Life After 50 - September 2014

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The First Ladies of Disco – Evelyn “Champagne” King, Martha Wash and Linda Clifford 50-Plus Housing Trends Inside and Out Saturday Night Fever’s Karen Lynn Gorney


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Contents

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Cover Profile

13 Keeping In Step With The First Ladies Of Disco

Evelyn “Champagne” King, Martha Wash and Linda Clifford.

20 Interior Home Design Trends

Designer Andrew Graham says his 50-plus clients love fancy finishes and exotic materials.

28 50-Plus Housing Trends – Inside and Out

Enhancing a home’s curb appeal and livability for multi-generational cohabitation..

32 The Look Of Life After 50 – Karen Lynn Gorney

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Departments 06 50-Plus: What You Need to Know

A quick look at things 50-plusers should be aware of.

09 It’s The Law

Features

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John Travolta’s co-star in “Saturday Night Fever” on “stayin’ alive” and active.

Mitchell A. Karasov on making the most of your living trust – while you are living.

10 Financial Fitness

William Jordan explains how you can be earning seven percent in the safest way.

23 Cooking, Eating And Living Well

Jackie Keller looks at trendy eating. Is it rational or ridiculous?

31 Tuned In To What’s On

The best in September television viewing.

35 Let’s Get Out

Looking to get out and about? Our September/October calendar has some great suggestions.

38 Travel Cover photo by Mike Ruiz All material published within this issue of “Life After 50” and on www.lifeafte50.com is strictly for informational and educational purposes only. No individual, advice, product or service is in any way endorsed by “Life After 50” or Southland Publishing, Inc. or provided as a substitute for the reader’s seeking of individualized professional advice or instruction. Readers should seek the advice of qualified professional on any matter regarding an individual, advice, recommendations, services or products covered within this issue. All information and material is provided to readers with the understanding that it comes from various sources from which there is no warranty or responsibility by “Life after 50” or Southland Publishing, Inc. as to its or their legality, completeness or technical accuracy.

Ed Boitano on the search for libations – sampling wines and spirits where they’re made.

42 And Finally…The Bookworm’s Best, A Look Back and Just A Thought Before We Go

Our September book suggestion, memory, and a little something to leave you with.

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Editor’s Note...

A Classy Toast To Bay Ridge Memories

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y wife, who was the quintessential “disco queen,” thoroughly embraced and still pines for the disco era of the late 1970s. Even I, a rocker whose twentysomething eight-track collection was completely devoid of disco recordings, got caught up in the mirrorballed fever of trying my best to fake the steps of the Hustle to impress tequilasunrise-fortified-andwrap-dress-adorned ladies who had all the steps down pat – in spite of performing them while balancing on five-inch heels. In retrospect, it would have been impossible for me to have not gotten caught up in the furor of the era, because I grew up in the Bay Ridge section of Brooklyn – the epicenter of the disco lifestyle. My hometown, located adjacent to New York Bay on a glacial ridge that formed its shoreline, was peppered with Victorian homes built in the 1800s that offered spectacular views of The Narrows. It is the home of Fort Hamilton, one of the country’s oldest U. S. Army installations, and serves as the Brooklyn base for the Verrazano Narrows Bridge that connects Long Island with Staten Island. It was also the early stomping grounds for many luminaries including Walt Whitman, Mae West, George and Ira Gershwin, Danny Kaye, Beverly Sills, Malcolm Forbes, Norman Mailer, Woody Allen and Barbra Streisand. But no matter what historical significance my hometown may boast, we natives have come to “fugetaboutit,” knowing “The Ridge” will, perhaps, always be best known as the home of that eggless concoction of seltzer and chocolate syrup known as the egg cream, and the setting for the film “Saturday Night Fever.” The streets, churches, stores and homes of “Fever” are all a part of my childhood neighborhood.

I have danced at the Odyssey Disco on 64th Street and eaten at the restaurants that are prominently featured in the film. In this issue, we catch up with Karen Lynn Gorney, who, as John Travolta’s “Fever” co-star, played Stephanie. I first met Karen in the 1990s when I did a story on the 20th anniversary of “Fever.” Soon after, she and her husband, Mark Toback, visited our home, where Karen sprawled out of the floor with my dogs and entertained us with her memories of doing the legendary film. Later that evening, we went out for dinner and Karen ordered “hot tea,” which totally tickled my wife. “Tea! Just like Stephanie,” my wife laughed, referring to the scene in “Fever” when Stephanie rubs her social superiority into Travolta’s character’s face by stating that her sipping of tea is far more sophisticated than his slurping of coffee. “It’s a real classy drink,” my wife and Karen said in giggling unison, repeating her line from the film. As we sat in that restaurant, a wave of hometown nostalgia came over me – memories of the eclectic shops on 86th Street, lunching with my grandmother at the Green Tea Room, ice-skating in Prospect Park, dancing at the Odyssey, and sitting at the soda fountain counter of John and Ricki’s candy store on Third Avenue where I had my first egg cream. “Forget tea,” I thought to myself. “Egg creams! Now there was a real classy drink!”

David Laurell, Editor-in-Chief

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ick James, the “King of Punk Funk,” known for his fusion of funky soul and underground-inspired rock, never made a secret of his wild sex and drug-loving lifestyle. In “Glow: The Autobiography of Rick James” (Atria Books, 2014), we peer behind the walls of Folsom Prison, where James spent time for assault and kidnapping, and met fellow inmate, Brother Guru. This posthumously published memoir, written in collaboration with David Ritz, is a conversation between James and Guru. James, who died in 2004 at the age of 56, met Ritz while he was interviewing Marvin Gaye and urged him to work with him on this no-holds-barred memoir.

By Claire Yezbak Fadden

America’s Fastest-Growing Retirement Cities

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ne of the biggest decisions in life is choosing where to retire. Americans making this decision consider several factors such as things to do, availability of services, affordability and weather. The website www.NerdWallet.com analyzed those variables in 75 of the largest U.S. cities and has named their 2014 top 10 best urban places to retire: 1) Miami, Florida - The city has a walkable layout and great beaches with relatively low average costs. The area offers many services and Florida has no state income tax. 2) New Orleans, Louisiana - With a low cost of living, the Big Easy offers a rich culture, year-round festivals and great food. 3) El Paso, Texas - With a very low cost of living, the annual expenditure is lower here than any other place on the list. 4) Mesa, Arizona - With its warm weather, golf courses and a relatively low cost of living, this Phoenix suburb boasts many characteristics to attract older residents. 5) Corpus Christi, Texas - The city offers a very affordable lifestyle with outdoor opportunities such as golfing, boating and fishing.

Fifty Candles

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ifty years ago this month: President Lyndon B. Johnson signed the Wilderness Act into law, “Fiddler on the Roof” opened on Broadway, and Americans were watching the television premieres of “Shindig,” “Bewitched,” “Man from U.N.C.L.E” and “The Munsters.” The Supremes released “Baby Love,” and the Warren Commission findings declared Lee Harvey Oswald acted alone in the assassination of President Kennedy. Notables born in September 1964 who are celebrating their 50th birthday this month include actor Keanu Reeves, singer Trisha Yearwood, actresses Faith Ford, Holly Robinson Peete, Rosie Perez and Janeane Garofalo and Goo Dolls founding member Robby Takac. 6 LIFEAFTER50.COM September 2014

6) Tampa, Florida - With great weather, no state income tax, and a low cost of living, Tampa also boasts museums, performing arts venues, parks, golf courses and exceptional services. 7) Baltimore, Maryland Along with the lowest average cost of a doctor’s visit in the top 10, the city also offers parks, performing arts venues, various historical sites and many attractions. 8) Honolulu, Hawaii Although the cost of living is high, the tropical weather, beaches and attractions provide an exceptional relaxed lifestyle. 9) Henderson, Nevada Near Las Vegas, Henderson boasts dozens of hiking trails and mountains. Nevada offers diverse activities and no income or inheritance tax. 10) Memphis, Tennessee - Offering a low cost of living, Memphis is also a city rich in history, culture, food, music and the arts.

A Book You’ll Love With Your Whole Heart

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or every two hours of television watching, your risk of becoming obese increases 23 percent, according to Dr. Joel K. Kahn, who believes that more than 75 percent of heart attacks, strokes and other cardiovascular disease events are preventable. In his new book, “The Whole Heart Solution” (Readers Digest, 2014), Kahn offers simple actions you can take to make yourself heart-attack-proof, including drinking your veggies, opening your windows, walking barefoot and exercising during television commercials.


A Little More You Need To Know

Where You Need To Go

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Get Jazzed For A Trip To Monterey

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star-studded line up will come together for the 57th Annual Monterey Jazz Festival. From Herbie Hancock, Gary Clark Jr., Billy Childs, Shawn Colvin, Lisa Fischer and Becca Stevens to Jon Batiste and Stay Human, the three-day event will celebrate the legacy of jazz and expand the boundaries of jazz through the creative production of performances and educational programs. This year’s festival will features more than 500 artists in nearly 100 performances on eight stages for 30 hours of live music. Beginning on September 19 and running through September 21, the 2014 festival will showcase an array of international cuisine, shopping, art exhibits, educational events, seminars and conversations with iconic and emerging jazz artists. Drummer Eric Harland will serve as the 2014 artist-in-residence and perform with the Charles Lloyd Quartet, his own group, Voyager, and as a soloist with the Next Generation Jazz Orchestra. This year will also see legendary saxophonist Charles Lloyd return to Monterey for the first time since 2006 as the festival’s showcase artist, performing with his own quartet and in a duo with pianist Gerald Clayton. The Monterey Jazz Festival takes place on the Monterey County Fairgrounds and Event Center, 2004 Fairground Road in Monterey. Single-day tickets range from $41 to $71. For more information, click on www.montereyjazzfestival.org.

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ou might not find them in a dictionary yet, but they’re a part of the everyday American vocabulary. Here’s what they mean. Bromance: A close, non-sexual relationship between two men. Chillax: To relax, be calm and laid back. A blend of relax and chill out. Nurdle: The correct amount of toothpaste to put on your toothbrush.

The Most Important Thing To Know This Month

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edicines play an important role in treating many conditions and diseases, but when they are no longer needed it’s important to dispose of them properly. Consider the following disposal options and instructions from the Federal Drug Administration when throwing out expired, unwanted or unused medicines: Disposal In Household Trash Mix medicines with unpalatable substances such as kitty litter or used coffee grounds and place the mixture in a sealed plastic bag. Before throwing out your empty pill bottle or other empty medicine packaging, remember to scratch out all information on the prescription label to make it unreadable. Medicine Take-Back Programs Click on the U.S. Drug Enforcement Administration’s website at www.deadiversion. usdoj.gov for information on national prescription drug take-back programs in your community. Flushing Of Certain Medicines Some medicines have specific disposal instructions indicating they should be flushed down the sink or toilet as soon as they are no longer needed, and when they cannot be disposed of through a medicine takeback program. For example, patients using fentanyl patches for pain should immediately flush their used or unneeded patches down the toilet. Flushing these patches and other powerful medicines will get rid of them right away and help keep your family and pets safe. For more information, click on www.fda.gov/ Drugs/ResourcesForYou/Consumers.

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A Special Wellness Report New Medicine Based On An 88-Year Old Theory By Albert Einstein Can Help Almost Everyone Who Is Sick Or Injured!

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Financial Fitness William Jordan

William Jordan is a nationally recognized wealth manager and a wellknown speaker on financial and investment topics. To request a meeting to discuss William’s “Seven Percent Solution,” contact his office at (949) 916-8000 or click on www.WJAoc.com.

The Seven Percent Solution

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quick search of local bank rates on CDs reveals only one bank in Southern California that is paying above 0.40 percent on a one-year CD. I’m sure as soon as they realize they are the only one, they will immediately drop their rates. At those levels you aren’t even keeping up with inflation. However, there is great news. You can earn seven percent and know your money is safe!

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Safe Means Safe

I’ve been in the wealth-management business since the late 1990s, so I understand that when people say “safe,” they mean “SAFE.” I can assure you when I use words, I use them with intention, so I’m not just saying “safe,” I’m saying “SAFE!” Since 2010, my Life After 50 readers and clients have had the opportunity to earn seven percent or more by investing in what I call “double secured first trust deeds.” If you have been sitting on the sidelines, unsure of just how safe these assets really are, you have missed out on great interest rates for four years. No client of ours has lost a cent of principal on their trust deeds and every client has earned seven percent or more.

Double Secured

The trust deed is secured first by real estate. Typically, my clients are lending only 50 to 60 percent on a property based on today’s value confirmed with a current appraisal. This means the real estate is worth close to double the amount we are actually lending. This first layer of security by itself means trust deeds should be considered a great option for high income. There is even a second layer of security which time and space doesn’t permit me to explore. However my book, “The Seven Percent Solution,” covers this in detail. All investments have risk and a short article does not provide enough space to consider them all. However, I have found that once my clients consider any risks compared to the potential yield, they have been more than comfortable agreeing with me that this is currently the best fixed-income investment available.

More Information

We have provided several options to obtain additional information. First, any reader of Life After 50 is able to receive a free electronic copy of “The Seven Percent Solution” by simply calling or e-mailing our office. You can also order a physical copy of the book on www.Amazon.com. We also offer a complimentary income review of your current investments to confirm the amount of interest you could expect to receive. Call our office to schedule this free review. In closing, this is one of several different options which are providing excellent yields without taking stock market (or bond market) risk. So stop burying your money in CDs where you are literally losing money compared to inflation each year. I strongly encourage you to educate yourself on this excellent fixed income investment option and see why you can earn seven percent or more on your safe money. ª

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It’s the Law Mitchell A. Karasov

Mitchell A. Karasov, Esq. has offices in Los Angeles, Ventura County and the Coachella Valley. He specializes in elder law with emphasis in estate planning, Medi-Cal eligibility, trust administration, probate, conservatorships of person or estate, estate and trust litigation and financial abuse litigation. For more information click on www.karasovelderlaw.com or call (818) 508-7192.

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When I updated my living trust a few years ago, I tried to cover all contingencies so everything would be in order upon my passing. When my father died suddenly, it was a mess. We had no time to grieve because we had to go to court to keep his business going. Even though he had a living trust, he only had his deceased mother as a trustee and never included his business or his accounts. I wanted to include everything possible to make it easier on my children after I pass away. In addition to including all the instructions, I named my kids as the successor trustees, and included the family business and the accounts. I put the trust in my safe with all my important papers. In addition, I explained my wishes to my children and gave them a copy of all the documents. Now I’m starting to have some health issues, so I just want to make sure there isn’t anything I have forgotten to do to make it easier on them. Is there?

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I applaud you for taking the steps to make it easier on your kids during what will be a very difficult time. It’s easier to just ignore the topic and let everyone else pick up the pieces when we are gone. However, grieving for the loss of a loved one is consuming enough without having to also deal with the realities of taking care of financial matters, too. You are way ahead of many by the combination of having created a living trust, putting thought into it, including your assets, having copies of the financial documents included with the plan, discussing it with your kids, and giving them copies. There are, however, some things that you could do to make it even easier on them. You could have your kids start acting as successor trustees during your lifetime. That would involve including them on accounts and creating other documents to confirm that they have the authority to act now, rather than only upon your incapacity or passing. The advantage is that the transition of asset management doesn’t involve the delay of waiting for doctor’s incapacity statements or death certificates. In addition to avoiding the delays, allowing your kids to act as successor trustees during your lifetime allows you to partner with your kids, which enables them to become familiar with how you manage your finances. They have an opportunity to ask you questions and possibly even make recommendations of how to improve your situation. This gives you the added benefit of more easily having their assistance during challenging health issues. It also makes them more effective in helping you, and less stressful for them during what can be very emotional times. If you opt for your children to act as successor trustees now, you should also consider having them help you as your financial fiduciary under a power of attorney and your healthcare agent under an advance healthcare directive. No matter what capacity you allow your children to assume during your lifetime, your children should also consult with an attorney to ensure the paperwork is completed properly and that they understand their fiduciary responsibilities. Taking steps to get your children involved during your lifetime also addresses your initial question about how to make it easier on them after you pass. By including them and empowering them to assist you during your lifetime, they are better prepared to deal with the post-death financial and legal responsibilities. Furthermore, there is a greater likelihood of avoiding the post-death legal battles. While it doesn’t sound as if this applies to you, for some there may be some concern about doing this. If that is the case, you can still move forward but request court supervision over your children.

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The First Ladies of Disco – Evelyn “Champagne” King, Martha Wash and Linda Clifford By David Laurell • Photo by Mike Ruiz

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f you were born during the tail end of the silent generation or are a baby boomer, chances are more than good that you spent many an evening of your 20s and 30s in one of the bazillion discos that popped up seemingly overnight from coast-to-coast and around the world. The chances are even better that you crossed the thresholds of those dance clubs balancing on four-inch platform shoes and dressed in sequin-adorned satin, spandex, lycra or some sort of synthetic polyester. For the gents, it was the three-piece suit (preferably white) with a butterfly-collared shirt opened to midchest and a gold chain. For the ladies, depending on their body type and bravery, it was sequined halters and metallic leopard-print bandeau tops coupled with hot pants fashioned from a mere swatch of material, or the ubiquitous Diane Von Furstenberg-designed wrap dress. No matter what you wore, you were sure to have come off the dance floor dripping in sweat after boogying down to the nonstop, pulsating, four-on-thefloor rhythm patterns captured on the records (yes, real vinyl records) being spun by disc jockeys who, in many cases, became as locally well known as the artists they played. Evelyn “Champagne” King, Martha Wash and Linda Clifford were among those artists. They were a part of the sisterhood that provided the soundtrack of the late 1970s and early 1980s – forever immortalized, along with Gloria Gaynor, Vicki Sue Robinson, Donna Summer, Thelma Houston and The Pointer Sisters, as the highest-ranking divas of the discotheques. And now, in 2014, as the mirrored disco ball of memories has made millions upon millions of

rotations, Evelyn, Martha and Linda are still out there performing, recording and ruling from their multi-color-lighted thrones as disco’s first ladies. Emmy Award-winner Evelyn “Champagne” King made her debut on the disco scene with 1978’s Top 10 classic “Shame.” Martha Wash, a two-time Grammy nominee known as “The Queen of Clubland,” first came on the scene with her mentor, the late disco pioneer Sylvester, and then achieved success in her own right with Izora Armstead as Two Tons of Fun and then The Weather Girls who had a smash hit with the song “It’s Raining Men.” And Linda Clifford, a fivetime Grammy nominee who scored numerous hits from the 1970s through the 1980s, made her foray into disco nobility with her legendary recordings of “If My Friends Could See Me Now” and “Bridge Over Troubled Water.” The trio, who are individually featured in the book, “First Ladies of Disco: 32 Stars Discuss the Era and Their Singing Careers,” (McFarland, 2013) by James Arena, reveal fascinating personal stories of what it was like to have pioneered a genre of music that will forever define the 1970s and ‘80s They have also performed together as “First Ladies of Disco” in a super-charged show brought to the stage under the management and direction of producer James Washington. Enthusiastically received by those who grew up with them, as well as newfound audiences who weren’t even born when they topped the charts, the ladies, who are each still juggling hectic recording and touring careers, plan on working together to do more shows, create new songs and record an album. September 2014 LIFEAFTER50.COM 13


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Evelyn “Champagne” King

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LA50: When you are not performing or working on a record, what is your life like today? ECK: I’m a housewife. I live in Ventura County and am happily married to Freddie Fox, who is also a musician who works with me and with Chaka Khan. I have a little Maltese named Foxy Fox and I’m just a proud and happy housewife. LA50: We at Life After 50 are always curious about any thoughts or philosophies people have adopted about getting older. Would you care to share yours? ECK: [laughing] Oh I just stay out of trouble! I’ve always stayed out of trouble, even when I was a kid on tour. My big thing is to enjoy each day. In the evenings, I have a little glass of red wine and reflect on my day and just enjoy my time here. I’m feeling great and I work on taking care of myself. I go to the gym and eat well and I’m proud to be an AARP member. I turned 54 last July and I’m proud of that. I say, “Be happy, because you never know what the next day may bring.” I love growing old, right along with my fans who listened to me when we were kids.

