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CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Theresa Adams Joyce Alexander Dr. Tasha Boone Ruth Chapman Pastor Mark Crumpton Dr. Briana Davis Lori Samples Duncan Dr. Amy Rawl Epps Jackie Grizzard Ashby Jones Gretchan Reynolds Mandy Rivers Tyler Ryan Rebecca A. Williams-Agee

COVER PHOTO Clark Berry Photography

DESIGN Melissa W. Morris

2 It’s all about Heart!

Events

3 What’s Happening in Lexington?

Things We Love!

4 Things We Love about Lexington!

Let’s Talk

7 At the Heart of It All 8 New Year’s Resolutions 10 A Heart-healthy Recipe:

Chipotle Grilled Shrimp

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Lexington Woman Welcomes a New Little Lexington Lady! Heartbreaking Statistics on Domestic Violence Heart for the Community The Infamous “List”! Now at Cotton Grill SC’s First Female Governor

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Lexington Medical Center’s First Leading Ladies Doctor of My Heart The Calling It’s a Family Affair for Dr. Melissa Backman

Lexington Love Stories 31 32 34 35 36

Theresa and Shannon A Love Story Sally and Michael Gretchan and William Hema and Sudhir

Heart Health 38 41 42 43 44

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Home is Where the Heart Is Getting to the Heart of the Matter The Beat of Quality Health Care Heart for Her Patients Cardiac Rehab at Vital Energy

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Business & Web Directory 47 Contact our advertisers

A Personal Note 48 A New Heart

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his issue of Lexington Woman is a labor of love. Valentine’s Day is not the only day in February filled with heart. It is also Heart month. More women every year die of heart disease than all five major cancers combined. Dr. Amy Epps of Columbia Cardiology says one in four women will die this year because of Heart Disease. Because you spend so much time taking care of others, we want to inspire you to do something for yourself. In this issue you will read our cover story about Mrs. Terry Gladfelter and her brush with death, and food writer Mandy Rivers shares a heart healthy recipe with you. We hope you will make a decision to join us on February 22nd at The Cotton Grill for the first annual Scarlet Party!!! All proceeds will benefit the American Heart Association’s Red Dress campaign.

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We know February is about more than your physical heart, so we included some content for the emotional side of your life sustaining organ as well. We have included some Lexington Love Stories from some local ladies, not just the romance kind but the friendship kind. In fact, this February I am celebrating my sixteen year anniversary with my very own Valentine, my loving husband, Trent, who just so happens to have been born on Valentine’s Day! (Happy Valentine’s Day to me!) Don’t forget to read our update on the Poston Family – we have some good news to share with you. It is always our goal to bring you the best of the best in Lexington. Let our advertisers know that you heard about them in Lexington Woman magazine. It is the support of our vision that allows this issue of Lexington Woman to be complimentary to you. Congratulations to Lexington Medical Center on celebrating their 40th anniversary this year! Of course Lexington Woman magazine has heart! You can see that in every issue in our thriving Survivor stories. In this issue, we feature Ms. Vicki Beatty and Dr. Michele Frazier, two lovely women who are strong survivors impacting our community in a positive way. Write to us if you know a survivor we should feature in an upcoming issue. The holidays are over, and the kids are back in school. I hope you will take some time to relax and enjoy this issue of Lexington Woman. Have a Happy Valentine’s Day! Let it be filled with love and laughter, and may 2011 bring you prosperity and good health. Your friend,

Lori Samples Duncan Editor-in-Chief

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WHAT’S IN LEXINGTON? National Wear Red Day Feb. 4

Kasiah Hart

One day a year, what you wear speaks volumes. Most of the time, what you wear isn’t that critical. But on National Wear Red Day, it’s vitally important. The American Heart Association is asking you to wear red on National Wear Red Day and make a statement about the No. 1 killer of American women: heart disease. GoRedForWomen.org

Chamber Breakfast February 8, 7:30 a.m. Lexington Country Club

Joey Scholl

Start your day by meeting and networking with other Chamber members. Learn information that may be critical to your business growth. This month the breakfast is sponsored by Consultants In Gastroenterology. The speaker is Dr. March E. Seabrook, MD, FACG. Tickets are $7 per person and payable at the door. This monthly breakfast is held on the second Tuesday of each month. Check out their website for more information. www.lexingtonsc.org

Chemo with Style February 8, 5:30–6:30 p.m. South Carolina Oncology Association (SCOA)

Bella Grace Walley

You are invited to a fun fashion evening, where you will receive and learn how to wear turbans, scarves, and wigs — with style! Classes are available at no cost to you and are limited to the first 10 who register. Call Terry Vann Schon at (803) 4615180 to register your seat. These meetings are held once a month. Please visit their website for a complete schedule. www.chemowithstyle.com

Night at the Theatre March 2, 8 p.m. Town Theatre, Columbia

Sponsored by volunteers of Hospice Care of Tri-County, “The Marvelous Wonderettes” is a cotton-candy, colored non-stop pop musical blast from the past and features your favorite songs from the ‘50s and ‘60s. This unique event starts at 8 pm with doors opening at 7:30 pm at the Town Theatre. Tickets are $15 and all checks should be made out to “Hospice Care Charity Foundation;” cash or checks only please. All proceeds from ticket sales go to the Hospice Care Charity Foundation; these funds are used to help patients and families in need. To purchase tickets please contact the Hospice Care of Tri-County office at (803) 400-1177. www.msa-corp.com

Lunch On the Quarter Feb. 22, 12 p.m. Lexington Country Club

Please join the Greater Lexington Chamber and Visitors Center for their first “Lunch On the Quarter” of the year. The February lunch is sponsored by Peak Employment Solutions and the speaker is Jim Reynolds, the 2010 South Carolina Business Leader of the Year. The cost is $10 per person, payable at the door. www.lexingtonsc.org

Auction/Oyster Roast March 31, 6 p.m. Saluda River Club

Join the Greater Lexington Chamber and Visitors Center for their auction/oyster roast. The presenting sponsor is Lexington Medical Center. Tickets are $40 per person. www.lexingtonsc.org

Scarlet Party Feb. 22, 6:30–8:30 p.m., Cotton Grill, Lexington

Cameron Wates

Join Lexington Woman magazine, Clark Berry Photography, and Vital Energy at the Cotton Grill at the Old Mill in Lexington for a night benefiting The American Heart Association’s Go Red For Women. See the back inside cover, across from the personal note, for more information. www.lexingtonwomanonline.com www.lexingtonwomanonline.com

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ere are some of the things we love about Lexington:

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The Eclectic House

We love the homegrown singer, Lauren Lucas, who is now living in Nashville. Check out her website at www.laurenlucas.com and download one of our favorite songs “Follow the Leader.”

We love the Eclectic House in West Columbia. What a wonderful collection of useful decorating items, as well as personalized gifts and jewelry. See what all they have to offer on their website at www.theeclectichouse.com.

We love the Circus! Don’t miss Ringling Bros. and Barnum & Bailey Circus presents Barnum’s Funundrum. Once again, they are coming to The Colonial Life Arena. What a wonderful time for the family February 3-6. See the ad on page 16 to learn more, or visit www.coloniallifearena.com to purchase your tickets.

Come out to see Mickey and his friends LIVE!!! We love Disney Shows. We honestly haven’t ever seen a bad one. Plan to be there on February 25th in Columbia.

Mae’s of Lexington A Lexington tradition, Mae’s on Main Street, will remain open in Lexington! We love their accessories – especially the magnetic pearl necklaces. Check out their ad on the next page, and take advantage of the coupon – use it for a new Valentine’s Day outfit!

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The American Red Cross We love The American Red Cross. Give blood this February and give the gift of life! Visit www. redcross.org to learn more about how to donate.

Our favorite thing… from our little ones… homemade Valentines! We just love those little handprints, those sweet smudges and coloring outside of the lines…We love the uniqueness of their thoughts and expressions of love. Lord, help us raise children who aren’t afraid to be themselves!

Junior Tennis at LCTC! USA Team Tennis emphasizes fun, fitness, and friends for players of all ages and skill levels. The season begins March 18th, and February 14th is the deadline. They play at the Lexington County Tennis Complex and public facilities in Lexington County. How fun to start early! Visit www. lexingtontennis.com to find out how to register.

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We LOVE Lexington men! Happy Valentine’s Day!

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Heart OF IT ALL by Pastor Mark Crumpton

oday we are living at a much faster pace than ever before in our society. We seem to always have something to do or some place to be. We scarcely have time for family meals and visits. After all, there is no time to say “Hello; Good-bye ... I’m late, I’m late, I’m late.” Many of us have sold our time to the highest bidder, our jobs, and substituted our presence with stuff we have purchased from our earnings. We want our children to have all the things we never had and we want them to have more than we had growing up, because we love them. Unfortunately in many families today the children don’t have what many of us had growing up, time spent with mom and dad. I have memories of playing ball with my mom when no one else was willing, mom had time. I have memories of hunting with my dad, and even riding with him in the summer on long road trips as he was a truck driver. Of course we too had stuff that they purchased for my brothers and I; but I honestly don’t remember much of it specifically. My dad’s job kept him on the road four nights of the week, but somehow I don’t remember him ever missing one of my ball games. I am sure that he must have but somehow he was always there for me. I know that we didn’t always have

the money to buy the name brand clothes that I thought I couldn’t live without. But I never felt as if we did without. What I am trying to say is At the Heart of it All was love! I knew then and I still know today that I was loved, not because of the things they could do for me but because I was more important than that stuff. Today more than ever before we wrestle against balancing career and family. Divorce rates continue to rise, and in a down economy so does the stress of finance. But at the heart of it all should be love. The Bible tells us that “Love never fails” 1 Cor 13:8.

The Crumpton Family I have been in ministry for nearly 15 years and I have never yet seen or heard anyone say on their death bed “I wish I had worked more, or I wish I had more stuff ”. Friends you can make more money but you can’t make more time; so invest what you have wisely. If you only invest money into those you love, you will see little to no return on investment. If you invest love into those you care about, you will reap a lifetime of returns because Love never fails.

If upon reading this article you find that something else is at the heart of your life right now, be honest with yourself. If that is the case I want to remind you it is NOT too late to put things back in order and proper perspective.

