Helpful Reminders
The most convincing aspect is that someone is truly alive, is there a lack of desire to show the world that they're living their best life.
Your best life won't seek Social Validation.
Do not agree with other individual's definition of "fun"
Fun just doesn't have to mean party, smoke, drink, or socialize.
It can be a night alone with oneself, a walk, reading a book, playing music, or a deep conversation with oneself about life.
Fun is how you define it and feel comfortable in it.
Individuals spend too much time trying to be more physically attractive to find love that they forget about the importance of being mentally attractive as well.
Educate yourself, address your thoughts and emotions effectively. Learn to be happy alone as well. That's also Attractive.
"Fitting in" can make you feel miserable.
Caring too much about being "one of the girls or guys", can kill potential and happiness.
Spend some time with yourself, be your own uncool, and whoever still wants to be with you. keep them close because they will be your real friends.
If You want to be happy, love others for who they are If you want to be frustrated/resentful, love others for whom you hope they will become.
Things we need to come on terms with Changed behavior is the only behavior. NO response is a response. If they really wanted to, they would. Taking no risk is the biggest risk.
Don't let your looks, feelings and experiences get measured and validated by some unnecessary means. They don't define you!
Love yourself for who you are and for the person you are becoming.
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