Life After 50 (LA50): What was it like to be in the eye of the disco hurricane when you were just a kid? Evelyn “Champagne” King (ECK): I was just 15 going on 16 when “Shame” hit the charts and we were out on tour all over the world on a nonstop basis. It was a fun time. It was a time when people let the music just take them away from their problems and enjoy themselves. And it was more than just the music or going to a club. It was a lifestyle. The disco era changed a lot of people’s lives in various ways. The beat, the songs, the whole package – people related to it and would just lose their minds when they got out on the dance floor. It was very freeing and just wonderful. LA50: What is the story about how “Champagne” became a part of your name? ECK: When I was a baby, my mom always called me bubbles. I was called bubbles for years – well into my teens. Then, when I started to sing professionally, I knew I couldn’t use Evelyn “Bubbles” King. It sounded like I was a stripper. So my parents and my producer talked about it and somebody said “Well what else is bubbly?” And it was like – CHAMPAGNE! YES! And so from that moment on, I’ve been Evelyn “Champagne” King. 14 LIFEAFTER50.COM September 2014

Martha Wash

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orn just three days after Christmas in 1953, Martha Wash began her musical career at the age of two, in her parents’ church in her native San Francisco. She went on to study opera and was performing professionally throughout the United States and Europe while still in high school. A member of a contemporary gospel group, N.O.W. (News of The World), Martha also starred in major theater productions and recorded numerous jingles

and movie soundtracks. In addition to her performance and recording work with countless superstars, most notably, Sylvester, she is best known as half of the duo (along with Izora Armstead, who died in 2004) Two Tons of Fun, which evolved into The Weather Girls when they released their mega hit, “It’s Raining Men.” Today, living in Long Island, New York and maintaining a busy work schedule, Martha also makes time to be involved with various charities that provide services and support to individuals with autism; the “You Can Play Project,” which is dedicated to ensuring equality, respect and safety for all athletes, without regard to sexual orientation, and the Huntington Arts Council that inspires lives and minds through education, entertainment and intellectual motivation. LA50: Beginning with your work with Sylvester and on through your time with Izora, you have played a vital role in the disco era. When you think back on the 1970s and ‘80s, what comes to mind? Martha Wash (MW): Gratefulness that I survived it [laughing]. I loved that era. I was young and was singing with Sylvester in different clubs and all over the county. It was a very exciting time. LA50: You came from a church-going Gospel background. Were there any challenges for you in making the transition into the world of clubgoing disco? MW: My parents weren’t really happy about it, my mother particularly. She wanted me to continuing singing Gospel. They were concerned about me traveling and being in all the clubs, but they understood the opportunity and eventually came around.

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velyn King was born into a show business family on July 1, 1960 in the Bronx, New York, and raised in Philadelphia. Her father was a singer who backed up numerous acts at Harlem’s famous Apollo Theater, and her uncle, Avon Long, was an actor and singer who appeared in the first Broadway revival of “Porgy and Bess” and worked with Lena Horne at the Cotton Club. Evelyn’s mother was also in the music business – sort of. She worked as a cleaning woman at Philadelphia International Records, where Evelyn was discovered by producer Theodore T. Life, who overheard her singing in a washroom while her mother was working. Life coached Evelyn and eventually signed her to a production deal that led to a recording contract with RCA Records Evelyn was in her mid-teens when she released her debut album, “Smooth Talk,” which included the song “Shame” that would rocket to the top of the music charts and establish her as a star.

LA50: You’ve been crossing career paths with Martha and Linda since you were all kids. What is it like to now be working together? ECK: I’m so excited about working with them. To me, Martha and Linda are a blessing. They are two artists I have always respected and admired. We all get along and don’t try to jump over one another or control a project. I am really looking forward to doing more shows and recording with them. We love showing the people that we’re still here and still doing the music they loved, and also bringing something new to the table. It is so great to be out there and seeing all the old fans getting down, and I love seeing young kids who are out there singing every word to our old school songs.

LA50: How did you begin working with Izora? MW: We were both with Sylvester and became known as Two Tons of Fun. We got quite a following of our own with Sylvester’s fans and his producer suggested that Izora and I record an album. We ultimately recorded two albums as Two Tons of Fun. Then we met songwriter Paul Jabara, who wrote “Last Dance” for Donna Summer and songs for Barbra Streisand. He and Paul Shaffer had written “It’s Raining Men,” and he approached us to record it. We did, and when it started to get airplay, people thought it had been done by a new group called The Weather Girls because at the beginning of the song we say “Hi, we’re your weather girls.” Well, people who knew us as Two Tons of Fun knew it was Martha and Izora, but the name Weather Girls really caught on so we went with it, moved from the East Coast to the West Coast, and signed on with a new label. LA50: “It’s Raining Men” has become a classic. It seems like everyone, of every age, knows it. MW: That is very true. The song was recorded in Los Angeles in about 90 minutes. We just did it and walked out of the studio and never gave it much more thought. Paul [Jabara] believed it was going to be a hit, and he was right. When it did hit as big as it did, we were surprised but, of course, very happy. Then the gay community took that song and embraced it as their own. But you’re right, it’s a song everyone likes – grandparents, parents, kids. Everyone loves it, because it’s a feel-good song that you can sing along with and dance to.


LA50: After sharing the stage with Sylvester and Izora for so long, tell us how you feel about this new partnering with Evelyn and Linda. MW: Well, it’s not really new. We have done shows with one another for years. But then our manager, James Washington, came up with the idea of us doing a show called “First Ladies of Disco,” like James Arena’s book. As of right now, Evelyn and Linda and I are the core of that, but as we move forward there will be other women who will also be a part of it. It will be women singing their original hits and all of us just having a lot of fun and bringing back memories of fun times. I’m amazed at how disco is still loved by people. We sell out arenas with people who grew up with the music and they bring their children.

“Sweet Charity” with Shirley MacLaine. Never as enamored of acting as she was of music, Linda signed on with Paramount Records in 1973 and her first single, “(It’s Gonna Be) A Long Long Winter,” hit big on the U.S. Billboard R&B chart. In the mid-1970s she moved to Curtis Mayfield’s Curtom Records label, where she recorded her first album and her cover of “If My Friends Could See Me Now,” which, in 1978, became the first song to top Billboard’s dance chart. Since then, Linda’s landmark recordings, including her 1979 release of the disco version of “Bridge over Troubled Water,” have spent a total of 60 weeks as number-one songs on Billboard’s dance charts. An acclaimed songwriter who has written for Cher and Gladys Knight, Linda continues to write, perform and record and supports charities such as the Angel Food Network, which delivers food to adults and children with AIDS/HIV. When she is not touring, she spends time at her Chicago home and serves as an instructor with Roosevelt University’s Music Conservatory and as a personal coach teaching public performance, stage poise, lyric sensitivity and vocal presentation.

LA50: For those of us who were a part of the disco era, we never thought it would happen but, darn it, we’re not as young as we once were. Any thoughts on getting older? MW: Well, I think it should be done as gracefully as possible. I accept getting older and am positive about it, because I’ve always been the type who knew it was coming. I have a girlfriend, and she and I laugh about the changes we see in ourselves as we age. We have a saying about getting older: “It’s in the contract.” For those who didn’t think it would happen to them, well, they just didn’t read the fine print. All these changes we experience – physically and mentally and in every way – they were all a part of the deal from the start – from the day we were born. None of us knows how we will respond to getting older, because we’ve never done it before. So all you can do is hope for the best, take everything in stride, make the best of it and keep moving as much as you can. Hey, I’m glad I’m still here and that I’m still making music that people enjoy.

LA50: Back in the disco days, few songs had people dripping in sweat like “If My Friends Could See Me Now.” Linda Clifford (LC): [laughing] That’s the truth. All my songs made people sweat. Jane Fonda even used my version of “Bridge Over Troubled Water” on one of her exercise tapes.

Photo by Alan Mercer

LA50: It was a wonderful time, huh? LC: Oh it was a great time, with happy music. Everybody got dressed up and going to a club was a big deal. You got a chance to get out there on the dance floor and have a great time. It was people of all ages and races who had one thing in common – the love of that music and to dance, or as we used to say in those days: “to boogie down.” LA50: Speaking of the music, what are your thoughts on the current music scene? LC: There are a lot of talented young people out there today. I think Adele is very talented. I love the fact that with her, there’s no circus going on. She’s not hanging from the ceiling half-naked with

40 dancers surrounding her. Her voice and songs stand on their own. I also think Lady Gaga is an amazing talent. I think her new album with Tony Bennett [“Cheek to Cheek”] with classics from the Great American Song Book, which is coming out this month, will expose her fans – young people – to the great songs of the past. It will also prove to older people what a true talent she is. Today, people are not exposed to the diversity in music we had back in the 1970s and ‘80s. Back then, Top 40 radio stations were so diverse in what they would play, which exposed people to so many different types of music. That’s not true today. Now, country stations play only country, rap and hip hop stations only play rap and hip hop, jazz stations, only jazz. But the one thing I think is wonderful about the young people today is that they are embracing our old disco songs. My audiences range in age from 20 to 70, which I think is very cool. LA50: So tell us about this partnering up with Martha and Evelyn. LC: The idea for us to do shows together really came from the book, which really is wonderful. Martha, Evelyn and I have known each other since we first started out in the business. We have a great producer who had put a show together with us and some of the other ladies. We did a fundraiser for AIDS research in Palm Springs that raised over $1 million dollars, and it was so much fun we decided to keep doing it. So we’re writing songs and hoping to get into the studio. We really enjoy ourselves to no end when we’re together. LA50: Any thoughts you may like to share on dealing with the passage of time? LC: I really have tried to be the best I can be each day. Just like everybody else, I’m getting older every day, and I’m grateful for that. I can’t say I’m grateful when I notice a new line on my face when I’m putting on my makeup, but so what? I just put on a little more concealer, get dressed and get out there and do my thing. I really stay busy. I swim and do water aerobics three days a week. I also do yoga. I am working, and traveling, and performing. I’m on the road a lot. I just try to enjoy every moment with my husband, my family, my friends and my audiences.

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ust four years after her birth on June 14, 1948 in New York, Linda began her musical career and was singing on local New York television programs by the time she was seven. As a child, she appeared with Harry Belafonte and Sidney Poitier in a television special for the NAACP and, after high school, performed with the Jericho Jazz Singers and later, her own trio, Linda and The Trade Winds. A former Miss New York State who competed in the Miss America Pageant, Linda turned to acting in her 20s and played minor roles in major films, such as “The Boston Strangler” with Tony Curtis and Henry Fonda, “Coogan’s Bluff” with Clint Eastwood and

“First Ladies of Disco” by James Arena reveals the fascinating personal stories of some of disco’s biggest stars. The book focuses on the female vocalists who pioneered the genre in the 1970s and ‘80s. It chronicles the lives of an extraordinarily talented group who dazzled the world with an exciting blend of elegance, soulful passion and gutsy fire. The book includes interviews with 32 of these women who tell their stories and share their views on their music, careers, connection to gay audiences, and their places in music history. Among those who were interviewed for the book are Pattie Brooks, Linda Clifford, Carol Douglas, Yvonne Elliman, Rochelle Fleming, Gloria Gaynor, Debbie Jacobs-Rock, Madleen Kane, Evelyn “Champagne” King, Suzi Lane, Maxine Nightingale, Wardell Piper, Gwendolyn Wesley, Cassandra Wooten, Cheryl Mason-Dorman, Theodosia “Dodie” Draher, Anita Ward, Martha Wash, Carol Williams, Jessica Williams, Norma Jean Wright and many more. You can order the book and find out about upcoming shows by the ladies by clicking on www.firstladiesofdiscoshow.com

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Chandeliers and wall sconces of brushed and antique metals fused with colorful stones are being offered to provide overhead and wall light, while table lamps adorned with gold dust, mercury glass, and crystals reminiscent of bygone eras provide table-top and bedside illumination. There’s also an abundance of sparkle in paint palettes as water-based latex with environmental qualities and specialty metallics are being offered in translucent, semi-opaque and sheer formulas to bring the bling to our walls and ceilings. Photo Courtesy Ro-Sham-Beaux

Today’s Kitchen Design

The kitchen as we know it is the center of today’s home design. It is an area in which we create sustenance for ourselves and those we cherish. This great and powerful room benefits greatly from properly specified and allocated finish materials. While traditional styles are here to stay, I believe it is safe to say that “anything modern” is popular and lends itself in either direction. Who knew 30 years back that traditional Shaker cabinets and white marble would be classified as modern materials today? The Caesarstone® brand, famous for their

solid-surface quartz countertops, also touts some of the most beautiful semi-precious materials money can buy. You simply must see their blue agate, amethyst, white quartz or tiger’s eye, to name a few. The Concetto® line for your counter tops or backsplashes are nothing short of amazing. If you are considering exotic minerals as a focal point, this easy-tomaintain product is in a class by itself and the one for you. For more information about Caesarstone ® quartz and the Concetto® line of semi-precious minerals, click on www.caesarstoneus.com. In my opinion, kitchen counters should always be topped with granite or a maintenancefree solid-surface quartz, due to the abundance and competitive pricing of these materials. Granite has new designs and colors that are always surfacing. But remember: in order to keep it fresh and new looking, granite requires occasional resealing due to its porosity. Other trendy, but more pricey, alternatives for counter tops are soapstone, stainless steel and concrete. Quartz is equally fantastic, but discontinued colors may leave you in the lurch if you need a replacement or additional slabs in the future. In the case of color and style selection, you should be wary if you’re placing your home on the market


tomorrow. Not everyone may agree with granite that looks like spumoni or the yellow brick road. But, by all means, select a color and style that brings you joy. Go ahead and highlight a center island or backsplash with an exotic color or onyx, agate, granite, or quartz, and then consider saving the perimeter tops for a complementary palette of a monochromatic source. I recently covered a client’s kitchen ceiling with a teal latex paint. Once it was dry, I added a similar colored metallic paint, creating unexpected sparkle and warmth. I have found this technique to successfully complement the trending use of stainless steel in kitchens and pantries. You will be pleasantly surprised how this clever trick brings unexpected hoopla and color to the most popular room in the house. If teal doesn’t suit your palette or metallic scares you, opt for a custom lacquer and experiment with a complementary color of taste. Remember, when it comes to designing your kitchen, explore all sorts of different materials and finishes knowing you are creating the heart of your home.

Wall Covering Trends

Accent, Accent, Accent!

While the use of some of the aforementioned materials can be outside of some homeowners’ budgets, don’t rule anything out until you have spoken with a knowledgeable designer. I am well aware that not everyone has an unlimited budget and can afford to update with a complete makeover every two to five years. But the good news is that we are seeing a trend in design today that achieves a different and updated look by simply using more affordable accent pieces. A well-placed accent piece can create the perfect focal point, be it a stunning amethyst or citrine table lamp or an exquisite onyx table or a fireplace screen embracing decorative geodes. Also trending on the market are gorgeous stone tables, semi-precious minerals including ammonite lamp bases and custom tables supported by beautifully crafted metal bases of brass, chrome, bronze and more. Each piece is truly a work of art.

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Traditional faux-finishes are wavering while stateof-the-art digitally mastered murals depicting concrete and wood are receiving attention. Equally exquisite are wall coverings that are hand-adorned with crystal beads, mica flecks, mother-of-pearl, capiz shells, and micro-thin wood veneers depicting beautiful inlaid marquetry. Paper and vinyl wall coverings are also, once again, offering consumers infinite styles, patterns and depth.

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A Return To Yesteryear

As our appetite for current trends continues, connoisseurs of fine design also seek to retain balance and harmony with materials of yesteryear. Luckily, for many, the use of environmentally conscious natural materials has, and will continue to, gain momentum through product development. The use of natural materials will always stir our emotions and heighten memories, be it rows of reclaimed wood, beads of Coke bottle sea glass, or slabs of onyx and granite reminiscent of bygone architecture.

A client of mine in Tarzana recently invited me to create an inspiring focal point in her traditional living room. Prior to the renovation, this great room was starkly white-on-white below a white ceiling, saved by beautiful dark wood underfoot and stunning iron doors. My client and I created a new masterpiece of warmth by the use of stunning color. Our new color scheme transformed traditional glossy-white cabinets into a truly spectacular focal point. We used peacock-inspired, blue recessed-cabinets with meticulously hand-painted chinoiserie in gold and bronze on the base doors, with book-matched, lifelike burled tortoise-shell interiors and crown moulding to tie the elements together. This created a stunning look as it was flanked by a bronze-colored mantel with legs highlighting the natural limestone fireplace. Other important materials of the room introduced natural bouclé carpeting, amethyst crystal pieces, malachite, a rock and clear crystal chandelier, and an antique resin table lamp of stacked lotus leaves. Fabric highlights included varied silks, cream-colored ostrich-embossed leather with amethyst-dyed linen fabrics for balance and a baby grand piano neatly dressed in black for visual juxtaposition.

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From a color psychology point of view, it is important to note that the peacock blue we used for this client represents self-communication and outward expression. Blue symbolizes how we self-communicate affirmatively. It is the self-talk that nurtures and applauds our accomplishments, as well as forgives our shortcomings. Blue symbolizes truth, honor and integrity. Equally, it is with our words that we lower or raise our spirit and that of those around us.

A Fabulous Interior Reflects Your Individuality

As an interior designer, the responsibilities I have to my clients are varied and depend upon the parameters of the project scope. Prior to beginning any project, I require every client to participate in my comprehensive design questionnaire. Questions range from budget to color preferences and everything in between. It is a great ice breaker and an efficient tool that helps bring everyone into the creative process. Along with my organizational skills, creative ideas, resources, vendors, craftspeople and long-term relationships, I offer clients my knowledge of color psychology and the intertwining psychology of pattern, shape and form. Both modalities help my clients better understand themselves and their choices. Their colors truly become a touchstone to their personal identity which, in turn, ushers in a positive reinforcement to their living space. I think our homes – the place where we drop our shoes and entertain friends – is the best place to rediscover and show our individuality and just how fabulous each one of us really is! ª

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Andrew Graham, of Andrew Graham Interior Design, has been a practicing interior designer since 1988. A renowned color intuitive and the founder of Affirmative Color, he specializes in the intertwining psychology of color, pattern, shape and form to positively influence the consciousness of his clients. Because of Andrew’s vast knowledge of this contemporary subject, he has been featured on HGTV and was the lead interior designer for the DIY Network’s popular program, “Family Under Construction.” Always continuing to excite and stimulate clients and audiences alike with his unique and upbeat approach and application of color and choice, Andrew Graham can be reached at (818) 378-5797, by e-mail at andrewgraham@affirmativecolor.com, or through his website, www.affirmativecolor.com. He would be more than happy to discuss any upcoming interior design projects you may be considering, or to help you with questions regarding where to locate a product mentioned in this article.


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Gluten-Free

Gluten does create serious problems for those suffering from celiac disease (about one percent of the population), and can have terrible consequences if unrecognized or untreated. Another 10 percent of Americans have gluten sensitivity, and may have reactions to eating foods that contain gluten. Symptoms such as indigestion, constipation, headache and fatigue are unpleasant but not dangerous, and there is no test for gluten-sensitivity. Gluten is everywhere – wheat, rye, barley, malt syrup, some flavorings, beer, salad dressings, soups and cereal. Avoiding whole grains like whole wheat can mean consuming far less fiber than is healthful and beneficial, as it is fiber that helps us manage weight, erratic blood sugars and may reduce the risk of heart disease and cancer.

Veganism

While going vegan is popular, Homo sapiens are omnivores – and have been for thousands of years. That’s not to say that we need to eat copious amounts of meat, but those adhering to regimens like the Mediterranean diet which emphasizes fruits, vegetables, nuts, grains and smaller amounts of meat, have not been outperformed by followers of plant-only eaters. As of this time, there have not been completely relevant trials or studies published that validate the vegan approach as the healthiest overall. Some short-term studies do show that a combination of plant and animal foods have produced outcomes as positive as plant-only regimens. It is true that substituting plant foods for animal foods is healthful, even if only done occasionally.

Raw Food

Cook nothing and you’ll never destroy nutrients and enzymes in your food. That’s the premise of the raw trend. The problem with this is that it eliminates a whole range of foods that are only edible or digestible when cooked (like beans and lentils). And there are some foods that are actually more nutritious when cooked, like tomatoes, whose lycopene content is more easily absorbed from cooked tomatoes (with some fat) than raw. Perhaps the most disturbing part of the picture for raw foodies is that by not cooking, the best potential defense against serious food-born germs, such as salmonella and E. coli, is eliminated. Scientific research has not borne out the conclusions drawn by raw-food advocates, so while less processed is best, stick with foods that are safe and healthy when eaten raw.

