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THE MONTH OF ELUL: TIME FOR AN ACCOUNTING OF THE SOUL
We have entered the Hebrew month of Elul, the time in which we traditionally commit to making our personal Cheshbon Hanefesh (accounting of the soul) prior to the High Holy Days. Reflecting honestly with ourselves about who we are, our successes, and particularly our shortcomings during this past year, is not an easy task. It is easy to attribute our negative behaviors to all sorts of excuses, such as:
“I’m tired, stressed, and overworked.”
“Life with my spouse has been difficult.”
“My kids don’t help with anything around the house.”
“I haven’t been feeling too well.”
Or you may convince yourself that there are other rationalization(s) for not behaving your best toward others in the past year. While some or all of these reasons may be actually be true, that does not excuse us for treating people—all people—with less than the respect that they deserve. Everyone—regardless of their position in our household or in the community—deserves to be treated with dignity, compassion, and kindness. It is
not up to God to forgive sins that we commit against our fellow human beings. It is up to us.
According to Jewish tradition, during this month of Elul as we approach the Jewish New Year, each of us is obligated to personally make amends with and request forgiveness from those we have in some capacity hurt. By the same token, if someone looks into his/ her/their heart and sincerely asks for forgiveness from us, we must ask ourselves whether or not we are prepared to let go of the hurt and the anger that has been inflicted upon us and say, “Yes, I forgive you.”
The Torah teaches us that if a person is sincere in repentance (“teshuva”), we are obligated to accept their apology. It is explicitly stated in the section known as the Holiness Code, “Do not seek revenge or bear a grudge against anyone among your people, but love your neighbor as yourself.” (Leviticus 19:18)
Yet sometimes forgiving others who have harmed us is just not possible. Some transgressions are so egregious that they cannot be forgiven, at least not at this point in our lives. In such cases, where does that leave us?
Rabbi David Evan Markus explained in Moment Magazine: “But ‘forgiveness’ isn’t absolution. We can ‘forgive’ even if someone doesn’t deserve it—because we ourselves deserve the peace that can come by releasing pain and grudges. That’s forgiveness. It doesn’t absolve wrongs or withhold justice but helps us live resiliently amid brokenness. It’s among our most powerful spiritual tools—and sometimes difficult to use.”
As we move through this month of Elul, let us wish each other peace and strength as we work toward reconciling with those we have hurt or who have hurt us over the course of the past year. This challenge is essential if we are to engage in an honest accounting of our souls. May the Holy One bless and support our efforts in this sacred interpersonal and spiritual task.
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Installation shot of the exhibit “Looted” in the National Holocaust Museum. PHOTO BY ANNEKE HYMMEN.
1000 WORDS
AMSTERDAM EXHIBIT FOCUSES ON NEGLECTED ASPECT OF THE HOLOCAUST: LOOTED JUDAICA
Stories about art looted during the Holocaust abound, but they tend to focus on major works by noted artists worth vast amounts of money.
“Beyond the masterpieces, there remains a largely hidden world of lesser-known looted items, from household goods that belonged to deported Jewish neighbors to objects from Jewish places of worship, community buildings and private libraries and archives,” according to the catalog accompanying the exhibition “Looted” (through Oct. 27) at the Jewish Museum and the National Holocaust Museum in Amsterdam.
The exhibit and catalog, “Dispossessed: Personal Stories of NaziLooted Jewish Cultural Property and Postwar Restitution,” are co-productions of Amsterdam’s Jewish Cultural Quarter and the Rijksmuseum, which is more than 225 years old, and among the world’s most visited and largest museums.
The show traces the stories of eight collections the Nazis seized: Leo Isaac Lessmann (Judaica), Franz Oppenheimer and Margarethe Oppenheimer (Meissen porcelain), Albert Heppner and Irene Marianne Heppner Krämer (paintings), the Bibliotheca Rosenthaliana (books), renowned illustrator M.C. Escher’s teacher Samuel Jessurun de Mesquita (art), Louis Lamm (books), Dési Goudstikker (widow of art collector Jacques Goudstikker) and Margarete Stern-Lippmann (art).
In the instance of the Heppners, who were German-Jewish refugees, the couple’s then-7-year-old son Max saw officials confiscate his parents’ collection. “I witnessed the theft with my own frightened eyes, even though I didn’t really know about everything that was at
issue,” he said, per the catalog. “All I knew was that my family’s space was being invaded and our family’s possessions were being stolen. Of course, later I learned that the Nazis also were scheming to take our lives.”
When German troops entered Amsterdam in May 1940, the Heppners tried in vain to flush “incriminating” documents down the toilet or to burn them on the stove. “In the end, they sank a pile of anti-Nazi magazines in a nearby canal,” per the catalog. “Around sunset, on their way back home, they saw many little fires burning elsewhere in their neighborhood,” adding that “anxious” neighbors were, like they, “harmoniously burning together the contraband.”
The collectors’ non-Jewish family doctor refused to bury their jewelry in his garden. “Our doctor was a good friend of the family. My mother trusted him fully. But when we were in need, he didn’t help us,” Max said, according to the catalog. “He said he wanted to comply with the new regime, and he thought it wise for everyone to do the same.”
“Chillingly,” the catalog adds, the doctor offered the Heppners poison, “because he suspected that things would not end well for the family.” Instead, they found others to hide their belongings. “A friend took charge of two of their silver candlesticks, on condition that she would not be expected to polish them. A washerwoman also helped to spirit some of their things away,” the catalog records. “According to Max: ‘Each time she came to collect our laundry, she would hide things in it that she would then keep safe at her home. At the end of the war, every single thing was given back—and that was by no means always the case.’”
Covers with household goods from Jewish inhabitants who were deported from Amsterdam, March 18, 1943.
CREDIT: NATIONAL ARCHIVES/COLLECTION SPAARNESTAD/ANP/DAAN NOSKE.
