LJ Today September/October 2011

September/October 2011 VOL. XXXVIII No. 5

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Happy New Year

By Rabbi Danny Rich Chief Executive of Liberal Judaism

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OSH HASHANAH and Yom Kippur, the Days of Repentance, give us an opportunity to look both back and ahead.

Of the two days, Yom Kippur is perhaps the more demanding. It is certainly the longer and, if one has fasted, the more challenging. It demands introspection and reflection as each one of us confronts our imperfections and mortality.

It is easy to see the blemishes in others and, while others may notice our flaws, it is perhaps more difficult for us to acknowledge them. Our presence in the synagogue for the whole day and the moving liturgy of the machzor should be aids to a process where, in the traditional manner, each individual encounters God and carries out his or her own spiritual audit - whereby our good deeds are weighed against our failings and we resolve to do better in the coming year.

Rosh Hashanah, on the other hand, is perhaps easier, celebrating, according to

tradition, the birthday of the world and awakening the worshipper to the season of repentance with the sharp and shrill notes of the shofar.

I have often wondered why Yom Kippur does not come before Rosh Hashanah. It would make logical sense for each one of us to get ourselves spiritually sorted over Yom Kippur and then welcome in the New Year free of the burden of unconfessed sins.

I suspect the answer lies in the idea that our tradition makes things neither predictable nor easy for the complacent among us. In truth, while the day of Yom Kippur has its value, in an ideal world we would reflect on our words and deeds regularly. Each one of us knows the cost of a harsh remark and of a careless act, and is aware of the value of a kindly compliment or of a supportive gesture.

On behalf of the officers of Liberal Judaism and the Liberal Judaism staff at the Montagu Centre may I wish you a productive Yom Kippur, a happy Rosh Hashanah and a year of thoughtfulness in both word and deed.

Rabbi Danny Rich chats to HRH Prince Charles at the Board of Deputies’ Summer Banquet

Israeli Muslims join Kadimah

LJY-NETZER, Liberal Judaism’s youth movement, welcomed seven Israeli Muslim teenagers and their teacher to flagship summer camp Machaneh Kadimah. The visit came as part of a cultural exchange programme, organised

by Rabbi Aaron Goldstein of Northwood and Pinner Liberal Synagogue, and saw the youngsters from Nahaf take an enthusiastic role in Kadimah’s discussions and activities.

After building strong friendships during camp, the two groups will meet again on LJY-Netzer’s next Israel Tour. For more pictures from Kadimah, turn to Pages 6/7.

This Rosh Hashanah issue of lj today is dedicated to the memories of Amy Winehouse, Monty Alfred, Charles Penn and all who died during the summer - having touched many lives in many different ways. It also pays tribute to Rabbi John Rayner, whose inspirational life was celebrated at the LJS. For more, turn to Page 4.

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News

September/October 2011

A digital future for Liberal Judaism LIBERAL JUDAISM has launched a number of new online initiatives in order to connect further with its members… and attract some new ones.

The key development has been the creation of a Facebook page – which can be found at www.facebook. com/liberaljudaism – as a focal point for Liberal Jews from all around the UK and Ireland to get together virtually. To join, simply log into Facebook, go the Liberal Judaism page and hit the button that says ‘Like’.

The site is regularly updated with photos, videos, links and the very latest news and event information. It currently features picture slideshows from all the big events of the last few years, including Biennial Weekends, Days of Celebration and Council of Patrons’ Dinners. If you appear in any of the snaps please don’t forget to tag yourself.

A YouTube channel, which includes videos of recent talks and events, and a Flickr picture stream, featuring yet more stunning photographs, have also been launched. They can be found by going to www.youtube.com/liberaljudaismmedia and www.flickr.com/liberaljudaism – you do not need to be a subscriber of either site to view the content.

Other plans include a Liberal Judaism blog, featuring views and debate from rabbis, officers and staff. A Twitter account, allowing an instant public reaction to news events, is also being set up.

Finally the current website www.liberaljudaism.org has also had a small revamp, and now features many more news stories, additional content from lj today and the return of the popular Torah commentary looking at each week’s parsha.

Liberal Judaism’s operations director Shelley Shocolinsky-Dwyer said: “We always say how we’re the dynamic cutting edge of modern Judaism – well that applies to technology now too. A large number of our members use sites like Facebook and YouTube, so it’s another way to get our message out there.

“While we hope this will help attract new young members, it’s important to note that people of all ages use social networking sites to keep in touch with their friends, families and communities.

In fact, 60 per cent of those signed up to our Facebook page are over 35.

“I hope everyone takes the time to investigate these new digital initiatives, which are the result of a lot of hard work from our staff and members.”

South London BPS extends school planned HHD welcome A CROSS COMMUNAL primary school, run with a Jewish ethos, will open in south London in September 2013, if an initiative by local parents and teachers is successful. Those behind the plans say classes will be geared towards creating a stimulating educational environment in which boys and girls can grow to their full potential as responsible members of the Jewish community and British society.

The South London Jewish Primary School will be independent of any synagogue or religious authority and will cater for pupils of all denominations and levels of religious observance, as well as local non-Jewish children.

For further information go to www. southlondonjewishprimaryschool.co.uk

BIRMINGHAM PROGRESSIVE SYNAGOGUE will throw open its doors to all Progressive Jews in the West Midlands area over Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur. Visitors will be admitted free of charge on production of a ticket, or equivalent, for High Holy Days services at any congregation within Liberal or Reform Judaism. For more information please contact office@bps-pro-syn.co.uk or call 0121 634 3888.

To find out about High Holy Days services in your own Liberal community, please call or check its website. Contact details for all congregations are listed on the back page of this issue of lj today.

You can also get further details by visiting www.liberaljudaism.org

Hitting back at press critics RABBI DANNY RICH has hit out at a press attempt to discredit Liberal Judaism. The movement’s chief executive launched a pre-emptive strike against media critics, who were trying to stir up trouble over his involvement in Beit Klal Yisrael’s (BKY) Voicing Progressive Alternatives conference. The other speakers at the event had been described in the media as “predominantly from organisations highly critical of Israel”.

However in his opening remarks at BKY, which is an autonomous constituent of Liberal Judaism, Danny responded: “About 10 days ago I was tipped off that media sources were contacting members to ascertain their views on my participation in this afternoon’s event.

