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in this issue... COVER STORY Warzone Hero: Local ER Doctor Volunteers in Israel ...........................................................................

1000 WORDS Leah Adler, culinary star (mom of Steven Spielberg, star director)....................................

FOOD Chai Muffins..........................................................................................................................................................

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TEST YOUR JEWISH IQTM.........................................................................................................................

FEATURES Aliyah to a nation at war: Rediscovering Israel following Oct. 7......................................... ARTS

THE CALL OF DUTY

CHAI MUFFINS

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PUBLISHERS Diane Benaroya & Laurie Miller EDITOR-IN-CHIEF Alanna Maya CREATIVE DIRECTOR Laurie Miller CONTRIBUTORS Ariela Alush, Barbara Birenbaum, Franklin Felber, Donald H. Harrison, Jacob Kamaras, Stephanie Lewis, Salomon Maya, Jana Mazurkiewicz Meisarosh, Terra Paley, Mimi Pollack, Rachel Stern, Eva Trieger, Deborah Vietor, Chana Jenny Weisberg, Cheri Weiss

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TORAH l BY RABBI-CANTOR CHERI WEISS

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n this current Jewish year 5784, on February 9-10, we begin the first of two consecutive months of Adar. Since the 12 months of our lunar Hebrew calendar usually total 354 days, and Jewish holidays need to fall within certain seasons, the rabbis developed a system of “leap years” (which include a second month of Adar) seven times in a 19-year cycle. The best-known celebration in Adar is the holiday of Purim. During leap years, Purim is celebrated on the 14th of the second month of Adar, which this year will be on March 2324. On Purim, we dress up in cool costumes based on the characters in the famous story of the beautiful Queen Esther and her clever Uncle Mordechai and generally have a lot of fun. In fact, simcha (joy) is one of the major themes of Purim and Adar. In the Talmud, we are instructed: “When you enter Adar, increase your joy.” Why? Perhaps it’s because Megillat Esther (read on Purim) recounts the salvation of the Jews of Persia when they were facing death at the hands of the evil Haman (“Boooo…”). In Megillat Esther, the narrative concludes:

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“For the Jews there was light and gladness, joy and honor.” In Hebrew we say, “La-yehudim hay-ta ora v’simcha, v’sason viykar.” We also chant this passage at the beginning of the Havdalah ceremony that concludes Shabbat. The rabbis have thus instructed us to celebrate Purim with joy. Shabbat also provides us with a weekly opportunity to experience light and gladness. Even those in mourning are told not to sit shiva on Shabbat and to refrain from wearing clothing reserved for mourning. Jewish tradition also teaches us that performing a mitzvah (commandment)— particularly one that involves helping another human being in need should bring us great joy. On Purim, we observe the mitzvot of hearing the reading of the megillah, eating and drinking, sharing mishloach manot (gifts of food), and matanot l’evyonim (giving charity to those in need). Rabbi Lord Jonathan Sacks (of blessed memory) wrote: “…joy and sharing are inextricably connected.” When we share what we have with others, a true, deep joy fills our hearts and souls. The cycle of life will inevitably bring

each of us joy and sorrow, individually as well as within our Jewish communities. We are commanded to comfort people in our community who have lost loved ones and support them in their time of mourning. It is also a mitzvah to rejoice in others’ lifecycle celebrations and rituals including britot milah (circumcisions), baby-namings, b’nei mitzvah, and weddings. As we approach the happy month(s) of Adar, let us do all we can to fulfill the mitzvot of celebrating with joy and giving to those in need. This mitzvah goes beyond monetary contributions. Writing a check and donating food or clothing are wonderful ways to fulfill our obligation to others, and I highly encourage it! However, being physically and emotionally present for people in their times of grief and need as well as in their times of joy is also an essential part of nurturing a truly caring community. RABBI-CANTOR CHERI WEISS IS THE SPIRITUAL LEADER OF TEMPLE EMANUEL IN HONOLULU, HAWAII.

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HUMOR | BY STEPHANIE D. GITTLEMAN

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& mishagoss To Rhyme or Not to Rhyme? It Never Use to Be a Question!

’ve decided to enter an important contest for poetry, but it needs to rhyme. It’s something that comes naturally to me, so I’ll certainly have an easy time. It’s a Jewish contest too, so I can be sure and use my knowledge of Yiddish. You might shy away from that kind of rhyming. Me? I’m not at all skittish! But suddenly right when it matters the most, I can’t get my rhyming to work! It’s as if my brain decided that its writing responsibilities it wants to … avoid. Now it’s more challenging than playing Gin Rummy, and waiting for the right card, finding rhymes for this contest has become frustrating and just so very … difficult. See that? At times I come incredibly close, both in counting syllables and in sound. But the words seem awkward, silly, or gross, and a rhyme can just never be … discovered. I never had to use Google or force ‘em, t’was never a big struggle, or a huge strain. Cheater’s poetry dictionaries, I don’t endorse ‘em, so I’m just gonna wrack my … mind!