Mara Lagerweij, a provenance researcher at the Rijksmuseum and curator of the exhibition, said that the museum “has been conducting World War II provenance research since 2012.” (Provenance is the history of an object’s ownership.)
“This involves looking at all acquisitions from 1933 onwards,” Lagerweij said. “Currently, these reports are also being translated into English. Next year, a report will also be published on donations to the museum from German Jews who fled the country (Germany), often while simultaneously applying for Dutch citizenship.”
The collaboration between the Rijksmuseum and the Jewish Cultural Quarter “made two needs possible,” according to Lagerweij, “to make an exhibition on both art and Judaica and to work with historical locations.”
“Jewish Museum is a historical location from which the looting of books and Judaica took place,” she said. “National Holocaust Museum is a historical location where you can put looting in the context of the Holocaust (and) dehumanization.”
The catalog and the exhibit have a lot to say about what it means to people to be stripped of their prized possessions.
“The organized, systematic theft of property was one component of the process of the dehumanization of Jews during the Second World War that culminated with the Holocaust,” according to the catalog.
“Now that almost no survivors of the Holocaust remain, it is ever more important to keep telling the story of what happened to them,” it adds. “The Jewish Cultural Quarter and the Rijksmuseum are therefore committed to reconstructing and telling the stories of theft, confiscation or loss of property under duress from the Nazi regime, in order to perpetuate them as part of the Dutch history of the Holocaust.”
“For many years, the Netherlands remained stuck in the conceptual dichotomy of the right or wrong side in the war, and lived under the illusion that most of the Dutch had been involved in resisting the Nazi occupation,” added Emile Schrijver, general director of the Jewish Cultural Quarter, in the catalog.
“Acknowledging the many shades of gray between black and white was a taboo that it took decades to overcome,” Schrijver added. “Evidently, only the passage of time made it possible to face uncomfortable truths.”
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AN OUTPOUR OF LOVE
La Jolla Art & Wine Festival 2024
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Although the seasons change in America’s Finest City, life is almost always a summer breeze of pleasure and this year is no exception. Summertime will still be on tap as autumn begins with the opening of the annual La Jolla Art & Wine Festival on September 28 and 29!
The High Holy Days or Days of Awe are late this year so the festival is happening early. Not only will you be having a marvelous time, you will be helping children get better educations in La Jolla’s public schools, and that is a dream come true for festival founder Sherry Ahern.
IT’S ALL ABOUT THE GIVING
Ahern conceived of this weekend as a way to raise money to bring art and music to La Jolla public schools. People commonly and erroneously think children in La Jolla are all in private schools. However, La Jolla is not incorporated as its own municipality, so it has public schools. These schools are within the San Diego Unified School District—and the district says it does not have funds to provide the art and music children need. What is life without art and music?
This is why Ahern and Brenda Chand are the forces behind the La Jolla Art & Wine Festival Foundation, a non-profit organization. With great warmth and enthusiasm, Ahern shared that it is dedicated to the Jewish value of tzedakah, or giving back. The event proceeds will support art programs, bring in an art teacher and fuel art and music initiatives. The festival also gives back by bringing art to the community and promoting La Jolla merchants and the culture of La Jolla.
FREE FAMILY-FRIENDLY FUN
This family-friendly event features great fun for children. The Geppetto’s Toys Family Art Center features balloon twisting, dance performances, face painting, live entertainment and music. La Jolla Youth Robotics, The Living Coast Discovery Center, Seaside Arts Center, and Science Guys of San Diego are offering interactive installations and visual arts projects, a robotics installation and visual arts projects.
There is also a two-day silent auction that people can participate in using their mobile phones and there are pet adoption rescues that participate.
“It’s a day or a stay,” said Ahern. “Some people make a weekend of it so all the hotels and guest homes in the area are full. This has become a huge weekend for everyone.”
She is spot-on about that. There a so many things for people of all ages to eat, drink, do and see.
EXQUISITE ART
What makes this annual family-friendly festival so enjoyable is that it not only offers delightful tastes through its many refreshing beverages, it also perfectly pairs exquisite beer, wine and spirits with international art masterpieces from nearly 200 artists from the U.S., Mexico and around the world.
“This is a juried art show,” said Ahern. “We had so many great entries and the artists selected are some of the best in the world.”
Festival participants will have the opportunity to stroll Girard Avenue and other streets in La Jolla Village as they view and acquire quintessential pieces for themselves, their homes and offices. Mediums include ceramics, fine hand blown glass,
jewelry design, painting, sculpture, jewelry design, fine glass, ceramics, mixed media, photography and wood work.
Roy Kerckhoff is this year’s featured artist, a mixed media artist and photographer who integrates wooden, concrete and steel structures with naturally soft organic forms.
TASTY BEVERAGES
Beverages for connoisseurs of all types will be on display at the wine and beer garden, with Diego County regional wines as well as international vintages from dozens of wineries. But there is something for more than oenophiles. Breweries and distilleries will also offer beers and liquors that are painstakingly made from a diverse set of recipes.
In case you are unaware, San Diego’s local wineries have seen a steady increase in business (a new wine-tasting room is opening in La Mesa, next to Bougie’s Cheese Shop). San Diego also bears the distinction of having one of the most dynamic and exciting craft beer cultures in the United States of America.
Beer, spirits and wine merchants participating in the festival include local favorites Pali Wine Co., Bird Rock Fine Wine, Puesto, Boochcraft, IZO Spirits, Solento Tequila, and more.
All are welcome: Whether you are seeking to enjoy a tasty beverage as you look upon beautiful things or you are a sophisticated connoisseur seeking a beautiful piece of art, there is something for you here.
MUSIC? YES!
Yes, there will be dancing. That is because there will be footmoving, hip-shaking, head-nodding music of all types: guitar virtuoso Mark Langford, improvisational jazz duo Ride Share, operatic selections delivered by the San Diego Opera, versatile vocalist Maria Christina (pop, soul, ballads and more), multitribute R&B dance band Paradygm, Jimmy Buffet Tribute Band (hey, it will be 5 o’clock all weekend in La Jolla!), some reggae and dub from Top Stock, and much more entertainment will pump up the volume—you will be singing, dancing and moving to the groove.