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This liquid nutrition fad is being promoted as the way to cleanse your body of toxins, lose weight and feel better, and there are lots of reasons why this may be true. Let’s start with one of the most obvious – many people are consuming food from the blender that they would otherwise not eat, like kale and chia seeds. But juicing foods that you’d otherwise eat whole, does have its drawbacks. Take for instance the calorie load. A cup of orange juice has 112 calories. A whole orange has only 60. There’s also the effect of juiced foods on blood sugar. Since juices enter the blood stream faster than solid foods, the pancreas has to produce more insulin to deal with the volume. In the long run, this can increase your risk of diabetes, and add to the amount of belly fat you carry, which can contribute to inflammation and insulin resistance. ª

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50-Plus Housing Trends Inside and Out By Kathy Ziprik and Max Andrews

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hen you own a home, the importance of curb appeal should never be underestimated. The exterior of your home reflects your personality and can create positive impressions. If you’re selling your house, the importance of curb appeal jumps tenfold as you try to position your home for an “instant connection” with potential buyers. There are dozens of easy ways to upgrade different exterior aspects of your home. Many of these enhancements can be achieved with a variety of synthetic products. Lightweight yet durable, these low-maintenance pieces resist insect infestations, rot, decay and moisture. Try any of the following fast and easy installations to transform the look of your home:

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ways to add curb appeal to your home

1) Trim out exterior windows. Use crossheads for over a window and top with a solid, decorative or recessed panel keystone accent piece. On the sides and below the window, use moulding pieces with plinth blocks in the corners to eliminate miter cuts. 2) Make your entryway more welcoming with an elegant door surround. Start with fluted pilasters on either side of the door and then top the door with a decorative pediment – try a ram’s head, sunburst, acorn or peaked-cap style. 3) Accent a bay window by adding window panels below the opening. 4) Add classic crown or fascia dentil moulding beneath gutters and eaves to heighten the appearance of your home. 28 LIFEAFTER50.COM September 2014

5) Replace a rotting wooden porch system with a new structural balustrade system that includes porch posts, top and bottom rails, balusters and all the other pieces essential to create a great, weatherresistant porch. 6) Interlock and install pieces of PVC beaded board on the ceiling of a porch or sunroom and then use the same low-maintenance materials for a wainscot treatment on the walls. 7) If you have a ceiling fan on a front porch, add a two-piece ceiling medallion around the fan’s base to add style to your entire porch.

8) Replace older, rotting wooden louvers with low-maintenance polyurethane louvers. Functional louvers have a noncorrosive fiberglass screen backing to keep insects out while allowing maximum airflow and ventilation to enter the attic. 9) Upgrade the look of your entryway by adding


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14) If your home has a Victorian style, use spires to accent exterior areas, fencing and gated areas of the home.

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10) Flank your windows with easy-care polyurethane shutters. Choose from a selection of white louvered solid panel and louvered slatted panels shutters or woodgrain plank panel shutters in two-plank, three-plank and diagonal V-styles. Paint or stain the pre-primed shutters to complement any home exterior. 11) Add sparkle to your yard with a decorative lamppost that can help light up the night. 12) Give your house style by adding brackets under roof eaves and on porches.

15) Don’t forget the garage. Install a set of pilasters on either side of the garage door and a long door crosshead over the top. 16) Accent your exterior with a new, colorful welcome mat, decorative flags, planter boxes and baskets of flowers. 17) Add dimension to porch ceilings with faux beams. Arrange lengthwise or in a criss-cross pattern to make the ceiling of your sunroom or porch stand out. 18) Add decorative columns to the exterior of your home or yard. Polyurethane columns come in fluted square, serpentine, flat square and plain panel square styles and are weather resistant. 19) Clean any exterior lighting fixtures so your house shines during both day and evening hours. 20) Use crosshatch or square decorative panels made out of lightweight polyurethane to serve as see-through “gates” to keep pets and children separated from prized flowers and bushes. 21) Since the pineapple is the universal sign of hospitality, add a decorative half-round or full round pineapple accent piece in the entryway to your home. 22) Add a trellis system to top off a garage door or side entry door. 23) Spend an hour with a door surround kit (available in Empire, Colonial, Craftsman and Stone styles) to create a fast enhancement to a single entry door. 24) Add brackets and corbels to side entry areas of the home to bring attention to this area of the house. Select from hundreds of Craftsman, Victorian, Arch, Tulip, Recessed and Carved Spiral styles. 25) Cover up unsightly wooden posts with a PVC Column Wrap. The semi-assembled, two-piece wrap

50-Plusers are embracing the concept of multigenerational homes-within-a-home

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he biggest housing trend in recent history has come in the way Americans are living – a new lifestyle that has prompted one builder to create a new type of home – a multigenerational home – specifically catering to both aging parents, their boomer children and, in some cases, even their boomerang grandchildren who need to move back in with family for economic reasons. Lennar, one of the nation’s largest home-building companies, has introduced a revolutionary new concept to the real estate market, an innovative floorplan being referred to as Lennar’s Next Gen – The home-within-a-home. This new trend of multigenerational living has encouraged Lennar to design a home that allows extended families to all live together in one home – with separate living spaces. After conducting much research and seeing a rising need for this type of living situation, Lennar decided to design a distinctive floorplan that can accommodate different living arrangements while still providing great use of space, square footage and privacy. The company has created this plan to allow for dual-living situations without sacrificing comfort

It’s literally a home within a home

The economy has dramatically contributed to the decision to build this type of product. Many aging parents have seen their retirement investments diminish during recent years and many collegeage children are finding it difficult to get a job. With housing typically being the largest part of the monthly budget, moving in together is an option many are embracing. The opportunity for families to share a mortgage and household expenses makes a lot of economic sense for many families. “One of the biggest benefits of Lennar’s homewithin-a-home is that multiple related adults can combine to pay the mortgage, making it very affordable,” said John Burns, a leading consultant to homebuilders. In fact, Lennar surveyed more than 1,200 people in the country’s western region

and found that one-third of respondents are already sharing their home with a parent, adult child or some other adult. The Pew Research Center also shows 49 million Americans are living in a household that contained at least two adult generations, up from 28 million in 1980. And the Census Bureau found in 2012 that 18.3 percent of U.S. households contained adult relatives or roommates, up from 17 percent four years earlier. Both the economics and the demographics of those already living in a multi-generational home made this an obvious solution. For many ethnic groups, sharing a home with extended family is not uncommon. In 2009, 23.4 percent of Latino households and 25.8 percent of Asian households were multi-generational, according to the Pew study. The Next Gen suite concept allows for both independence and accessibility to the main home, so everyone can have their own private space. Plus, the separate entryway allows every family member to come and go as they please without having to enter the main home. Lennar’s Next Gen suite includes a separate entrance, living space, kitchenette with GE appliances, bedroom, full-bath, stacked washer and dryer and intimate outdoor living space. Lennar designed these unique floorplans to be incorporated into the main home floorplan in a way that allows it to be a separate space, but also offers direct access from the main house, depending upon the family’s needs. In addition, these homes include a high level of custom-quality appointments such as upgraded appliances and Schlage® Home Automation, allowing people to lock and unlock doors, adjust thermostats and check on pets and children when they aren’t home – all with their smart phone. If this new concept of living has an appeal to you, click on www.lennar.com to learn about Lennar’s offerings in comminuities throughout Southern California. September 2014 LIFEAFTER50.COM 29


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– Premieres Saturday September 13 at 8 p.m.

This two-hour movie, from bestselling author Nicholas Sparks (who wrote “The Notebook”) marks his first foray into television. Set during the Civil War, the film is a revenge drama about a widow and mother who is determined to protect her family and land at any cost. When the corrupt bank that runs her town pushes her into becoming an outlaw, the stakes become personal, setting off a chain of events that force her to question whether it’s better to be good or survive. Lauren Ambrose stars as the young widow who faces uncertainty as she attempts to defend her family’s land by any means necessary.

The Roosevelts: An Intimate History – New Seven-Part Documentary, PBS – Premieres Sunday September 14 at 8 p.m. (repeats at 10 p.m. each night) A new documentary from filmmaker Ken Burns is always an event, and this seven-part, 14-hour film is no exception. Burns follows the Roosevelts for more than a century, from Theodore’s birth in 1858 to Eleanor’s death in 1962. Over the course of those years, Theodore would become the 26th president of the United States and his niece, Eleanor, would marry his fifth cousin, Franklin, who became the 32nd president. Together, these three individuals redefined the relationship Americans had with their government and the role of the United States within the wider world. The series encompasses the history the Roosevelts helped to shape: the creation of National Parks, the digging of the Panama Canal, the passage of innovative New Deal programs, the defeat of Hitler, and the struggles for civil rights at home and human rights abroad. It is also an intimate human story about love, betrayal, family loyalty, personal courage and the conquest of fear

The Best In September Television Viewing By Sandi Berg

Tuned In To What’s On

Madam Secretary – New Series, CBS

– Premieres Sunday September 21 at 8:00 p.m.

Having had good luck with strong female characters on shows such as “The Good Wife,” CBS is bringing us another one in this new drama about a female secretary of state who must balance her personal and professional life. Tea Leoni stars as the shrewd and determined secretary who drives international diplomacy, battles office politics and circumvents protocol as she negotiates global and domestic issues, both at the White House and at home. The show has a pedigreed cast including Tim Daly, Bebe Neuwirth, Geoffrey Arend and Zeljko Ivanek.

The Boomer List – Premieres Tuesday September 23 at 9 p.m. (check local listings)

Much has been written about the boomer generation and this new documentary has found a unique way to mark the milestone of the last of the boomers turning 50. This film follows the tumultuous history of the post-World War II generation through firsthand accounts and interviews with 19 iconic boomers – one born each year of the baby boom – from a diverse field. Those chronicled include New Age guru Deepak Chopra, singer-songwriter Billy Joel, fashion designer Tommy Hilfiger, author Amy Tan, environmentalist Erin Brockovich and actors Kim Cattrall and Samuel L. Jackson. The interviewees will illuminate the key movements and changes that shaped the world during the baby boom years, discussing the environment; arts and entertainment; science; civil, LGBT and women’s rights; law; politics; public service; sports; the military; technology and media. September 2014 LIFEAFTER50.COM 31


Karen Lynn Gorney On “Stayin’ Alive” And Active “Saturday Night Fever” still resonates with those who grew up with the film, as well as with new audiences who discover the “goin’ nowhere” Tony Manero and Stephanie Mangano, the status-conscious girl he fell in love with By David Laurell • Photo by Getty Images

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n 1977, producer Robert Stigwood, director John Badham, a white-suited John Travolta, and a musical trio of brothers named Barry, Robin and Maurice Gibb joined forces to create “Saturday Night Fever,” a film that will forever define the disco era. A pop culture phenomenon, “Saturday Night Fever,” which grossed over $74 million dollars, chronicled the lives of a twentysomething paint store clerk named Tony Manero, played by Travolta, his ever-fighting Italian family, and his “goin’ nowhere” Brooklyn buddies, whose only reason for “stayin’ alive” was to strut their stuff at the disco on Saturday nights. Documenting the late 1970s youth culture, with dances and a soundtrack of pulsating music that stemmed from the discotheques of the black and gay communities, the film culminates with Tony falling in love with Stephanie Mangano, a girl who agrees to partner with him to win a dance contest. A no-nonsense, gum-chewing, socialite wannabe who is obsessed with distancing herself from what she perceives to be her plebeian Brooklyn roots, Stephanie forces Tony into facing the fact that there is more to life than working a dead-end job, living with a dysfunctional family, and blowing off steam with a bunch of losers on weekends. The young actress who danced her way into Tony’s heart in the role of Stephanie was actress Karen Lynn Gorney. The product of musical and theatrical parents, Karen was a classically trained actress who first rose to national prominence in the early ‘70s as Tara Martin on the ABC daytime drama, “All My Children.” Today, 37 years after the release of “Saturday Night Fever,” Gorney says she has accepted the fact that she will always be associated with the film, and is more than okay with that. “There was a time that I didn’t feel that way,” she reveals. “It had gotten to a point that the film was so big, I just wanted the furor of it to be over. I wanted to put it behind me and move forward with my career. I had loved playing Stephanie, but I got tired of being constantly associated with her and the film. Today, with the film being such a classic for those who saw it when they were kids and one that continues to be discovered by new generations, I’ve come to terms with the fact that I’ll always be associated with Stephanie and ‘Saturday Night Fever.’ ”

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Post-Fever Life

When the furor of the landmark film did finally settle down, Gorney’s postFever career saw her take a hiatus from acting. She became a painter, managed a Manhattan art gallery, returned to acting in the early 1990s, appeared in small roles in a handful of feature films, returned to “All My Children” on a recurring basis, guest starred in a number of episodic television programs and returned to her first love of music. Today, sharing her upstate New York home with her husband of 19 years, musician Mark Toback, Gorney is charming and amusing, with a hint of Stephanie’s New York accent and edginess. She is candid when she talks about topics ranging from her fight to overcome shyness as a child to her feelings about working with Susan Lucci, the film that made her a star, and the two men who have played vital roles in her career – John Travolta and her father, who inspired her to become an actress, dancer, singer and painter. “My dad was Jay Gorney, who wrote and composed a string of pop songs in the 1930s including ‘Brother, Can You Spare A Dime?’ and ‘You’re My Thrill,’” Gorney says proudly. “And my mother was a child prodigy pianist who went on to become an actress and a dancer. So, I was brought up in a very theatrical atmosphere. As a child, I was encouraged to do anything creative. I started writing songs because I wanted to be like my daddy, and I played a little guitar and painted and studied ballet. But I was so shy, I couldn’t even talk to people – which is a big problem if you want to be an entertainer. So my mother had me take acting classes to help me overcome my shyness.” The acting classes didn’t just help young Karen come out of her shell, they also exposed her to a new world of creative expression. She became hooked on acting, and her dramatic study in high school earned her a full scholarship to Pittsburgh’s Carnegie Mellon University, followed by an internship at Brandeis University in suburban Boston. In the early 1970s, Gorney began to audition for television and stage work, which led to her being cast on “All My Children.”


“AMC” Memories

“Getting the part of Tara was very exciting and I enjoyed that work very much,” she recalls. “I especially liked that the director encouraged us to do improvisation in rehearsals which, I believe, was a big part of ‘All My Children’s’ early success. It resulted in the show being very real.” Amongst her fondest memories of her work on the daytime drama was having the opportunity to work with Lucci, who played the ingénue-turned-superbitch, Erica Kane. “When we started doing ‘All My Children,’ Susan and I were just kids,” says Gorney. “We got to do fabulous scenes together because our characters detested one another. Erica was always stealing one of Tara’s boyfriends or husbands. But it was totally different off-screen. We got along great. Susan is hysterically funny and was always making me laugh.” Although Gorney loved doing “All My Children,” she decided not to renew her contract when it was up. “There were a lot of reasons why I didn’t renew, but one reason was that they wouldn’t let me do movies and I was dying to do a movie.”

And Do A Movie She Did…

“When I got the audition for ‘Saturday Night Fever,’ I really went for it,” she recalls. “I learned all the lines and kept getting call-back after call-back. They wanted to see me dance, to dance in heels, to read with John [Travolta], to dance with him.” Karen says that after being cast as Stephanie, she had a gut feeling the film would be successful, but not because of Travolta. She figured the success would come because The Bee Gees were doing the music. “I’ll be honest,” she says, as if revealing the world’s biggest secret. “When I came in to read for the role, I didn’t really know who John Travolta was. I knew he had done a television series. [“Welcome Back, Kotter”] but I had never watched it and when I first met him, I just thought he was some punk kid,” she adds with a laugh. “People always ask me if I fell in love with John Travolta when we were doing the movie,” she says waving her hand and scrunching up her nose. “The answer is ‘no’ because, for me, the real hottie was Barry Gibb. But then, when we began shooting, I got to know John and found him to be very sweet and kind. And I also began to feel even stronger that it would be a really big film, because it was very realistic and timely. Still, I never thought it would be as big as it was, and still is today. I mean all these years later, people still relate to it as if it was just released.” Gorney says she believes the film’s continuing success is due to many factors including the fact that Badham’s direction captured a lot of authentic behavior by letting his actors improvise and embellish on Norman Wexler’s screenplay. “That is what makes the film so realistic and edgy,” Gorney opines. “The improvisational work resulted in viewers feeling that they never knew what would happen next or how the characters would react. So when you watch it for the first time, you feel like anything could happen. That feeling was also very evident on the set, because we actually felt that way. I have always felt that a

great part of the film’s success was that it is very unpredictable.” Asked if she has any particular standout memories from doing the film, she bursts out in a laugh. “One of the most vivid memories I have was the problem my leotard caused,” she reveals. “We called one of the wardrobe people the ‘tush girl’ and had to have her on standby, right on the set, because my leotard was always creeping up around my tush, and although they were striving for realism, they didn’t want wrinkles on my ass. That became very frustrating for me. I’d be really getting into my dancing and it would be ‘Cut! Cut!’ They’d stop everything to have this girl come out and tug at my tush. Interestingly however, I think that that also has a lot to do with why the film was so successful and has been so enduring. It was very realistic, but it also looked pretty.”

Stayin’ Alive

Gorney says she still receives a lot of fan mail from around the world and, because she gets so many requests, makes signed “Saturday Night Fever” memorabilia available through her website. “I’m also still into painting,” she says. “I love to paint flowers and cats. I also do a lot of theater work and have done some episodic television where I played a few sleazy bastards. I still dance, which is a great workout.” In addition to her stage and screen work, Gorney continues to write, perform and record music. She has released three CDs – “Used to Love You Madly,” with original songs that chronicle the inner life of Stephanie Mangano; “Hot Moonlight,” which features 11 of her father’s hits from films and Broadway shows, and “The Dance of the Deadly’s,” which presents seven original songs that each serve as the “voice” for one of the Seven Deadly Sins. A collection of driving rhythmic pop songs, “The Dance of the Deadly’s” showcases Gorney’s lyrics and voice that are accompanied by the music of Andrew McCann, who has worked with Peter Frampton, Uriah Heep and The Kinks. Her three CDs are available through her website and www.Amazon.com. “I still write songs, and record, and perform in small jazz clubs in New York once in a while,” she says. “But for the most part, recently, I’ve been doing a lot of off-Broadway and film productions.” As for her feelings on the celebration of her upcoming January 28, 2015 birthday, which will see her turn 70, Gorney says she never gives aging much thought. “I’m too busy working and doing all sorts of things – living my life – to give any thought to my age,” she says. “The most important thing is to stay active and involved with life. I still take a ballet class and go swimming. You have to keep it moving, but you also have to pace yourself. It’s a balancing act – juggling between keeping yourself active and not overdoing it. You know, like the song says – you’ve got to keep stayin’ alive, stayin alive!” You can find out more about Karen Lynn Gorney and order autographed “Saturday Night Fever’ memorabilia and her CDs by clicking on www. karenlynngorney.com. ª

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A Preview of Upcoming Events for September/October By Claire Yezbak Fadden

ENTERTAINMENT MONDAY, SEPTEMBER 15 A MIDSUMMER NIGHT’S DREAM The beauty of Topanga’s countryside takes on a new dimension as fairies and mortals alike are beguiled by midsummer passions and puckish potions. Shakespeare’s most beloved comedy pits mischievous sprites against heartsick humans for a night of revelry, chaos, love and comedy. Will Geer Theatricum Botanicum, 1419 N. Topanga Canyon Blvd., Topanga. Performances vary through Sept. 27. $10-$37. (310) 455-3723. theatricum.com. HANSEL AND GRETA (SIc) BLUEGRASS A new version of the classic story set in depression-era Kentucky features the rollicking bluegrass sounds of The Get Down Boys. 24th Street Theatre, 1117 West 24th St, Los Angeles. Dates vary through Nov. 16. $10$24. (213) 745-6516. 24thstreet.org. RAcE Two lawyers find themselves defending a wealthy white executive charged with sexually assaulting a black woman. When a new legal assistant gets involved in the case, the opinions that boil beneath explode to the surface. Center Theatre Group/Kirk Douglas Theatre, 9820 Washington Blvd., Culver City. Dates vary through Sept. 28. $25-$55. (213) 628-2772, centertheatregroup.org. TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 16 cHOIR BOY At the Charles R. Drew Prep School for Boys, a young black man knows what is expected of him. Work hard, fall in line and if you’ve got the voice for it, use it to praise God in the school choir. Within these walls, Pharus Young, with the voice of an angel and a keen mind, should be a star. But in the face of Drew’s time-honored traditions, can music overcome silence? Gil Cates Theater, Geffen Playhouse, 10886 Le Conte Ave., os Angeles. Through Oct. 26. Prices vary. (310) 208-5454. geffenplayhouse.com. LEAR Ellen Geer takes on the title role in a genderreversed Lear for the 21st century, a daring new production that sees Lear divide her kingdom and test the loyalty of her three sons. Will Geer Theatricum Botanicum, 1419 N. Topanga Canyon Blvd., Topanga. Performances vary through Oct 4. $10-$37. (310) 455-3723. theatricum.com. FREE TUESDAY: WATER cONSERVATON TIPS Water efficiency experts from the Foothill Municipal Water District share information on water-wise practices and how your local water district can support your efforts. Part of “Get Dirty: A Garden Series by Descanso” on Third Tuesdays. Public admission to the gardens and the lecture is free of charge the third Tuesday of the month. Descanso Gardens,

PRIDE AND JOY The Texas Blues Of Stevie Ray Vaughan

With his astonishingly accomplished guitar playing, Stevie Ray Vaughan ignited the blues revival of the 1980s and bridged the gap between blues and rock like no other artist had since the late 1960s. His tragic death in 1990 at age 35 cut short a brilliant career in blues and American rock ‘n’ roll, just as he was on the brink of superstardom. Exhibition includes: several guitars, including Vaughan’s “Number One” Fender Stratocaster, early family photographs, original stage outfits, including Vaughan’s famous Indian headdress and handwritten lyrics. The Grammy Museum at L.A. Live, Fourth Floor, 800 W. Olympic Blvd., Los Angeles. Through July 2015. $12-$13. (213) 765-6803. grammymuseum.org.