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Maybe I should enter a different contest with free-verse. More sophisticated, you know? Who needs matchy kiddy jingles?? I could just be totally loose and let my words … stream. But it still needs to be about something Jewish, like Shabbat and how we like to pray, There’s nothing original or newish, and so like my grandma, I’m gonna just sigh, “Oy Gevalt.” Grrrr! Here’s to non-rhyming yummy words like hamantaschen, kugel, and latkes for Chanukah I could branch out to include family traditions like our baby naming for my new niece Monica. Oh wait! Did you just see that? Once I stopped trying, it came back to me all on its own! I don’t mean to kvell or boast, but it’s obvious dear reader, I’m back in the rhyming zone! So look out Shel Silverstein and even Dr Seuss—your competition is gonna be rough! You could just make an excuse, cuz next to me you’re both gonna become a cream …

pastry. Oh no, it’s gone again! But you can bet I’m not goin’ down without the good fight. You might say I’m tenacious, stubborn, relentless. And you’d be exactly… correct! But like a Yenta, far be it for me to complain about this, not even a little kvetch. It’s obvious I just need to exercise my brain a little, it just needs a little… elastic. I’m also not beyond banging against the wall a bit with my little, exhausted keppie. Maybe that will wake it up, get back its creative zing and make it feel more Peppery. Peppery? Oh now it’s just making fun of me! My cranium has its own little schtick! C’mon! This isn’t an uncommon scenario. Hasn’t your mind ever played a … fraud? But alas, I think I’m gonna give up on entering the contest, too hard on my selfesteem. Besides I should just be grateful for my Mazel (and Mishagoss!) at L’CHAIM magazine! STEPHANIE D. GITTLEMAN WILL INJECT HUMOR INTO ANYTHING YOU HIRE HER TO WRITE. EMAIL HER AT THEQUOTEGAL@ YAHOO.COM.

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WORDS LEAH ADLER, CULINARY STAR (MOM OF STEVEN SPIELBERG)

t was more than 20 years ago when Leah Adler gave me a tour of her Los Angeles restaurant, the Milky Way. As we talked, one of her comments remains lodged in my memory: “My food has to be exceptionally good—and it just happens to be kosher.” The Milky Way. In astronomy, it means the stars that meld together into a single band of light. Maybe that was the inspiration for Leah and her second husband, Bernie Adler, to combine the very best in a strictly kosher dairy restaurant. When the restaurant opened in 1977, Leah was determined to introduce fine comfort food, redolent with spices and fresh flavors, to the Orthodox Jewish community. And it took off. Dining at the Milky Way was an experience— kosher food with zip and a dash of ethnicity served up in a cozy atmosphere where family photos and Leah’s paintings lined the walls. Then there was the added attraction of a feisty, petite Leah flitting between tables. She was like the Energizer Bunny. A slash of bright red lipstick and swanky denim reflected her adventurous, bold spirit. She talked to everyone, schmoozing with celebrities equally with the not-so-famous. Everyone was welcome, no matter their faith or background. People loved it. She was the family matriarch of the place (and being Steven Spielberg’s mother didn’t hurt). Leah reached outside culinary norms. Forty years ago, who would have ever thought that chimichangas could be made kosher? Under the direction of a mashgiach (a Jew who supervises food so that it is prepared according to the laws of kashrut), she encouraged Latino cooks who made LA their new home to prepare dishes they had grown up with. Sure, there were still the mouthwatering kugels, blintzes and kreplach on the menu that catered to the traditionalists, but the multi-ethnic dishes quickly attracted a growing clientele. When Leah Adler passed away at the age of 97 on Feb. 21, 2017, the restaurant closed. Could the Milky Way be the same without Leah’s dynamic personality? The Spielberg family—Steven and his sisters, Nancy, Sue and Anne, decided to reopen—with a facelift.

They reached out to Phil Kastel, the founder of PK&J Hospitality, a group that provides strategic guidance and leadership in culinary development. Bright, innovative and with years of experience as an executive corporate chef, Phil was ready to work with the family to lead the Milky Way into a new era. The red carpet was replaced by glossy wood floors and the blue booths were reupholstered, while framed family photos still hang on newly painted walls. A three-minute video of Leah and her family is shown all day. Although the staff is small (only one chef and three cooks in the kitchen), everyone pitches in. On any given day, you might find a cook passing out menus, the mashgiach may be rinsing fresh herbs, and Phil or Stephanie, the general manager, are delivering plates to the table. The Milky Way has expanded its repertoire with Sunday brunch and special events, such as dinner and a screening of short, award-winning movies. Milky Way’s “Classic Kosher Cuisine” is a combination of contemporary flavors and eye-appealing dishes. Phil notes that “with travel, tastes have become sophisticated and that extends into the kosher culinary world.” Plenty of classics like Adler’s own cheesecake remain, but you’ll find dishes like Salmon Piccata Linguine, the “Impossible” (plant-based) Cheeseburger and Carrot Cake with Toasted Coconut on the menu; Leah Adler would be proud. It’s a fitting testimony to a fearless, multi-talented woman who was ahead of her time. THE MILKY WAY, AT 9108 PICO BLVD. IN LOS ANGELES (310859-0004), OBSERVES SHABBAT. IT IS CLOSED FOR DINNER ON FRIDAY AND ALL DAY SATURDAY.

