hostess set us straight and on our way to our destination, a bit farther down the road. (This newcomer was launched, turns out, by the Aster Café’s owner.)
The restaurant is brand-new, but the building isn’t. Its dining room, bound in vintage fieldstone under burly ceiling beams, hosts well-spaced tables cloaked in dim, cozy lighting — a setting that positively screams “Romance!” And the menu accommodates.
It’s been collated by range rider Josh Jones with guidance from celeb chef Karyn Tomlinson of Myriel, one of this year’s darlings of Food & Wine magazine. It’s honed with a Midwest mentality: no words you’re embarrassed to ask your server to translate; no flowery hype, as suits our innate Minnesota modesty.
Folks dropping by for cocktails (they’re generously poured) are wise to summon the Lazy Susan tray ($24), a medley of cold cuts, dips, cheeses, veggies and crackers that can also stand in for a light meal. Instead, we discussed the toasts ($8-9) with our server.
One, touting a topping of corn kernels in buttermilk, sounded downright silly, but the other, a spread of creamy pureed chicken livers spritzed with parsley and sweet bits of onions, hit the spot. (But the opportunity for a bread base of equal merit was passed up in favor of a Wonder-type slice. Hmmm.) We paired it with a dish of wild rice fritters — golf-ball in size and tamed with more filling than wild rice within their salt-kissed crust. They’re poised for swooping through a saucer of herbed mayonnaise.
The menu’s middle section ($9-16) tempts diners with choices ranging from squash bisque with orange cream and pepitas to a fall salad marrying cheddar, apple, celery, blueberries, sunflower seeds and a drizzle of maple, or ratatouille with chevre (next time, both!) and our choices, starting with roasted carrots, served whole.
Good idea, for sure, but further finesse is called for. These carrot logs offered an understated, innate touch of sweetness, not quite sufficient to rescue the dish. They’re abetted with a scant but
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imaginative carrot-top pistou. (Points for that: As granny would say, “Waste not, want not.”) We paired it with a plate of polenta — creamy as one could dream, radiating a come-hither, cheesy flavor, and topped with an enticing tangle of wild mushrooms. Yum!
A quartet of mains ($24-42) made us wish we could manage more than one between us: lake trout with braised fennel? Slow-cooked chicken with cabbage and Dijon cream? A classic steakand-potatoes pairing? Our choice, and a fine one, was a hefty two-fisted pork chop, prudently timed to remain juicy and allow its pink interior to beckon. It’s served with bits of braised kale mingling with white beans. I’ll remember the dish as a hearty antidote when Minnesota’s blizzards hit.
Three dessert options ($8-10) are on offer: a cheese selection, a cup of chocolate mousse and our choice, banana toffee pudding. Out came a petite square of what granny would call banana bread — nicely moist but, here, shy on banana flavor. It’s bolstered by a creamy toffee sauce and a topknot of gently whipped cream.
As I sipped the last of my soul-warming Old Fashioned, the rain let up. We’d found a metered parking spot just steps from the front door, but if you’re not so lucky, not to worry: The ramp elevator is close by.
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New Jersey
Nestled along the Jersey Shore, Asbury Park has undergone a stunning transformation from a once-sleepy beach town to a vibrant, inclusive cultural hub. Its rich history, eclectic boardwalk, and thriving arts scene have made it a favorite destination for locals and tourists alike. For the LGBTQ community, Asbury Park holds a special place, offering an open and welcoming environment that celebrates diversity. On a recent trip to the destination, I noticed a ton of pride flags sprinkled throughout the area, hanging from homes and in the windows of area businesses.
Asbury Park’s evolution into a LGBTQ-friendly destination has been a gradual process, deeply rooted in its artistic and progressive identity. During the mid-20th century, the town became a refuge for artists, musicians, and members of the LGBTQ community seeking a space that embraced difference and individuality. Over time, Asbury Park cultivated an atmosphere of acceptance that has continued to thrive today. The town is best known for its music scene, especially as it pertains to the Stone Pony. Opened in 1974, The Stone Pony has played a pivotal role in launching the careers of rock legends, most notably Bruce Springsteen and the E Street Band, as well as Jon Bon Jovi. For music lovers, a visit to The Stone Pony is a pilgrimage—a chance to experience the spirit of rock ‘n’ roll that has defined the area for decades.
The city’s LGBTQ inclusiveness is not just a side note—it is central to the town’s identity. Every year, Asbury Park hosts the “Jersey Pride” festival, one of the largest LGBTQ events in New Jersey. The parade, parties, and festivities attract thousands from across the state and beyond, providing a celebratory platform for the community.
In addition to events, Asbury Park is home to several LGBTQ-owned businesses, most notably Georgie’s bar and Paradise nightclub which offer guests dancing, drag shows, and themed events. Furthermore, Asbury Park is home to the QSpot LGBTQ Community Center, a key resource that provides support services, advocacy, and social events for the community. The inclusivity extends beyond Pride Month; it is an integral part of the town’s culture year-round, making it a safe and welcoming environment for all.
For your stay in Asbury Park, check in to the St. Laurent Social Club, a chic, modern-day gathering spot that offers both a vibrant social scene and a stylish place to stay. Housed in a beautifully restored historic building, The St. Laurent blends contemporary design with vintage charm, creating an inviting atmosphere for guests and locals alike. The club features boutique hotel accommodations, coffee bar, full-service restaurant, and a pool area that exudes an air of laid-back luxury. The design is curated with attention to detail, reflecting the town’s artistic heritage while offering a space for relaxation and socializing. It is within walking distance of the Asbury Park boardwalk and the downtown area.
More than just a hotel, The St. Laurent Social Club has quickly become a focal point for both the local community and visitors looking to experience the town’s vibrant energy. The club’s restaurant offers seasonal, locally sourced dishes, providing a perfect spot for brunch or dinner. The combination of stylish accommodations, culinary excellence, and cultural events makes The St. Laurent Social Club a standout destination in Asbury Park’s thriving social scene.
A quirky and delightful gem in the heart of Asbury Park is Catsbury Park, a non-profit cat café that has captured the hearts of visitors and locals alike. Since opening in 2017, Catsbury Park has been a sanctuary for cat lovers, blending community, charity, and an undying love for furry friends. The café serves coffee and light snacks, but the main attraction is, of course, the cats. Visitors can meet and interact with adoptable cats. We had the chance to visit for cat bingo. The game is played in their kitten room and is so much fun, especially when the cats decide to pay you a visit.
The mission of Catsbury Park goes beyond simply providing a cute hangout spot. It operates as an adoption center, working to find permanent homes for rescue cats. They collaborate with local shelters to provide a second chance for cats in need. For animal lovers and families, a visit to Catsbury Park is both heartwarming and fun.
One of the crown jewels of Asbury Park is its famous Boardwalk, a seaside strip that combines nostalgic charm with modern attractions. Lined with shops, restaurants, and entertainment venues, the Boardwalk is a lively gathering place for beachgoers and art enthusiasts alike. Walking along the wooden planks, visitors are treated to ocean views on one side and an ever-changing landscape of art, food, and culture on the other.
The Boardwalk is more than just a beach destination; it’s a cultural experience. Local artists contribute to its colorful murals and public art installations, creating an atmosphere that reflects Asbury Park’s creative spirit. The Boardwalk is also home to unique boutique shops selling everything from handmade crafts to surf gear, making it a wonderful place to explore for those who love supporting small businesses.
Asbury Park, The Beach Shack, The St. Laurent Social Club. Photos by Joey Amato
Culinary delights are never far away, either. From seafood shacks to gourmet restaurants, the Boardwalk offers a wide range of dining options to suit every taste. Whether it’s enjoying fresh oysters by the water or indulging in artisanal ice cream, the food scene here is as diverse as the community itself.
