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ENDORSEMENTS

“I’m so excited that the series Hope Rising has found it’s way into your hands. In a world full of challenges, disappointment, fear, loss, injustice and pain we all need to know that there is still hope. Without hope we would certainly give up. Without hope we would not have the courage to rise up. Without hope we would not have the strength to speak up. For those feeling hopeless, my prayer is that this series will leave you filled with hope!”

“Everyone needs hope. But what do you do when you find yourself without it? Hope Rising will encourage you to hold on to the hope that Christ has for us.”

CHRISTINE CAINE Founder of The A21 Campaign

CRAIG GROESCHEL | Senior Pastor of LifeChurch.tv Author of Altar Ego, Becoming Who God Says You Are

“Everybody needs hope. Hope Rising is an authentic and gutsy dealing with life, faith and God; especially so when some things are not making sense. I love Gene Appel. I love his heart and I love the way that he treats complex issues with insight, sensitivity and integrity. He speaks as one who has tasted pain but without the negative residue. There is something very powerful about people sharing their stories, too. Hope Rising will birth hope in many who desperately long for it and feel like it is in short supply.”

“After I watched this video series , my first thought was ‘At last!’ The stories in Hope Rising will awaken your own stories. Each one is a story of triumph and tragedy that will inspire you to believe that God is most obviously present even when he seems apparently absent. Gene’s teaching let me know that there’s someone who truly understands that God’s strength is made perfect in our imperfections. This is a resource you’ll go back to again and again.” PETE WILSON | Senior Pastor CrossPoint Church NASHVILLE, TN

DALE STEVENSON | Senior Pastor Crossway Baptist Church MELBOURNE, AUSTRALIA

“You know restaurants, movies and sports teams all can get vastly over-rated, but not so with hope. That’s why I’m so excited about this series! My buddy Gene Appel knows as much about hanging onto hope through the challenges of life as anybody I know. He’d be the first to tell you that there are a lot of things in life that are overrated, but HOPE is not one of them!”

“My friend Gene Appel is an encourager, communicator and teacher whose message of hope will strengthen your faith and elevate your life. Hope Rising presents a living message that will enable you to overcome difficult circumstances with the confident expectation that your future is in God’s Hands.” JACK GRAHAM | Pastor Prestonwood Baptist Church PLANO, TX

MIKE BREAUX | Author and Teaching Pastor Heartland Community Church ROCKFORD, IL

“Everyone needs hope. Without it we curl up and die. With it the giants in our lives can be faced up to and conquered. Hope Rising will remind you of the power and reason for the hope that we have in Christ. This is a message that can change you and your church. I recommend it.”

“HOPE RISING is a powerful and creative answer to life’s difficult questions about faith and humanity. Gene Appel has assembled stories of real sojourners who’ve traveled the uneven roads and now have gathered to offer a tangible hope to others on the same passage. If you need not only answers but understanding, this is for you. “ WAYNE CORDEIRO | Author and Pastor New Hope Christian Fellowship

LARRY OSBORNE | Author and Pastor North Coast Church VISTA, CA

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“Gene Appel is a fantastic communicator who insightfully guides us to the power of hope, and the One who gives it. Hope Rising speaks straight to our fears, concerns, and worries and offers us more than a cliché but a profound living hope that can sustain us through all of life’s ups and downs. Gene’s teaching, along with the many stories of life change, are an incredible gift to us all.” JUD WILHITE | Author of Pursued Senior Pastor of Central Christian Church LAS VEGAS, NV

“Gene Appel has done a fantastic job tackling one of the most important topics that any of us will ever ponder. Hope. It’s the thing that if we have it, we feel very alive, and if we lose it, we seem to lose our very being. That’s why I love this series. It’s an awesome reminder that if we’ll allow it, we will experience Hope Rising!” LINCOLN BREWSTER Integrity Music Recording Artist and Worship Arts Pastor Bayside Church | GRANITE BAY, CA

“Hope Rising offers exactly what is needed when life doesn’t turn out the way you planned or expected. In this video series, Gene Appel brings his extraordinary Bible teaching skills alongside remarkable true stories to offer what we all need most – hope! I highly recommend Hope Rising; it will not only provide motivation to get you through the day, but inspire you to look expectantly toward your future!” DAVE FERGUSON | Lead Pastor Community Christian Church Spiritual Entrepreneur NewThing

“If organizational cultures are created by the stories we tell and the heroes we create, then HOPE RISING may be one of the most powerful shapers. If personal lives are deeply transformed by raw and authentic hope springing up in the midst of pain, confusion and anger, then HOPE RISING is what we need. In a real, open and creative way these stories will provoke you, wound you, and heal you with their hope in the living God.” NANCY ORTBERG Author of Non-Linear Leadership

“Gene Appel has done it again—this time with captivating teaching, quality resources, real life testimonies and Bible truths that will change your outlook on life. Hope Rising…is a project done with excellence that will help you feel encouraged when you face the valleys of life.” PASTOR DAVE STONE Southeast Christian Church LOUISVILLE, KY

“You hold in your hands a catalyst for hope, a future, and a fresh start. We know firsthand Gene Appel and the Eastside team are hope givers and we believe in what they are doing. Get ready to experience hope in a fresh dimension.” PAUL JR. AND RACHAEL TEUTUL Paul Jr. Designs, Stars of American Chopper DISCOVERY CHANNEL

“In a world desperate for hope, Hope Rising offers the paradox of a hope found in arms stretched wide on a cross. Those who embrace the source of this Hope Rising will find that it will carry them through every broken dream, every deep sorrow, every dark place until one day those same arms are again spread wide to welcome them safely home to the very real Hope of heaven.” DR. CAROL TAYLOR | President of Vanguard University

“These messages promise to touch hearts, stir hope and change lives. In an era of bad news, this effort is a welcome silver lining.” MAX LUCADO Author and Pastor

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APPENDICES

BELIEVE CONTENTS Endorsements XX Foreword by Dr. George O. Wood XX Introduction by Alton Garrison XX Contributors XX Using This Workbook (Read This First) XX

OUTLINE FOR EACH SESSION SESSION: SARAH

SESSION: NAOMI

SESSION: HANNAH

SESSION: MARY

Frequently Asked Questions Small Group Agreement Small Group Calendar Team Roles Personal Health Assessment Personal Health Plan Sample Personal Health Plan Journaling 101 Spiritual Partners Spiritual Gifts Inventory Celebrating Communion in Your Group 30 Day Reading Plan

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SMALL GROUP LEADERS Hosting an Open House Leading for the First Time Leadership Training Session Leader Notes

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ABOUT MY HEALTHY CHURCH More Contributors Believe Small Group Series BELIEVE Small Group Series Church Leader Training Series Prayer and Praise Report Memory Verse Cards (Clip and Review) Small Group Roster P | 9

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FOREWORD BY

BY FRANKLIN GRAHAM LET’S TALK ABOUT HOW WE CAN APPLY WHAT WE’VE LEARNED, AND HOW DOING SO WILL ALLOW OUR LIVES TO GO AND BE A WITNESS FOR CHRIST. PART OF BEING A COMMUNITY INCLUDES HOW WE LIVE WHEN WE ARE NOT TOGETHER—AND HOW WE REPRESENT OUR COMMUNITY THROUGH EVANGELISM. PROIN RUTRUM FELIS A MASSA VIVERRA MATTIS. CURABITUR AT SAGITTIS NUNC. DONEC POSUERE MALESUADA ENIM, QUIS ALIQUAM DIAM RHONCUS SED. NULLA DIGNISSIM, SEM VITAE ULLAMCORPER FERMENTUM, NIBH LIGULA ORNARE IPSUM, A RUTRUM NEQUE LIBERO QUIS METUS. MAECENAS NON AUCTOR NISI, SED IACULIS LIGULA. CRAS VESTIBULUM TINCIDUNT ERAT, ET HENDRERIT NIBH FRINGILLA VITAE. INTEGER ADIPISCING LACUS RISUS, UT SAGITTIS ODIO SCELERISQUE QUIS. NULLAM FAUCIBUS FRINGILLA RISUS FRINGILLA MALESUADA. DONEC FAUCIBUS VOLUTPAT MI VITAE PRETIUM. NULLAM AC MI UT SEM CONSEQUAT FEUGIAT SIT AMET EU DIAM. FUSCE FRINGILLA PHARETRA LACUS, A IACULIS ELIT ULTRICIES AT. DUIS POSUERE LIBERO ANTE, QUIS SODALES NEQUE FRINGILLA CONSEQUAT. ALIQUAM LOBORTIS VENENATIS MAGNA, VITAE FACILISIS LECTUS SEMPER ID.

PROIN RUTRUM FELIS A MASSA VIVERRA MATTIS. CURABITUR AT SAGITTIS NUNC. DONEC POSUERE MALESUADA ENIM, QUIS ALIQUAM DIAM RHONCUS

PROIN RUTRUM FELIS A MASSA VIVERRA MATTIS. CURABITUR AT SAGITTIS

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RHONCUS SED. NULLA DIGNISSIM, SEM VITAE ULLAMCORPER FERMENTUM,

AUCTOR NISI, SED IACULIS LIGULA.

NIBH LIGULA ORNARE IPSUM, A RUTRUM NEQUE LIBERO QUIS METUS. MAECENAS NON AUCTOR NISI, SED IACULIS LIGULA. CRAS VESTIBULUM

CRAS VESTIBULUM TINCIDUNT ERAT, ET HENDRERIT NIBH FRINGILLA VITAE.

TINCIDUNT ERAT, ET HENDRERIT NIBH FRINGILLA VITAE. INTEGER

INTEGER ADIPISCING LACUS RISUS, UT SAGITTIS ODIO SCELERISQUE QUIS.

ADIPISCING LACUS RISUS, UT SAGITTIS ODIO SCELERISQUE QUIS. NULLAM

NULLAM FAUCIBUS FRINGILLA RISUS FRINGILLA MALESUADA.

FAUCIBUS FRINGILLA RISUS FRINGILLA MALESUADA.

HOW DOES YOUR CONNECTION TO GOD EMPOWER YOU TO TELL OTHERS ABOUT JESUS?

