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WHEN YOUNG ADULTS FROM EXCLUSION BECOME ENTREPRENEURS!



This book is an annex to the LIFE PROJECT 4 YOUTH Alliance 2012 Annual Report.

The LIFE PROJECT 4 YOUTH Alliance is the international group coordinating the LP4Y humanitarian associations in Asia, Europe and America.

www.lp4y.tv www.lp4y.org LP4Y is the founding member of Youth 4 Change www.youth4c.net

General email address: info@lp4y.org

Edited in the Philippines by LIFE PROJECT 4 YOUTH Foundation Inc. Unit 4, Don Bosco, R-10 Marcos Road, Barangay 110 Zone 009, Tondo, Manila 1010, Philippines Printed by LSA Printing Press Inc. 888 Edsa Highway Hills, Mandaluyong City, Metro Manila, Philippines Copyright LP4Y Foundation Inc. 2013 All rights reserved.


CONTENTs

P. 8-9

Preface

P. 11

The “PORTRAITS” Project

P. 14-15

Joel D. Calisaan

P. 16-17

Julie Anne P. Caballero

P. 18-19

Angelie W. Lanaja

P. 22-23

Domingo Ong

P. 24-25

Romie Catacutan

P. 26-27

Mattet Alburo

P. 28-29

Adonis N. Franco

P. 30-31

Mastura JR A. Mananggolo

P. 34-35

Juhn Rolito G. Molar

P. 36-37

Elsie L. Sevilla

P. 38-39

Dragen R. Aliviado

P. 40-41

Timothy Dizon

P. 42-43

Maris E. Infante

P. 44-45

Maria Paz Rendoza

P. 48-49

Venus O. Olave

P. 50-51

Mary Ann M. Gripon

P. 52-53

Richie B. Butigan

P. 54-55

Mark A. Sandico

P. 56-57

Jude Madrid

P. 58-59

Macmac – Mark Anthony Datvin

P. 62-62

Johnson N. Moralde

P. 64-65

Gin – Ginalyn C. Tabale

P. 66-67

Ana Marie R. Greenough

P. 68-69

Norman N. Bendula

P. 72-73

Al & RR – Al A. Mindug & Reandro A. Recto

P. 74-75

Paul Art Dizon

P. 78-79

LP4Y’s Pedagogical Project

P. 80-81

The “Portraits” Team 3


PREFACE

I

t can be tough finding your way, when you’re 16,

brave beyond limits ... but their hearts are full of failure,

19, or 22. You’ve left childhood behind, but are not

despair and violence. The load they carry grows heavier

yet an adult, and each day proves a challenge. Du-

with every passing month, until one day it is too much

ring this time of transformation it is sometimes hard to

to bear.

know which direction to take through the haze of uncer-

m

ore than 50 Young people have now been

conjunction with the Young people we decided to come

integrated following a 9-18 month period

up with 27 portraits to help us understand what it means

in a Life Project Center. And yet, because

to take control of one’s own life, and how to become one’s

of their social background, because they

own entrepreneur.

do not have the benefit of parental support, or a univer-

tainty. About half the Young people in the world can claim

From 2003 to 2008 Jean-Marc managed one of the shel-

sity diploma, the problem of integrating excluded Young

Their example gives hope to those who don’t believe it is

reassurance during this period of transition from institutions

ters for the homeless in Paris (1), and year after year the

people living in extreme poverty remains consistently com-

possible to escape exclusion, and shows the way to those

such as school, family, youth clubs, home ... But for the

same observation was made: however difficult it may be for

plex. Which is why the integration effort continues even

who decide to try their chances. It also proves to those who

other half there is no safety rail as they cross that bridge,

Young people to achieve professional and social insertion,

after leaving the Life Project Center, for roughly 6 months,

doubt, that it is necessary and worthwhile to invest in all

and each day is a balancing act as they make their way

the chances of achieving this insertion diminish with age…

up to the point of inclusion into the adult world. The first

Young, leaving not one behind.

towards the unknown.

steps, as well as the last, can be among the most difficult. Young people have quite exceptional powers of resilience

Every day our admiration for these young people increases.

This first series of “Portraits” consists of videos, which can

Currently 89% of young people live in developing countries.