1418 Descanso Dr., La Cañada Flintridge. $6$8. (818) 949-4200. descansogardens.org. KISS ME, KATE One of the great classics of the American musical theatre, celebrating Shakespeare and the joys, madness and the rewards of working in the theatre - both onstage and off. The Pasadena Playhouse, 39 South El Molino Ave., Pasadena. Tues.-Sun. through Oct. 12. Prices vary. (626) 356-7529 pasadenaplayhouse.org. WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 17 THE TEMPEST One of Shakespeare’s final works, “The Tempest” tells the tragicomic tale of Prospero, The Duke of Milan and his daughter, Miranda, who are marooned on an island by Prospero’s brother, Antonio. When Antonio’s ship is run aground by a massive storm, he and his comrades must navigate an isle rife with spirits and temptation. A Noise Within, 3352 East Foothill Blvd., Pasadena. Wed.-Sun. through Nov. 22. $34-$40. (626) 356-3100. anoisewithin.org.

GLENDALE NOON cONcERTS Arioso Duo: Cynthia Ellis, flute; Michelle Temple, harp. First Baptist Church of Glendale, 209 N. Louise St., Glendale. Free. (818) 2422113. glendalenoonconcerts.blogspot.com. ALL’S WELL THAT ENDS WELL In the Bard’s bittersweet comedy, low-born Helena heals the king and wins the right to marry the man she loves — a count above her station. But no one is prepared for the severity and ruthlessness of Bertram’s rejection of Helena as his royally-decreed wife, nor with the lengths Helena is prepared to go to in order to win his love. Will Geer Theatricum Botanicum, 1419 N. Topanga Canyon Blvd., Topanga. Performances vary through Sept. 27. $10-$37. (310) 455-3723. theatricum.com. MY SON THE WAITER - A JEWISH TRAGEDY This hybrid play weaves a bittersweet tale of one man’s lengthy struggle in New York. His send-ups on his family, career, childhood and misbegotten love life are as warm and poignant as they are hysterical. Thousand

Oaks Civic Arts Plaza, Scherr Forum Theatre, 2100 Thousand Oaks Blvd., Thousand Oaks. Wed.-Sun. through Sept. 21. $45-$55. (805) 449-2787. toaks.org. THIRD WEDNESDAY Neighborhood-Wide “Bike Friendly” Happy Hour. Drink and food specials, free samples and discounts from over 30 area bars, restaurants and retail establishments. Downtown Culver City, between Culver and Washington Blvds. and Duquesne Ave., Culver City. downtownculvercity.com. DAVE MASON’S TRAFFIc JAM Songwriter, guitarist and solo artist Dave Mason retraces the earliest days of his career and the works that launched his success. Pepperdine University, Smothers Theatre, 24255 Pacific Coast Highway, Malibu. $40$65. 310-506-4522. arts.pepperdine.edu. THURSDAY, SEPTEMBER 18 MARJORIE PRIME Eighty-five-year-old Marjorie (Lois Smith), a

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clever, wry woman, finds that her memory is failing. She is living out her days at an assisted living facility where she is frequently visited by her anxious, quick-witted daughter, Tess and her kind, easygoing son-in-law, Jon. With the urging of Jon and the facility and despite Tess’s misgivings, a mysterious young man, joins the group with the hope that he can help reverse Marjorie’s decline. Center Theatre Group/Mark Taper Forum At the Music Center, 135 N. Grand Ave., Los Angeles. Through Oct.19. $25-$70. (213) 628-2772. centertheatregroup.org.

(805) 658-0388. milanositalianrestaurant.com. SATURDAY, SEPTEMBER 27 JAY LENO It’s an evening of laughs and stand-up comedy, with the acclaimed funnyman and former “Tonight Show” host. Cerritos Center for the Performing Arts, 12700 Center Court Drive, Cerritos. Also Sept. 28. $58-$82. (562) 467-8818. cerritoscenter.com. GORDON LIGHTFOOT Saban Theatre@ BHPAC 8440 Wilshire Blvd., Beverly Hills. $49-$125. (888) 645-5006. sabantheatre.org.

FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 19 MONTEREY JAZZ FESTIVAL This three-day event celebrates the legacy of jazz and expands the boundaries of and opportunities to experience jazz through the creative production of performances and educational programs. The Festival features 500 artists, in nearly 100 performances and events on eight stages for 30 hours of live music. The festival showcases an array of international cuisine, shopping, art exhibits, educational events, seminars and conversations with iconic and emerging jazz artists. Monterey Jazz Festival, Monterey County Fairgrounds and Event Center, 2004 Fairground Rd, Monterey. Through Sept. 21. Single-day tickets: $71-$41. montereyjazzfestival.org.

OCTOBER WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 1 GLENDALE NOON cONcERTS First Baptist Church of Glendale, 209 N. Louise St., Glendale. Free. (818) 242-2113. glendalenoonconcerts.blogspot.com. FRIDAY, OCTOBER 3 VENTURA HARVEST FESTIVAL Hundreds of artisans showcasing more than 24,000 handcrafted originals, stage entertainment, a Kidzone, strolling performers, contests, a pumpkin patch, specialty foods, and more. Ventura County Fairgrounds, Seaside Park, 10 W. Harbor Rd., Ventura. Also Oct. 4-5. $7-$9. (800) 346-1212. harvestfestival.com.

VOX LUMIERE An immersive multimedia extravaganza that blends silent movies with new songs and powerful live performances into a one-of-akind theatrical experience. Singers, dancers and musicians play off each other, the audience and the onscreen story in a riveting new kind of storytelling. LATC, 514 S Spring St., Los Angeles. Also Sept. 20. $40-$75. (323) 854-6059. voxlumiere.com EQUIVOcATION In London in the year 1605, a down-and-out playwright called “Shagspeare” receives a royal commission from King James to write a play promoting the government’s version of the Gunpowder Plot, a recent failed attempt to blow up Parliament and the Monarchy. Will Geer’s Theatricum Botanicum, 1419 N. Topanga Canyon Blvd., Topanga. Fri.-Sat. through Oct. 4. $10-$37. (310) 455-3723. theatricum.com. BROADWAY BOUND Returning from World War II, Eugene teams up with his brother Stanley to break into the world of comedy writing, but a family crisis threatens to destroy their dreams. Odyssey Theatre, 2055 S. Sepulveda Blvd., Los Angeles. Fri.-Sun. through Sept. 21. $30, (310) 477-2055 x2. odysseytheatre.com. SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 21 THE IMPORTANcE OF BEING EARNEST A satire of the Victorian era, this is considered one of the best-loved comedies in the English literary canon. Wilde’s play savages the intricacies of manners and social mores of that time and is one of the first encapsulations of what we now know as gay sensibility,

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SATURDAY, OCTOBER 4 SHA NA NA Songs from the musical “Grease.” Cerritos Center for the Performing Arts, 12700 Center Court Drive, Cerritos. Also Sept. 28. Prices vary. (562) 467-8818. cerritoscenter.com. SUNDAY, OCTOBER 5

WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 17

THE TRIP TO BOUNTIFUL

Mother Watts (Cicely Tyson) is an elderly woman forced to live with her overprotective son (Blair Underwood) and domineering daughter-in-law (Vanessa Williams). Her dream is to return for one last time to her small hometown in Bountiful, Texas. Her journey becomes a heartbreaking but ultimately life-affirming and inspiring tale that examines the fragility of memory and celebrates the enduring power of hope, faith and family. Theatre Group/ Ahmanson Theatre At the Music Center, 135 N. Grand Ave., Los Angeles. Tues.-Sun. through Nov. 2. $25-$115. (213) 628-2772. centertheatregroup.org.

generally considered to be a cornerstone of theatrical work. A Noise Within, 3352 East Foothill Blvd., Pasadena. Wed.-Sun. through Nov. 22. $34-$40. (626) 356-3100. anoisewithin.org. WESTERN MUSIc ASSOcIATION JAM Musicians and cowboy poets perform stories and songs of the romantic days of the Old West, contemporary music of the American West and songs of the open range and the American cowboy. The Autry National Center, 4700 Western Heritage Way, Griffith Park, Los Angeles. $6-$10. (323) 667-2000. theautry.org.

MUcH ADO ABOUT NOTHING Beatrice and Benedick thoroughly detest one another. But under the barbs they hurl lie feelings that neither is even aware of—until circumstances bring them together to rescue their young friends. Will Geer Theatricum Botanicum, 1419 N. Topanga Canyon Blvd., Topanga. Also Sept. 28. $10-$37. (310) 4553723. theatricum.com. TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 23 VENTURA BLUEGRASS JAMS Milano’s Italian Restaurant, Patio, Ventura Harbor Village, 1559 Spinnaker Dr., Ventura.

FREE FIRST SUNDAY Free admission to the Museum of Ventura County including its galleries and any special events. Museum of Ventura County, 100 East Main St., Ventura. First Sunday of each month. (805) 653-0323. venturamuseum.org. TUESDAY, OCTOBER 7 VENTURA BLUEGRASS JAMS Milano’s Italian Restaurant, Patio, Ventura Harbor Village, 1559 Spinnaker Dr., Ventura. (805) 658-0388. milanositalianrestaurant.com. THURSDAY, OCTOBER 9 GLORIOUS! Based on a true story, this comedy invites us into the world of Florence Foster Jenkins, a New York socialite of great passion, considerable wealth and zero talent who fancied herself an opera diva. International City Theatre, Long Beach Performing Arts Center, 300 E. Ocean Blvd., Long Beach. Thurs.-Sun. through Nov. 2. $32-$47. (562) 436-4610. internationalcitytheatre.org.


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and Woody Guthrie’s Martin guitar, along with countless objects adorned with the Route 66 moniker or acquired along the route. The Autry National Center, Gamble Firearms Gallery, 4700 Western Heritage Way, Griffith Park, Los Angeles. Through Jan. 4. $6-$10. (323) 6672000. theautry.org. RAINFOREST OF THE AMERICAS Housed within a newly-built exhibit space this display replicates a tropical rainforest experience. See and learn about exotic animals like cotton-top tamarins, a Goliath bird eating spider and mata mata turtles as well as endangered species including the Central American tapir, giant river otters and a blue billed curassow. The exhibit showcases various reptile, bird, mammal and fish species that can be found in rainforest areas of Mexico, Central and South America. Los Angeles Zoo and Botanical Gardens, Griffith Park, 5333 Zoo Dr., Los Angeles. $18-$15. (323) 644-4200. lazoo.org.

Get the Word Out. E-mail your announcements to Claire Fadden, cfadden@lifeafter50.com. Include a brief description, location, date, time, cost, phone and website. Submission does not guarantee publication. Deadline for the October/November calendar is Sept. 1.

VIKKI CARR Saban Theatre@ BHPAC 8440 Wilshire Blvd., Beverly Hills. $39-$75. (888) 645-5006. sabantheatre.org. TEA FOR THREE: LADY BIRD, PAT AND BETTY This one-woman show stars Elaine Bromka. A whimsical and deeply moving behind-thescenes look at the fishbowl worlds of Lady Bird Johnson, Pat Nixon and Betty Ford. Pepperdine University, Smothers Theatre, 24255 Pacific Coast Highway, Malibu. $15$30. arts.pepperdine.edu.

EXHIBITIONS WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 17 BURNING DOWN THE HOUSE This exhibition brings together the works of Ellen Brooks, Jo Ann Callis and Eileen Cowin. Long known for using photography to narrative ends, Brooks, Callis and Cowin, who emerged simultaneously in 1970s Southern California, challenge both the role of women and their chosen medium in multi-layered, provocative images. Pasadena Museum of Art, 490 East Union Street, Pasadena. Through Jan. 11. $5-$7. Wed.-Sun. (626) 568-3665. pmcaonline.org. FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 19 MEXICAN-AMERICAN BASEBALL IN VENTURA COUNTY Baseball was a way to build unity, strengthen friendships, hone skills and to forget – for nine innings – that they were different. It became a source of pride for the players as well as the residents of the barrios and ultimately was the great equalizer. This exhibit focuses on the American sport that saturated communities across the nation including the Mexican barrios of Ventura County. The exhibit features artifacts, photographs and stories from local communities. Museum of Ventura County, 100 E. Main St., Ventura. Through Nov. 30. $3-$4. (805) 653-0323. venturamuseum.org.

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SWAN LAKE

Graeme Murphy breathes new life into the timeless romance of Odette and Prince Siegfried. Magician von Rothbart has become a wickedly slinky baroness, who has no intention of releasing her freshly married lover. The innocent Odette breaks down and is locked in a sanatorium, where her fractured mind conjures swans. But she will return to claim her prince. Music Center, Dorothy Chandler Pavilion, 135 N. Grand Ave., Los Angeles. Through Oct. 12. Prices vary. (213) 972-0711. musiccenter.org.

ENVIRONMENTAL IMPACT Selections from the Frederick R. Weisman Art Foundation. This exhibition spotlights a diverse group of contemporary artists who comment on our relationship to the natural world. It features works by artists such as Ed Ruscha, Joe Goode, Peter Alexander, Chuck Arnoldi, and many younger talents. Pepperdine University, Frederick R. Weisman Museum of Art, 24255 Pacific Coast Highway, Malibu. Tues.-Sun. through Nov. 30. Free. arts. pepperdine.edu. FALLEN FRUIT The latest in an ongoing series of communitybased projects that use fruit as a medium to explore social engagement. The exhibition features a “commitment document” inspired by an illustrated 17th century ketubbah (Jewish marriage contract). Skirball Cultural Center, Ruby Gallery, 2701 N. Sepulveda Blvd., Los Angeles. Tues.-Sun. through Oct. 12. $7$10. (310) 440-4500. skirball.org.

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taking VacatiOn in Search Of LibatiOn Along with sights and attractions, globetrotting offers the opportunity to sample indigenous wines and spirits right where they’re made By Ed Boitano

Kirsch: Dettling Kirschwelt Lake Lucerne, Switzerland

For many, kirsch is simply a sharp-tasting liqueur that is a staple in fondue recipes, but for the Swiss, it is their national drink. For me, it was an excuse to tour the Dettling Kirschwelt distillery, although just the hour-long boat ride from the city of Lucerne to the idyllic village of Brunnen on Lake Lucerne would have been worth it alone. The founders of Dettling Kirschwelt did not chose the location for its setting on the lake, but rather for its proximity to native black mountain cherries. Kirsch, once called kirschwasser (cherry water), is a clear brandy made from a double distillation of the juice of small black cherries. The five-generation Dettling Kirschwelt was established in 1867, – Frank Sinatra and has the distinction of being the only large distillery in the world to exclusively specialize in the use of cherries. The 45-minute tour of the visitor’s center is an insightful journey into all things kirsch.

“Alcohol may be man’s worst enemy, but the Bible says to love your enemy.”

Single Malt Whisky: Glenora Inn And Distillery Nova Scotia, Canada

Located on Nova Scotia’s spectacular Céilidh Trail, the Glenora Distillery is the first single-malt whiskey distillery in North America. The distillery rests on a rural 300-acre site with buildings housing malt, kiln, milling production, warehouses, bottling and lodging facilities, constructed in a traditional style, similar to distilleries found in Scotland. Tours are offered, as well as a sampling of their 12-year-old heather and honey tasting “uisge beatha” (Gaelic for “water of life”). After my tour, I was told to expect something special, for there was to be a céilidh in the distillery’s pub. A céilidh is a traditional Gaelic musical social gathering that originated in Scotland. Céilidhs flourished in Nova Scotia, where Scottish immigrants would meet with friends for an evening of song, dance and drink.

“Always carry a flagon of whiskey in case of snakebite, and furthermore always carry a small snake.” – W.C. Fields

Merlot Wine: Windy Point Vineyards Yakima Valley, Washington

Stout Beer: St. James’ Gate Brewery Dublin, Ireland

When Arthur Guinness borrowed money from his wealthy aunt in 1759 to establish his brewery, it was with the strict condition that he produce a healthy beverage, unlike the gin mills of 18th century Dublin. Arthur took it a step further, suggesting his brew was so healthy that pregnant women should drink a pint of it daily. Although that theory has greatly dwindled, a perfectly poured pint of the black stuff has always worked wonders for making me feel better. Guinness brews more than 20 varieties of beer, but is best known for its stout: an extra dark, almost black, top-fermenting beer, made with highly roasted malts. On the days of its roasting, the air of Dublin takes on a fragrance that is paradise to the Guinness connoisseur. The best way to learn about Guinness is to visit the Guinness Storehouse, located at the original 64-acre St. Gate Brewery in the heart of – Benjamin Franklin James’ Dublin. The visitor’s center offers a look into the brew’s rich history and a walk through each stage of the brewing. And, yes, the tour ends with a complimentary pint.

“Beer is proof that God loves us and wants us to be happy.”

Washington State’s Yakima Valley has been touted as the best merlotproducing region in the U.S. The valley enjoys 300 days of sunshine each year and the same latitude as the great wine-producing regions of France. Windy Point Vineyards offers a great location to experience Yakima Valley’s Wine Country for a number of reasons: their wines, spectacular hillside views of the valley, and setting in the middle of its own vineyard. A labor of love for owners Mike and Liz Stepniewski, the boutique – William winery produces Shakespeare approximately 3,000 cases annually, with an emphasis on merlot, resling and cabernet sauvignon. Wine and food pairings, made in their kitchen – a centerpiece of the tasting room – are also offered, featuring local Yakima Valley foods.

“Good wine is a good familiar creature if it be well used.”

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And Finally... The Bookworm’s Best A Life After 50 book review

by Terri “The Bookworm” Schlichenmeyer

No Saints Around Here: A Caregiver’s Days By Susan Allen Toth

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t was supposed to be paradisiacal. You’d planned it that way, in fact: the two of you, retired, with time aplenty to travel, explore, garden and enjoy life. It was supposed to be good, and it was – until one of you got sick and the other’s now a caregiver, a journey you never wanted or expected, but there you are. In her new book “No Saints Around Here,” Susan Allen Toth, shows readers in this situation, that they are not alone. There were 15 years between Susan Allen Toth and her husband, James. That’s not a lot of difference in age, really. It’s certainly not enough to make anyone fret about a future full of health issues, but that’s what arrived: While in his mid-70s, James was diagnosed with Parkinson’s disease. His “Parkie,” as they called it, was initially mild. James was a little clumsy and had slight tremors, and they dealt with it. But then, his symptoms worsened: loss of memory, slowness, dementia, and Toth became a spousal caregiver, a member of what she calls “an ever-expanding club without borders.” In her quest for books on the subject, Toth discovered that few authors write “from the front lines.” Nothing, for instance, indicated that she’d have to floss James’s teeth. She wasn’t prepared for the absurdities of life that come with an ill husband and round-the-clock strangers ministering care. She was surprised at friendships that fell away and how new webs of friends came in to help. She began journaling and, in her entries, the word “time” crops up repeatedly – mostly, because there was never enough of it. Not enough time for herself (although, with paid help, she was sometimes able to sneak away to their Wisconsin cabin), not enough for day-to-day chores, and not enough time with James. “It is a terrible loss,” she says of no longer being able to “slip into his bed.” She never expected to have to know about such things as incontinence care or nursing homes (she kept James at home until the end). Snappiness wasn’t her normal mien, but it happened. There was a “last Christmas” and a pleasant surprise that accompanied hospice care. And, says Toth, through it all, “I did the best I could.” Pick up “No Saints Around Here” and you’ll notice something: holding it in your hands is like grasping a half-pound of pure ache. The truth, beautifully and brutally presented, is what Toth offers her readers, with entries that span the 18-month period before James died. Toth writes about hands-on caretaking, but she also touches upon relief, guilt, self-care, anger, and the whole-life dwindling that comes with progressive illness. The bluntness and raw honesty of this book may shock some readers and, at times, it may make you gasp at its audacity. Then again, if you do, maybe this isn’t a book for you. Toth’s words will give comfort to newly-minted caregivers who aren’t sure of what’s next, aren’t sure what to do and who don’t know what “normal” is anymore. This is a book for those men and women, spouses and children – and if that’s you, “No Saints Around Here” may just be heaven-sent. “No Saints around Here: A Caregiver’s Days” by Susan Allen Toth, 2014, University of Minnesota Press, $16.95, 215 pages. The Bookworm is Terri Schlichenmeyer, who lives on a hill with two dogs and more than 12,000 books. You can read all of Terri’s book reviews, updated weekly, at www.lifeafter50.com. Just click on “Entertainment” and then “Book Reviews.”

