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Hedwig
and the angry inch Text by John Cameron Mitchell, Music and Lyrics by Stephen Trask
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WADE DAVIS Former NFL cornerback Wade Davis courageously came out in public and is a nationally recognized activist, writer, and role model for the LGBTQ growing up in a strict religious household to working and advocating for LGBTQ youth. He is currently the executive director of the New York branch of the “You Can Play” Foundation.
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CONTENTS SEXUALITY CONFERENCE, drag show conclude WSU Pride Week........... 7 OPEN MIC NIGHT a place for poets to shine............................................9 THE BIG JC eats out........................................................................................12 LIBERTY PRESS' BEST OF GAY WICHITA WINNERS................................. 14-15 NEW MOBILECOMM LOCATION features a repair bar.................................17 LITTLE APPLE PRIDE offers the 'gayest Pride yet'!.....................................18 'I AM HARVEY MILK' shares a universal message.....................................21 MEN'S CHORUS brings Oliver Button to life.................................................26 'HOOPLA IN DOO-DAH' at Riverfest 2014...................................................30
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In need of a pen pal Dear editor: I pray that this letter finds you and your readers in the very best of health and the happiest of spirits. As for me, not so much. It can only get better. Please allow me to introduce myself and explain the purpose of my letter. I am a young gay man in prison and the loneliness is crushing my soul. I have what feels like a hole in my heart that only another gay man can fill. I feel hopeless and helpless and I desperately need a friend. I have no living family and what friends I once had have long since forgotten me. I thought if I wrote to you perhaps you would find it in your heart to be so kind and help me to find someone to correspond with by printing my letter. Sincerely, James Carroll F67996 MCSP C13-138 PO Box 409060 Ione, CA 95640
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Dear editor: This is my final response to Mr. Joe Mueller. Since you think my column sucks and usually turn the page then I or no one else should hear from you again! A poem to you! Roses are red Violets are blue I heard what you said Now I am done with you! Love, Mama
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Sexuality conference, drag show conclude WSU Pride Week events By Brian Hansen WICHITA - While Wichita State University has much to be proud of this year, a week in March will be dedicated to the LGBT community and its allies. The college will be hosting its annual Pride Week from Mar. 4-7. Wichita State’s Office of Multicultural Affairs (OMA)and Student Activities Council have
teamed up with That Gay Group! (TGG), the campus’s LGBT social student organization, to organize several events throughout the week. “That Gay Group! is a social discussion group for Wichita State’s LGBT community and its allies. “Meetings are held generally every Thursday at 7pm,” says TGG president Jacob Kresky. TGG provides recourses and events for LGBT students and their allies throughout the college semester as well as “everyone welcome” weekly social meetings. “Our events include a Brown Bag discussion called Alphabet Soup (LGBTQA), Wall of Support, the Gender and Sexuality Conference and a drag show,” says Kresky, “All events are open for all.”
March 5 - Brown Bag: Alphabet Soup, A Discussion of LGBTQA Identities. TGG and OMA have created a panel discussion made up of students, faculty, staff and community members from the LGBT community for an informational discussion of the different identities of the community. This event is open to the WSU community. March 6 - Wall of Support with That Gay Group!. The event is designed to celebrate the important role allies play in keeping the campus safer for students, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity. The Wall of Support, held in the Pete’s Place Lounge on campus, encourages members of campus to be allies against anti-LGBT harassment. March 7 - 2013 Gender and Sexuality in Kansas Conference. The conference headlines a keynote by Dr. Betsy Lucal with breakout sessions lead by presenters from WSU, KSU and Friends University. March 7 - Wichita State’s 4th Annual Drag Show. Hosted by Divinity Masters, the show will highlight some of the Wichita area’s best drag kings and queens. The show will take place at 8pm in the CAC Theater on the WSU campus and is open to the public. More information about these or other events of WSU Pride Week can be found online at wichita.edu. l
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St. Patrick’s Day parade in Delano WICHITA - Historic Delano announced its plans for hosting the 8th Annual St. Patrick’s Parade in Wichita’s historic Delano district. Saturday, Mar. 15 beginning at high noon, the parade will commence along Douglas Ave. from McLean Boulevard west to Walnut Street. Additional St. Patrick’s activities will be going on
throughout Delano all day long. Entry forms for the parade are available for download at www.historicdelano.com or may be filled out online. Deadline for entry is Mar. 8. Questions? Call Nancy at (316) 640-2453 or e-mail parade@historicdelano. com.
Pine Valley Christian Church to host The Laramie Project and
W I C H I TA - P i n e Va l l e y Christian Church, 5620 E. 21st, is hosting two events of specific interest to the LGBT community in March. The events are part of Nonviolence: A Season for Everyone that is holding events during the 65 days between the anniversaries of the assassination deaths of Mahatma Gandhi and Martin Luther King, Jr. (Jan. 30-April4). A showing of The Laramie Project with guest speaker, Stacey Mann, will be held Saturday, Mar. 22 at 7pm. Beyond the Binary - Exploring Gender Identity presented by Ash Wickell, a recent graduate of the Friends University Master’s of Science in Marriage and Family Therapy program, will be held Saturday, Mar. 29 at 7pm
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New poll: Majority of voters even in nonmarriage states support gay couples’ freedom to marry
Freedom to Marry and Anzalone Liszt Grove Research recently released a first-ofits-kind poll showing that a majority of registered voters who live in states without the freedom to marry nevertheless support marriage for same-sex couples, with only 41% still opposed. The poll, conducted in December 2013, uniquely examines support for the freedom to marry specifically in the states where marriage for same-sex couples is not legal. “The findings of this poll shows that support for the freedom to marry in America is not limited to coastal states or politically liberal states, or even states that have ended discrimination,” said Wednesday, March 26 Evan Wolfson, founder and 1:30pm – Dedication of Sculptures president of Freedom to inspired by plays of William Inge, Marry. “Instead, Americans Riverside Park all across the country have opened their hearts and 7:30p.m. – Special concert reading minds and followed their of BecauseHeCan by Arthur Kopit, values of fairness and Performing Arts Center, Indepenfreedom to move in support dence High School of the freedom to marry. This accelerating nationwide Thursday, March 27 support lines up with 9:30am-4:45pm – Workshops & the legal victories we’ve panels on theatre & film seen in more conservative states, including Utah and 7:30pm – A Concert Reading of The Oklahoma, and explains Great Barrier by Mat Smart, Otis why the reaction to these Guernsey New Voices winner, at the court rulings was largely William Inge Theatre, Independence positive. America is ready Community College for the freedom to marry.” The poll shows Friday, March 28 support in non-marriage 9:30am-4:45pm – Workshops & states at 51%, with strongest panels on theatre & film numbers in the Central and Western parts of the 7pm – Gala Dinner, Independence country (59% and 53% of Civic Center, lower level of Memorial voters respectively). Even Hall (Tickets must be reserved by March 5) in the South, voters are split evenly on the freedom to Saturday, March 29 marry, 46% in support and 46% opposed. In addition, 9:30-12:20pm – Workshops & the poll finds that regardless panels on theatre & film of personal views, 56% of 1:45-4:30pm – Inge-About-Town, voters believe that marriage Scenes performed around Indepenwill be legal in their state in dence a couple of years (including 49% among marriage 7:30pm – 33rd Annual William Inge opponents.) Festival Tribute – Arthur Kopit: What To r e a d t h e f u l l is the meaning of this?, William Inge polling memo, visit www. Theatre, Independence Community f r e e d o m t o m a r r y. o r g / College NonMarriageStatesPoll. l
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Open Mic Night a place for poets to shine
By Ciara Reid, staff reporter TOPEKA - Every first Tuesday of the month, you can find poets and poetry lovers at Skivies Bar & Grill in Topeka. Whether you go to bravely share your prose with the room, or attend as a supportive audience member, a good time is guaranteed. The goal, according to the event’s founder Sue Edgerton, is to build a vibrant community of poets that is open to a diverse group of spoken-word artists and enthusiasts. The first open mic event was held in September 2013. Since then, the event has grown in popularity. Edgerton and her co-host, Annette Billings, felt there was a need for a monthly open mic poetry night. “We knew there were lots of writers out there seeking an outlet and inspiration,” Edgerton explains. The owners of Skivies were more than happy to allow Edgerton and Billings to take over the dance floor and sound system. “They have been awesome hosts,” Edgerton says. 16 people attended the first event, and four people signed up to read. Most came just to check out the event and listen to the poets. By the end of that evening, 10 people had read, including a young veteran who had just stopped in for a beer. “He moved us beyond words,” Edgerton says. Edgerton and Billings alternate as MCs. They started an open group page on Facebook called “Speak Easy Poets.” The group has grown to more than 100 members, from several states. They promote each month’s event through Facebook, word of mouth, flyers
