Golden Times, April 6, 2020

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APRIL 6, 2020 / VOL. 30, NO. 4


Birthday index: Page 4 ............................. Violet Opdahl Neva Matthews Theresa Sonnen Ron Jones

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Birthdays ....................................................................... 4 Coping with the COVID-19 pandemic ............5-7, 14-16 Letter from the editor ................................................... 3 Life on the Hill: Fond memories of Scouting ............ 13 Reader Essays ..................................................... 7, 10-11 Scam stopper: Tips on staying safe ............................ 12 Senior meals still being served ................................. 8-9 Sudoku puzzle/solution ........................................... 13/4 Volunteers urged to practice self-care ........................ 16

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ell, the news has been all grams have shifted to brown-bag coronavirus all the time pickup service, available to mobile since mid-March, and Golden seniors in the Lewiston, Clarkston Times is no exception. and Moscow (see the story and As we’ve hunkered menus on Pages 8-9). down at home to wait out Life as we know it has COVID-19, the Quad Citbeen severely curtailed, ies area’s regular senior but we’re resourceful, activities and events have we’re resilient and we’re toppled like dominoes: watching out for one an Senior centers are other. We adapt, and life closed. goes on: There’s eating,  Classes and meetings there’s drinking — some have been called off. are even making merry, FROM THE  Libraries are doing since birthdays are still a EDITOR’S DESK business online only (check thing (Page 4). Of course, out the “Moving Online” open-house celebrations story at inland360.com for are a no-go, so please a comprehensive list of send a card. Don’t lick the services and websites). envelope.  Congregate meals are While you’re at it, you postponed indefinitely. might also consider writing Thankfully, since we still need to to your peers who live in senior liveat, senior meals providers coning or nursing home-type settings. tinue to deliver meals to the home- In order to keep their residents bound. And sit-down lunch prosafe from COVID-19 and comply

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with federal regulations, facilities throughout the region have limited access to all but medical personnel and family in emergency situations. To combat loneliness, management suggests a number of ways loved ones can reach out (see the story on Pages 5-6). Writing to us is another useful way to combat cabin fever. We welcome reader essays of no more than 600 words about any subject of your choosing. Topics run the gamut from childhood memories, tributes, humorous experiences, politics and reflections on current events (find samples on Pages 7 and 10-11). If you have a flair for writing and have thought about contributing, now may be the perfect time. Essays may be emailed to goldentimes@ lmtribune.com or or mailed to Golden Times c/o Lewiston Tribune, P.O. Box 957, Lewiston, ID 83501. Staff members choose

Remembering who he was, drives us to care for who he is.

the best essays for publication as space allows. We also welcome story ideas. If you know of any local characters or programs that we should feature, let us know about them, too. If time is still weighing heavy on your hands, here are some other ideas that are helping my family while away the endless afternoons and evenings:  Play cards and games.  Keep your brain sharp with puzzles (find one on Page 13).  Crack open a book.  Pray or meditate.  Start a craft project.  Learn to play an instrument.  Go for a walk.  Get out in your garden. And remember, we’re all in this together. Breslin is the editor for Golden Times. She can be reached at jbreslin@ lmtribune.com or (208)848-2241.

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Violet Opdahl was born to Leonard and Doris Mino in 1930 on a farm in Iowa. She attended school at Grant Township Consolidated School there, and was valedictorian of her class in 1947. She earned a teaching degree from Waldorf College in 1949. At college, she met Duane Opdahl, who’d just returned from serving in the U.S. Army in Italy. She taught elementary school for a year, then they married July 8, 1950, and lived on the Opdahl family farm in Freeborn County, Minn. Violet taught at the local one-room school for the first year of their marriage. Their five children were born while they lived there. Other family includes 10 grandchildren and six great-grandchildren, with two on the way. In 1976, Duane and Violet moved to Pierce, to join eldest son, Dennis, daughter-in-law, Jill, and Duane’s brother, Harlan. Violet worked at First Security Bank for five years and then served as secretary/ bookkeeper at Timberline High School in Weippe for 15 years. She and Duane also coowned Triple “O” Outfitters for a few years. Duane died in 2006, and in 2007 Violet moved to Lewiston, where she is enjoying retirement. Her family plans to hold a birthday celebration on April 18.