A Look Back

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ifty years have passed since the evening of September 17, 1964 when ABC debuted a new sitcom – “Bewitched.” Created by Sol Saks and starring Elizabeth Montgomery, Dick York (later Dick Sargent) and Agnes Moorehead, the show chronicled the suburban lives of a beautiful nose-twitching witch named Samantha and her mortal husband, Darrin. The show enjoyed great popularity during its eight-season run and went to be ranked as one of TV Guide’s “50 Greatest TV Shows of All Time.” While Montgomery was bewitching to fans, her personal life included many challenges that are candidly documented in Herbie J. Pilato’s book, “Twitch Upon a Star: The Bewitched Life and Career of Elizabeth Montgomery” (Taylor Trade Publishing, 2012). Based on exclusive interviews with Montgomery, who died of cancer in 1995 at the age of 62, Pilato takes readers behind-the-scenes to explore her anti-war political activism and advocacy for AIDS sufferers, women’s rights, the gay community and the disabled. The book also explores the liberal Liz’s tumultuous relationships with her staunchly conservative father, actor Robert Montgomery, and four husbands. For more information and to order this insightful tome, click on www.herbiejpilato.com. 42 LIFEAFTER50.COM September 2014

Just A Thought Before We Go “September 11 is a reminder that life is fleeting, impermanent, and uncertain. Therefore, we must make use of every moment and nurture it with affection, tenderness, beauty, creativity, and laughter.” – Deepak Chopra, M.D.


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A Classy Toast To Bay Ridge Memories

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y wife, who was the quintessential “disco queen,” thoroughly embraced and still pines for the disco era of the late 1970s. Even I, a rocker whose twentysomething eight-track collection was completely devoid of disco recordings, got caught up in the mirrorballed fever of trying my best to fake the steps of the Hustle to impress tequilasunrise-fortified-andwrap-dress-adorned ladies who had all the steps down pat – in spite of performing them while balancing on five-inch heels. In retrospect, it would have been impossible for me to have not gotten caught up in the furor of the era, because I grew up in the Bay Ridge section of Brooklyn – the epicenter of the disco lifestyle. My hometown, located adjacent to New York Bay on a glacial ridge that formed its shoreline, was peppered with Victorian homes built in the 1800s that offered spectacular views of The Narrows. It is the home of Fort Hamilton, one of the country’s oldest U. S. Army installations, and serves as the Brooklyn base for the Verrazano Narrows Bridge that connects Long Island with Staten Island. It was also the early stomping grounds for many luminaries including Walt Whitman, Mae West, George and Ira Gershwin, Danny Kaye, Beverly Sills, Malcolm Forbes, Norman Mailer, Woody Allen and Barbra Streisand. But no matter what historical significance my hometown may boast, we natives have come to “fugetaboutit,” knowing “The Ridge” will, perhaps, always be best known as the home of that eggless concoction of seltzer and chocolate syrup known as the egg cream, and the setting for the film “Saturday Night Fever.” The streets, churches, stores and homes of “Fever” are all a part of my childhood neighborhood.

I have danced at the Odyssey Disco on 64th Street and eaten at the restaurants that are prominently featured in the film. In this issue, we catch up with Karen Lynn Gorney, who, as John Travolta’s “Fever” co-star, played Stephanie. I first met Karen in the 1990s when I did a story on the 20th anniversary of “Fever.” Soon after, she and her husband, Mark Toback, visited our home, where Karen sprawled out of the floor with my dogs and entertained us with her memories of doing the legendary film. Later that evening, we went out for dinner and Karen ordered “hot tea,” which totally tickled my wife. “Tea! Just like Stephanie,” my wife laughed, referring to the scene in “Fever” when Stephanie rubs her social superiority into Travolta’s character’s face by stating that her sipping of tea is far more sophisticated than his slurping of coffee. “It’s a real classy drink,” my wife and Karen said in giggling unison, repeating her line from the film. As we sat in that restaurant, a wave of hometown nostalgia came over me – memories of the eclectic shops on 86th Street, lunching with my grandmother at the Green Tea Room, ice-skating in Prospect Park, dancing at the Odyssey, and sitting at the soda fountain counter of John and Ricki’s candy store on Third Avenue where I had my first egg cream. “Forget tea,” I thought to myself. “Egg creams! Now there was a real classy drink!”

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ick James, the “King of Punk Funk,” known for his fusion of funky soul and underground-inspired rock, never made a secret of his wild sex and drug-loving lifestyle. In “Glow: The Autobiography of Rick James” (Atria Books, 2014), we peer behind the walls of Folsom Prison, where James spent time for assault and kidnapping, and met fellow inmate, Brother Guru. This posthumously published memoir, written in collaboration with David Ritz, is a conversation between James and Guru. James, who died in 2004 at the age of 56, met Ritz while he was interviewing Marvin Gaye and urged him to work with him on this no-holds-barred memoir.

By Claire Yezbak Fadden

America’s Fastest-Growing Retirement Cities

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ne of the biggest decisions in life is choosing where to retire. Americans making this decision consider several factors such as things to do, availability of services, affordability and weather. The website www.NerdWallet.com analyzed those variables in 75 of the largest U.S. cities and has named their 2014 top 10 best urban places to retire: 1) Miami, Florida - The city has a walkable layout and great beaches with relatively low average costs. The area offers many services and Florida has no state income tax. 2) New Orleans, Louisiana - With a low cost of living, the Big Easy offers a rich culture, year-round festivals and great food. 3) El Paso, Texas - With a very low cost of living, the annual expenditure is lower here than any other place on the list. 4) Mesa, Arizona - With its warm weather, golf courses and a relatively low cost of living, this Phoenix suburb boasts many characteristics to attract older residents. 5) Corpus Christi, Texas - The city offers a very affordable lifestyle with outdoor opportunities such as golfing, boating and fishing.

Fifty Candles

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ifty years ago this month: President Lyndon B. Johnson signed the Wilderness Act into law, “Fiddler on the Roof” opened on Broadway, and Americans were watching the television premieres of “Shindig,” “Bewitched,” “Man from U.N.C.L.E” and “The Munsters.” The Supremes released “Baby Love,” and the Warren Commission findings declared Lee Harvey Oswald acted alone in the assassination of President Kennedy. Notables born in September 1964 who are celebrating their 50th birthday this month include actor Keanu Reeves, singer Trisha Yearwood, actresses Faith Ford, Holly Robinson Peete, Rosie Perez and Janeane Garofalo and Goo Dolls founding member Robby Takac. 48 LIFEAFTER50.COM September 2014

6) Tampa, Florida - With great weather, no state income tax, and a low cost of living, Tampa also boasts museums, performing arts venues, parks, golf courses and exceptional services. 7) Baltimore, Maryland Along with the lowest average cost of a doctor’s visit in the top 10, the city also offers parks, performing arts venues, various historical sites and many attractions. 8) Honolulu, Hawaii Although the cost of living is high, the tropical weather, beaches and attractions provide an exceptional relaxed lifestyle. 9) Henderson, Nevada Near Las Vegas, Henderson boasts dozens of hiking trails and mountains. Nevada offers diverse activities and no income or inheritance tax. 10) Memphis, Tennessee - Offering a low cost of living, Memphis is also a city rich in history, culture, food, music and the arts.

A Book You’ll Love With Your Whole Heart

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or every two hours of television watching, your risk of becoming obese increases 23 percent, according to Dr. Joel K. Kahn, who believes that more than 75 percent of heart attacks, strokes and other cardiovascular disease events are preventable. In his new book, “The Whole Heart Solution” (Readers Digest, 2014), Kahn offers simple actions you can take to make yourself heart-attack-proof, including drinking your veggies, opening your windows, walking barefoot and exercising during television commercials.


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Get Jazzed For A Trip To Monterey

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star-studded line up will come together for the 57th Annual Monterey Jazz Festival. From Herbie Hancock, Gary Clark Jr., Billy Childs, Shawn Colvin, Lisa Fischer and Becca Stevens to Jon Batiste and Stay Human, the three-day event will celebrate the legacy of jazz and expand the boundaries of jazz through the creative production of performances and educational programs. This year’s festival will features more than 500 artists in nearly 100 performances on eight stages for 30 hours of live music. Beginning on September 19 and running through September 21, the 2014 festival will showcase an array of international cuisine, shopping, art exhibits, educational events, seminars and conversations with iconic and emerging jazz artists. Drummer Eric Harland will serve as the 2014 artist-in-residence and perform with the Charles Lloyd Quartet, his own group, Voyager, and as a soloist with the Next Generation Jazz Orchestra. This year will also see legendary saxophonist Charles Lloyd return to Monterey for the first time since 2006 as the festival’s showcase artist, performing with his own quartet and in a duo with pianist Gerald Clayton. The Monterey Jazz Festival takes place on the Monterey County Fairgrounds and Event Center, 2004 Fairground Road in Monterey. Single-day tickets range from $41 to $71. For more information, click on www.montereyjazzfestival.org.

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ou might not find them in a dictionary yet, but they’re a part of the everyday American vocabulary. Here’s what they mean. Bromance: A close, non-sexual relationship between two men. Chillax: To relax, be calm and laid back. A blend of relax and chill out. Nurdle: The correct amount of toothpaste to put on your toothbrush.

The Most Important Thing To Know This Month

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edicines play an important role in treating many conditions and diseases, but when they are no longer needed it’s important to dispose of them properly. Consider the following disposal options and instructions from the Federal Drug Administration when throwing out expired, unwanted or unused medicines: Disposal In Household Trash Mix medicines with unpalatable substances such as kitty litter or used coffee grounds and place the mixture in a sealed plastic bag. Before throwing out your empty pill bottle or other empty medicine packaging, remember to scratch out all information on the prescription label to make it unreadable. Medicine Take-Back Programs Click on the U.S. Drug Enforcement Administration’s website at www.deadiversion. usdoj.gov for information on national prescription drug take-back programs in your community. Flushing Of Certain Medicines Some medicines have specific disposal instructions indicating they should be flushed down the sink or toilet as soon as they are no longer needed, and when they cannot be disposed of through a medicine takeback program. For example, patients using fentanyl patches for pain should immediately flush their used or unneeded patches down the toilet. Flushing these patches and other powerful medicines will get rid of them right away and help keep your family and pets safe. For more information, click on www.fda.gov/ Drugs/ResourcesForYou/Consumers.

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A Special Wellness Report New Medicine Based On An 88-Year Old Theory By Albert Einstein Can Help Almost Everyone Who Is Sick Or Injured!

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hat you are about to read may be the most important information you’ve ever read. Here is why.

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To Help Almost Every Health Problem Ever Experienced By A Human Being! Dr. Lytle believes (as do many other people) low-level laser therapy will become the medicine of the future. If you hold a low-level laser device against the skin of your body and turn it on, you will be able to see the laser light... but... you will not be able to feel it. There probably won’t even be a sensation of warmth. Laser light is as gentle as the kiss of a butterfly. But, from a healing point of view, it is quite possible it is more effective than drugs or surgery. Low-level laser therapy is not just the medicine of the future. For many people who know about it, it is the “medicine” they use now. The problem of trying to explain the healing powers of low-level laser therapy is...

It Works So Well On So Many Different Problems, It Seems Like It Couldn’t Possibly Be True! But it is true! As mentioned earlier, all injury and illness creates an interruption of energy to the cells of the human body. The body will never recover until the proper amount and type of energy is restored to these cells. But once that energy is restored...

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The Seven Percent Solution

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quick search of local bank rates on CDs reveals only one bank in Southern California that is paying above 0.40 percent on a one-year CD. I’m sure as soon as they realize they are the only one, they will immediately drop their rates. At those levels you aren’t even keeping up with inflation. However, there is great news. You can earn seven percent and know your money is safe!

Safe Means Safe

I’ve been in the wealth-management business since the late 1990s, so I understand that when people say “safe,” they mean “SAFE.” I can assure you when I use words, I use them with intention, so I’m not just saying “safe,” I’m saying “SAFE!” Since 2010, my Life After 50 readers and clients have had the opportunity to earn seven percent or more by investing in what I call “double secured first trust deeds.” If you have been sitting on the sidelines, unsure of just how safe these assets really are, you have missed out on great interest rates for four years. No client of ours has lost a cent of principal on their trust deeds and every client has earned seven percent or more.

What inspires a life well-lived? Isn’t it all the special moments? Like waking up in your charming residence. Being greeted by name, with a warm smile. A great meal in stylish surroundings with good friends or an energizing workout. And the assurance that tomorrow’s care needs can be managed for you, right here at home. This is retirement living— tailored to you.

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When I updated my living trust a few years ago, I tried to cover all contingencies so everything would be in order upon my passing. When my father died suddenly, it was a mess. We had no time to grieve because we had to go to court to keep his business going. Even though he had a living trust, he only had his deceased mother as a trustee and never included his business or his accounts. I wanted to include everything possible to make it easier on my children after I pass away. In addition to including all the instructions, I named my kids as the successor trustees, and included the family business and the accounts. I put the trust in my safe with all my important papers. In addition, I explained my wishes to my children and gave them a copy of all the documents. Now I’m starting to have some health issues, so I just want to make sure there isn’t anything I have forgotten to do to make it easier on them. Is there?

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I applaud you for taking the steps to make it easier on your kids during what will be a very difficult time. It’s easier to just ignore the topic and let everyone else pick up the pieces when we are gone. However, grieving for the loss of a loved one is consuming enough without having to also deal with the realities of taking care of financial matters, too. You are way ahead of many by the combination of having created a living trust, putting thought into it, including your assets, having copies of the financial documents included with the plan, discussing it with your kids, and giving them copies. There are, however, some things that you could do to make it even easier on them. You could have your kids start acting as successor trustees during your lifetime. That would involve including them on accounts and creating other documents to confirm that they have the authority to act now, rather than only upon your incapacity or passing. The advantage is that the transition of asset management doesn’t involve the delay of waiting for doctor’s incapacity statements or death certificates. In addition to avoiding the delays, allowing your kids to act as successor trustees during your lifetime allows you to partner with your kids, which enables them to become familiar with how you manage your finances. They have an opportunity to ask you questions and possibly even make recommendations of how to improve your situation. This gives you the added benefit of more easily having their assistance during challenging health issues. It also makes them more effective in helping you, and less stressful for them during what can be very emotional times. If you opt for your children to act as successor trustees now, you should also consider having them help you as your financial fiduciary under a power of attorney and your healthcare agent under an advance healthcare directive. No matter what capacity you allow your children to assume during your lifetime, your children should also consult with an attorney to ensure the paperwork is completed properly and that they understand their fiduciary responsibilities. Taking steps to get your children involved during your lifetime also addresses your initial question about how to make it easier on them after you pass. By including them and empowering them to assist you during your lifetime, they are better prepared to deal with the post-death financial and legal responsibilities. Furthermore, there is a greater likelihood of avoiding the post-death legal battles. While it doesn’t sound as if this applies to you, for some there may be some concern about doing this. If that is the case, you can still move forward but request court supervision over your children.

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The First Ladies of Disco – Evelyn “Champagne” King, Martha Wash and Linda Clifford By David Laurell • Photo by Mike Ruiz

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f you were born during the tail end of the silent generation or are a baby boomer, chances are more than good that you spent many an evening of your 20s and 30s in one of the bazillion discos that popped up seemingly overnight from coast-to-coast and around the world. The chances are even better that you crossed the thresholds of those dance clubs balancing on four-inch platform shoes and dressed in sequin-adorned satin, spandex, lycra or some sort of synthetic polyester. For the gents, it was the three-piece suit (preferably white) with a butterfly-collared shirt opened to midchest and a gold chain. For the ladies, depending on their body type and bravery, it was sequined halters and metallic leopard-print bandeau tops coupled with hot pants fashioned from a mere swatch of material, or the ubiquitous Diane Von Furstenberg-designed wrap dress. No matter what you wore, you were sure to have come off the dance floor dripping in sweat after boogying down to the nonstop, pulsating, four-on-thefloor rhythm patterns captured on the records (yes, real vinyl records) being spun by disc jockeys who, in many cases, became as locally well known as the artists they played. Evelyn “Champagne” King, Martha Wash and Linda Clifford were among those artists. They were a part of the sisterhood that provided the soundtrack of the late 1970s and early 1980s – forever immortalized, along with Gloria Gaynor, Vicki Sue Robinson, Donna Summer, Thelma Houston and The Pointer Sisters, as the highest-ranking divas of the discotheques. And now, in 2014, as the mirrored disco ball of memories has made millions upon millions of

rotations, Evelyn, Martha and Linda are still out there performing, recording and ruling from their multi-color-lighted thrones as disco’s first ladies. Emmy Award-winner Evelyn “Champagne” King made her debut on the disco scene with 1978’s Top 10 classic “Shame.” Martha Wash, a two-time Grammy nominee known as “The Queen of Clubland,” first came on the scene with her mentor, the late disco pioneer Sylvester, and then achieved success in her own right with Izora Armstead as Two Tons of Fun and then The Weather Girls who had a smash hit with the song “It’s Raining Men.” And Linda Clifford, a fivetime Grammy nominee who scored numerous hits from the 1970s through the 1980s, made her foray into disco nobility with her legendary recordings of “If My Friends Could See Me Now” and “Bridge Over Troubled Water.” The trio, who are individually featured in the book, “First Ladies of Disco: 32 Stars Discuss the Era and Their Singing Careers,” (McFarland, 2013) by James Arena, reveal fascinating personal stories of what it was like to have pioneered a genre of music that will forever define the 1970s and ‘80s They have also performed together as “First Ladies of Disco” in a super-charged show brought to the stage under the management and direction of producer James Washington. Enthusiastically received by those who grew up with them, as well as newfound audiences who weren’t even born when they topped the charts, the ladies, who are each still juggling hectic recording and touring careers, plan on working together to do more shows, create new songs and record an album. September 2014 LIFEAFTER50.COM 55


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Evelyn “Champagne” King

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LA50: When you are not performing or working on a record, what is your life like today? ECK: I’m a housewife. I live in Ventura County and am happily married to Freddie Fox, who is also a musician who works with me and with Chaka Khan. I have a little Maltese named Foxy Fox and I’m just a proud and happy housewife. LA50: We at Life After 50 are always curious about any thoughts or philosophies people have adopted about getting older. Would you care to share yours? ECK: [laughing] Oh I just stay out of trouble! I’ve always stayed out of trouble, even when I was a kid on tour. My big thing is to enjoy each day. In the evenings, I have a little glass of red wine and reflect on my day and just enjoy my time here. I’m feeling great and I work on taking care of myself. I go to the gym and eat well and I’m proud to be an AARP member. I turned 54 last July and I’m proud of that. I say, “Be happy, because you never know what the next day may bring.” I love growing old, right along with my fans who listened to me when we were kids.

Life After 50 (LA50): What was it like to be in the eye of the disco hurricane when you were just a kid? Evelyn “Champagne” King (ECK): I was just 15 going on 16 when “Shame” hit the charts and we were out on tour all over the world on a nonstop basis. It was a fun time. It was a time when people let the music just take them away from their problems and enjoy themselves. And it was more than just the music or going to a club. It was a lifestyle. The disco era changed a lot of people’s lives in various ways. The beat, the songs, the whole package – people related to it and would just lose their minds when they got out on the dance floor. It was very freeing and just wonderful. LA50: What is the story about how “Champagne” became a part of your name? ECK: When I was a baby, my mom always called me bubbles. I was called bubbles for years – well into my teens. Then, when I started to sing professionally, I knew I couldn’t use Evelyn “Bubbles” King. It sounded like I was a stripper. So my parents and my producer talked about it and somebody said “Well what else is bubbly?” And it was like – CHAMPAGNE! YES! And so from that moment on, I’ve been Evelyn “Champagne” King. 56 LIFEAFTER50.COM September 2014

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orn just three days after Christmas in 1953, Martha Wash began her musical career at the age of two, in her parents’ church in her native San Francisco. She went on to study opera and was performing professionally throughout the United States and Europe while still in high school. A member of a contemporary gospel group, N.O.W. (News of The World), Martha also starred in major theater productions and recorded numerous jingles

and movie soundtracks. In addition to her performance and recording work with countless superstars, most notably, Sylvester, she is best known as half of the duo (along with Izora Armstead, who died in 2004) Two Tons of Fun, which evolved into The Weather Girls when they released their mega hit, “It’s Raining Men.” Today, living in Long Island, New York and maintaining a busy work schedule, Martha also makes time to be involved with various charities that provide services and support to individuals with autism; the “You Can Play Project,” which is dedicated to ensuring equality, respect and safety for all athletes, without regard to sexual orientation, and the Huntington Arts Council that inspires lives and minds through education, entertainment and intellectual motivation. LA50: Beginning with your work with Sylvester and on through your time with Izora, you have played a vital role in the disco era. When you think back on the 1970s and ‘80s, what comes to mind? Martha Wash (MW): Gratefulness that I survived it [laughing]. I loved that era. I was young and was singing with Sylvester in different clubs and all over the county. It was a very exciting time. LA50: You came from a church-going Gospel background. Were there any challenges for you in making the transition into the world of clubgoing disco? MW: My parents weren’t really happy about it, my mother particularly. She wanted me to continuing singing Gospel. They were concerned about me traveling and being in all the clubs, but they understood the opportunity and eventually came around.