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COVER STORY | BY FRANKLIN FELBER

WARZONE HEALER

SAN DIEGO DOCTOR SERVES ISRAELI DEFENSE FORCES DURING WAR 14

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n the day Hamas terrorists from Gaza poured across Israel’s border, slaughtering and wounding thousands of men, women, children, and babies, Dr. Roneet Lev wanted to jump on a plane to Israel immediately. As an emergency physician in San Diego for more than 30 years, she desperately wanted to rush to Israel to help save lives. She was dismayed when her Israeli colleagues told her not to come yet. The Ministry of Health had to vet medical professionals before allowing them to serve with the Israeli Defense Forces. So, for two weeks Roneet was “not sleeping, extremely anxious,” while she contacted every organization she could think of that might help get her to Israel as a volunteer doctor. While waiting, Roneet was told by an emergency physician in Israel of an urgent need by the IDF for video laryngoscopes. With Roneet’s support, Dr. Kristen Donovan, Executive Director of the nonprofit Center of Community Research, set up an Israel Relief Fund to assist Israel with this need. The fund raised the money to buy dozens of laryngoscopes, which Roneet managed to put on an El Al flight in time to be of valuable use when IDF troops first entered Gaza. Roneet calls Dr. Donovan a “righteous gentile,” one of many she met who were as committed to volunteering and helping Israel as were Jews around the world. Over 11,000 medical professionals from 40 countries around the world signed up alongside Roneet on the Ministry of Health website to volunteer their services in Israel. Half of the volunteers were from the United States. The influx of hundreds of thousands of volunteers swelled Israel’s population by three percent during the early weeks of the war. This overwhelming response from countries around the world was in a sense reciprocal, as Israel is often first on the scene with medical assistance and field hospitals to help other countries struck by disasters. It was Israel’s Emergency Volunteer Project (EVP) that finally arranged to get Roneet to Israel. The EVP is a disaster relief and rescue organization authorized by the government and the IDF to place “life-saving personnel from the diaspora into the thick of the action whenever and wherever Israel needs it most,” according to its website. The EVP gave Roneet less than 24 hours to get on its dedicated El Al flight to Israel. Roneet’s friends, Karen Aaron at Congregation Adat Yeshurun and Debra Trestman at Chabad of North County Inland, quickly activated their networks and assembled two large duffle bags of supplies for Roneet to bring to Israeli soldiers. Roneet’s colleagues at Scripps Mercy Hospital graciously agreed to fill in her shifts while she was gone. Upon her arrival, Roneet was given three days of training in Israeli medications, equipment, and medical protocols, including

Upon her arrival, Roneet was given three days of training in Israeli medications, equipment, and medical protocols, including a training course in protocols of Military Trauma Life Support. Then Roneet was deployed to an IDF base near Gaza. a training course in protocols of Military Trauma Life Support. Then Roneet was deployed to an IDF base near Gaza. There she trained troops in medical rescue and care in actual battle scenarios, such as rescuing injured soldiers from tanks, armored personnel carriers, and helicopters. The troops Roneet trained were not just doctors and medics, but ordinary soldiers who might have to provide emergency medical care during battle. After her stint near Gaza, Roneet was sent north to Haifa. There she served as the only doctor for a Search & Rescue team of the Israeli Homeland Command. Their mission, in anticipation of Hezbollah rocket attacks that might cause buildings to collapse and trap people, was to protect and rescue the civilian population. Roneet organized the medical bags and practiced rescue interventions with the medics. The team participated in a joint mass-casualty simulation with Magen David Adom, Israel’s medical-relief organization. Roneet’s three years of experience with Life Flight in San Diego served her well in this mission, for which each minute could be critical. Roneet was astonished and grateful for how supportive the community was to her and the soldiers in her Search & Rescue team. Families took turns cooking meals for the troops, neighbors offered to do laundry, and children gave soldiers artwork and hugs. Likewise, the soldiers who worked with Roneet were deeply touched to know that a doctor had come all the way from San Diego to support Israel. One soldier said to her, “Every base needs a Roneet.” Roneet, in turn, was inspired by her team of reserve soldiers. Engineers, students, a veterinarian, a personal trainer, a computer

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programmer – they had left their homes, families, and jobs to sleep on mattresses in a school gym for the duration. To Roneet, her team was emblematic of the diversity and unity of the people of Israel. Roneet was profoundly committed to her mission because her ties to Israel run deep. She was born in Israel to parents who had been expelled from Baghdad in the 1950’s after their ancestors had lived there for thousands of years. Her parents were longtime residents of Poway before returning to Israel to live. Roneet’s sister also lives in Israel with her family. With these strong ties to Israel, her service with the IDF was not enough for Roneet. She returned to Israel in January to volunteer as an emergency physician with Magen David Adom. Roneet was dispatched from different MDA stations each day in the familiar yellow ambulances to treat civilians having medical emergencies. With medical services stretched thin all throughout Israel, her work for the civilian MDA was just as vitally important for saving lives as her work for the IDF. Just before Roneet returned to the US from her tour of duty with Magen David Adom, she made an emotionally intense visit to Kibbutz Kfar Aza in the Sha’ar HaNegev region. The sister city of San Diego in Israel, Sha’ar HaNegev is practically on the Gaza border and is one of the communities hardest hit during Hamas’s massacre. Twenty years ago, Roneet’s family had donated a medical clinic to Kibbutz Kfar Aza. At the time, this clinic had the only safe room

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for the entire kibbutz. On October 7, the first line of defenders of the kibbutz were prevented by the terrorists from reaching their weapons cache and were all murdered. During the 10-hour battle that followed, the terrorists tried repeatedly to break into the safe room of the clinic and failed each time. The safe room in the clinic that Roneet’s family had donated 20 years ago saved many lives that day. Many more lives were saved when the clinic was used after the battle to treat the wounded and injured. Roneet feels that she is a different person now than she was on October 7th. Gone are the anxious days and sleepless nights, fretting over the fate of Israel and the Jewish people. What made the difference for her was the palpable feeling of solidarity at every corner, with Israeli flags and signs reading “Together we will win” and “We have no other home.” Roneet was fortified by witnessing the tremendous resolve and the unity of the Jewish people in Israel and those coming from all around the world. What conclusion did she draw from her experience serving Israel, a country at war with its terrorist enemies? “Right wing, left wing, Netanyahu lovers and haters, religious and atheists, Sephardi and Ashkenazi, from Ethiopia or Russia – the Israeli people are steadfast in protecting their homeland. The survival of Israel and the Jewish people is assured. The people of Israel live. Am Yisrael Chai.”