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INTRODUCTION BY DR. GEORGE O. WOOD

PROIN RUTRUM FELIS A MASSA VIVERRA MATTIS. CURABITUR AT SAGITTIS NUNC. DONEC POSUERE MALESUADA ENIM, QUIS ALIQUAM DIAM RHONCUS SED. NULLA DIGNISSIM, SEM VITAE ULLAMCORPER FERMENTUM, NIBH LIGULA ORNARE IPSUM, A RUTRUM NEQUE LIBERO QUIS METUS. MAECENAS NON

LET’S TALK ABOUT HOW WE CAN APPLY WHAT WE’VE LEARNED, AND

AUCTOR NISI, SED IACULIS LIGULA. CRAS VESTIBULUM TINCIDUNT ERAT, ET

HOW DOING SO WILL ALLOW OUR LIVES TO GO AND BE A WITNESS FOR

HENDRERIT NIBH FRINGILLA VITAE. INTEGER ADIPISCING LACUS RISUS, UT

CHRIST. PART OF BEING A COMMUNITY INCLUDES HOW WE LIVE WHEN

SAGITTIS ODIO SCELERISQUE QUIS. NULLAM FAUCIBUS FRINGILLA RISUS

WE ARE NOT TOGETHER—AND HOW WE REPRESENT OUR COMMUNITY

FRINGILLA MALESUADA.

THROUGH EVANGELISM.

HOW DOES YOUR CONNECTION TO GOD EMPOWER YOU TO TELL OTHERS ABOUT JESUS?

PROIN RUTRUM FELIS A MASSA VIVERRA MATTIS. CURABITUR AT SAGITTIS

ADIPISCING LACUS RISUS, UT SAGITTIS ODIO SCELERISQUE QUIS. NULLAM

NUNC. DONEC POSUERE MALESUADA ENIM, QUIS ALIQUAM DIAM

FAUCIBUS FRINGILLA RISUS FRINGILLA MALESUADA.

RHONCUS SED. NULLA DIGNISSIM, SEM VITAE ULLAMCORPER FERMENTUM,

DONEC FAUCIBUS VOLUTPAT MI VITAE PRETIUM. NULLAM AC MI UT SEM CONSEQUAT FEUGIAT SIT AMET EU DIAM. FUSCE FRINGILLA PHARETRA LACUS, A IACULIS ELIT ULTRICIES AT. DUIS POSUERE LIBERO ANTE, QUIS SODALES NEQUE FRINGILLA CONSEQUAT. ALIQUAM LOBORTIS MAGNA, VITAE FACILISIS LECTUS SEMPER ID. DONEC FAUCIBUS VOLUTPAT MI VITAE PRETIUM. NULLAM AC MI UT SEM CONSEQUAT FEUGIAT SIT AMET EU DIAM. FUSCE FRINGILLA PHARETRA

NIBH LIGULA ORNARE IPSUM, A RUTRUM NEQUE LIBERO QUIS METUS. MAECENAS NON AUCTOR NISI, SED IACULIS LIGULA. CRAS VESTIBULUM TINCIDUNT ERAT, ET HENDRERIT NIBH FRINGILLA VITAE. INTEGER ADIPISCING LACUS RISUS, UT SAGITTIS ODIO SCELERISQUE QUIS. NULLAM FAUCIBUS FRINGILLA RISUS FRINGILLA MALESUADA. SODALES NEQUE FRINGILLA CONSEQUAT. ALIQUAM LOBORTIS VENENATIS MAGNA, VITAE FACILISIS LECTUS SEMPER ID.

LACUS, A IACULIS ELIT ULTRICIES AT. DUIS POSUERE LIBERO ANTE, QUIS SODALES NEQUE FRINGILLA CONSEQUAT. ALIQUAM LOBORTIS VENENATIS MAGNA, VITAE FACILISIS LECTUS SEMPER.