posted in local coffee shops and libraries, and local media. “The mic is open to anyone with a voice or a desire to speak,” Edgerton says. “We want to hear spoken-word artists and enthusiasts of all genres: academic, confessional, slammers, comics, storytellers, rappers, interpretive primal screamers, and prose.” She also encourages people to read their favorite works by the masters, or even personal friends or family. The participants vary in terms of style and background. “We have seasoned veterans and people who have never held a microphone in their hand,” Edgerton says. She encourages everyone to come and check out the event, even if you don’t think you like poetry – this event just might change your mind. The sign-up list is available at 6:30pm the night of the event. The mic opens at 7pm. Edgerton and Billings ask that each poet reads one long piece and two or three short pieces. This format allows time for audience members to hear everyone before those who have a curfew need to head home. After that, they continue rotating through the list until it is finished. The event typically ends around 10:30pm or 11pm, but if words are flowing easily, they can go up until last call. There are no specific themes for the poets, and it is not a group that is exclusive to the LGBTQ community. Anyone and everyone are welcome to
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attend and participate. “We are a poetry group that meets in a gay bar and will always embrace diversity,” Edgerton says. “It will take longer to draw in poets who have never been to an LGBT bar in downtown Topeka, but it will happen, and is happening.” l
More Information: The next open mic night will be Mar. 4th. Join the Speak Easy Poets group on Facebook or e-mail Sue Edgerton at tzufysh@ yahoo.com. Skivies Bar & Grill 921 S. Kansas Ave. Topeka
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sat 8pm • sun 4pm
folly theater 300 west 12th, kcmo
dustin cates & dr. tim seelig, guest conductors
featuring special guests Gateway Men’s Chorus of St. Louis
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The Big JC Eats Out
By John Lambert
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man in uniform showed up at my friend’s front door in Chicago with an exceptionally large package. It was the envy of everyone there. As everyone stood in awe wanting to rip that bad boy open, I signed for the box. It was my new Swiss Gear backpack and cologne from Amazon.com. Now I can be perceived as a college student while eating out. I was on my way home hitchhiking. I sat politely in Lincoln Park dressed in a spike collar intimidating ensemble at the library when my ride arrived in a cardigan and little spectacles. He looked at me and fidgeted. He said, “The road is no place for a lady.” I replied, “I’m not Cass Elliot but I know a meal ticket when I see one.” That was our arranged code. It was a several hour drive, almost all day actually. We spent the drive counting blue cars and listening to Ana Tijoux. We stayed at his house in
Kansas City for the night and traveled on to Lawrence and Emporia the next morning. I wanted to go out, but decided to save myself for the smaller underrated towns along the way. In Lawrence I tipped a street performer I knew while staying at LCS [Lawrence Community Shelter]. We went to my favorite old pizza parlor, Papa Keno’s. Now this establishment is worth a visit on Mass Street and it’s worth going to Lawrence for if you live within a 100-mile radius. If you are pinching pennies and you need lodging, LCS is a very LGBTQ-friendly shelter. The food is okay and the people are fun, especially Mamma Crutch. She is my favorite mother, and the mother of all cripples. Mass Street provides a wide variety of entertainment, food, and shopping. I’m sure you all know this. You also get the company of street performers and a built in safety network on Mass Street by staying at LCS. As usual I had the artichoke and spinach chicken sandwich.
I also had a bite of the second party’s pizza. Now this sandwich is by far the best commercially sold sandwich in Kansas that I have ever eaten. It is the very reason I always look forward to a visit to KU. You have a nice mixture of cheeses and fresh ingredients baked in an oven on “homemade” bread. It is not a flamboyant dish and is a very fair price. When you see the prices of pizza, remember a pie is four feet across and a slice is the size of your face. The pizza I tried would not have been my personal choice, but I did approve. It was neither greasy nor overly fattening. It was a vegan’s selection of spinach, pineapple and olives. For dessert we had chocolate candies at Au Mauche. It is a little grocery store that boasts the finest sundries of Europe. I suggest the lemon creme Bon Bons, it’s the guiltiest of pleasures. We quickly drove past Topeka and maintained we were “innocent until proven guilty.” If the funny farm was going to lock us up, they needed a witness that we had engaged in homosexual acts and we would both be happy to prove their suspicions
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correct. In this day and age that isn’t enough. They need signs of mania, and mania my dears is often a side effect of a life of happiness. Our second stop was Emporia. Normally I would have never gone into a chain, especially fast food. However a Wichitaarea chain had opened there and I wanted to show my support. So, we had a meal at Spangles. Unfortunately I ran into people I knew from my childhood. See, I grew up in a village 10 miles south called Olpe. I pretended I didn’t know them at all and pointed at the Wisconsin plates my ride had. Now Spangles is one of those rare fast food chains I will eat in. Exceptions are made to the “no fast food” rule. I usually only go for the guilty pleasure of a soda and wi-fi. A few hours later I arrived in my home city of Wichita dead tired. My ride was en route to a place called San Francisco. I put my coat on the rack and returned to the kitchen. It looks like a month of homemade pasta salad and scalloped oysters are in my immediate future. It was a wonderful adventure of food. l
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ama, What do you think of the football player, Michael Sam, coming out as gay? A Fan Well, who the hell cares? It is his business, no one else’s. I always thought most football players were a little gay. They are always patting each other’s butt! I hope all the best for him. Is it half-time yet? What do you think of the law they want to pass to allow others to spank your child if they misbehave? Not signed Once again the lawmakers are crossing the line. It is no one’s job to punish our kids except for the parents. If the parents
are too lazy to do it then, they should not have kids! Why all of sudden does government want to get into our bedrooms (same-sex marriage) and now wanting to raise our kids the way they believe is right. This is becoming a country that is not so free! Everyone needs to mind their own damn business including the government. Let us live our lives! Could someone bring me a beer? Dear Mama, I have a co-worker that is very religious and thinks he lives righteously. I realize that he tends to be very selfish and not really think of others. He is always wanting his same spot for everything at work and it is not assigned. How
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can someone supposedly be so religious and be so selfcentered? Frustrated
getting less social what with texting, internet, Facebook, and Twitter? Not texting
Those people who claim to be so Godly usually are not. If you are truly spiritual or religious then you know you’re supposed to love all and be kind to everyone. Not think of yourself and judge others and pick and choose what you want out of the Holy book. These are the same people that want to beat you with their Bible because you live differently or think differently! Well God would never do that! Just ignore your co-worker and realize you’re the better person! With people like that in the world that is why we have alcohol!!
YES I DO! People today do not know how to hold a conversation with others. I see people at restaurants and the Bigger Jigger texting each other while sitting across the table from each other. It is okay to have all those things, but people are now letting it control their lives. It is just stupid! I am an old lady, if you want to talk to me call me, or come see me. I do not text or tweet. If this keeps up, the world is in big, big trouble.
Mama, Do you think that people are
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Place to Grab a Beer J's Lounge 513 E. Central www.jsloungewichita.com
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hank you everyone for voting for our second annual Reader's Choice awards! With the return of GALA at last year's Pride event in September, we narrowed the focus of the Best of Gay Wichita awards to categories in the business community. Again there were categories that we decided not to award because there were too many nominees that split the votes. For example, there were 11 different hair stylists that received votes. The other categories were Attorney, Business Person, and Therapist. Also, if you can believe it we had one tie! Congratulations to all of this year's winners! Bartender Brett Fleming, Rain, and Andrew Beisel, Fantasy Complex Dance Floor Fantasy Complex 3201 S. Hillside www.wichitagayclubs.com Theme Night The Fantasy's Blackout Party "The Fantasy Complex wants to take the time to thank all those that voted for us, and for every single customer that has ever graced our doors. We thank you for the opportunity to make your night, your weekend, and even that moment you will remember fondly. We hope that we have created an opportunity for each of you to have made new friends. We welcome new ideas and suggestions to make what we consider YOUR PLACE even better, and thank you all for making amazing memories that will last forever!"