John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. (KJV)

Eph 5:15-16 15See then that you walk circumspectly, not as fools but as wise, 16redeeming the time, because the days are evil. NKJV

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New Year’s

RESOLUTIONS

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is the season for making New Year’s resolutions; I, for one, need to lose a vast amount of weight. But aside from the normal resolutions of losing this or quitting that, what about doing something positive for the community? I’m talking about volunteering. Here are a few suggestions to get you thinking. This year I have had more time to volunteer in our youngest son, Tucker’s school. It has opened my eyes to the need for volunteering even an hour a week. Elementary school teachers need volunteer assistance with photocopying, assembling, cutting, displaying artwork and various other duties they no longer have time to do. Also, one day a month, the teachers are treated to Duty Free Lunch. This program gives the teachers an opportunity to enjoy lunch with their co-workers, giving them a break from the children. Parent or grandparent volunteers monitor the children and assist them with opening packages or drinks during lunch. The entire time commitment is less than one hour, once a month. I urge you to consider volunteering whatever amount of time you have to your child or grandchild’s school. Another volunteering opportunity is through coaching. If you have had a child play sports on Ball Park Road in Lexington, SC in the last 15-20 years, you have probably seen my cousin, Coach Jay Kirby. When his son, A.J. was little, he coached and umpired Little League baseball and coached Recreation League football. When his daughter, Emily was younger he coached her and umpired in Recreation League softball. His daughter Ashley is now a

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cheerleader for his Mites I football team. And even though none of his children currently play football, he continues to be on that football field coaching his team when he could be relaxing at home after a hard day’s work. In fact, my son Patrick has played for Jay for 6 years in Recreation League football. Whether you have had a child coached by Jay, or played against one of his teams, you understand what a great volunteer he is. He has been such a fixture on Ball Park Rd. that last year, during the opening ceremonies of football season, he was honored with a granite stone marking the football field as “Jay Kirby Field.” It’s located on the canteen side of the field, right next to the fence opening. Coaching is a labor of love for some people and it requires many hours of volunteer time; but the fruits of that labor are well worth the sacrifice. Speaking of ample time, another worthwhile volunteer opportunity is to become a Guardian ad Litem. The following information, though edited for space, comes directly from their website, www.oepp. sc.gov/gal. “Virtually anyone over the age of twenty-one who has an interest in children and the desire and time to

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serve can become a Guardian ad Litem. Our volunteers come from all professions and backgrounds, from stay-at-home mothers to corporate executives. What they share in common is the belief that they can make a positive difference in the life of a child by offering their time, efforts, and energy advocating for that child’s best interests in court. They are also willing to commit at least a year of service to the Program. Volunteer Guardians ad Litem play a critical role on behalf of abused and neglected children across the state, by working to protect each child’s interests on a case-by-case, county-by-county basis. Because the children we serve come from all socio-economic and ethnic origins, we welcome and actively seek volunteers from all cultures, professions, and educational backgrounds. There is a particular need for men and people of color.” My goal is to one day become a Guardian ad Litem because I think it is a wonderful way to help children return to a safe and healthy environment. If these volunteer opportunities are more time consuming than you can manage right now, consider what time and talents you do have to of-

Volunteering always puts me in a lighter mood and that good feeling you get is like no other. fer. Perhaps reach out to an elderly neighbor who could use a hand with yard or housework; or a quick call to check on them to see if they need anything when you’re heading to the grocery store. Even though some in our community are without jobs and are desperately seeking gainful employment, perhaps doing something positive for our community could help lift the spirits. Volunteering always puts me in a lighter mood and that good feeling you get is like no other. Try volunteering in an area you enjoy; but watch out, it can be addictive! Here’s wishing you a safe, healthy and happy New Year from our family to yours!!

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Heart-healthy

by Mandy Rivers

RECIPE FOR YOU! Chipotle Grilled Shrimp • 2 pounds large shrimp, peeled (tails on) • ¼ cup brown sugar • 6 cloves garlic, smashed • 2 chipotle chili peppers, seeded and minced • 4 tablespoons adobo sauce • ¼ teaspoon salt • Juice of one lime • 1 tablespoon olive oil Mix brown sugar and next six ingredients in a

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small sauce pan; cook over low heat for 5 minutes. Remove from heat to cool. Add sauce and shrimp to a zip-top bag and marinate for 4-6 hours. Remove shrimp from sauce and place on skewers. Grill over medium-low heat 2-3 minutes on each side or until shrimp are pink. Garnish with fresh chopped cilantro and serve with Cilantro-Lime Cream Sauce.

Cilantro-Lime Cream Sauce • 1 cup sour cream • 1/3 cup chopped fresh cilantro • 2 large garlic cloves, minced • 1/4 teaspoon salt • Zest from 1 lime Combine all ingredients, and stir well with a whisk. Cover sauce, and chill. Serve as dipping sauce with Grilled Chipotle Shrimp.

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New Little Lexington Lady!

by Lori Samples Duncan

photo by Clark Berry Photography

e broke your heart last Mother’s Day when we told you the story of Crystal and Benjamin Poston and their family. If you missed this story, go online and read it before you read any further. Today we want to share some Poston good news! I knew when I met Crystal she was an extraordinary woman. I also know from the moment she lost her son she began helping other people who were grieving over their own loss. Since our story on her last year,

we have received many emails and phone calls about her strength and courage. As you know Crystal was pregnant when I interviewed her last spring. On August 18th, 2010, she gave birth to a beautiful, healthy baby girl. Her third child, Miss Kendall Linn Poston, was born at 7:54am and weighed 6lbs and 13 ounces. Kendall was 20.5 inches long, and as you can see by the beautiful pictures taken by Becki Berry, Miss Kendall arrived bright eyed and ready to awe the family that was so excited to welcome her.

Miss Kendall Linn

I had the privilege of being among the first to see Kendall after she was born. I even got to hold her as I stood in the

room with Kendall’s mother, father, and family friends, it occurred to me how good God is and how strong Benji and Crystal are. This little miracle and I believe all children are miracles, was a gift. A precious bundle of love wrapped in pink. Ten perfect fingers and toes, to remind the Poston’s that God is faithful and always present. I know God has big plans for Kendall, just as he has big plans for Bailey, her beautiful big sister, and as he still uses Benjamin today to help other parents who go through what his parents have. Congratulations to this lovely family! Thank you for sharing your sorrow and your joy with us!

Jeremiah 29:11 11 For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

Matthew 5:4 Blessed [are] they that mourn: for they shall be comforted.

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Cayce, Chapin, Columbia, Irmo, Lexington, West Columbia, and White Knoll

Read the article on Crystal and Benjamin Poston and their family in last year’s Mother’s Day issue on our website at www.lexingtonwomanonline.com

A special thanks to the Poston family for allowing Lexington Woman to share their story. It has touched so many of our readers.

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STATISTICS ON Domestic Violence by Rebecca A. Williams-Agee, MSW, MPA

he South Carolina Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault (SCCADVASA) is a statewide membership coalition formed in 1981 consisting of all the domestic violence programs and rape crisis centers in South Carolina to represent the critical needs of victims/survivors of domestic violence and sexual assault. SCCADVASA supports Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault member programs, provides education and advocates for social reform to eradicate these types of violence in South Carolina. Some of these critically needed tasks are noted below: • Drafting and supporting legislation and public policies that effectively address the problems of domestic violence and sexual assault and improve the outcome for victims. • Provide extensive training to our member programs, law enforcement and judicial personnel, clergy, health care providers and business leaders as well as other state agencies. • Participate in community education and public awareness campaigns in order to inform citizens and to promote greater understanding of the serious effects of domestic and sexual assault. • Advocate and support our member organizations by developing resources, lobbying for increased state support and investigating all other sources of material and financial resources. • The issue of domestic violence specifically has been identified as the #1 crime issue facing SC by the SC Attorney General’s Office. In 2008, the SC Law Enforcement Division (SLED), recorded 34,630 reported incidences of domestic violence. In 2009, the 13 domestic violence programs across SC sheltered 3,535 victims of domestic violence, and served 24,117 out of shelter clients with legal advocacy, counsel-

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ing, and other supportive services. A total of 20,722 domestic violence crisis line calls were answered in that same year. In 2010, according to the Violence Policy Center, SC ranked #9 in the nation for the number of women killed by men, a list in which SC has never placed out of the top 10. A number of myths about domestic violence exist, including, but not limited to, the following: Domestic Violence is due to poverty or lack of education. This assumption is false. Domestic violence is common throughout all levels of society, regardless of socioeconomic class or educational attainment. It is often easier to keep the violence hidden when a person has money and other resources, but it happens nonetheless. Abuse victims may be highly educated, or they may not, but continual physical, emotional, and psychological trauma can take a toll on anyone. It is easy for a domestic violence victim to leave an abusive situation. This assumption is also false. In this situation, you may find an outsider asking “Why does she stay?” when what we should be asking is “Why does he abuse?”. Such an assumption puts the burden of the abuse on the victim, rather than the perpetrator who uses violence, and does not take into consideration barriers battered victims often face, such as financial restraints, fear for their own safety or that of their children, and lack of resources and support, just to name a few. It is important to keep in mind that battered victims are at the highest risk for lethal attacks at the hands of an abuser when they actually leave the relationship.

Alcohol and drug use is a major cause of domestic violence. This is also not true. Although drugs and alcohol are often associated with domestic violence, they do not cause the violence. An abuser may use alcohol as an excuse for the violence, or alcohol may prevent him from realizing the level of force he is using, but alcohol is not the cause. Domestic violence and substance abuse must be understood and treated as independent problems.

SC ranked #9 in the nation for the number of women killed by men, a list in which SC has never placed out of the top 10. Recognizing and understanding domestic and sexual violence are absolutely imperative to eradicating these violent crimes. For more information about SCCADVASA, its member programs, and the issues of sexual and domestic violence, please visit our website at www.sccadvasa.org.

Rebecca A. Williams-Agee, MSW, MPA is the Communications Coordinator for the SC Coalition Against Domestic Violence. This page is in memory of Shelly Allen murdered on February 14,2010 allegedly by her estranged husband Phillip Chad Dunn who is currently awaiting trial for murder in a Gwinnett County Facility.

Heart for the COMMUNITY

by Mandy Rivers

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just wanted to find a way to give something back to the local community,” was the response Robin Jumper gave us when asked about Sandlapper Art & Frame’s upcoming ‘Framing for Food’ project. Robin, who has been involved with mission work though her church over the years, began researching community outreach programs that would fit her business and discovered something inspiring.

community project to help ease the suffering by collecting food items. Inspired, Robin began working out the details of a similar program. Sandlapper Art & Frame will cel-

‘I can’t think of a better way to celebrate 15 years in business than to give something back to the community that has supported me for these fifteen years.’ Robin discovered the story of a St. Louis, Missouri frame shop whose grand opening was scheduled for September 11, 2001. After the events of the day, the shop decided to forego their lively grand opening festivities and instead focus on a

ebrate its 15th year in business in March of this year and for fifteen days, March 1 - 15, her program, ‘Framing for Food’ will run. During these fifteen days patrons will receive $1.00 off framing proj-

Robin Jumper ects for every canned food item they bring in - up to 50% off the price. This is a huge commitment from Robin and Sandlapper Art & Frame but Robin says she feels that if she is not contributing something to the cause personally then she is not really a part of it. Robin hopes that by adding a financial incentive, the project will be a huge success for our local community. “I can’t think of a better way to celebrate 15 years in business than to give something back to the community that has supported me for these fifteen years. According to Harvest Hope, one in four children under the age of five go to bed hungry every night in South Carolina. I am hoping that “Framing for Food” will help make a difference,” Robin stated.