They were being asked particularly whether the panel was ‘balanced’ – whatever that means – and told that my co-panellists were from left wing organisations, no doubt committed to all sorts of things that would never have entered any of their heads.

“I went for a pre-emptive strike and announced the policy of ‘Considered Engagement’. It rather neutralised a campaign that was intended to fill my inbox with protests – none so far – and once again associate Liberal Judaism’s policy on Israel and Zionism with antisemitism, which has failed so far.”

The policy of ‘Considered Engagement’ states that Liberal Judaism’s rabbis, staff and officers receive many invitations to speak at events and accept the overwhelming majority, even where the aims of the hosting organisation, or the views of other participants, are not in accord with our articulated policies.

The policy continues: “Liberal Judaism is committed to encouraging debate on the controversial and cutting edge challenges of today and tomorrow, and, therefore, frequently finds itself participating in places and on topics where others fear to enter.”

Danny concluded his speech at BKY by repeating his commitment to a two-state solution in Israel.

He said: “First, in our current phase of human political history the world is essentially organised into nation states, and whilst this is so it should not be denied to Israelis or Palestinians.

Secondly, the continued presence of antisemitism in countries where Jews live, once lived and have never lived, remains an argument in favour of a place of refuge and security for those persons persecuted because of their Judaism.”

Ordination

September/October 2011

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‘You have the opportunity to inspire’ Rabbi Professor Marc Saperstein welcomed four new rabbis to Progressive Judaism at the LJS. Below is an extract from his impassioned ordination address:

Ordinands Rabbi Anna Gerrard, Rabbi Sandra Kviat, Rabbi Lisa Barrett and Rabbi Marc Neiger

IT WAS five years ago, and just two months into my job as principal of Leo Baeck College, that I met three members of today’s entering class: Anna Gerrard from the UK, Marc Neiger from France and Sandra Kviat from Denmark. I have always felt a special bond with this class because we entered the College at more or less the same time, and when Lisa Barrett transferred into the fourth year there was another connection – because she had studied for three years at the new rabbinical seminary in the Boston area, where I spent 17 years of my life.

Today is a milestone for us all. They will soon formally receive the title “rabbi”, while I will be relieved of the administrative challenges and burdens of the office of principal, to remain as part of the College teaching staff.

What then would be my message for our ordinands today? In thinking about this, I turned back to the text of the ordination address that my father, Rabbi

Harold I Saperstein, gave in 1972 to my class on the day of our ordination from the New York School of HUC-JIR. In this address, he recalled words he heard during his own first day at the Jewish Institute of Religion in 1931 when the president of the Institute, Rabbi Stephen S Wise, told the class: “In choosing the Rabbinate you are linking your lives to the two most difficult and unpopular causes in the world – the cause of religion and the cause of the Jew.” Unfortunately, these words seem far more resonant today than in 1972.

Blatant antisemitic discourse is tolerated in environments where I never would have imagined it. Religion in general is also under sustained assault by a militant atheism in books, written by respected intellectuals who construct religion and God in a reductionist manner that none of us would take seriously, and apparently think they have accomplished something by then eviscerating their own straw man.

• Rabbi Aaron Goldstein writes about his role ordaining Rabbi Sandra Kviat:

her own woman and will create her own unique rabbinate. Yet, to be the one to solder links in the chain of tradition, especially our Liberal Jewish tradition, filled me with awe and reverence.

All my senses were heightened by the soaring lay choir, the active participation of the congregation, the transition of leadership on many levels and the added spice of an unrelated protest outside.

Then I appreciated the midrash describing Matan Torah, the Giving of Torah: “No bird chirped, no fowl flew, no ox bellowed, the Ophannim did not take wing, the Seraphim did not proclaim God’s holiness, the sea did not stir, no creature uttered a sound; the world was silent and still, and the Divine Voice spoke.”

IN MORE ways than one, I am a disciple of my father, Rabbi Dr Andrew Goldstein and my mother Sharon. To see my father ordaining others and then to experience receiving my own smicha from him, were high points in my emotional and vocational life. To then, out of the corner of my eye, see my parents observing as I conferred smicha on Rabbi Sandra Kviat, took me to a new emotional high.

That Sandra gave me this honour was a true blessing. Sandra is not my disciple. She is the product of many rabbinic colleagues and lay leaders and congregants, not to mention her family and friends. Indeed, she is very much

But in my judgment, such writers are not even the main problem. Those who would defend religion today have to confront acts and statements on the part of religious extremists that make us shudder: Islamists in Egypt attacking a Coptic Church, burning it down and killing several worshipers; Christian evangelicals in the United States trying to ban the teaching of evolutionary theory as science; our fellow Jews on the West Bank accused of uprooting and destroying trees on which Palestinian farmers depend for their livelihood.

If this is how ‘religion’ is represented and perceived in the public arena, then you, our ordinands – together with all of us who want to make the case that such behaviour and such teaching is not ‘religion’ but a one-sided, extremist, militant, perversion of religion – have our work cut out.

Needless to say, none of you individually, nor the four of you together, nor all of your rabbinic colleagues here today, will be able to solve these problems. But you will have a rare opportunity, as you begin your rabbinate and continue to study and learn and grow as rabbis: the opportunity and challenge of inspiring other Jews to appreciate how our tradition can speak to the pressing needs of our time, the daunting problems of our age.

Rabbis Anna Gerrard (Outreach) and Sandra Kviat (Education) are now part of the Montagu Centre Rabbinic Team.

• Rabbi Anna Gerrard on attending Leo Baeck College’s Summer Institute: THE THEME of LBC’s Summer Institute was ‘Thinking the Unthinkable’ and Rabbi Richard Jacobi certainly got us doing that. One group suggested taking prayer to the masses via all manner of modern technological devices, while another completely redefined Judaism as a system of social duties.

The actual ideas were perhaps too big and too avant-garde to be workable in the real Jewish community, but it was much like being at London fashion week.

While you would never want to wear the extraordinary creations on the catwalk, you know that they will be the inspiration behind next season’s high street hits.

