Sensitelligent - a Guide to Life by LightSpira AB

Book summary Welcome home Life Traveller! This is your guide to a peaceful place inside, filled with joy and love. It will teach you how to use your feelings and all of your senses to understand the experiences that life brings. Sensitelligent is "the intelligent use of your senses" and this book offers practical advice on how to use all of those senses - both physical and higher. For many, spirituality is a mystery, but this book will bring deep spiritual knowledge in a logical and practical way related to your life situation and work environment. It will guide you to transform fear and control issues and enable you to trust and intuit, helping you to build trust in yourself and your experiences - one of the most important steps to a harmonious life. Open this book at any page and follow your own path. Learn to be present and to trust the first feeling you have - the intuitive thought that guides you to higher consciousness. You will become more positive and grow with the guidance and spiritual wisdom. This book will invite you to return to it many times as you gain more insight. Let it be a companion on your Life Journey! Critics in Kindred Spirit: Sensitelligent: a guide to Life starts well with the phrase “love is” and this sets the tone for the book. Sensitelligent means "the intelligent use of your Senses”. The book has four sections: Universal Values, Trust and Intuition, Fear and Control and a reference section that provides more in-depth knowledge on some of the topics. It is set out within these sections as a series of Chapters based on themes. For example “I love myself for who I am” expands upon what that means and develops it in terms of what happens when you love yourself, what occurs in the working environment (when you love yourself) and finally gives practical methods to explore the theme further. It is possible to use this book as a reference to dip into. So it can be read in random chapters, almost like an intuitive tool. There is also an accompanying website and Youtube clip that I found about the concept. After many years of searching for spiritual wisdom, this book included much that I already knew to be true about mirrors, observing the self, anger, fear, energy and so on. It reminded me of Diana Cooper’s book on spiritual laws, but put in a different context and format. It was very wise, deep and true. Useful for a new spiritual seeker as it contains easy going practical advice and examples. Reading it made me feel like I was being given a big hug. My only caveat about this book was the cost, which seemed high for a 330 page paperback. Anne Feakes

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Love is. Where love is fear is not. It sparkles in my eyes like the stars! My heart is like a glowing fire on a mid-winters night. Love flows like the energy of spring, bringing new life to all things. I am like the water in a mountain stream. Lively and full of music. I feel relaxed and I have a smile on my face. Nothing stands in my way. I am free to create anything. I am totally empty and full at the same time. I am all things and nothing. I am flowing. Everything blends with me. I am at one with all there is. I am.

A personal conversation I do not believe you; this is too incredible to be true. Prove it to me! There is no proof going into the future. I know that you would like to have proof and guarantees that everything will work out, but there is no proof. Our feelings provide guidance on the way forward. I do not need, and will not be given any proof. The signposts are there along the way because I have a clear and open mind. I do not fear the unknown and I know that what comes my way is right for me. But how can you trust when you know that this has never worked? The harder I try to make it work, the harder I fall, and that makes me upset, angry and miserable. This is who I am â&#x20AC;&#x201C; I am miserable and there is no way that I can ever make it. My friends tell me that I am nice and that I deserve something better, but I suspect that they only tell me that because they pity me. I am a nobody and I might as well stay that way because all efforts only cause me more pain. You are what you choose to be. I know that you cannot comprehend reality in the same way as I see it. You see it with logical eyes where everything is black and white. Let go of judgement and fear and you will have less pain and worry. You will also