(2), and it is important to make the most of this and seize

They are capable of great transformations in a short space

be viewed on http://www. lp4y.tv, as well as photos and

For many of them the day is spent just trying to look after

the chance while there is still time.

of time, and their hunger for success is extraordinary.

text which make up this book published in French and En-

their most basic needs. Where can I get what I need ...

glish, and a touring exhibition available in Europe.

now? There are currently 550 million young people living

These observations led to the creation of the international

They have understood that if things are going to change

in extreme poverty, below the poverty threshold of $2 US

Life Project 4 Youth in 2009. We started in the Philippines

they must use what they have been through, their unbea-

Let yourself be inspired by the moving stories of these

per day. These young people can be found in cities, near

with the creation of 5 pilot programs aimed at showing

rable pasts, as a springboard to their future. Their past ex-

Young people, the heralds of an inclusive world.

stations or markets, selling themselves for a pittance, in

that it is possible to achieve the social and professional

periences can never be forgotten, but if positively channe-

slums and abandoned buildings where they rest when mor-

insertion of Young victims of exclusion living in extreme

led with the help of a coach these experiences can become

ning comes. Sometimes they are thrown into prison as a

poverty. With an international team of volunteers we ap-

the founding force of their ambitions for tomorrow.

way of clearing the streets, or hidden away out of sight,

proached the enormous challenge of defining a pedagogy

because their handicap or illness brings shame and an

which could be put in place to bring about the social and

By taking lasting control of their own lives these Young people

unbearable financial burden on their families. Scared to

professional insertion of these Young people.

can break the vicious circle of extreme poverty and exclu-

test the outside world they put up with abuse in the home,

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sion. We have become aware of the extraordinary potential

which they soon leave behind for marital violence ... or to

1) Coeur de Haltes / Coeur de Femmes. Merged with the

of these Young people, not only because they can achieve

join gangs.

Aurore association in 2009.

success for themselves, but also because they can become a

2) Resilience: the ability to bounce back, to overcome situa-

generator of success for their immediate communities.

For the most part and despite these inhuman conditions,

tion, otherwise “the art of navigating the rapids”, as defined

the Young adapt to their situation with a phenomenal show

by the French psychiatrist Boris Cyrulnik.

This is the path that led us to the project: “Portraits: When

Jean Marc and Laure Delaporte

of strength. They appear energetic, joyful, friendly, and

3) Life Project 4 Youth’s Pedagogical platform: details on pp 78-79.

Young Adults from Exclusion become Entrepreneurs.” In

Manila 5


THE PROJECT

A

s we accompany dozens of Young people on

racteristics. A tough challenge, but stimulating, involving

their day to day progress through the Life Pro-

photos, text, video ... Each team member had a part to

ject Centers we see proof of how self-know-

play. The photos now form a book and an exhibition. The

ledge is essential for rebuilding a life. We

videos are available for viewing on www.lp4y.tv

therefore looked for ways to acquire such self-knowledge

Only 27 “portraits” have been selected for inclusion in this

without having to embark on in-depth psychology.

book, but they could all be here. There was no real reason for choosing one portrait over another; it just happe-

It soon became apparent that this was something that nee-

ned, and we hope that the success of this first selection will

ded to be done by the Young people themselves, helping

enable us to produce subsequent editions. When the text

each other come to an understanding of their different per-

was written by the Young people it appears in quotation

sonality types. One of the first games we play when a new

marks. Some individuals wished to talk about their past,

group joins one of the centers focuses on getting to know

others preferred to emphasize their plans and dreams for

a team mate and creating a “portrait” of them on a large

the future ... Almost all expressed the hope that their story

board, adding pictures, words or drawings taken from old

serve to inspire others. These Young people, taking control

newspapers and magazines. This is a great way of put-

of their lives, despite the enormous difficulties in their path,

ting their understanding of another person at the center of

go to show that ALL YOUNG PEOPLE ARE THE FUTURE

things when joining the group. The Young people demons-

OF OUR WORLD. Not one of them should be left behind,

trated such talent at this activity that we decided to take the

abandoned by the side of the road. The “Portraits” project

concept a little further ...

has demanded an enormous amount of work, calling on the various talents of all members of the LP4Y team over

And so the “Portraits” project was born.

the past few months. The names of all those involved can be found on pages 80 and 81.