TEST YOUR JEWISH IQTM 1. The death of which Fiddler on the Roof star in 2023 was mourned by the prime minister and people of Israel? ____ a. Sholom Aleichem ____ b. Zero Mostel ____ c. Chaim Topol ____ d. Lior Ashkenazi 2. One should not drink wine before what age, according to Maimonides? ____ a. 10 years old ____ b. 13 years old ____ c. 18 years old ____ d. 21 years old 3. According to the Torah, when someone slaughters an ox, sheep, or goat for meat, what parts must be given to a Kohen? ____ a. Right foreleg, jaw, stomach ____ b. Right ear, right lung, right foreleg ____ c. Mouth, diaphragm, kidneys ____ d. Stomach, kidneys, liver 4. Which of these Jews was not a borscht-belt comedian? ____ a. Henny Youngman ____ b. Sid Caesar ____ c. Billy Crystal ____ d. Rodney Dangerfield 5. According to Ethics of the Fathers, the world stands on all of these pillars but which one? ____ a. Torah ____ b. The service ____ c. Mercy ____ d. Deeds of Kindness

7. What is the national bird of Israel? ____ a. Hoopoe ____ b. Egret ____ c. Yellow-vented bulbul ____ d. Palestine sunbird 8. According to Maimonides, which of these is the highest form of giving charity? ____ a. Donor is known to beneficiary. Beneficiary is known to donor. ____ b. Donor is known to beneficiary. Beneficiary is unknown to donor. ____ c. Donor is unknown to beneficiary. Beneficiary is known to donor. ____ d. Donor is unknown to beneficiary. Beneficiary is unknown to donor. 9. Which pair of Aaron’s four sons died when they brought an “alien fire” into the Holy of Holies of the Tabernacle? ____ a. Nadab and Elazar ____ b. Abihu and Nadab ____ c. Ithamar and Abihu ____ d. Elazar and Ithamar 10. About what is Israel’s rate of water reuse? ____ a. 22% ____ b. 44% ____ c. 66% ____ d. 88% Answers on page 29. ©

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CHAI SPICE BUTTERNUT SQUASH MUFFINS BY TAMAR ROTHENBERG, MS, RDN

nacks are an opportunity to boost your nutrition. Start with one, wholesome recipe and add my recommended pairings to balance the snack. Try a mix of prepared and convenience foods and keep it stress-free. In this example, assemble a Chai Spice Muffin Box for a school lunch, an office snack, or serve with fruit for breakfast. The featured recipe is Chai Spice Butternut Squash Muffins. Now pair it with the following: • 1 kiwi • 1 cup yogurt • 2 stalks of celery with nut butter or alternative seed butter. This recipe makes 18 regular-sized muffins. Serving size = 1 muffin. Add mini chocolate chips for an extra special treat! CHAI SPICE BUTTERNUT SQUASH MUFFINS

Ingredients 2 lb. butternut squash, peeled, seeded, and diced 1 Tbs avocado oil (or other mild flavored oil) 3 cups oats, quick 1 Tbs pumpkin pie spice 1 tsp cardamom, ground 1/2 tsp baking soda 1/2 tsp salt 1 cup almond milk, unsweetened (or other milk) 1/2 cup maple syrup 3 eggs 3 Tbs coconut oil, melted 1 tsp vanilla extract

Snacks—like these simple muffins—are an opportunity to boost your nutrition. Directions 1. Preheat oven to 400° F and line a baking sheet with parchment paper. 2. Peel, seed, and dice butternut squash. 3. Line muffin tins with paper liners and spray with cooking oil for easy removal. 4. Toss diced butternut squash with oil and bake on parchment-lined baking sheet for about 20 minutes until soft. Set aside. Reduce oven to 375° F. 5. Add oats, pumpkin pie spice, cardamom, baking soda, and salt to your blender or food processor. Process until mixture resembles flour. Add dry ingredients to a mixing bowl. 6. To your blender or processor, add butternut squash, milk, maple syrup, coconut oil, vanilla, and process until creamy. Add eggs and process until smooth. 7. Make a well in dry ingredients and add the wet mixture. Stir until just combined. 8. Add batter to muffin liners 3/4 full and bake for about 15 minutes until tops spring back when touched.