"WOW, thank you so much Wichita and L.P. for this remarkable reward! Both Kelly and I are thrilled it’s our 13th year open! We always strive at making J’s a place for all to enjoy. My supporters are proud of this bar and its community. Being an award-winning bar you must come enjoy our fun, upscale-dive environment with your closest family and friends. Just remember to relax and always be yourself. I encourage everyone to stop by J’s Lounge to see our new changes we’ve done for 2014! Thanks again for the ‘Best Place to Grab a Beer’ award." -Russell Place to Meet Women The Store 3210 E. Osie (316) 683-9781
Place to Meet Men and Overall Bar Rain Cafe & Lounge 518 E. Douglas www.raincafeandlounge.com Mixed Drink Rain's Long Island "We want to thank you so much for your support and patronage! We are always working hard to provide our city with a fun, quality restaurant and bar venue that promotes a positive image to all of our community!" Gay-Friendly Restaurant or Coffeeshop Doo-Dah Diner 206 E Kellogg www.doodahdiner.com "At the Doo-Dah Diner, we believe in the Golden Rule. Therefore, w e w a n t e v e r y g u e s t ’s experience to be similar to that of a comforting, warm embrace. We are a family-run restaurant that believes in treating our guests like family. Thank you so much for this recognition. We are delighted to learn that our diners nominated us for this award. We are more than a restaurant. We are a nurturing community."
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Local DJ Michael K. Fantasy Complex "2013 was an amazing year! I met some of the most amazing people. 2014 will be an even greater year. But I must thank all of you here in Kansas who continue to support me. A BIG thanks to my partner Kenny Sutton, my mother Dawn Kasselman, Kelley and Kelly, my good DJ friends, DJ Austin Henry and DJ CJ Vers, and DJ Val and Pat Harmon. Plus, everyone of you who has walked through the front door of Fantasy over the last year!" Live Theater Cabaret Oldtown 412 E. Douglas www.cabaretoldtown.com "We are thrilled to be named Reader’s Choice for Best Live Theatre!! We love what we do and we are so happy that your readers love it too. Thanks for continuing to support Cabaret Oldtown. It is essential to keep us 'Keepin’ On,' and is appreciated more than I could ever put into words." Christi Moore, Owner/Producer Massage Therapist Joshua Pfister Light and Sound Spa 1157 N. Piatt Ave. www.lightandsoundspa.com "Thank you Liberty Press and supporters of the Wichita LGBT community for choosing me as best massage therapist. It is truly an honor to accept this award. I would like to thank my clients and friends that voted for me. I would also like to thank Brad, my partner in business and partner in life, for his support in promoting business in the LGBT community, and for his encouragement of me as a massage therapist. Thank you all who have supported Light and Sound Spa, and all LGBT-owned businesses in Wichita. Your loyal patronage is very much appreciated."
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I won the Liberty Press’ Best of Gay Wichita Reader’s Choice award for Best Realtor! What better honor is there than receiving accolades for doing a job that you love, working with people who are such good friends? That says it all. I have a job that allows me to work with and spend time with friends. And, they trust me to help them make decisions that fundamentally affect their lives. I am truly honored. This inspires me to work harder, but to continue to appreciate my job. Thank you so much. "
Other Business Images by Kelsy Gossett www.imagesbykelsy.com " Yo u r o c k ! Thank you for your support in my business! I appreciate each and every one of you and feel so blessed to be able to have a career doing what I absolutely love. I couldn’t do it without you and your continued support! Thank you and Much Love, Kelsy" l
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the following excerpt from the National Association of Social Workers Code of Ethics:
Choosing Social Work as a Transgender Career
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am five weeks into the last semester of my Bachelor of Social Work program at Washburn University in Topeka. Just a few days ago, I received notification that I have been accepted into the Master of Social Work program at Washburn. The decision regarding my choice of career has been a process of looking at impact and matching with passion. I spent the first 48 years of my life in a passionless trudge through the existence of not being my true self. The total impact of my first 48 years on the planet can be summed up in these few words: alcoholic, homeless, and spiritually dead. Passion and impact are extremely important to me. A person might ask, “Why do you say a transgender career? “I would respond by saying that I am a transgender person. It is a label I choose to place on myself, knowing full well that I am really a person who is transgender, and transgender is only a part of who I am. Also knowing that being transgender is something that has had an encumbering influence on every
aspect of my life. Like it or not, right or wrong, being transgender has been a pervasive part of each of the some 384 million breaths I took in those first 48 years. Why should it not be as significant a part of the some 64 million breaths I have taken since I began to embrace myself as a woman, and the however many breaths I have left to take? The point is that the words I am typing will inevitably be read by someone who identifies as a transgender teenager. They will undoubtedly wonder what type of transgender career they can possibly have in a world that continues, to a large extent, to identify transgender people completely by our transgenderness. I want that transgender teen to know that they can be whomever they truly are, and become whatever it is their heart desires. Being transgender should never be an encumbrance to living your life. I have decided to continue my education in pursuit of an MSW, and with the hope of becoming a licensed clinical therapist, or perhaps, leading a national transgender awareness initiative. But, why social work? The answer is easily found in
The primary mission of the social work profession is to enhance human wellbeing and help meet the basic human needs of all people, with particular attention to the needs and empowerment of people who are vulnerable, oppressed, and living in poverty. A historic and defining feature of social work is the profession’s focus on individual wellbeing in a social context and the well being of society. Fundamental to social work is attention to the environmental forces that create, contribute to, and address problems in living. Social workers promote social justice and social change with and on behalf of clients. “Clients” is used inclusively to refer to individuals, families, groups, organizations, and communities. Social workers are sensitive to cultural and ethnic diversity and strive to end discrimination, oppression, poverty, and other forms of social injustice. These activities may be in the form of direct practice, community organizing, supervision, consultation administration, advocacy, social and political action, policy development and implementation, education, and research and evaluation. Social workers seek to enhance the capacity of people to address their own needs. Social workers also seek to promote the responsiveness of organizations, communities, and other social institutions to individuals’ needs and social problems. In truth, I knew I wanted to be a social worker long before I
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became familiar with the NASW Code of Ethics. In no small part, this is because of the social worker who embodied this code as she enabled me to move beyond existence as a man, into life as a woman. She empowered me to find my own feet, and to walk with dignity and selfrespect. When we met for the first time, she knew nothing about how to work with someone who was transgender. But she knew how to create a space of kindness and fostered an environment in which I was able to talk openly about my gender identity without the fear of being judged. Together, we learned about the transgender things we needed to learn. And I learned that I am a person who happens to be transgender. And being a person, I am endowed with the right to dignity and respect. I have come to know, over the last eight years, that this amazing social worker was living the mission of social work, “to enhance human wellbeing.” It is a most noble profession. I am honored to have chosen social work as my transgender career. The enhancement of human wellbeing, the promotion of social justice, and the empowerment of people who are oppressed. Seems like a pretty good way to spend the however many breaths I have left to take. NASW Code of Ethics - www. socialworkers.org/pubs/code/ default.asp. l Stephanie Mott is a transgender woman from Topeka. She is the executive director of the Kansas Statewide Transgender Education Project, and a commissioner on the City of Topeka Human Relations Commission. Reach her at stephanieequality@yahoo.com.