No exploration of Asbury Park would be complete without a visit to Madam Marie’s Temple of Knowledge, a mystical and legendary psychic booth located on the Boardwalk. The story of Madam Marie, whose real name was Marie Castello, is deeply intertwined with Asbury Park’s history and folklore. For decades, she provided psychic readings to locals, visitors, and even celebrities, earning a reputation for her uncanny abilities.
Madam Marie even mentioned in the Bruce Springsteen song “4th of July, Asbury Park (Sandy)”. While Marie passed away in 2008, her legacy continues. The booth is still operational, run by her descendants, who offer tarot readings and other spiritual services.
Whether you’re visiting to soak in the sun, immerse yourself in music history, adopt a cat, or get a psychic reading, Asbury Park stands as a symbol of resilience and reinvention. Its inclusive spirit and commitment to individuality make it a truly special place, inviting all to experience its magic.
After a few days exploring Asbury Park, we drove further south to Cape May, a town at the southern tip of the Garden State, known for its Victorian architecture, pristine beaches, and rich history. But beyond its picturesque facade, Cape May offers visitors a diverse range of experiences that blend coastal relaxation with cultural and culinary exploration.
Cape May may be known for its beaches, but it’s also home to a burgeoning wine scene, and Hawk Haven Vineyard & Winery is at the heart of it. Located just a short drive from the town center, this family-owned vineyard offers a delightful escape into Cape May’s countryside, where rows of grapevines stretch across acres of fertile soil.
Hawk Haven is a testament to Cape May’s microclimate, which is ideal for growing a variety of grapes. Visitors can enjoy tastings of wines that range from crisp whites like Pinot Grigio and Chardonnay to full-bodied reds like Merlot and Cabernet Sauvignon. One of the highlights of visiting Hawk Haven is their outdoor seating area, where guests can sip wine flights while taking in stunning views of the vineyard while listening to live music on the weekends.
If you are hungry, swing by Beach Plum Farm for some delicious farm-totable cuisine. The working farm offers guests a variety of salads, sandwiches as well as a neighboring market which sells locally-owned products including jams, pastas and of course, wine.
A short drive away is Jersey Shore Alpacas. This small, family-run alpaca farm offers visitors the chance to meet and interact with these gentle, adorable creatures. Located in the nearby town of Green Creek, just a few miles from Cape May, Jersey Shore Alpacas provides an experience that is both educational and entertaining.
The farm offers tours by appointment, where visitors can feed and pet the alpacas, learn about their history, and discover how their luxurious fleece is transformed into products like scarves, hats, and socks. Visitors are often struck by the alpacas’ friendly and curious nature, making for great photo opportunities and memorable interactions.
Freshen up before dinner at Beach Shack, a laid-back oceanfront hotel that embodies the spirit of relaxed coastal living. Located on Beach Avenue, The Beach Shack offers stunning views of the Atlantic Ocean and a casual, family-friendly atmosphere.
Whether you’re staying in one of their colorful, breezy rooms or just dropping by for a meal, The Beach Shack is all about beach vibes and comfort. The hotel’s iconic beachfront bar and restaurant, The Rusty Nail, is a favorite among locals and visitors alike. Known for its eclectic menu, live music, and bonfires, The Rusty Nail captures the essence of a perfect beach day—complete with sand, surf, and seafood.
The outdoor seating area, complete with fire pits and picnic tables, is the ideal spot to unwind after a day on the beach. Menu favorites include fresh fish tacos, clam chowder, and their famous BBQ ribs, all of which can be enjoyed with a cold beer or tropical cocktail. Kids and pets are welcome, making The Beach Shack a go-to destination for families.
For those seeking an authentic Italian dining experience in Cape May, Iccara Italian Bistro delivers a culinary journey that feels like a trip to Italy. Located just off Washington Street, Iccara offers a cozy, elegant dining atmosphere paired with a menu that highlights the best of Italian cuisine, often with a fresh, local twist.
The restaurant prides itself on using locally sourced seafood and produce, creating dishes that are both traditional and innovative. Guests can indulge in classics like homemade pasta, risotto, and seafood dishes, all prepared with the finest ingredients. We ordered a variety of dishes including the risotto special, crab stuffed mushrooms and the seafood combination. All the selections were prepared to perfection and the portions are quite large, so come hungry.
Cape May’s unique blend of history, natural beauty, and modern attractions makes it a favorite among visitors seeking both relaxation and adventure. Cape May remains one of New Jersey’s most cherished seaside escapes, so whether you’re planning a weekend getaway or an extended stay, the destination offers countless ways to create lasting memories.
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Enjoy the Journey!
Generation Now: The 5-Theater Collaboration Creating Your New Favorite Plays
Generation Now is a collaborative program between five theaters that all share one mission: to expand and diversify the plays that exist for multigenerational audiences. This partnership between theaters spans the entire country: Ma-Yi Theater Company represents New York, Penumbra Theatre and Children’s Theatre Company (CTC) represent Minneapolis, and Latino Theater Company and Native Voices represent Los Angeles.
Generation Now has the ambitious goal of co-commissioning and co-developing 16 new plays that uplift BIPOC voices. Some of these plays are written by established playwrights, others are emerging artists — all tell fresh, exciting stories in which audiences will delight.
Earlier this fall, CTC hosted the first Generation Now Reading Series. The series began with a thoughtful panel between four Generation Now playwrights. The series also included three readings in addition to a viewing of the world premiere of “Drawing Lessons” on the Cargill Stage at CTC. The weekend offered an opportunity for the participating theaters and the associated artists to connect, compare notes, seek community and — most importantly — dive deep into some pretty phenomenal stories.
The introductory panel for the Generation Now Reading Series was a thoughtful conversation with and introduction to the first four playwrights in the program. They spoke about their works, their inspiration and the impact of the Generation Now program. These playwrights included Gabriel Rivas Gómez (“Level Up”), Ifa Bayeza (“One Small Alice”), Dustin Tahmahkera (“Comanche Girl on the Moon”) and Michi Barall (“Drawing Lessons”).
Because these works are aimed at multigenerational audiences (which is usually understood to include everyone over the age of five), many of the playwrights spoke about the influence that their own children have had on the works they created for Generation Now.
Barall spoke about her teenager’s love for graphic novels finding its way into the heart of “Drawing Lessons.” Gómez joked that Generation Now gifted him with a rebuttal to his three kids’ frequent query: “Why do you write plays we can’t see?” Tahmahkera spoke about the way that his play was meant to honor his daughter just as much as the aunt whose storytelling and artwork were foundational to its creation.
Stories aimed at multigenerational audiences have a lot of work to do. “Each generation might take something a different way,” Bayeza mused, followed quickly by agreement from Gómez. “What is an injustice to me is not a big deal to my daughters and vice versa,” he said, going on to explain that when families see a play where the parents learn to understand the children and the children learn to understand the parents, it can help that family more clearly see and heal their own miscommunications.
All four of these works could be considered coming-of-age stories, but their similarities in style, perspective and theme pretty much end there.
Gómez’s “Level Up” deals with themes of gender identity and technology and is steeped in nerdy (primarily ‘90s) references that will be enjoyed by geeks of all ages. Bayeza’s “One Small Alice” uses familiar touchpoints from American folk tales and Alice in Wonderland to tell the story of an enslaved girl pursuing her freedom. Tahmahkera’s “Comanche Girl on the Moon” is a lilting love letter to sci-fi
and Comanche culture told in verse and brimming with magic and dad jokes. Barall’s “Drawing Lessons” is about a girl with crippling social anxiety who finds her voice through a pencil, a drawing pad and the encouragement of a local art shop owner and her aunt’s love of manhwa.