YOUR TICKET IS WAITING!
Tickets for the ine & Beer Garden are priced at $50.71 for five tastings and $72.34 for 10 tastings. Prices include service fees. Viewing the art, enjoying the live entertainment and other events are free.
Prices will increase on the day of the event.
For more information, visit www.ljawf.com.
BARRETT HOLMAN LEAK IS AN AUTHOR, EDUCATOR AND THE CREATOR OF PLAYING TOGETHER PROJECT, A JEWISH NON-PROFIT WHOSE MISSION IS TO UNITE BLACK AND/ OR JEWISH SAN DIEGANS OVER A COMMON LOVE OF FILM, FOOD, MUSIC AND ART. SHE IS A FORMER TV/RADIO NEWS ANCHOR AND REPORTER AS WELL AS THE FORMER DIRECTOR OF A NON-PROFIT ORGANIZATION IN DENMARK WHERE SHE WORKED WITH DIPLOMATS FROM AROUND THE GLOBE TO CREATE LARGE-SCALE CULTURAL EVENTS. WHEN SHE’S NOT WORKING SHE MOTHERS SHALOM, SHILOH AND SHLOMO.
ABE ABRAHAM'S APPLE CAKE
BY TAMAR ROTHENBERG, MS, RDN
The delightful apple cake recipe is perfect for Rosh Hashanah and all year round. It’s totally foolproof and easy to make. We inherited this recipe from our good friend Abe Abraham, a renaissance man, who was born in Shanghai to Iraqi parents. A successful businessman, Abe was an amazing cook and a gracious host. He will always have a place in our hearts. And we’re pretty sure that this cake will earn a place on your table.
— Rachel and Sharon, @sephardicspicegirls
INGREDIENTS
4 large or 6 small Golden Delicious apples
5 tablespoons sugar
2 teaspoons cinnamon
4 eggs
1 cup oil
1/4 cup orange juice
2 1/2 teaspoons vanilla
1 1/2 cups sugar
3 teaspoons baking powder
1 teaspoon salt
3 cups flour
DIRECTION
1. Peel and slice apples into half-moons, combine in bowl with sugar and cinnamon. Set aside.
2. Preheat oven 350 F.
3. Combine wet ingredients in bowl using mixer until well blended.
4. Add remaining ingredients and mix until combined.
5. Batter will be very thick. Grease a tube or Bundt pan and pour half the batter into pan. Arrange half the apples without liquid, over the batter, then add rest of the batter and arrange remaining apples on top.
6. Bake 1 1/2 hours or until golden brown.
7. Let cool completely before removing from pan.
THE SEPHARDIC SPICE GIRLS, SHARON GOMPERTS AND RACHEL EMQUIES SHEFF, HAVE BEEN FRIENDS SINCE HIGH SCHOOL. THE SEPHARDIC SPICE GIRLS PROJECT HAS GROWN FROM THEIR COLLABORATION ON EVENTS FOR THE SEPHARDIC EDUCATIONAL CENTER IN JERUSALEM. VISIT SEPHARDICSPICEGIRLS.COM TO SEE MORE OF THEIR SEPHARDIC RECIPES WITH A MODERN TWIST!
This recipe was submitted by Sharsheret: The Jewish Breast and Ovarian Cancer Community is a national non-profit organization that provides free and confidential genetic and mental health counseling, emotional support, financial subsidies, and life-saving education to women, men and families of all backgrounds facing breast cancer, ovarian cancer, or at elevated hereditary risk. Visit sharsheret.org for more information.
Congregation Adat Yesherun
A Community Steadfast in Faith and Action
Congregation Adat Yeshurun is a warm and welcoming Modern Orthodox synagogue in La Jolla, Calif., deeply committed to Torah, Jewish identity, and the State of Israel. The congregation offers a non-judgmental environment where members from diverse backgrounds can grow in their practice and observance. Adat Yeshurun is a vibrant tapestry of people from across the United States and around the world, each bringing unique perspectives and cultural richness to our community.
Led by Rabbi Daniel Reich and his wife, Brooke, Adat Yeshurun provides spiritual guidance and support to all its members. Rabbi Reich’s dynamic leadership and the warmth of his family have infused the congregation with a renewed sense of purpose and connection. Through daily classes, the congregation offers intellectual and spiritual growth opportunities, inviting everyone to deepen their knowledge and commitment to Jewish life. Social programs further connect our
members, fostering a strong sense of belonging and community.
The tragic events of October 7 in Israel marked a turning point for all Jews, searing a profound sense of loss and resolve into our collective consciousness, much as September 11 did for Americans. In the wake of this catastrophe, Adat Yeshurun rose to the challenge, embodying the values that define our congregation.
Under the leadership of Mike and Karen Aron, a Terror Relief Fund was swiftly established to provide crucial support and supplies to those affected in Israel. This initiative, rooted in Adat Yeshurun’s unwavering commitment to the State of Israel, galvanized our community and beyond. Over $2 million dollars were raised, with contributions from both within and outside of Adat, ensuring that vital equipment and resources reached those in need timely and cost effectively. Members of our congregation, moved by the urgency of the situation, traveled to Israel during the conflict, offering support
Am Yisroel Chai. Adat Yeshurun and Shlomit
both on the ground and behind the scenes.
In addition, under the direction of President Brian Marcus and Gala Chairs Jane and Colin Scher, the community came together for the 2024 annual fundraiser. This event raised over $500,000, with $250,000 allocated to support the town of Shlomit. This small moshav, home to 500 pioneers, lies just half a mile from Egypt to the south and Gaza to the west. On October 7, Shlomit was viciously attacked, resulting in the loss of four brave souls, including Aviad Cohen, who left behind his wife, Dana, and their six children.