Neva Matthews, of Lewiston, was born in 1925 to Loyd and Florence (Chambers) Moon at their home in Woodland, Idaho. Neva married Wandle Matthews in October, 1941. They raised their four children — Shirlene Yates, Larry Matthews, Carol Jordan and Linda Brewer — in Lewiston, Woodland and Kamiah. Other family includes nine grandchildren and many great- and great-great-grandchildren, with the latest arriving a few weeks before Christmas. Later in life, after Wandle’s death, Neva married Earl Emery of Woodland. He also is deceased. Neva has been involved with veterans organizations and senior citizen groups in the Lewiston-Clarkston Valley. She attends senior coffee-cookie times and potlucks and enjoys sharing her homemade pies, noodles, cakes and jams. She loves music and can be seen at most of the area dances, dancing up a storm. She always has coffee on the stove and a cake, cookies or pie ready anytime family or friends stop by for a visit. Plans for a celebration are pending.

Theresa Gabriella (Uptmor) Sonnen, of Cottonwood, was born in Keuterville on Easter Sunday in 1930. She graduated from St. Gertrude’s Academy in Cottonwood and later graduated from Kinman Business School in Spokane. She married Everett Sonnen on April 11, 1951. They were married for 65 years, until his death Jan. 10, 2017. They raised their five children in Cottonwood. Other family includes 14 grandchildren and 18 great-grandchildren, with two more on the way. Theresa enjoys playing bridge and pinochle, and she bowled when Cottonwood had a bowling alley. She also enjoys traveling and visiting with family and friends. A birthday celebration will be held at a later date.

Ronald F. Jones of Lewiston was born in 1921 to Sol and Sarah Jones on the Garrett Ranch at Nezperce. He grew up on Cherrylane Ranch, Lenore, rode a horse to Myrtle Grade School and graduated from Lewiston High School in 1939. Ron served in the 4th Armored Division in Europe during World War II. He was a selftaught telegrapher and worked for the Camas Prairie Railroad Company for 42 years as auditor/freight agent in Headquarters, Grangeville and Lewiston, retiring in 1980. He was mayor of Lewiston from 1970-74, and he has been active in the community and state through multiple clubs, charities, civic organizations and the Congregational-Presbyterian Church of Lewiston. In 77 years of marriage, he and Mildred have enjoyed fishing, camping, traveling, golfing and many trips south for the winter. They have followed closely the activities of their five children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren and great-great-grandchildren and remain active with friends. Ron is still driving, and he and Millie remain in the home they built in the ’80s. He loves gardening, and takes pride in his roses, dogwoods and tomatoes. He’s a candlemaker, peanut brittle connoisseur, has built two homes, helps with repair requests and keeps up with current events.

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Coping, caring amid the specter of COVID-19 Local senior care facilities strive to keep residents safe, connected amid protective pandemic measures A grandfather and grandson connect through a pane of glass. Local assisted living facilities and nursing homes have virtually eliminated face-to-face contact between residents and their friends and family to minimize the risk of catching coronavirus. Homes are encouraging loved ones to call and video chat instead.

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eeping ailing people safe, healthy and happy during their final years can be a daunting task in the best of times. And recent weeks have not been the best of times. Care facilities for our frailest are facing shortages of supplies and staff, and residents have been cut off from direct family support under strict isolation measures. “It’s a crazy time Michelle of life,” Fowler Michelle Fowler summed up. She is a registered nurse at Golden Girls and Living Spring residential care facilities in Lewiston. In a recent phone call, she credited the homes’ “incredible staff ” of about 30 with finding creative ways to cope as they strive to shield their 19 residents from COVID-19 exposure and mitigate social isolation. She owns the homes with her husband, Lucas, and runs them with her mother-in-law, administrator Pat Fowler. All three live in Lewiston. Pat, Lucas and the late Marcus Fowler founded the homes.