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CO-CREATORS Mike Clarensau

Gary Wileman

David Jenkins

Alton Garrison

Sol Arledge

Greg Camprano

Jeff Peterson

Andrea Lathrop

Oliver Offutt

Alice Beth Grant

Carl Stephens

Kevin Brown

Shanna Crawford

Daniel Morrison

Dr. Ryan Darrow

Jeremy Deweerdt

Anthony Cervero

Rick Lorimer

Rob Ketterling

William Leach

David Vistine

Becca Ketterling

Dave Pafford

Derek Youngblood

Jr. Rodriguez

John C. Martin

Josh Thompson

Patsy Rodriguez

Jim Lad

Warren Curry

Guy Declambre

Claude Valdes JR

Tiara Curry

Allen Chapin

Donald Gifford

Jason Yarbrough

Kyle Hammond

Bob Cave

Juan Acuaa

Heath Adamson

Sandra Cave

Joseph S. Girbler

Kevin Taylor

George Nagato

Frank Cargill

Joelene Taylor

Abraham Chikwendu

Mark Hausfeld

Ben Deboef

Chet Caudill

Bill Roberts

Kerry Clarensau

Dave Donaldson

Terri Gibbs

Zollie Smith

Wayne Clark

Shayla Cox

Mike McAteer

Denise Ryan

Gwen Sullivan

Chris White

Steve Milazzo

Alex Schauer

Deidre White

Tim Enloe

Mary Beth Bradshaw

James Braddey

Byron Klaus

Teresa Quinn

Choco De Jesus

Sharon Poole

Mike Quinn

Jerry Strandquist

Diandra Hoskins

Christine Shawa

Joseph Anderson

Scott Wilson

Kevin Taylor

Dr. Bradford

Joann Butrin

Joelene Taylor

Rob Hoskins

Stan Russell

Madlyn Tombs

John Davidson

Cathy Cole

April Wilke

Lynette Davidson

Rick Cole

Diane Aubrey

Peggy Musgrove

Rebekah Crosby

Dr. George Wood

Don James

Douglas Graham

Jason St. John

Todd Alexander

Greg Ford

Jill St. John

Joni Wileman

Jeff Peterson

Andrea Gonzales

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Sheri Hawley

Rita Lewis

Brian Bolt

Beth Carroll

Christy Godzich

Justyn Smith

Joy Wilson

Aryton Smith

Haley Reed

Courtney Kennedy

Christian Lopez

Jeral Dickenson

Angela Donadio

Mariah Aviles

Cyndy Mondelus

Lori Hawkins

Steve Svoboda

Ty Silva

Jeanne Mayo

Josh Ward

David Ferguson

Natalia Guerreiro

Bethany Ivaska

Madison Bouse

Dawn Raley

Josh Pocock

Sullivan Turner

Jennifer McAfee

Katie Scott

Etka Barron

Brandi Carrana

Matt Rule

Eric Porter

Brooke Baker

Anna Fouts

Tom Hammel

Jeanne Mayo

Antonio Valido

Sarah Page

Ranae Mack

Nathan Rouse

Brandon Scarbrough

Angela Hudson

Sophonie LaFortune

Chris Buford

Crystal Heisel

Grace Fanelli

Kyle Coslett

Melanie Strong

Ashley Brooks

Monty Hipp

Linda Housfeld

Josiah Babin

Sean Keith

Robyn Wilkerson

Ricardo Conlee

Baylor Boyd

Sheila Harper

Andy Lehmann

Logan Ketterling

Cherie Gaff

Mikayla Ostynski

Annalise Sullivan

Steph Peterson

David Sanchez

Alyssa Shanks

Elizabeth Wolfe

Resse Maxwell

Kendon Hackworth

Donna Krstulovich

Carson Snider

Marlaena Hamel

Jennifer Pasquale

Justin Keller

Vanessa Barrera

Leslie Thomas

Jessica Prince

Caleb Cole

Renee Duncan

Anthony Cox

Elliot Bland

Chris Railey

Austin Johnson

Joseph Valsquez

Cara Railey

Ryan Beaty

Adelita Martinez

Lucy Donaldson

Allison Fontaine

Charles Stewart

Laurie Hoyt

Daniel King

Delonn Rance

Belindah McAeese

Brooke Baker

Nonda Houston

Jordan Hurt

Nancy Raatz

Jeremy Johnson

Kristi Singer

Courtney Kennedy

Laura Hoggard

David Fergunsen

Diane Gifford

Marvin Hernandez

Beth Espinosa Quick

Kelly Prestin

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CO-CREATORS Mike Clarensau

Gary Wileman

David Jenkins

Alton Garrison

Sol Arledge

Greg Camprano

Jeff Peterson

Andrea Lathrop

Oliver Offutt

Alice Beth Grant

Carl Stephens

Kevin Brown

Shanna Crawford

Daniel Morrison

Dr. Ryan Darrow

Jeremy Deweerdt

Anthony Cervero

Rick Lorimer

Rob Ketterling

William Leach

David Vistine

Becca Ketterling

Dave Pafford

Derek Youngblood

Jr. Rodriguez

John C. Martin

Josh Thompson

Patsy Rodriguez

Jim Lad

Warren Curry

Guy Declambre

Claude Valdes JR

Tiara Curry

Allen Chapin

Donald Gifford

Jason Yarbrough

Kyle Hammond

Bob Cave

Juan Acuaa

Heath Adamson

Sandra Cave

Joseph S. Girbler

Kevin Taylor

George Nagato

Frank Cargill

Joelene Taylor

Abraham Chikwendu

Mark Hausfeld

Ben Deboef

Chet Caudill

Bill Roberts

Kerry Clarensau

Dave Donaldson

Terri Gibbs

Zollie Smith

Wayne Clark

Shayla Cox

Mike McAteer

Denise Ryan

Gwen Sullivan

Chris White

Steve Milazzo

Alex Schauer

Deidre White

Tim Enloe

Mary Beth Bradshaw

James Braddey

Byron Klaus

Teresa Quinn

Choco De Jesus

Sharon Poole

Mike Quinn

Jerry Strandquist

Diandra Hoskins

Christine Shawa

Joseph Anderson

Scott Wilson

Kevin Taylor

Dr. Bradford

Joann Butrin

Joelene Taylor

Rob Hoskins

Stan Russell

Madlyn Tombs

John Davidson

Cathy Cole

April Wilke

Lynette Davidson

Rick Cole

Diane Aubrey

Peggy Musgrove

Rebekah Crosby

Dr. George Wood

Don James

Douglas Graham

Jason St. John

Todd Alexander

Greg Ford

Jill St. John

Joni Wileman

Jeff Peterson

Andrea Gonzales

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Sheri Hawley

Rita Lewis

Brian Bolt

Beth Carroll

Christy Godzich

Justyn Smith

Joy Wilson

Aryton Smith

Haley Reed

Courtney Kennedy

Christian Lopez

Jeral Dickenson

Angela Donadio

Mariah Aviles

Cyndy Mondelus

Lori Hawkins

Steve Svoboda

Ty Silva

Jeanne Mayo

Josh Ward

David Ferguson

Natalia Guerreiro

Bethany Ivaska

Madison Bouse

Dawn Raley

Josh Pocock

Sullivan Turner

Jennifer McAfee

Katie Scott

Etka Barron

Brandi Carrana

Matt Rule

Eric Porter

Brooke Baker

Anna Fouts

Tom Hammel

Jeanne Mayo

Antonio Valido

Sarah Page

Ranae Mack

Nathan Rouse

Brandon Scarbrough

Angela Hudson

Sophonie LaFortune

Chris Buford

Crystal Heisel

Grace Fanelli

Kyle Coslett

Melanie Strong

Ashley Brooks

Monty Hipp

Linda Housfeld

Josiah Babin

Sean Keith

Robyn Wilkerson

Ricardo Conlee

Baylor Boyd

Sheila Harper

Andy Lehmann

Logan Ketterling

Cherie Gaff

Mikayla Ostynski

Annalise Sullivan

Steph Peterson

David Sanchez

Alyssa Shanks

Elizabeth Wolfe

Resse Maxwell

Kendon Hackworth

Donna Krstulovich

Carson Snider

Marlaena Hamel

Jennifer Pasquale

Justin Keller

Vanessa Barrera

Leslie Thomas

Jessica Prince

Caleb Cole

Renee Duncan

Anthony Cox

Elliot Bland

Chris Railey

Austin Johnson

Joseph Valsquez

Cara Railey

Ryan Beaty

Adelita Martinez

Lucy Donaldson

Allison Fontaine

Charles Stewart

Laurie Hoyt

Daniel King

Delonn Rance

Belindah McAeese

Brooke Baker

Nonda Houston

Jordan Hurt

Nancy Raatz

Jeremy Johnson

Kristi Singer

Courtney Kennedy

Laura Hoggard

David Fergunsen

Diane Gifford

Marvin Hernandez

Beth Espinosa Quick

Kelly Prestin

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TOOLS TO HELP YOU HAVE A GREAT SMALL GROUP EXPERIENCE! 1 Notice in the Table of Contents there are three sections: (1) Sessions; (2) Appendices; and (3) Small Group Leaders. Familiarize yourself with the Appendices. Some of them will be used in the sessions themselves. 2 If you are facilitating/leading or co-leading a small group, the section Small Group Leaders will give you some hardlearned experiences of others that will encourage you and help you avoid many common obstacles to effective small group leadership. 3 Use this workbook as a guide, not a straightjacket. If the group responds to the lesson in an unexpected but honest way, go with that. If you think of a better question than the next one in the lesson, ask it. Take to heart the insights included in the Frequently Asked Questions pages and the Small Group Leaders section. 4 Enjoy your small group experience. 5 Read the Outline for Each Session on the next pages so that you understand how the sessions will flow. P | 19

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OUTLINE OF EACH SESSION Most people want to live a God-honoring life, but few achieve this by themselves. And most small groups struggle to balance all of God’s purposes in their meetings. Groups tend to overemphasize one of the various reasons for meeting. Rarely is there a healthy balance that includes teaching, evangelism, ministry, practical exercises, and worship. That’s why we’ve included all of these elements in this study so you can live a healthy, balanced spiritual life over time.

A TYPICAL GROUP SESSION FOR THE BELIEVE SERIES WILL INCLUDE THE FOLLOWING: INTRODUCTION Each lesson will open with a brief thought that will help you prepare for the session and get you thinking about the particular subject you will explore with your group. Make it a practice to read these before the session. CONNECT As in, connect with God and with each other. The foundation for spiritual growth is an intimate connection with God and His family. A few people who really know you and who earn your trust provide a place to experience the life Jesus invites you to live. This section of each session typically offers you two options. You can get to know your whole group by using the icebreaker question(s), or you can check in with one or two group members—your spiritual partner(s)—for a deeper connection and encouragement in your spiritual journey. P | 21

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DVD TEACHING SEGMENT. Serving as a companion to the BELIEVE small group discussion books is the BELIEVE Video teaching series. This DVD is designed to combine teaching segments from hundreds of Spirit-filled pastors and speakers along with leadership insights and personal stories of life change. Using the teaching video will add value to this four week commitment of doing life together and discovering how walking with Christ changes everything.

GROW. This section is where you will process as a group the teaching you heard and saw. The focus won’t be on accumulating information but on how we should live in light of the Word of God. We want to help you apply the insights from Scripture practically, creatively, and from your heart as well as your head. At the end of the day, allowing the timeless truths from God’s Word to transform our lives in Christ is our greatest aim.

GO. Many people skip over this aspect of the Christian life because it’s scary, relationally awkward, or simply too much work for their busy schedules. We understand, because we have these thoughts as well. But God calls all of us to reach out a hand to people who don’t know him. It’s much easier to take practical, manageable steps that can be integrated naturally into everyday life if you take them together. Every week you will have an opportunity to take a small step.

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SERVE. We let the truth we are learning travel the 18 inches from our cranium (mind) to our cardium (heart, emotions, and will) in this portion. This is where the Bible instructs us to “Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says.” (James 1:22) comes into play. Many people skip over this aspect of the Christian life because it’s scary, relationally awkward, or simply too much work for their busy schedules. But Jesus wanted all of His disciples to help outsiders connect with Him, to know Him personally, and to carry out His commands. This doesn’t necessarily mean preaching on street corners. It could mean welcoming a few newcomers into your group, hosting a short-term group in your home, or walking through this study with a friend. In this study, you’ll have an opportunity to go beyond Bible study to biblical living.

NOTE Questions with an asterisk indicate the crucial ones to use if time is short

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WORSHIP. We have Jesus’ affirmation that every aspect of life can ultimately be measured as a way of fulfilling one or both of the “bottom line” commandments: “The most important one,” answered Jesus, “is this: ‘Hear, O Israel, the Lord our God, the Lord is one. Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’ The second is this: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no commandment greater than these” (Mark 12:29–31 NIV). The group session will close with time for personal response to God and group prayer, seeking to keep this crucial commandment before us at all times. This is a good place to have different group members close in prayer, even when the instructions don’t specify. You can also provide some time if the schedule allows for people to reflect on their Prayer and Praise Report or take a little time to meet with a Spiritual Partner.

NOTES

GOING DEEPER BIBLE STUDY. If you have time and want to dig deeper into more Bible passages about the topic at hand, we’ve provided additional passages and questions. Your group may choose to do study homework ahead of each meeting in order to cover more biblical material. If you prefer not to do study homework, the Deeper Bible Study section will provide you with plenty to discuss within the group. These options allow individuals or the whole group to expand their study, while still accommodating those who can’t do homework or are new to your group.

DAILY DEVOTIONS. Each week on the Daily Devotions pages we provide scriptures to read and reflect on between group meetings. We suggest you use this section to seek God on your own throughout the week. This time at home should begin and end with prayer. Don’t get in a hurry; take enough time to hear God’s direction.

WEEKLY MEMORY VERSES. For each session we have provided a Memory Verse that emphasizes an important truth from the session. This is an optional exercise, but we believe that memorizing Scripture can be a vital part of filling our minds with God’s will for our lives. We encourage you to give this important habit a try. P | 25

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CONNECT Open your group with prayer. This should be a brief, simple prayer, in which you invite God to be with you as you meet. You can pray for specific requests at the end of the meeting, or stop momentarily to pray if a particular sitation comes up during your discussion. What does it mean to believe? Although it may seem a contradiction, doubt is part of belief. In order for us to choose to believe anything, that very thing must be doubtable. Our choice is between doubt and belief—and sometimes we first doubt before we move on to belief. Sarah, Abraham’s wife, doubted God’s promise that she would have a child after decades of barrenness—in fact, the Bible says she laughed at God. Her doubt seems reasonable: if you were promised your first child at 89 years old, you might laugh too. God’s faithfulness, however, is steadfast, even when our faith wavers. God came through for Sarah—even though she struggled to believe him. And His faithfulness ultimately strengthened her faith. Believe Him for greater things—and He’ll do the same for you. P | 29

As you begin, take time to pass around a copy of the Small Group Roster on page ???, a sheet of paper, or one of you pass your Study Guide, opened to the Small Group Roster. Have everyone write down their contact information. Ask someone to make copies or type up a list with everyone’s information and email it to the group this week.

1 The title of this study is “Believe.” Let’s brainstorm about what it means to believe. What comes to mind when you think about belief? What are some things that you believe in, or that people you know believe in?

2 Finish this sentence: “I find it hard to believe that…” Be as honest as you can, and listen without judgement to everyone in the group. Perhaps you find it difficult to believe that God loves us even when we sin, or that your financial situation can be turned around. What do you find it hard to believe? P | 30

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3 Whether your group is new or ongoing, it’s always important to reflect on and review your values together. On pages ???-??? is a Small Group Agreement with the values we’ve found most useful in sustaining healthy, balanced groups. We recommend that you choose one or two values—ones you haven’t previously focused on or have room to grow in—to emphasize during this study. Choose ones that will take your group to the next stage of intimacy and spiritual health.

4 Rotating leaders is one of the group values we highly recommend for your group. People need opportunities to experiment with ways in which God may have gifted them. Your group will give you all the encouragement you need before, during, and after the session. 5 We also suggest you rotate host homes, with the host of each meeting providing the refreshments. Some groups like to let the host lead the meeting each week, while others like to let one person host while another person leads. Even Jesus gave others the opportunity to serve alongside him (Mark 6:30–44). Look at the FAQs in the Appendices additional information about hosting or leading the group.

The Small Group Calendar on page ??? is a tool for planning who will host and lead each meeting. Take a few minutes to plan hosts and leaders for your remaining meetings. Don’t pass this up! It will revolutionize your group. P | 33

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Watch the DVD for this session now. Use the Notes space provided on page ??? to record any key thoughts, questions, and things you want to remember or follow up on. After watching the video, have someone read the discussion questions in the Grow section and direct the discussion among the group. As you go through each of the subsequent sections, ask someone else to read the questions and direct the discussion.

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GROW

Use the following questions to guide your discussion of the teaching and stories you just experienced, and the Bible passage below.

NOTES

READ GENESIS 18:1-15

6 In the video, we heard this question: “What dreams has God put in your heart that causes you to wrestle with doubt or laugh at God’s plans?” How would you answer this question? 7 What promise did God make to Abraham and Sarah? What was their response? 8 At the end of this passage, we read: “Sarah was afraid, so she lied…” (Genesis 18:15) Have you ever tried to cover up or deny your doubts? What happened as a result?

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9 Have you ever laughed at God? Had a promise from him that just seemed ridiculous? What happened? 10 When God keeps his promises, our faith is strengthened. Tell about a time God kept a promise to you, and how that impacted your faith. 11 In the video, we were challenged to believe God for greater things, and we heard, “God’s presence will show up in your life, even in the midst of your doubt, fear and frustration.” What situation are you in right now where you need God’s presence to show up in the midst of doubt? P | 40

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Explore the Bible passages related to this session’s theme as a group (if there is time) or on your own between sessions.