Their challenge was to work as a group creating a “portrait” of each team member, focusing on their core cha-

We thank them wholeheartedly for their commitment! 7


PORTRAITS W H E N Y O U N G A D U LT S F R O M E x C L U S I O N BECOME ENTREPRENEURS

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JOËL

D.Calisaan

Human Resources

get a foot in the door when he was taken on for a one

assista nt a nd father

about his qualifications he sidestepped the question neatly,

to Jo h n G a i a

from LP4Y Foundation”. He owes his luck to his direct boss

month internship. At first when his colleagues asked him answering nonetheless truthfully “Entrepreneur’s diploma who noticed Joel’s great strength of character and intuitive skills. In him Joel has a loyal supporter. Month after

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Joel is an amazing dancer. He won second place in a talent

month Joel has shown his ability to cope with the succes-

show organized by the national pharmacy chain where he

sive challenges that have come his way. Not long ago Joel

works in HR. In fact he could have won first prize, had he

became a father, to John Gaia! Despite a busy schedule

not exceeded the allotted time, carried away as he was by

and regular travel Joel makes sure he stays in touch with

his passion for excellence. Just a few days later his tempo-

those who matter to him. It is almost impossible now to

rary contract was changed to a permanent contract; a rare

recall the hardships of his past ... but when you meet Joel

feat at a time when Young people are so often engaged

you soon realize that at 21 he has embarked on a second

in work of a precarious nature, sometimes spending years

life. Unlike the first time around, this time he makes his own

working without a contract. A year ago Joel managed to

choices every day. 11


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JuLie Anne P. C A B A L L E R O Lo vely, dyna mic, incredibly determined

She signs with great precision, often very fast - Julie Anne does not like to waste time. But if you miss a sign or two you can catch up quickly by just following the expressions on her face ... Julie Anne likes to be understood, and won’t leave you in confusion. If you are lucky enough to meet her you quickly sense her commitment. She is an independent learner, always on the lookout for new responsibilities, which she assumes with energy and poise. She is the natural leader in her family and has also assumed this role in the community of the hearing-impaired. She has taken up the struggle against those who believe that the hearing-impaired cannot do a normal job, and she now works as a secretary for a fast food chain. Julie Anne’s dignity serves as a warning to those tempted to make simplistic assumptions! 12

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AngeLie w.Lanaja

A comedian with a big heart

Imagine that you’re making a presentation to a room of 500 people, when all of a sudden one girl in the midst of the crowd draws your attention. It happened to me during a celebration organized by the hearing-impaired community in Iligan, a small town in the south of the Philippines. Or you might have your back turned, talking to your neighbor, but the minute Angelie gets up on stage and does a dance or a turn, and you will know, because of her ability to concentrate the audience’s attention. This too happened to me. Angelie is enthusiastic and always game. And if a situation arises between two people, Angelie will straighten things out with humor and charm. Angelie became deaf through accident, but doesn’t blame anyone. A few months ago she successfully took a test to work in a restaurant. She’s a little frustrated waiting for the job to start, but she’s learning to be patient! With the experience and money she will earn she plans to open an internet cafe. She has decided she would like 2 children but not just yet. When Angelie signs it’s like watching a magician ... with a big sense of humor. 14

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DOMingO ong

Seeking solutions to life’s problems, one day at a time

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From an early age Dom loved uniforms – all uniforms.

point he did wonder, and adjusted his dreams: plan B –

Dom likes order and cleanliness, strict rules. For him there

become a mechanic. Dom is a leader, and knows how to

is no doubt about the way forward; he dreamt about it

help those around him find their way without influencing

for so long when locked up. But even dreaming with his

them. You can’t mince words with him; he’ll ferret out the

eyes closed, Domingo knows exactly where he’s going.

truth before you’re done, so with Dom you get straight to

Every month we would ask him about his life project, but

the point. People follow Dom because he is fair and just.

he never deviated from his initial choice, although he had

He follows his own advice. He is reassuring. Domingo will

his doubts, having set his sights so high. The essence is to

make an honest policeman for his country and his commu-

find the means ... only in the end will we see what shape

nity. Thanks to sponsorship from Marie, an ex- volunteer,

it takes! Dom struggles with himself to turn his dreams into

Domingo is now a student at the Philippine College of Cri-

reality, but there’s no-one more stubborn. And yet, at one

minology. 19


ROMie Catacuta n

Break with the vicious circle of miser y, a nd chose your own path

In the Philippines death is never far away. It even enables some people to survive. Romie’s family – his parents and 11 children – live day to day with death. They are responsible for the security of one section of the cemetery, and run a small stand 2 days a week. One year Romie worked as a porter in the cemetery, earning 1,500 pesos a month (equivalent to €30, below the extreme poverty threshold). Some time ago Romie’s mother was killed in a motorbike accident when a jeepney (local public transport) knocked them over and failed to stop, while the one behind it ran them over. Romie thought it was all over, but he pulled himself together and decided to take on death. Romie laughs loud to forget his pain, he cooks often as he is always hungry, and he is working hard to become an electrician. Thanks to the savings he made at the Life Project Center he has been able to take a course and has found an internship with a company operating in his specialized field. Romie is learning his trade, and today he is a man. 20