STOCKING THE SHELVES “Finding supplies has been our biggest challenge right now,” Michelle Fowler said. The homes must be prepared to provide isolation areas with personal protective equipment for staff and patients M O N D A Y, A P R I L 6 , 2 0 2 0

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— including masks, face shields, gowns and booties — and “it’s incredibly difficult to get gowns and masks right now.” Sterile gloves, incontinence supplies, hand sanitizer and disinfectant wipes are scarce too. “We’ve been able to find bleach, so we’ve just been using our own (disinfectant) solution,” Fowler said. Other supplies aren’t so easily replaced. “If this becomes an 1800s-type (situation), we could use cloth masks and gowns,” she said, “but they wouldn’t be sterile” and they would greatly increase the laundry burden.

For one critical tool there is no reasonable substitute: “We use thousands of gloves just in normal use,” Fowler said, and the need is likely to increase substantially in the event of a COVID-19 case. Suppliers are having trouble keeping up with demand, even though certain supplies, such as masks, are being reserved solely for medical care providers, Fowler said, and aren’t being sold online for personal use. A two-day turnaround is the norm for supply delivery to Golden Girls and Living Spring, but deliveries are about six days out during the current crisis, “and GOLDEN TIMES

our stocks are dwindling.” Meal-planning has grown difficult as grocery stores struggle to stock shelves. All menus need to be dietitian-approved, and food shortages have required last-minute substitutions that then must be resubmitted and checked for nutritional value. Shopping trips themselves are no picnic in the current atmosphere. Fowler urges community support for caregivers instead of the judgment she has sometimes gotten while pushing a mounded cart through the aisles. “We’re shopping for 19 people. We’re not hoarding; we’re just trying to take care of

(our) people, I promise.”

STAFFING THE HOMES Maintaining adequate staff has been difficult. “The CDC (Centers for Disease Control) and the Department of Health and Welfare gave us guidelines last week that we are to limit all visitors to essential staff,” such as caregivers, nurses and doctors, Fowler said in the March 20 interview. “Any of our visitors or staff now have to be screened before they can even enter the facility.” The screening includes a questionnaire asking about a visitor’s current health and whether they’ve been around anyone exhibiting symptoms of illness. Temperatures are taken, and anyone with a temperature of more than 100.4 is denied entry. Caregivers who might develop a sudden sore throat or other symptoms of illness while at work must immediately put on a mask and a new worker must be called in. Those rules, coupled with extra caution taken at the start of allergy season, when many of us are coughing and sneezing, have left the homes stretched thin. So far, the caregiving team has really pulled together Fowler said, with people willing to take extra shifts and “everybody playing different roles” than normal to cover all their bases. “But I can see (staff exhaustion) on the horizon,” she said, “and we’re actively trying to hire, as

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> Loneliness: The taboo public health threat There is a public health threat looming across the United States that’s not visible to most but affects nearly half of all Americans daily: loneliness. Social isolation is as bad for your health as smoking 15 cigarettes a day and is twice as harmful as obesity. Worst of all, loneliness is a contributing factor in senior suicides, which are rising in the U.S. While it is not something people like to think about, now more than ever, Americans must remove the stigma around mental health and spread awareness to better combat loneliness. About 12 million Americans older than 65 live alone, and the time of year when a lack of companionship and isolation is most palpable is winter, when travel challenges can keep them from attending family gatherings or the harsh weather deters them from venturing out for a social event. Although we’ve turned the corner into spring, seniors now face the additional challenge of an enforced isolation period to help prevent the spread of COVID-19. Prolonged loneliness can quickly manifest into more serious issues. Loneliness doesn’t have to be synonymous with getting older or with aging in place. Here are tips on how to help keep loneliness and its negative health effects at bay: EARLY INTERVENTION: Spotting loneliness in yourself or someone you love can be difficult. The most common physical and behavioral signs of loneliness include persistent sadness, impaired cognitive performance, lower self-esteem or lack of motivation and energy. Early intervention can positively affect one’s quality of life, so it’s important to address these symptoms as soon as possible before they become overwhelming. USE TECHNOLOGY: Technology can play a key role in reducing loneliness, ensuring seniors are always connected to loved ones and care teams who can monitor and interact with them. Keeping in touch with loved ones remotely has never been easier thanks to email, video chatting, texting and phone calls (see the related story “Distant Socializing” at inland360.com for the best apps). GET OUTDOORS: Going outside for a walk, bike ride or gardening helps keep up strength and increases the brain’s feel-good chemicals. Being in nature has also found to be calming and provide numerous health benefits. Just be sure to stay 6 feet away from people you meet. BUILD A NETWORK: As soon as possible, when the current ban on gathering is lifted, connect with people. Having friends, purpose and passions helps eliminate feelings of isolation. Consider organizing or joining a book club or a group fitness class. Explore local activities organized by a senior community center (check out www.cityoflewiston. org and click on the Parks and Rec tab, then the 50+ Active tab) or find a National Council of Aging program through www.ncoa.org/ncoa-map. — NAPS news service