“One out of four children under the age of five goes to bed hungry every night in South Carolina.” Information provided by Harvest Hope

March 1-15, 2011 Located in the Shoppes at Flight Deck 109 Old Chapin Road, Suite E, Lexington, SC (803) 785-4278

Nestled in the heart of Lexington, Sandlapper Art & Frame is located in the Shoppes at Flight Deck. It becomes apparent after speaking with Robin or visiting her shop that Sandlapper Art & Frame is in a class all of its own. What’s also apparent is that Robin is what makes the difference. With a background in art and design, Robin takes an entirely different approach to framing than what you might have experienced before, especially if you’re used to having your framing done in the ‘big box’ stores. Firstly, Robin sees framing as an extension of the art she is working with. It’s not about wood, metal and glass to her; it’s about colors, textures and balance. She approaches

Join Sandlapper Art & Frame for Framing For Food and our 15th Anniversary! For every can brought in, receive $1 off your custom framing order up to 50% of the total. Canned goods will be donated to Harvest Hope Food Bank and Christ Central Ministries in Columbia.

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The second aspect, and perhaps the most relevant to the core of her business, is that she knows what she’s doing. She knows if a canvas needs to be restretched or whether the gallery bars are placed correctly. She knows when to use glass (or not) and which type of glass. She understands the framing and preservation needs of a pastel verses an oil painting and a vintage photograph verses a wedding portrait. Robin knows what types of mats and glass to recommend based on what is being framed. Limited edition signed and number prints, pastels, needlework, football jerseys, collectibles, and original art are just a few examples of what she frames and having the knowledge about what she is framing helps her know how to preserve her customers’ memories and artwork.

e’ve all got one. It’s either down on paper or floating around in our brain which makes it even more confusing. The famous (or infamous) “New Year’s Resolution” list. Everyone wants to eat healthier, spend more time with family, and finish the house projects once and for all. Same stuff, same list…New Year!

“List”!

With so much to do, we end up unable to decide what we should do first, unsure of how to make it happen, and confused about whether we even want to do some of these things at all. Let’s simplify “the list” by answering one very simple question: What matters most to you? This question will keep you focused on what matters most, make other “stuff ” disappear from “the list”, and finally help you get some things accomplished!

A customer recently brought her a giclée, a specialized type of artwork using digital imaging, which her brother had made for her. Robin’s customer simply told her that she wouldn’t trust anyone but her to frame it.

Start a list that is split into four categories – Self, Family, Home, Work. Ask yourself what are the two most important things you want to accomplish in each category this year? Two is realistic, not overwhelming, and extremely rewarding as you see yourself actually getting them done.

Robin does a lot of sentimental projects and works with various bits of nostalgia that belong to her customers. Robin told us, “Sometimes they cry when they see the finished work.” Robin says that she has come to understand in her fifteen years in the business that she isn’t merely framing pieces of art, she is preserving people’s memories.

Two things per category gives you 8 things that you want to accomplish in 2011. Your list may look something like this: Self - Walk 30 minutes 3 days a week. Family – Cook three simple dinners a week. Work - Contact 10 prospects a week. Home - Paint the guest room. Put this list where you can see it every day. Print it out or write it out on note cards. Create your vision by reviewing what you’re working on achieving and becoming daily.

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Write due dates after each item. For example, Paint guest room by May 13th, walk 30 minutes on Mon., Wed., and Fri., from 6:00 – 6:30 a.m.,

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each project with the mindset of accentuating and extending the beauty of the piece she is working with. And she’s good at it. Customers who have worked with Robin in the past usually defer to her creative, artistic approach and some go as far as to instruct her to do what she thinks is best!

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contact 10 prospects on Tues., and Thurs. from 9:00 a.m. – 10:00 a.m., etc. Setting dates and times create good habits and makes things happen. It also gives you the pleasure of finally crossing things off “the list”! As you create “the list” remember to keep asking yourself “what matters most to me?” This simple question will help you eliminate things you no longer want to do or even need to do. Your an-

Setting dates and times create good habits and makes things happen. swers will immediately give you more time to do what matters most. Focusing on what matters most will make you feel organized, calm, and energized. What matters most to me right now is wishing you a Happy and Healthy New Year!

Jackie Grizzard is a Professional Organizer and Founder of Clutter Free Bug. She can teach you how to simplify your life by helping you get control over your space and your time, so that you have more time to do what you love! If you are struggling with organization and need an experienced, hands-on organizer to teach you the specific steps on how to get and stay organized, please call (813) 966-1223. Comments for Jackie can be sent to: jackie@clutterfreebug.com, www.clutterfreebug.com

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• 2 large slices of tomato • 1 T Olive oil • 1/8 cup white wine • TT salt and pepper • 1 piece of parchment paper cut into an oval • Olive Oil • 1 T basil pesto (your favorite recipe choice) • 1 T butter Preheat oven to 400 F. Mix the butter and pesto together until smooth. Season until lightly salty. Fold the parchment paper in half at the center of the oval. Lightly brush edges with oil. Place the half of paper that is oiled on a plate. Place the potatoes in the center of the paper and season with a small amount of oil, salt and pepper. Place the fish skin side down on the potatoes and season lightly with salt and pepper. Place the pesto butter on top of the fish. Top with the sliced tomatoes. Fold over the parchment so it lines up together. Start in the corner of the fold and roll and pinch closed the paper. Continue this all the way around till the paper is rolled and pinched closed. Place in the oven on a sheet pan and bake to desired temperature is reached.

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FIRST Female Governor

ongratulations to Governor Nikki Haley and her family! Having a female Governor marks a major milestone in the state of South Carolina.

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As always, we don’t want to take away from the men in our lives. We salute Michael Haley for being an active member of our military. No one want’s war and in the ab-

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Nikki Haley, one of Lexington’s own, has taken the oath of office, becoming the first woman and first minority to run the state.

Nikki Haley, one of Lexington’s own, has taken the oath of office, becoming South Carolina’s 90th governor and the first woman and first minority to run the state.

sence of the ability to stop it, thank God there are men still willing to fight for our freedom.

We are proud of this state for electing the candidate that the majority felt was qualified for the job regardless of race or gender. We feel it makes a positive statement about where our state is headed in the future. How lucky are we as women that we live in an age where our voice and our vote counts?

During her inaugural address, Haley noted, “You see, my mother was offered the first female judgeship in her native country, but was unable to serve on the bench because of the challenges of being a woman in India,” Haley said. “Now she sits here today watching her daughter become governor of South Carolina, the state she proudly calls her home.”

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Michelle In honor of Meredith Michelle Mason Cooper, who after a courageous battle with triple negative breast cancer since 2007, went home to be with Jesus on January 14, 2011. For all of the lives who have been touched and for all of the lives who will continue to be touched because of her faith-filled life’s journey.

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his issue, the Survivor section is dedicated to Meredith Michelle Mason Cooper, a lovely woman who touched many lives. I remember meeting her at a fashion show she attended that we co-hosted with Chemo with Style more than a year ago. She was lovely, as you can see by the picture of her above, but her light shown from the inside out. I have only seen that glow a few times in my life, once on the face of a pastor whom I still love dearly and about five years ago on a woman named Diane Conyers, who inspired me to do the first ever Survivor Photo shoot in 2007. (Thank you to Chemo with Style and all the amazing survivors who showed up for making

that day one I will always remember). That is the glow I saw on Michelle Cooper’s face. That glow is a God glow. It radiates from the inside out. It is something that comes from knowing deep inside your heart of hearts you are a child of the Most High God and no matter what this life throws at you; you will handle it. I only met Michelle briefly, though I prayed for her many times. I have always said being a survivor doesn’t have a number attached to it – a magical date of ten years, fifteen years, eighty years, or two years. It can be moments, weeks, months, or three years. Being a thriving survivor is about what you do with what is left of your life. None of us are guaranteed tomorrow. Even if we have never been diagnosed with a life

threatening illness, we don’t know the number of days we have left in this life. Psalms 139:16 says, “Your eyes saw my unformed body; all the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be.” It is my belief that Michelle is exactly what the Survivor pages are about. We strive to educate women about early detection, and even if the news is bad, we hope to give them the courage to face it and to fight a good fight. A special thanks to her mother for giving us permission to honor Michelle here. — Lori Samples Duncan

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BRAVEHEART

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ichele Frazier is the owner of a prominent local business, a wife, a mother and a breast cancer survivor. Cayce, Chapin, Columbia, Irmo, Lexington, West Columbia, and White Knoll

Michele Frazier is the owner of a prominent local business, a wife, a mother and also a breast cancer survivor.

Bravery seems to be something significant to Michele. It seems at the forefront when you learn about her journey.

Michele says the incredible, unconditional and unending support from brave women she met during her journey of treatment and recovery and her dear friends, coworkers and family members are what helped her get through her battle with breast cancer. One of her favorite quotes, from Helen Keller, reads, “We could never learn to be brave and patient, if there were only joy in the world.”

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Bravery seems to be something significant to Michele. It seems at the forefront when you learn about her journey. The designers at Dems Fine Jewelers must have thought so as well when they named her Pink Posse Bead* Braveheart.

Michele has certainly donned the roll of warrior. Since her recovery, Michele has been an active volunteer with the Palmetto Health Foundation. In 2001 she was chosen as the survivor spokesperson for Pal-

metto Health’s Walk for Life… Steps Against Breast Cancer. She served as President of Ambassadors, the volunteer arm for the Walk, chaired the Walk and served on the Steering Committee for several years after that. She served on the South Carolina Cancer Board and Chaired the Board in 2006. She is honored

You may remember Michele Frazier from the cover of our last issue. She is a member of the Pink Posse group and was featured with them in our holiday issue. Read our last issue on our website at www.lexingtonwomanonline.com

Visit Dems Fine Jewelers on Lake Murray Boulevard in Irmo to purchase the “Braveheart” bead in honor of Michelle, and see all of the other Pink Posse beads they have to offer. By purchasing these exclusive beads you support the cause, too, because a portion of the proceeds from each of these bead sales will benefit breast cancer patients in our community.