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velyn King was born into a show business family on July 1, 1960 in the Bronx, New York, and raised in Philadelphia. Her father was a singer who backed up numerous acts at Harlem’s famous Apollo Theater, and her uncle, Avon Long, was an actor and singer who appeared in the first Broadway revival of “Porgy and Bess” and worked with Lena Horne at the Cotton Club. Evelyn’s mother was also in the music business – sort of. She worked as a cleaning woman at Philadelphia International Records, where Evelyn was discovered by producer Theodore T. Life, who overheard her singing in a washroom while her mother was working. Life coached Evelyn and eventually signed her to a production deal that led to a recording contract with RCA Records Evelyn was in her mid-teens when she released her debut album, “Smooth Talk,” which included the song “Shame” that would rocket to the top of the music charts and establish her as a star.

LA50: You’ve been crossing career paths with Martha and Linda since you were all kids. What is it like to now be working together? ECK: I’m so excited about working with them. To me, Martha and Linda are a blessing. They are two artists I have always respected and admired. We all get along and don’t try to jump over one another or control a project. I am really looking forward to doing more shows and recording with them. We love showing the people that we’re still here and still doing the music they loved, and also bringing something new to the table. It is so great to be out there and seeing all the old fans getting down, and I love seeing young kids who are out there singing every word to our old school songs.

LA50: How did you begin working with Izora? MW: We were both with Sylvester and became known as Two Tons of Fun. We got quite a following of our own with Sylvester’s fans and his producer suggested that Izora and I record an album. We ultimately recorded two albums as Two Tons of Fun. Then we met songwriter Paul Jabara, who wrote “Last Dance” for Donna Summer and songs for Barbra Streisand. He and Paul Shaffer had written “It’s Raining Men,” and he approached us to record it. We did, and when it started to get airplay, people thought it had been done by a new group called The Weather Girls because at the beginning of the song we say “Hi, we’re your weather girls.” Well, people who knew us as Two Tons of Fun knew it was Martha and Izora, but the name Weather Girls really caught on so we went with it, moved from the East Coast to the West Coast, and signed on with a new label. LA50: “It’s Raining Men” has become a classic. It seems like everyone, of every age, knows it. MW: That is very true. The song was recorded in Los Angeles in about 90 minutes. We just did it and walked out of the studio and never gave it much more thought. Paul [Jabara] believed it was going to be a hit, and he was right. When it did hit as big as it did, we were surprised but, of course, very happy. Then the gay community took that song and embraced it as their own. But you’re right, it’s a song everyone likes – grandparents, parents, kids. Everyone loves it, because it’s a feel-good song that you can sing along with and dance to.


LA50: After sharing the stage with Sylvester and Izora for so long, tell us how you feel about this new partnering with Evelyn and Linda. MW: Well, it’s not really new. We have done shows with one another for years. But then our manager, James Washington, came up with the idea of us doing a show called “First Ladies of Disco,” like James Arena’s book. As of right now, Evelyn and Linda and I are the core of that, but as we move forward there will be other women who will also be a part of it. It will be women singing their original hits and all of us just having a lot of fun and bringing back memories of fun times. I’m amazed at how disco is still loved by people. We sell out arenas with people who grew up with the music and they bring their children.

“Sweet Charity” with Shirley MacLaine. Never as enamored of acting as she was of music, Linda signed on with Paramount Records in 1973 and her first single, “(It’s Gonna Be) A Long Long Winter,” hit big on the U.S. Billboard R&B chart. In the mid-1970s she moved to Curtis Mayfield’s Curtom Records label, where she recorded her first album and her cover of “If My Friends Could See Me Now,” which, in 1978, became the first song to top Billboard’s dance chart. Since then, Linda’s landmark recordings, including her 1979 release of the disco version of “Bridge over Troubled Water,” have spent a total of 60 weeks as number-one songs on Billboard’s dance charts. An acclaimed songwriter who has written for Cher and Gladys Knight, Linda continues to write, perform and record and supports charities such as the Angel Food Network, which delivers food to adults and children with AIDS/HIV. When she is not touring, she spends time at her Chicago home and serves as an instructor with Roosevelt University’s Music Conservatory and as a personal coach teaching public performance, stage poise, lyric sensitivity and vocal presentation.

LA50: For those of us who were a part of the disco era, we never thought it would happen but, darn it, we’re not as young as we once were. Any thoughts on getting older? MW: Well, I think it should be done as gracefully as possible. I accept getting older and am positive about it, because I’ve always been the type who knew it was coming. I have a girlfriend, and she and I laugh about the changes we see in ourselves as we age. We have a saying about getting older: “It’s in the contract.” For those who didn’t think it would happen to them, well, they just didn’t read the fine print. All these changes we experience – physically and mentally and in every way – they were all a part of the deal from the start – from the day we were born. None of us knows how we will respond to getting older, because we’ve never done it before. So all you can do is hope for the best, take everything in stride, make the best of it and keep moving as much as you can. Hey, I’m glad I’m still here and that I’m still making music that people enjoy.

LA50: Back in the disco days, few songs had people dripping in sweat like “If My Friends Could See Me Now.” Linda Clifford (LC): [laughing] That’s the truth. All my songs made people sweat. Jane Fonda even used my version of “Bridge Over Troubled Water” on one of her exercise tapes.

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LA50: It was a wonderful time, huh? LC: Oh it was a great time, with happy music. Everybody got dressed up and going to a club was a big deal. You got a chance to get out there on the dance floor and have a great time. It was people of all ages and races who had one thing in common – the love of that music and to dance, or as we used to say in those days: “to boogie down.” LA50: Speaking of the music, what are your thoughts on the current music scene? LC: There are a lot of talented young people out there today. I think Adele is very talented. I love the fact that with her, there’s no circus going on. She’s not hanging from the ceiling half-naked with

40 dancers surrounding her. Her voice and songs stand on their own. I also think Lady Gaga is an amazing talent. I think her new album with Tony Bennett [“Cheek to Cheek”] with classics from the Great American Song Book, which is coming out this month, will expose her fans – young people – to the great songs of the past. It will also prove to older people what a true talent she is. Today, people are not exposed to the diversity in music we had back in the 1970s and ‘80s. Back then, Top 40 radio stations were so diverse in what they would play, which exposed people to so many different types of music. That’s not true today. Now, country stations play only country, rap and hip hop stations only play rap and hip hop, jazz stations, only jazz. But the one thing I think is wonderful about the young people today is that they are embracing our old disco songs. My audiences range in age from 20 to 70, which I think is very cool. LA50: So tell us about this partnering up with Martha and Evelyn. LC: The idea for us to do shows together really came from the book, which really is wonderful. Martha, Evelyn and I have known each other since we first started out in the business. We have a great producer who had put a show together with us and some of the other ladies. We did a fundraiser for AIDS research in Palm Springs that raised over $1 million dollars, and it was so much fun we decided to keep doing it. So we’re writing songs and hoping to get into the studio. We really enjoy ourselves to no end when we’re together. LA50: Any thoughts you may like to share on dealing with the passage of time? LC: I really have tried to be the best I can be each day. Just like everybody else, I’m getting older every day, and I’m grateful for that. I can’t say I’m grateful when I notice a new line on my face when I’m putting on my makeup, but so what? I just put on a little more concealer, get dressed and get out there and do my thing. I really stay busy. I swim and do water aerobics three days a week. I also do yoga. I am working, and traveling, and performing. I’m on the road a lot. I just try to enjoy every moment with my husband, my family, my friends and my audiences.

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ust four years after her birth on June 14, 1948 in New York, Linda began her musical career and was singing on local New York television programs by the time she was seven. As a child, she appeared with Harry Belafonte and Sidney Poitier in a television special for the NAACP and, after high school, performed with the Jericho Jazz Singers and later, her own trio, Linda and The Trade Winds. A former Miss New York State who competed in the Miss America Pageant, Linda turned to acting in her 20s and played minor roles in major films, such as “The Boston Strangler” with Tony Curtis and Henry Fonda, “Coogan’s Bluff” with Clint Eastwood and

“First Ladies of Disco” by James Arena reveals the fascinating personal stories of some of disco’s biggest stars. The book focuses on the female vocalists who pioneered the genre in the 1970s and ‘80s. It chronicles the lives of an extraordinarily talented group who dazzled the world with an exciting blend of elegance, soulful passion and gutsy fire. The book includes interviews with 32 of these women who tell their stories and share their views on their music, careers, connection to gay audiences, and their places in music history. Among those who were interviewed for the book are Pattie Brooks, Linda Clifford, Carol Douglas, Yvonne Elliman, Rochelle Fleming, Gloria Gaynor, Debbie Jacobs-Rock, Madleen Kane, Evelyn “Champagne” King, Suzi Lane, Maxine Nightingale, Wardell Piper, Gwendolyn Wesley, Cassandra Wooten, Cheryl Mason-Dorman, Theodosia “Dodie” Draher, Anita Ward, Martha Wash, Carol Williams, Jessica Williams, Norma Jean Wright and many more. You can order the book and find out about upcoming shows by the ladies by clicking on www.firstladiesofdiscoshow.com

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InterIor HoMe DesIgn trenDs 50-plusers are asking designers to bring on the bling with fancy finishes and exotic materials By Andrew Graham

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f the walls of your home could talk, what would they be saying about your current interior design choices? “Boring!” or “Oh My!” As a professional interior designer, my favorite part of the process is the initial walk-thru. How marvelous it is to share suggestions with clients regarding improved layouts as well as the introduction of new patterns and shapes, fancy finishes and exotic materials. Today’s design world is overflowing with alluring and glamorous style choices so, as I like to tell my clients: now is the time to get out on the dance floor and shake things up! One of the most popular of current interior design trends I am seeing with my 50-plus clients involves the use of luminous minerals and natural materials. Underfoot, we are enjoying the calming effect of wall-to-wall fields of natural, yet durable, sea grass as it melds both classic and contemporary designs while overhead, light fixtures are being beautifully adorned with beads of sea glass, wood and hemp accents.

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Chandeliers and wall sconces of brushed and antique metals fused with colorful stones are being offered to provide overhead and wall light, while table lamps adorned with gold dust, mercury glass, and crystals reminiscent of bygone eras provide table-top and bedside illumination. There’s also an abundance of sparkle in paint palettes as water-based latex with environmental qualities and specialty metallics are being offered in translucent, semi-opaque and sheer formulas to bring the bling to our walls and ceilings. Photo Courtesy Ro-Sham-Beaux

Today’s Kitchen Design

The kitchen as we know it is the center of today’s home design. It is an area in which we create sustenance for ourselves and those we cherish. This great and powerful room benefits greatly from properly specified and allocated finish materials. While traditional styles are here to stay, I believe it is safe to say that “anything modern” is popular and lends itself in either direction. Who knew 30 years back that traditional Shaker cabinets and white marble would be classified as modern materials today? The Caesarstone® brand, famous for their

solid-surface quartz countertops, also touts some of the most beautiful semi-precious materials money can buy. You simply must see their blue agate, amethyst, white quartz or tiger’s eye, to name a few. The Concetto® line for your counter tops or backsplashes are nothing short of amazing. If you are considering exotic minerals as a focal point, this easy-tomaintain product is in a class by itself and the one for you. For more information about Caesarstone ® quartz and the Concetto® line of semi-precious minerals, click on www.caesarstoneus.com. In my opinion, kitchen counters should always be topped with granite or a maintenancefree solid-surface quartz, due to the abundance and competitive pricing of these materials. Granite has new designs and colors that are always surfacing. But remember: in order to keep it fresh and new looking, granite requires occasional resealing due to its porosity. Other trendy, but more pricey, alternatives for counter tops are soapstone, stainless steel and concrete. Quartz is equally fantastic, but discontinued colors may leave you in the lurch if you need a replacement or additional slabs in the future. In the case of color and style selection, you should be wary if you’re placing your home on the market


tomorrow. Not everyone may agree with granite that looks like spumoni or the yellow brick road. But, by all means, select a color and style that brings you joy. Go ahead and highlight a center island or backsplash with an exotic color or onyx, agate, granite, or quartz, and then consider saving the perimeter tops for a complementary palette of a monochromatic source. I recently covered a client’s kitchen ceiling with a teal latex paint. Once it was dry, I added a similar colored metallic paint, creating unexpected sparkle and warmth. I have found this technique to successfully complement the trending use of stainless steel in kitchens and pantries. You will be pleasantly surprised how this clever trick brings unexpected hoopla and color to the most popular room in the house. If teal doesn’t suit your palette or metallic scares you, opt for a custom lacquer and experiment with a complementary color of taste. Remember, when it comes to designing your kitchen, explore all sorts of different materials and finishes knowing you are creating the heart of your home.

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While the use of some of the aforementioned materials can be outside of some homeowners’ budgets, don’t rule anything out until you have spoken with a knowledgeable designer. I am well aware that not everyone has an unlimited budget and can afford to update with a complete makeover every two to five years. But the good news is that we are seeing a trend in design today that achieves a different and updated look by simply using more affordable accent pieces. A well-placed accent piece can create the perfect focal point, be it a stunning amethyst or citrine table lamp or an exquisite onyx table or a fireplace screen embracing decorative geodes. Also trending on the market are gorgeous stone tables, semi-precious minerals including ammonite lamp bases and custom tables supported by beautifully crafted metal bases of brass, chrome, bronze and more. Each piece is truly a work of art.

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Traditional faux-finishes are wavering while stateof-the-art digitally mastered murals depicting concrete and wood are receiving attention. Equally exquisite are wall coverings that are hand-adorned with crystal beads, mica flecks, mother-of-pearl, capiz shells, and micro-thin wood veneers depicting beautiful inlaid marquetry. Paper and vinyl wall coverings are also, once again, offering consumers infinite styles, patterns and depth.

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A Return To Yesteryear

As our appetite for current trends continues, connoisseurs of fine design also seek to retain balance and harmony with materials of yesteryear. Luckily, for many, the use of environmentally conscious natural materials has, and will continue to, gain momentum through product development. The use of natural materials will always stir our emotions and heighten memories, be it rows of reclaimed wood, beads of Coke bottle sea glass, or slabs of onyx and granite reminiscent of bygone architecture.

A client of mine in Tarzana recently invited me to create an inspiring focal point in her traditional living room. Prior to the renovation, this great room was starkly white-on-white below a white ceiling, saved by beautiful dark wood underfoot and stunning iron doors. My client and I created a new masterpiece of warmth by the use of stunning color. Our new color scheme transformed traditional glossy-white cabinets into a truly spectacular focal point. We used peacock-inspired, blue recessed-cabinets with meticulously hand-painted chinoiserie in gold and bronze on the base doors, with book-matched, lifelike burled tortoise-shell interiors and crown moulding to tie the elements together. This created a stunning look as it was flanked by a bronze-colored mantel with legs highlighting the natural limestone fireplace. Other important materials of the room introduced natural bouclé carpeting, amethyst crystal pieces, malachite, a rock and clear crystal chandelier, and an antique resin table lamp of stacked lotus leaves. Fabric highlights included varied silks, cream-colored ostrich-embossed leather with amethyst-dyed linen fabrics for balance and a baby grand piano neatly dressed in black for visual juxtaposition.

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Trendy Eating: Rational Or Ridiculous?

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re we missing something if we don’t follow the latest eating trend? If you ask a hardcore follower of any given philosophy, you will no doubt hear wonderful stories about weight loss, increased vigor, clearheaded thinking – all attributed to whatever trend that person may be immersed in. Is it true? Let’s take a closer look at the top contenders in current food trends. Gluten-Free Gluten does create serious problems for those suffering from celiac disease (about one percent of the population), and can have terrible consequences if unrecognized or untreated. Another 10 percent of Americans have gluten sensitivity, and may have reactions to eating foods that contain gluten. Symptoms such as indigestion, constipation, headache and fatigue are unpleasant but not dangerous, and there is no test for gluten-sensitivity. Gluten is everywhere – wheat, rye, barley, malt syrup, some flavorings, beer, salad dressings, soups and cereal. Avoiding whole grains like whole wheat can mean consuming far less fiber than is healthful and beneficial, as it is fiber that helps us manage weight, erratic blood sugars and may reduce the risk of heart disease and cancer. Veganism While going vegan is popular, Homo sapiens are omnivores – and have been for thousands of years. That’s not to say that we need to eat copious amounts of meat, but those adhering to regimens like the Mediterranean diet which emphasizes fruits, vegetables, nuts, grains and smaller amounts of meat, have not been outperformed by followers of plant-only eaters. As of this time, there have not been completely relevant trials or studies published that validate the vegan approach as the healthiest overall. Some short-term studies do show that a combination of plant and animal foods have produced outcomes as positive as plant-only regimens. It is true that substituting plant foods for animal foods is healthful, even if only done occasionally. Raw Food Cook nothing and you’ll never destroy nutrients and enzymes in your food. That’s the premise of the raw trend. The problem with this is that it eliminates a whole range of foods that are only edible or digestible when cooked (like beans and lentils). And there are some foods that are actually more nutritious when cooked, like tomatoes, whose lycopene content is more easily absorbed from cooked tomatoes (with some fat) than raw. Perhaps the most disturbing part of the picture for raw foodies is that by not cooking, the best potential defense against serious food-born germs, such as salmonella and E. coli, is eliminated. Scientific research has not borne out the conclusions drawn by raw-food advocates, so while less processed is best, stick with foods that are safe and healthy when eaten raw. Juicing This liquid nutrition fad is being promoted as the way to cleanse your body of toxins, lose weight and feel better, and there are lots of reasons why this may be true. Let’s start with one of the most obvious – many people are consuming food from the blender that they would otherwise not eat, like kale and chia seeds. But juicing foods that you’d otherwise eat whole, does have its drawbacks. Take for instance the calorie load. A cup of orange juice has 112 calories. A whole orange has only 60. There’s also the effect of juiced foods on blood sugar. Since juices enter the blood stream faster than solid foods, the pancreas has to produce more insulin to deal with the volume. In the long run, this can increase your risk of diabetes, and add to the amount of belly fat you carry, which can contribute to inflammation and insulin resistance. ª

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50-Plus Housing Trends Inside and Out By Kathy Ziprik and Max Andrews

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hen you own a home, the importance of curb appeal should never be underestimated. The exterior of your home reflects your personality and can create positive impressions. If you’re selling your house, the importance of curb appeal jumps tenfold as you try to position your home for an “instant connection” with potential buyers. There are dozens of easy ways to upgrade different exterior aspects of your home. Many of these enhancements can be achieved with a variety of synthetic products. Lightweight yet durable, these low-maintenance pieces resist insect infestations, rot, decay and moisture. Try any of the following fast and easy installations to transform the look of your home:

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1) Trim out exterior windows. Use crossheads for over a window and top with a solid, decorative or recessed panel keystone accent piece. On the sides and below the window, use moulding pieces with plinth blocks in the corners to eliminate miter cuts. 2) Make your entryway more welcoming with an elegant door surround. Start with fluted pilasters on either side of the door and then top the door with a decorative pediment – try a ram’s head, sunburst, acorn or peaked-cap style. 3) Accent a bay window by adding window panels below the opening. 4) Add classic crown or fascia dentil moulding beneath gutters and eaves to heighten the appearance of your home. 70 LIFEAFTER50.COM September 2014

5) Replace a rotting wooden porch system with a new structural balustrade system that includes porch posts, top and bottom rails, balusters and all the other pieces essential to create a great, weatherresistant porch. 6) Interlock and install pieces of PVC beaded board on the ceiling of a porch or sunroom and then use the same low-maintenance materials for a wainscot treatment on the walls. 7) If you have a ceiling fan on a front porch, add a two-piece ceiling medallion around the fan’s base to add style to your entire porch.

8) Replace older, rotting wooden louvers with low-maintenance polyurethane louvers. Functional louvers have a noncorrosive fiberglass screen backing to keep insects out while allowing maximum airflow and ventilation to enter the attic. 9) Upgrade the look of your entryway by adding


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14) If your home has a Victorian style, use spires to accent exterior areas, fencing and gated areas of the home.

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10) Flank your windows with easy-care polyurethane shutters. Choose from a selection of white louvered solid panel and louvered slatted panels shutters or woodgrain plank panel shutters in two-plank, three-plank and diagonal V-styles. Paint or stain the pre-primed shutters to complement any home exterior. 11) Add sparkle to your yard with a decorative lamppost that can help light up the night. 12) Give your house style by adding brackets under roof eaves and on porches.