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LEFT: A flag flaps last month in front of Living Spring Residential Care in Lewiston, where residents are confined during ongoing isolation measures. Only carefully screened medical and care staff are allowed into the building. RIGHT: Birds enjoy a snack at a bird feeder situated outside a window. Staff added the feeders and flowers to help bring the outdoors indoors for the residents, who are largely cut off from friends and family during the pandemic.

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well as spreading out shifts so no one gets overwhelmed.”

A SENSE OF ISOLATION Residents’ mental health also weighs heavily on caregivers’ minds. “Almost all family members or friends of our residential homes have not been allowed to come into the facility since (March 15),” Fowler said. Loved ones are allowed in only in cases where “end of life is imminent,” and only if they are able to pass the health screening. “Most of our residents have a cognitive impairment, either dementia or Alzheimer’s, and have limited mobility,” she said. “So, yes, we do have to tell the story each day, several times a day about why their family members aren’t here.” Even within the homes, human contact is minimal. There is no more communal dining as residents are required to stay 6 feet apart. The sudden loss of social connection remains disorienting for some. But most take it in stride once the situation is explained, Fowler said. “Most of our residents have a World War II mentality: You GOLDEN TIMES

don’t complain. They’re more worried about us, don’t want to be a bother — they’re very community-minded.”

“We have a couple of tech-savvy residents,” she said, “and most all of our staff is very tech-savvy.” For those families who are less comfortable with video BATTLING THE LONELINESS conferencing, staff encourage phone calls, letters and even To minimize the sense of brief visits through an open isolation, the staff is helping window — from 6 feet away. residents write letters and “I feel like we’re supportsend cards. They’ve stepped up efforts to engage residents ing the entire family,” Fowler said. “Many of our residents’ with extra activities and crechildren are elderly, so we’re ated a cheerful atmosphere, trying to encourage social diswith bird feeders and flowtancing for them as well.” er baskets outside resident She recently heard from windows, colorful balloons a nurse at a larger longterm and music from the Big Band care facility of a family who era. Some staff members and residents have begun sharing gathered outside a resident’s hidden musical talents to keep window and held up signs to cheer her. things fresh as well. “I’m a Christian wom“Music is a wonderful tool an, so I’m just encouraging for cognitive impairment,” our families of faith to keep Fowler said. “We ask them, praying for peace through this ‘When have you heard this?’ time,” Fowler said. “It’s been or ‘Who sings this?’ or ‘Did a peaceful transition for the you know Bing Crosby?’ or most part.” ‘Did you ever dance to this?’ And keep reaching out. ” The music and questions “Continue to make the phone tend to bring residents back calls,” and send lots of mail,” to the 1940s and ’50s often she said. “This is a generation trigger stories of their lives who really values a well-writfrom that time. ten letter or a beautiful greetStaff also encourage and ing card. foster distance communi“Throw a CD in the mail ... cation with loved ones. For a favorite novel, fuzzy socks, residents without access to comfort items, herbal tea — a smart phone or computer, just anything to let them know the staff sets up times for they’re not forgotten and residents to video chat with (family members would) love loved ones using a sterilized to be here if they could.” facility tablet. M O N D A Y, A P R I L 6 , 2 0 2 0