invite joy, love and peace. You will never have to fear anything and your life will not have to be controlled. Unexpected and miraculous things will happen and you will be shining! But that means that the light will be on me. What about all the other people who have more knowledge and experience? Why should I shine and not them? Now you are again being logical about it. Why would you take the space of someone else? Why can you not shine at the same time as others? But what would other people think? I do not want to step on anyone’s toes. Or maybe that is exactly what I should do. Yes I do want to have more space. I know that I am talented, but I have stepped back because there have always been other people who knew more than me. Maybe I should get on the stage and demand that they listen to me. That’s what I will do! Thank you for the advice, I will try that immediately. Hey, wait a second. I did not say that you should demand more space. I just tried to explain that it is good to always be in your space – so that you stay in your power and then, because you always are true to yourself, you are also true to others. The space that you claim does not cause others to have less space. Do not impose your opinion on them. They are free to do as they want and listen if they choose to. But I want to be in control now. It is time for them to listen to me. I will demand to be heard. The only thing that you will achieve with that is that they will be angry with you because you impose your opinions on them. Concentrate on drawing the attention of people who are interested in listening to what you have to say. But please make sure 6

that you believe in what you say, and that you do it from your heart. What is the point in having people listen to you if you cannot say it with your heart? But I am not free to speak from my heart. There are rules and I do not like them. But why do you stay if you do not like the rules and your circumstances? I do not have any alternatives. There are always alternatives. That is not true. I do not see any options. When there are no options, how can I choose? There are always options, but you may not see them from where you are, and you may also fear the consequences of the alternatives. You can decide not to be in the situation that you are in, even if you do not know what the alternative is. It is also about how you choose to see your situation and if you accept it or not. Acceptance is the key to change. Accept the situation. Acknowledge that you do not like the situation you are in. Maybe you are stuck because you are afraid of change? Open up and give yourself permission to receive solutions! You are right, I am afraid of change. I want to be in control of my life! That probably means that you miss out on many opportunities that you are being provided with; you choose not to see them as you are too afraid to make the change. What is it that you are afraid of? What is there to fear?

Hey, come on, be real. The world is full of things to be afraid of. Have you never heard of unemployment, starvation, war, kidnapping, car crashes, cancer, death. I can make the list longer if you want! I get your point, but I choose to see the world from a higher dimension. Your fears are as real as you make them and you also attract what you fear. But have you thought that you also attract other things that you focus your mind on. How about a nice, calm walk in nature? Or a warm meeting with a friend? Or maybe a nice day at work with a lot of inspiration? It is all about what you focus your mind on. And yes, maybe you need to be reminded from time to time about the importance of focusing on the positive and accepting negative experiences in life as opportunities for growth. That is what I am constantly doing, but because you continue to take things personally and because you need proof of everything, then you end up seeing it differently. I guess so, and I do not understand your way of looking at things. That is because you are in a different level of consciousness and you and I need to cooperate in a better way. You are needed in order to make things happen in a structured way in the physical world. I am of higher consciousness and that is why I can understand you, and why you have difficulties in understanding me. I would like us to make a journey together so that we can cooperate and coexist in harmony with our energies. That is why I have written down the concept of “fear and control,” where I explain everything that creates blocks and holds us back, and “trust and intuition” which will help us concentrate on the positive aspects so that we can hold the right focus. I have even included a reference section for more in-depth study of the relevant and related subjects. I explain why you and I are so different and also what happens when we come together and work in harmony.

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I accept..................................................................39 I am in my power................................................43 I am present..........................................................47 I am understanding my pain.............................51 I ask for advice and guidance............................55 I create through intuition...................................59 I decide..................................................................63 I follow my inner compass.................................67 I forgive.................................................................71 I love myself for who I am.................................75 I love others for who they are............................79 I say no to old thought patterns........................83 I speak my truth with clarity.............................87 I stay open to receive the unexpected..............91 I take responsibility for my actions...................95 I take responsibility for my feelings.................99 I trust...................................................................103 My presence is neutral......................................107

Trust and Intuition

What does it mean to accept?