Generation Now is successfully platforming innovative, engrossing storytelling that will make kids whose backgrounds are often overlooked feel seen. It also affords audiences of all ages the opportunity to appreciate the Venn Diagram diverse storytelling offers. Diverse perspectives overlap. Diverse perspectives differ. Diverse perspectives allow one audience member to experience a story fresh for the first time while the person in the seat next to them delights in references that hit their nostalgic touchpoints.
The readings, in addition to being an introduction to Generation Now’s current works in progress, also offered some soft workshopping elements. At the end of each reading, attendees were invited to tell the playwright what they liked about the piece, ask them neutral questions and offer opinions if the playwright wanted opinions. Playwrights were offered the chance to ask attendees questions about how they experienced the play. The kick-off panel of the reading series was skillfully navigated by moderator DeLanna Studi, artistic director of Native Voices. Michael Winn, associate artistic director and director of equity and community partnerships at CTC, moderated the talk backs and ensured that they were both productive and affirming for the participating artists.
The one deviation in the reading series was the world premiere of Generation Now’s first production: “Drawing Lessons.” “Drawing Lessons” fairly leaps off the stage, utilizing innovative, multimedia techniques that pull audiences directly into the mind of the play’s main character. Considering the highly imaginative worlds that all four of these playwrights have built, I can only assume that it was exciting to see the enthusiasm with which the participating theaters are bringing these new works to life.
All four of these works exist in vibrant, beautiful worlds. All four of these works are funny, difficult and accessible. All four of these works wrestle with painful parts of the human experience that will inspire conversations in the multigenerational audiences that they are intended for. All four build a propitious sense of anticipation for the continued development of Generation Now projects.
Hopefully, Generation Now will have an impact on kids (and adults!) who finally see themselves and their peers represented on stage. Whether the story is empowering or elucidating, Generation Now aims to make it clear to young theatergoers that they belong on the stage and in the stories told there. This writer is proud that two of the five theaters represented in this program are local to the Twin Cities and is looking forward to the rest of the stories Generation Now will find and share here, in New York, in Los Angeles and beyond.
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How The Muskies Competed at The Gay Softball World Series
Throughout the years, the MN Muskies softball team has participated in many competitions. Each competition reinforces the team’s determination to succeed through the balance of talent, coordination and game planning. Through their dedication to the sport and team that they love, each member of the Muskies, both on and off the field, has helped accomplish a second-place finish at this year’s Gay Softball World Series (GSWS).
Eric Sawyer joined the Muskies around 2018 after already being a proud part of the Twin Cities Goodtime Softball League (TCGSL) since around 2011. He recalls his start with the Muskies and how they have grown throughout the years.
“They had already had a group of players, and I came on the second year of the team. They had taken one team and split. One became the Muskies. We started out as a very high D team, a very low C team. And then based on that, we just kind of started to evolve the team, I would say, bringing on new players. We decided we wanted to be a C team and compete at the C level. So, we started recruiting some players from there,” Sawyer says.
When building the Muskies, Sawyer, as well as the other coaches and manager nicknamed the “brain trust,” selected players from an array of areas. Some players were picked up after the dissolution of other teams. Others were selected because their skill level called for them to compete at a higher level. Using this process of selection, the Muskies became a team that not only consisted of very talented players but also had a good rapport.
“When we go to bring on somebody from the team from somewhere else, the first thing we talk about, it’s not even their talent, not about how good they are on the field, it’s how well they’re going to mesh inside of the chemistry of the team. So, we don’t want anything that’s going to be a negative factor to that chemistry. It has to be a positive factor,” Sawyer says.
Because of their ability to form together as a team in terms of talent and respect, the Muskies found themselves winning second place this season at the GSWS. Each individual player worked with one another to make each game count. During the tournament, they treated every game as a way to learn and work toward the next. The team found success from the efforts of every player.
Sawyer enthusiastically described the excellent pitches from pitchers, John Hagerstrom and Hector Holgiun. Utilizing strategies from brain trusts, Jeff Gerlach was in charge of the infield and Derrick Nelson the outfield. Garrett Jensen made some significant plays in the outfield and Jeremy Aurzada made an entertaining winning run. And, in the dugout, Travis Bauer was there to take photographs and encourage the team. These moments were only a handful of the many examples of the team’s incredible talent. Given the time, Sawyer could go into great detail de-
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scribing every player’s role throughout the game due to the impressive amount of skill each player displayed. He was there to coach the team, but he shies away from any credit.
“All I had to do was manage the team and basically just coach a base and that’s really all I did. And the team did everything else. I would love to be able to take credit for any of it, but this team just, I mean, they could have, they would have done this well no matter what. I think they’re just that talented,” Sawyer says.
While the players and coaches make up an important part of the Muskies, the team also thrives through the many individuals working off the field. Jen Kuhl has been an “invaluable” member of the team working as a part-time bookkeeper during the last three GSWS. Her work in bookkeeping serves an important role in allowing the games to run smoothly.
Through it all, the Muskies play well because of their mutual respect for the game and one another. They continue to find new ways to improve, and they never forget to be grateful for one another. Sawyer pronounces his gratitude for the team and the sport as a whole.
“It’s that fine line of being able to have fun, but building a team that can be very competitive and do exactly what this team did, make a run over the past three years to go from a top 20 team to a top 10 team to the second place team in three years is pretty impressive for the amount of talent that has to be on a field and the amount of luck that you have to have,” Sawyer says.
The Muskies plan on continuing to play hard and work together. They are now looking ahead at competing within the B division, a challenge they are excited to face.
BY LINDA RAINES
2024 / 2025 Winter What To Do
Winter in Minnesota can seem interminably long, especially if you stay cooped up in your house from early November to mid-April. While hibernation might work out well for actual bears, it’s often not the best course of action for humans. Social interaction, along with just being in the good ol’ outdoors, with family and friends is healthy — both mentally and physically — not to mention fun.
The Twin Cities metro, as well as greater Minnesota, is replete with fun, interesting and exciting activities throughout the winter months that will appeal to kids and adults alike. From cross-country skiing to pond hockey to indoor farmers markets, there are a plethora of activities that will get you off the couch and out enjoying yourselves with other hardy Minnesotans.
Lavender takes a look at a few of the many offerings on hand that’ll help keep the winter doldrums at bay until spring arrives in all of its rich green glory once more.
DECEMBER
The Ice Palace
Dates and Times coming soon to website • 657 River St. N., Delano, Minn.
The Ice Palace is your go-to destination for magical winter fun with an array of ice tunnels, sled hills, fire performances, unique gifts and plenty of food from vendors. Don’t miss out on this one-of-a-kind Minnesota experience!
www.theicepalaces.com/minnesota
Four Seasons Nordic Village Market
Through December 22 • Four Seasons Hotel, 245 Hennepin Ave., Minneapolis
Carefully curated collections in various cozy cabins abound in this fourth-floor rooftop terrace market with stunning views of the city. www.fourseasons.com/minneapolis
Magic of Lights
Through January 5 • 5:30-10 p.m. • One carload/ one price • 2645 Vikings Circle, Vikings Lakes, Eagan, Minn.