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WICHITA – As we’re all becoming more dependent on mobile devices for everyday life, the thought of having to do without a cell phone while it’s being repaired isn’t an option for most people. Now MobileComm is here with a whole new concept in wireless service. The business’ fifth location, opened Feb. 13 at 10231 W. 21st, will harness the superpowers of their mascot MobileComm Man, along with state-of-the-art tools and techniques to quickly repair wireless equipment usually in less than 60 minutes. Featuring a repair bar, with an open-kitchen-type concept, the new location will give MobileComm customers a different experience with a higher level of engagement. This arrangement will allow customers to watch their phones being repaired by MobileComm-certified technicians and get answers to their questions. Repair service includes free diagnostic checks to let customers know what needs to be repaired, pricing and how soon they can get back to life as normal. The new location will
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Little Apple Pride offers the 'gayest Pride yet'! MANHATTAN - Saturday, April 5, Little Apple Pride in Manhattan will press on for progress with the gayest Pride yet, despite all the craziness going on in the great state of Kansas. Let’s show some hope for our ever increasing conservative government. Not only will we get to keep our rights (hopefully), we will keep our gay in Manhattan. It is also Open House at Kansas State University; we should come together and give hope to that young person who is just looking for a place to call home and belong. Just like every year, the
parade will start at the First Congreational Church at 700 Poyntz Ave. in downtown Manhattan at 2pm. We will march for equality to Triangle Park where there will be community and student groups who welcome the LGBT community. Bring the whole family to watch some amazing entertainment and speakers. We would love to see an increase in attendance like every year however, let’s get 500 people marching the streets and rally for the community. For more information please contact the Little Apple Pride chair, Kara Baker: kdbaker@ ksu.edu or the advisor Lukus Ebert: lukuse12@gmail.com. l
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et’s start with a book recommendation this month. This can’t really be a review of new material because it was published in 1994. And even though it is two decades old, Stranger at the Gate by Mel White (Simon & Schuster, $13.73) is still a mustread memoir. White is gay and like many white Christian males of his time – even of this time if we are to be honest – he spent a good chunk of his life suppressing his true self by marrying a woman and having kids. He also is a talented writer with a flair for sentimental yet honest prose, as can be seen in this memoir. He is such a talented writer that he wrote speeches for Oliver North and was a ghost writer for Jerry Falwell. Yes, that Jerry Falwell. Not only is this one man’s journey to accept who he is, it is also a chronicle of the rise of the “Moral Majority,” or the conservative religious/political/ social movement that has lead to such asinine and anti-human rights legislation as KS HB 2453. So much more damage has been done by this movement than just this one bill created in hate. But to really see the roots of this “moral” movement; to get inside and see where this cancer started is something that only White’s book can offer. To live in modern-day America as a member of the LGBTQ community, or as a supporter, and not know what we are fighting against is like
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showing up to chili supper with chopsticks. Stranger at the Gate is a nonthreatening read that entertains, but most importantly educates. And now for a review. One purely for pleasure. No history. Well, there is history, or rather our future which is history for half of the characters in Paradox Lost by Libby Drew (Carina Press, $3.99 digital). Confused? Let me clear this up. Reegan is a time travel tour guide who loses one of his tourists on a trip back to the year 2020. In order to find her he enlists private eye Saul, and the two start more than just a business relationship. Drew has crafted a fun, sensual, noir sci-fi trip. The characters are punched in the mold of their stereotypes – Saul is what you expect from a noir P.I. – which only adds to the fun. I listened to the audiobook narrated by Dorian Greyhound ($17.46), and found his characterizations of the men to be spot on. Saul’s voice was closed and gravely, Reegan’s had the right touch of intellectual sarcasm with a dose of disdain, and Reegan’s boss was delightfully cigar and gin drenched. Greyhound’s female voices were boringly stereotypical, but I found them easy to overlook. Listening to Paradox Lost is a great way to unwind and enjoy some ear candy. It’s the dark and sugary dessert after the delicious, yet nutritious, entrée from Mel White. l
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‘I am Harvey Milk’ shares a universal message By Ciara Reid, staff reporter KANSAS CITY - For many, the 2008 film Milk was an introduction to Harvey Milk and what he was able to accomplish in terms of LGBTQ rights, as a politician and gay rights activist in San Francisco. The film depicts these accomplishments and his tragic murder. On Mar. 29th and 30th, audiences at the Folly Theater will get to experience the Heartland Men’s Chorus (HMC) and the Gateway Men’s Chorus of St. Louis tell the powerful story of Harvey Milk in the form of 12 emotional songs. The choruses will be two of five gay men’s choruses nationwide that have commissioned “I Am Harvey Milk” this year. Additional performances will be held in St. Louis and Columbia, Missouri. “I Am Harvey Milk” was written by composer Andrew Lippa, a Tony and Grammy award-nominated composer. “One of the best parts about this project is knowing it will be performed all across North America this year,” says Tom Lancaster, HMC chorus member who will be performing the role of Harvey Milk. “To be part of something that far-reaching is exciting.” He says the HMC production will be notable for its size; they will have more than 200 voices in the chorus. Also notable is the presence of Tim Seelig as guest conductor. He conducted the world premiere of “I am Harvey Milk” in San Francisco. “Tim is a legend in the gay choral movement,” Lancaster says. For Lancaster, the opportunity to portray Harvey Milk is the role of a lifetime. “To play an iconic, historical character is challenging, but Harvey’s passion comes through so strongly on the page, it’s very easy to identify with him,” he says. “I’ve been preparing since December, watching the film Milk and the documentary The Times of Harvey Milk.” Lancaster’s preparation also includes reading Randy Shilts’ biography, The Mayor of Castro Street, and the play Execution of Justice, which is about Dan White’s trial for the murders
of Milk and George Moscone, who was More information: mayor of San Francisco at the time. Lancaster says that even though there isn’t “I Am Harvey Milk” at 8pm Saturday, Mar. 29 and the chance to lapse into impersonation, as 4pm Sunday, Mar. 30 the piece is sung through, he hopes to The Folly Theater channel the essence of Harvey Milk. 300 W. 12th Street The performance, which features 12 Kansas City songs, is not a meticulous biographical Tickets are $15-$40 retelling of Milk’s life; rather, it focuses Tickets can be purchased online at hmckc.org or on several critical moments in his by calling 816-931-3338. life, including the signing of the anti discrimination bill that he sponsored. The Encore performance will be at 8pm Saturday, April 5 songs, Lancaster says, touch on universal Washington University’s 560 Music Center themes that everyone can relate to. 560 Trinity Avenue “Thank You, Mrs. Rosenblatt speaks St Louis to the importance of teachers in our lives Tickets are $25 and can be purchased online - from the teachers who taught us in at www.gmcstl.org. school to those who ‘taught’ us by their fight for LGBT civil rights,” Lancaster Free preview performance at 7pm Saturday, Mar. 8 explains. “Friday Night in the Castro is Missouri United Methodist Church a disco-influenced number that illustrates 204 S. 9th St. the mood of the Castro District of San Columbia, MO Francisco in the 1970s. There is even a Presented by the University of Missouri LGBTQ song sung from the perspective of the Resource Center bullet that killed Harvey Milk.” This performance is free and open to the public. The performance of “I Am Harvey Milk” serves as an important reminder for the LGBTQ community to remember the strength to live our authentic lives. And there is heroes like Milk, who have helped pave tremendous power in that.” the way for progress in this country. For Each time Lancaster sings the 12 songs in “I am Harvey Lancaster, it gives the chorus members a Milk,” he is moved by its overwhelming optimism. chance to share Milk’s story, along with “Telling this story on stage is a deeply empowering his significance in history. experience, for the men on stage singing and for everyone “The battles he fought during his who hears it,” he says. l political career are the exact same battles being fought today, especially here in Kansas and Missouri,” h e s a y s . “ We c a n draw inspiration from Harvey as we fight the political and religious battles that challenge us every day.” Those who attend a performance will most certainly be moved by the power and emotion of the music. The finale in particular will stir emotions. “The finale of the piece has the chorus singing the words ‘come out’ over and over again, each time with more and more force,” Lancaster explains. “It’s so simple, but it’s profound. One of Harvey’s greatest hopes was that every gay man and woman that heard his story would come out to their friends, to their families, to Artistic Director and Conductor of the Golden Gate Performing Arts and San Francisco Gay Men’s their communities - Chorus ,Tim Seelig is serving as guest conductor. He conducted the world premiere of “I am Harvey that we would all find Milk” in San Francisco.