15) Don’t forget the garage. Install a set of pilasters on either side of the garage door and a long door crosshead over the top. 16) Accent your exterior with a new, colorful welcome mat, decorative flags, planter boxes and baskets of flowers. 17) Add dimension to porch ceilings with faux beams. Arrange lengthwise or in a criss-cross pattern to make the ceiling of your sunroom or porch stand out. 18) Add decorative columns to the exterior of your home or yard. Polyurethane columns come in fluted square, serpentine, flat square and plain panel square styles and are weather resistant. 19) Clean any exterior lighting fixtures so your house shines during both day and evening hours. 20) Use crosshatch or square decorative panels made out of lightweight polyurethane to serve as see-through “gates” to keep pets and children separated from prized flowers and bushes. 21) Since the pineapple is the universal sign of hospitality, add a decorative half-round or full round pineapple accent piece in the entryway to your home. 22) Add a trellis system to top off a garage door or side entry door. 23) Spend an hour with a door surround kit (available in Empire, Colonial, Craftsman and Stone styles) to create a fast enhancement to a single entry door. 24) Add brackets and corbels to side entry areas of the home to bring attention to this area of the house. Select from hundreds of Craftsman, Victorian, Arch, Tulip, Recessed and Carved Spiral styles. 25) Cover up unsightly wooden posts with a PVC Column Wrap. The semi-assembled, two-piece wrap

50-Plusers are embracing the concept of multigenerational homes-within-a-home

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he biggest housing trend in recent history has come in the way Americans are living – a new lifestyle that has prompted one builder to create a new type of home – a multigenerational home – specifically catering to both aging parents, their boomer children and, in some cases, even their boomerang grandchildren who need to move back in with family for economic reasons. Lennar, one of the nation’s largest home-building companies, has introduced a revolutionary new concept to the real estate market, an innovative floorplan being referred to as Lennar’s Next Gen – The home-within-a-home. This new trend of multigenerational living has encouraged Lennar to design a home that allows extended families to all live together in one home – with separate living spaces. After conducting much research and seeing a rising need for this type of living situation, Lennar decided to design a distinctive floorplan that can accommodate different living arrangements while still providing great use of space, square footage and privacy. The company has created this plan to allow for dual-living situations without sacrificing comfort

It’s literally a home within a home

The economy has dramatically contributed to the decision to build this type of product. Many aging parents have seen their retirement investments diminish during recent years and many collegeage children are finding it difficult to get a job. With housing typically being the largest part of the monthly budget, moving in together is an option many are embracing. The opportunity for families to share a mortgage and household expenses makes a lot of economic sense for many families. “One of the biggest benefits of Lennar’s homewithin-a-home is that multiple related adults can combine to pay the mortgage, making it very affordable,” said John Burns, a leading consultant to homebuilders. In fact, Lennar surveyed more than 1,200 people in the country’s western region

and found that one-third of respondents are already sharing their home with a parent, adult child or some other adult. The Pew Research Center also shows 49 million Americans are living in a household that contained at least two adult generations, up from 28 million in 1980. And the Census Bureau found in 2012 that 18.3 percent of U.S. households contained adult relatives or roommates, up from 17 percent four years earlier. Both the economics and the demographics of those already living in a multi-generational home made this an obvious solution. For many ethnic groups, sharing a home with extended family is not uncommon. In 2009, 23.4 percent of Latino households and 25.8 percent of Asian households were multi-generational, according to the Pew study. The Next Gen suite concept allows for both independence and accessibility to the main home, so everyone can have their own private space. Plus, the separate entryway allows every family member to come and go as they please without having to enter the main home. Lennar’s Next Gen suite includes a separate entrance, living space, kitchenette with GE appliances, bedroom, full-bath, stacked washer and dryer and intimate outdoor living space. Lennar designed these unique floorplans to be incorporated into the main home floorplan in a way that allows it to be a separate space, but also offers direct access from the main house, depending upon the family’s needs. In addition, these homes include a high level of custom-quality appointments such as upgraded appliances and Schlage® Home Automation, allowing people to lock and unlock doors, adjust thermostats and check on pets and children when they aren’t home – all with their smart phone. If this new concept of living has an appeal to you, click on www.lennar.com to learn about Lennar’s offerings in comminuities throughout Southern California. September 2014 LIFEAFTER50.COM 71


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Deliverance Creek – New Movie, Lifetime

– Premieres Saturday September 13 at 8 p.m.

This two-hour movie, from bestselling author Nicholas Sparks (who wrote “The Notebook”) marks his first foray into television. Set during the Civil War, the film is a revenge drama about a widow and mother who is determined to protect her family and land at any cost. When the corrupt bank that runs her town pushes her into becoming an outlaw, the stakes become personal, setting off a chain of events that force her to question whether it’s better to be good or survive. Lauren Ambrose stars as the young widow who faces uncertainty as she attempts to defend her family’s land by any means necessary.

The Roosevelts: An Intimate History – New Seven-Part Documentary, PBS – Premieres Sunday September 14 at 8 p.m. (repeats at 10 p.m. each night) A new documentary from filmmaker Ken Burns is always an event, and this seven-part, 14-hour film is no exception. Burns follows the Roosevelts for more than a century, from Theodore’s birth in 1858 to Eleanor’s death in 1962. Over the course of those years, Theodore would become the 26th president of the United States and his niece, Eleanor, would marry his fifth cousin, Franklin, who became the 32nd president. Together, these three individuals redefined the relationship Americans had with their government and the role of the United States within the wider world. The series encompasses the history the Roosevelts helped to shape: the creation of National Parks, the digging of the Panama Canal, the passage of innovative New Deal programs, the defeat of Hitler, and the struggles for civil rights at home and human rights abroad. It is also an intimate human story about love, betrayal, family loyalty, personal courage and the conquest of fear

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Tuned In To What’s On

Madam Secretary – New Series, CBS

– Premieres Sunday September 21 at 8:00 p.m.

Having had good luck with strong female characters on shows such as “The Good Wife,” CBS is bringing us another one in this new drama about a female secretary of state who must balance her personal and professional life. Tea Leoni stars as the shrewd and determined secretary who drives international diplomacy, battles office politics and circumvents protocol as she negotiates global and domestic issues, both at the White House and at home. The show has a pedigreed cast including Tim Daly, Bebe Neuwirth, Geoffrey Arend and Zeljko Ivanek.

The Boomer List – Premieres Tuesday September 23 at 9 p.m. (check local listings)

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Karen Lynn Gorney On “Stayin’ Alive” And Active “Saturday Night Fever” still resonates with those who grew up with the film, as well as with new audiences who discover the “goin’ nowhere” Tony Manero and Stephanie Mangano, the status-conscious girl he fell in love with By David Laurell • Photo by Getty Images

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n 1977, producer Robert Stigwood, director John Badham, a white-suited John Travolta, and a musical trio of brothers named Barry, Robin and Maurice Gibb joined forces to create “Saturday Night Fever,” a film that will forever define the disco era. A pop culture phenomenon, “Saturday Night Fever,” which grossed over $74 million dollars, chronicled the lives of a twentysomething paint store clerk named Tony Manero, played by Travolta, his ever-fighting Italian family, and his “goin’ nowhere” Brooklyn buddies, whose only reason for “stayin’ alive” was to strut their stuff at the disco on Saturday nights. Documenting the late 1970s youth culture, with dances and a soundtrack of pulsating music that stemmed from the discotheques of the black and gay communities, the film culminates with Tony falling in love with Stephanie Mangano, a girl who agrees to partner with him to win a dance contest. A no-nonsense, gum-chewing, socialite wannabe who is obsessed with distancing herself from what she perceives to be her plebeian Brooklyn roots, Stephanie forces Tony into facing the fact that there is more to life than working a dead-end job, living with a dysfunctional family, and blowing off steam with a bunch of losers on weekends. The young actress who danced her way into Tony’s heart in the role of Stephanie was actress Karen Lynn Gorney. The product of musical and theatrical parents, Karen was a classically trained actress who first rose to national prominence in the early ‘70s as Tara Martin on the ABC daytime drama, “All My Children.” Today, 37 years after the release of “Saturday Night Fever,” Gorney says she has accepted the fact that she will always be associated with the film, and is more than okay with that. “There was a time that I didn’t feel that way,” she reveals. “It had gotten to a point that the film was so big, I just wanted the furor of it to be over. I wanted to put it behind me and move forward with my career. I had loved playing Stephanie, but I got tired of being constantly associated with her and the film. Today, with the film being such a classic for those who saw it when they were kids and one that continues to be discovered by new generations, I’ve come to terms with the fact that I’ll always be associated with Stephanie and ‘Saturday Night Fever.’ ”

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Post-Fever Life

When the furor of the landmark film did finally settle down, Gorney’s postFever career saw her take a hiatus from acting. She became a painter, managed a Manhattan art gallery, returned to acting in the early 1990s, appeared in small roles in a handful of feature films, returned to “All My Children” on a recurring basis, guest starred in a number of episodic television programs and returned to her first love of music. Today, sharing her upstate New York home with her husband of 19 years, musician Mark Toback, Gorney is charming and amusing, with a hint of Stephanie’s New York accent and edginess. She is candid when she talks about topics ranging from her fight to overcome shyness as a child to her feelings about working with Susan Lucci, the film that made her a star, and the two men who have played vital roles in her career – John Travolta and her father, who inspired her to become an actress, dancer, singer and painter. “My dad was Jay Gorney, who wrote and composed a string of pop songs in the 1930s including ‘Brother, Can You Spare A Dime?’ and ‘You’re My Thrill,’” Gorney says proudly. “And my mother was a child prodigy pianist who went on to become an actress and a dancer. So, I was brought up in a very theatrical atmosphere. As a child, I was encouraged to do anything creative. I started writing songs because I wanted to be like my daddy, and I played a little guitar and painted and studied ballet. But I was so shy, I couldn’t even talk to people – which is a big problem if you want to be an entertainer. So my mother had me take acting classes to help me overcome my shyness.” The acting classes didn’t just help young Karen come out of her shell, they also exposed her to a new world of creative expression. She became hooked on acting, and her dramatic study in high school earned her a full scholarship to Pittsburgh’s Carnegie Mellon University, followed by an internship at Brandeis University in suburban Boston. In the early 1970s, Gorney began to audition for television and stage work, which led to her being cast on “All My Children.”


“AMC” Memories

“Getting the part of Tara was very exciting and I enjoyed that work very much,” she recalls. “I especially liked that the director encouraged us to do improvisation in rehearsals which, I believe, was a big part of ‘All My Children’s’ early success. It resulted in the show being very real.” Amongst her fondest memories of her work on the daytime drama was having the opportunity to work with Lucci, who played the ingénue-turned-superbitch, Erica Kane. “When we started doing ‘All My Children,’ Susan and I were just kids,” says Gorney. “We got to do fabulous scenes together because our characters detested one another. Erica was always stealing one of Tara’s boyfriends or husbands. But it was totally different off-screen. We got along great. Susan is hysterically funny and was always making me laugh.” Although Gorney loved doing “All My Children,” she decided not to renew her contract when it was up. “There were a lot of reasons why I didn’t renew, but one reason was that they wouldn’t let me do movies and I was dying to do a movie.”

And Do A Movie She Did…

“When I got the audition for ‘Saturday Night Fever,’ I really went for it,” she recalls. “I learned all the lines and kept getting call-back after call-back. They wanted to see me dance, to dance in heels, to read with John [Travolta], to dance with him.” Karen says that after being cast as Stephanie, she had a gut feeling the film would be successful, but not because of Travolta. She figured the success would come because The Bee Gees were doing the music. “I’ll be honest,” she says, as if revealing the world’s biggest secret. “When I came in to read for the role, I didn’t really know who John Travolta was. I knew he had done a television series. [“Welcome Back, Kotter”] but I had never watched it and when I first met him, I just thought he was some punk kid,” she adds with a laugh. “People always ask me if I fell in love with John Travolta when we were doing the movie,” she says waving her hand and scrunching up her nose. “The answer is ‘no’ because, for me, the real hottie was Barry Gibb. But then, when we began shooting, I got to know John and found him to be very sweet and kind. And I also began to feel even stronger that it would be a really big film, because it was very realistic and timely. Still, I never thought it would be as big as it was, and still is today. I mean all these years later, people still relate to it as if it was just released.” Gorney says she believes the film’s continuing success is due to many factors including the fact that Badham’s direction captured a lot of authentic behavior by letting his actors improvise and embellish on Norman Wexler’s screenplay. “That is what makes the film so realistic and edgy,” Gorney opines. “The improvisational work resulted in viewers feeling that they never knew what would happen next or how the characters would react. So when you watch it for the first time, you feel like anything could happen. That feeling was also very evident on the set, because we actually felt that way. I have always felt that a

great part of the film’s success was that it is very unpredictable.” Asked if she has any particular standout memories from doing the film, she bursts out in a laugh. “One of the most vivid memories I have was the problem my leotard caused,” she reveals. “We called one of the wardrobe people the ‘tush girl’ and had to have her on standby, right on the set, because my leotard was always creeping up around my tush, and although they were striving for realism, they didn’t want wrinkles on my ass. That became very frustrating for me. I’d be really getting into my dancing and it would be ‘Cut! Cut!’ They’d stop everything to have this girl come out and tug at my tush. Interestingly however, I think that that also has a lot to do with why the film was so successful and has been so enduring. It was very realistic, but it also looked pretty.”

Stayin’ Alive

Gorney says she still receives a lot of fan mail from around the world and, because she gets so many requests, makes signed “Saturday Night Fever” memorabilia available through her website. “I’m also still into painting,” she says. “I love to paint flowers and cats. I also do a lot of theater work and have done some episodic television where I played a few sleazy bastards. I still dance, which is a great workout.” In addition to her stage and screen work, Gorney continues to write, perform and record music. She has released three CDs – “Used to Love You Madly,” with original songs that chronicle the inner life of Stephanie Mangano; “Hot Moonlight,” which features 11 of her father’s hits from films and Broadway shows, and “The Dance of the Deadly’s,” which presents seven original songs that each serve as the “voice” for one of the Seven Deadly Sins. A collection of driving rhythmic pop songs, “The Dance of the Deadly’s” showcases Gorney’s lyrics and voice that are accompanied by the music of Andrew McCann, who has worked with Peter Frampton, Uriah Heep and The Kinks. Her three CDs are available through her website and www.Amazon.com. “I still write songs, and record, and perform in small jazz clubs in New York once in a while,” she says. “But for the most part, recently, I’ve been doing a lot of off-Broadway and film productions.” As for her feelings on the celebration of her upcoming January 28, 2015 birthday, which will see her turn 70, Gorney says she never gives aging much thought. “I’m too busy working and doing all sorts of things – living my life – to give any thought to my age,” she says. “The most important thing is to stay active and involved with life. I still take a ballet class and go swimming. You have to keep it moving, but you also have to pace yourself. It’s a balancing act – juggling between keeping yourself active and not overdoing it. You know, like the song says – you’ve got to keep stayin’ alive, stayin alive!” You can find out more about Karen Lynn Gorney and order autographed “Saturday Night Fever’ memorabilia and her CDs by clicking on www. karenlynngorney.com. ª


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Let’S Get OUt A Preview of Upcoming Events for Septemeber/October By Claire Yezbak Fadden

ENTERTAINMENT MONDAY, SEPTEMBER 15 OKLAHOMA! This Rogers and Hammerstein classic tells the story of cowboy Curly McLain and his romance with farm girl Laurey Williams. Features songs “Oh, What A Beautiful Morning,” “Surrey With the Fringe On Top” and “I Can’t Say No.” Welk Resorts Theatre, 8860 Lawrence Welk Dr., Escondido. Dates vary through Nov. 16. $45-$75. (888) 802-7469. welktheatre.com. KINGDOM CITY When displaced New York director Miriam finds herself in Kingdom City, Missouri, she reluctantly agrees to direct a high school production of “The Crucible.” The play unlocks the students’ unspoken desires, creating a firestorm in this small Christian town. La Jolla Playhouse, UCSD Campus, Sheila and Hughes Potiker Theatre, 2910 La Jolla Village Dr., La Jolla. $15-plus. Through Oct. 5. $25. (858) 550-1010. lajollaplayhouse.org. THURSDAY, SEPTEMBER 18 CATCH ME IF YOU CAN This musical tells the story of Frank W. Abagnale, Jr., a teenager who runs away from home in search of the glamorous life. With nothing more than his boyish charm, a big imagination and millions of dollars in forged checks, Frank successfully poses as a pilot, a doctor and a lawyer - living the high life and winning the girl of his dreams. But when Frank’s lies catch the attention of FBI agent Carl Hanratty, Carl chases Frank to the end...and finds something he never expected. Moonlight Amphitheatre, 1200 Vale Terrace, Vista. Dates vary through Sept. 27. $20-$52. (760) 724-2110. moonlightstage.com.

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for greatness by God, Samson’s struggle with human weakness is traced in this epic musical biography based on the scriptural account. LifeHouse Theater, 1135 N. Church St., Redlands. Weekends through Oct. 12. $14$18. (909) 335-3037 ext. 21. lifehousetheater. com. MONTEREY JAZZ FESTIVAL The three-day event celebrates the legacy of jazz and expands the boundaries of and opportunities to experience jazz through the creative production of performances and educational programs. The Festival features 500 artists, in nearly 100 performances and events on eight stages for 30 hours of live music. The festival showcases an array of international cuisine, shopping, art exhibits, educational events, seminars and conversations with iconic and emerging jazz artists. Monterey Jazz Festival, Monterey County Fairgrounds and Event Center, 2004 Fairground Rd, Monterey. Through Sept. 21. Single-day tickets: $71-$41. montereyjazzfestival.org. SATURDAY, SEPTEMBER 20 BOOGIE ON THE BAYOU The Marcia Ball Band and Terrance Simien and The Zydeco Experience. Poway Center for the Performing Arts Foundation, 15498 Espola Rd., Poway. $37-$54. (858) 748-0505. powayarts.org. HERMAN’S HERMITS Starring Peter Noon, featuring the Grass Roots. Humphrey’s Concerts by the Bay, 2241 Shelter Island Dr., San Diego. $50. (800) 745-3000. humphreysconcerts.com.

JAZZ AT THE MERC Sherry Williams, Josh Nelson and Jim DeJulio. Old Town Temecula Community Theater, The Merc, 42051 Main St., Temecula. $15. (866) 653-8696. temeculatheater.org.

SHIRLEY MACLAINE Academy Award-winning actress, dancer and author shares with the audience a montage of memorable film moments and private revelations about her extraordinary life, career and spiritual journey. Center for the Arts, Renée and Henry Segerstrom Concert Hall, 600 Town Center Dr., Costa Mesa. $39-$100. (714) 556-2787. scfta.org.

FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 19

SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 21

SYLVIA Greg and Kate have moved to Manhattan after 22 years of child-raising in the suburbs. One day Greg brings home a dog he found in the park – or that has found him – bearing only the name Sylvia on her name tag. She offers Greg an escape from the frustrations of his job and the unknowns of middle age. To Kate, Sylvia becomes a rival for affection, but Sylvia thinks Kate just doesn’t understand the relationship between man and dog. Riverside Community Players, 4026 14th St., Riverside. Weekends through Sept. 28. $15-$18. (951) 686-4030. riversidecommunityplayers.org.

LIVE JAZZ ON THE PATIO Bernardo Winery, Tasting Room Patio, 13330 Paseo Del Verano Norte, San Diego. Free. bernardowinery.com.

SAMSON Experience the truths of a Nazarite man who pays the ultimate price to right that which he made wrong. Despite having been chosen

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BLUE GRASS AND BBQ 2014 Barefoot Movement. Laguna Beach Live, The Ranch at Laguna Beach, 31106 S. Coast Hwy, Laguna Beach. $15-$20. (949) 715-9713. lagunabeachlive.org. TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 23 KINKY BOOTS This inspirational story follows a struggling shoe factory owner who works to turn his business around with help from Lola, a fabulous entertainer in need of some sturdy stilettos. Together, this unlikely pair finds that

WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 17

BRIGHT STAR

Based on an original story by Steve Martin, this musical tells a beguiling tale that unfolds in the Blue Ridge Mountains of North Carolina between 1923 and 1945. Billy Cane, a young soldier just home from World War II, meets Alice Murphy, the brilliant editor of a southern literary journal. Together they discover a powerful secret that alters their lives. Old Globe Theatre, Donald and Darlene Shiley Stage, Conrad Prebys Theatre Center, 1363 Old Globe Way, Balboa Park, San Diego. Through Nov. 2. $29-plus. (619) 234-5623. theoldglobe.org.

they have more in common than they ever dreamed possible… proving that when you change your mind about someone, you can change your whole world. San Diego Civic Theatre, Third and B St., 1100 Third Ave., downtown San Diego. Through Sept. 28. Prices vary. (619) 570-1100. broadwaysd. com. THURSDAY, SEPTEMBER 25 JAZZ AT THE MERC Peter Sprague Trio. Old Town Temecula Community Theater, The Merc, 42051 Main St., Temecula. $15. (866) 653-8696. temeculatheater.org.

SATURDAY, SEPTEMBER 27 CHAMPAGNE JAZZ: SUMMER HORNS Featuring Dave Koz, Mindi Abair, Gerald Albright and Richard Elliot. Thornton Winery, 32575 Rancho California Rd., Temecula. Also Sept. 28. $85. (951) 699-0099. thorntonwine. com/champagne-jazz-series. SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 28 CLASSICS AT THE MERC Chamber performances by the region’s best professional musicians. Old Town Temecula Community Theater, The Merc, 42051 Main St., Temecula. Sundays. $12. (866) 653-8696. temeculatheater.org.