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Michele (right) with friends at the 2010 Culinary Cards for Cancer event to now be a part of the Pink Posse team and a “bead” survivor! During her treatment, Michele, an audiologist, only missed work at her business, Midland Hearing Associates, on the days she received chemotherapy. She says a large part of her support was with work; from her colleagues to her patients. Work, Michele said, was good medicine for her. Her coworkers at Midland Hearing Associates and Midland ENT even threw her a “Scarf & Hat” party before her treatment began. Michele said she felt a little bizarre about having a party for such an event but it turned out to be a meaningful and significant way to begin the battle of treatment. Now, ten years later, Michele still draws strength from her career and business. She says she one of those lucky people who loves her job. She says she has a job where she gets to help people – from in-

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fant to geriatric – and leaves work every day knowing that she’s made a difference in someone’s life. “The birds sing, we look up. Our child calls out, we go to them. Our new platform shoes click on the hardwood floor, we smile. But can you imagine not hearing those sounds?” wrote Michele about hearing loss. Whether she is evaluating her patient’s needs, prescribing intervention or helping someone learn about hearing aids, Michele says every day is different, with different people and challenges. A fitting sentiment from someone with such a brave heart.

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A journey that was meant to happen…. Take a woman with a great sense of style facing a difficult situation with her head held high (and quite fashionably decorated) along with a woman with the heart to help others and the opportunity to do so, and Chemo with Style was inevitable. Paulette Criscione and Terry Vann-Schon formed a partnership and a friendship that has made Chemo with Style such an important part of many survivors journey. With the donation of 75 wigs and the desire to pay it forward, Paulette and Terry have worked since November of 2005 to help patients who lose their hair while under going chemotherapy, look and feel better as they fight for their lives. Chemo with Style classes are held every other month, and are open to all cancer patients who are losing or have lost their hair. Hospice Care of Tri-County, SCOA, local merchants, and volunteers support the classes, where they teach and fit each individual with a wig and turban, showing creative ways to wear different head gear, and offering other personal appearance tips. Scarf tying and other tricks are shared along with fun and fellowship. Classes are offered at no cost to the patient.This loosely knit support group supplies each cancer patient an oasis from the sterile medical. Through the hearts of those who are like-minded, Paulette and Terry strive to add sunshine to the day of each cancer survivor.

The “Chemo With Style” events have been made possible by the donations of many caring, loving people.

Sponsors: South Carolina Oncology Associates Hospice Care of Tri-County “Chemo With Style” Volunteers Joan Robinson, Hair to Stay Graciously accepting Donations — Please call Terry Vann-Schon for more information on how to donate.

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y fitness level definitely had an impact,” says Vicki Beatty, about her battle with breast cancer over ten years ago. There were no signs, no family history of breast cancer, nothing that would have made this fitness instructor think she would ever be diagnosed. “I never ever thought that it would be something I would have to deal with,” she said. Vicki has always lead a healthy lifestyle. She worked out, was a personal trainer, and by any estimation, was in tiptop shape. In May of two thousand, she had a routine mammogram, and didn’t think much of it. Even two weeks later, when she received a letter indicating there was a spot detected, she didn’t feel it was anything to worry about. Vicki made an appointment, and another two weeks later, for an ultrasound. “It was no big deal,” she said. Her husband, Bruce, who was a law firm administrator, wanted to go, and even to him she said “it’s no big deal.” When the doctor asked if she had time for a needle biopsy, she was relaxed, only worrying about the spin class she was teaching later that afternoon. “Sure, it’s no big deal.” The doctor left the exam room, returning twenty minutes later, and gave her the news that he had, what he felt, was beast cancer. “You’ve got to be kidding me,” was her response. Vicki didn’t make spin class that day, and didn’t want to alarm her husband, so she drove home to talk to him. “I still hadn’t shed a tear,” she said, explaining that she was in shock.

Life then became a whirlwind for Vicki. Within a week, she had seen the oncologist, and was discussing options with a surgeon. Due to the relative size, a lumpectomy was recommended, and twenty-five limp nodes were removed. Her fit lifestyle, leading up to this point, played a major role in how she would receive chemo and radiation. “A clinical trial study” was offered to Vicki. They theory was that taking all four chemo drugs at one time, over four months, rather than the standard eight month treatment. Vicki felt it was the right thing to do. “If it works for me, then it could help someone else.” Every three weeks, over the following four months, Vicki took her four drug “cocktail.” Although she would be sick for a days following each treatment, she remained as active as ever. She continued to work out, and teach her fitness classes. “A lot of people didn’t even know I was in treatment,” she said with a smile. When the chemo caused her hair to fall out, she wore a (really cool) bandanna. In fact, she would take a treatment, and head off to teach a kickboxing class. Almost eleven years after that routine exam that was “no big deal,” Vicki has maintained her activity level. There has been no

sign of the cancer, although she now has checkups frequently. She has even developed specific programs for people going through treatment now. Her faith in God, her family and a group of ladies she calls her “angels” kept her strong emotionally, but Vicki truly feels that her strength, and healthy lifestyle was the way she made it through physically. As for the lessons she learned, they were simple. “Don’t take things for granted. Life is a gift.” The advice this survivor has for others is to stay fit and as active as possible. Even if someone lacks the strength to kick a Pilates’ class, walk. “Just get moving.” Vicki believes that energy breeds energy. Don’t be a “victim,” be a fighter. You fight with “dignity, grace, and faith.” It’s pretty safe to say that this survivor loves fitness, and life.

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FIRST LEADING LADIES

his year, Lexington Medical Center celebrates its 40th anniversary. They opened as a small county hospital on January 6, 1971. Today, they’ve grown into a modern medical complex with state-of-the-art technology and an unsurpassed culture of caring. Lillian Hulon Lillian Hulon helped the dream of a hospital for Lexington County become reality. In the 1960s, she donated more than 22 acres of land on two simple conditions: first, the land had to be used for a hospital; second, she and her husband Harvey Hulon could live out their lives in the care of the hospital. When the hospital opened in 1971, Mr. and Mrs. Hulon – who had no children – moved in permanently. Because the hospital had all private rooms, they lived next door to each other. Nurses from the early years talk about Mrs. Hulon going out to run errands, getting dressed up to attend church each Sunday and taking care of violets in her room. The couple stayed for the rest of their lives. Mr. Hulon died in the early 1970s. Mrs. Hulon died in 1976.

Shirley Padgett Each employee at Lexington Medical Center wears an identification badge with a number representing the order in which they were hired. Shirley Padgett’s badge number was “002.” She was the second employee ever hired to work at the hospital. “When I heard about a job at the new hospital, I went after it,” she said. Padgett started by working as an assistant to Lexington Medical Center’s first administrator. Hired a few years before the hospital opened, she helped with planning and groundwork for the new facility.

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Mrs. Padgett recalled a welcoming environment where hospital physicians felt supported in their work. She also admired the leadership of hospital administrators and the challenges of building a new hospital from the ground up. “It was very special to me,” she said. Padgett retired in 2001 as Vice President of Administration.

Eunice Medhurst Eunice Medhurst grew up in Lexington County, graduated from public schools there, attended nursing school in Columbia, and worked at Columbia Hospital for many years. Then, Lexington Medical Center hired Mrs. Medhurst to be its first Director of Nursing.

‘I love our vision and the care we provide to our community.’

Medhurst was considered one of the best nurses in the Midlands. Her reputation enabled her to recruit the best nurses in the area to work at the new hospital. In addition to her knowledge and passion for nursing, she was also known as a strict disciplinarian who expected nurses to have perfectly starched white uni-

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forms and to stand when a doctor walked into the room as a sign of respect. Mrs. Medhurst was approaching retirement age when she went to work at the new hospital in Lexington County. “It was a way to pay back the people of Lexington County for my education,” she said. Today, at age 99, she lives in West Columbia.

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Carol Jodie Carol Jodie is the longest-serving employee at Lexington Medical Center. “I’ve thoroughly enjoyed working at Lexington Medical Center and still do. I love our vision and the care we provide to our community.” Eunice Medhurst recruited Jodie to be the assistant head nurse on the third floor. She decided to join Lexington Medical Center because she wanted to work closer to her home and be involved in the groundwork of a new hospital.

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“The past 40 years have gone by so fast. I was walking down the hall the other day and thought about what I would do if this was my last day, and I got teary-eyed. As long as I can contribute, I will.” Jodie is known for wearing a bright pink scrub jacket daily. She jokes that when she retires, she wants the jacket color to be retired, too, in honor of her many years of service.

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I’m not training for the Iron Man, but for my Silver Anniversary. For over 20 years we’d planned a trip to Paris for our Silver Anniversary. But then I had back surgery, and I was worried I couldn’t make the trip. I knew right then that I needed to elevate my fitness level, and I found the help at Health Directions, Lexington Medical Center’s wellness center. It’s like a fitness club, but because it’s affiliated with the hospital, you get a highly-trained staff that doesn’t just throw you into a room with machines. They set realistic goals to make sure you get the results you’re looking for. I got my results, and now I’ve got my tickets to Paris. www.LMCHealthDirections.com

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by Joyce Alexander

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hope my story inspires someone to follow through on their health issues, as I was encouraged to do when I mistakenly thought myself alone and unable to face what might come next.

About Dr. Davis Dr. Myles Davis of Columbia Women’s Healthcare is a Columbia native. He attended medical school at the University of South Carolina School of Medicine and

I owe a huge thank you to Dr. Davis, MY special Doctor for his expression of love and support.

Dr. Davis and his wife, Allison Last July I suddenly began to experience excruciating pain in my left hip and then one of my legs both day and night – worse at night. My primary care physician prescribed a couple different pills – no relief. A couple of weeks later, I was referred to the hospital for a MRI which showed a mass in my lower back – possible metastatic lesion. Every possible emotion flooded my mind and took over my life! Living alone, I knew I had no one to help me through all this. What if I have cancer?!? I shook it off and declared –“it’s a lie”. Mid-August I had an appointment with Dr. Davis for my annual GYN exam. I took a copy of my MRI report with me to see my favorite doctor – Myles Davis, with Columbia Women’s Healthcare. After the exam, we discussed my new pain and the MRI report. We talked and I cried. He made me feel like a part of his family – like a sister or a close cousin. During this very emotional

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visit for he and I, he told me what he wanted me to do because he would rather I know than not, so he would not accept no for an answer. He said he would be with me all the way by keeping close contact with my primary care physician and reviewing every report. He told me to call him day or night with any concerns I may have – bottom line, we need to know! Two days later, I received a personal, hand written letter from Dr. Davis. I read it and cried. Within an hour, I called his voicemail and left a message of heartfelt gratitude for his concern for my wellbeing and for him to begin the referral process. I told him had it not been for his thoughts and concern that I would not have made that call. I followed his advice – had a CT scan and a biopsy. The report was returned with negative for malignancy! Without Dr. Davis’ insistence I would not have followed through

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has been in practice since 1991. Dr. Davis takes pride in delivering thorough and compassionate healthcare. He strives to educate his patients about their care, present them with all their options, and have them take an active role in their healthcare. He also participates in clinical research. Dr. Davis began his career in

to get the necessary tests done and the answers so critical to my health. I owe a huge thank you to Dr. Davis, MY special Doctor for his expression of love and support. He took several extra steps to show he cared, alleviating my fears and worries while explaining the importance of facing and dealing with my health issues. Over the years I’ve met many women through my job and church who echo the same sentiment that Dr. Davis is a gifted doctor and a wonderful person. He’s a dear friend.

general surgery, but especially enjoys the aspect of his current practice that allows him to really get to know his patients, see them year after year, keep up with their families, and take care all of all aspects of their lives. When asked how he found his career to be rewarding, Dr. Davis states, “You get to know people very well. It is sharing those special events with my patients; delivering their children, hearing about their graduation, marriages, and seeing their extended families. Occasionally they thank you for taking such good care of them and that makes it all worthwhile.” Dr. Davis and his wife, Allison, are celebrating twenty-one years of being married this February.