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In Memory

September/October 2011

Remembering John Rayner Monty Alfred

By Rosita Rosenberg (1925 - 2011) RABBI, teacher, writer, colleague, preacher, liturgist, public figure, president of Liberal Judaism, family man and friend – all these terms describe Rabbi John D Rayner, who died in 2005 and in whose honour a ‘John Rayner Day of Reflection and Celebration’ was held at the Liberal Jewish Synagogue (LJS). The event was attended by nearly 200 people including a large number of Reform and Liberal rabbis, many of whom had been his students.

Sponsored by the LJS, Leo Baeck College (LBC) and Liberal Judaism, as well as the generosity of individual donors, the conference began with a lecture by the outgoing principal of LBC, Rabbi Professor Marc Saperstein. This concentrated on John’s sermons, which were described as “still inspiring to read decades after they were delivered”.

Lord Harries of Pentregarth, Bishop of Oxford from 1987-2006, spoke about John’s contribution to interfaith work, while Rabbi Dr David Goldberg explained his influence on the Liberal Jewish movement in this country and beyond.

David, who worked alongside John at the LJS, described his friend as “a great rabbinic exemplar, an inspiration to followers and a towering presence in Liberal Judaism”.

Eric Friedland, who was professor of Judaic Studies in Dayton, Ohio, explained how as a young student he had come across early British Liberal Jewish liturgy and begun a correspondence with John which later led to a close professional and personal friendship.

Rabbi Dr Charles Middleburgh, who worked closely with John in the new generation of prayer books, referred to his “fierce intellectual scholarship, his eye and ear for verbal beauty”. Charles also spoke of John’s willingness to engage with ideas that were initially challenging for him, such as the use of non-gender specific language.

Professor Avi Shlaim, a fellow of St Antony’s College and professor of International Relations at Oxford University, addressed the subject of Ethical Zionism, stressing that John believed that mainstream Zionism was an honourable and legitimate enterprise and that the State of Israel ought to reflect Jewish values in its external relations.

A number of participants also shared their own personal reminiscences and a new film, titled Rabbi John Rayner: A Tribute, was shown. The day ended with a presentation of Rabbinic Fellowships to Rabbis Dr Charles Middleburgh and Alexandra Wright, who were both taught and ordained by John.

It was altogether an inspiring day, extremely well organised and intellectually satisfying.

• Copies of the Rabbi John Rayner: A Tribute DVD and transcripts of the lectures are available for £7.50 each by contacting a.wright@ljs.org

‘Amy’s life touched so many others’ TRIBUTES have poured in from every corner of the globe for singer Amy Winehouse, who passed away in July.

Rabbi Dr Frank Hellner, emeritus rabbi to Finchley Progressive Synagogue, conducted Amy’s funeral service at Edgwarebury Lane Cemetery. In his introductory remarks, he sought to comfort Amy’s parents, Mitchell and Janis, her brother, Alex, and the hundreds of mourners in attendance.

He said: “We are assembled here today not so much to grieve, although we do that, but to celebrate Amy’s life and to give thanks for the privilege of having shared part of her 27 years on earth.

“Amy’s life, although short, touched so many other lives, not only her immediate

family and close friends, but people around the world – people who may never have met her, but knew her by her music and by her voice. She belonged not just to us, but to the world.”

Following a private committal at Golders Green Crematorium, three nights of shiva were observed at Southgate Progressive Synagogue, where Amy grew up.

Rabbi Danny Rich, the chief executive of Liberal Judaism, and student chaplain Rabbi Ariel Friedlander led the services.

LIBERAL JEWS around the country have been mourning the passing of Monty Alfred. Monty was a former chairman of both South London and Kingston Liberal Synagogues. He was also actively involved with the Union of Liberal and Progressive Synagogues, the previous name for Liberal Judaism, a role which saw him organise many Biennial Weekends.

Rabbi Charley Baginsky said: “Monty was a great man and an essential part of the life of KLS and South London before that, as well as to Liberal Judaism as a whole. He was passionate and articulate about Liberal values and practices, but was never afraid to reassess them.

“He developed close relationships with people across all ages, lay and rabbinic alike – making everyone feel welcome and part of the community. He was the living embodiment of the values of social justice and morality and will leave a hole in our Liberal community, and at KLS, that it is hard to imagine ever being filled.

Our condolences go to his loving family.”

Charles Penn (1929 - 2011) WOODFORD LIBERAL SYNAGOGUE said farewell to one of the most important and popular people in the 50-year history of the community, when former chairman Charles Penn passed away in July.

Rabbi Richard Jacobi said: “Charles was a major figure throughout the first half century of our synagogue. He was always so welcoming and supportive, and his death leaves an empty and impossible space to fill in the congregation. His memory, alongside that of his wife, Elli, is a great blessing to us all.”

KLJC honour late chairman KENT LIBERAL JEWISH COMMUNITY has changed its name to commemorate late chairman Hazel Bishop. The congregation passed a motion at June’s AGM to incorporate Hazel’s Hebrew name of Rachel into the title, becoming Kent Liberal Jewish Community – Ohel Rachel.

Honorary secretary Paul Sinclair said: “It is our aim that the community should continue to flourish as her memorial.”

Charity

September/October 2011

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How your bagels helped Climbing for world’s poorest people a good cause Paul Stein praises LJ’s support of World Jewish Relief

Liberal Judaism’s Rabbinic Conference at their World Jewish Relief Big Bagel fundraiser

TIKKUN OLAM – healing the world. It sounds like an incredibly ambitious aim, but it is the principle at the core of everything we do at World Jewish Relief (WJR). I have worked for the charity for more than four years, seeing first-hand the difference it has made to peoples’ lives in Eastern Europe, the former Soviet Union and many other countries.

It’s all only possible due to dedicated WJR supporters who donate, volunteer and fundraise for us. Last month I attended a Big Bagel event held by Liberal Judaism’s Rabbinic Conference and the staff at the Montagu Centre, and I know that many Liberal communities held similar fundraisers as part of WJR’s Big Bagel campaign.

I often get asked how the money raised is spent and – in a world in which conflict, suffering and inequality are rife – it can be hard to know where to begin. Perhaps an obvious first step is disaster relief.

The incredible support of the British community currently allows us to provide vital food packages and clean water to people in East Africa, where crop failures and drought have led to a looming catastrophe for millions.