When you accept things as they are, then it is possible to be fully present. And the opposite is that you cannot be present if you do not accept a situation. If someone is angry with you, projecting blame onto you, or you are being accused of something you have not done, then you may fall into the trap of reacting in a similar way. If you do, then both of you are caught in the trap of two Egos. Your respective Egos will fight back by projecting the blame onto the other. This method of dealing with a negative situation only leads to negativity and a further separation from true communication. Do you accept everything? This might sound strange, but of course you can. You can accept the fact that you are in a situation that you do not like (this is accepting that you do not like the situation), but you can also decide to step out of a situation that is unpleasant. When you trust and are free from fear, then you will, in an instant, accept the situation and step out as you follow your inner compass. Then you are true to yourself.

what happens within you when you accept?

By accepting a situation, you are stepping out of taking things personally and judging others. You may ask how is it possible not to take it personally when a person is attack39

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ing you about your work. Nothing is personal. Your Ego is talking to you whenever you take something personally. The Ego likes this drama as it creates a reason for the Ego’s identity. Any feedback you receive from another person is teaching you something. By not taking it personally, you do not get caught up in the drama, and acceptance fills that place. You are having an experience, and by accepting that experience you are being present, and by being present you are in your power of truth. For example, if someone is yelling at you, your acceptance will help direct your inner power to say “no” and “stop” to that person. Then ask calmly “Why are you shouting at me?” In this manner, your acceptance is used to help direct the anger back to the person who is yelling at you by making that person responsible for their actions. When you accept, no drama or victim scenarios can rise to cloud your inner truth. Acceptance takes you away from the Ego’s emotional responses. By accepting, you can hold any experience without becoming lost in it. Then you are in your light.

What happens in your environment when you accept?

By receiving the experience and what it is showing you, you accept with gratitude. Then you acknowledge that you have understood what the situation was showing you. Everything negative that comes to you in this way is turned around into a positive energy through your acceptance. Your acceptance makes the environment and the people around you stronger and more positive.

How do people who accept influence a working environment?

They create a positive energy force that will embrace everyone. This will allow you and others to approach a colleague knowing that they can accept what you wish to share without taking it personally. Then true dialogue can occur.

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What methods are there to accept?

• Be present at all times. See chapter “I am present.” • In any situation where you feel attacked, take a step back and breathe. Respond in a way that is friendly, without attacking back. • Be true to yourself and you will find that your acceptance of others will be less difficult. • Learn to look beyond what is being given to you. In this way you will find solutions that are not created by your Ego. • If someone wants something that you also would like to have, can you be in your heart and give it up freely? • Do not criticise or judge.

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Anger...................................................................117 Denial..................................................................123 Doubt...................................................................127 Escape..................................................................131 Expectations.......................................................135 Fear......................................................................139 Guilt.....................................................................145 Identity................................................................149 Pain......................................................................155 Past Experience..................................................161 Projection............................................................165 Protection............................................................169 Rejection..............................................................173 Speculation.........................................................179 Stress....................................................................183 The Ego...............................................................189 Worry..................................................................195

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Anger

What is anger?

How does anger work?

Anger arises within in an effort to control or defend. It follows two paths.The first path is to try and influence others by demonstrating power through the spoken word or by physical means. An example can be when someone is not happy with the work that you are doing and they become angry with you. But ask yourself; are they actually angry with me? The answer is never, they are angry with themselves. You are simply a way for the anger to be released. The basis for this is mostly to be found in the frustration within themselves. It is often connected to an expectation of some kind. It could be as simple as you being late for an appointment or a target that has to be met at a specific time. The one who is in charge of the situation may then become angry and verbally abuse 117

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Anger has a deep connection to (old) emotions that are stored in your body. It can be a result of past experiences where the feelings connected to these experiences are hidden or stored. You will also often experience anger when you have expectations of yourself and others, especially when you find that those expectations are not met. The Ego uses anger to defend itself by attacking another. Anger can also be a way of controlling others through fear. See also the chapter â&#x20AC;&#x153;Ego.â&#x20AC;?