Read Ephesians 3: 20-21

Q What situation comes to mind when you read this verse? In which specific situation do you need God to do “immeasurably more” than you can imagine? Q What impossible dream might God want to birth in your life? In what ways might your doubts be getting in the way of what God wants to do in and through you? P | 41

Read Mark 9: 14-29

Q How did Jesus respond to the father’s doubt? Did the father’s doubt prevent his son from being healed? Q What might we conclude about our own doubts from this story? Q What specific situation in your life are you praying “help my unbelief!” for right now? P | 42

SERVE The Holy Spirit gives each of us gifts to serve the body— including your small group. When we use our gifts, everyone benefits: others are blessed, and we grow in our faith and experience God in new ways. Look at the following questions and decide how, specifically, you will serve this week. (See Team Roles in the Appendices)

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12 Based on your spiritual gifts and passions, what is one thing you could do to serve others in the group: pray for them, lead worship, organize the snack list or schedule, or something else? Share what one role you are willing to play, and the specific step you will take this week in that role. 13 Developing our ability to serve God according to the leading of the Holy Spirit takes time and persistence in getting to know our Lord. So the first step toward serving others is, paradoxically, spending time alone with God: in prayer, in studying and reflecting on God’s Word. Here are some simple ways to connect with God.

PRAYER. Commit to personal prayer and daily connection with God. You may find it helpful to write your prayers in a journal. DAILY DEVOTIONS. The Daily Devotions provided in each session offer an opportunity for reading a short Bible passage five days a week during the course of this study. In our hurry-up world, we often move too quickly through everything—even reading God’s word! Slow down. Don’t just skim, but take time to read carefully and reflect on God’s word. Write down your insights on what you read each day. Copy a portion of Scripture on a card and tape it somewhere in your line of sight, such as your car’s dashboard or the kitchen table. Think about it when you sit at red lights, or while you’re eating a meal. Reflect on what God is saying to you through these words. On the sixth day summarize what God has shown you throughout the week.

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14 Jude 1:22 instructs us: “Be merciful to those who doubt.” What does this verse tell us about how to relate to unbelievers, or even believers who are struggling with doubt? Sarah laughed at God when she doubted, then laughed with God when he fulfilled his promises. How might being honest about our doubts actually help our unbelieving friends move toward faith? How could you, as you engage in evangelism this week, “be merciful to those who doubt”? Be specific about a conversation you hope to have. P | 47

15 Take a look at the Circles of Life diagram to the right and write the names of two or three people you know who need to know Christ. Commit to praying for God’s guidance and an opportunity to share with each of them.

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WORSHIP Worship is not just singing or raising our hands—it is giving our attention to God. Our discussion has allowed us to give attention to one another—which is good and right because we are to love each other. But now we will spend some time giving God attention and honor.

16 Allow everyone to answer this question: “How can we pray for you this week?” Be sure to write prayer requests on your Prayer and Praise Report on page ???.

18 Read a passage of Scripture together, making it a time of praise and worship as the words remind you of all God has done for you. Choose a psalm or other favorite verse.

17 What kind of worship fits your group? Spend a few minutes worshiping God together. Here are two ideas:

19 Our corporate worship is enriched by our individual worship. Spending time alone with God is our sweet privilege. To guide you in this daily practice, we provide Daily Devotions at the end of each lesson. There are five daily Scripture readings with space to record your thoughts. On the sixth day there is space to record your summary of the five Daily Devotions. These will offer reinforcement of the principles we are learning, and provide a bit of structure for your time alone with God throughout the week.

Have someone use their musical gifts to lead the group in a worship song. Try singing á capela, using a worship CD, or have some one accompany your singing with a musical instrument. Read a passage of Scripture together, making it a time of praise and worship as the words remind you of all God has done for you. Choose a psalm or other favorite verse.

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Each day, read the daily verses and give prayerful consideration to what you learn about God, His Spirit, and His place in your life. Take your time! Listen to what God is telling you. Ponder and reflect. Then record your thoughts, insights, or prayer in the Reflect section below the verses you read. On the sixth day record a summary of what you have learned over the entire week through this study.

DAY 1. Psalm 6: 1, 2

Lord, do not rebuke me in your anger or discipline me in your wrath.Have mercy on me, Lord, for I am faint; heal me, Lord, for my bones are in agony. REFLECT What situation in your life comes to mind when you read this verse? Pray for God’s mercy and healing.

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DAY 2. Psalm 6: 3, 4

My soul is in deep anguish. How long, Lord, how long? Turn, Lord, and deliver me; save me because of your unfailing love. REFLECT In the midst of pain, what is one sign you’ve seen of God’s unfailing love? Thank God for that love right now (even if it seems hard to feel it).

DAY 3. Psalm 6: 5, 6

Among the dead no one proclaims your name. Who praises you from the grave? I am worn out from my groaning. All night long I flood my bed with weeping and drench my couch with tears. REFLECT Is this your situation? If not, who do you know who might be feeling this way? Pray for that person right now.

DAY 5. Psalm 6: 9, 10

The Lord has heard my cry for mercy; the Lord accepts my prayer. All my enemies will be overwhelmed with shame and anguish; they will turn back and suddenly be put to shame. REFLECT Who is someone you know who needs to be encouraged with this truth today? DAY 6. Thoughts

DAY 4. Psalm 6: 7, 8

My eyes grow weak with sorrow; they fail because of all my foes. Away from me, all you who do evil, for the Lord has heard my weeping.

Use the following space to write any thoughts God has put in your heart and mind about the things we have looked at in this session and during your Daily Devotions time this week.

REFLECT How does the fact that God hears our weeping make you feel? Do you believe this to be true?

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CONNECT Sometimes, our spiritual life overflows with energy and vitality. We’re strong, enthusiastic—on fire for God, even. But sometimes, we are not. We stay faithful, yes, but we just slog along. We don’t doubt, but we feel weary. We keep on keeping on, but that feeling of victory eludes us. We are, at times, just plodding. But that perseverance, sometimes, is all that God asks. He promises to be with us even in life’s valleys, encouraging us as we go. Naomi, the mother-in-law of Ruth, was a plodder. After nearly starving in a famine, losing her husband and two sons, she was ready to give up. But she didn’t. She plodded on, sad and worn. But God was faithful, and through her daughter-in-law Ruth, restored Naomi’s hope. He gave her cause to rejoice: a grandson, who would be the grandfather of King David, and the ancestor of Jesus.

Open your group with prayer. Pray simply and briefly, saving more in-depth requests until the end of the meeting. Ask God to give you insights and wisdom as you study and discuss together.

1. Tell about a time when you persevered through a difficult situation. What strengths did the experience build in you? 2. Most people want to live a healthy, balanced life. A regular medical check-up is a good way to measure health and spot potential problems. In the same way, a spiritual check-up is vital to your spiritual well being. The Personal Health Assessment was

designed to give you a quick snapshot, or pulse, of your spiritual health. Take a few minutes alone to complete the Personal Health Assessment, found on page ??? in the Appendices. After answering each question, tally your results. Then, pair up with another person and briefly share one purpose that is going well and one that needs a little work.

We may feel like we are just plodding along if we wrestle with depression, or lack of purpose. We can’t see the big picture of our lives. But God can! When we are plodding, we keep going, trusting God to reveal the purpose he has for us in his good time. P | 59

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Use the following questions to guide your discussion of the teaching and stories you just experienced, and the Bible passage listed below.

READ RUTH 1

22 In the video, Heath Adamson talked about faith being not just about making it through tough times, but learning to assign meaning to the tough times. Tell about a time you persevered in your faith, and able to see the meaning for the tough times. 23 One thing that helped Naomi to persevere was her faithful daughter-inlaw, Ruth, who promised to stay by her side. (see verses 16,17) At times when you’ve plodded along in your faith, who has walked beside you and encouraged you? How did that impact your ability to believe in God and to persevere in faith?

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26 In the video, we were challenged to bravely face suffering, to take up our cross, and that will build perseverance in our character. In your life, tell about a time that suffering produced perseverance (see Romans 5:3, 4).

27 In the video, we’re encouraged to be faithful in small things, in mundane moments. What “small things” is God asking you to be faithful in, in this season of your life?

24 In the video, we heard Romans 15:13: “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.” What promises does God give us in this verse? What must we do to access the power of the Spirit, according to this verse? 25 In spite of her discouragement and suffering, Naomi keeps going—she has just enough faith to persevere. When you’re discouraged, what keeps you going? What are some things that give you strength?

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Explore the Bible passages related to this session’s theme as a group (if there is time) or on your own between sessions.

Read James 1:2-4

Q Have you ever felt joy in the midst of trials? Where did that joy come from? Q This verse talks about “the testing of our faith.” What tests your faith? Can you recall a specific situation in which your faith grew through testing?

Read 2 Peter 1:5-8

Q According to this verse, what character traits or strengths should we add to our faith? Q What does this verse promise us if we add these traits (including perseverance) to our faith?

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Read Hebrews 12:1-3

Q This verse exhorts us to throw off two things: sin, and things that are a hindrance. How are these two things different? Q What has become a hindrance in your life? What would you have to do to “throw it off” or be delivered from it? How would that enable you to better persevere? Q Verse 3 tells us to “consider Him…so you will not grow weary…”—what do you think it means to “consider” Jesus? How could that help us to fight off weariness?

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28 Pair up with someone in your group. (We suggest that men partner with men and women with women.) This person will be your spiritual partner for the rest of this study. He or she doesn’t have to be your best friend, but will simply encourage you to complete the goals you set for yourself during this study. Following through on a resolution is tough when you’re on your own, but we’ve found it makes all the difference to have a partner cheering us on. Encouraging and praying for another person is a way to serve them, and to serve the group as a whole. P | 71

On pages ???-??? is a Personal Health Plan, a chart for keeping track of your spiritual progress. In the box that says, “WHO are you connecting with spiritually?” write your partner’s name. In the box that says, “WHAT is your next step for growth?” write one step you would like to take for growth during this study. Look back on your Personal Health Assessment for ideas.

HOW WILL YOU SERVE THE GROUP THIS WEEK? WILL YOU PRAY FOR THEM? SEND AN ENCOURAGING EMAIL? INVITE GROUP MEMBERS TO GET TOGETHER OUTSIDE OF THE GROUP? BE CREATIVE ABOUT HOW YOU PLAN TO BLESS OTHERS.

You can see that the Personal Health Plan contains space for you to record the ups and downs of your progress each week in the column labeled “My Progress.” And now with your spiritual partner you don’t have to do it alone, but together with a friend.