Adat Yeshurun extended a heartfelt invitation to Dana Cohen and Yedidya Harush to speak at the Gala, where their powerful testimony deeply moved and inspired all in attendance. Our congregation has committed to helping rebuild the synagogue in Shlomit, a symbol of resilience and faith in the face of adversity.
This is what Adat Yeshurun does—for our brothers and sisters in Israel, and for our community here in San Diego. We stand united, steadfast in our faith and actions, ensuring that the light of Torah and the spirit of Israel continue to shine brightly, even in the darkest of times.
Learn more at www.adatyeshurun.org.
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TEST YOUR JEWISH IQTM
1. Which of these Jews was chosen to be Time Magazine’s Person of the Century in the December 31, 1999 issue?
____ a. Sigmund Freud
____ b. Albert Einstein
____ c. Steven Spielberg
____ d. Jonas Salk
2. When King Solomon completed the First Temple, what was his prayer regarding gentiles who will come to Jerusalem to pray toward the Temple?
____ a. That their prayers should be answered
____ b. That their prayers should not be answered
____ c. That they should be forcibly converted to Judaism
____ d. That they should be struck down
3. About how many Jewish lives is Oskar Schindler, the hero of Spielberg’s Schindler’s List, credited with saving?
____ a. 12
____ b. 120
____ c. 1,200
____ d. 12,000
4. Holidays that are celebrated for one day in Israel are generally celebrated for two days outside Israel. Which holiday is celebrated for two days inside and outside Israel?
____ a. Rosh Hashanah
____ b. Shavuot
____ c. Shemini Atzeret/Simchat
Torah
____ d. None of the above
5. Which of these is not an expression of dismay?
____ a. Oy-yoyoy!
____ b. Oy vay!
____ c. Oy gevalt!
____ d. All of the above are expressions of dismay
6. About how old was Moses when he led the Jews out of Egypt?
____ a. 40
____ b. 60
____ c. 80
____ d. 100
7. Which malicious computer worm, thought to have been jointly developed by the U.S. and Israel, reportedly ruined one-fifth of Iran’s nuclear centrifuges, infecting over 200,000 computers and causing over 1,000 machines to degrade physically?
____ a. Stuxnet ____ b. TrojanDropper ____ c. Wiper ____ d. Bizatch
8. What is the correct chronological order in which these biblical figures were born?
____ a. David, Solomon, Saul, Ruth ____ b. Ruth, Saul, David, Solomon ____ c. David, Ruth, Saul, Solomon ____ d. Ruth, Saul, Solomon, David
9. In Israel, the expression, “Pa’am shlishit, glida!” (“Third time, ice cream!”), is closest in meaning to which of these?
____ a. If at first you don’t succeed, try, try again ____ b. What goes around, comes around ____ c. Third time’s a charm ____ d. A third-place prize is not worth much
10. Which Jew was orphaned and imprisoned in a Nazi slave labor camp as a seven-year-old, survived Buchenwald, immigrated to Mandatory Palestine knowing no Hebrew, and became Ashkenazi Chief Rabbi of Israel from 1993 to 2003?
____ a. Yitzchak haLevi Herzog ____ b. Shlomo Goren ____ c. Ovadia Yosef ____ d. Yisrael Meir Lau
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Inspiring Resilience
Sha'ar HaNegev
BY HEIDI GANTWERK
These days, “resilience” is often used to describe the psychological strength needed to cope with grief, hardship, and recover from difficult life events. This summer, I came face-to-face with true resilience and was left in awe.
It has been 11 months since Hamas launched its horrific October 7 attacks against innocent Israeli civilians. Since then, Jewish Federation of San Diego has been working tirelessly to help our sister region, Sha’ar HaNegev, rebuild and find hope.
For over 25 years, our Federation has nurtured a profound partnership with Sha’ar HaNegev, a region situated along the Gaza border that became the epicenter of the October 7 attacks. This summer, we welcomed two delegations from the region to San Diego for respite and healing.
The first delegation was a group of young adults in their 20s and 30s—their pain was palpable. Many struggled with the guilt of having survived the events of October 7 when their good friends, and in many cases, family members either died or remain in captivity. The visit allowed them to escape the stress of living in a country at war and the constant sadness they face back home. Their itinerary was a mix of experiencing Jewish life in San Diego, pure tourist fun, and emotional healing. Everywhere they went, they were embraced—even at Petco Park during a Padres game, where local fans recognized the Jewish stars on their hats and shouted their support.
Our second delegation consisted of social workers from Sha’ar HaNegev’s Department of Social Services. Despite experiencing the fear, loss, and chaos of October 7 firsthand, these dedicated
professionals continue to serve. The demand for psychological support services has risen by over 700% in the region, and as one social worker said, they have “filled themselves up with other people’s trauma,” leaving no room to process their own. We brought them to San Diego to help them find the emotional space to go back and keep doing their lifesaving work. Their days here were filled with enjoyable activities like cooking classes, kayaking, and private home dinners, thoughtfully paired with healing sessions, including group therapy, sound baths, and equine therapy.
These delegations were more than a gesture of friendship; they demonstrated the strength and depth of our long-standing partnership with Sha’ar HaNegev. Our connection has always been about mutual support and shared values, but this year, the context was profoundly different due to the events of October 7 and the ongoing conflict with Hamas.
The visits also emphasized the vital role we play in fostering healing for our brothers and sisters in Israel. Knowing that the San Diego community cares has been a source of comfort. As one social worker put it, “We now feel as though we always have a home in San Diego.”
As we look to the future, Federation remains committed to strengthening the ties between San Diego and Sha’ar HaNegev. These delegations have demonstrated that even in the face of unimaginable adversity, the spirit of resilience and connection can prevail.
HEIDI GANTWERK IS PRESIDENT & CEO OF JEWISH FEDERATION OF SAN DIEGO. LEARN MORE AT WWW.JEWISHINSANDIEGO.ORG.