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September/October 2014 San Diego/Orange County/Inland Empire

OCTOBER THURSDAY, OCTOBER 2 JAZZ AT THE MERC Al Williams Quartet. Old Town Temecula Community Theater, The Merc, 42051 Main St., Temecula. $15. (866) 653-8696. temeculatheater.org. FRIDAY, OCTOBER 3 BLUE MAN GROUP Best known for their wildly popular theatrical shows and concerts, the Blue Man Group combines comedy, music and technology to produce a totally unique form of entertainment. San Diego Civic Theatre, Third and B St., 1100 Third Ave., downtown San Diego. Through Oct. 5. Prices vary. (619) 5701100. broadwaysd.com. SATURDAY, OCTOBER 4 THE ROYALE When a crooked boxing promoter hatches a plan for “the fight of the century,” a fighter just might land a place in the ring with the reigning heavyweight champion. Loosely based on real events, Marco Ramirez’s new play brings to life the sights and sounds of the early 20th century boxing circuit, and the ultimate fight for a place in history. The Old Globe, Sheryl and Harvey White Theatre, Conrad Prebys Theatre Center, 1363 Old Globe Way, Balboa Park, San Diego. $29-plus. Through Nov. 2. (619) 234-5623. theoldglobe.org. SUNDAY, OCTOBER 5 TONY BENNETT Tony Bennett’s initial successes came via a string of singles in the early 1950s, including “Because of You,” “Rags to Riches” and a remake of Hank Williams’ “Cold, Cold Heart.” He had 24 songs in the Top 40, including “I Wanna Be Around,” “The Good Life,” “Who Can I Turn to (When Nobody Needs Me)?” and his signature song, “I Left My Heart in San Francisco.” Segerstrom Center for the Arts, Renée and Henry Segerstrom Concert Hall, 600 Town Center Dr., Costa Mesa. $59-$159. (714) 556-2787. scfta.org. CHAMPAGNE JAZZ Featuring Earl Klugh, Hiroshima. Thornton Winery, 32575 Rancho California Rd., Temecula. $85. (951) 699-0099. thorntonwine. com/champagne-jazz-series. THE BEACH BOYS Humphrey’s Concerts by the Bay, 2241 Shelter Island Dr., San Diego. $50. (800) 745-3000. humphreysconcerts.com. LIVE JAZZ ON THE PATIO Bernardo Winery, Tasting Room Patio, 13330 Paseo Del Verano Norte, San Diego. Free. bernardowinery.com. WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 8 THE YEAR OF MAGICAL THINKING Based on Joan Didion’s memoir, this remarkable story of loss, journey and the

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YANNI

A phenomenal composer and live performer, Yanni has brought hundreds of millions of fans and fellow world citizens together via his concerts, with more than two billion more experiencing the magic of his music through television broadcasts worldwide. His iconic performances at the Acropolis in Greece, the Taj Mahal in India, the Forbidden City in China, the Royal Albert Hall in England and El Morro in Puerto Rico have crossed countless borders and have resonated with billions across the globe. Segerstrom Center for the Arts, Segerstrom Hall, 600 Town Center Dr., Costa Mesa. $59-$159. (714) 556-2787. scfta.org.

ultimate triumph of the human spirit is a tribute to an extraordinary marriage and a love letter to Didion’s daughter. Starring stage and screen actor Linda Purl and directed by Jenny Sullivan. Laguna Playhouse, Moulton Theatre Main Stage, 606 Laguna Canyon Rd., Laguna Beach. Through Nov. 2. 19. $36-$66. 949-497-2787. lagunaplayhouse.com.

LA SANTA CECILIA La Santa Cecilia won the 2014 Grammy Award for Best Latin Rock Album and are known for their rousing performances that passionately combine Latin culture with rock and world music. California Center for the Arts, Escondido, 340 N. Escondido Blvd., Escondido. Prices vary. (800) 988-4253. artcenter.org.

FRIDAY, OCTOBER 10

DINNER WITH MARLENE San Diego playwright Anne-Charlotte Harvey imagines a magical dinner in Paris with Marlene Dietrich and an intriguing party of artists, writers and socialites just before the outbreak of WWII. Lamb’s Players Theatre, 1142 Orange Ave., Coronado. $22-plus. Tues.-Sun through Nov. 16. (619) 437-6000. lambsplayers.org.

ANAHEIM HARVEST FESTIVAL The festive fall-themed atmosphere makes exploring the array of exhibits an exciting discovery of beautiful jewelry, blown glass, ceramics, hand woven clothing, photography, candles, wood carvings, garden designs, homemade sauces and soups, antique treasures, children’s accessories, sculptures and holiday ornaments. Anaheim Convention Center, 800 West Katella Ave., Anaheim. Also Oct. 11-12. $7-$9. (800) 346-1212. harvestfestival.com. MODERNISM WEEK FALL PREVIEW Events include the Modernism Show and Sale, architectural walking and bike tours, festive cocktail parties and premier double decker architectural bus tours. Various locations in Palm Springs and neighboring cities. Prices vary. Also Oct. 11-12. (760) 799-9477. modernismweek.com.

SATURDAY, OCTOBER 11 BERKLEY HART SELIS TWANG Emerged from the studio with a fresh take on the classic SoCal country-rock sound of the ‘70s, the foursome’s tightly woven voices harmonize over acoustic guitars to create a sound that brings a “peaceful easy feeling” on the wings of a “hickory wind.” Poway Center for the Performing Arts Foundation, 15498 Espola Rd., Poway. $29-$44. (858) 748-0505. powayarts.org.

COME, BEEN AND GONE An evening full of wit and style from the Michael Clark Company features the music of David Bowie and Iggy Pop. (Contains brief nudity.) Irvine Barclay Theatre, 4242 Campus Dr., Irvine. Also Oct. 12. $48-$100. (949) 8544646. thebarclay.org. TOWER OF POWER Humphrey’s Concerts by the Bay, 2241 Shelter Island Dr., San Diego. $50. (800) 745-3000. humphreysconcerts.com. CHAMPAGNE JAZZ Featuring Brian Culbertson with DW3. Thornton Winery, 32575 Rancho California Rd., Temecula. $85. (951) 699-0099. thorntonwine.com/ champagne-jazz-series. SUNDAY, OCTOBER 12 CLASSICS AT THE MERC Chamber performances by the region’s best professional musicians. Old Town Temecula Community Theater, The Merc, 42051 Main St., Temecula. Sundays. $12. (866) 653-8696. temeculatheater.org.


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CALeNDAR 1649 El Prado, San Diego. Through Sept. 28. $7-$8. (619) 238-7559. mopa.org. JOHN ALTOON: DRAWINGS AND PRINTS This intimate exhibition looks at John Altoon’s (1925-69) hesitation between being a commercial illustrator and a fine artist. On the commercial side, he made illustrations for magazine articles. He also designed album covers and in 1956 was included in Pacific Jazz’s “West Coast Artist Series” along with Robert Irwin, Sueo Serisawa, and Keith Finch. By the early 1960s, Altoon’s work as a fine artist was his priority. Even as his style became more abstract, elements of the figure and the importance of line were evident throughout. Laguna Art Museum, Upstairs Gallery, 307 Cliff Dr., Laguna Beach. Through Sept. 21. Closed Wednesdays. $5-$7. (949) 494-8971. lagunaartmuseum.org. THEN AND NOW 100 Years of Plein Air Painting. The exhibition features a selection of celebrated historic landscape paintings alongside contemporary plein air works. Works range from “A Clear Day” by William Wendt to the most recent work featured in the exhibition, “Sunset” by Alexander Orlov. The Irvine Museum, 18881 Von Karman Ave., Ground Floor, Irvine. Tues-Sat. through Oct. 2. (949) 476-2565. irvinemuseum.org.

THURSDAY, OCTOBER 2

COLORES DE LA MUERTE: A DAY OF THE DEAD FESTIVAL

This exhibition explores the rich history of Mexico, featuring 15 large sculptures from the 55-piece, Tren de la Historia on loan from El Museo de Arte Popular in Mexico City. The sculptures chronicles the turning points of the Mexican Revolution from uprisings and rebellions as early as 1810 to the war for independence reaching its resolution in 1920. Designers from the University of Tijuana CUT will construct a monumental altar that honors Mexican author Octavio Paz, 100 years after his birth. California Center for the Arts, Escondido, 340 N. Escondido Blvd., Escondido. Through Nov. 9. (800) 988-4253. artcenter.org.

EXHIBITIONS SATURDAY, SEPTEMBER 27 A GRAND ADVENTURE: AMERICAN ART OF THE WEST The exhibit brings together 40 significant classic and traditional artworks from private collections. The artworks span nearly 100 years dating from the latter half of the nineteenth century through the early decades of the 20th century. Landscape and genre paintings of the American west by Bierstadt, Moran, Russell, Remington and Henry F. Farney are featured with artworks from the Taos Society of Artists, Santa Fe Art Colony, and California Impressionists including E.I. Couse, Walter Ufer, Edgar Payne, Carl Oscar Borg, Guy Rose, Granville Redmond, and Maynard Dixon among others. Palm Springs Art Museum, Annenberg Wing, 101 Museum Dr., Palm Springs. Through Jan. 4. $4-$5. (760) 322-4800. psmuseum.org. SATURDAY, OCTOBER 11 THE DISCOVERY OF KING TUT The discovery of King Tutankhamun’s tomb in 1922 is considered the most famous discovery in the history of archaeology, and in modern times, the context of its discovery has been

lost. The exhibit allows visitors to experience a rush of excitement as they step into a moment only ever witnessed by Howard Carter, Lord Carnarvon and a handful of others. Through stunning and scientifically produced replicas, the exhibition invites visitors to enjoy the magnificent splendor of these priceless Egyptian treasures. San Diego Natural History Museum, 1788 El Prado, Balboa Park, San Diego. 15-$27. Through April 26. (619) 2323821. sdnhm.org. SUNDAY, OCTOBER 12 ELIZABETH TURK In a multi-media installation, Turk continues her exploration of the recurring themes of time, matter and space. The exhibition features marble sculptures from her “Cage and Collars” series, the fragility and fluidity of which are a stark contrast to the heavy materials from which they are made. It also includes X-ray mandala LED illuminated prints, an installation of scholar stones, and a cabinet of curiosities consisting of objects and drawings that have played a part in the artist’s imaginative and working processes. Laguna Art Museum, Main Level Gallery, 307 Cliff Dr., Laguna Beach. Through Jan. 25. Closed Wednesdays. $5-$7. (949) 494-8971. lagunaartmuseum.org.

MARKS ON THE LAND Aerial Photography by Tom Lamb. Through his acclaimed aerial photographs with an environmental focus, Lamb captures stunning images that showcase an unexpected view of the land. Lamb achieves abstraction by pulling back and showing bigger swatches of land, in color, from the top down. The lines, patterns and gestures in these landscapes – some built and some natural – call to mind the abstract expressionist style and canvases of painters as varied as: Paul Klee, Franz Kline, Jackson Pollock, Barnett Newman and Cy Twombly. FOASouth, 1006 S. Coast Hwy., Laguna Beach. Through Oct. 10. (949) 494-1145. lagunafestivalofarts.org. AFTER ANSEL ADAMS This presentation of a selection of original photographs by Ansel Adams that show the immense beauty of National Parks of the American West, alongside the work of nine contemporary photographers who have photographed in this same landscape. Ranging from traditional landscape photography to conceptual work that captures the magnitude, essence and history of each specific place, every artist brings a unique sensibility to these familiar landscapes. Museum of Photographic Arts, Balboa Park,

SPITTING IN THE WIND Art From the End of the Line by Richard Allen Morris, John Baldessari, Bob Matheny and Russell Baldwin. The exhibition is focused on, but not limited to, the late 1950s and the 1960s, when these young artists frequently saw each other’s work and participated in the same exhibitions. Although the four friends produced some of the most vigorous, humorous and unconventional art in the region, their efforts were often stymied by San Diego’s rather limited capacity to appreciate them. Oceanside Museum of Art, Bob and Estelle Gleason Gallery, 704 Pier View Way, Oceanside. Through November 2. $5-$8. (760) 435-3720. oma-online.org. THE AVANT-GARDE COLLECTION In the 1960s it was cutting-edge to employ imagery from popular culture, and by the 1970s performance and installation were the bywords of innovation. In the 1980s new media and appropriation appeared on everybody’s radar for the first time, while the 1990s in retrospect were all about identity politics and post-colonialism. Due to the pluralist tendencies of the 21st century that make the notion of avant-garde seem quaint, the challenge for artists to produce work that conceals the influence of generations past is more demanding than ever. Orange County Museum of Art, 850 San Clemente Dr., Newport Beach. Through Jan. 4. $10-$12. (949) 759-1122. ocma.net. Get the Word Out. E-mail your announcements to Claire Fadden, cfadden@lifeafter50.com. Include a brief description, location, date, time, cost, phone and website. Submission does not guarantee publication. Deadline for the October/November Calendar is September 1.

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taking VacatiOn in Search Of LibatiOn Along with sights and attractions, globetrotting offers the opportunity to sample indigenous wines and spirits right where they’re made By Ed Boitano

Kirsch: Dettling Kirschwelt Lake Lucerne, Switzerland

For many, kirsch is simply a sharp-tasting liqueur that is a staple in fondue recipes, but for the Swiss, it is their national drink. For me, it was an excuse to tour the Dettling Kirschwelt distillery, although just the hour-long boat ride from the city of Lucerne to the idyllic village of Brunnen on Lake Lucerne would have been worth it alone. The founders of Dettling Kirschwelt did not chose the location for its setting on the lake, but rather for its proximity to native black mountain cherries. Kirsch, once called kirschwasser (cherry water), is a clear brandy made from a double distillation of the juice of small black cherries. The five-generation Dettling Kirschwelt was established in 1867, – Frank Sinatra and has the distinction of being the only large distillery in the world to exclusively specialize in the use of cherries. The 45-minute tour of the visitor’s center is an insightful journey into all things kirsch.

“Alcohol may be man’s worst enemy, but the Bible says to love your enemy.”

Single Malt Whisky: Glenora Inn And Distillery Nova Scotia, Canada

Located on Nova Scotia’s spectacular Céilidh Trail, the Glenora Distillery is the first single-malt whiskey distillery in North America. The distillery rests on a rural 300-acre site with buildings housing malt, kiln, milling production, warehouses, bottling and lodging facilities, constructed in a traditional style, similar to distilleries found in Scotland. Tours are offered, as well as a sampling of their 12-year-old heather and honey tasting “uisge beatha” (Gaelic for “water of life”). After my tour, I was told to expect something special, for there was to be a céilidh in the distillery’s pub. A céilidh is a traditional Gaelic musical social gathering that originated in Scotland. Céilidhs flourished in Nova Scotia, where Scottish immigrants would meet with friends for an evening of song, dance and drink.

“Always carry a flagon of whiskey in case of snakebite, and furthermore always carry a small snake.” – W.C. Fields

Merlot Wine: Windy Point Vineyards Yakima Valley, Washington

Stout Beer: St. James’ Gate Brewery Dublin, Ireland

When Arthur Guinness borrowed money from his wealthy aunt in 1759 to establish his brewery, it was with the strict condition that he produce a healthy beverage, unlike the gin mills of 18th century Dublin. Arthur took it a step further, suggesting his brew was so healthy that pregnant women should drink a pint of it daily. Although that theory has greatly dwindled, a perfectly poured pint of the black stuff has always worked wonders for making me feel better. Guinness brews more than 20 varieties of beer, but is best known for its stout: an extra dark, almost black, top-fermenting beer, made with highly roasted malts. On the days of its roasting, the air of Dublin takes on a fragrance that is paradise to the Guinness connoisseur. The best way to learn about Guinness is to visit the Guinness Storehouse, located at the original 64-acre St. Gate Brewery in the heart of – Benjamin Franklin James’ Dublin. The visitor’s center offers a look into the brew’s rich history and a walk through each stage of the brewing. And, yes, the tour ends with a complimentary pint.

“Beer is proof that God loves us and wants us to be happy.”

Washington State’s Yakima Valley has been touted as the best merlotproducing region in the U.S. The valley enjoys 300 days of sunshine each year and the same latitude as the great wine-producing regions of France. Windy Point Vineyards offers a great location to experience Yakima Valley’s Wine Country for a number of reasons: their wines, spectacular hillside views of the valley, and setting in the middle of its own vineyard. A labor of love for owners Mike and Liz Stepniewski, the boutique – William winery produces Shakespeare approximately 3,000 cases annually, with an emphasis on merlot, resling and cabernet sauvignon. Wine and food pairings, made in their kitchen – a centerpiece of the tasting room – are also offered, featuring local Yakima Valley foods.

“Good wine is a good familiar creature if it be well used.”

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And Finally... The Bookworm’s Best A Life After 50 book review

by Terri “The Bookworm” Schlichenmeyer

No Saints Around Here: A Caregiver’s Days By Susan Allen Toth

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t was supposed to be paradisiacal. You’d planned it that way, in fact: the two of you, retired, with time aplenty to travel, explore, garden and enjoy life. It was supposed to be good, and it was – until one of you got sick and the other’s now a caregiver, a journey you never wanted or expected, but there you are. In her new book “No Saints Around Here,” Susan Allen Toth, shows readers in this situation, that they are not alone. There were 15 years between Susan Allen Toth and her husband, James. That’s not a lot of difference in age, really. It’s certainly not enough to make anyone fret about a future full of health issues, but that’s what arrived: While in his mid-70s, James was diagnosed with Parkinson’s disease. His “Parkie,” as they called it, was initially mild. James was a little clumsy and had slight tremors, and they dealt with it. But then, his symptoms worsened: loss of memory, slowness, dementia, and Toth became a spousal caregiver, a member of what she calls “an ever-expanding club without borders.” In her quest for books on the subject, Toth discovered that few authors write “from the front lines.” Nothing, for instance, indicated that she’d have to floss James’s teeth. She wasn’t prepared for the absurdities of life that come with an ill husband and round-the-clock strangers ministering care. She was surprised at friendships that fell away and how new webs of friends came in to help. She began journaling and, in her entries, the word “time” crops up repeatedly – mostly, because there was never enough of it. Not enough time for herself (although, with paid help, she was sometimes able to sneak away to their Wisconsin cabin), not enough for day-to-day chores, and not enough time with James. “It is a terrible loss,” she says of no longer being able to “slip into his bed.” She never expected to have to know about such things as incontinence care or nursing homes (she kept James at home until the end). Snappiness wasn’t her normal mien, but it happened. There was a “last Christmas” and a pleasant surprise that accompanied hospice care. And, says Toth, through it all, “I did the best I could.” Pick up “No Saints Around Here” and you’ll notice something: holding it in your hands is like grasping a half-pound of pure ache. The truth, beautifully and brutally presented, is what Toth offers her readers, with entries that span the 18-month period before James died. Toth writes about hands-on caretaking, but she also touches upon relief, guilt, self-care, anger, and the whole-life dwindling that comes with progressive illness. The bluntness and raw honesty of this book may shock some readers and, at times, it may make you gasp at its audacity. Then again, if you do, maybe this isn’t a book for you. Toth’s words will give comfort to newly-minted caregivers who aren’t sure of what’s next, aren’t sure what to do and who don’t know what “normal” is anymore. This is a book for those men and women, spouses and children – and if that’s you, “No Saints Around Here” may just be heaven-sent. “No Saints around Here: A Caregiver’s Days” by Susan Allen Toth, 2014, University of Minnesota Press, $16.95, 215 pages. The Bookworm is Terri Schlichenmeyer, who lives on a hill with two dogs and more than 12,000 books. You can read all of Terri’s book reviews, updated weekly, at www.lifeafter50.com. Just click on “Entertainment” and then “Book Reviews.”

A Look Back

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ifty years have passed since the evening of September 17, 1964 when ABC debuted a new sitcom – “Bewitched.” Created by Sol Saks and starring Elizabeth Montgomery, Dick York (later Dick Sargent) and Agnes Moorehead, the show chronicled the suburban lives of a beautiful nose-twitching witch named Samantha and her mortal husband, Darrin. The show enjoyed great popularity during its eight-season run and went to be ranked as one of TV Guide’s “50 Greatest TV Shows of All Time.” While Montgomery was bewitching to fans, her personal life included many challenges that are candidly documented in Herbie J. Pilato’s book, “Twitch Upon a Star: The Bewitched Life and Career of Elizabeth Montgomery” (Taylor Trade Publishing, 2012). Based on exclusive interviews with Montgomery, who died of cancer in 1995 at the age of 62, Pilato takes readers behind-the-scenes to explore her anti-war political activism and advocacy for AIDS sufferers, women’s rights, the gay community and the disabled. The book also explores the liberal Liz’s tumultuous relationships with her staunchly conservative father, actor Robert Montgomery, and four husbands. For more information and to order this insightful tome, click on www.herbiejpilato.com. 84 LIFEAFTER50.COM September 2014

Just A Thought Before We Go “September 11 is a reminder that life is fleeting, impermanent, and uncertain. Therefore, we must make use of every moment and nurture it with affection, tenderness, beauty, creativity, and laughter.” – Deepak Chopra, M.D.


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