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On the Cover: LAWRENCE - “I stand before you…a proud African-American transgender woman.” Laverne Cox, who stars i n t h e h i t O r a n g e I s th e New Black series, took the stage to uproarious applause as an audience nearly 1,000 strong welcomed her to the University of Kansas. Through the collaboration of many on and off-campus organizations, Laverne Cox presented “Ain’t I a Woman: My Journey to Womanhood” on Feb. 6 at KU’s Crafton-Preyer Theatre in Murphy Hall. Accompanied by her signature eye-catching dress and sparkling jewelry, Cox’s knowledge, presence and passion were more than inspiring. Laverne and her twin brother were raised by their single mother in southern Alabama amidst the Civil Rights movement. Laverne was intensely bullied as a child for her gender expression and unsuccessfully attempted to take her life as a young teenager. Afterward, she says that she began “defining herself by [her] achievements” and reflected with introspective humor on her victorious campaign for seventh grade student council vice president. She attended the Alabama School of Fine Arts as a dance major and eventually moved to New York City in the ‘90’s, a move she credits with making her dreams possible by giving her the freedom to celebrate her gender. Cox finds much of her inspiration has sprung from other social and civil rights activists; her speaking series is entitled “Ain’t I a Woman: My Journey to Womanhood” in homage of Sojourner Truth’s famous “Ain’t I a Woman?” speech delivered to the 1851 Ohio Women’s Rights Convention in Akron. Bell Hooks and Judith Butler were among some of her other “possibility models” – a term Cox has coined for herself in response to allegations that she’s a “role model.” As an African-American activist, Cox draws attention to the fact that transgender people continued on page 25 Photo by Jennifer Le Photography
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his past month an AllAmerican defensive lineman named by the Associated Press as the Southeastern Conference’s Defensive Player of the Year told an interviewer from ESPN that he’s gay. Michael Sam from the University of Missouri announced to the world what teammates and coaches already knew: “I am an openly, proud gay man.” Media speculation began as to how this would affect his chances in the upcoming National Football League draft. But his University of Missouri coach expressed unambiguous pride. “We’re really happy for Michael that he’s made the decision to announce this, and we’re proud of him and how he represents Mizzou,” Gary Pinkel said. “Michael is a great example of just how important it is to be respectful of others, he’s taught a lot of people here first-hand
that it doesn’t matter what your background is, or your personal orientation, we’re all on the same team and we all support each other.” The NFL also released a statement of support: “ We a d m i r e M i c h a e l Sam’s honesty and courage,” NFL senior vice president of communications Greg Aiello said. “Michael is a football player. Any player with ability and determination can succeed in the NFL. We look forward to welcoming and supporting Michael Sam in 2014.” There were critical responses, some laughable if they weren’t coming out of still deeply entrenched homophobia and anti-gay bias. Most repeated was the anonymous comment of an NFL player personnel assistant worried about chemistry: “It’d chemically imbalance an NFL locker room and meeting room.” The majority echoed the positive support of Missouri’s coach. Some went so far as to challenge any of Sam’s critics to see if they’d be willing to denigrate the 6’2”, 260 pound defensive end to his face. The assumption must be that this big, strong, manly, man’s presence would scare his critics into fear that they’d get their comeuppance in some manly violent sort of way. Don’t mess with a real man. On the one hand we have another example of someone coming out who “does not fit the stereotypes of gay men.” That’s still a lesson society hasn’t learned – there’s no “the gay lifestyle” any more than there’s the heterosexual lifestyle. Men who fit our
culture’s masculine role can walk past someone, work with them, play alongside them, and even be members of their families, without someone assuming they’re gay. “Straightacting” men and women are less suspicious to most of us. But though someone like Michael Sam might challenge our gay stereotypes, they do not challenge our straight masculine ones. They do not allow any man to take off his “straightacting” mask, no matter what his sexual orientation might be without assumptions about his manhood and, therefore still, his queerness. Even parents who advocate for their gay children can buy into the belief that if a little boy is somehow super-sensitive, creative, nurturing, caring, and gentle, he must be gay. It’s as if we are to write off heterosexuality as somehow hopelessly gendered, and heterosexual men as naturally the opposite sex of the (also stereotypical) feminine one. Grown heterosexual males know they’re assumed to actually be gay and closeted if they don’t live the manly role because they’re too neat, nice, gentle, kind, and cultureoriented. One would hope that these men have gotten to the place where the assumption that they’re really gay doesn’t matter and won’t force them to “prove” that they’re actually real men. We already have too many men who in fear of being thought of as gay respond by showing violently or otherwise in their treatment of women and gay men that they’re on the straight team. Insecurity in one’s sexual orientation, but even more so in one’s manhood, breeds hypermasculinity in its stereotypical forms. To assume that boys who don’t fit the “boys will be boys” stereotype must be gay is to somehow lose hope in heterosexual men. It’s to stop expecting heterosexual men to also be kind, nurturing, sensitive, and creative. It’s to give up on males. And the result is the societal encouragement of boys to be, well, boys. It’s then to criticize them later for being out of touch with all that gets labeled their “feminine side” as if these suspect characteristics aren’t
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masculine. And the ultimate giving up is to treat the male role as innate. All that’s left to do with men when they act too manly is to send them to anger management, drug them, or throw them in prison. Football is a dangerous sport neatly fitting male stereotypes. Meanwhile, the news reports that chronic and traumatic brain injuries and resulting mental disease, concussion syndromes, and even suicide are the price paid by athletes so that money can be made and people can enjoy an “All American” sport. And gay people have as much a right to all of the healthy and sick institutions a society gives to straight people, with all their consequences. That includes football, marriage, and the military. But somewhere, somehow I’d like to fantasize that maybe even Michael Sam isn’t buying into the stereotype of masculinity that lingers behind so many discussions of his coming out. I’d like to think that unlike many gay men, he’s secure enough to let manhood be even more diverse than sexual orientations. And in an even wilder fantasy, I’d like to believe we’d celebrate masculine diversity without any limits. I’m hoping that after breaking gay male stereotypes, Michael Sam and his generation can also reject masculine ones. I’m cheering for the day when no one assumes anything about what it is to be a real man, and that men can be comfortable embracing the whole range of human experience, especially the parts they’ve been told aren’t manly. “I’m not afraid to tell the world who I am,” Michael Sam told ESPN. “I’m Michael Sam: I’m a college graduate. I’m African American, and I’m gay…. I’m comfortable in my skin.” Men are supposed to get real, not fantasize. But I’m still envisioning all humans someday soon as comfortable in the skin we’re in. l Robert N. Minor, Ph.D., Professor Emeritus of Religious Studies at the University of Kansas, is author of When Religion Is an Addiction; Scared Straight; and Gay & Healthy in a Sick Society. Contact him at www. FairnessProject.org.
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of color, and transgender women of color especially, are far more often victimized than their paler counterparts. Referring to the inordinate amount of violence and discrimination faced by transgender women of color, Cox says the problem is a “nation [that] has a history of emasculating black men” and the misconception that transgender women are simply overly emasculated men. She firmly states, “I have truly come to believe that calling a transgender woman a man is an act of violence.” On the subject of bullying, Cox believes that “[a lot] of bullying is based on gender and gender expectations” even though much bullying takes on the form of antigay slurs and homophobic teasing. She blames this in part on a society that routinely enforces a strict and harmful social gender binary and a society that has also historically marginalized the LGBT community through “systems of domination that make the marginalized… hate themselves.” But Cox is not without
a great deal of hope for the future. She believes that the key to bridging the gaps of transphobia and transmisogyny lies in creating safe spaces of healing and exploration. She feels that bullying at all ages can eventually be curbed by creating safe spaces in which youth
can explore their gender and gender expression without fear of ridicule and condemnation by their peers and authority figures. The night concluded with a meet and greet where excited fans had the opportunity to have their picture taken with the actor and producer and
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Men's Chorus brings Oliver Button to life WICHITA - Have you been bullied, not accepted by your family, or ostracized by society? Many friends and loved ones we know have been hurt by the close-minded attitudes of people in our world. Fortunately, times are changing; it may be slowly, but things are changing! There have been signs of love and acceptance around the nation
and world . . . and for that it’s time to celebrate! It is in that spirit that the Heart of America Men’s Chorus is proud to present “For the Child In All of Us,” a concert featuring the story of Oliver Button Is A Sissy by renowned children’s author Tomie DePaola. “For the Child In All of Us” will tell the musical story
of a little boy struggling for acceptance – from family and other kids - who must come to terms with societal stereotypes, teasing, and feelings of inferiority. The central theme for the musical Oliver is teased because he’d rather read books, paint pictures, narration of this and tap-dance than participate in sports. book is bullying awareness and Performances are Mar. 8 at acceptance of each person’s 7pm and Mar. 9 at 4:30pm at wonderful individuality and DeMattias Hall on the campus special qualities. of Newman University. Tickets In addition, the second half of are available at the door for the concert will feature musical $15 (kids 12 and under are free pieces that everyone has come to with adult admission) or can love from their favorite Disney be purchased ahead of time movies. Audiences will enjoy by calling (316) 708-4837 or Pure Imagination, Under the e-mailing hoamcpresident@ Sea, and Halleluiah. gmail.com. l
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FREE ADMISSION | ULRICH.WICHITA.EDU Located on the WSU campus
Richard Ross, Southwest Idaho Juvenile Detention Center, Caldwell Idaho, 2, 2010. Courtesy of the artist
FILM SCREENING: KIDS FOR CASH | MARCH 4, 6 P.M. WORKING PANEL DISCUSSION | MARCH 26, 6 P.M. TEEN DAY: TEES FOR TEENS | APRIL 5, 1–3 P.M. Extended Hours and Supporting Programs at ULRICH.WICHITA.EDU/JUVENILEINJUSTICE This exhibition courtesy of Richard Ross and www.juvenile-in-justice.com. The Wichita presentation of Juvenile In Justice is generously supported by the Kansas Health Foundation; Office of the Vice President and General Counsel, WSU; Keith and Georgia Stevens; Wichita State University; and the City of Wichita.