ANSWERS TO TEST YOUR JEWISH IQ
1. b. Einstein is widely acknowledged to be one of the greatest and most influential physicists of all time. Dismissal of his theory of relativity in German education as “Jewish science” hampered Nazi development of the atomic bomb during World War II.
2. a. King Solomon prayed that the prayers of these gentiles should be answered “so that all the peoples of the world may know Your Name” (1 Kings 8:43).
3. c. The inscription on Schindler’s grave in the Catholic Cemetery of Jerusalem reads, “The unforgettable rescuer of 1,200 persecuted Jews.”
4. a. Rosh Hashanah is the time of the new moon on the first of Tishrei. In ancient Israel, witnessing and determining the time of the new moon in Jerusalem, and then communicating that information over great distances, was challenging. A two-day holiday ensured that one of the two days would be correct.
5. d. Oy! Don’t say you got this one wrong, did you?
6. c. 80. Moses died on his 120th birthday, after leading the Jews through the wilderness for 40 years.
7. a. Stuxnet reportedly compromised Iranian programmable logic controllers (PLCs), collecting information on industrial systems and causing the fast-spinning centrifuges to tear themselves apart.
8. b. Ruth, Saul, David, Solomon. Ruth was David’s greatgrandmother. Saul, David, and Solomon, David’s son, were the first, second, and third kings of the Children of Israel, respectively.
9. c. Third time’s a charm. This expression is also used when running into someone repeatedly during a day.
10. d. Rabbi Lau’s memoir, “Out of the Depths,” is a stunning account of his miraculous survival and ascension, foretold by Rabbi Menachem M. Schneerson, to one of the highest rabbinical posts in the world. His son, David Lau, became Chief Rabbi of Israel in 2013.
0 – 2 Talmid/Talmida (Student)
3 – 5 Melamed/Melamedet (Teacher)
6 – 8 Talmid Chacham/Talmidat Chacham (Scholar)
9 – 10 Gaon/Gaona (Genius)
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Blending Tradition and Inclusivity
Temple Adat Shalom Celebrates 50th Anniversary
Temple Adat Shalom of Poway is celebrating 50 years of community, love, and Jewish vibrance. As 2024 marks the temple’s 50th Anniversary, year-long events are being held through December.
The congregation—built upon a philosophy of inclusivity, diversity, and innovation—had its milestone year recognized by Poway Mayor Steve Vaus with a proclamation on behalf of the City Council stating, “Temple Adat Shalom has been a bedrock member of the Poway community, contributing to the growth, diversity, understanding, and health of our city and its citizens.”
The proclamation recognizes Aug. 24, 2024, as Temple Adat Shalom’s Golden Jubilee 50th Anniversary Day in the city. That day holds particular importance for the congregation of 350 families (from North County and across San Diego) because hundreds of members gathered to celebrate with a Jubilee Gala and other weekend-long events. The gala featured dinner and dancing, silent and live auctions, and a history project honoring five decades of Jewish leadership, faith, philanthropy, community service, education, and stewardship.
A Jubilee Erev-Shabbat Service was also held, led by Rabbi David Castiglione and Cantor Ben Rosner, honoring the temple’s past while celebrating its future. The Saturday morning service featured a Torah-thon with 50 congregants chanting from a Sefer Torah. It was followed by a Sunday brunch with a discussion panel that explored the history of Adat Shalom along with present and future endeavors.
The gala weekend, however, was just one opportunity for temple members to gather and celebrate its rich history. As an engaged congregation welcoming people from all backgrounds and dedicated to community service—including aiding the homeless, advocating for marginalized groups, promoting interfaith harmony, and improving the environment—Castiglione explained that Adat Shalom takes great pride in serving others year-round.
“We open our doors to everyone seeking spiritual growth, community connection, and shared learning experiences. Our congregation embraces diversity, welcoming individuals regardless of their religious background, ethnic heritage, gender, or personal journey,” he said. “We foster an inclusive environment free from judgment. Whether you’re of Jewish faith or not, our community provides a space where all can find fulfillment and belonging.”
HISTORICAL GROWTH
While embracing inclusivity, the synagogue remains rooted in Jewish tradition and values, guided by the ethical and moral principles central to Judaism. Its origins date back to 1974, when a group of local residents united under the banner of the “Bernardo Jewish Community.” These pioneers envisioned a center where people could come together to practice their faith, grow spiritually, and share experiences.At that time, the North County Inland area lacked synagogues, with most Jewish places of worship concentrated in downtown San Diego. This made the establishment of Adat Shalom particularly significant for the local Jewish community.
LOOKING AHEAD
As part of the 50th anniversary, the temple is creating a documentary chronicling its history. Rabbi Castiglione expressed optimism about the future, noting growth in their schools and a strong post-pandemic recovery of all events and services.
Temple Adat Shalom continues to be a vital part of the Poway community, blending tradition with innovation and inclusivity. “We not only continue to grow, we’re thriving,” Castiglione said. “We’re moving toward a bright future together.” FOR MORE INFORMATION ABOUT THE 50TH ANNIVERSARY CELEBRATIONS THROUGHOUT THE FALL AND WINTER, VISIT WWW.ADATSHALOM.COM OR CALL (858) 451-1200.
MEETJEW
AN INNOVATIVE, UNIQUE DATING EXPERIENCE FOR JEWISH YOUTH
BY DEBORAH VIETOR
Aaron Raimi graduated and bar mitzvahed in the Poway School District prior to attending college and in 2020, created MeetJew, a national dating service for young Jewish singles and a home for all your Jewish social needs. Combining national and international themed events with a matchmaking service, MeetJew has so much to offer Jewish youth, enhancing involvement in the Jewish community.
“My inspiration for starting MeetJew was I wanted Jewish college students to connect for the purpose of dating during the pandemic,” Raimi said. “I thought a Facebook group would be a perfect medium to build an online community since it is interactive and connects thousands of people. Our main priority is to bringing Jews together for the purpose of dating, marriage, networking, making friends and building community.”