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M At t e t ALBURO

The fisherman’s daughter “My father works as a fisherman many hours from here, on a small boat which cannot leave the shallow waters in search of larger fish. In my country there are lots of typhoons which make fishing impossible for days at a time. So then there is no income. For 2 years I worked as a maid, then one year as a shop assistant. At one point I was earning 2,500 pesos a month. (€45!) Then I joined my sister who was selling candles and flowers in the Carreta cemetery in Cebu City. That’s where I met Laure and Jean-Marc Delaporte. They asked me to join the first LP4Y team in Cebu. I think it was the luckiest moment of my life. So I worked hard, and tried to be patient and professional. I was part of the team that launched the first candle making activity and the Life Project Center. Thanks to that experience I was able to progress, and a few months ago I enrolled in a business studies course at university. I have good results, and I work in the cemetery when I have time. But still, I am worried, as I do not know how I am going to pay for next term’s tuition. But we will find a way. Can you believe it? A fisherman’s daughter going to university? Well that’s me: Mattet Alburo!” 22

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Adonis’ 3 achievements

Achievement No 1: Here to be hearing-impaired is a handicap, and if you are handicapped you are a pariah. And yet Adonis managed to stay in school long enough to gain his high school diploma. Achievement No 2: Adonis has graduated from being a “tourist” to being “Captain”, elected by the other 22 hea-

ADOniS N.FRANCO

ring-impaired Young people at the Life Project Center. He inspires others to follow his example. Achievement No 3: A few months ago Adonis was taken on as a waiter in one of the restaurants in town. No-one thought it was possible – not even him! Despite the hard work, the hours, the low pay and the teasing from his coworkers Adonis stuck with it and is still there. With these 3 achievements under his belt Adonis knows more lie ahead.

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MAStuRA JR A.MANANGGOLO An exceptional optimist, despite the scars of the past

Mastura’s story begins with a long slide into exclusion. At

a wealthy German, who liked young boys ... It would last

the age of 2 he became deaf. As part of a large family of

5 years.

5 brothers and 6 sisters he could sense that this was the

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last straw. He tried lip-reading, but it’s very difficult, and

But Mastura didn’t let himself get down, and when an op-

no good when people use words you have yet to learn.

portunity arose he seized it! With LP4Y he is learning fast

People mocked him.

and discovering who he is. Thanks to his savings and with

When he was 12 he at last began to learn sign language.

help from supporters he has begun his studies.

But that was no help, since no-one at home had time to

He has turned his back on easy money and now works as

learn his language. So to keep him out of trouble they gave

a handyman to pay his living costs. At the age of 20 he

him the housework to do, the washing. And who was he

has learnt how to set limits – both for himself and for others.

to complain?

Never again will he be a slave to anyone or anything. And

In due course, flattered that at last someone was paying

today his family looks at him with new eyes.

him some attention, he allowed himself to be seduced by

One day he will make true his dream to become a cook. 27


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Juhn ROLitO G. molar

Pushing back the limits to fulfill a dream At the age of 16 Juhn left his family to try his chances in Manila, where his only goal was survival. After a few odd jobs he ended up in the streets, with no idea of where to go next. Then one day he came to the Center. And before the week was up his talent had made itself known – clearly visible to all on the heads of his friends. A budding hairdresser was revealed, with a passion worth developing. He took a year to acquire experience, doing internship after internship, sleeping on the salon floor to be first there in the morning, and last at night. He is now a salon employee, gaining new clients every day with his charm and good nature. A professional from Paris confirms; this youngster has talent! 30

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eLSie

L. SEVILLA Elsie’s prayer

Dear Lord, Thank you for putting in my path people who have become dear to me, who encourage me without fail, and who help me to pay for my studies. Without them I could not make true my dream of graduating from university. I know it will not always be easy. So when I encounter difficulties, let me be inspired by these people, to succeed and not lose hope. And allow me to share my blessings with other Young people who also need help. Thank you Lord 32

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DRAgen R. aliviado Life line

March 3rd, 1993: The day I was born

One day a friend spoke to me about the Life Project Center.

Age 8: That year my parents argued all the time. One day

But at times it is hard to confront reality and I preferred

my father pulled a gun on my mother ... and disappeared

to disappear to forget and be beholden to no-one. But I

with everything we owned. Forever.

kept coming back, because I knew that my team at LP4Y

Age 10: My mother developed a mental illness. My grand-

needed me.

mother came to look after us. Age 12: My mother got worse and could no longer work.