Over recent months we have also worked with local partners to help tens of thousands of people affected by the earthquakes in Haiti and Japan, as well as the floods in Pakistan.

We’re well known for these emergency appeals because they address such well publicised issues, but we also run programmes in 22 countries that provide long term solutions to poverty and inequality, with a particular focus on the needs of the most vulnerable: children, the elderly and people with disabilities.

Among these is the Livelihood Development programme, which works with Jewish communities in Ukraine and Moldova – regions where unemployment

is soaring and the government safety net is virtually nonexistent. It tackles ingrained poverty by removing barriers to finding work, such as providing training programmes and childcare facilities.

The Livelihood Development programme addresses a less immediate need than our emergency appeals, but it is no less vital. Removing dependency on external aid gives people the chance to take control of their own lives and allows their children to escape the poverty cycle.

None of this would be possible without the remarkable commitment of Liberal Judaism’s communities and members, who continue to prove their compassion and generosity. Whether you have held or attended a WJR event, volunteered in the warehouse, donated or simply told your friends about us - THANK YOU. It is your hard work and dedication that is truly healing the world.

Paul Stein is director of fundraising and communications at World Jewish Relief

Get involved WORLD JEWISH RELIEF has just launched Operation Winter Survival.

The campaign focuses on supporting vulnerable people in the former Soviet Union, where temperatures regularly plummet to -20C and the lives of the elderly are put at risk.

You can help by signing up to take part in the sponsored Walk for Warmth on Sunday November 6 in Highgate Woods. WJR also welcomes donations of hats, scarves, gloves and coats, or you can Sponsor a Grandparent and see them through the harsh winter. To find out more visit www.wjr.org.uk/ows

By Lady Barbara Fink

WHAT had started off as a casual remark that I fancied doing a trek for charity, became a harsh reality last month when I set off for Mount Kilimanjaro with a group of dedicated doctors and staff from the Evelina Children’s Hospital.

And, now that the swelling of my feet, knees and ankles has started to go down, it is time to reflect on an incredible journey. Would the months of training, weekend walking, and hours spent in the gym be enough to see me through? The answer is yes… and no.

The first few days climbing uphill were not too difficult, but nothing can quite prepare you for the lack of oxygen over 4,000 metres. At that altitude, even turning over in bed can be a huge effort and leave you breathless with exertion.

Trying to sleep in a tent, when the temperature outside is -15C, is not easy either.

Lady Barbara Fink with Debra Wright

Sadly I found that my dodgy knees, weakened by ski accidents and the surgery that followed, could not hold up to the pounding of days spent walking up and down tough and uneven surfaces. So although I set off for the summit, I was unable to complete the climb. I did not want to risk permanent damage. It was hugely disappointing, but I got to about 5,000 metres and feel it is better to have tried and failed than never to have tried at all.

I am happy to say that 17 of our intrepid party did reach the summit, including my friend and fundraising partner Debra Wright. My admiration for their dogged determination is unbounded.

Sometimes it is easier to write a cheque than to take part in a challenge.

In this case, it would definitely have been the more painless option. I was inspired by a cause that I believed in and the doctors and staff who gave up their time to do this climb. They truly are amazing people, whose support for each other and the Evelina is quite simply remarkable.

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September/October 2011

LJY-Netzer Machaneh K

LJY-Netzer members enjoy the first Shabbat of Machaneh Kadimah

The new movement work team having a little bit too much fun

Alex Feinstein sings at the Debbie Friedman Memorial Concert

The plagim (school years 5-6) girls put their heads together

Everyone who came on this year’s Machaneh Kadimah (LJY-Netzer’s summe

Shabbat saw a creative exploration of the week’s Torah theme

Parachute games like this one are always a highlight of Kadimah

September/October 2011

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Kadimah 2011 in pictures

Some young friends at camp, catching up after another year apart

The tsevet (staff) with the youngest camper - a six-month-old baby

Keziah poses with her potato alien during the very first session

er camp) managed to sit down for a few seconds to grab this picture

Madrichim (leaders) getting ready for some extreme barbecuing

A dinosaur at a disco… surprisingly this isn’t a strange site on camp

A big wave from the Kadimah crew – goodbye and see you next year!

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Chairman’s Actions

September/October 2011

Why I was drawn to Judaism Lucian J Hudson shares the story of his conversion to Judaism and the reaction it got from others RECENTLY I was interviewed by the South Bucks Jewish Community Newsletter on the reasons why I decided to convert to Judaism. It was suggested that I share this with a wider audience. I hope that after reading it, others will write to me about their own experience or acquaintance of conversion.

I was brought up by Polish parents as a Roman Catholic, and went to a Jesuit school in Paris between the ages of five and nine. That means I am blessed with a Jesuit education, a love of reason and science, yet an appreciation of the limits of human rationality. Ever since I can remember, I have believed in a beneficent God and reality. I don’t hold God responsible if a child trips and cries or if there’s a terrible earthquake. Much as there is suffering and ignorance, and occasional evil, I believe in the triumph of the human spirit, the kindness of strangers and a bright ultimate future for humanity - provided we become custodians, rather than exploiters, of our planet.

After leaving France, as a child, I lived in North London and Jewishness was very much part of my surroundings.

My best friends were Jewish, and I loved their intelligence, warmth and resourcefulness. And, as an enthusiastic student, I found that there was a string of Jewish thinkers – Spinoza, Marx, Freud, and Einstein – whose ambivalent relationship with Judaism and the world really interested me. Jewish meant “questing” and “questioning” and I could relate to that.

The more I became immersed in Judaism, the more enlightened and enriched I felt. When I turned 40, ten years ago, a new millennium had started and I tried to make sense of my family history and my place in it. Judaism spoke to me more than any other tradition, and one step led to another. People call me a Jew by choice, but I prefer to say “I was drawn to Judaism” – like a plant is drawn to sunlight.

It took about four years before I converted in April 2005. Danny Rich was then the rabbi at Kingston. He was, and still is, my great teacher. We became good friends and Kingston is a very friendly community. We are blessed in Liberal Judaism with so many different communities - whether it is my own, LJS, or many I visit and hope to visit. I got to know other Liberal Jews and found them very welcoming. I drew much inspiration from reading the Torah and other texts, and from prayer and reflection.