you. Verbal abuse either tries to make you feel bad or seeks to give you a guilt complex in order for it not to happen again. Either way, the person who is angry at you is actually doing it to their own self - they know this on a subconscious level, but they often cannot stop their reaction. The second path is activated when the emotions take priority over the mind. This side of anger is often hidden more deeply within the person as a mental energy and the energy is often connected to a past experience that still is fearful to that person. When the emotions take priority over the mind, then you become an emotional thinker. An emotional thinker can be like gunpowder that can explode at the smallest intrusive vibration. For example, anger can rise up in another person if you share your truth about that person or the situation. You may have pushed a button that awakens their anger. The angry reaction is very likely to be a response from the Ego â&#x20AC;&#x201C; because it does not want to hear the truth. It is attacking you as a natural defence.

How does my anger influence my work?

If you are holding any form of anger it will flow into everything that you are creating or touching. Anger is an energy thought form that must go somewhere. For example, let us say that you are at home and you are building a small stone wall in the garden. You are very angry about a situation at work. You mix the cement and start to build the wall under the premise of your anger. Every stone that you lay in that wall will be holding an angry vibration because your consciousness is connected to the work that you are doing, it is not separated from your feelings. When the wall is finished and is dry and strong, you may find that no one wants to be near the wall. This is because subconsciously they pick up on the negative vibrations of your anger that is now stored in 118

every stone in the wall. This is how energy works and how a strong negative force like anger can affect your workplace.

How do angry people influence the work environment?

How to transform anger?

Here are some basic steps that will be helpful if you carry anger: • The first step is to recognise that you have anger. The fact that you recognise that you are angry will start the inner healing – especially if you also express a wish to understand the underlying causes for your anger. See chapters “I accept” and “I take responsibility for my feelings.” • Be true to yourself and you will find that you will automatically be true to others. You will have less anger when 119

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If anyone is angry in a workplace then the whole environment can become negative. Others will feel the anger directly or indirectly. If an angry person has been sitting on a seat where you just sat down, then you may begin to feel uncomfortable sitting there and you may even choose to change seats. You move because you feel the angry energy that was left in the fabric of the chair. You may find it difficult to share or be open with a person who is angry, even if you do not show it openly, but rather avoid the person or the situation. This is natural as you will probably interpret their anger as danger. Others in the environment will also feel the vibration, and are likely to avoid rather than choose to meet the angry person. The person who is angry will fail to inspire others and will make them close down.

you are true to yourself. Ask what there is to be angry about. See chapter “I trust.” • Study how you react in all life situations. Maybe you would like to change the ways you respond to others in order to be true to yourself? Reflecting and changing the way you respond will make you more responsible for your actions. See chapter “I take responsibility for my actions.” • Do not take anything personally. When this quality is mastered then you will enter all experiences without judgement. This will, in a calm manner, allow you to accept any situation you may find yourself in. You will find that this will complement the situation and not attack it. See chapter “I accept.” • Be present. When you have learned to be present then you will be fully living in the now. The past and the future will have no control over your mind, body and emotions. See chapter “I am present.”

If you meet an angry person – how can you help?

• The first step is to acknowledge that the person is angry. The fact that you say that you have noticed that a person is angry will start the transformation of the situation. You can just confirm that you feel that the person is angry/ upset/irritated. See chapter “I accept.” • Be true to yourself. Try not to take in the anger. Stay with what is true within you. See chapter “I trust.” • Study your response. Try not to get caught in the other person’s aggression. Always respond in a calm way.

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Remember that anger feeds anger. See chapter “I take responsibility for my actions.” • Do not take anything personally. When you stop taking things personally, then you will be able to accept any situation you may find yourself in. And you will find that this will help you calm down the situation rather than attack it. It will also help bring the angry person back to their senses. See chapter “I accept.”

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• Be present. When you are fully present then you do not get caught in your past experiences and feelings. You will also not fear what comes next. It is then impossible for the other person’s anger to have an impact on you. See chapter “I am present.”

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