spread of the coronavirus. Now, I can only leave if I have a doctor’s appointment. My daughter can pick me up but has to wait outside the building until I join her. When we return, I have to say goodbye outside, because only I can reenter the building. Once inside, my temperature will be taken before I can return to my apartment. One bright spot is mealtime: The food is wonderful here, and we sit at tables for four and visit and discuss the boredom of the lockdown. Last night, we enjoyed our choices for dinner. A tall waiter approached our table and asked Bob, Charlene, Eva and me if we would like some mousse. “Moose?” questioned Bob. “We’ve had our dinner and you didn’t offer moose.” “I have dessert for you,” was the tactful reply. At other tables I heard him quietly offering chocolate pudding.

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Many activities have been eliminated for the good of all. No more planned card games, trivia, chapel service, communion, exercise class, family and pet visits — even the hair salon has been closed. No foot care appointments are allowed. All this to protect us from that deadly virus. We are the most vulnerable age group, and we can only be grateful that we are living here — even with all the restrictions. We will be all right. Protected as we are, we are left to entertain ourselves. There is a huge library here, we have TV and the internet, we get the newspaper and other periodicals, puzzles we can work on in the library. Some of us like to write, play an instrument, engage in our own exercise routine, or best of all, simply sink into our favorite chair and take a nap. Those in charge here, and God, are taking good care of us. — Ruth Bosserman, 91, Evergreen Estates, Clarkston

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501 Cedar St., Nezperce, (208) 937-2465, noon on Mondays and Thursdays.

695 Main St., Pomeroy, (509) 843-3308, meals at noon on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays.

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104 S. Sixth St., Kendrick, (208) 289-5031, meals Orchards United Methodist from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. on 1213 Burrell Ave., Wednesdays and Fridays. Lewiston, (208) 743-9201, Kamiah Senior Center meals at noon on Mondays, Tuesdays and Wednesdays. 125 N. Maple St., Kamiah, (208) 935-0244, Orofino Senior Center meals at noon on Mondays, 930 Michigan Ave., Wednesdays and Fridays. Orofino, (208) 476-4238,

Potlatch Senior Citizens Meal Site, 645 Pine St., Potlatch, (208) 875-1071, meals at noon Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays.

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1424 Main St., Lewiston, (208) 743-6983, meals at noon on Mondays, Tuesdays and Wednesdays.

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Cottonwood Community Hall 506 King St., basement, Cottonwood, (208) 792-2465, meals at noon Tuesdays.

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Pullman Senior Center 325 SE Paradise St., Pullman, (509) 338-3307, meals at 11:45 a.m. on Mondays and Fridays.

(208) 877-1717, meals at noon on Tuesdays.

United Methodist Church 313 Second St., Asotin, (509) 758-3816, meals at 11:45 a.m. on Tuesdays, Thursdays and Fridays.

Valley Community Center 549 Fifth St., Clarkston, (509) 758-3816, noon Tuesdays, Thursdays, Fridays.

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Senior meals available for pickup or delivery and volunteers, safe, is vitally important,” Board President Claudia Jones wrote in a recent email, noting that the program is adhering response to COVID-19 Pandemic safety measures, to federal and St. Joseph Regional congregate meal sites have Medical Center guidelines. “If been closed throughout the Quad you are healthy and able to drive during this time, please sign up to Cities areas. According to news help deliver meals.” releases from area meal providMeals are prepared at the hosers, some still are offering lunchpital and are delivered by volunes for pickup or delivery. teers between 11 a.m. and 1 p.m. To minimize contact with the year round. Cost is $3.50 per day homebound, meal delivery drivers are knocking on doors, setting for a hot meal and $4.50 per day bagged meals down on client porch- for a sack lunch. ï Lewiston’s Senior Nutrition es, then waiting in their cars to make sure bags are picked up, according Program, (208) 743-6983, continto WA-ID Volunteer Center Execu- ues its normal home deliveries five days a week for homebound tive Director Cathy Robinson. ï Valley Meals on Wheels, (208) clients. Brown-bag lunches are available for pick up from noon 799-5767, continues providing to 1 p.m. Mondays and Tuesdays home-delivered meals. and from 11:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. “Our seniors and home-bound Wednesdays. The lunches are neighbors are among the most vulnerable in our community and distributed curbside on the east keeping them, as well as our staff side of the Community Center,