Tell your partner what step you chose. When you check in with your partner each week, the “Partner’s Progress” column on this chart will provide a place to record your partner’s progress in the goal he or she chose. On pages ???-??? you’ll find a Sample Personal Health Plan filled in as an example. For now, don’t worry about the WHERE, WHEN, and HOW questions on the Health Plan.

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WHEN WE LOVE

OTHERS, WE GROW IN OUR FAITH

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GO Let’s talk about how we can apply what we’ve learned, and how doing so will allow our lives to go and be a witness for Christ. Part of being a community includes how we live when we are not together—and how we represent our community through evangelism.

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29 In the first session we asked you to write some names in the Circles of Life diagram. Who did you identify as the people in your life who need to meet Jesus? Go back to the Circles of Life diagram on page ??? to help you think of the various people you come in contact with on a regular basis who need to know Jesus more deeply. Consider the following ideas for action and make a plan to follow through on one of them this week.

Consider inviting a friend to attend a weekend service with you and possibly plan to enjoy a meal together afterward. This can be a great opportunity to talk with someone about your faith in Jesus. This is a wonderful time to welcome a few friends into your group. Which of the people you listed could you invite? It’s possible that you may need to help your friend overcome obstacles to coming to a place where he or she can encounter Jesus. Does your friend need a ride to the group? Help with child care?

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1. Share your prayer requests in your group and then gather in smaller circles of three or four people to pray. Be sure to have everyone write down the personal requests of the members to use as a reminder to pray for your group throughout the week. (The Prayer and Praise Report is on page ???.)

2. Then pray for one another in your circle. Don’t put pressure on anyone to pray aloud. When you pray for each person, you may find it meaningful to hold hands or place your hands on another person’s shoulder. Jesus often touched those He healed to communicate His care for them.

Take a few minutes to talk about what it would take to make time with God a priority every day or even five or six days a week. Don’t demand an hour or even a half-hour of time; consider drawing near to God for a few minutes each day and gradually you will desire more. Use the Daily Devotions at the end of each session for drawing near to God. P | 77

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DAY 1. Romans 5: 1

Therefore, since we have been justified through faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ. REFLECT This verse tells us that belief, or faith, makes us right in God’s sight (we’re justified) and that we don’t have to worry (we have peace). Which of these are you particularly thankful for, and why?

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DAY 2. Romans 5: 2

(Jesus Christ), through whom we have gained access by faith into this grace in which we now stand. And we boast in the hope of the glory of God. REFLECT When it gets hard to persevere, what encouragement does this verse offer? What does it mean to stand in grace?

DAY 3. Romans 5: 3

Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; REFLECT If suffering produces good things in us, why do you think we spend so much time and effort trying to avoid it? DAY 4. Romans 5: 4

perseverance, character; and character, hope. REFLECT What do you think it means to have Christian character? What traits do you associate with good character? How does perseverance build character?

DAY 5. Romans 5: 5

And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us. REFLECT How, in your life, has the gift of the Holy Spirit enabled you to experience God’s love? DAY 6. Thoughts

Use the following space to write any thoughts God has put in your heart and mind about the things we have looked at in this session and during your Daily Devotions time this week.

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We sometimes mistakenly believe that as Christians, we should be happy all the time. But the Bible is full of stories of godly men and women who cried, who wept, who were broken by grief. Hannah is such a woman. She had blessings in her life: a home, a husband loved her. And yet, she longed to have a child. She wept before God, asking him to give her a son. Eventually, God responded to her prayers and grants her request. Sometimes, God meets us in the midst of our brokenness. The Bible promises that He will comfort those who mourn. So don’t assume that brokenness is a sign of weakness—often it’s a sign of our passion, our longing for more of God. Sometimes, it’s because we believe God is compassionate that we are able to weep—and then experience his sweet comfort.

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33 Last week, we talked about perseverance. Since we last met, what’s one situation in which you had to persevere?

34 Sit with your spiritual partner. If your partner is absent or if you are new to the group, join with another pair or someone who doesn’t yet have a partner. If you haven’t established your spiritual partnership yet, do it now. (Refer to the session two Serve section for help.)

Turn to your Personal Health Plan on page ??? now. Share with your partner how your time with God went this week. What is one thing you discovered? Did you make a commitment to a next step that you can share? What obstacles hindered you from following through this week? Make a note about your partner’s progress and how you can pray for him or her.

35 Our next session is the last in this study—a good time to pause and reflect on what you’ve experienced in this group, how you’ve grown. Talk about how you might worship God and celebrate his goodness in your final meeting.

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GROW

Use the following questions to guide your discussion of the teaching and stories you just experienced, and the Bible passage listed below.

NOTES

READ 1 SAMUEL 1

36 What was the source of Hannah’s pain? What was she believing God for? How did Hannah’s brokenness demonstrate her belief in God? 37 In the video, Dr. Wood talked about how Hannah was so grieved and wounded that she could not even articulate her pain. Have you ever felt so broken you couldn’t even find the words to express your grief? What happened? How did God meet you in that situation? 38 Hannah wept over her barrenness—she wanted a child. In your own life, think of the metaphor of barrenness. Is there a situation where you feel barren, like there is no life or energy, no answer to prayer? How are you praying about that? P | 91

39 In the video, Jeannie Mayo talked about giving the broken pieces of her life to God to make something pretty, and how she “decided to go after a new picture of the Father.” What broken pieces of your life do you sense that God is asking you to give to him in order to create something beautiful? 40 In the video, we heard that sometimes adversity becomes an opportunity to reach out to someone else. Tell about a time in your life when your brokenness enabled you to help someone else going through similar trials.

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Explore the Bible passages related to this sessionâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s theme as a group (if there is time) or on your own between sessions.

Read Psalm 30

Read John 20:1-18

Q What does this Psalm teach us about our sorrow and brokenness?

Q In this passage, who was crying? Why are they crying?

Q Tell about a time in your life when God turned your wailing into dancing, when he lifted you out of sadness into joy.

Q How did God respond to her tears? What happened to change her outlook in that moment?

Q Pick one verse from the Psalm that is particularly significant to you or relates to your life situation. Share the verse with the group, and tell why it is meaningful to you. P | 93

Q Tell about a time when it seemed that Jesus was absent from your life (as he seemed to Mary in the beginning of this passage). What incident or person helped you become aware of his presence again?

Read Isaiah 61:1-3

Q What promises does God make in this passage? Q What does it mean to bind up the brokenhearted? Q A broken heart is linked in this poem with being in prison, or being a captive. In what ways have you found this to be true in your experiences of brokenness?

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SERVE The Holy Spirit gives each of us gifts to serve the body— including your small group. When we use our gifts, everyone benefits: others are blessed, and we grow in our faith. Look at the following questions and decide how, specifically, you will serve this week.

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41 Is there an area of service that God has put on your heart to serve this group or the body of Christ in your local church? Commit to taking the first step and be willing to let God lead you to the ministry that expresses your passion. In your Personal Health Plan on page ???, next to the “Develop” icon, answer the “WHERE are you serving?” question. If you are not currently serving, note one area where you will consider serving.

42 Romans 12:15 says: “Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn.” Who is someone in your life who is currently mourning? According to this verse, how could you serve that person? spending time alone with God: in prayer, in studying and reflecting on God’s Word. Here are some simple ways to connect with God.

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WHEN WE LOVE

OTHERS, WE GROW IN OUR FAITH

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Let’s talk about how we can apply what we’ve learned, and how doing so will allow our lives to go and be a witness for Christ. Part of being a community includes how we live when we are not together—and how we represent our community through evangelism. We have found that groups that connect outside of the regular meeting time build stronger bonds and feel a greater sense of purpose. As a group, brainstorm about ways that you could reach out to the community around you together, to share the love of Jesus. Think particularly about this week’s lesson: where might you encounter people who are hurting and broken? How could you, as a group, “mourn with those who mourn” and share God’s love with them?

FRIENDS

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NEIGHBORS. SCHOOL. KIDS’ SPORTS TEAMS AND SO FORTH

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GYM. HOBBIES. HANGOUTS.

F or example, perhaps you’ll want to go as a group to visit a local nursing home or hospital, to simply show God’s love to the people who are there. Make plans to make this kind of visit this week with other group members.

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I s there someone whom you wouldn’t invite to your group but who still needs a connection? Would you be willing to have lunch or coffee with that person, catch up on life, and share something you’ve learned from this study? Jesus doesn’t call all of us to lead small groups, but he does call every disciple to spiritually multiply his or her life over time.

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WORSHIP Worship is not just singing or raising our handsâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;it is giving our attention to God. Our discussion has allowed us to give attention to one anotherâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;which is good and right because we are to love each other. But now we will spend some time giving God attention and honor.

1. Share your praises and prayer requests with one another. Record these on the Prayer and Praise Report on page ???. Then, spend time now praying for each other. 2. End your meeting by singing a song together or with someone closing the evening with a prayer.

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DAY 1. Psalm 6: 1, 2

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DAY 2. Psalm 6: 3, 4

DAY 3. Psalm 6: 5, 6

DAY 5. Psalm 6: 9, 10

DAY 4. Psalm 6: 7, 8

My eyes grow weak with sorrow; they fail because of all my foes. Away from me, all you who do evil, for the Lord has heard my weeping.

Use the following space to write any thoughts God has put in your heart and mind about the things we have looked at in this session and during your Daily Devotions time this week.

REFLECT How does the fact that God hears our weeping make you feel? Do you believe this to be true?

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CONNECT Open your group with prayer. Pray simply and briefly, saving more in-depth requests until the end of the meeting. Ask God to give you insights and wisdom as you study and discuss together. Telling our personal stories builds deeper connections among group members. Choose one of the activities below to build your connections within the group. What does it mean to obey God? True obedience involves far more than just avoiding sin and keeping the rules. It means being willing to be all in for God, to do whatever he asks—even if it is really difficult. Mary said yes, even though it meant certain ridicule and shame. She said yes even though God’s plan may have seemed strange or even illogical to her (the King of Glory born to a peasant?). She never hesitated. God asks us to give ourselves completely to him, and in return, he will bless us. It’s never easy to submit to God’s will, but if we do, the rewards are immeasurable. P | 111

45 All children occasionally disobey their parents. But they sometimes get it right and obey them. Tell about a time you, as a child, obeyed your parents—and were later glad you did so.

46 Take time in this final session to connect with your spiritual partner. What has God been showing you through these sessions about belief in God. Check in with each other about the progress you have made in your spiritual growth during this study. Make plans about whether you will continue in your relationship outside your Bible study group. P | 112

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Use the following questions to guide your discussion of the teaching and stories you just experienced, and the Bible passage listed below.