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The Calling

by Tyler Ryan

he desire to practice medicine can be fueled by many potential rewards: great wealth, prestige, influence, a desire to help people, or faith. For Dr. Bert Oubre, it took a journey through all these rewards before he found the greatest of them all. By 1980, Dr. Oubre was on track to be a millionaire with his California practice. He had worked hard and was certainly living a good life with a big house, a horse ranch, and all the trappings of a successful physician. However, his wife’s struggle with cancer through the early 1980’s brought the realization that the rewards he sought could not answer the question he faced: what happens after death? Of all the religions he studied, it was clear to him that only the Bible held the answer. He realized he was a sinner, and, for any hope of life after death, he needed saving. This salvation he found in Jesus. Through faith in Christ he and his wife found true joy, peace and purpose, and through Christ he discovered his true purpose and his undeniable heart for missions. After his wife’s death in 1985 he closed his office in Lodi, CA, to follow his new calling and serve God in some of the most devastated areas of the world. This led him to Cameroon, where he worked in a general hospital and leprosy hospital as a surgeon. Although he didn’t have a lot of knowledge about leprosy or the lifestyle of the Fulani people

whom he was serving, he quickly found he was needed. That need was not only for his skilled hand as a surgeon but as a teacher, guide, and a bridge to the Lord. That same year met his second wife, Debbie, a nurse, during a mission trip to the Congo. In 1987, he and Debbie returned to the United States to Carville, LA, where he did a fellowship with Dr. Paul Brand’s team performing reconstructive surgeries for leprosy patients from all over the United States. He would later use the new procedures he learned in his fellowship to care for the people in Cameroon. When he finished his fellowship in 1988, he saw a need to reach the Fulani people by building a new hospital in Cameroon which would serve their and others’ medical needs. He visited many mission organizations in hopes of spurring this dream to reality, but he was met with skepticism at such a daunting task. Thus, he, with the help of a few others with whom he shared his vision, founded the Medical Centers of West Africa in Baton Rouge, LA. To support his family and fund this mission, Dr. Oubre worked in an ER in Baton Rouge. Dr. Ou-

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Sudan. In 2008 he and missionary colleagues from VOM, Partners in Compassionate Care, and Christian Mission Aid opened a hospital in South Sudan. However, with the Sudanese hospital, Dr. Oubre’s place was not to stay overseas but to act as a director, recruiting staff and offering prayer and guidance from afar. With this new role, he now had the time to cultivate his roots in Lexington, and in August of 2009 he opened his own family practice and surgery clinic, Emmaus Med-Surg Clinic, to serve the people closest to him. And finally, on January 13, 2011, Dr. Oubre traveled back to Chad to attend the inauguration of Hôpital de Guinebor II with Cutting Edge Foundation. Within one month of opening the hospital is treating over seventy patients a day, and the missionary doctors there have had numerous opportunities to share the good news of Jesus Christ with their patients.

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r. Melissa Backman’s White Knoll Dentistry is a family affair in more than one way. To begin with, her father drew the plans for the White Knoll Dentistry building and being a contractor, also built it for his daughter. Her sister-in-law chose the bright blue and green colors for the waiting room, something she was mildly concerned about initially, but was pleasantly surprised with the outcome. And her new husband, Dewayne is her accountant. In addition to her family helping her to start the business, her primary focus is on family dentistry. She strives to make her dental practice a family affair in which all the members can be treated at the same place and sometimes at the same time. She told me of a family of 5 who were recently seen all at once. She has two dental hygienists and 3 equipped rooms, so parent and child were seen first, then another parent and child. She has a kid’s area in the waiting room to occupy the little ones until it’s their turn. I recently met Dr. Melissa Backman for the first time over a nice meal during the busy Christmas season. She told me that she grew up in the White Knoll area and her parents live just ten minutes from her dental practice. She attended Red Bank Elementary and was in the first 6th grade class at the new White Knoll Middle School. She graduated from Lexington High School in 1998 and was offered a full academic scholarship to Winthrop University (she says USC was just too big). In her junior year she made the decision to become a dentist and graduated from Winthrop in 2002 with a chemistry degree. From there she applied and was accepted to the Medical University of South Carolina dental program and graduated in 2006. Most people would have stopped there, but she decided to continue on. She left the South to attend Oklahoma University because they are one of the only universi-

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She strives to make her dental practice a family affair in which all the members can be treated at the same place and sometimes at the same time. ties in the country who offers a general dentistry program with an emphasis on children. She completed a 1 year residency in OK and headed back home. She worked for two years in a dental practice in West Columbia gaining valuable hands on experience all while living at home with her parents and saving money for her own practice. In 2007 she began scoping out the area in White Knoll and realized there were no other dental practices. So she found some land to purchase and two years later, in September of 2009 her father built the building. She put out a sign saying, “coming soon” and from that point on things have moved quickly. All of her staff applied for jobs in her practice based on the sign out front and she has never had to advertise for help. By the way, she took her staff to the Melting Pot restaurant for Christmas this year.

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White Knoll Dentistry Interestingly, also in 2009 she decided to take a friend’s advice and seek out potential dating prospects by building a profile on e-Harmony. I have never known anyone to use the site but she met her future husband on February 19, 2009 (after a free weekend on e-Harmony) and says she knew pretty quickly he was “the one”. She says he felt the same way and in September 2010, just 3 months ago, they were married. Dr. Backman is a petite person, small in stature with a firm handshake, long dark brown hair and a big smile. She looks very young to be a dentist,

so I asked her, “do people ever remark about how young you look?” She chuckled and said, “All the time. I tell them I am older than I look.” For your information, Dr. Backman is 30 years old. She and her husband attend Lake Murray Baptist Church in Lexington and he also plays in a Christian band called Voice. The band travels to local churches and frequently performs at Ft. Jackson. His band is playing at The Harvest church here in Lexington just before Christmas and she typically tries to attend the ‘gigs’ with him. Beginning in January, her practice will start clos-

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y husband doesn’t know I’m writing this story. Few people have heard it, but when we share it, it always garners the same response: “That’s a story to share with your grandchildren!” Yes, it’s the love story of Shannon and Theresa Adams. Keep in mind, this is being written by someone who considers writing to be somewhat of a painful experience, so bear with me. The setting was Columbia, almost two decades ago. I was the Personnel Director at Embassy Suites Hotel, and Shannon worked for Sysco Food Services. He regularly visited the Chef, and I regularly made trips to the coffee machine in the kitchen, so he spotted me and started asking questions about me. He claims that he knew he was going to marry me the first time he laid eyes on me (it sounds good, right?). I had a similar love-at-first-sight experience the first time he came through the administrative offices…sort of a “heart-thumping, hand-sweating, knee-wobbling” experience, so I had a few questions of my own. I did not think for one minute he would have any interest in me because he was the best-looking guy I had ever seen, so to find out that he was asking about me was a dream come true. The only problem was, my life was nothing less than a train wreck due to the fact I had just lost my dad to a heart attack a few weeks before. A tremendous loss for a Daddy’s girl. So when we finally bumped into each other and he had a chance to ask me out on a date, I said no. I was just an emotional mess, and although I really wanted to go out with him I

knew I just wasn’t dating material at the time. Meanwhile, I had a job to do. The upcoming employee luncheon I had planned was going to be a United Way fundraising event. The managers from each department of the hotel would auction off 4 hours of their time to the highest bidding department. That meant a Front Desk

I had a similar love-at-first-sight experience the first time he came through the administrative offices… Manager could be working in housekeeping for 4 hours, or a Banquet Manager could be working in the Maintenance Department changing light bulbs for 4 hours. This was going to be wicked fun. I put posters up in the employee break room and

The Adams Family in each department to promote the event, and talked it up around the hotel. Well, who do you suppose needed to make a visit to the Chef that morning? You guessed it. The Sysco kid himself. And he needed to walk right by the employee break room to get there. And whose picture was on the poster in the break room as one of the managers participating in the fundraiser? You guessed it. Little Miss Train Wreck. Undaunted, the Sysco kid devised a plan. He made a deal with the Restaurant Manager to get the highest bid for 4 hours of my time during the auction. The luncheon went smoothly, and it was fun to see the manager’s expressions when bids started coming in from the employees. If you can, imagine my surprise as my turn came to be auctioned off when I heard “I’m bidding for Shannon Adams” from the Restaurant Man-

ager. Now, I wish I could tell you there was a hushed silence from the crowd, or that the bid went really high, but let’s just say everyone got a big kick out of it, and he didn’t have to get a second mortgage. Just a loan from his brother. Secretly, I was thrilled, but as the cocky Sysco kid appeared in my office doorway after the luncheon and said “So…. I got the highest bid. Now will you go out with me?”, I just couldn’t help myself. I said (with a smile on my face), “Well, it’s for charity, so I guess I’ll have to.” We arranged our “charity date” in November 1991, got engaged in April 1992, and married in October 1992. We recently celebrated our 18th anniversary, and God has blessed us with two beautiful (handsome) boys. Who says “love at first sight” doesn’t last? Thanks for not taking “no” for an answer, Shannon. I love you.

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tanding in line in a New York City subway station 8 years ago, three Southern women strategized the next stop on our four-day trip. Allison, Darra, and I were lawyers facing a question that had the makings of a logic problem on the law school entrance exam: four days, three plays, two museums, countless stores, a train going east, a train going west. Each of us had a different opinion about the route we should take to maximize our time in NYC. So instead of jumping on the next train in the station, we huddled in front of the subway map and had a spirited, spirits-induced, debate about our next move. That moment in the subway station comes back to me often because it epitomizes the strength and tenacity of my two friends Allison and Darra. What I’ve learned about love from these two friends over the last fifteen years has made me a better wife, mother, and lawyer. Hopefully, they would agree that I’m a better friend as well. So, instead of regaling you with the details of falling in love with my husband, this Valentine’s I want to share a different kind of love story. I want to share with you the story of falling in love with my best friends.