My wife, Margaret, was wonderful about my decision, particularly after she learned about Liberal Judaism’s stance on equality and mixed couples.

We can never take equality for granted.

My friends, especially Jewish ones, were most intrigued and excited.

I’m sure many people are surprised that six years on I am now the chairman of Liberal Judaism. In fact, on hearing of my election almost two years ago, one outspoken prominent British Jew – whom I like and respect – apparently said: “Who would believe it? A non-Jew running the Liberals!” It is a sign how far British Jewry has developed that I can take that loaded comment in the spirit in which it was intended: Liberal Judaism still has the power to surprise and challenge.

I really don’t care too much if I am accepted. It has taken me many years to realise this. This is my choice and others can share in it or not, as they wish. I hope they do because Liberal, Progressive and Reform Judaism can, and should, build bridges more than any other part of the Jewish community.

The advice I would give anyone thinking of converting is this: do it for yourself, and nobody else. And just go for it, and take yourself out to where providence will guide you. You will see, hear and feel in new ways, whether this is gradual or dramatic.

You can contact Lucian by emailing him on l.hudson@liberaljudaism.org

• THE GROWING congregation at Shenfield, Brentwood & Districts Synagogue celebrated their first ever baby blessing in July. Melanie and Gary Marshall were joined by the whole community as daughter Elena, three, and son Thomas, 12 weeks, were blessed.

• THE COMMUNITY at Crouch End Chavurah ventured outdoors for two special Shabbat services last month.

More than 15 families headed to Debden, Essex, for a camping trip including Friday night prayers. Two weeks earlier, congregants held a communal service and picnic in Highgate Woods.

• THE CHILDREN at Kingston Liberal Synagogue’s youth club got involved in some good, and very clean, fun by hosting a charity car wash. More than 20 youngsters took part, sponging down vehicles of all shapes and sizes in the playground at the side of the synagogue.

Books

September/October 2011

Book that leaves a legacy IS THAT ALL THERE IS? by Julia Neuberger, £12.99, ISBN: 9781846042614 Reviewed by BEATTIE SAYERS JULIA NEUBERGER’s latest book, Is That All There Is? Thoughts on the Meaning of Life and Leaving a Legacy, devotes less space to the second part of its subtitle than to the first; though she is concerned less with the meaning of life, more with how one should live it.

Among her insights is an interesting look at the way social networking websites and new types of relationship – with a personal trainer, or even a hired pal from RentAFriend.com – are changing today’s notions of what constitutes friendship.

An extensive critique of the ideas around slow living and downshifting, a salute to life laundry days and an honest examination of the importance or otherwise of money are similarly thought-provoking.

But it is the latter part of the book’s subtitle that will lead most to pick it up. A single chapter – the penultimate one – is devoted to the specific subject of leaving a legacy.

This is one of the chapters in which Rabbi Neuberger draws explicitly on Jewish sources and traditions. Dedicated to “the members, past and present, of South London Liberal Synagogue”, the book is classified by the publisher under spirituality, and she draws on her particular interest in the Quakers and in Buddhism, as well as other religions.

Neuberger is fascinated by the ethical

wills written by rabbis in the medieval period, including the dictated testament of Nathaniel Trabotti, an Italian rabbi who died in 1658, which is addressed to the whole community. She finds a particular appeal in the type of ethical will written by parents to their children. There is immense value both in the writing of them, and for those who read them when the time comes. “Therefore, it must be right for us to recreate this tradition for our time – not just for Jews but for everyone,” Neuberger says. “If we did, I truly think we would achieve something important – and that the next generation would gain considerably.”

Typically open and direct, Neuberger refers on several occasions to her own emotional experiences, including grief at the loss of greatly loved parents. She also shows a deep understanding of and concern for those who have suffered in extraordinary ways – not just parents who have lost children, but those whose pain is less visible: an infertile couple or a woman widowed in middle age and forced to accept that she will enter old age alone.

An engaging and thoroughly researched book, it will have an inheritance in the many written legacies it is likely to inspire – for our children, if we have them, and for the next generation more generally.

Join trip to Israel and Jordan LIBERAL JUDAISM and Birmingham Progressive Synagogue (BPS) have teamed up to put on a trip to Israel and Jordan next year. Taking place between 14-21 March, and costing just £1,499, the tour offers a wonderful opportunity to explore the two countries.

Co-ordinated by LJ chief executive Rabbi Danny Rich and BPS, the programme has been designed to be enjoyed by all types of traveller – from those who have been to Israel many times to those making their first visit.

The packed itinerary includes viewing the best of the ancient treasures of Israel and Jordan, the chance to Walk

the Wall with Rabbis for Human Rights and tours of cities including Petra, Acco and Jerusalem.

The prices includes flights, transfers, seven nights twin accommodation, six breakfasts, four dinners and entrance/guide to all sites. A deposit is required by September 28. For more information, and the full schedule, please contact a.wakely@ liberaljudaism.org

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New reading for High Holy Days

By Rabbi Dr Andrew Goldstein

THE FIRST TITLE of our Liberal Jewish movement was ‘Jewish Religious Union’.

As far as I know the only congregation still to use that name is the Rodef Shalom community in Mumbai, India. The congregation was formed, I believe, by Lily Montagu, and has used our prayerbooks ever since. A rabbi, visiting Mumbai to take High Holy Days services, wished to modernise the services still taken from our old Gate of Repentance. I gave him a copy of Machzor Ruach Chadashah and was met with the reply: “Isn’t there a newer book?”

It is hard to believe that this is the NINTH year we will be using Machzor Ruach Chadashah. It seems like yesterday that Rabbi Dr Charles Middleburgh and I rushed feverishly to get it to the printers, after several years working on its publication.

When we had finished our task we found that we had a collection of material – prayers, poems, meditations and Hassidic tales – left over, and this led us last year, to produce an anthology High and Holy Days: A Book of Jewish Wisdom.

Traditionally the period of repentance starts 30 days before Rosh Hashanah and continues, during the Ten Days of Repentance, until Yom Kippur – a total of 40 days. And so our anthology is an aid to repentance with 40 sections, one for each day of this period with directly appropriate themes such as reconciliation, sin and ‘the years pass by’. Other themes, including creation, autumn and hope, can give inspiration all year round.