READ LUKE 1: 26 - 38

47 In the video, Heath Adamson said, “God has a habit of taking us down roads that we would never choose to travel down, and at the end of that road, there’s something beautiful waiting for us.” Tell about a time you saw this happen in your own life. What did you learn about yourself and God from that experience? 48 Look at the passage in Luke. According to the angel Gabriel, how did God view Mary, even before she said yes? How do you think that impacted Mary’s ability to say yes?

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49 Verse 37 says: “For no word from God will ever fail.” What situation in your life are you praying this verse for? 50 Which story or teaching in the video did God use to speak to you? What specific step did that story or teaching make you want to take in your life? 51 For most people, what barriers do you think get in the way of listening to the whispers of the Holy Spirit and obeying them? 52 In the video, we heard “The challenge for all of us is getting to the point where we’re willing to take the risk of saying yes.” What role does the Holy Spirit play in getting us to that point of saying yes? P | 116

GOD IS HERE

LISTENING TO

YOUR HEART

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Read Luke 22: 39 - 46

Q What difficult assignment did Jesus face? Q What was his prayer? Q What can we learn from him about how to handle difficult assignments from God?

FOR

Explore the Bible passages related to this session’s theme as a group (if there is time) or on your own between sessions.

Read Psalm 119: 1 - 16

Q What does verse 5 imply about the struggle to obey God? Q What are some of the benefits of obedience, according to this passage? Q According to verse 11, what can we do to strengthen ourselves again sin?

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Read Deut 30: 9 - 20

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53 Take a few minutes to discuss the future of your group. How many of you are willing to stay together as a group and work through another study together? If you have time, turn to the Small Group Agreement on page ??? and talk about any changes you would like to make as you move forward as a group.

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54 In your Personal Health Plan on page ???, next to the “Sharing” icon, answer the “WHEN are you shepherding another person in Christ?” question.

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55 Each of you share how you have done with inviting the people on the Circles of Life to church or your small group.

What specific conversations are you praying about for the weeks to come?

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WORSHIP

NOTES

Worship is not just singing or raising our hands—it is giving our attention to God. Our discussion has allowed us to give attention to one another—which is good and right because we are to love each other. But now we will spend some time giving God attention and honor.

56 Share your praises and prayer requests with one another. Record these on the Prayer and Praise Report on page ???. Then, spend time now praying for each other.

57 Obedience is about surrender. Turn to the Personal Health Plan on page ??? and individually consider the “HOW are you surrendering your heart?” question. Look to the Sample Personal Health Plan on page ??? for help. Share some of your thoughts in the group.

As this is the last meeting in this study, take some time to celebrate the work God has done in the lives of group members. Have each person in the group share some step of growth that they have noticed in another member. (In other words, no one will talk about themselves, but affirm others in the group). Make sure that each person gets affirmed and noticed and celebrated—whether the steps they’ve made are large or small. P | 129

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daily devotionals

SCAN NOW FOR EXTRA CONTENT FOR YOUR DAILY DEVOTIONALS.

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DAY 1. James 1: 22

Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says. REFLECT What word has God given you lately? What, specifically, is God asking you to do at this time?

DAY 2. James 1: 23, 24

Anyone who listens to the word but does not do what it says is like someone who looks at his face in a mirror and, after looking at himself, goes away and immediately forgets what he looks like. REFLECT Have you ever had the experience of reading God’s word but then quickly forgetting what it says (or not doing what it says)? What causes us to “forget” to obey God?

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DAY 3. James 1: 25

But whoever looks intently into the perfect law that gives freedom, and continues in it—not forgetting what they have heard, but doing it—they will be blessed in what they do.

REFLECT According to this verse, what does God promise those who obey his word? What do you think it means to “look intently into the perfect law”?

DAY 4. James 1: 26

Those who consider themselves religious and yet do not keep a tight rein on their tongues deceive themselves, and their religion is worthless. REFLECT What specific place or time in your week do you find it the hardest to control your tongue? Is it at work, or when you are with certain friends? When you are frustrated with your kids? What does this verse tell us about how our words are part of obedience? What role does the Spirit play in helping us control our tongue?

DAY 5. James 1: 27

Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world. REFLECT According to this verse, what specific actions does God want his obedient children to engage in? What does it mean, practically speaking, to look after orphans and widows? What does it mean to keep yourself from being polluted? DAY 6. Thoughts

Use the following space to write any thoughts God has put in your heart and mind about the things we have looked at in this session and during your Daily Devotions time this week.

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SUMMARY

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FAQ

ministry opportunities, and so

will be with you even if there are

forth–and if the group gets too

only two of you (Matthew 18:20).

small, it could be at risk of shutting

HOW DO WE HANDLE THE CHILD CARE NEEDS IN OUR GROUP?

WHAT IF THIS GROUP IS NOT WORKING FOR US?

Very carefully. Seriously, this can

You’re not alone! This could be

that you empower the group to

the result of a personality conflict,

openly brainstorm solutions. You

life stage difference, geographical

may try one option that works

distance, level of spiritual maturity,

for a while and then adjust over

HOW LONG WILL THIS GROUP MEET?

or any number of things. Relax.

time. Our favorite approach is for

Pray for God’s direction, and at the

adults to meet in the living room or

It’s totally up to the group–once

end of this 6-week study, decide

Agreement (pages ???-???) and

dining room, and to share the cost

you come to the end of this 6-week

whether to continue with this group

share the names of a few friends

of a babysitter (or two) who can

study. Most groups meet weekly for

or find another. You don’t buy the

you can invite to join you. But most

be with the kids in a different part

at least their first 6 weeks, but every

first car you look at or marry the

importantly, have fun before your

of the house. In this way, parents

other week can work as well. We

first person you date, and the same

study time begins.

don’t have to be away from their

strongly recommend that the group

goes with a group. Don’t bail out

children all evening when their

meet for the first six months on a

before the 6 weeks are up–God

children are too young to be left

weekly basis if at all possible. This

might have something to teach

at home. A second option is to

allows for continuity, and if people

you. Also, don’t run from conflict or

use one home for the kids and a

miss a meeting they aren’t gone for

prejudge people before you have

second home (close by or a phone

a whole month.

given them a chance. God is still

call away) for the adults. A third

working in you too!

idea is to rotate the responsibility

WHAT DO WE DO ON THE FIRST NIGHT OF OUR GROUP? Like all fun things in life–have a party! A “get to know you” coffee, dinner, or dessert is a great way to launch a new study. You may want to review the Group

WHERE DO WE FIND NEW MEMBERS FOR OUR GROUP? This can be troubling, especially for new groups that have only a few people or for existing groups that lose a few people along the way. We encourage you to pray with your group and then brainstorm a list of people from work, church, your neighborhood, your children’s school, family, the gym, and so forth. Then have each group member invite several of the people on his or her list. Another good strategy is to ask church leaders to

down. If you and your group stay open, you’ll be amazed at the people God sends your way. The next person just might become a friend for life. You never know!

At the end of this study, each group member may decide if he or she

WHO IS THE LEADER?

wants to continue on for another

Most groups have an official leader.

6-week study. Some groups launch

But ideally, the group will mature

relationships for years to come,

and members will rotate the

and others are stepping-stones into

leadership of meetings. We have

another group experience. Either

discovered that healthy groups

way, enjoy the journey.

rotate hosts/leaders and homes on a regular basis. This model ensures

make an announcement or allow a

CAN WE DO THIS STUDY ON OUR OWN?

that all members grow, give their

bulletin insert.

Absolutely! This may sound crazy

their gifts. This study guide and

but one of the best ways to do No matter how you find members,

the Holy Spirit can keep things on

this study is not with a full house

it’s vital that you stay on the

track even when you rotate leaders.

but with a few friends. You may

lookout for new people to join

Christ has promised to be in your

choose to gather with one other

your group. All groups tend to go

midst as you gather. Ultimately, God

couple who would enjoy going out

through healthy attrition–the result

is your leader each step of the way.

or having a quiet dinner and then

of moves, releasing new leaders,

walking through this study. Jesus

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unique contribution, and develop

be a sensitive issue. We suggest

of providing a lesson or care for the children either in the same home or in another home nearby. This can be an incredible blessing for kids. Finally, the most common idea is to decide that you need to have a night to invest in your spiritual lives individually or as a couple, and to make your own arrangements for childcare. No matter what decision the group makes, the best approach is to dialogue openly about both the problem and the solution.

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OUR VALUES GROUP ATTENDANCE

To give priority to the group meeting. We will call or email if we will be late or absent. (Completing the Group Calendar on page ??? will minimize this issue.)

To provide a predictable environment where participants experience authentic community and spiritual growth.

SAVE ENVIRONMENT

To help create a safe place where people can

RESPECT DIFFERENCES

To be gentle and gracious to people with

be heard and feel loved. (Please, no quick answers, snap judgments, or simple fixes.)

different spiritual maturity, personal opinions, temperaments, or â&#x20AC;&#x153;imperfectionsâ&#x20AC;? in fellow group members. We are all works in progress.

CONFIDENTIALITY

To keep anything that is shared strictly confidential and within the group, and to avoid sharing improper information about those outside the group.

ENCOURAGEMENT FOR GROWTH

To be not just takers but givers of life. We

SHARED OWNERSHIP

To remember that every member is a minister

want to spiritually multiply our life by serving others with our God-given gifts.

and to ensure that each attender will share a small team role or responsibility over time (See the Team Roles on pages ???-???.)

ROTATING HOSTS/ LEADERS AND HOMES

To encourage different people to host the group in their homes, and to rotate the responsibility of facilitating each meeting. (See the Group Calendar on page ???.)

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OUR EXPECTATIONS

CALENDAR Planning and calendaring can help ensure the greatest participation at every meeting. At the end of each meeting, review this calendar. Be sure to include a regular rotation of host homes and leaders, and don’t forget birthdays, socials, church events, holidays, and mission/ ministry projects. Go to www.lifetogether.com for an electronic copy of this form and other ideas for your group to do together.

REFRESHMENTS/MEALTIMES

CHILDCARE

WHEN WE WILL MEET (DAY OF WEEK)

DATE

LESSON

Monday, January 15

HOST HOME

DESSERT/ MEAL

LEADER

Steve and Laura’s House

Joe

Bill

WHERE WE WILL MEET (PLACE)

WE WILL BEGIN AT (TIME)

AND END AT

WE WILL DO OUR BEST TO HAVE SOME OR ALL OF US ATTEND A WORSHIP SERVICE TOGETHER. OUR PRIMARY WORSHIP SERVICE TIME WILL BE

DATE OF THIS AGREEMENT

DATE WE WILL REVIEW THIS AGREEMENT AGAIN

WHO (OTHER THAN THE LEADER) WILL REVIEW THIS AGREEMENT AT THE END OF THIS STUDY

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TEAM ROLES

TEAM PLAYERS

CONNECT TEAM (Fellowship and Community Building)

CRAWL: Host a social event or group activity in the first week or two.