Asked how Judaism informed his decision to create the organization, Raimi said he studied with Rabbi Mendy Rubenfeld through Chabad of Poway for his bar mitzvah, where he became connected to his Jewishness, adding depth and meaning to his life. He attended UC Santa Barbara, transferring to SDSU online during the pandemic. His biggest inspiration for MeetJew is his Zaide, who was a survivor of Auschwitz and lost his entire family, except for his brother in the Holocaust. He fought for the Haganah in 1948 for Israel following his survival.
Judaism is the foundation of MeetJew, sccording to Raimi.
“We believe strongly in Jewish continuity and reject intermarriage,” he said. “MeetJew’s focus is for Jews to marry and be plentiful, a commandment in the Torah.”
A community-based platform online, MeetJew is unlike a traditional swipe dating app, offering in-person events nationwide. MeetJew combines both aspects of a dating app and a real-life community akin to a local Chabad or an event production company. Anywhere from 200 to 500 people attend with events taking place at clubs, bars, private homes, shuls or event spaces. MeetJew has held events in California, Florida, New York, Massachusetts and Georgia. Currently, national themed events are in the works for Texas, Pennsylvania, Ohio, New Jersey and Washington, DC. International programs in 15 cities, including Israel have been held with great success. Jews of all backgrounds are included, from secular to Haredi Orthodox, united through a welcoming environment combining fun and tradition.
MeetJew offers a comprehensive Dating Survey, with over 10,000 users ensuring matches every two weeks via email. There are 72,000+ followers/members combined on social media platforms. Matches are based on compatibility and filtered via an algorithm heavily focused on users beliefs, values, life goals and interests. Currently, over 250 couples have met though MeetJew.
Raimi plans to offer additional services, including personalized matchmakers, dating/relationship coaching, building an app and positioning event coordinators in cities nationally. Fundraising will make MeetJew a community institution for years to come.
MEETJEW IS A 501(C)(3) FISCAL SPONSORSHIP NON-PROFIT. LEARN MORE AT MEETJEW.ORG
Steven Grutman and Brenda Hamicha, now engaged to be married in a few months, met through MeetJew.
HEADLINING ALL IN FOR ISRAEL EVENT
VETERAN ISRAELI DIPLOMAT AT DEL MAR FAIRGROUNDS
Several hundred San Diegans dedicated to supporting the land and people of Israel during these challenging times will unite at Jewish National Fund-USA’s “All in for Israel” event, taking place on Sunday, October 13, 2024, at the Del Mar Fairgrounds & Racetrack. The philanthropic soirée will honor the resilience of the people of Israel while highlighting bold and visionary plans to rebuild all that Israel’s enemies have torn down.
Veteran Israeli diplomat and current Senior Vice President of Jewish Broadcasting Service, Shahar Azani, will headline the event. Azani brings a unique perspective to his keynote speech, having previously served in Israel’s Ministry of Foreign Affairs for over 15 years and as the Executive Director for the Northeast Region at StandWithUs.
Azani will delve into crucial subject matters and focus on topics including lessons for a post-October 7 world, skyrocketing antisemitism, Israel’s status in the United Nations (UN), and his vision for a path forward.
“As we approach the one-year anniversary of one of the deadliest, darkest days in Israel’s history, we must continue to stand shoulder to shoulder and support our brothers and sisters in Israel,” Event CoChairs Myra Chack Fleischer, Mia Babson Goldklang, and William Rosenbaum said in a joint statement. “Before the ‘Black Shabbat,’ Jewish National Fund-USA was with the people of the Israel Envelope,
dreaming of endless possibilities and working to make those dreams a reality. Our promise remains unbroken.”
Local lay leaders will also provide an update about Jewish National Fund-USA’s Israel Resilience Campaign and “Build Together” plan to restore the southern Israeli communities in the Israel Envelope (formerly known as the Gaza Envelope), providing the infrastructure and quality of life needed to allow residents to feel safe coming home. The organization has raised $60 million to support the evacuation and relocation of tens of thousands of residents in Israel’s South while providing thousands more with housing, food, clothing, education, trauma therapy, firefighting and protective equipment for civil defense, and more (jnf.org/supportisrael).
FOR MORE INFORMATION OR TO REGISTER, VISIT JNF.ORG/ SDALLINFORISRAEL OR CONTACT MONICA SUISSA, JEWISH NATIONAL FUND-USA EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR, SAN DIEGO, PACIFIC NORTHWEST, AND RENO/TAHOE AT MSUISSA@JNF.ORG OR 858.824.9178 X858.
SHOOSKA SCENTED
CAR JEWELRY
Stephanie Wells, an internationally recognized jewelry designer, certified hypnotherapist, and neuroscience enthusiast, is the creator of Shooska Scented Car Jewelry—a beautiful, unique scented jewel for your car, designed to transform how you feel when you drive.
Stephanie brings a history of successful ventures to this new project. From 2001 to 2024, her previous business, Double Happiness Jewelry, was a globally recognized jewelry and home decor brand. Her designs graced the pages of numerous high-end fashion publications and adorned the ears, necks, and wrists of some of the world’s top celebrities including Oprah, Beyonce, Rachel Ray and Victoria Beckham, to name a few.
The idea for Shooska arose from personal tragedy. Stephanie’s sister was losing her battle with cancer, and Stephanie, along with her parents, was helping care for her during her final days. At that time, in addition to designing jewelry and home decor, Stephanie also created clean perfumes for people to wear. She would bring these fragrances to her sister, and she noticed how the scents would lift her sister’s mood. This experience, combined with her understanding of neuroscience, hypnotherapy, and brain function, led to a moment of inspiration, and Shooska was born.
Shooska’s purpose is to engage your senses while you drive, allowing your brain to rewire so that you can feel better. Shooska believes that time spent in your car can be used more effectively.