So as you get ready for Rosh Hashanah, as well as opening your Machzor Ruach Chadashah do consider extending your reading with a copy of High and Holy Days.

It is available in bookshops, the Montagu Centre, or for £12.00 (plus £2.00 p&p) by emailing me on agoldstein@f2s.com

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Spotlight on Bet Tikvah

Fiona and Rabbi David Hulbert in the sukkah

How was the community formed?

The history of Bet Tikvah dates back to the 1970s when a group of members from North London Progressive Synagogue (NLPS) set up a branch in the Barkingside area. For the next five years, services were held at a chapel situated in the grounds of Dr Barnardo’s headquarters.

As numbers began to grow, the decision was taken to seek independence from NLPS. What happened next?

The story of how the group purchased a neglected, derelict Victorian school building and lovingly set about transforming it, in their free time, into a place of worship is the stuff of legend. Initially known as Barkingside Progressive Synagogue (BPS), the shul became fully functional in 1981 and, while its name was changed to Bet Tikvah in 2001, the memory of the hard work and dedication of the founders of BPS continues to be talked about with gratitude and admiration. This year, we’ll be celebrating our 30th anniversary.

What is Bet Tikvah like today?

Thirty years on, Bet Tikvah has become a vibrant, warm, supportive and fairly traditional community of more than 200 families. We are currently enjoying a period of further growth with young families joining, who have in turn brought renewed energy and vitality to the cheder.

Who is your rabbi?

We are very fortunate to have retained the services of Rabbi David Hulbert for 22 years. Both David and his wife, Fiona, are a crucial and integral part of our community. We also have a number of highly committed people, who ensure the smooth day to day running of the synagogue. Bet Tikvah’s honorary president Joe Swinburne, who was our first chairman, still takes an active role in the shul.

Our choir, led by Harvey Manning, does a great job splitting themselves in two so that everyone benefits from their singing.

What education programmes does Bet Tikvah provide?

Cheder classes are held every Sunday morning for children aged from four to 15. Boys and girls are encouraged to undertake further study after their barmitzvah and batmitzvah, culminating in a Kabbalat Torah service which is held at Shavuot. The cheder is led by our senior teacher Rachel Wood, with the number of children growing faster than at any time in recent years. Rabbi David also leads a very successful adult education programme, which meets weekly to coincide with the autumn and spring cheder terms. We also offer individual Hebrew teaching for adults on request.

What other activities take place?

We have a very active social committee, whose quizzes are always well received.

For the last 18 years, Bet Tikvah has been twinned with a Progressive Jewish community in Gomel, Belarus. Situated a short distance from the site of the Chernobyl nuclear disaster, the Gomel community continues to suffer serious health problems. Bet Tikvah supports them primarily by sending vitamins and other health related products.

What services do you hold?

Weekly services take place on Friday nights and Saturday mornings and all festivals are observed with evening and morning prayers. Regular activities include Torah breakfasts and chavurah lunches, which take place monthly on alternate months. After many years ‘exile’ to a hall in Woodford, we now hold all our High Holy Days events at Bet Tikvah, with two parallel services led by Rabbi David and our most experienced lay readers.

How actively do members get involved?

A very loyal group of lay readers lead services on a rota basis, alternating with the rabbi. Different members are invited to read the haftarah each week and our young people are invited back on the anniversary of their bar/batmitzvah to receive an aliyah.

What are your plans for this year?

Our major event is the celebration of Bet Tikvah’s 30th anniversary. This will be marked by a service and kiddush in November and we have produced a commemorative calendar for the coming year, which traces the history of the synagogue from its inception to the present day. We are also planning to relaunch our children’s services in a new and exciting format from the autumn.

How do I find out more?

Contact our administrator Anne on bettikvah@talktalkbusiness.net or 0208 554 9682. You can also find us online at www.bettikvah.org.uk

A mother and son show off their creation at Bet Tikvah’s family art day, organised by the cheder

Youth

September/October 2011

LJ Today Page 11

LJY-Netzer is Liberal Judaism’s Zionist youth movement. It gives young people the opportunity to develop a strong Progressive Jewish identity, make lasting friendships and have loads of fun

‘The most enjoyable month of my life’ Ethan Kelly on an Israel Tour of learning, kayaking and 3am mountain climbing IT WAS a typical wet English Tuesday evening when I joined 40 other excited 16-year-olds and set out for Israel. At Heathrow we were greeted by our English madrichim (leaders) Ben and Susie and, 10 hours later at Ben Gurion Airport, we joined up with Israeli leaders Michal and Noam, as well as our bus driver David.

After the opening sessions and some much-needed rest at the Hukuk Kibbutz, we visited Nachal Snir for a water hike, kayaked down the Jordan River and visited the Rosh Hanikra grottoes. We also volunteered at the Jewish-Arab Community centre in Acco, playing games with the children on a summer camp. Next we headed south to the Givat Haviva youth hostel for a discussion on the current conflict, before visiting the border town of Barta’a. It was then north

again to Haifa, where we took a tour of the city and walked in the sublime Baha’i Gardens.

After Haifa, Tel Aviv, Jaffa, the MEGA event – a music festival attended by all the different Jewish youth groups on an Israel tour – and many more fantastic site visits, it was onto Jerusalem.

Our adventure in Israel’s capital began with a visit to the Western Wall and a

tour of the Old City, followed by a talk on the rights of Progressive Jews and of women in Israel. A life-changing visit to the Holocaust Memorial museum of Yad Vashem was followed by a Shabbat evening service with a Reform community. Then it was Netzerfest – a chance to meet up with our sister organisations around the world.

Next we headed south to the Dead Sea and woke up at 3am to climb Masada, watch the sun rise and hold a service.

That was followed by floating in the Dead Sea, swimming in the Ein Gedi springs and camel riding in the Negev, before finally sleeping under the stars.

Israel Tour provided all these amazing memories and more. It was quite simply the most enjoyable, jam-packed, interesting and inspiring month of my life.