The Bible makes clear that every member, not just the small group leader, is a minister in the body of Christ. In a healthy small group, every member takes on some small role or responsibility. It’s more fun and effective if you team up on these roles. Review the team roles and responsibilities below, and have each member volunteer for a role or participate on a team. If someone doesn’t know where to serve or is holding back, have the group suggest a team or role. It’s best to have one or two people on each team so you have each of the five purposes covered. Serving in even a small capacity will not only help your leader but also will make the group more fun for everyone. Don’t hold back. Join a team! The opportunities below are broken down by the five functions and then by a crawl (beginning step), walk (intermediate step), or run (advanced step). Try to cover at least the crawl and walk roles, and select a role that matches your group, your gifts, and your maturity. If you can’t find a good step or just want to see other ideas, go to www.lifetogether.com and see what other groups are choosing.

WALK: Create a list of uncommitted members and then invite them to an open house or group social.

RUN: Plan a twenty-four-hour retreat or weekend getaway for the group. Lead the Connecting time each week for the group.

TEAM ROLES

TEAM PLAYERS

GROW TEAM (Discipleship and Spiritual Growth)

CRAWL: Coordinate the spiritual partners for the group. Facilitate a three- or fourperson discussion circle during the Bible study portion of your meeting. Coordinate the discussion circles. WALK: Tabulate the Personal Health Assessments and Health Plans in a summary to let people know how you’re doing as a group. Encourage personal devotions through group discussions and pairing up with spiritual (accountability) partners. RUN: Take the group on a prayer walk, or plan a day of solitude, fasting, or personal retreat.

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TEAM ROLES

TEAM PLAYERS

TEAM ROLES

TEAM PLAYERS

SERVE TEAM (Discovering Your God-Given Design for Ministry)

WORSHIP TEAM (Surrendering Your Heart to Worship)

CRAWL: Ensure that every member finds a group role or team he or she enjoys.

CRAWL: Maintain the group’s Pray and Praise Report or journal.

WALK: Have every member take a gift test in this study guide and determine your group’s gifts. Plan a ministry project together.

WALK: Lead a brief time of worship each week (at the beginning or end of your meeting), either a cappella or a worship DVD/CD.

RUN: Help each member decide on a way to use his or her unique gifts somewhere in the church.

RUN: Plan a unique time of worship through Communion, foot washing, night of prayer, or nature walking.

TEAM ROLES

TEAM PLAYERS

GROW TEAM (Discipleship and Spiritual Growth)

CRAWL: Coordinate the group’s Prayer and Praise Report of friends and family who don’t know Christ.

WALK: Search for group mission opportunities and plan a cross-cultural group activity. RUN: Take a small-group “vacation” to host a six-week group in your neighborhood or office. Then come back together with your current group.

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Briefly check in each week and write down your personal plans and progress for the next week (or even for the next few weeks). This could be done (before or after the meeting) on the phone, through an E-mail message, or even in person from time to time.

GIFTS o Preaching (1 Cor. 14:3)

o Missions (1 Cor. 9:19-23, Acts 13:2-3)

o Music (Psalm 150)

o Evangelism (Acts 8:26-40)

o Service (Acts 6:1-7, 1 Cor 12:28)

o Arts & Crafts (Exodus 31:3-11)

o Discernment (1 John 4:1)

o Mercy (Romans 12:8)

o Healing (James 5:14-16)

o Apostle (Romans 15:20)

o Hospitality (1 Peter 4:9-10)

o Miracles (Mark 11:23-24)

o Teaching (Eph. 4:12-13)

o Pastoring (1 Peter 5:2-4)

o Hosting (Heb. 13:7, 17)

o Encouragement (Acts 14:22)

o Giving (II Cor. 8:1-7)

o Administration (1 Cor. 14:40)

o Wisdom (1 Cor. 2:1, 6-16)

o Intercession (Col. 1:9-12)

o Faith (Romans 4:18-21)

MY NAME:

OUR PLANS

SPIRITUAL PARTNERâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;S NAME:

OUR PROGRESS

o Organize

o Serve/Help

o Acquire/Possess

o Excel

o Perform

o Improve

o Repair

o Lead/Be in Charge

o Persevere

o Follow the Rules

o Prevail

o Influence

EXPERIENCES o Spiritual

o Pioneer

o Organize

o Operate/Maintain

o Serve/Help

o Acquire/Possess

o Excel

o Perform

o Improve

o Repair

o Lead/Be in Charge

o Persevere

o Follow the Rules

o Prevail

o Influence

o Painful

o Educational

o Vocational

WEEK 2

o Pioneer

o Operate/Maintain

WEEK 3

o Design/Develop

WEEK 1

INTERESTS

o Planning

o Evaluating

o Managing

o Researching

o Artistic/Graphics

o Interviewing

o Counseling

o Teaching

o Writing/Editing

o Promoting

o Repairing

o Feeding

o Recall

o Mechanical Operating

o Resourceful

o Counting/Classifying

o Public Relations

o Welcoming

o Composing

o Landscaping

o Arts & Crafts

o Decorating

o Musical

o Ministry

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o Recruiting

WEEK 6

STRENGTHS o Entertaining

WEEK 4

o Ministry

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CONNECT

I am deepening my understanding of and friendship with God in community with others.

1 2 3 4 5

I am cultivating relationships with non-Christians and praying for God to give me natural opportunities to share his love.

1 2 3 4 5

I am growing in my ability both to share and to show my love to others.

1 2 3 4 5

I am praying and learning about where God can use me and our group cross-culturally for missions.

1 2 3 4 5

I am willing to share my real needs for prayer and support from others.

1 2 3 4 5

I am investing my time in another person or group who needs to know Christ.

1 2 3 4 5

I am resolving conflict constructively and am willing to forgive others.

1 2 3 4 5

I am regularly inviting unchurched or unconnected friends to my church or small group.

1 2 3 4 5

CONNECT TOTAL

GO TOTAL

GROW

WORSHIP

I have a growing relationship with God through regular time in the Bible and in prayer (spiritual habits).

1 2 3 4 5

I am experiencing more of the presence and power of God in my everyday life.

1 2 3 4 5

I am experiencing more of the characteristics of Jesus Christ (love, patience, gentleness, courage, self-control, etc.) in my life.

1 2 3 4 5

I am faithfully attending services and my small group and to worship God.

1 2 3 4 5

I am avoiding addictive behaviors (food, television, busyness, and the like) to meet my needs.

1 2 3 4 5

I am seeking to please God by surrendering every area of my life (health, decisions, finances, relationships, future, etc.) to him.

1 2 3 4 5

I am spending time with a Christian friend (spiritual partner) who celebrates and challenges my spiritual growth.

1 2 3 4 5

I am accepting the things I cannot change and becoming increasingly grateful for the life Iâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve been given.

1 2 3 4 5

GROW TOTAL

WORSHIP TOTAL

SERVE I have discovered and am further developing my unique Godgiven design.

1 2 3 4 5

I am regularly praying for God to show me opportunities to serve him and others.

1 2 3 4 5

I am serving in a regular (once a month or more) ministry in the church or community.

1 2 3 4 5

I am a team player in my small group by sharing some group role or responsibility.

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This worksheet could become your single most important feature in this study. On it you can record your personal priorities before the Father. It will help you live a healthy spiritual life, balancing all five functions.

PURPOSE

PLAN

CONNECT

WHO are you connecting with spiritually?

Bill and I will meet weekly by email or phone.

GROW

WHAT is your next step for growth?

Regular devotions or journaling my prayers 2x/week.

SERVE

Go through GIFTS Class WHEN are you shepherding another in Christ?

Shepherding Bill at lunch or hosting a starter group in the fall WORSHIP

HOW are you surrendering your heart?

Help with out teenager New job situation

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PARTNER’S PROGRESS

3/5

Talked during our group

Figured out our goals together

3/12

Missed our time together

3/26

Met for coffee and review of my goals

Met for coffee

4/10

mailed prayer requests

Bill sent me his prayer requests

3/5

Great start on personal journaling

Read Mark 1-6 in one sitting!

3/12

Traveled and not doing well this week

Journaled about Christ as Healer

3/26

Back on track

Busy and distracted; asked for prayer

3/1

Need to call Children’s Pastor

3/26

Group did a serving project together

Agreed to lead group worship

3/30

Regularly rotating leadership

Led group worship–great job!

3/5

Called Jim to see if he’s open to joining our group

Wanted to invite somebody, but didn’t

3/12

Preparing to start a group in fall

3/30

Group prayed for me

Told friend something he’s learning about Christ

3/5

Overwhelmedbut encouraged

Scared to lead worship

3/15

Felt heard and more settled

Issue with wifE

3/30

Read book on teens

Glad he took on his fear

WHERE are you serving?

Serving in Children’s Ministry

DATE MY PROGRESS

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PURPOSE

PLAN

CONNECT

WHO are you connecting with spiritually?

GROW

WHAT is your next step for growth?

SERVE

WHERE are you serving?

WHEN are you shepherding another in Christ?

WORSHIP

HOW are you surrendering your heart?

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DATE

MY PROGRESS

PARTNERâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;S PROGRESS

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you drink it, in remembrance of me.” For whenever you eat this break and drink this cup, you proclaim the Lord’s death until he comes.

Looking for a wonderful means of worshiping as a group? Why not lead your group in sharing the Lord’s Supper? If you’ve never done this before, the idea certainly seems daunting, but here is a simple form by which your small group can share this ordinance of the church. Of course, churches vary in their treatment of Communion so you may need to adapt these suggestions to your church’s beliefs.

Steps in Serving Communion 1 Out of the context of your own experience, say something brief about God’s love, forgiveness, grace, mercy, commitment, tenderheartedness or faithfulness. Connect your words with the personal stories of the group. For example, “These past few weeks I’ve experienced God’s mercy in the way He untangled the situation with my son. And I’ve seen God show mercy to others of us here too, especially to Jean and P | 157

Roger.” If you prefer, you can write down ahead of time what you want to say. 2 Read 1 Corinthians 11:2326*: The Lord Jesus, on the night he was betrayed, took bread, and when he had given thanks, he broke it and said, “This is my body, which is for you; do this in remembrance of me.” In the same way, after supper he took the cup, saying, “This cup is the new covenant in my blood; do this, whenever

3 Pray silently, and pass the bread around the circle. While the bread is being passed, you may want to reflect quietly, sing a simple praise song, or listen to a worship tape.