Enjoy this dazzling, drive-through holiday lights experience with the whole family as favorite holiday scenes and characters come to life with the latest LED technology and digital animations. www.explorevikinglakes.com
37th Annual Reindeer Run — Minneapolis December 14 • 5k, 10K, 15K, Kids • 10K starts 7:30 a.m., 5K starts 9:30 a.m. • Lake Harriet, Minneapolis www.reindeerrun.com
GLOW Holiday Festival
Through January 5, 2025 • Open 5-9 p.m. • CHS Field, 360 Broadway St., St. Paul
GLOW is celebrating its fifth year, and it’s brighter than ever! Newly expanded exhibits abound, along with over a million glowing lights, Vixen’s Zip Line and Giant Slide, Enchanted Forest, the GLOW Spectacular, the sElfie Plaza and so much more. Tickets are on sale now!
www.glowholiday.com/st-paul
Ice Castles Minnesota
Dates and hours dependent upon weather • Friday, Saturday, Sunday • 170 Randall Ave., St. Paul Don’t miss this awe-inspiring, winter must-see that brings fairytales to life! Ice Castles has something for everyone — ice slides, caverns and archways, a polar pub, crawl tunnels, ice sculptures, a lantern passage and a tubing hill. Fun for all ages! And, this year, it’s moved to the Minnesota State Fairgrounds! www.icecastles.com/minnesota
Winter Lights at the Minnesota Landscape Arboretum
Selected dates November 21, 2024, to January 5, 2025 • Minnesota Landscape Arboretum, Chaska, Minn.
The Winter Lights display is always a stroll to remember! Tickets are required and go quickly, so check our website to get yours now. Enjoying the fresh, crisp air of a Minnesota winter evening surrounded by thousands of lights is an experience not to be missed. The Arboretum café will be open, and shopping at the gift store and music will be available on certain nights. Don’t miss the 25-foot Poinsettia Tree created with over 500 red, white and pink poinsettias. Special Theme Nights are also on the calendar! www.arb.umn.edu/winterlights
Bentleyville Tour of Lights
Through December 28 • Sunday-Thursday, 5-9 p.m., Friday-Saturday 5-10 p.m. • Bayfront Festival Park, Duluth
Celebrating 21 years this year, the largest free walkthrough lighting display in America has something for everyone! Free treats, four-million-plus lights and a 128-foot Christmas tree will delight folks of all ages. Free admission, parking is $10 per vehicle. www.visitduluth.com • www.bentleyvilleusa.org
Mill City Winter — Farmers Markets
Select Saturdays/Weekends • November-April • Mill City Museum, Minneapolis
Just because the weather’s turned chilly, it doesn’t mean that you can’t enjoy the bounty of local farmers! They’ll be heading indoors to sell their wares on first and third Saturdays from 10 a.m. to 1 p.m. inside the Mill City Museum. No dogs, please. www.millcityfarmersmarket.org
Minneapolis Farmers Market
Select Weekends/Saturdays • 9 a.m. to noon • 312 E. Lyndale Ave. N., Minneapolis
Providing fresh produce & products since 1876, the Minneapolis Farmers Market is on a mission to bring goodness to our community all year long. Please, no dogs allowed.
www.mplsfarmersmarket.com
Circus Juventas’ Annual Holiday Show — “Blizzard!”
December 6-15 • Under the Big Top in St. Paul Circus Juventas celebrates the wonders of the season with their annual holiday performance that will bring the magic of the circus to your family’s yuletide celebration. Circus Juventas is, and always has been, proud to be a safe and supportive space for LGBTQ+ youth.
https://circusjuventas.org/holiday-show-2024/
Third Annual Queer Holiday Market
December 18-19 • 5-9 p.m. both days • Hosted by Summit Brewing Company to benefit The Aliveness Project • Summit Brewing Company, 910 Montreal Circle, St. Paul
It’s a holiday market like no other, showcasing over 25 locally owned business businesses. www.aliveness.org • www.summitbrewing.com
2024 Holidazzle
December 18-22 • Five Blocks of Nicollet Mall in Minneapolis
Holidazzle is back with a full slate of family-friendly fun! Light and art installations, holiday hopping pop-ups, two entertainment stages, visits with Santa and so much more! Check out the website for a complete schedule of events and times — it’s a free festival on five blocks over five days! www.holidazzle.com
Winter Solstice Celebration
December 20 • 5-9 p.m. • American Swedish Institute, Minneapolis
What could be better than marking the shortest day and the longest night than doing so at the ASI?
A special festival menu with small plates and warm Swedish mulled wine will be served by FIKA Café, and the Museum Store and Jul Shop will both be open late for attendees’ shopping needs. They’ll even have reindeer!
www.asimn.org/event/winter-solstice
JANUARY
Minnesota Timberwolves Pride Night
January 6 • 7 p.m. • Target Center, 600 N. 1st Ave., Minneapolis
Dig out your brightest rainbow attire and cheer the Timberwolves as they take on the LA Clippers! www.timberwolves.com/tickets
Low-Pet Law-Pet Challenge
January 12 • Races start and end in the lower Stadium Formerly known as the Pre-Loppet, this event includes both ski races and fat bike events, as well as kids’ ski events.
www.loppet.org/events/preloppet
Northeast Farmers Market
January 12, February 9, March 9, April 13 • 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. • Quincy Hall, 1325 Quincy St. NE, Minneapolis
Enjoy local foods and goods all year round! Eat healthy and buy locally. Please, leave pets at home. www.northeastfarmersmarket.com
Frostival
January 31 to February 8 • Fargo and West Fargo, N.D. and Moorhead, Minn.
If you can’t beat winter, then join it! Winter kickball, volleyball, disc golf, cardboard sled races, massive bouncy castles, snow sculpture competitions — you’ll find all of that and so much more during the chilly madness of Frostival! www.frostival.com
Neighborhood Roots at Bachman’s on Lyndale
January 11, February 8, March 8 • 10 a.m. to 1 p.m. • 6010 Lyndale Ave. S., Minneapolis
Taking place indoors, this market series will feature all of your favorite vendors from Kingfield, Fulton and Nokomis Farmers Market. www.neighborhoodrootsmn.org/winter-markets
Fourth Annual World Snow Sculpting Championship
January 15-19 • Lowell Park, Stillwater, Minn.
“There’s NO business like SNOW business!” And, there’s no sight quite like that of teams coming together from around the world to compete in the creation of incredible snow sculptures as they vie for prize money and the title of World Champion. Attendees will have the chance to enjoy plenty of activities, ceremonies, social events and the people’s choice award. www.worldsnowsculptingstillwatermn.com
Art Shanty Projects
January 18 to February 9 • Public hours from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. every Saturday and Sunday • Lake Harriet/Bde Unma, Minneapolis Indulge in a whimsical, weird, unique experience that inspires joy in everyone from kids to adults. This yearly interactive art project, inspired by the ice fishing villages so prominent on Minnesota lakes, has an anything-goes motto as far as construction and decoration for the 150-plus artists who participate. Just don’t bring your fishing pole! www.artshantyprojects.org
20th Annual U.S. Pond Hockey Championships
January 22-26 • Lake Nokomis, Minneapolis Hockey is as natural to Minnesota as breathing, so why not layer up and come out to watch players hit the ice as nature intended!? www.uspondhockey.com
138th Annual Saint Paul Winter Carnival
January 23 to February 2 • Various St. Paul venues Come out to enjoy this St. Paul tradition that celebrates all things winter! Watch ice-carving competitions, enjoy free artistic and educational activities, music, dance, food, the medallion hunt and so much more. Most events are free and open to the public and will take place near Rice Park and Landmark Center in downtown St. Paul as well as at the Minnesota State Fairgrounds. www.wintercarnival.com
16th Annual Anthony Ford Pond Hockey Classic
January 25-26 • Spring Lake Park, Mankato, Minn. This two-day event is more than just a chance to enjoy hockey as it was meant to be played! Of course, it offers opportunities for both youth and adult players to show off their skills, but there are also options for all kinds of family fun such as a sledding hill, a warming house and 12 separate professional rinks. Entry fees go to help local charities that support fighting childhood leukemia. www.anthonyford99.com
John Beargrease Sled Dog Marathon
January 26 • Duluth to the Canadian border and back The longest sled dog race in the lower 48, the John Beargrease Sled Dog Marathon sees competitors mushing in an event that covers nearly 400 miles and is a qualifier for the Iditarod race in Alaska. Come out to the 40th running of this spectacle and cheer on these mighty mushers at Northern Minnesota’s top winter attraction. www.beargrease.com • www.visitduluth.com
FEBRUARY
City of Lakes Loppet Winter Festival
February 1-2 • Theodore Wirth Park, Minneapolis Originally designed as a cross-country ski race, the City of Lakes Loppet has become a winter staple that includes the Luminary Loppet, Cross-Country Ski, Skijor, Snowshoe, Fat Tire Bike events and more through Theodore Wirth Park. www.loppet.org/events/festival
Brainerd Jaycees Ice Fishing Extravaganza
February 1 • Hole in the Day Bay, Gull Lake, Minn. One of the largest charitable ice fishing contests on earth, the event was founded in 1991 and is held ten miles north of Brainerd. www.icefishing.org
Chilly Open
February 8 • Lake Minnetonka, Wayzata Bay Minnesota golf in February? You betcha! Freezing temperatures won’t stop 2,000-plus Minnesotans from bringing out their hockey sticks and golf clubs to play a few rounds on four 9-hole courses plowed out on Lake Minnetonka. The golf tournament is
a pre-registered event only, but there are plenty of other great things to indulge in for everyone else! www.chillyopen.wayzatachamber.com
United We Shiver
February 1 • Lake Orono Park, Elk River, Minn. Raise pledges for your favorite non-profit and take the plunge into Lake Orono! In addition to the icy plunge for those hardy souls willing to dive in, there are also plenty of other fun things for the whole family to enjoy such as a 5K and 10K run/walk, bean bag tournament, live music, food and a medallion hunt.
