The Baby Boy Dad

When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I gave up childish ways. 1 Corinthians 13:11

This is for the Dad that is the last baby to be born in his family or the only boy in his family, and his mother, father, and or siblings have spoiled him rotten. This dad can do no wrong in his family’s eyesight. He was pampered, and they gave him everything he ever wanted, and some of his family is still spoiling him rotten. His family has been at his beck and call and has done everything for him. Even if it meant sacrificing their own well-being to please him. He is dependent on the love he receives from his family but does not know how to return the love. The Baby Boy Dad does not know what it means to love what he has created.

God don’t allow his family to help him out of trouble time and time again for the same mishaps or wrong choices that he has made. Allow the Baby Boy Dad to be responsible for his own actions, whether they are good, bad, or ugly. Teach him Your true definitions of love. Teach him that love is

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not self-seeking. Teach him that if he has not love, he does not have anything. Lord, help the Baby Boy Dad be unselfish. Let him know the world does not revolve around him.

Let him not be self-centered as he is raising his children. Don’t allow him to keep spending money on expensive clothes or shoes, while his children suffer because he spends money on himself. Allow him to spend money on what his family needs, not what he wants. I pray that the Baby Boy Dad stops buying clothes, and doesn’t start to buy other expensive luxury items such as boats, cars, motorcycles and or golf clubs. Don’t let him continue to be a lover of himself. Allow him to put his children's needs and desires before his wants and desires. Let him provide for his family. Allow him to realize that he is not a baby anymore, and he must be responsible. Allow him to put away childish things, stop this behavior, and let him become responsible.

If the Baby Boy Dad is still living at home, give the Baby Boy Dad’s mother and father the wisdom and knowledge to cut the apron strings. May they tell him that it is time for him to get his own place. Don’t allow division to take place between the mother and father of the Baby Boy Dad, if the mother continues to spoil her son. Redirect the course of the Baby Boy Dad’s life and let people speak to him about his behavior. Cause him to change and become responsible for his children. Even allow the family to treat him differently.

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Allow his family members to let the baby boy's dad grow up and put away childish things.

PRAYERS FOR THE CHILDREN

Lord, I pray for the child that was born to a daddy that is a baby boy. Lord, I pray that the children will not experience any lack as a result of their father's spending habits. Let the child be provided for, make provision for the child. Lord let the family member give the money to the father’s seed instead of giving it to the dad. Lord don’t allow the child to feel rejected, unloved due to his father not providing for him. Lord, restore the relationship between the parent and child if it was damaged due to him being selfish.

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