Shooska stands out as the first of its kind and is a quality crafted jewel that contains a metaphysical gemstone which holds a channel for
a perfume insert that contains a fragrance. It is designed to be placed on your car’s air conditioning vent, where it releases gentle whisps of fragrance that are neural enhancers. This dopamine-enhancing automobile décor creates a unique environment that boosts mood and enhances well-being. Importantly, all Shooska fragrances are free from toxins traditionally found in car air fresheners. Notaebly, Shooska is paraben-free, phthalate-free, SES- free, SLES-free, vegan, never tested on animals and the perfume insert is biodegradable.
“It’s been interesting to see how many different kinds of people love Shooska—from those into health and wellness, to those interested in decor, to people who love metaphysical gemstones, and those who use it as a tool for recentering while they drive.. It feels like Shooska is a tool that really resonates with people, helping them create their own happiness,” mentioned Stephanie.
This new company is named in honor of Stephanie’s sister—inspired by her sister’s old email address, “Shnooska,” with the “n” removed.
Shooska recognizes how important it is for those suffering to have loved ones around. In her sister’s honor, a portion of the proceeds from all Shooska sales will be donated to the La Jolla Family House at UC San Diego. The La Jolla Family House at UC San Diego Health provides hope and comfort for families with a loved one in long-term or critical care. Among the services offered are guest rooms for loved ones and friends, a community kitchen, community lounges, and other critically important amenities.
LEARN MORE AND SHOP AT HTTPS://SHOOSKA.COM.
mazel & mishagoss
THE TIME I WENT TO 6 DIFFERENT STORES FOR WATERMELON
At my best friend’s bris, my potluck assignment was to hollow out and carve a large watermelon into a clever Moses basket shape and fill it with the sweet red fruit. Easy, peasy! Right?
RALPHS: Seeing no watermelons on display, I ask for the produce guy. You’d think I requested an appointment with Ralph himself. First, I’m admonished there are females in the profession too, so the correct term is “Produce Person.” Then they page “Watermelon Walter” on the loudspeaker for ten minutes. Finally, I’m informed he’s taking his lunch break. At 9:30 a.m.? Of course he’s starved for lunch this time of day, they obviously made him skip breakfast. I spy Walter relaxing in the employee breakroom, legs crudely propped up on an oversized watermelon. “Watermelons are out of season. You won’t find a single one this side of SeaWorld,” he has the gall to proclaim, while hogging the last one as a footstool.
TARGET: There isn’t a “Produce Person” to be found here. But an overly helpful customer knocks on melons until I develop a migraine. She thumps each green oval for what seems like hours, sometimes to the tune of Knock, Knock, Knocking on Heaven’s Door” and “Knock on Wood.” I resist the urge to tell a Knock-Knock joke and instead ask if her knuckles are sore? “Don’t knock it till you’ve tried it,” she answers glibly. “Okay, just knock it off! I’ll take this one,” I say, grabbing the last melon she pounds on. At home I cut it
open to find complete mush.
SPROUTS: My issue with this store is I fear they’ll change the name of it while I’m still inside shopping. What’s up with their branding identity problem? I still refer to it as “Henry’s” or “Boney’s” and sometimes when I’m feeling frisky, I’ll even call it “Wild Oats.” My next problem (on the day I’m there) is I only see “Personal” watermelons. “Personal” applies to bikini waxes, diaries, and honeymoons, but fruit? I leave all the mini-sized melons to ferment.
TRADER JOE’S: You can always count on TJ’s to have a “1-price fits all” watermelon. None of this weighing it on a scale, using middle-school algebra “Let X=disgruntled shopper” formula nonsense. I chant aloud, “Not too mushy, mealy, mini, messy, meaty, mangy, mucky, or marginal.” A nosy customer calls me “Picky.” I justify myself, explaining it’s for a Moses Basket at a Jewish bris. I elaborate on what happens at a bris. “So you see, this watermelon can’t be too big or too small. Must be just right!” She says, “Well good luck, GoldilocksStein!” Alone with my phone, I google tips. “A watermelon should feel heavy for its size,” I read. Like there’s gonna be an underweight watermelon that some Yenta needs to fatten up with her kreplach? I finally pick one that has a creamy yellow splotch, certain that I’m triumphant. Alas, at home, it’s flavorless. This is not the watermelon hill I want to die on, so in the trash it goes.
VONS: Only heavily black-seeded watermelons here! Panicking, I consider carving a basket shape out of a banana, but quickly come to my senses.
GELSON’S: Wow. Has it really come to this? This fancy shmancy store intimidates the heck outa me and I feel totally unprepared. Kinda like shoe shopping at Nordstrom without a pedicure. Is there a dress code? Will customers be waltzing in the lavishly wide aisles? Will their free samples on the end caps cost money? Should I tip the “Produce Person? I’m immediately corrected on that term again – this time I’m told they’re called, “Fruit Facilitators.” But the one who helps me goes by, “The Wizard of Watermelon.” Okay, I might’ve made that last part up, but he graciously honors my request to slice one open in front of me. And…it’s perfect!
At the Bris, I proudly set my handiwork down on the buffet table as the hostess saunters over. “Didn’t you read the potluck list? We had two Stephanie’s, so we went by last name initials. Stephanie Wasserman was “W” so she was assigned watermelon. You’re Stephanie Gittleman, so you got Grapes. We also would’ve accepted Gouda cheese or even Gatorade.” Oy!
STEPHANIE D. GITTLEMAN WILL INJECT HUMOR INTO ANYTHING YOU HIRE HER TO WRITE. EMAIL HER AT THEQUOTEGAL@YAHOO.COM.
L-R: Nicholas Alexander (Frankie Valli), Anthony Carro (Tommy DeVito), Taubert Nadalini* (Bob Gaudio), Noah Archibald (Nick Massi).
TJERSEY BOYS
CENTER THEATER AT CA CENTER FOR THE ARTS, ESCONDIDO
hey were just four guys from Jersey, until they sang their very first note. They had a sound nobody had ever heard… and the radio just couldn’t get enough of. But while their harmonies were perfect on stage, off stage it was a very different story—a story that has made them an international sensation all over again. The show features all their hits including “Sherry,” “Big Girls Don’t Cry,” “Oh What A Night,” “Walk Like A Man,” “Can’t Take My Eyes Off You,” “Beggin’” and “Working My Way Back To You.”