TAMAR ROTHENBERG, MS, RDN, IS A REGISTERED DIETITIAN WHO SPECIALIZES IN BREAST AND OVARIAN CANCER IN HER PRIVATE PRACTICE IN LOS ANGELES. SHE HAS A CERTIFICATE OF TRAINING IN VEGETARIAN NUTRITION AND HERBAL FORMULATIONS IN CANCER CARE; AND CO-LED THE CLINICAL STUDY, COPING WITH CANCER IN THE KITCHEN, PUBLISHED IN NUTRIENTS. TAMAR LENDS HER EXPERTISE TO SHARSHERET THRIVERS THROUGH NUTRITION COACHING. CHECK OUT TAMAR’S OTHER RECIPES IN HER BOOK, CANCER DIET FOR THE NEWLY DIAGNOSED: AN INTEGRATIVE GUIDE AND COOKBOOK FOR TREATMENT AND RECOVERY. VISIT TAMAR’S WEBSITE AT WWW.TAMARROTHENBERGRD. COM/ FOR MORE INFORMATION. THIS RECIPE WAS SUBMITTED BY THE NON-PROFIT ORGANIZATION, SHARSHERET, THE JEWISH BREAST CANCER AND OVARIAN CANCER COMMUNITY. IF YOU OR SOMEONE YOU LOVE HAS BEEN IMPACTED BY BREAST OR OVARIAN CANCER OR HAS ELEVATED GENETIC RISK, CONTACT SHARSHERET FOR FREE SUPPORT AND RESOURCES. FOR MORE INFORMATION, VISIT SHARSHERET.ORG OR CALL (866) 474-2774. WWW.LCHAIMMAGAZINE.COM

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Aliyah to a Nation at War

Rediscovering Israel following October 7 BY EFRAT FORSHET | JNS.ORG

he year 2023 was marked by a decline in the number of immigrants to Israel, but it seems that the war that has been going on here in the last three months could have changed that trajectory. In 2022, against the backdrop of the war in Ukraine, 62,403 new immigrants arrived in Israel—over 15,000 of them from Ukraine, with others hailing from Russia, France and Belarus.

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In all of 2023, only 36,293 new immigrants came to Israel, with the largest number in January at 6,711. As the year progressed the numbers continued to decline. Still, from data collected by Israel’s Aliyah and Integration Ministry, since the outbreak of the Oct. 7 war, there has been a significant increase in the number of new immigration files opened—a figure that will necessarily impact immigration data in the first months of 2024, which will likely see a

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spike once tabulated in full. According to Qualita, the umbrella organization of French immigrants in Israel, there has been a 500% surge in the number of aliyah files opened in France since the outbreak of the war. Ariel Kandel, CEO of the organization, said: “The antisemitism and thousands of violent incidents against Jews in France have led to an unprecedented desire for French Jews to immigrate to Israel and assist in the war effort. “This is an opportunity that must not be squandered. The State of Israel needs to initiate and implement a program to bring new immigrants as soon as possible, to strengthen the state during and after the war.” According to Nefesh B’Nefesh, which operates in North America, since the start of the war, some 4,200 aliyah files have been opened with them—an increase of 120% compared to the same period the year before (October to early January). Nefesh B’Nefesh co-founder and Executive Director Rabbi Yehoshua Fass told Israel Hayom: “North American Jewry is voting with its feet and choosing to immigrate to Israel in its difficult hour. The war did not cause Jews who wanted to immigrate to cancel their plans—it even intensified the urgency to get to the land, out of a sense of belonging and solidarity.” Since the start of the war until the first week of January, a total of 4,783 new immigrants have immigrated to Israel, most of them from Russia, the United States, Ukraine and France. Almost all of the immigrants who arrived in Israel during this period began the process before the war. In total, since the outbreak of the war, nearly 7,000 new aliyah files have been opened worldwide. In January, about 100 young immigrants from 23 countries arrived in Israel through the Scout Movement’s “Tzabar” program. They will undergo military preparation activities and Hebrew-language studies, and will enlist for combat roles in the IDF in a few months. About 30 youths from France, who arrived in Israel in November to enlist for service, are also currently staying at the Gur Yehuda pre-military academy.

that the main reason for immigration is still Zionism. Half of the candidates who opened aliyah files in the United States stated Zionism as the main reason for their aliyah. According to the World Zionist Organization, 2023 ended with an increase of 230% in antisemitic events worldwide compared to 2022. A report from Israel’s Diaspora Affairs and Combating Antisemitism Ministry, submitted to the Knesset Aliyah and Integration Committee, stated that there had been an increase in antisemitic incidents since the outbreak of the war. For example, in the United States more than 400 higher education institutions received bomb threats, an increase of 540% compared to the same period last year. In Toronto, Canada, the number of antisemitic incidents has risen 211% since the beginning of the war, in Britain, there was an increase of 162%, and in Australia, there was an increase of 738% compared to the same period last year. AN ANTISEMITIC INCIDENT EVERY 80 SECONDS

According to research conducted at the Hebrew University of Jerusalem’s Kantor Center for the Study of Contemporary European Jewry, an antisemitic incident occurs somewhere in the world every 80 seconds. According to the organization Fighting Online Antisemitism, which prepared a report together with the WZO, since the outbreak of the war, there has been a 300% spike in antisemitic content on social networks. Aliyah and Integration Minister Ofir Sofer said in the wake of these developments: “The immigration of many Jews to Israel during the war and the tremendous spike in opening immigration files are an important Zionist act and expression of solidarity with the state at this time.” Doron Almog, chairman of the Jewish Agency for Israel, added: “Immigration to Israel at times like these is yet another testament to the degree to which Diaspora Jewry has partaken in building the State of Israel and its revival. I welcome every one of the immigrants who are building their home in Israel these days.”