‘A relationship I will treasure forever’ Flora Levy on spending a year in Israel as part of the Shnat Netzer programme JUST over one month ago, nine of us returned to the UK from the Shnat Netzer gap year programme run by Netzer Olami – the international Progressive Zionist youth movement that LJY-Netzer is a part of. Writing this article with hindsight, I can say that only now do I fully understand and appreciate the experiences I had and the things I learned during that year away.

Starting out as a northern hemisphere group of 33 – including Brits, Americans, Spaniards and a German – we spent our first six weeks living and working as a community on the Reform Kibbutz Yahel.

At that point, two of the group chose to carry on living the Kibbutz life, 15 went to stay and work in the small city of Karmiel, while the rest of us embarked on Shvil Yisrael – a famous hiking trail

stretching from the most northern to the most southern points of Israel.

At the beginning of February we neared our destination. We had formed a community so strong and supportive it was hard to separate. I finished this part of my year totally satisfied; truly experiencing and understanding Israel.

Moving onto the second half of the programme, I chose the option to

participate in Machon, a well-known and long-running programme for Jewish leaders abroad. I lived and studied with 85 other young people in East Jerusalem.

It was a pluralist environment, as we learned each other’s ideologies and beliefs, which ranged across the whole political and religious spectrum.

This intense four months of debate, learning and understanding – which provided an in-depth exploration into our Jewish and Zionist identities – saw me challenge all of my beliefs. I also made some amazing friends and received great leadership experience.

I can wholeheartedly say that for me, and the other eight LJY-Netzer Shnatties, this was the best year of our lives, with memories, lessons and a relationship with Israel that we will treasure forever.

Contact the LJY-Netzer team: Adam (a.francies@liberaljudaism.org), Sam G (s.grant@liberaljudaism.org), Sam C (s.cohen@liberaljudaism.org) and Anna (a.posner@liberaljudaism.org) or telephone 020 7631 0584

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Rabbi Pete’s quick quiz

Liberal Judaism congregations

Associated congregations

Beit Ha’Chidush Postbus 14613, 1001 LC Amsterdam, Netherlands, 00 31 23 524 7204; info@beithachidush.nl; www.beithachidush.nl Oxford Liberal Jewish Services: 01865 515584 or 01865 765197; www.ojc-online.org Wessex Liberal Jewish Group (Bournemouth) info@wessexliberaljudaism.org.uk; 01202 757084

Developing communities

North Herts Liberal Jewish Community (based in Stevenage) 07507 947406; nhljc@ liberaljudaism.org; www.northhertsljc.org The Suffolk Liberal Jewish Community (based in Ipswich) 01473 250797; sjc@liberaljudaism.org

Rosh Hashanah

Yom Kippur

Z’man Simchateinu Season of our gladness Yom ha-Din Day of judgement Chag ha-Asif Festival of Ingathering Yom T’ruah Day of blowing the shofar

Sh’mini Atzeret

Sukkot

Simchat Torah

Eighth Day of Assembly

He-Chag The festival Yom ha-Zikkaron Day of remembering Shabbat Shabbaton Sabbath of Sabbaths

Pete Tobias is rabbi at The Liberal Synagogue Elstree

Sidney’s bridge magic East, the dealer, opens a weak, preemptive 3 Diamonds and South jumps to 6 Spades. West leads the two of Diamonds. There appear to be two inescapable losers – a Diamond and a Heart – unless South can get to dummy and discard either or both of these losers on the two top clubs. But how on earth can South get to dummy?

Make a date ...........

September 5 (Monday) Social evening at Bedfordshire Progressive Synagogue.

Chairman Lucian J Hudson Vice Chairs Simon Benscher and Jackie Richards Treasurer David Pelham Social Action and Disability Leon Charikar Israel and the Diaspora Daniel Needlestone Officer Dr Howard Cohen Vice Presidents David Amstell, Monique Blake, Henry Cohn, Nigel Cole, Geoffrey Davis, Stanley Fink, Jeromé Freedman, Louise Freedman, Rabbi Dr David Goldberg, Rabbi Dr Andrew Goldstein, Sharon Goldstein, Rabbi Harry Jacobi, Jeremy Jessel, Willie Kessler, David Lipman, Corinne Oppenheimer, David Pick, Rosita Rosenberg, Tony Sacker, Harold Sanderson, Joan Shopper, Beverley Taylor and Clive Winston Chairs of Rabbinic Conference Rabbi Aaron Goldstein and Rabbi Shulamit Ambalu Chief Executive Rabbi Danny Rich Operations Director Shelley Shocolinsky-Dwyer PR Sophie Stern Interfaith Rabbi Mark Solomon Shlicha Dana Friedman LJY-Netzer Sam Cohen, Sam Grant and Anna Posner Student Worker Adam Francies

September 7 (Wednesday) Heritage Open Day at Leo Baeck College, 10am-4pm.

lj today is edited by Simon Rothstein The deadline for the next edition is October 1. Please email your news and views to ljtoday@liberaljudaism.org

April 20 (Friday) - April 22 (Sunday) Liberal Judaism’s 2012 Biennial Weekend at Tortworth Court Hotel in the Cotswolds.

Liberal Judaism is the dynamic, cutting edge of modern Judaism. It reverences Jewish tradition, seeking to preserve the values of the Judaism of the past while giving them contemporary force. Registered charity number 236590.

For more information on any of these events please email montagu@liberaljudaism.org

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The month of Tishri has many festivals: Rosh Hashanah, Yom Kippur, Sukkot and Simchat Torah. They also have several alternative names. But do you know which name is an alternative for which festival? To give you a clue - some have more than one, and one Hebrew name actually refers to two of the festivals!

September 8 (Thursday) Daytimers’ Event with Rabbi Pete Tobias at the Montagu Centre, 10:30am-2:30pm.

September 13 (Thursday) Liberal Judaism Council meeting and AGM at the Montagu Centre, 6.45pm.

September 25 (Sunday) Annual Memorial Services at Edgwarebury Lane Cemetery (11am), Western Cemetery (1pm), the Liberal Jewish Cemetery (2pm) and Golders Green Crematorium (3pm).