Now I am a manager at LP4Y. I just need a few more

My aunt adopted me.

months to recover fully, and then shortly before my 20th

Age 14: I stopped going to school, and stopped believing

birthday I will be joining an IT company. I have passed

in a future.

all the necessary tests, and in the meantime I’m working

Age 17: My aunt sent me back to my mother’s, and I found

on my personal skills. Sometimes it’s really hard! I wonder

some work.

what I will be doing in 20 years time ...

Age 18: No more work, and I began spending all my time in an internet cafe. 34

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tiMOthy dizon The balancing act of survival…

Tim enjoys ideas and debating them. He has a highly entertaining capacity for pushing an argument beyond the realms of reason and into the danger zone! Tim is always in control of the situation, the more dramatic the better, and it has always been this way with him. He’s seen it all. Tim is like a tightrope walker. But not everyone gets to watch the display; you have first to surprise him into trusting you. Many times I’ve been under the impression that Tim had worked hard to set up the scenario he was presenting. But the reality of what he has been through is worse than you might imagine. Tim is a talented artist, but if you draw attention to him he will slip away with a gentle smile on his lips. In recent months Tim has launched his own business. To order one of his designs contact him on Facebook: www.facebook.com/DrawMechanix Not long ago Tim’s real father got in touch. They do not have the same name. For the first time in his life Tim felt like someone’s son. But instinctively, like a born tightrope walker, Tim knows that to avoid falling he must fix his sights far ahead. 36

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MARiS E. infante

Maris’ numbers 13

The age at which Maris stopped school for finan cial reasons,

4m2

The size of the family home,

11

The number of people who live there,

500

Pesos (€10) – The weekly savings she hands over

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at Christmas, 12

to her mother every Friday, 2

Maris and her sister are the only 2 members of the family with an income,

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The number of candles on her last birthday cake,

The duration in months of the contract she recently signed,

1,000

The number of stars in her eyes when she talks about starting her own business. 39


MARiA

paz rendoza

M

is for Mother. Maria’s mother is a maid and only comes

home once a month. So Maria looks after her 2 little brothers and the house.

A

is for Attachment. Which Maria needs. She says “LP4Y

is my new family”.

R

is for restaurant. Maria’s dream is to become a chef. She

loves to prepare a beautiful table, to cook, serve customers. Her 3 month catering course has given her confidence.

I

is for Industrious. This is an important word for Maria.

“I am hard working, I will succeed”.

A

is for adamant. Maria is determined to continue to stick

with the LP4Y program, whatever her father says.

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venuS O.olave

“When

your

name

is

Venus,

anything is possible”

And Venus inspires, with her smile, her boundless energy, her optimism and enthusiasm for each new challenge. “Thanks to LP4Y I can build a solid foundation for my family. Even when I’m exhausted I make myself get up because I want to make a success of my life”. Aged 22, Venus is a single mother expecting her third child. She was the first young woman to enroll in the Life Project Center in Vitas Tondo. “Even if you live in the poorest slum in Manila, you can escape to better things, if you follow in Venus’ footsteps!” Venus, with her good-humored teasing and her leadership skills, is an exceptional young woman. 44

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MARy Ann M.gripon Good news!

“I’ve got some good news for you, Mary Ann; your daugh-

Since the age of 15, Mary has been trying to survive in

ter’s coming home on Friday”. Mary Ann’s face breaks

a few square meters on the Tondo dumpsite, the infamous

into a smile, at the news that she will soon have her child

“Smokey Mountain”. Mary Ann is expecting her third child

back. She’s 18, and her one and a half year old daughter,

and has plans for the future. She wants to become a bu-

Princess Ayesha, has been in a center for malnourished ba-

siness woman, and she knows it won’t be easy. Her ques-

bies for several months now. Prince Abel, aged 7 months,

tioning gaze triggers questions within each of us.