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Curious at CCAE Theatricals BY DEBORAH VIETOR

unning from February 16 to March 3, 2024, The Curious Incident of The Dog In The Night-Time, will be performed by CCAE Theatricals. Based on the best-selling novel by Mark Haddon, The Curious Incident features 15-year-old Christopher, an intellectually advanced math wizard, falling under suspicion of killing the neighbor’s dog. He becomes driven to locate the perpetrator and in the true style of Sherlock Holmes, he is led on a life changing, exciting journey across London. Adapted for the stage by Simon Stephens and directed by J. Scott Lapp, (Witnesses, 2022 Craig Noel Award for Outstanding New Musical & Direction), Curious is “a story of love, family and bravery in the most unlikely of environments.” Described as part-mystery, family drama and a young-adult adventure tale, the play illustrates the power of theater to tell incredible stories. Natalie Iscovich is the choreographer of the 12 performers onstage. She has created movement that enhances each of their performances, adding depth to the story. As a Los Angeles-based performer, dancer, choreographer and teacher, she has been a part of various live productions, as well as film and television. Asked what the audience will take away from Curious, she said, “Really it’s a story about human beings dealing with complex issues in their lives. At the end of the day, every character comes to a better 22

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understanding of one another and a heightened awareness of others.” The granddaughter of Holocaust survivors, Iscovich is proud of her Jewish heritage. As we discussed how Judaism informs her performance and choreography, Natalie stated that music has been a huge part of her Jewish identity, finding meaning through singing the Jewish prayers and taking part in the ritual customs. When asked what advice she would give to young people seeking a career in the performing arts and dance, she said, “Don’t wait for success. Keep Practicing. Do the things you love very well and people will find you.” CCAE THEATRICALS, FORMERLY PART OF THE CALIFORNIA CENTER FOR THE ARTS, ESCONDIDO, RECENTLY BECAME ITS OWN SEPARATE 501C3 NON PROFIT ORGANIZATION. AS THE RESIDENT PROFESSIONAL THEATRE COMPANY AT THE ART CENTER IN ESCONDIDO, THEY WILL CONTINUE TO PRODUCE FULL SEASONS OF SHOWS INCLUDING PLAYS, MUSICALS, CABARETS AND CONCERTS. J. SCOTT LAPP (ARTISTIC DIRECTOR) AND JORDAN BECK (MANAGING PRODUCER), JOINED BY JULIANNA CRESPO (EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR) AND TOM ABRUZZO (DIRECTOR OF EDUCATION & ENGAGEMENT) ARE EXCITED TO BE SHEPHERDING IN THIS NEW ERA FOR THE AWARD-WINNING COMPANY THAT TOOK HOME THE 2022 CRAIG NOEL AWARD FOR OUTSTANDING NEW PRODUCTION WITH THE MUSICAL WITNESSES. LEARN MORE AT WWW.THEATRICALS.ORG.

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Mandell Weiss Gallery Engaging Contemporary Art to Liberty Station

andell Weiss Gallery has re-opened in the Dorothea Laub Dance Place, the vibrant performing arts epicenter of the Arts District, Liberty Station. Elizabeth Tobias, Gallery Curator in Residence, is re-energizing the first-floor public exhibit space. Inspired by the public art exhibits featured at The San Diego Airport, Tobias is using that model to bring engaging contemporary art exhibits to San Diego. “The visual art brings new excitement to the complex. We like to enliven the space for all our visitors by showcasing local talent. Since it is Dance Place, we make sure the gallery is curated with material that speaks to dance, reflects movement, and is accessible to a multigenerational audience, “says Matt Carney, Director of San Diego Ballet. Tobias is also an Interdisciplinary Artist, Expressive Arts Therapist, Educator and Community Organizer. She is producing projects that she hopes will be consciousness-raising and visually beautiful to match the energy and artistry of the performance complex. The exhibits will explore a range of subjects, styles and materials and will feature artists from San Diego and beyond. The next exhibit, entitled “Women Work Together” by the Feminist

Image Group, also known as FIG, opens on May 3, 2024. FIG was formed in 2009 by artist and curator Anna Stump. There are currently over 70 members in San Diego. This exhibit explores relationship and collaboration as an act of resistance against competition and conflict. For this project, artist pairs will collaborate on duets, new works of art blending their individual ideas and styles. This project promotes cooperation as a social process, a pathway to the growth and development of society. FIG is a coalition of San Diego artists who organize exhibitions, discuss art and support one another in their careers. FIG artists work across many media, including drawing, painting, photography, sculpture, installation, digital media, and performance. As artists, they are concerned with how women continue to be portrayed and treated in the art world. As teachers and feminists, they encourage our students and colleagues to be alert to sexism in its many forms. They promote an inclusive world view that allows all voices. As friends, they aid each other in their creative and curatorial endeavors. MANDELL WEISS GALLERY IS LOCATED IN THE ARTS DISTRICT LIBERTY STATION, 2650 TRUXTUN ROAD, SAN DIEGO, CA 92115. WWW.LCHAIMMAGAZINE.COM

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Imagine the Passion

San Diego Ballet's Latin Lover Comes to La Jolla

an Diego Ballet’s Artistic Director Javier Velasco wants you to get swept away to the sounds of Spanish guitars in a rapturous, romantic evening devoted to love and the human condition. The upcoming production of The Many Loves of Don Juan follows the world’s most famous Latin lover through his triumphs and tragedies, as he journeys the world in his search for fulfillment. Soulful and sizzling, this work is choreographed by Velasco and features former American Ballet Theatre dancer Marshall Whiteley. “I leaned into the strengths of our Company in selecting this season’s works and having a dancer with the strength, ability and passion of Marshall Whiteley, provided an opportunity to present a work like Don Juan,” explained Velasco. Born in Fairbanks, Alaska, and raised in San Diego, Calif., Marshall was a nationally ranked ice hockey player by the age of 11. At 13, he began formal ballet training and by 20, he was accepted as a corps de ballet member for the American Ballet Theatre. While with the company, Marshall performed roles in most major classics, such