Here are some other good Communion passages: Matthew 26:26-29, Mark 14:22-25, Luke 22:14-20, 1 Corinthians 10:16-21 or 1 Corinthians 11:17-34.

4 When everyone has received the bread, remind them that this represents Jesus’ broken body on their behalf. Simply state, “Jesus said, ‘Do this in remembrance of me.’ Let us eat together,” and eat the break as a group. 5 Pray silently, and serve the cup. You may pass a small tray, serve people individually, or have them pick up a cup from the table. 6 When everyone has been served, remind them that the cup represents Jesus’ blood shed for them. Simply state, “The cup of the new covenant is Jesus Christ’s blood shed for you. Jesus said, ‘Do this in remembrance of me.’ Let us drink together.” Then drink the juice in a group. P | 158

o Day 15 Mark 8:1-21

When we’ve sat at 30 DAYS THROUGH THE GOSPEL OF MARK

o Day 16 Mark 8:22-9:1 o Day 17 Mark 9:2-32

Imagine sitting at the feet of Jesus himself: the Teacher who knows how to live life well, the Savior who died for you, the Lord who commands the universe. Like his first disciples, you can follow him around, watch what he does, listen to what he says, and pattern your life after his. Find a quiet place, and have ready a notebook or journal in which you can write what you learn and what you want to say back to God. You may also use the Daily Devotions page at the end of each session of this study.

o Day 18 Mark 9:33-50 o Day 19 Mark 10:1-31

this ourselves, the sense of a real, alive, present Jesus has been breathtaking. We pray you’ll have the same experience.

o Day 20 Mark 10:32-52 o Day 21 Mark 11:1-19 o Day 22 Mark 11:20-33 o Day 23 Mark 12:1-17

Day 1 Mark 1:1-20 o

o Day 8 Mark 4:21-41

o Day 24 Mark 12:18-44

o Day 2 Mark 1:21-45

o Day 9 Mark 5:1-20

o Day 25 Mark 13:1-37

o Day 3 Mark 2:1-12

o Day 10 Mark 5:21-43

o Day 26 Mark 14:1-31

o Day 4 Mark 2:13-28

o Day 11 Mark 6:1-29

o Day 27 Mark 14:32-72

o Day 5 Mark 3:1-19

o Day 12 Mark 6:30-56

o Day 28 Mark 15:1-20

o Day6 Mark3:20-35

o Day 13 Mark 7:1-23

o Day 29 Mark 15:21-47

o Day 7 Mark 4:1-20

o Day 14 Mark 7:24-37

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the Master’s feet like

It’s helpful to have one or two simple questions in mind to focus your reading. Here are some suggestions: What do I learn from the life of Christ (his identity, personality, priorities)? How does he want me to live differently?(his identity, personality, priorities)? How does he want me to live differently? P | 160

PRAYER REQUESTS

PRAISE REPORTS

SESSION 1 “I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing.” (John 15:5) SESSION 2 No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us. (1 John 4:12) SESSION 3 Just as a body, though one, has many parts, but all its many parts form one body, so it is with Christ. For we were all baptized by one Spirit so as to form one body—whether Jews or Gentiles, slave or free—and we were all given the one Spirit to drink. (1 Corinthians 12:12, 13) SESSION 4 “But go and learn what this means: ‘I desire mercy, not sacrifice.’ For I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners.” (Matthew 9:12)

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If you’re starting a new group, try planning an “open house” before your first formal group meeting. Even if you only have two to four core members, it’s a great way to break the ice and to consider prayerfully who else might be open to join you over the next few weeks. You can also use this kick-off meeting to hand out study guides, spend some time getting to know each other, discuss each person’s expectations for the group and briefly pray for each other. A simple meal or good desserts always make a kickoff meeting more fun. After people introduce themselves and share how they ended up being at the meeting (you can play a game to see who has the wildest story!), have everyone respond to a few icebreaker questions: “What is your favorite family vacation?” or “What is one thing you love about your church/our community?” P | 163

or “What are three things about your life growing up that most people here don’t know?” Next, ask everyone to tell what he or she hopes to get out of the study. You might want to review the Small Group Agreement and talk about each person’s expectations and priorities. Finally, set an open chair (maybe two) in the center of your group and explain that it represents someone who would enjoy or benefit from this group but who isn’t here yet. Ask people to pray about whom they could invite to join the group over the next few weeks. Hand out postcards and have everyone write an invitation or two. Don’t worry about ending up with too many people; you can always have one discussion circle in the living room and another in the dining room after you watch the lesson. Each group could then report prayer requests and progress at the end of the session. P | 164

TEN COMMON LEADERSHIP EXPERIENCES. WELCOME TO LIFE OUT IN FRONT!

1 Sweaty palms are a healthy sign. The Bible says God is gracious to the humble. Remember who is in control; the time to worry is when you’re not worried. Those who are soft in heart (and sweaty palmed) are those whom God is sure to speak through. 2 Seek support. Ask your leader, co-leader, or close friend to pray for you and prepare with you before the session. Walking through the study will help you anticipate potentially difficult questions and discussion topics. 3 Bring your uniqueness to the study. Lean into who you are and how God wants you to uniquely lead the study. P | 165

4 Prepare. Prepare. Prepare. Go through the session several times. If you are using the DVD, listen to the teaching segment and Leadership Lifter. Consider writing in a journal or fasting for a day to prepare yourself for what God wants to do. 5 Don’t wait until the last minute to prepare. 6 Ask for feedback so you can grow. Perhaps in an email or on cards handed out at the study, have everyone write down three things you did well and one thing you could improve on. Don’t get defensive, but show an openness to learn and grow.

7 Use online resources. There are many notable small group leader blogs and resources available. 8 Prayerfully consider launching a new group. This doesn’t need to happen overnight, but God’s heart is for this to happen over time. Not all Christians are called to be leaders or teachers, but we are all called to be “shepherds” of a few someday.

10 Prayerfully consider whom you would like to pass the baton to next week. It’s only fair. God is ready for the next member of your group to go on the faith journey you just traveled. Make it fun, and expect God to do the rest.

9 Share with your group what God is doing in your heart. God is searching for those whose hearts are fully his. Share your trials and victories. We promise that people will relate.

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TOP TEN IDEAS FOR NEW LEADERS

Congratulations! You have responded to the call to help shepherd Jesus’ flock. There are a few other tasks in the family of God that surpass the contribution you will be making. As you prepare to lead, whether it is one session or the entire series, here are a few thoughts to keep in mind. We encourage you to read these and review them with each new discussion leader before he or she leads.

1 Remember that you are not alone. God knows everything about you, and He knew that you would be asked to lead your group. Remember that it is common for all good leaders to feel that they are not ready to lead. Moses, Solomon, Jeremiah and Timothy - they all were reluctant to lead. God promises, “Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you” (Hebrews 13:5). Whether you are leading for one evening, for several weeks, or for a lifetime, P | 167

you will be blessed as you serve. 2 Don’t try to do it alone. Pray right now for God to help you build a healthy leadership team. If you can enlist a co-leader to help you lead the group, you will find your experience to be much richer. This is your chance to involve as many people as you can in building a healthy group. All you have to do is call and ask people to help, you’ll be surprised at the response.

3 Just be yourself. If you won’t be you, who will? God wants you to use your unique gifts and temperament. Don’t try to do things exactly like another leader; do them in a way that fits you! Just admit it when you don’t have an answer, and apologize when you make a mistake. Your group will love you for it, and you’ll sleep better at night! 4 Prepare for your meeting ahead of time. Review the session and the leader’s notes, and write down your responses to each question. Pay special attention to exercises that ask group members to do something other than engage in discussion.

These exercises will help your group live what the Bible teaches, not just talk about it. Be sure you understand how an exercise works, and bring any necessary supplies (such as paper and pens) to your meeting. If the exercise employs one of the items in the Appendices, be

sure to look over that item so you’ll know how it works. Finally, review “Outline for Each Session” so you’ll remember the purpose of each section in the study. 5 Pray for your group members by name. Before you begin your session, go around the room in your mind and pray for each member by name. You may want to review the prayer list at least once a week. Ask God to use your time together to touch the heart of every person uniquely. Expect God to lead you to whomever He wants you to encourage or challenge in a special way. If you listen, God will surely lead! 6 When you ask a question, be patient. Someone will eventually respond. Sometimes people need a moment or two of silence to think about the question, and if silence doesn’t bother you, it won’t bother anyone else. After someone P | 168

responds, affirm the response with a simple “thanks” or “good job.” Then ask, “How about somebody else?” or “Would someone who hasn’t shared like to add anything?” Be sensitive to new people or reluctant members who aren’t ready to say, pray or do anything. If you give them a safe setting, they will blossom over time. 7 Provide transitions between questions. When guiding the discussion, always read aloud the transitional paragraphs and the questions. Ask the group if anyone would like to read the paragraph or Bible passage. Don’t call on anyone, but ask for a volunteer, and then be patient until someone begins. Be sure to thank the person who reads aloud. 8 Break up into small groups each week, or they won’t stay. If your group has more than seven people, we strongly encourage you to have the group gather P | 169

sometimes in discussion circles of three or four people during the SERVE or GO sections of the study. With a greater opportunity to talk in a small circle, people will connect more with the study, apply more quickly what they’re learning and ultimately get more out of it. A small circle also encourages a quiet person to participate and tends to minimize the effects of a more vocal or dominant member. It can also help people feel more loved in your group. When you gather again at the end of the section, you can have one person summarize the highlights from each circle. Small circles are also helpful during prayer time. People who are unaccustomed to praying aloud will feel more comfortable trying it with just two or three others. Also, prayer requests won’t take as much time, so circles will have more time to actually pray. When you gather back with the whole group, you can have one person from

each circle briefly update everyone on the prayer requests. People are more willing to pray in small circles if they know that the whole group will hear all the prayer requests. 9 Rotate facilitators weekly. At the end of each meeting, ask the group who should lead the following week. Let the group help select your weekly facilitator. You may be perfectly capable of leading each time, but you will help others grow in their faith and gifts if you give them opportunities to lead. You can use the Small Group Calendar to fill in the names of all meeting leaders at once if you prefer.

10 One final challenge (for new or first time leaders):

efore your first B opportunity to lead, look up each of the five passages listed below. Read each one as a devotional exercise to help equip yourself with a shepherd’s heart. Trust us on this one. If you do this, you will be more than ready for your first meeting.

MATTHEW 9:36 1 PETER 5:2-4 PSALM 23 EZEKIEL 34:11-16 1 THESSALONIANS 2:7-8, 11-12 P | 170