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Richie B . b u t i g a n

An amazing young woman For a long time people made decisions for Richie without ever consulting her. She is hearing-impaired and doesn’t speak, so they figured she didn’t belong, didn’t feel, had nothing to say. She had a childhood of forbearance. Richie hasn’t forgotten her past, but she doesn’t seek revenge. She knows that her future will be different. The way Richie chooses to look at the people and events that have colored her life, then and now, is her stepping stone to her future. Richie only went to elementary school but now she’s making up for lost time. She thrives on responsibility and so the team has given her stewardship of the Hear Us house finances in the hearing-impaired community at the Life Project Center in Iligan. Richie has a gift for IT and has been selected by a fast food chain to do a 6 month secretarial internship. One day Richie will be strong enough to reclaim her son, who was taken from her at birth. 48

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MARk

A.Sandico To u g h e n o u g h to o vercome misery

I used to belong to a very violent gang. I have a mother who loves me, but who is very sick. My father owes money to dealers and we live in a house that we risk losing at any moment; a house that is in danger of collapsing. I have to help pay for my mother’s medication. I’m turning my life around and will soon have a job as a security guard. I am Mark, and I am becoming a decent man.

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JuDe madrid

Car efr ee young ma n by day, responsible dad in the evening If you go beyond the bridge which leads to the international airport at Mactan, Cebu City, you will see a collection of bamboo shacks by the side of the road. That’s where Jude used to live. His mother and father are still there, scraping by on a pittance. Jude is 19 and has 2 children. His story is the story of an adolescent who had to grow up too fast. But Jude loves his children and has taken seriously his responsibilities as head of a family. He had to leave school, and he enrolled with LP4Y. The allowance he receives is sufficient, but more to the point he is learning so much, in a short space of time – taking short cuts where he can! He no longer minds so much about his interrupted studies. With his open nature and his love of English, Jude yearns for a simple life. He hopes to get a job in a call center. A carefree young man by day, and a caring thoughtful father at home, his smile is no facade. 52

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MAcMAc

mark a nthony datUin Without music there is no life» Mac Mac often declares “Without music there is no life”. Behind the shy smile of this talented young singer and guitar player lurks a philosopher. Mac Mac had to leave school very young, and he lives in one room with the 8 members of his family. But he does not let this define him. His ray of hope comes from his love of music which he inherited from his grandfather. And it’s a passion he has seized with both hands. His joy is the choir of Saint John’s Cebu City. Day after day Mac Mac learns to acknowledge his talents and grow in self-confidence. Now he needs to find work to give him further encouragement ... but not before playing a few more chords on the guitar. 54

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JOhnSOn N.Moralde

It’s

hard

to

take

responsibi-

lity for one’s existence Johnson comes from a family of 11 children. One is his sisters died, one of the brothers is abroad, and the rest are scattered around the Philippines. Aged 23 he lives with his parents in Manila, and for 5 long years he did nothing; 5 long, empty years. Then his brother brought him along to the life Project Center in Quezon City, and that was the start of something. After the initial discovery week he was interviewed to determine his motivation and announced that he wanted to be a manager. It’s hard to commit to something after so much time wasted doing nothing, planning nothing, hoping nothing. But one year later and assisted by the other team members Johnson is gradually finding his feet. And it’s already time to move on! Johnson has been taken on by a company where he will learn how to maintain air conditioning units. 58

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“When I arrived at LP4Y I was like bamboo in the wind, bending without resistance, not knowing which way to go. I didn’t have any sense of purpose and I had lost hope. Sometimes I would look out of the window and ask myself, I am really going to be like this forever? How can I offer a real future to my daughter? The coaches helped me put back together the missing pieces of my past. I gained confidence in myself and my abilities. Yes, that’s right; LP4Y gave me confidence. And

g i n A Ly n C.tabale

now I have a project. It’s clear to me and I will succeed. I want to become a secretary. The wind may blow in the bamboo, but this time it won’t bend and it won’t snap”. Gin began an internship a few weeks ago with an IT company. But it’s tough: 4 hours travel every day; whole days spent in front of a screen; and the pressures of those

“ T h e b a m b o o m a y b lo w in the wind, but it w i l l n o lo n g e r b e n d or snap”

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around her. Beginnings are difficult. Gin has the benefit of the support of the Lp4Y team for the first 6 months, until a contract is signed. Will the bamboo stand the strain..?