www.sherburneunitedway.org/unitedweshiver
Ely Winter Festival
February 6-16 • Ely, Minn.
Come on up for ten days of activities that celebrate the joys of winter in the Boundary Waters region! Snow carvings, the Ely ArtWalk and fun for all abound.
www.elywinterfestival.com
Dog Mushing! Women’s Winter Adventure 2024
February 6-9 or March 6-9 • 82 Irish Creek Rd., Hovland, Minn.
Have you ever had dreams of racing across the winter landscape behind your very own team of sled dogs? Here’s your chance! This is a true off-the-grid adventure for those wishing to learn about and participate in a wonderfully unique winter sport. www.points-unknown.com/women/
Luminary Loppet
February 8 • Lake of the Isles, Minneapolis
Join us for a fun-filled candlelit night that is the Twin Cities’ most magical event of the season as you walk the trail lit up by over 1,200 luminaries. Enjoy refreshments along the trail, as well as food trucks, music and Utepils Brewing beer. www.loppet.org/events/luminary
41st Annual Finlandia Ski Marathon
February 15 • Bemidji, Minn.
Attracting skiers from around the world, the Finlandia cross-country ski event has been held in Bemidji since 1982 and is often called “The Nordic Festival of the North.” The event is open to skiers of all experience levels.
www.visitbemidji.com • www.minnesotafinlandia. com
MARCH
Minnesota Wild Pride Night
March 13 • 7 p.m. • Xcel Energy Center, St. Paul
Come out and join your Wild players as they show their Pride while taking on the New York Rangers. The ticket pack includes a ticket to the game, an exclusive Wild Pride-branded item and a donation to the Twin Cities Pride.
https://fevo-enterprise.com/event/PN-50313NYR
All events are subject to change or cancellation, so please check their websites before making plans to attend.
BY NOAH MITCHELL
John Beargrease Sled Dog Marathon Combines Community, History and Lots of Sled Dogs
From 1879 to 1899, John Beargrease delivered mail between Two Harbors and Grand Marais, according to the John Beargrease Sled Dog Marathon website. With four dogs and 700 pounds of mail in tow, Beargrease made the trip in as few as 28 hours. Today, mushers and sled dog teams of up to 16 dogs with greatly improved technology and without the 700 pounds of mail can only barely better that time while competing in the John Beargrease Sled Dog Marathon.
The 2025 edition of the Beargrease begins at 11 a.m. on January 26 at Billy’s Bar in Duluth, according to the Beargrease website. From there, teams will travel over 300 miles of hills to the finish line in Grand Portage.
However, they won’t do it alone. The Beargrease attracts “diehard fans” year after year, according to Kjersti Vick, marketing and public relations director at Visit Cook County Minnesota. They aren’t just there to pet some cute dogs, though.
“It’s about the experience of seeing the dogs and the mushers and how they interact,” Vick says.
“Dogs are really focused with their trainer and their musher,” adds Linda Jurek, Visit Cook County executive director.
The dogs, who Vick describes as “elite athletes,” are born and bred for challenges like the Beargrease, Jurek says. They are thoroughly checked for fitness before the race and will be forced to rest if they aren’t fit enough, Vick adds.
The veterinarians making those checks are further evidence of the fanatical support the Beargrease draws. Veterinarians come from across the country to volunteer at the Beargrease and return year after year, according to Vick.
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Photo courtesy of Shutterstock/Holly Kuchera
For those who do come out to watch parts of the race, the viewing experience differs depending on where spectators choose to check in. The start of the race has a raucous and festive atmosphere. Viewing from the Sawville Trail Center, however, where teams often pass through in the middle of the night, is entirely different — a chance to watch the teams work in the snow-dampened silence of a North Shore winter night. This varied experience makes the Beargrease a fascinating experience, even for repeat viewers.
“I’m not an enthusiast … but every time I go to one of the checkpoints, I learn something new about the sport,” Vick says.
One of the mushers spectators will have the chance to see is Grand Marais native Erin Altemus. She lives and works at a camp on the Gunflint Trail and qualified for the Iditarod last year, Jurek says.
The Beargrease is one of the qualifying races for the Iditarod, the thousand-mile dog sled race that stretches from Anchorage to Nome in Alaska.
For those who can’t make it to see the Beargrease in person, it’s easy to follow online via its website, which features regular updates from race checkpoints and GPS tracking of the teams.
In addition to the marathon, the Beargrease has three other races: the Beargrease 120, the Beargrease 40 and the Beargrease 120 Junior Class. The 120 and 120 Junior Class start together at 10:56 a.m. on January 26 and the 40 starts last at noon and is a single-day race.
If that still isn’t enough sled dog racing for you, or if the Beargrease is just too far away, you’re in luck — the Gunflint Mail Run Sled Dog Race starts on January 11. The Gunflint Mail Run has two classes, the 12-dog 100-mile race and the eight-dog 65-mile race, and starts and ends at the Trail Center Lodge in Grand Marais.
If you find yourself on the North Shore and want to see for yourself what it’s like to ride behind a sled dog team, you’re also in luck! Points Unknown in Hovland, Minn., about 25 miles from Grand Marais or Grand Portage, offers dog sledding experiences and comes highly recommended by Jurek and Vick.
For those who make the trip to the North Shore for the Beargrease, Jurek and Vick also recommend taking the opportunity to explore the surrounding area and experience all it has to offer
“If you’re here for the Beargrease you’re still going to be able to find quiet corners of our county, or you’re still able to go to Lutsen Mountains and experience high-adrenaline skiing,” Jurek says.
Jurek also encourages those interested in the Beargrease to reflect on the man himself. The Beargrease has only ended in Grand Portage since 2019, a change Jurek celebrates along with John Beargrease.
“It’s a really cool connection knowing John Beargrease was part of the Anishinaabe and the race now ends on native land,” Jurek says. “Maybe that’s the Native American spirit piece of it, but it just feels magical to end the race in Grand Portage.”
Photo courtesy of Shutterstock/Geoffrey Kuchera
Security Blanket: Where Avenues for Youth’s Bed and Bath Needs are Concerned, BOKSER HOME Has Them Covered
The sun withdraws — he’s seen enough Minnesota for one day.