Love Gets to the Point The first day I met Darra and Allison, in 1995, during our first law school class, I turned around in my seat to ask them, “Will y’all be my friends?” Since then, we have never bothered with small talk. An email from Allison called “hey” and with the simple question: “How’s it going?” is not mindless chatter. What she really means is: “What’s going on? Are you happy? Are you ok? Are the kids ok? Is that person still bugging you?” And Darra knows if she calls to see how things are going, she is going to get a direct response and I am going to want the same. It’s an unspoken rule of ours, and it works. From them, I learned to be direct, to ask for help when I need it, and to trust the words of my friends and loved ones. I want to thank you, Darra and Allison, for saying when you hate my hair, for not laughing because I’m excited about the

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new Britney CD, for understanding when I love work, when I hate work, and when I’m scared.

Love Accepts The Crazy Our years in law school were crazy, with crazy peers and crazy experiences. During exams, I’m sure Darra probably thought I was crazy with all the list-making and compulsive studying and scheduling of bathroom breaks. I sure thought she was crazy for volunteering for so many clubs and projects and never really studying until the LAST MINUTE (and making dean’s list). I’m sure Allison thought we were both crazy as she calmly read the materials, learned them, made home-cooked meals each night in her apartment, and blithely moved on to her next exam. We were all crazy. And we still are. Allison, Darra and I embrace our Crazy and we tell on ourselves routinely. Because of them, I have learned to take life and myself less seriously, to see humor in every day, and enjoy the quirkiness in other people as well as identify it in myself. Thank you, Darra and Allison, for keeping it crazy.

Love Means Never (?) Having to Say You’re Sorry Whoever wrote that line did not have any friends. I think it was supposed to be a romantic line in an old sad movie. It was bad advice. The three of us have had it out plenty of times. We’ve said a lot of other words before we’ve said “sorry.” I think I remember some hand gestures thrown up, too. We’ve even tried the silent treatment, which is particularly difficult for lawyers. In my experience with Darra and Allison, love actually entails saying you’re sorry as quickly as possible so you can get back to the fun part. I’m so grateful to have friends who forgive and forget. Allison, Darra and I have been strategizing our route for fifteen years now. We have a lot of plans on the agenda—marriages, kids, careers, and some big city shopping. As we map out our route, I’m sure of one thing: we’re going the same direction. We may have to leave the subway like we did back in NYC, though. Sometimes, it’s easier just to pile in a cab.

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hings that go through your head on a first date that don’t necessarily make you think it’s leading to your heart could include “He’s awfully thrifty.” “Dinner OR a movie?” or even “I was mortified.”

In the case of Sally Lucas, owner of Sally Lucas Homes, ten and one-half years, and two children later, it did. In what some might think reads like a season or two of a sitcom, Sally’s road to forever started with a blind date. Or rather an attempted hook up. While working at Hope Ridge as a social worker, she met the mother of a potential resident. Was she dating anyone? “I was dating everybody,” was the response. Of course, that was followed up with the bait of every would be Cupid, “Oh, I have the perfect guy.” Now, it should be pointed out that in nineteen ninety-nine, there was no Facebook. No way to snoop around and see what someone looked like, or what their interests were, or even a way to see if they were a friend of a friend of a friend. Sally agreed to allow her work cell phone number to be passed along to this perfect guy. A few months passed, consisting of the repeated

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message that her Prince Charming was waiting in the wings. While on a date at a Braves game, her work cell phone rang, and it was Michael on the other end. The very next weekend they decided they would meet face to face. Sally is quick to admit that she had grown accustomed to being “spoiled” when it came to gentlemen callers, so her initial reaction to the plan for the evening was outlined as dinner OR a movie left her shocked. “I about fell out,” she said as she learned just how “thrifty” the man of her dreams was. After some negotiation, dinner AND a movie it would be. Instead of the fine dining which often came with a first date, she found herself at the Monterey’s on Knox Abbot. As they discussed their dinner selections, over water and tea, Michael explained that he would pass on dinner, as he had already eaten. This left the two enjoying the never-ending baskets of chips and

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salsa, which of course, there is no charge for. “I two fisted chips like you have never seen because I was so hungry.” The next part of the date, when “mortified” came into play, Sally couldn’t blame her date. You might remember, in nineteen ninety-nine, a new movie titled “American Pie.” Sally told Michael that she wanted to see the movie, as she thought it was kind of a “chick flick.” Michael didn’t correct her, and it was off to the movies they went. Although by some estimations, a cult classic, it should be noted that American Pie probably isn’t thought of as a chick flick. After ninety or so minutes watching the antics of teenagers nearing the millennium, Sally found herself mortified as they concluded their first date. Dinner OR a movie, water and chips, and an unexpected movie experience aside, Michael called Sally a few days later, and asked to see her

again. “The dates got better,” says Sally, who although not quite deeply in love, stopped seeing anyone else. “My parents knew something was up.” It was several months later that the couple found themselves in Charleston, on the Battery. “I knew something was up,” she says, indicating that he wore his jacket on a very warm night. Michael has told her that just before he dropped to his knee, he turned to God for a sign in an effort to calm his nerves. It was at that moment that Sally saw a school of dolphins swim by. If that wasn’t enough, a shooting star passed over them. Taking this as his sign, Michael asked Sally to be his wife. Over a decade later, and two children, Summer and Wyatt, it turns out you can be mortified on a first date, be a bit thrifty, and still find your heart.

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Hema and Sudhir by Tyler Ryan

f you have ever worked with your spouse there is no grey area about the experience. It’s either amazing where you both share a passion so great that you can build a life, a family, and something that will stand the test of time together, OR nicely put, it’s just no fun. Hema and Sudhir (He goes by Mr. Steve) Patel took the former course in life and over the last twenty years have not only made their marriage stronger than ever, they’ve provided a loving home for their four children, and built a business that sets a standard for eco-responsibility in the Midlands.

their children while Mr. Steve continued to build their hotel portfolio. Teaching was a passion for Hema and not one that she was willing to let go of easily. By the early 90’s they owned several hotels in the Orangeburg area, leaving Mr. Steve to single handedly drive around town with money in his hands, providing change, supervision, and any other needs of the properties. However, as the hotel business continued to expand, it became clear that Mr. Steve needed the help of his bride. In 1994, after four years of asking, she finally agreed to join Mr. Steve and centralize the management of the properties, creating the management company that they operate today.

The Patels met in Canada and were later married in 1976. Hema was a biochemist, and Mr. Steve an engineer. By 1981, they found themselves in Orangeburg where she began teaching in the public school system, and he began developing hotels with his brother-in-law. For thirteen years Hema was able to spend holidays and summers with

Hema and Sudhir Even working side by side every day and spending after hours together, they are as close as two people could be. “It was tough at first,” says Hema about the learning curve of the business. Even though she had been raising a family with Mr. Steve, she had to earn his trust and train to learn the business, for which she very quickly found a passion. Hema and Mr. Steve have grown their company to include 195 employees over a multitude of hotels. While they have added to the staff over the

years they have individually grown into two very different but important roles. Mr. Steve focuses on development while Hema handles operations. “This is our life,” Hema says about her business partner and father of their four children, “it’s twenty-four hours a day.” Even working side by side every day and spending after

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magine you died. Imagine you died and then came back. Imagine you died and came back four times. Most of us can’t imagine such things, such chances, such miracles but one woman can. Terry Gladfelter can because it happened to her.

Terry’s story… July 8, 2008 at 4:00 am, I suddenly awoke and was warm. I went to the kitchen for water. The next thing I knew, I was on all fours but still conscious. I woke my husband and told him I needed to go to the hospital. There was no pain or pressure. My heart did not flutter. He put on his clothes and I put on my house dress. It took less than ten minutes because he was flying. He dropped me off at the emergency room and I walked in feeling normal. I told the security guard something was not right. My husband walked in and said he would take care of the paperwork; that my records were in the computer system. As he walked to registration, a nurse came to the door and I went with her. She had no more than put the pressure cuff on my arm when a doctor said I was having a heart attack as we spoke and he had called the response team for Richland. My husband, Fritz, had already given them Dr. Barry Feldman’s name. Fritz had been to Dr. Feldman to complete tests from his doctor in Florida, shortly after we moved here to be with my mother. Dr. Feldman did not know me. I was placed on the gurney and the doctor said he would ready me for transport. My husband was standing about two feet away at my head. I told him if I didn’t make it, that I loved him and asked him to stay close to our boys and my mom. I then asked God to please let me take care of her as she is almost 90. The doors opened, the Richland team came in and the doctor threw the metal chart at my feet. I felt myself slide so easily and peacefully. It was not frightening. That’s the last of my memory of that morning. My husband has to pick up the story here. As they opened the ambulance door they realized I was gone and the team called for the doctors. At this point my husband said it must have been eleven medical staff that came from the emergency room

and started to work on me. I died three more times. And three more times they brought be back. Dr. Feldman came from Richland to Lexington and placed a stint in my heart under emergency code as Lexington Medical Center then had no license to perform the procedure. You have to remember that I had never been his patient. I did not see or hear anything until about 10:00 that same morning when the nurse pulled back the curtain and was smiling at me. She said she would like to give me a hug but there were just too many angels in the room. Dr. Feldman and his assistant, Phyllis, came and she asked if I knew this man (the doctor). I told her I had never seen him before. That was the truth. Then I commented that I didn’t see any white lights either. They laughed and left. Next in was my husband and I saw that smile and the twinkle in his eyes. I asked about Mom. A dear friend of ours, Martha Redick, was giving our friend, Scottie Holland an 80th birthday celebration. I asked Fritz to call Martha to get a substitute for me. Then he laughed and shook his head. He was over his shock and knew I was back in his hair. July 11, 2008 I was home again. How marvelous is that? The staff did not waste time. That’s what I remember. I walked in and straight through the emergency door. I wish I knew all their names. I wanted to send each of them a thank you and I was told not to worry about that, that they would never forget me. So many of them came to the door of my room while I was recovering to smile or wave. It dawned on me that they have to live with such heartache and sadness but when they give a patient a new lease on life, they also feel the reward of a job well done.

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National Wear Red Day is Friday, February 4 One day a year, what you wear speaks volumes. Most of the time, what you wear isn’t that critical. But on National Wear Red Day, it’s vitally important. The American Heart Association is asking you to wear red on National Wear Red Day and make a statement about the No. 1 killer of American women: heart disease. Wearing red on National Wear Red Day helps increase awareness about the importance of speaking up against this often preventable disease. And, by making a donation, you can help raise money for critical heart research and education programs. Wear red, spread the word and save lives. On National Wear Red Day make a choice to live a heart-healthy life — and take action! Learn more from the American Heart Association at GoRedForWomen.org.