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AnA MARie R.greenough

Marie – stronger than a typhoon Marie lost her father when she was only 7. She is the oldest of 8 children and is used to taking charge of the 15 people with whom she shares her tiny one room dwelling in the slums. Marie wants to make serious plans for her future. She now has her ALS diploma (Alternative Learning System, allowing students to take the exams without going to school), without which paid work is almost impossible to find. Aged 20 and armed with her generous smile, nothing seems to shake her. She has confidence in her life and moves forward without hesitation, for the benefit of her baby and her husband, Roger. Marie laughs, works, plans. She knows that with a bit of determination the worst situations can be improved, and opportunities grasped. Marie could withstand a typhoon! 62

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A thirst fo r knowledge a nd independence that overcomes everything! If you are looking for Norman you will almost certainly find him with his nose in a book, in English ... or French. Norman was so keen to learn that at 15 he ignored his mother’s wishes and went to school. He was thrown out of the family home and found refuge with the school’s headmistress and at last began learning sign language. If you talk to Norman about his past you begin to understand how desperately miserable he was when there seemed to be no hope. Norman knows what he is talking about. If you ask Norman what he can do he will leap at the chance to show you his skills. He excels at practical things: painting, decorating, woodwork, gardening. At LP4Y Norman was transformed, displaying kindness, good nature, self confidence, belief in his future; all the qualities which we would all wish for ourselves. In a few days Norman will take up his first job as a trainee gardener. But one day he will go further and be his own boss. 64

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AL & RR Al

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R.recto

When 2 amazing young men combine their efforts in search of success They were in the same program for several months, but nothing indicated they would ever be close. Al, reserved, polite and uncommunicative, was happy to accept the future his father planned for him, but knowing how chance was stacked against him he blamed himself. RR, charming, confident and extrovert, assumed he would have to fight to succeed. As his brothers had done. But he was stronger, and would do better than them. Then one day the chance to take an internship came up, and both accepted, not really knowing what was involved. They suffered each morning, and every night, from exhaustion, waning enthusiasm, the desire to give it all up. They wondered if this world they were experiencing was really a world for them. Together for 6 months they stood up to the challenge, worked out how they felt, adjusted their ways ... they fought together, bringing to bear their various skills and sharing the results, each encouraged by the presence of the other. And a few days ago RR came to see me. “Kuya John, I’ve got good news. Al and I are going to sign our permanent contracts!” They are so different, but together they succeeded. One is Muslim, the other Catholic, and each prayed that God would not let them down ... not now. Somewhere, someone was listening. 68

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pA u L A R t Dizon

PA wants to tell his story and pro ve he has reason to hope Age 11 – Paul Art gets involved in drug dealing Age 12 – Paul Art leaves school for good. He’s in 7th grade Age 13 – Paul Art is arrested and imprisoned for 5 years Age 18 – Paul Art is released from prison. His parents have separated so he goes to live with his aunt. He goes back to drugs. Age 21 – Paul Art is again imprisoned, and this time the judge gives him 20 years! A young social worker visits him and detects a ray of hope. He gets involved in the case and manages to get the sentence reduced. Nonetheless, 3 terrible years inside, and then he is released. Age 24 – Paul-Art joins LP4Y. He wants to change and make up for all the time wasted. There is so much to do. It is a challenging journey: everything has to be started from scratch; there is nothing to build on. Day after day Paul Art fights his exhausting battles. But we all know he will be victorious. A formidable force is born. Paul Art is an exceptional young man. 70

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THANK YOU The “Portraits” project comes directly from the Young people

Pola, Aurélie Caillot, Anne-Flore d’Arras, Isaure Delaporte,

of LIFE PROJECT 4 YOUTH FOUNDATION. They have ta-

Anne-Sophie Lize, Clara Fayard, Coco Grooves,

ken control of their lives and are heading towards their own social and professional integration, but in addition they are

For studies and pedagogy: Marthe Mazade-Lecourbe,

beacons of hope for all young people. It is thanks to them

Céline Racine, Pauline de Valence,

that this book has been produced, as well as the exhibition

For activity development: Valentine Lesaffre, Victoire Mac

and the videos you can find on www.lp4y.tv

Garry, For translations into English:

But none of this would have been possible without the

Vanessa Wright, Frances Valadji,

talent, generosity and perseverance of 2 young photographers who criss-crossed the Philippines over a period of

For the development of new projects:

6 months to go and meet the Young people at the 5 LP4Y

Maeva Moreau, Aude Perrot, François-xavier & Alice Ollivry

Centers: Magali Hernandez and Melanie Rey, and for the

And also to all those planning to join LP4Y in Asia.

book, the artistic director Chantal Guyot. Someone to whom we owe an enormous debt of gratitude We also thank the many volunteers of LIFE PROJECT 4

for the launch of the first pilot Life Project Centers in the

YOUTH who have worked with us for a period of months

Philippines: Jean-Baptiste Prache,

or years, so contributing to the realization of this dream: To the 300 active members of LP4Y in Asia, Europe and The Life Project Center coaches in the Philippines