Western hills cast western shadows over western valleys and cities and lakes … then over eastern valleys and cities and lakes, as well. The sun drags a twinkle-speckled, sky-sized blanket behind him, tucking in the North Star State for the night. Millions of citizens follow suit, nudging the edges of cool sheets around their children and themselves and turning their minds over to the hard-won dreams of the perpetually above average.
Millions of citizens do this … but not all of them do.
This night, as every night, in Minnesota — often unnoticed, or perhaps noticed and ignored — four thousand citizens shuffle dreamlessly from park bench to store doorway to a stranger’s backyard, the stars in the sky remaining agonizingly just out of reach. And the most agonizing part?
These four thousand citizens are kids.
This is where Avenues for Youth come in.
“For thirty years, Avenues has supported youth ages sixteen to twenty-four in Hennepin County,” the shelter’s mission statement reads. “Whether a young person needs a place to stay for just one night, or a year and a half, Avenues partners with youth to find their path out of homelessness.”
Such a partnership would most likely take shape in one of two primary shelter and transitional living houses in Hennepin County. These sanctuaries “provide shelter and housing options for youth experiencing homelessness, as well as emergency beds and host homes.”
The beds have, in recent years, benefited from an unlikely upgrade, according to a recent community partner highlight found on Avenues’ website: “The two houses in Brooklyn Park and Minneapolis got plush new terry-cloth towels and shower mats.” The terry-cloth towels and shower mats were provided by an LGBTQ+-owned bedding store, BOKSER HOME.
“I have known about Avenues for Youth for many years,” says BOKSER HOME Chief Executive Officer Ed Guzek. “When I worked at Target, a number of my colleagues sat on [Target’s] board, and I was always so impressed with Avenues’ work. After starting BOKSER in 2018, it took a few years, but we were finally able to start giving back to the community in 2022.”
Where charitable giving is concerned, BOKSER seems determined to make up for lost time. “Avenues was one of the first organizations we connected with and asked if there was a way for us to help,” Guzek continues. “Since then, we have been donating bedding and bath products — think blankets, sheets, pillows, towels — to all of their locations, and we couldn’t be happier with the partnership.”
Notes Avenues for Youth Executive Director Katherine Meerse, “BOKSER has also shared fun items with youth in Avenues’ LGBTQI+ community housing program, ConneQT, like luxurious faux fur throws for their beds.”
ConneQT is a one-of-a-kind program that addresses the problem of teen displacement in a different way. Explains Meerse, “People in the
Photos courtesy of Sarah Williams
community who identify as LGBTQIA+ themselves or as allies open up their homes to have a young person experiencing homelessness come and live with them for anywhere from a few nights to up to a year.”
Such a dependable place to sleep is the first step in “building trusting relationships, and supporting the youth’s education, career, health and wellness and housing goals,” according to Avenues’ mission statement.
This declaration tucks neatly into BOKSER’s own priorities. “Being involved in our community, whether it be through donations or volunteer hours, is very important to me and the entire team at BOKSER,” Guzek insists. “Supporting the work of organizations like Avenues for Youth makes us a better company and makes the Twin Cities a better community … and that’s why we do what we do.”
That support supplements an often-grossly-depleted, often-overlooked basic need. “One of the most common experiences for a new young person at Avenues is to simply sleep for the first day or two,” Meerse points out. “The experience of homelessness is highly stressful, uncomfortable and often dangerous. This partnership between BOKSER and Avenues provides these youth with space, peace and comfort so they can rest.”
When that rest is over and the sun next rises, thanks to the synergy generated by Avenues for Youth and BOKSER, a homeless youth can finally become acquainted with what was once agonizingly just out of reach. As outlined on their website, “Youth are resilient, inspiring and the drivers of their own journey. With stability, trust and youth-centered supports, their dreams can become reality.”
www.avenuesforyouth.org www.bokserhome.com
BY E.B. BOATNER
A Gift Guide for the Bibliophile!
“The Final Curtain: The Art of Dying Onstage”
Laurence Senelick
Anthem Press
$35
Few lay readers will have author Senelick’s breadth and depth of theatrical knowledge. Still, they will nevertheless be drawn in through the many doors he opens onto the ways death has been displayed (or not) by actors on stage before audiences, from the Greek tragedians on through to modern times. Look back on those early tragedies and you’ll notice the dead expire offstage, not writhing before the audience. One may be shown the result, but not the process. Senelick deftly handles this great swathe of material so a reader may envision unknown actors dying onstage in unfamiliar roles, yet forming a sense of the specific stage death etiquette as it varies from culture to culture down through the centuries. Senelick’s sharp wit adds tang to your learning curve.
“The Tomb of the Dragons”
Katherine Addison
Tor
$28.99
Addison returns to consummate her Cemeteries of Amalo trilogy with a tale as fraught as the preceding “The Witness for the Dead” and “The Grief of Stones.”We follow Thara Celehar, once a Witness for the Dead, who’s lost his ability to communicate with the deceased.
His office as Witness has been filled by Velhiro Tomasaran, still learning and unhappy with Celehar’s treatment. Here Celehar deals with a municipal cemetery’s secrets compounded over 50 years and his vow to witness for the spirits of 192 dragons, slain in their mountain fastness by a powerful, greedy mining company. Would success bankrupt the kingdom? Are dragons “people”? They have language and reason. Old friends from Opera return to face new dangers.
“Falling in Love at the Movies: Rom-Coms from the Screwball Era to Today”
Esther Zuckerman
Running Press
$24
Zuckerman comes to “celebrate and elevate” the rom-com through this selective meander through the genre’s history and types with chapters like “The Man in Crisis.” Everyone wants at some point to see two souls realize they belong together. Many rom-coms have more muscle than one would assume: (On first viewing “The Philadelphia Story” — I sat through it twice.) And legs: In 1936, playwright Miklós László wrote “Parfumerie,” which Ernst Lubitsch crafted into 1940’s “The Shop Around the Corner”(James Stewart and Margaret Sullivan), in 1963 that became the musical, “She Loves Me”, continuing into “In the Good Old Summertime” with Garland, and finally to Joan Didion’s 1998 vehicle for Tom Hanks and Meg Ryan, “You’ve Got Mail.”Many illustrations, much information. Cerebral comfort food. Tasty!
“Knife: Meditations After an Attempted Murder”
Salman Rushdie
Random House
$28
Salman Rushdie was at the Chautauqua Institution to give a lecture on the importance of keeping writers from harm when a knife-wielding man clothed and masked in black, wielding a knife, charged the stage and began slashing the 75-year-old. Rushdie, who over 30 years ago had been put under fatwa for his “The Satanic Verses,” recalls thinking, “So it’s you. Here you are.” It was a horrific, bloody attack, but audience members rushed to his aid, he was airlifted and tended to continue life. Rushdie’s meditations are not simply recounting a heinous event, but an examination of the human factors involved (family, friends, medical team) and his inner resources and literary strengths that allowed him to “make sense of the unthinkable” and continue on.
“The
Ghosts of Rome”
Joseph
O’Connor
Europa
$28
Like its predecessor, O’Connor’s second volume of his Escape Line Trilogy, “My Father’s House,” follows The Choir, a group that spirited thousands of allied soldiers, POWs and Jews out of Nazi-occupied Rome. Although novelized, the Choir’s nucleus is based on a Monsignor Hugh O’Flaherty. Working to destroy The Choir is SS Commander Paul Hauptmann, an amalgam of actual evil-doers. It’s February 1944, The Vatican is red-lined within Rome, no one crosses the line without permission. Into this maelstrom falls an unnamed airman; his existence threatens not only The Choir but Rome’s entire Escape Line. O’Connor’s characters, historical and fictional, resonate with all the villainy, heroics, indecisiveness, kindness and headstrong daredevilry that make up any group of humans from kindergarten on — but here, uniqueness can prove lethal.