Starring Nicholas Alexander as Frankie, Anthony Carro as Tommy Divito, Taubert Nadalini as Bob Gaudio and Noah Archibald as Nick Massi.
Donovan Mendelovitz plays several characters throughout the show but most notably Joe Pesci (yeah, that Joe Pesci). He grew up in the same neighborhood in New Jersey as Tommy DeVito and actually connected his friend Bob Gaudio with the band, leading to the formation of The Four Seasons.
When asked about how his Jewish background helps with his roles, Mendleovitz shared his insight as it relates to prior roles and his current role with Jersey Boys.
“For me, I think growing up in a Jewish household afforded me a really keen sense of humor and irony that I bring to all the characters I play. So much of Judaism is about sharing stories and understanding the legacy of our people, and that tradition has led me to love telling stories on stage.
“Jersey Boys sets the bar extremely high for musicals of its kind: a look at the true story of how these musicians became the rock and roll legends they are today. Their discography is the journey we watch unfold and we see these real people evolve along with their music. The team for this production is absolutely stellar and the cast is brimming with talent. Even if you didn’t grow up with The Four Seasons, you’ll hear a song and say “Hey! I know that one!” Audiences of all ages will have a great time at Jersey Boys and I guarantee that you’ll be jamming along in your seats.”
Jersey Boys premiered at the La Jolla Playhouse in 2004 and opened in New York on November 6, 2005. By the time it closed on January 15, 2017, it was the 12th longest running show in Broadway history, passing such original Broadway productions as 42nd Street, Grease, Fiddler on the Roof, and The Producers. Blessed by awards all over the world, Jersey Boys has been seen by over 30 million people (as of February 2024).
In collaboration with 3D Theatricals, CCAE Theatricals has produced the San Diego Regional Premiere of Jersey Boys.
Jersey Boys, The Story of Frankie Valli and The Four Seasons, directed by T.J. Dawson will run September 13 to October 6, 2024 at the Center Theater at California Center for the Arts, Escondido. Learn more at www.theatricals.org.
NEWS TO KNOW NOW
WHAT THEY'RE TALKING ABOUT
JEWISH FAMILY SERVICE OF SAN DIEGO URGES DONATIONS FOR ANNUAL HIGH HOLY DAYS FOOD DRIVE
One in four people in San Diego County are nutrition insecure –that’s 25% of all San Diegans. To help those in need of food, Jewish Family Service of San Diego (JFS) and its Center for Jewish Care are calling on the Jewish community to donate shelf-stable foods through its annual High Holy Days Food Drive.
“The High Holy Days Food Drive has repeatedly been the largest influx of pantry stable foods we receive all year long—thanks to the tremendous generosity of our Jewish community. This year, the community’s support is as critical as ever. The drive will help us restock our warehouse and the shelves of our Corner Market,” said JFS CEO Michael Hopkins. “Together, we can ensure our neighbors of all faiths, backgrounds and ages do not go hungry.”
This summer, JFS distributed almost 60,000 meals in just one month. Last year, this food drive brought in more than 20,000 lbs of non-perishable pantry staples, making a huge impact on the number of people JFS can serve. Those interested in contributing nonperishable food items to JFS’s High Holy Days Community Food Drive are encouraged to contact their closest synagogue or Jewish community organization to confirm their participation.
Donations can also be dropped off at the JFS Joan & Irwin Jacobs Campus at 8804 Balboa Avenue on September 30 and October 1 from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. Those interested in this option, must register in advance at www.jfssd.org/highholydays. Arrangements can also be made by email at tikkunolam@jfssd.org or by calling (858) 637-3264.
Story by Donald H. Harrison
PHOTO BY SHOR M. MASORI
Like a Jewish wedding, at which celebration is mixed with sad remembrance of the destruction of the Temple (as symbolized by the breaking of a glass under the groom’s foot), so too was this year’s annual luncheon on Wednesday, August 7, celebrating cooperation between the Jerusalem Zoo and the San Diego Zoo tinged with sadness.
Robert Price—whose Price Philanthropies invests in public projects in the City Heights neighborhood of San Diego as well as in the Aaron Price Fellows Foundation providing intensive leadership training for youth — memorialized Shai Doron, president of the Jerusalem Foundation, who died of a heart attack on Tuesday, July 30, while on a fundraising trip to London.
Price, whose philanthropy has underwritten programs and exhibits at the Jerusalem Zoo, said Doron was en route to London when they last spoke by telephone. Doron asked him if he thought that Vice President Kamala Harris had a chance of being elected as U.S. President following President Joe Biden’s withdrawal as the Democratic candidate on July 21. Price said he answered in the affirmative.
Doron served as founding director of the Jerusalem Zoo for more than a quarter century before becoming president of the Jerusalem Foundation six years ago. Price said he and his wife Allison considered Doron a member of their family, who had “a way of making it happen.” As an example, Price said Doron told him that food bills for the animals are much less than at other zoos. Doron explained to him: “We donated the animals to the religious community, and they have an obligation to take care of them.”
Judge Victor Bianchini emceed the event, which like 13 previous annual luncheons, served to introduce six Jerusalem Zoo-affiliated teenagers from Israel and six peer group members from the United States who go behind the scenes at the Zoo and Safari Park, and also visit other San Diego-area tourist attractions. Visitors from Jerusalem typically are both Arabs and Jews, and luncheon guests reflected that mix. Among them was Carol Elaly, the granddaughter of the late longtime Arab mayor of Bethlehem, Elias Freij, and members of her family.
DIEGO ZOOS’ FETE
Judge Victor Bianchini (left) and former Rep. Susan Davis (D-San Diego) flank students from Israel and San Diego participating in the exchange between the San Diego and Jerusalem Zoos.