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for being such a staple in the Wichita drag community and also for giving JuJu her chance to become as successful as she has become. AM: And of course me, right? Ha! How long have you been doing drag? J N : I h av e b een p i eci n g JuJu together for about three wondrous years now!
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ello once again Kansas! I’m back for another issue of Audrey Asks and am so excited to start this month’s interview! This girl is from my generation of drag and I think she is just marvelous! You all love her and I hate her, just kidding! Here’s JuJu Noir! Audrey McQueen: Hey JuJu, thanks for doing this with me this month. Where did you get your drag name? JuJu Noir: JuJu Noir in essence means Black Magic. JuJu coming from an old middle school nickname and Noir coming from my love of the French culture! So I am the Black Magic of Wichita, Kansas! AM: Do you have any former titles or awards? JN: I am your former Miss Gay Wichita Newcomer 20112012; Former Miss Gay Capitol
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City (Topeka, KS); and I am your Audience Choice and first runner-up to Miss Gay Pride. AM: Who are your inspirations in drag? JN: My inspiration(s) in drag include: Adina Ronee; my drag grandmother, who continues to inspire and awe us with her tantalizing performances and the one and only Brown Sugar
AM: Tell me about your first time doing drag and why you started doing drag? JN: My first time in drag was actually in my hometown of Chicago, IL at a friend’s birthday party! To say the least I was a hot mess. I started drag here in Wichita because I missed the performance aspect of being in show choir and musicals. After starting is when I grew into the love of female illusions and realizing the time, effort, and dedication it takes to be a success. AM: Do you have any advice for anyone who would like to do drag? JN: Always ask for help! Be gracious and realize that the criticism will always come! It is how you handle it which measures your professionalism! I am always available on my Facebook Tommy JuJu Noir Nguyen! AM: Where can we see you perform? JN: You can catch me every Sunday night! As well as the occasional Monday and Thursday. My next Thursday will be Mar. 6 for my birthday extravaganza! AM: What is your most memorable time while doing drag? JN: My most memorable time
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was my first pageant. I was so nervous and didn’t think I could do it. I got so nervous and my sister Godiva was there holding my hand the entire way! As well as one Miss Audrey McQueen! AM: Good memories! Do you have a motto or favorite quote that you would like to share? JN: My favorite motto is ‘Carpe Diem.’ It is Latin for ‘seize the day.’ It is such a strong motto because no matter how life gets us down; we just have to get up and grab the metaphorical bull by the horns and show it who is boss! AM: Thank you JuJu. Do you have anything else you would like to add before we end this thing? JN: With all that has been said and done; I love and adore everyone who took the time out to read this. I, Tommy, as well as my alter ego JuJu Noir invite you to share in what she loves and does best in the land of Oz every Sunday night at the one and only Our Fantasy Complex. Come out and join JuJu and the rest of the amazing performers! Also catch me on Twitter and Instagram @JuJuNoir and on Mar. 28 as I vie for the title of Miss Gay Wichita 2014. Thank you once again to Miss Juju Noir for taking the time to answer a few questions for me! Make sure you all go support her in whatever she does as well as her birthday and her pageant! I’m so excited for the Miss Gay Wichita pageant on Mar. 28 when one of our former Audrey Asks queens will be passing down the torch to the next Miss Wichita! I will be in attendance as Miss Wichita 2012! I hope you all enjoyed this month’s column. This has been what Audrey Asked! l
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Europe The system of apprenticeship developed in the later Middle Ages and came to be supervised by craft guilds and town governments. A master craftsman was entitled to employ young people as an inexpensive form of labor in exchange for providing formal training in the craft. Most apprentices were males, but female apprentices were found in a number of crafts associated with embroidery, silkweaving, etc. Apprentices were young (usually about 14-21), unmarried and would live in the master craftsman’s household. Most apprentices aspired to becoming master craftsmen themselves on completion of their contract (usually a term of seven years), but some would spend time as a journeyman and a significant proportion would never acquire their own workshop. Pederasty was notable to historians in Moorish Spain, and Tuscany and northern Italy during the Renaissance. For a period starting in the 800s and ending in the mid 1800s, pederastic relationships, poetry, art and spirituality were a prominent and pervasive feature of Islamic culture from Moorish Spain to Northern India. The forms of this pederasty ranged from the chaste and spiritual adoration of beautiful youths at one extreme, to the violent and forcible use of unwilling boys at the other. While sodomy was considered a major sin, other
aspects of same-sex relations were not, though they were made problematic to various degrees at various times and places. The Renaissance The Renaissance, inspired by the rediscovery of the philosophy and art of the ancient world, was a fertile time for such relations. Among the luminaries of the time who praised or depicted romantic liaisons with youths were Théophile de Viau, Marsilio Ficino, Benvenuto Cellini, Caravaggio, Leonardo da Vinci and Michelangelo. Homoerotic desire was primarily conceived as an adult’s desire for an adolescent, beardless youth. Consequently, pederastic aesthetics influenced art and literature throughout Europe. Central Asia In central Asia the practice is reputed to have long been widespread, and remains a part of the culture, as exemplified by the proverb, “Women for breeding, boys for pleasure, but melons for sheer delight.” Though no longer widely practiced, boy marriages nevertheless still occur. In the aftermath of the U.S.-Afghan war, western mainstream media has reported derisively on patterns of adult/adolescent male relationships, documented in Kandahar in Afghanistan. Middle East In the Ottoman Empire, samesex relations between men and youths were often of a mercantile nature. The sex workers involved were either entertainers such as the köçeks or masseurs in the hammams known as tellak. Although zamparas (men drawn to women) outnumbered kulamparas (men drawn to boys) in society. Japan In Japan, the practice of shudo, “the Way of the Young,” paralleled closely the course of European pederasty. It was prevalent in the religious community and samurai society from the medieval period on, and eventually grew to permeate all
of society. It fell out of favor around the end of the 19th century, concurrently with the growing European influence. Its legendary founder is Kūkai, also known as Kōbō Daishi, the founder of the Shingon school of Buddhism, who is said to have brought the teachings of male love over from China, together with the teachings of the Buddha. Monks often entered into love relationships with beautiful youths known as “chigo,” which were recorded in literary works known as “chigo monogatari.” China In tenth-century China courting male couples consisted of the older qi xiong and the younger qi di. (The terms mean, literally, sworn elder brother and younger brother.) Boy marriages, which lasted for a set period after which the younger partner would find a wife (often with the help of the older one) appear to have been part of the culture in the province of Fujian in pre-modern times. The marriages were said to have been celebrated by the two families in traditional fashion, including the ritual “nine cups of tea.” The popularity of these pederastic relationships in Fujian, where they even had a patron god, Tu Er Shen, gave rise to one of the euphemistic expressions for same-sex love in China, “the southern custom.” Australasia In Melanesia, many native cultures employed boy insemination rites integral to coming-of-age rituals lasting from mid- to late childhood. In Papua-New Guinea and nearby islands, some native tribes (about 20% at the end of the 20th century, a proportion that is decreasing as contacts with foreigners cause western morals to become prevalent) consider sperm to be the essence of masculinity and a source of strength, and a substance that does not form spontaneously but must be introduced. As a result, a mentor, chosen by the father and ideally the mother’s young adult brother, has the duty of planting it in the body of their prepubescent son as part of extended initiation rites. The mentor also has the duty of educating the boy and seeing to his proper entry into