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as Giselle, Swan Lake, Don Quixote, The Nutcracker, and Firebird. In 2020, Marshall returned to San Diego to be closer to his family. 2022-23 marked his first season with the San Diego Ballet, where he performed a wide range of roles in a variety of styles. Don Juan also features Stephanie Maiorano, who first performed the role 10 years ago. “It was an incredible experience and I honestly didn’t know that I would get the chance to dance it again. Now, I’m more experienced and have lived more life, I’m sure I’ll have a different view of my character and I’m looking forward to seeing how I’ll attack the role,” she explained. THE MANY LOVES OF DON JUAN PLAYS AT THE CONRAD PREBYS PERFORMING ARTS CENTER, 7600 FAY AVE, LA JOLLA. SHOWTIMES ARE FEB. 24 AT 7 P.M., AND FEB.25 AT 2 P.M. FOR MORE INFORMATION, VISIT WWW.SANDIEGOBALLET.ORG/ SHOWS.

Artists 4 Israel Keep the Stories of Kidnapped Alive the Municipality of Sderot and many others. Through distribution with Artists 4 Israel’s premiere partners, more than 10,000 kits have been distributed over the past 5 years. On October 7, the entire stockpile was exhausted. The organization is now producing emergency versions of the kits and asking everyone to sponsor and host packing events for immediate production and distribution. To host a packing event, contact info@artists4israel.org.

In response to the vicious attacks of October 7, a member of Artists 4 Israel created the iconic KIDNAPPED posters that have been seen around the world. Hateful people have been tearing these posters down so Artists 4 Israel determined to make that impossible to do and create the world’s largest KIDNAPPED art installation. In the middle of Culver City, they created a 120-foot by 22-foot mural affixed to the wall in a way that cannot be removed. The mural also features a unique and chilling component where some of the faces of the captives have been replaced with mirrors so that passerby might see their own face and consider how they would react if it were them or their family being held prisoner by Hamas. For more info and to donate, visit www.artists4israel.org. HEALING ARTS KITS ADDRESS PTSD IN CHILDREN IN ISRAEL

Designed by a consortium of psychiatrists, therapists, firstresponders, parents and teachers, Healing Arts Kits slow or stop the onset of new cases of PTSD in Israel’s children in crises. The art kits utilize the most recent understandings in art therapy and are created to provide a positive distraction from the traumatizing effect of war (or other events) and stimulate the child’s inherent self-soothing abilities. The kits have been endorsed by, among others, the Israel Ministry of Education, the Israel Center for the Treatment of Psychotrauma and the Herzog Center. They have been distributed by WIZO, United Hatzalah, Save a Child’s Heart, 26

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service. Accolades flowed in from across the community recognizing her tireless dedication, boundless energy, thoughtful and caring leadership, and exceptional compassion. She began her tenure with the Hebrew Homes in 1989 and was promoted to the role of President and CEO in 2000. She grew with the organization and now leads a staff of almost 300. “My journey and the growth of this organization are intrinsically linked in my memory. It’s amazing to think that I’ve been with Seacrest for 35 years,” Ferris explained. “I have been able to stay at Seacrest for almost my entire career because my personal values are very much in alignment with the organization’s. I have been committed, along with the leadership team, board members, stakeholders, families, and staff, to making sure those in our care are treated with the dignity and respect they so deserve. This can only happen with a team who shares those values and has a passion for serving older adults.” “It has been my extreme honor and privilege to serve,” she added. A search committee has been formed to fill Ferris’s position, led by Seacrest Village Board Chair Steven Ratner. Members representing all Seacrest boards are participating to oversee the recruitment process, ensuring a thorough selection of the next leader. This taskforce will work closely with national executive search firm ZurickDavis to identify candidates with the vision, skills, and dedication necessary to continue Seacrest’s mission of providing outstanding care for its seniors.

DONATE TO KEEP YIDDISHLAND ALIVE

Yiddishland California is continuing the fight for keeping its cultural center in downtown La Jolla, and welcomes tzedakah at https:// yiddishlandcalifornia.org/donate. Your support at this juncture is crucial for the following reasons: • Polish TV Spotlight: Big news! Polish TV (TVN) is going to feature Yiddishland in an upcoming show. It is imperative that we present our vibrant culture and community in the best light. • Investor Interest: Yiddishland is thrilled to announce that investors are showing keen interest in the expanded Yiddishland plan. To capitalize on this momentum, they are planning to organize an investors’ meeting at Yiddishland in February. This could be a gamechanger for their future. • Recently, Yiddishland CA has been exceptionally busy. Its location among commercial spaces, without a gate or guard, in a walkable neighborhood, has fostered valuable interactions between Jewish and non-Jewish individuals, helping to address issues of antisemitism through open dialogue and engagement. SEACREST VILLAGE CEO RETIRES

After a 35-year career at Seacrest Village Retirement Communities, President and CEO Pam Ferris has announced her retirement, effective June 2024. At a celebration of the Hebrew Home’s 80th anniversary last summer, Ferris was honored for her extraordinary years of 28