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1424 Main St. Cost is $5 for those younger than 60, and $4 is suggested for those 60 and older. Preordering isn’t necessary. ï The Senior Round Table Nutrition Program which normally serves meals in Clarkston and Asotin continues to serve homebound clients. Mobile seniors can pick up meals at the Valley Community Center drive-through. Meals are available at noon Tuesdays, Thursdays and Fridays; preordering isn’t necessary. Cost is $7 for people younger than 60, and a $4 donation is suggested for those 60 and older. More information is available by calling (509) 758-3816. Program managers also are seeking to raise additional money to support the program, according to an email from Senior Round Table Site Manager Chrystal Wiese. “We had quite a deficit for 2019,” she wrote, “and if we can’t raise some funds, I am unsure what will

happen to the site and the many homebound seniors we deliver to as well as the seniors that join us for our congregate meal site.” Checks made payable to Senior Round Table Clarkston can be sent care of Valley Community Center, 549 Fifth St., Clarkston, WA 99403. ï The Friendly Neighbors meal service in Moscow is continuing its home delivery program. Mobile seniors may pick up “graband-go” lunches at the back door of the 1912 Center meal site at 412 E. Third St. Seniors must sign up for either service by calling Friendly Neighbors President Bill Terrio at (208) 310-3779. Meals are available at noon Tuesdays and Thursdays at a cost of $7 for those younger than 60 and a suggested donation of $5 for those 60 and older. More information can be found at http://users. moscow.com/srcenter.

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ack in January 2000, my employer assigned me to a position in a department that makes .22 caliber ammunition. Few would consider the work to be very easy. The pieces are small and the pace is fast. Just the same, most people catch onto the techniques and routine after a few weeks. Well, two months into working in the area, I still wasn’t fast enough. I was having a negative impact on my coworkers on that assembly line and the entire department. I didn’t want things to be so. I felt like I gave my job everything I had, from starting time to quitting time every single work day. But let me tell you, 10 hours of that kind of frustration and futility day after day really beats a person down. There were days when I’d walk out the exit at quitting time thinking, “I’m not sure I can face this again tomorrow.” And indeed,

it was not uncommon for new workers in that area to come to work for a day or two and, without saying a word to anybody, never come back — sometimes even leaving part way through their shift. For the most part, my coworkers were supportive. I still count many friends among those I worked with during that difficult time. Most of them remembered well enough their own struggles and adjustments to learning the job. Management, however, was a different story. When the numbers didn’t jibe and an employee who was contributing to the problem could be identified, that person was fired for unsatisfactory performance. There was no reassignment to an area where their strengths and talents might be better utilized. It was a case of, “If you can’t perform here, you can’t perform anywhere.”

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Nothing personal, just “empty out your locker, turn in your badge, and the guard will walk you to the gate.” I had been formally warned that, unless I could “pull it together,” this humiliating fate awaited me — no pressure! Apparently my supervisor had made up his mind that he needed to act with respect toward me. He was chatting with a couple of his more experienced line workers, saying that he was going to call me into his office and give me the bad news, when one of the women spoke up. “Let me work with him for a couple of weeks,” she said. “He always comes to work. He has a good attitude. He seems to be trying hard. I just can’t believe we can’t get him up to speed.” Perhaps somewhat begrudgingly, in light of how long they’d already been nurse-maiding me, my supervisor said, “Go ahead.” I’d worked on the same line as Jenny quite a bit