Your Heart is in Your Hands Yes, I am now determined to enjoy every minute. I thank God every night for giving me another day. Terry hopes her story will encourage women to have stress tests performed before they are 65 to establish a baseline even if their blood tests are normal (as hers were). Women have symptoms atypical to men and often don’t recognize them. When asked what it would mean to her for others to hear her story, Terry told us this, “Two factors set me up so Dr. Feldman could save my life. I did not hesitate to go to the emergency room and the transport team did not hesitate to get me back into the emergency room.” Thanks to decisive, capable actions and nothing short of a miracle (or four!), Terry is still alive and well and hopes her story will encourage others. When we asked Terry how her friends and family responded to and were affected by her experience she told us there wasn’t a day that went by the first two months after her re-

Her two sons came to visit and her grandsons, sisters and aunts all kept up with her progress. She recalls the neighbors that sent a beautiful plant in a tricycle, knowing how much she loves flowers.

Know the risk factors for heart disease that you can control, and make heart-healthy choices to reduce those risks. The American Heart Association encourages you to address the following factors: • High blood pressure. This condition can increase your risk of stroke and heart attack. • Smoking. If you smoke, your risk of developing coronary heart disease is two to four times than that of nonsmokers. • High cholesterol. The higher your total blood cholesterol, the greater your risk of coronary heart disease. • Physical inactivity. Lack of physical activity increases your risk of coronary heart disease. • Obesity or overweight. If you have excess body fat — especially at the waist — you’re more likely to develop heart disease and stroke. • Diabetes. Having diabetes increases your risk of heart disease and stroke, especially if your blood sugar is not controlled.

Terry just celebrated her 70th birthday and was delighted to receive a call early morning from her mother “before she had both eyes open” who sang her Happy Birthday.

To find out how healthy you are, the American Heart Association developed a new health assessment tool, called My Life Check, at heart. org/mylifecheck. It will give you an overall health score and create an action plan to move you closer to your individual health goals. No matter what you score, any healthy change can help you live a longer, better life.

lease from the hospital that she did not receive a card in the mail from a friend or family member. She said her friends at the Newcomers Club and Granby DAR kept her in the loop with meals and cards.

“What really surprised me was a friend who had saved an email from me from five years ago. She took it upon herself to use the email addresses on my heading and wrote to each of my friends across the country. After moving 26 times from coast to coast and border to border, I no longer knew where to call home. After all the love and support from this experience, I now know Lexington is where I belong.”

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eart disease is the No. 1 killer of American women. One out of every four women will die of it each year, more than 250,000 from heart attacks alone. Unfortunately the majority of women still don’t recognize that heart disease should be a concern. Likewise, few realize that more women than men die of heart disease or that signs and symptoms in women can be subtle. Sobering studies have shown that nearly two-thirds of women who die suddenly of a heart attack had no prior symptoms. Additionally, women with heart disease are often misdiagnosed or under treated.

Part of the problem is that diagnosing heart disease in women can more difficult than in men. Women are more likely to present with atypical symptoms such as palpitations, shortness of breath, unusual fatigue or only “mild chest discomfort”. Subsequently these symptoms may go overlooked. A woman’s role has typically been to take care of everyone else in the household first. She may ignore unusual symptoms as just signs of fatigue and not seek medical attention until it is too late. The good news is that the majority of the devastating effects of heart disease can be prevented. Advocacy plays an important role in women seeking and receiving the appropriate care. It is vitally important for every woman to be able to identify whether she is at risk for heart disease. For both men and women, the biggest factors that contribute to heart disease are smoking, high blood pressure, high cholesterol, family history, diabetes and age. Everyone should take a moment to look at their lifestyle, family history and general health. It is important to have a serious discussion with your physician about your risks and possible symptoms that you may already be experiencing. Here are important risk factors to be aware of: Don’t smoke. More than half of the heart attacks in women under 50 are related to smoking. If you stop smoking, you can lower your risk of heart attack by

It is vitally important for every woman to be able to identify whether she is at risk for heart disease. Dr. Amy Rawl Epps

one third within 2 years. Smoke from someone else’s cigarettes is also bad for your heart and lungs. Control your blood pressure. A lower blood pressure reduces the workload of the heart. Lifestyle changes such as losing weight, exercising regularly and eating a healthy diet are all ways to help control high blood pressure. If these steps don’t lower your blood pressure, your doctor may recommend medicine for you to take. Control your cholesterol level. I always tell my patients that ‘cholesterol is what clogs the pipes’. It is most important to know what your LDL (bad) and HDL (good) cholesterol levels are and if abnormal to make a plan on what to do about it.

Maintain a healthy weight. Extra weight puts strain on your heart and arteries. Exercise and a low-fat diet can help you lose weight as well as lower your blood pressure and bad cholesterol levels. Your heart is a muscle and it also needs regular exercise to stay in shape.

Control your diabetes. Having diabetes is an incredibly high risk factor for developing cardiovascular disease. Diabetics are also more likely to have atypical symptoms of heart disease that may be under or misdiagnosed. Know your family history. Having a father or brother with heart disease before age 55, or a mother or sister with heart disease before age 65, are factors that contribute to heart disease.

Visit Amy Rawl Epps, MD, FACC at Columbia Cardiology of Lexington. They are located at 131 Sunset Court in Lexington. For more information, visit www. columbia-cardiology.com or call (803) 744-4940 to make an appointment today. See the Columbia Cardiology ad on page 23.

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he ability to provide a full range of cardiovascular services has been a dream of Lexington Medical Center for the past ten years. The hospital is pleased that it will begin an open heart surgery program in 2011. Lexington Medical Center’s goal is to have a heart program that is among the best in the nation. “Lifesaving heart care will now be closer to home for the people we serve,” said Mike Biediger, Lexington Medical Center president and CEO. Cardiovascular disease is a serious problem and the need for an open heart surgery program in Lexington County is clear. Statistics from the American Heart Association and South Carolina Department of Health and Environmental Control (DHEC) show that one out of every three deaths in South Carolina can be attributed to cardiovascular disease. And, more South Carolinians die from cardiovascular disease than die from cancer, pneumonia, the flu and vehicle crashes combined.

busy diagnostic catheterization labs. Currently, Lexington Medical Center can perform emergency angioplasty on patients who come to our Emergency department having a great attack. Emergency angioplasty opens blood vessels and increases blood flow to the heart. But, without an open heart program, Lexington Medical Center has had to transfer patients who need open heart surgery or therapeutic cardiac catheterizations to other hospitals.

Lexington County is one of the fastest growing counties in South Carolina and the largest county in the state without an open heart surgery program. According to DHEC, 331 Lexington County residents required open heart surgery and 1,153 required angioplasty procedures in 2008.

In June, 2010, DHEC approved a Certificate of Need (CON) request allowing Lexington Medical Center to perform open heart surgery and therapeutic catheterizations. The CON approval was the result of a joint agreement between Lexington Medical Center and Providence Hospitals. Under the terms, Providence Hospitals agreed to de-license one of its open heart surgery suites in Columbia, which enabled Lexington Medical Center to add one open heart surgery suite in West Columbia, keeping with the state health plan.

In addition, Lexington Medical Center operates the second busiest Emergency Department in South Carolina, treating more than 94,000 ER patients each year. The hospital also operates two

Lexington Medical Center already has space for an open heart surgery operating room in its Surgery department. The hospital is outfitting the surgery suite with the necessary equipment for

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open heart surgery. After surgery, patients will receive intensive cardiac and pulmonary monitoring by clinicians who have specific training in heart care. They can also receive cardiac rehabilitation through Lexington Medical Center. The mission of Lexington Medical Center is to provide quality health services that meet the needs of our community. The need for open heart surgery close to home in Lexington County has never been greater. Lexington Medical Center believes its open heart surgery program will enhance the delivery of health care in the Midlands and save lives. For more information on Lexington Medical Center, visit www.lexmed.com.

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Heart for Her Patients W Dr. Tasha Boone

by Tyler Ryan

ith parents that both live a life of service, a mother who is a teacher, grandparents who were educators and school administrators, and a father and grandfather who were even in the Military, it isn’t much of a surprise to learn that Doctor Tasha Boone also lives a live of service. She elected to serve the community of West Columbia with a small private family practice.

Dr. Boone, who graduated from medical school in two thousand two, always knew she wanted to end up in medicine. Even as a little child, when asked what she wanted to be when she grew up, “a doctor” was the answer. “It was something that was always instilled in me,” she says. As Dr. Boone grew up, that dream never wavered. Dr. Boone is the quintessential hometown girl, growing up in Sumter, and attending The University of South Carolina for undergrad, the USC School of Medicine at the VA Hospital on Garners Ferry. She even did her residency at Palmetto Health, Richland. She is very proud that she practices in the community that she grew up and was trained in. For what you go through on a daily basis, you have to love what you do. It is where the rewards come in. The end results of people coming in and leaving feeling better. At the end of the day, after dealing with insurance companies, and red tape, “you love your patients”, that is what gets you

‘Family medicine for me is such a joy,’ says Dr. Boone. through. “Family medicine for me is such a joy,” says Dr. Boone, noting that she truly does treat the whole family. Her passion shows in the fact that she has had patients that followed her from residency. She remembers seeing children who now are becoming mothers and fathers. To see the generational patients in the practice is something the community focused Doctor is very proud of. Dr. Boone found there was a need in the community for a private practice. Citing what she calls a “disconnect” between administrators, providers, and patients in a lot of larger medical groups, she elected to take the somewhat nontraditional route of the independent practice. “I can treat and care for patients according to my own values,” she says.

She doesn’t have contracts with any specific specialists, or limitations on referrals for her patients. “I’m not limited on tests I want, or procedures I recommend.” Each decision she makes is based on what she truly feels is best for each patient, regardless of business. “It also lets me connect,” Dr. Boone said, referring to the community that she has lived in for so long and now serves. “I love my staff,” says Dr. Boone. Because she is independent, she can hand select each staff member, which share her values in patient care. The small staff that works with Dr. Boone is equally committed to the patients and the community. Dr. Boones practice, The Medical Place Family Practice, is accepting new patients. She is a doctor that can treat all of your family members and would love to meet with you. It’s fair to say that Dr. Boone has a heart for her patients, and clearly, based on her thriving practice her patients have a heart for her.

Dr. Boone brings her extensive experience of treating acute and chronically ill patients as a family physician to provide preventative family medicine care at The Medical Place Family Practice. Her focus is to effectively care for the whole person with compassion in a high quality healthcare setting.