“Andromeda”
Therese Bohman tr. Marlane Delargy
Other Press
$16.99
Our relationships are never as straightforward as we’d like to think. Sofie Andersson starts a ten-week internship at Rydéns, a prestigious Stockholm publishing house in the spring term of 2009. Editor-in-chief Gunnar Abrahamsson overhears Sophie’s astute critical comment concerning a manuscript and takes her under his wing mentoring Sophie’s also becoming an editor. Over the years they continue to bond, sharing twice-monthly meetings at a nearby bar. There’s no sudden revelation that the much older Gunnar has any nefarious intentions. He has a wife, they have a place in the country … but as must happen, time passes. Gunnar’s health problems dictate he retires; he becomes critical of Rydéns. The end of the story is a nuanced unfolding of the changes in time, culture and personal needs.
“The Grey Wolf”
Louise Penny Minotaur Books
$30
During a late-summer morning, as Gamache and wife Reine-Marie enjoy coffee, he refuses a phone intrusion — and the game is on. Comes an alarm from their city condo, a puzzling note and list, a missing coat; all bits culminating in the hit-and-run murder of a young man Gamache is called to meet. Exceptionally tangled are the threads in Penny’s nineteenth novel, as is Gamache’s trust in the loyalties of those he once considered friends and of those thought enemies. Through all the fine mesh of this great read filters a threat all too real today in every reader’s daily life, a plot to contaminate a nation’s — thence Earth’s — life-giving elixir: water. In the end, Gamache has only son-in-law Jean-Guy Beauvoir and second-in-command Inspector Isabelle Lacoste.
“Before We Forget Kindness”
Toshikazu Kawaguchi tr. Geoffrey Trousselot
Hanover Square Press
$21.99
“Kindness” is the fifth Kawaguchi fantasy-magic book. In a back-alley, century-old Tokyo café, you may go back in time, as long as you return before your coffee — poured as you sit in a particular chair — turns cold. You can’t change the past; the person you meet must also once have been in the café; you can’t leave the chair in the past. Too treacly? Too feelgood? Can you say you’ve never regretted withholding a kindness or needed to explain pain you’ve harbored, for decades? The complex rules — waiting until a ghost lady perpetually sitting, reading in the sole time-traveler chair to make a trip to the loo. They’re a prestidigitator’s wave to distract you until you are faced with the human problem. And it works.
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The New Standard For Successful People
If you’re a successful person, you want to express your accomplishments and achievements to the world.
You do so by the place of residence. The assets you have. The vehicle you drive.
You know of the phrase: “(insert pronoun here) who has the most toys wins.” But, is that really true?
You do not have to live like you own the state of Minnesota. For those who don’t, there is Genesis.
To recap, Genesis is the luxury brand of the Hyundai Motor Group. We have featured a few of its offerings in this magazine. We loved how much you get for the value that is offered.
Case in point, the 2025 Genesis G80. It is the middle sedan of a threecar lineup (plus three SUVs). It is offered with either two internal combustion engines or a fully electric drive system.
For 2025, the G80 received some updates that give it a softer look and a higher level of technology, all without disturbing the essence of this car.
What is the essence of the G80? It is that balance between sportiness and luxury. It is emphasized both under a sleek skin and a well-executed chassis.
Photos by Randy Stern
The G80 has quite the lineage. Back in 2008, Hyundai had the great idea to introduce a global luxury sedan (and sporty coupe) with the Genesis name. Little did we know that once the second-generation model arrived, the Korean automaker would spin off Genesis into its own brand.
This third-generation model — now in its mid-cycle refresh —remains relevant in a world full of SUVs.
How?
Looking at it gives you one reason why. Sedans never go out of style. The G80 retains its sleek profile with a new front clip, slightly amended grille and lower fascia. The designers at Genesis did not touch the rest of the exterior, and that’s a good thing. How dare they touch the five-spoke 20-inch alloy wheels with the “square” indentations on each spoke? That truly makes this G80 pop.
One thing a luxury vehicle must do is to stand out in a crowd — even if the crowd is full of the same vehicle. The 2025 Genesis G80 does exactly that.
Then, you open up the door into a sumptuous interior. This Sport Prestige tester wears red leather. That’s exciting, right?
The big update for 2025 is right in front of the driver. A new 27-inch OLED screen that displays both the digital instrument cluster and the infotainment touchscreen. The new screen gives the dashboard a cleaner, more cohesive design. Either screen is customizable with the information and functionality you need.
Also new is a steering wheel with a near-flat bottom. Everything else is practically the same with tactile controls throughout the cabin and onto the center console. You select the transmission through a large knob on the center console.
If there is another notable update on the 2025 G80, it is the switch to Danish audio reproduction brand Bang & Olufsen for its top-of-the-line speaker system. It is a great choice for this car.
The G80 seats up to five in Nappa leather luxury. The seats are patterned after the design of the mesh grille. The front seats are firm but offer
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ANIMAL RESCUE
Second Chance Animal Rescue
Dedicated to rescuing, fostering, caring for, and adopting out dogs and cats into forever homes.
P.O. Box 10533 White Bear Lake, MN 55110 (651) 771-5662 www.secondchancerescue.org
BUSINESS ASSOCIATIONS
Quorum
Minnesota's LGBTQ+ and Allied Chamber of Commerce working to build, connect, and strengthen for a diverse business community. 2446 University Ave. W., Ste 112 St. Paul, MN 55114 (612) 460-8153 www.twincitiesquorum.com
ENVIRONMENT
The Nature Conservancy
TNC is an environmental nonprofit working to create a world where people and nature thrive. 1101 W. River Pkwy., Ste. 200 Minneapolis, MN 55415-1291 (612) 331-0700 minnesota@tnc.org www.nature.org/minnesota
EVENT VENUES
Landmark Center
A classic venue, with a grand cortile and beautiful courtrooms, accommodates celebrations of all sizes. 75 W. 5th St. St. Paul, MN 55102 (651) 292-3228 www.landmarkcenter.org
GRANTMAKERS/FUNDERS
PFund Foundation
PFund is the LGBTQ+ community foundation that provides grants to students and grants to non-profits. PO Box 3640 Minneapolis, MN 55403 (612) 870-1806 www.pfundfoundation.org
HEALTH & WELLNESS
Aliveness Project
Community Center for individuals living with HIV/AIDS – on-site meals, food shelf, and supportive service. 3808 Nicollet Ave. S. Minneapolis, MN 55102 (612) 824-LIFE (5433) www.aliveness.org
Family Tree Clinic
We're a sliding fee sexual health clinic and education center, now in Minneapolis. 1919 Nicollet Ave. Minneapolis MN 55403 (612) 473-0800 www.familytreeclinic.org
COMMUNITY CONNECTION
Keane Sense of Rhythm
Celebrate your true self with Tap dance!
1st week free, Join us now!
2161 University Avenue W., Ste. 117 St. Paul, MN. 55114 (612) 251-4744 info@tapcompany.org www.tapcompany.org
NAMI Minnesota
(National Alliance on Mental Illness)
Providing free classes and peer support groups for people affected by mental illnesses.
1919 University Ave. W., Ste. 400 St. Paul, MN 55104 (651) 645-2948 www.namimn.org
Rainbow Health
Providing comprehensive health services for LGBTIA+ people, those living with HIV & folks from underserved communities facing healthcare barriers. 701 S. 4th Ave., #1500 Minneapolis, MN 55415
General: (612) 341-2060, MN AIDSLine: (612) 373-2437 info@rainbowhealth.org www.rainbowhealth.org
Red Door Clinic
HIV and STI screening, treatment, education, and referrals. Doxy PEP, nPEP, PrEP, and Reproductive Health. 525 Portland Ave., 4th Fl. Minneapolis, MN 55415 (612) 543-5555 reddoor@hennepin.us www.reddoorclinic.org
LIBRARIES
Quatrefoil Library
Your LGBTQ+ library and community center. Free membership, events, and e-books/audiobooks. Check us out!