America,

In Quezon: Grégoire Danel, Aude Couturier,

To the companies, organizations and foundations which

In Vitas, Tondo: Natalie Kean, Thiphaine Gouraud, Agnès

give us their support year after year,

Milhome, Théresa Czernin,

To the 40 administrators at the 5 LP4Y offices, their Presi-

In Paranaque: Hélène Vanacker, Juliette Brossard, Marie

dents and Vice-Presidents, without whom LIFE PROJECT 4

Prache, Lucie Taurines, Marion Bergeret, Bridget Horan,

YOUTH would never have existed,

In Cebu: Lucas Schmitt, Solène Lefort, Julie Floch, Elisabeth Okecki, Laure-Hélène Milhome,

Thanks lastly to our 5 children, our daily inspiration, and

In Iligan: Estelle Klumper, Aymeric & Colombe de Vachon,

to our 2 co-founders, Thierry Delaporte and Jean-Marie

Our “flying” coach: Eric de Poncins,

Demeure, the most enthusiastic partners imaginable.

And the partners of those centers. The assistants: Constance Delaporte, Mathilde Swarts, Emilie Schumacher, Pauline de Maredsous, Victor Gaere-

Jean-Marc & Laure Delaporte

mynck, Elsa Becart, Louis Bertrand, Emmanuelle Boggio-

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LP4Y’s PEdAgOgiCAL PROJECT

A

t the origin of LP4Y lies a general observation

Below we have detailed LP4Y’s basic pedagogical prin-

(1) regarding the catastrophic circumstances

ciples, which we would like to make as widely known

facing the increasing number of excluded

as possible. To this end LP4Y founded Youth 4 Change

The pedagogical route of each Young person is made up

hope to dozens of Young people. Tomorrow they will be

Young people in the world, and a field study

(http://www.youth4c.net), an international platform for

as follows:

the powder that ignites the new progress we need so much

(2) carried out over the course of a year, focusing on Young

the exchange of solutions to the problem of social and pro-

people living in the streets, and examining realistic solu-

fessional insertion of Young people at risk.

tions for their social and professional insertion.

of a team which works to determine the best practices.

Together, day after day, the LP4Y teams, their partners in the field and the communities of which they are a part, give

in the world. Without you, nothing would be possible. •

4 successive stages as they integrate, moving on

when ready (independence, responsibility, management, LP4Y Pedagogical Principles

entrepreneurship)

referencing information drawn from various publications

- All excluded Young people living below the poverty thres-

by major international organizations, indicated that there

hold are unconditionally welcome in the LP4Y centers.

ject) which punctuate each week giving a time table that is

(1) The first report* produced by Life Project 4 Youth,

are currently 550 million Young people living below the

CO N TI N UE WO R K I N G W IT H T H EM !

the same each week. This regularity is important in helping

poverty threshold ($2/day), and that within 12 years that

- The Young people have to make their own decision to join

number will have reached 1 billion! 90% of those Young

an LP4Y program for 9 to 18 months, depending on the

people live in developing countries.

time necessary to achieve insertion.

*Can be downloaded from http://www.lp4y.org

the Young people give structure to their time. - At the end of the first week the Young people receive a weekly allowance equivalent to twice the poverty thres-

- The Young people work in teams of roughly 15, with

hold. They learn to manage their funds, taking responsibi-

(2) We met Young people surviving in the city streets of

others who have experienced comparable suffering and

lity for supplying their basic needs. They live in the center,

To know more, email

23 different countries around the world, and recognized

exclusion. This facilitates the integration of each individual.

if they so wish, and are required to declare their allowance

info@lp4y.org

in them many of the same qualities that make an entre-

to social security.

preneur. All that was needed was the right environment

- Each group is attached to a program, a micro-economic

in which they might develop their skills and thus join the

initiative for which they are responsible. The creation and

- The language in the Life Project Centers is English; as the

working population ...

management of a business is key to the development of

international language of business English will give these

these Young people. Each Life Project Center is home to

Young people an advantage when they start applying for

one or more such programs.

work, as well as increasing their self-confidence. After the

Inspired by these observations the founders of LP4Y decided to launch 5 pilot centers for social and professional inser-

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3 pillars of development (work, school, life pro-

first three months spectacular progress can be observed.

tion. They chose the Philippines as the base for activities in

- A coach with business and coaching experience is

Having a new shared language unites the team, and keeps

Asia. The 27 Young people who have generously agreed to

assigned to each program. The coach is a volunteer

things calm (they are less likely to know the undesirable

appear in this book have all come from these centers.

who will spend 1-2 years in this position, and is part

words in English!) 75




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