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manhood. They sleep and work together until the boy is mature. Men who have had their first or second child are expected to relinquish the mentoring function to younger adults. Casual encounters between boys and men are also accepted, but the boy must be the recipient, to avoid damaging his growth. Thus the Melanesian male would go through a sexual cycle beginning with homosexuality, passing through bisexuality and ending with heterosexuality. North America Of the Koniagas of Kodiak Island and the Thinkleets is the practice of male concubinage. A Kodiak mother will select her handsomest and most promising boy, and dress and rear him as a girl, teaching him only domestic duties, keeping him at women’s work, associating him with women and girls, in order to render his effeminacy complete. Arriving at the age of 10 or 15 years, he is married to some wealthy man who regards such a companion as a great acquisition. These male concubines are called Achnutschik or Schopans. The same is the case in Nutka Sound and the Aleutian Islands, where ‘male concubinage obtains throughout, but not to the same extent as amongst the Koniagas.’ The objects of affection have their beards carefully plucked out as soon as the face-hair begins to grow, and their chins are tattooed like those of the women. In California the first missionaries found the same practice, the youths being called Joya. Central America Bernal Diaz del Castillo, in his The Conquest of New Spain, reported that the Mexica peoples regularly practiced pederastic relationships, and male adolescent sacred prostitutes would congregate in temples. The conquistadors, like most Europeans of the 16th century, were horrified by the widespread acceptance of sex between men and youths in Aztec society, and used it as one justification for the extirpation of native society, religion and culture, and the taking of the lands and wealth; of all customs of the Nahuatlspeaking peoples. continued on page 33
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‘Hoopla in Doo-Dah’ at Riverfest 2014 WICHITA - Wichita Festivals, Inc, revealed the artwork for Riverfest 2014 on Feb. 12 along with a sneak peek of the upcoming festival during an artwork unveiling at Emprise Bank. Wichita-based artist Scott Dawson won this year’s button and poster artwork competition, besting 29 other artists with his depiction of a leaping harlequin celebrating amid confetti and fireworks with the Wichita skyline in the background. Harley, the 2014 festival mascot, and his fish pal, Skip, will adorn all promotional materials and merchandise at this year’s Riverfest, May 30June 7. Adult admission buttons are $5, a child's button featuring Skip is $3. New events and fresh locations are planned for the “Hoopla in Doo-Dah,” this year’s theme. The Kids Corner is moving to the WaterWalk area and a happy hour area for adults is planned for A. Price Woodard Park. Two changes from last year are being continued - a more securely gated perimeter and all Riverfest events, including concerts, will be free with a button. A freelance designer for more
than 20 years, Dawson lives and works in Wichita. His work has been commissioned by many companies, advertising agencies and design firms around the world. A three-time winner of the poster art contest, Dawson’s other winning designs featured a butterfly motif in 2011 and a swan constructed of musical instruments in 1992. "My idea was to represent every festival-goer with this harlequin-like figure, jumping and partying along the river in downtown Wichita with a little fish buddy," Dawson said. "Taking a figurative approach proved somewhat difficult, since you don't want to alienate anyone based on gender or race. Having blue skin that blends into a multi-patterned outfit, this character ought to be tough to find in reality. He's definitely imaginary, but still human enough that we all can relate to some degree." A group of design professionals judged the competition and Dawson received a $3,500 award for the winning design. The Riverfest 2014 concert line-up will be released on Mar. 17. Buttons go on sale at wichitariverfest.com on Mar. 14, and will be available at retail location beginning May 9. l 1 CISmagnet.eps
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Student groups Free State High School GSA, Lawrence, (785) 832-6050, phatcher@usd497.org, welcomes all queer, questioning and straight ally youth to talk about issues. Meets Wednesdays.
Community Centers The Center, 800 N. Market, Wichita Kansas State University LGBT Resource Center, 207 A/B Holton Hall, Manhattan, (785) 532-5299, www.kstate-edu/lgbt Open Roads LGBT Community Center, Hays, (785) 259-6526, openroadslgbt@gmail.com, www. openroadslgbt.org
Health Douglas County AIDS Project, 346 Maine, Suite 160, Lawrence, (785) 8430040, www.douglascountyaidsproject. org HIV/AIDS Client Emergency Fund administrered by the Junction City Teddy Bears, c/o Kevin Stilley, 2 Oak Valley Dr., Manhattan, (785) 556-8188, trlrhouseman@webtv.net, for people in the Manhattan/Junction City area Hunter Health Clinic, 2318 E. Central, Wichita, (316) 262-3611, FREE HIV confidential or anonymous testing with Spanish and Vietnamese interpreters. KU Internal Medicine-Midtown, KU School of Medicine, 1001 N. Minneapolis, Wichita, (316) 293-1840, (877) 472-8227 toll-free, (316) 293-2652 HIV Program LGBT Health Coalition of Sedgwick County, Wichita, (316) 285-0007, www. sedgwickcountylgbt.org
Haskell Shout OUT, Haskell Indian Nations University, Bobby. crowfeather@haskell.edu, dedicated to actively seeking to bridge the Native LGBTQ community and their straight allies by promoting Openness, Understanding, and Tolerance. Meets Thursdays at 6pm in Stidham Union. KU Queers & Allies, University of Kansas, Lawrence, (785) 864-3091, qanda@ku.edu, www.ku.edu/~qanda Lawrence High School GSA, (785) 330-2391, ArlaKan@usd497.org, welcomes all LGBT, questioning and straight youth to talk about issues. Meets almost every Friday at 3:05pm in the LHS library. Manhattan High School GSA, mhs_ gsa@hotmail.com
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Metropolitan Community Church of Topeka, 4425 SW 19th, (785) 2721442, office@mcctopeka.org, www. MCCTopeka.org, services Sundays at 10am. Pine Valley Christian Church, 5620 E. 21st St., Wichita, (316) 685-2421, churchoffice@pvcconline.org, www. pvcconline.org
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Central Plains Area Agency on Aging, 2622 W. Central Suite 500, Wichita, (316) 660-5120, www.cpaaa.org, CPAAA is available to assist seniors, caregivers, and adults with disabilities through life’s transitions and with various levels of support.
Heart of America Men’s Chorus, Wichita, (316) 708-4837, www.hoamc. org
COMCARE Crisis Intervention Services, 934 N. Water, Wichita, (316) 660-7500 free 24/7, www. sedgwickcounty.org
Sedgwick County Health Dept., 2716 W. Central, Wichita, (316) 660-7300, www.sedgwickcounty.org
Wichita Bears, presidentwichitabears@ yahoo.com, www.wichitabears.org
Peace and Social Justice Center of South Central Kansas, 1407 N. Topeka, Wichita, (316) 263-5886, director@ wichitapeace.org, www.wichitapeace. org
Lutheran Campus Ministry, 1421 W. 19th, Lawrence, lutheran@ku.edu
Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of Topeka, 4775 SW 21st St., (785) 2729233, www.uuft.org, services Sundays at 10:30am.
NetworQ, Lawrence, KansasNetworQ@ yahoo.com, www.KansasNetworQ.org, meets at Maceli’s, 1031 New Hampshire
Kansas Statewide Transgender Education Project, (785) 215-7436, stephanie.mott@k-step.org, www.kstep.org, provides transgender education and resources.
Kalpa Bhadra Kadampa Buddhist Center, 721 W. 13th St., Wichita, (316) 263-1533, info@meditateinkansas.org, www.meditateinkansas.org
That Gay Group!, Wichita State U n i v e r s i t y, ( 3 1 6 ) 9 7 8 - 7 0 1 0 , thatgaygroup@gmail.com, www. wichita.edu/tgg
Positive Directions, 414 S. Commerce, Wichita, (316) 263-2214, (316) 2635214, www.pdiks.com
Kansas Equality Coalition, www. kansasequalitycoalition.org, chapters across the state.
First Unitarian Universalist Church of Wichita, 7202 E. 21st St., (316) 6843481, officemanager@firstuu.net, www. firstuu.net.
Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of Manhattan, 481 Zeandale Road, (785) 537-2349, www.uufm.net, services Sundays at 10:45am.
Junction City Teddy Bears, c/o Kevin Stilley, 2 Oak Valley Dr., Manhattan, (785) 556-8188, trlrhouseman@webtv. net
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First Metropolitan Community Church of Kansas, 156 S. Kansas, Wichita, (316) 267-1852, www.mccwichita.com, www.godlovesyouperiod.com, Sunday services at 10:15am.