1220 E. Lake St. Minneapolis, MN 55407 (612) 729-2543 www.qlibrary.org
MEDIA & COMMUNICATIONS
Radio K
Radio K is the award-winning studentrun radio station of the University of Minnesota. 330 21st. Ave. S. Minneapolis, MN 55455 (612) 625-3500 www.radiok.org
MUSEUM
Minnesota Historical Society
Create your own adventure at MNHS historic sites and museums around Minnesota. mnhs.org
Minneapolis Institute of Art
Enjoy masterpieces from all over the world & every period of human history. Free admission daily! 2400 3rd Ave. S. Minneapolis, MN 55404 (612) 870-3000 www.artsmia.org
Walker Art Center
Showcasing the fresh, innovative art of today and tomorrow through exhibitions, performances, and film screenings. 725 Vineland Pl. Minneapolis, MN 55403 (612) 375-7600 www.walkerart.org
PERFORMING ARTS
Chanhassen Dinner Theatres
The nation's largest professional dinner theater and Minnesota's own entertainment destination. 501 W. 78th St. Chanhassen, MN 55317 (952) 934-1525 www.ChanhassenDT.com
Children’s Theatre Company
Children’s Theatre Company excites the imagination with world-class family-friendly theatre for kids, teens, and adults. 2400 3rd Ave. S. Minneapolis, MN 55404 (612) 874-0400 www.childrenstheatre.org
Guthrie Theater
Open to the public year-round, the Guthrie produces classic and contemporary plays on three stages. 818 S. 2nd St. Minneapolis, MN 55415 (612) 377-2224 www.guthrietheater.org
Minnesota Opera
World-class opera draws you into a synthesis of beauty; breathtaking music, stunning costumes & extraordinary sets. Performances at the Ordway Music Theater - 345 Washington St. St. Paul, MN 55102 (612) 333-6669 www.mnopera.org
Minnesota Orchestra
Led by Music Director Designate Thomas Søndergård, the Minnesota Orchestra, one of America’s leading symphony orchestras. 1111 Nicollet Mall Minneapolis, MN 55403 (612) 371-5656, (800) 292-4141 www.minnesotaorchestra.org
Ordway Center for the Performing Arts
Leading performing arts center with two stages presenting Broadway musicals, concerts & educational programs that enrich diverse audiences. 345 Washington St. St. Paul, MN 55102 (651) 224-4222 info@ordway.org www.ordway.org
Twin Cities Gay Men’s Chorus
An award-winning chorus building community through music and offers entertainment worth coming out for! 1430 W. 28th St., Ste. B Minneapolis, MN 55408 (612) 339-SONG (7664) chorus@tcgmc.org www.tcgmc.org
RELIGIOUS & SPIRITUAL
All God’s Children Metropolitan Community Church
A welcoming, inclusive, safe place to explore and discover God’s love for ALL God’s children. 3100 Park Ave. Minneapolis, MN 55407 (612) 824-2673 www.agcmcc.org
Hennepin Avenue United Methodist Church
Everyone is welcome at Hennepin Church! Vibrant Worship. Authentic Community. Bold Outreach. 511 Groveland Ave. Minneapolis, MN 55403 (612) 871-5303 www.hennepinchurch.org
Plymouth Congregational Church
Many Hearts, One Song; Many Hands, One Church. Find us on Facebook and Twitter. 1900 Nicollet Ave. Minneapolis, MN 55403 (612) 871-7400 www.plymouth.org
St. Philip's Lutheran Church
We invite and welcome those of every spiritual background, ethnicity, gender orientation, or economic situation. 6180 Hwy 65 Fridley, MN 55432 (763) 571-1500 www.splcmn.org
University Baptist Church
Creating safe and inclusive spaces for 175 years, UBC stands proudly with our LGBTQ+ family. 1219 University Ave. SE Minneapolis, MN 55414 (612) 331-1768 www.ubcmn.org
Westminster Presbyterian Church
An open and affirming congregation, welcoming persons of all sexual orientations, gender expressions and identities. 1200 Marquette Ave. Minneapolis, MN 55403 (612) 332-3421 www.westminstermpls.org
SENIOR LIVING
Friends & Co
Fostering meaningful connections for older adults for 50+ years. Offering quick drop-in chat line, phone & visiting companionship services. 2550 University Ave. W., Ste. 260-S St. Paul, MN 55114 (612) 721-1400 www.friendsco.org
Lyngblomsten Community Services
Empowering older adults to live well at home through caregiver support, memory-loss enrichment, & wellness education.
1415 Almond Ave. St. Paul, MN 55108 (651) 632-5330 www.Lyngblomsten.org/CommunityServices
Senior Community Services
Providing non-medical services that meet the changing needs of older adults & support their caregivers.
10201 Wayzata Blvd., Ste. 335 Minnetonka, MN 55305 (952) 541-1019 www.seniorcommunity.org/lav
SOCIAL SERVICES
Lutheran Social Service of Minnesota
Serving all Minnesotans with personcentered services that promote full and abundant lives.
lssmn.org | (651) 642-5990 | (800) 582-5260 Employment Opportunities | lssmn.org/careers PICS (Partners in Community Supports) | picsmn.org
Pooled Trust | (888) 806-6844
Supported Decision-Making | (888) 806-6844
TRAVEL DESTINATIONS
Westopolis Minnesota’s Sweet Spot! Visit us for exceptional dining, attractions, shopping, hotels and event space.
1660 Hwy 100 S., Ste. 501 St. Louis Park, MN 55416 (952) 426-4047 www.westopolis.org
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plenty of bolstering to lock you in. Adjustments are plentiful, including the bolsters and thigh support. The rear seat room is fine. There is 13.1 cubic feet of trunk space, as well.
As mentioned before, there are three performance options available on the G80. This tester is powered by one of the two gasoline engines available: a twin-turbocharged 3.5-liter V6 with 375 horsepower and 391 poundfeet of torque. An eight-speed automatic transmission is connected to the engine, sending power to all four wheels.
While there is a choice of a 2.5-liter turbocharged four-cylinder engine and a dual-motor electric drive system, the twin-turbo V6 would be my choice. While any of these driveline choices would work well for many types of drivers, I just prefer the smooth acceleration and cruising of the V6. It is simply effortless.
As for fuel consumption, I achieved an average of 21.7 MPG.
The one thing the 2025 G80 that you will appreciate is a choice of drive modes. You have the choice of luxuriating and being mellow in Normal mode. This just neutralizes everything from a softer ride to a compliant steering feel. If you want a bit more excitement, set it into Sport mode. That weighs down the steering and firms up the suspension — but not too much to remove the Prestige from the Sport.
If you want a lot more excitement, then put it into Sport+ mode. While your suspension feel is much firmer and the steering feels more precise, you do lose traction control functionality in the process.
No matter which drive mode you choose, the G80 comes out as an exceptional vehicle to drive. The brakes do a great job of turning strong stops in normal, wet and panic situations. Steering is also precise, with exceptional response from the wheel. It is simply a nice car to drive overall.
Pricing for the 2025 Genesis G80 lineup starts at $57,100. This 3.5T AWD Sport Prestige tester came with a sticker price of $78,280.
When it comes to choosing a luxury car, we all want what is considered the standard of excellence. A measurement that shows that you made the right choice to show how successful you are.
If you are measuring your life’s choices, perhaps you should consider a 2025 Genesis G80. Or, any of the six Genesis models available. You will find an essence of what a new standard should be when you deliver on what successful people want out of life.
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