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the previous month. She was a little bitty thing — probably didn’t weigh 100 pounds soaking wet. A little older, she had a reputation for being a little gruff at times. My retraining began with a couple-minute conference with her. She told me exactly where I stood and that we had, at most, a couple of weeks to improve me enough that I wasn’t a liability. For the next two weeks, Jenny worked next to me on the assembly line. She had a quick trigger if she saw me wasting motion or time or not doing things correctly — and a sharp tongue if she thought the dull one wasn’t getting through. Some — perhaps many — would’ve resented the way she treated me or the things she said, but I never did. Even then, I understood she was pushing me because she wanted to see me succeed. I tried to take everything to heart. There was no particular reason for Jenny to give a damn about what became of me. She’d

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worked on the lines for years. She’d seen many people come and go. I was no different from any of them. She probably knew I was supporting a family, but so were many others who’d been let go in the past. She might have known that, during the time we worked together, my infant son had a health crisis that took him to death’s doorstep. She had absolutely no way of knowing that doctors were working to treat me for some serious longterm sleep disorders. That entailed what seemed to be a constantly changing regimen of prescription medicines that either didn’t work or didn’t wear off soon enough for me to be alert. It wasn’t uncommon for me to arrive for my 12-hour shift on two or three hours of fitful sleep — through no fault of my own. Don’t get me wrong, this isn’t a pity party. Everyone has adversities he or she must overcome — those were just some of mine. Jenny’s efforts were successful. My proficiency and, perhaps more importantly my comfort level, improved. When my probationary period ended, the boss was satisfied with my progress and I was retained and promoted to a six-year stint on night shift, bringing one of the most difficult periods of my life to a merciful close. In the 12 years since Jenny helped save me from the company scrap heap, I’ve had the good fortune to be a valued and productive member of four departments. I can say with reasonable confidence that my efforts and contributions have M O N D A Y, A P R I L 6 , 2 0 2 0


a good chance I won’t see her again and that she will never see this essay. It might not even be for her benefit as much as for people who might see it and be reminded that sometimes, when we least expect it, our actions can have a bigger impact than we could ever imagine.

Jenny wished to read it. He got her contact information and completed the circle of friendship. “So Jenny,

here’s to you,” he writes. “You’re a friend I didn’t know I had, and I’m an admirer you didn’t know you had.”

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“I think we’re not as stressed as some of the younger people,” Allison said. “We know that we’re all going to come out of it. Well, some of us won’t, but most of us will, and we’re all going to be better off for it.” Allison says she’s reminded of rationing in World War II and the polio epidemic that sickened her brother in the 1940s, when swimming pools and movie theaters were closed and families kept Jacquelyn Martin/Associated Press Mark Andersen, 60, co-director of the nonprofit organiza- children close to avoid that tion, “We Are Family DC,” organizes groceries and food to be virus. So far, she says, it’s not all that different from brought to seniors last month in Washington, D.C. growing up in Buffalo, of the National Museum the main inconvenience N.Y., when blizzards often of Dance, who turned 90 of social distancing is not brought life to a halt. on Friday. She lives with getting to celebrate her Kathryn Betts Adams, one of her daughters and birthday with other family a gerontology consultant a teenage grandson in members, including two and former associate Asheville, N.C., and says great-grandchildren. professor of social work

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making her more vulnerable to coronavirus. So on doctor’s orders, she has stopped making deliveries. She has also stopped walking outside for exercise and instead strolls her apartment building’s hallways for 35 minutes each day. Her daughter and grandson live in the building so she doesn’t feel isolated. Crossword puzzles, studying her Bible, cooking and watching TV keep her busy. Brown takes the small

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Volunteers, take care of yourselves Cathy Robinson has a message for all volunteers: If you’re in the age group that’s vulnerable to corona virus, or if you have an underlying medical condition, please stay home and wait this out. “The vast majority of volunteers in this valley is seniors,” she said, “because everyone else is working or in school.” Robinson, executive director of the WA-ID Volunteer Center, noted that not much is going on anyway under the current isolation measures, so the need for volunteers isn’t great. The exception to that is senior meal delivery,

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