Pitt State GSA, Pittsburg State University, pittstategaystraightalliance@ gmail.com
Positive Connections, 1001 SW Garfield Ave, third floor, Topeka, (785) 232-3100, www.pcneks.org
The Sweet Emergency Fund, KUSM-W MPA, 1010 N. Kansas, Wichita, (316) 293-3405
of Christ, 700 Poyntz Ave., Manhattan, (785) 537-7006, www.uccmanhattan. org, Sunday services at 10:45am; Taize services Thursday at 7pm, An Open and Affirming Congregation.
Wichita Organization of Leather Fetishes, (316) 201-6242, www. woolfks.com Wichita Prime Timers, ICTPrimeTimers@aol.com, www. primetimersww.com/Wichita, social group for mature gay men.
Spiritual A Journey In The Light Ministries, 2231 S. Bluff (St. Christopher ’s Episcopal Chapel), Wichita, Sunday Praise and Worship services at 11am. College Hill United Methodist Church, 2930 E. 1st, Wichita, (316) 683-4643, www.collegehillumc.org, Sunday Celebrations at 8:30, 9:40 and 11:00am. First Congregational United Church
MARCH 2014 Flint Hills PFLAG, Manhattan, (785) 340-2815, meets on the 1st Saturday, 10am-noon, call for location. Get Connected, Wichita, (316) 4913778, LGBTQIA youth group for ages 12-21. Meets at The Center, 1602 E. Waterman, every Friday from 7-9pm. Headquarters Counseling Center, Lawrence, (785) 841-2345 free 24/7, www.hqcc.lawrence.ks.us HIV+ Men’s Support Group, Wichita, (316) 293-3405, mmadecky@kumc.edu O n e D a y A t A Ti m e , Wi c h it a , Alcoholics Anonymous meetings held Tuesdays and Thursdays at 8pm at First MCC, 156 S. Kansas. PFLAG Hutchinson, PO Box 2488, Hutchinson, (620) 899-2345, pflaghutch@gmail.com PFLAG Lawrence/Topeka, (785) 235-3831, sffeist@msn.com, www. pflagnekansas.org, meets 1st Sundays, 2-4pm at MCC of Topeka, 4425 SW 19th. PFLAG Wichita, info@ictpflag.org, www.facebook.com/WichitaPFLAG, meets 2nd Thursdays, 6:30-8pm at College Hill United Methodist, 2930 E. 1st. Transgender Resource and Awareness Network (TRAN), www.thefaceoftrans. com, provides resources, information, and news regarding transgender issues in Wichita. TransYouth of Kansas, Topeka, tyks@ cox.net, www.tyks.org, providing support for transgender youth and their families. Wichita Area Sexual Assault Center, 355 N. Waco, Suite 100, (316) 2630185 office, (316) 263-3002 crisis line 24/7, wasac@wichitasac.com, www. wichitasac.com, free, confidential sexual assault services to all genders and sexual orientations. Medical & legal advocacy, support groups, adult & child crisis counseling, educational programs. Wichita Transgender Coalition, wichitatranscoalition@gmail.com, wichitatrans.webs.com/. l
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Though early Mayans are thought to have been strongly antagonistic to same-sex relationships, later Mayan states employed pederastic practices. Their introduction was ascribed to the god Chin. One aspect was that of the father procuring a younger lover for his son. Juan de Torquemada mentions that if the (younger) boy was seduced by a stranger, the penalty was equivalent to that for adultery. Bernal Diaz reported statues of male pairs making love in the temples at Cape Catoche, Yucatan. Albania In his travel journal (Oct. 20, 1809), Cam Hobhouse reports that pederasty was openly practiced among the Albanians, and Lord Byron includes in his Childe Harold an Albanian song with pederastic themes,
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suppressed at publication. As late as the mid-1800s, Albanian young men between 16 and 24 seduced boys from about 12 to 17. In the literature, the lover is called ashik and the beloved, dyllber. A Geg married at the age of 24 or 25, and then he usually, but not always, gave up boy-love. Victorian England By the 19th century, the gradual re-discovery of the sites of antiquity in Italy and Greece fueled a new interest in these old civilizations, particularly i n B r i t a i n a n d G e r m a n y. A c c o r d i n g l y, p e d e r a s t i c relationships again became en vogue in the life and work of artists. The following link has a great list of pederastic couples: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/ Historical_pederastic_couples. l
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ARIES (MAR. 21 - APRIL 20) LEO (JULY 24 - AUG. 23) You can spend your time marching off Proud Lions are feeling their oats this on wild tangents guided by intuitionMarch. And they may even try to feel fueled dreams or you can pay it forward an entire field of oats before the month with some impactful beneficial and is over. You cannot be reined in or charitable efforts. The choice is up to tied down so let your lusts roam free. you, gay Ram. But be warned that there are karmic You seem to attract anyone you set your sights on payouts at the end of the rainbow for both your good attracting. For those Lions who are part of a pair, give and selfish behaviors. The pot of gold could be full or your denmate the royal treatment. No, not beheading. empty. Or full of what. VIRGO (AUG. 24 - SEPT. 23) TAURUS (APRIL 21 - MAY 21) Take a close look at all of your March is the month to try a few new relationships - whether for business or groups or new social connections on for for pleasure - this March. Chances are size. Heck, why not also refresh your you will find one or two of them in need usual group of friends and ramp up the of some juicing up. So put on the squeeze general excitement. Things are far too and see what changes can be made. Queer Virgins need boring and static now, queer Bull. But any mundane or to survey their landscape for any stubborn weeds. stale relationship can be revitalized easily. Apply your Are there people who you need to prune? Get the unique creative touch . . . or is it a probe? gardening tools. GEMINI (MAY 22 - JUNE 21) If you have been toiling in the background for little recognition or extra renumeration, take heart this March. Your efforts will be recognized and possibly even rewarded. The secret to your corporate success, gay Twin, is to take a creative leap or find a way to showcase one of your more prescient ideas to upper management. You have the spotlight. Add a pink bulb to it.
LIBRA (SEPT. 24 - OCT. 23) March forth this March and tackle any long-standing project or issue that has been holding you back. Proud Libras often seek compromise and diplomacy, but trying to please everyone will not work here at this time. You need to please yourself. So follow your own lead, make your own decisions and handle your own stuff. Soon you can fob it onto someone else.
CANCER (JUNE 22 - JULY 23) Adventure is just around the corner this March so take a leap of faith and expand your reach whenever you can now. You never know who will reach back. Legal battles go in your favor if you know your stuff. Gay Crabs are not always ready to take on the world, but now you are given some support from unlikely allies. Why ask why? Better just ask when and how.
SCORPIO (OCT. 24 - NOV. 22) Party time, queer Scorp. Your dance card fills up and your grip on sanity and decorum begins to loosen. Suddenly you are in the epicenter of all the festivities. Be sure that you are able to handle all of the ensuing temptations from people to plonk. Who is that I see dancing in the corner of the room wearing nothing but a lampshade on their head? Oh dear.
SAGITTARIUS (NOV. 23 - DEC. 22) You have some great ideas for improving your home environment gay Archer. Be sure that they are all based in reality and are affordable. Seek sage advice and check your budget before you start. Grandiose schemes look great on paper but may not be quite what you envisioned in reality. How many football-field-sized bedrooms with padded walls do you really need? CAPRICORN (DEC. 23 - JAN. 20) Pink Caps have never sounded so wise and measured as they do this March. You have a certain calm and informed aura and have the ability to sense a situation for what it is. Go with your gut, say what is on your mind and see where it leads you. You may expand your sphere of influence and find that you can help in community efforts. So what are you waiting for? AQUARIUS (JAN. 21 - FEB. 19) Money may be the root of all evil, but it can also be used to buy things that soothe your savage beast. Aqueerians are tempted to luxuriate themselves this March, spending on spas, expensive goodies and assorted arm candy. Life is good . . . until the bills come in. You may not know when enough is enough or too much. How much is really too much? Hmm. PISCES (FEB. 20 - MAR. 20) The spotlight finds you this March, Guppie. It is totally up to you as to how you can best exploit all this attention and adoration. Will you use it to meet and greet influential people and dazzle them with your wit and knowledge? Or will you find all the party hearty hounds and make merry in a pit of idle (but jolly) disrepute? Oh, let’s guess.
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