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Cardiac Rehab at Vital Energy

by Ruth Chapman

met Hima Dalal, Occupational Therapist and owner of Vital Energy Occupational Therapy and Wellness Center in Lexington. We had a long talk about cardiac rehabilitation and other heart conditions which need rehabilitation of which Vital Energy has to offer its cardiac patients. She told me about an 8 year old patient named Ben. It’s odd to think of a cardiac patient that young, but Ben was born with a congenital heart defect called hypoplasty. This condition means that the four ventricles of his heart did not form properly and he only has two functioning lobes. Also, he has only 82-86% oxygen level which decreased his ability to run and jump, like other children his age. This young boy underwent surgery to re-route the blood flow, with the last of several surgeries occurring in November of 2009. Due to

some surgical complications, young Ben suffered a stroke causing his left arm to be non-functional and he walked dragging his left leg. Ben’s mother sought help from Vital Energy who is currently providing Ben with occupational and physical therapy in the pool, which includes walking on an underwater treadmill. The underwater treadmill helps because the buoyancy takes weight off the joints. Initially they completed a

comprehensive assessment and as a result they are performing muscle energy and craniosacral therapy to decrease tone in muscles and to increase the functional use of his left hand and leg. Stay turned for more positive update on this young man’s condition. Also, as a special treat that day, I was able to meet and talk with Vital Energy cardiac rehab patient, Ted McGee. Mr. McGee explained that he never

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‘This is the best place to come for personal attention.You’re going to improve.’ had an actual heart attack, but rather he had a disturbing episode. He recalls that it was Labor Day, September 2005 when he went home and did some yard work, preparing for a family gathering. He was able to complete the task but had to sit in a chair the rest of the day in discomfort, feeling significant back pain between his shoulder blades. Fortunately for him, he had lunch the next day with a friend, Dr. Carl Almond whom he calls his “angel”. He happened to mention to his friend that he felt he needed to see an orthopedic doctor for the back pain he was experiencing. Dr. Almond said to Mr. McGee that he needed to see a cardiologist and not an orthopedic doctor. Dr. Almond said that Mr. McGee needed to see a cardiologist right away. Mr. McGee went to the Cath Lab at the hospital where it was discovered

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he had a 98% blockage. He underwent bypass surgery right away, thus saving his life. After surgery, Mr. McGee did attend the mandatory Phase I Cardiac Rehabilitation which typically lasts about 90 days. Mr. McGee, who had lost quite a bit of weight, gave up after a while and regained the weight he had previously lost. Mr. McGee sees his cardiologist religiously every six months, and somehow his weight and diet were not addressed. Mr. McGee noticed himself that he had increased shortness of breath, a fact of which he brought to his doctor’s attention. His doctor suggested that he would benefit from a second cardiac rehab program. Mr. McGee immediately thought of Hima Dalal and Vital Energy Occupational Therapy and Wellness Center in Lexington. At Vital Energy, a baseline was determined and he began Phase II of Cardiac Rehab. This phase includes exercise training and progressive ambulation in an outpatient physical/occupational therapy setting. He began with aqua therapy rehab including walking on the underwater treadmill three times/week for twelve weeks. The

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buoyancy of water made the exercise easier on his joints and had less complaints of increased shortness of breath. It was during this time that Mr. McGee regained enough of his mobility, strength and endurance which allowed him to move on to working with a personal trainer. He is now working with Sneh Patel, Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer with Vital Energy Fitness located right beside Vital Energy Occupational Therapy and Wellness Center. At Vital Energy Fitness, programs one-to-one and designed specifically for the individual. Sneh Patel designed Mr. McGee’s program and has been with him every step of the way. He has lost weight, inches and gained muscle tone with his specialized one-to-one program. Mr. McGee is not the typical cardiac rehab patient, due to the delay between his bypass surgery and the rehabilitee program he is currently undergoing. He has been able to see significant positive results while working with the team of experts at both Vital Energy Therapy and Vital Energy Fitness. In his words, “This is the best place to come for personal attention. You’re going to improve.”

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PUPPIES, KITTENS, AND PARASITES

by Briana Davis

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is the season for raindrops on roses, cute kitten noses, fuzzy puppy squirms, and gross, disgusting, worms.....wait, what? As puppies and kittens go to their new homes, they may be bringing some intestinal stow-aways; parasites. Our pediatric pets are especially vulnerable to parasites because of their immature immune systems. To help keep them, other household pets, and family members healthy, it’s important to be informed about some common intestinal parasites. humans. Human infection occurs by ingestion of fecal matter containing roundworm eggs. Sandboxes are a common potential source for this type of ingestion. Cats often mistake sandboxes for litter-boxes and toddlers often mistake sandboxes for lunch-boxes.

Tapeworms are familiar to many pet owners because they are often visible in the feces of an affected individual. The entire worm looks like a flat, white, segmented ribbon. Its more common for owners to see a individual segments of the worm, which appear similar to a grains of rice. Tapeworms are most commonly transmitted by ingesting an infected flea. This is important when it comes to treatment and prevention of tapeworms. Unless you prevent the source of infection (fleas), then reinfection with tapeworms will likely recur.

Hookworms are often not visible in the feces, but though they are smaller than the previously mentioned parasites, their effects may be deadlier. Hookworms attach to the small intestine of our pets by little fangs, aka “hooks”. This can cause marked intestinal bleeding, which owners may note as dark, tarry stool (digested blood). The anemia that ensues because of the hookworm infection may be so severe as to be fatal if not treated rapidly and aggressively. Hookworms are also zoonotic. In addition to being transmitted by fecal matter ingestion, they may also be transmitted through the skin. Hookworm eggs (passed

Roundworms may also be visible in the feces of puppies and kittens. A roundworm is long and cylindrical in shape, similar in appearance to a strand of spaghetti. Its victims often have a pot-bellied appearance, as well as intermittent episodes of vomiting and diarrhea. Roundworms can be zoonotic, meaning they may also infect

in the feces) hatch into larvae after several days. These larvae may penetrate bare skin if in contact long enough, creating a rash. This is noted more in the warmer months, when the tendency to go barefoot is greater. Whipworms are another parasite that can cause marked intestinal bleeding. They attach in the large intestine. Therefore owners may notice blood in their pet’s feces, or intermittent diarrhea. Whipworm infection tends to be primarily in dogs and puppies here in the US. Like hookworm infections, blood loss may be severe enough as to be fatal if not treated. More mild infections may cause the animal to look unthrifty and underweight. Finally, there are several intestinal parasites that aren’t worms. They include coccidia, giardia, and trichomonas. Coccidia is microscopic, and usual-

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h the heart is a marvelous thing…If you have been reading Lexington Woman long you know that my heart is my Family. Being the mother of four is a job, and though it is trying sometimes, those four very different, little people fill my life with joy. In December, Trey our oldest son went to take his learners permit test. One of the questions on the forms we filled out was regarding becoming an organ donor. I asked Trey if he would like to be a donor, and his answer was quick and concise. Yes, he wanted to be a donor, “why not, I won’t need it when I’m gone.” I know I was crying before he took his test, because I cry. He is my first and each time we pass another milestone, I am reminded of what an extraordinary young man he is becoming. His decision to be a donor was even more meaningful to me because of a woman who was very special to me. Mary Samples Ray Holcombe is my aunt. She was 41 years old when she was diagnosed with Cardiomyopathy in 1985. Cardiomyopathy, which literally means “heart muscle disease,” is the deterioration of the function of the myocardium (i.e., the actual heart muscle) for any reason. According to statistics approximately 36,000 people a year in the United States of America are hospitalized for Cardiomyopathy. Mary went from being a healthy active mother of four to being nearly bedridden in a matter of months. Let me say that Mary wasn’t just my beautiful aunt or one of my daddy’s favorite sisters; she was a devoted mother to two older sons, Michael and Kenneth Ray, a younger daughter, Jane Holcombe, and a younger son, Shawn Holcombe, and much more. She was a fun person. She made you laugh and was always the center of family gatherings. She was a daughter who often stopped by to check on her elderly widowed mother. She was an attentive wife and a loving sister to nine siblings. Many called her friend. For Valentine’s Day in 1986, her wish was not for jewelry or a flowers as it is for many of us. It was for a new heart. Recently I learned of a letter Mary wrote before her death, and I am sharing it with you today. Mary’s wishes were granted September 25th, 1989, and she lived for three years after receiving her heart. She was the second woman in the state of Georgia to receive a heart transplant at Emory University in Atlanta. She was the 18th heart transplant recipient since the beginning of their transplant program in 1985. It may not be politically correct to share with you my view on organ donation. I signed my donor card at a young age. I knew that someone else’s decision to do so gave us three more years with Mary. It is of course a personal decision for each of us. If you decide for whatever reason you cannot become an organ donor, all I ask is that you not judge others decision to do so. I know we are busy and it’s hard sometimes to get your own name on the list. I plan to take a lesson from this young mother’s life and commit to doing more for my heart this year. Will you join me? God Bless you,

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(In the words of my Aunt Mary Samples Ray Holcombe)

To My Family: At a certain moment a doctor will determine that my brain is dead. It has ceased to function and that, for all intents and purposes my life has stopped. When that happens, do not attempt to instill artificial life into my body, by the use of a machine. And don’t call this my “Deathbed.” Call it my “bed of life” and let my body be taken from it to help others lead fuller lives. Take my heart for experiment that it might save someone else from pain and suffering. Give my eyes to a man who has never seen a sunrise, a baby’s face or love in the eyes of a woman. Give my blood to the teenager who has been pulled from the wreckage of his car so that he might live to see his grand-children play. Give my kidneys to one who depends on a machine to exist from week to week. Take my bones, every muscle, every fiber and nerve in my body and find a way to make a cripple child walk. Explore every corner of my brain. Take my cells, if necessary and let them grow so that someday a speechless boy will shout at the crack of a bat and a deaf girl will hear the sounds of rain against her windows. Bury what is left next to my earthly father. “My faults and weaknesses, all my prejudices against my fellowmen. My soul is going to God.” Mary

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I’m a breast cancer survivor… a patient advocate… a mother… a patient of Lexington Medical Center.

Kelly Jeffcoat, Breast Cancer Nurse Navigator

Women’s Services at Lexington Medical Center was created for all the women you are.

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When it comes to breast cancer, Kelly Jeffcoat has an interesting perspective. Not long after coming to work at Lexington Medical Center as a breast cancer advocate, she was diagnosed herself. With her extensive oncology nursing background, she had long held a passion for helping patients. You’ll find many people like Kelly here, where Women’s Services at Lexington Medical Center offers women the finest care available. Anywhere.

Lexington Medical Center has recently been awarded accreditation from the National Accreditation Program for Breast Centers (NAPBC). 50

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