2012 March 14 (Wednesday) - March 21 (Wednesday) LJ & BPS trip to Israel and Jordan.

Sidney Barrett is bridge teacher at Woodford Liberal Synagogue

Quiz answer: Z’man Simchateinu is Sukkot and Simchat Torah. Yom ha-Din is Rosh Hashanah. Chag ha-Asif is Sukkot. Yom T’ruah is Rosh Hashanah. Sh’mini Atzeret is Simchat Torah. He-Chag is Sukkot. Yom ha-Zikkaron is Rosh Hashanah. Shabbat Shabbaton is Yom Kippur.

The Montagu Centre 21 Maple Street London, W1T 4BE Tel: 020 7580 1663 Fax: 020 7631 9838

The Liberal Synagogue Elstree Elstree High Street, Elstree, Herts WD6 3BY; 020 8953 8889; tlse@liberaljudaism.org; www.tlse.org.uk Lincolnshire Jewish Community 01427 628958; ljc@liberaljudaism.org Manchester Liberal Jewish Community 08432 084441; mljc@liberaljudaism.org; www.mljc.org.uk North London Progressive Jewish Community 020 7403 3779; nlpjc@liberaljudaism.org; www.nlpjc.org.uk Northwood and Pinner Liberal Synagogue Oaklands Gate, Northwood, Middx HA6 3AA; 01923 822592, npls@liberaljudaism.org; www.npls.org.uk Nottingham Progressive Jewish Congregation Lloyd Street, Sherwood NG5 4BP; 0115 9624761; npjc@liberaljudaism.org; www.npjc.org.uk Peterborough Liberal Jewish Community Enquiries: 020 7631 9822 The Progressive Jewish Community of East Anglia (based in Norwich); www.pjcea.org.uk Reading Liberal Jewish Community 0118 942 8022; rljc@liberaljudaism.org; www.rljc.org Shenfield, Brentwood & Districts Synagogue 01277 888610; info@roshtikvah.com; www.roshtikvah.com South Bucks Jewish Community PO Box 826, Amersham, HP6 9GA; 0845 644 2370; sbjc@liberaljudaism.org; www.sbjc.org.uk South London Liberal Synagogue PO Box 14475, London SW16 1ZW; 020 8769 4787; slls@liberaljudaism.org; www.southlondon.org Southgate Progressive Synagogue 75 Chase Road, London N14 4QY; 020 8886 0977; sps@liberaljudaism.org; www.sps.uk.com West Central Liberal Synagogue 21 Maple Street, London W1T 4BE; 020 7636 7627; wcls@liberaljudaism.org; www.wcls.org.uk Woodford Liberal Synagogue Marlborough Road, George Lane, London E18 1AR; 020 8989 7619; wps@liberaljudaism.org; www.woodfordliberal.org.uk

Bridge answer: You win the first trick with the Ace of Diamonds and then play the Ace of Spades. East discards a Diamond, so West must have the remaining two trumps and, as you can deduce from what you know, no Diamonds.

So play the King of Spades and then, and here comes the surprise to enable the magic, put West on lead by playing the two of Spades! West now has no more Diamonds or trumps. If he leads a Club, you just discard your two losers immediately. If he leads a Heart you play the Jack. If that wins you’re in dummy to play the Clubs and if it’s covered by the Queen, you overtake with the King and lead low towards the Jack, and play the Clubs. So, in effect, you lose one trick that you needn’t lose to make two tricks.

Bedfordshire Progressive Synagogue (Rodef Shalom) 01234 218387; bedsps@liberaljudaism. org; www.bedfordshire-ps.org.uk Beit Klal Yisrael c/o The Montagu Centre, 21 Maple Street, London W1T 4BE; 07505 477459, bky@liberaljudaism.org; www.bky.org.uk Bet Tikvah Synagogue 129 Perrymans Farm Road, Ilford, Essex IG2 7LX; 020 8554 9682; bttkv@liberaljudaism.org; www.bettikvah.org.uk Birmingham Progressive Synagogue 1 Roseland Way, Birmingham B15 1HD; 0121 634 3888; bps@liberaljudaism.org; www.bpsjudaism.com Brighton and Hove Progressive Synagogue 6 Lansdowne Road, Hove BN3 1FF; 01273 737223; bhps@liberaljudaism.org; www.brightonandhoveprosynagogue.org.uk Bristol and West Progressive Jewish Congregation 43-45 Bannerman Road, Easton, Bristol BS5 0RR bwpjc@liberaljudaism.org; www.bwpjc.org Crouch End Liberal Jewish Chavurah info@crouchendchavurah.co.uk; www.crouchendchavurah.co.uk Crawley Jewish Community 01293 534294 Dublin Jewish Progressive Congregation PO Box 3059, Dublin 6, 00 3531 2856241; djpc@liberaljudaism.org Ealing Liberal Synagogue Lynton Avenue, Drayton Green, W13 0EB; 020 8997 0528; els@liberaljudaism. org; www.ealingliberalsynagogue.org.uk Eastbourne Progressive Jewish Congregation 01323 725650; fax: 01323 417645 epjc@liberaljudaism.org; www.epjcong.org.uk Edinburgh Liberal Jewish Community 0131 777 8024; info@eljc.org; www.eljc.org Finchley Progressive Synagogue Hutton Grove, N12 8DR; 020 8446 4063; fps@liberaljudaism.org; www.fps.org Gloucestershire Liberal Jewish Community Enquiries: 01242 609311 or 01242 231877; shalom@gljc.org.uk; www. gljc.org.uk Harrow and Wembley Progressive Synagogue 39 Bessborough Road, Harrow HA1 3BS; 020 8864 5323; hwps@liberaljudaism.org; www.hwps.org Herefordshire Jewish Community 01594 530721; hjc@liberaljudaism.org; www.herefordshirejc.org Kent Liberal Jewish Community – Ohel Rachel 07952 242432; kljc@liberaljudaism.org; http:// tinyurl.com/kentljc Kingston Liberal Synagogue Rushett Road, Long Ditton, Surbiton, Surrey; KT7 0UX; 020 8398 7400; kls@liberaljudaism.org; www.klsonline.org Leicester Progressive Jewish Congregation The Synagogue, 24 Avenue Road, LE2 3EA; 07875 123744; lpjc@liberaljudaism.org The Liberal Jewish Synagogue 28 St John’s Wood Road, London NW8 7HA; 020 7286 5181; ljs@liberaljudaism.org; www.ljs.org