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NEFESH B’NEFESH CLOSES 2023 WITH 720 NORTH AMERICAN OLIM AMIDST IRON SWORDS WAR

Nefesh B’Nefesh, in cooperation with Israel’s Ministry of Aliyah and Integration, The Jewish Agency for Israel, Keren Kayemeth LeIsrael and JNF-USA, has recorded 720 newcomers who arrived in Israel since the onset of the war, with 200 of them landing just in the last week of 2023. “The significant number of new immigrants to Israel during the Iron Swords War and the tremendous increase in requests to open Aliyah files are an important demonstration of Zionism and a beautiful expression of solidarity with the country, providing us with a much-needed boost to our morale,” said Minister of Aliyah and Integration, Ofir Sofer. “Together with our partners at The Jewish Agency for Israel and Nefesh B’Nefesh, we are working to improve the absorption process by easing the bureaucracy as well as helping with Hebrew learning and job placements. We believe that full integration of the newcomers will contribute greatly to Israeli society and economic growth.” In total 3,020 individuals from North America have made Aliyah in 2023. Among the newcomers who arrived this year with the

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assistance of Nefesh B’Nefesh are 545 families, 616 children, 958 single men and women, and 432 retirees. The average age of Olim over the last year is 32 years old, with the oldest being 100 and the youngest a 3-month-old baby. The Olim came from all over North America, most notably New York, New Jersey, California, Florida, Maryland, and Ontario. The most sought-after destinations of the Olim this year were Jerusalem, Tel Aviv-Yafo, Beit Shemesh, Netanya, and Ra’anana.

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1. c. Topol was called by Prime Minister Netanyahu “one of the greatest artists of the State of Israel” and “one of the greatest lovers of the Land of Israel,” adding that “the people of Israel returned his love.” 2. d. 21 years old (Hilchos Deios, 4:12), as codified in the Kitzur Shulchan Aruch (32:18): “Wine is good for the old and damaging to the young as it arouses their natural hormones, and is like adding fire to fire …” After the U.S. implemented in 1984 a minimum age of 21 for alcohol consumption, the number of car accidents fell dramatically. 3. a. Right foreleg, jaw, stomach (Deu. 18:3). 4. c. Billy Crystal played a borscht-belt comedian in the Broadway musical comedy, Saturday Night. 5. c. “[Shimon the Righteous] used to say: The world stands on three things – on Torah, the service, and deeds of kindness (Pirkei Avot 1:2).”

(L-R) Erica Ram, Yanir Ram, Margalit Ram, and Yossi Ram THE ARC OF SAN DIEGO HOSTS WINTER WONDERLAND FASHION SHOW & LUNCHEON

The Arc of San Diego’s Winter Wonderland Fashion Show & Luncheon on December 1, 2023, brought together some of San Diego’s most fashionable and philanthropic citizens at The US Grant Hotel. All funds raised at the event benefited The Arc of San Diego and ensure the ability to continue providing essential services such as day training, employment, and residential living services to more than 2,000 individuals with disabilities. Thanks to the incredible generosity of supporters and attendees, The Arc of San Diego was able to raise over $100,000 for essential program needs to better serve clients in San Diego County. Guests enjoyed a silent auction and holiday shopping vendor boutique upon arrival followed by a luncheon and runway show produced by Style Personality Leonard Simpson. The program also included a live auction hosted by auctioneer Clint Bell and an amazing opera performance by local singers Rosario Monetti and Victoria Robertson. The event emcee was acclaimed choreographer and dance personality Mary Murphy. Winter Wonderland was made possible by event chairs Maria Stanley and her daughter Cici Drummond and Laura Applegate and her daughter Erica Ram, all dedicated local philanthropists and supporters of The Arc of San Diego. The event Honorary Chairs were Dr. Howard and Barbara Milstein. Sponsors, vendors, and volunteers all played vital contributions to make Winter Wonderland possible. For more information on The Arc of San Diego, visit www.arcsd.com.

6. d. Moses climbed twice to get instructions and warnings before the Torah was given (Exo. 19:3-14). He climbed to get the first set of tablets (Exo. 31:18), again to ask forgiveness for the golden calf (Exo. 32:30-31), and again to get the second tablets (Exo. 34:4). 7. a. The hoopoe (duchifat) was voted Israel’s national bird on May 29, 2008, the 60th anniversary of the State of Israel. 8. d. The highest form of charity preserves the dignity of the beneficiary. Some Jewish charitable organizations, like Od Yosef Chai, specialize in giving charity in such a way that the beneficiary does not even realize he is receiving charity, such as by arranging for a “bonus” from a cooperating employer. 9. b. Many reasons are given why Nadab and Abihu died, including that they had consumed alcohol before entering, that their offering was not bidden, and that the fire had not come from the Altar. 10. d. Israel is the world leader at 87%. The second-place country is Spain, which recycles 20%. Israel has shared its expertise to help address water shortages around the world, from Egypt to California. _________________________________________ 0–2 Talmid/Talmida (Student) 3–5 Melamed/Melamedet (Teacher) 6–8 Talmid Chacham/Talmidat Chacham (Scholar) 9 – 10 Gaon/Gaona (Genius) _________________________________________ Your comments are welcome at Felber@Jewish-IQ.com ©2024 Felber, Starmark, Inc., all rights reserved. WWW.LCHAIMMAGAZINE.COM

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